This was so wild I couldn’t not share🥲 Thankfully most people were advising OP to ditch him.

gluckkk · 2021-09-23T21:41:08+00:00

Dear Reddit,

My man is a womanizer and I’m jumping through every hoop to rationalize his behavior to myself. Should I continue on this path until I exhaust myself, or should I admit he ain’t shit and live a fulfilling life using the abundant energy I now have after ridding myself of this source of debilitating anxiety?

Xoxo, SoConfusedEvenThoughIAlreadyKnowtheAnswer

millennialpink2000 · 2021-09-23T20:48:05+00:00

Dear god, why on earth would she put up with this?? There is nothing positive about this situation. I seriously hope the comments tell her to run

insurrectionaryINTJ · 2021-09-23T21:41:18+00:00

I’d rather be single with self-respect than be continually gaslit into believing that I’m “crazy”, “jealous”, and need to work on my “insecurities”, which is what I’m guessing her bf is telling her right now.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-09-23T21:17:59+00:00

Never believe men who insist they aren't like other men. Poor lady, I hope she comes to her senses.

BasieSkanks · 2021-09-23T22:42:19+00:00

Say no to community dick, sis.

finalbosskitten · 2021-09-23T22:51:35+00:00

fat fax: if a guy's gf had slept with each one of her male friends that guy would feel cucked as fuck. Wouldn't be surprised if people are trying to manipulate her into feeling like it's ok.

lolmemberberries · 2021-09-23T23:05:42+00:00

Those aren't friends, that's his narc harem.

ItsFreezen · 2021-09-23T22:49:52+00:00

Get checked for stds.

Sister_cat · 2021-09-23T22:30:20+00:00

My ex was just like that… I didn’t know about it either, turns out he met his girl best friend on tinder, slept with her, caught feelings and got rejected. I found out half a year into the relationship. The girl he studied with after lectures was also a tinder “friend” (found out a year into the relationship), his Uni bestie was also from tinder. It still hurts when I think about how much heartbreak that caused me.

Muffcakelord · 2021-09-23T21:57:24+00:00

I don't even wanna read it past the title, the title itself is so sad it has me laugh in pain

povofme · 2021-09-23T22:09:53+00:00

Break up and find a man that doesn’t do this. Can you send this post to her so she can read our comments?

AyemHerself · 2021-09-23T20:41:30+00:00

Oh, looks like my ex found someone new. Good for him. /s

ALysistrataType · 2021-09-23T22:30:09+00:00

🚩🚩🚩

pretty_kill · 2021-09-24T04:43:48+00:00

Ew, break up with this manslut asap. He was probably is still using them all for emotional labor, as well as using their bodies before.

kansascitydream · 2021-09-23T22:05:24+00:00

I dated a guy like this for a few years. He became physically abusive. He also was a serial cheat and abused a lot of girls. It’s a big red flag for narcissism. It indicates that he needs constant attention from women, and that he needs “backup plans” scrotes can’t go a day with out excessive attention from the opposite sex.

wise_f00l · 2021-09-23T22:32:54+00:00

can't make a life partner out of community dick

leekykeeks · 2021-09-24T02:40:35+00:00

Congrats! You're about to be an ex.

ExpressionUnlikely23 · 2021-09-23T22:01:18+00:00

Oh my god, I narrowly escaped a similar situation..! The guy seemed so unassuming but for some reason had almost all female friends- I didn’t stick around long enough to find out if he had slept with them all but from what I knew about him I wouldn’t be remotely surprised (especially as they sometimes hung out one-on-one..)

He was also really into BDSM, was super manipulative, low-key emotionally absuive while pretending to be a victim etc, seemed to want to use me for free therapy etc etc ..it seems like these traits all cluster together.

Run sis!

Snugglyy · 2021-09-23T22:47:57+00:00

Speaking from experience: If a girl he slept with isn’t still friends or cordial with him, I guarantee he spins HER as the bad guy and he is the victim who tried to be a voice of reason. The physical and emotional access to women this type of man thinks he’s entitled to is toxic.

_queeeen_ · 2021-09-24T00:40:01+00:00

Typical soft boi predator shenanigans. She doesn't understand, which is sad. I've survived a creepy harem like that, so I'm both bored and angry reading this. Nextttt.

MorthaP · 2021-09-24T09:26:12+00:00

somehow, surrounding yourself only with women that you have sex with is not 'typically male' i guess

deadinsidelol69 · 2021-09-24T12:20:35+00:00

Dear reddit,

My shitty womanizing boyfriend has told me he's going to pump and dump me. How do I rationalize this and can you help me gaslight myself into believing I'll actually stay his girlfriend?

modernmedusaa · 2021-09-23T22:44:57+00:00

This better be a shit post by a male larping

iaintgonnacallyou · 2021-09-24T17:49:35+00:00

I actually don’t know one man who is friends with a woman he hasn’t slept with

Title	This was so wild I couldn’t not share🥲 Thankfully most people were advising OP to ditch him.
Author	Thestral-glow6
Upvotes	577
Comments	36
Date	September 23, 2021 8:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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