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radsera99/r/askFDS11/05/21 11:06 AM
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Omg this is so goddam cringe she actually doesn’t respect herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:11 AM
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IMO this is actual justice for rape. The courts and legal system do shit all for women so we need to take matters into our own hands. Equality my ass when women get punished for taking action against men that abused them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:08 AM
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Loool they should all go back to building shit and just leave us alone, thank u for the advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:26 PM
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Really? I’ve been drinking it on and off but it caused a bit of stomach upset so I stopped. I’ll try again this month x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:26 PM
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Men are so dumb they missed the point 😂 we don’t have to pay because we ARE the product. That’s what they are paying for when they go to the club. Access to women. Fucking dumbasses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:39 PM
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Ah yes, women forever making ourselves the victims
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:12 PM
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No ones saying it’s not a bad situation for everyone but men aren’t the ones losing the right to work, dress how they want, get an education … the women aren’t even allowed to leave their fucking houses. Like come on … let’s be real here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:59 PM
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Just. Dump. Him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:57 PM
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Aren’t these the same guys that say women need to go back to their traditional roots and stop giving out their pussy to every man? Hmmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:55 PM
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‘Alpha male’ is this wattpad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:54 PM
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Socks are not sexy mate. I would not fuck a man while he’s wearing them, that’s just stupid. Obviously men just say we’re not visual creatures so it doesn’t matter what they look like to us lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:54 PM
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It’s so weird you would think they’d be happy beyond belief to land a woman like that but they ruin it every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:47 PM
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At least we don’t pretend not to know how a washing machine operates so we can get out of doing laundry. Side note : I love ur username Lool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:46 PM
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Thank you ❤️❤️ I’m currently trying natural remedies, hopefully I find one that works. I hope it gets better with age too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:44 PM
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Loool or when they get a cold and they’re stumbling around the house groaning and frying like someone’s stabbed their penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:44 PM
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I really wish I had known this before. I remember after we had broken up a couple times I had asked him why did u treat me like that and he basically said he didn’t know what to do other than ignore me and only talk to me when he wanted something since I was so out of his league and he ‘didn’t want to lose me’ which was obviously bs, funny thing is that was exactly what made him lose me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:43 PM
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Yes definitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:15 PM
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I don’t know either. It shouldn’t have to be said. Tbh men don’t listen either way. Obviously they know we are human (I hope) but the point is they don’t care so why bother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:54 PM
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They’re pathetic. Men always say they’re our protectors when really they’re the fucking reason we were even in danger. Afghan women are going to suffer so badly and the men don’t even care. They only worry about themselves. Men say women are privileged because we don’t have to fight … who suffers the most during a war? Women. Men are not mass raped and impregnated in wars. Women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:21 PM
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I don’t either. If I couldn’t take them off I don’t think I’d be able to work. Is it easy for you to take days off? Do u have to take them as paid leave? I’m interested to know as I was recently told I have to start taking them as paid leave which doesn’t really make sense as obviously they should be counted as sick days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:10 PM
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Yep. Why did women in the west fight tooth and nail for the right to vote? Why were we so desperate to get into a workforce that undervalues and underpays us? Why do we work through periods and pregnancy? Because it’s fucking better to do that then be financially dependent on abusive men. Which are the majority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:07 PM
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Yeah and she’s talking about it as if the women are all in loving, kind families with good men that don’t rape, beat and oppress them. Maybe if all men were decent human beings women wouldn’t have been so hell bent on escaping the house and getting into the workforce. Fucking stupid pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:56 PM
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Omg I cannot believe someone actually tweeted this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:49 PM
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Last guy I dated treated me like shit but I was out of HIS league. He knew it too. He said I was too good for him all the time. Personality and looks wise. Still didn’t make him view me as a human being deserving of respect through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:07 PM
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My period always hurts, every month. For three days I’m basically bed bound. Ten days before I have back pain,cramps, swollen legs, feel depressed etc. I know that pain when u feel like vomiting and u have diarrhoea at the same time. It’s fucking awful. It only happens to me every few months though, I can’t imagine going through that every month. Periods are fucking horrible and knowing that we have to feel the same pain every 30 or so days is just miserable. It definitely disrupts our lives. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:44 AM
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Yeah seriously. When I hear people say that period leave won’t work I just think that’s bs. If men had periods it would be understood that working is out of the question. There would be systems in place to ensure they would always get their time off. It’s only because it happens only to women that it’s considered acceptable to work, study etc whilst bleeding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:41 AM
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Yes I saw it. That’s precisely the sort of thing I’m referring to. Men literally rejoice in our fear and hopelessness. At the very least they’re completely indifferent to our suffering. Those men are bastards. They don’t view women as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:03 AM
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Exactly. If the same thing happened in any western country do u really think men would be jumping up to save our rights? No. Maybe a very select few that actually care. The majority of us fighting would be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:22 AM
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Yeah definitely. That’s a great way to weed out misogynists. What men watch and read about is obviously very telling of the way they think, any of these relationship gurus are a no no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:20 AM
