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DISCUSSIONShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:18 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:54 PM
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LEVEL UPShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:52 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:02 AM
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PICKME CULTUREShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:19 AM
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STRATEGYShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:48 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:22 AM
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LIES MEN TELLShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:31 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:08 PM
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STRATEGYShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:33 PM
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Tradcon LogicShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:50 PM
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REMINDER 👑ShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:46 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEShegoGreen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:45 PM
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Being placed in the front of the line to a clown show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:46 PM
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I'm going to start saying, "boobily boobs"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:43 PM
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Yup I'm sure Epstein has more friends waiting around the corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:41 PM
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All those pick-me's were definitely groomed into believing "age is just a number" by their 25 year old highschool boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:40 PM
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I feel like there's more to this story and I'm missing some details. Specifically, did you need to ask him to get rid of this snap and post you on insta. What made you feel something was wrong in the first place? Are you sure that was insecurity or a gut feeling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 08:23 AM
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He just had to do a power move and turn a perfectly fine evening into a horrible encounter for you- clearly not prioritizing your boundaries, consent, or safety. To be honest, this is why I do not touch men, since they always want to try something. Wow, I'm just sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 06:35 AM
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Sorry I meant, "not pro-active"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:54 PM
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There is nothing more unattractive than a man who's not pro-active in the relationship. You end up like a mother to a man-child who's resentful towards you for telling him to be responsible. Edit: I meant to say, "not pro-active"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 07:43 PM
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They're exploiting women while claiming that both men and women are equally on the app and both derive benefit from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 08:48 AM
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Your profile pic with an X over bob-the-builder is sending me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:25 AM
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I'm with you, I'm a stickler for bad writing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:24 AM
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I feel like her image was forced upon her by her label in order to gain marketing success and laugh her into superstar status. In the same way, I feel like Ariana Grande is not truly authentic or making the music she really wants to either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:23 AM
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I seriously couldn't figure it out either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:22 AM
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Those events at your university are awful. I really hope that female professor is okay and has more protection around her. My brother and his boss are computer guys and they are actually kind, hard-working men. They always show respect to women and are focused on getting their jobs done correctly and going to meetings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:19 AM
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All those guys need to be reported
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:08 AM
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I totally agree with you. I feel like things I've struggled with are more of a shared experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:06 AM
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"My boyfriend did the dishes <3" Please. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:58 AM
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I can't believe he never tried to make it up to you when it was something that clearly hurt you. I guess it also shows that communication goes both ways in that you can say something, but the other person has to listen and follow through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:54 PM
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Can't be friends with men anymore. Same. I never had a male friend who didn't sexualize me or eventual reveal his feelings for me. It felt like a stab in the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:51 PM
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He felt entitled to your attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:50 PM
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I already said this to another commenter, but whenever I go to the hospital, I always see extremely gross male patients act super creepy towards nurses and stare at them in a very disgusting and unsettling manner. Imo, there needs to be more serious protection for female nurses because they're the ones that have to treat these men. I remember there were two men in their 50's/60's who were going to get surgery on their private areas and none of them shaved down there. The nurses had to shave them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:44 PM
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Whenever I go to the hospital, I always see extremely gross male patients act super creepy towards nurses and stare at them in a very disgusting and unsettling manner. Imo, there needs to be more serious protection for female nurses because they're the ones that have to treat these men. I remember there were two men in their 50's/60's who were going to get surgery on their private areas and none of them shaved down there. The nurses had to shave them and I could see it made them very uncomfortab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:42 PM
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I could never work at a bar. I wouldn't have enough pepper spray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:36 PM
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OP should set her accounts private and/or slightly change the username so people can't find her easily. No man should even be able to privately message her. At this point stricter boundaries need to be imposed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:34 PM
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I've never had a male friend who didn't eventually tell me of their feelings for me, or sexualize me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:33 PM
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I often think about how women in the past did it. They must have faced incredibly heavy backlash from men and pick-me women of their time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:19 PM
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This may be a controversial take, but I think pretty privilege can only take you so far. Frankly, it seems like many men complain about pretty privilege, when in reality they are complaining about women- thinking women have it "easy" in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:17 PM
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I would love a post that expands on this idea. Many say that money has to be earned but beauty doesn't, but I agree that the spouses of beautiful women still benefit much more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:17 PM
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Like many girls in foster care, she was doomed from the start. It was only a matter of time until Hollywood predators went after her as an unprotected child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:14 PM
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That was a great insight into her life. Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:13 PM
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"Good Luck Tech Support 🤣" No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:42 PM
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There's nothing I love more that reading about successful marriages. I'm happy for you and I want a love like you have <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:41 PM
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"Could it be that as much as women may want to create the perfect man, there's always going to be a little bit of toxic mixed in with our masculinity and no amount of training will turn us into your favorite twilight character." Women are asking to not be sexually harassed, assaulted, sexualized, preyed on while being minors, etc. We are also asking for more than the bare minimum in relationships. Being protected from these things is human right, not an impossible standard, and if men want to pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:26 PM
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They can't stand the lack of easy access to beautiful women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:53 PM
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"Thank-you for not sexually harassing me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:41 PM
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People who say, "just communicate!" ignore the fact that communication takes two to tango and certain things don't actually need communication. You communicated and he refused twice- putting the emotional burden on you. He lectured you and got angry when you broke up- putting the emotional burden on you. He wanted you to pursue him- putting the emotional burden on you. Putting the emotional burden on women while being emotionally unavailable themselves seems to be a common theme among LVM. You s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:04 PM
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There is nothing more unattractive than a man who thinks he's the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:59 PM
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I'm so happy for you. If you don't mind me asking, where or how did you two meet? How did he propose? I love seeing women in healthy loving relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:49 PM
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The Miss America age limits are 17-26 The Miss Universe age limits are 18-28 This means that a teenager can be paraded around in a bikini for old men to ogle internationally. This also means that, according to them, women in their 30's+ cannot be eligible for some reason. How is a 17 year old a well-rounded, accomplished candidate if they barely graduated from Highschool? How is a 35 year old woman who has had time to become a well-rounded confident woman no longer eligible for candidacy? Edit: …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 07:07 AM
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I would say it's men's choice to become addicted to porn that has caused them to become short-sighted and romance averse in their treatment of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 06:59 AM
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vulnerabilityand harmlessness are marketed to women as moral duties. And that's exactly why women feel the obligation to carry the emotional load placed on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:47 PM
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I've noticed this exact same thing and was wondering if anyone else on FDS noticed it too. I follow gorgeous women for fashion inspiration (like Lori Harvey) and the amount of 30-60 year old men lusting after these young women in the comments is disgusting. Many times I've clicked on their profiles and they are literally married with three kids. I've even seen them have posts praising their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:44 PM
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I that were my daughter I would burn that jacket in a fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 04:56 PM
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Not related but the woman in that meme is gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 04:29 PM
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I'm kind of torn on this. On one hand I completely understand not living your life confined by the wants of a hypothetical man, and doing everything in your power to please him. On the other hand, I don't think it's wrong to strategize in order to become more likely to meet and marry a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:09 PM
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Looks like he needed to cOmMUnIcAtE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:59 PM
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This is another example of why 50/50 relationships are a scam- men will always want you to do more and generally lack respect for you. He never cherished her, so he thinks he can speak to her that way. But I'm sure he would hold his tongue before getting dealing a low blow to his boss or xbox friends. Oh and you don't deserve a housewife if you aren't a traditional husband who provides and cherishes your wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:52 PM
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Usually when a man screams at his partner and negs, it's the precursor to much much worse. Just ask Gabby Petito, oh wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:51 PM
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Yeah, make their daughter-in-law prove themselves to their son who isn't exactly a catch or marriage material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:48 PM
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I would immediately feel unsafe. For one, a random guy sitting next to you could easily grab you due to being in close proximity. Two, it would be difficult to run away in such an enclosed space. I would immediately start looking at the emergency exit windows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 04:51 PM
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I feel this exact same way. I will be neutral towards men due to protecting my own safety. I don't have to yell or scream, just be cordial and grey-rock if I need too. To be frank, I do not trust porn addicts who get off on seeing women get abused and degraded. And guess what the majority of men are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:31 AM
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I personally could not date anyone 5 years older than me. I don't find older men attractive at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:27 AM
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a man 10+ years older who’s at your level is BELOW your level in reality Yes I think this is what so many women miss. That man had 10 years to get to the same level you're at now. Is that man truly at your level in terms of emotional and mental maturity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:20 AM
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Men in their 30's who are preying after young women are not, and will never be seen as mature in my eyes. They are trying to hold on to youth so badly, but to no avail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:18 AM
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They regress to 14 in the presence of other men. They are absolutely stunted emotionally and you can see their real maturity when they're with other men. Many use bathroom humor which is genuinely unfunny. No doubt they expect women to carry a huge emotional load.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:15 AM
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People say, "you should've chosen better," right after telling you to lower your standards because you are not, "worth" a caring man who cherishes you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 09:53 AM
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This is devastating. Poor angel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 09:51 AM
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He has shown me so clearly that any man I was with before— even a man I was with for a long time who didn’t treat me badly at all but also didn’t do these “extra” things for me— It's not just the men who want to harm us that we shouldn't be with, but the men who don't go above and beyond to display their love for us. Women need to be cherished and loved tenderly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:03 AM
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That's why pick-me's are bitter and angry at other women who are actually loved and provided for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:57 AM
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You can bet a considerable amount of money on the fact that if an American man refuses to date American women and only dates women from third-world countries, he will be abusive. They're not ready for that conversation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:50 AM
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That's a great strategy- just cutting them off every single time they over-extend their conversation in order to let them know you are not available to hear their story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:43 AM
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I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself. A lot of women would not have the confidence to do that. It's sounds to me like he tried to use you for his ego boost, by dumping random information on you and then walking away. If I could give any pointer it would be to maybe next time try to get something documented as well, in case things escalate further and always make sure you're safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:41 AM
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In all honesty, he sounds suspicious. Him pushing familiarity on you (meeting your roommates, asking if your mom knows about him, helping you clean, etc) should’ve alerted you. I personally disagree. Imo, these are actually good signs because of his initiative to get to know who OP is and her lifestyle. I don't believe he was pushing familiarity on OP, because if I read correctly, OP invited him over. HVM also vet women. However, there is not enough info to truly come to a conclusion about who h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:02 PM
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I find it particularly suspicious that he uplifts black women, but doesn't date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:20 AM
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Shows you just how much men bond over hurting women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 06:59 AM
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Lol I can't! Your comments are the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 01:47 AM
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100% bet he could not take the same energy he gives out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:20 AM
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Sorry I saw the thumbnail and I couldn't even click
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:59 PM
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LOLOLOL!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:58 PM
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I agree and I have to admit that I've done that in the past too. They will act grateful, but in reality they don't care and will eventually sexualize you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:44 PM
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the pickme assigned herself the role of "mom" to a bunch of horny, unwashed users. she needs to feel useful because that's what she thinks appreciation is. Her intentions are pure, and she thinks that she'll be love if she's kind. However, these dudes most likely have been hardcore porn addicts for several years. That shows you the way they view women. Frat boys are particularly notorious for speaking about women disrespectfully too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:43 PM
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"Why won't you give me sex? I love you, you are the most special woman I've ever met! If our relationship is to continue, I'm going to need sex because that's what defines a healthy relationship for me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 09:02 PM
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Yes I entirely agree with you! Those standards you mentioned are 100% non-negotiable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:54 PM
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A real HV man wouldn't drop me for minor flaws and I wouldn't drop him for minor flaws either- that's how I see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:41 AM
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But she has to put her body and dignity on the line to show HIM she's WORTHY of long-term commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:06 AM
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They're not ready for that conversation because that takes effort and self control- traits LV men hardly know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:04 AM
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You don’t make me feel loved - I won’t make you feel wanted. Simple 😊 WOW. Here's your crown queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:01 AM
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"but women should sign up for the draft if they want equality!!!" No sir, women are already getting abused by the enemy, and if they join the military they get abused too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 01:17 AM
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I doubt a woman as busy as her has the time either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 10:16 PM
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Imo sex should NOT be an "important" part of a relationship, that is modern libfem rhetoric. Society gets this completely wrong and this is a big reason why most marriages fail. Sex is not the ultimate end goal as you stated, it shouldn't be the thing that is expected you give to men- contrary to popular belief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 06:28 PM
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Having boundaries triggers people. It triggers men because they're porn-addicts. It triggers pickmes because you aren't insecure like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:08 PM
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Why does being a feminist mean you cannot be feminine or love masculine men? It's not clicking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:08 PM
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I would love to read a post about him! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:34 PM
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And the best thing of all: blame her for your personal failures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:34 PM
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I find alot of her content to be very pickme-esque, which has really turned me off from her videos. She has frequently bragged about being 50/50 and alot men and pickmes applaud her in the comments. She also seems to constantly initiate romantic gestures for her boyfriend, only to get half-hearted attention and gestures in return. It's like she thinks she has to go out of her way to publicly prove she's not a gold-digger, instead of letting her man prove his love to her. I don't wish hate on her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:00 AM
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Recently there was an popular post going around called, "It's okay if guys don't want to sleep with a girl who's been banged by 30 guys." Well, If you clicked on the OP's profile, there were dozens of comments from him belittling women and telling men to sleep with, "easy" women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:53 AM
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I totally agree! It's so difficult to find someone who shares the same belief as me. Your opinion is refreshing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:51 AM
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I'm sorry you had to go through that. There's no way he wasn't doing that to other girls- definitely should be investigated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:26 AM
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I am SO happy you didn't sleep with him after only two months. He doesn't deserve you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:59 AM
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Isn't it funny how men love to neg woman about being vanilla, traditional, or, "prudish" but if you DARE neg them back the same way they say, "don't kink-shame me!" These are the same men who call women, "used whores" if they don't get their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:57 AM
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Porn has taught men that they don't need to have patience- they can demand sex. Porn teaches men that women are sex objects who enjoy being degraded. That's why they are utterly baffled and angry when the reality check smacks them in the face and women act like normal healthy human beings who don't have porn addictions like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:55 AM
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Because the truth is that it's not empowering, it's degrading and makes you feel like the person touching you there has zero respect for you. Men cannot admit this truth. They can't take their own medicine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:03 AM
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"I don't really understand why he was dating or what he was getting out of it..." Contrary to popular belief, men deeply desire women's attention and affection (non-sexual) and having a girlfriend gives them a certain kind of security in themselves and status. Men often fail to connect emotionally with themselves or other men, so it's a relief for them when they can be vulnerable with their partners. This pure affection is what porn will never be able to replicate because this is the natural way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:00 AM
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Pickmes are the biggest weapon on msyogyny. They are the fuel that keeps the fire burning. Then they give birth to generations that see the poor dynamic mom and dad have; Consequently, repeating the cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:21 AM
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I love when older, seasoned, gorgeous, mature women become mentors to young women. The wisdom and patience that older women have is incredibly needed in todays society and is highly underrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:18 AM
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You bring up a great point. Why do men feel so comfortable with releasing their anger on women but not their bros, boss, or parents. Because they know they'll have consequences and be held accountable if they do this to any other person in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:14 AM
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Like Peterson, Candace Owens pushes these same ideas full of, "plot holes," that are conveniently ignored. And the proof is in her life. When you said, "almost no successful man in his right mind will marry an uneducated woman living in poverty," that is exactly what happened to Candace. She started her own company young and aggressively worked her way to the top in her 20's, then met a rich heir to a massive fortune at one of her speaking events at 28, and had a child after 30. They would not h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:38 PM
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The fact that this opinion has 10.4k upvotes is utterly disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:33 AM
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they dont want women to have power over something men actively use to degrade women Ding ding ding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:21 AM
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So he's lying to women in order to become their friends. Then, he's secretly hoping that those friendships lead to a relationship because he manipulated them into putting their guard down. How about just be a decent guy and doesn't demand women's attention? And try, just try for five seconds to understand why women are so aloof. And yes, the answer is men, who do specifically things like that to get women to be their, "friend." Men who literally and figuratively jump through hoops to force atten…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:18 AM
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My dad is my dad and there is more to him than that one line I totally agree with respecting our parents. There are various layers to people and it's not healthy or right to shoe-box someone into a single category full of vitriol- especially our parents. I was explaining my own specifications of "HV/LV." In my opinion, someone admitting that their father isn't HV, is not the same as, "shit-talking" him, which would include extremely degrading perspectives and tones. If someone doesn't meet the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:13 AM
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For me personally, a HV man cannot have LV traits. He either is a HV or LV depending on who he chooses to be. A HV person is never perfect, but doesn't exhibit LV traits directly correlated with LV people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:27 PM
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The fact that your dad suggested you do that is seriously horrible. It's literally telling your daughter to be emotionally abused. Crazy how even parents play a part in persuading their daughters to lack boundaries and self-esteem. Good on you for being careful not to take that advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:24 PM
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I read a book in the ninth grade about about a pregnant woman somewhere in the Middle East (I forgot the exact country) who had acid thrown on her (if I remember correctly, it was her uncle) and was burned from head to toe. Her uncle attacked her because she had sexual relations as an unmarried woman. Luckily, A group of peasant women were close by and put her body in water to sooth the stings and she amazingly ended up surviving. She described the incredibly gruesome events with such ease, as i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:44 AM
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testerics. Had me rolling and cackling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:23 AM
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Nothing hurts a guy’s ego like a girl who doesn’t give an f The only thing I would add to this is to be prepared for the backlash. Document what he says in case you have to report it, privatize all social media, etc. It's crazy how men with bruised ego's react.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:22 AM
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Exactly, the standards need to be raised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:19 AM
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There is nothing more unattractive than a porn-addicted man who sexualizes every woman and uses bathroom humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:17 AM
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Username check out :-}
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:11 AM
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Don't be too hard on yourself, we all make mistakes we can learn from. To be honest, I'm really happy he didn't fake his feelings just to sleep with you. It was a huge bullet dodged. Your genuine heart deserves to be respected. Frankly I've never rejected someone in the way that guy did to you, that was plain mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:11 AM
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The idea we have in our heads of him is that of man who cherishes us to an exceptional degree. And the man we project those ideals onto only exhibits a fraction of the qualities it takes to truly love a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:09 AM
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From the start, then, females are confused about the nature of love. You can say that again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:04 AM
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I don't think of myself as a feminist because there are many things I don't agree with typical liberal feminism, so I'd say no. However, I've noticed men who ask this question will try to test your boundaries if you say no, because so many women who are anti-feminists are still huge pick-me's who want to seem, "cool" for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:01 AM
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Had a crush. Checked his following list. Saw a lot of scantily-clad, "models." Crush over instantly. :}
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:52 AM
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Those kinds of women are the driving force of pick-me's because their primary mindset is about putting other women down in order to be accepted by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:49 AM
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I can't say what drives someone to be so anti-themselves though Sounds like deep-rooted insecurity. They never accepted who they are (or were never taught to accept who they are) and little by little grew to believe lies about women, such as correlating femininity/emotional vulnerability with weakness. So in their mind they started believing absolutes- if femininity is weak (bad), then masculinity is strong (good). We all knew the girl who said, "I only hang out with boys because it's less drama…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:48 AM
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Calling me all names under the sun. How I was so cruel to not even give him one last chance to talk. How I was a bitch etc... "I know you saw me the other day. Please unblock me although you are pretty fucking dumb to avoid me like that." This is what lies behind the facade. A cruel, abusive man. All because you said, "no" and wanted to take things slow. His lack of communication with you and opting to play games is not your fault. I'm really surprised a seemingly professional, hard-working guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:23 AM
5

