TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

LR_today Archive

View 4 posts and 402 comments by LR_today on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
12

Yeah she's too far gone. He loved bombed her for sex and now she's defending him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:44 AM
1

I send the 🤏, then report and block. All their anger stems from their tiny dicks or inability to use them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:27 AM
54

Looks like someone is a fuck buddy to a probably married guy who has no intention of doing anything but using her as a free sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:23 AM
88

Literally any conservative views. Not just Trump/nazi stuff but pretty much anything considered right wing. If it's 1 thing it's usually all of the things. Next thing you know you'll be defending yourself and all women when he claims women are paid the same and all races have the same opportunities. He will treat you like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:47 AM
20

What we need is to teach women under 25 that men over 25 are never to be trusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:14 AM
87

Lol nope that's not me. If only I'd found something like FDS at 20... the men I dated would have been vastly different. Hell if I'd found FDS at 30 it would have been a huge help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:35 AM
247

OMG I would never tire of this. I say it all the time. I hope she finds a guy that appreciates her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:14 AM
20

I wouldn't watch past the TRAILER. These women were so easily manipulated I am very tempted to victim blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:30 PM
94

That you clean up after and have to fuck to have a roof over your head. JFC the wealthiest country in the world women shouldn't have to resort to this :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:57 AM
665

"Paying equivalent of $20 per day for a maid I can fuck/rape whenever I want. No fatties."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:19 AM
99

This is an amazing opportunity for her to get out. Refusing a proposal is a good way to escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:00 AM
113

AND YET - THE PARENTS STILL SAW HER WORTH ONLY AS A BROODMARE AND WIFE. WTF is wrong with everyone. "I know that Angel will never get married now and I will never get to walk my daughter down the aisle. Nikki and I will never be grandparents to Angel’s children."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:16 AM
97

Why are you still talking, on any level, to the dbag bdsm sex obsessed scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:21 AM
78

Yessssss. OLD every young guy asks if I date younger men... I say "yes but I haven't found any that are looking for more than casual sex". If they reply, the conversation turns sexual within 2-3 messages. All they want in their dick wet. Thank you, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:20 AM
200

Yes, worthless man. You decided to cum in her, you get to pay after 13 years free ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:35 PM
17

Or the cheating sites that were seriously like 0.1% women and any other women were bots/sex workers making men pay lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:33 AM
70

A grey rock is not sarcastic, oh no my no. These 'okays' are the least distinct oks around. You really gotta get into the role... play the best most grey rock that's ever been! No inflection but no tone either but not so monotone as to be dismissive 😉 I loved doing it to my narc, not caring got me out of some big stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:30 AM
3

Demisexual is normal. Women are normal to want an emotional connection. Men want a free sex worker that puts out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:50 AM
74

Is that 7 million stat true? I mean, it's 7 million more women that definitely don't want him, but wondering if the number is right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:50 AM
200

Here's grey rocking, which you wouldn't get the desperate "hello?!?! Why won't you talk?!" BS. At first: Yeah, I don’t think we’re compatible. That’s just not me. I want someone who would crave me sexually and you can’t do that. Hahaha you know what I mean. I’m a guy, it’s my biology. I have to have sex! "Okay." What do you think? Can you tell me what you think? Hello? Did I hurt your feelings that bad? I’m trying to communicate with you. "I understand" Then: I apologize for wasting your time. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:59 PM
1117

Sorry but that's not grey rocking. That's silent treatment and he reacted to that. It could have gone a lot worse for you, doing this. Please look up actual grey rock technique, it's far more useful in situations like this. It mostly involves using "okay" and "I understand". Grey rock is NOT silence, it's being boring and nonchalant, expressionless and agreeable without any committing answers. Also, 3 whole weeks without sex! The horror! 😆😆😆 Edit: Awwww thanks for the award! 🤗 My knowledge is th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:46 PM
2

Don't fool yourself it's 6" dick, that none of you have. And zero body count? So.... I guess purple pill is all just pedophiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:25 PM
43

She's only a month along, the top comment is right, get an abortion and leave this useless sack of shit to find some other brood mare slave to make his spawn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:01 PM
112

If someone is a narcissist there is only 1 way for them: down. Narcissist never get better, so they either stay as bad or get worse. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:26 AM
23

Whenever someone says they converted to Islam, especially a women, I wonder if they spent even 5 minutes looking up what it means, the history or anything else. Seriously 5 minutes of research should make anyone thinking of it go "oh hellllll no". The only real way is to make them born into it. Which is why women are so devalued, all they are there to do is make more cult followers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:29 AM
12

I did not date one but my coworker is Muslim and dating and he told me about his experience as it mixes with his religion. His main takeaway: He will need to leave Islam in order to be the HVM he wants to be. If he wants to treat his partner as an equal, if he wants her to be free to be her own person and make her own choices, he can not be Muslim. He realizes that leaving his faith means being cut off from his family and some friends but (and I quote) "I refuse to treat women like shit in order…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:25 AM
5

You also have the option of showing if you have mutual friends, I use it to see their profiles (if the mutual friend had their friend list open) and fully expect them to see mine. It's made me choose if I want to chat with them further. Every instance it's been no, once I see more posts by them and other (not as flattering) pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:13 AM
27

They do this because it's all transactional to them. They want sex and think dinner is enough to do that. They think we are free sex workers that they unfortunately have to pay for dinner on, and when we don't "put out", expect money back for the uncompleted transaction. It's fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:09 AM
311

I saved this post. Anytime I'm feeling down about how shitty men are and never face any consequences I can read this and feel better again. This was... 👩‍🍳💋... loved every second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:07 AM
12

Yup I buy the android ones for $10 and track my pets. As soon as I bought them I was like "this is scary and you could easily track a person/car".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:21 PM
210

This is a common narcissist tactic. Basically what I tell people is you do not defend yourself against crazy. I recently had my landlord try this fucking bullshit and I responded "I will not be replying to your delusional version of reality. Your accusations are ridiculous and I refuse to entertain your insanity". It's the same as dealing with conspiracy theorists, you don't. Let them be crazy, do not engage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:09 PM
114

Because they are so gross women will not even touch them when they are married. Apparently the only way they have sex is rape. How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:09 AM
8

PREVIEW 😆😆😆😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:37 AM
100

No no no no... the BEST part is having them pay $10 to tantrum about us... THEN IGNORE THEM again/anyway 😆😆😆😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:27 AM
1

Most of you scrotes won't know she's a FDS because they won't talk to you, or if they do speak to you it will take 5 minutes of your stupid bullshit to block you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:04 AM
2

I'm in a humanist organization that helps these victims. Never come across one that wasn't Muslim out of the hundreds. I realize my statement is anecdotal. But it's hundreds of people anecdotal so....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:08 PM
82

Turn off chat and let them stew in their pathetic hate. Fucking small dick losers every one of those scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:22 AM
13

I used to do morning bjs for my ex every day before he went to work, it was my choice/idea since he had such a terrible work environment that made him miserable. I knew when he started refusing and rejecting these bjs, then fully stopped letting me do them, that things were toast in our relationship. Same goes for the other way around, if a guy has to use coercion to get a BJ, your relationship is toast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:35 AM
17

Being in school is a completely acceptable state, you're not unemployed, you're working hard on your education! You will definitely upgrade your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:18 AM
46

I was running my own resale business and freelancing the last few years but in my mind I knew that this wouldn't be enough to make me truly financially independent... and if a guy said he did the same I wouldn't consider him. I went from $30K a year to salary of $88K overnight and it was like a gigantic weight lifted. I was lucky to be blessed enough to live in Canada where I was actually taken care of by my government for almost 2 years which gave me the time to figure it all out. But before it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:20 AM
19

He will get 3-5 years in prison, if that, and probably not even go on the dangerous sex offender list. The justice system doesn't give a shit about men raping us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:44 AM
8

That outfit was cute AF. Wish I could wear crop tops, I'd be asking where she found that gorgeous thing. Everything was on point and that man is a worthless scrote. He ✅ fucked around ✅ found out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:17 AM
2

If we go with men who make us orgasm I'm at a solid body count of 4.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:28 PM
26

I got a guy I was dating "flowy" PJ pants that basically gave away evvvvverything ;) Although it doesn't answer my big secondary question as to if he's cut or not. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:45 AM
44

Came to comment this exact word: disturbing. This is mixing a bunch of fucked up male fetishes all together and it's fucking grossssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:38 AM
38

I stopped/blocked those forever ago. I don't need mental health check, I need men to stop raping and killing women, thanks. Is there a button for that? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:18 AM
-22

I know this isn't AITA but ESH. Everyone sucks here the entire spider web through, except the dog. That horrid man obviously needed to be dumped. He shouldn't have got a dog, he's an asshole. The dog breeder is an asshole. The judge that dismissed the RO is an asshole. But the woman is still an asshole for trying to make her asshole bf get rid of the dog... the only innocent one in all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:13 AM
14

Until recently prostitution was legal in Canada, but brothels were illegal, then they changed it so brothels were legal as well. People thought Canada was the same as the USA but it's not at all the same. Some dumbass fucking man decided to make the lives of sex workers infinitely worse and got prostitution laws on the books in Canada now too so now it's the same volume of prostitution but way less safe. I don't agree with sex work, it should be abolished, but NOT illegal. It needs to be taken o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:37 PM
86

No. I'd like to think other women, like myself, understand completely that the FDS rules are for western and/or secular countries only. Further, most understand the extreme conditions other women must endure to merely survive, let alone progress, in a entirely patriarchal society where women are treated as less than human. Until basic human rights are established for women, they can't be expected to live up to the standards set by FDS or women in societies that they are somewhat equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:16 AM
17

You mean antiwork? Yeah they will go before the porn ones do! Figures reddit would sell out like this, men do not give a shit what happens to anyone but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 01:31 AM
21

Reddit is going public. Subs like those in the picture are in danger which is great.... but FDS is likely to be kicked as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:18 PM
1

I suppose my "fine" is a lot more than most women expect from their "perfect" man though. Kind, funny, smart, 6-6-6 is included in my "fine". Doesn't move the bar for others though, which is most definitely in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:43 AM
6

I guess after 7 years of absolute dumpster fire shithead fuckwads and abusers, I'm shooting for fine, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:37 AM
3

Yeah not quite right... 1 simply wanted to travel a lot and I wanted to stay in my country because of my family. 1 was way younger than me and didn't want kids until his mid-late 30s (which would make me late 40s). 1 was... well it's too long to put in a sentence but I left him for a stupid reason. All of them would have been good husbands and now are to other women. I turned down their proposals before, with the pickme attitude of thinking that marriage was only a piece of paper and not wanting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:35 AM
47

Silence. Silence drives them crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:14 AM
11

I have a second number through a free texting/calling app that I give out. Most skeezy scrotes will verify that they got your number. I also use a fake name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:40 AM
65

