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SCROTATION REPORT Yellowsunflowerlover/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:57 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESYellowsunflowerlover/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:49 PM
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COUCH CREATURESYellowsunflowerlover/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:48 PM
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Bullet dodged! I can’t imagine him actually finding a woman who would date him. Yikes!
/r/askFDS11/09/21 10:12 PM
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He’s pretty ugly now, he was only good looking during the Titanic movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:53 AM
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I hope she got rid of him and those kids, women will always have to pay more than 50%. It’s never just 50% and honestly should never be. He’s a scrote and should pay 100% or get lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:00 PM
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For close to a grand, you get to be a maid, and forced to sexually pleasure some old fool 😳 What a dream, especially since you can’t smoke the sorrow away or keep a pet /s No one is ever replying to that lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:54 PM
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Be very wary. This is how guys try to lovebomb. It’s been two weeks, constant compliments like this are a red flag. You don’t get to know someone in two weeks, let alone by text only. A HVM would show you by actions, conversation etc that he has a genuine interest LVM throw this bait to see what they can get away with. That or he’s emotionally unstable. I’d keep a close eye on how this develops, but it’s most likely going to end up as a block and delete.
/r/askFDS09/09/21 04:35 PM
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That’s so unprofessional, if he works for a company I’d report him. And look into getting a woman trainer. Ugh LVM really have no shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:23 PM
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The say more part had already grossed me out. What an asshole. He’s talking to you like you’re beneath him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:48 AM
26

I quit mine. Was jobless for a month and found this one that I start at tomorrow, 2 weeks ago. You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:27 PM
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I start a new job tomorrow! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:26 PM
56

Or even better he bought the pizza box that Costco makes and took it out. Pre heated and was gonna pass it as his own 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:18 AM
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Ask her to get a therapist. They help so much and can maybe open your eyes 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:11 PM
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They’re all horrible, but the last one is something else. Giving over men alibis geez 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:07 PM
13

I came to say this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:28 AM
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Exactly! She should make him carry a bowling ball half the time then and he needs to be shocked half the time while she’s giving birth too, just so he can 50% share the experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:06 AM
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It’s 100% one sided, where he gets all the benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:04 AM
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No, not right now. I’m still a work in progress, but ask me again in December and I’ll wife myself in a heart beat 💖✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:37 PM
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I bought myself a new bed set with the softest comforter I could find. A scrote would buy me a used futon and a single sheet and say that was more than enough 🤣 or maybe find a pallet of wood and cardboard as a bed sheet and bed lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:36 PM
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Same! I joined FDS earlier this year due to a bad breakup and finally this December I get my degree! 💖 The grass is definitely greener on the FDS side 👏🏻👏🏻 Anyone that simply tries to get my attention right now is just shot down. My inner peace is too high, for me to fall back on my pickmeisha ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:05 AM
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I can’t get passed the “Alpha” title 🤣 I will never take a man serious who ever uses that term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:35 AM
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Wooooow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:07 AM
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Or when it comes down to a dude dating their daughter, sister or mother. These scrotes know, but since you’re nothing to them, they don’t care. Unless it impacts them directly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:53 AM
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I would have personally been offended that such a hideous creature had that much self confidence to think any woman would flirt with him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:19 AM
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I found it through a zodiac sub. A woman recommended it to me, and all hell broke loose. Men were attacking her left and right about how she was about to ruin me and feed me to the lions. I’m actually grateful to that lady. I was going through an awful break up and realized I was crying over a loser that wasn’t worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:36 PM
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She’s contradicting herself so hard and doesn’t even realize it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:45 PM
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It’s been through hell and back. If you soak in the water, the water would probably turn yellow brown 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:11 AM
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There’s no mattress protector 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:10 AM
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I was attracted to him based on that movie, but then he got ugly fast and I realized how LV he truly was. If I’m not mistaken he also dated Rihanna?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:31 PM
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She needs to divorce him and file police reports for each incident. He’s gonna come back when that new girl gets tired and I hope OP doesn’t take him back. Also she’s a teacher this is horrible :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:42 PM
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I mean with grammar like that, I wouldn’t fix his plate either 🤣 I hope he didn’t sit there, the whole time, just watching everyone else eat lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:14 PM
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The amount of men that praise Kevin Samuels and actually tell women to listen to him, is disgusting. Glad she had someone looking out for her <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:24 PM
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Nah he blocked her and all their mutual friends if anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:23 AM
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This!!!! I hate whoever wrote that damn Tweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:39 PM
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I just can't, scrotes out themselves all the time. I would be so embarrassed if I were him. Like who thinks babies are responsible for men going psycho and killing people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:55 AM
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Because it’s not taken seriously. I got a TPO from a judge on my ex. She was a woman. I went to trial for a whole year. This time a man. And even with evidence, my ex walked. I wish DV was taken seriously. You literally have to be on deaths door at times, for people to open their eyes and see what danger you’re in. It’s a sad world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:51 PM
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Ew man, scrote was still in his work clothes sweaty and uncomfortable. And it wasn’t even an actual planned date. She didn’t sign up for a class, she wanted a date. That’s on him. He messed up, I’m glad she fixed her crown and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:46 PM
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I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who automatically thought this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:42 AM
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It didn’t work for me, but thank you for the knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:41 AM
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I didn’t know I could, but now I will. Ty for this! I get them all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:41 AM
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Same! Now they just spam me with Reddit Care messages whenever I reply to posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:33 AM
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Right? And no one realizes this! Or they keep a blind eye to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:08 AM
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Lmao those Reddit care messages 😅 scrotes find any way they can to harass women. They literally can’t live without bothering us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:01 PM
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Are you me? I’m so sorry for the hand you were dealt. Glad you have FDS and you know you’re a strong lady :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:40 AM
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These Internet ninjas are something else 🤣 instead of changing they throw tantrums lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:07 PM
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The scrotes of Reddit should really read this and marinate in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:41 PM
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To any young girl on FDS, it isn’t worth it. I was in that girls shoes almost at the same age. I let go of my education for some older man and guess what? I was treated like crap, a maid and a built in baby sitter for that losers kids. And I was objectified. I was seen as the pretty young “mom” and abused if another dude looked at me or if I said whatever was on my mind. Peter Pan syndrome my ass. He’s just the garbage that no woman wants. Damaged goods beyond repair so he preys on young naive w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:21 PM
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It isn’t unreasonable and there are people out there have have very demanding jobs and still take the time to return a text. So the “I was busy” excuse is lame, unless it’s under unfortunate circumstances. But even then, they’d still keep you in the loop. Don’t feel guilty. Be glad you found out early on, and now you can move on to the next person.
/r/askFDS09/08/21 07:13 PM
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Reddit has honestly shown me how the bar really is in HADES. I honestly thought it was normal to have the other party walk you to your car or check if you got home safely. Nope, leave it to Reddit to tell you you're ridiculous for wanting such a small act of kindness towards your safety. I don't care what anyone says, I'm grateful a subreddit like FDS exist. Shaping women's lives up for the better <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:53 PM
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Unfortunately it’s a tactic that men use to try to get the woman to depend on them. It’s absolutely disgusting. It reeks of freaking abuse and I hope she figures that out quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:10 AM
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Omg this is so true! It’s whatever and whenever it’s convenient for them 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:08 AM
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My first thought was, was the waiter a man 🤣 Is he so scared to tell a man his side dish is wrong lmao Good for her, on not being this mans emotional labor slave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:17 AM
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To the first guy, date a man then. Stop assuming people are hoes. That's annoying as hell, and clearly this man isn't getting laid at all. Like ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:09 PM
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After being on here for a bit, I've come to realize that I really did not need a relationship. What I need was: Start to self love Heal my inner child Learn that a relationship does not define me. I can be content with life and being "loved" by someone isn't something that matters. That's why I have family, friends and my son. Level up, and never have to depend on someone. Whether it's financially, emotionally or mentally. I'm still working on these things, but once I learned these 5 things I re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:03 PM
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Men are way nosier and way more into gossip than women, and it's funny/sad at the same time. First time meeting you and they resort to "stop being such a little bitch". Scrotesssssssss.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:51 PM
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The part that stuck out the most to me was, they're living together it's THEIR place now. She's most likely paying rent or contributing in other ways. Not to mention she's full time worker/grad stud. Fires happen, but she could have been hurt. Whether the fire broke out or she inhaled fume. Yet he only cared about his house. I mean isn't that why there's insurance in the first place? For things like this to happen. It's really disgusting how he put the house over how his girlfriend was doing. I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:50 PM
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Only on Reddit will men gaslight the crap out of women and insult them 6 feet below and say "but I'm a nice guy, I'm trying to help you be a better woman for your man. He's right and you're wrong lmaoooo"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:43 PM
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Pedos are on a rise everywhere. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:03 PM
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Poor girl, almost sounds like he's her pimp or something. This is devastating to read. She sounds like a sex sl*ve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:53 PM
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Poor girl, almost sounds like he's her pimp or something. This is devastating to read. She sounds like a sex sl*ve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:53 PM
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Scrotes are the absolute worst. All they do is use you, take advantage of you, leave you and insult you on their way out. Like okay....but you weren't in the position you are now, when we first met. So women are "dumb", but scrotes are worthless without said "dumb". Exposed himself and doesn't even realize it lmaoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:28 PM
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And then he was blocked lmaooo. What a moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:03 PM
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When I hear this I just say "That's okay, date men then". No one is forcing you to date women. If you're so upset about our standards, go to space and live a happy life alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:43 PM
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Oooof this was actually me a few years ago. Damn, it's kind of hurts reading this. However, everything you wrote is 100% true and to the T. I know my best friend loved me a lot, but after 15 years she had to let our relationship go because I just wasn't leveling up the way she was. And I completely understand it now. I think people should avoid these people like the plague. There's no benefits to having pick me friends. It dims your light and stoops you down to their level, ruining any potential…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:08 PM
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I've been in this same spot. I was in love with a version I made up in my head about someone, that they were never going to fill. It hurt, but I had to let go. You hurt yourself more by staying with this person. I lost so much weight and (30 lbs in 3-4 months) and had severe depression. The thing is, he's comfortable how he is and sees this relationship. I honestly believe he will never change. You deserve better and there is someone better out there. That will shower you with the same energy yo…
/r/askFDS04/08/21 05:25 PM
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Lmao cus he wants you to be understanding, still see him and potentially give him sex, while knowing a relationship will mostly never happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:21 PM
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I wish she'd have pressed charges. She could have died. That's just a horrible thing to do to anyone, especially your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:46 AM
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I would have asked her right there and then "Why? What benefits do you think he'll bring into my life"? Kyle would die and go to heaven IF you ever paid attention to him lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:47 PM
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And all the scrotes were calling HER a leech. This woman has her own apartment and with the little money she has she was helping HIM. Ugh, I was so mad when I read that post. I hope she called the campus and was able to keep her apartment cus that man was trash! She was mom, servant and bangmaid for him all in one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:36 PM
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I usually open the door (don't have signs), and the moment they start with their pitch I slam the door. Sometimes I'm hoping they have a buddy with them so they can all go back and gossip that I'm the rude lady that slams doors in your face. They don't understand no and leave me alone, but they understand getting the door slammed in your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:55 PM
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Men will always be intimidated of intelligent women. It's why they always go for vulnerable women. Never and I mean never, explain yourself to a man. Keep furthering your education if it makes you happy. You're doing it for you and the right man will support you and your decisions. Education, in my eyes, is an excellent way of weeding out the scrotes. I will say though, because you're very young, please keep an eye out for the pervert grad professors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:10 PM
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We're talking about that clown Michael Che, right? Ladies please never date a comedian. They're absolute garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:25 PM
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THIS 100%!!!! I have struggled with this my whole life. And I'm grateful for the first time ever, I'm single and sticking to it. Staying in a relationship when you're unsatisfied just because you don't have "major red flags" to show and explain, is exhausting as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:01 PM
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I want to reiterate how true this part is: Lastly, and this is my personal opinion, but ladies, please try to refrain from men involved in any kind of drugs, any kind. All that comes from that lifestyle is dysfunction and lack of accountability. Besides, men are suceptible to paranoia A couple of years ago (before FDS) I met a man who would smoke weed. Now, I know a lot of people that smoke weed and it's pretty chill. Usually they would be very laid back. But right after the third month of talki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:39 PM
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You're right. But man you can't get worse than this guy. Going halves on his kids (the dude WANTED this kid) things and preferring they live in poverty than help the two of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:23 PM
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He honestly isn't even worth it. He's almost 40 only making 50k. Talk about being a loser. Maybe I'm too harsh, but women my age (not 40 yet) are already in the 60-70k. I hope she's in school and levels up and makes sure he can't ever be in the picture to bother her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:46 PM
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I remember that post. This scrote replied something along the lines of "I deserve someone better too then, who lives up to my standards. She knew what she was signing up for when we started dating." when someone said "she deserves better. Someone who will actually care about her". Like scrote you made 3x more than her. And she really tried providing for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:42 PM
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Same. And while you're getting help, said party will most likely not.
/r/askFDS26/07/21 02:50 PM
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General rule for thumb for me is: never date anyone with mental health issues. I did once, and when I dumped said person they were manipulative and gaslighted me into staying with them. They're already drowning and want you to either drown with them or take care of them. Most of the time, they also don't seek therapy unless you schedule the appointments and force them to go. I'm at a stage where I want someone to match my energy not disturb it. I'm done with trauma bond. It's hell trying to brea…
/r/askFDS26/07/21 02:50 PM
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"I have nowhere to go" No apology, nothing. Man didn't give a fxck at all, all he cared about was he didn't have a roof under his head anymore. Now he's on the phone with his momma probably dragging OP thru the mud how she's evil bleh bleh. 0.000000000001% he ever tells his mom he actually cheated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:31 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:42 AM
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Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:42 AM
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Caregiver is just as bad, they automatically think you’re going to do everything for them since you already do it at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:41 AM
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Please! Why was this so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he went home hungry and with blue balls 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:00 PM
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It's more about her label. She was also only 17 when this song came out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:29 PM
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I feel like artists aren't really in charge of what they write. It's more about what's popular and in demand. She's had some amazing songs, while this one not so much. I think it's more about her label pushing her to write certain things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:27 PM
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Lmaoooooooo! The amount of men you would offend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:28 PM
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Lol I love how he added the picture of the purse model, he did not want to mess up <3 And packaged it so nicely! This was beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:23 PM
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One time for giggles I dressed like a middle aged balding mechanic dude in HS. My mom was not impressed lmaooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:46 PM
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This is soooo cute! <3 I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:45 PM
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Or the cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:44 PM
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I love Halloween! I usually dress up like horror characters or silly child characters/ children shows with my son. I'm not down for sexualized costumes. It's distasteful to me. And I hate when girls say "it's only once a year we can dress s___y!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:43 PM
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The kink community sucks in so many ways. They deliberately hide abuse as "kink" and I cannot support that. Oh and if you disagree? "You're sex negative" "You've never experienced kink" "You haveeeeeee to be open minded"! No, I don't. Abuse is abuse and you can spot it from miles away! You can't help but love that it's a man teaching this class /s. Lmao no woman say this and went "Wow that sounds like a great idea!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:53 PM
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Scrotes with this mentality shouldn't have kids. Could you imagine every time they have to buy food. "Ugh, again"?! "Yes Todd, the kids need to be fed on a daily basis -_- "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:39 PM
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Sad how he's laughing about being late to his son's birthday. Yet he'll expect a Happy Fathers Day card/mug or gift from the little boy and he'll go online and talk about how he's the world's greatest day. How more men should be like him bleh bleh. Until BM gets fed up and doesn't force him to be with his son, then he'll play victim about how BM is a b____h for isolating him from seeing his son and how the courts are so unfair and always do whatever the mother wants. And now he has to pay child …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:05 PM
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That therapist needs to be FIRED!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:50 PM
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Is there any advice you would give him, that will help him? Yes, crawl under a rock and stay there Robin. No woman needs you to ever bother them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:47 PM
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He thinks it's cute she's growing up and oh you shouldn't have seen this. Ma'am he's fantasizing about that child and will probably try something in the future :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:28 PM
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Where I'm from literally no one uses turn signals. And people will literally get into accidents than let you get in front of them. Road rage is very real where I'm from, speeding is too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:36 PM
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I'm a recovering Pickmeisha too, who was in the same boat as you. I'm also 30! It gets better and congrats on realizing this and actively working to improve yourself <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:23 PM
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The fact that he's a comedian makes it even worse. Idk, you can't get more LVM than this dude. Sarcasm and mommy issues is never attractive. He's a child in a scrotes body waiting for his mother/significant other to take care of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:08 PM
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This is true. I had an ex who I'd visit my family on the weekends and since I wasn't at home to cook they'd literally sleep all weekend to not experience hunger. It was the weirdest thing ever. And it wasn't for lack of food, because the food I'd buy would just rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:39 PM
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Of course I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:12 PM
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Lmaooo this is too funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:51 PM
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When I tell you I'm laughing so hard at "this creature" lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:07 PM
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I feel like it's a given that he's probably an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:06 PM
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If he even finished. He probably put that to seem more attractive to women. I know a lot that lied about school when I used OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:05 PM
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Bahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:04 PM
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He's scraping to get whatever he can, honestly. I mean no woman in their right mind would swipe right. You're supposed to put your best pictures on OLD and if that's his best picture, imagine what "date night" outfit looks like. IF there's even a date night. Man is a complete slob, trying to trap anyone that has a little compassion for a divorced "heavy set" man with kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:03 PM
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That's what I thought! Man had the audacity to think he could match with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:00 PM
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The real question is,. can he even walk a theme park? He's "injured" so his potential gf will have to most likely push a wheelchair for him, while eating a turkey leg. Which is an insult to people that are actually disabled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:00 PM
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"Injured" = on disability, unemployed and loving it. Lmaooooooo Someone laid with this potato and had kids. Then he lists American Football. Shouldn't it be "Wacthing American Football"? We know he does no exercise.. Video games.......he's "injured" so he'll be playing video games while you fetch things for his kids... What's up with the stained shirt and he's balding... This scrote couldn't even take the time to shave, put on clean clothes and take a picture or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:58 PM
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Weren't women property to men back in the 1860s? Unless I'm mistaken they were dependent on man and weren't allowed to get divorces. Seems odd he'd still be single, if he was actually worth anything. Maybe he was off like the men on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:43 PM
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Did he expect her to beg him to get into a relationship? Sis was smart and on the right track! I also love that for her <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:26 PM
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I'm in my 30s, scrotes can date younger woman all day if they want. They can deal with your ED, balding, dad bod and God complex 😂 I'll live in the island of "less desirable" where there's endless opportunities of climbing the ladder, good friendships, pets and happiness of whatever I want to do and whenever. Idk who he's kidding, but he's looking like a whole fool 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:46 PM
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Stacey who? Stacey the lady who's on vacation right now and having divorce papers written up? Yeah, Stacey says she loves you too, soon-to-be-ex-husband. She's gonna love it more when she no longer has to be associated with you too. Scrotes are so dumb. They're literally missing special moments with their significant other to watch cars race. At least it's not like the other scrote who had a poster saying he was missing the birth of his first child. That one really pissed me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:13 PM
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When he says "You're so insecure" Thanks to FDS, if anyone tells me this, I'm cutting them off. That statement is so disgusting to me when someone uses it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:58 PM
1

