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14

Omg that is so me. Yesss no lingerie unless it is limited edition Chanel 💅🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 10:22 AM
134

I’ve been sexualized so many times and to the extreme that if a guy were to get me this now, I’d just be so disgusted because it shows he’s just like every guy who sexualizes me that doesn’t give a damn about my likes and wants at the end of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 10:02 PM
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I don't know a single guy who is into BDSM that I would call high-value. The men who were serious about me would not even dare suggest it, and if I tried to initiate it, would be uncomfortable with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:49 AM
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I’m not surprised. She seemed to have some pent up resentment towards her husband’s lifestyle while she’s out there hustling and wishing she had that more relaxed lifestyle. There’s no building a future together when one person is doing all the heavy lifting to keep things afloat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 03:40 AM
132

Yup, it was a mistake on my part to think I would spend time with a man who clearly does not prioritize me in his life. Never again am I spending my birthdays with a man or expecting anything from them; time and generosity are wasted on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 06:13 AM
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I fear the line of thinking and pickme-ism that Netflix promotes by elevating LVM and LVW behavior is actively harming women. A friend of mine was invited to a threesome by a certain Love is Blind villain and actually said she would 100% consider a relationship with this narcissist who has such a despicable personality. She invited me to party with them 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 08:57 AM
7

Forced intimacy at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:24 PM
247

Calling other men “squares” is just code for “not husband-material, will cheat on you”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:33 PM
172

I think it boils down to them making you feel bad about the kind of food you eat. I once got lunch with a guy friend and he kept rolling his eyes when I requested that my dish be made without dairy. He didn’t understand why I had to be so “high-maintenance”. It wasn’t like I ever asked him to change for me or lectured him about the food he ate not that it affected him in any way, but the way he tried to put me down for my choice was definitely low-value behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:21 PM
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Yup can confirm, the poly men I knew were not ones I would call HVM in any way. They had very specific categories of porn they preferred. They oversexualized female bodies and they don’t value connection with women, just how they can stroke their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 09:52 PM
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Nah girl, those messages remind of the ones I used to get that seemed innocent but were really a ploy to kickstart a hookup/dating situation. Besides, men who frequent bars tend to be low-value and not really friend-material. Just tell them your schedule is so packed with projects lately that you don’t have time for one-on-one meetings, and if they don’t get that, it’s time to start being a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 06:53 AM
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In reality, if anything, it is the opposite. Women age like fine wine because we’re always taking care of ourselves and working on bettering ourselves, and we’re able to have mutually healthy, fulfilling relations with our friends. The only time this is not the case is when she has been involved with a LVM that has dragged her down to that point. Men hit the wall because most are emotionally stunted and have not developed the empathy and communication skills necessary to become self-aware and be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 11:35 PM
8

Ah ok, I was hoping it will be released on Apple Podcasts eventually. Guess it’s time for me to subscribe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 04:07 PM
8

What happened to the second part of Dr. Jessica Taylor’s episode?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:45 PM
131

ZVM I knew would also go on pro-feminist spiels on social media and even read Kate Millet and Andrea Dworkin to impress me, but then, would harp on to me about having his own harem of concubines and prey on 15-16 year-olds online in his spare time. The persona was entirely fake and constructed to give him more of a social media following and attract the attention of women he perceived as stronger and more of a challenge. It’s all a game to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:14 AM
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“Show me that you’re worth pursuing,” the scrote shouted from his gamer chair, a cigarette dangling from his sausage lips and yellowed teeth. His severely under-groomed mess of a cat hissed in fear. His phone pinged— it’s a notification from Uber informing him that his driver account has been suspended for harassment of female passengers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:14 PM
20

I got rid of my toxic job. I didn’t realize how much of myself and my own goals I was sacrificing being in perpetual burnout at the job. Now I am applying to law school and studying for the LSAT full-time for the first time, and giving it the attention it deserves. I also signed up to volunteer at a couple nonprofits- one for victims of domestic violence and one for community economic development and I have been spending my time putting clothes up on my Poshmark and Depop closets. On Fridays, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:22 PM
46

I remembered commenting about FDS on a post a woman made on an NPD subreddit asking for help. One of the narc incels got so triggered he combed through my comment history to try to find out where I live and what I look like so he can threaten me with r*pe. I shut him down so fast and savagely that I got him to admit how much of a pathetic being he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:56 PM
347

