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Women's passive choice is irrelevant if she is shamed and mocked for any attempts to make an active choice. I learned long ago that much as men say it, they do not want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:20 AM
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Because women are regularly putting themselves in danger when putting themselves out there. You simply cannot compare the risk of getting raped/murdered/abused and the risk of... Having your ego bruised with rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:11 AM
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I am thoroughly enjoying dating a man who cooks, cooks WELL and offers to cook for me ALL THE TIME. We've been dating almost 6 months now and he has cooked for me so many times I've lost count. I've 'cooked' 4 or 5 times and he's helped me each time, despite the fact that when he cooks, I enjoy a glass of wine or gin and tonic 🤣. The only time he didn't was when I baked him a cake for his birthday. His food is tasty, varied, healthy, if a little indulgent at times (the bechemel sauce he made for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 10:50 PM
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I dated a guy for two years with a beard and never got even the mildest skin irritation from it. Know why? That man had beard shampoo and shampooed and oiled his beard DAILY to keep it clean and soft. He went to the barbers for trims and shaves to keep it neat and well styled. He was meticulous when eating and went so far as to avoid messy foods or use a knife and fork for things like burgers to avoid getting food in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:40 PM
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'She must have been at least 18 so it's fine no matter what age I am' 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:38 PM
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I got botox for a very prominent frown line I have in the middle of my forehead. I feel like it makes me look quite angry which I don't like as I work in healthcare and seeming friendly/ approachable is an important element of developing a good rapport with patients. I have a tendency to frown when I don't intend too, and I sometimes get tension headaches, so here's to a frown-free new year 🤣 It felt vain and vapid and then I just thought, fuck it, i know it's not about beauty/ageing for me, I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:55 PM
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Because men only value women for their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:07 PM
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So... she works while he slacks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:42 PM
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"I was just starting to turn my life around" Translation : I've been nothing but a scrote for 10 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 10:08 AM
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I wax regularly when I'm seeing someone because I prefer the heightened sensation of bare skin down there. Nothing to do with how it looks or what he prefers, but that gentle touches give me shivers when there's no hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 09:48 AM
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Do you know, I've just realised I've probably never heard my dad say a bad thing about my mother. Not once. My dad is certainly not perfect, I'm sure they fought (but never in front of us) and I know they had a rough patch early in their marriage when my dad was often out drinking with work colleagues (I think before I was born), sometimes he sulks and can still be a bit immature, but my dad has never done anything but praise my mother to his kids. I used to think it was fucking cringe when we'd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:00 PM
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"King" Yeah that's a no from me dawg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:24 PM
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I've spent my entire life waiting "a few more years". I'm almost 40, why is waiting a few more years for more misery funny?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:49 PM
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If they stay friends with NVX, they probably aren't HV themselves I think this is really interesting because I have a friend of over 10 years now that I met through my ex. He was originally a friend my ex knew from school, but after the breakup saw less and less of my ex due to his behaviour. We are still friends but he is no longer friends with my ex 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:06 PM
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As if Monday wasn't already depressing enough, comparing finding a decent man to winning the lottery just sent me over the edge 🤣 My life is far from revolving around men, but I am definitely in that life stage where everyone I know is paired up and having babies so it's really hard to not feel lonely sometimes, especially as I just moved to a new city. I don't know any women with similar ideology and it gets frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:37 PM
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She's not free, she's still tied to him through their child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:45 AM
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Literally just watched this happen with my ex. He tells me "I'm not that emotional" then proceeds to get a dog and freely give it affection and attention when I had to ask for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:34 PM
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Not even a credit card, a wad of cash from her dress. The whole thing was scripted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:39 PM
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Marry him, then divorce and take half of that business she helped him build.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:46 PM
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I'm so baffled like, that appears to be the bed frame against the wall? Does he think it's cool to have the mattress on the floor? Is that what his wife was 'nagging' him about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:43 PM
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If his anxiety is that bad, how did he order??? I bet he just wants the woman to be the annoying customer who complains, rather than him. So he can roll his eyes at the waitress while his date fixes the order for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:04 PM
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My dad did the same for my mum. The thing was about 5x the size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:54 AM
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And a FIRST RESPONDER. He fucking KNEW it was dangerous for her to return alone. I actually can't believe someone could have such callous disregard for another person's life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:21 AM
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Disney also expressed how tough and unfair this case was in light of the pandemic. This is bullshit. The law suit is specifically talking about money made from online/ streaming services which wasn't included in Scarlett's contract. How many additional subscribers to their online platforms / streaming services do they now have because of the pandemic???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:50 AM
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Gross, what even IS that? I'm not big on diamonds but I'd laugh at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:09 PM
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I'll bet my brand new bike that these women have never had a proper orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:56 AM
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tomi lahren I mean... I'd have some choice words about her, but nothing to do with her being a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:31 AM
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Nah it's definitely anger. I should have cut him off earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:31 PM
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Ugh. I've been trying for SIX FUCKING MONTHS. To shift my energy. Dunno wtf is wrong with me 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:28 AM
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I recently dated a guy who apparently didn't know how to use the toilet brush after using my bathroom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:41 PM
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Just because that's how you operate in the UK doesn't mean that's how everyone in the UK operates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:33 PM
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Most of them have zero empathy or respect for people they consider ‘inferior’. Ftfy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:07 PM
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The sad part is, the bar is so low I'd be happy with $5 roses if it was done regularly / in a thoughtful way. I regularly buy cheap supermarket bunches, but I pick a few carefully to match colours and arrange them nicely. Thought and effort does not require $$$$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:57 AM
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How have we all dated the same man? Its interesting you saying about the "great catch for pickmes" thing because I feel that way about my ex too. Another 'great on paper' guy with the emotional / social iq of a toilet brush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:12 AM
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filthyratbag spits straight facts in all her art. Plenty of stuff for former pickmeishas (myself included) to squirm over too Wise beyond her years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:32 AM
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No matter how we look at it, the realtor is really self-sabotaging due to her internalized misogyny. Oh no doubt, she expects the single woman to settle for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:30 PM
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the realtor would litterally lose out on 1/3 of her own cut by selling OP that shoebox-house The realtor doesn't care because the realtor will sell the nice house anyway, so she'll get commission regardless. She's probably having trouble shifting the shoe box tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:07 AM
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Yes! There have been so many scenes where I've just shouted "YES GIIIRL!" to her handling of some scrote situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:17 PM
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they think their relationship feels like "ball and chain" but they choose to stay. I have ZERO respect for men who think this way, it's insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:20 AM
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nurse and teacher are popular targets for leechers LVM I think it's also because these professions attract caring, giving and nurturing personality types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:49 PM
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any woman will do? This pretty much it. Someone to fill the 'girlfriend' role. They just want to skip to the part where we accept being taken for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:40 AM