We don't have to be the same. I don't have to do exactly as you did. It doesn't mean you're wrong, it doesn't mean I'm wrong. Stop taking everything as criticism. This really impacted me. Having a battle over mundane decisions is draining of your limited energy and emotional reservoir. Any thing you do slightly differently is suddenly makes you the villain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:17 AM
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male depravity Seriously this needs to be talked about more. Example: a teenage girl will have an innocent crush on a guy thinking their romance will be like a movie. In reality, the guy's been addicted to hardcore porn for the past five years and will pressure her to have sex. Example: a teenage girl will get her first job at McDonalds and be happy she'll start earning money. In reality, 50+ year old customers will sexually harass her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:47 AM
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"Men cause the moral downfall of society through sexual violence and paraphilias, which includes pedophilia, organized crime, corruption, domestic violence, mass murder." bUt mEn bUiLt sOcIeTy sO yOu hAve tO rrrreSpecT tHeM!!! They're not ready for that conversation because they still think feminism is the sole factor for the downfall of society. It's amazing how many men are obsessed with teaching women how to be feminine, or straight up shaming women for not being feminine. Yet, they ignore te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:43 AM
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I don't know how much I agree with this because some women genuinely find fulfillment in being homemakers without feeling as though they are, "seduced by the ease of their condition."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 11:24 PM
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I say the main thing to focus on is getting away as fast as possible. Be very direct, and leave. I never have had a positive experience by staying to chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:42 PM
39

So, the fact that these men find young girls attractive is bizarre to me. It's pedophillic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:17 PM
3

I believe men who want to be your friend simply want to be with you or are lusting after you and making plans to harm or take advantage of you. I have yet to be proven otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:17 AM
11

Since before her rise to a more well-known platform, I stumbled upon her videos. The way I perceived her was that she carried herself in an extremely self-righteousness way. Arrogance looks nothing like confidence and it will instantly make me avoid the person and feel like everything they say is null.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:58 AM
169

No Barbara-the-builders here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:49 PM
6

This is giving me, "CEO who's angry at all the employees for making the business successful" vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:54 PM
21

If there are successful women, "doing it all" then why can't HE do it all? He's more than capable of cleaning, cherishing his well-raised kids and beautiful wife, and working full time. Right? lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:52 PM
53

Not sure if I’m being harsh. Please let me know! A man who wants to cherish you is going to bring his A game to impress you. You are NOT being harsh for wanting the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:12 PM
85

HV men are built different. They are decisive and strong communicators. Not seeing that with this guy. Then again I never agree with meeting people online. HV are out in the world getting stuff done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:10 PM
5

Ya'll are so quick to call men you fall in love with HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:09 AM
16

"...remind them they don’t have to agree to something just because he has been conditioned to think it’s hot (especially when it’s extremely degrading)." This is the key point. What HE has been conditioned to think is normal is extreme degradation of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:58 AM
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I've never felt a, "feminine urge" to do that. That's called low self esteem. People really be out here projecting their insecurities on full blast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:55 AM
2

We have too many pick-me's in our culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:56 AM
30

Make that 200,000. I'll bet the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:47 AM
234

I cannot even fathom being in my 40's, 50's, or 60's and being remotely attracted to a 23 year old man. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:45 AM
16

I would say Russel Wilson. He's a football player but has a reputation for loving and respecting his wife Ciara.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:30 AM
6

Old men have no business being friends with women more than 5 years younger than them. EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:29 AM
17

In my opinion this is why it's important not to disclose personal goals or standards with people who have a negative or jealous mindset- which is unfortunately usually the people closest to you. Family you can't get rid of, but you can distance yourself from them, or set boundaries where you do not talk about your love life with them. And with friends, you can cut them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:54 PM
28

I NEVER even noticed this. It truly is a power play. Frankly, I would never post an unflattering picture of anyone who I loved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 05:06 AM
37

He could pay for both of them to go to the spa. Yet, he wants her to clip his toenails on the floor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 05:04 AM
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She made a rookie mistake when she aired out her aspirations to the public. By "public" I mean the broke and bitter men who inhabit Reddit, as well as the mountainous supply of pick-me women. A basic rule women should follow is to always move in silence. People can't ruin what they don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:20 AM
14

Did you by any chance get good advice from other self-help modes such as Youtubers, instagram level-up pages, etc. Any good one's you'd recommend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 08:26 AM
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All good. No worries :) Btw, I was not the one who downvoted you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 03:58 AM
29

The word, "play" is also slang for "trick." Therefore I'm saying, "you can't trick the therapist." This is in reference to men being unable to engage in manipulative behavior with someone who knows the ins and outs of human relationships and emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:16 AM
13

That was incredibly satisfying to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:33 PM
13

Men know it's not empowering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:31 PM
24

You can't play the therapist. Checkmate sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:30 PM
53

This is perfect proof to contradict the dozens of false articles all over Reddit that say things like, "men watching porn is healthy" and "men dominating women is perfectly normal"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:25 PM
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For me it's finding tons of porn on seemingly, "normal" looking older male accounts. They're either following a bunch of pornstars/camgirls, or if it's a website like Pinterest, they have tons of pornographic pictures saved. These are men that women have to interact with on a daily basis and I feel bad for the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:21 PM
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“So, I’m sure behind those pretty photos, you’re just a girl who just wants to be loved and protected.” That's serial killer material right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:17 PM
33

A grown man has the capability of controlling were he looks and not lust after women. Especially, in my presence. There is NO excuse. None.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:36 AM
19

Just because most men do those things, doesn't make it okay and never will. It's clear disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:35 AM
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Porn has ruined men. They're completely unrealistic at this point. And just for fun, if you want your woman to have nicer skin, then pay for a full facial. Treat her to consistent spa days and skin treatments over the course of a year. Real women need to be cherished and deserve to be taken care of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:32 AM
18

I needed the puppy after the sheer scrotesque of it all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:54 PM
115

Pure projection- no doubt they're highly insecure about their looks and aging body (because they don't take care of themselves.) So instead, they tear down gorgeous, fit, or regular women they could never get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:35 PM
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It's sad how many women fall for it though. They send essays to men who do not care..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:15 AM
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That's a TRUE Queen. Your mother led by example and stood up for someone else. I heard this quote that reminds me of your mother: "When you teach your child to stand up for themselves, they stand up for others."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:21 PM
8

Women are statistically more likely to be abandoned by their husbands if they have a terminal illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:19 PM
12

Wow that really opened my eyes. I never saw it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:18 PM
2

Queen since 3rd grade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:15 PM
2

You are an amazing writing. That visual really got me thinking he was Gaston lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:07 PM
6

Many female celebrities have this complex. They will sing, rap, or act like bad b's on screen, but then stay with their cheating husbands or pardon disrespect from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:29 AM
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I wanted to add that both parties in this case are under a lot of stress and I have no favouritism or ill will towards either userbase or moderation. Agreed, two things can be true at the same time. User's frustrations are valid, as well as mod's feeling overwhelmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:23 PM
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I agree with you about everything you said about empathy and kindness towards confused, abused, or lost women. Thankyou for your comment :). I'd like to add, about the Gabby Petito case, there are multiple things to learn from her case, such as how female victims often responded and react to male abuser. This information can be very useful (especially to new members) and I'd rather talk about new insights on Gabby's case, or other cases with women of color (especially black women), instead of re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:21 PM
154

Men are masters at throwing stone and then hiding their hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:22 PM
5

It's pure cognitive dissonance at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:16 PM
1

A clown's gotta have shoes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:15 PM
13

It should be, "Jester"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:14 PM
4

But, "mEn bUiLt sOcIeTy!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:11 PM
31

LV men always test the boundaries of women because it's the only way for them to get attention from women- even if it's a negative reaction. Notice how he does that to women, but does not do the same types of things to men, especially not the physically bigger man around. I applaud you for sticking to your boundaries in a firm way. Make sure to get a written record of this instance with the time and date as well in case this escalates. I'd also like to add, do not give that idiot several chances…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:24 AM
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I read a study that showed that the chance of a sexual assault and harassment occurring for a woman goes up by about 30% when enlisting in the military. I'll try to find it and post it here. One of the biggest problems I have with the military is their lack of reprimand for sexual harassment and assault. Reports sometimes get, "lost" and higher-ups are pressured to keep quiet. I would read up on Vanessa Guillen's case that just happened 1-2 years ago. She was a 20 year-old woman who was brutally…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:44 PM
30

Respect and courting a woman is not being, "whipped" or a "simp." The fact that men get angry at other men shows their jealousy and anger at the fact that treating a woman with love and respect is what actually wins her heart and establishes a healthy relationship. They can't stand that it takes effort because porn has taught them otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:47 AM
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I think it's incredibly important not to have soley pickme friends. It's necessary to have some HV friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:36 PM
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That's the perfect response. If the friend starts to influence you to a point where you feel like you start to allow others (especially men) to step over boundaries, then it's time to drop the woman. Additionally, I'd recommend having a well thought out paragraph to say how and why you believe what you do, backed up by evidence, when you are questioned by her or are giving her advice. I know it's easy to say, "just drop her who cares about her" but I think it's good to uplift another woman and g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:35 PM
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Those are good signs but keep vetting. Sounds good so far for 3 weeks though. Out of curiosity, how did you meet him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:30 PM
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Well I'm sure even she didn't expect to be sexually assault. I don't think it's 100% her fault. It's 100% the man's fault and we can all agree on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:22 AM
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I agree and support your post. I get being careful, but we need more positive posts, otherwise this sub is going to be bitter and dry. You were already careful not to immediately label him as HV, which is the most important thing imo. We need to be allowed to highlight good behavior (like you did in this post), and post positive things on this sub too. Not every post has to be about scrotes in our lives. Goodness gracious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:06 PM
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Agreed. OP should find another group because flakers are very difficult to plan anything with. Source: I am one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:07 PM
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I'd rather be alone, than be with an incompatible partner who's a great person. It's not fair to me, and definitely not fair to him. Now, if the wrong HVM doesn't have a chance, you bet your booty some street scrote across the street wouldn't have a chance even if he was the last man on earth. Keep your standards high sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:02 PM
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I used to work at a bank. A doctor frequently came in to deposit multiple checks. He tossed the checks at the tellers with no greeting and walked off. He even got pissy that they didn't make a special "stamp" for him in order to deposit his check faster. I heard doctors are either the most self-sacrificing people ever, or the biggest narcissists you'd ever see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:59 PM
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It disgusts me how military men treat military women. I think I read that the chance of a woman being sexually assaulted goes up by 30% if she enlists into a branch of the military (moreso the marines and army). It's sick how they say women are just, "walking mattresses who end up cheating" when that is what they themselves end up doing. It's pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:55 PM
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Apathetic men are an INSTANT turnoff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:38 PM
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I've been struggling with this recently. It's not that I want something bad to happen to others, it just hurts when I see them get something I've worked hard for. I don't like feeling that way though. I will use this to remind myself to go forward and focus on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:44 AM
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He was definitely a redpiller
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:42 AM
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The interesting thing is that we don't hate men and never did. I have no problem acknowledging that there are amazing men out in the world. What I hate is men who emotionally, mentally, or physically abuse women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:39 AM
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Dang girl you have all the receipts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:23 AM
9