Oh this is all too familiar to me. Fake feminist scrote slapping an edgy polyamory label on what is colloquially known as being community dick and cheating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:40 AM
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Imagine being this much of a doormat 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 11:09 PM
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He’s not just a freak show; he is a literal predator who can’t even be bothered to keep his pornsick thoughts to himself on national television.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:54 PM
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Lucky for you I have it bookmarked because I work in divorce and family law 😉 https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/npyun9/family_court_is_biased_against_mothers_not/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Here’s another one from further back- https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lig69m/2_fantastic_articles_dispelling_the_myths_of/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:04 AM
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My new fetish is screaming “get away from me, predator” when random men bother me on the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:16 PM
65

Agreed. Once I began to put the words to the primitive actions of the men around me, being around them became totally intolerable, almost painful. I was always uncomfortable around them, FDS just coaxed it out of me and gave me the language I needed to get rid of these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:40 PM
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We both swiped right! has such “I was picked!” vibes omg 🤦🏻‍♀️ These “authors” are completely oblivious to the number of guys continuously swiping right on every profile and to the fact that their fraction-of-a-second validation means nothing. I can just imagine myself in my Pickmeisha days meticulously logging in my hundreds of matches and worrying about which one is The One meanwhile the guy on the other end is on his poop-encrusted toilet racing against the clock to match with as many women a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:31 PM
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First of all, love your focus of study. Second, as a philosophy professor, his job is to critique your essay on the basis of its logic and argument not his personal views. As long as you carefully explain and defend your arguments very well, and steer clear of sweeping statements, you should be fine. Yes, it can be a contentious topic, but there is no denying the impact of the sex industry on mainstream society and human relationships and the data (quantitative and anecdotal) that supports this.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:42 PM
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I’m also petite. I shop at Banana Republic and Aritzia- Babaton line for basics, Abercrombie for bottoms and coats, Athleta for athletic wear, and J.ING for pretty blouses and dresses. H&M is also killing it with their dresses now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:49 AM
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Note to scrote: Sounds to me that you’re just a sexual predator poorly attempting to triangulate women who don’t even want you. A very predictable response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:01 PM
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This sounds rapey and vaguely threatening, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:56 AM
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The worst one I’ve had involved a cousin’s husband who “befriended” me when I was 16 and attempted to turn me into his secret gf when I turned 18/19. He was in his early 30s. I was so horrified at how it unfolded that I vowed to myself that the next time something like that happens, I am turning the man in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:50 AM
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Having “in a relationship” or “married” set as a Facebook status and posting about their significant others, yet they attempt to add you so they can flirt with you. I have one guy who constantly sends me a friend request every few months, deletes it, and sends it again, as if time will make me change my mind, meanwhile he apparently has the same gf he loves very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:37 AM
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Love it, now he will think twice before predating on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:17 PM
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Watching film noir with my puppy and eating fancy vegan food and then going out with friends later for a covid-safe drive around Times Square. New Year's Day, I'm going to spend it catching up on personal stuff I haven’t had the time to do because of work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:48 PM
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Love it. I’m probably the meanest, most dominant person I know. A lot of people definitely aren’t used to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:35 PM
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Aww yes INTJ sis, you sound so awesome <3 That’s literally the exact mindset I have. I live for stripping scrotes of their dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:30 PM
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Hah yeah, I’m Vietnamese with intermittent explosive anger so it’s hard to not want to correct ignorant POS’s and verbally bash them at the same time. But it’s also very risky because you don’t know if they might have a weapon on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:59 PM
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Scrotes love projecting their own sexual fantasies onto us that our time, attention, emotional energy, and bodies are there for their taking. Last time a scrote said konichiwa to me, I straight up cursed him out and the surprised look on his scrote face when he realized I’m that bitch that fights back was priceless (I happened to be near a courthouse though so wouldn’t advise doing what I did).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:41 PM
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Yes girl, same here! Ever since I landed my job which more than tripled the salary at my old firm, my need for male validation completely dropped. My job gives me purpose, is fulfilling, and the all-women environment is so wholesome! Dealing with men is the exact opposite- purposeless, exhausting because of their stupidity, and very surface-level/lacking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:00 AM
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You’re absolutely right. Edited*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:28 AM
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She’s much more than a die-hard pickme. She is a despicable, lowest-form-of-human female predator who gets a kick preying on vulnerable children. To all the scrotes whose comments were deleted- die mad that women the world over are waking up to your subhuman mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:46 PM
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When I was at my grandpa’s funeral a few months ago, one of the men who was supposed to bury him with the crane thingy catcalled me loudly… I was too astounded by the scrotacity to react.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:29 AM
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Playing devil's advocate in cases where it is clear that a woman was abused (Gaby Petito) Changing the conversation when women's issues and the topic of feminism arises Hyperfixating on other women's appearance in disproportion to their other qualities Not taking initiative to make simple changes in their lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:16 AM
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What if the porn industry was popularized in order to create market demand for Viagra?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:22 PM
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“You can tell I really like you because usually when girls freak out this early, I tell them they’re crazy and tell them to fuck off” in response to me voicing to him that I’m uncomfortable with him seeing other women… oh my Pickmeisha days. This was the same guy who also offered to pay for me to get a boob job when he “makes it big”. He won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:51 PM
2

