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NICE FOR WHAT?oh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:59 PM
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LIES MEN TELLoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:54 AM
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STAY WOKEoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:36 PM
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FDS MEMESoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:31 PM
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STAY WOKEoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:04 AM
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STAY WOKEoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:51 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:40 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:18 AM
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STAY WOKEoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:56 AM
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SCROTES MADoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:22 PM
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STAY WOKEoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:32 PM
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SCROTES MADoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:12 AM
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PICKME CULTUREoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:12 PM
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STAY WOKEoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:16 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:14 AM
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STAY WOKEoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:31 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:11 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:28 PM
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oh_shit_oh_fuck/r/askFDS28/01/21 06:33 AM
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DISCUSSIONoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:45 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:01 AM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:09 AM
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DISCUSSIONoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:55 PM
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SCROTES MADoh_shit_oh_fuck/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:54 AM
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We as a female class need to start demanding we be compensated for our child-rearing capabilities - and not just in the relationship scenario. Let's really think about this and break it down - men want children. They need us for that. Why do they need us for that? Because it's expensive otherwise. When we think about all of the things we as women do when it comes to birthing and raising children, we have the role of nanny, maid, cook, and teacher. These things without a wife/forever girlfriend w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:39 PM
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Male, early 20s, has never been single for more than a few months since childhood. Has a fetish for anorexics and will dump you when you go to recovery. Severe mommy issues. Will say you're crazy just like all of my other ex girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:24 AM
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If my son treated a woman like that I would kick his arse to kingdom come. Porn doesn’t represent normal women, the actors and actresses they use mislead kids. They need to realise it’s not normal. So their response is to enable that and make - checks notes - porn?! Also don't they realise there's already a genre of MILF porn which they are just catering to 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm so sick of the enabling. Women are never going to hold their sons accountable, just like girlfriends and wives who don't hold thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:16 PM
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Omg I sincerely hope he is an ex husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:30 PM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:22 PM
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Especially after I asked if he would do what that guy did if he ever hit his limit with me and his response was to just stare at me From Heartless Bitches International (heartless-bitches.com): If you ever once, just for one second, see a frightening, mad, staring-eyed look on his face that isn’t the result of something at least as horrifying as him having just been bitten by a venomous snake (i.e if you’ve just suggested you both visit some friends of yours) then no matter how fleeting it was o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:16 AM
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scrote tax 💀 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:15 PM
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maybe even doing it with his bros. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:42 PM
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He is absolutely cheating... his bros are covering. My immediate thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:09 PM
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I hate this so much, so many women have their nights ruined when they should be out making memories. I bet if you had contacted your coworker last minute they would have been happy for you to come. Awful you spent the biggest party of the year alone and upset :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:06 PM
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PLEASE tell me your mom left him. Oh my goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:41 PM
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The only men who have defended me were so called friends who were trying to get into my pants the whole time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:37 PM
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Wish I could but I'm in the UK 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:35 PM
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I 100% believe this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:35 AM
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Especially when you consider the fact that girls are saying to their career counsellors in school that they want to open an OnlyFans as soon as they're 18. I don't understand why there isn't more outrage about this. It's obviously grooming. I don't really watch him, but this Youtuber called PayMoneyWubby talks a lot about TikTok grooming etc, and he said something like "I bet 2020 is the best year to be a pedo", and I think he's right. It's a pedo's paradise right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:04 AM
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I believe so? If she kicked his ass to the curb and then met up with some social workers, there are thousands of would-be parents who can't conceive who would happily adopt that baby. The only obstacle I could see is if the father adopted the baby and fought for full custody. But let's face it, little boyman who only cares about 'muh football game' isn't going to do that, is he? I wish more women did this. Could you imagine growing up, finding out your dad couldn't be arsed to be there for your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:41 AM
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I can pretend to be Christian 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:48 AM
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Are we allowed to request that we aren't seated next to a male passenger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:13 AM
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If this was me I would give the baby up for adoption. Men like this don't deserve to be fathers. I just hope if this ever happened to me, he'd show his true colours soon enough for an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:06 AM
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Ahhh the classic 'amateur' porn where boyfriends record their unknowing girlfriends and blast it online for the world to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:58 AM
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Based. We need to start standing up to these women. They aren't victims here. They are literal handmaidens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:46 AM
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It IS a crime. Pedophiles used to go to prison for showing their target pornography. Its one of the first ways they groom their victim. Now it's seen as education. I read a comment before saying there's likely to be a paedophile agenda and I absolutely believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:45 AM
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It's a cope to think boys could ever be educated to care about women. This is literally how they bond in school. They will share degrading porn with one another and then fantasise about doing it to the girls they terrorise in school. It's why if I ever have daughters I will do everything in my power to make sure she goes to an all girls school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:43 AM
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The coddling is infuriating. I bet if she found her daughter watching porn or even gasp "exploring herself" by camming online, she would not be having the same attitude. God, PickMes are even worse when they're a boymom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:40 AM
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I took a screenie of one but I tend to just ignore it without even opening. I mostly judge by their usernames. For example, I had one message me called 'meatsplash' or something. Yeah... don't think so. Will post the one I do have on FDSSuperFans at some point for sure though haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:15 AM
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Ahhhh so it begins, I have men coming into my inbox trying to justify why men should be able to ruin a woman's life for posting the very content that they wank to. Stay mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:22 PM
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This is soooo true, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:15 PM
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I'm curious, do you think it's the same if a woman says she wants to wait until marriage to have sex? Obviously a man who lovebombs you and wants to whisk you away to a court wedding would be a red flag, but it could be a useful tool to discard that trash. However spending thousands on a ring, wedding, and actually waiting - I don't see many men putting on a facade to do this (to an extent, of course).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:26 PM
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- takes bow - thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:22 PM
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haha username checks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:20 PM
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A red flag that stuck out to me was when he said all he cared about in the past was having casual relationships. He said this to make the OP feel more special, especially as it was followed with "but I don't want it to be casual with you". As others have mentioned, don't tell them your vetting strategy - keep them waiting - most will get bored. DO NOT STAY IN THEIR HOUSE under ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. This would make it much harder to resist and could even put you in a position of danger. Another thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:01 PM
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Well with the emergence of deepfakes I think that's a smart thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:51 PM
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NO ONE HATES SWs MORE THAN THEIR CUSTOMERS This to the moon and back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:20 PM
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You can hire security firms to go digging for you and they will remove as much as they can, but be prepared to have a dent in your wallet. They cost thousands. Also if you sent them to boyfriends or anything, they won't be able to remove what they have in their hard drives. I'm sorry. Just hope that you didn't send so much they can create OF or the like in your name. Also consider changing your name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:13 PM
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ooooh an FDS rescue mission perhaps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:10 PM
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They have one hand on their dicks while pointing with the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:26 PM
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Anyone who says that sex work is empowering intentionally leaves out the "for men." Omg this needs to be a poster campaign. Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:24 PM
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OMG! I didn't see the OG thread, I took this from another female only space. AWFUL. He really has a vendetta out on this woman. Yeah I hope he fucking doxxed himself in the process. But let's be real, he's not getting any consequences from this. ETA: oh jeez, I just went back and yep, there's her name. I really hope he didn't put her full name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:01 PM
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Yes, part of it looks like he scuppered her chances of a career to keep her in a perpetual trap of only being able to post OF content in order to get by, as I bet he is still subscribed to her. Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:58 PM
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men have posted in AITA and other subs about trying to blackmail women with the knowledge of their only fans for money and sex I believe it. Do you have any screenies? If so, you should post them! We need to hold these men accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:56 PM
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LOL this is my favourite one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:31 PM
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I usually say something along the lines of "what makes you think it's not a choice?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:31 PM
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Idk, my spidey senses tell me this is real. I think this scrote went onto AITA because he was gloating about what he did, and his peers were absolutely horrified. But you are right, men hate us. Even when we refuse to bend to the dick, they'll throw acid in our faces and disfigure us, or murder us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:14 PM
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My gut is telling me she either rejected him, or hurt his ego in some other way I see you are a woman of fine intuition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:08 PM
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he would have thought of other ways to squeeze her out because there's not many women in STEM and men like it that way Yes he even told on himself a bit when he mentioned that not many women are in STEM. I think this whole thing proves that porn is NOT empowering for women. Why else do men call it 'revenge porn' by blasting women's nudes everywhere? It's because they know that's how they can degrade us. It's naive to think doing that willingly and for cash is taking back our power. It's exactly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:03 PM
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Yeah I used to have sympathy for women in these situations until I tried to help someone close to me, and she ended up punishing me for it. You have to question how much of this is self inflicted. Especially when children are being willingly brought into it. Just because we have boundaries to be skeptical about the shitty positions Pickmes keep themselves in, with all the tools at their disposal that we have today, doesn't mean we're bad people. Maybe consider that we have tried to help people i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:53 PM
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Yep. There were so many points of calling for her to leave that relationship, and now she is deciding to have a baby with him. Just as these women coddle men like this, I think we need to stop coddling women like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:24 PM
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There's a reason reproductive coercion is almost always perpetrated by the men. Babies are women's shackles to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:29 PM
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Preach 🙏🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:15 PM
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OMG you are right!! She actually became a "meme" - I'll say that loosely. I remember boys saying "go Amanda Todd yourself" and things like that. Ugh I detest males. They'll ruin your life until the point of suicide and then make fun of you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:07 PM
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Pickmes are fucking psychotic. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately, you aren't alone in this either. Millions of girls are going through, and have gone through, the exact same thing. My dad didn't sexually abuse me, but he did abuse me in other ways, and my mother also has a daughter who refuses to speak to her because she would side with him, always, even if she witnessed it. These pickmes are borderline sociopathic. Even if these mothers witnessed their daughters being raped by th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:17 PM
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She absolutely does see it though. She's probably online complaining about it hoping that people will point out what a wonderful super mommy and good wife she is. I mean she's on AITA for god's sake, she's not looking for answers, she's looking for validation. I made another comment about this - she is a grown woman. She is putting up with this and she is choosing to. For crying out loud, she is the main breadwinner, she could up and leave with her biological child any time but chooses not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:12 PM
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Yes I saw another commenter say the same thing! But I couldn't reply as I don't think she has received her flair yet. I had no idea he had been found out! It definitely didn't make the news big, nowhere near as viral as everyone knowing about Amanda Todd and calling her all these awful things. Only crickets when we hear about this absolute scum of the earth. If he did that to my daughter I would have killed him, Idc how long I would have to spend in prison for it. That man does not deserve to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:45 PM
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Me too sis. I was only 12 when I was doing it as well. I remember being terrified and feeling sick. I was so glad I had the foresight even at that age to keep my face out of it. It absolutely could've been me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:42 PM
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Yeah this guy is spending his "bathroom time" watching porn, no doubt. How does this woman not even consider that as an option? Are we really this naive!? Doesn't she also say she works too? Sounds like he does fuck all. Unacceptable. I am so sick of the way we coddle men. It actually disgusts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:30 PM
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I doubt she would have been shamed to suicide if she were a boy yet male issues & suicide is still taken more seriously Fucking this. Yet go onto widow support groups and so many of those women will discuss how their husbands committed suicide because they were avoiding jail or were found out to be paedophiles or have other sex crimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:35 AM
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Yes, I think female led communities and communes could be the exception. We have some here in the UK but they are very guarded and hard to find, as for reasons you mentioned, which inadvertently affects women seeking out these places. I do know we have mixed sex communes which are easier to access, but at this point, why bother trusting men? They are the ones responsible for creating this sick world we live in and it's high time we hold them accountable. I don't care about the oThEr men who most…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:01 AM
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Honestly I think the only way to stop this is to stop having kids, period. We need to protest with our wombs. Even if we did everything right, once we send them off to school and they mix with peers, it will be too late. Boys show each other porn and will bond over the degradation and violence against women and girls. The porn industry have been grooming children online to watch porn for decades now. Their fathers who grew up on it too won't even have parental safety features on their Internet b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:14 PM
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Why is she considering staying with him, after all that?! Wow Edit: also something that stuck out to me, was that she hinted that those Snapchat weren't paid for content. Why is suddenly okay if a man has folders of other women who are naked just because he pays for it? Does she imply that she'd be fine with it if it weren't women sending him nudes for free? I will never understand this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:25 AM
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LMFAO I thought it was meant to look like a bra but now I can't unsee it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:35 AM
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absolute truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:49 PM
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You're absolutely right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:33 PM
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I'm glad you listened to your instincts!! What a cheap ass loser, he was definitly looking for a free therapist out of you. So many guys do that it is infuritating. And sure haha, you can follow me if you want and I'll follow back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 03:04 PM
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Yeah interesting how a poor man who can't discuss his feewings is able to articulate extensively his passion over animals and his work, but can't even bear a passing emotion of admiration for his wife of 50 years. I wouldn't have called you a pickmeisha, until you got hilariously defensive about it. Keep defending misogynists hun, see where it gets you. Pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:06 AM
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OMG Do you think you could find those videos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:23 AM
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I wondered myself if he would have made it to the age of 92 if it weren't for his daughter swooping in and acting like his new wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:08 AM
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It astounds me how there will always be women everywhere ready to make excuses for a man https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3sF36X9W_yU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NqoOK5HDNs These men were able to convey 1000x the emotion than our David, what makes them so special? I'm sure they would've grown up in similar conditions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:39 AM
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Then why didn't he say so? If he wanted to he would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:30 AM
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My thoughts exactly. It's becoming very apparent to me that so many men in the world have achieved vast amounts of success because of the women at home, being their servant. Imagine never having to cook, or clean, or organise the house, never having to do laundry - you could focus on all of the skills you ever dreamed of. Not only do women give up their peak years serving their husbands and their children, daughters will grow up involuntarily bound to a life of servitude, as they are expected to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:12 AM
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Not only his wife but his daughter too. I have no doubt that she had to sacrifice her established career as he so mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:55 AM
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From user LeisurelyCardinal on ThePinkPill.co: Note that this was his only wife and they married when he was 24 and she was 23, before he became famous. She spent most of her life with him before dying at the age of 70. From doing a quick search I'm not seeing mention of her profession, she might have been a housewife and dedicated her whole life to this (though I'm not certain). He just remembers her as a household appliance, now replaced by her daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:33 AM
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Q: How did [your wife passing away change] your life? A: Profoundly, of course. On the other hand the children were grown up and established in their various careers. I'm not a very domesticated person, I'm no sort of a cook. My daughter, who's a head teacher of a primary school, quite soon came to sort me out in terms of cooking and she now runs the house and so on. So that's a blessing and a godsend for which I am profoundly grateful and very very lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:32 AM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:41 PM
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Since when was this subreddit about giving the benefit of the doubt? No. You don't have to be a hot mess to also not be in the position to date. When you have things you need to work through, it is irresponsible to drag someone into that, especially someone you don't know and on the 2nd date no less. Get your shit sorted, that's fine, I've had to do that too. Do it before you date other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:39 PM
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Pay attention to this and pay real hard: DON'T EVER IGNORE YOUR GUT FEELING!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:24 PM
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You know you're not supposed to date when working things through in therapy, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:05 PM
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Are these n00bs really saying it's not a red flag? Look, every therapist on this planet will tell their patients its a bad idea to date while in therapy. He's telling you on a 2nd date, which is so soon, it's obvious he's hoping to get a pity fuck lol. I mean first of all, I'm not sure why you're so quick to believe him anyway. It's just bad news all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:03 PM
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Hank Hill from King of The Hill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:14 AM
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Yeah, Hank Green also did a creepy tweet about his support for "sex work" and Onlyfans, which means he most likely uses it. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:13 AM
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I remember back in my naive days, when I was 22 I started dating this 33 year old man who lived in London. He also had like 6-7 room mates!! I remember being soooo disappointed when he told me that. Like I get he lives in London, I was expecting him to share a place with maybe 1 room mate - not 6-7!!! I even knew people who just turned 20 when I was at uni there who only had 1 house mate. No excuses. I never ended up visiting his place because he got dumped by me lol, but I bet it would have bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:30 PM
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Not only is she trying to justify burlesque by saying it was nothing like a strip club atmosphere, she's also saying that the women were "doing it for fun" (where have we heard this before?) and therefore it's okay to engage in something that has historically been degrading to women. Don't get me started on safe spaces either. I've heard many times that pimps are there to keep the women safe, and we all know that that is bullshit. I hear the same thing about OnlyFans too. Why is burlesque any di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:16 PM
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When trafficked women are being gang raped on camera, it probably feels refreshing to put on some rhinestones and prance around to Aerosmith. Are you kidding me? Is this a joke to you? Do you think all of those women who are subjected to torture would prefer to be degrading themselves in other ways? Just because the majority of men are bored of burlesque because of their hardcore porn habits, doesn't mean that all of a sudden, an archaic form of degrading and wanking over women is suddenly empow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:09 PM
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I wouldn't be so sure about Emily either, she found out Richard had been secretly meeting his ex girlfriend for 39 YEARS for 'dinner' and didn't immediately divorce his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:12 AM
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SAME HERE! The only chores I ever did growing up was drying the dishes (which I used to whine about because we had a fat dishwasher that was collecting dust). I first lived on my own when I was 18 and I managed to figure it out on my own. No excuses. Not the same thing but I was living with a friend who refused to pick up after herself, and so I would have to pick up after her because I hate, HATE accumulative mess. Learning from experience, it's much easier to clean a little everyday rather tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:23 AM
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Many coomers will literally sit around in their 'porn dens' and wank off together while watching porn. There's a whole subreddited dedicated to it called 'Goon Caves' ​ I've seen some shit, man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:03 AM
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quelle surprise I saw another commenter comparing this notion of claiming to be antiporn with how men will claim to be feminists to get into your pants. I think they will always adapt ways to get women and this is why it is a mistake to include men in our feminist discourse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:53 PM
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This reminds me of Charlotte from Sex and the City, who found out her fiance was impotent the day before the wedding! No wonder he had no problem waiting for sex. If I remember correctly he would wank off to porn too which she caught him out on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:37 PM
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Yes I did it with both of mine and have no regrets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:05 PM
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Oh yes, I would never tell a man I was dating about my porn stances, as it would just ensure he is careful to hide it. These observations weren't dates, just men who are around either through mutuals or from my regular hang out spots. They're starting to talk about it unprompted which is why I felt the need to make this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:03 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:27 PM
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I'm so so sorry that must have been beyond traumatising. I too came across my father's porn stash. He lived in a house with a woman and two daughters. He was already a prick but I didnt see him the same way after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:24 PM
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Wow, excellent observation. You are right. This is why FDS principles are to block without a word so that men don't know what to hide for their next prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:20 PM
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Oh yes, if you have ever sent a nude to a man, there is probably a 99% chance that he has shown that to multiple others, or even uploaded it onto a website. I even had an ex admit he kept all of my nude photos and videos. Regrets, man. And no, most women aren't aware. If I saw a man doing that to his wife I would make a facebook account just to track her down and warn her. We can't keep letting men get away with this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:41 PM
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Your own father? Jesus fucking Christ. I won't ask how you came to find that out. Dreadful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:39 PM
174