"He calls himself an 'earth angel' and says he hasn't had a relationship in over 16 years." I couldn't help but laugh out loud at this. This guy is psychotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:51 PM
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sis you're wasting your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:24 PM
6

They will do anything to sexualize women. The top posts on Reddit are always sex related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:23 PM
1

Then they blame women for their lack of will or means to provide. Meanwhile they'll be complaining that women aren't traditional anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:19 PM
6

trafficking hub YES TELL IT LIKE IT IS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:05 PM
4

It's an instant turn-off. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:16 PM
4

That's a great comparison! I never even thought of it that way. Modern liberal feminism is very much pushing empowerment and coolness just like cigs used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:50 PM
7

Starring: Reaux, Savannah, and Lilith
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:48 PM
16

Some ladies on here have suggested asking, "what kind of porn are you into?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:38 PM
52

Love that eye twitch- she's hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:33 PM
3

That was one of the most profound and accurate descriptions I've ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:56 AM
3

Exactly. Or many men use their female friends as therapists but don't reciprocate the same emotional expenditure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:31 AM
23

She acts like befriending guys is so much better too. She didn't mention how they try to sleep with you and sexualize you constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:26 AM
17

I simply don't find humor that is trying to make fun of women who were harmed funny. It's not remotely comedic in any way. What is funny about that? I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:38 AM
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I'm very sorry that happened to you. I was groped at my first job and it still affects me to this day. I can't imagine if it would have been by a family member. Stay safe. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:21 AM
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HVM is just someone who is dominant High value men are dominant players in the game of life. Yet they never brag about it because they're goal isn't to dominate, it's to excel in order to make the world a better place. Men like Russel Wilson come to mind. Obviously no one's perfect, but HVM never use imperfection as an excuse not to excel in their lives. They problem-solve and build forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:57 PM
11

"You have to continually assert what you are worth." A lot of women don't realize one's self-esteem has to be high enough to the point were you are continuously enforcing your boundaries and standards as a lifelong thing- like a sort of, "daily maintenance." So come to this sub ready sisters because we don't play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:16 AM
8

Perfect response to the question, "what do you bring to the table?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:09 AM
9

Don't sing about, "empowerment" when you don't really walk the walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:07 AM
9

Sis you really said DONKEY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:07 AM
26

Pickmes are out here justifying MURDER at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:55 AM
32

I'm sure the male officers who came in contact with her are abusers too. I know they're not ready for that conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:53 AM
6

I'm so sorry that happened to you, for everything you had to endure. I've been in a similar situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:54 PM
5

So I'm supposed to be ashamed of posting on FDS, but you don't have to be ashamed of posting and commenting under pornography? Get outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:49 PM
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“I don’t care about anyone else” So I can't rely on you as a spouse to be considerate of my emotions, thoughts, or identity. I can't expect any kind of emotional support but will be expected to go above and beyond to tend to your fragile ego since everything will be about you anyway. Good to know, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:37 PM
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Those few words imply so much as well: "Don't get raped," as if rape was a choice and it's your responsibility to actively not lure men to rape you. Somehow it's not men's responsibility not to rape women. Gross. "He would never touch me again," Wow this one is beyond hurtful. Apparently a woman is, "ruined goods" if a crime was committed against her will. It showcases his disregard for women, victims of SA ,and rape victims since having sex is the least of their worries after something traumati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:35 PM
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The difference in perspectives between your friend and the other guys is astonishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:12 PM
11

And if that's bad then imagine what marriage is like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:07 PM
19

Women waste their own time. There's no need to coddle, console, or caress a man who hurts you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:56 PM
37

"Got to be king status to give men my body because a queen is what I embody." This is a lyric from her recent song, "Ganja Burn." A real queen doesn't protect rapists. Either walk the walk or don't talk the talk. I'm sick and tired of female artists claiming to empower women when they have zero self respect of their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:55 PM
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You're the odd one out if your sexuality isn't somehow tied up in the convention. So most anime fans? I can even say I watch anime anymore because so many fans are pedos who are obsessed with the, "Japanese Highschooler" trope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:24 PM
72

Guys that follow a bunch of hot girls tend to be the same one's who claim to hate influencers because they're all "thots."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:28 AM
8

At this point nothing phases me anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:26 AM
39

could never be me sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:37 PM
39

It's just porn that promotes pedophilia and violence towards women biology!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:36 PM
11

Or beautiful Venetian masks <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:53 AM
26

She acts like she's a strong and bold woman too. How are you strong and confident when your actions don't give you any self worth or respect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:00 AM
3

Also I'd bet most of the single women are actually pretty young and in the beginning stages of adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:43 AM
9

100% There was definitely multiple things lacking. A man who is loyal will act completely different from the get-go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:41 AM
12

Frankly I notice I attract more men when I'm genuinely happy from the inside out. That authentic warmth cannot be replicated or replaced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:38 AM
14

Now that's what I call tenacity. What an inspiring story of accepting the beautiful person you are despite the tremendous challenges and encounters with people who felt uncomfortable in your presence. That's beautiful in itself and it was humbling to read. Makes me feel grateful for the body I sometimes take for granted (as we all do).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:36 AM
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I always got a strange vibe from John. To most he came off as endearing, laid-back, and genuine. But I felt like he was not showing his true colors 100% of the time- he was lacking in authenticity despite his charming charismatic facade. In some of his interviews there was a cold disconnection within his demeanor- maybe a little bit too cold for a comedian who was supposedly warm and magnetic. I felt it would only be a matter of time before something darker came to the surface. As for Olivia, to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:30 AM
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He said he felt the need to do so also because pornography today is a huge problem If he's passionate about ending porn and protecting people from it, then it's clear that the people who he needs to speak to are other men. Men are the ones watching porn titled, "teen whore gets humiliated" and "screaming slut gets choked and raped."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:00 AM
32

I bet if you called him "small dick" he would have thrown a huge tantrum. Men like that do need a taste of their own medicine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:39 PM
20

"Let’s say he was in love the whole time as a friend" That's usually why he wants to be friends with a woman in the first place, don't think it was some accident. He thinks she's attractive and is waiting for her to fall for him and make the first move. It's actually pretty manipulative in my opinion. Men do this instead of asking the woman out directly in order to avoid confrontation, perhaps out of fear. But some men also do this in order to establish the relationship from a "50/50" perspectiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:52 PM
172

Men want to blame feminism for ruining society, but will die on a hill protecting pornography. How hypocritical. These responses are heartbreaking and very disturbing to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:43 PM
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"looks like you can't please women" and without missing a beat, I said "looks like that makes two of us." He literally left the room and pouted LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:38 PM
31

Anyone who sends death threats needs to be locked up. Anyway, how was your day ladies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:02 PM
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That's why they refer to us as, "females" when the word "women" could have easily been used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:47 AM
19

It's the way he said it. If his goal was really to court you he would have said, "I'm sorry miss I prefer to speak in person as I find it difficult to look at my phone while I'm working." Or he would've entertained texting. Because really, what does it cost him? Sounds like he wants to rush women in order to lock someone down as quickly as possible without even considering if she feels romanced or comfortable at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:47 AM
15

Being brutally honest towards a specific insecurity that they have drives them crazy. However I wouldn't recommend playing that game because these types of people purposefully wait and bait people into a "zinging" match with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:59 PM
28

"He made fun of me for asking for a week off (which he allowed) because I had to accompany my mother to her chemotherapy." Only a crazy person makes jokes about that. I'm so sorry you had to endure that abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:56 PM
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they don't want to be seen as too sensitive or be accused of overreacting to a "joke". We need to stop trying to play off jokes that have a double-meaning or truth to them. We know they're not even funny because our intuition is telling us it's a red flag. For example, any joke that involves humiliating someone else, or sexualizing them for no reason, is not funny to me. "She's probably getting pounded" isn't remotely comedic and I'm not going to laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:50 PM
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They are hedonists living for the here and now. Then once they get older, they'll blame women and society. Maybe they might even put on a nice suit and start youtube channel giving "advice" to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:54 AM
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These men will get to their middle age alone That's why they end up lustfully looking at young women, angry, and repressed. They become an at-risk to society. Yet they still have the audacity to tell us that we'll die alone. Don't listen to these idiots ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:50 AM
3

they wish I got raped because they want to be edgy. They might as well tell the world they've been addicted to porn for the past 10 years lol- it's just a dead give-away. I personally can't bring myself to wish something horrible on someone that I wouldn't wish on myself. Sorry that happened to you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:43 PM
3

Women are normally nice to men they don't find attractive. Men are the ones who are only friends with women they want to have a chance with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:38 PM
3

"But what do you bring to the table?" Never answer this question. If he can't see your worth, you can't convince him. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:36 PM
3

So he wants to condone rape? He needs two be castrated or incarcerated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:35 PM
17

Ew, I heard that his happens to teachers a lot. Men who do that need to be incarcerated or castrated. Can't control your PP? Well now you don't have one. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:29 AM
31

Ladies, don't respond to random guys messaging you out of the blue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:28 AM
71

Many men genuinely struggle to express their emotions due to a combination of biology and how they were raised. Yet as cold as this sounds, it is not our jobs to guess what they are feeling as if we are their mothers or therapists paid by the hour. If a man cannot communicate effectively or be emotionally available for their partner, they should not be in a relationship. It's not fair to the women in their lives that have to constantly be the emotional guesser and supporter when she is also in n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:06 AM
9

"he said he doesn't have plans to date exclusively anytime soon" This is very hypocritical since he clearly stated, "he's looking for a relationship and specifically asked me if I plan on staying in the country for the long run because that's his plan and he wants to see if we have the same goal." He put the pressure on you to make sure you were taking the dates seriously and considering entering a relationship with him, then he backed away. If you were truly on the same page the dates would kee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:53 AM
190

Exhibit A of, "like a compass points north, a man's accusing finger always finds a woman."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:26 AM
10

This is one of the many reasons I don't date online. It's a cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:10 AM
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But the truth is that this guy, as perfect looking, well-off, and eff-able as he was, was completely lonely and wanted my emotional support, advise, intellect, etc. Men hate admitting how incredibly valuable a woman's presence is, just her presence alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:08 AM
13

a certain subreddit that is against work Mediocrity is so unattractive. Laziness is an instant turnoff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:52 AM
1

They should really get jobs and level up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:39 AM
30

Men always extremely overestimate themselves. Ain't that the understatement of the century
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:36 AM
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But you’re saying things about testosterone and estrogen that presuppose some essential physiological and emotional difference between men and women. I’m not a “difference feminist.” Part of my early identification with feminism was based on not being girly or feminine and recognizing that I was treated poorly for it, told I was a freak, ignored when I excelled because it was not the right kind of excellence. The concept you’re describing is much more basic. It’s a well known psychological effec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:48 AM
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His reasoning for doing so was to either see if I would lie to see if I would humiliate myself or I would have to admit that I wasn’t educated in that aspect and that I wasn’t an expert in order for him to feel superior. I've had men try to do similar things to me as well. Bombard me with questions, trick questions, or back-handed compliments. They get bothered when a beautiful woman knows her worth, so they try to bring her down to uplift themselves. The thing about LVM is that they are obsesse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:32 AM
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That's exactly it! They want traditional women, but aren't traditional men!! How are you going to leave your wife and kids? I thought you were a big PP macho man?????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:30 AM
14

LVM like to feel needed, they just hardly like to actually do the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:09 PM
15

Hispanic women need to read this so badly. Too many of my aunts and cousins married man-children!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:45 PM
3

"What do you bring to the table?" "Why were you interested in me in the first place? If you can't recognize my value then I can't convince you of it, goodbye."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:43 PM
20

But those same men never keep the same energy with talentless men. They cannot stand an unattainable beautiful woman. They'll never have her, so they try their hardest to bring her self-esteem down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:20 PM
1

The bare minimum doesn't thrill me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:18 PM
50

Agreed. If it hurts him to give me something incredibly basic like flowers or dinner, or argues with me about how I don't deserve a beautiful ring, he doesn't value me. He doesn't want to court me, but demands sex? Frankly, it's too much energy to argue with someone about your worth. Especially someone you are considering marriage with. If he doesn't recognize and respect your value while dating, it's only going to get drastically worse from there. It's better to be alone until an honorable man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:09 AM
118

And here's the thing; whether she was 16, a day over 18, or 20, I would still consider this 35 year old man a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:06 AM
116

"I'm better than other women because I worship men who give me the bare minimum. Yet when I see women being wined and dined on a constant basis, I'm the first one to shame them."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:06 AM
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I'd like to add that men who have female "friends" often pour out their issues on their female friend's shoulders, but never do the same to other male friends or go to therapy. Compassionate and intuitive women need to be careful of this because they often are a listening ear to other people's problems and try their hardest to understand others, yet, no one does the same for them. And here's the kicker- those same male "friends" will be the first to sexualize you in "jokes" or catch feelings for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:55 AM
10

No chasing, waiting, coddling, or even reprimanding. A simple block drives anger-baiting men crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:43 AM
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That is an idea for an extremely low effort get-together. Not putting in any effort feels very unromantic and "spark-less." Instant turn-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:41 AM
7

Low effort conversation shows they're not interested in me. Which makes me lose interest. Which makes me block and delete. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:38 AM
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"They make fun the girls who fan-girl on them, but still use them for sex." Men make fun of women for everything, it seems they're more attracted to each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:18 PM
15

The, "protector and provider" should go first. The, "leaders of society" should go first. After all, the epitome of leadership is serving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:09 AM
7

barnacle I love that word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:06 AM
7

So a woman should do what he says because he buys her...shoes? Shoes that she could buy herself? Nothing is worth freedom and autonomy- that's what people fought and died for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:42 PM
6

I cannot stop laughing at this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:20 PM
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It's the fact that there's 0% accountability and self-reflection for me. It's always women, isn't it? Reminds me of this quote on FDS, "Like a compass points North, a man's accusing finger always finds a woman."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:06 PM
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If you're incapable of walking up to me and striking a conversation or simply asking for my number, then don't try. I find it disrespectful because they're not putting in the effort to communicate- I don't care if someone is understandably nervous when trying to ask me out, I care about effort. It shows me that they care about something serious. Also, men that spy on you from the woodworks are the same types that get triggered when rejected. They can be dangerous/deceitful. I've had guys start m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:02 PM
194

Oh he got checked all right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:55 PM
11

It's an instant turn-off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:51 PM
35

That's the reality of 50/50 relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:37 AM
2

If you let him go, do you think it would be a good idea to explain to him that you need to do some soul searching because of things that happened in your past?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:48 AM
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Study results: inconclusive- sample size not large enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:44 AM
35

Translation: I want sex and fully benefits from being with you, but want to give you the bare minimum and call it 50/50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:41 AM
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I'd rather be alone all my life than be sexualized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:23 PM
32

Ugly on the inside and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:20 PM
153

Don't let this shock you. Many men start intense porn addictions as teens which heavily warps their idea of sex, women, and the value of a human body. Porn is a cancer to society that most ignore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:18 PM
2

puckme LOL, love this new word!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:13 PM
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Many pick-me's do this kind of thing proudly, but are the first one's to cuss out women who get wined and dined on a constant basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:24 AM
75

But according to pick-me's they're "50/50" lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:23 AM
9

Interesting how he exhibits all the things he says are undesirable: disagreeable, bitter, controlling, shallow, disrespectful, two failed marriages, older than 30, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:52 PM
18

"I'm just being hOnEsT! Ma'am you're a tWo nOT a tEN!!!! LET mE SpEaK!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:30 PM
18

