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| 15 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.Also a solid possibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 169 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.I think they were both vehemently childfree and John is just pretending to be happy about the fallout from bare backing a woman he barely knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 33 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.These dumb fuck scrotes really think they have a monopoly on rage. Come get some, you gray meat motherfuckers. I'll be picking your flesh from betwixt my teeth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:49 PM |
| 42 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.THIS THIS THIS. Forgiveness is ONE mechanism of healing. It definitely works for some people, and brings them inner peace. This may or may not be you. If your practitioner doesn't hear you when you say "I don't think forgiveness is going to give me much peace, here"? FIND A NEW THERAPIST. There are certain techniques that I question highly and that's one of them (though, again, it really really does work for some). This, and the idea that one can "re-parent" oneself. I went off in class one time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 12:44 PM |
| 39 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.As a hopeful future therapist FUCK THAT BITCH When I open up my own practice I swear to god I'm going to have to work REALLY hard not to turn it into a center for trainee vigilantes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 12:40 PM |
| 37 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.As a therapy student, it's vile what I've heard alleged therapists say. Not in my program, but online, reported by patients, etc. Vet therapists JUST as hard as partners, y'all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Reading those reviews got me closer to murder than I've ever been. And I've been close quite a few times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:02 PM |
| 165 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Honestly I thought legalization was the way until I saw stats that showed that, where sex work is legalized, trafficking increases. Always. I don't know how to mitigate that risk, and I don't think we can. I no longer think sex work can safely be legalized. Especially in a world where men can leave *comments* on the performance of individual sex workers, e.g. "she doesn't do anal, don't bother". So now she has to start doing anal to improve her ratings. I wish I was wrong. I've seen compilations… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:27 PM |
| 17 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyWere one or both of your parents withholding with affection? Did they make rewards/love/etc. contingent upon certain conditions? Were they hot/cold, inconsistent, confusing with their attention and love toward you? Did they fight a lot? Were you constantly on edge for one reason or another, always having to be tuned in to your parents' emotions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 7 | woman calmly dumps and kicks out cheating bf (as she should)I can't imagine being THAT big a piece of shit that I'd squat my ass in somebody else's house even though I know I'm not welcome. I'm so sorry that clown did that to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:53 PM |
| 46 | "Under the skin of OnlyFans"--BBCinvestigation reveals that the abuse goes deeper than we knewThe average OnlyFans user earns ~$180 per month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:27 PM |
| 21 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...One day my husband took the phone off him and told the other lady he’s married and cheating with her lol. Your husband is a badass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 23 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...To the extent that dv is the ultimate form of toxic masculinity, many apparently display a thing called "masked dependency," where they feel such catastrophic shame for infantile dependence on an intimate partner that they begin to irrationally hate the partner for having (unwittingly) "unmanned" the ab.user. Bruh, you kind of changed my life, here. I have to imagine it's hard to play KiNg Of ThE cAsTlE when you don't even know how to load your own fucking dishwasher. God, this country is a mess… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:32 PM |
| 58 | Need a "Feminism is for Women" flair and a "Fu*k his feelings" flairKnew a guy at work who threw his phone against the wall in his office in a fit of temper. We all heard it because it was loud as hell, just didn't know what it was until after the fact. This was WELL pre-pandemic, everything was relatively normal then. Literally nothing happened to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:11 PM |
| 91 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsI'm not having kids, but if I ever had a kid with a vagina I'd say "Listen, you can fuck the dick havers if you want, but here's what's going to happen: you're not going to come, he will, and there's a chance you'll get pregnant without even having the fucking orgasm to make up for it. I will buy you any kind of high end sex toys you want, so why don't you spend the next 5-10 years focusing on YOURSELF and what you like sexually so you can one day convey that information to your partner? You can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 23 | Be careful around your friends’ boyfriends/husbands. Vet them & NEVER get too comfortable, no matter what.If it matters, I'm proud of you and glad you told the truth. It's absolutely disgusting that it made your life worse, that's fucking unacceptable. But these slugs only survive because nobody turns their slimy rocks over to let the sun shine on their bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 6 | I will no longer be the only one who doesn't get an orgasm...::Pokes gf in the eye:: "Did you come, babe" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:00 PM |
| 87 | I am absolutely speechless. Tl;dr, if he can’t have sex with her after a surgery, she will not be allowed to use her cup/tampons. This is straight up abuse.Turn his truck into a fucking Pollock painting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 30 | Just for laughs ladies.Had us in the first half, not gonna lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:36 PM |
| 114 | This tweet speaks truths BUT FDS is here to stop women from choosing LVM to have kids with........how can they say that kind of shit out loud and not realize how disgusting it is I shouldn't be surprised but it keeps on happening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 08:39 PM |
| 11 | "there's a darkness inside me""Darkness inside me" sounds cool and brooding and a lot better than "I seek out upskirt pictures of underage girls on purpose". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Update: reining in the subWoof, nevermind, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Update: reining in the sub.......well now I wanna know about the nest guy and the snail guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:30 PM |
| 6 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADCan I support the sex worker and not the sex work? Is that a thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 6 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADIf I had gold I'd give it to ya <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:35 PM |
