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Madonna/Whore complex on speed dial. What men think they should want (mature stable wife material) va what they actually want (young hot, unstable sex bot) is a forger Barkley they will never get past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:20 PM
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I think part of men’s existential dating crisis is that they can’t reconcile the contradictions of their desires. They claim to want a happy/ stable life partner but in the end it absolutely bores them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:06 PM
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I’m convinced Deepti went along with it just to make a fool of him at the altar looking like a goddess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 08:50 PM
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I can understand that, I do think it can sometimes get extreme but I also don't think FDS deserves the level of vitriol it gets. It's really high-stakes for women if we are NOT diligent. I know it can feel hard to understand why we are so extreme but, but ... I think the best way I can put it is the worst-case scenario for us if we are not careful is far more dangerous and happens far more often than the worst-case scenario for men. This doesn't mean that good men can't end up bamboozled, hurt, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:46 PM
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Everything I've seen is about demanding extremely high standards and considering your value inherent with no need for improvement. Happy to be wrong if I am. I got a few thoughts on this. First, A lot of times this discussion happens more in the comments than in the titles / OP. I think most critics of FDS don't bother going that deep (understandably). Additionally many times the poster goes into more info in their OP. Part of FDS is recognizing that when you are a high-value woman you will stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:40 PM
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a self sabotaging hatred of the people they claim to want... That's the thing though, we don't want low-value men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:31 PM
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the pictures/videos I have seen of people who use FDS or TRP related tags on visual social media have shown a very diverse group, many of whom are perfectly average or even good looking. I fully disagree that it's all ugly people with high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:27 PM
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The #1 rule in FDS is to be a high-value woman. I think sometimes the sub can be an echo chamber, there's a lot of info in the sidebar that guides women towards self-improvement. I haven't been to TRP in years but I'm assuming it's similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:24 PM
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Oh definitely. I mean it makes sense than the women in urban areas with more access to resources and education will be the ones to jumpstart it. I also have a feeling it might take a few generations but I do genuinely feel in my gut it will be the women who push China into a better direction. I might not be alive to see it but I will be doing my damnest to manifest it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:24 PM
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The way China has historically treated women is atrocious. That said, though it's hard to hear the stories because of how hardcore censorship has been, women in China have been leveling up en masse and are often the ones behind efforts like this story to find out the truth and help women in need. I really hope to see / hear more about this. I really do think the younger generations of Chinese women will be the ones to change the country for the better (though it might be some time).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:43 PM
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I don't know if this goes hardcore against FDS philosophy, but some ted talk I watched spoke about "zero date". It stems from OLD so I dunno, BUT, the thought is it's a pre-date that's agreed upon to be very short, and it's a chemistry check. Basically to confirm whether or not the chemistry translates to IRL https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-advice/first-date-tips/thanks-online-dating-zero-date-new-first-date/ I've low-key stealth done something like this, not with OLD but with people from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:05 PM
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Listen, I am all for keeping lab rat LVM around to continue the godly work of FDScience. It's how compendiums are made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:58 PM
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millions of signs that the guy doesn't want a commitment even when they're GLARINGLY obvious Girl a man will straight up say to their faces they don't want commitment and some women will still try. (I know because I was one once =___=)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:55 PM
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That's super interesting to me. I wonder If the differences in our demographics and location inform our experiences. Literally, all my girlfriends are on birth control and terrified of unwanted pregnancies. I also don't know a single woman directory or indirectly who tricked a man into pregnancy. Of course, I know this definitely happens. I have heard in the news or on forums about it. But I just didn't think it was super common. I wonder if there's been a large-scale survey or study on it. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:29 PM
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I super think you hit on a really great point. Like now that you mention it, on top of working with many young adults at my retail job (18-24 year olds make up most of our staff), and living around a bunch of colleges (boston), I am surrounded by actual real life young adults on a daily basis. they all look like fucking kids to me. And they act like it?? Like, they're goofy and silly and charmingly naive. Yes, they are adults on paper but they still very much act more like high schoolers than ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:25 PM
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They are literally delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:19 PM
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I haven't read them yet, but I listened to the FDS Podcast episode with Gail, and omg what a savage empress she is. I need to buy her stuff asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:48 PM
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I am so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:46 PM
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I would love for you to start a thread on meeting people. As much as I love roasting scrotes all day long on here I would like to see more strategy and sharing stories. I’m recently single so I am giving myself some time to heal and level up before reentering the dating world, but it was a lonnngggg relationship and FDS didn’t exist when I got into it. So I’m hoping for some solid strats on here ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:22 PM
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Honestly you’re making the smart choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:17 PM
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First of all, what the fuck Second, why on earth would the LGBTQ community who have spent decades trying to undo the stigma of being pedaphiles want to accept actual pedophiles? That is so …. What? It has to be a 4chan troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:47 PM
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I don’t know why I woke up and chose violence today, I have to be a masochist. Or maybe it’s the full moon I don’t know. But holllllyyyyyy shit they really are running huge circles. RIP my karma lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:45 PM
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And mature, experienced women are gonna think you’re creepy. And those young, attractive fertile women will grow up, leave, and partner with men their age assuming they haven’t mentally abused into compliance or baby trapped
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:13 PM
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They are young adults by title. But you have to be really reaching for excuses to ignore the life experience difference between someone who was literally a teenager one year prior, and someone who has decades worth of life experience. 20 year old still aren’t fully cognitively developed either. I’m sorry, but I just can’t except that it’s not problematic or predatory in that instance. I’m 35 and work with mostly people who are in their late teens and early 20s, and I just cannot imagine ever wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:04 PM