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Above average 28 year old? You don't even have the grammar of an average 8 year old. Post wall? You clearly never even made it TO the wall if you get so little interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:39 AM
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I absolutely hate tiktok and am right now considering downloading it just for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:41 PM
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Have MSc. working on second, working in healthcare in various guises nearly 10 years now. So... yeah maybe you should taken your own advice and believe the experts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:39 PM
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Its frowned on to IDENTIFY patients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:14 PM
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they seem to think they can “hack” relationships with women by stringing together a series of acts that women like to see, and that they’ve discovered “please” women to keep them submissive, satisfied, engaged Ugh. I know you're talking about the corporate world but I was recently dating a guy like this. It was so bizarre, he was kind and gentlemanly but ultimately clueless, and lacking in the ability to have or express any deeper emotions. Tbh it seems like his whole world was 2D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:41 PM
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Society blames this on porn, but porn has been around since Ancient Rome. OK so this person is clearly missing the point on purpose. Crudely draw paint on walls is not equivalent to 24/7 hard-core whatever you want at your fingertips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:04 AM
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I doubt anyone keeps a male un-netured cat as a pet. They are insufferable Makes you wonder why we don't do it to men tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:22 AM
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He was definitely generous, but yeah that is sort of how I felt. I didn't feel like I should have to spell these things out, but then at what point does it become expecting him to read my mind? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:38 PM
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I ended it with a man I was dating before V-day. His chronic lack of planning was infuriating, I'm always 100 miles ahead, I just couldn't cope. I'm starting to wonder if I was clear enough about what I wanted or if I wasn't effective enough in my boundary setting. I am new to implementing FDS so I am unsure about whether I set clear and consistent boundaries. I'm starting to wonder if I sank back into my pickme-ness, but it's so difficult for me to tell. I feel like I was too blase with my time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:18 PM
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But your bf agrees with the lawyer, so should by that extension, also be single...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:01 AM
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Not just familiar, but really did serve so much of my life and goals in so many positive ways. My life will certainly be emptier without him, so many HV traits. But in the end, not ALL the boxes, and it's such an important one too. Thanks for the kind/positive words. Wishing you all the boxes too ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:10 PM
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I'm really feeling this right now! I've just ended a relationship with a LVM who ticked SO MANY boxes, but couldn't provide the emotional intimacy and support I need. It was very difficult because really he has been a social lifeline for me during the pandemic and after moving to a new country to study, and he's not a bad guy, but it just wasn't enough for me. I'm really struggling with the decision even though I know in the long term it was the right one for me. Feeling very pick me right now. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:49 PM
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That is a cartoon fat man face if ever I saw one. Wow Joe, I can see why she divorced you. I'm 36 and if you hadn't told me his age I would have gone for 40+ minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:20 AM
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Like this woman probably gave up things in her life to have your kid, it's probably why she "never set foot in a college", I bet, like many men, he saw her having not been to college as a big plus for years. No nasty feminist ideas in her pretty little head. Barefoot and in the kitchen. Her having not gone to college is EXACTLY why he's paying so much child support, she doesn't have the same income potential as him. How is this man who went to college so gd stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:49 PM
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Ugh. I feel so attacked rn, but also simultaneously relieved that this is something other women have experienced and not just my manic grandiose ideas about how these men love that my hyperactivity makes their shitty boring lives more exciting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:34 AM
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He literally only mentions women. No mentoring of males, and he mentions quite a number of different mentoring/internship situations. Why no males mentioned i wonder? I don't doubt the women can sense his creep factor a mile away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:07 PM
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Money can't buy class
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:19 PM
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'Singles' day in China is mainly an ecommerce holiday/sales day (like black friday) so single people can fill their empty void of singleness with consumer goods. It is also a day singles events such as mixers, blind date parties etc. are held, it is not really a celebration of singles, though a lot of events might say that, they are mostly attended by people looking to partner up. I spent 18 months living and working in China and singledom is still pretty much reviled or pitied there. I'd rather…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:53 AM
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Thanks for the links!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:22 AM
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either you're a PickMe or just have a lot of internalized misogyny. You need to do some feminist reading to understand why what you just said is wrong. I think this is a bit condescending, we are ALL varying levels of recovering pick me and at different stages of shaking off our internalised misogyny. There are very few women who can say that they haven't suffered from patriarchal socialisation in some way. I've done a lot of feminist reading, but I think I missed the movement where women have l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:01 AM
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I have. I'm pretty sure "Know what your standards are and stick to them. Don't settle for less" is very near the top 🤔 I'm not into overweight guys. I'm harsh with this standard so honestly, I can't say I think it's unfair of guys to be either. No double standards from me. Aren't double standards something we complain about scrotes having?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:30 AM
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I would dump anyone who tried to pull that shit on me, man, woman, relative, WHATEVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:24 AM
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I just want to say I love how you've phrased this question, makes it clear you expect more without coming off as... rude or demanding? I always have trouble laying out what I expect without coming across as brash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:05 PM
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Exactly. Car is a total fucking waste of money in NYC. I don't even fucking live there and I know that. He's real concerned about looking like he has more money than he actually does...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:47 PM
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I love they way he's complaining about spending 500 a month as if it's been going on months, they've literally only been dating a month. So he's spent 500. And he's already complaining. Looks like you can't afford this woman dude, I doubt she'll accept less 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:02 PM
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He's paying 30-40 women a year for their company. But sure, he's going his own way. He doesn't NEED women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:47 AM
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Some of them are honestly such disasters, and it's not even why would you choose to live like that, (because we do all have less than ideal living situations sometimes) but how could you seriously proudly post that, you didn't even fucking tidy up!!! I've returned to uni and I'm renting and my place filled with second hand furniture looks nicer than some of those dumps! There is definitely the odd one with style and taste though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:12 PM
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There's a r/malelivingspace so I guess it's time for r/femalelivingspace Edit : there IS a femalelivingspace Post there or create.... malefreelivingspace?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:57 PM
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I want her to do a big sister asmr video. The most peaceful beautiful sleep of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:52 PM
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imtheone2021 shinelikethesun2021 Loving the message AND the rhyming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:07 PM
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If he's not cheating yet, he will. Even if he WON'T he's wishing he could
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:03 PM
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I have been doing a body brushing style scrub down (or up really, depending on the body part, always towards the heart) in the shower for my circulation for DECADES at this point, ALWAYS because of how it really wakes me up and puts pep in my step every morning and now I have even MORE reason to. Can only hope I can retain the kind of confidence and body positivity she has into my 60's 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:51 PM
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I like to hit them with "i know, right?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:19 PM
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hate I got for that from other women Other women are literally the only people who have ever commented on me having hairy legs/not shaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:17 AM
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My mam is in her 60's and despite being happily married for 40+ years she has always advocated for having 'running away money'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:36 PM
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Don't beat yourself up, be happy you found us so young!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:53 AM
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Jokes on her. I'm over here trying to be a better woman for me, not some hypothetical man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:35 AM