Men will never stop being thirsty. I literally just had a guy tell me last week: A man sleeps with what he can get, while women sleep with who they want. He was trying to trash talk women, but honestly it back fired. It shows men with sleep with whatever is available to them. Women can hold out, live their lives and give themselves to someone when they choose too. I mean if men stop sleeping with women all together we still have toys and men wouldn't be able to reproduce. Women wouldn't really c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:57 PM
3

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:51 PM
8

Scrote should be embarrassed of himself, he can't even spell and sounds like a porn addict 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:57 PM
6

I start my new semester in Aug and I'm soooo ready for this! Congrats to that girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:44 PM
20

The way he talks to her is also extremely repulsive. Omg. Why is she still with this scrote...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:30 PM
21

Exactly! This is what I have always thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:44 PM
24

"A date is anywhere you want it to be". Of course a scrote said this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:39 PM
121

"BuT i'M a MaN, yOu HaVe To WoRsHiP mE AnD gIvE mE FrEe SeX" even if I can't provide anything for you /s This scrote definitely took advantage of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:05 PM
14

Man was a walking red flag. Glad you ditched him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:00 PM
73

Not one but FOUR. And then has the audacity to let her pay half of the bill. When all she had was a small pasta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:57 PM
83

Oh hell no, first of all she should have spoken up and asked for a receipt asking for only her stuff. She paid for half his food too!!!! A simple "Yes, we'll be paying separate please charge me only for xyz items, thank you". If not, I would have turned to this dude and said "Really? This is our second date and not only am I paying for my food, I'm also paying part of yours? Are you that broke you need help paying"? Glad she blocked and deleted. You know he went online with a sob story about how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:54 PM
31

I do the same, always. Men have too many creep vibes for my lonely self to be near them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:42 PM
2

You'll be a babysitter or playing the mother role for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:39 PM
135

Right?! Scrotes don't make sense EVER. And I was a dumb pickmeisha back then to realize that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:46 PM
178

Not on the same topic, but I found this interesting. I just had a conversation where a scrote said "Men sleep with who they can. Women sleep with who they want. That's why it's more impressive for a man to catch a body vs. a female to". Idk how they're proud about that. It's weird because they're actually saying we have standards, when they don't. But they don't even realize what they're saying lmao. Idk where the respect is there. They want us to act like xxxx, but then shame the women that do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:45 PM
503

I remember my ex once told me "I'm proud of you for not sleeping with me the first time we went out and we were drunk. I would have lost respect for you and not made you my girlfriend". This was almost 12 years ago and still pisses me off, how stupid I was to still have been like "ohhh he's sooo awesome"! Scrotes respect NO women. Not even their own mothers half the time -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:01 PM
5

I'd write a bad review on him on Google. Very disgusting behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:40 PM
20

The IT field sucks for women, I have friends who are women in this field. They are constantly ignored, put down and have their ideas stolen by fellow male supervisors/coworkers who will then turn around and act like it was their own idea. Or they'll look at you like you're crazy if you report any inappropriate or unprofessional behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:16 PM
97

Yup! And 9/10 none of these losers have never had a gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:15 PM
27

I know you're kicking yourself now, but I'm proud that you're out of that relationship! Could have taken you longer than 6 months to have realized that! Keep leveling up :) <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:17 PM
35

I love how she did that exit, spoke nothing but facts! I hate how scrotes are always saying woman talk a lot and are emotional etc. When in reality scrotes GOSSIP SO MUCH among themselves. And literally all they do is criticize and belittle women, as if they forgot that when they look in the mirror they look like the blobfish. Use that energy into self care and hygiene instead scrotes lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:14 PM
27

I'm going to save this and use this as a reply every time I see a scrote be nasty to a women, whether IRL or online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:57 PM
3

YES! This is so true. Yet they glorify themselves for no reason. I can't imagine how they treat their own mothers at this moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:59 PM
86

Same lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:48 PM
36

Omg yes! I saw this video and followed them! I love this couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:47 PM
30

Lmao he only apologized to save face for his wife's business, which it won't. He's an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:45 PM
116

601 comments of men all agreeing. I mean seriously, the blind lead the blind 100%. So glad in 2021, women are slowly starting to stay single and leveling up alone and happily. The sad part is, they can talk all the crap they want and belittle us, but they still need us at the end of the day to carry and take care of their kids. So at the end of the day, if they want to get "logical" the valueable individual here is women. But tell this to a man, and they'll just cry. Also, why does he literally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:37 PM
39

As a single mom, I agree with EVERYTHING you said. I just entered my 30's with a little one of my own, and I'll be honest I avoid single fathers like the plague. Not all of them suck, but the majority do. A lot are already trying to throw you in the mother role asap or talking about having children so soon into talking to them. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:39 PM
303

That is awesome. I hope he continues to show HV traits and their relationship keeps blossoming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:24 PM
1

It's all the erotic books women read. I like a little rough sex, don't get me wrong, but bruising and being treated like a piece of meat is not a turn on to me. And when women can't come up with reasons why they like it, that makes it scary to me. They aren't the ones in control of what goes on. It's the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:55 PM
49

I had this one dude put 35, and when we met up he asked what my age limit was. So I said 35-40 (I'm 30). Then I went on to say anything over was creepy. Tell me how this man was put off. Apparently he was 42, and he swears up and down he put 42 instead of 35. He said I made him feel like a perv. He ended the date short because I creeped him out. Yeah that's right, he said me lmao 😂 Glad your friend dodged a bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:40 PM
16

To be honest, Chase said right before they got on the show they had to sign a contract that dictated how everyone had to act. So everything was scripted and a lot of things that went behind scene weren't shown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:28 PM
50

They had to shower and groom before these pictures lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:07 PM
52

Don't forget the fat bellies and wrinkly skin. Some on OLD even have this weird fake ass tan or dyed hair like it makes them look younger or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:06 PM
65

Lmao these adds are such a LIEEEE! These male models look great compared to the ancient garbage you find on OLD. I did it for giggles and realized the bottom of the barrel surface OLD at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:03 PM
25

I used to love the "nerdy" guy until I realized they're just as bad or even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:31 PM
93

What the hell? He literally told her he'd have no hesitation in hitting her and her response was "Wow, he's my dream guy. Let's get married".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:35 PM
106

As a HUGE Enya fan, I super love this! Wonderful representation of goals <33333
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:21 PM
46

100% right Wish I would have known this years ago when I wasted YEARS on a NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:04 PM
37

We all know his wife has a vibrator that she uses. He's over here thinking he's the man when the joke is really on him lmao. Block and delete for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:14 PM
82

I like that word I'm going to use it with scrotes now. Reddit men are so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:03 PM
136

That was my first thought too. If she truly enjoyed doing that she would have done it with him too. She probably told him these things as things she needed to get it off her chest. And the fact that he's never been laid and he has had trouble with women is very telling. There's a reason he graduated a virgin. While other people in college were probably experiencing it. She needs to leave him asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:01 PM
61

Has he ever stopped and thought "damn maybe she was doing it for them and not herself" and that's why she shuts it down immediately.... All these loser comments probably have never even had a gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:57 PM
3

If a man came to pick me up in his car and forgot his wallet, I'd simply close the door and go back inside. I can just order take out and hang out in my comfy bed while watching Netflix. Not to mention, you're an irresponsible and reckless man for 1. driving without a license 2. not making sure you have your wallet. There's four things I check before I leave my house everyday. 1. My phone 2. My keys 3. My purse and 4. My son. Weird how men have the audacity to pull the "I left my wallet at home"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:24 PM
39

Wow, that's extremely sad and pathetic of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:16 PM
27

The fact that he's proud of this is sad. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:56 PM
30

Rare image of a scrote in its natural habitat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:59 PM
60

He told her he's not into her, it's not going to work and they want different things. He's only in it for the sex and apparently not into it that much anymore. She needs to move on. Being a divorced single mom is hard, but she's still settling for a piece of crap dude that never even thinks of her. She might as well not exist to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:02 AM
11

