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Omg HOW did you know I needed to see this today, THANK YOU!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:38 AM
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Lol or when I was in my 20s? Or early 30s? We have each other now haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:51 AM
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Same!! Glad we’re done with that shit!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:50 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:10 PM
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Yes true! And unfortunately the opposite is what I had - resentful, neglectful Mom and a dad that was only 50/50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:58 PM
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Oh yes it’s alllll CRAZY!!! I don’t know about legalities but from what I read, so far she was only asking that her dad be removed they were still going to do some company that had control of her finances, right? I may have misunderstood though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:51 PM
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Yes! I see my sister with her kids and I often think “what it must be like to have a good parents!“ And that’s not to say my sister is perfect but our parents were terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:49 PM
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If it was funny..... maybe Vince Vaughn arguing with the kid over play station live in the movie The Breakup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:37 PM
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Anyone who gets wrapped up in arguments with their 6yr old nephew .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:42 PM
59

Omg hahahaha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:40 PM
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I have never seen this sub denigrate women who like sex —- actually THE OPPOSITE!! We talk about how (most) men are terrible at sex and only care about getting themselves off! We are HVW because we carr about good sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:49 PM
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This is so Awful, I hope you’re leaving asap! You can do this - NO person is worth this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:46 PM
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Thanks yes I have been working on it and definitely have gotten better over the years.... using that technique and others. Esp when I moved to LA I was like “I am going to be in traffic all the time, I need to watch my mood/actions” though admittedly I will need to get reacquainted with it now that there’s traffic again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:05 PM
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Gotcha thanks! And thanks for the list, this is great! And a lot of stuff my Dad does UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:16 PM
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I’m not understanding this one: “if he makes a mistake on the road, he apologizes”...? Also, what if I have road rage? Admittedly I likely got it from my Dad :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:42 AM
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Jesus! I guess that’s one area I have been lucky in (so far) YIKES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:22 PM
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Fuck I hate that show! I couldn’t even watch promos for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:53 AM
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I am SO PROUD OF YOU!!!! Y O U C A N D O T H I S!!!!! You deserve so much in life and you Never deserve violence from a partner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:16 PM
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How absolutely flattering to his (now ex) fiancé! DOUCHE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:46 PM
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Omg that second one ☝️ Yeah that was me!!! I had recently ended my engagement with my LVM ex and while still living with him in a pandemic, some ANGEL responded to a comment I made about an NYC housewife page (of all places LoL) about my breakup, and they directed me here. She saw another lady-stranger struggling and she reached out - that is some Queen shit! ❤️ Forever grateful!! (I will track down her username)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:37 AM
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Love this, Thank You Queen!👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:33 AM
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Wow I didn’t read about the ‘locked inside a studio’ part. This also happened to UK singer Duffy - her ‘good friend’ (whom I don’t think she has outed either) drugged her, took her out of the country while she was out of it and assaulted her and she finally got away but I don’t remember how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:15 PM
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Congratulations!!!! You made it!!! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:50 AM
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Go cry incel tears into your craft beer, Ryan. Nobody wants your dick. 🤣 this is awesome, thanks for the laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:31 PM
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Congratulations on graduating college that’s awesome!!! I hope you can stay safe & get out of there as soon as humanly possible! You might not even realize how much this is affecting you until you get yourself safe. feel free to message me anytime you want I wish there was more I could do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:45 AM
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You need to leave asap. Are you 18? You can get financial aid / take out loans for college. This is not ok and nothing is worth staying there if you can get out. I agree education is very important but it’s not worth you physical & mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:26 AM
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Cash the check, go on a vacation, never think about him again. (And assuming you have him blocked/deleted already - keep doing that!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:54 PM
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I LOVE getting flowers for myself!!!! I like to go to Trader Joe’s because they’re less expensive so I can get 3-4 bouquets at one 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:36 AM
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My ex wasn’t awesome to begin with, but after his good friend died unexpectedly he became SO MUCH WORSE! Than my brother passes away (the same way as his friend, about 8 months later) and he is not there for me at all. He recovers a bit about a year later, then his stepdad unexpectedly passes. Cannot imagine what he’ll do when someone like his Dad passes, but NOT MY PROBLEM ANYMORE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:16 AM
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Congratulations!!! And HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:59 PM
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Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:49 AM
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Omg girl, same!!! My ExNVM bought a rush engagement ring (that was not what wanted) & panic proposed right after he picked it up. No flowers , no planning , no forethought to even make it special. add to make it worse I was leaving the house to go to bed with a friend so could he would like hang out with them that’s how poorly planned it was it was it planned at all. He got that hoodie and he asked my dad which were two things I wanted to but over that pretty terrible proposal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:27 AM
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Oh man I would FAINT that is soooo sweet .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:16 AM
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I’m so, so sorry for your loss! He sounds like a wonderful man! Sending you internet hugs! Also thank you for your post :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:51 AM
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THIS!!! Also - unwanted sex = RAPE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:57 AM