Yeah no, alcoholism and cheapness are gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:53 PM
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Yes! I am wary of men who feel the need to label everyone. If you dare politely correct someone on a race-related issue, you’re a politically correct virtual signaler, as if it’s impossible to fathom that people truly care about social justice. If you’re a guy who’s vegan/vegetarian, you’re an effeminate soyboy. If you’re Asian, you’re a model minority, never mind that a big percentage of Southeast Asians don’t graduate college and have some of the lowest incomes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:02 PM
14

Oof he has her brainwashed hard into believing she’s ok with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:36 AM
13

Scrotes are sooo desperate to have just a bit of female attention to boost their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:30 AM
10

Ok wow this is to strive for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:22 AM
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They say they’re attracted to us as if we should be floored by it. Men’s sexual attraction is cheap like go line up with the rest of the men on the street who think that too 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:33 AM
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When I worked at a major department store, it made me really uncomfortable when strangers would ask me out. In the worst case scenario, they know where I work! It’s so invasive, and adds an extra layer of discomfort when we aren’t interested. Yeah, yeah, scrotes are gonna say they ain’t like that. How am I to know, especially when they lack to sense to realize their actions are cornering me I just had a flashback to my third week of work at my last job when the landlord's son was coming in EVERY…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 02:01 AM
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I told this scrote I was seeing in my pickmeisha days that his being “poly” and “wanting to love everyone” barf is just a thinly veiled excuse to be a hoeboy and he should just call it that instead of trying to put a cool progressive label on it. He even said so himself “I just want to be a hoe”. This scrote even tried to turn it around on me by making it seem as if it were my issue that I couldn’t believe that he loved me when in reality I was questioning his line of logic and simply wasn’t com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 01:11 PM
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Sounds like he's projecting and wants you to spill the beans on your trauma so that he can better manipulate you. You handled it so well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 10:35 PM
8

Ah yes, the typical predatory scrote preying on emotionally vulnerable women and using them for their own sick, disgusting enjoyment... She needs serious therapy not more sexual and physical abuse but stupid scrotes will make everything about their peen at the end of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:19 PM
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It manipulates her into accepting his apology before she is comfortably ready and does so publicly, so it’s LVM behavior in my book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:15 AM
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Sounds like your typical narcissistic scrote. I can smell them from a mile away. Also #6… what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:42 AM
46

She can do so much better. His sense of style then and now is atrocious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:07 AM
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Tell me you’ve never had a gf without telling me you’ve never had a gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:00 AM
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Tell me you’ve never had a gf without telling me you’ve never had a gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:00 AM
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This is good advice OP and is why I don’t tell men about my trauma or insecurities. Back when I had male friends, I would make up insecurities and casually sneak them into conversations. And guess what, all of them eventually used my fake insecurities against me, some blatantly, some more covertly. It’s funny when they think they’ve got you but have no idea they’re being played by the coach. That’s usually when I know they’re trash 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:11 AM
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Better a misandrist than dead 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:36 AM
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This. I really don’t understand the audacity of men who present themselves this way yet expect a well-groomed, well-dressed and put-together, attractive woman to give them the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:58 AM
340