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Freezer meat, wtf? Don't you just mean meat??? I freeze all my meat for freshness. Fancy steak is literally the only thing that might suffer quality wise from being frozen. Jfc he's really scraping the bottom of the barrel for complaints isn't he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:53 PM
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Just saw the other photo, I'm pretty sure she went out to eat in a negligee I noticed that too, like wtf girl this man can't even put on a proper shirt and you're still offering yourself on a plate to him? She's a beautiful woman and would look far better in some real clothes and without that thing beside her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:25 AM
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It equals that because he watches skinny porn so her goal weight is underweight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:07 AM
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Same happened to me in r/relationships Not only that but the mod outright swore at and insulted me, despite not even ALLUDING to FDS in the post. You say something they don't like and the trawl your post history looking for something to ban you. Must be terrible to be so fearful of opinions other than your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:38 PM
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That frosting is UNREAL! I make some fantastic cakes but decorating has never been my strong point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:56 PM
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I can't use my words so I use my dick! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:18 PM
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Jeeesus. "Should I have stood up for her?" How is that even a fucking question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:07 PM
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I’m so sad for these women thinking this is their only choice What's worse is many of them don't see it as their only choice, they see if as a good choice. A handy side hustle, a way to make 'easy' money. They've been so well conditioned by society that they're just used to pandering to men's every sexual whim. They don't see it as work in the same way a job is, even though they're probably putting a lot more hours into it to make that kind of money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:35 PM
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Yeah but statistically his life is shorter, ESPECIALLY without a woman. He better get textin'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:59 AM
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Yup, I was at a bike/skate track and saw a dude in his 40's on a board TEARING it up. Skating is excellent exercise, great for core strength, balance, coordination and keeping the brain sharp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:23 PM
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Three strikes and you're out buddy. It's not that difficult with me. Occasionally they get longer if there are definite signs of improvement and they are listening and trying and my body is being funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:43 AM
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Right, yeah it's not technically sterile. Neither is the knife and fork you eat with or the toothbrush you put in your mouth every day. However piss contains SO LITTLE bacteria that scientists did think it was sterile for years. It's safer to consume than a lot of the worlds drinking water. I don't drink piss nor am I advocating swimming in it, but your piss is probably cleaner than your hands and 99% of things you touch every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:29 PM
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Yeah. So I'm guessing considering your concern for spreading disease you don't kiss or hug people, shake hands or get in close contact in general?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:47 PM
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Again with the big effort condescending snarky remark. No one mentioned swimming in any of these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:42 PM
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I'm pretty familiar with biology. Vomit and shit are food waste. Vomit specifically the expulsion of something the body deems poisonous or dangerous. Shit. The stuff that never even leaves our alimentary canal because our digestive systems took the good out of it and left the rest. Blood is something your body produces itself. Yes it is expelling something that is no longer needed but to compare the two is... weird tbh. Blood (even period blood) and shit are nothing alike in composition. Piss. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:29 PM
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What I find BAFFLING is that he clearly sees everyone else as the problem, despite writing one of the saddest, bitterest most pathetic messages I have ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:24 PM
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Why are you dating him then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:38 AM
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Jokes on him, ladies have so many matches, most of the time we don't even notice the ones who don't message or respond, because there are three others who do 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:11 PM
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Men would NEVER sign up to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:31 AM
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Not during quarantine. Depends on where I'm going. Usually I'll try do BB cream (includes spf) and eyebrows, but even that doesn't always happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:37 PM
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https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B9k39V5gkNBAQl95bjJpMHlSeDQ/view
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:41 AM
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Video unavailable, check the link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:05 PM
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Unfortunately I can't post his face 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:20 PM
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No one did. It's because it isn't funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:43 PM
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The unfunniest joke ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:28 PM
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I think a lot of them do want it, but just in that hands off she does all the childrearing that kinda way. They way most of their dads were. Or others imagine themselves perpetually young and still a long way from having kids, despite the fact that their sperm is already deteriorating in quality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:30 PM
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Over 30 + 'want someday' + 'don't know yet' ERROR : Does not compute Morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:19 PM
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There aren't enough male nurses to segregate by sex I'd say. Men don't really care about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:56 AM
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I had a guy not even ask what I was studying and continue to talk about himself after I mentioned going back to uni. Haven't responded yet. How can you be so self centred?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 10:12 PM
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Think she's gonna find out pretty quick that most South Africans are racist AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:11 AM
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They have that silicone valley dollah dollah. Unfortunately some women will put up with anything for a shiny lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:18 AM
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Never compare being with a man to being with worse men, you compare being with a man to being free and independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:21 AM
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Is psychologist that well paid in the states? I would not have put it in a high earning potential but I'm in EU (Ireland). It's all tech and pharma for the big money here. I wish I'd gone into engineering tbh, but I think it's too late for me to make the move now. I've gone for physiotherapy as I have medical secretary experience, great at biology, am very active / love working out / yoga. It's not six figures where I am but it's higher than average, with a low likelihood of being automated by a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:23 PM
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I hope you reported him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:04 PM
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Unfortunately he'll find a pickmeisha earning half what he does who will absolutely suck up to him, get her pregnant and rub it in his ex's face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:18 PM
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tHAt's SeXiSt 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:34 PM
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Listen to this! You're not missing much other than unstatisfying hook ups that will only make you feel empty. By all means party, but don't bother with the fuckbois, don't be friends with women that rely on male validation, and ffs get your work done first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:56 AM
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Gambling is not a hobby it's a major red flag. I would never date a guy that gambles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:42 PM
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Same with feminists. They're always ugly, loud, angry, man hating and even when they don't fit this trope, they're usually 'quirky', weird, less beautiful than the other characters and styled unattractively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:03 AM
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DON'T BE BORING = I'm boring as fuck and need you to create drama / excitement / entertainment in my life. These men are never worth the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:02 PM
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You feel that way because you HAVE read it a thousand times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:00 PM
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Delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:03 PM
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This is exactly why women 'go off' sex. They stop allowing him to use them as a masturbatory aid and demand actual attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:16 PM
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Can't wait to waste my time chatting to someone who turns out to be an ugly mofo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:54 PM
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I know right? I bet she doesn't want foreplay because she just wants the whole miserable experience over ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:42 PM
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You don't even need to go through her post history to see that! The way the whole thing is phrased screams "I missed the chance to be picked!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:58 PM
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Hahahahaha. OH NO! MY ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES. mEn ArE So OpPrEsSeD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:45 AM
4