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Demi Moore f****** Ashton Kutcher is a hot love affair. Leonardo DiCaprio only plowing women under 25 is "creepy" Kutcher was 27 when they married. Demi was 43. At 27 I feel like someone has a handle on themselves. If he was 22 and she was 43, I would find that creepy, and do when I hear about other similar situations. Additionally, demi has dated people her own age. Leo only plowing women under 25 is absolutely creepy. Not only is the age gap predatory, but it's also a RULE for him. Someone not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:09 PM
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It's creepy and predatory. Regardless of gender nobody should be sexually engaging after someone who could literally be their child. What does the older person get out of it? Really think about that. People in their 20s are still learning, growing, and figuring out who they are. Different generations with different priorities, cultures, desires. Relationships should be among equals. It may be different as you get older (say a 30 year old and 50 year old) but at 20... just, no. It's a creepy feti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:00 PM
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Haha, it's the "Seems Like A Scam" tag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:41 PM
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Well that's a benefit of being born in this timeline. Most female birth control experiments were conducted non-consensually on women of color. That and since unwanted pregnancies have a much higher risk and toll on the women, there is more incentive to volunteer for and push female birth control. It is kind of a privilege that you can wait for someone else to be the test subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:40 PM
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This reminds me of black people beating up Asian people and Leftists (including feminists) trying to say it's all due to white supremacy. I also think this is absurd? But it's not nearly the same in my opinion. Two completely different scenerios. Black people beating up Asian people because of what? The coronavirus? I haven't heard about this so I have no idea why, but I can't see any way to blame that on white supremacy other than, maybe blaming trump for anti-chinese sentiments? Maybe? it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:34 PM
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I'm talking about my experience as an average-looking woman. I generally get bypassed or ignored the majority of the time in social situations unless I put in the extra effort. I don't turn heads. Men will approach my friends or coworkers but not me. The real mistake is men don't want to admit that they only pay attention to above average and beautiful women and base their sweeping generalizations on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:58 PM
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The literal definition of average. In the middle. Not beautiful. Not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:54 PM
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Average looking women are invisible as well. Hot women are the ones who get admired, and automatic respect is a stretch. There’s nothing respectful about men wanting to sleep with you or staring at your tits without knowing a single thing about who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:48 PM
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I wish you all the luck on this spiritual journey
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:45 PM
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How common is this, really? I’ve never heard of doctors getting sued en masse for this. Fringe cases of course, sue-happy America will try their hand at literally anything lol But sometimes I really get the feeling that people blow up the fringe cases out of proportion to try and counter a much larger population of reasonable people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:43 PM
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There have actually been lots of advancements in low invasiveness and reversible male contraceptive that get nipped quickly cause the men in charge don’t want it to be male responsibility. IIRC there was a really promising gel procedure being developed in India that was effective, not super invasive, and reversible but people out here don’t wanna hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:39 PM
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I think you’ll find the the vast majority of pro reproductive rights women would also agree that male circumcision is gross and should be outlawed. I don’t always think about it because I don’t have a penis but when it comes up I remember how bizarre and unfair it is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:35 PM
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A doctor should keep their personal opinions out of their progression or get a new job. There are some careers out there where you really need to be able to work objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:31 PM
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We’re out there being called feminazis ironically because I actually dislike a lot of liberal feminist ideals. Unfortunately being a woman calling out other women for perpetuating shitty misogynistic behaviors gets thrown back in our face, a lot. All the above mentioned issues are perpetuated by women who believe in the patriarchy for one reason or another. To appease men, because they’re afraid of men, because they’ve been convinced that catering to men is what they want or need, and men benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:22 PM
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This is the most absurd comment. This just does not happen at scale anymore. Marrying a rich guy is something that happens to rich women. Lower class folks who try the one income household with kids end up being broke or living check to check most of their lives. This fairy tale died in the 80s. That and being a stay at home spouse is not a sit around your ass and do nothing place to be, unless you are rich and can afford a staff to take care of the kids and housework. Anybody middle class tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:11 PM
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It is hard. See this is my biggest frustration with how men and women view sex differently and never see the other perspective. Being swarmed by unwanted sexual attention is NOT a privilege. Just because that’s what men want doesn’t mean it’s what women want. And women get resented and treated badly because of it. That’s like someone having unlimited access to your favorite snack but they don’t like that snack, and you’re sitting there complaining that people throw Oreos at this persons door eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:03 PM
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That fact that he groomed a child at 26 makes me feel like women his own age probably smell the creep from miles away. Also that "other option" he rejected her for was probably also a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:58 PM
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Very true. I'm glad you pointed out this perspective cause it can be just as dangerous being the dreamgirl as it is knowing you're not it. In none of those instances above would I consider those men high value. My hope is that we all become the realistic dream girl for the HVM we want and not the impossible fantasy that LVM want to project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:47 PM
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I think I understand the intent but it doesn't usually pan out the way people hope. A lot of that is because I would not have made the progress I have to love myself if it weren't for the folks in my life who were relentless in loving me (none of whom were romantic). That said, it can be exhausting. If that person does not do the work and becomes solely reliant on external validation, those people are going to burn out. Folks who do NOTHING but feel sorry for themselves and cannot self reflect b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:27 PM
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THey always will. Like all scammers, they spend a ton of time and energy trying to game the system and take advantage, instead of putting that energy towards simply becoming high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 03:50 PM