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It would be possible for other men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:50 PM
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Yes, Thank you 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:25 AM
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Well we had been fighting all week. Mainly because he was an asshole and LVM. I was getting ready to meet my Bestie to go to like a Christmas holiday party thing. My ex had said that he was going to propose by the end of the year - an idea he took for my Bestie‘s husband who had done that the year prior. So he told me in March that he was going to propose by the end of the year and I said “OK I’ll see you on December 31”. Anyway he had PLENTY of time to propose & plan that proposal. He did what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:03 AM
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Damn I wish I would have known that back then lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:11 AM
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I couldn’t even buy it when I lived in the US Northeast. So when I would visit family in the Midwest I would drive it or mail it to myself (cause you cannot fly with it obviously) . I have story too—— in about 2009 I was visiting Boston and doing the tourist stuff. Me and my friends went to the USS constitution ship and the people doing the x-rays before you boarded the ship yelled at me, confiscated (stole) my pepper spray and threatened to arrest me because I was carrying it. I didn’t know the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:14 PM
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Didn’t see the value IN READING?!?! Shit. I mean, if he doesn’t want to himself is one thing, but no value ?!?! Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:09 AM
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Less cringe, just sad & infuriating- My ex didn’t leave work when my brother unexpectedly died. ☹️ He also did a horrendous proposal. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:07 AM
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So sorry to hear about all the awful stuff that you’ve been through! Good for you for walking away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:53 AM
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I wish orgasms put me to sleep they usually wake me up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:21 PM
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Yes! I am lucky to live in SoCal but even so I take a Vitamin D supplement :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:17 PM
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Weighted blanket Sunshine Vibrator Even a tanning bed (just every once in a while, I know they aren’t healthy and I haven’t needed them in years but they are nice)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:23 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:46 PM
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Ugh that always happens! Yeah my ex didn’t leave work when my brother died. It was 5 years ago and it still pisses me off. It was an unexpected death but all the more reason for him to take care of me. Then I went home for the funeral alone ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:08 PM
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Aww!!! So happy for you! Have definitely never experienced something like that for myself but I would love to, haha! Good for you 💜 Edit to add - Sorry about your car accident!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:46 PM
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Wow never heard that saying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:33 AM
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You made the right decision!!!! You will be ok when the smoke clears!! You DESERVE SO MUCH MORE. We’re here for you!! I’m swamped tomorrow but please Feel free to message me this weekend if you want to vent or talk sending hugs 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:32 AM
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Congratulations on your sobriety and being an absolute Queen!!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:16 PM
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This is awesome, what a great role model!!!! Also very sweet your Dad gave her the rent back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:31 PM
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Yes! So many great ideas! And it definitely wasn’t a bad movie. Carey Mulligan is a Goddess and I have loved her since An Education. Loved how they revealed the boyfriend’s secrets because I was very much rolling my eyes that this would be one more “as soon as she finds the right man/ relationship than everything is great” movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:54 PM
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As a movie the writing to me was not finessed. Seemed they left a lot on the cutting room floor. Particularly didn’t buy the montage of her & her bf (name?) “falling in love” I wish the movie was more developed and less montage-y. I was surprised by & enjoyed the ending I just wish the movie was better . Great idea, execution not fantastic. I was absolutely shocked to see it up for best picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:41 PM
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I like the spirit of this but as a movie it looks terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:12 PM
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It was 38 for me! Yay us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:11 PM
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Aww 🥰 you’re doing a GREAT JOB, Mom!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:15 PM
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I’m so sorry! But Good for You for being STRONG 💪❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:47 PM
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Good thing because now they’re promoting cannibalism!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:16 AM
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WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS WORLD COMING TO?!?!?🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:47 AM
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Judging by the title of the post alone - block & delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:23 PM
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I was mostly being facetious but I have to admit I can’t imagine learning that in any type of academic setting. Pretty much blocked all of the “sex ed” I did have out. But, I’ll say this, it definitely would need to be taught by women not men since they don’t know what the fuck they’re doing. It would be helpful if they even just acknowledged that every person is different and you should talk to your partner about what feels good for them. I feel like a black and white instruction would not be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:30 AM
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Same!!! Not that I needed more reasons to keep them outta my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:44 AM
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Wow I love these so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:41 AM
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Could they teach in school though? Like if men don’t know how, how would teach it? 😆 omg best head I ever got was in bf’s truck when I was 17. He had lots of other problems but at least he could do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:39 AM
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Thank you!! ❤️ right back at you Queen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:22 PM
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My ex did this. My Dad did/does too. FUCK. Will I ever find an HVM?! Edit to add: also my Mom. Don’t want to not give her credit that she so definitely earned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:22 AM
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I’m so sorry you went through that and I’m so happy for you that you’re out now 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:29 PM
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Jesus I do NOT miss public transportation/ living in NYC. But I still get men talking to me when wearing my headphones just walking around. Douches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:32 PM
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BEAUTIFUL!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:50 AM