This is so me I could cry. So many wasted years. It's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:41 AM
12

The effort of verification really put me off that tbh. Is it very active?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:54 AM
9

You don't need to ask a decent guy. He knows you're worth it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:06 PM
12

What fucking loser women with no self respect swipe right on "you will do" ??? God at least when I got manipulated the guy was far more subtle and covert about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:53 PM
22

Still putting the onus on women 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:52 PM
30

Wow, not to be all praising a man for basic decency but such a devastating injury only 4 months into a relationship is a fuck ton for ANYONE to take on. Like that's so hard even for families to deal with. She probably lost years long friendships too but he stuck around, what a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:39 AM
37

Preach! He was cute in that terribly dorky kinda way too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:53 PM
26

Tacky, trashy, thirsty. All negative adjectives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:16 AM
16

I have no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:23 AM
71

Well there you go. The fact that he tried to manipulate you by saying 'I only said it once' after you already said you didn't like pet names is a red flag. You did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:34 PM
125

Honestly I'm the same, but a lot women like it, so I would usually say straight away 'I don't like pet names' and if he argues with me about it/has a problem/gets defensive/continues to use them I just disengage. I find pet names so infantalising/condescending, especially 'baby', but I realise a lot of women love it, so I state my preferences first and give them a chance. However, you can cancel for whatever reasons you feel like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:18 PM
20

