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31

they’re so blind it’s shocking to see, when people show you who they are believe them ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:46 AM
27

lmfao yes I’m sure that’s why he watches porn, to support sex workers of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:37 AM
117

men recognize that there is something disrespectful about the way women are treated in pornography which is why they wouldn’t date porn stars, it’s just that they too want to treat those women in the exact same disrespectful manner which is where the hypocrisy stems from. their dilemma is that they want the women close to them to be protected from other men that are precisely like them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:11 PM
145

“most men are in a drought therefore if they get what is hard to obtain and abandon it that is much more telling” but they are abandoning it for something else they’ve already found, they’re not ending up with nothing which would have actually been meaningful. in fact they’re ending up better off in their eyes since they’re getting a younger woman, so it is telling in that it shows that they are opportunistic and once one of those rare opportunities to “upgrade” presents itself they’re very like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:52 PM
297

the affair already started when her friend had sex with her husband for the first time in the threesome, now it’s only a matter of continuing where they left off lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:11 PM
926

why is she bothered by the thought of her friend fucking her husband again,that didn’t bother her the first time???😂that ship has already sailed, the deed is done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:00 PM
152

“it took 18 bodies until I finally learned my lesson” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:01 PM
236

this is actually how promiscuous men view casual sex in particular, as them using a body as masturbatory aid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:59 PM
27

because up till this point society didn’t have women’s best interests in mind, the only one benefiting from a woman marrying a male hoe is the male hoe himself who now gets a wife despite his previous degenerate behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:46 PM
377

that remaining 5% is still better than what his unhygienic unmoisturized ass has though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:49 PM
5

it attracts the worst demographic of men, there should be a public list with every one that gave this a like or a reward 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:42 PM
6

if he respected you he wouldn’t ask for a second wife in the first place lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:39 PM
11

very big brain of any woman to do that 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:37 PM
8

yeah exactly, let a man even suggest something like a threesome and the whole relationship will be over before he can blink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:36 PM
7

Why share the housework with another woman when you should be sharing it with your husband who’s the one supposed to be doing the part of it that you’re not doing ? Your solution to your husband’s incompetence would be to let him disrespect you in one of the worst ways a husband can demean his wife ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:33 PM
54

I just know that what he means by “lying for your best interests ” is that when he does something like cheat and gets caught lying about it he’ll say “ I didn’t tell you the truth to spare your feelings, it was to avoid hurting you so it was for your benefit🤪”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:28 AM
20

“if I think it’s in your best interest” not knowing the truth is never in a person’s best interest no matter how uncomfortable that truth is he’s already preparing for some gaslighting to take place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:24 AM
3

This is the state of woman these days, ladies. There’s nothing more to say except choose to do better. Whether you’ll ever be this woman relies entirely on you and your decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:14 AM
15

“open to either monogamous or non monogamous relationships” you lost me there already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:09 PM
364

man he’s in for a rude awakening... I wish his wife learns about this and dumps him though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:10 AM
53

yes and the fact that women generally live longer than men makes this a very likely scenario
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:38 PM
134

besides the fact that dying alone is a preferable alternative to dying with a lvm that has mistreated you for the past 40+ years, men are too easy to be pretending that nonconformity to their standards is a genuine threat to a woman’s ability to get men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:44 PM
29

yeah just let them believe this lol you guys wait for that peak, I’ll just keep dating men under 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:26 AM
91

“at 40 years old a man is usually at his peak” this is how I know a man wrote this lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:17 AM
59

I’m always the one to give posts like these the benefit of the doubt and believe that maaaybe there’s a chance a woman wrote them, but come on this just screams male 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:15 AM
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we are not shaming men for “being men” because we believe men have the capacity to be good, very misandristic of you lvm though to assume that being garbage is what “being a man” is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:34 PM
3

coomer moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:52 PM
8

Just because we aren’t interested in having sex outside of a committed relationship doesn’t mean we see sex as transactional, in fact the last thing we want is men that want a commitment-sex exchange. We are not “rewarding” men who commit to us with sex, their commitment is exchanged for our commitment and sex in a relationship should be beneficial to both parties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:44 PM
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“my respect for her 📈” sure everyone believed that, wonder what he’d think of his homie making a tik tok on how much he loves pegging and why men should try it due to the location of their g spot...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:34 AM
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“a woman who’s fucking a man with no strings thinks they’re people who like each other but don’t want commitment, a man doing the same thinks she’s a toy he can use” this is precisely why I have a double standard when it comes to promiscuity, female and male promiscuity simply aren’t equivalent due to the differences in the way each sex treats the other during casual encounters as well as the type of views they tend to have on them. women who have casual sex regularly are not the same as men who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:19 PM
26

damn I wonder why, almost like there’s a certain type of men that the alt right attracts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:31 PM
39

this is your reminder to never send nudes to anyone for any reason, once you send them you have no control over what happens to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:29 AM
9

yeah the mods should definitely take this into consideration, we absolutely need a backup in case anything happens to this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:02 PM
15

we all have our league that is based on our appearance, this is true for both women and men. no point lamenting it, we just have to do the best we can with what we’re given a lot of infiltrators here lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:19 AM
144

I can just imagine the “women are never satisfied!!1!” comments on that one lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:22 PM
98

yet another example of male hypergamy 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:20 PM
20

This sub helps women in so many ways it’s astonishing! Keep up the good work, focusing on improving yourself always pays off in the end 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:13 PM
8

it’s even worse when you take into consideration the kind of experiences women who have had casual sex usually have, makes you really wonder what type of men out there are into sleeping around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:57 PM
243

“but ugly guys will treat you better and won’t cheat on you!!1!” yeah because that’s exactly what I was looking for, men who only treat me well and don’t cheat on me out of necessity because they have no other option
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:41 PM
188

Just remember that every time you give a man the benefit of the doubt the only person who has to lose is you. You are the one taking the risk, not him. You will be the one to deal with the consequences should he fool you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:39 PM
69

lmfaooo thanks for making my day, this is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:12 AM
154

I hope women one day realize that a lot of times simply cutting people off is the best option. Not every relationship salvageable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:12 AM
36

exactly even pickmes don’t stay with cheaters because “they love the fact that they’re cheating🤪”, they are heartbroken over it and they stay with them in hopes that they’ll change (which is ridiculous because a. once a cheater always a cheater and even more importantly b. cheating even once is a disrespectful act that should never be forgiven)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:27 PM
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lmao he tried it, he’s just an attention whore, don’t give him any thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:24 PM
37

She spit nothing but facts. All this sums up to is: be truthful. That’s the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:18 PM
27

Yes they most certainly do, their depravity knows no bounds. And about the fact that some of them say that “if only they had a pure wife they would no longer seek out the type of women that they consider to fall under the ‘whore’ category” it’s nothing but crap, they still fantasize about those women and if their wife told them that they could sleep with them they absolutely would use the opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:18 PM
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She knows the actual reason he’s doing this, she’s just hanging onto that last bit of hope she has that she’s wrong. I really hope she doesn’t gaslight herself into staying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:12 PM
3

lmao agreed 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:03 AM
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First of all, asking for an open relationship means the relationship should be ended asap Second of all, it’s terrifying how blind women can become because they care so much about a person. This is why always putting yourself first is so important, there are people who are more than willing to use your empathy towards them to their advantage and by being completely selfless without critical thought you will be used. This whole thing was tragic, it breaks my heart seeing kind women with good inte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:39 PM
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Girl I know don’t worry about it, we all make mistakes, we’re humans and we are bound to be influenced by societal standards. I’m not blaming you I was just kidding, If anything I’m happy to see more women become aware of all of this and changing their attitude towards sex accordingly. Also going full on stealth lesbian or staying single both seem to be great options for bi women and I’m considering them myself, biphobia is pretty shitty to deal with indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:15 AM
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Damn so fifty shades of grey was accurate then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:03 AM
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imagine being a bi woman and letting a man use that to disrespect you by asking to fuck other women... could never be me And btw men view FFM threesomes as them fucking two women, not as “you and him having sex with another woman together”, this is why they ask their straight gfs, who don’t want to have sex with women, for threesomes too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:54 AM
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Yeah and men who have casual sex don’t tend to be good in bed, all you have to do is take a look at what women who have casual sex say about them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:10 PM
26

“Men don’t have low standards, they just feel entitled to use the women that don’t meet them” very well said 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:07 PM
38

Precisely this. They view the actual relationship as the work they have to put in order to get the real end which is sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:03 PM
53

Exactly, according to them a man with a high n count is a man that was so desperate for meaningless casual sex that he actively put a lot of effort to get it, that is the antithesis of what we’re looking for when it comes to relationships which is a man that cares about emotional connection and commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:23 PM
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Lmao keep whining we will not budge on this, men who are interested in the degrading sexual acts portrayed in porn are men we do not see as worthy for any type of commitment. If that means being single so be it, we put emphasis here on fds on staying single should no one meet this standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:38 AM
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Exactly, women are conditioned to practically gaslight themselves into accepting a bad deal when it comes to relationships which is ludicrous. Here’s what every woman would actually benefit from doing 1) be completely comfortable with the idea of being single even permanently 2) stop struggling to make any relationship work and let things flow naturally regardless of whether that leads to a fulfilling relationship or a breakup. Simply maintain high standards and act according to them. Remember t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:00 AM
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god clearly wanted you to win lmao, how lucky to have ended the relationship before you married this trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:11 PM
19

At this point everyone but libfems know what’s actually going on with sex work and how “empowering” it truly is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:13 AM
152

until men stop being degenerate in such large numbers we will continue to not give them the benefit of the doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:17 AM
60

when you wanted a prostitute but got a girlfriend instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:03 PM
20

Ugliest mf around and he does this. Let me hear again about how “cHaDs” are the only ones sleeping around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:25 PM
38

women always lose because they’re ready to gaslight themselves into oblivion to excuse men’s atrocious behavior when men never do the same in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:17 PM
253

male hypergamy strikes again 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:18 PM
81

Yeah, it truly changes lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:38 PM
23

“You are against prostitution because you want pussy to be scarce” Yes of course, because women want to date men who see them as a replacement to prostitutes, practically as a walking fleshlight./s If anything the decriminalization of prostitution benefits women who are not sex workers because it filters out men who solely want sex from them (and filtering men like these is something that we focus a lot on here on fds, so you would expect fds to be pro sex work as it would help women looking for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:10 PM
34

pov: you’re a man about to be radicalized into becoming a misogynist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:18 PM
6

“damn bait usually gets an inflammatory response” you heard it straight from the horse’s mouth, don’t give them what they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:31 PM
13

You are the backup at this point, the easy comfortable option. He doesn’t take your relationship (or you for that matter) seriously. He’s leaving the decision to you because he hopes you’ll be dumb enough to take him back after continuously disrespecting you. The woman he cheated on you with is telling the truth. She has no reason to lie to you, but he does. All you’ll gain by taking him back is a relationship with a man who’s laughing behind your back because he got away with everything he did.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:04 PM
25

Does her husband give her this kind of “gifts”? Or is she getting played ? (I bet the latter)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:54 PM
96

she’s the easy placeholder girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:20 PM
150

someone needs to collect men’s comments exposing what they really think of casual sex and then have that collection shown to a libfem to explain how this is in any way empowering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:31 PM
154

if it were empowering for women, prostitution would have never been allowed in a patriarchal society where women were hated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:29 PM
55

at that point why even be married? you’re putting yourself through psychological pain for no reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:42 PM
68

Divorce her, scrote. For her sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:34 PM
495

if only women realized that this attracts the wrong types of men, you’re not getting a man who’s boyfriend material with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:59 PM
196

I saw that too, she was trying to cope with the situation so hard it was depressing. She even said something along the lines of “ I have to remind myself that even though she’s prettier, she’s not me” like my sweet summer child, that is PRECISELY why he’s on a date with her and not you 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:56 PM
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why do we have a name for women who are in relationships with men solely for their money, but we don’t have a name for men who are in a relationship with a woman solely for sex ?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:29 AM
65

and that’s why women keep losing in relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:14 PM
79

Facts, this is just humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:14 PM
157

What a dumpster fire, I feel bad for her but she made so many wrong choices from the start it’s ridiculous. 1)Why did she choose to become the girlfriend of a man who previously rejected her ? 2)”He was my only man while I wasn’t his only girl” how did she end up in THE worst possible scenario you could have in fwb ??? 3)”Is there anything I can do to not feel like 2nd place?” Maybe lie to yourself, because you ARE 2nd place. Why do you think he didn’t want to get in a relationship with you the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:08 PM
26