When I know for sure or he tells me he loves me. Usually a few months.... if I feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 11:44 AM
21

Not nearly as bad health wise but my narc ex would constantly book meetings for our business downtown... even though I told him 100 times I can't drive in traffic because my clutch was almost done. He. Just. Kept. Doing. It. Refused to use public transit. Ended up costing $3000 to replace my clutch when I burned it out in stop and go traffic driving him downtown. He also used to sit on or put his feet on anything I left on the front seat. Didn't matter what it was he wouldn't even look just sit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:05 AM
320

Unless he pays a sex worker (not likely), he's not going to stumble upon a unicorn who wants to sleep with a pornsick loser and his unwilling gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:47 PM
4

Right?!? Like what did she expect from her casual sex partner of 3 years who's an alcoholic scrote into BDSM was going to do, be a faithful great partner? Naw. If she read the handbook she would know this guy was 100% trash. I don't imagine mods will let this stay up anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:53 PM
32

Ummmmm you have issues sis. BDSM, he's an alcoholic and you're a recovering one, and "on and off" for 3 years? The fuck? Are you lost. THE FUCK?!? 🤦‍♀️🤦🤦‍♀️🤦🤦‍♀️🤦🤦‍♀️🤦🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:32 PM
60

They change location in hopes of finding a free sex worker for the duration of their trip. Then they can just bounce and ignore you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:21 AM
12

YES THIS. Most "bi" women are only trying to appease their pornsick bfs for a threeway. It usually starts as "can he just watch? He won't touch you"... like that's not creepy AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:57 PM
191

I don't send nudes so as to avoid this issue completely. I assume any "woman" I talk to is a guy unless I see them on video chat or get proof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:08 AM
10

Yup, finding a polished turd in a sea of shit is not a plus for Tinder. It keeps women on there having sex in hopes one of them will like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:33 PM
26

TINDER IS ONLY FOR CASUAL SEX. Seriously, tinder is for fucking, so unless you are looking for that (which you shouldn't be on here until reading the handbook), get the fuck off that free sex worker app full of fuckbois and rapists. I am fucking SICK of seeing women try to convince themselves Tinder is anything but what it is, a hookup app. You got exactly what that app is intended for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:44 AM
7

The only way this makes sense is if he makes $60K and told you he makes $80K.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:39 AM
24

You said the semester is almost over, so any reporting should be done after that. I would either not respond, or respond with "how predatory and inappropriate of you to say! Do not contact me again."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:58 AM
20

I escaped my narcissist ex by making myself useless to him. I basically lied. I applied all his tricks as my own. I started complaining of illness and didn't stop. I did grey rock but with a twist of constantly lying about how crappy I felt and what I thought it was. I ended with a cancer scare and cut him off but at that point he believed I was more trouble/effort than he was willing to put up with and he moved on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:46 PM
42

I'm bi but don't bother telling guys that anymore. They get ideas in their pornsick little minds and it derails them from the relationship with me trying to figure out when he can get his threesome fantasy. I will also not date bi guys, at some point he will 100% push you to have another guy in the bedroom or want to go out on his own to cheat with guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:35 PM
93

Don't forget that every film he's done lately have been thoughtful, awesome and/or funny too! It's why I am looking forward to the new Matrix. He's not doing crappy stuff. He's a beacon of hope for all of us. Edit to add: watch the new Bill and Ted... it's heartfelt, has a good message, and is funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:06 AM
42

To answer your question: no. The only one in the last decade who respected my boundaries was actually gay and until we were exclusive it turns out he was fooling around with guys. I've gone out with guys that lasted a month or more, but when they figured out I wasn't putting out for a while (or in a committed relationship), they bailed. It's disheartening for sure. All men seem to be sex obsessed trash. I know it's frowned upon here since it's actually normal, but I make sure any men interested …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:50 PM
18

My friends now ex husband, haven't spoken since 2001. He just contacted me this week. I also had a guy from HS who was my friends bf in 1996 contact me last year. Do I win? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:37 PM
20

You dump that science denying jobless loser and ghost him. He'll know why. Those people are the worst of the worst and should all be yeeted into the ocean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:45 PM
4

There's no way any woman replied to this. Men posing as women however....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:48 PM
1

I had one of those. This is the account I made to get away from him. Mine followed me and posted whatever info he could find because he was pissed I called him out on being a greedy POS landlord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:38 AM
14

"talked our asses off" Ohhhhhh, you mean emotional labor. So that's less than $10/hr (because he did order food/drink for himself!). You got a good deal dude STFU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:56 PM
60

Omg yesssssss to Stephen Colbert! Watching him interact with his wife (as his only audience) was a treasure! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:29 PM
376

Ben on Parks & Rec is a great one! It shows what a kind HVW can do for a great guy like him and a good "if he wanted to he would" example. Whereas Andy can be shown on what to avoid (as sweet as he can be)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:26 PM
100

Please break down for her how all of Rorys bfs are LVM (eventually, like Dean). Dean cheats on his wife Jesse is a bum Logan is a rich LVM that uses Rory but tries to buy her off Oh and that dude in college that is basically an incel and mad that Rory doesn't like him romantically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:23 PM
141

So... I worked for a charity that helped Muslims escape and find places to go if they were disowned. Usually it was for "atheist thoughts", not being atheist, simply asking questions about Islam that could be construed as possibly atheist. The other reason for being cast out of their families was because the men and women did not want to treat women like crap or as a woman be treated like crap. This was in Canada. "Progressive" Muslims is not a thing. The way they see women is truly abhorrent. (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:34 AM
79

All you can do is console her when he rapes her. Not if, when. What culture has these shitty men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:49 PM
2

Are you fucking kidding? Why the fuck are you on FDS with this shit attitude. Tinder is for LVM and rapists. Just because you found your cubic zirconia polished turd in the sea of shit that is Tinder, don't try to lure other women into swimming there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:57 AM
15

True, but Tinder is exclusively for fucking. Whenever some pickme says she found her LVM bf on there I mention something like "just because you found your cubic zirconia in the sea of shit that is tinder, don't try to lure other women into swimming there" ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:12 PM
26

Tinder is only for sex. If you don't want casual sex, you should not be on Tinder. The inability for women to recognize the reality that Tinder is exclusively a hookup app baffles me. Of course men ask to fuck. That's what she is supposed to want on Tinder. Women pretending Tinder is something else doesn't change what it is, and women getting angry that men ask to fuck on a fuck app doesn't help change it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 06:50 PM
173

No. Surrogacy is using women as incubators and should be banned. If you can't have a child, adopt one of the hundreds of thousands of children that need a home. The obsession of people to pass on their DNA is selfish and abhorrent, especially since they turn to using women to do it. Some do it out of sheer laziness, using women like cattle (example: Sarah Jessica Parker). In Canada (and some other countries) you can not be paid for surrogacy and it's barely legal to cover your expenses (it's lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:06 AM
34

"Fun" This word anywhere in their profile... "I like to have fun", "looking for someone fun" literally anything using the word fun = FUCKBOI. Fun has been taken from us. We are not allowed to be fun because fun means fucking to men. THEY can't have a good time without it involving sex so they put that shit on us. (Copied from another post on red flag words to look for in a profile)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:46 PM
97

This was my mistake on the last guy. Who they are in the first month or 2-3 dates is not who he is. I think it's confusing to a lot of women because I don't know about you, but I am who I am and stay that way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:29 PM
38

The bar is so low James Cameron couldn't explore that deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:07 AM
87

Get back on Tinder and block him! Screenshot his profile first and find the wife's contact info, send to her anonymously. Maybe the IVF didn't work and she can GTFO of that terrible marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:42 PM
200

I get this a lot "how do you exist" is a big one as well as the "are you real", men are so awe struck by me they say stuff like that. My usual reply is "I know right!?!" because why be humble. 99% of the time I'm not interested anyway so it really doesn't do anything but reaffirm how awesome I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:30 PM
4

Prepare for downvotes! The point is to start the process anyway to prove a point to this lying disease speading POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:24 PM
380

"Fun" This word anywhere in their profile... "I like to have fun", "looking for someone fun" literally anything using the word fun = FUCKBOI. Fun has been taken from us. We are not allowed to be fun because fun means fucking to men. THEY can't have a good time without it involving sex so they put that shit on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:48 PM
24

Yeah but by then they are 50 and wasted the time of like 10 women for a few years each!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 02:11 AM
148

Yes there's a few who have successfully had men who gave them a STI charged! If you Google "suing men who gave STI" there are articles from all over. The ones I remember were for HPV and herpes but I'm sure chlamydia would be similar. Definitely make sure public health calls him and tells him they know he's spreading it and that he's a walking health risk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:29 AM
272

Can you report him to public health? I'd see if there's any way to charge him either criminally or civil to get the point across that his gaslighting is not working and he's a giant piece of cheating shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:14 AM
240

They waste womens time because they know they have their time to waste and can always find another woman to waste her time too. It's horrible. These men leave women in shambles while they find someone else to take on their shit and be their bangmaid. 22 fucking years I've had 5 different men waste of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:34 PM
91

Any and all of these men are literal human garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:09 AM
31

I let a homeless acquaintance stay with me for a few months, she ended up bringing her homeless boyfriend in. Apparently when I wasn't there (which was often) they screamed at each other constantly, cops called, etc. She admitted that he beat her. When he disappeared (like dropped off the face of the earth for 10 days) she thought he was dead. I told her "he's not dead or hurt lying in a hospital, he's an asshole and left you, be happy you are rid of him". Sure enough that slimy scrote emerged a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:29 AM
61

I'm fucking awesome. Haven't had a problem saying this for years. I've had people I didn't know, simply by talking, by the end of a night at a party or something ask if I actually exist or how someone so cool like me can be real. I answer with "I know right??" because why be humble? I'm kind, smart, pretty, and know a little about everything and a lot about a lot of things. I'm comfortable among strangers or life long friends. I have a great family. Perfect childhood. Good schooling. Athlete. Ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:26 PM
-2

Again, you say you got it but didn't. Glad you were uncomfortable that was the point. We abuse the earth every day but no one does anything to stop it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:21 PM
-1

The movie did its job then. Good. Think about it when you vote. Gia hurts every day we pollute her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:19 PM
205

This means you are a place holder for the woman he does marry (usually within a year). He is wasting your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:29 AM
2

Thanks, yeah IDK either, I'm allowed to like video games, they are not exclusively for men 😕 Tea and gaming with my partner in our senior years sound great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 04:23 PM
-5

As long as I have a controller too this looks pretty nice ;) Edit: I like video games. I also like watching people play video games, have since I was a kid in the 80s! Downvote me all you like but I like what I like, you are all super mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:09 AM
113