Well whenever I would be told by "friends" that I would be alone forever because I would not stand for porn, I would always cite how popular places like r/nofap are, and how many other antiporn sites are filled with men. However, I think it is very rarely talked about how the reasons for men being against porn are vastly different as to why women are against it. Most men are against porn because they have consumed so much of it, from such a young age, that they got porn-induced erectile dysfunct…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:17 PM
5

She's been telling most people she knows, including her mother. I can't imagine they'd be supporting her to stay. It seems she regrets telling people now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:13 PM
10

I've only ever been explicit in the fact that he will do it again, next time he will make sure to be more careful to not get caught, that she needs to get an STD test ASAP as well as the rest. I don't think that's manipulative like some guy whining that he "has needs" or "depression" which is why he had to suck cock every week for five years. He is abusive. She's broken up with him before over anger issues. If he gets away with this, I dread to think what's in store for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:36 AM
31

Because I'm desperate. I don't feel comfortable being around him any more now that I know he's a serial cheater. There were many times he was being "friendly" with me, but now that I know what I know, there is no way I'm being alone with him again. I won't be going to her house again. She was at my house the night she found out it happened, and she went from being like "I can do this! I'll kick him out, I can start fresh" to this!! And I can't figure out wtf has happened. I was hoping if she saw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:29 AM
40

She almost didn't get an STD test because she believed him when he said he used protection!!! I had to fill out forms for her online and get one sent to her house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:25 AM
12

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:24 AM
72

Most likely not. She told me about how he was sobbing and begging her but I think it's because he knows he can't look after himself without his mommy bangmaid. He was also probably crying over his reputation and imagining having to tell his own mother what he did. I cannot understand why my friend would protect him from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:16 AM
88