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I only heard of him because a female friend watched some of his videos and told me about them … I told her never to watch him again. Hope she listened lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:18 AM
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No I wouldn’t either. We shouldn’t subject ourselves to such drivel lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:17 AM
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What seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:17 AM
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Men are all the same … whatever race. They all want to see women oppressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:16 AM
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Yes absolutely. Our freedom does not benefit men. That’s why they’ve always barred us from education, money independence etc … they don’t like us at all they literally just use us for free labour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:15 AM
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Yeah there are more ‘modern’ Muslims that follow a more liberal/ accepting Version of Islam but it’s not valid IMO. You can’t change religion. Sure there will be some people that feel they are better suited to the new and improved version but the majority will want to stick to the unaltered ‘true’ religion. Religion is inherently misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:11 AM
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Yup. Why did they prevent us from becoming self sufficient for so long? Because they knew we’d fucking realise we’re better off without them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:08 AM
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Is he mentally ok like does he not know women can operate machines? Women can drive? Men are so fucking tapped I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:08 AM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:07 AM
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Yeah they’re just disgusting. Men act like they’re so intelligent and they’ve cracked some code when they just spew the same misogynistic bs we’ve heard a million times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:49 AM
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Exactly we are literally 100% self sufficient lmao. Must be why men are so mad. They know we don’t need them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:44 AM
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What’s happening in Afghanistan is most men’s dream. They love it when we lose our rights and freedom. They fucking love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:38 AM
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Again, men’s feelings are given more importance than women’s safety, comfort and well being. Tell me again how no one cares about how men feel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:46 PM
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Replies to an article about a terrorist shooting due to incel mentality and misogyny… his solution? More incel mentality and misogyny. Men are truly awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:44 PM
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Well white religious people aren’t really much different from brown …. They both hate women and gays…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:45 PM
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Kevin samuels is practically an incel. If a guy watches him or even agrees with anything he says, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:53 PM
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The amount of times I’ve heard men say, right to my face, (mostly at work) that women are controlling, emotional, irrational … men complain about their spouses constantly … two men at work said they’re fed up of women/that we drive them up the wall… and they’re comfortable saying this to a woman in a professional environment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:12 PM
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Misogyny is very well tolerated in society. I’ve heard sexist comments from all my family members and friends, colleagues, my boss, customers… etc. Not once would any of them have made a racist comment especially at work because they know it would not be acceptable. Racism affects men too which I think is why it’s taken so much more seriously. Also, when men say racist things in public they have men to fear. Men are not scared of women. They know they can say whatever they like about us and face…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:10 PM
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Right? When a man doesn’t find a woman attractive, he dehumanises her. When a woman doesn’t want a man, she just fucking avoids him. We can still respect them as humans even if they’re fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:52 PM
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Fingers crossed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:37 PM
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Of course it’s completely devoid of humour but I’d say that this is literally what men find funny. Telling women to go back to the kitchen, making fun of r*pe, calling us dishwashers etc … these are the running jokes for men. They will laugh at anything if it’s at the expense of women’s dignity. All I can say is, any decent man/woman would see that this is just mindless depravity, has no creativity and certainly not funny. Just an excuse to be rude to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:36 PM
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Their entire channel is just misogynistic, depraved, women hating bullshit. Every guy that watches them is brain dead. Disgusting. Plus that’s been up there for 7 fucking months. So much for equality haha. So much for preventing discrimination online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:44 PM
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Pick mes be like : aw bless him he just doesn’t know how to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:29 PM
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Yeah it’s crazy. Like there’s literally hard proof that men are more violent, more men are killers, the vast majority of rapists are men etc … still we’re gaslighted into believing it’s just a minority and that men can have it just as bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:15 PM
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I understand women want to explain our viewpoint but honestly… u can keep talking and talking and begging men to see our humanity … no use. You’ll go crazy trying to get them to acknowledge our suffering and even when they do, it took so much emotional labour and time that it wasn’t even worth it.Men don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:14 PM
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Yep. Social media platforms pretend to be woke but don’t say SHIT when women are the ones being dehumanised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:55 PM
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I’m ex Muslim, and I know sometimes people are just trying to be ‘open minded’ when they say they tolerate all religions but really the only people that serves is misogynistic, abusive men and definitely not women. Honestly people need to be less tolerant of misogyny in religion. If that makes them ‘religion phobic’ I really don’t care because religion discriminates against women in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:54 PM
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Replace woman with any other oppressed group and YouTube would’ve banned it in 0.3 seconds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:31 PM
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It’s fucking hilarious isn’t it? Sellouts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:07 PM
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I think I saw that, it was a while back on twitter. I cried so much after seeing it, so disturbing. Fuck men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:00 PM
