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| 16 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.This makes me feel hopeless for finding a HVM. You mean that this man played the long game for 30 years. Admits that the girlfriend he was passionately in love with was toxic and his wife was ‘better’ and he still is not in ‘love’ with her? I’m over dating. I wonder if the wife knows or what her feelings are about the matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 11 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.Well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How police officers cheat and vetting strategies to get the truth.I was going to jump in to say just that. Definitely has been shown to be a high correlation of abusers among men in law enforcement and military. Unfortunate, but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 133 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.POC woman here. This is absolutely rampant in the black community. The behaviors, disrespect, and blatant abuse we have tolerated to keep a man or a father figure in our lives is sickening. There is definitely a transactional aspect with echoes of pimp culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:31 PM |
| 350 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯This one sounds as sharp as a marble. Completely hopeless and can’t leave well enough alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 20 | Something icky to laugh about tonight. We were talking about planting grass for our cats and ofc he had to make it gross and awkward. My intuition was telling me from the start he was weird, but societal gaslighting told me to give him a chance merely bc he was giving me attention 🤷♀️. Blocked.He is so gross. Why are men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:48 AM |
| 7 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.How much do you want to bet that this isn’t the first red flag he’s thrown her way. Disgusting and I hope she divorced him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementWow I am just learning this. I’m not a fan of ASAP Rocky - not his music or his anti-POC statements he’s made in the past but I wish her the best of luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 05:17 PM |
| 79 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?Imagine thinking that it’s okay to put up with this for 8 years!. I feel terrible for this woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 08:24 AM |
| 122 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?This irks me so much. I dated a Hotep who did that when I was younger and I couldn’t understand why it irked me so much. I get it now lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 08:39 PM |
| 16 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.I’m glad that you are raising your sons to recognize this behavior. So important to teach the next generation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags.Well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 12:14 AM |
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