Yes she does have family she can fall back on. The house is also in her name. There is no reason as to why she hasn't kicked him out yet. She claims its because she "loves him" but then will say its because of the kids. She keeps going back and forth and is all over the place. She feels guilty that he has nowhere to go but I keep telling her that she needs to not give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:45 AM
15

I once had a guy I was dating say that he wanted to be my dad. Yes, really. He was 11 years older than me. I had another say how much he loved skinny girls and then another time told me about how all of his exes were anorexics. I'm also anorexic. Definitely an anorexia fetishist (they're real - look it up if you dare). I had one who told me he beated up his ex girlfriend who he was living with but "she would fight too" (more like fight back, mate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:40 AM
65

100%. Tightness is because they are clenching, probably because they aren't relaxed. Or they're clenching to try and make them cum quicker lmao. Sometimes when I'd get bored of the sex I'd start doing some mad keigals and they always cum within seconds whenever I did it. That tight enough for ya scrotes???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:35 PM
57

LOL I believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:38 AM
127

who wants a boring 6 incher? 😴🥱 send me right to sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:28 PM
177

Women are still going to have abortions in Texas, they just won't be safe any more. Scrotes, you cannot control our bodies. I know that you all fantasise about a Gilead scenario, but if women don't want a baby, they will damn well find a way to not have that baby. Even if they're forced to carry to term, I hope you enjoy the wider social problems that come from overwhelmed orphanages and foster care systems, along with bitter resentment and dysfunctional families leading to more societal problem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:56 AM
2

I am sorry you went through that. I have been through the same. Every guy I've ever dated has been a porn addict. I've had to stop dating completely because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:33 PM
1

Marriage vows specifically say "in sickness and in health"... it is quite a vital aspect of marriage. You are likely to get ill as you age. The discussion is specifically how weomen benefit in marriage. When you consider the fact that women who don't stay single die earlier than those who do, it suggests it is not beneficial for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:32 PM
1

You did not answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:22 PM
1

LOL so all the balding, fat men in their 50s hitting on 20 year olds all have something to offer like Leonardo DiCaprio? Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:20 PM
1

What about the fact that men are 6 times more likely to divorce their wife when she gets seriously ill or disabled than vice versa, is that not significant? Doesn't it show that marriage for women is more risky?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:18 PM
80

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:14 AM
222

Geez no wonder she's drinking wine every night 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:25 AM
2

Yes I agree with this but I think for it to be successful they would have to be homeschooled and quite literally isolated, which isn't so realistic. Most young boys come across porn because their friends show it to them at school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:28 PM
10

If I was bi I would exclusively date women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:03 PM
6

DAMN I never realised this. You are definitely onto something sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:04 PM
237

That is actually the worst!! I've had so many friends like that in the past and it used to infuriate me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:43 PM
21

Girl same I was groomed at the age of 12 to send nudes 😭 By some grace of God though I had sense back then to keep my face out of it. It still haunts me though. Another thing that haunts me is that my ex boyfriend took pictures and videos of me naked and doing unspeakables. He even admitted to me after we had broken up that he kept them all in a folder while I had deleted all of his pictures on my devices. Reading all of this is making me feel sick. He has definitely shown other people. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:14 PM
6

Came here to comment the same thing! I'm a huge foodie and if I met a man who eats nothing but this (which I have) I would NOT take things further. I even met one man who lived on soylent and blended-based "meals". He could not cook. I need a man who can cook, it's a lot of fun cooking with people and a great way to learn how to do new things - if both of you are good. You can still cook a huge variety of food on a budget, and mostly when I'm spending outside of my budget, I'm going to nice rest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:01 PM
20

Why is a large following bad? I use a non-conventional social media on a feminist platform and have 300+ followers. Why is that bad? I agree social media addiction is a red flag but we can't deny that social media is a huge part of people's lives these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:39 PM
28

Putting sugary food up your coochie is a surefire way to get a yeast infection. She was just doing what she was paid to do I suppose, even though it is disgusting. What's more disgusting though, is that she obviously has a demand for this. Wtf is wrong with men 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:47 AM
294

100% You can hear one of them patronisingly say "don't worry sweetheart" to her. If they aren't getting off to it they're getting off to it for amusement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:51 AM
61

How much do you wanna bet he's only with that gf of his so he can have lots of unprotected sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:07 AM
14

Omg!!! It probably is!! I could tell when I was reading that post (literally yesterday) that he was hiding the worst stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:36 PM
1

I feel sad that I know exactly the one you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:36 PM
16

Well doesn't that explain a lot 🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:50 PM
41

Yep that was what I actually posted about haha. They portrayed her as a no nonsense, strong woman in the beginning but then she put up with a literal man child?? Makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:09 PM
38

I also just recently rewatched Gilmore Girls! I get the vibe that a lot of the users on the subreddit for GG are low key FDSers, as we often criticise the relationships lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:45 PM
10

How do you put a condom on a microdick?? Wouldn't it just flap around and fall off?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:42 PM
10

I'm dying 🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:40 PM
88

Tbh rewatching Scrubs with an FDS mindset makes him so unattractive. In fact I made a post about how relationships were portrayed on that show as I gave it a rewatch recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:07 PM
13

Hahaha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:04 PM
116

To my surprise they did include some age gap relationships where the woman was older, but as you can imagine it was minute in comparison to the men being the older ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:09 PM
396

"Just leave your judgement at the door, ok?" How about no you condescending dickheads. I'll be carrying my judgement with me like my everyday handbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:37 PM
17

Damn this gave me a headache to read 😖🔎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:47 AM
71

Fr if I were any of their daughters I would look at my mom and be like WHY!? Why mother??? Why would you curse me with these genetics!!! I could have looked like you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:40 PM
120

why anyone who is as gorgeous as Beyonce would want to reproduce with someone who looks like Jay Z will always baffle me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:33 PM
51

There are some Pickmes shitting on FDS too and that's just sad as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:30 PM
8

There are also a notorious amount of anorexia fetishists who attempt to keep the anorexic girl underweight, and will reprimand her if she starts to recover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:44 PM
2

Oh dang
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:44 AM
50

I too have been called fat in the past but I think it's by scrotes who look through my post history and try to trigger my eating disorder. Or they really do just say the same things over and over. Maybe I shouldn't give them too much credit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:14 PM
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I did. I had a scrote say the first two things to me one after the other and it inspired me to make it. I tagged him in it and said that he can just mark that instead of replying to me. He was not impressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:03 PM
44

Well daddy/dom is a fetish that turns many men on. But "daddy issues" are mostly a way to put down any woman who has issues with men, as a way to blame her for the "choices" she makes in the men she dates, regardless of what they do to her or how she met them. It's also a fuckin' joke because the failure of a dad is a failure of the man, not of the daughter lmao. So it doesn't even make sense. However they use it all the time when faced with valid criticisms of male behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:50 PM
42

It's her loss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:29 PM
1

It's happened to me multiple times now and it's getting very boring. Makes me think I should just make an alt account to participate in male-dominated subs. Which is ridiculous to have to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:56 AM
21

Oi oi! Nice to see a fellow Briton among FDS 🇬🇧💂 Also shows just how shit the school I went to was, we were taught "renounced" lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:26 AM
36

Oh, he most certainly wasn't. Social standing does exist unfortunately, whether people want it to or not. I would never fit in with upper middle class, privately educated and wealthy folk. That's not my background, and around those people I stick out like a sore thumb. I'm from the UK and we hold onto class values very strongly. I could "level up" to their level if I really wanted to. Go back to a Russell Group uni, maybe attend finishing school, work on renounced pronunciation to hide my workin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:51 AM
184

It can be a red flag if a man of high social standing dates 'beneath him', especially if his family seems encouraging of it. This can signal that he has been unsuccessful with women in his own social standing, and this may sound rude, but could signal he is desperate. I will also mention, even if it is by chance that he is invested in you for you, then it will almost always be met with backlash by his family. This isn't worth the relationship imo. I've been in this situation and it was so stress…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:30 AM
96

JK Rowling is the only billionaire to donate so much to charity she lost her billionaire status
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:16 AM
318

"I can't wash my ass, that's gay"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:14 AM
34

omg look at you spitting out cold hard FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:12 AM
114

I used to think a man being shy was an endearing trait but based on past experiences with them it is definitely a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:32 PM
12

Grooming. Anal hurts like fuck. I've had many men in the past "accidentally" slip it into my asshole. I screamed out in pain. Should've stomped on their balls. Saying that though there probably would have been one weirdo who was into that 🤦🏻‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:21 AM
47

Oh definitely. This will somehow be twisted and seen as the mother's fault. Disaster all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:25 AM
6

Yeah I'm not friends with any of them any more. My life was wild back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:35 PM
6

Tbh I would buy it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:10 PM
15

Yep. He even asked me if my friend would be interested in dating him. I was like "haha most definitely not. Not her type at all." When I found out they were together I was like 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:03 PM
109

😂😂😂 I swear being on this sub makes me so aware of how upside down the world is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:10 PM
630

"women personify men while men objectify women" Woah. I'm gonna start using this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:36 PM
523

That poor, poor woman. Those poor kids. Omg. When they grow up and find out what he is this is seriously going to damage them, that is if he doesn't molest them. Paedophiles are notorious for getting off to the taboo, and I would bet money that he jerks it to incest porn in his spare time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:27 PM
38

I remember feeling so uncomfortable about the situation but I mostly kept it to myself. You know how things get when "friends interfere with relationships". I did however say that if she was to get serious with this man, ensure he gets the divorce. Oh, and move out of his parents lmfao. Which he did. But yeah the age gap is just... no. She has a very young mother and she started dating someone the same age as him LMAO. That was wild. ​ Funnily enough he would say how unfit his ex-wife was becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:39 PM
120

Its so true. I know someone who got divorced and kept going on about how awful the mother was, how abusive she was and how unfit she was to be the sole carer of their 3 children. I said "why don't you fight for custody?" and he gave some trivial answer about how children should be with their mothers. I was so confused. How can someone be convinced that someone is awful and an abuser and not want to protect their children from that? Bizarre. Worse yet, I knew him because he started dating my (now…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:32 PM
53

This. I always say just because a man is porn-free doesn't mean he isn't misogynist. Sometimes I think because the dating pool is so slim of decent men, some women will see a green flag for something important and leap right to that. I admit that I have been guilty of this in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:41 PM
37