Congrats! I love seeing these kind of posts! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:38 PM
1

Congrats it's beautiful <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:26 PM
17

This was so embarrassing to read. I almost feel bad for her. Worst, that men themselves know she'll only attract bums with that mind set. I can't help but wonder how much money she wastes on each first date if she's actively on OLD. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:12 PM
36

I see it as the person they were more interested in, just became available, therefore they are now leaving you hanging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:42 PM
80

I was outraged by the verdict, but now I'm super pissed that the judge is a woman. Like what the fxck. How does it make sense?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:50 PM
82

What a shocker...we live in a world where rap*sts can be free, while actual victims have to suffer and jump through hoops for justice! It reminds me more and more of how it's a man's world 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:44 AM
5

Omg when my son is 18 I'll be 40. That's just creepy as hell. This kid is basically his daughter O.o He's super affectionate in public cus he wants to show off how he was able to bag such a "pretty young thing". Also two hours of foreplay, but no mention of endless orgasms? It's also creepy how he's down if she dominates him instead... This whole post screams fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:06 PM
4

You have to be an idiot to not do this away from your SO's computer. It's a test, any person with common sense would know that the microphone and camera would be on, just to supervise no cheating is done. I get why the girl didn't tell him, he has a brain. He could have come to this conclusion himself. What is she supposed to do, hold his hand and give him warnings each time she's about to do something important? And who the hell goes to the kitchen and drops their pants to clean themselves up. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:43 PM
81

People can't be serious though....he's literally saying how he wants to make her bleed and be in a lot of pain, or else he can barely get aroused. Like fine, I don't want it, but I'll do it and give you what you want so you get off my back. I mean sure he comes when it's "standard sex" but the way he writes it, it sounds like r*p*. Normal people get turned off when their significant other cries in bed....Like what if in his future relationships he's not satisfied...is he gonna go around picking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:55 PM
169

He should definitely talk to a therapist. I feel like this is how serial killers have acted. If you see certain serial killers acts you'll see they do degrading or violent sexual acts. I mean obviously I'm not calling him one, but there are similarities and he really needs help. This is scary as hell. And that edit is even scarier, are people making him think this is okay??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:31 PM
28

I wonder if people ever tell men that their balls are wrinkly and saggy as well, and that is why they cannot have s*x with them. This makes me so mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:14 PM
39

They have a 21 age gap. Nah, I think I'll judge away lmaooo. At this point, she could be your child, yuck. You know that, I know that, only she doesn't....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:52 PM
24

Man, you see this so much in the Hispanic communities it's actually disgusting as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:35 PM
3

I look at mom, dad and even the grandparents on both sides if they're still alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:34 PM
58

Some men are actually proud to be called scrotes lmao. I'm copying and pasting what an actual scrote wrote to me, I think it was yesterday: "Ma'am, I'll have you know that I may be a scrote but I am a High Value Scrote, uncommonly known as a HVS." "Scratch that, I'm the G.O.A.T Scrote, hence my high valueness! " I got it as a response to something that had nothing to do with men. He came on here, say my response to something here, found my last response to a different post on a different subredd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:11 PM
5

Lol no, but I will! It looks funny, thanks! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:40 PM
17

Lmao he should divorce his wife and get with this other lady. So when the new lady leaves him and he's left his wife, his scrote ass can live alone in his tiny new house. He's so disrespectful to everyone in the picture. Also weirdo things mentioned: -Said I love you five days after meeting her. -Married someone 5 years younger. Like sir, you were 23 and she was barely out of HS. And she was your first sexual experience? Was she the only women that looked past your possible creepo vibes? -He lit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:07 PM
229

I need his full name and a tour of his house. I'm not trying to waste my time with someone who still lives at home or is living a double life, no thanks. Or even someone who has a criminal background. Bonus: the state of his bedroom and bathroom. A bathroom and bedroom tell you a person's hygiene standards. Also, proof you own your own car and have a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:48 PM
4

Lmao all facts! I did this for a girlfriend years ago, and I had no idea how much work those little petals were. They're so beautiful though, it was worth cleaning the mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:52 PM
101

Honestly every scrote that has ever complained about FDS looks like this to me: old, balding, receding hairline, bad teeth/breath, days old stained clothes, days old stained under wears full of holes, unemployed, living in their mother's basement on a futon, addicted to fast food and video games. The only pro to them complaining is they do a fantastic job helping us weed them out <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:39 PM
11

So true! I look at the young girls with the producers taking pictures or their "work" relationship and it's so creepy and uncomfortable and looks so forced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:20 PM
4

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:17 PM
29

I love using this argument when scrotes talk about how there is no violence toward women, they instantly shut up. Like YOU know that you know, you just choose to either it until it's your kid in those shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:18 PM
34

Yes, most are unemployed and have lots of free time from when their video games are up dating or their mom's turn off the Wi-Fi. So they jump on their cellphones to bother us instead lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:48 PM
2

Yeah, it's pretty horrible. I have heard how guys use it and then I've heard women's experiences on it. I have heard of small successes from it, but it's pretty rare. I'm in Miami.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:10 PM
13

Tinder is commonly known as one night stand/casual sex app where I'm from. You match with someone, do the deed and get blocked the next day. I advise to never use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:40 PM
18

I'd also say not to use OkCupid. I've met quite the weirdos on there. All have high position jobs, but have ranged from racist to sexist. And the dudes that get right into sex talk. So I stopped using all dating apps a few months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:37 PM
5

This is awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:31 PM
1

What is her tik tok? Sorry, I didn't realize it showed it at the end lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:37 PM
280

They should do their wives and favor and divorce. So these queens can find HVM. My eyes literally got huge as I read this. These scrotes are so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:24 PM
17

The audacity of that monster! So glad you divorced him <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:36 PM
29

That is “long weekend in Mexico money with a spa day and good wine with girlfriends” money. I loved your comment, everything was true, but ma'am I loved this part especially <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:35 PM
14

Amen! Nothing but facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:32 PM
1

Yup, this is so true. That's why I deleted all my social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:16 PM
47

I think if you go into a certain field, they do background checks and this could or could not pop up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:04 PM
25

Not only that, but a lot of girls don't know proper Sex Ed and catch STDs/STIs (I don't know what terms are being used now). Some incurable and some curable, but now you've potentially ruined your dating life and any potential to have a normal family life IF you choose to want that. People see EASY money and run to it when they're young, but never sit back and think of the consequences. Things like this stick to you for a lifetime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:03 PM
305

Whenever I see these things I simply tell myself "FDS lives rent free in so many people's heads". Seriously how many times is our purpose going to fly over people's heads.... I know for a fact, people know what we stand for and refuse to acknowledge it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:59 PM
36

This man is a pedophile! He has so many accusations about it. And his music is super disgusting. Especially the one's about Aaliyah. RIP to that beautiful angel. I hope he rots in jail with all the people coming forward about him. It's mind blowing how many people knew about this and covered up for him throughout all these years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:29 PM
7

That sucks. My sister bought a house and she did the same. She used my son and I in that scenario. It's sad how you have to lie in order to get a cute house. She's single and got a cute little townhouse that is 3/2 with a cute backyard for her and her tiny dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:09 PM
108

"Age 40 looking for a women between the ages of 18-25 who will have our children asap"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:49 PM
66

Why couldn't he be direct about his age? This just gives me creep vibes. Also the fact that there is a possible 15-20 year gap. Yikes. Scrotes tell on themselves within the first few seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:35 PM
6

Sigh, this was me years ago in the same age gap, same situation, same everything. I wish I could tell her to run :( Unfortunately, you don't learn until you're too deep into issues. And the more you express concern the more you're throwing said girl (OP) to said scrote (husband).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:09 PM
17

someone DMed me asking how much a man should make for me to be interested in him... I love how that's all scrotes get out of these posts lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:05 PM
18

Did I read this right? If she leaves her career she can't get back into it? Nah sis, I wouldn't do this for a LDR boyfriend. In about 6 months she's going to look back and regret this. Nothing here is in her favor :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:20 PM
43

most comfortable high wasted black cotton undies. They aren't traditionally cute, but I love them so much! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:47 PM
7

Save money, focus on school, be okay being alone and been religious with applying sunscreen/eating healthier. I look young for my age, but knowing I could have looked younger makes me feel some type of way lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:27 PM
157

I was going to say the same. He's so freaking weird I also saw a screenshot, old yes, where he was saying how part of him wants to take a pretty girl out and wine and dine her but the other part wondered *a really sick and violent thought* (I don't think I can post it, without it being reported). It's really sick and disappointing. But you can google it. It makes me wonder why she would date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:29 PM
2

Same <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:03 PM
33

Who is mom? She needs FDS asap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:46 PM
12

Yeah, I feel like it would be under amateur or homemade porn. Scrotes are disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:33 PM
45

Don't even get me started on revenge porn AND FAKE revenge porn. Some men are so awful that they photoshop pictures of women on pornstars or pictures online so they can shame you. OMG YES THIS IS SO TRUE! Especially when you're super young and working in the restaurant life! Had a disgusting scrote at my first job as a waitress do something similar. He literally got some girl (same build, background, similar features as me) give him a blowjob which he recorded and then send it to everyone at our…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:31 PM
98

Unicorn hunters should be banned from dating apps. They're the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:25 PM
61

Yeah, I almost always tell people to dump their significant other. The stories on that subreddit are outrageous at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:03 PM
58

Right? When he probably paid for the latest iPhone/electronic for himself with no tantrums. Scrotes like this piss me off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:23 PM
84

Omg that's probably why I've had dental issues after my son :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:18 PM
27

The only guys I've ever encountered that were actually clean were gay men. The ones I knew took a lot of pride in being absolutely clean in every aspect of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:22 PM
53

Let's not forget they don't wash their bed sheets so they're rolling in that extra stench for 8 hours too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:19 PM
25

YES! Every dude should have one of these https://thebeardclub.com/products/pt45-trimmer-premium-kit-fathers-day-sale-50-off But they don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:16 PM
6

YES! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:40 PM
-26

I'm not gonna lie, Tom looks like crap. Bless his soul and I hope it's nothing terminal. But it's very telling how many women go into their older stages healthy and vibrant. He's probably a widower or entered this older stages alone and now regrets it. Either way #TeamJune although Aileen isn't wrong lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:22 PM
1

Yes ma'am, you're 100% right. My cousin married a very HVM and they've been together for about 12 years. So I know they exist. She, like a lot of us, went through a lot of garbage men before the two of them found each other ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:02 PM
77

Makes me wonder why they also treat daughters terribly and sons better. Lady you know the one you treat like dirt/ maid is the one coming to take care of you when you're old. (Hispanic culture).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:29 PM
9

You hit every point perfectly. I've been asked these questions by men on and off throughout the years. This is 100% true. If anything, extremely creepy how verbatim it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:15 PM
10

The saddest part here is she's super young, has multiple kids and relies on him financially. It's also extremely disgusting he called his friends over and started asking for rates. That is your wife, now your friends think BOTH of you are a joke. She needs to save up money, get a job and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:03 PM
26

Took the words right out of me. This! 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:49 PM
54

Jalen's personality became clear as soon as he introduced himself on Love Island USA. "I always like to think that I'm the person that stands out in the crowd," Jalen said. "I believe that I'm the sexiest person in every room I walk into." Jalen entered the reality TV show during the Casa Amor twist, when a brand new set of islanders arrive on the scene to attempt to seduce the main cast members away from their current partners. Now I'm like he's a scrote lmao. If this is Jalen. Someone else poi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:34 PM
51

Or you can pay and not touch :) Since some museums charge for admission lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:29 PM
6

Thank you for helping all the women in this subreddit! You will truly be missed <3 I'll look into the FDS discord. I have never used that app before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:30 PM
9

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:00 PM
23

Right? Like sir, you know exactly what you were doing. And so many men do this when women get amazing opportunities. It's pathetic and annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:13 PM
14

This is awesome! I'm happy for her and you guys :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:57 PM
9

OP, you need to leave him. You are not a failure, you are working to become a better version of yourself. He gets off on touching you in ways that remind you of your assault which is not okay. He also makes you feel bad about the verbal abuse you endure and is gaslighting you into labels that you do not fit. He is bad news. You need to leave and stop dating for a while so you can work on yourself and heal without any disruptions. I'm sorry you're going through this :( Also, if you can I'd go NC …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:50 PM
68

Reminds me of this morning I was listening to the radio and this guy named Frank said I don't want to date Latina women. Once they have kids they get big. I love pastellitos and empanadas, but doesn't mean I want to date them. The specifically said it about Mexican women too as well. So a girl called and said "Thanks to you, most of American women are lesbians now." Then another girl clapped back at Frank and said "Oh yeah, men are nice and fit when they get married. And then get fat and ugly af…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:16 PM
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I once had an ex say he made some girl cum 5 times in one night and when I came 0 times he said "maybe your parts don't work the same". Like what? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:13 PM
80

In my situation, I have a 10 year difference to the scrote I had a kid with. But honestly, depression, low self esteem, feeling like a failure cus I was the black sheep in my family. I ran with the first loser who made me feel "loved" and who's family could replace my crappy one. Even if in reality it was a DV situation. I left 8 years ago because I found out I was pregnant and wanted better for my little dude and now here I am on FDS, still single and trying to level up for him and I <3 I hope …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:32 PM
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Sadly 2. is very true and what is sadder is even if they have done things that are considered "criminal" other attorneys are scared to take the case on. Some will, but the majority of attorneys don't want to be "that attorney" that took a fellow colleague down (insert clown face).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:43 PM
9

