Hey ladies,

Seeking advice on how to level up at my stage in life. I'll try to be as concise as possible.

As the title states, i've been in a 7-year relationship as a GF that's likely to end once quarantine is over. BF is a liar - has been "Unhappy" with our sex life (laughable) among other things, and pursuing other women from work behind my back. I found out by looking through is phone (Not my proudest moment). Also pornsick. Can provide more details if needed.

Tried to break up with him in March - he said he "wanted to work on stuff" so we agreed to try and fix things. However he preceded to pursue his work dream girl, and flirt with his work friend, so I put my foot down and ended things.

Then lockdown started, and we were stuck together.

After less than a week of cohabitating as a broken up couple he came to me in tears apologetic and wanting to be serious about fixing stuff. I went along with it for the sake of peace while we had to live together.

Either way, once this is over I plan on leaving for good (unless I can figure out how to milk him a bit) - however, I'm 34 and worried about my options.

I'm not interested in kids - I am interested in marriage where I'm taken care of, at least slightly.

  1. Hispanic. I'm not petite - 5'11, and about 30 lbs overweight, which I know I have to lose that to give myself any advantage. I think i'm slightly above average in looks otherwise. I clean up very nice, and I have the "spicy latina" thing going, but I'm trying to angle more for wife material.

My job is out of the question for options - I work retail and all my coworkers are way younger ....and work retail.

How can I go about leveling up at this point? I know I've got a lot working against me, I'm so out of the dating game I'm not sure where to start.

Anything would help - thank you!