| 17 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADUh oh. OG pickmeisha just posted a response video: "Calling every girl you see a pick me doesn't make you less of one" Then all these UwU gestures. Sigh. Honestly, I'm having a hard time with the "radfem" aspect of all of this. It feels like I'm kicking these girls when they're down. I used to be pro-sex-work and am now anti-sex-work, but I have a lot of sex worker friends so now I feel like I'm betraying them somehow. I just want to support women in the best way possible :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:22 PM |
| 23 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 AD::Scrambles into frame with a notebook:: 'Scuse me I'ma need a name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 398 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her."gen z are roasting him to the moon and back" I know the internet can be a hellscape but then I read things like this and realize how badly we need it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 78 | Thanks to FDS, this young adult isn't afraid of ageing anymore! 💕👸🏻Dude seriously, DO NOT FEAR YOUR 30S. I loooooove love love my 30s. You're gonna have a blast, I promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:27 PM |
| 87 | Thanks to FDS, this young adult isn't afraid of ageing anymore! 💕👸🏻You guys 30+ is SO. FUN. It's basically your 20s but with money and every year you give fewer and fewer fucks what anyone else thinks. Nobody should dread their 30s. IT'S THE BEST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.I feel like a lot of people just don't want kids and are afraid to say just that because people are so annoying about it. The pressure to have kids is intense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 12 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.How the hell is that selfish? You want to make sure your kids have a good life. That's the opposite of selfish. I'm sorry the world is so fucked and that you can't have the life you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceI appreciate you back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 84 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceDan Savage's husband (his name is escaping me at the moment, sorry) had THE best comeback for this: "Honey, if I was a gold digger, I would go for a guy with a lot more gold." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:17 PM |
| 30 | Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanks'how can I compete with that' If you can't compete with a vibrating hunk of metal and plastic then MY GOD ARE YOU SHIT IN BED, WOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:35 PM |
| 47 | Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanksSounds like a situation only a knife can solve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:34 PM |
| 59 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️...... Please excuse me I'm gonna go do a murder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 38 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️Please tell me that's not a real post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼I mean the gondolas don't even have ESPN, so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼But he could use your spry young fingers to pull grass clumps out of the joints on his walker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 83 | “You seem expensive”You know, natural! Like Kim Kardashian! Natural usually = nude palettes and undetectable, perfect contouring. All slapped over a perfectly toned gym body, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 120 | “You seem expensive”She's gotta be NaTuRaL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 32 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".Sure thing! HV behavior is being proactive in relationships with those who've experienced trauma <3 Among other not-being-a-piece-of-shit things, of course :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 78 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".Open phone policy was how my relationship started (and still is. I'm a woman, if that matters). Before they met me, my wife got cheated on a bunch, so I just gave them the pass code to my phone and they've had it ever since. I would also make sure every now and again that when I got a text notification and my hands were busy I'd ask my wife to see who it was/read it out to me. That way, it was easy for them to see that I didn't give a fuck about my phone because I have nothing to hide. The only … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:37 AM |
| 44 | If your spouse watches you suffer, then they don't care about you.What the fuck I'd have trouble doing that to a stranger. I'm so sorry. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 49 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsGoddamnit, they're making a good point but the wrong damn way. "Evolution" doesn't have fuck all to do with it. It's men's THINKING. It's ALWAYS their thinking. And that thinking has been influenced by hundreds of societal factors that contribute to that mindset: overly doting daddies/mommies who never discipline them, society at large letting men get away with everything, every dad on TV looking like Kevin James and every TV mom looking like Sofia Vergara. I've seen several articles and posts b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 05:19 PM |
| 5 | ALWAYS leave if you ever experience any of these 'red flags'. They are predictors of future violent behaviour and are behaviours that have been precursors to fatal DV.Sorry, I didn't mean to imply that you didn't know! I spam that info whenever it's remotely relevant for the lurkers. Apologies for the confusion/condescension! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:02 PM |
| 50 | ALWAYS leave if you ever experience any of these 'red flags'. They are predictors of future violent behaviour and are behaviours that have been precursors to fatal DV.Not surprised but jumping in on this PURELY to say: MEN ARE NOT VIOLENT BECAUSE THEY DRINK. THEY ARE VIOLENT BECAUSE THEY ARE VIOLENT. They may use the booze as an excuse (and it's almost a guarantee that they will, since that's an external habit that can be stopped and they'd rather blame that than actually change), but when it comes down to it, if alcohol never existed? He'd still hit you. Mandatory reading for every single woman on the planet: Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft. It explai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:16 PM |
| 9 | Never again!!!"Oh thank god" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | But - but younger women love older men! /sThank you/gross! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 06:58 PM |
| 36 | But - but younger women love older men! /sI don't know this phrase, what does "post wall" mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 89 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthMy aesthetician told me men age worse because their facial muscles are stronger therefore they wrinkle faster, so that's not even true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:26 PM |
| 38 | Men are out of their minds desperate for any attentionWHAT NO THE DISRESPECT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:01 PM |