While filming at home during the pandemic she was always there usually as his only audience/viewer in the room. Hearing her laugh was the highlight of the show and he referred to her constantly. This is definitely something to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:36 PM
170

My friend went through this, ended with police reports and court dates. I basically just kept her at arms length because her bf was successful at isolating her from everyone else or she cut them off because of him. It won't be pretty, but someday she will need you, when that day comes be ready to help her and forgive her for anything she did while being abused. He definitely is trying to get you away from her so pretend he won and keep just enough contact with her so she knows when it's over wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:31 PM
51

I don't want to hurt you = I will 100% definitely hurt you. It also means that they will not commit to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:44 PM
-9

🤦‍♀️ Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:10 PM
276

I am most guys "type", I was still used as a placeholder for several men. Men are users. They take and take and take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:39 PM
-14

🤦‍♀️ Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:47 PM
-7

I rarely reply. Sometimes with a 😆 or "ok 🤏🍆"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:29 PM
-19

She made a post about a movie she didn't understand at all. I replied. Sounds like you didn't really get it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:25 PM
10

This is always my answer to the askreddit question of "what is a great movie you will not watch again?". I was SO uncomfortable pretty much the whole time. And the end, where it starts all over again? 👩‍🍳💋 Every one of us on earth are those house crashers. Every capitalist and toxic waste spewing company is that husband. Mother/Gia does nothing but put up with humans shit, because what else can she do? Everything Mother makes for us is ruined. It was just so fucking good. I've never been so unco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:11 PM
-4

No way I'm turning off the chat feature. I lovvvvvve seeing the little dicked scrotes absolutely rage, thinking that anything they say would do anything but make me laugh or know how truly pathetic they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:44 PM
12

Not sure why you made a post shitting on an extremely brilliant movie. I get that you didn't understand it, but keep that to yourself. Those of us that got this amazing piece of movie art are better for it. Maybe think about it or read up on the point of this movie and come back when you're ready to have an adult conversation about it. The rage and uncomfortableness you felt watching this? That utter frustration you felt for mother/Jennifer Lawrence? That is on purpose. Mother! is fucking beauti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:40 PM
40

My ex was so scared of needles he refused to go to the doctor because he knew he would need to get blood work done. He couldn't even watch tv/movies that might have a needle involved. But I agree with other comments as well, I think men think if they don't know what's wrong, nothing is wrong! It's delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 01:10 AM
68

Oh great, now the company that bought Spanx will run the employees into the ground and/or fire them to replace them all with cheap labor or anyone willing to work for minimum wage... while this billionaire thinks she did good by giving them $10K each. Another billionaire we don't need that won't contribute fuck all to society and won't pay taxes. This is NOT something to celebrate. She sold out and will do nothing from now on but hoard wealth like any other billionaire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 03:56 AM
5

Same. It's the same here, but with actual bad subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:53 PM
16

So leave her. Take the job, send back enough for the wife to get a nanny (who would obviously be way more helpful than he ever was) and let this poor women be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:57 AM
103

FULL custody?? Hahaha, no. Not even a sexist pig judge would give this scrote full custody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:28 PM
315

They got exactly what they wanted. Picked some random guy and agreed to have a baby together, as in the father would be a father, he ghosts them during the pregnancy (as many men do in relationships) and won't pay for anything, now wants custody they agreed to. He wanted a child and made these women his incubators. Always use sperm banks. Always insist on genetic testing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:13 PM
14

I meant it to come off as "haha, jerk." I'm thankfully the reason I got away in the first place 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:53 AM
22

He only has money in property. Bought for like $300K and now the house only 5 years later is worth a million. The real estate market is insane and ruining the country (Canada).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:41 AM
43

I am "the one that got away" to one of my exes. He married someone he can barely tolerate. He had a chance with me in like 2014, but picked her. Have fun with the kid you didn't want and wife that drives you crazy. I give it 5 years max. She's going to take every penny he has and he deserves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:35 AM
19

In the USA - GOP or Trump supporter in any way Canada - PPC or Conservative Party supporter = SEXIST TRASH PERSON
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:55 PM
70

In my experience and research, 19-22 year old men are obsessed with threesomes. My bet is they want you to join them. Either the LVM is convincing her or that's all she sees you as (a way to appease her pornsick bf). Maybe I'm wrong but I think not. At least she's probably not trying to recruit you for a fucking MLM lol 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:20 PM
16

Sorry but I'm going to check his phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:14 PM
54

Sounds like he was trying to ease you into a poly relationship for sure. Fuck that guy and his small harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 02:41 PM
20

When guys ask about it I say "it used to be called normal". I'm a demi and always let guys know about it so they can either accept it and continue with me or fuck allllllll the way off and keep fucking off when they realize they won't be getting sex on the first, second, sixth or even tenth date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:19 AM
117

She is in danger. I had this exact thing happen at 34 and ended up meeting a narcissist who decimated my progress (and financial stability) in 1 year! She needs to be really fucking careful and importantly: NEEDS THIS SUB. Also, guys that waste 5+ years of a woman's life in her 20s and dump her in her 30s so he can go after younger women? Lowest scum on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:14 AM
388

We DID miss you that much. Men were losing their MF minds thinking we were plotting against them to treat men like they treat women. It was hilarious. 😂🤣😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:00 AM
196

"Conservative" oh you mean the garbage human beings (men and women) who don't believe I have a right over my own body? Those people shouldn't have voice on ANY platform. I knew when FDS put out a search for a "conservative woman" they were asking for trouble. Conservatives don't give a shit about anyone but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:57 PM
31

Guys under 6" will do anything to have their small dicks accepted or get validation they are big enough. They aren't. Under 4" they mine as well put it away forever and buy a womanizer because their dick is not going to please any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:41 AM
1

$2-5K. The ones I like are usually around $2K or less, I don't like diamonds (lab grown is ok) and would definitely want something custom. I also like the idea for wedding bands going to a workshop day to make them for each other!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:21 PM
3

No empathy = sociopath. You will never be anything to this man more than a woman place holder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:55 PM
4

All I wondered while watching that is "how much would I need to be paid to run that show/game? Would they have to kidnap my parents?" 😆 Honestly it was a lot of filler and I skipped a lot but got the jist. I think there will be a season 2, they certainly set up for it. It could be from the employee (prisoners?) prospective. I wasn't able to watch most of the deaths in red light green light. It was really disturbing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:13 PM
380

Know what's like a human dildo? A dildo. Which apparently has more usefulness than this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:18 AM
5

He offered to do this, I declined as I thought this was more desperate than me asking myself :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:03 PM
16

You know, that's true. I have noticed that guys in their teens to early 20s seem to have rejected their stupid fuckboi fathers style and are embracing actual connection. Maybe because they see how unfulfilled, unhappy and useless their fathers are by living their lives chasing pussy but nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:05 AM
50

I like younger guys but under 35 they are all stupid fuckbois that grew up 100% in hookup culture with no intention of ever committing. I have yet to talk to someone under 35 who isn't completely focused on his dick and a complete waste of oxygen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:43 PM
482

They absolutely hate themselves. That was a nice thought when I left my ex narc "he is left with himself, who he hates, I'm left with me, who I love"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:14 PM
163

Pregnancy after 35 is NOT risky. I wish that stupid myth would die off so women would stop acting like they have an expiry date of 35 and then they can't function.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:10 PM
-10

Depends if he's fucked his sister ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:41 AM
-23

I'm a female bestie to a guy. I'm glad he found her and I'm glad she's comfortable with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:40 AM
231

My ex made $150k+ a year while I made $50K. He worried about our/my financial future because he could retire at 60 but I would have to work until I died to "afford his standard of living", as in, I would spend 25 years with him, raise his children, take care of him, and he STILL expected me to pay for everything and stated he would not pay for my share when retired. It made me realize he was worthless and didn't care about anything except his money. I hope he's happy dying alone surrounded by hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:45 PM
70

Here we still have mask mandates so walking around a mall loudly muffling through masks would be awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:51 AM
33

I'll be going on a date soon, I plan to bring no money, no cards, nothing. I have full pics in my profile. I have my size as "average" instead of the thin option. If he thinks I'm fat, he had plenty of indication of my size. But, I do plan on expressing that he will be paying when we go out so that should alleviate any awkwardness at bill time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:27 PM
6

I had the exact same thing happen. I also didn't tell the wife and FDS was not happy with me for that part lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:22 PM
91

There's services like Circle DNA, if you are considering having a child with someone, you should both spend the $500+ and get every test done. While pregnant you can pay for genetic testing to ensure there isn't anything wrong, or if there is you can abort. I would not keep a special needs child so finding out early is key and aborting if possible. At least while pregnant I still have 100% say in what happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:02 PM
13

Get a restraining order, find out if you can have his guns taken (where I am when you get arrested for mental health issues, they can take your guns). He will never marry you or be a partner, he told you straight off, listen to him. Him threatening to harm himself is a manipulation, he will only harm YOU. He only cares about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:44 PM
38

My ex made $150K+ and expected me to make $100K a year even though I wasn't aiming for that (1/3 actually). He was MISERABLE. I'd take $50K a year and be happy any day over hating my life at $150K.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:19 PM
180

I got downvoted for saying those little white supremacist shit heads better be expelled. This is what happens when women try to tell white men what they are doing is inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:20 AM
128

Fake illness. Find a disease (especially ones dealing with our lady parts, that really throws them off) and stick to those symptoms. PCOS, HPV/cervical cancer, bacterial vaginosis, etc. An abuser will tire of you and be less inclined to make you their puppet if you can't "serve" them like they want. Become useless to them. Spend days curled in a ball crying out in pain and go to the doctor constantly. Learn all the narcissist tricks and do them on the abuser. LIE. Lie and lie and lie until you e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:13 AM
2

Yes. "I don't mind Trump, Hillary is awful". Changed my whole view of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:05 AM
81

Guess who has a second family! His wife and kids are probably sad he's gone 4 days a week and were SO HAPPY when daddy was able to start spending Friday with them too. Definitely second family. No wonder he's tired. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:33 PM
10

80% of narcissists are men. Not all men are narcs. Some are just shitty. For context, I was with a diagnosed person with NPD years ago. After I escaped, people would ask if my next ex bf was a narc because he was so shitty (misogynistic, selfish, racist, etc). I said absolutely not, he was shitty, but NOT a narc. Narcs have something wrong with their BRAINS. Their entire being is evil to the core and they are incapable of caring for other people. Most men are not narcs, just crappy people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:21 PM
28

I don't think it's their real name, the one person who is connected to the account doesn't know them IRL so that was a dead end and she had unfriended him now. They have nothing else on their profile that can help me track them down or make them held accountable for this threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:58 PM
61

The guy didn't have much on his own profile, but I contacted the 1 person who liked his photo, and I also publicly put the message on a reporter page he had liked. I'm contacting police but it's difficult when all I have is his Facebook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:21 PM
53