This reminds me of a tik tok I saw yesterday. The girl captioned it "practicing how to answer cat calls" and it was a series of hisses, spitting, demonic screams, creepy smiles, stating she liked boobs and was gay etc. It was seen as funny, but sad that this is what we have to resort to in order for men to leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:39 PM
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THIS! I hate their excuses "oh we don't wanna get hurt by other men" blah blah. Oh so YOU don't want to get hurt even though YOU can actually fight back. So let's just let the woman in that particular situation get beat to d*ath or until she's black and blue with injuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:15 PM
84

Right? Like why is it so hard to think that male children can be caretakers as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:50 PM
62

Sexual energy is just energy. I agree with your statement and scrotes can steal our happy energy and replace it with their bad energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:34 PM
40

You and I both. I studied CJ and work in the law field and I steer clear from any dude in law enforcement or military. I can't even befriend them. I refuse to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:23 PM
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100% true. You can even see how disgusting their attitudes are when they are called to a DV situation. I really wish there were more female cops. I always advised against a cops or military men. Military men because of PTSD and STD risk. Crazy how many of them have STDs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:19 PM
5

Is HSV correct because I think it's way higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:04 PM
6

I had a guy tell me I was mentally ill once because I was into crystals and meditation. I found it funny, yet months later down the line he tried talking to me again. Sir, go wear your lucky socks and jersey and watch your sports team.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:15 PM
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Who's gonna tell him we didn't want him back then and definitely not in the future lmao. Keep digging your hole, scrote. Make sure you close it when you've dug deep enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:12 PM
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Sounds like scrote is obsessed with the sister (always keeping up with what she does) and mad at the same time that he could 1. never be on the same level as her 2. could never fck her-even if he weren't married to the sister 3. mad that the bf is better than him. You know OP's family has probably always thought this scrote was scum, but he definitely sealed his fate with those comments. OP needs to leave this dude asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:50 PM
6

OMG! I saw this, this morning and I literally was dumbfounded. If you look at her recent video she says "guys he read all the comments and cleaned the house because of you".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:40 PM
21

"Do some of the daring things that porn stars do". Scrote, you fail to realize these women are paid to do their job. Yes that's right, their job. And even then, they're coerced into it. They have to do these things in order to get paid. Scrotes also fail to realize porn stars need many breaks in between and are often left in excruciating pain. But yeah let's forget about our needs and boundaries so a scrote with an unwashed penis can get off. Scrotes we don't need you, you need US lmao. Also, if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:55 PM
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I also think they'd be isolated. No one wants to be a scrote by association lmao. They'd be in a little group complaining how they're being bullied with crocodile tears because no one wants to hang with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:46 PM
75

Yes ma'am lol. The ones who are HV don't argue about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:09 PM
27

Crap that's probably how I developed this cystic like acne last year. I never put 2 and 2 together. Makes complete sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:06 AM
14

Funny how as soon as his feelings were hurt he indeed called his mommy. Scrotes are so weird it's mind blowing at times lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:28 PM
2

Sp*rm is one, it gives you happy hormones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:17 PM
11

That sounds lovely! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:35 PM
28

I love how they always tell on themselves. I fell for this years ago and now I use this exact example in recognizing LVM. As soon as a scrote tells me this, blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:13 PM
33

To me public proposals scream insecure, sir are you scared she's gonna say no?! Or maybe I'm just odd and feel it should be an intimate moment alone or maybe with a few close friends/family IF you know that's what your partner wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:54 PM
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Right? They'll use any word, but the one word we associate with stopping pain, fear etc. Like who thinks banana as a safe word? I bet he's the one that came up with that word so it would be easier for him to do what he wanted to do. And have a guilty free conscious afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:33 PM
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Easy because then they'd be forced to stop. Banana isn't a word I use daily and my brain would automatically associate stop with pain. This scrote wanted to take advantage of her and then gaslight her afterwards, when he took it too far. I bet he's the one that came up with that safe word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:32 PM
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Wow "acknowledged that she could've stopped it with the safe word, but didn't" Well lets see...when someone is freaking out the last thing they're thinking of is their safe word. We're taught stop and no from a young age. Also, I'm on the fence and feel like she had no idea they were even roleplaying. Because why would she consciously forget their safe word? I bet he started off doing things like normal and pushed the boundaries without talking to her. He has a guilty conscience and he's come to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:28 PM
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"You seem expensive" yet they don't skip a beat to ask for gifts all the time. Or that doesn't stop them asking for a supermodel gf. She was smart! :) Boy bye lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:20 PM
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Lmao way too many. I've learned to roll my eyes and walk away while they're still talking, personal life and work wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:51 PM
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Man the more I talk to men I realize I'm okay with never getting married. No matter what, you're never enough. The poor aunt took care of him, gave him probably more than what he deserved and even then he was still ungrateful. Jokes on him, now he has to do stuff for himself because he's not meeting anyone like the aunt ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:55 PM
2

This is awesome!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:26 PM
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Oh, I wrote before she added that detail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:09 PM
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100% guarantee that girl has no idea they're in an open relationship. Once she does, she'll be out the door like you were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:09 PM
12

This is amazing! I'd look into getting a house though, you can make money on it. And that money will increase how much you can spend while traveling <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:49 PM
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Lmao this made me laugh cus I've never seen one in a dude's place. The one time I did, I asked the guy how often he changed it and he looked at me puzzled. And even worse he used it on his private area and THEN scrubbed his face with it. Which was immediately gross, I stopped talking to him shortly after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:00 PM
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I love this! I'd like to add: Also men that treat animals with respect. Has a nice length trimmed beard that is free of food and liquids. So many of them look absolutely disgusting. ​ In a few hours if not already, this post will be met with 1.) male lurkers joining the sub 2.) this being posted on other subs "LoOk At ThEsE uNrEaLiStIc StAnDaRdS" or 3.) OP getting DMs/redditcare messages. Instead of scrotes taking our suggestions and changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:56 PM
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Yup one plastic surgeon upped my friends boob size telling her she would have liked it a lot better and only knew only he had already cut in. Thankfully she did, but I was like wtf. You didn't consent to that. His reasoning...this new size would look better on your body frame....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:25 PM
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Plastic surgeons are LVM and oooof try to reject one! They go CRAZY! They're so used to women throwing themselves at them that if you reject them, they will harrass you until they can change your mind. Like they're gods and how dare you not want them. They take it to heart and don't stop unless you block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:23 PM
19

Hitting throat/poking eyes (yes I'm using a lighter term).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:44 PM
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To me it's hitting the throat/poking the eyes. Sure you can hit their groin area, but those two areas will put them down longer to me. If you see what she did he was still able to get up and if he really tried he could still wobble to her. It might even leave a permanent reminder not to mess with anyone, period. But her instant reaction was beautiful and he 100% deserved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:43 PM
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I resonate with this so hard! One of my last relationships made me look like this by the end of it. I was drained mentally, physically and emotionally. I love how the don't include the "you better look like this because if you get dressed up that means you're actively cheating" part. Literally you're expected to look like this and be cooped up in the house cleaning and cooking. It's disgusting as hell. And then when you see family you have to suck it all in and pretend that you have a great life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:21 PM
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Wait what?? He left for 18...she raised that child alone with no help and then found him online and SHE was the one that tried getting back with him. Why???? That's not a soul mate. He didn't care for her or that child. Man, who is she? She needs FDS so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:18 PM
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I hope she's working on her break up speech cus the scrote could not be anymore clearer on his responsibilities in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:08 PM
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Lmao at the "this could work". Scrote you're out of your mind >.< Look at him and those emojis like he's a teen age boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:39 PM
12

Omg this is 100% rape I'd have gone straight to the cops. They degraded, humiliated her and ignored her pleas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:49 PM
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I hope she dumped him asap. What a pathetic loser scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:25 PM
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Lmao I wish I could give you an award for this comment! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:56 PM
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Preach! My sister is in her 20s and did the same. 4 bedroom house with only a small dog. And she couldn't be any happier. Each room has a different purpose and she has peace within. Screw what people say. Live your best and happy life how YOU want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:30 PM
28

Or alcohol! Cus it messes with their BO and fluids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:21 PM
29

I think they have an addiction to the rejection they see on here. They can't live with it, but they also can't live without it. They lurk every few days for their weekly dose. It's very pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:30 PM
12

How rich he has an issue with her calling her father daddy when he's dating someone almost a decade younger. It screams porn addiction to me. There's nothing wrong with calling one's father, daddy, and if he'd act his age he'd realize that. He's just mad that term is reserved for her dad and not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:09 PM
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See if you can make a police report and if that area had cameras. What a pathetic scrote. I'm so sorry you had to experience something like this 🥺 a simple rejection and they act violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:31 PM
12

He sounds aggressive and controlling. Makes sense why he wants to be a cop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:21 PM
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35 and up. Basically past your fertility mark. You're automatically deemed unattractive. Which is stupid, but you know scrotes are dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:18 PM
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I looked it up. You're past fertility age. 35 and up so you're automatically unattractive to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:16 PM
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25 matches is more than the average scrote gets on OLD. Try having a personality and don't lead straight into the sex area and someone will respond 🤣 also what is a post wall woman? He's gonna die mad at being alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:15 PM
12

Lol we will love women like her. I'm sure he was laughing behind his screen when he said that statement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:04 AM
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And look who's in a dumpster fire now. Sigh. People give us so much crap when all we do, is try to help and build us and other women up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:22 PM
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I hate cops for this reason. And I feel bad for anyone in long term relationships with them, a lot of them are psycho. They all abuse power and cover up for each other. And they'll paint you as the crazy one. I warn all my friends not to date scrotes with this profession. I feel so bad for the OP of that story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:53 PM
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That last part is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:33 AM
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He "would have done it if you asked". I hate this more than anything. Scrote, stop playing stupid. Google if you don't get it. Read books, research or something. We aren't going to hold your hand on how to act like a high value men in a relationship. And if you can't, then simply rot away in your hole with a sex doll. Don't throw your burden on another human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:33 PM
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He's just mad he's assisting and he's not the actual surgeon. Makes his blood boil that a woman is actually in charge and he has to listen to what she says. Men are ALWAYS intimidated by women. Powerful women < scrotes. Easily influenced women > scrotes. Their mentally is funny. Their manhood/ego is so fragile when a woman surpasses them. Is there any way you can report him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:44 PM
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Why is he even in a relationship? The doll is his one true love he doesn't need an actual person. I hope she left him <3 She should probably invest in a dildo, she'd leave faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:01 PM
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He's so comfortable saying this because porn star women are hot with lots of curves while porn star men can be short, fat, old, balding etc. If men were held to the same standard they wouldn't judge so hard. She needs to leave him. Awful relationships as a first experience are the worse. They shape you into what you find acceptable or not :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:44 PM
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Let's also not forget that when you caught a cheater 9/10 he's done it before. You just happen to catch him because he was getting comfortable and sloppy. These scrotes have no remorse and are happy when they find vulnerable women that'll take them back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:08 PM
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I have a kid and I would never tell anyone that. You can see from others having kids if you want that or not lol. It's always miserable people that want you to live their lives too, so that they aren't the only ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:01 AM
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Scrotes always tell on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:19 AM
4

Everyone is babe, because that requires the scrote to not memorize names. She's not the only women he's talking to, especially if he's in college. Also the age gap sucks. You know she's most likely providing EVERYTHING in this "relationship".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:50 PM
4

What man nearing his 30's dates a kid barely out of high school -_- But women trap men with babies, right? Unbelievable. He's so lame he has to resort to dating teenagers and poking holes in condoms. Level up, mature, find someone your age and create a family the right way.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:47 PM
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Scrote, do every women out there a favor and stick them in hot tar already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:44 PM
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I read the whole thing and I'd never do that. If I was ghosted, I wouldn't waste another moment on that scrote. Block and delete. That post screams needing male validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:22 PM
17

I was going to say the same lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:47 PM
45

Scrotes really are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:44 PM
17

That Ben Affleck video was so gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:09 PM
22

Why is a 51 year scrote wanting to match with a 19 year old girl?! She's NineTEEN! Sure, she's of legal age but that's gross asf. I'm happy she put it out there. Nasty scrote he'd go younger if it wasn't illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:05 PM
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Scrote always say the same thing when they scream. It's like it's in their training manual. I'm glad he's in jail. He should stay there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:30 PM
32

I love this <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:02 PM
9

Her anger is very misdirected. She definitely needs to divorce this man. She deserves better. Also it's weird that she's your best friend and she's been with this dude for 5 years and you've never met him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:08 PM
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Lol similar experience here, men loveeee it in porn or if they can get their partner to do threesomes or they'll give you permission to date a woman on the side. Whattt???? Lol we don't need your permission for anything weirdo. But leave a scrote for a woman and they feel insecure. Or trash talk the women "sHe CaNt GiVe YoU wHaT i CaN....it's just plastic....wAs I nOt GoOd EnOuGh In Bed...etc".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:33 PM
2

She can do better. She waited four months for this...and she probably planned everything herself. He probably just picked it up. Also look at their paintings. They're not in sync.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:28 PM
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And I bet after she was feeling better or during her cry session he tried having sex with her as a "I'm taking care of you" method.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:23 PM
21

I hope his wife leaves him cus that's some next level scrote weirdo sh*t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:13 PM
65

And he's married!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:12 PM
25

Yeah I just said the same. It's the first thing I noticed. I feel bad for his wife when she sees this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:11 PM
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Am I blind or is this scrote married??? I feel bad for his wife and family because I'm sure this went viral. I also hope those girls weren't minors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:10 PM
8

Your mom is on point <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:06 PM
10

