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Truly, shoving ALL of this ideology/internet coaching aside, if people would simply actually like and pursue/be with who they’re genuinely attracted to (Not going for those who OTHERS tell them they should be attracted to.🙄) and actually like/love them, rather than waste and disrespect your own and someone else’s time out of fear of being alone, and THEN also scrambling to have the upper hand by leaving/dumping someone FIRST, I think MUCH of the angst/problems people have in their dating lives/r…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/25 01:13 PM
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Absolutely NOT. From ALL that I’ve read/seen of both, NOT AT ALL. RP highlights and promotes extreme coercion/manipulation and even violence towards girls and women. (I mean, THINK ABOUT IT: If what you are offering girls/women, are a really good thing for them, would you NEED to subject them to coercion/manipulation?? NO.) FDS’s main focus, are for girls and women to look out for red flags/manipulation tactics in men and how to stay safe/protect yourself AND other girls/women, and your own best…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/22 10:21 PM
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While I don’t personally agree with every single thing FDS states, (And GREATLY disagree with the RP ideology, obviously.) what I have observed/seen, is that FDS champions girls and women acting in their own best interests (Rather than be man-centered/centric, which MANY girls and women are/are socially conditioned to be.) and to put themselves first, making the best moves/choices for themselves and their lives, whether one has a man or not, and on the other end, RP appears to be about objectify…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/22 05:34 PM
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You CAN have empathy for someone and their situation, while ALSO not personally taking on their own struggles and sinking your own ship/life, because of them.🤷🏼‍♀️ As a woman, I don’t expect any man to take on any of my own personal struggles. (Even though those in my life, have graciously offered/offer to.) I handle that shit myself. It’s wildly hilarious to me, that women are supposed to have ALL of this compassion, empathy, and uNdErStAnDiNg for men and their struggles, and if we opt not to t…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 06:39 AM
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I don’t think it’s proof of redpillers being “right”, more that it being a certain standard of living/having a comfy enough life, if you’re going to be in a relationship. No one really wants to stay in, watch Netflix, and eat pizza until the end of time, because that’s all they can afford to do. Personally, I’d rather stay single forever, than be with a man who is broke or barely making it, while I also work FT and “split bills” with him, while he also expects me to clean up after him/a home, be…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 04:04 AM
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This, exactly.💯
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 02:06 PM
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Women typically have entirely different priorities than men do. Personally, I’d rather have complete/deep mutual trust in and a great connection with one, than going about fucking the free earth. Also, it’s exhausting to juggle multiple men. When would you have any time to and for yourself..??🥴 But hey, PRIORITIES.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 02:05 PM
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This is the one.💯
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:33 PM
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Again, NOT other women’s or anyone’s job or right to do that.🥴
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:32 PM
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Because it’s not women’s (or ANYONE’S for that matter.) job to police other women’s life decisions/preferences.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:31 PM
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The one comfort you can take away from all of that, is that those who adopt that behavior/mentality of KS, are just going to end up alone and miserable in the end.🤷🏼‍♀️ WHO wants to maintain being around such nastiness longterm..??🥴 A platform of nastiness and mindgames, in attempts to con women into dealing with you. Embarrassing. Utterly. ALSO, as a white woman, I immediately dismiss ANY man of ANY color, who downtalks/demeans women, ESPECIALLY women of color. ABSOLUTELY NOT. That doesn’t elev…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 02:33 AM
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I’ve actually followed the Tate bros. for a while on social media. (Twitter, YouTube, Instagram.) Funnily, I discovered them on Twitter around 3 or 4 years ago, via a feminist/sexworker dragging them to filth in a quote tweet.🤣 (And RIGHTLY SO.) Interestingly, upon further watching of their content, I do think they are hilarious on many topics/in their vids, have (at times) great banter, except in the area and topic of women. When it comes to women, they lose me ENTIRELY. The way they speak of u…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 06:42 AM
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We’re not hyper-focused on cock size, as much as men are about theirs, I can certainly say that.🤣 Sure, having a level of girth/length is certainly nice and helpful, yet, in my case, the best sex I ever had, was with average sized, interestingly. Skill and how you use it/knowing where to put it, MATTERS. As another has commented, unless a micropenis, it really isn’t something most of us ladies are obsessing over. Even if you are small, just become skilled with your tongue/fingers.🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s not …
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 03:50 AM
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OP, your assessment is correct. And “the wall” is used for nothing more than fear-mongering to get women to “settle” for (often) scraps, and/or abuse and mistreatment, before or when they “age out”. I’m 34, and “the wall” has in no way been my experience. My options have always been plentiful, then, AND now, however, I deny/turn down most, as it’s just not a “be all, end all” priority for me, to “have a man”/“settle down” or to EVER get married. I’m content within myself and what I do with my li…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 04:10 PM
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Interesting assumption. Yet, yes, I’ve got plenty of hope, as my identity isn’t based on if I’m in a relationship or not. Which is something both men and women alike, tend to center a lot of their lives and identities around. When you de-center “having a relationship”, - that being your life’s defining factor, it’s actually a quite peaceful and relaxing place to be at. I know not everyone reaches this state and place though, and it’s not for everyone. Even with all of that said, this alleged “wa…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 04:33 AM
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While I have empathy and sympathize for those who are financially struggling and do help certain people/organizations how I can and where I can, that simply is something I refuse to have in my dating/relationship life, and that is my prerogative. I’d rather be single, than be with someone who is financially unstable and/or irresponsible. Also, people are not entitled to a relationship. What I find (One thing of MANY, anyway.) disturbing about redpillers, is that they feel “cheated”, because they…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 11:13 PM
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Well, given everyone is different, the answer will vary, depending on who you ask, yet, I personally would not date someone in your situation. Roommates and living paycheck to paycheck, isn’t something I can see being conducive to a low-stress relationship. That (personally) would stress me out, knowing/having to deal with that. (No privacy when at your place, if at your place at all, and no or minimal money to do anything/activities/travel.) The reality is, (Unless I footed the bill for the act…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 10:17 PM
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EXACTLY. It would always make me worry when they’d ask to borrow money. I’d think: “Damn, as a woman, I would be SO EMBARRASSED to ask the man I’m with for money.”🥴 WHERE is their sense of responsibility and pride..?? Even I, ~a mere woman~ has that.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 08:45 PM
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YES!! Financial security and responsibility is HUGE for women, especially 30+. In the past, a few times, I was asked to help/lend to whom I was dating or in a relationship with at the time, because they were irresponsible or greedy with their money,🙄 and I always did, even though they made more money than me at the time.🤦🏼‍♀️(They DID always pay me back though, at least. I will give them full credit for that.) Oh, also, I have NEVER asked for or to borrow money from ANYONE I’ve dated/been with, …
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 08:33 PM
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What an excellent, thorough take and breakdown of all of that. I wholeheartedly agree. As a “waning in fertility”🤣 lady in her mid 30’s, I can certainly say I haven’t hit any “wall”. Opportunities are STILL plentiful, it’s that NOW that I’ve lived life a little bit, a guy/relationship that would’ve appealed to me at 24, would NOT appeal to me now, at 34. I know what I want and don’t want, what works and doesn’t work for me. Truthfully, most men and the relationship dynamic that/they would entail…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 08:10 PM
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I completely agree. They’re love and/or attention starved, have daddy issues, and/or other mental/emotional issues or even illnesses, OR they are cashing in on their youth as a sugar baby, which if the latter, HEY, at least they’re getting something tangible out of the interaction.🤷🏼‍♀️ Can’t be mad at or fault them for that. In my mid to late 20s, I dated a few in their 40s, and as an early 30s to my current almost mid 30s, I dated/was involved with a few in their early 50s, and while dating an…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:42 PM
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Oooof. This is the one, right here. That is EXACTLY what they are.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 05:39 PM
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I always have seen and felt that “younger” = typically (yet, NOT always) inexperienced, more naive. Malleable. Which means they can easier groom her to suit their “needs”, wants, and specifications. As a slightly older, “waning in fertility” lady, I feel nothing but sadness and sorrow for those young ladies, who will have years of mental and emotional abuse to unpack and heal from. Not a thing to be “envious” of. AT ALL. Only pity and sorrow felt.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 05:01 PM
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That IS true, MANY women that seek out abortions are in a relationship/married, yet, that being a more stable state of a relationship, some feel a tiny bit safer should an “ooops!!” moment occur, and have a higher chance of support from their partner in helping them seek out those services. (Not always sadly, yet, it’s a little more likely to have help/support from them, rather than some random hookup/casual situation.) My point is, is that women ARE and will be A LOT more careful and selective …
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 10:46 PM
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I can’t speak for all women/everyone, yet, ALL of the above that you mentioned, for myself. I’ve never been one to be a fan of/partake much in casual sex, yet my appetite for dating/any sex whatsoever, had been mainly killed well before this recent decision.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 12:21 AM
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Very kind of you,☺️ yet, don’t worry, MANY of us ladies are so PROFOUNDLY TURNED OFF by what has and is going on in society right now, that casual sex has been and will be a thing of the past or even never at all, for MANY of us.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 05:24 PM
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**Western women have their own minds, their own opinions, do what they want, and don’t bend to my will and whims. There, stated what they REALLY mean.😏🤣🙄
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 02:49 AM
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Well stated and laid out letter. Leaves absolutely no unanswered questions about your feelings/reasons, - HOWEVER, I feel and think this all is ENTIRELY wasted on him. I wouldn’t have even bothered. I’d have just packed up and left. He knows. He just doesn’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:07 PM
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Many men need a reality check and to be realistic with how many ways they use women. All manner of labor, (Housekeeping/all manner of chores, child rearing and care, cooking/entertaining, mental and emotional labor and support, etc., I could go on.) And ALSO while looking gorgeous/like a “10” on top of it. Women wanting something tangible out of a relationship, especially if he is exhausting to deal with/treats them shitty, isn’t a sin. Again, not a relationship I would want to be in, yet, I can…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 03:39 PM
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Truthfully?? I can’t be mad at a woman who wants to stick it out for the coin, if she’s been dealing/putting up with awful behavior. You can’t fault someone using back a user, entirely. Not the way I’d personally move, (My conscience gets to me.) yet, I can understand why others feel that way/do that.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 03:21 PM
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Truthfully?? I’d lean into it. I’d say: “Then GO. Go and “do better” than me. BE MY GUEST.” Until that talk materializes into action, it’s just talk. Also, as another commenter mentioned, you are rewarding his bad behavior.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:53 AM
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Damn, that sucks. Yet, a valuable, painful lesson learned. If you value someone, let that be felt and known by them. Life is too short to not be truthful with people. I’ve never had the heart to game people. I never make an effort to interact with people I don’t actually like and feel interested in. Friends and otherwise, so when people interact with people they don’t actually like, - that’s truly strange to me!! And then to play a game with someone you actually have feelings for..?? That’s teet…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:42 AM
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Couldn’t have said it better. This, exactly. That’s the extra sad game red-pillers play, and in the end, they ultimately play themselves, unless they truly are happy and fulfilled by using women like Kleenex..?? If they are, they need hours and hours logged on a therapist’s couch. Women are people, too. Not an object, not a 1-10 rating. Once that concept is truly grasped, I think men/women relations just might begin to heal on a whole societal scale.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:36 AM
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I think the point of the obnoxious laugh, is to punctuate the even more obnoxious subject matter she is addressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:25 PM
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Nailed it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:15 PM
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Wise unbothered hyena Queen.🤣💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:14 PM
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Precisely.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:13 PM
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I LOVE IT. It’s SO rich. The fact that it gets to them like that/pisses them off, makes me gleeful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:11 PM
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Right?! I want her as my “go do things with” best friend!!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:27 PM
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FAR too lovely to men.😏 More lovely than they EVER deserve, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:15 PM
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SLAYED. She killed him and ALL like him DEAD with her commentary.🥂 I LOVE her laugh, too.💕 All out hysterical cackling, at this vast display of buffoonery.🤣 (Don’t even get me started on how mister shirtless talks at women like preschoolers in the beginning,.. oh, excuse me, “females”.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️) Her face as it cuts to her, though.🤣💕💕 ALSO, on an overall scale, if men treated women the way women treat men..?? At least 70-80% of worldwide peace would already be achieved.😏🤣 These guys that are salty a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:02 PM
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The ACCURACY though.😭 I’ve seen EVERY ONE of these “types” before forsaking all of the app shit well over a year ago. SO predictable.😴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:27 AM
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Really, I consider those girls/women so indoctrinated/brainwashed from a young age, to “have/keep a man at ALL costs”!! Most of them are also EXTREMELY codependent. It’s so very sad. :( In fact, seeing those sorts of posts/tales so frequently, made me take a break from Reddit not too long ago, for around 2-3 months. One thing I DO know, is that they have to get SO sick of that abuse/mistreatment, and hit their own “rock bottom”, to take responsibility and leave those marriages/relationships behi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:02 PM
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EXACTLY.😏 VERY INTERESTING how men’s issues are ALWAYS brought up/dragged in, when we’re addressing women’s issues.😏🙄 DIVERSION, MUCH?!?! I always counter with: “NO, no no no. LET’S STAY on topic, here!!”😌😊 It’s like corralling rogue toddlers.🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:16 PM
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LOVE a great, justifiable b!tch slap.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:14 PM
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WHEW. So very well said!! That last paragraph about older women being vilified for enjoying their own company and freedom, - NAILED IT. These older ladies have found the secret/the life hack, and it TERRIFIES males and even other codependent/mancentric women to see/know that, and to reflect on where and why they lack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:00 PM
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I have a rich one about this: My ex, with who I was in a relationship with the longest amount of time/before I broke up with him, confessed this to me: “I subscribe to 3 different OF girls, because they look like and remind me of you.”🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ He even sent me the links to their OF pages, and sure enough.🤣 Lord. And then the OTHER issue of the shaming/condemning of OF girls by males, that they themselves frequent/subscribe to.🤦🏼‍♀️ Like.... sir, YOU ARE THE ONES KEEPING THEM IN BUSINESS..?? WHAT’S …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:45 PM
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Jesus.😕 When a soap opera plot happens in real life!! (A part of me PRAYS this is fake, yet, I have a sinking feeling this is true/actually happened.😞💔) How do you even begin to emotionally and mentally unpack ALL of that, and EVER recover..?? All of those years “together”, built on pure lies.😒 (ALSO, this is why I have LONG been against immediate and extended/multiple families living next door/close to each other, or on a family property/compound, - the potential for things to get MESSY easily,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:20 PM
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RIGHT?! There TOTALLY would be a fisticuffs in the parking lot, if he told one of his bros that he was “taking him someplace nice” to celebrate bro’s promotion, and they pull into a McDonald’s.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ Yet, they would never do that to one of their “boys” because they actually respect each other. Tell me “straight” males?? WHY YOU ACT SO GHEY?!?!💀 MEANWHILE, taking women out and “testing” her, is ALLLL jokes, laughs, fun and games.😒 It breaks my heart that the blonde lady in the TikTok, didn’t imme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:29 PM
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“MY PRECIOUSSSS!!!!”👹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:08 AM
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NAILED IT.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:48 AM
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Truthfully?? I lean into the whole whale narrative.🤣 If you learn about whales, they really are such beautiful, lovely creatures.💙🐋 ALSO who can beat on a whale??🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:29 AM
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THIS RIGHT HERE.💯 NOT the Machiavellian manipulation tactics.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:27 AM
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YES. This irks me to NO END, too!!!!! This reminds me of a post of mine that got lost in all of the other posts here a while ago.... I’ll link it. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q035mc/an_observation_i_made_while_people_watching_today/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:16 AM
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NAILED IT.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:11 PM
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NAILED IT.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:10 PM
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I put money on the other lady that he was interested in, turning him down or she rightfully dumped his ass, and he’s NOW miffed he lost his “best backup/insurance plan”.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:08 PM
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Love Ali!! I need to re-watch everything of hers!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:15 AM
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A cinematic masterpiece.🤣🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:03 PM
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“bUt WOMEN aRe tHe eMoTiOnAL sEx!!” 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ PLEASE. Get bent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:23 AM
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How cute!! What a sweetie.🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:18 AM
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RIGHT?!🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:08 PM
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This is the ONLY justifiable way.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:09 PM
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He’s already practically living at her place 5 nights a week, and he HASN’T been helping financially this whole time..??🥴 THE WHOLE TIME?! Oh HELL NO. And then THE AUDACITY to tell her “check her spending?!”🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ $3k a month for a studio?! Where does she live?! San Francisco or NYC..?? *Edit: just saw that last slide. NYC. FIGURES.🤦🏼‍♀️ She needs to tell him he’ll have to pay x amount of dollars since he’s practically living there, anyway. If he refuses, time to dump him, and see if she can fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:47 PM
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OH MY GOD.😭💀 Proud I have never had a Valentine’s Day go that way.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:18 PM
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SAVAGE.🤣 In all fairness though, most all of us have gone through our “clown” phases.😏🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:16 PM
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No, she doesn’t have to. It’s not women’s jobs to make males feel better for their VAST, grievous failings. She’s right, whether it was a jab or not. Kanye and Travis deserve to be roasted and laid out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:49 AM
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AND..?? Even if it were a dig, it’s WELL DESERVED. The way Travis has addressed and handled the whole Astroworld nightmare, has been absolutely dismissive and repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:34 AM
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The societal gaslighting (IS and) would be SO real.😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:31 AM
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That is so sad.😒😕 Kylie is wealthy and attractive enough to have someone SO much better and nicer looking. I never understood why she went for the guys she did. (Tyga, then Travis..??🥴🥴) At least Stormy is very cute and precocious and hopefully her new baby is, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:30 AM
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They are SO embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:26 AM
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I wish he would, and no he won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:49 PM
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He really is.🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:48 PM
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Nailed it.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:48 PM
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Is anyone going to honestly be sad when Kanye dies or “mysteriously disappears”, aside from maybe his kids..??🥴 SO bizarre that he goes after her for this, when Billie was simply being a decent human being and making sure a fan in the crowd was taken care of. HMMMMMMMM, SEEMS LIKE THERE IS AN ADMISSION OF GUILT HERE, WITH THE BRINGING UP OF AN ENTIRELY UNRELATED, TRAGIC INCIDENT THAT BILLIE AND HELPING HER FAN HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH.🙄 SHE MADE NO REFERENCE TO TRAVIS/ASTROWORLD. SEE KANYE?? SOME …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:40 PM
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I second coconut oil pulling!! (After flossing/brushing/mouthwashing FIRST, of course.) Also, I SWEAR oil pulling, pulls out staining, too. My teeth are visibly whiter after a 15-20 min. pulling session.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:13 PM
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I know.😣 Truthfully, lazy and bad hygiene. A lot of them infrequently brush/floss/mouthwash. Or “brushing their teeth” is a quick swish of mouthwash, and that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:54 PM
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It really isn’t.💕 It only becomes “too late” when you believe and keep telling yourself that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:38 AM
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Love that for her.🥂💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:36 AM
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THIS.🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:21 PM
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I’d have paid to see that.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:19 PM
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Ugh. YES. Horrid horrid “people”. I had found a long time ago, that one who proclaims themselves as “brutally honest”, is their self-given excuse to be a raging asshole with zero remorse.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:14 PM
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They really do expect us to: “I woke up like dis.”😭 Lunatics. The whole lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:37 PM
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Baby canon.😭 That is how I will visualize all births, now.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:36 PM
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I mean, I’m sorry that you’re ugly-hearted/have scary rage issues and have no lips..??🥴 How is that a woman’s fault or problem?? Why would a woman want to risk procreating with that, to potentially be offed in one of his unadulterated rage fits, and bear children who have no lips and ugly personality traits..?? Ladies, breed this out of existence. Natural selection.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:33 PM
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I AGREE!!🥴😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:27 AM
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Nailed it.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:24 AM
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Exactly. 1000%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:24 AM
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This is exactly why I’ve opted NOT to have biological children. (I may adopt someday.) It’s too risky to involve a man fucking up your own and your children’s lives.😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:22 AM
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Jesus. Has he NOT heard of DVR/TiVo??🙄 Women, STOP procreating with these hopeless, worthless cretins, already!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:20 AM
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This take.😭💯 And the rage towards women for turning them down, when they should simply be angry at themselves.🤦🏼‍♀️ If there is ONE THING males will do, it’s the “deflect and project” maneuver.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:23 AM
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NOT skidmark management!!😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:47 AM
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Nailed it.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:37 AM
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Nailed it.💯🥂 Even in nature, males compete for the attention of the females of the species. The most suitable/“qualified” male gets the permission to mate. The rest kick rocks. That’s nature’s divine design.😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:35 AM
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And that’s completely understandable!! Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t. It depends on the comfort level. (And yes, MANY a time have men tried to get me white girl wasted™️,🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ which is why I only have 1 drink, MAX 2, and never see them again.) As for myself, I can easily handle 2 potent drinks without a buzz, and I always drive myself there and home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:43 PM
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Which is why I have a 2 drinks and done rule.🤷🏼‍♀️ (I’m very responsible with my alcohol intake.) Yet, if one doesn’t feel comfortable with that and/or feel it’s low effort, TOTALLY respect the choice to not go on drink dates.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:25 PM
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NO COFFEE OR “GO FOR A WALK” DATES. I consider those “interviews” that will end with a lowball (literally) offer.💀 I don’t initially do breakfast (Too early.💀) or lunch dates, (Too casual.) either. I do brunch or dinner and/or drinks, in the beginning. (As per a wise dating coach suggests.) Coffee, and breakfasts/lunches can happen when in a relationship, and that initial effort has already been heavily put forth.🥂 This is PERFECT initial vetting. If some male doesn’t want to buy you brunch, or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:31 PM
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Nailed it. 1000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:57 PM
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Nailed it.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:55 PM
2

