| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 38 | Stop putting the man on the pedestal - sit on it YOURSELF.People value what they have to work for. It’s that simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/22 04:52 AM |
| 28 | I am just so... disappointedThis might be my favorite post I’ve ever read here. I’m so proud of you. I’m also so sorry for the pain. Those first few magic months… and then… it must have been so crushing. You did the right thing. You are so very strong!! And so smart, and unfortunately so RIGHT. Personally I am uncomfortable with just plain gratuitous female nudity in a movie (like, why? Just so men can provide other men an image to think about that night, without him having to say he watched porn?) so I can totally totally… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:07 AM |
| 80 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Guurl I felt just like Cruella DeVille reading that shit, too!!! Hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 07:20 PM |
| 42 | Self-aware guy realizes he doesn't take debate seriously when he perceives the person to be a woman.Sucks. Even here on Reddit my profile name and pic are of a man - an ugly, gross man - exactly because I know that being perceived as male will save me a ton of headache overall. It really does suck though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 06:58 PM |
| 113 | Seriously, what a QueenYes!! Or the opposite - the Ex shows up and embarrasses you! My Queen of a friend got pregnant by some young LVM when she was 14. He disappeared, she raised her daughter alone (with help from family) and lo and behold he reappears when Daughter is grown. Shows up at Daughter’s wedding, embarrassing my friend to death with his long scraggly beard, looking decades older than his age due to self-induced depravities. Now -my friend was surrounded by friends, her adoring 10-years younger husband, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 87 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?WOW. This makes me wonder if thousands of years of women dying from “child birth complications” weren’t really just infections caused by dirty peepees forced on the women too soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:09 PM |
| 31 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?Omg. This was my last marriage, start to finish. Good thing I’m online as we speak buying fitted, tight shirts for Christmas for my new HVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Car mechanics need to respect professional boundariesIs there a rule on Reddit for doxxing or something. I’d love to know where this is, please dm me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:17 AM |
| 18 | I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag."You can't create an HVM" - how I wish I knew this years ago!! How true it is - and how much time I wasted trying to talk and talk my ex into being a better man. He would nod, agree - and go right back on doing exactly as he pleased, with zero concern for my feelings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:18 PM |
| 6 | I am dying, girls.I read every single comment here and laughed out loud. Wish you ladies were around me in real life 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | The uglies always have the most to say 🤡So true! Haha I finally have a man who is hot (I'm hot too check out my profile pic ;-) but I used to have a hardcore Ugly (I thought he would be super sweet and appreciate me (I WAS WRONG BISH)) - my hot man is such a good person. Seriously he's not bitter at all❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:37 AM |
| 94 | I like good abs and I can not lie...You are absolutely right. ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. An unattractive man does not have a kind personality by default! They can and often are just as ugly inside. I thought I was giving my ugly ex a chance.I actually thought he'd value me and feel lucky to hsve me. Turns out years of being unable to get a girl made him a porn addict. He charmed me with a nice guy facade and I learned too late that he fit every LVM trait possible (lying, alcoholism, porn addiction, gambling, gaslighting) I finally divorced… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenAmen sister. And now that you mention it- I ‘ve always thought the words to the song “I Am The Highway” should go on my tombstone. Very fitting for all FDSers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:48 AM |
| 19 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenGod, I love us. There’s never been a mindset I agreed with more. THANK YOU FDS. Until I was here I didn’t know others like me - truly like me - existed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:22 AM |
| 6 | I guess if you’re going to act like a doormat, you might as well beg your boyfriend to propose to you on one.Oh helll no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:19 AM |
| 57 | Shut down an LVM at work who tried to treat me like his personal secretaryFabulous! Exactly what needs to happen to this type of person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:04 AM |
| 45 | Never let them get comfortable!My overweight, bald, redheaded ex-husband would respond “I said No!” with a wink and a snicker whenever people asked why our children were born 11 months apart. Wrong. The correct answer was because he had sex with me in my sleep while I was absolutely exhausted from a 2-month old I was breastfeeding multiple times nightly. I am much better-looking than him [- I had deluded myself into believing a LVM would be so grateful to have me that he would never treat me poorly ] and he thought it was ‘hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingFor the record, I am a woman, with a lot of women friends, and NOT ONCE have I EVER had a friend say that they wished a man were more Extroverted/ cocky/ funny. In my true-life experience, only comedians believe women want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOUSING IT, BROTHER!!! You hit the nail on the head!!! As a woman, in my past marriage, the sex started out fine. But years of lying, alcoholism, finding pics of strange women on his phone, and so many things that caused disappointment and dissatisfaction (for a fun example, he decided that soap was a scam and only water was necessary in a shower) , I began to freeze up when he touched me. Sex became a chore, which he was quick to try to embarrass me in front of friends or at parties about - trying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 12:26 AM |
| 10 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupI love this sub. So much good advice. I wish I’d been here 12 years ago when I met my ex-husband; maybe I would’ve seen the signs - all described here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:21 AM |
| 8 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!One bit of advice I’d like to add here is that guys do need to really, REALLY understand the difference between confident and cocky, and the difference between assertive and coercive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 4 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!My God this is the first time I’ve ever felt like buying an award | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:10 AM |
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