How old is she now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:01 PM
194

Wasted years of my life having men stay with me until they found the woman they married. They absolutely do not care about wasting our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:01 AM
57

Anything praising Trump (or equivalent in your country)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:08 AM
26

My ex treated me like I was doing this to him while I looked for a job, even though I had my own place (paid all my own bills), l did all the errands, all the cleaning, all the cooking... but I wasn't contributing because the only thing that counted was money. Ok, you spend 4-9 hours a day doing all that shit while still paying rent/bills at another place then, with virtually no income, scrote! Once I was making money he didn't think a 30/70% split was fair (even though he made that much more th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:37 PM
21

Indeed. Predictable to the point it's scary that they ALL do the exact same things, say the same things, use the same tactics. They didn't learn it from Google. It's literally a terrible flaw in their existence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:58 PM
279

If you know what a narcissist truly is, you would be able to predict this behavior. Each thing you wrote I thought about what a narc would do, he did it in your next sentence. Read up on narcissists and arm yourself better. You need to learn the grey rock method as soon as you can. Never ever write to a narcissist, especially long text telling them what they did, they know. They did it on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:51 AM
154

Constantly have this issue. I either am banned from commenting entirely (much like this sub does for actual bad ones) or have people comment something stupid like "don't worry about her she's a FDS f€mc€l" or other such nonsense. Whatever I just ignore them all, men are just big mad they can't post here and reddit is like 70% men. AHAHAHAHA just got called "femcel0us" in a DM, I like that one! I always accept chats to see what pathetic things they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:23 PM
198

He was likely on Tinder the entire time, simply reactivated his profile and added the recent pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:56 PM
190

'Exclusive' to me only means they aren't fucking someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:38 PM
58

This is true of ALL tinder men. I hate when women are like "well my sister found her bf of 5 years on there".... so? How much shit do you have to wade through to realize you're in a pool of shit looking for a diamond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:48 PM
164

GET ON HIS CLOUD. GET ON ALL HIS DEVICES. DELETE THEM ALL. DELETE FROM TRASH. Erase everything he shouldn't have kept and now can't use again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:58 AM
23

I have the same issue. I decided it was enough of a red flag to let him go. I don't need to know he has 100 backups if he decides against me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:54 AM
35

ALSO - men will download grindr, do their hookup, then delete the app. So you are not likely to find the app on their phone... however if you can access their Google activity (or the equivalent on Apple?), you will be able to see if they ever downloaded it. There's lots of dating sites for men like this too. Sometimes they are straight but so depraved they don't care who is sucking them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:13 PM
54

A LOT of men are bisexual. They will never tell their women partners because we rightly reject them! Bi men CHEAT with men! I was with a bi guy who basically just hid it from his previous partners and in-between partners.... HOOOOOOO BOY... grindr and his roster of hidden bi men he'd call upon was astounding. I embraced my ex's bi side, and was exposed to the dozens of men he knew in relationships (most married) that hid that side of themselves, knowing that their spouses would not understand. R…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:04 PM
16

My ex sold his condo and was was moving in with me, we had discussed him paying half the very affordable rent and expenses (less than $1000 for everything including food) and once he moved in he wouldn't pay anything. I'm SO GLAD I decided not to kick my roommate out or I wouldn't have been able to afford my place. My ex made SEVEN TIMES more than me! Literally bringing in take home of $10K a month, refused to pay $1000. He was gone within 2 months. Even though I was barely scraping by while he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:38 PM
8

I went on a shitty date that I only stayed because I thought he would pitch his MLM to me and I could laugh at him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:14 PM
4

I like video games and enjoy watching my partner play. I like when we can find something to play together or I can play the questing type parts and he plays the fighting parts lol What I won't tolerate is him playing for hours and hours without me or spending all his free time on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:10 PM
171

There's been studies done where ugly men always think they can get much more attractive women. The women never agree. Men are trained to think they deserve our attention and attraction. It's why they get so vicious with rejection. Literally scrotes are so lame they get angry processing that women don't want them, especially being ugly and/or small 🍆.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:18 AM
6

Please please please don't use Tinder for anything but unsatisfying casual sex. It's 100% LVM and rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:03 AM
82

"The event highlights the way in which dating apps, which were previously the last vestige of social media that was truly social, in that they were exclusively a place for interactions between real people rather than brands or influencers, are now increasingly being used for marketing, journalism and other non-dating practices." They spelled "dating apps, which are currently the last vestige of rapists, cheaters and low value men to find victims" wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:19 PM
1

Thank you for the suggestion! She usually does plan B, which wreaks havoc on her body every time. I think 4 or 5 abortions. She has a bf right now which is why I was so happy about the copper IUD. I know as soon as it is out she'll be pregnant and I think will end up stuck with her current guy. He's pretty HV so I'm considering just supporting her. She's just not... excited? Enthusiastic? About him so I feel like he's not the one for her. It's a bit selfish of me because my main motivation is no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:54 PM
33

Still looking through your posts for context but wanted to say those sweet rice cakes look awesome and sorry to hear the macncheese came with a big dose of heartburn! You didn't mess up, you had a slight setback. Whatever it is you reset the clock and be proud of your original triumph of leaving! Remember that abuse survivors usually go back or contact their abusers several times before finally breaking free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:25 AM
37

My friend uses/used abortion as birth control. I drove her every time because it's her fucking body and she can get an abortion every month for all I care. I will drive her every time. There's a tag group in FB as like "I'm dedicating my next abortion to you" and I always think of my friend and her literally being able to do this lol Edit to add: on my advice, at her last abortion she got an IUD. She doesn't like the heavier period so she's having it removed. I expect she will be back to abortio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:17 AM
5

He will waste your time because he has time to waste and has absolutely no regard for yours. He would have wasted as much time as you would have given him (years).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:05 AM
88

Engaged only after he was caught cheating, then proceeded for half of the 3 year engagement to sleep with at least 7 different women. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ This scrote is the lowest of the low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:56 AM
37

If you want children, do not stay with men who do not want them. They will not change their mind. THEY WILL WASTE YOUR TIME WITHOUT THOUGHT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 04:12 PM
11

Good. Bye. You've already had a bunch of your comments removed from this thread so obviously the brainwashing for your religion worked on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:19 PM
19

As someone who deals with the fallout of this religion every day (men and women who come for support to the organization I am with) as well as studied it, your equivalent of "notallmen" but for this religion is not appreciated. The religion itself is disgustingly flawed and women are NOT treated as human. Many men leave the religion when they cannot deal with having to treat women as less than. So sit down, this is not a fraction, that "corrupt group" is what many MANY majority countries of that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:19 PM
62

Women are not human beings in that fucked up religion. Women are simple incubators and sex slaves. This is not even a bit surprising and the first thing I noticed of pics of the airport... there are no women, because they don't care if their sex slave dies they will get another one. Don't forget, the Taliban has ordered a list of all Women over 9 years old. Every woman will be assigned as a sex slave or domestic worker/slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:52 AM
25

Thank you I needed this. Stupid crushes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:37 AM
15

Great, I hope my modmail issue is taken care of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:26 PM
21

All conservative men are worthless trash that want women to essentially be slaves and support all the views and politics to have that happen. Every damn one of them. They expect the degrading shit of BDSM. Liberal men will agree you should have control over your own body... then immediately ask if you will do anal or let him degrade you in other ways. Illusion of choice shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:03 PM
20

insulting me for not sending nudes, playing red pill mind games This. Why do they think we will put up with this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:59 PM
3

Why are you here? You are the opposite of FDS values. Please join some redpill subs since that is what you seem to follow. Good luck with the pedos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:25 PM
7

I've reported this post. So once a woman is over 34 she's worthless? That's exactly what this post says. OP if you agree with this horseshit you need to read more FDS materials. After the first sentence "if 'what do you bring to the table' comes up, RUN" it's all demeaning garbage and likely written by a man. Do better. The women on here do not need to see this trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:40 PM
16

Sort of unrelated but when I was looking for the anon site I remembered the time I had one if those generic ads come up on a web page (that obviously sold ad space to absolutely anyone who paid) and I was immediately furious! They had a picture of my boobs! Neck down to stomach. Since I don't have nudes I had NO idea how they possibly could have got this pic. Hackers?!? I went on the website (a "find hot casual sex in your area now!) and was composing a message, fuming mad, to immediately take d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:11 PM
63

Is it IP blocked to only USA maybe? I can't find it anywhere I really want to check. I've got some stalkers (but thankfully no nudes exist of me). What does the site end with? .com is empty (with An0n-I*)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:02 PM
13

Please be careful of MLM huns, they use Bumble BFF to push their pyramid schemes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:05 PM
41

I bet when they go to have kids (because let's face it this pickme will stay) and have "fertility issues" it will take a year or more for him to finally fess up he got a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:00 PM
74

I was here to say this but with a 👏 between each syllable haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:58 PM
109

Wanted to hop on to say my ex didn't get tested (the test exists but is both expensive and extremely painful for men so they NEVER do it) and same thing happened. 4 years later, still dealing with HPV fall out. LADIES, sometimes your body doesn't just "fight it". Sometimes it wreaks havoc on your body forever. No guy is worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:18 PM
5

No way this was real or written by a woman. The most expensive wig is $15K. It's an obvious lie. And also so what? If there was nothing promised in writing he would continue paying, you have to assume at any time he could take it away. Are her new friends too good for her if she lives somewhere else? Sounds like not very good people to begin with if that's all they care about? Doesn't matter though, this isn't real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:58 AM
244

Yup that's how bad Toronto is right now. My previous landlord tried several times to get me to have sex with him to pay my rent (I always easily had money for rent). I feel bad for any of his tenants that were not in the good financial position I am. My new landlord is just a disgusting greedy man intent on making me homeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:58 AM
102

5 years either side. After that you are getting into problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:28 AM
15

How backed up are mod emails? I wrote 4 days ago and no reply yet :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:07 AM
4

Yes. Why would I lie? The male teachers I've talked to say they don't know how long they could hold out, especially if they are over 18 there's nothing legally to stop them. They instead teach middle school and have no issues as they claim there's a difference between a 10 year old and a 18 year old. They are not attracted to prepubescent girls so they are safe. My HS had a 25 year old teacher than lasted a year and a half before being fired for having sex with a student (she was 18 so no charge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:39 AM
-8

Yes. This is why I will not date a HS or college teacher. If the guy is at all good looking, how many 16-22 years olds can throw themselves at him before he breaks? He WILL break. Hey women down voting me, read the replies and stop with your ignorance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:06 AM
32

Ohhhhhh yes, the city+ escort review board, where they literally judge sex workers like on fucking yelp. It was so disturbing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:58 PM
274