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“I dont need you to fix me” “I’m so depressed” “Spends all money on weed & alcohol” “This city is so expensive, why you want to live here?” Talks about missing his family day in & day out (Buy him plane ticket for Christmas) “I’m not going home they don’t care about me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:55 AM
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Omg 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:47 AM
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Omg ALLLL of this!!! Congratulations!! that sounds wonderful not going to lie lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:12 AM
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Thank You, Queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:24 AM
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I’m so sorry. I’m glad you’re safe. You Absolutely did NOT deserve that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:18 AM
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Get my mental health together. Like for-fucking-real. I think it’s at the core of most of my issues. Unfortunately it’s not such an easy thing to track, but right now it’s pretty bad so hopeful it can only go up from here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:02 AM
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You’re welcome! I’m still healing, thank you for asking! It’s been about 7months since he moved out. First 2-3 were bad. The next few were better. Recently I have been in the shit again. Of course Everything in the world has been weird for almost a year so that doesn’t help at all, and I know the issues I am struggling with now have more roots than just getting over that relationship. My bestie & best support-system moved across the country a month after he left. I haven’t worked much in the las…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:43 AM
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Work in tv - can confirm, any way to make money. Why do the Women do it? No idea. pickmeshas?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:10 AM
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So Proud of you!!! I know it’s hard & understand the regret of wasted time (I wasted almost 10 years!) I’m with you on being sad but at the same time being ready to work on Myself, FOR myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:07 AM
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I always wonder the same!!! I made a comment on a sub about being devastated over my breakup and a kind poster sent me here ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:06 AM
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Why TF do mean think literal TRASH is Decor?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:41 AM
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Yessss and no porno posters?! And definitely need MORE clothes on the floor!!! Couple holes in the walls would be a nice touch. And a weed grow operation would be 🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:40 AM
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So True!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:39 AM
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OH MY GOD HYSTERICAL!!!!! (Because it’s spot-on true. And frankly works for men in their 30s as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:39 AM
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Congratulations!!! Way to gooooooo!!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:59 AM
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It takes so much strength to go through that and recognize it for what it was. Do NOT blame yourself for not leaving, what’s important is that A) you’re safe and Out now and B) you now know how to recognize the behavior so you won’t let yourself get in that situation again and C) you’re doing THE WORK of going to therapy (so many times people think they can handle it on their own but it takes real strength to ask for help). We love you so glad you’re here, Queen! 👑❤️ There’s a fantastic Tori Amo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:03 AM
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Thank you 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:09 AM
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Agreed. Some posts really bring me down and when it’s So Many, it becomes quite depressing. (Also not solely directed at this post )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:26 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:29 PM
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Thank you!😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:28 PM
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Thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:22 AM
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For a few weeks this summer I worked out of town. After an intense 2 weeks of long work hours in an unknown city I was emotionally spent. My breakup with my exLV fiancé was still very fresh and I was having a rough time being alone with all my emotions & exhaustion. I didn’t know what to do with myself - wasn’t ready to go back to my apt that we had shared. But because of Covid didn’t have anywhere to go either. Some friends suggested I take the long way home so I drove down the 1 highway for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:26 AM
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I get it and appreciate the examples. As long as you’re not doing it all the time, I don’t see the harm. As someone who does not know how to date / OLD or otherwise, I appreciate examples
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:01 PM
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Same same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:53 PM
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Thanks for the reco I will check it out !! Love Chelsea Peretti
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:32 AM
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Do I give mistress vibe material. What the hell? Do all boys cheat? Is cheating like an acceptable modern day concept? What men do is Not your fault or vibes You’re giving off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:48 PM
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Love it!!! And love hiking (I found out just last year!) when get a few in post some hiking pics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:45 AM
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Beautiful I love that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:50 PM
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Lol I can sell you my old ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:49 AM
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So Beautiful!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:46 AM
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Haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:46 AM
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He actually looks kinda like my ex too! Except the wannabe gangsta thing.... mine was/is a wannabe musician. And he’s Still a porn addict🤦🏻‍♀️ Also LOL “the worst city”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:42 AM
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Neat!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:35 AM
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Thanks!! I have heard of blue topaz but never heard of “London” blue topaz though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:27 AM
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Wow! I love that!! What kind of a stone is that? Do you kind if I ask what company it’s from? Happy New Year Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:12 AM
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I’m so sorry this happened but glad you’re out now!!!! Reminds me too much of my alcoholic musician-wannabe NVM ex. Also this sentence made me laugh! “the emotional intelligence of a goldfish” 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:51 PM
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GREAT JOB!!! I know how hard that must have been (or at least it would be for me! esp prior to FDS enlightenment) Have a Great New Year Queen!!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:47 PM