The best is a the screenshots of hilarious 'jokes' and pick up lines, like you KNOW none of these guys are actually going on dates or getting laid, their only objective is to humiliate the women they know they don't have a chance with. Pre-emptive rejection to try and bolster their own self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 09:09 AM
28

I was just gonna say, what's with all the women you see as side characters in these sad "life with my gf/wife is so boring" clips. How little self worth do they have. 'Oh it's just a joke'. A joke about how your partner finds you boring and annoying af?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:48 AM
141

The saddest part is, she probably continued to date him afterwards. Ugh, the unashamed selfcentredness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:58 PM
26

I've no interest in anyone who thinks that's an appropriate question. I don't tell, and I make it clear they're gross for asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:26 PM
72

I was all ready to come on here and say yeah I'm not about those thousand dollar diamonds, because I disagree with the diamond trade in general, but $60??? Jesus ladies. He could spend a few hundred on a man made diamond or another nice gemstone ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:41 PM
60

I sometimes wonder if the women are happy with the open relationship because for example this gf has no interest in being a 'rope bunny' and knows he'll probably get no action anyway. I had a guy pull that 'casual' thing on me before, so I found another boyfriend in the blink of an eye. Suddenly guy no. 1 was butthurt that I was too busy being taken out for dinner by guy no. 2 to see him, while he was struggling to find anyone else to sleep with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:52 PM
46

I'm fine with flirtatious teasing, and dork is a pretty harmless comment (depending on context and the rest of your interactions) but 37??? God no, find someone your own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:56 AM
18

They honestly just don't care. They lie, they get a match, they get an ego boost. They are too dumb to make the connection that without the lies they'd never get a match, OR they assume they're so awesome that once she meets him, despite discovering he lied, he just knows she'll want him. Just need to get past those pesky filters, because women's preferences are just shallow and they're too stupid to see how GREAT I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:36 AM
2

Wouldn't touch anyone in debt unless it's a mortgage. Not even a car on finance, but that's just how I roll personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:24 PM
22

I said 'relatively', as in, I was expecting incels spewing hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 10:10 AM
58

First comment is a dude explaining how the meme is bullshit... I'm pleasantly surprised by the relatively insightful comments actually...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:36 AM
12

"If this isn't healthy for you" If you don't help me it's cause you're hysterical/ irrational/weak after our break up 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:00 AM
18

Yeah lazy as fuck. I swipe on by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:00 PM
23

What. The. Fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:51 PM
78

It sure is... and it's reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:03 PM
212

This is an excellent article on this matter, though is more related to the size/weight aspect of beauty than anything else. https://thenewinquiry.com/blog/youre-right-i-didnt-eat-that/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:39 PM
6

Personally I am earning nowhere near enough for that kind of restaurant to be within my budget, so there's no way I'd consider a man cheap if he didn't want to take me somewhere like that. Likely I just run in different social circles to a lot of you. I am not the type who has expensive taste, and honestly to me, $500 dinners would be a waste of money. I really can't see the food being THAT good, and $500 could be put towards a vacation or something far more memorable than a meal that'll pass th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:29 PM
4

The most frustrating part was I was dating THE BEST guy before him. So decent and respectful of me and my time in every way, but there was just no chemistry. The sex wasn't bad, but it just... wasn't good either. I still can't put my finger on why, and I wish I could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:05 PM
15

Yeah the highs and lows certainly exaggerated it, but unfortunately for me it was the best sex of my life. Literally only twice in two years of dating I didn't come first, and one of them was the first time we had sex (I don't think I've ever come first time with any guy, likely to do with nerves). The sexual prowess was a large part of the narcissism and how he exerted control in a way, because he was always INCREDIBLY focused on me during sex, and he was NEVER pushy about anything he wanted to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:47 PM
42

Chemistry is super important to enjoy sex for me personally, but I'm extremely wary after a man I had excellent chemistry with totally abused me emotionally. I found it incredibly hard to let go of what I knew deep down was a toxic relationship because the sex was just so damn good. I wonder whether it is possible for me to find that level of passion and chemistry in a healthy and respectful relationship, or was it simply that the uncertainty and anxiety heightened it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:42 AM
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Yeah I have considered that. But then the more I thought about it, I realised I'd probably have to maintain separate accounts for a bunch of different subs, and honestly it's just not worth the effort. This is the first time my connection with FDS has been an issue outside of the odd random reply from obvious losers who think its somehow an insult to say 'found the FDS user', because even trawling through my post history they have literally nothing else to go on. Tbh the more I think about it th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:18 AM
9

Ugh. In fairness I can see why they would ban you though, the two subs have explicitly opposing ideologies, I would expect to be banned from somewhere like that. But from a much more general sub where people have previously agreed with and upvoted my comments? Not as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:11 AM
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I'm in two minds. Is he exaggerating how demanding she is, or does she really expect to change these men? I get the feeling he's exaggerating, but at the same time I have met women with unrealistic expectations (like thinking they can turn losers into HVM). It sounds like she might be trying to 'work' on guys that we'd just tell her to block and delete tbh 🤔 It's hard to know, but JESUS dad, be fucking supportive of your daughter. You should encourage high standards, not tell her to drop them! W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:35 AM
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Yeah, I didn't mention FDS in the post, and I don't have it set to show my subscribed/active subreddits in my profile, so I'm guessing this sad loser went into my profile and searched through my previous posts? God, I can't imagine how fragile your world view must be to ban someone from such a large sub with such a myriad of opinions. And not even a 'you broke a rule, go cool off for a week' ban, but permanent? Talk about abuse of mod power in a place that supposedly provides objective advice. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:28 AM
11

A man, clearly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:21 PM
23

The problem is there are no women on the 'only hookups' apps. Or they straight up don't want these ugly scrotes. If I'm looking for a hook up, it's only with a prime piece of ass 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:00 AM
3

This is quite interesting. I do orgasm from vaginal sex but it is only in certain positions where I'm guessing the... clitoral mass? Is being stimulated from... both sides I guess? Like, I can sort of force a clitoral orgasm sometimes (a man has literally never given me on from either oral or manual stimulation), but the best orgasms happen when it's being worked from all angles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:47 AM
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I'm totally using this in future. But don't say kink shaming. My kink is humiliating you about your sexual preferences. Ewww, you disgusting creature. How could you be into such sexist misogynistic stuff, are you really so pathetic in your life that you feel the need to disrespect women to feel good about yourself. Did your mother teach you nothing? You gross little piece of shit. I'd rather lick a toilet seat than go anywhere near your tiny shrivelled penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:37 AM
41

It's weird because it seems so minor and no big deal right? Except who tf doesn't wear a seatbelt these days. Does he think it makes him look cool or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:47 AM
54

How fucking stupid do they think we are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:39 PM
16

Was just gonna say. My dad is 68 and I'd put them in the same age group. If he's not lying, well wtf has he DONE to himself? Either way it's a no from me dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:14 AM
21

These women are similar to the children who can't hold off eating a marshmallow for 10 minutes in order to be rewarded with a bag of them later They don't understand the concept of long term consequences for short term actions. What is she gonna do in 10 years when she can't strip and has nothing but tacky 'designer' gear with no resell value and a ton of debt? SOME smart women strip during school while they study, save invest and make smart choices with their money long term, but the reality is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:10 AM
6

Just got this on my kindle, thanks for the suggestion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:58 AM
36

It's being done to get a rise. He purposely chose to spend more on the mom. He knows she'll notice. She'll get upset, and then he can complain that she's picking a fight, that she's ungrateful, that she always does this, yada yada
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:53 PM
146

That girl is a born queen. Make sure she keeps it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:48 PM
20

I believe someone here has already coined the term 'hatfish' 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:22 PM
102

I mean, compared to him she IS a hot 10/10 though... Let's face it, no one but children and men deeply insecure about their hairlines wear baseball caps indoors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:38 PM
6

British exceptionalism at it's finest. Honestly baffled that pathetic Trump knock off was voted in. The worst part is, they're literally killing off the last great generation England had. The generation that rebuilt after the war is being murdered by a bunch of selfish pricks who can't do something as simple as stay inside or keep their distance. It's grand though, they're clapping for the NHS, right? They're right to try and keep the economy afloat though, because the looming Brexit fiasco will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:34 PM
2

You should make this a TIL post. Spread the word of awesome women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:47 PM
17

I am a little, as I said in my other reply I feel very privileged as I have never personally experienced anything this bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:01 AM
40

You read a lot of awful things online, but a few things tonight hit me hard and this was the last straw. I feel so sad and depressed, and I have this immense, suffocating guilt for being so privileged in my life. It's really weighing on me. I wish I could do more for others in these situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:41 AM
60

I know. God, the whole thing. I'm just in shock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:13 AM
15

I totally agree, most of the 'clapbacks' I've seen just read like that "I'm Chad" reply from a scrote we all laughed at the other day. People who are secure and confident don't feel the need to respond to haters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:40 PM
53

Oh yeah, those sexually motivated questions are SO RANDOM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:02 PM
163

"Oh just curious... " "Forgive me, but..." "I just HAD to tell you... sorry" "You're just so x I couldn't help myself" "No need to answer if you don't want to, but..." 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:30 PM
4

Yeah I was tempted but I wouldn't. It's a waste of my energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:25 AM
17

Jesus. These poor delusional women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:26 AM
22

My god, I had a quick look at his fb (I used to live in Southampton so I was curious) What a said pathetic loser. Tempted to screenshot and spam his wall with it so his mates can see what he's really like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:35 AM
3

Lazy. He can't possibly be so busy that he can't take time to write something, and even if he claims the words are his, you'll never know. Paying someone to do something that should be heartfelt and personal is a big no no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:21 PM
92

"I'm Chad" I'M SCREAMING! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:04 PM
36

Yet another example that men don't see us as people. They assume we don't or can't experience any of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:49 PM
98

Girl, he LAUGHED at a sub that promotes female empowerment, having better boundaries and not being a slave to your bf. Tells you all you need to know really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:43 AM
9

That is EXACTLY why I'm dismissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:11 AM
17

I just give them a flat 'I know' / 'what's your point' / 'can you tell me something new?' Silence makes them think you're secretly happy about being complimented. I'm SO baffled by the amount of men that think a 'you're hot' is a conversation starter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:14 AM
17

I find this the hardest aspect of growing up tbh. I spent my 20's as a pickme. It's sometimes so hard to not berate myself for wasting a decade or more of my life. I have always held FDS principles in a way, but I fell for gas lighting and manipulation techniques a few times. I tell myself that I believed them because I thought that there was good in everyone, and naively never expected another human to be so maliciously dishonest with me That this search for the good in people is a positive qua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:09 AM
56

