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I so wish I could sleep like that! But I have sleep apnea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:31 PM
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This is like the second time I've seen this comment, and honestly, I am loving it. The proper response to all this BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:40 PM
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Reading about Unit 731 was disturbing as well. What pisses me off is the Japanese government constant denial over the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:38 PM
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Absolute denial, they refuse to teach it in their school and have begrudgingly apologized to the women who were used as "comfort women" one of the huge reasons of my dislike of former PM Shinzo Abe was his constant denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:35 PM
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I think the Rape of Nanking was worse for me to read about out of all the things I've read. It's frustrating to me how much the Nazis were/are hated (as they should be for all the disturbing things they did) but not much hate there is for the Japanese for all the war crimes and massacres that they committed. If anyone has any interest to read about this subject, there is a book about this subject by Iris Chang who apparently died by suicide after publishing the book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:59 AM
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It's frustrating how men who try to stop or help are shunned or even killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 11:38 PM
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If anyone wants to know more about this, please check out the channel "Disturban History" on YouTube and of course, trigger warnings. From what I've read, only 3 servicemen tried to halt the massacre and rapes and tried to hide victims and they were shunned and were even considered traitors until 30 years later. Such an awful, disturbing thing to do to innocent women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:09 PM
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No man wants me? Please tell that to my ex who keeps bothering me years after breaking up with me, because I have a nice house in my name, nice car and make great money. Please tell him to leave me the fuck alone! I would be happy if men would leave me alone, but the older I get, the more men seem to pay attention. Edit: And don't get me started on the women who have sons my age, and if their son is single, they start to focus on me to talk to their son or hint that I should give their son a cha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:47 AM
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I don't wear makeup, at all (I just never saw a need for it, but if people want to wear it, more power to them) but I have seen how differently women are treated when wearing makeup. I used to work in retail and the amount of nicer customers the girls and women who wore makeup would get was astounding. The sexist store director himself said that prettier girls should be hired, girls who take care of themselves and apply makeup to attract more customers. Oh, and by me saying that I never saw a ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:42 AM
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One of my first thoughts, besides what the fuck is wrong with that disgusting man, was "is their son actually his?" I know that in a marriage, regardless of who the baby's father is, he is considered the dad; but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:36 AM
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Oh no, sorry I wasn't aiming that at you, more at people who really do think that sumo wrestlers aren't athletic. I just saw your comment and wanted to rant a bit because I know many are ill informed. I'm sure the people going after a woman will say"eww gross, unhealthy" those women are absolute units!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:26 PM
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Sumo wrestlers put in the hours of working out, that's their only job, just practice, eat and sleep. I am fan of sumo wrestling, it's a nice tradition, and it's annoying when people think that they are just fat and lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:21 PM
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Good, I wish more people would be ashamed of their sons and help their daughter in law out, instead of blaming the ex wife or pleading with her to take their crusty son back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:09 PM
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I love her! I have the confidence but I do not have the witty retorts at the ready, unless I am high, which onnly happens like every few months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:03 AM
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It is so sad that China (and India) seem to hate their women so much, yes women do seem to be hated everywhere but not to that extent. Both countries are notorious for sex selective abortions, though in China it seems to be biting them in the ass now since there are so many more men than women and the women can demand a lot for their dowry though it seems like there is now a price cap which honestly is bullshit. Sorry for the rant, I just hate how women and girls are treated in those countries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:52 AM
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Yes there are a lot of Chinese women who have been leveling up, but from what I've seen, it seems to be more common in the city not as much in rural areas. I also hope that Chinese women end up changing their country, but seems like it will take a while lot to do that due to how patriarchal it is and also how awful their censorship is due to the CCP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:45 AM
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Maybe trafficked, there is so many more men than women in China (due to the old one child policy and people favoring boy to girls) that many either kidnap fellow Chinese women or they traffic women from neighboring, poorer, countries such as Laos and take away their passports so that they can't escape. It's despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:14 PM
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There isn't a lot of comments like this, and it needs to be said that while yes, it is truly awful that he was sleeping with the mom, when did it start? She's known him since he was at least 15, if not younger and has she been grooming him since then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:45 PM
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I just wonder how long she has known him for, if she's been a children's pastor for a while, she might have known him since he was a little boy. I hope they asked any current children if she's been inappropriate with them (though I hope she hasn't)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:42 PM