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In iOS if someone turns it off for loses signal it shows as location unavailable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:51 PM
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Absolutely this. The immediate aftermath of break ups (platonic, familial, and romantic) can sometimes be so devastating it’s hard to breath. But once we come out the end, and we always will, it’s the biggest feeling of relief. It’s so hard to describe — just all that pent up anxiety, the pits in the stomach, the heavy weight on the soul gets released and it’s like a whole new world. It’s so worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:47 PM
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Jokes on me for being loyal. I absolutely should have gone out but hindsight is 20/20. Now that I’m single again my goal is to avoid the same mistakes and help other woman like me find their value and avoid the heartache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:39 PM
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Omg THANK YOU I wanted to comment on that line but didn’t want to overwhelm the title. But you are just so spot on. He’s a selfish coward who can’t just own up to his shit. If he truly felt she deserves better; and had any shred of decency left, he’d man up and leave her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:36 PM
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Same 2 new year’s ago. I got dressed up cute and made dinner for a night in with my ex. he came home from work and was annoyed at the “surprise” cause he felt pressured to have to be happy. I went to bed at 10 in tears, especially cause my coworker had asked me out for New Years and I said no because I wa taken. LMV get so comfortable leeching off good women they don’t bother hiding it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:27 PM
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They have kids, not sure if the drop in attention from the acróteras happened before or after. That said I’m sure he was filled with red flags prior but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:23 PM
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I also wanna say while I know we have to heavily discourage pickme behavior (the willingness for an open relationship ), in this instance I just feel so, so sad for her. Her pain and desperation comes through in this post and I just want to give this poor woman a hug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:12 PM
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the deep irony to me is a men who are secure and indepedent enough would probably have no problem finding a decent woman, because they wouldn't spend all that time superficially hating women. Assuming they don't have absurd standards. Which is a BIG assumption
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:36 PM
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I think people are tying to say there is no social standard. Your preference for large tits is a personal preference, not a social one even if it is common. We can’t give you a solid answer because that’s going to be up to the individual women. All we can really offer are some categories that could cover your bases, which many people here have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:23 PM
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I was thinking this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:58 PM
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A peasant in the presence of a queen bursting into tears as he should
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:39 AM
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Big fan of this ep, I was agreeing out loud at work a few times during it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:04 AM
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If you haven't already, a recent FDS podcast epsidoe goes deep into this. It might even be the most recent one. In a nutshell they talk about how you should just never divulge your sexual history, or what you've "tried" cause men will get disgustingly jealous and pushy if they found out you experimented with a previous partner but do not want to do those acts with them. There have been some HORROR stories about how men guilt / coerce / force their girlfiends to do things they don't want, or brea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:01 AM
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Sorry for the confusion! Like the other commentor said, she's makes fun of tinder scrotes by using filters to roleplay back and forth. She's so good it's convicing, right? I adore her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:59 AM
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I agree. I’m not gonna look and it’s well intentioned but this is pretty slippery slope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:35 AM
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I have deep suspicions that he’s lying about the open marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:34 AM
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Omg this. Can we start a series where we just translate sad titles like this to better reflect the reality of what’s happening? Kinda like tinder translator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:06 AM
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Women are wired to be more empathetic, community minded and nurturing (if we think about our historical roles in tribes) so we’re more likely to align with the side that claims to support communities and the disadvantaged. Women are also more likely to forgive the sins of a few for the benefit of many, where men are more likely to forsake the many and dwell on the sins of the few.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:47 AM
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More or less my thoughts but I wouldn’t use the word hivemind lol just more socially empathic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:41 AM
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None of your points are policy. And many of them are just false. False rape accusations are actually extremely uncommon, especially when compared to actual sexual assault rates. I would agree that calling awkward or uncomfortable situations sexual harassment has become annoyingly more common and is something that needs to stop. I also would argue the problem with far left snowflake-ism in higher education is laughably horrid. But none of that is actual policy that is having a negative impact on …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:37 AM
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Low key can you invite her to this forum so you both can just shower us will all your queen shit a few times a week? Y’all both sound increíble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:01 PM
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Pardon my language but holy shit to that last bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:41 PM
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The full article for those who’d like to read it https://people.com/crime/90-day-fiance-star-geoffrey-paschel-sentenced-to-18-years-in-prison-without-possibility-of-parole/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:04 PM
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As cliche as it can sometimes sound, it truly is eye opening how people react when you finally identify and start enforcing boundaries. High value people will accept, adapt, and do what they can to respect and keep you. All others will act insulted. Let people show you who they are and believe them when they do. I freed myself of a seriously toxic “friend” when I started doing this and my life got so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:54 PM
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I'm so glad I saw this, i'm telling everyone on my socials not to watch it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:31 PM
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I too love OG. We can be basic together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:11 PM
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You know what's crazy is that some of those men were saying women are just as guilty of doing the same. I HARDCORE disagree. At best, I think some women "settle" after being used, abused, lied to, and becoming cynical and pessimistic that they may never truly find someone who loves them. Not that we're running away from the love of our lives because we're cowards. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:52 PM
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Please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:44 PM