For the first time yesterday I commented on Facebook against sex work. FDS enlightened me on something I thought I had a firm opinion on. Sure women came after me saying I was horrible, but I just kept defending from the side of the women and children forced to do sex work. They are part of sex work, you can't separate it no matter what. Legalize it, regulate it, but sex work should never be normalized. Men will always exploit us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:08 PM
82

My ex was a fuckboi casual sex guy, numbers well above 50 partners at 20 years old. He fully committed to me (because I'm awesome) but was wondering about what it would be like to be with other women after 4 years together. We broke up, he went on a sex tour of Asia, met some tourist there and convinced her to move across the planet for him. Married her and has a kid now. I wish nothing but bad things on the man who wasted 6 years of my absolute prime years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:01 PM
232

Is there a FDS pickmisha of the year award? I nominate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:43 PM
218

Just another fuckboi pretending to want a relationship to get free sex from women. Pathetic. This is a NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:33 PM
77

You're on tinder, you are only trying to get your dick wet, THAT'S IT. Tinder is nothing else. So yeah, women who are actually willing to have casual sex, you should assume you are competing against several hundred men for that rare woman who hasn't found FDS or her self worth yet 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:48 PM
78

If a guy is tall he likey has stretch marks on his back he hasn't really seen! I have some on my legs from when I went into my sport seriously at 14!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:32 PM
52

The only men mad are mad either because their 🍆 is small, or they are ugly, or both. Neither of which are womens problem. They can stay mad, we will continue to follow things to better ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:29 PM
35

How to end up single at 40 after being someone's bangmaid for 15 years and never getting married or having kids and he leaves you for a 25 year old, repeats until he dies. He's wasting her fucking time and she's going to let him. Good for her for trying to set boundaries for 5 seconds (then taking it back to be forever gf)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:08 PM
81

I was banned for 7 days off reddit last time I told the truth about these men of that particular religion. The lurkers report every comment we make and hope something sticks to silence us. The replies were removed and users probably banned. Men from that religion will stop at nothing to continue to keep women from saying the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:28 PM
46

I have several of my old phones, I simply left one on voice record and listened. Sure enough within 30 minutes of me leaving, I heard porn. This is once I was dating him though. Not sure how to know before... I assume 99% of men watch porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:32 PM
26

It matters. Under 4" is too small to do anything with and a woman will not be happy (although a pickme may lie and say it's fine). Whatever a guy is, even if way under average, will convince himself he is average. 6" guys. 6" is average and 6"-7.5" is the only size women are most happy with. If you're under 5" guys, get good at oral and buy toys and incorporate them into sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:26 PM
1

My friend said he could not follow the Muslim faith because they require men to treat women badly. He had too much respect for women to continue with a culture like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:29 PM
28

I'm a female best friend to a guy. I will do whatever I have to in order to ensure the SO of my best guy friend is comfortable with me. I think the woman my guy best friend is with will be his last gf, he will likely marry her so I'm glad she is ok with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:47 PM
8

Why are they so obsessed. This is pathetic on so many levels. I hope it points some people to read the handbook and know he's full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:29 PM
14

Bahhhhh hahahahaha HAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAhahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:02 AM
41

Agreed. I make it very clear from the start if you have ANY "kinks", we are not a match. Normal sex is awesome, even after years of the same, so if you need BDSM to get off, you're not doing sex right and need therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:40 PM
313

The thought of them outing themselves SO FAST makes me smile. All that effort to "infiltrate" - but the second they open their mouths, they make it painfully clear that they are trash. Yup, scotes, we can call you trash. Leave us alone here. Just do that one simple thing. Edit: hahahahahahahahaaaaaa one of the pathetic scrotes did the reddit "reach out because worried about your mental health" thing. You can't leave us alone, why are you so fucking USELESS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:06 AM
14

I think this has to do with the scrotes joining after they got kicked from reddit off their hate sub and are targeting us. Coming soon: 337 permanent bans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:44 AM
66

They can't help but out themselves in 5 minutes. So let them try, put all the effort into making accounts, posting for WEEKS to qualify to get in, then expose themselves for the scrotes they are within 2 posts. LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:33 AM
15

I love botox. I have this one crease/deep line in a L shape in my 11's (right between my eyebrows) that I've always hated and have had since I was a tween. I only get botox right there. It makes everything look better and makeup doesn't get stuck in it! I only have to do it every 6 months and after you do it for 3-4 years you can take a break for a few years. If I had started in my 20s, I wouldn't have to do it as much, if at all. I tried getting it done in other spots and hated that it made me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:14 AM
261

Men will not follow the simple rules of a shelter. Women will stay in trauma situations to keep a roof over their heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:28 AM
2

Please send your cute HVM 5'9" and under to meeeeee. I really prefer 5'5" to 5'9" and I only seem to find these giant 6'4" or taller guys and it sucks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:26 PM
8

Tinder is only for casual sex hookups. I would never go on there now, it's all rapists and men looking for a free sex worker. For okcupid, if you change your age to 18 and put your location as middle of no where Idaho or somewhere (you can change it all back to your real info), it's $4 per month for premium. If you are over 30 in a populated city it will give you a rate of $20 per month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:21 PM
34

OLD is definitely a full time job if you want to find HV on there. When I first join I usually have 400-1000 likes/emails within a week. It's overwhelming. Currently sitting at 4579 likes/intros on okcupid. Ain't no one got time for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 12:52 AM
0

Naw. He is gay so he wanted to anyway, asked if he should take money for it and I said why not! Apparently closeted gay guys feel less guilty if they pay for it? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:54 PM
7

I like her energy. This is why I can't work in customer service, I feel like I would answer like this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:15 AM
-7

Why not? If you can easily get the stuff back, do it. You won't be seeing him again so get everything and bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:15 PM
1

I believe pull out method is 85% effective my dear NVM. The price of not having a baby was literally 3 seconds of having an orgasm somewhere else. Not even with a condom, just literally somewhere else for a few seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:48 PM
12

I'm glad you got the tip of saying it wasn't your ex, since cops don't give a flying fuck all if a current or past partner hurts us. Since 40% of police abuse their partners, they think we all deserve some kind of assault for ever giving that man a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:18 PM
88

He won't see 1 day in jail, even after he actually rapes someone. MeNTaL hEaLTH issUES, lets men get away with anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:12 PM
18

Without going too much into details, I have spent some time with Hollywood elite. Most actors are highly narcissistic (have actually NPD) and she is no exception. If you are a B or C list celebrity and "move up" into A list, most will completely cut off anyone not as successful as them. It's all about hurting each other to get to the top.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:07 AM
43

AD is a "crab in the bucket" type person who stepped on whoever she could to make it to the top and ignores them after. She can do whatever she wants with her wrinkled old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:23 PM
5

Meetup women only groups! Either sports activities or hobbies. There's a group for everything and most you can find a scrote free version ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:20 PM
9

I would reply with "you are a rapist piece of garbage, do the world a favor and off yourself, or at the very least, never contact me again. You are and always will be, a rapist. You do not deserve one good thing to happen to you for the rest of your miserable rapist life".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:58 PM
11

What does a woman in her 40s do other than consider a guy with kids though? If a guy is in his 40s he either has kids or doesn't want them. I can't exactly rule out 100% of the dating pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:26 PM
21

I'm part of all different kinds of meetup groups for hobbies and activities/sports. Meet tons of men that way, but haven't been to anything since covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:25 PM
28

EWWWWWWWWWWWW ewwwwwwwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:34 PM
126

I'm betting they've been together 6 months too 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:13 PM
36

My cat will not sit on laps. If picked up she does a hard leaning away, puts her ears back and won't let you kiss her head. When my brother babysits? On his lap purring right away and he picks her up and kisses her head as she leans into him. Cats can pick out good people. Congrats on your cat confirming him as HV ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:56 AM
3

After that trash fire of a man, please then watch "Ode to Joy" on Netflix as well. It's adorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:24 AM
26

Basically, they are miserable. There's a cut off of around $100K a year, any higher than than that has diminishing "happiness" returns until you get to over $400K a year. Basically every guy making $150K is a grumpy miserable fuck. My ex was $150-200K and complained constantly. The hate for his job bled into every minute of his life. I know FDS says get someone with a 6 figure salary, but I'd say maybe stick to $80-100K and has property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:45 PM
22

I like that where I live I don't have to inform them of anything. If it's my space I can record and if I'm privy to a conversation I can record without them knowing. I basically have a recording device on all the time and especially every time I leave or enter my apartment (I have a shitty landlord)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:28 PM
-1

I don't think he's timid, he's an intellectual like me and I think he doesn't want to piss me off or make it awkward if I say no. Or, possibly more so like he doesn't want to assume my friendliness is an invitation for him to come after me. I believe he's trying to be a decent guy and not hit on me when he knows every other guy does. He doesn't want to scare me away. There's so few single attractive and extremely smart/competent women in our area he doesn't want to be the reason I don't go to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:30 PM
35

Loving seeing you as a 20yo come to the realization of, to me what sounds like, you are a demisexual. Used to be called "normal". ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:07 PM
1

I'm wondering this too. I know a guy that I believe is interested in me but I sincerely think is intimidated by me and doesn't want to screw it up. I think he would rather keep me in his friend circle than risk asking me out and me saying no or thinking he's crap for doing that. Is a simple "so when are you going to ask me out?" OK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:03 PM
11

All of this. I didn't stay with him. After telling me I'd have to work until I die while he retires at 55, he said he didn't want to "pay everything for a child". He cared more about his money than a hypothetical child I would create for him. Boy BYE. He did get his. He lost the job he hated so much, found out he wouldn't get another without a 20-40% salary cut, couldn't buy the house he had saved for for 20 years, and now lives in his friends basement. 😂🤣 karmaaaaaaaaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:52 PM
5

I made it so NO woman would have to put up with that anymore (currently living his best life as a gay escort lol). I removed him from the dating cesspool 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:17 AM
14

I explained this exact math to him. His solution was instead to insist I have/make more money. Just... have more so I can pay more. 🤦‍♀️ Wealthy people are so dense and ignorant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:01 AM
37

Yup, like most wealthy people, he thought putting $3-4k per month into savings/retirement was necessary. He actually said he would not pay for me in our old age so I had to get a good paying job to save for retirement to keep up with his lifestyle. I said... so 20-30 years of marriage taking care of him and raising a child, but if I can't afford my half of his lavish retirement home, out I go? No. I will just have to keep working he says! yeets him into the sun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:58 AM
78

My ex made about $3000 per week ($12K per month) while I made $500 per week and had my own bills and rent to pay. We went out to eat about once a week. I never ordered the most expensive thing, I stuck to something under $20. I don't drink alcohol. I would cover the tip ($10-20). Near the end of our relationship he complained that I didn't pay when we went out to eat so he wanted to stay in and cook. I was spending $100-200 per week on groceries and finally said I wanted a credit card to cover i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:24 PM
451