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Pickme extreme, but also potentially, a pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:37 PM
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Like how could she "seduce" a child? 18 is still a child and she had known him since he was 15, maybe even younger! That's so disturbing! It's not all the mom's fault of course but, what a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:52 PM
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six a half years and he is still bothering you?! god, I hope my ex doesn't keep bothering me for that long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:40 AM
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What the fuck, whatever I was expecting, I wasn't expecting this. I am glad to hear that his dad was trying to help and warned you about him, ,and also that the landlord was in on it. Has he tried to contact you lately? I'm sorry if he has!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:17 AM
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His own father and brother helped get rid of him? Wow. Some props to them I guess, but its amazing that they don't leave on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:43 PM
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What was that act of god?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:35 PM
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I love her videos, she's hilarious, and it's true don't humble yourself. Rather be alone than with someone mediocre
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:24 AM
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So much drunken rambling. Haha he thought you didn't have a huge friend group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:44 AM
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Yup, I liked some coworkers but not enough for them to drop by my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:44 AM
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Are they really just coworkers and work friends? Seems like they're closer friends than he is letting on, but doesn't want to admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:52 AM
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Spill, what did he write?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:35 PM
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Oh my god, what the fuck, how is a man who watches vile shit like that an "amazing" man. I don't know how some women can defend a piece of shit who preys upon the most defenseless people. That is an evil, evil man. Don't care if the other things he does are amazing and nice, if he watches or looks for that type of content, he's scum, the lowest of the low. I hate pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:36 AM
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Of course. I hope he doesn't touch one cent of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:18 PM
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Love the advice. I'm curious, why is a guy eyeballing your 401k?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:54 PM
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Haha, why both your names on it, using your cash when he hadn't even proposed?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:32 AM
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Apparently a man who has sex with married women, who are allowed by their partner to have sex with other men while the partner watches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:20 PM
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I think, since he says he was a "bull" (ugh, I hate typing that out) hot wives means women who are married but are allowed to have sex with other men. Vixens, yeah I don't know, I've only ever heard the term "music video vixen" back in the day. Edit: quotation marks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:38 AM
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Like force you to babysit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:00 PM
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Right? Like you could absolutely dislike a fellow woman, but if she comes to you scared and obviously under the influence and asks you to help, you help her! Being a good person is being able to put away discomfort or a dislike for someone to help them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:13 AM
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I do not care how pissed off you are, if a woman tells someone that she doesn't feel safe, you put away that anger and walk her the fuck home and drop her off safely. I hope he feels guilty for the rest of his life, I hope it hits him even harder if he ever has a daughter (not that he should have kids, since he is a terrible piece of shit, and also not saying that any girl/woman deserves to have anything to them) since apparently men seem to view women as human when they have a daughter. I hope …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:26 AM
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They all needed a governess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:09 AM
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Ugh yeah, poor Lydia deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:19 AM
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Oh I love her channel, I really like Pride and Prejudice so it's cool having her explain some things that have become lost by time. Wickham was just an awful man, trying to force a 15 year old Georgiana to marry him, him being around 11 years older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:15 AM
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Oh me too, I bet it would be very, very low. My ex saw that I started earning more, bought a house and car and started taking meds for the clinical depression and he was hinting, then telling me, then begging me to get back together. Even saying that we should get married so he could have somewhere to live and I could get citizenship I was like ummm no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:09 PM
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Oh my ex! Dumped me because I was "too depressed" he really dumped me because he finally had a car, had a better job and finally had some "good friends" to hang out with. Then he lost that job, along with the friends who just hung out with him because they were coworkers and he tried to get back together. He still messages me, five years after breaking up with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:41 PM
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I bet! I don't plan on ever having kids, but I imagine that I would be super aware and wary of any man regardless of wether the child were a girl or boy, there's disgusting people everywhere and I wouldn't want to risk it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:57 AM