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this is what happened to me. thankfully no kids, and no marriage but 9 years of my life with a man who could not stop talking to his ex who had no issue sexting and making moves on him. She'd been an issue the entire relationship and I wish so bad that I had left him the first time I caught a whiff that they started talking again and things were crossing the line. If FDS existed 9 years ago my life would be so different. Better late than never but damn, men can never be happy or honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:17 PM
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Girl I have been there. I think a lot of it stems from that super deep seeded feeling that our value is connected to men’s attention, so naturally we feel awful when lvm are the ones that make the moves. First obviously your value is not based on men’s attention, so fuck ‘em. Second, hvm do not sit around hollering at women. Also if many of of the men you encounter are from work and school, and people know you’re taken, HVM aren’t going to hit on a women in a relationship. So it’s still very pos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:59 PM
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The other thing that upsets me is he’s gonna go crying to the first pick-me he finds about how his “crazy ex” broke up with him over cookies and totally paint her as the bad guy. Ladies! Never believe men when they trash their exes! OP! You are not over reacting. Especially seeing his response. I feel very strongly that we as women have much deeper intuition about this stuff. On the surface it might be seem like something frivolous but de go down you just knew something was up and this is what b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:39 PM
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I can’t wait to vote for her for president in 30 years. You are raising a boss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:42 PM
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At least they could have used a bottle of wine, jeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:40 PM
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Where does it all go!!????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:39 PM
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Yay! Welcome! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:27 PM
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Unfortunately, this poor women was screwed the second she caught his eye. There was literally no winning for her. If she had rejected him at any point during her ordeal she would have been pushed out of her internship, and broadway is a small world that requires connections. It’s very possible she would have been blacklisted and would have had a really difficult time getting work. It’s a fucking horrific tragedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:12 AM
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This hardly confirms anything. One persons experiment does not suddenly corroborate sweeping generalizations about dating. We’re talking about one person on one app who heavily filtered their results. Vs the experience of literary millions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:43 PM
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You can use websites or apps to remove the exif data from an image. Obviously it’s not important to go through all that just for Reddit but if you ever do want to post an image online make sure you run it through one of those. Also depending on your device you can sometimes turn off data capture (though I really don’t trust it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:31 AM
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All for it if you can provide an equivalent to protect women from cheating men ruining their lives. Cheating men don't always produce a child for proof. Find me an answer and we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:19 PM
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Consider it self-filtering and thank you ancestors he had the decency to let you know he's a POS before it got too serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:42 PM
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I swear men use the AITA subreddit to brag about their fuckery. Nobody can possibly type that and actually think there is a chance they aren’t assholes. Right??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:34 AM
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Jesus, I’m so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:54 AM
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This. The amount of communication, care, respect, and self-awareness required to have a successful open or poly relationship is immense. Many folks looking to do this are doing so for the wrong reasons. Especially men. In my experience men who ask to open a relationship already have someone in mind and are coming at it from a place of dishonesty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:56 PM
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My experience. Talk about callous, my ex boyfriend was bragging to his friends about how he and I would be snuggled up on the couch and he’d be chatting up another girl. And telling them How awful I am. We’ve very recently broken up and he’s acting devastated / “will do anything” to fix it. That I’m his everything, that he’s sorry for all he’s done and said. All I can think of is all the comments in subs like this where men talk about women shredding them emotionally and I can’t help but wonder …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:39 PM
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If you have unresolved issues or unmanaged mental / emotional health that shit is going to come out eventually. Women are hyper tuned to emotional changes in the people around them, and unless you’re ready to spend the entire relationship investing energy in keeping up a front that’s gonna doom you. But like a lot of people hear have already said every person and relationship is different so YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:32 PM
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I'm reading through your comments and I just wanna say thanks for expending the energy because it really is such an uphill battle. You've explained your side with grace and, ahem, the maturity that a lot of folks wouldn't have time for. I've had SO MAY of these same arguments, esp on Reddit, and it's EXHAUSTING. But knowing others like you are still out there doing this.. it makes it easier to know it's not a lonely fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:05 PM
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Men would say the same shit if the age of consent was 15 or 13 or 9. And we know this because it's already happened and is still happening in other countries where child brides are a thing or in our own history where it was totally normal for 40+-year-olds to marry girls once they hit puberty. NV / LQM are obsessed with younger women because they can't grapple with their lack of value to age-appropriate partners. Leo is a perfect example of this. Sure he has money and is famous, but he's past hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:52 PM
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I’d agree that there’s a value incompatibility that would be better off with different partners. That said I still hold fast that sex isn’t the bedrock of a good LTR. Trust and communication are. Sex isn’t going to save a relationship that is lacking in those, but trust and communication can help bad sex, to a point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:36 PM
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I would never want to negate anybody’s feelings about anything, so if he cannot get past this situation, petty or not, then obviously breaking up is the right choice. I don’t agree with his stance though, even though her comments were very insensitive. I would feel it’s not as black and white / good guy bad guy. I can appreciate his insecurities, as someone with a lot of them. But sex isn’t everything in a relationship and as long as she enjoys sex with him, it doesn’t matter if he wasn’t the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:48 PM
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I will lay down my life in battle so GenZ women can have it better. TBH, no lie, most of the inspirational women I follow on TikTok are GenZ (obviously) and these fucking queens inspired me to get certain aspects of my own life together. I'm on a 4 month paid leave from work, and I am using that time to get certifications to change my miserable career, get my finances in order, set myself up with a few forms of passive income, reconnect with myself spiritually, and get healthy. All because these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:19 PM
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In China you can literally go to the mall and rent a boyfriend for the day, and return him. If that isn't queen shit I don't know what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:15 PM