I think teaching personal responsibility and consistency is a huge one that even many adults struggle to learn- so the younger someone can learn those qualities the better. Being around HVM would be great positive influences on them too. Many of my classmates who later exhibited HV traits were very studious and focused on getting into competitive universities. Another important thing I saw many HVM have is knowing the importance of their parents/family. Of course their parents were usually very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:27 PM
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"You will never get what you deserve if you stay with what you tolerate." "I’m absolutely tired of broke self victimising losers pretending they’re ‘oppressed’ because they’re expected to bring value to a woman’s life. Because they have to pay for a date when they had no plans to love her anyway." "If you feel insecure - sometimes it's because you aren't in a safe situation emotionally or otherwise- not because you lack confidence." "Men walk away when their expectations and needs aren't met ins…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:30 AM
20

Now he lost the one woman that was interested in him. And I assure you he'll say she was the, "crazy ex."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:10 PM
4

Love-bombing is like trying to finish a video game on a speed-run- you're not really there for the plot, story, or lore. You're just rushing through for the loot and achievements. To satisfy yourself. Not to see the creator's vision. And that's why after you're done playing you never touch the game again. Genuine love exhibits an incredible amount of patience and synergy that's hard to miss. Still using the video game metaphor- every crevice of every location would be explored. The story would r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:50 AM
1

To be honest, I feel like that formatting of the website could be improved :) I wish it was easier to see a constant flow of new or interesting posts/information instead of having to dig for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:29 AM
6

They want women to be sexualized, but hate the ones who are sexualized. Then they dare they that they don't lose respect for women who are sexualized when that is obviously not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:27 AM
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He gives me control-freak vibes. After this post he gives be pedo vibes though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:23 AM
18

This post blew up on another subreddit. The top comment is, "he's just fulfilling his fantasies legally." Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:23 AM
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They don't know that the sexual harassers are old, ugly, fat, disgusting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:21 AM
9

It's in my biology to be attracted to men who provide for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:20 AM
44

Deep down inside I believe in love. No matter how dark or cruel this world is, I'd rather be alone for years than settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:20 PM
2

He should he should treat her like a casual acquaintance. Big mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:31 PM
8

Feels tons of chemistry with her, yet makes no effort This is exactly why men should pursue women, not the other way around. He should be trying to win her over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:29 PM
30

I love this hilarious meme format!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:05 AM
6

He even calls me Her Majesty in all sincerity. That's sexy ngl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:05 PM
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But I promise you he follows tons of sexy women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:01 PM
57

Coffee dates are just too low effort. He doesn't even make the effort to go and see you, he wants you to pursue him instead. Which is a turn-off to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:58 PM
17

One gets called boss, the other gets called whore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:33 PM
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The comments on there are SICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The only one that made sense was, "No. As you mature, who you're attracted to should be closer to your age."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:55 PM
6

Add, "easy to manipulate"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:32 PM
5

He turned up and surprised me with my favourite (expensive) bottle of gin, in my favourite flavour. It cost 10X what the ingredients of the dinner cost. That is sooo sexy. I'm so happy you had that experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:30 PM
3

he likely understood courtship but was playing dumb to "show you up". Sorry I'm not attracted to, "stupid."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:29 PM
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For me it's the hypocrisy of the "standards." They want a sexy well-pampered woman, but they expect her to pay half the bills. Where is she going to find the time to take care of herself if she's working two jobs? They want a feminine, traditional woman, but they aren't traditional men. How can a woman be feminine if you aren't manly sir? They want sex, but they don't put the effort into romancing her. How is she even supposed to feel attracted to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:28 PM
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That's totally normal and I think several women on here feel the same way as you. It's normal to desire a partner who cherishes you. I have accepted that finding a partner takes time, and I've just let it go in God's hands. So the answer is simple, but it's not always easy. What always helps me is to realize that so many marriages aren't happy, and even less marriages consist of two people who are genuinely satisfied. Then I realize that I'm not missing out. I always try not to let doubt or lone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:21 PM
59

I'm Christian too. You're story gives me so much hope. I'm so happy you got engaged to a man who loves you, sees your worth, and shares the same faith as you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:12 PM
7

I love Breeny Lee's podcast. She offers a lot of insights into life strategy, relationships, and other bits of wisdom. Besides that she's drop dead gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:09 PM
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She knows the demographic of Reddit is porn-addicted men that do not have her best interest in mind- and she still lets them tell her what to do and how to feel. Please do better sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:03 AM
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I saw a beautiful woman on LinkedIN announcing her recent promotion or something to that effect. Well, an old nasty scrote in the comments was complaining about how women only get likes because of their appearance and if he posted something interesting no one would care. I just thought, "again with the pretty privilege complaints? Do you want women to be ugly? Do you want to be a woman yourself? Lol."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:50 PM
98

lots of men hate “gold diggers” yet detest a career women. It's the most hypocritical thing I've ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:35 PM
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Nothing dries me up faster than disregard I want to be cherished and looked after because I want to cherish someone myself- that's how a serious adult relationship works. The bare minimum is not too much to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:50 AM
9

When you think of that relationship, there were no red flags at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:00 AM
34

If you cannot make a correction on a meal, then you should not be dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:09 AM
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Because it's too easy to dump your issues on the other person. Working on it requires effort and accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:07 AM
37

He says that he's an image consultant who helps men and women when it comes to dating and lifestyle. Yet, there are various indicators that beneath his corny tuxedoes and straightforward "advice," he's clearly biased and holds resentment towards women (specifically black women). Besides being divorced twice, some red flags are: About 80-90% of his videos are about women. His most popular videos are the ones where he gets black women on his videos, and gives them, "honest advice." This includes t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:23 AM
12

I think it's hilarious when men say, "I wish someone would ask me out on the street." I just think, "Oh, really? You are okay with a fat, ugly, old, stupid man lustfully looking and speaking to you like a piece of meat? You're okay with running back to your car because you're afraid of being raped? Because that's the reality women face on a daily basis."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:09 AM
3

This is incredibly unattractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:07 AM
10

I literally do not care about a man's height. I care about character and if he provides for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:45 AM
6

One gets called boss. The other gets called whore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:55 AM
9

Someone also said, "But hooking up is how I gained confidence after being assaulted." Hundreds of likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:44 AM
10

It's like when I see female celebrities go on about how they're a "boss" and a "bad b" and then they stay with their cheating husbands or marry the most LV men out there. Please don't talk the talk if you can't walk the walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:31 AM
3

I think there is a huge difference between being a helpful, kind, genuine partner and being someone who's practically a door mat with zero dimension.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:27 AM
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Shh, they're not ready for that conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:20 AM
40

Success earns respect, being sexualized doesn't. You hit the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:19 AM
2

Girl why are you even reading that crap? Level up sis, not down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:42 PM
1

People would not believe the amount of men that actually do that. That's why it's so important to be very hands-on and educated in finances before getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:08 PM
6

To me it says alot that they're trying to pull this stunt on a woman. They'd never do this to Robert Downy Junior, Chris Evans, or Jeremy Renner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:34 PM
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I saw men even trying to make this into a "man vs woman issue." They were saying that if Michael Phelps did the same thing, he'd be mocked and ridiculed. Yet Michael Phelps stated at one point he felt suicidal and even retired twice before coming back and winning gold. And that's without the years of sexual abuse Simone went through. Michael even came out in support of Simone. Also, even if he would be ridiculed (which he wasn't) it would be by other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:30 PM
15

And then they expect sex after that. Gross..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:24 PM
18

If you feel insecure - sometimes it's because you actually aren't in a safe situation emotionally or otherwise. Every woman needs to understand this in order to avoid being manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:12 PM
2

You have a great point. I'm not her fan. It's just this one video that I resonated with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:49 PM
13

But when we're not they humiliate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:16 AM
3

It's not my fault that men refuse to support one another. It's not my fault that men do not compliment one another. It's not my fault that men refuse to verbalize their wants and needs. It's not my fault that men refuse to go to therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:13 AM
4

Very well written- this subreddit is not for the faint of heart! I also love that we shared the same distain for fake wokeness infiltrating our culture and stopping real change from happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:11 AM
3

The key is to not accept anything that is beneath your standards. This means that even you yourself will have to meet those standards with how you treat yourself. And with others, this will ruffle feathers and cause people to freak out- at first. But eventually people, especially men, will recognize you as someone who deserves the best. I highly recommend these youtube channels/social medias: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJzP8gmEs0LxyIsZNLRbsNg https://www.instagram.com/hypergamoushive/ http…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:04 PM
1

Men who "want to be friends" are just waiting for a chance of getting in a relationship or getting sex out of the woman they claim to be friends with. Then they become bitter and complain that they were, "friend-zoned" as a way of putting the fault back on the woman, even if they were the ones who lied about their intentions in the first place. They float around a woman for years in an attempt to make her fall in love with them, yet refuse to put in the effort to ask her out in order to earn her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:35 PM
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I said I was fine with him meeting them in a pub or restaurant but in his home I wouldn't even be okay with this. The reason anyone would want consistent connection with their ex's is in order to avoid putting in the effort into making friends or romantic relationships, but still reaping the benefits of having their company. All while having a girlfriend at the same time. It's a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:18 PM
9

So you meant so much to him, but not enough to pursue a serious adult relationship? I hate passive floater energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:15 PM
10

Make sure to block him on every platform- even LinkedIn! LVM go to lengths to be noticed and check up on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:12 PM
3

Every single pick-me needs to listen to this advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:08 PM
51

Men are too weak and emotional to dismantle the systems that oppress them. So instead they blame feminism for both the corruption of society, and their nonexistent sex lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:54 AM
15

That is the true tragedy of mankind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:52 AM
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"A man's accusing finger always finds a woman." So LVM want the respect and admiration, but not the responsibility and accountability that comes with it? How hypocritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:51 AM
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Agreed sis. I can't stand mob mentality or one-sidedness. Sadly I'm disappointed in many of these comments, especially the ones that absolutely refuse to have a conversation with someone who has opposing views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:39 AM
17

I don't owe men anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:47 PM
53

I know a man is into porn just by the way he speaks- it's always sexual jokes even if it's the most mundane topic. Absolutely disgusting and boring. They always lustfully look at women too. I swear it's an immediate turn-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:44 PM
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I'm disappointed with these comments. It's important to hear from all sides even if there are disagreements/differences/etc. We need to be above mob mentality in FDS. At the end of the day we are all here for similar reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:38 AM
16

It also sounds like he wanted OP to be jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:49 AM
119

He calls himself, "every woman's fantasy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:49 AM
119

No porn too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:36 PM
9

His username is in reference to a dusty rapper named Future, rapping about telling Steve Harvey he doesn't want to date his daughter Lori. Lori broke up with Future years ago and is now dating Michael Jordan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:48 PM
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I would even add to lead by example. OP shouldn't be afraid to level up and be a HV woman in her own life. I really like watching Chloe_ on youtube for tips and following hypergamyher on instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:58 AM
2

Did you ever reported him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:58 PM
6

Too many low value men in positions of authority, with very little accountability. Sounds like a recipe for disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:58 PM
2

"he would constantly tell me that if I was offered something somewhere else, I should take it, and he wouldn’t go with me because he wanted me to “fly.” Translation: I wouldn't have to break up with you and could just make an easy transition to the next target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:55 PM
2

"This asshole had just finished telling us about how he just moved in with his girlfriend in the next town over, treated us both like shit, and then thought he'd try his luck getting me as a side piece." Definitely report him. Very unprofessional and rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:53 PM
6

That is exactly why it's important to marry a guy who makes more than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:46 PM
13

I've let a BFF of 7 years go a while ago. It was so difficult because she was a great person, but we started to drift apart after we got older for a variety of reasons. Now she's with a low value man and has a much more "complicated" life with him. I know she deserves better, but she doesn't because she believes in 50/50. It seriously hurts seeing someone destroy their own lives, but I can't be around that low value energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:44 PM
5

Could never be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:38 PM
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It's because they want to be chased while simultaneously not promising commitment. They play the long game and most women fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:36 PM
45

Add Mexico to the list along with America. Women there seem to have a thing for "dusty and low value."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:33 PM
48

Porn and anime. That's why white guys think that way- they're into those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:32 PM
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I'm half Mexican and Latin women take shit. They let men walk all over them, abuse them, and accept their husbands back when cheated on. Machismo is so over-glorified in Latin America, that young girls are made to clean while boys are mama's boys who grow up learning that ambition and responsibility are unnecessary. So many Hispanic women would die on the "50/50" hill just to protect their husbands. Hispanic women need to WAKE UP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:29 PM
13

I'll check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:51 PM
15

Pornography has ruined men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:48 PM
23

My own father invested and lost thousands. Meanwhile my mother and I were shopping at the thrift store. Men pay for what they value- it's human nature. A good man will not skimp on a ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:18 AM
58

And he sure is playing her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:16 AM
13

They're not ready for that conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:15 AM
2

Update: He reported her video for bullying and harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:39 PM
2

Update: He reported her video for bullying and harassment. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:38 PM
21

Men only respect what they work and pay for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:13 PM
7

I would not be okay dating a man who's 30 (when I'm 30) who hasn't progressed in his career. Shows a lack of ambition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:12 PM
39

BBBut- pReTtY pRiViLeGe!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:10 PM
8

"I should have never treated you the way I did" You raped her. You should be in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:50 PM
6

I'm not a therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:47 PM
3

Like you, I'm someone who has a big heart, and I've always enjoyed helping others. I'm not saying that I'm a saint or a perfect person. But it is in my personality to help others in need. Yet, I've learned that it is not enough to be a kind person- it is absolutely necessary to enforce boundaries and manage one's own focus if you have a very altruistic personality. This is done in order to avoid being used. Firm boundaries need to be put in place. Not only that, firm boundaries show that you hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:52 PM
1

pickmeishas go out their way to try to destroy those women out of pure jealousy and men do the same. I totally agree, pickmeishas are some bitter bettys! "I will always have empathy for women and what we go through on this planet." I agree on this and practice this as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:04 PM
10

It's those same men that complain that women have, "pretty privilege!" Okay and? You have the privilege of being born in a first world country, of have extra energy because testosterone, no periods, not having as high of a chance of being sexually assaulted, and I could find loads of other privileges you have if I studied your socio-economic situation. Why are you obsessed with women's pretty privilege then if your "alpha?" Are you gay or something? I swear those men hate us, and want to be us a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:16 PM
4

I think some of the things he says are interesting and true, but some I disagree with. Remember, as you said- decide for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:41 PM
26

"k"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:50 PM
58

So you feel bad for most of my aunts? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:47 PM
23

The modern day tragedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:46 PM
97

Women need to stop shacking up with LVM just to boast that they "at least have a man." It ruins her life and it especially ruins the lives of the children that come out of those relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:46 PM
81

Ok I could not stop laughing at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:44 PM
8

That was deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:16 PM
25

Men aren't doing a great job of being in charge if they're constantly placing the responsibility and blame on women. But they still want respect, honor, and special treatment? Outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:17 PM
15

They have a problem with FDS, but not the hundreds of porn or misogynistic subreddits? They have deeper problems to worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:15 PM
11

I've known for a long time that many Spanish/Latin men are very low value. They have a bigger entitlement problem than white men, since "machismo" is still embedded within our culture. They have absolutely no ambition other than to watch pornography and catcall women. Older men in our culture (around ages 40-60) set the example, and they are some of the most vile, disgusting, perverts I've ever seen. Even compared to men of other cultures. They think that they have the right to sexualize and tou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:12 PM
10