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What the fuck was my first thought, that is such a vile thing to do, I am so glad he is in prison and should have gotten life to be honest. I hate that our people are still stuck in their machista ways. So much sexual assault that goes on with relatives and family friends, it's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:56 AM
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Dear lord, this is fucking gross. My mom, despite her faults, refused to date (and still refuses more than 20 years after my father's death) because she was always wary of men and me being so young. I remember she would talk to some guys, but when all they would want is just sex (which they didn't explicitly say, just in double entendre which is super common in Mexican Spanish) she would immediately shut that shit down, and then warn them that if they ever even tried to flirt with me, a child, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:48 PM
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Shame?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:40 PM
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A whole month away from chores?! What the fuck? I would excuse that if he broke something not for a stupid video game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:37 PM
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Ohh could you please elaborate more on how they killed her? I keep hearing that British people really do think she was murdered, and as someone raised in the US, I would like to know why. I'll take a post or a pm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:50 AM
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They're fundamentalists, divorce is very frowned upon, though it does happen. I can see him cheating though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:45 AM
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Well of course many don't seem disturbed by the age difference and the fact that the girl, is a, well, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:38 AM
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I'm already perturbed by the movie, can't imagine reading the book and knowing that it's a semi autobiography is just ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:38 AM
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Awful movie, the girl is supposed to be 15 and her "love interest" is in his 30's. NOPE! And Tony Leung kai fai (not to be confused with Tony Leung Chiu wai) is a man with awful political views. Sorry, I just got caught up in how bad that movie is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:56 AM
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If he does live up to it, props to him!! Celebrities should take a break from acting or singing and focus on their kids after their spouse passes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:20 AM
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He reminds me of my rooster, Yamamoto, he's such a gentleman to our three hens. He will call them all to breakfast/lunch/dinner and either drop the food off near their feet or just straight up feed it to them. He runs from one side of the garden to the other whenever the hens call him because he likes to pay special attention to all of them. My male dove is the same way with his mate. Last year my lady dove wasn't feeling too good, you could even tell by the look of her face that she seemed so s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:18 AM
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Like a year after I think, which is way too soon. The only male celebrities who seemed to not get remarried after their wife passing is Rick Moranis and Liam Neeson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:56 AM
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I am so glad she got away from him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:17 PM
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WTF! I am so glad she terminated the pregnancy, he thought he had her on lock and could start being shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:37 PM
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I need to start saving up for some pieces. I have two Kitchenaids, but no good pans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:16 PM
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Le Creuset 😩 I need someone to gift me Le Creuset pans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:29 PM
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I remember watching it when it came out in theaters, and I have loved it since! Queen Latifah's character just comes out of her shell and does whatever she wants. LL Cool J is in it but not much and she doesn't go chasing after him, he goes after her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:35 PM
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I like Last Holiday, not really a Christmas movie, but takes place during the Christmas season. Stars Queen Latifah, hardworking woman finds out she has a rare disease and has a few months to live, so she blows her money on a nice vacation where she is a boss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:41 AM
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Seeing that scramble is always hilarious to me!!! Did he manage to find anything? Like do it yourself, and don't wait until the very last moment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:35 AM
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Oh sounds like my ex. He was horrible at giving gifts to me, refused to buy me a cake for my birthday even though I baked him cakes because I am a baker. He would brag about the gorgeous, expensive cakes he used to get for his ex though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:21 AM
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Some of those friends close to the family did try, back in 2006 when the Duggars were to appear in Oprah's show, Oprah got a letter from an anonymous source detailing the allegations of Josh towards his sisters; Oprah canceled their appearance and the proper authorities were contacted. Another person, Bobye Holt, who was a witness in the trial, and whose daughter was "betrothed" to Josh Duggar when they were in their mid teens, and her husband were told of what he did to his sisters (she and her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:08 AM
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I keep seeing the words "forcibly injected" in some articles (mostly from trash websites) and if it's true, damn it's even more horrible since some ladies here have been warning others of the same thing. It is awful that this young lady was murdered and I hope, hope, hope those responsible are found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:43 PM
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Wow, how did he reply when you mentioned that he didn't support you? I had an ex who, after I told him that he should be understanding of something like I was understand of his problem, said "but it's completely different!!" Even though what he did was way worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:46 PM