Fat: It's a compliment cus they know I wouldn't ever give them attention Scrotes on Reddit love to call me fat even though they've never seen me lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:20 PM
12

"Seriously?" "Are you not answering on purpose?" "Ok......" "Thanks for the advice 🙄" "lol" "What a clown Girl don't even respond. Block and delete. We don't deal with men who have temper tantrum over us being busy. That's just throwing immediate red flags. Categorize him as a LVM and put him where he belongs-the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:59 PM
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Leave this man behind. It's been 10 years and he has nothing to his name. He shouldn't be dating at all. He should be happy he has a roof over his head with you vs. his parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:56 PM
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I haven't been banned from any subs but whenever I comment on anything people immediately look at my past history and write "Oh We FoUnD tHe FdS mEmBeR!!" Like okay? Are you happy? Did that make your day lmaooo. It's a little funny how triggered people get by this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:52 PM
17

What a scrote. He has all this money saved and investments yet his gf had to work two jobs in order to secure a place for the BOTH of them. She's the breadwinner, the maid and his sex toy apparently. All he did was move in and leech off of her hard work. She's bought all the essentials and probably pays the entire rent. In any scenario he's her child. Gf needs to leave him as there's no pros to him being there. From her actions alone, she can afford it and can do just fine by herself. Independen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:14 PM
13

Probably because she's already wasted so much time on him and is scared to start over. It's probably all she knows at this point. I wish women would embrace the unknown and just leave :( It's scary but the huge weight off your shoulders is breath taking. She's slowly withering away and aging being with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:51 PM
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Don't forget all the scrotes who will DM you soon with "BuT nOt AlL mEn" I hope they use this scrote's fame and give him the max. punishment available. He could have just left the woman alone, let her raise the baby and be a deadbeat like so many scrotes do, but he thought this was a better option?? Now his career and family are ruined. And someone lost their life because he couldn't keep it in his pants and be faithful. Apparently it's better to be behind bars for the rest of his life....scrote…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:27 PM
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He not only cheated, but also proposed to one of them. Did they say no and that's why he chose to marry OP instead? If you're crying daily you should leave. That means you're worried he'd cheat again. That isn't a marriage at this point, it's more of a prison that reminds you of past actions daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:14 PM
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Manchild is the worse -_- I had an ex who lived at home (yess my pickmeisha days were brutal) who's mom would literally make his bed, wash his clothes AND cut up his food/ mix it for him. She had the audacity to say "when you move in with him you'll take over my responsibilities. (Hispanic background) Ma'am....no thanks. Left him years ago and to this day he's still single. Go figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:15 PM
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Lmaooo it literally says the first and only all women sub. Why'd you enter knowing you'd be banned you scrote weirdo. Make it make sense please. Then he goes and gives us free advertisement. I guess he thought his scrotes friends were going to coddle his ass and defend his honor lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:09 PM
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If he was mature and super understanding then he wouldn't be pressuring her. Also she should counter and ask for a MMF and for him to kiss a man. Let's see how fast he says no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:06 PM
8

Being a woman and not being into them. You're either deemed a lesbian, have no taste, or you probably suck anyways and helped them dodge a bullet lmaooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:57 PM
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"Men raping women is not as bad as men raping men. At least for women, both private parts align. Heck, some raped women even orgasm and fantasize about rape. But if you're a raped man, then every time you take a crap, you have to think about a penis in there. Also, you get some depression." From this point of view, men should be okay with it because their prostate in their ass. They probably orgasmed from it too. <----Their logic makes sense. But don't tell these scrotes this because they'll aut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:56 PM
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Lmaoo scrote you know damn well you were never going to propose. At the decade mark, you should be happy she was naive enough to have stuck around so long. Now you have to shave your pepper and salt untrimmed beard, shower, brush your teeth, clean your house etc. get back on OLD and try to find another naive woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:00 PM
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OP your crown looks wonderful! <3 Your hair and nails look cute too! We should normalize wearing crowns on a daily basis :D Also ignore those scrotes, they're just mad you wouldn't pay them attention ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:43 PM
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Dear lurking scrotes, we don't need you guys in order to have a nice dinner. We can treat ourselves and most likely, to an even better place than you were going to invite us too. I bet this scrote was going to take this woman or whoever he wanted to date to, a fast food/bar place and say it was a luxury place. This scrote is in his 40s and apparently will die mad. Also, call them women not girls. Creep. We're finally getting on the right path and leaving these losers where they belong, in the du…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:57 PM
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Lmaoo I love this. What's her username I want to follow her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:08 PM
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This is so smart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:34 PM
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I disagree with take him to your place. That's horrible advice. He can and will stalk you once you stop seeing him. And from experience, getting a PO can be hard or time consuming. If you do casual sex have him pay for a hotel and share your location with multiple friends. But honestly, casual sex isn't something any woman should do. The risk of getting hurt/murdered is way too high. It makes me think of serial kill*rs and how they lured young woman and did horrible things. (Maybe I'm too parano…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:33 PM
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I have heard this SO many times. The accuracy, I heard this on and off throughout my 20's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:17 PM
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I love how she called him trash too, without directly saying it. Because her ex had to suck if she dumped him. "Scrote, you're worse than my ex and I'm not settling for you" lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:50 PM
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Lmaoo this made me laugh :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:39 PM
11

And even with all this grossness, women still slept with these scrotes. I feel so bad for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:00 PM
36

A smelly dick screams untreated STD immediately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:56 PM
34

Omg how did she not end the date as soon as he took off his mask?!!! How did she even sleep the night if he was next to her...some people sleep with their mouths open. Ughh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:55 PM
305

That poor girl, gave some undeserving scrote an ego boost at her own expense. Scrotes aren't worth it. I literally tell all my girlfriends DO NOT EVER EVER EVER ask a man out. If he wants to, he'll ask himself. Most of these scrotes use the ego boost and bash whoever asked them out. Doesn't matter if she's super attractive or average. They're all being spoken about in a negative way. It's funny how they'll then complain how they've been OLD for a year or so. Scrote, you deserve it. Stay in the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:49 PM
51

I find it weird after spending so much on her (allegedly) he'd stoop down and ask her to buy a sandwich? You were doing so well (supposedly) and then you took off your mask....Sir you played yourself. And helped this girl dodged a huge bullet (you).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:41 PM
24

Or the doctors that refuse to tie your tubes saying you're still young...what if your child dies? Can you shut the hell up and just tie my tubes, my uterus/ovaries are not your business. I can adopt if need be it, dammit. And it's ALWAYS male doctors. Sir, are you going to financially be responsible for the children I'm avoiding in bringing into this world? No? Then do the procedure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:07 PM
75

It's annoying asf. I'm 5'1 and I get called itty bitty, fun size or yummy snack or they ask "how does the world look from down there" or "well at least you don't care about height since everyone is taller than you". Or some weird sexual phase that makes my skin crawl. Like could you be anymore disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:42 PM
24

I agree 100%! On a different note, it should be illegal to be this pretty! *nail polish emoji* <3 Men will never be on the same level as us in how much we invest in our looks, self respect, education etc. In a sea of scrotes, they all blend in perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:37 PM
23

is so true! Also how outside family gets treated and if he acts differently in front of you vs. when you two are alone. <-This last one erks me so much, especially in the Hispanic community. Scrotes can make their own food with you and then when they're around family they look at you crazy if you don't make their plate. Or they speak to you in a demeaning voice like they're the ones in charge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:28 PM
21

Amen! And then when you confront the scrote he'll say "it's just easier to go along with it, or he didn't want to start stuff with his friend, or that's just how they talk". Like sir...are you scared to stand up to him? Will he stop being your friend? Is this how you look good in front of so called "friends"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:19 PM
3

Management sucks. People fail to realize after ONE complaint, it's because it's already happened so many times that you can no longer ignore it. I swear this makes me so angry! I'd log in times and dates this disgusting scrote tries something on you. And honestly, if you can have pepper spray or something on hand and spray him if he gets disgusting again. Like would that open their eyes that he's a pest? Idk, correct me if I'm wrong, I don't want to give you advice that'll land you in legal issu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:55 PM
61

I'd say NTA, she was justified in her reaction. She's clearly leveling up this man and he repays her in talking crap behind her back. I bet anything when she walks out, he'll be begging for her to walk back into his life. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:33 PM
7

If it's so attractive why didn't he date her? Clearly it doesn't work. And who ever listens to this scrote will end up like that girl, humiliated and talked about online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:47 PM
35

It's easier to kick this scrote to the curb. Who gets mad for taking their child to daycare? She's worried the scrote will not be their for their kid, but wouldn't they at least get peace from this nightmare? She deserves to be loved and the child deserves to grow up happy and not seen as a burden. He also doesn't even bring in money so he's just dead weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:11 PM
112

Scrotes like this annoy me, they're so "frugal" yet the first to drop hundreds on shoes, car parts, clothes, electronics etc. It's definitely not about spending money, it's about showing us, women, that we aren't as worth it. Your post couldn't be more on point. I had a scrote once ask what sheets, pillows I had on my bed. (I sent a picture that had my bed on display). Once I told him...he magically just happened to order the same replica. Which was so odd. Because he spent at least a hundred or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:04 PM
28

To be honest, he has young kids and he's recently divorced....she's stepping into step mom mode and FAST!!! She's not going to see it coming until it's already happened. She should not be moving in with him any time soon. I can 100% guarantee that's one of the biggest reasons for him wanting her to move in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:59 PM
12

Get your life together and then date. Knowing him he'll even ask if he can "temporarily" move in. I'm mind blown he's more focused on trying to get laid than leveling up. What the actual hell?! What can you even offer a woman at this point?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:38 PM
82

He'll be in her DMs, after a few weeks begging for a second chance lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:32 PM
8

Where do they sell this? So I can start suggesting it to people lol? This is brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:06 PM
15

Beautifully said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:50 PM
107

Where I live, you see this ALL the time. It's so annoying as people would say, scrotes are so "thirsty" for any type of attention from a woman. Then they go to their scrote friends and brag. Scrote, sit down. No one gave you attention, you chased it and then made that one second glance into a glorious made up story about how women possibly can't resist you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:48 PM
2

Half of my family is from a third world country too, so I'm so sorry you have to deal with this :( I've never been in your situation, but I have seen family go through this with no help from the cops or government. My only advice for you is to get a guard dog or two (if you can) that'll at least scare him off into getting into your property. See if you can put bars on your front door and windows. You never know if he'll try to break the windows etc to get in. And buy a self defense weapon. A Taz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:10 PM
85

That is WILD, when I was younger and doing OLD heavily in my pick me days, I saw so many unsolicited crooked penis pictures. (Why do men still to this day think that's attractive????) I ALWAYS thought they were kind of odd looking. But now it makes complete sense. You know it's one thing to be porn addicted, but sooo porn addicted you're okay with mutilating your penis? Gosh.... No wonder they treat women like crap, they don't even care about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:55 PM
5

This is awesome! I love this #Sisterhoodforever! Wishing her the best on her new journey and wonderful karma to you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:47 PM
5

I'm saving this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:40 PM
23

Lmaooo! What a good way to start the day, drinking coffee and FDS humor <3333!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:20 PM
15

Ewww this scrote has become her child, honestly. He's complete dead weight. Does he even have a home/job? She needs to block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:52 PM
16

Nothing but facts were spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:57 PM
19

I remember once in elementary my teacher told me this when I had to pee. I saw that she had her shoes off to the corner so I walked right by them and peed. I looked at her and said "guess you should have been holding your shoes then". I got suspended, but no other teacher was an ass again. It was gross, but who the hell do you think you are to tell another person you can just hold your bodily fluids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:02 PM
39

Girls and women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:59 PM
2

He's gonna die angry and single. He's so worried about everyone else, but his own life lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:42 PM
21

It's sad a toy last longer and benefits women more. He looks like your typical white rapist college boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:09 PM
16

100%!! All that demanding and no money to pay for it. When are scrotes going to realize no one does anything for THEM! This scrote should grow out his hair, and sit down with a hot iron. Let's see how fast his tune changes when that hot iron touches his ear a couple of times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:12 PM
3

He has nothing better to do with his life than to criticize others, but watch someone match his energy? Full scrote tantrum. He probably doesn't even brush his teeth, sir no one wants to hear/smell all that hot breath nonsense. Please do a Patrick, and crawl under your rock. Where you belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:04 PM
23

I doubt he blew anyone's back. Women fake it so well it's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:00 PM
24

And being freaking therapists. By the time you divorce, if you do, women have made more than any profession on Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:53 PM
31

Women mature faster because society is always pressuring us. While no one pays attention to what scrotes do. It's why they'll never evolve. Society will always hold their hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:50 PM
10

I knew he cheated from how he was writing, no woman acts like that randomly. Interesting how he deleted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:10 PM
9

Lmao I can't deal with more scrote stupidity. Everyday, I grow a little less shocked by what comes out of scrotes' mouth. Whatever hole he came from, he can crawl back in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:02 PM
32

I did this once during my pickme days and never again. Wish I could take those hours back. I get if she had a cleaning video tik tok or something, but to date someone and do this or even a date?!!! Hell no. Bet she gave him a blowjob and everything after, for being a good boy and filming it. I'm so grateful for being introduced to FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:06 PM
36

100% true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:31 PM
19

Lmao at the fact he called this a relationship. Imagine if she was never even his gf, he was just her ride... and she was dating and found herself a boyfriend. Once she found a boyfriend she just never spoke to him again. So his imaginary relationship ended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:13 PM
22

Lmao I'm actually embarrassed, I didn't see the flair on it. Thank you for clarifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:00 PM
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Lmao what the hell does this even mean? Please tell me this person doesn't procreate. ​ Edit: I got defensive and read it wrong. Didn't see the flair said humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:32 PM
30