Walls? You mean him straight up telling you several times in several ways that a relationship will not happen, he doesn't care in any way, but he's willing to get his dick wet because you won't accept what he said as true? When a guy tells you he's a piece of shit that is using you... BELIEVE HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:02 PM
57

Men age terribly in most cases. This is the one time I'll say 'not all men' lol, but most! We were all in our 20s putting on creams and shit while these LVM fucked around and found out 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:34 AM
6

Have fun being used like the pickme you are then. See you back here in 10 years when the 35 year old you were trapped into a relationship with dumps you for someone younger. Tinder rapist will love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:49 PM
2

I think if that day was during our periods, they would off themselves before the 24 hours was up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:00 AM
80

I can't believe how badly men age compared to myself. Guys in their 40s look like garbage, I look like I haven't aged a day since 30. I have several relatives in their 50s and 60s who all look 10-20 years younger. I guess it's my German/Dutch genetics but like, how did men get such bad genes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:19 AM
308

AHHHH HAHAHAHAHA This happens to me all the time, scrotes will put their age as 49 because my profile says do not contact me if you are over 50. The ones who do this usually look 60. Gross old men. edit just got a PM from an angry scrote saying it's sexist to call men by their genital tissue. 🤣😂🤣😂 Stay mad, scrotes! LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:20 PM
2

Why is math so difficult for men? If you make half what he does, he pays 75% you pay 25%. There should be zero deviation from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:16 PM
11

Tinder is only for hookups, why wade into shit knowing it is 100% men looking for a low/no cost sex worker? Tinder is the worst of them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:11 PM
17

80% of narcissists, or those with NPD, are men. I hate when info memes like this try to make it seem like women are equally the problem. We are not. Like most issues, it's predominantly men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:45 PM
3

When I was 20 I pushed away and broke the heart of a guy that I always regretted doing. He was a HVM that I crushed. My life would have been different had I not made that terrible decision. I ended up chasing a crappy LVM that pushed my life off course forever. I would wake up at 20, put my effort into the HVM that would do anything for me, encourage me and help me, a real partner... and tell the LVM to go fuck himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:23 AM
15

If I don't include the work I did at the startup, about $50K debt. If I include what I should have been paid? About $200K. If I include what I went through after, about $350K.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:56 PM
-5

STAY WITH SHAWN. I wouldn't fucking dare leave him. I'd stay with him, make him finish school and be HAPPY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:52 PM
13

Pretty privilege is absolutely real and I have no doubt I am treated the way I am because of it. I use it to my advantage when I need to, while bringing out the bitch when needed as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:56 PM
280

"just joking" Another lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:55 AM
4

She didn't list his age because he is over 35 for sure. Fucking pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:46 AM
34

I "worked" for a start up. We were supposed to get grants (never came), and he ate my savings and spent money we made on his rent but I wasn't given a dime to pay mine. 2 years. TWO YEARS I worked for 20% of profits... but by the time he had gone through paying all his regular bills, 20% of nothing was nothing. Never again. I do not work for free ever again. That financially abusive narcissist took everything from me and kept me from 2 paying jobs. I will piss on his grave and smile when he's go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:38 AM
94

LET HIM DIE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:26 AM
36

At least it's always sunny knows exactly what they are doing and make it very obvious how awful Dennis is as a person. I love how the other characters are like "what?!? No!!!" to all his rapey behavior lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:39 AM
5

Found a 6/6/6 guy (6', $150K, 8"). I did all this shit every morning... plus a BJ. Then cleaned during the day and made delicious food for when he got home then he emotionally unloaded on me from all the crap of his day. Then he'd get to watch YouTube and play video games. Still he thought I needed to make more money and if I didn't what was the point of being with me. 😕😠🤬 It was less than 6 months in before he was a complete misogynistic pig that claimed I contributed nothing to the relationshi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:24 PM
41

My ex said he wanted me to get a better paying job so he didn't end up "paying for everything for a kid", by that he meant food, clothes, etc. He makes $150K a year with basically no expenses but was worried what a child would cost him and if I would pay for half of everything making a third of his income. Yeah how about you hang onto your money and be buried with it since you will be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:49 AM
24

I wish I could sue my ex for this exact thing. I've had nothing but problems since he gave me HPV like 4 years ago and I will have to live with this forever. Oh and when I saw the 10 year age gap of 32 and 22, see right there is your first giant red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:01 AM
2

I saw someone on FB marketplace selling the EMPTY cup and other items from this for like $50. It's more profitable to sell the used McDonald's cup than your OF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:07 AM
11

Learn your cycle. Recognize that when you are about to get your period and the few days into it that your brain acts differently from hormones, sometimes a lot, sometimes on a little. Any negative interactions you have during these days, especially negative emotional ones, when texting/emailing or in person... stop, take a second and think "will I feel this way in 3 days". If yes, proceed, if no, take the time to not reply or reply in an even tone. I found that 90% of the time I opt to not send …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:03 AM
45

Hair accessories, elastics, scrunchies, those little clear ones, women will know what they are but men don't notice them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:59 PM
34

Compliments from women you know are genuine and do not come with ulterior motives. Men however...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:50 PM
4

Looks wise - My hair is long, gorgeous, soft and shiny, my eyelashes look fake they are so long and my big boobs are awesome and stay exactly where they were regardless of bra on/off. Oh and my skin is always super soft! Personality is stellar. I'm witty, funny, smart and competent AF. I can handle 100 things at once. I'm a big AND small picture person and can change accordingly. I'm compassionate and passionate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:51 AM
1

So so happy for my IUD. I will get pregnant when I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:40 AM
7

Prepare for hoover and love bombing. In approximately 3 weeks-3 months. He will get at you and push EVERY button all at once. Most victims of narcissists go back 7 times before finally leaving. Make sure this break up sticks on the first try! Congrats on shedding that toxic trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:32 AM
17

Let's also hope rapist men will move OUT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:18 AM
80

Now if we could only get cops to stop victim blaming and actually giving a shit, that would be great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:16 AM
31

I always go through my guys phone. In severe cases I've put keylogging app on there. very important note - use the information you have from his phone wisely. If you do it in the right way he will never know you were on it. I KNOW it's satisfying to say "ha! I knew you did it!" but keep that urge down! Use the info for action, and never reveal sources. Sometimes he will wonder which friends turned on him ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:35 AM
6

Install a snooping/privacy program onto your own phone along with a good program that will scan for malware you didn't install intentionally 😉 This will secretly take pics of anyone who tries to unlock your device and some will do a key log so in case he does get in you can see wtf he's looking for. Also - get a backup Facebook account! Open them NOW so there's a history. Just add yourself as a friend. And set up all the 2 factor authentication crap and trusted contacts. It sucks losing your Fac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:10 AM
66

Oh I know. My last bumble date lied about where he lived, lied about where he worked/what he did and left to go to his moms (where at 38 he lived in her basement) after sticking me with the bill. Oh and lied about being a non smoker... fucker like I'm not going to notice that stench on you immediately 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:02 AM
76

I have in my profile "will not match with you if you have 'hookups' or 'non-monogomy' chosen", and I stick to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:47 AM
2

Once you get into by country it's... shocking. Asia/Middle east (China, India) are by far the smallest while Africa (excluding South Africa as the white population skus the results hahaha) are by far the biggest. Like 4" in Asia vs 7" in Africa. Biggest difference is 3.8" in Korea vs 7.1" in Congo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:46 AM
5

With the exception of the personal/sentimental items they lost... this would have been insured for more than it's worth. This isn't too much of a loss for them unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:50 PM
42

This is my ex. His guys weekends were frequent, did not involve spouses yet they were always surrounded by single women. It was infuriating. He was gay. It's like he had to parade his perfect gf to his his friends so he could stay in the closet and not disrupt his favorite guy time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:20 AM
10

"We got lazy"..... you sure about that buddy? WE, I think you meant YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:55 PM
6

Don't have kids before 30. There's no advantage to it. Tell this guy to go knock someone else up. If you stay with this NVM, get an IUD as I wouldn't trust him to not mess with your BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:51 PM
2

Agreed! If you can regulate your heartbeat, you can beat a polygraph. They have nothing to do with the truth. DNA. Now that's something I can feel confident in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:55 PM
25

"While police believe Reyes may have wanted to pursue a romantic relationship with Mass, a motive remains unclear." Yeah figures cops can't figure out 1+1=2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:25 AM
15

Men also do NOT like to follow rules of shelters or temporary housing. They want to do what they have always done, which is whatever they want whenever they want... which is what put them in the situation of being homeless to begin with. They would literally rather starve & sleep on the streets than follow (non infringing) rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:33 PM
14

I can't understand how pain is supposed to replace pleasure. Like just because you can't pleasure us & is super easy to hurt us doesn't mean we will like it. If you're into pain, you ain't having sex right or your brain is too warped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:34 PM
2

Might be! If I was going to find a doppelganger it'd be here 😉 I do like watching my friends stories, especially during covid when we can't hang out! Ladies, post those selfies/stories, your friends are always happy to see how cute you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:07 PM
26

So many men have been confused when I say I don't have nudes, will not take them & that they don't exist. Hacks, leaks, the internet in general, make it so I can't have those pics out there, ever. I have SC, but refuse to add men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:03 PM
75

They pay once, then expect she "likes" him so much after that transactional sex that he won't have to pay again. These men are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:59 PM
-8

It should be legal. The more restrictions, the more bad cases there are. I figured I'd get down voted. It's fine, pushing sex workers to completely illegal gets them killed & hurt even more but whatever, I guess the stats/science on this one goes against FDS mantra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:32 AM
16

My region has laws that let you get out of a lease for situations just like this. Check if you have them where you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:29 AM
103

2 years is good before proposal, with an engagement of a year or two. Any more than 2 years without a proposal I would seriously consider backing out unless there are severe circumstances. It does seem like you are over thinking this a bit though as you can't predict nor dictate how your relationships will develop. Follow the FDS guidelines, only put time into HVM & run from any guy more than 5-7 years older (no matter his reason for going after a younger woman).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:43 PM
1

They are my favorite flower, & scent! I love those few precious weeks in May when they are everywhere. Same, they are like weeds here & all 3 colours! I usually have every vase & big cup filled with them 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:38 PM
-10

No worries, I'll block you & not see your comments ever again 🥰 And 2 lines is not a rant 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:06 PM
-12

Ummmm, you didn't need to comment this. I said lilacs. There are lilac trees/bushes everywhere here, on public property & not planted. It isn't stealing them, it's picking them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:55 PM
20

My ex did the same thing.... I said many wild flowers were free, especially lilacs in May. He wouldn't even pick the lilacs outside the building we lived in or outside the doors to his office. It was so disappointing that the smallest thing he couldn't even muster the energy to do to make me happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:26 AM
11