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Donna Noble, in the beginning was a pickme, she basically begged Lance to get engaged. She was a very great person towards the end, I loved her relationship with the Doctor. I cried when he had to wipe her memory though. I loved Martha Jones, I never got the hate towards that character. Sure, she did have a crush on the doctor but she cared about herself and her family even telling the Doctor "I'll do what I like" and leaving on her own terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:08 PM
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I /can't/ believe men actually believe that they get better with age. No. I'm 31, I should lose a few pounds for my health, but my face still is wrinkle free and glows. I see men my age and they just look so much older, younger men look better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:04 PM
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If I am in a long term relationship, I absolutely LOVE giving them. My ex was not the best, but the sex was pretty good, and he also loved going down on me. I would love getting high on edibles and being able to giving him a blowjob because I wouldn't gag (he was well endowed) and it was more pleasurable for me seeing how much he loved it. If it were to be a random guy, no thank you. If it were to be a guy who didn't like going down on me, no thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:14 AM
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The audacity to want to get with you just for your income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:58 PM
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Every time you spent money on yourself?! Why?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:17 PM
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I love Mira Sorvino, she seems so intelligent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:31 AM
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Those are comfy! I now want to knit socks and buy already knitted merino socks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:56 PM
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Right? I mean I would buy me other stuff, but I could never say no to socks. I would especially love to get some merino wool socks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:43 PM
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Oh I remember seeing this video almost 10 years ago, it's good to go back and watch it again. I used to constantly crave being with someone in my early 20's, but I am in love with my aloneness now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:22 AM
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I have no kids, and I have a mini van, but I am my brother's caregiver and I driver him around to school and appointments. My mom and aunts like to get together so I drive them around and I wanted a car where we could live comfortably. I like the space. Though I am childfree and wouldn't be using my car for some guys kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:51 PM
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Patton Oswald seems cool enough, but him getting engaged just a year and three months after his first wife died just seems iffy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:19 PM
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I love BigBang and the whole Seungri scandal just hit me a bit hard. I still listen to their music but don't find it as enjoyable as I used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:55 AM
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I think that if River Phoenix hadn't died, Leo wouldn't have been as famous. River was a better actor, in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:17 PM
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Why does he think it's ok to demand all your money?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:26 PM
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Don't do precious Miette like that! I love the reference tbh, if I had a free award I would gladly give it to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:19 PM
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That is just awful, I hope she left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:29 AM
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Do tell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:21 AM
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I love the book and recently re-read that one particular story and seeing it with FDS eyes, I noticed just how damn awful he was for demanding everything be split 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:02 AM
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Losing that much money at the casino is so damn irresponsible. Good for you for not showing him your full paychecks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:00 AM
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Why did he demand to see your paychecks?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:26 PM
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I would have been livid. Back in my clown days, I would buy my ex boyfriend food very frequently and would also lend him money. One time I was asking for the money back because he tends to "forget" and he said "so do you want the money or do you want me to buy us food and pay you back that way". He just used to get fast food and I wouldn't order much so that means that he would order the most food so he would just basically be paying me back like $7 instead of the 20$ he would owe me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:00 AM
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“My alone feels so good, I'll only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude.” ― Warsan Shire Words I live by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:56 AM
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Did he want to get back together since no other woman wanted to be with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:57 PM
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For sports?! It's already surprising enough that he asked her to babysit on Saturdays, but just so he can play sports and continue acting like he doesn't have any kids at all? Men have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:31 AM
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Same about the poor dog. I can hear and see crime photos of adults, it doesn't bother me at all, but even just hearing about any sort of abuse towards animals, the elderly and children, it's just too much for me. Hugs from me to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:27 AM
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Good for her! His maid died, so he wanted to replace her as soon as possible, with probably the easiest option, how pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:22 AM
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It's brilliant, brilliant brilliant, I tell you! Genius, I say!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:22 AM