Throw the whole man out. Of course the girl is nice. She's sleeping with her man and can do whatever she wants as long as she's nice, so OP will go along with it. I honestly can't believe she's asking for advice. No one does this in a committed relationship. That girl probably goes home and laughs about OP to her friends. And who knows how many of his "friends" he's also sleeping with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:31 PM
19

What schools? This is a shame. As someone that put school on hold for a scrote, it was my BIGGEST regret. I hope someone knocks some sense into her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:27 PM
11

Not to mention longer like wayyyy longer lives :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:25 PM
4

Makes 100% sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:12 PM
43

They really do the bare minimum even when texting lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:04 PM
2

A lot of scrotes are going to get hurt for being dumb. Then they'll say "but it was a joke". I don't know who started this, but this is scary. Where I live it's busy with police, but I'll be staying home just in case. I hope they find whoever started this and charges them specifically for any crime done on the 24th.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:16 PM
2

Not sure it's a love song, but Try by Colbie Caillat. I love this song :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:09 PM
10

Beautifully written, and this can imply to those with mommy issues too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:07 PM
42

Right. Like please, how does that help you. Now all women think you're trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:58 PM
34

He can't form emotional bonds without sex? Scrote, no one wants you. If you can't have an emotional bond without intimacy you're not even a great partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:57 PM
104

I love when they use this line because they can't back it up afterwards they just get frustrated and change the subject lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:46 PM
52

Lmaooo I literally just wrote get your beauty sleep, you need it to these male lurkers. They're so worried about bugging us at night and fail to realize they should be the ones sleeping cus they look worn out from their daily BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:44 PM
123

I saw this and laughed. Scrotes, I promise you no woman is staying up at night waiting for your crusty old late night "wyd baby" or "thinking about you" texts. Get your beauty sleep, you need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:42 PM
5

Never tell anyone you live alone. No one at all. Even the closest people to you can let that slip to others. When you leave keep the outside light on. Or a light inside the house so it looks like there's another person inside. Leave shoes on the porch, man and women. (Maybe I'm extreme, I don't know). Get a ring doorbell. Get a deadbolt as well. Put a dog sign outside and maybe play videos with man voices and dog voices. So sickos don't try getting near your unit. IF you do become friends with n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:38 PM
70

So glad she left that loser. The audacity he treated her like this when she's a normal teenager like anyone else. Just because she grew up wealthy doesn't mean she gets to be used and treated like garbage. She's still a human being. My heart is sad she had to go through this so young because she seems pure with good intentions, but at least she'll never go through this again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:28 PM
39

How in the world does a shower get like this? Miss me with that. I bet his hygiene got "better" because of her and the whole house did a 180. If the shower looked like that, imagine the other parts of his house and his underwears. My girlfriend didn't wash my clothes so sometimes I reused my underwears a couple of times, but I sprayed it with Febreeze, so they're okay". Omg. This man has hands, there are Youtube views to teach you to clean, but nope it's the ex's fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:53 PM
8

Just talking about it or reading about it is enough and overwhelming, I don't feel comfortable watching it. It's like adults watching minor shit, that is illegal. You don't see that in the tv, right? No because it's wrong and disgusting. And you get punished for it. Rape scenes should be treated the same. How does this not sink into people's heads. Rape scenes are not necessarily and they don't benefit anyone, only sickos that are into it. It should never be used for entertainment ever. And then…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:24 PM
10

To be honest, that's sad as hell. Your advice was nice and truthful. It wasn't anything out of this world. It's something I'd say to anyone, man or woman. Or anything any decent person would say. I believe besides this particular sub, all subs are ran by men and since they can't be in our sub they take it out by banning us. So sad. Sorry we no longer want to be pickme's or controlled by what men want and neeeeeeeeeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:14 PM
23

I swear it's to intimidate women into giving them the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:43 PM
18

Be very careful though! Someone could try and sneak up behind you and do you harm :( There are literal psychos that walk among us everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:41 PM
38

It's always a lose-lose situation with scrotes. And it's disgusting how normalized it is. I wish scrotes would get arrested and charged for just using the word or anything remotely close to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:40 PM
25

Most likely the US. Scrotes are so disgusting and publicly too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:39 PM
34

I swear gay men are beautiful! <3 Wish straight men would look half this decent. Love this video. I just followed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:36 PM
17

That's so wrong! But scrotes are out here murdering and raping women and get less than ideal charges. What is wrong with this world. And cops are no better. Reminds me of Breonna Taylor. That will never sit well with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:31 PM
24

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:17 AM
97

Yeah, Lifetime (if anyone watched/watches it) taught me a lot and steered me away from any cops or high authority men with connections. It's extremely sad. They sweep that stuff under the rug to not ruin a cop's reputation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:22 PM
74

No regards for his child or wife, he just wants a "good reputation". But I'm just a gooooood guy!!!!!!! Not a monster that left his newborn and wife to fend for themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:29 PM
340

Wow a former detective/officer shot his wife and daughter. Of whom had a protective order against him because he sexually assaulted his daughter. What's worse is he had a monitor and they took it off because of "good conduct" -no violations done during this time. This is so disgusting :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:09 PM
61

Scrotes aren't complex at all. They see a woman, all they see is a hole and they want to have sex. It's like kids that see a shiny ball and want it. To be honest, that girl is probably NSA which is why she doesn't care that he has a girlfriend. She gets to keep all the perks. I bet she has a key and OP does not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:09 PM
10

"We should stop talking here, now is really not a good time for ME.” When you confront them on anything, they'd be like I don't wanna talk right now, I'm going to get mad. Oh really, sir? I'm sorry YOU'RE the one that's going to get mad -_- As if we're not already having this conversation because of something YOU did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:04 PM
2

Lmaoo tell me why I was thinking the same, all these scrotes must be unemployed with nothing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:41 PM
2

This is so true! Back in the day, I heard of a lady who gave personal info out and people actually used to call her work place and torment her. All this on a mom's group page...There are literal psychos out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:40 PM
1

Same!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:37 PM
1

Or worse, a scrote that lives in the basement of his mother's house who still serves and cuts his food for him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:37 PM
5

Lmao I actually replied once, like "nah I'm good, maybe check on whoever is concerned about me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:35 PM
82

Right??? And they'll be like omg you're so tight while forcing themselves on you; no scrote. It's called being dry as hell. Lube isn't a replacement at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:11 PM
6

He was already heading in his 30s and wanted to trap you. It's never about wanting kids. It's a way to have you in their life forever, or at least until they're 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:46 PM
17

Honestly, coffee dates equal therapy session to me. A lot of scrotes just complain or talk about their life, goals bleh bleh and barely listen to you. I wish I could send them an invoice for $80 like therapists do lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:41 PM
27

Let me take out the world's smallest violin and play it for him. Dear scrote, she gave you way more time than she should have. I'm glad she's finally leaving. He's only whining and giving his side of the story. Seems like she did 90% of everything in the relationship and know he's baffled she no longer wants him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:38 PM
16

HVM is a man that's into casual sex and getting what he demands-got it. A HVW is a woman that'll bend herself backwards to give into what a scrote wants. Plus she has to be fertile-got it. Kevin Samuels is really teaching this scrote the ways of life, it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:28 PM
3

There's a couple, I'd have to check to give you names. But I've seen my different user names saved under weird sites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:18 PM
5

It's so sad these are the measures we have to take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:16 PM
14

I bet he has a collection somewhere that he's proud of lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:44 PM
4

lmao! I needed this laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:44 PM
12

OMG I didn't even think of that. I can almost picture him wearing the same clothes multiple days. Going to a lake or river, washing it by hand with ONLY water and once it's dry he'll claim it's good as new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:43 PM
12

Reminds of men that'll cheat. You can uninstall at any time or even mute notifications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:27 PM
55

Lol his occupation is "unemployed" any and all money comes from the house he's renting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:25 PM
2

and they date to pump and dump as many women as possible. This is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:42 PM
5

You're not a pick me, you sound more like you're in an abusive relationship. Because of the anger, manipulative and not respecting sexual boundaries. I think you're scared now, but you'll realize once you settle how much peace you will have. I used to have codependency issues (seems like it) and once I was alone, I realized it was no longer scary. It's empowering. Also, realize that if someone truly loves you they would not treat you this way. You deserve more. Thinking of the good times is trau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:29 PM
95

Sadly, women are always the ones that help out no matter what. I've never seen a man get in between a fight unless they were 1. Drunk 2. It was family. Usually if something happens randomly or to a stranger, it's always a women that calls for help or tries to physically help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:25 PM
11

And hes still 100% cheating on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:37 PM
6

What a load of crap. Scrotes are going to take this one case vs. million of women getting attacked cases and cry how it's so unfair. News flash, scrotes, men do the same or even worse and walk or a very minimal charge! But yup, it's a dude hurt so it gets more publicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:01 PM
75

With his $5 flowers and deli sandwich, from what it seems. They aren't even a beautiful bouquet. But yeah he totally thought she was going to melt over it. Men are so scary. They treat women like property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:57 PM
2

It's disgusting but they refer to you as woman once you've had sex, consensual or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:00 PM
42

Hi! Single mom here by choice. It was easier to do it alone than stay with a LVM. My child doesn't have his dad in the picture, but he does have uncles and my dad in the picture. While it's not ideal to a lot of people, I don't agree with that "Father" thing. I have raised my child alone since birth with amazing friends, other awesome single mom friends, parents etc. I also have an amazing daycare that has become family as well. My son is as happy as can be. He's never once asked why he doesn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:10 PM
26

Most only see the word once and then use it all day. I'm sure none of them even know what it means themselves. They see one scrote use it and fall in line and copy it. I ignore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:56 PM
51

It's always the shitty one minute man that speaks to women like this lmaoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:54 PM
12

So glad she left him. The audacity he had to say that to her -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:49 PM
18

Or "placeholder". Scrotes are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:43 PM
8

I saw a tik tok where a guy was upset; he was like we're dogs so it's okay when we cheat. We might stray, but he always come back. We know where our home is. (Like wtf, don't normalize that!) But when women cheat it hurts. You guys find a better man, taller, more money, bigger equipment downstairs and you form an emotional connection with whatever man you find. That shit hurts our ego etc. It's funny even scrotes know there are ALWAYS better options out there for us. While they find the first th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:14 PM
8

Not to mention he's dating someone that is most likely only a decade or less older than his daughter. Like that's gross asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:06 PM
2

Lmaoo the King of Scrotes needs to gather up his scrotes and bring them back to Scrotesville. They've escaped and clearly don't know the way back home. That's why they've resorted to bothering us now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:00 PM
10

It's easier for them to think we're old, fat and worthless than what we really are. It'd keep them up at night having nightmares lmao. They probably mirror what they think we look like and feel insecure and inferior as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:58 PM
98

It's sad because she was most likely against it at first and then he conditioned her to think it was okay. Notice how he's the one that answered it and then asked her what she thought. You know she's home crying and waiting for him while he's out there openly cheating and most likely referring to it as "work".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:49 PM
87

First of all, that money is his. I doubt he's sharing "his hard earned money" or he might even put conditions if he does. Second of all, who the hell is happy about being in the front line of catching an STD on any given day?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:45 PM
242

It's because society has made it out that you need to have kid(s), a husband and house by your 30s because if not you're damaged goods. I see this all the time in Hispanic families, they'll literally try setting you up with garbage just so you aren't the oddball out. It's sickening. I currently have a best friend that's about to enter her 30s, has a high paying job, degrees up and down and her family looks at her as damaged goods because she's single. It's degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:42 PM
38

Or even in his car. Men love their car, he'd do it once and never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:23 PM
11

How does one get so hammered they piss the carpet? You're an adult, monitor your damn intake and leave when you have a buzz. This isn't a frat house omg! It's even more shameful, because I'm sure she's spoken to him about this MANY times and he rather have a smelly house with discolored carpet than let go of his frat days. She should lock the door with a dead bolt and let him sleep outside if she wants to keep enabling this shit behavior. That or finding a man that 1. values the house 2. wants t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:18 PM
9

They think so highly of themselves they think women go around calling them Kings, like we wait on hand and foot for them and bow before them 🤣they wish. You'd think even pickmes would call them that, but not even during that time did I call a man that. They're delusional lol. They call each other that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:32 PM
10

I'll be a skeleton in a chair by the time any of them ever answer that without whining, cursing and trying to change the conversation 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:28 PM
6

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:25 PM
22

They're just mad that everyday it gets a little harder for them to control us 🤣 More and more women are taking control of ourselves back. They date pickmes, but it's women on FDS they really want to date. We're just untouchable to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:23 PM
12

Lmaooo I love the wait what is this part. It's almost a song :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:42 PM
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Kevin Samuels is in his 50's dating a 29 IG model and has had failed marriages, he owes back child support, doesn't help his daughter financially in school, his daughter doesn't talk to him etc. Miss me with that LVM shit. If he's the example that men follow, then no wonder there's scrotes everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:41 PM
11

Lmaoooo omg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:59 PM
39

I agree, my son is 8 and knows how to aim. He knows if there's pee on the floor he's going back to clean it and in his words "that's gross". He tried getting away with it a couple of times, but saw that it didn't fly with me. Kids do it on purpose when they know there aren't consequences to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:56 PM
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Girl, same! But I worked in hospitality. Men's restrooms were DISGUSTING! Then I worked in sales and the men shared ONE bathroom. Tell me how I walked in once to replace soap and I couldn't have run faster. 20 grown ass men worked there and somehow one of them got shit on the walls and no one did anything about it!!! They kept going in and out like the sight nor smell bothered them. The girls locked their own bathroom and I left shortly after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:54 PM
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You wait until they finish their business, check and get them back in there. You hand them the cleaning supplies and make them clean the mess THEY did. If it's gross to them, imagine how it is for you. Parents aren't house maids and shouldn't be subject to deal with bodily fluids, unless you're actually sick. If she made her teenage kids get on their knees and scrub the ENTIRE bathroom until it was clean I bet they wouldn't do it again. It would be a once and done deal. Cleaning the bathroom suc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:48 PM
3