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is that a new term i don't know about? We should make something up and start spreading it around the internet to incite chaos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:12 PM
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I did that on an old account because I was just so fed up after a shitty break up, drunk, and rageful. I went into TRP / PPD and a few others and absolutely triggered TF out of all the fragile men. I got banned in less than 24 hours but the snark I managed to come out with, having 0 fucks left to give and the responses I got were worth it. I was a stone cold bitch for a few hours. Not my proudest moment. But. Certainly one of my best despite the fact. *edit* My best advice, because men will come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:07 PM
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I think it depends on what you're looking for. If you wanna just get laid or have superficial attention then sure, go to a bar or club. Some people are looking for something a little more meaningful, and social hobbies are a great way to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:15 PM
5

You are literally the only voice of reason in this entire thread
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:11 PM
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Exactly. If this person is tackling social interactions with a strategy to conquest, it's likely not going to be successful, cause genuine people looking for genuine connection (platonic or romantic) can usually smell desperation or fake-ness from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:10 PM
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Good for him! Golf claps all around! Maybe he'll score a loveless relationship with a pretty young woman when all that's left for him is money (cause clearly personality isn't going to cut it), until eventually she leaves cause she's got better shit to do and higher value men to snag, and he'll be old and alone wasting away with his piles of cash. Sounds like a appreciation to me! Nothing says success like shriveling away solo because the only thing you value in a partner is looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:05 PM
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Do you have his actual phone # or were you using the app to communicate? Unfortunately it's fairly easy to look someone up by phone # online, but situations like these are the fringe cases where it's useful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:59 PM
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Throw it back. Find his employer or mother and send them this I'm sure they wouldn't feel good about having a vengeful psycho as en employee / son
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:52 PM
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That’s why I don’t frequent those types of subs. It bothers me that people are so obsessed to the great equalizing of the genders that they’re trying to homogenize us. For me I believe that men and women are equally capable intellectually, and can generally make up for any imbalance in other areas with gender-applicable adjustments. But pretending that their aren’t Differences is confounding. Like it doesn’t bother me that I’ll likely not be as physically strong as the average guy, cause I am st…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:01 PM
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I think you’re touching on something important and valid but just missing the mark with the argument. Men make generalizations based on the women who attract their attention / observations, And as a byproduct they observe the men that these women focus on. Meanwhile they are not noticing or caring about the women who land below their attractiveness threshold. Women who fall into the not ugly but not attractive bracket are basically invisible. My guy friends think I’m crazy when I say this but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:06 PM
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I wouldn’t say NOTHING to do with sex (I disagree with OP here). Personally I’ve definitely had sex that was very enjoyable purely from a physical standpoint. It’s rare though and has always been with someone I cared about, even if platonically. It’s just that we’re hard wired for sex to also have bonding effects. It’s more emotional for us, or can be, and that can impact our enjoyment of the sex itself. And how we’re feeling / the rest of our body can also impact the pleasure (many factors go i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:43 PM
1

I think speaking from traditional gender roles, women enjoy when a man is comfortable taking control of situations and making decisions. Not in a my way or the high way manner, though, which is where that arrogance sometimes kicks in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:35 PM
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Hmm. Women can have and enjoy sex, yea. But i think the point OP is trying to make is that it’s not always fun. so men acting like women having it easier to get laid is a huge privilege isn’t a fair argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:10 AM
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I think women like confidence and a touch of authority which sadly usually comes with asshole in the package. I dunno what it is about male psyche but it’s rarely the combo of confidence but sweet. I’ve seen the shyest cinnamon rolls turn into narcissists as soon as they hit the gym and get a little attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:57 PM
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Girl, we can never win. I’m on the other end of the spectrum - very particular libido where I don’t get turned on spontaneously (to note though: I do enjoy sex and I don’t think I’m super vanilla, I’m just not into kink and don’t desire sex all the time). Both ltr I’ve been in the guy got bored and decided to look elsewhere, call me passionless and blame me for their infidelity, but then get absolutely insane when we broke up. Waterworks, begging. The first one still messages me 10 years later t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:39 AM
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I literally had an adult man here on Reddit claim I was trying to “deny teenagers what they want” when I argued that he had no business going after young girls. And that my “purity ideology” was detrimental to their sexual development, and that I was forcing my antiquated morals on these poor teenagers. I fired back that, no, actually I think teenagers having sex is fine, just that they ought to be allowed to experiment and discover amongst themselves outside the predatory voyeurism of fucking c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:33 PM
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I think you hit a very good point in the end about men “being better” in general. I get frustrated about the SMV scale because I think a lot of people, esp men, assume that physical attractiveness is the only value women care about (because for men it is, sexually). It plays a big part, yes, but IMO it’s not the only thing. I personally rank highly attractive men lower on my personal SMV scale because I associate them with selfishness esp regarding sex. I’m in my 30’s and have come to realize th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:54 PM
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Come through with the receipts! ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:40 PM
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Men get super defensive when we try to point out how creepy it is to desire teenagers. I hate the whole “18 is legal” argument cause like, they’d make the same argument if the legal age was 16, or 14. We know this because once upon a time it was, and men felt it was fine to marry a 14 year old. So fucking gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:38 PM
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I have to agree. I always felt broken because it was so hard to get turned on / continue sexual interest n my partners but realized I never felt valued or secure with those guys. They never spend the time to warm me up, they get bored / tired of foreplay, are more interested in recreating porn for their own satisfaction and I’m just instantly turned off by that. Sometimes I’ll meet someone within I have a lot of chemistry with and the fires below might light up again, but ultimately as soon as t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:08 AM
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I’m 5’10 and I’ve never dated a guy over 6’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:11 AM