FUCKING BASED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:49 PM
10

:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:07 PM
8

Well you still dress up for a funeral to pay your respects. JS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:01 PM
55

Write. That. Book. This is why I feel that we shouldn't distance ourselves from other radical feminist spaces. There are so many resources and it is the ONLY platform where we don't get censored from speaking out about this. I could give you some resources if you would like to dm me, but I'm afraid you'll have to be patient as I am quite busy with moving right now (however I keep procrastinating on reddit lol). I would love to help though. I feel quite passionate about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:05 PM
31

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:58 PM
29

This is a good sign, I really hope he is for real! For your sake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:51 PM
89

I can tell you from my own experience that you are most definitely onto something. I was born in 1997 and started consuming the Internet around 2007. I was bombarded with paedophiles online and would indulge in their requests. I came across porn on seemingly innocent things, such as browsing for MSN emojis or the game, The Sims for custom content. I had friends who were born in the 1980s and they too were horrified when I told them my experiences. I have been sexually harassed when I was in seco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:50 PM
106

I hate to rain on your parade but I get very suspicious that a lot of men are becoming more aware of women who are anti-porn and thus they 'assimilate' and tell us things that we want to hear. I am aware that there is a growing community of men who are becoming 'pornfree', however this is not the same as being anti-porn as they often cite giving up porn because it gave them erectile dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:40 PM
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I think as more and more young women such as myself come across this sub (as well as reading in other radical feminism spaces like I do), it is only natural for us to point out that there is a huge cultural shift that has happened within our generation. I have not met one man my age who does not watch porn. Most men my age have been watching it since they were children. Most women I know have not met one man their age who does not watch porn. How can we possibly be prepared to date, when we know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:12 PM
70

Those men deserve the death penalty 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:46 AM
27

Why do they have no pupils? It looks really creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:39 AM
1

Some parents actively encourage it. My mom would tell me when I was 16 that I should be looking for guys 25 or older 🤮 My sister met her now husband when she was 17 and he was 23. My parents treated him better than my sister and I, they were besotted by him. Now they have a baby together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:15 AM
3

She literally types like a child 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:04 AM
8

Reminds me of Charlotte's husband from Sex And The City who revealed his impotence the night before the wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:26 PM
49

I guess that's what 'vanilla' means 🙄 weird how we can't kink shame the perverted ones but the tender way of making love gets shamed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:35 PM
13

You cannot communicate with people who refuse to listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:27 PM
53

Whenever I meet a man who claims to be a feminist I runnnnn the hell away 🏃🏻‍♀️ Or for laughs you can ask them what their favourite feminist literature is. Andrea Dworkin? Germaine Greer? Watch them stumble and be absolutely aghast that they just got exposed. If you don't run, be prepared to be used as their therapist (though they'll make no effort to change their maladaptive behaviours), put up with a lifetime of resentment because you won't fuck them or be their girlfriend, and constantly be p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:35 AM
43

Girl why are you apologising for that? Relax. Humour is how we all cope haha ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:26 AM
20

I wish I had a free award rn because I would give that to you for this post ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:19 AM
49

I froze when my rapist was choking me. I thought if I fought back he would murder me. He was strangling me so hard I couldn't breathe. Its terrifying to imagine that he could have pleaded that I "consented" to "rough sex". He was so brutal he tore my labia. I don't know why I never went to the police. I wish I did. I didn't even know his last name though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:47 PM
144

The fact she had to put a disclaimer basically saying nOt ALL mEn. I can just imagine what some of the comments were saying 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:20 PM
12

Men are projecting because IRL they want to sleep with everyone lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:46 AM
2

It's a comment by me that says "I've been choked so many times that I've had to avoid dating and sleeping with men altogether." The original post was about a study that says women fear being hurt during sex, whereas what most men fear about sex is that the woman may be on her period. The next picture is a message from the moderators from the sub I mentioned (not allowed to say what sub it is) saying I've been permanently banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:32 PM
1

Do you mean the original post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:26 PM
2

Yeah they wouldn't even tell me why, just gave me a vague response about breaking some rules and then muted me so I couldn't respond. I did initially tell them to go and fuck themselves so I guess that hurt their feelings 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:42 PM
6

Fr I would have lost my sanity by now if this sub did not exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:53 PM
42

I agree with what you said in previous comments. Idc what anyone says, having that many children that young is just plain irresponsible. And bringing more children into a family that they can acknowledge is dysfunctional? Nah, sis. I know many other young women who at 21 made sure they were on effective birth control because they knew that having children so young would be an absolute disaster. Obviously birth control can fail, but that isn't the same thing. I wish she mentioned how old her husb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:51 PM
13

They don’t respect women they do want to have sex with either, especially after they’ve had sex with her lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:36 PM
90

I was a law student and can definitely vouch that the ones who end up being successful are the biggest backstabbers. I couldn’t cope with it and dropped out in my 2nd year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:54 AM
12

My dream 😍. I love watching movies where they have adorable houses like this. I need to become rich so I can get a cute magic cottage. I'd have the best garden on the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:12 PM
3

Divorce that man!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:27 PM
24

I had so many men in my DMs when I was 15 too. I've tried scrubbing the Internet of all my old minor photos. I hope I was successful. I also had grown men asking me to cam with them or send them nudes when I was 12, and with so much regret I complied. I just hope they don't still have them. At least I had the sense back then to keep my face out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:19 PM
10

Interesting choice of the world 'strangling' there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:50 PM
7

Omg we need translators! I wish I knew another language
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:15 AM
8

There used to be a sub called pink pill feminism and it was awesome before it got banned :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:12 AM
16

Do I dare ask what the slug story is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:41 AM
2

Lmao are you on the desperate housewives sub? It's small but active and I get a feeling we have some FDSers among us there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:59 AM
44

I bet most scrotes have 2 social media profiles. One with their name and one with a pseudonym so they can privately look up all the porn they want. The better we get at vetting the better they get at hiding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:23 AM
2

Not relevant but it's nice to see a fellow desperate housewives fan. I'm gonna bet you don't like Tom Scavo one bit!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:16 AM
51

There is no way that someone who spends 12+ hours a day playing video games has the discipline to be doing decent cleaning throughout the same day. Its a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:13 AM
77

I suspect someone has been watching too much incest porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:39 AM
26

We also have less estrogen being produced when we are menstruating. The bleeding is a release of hormones, it's why when women who take the pill get one when they take the placebos for a week. Lack of hormones make the uterus flush out its lining. Less estrogen in the body means that the tiny amounts of testosterone we produce naturally are some of the only hormones being produced at the time. If anything, when we are cRaNkY and mOoDy for being 'on the rag', we're closer to the hormonal state of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:08 AM
37

oof that is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:17 AM
19

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:37 PM
19

I always remember my sociology teacher, you could sense the passion for his subject oozing out of every fibre of his being. He was the funniest teacher I have ever had. He would travel the world and competitively cycle. He had a gorgeous wife and they were child free. He was also 5'4 and bald, but nearly all of the girls at my school, myself included, would say that he was future husband goals. He had impeccable style too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:06 PM
32

I slap men when they do this to me. Of course everyone gets annoyed at me because I "don't have a sense of humour".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:58 PM
76

Self defence will never be violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:55 PM
6

Winner 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:05 PM
81

Thankfully I have never had to but a dear friend of mine had to make her boyfriend get rid of his ‘gaming room’ because there would be piles of month old cum tissues (among other trash) and she used to clean it up. I have banked this as a cautionary tale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:56 AM
82

oh god I think if I ever knew what my ex-boyfriends porn stash was like I would end up needing therapy, for sure. Being with them was enough to warrant that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:54 AM
126

I’ve been wondering if there are discrepancies between married and unmarried couples, which may be hard to get data for. I could see a wife who sets commitment standards tolerating porn much less, than let’s say, a forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:07 AM
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When you get sneered at for proudly saying you refuse to date any man who watches porn, and you get told that you will die alone with your twenty cats, you will say that it won’t be us, but the men when all of their wives leave them. I think as porn gets more and more depraved and violent, more women will be initiating divorce. Being and dying alone is much better than having a man spend all day wanking and leaving behind his crusty socks and tissues for you to clean up after. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:58 AM
6

no offence but how do you accidentally live with a scrote? lol I want to know so that never happens to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:57 AM
2

Everything is so wrong. But what’s the worst is his facial expression. Idk why but it’s making me feel 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:01 AM
3

What were we doing?!? 😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:00 AM
99

Lol Idk how relevant this is but many years ago when I was walking home from work, this white van abruptly stopped right in front of me and 1 man got out. I fucking shat myself and froze and full-on expected to be thrown into the van. The man looked at me like he was very confused and I walked away fast. It’s kinda funny now but this post reminded me of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:59 AM
3

ahh! that was me 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:56 AM
84

Probably in the same way that we were once brainwashed to think that watching porn is acceptable. I’ve been there too sis. We live in a dark world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:30 PM
17

oh my god I’m so sorry 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:00 AM
10

Fellow anorexia sister here. I’m estranged from my parents. Get this - when I was the most underweight I’d ever been in my life and was begging them for rehab they did nothing. Well not quite, they went on holiday. Twice. I tracked down my grandfather who my parents cut off contact with and he paid for it. I left the house and have not been back since. I wish you well on your recovery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:43 PM
56

Long hair on men can be beautiful but only if they maintain it. Unless it’s curly if it’s clear it never gets brushed, greasy or full of dead ends, it’s a no from me. only wears sweatpants beards can be okay but again, it needs to look impeccable. i hate the horrible stubble that seems to be in fashion for some reason still wearing clothes they wore as a teenager. guaranteed he’s looking for a mommy he can fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:10 PM
153

Tbh even the beast from beauty and the beast is miles more handsome than the average scrote. At least he turned into a beautiful man in the end lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:56 PM
23

I literally had an ex boyfriend who said all his exes had eating disorders and were ‘crazy’. Guy dumps me when I’m in rehab for mine. I WAS A DAMN FOOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:22 PM
41

There’s a show in the U.K. called ‘One Born Every Minute’ where women give birth on TV basically, and I could never understand why any woman would consent to that. At least with the show it’s supposed to be educational. This is just... depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:02 PM
78

Right? Imagine growing up and finding out thousands if not millions of coomer brains jacked off to your mom giving birth to you. Jesus Christ Alive I’m not religious but I’ll be praying for this kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:48 PM
50