Girl, there are too many out here that don't have a bank account. I know it sounds crazy, but they're out there lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:43 PM
2

Yet she'll be single forever while she's built up hundreds of men, or building.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:41 PM
25

Lmao, not even a romantic picnic....packed lunch like a Lunchable on sand, since he most likely won't bring a beach towel. Because he expects his date to bring all the essentials -_- Also that background picture screams gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:38 PM
5

Same! 100% this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:23 PM
6

Lmaoo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:31 PM
5

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:30 PM
49

Omg lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:56 PM
20

Makes sense why this scrote is divorced. For his annivesarie with his ex, he probably got naked on the bed with a bow tie, like "hunny! Happy Anniversary come unwrap your gift" -_- yuck! Sucks for her, but men on those websites aren't there looking for someone to respect. Once you're paying or pretending to pay for sex, all manners fly out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:56 PM
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I can't with this comment lmaoo. This is the best thing I've read all day! I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:42 PM
17

Ugh, and women are the gold diggers -_- These scrotes should all go live in an island together. Maybe they'll learn life skills and how to get their own stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:15 PM
4

Yup, I was coming to comment on this. Richard Ramirez had so many women gushing over him. He even got married while incarnated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:00 PM
4

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:51 PM
12

I hate scrotes like this. Then they go on the internet "but I'm such a nice guy blah blah" Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:34 PM
28

Lmaoo now this is gold! I can see that loser saying that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:30 PM
20

It took him 49 years to realize that??? Has he never lived alone before? When you live alone you're forced to do your own stuff and then it's easy to transition to doing it with your partner. Sigh scrotes should take classes before getting married to at least learn how to do the basics and do 50/50. No one should be proud you finally did laundry that your wife couldn't because she was so busy -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:28 PM
0

100% this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:58 PM
16

I resonate with this, put my life on hold for some scrote yearssss ago. Abandoned school and for what? To have messed up credit, an unfinished degree and a kid in tow. While I helped them get a degree and level up. Can someone go back in time and punch my former pick me self -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:55 PM
13

Welcome <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:50 PM
42

Amen! I'm shocked he thinks anyone is going to listen to life advice from an unattractive, old and bald man. He's absolutely nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:15 PM
29

He didn't forget. You add it once in your phone to reoccur every year if you're that forgetful. I mean after 13 years, it should be an automatic thing. You don't forget your birthday right? That happens every year. Or what about your kids/parents birthdays? So how do you forget your anniversary...He just doesn't care. And it would seem like she's in charge of everything marriage wise if it's so easy for him to forget a special date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:45 PM
10

I follow the couple in the video, they're funny lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:36 PM
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He probably has a s*x doll under his bed that he takes out at night because he doesn't know how to hold a relationship. Sick scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:35 PM
18

Lmaoooo! OMG! This was too funny. So what are you stopped to do? Jump in bed with every scrote the same night you meet them in order to see how they really are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:32 PM
17

This screams "hey! Look at me I'm stupid *insert clown face* If you're emotionally compatible you'll be sexually compatible too. And yes, he's right you can learn to have good sex together. He's the type of scrote that says this to pressure women into having sex. It's okay to wait and if you aren't compatible then you work on it. It isn't that hard to learn what each other partner likes and how to achieve what one another likes and enjoys. I hope this scrote stays single. With his fake ass "whoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:30 PM
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Honestly, as morbid as this sounds. Women can surgically remove all their eggs and men could freeze all their sperm and get a vasectomy. I think that would also receive how much crap parents there are and unwanted kids. Sorry you had that experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:18 PM
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She isn't ugly, fat, old nor let herself go. Regardless of anything, people get cheated on. And it's nothing they did. Let's use Beyonce as an example. Men are gross and instead of working on things or leaving, they cheat. Her husband is a scrote and she needs to cut him off. She forgave him the first time and clearly it didn't work. And let's be real, his side piece probably isn't better than OP. She was just new and available. She needs to leave and focus on herself. Her mental health will get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:46 PM
14

Scrotes are disgusting. I wish they'd just order one of those sex dolls and leave women alone. 9/10 all they do is just bother women instead of providing any benefits. Also sex isn't a need, it's a want. Food and shelter is a need. Look at nuns and monks. They don't have sex and they're just fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:08 PM
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I wish, those mothers would go to prison and the people that raped them too. Even if their child was raped 10 years ago. Like how do you as a parent know this and cover it up? That's your freaking kid. A kid that went through a traumatic experience and probably cried for YOU and the very person that was supposed to protect them is like "it's okay baby, hush up it's important we keep the family together. Just suck it up". I am so sorry for your cousin, I hope she got therapy and is okay <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:02 PM
1

Lmao right when I was looking for mom groups 🤣 I'll never understand the FDS hate. You wanna be miserable? Okay. But don't hate others trying to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:31 PM
7

They will probably entertain it for a while, but lose interest after. "Men don't love women like you" says we are Queens, men like to chase not the other way around. Men weren't made to be chased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:25 PM
24

Lmao at your side note 🤣 they'll never get the hint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:16 PM
9

When was this? Did he text you that? Could it be he spilled you something? I'd see if I could do a report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:46 PM
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I'm single, so I can only say what I've seen or heard. I've seen this response a lot, and from men mind you, the answer is 1-2 years. After the two year mark they know. If they haven't proposed they won't, and if they do way later, a lot of the times it's because the women bring it up constantly. The only exception is if you're both in school, or are already building financial goals together and mutually come to an agreement that marriage should and can wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:24 AM
41

Omg those are so beautiful!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:19 AM
34

Okay, that's just messed up. Gas < someone's life. Who the hell would whine about what maybe $5-$10 gas that ensures the person you're interested in gets home safely. You have to be some type of evil to do that. Dating or not, this girl told you 1. Her neighborhood is unsafe 2. It's dark. It's called being a decent human being. Do these losers not think what if it were their mom or sister in their positions? I'm so baffled and disgusted by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:14 AM
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Check LinkedIn views, let your HR know and maybe even file a police report if you have a picture of this dude or even a full name. Maybe look up his number to show his actual name, since some lie about it. Don't let it scare you. Save all these messages as well. If anything, he should be scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:58 PM
25

I live in FL so many scrotes do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:53 PM
34

More like vultures. Dogs have more sense of loyalty than scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:53 PM
13

Lmao she did as he told her and when she left he was left shocked? Don't men do it all the time? And she's even paying MORE child support then needed. So she is taking care of him, just not physically. He just wants her back to trap her. I'm not one to usually be okay with a parent leaving their child, but he knew this beforehand and didn't care. Scrote you made your bed now lay in it. I only feel bad for the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:51 PM
41

Nooooo lmao that's awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:01 PM
2

Yes that's what I just told some other girl. Apparently she was on FDS, but we're too much for her since dates should be 50/50. I told her back in my Dad's day and age, that would NEVER happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:40 PM
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I've had people ask me for it and I simply say no. It's weird as hell. I strictly use it with friends. No giving out my FB or instagram either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:51 PM
2

I love this! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:19 PM
3

Me too. They must be unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:37 PM
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It's extremely pathetic. I deleted the post just so they wouldn't bother me anymore. But really you're so sad about having a micro penis you actually created a sub to roast FDS? Why are you even lurking on FDS lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:08 PM
5

This is the way! Drinking my coffee and laughing so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:03 PM
3

lmaooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:00 PM
3

Lmao I bet the scrote you ignored was mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:00 PM
3

This is true. Apparently my comments were screenshot over the place. Like, okay? Is this supposed to make me feel bad? NO! Let your scrote friends see them and cry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:59 PM
3

I have a guinea pig too! Gladly choose her any day over a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:58 PM
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Scrotes are the biggest hypocrites. You could literally spell it out for them and they'd look away like "NOT ME"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:57 PM
17

Ugh I remember guys doing this in high school. Like that's weird you're begging for hugs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:53 PM
3

I agree, we can all like different things. My thing is men are pigs and when women match their energy suddenly they act like victims. They will never understand WHY just omg women are evil. I'm tired of men and the way they think. It's exhausting and they don't even compliment us. WE still have to put up their slack in a lot of departments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:09 PM
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You're lying! Lmao these scrotes just find ways to lower the bar. Just when you think the bar can't get lower Scroteman (knock off superman) shows you just how lower it can get! It's like their super power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:59 AM
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The scrotes are watching my post....very telling. I just got a message saying this was hypocrisy and bad for wanting equality. Scrotes are obsessed with FDS 😳😳😳😳😳😳 Now I'm getting targeting because I've offended them all. Happy I found FDS. Has opened my eyes on scrotes and red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:50 AM
11

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:13 PM
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Right? Lol and I used that number because you know they'll ask to take you to chili's for that 2 for $20 lunch special which is $40 plus tax. But look at scrote outing himself that a women isn't even worth $35 dollars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:10 PM
13

Keep in mind she had barely been 18 for a full year, and this scrote was already tearing her apart physically. Bet he doesn't have the amount of awards she has currently, at his age! He's just upset as a women she's accomplished more in her short life than he has in all of his!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:27 PM
64

I hope he rots in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:15 PM
89

I bet if it was the opposite, he'd already have one foot out the door. But here she is trying to not feel guilty when men act like this 24/7. She isn't shallow, he should mirror her same efforts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:12 PM
41

This so much! And the fact that they get off to us starfishing is wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:08 PM
17

I love your untold answer! I bet these scrotes all hurdled together and passed their phone back and forth writing to us individually lol. I think I finally made it too. A few months ago I would have looked at my present self now, like I had three heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:01 PM
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It's telling how many dates he goes on lol. On a side note, you're the level I want to be on. My first relationship ever years ago I was taught by a scrote "50/50 means you care about US". Ugh wish I could get those years back lol. Glad I recently found this place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:58 PM
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Yup, and all women ask for is a decent dick size and oral sex. That's it. Whereas, they have 10+ different categories to look at. Men are the issue, women aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:49 PM
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100% this! Still waiting on the day, IF EVER, that a man tells another man, get a dick enlargement surgery or use a strap on if he's complaining about his partner. Woman are always expected to change, but nope we have to put up with EVERYTHING in order not to hurt a man's ego. It's mind blowing. I also love it how on other subs, scrotes actually scream "omg you sound like a FDS girl". Okay, is that a bad thing?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:44 PM
24

This is my approach too. I was a pickme for way too long. I'm done with these scrotes, publicly and professionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:40 PM
51

Their ego's are so fragile. It's like throwing a pebble to glass. They immediately shatter. And they have the audacity to say we aren't above them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:38 PM
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Amen! My comment wasn't even bad. He must have a small dick and bad at oral. If he can't fix one he can fix the other. But it seems like he rather be in denial and hate us instead lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:31 PM
21

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:24 PM
26

I'm so glad they got involved. I'm tired of men doing vile things to women. It's so freaking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:23 PM
47

Exactly he probably reads the other vile things men write and laughs, but once it's about them *pikachu face* I'm glad he's triggered. Maybe he'll think twice when acting his scrote ways or act like a scrote harder and stay single forever. His DM painted him as a miserable, single, middle aged, fat, balding scrote eating fast food and beer in his dirty unkept house lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:17 PM
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I agree. It's also sad they know they suck and are arguing with women who are on FDS. Like instead of complaining to me complain to your male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:11 PM
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I did and literally not 30 seconds later another scrote apparently read the post about the guy getting blocked after offering a coffee date to the girl that called him cheap and this is what he DM'ed me: ​ $60-70 on a first date isn't even expensive. Men spend HUNDREDS on a pair of shoes without batting an eye. And treat those things better than women! (This is my comment) So you expect this amount to be spent on you when the person doesnt even know you?wild you cant find a date (scrotes comment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:10 PM
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Lmao what a dumb argument. No one wants a small dick, women aren't like "oh yeah! That's what I want" and actively look for it while men/women are actually attracted to small boobs lol. Small or big they still get men excited, a small dick gets no women excited and if you have a small dick, your mouth game should be A1, don't go around trying to force women to sleep with you and THEN do a disservice with both things lol. (I think this is what he was referring to) On our discussion of small boob …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:04 PM
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$60-70 on a first date isn't even expensive. Men spend HUNDREDS on a pair of shoes without batting an eye. And treat those things better than women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:28 PM
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I'd call the cops, sounds like murder. I don't even care if I sound crazy. That's a no. You don't do that to someone you love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:32 PM
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To be honest? If they brag about it. I had this one guy years ago, laugh about how White men had a standard dick size of 4-5, right? He was like I'm Native American baby. So after hearing it for days (hadn't met up with him yet) I literally said okay, what is your dick size? Tell me, I don't want pictures tell me what your size is... *Que the mumbling...idk...never measured...women cum with me...yada yada. I blocked him. You're so high and mighty but when comforted you recoil? He probably had a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:30 PM
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I agree. BC isn't 100% anyways and it doesn't protect against STD. Any guy that hears birth control and thinks of going condomless; you should be scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:25 PM
2