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Sounds Wonderful!! I mean maybe I am too easy to please (or just emotionally stunted from my last relationship) but just the fact that someone would plan ahead, set something up.... etc is enough to swoon me. Last Xmas my Ex went out to the store next door the day before Christmas and got me 3 last minute shitty cheap gifts (and there was no Pandemic or anything stopping him from doing better). And then I broke up with him finally in March. And when he moved away I gave him two of three things t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:44 PM
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Thanks! Lol that’s funny cause all the planning, shopping & washing dishes really stresses me out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:02 AM
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Omg that looks amazing!!! Especially to me as I hate cooking and have little skill. Tonight I enjoyed my store bought corn stuffing (Way better than my ex’s and he is a “cook”) & tomorrow I’ll finish it & cook a ribeye & make a salad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:50 AM
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Lol loom or not they first have to be willing to bring the yarn!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:09 AM
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Hey you’re hear now!!! I’m 39 and only found FDS (thank you kind redditor for putting me hip!) this year. Welcome, Welcome!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:08 AM
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Felt like I was reading a quote from The Office 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:58 AM
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Maybe in the future. Right now I’m having a hard enough time being a single dog-mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:04 PM
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Amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:54 PM
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OMG I could use someone like you in the past week!! I just started a new job and long story short - tech issues up the Wazoo. Part of the issue is I am working on a laptop from home that looks into a Z drive at the office but I need to be on a desktop so I tried patching the laptop through it. Then side problem spent a all of Saturday trying to hook up a new wifi router, googling info on every small problemI encountered & speaking to my internet company for hours, only to find out I needed to re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:03 AM
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Yeah it’s a tough one. I am 39, I want to be a Mom and I dumped my NVM earlier this year. So I am only recently contemplating becoming a step mom (not dating or anything just thinking...) My friend asked me and Because I Want to be a Mom - a perfect world would make a single Dad attractive to me. But then I remember what world we Actually live in and what kind the o f baggage (everything you listed and more) a single Dad comes with. And then, if I am lucky enough to meet someone & have kids, I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:46 AM
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Yeah Queen!!! What do you do exactly? And double-inspiring for working in a pandemic ! I’ve barely worked 3 months this while year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:41 PM
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Congratulations!!! I love getting flowers more than anything in world! Except Diamonds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:51 PM
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It’s a satirical site similar to The Onion but aimed at Women’s magazines like Cosmo. It’s absolutely hilarious. Check them out on Instagram or Facebook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:07 PM
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LOVE Reductress!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:52 PM
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Exactly 🙄🤣🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:02 PM
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Mine too! I feel sad others experienced this but I also love this community because I feel so heard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:54 PM
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Sooo true!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:14 AM
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Omg that’s SO FUN!!! Good for you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:14 AM
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I’m so glad you’re doing the things you want to do with your friends!!! My good friends I did those things with moved across the country this year :( And my not as good but still friends I can’t see cause covid. So I didn’t do apple picking or pumpkin patch this year , but I cooked some TG dish for needy & tonight I drive aroubd for 30mins enjoying my neighborhood Christmas lights (another family tradition that he wouldn’t do with me) . So I decided I’m going to take a shirt drive every night to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:13 AM
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YES!!! My ex even read books about philosophy & religion... he would talk about religion with his uncle & dad. Yet all I wanted was for him to go to the church I grew up going to for ONE HOUR, ONCE a year!!! I couldn’t believe it especially when I was the one who was an atheist for 13+ years. The one year I finally got him to go was only cause we didn’t travel for Christmas so he couldn’t ditch me for his friends. And like I said in the earlier comment all he did was sulk. He didn’t stand for ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:08 AM
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YESSSSS my ex Hated to do stuff with me , and COMPLAINED endlessly every time I did stuff without him and/ or he would call & text incessantly when I was gone. Fuck them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:57 AM
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Fuck. That was my guy too!! He would start early in the day, “oh my back hurts...” to set it up 🙄😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:55 AM
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Yes! Mine had anxiety, depression, some OCD and addiction to pot & alcohol. I was empathetic -TOO empathetic- because I had most of those too at different points in my life. Then this time last year when I was having a rough time for MONTHS and I tried to open up to him I said something like “I have been unbelievably so depressed ...” he cuts me off and says “I’m depressed too!” I said “no, no we always talk about you, I AM TALKING ABOUT ME NOW” and I was so outraged I don’t even remember the re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:52 AM
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Haha niiiice I would send my ex photos but I’m trying to keep him cut off (we don’t have any kids - except a dog I kept - so no reason to or I would steal your idea!) Yeah my ex never flew on a plane before he came to see me & he Absolutely wouldn’t have seen cool places like NYC, Vegas, California/ LA, Portland, Wisconsin, Gettysburg and Savannah without me. And we would have gotten married in Hawaii but, like you, I was done with planning Everything! That and the thought of him getting drunk o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:46 AM
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Yes. Absolutely I understand this, I see you, I feel your pain!!! Every vacation or holiday would be ruined by me begging him to do SOMETHING and spend time with me. EVERYTHING was a negotiation. Some times he would enjoy himself and be like “that was fun!” And I would say great can you remember that the next time I plan something cause it would save so much time and heartache. And of course I planned EVERYTHING (and paid for it 99% of the time) so if anything went wrong, it was MY FAULT. The la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:52 PM
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YES, Same!!! We would have an argument every holiday. Thanksgiving we did Freindsgiving - not a lot of pressure but noooo I don’t like your friends. Christmas Eve I go to church. I’m not super religious I just really like that candlelight service & then afterwards driving around looking at Christmas lights. And he never wanted to go. It was also about him spending time with MY family not just me seeing his GD fam One year I finally got him to go to church and sulked the ENTIRE time as if I made …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:20 AM
185