Wouldn’t she get in trouble for child porn? Or is this really the new normal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:45 PM
13

If you go onto the user profile you can read the entire comment, saying that though it’s probably not a decent way to spend your time. Can be entertaining though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:19 PM
207

“bUt wE cAn’T cONtrOl tHaT!!!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:33 AM
102

omg you were 10?!? 😱 You poor thing 😞 I really do believe that children have no business being on the Internet. I too was first exposed to when I was about the same age, on msn. Cannot even fathom those who stumble across hardcore porn or degenerate hentai. Sending you prayers. Also, I think I know the youtuber you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:01 PM
43

omg 😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:48 PM
51

I had a guy with a tiny cock once, it was so boring. He had to flip me around and keep my legs tight together just so he could cum. He would compensate and give a lot of cunnilingus but he wasn’t even good at it 🤦🏻‍♀️ Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:01 AM
39

never heard of ‘therapist-zoned’ but god damn sis you just described so many of my old toxic friendships to a damn T 😭🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:20 PM
27

Adult Children of Alcoholics represent!! Going to some of those meetings changed my life. The big book too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:08 AM
15

I really don’t understand why everyone has forgotten this. I would have thought surgeries would have dropped after him but instead the opposite happened. So disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:05 PM
10

those sound like medical procedures rather than cosmetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:03 PM
10

Ruthless. Savage. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:13 PM
75

Addiction is a disease but that doesn’t mean I’d happily date an active alcoholic and certainly not a meth user. In fact one of the first things they teach you at rehab is that no one owes you their companionship or love while someone is in active addiction as it is inherently destructive. There is no such thing as unconditional love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:11 PM
58

Please go to the hospital as choking can cause brain damage. So sorry that happened sis 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:17 PM
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yeah I’m a recovering anorexic and when I would talk about my struggles I would get eye rolls, dirty looks and laughs from heavier women I think this whole thing is bullshit because men treat me like shit when I look like shit, but when I take care of myself and look beautiful, I get treated like shit by other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:44 PM
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let me guess, he says that men “age like fine wine” 🙄 like excuse me hun but women aren’t growing old losing their hair and gaining pot bellies while their testicles descend into hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:34 PM
16

omg please share the ☕️ if it’s not too traumatic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:42 PM
35

omg you were in a relationship with a man with a micropeen? you poor thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:29 PM
53

Yes I did stay natural thank goodness. Most men love my tits (however they will be LV in other ways), it just tends to be the extremely pornsick ones who make fun of them. But this was back when I was a teenager so I doubt men would even try that shit with me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:34 PM
10

came to ask the same thing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:32 AM
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men still had sex with me regardless of my tit size. They would just make me feel bad about them after and say I should get a boob job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:27 AM
61

Many of these sound like men writing women as well. It’s so gross I feel like I need to rinse my eyes out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:21 PM
48

fucking this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:20 PM
95

oh jesus lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:11 PM
131

What is it called? This shit needs to be archived and put on Ovarit.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:12 PM
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oh trust me I’ve had my dose of realism when I was in the taxi back home. And then reading all these comments. I’ve already let go of so many friends so I think I was ignoring the obvious for a long time, because I don’t want to have literally 0 friends lol. Lesson learned. I just hope others who read this learn something too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:06 PM
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They’re probably the free awards that reddit gives out now and then, because they always seem to be the same (never gold as well). I give out award but I never pay for them because yeah, don’t want Peddit getting any of my money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:09 PM
2

lol let’s be real they would lie about having them not reversed and go around impregnating as many women as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:25 PM
2

Hey sis I was the same until I found out I have a latex sensitivity. There’s a brand of condoms called ‘Skyn’ and they are a million times better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah I remember they did that in Kickass and I get annoyed at the film because Katy just forgave him and pursued a relationship with him. In the comic she told him to fuck off and sent him a picture of her sucking off someone else (not recommended but still an improvement).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:51 PM
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Please don’t be jealous. Yes she is beautiful but she’s using a filter. You can see it jerk out of place several times, and those proportions aren’t realistic. I bet she is stunning irl but even the most beautiful get insecure these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:33 PM
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oh my sweet summer child https://www.thecut.com/2013/05/when-men-sabotage-birth-control.html Pretty much all stereotypes forced onto women are merely projected by men who actually resort to these behaviours. We’ve all heard of the manipulative gold-digger getting pregnant to trap the poor, unsuspecting man, whereas the reality is practically the opposite. https://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/men-sabotaging-women-birth-control-article-1.1361932?outputType=amp threads: annoyingly I can’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:59 PM
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the perpetrators of reproductive coercion are overwhelmingly men!! It isn’t women who are microwaving birth control pills so that they can’t leave the relationship!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:54 PM
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😂😂😂 I’m protesting sex. Men, keep your weapons away from me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:51 PM
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Girl that is awful. I knew a girl who did die of a blood clot in her leg at 15. Her mother was a shell of herself when that happened. They couldn’t find the cause but I do believe she was on BC. We put our bodies through so much just so men can squirt and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:07 AM
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Yes I remember that!! They couldn’t handle mood swings and it’s just like... welcome to the world of women who take hormonal birth control everyday lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:02 PM
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I’ve said it a million times and I’ll say it again. We ovulate ONE DAY out of an entire month whereas men are fertile 100% of the time every single day. Considering they are so worried about being “trapped” by women who get pregnant but hate wearing condoms because it “feels like a glove”, then where the fuck is their birth control???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:56 PM
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thank you!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:26 PM
124

Fed up of not being allowed to have a weapon legally (in the U.K.). I’m 5’2 and until only recently a recovering anorexic. Any man could easily overpower me and I’m not even allowed to carry pepper spray? Sometimes I wish I lived in the US so I could legally own a gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:18 PM
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Yep. This is the one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:59 AM
39

“Many women, I think, resist feminism because it is an agony to be fully conscious of the brutal misogyny which permeates culture, society, and all personal relationships.” Andrea Dworkin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:54 AM
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Oh I saw this on Ovarit! Someone posted the entire article and it was awful!! I was so disturbed by everything she said in that - especially the part about being sent creepy letters from old men! It’s so fucked when you think about with Britney too, literally sexualised as a TEEN and then when she gets brainwashed to be like that, they turn around and tear her down for it. Such a cruel world we live in!!! I’m so happy Mara Wilson managed to get out. This industry has wrecked so many people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:44 AM
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“Give me any word - any! And I will tell you why it is Greek.” I remember picking that movie out in blockbusters as a kid (which was a big deal because I never got to choose), and my family loved it. It ended up becoming a family classic. I haven’t watched it for years so I’ll definitely make sure I watch it again as an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:16 AM
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yeah women who like being choked most certainly do not rock first of all, I’ve never met a woman in real life who does enjoy that and the ones ‘who do’ are so quick to throw women like us under the bus for having boundaries pretty sure though that the women who do ‘enjoy’ it are pornstars who get PAID TO ACT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:21 PM
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they get turned on by the lack of consent and no one can convince me otherwise anyone who has a fraction of any understanding of body language knows what consent looks like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:11 PM
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omg congrats on your year of celibacy sis 👏🏻👏🏻 I’ve also been celibate for a year and I’m not dating again until I meet someone who is strictly porn-free. funny how suddenly men come out of the woodwork to say “bUT ALLLLL MEN watch PORN!!” which is it scrotes, is it all men or “NoT AlL mEn”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:07 PM
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what if the date sees you? could be awkward. Id probably just leave too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:59 PM
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bahaha! well if it means they leave us alone 🤷🏻‍♀️ but let’s be real, they still wouldn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:03 PM
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lmaoooo truuuuu some dickhead on reddit shared a post from TwoXX about how every woman they know has been sexually harassed/raped and they were going on about how bad it is to say all men (even though the first thing in the thread was ‘yes, yes, not all men. but too many men’) and he said that the ‘too many’ men creates a bad narrative and it hurts men’s mental health :’( omg and then get this. A woman in the bitching thread who stood up for me was getting shat on by this man, he looked through …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:10 AM
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most people don’t flush with the toilet lid down and I’m like 😳😱😫 why do u think toilets come with a lid?? stop spraying pissy shitty air everywhere god dammm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:59 AM
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I’m glad I’ve given it up. I live in a small town anyway so a lot of guys on there are people I went to school with lmfao. Yeah... no thanks. I used it a lot when I was at uni, and it was fun I won’t lie but absolutely useless when looking for anything serious. I agree it’s best to meet people organically, however even they have all been sleezebags. I will say do not go for mutual friends. I’ve done that before and every time, EVERY time I’ve had to dump them (because they’d be pornsick abusive …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:47 AM
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i mean there’s not much you can do other than dm her saying “you deserve better. you need to find out about FDS” and then link her to it. the rest is up to her imo. that’s what i would do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:45 PM
12

omg girl go message her!! she needs help 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:04 PM
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I don’t know why there isn’t a mother’s union. I’m living with someone who has 2 kids, one is of school age and it’s so, so much work homeschooling them when there’s basic homemaking duties and childcare put on top of that. It’s all unpaid too. Millions of women are acting like free tutors with absolutely no training or qualifications. If I was a mother during this pandemic I would be fuming. I can’t imagine what it’s like having multiple children all of different ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:18 PM
182

all right relax, Owen Wilson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:12 PM
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A round of applause for you 👏🏻👏🏻 Welcome!! You will love it here. I was similar when I first stumbled on the sub, however I had just gone through a break up, and an existential crisis of “is it me??? why is every guy I date the same?” and FDS shined a light that yes, sometimes it’s me, because I would put up with so much shit and instead of giving a man a million chances I should have dumped his ass the first moment he fucked up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:07 AM
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hahaha watch out, peak logic coming through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:00 AM
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ohhh that is a very good point sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:52 PM
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One definitely can, but the other is only 4 so he’s too short lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:30 PM
18

