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Gay men run the fashion industry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:01 AM
9

She has character issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:14 PM
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I try to recreate it in my dating life when I can lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:04 AM
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Those are the main ones. They have the dark side that they address through having second lives, kinks and fetishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:04 AM
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I like this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:51 PM
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Thank you. Discipline is the exact opposite of hedonism. One need only take one look at men addicted to porn or gay male spaces to see which gender devolves into hedonism when given the freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:30 AM
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Meanwhile a lawyer espousing incel/ mgtow principles has shot a female judge, her husband and killed her son in the last week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:27 AM
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I hope she’s on her way out of this relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:47 AM
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This is very important. Scare tactics are everywhere. But I never see women w/ super high standards that fail and are miserable— not when they actively date and do the work necessary to be of quality. I see plenty of lazy, insecure women who end up miserable but we sometimes disguise it by saying were too “old” or “picky”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:43 AM
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That projection, again. It’s astonishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:39 AM
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Utterly dissapointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:52 PM
2

Loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:12 AM
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Jus nonsense. Don’t listen to anything men say about how you should act. Be good enough for yourself and you’ll be what men want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:23 AM
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I’m always open to being serenaded outside my window. Short of that, I have no use for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 12:43 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:13 PM
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I like what you say about a mans ability to inspire a woman. Inspiration is underrated and I think it works both ways in a relationship. We should both be able to be inspired by eachother and not feel like we’re always having to beg all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:15 AM
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Eek! N good looking out 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:07 PM
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Is helping me already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:49 PM
1

Did you consider filing a police report on him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:12 AM
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I think they could all be cut in half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:49 AM
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No worries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:50 PM
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Lips probably move while he’s reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:35 PM
1

What’s an EU?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:03 PM
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I was raised w/ expression of ‘ball and chain’. Taht the woman was the ball and chain— even though in marriage women suffer extensive and long lasting damage with often little reward. There are entire cultures where women are forced into marriages or face losing their lives, but women are considered ball and chain. I suspect if not for constant propaganda and engineering of these roles, it would be very difficult for most men (in their current state and past historical states) to reproduce wheth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:10 PM
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Kings of projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:24 AM
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I have similar past that could be used against me. the older I’ve gotten, the LESS I care. I think the men who know me know this making this despicable behavior less effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:22 AM
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Predator is a good one, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:21 AM
29

Didn’t something similar happen with the Spanish?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:20 AM
2

Excellent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:06 PM
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His inbox is full. With mostly married and attached men, which is probably his preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:58 PM
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🤣🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:56 PM
7

Exactly...Pregnancy is the most dangerous time for a woman, especially a black one. Her husband/ bf can never do enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:46 PM
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Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:44 PM
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Black women don’t owe anybody anything. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:08 AM
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GOT DAMN! I will turn 30 on Tuesday, n wish I looked that good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:08 PM
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Meditation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:50 AM
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Happened to me to. They were always the oldest (20+ years) and least attractive men. Idk what it is with them trying to move people around the country to be with them either like musical chairs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:10 PM
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Brillo works fine.. tf? Is this a new thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:00 PM
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Just some more reasons why women need to be extremely selective. Most men should not get the chance to reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:35 PM
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This was one of the oddest things that struck me. She should and could still be alive today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:05 AM
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Warned y’all about Gary’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:28 AM
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As racist as she is, good on her for warning that other pregnant woman about her fuck ass husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:44 PM