Exactly. That’s what I did. I did SOOO many things without him because he had anxiety or he just didn’t want to go to something so He used his anxiety as an excuse. Or he had to work or wanted to go to bed early. So eventually I quit even asking him to go. And I got so used to being alone, I got to a place I could fear being alone-alone or I could stay lonely IN a relationship. Except when he needed me to rescue & mother him. I said get out. Thank God I finally gained the strength and clarity to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:59 AM
232

I think it’s saying much more about men seeing women as objects and women seeing men as people and whether they’re potential partners .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:22 PM
3

He says women fuck like a dead fish Before he says that straight up banging is the answer. IDIOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:53 PM
6

🤣😅🤣😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:27 PM
7

This.... doesn’t seem real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:00 AM
25

Thank You for the reminder ❤️🙏 They don’t call it cuffing season for nothing! Happy Almost New Year! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:13 AM
96

Omg 1000% my pup is literally connected to me vis leash & still looks back consistently to make sure I am there! Also flashback to a dream I had earlier this year when I dreamt about my exLVM and he wouldn’t slow down for me as I called after him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:50 AM
5

👏👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:15 AM
86

“I know you are sensitive”?!?!?! WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. You have a Good response but best response is no response IE block & delete at first message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:22 AM
5

I’m so sorry that sucks!! It’s not your fault! This too shall pass! You’re already leveling up because you dumped his sorry ass. I know it hurts now, but with every passing minute you’re getting stronger, and soon you will feel stronger. Read this sub we have all been through heartache & we are here for each other & we are here for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:09 AM
28

👏👏👏👏❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:04 AM
4

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:05 AM
15

Lol thanks ! Yeah I never saw terper either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:11 AM
26

I guess I just didn’t know that shortcut for redpiller Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:40 AM
26

I don’t like the nn scrote just cause it grosses ME out haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:36 AM
13

What is trp?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:35 AM
4

Everyone has posted such great advice that I will just agree and re-iterate Concentrate on building your career Save money Travel Cultivate your hobbies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:11 PM
2

Praying for your safety and sending hugs 🙏 please update us when you can and feel free to message me if there’s anything you need!!! Good luck and good for you for taking care of yourself!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:12 PM
34

I’m so sorry that happened to you! I really appreciate your post in letting me know I am not alone. My sister has always been better with boundaries with my parents than I have. It’s something I am still working on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:19 AM
115

My mother & father (I blame her more cause she was the one who knew and decided but it’s his fault too!) made me wait until morning because she didn’t want to go to the ER at night to take me in for what she thought was probably appendicitis. It Was. Instead of going to the hospital at must’ve been 8 -10 PM that night, she took me the next morning to the pediatrician who lightly touched my stomach twice and said for her to take me to children’s hospital immediately. Driving to the hospital every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:10 AM
299

... and allow religion to influence the rule of law
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:04 PM
132

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:19 AM
497

And then be expected for sex 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:07 PM
26

Welcome!!! 🙏❤️ and, AGREED!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:06 PM
22

Good for you for listening to your instincts and respecting yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:52 PM
40

Good for you for listening to your instincts and respecting yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:51 PM
104

Good for you for listening to your instincts a d respecting yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:51 PM
20

Absolutely it can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:25 AM
24

Well aside from the assholes those vacations sound amazing! I don’t know anything about Mexican goth culture but I’m totally gonna look into it now. Damn I’m jealous I need to go to those places! I miss traveling!!! The guys that think that about women traveling alone or together are insecure assholes!! My exLVM didn’t like me traveling without him but he also was filled with anxiety and never wanted to travel with me, so fuck him! I went with my bestie who would actually HELP me plan & not ruin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:50 AM
20

I definitely can but it’s hard to talk about. Still recovering from my codependent relationship of 9.5 years. Not sure where to go. I’m not ready to date or anything yet but I want to know how to do it the right way next time. I definitely get it from my parents but it’s been hard for me to see that until now. They’re still together but they’re totally codependent and also they’re codependent on their kids and just like being in drama all the time. They definitely give me a complex that struggle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:36 PM
28

Stay strong, remember this is Cuffing season!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:31 PM
167

That marriage is doomed GOOD FOR HER SISTER!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:01 PM
59

I don’t even understand his language
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:05 AM
103

It’s not your fault, absolutely not. Also, don’t forget, there may be other things he’s done that his bosses/HR know about that you’re not privy to. Who knows if others have reported him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:10 PM
148

It’s awesome!! Totally stealing that flower drawing technique. And I love getting flowers more than anything!!! Except diamonds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:12 PM
63

🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:46 PM
32

Buy her going away gift of some pepper spray and/ or stun gun and have the conversation. Another good gift is THE GIFT OF FEAR book. At least try if she’s not receptive to it you tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:52 PM
28

Love Joan. She was so wise ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:36 PM
2

Definitely do not confront him that will just make things awkward for You. Do Not go on any more dates. Be polite when you see him but do Not initiate conversation. If he talks to you give him short but polite answers. Do not waste your own time or feelings. This too shall pass! You can get through this! Good luck on the new position :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:28 AM
118

Abortion would reward him. How about... “Best divorce lawyers in (city)” “How to get the Most child support possible “ “How to be a single mother”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:49 AM
82

He’s going to do it again. And likely next time he won’t come back. Jesus that reminds me of my ex. THANK GOD I ended my engagement before marriage & children. This a perfect reminder for me right now cause this weekend would have been 10 year anniversary and I know I will be sad so I need all the reminders that what I (finally) did was right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:46 AM
31

Fuck that hits home 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:37 AM
2

Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:06 PM
2

So glad you have your car to Escape even for short periods! It’s really helped through my Longterm LVM fiancé break up and then last week I finally moved out our old place, 5 months after he left. Moving is hard work & Expensive but I am already relieved of so much emotional baggage being in a completely new (and nicer!) apt & new neighborhood to explore. And some day you will be there too!!! 🙏 good luck honey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:52 AM
18

Thank you, I’m working on it 🙏❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:57 AM
4

Headspace is an amazing app that I am slowly learning to meditate with. I like that it addresses Why meditation is HARD for some, makes me feel less alone even though I am alone when I do it, haha. Even better they have these cute little animations to go along with the explanation. You will be out of there soon & able to find some great job that will get you closer to your dream job. I, like you & others, have had a ton of uncertainty this year. I try to hike & walk a lot because I haven’t been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:02 AM
6

Congratulations!!! Almost there!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:54 AM
2

This is a great thing you did for yourself!!! Stay strong Queen, and don’t be too hard on yourself. Welcome to your future, we’ll be here foe you 🙏❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:36 AM
8

❤️🙌👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:45 AM
2

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:41 AM
20

He Definitely Is!!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:37 AM
6

Thank You OP!!! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:18 PM
3

❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:18 PM
11

❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:18 PM
5

Me too! Been trying to come to terms with it for the past 6-8 months :( Was doing better but last week started looking at new apartments.... and something that should be happy & exciting some times gets hijacked by depressed feelings of what my life was supposed to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:46 AM
14

So glad you released yourself from that! ♥️🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:58 AM
81

Block him NOW!!!!!! Block, Delete. You got into this but YOU CAN AND MUST GET YOURSELF OUT OF THIS!!!! This guy sounds like a Really REALLY BAD guy! We all fall back to old habits some times but when you know better it’s up to you to do better. WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT CONTACT HIM AGAIN. Post on this sub a million times, write a letter to yourself, meditate, message friends, (message me on here if you want!), But NOT HIM!!! You Can Do This!!! Hour by hour, day by day it will get easier and you wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:52 PM
6

YESSSSSSS I own easily $400 in nail polish. Do my nails once a week (fingers, I get my toes done). Last I counted I had 8 shades of blue / green 😍❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:44 AM
5

Come back!! Haha :) I used to live in NYC too. LA is So much better quality of life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:30 AM
2

Sounds Awesome! SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! I moved from NYC to LA 7 years ago it’s Much better out here! Good luck with your move ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:28 AM
1

So glad you did this for yourself even though I’m sure it was quite difficult! And that’s awesome your friend & Mom are supporting you through it as well! Ok dumb question... WGTOW means women/ woman going their own way, yes? And more specifically what does that mean to you? (I’m still learning thanks for any insight!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:00 PM
27

Unfortunately that’s my ex too. Scarred for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:04 PM
3

I actually agree I just think this graphic is hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:57 PM
31

5’6” ! 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:38 AM
13

Lol. Best head I ever got was from my high school bf in his truck. His jalapeño green truck 💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:16 AM
54

Tie him to the bed, strike a match
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:51 PM
3

YESSSSSSSS ugh been going down a shame-spiral this last week or two feeling sad about my exLVM then Angrt at myself for tolerating his BS for so long 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:57 AM
2

Happy Birthday lady!!! 🎈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:53 AM
15

I work in the creative & tech side of TV and I will take this strength from you the next time I get man-splained to death 🙏♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:30 PM
7

EXACTLY!!! I was like “you don’t UNDERSTAND!!!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:28 PM
6

Good for you!!! I So Admire you for that you’re a STRONG, BADASS WOMAN 💪💪💪And THANK YOU for your service!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:27 PM
72

Oooooo THAT’s a Great one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:57 AM
67

Wow what a psycho. Leave him. I was pissed when my exLVM wouldn’t have sex when it was my time. Fuck that still makes me ANGRY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:54 AM
66

Jesus fucking christ!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:53 AM
32

Right?!?!? #funnycauseitstrue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:07 AM
56

That’s soooo weird & condescending quite frankly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:05 AM
6

🙏🙏🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:10 AM
17

Did they mean Bum? Shit this Douche makes Buckeye fans look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:49 AM
14

I understand why women don’t take their husband’s surnames but personally I would take my husband’s name mainly cause A) I don’t want to have my Dad’s last name for the rest of my life B) I want the same last name as my kids and don’t want to hyphenate C) no one can say or spell my last name anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:47 AM
20

JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:43 AM
29

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! We know what you’re going through and how HARD it was but BE PROUD OF YOURSELF!!! It was hard but you did it anyway because YOU DESERVE MORE!!!! I broke up with my exLVM fiancé of 9.5 years in March. Just had to talk to him this morning (long story) and all day I have been reminding myself that just because it was nice to hear his voice does NOT mean it was the wrong decision. It was ABSOLUTELY THE RIGHT DECISION - as was yours!!!! They don’t deserve us THEY DO NOT!!! My ex …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:29 AM
2

Gorgeous!!!! Good luck with your interviews!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:03 AM
2

Thanks!!! I am a video editor & edit mostly unscripted tv (crime shows, food shows, reality). Well I have 6 piercings in my left ear, 3 in my right & one in my tongue so I got you covered LOL! One of the first things I did after he moved out was buy a second pair of diamond studs. When we were together I wore these diamond butterfly earrings that he gave me one Christmas in my second holes every day, and even though I still have and Love those earrings, I think it’s best for my mental health tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:21 AM
10