There are no women who like that because there shouldn't be. No woman should have to deal with that crap. He should have that reputation. He should be shamed by people until he figures out his sick mind isn't right. I'm so sorry you invested your time in this covert porn/kink sick NVM. He's extra shitty for hiding this & pretending he was normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:31 PM
34

He's a porn sick LVM that is into heavy disgusting kink shit. Tell him to get a therapist, since no woman should put up with his deranged sex fantasies until he's "had enough". How much depravity will be enough? Why would he all of a sudden get over his sick kinks & settle down? It's all a giant no. He's a predatory monster looking for a naive woman to fulfill his twisted little mind. He is an abuser looking for a victim to feel sorry for him. So much no. No one should tolerate his kinks, he sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:54 PM
3

Tilted uterus here with copper IUD. Best decision ever. I've been pregnancy scare free for almost 7 years with none of the hormonal BC side effects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:46 PM
4

In general, telling a woman to "just block him" on fb is unhelpful & often a rule in those kinds of groups as something you can't say. If your only advice is block him, move on to another post. They don't want to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:26 PM
50

GIANT RED FLAG. My ex was a fan of Jordan. I'm 100% positive you will soon find out this guy is also a fan of other disgusting LVM that teach men to treat women like shit. Let some other pickme woman put up with his garbage sexist shit. You, RUN. Before he explains that the wage gap isn't a thing & women are not disadvantaged in any way. RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:22 PM
3

Leopardsatemyface has a slam post about us too. We can't have anywhere they don't come after us for existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:15 PM
29

BTW, the man I dated who ended up being gay (pretending to be bi) was the most racist, misogynistic, classist, POS ever. Gay men are in no way HVM more than any other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:48 PM
95

So true. I have a fake LinkedIn profile I use to look up people I don't want to see it's me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:36 AM
820

Don't be passive like others have suggested. That's what he wants, to scare you. Don't do defense when he attacks. Go after him. Find his LinkedIn. Report everywhere you can. Edit: create a fake LinkedIn profile to look him up!!! It will show him you looked otherwise. Or DM some of us, I think I have a fake profile you can use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:17 AM
73

This is a way to help men force women to continue with a pregnancy anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:14 AM
62

Guys on tinder are fuckboi NVM, cheaters & rapists. That's it. Nothing else. Not one other thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:11 AM
31

I guess she didn't have anyone in her life to tell her "hey... this guy is a pedo". And he would never have stayed with her past 25 anyway. He will be looking for another 17/18 year old to trick into being with him. He will learn not to marry them & just victimize them so he can move on to the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:24 AM
17

Well, that's what happens when you marry a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:54 AM
34

My gyno did some tests & said the second I want to be pregnant, I will be (at 41). Fertility doesn't drop for us until after 45. The "after 35 fertility drops" nonsense is from a study in the 1500s in France.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:00 PM
18

I did this. Only when I was 38 (wayyyyy too fucking late) did I make the rule for myself that if within 2 years there was no ring, I was leaving. I wouldn't tell a guy that rule either. I'd have serious honest discussions with him obviously, but the day after anniversary #2 if no ring, I'm gone. Now in my 40s the likelihood of finding anyone gets less & less as more pickmishas ruin every slightly HVM into a hopeless NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:06 AM
6

There's lots of stats, but it's around 6". Pointing to the one that says it's 5" only helps the little dicked incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:27 PM
45

Every yes to ever yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:43 AM
7

I start a recording app every time I set foot outside my door. I use it on the lowest settings so it doesn't take up too much space & delete at the end of the day. When I need it, someday it might save my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:04 AM
6

I turn a recording app on before I step out my door. Every time. Men are monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:01 AM
10

Had the opposite happen too, guy said he was average & was anything but. There would literally be more peace on earth if men had his "average" 8" perfect 🍆! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:56 AM
7

My ex said he was "average".... uhhhhh maybe for porn stars you are. Dude was packing a 8" thick AF gorgeous python & assumed that was normal. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I made him feel super confident all the time by telling him what an awesome big dick he has. They never tire of hearing it lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:54 AM
18

DOES ANYONE REMEMBER THE POST WHERE A GUY DID THIS ON PURPOSE?!?! He gained a huge amount of weight & gaslighted the shit out of his wife/gf when she tried to help. Turns out he had a fetish... (had to look it up) called feederism. He was completely obsessed with gaining weight & wanted her to as well, tried everything to get more calories in her. When she finally found out it was so heartbreaking, mostly to her because of the horrible deceitful way he went about it. I wonder if this is similar …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:42 AM
73

I bet $5 he never sees 1 day in a jail cell. She is going to advocate for this fucking monster & let him do it to the next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:33 AM
9

Please don't report me for derailing.... genuine question that I need FDS answer... are we OK or no with circumcision? Is it OK to have a preference either way on grown men we potentially date? Are we allowed to chose to have it done to our sons? I'm going to look through FDS literature now to see if I can find anything. To clarify, I think FGM & circumcision are 100% different things. I just don't want to discuss it in this sub if it's off limits. Sorry in advance for my ignorance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:08 AM
2

Exactly. The medical costs started when he wanted to know what strain he gave me, he said he would take care of it ($150) & never did. I found out when I got a collection letter. It wasn't the cancer one, but it was the other nasty one down from that 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:59 AM
7

Heyyyyyyy soul sista! I knew my relationship was over when he defended Harvey W too! Said it wasn't rape because all those women "freely" chose to have sex with him to advance their careers 🙄🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙄🤦‍♀️🙄. I knew in that moment he was not the man for me & my plans for a future with him vanished in an instant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:41 AM
4

Did they have another child after getting married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:31 PM
331

I sometimes wonder why it's so bad being single in your 30s/40s having not been married... like doesn't that mean I'm actually less likely to be jaded from failed divorce or two?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:49 AM
0

Oh of course, anecdotal. That's always fun. Thank you for your replies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:59 AM
0

I studied this religion & am considered knowledgeable of the religion itself & current customs. I'm not ignorant. Women are indoctrinated from birth, it is not a choice. The government forcing them to remove it is a terrible mental attack on their entire being (one that should not have been put on them in the first place). Integration of Islam into progressive societies will take several generations, France can't just make them assimilate like the Borg. I don't know why the government there thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:51 AM
6

Most men on Tinder are either pedophiles or rapists... so if they are on there you can assume!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:33 AM
2

Islamic dress is not free. They don't actually have a choice. Either they are forced to wear it by their culture or the government like France forces them not to wear it. If you're a woman, you are fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:31 AM
4

These sex worker review sites are localized to each city, they usually have the city letter & end with ERB (escort review board) so example TERB.ca is for Canada, Toronto Escort Review Board. It's abhorrent what these men say about the women, & the amount of women self promoting on there is mind boggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:24 AM
9

I saw a notification on my exes phone of an app I didn't recognize... IT WAS FUCKING GRINDR Y'ALL!!!!!! I didn't let it go. I snooped & found history of him installing & uninstalling that app about 50 times over 5 years (so me for 1 year & his ex as well). Google activity history logs evvvvvvverything you do by the way ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:17 AM
8

I'm a lot of mens dream girl. I'm attractive, smart (in all ways), a huge nerd, funny & witty. Am good at emotional & other labor, good sane family, no health issues or background of any health or mental illness. Most men will call me perfect in every way... until the day they break up with me & marry someone else within 2 years. I am perfectly fine on the highest pedestal. I'm that awesome. But somehow, I've only been used for over 2 decades by men who decide to be with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:57 AM
9

I'm constantly amazed how bad men my own age look! Either I'm aging incredibly well, or all men are aging incredibly bad! I usually go for younger guys because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:48 AM
26

I fell for this. Helped him paint, stage, clean & renovate to sell. He got way over asking because of my work. He moved into my place which he INSTANTLY hated. Never even moved his stuff out of the totes because my place "wasn't as nice as his". He refused to help with ANY bills after agreeing previously to $600 per month to help cover costs (he made $10K a month). Less than 3 months later he moved out into his friends basement. I got a roommate who paid $1500 per month (half the rent/bills) who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:19 AM
10

I feel really lucky to have him (and him me). He's dealt with the LVMs I've been with for 20 years & helped me with the inevitable fall out of the breakups 😉 If he lived less than 5000 miles from me I'm sure he'd set me up with other HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:26 AM
8

Yes I agree as well, she looked for or sought out married men. Her reasoning was that they were less likely to develop attachment to her, but the main one being was that if they fucked around or did anything slightly out of line, she would tell the wife. She said that fear kept these men in line... & when dealing with that low of a man, having that kind of leverage was definitely an asset for her! She met one of the wives accidentally once at a party or something... she couldn't see the guy anym…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:48 PM
38

Yes I'd say about half the time the men were married. Most claimed dead bedrooms but never wanted to divorce because they were happy in their marriage except the lack of sex. They saw sugar babies or escorts as a form of therapy (I know, their minds will spin cheating to whatever helps them get away with it). A funny thing happened when one of her "arrangements" lost their business & couldn't pay... he expected her to do it for free because he paid her before! 🤣 Welcome to transactional sex, idi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:31 PM
16

Income division for bills. Example she makes $100K he makes $30K, she pays 70% he pays 30%. It's so fucking simple... until those numbers are switched. He makes more? Oh then 50/50 is only fair, or she's a gold digger 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Anything more than a 80/20 split the higher earner should pay everything for bills. If she is a SAHM, she gets any income or benefits to her own personal account, she should always have a nest to be able to get away if needed. This is only in an established…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:18 PM
21

My girl best friend does sex work as almost a... hobby? She likes sex, a LOT, was sick of giving it away for free so she started doing 'seeking arrangements' for fun. Her reasoning was she wanted to have sex, she vetted them well & they were happy to pay. She found the quality of sex was better anyway. She would also do normal dating & when in a relationship would stop all sex work. She fully acknowledges that she is lucky she hasn't had a bad experience, that she is indeed privileged, & that si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:08 PM
26

Agreed. I have a male best friend but it's a 22 year friendship which is very unusual. I would never attempt to become friends with a man now. I know they will always have bad intentions or try something at some point. If you ever need a rational, good HVM opinion or question answered, let me know I'll send my BFF a line 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:00 PM
17

Question! When you get a report, does it show what user reported them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:34 PM
19

I don't trust male teachers. At all. If that's their profession it's a hard pass, especially high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:07 PM
130

I was banned from there for "misandry". They can kiss my ass. Askwomen is pickmes & male mods. Fuck em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:00 PM
2

No it's ok it's literally just a very long story 😉 He's a diagnosed NPD so it was a few years of torture. I'm at almost 18 months no contact now 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:10 PM
3

Long story. Mostly medical 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:44 PM
53