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Projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:19 AM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:45 AM
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Giacomin, Miranda & Rule, Nicholas. (2017). Eyebrows Cue Grandiose Narcissism. Journal of Personality. 87. 10.1111/jopy.12396. Objective: Though initially charming and inviting, narcissists often engage in negative interpersonal behaviors. Identifying and avoiding narcissists therefore carries adaptive value. Whereas past research has found that people can judge others' grandiose narcissism from their appearance (including their faces), the cues supporting these judgments require further elucida…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:49 PM
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Racism sexism all rolled into one. Black female children really ought to be valued more, idc how famous the parents are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:11 PM
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The eyebrows specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:19 AM
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Didn’t kno Phaedra Parks ex got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:03 AM
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I have two! It’s worth it!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:03 AM
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Hope this shit strikes my ex dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:03 AM
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True. Either one of the women could have been me 10 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:28 PM
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Both are stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:44 AM
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She was naked, I heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:56 AM
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Had a guy keep texting me like that n tried to tell me that men don’t pay anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:54 AM
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Perhaps. It is hard to tell what she was thinking, but it’s not uncommon for therapists to miss manipulative people and signs of abuse. Many therapists are manipulative themselves, causing more harm than good. Most women, I think even ourselves sometimes have a hard time holding men accountable for their behaviors. It is sad, and I hope you continue to work that experience out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:46 AM
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The first two ladies are “BAE”. My mom and I truly enjoyed watching them this season. Self respect is more powerful than anything else in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:40 AM
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Fuck it. Show his name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:13 AM
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Love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:10 AM
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Yeah. This sounds like someone who has “narcissistic” tendencies. They’re notorious for putting people in situations that are lose-lose, and a therapist office is one of their favorite playgrounds. Notice how he only began to defend you after causing all the drama? He winds up looking like a hero saving you from the therapist ( who he no doubt told her awful things about you).If you read up on narcissism, you’ll find that it is a disorder that is untreatable—meaning that therapy only makes them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:00 PM
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Box?? Nah his shit goes in a trash bag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:36 PM
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Try Lundy Bancroft book “why does he do that” if you haven’t. He kind of reaffirms what I already suspected and it also comes in audible/ audiobook version. Be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:23 PM
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This is white western male culture. They think cuz they’re not whooping a bitches ass in the middle of the street, that they aren’t violent, nasty manipulative predators. Unfortunately, they bring the culture with them wherever they go and are more or less blatant depending on their chances of being caught. You can find these men being openly abusive in Africa or southeast Asian countries being overtly abusive and obnoxious. But in a place like Canada, they may only be able to use word games, co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:22 PM
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Something wrong with men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:14 PM
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Psychopaths don’t fuck w/ ppl for no reason. Disordered ppl of other abstractions do. Usually with some kind of co morbidity. Psychopaths really are the least of your worries, but those w/ predatory tendency I imagine this would be important info
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:36 PM
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Book, Angela et al. “Psychopathy and victim selection: the use of gait as a cue to vulnerability.” Journal of interpersonal violence vol. 28,11 (2013): 2368-83. doi:10.1177/0886260512475315 Psychopaths are the least of your worries, but as someone who is good at choosing vulnerability, this article gives some information as to the predatory mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:35 AM
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They couldn’t work hard enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:10 PM
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Is it true that men become especially aggressive with blonde women??? Have you ever died your hair a diff color and seen the attention die down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:27 AM
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My ex said losing me would be like losing “Boomer”, his dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 10:44 PM
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Notoriety can always turn into access to women. This is sad gross and sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:27 AM
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She probably got down on bended knee, cuz you kno, his accident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:19 AM
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That could never be me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:18 AM
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A woman who does this has to be immune to this if she wishes to save her sanity. UnfortunTely, short of psychopathy as a personality trait, few are cut out for a creep like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:14 AM
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This the type of stuff that can get ppl killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:11 AM
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I really don’t know what to tell you. I’m having the same problem, just now they’re using Covid-19 as an excuse to not put in effort for bei a decent human being. OLD highlights how stale and unimaginative most men are, especially when they’re the ones who are initiating contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:10 AM
