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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSyoursultana/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:37 PM
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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSyoursultana/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:14 AM
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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSyoursultana/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:01 AM
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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSyoursultana/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:47 AM
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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSyoursultana/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:18 AM
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He changed his bio to suddenly credit her 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 09:57 PM
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What’s his username on tiktok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 06:23 PM
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Please report him. Even if you gain nothing from it, it keeps a trail open in case he repeats this disgusting behavior to another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 08:29 AM
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This type of women are the reason we still have mens’ boots on our necks to this day. Steady fighting to the death to be a man’s indentured servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 11:00 AM
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There are thousands of subreddits like that. None of them are banned but feminist subs, that aren’t moderated and policed by male mods, get banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:35 PM
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You should only marry someone whose opinion and judgment you respect. Someone who not only offers good quality advice and judgement but asks and respects that of yours. Otherwise they’re likely a LVM. With that being said, MANY women marry LVM and prioritize said man’s trashy judgement and advice over their own or other womens’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:31 PM
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Men are so fucking evil. They willingly marry women they hate just so they can torture them like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:54 PM
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The amount of comments from both women and men blaming Jada is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:43 AM
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Please don’t share male advice on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:16 PM
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It’s not funny but he’s telling the truth about men in that video. Your bf agrees with him, that’s why he likes the video. So if your bf isn’t rich, he’s basically telling you he thinks he’s settled and would discard you in a heartbeat if he made it big. I’d break up and block+delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:39 AM
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Don’t show usernames or sub names as we will be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:44 AM
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So the entire premise of the movie was a lie. Lol of course. No man on earth is even remotely as decent as that movie tried to portray this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:25 PM
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False. They separated and he had affairs on the side too. Her thing with Alsina was during their separation. He’s acting this way bc men are calling him a cuck on the internet, so punching Rock was his way of showing he’s somehow an alpha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:41 AM
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This isn’t her. It’s a viral post from twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:38 AM
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That’s a possibility. It’s important to discern each situation correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 01:41 AM
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Block out username and subreddit to prevent sub being reported for brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 01:53 PM
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My grandmother and tons of other women had HEALTHY kids in their late 40s, tell your doctor to go kick rocks. Get a new female provider who doesn’t have internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 08:52 PM
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Removed bc she’s an idiot for claiming a man can respect you and degrade you sexually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 05:10 AM
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One of my brothers is like this. It’s exhausting and I never internalize it bc I know what’s going on. Even confronted him about it and he’s in denial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:10 AM
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Nah but he wants her to have one to control her better. Bet he’s a fat shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:06 AM
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You can be doxxed with this information. I have removed the post bc it can compromise your safety. I suggest deleting it from your page too bc any person can still access the post on your page despite me removing it from this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:30 AM
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I guarantee your man is just as much of a scrote. Why would he tell you that he disparages you to his buddies? The fact that he associates with them is enough to prove he ain’t shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 11:00 PM
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LMAO 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:19 AM
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And he won’t even do it, that’s the worst part lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:55 AM
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They would have blamed her for not sticking by her trash man, had she left and the fucker killed her himself. Men always blame women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:44 AM
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Well women should never ask men on dates so what’s the point of mentioning that? And even when a woman picks the location of the date, men should pay. Otherwise block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 11:56 PM
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Lol forreal! This isn’t something you randomly discover either. You know if someone stinks from day 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 10:28 PM
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I find most women who watch that show to be LV and pickme af 99% of the time. I sometimes will indulge in a reality tv show but that’s bc it can be a bit entertaining to watch cringe sometimes. But the fan girls of this show.. ew. I’ve never seen it myself but I know to run the corner if I hear a woman obsessing over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:42 PM
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That is break up worthy- full stop. If he had any respect or truly loved you he would never respond that way. He would be disgusted by the idea. Cut your losses now. You wrote up this post for a reason. If it was okay and something to brush over, your mind and body wouldn’t be reacting so negatively as to write up a long post to strangers asking for advice. You know the answer. It may be difficult but it’s the right answer. It’s time to leave. OP the fact that you’re so scared to lose him is a h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:52 AM
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I agree with that. I only give women benefit of doubt for basic things not involving disrespect. Like missing a phone call, bc I happen to do that sometimes. I never give a single soul benefit of the doubt for disrespect or malicious behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 07:42 PM
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I honestly love when women fight back like this. Men get away with so much shit bc they rely on us being too scared to speak up or fight back. Men only learn via consequence. Men will attack women who ignore them or respond politely. Might as well tell them to fuck off here and there 😊 and record it, they get scared if you bring your phone out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:24 AM
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Yes I learned this the hard way as a teen. I tried to teach and speak with men about feminist topics. The only way they learned anything was when I blocked their asses. If women collectively shut men out and deal out consequences immediately for shitty mentality and behavior, they’ll fix up quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:14 AM
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Practice makes perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:46 AM
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This is a common problem. Women perceive men as though they are women too. Women are socialized completely differently than men. Do NOT give men the benefit of the doubt that applies to yourself or another woman. Men and women are different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:46 AM
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Your tiktok profile is showing to whoever clicks the link. Delete this post so you don’t dox yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:02 PM
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Idk about that. They perm banned me for telling a male user to not post on there, when it’s included in their rules lmao. Then they tried to gaslight me. They could be playing safe rn to get women to join and then slowly change the narrative. Like how they did with the other feminist subreddits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:49 AM
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Almost all feminist spaces on here are modded by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:21 AM
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Babe please plan an escape plan to leave him. You deserve so much better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:02 AM
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That sub is modded by men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:57 AM
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There’s a reason this disturbs you. Trust your gut. Always. You wouldn’t be writing a post if it was a non issue. Men drop women all the time for simply having engaged in ANY sexual activity. You have a right to your standards and desires. Whenever you doubt yourself and your desires, ask yourself what any mediocre man would do- they always center themselves. Women need to follow suit. They do not deserve us putting our wants and needs to the side. You want a man who’s never done or desired anal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 03:59 AM
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Please refrain from making PSAs- that is for the mods to do and discuss. It is necessary for new members to see male depravity for what it is, Reddit is one of the few places women can observe this bc it’s an anonymous platform and men feel they can be honest here or women feel less pressure to lie about their shitty relationships. At our discretion, we will remove or approve these screenshot posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:37 PM
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Women get offended when ugly scrotes approach us lmfao. Did he think he was hurting the attractive women? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:47 PM
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Sorry OP I know pickmes of all classes and ambition levels. I went out to happy hour with other established women and half of them were super pickme libfems. They make 6 figures etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:39 PM
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Please refrain from posting screenshots revealing subreddit names or usernames, as we will be accused of brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:31 PM
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Please refrain from posting screenshots with subreddit names and usernames so we are not accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:43 PM
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Imagine if a man wrote this about his gay male coworker raping him. I would like to see the scrotes in the comments then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:51 PM
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They believe this because it’s what men do. They project their depravity onto us. Men branch swing from woman to woman, they could never just end a relationship without having a backup plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:21 AM
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Lmaoo I said this 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:19 AM
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Girl they will just lie about all those things. There’s literally no point in telling men this, just observe him and if he is any of these things- dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:12 AM
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Date other people and put him on the back burner until he moves over and then proceed dating him if you’re still interested by then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:36 AM
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I think it’s reality for kids in HS with no parental involvement tbh. I knew of troubled kids like this back in HS, but I never experienced anything remotely similar during my HS experience bc my parents were strict af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:50 PM
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I normally don’t endorse clapbacks on scrotes, just block+delete. But the way this sister ATE HIM UP- and left no crumbs. The way she read him to filth. Gave me a hearty chuckle 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:35 AM
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A man who goes out of his way to not date his own women is a scrote of the lowest form. I noticed with men from my culture, they only bash us and do not wish to date us when they’re a broke scrote who wants a woman to subsidize his bills. He knows no woman from his culture will accept him so he looks elsewhere, namely white women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:54 AM
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This is a bridge to normalize pedophilia. More and more, I don’t want to be part of any society. I dream of refuge in an unidentified island with no human population. Fucking depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:44 PM
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I don’t feel bad for your friend. She’s LV af and associating with her isn’t what a HV woman would do. She’s a dangerous pickme. There needs to be a line in the sand for our sympathy for such pathetic traitorous women. Fds doesn’t endorse supporting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:31 PM
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Why would he get rid of his bangmaid caretaker? Not convenient for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:16 PM
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Their disdain for women clouds their judgment. It’s nothing short of horrifying to see people gaslight women on such a magnitude. Either way, I’ll be taking no part in this arrangement even if everyone in the world normalized it. I’d rather be scrote free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:26 PM
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She will have night terrors about this for decades once it hits her. I feel so bad for the girl, clearly has no one on her side in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:18 PM
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By refusing to date a man who wants anything less than him paying all the bills. I’ve never dated a man who believed a woman has to pay for anything. Also I do make it known that my money is my money and his money is our money from the start. This is my parents’ arrangement and it’s common in my culture. For a man to touch or look at his wife’s money is extremely taboo for my people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:16 PM
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And if he considers their money shared, why is he taking her 22k under his name. Hmm interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:51 PM
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Women need to work differently to survive in a world that is entirely against us. Don’t make this a both sides thing bc it isn’t. See how far women have gotten being “honest” with men. I’d rather not be “honest,” than be honest at the expense of my life and well-being. Tell me what reward I get being honest and forthcoming with men? And since when have men been honest and forthcoming with women? Please read a history book or a current article to see how men feel about you as a woman and come bac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:38 PM
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This isn’t something men should ‘vet’ for, he wasn’t wronged in any way here. She shouldn’t have paid shit to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:14 PM
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So he wanted her to spend her entire income on bills so she would have 0 savings, while he would. He’s offended bc he wanted to trap her and thought he did. She’s an idiot for offering him her money. A woman should always have money for a way out. Realistically she shouldn’t have paid a cent in bills, she was extremely charitable and foolish doing that. Now he’s going to take her money and run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:11 PM