😂🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:23 PM
54

I’m actually living with someone who has 2 boys right now. And the way her two boys treat her makes me cringe so hard inside. They’ll demand her to do this and that, she’s literally their maid. They have tantrums a lot when they don’t get their way too. They’ll shout “I hate you!”. But she’s doing everything for her entire family, she’s so exhausted. She actively wanted me to move in with her because she saw how much help I could be. I cook meals most often and she loves it haha. But her kids ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:29 PM
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Wow, holy shit. That was a wild ride to read. Bless your best friend for having your back though! I’m also happy to hear they’re now exes. But her own father though, eeesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:03 PM
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It’s fucked because you’re nice to them, you must like them in that way. However, they can be cruelly horrible to you, and guess what? It’s because they like you. I had so many friends like this and when I would complain about it, I would get told by mutuals it’s because they “obviously liked me”. It would make me gag. Men can just fuck off. They’re clearly emotionally unstable and illogical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:59 PM
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quelle fucking surprise “how were we supposed to know he was a violent rapist? he hasn’t raped anyone yet??”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:43 PM
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haha yeah it’s blatantly obvious now, this was quite a few years ago. it’s quite depressing bc every guy i’ve been with has had signs of being pornsick. thankfully i’ve been celibate for a year now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:45 PM
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whewww well if that ain’t the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:25 PM
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Yep. Then these scrotes compare misandry as the same as misogyny and I just LAUGH. They think we’re just as bad as them when we say we’ve had enough. Women will never hate men the way that they hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:22 AM
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I had an ex boyfriend who told me about his problems with erectile dysfunction. He didn’t have problems with me, and he put his past ED on psychological factors. He also told me he even went on viagra to combat it. He was only 19!! I was a lil older than him and I look back and I’m floored because I think he was pornsick. He wanted us to watch porn together and me being the ‘cOoL gIrLFrIEnd’ I allowed this. This is a huge epidemic! A hilarious one at that! dgm wrong he did have psychological iss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:10 AM
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usually the complete opposite in my experience. I should know too because I would always date ugly guys thinking they’d be ‘nice’ but were downright abusive. Come to think about it I grew up watching TBBT and I wonder if I was brainwashed af (along with crippingly low self-esteem) 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:55 AM
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FREE BRITNEY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:12 PM
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Yeah a woman does the same thing and she literally gets murdered. It’ll get cheered on too. We really are still in biblical times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:16 PM
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Cats have boundaries. I always find it very telling when dog nutters hate cats, and it’s because unlike dogs, cats domesticated themselves, thus weren’t bred to be anywhere as needy or whatever screwed up trait a dog has. It takes time to earn a cat’s trust and friendship. A lot of men don’t like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:18 AM
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yeah sis please watch out. we don’t want you getting murdered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:57 AM
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I’m gonna try and find out if they are getting sponsored by pornhub or mindgeek. Something seriously wrong is afoot and it is reminiscent of big tobacco funding “doctors” and health information to encourage people to take up smoking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:30 PM
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THIS IS GROOMING and I’m so fucking fed up of me warning everyone I know about this and just getting ignored!!! They will defend this shit and I feel like I’m screaming into a void!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:28 PM
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I have the Satisfyer Pro 2, but essentially you want to look for a “clit sucker” lol. There are many types. Try and go for silicone ones. Do NOT go anywhere private when you are dating someone early. Your sexual urges will take over and you’ll want to do sexual things. Don’t go to his house, don’t go to his car. Don’t invite him into your house and stay in public always. Oh I’ve also seen advice from a lot of women to make yourself orgasm before you see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:36 AM
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Call me a prude but I think making out on the second date is way, way too soon. Fuck it, even kissing on the first date. I think at most I would accept a kiss on the cheek. Cunninlingus should be a given every time you have sex tbh, as men don’t need stimulation to get wet, but obviously when he is established and vetted. Back in my pickme days I had a guy give me oral and he kept biting hard on my vulva and clit and I told him to stop doing that MANY times and he wouldn’t. Vet first. Buy a good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:18 AM
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Never go to his house. Never invite him to yours. Only go out in public. Buy a good sex toy and if none of those work try and remember that most guys don’t wipe they asses properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:03 AM
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pedo culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:36 PM
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Yeah, she was weak. She would tell me not to bother getting an education, and to rely on a man for money. I’ll never forget her face, when her friend who was present, looked me dead in the eyes and said “never rely on a man”. Yeah I could believe that, based on other women I know who have been abused, their mothers never stood up for them. If any man ever laid so much as a fingernail on my future daughter, he better had counted his blessings, because he would not be alive for much longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:10 PM
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ooooo you gave me something to look forward to now haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:38 PM
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Thank you for sharing sis. It is very important what we grow up with, what we see as children will impact us for a lifetime. I’m sorry you went through that, and I resonate with a lot of what you said. I know how it feels to be used as a therapist as a child, how heart wrenching it is to see your own mother despair at her ‘wasted life’. My mother was (still is, it’s hard to talk about my parents in the present tense, as I am estranged) married to the same man for 20+ years. He was abusive, a dru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:45 AM
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yep my thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:25 AM
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WELCOME I loved reading that. Man it’s so satisfying watching this sub grow. I come back often to check the numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:02 AM
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Eh, I wouldn’t say it’s unreasonable. I’ve seen a lot of advice on here saying that we should be wary and if we know the man’s name, we should google it. We need to know if they’re dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:57 AM
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I applaud you for speaking out. Many things you said really resonated with me. It is really bizarre the traumatic things we will put our bodies through, just so men who claim to love us can squirt inside. These very men, that if these consequences carried out and we ended up pregnant, would they stick around? Would we want them to? Man the thing with the wire sticking out has sent me with so many flashbacks. The audacity never stops, I had the very same thing happen to me too. I agree with you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:52 AM
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OMG SIS THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!!!! I was in the drs office for like three hours as well! I couldn’t stop throwing up and I was SO HOT I was naked lmfao!!! They had to cover space with a blanket so that I could run out and wait it out in another room lmfao!! It was so embarrassing but it was the most painful thing I ever went through. I had a male doctor and I have sworn off male doctors ever since. I think I spent the rest of the day at home constantly being sick. I definitely went into c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:15 AM
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I mean if you make a good meme it’s probably gonna get stolen. Just think of it in a way that you make good content that other people want to share. That’s just meme culture. It’s digital jokes. Imagine people getting annoyed because someone said their “a priest, a rabbi walk into a bar” etc. Just take it as a compliment sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:09 PM
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🤏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:16 AM
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apparently in the comments, OP elaborates more and said that he wanted “real kids”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:09 PM
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Hmm well if this helps I’ll describe how I used to do myself up vs how I do myself up now. I used to get bullied for my curly hair, guys would say I had “pubes” on my head and they would always say that straight hair would look best. So I complied, I’d spend years damaging my hair for it to be straight, just to fret and stress when it would inevitably get frizzy because of the weather. And even with my straight hair, they’d find other things to point out as flaws. Now I wear my curly hair as a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:51 PM
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happy to hear it sis. you are stronger than you know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:59 PM
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Yep, completely agree. Any time I say “sex work” I always say it in quotations. It’s prostitution. Lmfao I actually had an ex bestie get mad at me because I said that a girl we used to know is a prostitute because she has an Only Fans. Woman in question made an Instagram post saying that haters were calling her a prostitute. Ex bestie was cross and started interrogating me: “How the hell does that make her a prostitute?”. I straight up had to show her a definition of a prostitute. For any lurker…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:41 PM
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omg you poor thing 😔 some men just need to be castrated I swear to goddess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:26 PM
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Ohh very much so. But it’s hard to keep up facades. Red flags will be flying high everywhere. I’m assuming you haven’t read the handbook, and if you haven’t, then DOWNLOAD that shit and read it! Read it twice! and then thrice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:25 AM
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oh, I feel so bad for her 😢 someone start an FDS rescue mission. She looks young. She needs to know about FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:36 AM
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Maybe you didn’t put up with as much crap as he would have liked. Remember sis, they chase what they chase. I’ve heard of men leaving their wonderful wives, just so they can have someone younger. Girl trust me I was the same. I put myself out there being full wifey. I’d be like ‘why Goddess why?? Why am I not good enough?’ I cringe so hard looking back because all those men did was take advantage. I still stood up for myself sometimes though. I’d disagree with them on certain things and make the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:29 AM
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This is the one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:21 PM
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Hey! 😠 I’m in this post and I don’t like it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:06 PM
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I don’t even need to click the article the answer is because they’re pedos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:59 PM
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Thanks! I’m sorry to hear about your depression, sis. Sometimes it isn’t necessarily the external things that can fix it, but something inside of yourself. I’ve spent many a year reflecting on who I want to be as a person, what I want my life to be. What do I want people to say about me when I am gone and dead? I hope this helps. I’ve been there, I hate how it feels. I have vowed to never allow myself to feel like that ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:38 PM
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YESSS!!!!!! Sis you are speaking my language. I detest plastic surgery and how brainwashed and manipulated we have all been to want it. I spent my CHILDHOOD wishing for a breast augmentation. I wanted fillers to get rid of a chin dimple. I wanted surgery on my forehead to make it smaller. I wanted a surgery where they break your bones so it can regenerate, just to have longer legs. It keeps you wheelchair bound for 2 years minimum (seriously, look it up, it’s real). Thank fucking Goddess I kept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:34 PM
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I’ve been a long time smoker of cannabis, and I’m trying to quit. It gets expensive real fast, and I’m not exactly rich or anything. I just couldn’t justify how much I was spending on it every month, and I felt like I wasn’t doing anything with my life. I want singing lessons, driving lessons, I want to have my own place and be independent. I want nice clothes. That’s hard to get when you’re spending £100 or more on weed. Not to mention how bad it is for you. I smoke cigarettes too and I use the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:09 PM
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men aren’t to be trusted I was also friends with a Tom who started treating me like shit when I told him I’m practising celibacy Which makes me wonder 🤔🤔 do we know the same Tom lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:13 PM
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well done sis, you’re a much stronger woman than i am. I’ve had to avoid all men altogether 😂🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:38 PM
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happy to hear you are recovered sis, i am also a fellow anorexia suffer (not at a healthy weight tho) I always use my ED as examples of this bullshittery. I always bring up a hypothetical example of me having violent sex, while a male throws food at me and calls me a fat whore. I always ask people who defend KinkMes if my therapist would think that that was a healthy way to deal with my ED? It shuts them up pretty quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:54 PM
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OMG people keep trying to get me to eat food in order for me to be “hEaLthY” and when I refuse I get committed and force fed through a tube!!! No one will let me starve - even though that’s my identity!!! I try to get a gastric bypass to fulfil my fat identity but they say no every time!! They’re anorexia-shaming me 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:31 PM
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so this is the shit we’re all supposed to enjoy because of this creepy woman?? well thanks, thanks a lot. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:22 PM
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Jesus, reading this is like reading a #MeToo movement specifically for teachers. i haven’t myself been harassed by male teachers (I was ugly in school lol) but we had a male PE teacher who would act so inappropriately with female students. He never hid it, and it went on for years until a girl in my year reported him when she was older. It made national news as well so I feel I can say his name - and it’s hilarious - his name was Mr Badman lmfao. Couldn’t make it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 12:16 PM
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’ve been there, done that many times. Unfortunately there really isn’t much you can do. I wish I could give you answers; I’m always on a quest to find all the answers. Think about when/if you were ever with a dickhead and how offended you would be when others would warn you about them. It’s as if it’s an attack on YOU, an attack on YOUR choices. Ugh, I’ve lost so many best friends because of the abusive pieces of shits they were dating. It sucks. It really s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:03 PM
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Can I also talk about how your attractiveness makes you treated by other women? Yes I’ve been treated bad by men and in no way would it ever compare, but as someone who has only just started to embrace my beauty, I look back on my life and realise how horrible many women have been to me because of it. I often say beauty is a curse, and I have even been made homeless recently by my “best friend” because she felt threatened by me. Like I would be interested in the losers she dates 🙄 I’ve had other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:32 AM
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“see it goes both ways 🥰😊😘 aka PLEASE PICK ME”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:45 PM
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😭🍼 mantrum 😭🍼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:51 AM
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makes me think of Marge and Homer Simpson. Isn’t it correct that in the future episodes they were always divorced?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:48 AM
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I live in the UK and while it’s not perfect whenever I visited Paris I was sexually harassed in some way everyday. I’d be like 16-18 as well, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:46 AM
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Man I think I only ever had one boyfriend who actually took decent pictures of me. He was still a massive asshole unfortunately haha so it ain’t a tell all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:16 AM
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Um... was she actually aware that he had a mistress? I see the comments implying she did. But it’s not clear. It really reads like she didn’t and if that’s the case, that’s awful. I take this more as you can’t really tell what men are up to. Sometimes vetting hard can still fail. I suppose him taking half of the joint account is a 🚩 but they can be so god damn good at lying. Talk about investments or “i’m saving for us babe”. So yeah lesson is save your own money - hard. But damn. She has been r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:39 PM
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If you can be arsed to check my post history I got downvoted for saying animated or drawn child porn is still degenerate as fuck. I had people accuse me of projection LMAO and of course coomers were defending it. Expect more in the future. Also yes I stay the hell away from men who watch anime. When you learn that the age of consent in Japan is 13, it begins to somewhat make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:01 PM
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Omg I knew about the plastic surgery in Korea but I didn’t know about the eating disorders? I’m an anorexia sufferer too, and weirdly enough in my obsession with learning more about it, I never thought to check which countries have it more. Shit. I wonder how many Korean, Japanese and Chinese women we see who are rail thin but dismiss it as an ‘Asian’ thing, because on average they are smaller. But when you take into consideration the brutal competition and improper work/life balance (amongst ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:54 PM
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hey! that’s my comment lmao! Fuck you AHS. You know full well if we showed evidence of you sabotaging subs with CP we could be held liable for distribution. You of all people should know. Enough people know of your bullshit because all of us who have our spaces banned congregate and discuss it. There are many witnesses. I promise you one day the chickens will come home to roost. Oops, what’s this though? A former user of AHS exposing the corruption and degeneracy? Straight from the horses mouth?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:11 AM
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Honestly? I have no idea. Maybe you have to send ID or a picture of it. I really have no idea. I am skeptical of how well regulated it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:49 PM
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I was studying to become a lawyer but I couldn’t cope with the fierce competitiveness of my peers. It would often be downright backstabbing. It wrecked my mental health (and it was already terrible to begin with) and I started playing with the idea of sex work. I - ashamedly - uploaded pictures of myself to a sugar daddy website. I really hope they’ve been taken down now. Those who go into sex work are almost always traumatised and have histories of abuse. That is a fact. Its so exploitative and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:51 PM
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I remember the r/banfemalehatesubs. I used to follow it on my alternative reddit account. I can’t seem to find it? It hasn’t been banned, has it? If it has, jeeez - could reddit get any more blatant with its hatred of women? Edit: I think my app just glitched out it’s still alive and kicking. Phew. Edit Edit: It seems when you search it, it doesn’t appear in the results. Is this deliberate? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:25 AM
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ugh seriously fuck that sub. They post child porn in subs they want banned. Thank god for our mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:11 AM