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I found out a man was lying about his nationality this way and was married w/several kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:58 AM
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Delusional ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:04 AM
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Truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:20 PM
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A hot 10/10 model can and does get rejected and “forever girlfriended”. A hot 10/10 model that knows her worth, isn’t afraid to walk away, and doesn’t need him WILL get the ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:50 AM
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Typical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:16 AM
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Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:57 PM
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That always stumps me when ppl think that Latino erases obvious racial features. A person from Honduras with curly kinky hair, and Afro features is a black person. A Puerto Rican who is obviously mixed/ mulato / griffe / black is a mixed/ mulato/ griffe or black Puerto Rican.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:37 AM
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I see. That makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:17 AM
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What
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:11 AM
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This actually made me laugh lol...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:09 AM
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Sexy bisshes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:34 PM
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Raise it higher. It needs to be so high that you even begin to doubt it, then raise it some more!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:32 PM
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Is that one of the English literacy tests
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:12 PM
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This is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:04 AM
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Similar story for me. My mom now realizes the error in her ways, but it is still information that I have to drag out of her. It is very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:20 AM
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The recycling process can actually be fun. I think as women we’ve been trained to desire monogamy when it is not necessarily to our benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:13 AM
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He has a personality problem/ disorder. Play nice while you have to and make a plan to leave or move out even if it’s with your parents. You want him to have as little control over your life and finances as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:55 AM
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Selfish ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:42 AM
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Meditate maybe and work on your self esteem. After, Seek wealthy, well to do men aggressively not for relationships, but to Use their funds to create more opportunities for other men/ upgrades. Continue self improvement. Date with detachment and as practice. Have fun? Look at it like a science project. These things produce results but only if you have the courage, self esteem and charisma to execute properly. Insecurity is probably going to be your biggest obstacle, and that has nothing to do wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:38 AM
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No, tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:49 AM
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It’s high effort to him because she’s Black also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:42 AM
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Great advice. In my experience this happens with men cuz they can only relate to us as idk, a pet or one dimensional kind of way. It is not worth talking to them most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:28 AM
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Have a similarly horrifying experience w/ my father and my period. My brother throws tantrums over periods as well.. what is this phobia men have??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:25 AM
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This is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:07 AM
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I kind of agree. I haven’t seen a benefit to it ever. Just have to find validation elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:55 AM
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Also probably treading lightly on the race issue, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:59 AM
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So true, right down to him being unnecessary— most likely being used as an agency CNA during a GLOBAL PANDEMIC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:57 AM
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I second this. This woman was one of only a few you tubers I could listen to after a breakup with a narcissist. She is kind of calming also, which helped take away a lot of my panic whenever I delved into my abuse and break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:42 PM
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Black dating coaches tend to be more honest. G.L. Lambert is a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:47 AM
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They talk cash shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:44 AM
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A nod from me to all the Aides/CNA’s!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:22 AM
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If his name is Gary, pass. Secondly, he should be paying for the entire flight to come see YOU. At least to break the ice. Where the hell are you supposed to sleep when you go visit him? In a diff. Country with a virtual stranger? in the same bed Im imagining.... Act like you’re something of value— meaning, no woman should put herself in a situation where some strange man is gonna have such a home plate advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:50 AM
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I could’ve written this as well. There is a spiritual component to be found in this suffering. To meditate and confront the ego that allowed the attacks of abusers is something worth experiencing. I realized that my ego was what was being attacked not me the actúal person. It allows for a sense of detachment from the destructive world we tend to encounter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:01 AM
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I understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:52 PM
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Proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:06 AM