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Men don’t even need to defend their creepy ways because apparently every woman has taken it on themselves to gaslight other women instead. Sorry you have fools for friends and a mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:56 PM
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There’s a HUGE difference between a woman wanting to wait and a man wanting to wait. The man must be absolutely head over heels pursuing you for marriage and proposing by 2 years in. But if the woman extends, that’s fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:12 PM
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Anyone have a website link where they watched for free? Don’t feel like getting Netflix for one show that I’ll get through in a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:16 PM
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Avoid including usernames or subreddit names as we will be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:57 PM
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What’s insidious about this is that he expected you to be bluffing when you said you weren’t gonna have sex at his place. He thought you were just putting on a front and got angry when he found out you had real boundaries. Men often don’t believe women will actually uphold our boundaries bc they’re used to coercing or pressuring women into breaking them. I’m so happy you didn’t fuck him. He would’ve then said you weren’t traditional enough for him. The only way you win with a scrote is by not de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:26 PM
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Many acid attacks take place in the UK by white English men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:15 PM
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Yes it’s happened to me multiple times irl. I can sense fds women now lmao. Never give out your username though if you do discuss FDS. Anyone can be crazy and doxx you. Do NOT discuss or even mention FDS to men. Do NOT do that or it will be used as a blueprint to manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:42 AM
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This can work on getting major scrotes to de-mask early on but beware of the male feminist types that know how to regurgitate feminist speech in an attempt to trick you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:54 PM
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“Catalogue of homeless men” 💀 lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:24 PM
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That doesn’t make any sense. The whole point of a date is he’s asking you for a chance to evaluate whether you like him or not. He should know already there’s a chance you won’t. It’s plain and simple courtesy to pay for you since you allowed him that chance to court you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:24 PM
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He’s 100% using her. Anyone who isn’t blind can tell. This is so pathetic of her and she comes of as super libfem so I’m not surprised. How is an Olympic globally famous woman putting a peasant scrote in her bio to show she’s attached to him. He doesn’t even think she’s worth a mention- yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:42 PM
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Read the handbook. Don’t bother sending explanations to scrotes. Block and delete at the first red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:40 PM
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Even if a woman doesn’t do stereotypically feminine things, she deserves to be courted. Men should pay always. This is not FDS material- we are not misogynistic gender stereotype obsessed femininity channels on YouTube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:11 PM
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Break up sis. No take backs. He’s a scrote who has basically just told you to your face he doesn’t think you’re worth the effort. Fuck him. There’s even a ton of LVM who would put an effort in. This is unacceptable. You should have never made a plan for him- should’ve just dumped him when you found out he didn’t plan shit. We can’t go back in time, So dump him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:05 PM
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Don’t link directly to posts. We’ll be accused of brigading. If you post screenshots you must block out subreddit names and usernames- and accompany the post with commentary analyzing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:11 AM
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Ubers exist. No excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:20 AM
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He wants her to do exercises to tighten her vagina for his ED death grip pornsick limp dick. A wonderful cherry on top that will surely make her never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:18 AM
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Notice she “is” a brat and he “can” be a lazy bastard. So he’s defined her as that but apparently he’s only bad some of the time and it doesn’t define him. Calling her a brat is a major NO to begin with. But notice the language that scrotes use to vilify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:15 AM
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Next time block and delete. Read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:56 AM
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He thought he had her on a leash forever. That’s why he was surprised she moved on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:36 PM
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Yet if she magically went back to him he’d abuse her more bc he’d be so disgusted with her lack of self respect to want him back. Women don’t win with men like this. Unless you block and delete ofc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:35 PM
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Well if it isn’t men facing the consequences of their own actions, and turning around to blame women somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:34 PM
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Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 03:25 AM
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Trust your gut. Sounds like a scrote. There are millions of men, why limit yourself to one who hates movies purely bc they feature women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:31 AM
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I would rather mop the ocean and gargle stomach acid before I fucking get a man a gift for Valentine’s Day. They are meant to celebrate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:29 AM
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Proud of you queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:21 AM
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If you read the handbook and posts on here, you’ll be protected from this. This is why we have such high standards bc only HVM who truly love you will be so kind thoughtful and generous to a woman they want to marry and spend their life with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:38 AM
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Dump the scrote sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:28 AM
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Please read the handbook and move on from this scrote. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:59 AM
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Pairbonding translated from scrotespeak to English means: women acting like slaves for men. So they mean that women are no longer offering as many slave services as before and they think it’s due to sexual partners lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:56 AM
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So he could’ve used an ointment but didn’t think you, a mere woman, were worthy of that extra step. They truly only care about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:48 AM
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9/10 if we’re being generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:42 AM
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A blessing in a sea of scrotes. Keep it up little buddy. Let’s hope these sick men don’t poison him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:42 AM
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Crop out the subreddit and any usernames or we’ll be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 08:25 PM
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Good. Stick to this plan OP. Drop the old 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:55 AM
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No man who loves you truly would expect you to pay for any bills- period point blank. If he’s so popping and has money for three properties, then he’s nickeling and diming you bc he thinks he can do better. This doesn’t mean you’re not worth it- HE doesn’t think you’re worth it- big difference. Cut it loose now. Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:52 PM
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The amount of times I’ve seen women post in online groups asking other women to help them plan dates for scrotes. It’s so sad. And they’re derailing groups for women, centering men AGAIN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:21 PM
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^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:43 PM
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I understand but slavery existed and exists everywhere. It’s a bit ridiculous to think slavery only applies in the USA or only happens or happened to black people- it’s a very ethnocentric view of things. It is also offensive to only associate slavery with black people. Black people have far more history than just slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:59 AM
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Not even a wife should be a docile doormat pushover who follows her man’s orders. I hate this association of femininity with submission, femininity is the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:11 AM
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There needs to be a medium. Bc we’re all conditioned by patriarchy but some women partake and defend this shit and I have a zero tolerance policy for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:47 AM
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You’re delusional. You’ve already communicated and he hasn’t changed bc he knows you’re a pushover doormat. Guarantee he’ll continue the same as always and you’ll be enduring this for maybe a decade more bc you don’t have self respect. Tough love. I mean if you enjoy being treated like shit, that has no impact on me. But you made a post complaining so maybe next time don’t complain if you enjoy it so much. We’re trying to help you. You make it seem acceptable for degenerates like your pornsick h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:19 AM
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This is such an amazing comment, I think you should make it a post to add to the handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:55 PM
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Exactly. I dislike dogs, so I avoid dating men who own dogs or want a dog. I don’t date them and then tell them to murder the dog. Like wtf. Also they do it bc they take great joy in forcing women to “submit” to their will. They want to systematically remove anything she desires or likes from her life and isolate her and then leave her for being a shell of the person he met. Like men who claim they want submissive women but date other women in hopes of breaking her down bc he enjoys the sick con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:38 PM
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LVM will coerce women to give up their pet and once she does, they leave her. It’s just a power play on their part. They seek to dominate women to the point they don’t want you to have anything you cherish or love in life. They don’t want to see you happy. They don’t want you to have ANYTHING or ANYONE to seek refuge in for when they try to destroy you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:45 PM
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RUN. Kick him out of your life now. There’s literally no question about it. He’s disgusting and depraved and using you. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:55 PM
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Men shockingly want physical touch and acts of service consistently- as a professional interpreter of scrote-speak, that means they want mommy bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:15 AM
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Wait till the scrote discovers animation is required for his scrote games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:08 AM
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So insulting a choice of restaurant is worse than insulting someone’s entire career. She needs to cuss her scum ass brother out too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:05 AM
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People can change or he’s just showing his true colors. Not too long ago, I happened to reconnect with a man I deemed as the least misogynistic man I knew in college. Guess what? He went on rambling about things from the red pill to me (without stating they’re red pill)- thinking I would see the logic in it and agree with him. If you asked me if I expected that from him years ago- the answer is hell no. At the time, he was the only man I knew who didn’t victim blame me for my assault and would s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:01 PM
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He’s acting like an impartial fencesitter when there is no impartiality when it comes to justice. You cannot be moderate regarding an act of oppression or violence. That’s like saying oh we need to look at the perspective of the rapist, what did the victim do to trigger him to rape her? Oh can you blame him, you knows he’s violent and stupid- anyone should expect rape from him. That’s not impartial that’s called supporting the rapist. This is a sign of what’s to come in the future. He sounds lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:43 PM
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That stat is as meaningful as saying 80% of slaves ran away from the master, instead of the master willingly setting them free. Why would these men initiate divorce when they’re reaping all the benefits of their parasitic nature from these poor women. They have everything to lose by letting their host get away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:58 PM
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By some, it’s definitely all of them who realize that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:55 PM
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They’re so stupid that they still haven’t figured it out after experiencing discarding 20292728282 times. Like get a hint sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:38 PM
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That is what negging is- a manipulative emotional abuse tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:16 AM
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You’re in MAJOR denial OP. Harsh is necessary to instill change. Would you prefer we coddle you and pat your back to continue being desperate for a man who clearly does not respect you. You need to get a grip and realize the situation for what it is, apparently everyone can see but you at this point. We give the harsh TRUTH that will benefit you for the rest of your life- that’s coming from a place of love for other women to avoid the missteps of those before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:48 AM
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I bet she works the same hours and doesn’t ever find her lunch packed. So fuxking embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:37 PM
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This ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:06 PM
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I personally know of girls abused by their bio uncles and dads, it’s not as rare as we think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:35 AM
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Wait till her dumbass discovers being an unpaid slave for your man is the least rewarding and most depressing work of all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:05 PM
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She needs to take him to court and sue for the 13 years of no child support payments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:00 PM
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Men cannot comment on here, please don’t invite them to answer questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:53 PM
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The trauma I’ve suffered from being friends or even associated with pickmes. Life has been so much better since I’ve distanced myself and cut them out of my life. I may have less company now but as the saying goes: no company is better than bad company; good company is better than no company. Manifesting more HVW in my life for the new year and beyond!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:49 AM
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Location is showing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:52 AM
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Echoing this. Don’t enter a man’s car or give him your address early on. I’d say I wouldn’t do it until I was extremely sure of him which would take a lot of vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:31 PM