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I had gotten to the point with my ex where I had to hide in the bathroom or close the door to just CHANGE because the second he saw me stripping he had to grope my tits. Or when I was cooking or fucking reading. Or when we’d cuddle. Like he could not stop sexualizing me for ONE SECOND. shrieking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:20 PM
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I would argue that a major flaw in this study is it comes off as short term. Asking people about traits and behaviors they they initially find attractive doesn’t necessarily extend to what actually works out long term or their true values. I would cut us some slack in that our monkey brains, and years of being taught a culture that’s still struggling with equality and gender roles, is hard shit to unpack and move past. That’s like asking men to pick a preference between Megan Fox in a tight dres…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:46 PM
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And she’ll get paid less for it, to boot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:36 PM
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I fully agree here. I think either the study or the verbiage used to report on it is missing some very key points about relationships. I feel like being loved and cherished by your partner doesn’t have to be mutually exclusive to equality. And I think in a way we all tend to put the people we love on small pedestals and hope that is reciprocated by them. Like we have a higher tolerance and forgiveness of the people we love, for traits and behaviors that we may call out or not deal with in other …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:34 PM
2

Did you forget to swap accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 03:36 AM
1

I love playing video games but my observations over the years of being involved in the gaming community is that gamer guys put a lot of their identity and social life into their games. While for me gaming is a hobby that takes a backseat to hanging with friends and doing art
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 03:31 AM
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Interesting cause every time I’ve been rejected or dumped the guy offered friendship as a consolation prize as well. Is it really that gender specific or just something humans do to soften the blow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:54 PM
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https://instagram.com/plamondoncomics?igshid=n4t8dno88i0p She’s hilarious! She also has a comic on WEBTOON called G.U.M (growing up Mormon ) where she recounts the trauma of being raised in a super oppressive religious community. I think her experiences and subsequent escape really inform her humor. It’s sweet and relatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:12 AM
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If you want horror stories, check out the Instagram tindertranslators. She has a highlighted story called skid marks.... it’s .... yeah. Be forewarned, have some wine ready
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:09 AM
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As a 5’11 woman, preaaaacchhhh. I also have an athletic build so double preach I’m just not petite or dainty 😩🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:07 AM
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I love this so much. It’s wild once you delegate / optimize your tasks just how much energy you spend on it. Good on you for figuring this stuff out For clothing I really like the Cladwell app (iOS not sure if it’s available on Android). Like your other things it takes some time to get set up but once you do all the data entry it suggests you 3 outfits every day and keeps track of how much of your wardrobe you use. I dunno if that’s what you’re going for but I really enjoy it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:42 PM
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Your own and possibly his lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:36 PM
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The number of times I’ve had to explain to my ex the balance of Emotional vs physical labor. I work retail, 9 hr days. Somehow I still had to plan and execute dinner while he had a physically demanding job (mechanic) but he didn’t have to think as much. He used to get in my case about not wanting to make decisions or talk a lot when I got home but I was doing that 9 hrs a day 5 days a week. Customer service is a drain mentally and emotionally and I was so exhausted after years of having to plan,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:04 PM
1

I would argue though if the vast majority of women are average, so we'd have a harder time judging our SMV as a whole. Isn't the point of the 1-10 scale that 8+ women are actually rare and 5's are literally average so the majority? If you're an 8+ than sure you probably have a good idea you have high SMV, but for the women who are average or around average (the majority) you're going to have a a lot more variation. You'll have 4's that think they're 6's, and 7's that think they're 5's etc. It ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 07:12 AM
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I have a rule that if I'm interested in a guy and relatively confident it's mutual, I will invite them out once if they don't invite me out first. After that I leave it up to them. It's not that I don't want / like to make the first move but like. I think many men are in denial that they get bored when women do the initiating. Every single time I expressed interest in a guy he's gotten weird and backed off eventually. Even when I was positive (LOTS of flirting and innuendo) that they were intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:46 AM
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I need to read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:20 AM
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One might say the bar is ... on the ground. Outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:19 PM
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A very select number of women. . I won’t argue that the 8+ women have it made but once you start going down the scale it’s harder for women especially as they get older. So many of the __pill sentiments are based off the behaviors and anecdotal observations of a group of women who are top-tier and in their prime. They also happen to be the type of women all men feel entitled to and as such are always observing. Average and around average women are invisible to men. So their actions and behaviors…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 01:18 PM
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You’ve got some solid points there. I was being too general, but I do think that sort of attitude and ego is more prevalent in attractive men who know it. But I’ve certainly also met outliers. Personality and environment so influence that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:03 PM
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I mean human beings are hard wired to fawn over attractive people, one way or another. I don’t see it as hypocritical or lying if I, a straight woman, ogle at hot men online while also recognizing the negative package that comes with it. Also I fully accept that looks matter to me. But I also have realistic expectations on the caliber of man I can attract based on by own SMV along with what I can expect from him. Hot men are good for little more than a trist, and even then are often the most dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:38 PM
1

Gah I think I’m just mixing up my movies. It’s just suicide squad, there’s no “joker” billed movie with Jared Leto. Too many jokers....(lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:43 PM
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I actually saw Birds of Prey and loved it, when I saw Joker in this thread I thought we were talking about the one with Joaquin Phoenix, I forgot there was the other one for a hot second XD This makes a lot more sense. Now I wanna see BoP again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:40 PM
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Fucking ew. Thank you for explaining so I don’t ever have to watch that garbage. But also. Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:51 PM
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I didn’t see the movie, would you be able to TL;DR this part?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:39 PM
2

I had an argument with my girl friend about this when WAP came out. I told her that I did not like the song and I thought that it does more harm than good, which she seemed very surprised and confused about. I tried to explain to her that my own experience kind of reflect the negative impacts of stuff like this, that because I am not super kinky or don’t like choking on a dick that makes me boring and vanilla in the bedroom (I have been told this by multiple partners). I told her that I worry th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:36 PM