Precisely.💯🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:40 PM
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I dated/was engaged to a Muslim man, once. Sorry to say that sounds COMPLETELY on brand. (Even quickly marrying a very young lady after me.) SO thankful I didn’t go through with marrying him.🥂 Sadly, he’s HER problem NOW. Poor lady.😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:31 PM
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My perspective is a little different on this: I 1000% respect when girls/women want to dress in a protective way, yet, personally, I would never let males dictate and ruin the way I love to dress/look. I’ve ALWAYS worn what I like and want. All of your references are iconic looks and bad ass.💕 (Nearly ALL are personal favs of mine, as well.) Wear ‘em!! (And if you’re worried about being bothered. Bulk up, lift. I have.😂) You can always be selective with and mindful with those looks when going ce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:13 AM
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Truthfully, I like all of my variety of girly crap for solely myself.😂 I love having a million of everything, having options. Clothes, makeup, shoes, jewelry, handbags, all manner of accessories. I love it ALL. Sometimes, I go makeupless and dress in solid tanks and leggings, and sometimes I go full on done up. Just depends on my mood at the time/for the day. That all being for a man never crosses my mind. All of my girly crap is for ME to enjoy.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:01 AM
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I love these juicy reads.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:10 PM
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Bottomline: words, especially the nice, fluffy kind, are MEANINGLESS unless actually acted upon and fulfilled. Don’t pay attention to words, pay attention to ACTION. The actions that back up those words, and don’t give ANY of yourself, until those actions/promises align with the words said. Endless, unfulfilled words/“promises”, are the con of the ages that’s constantly pulled over on women. Let’s END that shit already.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:19 PM
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How is this in ANY WAY “cute”..??🥴🤢🤮 As if how women are so often referred to and treated like cattle, needs to be punctuated.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:11 AM
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Precisely.💯 Consider the environment and sort of people, there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:00 PM
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Weirdly so. Even that utter scum, admits at least that one aspect of “what a good man does”.🥴🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:25 AM
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Jesus.😕 Absolutely and utterly DISGUSTING, yet, NOT AT ALL surprising, sadly. May that vile creature and all the like, be swiftly sent to rot in the bowels of hell.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:22 AM
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If you have a great partner already, these sorts you attract are just noise, then. Ignore them.☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:41 PM
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Two things that immediately came to mind: 1.) Unfortunately, when you have your shit together and are doing well for yourself, an icky side effect of that, is that you can attract a lot of people who try to leech off of your success. In EVERY area. Friendships, relationships, even family, and in business. In time, you’ll get even better at immediately spotting those sorts, and cutting them off swiftly. This is a reflection of their desperation and need. NOT a reflection of your quality. 2.) Chan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:00 PM
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This was a filthy rich story to read.😂🥂 I’m smiling to the point of my cheeks hurting. LOVE THIS for you, and every woman who reads this!!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:36 AM
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JUST read this one!! I was going to post about it, yet, I’m thankful I was beaten to it!! That poor woman.😒☹️ I hope she gets an abortion if she feels trapped within that, and divorces him, ASAP. Top comment there, even recommended that. HOW can one say that to the woman they married and who is carrying their child?!?! HOW?! He clearly doesn’t care for and love her. In every (HEALTHY) relationship, you help each other out. MY GOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:15 PM
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If girls/women aren’t checking out this sub for themselves, due to the “reputation” that’s been (falsely) painted of here, instead of seeing/critically thinking for themselves and forming their own opinion, they aren’t ready for this sub, anyway. Too easily influenced. As for myself, when something garners a level of infamy, I always go see for myself what it’s all about. It isn’t lost on me, that what’s negatively said about this sub/the members, is always so far from the actual truth and exagg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:29 AM
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God, he’s such an idiot. He had an amazing life, and he completely ruined it.🤡 I feel SO badly for ALL of the kids the most, his 4 girls, and his half-orphaned son.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:41 AM
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Your friend “Eve”, is doing the Goddesses’ work. I’d buy her drinks.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:27 PM
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Every 18+ woman needs to read this. Even younger, if they’re contemplating marriage. I’m SO beyond thankful I never had kids with a man or married one.💯🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:58 AM
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Ehhhh, not really. Us ladies aren’t bathed in compliments as much as they would think. I’ve received FAR more criticisms/negativity in life from people as a whole, than an abundance of compliments, as a woman. For me, the silver lining of that, is I only value what I think of me, and maybe a few that are close to me that I love/care for. THAT’S IT. What anyone else thinks of me, doesn’t matter or even register. Also, I don’t count “compliments” that I can sense are false flattery/an attempt to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:55 PM
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“She has something I DON’T!! Even though I do not need it, STILL, SHE HAS SOMETHING I DON’T.” - By that logic, I hope they wake up with tits, a vagina, and a fully functioning brain, someday.😏🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:48 PM
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Proof the scrusaders have FAR too much time on their hands.🥴 Long gone are the days they’d be too busy building a house, farming, or dying in a war, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:46 PM
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That’s what kills me. Why didn’t extended family help take care of the kids, or if that wasn’t feasible, at least have a nanny be hired to monitor/help?! Even better yet, not overloading the woman with bearing THAT MANY kids?! Some friends of my family, personally know them, and we were told that a lot was going on behind the scenes, (clearly) that wasn’t made public. Just the tip of the iceberg in what was made known/came out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:24 PM
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Good Lord.😏 Lest we forget the women who off their kids and get absolutely demonized (As anyone who kills their kids SHOULD BE, - AT LEAST be consistent!!) in the media and trials, and also in the court of public opinion. As usual, ALLLLLL of the compassion, empathy, grace, and understanding, should be extended to males/fathers for that shit, while women are made the literal devils for the same offenses.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:17 PM
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I can say, that one making me orgasm, is in fact a dealbreaker, my emotional attachment/development with them must be occurring, and OBVIOUSLY, I must really like them, too. So, utter trash argument, my dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:13 AM
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Oh, and I meant to add this, earlier!! You reminded me!! 6.) NO having to “return the favor”.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:53 PM
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All girls and ladies who read, let me advise: A “hoe phase”, isn’t anything that some killer sex toys can’t best.🥂 Why?? 1.) Guaranteed orgasms. 2.) Guaranteed orgasms. 3.) Guaranteed orgasms. 4.) No pregnancy or STD/STI worries. 5.) No having to deal with fuckbois. Save yourself A LOT of heartache/trouble, and invest in some nice sex toys, before embarking on a “hoe phase.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:21 PM
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My soul is WEARY of seeing these sorts of stories. Every day. When will this STOP?!?! Rest in Peace and Power, Agnes.😔💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:42 PM
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It ALL really is a grand scheme of projection. The more highlighted and portrayed girls/women are as being “bitchy”/“evil”, the less attention on those who really are the most evil and bitchiest of all: males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 11:11 PM
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This is why I believe women have to get jacked buff (Especially in the upper arms/chest area.) and start throwing punches, after telling one to STOP the first time, and it’s done again. Males NEED to be afraid of us.😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:05 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:25 PM
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The extra TIME for myself, is the hugest one for me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:23 PM
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Someone sounds saltyyyyyyyyy AF, because women find their own lives they worked HARD to curate, WAY more fulfilling and interesting, than him/males as a whole.🤣😭🙄 To ask him/those like him a question that they ~love~ to ask us: “wHo hUrT yOu?!” 🤣 Oh, and I ALWAYS HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL value my own animals, more than having/trying to keep a man.🥂 Stay mad.😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:19 PM
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Even though this was previously a very sore point for me as well, and I (eventually/finally🙄.) started receiving bouquets of flowers, I regularly buy myself oodles of flowers.☺️ Just bought 2 bouquets for myself at the Farmer’s Market yesterday.☺️ You know the whole phrase of: “If he wanted to, he would.”..?? Well, I WANTED TO, AND I DID.🤣☺️💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:46 AM
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YES.👏🏻 MA’AM.👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:27 AM
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THAT TITLE!!🤣🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:33 PM
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Well, THIS is a revelation to read!! In all truth, ^ the above is the exception and not the rule. Sadly, I don’t know of very many men and relationships that exemplify that.😕 A few, yet, not many, and not nearly enough!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:32 PM
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I would’ve liked to have seen above quotes from women of all backgrounds and skin tones, as well.😔💔 The quotes above are all well and good, yet, so many voices, backgrounds, and experiences are being left out, AND THEY ARE JUST AS VALID. None of us are truly free, until we ALL are. One of my favorite quotes in the world, from Lilo and Stitch came to mind: “Ohana means family, and family means NO ONE gets left behind or forgotten.”💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:36 PM
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This is the life hack I’ve been on, too.😂 Wayyyyyyy less stressful.😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:01 AM
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Chief Theresa!!👑 The kind of leaders we NEED. Women like her, are who we need calling the shots.💯 The Matriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:54 AM
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Oh my... do I SO feel this one!!🤦🏼‍♀️ Now, I immediately trust my gut/feelings, rather than question or dismiss them. You have those gut feelings FOR A REASON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:44 PM
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EXACTLY. Weaponized in it’s misuse.😏 What a surprise.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:27 PM
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I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry at how comically and tragically bad this ALL is...🥴 That poor “bride”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:46 PM
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I noticed that IMMEDIATELY. If he buys you shoes, you get him a suit..??🥴 IN WHAT WORLD...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:36 PM
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Hideous. Gross. I do not speak in brokenese with males.🤢🤮 Ladies, LOVE YOURSELVES ENOUGH TO JUSSSSST NOT WITH THAT SHIT. ALSO, that pickmeisha above, is the sort who loans out her debit/credit cards and car to her “king”,🙄🤢🤮 while he uses that all to take other women out. Clowns alllllllllll around....🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:26 PM
24