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Yes they all show warning signs. But women are taught to ignore anything that isn’t a punch in the face. They demean you, raise their voice, neg or insult you, act possessive or jealous, look at you with contempt, act extremely cheap and transactional (50/50 especially). The list goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:48 PM
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Even so, the men can request a paternity test and force a fight for custody and stalk and harass you and harm your child to “punish” you. ALWAYS ABORT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:44 PM
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This isn’t even incompetence, it’s intentional and malicious abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:59 PM
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This is why LVM get hurt the most when we ignore and block them. Bc it forces them to realize they aren’t the center of the universe and the being they don’t even see as worthy of humanity, doesn’t value them anymore. When you explain and send paragraphs and cry to them, they feel a sick satisfaction bc you’ve basically cemented their main character delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:16 PM
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When they do go to therapy, the simply twist and weaponize the language to gaslight and manipulate the women in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:03 PM
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They are the cause for almost all female mental health issues, but we are meant to care for our oppressors? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:00 PM
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I’ll care about male mental health when they stop terrorizing, raping, and murdering us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:57 PM
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They treat each other like shit and somehow we are still to blame. Like a compass that points North, a man’s accusing finger will always find a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:54 PM
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Exactly. It’s like people don’t have the same access to the internet 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:22 PM
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Honestly if anyone referred to me as a good woman I’d be offended at this point. Good woman is basically synonymous with quiet doormat slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:17 AM
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4% are what height? More than 4% are over 6ft
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:49 AM
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I don’t, just wanted to clarify that for people reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:48 PM
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Actually there’s still a huge wage gap and men still own most wealth and property. Let’s not pretend otherwise as it harms women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:23 PM
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right out of the pig’s mouth. I noticed this same phenomenon at work- I never did shit for any of my male coworkers unless they did things for me beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:57 PM
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You should tell her the truth, plain and simple, and maybe even just show her this post in writing. It’s def weaponized incompetence and he’s getting a kick out of seeing how low she’ll go to coddle him. What she chooses to do with your advice is on her- but as a friend, we should speak the truth. If she lashes out at you or acts shady, cut her off. Edit: Also ask her if she would stoop so low as to coddle you if you did the same things. I reckon she’d discard you in a heartbeat, but wouldn’t do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:15 PM
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Female socialization- it’s not inherent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:08 AM
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You’re right but let’s raise the gift standards. Most of the gifts you listed are acceptable for broke HS boys. Not grown men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:01 AM
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Men aren’t the leader of anything even if they provide. We do not submit to anyone. That’s simply them doing part of their fair share of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:53 AM
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You would’ve been correct to block and delete the moment he asked “IF” you wanted a gift. No one would dare ask that of someone they care for even a little bit. What a testicular bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:29 AM
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More like malicious tbh. They know what they’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:22 AM
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Ladies, men should initiate this conversation by 2-3 months. If he doesn’t by your deadline (don’t tell him your deadline DUH), you need to just end things. Stop giving men the opportunity to manipulate you or string you along by lying bc they know you’d leave otherwise. I’m glad you stuck to your guns OP. Good job. But, now this man is going to know to lie to the next woman to keep her on a string. Just keep this in mind for the future. Next time don’t be so forthcoming with men. They are usual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:48 AM
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I read parts of a free pdf I found online and 100% his advice is mainly pickme bs sprinkled with some basic truths that we already know. He expects women to take the initiative far too much in the dating process and we all know how that goes. And the misogynistic language is plain disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:20 AM
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They already are lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:12 AM
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Block and delete, ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:58 AM
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A pickme is a woman who centers men and degrades herself and/or other women for the purpose of seeking male approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:54 PM
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Not necessarily- just keep in mind that following your gut/instinct and adding pieces together is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:49 AM
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And hitting or throwing objects. Next step will be your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:48 AM
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I agree. Crazy people always have crazy eyes. Most narcs and pornsick men have dead eyes that lack any sort of warmth and feel like an endless piercing void.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:42 AM
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Men almost never start with outright brutal physical abuse. They test your boundaries and how much shit you’ll tolerate and escalate. They will almost always start with negging, outright insults (e.g. idiot, dummy, and they’ll play it off as a joke), look at you with contempt, raising their voice, yelling, pinching/pushing, and cursing at you (e.g. stfu or calling you a bitch). This is why it’s important to block men from your life over any red flag bc a red flag is merely a sign of a huge fire …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:36 AM
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this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:32 PM
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Lol but we’re so insane omg how will we go on 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:26 PM
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They’re sad bc they have to share their slave with a baby now. Less focus on them. This is why you must critically analyze everything ladies. Just bc it’s so called academia does NOT mean it’s accurate or free from male depravity bias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:57 AM
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Your gut is telling you the truth, listen to it. Save yourself now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:53 AM
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Yep so called leftist and liberal men only support abortion bc they think it’s a cheat code for raw fuxking, as the woman will simply delete his problem. They have no regard for the cost and risks associated with it. It’s not just a dental cleaning fuxking asswipes. OP needs to drop this bitch quickly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:52 AM
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I wanna see the comment that mentioned us lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:23 AM
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He should be paying it ALL. What a bitch ass scrote. She needs to leave now or kick his ass off the lease. The fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:37 AM
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Trash dumpster fire garbage article but Based comment section- ladies are waking up worldwide. We love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:52 PM
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Actually that’s not true. According to the Journal of the American Academy of Psychiatry and the Law: Men commit both forms of parental murder more often. Bye lying scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:36 AM
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Scrotes never take accountability. The same projection they constantly point at women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:26 PM
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Just make sure you stay anonymous when offering to help someone on here- there’s always a chance it could be a male troll (not saying that’s a case)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:37 AM
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Personally don’t think OLD is worth it. You’re anxious bc your mind/body know you’re meeting a complete stranger that could be lying about their entire identity, who wouldn’t even have the ability to approach you in real life. It’s just so unnatural and forced imo. Men on OLD are the worst quality by far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:16 PM
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Shouldn’t be doing that even when married, even when he provides- we are not indentured servants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:23 AM
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Your brother is not a HVM. He’s a scrote. HVM do not selectively respect women. How dare he put you down as his sister especially. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:57 PM
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No you’re not wrong. Because men are usually liars and you’re doing yourself a disservice by not fact checking them. They will boldly lie about things to try to fuxk with you. Remember, men and women do not operate the same at all. Men do not deserve benefit of the doubt under no circumstance. They’ve proven their malicious intent over the past thousands of years and currently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 05:36 AM
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Please read the handbook. We do not accept coffee dates, it signals low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 03:33 AM
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Looks matter, and please don’t encourage age gaps. Old men are not and never should be appealing to young women. 70 year old men are for women 65+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:57 AM
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You can break up civilly with him and give him a bs excuse. Something vague. If any of your friends attack you, they’re doing you a favor by showing you they were never really friends. And if he retaliates by trying to harm you socially, he’s confirmed he’s a NVM full proof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:30 AM
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Honestly after reading all of your replies and realizing that you’ve been dating 6 months, I’d say cut your losses babe. Seriously I’m getting major off vibes about him and he smells like a golddigger. It’s best you leave now since you’re already emotionally invested. After time passes without speaking to him, you’ll come to the same conclusions and see things more objectively and you’ll be happy you left. In the future please don’t tell or even hint to your financial success with men. If they’r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:56 AM
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He’s a smooth talker. Be very very careful. You need to look at him through an objective lens. Don’t waste your time being loyal to him. Date other already financially successful men. Have a roster. Don’t lay your eggs in one basket. Especially if you’ve put yourself on a marriage and kids timeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:15 AM
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Even if he hypothetically did make it big. He’d certainly look down on you for being with him while he’s broke. He’d then assume he could “do better” and abandon you after you let him smooch off of your financial safety. It doesn’t matter whether or not he makes it big. Since he hasn’t before dating you- it wouldn’t positively impact you anyhow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:13 AM
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This is why I emphasize the importance of the pre Screening phone call- either on the app or via Google voice. But I’m not a fan of OLD at all tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:51 PM
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Stop limiting your options. He’s just speaking words at you that have no real legitimacy or potential to become true. Look at the cold hard facts of the now. He’s broke right now. Are you willing to accept the struggle of dealing with that for the rest of your life? A lot of times pre nups get invalidated and you’ll end up paying alimony to him and forfeiting your savings and properties. Do NOT attach yourself legally or otherwise to a broke man. You WILL regret it. Continue dating other people …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:49 PM
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Men are throwing a collective violent nasty tantrum at the little progress women have made in terms of rights. We should revoke access to us by all means until they act appropriately. This is why FDS is so key. Very high standards are very critical to the movement of female progression and freedom from patriarchy. Let’s face it, men do not learn without real consequence and what incentive would they have to better themselves if women collectively throw themselves overboard to get shat on as a th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:07 AM
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I recognize this is a step up for you but you should’ve left at the first or second red flag. Certainly by the time he said he expected you to pay, you can get up and leave at any time. But instead you stayed and paid and even went to a second location with him. And you drank and smoked weed with him- that’s a MAJOR misstep. You do not consume drugs or get inebriated with strangers especially MEN. That’s not good at all. I have to give the harsh reality bc that’s what FDS is all about. I’m leavi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:31 AM
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Good point about the phrasing, that’s quite insidious. Ah misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:21 AM
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You should make your standards clear. Broke scrotes get angry when we state our wants and will debate- then you block and save time. Worst case scenario he lies about agreeing, you’ll find out shortly enough when he whines about paying for quality dates and you not fucking him before 6 months to a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 09:00 PM
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If single moms can work enough to provide for multiple kids on their own, there’s no excuse for men. They’ll be forced to reckon with this capitalist patriarchal hellhole they’ve created with shitty wages, if women collectively put the pressure on them. Not my fuxking problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:18 PM
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Kim didn’t consent to the release of the sex tape, she is a victim of revenge porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:38 PM
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The scrotes are very angry about this post. Just confirming the truth we already know 😌💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:58 PM
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I hear scrote giggles Broke men should never laugh Go to war and d*e 🧚‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:49 AM
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snaps enthusiastically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:42 AM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:41 AM
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He’s big horizontally, but quite vertically challenged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:55 PM
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You don’t owe that information even to a man you’re dating and have met up with. Many women are stalked by ex dates and ex bfs to this day. He doesn’t need to know such info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:40 PM
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Instant block and delete. He’s a liar.