Accountability for men needs to take place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:36 AM
11

Many men constantly harp about how Eastern and European women are better than American women because they're more traditional. Yet, they aren't traditional men- not responsible, or have any strong family values whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:55 PM
25

I have met several HVM- they're still rare don't get me wrong, but somehow I've met them. They are very mature men, emotionally and mentally. Mainly focusing on work and excelling in their field. They're positive people who were raised by present fathers that taught them how to have self-control and respect. Or if not raised by a present father, they are incredibly big on taking ownership and responsibility. HVM have an ego like most men, but they're not braggers. They just walk the walk and go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:08 PM
30

They want to "teach" women in order to inflate their egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:57 PM
19

Nope. Men are straight shooters and go after what they want. They were providers for years upon years when humans were a new species. Therefore, he must first provide and cherish me, if he wants access to my time and life. If he's a mature man who cherishes me, then I look forward to having wonderful relationship where I can rest in my feminine self and be a great partner for him. This isn't a "what came first the chicken or egg?" argument. This is simple biology and reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:55 PM
49

I agree. Also I don't tell people my long term goals, current secret projects, or reveal too much about my emotional state. I only do this with strangers (men) and goodness they literally can't stand it. They try so hard to dig up information about me in order to get access to me. Ladies don't even know how much men want access to our very presence. When they don't get free information, it only makes them want to know more. Lol it'll never happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:48 PM
14

Ima be honest- I always had reservations about Don. I've watched interviews where he comes off as defensive and cranky. I know there was more to it than that tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:31 PM
50

What is constantly promoting different types of fetishes? Pornography. Low value men are addicted to porn and do hardly anything truly meaningful with their lives. It's always sex jokes, anime porn, hardcore porn, etc. They have very little respect for women and yet still manage to pronounce themselves as victims. The reason why I don't trust men is because they try to sexualize everything. As a quote on here once said, "If you don't trust a child to be around someone who watches children get be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:29 PM
54

Here's the thing men need to understand: they have to earn someone's love. I hate how they feel so entitled to sex but don't even make the effort to cherish their girlfriends or wives. That's a HUGE turnoff. It's basic psychology that strong relationships are built on emotional intimacy, connection, and vulnerability. Sex comes after not before. Not as the only thing the relationship is founded on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:05 AM
55

This is why it's so important to have quality friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:16 AM
6

This is the epitome of, "men only respect what they pay for."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:13 AM
2

Yup! Not my fault if you catch feelings, that sounds like a "them" problem and I'm not afraid to put them in their place if they act up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:12 AM
3

I noticed this too. High Value men aren't quick to flirt because they are extremely serious about the relationships they form- whether it's a friendship or romantic relationship. They want to take their time to get to know someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:11 AM
5

Most men only respect other men. I've never met a man who looked up to women in high places as much as they do men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:09 AM
9

Your experience highlights a huge issue in todays society which is that young women are not warned about incredibly toxic lustful men. Women need to be warned about their invasive and manipulative behavior. Frankly, we need to NEVER help these men. They are walking perverts waiting to sexually assault women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:08 AM
3

OOP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:05 AM
12

No thanks, I think I'll decide what's good for my self-esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:28 AM
4

Of course! her's the link: https://www.instagram.com/hypergamyher/ She hasn't posted in a little while though, she's helping her husband run his businesses Edit: No need to downvote, if you don't want to follow her move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:26 AM
15

I highly recommend Hypergamyher on instagram. She married a HVM worth 500 mill and gives advice on life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:09 AM
1

I'm guessing the wife is still in her "pickme"/low self esteem phase. In general it's dangerous to be around anyone low value. Misery loves company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:22 AM
94

People with jobs and goals go out and make something of themselves. I don't support mgtow. And you know what I'm going to do about it? I'm going to move on with my life. I don't care. I have goals, dreams, and standards that I'm focused on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:11 PM
36

Title?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:10 PM
53

Watch when she leaves he's going to get a big mouth and tell all his friends she was the "crazy ex."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:32 AM
19

He's angry because he fit the descriptions of "scrote." Instead of leveling up and taking responsibility, they blame women. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:04 AM
4

How they drive the car is how they drive the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:02 AM
3

My mother went through this as well. My dad finally divorced her and she told me that even if she didn't initiate the divorce she felt a huge load off of her shoulders and wished more women would wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:08 PM
3

Like, boy, Don't act like it's transactional, or else realize the fiscal value you provide ain't worth shit compared to the market. You need to make it worth my time emotionally and by providing support with more than just dollars. Exactly. Our worth is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:07 PM
1

What, seriously? Is that why they're never seen together anymore even if they claimed to be best friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:04 PM
2

I do feel like Hailey makes a lot of excuses for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:03 PM
6

He really gives off "women should please me and chase me not the over way around" vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:02 PM
8

And look what he did. Attempt to use her, drag her along for years, then suddenly marry someone completely different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:01 PM
30

Men also conveniently ignore the fact that having a girlfriend/wife gives them "status" amoung their social group and co-workers. They will literally congratulate each other for being with a beautiful woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:54 PM
119

OOP! They're not ready for that conversation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:27 PM
3

Totally am! That sounds amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:44 PM
8

"He was super nice at the beginning, but he cheated on me 5 times since last May. Should I take him back???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:23 PM
1

You made a great point and really hit the nail on the head. I want to see way more positive, strategic, and uplifting flairs because that's the direction FDS needs to move in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:22 PM
6

I wish I could say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:14 PM
6

Do you mind me asking what general field you work in? You had me at, "loads of money."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:13 PM
193

I know this is off topic but: He didn't like her romantically, but he still wanted her company and attention? What happens to alot of women is that men think they can emotionally dump their issues on us because they are otherwise incapable of being vulnerable, "with the boys." Ultimately, men still crave the care, compassion, and attention from women. It further proves how valuable our time and focus is. Any man that wants it needs to make the effort to get it and keep it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:15 PM
69

But they will still find a way to say that young women are just gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:10 PM
5

This is a great warning you don't usually see on here. Even if they are uncles or cousins or anyone else that might not seem harmful. Do NOT trust them. Make firm boundaries and do not lower your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:15 PM
8

I like how your comment is just straight to the point lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:48 PM
4

50/50 is a scam. Men only respect what they pay for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:04 PM
31

I don't know if anyone remembers, but there was a whole ordeal on Reddit similar to this. Several posts blew up that were about how women should compliment men and how men are lonely because no one cares about them. What all those men failed to understand is that they can easily solve their own issue if they learned to lift each other up, instead, the blame is placed on women once again. I'm tired of it. It's not our responsibility to play mommy and teach grown men how to emotionally and sociall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:59 PM
27

I hope he heals well and feels better in time. I'm happy you two are doing well. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:45 PM
60

Best quotes from what you wrote: - "Dating isn't about sympathy, it's about finding a great partner for you and maybe your future children." - "Dating is about you finding one single person who's great for you. You aren't a community resource. You aren't a thing that can be passed around to everyone who wants a chance." Also I always ask myself, "Do they help me the same way I help them? Do they respect me the same way I respect them? Do we both want the same things?" Questions like these immedi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:55 PM
102

I don't care if he has depression. It is not my job to be their therapist, meanwhile my need for someone to be emotionally present and supportive goes unfulfilled for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:52 PM
3

BINGO! They hate when a woman knows her real value. They will try everything in their power to humble her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:13 AM
150

That's genius! I'm sure your 13 year old loves the house ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:01 AM
3

It sounds like you're physically attractive, well-spoken, and well-educated. You have the right to have those standards. I would also add that it might benefit you to be very careful when telling people your list of standards. It's something very personal, and people automatically take it the wrong way. If someone doesn't have an FDS mindset, they see it as superficial. Women often feel jealous that their self-esteem isn't high enough to value themselves the way you do. And LV men get angry that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:59 AM
13

No matter how lonely I might feel hypothetically, it would still be better than being surrounded by people who lack ambition, emotional stability, or joy. I'm alone, but I'm happy and I still make the effort to check in on several acquaintances from time to time. Anyone who is interested in self improvement, and maintaining their mental peace, is going to have to sit at the table alone sometimes. Not all the time, but sometimes. And I'm willing to pay that price. Even HVM often have a small grou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:43 AM
14

HVM and HVW don't want pity. They want responsibility and are quick to take action, not make excuses. "You stuck with me through everything" Would not be their main reason for loving their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:26 AM
20

Men only respect what they pay for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:23 AM
61

Its boring at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:31 PM
3

YES. Growing together is a push and pull effect where both parties feel fulfilled and grow together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:47 AM
6

Because the only way people will look up to a low value man is if they are beneath him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:22 AM
2

Boys getting addicted to porn at a young age is extremely harmful. And now they think showing basic decency is "simping." Social media promotes this to an extreme, and teaches young girls to sexualize themselves. It's so sad. Where are the good fathers and mothers teaching their sons and daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:11 AM
19

I need a shirt that says this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:55 PM
160

By "art" he means blowjobs. No way men care about the art of romance considering most are addicted to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:54 PM
11

I've noticed this for years. Always wondered if anyone else noticed it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:23 AM
22

OOOP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:22 AM
16

My father did very similar things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:22 AM
8

Jesus is a HVG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:13 AM
6

Literally it’s the “talking side by side" And that's about the last time they'll put effort in verbally communicating...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:11 AM
25

The men in the comments are so incredibly mad. They're now saying things like, "what else does she bring to the table?" "How does 70k a year and education make you high value?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:46 AM
36

And when there is an active discussion about how men can be good partners they get super pissed! It's like they can't admit for one second that they as an entire gender need to improve. It's always, "but women..." My goodness, take some responsibility. I don't blame men for my life, so what gives them the right to blame women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:59 AM
11

How is he fetishizing things at 18. Porn addict for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:32 AM
3

This is why I only have HV female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:31 AM
15

That's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:24 AM
39

I have a similar story as you! I went to Mexico with my mom when I was 7. My entire family was invited to a wedding in the town my mom was from. It was normal that everyone was invited- even strangers. Well, a man in his 50's showed up and out of the blue he went up to me and pulled my hair aggressively. He said, "what's your name" very aggressively. I was very scared and didn't know what to say so I just said, "what?" He repeated, "what's your name" very aggressively. My mom quickly pulled me a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:52 AM
24

And he begged you for kids too?! He really wanted the best of marriage life and cheater life. Absolutely not. Thank GOD you didn't have kids with this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:34 PM
7

I'm so happy this subreddit is against lib feminism instead of kissing its butt like the rest of society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:12 AM
4

But apparently women are the problem still...somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:41 PM
2

This was extremely well-written and offered a new perspective on pornography that I hadn't previously though of. It is so obvious that porn is an addiction that most men have, but they are willing to die on the hill of denial. They constantly say porn isn't that bad for the user, but ignore how the one's who are "used" are frequently abused and manipulated into doing degrading acts. Another thing I've noticed- there's a grand criticism of liberal feminism coming from both men and women nowadays.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:28 PM
2

"Never compromise your standards. Life is full of tradeoffs but your standards are not one of them." We need to constantly remind ourselves that the bar is so incredibly low that asking to be cherished equates to being "high maintenance." Sometimes we catch ourselves thinking, "I'm I asking for too much?" but that's not true, it's that most women don't ask for enough and are willing to except anything. Nah, If anyone can have it, I don't want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:11 PM
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Yes. According to that logic, the boy can just as "easily" follow in the father's footsteps. Once again, women are blamed for not raising men. Hello, men are the ones choosing not to raise men. Many run from the idea of being effective fathers, often playing the "good cop" while the mother plays the "bad cop," that is, if the father is even present in their child's life at all. "girls have womanhood forced upon them whereas boys have the luxury of extending their childhood, sometimes up til deat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:47 PM
1

Hey have you or u/laffytaggy ever considered leggings that have the pattern of jeans on them (different from jeggings)? I bought a really cheap pair and they have completely replaced any jeans I have. Super comfy, durable, and look like jeans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:52 AM
2

"My sister said there always comes a time in a woman's life wher she has to choose between being liked or being respected." Her sister is a black COO of a top finance firm by the way, so I think she knows what she's talking about. Your sis is killin it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:44 AM
2

Hey OP, remember that not all therapists are beneficial or even compassionate towards their patients, just like a doctor might not accurately diagnose their patient's illness. I HIGHLY recommend looking for a therapist from your back round that you vibe with. This video about this woman's journey in finding her therapist might help you feel less alone: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60_-cNgIT08 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kUmvC2q3ubs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:42 AM
6

THIS is exactly what I feel about Kevin Samuels and the men who watch him. They claim they're being honest in their critique of women, particularly black women. But if they got half the disrespect and criticism spit back at them, they would not be able to handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:37 AM
9

Doesn't matter what he does. Doesn't matter if you made mistakes. You still deserve a high level of respect. You gotta start believing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:33 AM
7

It used to bother me, but I'm trying my best not to care anymore. I'm attractive, and I'm going to live my life. Edit: It's still wrong and men need to be held accountable. But I mean I'm not going to stop being happy and dressing up for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:16 AM
68

Wow, very well written! I think that can be applied to political ideologies as well. We are told what to believe but never to question it. Definitely saving your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:09 AM
60

"Ignorance is bliss"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:07 AM
21

Men weaponize competency "mEn bUiLt sOcIeTY, women should be grateful!" But you fake competency sir. Don't play dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:29 AM
7

Burn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:13 AM
5

So it's cheesy to want basic passion, meanwhile wanting your wife to act like a prostitute from PHub (which is incredibly dehumanizing) isn't bad at all. I cannot stand how hypocritical men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:02 AM
4

"I’m not looking to be someone’s life coach!" Not for free that's for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:38 AM
11

He wants a women who is graceful, kind, and respected. But he's addicted to hardcore porn that disrespects all women in the worst ways possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:29 AM
14

He wants her to be "one of the guys" but also super sexy. And he won't stop over-sexualizing her and making disgusting remarks at every moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:26 AM
14

Says he wants an "independent" woman but expects her to be super submissive, and only have opinions that align with his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:24 AM
5

That's hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:21 AM
9

"i'M jUsT cHiLL!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:19 AM
12

Like being a masculine provider?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:19 AM
35

*doesn't provide any facts whatsoever (but still wants to seem smart)*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:16 AM
3

Exactly, read my comment above. At what cost :( !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:24 AM
6

"A 20-year-old exposed the Friends actor for flirting with her after they matched on Raya when she was just 19 years old and he was 50. Now Mathew Perry's fiancé Molly has put the wedding on hold after finding out." What on earth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:23 AM
16

For real!! The bar is too low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:17 AM
9

Because it's easier for men to blame women for the world's problems than to take responsibility and hold other men accountable. It's this constant back and forth between wanting women to be meek and submissive, and painting them as these evil monsters like Aristotle did. Did you know that the philosopher Nietzsche was largely influenced by Aristotle and kept perpetuating falsities about women: "From the beginning, nothing has been more alien, repugnant, and hostile to woman than truth—her great …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:50 AM
21

It upsets me how many women are molded into little versions of their man, and never once asked themselves why their man never changed at all for them. So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:52 PM
73

The bar is too low. I'm attracted to very successful men in business with integrity and kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:11 AM
17

"I'm unemployed" but he wants a traditional woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:55 AM
76

He struggled with substance abuse issues for years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:12 PM
10

This is why you marry up ladies. "Bankrupt" is also a mentality, as in financially and morally bankrupt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:11 PM
20