*30+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:06 PM
45

Agreed . If a man is going to cheat, it’s better if he did it because he had feelings for someone else than just because he wanted sex. In both cases he’ll be disposed, but at least the first gives him a more valid reason than choosing to betray the conditions of the relationship just cause he wanted to nut. The second one is much, much more disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:24 PM
17

This is it. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:16 PM
35

exactly, you just let him get away with breaking one of your most important conditions, this man finessed you and he’s laughing about it behind your back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:24 PM
170

The fact that it has to be said that accepting disrespect from your partner isn’t empowering but in fact it’s the complete opposite shows just how meaningless the term “empowerment” has become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:18 PM
55

“you’re the mature one” is what people say to losers who accept a bad deal in order to make them feel better about themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:15 PM
42

I am always mad at these women for the way they treat themselves but I also kinda feel bad for them because it’s such an obvious cope when they say this, they’re desperately trying to convince themselves that they’re past what happened and they don’t realize that any negative reaction they have at this betrayal is natural and completely justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:07 PM
82

same my friend, it’s really ironic just how liberating it is to give up liberal feminism lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:03 PM
141

I saw someone on twitter saying that liberal feminism is trying to teach women to enjoy the cage instead of breaking it and it’s surprisingly accurate. Libfems are trying to pose the sexual objectification, degradation and dehumanization of women as empowering if the women choose it themselves. But is it really a choice when society continues to pressure women into hypersexualizing themselves in order to be recognized as women and the alternative is being seen as prudish and stuck up? Is it a co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:01 PM
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Lmao it literally doesn’t matter if it’s a choice or not, we will not accept it either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:26 AM
2

I would too 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:19 AM
239

black men are always the first to trash black women, it’s despicable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:23 PM
204

it’s so predictable it’s embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:48 PM
3

Think about how many times have you seen a man try to take up a woman’s hobbies vs a woman trying to take up a man’s. Also think about the amount of women who search up how to do X sex act (such as how to give a blowjob) to please a man vs the amount of men who are doing the same. Women keep doing things for men that men do not do for women, it’s gotten really embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:57 AM
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Thank god I know this now that I’m 21 myself. I’m keeping both me and all my friends far away from these depraved mfs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:58 AM
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Oh I definitely believe that most women would still choose commitment even in that ideal world, I was talking about the minority of women who are genuinely interested in casual sex. I don’t think that they should choose to have casual sex even if they want to because the current hookup scene has too many drawbacks for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:34 PM
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Very well said. In a better world women would be able to have casual sex without the judgment and risks that they currently face, but right now we do not live in such a world and women have more to lose through hookups. The drawbacks simply outweigh the benefits at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:42 PM
76

So porn can act as a substitute for rape? Wonder what this says about porn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:39 PM
49

but all that swaying is turning them on 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:27 PM
115

Nothing but the truth, I’ve noticed men who have casual sex often have a very twisted and objectifying view of women that women who have casual sex don’t have for men. Think about the type of man who would be interested in that in the first place, it’s a man who doesn’t value connection as much and views sex as more of a physical act than an emotional one, of course this is gonna attract the “I see women as fleshlights” crowd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:24 PM
81

lmao facts, there is a reason women who have casual sex are so often left unsatisfied
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:15 PM
298

This is literally THE female fantasy, a man who doesn’t sleep with just about any woman and chooses her specifically. It is only then that the choice of the man has any meaning, otherwise she is just pussy#34. There’s nothing unique about having a man who every woman could have asked to have sex with and he would say yes, but there is something really special about having a man who views sex as something intimate to be shared only with a partner who then chooses only you for that role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:10 PM
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This!!!!! Do not tell them early on, this is personal information that you should share only after the man has been vetted carefully! Otherwise you run the risk of attracting the wrong type of crowd aka men with the madonna/whore complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:50 PM
639

when you get a nice clean object to dirty up 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:47 PM
228

“But women get so many more compliments than men!” The compliments:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:42 PM
202

• bf much older • bf more “”sexually experiencedTM”” • bf wants a threesome and she’s dating this? This is really the state of women today? We’ve been THAT brainwashed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:27 PM
10

“Guys could you please leave some fleshlights for everyone 🥺?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:47 PM
6

They absolutely do, notice that he doesn’t care about the fact that men who have so called harems are also objectifying women, he is just mad that he isn’t one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:36 PM
14

lol they don’t care about “love” they care about sex, I’m glad men expose themselves online so that women are aware of the trash that could potentially surround them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:23 PM
30

And on another note, a billionaire who has a “harem” is an example of a man who ALSO doesn’t see women as human. This is why it’s important to assess men individually because it doesn’t matter how rich or poor, successful or unsuccessful a man is, the dehumanization of women is something that men from all different categories can be guilty of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:18 PM
30

A crown as a symbol for your level up 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:09 PM
4

We’re discussing this exact topic over here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:50 PM
84

Honestly the mistake women make when they do stuff like this is that they believe these images will challenge men’s perception of women who dress like this. In reality, men don’t see a difference between an “empowering” picture of a woman in lingerie and a regular one, because either way they get a picture that they find sexual and that is all that matters. They don’t care about whether the picture was meant to pander to them or not because in the end it does. It’s similar to how women thought t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:26 PM
141

This is the type of shit kink allows men to get away with. This is the type of men it attracts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:02 PM
9

She’s the only one in the relationship, he’s been single for a long time now 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:30 PM
11

She didn’t end the relationship when she caught him using dating apps ?!? My girl this relationship has been over for a while now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:28 PM
10

They love generalizing men when it excuses their actions and hate it when it casts a bad light on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:01 PM
16

“All men watch porn” Then no men are relationship material, better to stay single. Here we go again with the “aLl mEn” excuse when people want to justify shitty behavior coming from men, as if the number of men doing something changes whether the act should be acceptable or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:44 PM
32

welcome to the sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:21 PM
75

treat him like a king and instead of treating you like a queen he’ll treat you like a servant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:16 PM
19

“I’m also a man and a threesome is on my bucket list” It’s the normalization of shit like this that has left most men unsuitable for any serious relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:10 PM
24

anything degrading to her brings him joy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:02 PM
21

Normal or not it doesn’t matter, women are under no obligation to accept it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:01 PM
13

Because they got a clean object to use and they’re proud. Nasty mfs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:59 PM
7

He thought she was someone else and that didn’t stop him. Now she should know that he’s willing to cheat (and likely has already). This is serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:43 PM
23

What fighting ?!?!? He was ready to go for it lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:36 PM
32

they called cute a man who was ready to sleep with who he thought was another person?!? Send the rescue helicopter asap 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:35 PM
58

“I cAn FiX hIm !!1!” Why would you want to be with a faulty man who can’t and doesn’t want to fix himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:56 PM
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it’s the brainwashing sis, you’re told something enough times you start to believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:17 AM
595

He was the one who wanted to show off to his friends and now he’s upset that they saw what he wanted them to see... What a dumbass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:12 AM
31

oh MY gOd I rELaTE sOOO mUCh !!!😍SO tRUe bEstiE !1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:44 AM
68

The consequences of assuming a man is not one of the innocent ones and getting it wrong are much, much less severe than the consequences of assuming a man is one of the innocent ones and getting that wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:40 PM
7

and to find him another woman to fuck that is, it doesn’t get worse than that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:56 PM
8

He is not interested in you sis, he wants to fuck someone else. It’s that simple, cut him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:53 PM
217

She’s sending nudes ?? Bad idea girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:58 PM
889

“if there was any indication that I was siding with her the guy would get pissed and discontinue therapy” Lmao of course they did that, these men go to therapy to convince their girlfriends that they’re wrong and that they should learn to accept the shit they do to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:00 PM
248

It’s nasty as fuck and it reveals their true intentions, because what do ALL these different women have in common that you’re so interested in my friend 🤔?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:54 PM
115

It is every woman’s duty to herself to have enough self respect to avoid a opp at all cost. You get neither the exclusivity you desire from your partner nor the freedom to sleep with other men, basically you get the worst of both worlds. It is hands down the worst type of relationship to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:24 PM
5

Ngl I don’t get how you can be aware that “””your””” boyfriend is having sex with other people and still manage to be attracted to him. Just the thought of that is repulsive which is why I could never be in an open relationship, it would just k!ll my attraction to my man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:12 PM
60

only men are allowed to disagree 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:09 PM
56

😂even if he was the richest man in the world I wouldn’t let him lead, I’m not in a relationship to find a master
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:03 PM
91

if I had an award I’d give it to you, well said 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:59 PM
23

“if a man is readily accessible he is unlikely to offer a HV relationship” Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:40 PM
4

imagine the humiliation of being with a man who has a tattoo of another woman... couldn’t be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:24 PM
57

even when I was a pickme if I even suspected that a guy believed this I dipped 🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:11 PM
48

if I never encounter a man who has been brainwashed by the manosphere I will be one lucky ass woman 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:04 PM
834

Gotta love how he said that a response like hers indicates potential for power struggles in the relationship, as if he is not the one who will create those power struggles by constantly attempting to dominate the woman he’s with 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:50 PM
166

lol yes not even in my most pickme days would I have taken this man seriously after this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:42 PM
164

Lmao do men think this is gonna fly with us now ? We never liked the traditional role that was given to us by you, you think we’re gonna tolerate bullshit like this when we don’t have to ?😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:39 PM
554

if a woman doesn’t lack basic self respect I don’t want her 😤👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:31 PM
12

the red pill would be nothing without hypocrisy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:05 PM
16

“I have a lot of unresolved feelings for you” “I want a sex only relationship with you” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:36 PM
28

Yes because their son should be free to treat someone else’s daughter the way another person’s son should not be allowed to treat their daughter. At least try to hide your hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:16 PM
54

•It’s okay for me but not for thee by Hypocrisy •I’m not a Pedophile! (Just a Barely Legal Porn Enjoyer) •Head of the House (Take my last name) prod by Male Narcissism •The Friendzone feat Women are for Sex •Threesome?: The Cheat Pass Anthem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:45 PM
146

Another thing that’s misogynistic but everyone ignores is how women and their children are expected by default to take their husband’s/dad’s name. It just highlights how everyone is viewed as in how they relate to men and, like you said, as extensions of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:34 PM
77

Yes let’s be absolutely clear about one thing, the dog “phase” is who they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:25 PM
13

I’ve had a friend tell me that her ex would only initiate physical contact with her such as hugs or kisses when he wanted to have sex and it ruined those things for her because any time a man she dated after tried to touch her in a non sexual way she associated it with sex and believed that the man wanted something more from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:41 PM
59

only men think men age like fine wine 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:23 AM
151

Male celebrities who are considered the most relevant and attractive are almost always in their 20s. Women who find the older ones attractive are almost always older themselves. BTS and male kpop idols in general are also a great example of women finding more feminine men attractive. It seems to me that men are judging each other by certain standards and they believe that women must also judge how attractive they are by the exact same standards (for example they might admire masculine, older men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:19 AM
14

When a man says that you deserve better it either means that a) he recognizes how his attitude towards you is unfair to you as a person or b) he says it in order to soften the blow but doesn’t mean it. B is pretty obvious, A happens when a man with a pretty horrible character becomes self aware of his own awfulness and pities the woman he’s with because he believes that she’s a better person than he is but doesn’t care about changing himself. For example say a man is with a woman just because he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:20 PM
10

He just admitted that he thinks sex is the sole thing women are valuable for and that the reason he wants a young woman is to mold her. So women have always been right about men, he really let the mask fall off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:21 PM
74

this is what actual lack of self respect in women looks like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:43 PM
111

Women keep losing in dating because they do things for men that men would never do for them in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:41 PM
149

he really abandoned his kids for another kid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:54 PM
563

Everyone remember: For a lot of men a relationship they consider mediocre or even bad > no relationship at all. Men will stay in relationships with women they don’t even like just to get the benefits of being with her. Be wary of this and refuse to be a placeholder girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:47 PM
380

So your man lives like this and instead of kicking him to the curb you not only blame his ex for not cleaning a house that isn’t hers, but you also clean up his shit yourself ?!? Lmao she truly hit rock bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:04 PM
94

You cannot take seriously any advice men give because its purpose is to shape you into the type of woman that benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:01 AM
132