I still love referring to them as brickheads/brickheadedness.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:27 AM
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“Translated from scrotese.”😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:37 AM
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Women don’t leave for one issue/instance like (repeated) left dishes by/in the sink.🙄 It’s many, many, MANY, MANY, MANY various instances and acts of inconsideration and lack of care/carelessness over months and even YEARS, where after they finally snap one day and walk, because of the 18,874th time the dishes were left by/in the sink.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ (You know, the whole “death by a thousand cuts” experience.) They don’t listen, they don’t care. What in THE FUCK do they expect will eventually happen..?? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:21 AM
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That’s EXACTLY how my Mom and Dad have their financials/money set up, as well. SEPARATE bank accounts, and a joint one, that they can transfer from either of their accounts to, for shared payments/big things. Works beautifully. If in a relationship that progresses to that point of seriousness, that is EXACTLY how I’ll insist the money be done, too. Ironclad. No negotiations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:59 PM
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GOOD LORD.🤦🏼‍♀️ Women need to stop agreeing to marry a vast majority of males. Every day I come on this site and read multiple, countless tales of the antics and audacity of males, such as this. EVERY. DAY. ALSO, if women pulled the same in the stories like this I read here, they’d be branded as “crazy” and have the police called on them, faster than an eye blink.🙄 And I’ve long said this: LADIES, ALWAYS KEEP YOUR FINANCIALS/BANK ACCOUNTS SEPARATE. And NO, he doesn’t need your info/password for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:54 PM
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The road to freedom isn’t linear. There will be stumbles and slips, at times and in instances. There is value in what you experienced here, though: If you ever feel like doing something like that again, REMEMBER this instance. What happened, and how it made you feel. Don’t repeat the same, and never look back.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:39 PM
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RIGHT?! On board with her on it all, minus the fur wearing/killing animals.🙅🏼‍♀️ THAT IS ALWAYS AND FOREVER A HUGE NO!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:12 PM
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I thought my above theory, WELL before I saw the movie, yet, watching Maleficent, is what sealed it for me, and convinced me that my theory is correct!!🖤🧚🏻‍♀️ Also, a while ago, MAC came out with a Disney villains line of makeup - Venomous Villains. (LOVE THAT!!) You ~BEST BELIEVE~ the two pieces I got, were the Maleficent eyeshadows. One is “She Who Dares” (A blue/green mix.) and “My Dark Magic” (A purple/fuchsia pink mix.) I LOVE THEM!!🖤🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:04 PM
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I’ve longgggg had a theory, that Disney “villain” women, are really the Disney Princesses that “things just didn’t work out for”, thus becoming the anti-heroes.🖤👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:12 AM
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And reading this right here, is how I found out about Gabbie Petito finally being found in the woods.😒💔 Although, I already had that sinking feeling that this is how she’d be found, and of course, the boyfriend did it. HOW LONG will this all continue on..?? Women’s VALID concerns, issues, and intuition/gut feelings, being reduced to “mental illness”, “crazy” and “hysteria”??😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:19 AM
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YES. Just how “young ladies” back in the day, were “sent” to “charm”/“etiquette”/“finishing”🤢 schools, the sort of school/education you suggest above, would actually benefit girls/women, rather than simply ready them for a man/marriage/motherhood. - ALL of those sorts of schools I mentioned above that were huge back in the day, were for the benefit of men rather than girls/women.😒 THEY HAD THOSE SCHOOLS, OF COURSE.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:47 PM
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YES for this school/those courses!! I’d LOVE to be one of the teachers!!🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:57 PM
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Ahhhhh, yes. The hobosexuals.😏 Gotta be quiet/careful about your own place/living situation, ESPECIALLY in the beginning!! Once they find out.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ I’ve had to swat a good few away.😏 There NEEDS to be hobosexual fly swatters (Preferably the electric netted ones.😊) and repellent made!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:56 PM
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Good LORD. What a living nightmare!!😕 Thrilled for you that you’re NOW free, though!!💕🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:03 AM
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Of course!!☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:23 PM
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I always say of/to those sorts: “GET OFF THE DRUGS. LEAVE THE CULT. BLINK IF YOU NEED ASSISTANCE.” 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ The sad reality and fact of the matter is, they have to hit however many “rock bottoms” with these males/relationships, before they start to “see the light”. No one can’t want freedom and improvement badly enough for you, except for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:19 PM
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THIS.💯 So very well said. While I don’t always agree with every. single. thing. that is said on here, and my personal principles are different on a few FDS beliefs/topics, I still do agree with a lot of/most of what’s said here and championed. I don’t take the few things I see differently on, as a personal attack, either. I just don’t elaborate on/engage with what isn’t for me. You can scroll right along/not comment. Super easy. MANY need to learn not to be so extreme and all or nothing. You can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:03 PM
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EXCELLENT advice and a reminder!!💯 When dealing with people as a whole, and males especially, if you are having problems in your dealings with people/relationships, you have to do the inner examining and work of why exactly that is. For me, I had to realize that while what others/(males especially) put me through is ON THEM and not my fault, it WAS my fault for sticking around and putting up with it for the (thankfully pretty brief) amounts of time that I did, and NOT cutting them/all of that of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:08 PM
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THIS.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:31 PM
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💯 This is such a GREAT, thorough, and all-encompassing read. I wish that ALL girls and women would read this, especially so before ever dating.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:29 PM
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I personally wouldn’t do that. Because then OP might get branded as a “psycho who can’t let go” by her ex, and then his fiancé might not believe her. If I were in OP’s shoes, I would anonymously or from an alias profile send the link to “the light” that is FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:02 PM
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Oh my.🙁 That poor woman... I hope she wakes up and “sees the light”, before she actually goes through with marrying him.💔 Maybe you can anonymously message her or set up a profile under a different name/pic, the link to FDS!!😭🙏🏻 Wouldn’t that be beautiful?? Be the cause of her leaving him.😊🤣🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:16 PM
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Because he thought it was cute/funny..??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:46 AM
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I have longggggg said: ”Money CAN buy happiness, it just doesn’t always guarantee contentment.” For some, it DOES buy contentment, for others, it’s never enough. Yet, that whole “Money can’t/doesn’t buy happiness!!” statement, is a load of shit. It can buy A WHOLE LOTTA HAPPY.🤑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:53 PM
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This reminds me of something... I was engaged to a guy that had his fuckboy (it was velvety and black.🤣) robe, (😏🙄) and one day, I came over and said to him: “I have something to show you...” and I whipped out my velvety hot pink robe/put it on, and he threw his head back and cackled. Solidarity, I guess.✊🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:55 PM
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The accuracy.🤣😭 This has killed me for the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:50 PM
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Because it’s allllll about them/their egos.😏 They can’t be/feel “intimidated” and shown up on, by a ~mere woman~.🤣🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:36 PM
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Beautiful.🥂 Although, ALSO very sad and hilarious, too. However, I’d wager the only reason why they are doing/enforcing that, is because it’s cutting into their business/profit. NOT solely to benefit women. If it didn’t affect business, I don’t know if they’d give a shit. Using this reasoning will attract women/more business and make them appear better than they are. Not as “kind” as one might perceive. It’s a step in the right direction, though. Even if it’s not really to entirely benefit women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:49 PM
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I’m so very sorry you lived through and dealt with all of that, - I dealt with similar in the past, yet, we lived, we learned, we’re wiser, and we made it out on the other side. Freedom is had. We’re here.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:27 AM
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That’s great and lovely.💕 There is no greater living, than living for yourself, FIRST. The peace and contentment achieved!! Very happy for you!!💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:28 AM
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Males aren’t solely after younger women for their youth, as much as they’re after them for their naivety and lack of knowledge/lack of boundaries.😏 You ~best believe~ many more males would be parking themselves in the homes of 30+ yr. old women to be “kept”, if more older women would allow them to bum about.😏🤣😭 Older women often put up with FAR less or no shit, because we’re wise to the game and know our worth. And it really is never too late to turn your life around, and make it what you want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:24 AM
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I’ll toast to that.🥂 I take this as the highest compliment.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:23 PM
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ALL of this.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:12 PM
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ALL OF THIS.💯 “And being pretty doesn’t save you from misogyny, it just changes the misogyny you face.” YES. I was even talking to my Mom about this, the other day: “Even when I was considered more “conventionally attractive” and weighed 127lbs at 5’7, more guys were only “nice” to me, because they wanted to fuck me. Not because they genuinely cared about me as a person.” And even then, I see SO MANY gorgeous/“conventionally attractive” women, who are enslaved to “keeping a man”, when he still l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:06 PM
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This was beautiful to read.💕 While also very sad, and a profound shame for them. Being a woman certainly has it’s own set of challenges and sorrows, yet, I’d take this 1000 lifetimes over and ALL of the periods/bleeding too, than to ever experience their void.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:54 PM
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Excellent points. They’ll never know or experience the levels of pleasure that we do, (And many don’t/won’t even know how to create that level of pleasure, ANYWAY.🤣😭) yet, most of us ladies are somehow able to keep it in our pants/skirts, and not go around violating and sexually preying upon others. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:44 PM
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That’s why we just have to blow up the hamster wheels, and do what we want to do..😌🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:39 PM
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What an expansive, THOROUGH, and accurate list. As for the males it addresses: An EXTREME lack of self-awareness. It’s a HELL of a drug.🥴🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:35 PM
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Once, (and still) a guy who was/is obsessed with me agreeing to be his wife, (🙄🤦🏼‍♀️) said to me: “Wow, I didn’t realize you were so accomplished!!” when I eventually casually divulged all of the activities/sports that I’m experienced in/good at/competed in, and I said: “That’s because you’re too busy trying to fuck me, rather than actually know me.”🤣😭🤦🏼‍♀️ It’s the sad truth, though. I’d probably pass out from shock, if a man actually took interest in genuinely knowing about me as a person and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:24 AM
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Beautifully said.🥂 And lest we forget ALLLLLLL of the double standards and contradictions.😏🤣 It’s not even worth attempting to embody/wrap your mind around it all. Their script is always re-written to benefit them/their ever-changing demands/“needs”/wants. And it ALL is extremely limiting, as you can ~never~ be “more” or “better” than them, in ANY WAY. Lest their egos be bruised.😏 It’s just not even worth it to ever deal with any of that and “settle”, unless you find a man who actually values an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:04 PM
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How lovely.😏 Someone is trying to flex their creative writing “skills”.🤦🏼‍♀️ Not AT ALL surprising, however. Oh, and YES, women are ~clearly~ “the problem” and the real dangerous ones, here.😏🙄 Clearly, they ~love~ women. And we should somehow want to “submit” and be with all... that.🥴🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮 If they hate and think this badly of us, why can’t they just... leave us alone..??🤣 Imagine being this distraught and fucked up over a group of people/your alleged sexual interests that you clearly hate. 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:32 PM
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I’m all too aware.😏 I’ve dated 2 Arab guys and was even engaged to one. (Thankfully, I didn’t marry him in the end.🥂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:42 AM
38