This is why I have no empathy for men. They ultimately just see us as property and objects for their own fulfillment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:51 AM
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I’d rather be single with self-respect than be continually gaslit into believing that I’m “crazy”, “jealous”, and need to work on my “insecurities”, which is what I’m guessing her bf is telling her right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:41 PM
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Most of the time, I treat myself to white gold jewelry or a handbag. If it’s something bigger, a trip abroad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:56 AM
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They act like they’re liberating us and not trying to strip us of our humanity by reducing us to body parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:43 AM
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Hahaha excellent translation 😂🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:16 AM
2

My brother once gave me FDS-like advice, encouraging me to build my self-esteem through hard work, productivity, success, and development of myself as an individual rather than seek it from men/male validation. His words and FDS really sunk it in for me that really nothing feels better than inching closer and closer to being the woman I want to become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:21 AM
8

This makes my blood boil. I wish I knew you personally so I can bring this guy to the brink of death for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:36 AM
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-said to me there are multiple stages left for me to determine whether he was a creep or douchebag… he was both 🤡 -said if he had a Halloween costume, he would go as a red flag… not even joking -proudly posting about having NPD and low empathy on social media -told me he will pay for my boob job when he makes it big 🤡 -into BDSM, ddlg, and “bimbos” and had porn sites bookmarked on Safari 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:28 PM
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I’ve had a couple of guys comment “men just want you” as if that is something I aspire to. Like no, actually male sexual interest means little to me. I live to please me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:35 AM
12

“Do I just have to be a bitch?” Yes you have to especially when it comes to random men on the street. If you don’t want to bother with being a bitch, sunglasses, mask, and headphones usually do the trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:19 AM
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That’s a lot of words for extremely entitled, old pervy loser. The fact that he thinks his shriveled up peen is that special 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:52 PM
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Sounds like classic projection if he’s calling you narcissistic and gaslighting you into believing you are the problem and the one that needs “fixing”. If you were a narcissist, you’d have no interest in taking personal accountability and seeking therapy. I’ve been called narcissistic, entitled, and toxic by men who were in fact those very things they project onto me. Let me tell you, these were all LVM and ZVM who were trying to manipulate me into being nicer and more accommodating of their wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:06 PM
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And then, he’ll show his gratitude by cheating on her with a coworker once he enters a higher salary range 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:29 PM
2

What books do you read? I’d like to go through them to make a scrote mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:36 PM
9

I’ve met so-called progressive/liberal men who read black feminist literature and knew the lingo, and I’ve never been called more degrading names by anyone else when I stood by my values and beliefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:31 PM
2

This. Is. Brilliant. Why haven’t I thought of this? I’m gonna carry around a bible now 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:35 PM
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I’ve been out of the game for a while but had a bunch of male ex-friends that eventually made it very clear to me that I am nothing but a fetish/Asian sex doll for them to conquer. What I’ve noticed over the years amongst them: talking about their vast history of exes who all happen to be Asian, visibly checking out other Asian women in public, pitting Asian ethnicities against one another (Korean chicks are the best/Filipinas are winning— yes those are actual things these men have said to me ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:52 AM
3

I wish men would stop commenting on our appearances all together. We don’t comment on their hairy beer bellies, flabby arms, eye bags, poor dress, or their lack of adornment yet they do that to us all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:49 PM
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Haha I love your response. I’m going to use that. I just love the sad, frustrated looks on their faces when they realize I’m not going to be easy prey and am utterly unimpressed by them 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:03 PM
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That’s a great way of looking at it actually. If he remarks about it ruining my body, bye. If he feels entitled to ask if I have tattoos anywhere, bye. If he draws any associations with pornstars or kink, bye. If he makes my tattoos the primary focus of the conversation, bye. My time is simply too valuable for this nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:56 PM
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I have two half-sleeves plus one on my thigh, leg, and collarbone, so it’s more extreme but a small one is harmless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:46 PM
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I was thinking that! Literally was wearing some of my fanciest clothes although my tattoos were showing and some insecure (probably unemployed) scrote will always feel the need to make me feel like a cheap sexual object. It’s truly disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:45 PM
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Thank you I feel a lot better now ✨ It’s definitely a learning curve knowing what to do in every given scenario. I’m still trying to find that balance between antagonizing them and getting them to leave me alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:39 PM
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Yuck that is such a gross, entitled way of thinking. I guess tattoos are one way to weed out men who feel entitled to our bodies and are pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:30 PM
4

What the actual fuck. This makes me want to move to a remote desert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:24 PM
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Their penis and porn-damaged prefrontal cortex makes them essentially too mentally incapacitated to function.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:12 AM
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Yeah I heard once that some men like women with tattoos because that means they’re likely mentally unstable and thus better in bed like no, not everything is about your peepee 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:09 AM
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It’s serving bottles of alcohol to gross creeps in dingy nightclubs while dressed in tight, revealing clothing and smiling because TiPs. You are overworked and forced to be flirtatious in order to make the likely male manager money and you are often confused as a prostitute or stripper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:04 AM
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Thank you for your kind words <3 You are absolutely right, men will always find a way to sexualize and harass us based off of it. It’s just another example of society failing women yet again because you will never see this level of harassment with a tattooed man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:49 AM
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Your tattoos sound really cool! I’m sorry you also have to experience this. I had no idea the sexual connotations of tattoos were this bad either and I blame it on this porn-addled generation of scrotes who hypersexualize every single thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:41 AM
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I bet your tattoos are super dope! My tattoos have some anti-authority and rebel elements as well but all these pea-brained scrotes will ever see is SeX. Will definitely be buying more long-sleeve tops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:37 AM
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I find that to be very true. It’s like how dare you fall out of line with your prescribed gender expectations and make me feel insecure that I don’t have tattoos! And I agree, RBF shouldn’t even be a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:34 AM
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Yeah my bf is also heavily tattooed and men treat him like a king/god for going through all that length, meanwhile I get treated like some cheap slut and we both have about the same amount of work done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:27 AM
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I do that most of the time unless there’s no out for me, then I feel more worried about doing that. I thought I had major RBF but clearly, it hasn’t been working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:38 AM
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This made me realize that men will sexualize anything and everything. Professional work dresses, gym clothes, food, plants, emojis, anything really. Men’s hypersexualization knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:34 AM
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Thanks you’re right. I am remembering that before the tattoos, it was “what kind of Asian are you” or some ridiculous small-minded remark about Asians. There was always going to be something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:09 AM
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Idk other women with tattoos but I think being an Asian woman makes it a lot worse for me because of the associations with sex workers. They’ll stereotype attractive Asian women as easy and trophies to conquer, it’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:03 AM
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Just do it. Nose piercings aren’t as taboo and don’t carry as much weight as tattoos. Plus they’re cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:49 AM
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Yup, unfortunately there are studies showing this is how men view tattooed women. It really is disgusting that they think it somehow has any bearing on our character or the kind of person we are yet men with tattoos are just applauded for being cool and masculine with no bearing on their character/attributes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:45 AM
17

I personally love it! Almond milk is always too thin and watery, and soy has too much of a beany aftertaste for me. Oat milk has a good dense texture and neutral flavor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:56 PM
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Yes how they react to my ordering food is usually a good indicator as to how mindful/considerate they will be in the relationship. I had a dinner date do the most dramatic eye roll and tell me I’m asking too much when I wanted to make sure my dish was dairy and oil-free. We didn’t last long surprise surprise. HVM I went on dates with in contrast, would help me clarify things with the waiter/waitress to ensure it didn’t have dairy or oil and knew my preferences ahead of time. I agree, the complic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:30 PM
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Funny, I saw that the other day and was gonna comment but it looked like even the other people with NPD tore him apart. This dude really mad that we have standards for weeding out sadistic, unempathetic LVM like himself and play the game better than him. As if some of us don’t have NPD/narcissistic/Machiavellian traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:43 AM
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This poorly written article is just riddled with logical fallacies and what-ifs that deflect from the actual issue. Scrote is outting himself as too porn-addled to write with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:36 AM
27

“Women aren’t being objectified/degraded”… like how tf would you know? Are you a woman being exploited by the porn industry? Are you a woman feeling the effects of being objectified, humiliated, and degraded leading up to and during sex by the men in your life? Are you a victim of sex trafficking? Have you been severely traumatized and had your life ruined all for creepy men on the internet to touch their little knobs to?… I can’t with these clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:19 AM
285

Scrotes, even old ones, are still scrotes at the end of the day. Normalize being mean to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:58 PM
32

Tell me this is a joke. There’s just too much WTF’s in this photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:56 PM
391