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Anything weed gives me the most intense and amazing orgasms, either with a partner or just myself, and I agree that it is the greatest thing ever. I am glad someone else also experiences it too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:30 AM
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I'm Mexican myself, I've been exposed to international movies (particularly Asian movies) since I was a little girl, and I have been into Asian men since then. I am attracted to men of all races but Chinese and Korean men just tend to be hotter to me. I never understood why others find Asian men more "feminine" and "less desirable"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:14 PM
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Such a big burden for her to carry! I am glad to hear that she was in therapy last time you talked to her. You see like such a good person to have cared so much for her. I hope you are doing better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:52 PM
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Oh don't worry, didn't really bother me much as it shocked me that the poor girl seemed so nonchalant about it. I'm just curious too, if she had taken you up on your offer, would you have really done it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:22 PM
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Reading the comments on this post fills me with rage, but your comment just made my mind go blank, I didn't know what to think except "what?" That poor girl. I hope she sought help and has been able to heal even a bit, and I hope her father is suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:38 AM
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Do it!!! I am still a bit fond of Godzilla even after 20 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:29 PM
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Wow, sounds like a controlling man, especially with how short a time you were together. Glad you got out of that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:57 AM
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What is it with men and "our finances" when they have no problem getting expensive things for themselves?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:29 PM
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How did he do the breakup? I need to know!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:25 PM
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Why did he think that?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:22 PM
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Love that you used Naruto as the example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:01 AM
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Oh my god, I forgot about the weed part!! This guy would ask to borrow money from me to get more weed, and I being stupid, used to lend him money! My ex was pathetic and I had to point out what I wanted as gifts but he at least never asked for them back, I would have been livid, though he didn't live by himself, he still lived with his parents but in the garage where they made a room for him, with no windows anywhere. My ex would also show up everywhere slightly buzzed too, it was embarrassing g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:31 PM
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Sounds like my ex. Dude was 30+ and still talking about his high school days, how he went to prom on his junior and senior years because he was just that good looking and had girlfriends both years, how mazing high school football was and how he wishes he could still do something like that. He was fit in high school and he started getting fatter as I knew him. I was a loner in high school so at first I was a tiny bit jealous that he had a good time but as time went on I appreciated the fact that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:43 AM
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He is worse than I thought. I am glad you were able to get out of that relationship and level up. You dodged a huge missile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:04 AM
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Well, god damn. I'm just wondering now how he happened to find out you were "political wife material"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:03 PM
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Oh, I love Henry Lau. He's multilingual, musically gifted, a great singer and he's so good looking!! I think I am going to post photos of lots of Korean men next Friday. Edit: I know Henry Lau is Chinese Canadian but I associate him mostly with South Korea because I see him often in Korean variety shows and because of Super Junior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:21 AM
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I remember you writing about this in another post and I am glad to see it again!! How did he not know you were a debutant or that your family was prominent? Did he just not bother knowing anything about you at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:48 AM
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When I read your first comment I was like wait a minute, I know a Samantha jr.!!! They both went by Sam too, I don't know how it didn't get confusing for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:23 AM
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"There's a reason there are no 'Samantha Jr.' little girls running around" Tbh, I do know someone named Samantha who has a daughter my age, who is also named Samantha. They were both pretty interesting (I have nothing nice to say about them so I will leave it at that) and they were my ex's stepmom and half sister. I'm so glad I got away from all of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:12 PM
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A Pokemon. Looks like a giant teddy bear, very big and fat and cuddly, it's constantly eating and napping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:37 AM
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Can you please DM me her Instagram handle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:52 AM
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Only movie I can think of that doesn't portray high school like that is Napoleon Dynamite tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:28 PM
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My special needs brother had a therapist who would come to our house for a few hours, we were all fond of him and thought of him as family, really nice guy. He decided to go back to school to continue get his Master's and we didn't hear from him after a while, then I found out he was in jail for killing his own mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:07 AM
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oh thank god! Sorry, I don't mean to make light of anything either, but I am so glad to hear that you're not being controlled by an abusive POS. I can't believe that he immediately thought about money while you were worrying about your mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:30 AM
41

Oh my god, I am so glad that he is your ex. Did you have a child with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:45 AM
14

Was he working for a catering company or was it at a restaurant he worked at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:44 AM
48

"too many honour killings"? Wow that is just so awful!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:06 PM
31

It's nice seeing someone referring to them as "drone bee"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:15 AM
2

I also saw the "my wife had kids and needs to be tightened up" like eww get a bigger dick then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:12 AM
2

I like Dr. Youn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:02 AM
6

Ooohh, Joel. I hear that name and "church" and all I can think is Joel Osteen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:51 PM
13

They're absolutely awful!! Can't stand the "girl" in Girl Defined, these women are in their 30s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:57 AM
61

Girl, same. Also, Soo-young is so gorgeous! She caught my eye when I first watched SNSD MVs (along with Sunny and Hyo-yeon)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:34 AM
2

Beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:23 AM
5

Oh congratulations! Such a handsome groom. Seriously though, he is gorgeous, I watched a bit of Narcos just to see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:48 AM
43

Don't be the looms, be the yarn. The looms they use are cheap and you can find them at any craft store. The yarn I use for my socks and beanies are 100% merino wool from Uruguay which is hand spun and hand dyed, and it's only yarn for myself (maybe I will make someone a beanie with that yarn but they have to be amazing people) You're that beautiful, soft yarn in pretty colorways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:20 AM
6

a word people used to call someone with an intellectual disability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:22 AM
8

your ex housemate is gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:22 PM
11

Yes! Hail yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:27 AM
43

Right? The first of the seven fundamental tenets is "One should strive to act with compassion and empathy toward all creatures in accordance with reason." Men cheating is not "Satanic behavior" it's men lacking empathy for their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:07 PM
20

Can't believe he is married to Thalia who was/is a gorgeous woman and was also married to Mariah Carrey. Beautiful women with such an ugly man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:20 PM
3

I cuss every time I have to start a small project and have to use DPNs. Knitting with 5 needles is not fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:09 PM
26

I love that the title is "promising young woman" since they tend to say that the rapist is a promising young man, and his life would be ruined by these accusations! fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:42 PM
100

I've been waiting for this movie to premier for almost a year now, I love the trailer and I'm pretty sure the pandemic delayed the premier. I so hate the part where the lady says "I have to give him the benefit of the doubt" like oh my god, take these accusations seriously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:45 AM
9

oh my god, you don't even know you don't work there?! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:53 PM
2

Wow, that is just crazy, I kind of feel bad for the girlfriends tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:45 AM
1

I like Warsan Shire, I have her book of poems. The first quote is just how I really believe, I love being alone way too much, and someone will have to be pretty damn amazing for me to want to stop being alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:15 AM
11

“My alone feels so good, I'll only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude.” “I am a lover without a lover. I am lovely and lonely and I belong deeply to myself.” ​ ― Warsan Shire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:28 AM
7

I'm sorry that happens to you, must be so annoying to have men just focus on the "bisexual" part. I just wanted to ask, if you want to answer, how does the whole work couples approaching you even go, like do they approach you at work? Or outside of work? I am just curious because that just seems so damn disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:13 AM
22

Right? What a gorgeous man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:29 PM
26

Damn. I would be livid if some man demanded that I wrap his nieces and nephews presents using good wrapping paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:27 PM
7

Awwww, you're welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:59 AM
22

Wataten!: An Angel Flew Down to Me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:23 AM
13

Penis in Vagina
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:50 PM
100

This is a wonderful thing he did for his wife and his entire village, but god, I hate the caste system in India. I know they have "abolished" it but of course discrimination still exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:30 PM
4

That sucks that she thinks you have to wear a bra in the comfort of your own home! I don't wear at bra and home and haven't for a few years, at first I thought that my mom and brothers would tell me to wear one, but they don't say anything because it's not their business to stare at my chest and they know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:06 AM
9

Oh my god, thank you for mentioning this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:32 PM
2

He even made you cookies?! cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:42 AM
1

what sort of bicycle do you have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:41 AM
12

Ewww, my condolences. That is just awful, I hope he got slapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:05 PM
16

HAHAHAHAHA!!! I own my own house, so it's MY house. I listen to no man, the only person I seek advice from is my own mother, so I better not meet any man who thinks this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:58 AM
2

Good for you!! I like your attitude <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:26 AM
11

The IT Crowd, season 1 episode 4 "The Red Door" I love that show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:56 PM
17

My ex also broke up with me as soon as him life got better and didn't have a need for me anymore, almost 3 years wasted on him. I like your religious leader though!! It's good that he even said it wasn't good enough apology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:45 PM
1

Oh wow (-__-) men... so glad to hear you just dropped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:34 AM
5

Good for you! How did he react?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:57 AM
27

I love this! Thank you for this, it is hard to see past flags when they check off other boxes. BTW, my doctor is blond haired, green eyed and likes soccer, so I thought about him when I was reading your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:57 AM
99

Yeah, I have commented on this before in this subreddit. There is a 21 year age difference between them, she is young and gorgeous and a good actress, he's just ugh. I would just like to meet her, shake her, and ask her "sweetie what is wrong with you?!" She is 6 years younger than me and I could never picture myself with a man that much older than myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:14 PM
3

My ex sends me texts exactly like this, it's so eerie. Your ex and mine can just go fuck off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:58 AM
1

That's a good friend right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:18 AM
1

Oh my god, I am so sorry you had to go through all of that; the one who kissed your neck ewww. Fortunately, I haven't had a bad experience with Asian men, but I just know how men in general are, so I avoid all men now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:48 PM
56

Even as a Latina myself, and very attracted to Asian men, this is just ugh, fuck off dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:36 AM
2

I really liked him in Scrubs, I thought he was cute in a nerdy way. That instance with Jimmy Kimmel was gross, like dude if you find her pretty just comment on it once and be done, don't be a creep about it. The 21 year difference between them is just so ugh, she is so pretty, there are so many young guys, but she goes for a crusty old guy who isn't even cute. I love her movies and I also hope she doesn't spend so much time with him, she is still so young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:48 PM
22

Can't believe he is dating Florence Pugh! T__T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:01 AM
19

My ex is still acting like this, despite the fact that we have been broken up for over 3 years, loinger than when we were together. He was absolute shit, really bad boyfriend, very selfish. He was working at a dead end job when I met him and when he finally got a better job, a car, and some "friends" he all of a sudden couldn't stand my depression so he broke up with me. He lost his job and friends and recently lost his car so of course he wants me back and he "feels so bad that he let the best …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:56 AM
9

I feel the same way about brujeria, which is from Latin America. It's so easy to find someone to do it, but I never would do it, because I don't want to mess up karma. Karma always catches up to whoever did you wrong. I am also interested in Wicca but I could never curse anyone like that either, because of the rule of 3.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:50 AM
17

You go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:33 PM
139

Disgusting. Big reason as to why I am never getting pregnant and having kids, I will not do all that hard work, and lose sleep (which is bad for me because of sleep apnea) have that child have his last name and there being a huge possibility of him not helping me? Nope, I am selfish with my time and my sanity and I do not need an LVM bleeding me dry. To the lovely ladies who do want to be mothers, please for the love of the deities, vet him, do your best to pick a good partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:26 AM
2

I hate that defending yourself is "talking back" and "disrespectful". I have always wondered if my mom is a narcissist. I often cut her some slack because of the culture she was raised in, and also my father dying and leaving her with four kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:42 AM
2

They wouldn't have been happy until you were literally breaking your back and dying to take care of your brothers and and accepting your mom's mistreatment of you with a big smile. Yes, this. My mom just loves to push my buttons and insult me but I have to take it with a big smile, because if I talk back then "I don't love her" and she cries, something that one of my other brothers also got from her. BUT, this past year I have finally stood up to her and told her to stop acting like this, and to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:07 PM
25

This had been going on for quite a while, especially these past two or three years. These "MAPS" are trying to lump themselves with LGBT people saying it is just another sexual orientation when it is absolutely not. They are pedophiles, not MAPS, not hebephiles, or ephebophiles or whatever else they're trying to call themselves to make themselves seen different. Children should be educated on these terms so as to not be sucked in by a degenerate saying "oh I am just a minior attracted person, it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:48 AM
10

I'm the eldest of all my siblings and the only daughter, two of my brothers have special needs so of course anything my brothers did was my fault; not just in my mom's eyes either, their teachers, classmates and our extended family as well. Wasn't allowed to hang out with friends, no joining clubs or extracurricular activities, soon as I got out from school I had to rush home to pick up my youngest brother from the bus stop (I was so busy and stressed out from sophomore to senior year that I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:05 PM
117