The kind of man who would agree to fwb is not the kind of man you should be dating to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:33 PM
21

he’s not like other boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:15 PM
19

nasty as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:03 PM
90

“please make me feel better about the fact that I enjoy beating and degrading you, I’m aware I treat you like shit but instead of changing I want you to tell me that there’s nothing wrong with me “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:49 PM
20

yes and we’ll use it for content with men who exhibit hoar tendencies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:21 PM
81

porn is just reinforcing their existing views on women, it’s simply making worse what already was there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:47 PM
160

Of course we should believe the test subjects when they say they support gender equality and that their perception of women hasn’t changed, it’s not like there’s a chance they’re not aware of or are in denial about the effect porn has had on them. 🤡It’s not like there is a strong incentive to say what they said either.🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:31 PM
45

lmao that’s what I was wondering too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:49 PM
42

Yes. And you’d be surprised by how often this what men ask for, just paraphrased so that it doesn’t sound as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:50 AM
94

and they peak at 18 because it’s illegal to say anything younger than that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:43 AM
58

homie the hoes you call “high value” are the exact type of men we’re trying to deter with the rule 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:33 AM
223

The hvw they talk about really boils down to two things: a)be the best fleshlight you can be and b) be a doormat. Take any description of their ideal woman and it’s just these two things repeated again and again paraphrased. Take a look at what he said for example: •young/fertile -> a •fit -> a •friendly -> b (and interestingly the only personality trait he listed) •attractive -> a •adventurous in the bedroom -> a Try it yourselves the next time they explain the kind of woman they want, it never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:10 AM
147

His example of a hvm is a man who has no value to the woman trying to date him, considering the fact that he’s into casual sex while she wants a relationship. They’re incompatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:42 AM
116

lmao a guy who’s into casual sex is the exact opposite of what we want, they’re the reason the rule exists in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:40 AM
217

When will men understand that we don’t want a man who feels forced to wait 3 months, we want a man who wants to wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:37 AM
24

lmao yeah, the visual doesn’t seem to matter as much as just the presence of something with a hole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:14 AM
63

Libfems took some of the nastiest types of behavior from men and instead of saying “let’s help men change for the better” they said “let’s bring women down to that level”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:56 AM
71

men can’t satisfy one woman, they’re not built for multiple 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:37 PM
14

lmao if they wanted an “old soul” they would go for an actual one, they’re not fooling anyone with that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:34 AM
72

Men are indirectly admitting that they treat the women they have sex with in a degrading way yet again... That’s why they have an issue with women who have sex with a lot of different men, what they’re saying is “Don’t let other men treat you the way that I want to”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:01 PM
62

exhibit #884747 of men asking women to do something for them that they would never do in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:50 PM
31

This gives me hope, there’s beauty in seeing women from different generations come together and change themselves for the better. I wish both you and your mom the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:20 PM
261

Ngl I’m in my early twenties and every time a 30+ year old man tries to make a move on me I become a little more jaded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:06 PM
145

I agree with your interpretation of the “sub drop”. What the “sub drop” seems like to me is just the reality of what has happened dawning upon you once the intensity of sex has decimated. Those feelings of worthlessness and emptiness should not be present after what’s supposed to be the most intimate physical experience you can have with another person, there’s nothing healthy about them. They definitely make sense though, they are a normal reaction to being treated disrespectfully. It breaks my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:55 PM
29

First of all welcome, we’re happy to have you here! Second of all, yes porn has had devastating effects on men (although women suffer the consequences indirectly) and the worst part is that those who use it don’t realize just how much it impacts the way you view sex and women. Here’s for example how porn can lead to desire for more and more extreme or twisted types of sex. It’s alarming that this is happening right in front of us yet we’re not talking about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:27 PM
103

That’s not even a question now, they struggle to see everyday women as human beings and you expect us to believe that they manage that with the ones actually presented as sexual objects? Not a chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:59 PM
74

😂oh my fucking god, the fact that all of this happened yet you’re here now is actually really impressive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:43 PM
98

this is depressingly hilarious 😂, I’m glad that he’s an ex though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:25 PM
56

I got this one too and it is an insult, he’s saying “you’re not asking for much so I won’t have to put a lot of effort and I like that”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:13 PM
59

ngl this is so humiliating that I would stop dating altogether after such an experience, I wouldn’t trust myself to make rational decisions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:07 PM
44

this is the same kind of woman who would think that having a baby would magically fix an unstable relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:58 PM
126

“You don’t want to lose your partner’s love” Oh my sweet summer child, if you struggle to keep your partner’s “love” you’ve never had it to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:54 PM
77

absolutely, if the only reason you haven’t cheated is because you haven’t been given the opportunity to then your “””loyalty ”””” means absolutely nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:51 PM
229

he was playing her and proudly so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:47 PM
122

Never give a man the benefit of the doubt, they CONSTANTLY use it to get away with bullshit like this. It’s one of their all time favorite tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:42 PM
326

Lmao I like how he proudly says he did not cheat and then goes on to admit that the reason he didn’t wasn’t because he didn’t want to but because he knew he would get caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:30 PM
390

Every woman should have a “either you choose me or you lose me” mentality. Men like these are not to be tolerated, self respect is above all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:22 PM
30

These men typically view relationships as trading relationship points for sex, meaning that they see the actual relationship as the work they have to do in order to get what they really want which is sex. They basically believe that they’re doing you a favor just for being with you and that favor should be reciprocated sexually. What you should look out for is signs that they want this exchange of relationship-sex to happen. Does he want to spend time with you when there is no chance of anything…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:44 PM
75

It’s even funnier that they’re mad about women doing something that they themselves desperately want to do, it’s the pot calling the kettle black. Like sir, try to explain why it’s ok for men but not for women to sleep around WITHOUT exposing your madonna/whore complex 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:54 AM
61

Yes this is a fact that women absolutely need to be aware of - a lot of men would be in a relationship with you only because they can’t get casual sex, you’re plan B. Always be wary of this when dating and filter these men out of your pool asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:46 AM
78

Lmao yeah these men would be the definition of the so called “town bicycle” if they could. Imagine dating a man who in reality would rather be sleeping around but can’t so he’s with you... what a fucking nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:29 AM
84

Can you imagine a man just sleeping with everything that moves and then has the audacity to come to you in order to sEtTle dOwN as if he hasn’t just ruined any meaning that sex with him might have had? Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:24 AM
29

Yes and a lot of women internalize this mindset of “my pussy is what I’m worth” so they attempt to be the best sex doll they can in order to maximize their perceived value. They don’t realize that they are just perpetuating that idea which in the end only benefits men by providing them compliant fleshlights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:39 PM
162

I remember watching a video from a woman who engages in bdsm where she explained that when looking to find dom men you have to be very careful as a lot of these guys, and I quote, “just like to hit women”. So what makes them different from the “good” doms? Instead of enjoying hitting and degrading women, they enjoy hitting and degrading women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:21 PM
27

“it’s not her fault she looks young” ... as in really young for her age ? Because that’s the entire point and they just admitted to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:35 PM
11

oh he picked her alright- her AND all the other women he’s having sex with, how special 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:03 PM
15

that’s how low the bar is, it’s disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:00 PM
29

women always lose because they allow men to disrespect them in ways that men don’t allow women to do to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:58 PM
233

He had us in the first sentence, not gonna lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:01 PM
322

The first thing every single woman has to do before even considering the idea of dating is to get completely comfortable with being single, even forever. Do not get in relationships if this has not been achieved, I cannot stress this enough. Fearing the idea of being single will lead you to make irrational choices when it comes to dating such as ignoring red flags and settling for incompatible men just for the sake of having a relationship. You are likely to become dependent on the people you da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:54 AM
242

If you ever think you’ve hit rock bottom when it comes to relationships, remember that at least you’re not her🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:32 AM
189

Like could you hide your rape fetish a bit better, you’re being just a little obvious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:27 AM
37

She’s falling straight into the trap. If a man wants to watch porn, he’s gonna watch porn and that’s that. If a man wants to cheat, he WILL cheat. The point isn’t to get a man who you have to keep on a leash in order to stop him from doing either of those things, the point is to get a man who doesn’t want to do them in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:48 PM
30

His words say one thing but his actions say another. This is a good example of what male degeneracy looks like, these men are slaves to their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:13 AM
148

lmao it’s funny watching them struggle to explain why women should have sex early without giving away the real reason they want this to happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:33 PM
216

First sentence and this relationship should have already ended eight years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:04 PM
112

Agreed and it also goes the other way around. Never try to convince a man to be with you when he doesn’t want to. He should be either 100% into you or he should leave, no half hearted decisions from either side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:15 PM
153

“Every 20 year old girl on the planet who dates a guy more than 10 year older than them is convinced it’s because they’re so mature and sophisticated for their age. They’re deluding themselves. It’s because they’re bearable to be around, maybe even easy to manipulate and decent sex.” Based as fuck my man. I cannot emphasize this enough to women my age who date older men, if he wanted a sophisticated and mature person he would date a woman his own age. Stop being solipsistic and question what’s t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:59 PM
96

Of course we all know that legal = ethical, and nothing terrible has ever been legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:14 PM
63

Yes it is. I used to watch jordan peterson too until I found out that his wife didn’t want to take her husband’s last name but he told her to take his anyway. I stopped listening after that. (btw he says it here after 2:30)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:42 PM
53

and on top of that he sees you as just a body to fuck, yeah I’ll pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:29 PM
77

The trade he’s looking for is money-looks. He’s not looking for a relationship, he’s looking to be a sugar daddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:29 PM
150

We don’t care. We want a certain kind of men and if you aren’t one of them move out the way. If you struggle with lust we couldn’t care less what your excuse is, at the end of the day regardless of the reason behind it you still struggle with lust. Until that is dealt with you are not a good candidate for a relationship and it is not our job to turn you into one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:06 PM
109

It just shows how one sided men’s view of sex is. In their mind it’s not a mutual activity you do because both you and your partner enjoy it, it’s him masturbating by using his partner’s body as a sex toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:22 PM
81

Well men don’t have sex with women because they like them so there’s no contradiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:25 PM
66

He told on himself there but even if he hadn’t said that, men sexualize even non sexual things all the time yet we’re supposed to believe that they’re not gonna sexualize sexual parts ?!? Get the fuck out here 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:11 AM
29

Precisely, the difference between the way men are portrayed in women’s fantasies and the way women are portrayed in men’s speaks volumes about how each gender views the other when it comes to dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:33 AM
283

“my comment about her ass wasn’t based on any sexual...” 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:24 AM
58

At the moment we have the worst of both worlds when it comes to dating, we have men who still have the madonna/whore complex that they used to also have in the past + them not putting effort because they expect easy sex due to hookup culture. We deal with the drawbacks of both the traditional and modern ways of thought while getting neither one’s benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:22 PM
180

all the while men with “dad bods” are acceptable 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:19 PM
25

The fact that women couldn’t even talk about it back then because there would be no support just goes to show how normalized and accepted sexual assault was back when men were “masculine”. As you said, they just want to turn back the clock and are doing everything they can to rationalize it. Keep hamstering my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:52 PM
64

“Masculine” role models used to exist in the past, in fact they were the only role models that boys could have. When men were required to be “masculine” did that stop them from raping? Did shoving the concept of “masculinity” down their throats from when they were born until the moment they died cultivate empathy towards women (the lack of which, as he said, causes rape)? Or did it do the exact opposite ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:20 PM
60

If lack of empathy is what leads to rape, then “lack of masculinity” is not what causes it given that empathy has never been considered a masculine trait, but a feminine one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:58 PM
89

If a man wasn’t happy being married to me I would absolutely want him to divorce. Why would you want to stay married to someone who isn’t happy with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:06 PM
47

This is the reason pickmes act they way they do, they see how men view women vs men and they notice that their respect and admiration is directed primarily to men so they disassociate themselves from other women and try to become “one of the boys” in order to have that same type of respect directed towards them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:28 PM
41

And since we’re talking about respect, watch how certain men (more often the ones with traditional views) handle the concept of self respect when it comes to women. Notice how these men think that sleeping with a lot of people or wearing revealing clothing is a sign of lacking self respect, but they don’t think that taking your husband’s last name or being submissive is a sign of that, even though the latter is much more degrading. They are using the idea of self respect to transform women from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:23 PM
153

she’s living rent free in his mind and he’s bothered by it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:46 PM
58

Change may seem terrifying, but it is the only way one can improve herself. You will never regret spending time on transforming yourself into who you want to be, I promise you that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:40 PM
223

“guys I don’t have boundaries I promise, please don’t make fun of me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:07 PM
244

men: porn is just fantasy also men: ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:32 PM
181

yeah the only benefit of this situation is that she got rid of him early instead of wasting more time and going through a breakup later down the line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:46 AM
119