Yes it’s a very unsettling, predatory stare. I actually had a narcissistic LVM later tell me that it was because he thought it would make me fall in love with him faster by forcing me to gaze back into his eyes (forced intimacy). I sensed the manipulativeness even then, so it didn’t work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:04 PM
3

Yes! And make a QR code to put on flyers in bathroom stalls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:58 PM
23

Yes we must spread the gospel of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:44 AM
2

They’re nothing but a bunch of rapists, sexual predators, and rape/assault apologists in sheep’s clothing. So porn-addled they can’t function to accomplish tasks. I will never join a male-dominated group ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:27 AM
3

Yup I’ve been sexually harassed and called the most heinous names by leftist, “feminist” men. They’re especially sinister because they will emotionally abuse and manipulate you into doing what they want under the guise of sexual liberation. They’re a bunch of 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:04 AM
260

He couldn’t be any clearer that he hates women and femininity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:47 PM
10

True I guess manufactured insecurity would work very well on a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:05 AM
25

Like is that supposed to turn us on somehow? Proves my point even more why they are mentally incapacitated, brainless creatures and why I have zero empathy for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:03 PM
8

I always joke about this kind of behavior being a mental illness but it’s actually true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:00 PM
10

This just made me barf 🤢 I am convinced most men are essentially mentally incapacitated in that they project their pornsick fantasies onto every woman despite her obvious lack of interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:55 PM
65

They’ve completely deluded themselves into thinking we exist to play into their pornsick fantasies. This is why I have zero empathy for men unless proven otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:48 PM
301

How on earth did he think this was ok to show to someone else? I swear to god half of men are mentally incapacitated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:45 PM
123

“Ethical” is a joke when all these types do is emotionally abuse and manipulate impressionable women into doing what they want. They’re pathetic af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:54 AM
29

There’s actually an article on what to look out for when dating polypaths (polyamorous narcissists), although I can’t imagine anyone here dating one- https://medium.com/@modaviau/the-polypath-red-flags-to-watch-for-if-youre-dating-a-polyamorous-narcissist-801a79326b97 “If your partner is curiously unaffected emotionally by a break up, they are disordered and you are so better off without them. My narcissist jumped from a long-term relationship with my predecessor to me to a new one without so mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:45 AM
67

This is so true though. All the poly men I know didn’t “bloom” until well after college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:36 AM
185

Because their shitty, unstable behavior can’t keep a healthy relationship so they try to have multiple sources of “supply” so that when the breakup inevitably happens, they won’t have to deal with how terribly hideous and mediocre they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:25 PM
66

Seriously. We need some kind of FDS counter patrol to combat this propaganda on FB, Instagram, TikTok, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:10 AM
88

This is the laziest introduction on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:23 PM
3

For me, it’s becoming the most skilled, competent, independent version of myself and supporting and being there for the women in my life. I’d much rather invest time and energy into constantly improving myself and others than waste it on a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:33 PM
6

Mental Healness on Youtube has this whole video on narcissistic manipulation and this was actually one of the ways they get themselves hooked into your brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 07:40 PM
15

Ugh don’t stay in contact with this sicko please. “Maybe I am”? And openly admits to wanting to fuck 17 year-olds? He isn’t even trying to hide the fact that he’s a literal predator. “I hate the idea of you doing that”? As if he’s entitled to your bodily functions and expects women to be sex dolls. It sounds like it’s only a matter of time before he commits sexual assault, rape, or some other sex crime. I wouldn’t associate with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:05 PM
40

This is terrifying… I hope you are in the process of finding somewhere else to stay whether with a friend or trusted roommate, and changing your number while you’re at it. You need to go fully “no contact” with this guy so he and his flying monkeys never have a chance of contacting you, harming you, and occupying your headspace. Block him from everything. Share your GPS location with trusted friends and family members at all times just in case, and in the meantime, while you’re looking for a new…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:47 PM
94

You forgot the empty beat up wallet and dead blank eyes from watching too much porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:14 AM
209

Where are the sweet, attentive, thoughtful HVM like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:32 AM
177

She literally just summed up all of my male interactions in college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:30 AM
45

Sounds like another narcissistic cult-type leader trying to exploit and profit off of the emotionally vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:08 PM
52

Hell to the no, I would not want to be associated with a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:09 PM
196

Yeah being driven by your peepee has nothing to do with fighting legitimate psychological demons. F outta here with that BS 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:32 AM
24

Take my money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:58 AM
323

She said “when to be a girlfriend” twice like okay… Also, “when to be a sister”?! Um excuse me, what?! And “when to be a sidechick”… more like when to be an absolute doormat with no self-respect for her man to do the bare minimum 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:44 PM
2

There’s a lot of disgusting things to unpack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:28 PM
108

Translation: I am an irresponsible, neglectful cheating scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:17 PM
69

Yup, this is classic malignant narcissist talk. Been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:21 AM
15

So basically a woman that can’t have fun with the way she expresses herself or her life. Cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:33 AM
19

I do not get that. Am I missing something about whistling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:39 AM
58

Yup I would hope that my tattoos, piercings, and dyed hair repel these types of misogynistic men who devalue and slut-shame women for having style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:47 AM
258

Dude wants a woman with no tattoos, piercings, or dyed hair, yet likely has a protruding belly, bad skin from abusing alcohol and junk food, a small ED peepee, and no sense of style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:20 PM
13

I’m starting to think a scrote wrote this in a feeble attempt to normalize polyamory/polygamy and manipulate Pickmeishas into doing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:00 PM
29

I believe it. Polygamy/polyamory does literally nothing for women but give them pain, mental illness and trauma from all the mental gymnastics they must do to justify being in such an arrangement, STDs, and quicker aging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:55 AM
112

I knew a scrote exactly like this. He didn’t even hit 30, yet was balding on the back of his head, had ED, and walked as if he were half Neanderthal/half ape. He spent a lot of his time jerking off to porn all the while deluding himself that he will “make it soon” and that when it happens, young girls will be all over him (he won’t because of how toxic, unstable, and unhealthy he is). Your description is scarily accurate it’s comical. Knowing that this is the life trajectory for these men makes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:57 AM
9

Men who give me the impression that they think Asian women are easy are truly disgusting and I have no qualms about crushing them mercilessly to put them in their place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:59 AM
238

Classic Pickmeisha wanting oh so desperately to be that cOoL gIrL to please her man who wouldn’t even lift a finger to do his share of housework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:55 PM
76

I’m also Asian and I can safely say that having a developed body with curves does not stop immature, insecure men from flocking to you and seeing you as shy and submissive. They may be of a different breed- outgoing, jocks, “cool”, but at the end of the day, they are immature and insecure all the same because they, like the other guys, value you for what they think you are based on your appearance over any positive traits you may bring to the table. Having a different body type will never stop t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:25 AM
6

The scrote life at 50+ years old is one of squalor, abysmal mental and physical health, and sexual depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:45 PM
37

So true, sounds like all my past relationships with ZVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:08 PM
208

Translation: Since we’re still in a pandemic, a video chat, and if there’s a possibility that I can use you for sex and free therapy, a zero-effort walk to my place seems like the best way to get what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:10 AM
2

I loved your comment so much I had to give it an award and that username though 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:00 AM
4

Toxic positivity is what keeps us from having the tough, much-needed conversations necessary to eliminate misogyny. I hope for her sake, that she grows up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:38 PM
165

Every bad thing they do, they’ll project it onto us, anything to excuse their shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:08 PM
3

Yes, thank you, I intended this to be shared with younger friends, sisters, cousins, etc. Of course, we’re brilliant enough to see through the bs but the younger generation is less likely to do so when they’re on social media 24/7 and more likely to be enthralled by low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:06 PM
10

We’ve all been there and it is our duty now to enlighten the younger generation to the new generation of scrotes out there and their tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:02 PM
12

Not even OLD, if you get to know a scrote who adds you randomly on social media, this is also what you get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:59 PM
19

It appeals to unstable men who can’t have a healthy long-term relationship with so much as one person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:57 PM
5

Ok so I actually got this from an NPD group that I’m in and one of the guys posted these two photos for us all to read. I have no idea where he got it from but I’m gonna try to find the source.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:56 PM
13

Yup and we’re supposed to be their toxic equivalent… uhh last time I checked, we don’t manipulate and exploit at this level and have entire schools dedicated to screwing people over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:54 PM
11

It’s funny you mention that because I got this from an NPD group that I’m in and one of the guys posted this under a discussion and we were all appalled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:49 PM
13

