This is getting ridiculous 🤡

barbellvalkyrie · 2021-06-24T15:38:14+00:00

"21F... who has very little dating experience." And oh Honey, it shows. She talks about FDS "taking the fun out of dating" because she hasn't experienced enough to know that men will happily and mercilessly do that themselves.

radsera99 · 2021-06-24T15:40:52+00:00

Well men being porn addicted abusive misogynistic assholes isn’t natural either but what can u do!

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-06-24T15:40:29+00:00

Her low self esteem makes her a prime target for users and abusers. Living in a place where women objectification is rife and mainstream (on tv women host are just there to be pretty, hyper-sexualised and nd half naked) must be really hard to think this is not ‘natural’ and how things should be.

Her account sounds that of a redpiller or whatever these incels are called.

foodgrowerfoodeater · 2021-06-24T15:27:18+00:00

"sucks the fun out of dating" girl have fun being traumatized I guess

catlady4u · 2021-06-24T15:28:55+00:00

I would encourage her, and all women, to keep an open mind about FDS. It sounds like she read bits and pieces of the FDS sub and took a lot out of context.

sleepysiri · 2021-06-24T15:30:19+00:00

Everything she’s describing is not something new.

Vetting? Identifying creepy assholes? Not sleeping with someone we don’t trust and respect?

Also, I don’t think anywhere on this sub anyone has advocated acting emotionally unavailable to keep a man interested, this isn’t high school.

If doing a background check on a man before you sleep with him is too hard, you do you. If it gives you anxiety to ? Be careful and protect yourself ? By all means, stop doing that and go for anyone.

Pick-me.

LR_today · 2021-06-24T15:49:02+00:00

Have fun being used like the pickme you are then. See you back here in 10 years when the 35 year old you were trapped into a relationship with dumps you for someone younger.

Tinder rapist will love her.

whiterabbit818 · 2021-06-24T15:49:38+00:00

I have never seen this sub denigrate women who like sex —- actually THE OPPOSITE!! We talk about how (most) men are terrible at sex and only care about getting themselves off! We are HVW because we carr about good sex

frustratedmarxistfem · 2021-06-24T15:42:15+00:00

Sick that we've reached a point where "I'm not giving my whole body to every man who looks at me" is now viewed as transactional.

You wait for sex for your comfort not to exchange it like its an item to be given

shelballama · 2021-06-24T15:49:55+00:00

"it seems like every single man is a LV pig who doesn't respect you and will keep you around until their dream girl comes around and you are a placeholder only"

So close to some awareness. Almost there.

I love how she thinks vetting and being cautious means you're an ice queen. Good luck out there to her.

_differentmentality_ · 2021-06-24T15:44:56+00:00

Just because we aren’t interested in having sex outside of a committed relationship doesn’t mean we see sex as transactional, in fact the last thing we want is men that want a commitment-sex exchange. We are not “rewarding” men who commit to us with sex, their commitment is exchanged for our commitment and sex in a relationship should be beneficial to both parties.

justforfds · 2021-06-24T15:40:06+00:00

21 from Italy. YOU LIE

Smells like scrotey subterfuge.

Catz10000 · 2021-06-24T15:42:00+00:00

The part that got to me was where she says FDS is transactional around sex. My first thought was so prostitute yourself for free then? SMH. So young and she doesn't understand the nature of men. Or her own value.

Title	This is getting ridiculous 🤡
Author	Karolin99_Ger
Upvotes	30
Comments	18
Date	June 24, 2021 3:22 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/o732ri/this_is_getting_ridiculous/
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