It shows that they're all pick-me's. All of em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:08 PM
4

Yup! I personally want exemplary character (kindness, wisdom, responsibility) and 6 figures. Remember ladies, six figure men are in abundance since the range can be anywhere from 100,000-900,000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:05 PM
9

Okay go off queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:02 PM
7

The men with actual gold to dig don't even worry about "gold-diggers" as much as scrotes do. In my observations, they want a well taken care of woman with integrity. A lot of millionaire wives aren't models, and they're accomplished in their own right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:42 PM
3

Yeah making 40-100k and marrying a 100k-500k guy isn't even gold digging. Early six figures isn't even alot nowadays, especially where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:39 PM
3

"it’s just reasonable for me to expect about the same or maybe a little higher from my partner." Go for higher
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:36 PM
3

Imagine how many scrotes would be pissed if everyone just copied your comment and posted it on all their social media accounts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:35 PM
4

I bet they'd be so pissed off. Probably would say, "NO! That's gAy!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:29 PM
4

How degrading and disrespectful. What did you say back to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:27 PM
6

As a woman, it's difficult to do anything without being sexualized by men who have been addicted to pornography since they were 10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:26 PM
6

I went to many family events as a teen. I dressed nice and said hi to everyone. One day I said hi to a particular person that was always there and we started a small conversation. He was probably in his late 20's. All of a sudden he said, "Hey your actually nice, I always thought you were kind of..." and paused. I didn't understand. I said, "kind of what?" He said, "I always thought you were kind of stuck up." I said, "uh, no I'm not" and brushed it off, but didn't fully understand the depth of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:18 PM
4

It would be beneficial to you to find out about these things before having sex. (Not shaming you).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:03 PM
40

Men are obsessed with humbling women. They are much more concerned with making you feel bad than leveling up themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:39 PM
27

I'm tired of workplaces doing NOTHING to stop sexual harassment. Reading your story made my blood boil. Those men need to be arrested and charged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:37 PM
104

Many Hispanic men are addicted to porn and see nothing wrong with abusing women. Speaking of pedos, as a child, a pedophile tried to speak with me and if it wasn't for my mother guarding me I don't know what would have happened. Again, not all men, but a majority of men have a "machismo" problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:12 PM
166

Is your country Mexico? Because I'm Mexican is it's astounding how many Mexican men are incredibly ambition-less and porn-fried. I feel bad for the Miss Universe winner (from Mexico) who has to be surrounded by LV men all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:56 PM
6

Anna really missed the mark
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:53 PM
1

There's a secret club in Bohemian Grove where rich people occassionally make fun of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:27 PM
2

I don't know if it's true that she had evil deals going on with pedos like Epstein and Maxwell, but if it's true, then she should not be having a child. Or if she hasn't learned to control her anger. The child would be in danger. Just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:17 PM
12

"She's not worth it" But it's obvious that when they see an accomplished woman of great character out in the world, they fall head over heels with her even if they don't admit it. When a woman smiles at them and treats them well they think she's available. They don't know the years of self work it took to get her there, to maintain a gentle heart in the midst of an evil world. They don't see that, instead, they just think she's into them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:57 PM
5

we are the table and they have to bring something to us ​ Yes exactly! We aren't saying that men are bad or useless. We are saying that we want a man of good character who cherishes us. That's why we are the table and he must add to it. Saying, "what do you bring?" is already implying that they don't recognize our value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:54 PM
3

"So instead of trying to bring women down, which you won’t be able to ultimately do because women have dealt with shit for years and we are only getting stronger. Why don’t you step up and become a better man?" Exactly, I never understood men bringing women down. The few men who are great fathers and husbands are so dedicated to their self growth and their family. They make the time. And what do they get out of it? A wonderful family with a wonderful wife and a wonderful wife. But they put in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:50 PM
3

Remember, Courtney and Lisa have also had children! Lisa has had very minimal work done (if any).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:14 PM
12

Wow, that was a beautiful way of saying, "scrotes be screwed."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:55 PM
21

I bet the idiots sexualizing hijabs are the first to call muslim women whores at any sight of skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:26 PM
40

Throw in the fact I am a doctor and earn a high salary You're just slaying in every capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:23 PM
48

Girl they HATE young, beautiful, expensive women that they will never be with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:20 PM
3

He just gave a speech today at NC University (which he apparently recently got a degree from as well). It's on his insta if you want to watch it, it was so inspirational. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:49 PM
10

And watching interviews of Emilia Clark saying she was very uncomfortable doing the scene made me feel so bad for her. I HATE GOT!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:44 AM
10

For some reason I don't find Cillian to be physically attractive (that's just me, I'm not bashing your preference). However, I find his personality to really shine in interviews. He seems like a really mature, calm person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:31 AM
103

Literally everything. I'm tired of the victim narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:18 AM
6

Russel Wilson is one of the best ones posted thus far. His character just shines through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:35 AM
41

So, all of Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:05 PM
1

Okay I could not stop laughing at your comment! Edit: I meant that I agree, but found the way you wrote it to be humorous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:59 PM
10

We appreciate beauty more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:56 PM
2

And most women fall under category 2 so that's why society says women age fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:03 AM
2

I'm late to the party but this girl I follow on instgram and made a response to this and basically blamed her for "shaming women" and being "judgmental." Like, are you kidding me? Pick-me's are in full force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:58 AM
2

That's what decades of porn addiction will do to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:04 AM
9

Her accent is everything! I had to rewatch this a couple times out of pure enjoyment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:01 PM
14

I think women who want to marry a rich man are included in the categories of women that people hate on. Just because they want someone who can take them on trips to Aspen and Bali while simultaneously treating them with love and respect, doesn't make them a shallow person who only married for money alone. In reality, I've seen women marry HV men who become millionaires in 5-10 years because the men are extremely hard-working and have a clear business plan (seriously, HVM are on a whole other lev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:36 PM
15

This is why I will NEVER date online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:10 PM
14

Your father might be a pedophile. And if that's the case then him being free to roam the streets puts the lives of all young girls and young women at risk. This cannot be ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:19 PM
31

Men are all about LoGiC aNd FaCtS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:22 PM
6

I see. I mean even if you did have a cell phone sometimes the police don't even help. I'm sorry that happened to you. If it helps, someone shouted a similar thing to me in Highschool and I got them suspended. And here's what I rhetorically ask, where did they get that idea to rape from? No normal person is thinking about that while on a beautiful sunny day. It's pornography. It amazes me how pornography is rooted within the minds of most men, corrupting them day by day, and yet it's never truly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:06 PM
6

Did you ever call the police on them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:12 PM
30

I bet every guy in the comments is super pissed off. Yet they watch tons of male comedians roasting and degrading women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:04 PM
37

Men are visual addicted to porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:24 AM
3

I think where scrotes identify FDS members the most is through instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:21 AM
41

They're low-lives with nothing to aspire to. Responsible, productive men and women go out in the real wold and make something of themselves. It's funny, those are the same men that say we'll die alone. But in reality, they're the ones who end up facing the inevitable fate of a porn-addicted low-life who's a sad excuse for a human, much less a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:18 PM
12

Major cringe on that one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:32 PM
130

I kid you not, I found a subreddit specifically sexualizing female politicians. They post pictures of AOC, Ivanka Trump, Tulsi Gabbard, you name it. They talk about how they'd like to have sex with them and how they're "asking for it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:31 PM
115

Sound's arrogant too. Sir you didn't create the sunrise. It's free. And frankly I'd rather watch it from the balcony of a mansion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:34 PM
33

About 800 people were defending the professor in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:57 AM
15

I want to see the podcast really tear down the false lie of women loosing value after 30 and "hitting the wall." I'd love to see how happy, single, women in their 40's+ live their lives. I'd also love to see women who married HV men later in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:07 AM
25

I remember crossing the street with my friends when I was 15 or so. The light and timer showed that I had the clear right of way, but as I crossed a car pulled in front of me. The young man in the car yelled at me for crossing and was extremely angry. I just stared at him in a confused way because the light clearly showed that I had the right of way and not him. Even as he was yelling at me, the light still showed that I had the right of way. There was also a young woman in the passenger seat wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:00 AM
5

Latin America needs FDS so badly sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:10 PM
9

They have super low self esteem and have believed the lie of "female empowerment" sold to them by low value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:59 PM
5

A recent popular thread called, "what have you learned from living with a woman?" showed that women add so much to a man's life that they can't get anywhere else. So don't ever let someone tell you, "what do you bring to the table?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:50 PM
7

Literally never use my other account(s). It's just too fun here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:25 PM
11

"And most of them secretly wouldn’t mind screwing the guys just as much as the girls." Uh-oh! Don't tell the bros!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:41 PM
1

So you just thought, "okay"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:14 PM
56

I understand your concern, but I think OP just posted this because she found the video alone inspiring, not because she was tempted to join an MLM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:03 PM
2

If you don't mind me asking, why did you take him back? What kind of thoughts were going on in your head that helped you justify or rationalize your decision to take him back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:36 PM
139

Why are police so incredibly incompetent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:38 PM
5

No. I choose not to have low value friends. "You are the average of the 5 people you hang out with."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:44 PM
38

She was truly a jack of all trades
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:46 PM
7

<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:44 PM
27

You're actually wrong. You're not a 9. You're a 10. In fact, your worth is so high that is cannot be contained on a ten point scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:06 PM
23

Pathetic pigs in human clothing. You're gorgeous period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:04 PM
10

If you see the real-life picture of the men saying this they look hideous. Either over-weight or severely underweight and ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:53 PM
15

They LOVE making good-looking women insecure. It’s the only way they’d ever have a shot with her. So Kevin Samuel's business strategy basically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:51 PM
21

I just got done reading a comment where a pretty women complimented an actress in a movie trailer. Some scrote commented and said something similar to, "yeah but to look like her you have to be way prettier and even she was cheated on (in the movie)." It had 56 likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:50 PM
2

So he's a cheapskate. No wonder we want "free" sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:51 PM
5

Spittens out here spittin' facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:50 PM
2

Now the haters can't lie. There's literally success stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:48 PM
2

See this is the thing about FDS. We can be rational and admit when the woman had faults in a situation while still calling out the man for his. Great analysis. I just wish Saweetie had left him the first time he cheated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:47 PM
25

Never thought of it that why but it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:40 PM
9

"This man expressed doubt. He had doubts about my study, about my work and our future together. He wanted a baby: NOW..." That was not a HV man. Real HV men plan for their future with wisdom and discernment. "You shall know a tree by it's fruit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:34 PM
67

I want to address your edit and tone. I agree with what you said and we need to remember that this subreddit is not for coddling. One thing that's incredibly important to preserve is the poignant and truthful speech that FDS is known for. Even the handbook makes this clear. You said everything in kindness and you're absolutely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:24 PM
3

I also firmly believe that HVM are HVM for a reason. They will protect their own dignity as much as they protect yours This is very true of HVM and it's not talked about enough! Because HV men work hard to get where they are in life and they have a very strong sense of identity and self worth, so you bet they will take credit for what they built or earned, even if they won't be boastful about it. They want to be respected and recognized, not only at work, but in their relationships and friendshi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:22 PM
16

100% agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:12 PM
28

Female doctors actually have less rates of mistakes and malpractice than male doctors, it's a real statistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:14 PM
5

Oh my goodness that sounds incredibly painful. Wow. You have gone through so much. I'm happy you were able to find a reason behind what was happening, but still, you went years. If I was in your shoes I'd have to talk some time off to heal mentally. medical issues are never easy and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, no, not even a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:13 PM
23

You can tell the writers were the most LV, repressed scrotes out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:04 PM
65

One step further- then she gets SHAMED for her body count by the same men who pressured her into sex. I hear that story all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:00 PM
35

task failed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:59 PM
7

Still the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:56 PM
41

That's what gets me. Still. It's still an issue. We have iPhone, the COVID vaccine, but can't get over a woman turning 30. Yet men are allowed to get a "dad bod" and lose hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:03 PM
2

I didn't find it funny. Every single thing is about sex nowadays...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:58 PM
1

It's actually super easy- most men do not care about their physical upkeep and style.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:44 PM
2

Where are the male support groups? where are the men with platforms creating spaces for men to be emotionally vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:42 PM
2

Nope. Can't take anyone who refers to women as "pussy" seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:40 PM
6

This one hit different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:51 AM
34

This needs to be official FDS material because you went off! I agree with everything you stated. I'm going to save the part where you listed all the risks women have to deal with and advantages men have. It makes a great rebuttal for the argument that women should cater to men and make access to them easier. Or the usual argument that women "live life on easy mode."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:52 PM
39

Someone wrote in the comments, "...someone recently said to me that high value items require appropriate maintenance, which made perfect sense to me. You don't polish silver with a dirty rag and a rough touch."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:44 PM
2

Wow, reading all of that, you went through so much. You have the right to show anger and any kind of emotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:40 PM
16

Love your comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:21 PM
2

I know and believe that you can still be successful. Try not to beat yourself up over it. As Nelson Mandela said, "I either win or learn."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:37 AM
5

Disgusting. I feel so bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:35 AM
11

That makes his comment even more pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:16 AM
9

But they still want those young ladies to give him the time of day. Pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:14 AM
28

Notice how it's still somehow the woman's fault for male laziness and lust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:13 AM
13

This guy is such a turn-off. This guy is complaining about putting in the work to date women for a period of time, but fails to see the permanent price women pay for being with low-lives like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:10 AM
5

They all struggle getting women so they take that kind of comment as another woman rejecting them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:01 AM
370

They've been coddled all their lives. They need their ego crushed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:53 AM
15

This is why young girls NEED to be taught FDS principles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:47 AM
9

"No one ever thinks about the wifes of the great men in history. No one praises them for stepping back and holding up the household and family life, so their husband could be dedicated to his work and passion. No one even knows their names." And they still have the audacity to say "men built everything!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:45 AM
4

I know what you mean. I agree with you and I still think it's good to try to understand how other people think and why. I just could never get into this for the same reason as you. Bitter vibes and "blame her" vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:12 AM
1

Girl forget that, Kevin Samuels, an "image consultant" who has half a million followers on instagram, posts-and-roasts women's appearances all of the time. The comments are filled with the most vile and disrespectful comments. Yet when confronted, he says he just "tells it like it is."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:03 AM
8

But they don't ask, "Why do I think these women are used or 'cheaper'?" It's because of deadbeat colorist men who perpetuate generations of colorism, single motherhood, and poverty in the black community. This picture just shows zero accountability on the man's part. There was a black man who asked me out at a cafe I used to work at. I was 18 and he was 22, had a baby mama, washed dishes for a living, and was not in school. Why would an 18 year old with her whole life ahead of her, trying to get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:55 PM
6

This is why, right when a man starts flirting or trying to sexualize me, I shut it down fast. At some point in my work, I had to accept that I'm going to look like a bitch and that other employees will dislike me for rejecting or call out someone quickly. I had to fight for myself because no one else would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:47 PM
8

Ladies, that's why it's so essential that we "look at patterns not words" when vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:38 PM
6

Fun Fact: Sofia Vergara, who's 48 years old, is married to Joe Manganiello, a very attractive, rich man who's four years younger than her (44). That further proves that there is no arbitrary "wall" that women at 30 hit. No wonder her less-attractive ex wants her embryos. He must be seething in jealousy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:33 PM
22

It is brutal. That's why we have to be ruthless strategists when it comes to our standards and goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:20 PM
15