Got my HPV from the guy who "didn't like labels". That cost me about... $145,000. Not cheap. Don't forget therapy! You're not going to feel good about yourself, will self sabotage, question your worth, etc. Therapists are NOT cheap & are definitely involved in the cost of hookups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:45 AM
64

Not most. ALL. ALL men on tinder are scum. Let's not pretend that there's even 1 man on there that is not a fuckboi 💩🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:56 PM
30

What? This is NOTHING compared to her song IDGAF 😉 IDGAF Dua Lipa *You call me all friendly Tellin' me how much you miss me That's funny, I guess you've heard my songs Well, I'm too busy for your business Go find a girl who wants to listen If you think I was born yesterday You have got me wrong So I cut you off I don't need your love 'Cause I already cried enough I've been done I've been movin' on since we said goodbye I cut you off I don't need your love, so you can try all you want Your time i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:22 AM
75

When I was with a good sexually compatible partner, we could be very satisfied even if either of us didn't cum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:07 AM
59

First, YESSSSSS, omg I see the men my age & I'm like, how do you look so bad, old & worn out! Second, fertility between 18, 28 & 38 year old women is a whopping... drum roll... 6%! Goes 88%, 86%, 82%. So fertility is not an issue at 38 unless wanting 6+ children. Although of course now, fertility issues are often because of the guys shitty sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:59 PM
12

This was like watching the USA fall for Trumps crap. How detached from reality can you be not to know it's lies?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:44 AM
7

Not good enough. Your stupid fucking garbage opinions need to be wiped from here. You shouldn't have joined here in the first place. You obviously didn't read the rules & were just here to spread your women hating shit. I feel bad for you, I truly do, but for you to try to come on here & spread your anecdotal junk while BDSM ruins & degrades the lives of so many, is cruel & fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:17 PM
11

Can't wait to see your ass perma banned from here. Your incredibly damaging views of BDSM are shaped entirely by men who benefit from abusing women. It's so horribly pickme & you should not be able to spout this fucking nonsense here anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:13 PM
27

Not one. Not one man that claims he was a submissive is actually that. They are ALL doms. Every submissive man is annoyingly insistent & pushy on getting exactly what they want, having a woman follow a script they wrote, & think that because they paid, they get to dictate what happens. If you don't do what they want, they withhold the money or berate the "dom" women or become whining little bitches. It's another way for them to be completely in control while claiming they are giving up control. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:04 PM
13

UMMMMM, the title doesn't match. They don't talk about shrinking penis size AT ALL. They talk about decreased sperm count & testosterone but literally not 1 thing about size. Misleading video title for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:46 PM
3

I heard the same! I certainly hope it's true! I've been watching Superstore because the manager is a kids in the hall actor :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:05 PM
15

Fucking LOVE Kids In The Hall. Their stuff is used in everyday language in Canada! I've been getting their skits suggested on YouTube lately & I've enjoyed immensely! This was great! Thank you for posting. How do male 90s comedians understand this better than most women now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:22 AM
52

Pepper spray is illegal? I don't give 1 flying FUCK. Who gives a shit what man created a law against a tool that can help women avoid being attacked by the men that benefit from the law against it? Sure, I might get charged when a man tries to rape me after he loses his fucking eyeball when I spray him right in the face, don't care. He wouldn't go to jail for raping me so they can try to jail me for defending myself. That goes for any "illegal" tools that we can use to stop an attack. You can us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:10 AM
6

I lost mine during a relationship & honestly thought I was asexual. Joined communities & forums & all that. Before that I went to doctors & specialist & they concluded it wasn't physical so it was in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:41 PM
5

Hey now... I like the term crotch goblins when it comes to vaccinations. My fave tag group on fb is "VACCINATE YOUR CROTCH GOBLINS" 🤣😂 One of my exes (who admittedly was not my bf, he didn't want labels & refused to be in an official relationship for over 2 years) was shocked when in a group conversation I said I only wanted 1 child & that previously I'd wanted 2 but since I was close to 40, 1 was more likely. He was like "you want kids?!?!"... well yeah, YOU don't & assumed I didn't. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:38 PM
14

Exactly. But "WAHHHHHH I want ANAL!!! * stomp stomp huff * " 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:30 AM
11

A few... I just didn't click with them. I'm big on spark so when that's missing unfortunately I have to move on. But I'm sure other women will be happy to have found them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:02 PM
13

Same as well. I've had a boyfriend since I was 15 & not single for more than a couple weeks in between. Single since right before covid hit, longest ever. This time has given me to fucking FINALLY try to find a good one & pick right this time. Or a woman. I really don't give a shit at this point. I want to love & give the same as my partner love & gives me. It shouldn't be that difficult but * gestures at men * 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:56 PM
62

SAME. But it's not you, it's that the overwhelming majority of men are disgusting pigs that only want sex. They've got society to back them up on encouraging women to see causal sex as the norm so men don't have do anything but chase sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:25 PM
32

I know someone who did that for 9 years, although never married her or had kids. Just straight up wasted her time for her ENTIRE 20s. He knew he didn't want to be with her but was lonely (he moved to the middle of nowhere, she left her life in a city). Made her pay rent at his house & everything, including signing paperwork that she was a roommate so she could never come after him for his money. 😡 It's a disgusting male behaviour that men don't feel bad about. They ruin lives & continue on like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:46 PM
100

I just want to offer a ray of hope to you that sometimes the women do listen! Saw a post today where the ex contacted the current gf & documented the abuse she endured that started around the same time as he had been dating her. New gf was pregnant 😳 She made an escape plan, got an abortion (telling him it was a miscarriage) & got away from the man who would have locked her up & tortured her forever. I can only hope they do this for his next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:00 PM
35

Conservatives/Trump supporters/anti abortion dbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:51 PM
14

I refuse to speak to anyone that has casual or hookups as an option they are looking for. If that's something you are open to, you're LVM. Men have also ruined the word "fun". Fun, anywhere in a man's profile, means they are looking to use you for sex. It continues to shock me that women are taken completely by surprize when a man they meet on TINDER, fucks & chucks them. Like fucking DUH, get your ass off the app that is dedicated to that exact thing & that thing only! Every woman on Tinder is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:31 PM
239

"Remember how I wanted to use you for sex? Surprize! I am checking to see if you'll be open to that now" 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:03 PM
14

Because they are scared little man boys that don't give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:19 PM
445

Of course they are. Any time we have a choice, we will choose to delay or not have kids. Until men inevitably put us in a "handmaid tale" scenario, because they can't help themselves. If they can't trick us into having babies, they force us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:17 PM
32

Common common common. Everything practically comes out of a handbook for narcs. It's like they can't come up with anything new! Narcissists can not change. It's not possible. Block him, or reply with "never contact me again".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:15 PM
43

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 my asexual wife won't let me degrade her booo hooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:37 PM
54

I saw a reddit post I forget where... it was a female teacher (thankfully) who taught like grade 4 or 5. She hugged all her students every day. 😳 We were all like WHHHHHHAAAATTTTTT, STOP IT!!!! She was like "it's the only physical affection some of them ever get". That's sad, but woman you are not to touch them! She was practically pre-grooming them, boys & girls, to trust teachers to be physical with them! SMH 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:05 AM
8

If it was just the complaining I could have handled that... it was the sexism, racism & elitism that doomed us 😉 He complained to me because, although I would listen (which is all most people need), he knew I was competent enough to help him figure out problems at his work so I set myself up to be the therapist/problem solver. Damn me & my smarts 😜 I'm so glad you left that job! Pay cut shmay cut, you got your life back which is more valuable. BTW, my ex got fired during covid cutbacks, now he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:47 AM
59

Stayed in a 2 year relationship where every day he would complain. Complaining about work (he had a toxic job environment), complaining about people, complaints about people AT work. It never ended. Then he'd play video games, which I let him because it was a break from the complaining! He just got more & more angry of a person as time went on & he stayed at that job. Then he wondered why I didn't get a high paying job like his 🤦‍♀️ My other ex was a hypochondriac so every morning was a list of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:21 AM
3

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:02 PM
42

This exactly. Oh you're not political, rich straight white male in his 30s? How nice for you, this poor bisexual POC woman of the same age still has to fight for the right to her own body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:16 PM
75

Your edit at the end, totally unnecessary. Yes all conservatives. Like yes all men but especially yes all conservatives. My ex hid his conservatives BS for months. This very well educated man had his brain turned to mush by red pill garbage. The echo chamber of hate is real. You watch ONE video or article, they will suggest more & more terrible things until these men are full Qanon whackos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:12 PM
16

2 things My ex had a friend who I knew was interested in him & he claimed he wouldn't ever consider her as a romantic partner because she was too young for him - I shut that shit DOWN. He cut her out completely. I explained it calmly & logically & he agreed their relationship was not appropriate while he was with me. I have a male best friend. I tell the guys I'm dating about him pretty soon after starting to chat. He's been my BFF for 22 years & we will never be in a romantic relationship but h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:03 PM
4

Excuses varied, the main ones being "saving" along with "my mom cooks & does my laundry". They are literally lazy bums that want their mommy's to take care of them until they get married & make the wife be the new mom to wipe their little bumbums 🤣 Most Italian men will not move out until they have a wife. My friend married one (in Canada!) & he moved directly from his mom's house to the house they bought together. He was 34.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:33 PM
6

These are correct, not that the parents in Italy are happy about it! There has been a wave of court cases where the parents were suing to evict their own children. Most were over 30 with jobs & the ability to live on their own they just wouldn't. Seems like the country produced an entire generation of LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:15 PM
61

Yeah that whole "open minded" thing is a red flag for me now, it used to mean you'd try new foods & stuff, now it means subjecting you to the nastiest stuff they've seen in porn. No thanks ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:59 AM
179

I'd like to add... KINKS USUALLY ESCALATE! Today is sucking on your toes, light bondage & candle wax... tomorrow is foot jobs, rope burns & pain. Kinks are a kin to something worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:30 AM
57

My ex made $75/hour full time, $6K a month after taxes. His expenses were about $3K per month. I made $1500 per month, my expenses were about $1475 per month. He wouldn't pay for anything. He even said that since I was at his place all the time I should be contributing to the bills (while still paying all of mine). My worth was solely based on what I could financially contribute & nothing else mattered (the cooking, cleaning, errands I did were not worth anything so they didn't count). He couldn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:09 PM
100

This was my problem. I was the perfect gf 2 years, 6 years, 6 years, 3 years, 2 years... each one then finding their wife after we broke up. I'm sick of being a great partner to prepare them to marry someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:07 PM
17

To me, "can keep up" means they plan to use you like a sex doll & need a supply of little blue pills to keep THAT up. Either way, PASS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:53 PM
9

Not reading the comments is self care. Lots of victim blaming & family blaming! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:00 PM
5

Incels don't believe in prostitution either. They fully believe women should freely have sex with them whenever they want. They truly hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:27 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter