Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanks

Guyincognito9876 · 2021-06-04T09:00:58+00:00

Yes, jacking off to violent, depraved sexual acts for hours a day is completely “normal” and healthy. 🙄

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-06-04T09:00:19+00:00

Mmm no thanks. I think they forget women get paid to do the stuff they see in porn, unless they have been trafficked or coerced into doing it for free.

poppinkitty · 2021-06-04T09:18:20+00:00

"sexual health" and "porn" in the same sentence. Joke of the century.

motioncaptureF · 2021-06-04T09:06:34+00:00

How can he write 'girls are jealous and InSeCurE ' and ' guys watching other girls naked and having sex' in the same sentence 😎👓🤏🤢

Platipus6 · 2021-06-04T09:22:35+00:00

This guy couldn't afford the cocaine habit I'd develop just from the thought of letting him touch me.

curlywurlyprincess · 2021-06-04T09:00:31+00:00

The dehumanization and degradation of women is a normal part of every man’s sexual health, cool.

You know what? I’d rather stay single than have sex with a man who can only cum when he uses extreme violence against me 🤷🏽‍♀️

Frogspocket · 2021-06-04T10:36:00+00:00

They should just stay single then. They can watch their "ideal girlfriend" doing porn all day. Why do they "need" both for their sExUaL hEaLtH?

starfighter07 · 2021-06-04T09:04:35+00:00

Imagine being so self centered and disgusting

Imagine us caring for this sort of scum

souredskittles · 2021-06-04T10:06:41+00:00

This is what makes being single so refreshing. No one pestering you for risky sex. Man I just hated how they were sex pests.

miss_peach94 · 2021-06-04T10:15:56+00:00

Porn addiction needs to be treated as the health epidemic that it is

vvioletwwitch · 2021-06-04T10:51:16+00:00

If this scrote had a girlfriend and she flipped it and told him “i watch and prefer porn to sex with you and won’t stop unless you actively make sex better for me” she would get dumped quicker than she could finish the sentence

_differentmentality_ · 2021-06-04T09:38:57+00:00

Lmao keep whining we will not budge on this, men who are interested in the degrading sexual acts portrayed in porn are men we do not see as worthy for any type of commitment. If that means being single so be it, we put emphasis here on fds on staying single should no one meet this standard.

suckmypussy143 · 2021-06-04T09:49:43+00:00

Males really be dating girls they're not attracted to then complain about commitment. They're the true entitled narcissists

searchingforjupiter · 2021-06-04T11:17:13+00:00

Alright, how about they act out MY fantasy of an ideal boyfriend? You know, the one that has his shit together mentally, financially, intellectually? I can't be expected to settle for a mediocre guy that just wants to manipulate me into becoming a sex doll.

ohmira · 2021-06-04T10:17:02+00:00

Daring things? Like sticking a baseball bat up her butthole so she can prolapse and lose the dude anyways? Hard pass. The ladies willing to make porn can be the perfect gf for all these dudes. Literally all of them, they’re free.

Mimosa_usagi · 2021-06-04T11:18:02+00:00

All men want to watch their ideal girlfriend be fucked by a much better looking man with a bigger penis than him?

akashyaboa · 2021-06-04T11:28:11+00:00

I fail to see how not dating him is a woman's loss

Lavender_flow · 2021-06-04T11:09:01+00:00

Meanwhile this misogynist never made a woman come in his life. But she should be a pornstar in the bedroom....

europoor24 · 2021-06-04T10:28:16+00:00

A pet for company, friends, and focusing on charity work is looking better and better.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-06-04T11:58:53+00:00

"Girls enjoy strangling any sense of enjoyment out of guys"

Guys enjoy strangling any sense of life out of girls.

also, You can't just expect a gIrL to settle for mediocre sex with a guy that just wants to manipulate her, when she could be living out her fantasies of living her best life as a HVW Scrote- Free . Men need to back off and recognise that their unhealthy porn addiction is impacting poorly on every mans sexual health.

YVGNY · 2021-06-04T11:32:23+00:00

Damn this guy should really lay off masturbating to r*pe, it fried his brain so much he sounds like a total moron and makes 0 sense

Ideal girlfriend on screen? Lmao what even? I can 100% guarantee you this guy is terrible in bed, either has ED or ejaculates after a second and no woman wants to touch him, he's making all of these imaginary scenarios in his mind

Its proof, porn makes men even dumber

betsybasset · 2021-06-04T10:05:44+00:00

Go fap / jerk off / fuck til your dick fall off.

Society can do less with trash like 🤡

This sex obsession really is the death women desiring men.

Sex is a want for majority of women. Not a need. And that want is triggered by respectful, unentitled effortful manner. Not by this entitled disrespectful attitude.

I'm so fed up with men and their sex obsession. Men you're all so FUCKING BORING. Each one of you. All. The. Same.

Men think they're all so special with their dick Well Guess what. Dick are abundant it is totally worthless.

There is life out there other than obsessing sex / ogling porn 24/7.

Seriously I don't believe men are actually born with brains. Only with dick.

The state of men is highly repulsive. The thought of being near them physically is vomit inducing.

I'm so glad I've low to non existent libido that is enough to be satisfied by my hand.

pretty_kill · 2021-06-04T11:43:17+00:00

All I see is a man who would rather watch porn than touch a real live woman. He should be so lucky to have anyone want to have sex with him.

Jadzzia · 2021-06-04T12:11:10+00:00

OMG! The lack of self-awareness from these scrotes is jarring and pathetic. My pickme former self did everything, and I mean EVERYTHING (consentual non consent, anal, performative porn-style ‘all about him’ sex) for my ex. It STILL wasn’t enough 🤦‍♀️Don’t even give them an inch, they’ll take a mile!

vbych76 · 2021-06-04T10:24:42+00:00

I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣

9hazle · 2021-06-04T11:37:58+00:00

Hey apparently porn is the greatest pleasure he has in his life 😂 I hope it remains that way

Rowbloks · 2021-06-04T12:12:55+00:00

This has nothing to do with "health". It's so gross how scrotes take normal words and change the meaning so that they can hide their depravity in plain sight.

"Nice guy" = resentful misogynist who hides it well.

"A feminine woman" = woman who puts up with BS without ever complaining, even when she was done wrong

"Sexual health" = getting everything you want how you want it even at the expense of your partner. If she refuses to get bruised and beat she's undeemining your sexual hEaLTH.

awhileagonow · 2021-06-04T13:22:21+00:00

He says he is 'acting out his fantasies' watching porn. That's a contradiction in terms, isn't it? He's not acting out anything, it would be like me saying I'm acting out my fantasy of going to Australia by watching Neighbours.

Bwolffff · 2021-06-04T11:20:15+00:00

I’ve legit heard stories of people hooking up with porn stars and they weren’t even that great in bed. Lol, try again bud

ilovesanddollars · 2021-06-04T12:18:52+00:00

For anyone who believes the dreamgirl myth

Anyone who thinks they can turn an LVM into an HVM,

And anyone who blames themselves for the ways they have been hurt by an LVM:

Men like this do not wake up one day and suddenly decide that they respect/value women.

Entire_Affect_8350 · 2021-06-04T11:43:02+00:00

Just yesterday i saw a thread that showed the hypocrisy of some guys. The OP of a post watched BBC porn amongst other things and this triggered her boyfriend's insecurity. One comment pointed out that that type of porn thrived off of humiliating white men. Any comments that pointed out that their boyfriend was insecure was downvoted. Men's insecurity is more valid apparently!!!! Casual double standards on Reddit. You can bet some of the guys are the same ones that go on and on about how the girl is just jealous and insecure if she doesn't want her partner to watch porn. My jaw honestly drops everytime I see this level of hypocrisy.

Edit: without even getting into the ethics of porn, love how they see a niche category as a slight to their ego and remain blind to the overwhelming degradation of women in most porn.

Professional-Ad-457 · 2021-06-04T12:24:22+00:00

When I read something disgusting like this I feel a surge of anger then I feel a wave of helplessness. This is an extreme example of what every man has said to me about porn. They wldn’t have dared to be so rude but this was all implied. I want to see it now as gaslighting but they all appear to believe that what this scrote is saying is fact. Can it be gaslighting if they believe that porn is actually acceptable and every woman has to suck it up?

lady_ven0m · 2021-06-04T12:31:44+00:00

Watching the ideal girlfriend on screen? Is she washing laundry and making food too? Supporting him emotionally?

Does he hear himself? He said his ideal girlfriend is only good for one thing...sex. What a loser. I really hope men like this don’t procreate. None of them have to settle for “mediocre” aka real women, they can have their wonderful lives with their ideal e-gfs forever.

Nymphomaniac12345 · 2021-06-04T12:32:54+00:00

I wish “men” like this would do us all a favour and stay away from real women and focus all their attention on “acting out his fantasies…. On screen”.

Sounds like such a worthwhile pursuit, something he can proudly look back at when he’s on his deathbed, how he spent his life worthwhile exploring all these meaningful fantasies (on screen).

zazaleaz · 2021-06-04T12:59:25+00:00

I don't understand why this guy would want a relationship with a woman IRL when he has already found his one true love, porn. Why don't you marry it, guy?

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-06-04T12:22:49+00:00

sounds like what someone who hates women would say.

still... they want the sex.

I wonder.. why don't they fuck each other, these scrotes!?

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-06-04T13:55:09+00:00

"Do some of the daring things that porn stars do". Scrote, you fail to realize these women are paid to do their job. Yes that's right, their job. And even then, they're coerced into it. They have to do these things in order to get paid. Scrotes also fail to realize porn stars need many breaks in between and are often left in excruciating pain. But yeah let's forget about our needs and boundaries so a scrote with an unwashed penis can get off. Scrotes we don't need you, you need US lmao. Also, if the roles were reversed and we said yes on the condition they did the same positions, they'd be screaming no. Scrotes can die mad in a porn filled room.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-06-04T10:46:38+00:00

Dude, what do you think women do when they cannot have sex? Watch porn for sexual enjoyment? No, we can masturbate with only hands/toys and our imagination. No one stops you from doing this.

Women are jealous when their men wants to fuck other women, but if his gf rather watch gay porn with hot guys because all he can do is jackhammering for 30 sek because his porn- fried ass has ED she'd be an evil witch.

And this is if we only think about the cheating part of porn and not about the actual issues which is the coercion and exploitation of its "workers".

Astral_weaver · 2021-06-04T13:26:12+00:00

Wtf did I just read? How is watching human exploitation hotter than having actual sex?

aellope · 2021-06-04T14:42:12+00:00

Why do these men even date? He's literally admitting that he likes porn more than actually having sex. Just cut out the middlewoman and marry your cum-crusted laptop.

AmethistStars · 2021-06-04T13:06:18+00:00

If he likes porn that much, then he should just watch that and stop trying to belittle women for not being into his degrading fetishes.

“Girl’s need to back off” indeed, they should. Back off and peace out from scrotes like him all together. Have fun being forever alone with your porn.

beatriixkiido · 2021-06-04T13:32:14+00:00

Coming from a true blue neckbeard from the bottom of the scrotem pole. This is why i date women now.

artquestioj · 2021-06-04T11:03:20+00:00

Considering the scary stuff that can be found in porn, no thanks. I don't want it, and I dont want to be with a guy who wants it.

Considering that he is already at the point of craving weird kink stuff and being desensitized to where a real woman is less pleasing than porn, I'm assuming he has lost the ability to feel a real connection to you, he clearly dislikes women as a whole, and will treat you like a flashlight rather than making love to you.

Wow. I'm going to go have myself a good cry that I can't have mediocre sex with this porn sick man. 😭

blackwidowe · 2021-06-04T11:54:40+00:00

Eeewwwwwww.

Hmtnsw · 2021-06-04T13:49:16+00:00

Why did I choose to be hetero?

Oh yeah, sexuality isn't a choice.

Hhjjuuy · 2021-06-04T14:30:17+00:00

girls enjoy strangling any sense of enjoyment out of guys

Men enjoy strangling women.

Apricot_Ibex · 2021-06-04T15:09:39+00:00

Another “what about men?” screed. Knowing the infamous orgasm gap between straight men and women, this testerical mantrum about “mediocre sex” and his demands for his girlfriend to be a sexbot performing painful pornified sex acts that don’t get HER off, we can safely assume that calling this scrote mediocre in bed would be a generous compliment. His girlfriend doesn’t want to bang him because he’s a selfish garbage lay who faps 24/7 to revolting misogynistic porno and whines about HIS sEXUaL hEaLtH but can’t find his gf’s clitoris.

Also, note the “girls vs men” language at the end. He’s a MAN, but she’s a “girl,” not a woman. And I guarantee he’d be foaming at the mouth if his girlfriend talked about all the hot, sexually superior men she wants to bang and spent hours getting off to them.

cheekwrinkle · 2021-06-04T11:49:30+00:00

"Daring things" - I'm sure he'd list off many acts that are actually harmful to women's health. These types have no empathy for that.