One other I can think of is Rick Moranis (of Honey I Shrunk the Kids fame) who didn't re-marry, and he even stopped acting to focus on raising his kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:47 PM
13

If your son is continuously called a racist by multiple people... I’m sorry to break the news, but chances are he is a racist. "The first time someone calls you a horse you punch him on the nose, the second time someone calls you a horse you call him a jerk but the third time someone calls you a horse, well then perhaps it's time to go shopping for a saddle."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:56 PM
1

I checked out MGTOW out of morbid curiosity just to see how bad it was, since other subreddits mentioned them. Lots of disgruntled men mentioned FDS and I started looking at posts and loving it! Thanks to you ladies, I was finally able to go no contact with my ex who was just an awful person. I am more confident as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:11 AM
16

I have "The Lolita Effect" loved it ever since I read it as a teenager. "Reviving Ophelia" is also another one I love to re-read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:31 AM
3

No. I never learned how to apply makeup, and now that I am going to be 30 soon, I don't feel like I need to learn anymore. I do however, love skincare and I wear sunscreen religiously just to take care of my face. I also have a plain face and I feel like I look even worse with makeup but that's probably because I don't know what looks good on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:58 AM
12

Wow, I feel foolish, I misread your post, and here I was furious that SK-II would do something like that. I will need to find the video. Thanks for explaining to me that it was the total opposite of what I thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:14 AM
0

Damn SK-II made a campaign like that?! Boo, and I liked their skincare stuff. I don't think I will be able to buy their stuff anymore, granted all skincare companies are banking on women feeling old to want to use their products, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:17 AM
5

I am sure it is just jealousy, they wouldn't be calling themselves bossy or spoiled if the cousin with the LVM had a HVM herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:00 PM
6

You beat me to it, I was going to say fuck you Jim Carey as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:57 PM
11

I think it was a good documentary, made me pretty mad though at just everything he did. But they showed a clip of a lawyer, I think, asking him that question, and I was cackling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:48 PM
15

HAHAHAHA! you watched the Netflix documentary?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:24 PM
1

I remember first watching him in Boys Over Flowers, and I just fell in love, even with that silly curly hair. Jo In Sung is gorgeous! i know he's a bit older but I love his face, so mature. I love Lee Min Ho, but my true love is Kang Min Hyuk, I know he's also a musician but he's also in some dramas.Ohh, Won Bin too, I drool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:19 AM
1

Unfortunately, no. But he just looks so good in every drama he's in. Makes my heart skip a beat whenever I see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:44 PM
4

Lee Min Ho (heart eyes)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:50 PM
2

Yeah he was awful, can't believe I was with him for almost three years. So glad to be rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:21 PM
5

TRIGGER WARNING: mention of sexual assault Reminds me of my ex. He was at a party with his half brothers, whom he hadn't seen in 10+ years, he was ignoring my texts and only texted me once to tell me to leave him alone to enjoy time with his family, I did. Hours later he calls me crying, because he was beaten up and was taken to the hospital. I drive 21 miles away to find him in the hospital, his lip busted open, and his face swollen. He claimed that he didn't remember what happened, only that h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:28 AM
10

This comment just made my day better, love that movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:41 AM
3

What a total gentleman!! I am glad you got rid of your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:38 PM
2

Yes, a 9 year old son, with special needs. He recently told me that he wants another son too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:29 PM
1

Please do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:28 PM
10

Oh, I am very petty with these sort of things, it's interesting to see how his life went downhill, and I see it as karma. You go! Keep on making that $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:07 AM
8

Thank you! And he is a terrible person, he had the audacity to mention wanting to marry me so I can become a US citizen and so he could live in my house. I didn't even answer him and blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:00 AM
20

I know, I made a lot of excuses to not block him but I finally did. Half an hour after making the post, he messaged me asking me how bad did I want to become a citizen, so he could marry me to make that happen and so he could have a roof over his head. I blocked him, I didn't even answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:59 AM
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