/r/askFDS05/01/22 01:36 AM
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Removed Bc you included the person’s username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:20 AM
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Lol I love how it’s only Muslims when this happens in all religious and non religious communities within misogynistic cultures. Try again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:41 PM
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You need to read the FDS handbook thoroughly. We do not do coffee or walk dates. There’s so much wrong here. All of this could have been avoided. He’s clearly LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:58 AM
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Don’t shame women for their standards. We don’t have to compromise that if we don’t want to. Sexual attraction and compatibility are bare minimum requirements of any relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:47 AM
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The debate was never about sex work being work. I hate that people just scream “sex work is work,” as though that changes the tons of harm that women suffer from it. Child labor is also work. Slavery is also work. Yet these are all horrible things that cause significant harm. Work doesn’t suddenly make them ethical somehow. And criticizing them doesn’t mean criticizing the people forced/coerced into them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:54 PM
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I know people who went to Ivy league schools and they aren’t millionaires. They make six figures. Some people who attend those schools are not from well off backgrounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:27 AM
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You don’t need to hide your wealth. Make sure you date men who have the same wealthy background or more. You need to thoroughly investigate the backgrounds of these men. If you have a lot of money, I’d suggest to invest in private investigators and background checks. Or even pay for a professional matchmaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:25 AM
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Yeah honestly men do this to gorgeous women all the time. It’s his character at the end of the day. There’s even a show of a millionaire male making his gorgeous model girlfriend pay 50/50 on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:26 AM
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Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:17 AM
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You’re the 1 percent with this outcome. For future reference please do not promote that on this sub- it’s misleading and can influence young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:54 PM
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I’m telling you now, no man on this Earth would do even 1% of what she’s doing for her husband. No man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:36 PM
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Removed post for including subreddit name at the top of the screenshot. Our sub can be penalized and accused of brigading when you include usernames or subreddit names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:52 AM
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I liked your post but there were PLENTY OF THINGS WRONG WITH YOUR EX. It’s not okay to label him as a good guy when he wasn’t. That man didn’t care about you much at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:09 PM
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The first comment is CAP 🧢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:21 AM
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Great advice. Men are so psychopathic, it never fails to scramble my brain how evil they’re willing to be to get their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:03 AM
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If they have face or neck tattoos they don’t care about their own life and certainly won’t care about yours. I avoid tattooed men in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:31 AM
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Don’t pay any bills or expenses. Men should provide fully. Make sure to keep working or having your own source of income despite this, save it into your own account. His money is your money too. Your money is just yours. Make sure your name is on the deed of the house too even though he should be the only one making payments. This is protection for you should he cheat. Make sure in your pre nuptial contract that you list he agrees to provide fully and that your money and property will always rem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:25 AM
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It does make him a bad guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:49 PM
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I hope you’re leaving him ASAP sis. Please read the handbook fully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:51 AM
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To be clear, because men see women through a sexual light 99.9% of the time, it’s actually a major red flag for a man to have “female friends.” That just means they’re orbiting her in hopes that she’ll eventually throw him a bone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:23 PM
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Scrotes mad 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:11 PM
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Your dad thinks women should be in the kitchen and men should be breadwinners but expects you, his daughter, to pay his bills. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:28 PM
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Your “healthy” compromises are accepting bare minimum and pathetic effort. That’s just not endorsed here. Please read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:26 PM
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Maskfishing is so real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:53 PM
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Don’t link to other subreddits, our sub will be accused of brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:36 PM
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You need to do everything in your power to heal yourself. Once you heal, your intuition comes out clearer and stronger than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:48 PM
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I’m also thinking, if he liked her so much why he ain’t ask her out a long time ago? Sounds like he tried to settle for a breathing woman in close proximity. It doesn’t take a man 3 years to realize he likes you. She’s a target to try his RP scrote tactics on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:49 PM
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Read the handbook. Of course it’s a dealbreaker. Also that age gap is very concerning. 32 dating a 40s man. Major no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:03 PM
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Your tiktok profile shows when anyone clicks on this link btw. So I suggest you don’t accept any followers on this account or just keep it anonymous, Bc they may be male lurkers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:09 PM
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The price of female life is cheap to society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:49 PM
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He’d be singing a different tune if a woman did that to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:52 PM
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Please remove any mention of other subs. Cannot approve your post until that’s done as we’ll be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:17 PM
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Don’t let them treat you like shit** I think you meant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:22 PM
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Yeah I know an abusive narc male who owns several cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:34 AM
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What are the signs? There’s a suspicious place near me I’m concerned about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:32 AM
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Yeah that’s why I don’t care if women shame men about anything. They deserve it. They are never made to feel ashamed so the more the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:04 PM
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When have women virgin shamed? I think at most women use the term incel Bc that’s like the only remotely insulting word that carries any form of weight against men in the English language. Unfortunately for women we have so many slurs that it feels good to even have one word to use back at men who constantly trash us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:46 PM
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Just because he MAY be a HVM, you don’t know him well enough to determine that, doesn’t mean he’s the man for YOU. He can be a great partner to another woman who makes less or the same as him. However, if you marry this man and he turns out to be horrid, you will end up forfeiting your money and assets to him Bc the law unfairly applies alimony to men. You’ll also have trouble being compatible Bc as the man he should pay for the bills and dates. If he does take that role on, you’ll not be happy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:54 PM
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🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:48 PM
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Read the handbook thoroughly multiple times. If you do so, you will never be in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:19 PM
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Not narcissists. Men do this. Lmfao like the average man does this constantly. People need to stop throwing the word narc around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:52 AM
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This is a short sighted analysis. It’s the internalized misogyny for me that she thinks Aria was like a man with her accomplishments. This girl is all over the place and just so wrong in so many ways I can’t even begin to break it down. She almost had a couple of good points but it went downhill soon after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:04 PM
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Question: when you go to dinner alone, do you take a book with you or just enjoy your meal in silence and observe your surroundings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:10 AM
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Funny Bc men cause far more accidents than women which is why insurances charge them far more than us. They also hold less driver’s licenses than us by far. So we drive more than them but they make up the vast majority of accidents (meaning they cause them more).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:43 PM
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Lol the us government funded and created the taliban and has wreaked havoc in the Middle East for decades to pillage and steal resources. The region was actually more than stable prior to American and European destruction. Read a book or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:14 AM
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To be clear, 34 is young anyways. Idk why there’s this idea that women look horrid in their 30s. I think most women peak in their 30s tbh. And I’m in my early twenties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:23 PM
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It’s a HUGE red flag that your boyfriend TOLD you that he expects you to work. It’s YOUR choice. Sounds like he’s a 50/50 scrote who wants you to do all the child rearing and birthing whilst working the same hours and paying the bills. No man should TELL YOU what you should do in that aspect. It’s your choice and he should simply say he’s happy with whatever you decide. If you do ever decide to be a STAHM you should have secure financial backing in case you must divorce or leave at any time. Sav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:37 PM
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Doing an activity on the first date is the worst idea. You’re meant to get to know the person. That stuff can be done with friends or later on in the dating phase or during a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:52 AM
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Post to r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:09 PM
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Read the handbook. He’s a LVM, time to break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:07 PM
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Read the handbook before posting. Post any specific questions (after you’ve read the handbook) onto r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:05 PM
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Read the handbook and post specific questions to r/askFDS. LDRs are a major no 99% of the time. It’s also a huge red flag and dealbreaker for a partner to maintain contact with exes and like their posts. I would leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:03 PM
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Please read the handbook and Post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:11 PM
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Post specific questions to r/askfds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:08 PM
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Yeah it seems like his “social anxiety” is selective. Somehow he isn’t embarrassed to be a douche who expects a random woman on a first date to fight his battles for him, but he’s too embarrassed to speak to the waiter? And he’s not too embarrassed to go on a date with a stranger in the first place? I call fuxking BULLSHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:17 PM
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Read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:53 PM
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Please read the handbook before posting. It holds a lot of important information about dating that would help you avoid situations like this. For any specific questions post on r/askfds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:47 PM
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Lmao I love the last part of your comment. Bet that they were shaking at the fact that you had the audacity to say that. Probably expected you to cry or tremble at their scrotery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:58 AM
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This actually is quite common. I know it’s definitely true for Arab culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:38 AM
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For the safety of our group members, we do NOT allow any public posting of FDS meet ups. There are many male trolls who have a vested interest in harming the women on here. Think twice or three times before giving away personal info to someone on here even if they’re flaired as a “newbie” as some trolls may be successful in hiding for sometime. This comment was made due to the several comments I had to remove regarding this on the thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:33 AM
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In most parts of the world it’s Monday already, that’s why I just posted it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:57 AM
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Read the handbook. We do not pursue men or ask them on dates, certainly not random low effort meet ups. That will result in a disaster for any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:39 PM
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Lmao 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:39 PM
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Drop him. Don’t date cheap men. Men should pay for all dates and shouldn’t be asking you to split or cover it. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:09 AM
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Read the handbook and Post to r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:27 PM
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Read the handbook and post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:23 PM
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Post specific questions to r/askFDS and check out r/FemaleLevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:43 PM
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You shouldn’t settle for anyone who doesn’t have both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:26 AM
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We have conditioned ourselves LOL ffs even in the virtue signaling posts they can’t pretend to not be a daft bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:16 PM
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Somehow you lot overlook porn and red pill movement every time, when they’re clearly the answer. Children started being exposed to porn since the 2000s when computers and the internet became widely accessible. This has had a huge impact on attitudes toward women and relationships. It’s made men think they have the right to access any woman sexually when in reality they can’t and never will, but porn allows them to feel they have that chance. Plus the normalization of violence towards women in po…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:03 PM
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There’s no sound..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:42 PM
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Honestly, there are LVM everywhere. You’re not going to find a single city in the entire world that has a special amount of HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:59 PM
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Hemophiliac?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:29 AM
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Please remove mention of subreddit names and usernames when sharing screenshots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:34 PM
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What sources did you use to start learning about crytpo currency and trading?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:23 AM
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Why are you talking about it on a sub about dating strategy? It doesn’t fit the scope of the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:52 PM
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He asked you on a walking date? This isn’t something to call home about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:45 PM
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Please avoid speaking with authority about FDS ideals. Stop fearmongering about being witty lest we get murdered. Men murder women for existing and have murdered women for being as polite as a saint. Yes we typically advocate to just block men or leave without shouting down a restaurant. This isn’t to appeal to the male ego and somehow protect our life. That’s not the reasoning behind it at all. Women can be witty and rude to men if we want to be. Most women act like doormats to men and yet the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:20 PM
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Also ,what reason do they have to divorce? They’re getting free labor in all forms from their female slave aka “wife.” They have everything to lose by divorcing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:26 PM
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I’m pretty sure this man wants to access your home to install cameras or leave a way for him to enter and harm you easily. Please be extra careful. Inform your entire neighborhood of his creepy behavior and tell everyone. Scrotes rely on women’s silence to continue their predatory behavior scot-free. TRUST YOUR GUT, ALWAYS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:30 AM
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You were exactly right when you said it was the bare minimum, because it is the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:13 AM
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Very important point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:53 AM
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Your beliefs reinforce your reality. She believed, she conquered. You can believe in yourself too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:25 AM
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How did you date mainly? Through irl events, old, family connections? Just curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:09 PM
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The last line is absolutely golden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:09 PM
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Don’t tell her anything else about your marriage and slow fade her or cut her off. I’ve read tons of stories of women like that murdering happy women or setting them up. Save yourself seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:58 PM
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What’s the app you used?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:54 PM
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I think you make a valid point. Ask a question and move on ladies. You can do a background check or look up public records. No one likes to be badgered repeatedly. The truth will always come out, trust in your gut and instinct. Remember social skills come into play when dating. Think about if you’d like someone to badger you when you’ve told the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:08 PM
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When you receive his answer or he asks you back after he responds, you can easily clarify your stance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:04 PM
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Honestly flirting a little is totally fine. Flirting or engaging a man is NOT pursuing or chasing him. So do what you feel is natural in the moment. Be suave above it, not attention seeking and jumping on him. Just chill and natural. I’m sure you’re smart enough to sus out the situation.
/r/askFDS04/07/21 07:59 PM
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I get what everyone’s saying. But I also think possible HVM would be concerned with bothering a woman in the gym or elsewhere Bc she may not want to be approached. Which is true, we often don’t like to be approached especially when exercising etc. I’d make eye contact and smile. And at most, I’d say something, like ask a question or make a funny comment to him. If he doesn’t bite on that or ask you for your number or give you his, I’d drop it.
/r/askFDS04/07/21 07:52 PM
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We don’t need to give scrotes more time in the spotlight. Let’s avoid publicizing them like this. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:22 PM
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Well firstly, your ex is not a good guy. He is a NVM. HVM wouldn’t do that. Your ex is especially concerning Bc he wanted someone who trained you to accept abuse rather than someone who taught you to assert boundaries and expectations. He sounds like a narc abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:15 AM
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I mean not even love her. He doesn’t like her. He doesn’t respect her as a human being. He hates her guts. Most people wouldn’t even do this to a friend or stranger tbfh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:13 AM
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That’s not normal from a coworker. He gets his affection fixing from you daily. That’s very odd. This guy may have been using you as a work teddy bear. We’ll see if he steps up to ask you out when you leave. Do NOT pursue him at all, don’t even hint at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:42 PM
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Love this post 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:40 PM
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He visits his mother once a month who has cancer? And somehow that prevents him from responding to a text message that takes a few seconds. No decent person would do that. Genuinely, you need to wake up. Stop praising some asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:44 PM
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Post to r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:35 PM
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That’s exactly why she’s mad. She didn’t have the self respect nor the esteem to want better for herself. She knows this woman’s video is true, and it’s exactly why it strikes her nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:27 PM
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This also happens in the reverse. Men date women they know are conventionally attractive, but they’re secretly not personally attracted to her. So they keep her around as a trophy to show off to other men, while secretly disliking her. All women get harmed by their insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:21 PM
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I love this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:00 PM
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Your dad is a piece of shit, I’m so sorry he made you feel that way especially as an innocent child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:40 PM
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We stan Chinese queens. I hope they get more rights and benefits while keeping their boots on the government+society’s neck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:17 AM
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I’d like to see his reaction if you started sleeping with a bunch of men spoiling you. He’s the one who gave up on the marriage by cheating on you and deceiving you for YEARS, all premeditated. You’re strong. You WILL get through this. Save all evidence, pretend like you’ll stay and get divorce lawyer consultations behind his back and rinse him of all he’s worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:13 PM
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My way around being an anxious mess when it comes to dating or relationships is largely perspective-based. Make sure to have high standards and low expectations. Meaning: only accept the best that you want out of a man, be willing to leave at any moment that he crosses a boundary or disrespects you- but don’t expect him or anyone you date to meet those standards. So if he does, that’s great! But if he doesn’t, oh well, your standards still haven’t changed and it’s time to move on. There’s no rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:18 AM
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You don’t need to disclose it until you think you’d like to have sex. Then you should disclose it beforehand, obviously. You don’t owe that information to a man who can go babble about it to everyone and anyone. I would only tell a man I trust fully and a man is more willing to accept it if he’s fallen for you and wants to commit to you. You don’t owe men your private details until at least 6 months.
/r/askFDS06/06/21 01:02 AM
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Little girls are socialized to be slaves for the family. We are NOT naturally inclined to cook and clean and raise kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:14 PM
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Some men tell women they “kNoW” early on as a love bombing tactic. I almost fell for that shit when I first started dating. The men who truly feel like they “know” are worried about scaring you off in the first few months and tactfully keep it to themselves while presenting their love and dedication through their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:11 PM
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He still gets the much better deal. She not only performs all the reproductive labor, domestic labor, emotional labor- she also has to work as a financial manager. He can just work and come home to everything ready for him. He has no stressors. I wouldn’t be happy with this arrangement. I’d expect full access to his money and my own account he can’t touch that funnels 50% of his income into it, in case he decided to cheat or abandon me/our family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:32 PM
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A YouTuber, that’s her username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:51 PM
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Oh my god. I just read some of the thread and my suspicions all rang true evidently. I knew she was full of shit. It is really obvious tho to any woman who’s had success dating men with money. I was thinking hmm I’ve only dated handsome young well off men who’ve been more than happy to spend on dates and gifts etc but here she is claiming that’s impossible unless he’s ugly & geriatric, smh. It’s a shame, she could’ve done so much better for herself without such a scarcity mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:19 AM
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Oh wow, I’m kinda interested to see the info on her 👁 how did you find all of this info out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:31 AM
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Girl she tells women in their twenties to pursue men 30+ years older all for 6 figures AT MOST. I’ve dated men only within 1-5 years older and they’ve catered to me well and weren’t on their deathbed 🤦🏻‍♀️. I refuse to date old men ever. She married an old ass creep herself. And she tells women how to act when any HVM or man with money would run away screaming from her body language and behavior. She just doesn’t align with her own advice most of the time. She has some good principles I’ll admit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:23 AM
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Cough cough- sheraseven on YouTube has an obsession with telling women to date old raggedy men for average salaries 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:18 AM
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If he loved her he’d pay for cleaning service and buy prepared food. Men signal their hatred for the women they partner with so clearly, it’s actually nauseating to witness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:05 PM
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UNICEF is world renowned for being a huge pedophile organization. Of course they’d say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:04 PM
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Hmm okay yeah that doesn’t seem toxic. I’d suggest digging deeper and asking yourself why this bothers you so much. Or maybe have a conversation with him and ask him not to constantly change the subject from you to his family all the time, as that can just be plain annoying.