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Reading all of these comments about men who started dating when their wives were dying in hospital. Absolutely sickening. We really are disposable to them aren’t we? So, so glad I’m realising this while still young. God damn it. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:24 AM
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Thank you!! I hate the utter ‘confused’ look he had on his face. What a pathetic worm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:41 PM
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😂😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:34 PM
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Can we have a transcript for us deaf folk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:13 PM
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Lmao asking the real questions. I’d be drunk if I did that 😔 so i’d probably have to leave it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:08 PM
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my dad also said to go for the eyes!!! I remember he said to try and gouge them out and then - to quote - “do some weightlifting with their testicles”. Lmao brutal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:03 PM
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Yes, it’s probably the only thing men are honest about. Notice when they fight with each other, they never go for the balls. It’s like the have mutual understanding that that’s a no no. Self defence tips for women almost always tell us to aim for the balls, my own dad included lol. I remember reading that you can knee them so hard they can vomit uncontrollably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:54 PM
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This meme was stolen from Ovarit.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:31 PM
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you’re my hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:51 AM
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even his friend said they looked like “babies” and he just completely ignored it! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:10 AM
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YES! I’ve always thought this!! I recently ditched a bunch of guy friends who would always do it. It drove me insane. Also I’d like to add it was even worse when you try and give them a taste of their own medicine - wind them up and berate them like they always do to you. They’ll turn around and claim that you’re worse than they are. God, it was the most frustrating thing ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:35 PM
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haha right? it’s so pathetic FYI I heard about this guy from mutual friends that he used to beat up ex girlfriends of his... dodged a bullet there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:32 PM
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it’s such a huge red flag. I broke up with a scrote once, after only a month of dating, and one thing he said was “I stayed very faithful to you and I’m really proud of that” like... ?? That’s pretty much a fundamental basic of a relationship lmao. Definitely felt like he either isn’t faithful normally, or if I continued to date him he wouldn’t have remained faithful. Absolutely bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:03 PM
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very good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:50 AM
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omg! you are doing god’s work! genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:03 AM
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“Wife, whore or working woman? Looks like society is pretty much forcing us to do all three for the price of one.” Fantastic comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:31 PM
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that’s actually really sad 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:37 PM
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This is very true, however I do think they’re starting factors. Coming from someone who currently lives in a poor area, it’s difficult to find a man around here who isn’t still living with parents. They’re always so broke, it’s so bad I’ve had to swear off dating until I relocate. I do live in a bumfuck middle of nowhere place lol so you can imagine how that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:52 PM
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Ah that is a shame. FYI if those men who were asking you out in college were older than you they were not HV. I think you need to focus on yourself more. Obviously with there being a pandemic going out to meet new people is going to be rather difficult. I suggest reflecting on things you like. If you do make new relationships, try and focus on building relationships with fellow women (they may even know someone they could introduce you to one day). Female relationships are way more fulfilling an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:05 PM
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I’m no expert because I have no friends any more lol but I imagine HVM would be in higher social settings. I’m thinking education, classy places. I imagine if you’re hanging out with people who have no ambition, there’ll be LVM around everywhere. Sounds harsh but that’s what levelling up is. Sorry if it’s personal but why are you surrounded by LVM everyday?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:47 PM
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Dating apps are a big no no. You won’t find any HVM on there. It’s filled with LVM looking for a free prostitute. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:40 PM
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hahaha PATHETIC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:22 PM
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I’m sorry but I’m really starting to believe it’s impossible to be friends with men, unless they are homosexual. I really do believe they always think they have the potential to fuck you. Tell them you’re completely unavailable to dating - celibate, even, and watch them treat you with a complete lack of respect. I too had a porn watching friend, and I enjoyed hanging out with him - we used to cook together and talk about really interesting things, and just like you I was torn because it’s my fav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:20 AM
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How very interesting 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤨🤨🤨🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:15 AM
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When Juanita gets hit by a car accidentally and she’s in hospital, Gabby finds out Juanita’s blood type is an A, whereas Gabby and Carlos are an O. So she thinks she had an affair with a frenchman. And instead of telling Carlos she starts ‘making out’ with him pretending to be asleep and is like 😵 “my sexsomnia!! it’s a huge issue” to make it seem like if she did cheat she did it unknowingly 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:59 PM
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LMAO someone has been watching Desperate Housewives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:34 PM
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What’s your favourite song of theirs? Or favourite few if you can’t pick one haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:06 PM
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Me too!! I was practically raised on them so I’ve always loved them. I think they’re so underrated!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:36 PM
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omg that was hilarious 😂😭 also wtf why was it so sexual??? god damn shows about teens in school are always like this it’s SO weird noticing it now as an adult 🤢🤮 maybe those conspiracy illuminati theorists are right that hollywood is grooming kids lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:27 AM
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It’s been so many years since I’ve watched it do you remember any of the things that he did? I ask only because I remember liking him lol. Turn me OFF I am ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:56 AM
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same here sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:33 AM
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Excellent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:10 AM
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Weirdly enough my dad was the first person I ever heard criticise the position that women give birth in. He mentioned women in ancient agricultural china (Idk how accurate this is) doing labour while heavily pregnant, doing a simple squat and giving birth, then carrying on with their day 😂 I never forgot it. He also said “do you ever see anyone taking a shit lying down?” lmaooo he was an asshole but could be hilariously insightful at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:03 AM
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This is an interesting one 🤔🤔 I’ve met many men, some with great music tastes and some not so (they’ve all been assholes though). My biggest red flag would be a lack of willingness to listen to other kinds of music. I had a friend like this, he pretty much only listened to one genre ever and anything that fell out of that bracket was “shit”. I think looking down on female artists is a given, or making snide assumptions about what you (a woman) listens to. At a friends’ house when it was my turn …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:35 AM
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nah every time you think this, just think of all the tabloids men run documenting women because they put 10lbs on when pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:27 AM
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this should be a real thing. like a magazine. seriously i would subscribe. take my money 💵💰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:23 AM
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Yep I’m making a conscious decision to cut men out of my life. Literally every single man - EVERY SINGLE MAN - has let me down in some form or another - at best. At worst they have threatened my life. Fuck them I’m never speaking to any of them again unless I absolutely have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:09 AM
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My advice to you would be to wait until you are established until you go no contact. Unless going no contact immediately is the safest option for you - wait. And if you do go immediately, go to a women’s refuge. Do you have money? Your own place? A car? If you went no contact would you be homeless? Avoid being in these situations, it would be much harder for an outsider family to take advantage of you. All times it has happened to me I have been homeless, and I still am today because I kept gett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:54 AM
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Well you described it perfectly. Narcs and abusers. It’s often that those raised by narcs (me) get sniffed out by other narcs. Always run when a family hears of your situation and immediately want to ‘adopt’ you. It’s 100% always the case they are doing it to take advantage of you. Family relationships are just like other relationships, it takes a very long time to be accepted into one, it’s probably one of the most tribal things we have left on this planet. You don’t just invite people in unles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:19 AM
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second comment is based I’ve been in situations too many times from friends/boyfriends families wanting to “adopt” me and it has always ended in disaster. no thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:09 AM
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that or he’s being a creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:47 AM
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“Happily”... you cannot prove that. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:16 AM
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Oh my Goddess 😱 absolutely depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:12 AM
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Thank the Holy Lord more women are speaking up about this 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:45 AM
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lmao sorry for being dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:25 AM
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Accept the ring, keep it and dump him in the 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:00 PM
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Today is also the anniversary of the École Polytechnique Massacre in 1989 that killed 14 women because of an ‘anti feminist’ homicidal maniac
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:49 PM
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HAHA YES!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:42 AM
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I’m also gonna throw in Adult Children of Alcoholics (and Dysfunctional Families) also known as ACoA. I’m unsure of your location OP but they actually have meetings, similar to AA (Alcoholics Anonymous). And you can share your experiences with people who will be astonishingly similar. The writings in the book they have resonated so much as well. I’ve estranged from my family personally and have found they’re a great support. Unfortunately they don’t have meetings in my area, I’d have to go to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:12 PM
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For real I dated a guy who was 11 years older than me and he straight up said “I wanna be your dad”. You can imagine how that relationship ended...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:12 PM
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Right? That threw me off. I don’t think people (mostly women) with active eating disorders should date but it’s more because THEY are the vulnerable ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:30 PM
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You’re so lucky. I also look super young like a 12 year old and I encountered men wanting me to shave all the time 😫 It’s so disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:11 AM
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You hook up with an ugly guy suddenly his ego gets inflated and he’ll try to keep yours down in order to get his validation YES!!!! Yes yes yes! I’ve always gone out or hooked up with guys way under my league, except for maybe 2? And the sex has always been amazing, even if it was just casual. We connected more. But these fuckin uggos are the absolute worst in bed. 0/10 performance it always ends up in the most disappointing thing ever, to the point I instantly lose attraction lmao. I’d be attra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:39 AM
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I’m not so sure people (men, mostly) really are looking for a ‘soulmate’. I think people forget just how nihilistic most men especially have become. It’s everywhere. I see every time how they don’t believe in soulmates, think that relationships are pointless because they always end - or end badly, there’s no such thing as love; it’s a “biochemical” product to get us to reproduce. You get the idea. I get a lot of parallels with those who are vehemently nihilistic are also terribly depressed. It’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:22 PM
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Yes!! Glad to see this comment. I think my body count was no more than 10 but because it was MORE than my BF’s he acted so weird and insecure because of it. Wouldn’t even listen to a playlist I had for romance times because he’d “be thinking about all the guys I’ve fucked with it”. Pretty sure it was only 1 but jesus. I even told him I fucked a guy listening to Led Zeppelin all night - will that be shunned now too? Pathetic. Now I never discuss body counts with ANY man. And when they pry I take …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:41 PM
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Omg no never discuss body counts with men. Ever. I don’t care if you’ve slept with 100 people or are a virgin. THEY CANNOT HANDLE IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:37 PM
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I genuinely had a guy at a bar try to hit me up and he told me how he was a ‘sociopath’. Am I supposed to be impressed?! 😂 I was like ‘damn ok now I know to stay away from u so thanks’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:22 PM
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Omg! Yes Marina!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:31 AM
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“you are right and wrong” “yes and no” Ah, the enlightened fence-sitter. Has no strong opinions, will agree with you but also think of a reason you’re wrong. Probably a “devil’s advocate” too. Knew so many guys like this 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:48 AM
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lmao well in my personal experience every man who has begged me for doggy style went nowhere near my clit. They wanted it so they could jackhammer me. Because of their deathgrip I assume. I think it’s also a popular position in pornography. I don’t trust men who always want to enact porn scenes on me, for starters. It can be fun sometimes, but if that’s what he’s wanting pretty much all the time to get off, I would take that as a 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:02 AM
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Omg I have such a baby face. I’m anorexic as well so my body looks young. And I get such creepy guys too, sometimes when I’m wearing my disney pjs lmao it makes me look young but I’ve had them for years and they’re comfy. But ugh, some pedo men have given me such creepy stares when I’ve opened my door to them. One even stopped me closing it! Creep! Always much, much older, could easily be in their 50s. Idk how to stop it I just count down the days until I’m in my 40s and visibly an old lady lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:13 AM
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🚩🚩 Erectile dysfunction at a really young age, bonus points if they’ve bought and taken viagra and they’re below the age of 30. 🚩🚩 Talking about bondage, BDSM, or other depraved shit and describing sweet, embracing sex as ‘vanilla’. 🚩🚩 Applying sexual connotations to things (for example I went to an all girls school, I think every time I bring it up there’ll be one dickhead who asks me if we were all lesbians), bonus points if he’s an adult and still fantasises about school girls. 🚩🚩 I think thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:55 AM
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I think I was 12
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 05:33 AM
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I hear you sis. Let me tell you we aren’t the only ones this has happened to. And we’re not the only ones who are sick of it. https://www.bbc.com/news/amp/uk-50546184
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:28 AM
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Yikes. I had something similar about an FDS meet-up. I remember reading on here though that they never condone meet ups because of sketchy men. So I just ignored it. Men ruin everything though I would love to go to an FDS meet-up 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:26 PM
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This makes me glad I went to an all girls’ school. Every time I bring that up to a scrote, they, like clockwork, bring up fantasy lesbian schoolgirl orgies. I don’t think they can help themselves. Sometimes I wonder if they’re robots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:27 PM
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I think the most obvious red flag for me would be that when they were in bed, they would choke me out of the blue. Of course, back then I used to jump into bed with men waaaay too soon, so this advice isn’t the most relevant. One thing that has always stuck with me though, was their astonishment when I snapped at them or pushed them off, and excuses of “I genuinely thought you’d like it!” That right there is porn, and it’s because everyday porn is becoming more violent and graphic. It’s like it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:14 PM
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This is why I don’t vote any more. I’m not budging until there’s a party that centres women’s rights. We’re always a last priority and I’m so done with it. I always wonder what the Suffragette’s would do if they were alive today. Would they still vote? Or would they go out and demand a Woman’s Party?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:06 PM
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right? I do this lol but it’s because I go through leftovers pretty quick. But then I remembered I have Tefal. I love that pot haha - 15 year guarantee baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:34 PM
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hahaha spot on there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:55 PM
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omg do we have the same friend 😭😂 He was such a creep too, constantly talking about how much he prefers the company of women and is a feminist. The moment I talk to him about my beliefs in radical feminism and being gender critical, he did a complete 180 and acted like the biggest prick ever. Called me a nazi lmao. So fucking strange. I run a mile when I meet “super duper chill” men. I find they’re usually just stoners and they’ll always, always patronise you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:00 PM
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🚩🚩🚩🚩 Pretty much every guy I’ve ever dated go on about how ‘relaxed and chill’ they are, and they 100% of the time turn out to be the laziest, most emotionally stunted, biggest douchebags ever. Stand up to them, and they’ll shout “fuck you” to your face. They’ll accuse you of being crazy, or high maintenance. I find that they neg you all the time, and laugh when you react angrily to that. Don’t even get me started on the ‘half jokes’ they use an excuse to defend the shitty things they say. Dump …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:27 PM
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Yes! I was talking about this on WGTOW recently. I used to watch Scrubs a lot, it was one of my faves but watching it post-FDS has been a complete game changer. It’s really damn hard to root for male characters I used to really like these days. Or even when I watch anything new for that matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:56 AM
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Could you go more in depth? I love character analyses. I actually watched some of The Office for the first time recently. Stopped when it got to their wedding though, that was the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:51 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 perfectly put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:52 PM
3