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CAn I ask why it is that porn seems to have this detrimental effect in male lives? Like, I’ve experienced trauma, but viewing or even enjoying degrading forms of porn was not something that hindered my development in other areas of my life. I didn’t stop bathing or become depressed due solely to porn use. When I read the accounts of men and porn and how their lives are improved by “no fap” I feel like y’all are a different species.can you explain your take on it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:18 AM
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It can be true for some and not others depending on cultural background. Prozac, the antidepressant has helped me with pms,( physical symptoms ). Pms may all be a byproduct of neurotic western culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:31 AM
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Good for you. Women get attacked for being too nice, not the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:06 AM
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If a man can not make your life easier, he’s useless. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:47 AM
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From what you say, it sounds like you’re “white- passing”. As I can imagine,not always being recognized as what you are or identify with can be extremely frustrating. This can create an insecurity, and as long as it is an issue with you, it will continue to be an issue with other people. There is a tendency for ppl especially predatory and abusive people to be able to sniff out ANY insecurities. It is why working on your real self, outside of external things is the most important when dealing wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:09 AM
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This is an interesting thing you’ve pointed out. I’ve had people scoff at my stories depending on how they perceived my desirability at the time. Scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:21 PM
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Fuck ass “Gary” is done in 2020. I’ve dealt with three and it’s enough for me! As an aside, I thought Gary as a name stopped being common in the 19th century, and somehow I got THREEE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:39 AM
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That’s the weird part: that he made it a “thing”. It indicates a difficult personality- a personality issue. Rigidity, inflexibility in beliefs. One of the biggest things I’ve learned after an abusive relationship is “incongruente”. It’s not adding up and his big reveal is dissprportionate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:42 AM
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So simple and so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:11 AM
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Have sex only when and if you want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:01 AM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:56 AM
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Indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:09 PM
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I Can relate. Had I followed my instincts, I would’ve never been with my abusive, predatory ex. Those little feelings and things that are incongruent. Something “off”. I think Gavin Debecker said our instincts are our way of going from A to Z without really knowing why we feel that way. our brains have already computed that something is not quite right, although we may not be able to explain it until much later, if ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:57 PM
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He looks like someone’s drunk cousin. His nickname is probably gordo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:04 PM
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Straight up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:13 PM
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Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:06 PM
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Absolutely chilling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:50 AM
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I understand. I think I’m at the point where I don’t really expect(or care) if they’ve gotten to know me. It becomes unimportant when most men are self centered. No amount of getting to know me is going to change the fact that their motive is completely different from mine. Men are disappointing. I’ve dealt with men who don’t understand the give and take of a conversation and ran right into the arms of a narcissist who wanted to know all about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:37 AM
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Same. It is nice but it has been very frightening at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:52 PM
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Exactly! Information is power. Asking questions gives you power. Cut him off sometime and ask a question if you get bored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:44 PM
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Let them. As women, we usually tell them too much maki n it easier to manipulate us. Let them talk, and if they’re not taking enough, you ask the questions. Asking questions gives you power. Information gives you power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:42 PM
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And by the way most things men say is a lie. Do not worry about their preferences. I am having better results just trying to figure out if they are MY preference. Then I go from there. Rejection and possible rejection is hard but I’m learning N not to fear it by going after what I want. Fuck anything my else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:31 AM
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What a clown... that man has no honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:28 AM
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Meditation can help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:14 AM
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When something begins to require too much force, I stop putting effort into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:02 AM
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You could never kno. You could wait until marriage and still he can ghost you. The only way to counter lying ass men is through relentless, cut throat vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:18 AM
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This is the closest to her best answer. You attract what you put out. If yo e energy is focus toward scarcity and panic and fear, you are going to attract low value options. It isn’t about faith, but about learning control and discipline, learning to dispel societal pressure. It’s damned hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:15 PM
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This gives me hope for the gen z girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:08 PM
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Ooo this hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:07 PM
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This is kind of cute :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:48 AM