Oh I never even gave "The Roommates" the time of day. Ladies, please understand that men who claim they're high value and are into this whole "high value" business- are NOT high value. Like, just let that be a rule from now on before you give channels like these a new subscription in order to "understand men more." Real HV men don't call themselves that. They go out into the real world and get stuff done. They pursue their dreams and women they're interested in. And lastly, they do not ask women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:13 PM
3

Would George Floyd fall into that category or no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:59 PM
2

Ouch! I like that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:20 PM
1

OP please don't respond to this man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:52 AM
1

I just noticed how you made a post with the same message as this one on TwoXChromosomes and it got deleted. Would you look at that. You brought up multiple issues with feminism and how girls are being over-sexualized. What pathetic a excuse for a female subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:37 AM
5

Ma'am this is off topic but can I just say...I LOVE YOUR USERNAME! For once I wish I had gold just to award you for that spectacular display of truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:34 AM
22

Then men try to shame you: "Men don't want a woman who makes more than them" "You're too masculine" "You make money but you're ugly. I'd only rate you a 5!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:32 AM
66

And that brings me to another realization- Male lifestyle, and self-help gurus are failing men. They're the ones that should be teaching men positive things, not outlets like FDS. Instead we got these male image consultants like Kevin Samuels, "teaching" women by berating and humiliating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:20 AM
120

I'm sick and tired of black men making a mockery out of black women. Especially black women with a darker complexion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:55 PM
143

Where's the video criticizing the men that left their families? This man acts exactly like the type of man who would leave. No accountability, humility, or respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:52 PM
54

Even Alec is disappointed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:47 PM
47

"It's not our job to make sex easier for men." Say that again for the pick-me's in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:44 PM
59

He's clearly obsessed and she's clearly drop-dead gorgeous ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:43 PM
17

Somehow I'm okay with that. Heaven knows some ladies need to hear this again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:41 PM
98

He can't afford the real cost of what he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:40 PM
25

"SIMP!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:37 PM
2

That one hit different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:59 PM
1

And they say women are the emotional ones. The lies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:56 PM
5

"So I have an alt account that is basically an alter ego that comments on posts about men in the same callous ways that men comment on posts about women. It has been fascinating to see how men respond to this." Okay you rock. I would pay to see those replies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:59 AM
3

"I eventually gave into the phone number because he wouldn’t stop asking but I lied and said I have no social media. He texted me NONSTOP, asking me so many personal questions. I just didn’t respond. At this point it was getting out of hand so I made up a fake boyfriend and talked about him constantly. I’m talking literally every conversation to turned it to my imaginary boyfriend. THANKFULLY this got him to step back a bit." This man needs to be reported immediately because boundaries have alre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:58 AM
5

I agree. No more passive tones, or lying about having boyfriends. He needs to be told "STOP NOW" to his face. I don't want the situation to get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:56 AM
6

I promise you, the best friendships are ones with HVW. You are beautiful and deserve to be appreciated for who you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:40 AM
9

Men always want something more. They always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:37 AM
3

I respectfully disagree with you and u/pickadaisy on this one. I need more evidence for why male friendships are beneficial. If I want a glimpse into how men think I'll just go on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:36 AM
5

I have the same story. No more male friends. It's done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:34 AM
8

Just because they don’t actively harbour attraction doesn’t mean they aren’t still using you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:32 AM
12

I think that poor parenting and addiction to pornography from a young age led to them thinking that it was "okay" to do that to you. This is why I cannot trust men who watch porn. Which is most of them...a kid hanging out with their friends should be protected and respected, not sexualized. I'm incredibly sorry you had to go through that. You deserve the best. You deserve HV friends not those useless pieces of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:31 AM
10

Most men have serious issues of emotional unavailability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:29 AM
10

I've spent some time on this sub and working on my self worth, it's actually a compliment to be called these things. The deep, seductive, sensual side of me is reserved only for worthy partners, and I'm glad not every male I come into contact with gets to see any of it. If they want to call me boring for that, it just means I'm doing it right by restricting access to that part of me. It means I have a boundary that's clear to them, and they're pissed that they can't cross it so they resort to na…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:14 AM
9

Truth is, as much as they hate FDS, they are starving for attention from women. It's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:13 AM
3

That is so abusive, good riddance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:10 AM
4

If he was my soulmate he'd pursue me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:09 AM
6

"I am emotionally unavailable will put in zero effort to change. I still want to sleep with you though"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:08 AM
23

I also feel bad for the 18 year old. #Protectyoungwomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:44 AM
6

These comments are gold and very thoughtful. OP you better take notes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:25 PM
17

"No she does not have the responsibility to be a role model but it’s so worrying seeing the fanbase completely idealizing this marriage." I've had to unfollow many Youtubers because of this very reason. They practically promote teen pregnancy and marrying unambitious men, knowing they have an audience of impressionable young women. Like do better sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:20 PM
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These men need to be held accountable for harassment. "But I was just looking" No, you were lusting after me. I was at a family gathering and everyone was at the pool. My friend was speaking to an older couple (50's-60's) about their vacation. When we got out of the pool I could feel the husband staring at my body intensely and for a long time. I was 18 years old at the time. To be honest, I don't feel forgiveness towards him even if it was a long time ago. I feel angry. I feel resentment. And I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:24 PM
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I used to think that looking for a man who provides well was synonymous with being a gold digger. I thought to myself, "I just want someone who loves me, I don't care about money, I'd rather have kindness." It was just a private thought and I never acted on it. However I realized that it's not wrong to want to be with someone who makes a decent amount AND has a good character. Women need to wake up and start understanding that wanting a provider doesn't make you shallow, mean, or unlovable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:17 PM
11

I think there seriously needs to be way more proper representation for black women with a darker skin tone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:12 PM
16

And that's what a lot of women don't get. Because they're taught to give, give, give, they think men are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:11 PM
11

I applaud you for sticking to your standards instead of lowering them at your own expense. Now that's queen stuff right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:10 PM
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Then when they get a taste of their own medicine they explode into a tantrum. Truth is no-one likes when the "joke" is at their expense. When I was in 9th grade, I was in PE and we were playing flag football. A kid made a rape joke about me. I reported it to the office and he was suspended. He hated me after that. I will never apologize to not finding a rape joke funny. Ever. Frankly, I don't even find sex jokes funny. To me, the whole experience showed me that pornography ruins how young men vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:06 PM
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And this ladies is called guarding your heart. It's not manipulation, it's not done in order to take advantage of someone. It's done in order to discern the true intentions and character of a potential partner. It's incredibly important that every single woman does this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:58 AM
21

You get charmed! And you get charmed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:56 AM
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Mommy issues Daddy issues (or absent father) Deep rooted insecurity Issues with feeling inferior Never taught to take accountability Low ambition Most girls/women never liked them so they enjoy hurting women as a form of vengeance Addiction to pornography Refusal to self improve despite free resources available Mob mentality Now combine all of that into one person. Yikes. Most of Reddit too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:04 PM
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Yup! I think there was a post about him a week about how he's supported Red Pill ideology. Don't even get me started on Kevin "I'm the beacon of truth" Samuels...I seriously want to make a post about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:28 PM
3

I find it weird and self-centered that Derrick, along with many other men, are OBSESSED with "teaching" women. Aren't you more interested in teaching men considering you are a man and understand how it's like living from the male experience? You tell women how a man should act and how they should act but don't teach men themselves how they should act? Why? Oh because you know that men don't want to be taught how to treat women and level-up. Derrick knows that he won't make money that way so that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:55 AM
3

Mathew Hussey, Derrick Jaxn, and definitely Kevin Samuels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:28 AM
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They will shame real, fake, and everyone in between while following loads of instagram models.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:19 AM
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I love that your church did that and I wish other churches would do the same :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:43 AM
4

Yes, please report him before he harms someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:39 AM
2

No, I keep FDS a secret. It has only ever worked in my favor not to shout it from the rooftops. It protects me from pick-mes and LV men from attacking me. To be completely honest, not having it at the forefront of my mind and talking about it all the time keeps me from becoming bitter in a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:33 AM
2

It hurts to lose friends, but you seriously cannot afford to have LV friends because misery loves company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:30 AM
2

And that's why you have the flair of ruthless strategist ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:28 AM
3

Keeping your level up journey private is absolutely necessary in the times of pick-me bullies and sly snakes seeking to prove successful women wrong. In my opinion, the best stories of women bagging a HV man or achieving their dreams are when they leveled up in secret and minded their own business instead of getting on a podium to teach and preach to other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:28 AM
13

What's it worth to gain the world if you loose your soul?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:18 AM
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You aren't to blame. You are not stupid. You are not crazy. Imo, do NOT befriend men. My experience has been that that they will eventually ask you sexual question and develop feelings or lust for you. Stay, alert always but also enjoy life. Surround yourself with HVW who have ambition in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:16 AM
4

Oh really? I become more aggressive because both consciously and subconsciously I want to punch them in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:12 AM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. No matter what, you are a precious person that deserves the utmost respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:09 AM
3

I would even go as far as to say that you can tell mostly from their speech and behavior especially when they're with their friends. Porn is horrific and will leave a lasting impression on those who consume it. They will talk about it subliminally eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:08 AM
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Like Don Draper from Mad Men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:55 AM
3

u/ellengau Me too! Great advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:40 AM
10

"First of all, I do want to acknowledge that decades of neoliberal policies have led to massive wealth inequality, an extreme housing crisis, skyrocketing costs of post-secondary education, and low wages for everyone." Say that again for the idiots in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:29 PM
3

I get that. However if that's the case I'd rather them not tell me they're beacons of female empowerment and the pinnacles of morality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:26 PM
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I think every feminist celebrity that stays with their cheating spouse needs to read this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:01 AM
20

Jocko Willink's book "Extreme Ownership" really brings the point home. Highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:00 AM
10

Um HVM aren't online. They're out living life, getting things done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:21 AM
11

"Positions" just screams pick-me to me. I can't listen to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:45 AM
2

I need to know the story behind that name and picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:37 AM
2

Thankyou for that wonderful quote. That's an effective tactic to really gets under someone's skin and it works 100% of the time. As a song lyric once said, "the opposite of love is indifference." People, especially idiots, cannot STAND when they're ignored. And the best thing about it is that you benefit from it. This tactic is also underrated because it requires self control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:33 AM
10

I am going to take your advice seriously because I need to seriously work on my online presence. Please keep writing things like this, you explain things very clearly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:28 AM
3

"One bullet and you all gone" Hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:16 AM
28

These men need to be charged and imprisoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:59 PM
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The fact that 61 idiots like this comment is sad. Don't believe the pick-me's ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:55 PM
24

What on earth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:22 PM
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This wasn't a mistake, this was a choice. A choice he made several times. God also says to "Guard your heart" and "be discerning" and "don't give your pearls to pigs." Why are those verses never discussed? His wife said she left and then came back to the house after she saw "he had changed." This makes no sense because how can a serial cheater change in such a short time. And can I just add that forgiving doesn't have to mean forgetting. Thirdly, why is he bringing his wife out in sweatpants and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:19 AM
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So now we can't go to a freaking public LIBRARY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:15 AM
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I hate when men say that. Women have to deal with intense sexual harassment, sometimes starting from 15 years of age. Personally, I'd rather endure loneliness and having no one give a rats rear end about me, than have to endure sexual harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:11 AM
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To me, it shows how much they don't care about real issues. They don't care that young teen boys are addicted to pornography and it shapes the way they view women. They don't care that pornography is a billion $ industry that has strong ties to human trafficking, mainly targeting women and children. They don't care that trafficked victims are forced to be addicted to drugs. They don't care that fetishes and porn itself is extremely degrading towards women. And they don't care that it's all over …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:44 AM
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“It is impossible to make you happy!” “Your standards are too high!” “I can never do anything right for you!” “Everybody hates you and you don’t deserve love!” “Not everybody can put in as much effort as you!” - Scrotes gaslighting 2021 I'd also like to add "Your not that attractive" and the infamous "Are you worthy?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:39 AM
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She seems insecure to me and that's why she makes pick-me songs. It just screams "I don't know my worth." In fact, a lot of strong female celebrities who claim they are the becons of female empowerment, stay with cheating men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:35 AM
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The real question here is why he felt the desire to send you those pictures. Like, where did he get the idea from? Pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:31 AM
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"We don't care if you feel bad for mentally ill ugly broke dudes. Pussy ain't charity." So true. We don't owe our priceless bodies to anyone just because we "should" feel bad for them. That's called gaslighting and it's not going to work. I'm also not in the business of playing build-a-man workshop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:25 AM
5

Love your post and I can relate to it. This sounds off topic but, are you an INTJ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:45 AM
9

Pickmeishas are women who have absolutely no self-esteem. Their entire persona is based on looking "cool" to men by putting other women down. Then they get screwed over by scrote after scrote and still blame other women. I'm getting really sick of them trying to invade and rally against FDS and similar spaces. They don't have the right to tell us what standards we should have. Don't befriend those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:45 AM
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Notice how it's the most Low Value men who are into that stuff. Reeks insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:39 AM
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PLEASE tell her that Reddit is a Cesspool of pornsick, confused, unconfident, men and to never seek advice from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:36 AM
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LETS GOOO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:25 AM
9

Ouch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:24 AM
5

Now this is real Queen type of stuff! What's your area of study in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:40 AM
35

Can I also add that men don't know what being a true "alpha" means? For some it means being physically intimidating, for others they think it means being socially dominant. For HVW, it means being a provider and protector.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:23 AM
83

"SIMP!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:19 AM
16

Getting mad after not getting what you want, after YOU ruined everything. That is completely your fault. That shows me I'd never want you because you are a man-child. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:15 AM
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It the type of men who were coddled by their moms and had a father who didn't teach them anything. Oh well, not my fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:12 AM
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"I easily outshine 90% of the scrotes every day." That was incredibly satisfying to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:01 AM
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Real high value men are very positive and ambitious. So, the opposite of Reddit? lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:47 AM
13

In a day and age where there are TONS of free resources to learn how to emotionally develop and communicate, it's not a woman's job to provide these resources nor take the place of them. I'm not a therapist, stripper, chef, mom....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:42 AM
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Interesting how it was fine for him to literally bully you and manipulate you. But, it's not okay for you to defend yourself. Just wow, you deserve better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:39 AM
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Men get scared of "talks" because they always try to depersonalize everything! It's always jokes upon jokes and sarcasm. They severely lack emotional intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:38 AM
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People who fiercely defend the 50/50 mindset do not understand the truth of how much of a scam it is. How is it 50/50 when the woman ends up doing most of the housework, cooking, and child-rearing? Also notice how these so called "feminists" will never speak on how degrading porn is. Instead they defend it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:35 AM
8

That's why so many women love Kevin Samuels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:33 AM
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The key is to not over-explain. Let your words be final, no ifs, ands, or buts. You don't need to defend truth. It's important for women to take closure in the fact that the toxic person did not care about them enough to respect them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:30 AM
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What happened to you really disturbed me. I wish I could go back in time and protect you from that encounter but I cannot. I wish I could give you some kind of closure or healing but I cannot. I am so incredibly sorry that happened to you. You are a valuable human being that deserves to be treated with the utmost respect at ALL times. I am from a religious background myself. Don't ever let the world shame you for wanting to wait until marriage. That is not their call to make. Funny how perverted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:46 AM
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This is 100% true and it's so important for women understand, the earlier the better. I don't owe anyone a smile, kindness, or second chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:26 AM
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To me if someone's obsessed with some kind of ambiguous hierarchy that's a sign of incredible insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:20 AM
4