Omg!! I’ve been saying this ever since my last ex 😭😭 He literally said all of his ex girlfriends were crazy and abusive, and like the dumb shit I was I thought I’d be so different and special. Well you can guess what happened, he drove me fucking crazy. I was seriously mentally ill too and when I went to rehab for an eating disorder he dumped me on my last week of rehab. 😓😓 So stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:50 PM
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Pfffft whenever I compliment men they either a) hurl abuse at me because of their deep self-hatred or b) take it as permission to pursue me sexually give men an inch, and they’ll take a mile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:51 PM
23

in the same boat here sis 😭 The IUD was one of the most traumatising experiences of my life. It was so painful I started throwing up everywhere - was so embarrassing. I don’t think I left the DR’s office until several hours later, still throwing up and constantly felt like I had to pee, like my body was rejecting it. I too feel weird since getting it, very spacey and it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one. All for a dumbass scrote that didn’t even last. REGRET getting the IUD so much. Just like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:31 AM
7

😂🤣😭 dis tru
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:41 PM
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I bet men like this still struggled to find a “wench” in older times. What the hell would they have to offer? No land, certainly no cattle. No jewellery I bet either. Laughable. They would have been just as alone. Some things never change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:50 PM
34

omg sims 1 and sims 2 were my life!!! I hate how soulless they have become now 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:52 PM
14

I was walking across a bus station late at night once, and I had this man shouting at me from the station. I had my headphones in so I couldn’t hear exactly but I knew it was obscene and that he was drunk. I started running away and HE STARTS RUNNING AFTER ME. It was one of the scariest moments of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:52 AM
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This absolutely boils my piss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:14 AM
14

The earliest evidence we have for the creation of a calendar were made by women. What man needed to track 28 days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:19 PM
32

🤮🤮🤮 You couldn’t PAY me to live there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:54 PM
28

Same here. Just seems like a huge conflict of interest. I always make sure to see a woman now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:14 PM
9

what a goddess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:16 PM
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