6 months minimum? She's coming out of a 7 year relationship, a year wouldn't be too long. You need to focus on yourself, level up your education and professional game, you can't just expect to achieve a relationship where you are taken care of. Yes we all strive for that, but the only way you can turn down LVM and find a decent on is if you are capable of taking care of yourself and are not desperately looking to latch on to the next guy that comes along. And honestly women at any age need to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:54 AM
68

We can only hope she's just had a moment of clarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:38 PM
210

Why is that animal still in her fucking apartment. I honestly despair at what women put up with sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:31 PM
15

Yeah it's nothing to do with nipples for me, like you I just find it uncomfy when they move a lot. I think putting your hair in a ponytail is a really good analogy actually, because if you do it up too tight you can cause headaches, it's easier to wear loose if it's shorter, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:11 PM
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"I wanted to see if we're compatible" No, because she wants kids and you don't you KNOW you're not compatible, you just wanted to use her. Ugh. Why would she even look at that wrinkled ballsack of a man. Hope she finds someone decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:16 PM
82

Do women really hate bras that much? Women talk about taking their bras off as soon as they come home but I've never even considered doing that unless it's to put on a sports bra instead. Maybe I'm just lucky with the comfy ones I've found? Fit is super important (AND CHANGES THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE!) and makes a massive difference. Edit : seems a lot of bra haters are smaller cup sizes. I'm a D, so I find being braless uncomfortable especially if I'm walking anywhere. If I had A or B cups I'd prob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:08 PM
5

Regardless of all the other moral aspects of porn which people have covered, wth is his long term plan? People aren't going to pay him for that forever. I'd be highly suspicious he's making enough to live on just from nudes (ESPECIALLY faceless ones, who pays for that? No one), unless he already owns / inherited property. He's doing something else and he's trickle truthing you about it while you get more and more attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:26 PM
8

Can't access this from Europe, any chance someone could post the article text? Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:36 AM
152

"sense of humour" AKA you must never be offended by anything I say, no matter how crude, disrespectful, sexist, racist, homophobic or just plain nasty because IT WAS JUST A JOKE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:39 AM
10

I mean if you look at the articles under her name you only need to scroll very briefly to realise it's bullshit No writer produces 2/3 well researched articles A DAY, much less on such a bizarre variety of topics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:11 AM
134

'I dunno who hurt you but...' I love the way men always have to trash women who respect themselves and don't put up with bullshit, implying we're damaged and unreasonable for having standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:55 PM
9

'Baller Alert' is all I needed to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:46 AM
11

I'm so sad and angry that this successful independent woman is even considering this, let alone actively fighting against all the women telling her how wrong this is. I'd kill to be earning that kind of money, I'd never suffer than kind of bullshit. The only reason I've ever lived with men was to share / reduce expenses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:30 AM
4

What the fuck? I'm sorry are you serious? How is this even a question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:28 PM
4

Thanks for the explanations ladies. The 'young white male' appeal was a comment on the linked thread, I was wondering if that was common sentiment. Such a shame. The world needs men like Sanders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:14 PM
42

Jesus, ok disclaimer here, I'm not American, what the holy fuck is America on about. Most of the rest of the world would KILL for a presidential candidate like Bernie Sanders, I don't get how Bernie is a candidate exclusively for the young white male???? He's literally the ONLY ONE with sensible policies and no scandals. Can someone PLEASE explain this to me? Every four years I just think of that south park episode. Do you want the shit sandwich or the giant douche?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:45 PM
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I agree with a lot of this except the 3 year max being a strike. My max is less than 3 years, because they all slowly developed LVM tendencies, or I realised we just weren't compatible long term. I don't think that is a red flag, more that I'm pragmatic, and don't stay in relationships that aren't working for me. I think if your max is less than a year, that's a glaring red flag, but that longer relationships aren't necessarily better quality relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:04 PM
23

The problem is, in many cases the classism is justified. I've dated a number of non college educated men, and it's always turned out the same way. Initially they loved dating a smart women, they proudly show off and talk about your intelligence. But that changes very rapidly when it turns out I'm smarter than they are. In the end they were all jealous, insecure and resentful of my education, or were hoping to become a 'house husband' to a career women (i.e. drink beer and play video games all da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:58 AM
8

I taught English in China and while I'd say there is a nasty prevalence of 'yellow fever' (I'm using a gross term to define this because I want to reinforce how gross I find this fetishisation), they aren't all like that. Most of them ARE avoiding real life though. Teaching english in China is such easy, low stress work they literally can't handle any minor inconveniences. Work hard? Earn more? Why bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:55 PM
41

Well, you're letting him treat you like a dog so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:08 PM
28

Honestly, I started watching it and I turned it off. They're all so fucking vapid, and the show perpetuates the increasingly popular idea that sex is the fucking be all and end all. A MONTH without sex, we'll DIE. We're in the middle of a pandemic and they fill our screens with a show promoting the idea that if you aren't having sex, you're nothing, and oh people just CAN'T help themselves. Ffs. It claims to be about building deeper emotional connections, but it smacks of a chastity fetish porno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:50 AM
3

My attitude to sports is kinda the same as my attitude to porn. The only fun is in doing, not watching. Those who can't do it, watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:16 AM
40