| 8 | This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys.I'm sorry you get shit for raising your kids in a healthy environment. That's bullshit. Saw it happen to so many close relatives of mine. I'm so glad I'm gay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 35 | You did the right thing! ✨👑I'm SO proud of you. You deserve to be treated well in every single aspect of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 52 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath."Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft. Changed my life. He's a therapist who opened one of the first clinics in the country that counsels abusive men. That book should be required reading for women starting in high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.As a turkey prep nerd, I can :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 46 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.And they fuckin didn't invent everything anyway. There are so many uncredited wives/girlfriends/assistants whose ideas were stolen by their egotistical male partners that we'll never, ever know all of their names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 19 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.This warms my heart <3 If he's not already aware, tell him to check out dry brining. My turkey was SO good last year and it's a lot easier than a wet brine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 18 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenOh man I really want to see this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 116 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.I'm so sorry he treats you that way. You deserve better. WAY, way fucking better. Please make a plan and let loved ones you trust know what you are doing, and enlist their help if you can. PLEASE STAY SAFE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 7 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖That's a lot of words for "Dump me and dump me hard" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 12 | Words of advice to the Poly-debate. You aren't "radical" or "non-conformative" you are literally enforcing stereotypes as old as time. You are a HUGE part of the patriarchy. Charles Manson, other cult leaders and sultans etc all had harems of women, you are no different. We aren't buying your lies.Holy god, I'm a poly woman in a mono relationship and I laughed my absolute tits off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 48 | Tradwives think people are triggered by them because they’re jealous, rather than crippling anxiety that they may be making decisions that could devastate themselves and their childrenSCROTACUS whoever you are for president 2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 43 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.There are some people that are perfectly healthy in body and mind who make other's lives utter hell on purpose. I'm sure anyone would be lucky to have you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:07 PM |
| 14 | How men rationalize their attraction to 15 year oldsI have trouble not seeing *21-year-olds* as children so I don't know how tf anybody can look at a 15yo with anything close to lust. It makes me nauseous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:12 PM |
| 36 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.GOOD. He can get his fucking ass in the kitchen and do the same for her for the equivalent number of years she's done it for him. How anyone can be that spoiled and ungrateful and not feel deep fucking shame I will never know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:12 PM |
| 44 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.If you ever have a chance to stick up for your rights or help fellow sisters at home or abroad, do it. Fuck yeah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 07:00 PM |
| 181 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.No one has a right to a girlfriend or a wife as we have been told up until VERY recently in human history (and still so in a lot of countries). This is one of the biggest catalysts (besides the invention of the internet) for this recent uptick in conservative chicanery and the worldwide issue of turning more towards dictatorships and authoritarianism. Boomer men are losing privileges they once had (e.g. you can rape your wife without consequences as long as you don't kill her, men will always ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:25 PM |
| 7 | You can never convince a man to love youJesus Christ, I didn't know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:10 PM |
| 70 | You can never convince a man to love youHalle Berry got cheated on. Halle Berry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 12:34 AM |
| 16 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorHave you disclosed your sexuality to him? Some people might think this is fucked up, but you could "let it slip" that you're a lesbian. I am a lesbian, if that matters. Anything you gotta do to get that fucker to back off. Also: anything that makes you uncomfortable is HR-worthy. You could start making records now to the tune of, "Hey, I just want to get this on paper. Mentor said X, Y, and Z, and his tone/gaze/eyes raking my blouse/etc. were pretty nakedly flirtatious. I'm not making a complain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:34 PM |
| 107 | Being a Kinkmeisha traumatized me, but now I’m recovering!There are multiple reasons a lot of men are attracted to young women, and it's not just looks. They also know people in that age bracket are struggling, so they lure them in with expensive comforts like regular groceries and a "safe" environment in their apartment. If they convince you to move in, they know it's unlikely you'll be able to easily move back out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:58 AM |
| 10 | Being a Kinkmeisha traumatized me, but now I’m recovering!I'm so, so sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.Also ENT issues can apparently cause this. I kept getting hints of bad breath from myself even right after brushing vigorously and using mouthwash and couldn't figure out what the fuck was going on. I'd recently been to the dentist and had no cavities, no pain, a clean bill of health, etc. Turns out I had chronic sinusitis, which can cause bad breath. It was alleviated with regular use of a Neti pot (which I hate, but I do it) and azelastine and flonase sprays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.I swear to god this sub has all the wisdom of the ages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:06 PM |
| 21 | Marriage is an econmic propositionThis is such a brilliant insight, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 18 | Do not be that girl.Honestly I feel like more people should do this. My sister is a single mom (and at this point happily single, of which I am wholeheartedly supportive), and she lives with my mom at the moment, but if anything (god forbid), happens to my mom in the next couple years I'd love for her and her single mom girlfriends to live in a little commune together. They'd be able to rely on each other to watch each other's kids when the others are working and probably end up a bunch of feminist hippie children … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:38 PM |
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