Beautiful!!! And GOOD FOR YOU on all your accomplishments!! Losing a job is so rough but sounds like you’re bouncing back really well!! I just bought myself an expensive super awesome desk chair that will arrive in a couple weeks!!! I am a freelancer so I’m always job-searching and mu industry is only starting to bounce back after COVID but I got a couple weeks of work & even though they didn’t pay much, they cover the cost of this chair & damnit I deserve a new chair🙂 I have been buying myself …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:24 AM
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I’m so sorry for your loss!!! I go back & forth on the feelings that you and OP have expressed. I want a man/ know the man I deserve is likely not out there. And hey, we’re human, we get horny. Don’t beat yourself up about it. I myself have always been what they call a romantic but I think my experience with my exLVM may have killed that for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:04 AM
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PS and you’re buying a HOME!!! DAMN!!!! GOOD FOR YOU!!!!! So much decorating! When you find yourself depressed start shopping (even just vision-boarding) how you’re going to decorate your new place! Omg as a person paying way too much for a shitty 1br apt in LA I am ECSTATIC for you!!!👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:00 PM
5

You’re Strong, YOU GOT THIS!!! Get over this little hump and your life will be CALM and Drama free. Your life will be YOURS again!!!!💪💪💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:58 PM
18

Human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but ... life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.- love in the time of cholera
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:06 PM
28

Yes!!! Even harder when that’s what you saw growing up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:08 PM
30

Good for you!!🙏🙏🙏 I did too, took me way too long, and it was really hard, but Damn am I Proud of myself for it ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:07 PM
1

Omg very close to my ex as well. But he was arrogant enough to think him making min wage was him doing his part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:38 AM
14

I’m glad your work backed you up this is so crazy. SSDGM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:47 AM
4

Same! Even though I broke up with him I allowed him to ruin / run my life for 9 years. Meanwhile I wasn’t taking care of myself at all, gained so much weight I’m worried I won’t be able to ever get rid of it & I’ll never have the confidence to be with a man anyway, then if I do muster up confidence - what is the likekyhood of finding a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:51 AM
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Awesome!! I have been collecting pictures & screen shots for a vision board - I need to start printing them so I can actually make it. Omg I really want kids. Will be hard cause I have basically zero faith in men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:11 AM
5

Exactly!!! Once u switch to diet coke, Coke tastes like drinking 5 bags of sugar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:10 AM
7

NOOO!! 😢 it was my ex fiancé who I was with for 9.5 years before finally kicked him out in May
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:03 AM
6

Ugh mine too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:02 AM
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Oh yeah cause he didn’t want to just give you a compliment. That’s why he didn’t stop there. I would advise not responding to a stranger who says that. Fuck Politeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:34 PM
5

Congratulations that’s wonderful!!! Check out r/namenerds when you’re ready! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:23 PM
25

OMG the fucking guitars!!!!! DID WE DATE THE SAME ASSHOLE?!?! 🤣 there were 3 guitars, a set of drums & a keyboard taking up space in my apt collecting dust & pissing me off. THANK GOD I don’t have to look at that crap anymore Edit to add - same with the weed, exchange coke bottles for beer bottles and dirty teeth instead of dirty hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:40 PM
21

Seriously! And what about us that don’t like to/ know how to cook?!?! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:34 PM
5

I’m confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:31 PM
17

YESSSSS I had/have HUGE crush on an old coworker. He’s totally unavailable and as I was engaged when we worked together that’s kinda what made the crush ‘fun’ at first. Anyhow, I started deleting all his texts almost right away because I know how analytical & obsessive I can get. I still think about him admittedly too much, especially dumping my LVM ex, but now that it has been 5-6 months since we worked together and that long since we have texted so I’m glad I deleted else old me would have bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:24 PM
45

I really didn’t think that was psychically possible...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:00 AM
26

THIS. You won’t believe how quickly you’ll begin to get over him once you kick him out of your life for good. And you’re never going to emotionally get over your previous relationship if you’re still talking to, seeing and /or sleeping with him. No matter how much it hurts it’s temporary and soon you’ll turn that pain into pride that you stood up for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:07 AM
25

You’re worth so much more. Start acting like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:00 AM
5

Tried to but when he started packing a month later (this was during quarantine so it dragged ok for 2 more months) I had a break down. But I do feel the healing for me has been much quicker. He was just so obviously not right for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:03 PM
2

Yes I suppose that’s what I’m basically getting at - feel your feelings but Also distraction is key when they get too overwhelming I’m working on my fitness too. Have been doing intermittent fasting. It’s just another thing I need to distract myself from (eating). Sending you a private message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:53 PM
2

Totally understand I’m in Cali & it’s still pretty shut down UGH. I am 5 months post breakup with my LVM ex fiancé & 3 months post him moving out. It was super ROUGH in the beginning (even though I made the decision ) but has gotten Much better! I still have some of his stuff so that will be good to finally get rid of all of it. I’m by no means perfect but these things help Me: I hike, walk & go on Long drives where I Blast music & sing (sometimes cry but mostly sing) . If I’m really in it I go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:46 PM
6