“my partner was super supportive saying things like no matter what they’d be there and promised nothing would get in between our love” words really are cheap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:55 AM
23

lmao they’re accidentally admitting they’re predators
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:18 AM
37

This was a classic case of being the placeholder girlfriend. A man should either choose you (and only you) or lose you, I’m glad you dropped him 🚮. Best of luck with your self improvement 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:41 PM
8

incels: women have high standards for looks, if he isn’t considered attractive then it’s over for the rest of us meanwhile men: ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:24 PM
83

it would be a step in the right direction, I hope they seriously consider it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:06 PM
219

“Well to be honest, we men are ALSO quite exhausted by women switching genders to bring attention to themselves”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:46 PM
63

“I was telling her that her standards were too high. She was having none of it.” Queen shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:04 PM
7

of course, shaming is a powerful tool and thank you 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:36 PM
48

Oh and you bet they’re doing that to their actual partner too, this type of mindset (“I see you as an improvement to my hand”) doesn’t just disappear when they’re having sex with them either, it’s depraved anyway you look at it. As I said, men who don’t see sex as a bonding mutual activity are men you should be avoiding at all cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:32 PM
322

this is hilarious and depressing simultaneously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:25 PM
32

aka “Women please let men disrespect you, but no we won’t be reciprocating the favor by letting you off the hook “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:16 PM
91

only one thing to do with cheaters: 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:38 PM
48

That’s rough, you never truly know how a person will turn out to be. I am very glad you left him though, self respect >>> any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:35 PM
51

“cheating isn’t a big deal” when you cheat you’re essentially risking your entire relationship, so either cheating is a big deal or the relationship isn’t worth much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:26 PM
28

What did you do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:24 PM
48

Yeah I’ve always reacted with disgust too when hit on precisely because I’ve always suspected that something was off about the way a lot of men view sex. It’s important to know about it so that these men can be avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:21 PM
59

Some women can’t be saved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:26 AM
366

“it’s his decision to proxy his hand for a real body” this is how many men think of sex, they consider it to be just a form of assisted masturbation. Stay clear of men who think like that at all cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:43 AM
36

Not men saying “I want you to have my last name” as if it’s a positive thing for the woman lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:38 PM
36

yep this is the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:15 PM
79

One of the most disturbing things that men say when attempting to justify rape is “she didn’t say no”, because this implies that unless a woman says no a man is allowed sexual access to her. A man is by default entitled to have sex with a woman unless specifically stated otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:12 PM
41

He likes “winning” you over, he doesn’t like you. He just enjoys the conquest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:55 PM
115

Men are “romantics” because women require them to be, not because they want to be themselves. It’s what they need to do in order to get access to sex, that’s all. Tell me how many men would want to go on dates and be romantic if the woman said “We can be fuckbuddies and see what happens”, as if they wouldn’t be ecstatic over this arrangement and throw romanticism out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:43 PM
189

And all that for men who won’t respect you precisely because you’re having sex easily with them. To women who have casual sex at this point in history: You’re getting played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:34 PM
84

fellas is it gay to have sex with women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:48 PM
200

Lmao where’s the lie, there’s a good reason pickmes resort to hating other women and acting like they’re “one of the boys” to get male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:13 PM
160

we did it, pedophilia is no more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:44 PM
88

You’ve got to be kidding me, no sane person thinks this is a good idea. All you would achieve with this is the normalization of pedophilia by catering to pedophiles. These people need actual therapy, not a childlike person to fuck. You’re fueling their pedophilic tendencies instead of diminishing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:42 PM
70

If a woman criticizes anything about men their defense is always “YoU aRE jUsT jEaLouS”, how about you just address the point she’s making instead of trying to deflect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:40 PM
74

Men: I want to degrade/abuse/ridicule women. I don’t respect them and see them as objects for my pleasure that I want to control. Libfems: No you misogynistic pig, we’re taking control of our sexuality! We will be degraded because we want to! We’ll have demeaning sex where you think of us as a fleshlight because it’s how WE want to be treated. We will let men call us “whores” while hitting us during sex because it’s what WE like. Hah! Got you guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:33 PM
170

You nailed it. I’ve been thinking about this for a long time, we are promoting to women a liberal mindset when it comes to sex but men’s attitude towards women with this mindset has not changed. All we’ve managed to do in men’s eyes is turn more women into “whores” instead of the “madonnas” that women used to be, because men still retain the madonna/whore complex. Women turned from “clean” private property to “dirty” public one, all the while men continue to see women as property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:18 PM
17

Imagine having a boyfriend that stays with you solely because you provided an extra hole for him to cum in... Just how desperate do you have to be to consider this a good deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:41 PM
22

and you bet they say 18 because it’s illegal to say anything lower than that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:36 PM
28

You have nothing to apologize for (a lot of us judged this sub prematurely too), you are more than welcome around here 🤝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:17 PM
81

Exactly you should be no one’s plan b, either he chooses you or he loses you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:53 PM
120

Imagine being a man’s backup option and continuing to defend said man when all he deserves is to be thrown in a trash can 🤡 also attacking other women over a man is a) degrading to yourself b) exactly what mr garbage wants because you’re not attacking him instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:45 PM
51

Choose being respected over being “liked”. Facts. Although ideally it should be both, it’s much better to be respected but not liked, than liked but not respected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:23 PM
46

you find old men attractive, these are YOUR thoughts I promise 👴🌀👩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:13 PM
134

If you want multiple women DON’T be in a monogamous relationship and then be surprised your girlfriend doesn’t want you to fuck other people. You get what you sign up for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:44 PM
39

They’re depraved to the core, I’m bi and I’d rather walk on broken glass than have a threesome with a man and a woman because this is the kind of men who want that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:02 PM
256

Imagine telling your boyfriend that you’re bi and his first thought is “Awesome! Now I get to fuck women that aren’t you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:50 PM
90

Exhibit #3773 of men trying to use female bisexuality as a way to get a pass on cheating, bi women I hope you keep this phenomenon in mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:43 PM
79

they don’t understand that a woman can be bi and monogamous simultaneously...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:40 PM
66

“literally everything is misogynistic” hmm I wonder why that is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:34 PM
77

that age gap is questionable to say the least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:28 PM
135

This is so true, one of the most important factors that led to my internalized misogyny was porn. I started watching it in my early teens so while I knew that sex wasn’t precisely the same in real life, I believed it was a close enough portrayal of the real thing. As a result I started losing respect for women because of the degrading way they would let men treat them during sex and I even thought I was asexual because I was disgusted at the idea of having sex like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:04 PM
164

Yep, waiting to have sex is a rule that applies to all men, no matter how much you think he might be different than the rest. No exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:50 PM
44

I’m sorry this happened to you, I know a lot of women who share your experience. Women shouldn’t feel pressured to do things they’re not certain they are 100% comfortable with and I really wish we put more emphasis on that as a society, this is how women would truly be in control of their sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:05 PM
48

Yes, thank you for mentioning this, just because a man is supposedly looking for a “relationship” doesn’t mean that this is what he really wants. There a lot of men who enter relationships just to secure a source of sex so women definitely have to be on the lookout (especially) for these too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:55 PM
142

Personally men who are into casual sex are a huge red flag in general and a dealbreaker when it comes to dating. A lot of men who have casual sex don’t respect the women they’re having sex with precisely because they’re having sex with them and essentially view them as human fleshlights. On top of that, considering the way that women who engage in casual sex are regarded as well as the fact that so many women say that they’ve not had a positive experience with hook ups, men who have casual sex a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:31 PM
278

Lmao what’s the point of still being in a relationship with him if you’re gonna let him fuck other people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:39 PM
79

This is disturbing. Views on women’s sexuality have not really changed, they are still the same as they’ve always been. What a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:50 PM
1

“This man responds immediately to any type of female attention” ... yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:09 PM
3

Yes, a person needs to have a certain kind of mindset about relationships and sex in order to want to cheat and that type of mindset is very difficult (nearly impossible)to change which is why the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” is very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:04 PM
201

Women put more effort in their appearance so of course they’re more attractive, what did they expect. I’m bisexual too and even the most attractive man I know is way less attractive than the most attractive woman I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:54 PM
4

Good riddance my friend, it’s important to recognize when we’re looking at someone through rose colored glasses because upon catching ourselves doing that we can remove them and see things the way they truly are. Glad to see you taking control of your life, I wish you the absolute best 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:05 PM
38

Yes of course, he should be allowed to have sex with other women who other men will date as long as other men don’t do the same with the woman he dates. Aka he can “use” other people’s property but his property shouldn’t be “used” by other people. 🥴 Women should seriously not have casual sex (and not date men who have had casual sex) because this is what men who do it think of them. It’s appalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:46 PM
142

Why yes, it’s a brilliant idea to let men who hate women so much that they want to murder them buy access to female bodies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:18 PM
117

Don’t you know, it’s our job as a society to help make the lives of men who have the desire to murder women as easy as possible so that they don’t actually end up doing it, let’s accommodate misogynists!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:17 PM
75

Lmao “If misogynistic men could sexually objectify women in peace then they would be pacified! Let’s help make this a better world for these men by allowing them to rent women’s bodies so that they then might stop killing them.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:03 PM
29

nO iT iS !!1! I nEeD tO puT mY pP iN RaNDom wOmEN !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:39 PM
105

I like how he tells her that it’s okay he slept around because he wasn’t in an actual relationship with those women as if a) that makes it any better 🤡 b) he would have preferred it if she said “well I slept around and I wasn’t in an actual relationship with them either!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:33 PM
98

So he believes that casual sex is bad for women, yet he chose to have casual sex with women anyway (basically “disadvantaging” the women for his pleasure) 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:28 PM
253

“he didn’t date but he made sure his needs were met after splitting with his ex” no thank you 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:21 PM
39

Yes of course, nothing wrong with desiring to fuck children, it’s just a kink now. And surely writing child porn fiction isn’t going to normalize the idea that wanting to have sex with kids is okay, we all know porn does not affect how people view sex at all. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:25 PM
64

I’m so mad over this, can you imagine a man even considering to do this ?!? Cause I can’t. Women are fucking themselves over bending backwards for men like these. WOMEN, STOP DOING THINGS FOR MEN THAT THEY WOULD NEVER DO FOR YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:10 PM
132

I would rather walk on broken glass than care for a man who disrespected me like that. She should abandon him like he did with her. For the love of god women, stop pitying men who don’t deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:52 PM
111

Tbh I think this the issue with a lot of women, they’re too empathetic for their own good. Empathy is a beautiful thing but it can be absolutely self destructive when wasted on people who don’t deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:40 PM
18

This is the truth. Not cheating is passive, you quite literally don’t have to do a single thing in order to not cheat, it really is that simple. Cheating requires action, you don’t just happen to cheat, you choose to follow the steps that lead to cheating because you want to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:50 PM
48

She should take responsibility for being disrespected by kicking “her” man to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:43 PM
41

No, I don’t I will. Only one thing to do with a cheating scum: 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:29 PM
54

*have a hole (could be any)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:30 PM
65

oof true, it’s “not all men” when there are consequences otherwise it’s “all men” and you better get used to it and stop criticizing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:53 PM
19

please accept that all men are as awful as I am but also no❤️, not all men are bad people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:18 PM
220

It’s “all men” when they want their behavior to be accepted and normalized It’s “not all men” when they don’t want to be seen as the bad guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:02 PM
149

I say this a lot but I genuinely don’t understand how a person can have sex with someone who’s not into it. It feels so off and rapey to me that sex isn’t enjoyable anymore so I could never do it. It just goes to show how one sided men’s view of sex is. Also “well that’s just how men are” is yet another example of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:53 PM
138

Notice how “all men do it” is such a common response to any criticism of male behavior, if all men do X then surely there’s nothing wrong with X and you must accept it because any guy you date is going to do it. Men rely on other men to be just as shitty as they are so that their degenerate behavior is seen as acceptable and the bar remains low enough for them to pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:15 PM
87

Exactly. What liberal feminists have not accounted for is the fact that men’s attitude towards women they have casual sex with hasn’t changed just because women’s attitude did. Most men still do not respect the women they’re casually having sex with and women are still criticized and seen as “sluts” for engaging in it (albeit less so than in the past, although I believe that there are a lot of men who hold this view but simply do not talk about it in public). Women not only shouldn’t have casual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:33 PM
49

what a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:31 AM
14

Absolutely, men will say anything to maximize the amount of sex that they get out any situation, whether that is a relationship/marriage/fwb etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:09 AM
6

this is what we’re settling for now, just a man who’s “far from the worst”, the bar is free falling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:32 PM
197