I'm not even shocked, back in my 20s I once went to a guys house (older than me) and his bathroom should have played this soundtrack 24/7. I ran out and blocked him. I felt gross just stepping in. I almost offered to clean the bathroom, but I got chills and figured I couldn't stay there too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:42 PM
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I hope you do! As someone who was bi who became a lesbian, it has been amazing. No lousy sex anymore <3 This might get taken down, but women really do care about needs and communication through sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:37 PM
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Lmao what a dumb argument. No one wants a small dick, women aren't like "oh yeah! That's what I want" and actively look for it while men/women are actually attracted to small boobs lol. Small or big they still get men excited, a small dick gets no women excited and if you have a small dick, your mouth game should be A1, don't go around trying to force women to sleep with you and THEN do a disservice with both things lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:58 PM
4

Preach!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:27 PM
16

He has man boobs and a weird belly...like his body is disproportionate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:06 PM
77

Lol withholding sex is emotional abuse? It's not. Just like non consensual sex between spouses is seen as marital rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:58 PM
38

See that's what I thought! I'm a lesbian so I thought it was cool, and then everyone around me looked at me like I had 8 heads lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:43 PM
78

Wait til we can have kids without them, then they'll really be useless to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:06 PM
51

Lmao he wants a good bye, but then says gotta go? Buddy where are you going? Back inside a trash can? Like why do you think OP cares? You call her a fuckface cus she moved on....have some self respect. Embrace the silence, that is a goodbye...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:48 PM
27

I love it how it's been 6 months and this scrote is still thinking about you. Like serious God Complex right there. Trying to get under your skin when he's an old fart who was lucky to date someone 20 years younger than him and had a daughter....The audacity of these LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:45 PM
18

Haha I know that place! He's an idiot lmaoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:56 PM
7

He's an idiot. Shows he'd leave loved ones the second an obstacle appears. You dodged a bullet OP! And imagine that he has a daughter....Great example he's showing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:47 PM
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I did too! It's an amazing feeling. I'm doing the self love/self improvement journey and it's awesome looking at it as a reminder of what I want and will achieve :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:45 PM
11

So true, I got a lady at my office in her 50s on her 7th marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:19 PM
10

I'm the lanky IT non asshole gal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:43 AM
21

Dude he's asking someone else to ask her out for him? And he needs coaching in how to talk to a woman? He looks like he's 50-60! No wonder he's single. I googled him really quick and this is what showed up: His unkind behavior, bratty personality, and short stature made him one of the show's most controversial—and intriguing—cast members. Audiences loved to hate the brash, San Diego native, who was frequently rude to his girlfriend, Rose, and later had sexual assault accusations levied against h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:09 PM
16

I said the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:01 PM
27

Same. I have my child 24/7; and it's looked at as a threat. I'll take it, losers weed themselves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:01 PM
12

Does he have a booger in his nose omg lol. On a serious note, I'm a single mom to a SN kid and I've never looked for handouts or a replacement dad. Women are superheros. We can do it all and ALONE! Seems like he's only met LVW or his dad wasn't in the picture and he has deep rooted issues due to it. Also he seems like the type of dad to walk away and cry victim. Man needs therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:58 PM
23

That's super sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:37 PM
50

Post nut stupidity lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:33 PM
18

How much would this scrote even pay? (Ma'am I messed up my back help a guy out, you have the luxury of spending time with this fine man right here). This is so much cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:20 PM
108

Lmao the ending took me out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:13 PM
75

You know he was attracted to her at first, and then got pissed when she had standards so he quickly went down the "you're not even hot to me" route lmaoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:51 PM
24

This is so true, a lot of guys explain it like this when they've cheated on someone. Super sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:58 PM
64

Joking or not, that's degrading as hell. Like how can a man look you dead in the face and tell you that. He's so animalistic he made her bleed...That's a no for me. I'm not a toy. I'd look for someone who treated me with actual respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:45 PM
12

This is very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:04 PM
22

I was on OLD a few months ago, and found a jokester like him. He told me I was lucky to have matched with him, because he was going to be the best thing that came into my life. He got real defensive, when I didn't like his "jokes" (talking about people's color, sexuality or gender isn't funny) he ghosted me after I told him he was a moron at 49, and it was no wonder he was still single. And he did me a favor. And the kicker? He was in denial of liking men for the past two decades. Scrotes nowada…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:39 PM
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ME: girl, RUN! That's how I ruined my credit at that age. It's NOT worth it. When you leave, all you have is resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:06 PM
11

If you want to date or have a relationship. Then you should 1. have money 2. car 3. job 4. a house if not sir, use that hand God gave you or buy a flesh doll. It does the job for you and doesn't "talk back" like you guys wish we acted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:45 PM
37

This is why I don't tell men I'm gay. I tell women, but not men. They're just pigs -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:41 PM
6

Yet there's rapists, abusers and murderers still walking in the same area as us, and men STILL get paid more than us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:58 PM
3

If he that insecure he's jealous of a freaking cat? Does he not know animals can be emotional support etc? This is so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:56 PM
20

Righttt? And if she doesn't die, she can have lifelong disabilities. She's still developing and really young. Her crown has probably JUST closed, but God knows how many times she's bumped it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:41 PM
11

After the first time, I wouldn't trust him. They sell bouncers and playpens. She could put the baby there. But if you have to go to that extreme, then that's worrisome. Idk I wouldn't stay with him either. If you're incapable of taking care of your own child, dude I don't want to be with you. What benefits does she get from staying with this scrote? I hope it's not sex, cus I can suggest items that could give her the same or even better outcomes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:40 PM
24

That's an instant block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:17 PM
14

Lmaooo I love this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:15 PM
478

They got everything right, but the gender roles lmaoo. How convenient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:59 PM
165

She needs to dump him. There's a reason he's dating someone 11 years younger. Women his age aren't batting an eye at him. They're running in the opposite direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:17 PM
29

Thank you. It's sad that the first woman even suggests this. Like what world does she live in?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:52 PM
84

This was my saying all throughout my twenties. I wish I could get those years back -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:11 PM
18

I work with lawyers. If I saw one in that profession, it's a no for me. They suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:15 PM
18

The hilarious and sad part is, I'm on a couple of dating apps just for boredom. (Not meeting anyone or even talking, just reading their sad bios). And I promise you 95% of all bios have at least 3. of what you've listed. One dude I saw literally made himself sound like a God. If you want to laugh at how stupid and sad LVM are, download a dating app. They never cease to blow my mind with how scummy they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:12 PM
3

Imagine when he has to change a diaper, will he just fall over and die because the image is too great for his heart to take? ​ Like dude grow up. You see worse things on the internet/tv etc. Dudes like him shouldn't be able to procreate if they can't handle breast feeding or active birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:59 PM
60

I would never say yes to someone that doesn't have a well thought out proposal and ring, and this is coming from someone that doesn't want to marry anyone. Like how rude..just because your first wedding sucked doesn't mean you get to ruin her first experience to it. He sounds like he's been a crap partner since the begging. A HVM would want her experience to be the absolute best. And would love to show their love in front of both families. For her happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:53 PM
6

You can either throw it away or box it up and leave it outside your door for him to pick up and send a message stating what you have done. He wants to ghost you..he can pick up his trash or be okay with it disappearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:52 PM
79

Women are way too good sometimes; this is his karma and he should rot in a nursing home because HE left HER when he wasn't happy. But it's okay to ask the woman you abandoned to clean your shit and vomit? The audacity. He hurt her and expects the people he abandoned, to be the people that serve him until his dying breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:47 PM
4

I don't think this is a "boy mom" thing, more of a disgusting individual potentially raising a sexual predator and thinking everyone is wrong vs. her kid. And she's already set this in stone in her head so when it does happen, she's conditioned everyone to think it isn't her son. You need to take these text messages to court. And potentially have any visits outside of that house and one on one with dad only. I'm sorry your daughter has to go through that hell. Also, your ex has issues if he thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:42 PM
30

This resonates with me so much. It's like going to a cemetery and seeing the death of who you once were. I'm slowly and desperately trying to get that person back. Sucks what years of abuse does to someone. Mental abuse to me is worse than physical abuse (if there's no disabilities) because it takes YEARS to get back to a healthy place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:09 PM
4

Honestly, I don't know anything about it, but I've used the Lush 2 and it's been amazing. I've never used the wand models, because I feel like those are more intense. I'm a single mom as well. It's my only toy and I love it a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:02 PM
11

Am I dumb I didn't understand half of what he said? Dumb OLD. But it's funny how he went from you're pretty and I want something casual to...be lucky I even liked you lmaoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:11 PM
9

This was beautiful, I cried. I'm sorry for your losses but happy you met such an amazing human. I agree with this post 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:07 PM
9

Never heard truer words. Tinder, at least in my eyes, is full of STDS since it's for one night stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 07:33 PM
2

I'm 30, 5'1 I look at least 22. So no longer in the minor range. But dammit I got the nastiest compliments when I was younger. Like literally I was in my earlier 20s and OLD MEN (not kidding) in their late 40s-50-60 hitting on me like what the actual hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 07:31 PM
4

Can he not buy a toy and use his feet to get him off? The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 07:13 PM
0

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 06:39 PM
2

Being too bossy in what way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:17 PM
13

That dude was complete garbage. So glad he's an ex. Efffff that guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:24 PM
0

I did not blame her, I blamed her upbringing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:18 PM
30

Wish I would have known this, I kept my baby while I was pregnant. I wasn't ready for that. It's been forever now and I'm finally doing amazing, but I stopped going to school and had to get a protective order in order to leave a DV relationship years ago. I was in her exact position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:25 PM
9

This is so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:57 PM
43

I love how the media always blames us, but men research this for a LONG time before they ever execute their plans. They look for women's weakness. Men are extremely dangerous. As sexist as this sounds, it's never the woman's fault for when something happens to her. Unless she's completely naive, and even then it was her upbringing. Most of this men have mastered skills that masks where they have huge red flags :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:01 PM
105

An unmarried SAHM who's child isn't even biologically OP's. That's just three terrible things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:32 PM
37

If you have to ask, you know it's a red flag. I personally feel like foreplay is more intimate than penetration. It's also shows they cater to your needs vs. getting only what they want. A lot of women need foreplay in order to get in the mood or even achieve orgasm. A man that skips foreplay is not a worthy partner and it can even mirror how he would be with you in a relationship, whether emotionally or forgiving. Because he is not a giving man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:05 PM
21

Of course this is coming from a man lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:16 PM
23

Lmao to the "they don't even wash their ass". I laughed way harder than I should have, especially because it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:18 PM
36

But did she dump him??? I didn't read where it said my EX bf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:15 PM
-10

I'm saying this is an issue I see all around. I don't necessarily see it as women thinking girls are less valued or cared about. Because I know women that are dying to have mini me's. "I want a twin I can dress up with, braid hair with or bond with". I was just giving my personal opinion. To me parenting and wants are two different things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:18 PM
9

OMG! I'm so sorry you had to experience that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:02 PM
4

I'd recommend getting a sex toy- LUSH 2. It's better than a guy, seriously. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:36 PM
3

This is so sad. He should not date people. Imagine if his kids aren't red headed. He probably won't love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:12 PM
86

One day all women will be on the bees' level <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:18 PM
7

I wish I could put the clown emoji. The fact he thinks he's funny is just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:11 PM
2

This was painful to watch. I was a pickmeisha but never to this level; this is just embarrasing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:15 PM
47

This makes no sense lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:58 PM
2

Ugh this used to be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:58 PM
5

More like LVP, either woman or man could have offered their seats. That dude clearly saw what was going on and chose not to give up his seat though. That's disgusting. Let's hope he doesn't procreate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:57 PM
53

Proud single mom to a little boy who is a huge momma's boy, and idk if it's because he's special needs or not, but I definitely don't treat him how these women typically do. One of my ex's mom was like that and welp dude is 33 and still can't wash his clothes and cuts up his food to eat. Idk how mom's aren't embarrassed of their sons when they turn out to be turds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:31 PM
28

Since joining, I've dropped sooo many LVM and I'm finally learning to love myself. I'm slowly starting to build my confidence :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:15 PM
3

What did I just read O.o ??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:55 PM
7

Knowing that men are animals that pee all over the toilet, abuse women, are sleazy balls, are just fine piggyback riding off a women, are porn addicted, have skid mark underwears, have poor hygiene and can't keep up a house or feed themselves would turn me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:51 PM
7

I follow her and all she says is truth. I've never understood women that act like this either. They just make us look bad and stupid. Like girl, there's so many men out there, why are you going to stay with the one that constantly makes you look like a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:28 PM
32

There is never a justifiable excuse to cheat; period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:15 PM
55

His insecurities stink, poor girl. She's literally amazing and he's going to dump her and make her think she was the issue -_- he needs to go back to the dumpster he crawled out of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:18 PM
9

Sounds like her man is cheating and she was raised to be a doormat and take care of the house and kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:05 PM
7

A trait that was learned by their father most likely, especially if mom was a SAHM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:43 PM
8

Right here! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:17 PM
3

I actually had a dude wait a whole year..he was still a LVM but this dude is dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:05 PM
10

I love this! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:18 PM
2

I texted a dude from OLD "hey can we see each other, I'd like to talk about something". He immediately went into panic mode and ghosted me. In my head I was like welp, it wasn't anything bad, but thanks for seeing yourself out of my life lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:39 PM
26

Men don't have the same emotional or mental capacity that women do. We're just superior lol :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:41 PM
4

He's probably an absent father, has no respect for women, \financially insecure since he can't hire a cook and too lazy to learn to to cook since that's a "women's job". Also he's old and still frequenting bars and can't even take a decent picture or trim his facial hair. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:06 PM
6

Where did they goo...Mcdonalds? $35 for 3 dates; thank god she left him -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:55 PM
33

Not to mention, you can be amazing as sex, but if you do not offer anything else a man will leave you anyways. Amazing pussy is only good for so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:10 PM
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