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Anybody else watch Asha Christina? I ran into her channel and I’m pretty impressed by her insights. She’s like a more toned down Ashera. Any other influencers like them y’all can recommend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:08 AM
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Love this for youuuuu 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:06 AM
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This second wave meninism is founded by American incels, I’m so sorry our man children are awful and cheap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:37 PM
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This is the exception to the rule and more common amongst the elite 10/10’s that ____pillers froth over. But average women and below are rarely included in any discourse on sex and relationships. Which is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:02 PM
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Facts. Low value sex is available to anyone if they try hard enough: it’s just everybody aiming to punch above their weight class and vastly overestimating their own value / attractiveness. It’s not unique to either gender, just presets itself differently. I would support the argument that it might be slightly harder for men. Just not for reasons they think / want to believe (women are pickier because we have to worry about our safety more).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:50 PM
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You’re amazing, ty so much. I owe so much to FDS and you queens - i would have never had the strength to consider leaving or reflect on my own part in this if it weren’t for the tough love here. I live in mass so I have access to in-state tuition for a lot of great schools, I’m definitely going to look into some of those options Thank you again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:17 PM
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What sort of stuff would you recommend? I already started on a fitness / health journey and I’ve gotten better at styling myself and dressing well. I feel a little stuck career wise but that would be the next big thing and a bit of q challenge I think jumping from retail to a more stable office job. Other than that I’m not sure what to do. I was thinking joining some social groups for hobbies I’m into?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:26 AM
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Ugh facts. It’s so hard cause I’m really insecure and I’m aware of that. I’m trying to get myself past this part so I can truly put an end to things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:24 AM
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Yeah I have an odd feeling I just might not be the type of woman who can achieve that but I’d certainly like to try. I def think I would need time to myself. I have a lot to work on and would dedicate my time to health and fitness, and looking for a more stable job. I’ve already started in preparation for this all to go down. Truthfully we’ve had issues for a while so while the “break up” is new I’ve been mentally / emotionally detached for a while so I don’t think i would need a ton of extra ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:23 AM
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Oh for sure on the dependency part. I absolutely can provide for myself (I work at Apple so even retail pays decent and the benefits are A+++). I would rather not though. TBH we’ve had issues for a while so I stopped contributing as much and focused on saving, cause he makes more than 3x as me but we were splitting everything, including rent, equally so I pulled back hard. Thank you for the advice ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:20 AM
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Aye, I'm trying to be aware so I make solid, realistic choices. I appreciate you answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:45 AM
1

Ahh, thanks. I suspected I fall into this category so I was curious what your definition was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:18 PM
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Can you explain what a mid-tier SMV women would be like? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:20 PM
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Never enjoyed. I was a desperate, naive pickmeisha and I never actually hooked up with one. Instead I was the emotional attention-giver that they always clung to and strung along for validation while they were busy fucking the hot chicks they actually wanted to fuck. I didn't realize this was fuckboy behavior until I learned more about it and then realized what a shitty orbiting doormat i've been. Now I see anyone resembling a chad and run the other way. It's not worth the time or energy even fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:13 PM
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Sigh, it's crazy. But to clarify, not judged for the fact of having not a lot of sex in itself, but the side effects of lack of experience. lots of guys kind of want someone who is both virginal but will blow their mind in the bedroom, or else they get bored. They won't say it straight up and sometimes they might not even truly grasp why they're frustrated, but porn has really tainted the idea of what heterosexual (and I assume other as well) sex should look like. For instance the issue i'm runn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:07 PM
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I'm 34, so a little up there. i'm in the process of ending a 7-year forever girlfriend bullshit relationship and all this is very helpful, though I am a little scared going back into the dating scene at my age. tinder didn't exist when I started dating this turd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:59 PM
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omg yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:57 PM
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This 20 y o telling me things I need to hear, truly what a time to be alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 09:28 PM
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I totally messed up my point. I meant a comparison to men in their mid 30s not women in their 20s. That was my bad. So i meant to say I think that there’s a more equal number of attractive men and women and their 30s than favoring men. I just think that attractive women in their 30s are often mistaken for younger so aren’t always counted in those numbers. Does that make sense? Sorry I’m failing at communicating today XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:15 PM
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See none of my girl friends and I have any interest in chads though.( late 20’s to mid 30s). They’re fun to look at but my god I’ve had enough of fuckboys for a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:58 PM
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Facts here. I’m 34 and while i still could lose some weight, I lost 30 lbs 2 summers ago and the change in attention was utterly astonishing. I’ve been an awkward turtle my whole life and it took me til my 30s to really glow up but I’ve had more male attention in the last 2 years than I had probably all of 25-32. I really wanna lose that last 20 so I can really see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:51 PM
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I dunno if it’s anecdotal but i don’t agree at least with the 30 bracket. I work retail and there aren’t a lot of us in the 30+ range. I find though that most of the women who are in their 30s are really good looking. (If I lost weight I think I could be among them.) I think good looking women in their 30’s are often just assumed to be younger. I’ve had to show my ID multiple times to people at work cause they refuse to believe I’m 34, and i would consider myself pretty average looking, just hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:47 PM
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I know it’s easier said than done but girl, don’t feel shame. I’ve been shamed because at 34 I’ve only ever slept with 2 people but believe you me I wish I had more because I know jack shit about my own sexuality. And the same dudes who are interested because I have such a low number are the same ones who get bored / frustrated because eod my lack of experience. We just can’t win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:25 PM
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Facts, i would have him give me his phone and watch me delete every single nude and then walk out the door But this is why I don’t send nudes in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:57 AM