CuntWaffe · 2021-06-04T13:44:42+00:00

So, men are not expected to settle for "mediocre" sex, but women are expected to settle for less than mediocre men? Pffft ok

czeka17 · 2021-06-04T09:17:36+00:00

If I want simple “starfish sex”, then that is what is on the table. I am horrified to think that any man thinks he is entitled to abusive sex. Women of value want meaningful sex and being. Of course I have fantasies about sex also but never to degrade or be hurtful. Why do these LVM get so much access to headlines? I know now that I have support for my beliefs in FDS. My voice no longer seems so senseless and discounted.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-06-04T11:24:11+00:00

Nope.

feelinthrownaway · 2021-06-04T15:17:56+00:00

So he can watch literal fantasy and demand it from women and we are lazy and self-centered if we dont rise to a literal imagined standard of sexual service, that the performers in porn are paid/coerced into doing….which should mean he has no grounds for complaint if a woman reads a romance novel and then expects him to earn WAY more money, spend it all on her, eat her out for an hour, and worship her every thought.

After all, some work of fiction showed it to her, so now he is the asshole and selfish awful disappointment if he doesn't rise to the levdl of a literal self-indulgent fantasy.

Also note how this man talks about women having sex without even acknowledging their pleasure or his obligation to not be shitty at sex- why is sex to him about what a woman does for him, without even the basic awareness that he is also supposed to be good at sex, make her cum, make her feel good?

Literally he consumed entertainment and then was like “human women are bad because they don’t exist solely on demand and on MY terms and for MY pleasure, they should be like a porno” like what about what she wants and likes during sex?

These men tell on themselves because they think they’re saying “women are lazy in bed” but he is so blind to his own terribleness (bc man) that what he actually says is “i have watched so much porn and had so little sex with actual women, that i’ve confused myself into thinking the porn is real sex, and i have forgotten that real sex is not masturbation, so I will talk about sex from the perspective of a man being serviced, essentially bragging about what a selfish disappointment i am in bed”

sweet_birthday_babyy · 2021-06-04T16:31:28+00:00

Your “ideal girlfriend” fucks other men for money. 🤷‍♀️

Defiant_Error_ · 2021-06-04T09:02:36+00:00

Different when their girlfriends even just look/speak to another guy, they get insecure and aggressive towards the woman. 🙄

Fdsthrowaway9090 · 2021-06-04T09:49:05+00:00

He just added that last sentence at the end to make it sound scientific 😂 it literally didn’t go with the rest of the paragraph lmao these scrotes are so dumb it’s funny

shiningsuns · 2021-06-04T11:31:30+00:00

Here we have an exemplar of a man who thinks porn is real life. It's seriously so dumb he expects porn star performance while he has never had sex with those porn stars himself, so what kind of experience does he compare sex with a normal girl to? His hand?

hyperjinxx · 2021-06-04T13:04:16+00:00

Are they talking about girls or women? I know they are referring to women but the word choice is telling.

MissWestSeattle · 2021-06-04T10:14:57+00:00

Nope, watching porn isn't normal at all but hey, go ahead and get the fast lane for that ED scrotes! Bye!

UnstrirringCoffee · 2021-06-04T12:20:15+00:00

I would so totally next this guy.

YgirlYB · 2021-06-04T14:59:11+00:00

I have never seen so much projection in a post

oceanstains · 2021-06-04T15:53:32+00:00

More posts calling men MEN and infantilizing us, calling us girls (children). I’m over it

Objective_Ad7771 · 2021-06-04T17:00:26+00:00

Well stay a virgin who jerks off 24/7. Not our problem love.

spinaflora · 2021-06-04T15:11:21+00:00

Imagine this is your “hot take”...

NikiBubbles · 2021-06-04T15:35:28+00:00

Nah, brö, I’m not jealous, I’m just not sure if woman in porn had been trafficked or coerced. If you watch porn, there’s a very high chance that you support slavery. Are you willing to make this gamble? Then what kind of human are you?

Zurflu · 2021-06-04T15:43:07+00:00

If that girl on your screen is "the ideal gf" go be with her then? What's stopping you? 🤔

Expert_Spare6791 · 2021-06-04T11:25:56+00:00

THIS is why as a bisexual girl I prefer to date other women than men.

nooneescapesthelaw · 2021-06-04T11:58:57+00:00

Its not about being "self centered" its about whether or not hes willing to make a small sacrifice to make his partner more comfortable.