And the best part is that when men complain about lack of sex in their relationships they often say that sex is an expression of intimacy/ love for them. Yet THIS is the kind of sex they’re growing more and more interested in. How does degrading your partner show love in any way? How is violent sex intimate? What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:30 PM
161

Sex at this point is nothing but assisted masturbation. “It doesn’t feel loving” that’s because it isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:17 PM
84

The edit is simultaneously hilarious and depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:13 PM
22

Self respect >>> anything else. If your man doesn’t respect you, you owe it to yourself to dispose of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:56 PM
15

As if the goal when you’re play fighting with your kids is to derive pleasure from their pain...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:13 PM
14

yeah this man didn’t even attempt to deny that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:39 PM
110

everyone knows that if your man isn’t humiliating you sexually something is wrong with your sex life 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:27 PM
34

Can the scrote stop kinkshaming ? Apparently it’s bad only when you criticize the sexual degradation of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:24 PM
54

He really played himself, happy to have you here! 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:01 PM
545

male empowerment-> being empowered female empowerment-> feeling “empowered”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:54 PM
13

“We don’t say ‘using porn’ we say ‘watching porn’ because porn is a movie that’s being watched by a human being who’s using it for erotic and arousal purposes” .......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:36 PM
76

It’s appalling that we’ve reached a point where we have to remind women that “Hey, if you are not comfortable with something in a relationship you’re not obligated to accept it and no one should force you to do so”. It should absolutely be something that girls are taught before they start dating, yet the idea that you must try things that you don’t even want just to keep a relationship seems to be popular these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:24 PM
135

There is a very thin line between fantasy and reality. Let’s stop pretending otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:13 PM
46

and that’s when they show their true colors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:42 PM
115

Being attractive to men doesn’t make them respect you, it just gives them a reason to pretend to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:24 PM
40

That’s what I thought too! We’re going down a very dark path if we continue with this “accept anything that men do otherwise you’re insecure” mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:56 PM
26

Good point, although they would also likely interact with porn actresses if they could so the only thing that’s stopping that from happening is that they can’t rather than they don’t want to + they’re watching these women have full on sex instead of just half naked pics which is why porn seems a bit worse to me (I wouldn’t tolerate either though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:48 PM
57

So she understands that her partner has the capacity to see women as only objects for his sexual pleasure and she’s not fazed by that ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:36 PM
166

In 10 years from now: “It took time to accept my partner having sex with other people as well as a lot of self reflection (like asking myself WHY it bothered me so much- for me it was my low self esteem).” Because everyone knows that if you don’t tolerate disrespect it’s a sign of insecurity. Also how is liking women on Insta worse than porn lmao? Watching half naked women is worse than watching fully naked women performing sex acts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:18 PM
48

A great point, the fact that women who were housewives started a movement so they could work speaks volumes about how much they actually enjoyed their roles at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:43 PM
44

If women are happier in the kitchen then they will stay there. If women are happier not doing that then they won’t do it. They should let women decide what they want instead of trying to get them to act the way that they believe women should. Crazy concept but maybe men are not capable of telling women what it means to be a woman, especially considering their inexperience on the matter as well as their biased pov.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:07 PM
211

and we’re glad she did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:21 PM
65

This is it. They don’t believe that the problem is as serious as it is presented to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:14 PM
19

Because their focus is on men’s struggles not on women’s, so they discuss instances where men are the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:09 AM
44

that man was CRAZY, thank god for your mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:21 AM
64

20 and 16 ?!? Yeah this was bad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:52 AM
31

Very true, this is why I don’t like it when people use the word intimacy as a synonym to sex, because while sex CAN be intimate it often isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:30 AM
136

“the physical intimacy didn’t need to be shown on screen because it was a byproduct, not the purpose “ this concept is so foreign now that it might as well be from another universe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:04 AM
162

You already know that if a man was saying that about women here on reddit he would be ridiculed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:10 PM
5

You didn’t let me manipulate you into having sex with me after I give you false hope for a relationship ?!?!?!? YoU MaNipULaTivE bItCH !1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:44 PM
150

No one is more oppressed than a slave who defends their master.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:37 PM
30

Please tell me that she’s not gonna have a baby she doesn’t want just to keep a man...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:35 PM
85

Also goes to show that there is a very thin line between fantasy and reality, unlike what libfems and men who watch porn want you to believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:35 PM
17

Ikr, man is jumping from wife to wife and it’s supposed to be romantic?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:06 PM
93

“the feeling when you have something others want is very satisfying” wives = status symbols to show off for other men, men are constantly in a pp measuring contest with each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:01 PM
65

That’s not your husband honey, that’s everyone’s husband.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:19 PM
2

Imagine dating a man and finding out that he wrote this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:23 PM
1

“I would beat my own friend to death with my engorged penis if it would bring a smile to belle delphine’s shining face” why with the penis though 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:17 PM
64

if a male rapper had made this song word for word (only changing lyrics where needed) they wouldn’t have given it a second thought 🤡💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:13 AM
23

it’s good though that we see stuff like this so that we are reminded of how untrustworthy some men are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:03 AM
65

“How do you divide yourself so much that it starts to become a different version of yourself” He’s not becoming a different version of himself. This is who he really is. He just has to do this so that his true repulsive colors don’t show. Imagine being with a man like that, it’s humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:57 AM
194

“I hope- I’ll pray for you” Almost slipped there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:09 PM
60

A breath of fresh air from the usual “oH sToP bEiNG sO InSeCUrE aNd cOnTrOLling” responses. Women these days are competing with each other on who can tolerate any awful male behavior the most. It’s tragic to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:46 PM
196

Most women are not aware of this, I wasn’t either (until last year too!). I used to think there’s no way a man will tolerate being with someone they don’t like in some way. There’s no reason to do that, it’s just miserable! Turns out there is a reason, I just underestimated what some men will do just to get a sniff of any coochie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:26 PM
44

yeah ngl I’m very impressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:17 PM
295

I was just about to say the exact same thing. No, he ABSOLUTELY would be with you even if he doesn’t find you attractive because someone has to be his sex doll and if he can’t find a woman he’s attracted to he will not go home empty handed. There are men who will be in relationships with women they find repulsive (not only on a physical level, but also when it comes to the woman’s personality) and who they couldn’t care less about just to secure sex. Women absolutely need to remember: A man bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:00 PM
179

If you have to press a man to get married I have bad news for you. This is a classic case of “If he wanted to, he would”. Also really, an open relationship? We all know how the majority of those work out. Edit: Just saw that she relied on his income too. Bad decisions left and right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:33 PM
71

What a badass! Very glad to see women refusing to tolerate behaviors they aren’t comfortable with. I hope we see more and more of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:35 PM
44

Never understood how being “picky” about who you date is a bad thing. If you’re not gonna be picky about the person you’re gonna spend the rest of you’re gonna spend the rest of your life with what the hell are you supposed to be picky about? You’re not buying a new pair of shoes, you’re choosing the man who could potentially be your future husband and father of your kids. If there was ever a time to be picky, this is it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:12 PM
396

Kinda how in a study a few years ago about 1/3 of men said that they would force a woman to have sex with them if they never faced the consequences for it, but when asked if they would rape a woman (again no consequences) the number dropped to about 1/10. It’s not the action they are opposed to, it’s the word used to describe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:51 AM
30

there’s hope 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:41 PM
17

you want to service your husband’s cock, it makes you so happy, these are your own thoughts 👨🌀👩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:34 PM
67

My man changed “males” to “fails” in females and he thought that was a dig at women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:26 PM
48

wait till that gets normalized too just like porn, the bar is free falling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:41 PM
53

we’ve been tolerating it silently for way too long, it’s about time we say something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:26 PM
124

Never understood how not wanting to bring porn into a relationship is controlling. I don’t want a man who wants to watch porn but forces himself not to in order to be with me, I want a man that doesn’t want to watch porn for himself. I would never enter a relationship with a man who I have to force not to watch porn, there’s no point in doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:24 PM
162

Lmao how are you supposed to respect a man like that? Only one thing to do with this kind of men: 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:03 PM
201

man: I really enjoy beating and degrading women libfems: WHAT A MISOGYNISTIC PIG! man: ... but I also cum when I do it libfems: oh never mind then, keep doing your thing king and don’t let anyone kinkshame you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:52 PM
3

And apparently before they’re born too. Remember that video where a man learns that he’s going to have a daughter and he’s terrified that she could end up doing porn ? This how you know that the male gaze is the default gaze in our society. Women are so closely associated with the idea of sex that we have trouble separating the two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:31 PM
102

men won’t listen otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:47 PM
10

very well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:41 PM
156

Yeah if you want ex. anal find someone who is okay with it (couldn’t be me). If you don’t, don’t. That simple. Why would you even want to do something that you know your partner doesn’t enjoy ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:51 PM
113

ask him if you can peg him first and watch his reaction... suddenly anal isn’t that fun anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:42 PM
13

sis they’re gonna ban us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:35 PM
195

It’s even more disgusting how men are admired for getting women to have sex with them easily when you realize that this act stains the woman’s reputation and they know it. It’s like the classic lock-key analogy they love to repeat, every time a “key” manages to open a “lock” the “key” gets better but the “lock” gets shittier. It’s an action that benefits men directly at the expense of women, yet they see no issue with this. In fact, getting the woman to lose value in their eyes for the man’s ple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:40 PM
219

But I managed to treat women with basic decency, do you know how HARD that is for me ??!!1!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:42 PM
897

Men who don’t pressure women for sex also benefit from this being the norm, because it makes them seem better in comparison to other men for only doing the bare minimum. Simply respecting a woman’s boundaries is now seen as impressive, the bar is kept low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:45 PM
104

if pp is not getting wet, why am i your friend again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:15 AM
58

you don’t give them what they want and they’ll filter themselves out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:38 AM
108

Notice how they intentionally leave room for plausible deniability, “well I never said anything about commitment!”. Absolutely never assume that a man you’re seeing is looking for a relationship with you unless EXPLICITLY STATED otherwise (and even then be very wary, as many will straight up lie about their intentions).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:29 AM
168

you know how much women like to have “friends” who are not actually their friends but are just waiting for the chance to get some sex from her, they absolutely love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:22 AM
18

the absolute audacity of expecting a woman to care for your ass after doing that is astronomical... if you’re gonna treat the person you “love” like straight up garbage your “love” is literally worthless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:05 AM
300

this is not a debate sub, it’s that simple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:59 PM
50

Truth. Men benefit from other men being shitty because it lowers the bar for all of them. As a result, women settle for men who “at least don’t hit them” or “at least don’t cheat on them”. Women have to raise the bar by refusing to see the bare minimum as impressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:13 PM
42

cut her some slack sis, just thank god she’s not a judge 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:31 PM
65

There so many other things that are so much more intimate than sex, especially considering the fact that people have sex with people that they aren’t close with all the damn time! Sure sex can be a way of expressing intimacy, but that intimacy is only on a physical level and not on a deeper emotional one. Think about it: when you grow old with your partner, will sex come to mind when thinking about your most intimate moments with them or will it be those precious moments you shared by spending t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:25 PM
80

Come on now, we all know how important sex is to men emotionally. This is why men are so against meaningless, loveless casual sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:47 PM
381

When men cheat: “But it meant nothing, it was just sex “ When men don’t get as much sex as they want out of their relationship: “ But I feel loved through sex, it fulfills an emotional need that can’t be fulfilled otherwise” So which is it ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:40 PM
86

Imagine this being your “husband”... Yeah I’d rather die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:25 PM
28

Lmao the only reason someone would split the holidays into “the woman’s day” and the “man’s day” is because the woman and the man aren’t in the relationship for the same reason and what each party considers as the benefits of the relationship are different (so they ask for them on different days). Keep telling on yourselves guys, we all know what purpose “relationships” serve for a lot of you at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:54 PM
42

Valentine’s day is supposed to be the day when all people celebrate their romantic relationships (regardless of their gender/sexual orientation etc). What exactly are you celebrating on “steak and bj” day ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:44 PM
405

Sis just dodged a bullet, well done 👌!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:06 PM
161

Yep, that’s the beauty of this rule, you don’t even have to lift a finger they filter themselves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:03 PM
83

“Basically men are keeping a running performance review of their wives that is divided into two categories: how sexually satisfying they are and how much of a doormat they are.” Truer words have never been spoken. Listen to a man’s criteria for his partner and watch him describe a woman that would fulfill both the role of the fleshlight and the doormat splendidly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:21 AM
30

it’s staggering just how willing men are to trade anything for sex. They really don’t care about whether the woman they’re having sex with wants to have sex with them (they only care about that when her sexual performance is affected by it), it’s all about securing pussy one way or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:35 PM
38

Buying consent from a woman is like buying a confession from a suspect, it loses its purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:15 PM
85

I cannot comprehend how a person can have sex with someone who they know does not want to have sex with them. It seems so rapey to me, I could never do it. At that point it’s just assisted masturbation using the person’s body as a sex toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:00 PM
139

“Don’t sleep with a man on the second date” seems like such obvious advice here that it is easy to forget just how oblivious the average woman is to how men think and why they act they way they do. This is such an easily preventable scenario yet I’ve seen women caught up in it again and again, it is honestly tragic. Women absolutely need to be introduced to all female spaces like this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:50 PM
104

He just wanted to hook up and when they did he no longer saw any value in talking to her, that simple. This is the kind of men you want nothing to do with when looking for a relationship, how are you going to do that when you’re sleeping with them on the second date sis? Of course these scrotes will take advantage of the opportunity you’re giving them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:35 PM
36

What are you talking about, of course prostitution is empowering! For men that is. You get to rent a female body to use sexually whenever you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:04 PM
9

Agreed. There are definitely women who are misogynistic and usually harbor a lot of self-hatred(I would know- I was one of them). This kind of women often believe that by catering to men’s desires they will be rewarded. Bringing other women down is how they keep themselves afloat. They don’t realize that their behavior only benefits men and harms themselves in the long run. So make no mistake, being misogynistic and being a woman are not mutually exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:22 PM
310

A man who is okay with using prostitutes is a man who has no issue having sex with someone who doesn’t want to have sex with him. To him “consent” is simply the permission to use another person’s body to fulfill his sexual desires, which is why it can be bought. Prostitution is nothing but the commodification (and as a result the objectification) of the female body for sexual use at its most extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:28 PM
34

It took the devil himself to deceive Eve into eating the apple. What did it take to get Adam to eat it? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:45 AM
24

yep, just don’t think about how atrocious your husband is and you’ll be good 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:40 AM
57

“If you narrow the definition of what a crime is, then crime rates will go down!” This man’s genius, it generates gravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:56 AM
109

Next up: If you don’t define having sex with another person as cheating then your husband isn’t cheating. Problem solved ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:41 AM
144

I was gonna say “you gotta be mean to men otherwise they think you wanna fuck them too” but then I realized that even if you’re mean they think you’re playing hard to get...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:33 PM
9

ikr it’s adorable 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:43 AM
24

Lmao they think we don’t know that? We are well aware that there are men who viscerally hate women. We have gotten the message that there are men who see us as nothing but things to fuck. We know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:21 AM
7

Yeah if anything she needs to be extra careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:39 PM
33

He said that his life improved when he was 14 and his cousin told him that. Not sure how a 14 year old’s life was improved by learning that “sluts are just for fun” though 😂😂😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:16 PM
95

the “what does love and respect have to do with sex?” comment is sending me into orbit 😂, it describes men’s attitude towards sex splendidly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:55 PM
115

Men don’t like to own objects that are used by others. Sure they’ll use these objects themselves cause why not, but that’s it. Men like to own clean objects that are only used by them. So women, make sure to keep yourselves clean objects for your men, because every time you have sex with one of them you lose value, according to them btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:51 PM
205

A lot of men are attracted to the female form, but they don’t like women. They want pussy, not women and they don’t like that the two are connected. There was a post a few years ago on another subreddit about how if women didn’t have vaginas, they would be hunted for sport. When you think about just how misogynistic many men are, it starts to seem like that statement may not have been off the mark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:16 PM
248

You can be an epic trophy wife or a participation trophy but you’re a trophy nonetheless, never a person. Some men just can’t see women as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:27 PM
95

Women definitely ought to know how to protect themselves because at the end of the day we cannot rely on men to act right. However, I’m being optimistic enough to believe that men wouldn’t act as awfully if their behaviors weren’t so normalized. That if men were shamed for acting this way instead of having their behavior accepted as just “men being men” then they wouldn’t exhibit this kind of behavior nearly as much. I could be putting way too much faith in men though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:19 PM
554

When you protect women instead of teaching men how to behave you are normalizing men’s degenerate behavior. You are essentially saying that men’s depravity should be accepted as an inevitable part of life and women should learn to deal with it, because that’s just how men are. To hell with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:14 PM
82

No woman should. Once that picture is sent, you lose all control as to who gets to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:53 PM
62

it’s a race to the bottom- which woman can accept the most disrespect from men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:50 PM
97

“people need to take an insult” Yeah I’m sure men laugh when they’re being disrespected as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:49 PM
41

“I do most of the housework for no reason other than being born with two X chromosomes!” Embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:48 AM
26

atrophied by porn I assume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:16 PM
191

Imagine learning that the father of your kids used to do this, instantly sick to the stomach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:19 PM
57

you want to be submissive, I promise this is your idea 👨🌀👩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:59 PM
19

This is some next level self hatred. Not even when I had misogynistic views did I ever want to be submissive, even the thought of it has always made me shiver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:16 PM
99

It’s because people think that being bisexual = wanting to be with people from both genders simultaneously. A person can be bisexual and STILL be monogamous, shocking I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:07 PM
24

Of course a man will be trash when a woman is submissive, why do you think they want submissive women? It’s a way for them to acquire power in the relationship so that the woman tolerates the disrespect coming from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:35 PM
58

“Yes I can expect the man I’m with to only want to sleep with me, thank you” 🏅🏅🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:29 PM
180

I don’t know about you ladies but a man who asks for a threesome of any kind is instantly kicked to the curb. It’s very disrespectful. (Also good riddance sis 👌)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:27 PM
216

Not the third woman trying to use submission as the carrot on a stick to get men to treat women well... How about men treat their partners well and still respect them as their equals instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:18 PM
393

And if your man asks for a threesome: “Sure thing, just let me choose the guy!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:57 PM
353

Men will NOT turn down an opportunity to get sex. Always remember that. All they need is a willing warm body to use and they’re sold. Never make the fatal mistake of assuming that a man that wants to fuck you wants anything to do with you beyond that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:49 PM
66

No don’t be a slave to capitalism, be the de facto slave to your husband instead by losing the ability to support yourself financially and therefore relying entirely on a man to survive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:03 PM
91

People should get to decide by themselves what brings value to their lives and what doesn’t. You may consider a woman never having kids as being robbed of this experience (and you’re free to think so and choose how you want your life to be like accordingly), but another woman may consider never getting to run that marathon or take that test as being robbed of an important experience. You get to decide what to do with your own life, let others decide what they do with their own as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:33 PM
58

lmao the truth has been spoken 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:48 AM
90

Girl straight facts, men are opportunistic daters, they will not turn down an opportunity to have sex with a woman they know they have a chance with. Never chase, eggs should not be going after sperm when they’re more valuable, it’s embarrassing on a biological level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:50 PM
283

Also goes to show that if a man only wants sex from you, there’s not a single thing you can improve to change that. Not a single thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:09 PM
362

“My sex doll’s personality isn’t really appealing to me but I don’t want to stop having sexual access to it, does anyone know what to do? I just want sex from her minus the part where I have to be with her, guys. Do you have any advice ? 👉👈”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:50 PM
354

Women need to understand this: A man being in a relationship with you does not guarantee that he actually likes you, cares about you, let alone loves you. Always have this in the back of your mind. A lot of men get in relationships for sexual access first and foremost and consider the actual relationship the work they have to put up with in order to get what they actually want. They see the relationship as the means to get to the real end (sex). A lot of women would be surprised to learn that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:45 PM
14

Facts, it’s a bad deal being either the wife or the side chick, but let’s be real the wife is getting the worst deal out of everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:29 PM
28

The fact that there is a lock that has to be unlocked means that the woman does not want to have sex with the man in question and the man has to coerce her into doing so (the key unlocking the lock). On top of that men also applaud other men who convince women to make themselves “shittier locks”, because devaluing women is worthy of respect in their eyes. Careful now men, your rapey tendencies and desire to degrade women are showing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:14 PM
67

I honestly can’t believe these women think degradation = empowerment. How can you believe that serving a man empowers YOU? How do you not see the glaring contradiction ?!? What kind of “1984” brainwashing is this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:50 PM
95

It’s because what they mean by “deep vulnerability” is the woman’s willingness to accept degradation. It’s just that saying that you desire to degrade women and trying to shame women for not wanting to be degraded sounds a bit weird (I wonder why) so he says that women don’t want to be “vulnerable” instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:17 PM
58

Being the wife is worse than being the side chick, because the side chick gets to have sex with the wife’s man AND with whoever else she wants to while the wife can’t do that. The side chick also doesn’t have someone cheating on her while the wife does. The wife really gets the short end of the stick no matter how you look at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:08 PM
194

Schrödinger’s man: A man is both a child and a boss, switching between the two according to which role benefits him at a specific point in time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:02 PM
261

“they don’t like anything that involves deep vulnerability” Why is it that this “deep vulnerability” always needs to come from the woman? How come all of these sexual acts require the woman to be vulnerable but never the man? It seems to me that it’s men that don’t like anything that involves this sort of vulnerability on their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:46 AM
340

“blowjobs give women power over men” exhibit 1827738 of women being brainwashed into thinking that pleasing men is empowering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:42 AM
9

these things will have to be pretty robust to tolerate the sexual abuse they will receive without damage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:08 AM
20

If anyone thinks they’re bad at making decisions, they should just remember that people like her exist. At least you haven’t fallen to her level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:05 AM
28

No they want some women to sleep easily with them and some not. They want two types of women- the public property which gives them easy sex and the private property which doesn’t give them sex immediately because if she does that then she has likely done it with other guy as well and she belongs to the first category. They want the dirty object that they can use to easily fulfill their sexual desires at any moment and they also want the clean object that hasn’t been dirtied by others to have for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:04 AM
65

The man who cheated on you is the man you chose to be the father of your kids? That’s humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:06 AM
249

Don’t have kids unless you are 100% sure you want them and DEFINITELY don’t do it for a man. (Absolutely disgusting on his part to try to manipulate her by giving her an ultimatum) Women face these kinds of risks with every pregnancy/birth so do not take such risks unless you are certain that having kids is truly the best decision for you. (also please don’t tell me that when this man says “I miss my wife” he means sex...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:21 PM
105

You really think a man will miss out on a chance to get pussy, especially over something as trivial as “not having any feelings for her”? If you do you’re overestimating men’s morality when it comes to anything related to sex. At this point it’s disappointing, yet unfortunately expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:49 PM
8

A HVM is a man who is compatible to the woman (high value means he is very valuable to her specifically). A man who wants to have sex early when she doesn’t is not a man who is high value to her, since he has no value to offer her as he doesn’t want the same thing that she does. If you can use sex as the carrot on a stick for a man and make him have to “beg for it”as he says in the video, then that means that the man you’re talking to views sex as the reward, sex is the end while the relationshi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:15 PM
115

it sure is for men, in fact the power imbalance between men and women in porn is a huge part of the appeal to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:19 PM
39

they’re practically telling us in our faces that unless sex is on the table they want nothing to do with us, it’s appalling how every interaction with women has to involve sex for them to see it as worthwhile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:39 PM
60

Saying to a woman “If you had a better personality he wouldn’t have pumped and dumped you” is like saying to a man “If you had a better personality she wouldn’t have used you for money”. Please, the man (who pumped and dumped)/woman (who used you for money) already has a motive and no amount of “good personality” will change that motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:05 PM
94

One of thing they say that always makes me laugh is “If you don’t sleep with a man fast enough, you’ll lose out on a good man”. My sweet summer child, the kind of man who will leave after not getting sex is precisely the kind of man I’m trying to deter. That’s not a good man, that’s a man who was searching for a specific thing and left when he didn’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:57 PM
69

Men see women as sacks of fuckable meat first and as people second. A man will not choose not to fuck a woman simply because he doesn’t find her character appealing, in fact he doesn’t even think about that when the prospect of sex is in the picture. This is why men lose interest after having sex with a woman, because they determined first that she is fuckable enough but beyond that they hadn’t given her much thought. After sex they realize that they aren’t really interested in who she is beyond…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:49 PM
285

When men say they’re visual creatures what they mean is they view women as sacks of meat for sexual use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:19 PM
81

when you are terrible in bed AND your personality is so bad you had to fake it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:07 PM
63