/r/askFDS31/05/21 11:10 PM
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Men often make shady remarks and subtly compare you to other women in an attempt to make you feel insecure and to mold you into them. This is an abusive tactic many men even use that causes their gf to get plastic surgery procedures etc. Now idk what he says specifically or his tone or intent, but unless you’re mentally unstable, you’re probably noticing something toxic. Probably the way he speaks about other women in his family is targeting you or belittling you in some way. I’d do some soul se…
/r/askFDS31/05/21 10:59 PM
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He “helps” cleaning the house he lives in. Because we’re automatically designated the role of housemaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:04 PM
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It took the red pill to convince you to actually work on yourself, get a damn job, and go to the gym? Women consistently say they want men who have shit going for them, much like men expect from us. And yet it took a sub that advocates for female abuse and rape, for you to say hmmm yeah I’ll try some self improvement! You’re disgusting. And this post won’t rectify all the abuse and rape you’ve committed against the women you’ve “dated.” I hope karma wrecks you big time.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 02:49 PM
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It was not silly. And you did not “let it bother” you. He was in the wrong and you rationally reacted appropriately to such harassment. He has no right to creep glare at you and you’re entitled to feel bothered by it. Please don’t blame yourself for male depravity. It is his fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:00 PM
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I’m from an Arab Muslim background. But this dynamic exists in most cultures around the world, it’s up to women to only accept this to continue to reinforce it tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:56 PM
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Her husband hates her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:56 AM
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I intend to do it the way my parents do it. My dads bank account is shared with my mother. Her bank account is her own, he has no access to it. He pays ALL of the bills, groceries, you name it. He buys her new cars, phones, vacation tickets, hotels etc. He also helped each one of my siblings and I with our college tuition. My mom’s money is her money to do with as she pleases. She mainly uses her money to buy random stuff for herself or us on the side. My dad still pays for her clothes and perfu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:22 AM
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He’s abusive and this is just the first inkling of a long road of worsening abuse. Leave now and NEVER look back.
/r/askFDS25/05/21 08:55 PM
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It had to be said! I have been shocked to see some women gaslighting other women for daring to protect themselves in this way. It isn’t insecurity/jealousy, it’s precaution. Men literally call women insecure or jealous as a gaslighting tactic against women’s self preservation + Intuition- and some women (yes, you Pickmeisha) will perpetuate that bs. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:38 AM
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My general timeline advice is proposal must happen by 1-1.5 years (unless you or him or both of you are under 25), and then there should be a period of 1 to 1.5 years until the actual wedding date/ceremony. So a total of 2-3 years max from first knowing him to fully married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:35 PM
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The math is certainly math-ing now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:31 PM
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Pretty sure he was trying to neg you. Fuck him, don’t take it to heart. He’s a scumbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:29 PM
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When I tell you, I am BEAMING with pure happiness for you. You’re an absolute gem of a woman and you deserve every bit of this grand treatment. I am so incredibly happy for you, my dear. May even more blessings come you and your daughters’ way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:23 PM
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Nordic men suddenly pay up when they date non-Nordic women so I’d hold to fds standards no matter what. Men are wired the same way universally. Fds standards will always lead you to finding the best of men wherever you’re located.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:15 PM
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They’re not blind, they’re gaslighters. They play dumb all the time to fuck with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:09 AM
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Can you link me to that post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:29 PM
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Exactly my thoughts. I hope karma fucks every single one of these cruel people up. And I hope that woman lives a happy life far away from this POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:59 AM
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I wish I knew you irl so you could help me out lol, I have major anxiety about going to luxury stores bc I know I can’t afford shit there rn. I need to get out of my head. I also never have the time to flip through thrift stores for items. I’m trying to dress in a more flattering way for my body shape lately but there’s almost no stores that actually deliver on quality unless you drop hundreds per item. Sometimes not even then. What stores do you buy from typically that are quality and affordabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:55 AM
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By that do you mean you dress expensive/classy? Could you explain more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:22 PM
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You are free to not click on these posts. Stop derailing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:49 PM
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He’s a scum bag. Don’t trust any man who invades female spaces. A true male ally would be donating to women’s shelters or actively contributing positively to the women in his life. He’s purposefully entering these female spaces as a targeting ground and you’re his prey. Don’t ever tell men about FDS. Nothing good comes of it. They’ll use it as a blue print to manipulate you. He’s love bombing you by asking you to be his gf before 2-3 months of 1 to 2 dates per week. Please read the handbook full…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:31 AM
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Your mom only says that bc she knows it’s what she should have done for her own self, and she lowkey hates that you have the strength and wherewithal to actually do it. Don’t allow anyone to shame you for having dignity and self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:23 AM
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We need to start publicly shaming scrotes. They act like this because they know most women won’t snitch or expose them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:44 PM
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And remember, they would never do even an atom’s worth of that excuse making and benefit of the doubt that you’re ready to muster up for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:49 PM
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Please read the handbook linked in the about section and post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:56 AM
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Please read the handbook linked in the about section
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:53 AM
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If you’re not attracted to them from the start, don’t bother wasting your time. Trust me. Also men would NEVER. They would only use and abuse a woman as an emotional tampon or pocket pussy if she isn’t their type. These fuckers wouldn’t even pay for a date for a woman they don’t find attractive. So don’t give dudes you don’t find attractive a chance bc if they felt that way about you, they wouldn’t show you an inkling of kindness or give you a “chance.”
/r/askFDS10/05/21 01:40 PM
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It may be him using her account to keep track of you. Post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:34 PM
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Please read the handbook throughly and never pursue or initiate things like this with any man at all. If he was interested he would be the one actively and clearly pursuing you and asking you out. You can post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:46 PM
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Please read the handbook in the about section thoroughly. And you can post specific questions like this to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:44 PM
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Arab refers to an ethnic group that can be found in the Middle East and North Africa. The Middle East itself is an inaccurate geographic political term itself but I won’t go deep into that tbh. Certainly not all countries in the Middle East are Arab. Like turkey, Iran, Pakistan, Afghanistan- all non Arab countries. I’m glad you’re working to learn more. I’m certainly no fan of the military to be completely frank. And I’m not surprised that despite them living in these countries, they still don’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:37 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:55 PM
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When women “gossip,” we warn each other about the behaviors of men and who to keep a watchful eye on. Of course they would stigmatize that. It’s also considered taboo and harmful for women to share what’s going on in their marriage in many cultures. They say it’s because you’ll get the evil eye on your relationship from envious women. But in reality, it’s so that women can’t discover that they’re being mistreated by hearing and comparing experiences with other women. Btw, men gossip way more tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:50 PM
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Zayn is half white half Pakistani
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:39 PM
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I had a friend like her and I ghosted her raggedy ass. Ghost her. Block her. All of the above. Don’t waste any more time.
/r/askFDS02/05/21 04:15 AM
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Wouldn’t have gone past the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:13 AM
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Men literally do everything for the male gaze and wonder why women aren’t attracted to them lmfaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:22 PM
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Break up. He doesn’t respect you. His family doesn’t respect you. And they are definitely talking shit about you. If you have no means to leave now, just act normal for the time being until you get home. If you do have the means to leave now, LEAVE. Don’t let them talk you into staying. Just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:06 AM
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I’d block and delete him. Any man who’s serious about you would ask for exclusivity and a relationship straight up by 2-3 months. The fact that he’s brushed it off and hasn’t directly asked you means you’re his plaything and he is having fun for the meantime. He also has a free place to stay when he visits. When you find out he’s been cheating on you this whole time, he will tell you that he hasn’t bc you’re not his girlfriend anyways and he never said anything about exclusivity. Men can and wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:03 AM
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No he’s telling you he doesn’t give a fuck about you and will use you to save his money. Please block this man for good.
/r/askFDS01/05/21 02:34 AM
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I hope you’re planning your escape asap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:40 PM
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This guy is a nightmare. You should feel honored that you’re no longer wasting time with him. What a cheap controlling piece of shit. Please read and internalize the handbook of FDS main sub.
/r/askFDS28/04/21 09:38 PM
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I know child-free women who are provided for by their husbands. They exist.
/r/askFDS28/04/21 02:51 PM
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Repost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:23 AM
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You did the right thing. This guy is a nightmare and a half. You need to keep your life at a distance from every single person telling you that you did something wrong. They wish for your downfall sis. Please look after yourself.
/r/askFDS28/04/21 12:32 AM
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Post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:19 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:16 PM
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Read the handbook and Post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:59 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:58 PM
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Please Read the handbook and post any specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:54 PM
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Why are you changing tunes here? She literally just said what I said, that you claimed to agree with. And women already do the 50/50 deal and are in worse predicaments than our ancestors. Guess who quits their job in libfem land? The women. We can simply refuse to quit our jobs and drop the scrote if he insists on that. Women can still be in the public sphere and refuse to do more than 50% of domestic labor, while the man financially provides for the bills and dates. Reproductive labor amongst o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:58 PM
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Are you being willfully obtuse? You can have your own source of income whilst having a man who pays the bills and dates. Plenty of women have this arrangement. Her money is her money, and his money is their money. So should he turn out bad, she has her own income to fall back on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:30 PM
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Looks like y’all need to read the handbook. OP is saying you shouldn’t marry just for the feeling of “love.” You should be absolutely practical about the benefits and risks of entering into a marriage with a man. If he doesn’t significantly increase your quality of life, both tangibly and intangibly, it’s stupid to marry for “love.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:11 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:10 PM
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A couple of them did have empathy in larger amounts than most men, but even then it wasn’t enough. Also misogyny that they did a good job of hiding at first or terrible political opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:27 PM
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Exactly. I’ve dated what many women would mislabel as “top tier” men. Men with tidy apartments, clean cars, put effort in their appearance, etc. They were well educated, fit, sociable, etc etc. But something was always wrong with their mentality which turned me off entirely from them. HVM are rare af, I often question if they exist truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:18 AM
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I thought this was satire lmfaoo. But this scrote really lacks critical thinking. Even if it supposedly lasted 64 days yadayadayada, people have sex pretty frequently. Most healthy couples don’t wait over 2 months to have sex- which would mean that all the sperm (according to his absolutely false information) would never reach max potential. Without porn. Lmfao I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:31 PM
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Lmfao isn’t that insane? A guy told me his ex cheated on him and did all these nasty things and I was like oh wow she doesn’t seem very nice. Then he was so offended like “no, it was my fault too, I did things as well.” Turns out he was the only problem and he couldn’t even stick to his lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:23 PM
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Post to r/FDSsuperfans with username blocked out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:04 AM
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Reddit scrotes will spend thousands on a gaming set up and not more than 50 bucks on their bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:58 AM
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Someone let this man know that women who enter his taxi/Uber are not in a relationship with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:16 AM
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Do NOT accept offers of “help” from men in public. Predators target women who look vulnerable and use this all the time as a strategy to pick “prey.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:10 AM
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You’re doing the right thing. Time will prove it to you. Stay strong sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:33 AM
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Men are asking women for “help” to get close to you or signal interest. I saw a video of a daughter of an FBI agent saying that women should never respond to or approach men who ask for any form of help outside. Men will always ask other men if they truly need help bc they have huge egos and think women are dumber or weaker than them. Ted Bundy and plenty of other serial killers and rapists kidnapped and attacked women by first “asking them for help.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:24 AM
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I remember I went to a huge event for teenage girls that was sponsored by female lawyers and figures who discouraged sending nudes years ago. Now society is encouraging it. The world has gone fucking mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:36 AM
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When posting screenshots please block out subreddit names as well, otherwise we will be accused of brigading. They’re extra harsh on our subreddit, as you can imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:30 PM
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Please read the handbook that can be found in the about section of this subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:29 PM
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That’s fine, it just takes time and effort. I have to actively refrain from using the word against other women I’m angry with. It’s so entrenched in pop culture and music that it easily slips off the tongue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:25 PM
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Let’s rephrase without the “bitches” portion. We don’t need to wield that word to deliver our messages to women. There’s already enough of that. “Pick mes” and “keep mes” should suffice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:06 PM
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That was a lot of words to signal that she has worms for brains, along with the men she interviewed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:46 PM
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Female conditioning to shoulder the blame and take it as a personal hit when men are dysfunctional or our relationships with them fail (due to their own actions and behavior). It’s something you must actively work on to undo. Please read the handbook in the about section of this subreddit. It’s a requirement for all posters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:02 PM
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Have you considered adopting a newborn instead? Idk it just seems sad to get donor sperm from a random scrote and not adopt an actual living human who has been abandoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:06 PM
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Her brother is lame af. Men don’t even stand up for their sisters anymore, that’s fuxking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:04 PM
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That’s so gross 🤢 I’d be turned off af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:45 PM
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Actually stats show that areas that legalize it experience HUGE spikes in sex trafficking and sexual violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:29 AM
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Post to r/femalelevelupstrategy or r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:06 PM
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Society would justify the brutal murder of a woman if she called a dude “scrote” publicly. They’d be like, oh well she had it coming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:52 AM
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I would rather mop the ocean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:30 PM
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Also don’t put pictures that you’ve posted anywhere else and remove geotags from all photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:59 PM
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I reported sexual assault during a date to bumble and the guy always had a new profile. They don’t do shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:55 PM
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Kick the scrote out. Right fuxking now. Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:20 AM
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I know who handmaiden of the century goes to now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:13 AM
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Female slave socialization is so real. I’m frightened by how pervasive it truly is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:09 AM
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Why would you stick to that plan for yourself. You should know better and want better for yourself. If he’s insisting on kids before marriage, it’s time to leave him sis. The math ain’t mathing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:03 PM
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Read the handbook. We do not have babies before marriage. Nor do we accept low effort in any form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:31 PM
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This post got a report that you’re promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability 💀 Edit: now it’s 7 reports and including “targeted harassment” complaint. Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:16 AM
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The guy I was with who was HUNG like a mfker had the deepest voice of all the men I was with. You’re onto something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:04 PM
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So you don’t follow the most basic tenets of FDS... You’ll definitely learn after getting burned. And you’ll feel extra bad when you realize we provided this info for you from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:10 PM
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Please link me to this study I NEED it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:45 PM
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They certainly would not. It has been reported by r/banfemalehatesubs tons of times. Reddit is a misogynistic hellsite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:59 PM
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Post to r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:12 PM
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We cannot allow posts showing usernames or subreddit names as we’ll be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:05 PM
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I wouldn’t say emotionally intelligent, I’d say more emotional. Emotionally intelligent women tend to spot these fuckers instantly. Not to toot my own horn, but I’m usually that woman in the crowd who has detected the psychopath while he charms everyone else around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:34 AM
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Please read the handbook and post to r/askFDS Don’t ever give men the chance to put you down by asking such questions like “rate me.” You’re a person, not an object for men to rate. You’re beautiful and he was negging you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:07 AM
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Repost with the sub name removed please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:05 AM
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Conviction rate of 97% ???- that must be a typo. Please edit and correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:00 AM
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Perhaps a pet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:50 AM
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I wonder how they would react if a woman had a fart kink. If she demanded the man let her fart in his mouth to get her turned on. Something tells me the reaction would be different 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:45 PM
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If it’s a fancy niche coffee shop where you KNOW he’ll be treating you to high end pastries or something, it could work. But the handbook explains why we don’t go on coffee shops as this is NOT the norm and definitely not what most men mean when they ask women to coffee. It’s better to scratch that off the list as it makes things easier to rule out. Why do you hate dinner dates? They don’t have to be long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:43 PM
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We cannot allow posts with usernames showing as our sub will be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:05 PM
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We cannot allow posts including usernames or subreddit names. You can repost with the username blocked out on r/FDSsuperfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:09 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:07 AM
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Read the entire handbook, we do not support such relationships here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:05 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:55 AM
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There’s the fds chatroom, and the fds weekly chat thread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:54 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:53 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:53 AM
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Please read the handbook and post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:52 AM
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Read the handbook and post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:45 AM
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Men expect things from women and feel women owe them without paying for anything, so this is faulty reasoning. That’s how most women pay half or most or all of the bills now while putting out to a scrote and essentially being his personal bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:03 PM
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97.5 percent of rapists walk free in the USA alone, according to the Population Reference Bureau. Tons of famous men have had hundreds of women accuse them of rape etc, and most haven’t been prosecuted at all or it took decades for them to even get a slight slap on the back. But yes totally, we could ruin a man’s life with one word. Oh yeah and the rapist Brock Turner, who was caught by two male witnesses raping a woman in an alleyway in the view of street cameras- was given 3 months in prison. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:34 PM
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Lord Farquad with a fade, headass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:13 PM
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Read the handbook and post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:12 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:07 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:04 PM
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Read the handbook and Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:06 AM
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Classic Jordan Peterson bullshit. When I hear men say this I KNOW they’re a fanboy simp of his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:40 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:33 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:29 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:25 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:23 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:22 PM
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Online dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:37 PM
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Online dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:35 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:27 PM
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We cannot approve of posts showing subreddit names or usernames, as we’ll be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:25 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:24 PM
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Block him sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:23 PM
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We cannot allow posts showing subreddit names or usernames, read the rules of the subreddit please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:19 PM
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There are weekly chat checkin posts where you can comment things like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:12 PM
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Please read the handbook fully and Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:09 PM
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Please link me this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:53 PM
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That should be fixed now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:16 AM
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Removed bc it’s a repeat post. Someone posted this a bit earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:15 AM
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Please read the handbook and Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:03 AM
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Cannot allow posts showing usernames or subreddit names as we’ll be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:10 PM
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We cannot allow posts showing usernames or subreddit names, as we’ll be accused of brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:08 PM
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We don’t approve of posts with usernames or subreddit names showing, as the sub will be accused of brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:44 PM
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Sis you should’ve blocked him right away, please refresh on the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:35 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:33 AM
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Smells like a scrotepost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:29 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:50 PM
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That’s disturbing af. It sounds like she’s admitting her son is a sexual offender. I think it’s time you and your daughter visit a lawyer and judge. The scrote son must be watching all kinds of incest porn and more depraved shit and may target your daughter as the filthy bio father and step mother have made it plenty clear that they’ll defend his depravity to the grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:58 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:14 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:14 AM
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Why would they post against a monster they admire, who reflects their true values and mission in life, the same type of monster they see in the mirror right before that shit shatters from the sheer combination of horrendous ugliness and depravity 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:34 PM
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Yeah I wouldn’t plan on doing this even during marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:48 AM
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Read the handbook and post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:49 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:39 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:48 PM
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Read the handbook and post specific questions on r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:34 PM