Waste-Win · 2021-06-04T14:27:59+00:00

I'd rather be single, thanks.

CroneRaisedMaiden · 2021-06-04T16:03:41+00:00

Don’t forget the sissy-hypno porn either

oh_shit_oh_fuck · 2021-06-04T17:50:18+00:00

Interesting choice of the world 'strangling' there.

ItsFreezen · 2021-06-04T10:53:11+00:00

I mean porn videos are how civilization started. Without porn stars we wouldn't have a population /s

lostmillenia · 2021-06-04T17:21:59+00:00

At least the porn is there distracting him so its easier for her to run the fuck away!

steingrrrl · 2021-06-04T18:20:27+00:00

“Do some of the daring things that porn stars do” bitch gtfo, this aint fear factor 😂

kangaskhaniscubones · 2021-06-04T19:59:27+00:00

Listen up ladies! We’ve gotta all do anal and choking if we want our guys to stop watching porn. You heard it here first!

He has a NEED to see women being defiled and in pain! And if you can just suck it up, that could be YOU, instead of a random porn actress. Woo boy, now I’m excited! Sign me up!

/s

spinaflora · 2021-06-04T20:16:20+00:00

Men like that cannot even comprehend that we DO NOT NEED THEM let alone want them. They’re writing themselves out of evolution.

dkwantsdk · 2021-06-04T20:44:17+00:00

Why is it so important for them to watch porn? I truly don't understand it. I've never felt fixated or entitled to _anything_ as these porn apologists and addicts.

Dumb_Velvet · 2021-06-04T19:17:57+00:00

Yes we get “jealous”. It’s called chastity, sexual fidelity and respect. Things that seem to be sorely lacking in today’s hyper sexualised society.

insurrectionaryINTJ · 2021-06-04T19:32:30+00:00

“Self-centered”, “keeping attention on themselves”? Yeah the projection is real here.

SunnyfuckingSucc · 2021-06-04T16:58:42+00:00

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tomatfrogbubbles · 2021-06-04T19:46:14+00:00

They say this like they wouldnt get even more jealous if their gf/wife was getting off to males in porn as well.

hope-wallace · 2021-06-04T21:53:36+00:00

The only shred of good advice he gives is that we need to "back off" in his last sentence. No problem -- I can back all the way off to my peaceful single life. Go ahead, threaten me with a good time.

disillusionedideals · 2021-06-05T02:02:17+00:00

The "you'll be forever single" threat is not as scary as these fools think it is. In fact, the idea of peace of mind, safety and stability sounds heavenly to me.

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-06-05T02:25:18+00:00

🤮🤮🤮 I can’t believe humanity hasn’t come to a screeching halt. The sound of this douche talking nonsense dries me tf out. #saharastatus

ferociouslycurious · 2021-06-05T00:34:33+00:00

That loser thinks he acts out his fantasies by watching 😂 You can’t fix stupid but you can def block it!

Important_Page_6846 · 2021-06-05T02:46:37+00:00

What exactly is this guy even getting out of relationships if he feels this strongly about women being useless in relationships? Stay single and watch your disgusting porn... don’t understand the issue here. Males are irrational and overtly emotional.

Feminineprincess · 2021-06-05T02:47:35+00:00

So suffering from erectile dysfunction and only lasting a minute in bed due to constant masturbation is part of a normal man’s sexual health?

relationship_reddit · 2021-06-05T13:21:16+00:00

I mean yeah, he's right about that first line for me. My boyfriend watching other women having sex did make me insecure. That is completely normal. Most males would feel the same way if they found their girlfriends watching men have sex.

What he's wrong about is that it is a part of men's sexual health, or that we have to accept it. Oh, and also, in my last relationship, I was a major "cool girl" 🤡 and did all the kinky things for my ex, and he still watched porn and lusted after other women in real-life. Ladies, don't let them fool you into thinking if you're their personal pornstar that it will protect you from their eyes wandering, because it won't.

kerean1997 · 2021-06-05T08:38:44+00:00

I'm about to throw up... ugh 🤢🤢🤢🤢

Lost-Committee · 2021-06-05T16:07:36+00:00

Dude literally said he gets more pleasure from porn than sex and he thinks the woman is the problem.

Honestly_th0 · 2021-06-05T14:04:56+00:00

He sounds really triggered. I love it 😍

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Title	Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanks
Author	SunnyfuckingSucc
Upvotes	756
Comments	185
Date	June 4, 2021 8:56 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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