“I still love you.. but not enough to not cheat on you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:28 PM
100

I can only imagine how hard it is for him too, if my dad did this to my mother I would never look at him the same way again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:24 PM
135

Girl that’s what I thought too, imagine being married to a man who does this and you never find out. I’d rather die alone than unknowingly be with a man who cheated on me. You truly can never know what is going on in someone’s mind and for all you know you could be sharing a home with a man like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:20 PM
91

Yeah he’s nothing but a depraved piece of shit, what he did to both women was abhorrent. Imagine how many women have been on either side of this situation and don’t know about it, it just makes me shiver with disgust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:14 PM
369

Notice how the wife and the husband already have an age gap (12 years apart). It’s more often than not that men who date women that much younger than them have a youth fetish going on so this isn’t that surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:09 PM
41

The way that as a society we all just accept men’s depravity when it comes to sex is sickening to me. A man who goes to strip clubs is nothing but a degenerate who enjoys the objectification of the women there. I wonder just how many men who have visited strip clubs would hate the idea of their daughter being the one on the pole, because apparently it’s okay for them to objectify other people’s daughters but please don’t let that happen to their own. Not only do men blatantly disrespect women wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:32 AM
51

It’s very disturbing, I cannot fathom the idea of sleeping with a man who isn’t 100% into it, it would fell extremely rapey to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:15 AM
143

If the new woman believes that he isn’t going to pull the same shit to her in a few years, she’s in for a surprise. She needs to dodge that bullet while she still can (that’s assuming she knows about this whole situation)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:41 AM
235

men not only find no issue with having sex with women who don’t want to have sex with them (see: duty/maintenance sex, prostitution), they now also derive pleasure from it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:10 AM
48

Here’s the thing: I first watched porn when I was 13. The years after that I kept watching it regularly until I was 18. It seriously messed up not only my self image, but the way I viewed women in general. I was shocked at how women were treated in these videos but it was like a car crash where you can’t look away. It genuinely made me hate myself and other women because I started seeing women as objects to be exploited for sexual purposes. I abhorred the idea that I had anything in common with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:07 AM
76

Ladies, are you length women or girth women ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:33 PM
14

Oh they have a “hunter’s nature” alright, you’d be surprised at how many of them are predators looking for prey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:43 PM
52

Note the desensitization caused in his teenage years by porn ladies... The way that he is describing his wife is just the remains of the damage that porn caused coming to the surface.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:22 PM
37

there’s a reason he was shocked at how complex she is... he couldn’t believe they made sex dolls this advanced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:17 PM
41

this what men call “love”... no wonder they leave their sick wives when their “love” is so connected to sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:13 PM
90

Yep, the same way that men abandon their kids and then people say that single mothers are doing the harm. They’re the parent that stays yet they get the blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:03 PM
33

but what if he said he’s 15 and acts grown or whatever 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:55 PM
41

No that’s where you’re wrong. Men will gladly compromise on their standards, they’re more than willing to use any woman as a sex toy while they fantasize about the women they want. Such humble kings 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:46 PM
25

you hit the nail on the head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:56 PM
55

the bar is so low for men that just coming back home to your partner is considered good enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:34 PM
80

if I don’t find a porn free man I’m not dating anyone. I won’t accept a depraved man in my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:26 PM
113

Well said. What libfems are attempting to do is make it acceptable for women to be the objects, under the guise of empowerment. There is nothing empowering about being seen as the object and there never will be. Until women turn from the object into the subject, this mentality only serves to facilitate the degradation of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:24 PM
6

Ask a man to describe his ideal wife and watch him describe a servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:29 PM
104

A man who desires to beat women is degerate... unless he derives pleasure from it. Then he is completely normal. So if you’re a man who craves to abuse women, just make sure to thoroughly enjoy it and then people won’t think there’s anything wrong with you 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:03 PM
30

shhh don’t let them know that, allow them to reaveal their true selves early on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:43 PM
130

“modern relationship”?Lmao this kind of relationship is taken straight from the 16th century
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:44 AM
94

Can’t believe men still use the same shaming tactics they did a hundred years ago. Guess some things never change. They should probably try to spice it up though, the more they use the same insults the more they lose their impact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:57 PM
563

Men’s biggest fear is being treated by women the way they treat them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:49 PM
44

Lmao men are not attracted to women, they’re attracted to women’s body parts. They’re just mad their homie doesn’t have a pussy instead of a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:43 PM
64

Good riddance 👌! Just the fact that you feel relieved shows that the relationship was weighing you down instead of adding value to your life. Good job on getting rid of that dead weight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:39 PM
30

The media presents empowerment very differently to each gender: female empowerment -> feeling empowered, the word is used to support decisions made by women even (and especially) when said decisions don’t lead to real empowerment (for example being degraded during sex, selling your body to be used sexually by depraved men etc). male empowerment-> being empowered, meaning that you have to gain actual power through what your actions in order for them to be considered empowering I genuinely believe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:11 PM
4

his dick size and the size of the key should be used to compare the old vs new downvote buttons, in which case there has been a great improvement but unlike him I’d fuck neither
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:49 PM
16

“I’d fuck both”...... we know, you’d fuck the keyhole on your front door if you could...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:42 PM
8

the fact that they themselves don’t believe they are vile makes it easier, male solipsism for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:39 PM
107

Also love the fact that women who are in porn are immoral but men who watch it and use it to satisfy their depraved sexual fantasies apparently aren’t. Women getting abused on screen are unethical, men who watch said abuse and derive pleasure from it aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:04 PM
136

The brainwashing that has been happening is out of this world. Women are expected to do everything that men do in relationships PLUS the majority of the childcare and domestic work, while relationships are portrayed as something good for women that they should have, otherwise people assume that something must be wrong with her. We are literally shaming women into entering relationships where they will have more work to do than their partners while telling them that it benefits THEM. What a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:55 PM
8

“porn wouldn’t have been a problem if I hadn’t asked about it” aka it’s okay to be disrespected as long as you don’t know. Next up: cheating is okay as long as you don’t know, so don’t ask about it. Thank god you fired your therapist and left your ex. Good riddance honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:45 PM
191

Explain to me how letting a man rent your body for sexual use is empowering. Explain to me how perpetuating the belief that women are objects to be bought is empowering. Explain to me how fueling the idea that sex is something akin to masturbation for men and the woman’s role is to assist with it with no regard for her pleasure or even desire to be there is empowering. Explain to me how men who buy those services supposedly care about women when they are willing to have sex with a woman who does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:15 PM
58

To them it’s the only part of women that matters. Women = bodies to use sexually, products to consume.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:23 AM
55

What do you mean, of course they are! It’s when young girls are still naive about men and have not yet developed the ability to stand up for themselves, there’s no better time to take advantage of them! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:19 AM
10

Wow that is just vile. Thanks for the book recommendation, I will definitely check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:14 AM
47

Well what do you think “relationships” are for according to them? It’s a way to satisfy their sexual desires and that’s about it. They don’t care if porn damages their relationships because frankly, they’re getting their sexual desires satisfied through it and the relationship has lost a significant portion of its value in their eyes. Relationships to them are about “muh penis” so of course it doesn’t matter to them if they’re falling apart as long as their penis is satisfied one way or another.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:55 PM
33

Apparently masturbating to other women daily is not something that should make you feel like you’re not enough...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:44 PM
33

Yup. Everything women criticize about men has to do with them being jealous, men have done nothing wrong... https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lobfxh/why_being_single_is_preferable_over_dating_for/go5b28d/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:40 PM
105

Men have always tried to portray women’s realizations of their flaws as the women just being jealous over not getting their attention (the narcissism that these men have is unfathomable, to think that their attention which they give out to just anyone is worth much). A woman calls out men for objectifying and sexualizing women? She is just jealous that she isn’t the one objectified. A woman talks about how men who check out other women or follow instagram models while they’re in relationships ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:12 PM
95

A lot of men deeply want women to be inferior to them... how else are they going to justify why they should have power over them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:38 PM
51

Yeah that’s not a dad, that’s just a sperm donor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:33 PM
20

Sex is a strong desire at worst, just cause you really want it doesn’t mean you can’t live without it. Can’t believe they’re being so emotional over it, they’re acting like kids who didn’t get the toy they wanted for Christmas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:03 PM
78

This type of men see white women as trophies and black women as mommy #2 for when they’re at their worst (best believe they’ll be leaving as soon as they get back on their feet) That’s gonna be a yikes from me dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:11 PM
155

Example #10863 of men directly telling women that they see relationships with them as a means of getting a sex doll. Disappointing but not surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:03 PM
50

Best part is they don’t think about what kind of person a husband who is okay with having sex out of the relationship while the wife doesn’t is. He understands what a shitty deal that is for the wife, yet he doesn’t care. Pp wet above all. There’s more dignity to be found in divorcing such a man than letting him sleep with other women so you can have the remains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:56 PM
67

I’d rather die alone than let a man fuck other people while I don’t do the same. Open “relationships” for only one person are nothing but a scam. Might as well just divorce there and then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:49 PM
22

The fact that they pretend that being chocked, slapped etc is empowering in any way is what really annoys me. Calling something empowering doesn’t mean it actually is. You simply enjoy being degraded, don’t attempt to look “empowered” while your fwb who sees you as fleshlight spits on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:01 PM
30

Lol second screenshot is exactly what the “body positivity” movement is all about. Instead of women breaking free from the idea that a man objectifying them means that they’re somehow valuable, libfems believe that ALL women should be objectified, no woman should be left out... Broadening the definition of “attractive” doesn’t change the status quo. Women still have to adhere to the idea that they have to be fuckable to have value. You’re simply allowing more women to be considered “valuable” un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:54 AM
59

Men are always so offended when they’re treated like women, they hate to be associated with anything feminine... Wonder why that is?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:37 AM
160

torture is disturbing to witness ... until it’s women on the receiving end, then not only is it not disturbing, it’s actually pleasurable to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:37 PM
138

Can’t believe we live in an era where a man can enjoy watching women being abused and still be considered normal and not sick, depraved and psychopathic. What a world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:23 PM
17

Apparently, according to them, damaging women is alpha behavior... At least they’re honest about what they’re attempting to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:40 PM
33

Yes this is precisely what I mean. The lower the standards that women have for men, the better it is for them. Notice how if a married man in Thailand cheats he gets away with it but if a married man in a western country does the same then usually the wife leaves him and as a result men don’t cheat as much as in Thailand. It’s not that men are so different in Thailand compared to here, it’s that the women’s attitudes are different. If women don’t tolerate something then men will do it way less (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:33 PM
46

can’t blame them, they themselves at least know that fucking them is a mistake, no wonder they don’t respect you after 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:19 PM
291

God forbid a woman realizes how good she is, she might get ridiculous ideas about how she deserves to be treated well. We can’t let that happen now can we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:16 PM
139

Instead of bringing each other up, let’s bring each other down! With partners like these who needs enemies...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:10 PM
71

The biggest mistake men make is fooling themselves into thinking that any thought that comes from them must be rational. Their delusion is laughable and it’s very apparent when observing them as an outsider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:02 PM
51

Lmao yes it’s like as soon as you give them what they want they don’t respect you for it anymore. The self hatred must run deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:54 PM
45

“I was convinced by society that we can’t expect much from men.” That’s the entire point, men are continuously trying to lower the bar that they have to pass and constantly reduce women’s expectations for them. That’s why you have guys saying things like “Well, all men do it!”, because they’re attempting to normalize undesirable behavior to the point where women accept it as just them being a manTM. That way they can get women easier and with as little effort possible. This why it’s important fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:50 PM
32

They’re trying to use different strategies depending on the situation It’s “All men” when the behavior described is one that the man who is speaking is guilty of demonstrating and he would like to continue being this way without judgement. It’s “Not all men” when the behavior described isn’t exhibited by the man speaking and he is attempting to make himself appear as one of the good guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:39 PM
212

“the quality of women has dropped” who dropped it though? Really interesting how having sex with men reduces one’s value, according to men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:20 PM
51

Makes sense, after all is there a person who likes having their toys used by another person ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:08 PM
36

Same with men who watch porn but don’t want their daughters making it. They don’t want them in porn because they know how disgusting their view of women in porn is and therefore they don’t want other men thinking of their daughters the same way that they think of these women. It’s ok for me to do it to your daughters, but don’t do it to mine. (Also very telling that we have to present women as men’s daughters for them to understand how disrespectful they are towards them. They are incapable of s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:18 PM
23