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Post to r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:40 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:00 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:51 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:51 PM
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Sis, men KNOW. They don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:17 AM
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Post things like this to r/FDSsuperfans and block out the username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:25 AM
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That’s always how the story goes. I’ve heard it so many times, it’s like an eternal record player in rewind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:35 AM
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It pains me to see so many good women hurt by scrotes. I wish each scrote the most painful, depressing, soul sucking existence possible. May their sleep and every waking moment be haunted for the rest of their miserable lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:48 PM
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Legit same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:14 PM
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Appropriating our culture 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:03 PM
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I stay shit talking men all over my socials and they can’t get enough of me. It’s true. But I don’t even care nor do I want their attention. But pickmes always lose, it’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:55 PM
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Make sure you read the entire handbook and rules thoroughly. And as you post comments and posts, even though they’re auto-removed,, we can still see them and when we have time we manually approve some. Over time, we will assign a flair at our discretion. We must screen/vet new users before approval to prevent brigading of the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:36 PM
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It’s like men have competitions between each other on just how depraved they can get. They all seem to be Olympic worthy runners for male depravity, scoring top ranks for abusing women in all aspects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:23 PM
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We have to approve everyone individually on askFDS, make an approved commenter post on there and a mod there should grant you access asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:10 PM
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We have to approve everyone individually on askFDS, make an approved commenter post on there and a mod there should grant you access asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:10 PM
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We have to approve everyone individually on askFDS, make an approved commenter post on there and a mod there should grant you access asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:10 PM
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He basically insulted her intelligence especially when it came to the black and white thinking. Was it black and white thinking, scrote? Was it? The pure gall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:07 PM
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They seek validation points from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:06 PM
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Reminder about the rule: No derailing or gaslighting about both sides. Read my comment on this thread for further clarification as to why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:41 PM
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Read my comment on this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:36 PM
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That’s what makes me think that’s a troll post. No one fucking does that after every move. Holy shit. Also, even men KNOW purely from body language that women do NOT consent- they just pretend like they don’t. They’re called rapists. If you tell a rapist no, he’s still going to rape you. It’s not their fucking kryptonite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:20 PM
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Men are NOT socialized to not speak up for themselves. They are also massively stronger and faster than us. To anyone with functioning brain cells, the difference is absolutely clear. Also when 96-99% of ALL rape is committed by men, we don’t need to teach women about consent bc clearly we already respect it. Edit: I’ve stickied this comment bc I’ve had enough of the derailing and gaslighting for bOtH sides. It’s clear. Read the handbook and rules of the subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:04 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:53 PM
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We can not approve of posts showing names or username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:52 PM
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Please post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:47 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:13 PM
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Can’t approve this post since the username is showing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:07 PM
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No problem! Your comment has been reinstated now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:10 PM
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Men play shitty video games online and get paid but that’s not apparently a scam lmfao. Pathetic scrotes at it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:43 PM
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This needs to be solely directed at men. Women already do everything and I know a shit ton of women are going to take this as an excuse to be even more of a doormat and “communicate more” and take on an even LARGER portion of all the labor for their porn sick limp dick scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:31 PM
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My mom would stab men who harassed her on buses and trains with her scarf pins. That got them to fuck off real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:24 PM
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Please remove the subreddit name as we’ll be accused of brigading. Respond once you’ve edited it and I’ll approve the comment again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:05 PM
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Don’t mention other subreddits on here, as we’ll be accused of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:03 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:56 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:55 PM
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Post to r/askFDS or r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:52 PM
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Sis stuck the knife in and kept pushing lmfaoo. Nothing but the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:05 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:09 AM
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Even if they did basic cleaning and cooking, it’s not even close to enough. They do a shite job of both, firstly. Secondly, they do none of the emotional labor (planning events, birthdays, gifts, appointments, etc). They don’t give birth. They don’t face discrimination in society in every aspect like women do. They WILL cheat and play games all day long off of your dime. No fucking way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:06 AM
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House husband? No ma’am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:39 AM
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Please read the entire handbook thoroughly. And post specific questions to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:52 PM
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Please read the entire handbook, we do not do coffee dates. Otherwise, you’re right. Men should ask you out on proper well planned dates and pay for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:47 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:04 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:49 AM
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LOL finally, someone like me. I’ll literally stop speaking to a guy over that. Oh and the grammatical errors. Yuck. If he doesn’t know the difference between their, they’re, and there- I don’t want to know him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:28 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:32 PM
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Misogyny, a tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:30 PM
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No clue why you’re being downvoted. This joke has been stated by women on twitter several times. I believe I even saw the original creator’s tweet, not too long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:34 PM
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We do not support or promote kink or BDSM or Porn or anything of the sort here on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:39 PM
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My dad has a joint account with my mom, except it’s just his money in that joint account. My mom has her own separate account for her money. My dad’s money is THEIR money, and my mom’s money is HER money. He pays ALL the bills and my mom can do whatever she likes with her money (whether that be save it all or spend it on anything she wants to really). This is equity, ladies. I plan to do the same thing if I get married. I advise you all to do the same as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:54 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:52 PM
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Read the handbook linked in the about section of this subreddit and post to r/askFDS for more specific advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:49 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:46 PM
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Read the handbook and Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:42 PM
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Yes. Major red flag. Dealbreaker, actually. A man who isn’t concerned with foreplay is a man you should leave immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:41 PM
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When posting screenshots be sure to remove usernames and subnames, as we will be accused of brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:39 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:36 AM
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Wait... how do you see that? That’s scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:20 PM
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Excuse me, where did any significant member on here advocate to treat their SO like crap? Don’t slander what this sub stands for, as it’s very clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:52 PM
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Ah yes. What does that signal to women? When we are punished for any avenues we take to defend ourselves. But the men who abuse, rape, and murder us receive pats on the back. It’s incredibly infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:17 PM
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post to r/AskFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:53 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:08 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:32 AM
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HVM will not ask your body count. Read the handbook. If you want more specific answers, post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:52 AM
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Read the handbook fully. Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:51 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:50 AM
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Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:45 AM
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Post to r/askFDS please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:37 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:36 AM
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I for one do not like that book entirely. I think she made some decent points in the beginning but I do not agree with her tactics and mentality by in large. Be authentic and follow what you’ve learned here on FDS. Don’t strategize every moment. Just keep observing his behavior for red flags and vet. Dating is meant to be fun, enjoy yourself. Know your boundaries and deal breakers and apply them when necessary. Don’t ever be scared to block and delete.
/r/askFDS15/03/21 02:25 AM
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He cheated on multiple of his ex wives and discarded them, they literally sacrificed everything for him to succeed. And he slandered and abused them for years afterwards. He just is no good. He also justifies male cheating on public platforms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:12 PM
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We do not support NVM like Steve Harvey on this platform. And it isn’t a set time, 3 months is the bare minimum and plenty of NVM/LVM are willing to wait just that long to use women and leave. It should be after commitment and when you’re most reassured and comfortable with the man. There’s no max time to wait before sex, it’s all about how you feel (min is absolutely 3 months though).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:04 PM
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We can not approve posts with other sub names mentioned or linked. Nor can we approve posts with usernames showing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:25 PM
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We do not support BDSM in ANY capacity on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:17 PM
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Those very basic actions are not enough to deem a man HV. As other commenters have mentioned, many men are pleasant and nice to outsiders whilst abusive to women in their personal lives. It’s a possibility that the men you mentioned are actually good men. However, none of us can be certain about that without thorough long term vetting and experiencing them in all sorts of situations. Men can also provide comfort to women they are simply attracted to with ulterior motives. It is of the utmost imp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:50 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:03 PM
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In the future, just block immediately. No need to continue responding. They get off on pushing you and your boundaries. It’s best to block, delete, and never look back. Please read the handbook fully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:57 PM
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You’re not sensitive. Your concerns are entirely reasonable. Your preface to your post signals that you have been gaslighted by societal misogyny and dismissal of women’s rightful concerns. You’re right on track. Don’t let them put you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:50 PM
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This is really gonna hurt male feelings on Reddit. They have major sour grapes phenomenon going on for FDSers. They label us as femcels bc we’re out of their reach. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:46 PM
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Don’t put out details that can clue predators on reddit as to who you are and where you live. They actively seek to doxx and harm FDSers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:38 AM
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Linking or mentioning other subreddits will get this sub banned for “brigading.” Please remember this in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:36 AM
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What are you waiting for sis? You deserve better. Leave him. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:24 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:11 AM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:09 AM
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Sis, we really advise not to post personal info on reddit. Insane incels and MRAs WILL doxx and stalk you. This is a warning to be cautious. We recommend people make a separate account for FDS without any personal info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:07 AM
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Please post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:49 AM
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When posting screenshots be sure to remove other subreddit names and usernames involved. Admins look for any reason to ban this subreddit, and they’ll use that as proof of brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:07 AM
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Did he talk about her with you? Like did he say how hot she is etc? I feel that you’re not telling us all the details bc why would you feel so bad out of nowhere.
/r/askFDS14/03/21 02:36 AM
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You’re justified in still expecting a man to be the provider. Just make sure you work too and save your money for your own sake. So at any point, should he betray or harm you, you can leave freely and safely.
/r/askFDS14/03/21 02:35 AM
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Clarify what your brother meant with that statement, it doesn’t sound so good from an outsider looking in. It sounds like shifting the blame or work onto women alone. If there’s more context, please make that clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:19 AM
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It’s likely far more but they refuse to draw the correlation and pretend they don’t know why such things occurred. Especially the mood swings and suicidal ideation caused by BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:51 AM
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I’d argue that take is misogynistic which is unsurprising since the medical community has always upheld misogyny and will continue to do so. Men getting women pregnant causes great risk and harm to women, so they should share that burden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:49 AM
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Read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:30 AM
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*Read the handbook fully and thoroughly* and post your specific questions to r/AskFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:27 AM
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Reddit is actually just South Park playing out irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:17 PM
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ALL people get robbed. Women and men. And guess who make up the overwhelming vast majority of robbers? Men. Only women RIGHTFULLY fear sexual assault, rape, and stalking, when we leave the house at any time but especially at night. No man leaves his house scared of kidnap, rape, sexual assault, and stalking. And if they did, it would be fear of other MEN. They do not leave their house in fear of ANY WOMEN for ANY reason. Period point blank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:27 PM
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Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:19 PM
39

Someone link the field post, I remember laughing so hard seeing that way back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:10 PM
1

Post to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:55 PM
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Post this to r/askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:41 PM
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r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:03 PM
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Repost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:58 AM
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Who are men in danger from? Lmfao chile, anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:54 AM
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Anyone else familiar with the type of men who are extremely friendly and helpful to outsiders but resent their own wife/gf and refuse to contribute or help her. I’ve never managed to understand this flavor of depravity tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:52 PM
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