Block him on social media also helps! I didn’t want to with my ex, but a month into our breakup I just HAD to (he liked one of my pics on Facebook and it set me OFF. So I blocked him & his family). And now I can’t see his stuff if I break down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:39 PM
10

Ahh thank you! So grateful this community exists 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:08 PM
11

What happened? I missed the ban or no-ban drama...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:03 PM
70

YES!! THANK YOU!!!! Currently grieving my LVM ex-fiance and at 38 I’m very scared I won’t get the life I want with a HVM & children. THANK YOU for the inspiration and sharing your story. YOU ARE A QUEEN!!!! EDIT: some psycho limp-dicked LVM sent me a DM and said “you won’t get the life you want with a HVM. Youre 38 bitch you hit the wall 10 years ago” Niiiiice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:03 PM
11

I feel you though! I only broke up with my Long term LVM a few months and this shutdown has got me all wacked TF out from loneliness!!! I teeter-totter from bitterness to I’m so lonely I start stalking my completely unavailable crush on Instagram :( Hang in there we can get through this!!! Something that helped me was going to visit my bestie (who also moved away during the shutdown) in a stare that’s Very re-opened and mine is very sad & locked down. Might not be a great idea for everyone but i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:49 AM
193

Maybe he wants a spontaneous SERIOUS hookup? 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:44 AM
40

Who’s Bob? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:03 AM
20

Good for you!!! I know it was hard but it’s totally worth it. You’re NOT his crutch and he’s NOT your problem! Sending hugs 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:34 PM
3

Wow such a great idea, good for you! 💜 i think I’ll get myself some this weekend 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:00 AM
34

Yeah you don’t ask him to delete the pics/vids — You DELETE HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:37 PM
39

Tell ‘em Berenice!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:14 AM
19

Good for you!!! Yes, I was always one to fall for the breadcrumbs too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:15 PM
57

LOL!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:22 PM
2

Congratulations!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:29 AM
6

UGH 😩 Never seen that before. That was hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:12 AM
21

Haha, Awesome! What subject matter have you been studying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:10 AM
6

Seriously! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:14 AM
15

My ex was LVM but he wasn’t a fuckboy. He told me when I made him wait, that’s how he knew I was keeper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:00 AM
10

We Can Do This!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:11 AM
40

Congratulations!!! I just broke up with my LVM fiance in March and after lots of suckiness he finally moved out 2 months ago. So I am familiar with your situation and know how awful it is to continue living with someone that way. Welcome to the other side!!! I’m glad you’re doing well!!! I have been back & forth but this community has Absolutely helped remind me every day that I am worth more than my ex LVM could ever give me or be. Get it girl💪💪💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:07 AM
13

LA here in solidarity 💪😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:48 AM
1

You are Brave!!! Congratulations!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:19 AM
2

This is going to be my new motto!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:43 AM
23

Keep us updated ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:16 AM
187

That’s Hot. Good for you I hope it works out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:00 PM
23

I love this SO MUCH!!! I had neglectful parents who were barely there when they NEEDED to be let alone tell me I could get them to pick me up in the middle of the night. Good for both mother & daughter!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:24 AM
7

Hahaha TRUE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:05 PM
5

You are a BRAVE. HONEST. STRONG. WOMAN. What others think of you does NOT define you. You were smart enough to say goodbye to this LVM Jerk and you’re stronger everyday for it. Keep being you and think of all the wonderful people you know & have yet to meet that love / will love YOU FOR YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:46 PM
14

☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:19 AM
4

So Sweet :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:29 PM
1

Paris sounds amazing!!! Maybe I should go there next!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:38 AM
1

Thank you So Much!!! It’s tough right now, and it took waaaay too long for me to come to my senses and to get rid of that LVM. But I am hopeful for the future! 🙏😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:19 AM
1

Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:43 PM
46

Gross. Good for you girl!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:02 AM
10

Thank you! I’m not going until the mandatory quarantine is dropped (my voucher lasts until June - if there’s still a quarantine I will get a refund and go another time... just felt great to buy that voucher!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:01 AM
116

Impulsed purchased myself 4 nights in Waikiki on a travelzoo special (fully refundable just in case) hoping a friend or fam member can come with - if not what the hell? I’ll go alone. My LVM ex-fiancé and I were supposed to get married in Hawaii before I kicked him out a few months ago. Feelings are still raw but I draw some strength in knowing it was the right thing to do even if I am 38 & overweight and not sure if I will find someone else to marry & have children with. Anyhow, I wanted to elo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:49 PM
10

This has bothered me for YEARS! 😡🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:52 PM
26

Haha she’s a codependent picmeisha. You did the right thing! Trust your gut 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:38 AM
3

Damn I gotta start watching this show. I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:50 AM
3

Same girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:10 PM
1

Sorry I’m pretty new - what does INTJ stand for? Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:59 PM
1

Hysterical!!! What is that from? And why cant the guy be hot & dumb and the girl be average looking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:40 AM
6

Good for you!!! I know how hard this is but you did it!!! 👏💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:49 AM
9

Omg me too!!!!! Was just removing his searches from my amazon prime account 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:48 AM
3

Agreed! We are listening....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:21 AM
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