The audacity of men to slut shame women when they’re the ones who say things like “If she’s giving it I’m taking it” is astronomical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:43 AM
21

Can’t believe so many men get into relationships for a fleshlight and then women take pride in having relationships... LoOK aT mE gUyS, I hAvE a mAN WhO sEeS mE aS a sEX DoLl aNd wHo WiSheS hE DiDn’t hAVe To dEAl wItH mY hUMaNiTy 😎!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:34 AM
24

Lol at the first guy, do you also go to to the supermarket instead of the hospital when you want a checkup? Why are you telling women to appeal to men who have casual sex by having sex with them faster when they aren’t the targeted demographic? Women who want relationships want men who want relationships, not men who have casual sex. All she would be doing by sleeping early with men is attract men who don’t have what she wants. This kind of advice is self sabotaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:23 AM
18

Of course this kind of men want ALL men to be like them... How else are they going to level the playing field ? It doesn’t benefit them at all for there to be men better than them because it makes them look bad in comparison, no wonder they’ll do anything they can to deny HVM’s existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:13 AM
15

She posts nudes? What’s the big deal? It’s just an imagine, it’s not like she’s actually sleeping with the men who watch it. Nothing wrong with other men just masturbating to her, you wouldn’t think that’s the same as cheating, right ? There’s no exchange happening after all !!! I don’t see what the problem is, you’re just overreacting. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:05 PM
231

“It’s fine if she’s legal” Is it? Is everything that is legal also moral and harmless?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:40 PM
33

The best part is that the women who sexualize other women with “their” men never do that to other men. If they see “their” man salivating over another woman they join in, but funny how the reverse doesn’t happen... Do they not see what’s happening ? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:54 AM
37

He actually values his partner ?!?!?!? SIMPPPPP !!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:20 PM
57

lmao he definitely would have called her unattractive if she wasn’t good looking but he couldn’t say that cause he would look ridiculous so he settled for “she isn’t THAT attractive” instead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:16 PM
6

yep, as he should be 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:46 PM
17

legendary behavior, love to see women not hesitating to cut men off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:42 PM
42

So she works full time AND does all this at home ?!? Her back must be hurting from carrying her husband that much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:25 PM
43

What they want is for women to return to being extensions of men instead of being their own people and accept that this is their position. They really want us to just shut up and take the disrespect with a smile on our faces ... lmao good luck with that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:49 PM
92

100% facts. There is a reason that looks are the first thing that is used by men as an insult when said insult is directed to a woman. They know that that’s what they value her for, so ridiculing a woman’s looks would be the equivalent of telling her that she has no value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:31 PM
184

To me an interesting insult has always been the classic “go make me a sandwich/ go back to the kitchen” because it shows that men not only don’t value the traditional role women had, they see it as worthy of being used as an insult. Men recognize that the role is demeaning. So it’s always funny to me when some men want women to act like a traditional housewifeTM and they complain about how women now have changed because it shows that they very much want women to take a role that they see as degr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:20 PM
54

I guess I won’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:00 AM
521

Any man who believes that he is entitled to sex any time he wants when he is in a relationship with a woman admits that he sees his partner as his property that he can use sexually whenever he pleases. It’s terrifying just how many men have no issue whatsoever having sex with women who are not into it. I could never imagine sleeping with a man who does not want to. Sex for them really is just assisted masturbation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:08 PM
14

An unsuitable man only brings negative value to your life, he detracts happiness. I don’t see why anyone would choose that over being single, like do you really hate yourself that much that the thought of being alone is worse than being with a man who will make your life miserable ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:48 PM
52

That’s the kind of thing I like to see ! I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:23 PM
44

Libfems need to understand that there is a difference between liberation and empowerment. A woman can make decisions that disempower her and just because she made those decisions freely doesn’t mean that suddenly she’s empowered by them. Empowerment is more objective than they like to think. Letting a man abuse you because he is sexually into doing so is not empowering in any way and just cause you like such treatment doesn’t change the fact that it is degrading. You just enjoy your own disempow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:00 PM
33

The idea that unattractive guys are nicer than attractive ones is just a myth perpetuated by them so they can have a chance in the dating scene. The reality is that one can be both unattractive AND an asshole, just like someone can be both attractive AND nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:53 PM
39

lmao yes finally someone said it. Why are we pretending that fantasies happen in a vacuum?? what someone fantasizes about is not as unrelated to what this person wants as people would like to believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:50 PM
382

I always wonder how women into bdsm and other fetishes never stop and think: wait a minute, this man derives sexual pleasure from abusing me, why is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:44 PM
26

Men who are ok with abortions when they can financially abort but are not ok with abortions when they can’t financially abort are admitting that the reason they don’t support abortion in the second scenario isn’t because they believe that a life is ended, but because they think it’s unfair they have to pay for their kid. They don’t actually care about the fetus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:16 PM
117

Reminds me of the quote from Margaret Atwood: “You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur.” This is exactly what she was talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:00 PM
40

very true, the lower the bar the better it is for them, which is why it is up to us to not tolerate any unacceptable behavior because the more we tolerate it -> the more we normalize it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:32 AM
103

this was one of the worst ones for me too... They see the relationship as the work they have to put up with in order to get the real reward aka sex. I wonder just how many men would drop their girlfriends or wives if they could get sex from them without having to actually be in a relationship with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:29 AM
63

I know right, like you mean to tell me that you value me as an actual friend without any ulterior motives whatsoever ?!? I couldn’t be more thankful !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:34 AM
159

which would explain why they dread the idea of being associated with anything that is regarded as feminine, it would be degrading to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:29 AM
31

Yep this is the way, get rid of any dead weight entirely before it drags you down with it. Good for you sis 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:14 AM
36

I agree and I believe that, sadly, this one their main incentives to become friends with women..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:50 AM
84

men’s compliments mean nothing when you realize that they don’t really have anything to do with you other than the fact that you’re female... they are simply attracted to anything that resembles the female form and you just happen to fulfill that criterion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:44 AM
123

Absolutely. It seems that for a lot of men if a woman has the ability to fuck him she’ll do and he could barely care about anything else about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:35 AM
142

Yup. This is why men complain about being friendzoned way more than women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:22 AM
18

I know right, it’s almost comical how conflicting our interests are... And because of those differences in what we want the compromises that have to happen in order for us to be in relationships with each other end up being so severe that you might as well not enter a relationship in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:16 AM
48

Yeah I think I’m following your footsteps tbh. I’m curious as to what realizations about men did other fdsers here found the roughest. For me it was the fact that so many men see relationships as a way of securing a source of frequent sex and they don’t really care (or they even detest) any other parts of it. They just see women as a means of relieving their sexual urges and they put up with them just to get that, a living sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:37 PM
96

It honestly amazes me how we’ve let men stoop so low in quality that even helping with chores is regarded as an exceptional feature. Imagine being a man and thinking that just knowing how to use a vacuum cleaner makes you a superior dating candidate...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:47 AM
37

“I could be like the other men that don’t help even when asked” lmaooo this man wants to be praised for doing the bare minimum. Oh you actually help like you’re supposed to do?!? Wow how exceptional of you. The bar is so low for men that even doing something as basic as helping around the house is seen as an achievement... 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:42 AM
6

because a man beating you is okay as long as he also gets off to it... 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:22 AM
4

“eroticized violence” aka not only is this man violent, he thoroughly enjoys violence to the point where he derives sexual pleasure from it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:20 AM
3

Thank god you decided to not put up with him any longer! You (and the gf too) deserve someone who will truly respect you,love you and cherish you. I know things may seem hard right now but I promise that in the future you’ll look back at this and you’ll be glad you dodged the bullet. With time things WILL get better. Sending you lots of hugs! Also I love seeing just how supportive everyone here is! You ladies are the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:15 AM
29

man is just looking to get his dick wet and if there isn’t anyone open to non monogamy he sure as hell doesn’t want to miss his chance to get the pp wet by declining monogamous offers this is how men think opportunistically when it comes to dating, they’ll just take whatever comes their way for a chance to have sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:42 PM
75

Men are opportunistic when it comes to sex, meaning that they will NOT turn down an opportunity to have sex even if they aren’t attracted to the person offering. Men will not waste any chance to get laid. It’s also very telling how they are willing to have sex with women they don’t respect or don’t know well, because it proves that they objectify women- the women they’re having sex with are just bodies to them so of course it doesn’t matter who they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:23 PM
40

As if a high value woman would date a man who isn’t exclusive to her lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:40 PM
4

Even if his number really is that high, that would be very concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:43 PM
117

No man who sees his woman as an equal would demand from her to take his surname. You don’t ask a person who is your equal to erase part of their identity to match yours. You don’t expect from your equal to become an extension of yourself while you don’t reciprocate. You only do that to someone who you see as inferior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:13 AM
23

yes cause abuser daddy would be a perfect male figure that would set a positive example of what a man should be /s the scrote would probably agree unironically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:18 PM
46

Absolutely. It’s like as soon as sex is in the equation, men suddenly have no agency and accountability and everything that happens is women’s fault. They act as if they’re mindless sex obsessed drones and it’s up to women to stop them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:02 PM
40

Lmao my thoughts exactly. If you have to lie guess what, women don’t like who you really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:38 PM
27

It still is considered consent. In conclusion: we vet more than ever before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:24 PM
192

It’s kind of funny how he’s trying to put the blame on women by saying that they don’t reward honesty. Of course you believe women don’t reward honesty when your true character is appalling! If you went to a bank and told those working there that you were going to rob it do you think you would get a pass cause you were honest ?No wonder you have to lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:44 PM
58

Apparently no, it’s all just a ploy to acquire a source of frequent sex...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:38 PM
89

What do you mean, the woman IS the sex toy /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:29 PM
169

I think I’m slowly following that path as well... It’s disturbing just how different men and women view relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:25 PM
22

Yep this, plus they should also marry young and not choose their own partners. Sounds like an amazing deal 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:34 PM
97

She does porn? That explains why she responds positively to a man being disrespectful towards her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:25 PM
14

Very good point. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:05 PM
60

FDS -> How can I avoid abusive partners? Red Pill -> How can I abuse my partner and get away with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:01 PM
49

This what he wants the kids to be. I am sure that the environment that such a marriage would create would be veeeery healthy for the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:43 PM
40

Notice how he said he values “a lasting marriage” and not a good, lasting marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:41 PM
30

They’re talking about traditional marriages vs what we have now. He would prefer if things remained how they were in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:38 PM
80

What ?!? You mean to tell me that after I’ve married a woman I CAN’T have sex with her whenever and however I want and I CAN’T treat her however I want ?!?!? Then what’s the point of marrying (buying) her if she doesn’t become my property ?!? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:01 PM
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The funniest part is that the in the sub this is from, men constantly claim that women lack empathy for men. You can’t make this stuff up. At least we got this rare moment of honesty where they admit they don’t really care what happens to women as long as they get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 05:55 PM
78

Facts. It’s important to emphasize that they also don’t respect the madonna, they just see her as the object that hasn’t gotten “dirty” yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:53 PM
177

A life alone >>> a life with someone unsuitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:32 AM
17

I had a pretty positive view of him but then I learned that his wife told him that she didn’t want to change her surname to match his and he didn’t agree with that so she ended up changing it (if I remember correctly) and that really rubbed me the wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:10 PM
9

Lmao I just saw that, no wonder he’s ready to leave if he doesn’t get bjs, he doesn’t take their “relationship” seriously at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:58 PM
7

This is so true. Women really need to stop putting up with these men’s bullshit and start kicking them to the curb instead. Every time you forgive a man for something ask yourself, would he have done the same for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:51 PM
157

If a woman said that her man likes to slap and choke her with her permission outside of sex, we would all be weirded out by it and think that something is wrong with this dude. However, if she says that her man enjoys slapping and choking her during sex then suddenly it’s seen as normal. Apparently there’s nothing unethical about a man who likes to hit women as long as he derives sexual pleasure from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:59 PM
1

Personally I’d never give up my last name. It would be like changing part of who I am and becoming an extension of my husband instead of being another person. I would not ask my man to take my last name and I hope he returns the favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:13 AM
145

A man who commits way too early may be trying to bait and switch -meaning that as soon as you have sex with him he vanishes and he is “committing” to you simply to get you to have sex with him quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:26 PM
17

Precisely. With casual sex there is barely any need to please your partner, which why so many women are left unsatisfied when engaging in it. Not to mention a man with a high body count is less likely to be relationship oriented because if he was he would be getting into long term relationships instead which would lead to a lower body count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:46 PM
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