Yeah I don’t even care if he primarily uses Snapchat so much that he actually has it on his phone, that is grounds for an automatic BLOCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:46 PM
12

Exactly, there are actually so many “strategies” and tactics out there and they keep evolving. I’ve linked one of them under the photos. Stay woke ✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:44 PM
12

I actually got this from an NPD group that I’m in and one of the guys posted this under a discussion about pickup artists or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:42 PM
22

Snapchat and Instagram are literally photo/video apps for scrotes to gawk at when they have their slimy hands down their pants. Why would I want to take part in your daily rotation of virtual fap imagery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:38 PM
10

Very true. I just wanted to highlight the delusion and depravity that is the scrote’s mind, and if anything, to warn the younger, more impressionable generation that this is how they prey on them, so they won’t even get past step 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:36 PM
13

I inserted a link below the photos if you’re interested. Enlightening to read into the mind of a scrote from time to time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:33 PM
31

Yup, it’s forced intimacy to give you the false illusion that y’all are closer than you really are, meanwhile he’s priming himself to say the same thing to 4 other women and will likely unmask himself as the scrote that he really is real soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:27 PM
31

God, I love this comment. I’ve definitely come across scrotes like this in my pickmeisha days who definitely operate like this, and they’re the lowest form of delusional, pathetic, sex-crazed penis worms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:16 PM
18

Scrotes are delusional to think that this will ever work for them. They know the vast majority of women will not fly by this BS. That’s why they prey on younger, insecure, pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:08 PM
479

Oh look another man-child grooming a woman to be his servant and baby factory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:56 AM
56

Literally “the problem is exploitation so let’s further exploit by ensuring women stay in sex work for the benefit of men and don’t have meaningful careers that provide value to the world.” The state of social science research these days is just appalling 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:03 PM
15

This hoodie straight up screams pornsick SCROTE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:21 PM
3

Bonnie and Clyde syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:39 PM
10

Where do you check for prior complaints and violations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:15 AM
7

“Self-centered”, “keeping attention on themselves”? Yeah the projection is real here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:32 PM
29

I’ve always wondered why I could never bond with many women and I realized it was because everything was centered around them being a wife and mother, signifiers of servitude, which I have no interest being. Or if they weren’t wives/mothers, it was getting the attention of some mediocre guy. Imagine if we centered our lives more on our individual pursuits and empowering each other in our careers, hobbies, health, and finances. We’d be unstoppable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:20 PM
1

Yup that’s my culture too, scarily accurate. Men see women not as romantic partners with needs but walking wombs to perpetuate their “legacy”. It’s horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:52 PM
1

Clearly, this guy has never given a woman one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:56 AM
45

We gotta level up, ladies. Female sharks are outdoing us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:50 PM
2

I wish but I’m in a relationship with my male partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:16 PM
3

💯 no more getting away with being obese/overweight, having a poor sense of style, and having yellow teeth, bad breath, and nonexistent grooming and skincare habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:34 AM
27

BRB going to watch Cruella 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:37 AM
14

Same queen, this is why I don’t have Instagram/TikTok/or any profile on any medium catering to the male gaze. That’s not what I build my self-worth on and I won’t let any scrote pressure me into doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:59 PM
67

Girl I know the struggle. I have 10 large ones and when they see them, they feel like they have the right to get up close to me and stare at them like fuck off. I’m also Asian as well, so I get a lot of remarks that I look like a pornstar/should make an OnlyFans. It puts me in such a violent rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:28 AM
220

If the baggages were reversed, men would be out the door in record time because they won’t be able to handle the crap they put us through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:46 AM
10

The standards for men are below the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:03 PM
11

There’s no way that’s how she agreed to be married but if it is, she needs FDS bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:33 PM
91

What happened to his arms? They paralyzed or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:49 AM
60

OnlyFans = just another venue for pornsick men to satisfy their sick urges of breaking and dehumanizing women until all that is good in her life is gone. I swear to god the next man that tells me I should make one or that I should be a porn star, I will unleash a fiery anger that’s never been seen before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:13 AM
67

Not surprised. Some of the most progressive/left-leaning men I know are low-key sexual predators and will try to coerce you into group sex/reprehensible sexual role play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:49 AM
2

Yup I’ve seen this happen with me. They just see you as more of a challenge to conquer and when you give positive cues, it validates their thoughts of being special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:30 AM
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