I totally agree with you and all that you’ve said here.💕 Yet, I will say, one of my what I consider to be the hugest heartbreaks and loss of innocence in life for me, is taking a hard look at my past relationships/interactions with males, and also the stories of relationships/interactions of other women in their dealings with males, and realizing that most males don’t value you/women at all. They only value what you do/can do for them, not you as a person.😕 It’s an awful realization and truth. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:09 AM
21

As a white lady, when the term “Karen” is rightfully used when referencing one who is straight up terrorizing customer service/staff with their “grievances”, (Essentially petty/non-issues made into issues.😏🙄) or worst yet, using your whiteness as a means to target/harass/harm POCs, I have absolutely NO issue with that term being rightfully used. Yet, for a while now, we’ve entered the territory of any woman who has an issue, legitimate complaint/grievance, and/or speaks up and calls someone or s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:20 PM
63

THIS. Sadly.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:53 PM
134

Women over 25 are “useless”..?? OKAY.😂 So NOW we know how they really feel about their own Moms/Grandmas/Aunties/older sisters etc.😏🙄 If I were in ANY of the aforementioned family members groups, and heard ANY male related to me say that “after 25” shit, I’d b*itchslap them into a new millennium. And “have kids NOW!!”/early..?? Even under 25, it’s NOT like they wouldn’t be repulsed/dumped you, if your body got done dirty wrecked by the pregnancy, and you don’t “snap back” quickly.🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:47 PM
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THIS.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:56 PM
7

🤣 Proceeds to sledgehammer TV.😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:34 AM
7

Already have been doing that for a while, by choice.🤣😊🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:18 AM
95