This is why I don't have male friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:40 PM
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Not giving a rats rear end about how an older pervert thinks or feels. Older men KNOW that it's morally wrong to date a teenager but they try anyway because women their age see past their crap. Be firm and don't be friendly with them. They perceive friendly and polite as flirting. I've threatened to report people and felt no shame. Don't like me? Now I'm a bitch? good. Predators deserve punishment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:55 PM
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Sometimes people with disabilities are spoiled because everything is handed to them but they don't learn boundaries. Frankly I don't care if someone's disabled, my boundaries are still my boundaries. If I feel like someone is trying their luck I would take immediate action before things get out of hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:19 AM
3

So much of modern music showcases this mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:14 AM
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I cannot stress this enough, there are TONS of free resources out there people can take advantage of in order to level up. It is not a woman's responsibility to provide these resources or take the place of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:09 AM
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"But it takes time to find a job you should be more understanding!!" So don't ask me out. You're not ready for a relationship. Why should I play build-a-man workshop?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:04 AM
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It all depends on the individual and how they were raised. I just meant generally, hispanic cultures have machismo embedded within them. But that doesn't mean I haven't met exceptional men from all backgrounds. I'd have to know more to make a conclusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:25 PM
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"There are men out here sharing infographics about how not to spook women walking home who are going to jerk off later to ‘teen slut gets choked slapped and spit on by 12 men in brutal gangbang’ and absolutely not see any connection with the two." Spot on! Utter hypocrasy. Any man who watches pornography actively supports violence against girls and women. The pornography industry generates $12 billion dollars in annual revenue - larger than the combined annual revenues of ABC, NBC, and CBS. Of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:51 AM
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I promise you that good men are out there. Don't give up on what you want because the world is going down a toilet. There are still diamonds among piles of coal. But you are going to have to be patient and vet very carefully. In the hispanic community men are catered to and feel like they don't have to contribute as much as the woman. In general many communities also have this issue. They are catered too, have absent fathers, and grow up watching porn. Broken men create broken men. Pickme's of a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:50 AM
28

Love the encouragement to continue being ruthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:03 PM
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The truth is that libfem ideology doesn't see the gaping holes in itself. It blindly shouts falsities about fairness and justice when it's the exact opposite. Fun fact, so many Hollywood celebrities who pride themselves on being liberal feminists, have the most messed up relationships. Many cultures that carry more FDS principles within it make a mockery of the people in the United States, who put libfem ideology on a pedestal. The large amount of people who worship at the alter of libfem ideolo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:59 PM
51

The trick is to not to respond and block immediately. You win ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:37 AM
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I don't waste my time looking at those subs. I'm focused on the level up instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:36 AM
5

That sounds amazing! I'm so happy for you. If you don't mind me asking, where did you two meet? I got write some notes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:05 PM
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Do you mind if I ask why you chose the scrote over the HVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:58 AM
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Dominique, if you don't like FDS that's fine! Go marry a regular man who watches porn every now and then, and lets you make all the major decisions in the relationship. Have a fun. Enjoy your 50/50 relationship. But what you don't have the right to do is shame me for having higher standards for myself and my partner, and enjoying a private community where I can feel safe speaking about my level up journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:43 AM
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I'm so happy this was written. We have a right to express our anger about the ways men treat women. This doesn't mean that we hate men or think that all men are evil. Obviously there are many great men out there. However, we have a right to call out the double standards in society and the fact that women are told to accept so little. We have the right to disagree with the 50/50 mindset that is pushed by modern feminism. Additionally, pornography has caused so many men to become completely delusi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:30 AM
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You aren't his mommy. It's not your job to raise a man. How can he be with you if he doesn't have his life together? How is he supposed to protect and provide for your future family? Those are all the characteristics of a LOW VALUE MAN not a HVM. End of story. The handbook mentions vetting carefully multiple times. But I want to dig deeper for a second. Why do you feel like you only deserve the bare minimum?
/r/askFDS10/03/21 11:15 AM
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Hello! I highly recommend this instagram account: https://www.instagram.com/hypergamyher/ Hypergamyher is a 28 year old woman who worked in finance right out of college before meeting and marrying a HVM worth 50 million. Her advice is thorough, clear, and nuanced. She often elaborates the what it takes to live a fulfilling life, what being HV truly means, how to surround yourself with HV people, as well as how to navigate other areas of life. Her insta stories are where many of her gems are at. …
/r/askFDS10/03/21 10:56 AM
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Words cannot explain how angry I am at him. I'm sorry you had to endure that. You were literally a child! You deserve, and always will deserve, the very best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:27 AM
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I agree. I think OP should also be careful because ALOT of people misunderstand (sometimes purposefully) the core values of FDS.
/r/askFDS10/03/21 05:35 AM
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"I am an honest, God fearing man" Oh really? satan said the same thing. Don't you dare bring God into this. "judge a tree by it's fruits"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:12 AM
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PickHEisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:20 PM
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I understand that it must have been very traumatizing and emotional to endure all that you have over the past years. Don't be too hard on yourself, because every lesson learned can be utilized and applied to future decision-making, therefore, nothing is a loss and nothing is set in stone. You aren't a failure and you deserve love. God loves you too :) "...I suppose it will come when I am most secure in myself and my station in life." I completely agree with this statement. It doesn't mean that t…
/r/askFDS04/03/21 05:26 PM
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Red Flags: - Irrational career decisions - Emotionally unavailable - Only refers to you has a friend even after he got you pregnant - Gets praised for doing the bare minimum - You forgive toxic behavior at your own expense ​ Moments where I was rolling my eyes while reading this: "Not to mention the emotionally distance is really crazy. We can have such a great time together when emotions are not involved and times aren’t tough; but he seems to completely shut down when it comes time to discuss …
/r/askFDS03/03/21 11:21 PM
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The whole reason why so many women say "we don't need men" is because men failed to step up in the first place. They failed to protect, provide, and lead with integrity. Women were tired of being abused so feminism started to flourish as a means of protecting women. But of course, it's always the woman's fault. Talk about a circle jerk. Is it really a woman's fault that they have low self esteem and are unmotivated? Because the last time I checked, there's an abundance of free resources out ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:56 PM
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I personally want to see more women push themselves to grow. I would never make fun of someone for what they're going through but it feel like people could have a lot of their questions answered by just following the handbook. I want to see more nuanced questions instead of things like: The guy I went out with exhibits every single red flag mentioned in the handbook but he said he's looking for something serious. That's a good sign right? My friends are low value and are super negative but is it…
/r/askFDS03/03/21 09:16 PM
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Because they choose to be stagnant in life. There are tons of resources and self-help material out there. No excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:41 PM
13

That proves that women not only bring something "to the table," but that what we bring is deeply desired by men and is absolutely priceless. Enough said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:40 PM
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Let's be real. Reddit is basically a cesspool of low value men. I mean seriously, they constantly post sexually explicit material, spend all day on Reddit, and are extremely negative and unambitious. Pretty much sums it up right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:30 PM
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I respect women who want children but I'm so passionate about being childfree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:27 PM
49

I've finally gotten the flexible work thing figured out, but Jared and Kyle in my DMs are addicted to porn, underemployed, and disrespectful sending me texts about "wanna come watch a movie?" or "wanna fuck?" Okay I could not stop laughing at that. Freaking Jared and Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:21 PM
45

Now that's queen mentality right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:46 AM
28

Exactly. What is empowering about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:41 AM
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He doesn't want sexualization of minors yet "barley legal teen" is a popular porn category. Pornography promotes the degradation of women and violence towards women. Only a fool would ever say it's empowering. What a complete and utter lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:41 AM
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They'll also be lining up for the opportunity to shame other women for not doing the same. They'll do it in front of men of course, so they can get those extra pickme points. ;) https://i.redd.it/ptedof4j9sb11.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:22 AM
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Women can see a man and decide whether he is going to be a friend or a romantic interest- only two categories. Men only think, "Yeah she's cute and interested in me, therefore I want to be her friend." For them it doesn't make sense to befriend a woman they wouldn't want something more from. Men want friendships that develop into something else. They will try to convince you that they're really interested in being your friend because they're too scared or too lazy to ask you out like a real HVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:11 AM
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Stay alert, wedding ring or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:47 AM
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I watched it. Absolutely heartbreaking. These were real people with dreams and aspirations just like anyone else. Someone's daughter, someone's sister. Young women should never have to feel afraid. Governments in Latin countries have failed their people so gangs dominate the land like savages. The gang violence in hispanic countries ruined the chances of safety and success for every single citizen. Gangs feed off of machismo culture embedded deep within hispanic culture. Many hispanic men think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:06 AM
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I'm so sorry you feel this way and wish that I could somehow help you see that your value simply does not diminish with age. One determines their own value simply believing that their worth is priceless. However, I can only imagine how difficult it is for someone with trauma to believe in their worth when so much healing needs to take place first. God loves you more than you can imagine. Trauma is something that not all therapists can solve. I've heard many of my favorite Youtubers discuss their…
/r/askFDS25/02/21 02:19 PM
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Example of how men allow pornography to ruin them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:08 PM
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That's an incredibly disgusting and disappointing story. When in a dangerous circumstance, older women need to protect other young women not exploit them or allow them to be in harms way. I'm very happy your sister was not physically harmed although that was definitely a traumatic experience. Wow, just at 15 too. I would cut my aunt off after that. I don't suffer fools. When I was 17 someone grabbed my waist at Mcdonalds. I was helping a customer so I didn't see who did it. There needs to be a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:25 AM
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I don't feel sorry for them, they chose that life. However, I am also not going to go out of my way to bully them. I take their cases as more of a cautionary tale. What I don't like is how many pickme's advocate for 50/50 relationships and end up teaching their daughters to have the same mindset only for them to fall back into that cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:05 AM
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It's okay, you don't have to give her the benefit of the doubt. That doesn't mean you want people to bully her or anything. This just isn't Queen ish. Simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:42 AM
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Vet your friends just as viciously as potential partners. That story was heartbreaking to read. They could've been sold into trafficking for all we know. However, it did serve as a cautionary tale. A bad friend can ruin your life and stop you from every fulfilling your level up journey. I also have to agree with what you said about male friends. Every single one I've had has tried to sexualize me at some point in the friendship. That's why I do not have male friends anymore. There was also a pos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:23 AM
21

"I'm just a shitty person" Okay so why are you talking to me? Why are you here? Why should I waste my time on you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:16 AM
10

Add pornography to the list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:33 AM
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"You only either let a HVM into your life, or you stand alone, beautiful and unobtainable." The great thing about knowing your value is that you yourself assign how much you're worth. You determine the number. I'm so happy you had a HV bestie to remind you of your worth. Goes to show how paramount having a positive friend is in order to level up. This whole post was wonderfully written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:20 AM
1

Anything for a HV sis :)
/r/askFDS23/02/21 01:49 AM
26

"Treat someone how you want to be treated" - a kindergarten teacher
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:41 AM
29

Many men are terrible and low value by choice. However, there are good men out there. I've seen how good men with values treat their wives and it's incredibly refreshing from the usual 50/50 relationships. I believe there's one out there for you too. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:37 AM
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I think it's pornography that has led women to be see as un-human. Pornography promotes the degradation of women, and young boys get addicted to it. They grow up being comfortable with dehumanizing women among themselves, that's why Reddit is a cesspool for the over-sexualization of women. Anything a woman does is seen as sexual now. Eat a banana, sexual. Yawn, sexual. Stretch, now you're showing off your body. Wear jeans, now you're showing off your butt. Porn has ruined generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:29 AM
25

Please stop with the LV mindset and level up.
/r/askFDS23/02/21 01:25 AM
11

Wow I never thought of this before. Pubescent boys grow up to be scrotes without a HV father. I saw this to be especially true with Hispanic boys. Source: am hispanic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:14 AM
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Trust me, these guys need a spiritual surgery before physical improvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:10 AM
9

I am so sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:48 AM
12

Vetting friends too! Look at what OPs friend tried to convince her of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:25 AM
12

"I at first attributed this to social anxiety and tried to overlook it." It's not my responsibility to help you be confident. It's not my responsibility to help you grow, improve, and love yourself. There's are TONS of free resources out there like inspirational videos, therapist pages on instagram, and other self-help content. Most men don't take advantage of those resources. I'm polite because I'm classy, not because I'm your cheerleader. I advise you to make a list of non-negotiable character…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:24 AM
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The kind of internal work a man has to do to become a " full set" and become worthy of a woman is huge, which is why most of them don't ever bother. Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:13 AM
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Wendy was spot on about that! Goes to further prove that 50/50 doesn't work in love. We women have so much love to give and we desire to be appreciated. When a man pursues us more than we pursue him, we don't want to manipulate him, we want to love him. His desire to be respected is fulfilled and our desire to be cared for is fulfilled. We want to feel safe to love. But first he has to provide that environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:11 AM
5

First, understand that it's a process. When I see someone that has something I want, I think, "okay she has that. But does she have it in the way I want it? Do I really want every part of her life? The truth is that I don't want every part. The truth is I have my own gifts and strengths and I will never be able to replicate her gifts and stregnths. That's a good thing because I can do (or look like) something else that's completely unique." Get very specific in order to get out of your own head.…
/r/askFDS22/02/21 10:55 AM
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Hypergamyher has some of the wisest advice I've ever read. I trust her advice because she actually married a man worth 50 million. She's kind as well and sometimes posts "Starbucks on me" and she'll put a code on her story that everyone can use for a free drink. She'll also do coaching session for around $200 if her schedule is clear but she's usually busy helping her husband run his companies.
/r/askFDS21/02/21 04:11 AM
3

"lol at firing him. Yes he has a job, but he seems very uninterested in it. I thought it's fine, bc everyone has trouble at certain jobs. But I realized I'm making excuses for him. So you're right, I'm not being authentic to myself in this situationship at all." I encourage you to figure out very specific standards that you do not settle for. I keep recommending this instagram account, but it's only because I've gotten so much out of it. She expands on specifics. For example, let's say you want …
/r/askFDS20/02/21 11:51 PM
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I've never heard of a HVW settle for "ok."
/r/askFDS20/02/21 11:49 PM
3

Agreed. Trusting your gut isn't supposed to be "fair." If the situation or person doesn't live up to your standards then it's time to move on.
/r/askFDS20/02/21 11:49 PM
2

The news of Ravi greatly upset me for many reasons. The women were fired from their jobs for reporting their abuse. No one from the church spoke up until the recent investigation. Certain things that need to start happening in the Chruch (number 2 is unrelated to Ravi's news): The church needs to stop putting leaders on a pedestal. They need to be held accountable to the fullest extent. Mob mentality is a seriously damaging, prevalent issue in the church. The church needs to stop teaching women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:31 PM
5

She discusses this https://www.instagram.com/hypergamyher/
/r/askFDS20/02/21 07:47 PM
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And that's exactly why I refuse to be shamed for my standards.
/r/askFDS20/02/21 07:26 PM
15

I do not have male friends because many cannot be trusted in the long-term. In my personal experience, I've had male friends who seem chill to try to low-key sexualize me at some point eventually and I have to cut them off. If a male friend doesn't do that, I find them to just generally encourage my masculine side because naturally, it's hard for men to be in touch with their emotions. I've found it MUCH more beneficial to ME to befriend other HVW. I have male associates. Older men who are of go…
/r/askFDS19/02/21 07:45 PM
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