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The entitlement was (is) the most shocking and the most insidious for me. People do not explain to girls how the entitlement masquerades as persistence, flattery, predatory behavior, fetishes, abuse and disregard & lack of empathy... i mean, entitlement It is a word I’ve heard so much all my life,but it’s not explained to us in a way that could actually save our souls or dignity. And if little girls are such precious things, you think fathers would at least find the initiative to raise a daughte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:24 AM
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This may sound bad, as I know many here are opposed to porn and sex work, but I was watching a documentary on pimps and was struck by their universal disdain for what they call “renegade” hoes( or women who prefer to work without a pimp to procure clients). Renegade hoes can be women who use online escorting or drug addicted prostitutes who compromise the pricing of other women in the sex work industry. At first, I kind of idolized the renegade hoes, but I also realized that I’d be pissed the fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:48 PM
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I’m 29. Meditation has helped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:07 PM
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In the devalue phase of an abusive relationship, he mentioned my eyebrows being thicker than most women of my race. He didn’t necessarily say he liked or disliked them, he just made this observation that just lingered, and with no follow up . This man is fat 50 and bald with a little dic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:26 PM
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Similar situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:37 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:23 PM
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Polyamory I also think Is a good thing—it harms low value men. Monogamy give losers the illusion of abundance. Even with one hvm, if he can provide and maintain several women who live and raise children together, it is transparent and non devious. Low value men who try to amass a harem almost always do it through devious and abusive means and behind the womens backs. Polyamory with the requirement that the HighValueMan provides and continues to provide for one, two, or three wives, removes eligi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:57 AM
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You should. I currently have an ugly man 20+ years older than me suddenly invoicing (harassing) me for gifts given to me before I left his abusive ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:22 AM
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If YOU don’t have a problem with it, they won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:11 AM
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Name? Lol serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:05 PM
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Where’s the neg? I’m having a hard time spotting it and this looks like so many convos I’ve had....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:44 PM
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This is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:03 AM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:47 PM
1

I understand the pressure to want to be equal, but may I ask why he couldn’t at least demonstrate himself as an asshole and just let him pay for the date? If I realized that I’d never see him or go out on a date again, I’d have just let him pay it, especially knowing that I broke my own boundaries by even offering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:58 PM
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Women are so much more dynamic in every way imaginable, than men are. They can not fathom how we can fall in love with anyone and it not have to do with their wealth, physicality or what the person can do for us. We are capable of unconditional love— They are not. The old man I was with was 20+ years older than me. May December relationship quickly devolved into a cluster fuck revolving around his insecurities( preemptive cheating )because he thinks I’m after his money and became delusional. at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:15 PM
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See if they have a Baylor shift or PRN shift. During the week you can go handle your regular stuff, go to therapy, even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:30 AM
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THIS. At 29 I’m Starting to re-focus. After disastrous experience with an older man, im going just a few years younger and having better results health wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:45 AM
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And the closed Alzheimer’s and Dementia units are the worst. As an aide, ve been the victim of too many disgusting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:43 AM
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He was persistent and then lovebombed me into oblivion. No matter how strong i am now, Ive taken the advice of guarding MY TIME( thanks to g.l. lambert). Men will wear a woman down, especially when they know you’re out of their league. I forgot that I was out of his league and so did he, flying in and dating his “crazy” ex gf, as well as vacationing with another woman within the same month of pushing/shelving me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:03 PM
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I suppose we shouldn’t t wear weaves either cuz they don’t like them.. and while they’re telling you they love your natural hair, they’re chasing the first stripper with a 100 inch peruvian lace front. Fuck what they say. Don’t listen to anything men say regarding their “preferences”. If they feel the need to tell you they’re trying to neg/ rob you playing build a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:06 AM
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Lies and projection. Funny that I’ve only experienced degradation and TRUE DESPAIR when I gave an old, bald, overweight “divorced”(but not really) “nice guy” a chance. I Will never settle again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:44 AM
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Guns as phallic symbol could explain the connection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:35 AM
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These posts are so eerie. I’m currently trauma bonded to a old, ugly ass narcissist, 25 years my senior. After a little over a year I’m just getting out of the fog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:21 AM
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Having the same experience currently. He was 25 years older than me to boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:19 AM
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Except if sex was all they wanted from us, they wouldn’t get sadistic pleasure from lying, coercing , stringing women along, push/ pull, using and abusing compliant women and dumping them when he finds the first “bitch” that gives him the time day. This meme is more of their sorry manipulation attempts that convince women to sleep with men for NO effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:04 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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