Honest answer?? Stop gaming your life away, get up out of that chair, and pay attention to yourself, the world around you, and real life. Care about your appearance/hygiene. You don’t have to have the perfect body, yet, at least care enough about basic hygiene/cleanliness. Care about dressing well enough to at least look non-embarrassing. For your sake. Also, the main reason why I refuse to date heavy gamers/addicts: They pay more attention to a game, than they do you/the relationship. If these …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:15 PM
27

It really boils down to that simple, powerful saying: “If he wanted to, HE WOULD.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:56 PM
5

I enjoyed this read!! (Even if the points made, break my heart for girls/women.😞) You read those who need to be, to filth.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:49 PM
5

This right here!! So very well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:32 PM
18

THIS. Trauma bonds/bonding, are a real thing that people often refuse to take a hard, truthful look at. And YES, if women pull any of the same antics back that would “inconvenience” males, most are quickly GONE. They’re like: “It’s broken... BYE!!” 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:33 PM
16

It really is nuts, the incredible reaching and mental gymnastics to always blame women.😒🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:27 PM
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I love this.😊 I’ll have to go check that out on IG right now!! Such a shame, yet, not at all surprising about/with the mess in the comments.😏🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:26 PM
26

This right here.💯 Such a tragic story, that could’ve had such a different ending.💔 Enablers aided in her demise. That’s why we cannot enable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:22 PM
41

THIS.💯 More women need to leave males where they’re at. And many already are.😊 (THANKFULLY!!) Sadly, with women leaving in droves, I think the immediate/knee-jerk reaction on the part of many males, will be more anger/violence, (Even more socially hostile and parasitic towards women, and even more public/mass violent crimes taking place.) rather than self-reflection/doing inner work, unfortunately.😒 We have miles to go.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:18 PM
15

That’s why I love it here. Whenever you feel yourself ever starting to struggle in an area in life, especially in the area of dealing with/dating males obviously, come on here, and have all of these truths/points be WELL reminding you. An excellent source of accountability and a stellar support system.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:10 PM
21

This. Stated beautifully.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:56 PM
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It’s TRAGIC that this is thought of as “gold digging”.😒🤦🏼‍♀️ My Dad does the same thing for my Mom. AS HE AND ALL HUSBANDS SHOULD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:54 PM
38

This is SO important for girls and women to know and do. OH, and SEPARATE bank accounts. ALWAYS separate bank accounts!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:51 PM
20

I know it.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:51 PM
118

Bottomline: They hate women. It’s truly disturbing. I wish this sort would come out of the closet and date each other already. Either A.) Since they actually “respect” other males, they’d have a healthier relationship, or B.) They’d quickly grow to hate each other’s insufferable asses. Either way, it would be a win for us, leaving us the hell ALONE and out of that all.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:32 PM
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It’s because males are the actual gold diggers, and want to keep that gig up,😏🙄 so they accuse women of being that, when we actually and reasonably expect a reciprocal interaction/relationship, instead of being manipulated out of our time/bodies/all manner of labor etc. for free/nothing. Males accuse women of “gold digging”, in hopes/efforts of keeping them in a tailspin to prove they “aren’t gold diggers”, so the males can be the actual gold diggers the whole time. It’s so sick and twisted, to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:03 AM
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I feel badly for them too,💔 yet, also I dislike that their “good-hearted” and “humble” nature and behavior, often is a direct affect of conditioning, so not to be “too demanding” and “high maintenance”, because God forbid a woman has certain standards.🙄 It’s such a shame, and ultimately, a disservice to self. Males have zero remorse when it comes to what they think they “deserve”. Girls and women actually do deserve WAY more, and we need to act like it.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:55 AM
7

THIS.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:25 PM
73

This was SO deliciously satisfying to read.😊🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:32 PM
201

This is a beautiful, shining example of why I will never live with, OR share expenses/a budget with a man.🤢🤮 In EVERY prior through current relationship of mine, bills/finances stay the hell SEPARATE. SEPARATE ACCOUNTS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:23 PM
44

Ugh. I know this sort you’re referring to. Utterly USELESS. Eternally navel gazing.🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:02 AM
92

“I don’t know,.... there’s just something about you...” Yet makes NO effort to pinpoint and articulate what that “something” is.🙄🤣🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:00 AM
33

Best line.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:55 PM
15

I was JUST thinking this, too.🤣 You beat me to the comment.💕 This reads and REEKS of a Scorpio woman.😂 I’m a Scorpio as well, yet, I’m more of the “I’d rather just forget they exist”, and focus my time/energy into the things I love and am passionate about camp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:55 PM
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I read this one last night...😒 SO vile. I always say/remind others when this comes up: “It’s NEVER 50/50. It NEVER has been!! Here’s why...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:47 PM
23

This is so RICH and BEAUTIFUL.😊🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:40 PM
64

I was JUST thinking about this A LOT today, and was even talking to my Mom about this a few hours ago, - my having NO desire to date/have anything to do with males WHATSOEVER.🤣 I stated: “I am DEEPLY and PROFOUNDLY turned off.” This lady is RIGHT.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:30 PM
11

May this “ad” go COMPLETELY unanswered FOREVER, and may every woman who sees it, be thoroughly creeped out (as they SHOULD BE.) and never reply.🥂 And “rent free”.🤢🤮 That, it is NOT. It’s a trade arrangement, at the mildest titling. He admits he “hasn’t fully thought this through”,🙄 that he’s essentially using covid to take advantage of one who is in need, and it’s highly possible/likely of them to be in a financial situation that’s dire, thus them might not having any choice. Which is exploiting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:09 PM
25

This one is on my watch list!! (Admittedly, I already read the plot outline/spoiled it for myself. I’ll do that sometimes, when I don’t want to wait to find out the details about something that intrigues me.🤣😭) I’ll for sure have to watch soon, and use this movie as a litmus test in the future.😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:49 PM
4

I read this one this morning, and jusssssst...🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:54 PM
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🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮 I would never be happy “under” any sort of dynamic/arrangement, and any women who ARE “happy” with this, need to seek mental/psychiatric help, ASAP. This screams Stockholm syndrome. GET WELL SOON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:12 PM
131

YES. They never liked you. They only liked what you did for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:27 PM
10

This is IT. Right here.💯🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:27 PM
28

Couldn’t have been said better!!💯🥂 Life is FAR too short to give any male (or any person really), multiple chances to disappoint and fail you!! NEXTTTTTTTT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:37 PM
20

“Go disappoint the next woman”.🤣😭 TRUTH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:47 PM
37

Jesus.😕 Along with coffee, SAY NO to “walk/hike” dates too, if you aren’t already!! Any place where they can get you secluded/isolated = NO. I only agree to hike/isolated outdoor activity dates/outings, once we’ve seen each other for a while and a bit of a comfort/trust level has been built.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:44 PM
193

Blessed be the fruit loops.😭💀 May the Lord choke them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:02 AM
40

God bless the gays coming in clutch.💕🥂 I know they can have their own set of issues/misogyny in the gay community as well, yet, a handpicked/curated group of your best gay friends, are some of the only men I find a true joy to be around.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:11 PM
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As one who is an introvert as well, yet, can easily be chatty/open when in the mood, TRUST ME, they’ll judge you for that, too.😏 You really can’t win. Oh, you have to act like you don’t want sex, too. (Even when you do.) Because ~heaven forbid~ you desire/want pleasure, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:10 PM
49

I read so many news articles about all of this yesterday, and my heart shatters for them.💔 I don’t understand why these women haven’t been/aren’t armed. They NEED to be armed. Blast the balls off of this archaic shit, ONCE AND FOR ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:45 PM
88

This right here.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:39 PM
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THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:38 PM
7

By that “logic”, my 11 yr. old self would have been deemed “old enough to breed”.🤢🤮 They are the scourge of the earth. And I’d LOVE to be on/a part of the FBI team/task force in taking them out.🤣😊 Add Chris Hansen, too!! “Take a seat...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:20 PM
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Yeah,... the whole anal thing is just... wow.🥴 It’s not exactly fun/pleasant, especially if one is abusive and too rough, and these sick fucks think that women should grant them their asses to be torn up by them??💀 Beyond delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:12 PM
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Right?? That’s where it’s heading.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ Yet, somehow, I’M SURE the mental gymnastics would done to make that “ALL women’s fault”, too.🙄 “The planet finally imploded, because women decided to leave/wouldn’t take care of it anymore!!”🤣🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:32 AM
84

NO. Please tell me that all is a joke.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:24 AM
89

The fact that improving their life/self/personalities doesn’t even cross their minds.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:23 AM
48

THIS.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:21 AM
38

Of course this is still somehow “ALL women’s fault”.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ I say us ladies as a collective beam to our own planet already, and leave the males to face NOTHING BUT THEMSELVES. Could you IMAGINE?!🤣 I give the male’s planet a month or less before UTTER destruction/vaporization.😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:17 AM
11

THIS.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:27 PM
21

I cackled reading this.🤣😭 Truly, it’s tragic.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:23 PM
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Prime example of “doing too much” in ALL of the wrong ways.🥴 My first thought: “Damn, they couldn’t have just gone to get drinks or go to dinner, where he could have asked her if she’d like to see his photography work and learn how his camera works..??” 🥴🥴 Guys, ASKING first, does a WORLD of good, and had this guy done that, he probably wouldn’t be mourning the loss of his potential dream girlfriend, now.🤦🏼‍♀️ Well, for THAT reason, anyway.😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:43 PM
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Everything stated here.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:37 PM
1

Congratulations on your newfound freedom and weight loss (Of whatever he weighed.🤣)!!🥂 It certainly sucks to lose time and great years of your life to some male, yet, better only 3 years, than 5, 7, or 20+ years!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:48 PM
1

I know it. :( Many who live in western culture/civilization, are pretty oblivious to just how bad it really STILL IS for most girls/women in the world.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:54 PM
2

Even a few western/American men I’ve dated that have traveled in the Middle East, call most of those countries a “shithole”, too.😭 I know some of the countries aren’t as strict/a tiny bit more lenient in some areas/ways, yet overall, being a woman over there is NOT usually an ideal existence. Maybe some of the women from wealthy/more privileged families have a bit more freedom and a better time, yet, even then, I still hear horror stories....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:36 PM
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YES. The Middle East is the area I was mainly referring to with what I said.😏 An ex of mine was/is from a Middle Eastern country, and traveled through many other surrounding countries, - he told me the details of how strict things were/are in Saudi Arabia, and I was floored. One being that women can’t go ANYWHERE without a male chaperone. Even a widowed or unmarried 57 yr. old aunt, would have to have a 19 yr. old nephew accompany her out, for instance. Nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:53 AM
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YES. I think (Well, for me, anyway.) it feels weird because I know I’m actively being manipulated/schmoozed 99.9% of the time.😏 It’s such a challenge to act as “prey” when you’re wise to the game/ways. A shark sitting with a shark.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:30 AM
14

YES, THIS is what is so often missed by them. Couldn’t have said it better!!💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:26 AM
45

AMEN.🙏🏻 I have pretty well completely lost interest in going out on dates in the past 1-2 years, for this VERY reason. Even in the beginning/chatting phase, I can tell that my peace/solitude is most likely going to be disrupted sooner or later, and with that, why bother..?? I go out occasionally, yet, EVEN THEN, I struggle to get excited about going out with anyone.🤣 Very rarely do I look forward to any date. In fact, I don’t really think I EVER have TRULY looked forward to any date.🤣😭 I struggl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:21 AM
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Oh yes, the “female hysteria”.😏🙄 As it turns out, Gertrude was simply being driven insane by what all was occurring to and around her.🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:13 PM
60

It really is them projected all of their emotions and insecurities onto us, when they refer to us as “sensitive”/“the most/more sensitive”.😏 Projection at it’s finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:42 PM
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People really do enter marriage without being in full alignment/agreement in most to all of these areas, and expect “love” to carry you through and be “enough”.🥴 See divorce percentage rates.🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:17 PM
65

“A lot of men don’t want women to find value in anything besides them.”💀 NAILED IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:45 PM
9

THIS.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:43 PM
15

Really lovely article!!💕 I think it well represents the mission/goal here.☺️ What I would like to point out for any explorers/lurkers, that in ANY WAY compare our philosophy here to what the male pickup artist’s do/preach, (🙄🤣) is that FDS first and foremost promotes girls and women leading their fullest and best lives. Focusing on our own goals and self-improvement. THEN, when dating/screening potentials, it’s really about observing and letting males SHOW US WHO THEY ARE. Red flags observed? DR…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:40 PM
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Well said, an EXCELLENT point. Sometimes, it just hits me while I’m driving, that women in other countries aren’t able to own or drive their own car or go to school/college, where I can freely where I live/the country I’m in, and then the rage boils over, and gives way to weeping for these girls/women.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:42 PM
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GOOD FOR HER. Just shut it down, and didn’t entertain ANY reconciliation.💯 While I agree it is dangerous to leave things on the stove/leave the room, this was accidental, and not deliberate. His reaction was WAY overblown. You can be upset about something, while not being abusive/condescending.😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:32 PM
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I think it’s because said women have accomplished more than these males ever have or will in their lives, that the only way these males can cope/deal, is by attempting to tear them down in any and every way possible. Great recent example: Simone Biles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:55 AM
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If a male were to flash a lady in public/in person unsolicited, = crime. So, unsolicited inappropriate/dick pics online, how is that much different?? It’s NOT. It’s one thing if you’re curious/were asked permission to be sent that, yet, to throw dick pics all around to whomever..?? NOT okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:59 PM
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I really think and feel a lot of that is an attempt at manipulation/a power play, which is why I disengage and don’t fall for it. Not playing any of those pattycake games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:47 PM
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I really think this mainly happens when you’re a “backup plan” or they only want to semi-meet you, despite acting like they’re on fire to meet you.😏🤷🏼‍♀️🤣 I mean, THIS is their FIRST IMPRESSION they’re giving you, and THIS is what’s being pulled..?? Nope. Fine then, you don’t get to meet me.✌🏻 If you apparently aren’t into meeting me, I DON’T WANT TO MEET YOU.😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:57 PM
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My personal rule is, if there is no confirmation of the date/plans via text, in the window of the day before to noon the day of, (All of my dates/plans, I pretty well ALWAYS do in the evening. I don’t do early AM or lunches, just my preference.) ... I then have other plans that evening, and he’ll have to reschedule with me.🤷🏼‍♀️ This works well for me. Cuts off/out A LOT of potential bullshit/time wasters. Recently, I had a date scheduled for a weekend evening, and the morning of, he says he has…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:53 PM
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I just saw/read that one, right before reading this post.😏 What a charmer. Bet he’s SO much fun at parties.😏 The level of arrogance and audacity it takes, to claim to understand what she’s going through, when he himself will NEVER experience pregnancy/childbirth.🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:51 PM
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No, this wasn’t Dr. Rey, although I’m well familiar with him/have watched him for ages. (Don’t get me started on him, he has his own set of issues, and with his mentality/attitude I don’t think he should have gotten married/had kids. I felt bad for Hayley and Sydney/Robby.💔 I think I remembered and spelled their names correctly.) Dr. Rey was one of the doctors on this show I’m referring to above too if I recall correctly, yet, this was a different doctor!! If my memory serves correctly, he speci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:14 PM
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That’s why you have to dump any pickmes that you associate with/are friends with, as well. FOR THIS VERY REASON. Associating with low value people/thinkers, only serves for them to attempt to drag you down to their level/thinking.🤷🏼‍♀️ Break up with these “friends”, too. PASS, NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:33 PM
18

I REMEMBER THAT ONE.😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:31 PM
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YES!! That struck me as extremely manipulative!! Why ask if one “wants anything”, if they can’t have it, or the option is limited to one thing..??🥴 Shameless of him. Shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:14 PM
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This is so so sad.💔 Today, on another episode of: THROW THE WHOLE MALE AWAY. I get my fancy tea 2-3x a week. I’m a stranger on the internet, and I’d buy her fancy tea for her, if she asked.💕It’s like $5-$7, here.🙄 Friends do that for friends, and your own boyfriend can’t even manage that..??🥴 Beyond shameful. This reminds me of this Hollywood plastic surgery show on E! I watched ages ago. (I love those plastic surgery/surgeon shows, especially Botched. I find them interesting.) and this show, ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:46 PM
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EXACTLY.🥂💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:38 PM
155

Even worse!!😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:37 PM
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Spot on.👌🏻 Love her laugh, too.🤣 Also, I find it deeply intriguing, how these males that follow that “ideology” seem to miss the fact that many of us ladies don’t gripe and lunatic out as they do, over being single, if there isn’t a suitable partner for us.🥴 We just accept it/deal/chill, live our lives, hopefully our best ones, and if a great/worthwhile man happens/materializes, great, if not, that’s great too, we just continue to live our lives, rather than stew/get violent.🥴🤷🏼‍♀️ TAKE A LESSON…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:28 PM
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Good God.😕😒 A PRIME example of a husband who doesn’t properly care for and apparently doesn’t even love his wife and child.😒 THE AUDACITY. We need to openly shame males WAY more regularly for this ABHORRENT, ABOMINATION of behavior. THROW THE WHOLE MALE OUT. Also, let’s do the math, here: The 50/50 thing isn’t even a good deal for women, more often than not. You’re taking on splitting your own AND HIS expenses, which can often times total more than what you’d simply pay taking care of yourself, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:49 PM
4

1000%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:01 PM
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🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ ~What a surprise~. Pity she didn’t turn him down.💔 Very public proposals ALWAYS strike me as HIGHLY manipulative. Creating/giving attention to the proposer, putting pressure on the proposed to, to say “Yes!!” so not to embarrass themselves or the proposer. SO MANIPULATIVE. Why can’t proposals more often be between 2 people in private/semi-private, at a place significant/special to the couple..?? I wish that were praised more, than over the top, public proposals.🥴 If a male EVER proposed t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:58 PM
16

I know.😏🤣 YET, I LOVE IT HERE.🥂 Nothing but peace, quiet, cats, pups, a beautiful, CLEAN environment. If I have to accept tumbleweeds rolling through from time to time as the cost for this, I’LL HAPPILY ACCEPT IT.🥂🥂 And those “demands”.🥴 THE AUDACITY. Most males really ARE just oversized leeches. NOTHING but parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:30 AM
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Ladies NEED to stop being nice enough to allow males to live with them.🥴 I’ll NEVER allow who I’m dating/a boyfriend to live with me. Never have, NEVER will. Given that SHE kicked him out of her home, I’m sure she paid ALL of the bills/living expenses too, and he just crashed there FREE OF CHARGE, occasionally paying for the odd thing/bill here and there at his most generous, IF THAT.😏 Ladies, ALLOWING A MALE TO LIVE WITH YOU, IS OFTEN TAKING ON ADDED COSTS, MORE MESS TO CLEAN, AND A DISTURBANCE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:36 AM
18

Nailed it.💯 What more can be said??🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:35 PM
20

That truly is the high life.🍾🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:03 PM
172

That’s it. That’s the field.😭 And “end up alone with cats” is thrown around like a punishment.😏 THAT’S A RELIEF AND A PRIZE, IN COMPARISON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:58 AM
10

AN ICON.👌🏻😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:02 AM
65

SAME. “Like a pack of Newports” has me cackling.😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:53 PM
34

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:17 PM
14

Why do women stay with males like this..?? Why do women even entertain this..?? Even in my days where I considered myself a little more “ride or die” here and there and in areas, I NEVER and WOULD NEVER entertain shit like this.😕 JESUS HELP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:16 PM
52

He is a hater. SO jealous of her.🥴 In all fairness though, if what he said is all true/accurate about her/her life, “I’LL HAVE WHAT SHE’S HAVING!!” 🤣🥂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:31 PM
3

Best ring EVER!!💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:05 PM
13

This is BEAUTIFUL.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:52 AM
72

And it’s forever projected onto us ladies, about us being “old” and concerned about our aging.🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:54 AM
5

Congrats!!☺️🍾🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:33 PM
15

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:52 AM
30

NOT the King(s) of bad credit!!🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:51 AM
16

💯 Aka soul diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:43 PM
8

Yes Mama Jane.💗 Yes, essentially object/have a problem with ANYTHING/ANYONE ever, and you’re deemed “a/the problem” or “loud” at some point.🙄 I love to remind: “Hey, I’m A PERSON, too. NOT A DOORMAT.” As MANY are quick to forget that...😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:05 PM
14

I’m acutely aware of the very huge and real issue of misogyny in the gay community. That’s not what I’m talking about right now, however. And that is also why I stated originally/above with “in my experience”. I’ve been fortunate. I’m abundantly aware of those issues and things, nor did I say or excuse anything that’s in your comment and the issues you brought up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:12 PM
21

Hetero males, are often the gayest of them all. At least the male dating/interested gays, are typically fun to be around, often well-dressed/have impeccable taste, can talk fashion/girly stuff with you, WILL AND ARE FUN TO GO SHOPPING WITH, KEEP A CLEAN AND STYLISH DWELLING, stellar communication and vocabulary skills, and are actually capable of being empathetic/having empathy and compassion for people/animals, and being a decent/solid to great friend, in my personal experience.😏 Just to name a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:53 PM
12

Oh, and to the lurker (who will inevitably circle back/continue to seethe.😏🤣🙄) who’s comment was swiftly removed (Thank you FDS filters!!👌🏻) that said I was “too fat to have opinions on relationships”,🤣 a few things: I’d confidently wager I’ve been in and have FAR more relationship experience than your sad ass EVER has or will, and (granted if you ever have had one.🙄🤣) that your ex or soon to be ex girlfriend or wife, looks similar to the after of the picture on the right, here. Probably even MO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:14 PM
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This is so so sad.💔 Males lurkers, if your girlfriend or wife looks tired, sad, depressed, and like she is suffering in ANY way, that is a direct reflection on YOU as a male. Where is the pride and dignity in and of taking care of the women you allegedly love..?? You DON’T love her. You only want a slave/accessory. Look at the misery on this woman’s face. THAT is your legacy: Being vile, repulsive, hateful, parasitic, GOOD FOR NOTHING soul leeches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:46 PM
7

GET IT Mama Dr. Joyce!!💕🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:55 PM
17

I don’t really care what my stance is referred to as on this sub, or what any may think of me as a whole, and also, for having a different view on this matter. I know this might be mind blowing and shocking to/for some, yet, I don’t agree with every opinion/thing stated, on here. And that’s okay. Most of what’s said on here, I do agree with. However, in a few areas and topics, I don’t agree with some of the opinions/views. I’ll always be an independent thinker, a critical thinker, one who thinks…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:51 PM
4

Exactly.💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:34 PM
3

I was raised by a Mother who wore makeup at times, and at others, she went makeupless. She always presented it to me, that I could wear makeup if I wanted to, and if I didn’t want to, that’s great and fine, as well. The choice was always left up to me to decide. My upbringing was more of one that involved making personal choices that suited you best and having agency. Which I’m grateful for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:34 PM
17

No, it’s not the “same logic”. Comparing wearing makeup to doing porn, is quite the reach and stretch. We’re not going to agree on this one, and whether you realize it or not, you’re coming across as extremely judgmental. It’s not your place to decide other women’s reasons and motives for wearing makeup. As I myself personally have no/take no issue with women choosing not to wear makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:05 PM
49

🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:33 PM
45

How revolting!!🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:30 PM
24

I understand what you’re trying to say, yet, many women truly wear makeup for themselves and because they enjoy wearing it. If women want to go makeupless, fantastic. Yet, if women want to wear makeup because they enjoy and want to, great!! It really boils down to personal choice/enjoyment, and as long as you don’t feel forced/like you have to wear it, and want to because you enjoy it, that’s okay!! Also, if one doesn’t have clear skin, and they feel better and more confident wearing makeup that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:01 PM
205

I always find it HIGHLY interesting that women don’t (Not that I have seen, (thus far) anyway.) rate males publicly/amongst ourselves and online, the way they do.😏🙄 (I chalk it up to being busy and having MUCH better things to do with our time and lives.) Yet, if we did, a VAST majority of males would probably get scores of 1-3, on a scale of 1-10.💀 As one wise lady who I follow on Twitter hilariously stated: ”Not a pussy tingle or heart pitter patter in ALL of the land!!” 🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:36 PM
34

YES.👏🏻MA’AM.👏🏻 And WHAT A LOOK.💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:26 PM
13

THIS.💯 👏🏻AWOMEN.👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:31 AM
12

I LOVE IT.😊🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:22 PM
25

Our foremothers KNEW and KNOW.🥂 All, beautifully stated.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:40 PM
72

GOOD. I hope it makes ALL who deserve to feel uncomfortable for doing that, feel the discomfort.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:48 PM
26

THIS. 1000%. Maybe this will click with and reach a few males.😏🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:45 PM
5

Jesus.😒 Another terrifying thing, to file under utterly horrifying, yet, NOT AT ALL surprising.😒 Just when EXACTLY will women get to be people..?? Viewed as A PERSON, and have our bodily autonomy/choices/boundaries RESPECTED..?? Not holding my breath.🙄 LADIES. You can say you’re on birth control, yet, keep the details of the how/what kind TO YOURSELF. If pills, hide them in a safe in your closet. KEEP THEM LOCKED. No joke!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:55 PM
67

Even The Sultan Dad knows!!😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:00 PM
10

What a sermon!!💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:57 PM
30

GREAT point. Come to think of it, I can’t recall an instance on ANY of those nature shows, where a lioness or elephant for example, got raped by a male lion or elephant. The lady animals must approve of and ~allow it~.😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:48 PM
11

1000%. NAILED IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:16 PM
17

🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:19 PM
20

1000% 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:35 AM
7

Jesus.😕 How utterly terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:25 PM
47

ABSOLUTELY.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:52 PM
11

VERY revealing/interesting!! Not too long ago, I ended an age gap relationship, (Me, early 30’s/him, early 50’s) and his ex wife was 10 or 12 years younger than him, if I remember correctly. Certain issues/things, just never sat right with me about him, and I’m SO THANKFUL I trusted my gut, distanced myself, and ended it. Seeing this, only re-confirms what I was seeing/feeling!!💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:44 PM
8

I love this SO MUCH.💕 And this ALL right here, is EXACTLY why I chose A LONG TIME AGO to never get married or have children.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:44 AM
7

💯🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:55 PM
22

THOSE SMILES.😭 This should be on display in museums everywhere, with this caption.👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:27 AM
3

Upon reading the comments, the ladies here have pretty well covered it all.👌🏻 I’d expect no less!! However, an observation hit me, and I’ll add it: males call girls/women “crazy”, when WE ARE RIGHT ABOUT SOMETHING, to deflect any attention/heat off of the bullshit they’re trying to pull.😏🙄 Ladies, TRUST YOUR JUDGMENT AND INTUITION. ALWAYS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:05 PM
34

Even “brand new” cars have a few test drive miles on them. Inaccurate analogy.🤣 Also, again, women are PEOPLE, not object comparable, males.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:29 PM
16

Yes. NORMALIZE having obvious standards!!💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:44 PM
3

This is the one that KILLS ME.🤣 I could be having SO much sex/a relationship/even marriage right now, if I actually wanted their asses.😏 I don’t, though. These “you’re fat”/“no one wants you!!” claimers, would be verrrry surprised, if they saw the state of my various social media DMs/inboxes and all manner of messages/texts.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:05 PM
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As if Lupita would even look in his direction.🤣🤦🏼‍♀️ Her light blue Oscar WINNING dress/look, is one that’s iconic for me. When I think of best award show looks, that is definitely one that immediately comes to mind. She looked like an angel.💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:25 PM
10

As if they can’t get up off their asses and learn to cook.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:23 PM
52

I’ve always been a fan of her music since the beginning, despite not always agreeing with the things she says/does, yet, some things like this?? LOVE IT.🤣🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:41 PM
2

SPOT ON.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:23 AM
8

I love this. It’s beautiful.💗 When the opportunity arises, and I have the chance to share the wisdom I’ve learned in my own life lessons through the missteps/mistakes I’ve made, and also the things I’ve learned online from so many beautiful, genius women, and I share all of that with women who are younger than me, some the same age, and even some older, and I see the lightbulb go on, and their eyes light up at the fact that they don’t have to deal with or tolerate this shit, it nearly brings tea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:05 PM
7

Love her!! And her look, too!!💙💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:56 PM
2

On today’s edition of It’s time to File for Divorce...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:54 PM
21

Volcel. That’s the one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:48 PM
27

I felt ALL of this in my SOUL.💯 It’s SO nice to be able to live in an environment that’s clean/organized, and befitting of human living. FOR SURE.🥂 And there is SO much bliss and peace to be had in the single life. It’s beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:46 PM
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They’d be surprised to find all shapes/weights/sizes here, I’m sure.😏 And that’s true!! Attracting too much male attention is what drives many women here!! What’s even more hilarious is the notion that women who are overweight, are not able to have/access sex. Some of the most well kept, serviced, and spoiled women I know, are overweight.😏🤣 Edit: Another thing I should have mentioned earlier!! It’s not like being thin/fit absolves you from abuse/mistreatment from males, either.🙄 In fact, often t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:42 PM
3

That’s true!! Hitting those raw nerves.😊 And I love that FDS haters/ranters are responsible for new FDS members!! Haters are bringing us more tribe members.🤣🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:31 AM
3

PERFECT example!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:28 AM
63

A lady that I have much respect for, refers to all males as “the idiots”. THIS IS WHY.😏🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:26 AM
7

INDEED.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:49 PM
13

Good,💕 yet still, one vs. so many articles that take issue with FDS. Yet, SWEET that it was the Wall Street Journal. One of substance!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:38 PM
15

I got temp/30 day banned recently, from the /sex subreddit, for questioning/dragging some rando male’s suggestion, that if a lady didn’t want to cook after,🙄 to take his said hookup to the Waffle House at 3AM for after sex eats, and to “split the check”.🙄🤣 I SHIT THEE NOT. If you want to page/scroll through my comment history to find my comments on it, be my guest. You may have to go back a little ways, though. I’m sure all of the downvoters and those attempting to criticize me in the comments a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:28 PM
27

Oooooh, YES. This is an evil thing they attempt to do!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:46 PM
12

This pretty well sums it up!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:41 PM
51

That’s true. They really do view access to entire human beings that are women, as a “right”, rather than women being their own person, having their own life, and their own hopes, goals, and dreams. It’s beyond disturbing how many males view and treat their girlfriend or wife and children, as simply accessories to their lives. Not actual people with needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:29 PM
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YES.💯 Us ladies don’t commit those mass shootings/mass violent crimes on the regular, as we have MUCH better things to do with our lives and time, and unlike MANY males, we can actually “get over” things.😏🙄 We’ve had to “get over” things, as with all that we face in our lives and in society. If we don’t, we’d be rocking in the corner of a padded room, crying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:02 PM
31

THIS RIGHT HERE.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:00 PM
45

These numbers aren’t shocking, yet, they certainly ARE horrifying.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:57 PM
43

It sure is.😒 I say this allllll of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:56 PM
27

Indeed.🤣🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:45 PM
26

YES. This comparison!! NAILED IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:45 PM
29

You’ve nailed it.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:19 PM
65

Self-reflection is a hell of thing to wrap their minds around, I know. And yes, clearly most males hate us.😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:19 PM
2

I have many fond memories and feelings of/for Cracker Barrel.💗 I’m from and live in the south, too. We’d always eat there with my grandparents who have since passed on. Cracker Barrels are pure comfort for me. I love the smell of the food/old country store!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:07 PM
7

No shade to the Waffle House. I know it’s inexpensive, yummy eats. I’ve never been to one, yet, I’ll take everyone’s word that it’s good. (I have a life long love affair with Cracker Barrel.) And yes, no valid counter arguments.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:50 PM
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While I don’t fault women for men’s toxic, trash actions/behavior, YES, it isn’t going to stop, until we women as a collective STOP allowing it. And they’re so broke, they can’t even afford proper fantasies.😭 They fantasize about the Waffle House.😭🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:42 PM
8

NOOOOOO. Really?!😭 I didn’t even bother to look at all of the commenter’s histories. Ugh. Tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:28 PM
16

YES. All about the witchy aesthetic!!🖤🔮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:35 PM
42

EXACTLY. Nooooo thank you. I’ll just be a “selfish old spinster”.🤣 The aunts in Practical Magic, are my aesthetic/vibe/life inspiration. They have the raddest style/looks and home.💖 Also, they eat brownies for breakfast.🤣🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:58 PM
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Thank you.💕 The key here, is you really have to not give one iota of a fuck about what people/“society” think of you. That is the path to freedom, once you rid yourself of the opinions/thoughts of others having any sway or say over you and your life, you’re liberated.💗 That’s true freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:07 PM
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You know what I’ve done in many areas of my life?? I’ve allowed myself to remorselessly live and let myself do whatever I want. Like many males do. (Minus the whole hurting/destroying people’s lives and psyches, of course.😏🙄) Examples: If I want a decadent meal? I’ll eat it. If I want that extra dessert? I’ll have it. If I want everything I put in my cart while shopping? I’ll buy it. If I want one in every color, I’ll buy them all. If I want those new clothes/shoes/handbags/jewelry/cosmetics, I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:51 PM
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These days, I don’t even bother to respond when such drivel is stated/suggested. I leave them on read for days/weeks, before blocking/unmatching. If I received that message, it would have given me a solid 2 minute laugh. Basically, homeboy wants a child/slave as a “girl”. Not an actual adult woman.🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:25 PM
10

I hate cheapskates. Ladies, NEVER date cheapskate, stingy males!!🤢🤮 I watched that show a while ago, Extreme Cheapskates, and never has a show given me such annoyance and anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:45 PM
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Males have been known to fuck couches and jars of peanut butter, so I’m not at all surprised, yet also, I can’t be bothered to keep up with all of their fetishes, either. Also, I refuse to let the fetishes of males define my life or looks in any way. I decide what I do, how I look, and what I wear/how I present myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:10 PM
77

You can also just wear it up in a bun/messy bun, too. I rarely wear mine down because I get hot, yet, I don’t want short hair for my own reasons. It’s just not my style/thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:26 PM
5

Not surprising/shocking, yet, OH MY GOD, too.😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:07 PM
17

🤣😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:31 PM
13

She’s nailed it all beautifully.👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:44 PM
21

As if I couldn’t love her enough already.💖 And she’s right!! This has irked me for AGES. Ugly men being given chances, has to be because of their $$$$ and/or bedroom skills and “equipment”.🤣💀 And/or maybe some of them are actually caring/have a good personality..?? These are the only upsides to being with one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:05 PM
9

Made my day to read this.😌💖 Should’ve happened WAY sooner...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:29 PM
24

I’m going to scour the internet, to find myself a pair in my size of this vintage glory...🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:01 PM
22

I literally have lived this one out a nice handful of times.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:23 PM
7

Nailed it.👌🏻😂 And that’s actually the life I’ve now chosen/live. I must say, it’s QUITE NICE and peaceful, here.😊🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:19 PM
30

Whew. THIS ONE right here!!😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:57 AM
2

Jesus.😕 I’ve dealt with more than my fair share of rude ass males, yet, NOTHING this level of blatantly pointed and evil. Good God.😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:14 PM
2

I WELL remember this one!!🤣💕💕 Indeed, THE BEST and my fav post in the history of Reddit!! The comments are SAVAGE, too.😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:19 PM
25

I love her. And she’s RIGHT.🥂💯 I had a conversation with an ex of mine some years back, when he told me: “You don’t have to clean up when you come over here.” I told him: “Have you ever thought about that it’s for MY OWN comfort that I’m cleaning for?? I don’t like contending with and walking through a mess, as a guest here.” ... he immediately started to help clean his place with me.😏🤣 The whole cleaning and cooking thing, - I don’t ever feel obligated to, yet, I actually love cleaning/organizi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:28 AM
27

Imagine investing money into renovations for a place that isn’t even yours to keep.😭💀🤦🏼‍♀️ This reminds me a little of when an ex asked me to help him pay his rent one month. My response: “I don’t live here.”🤣 I didn’t live there and I didn’t help pay his rent. Did/do I feel bad?? NOPE.😊 Same ex said that he could have other girls over “until we got married”.🙄 Yeah, that shit was short lived. (Thankfully.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:23 AM
12

Nailed it.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:58 PM
35

You have to be soulless and heartless to do this to another human being. No other explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:47 PM
15

Preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:45 PM
21

🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:45 PM
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Right?! That face/look of absolute defeat, is utterly heartbreaking.☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:44 PM
10

This is so so sad.💔 Her face says IT ALL. She doesn’t have a husband, she has an extra kid/belligerent, non-paying roommate. I’m 33, have never been married (And never will.), no kids (and never will have any.) and no wrinkles on my face.😊 Let that be a lesson, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:42 PM
7

Absolutely. This right here.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:50 PM
2

I did think about adding that into what I said earlier, -obviously/traditionally, the guys do the asking usually, yet, I know some bold girls can do the asking at times, as well.🤷🏼‍♀️ I do hope it goes both ways AT LEAST, even if obviously the guys do most of the asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:22 PM
3

Before even getting to the part where you mentioned it, I immediately thought: “This HAS TO BE a “Christian” school.🙄🤮 Does the same rule apply both ways..?? If a guy turns down a girl who asks him, he can’t go with anyone else either..?? If not, it’s time to BURN IT ALL DOWN. THE ENTIRE SCHOOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:34 PM
4

This is comedy, to me.🐣 A part of me prays it’s made up. Yet, if this is in fact real, she’s been dating her bf for 3 years, and never went to his place..?? I can understand for the first little while, yet, THAT long?? Also, with his “nest” that he still wants, even after moving in together/getting and having a bed, and also, having a couch at his place, I wonder if this “nest” thing is a trauma response due to his upbringing and/or something that happened in his life..?? Why else would you stil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:47 PM
11

I’m 5’6 with medium bone size/frame, yet, fat along with muscle, (I pack my fat really well though, and everyone usually guesses I’m 20-40lbs less than I actually weigh.) I do have the shoulders of a linebacker.🤣 My father even calls me “built like linebacker”,😏🙄 yet, NO ONE fucks with me, and I am perfectly happy with that.😊 If I got back down to my personal lowest as an adult of 127lbs and a size 4/6, I’d be A LOT more concerned with being picked up and whisked away and/or attacked/targeted.😕 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:20 AM
9

Whew. I tick 7 out of 12 of those off.😭 I think the insanely hard part about all of that, is feeling like you’ll never heal from these traumas and/or when you’ll be healed enough and ever “ready” again.🙃 Also, when you encounter situations and people that remind you of or are exactly like your past/traumas, how it affects your emotional/mental health NOW, coping with that all yet again/the being reminded of it all and it stirring up your past/memories. It’s A LOT.😞 For me, it’s not even about en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:53 PM
4

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:34 PM
74

Good riddance,🥂 yet, I will say, this is a fine example, the HUGE reason why I just stepped away from dealing with males in any dating sense, in the past few months: everything is just so manipulative. A means to an end, and it’s exhausting. No thanks. I’ll stay in, drink a glass of wine, and give myself however many GOOD ONES orgasm wise, as at least I’m guaranteed to have them, and don’t have to deal with icky males and their behavior.🤣🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:12 PM
98

This right here.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:56 PM
10

Right in the feels.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:53 PM
1

I read that whole piece, and it rather conveniently cherry picks at certain issues, leaves out many facts/crucial points that are made here, and uses whatever deemed “negativity” to spin this subreddit in this bizarre light, that leaves SO much context out. I hope all who read that article come here, read/research for themselves, and come to their own conclusions and views about this subreddit, although sadly, many will not, and take that piece as truth/at face value. Such a shame!! Also, even i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:49 PM
6

WHEW. Powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:38 PM
30

This is so hilarious and sad.😭 I hope a nice single lady adopted Daisy, and gives her the life she deserves.💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:20 PM
32

This is PERFECT.😂🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:19 PM
18

This is so so sad.😕 I pray for the deliverance of these types.🙏🏻 I can’t help them, only a “FINALLY see the light!!” miracle can, at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:51 AM
5

I’m not saying she has a big forehead for a fact. he proclaimed she does. Of course that doesn’t mean she does, yet, if she actually has a big forehead, so what??🤷🏼‍♀️ I have one myself, and I’m the one who openly points it out, more so than other people do, funnily. The point is, no matter what attempts at insulting other people (males, especially) try on you, if you have a healthy and good relationship with yourself and what you think of yourself, other people’s shit they spew at you and any m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:42 PM
22

Please tell me, you put an L (What you do to Losers) to your forehead, before getting the hell out of there!!😂 I would have. I can be petty at times, though.💁🏼‍♀️ I also have a big ass forehead, too. If anyone ever comments on it, I say: “I needed the extra storage space for my brain.”🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:52 PM
48

Love her, and these women.💕💕 Sadly, the world doesn’t allow us ladies to be “soft” often times. We have to get angry and emboldened. The stories I hear/see from India and how bad it really is for girls and women there, are so utterly horrifying.💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:33 PM
3

YES. This.💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:06 PM
10

YES MA’AM.💯 LOVE THIS LADY!! I’ve said that so many times, myself: “I’m SO much happier when single!!” When in a relationship, I always feel some level of bogged downed/chained.😕 Even if it’s just a little bit of that, I always tire of it. And QUICKLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:38 PM
10

Love to see and hear it!!😂💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:19 PM
9

😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:47 PM
13

“...am dismayed that you haven’t responded.” NOT DISMAYED.🤣😭 Sounds like a dramatic auntie. Good Lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:15 AM
3

I want to laugh at this, yet, it’s so dark...😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:07 PM
54

I love her.😭💕💕 She’s the cutest!!☺️ AND SHE’S RIGHT. If he wanted to, HE WOULD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:28 PM
25

😒 Reading this all, fills me with SO MUCH secondhand sorrow and rage for this woman.💔 He’s a fucking selfish ass IDIOT. He can GO TO HELL. Ladies, NEVER let a man talk you into ANYTHING you don’t want. Not a damn thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:19 AM
6

I’ve followed CeciATL on Twitter for years!! LOVE HER!!💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:53 PM
314

I LOVE HER!!😂💕💕 Also, her coat/coat’s color, and whole look.👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:23 PM
5

💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:13 PM
11

YES. THIS.💯 They completely disassociate themselves from our every day reality and remain in their denial of it, at the expense of ALL of us girls/women.😒 They’re just as much a part of the problem, and why this shit still is a problem in our society. If you DO NOTHING to address/stop it, you’re ENABLING it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:40 PM
41

It’s EXHAUSTING.😒 I’m exhausted after reading that.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:20 AM
5

It gives me a little hope, when I see actually good fathers out here.🥺💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:30 PM
11

TRUE.😭🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:09 PM
21

THIS.🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:28 PM
135

Right?!😭 I’d sooner wipe my ass with $35 crisp bills fresh from my clutch bag, before I’d debase/embarrass myself like this.😭 Males that do this, must REALLY hate themselves.🤷🏼‍♀️ And if they hate themselves, they are incapable of and WILL NEVER truly care for and love you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:25 PM
5

This has never happened to me, and if it ever does, I’ll laugh my ass off, before blocking/deleting everywhere we communicated. Wherever, forever. Buhbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:22 PM
2

LOVE HER.💕 Savage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:43 AM
17

THIS.👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:39 AM
20

Ugh. I feel SO BADLY for her. :( Hopefully, she’ll wake up and “see the light” before further and/or extensive damage occurs in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:38 AM
19

Congratulations!!!!🎉🎉🍾🎉🎉 It can seem a little weird and tough at first, yet, when you own and wield the power that is self-respect and high standards, you begin to get drunk with that power.🤣😊 Males like him aren’t used to being told “no” a whole lot, so while things didn’t work out, he WILL remember you.😊 For sure. Don’t be surprised if he tries to pop back up on you.😏 They tend to, when told “no”. Stand firm.💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:40 PM
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