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Ugh this sorta happened to me literally 3 days ago. I asked my friend that I have the hots for (I thought it was mutual) out for drinks and he spent the whole night gushing about this girl we work with, in between telling me about the other women he’s slept with He sprinkled in small compliments about me being hot when I’m sassy and aggressive as well I’m never asking him out again. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:49 AM
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I wanna befriend that girl and tell her that these LVM are self-filtering, wipe her tears and make her some hot cocoa. What a fucking pile of trash that guy is and I hope ehe doesn’t trick some poor low-confidence girl into being with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:50 AM
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This was my experience at 5’10” I was the second tallest kid in my 300 person class in 5th grade, and basically stayed top 10 until all the guys hit puberty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:29 AM
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I’m 5’10” with an athletic build, so i can chime in. There’s many layers, but I got insecure about my height because in my younger years my peers called me manly and a behemoth and guys wouldn’t date me for being bigger than them. You know, reinforcement of standards that ideal femininity is small, busty, and delicate. But I certainly started my adolescence crushing on all variety of guys, all heights and shapes. Around 16 I stopped doing sports and developed an eating disorder so i was more “th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:26 AM
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I think it depends on what you’re after. Narcisismo might work short term if you’re just trolling for sex, but long term partners are gonna catch on and bail if they have any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:15 AM
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I guess I’m just failing to understand how y’all are interpreting sexual attraction for women. i don’t just look at an attractive man and get wet. It takes more than just one gander. I at least have to have a conversation and see how he acts / games / makes me feel before that part happens For me it’s the overall package that I can associate with a good time. It’s a lot more mental and sometimes emotional. I’m absolutely more likely to get turned on by a funny guy who knows how to tease me but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:05 PM
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Sexual attraction for women is more complicated than just a good looking dude, though. Almost none of the dudes I’ve hooked up with or dated would be considered alphas. They all had a mix of qualities that could go one way or the other. One guy was tall and flirty. He was also a fuckboy who worked retail. One guy was short and chubby, but he spent a lot of time on foreplay and making sure i got off before he put his dick anywhere near me. One dude is extremely affectionate and adventurous, scraw…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:45 PM
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I’m the same as you. What men mean is the hot 10/10 chicks they want to bang are attracted to the alphas, so obviously all women are like that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:39 PM
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Women have sexual energy, just because it’s different doesn’t mean it’s non existent. The issue is men often don’t care enough to learn how to navigate women’s sexuality or arousal. If your girl is dry you didn’t try hard enough. If you treat women like fuckholes they’re going to be disinterested in sex with you because it’s not doing anything for them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:37 PM
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This ^ So much this When the guy spends 30 seconds trying to get me in the mood and then goes straight to penetrating its boring or just plain awful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:49 AM
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This is such a wonderful way of looking at it. We’re also very lucky that with the internet and gig economy anybody has the chance to hop into a few odd jobs here and there to keep the resume padded.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:56 PM
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I, too, love living in a bubble where the only information I consume is meticulously curated to confirm all the biases I have so I can feel good about my paranoia and misery. High five, friendo!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:37 PM
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Good luck, and please keep us updated. We’ll support you through this. Awakening is hard AF but like a lot of things very worth it when you come out the other end stronger and wiser. You got this, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:24 AM
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Well sure, but again, nAWALT. I'm thinking more an established relationship over a new one or potential one, here. In the dating stages some (even many) women find a mysterious man attractive and alluring. but you don't want mystery from someone your'e in a LTR with, after a point. Esp if we consider that many women seek security in their relationships, and a cold and distant partner isn't very securing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:37 PM
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Not OP but it's tough to fully put into words. Being rational often comes with just the right among of fuck-givings to get on with life through good and bad, and learn from all experiences without losing your shit. I think what OP might be getting at is a rational, sensible person can accept life and people for what they are and cope with it. Paranoia on the other hand is living in constant fear of what could be, or convincing yourself that bad things are / will happen so you have to constantly …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:27 PM
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I'm a long-time lurker who just joined reddit, do i have to wait a bit before applying for DTW? I don't mind at all, just curious if I can jump in now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:08 PM
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Wow. Imagine justifying adults sleeping with teenagers because teenagers are horny. For the record, i'm a 32 y-o woman, and an atheist. So religion has zilt to do with my opinion. I wouldn't be caught dead with someone under the age of 25, and even that's pushing it. I don't see anything wrong with older woman > younger man, but there's a threshold where it absolutely becomes creepy. Also your arguments are such a stretch. First off, If you want to throw biology into it, the human brain, in part…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:02 PM
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I’m currently in the midst of this! So much that I’ve read /‘learned from this sub (it got me to sign up for reddit!!) puts into words what I’ve been feeling lately in my almost 7 year relationship that I’m in the process of ending. So much bullshit to keep a man who is barely contributing to my life. If I had this wisdom we would have ended years ago. Maybe not even started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:02 PM
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I ran into this a lot in the early days of gaming. Once people starting seriously critiquing game developers for the blatant sexism in their designs, hiring practices, etc. you’d have these mile long threads on forums. And inevitably you’d get a handful of pickmesha’s being like “lol I’m a gamer girl and I don’t mind that every female character has g cups, wears thongs as battle armor, and her tits and ass have their own gravity engine, lol! I find it sexy and empowering!” And she’d inevitably g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 03:58 PM
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Absolutely not. Not only is this Perpetuating toxic nonsense that a man’s value is centered around his sexual behavior, it’s making light of adults’ responsibility of not taking advantage of teenagers during a very hormonal, confusing time. They are trying to figure themselves out and it’s easy to give in to peer pressure / get bullied to “believing” this sort of stuff is ok, but it’s not. They often end up traumatized in the long run. Those women are disgusting, as is any adult taking advantage…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:50 PM
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