| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 150 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you? | LIES MEN TELL | Winesday_addams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:19 PM |
| 63 | Best feminine and classy beauty/style tips? | DISCUSSION | Winesday_addams | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/19 07:34 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?As long as he has female friends, I wouldn't have any issue with him being shy and inexperienced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Like he cant flirt? Or he cant have a normal platonic conversation with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:42 AM |
| 6 | Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying noWait, are you telling me that guys think "be yourself" means they don't have to shower?? I always thought it meant to be genuine and true to yourself like enjoying your hobbies and being open aboit what you like or don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying noBut what if what i don't like is what someone else does like? I don't like sports but I'm never gonna tell a guy to give up sports. And the girl who's right for him WILL like sports. The obvious ones are things he already knows about. There's not a guy alive who thinks that women like their men fat and smelly. If he does somehow think that, despite access to the same internet we all have, then me telling him is not gonna make a difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedThanks!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedRight! Women want men who actually like them, not men who dgaf about their personalities and are just looking for someone who shaves her legs. In what world is it flattering to be loved by a man who doesn't care about your personality? In what world is it fulfilling to get a relationship with someone whose only criteria is a low body count?? Despite what redpill has these guys believing, most women actually want to be loved by the man they're with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedThe whole thing is hilarious but my favorite is that he lists being in shape as requirements for both sees, but next to the women's list there is a parenthetical aside saying how easy it is but nothing next to the men's list. Second favorite is that you have to make 500k a year, and then there's a separate bullet for having a car. Like tons of millionaires are getting turned down just because they don't own wheels I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 09:43 PM |
| 5 | People on this sub don't understand what being in your Prime or the Wall actually meansExactly this. When I was 20 lots of men wanted to have sex at me. None of them wanted to marry me or build a future with me. Men in their early 20s don't want to settle down (or, if they do, they tend to be religious or want a big family which was incompatible with me). And old men who wanted to marry a 20 year old? Yikes on bikes. Even when I was young and naive I knew better! Now maybe there are fewer men who want casual sex? I wouldn't really know. Casual sex isn't something i am interested i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other womenOdd jobs and seasonal work. He was not wealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other womenHe was not joking. He said he wanted a long term relationship but over the course of the date I learned he had done it several times before. He was always dating a woman then dumping her when she got "too old" for him which was still significantly younger than he was. He was not successful but he was good looking and charming. I would look past the age and lack of career, until I learned what he did to those poor women! I have no idea how he thought that telling me these stories would be flatter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 12:53 AM |
| 16 | Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other womenSame! I went on a date and a guy said he liked girls my age. I told him I didn't plan to stay this age. He said he would break up with me next year. Great, so next year I have to find a new guy? And if the first guy was to be believed, I'd be less attractive next year by virtue of aging (total eyeroll) so it would be that much harder to find a guy. I prefer men who date women their own age, OR have a consistent preference (like, they prefer women 5 years younger). But if they only like 25 year o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 12:42 AM |
| 118 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?A lazy, shiftless gamer can find his passion or change his goals. A depressed guy can get better. Someone can definitely change for the better if their issues stem from anxiety or laziness, ignorance, or lack of direction. If they come from misogyny then they do not change. The kind of person capable of holding those beliefs will never not be like that anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:45 PM |
| 30 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯He absolutely will not marry her. He will keep stringing her along if she dumps her fiance for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 103 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Beards. It's a personal preference but I can't stand them. Using the terms "Karen" "bitch" or "females" regardless of the context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone else want a long-term partner, but also doesn’t want to live with them?There's a whole subreddit on Living Apart Together (I don't remember the url, but that's the term). It is very common! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 102 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭But they aren't cumming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:52 PM |
| 27 | Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual?I learned I was asexual when I dated the world's highest value man (slight exaggeration but only slight lol). He was literally perfect and I just... Couldn't be attracted to him. I was pretty sad about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 20 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightYeah for real! I prefer short guys too so the ones who lie about their height may actually miss out on someone who actually likes that aspect of them. I'd never date anyone who lied about height though, because that reeks of insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:43 PM |
| 47 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!You act like you got friend zoned by a cat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 04:44 AM |
| 73 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!I have ragdolls and they're loving. I can pick them up and hand them to strangers. Some scrotes STILL don't like them. It's like a weird prejudice thing--or maybe the don't respect them because they know housecats can't hurt you like dogs and the only thing they understand is the hierarchy of violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | The level of mental gymnastics hereWhat? I've never seen any of those and I've seen a lot of PowerPoints. Do they only show them to males or something? I'm in the military. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:06 PM |
| 4 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsThe cutest thing I ever saw was an elderly couple, and they were going to sit on a bench but it was wet. The man jumped ahead of his wife and took her seat, then slid over into his own, to dry off her seat with his butt! It was so sweet and showed what a gentleman he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 12:10 PM |
| 8 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleYeah what if a guy wants two dates and asks two girls? Do both have to say yes or only the first one? And if two guys ask you, do you have to go with both? Can a friend ask you? If you have a boyfriend but someone else sprints over and asks you first do they get you for the evening?? None of it makes sense so I don't think this could possibly be a real rule, or if it is, it's the first time the school is trying it and they didn't think it through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleWhat if she has already been asked? Does that still count as "rejecting" someone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 4 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.Except pepper spray is a good defensive weapon rather than offense. You can't pepper spray someone and then rape, beat, or rob them. In my experience, anyway, the whole area becomes unpleasant and burns your eye so both the sprayer and the one sprayed tend to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:05 PM |
| 25 | Why do men make idols of these emotionless, pseudo-deep characters that are almost always narcissistic and disrespectful towards women?A lot of men aren't smart enough to know when they aren't supposed to like the main character. They think most screen time= the best. And since they think they are the best, too, then they like to identify with the jerks on TV. And they never seem to understand why a jerk played by a handsome male actor with perfectly scripted lines is successful while they always end up alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:58 PM |
| 195 | Y’all be safeYou can't wake someone who is pretending to be asleep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:41 PM |
| 190 | Damn straightBecause it's rude and dehumanizing. Female humans are called women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 37 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂Him starting off referring to her as the "birthday girl" then changing to "birthday woman" is the most hilarious part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:46 AM |
| 9 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)It's not too late! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:19 PM |
| 29 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)Computer science ! And historically it was a woman's job until men pushed all the women out of the field. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:47 PM |
| 13 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you?I considered that! There was no animosity between us before that and he kept trying for months after to get with me. But he really shot himself in the foot there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:31 PM |
| 14 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you?Not anymore he's not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:29 PM |
| 8 | This is true 100% of the timeIf an academic paper uses "female" as a noun then it is not grammatically correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:57 AM |
| 7 | big SIGH.. i swear they’re madly flipping through the thesaurus when they get triggeredThe difference is that she actually used those big words correctly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Wow, I've never thought about emotional connection like this, but it's so true, especially in relationships I've been in.I have a few. I feel like certain communities are better about mixed-sex friendships, and it's weird that literally all of my male friends come from the same community. Every other male friend has either tried to sleep with me, or stopped talking to me when I got a boyfriend, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:53 AM |
| 7 | What, too many standards?Yep!! I once got reamed on there (different account) and every now and then I'm tempted to post the same story with genders flipped and see what happens ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 125 | What, too many standards?That sub is super misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUEEven when they are just talking about the aspect of men being in their "prime" when older, in terms of money and maturity, it is a lie. It used to be that an older man had a higher salary to take care of you. Now, women can work for their own salary, and men even in their thirties and forties are doing jobs like being a waiter or a cashier (no hate for those careers, but you better have more to offer than your "steady job" if that job is minimum wage..) People also used to think men could father… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:21 PM |
| 26 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?I honestly think TV and movies ruin these guys. They see movies set after the apocalypse but the women don't have body hair, so they assume we don't need to shave and just do it for fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 54 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Yeah Megan Fox is average at best. She's not blond and her one thumb is weird /s (These are legit "criticisms" I have heard of her. From dusty old men whose entire face looks like her thumb) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | If a Guy Ever Tries to Shame You for Ghosting/Giving Excuses/Not Giving a Hard "No", send him this and TELL HIM TO FUCK OFF!I don't have time to explain to someone what they already know they're doing wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Women idealize the best in men, often to their own detriment. Don't date potential, date reality. You can't change him, sis, so know what you want upfront and never settle for less.Trying to change someone is an insult to them, and a waste of time to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 10 | "Post-wall" ladies, how do your red pill efforts shift with age? How do your efforts change in terms of still feeling attractive to your man? Does age impact how you support your man and family?I think "the wall" is only a thing for extremely beautiful people. Like sure, at some point we age out of our window to be supermodels, but if I'm being real I NEVER could have been a supermodel, regardless of age. So it doesn't matter that society as a whole thinks that people hit a pinnacle of beauty at one point because I was never at that pinnacle. No big change. Plus, I am only attracted to men my own age, and I would only want a man who was ALSO attracted to people his own age. So if I'm t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Just how important is height really?Plenty of people prefer short men. We just don't talk about it because the guys are usually self conscious. Like I would hate it if I felt bad about my weight but had a boyfriend who always talked about how he liked me chubby or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | LVM husband showers in the morning, gets in bed at night and sits his smelly ass on the pillows. AITA tells her she is overreacting.This would be a deal breaker. Even if he had Thor's body and Obama's brain, a man gets kicked to the curb when he has Pigpen's hygiene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:22 PM |
| 129 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...I hope links are allowed here because this is a hilarious one https://www.google.com/amp/s/jezebel.com/dudes-demand-for-an-open-relationship-backfires-spectac-1578409074/amp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 239 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...At least he's nicer than the guy who tried to open his relationship and complained about women leading him on, and was shocked his "fat" girlfriend got any action. This guy knows his wife is beautiful, and at least admits that the potential hookups he thought he had were all in his mind. Sad I'm praising him. The bar is so low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:24 PM |
| 35 | And there are women who would reply “oh hahaha good one” and continue to talk to this person. I hate OLD culture. Tasteless. (Taken from r/tinder)It's pathetic because he has a shoo in for at least a date. She was impressed, she would do it, he knew where to take her on the date and she was impressed by the idea. And he BLEW IT. All he had to do was forget that it was the first part of a pick-up line, and take her gardening. But instead he couldn't stray from the script and gave up a 100% probability of getting a date. Why are guys so bad at this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 5 | Prove yourself for the King, peasant!Can you share the self care routine? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 03:05 PM |
| 15 | Best feminine and classy beauty/style tips?This is impossible for me. I always try to put it in my purse and somehow look down to see it back in my wrist. I need to stop. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 01:21 AM |
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