Oh, and the downvotes for daring to point it out. Absolute children. How dare we expect men to listen to or empathise with other men, that's the women's job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:44 PM
95

I'm actually baffled at how lacking in self awareness they are... "I really don't wanna go into much detail but, people inherently just don't care about men. Men don't care about other men." " Because the last time when someone opened upto me even I was like in my head 'dude wtf I don't wanna hear about your stupid suffering'."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:36 AM
2

He is absolutely gonna take you to the cleaners with that house. The time to kick him out was before it was paid off and he couldn't contribute, because now it's a marital asset and will be split regardless of who paid what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:12 PM
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He is absolutely gonna take you to the cleaners with that house. The time to kick him out was before it was paid off and he couldn't contribute, because now it's a marital asset and will be split regardless of who paid what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:11 PM
10

Props! Hate when people post stuff behind paywalls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:11 AM
27

I'd imagine he uses fake pics to get matches, doubt he's actually fucked any of these women.. either that or they're all junkies too 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:36 AM
2

I think I have good basic facial bone structure and body shape (hourglassy) plus I keep fit and am generally healthy, but I am SO lazy about haircare, I keep it very short as it's very fine. This means I would describe my 'look' as a bit marmite - you either love it or hate it! Also I'm 35 and I've got oily skin which I've only started taking care of recently, and my eyebrows consist of about 10 hairs... Basically I can look great when I try, but honestly I'm really fucking lazy which doesn't he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:39 PM
0

Sorry fuck that shit. She has personal responsibility and agency in this situation. Implying women are passive objects waiting for men to dictate their lives and ask them to marry them is what I find most insulting about this shit. How do you know they thought they were going to marry, and who HONESTLY thinks that. If he's not ready by MAXIMUM 5 years, he'll never be ready, she should have left then. I'm giving 5 years in this situation given they were so young / likely in college when they got …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:00 PM
11

I'm good with beards but they MUST be well kept. I dated a guy with a very well groomed beard, he shampoo'd and oiled it daily (beard oil smelled fucking DELISH) too. I'm ok with tatts in theory, but SO MANY guys have shit tatts just for the sake of having tatts, which is a big no no for me. Says they are all about 'fashion' and know nothing of style. Neck and hand tatts are pretty much instant deal breaker though, I have never seen them look good, and unless you're doing seriously well in softw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:51 AM
26

How fucking depressing is the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:58 AM
3

It's definitely a relationship issue, that part I agree with. But we advocate blocking and deleting people all the time, no reasons no discussion. Obviously this scenario is totally different. It's been ten years, that's a loooong time. You know a person well. You KNOW a person is unhappy unless you're totally self absorbed. They even went to counselling. Maybe he's a dick, maybe his reasons are weak af, we have no idea, but she had warning, and her trying to force him to talk to her by using th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:11 AM
0

I did read through both posts, what I got is that he's been paying for everything in the apartment for the last 6 months, including the 2 since they split and he left the apartment and moved in with a family member (hence the two different numbers mentioned), giving her space to sort herself, her feelings and a new place. The thing is, I totally get sympathising, but I don't think she's right. And I don't get why I'm being downvoted considering she's broken the cardinal rule of never being finan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 11:54 PM
14

Oh yeah definitely, I am in the agreement of not being the forever gf, she should have realised it wasn't going anywhere a long time ago. But maybe that's down to her obviously pick me tendencies, I mean two months down the line she's embarrassing herself by trying to negotiate. Just walk away girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:23 PM
22

Honestly I don't agree with this "dumped and discarded mercilessly" narrative. I read through both threads - he's given her two months to sort a new place, and he's been paying ALL bills for 6 months. She can't afford their current apartment by herself. He has a right to end the relationship if he's unhappy. He's not being mean or cruel about this, he hasn't tried to force her out the next day, and it seems like there aren't even any legal obligations on his part, he could have just upped and le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:15 PM
11

Zero dating advice. I really needed it too. But I think her emotional coldness is half the reason for my anxious attachment style and pick me behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:13 AM
46

Her net worth is $350 million... his is $40 She's a smart woman to not marry him. Marriage doesn't guarantee loyalty in any circles, and when the risk is that high I'd say it's a bad business move for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:44 AM
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Totally agree. I joined hoping to find ways to level up my look, but honestly some of them are as bad as incels they way they obsess over 'failo' facial features. Take their advice and you'll end up looking like an insta-clone, and there is absolutely nothing classy about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:01 PM
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Don't forget to complain in 5 years when she's gained weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:54 PM
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I would REALLY recommend you head back to your doc about this. I had my IUD replaced (old came out and new went in) a little over 2 weeks ago. I found it a uncomfortable, and yes there is cramping for a few days but you SHOULD NOT be in this much pain a MONTH after. You NEED to get that checked out!!! Maybe a second opinion? Can you get an ultrasound to check it's been positioned correctly? That is NOT NORMAL, do not let your doc dismiss that level of pain!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:35 PM
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I would respond to the "you're funny" with a Know what's funnier? You trying to slide back into my DM's after showing yourself a cheap ass. If you want me to ever consider hanging out again, you need to prove you can follow through on what you say. Or something to that effect. Maybe make it about being trust worthy or say you were 'hurt' that he'd do that because you were SO into him, and you thought he was into you too. Basically you need to imply he has a chance of fucking you if he pays you b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:30 PM
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Ignore him. No interest in someone who is too afraid to go for what they want in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:28 PM
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