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Islam, just like all religions just oppresses women. It’s so sickening and I’m tired of feminists that actually give a shit about women’s rights being shut down because they’re supposedly ‘racist’ or ‘islamophobic’ for pointing out the raging misogyny in Islam and in countries under sharia law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:42 PM
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I’d rather be told to woman up any day rather than live in fear of male violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:31 PM
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Honestly like how fucking dare he suggest she move there when he knows all her rights as a woman will be stripped. I have read so many horror stories from that country .. women are literally imprisoned if they do not wear hijab in public. It’s a goddamn joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:10 PM
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Please, I don’t know where you live but do not EVER move to Iran. It is literally a shithole for women. Also I’m betting if he’s from there he’s probably a piece of shit too. Dump and forget him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:05 PM
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Yeah haha it’s only natural but the fact that he’s so violent is definitely questionable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:20 PM
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Wow. She’s so disgusting, I cannot stand women that defend violence against women simply because they care for the perpetrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:20 PM
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Exactly. Misogyny is so deep rooted that even within the movement for our freedom, we’re still fucking coddling men. Also men ‘not being able to express their emotions’ is total bs, we all know women can’t show emotion because we’re called hysterical and the second a man is upset or angry women drop everything and run to make sure the man baby is okay. The world literally revolves around their feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:19 PM
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Men really find a way to blame everything on women don’t they. This is literally a product of misogyny and male entitlement but ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:37 AM
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They say this then never provide statistics. I have seen countless women provide actual information and statistics yet men still comment ‘women just lie’ or ‘not all men’. No point trying to get them to listen, they don’t care. Only women are worth reaching lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:08 PM
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Yesss this. How can they expect to be taken seriously when they cry over a fucking game and are basically losers just glued to a screen all day? Literally children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:03 PM
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Gamer men are fucking losers. Grow up and live in the real world. Most of the time they’re shirking their responsibilities and sitting their asses down staring at their screen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:01 PM
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Yup. ‘Incels’ have always been existed because men have always hated women, misogyny is not new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:00 PM
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Jameela Jamil is a libfem idiot but this is the one thing she’s said that makes sense. The rest of the time she just panders to men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:58 PM
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I was going to say I love it because karma but I read the comments and now I’m not so sure … anyways I hope the girl is ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:58 PM
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Yeah and all she does is constantly refer to women as bitches and hoes so … like so many of the popular ‘female empowerment’ rappers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:51 PM
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No idts but she’s viewed as supposedly promoting female empowerment what with her sexually explicit songs/videos that do nothing but reduce women to sexual objects for the male gaze anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:48 PM
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Fuck these pick mes. Seriously. Her own brother is a rapist and she supports him. Fuck her and all her music. Feminist my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:16 PM
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Yes!!! You’re expected to constantly be in a state of self sacrifice. My mum always told me sometimes you just need to let things go otherwise you’ll always be angry and that’s great advice if both men and women took it. Unfortunately it’s only women lol. Idk about u but since I was raised religious there’s also the excuse that you’ll be rewarded in the next life but strange how in most religions it’s only women that need to sacrifice fucking everything for God But men don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:12 AM
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Men say that like women aren’t suffering because men can’t even maintain an erection lol. Btw, if u can’t get hard it’s probably because you’ve watched too much porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:48 PM
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Great example of men not seeing women as humans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:20 PM
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Aka admitting he likes to rape women… which is what all men who like ‘right’ vaginas mean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:00 PM
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Right? Men that want anal are so creepy and gross. They definitely have tiny dicks and have excessively masturbated to porn to the point that not a single vagina will cut it for them anymore. Typical men blaming their issues on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:41 PM
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Probably! He’s also probably used to having sex with women that aren’t turned on so no wonder she feels ‘loose’ to him .,.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:33 PM
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You don’t handle it, you dump him. 2. Why is he even saying that to her like what do u want her to do, magically tighten her vagina?? 3. His dick must be tiny 4. Men have 0 respect for mothers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:30 PM
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Decriminalising men’s right to buy access to women’s bodies. This will only help men. Not a single woman will benefit from this. fuck liberal feminists for pushing this agenda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:21 PM
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Libfem logic lol. Seriously, when will they realise they’re just pandering to violent men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:30 PM
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Yep. Women’s lives are disposable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:28 PM
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If you’re not attracted to him anymore, break up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:25 PM
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Yeah tbh even if you’re rich u can’t escape the law and the depraved mentality of the men there. There are a handful of countries in the entire world where SOME women can (sort of) live a good life, if we’re lucky. Everywhere else is a goddamn nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:19 PM
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I’m sorry, it’s so infuriating to be called those when u just want better for yourself and other women. I know exactly what u mean, I’ve grown up around very religious extremely misogynistic men and women. The men are animals that think they’re entitled to women’s bodies for whatever they need, the women are pickmes that teach their daughters how to be doormats with 0 boundaries or self respect. The women all have the same problems, being disrespected, no time for themselves, no financial power …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:17 PM
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How the fuck are incels not considered terrorists, and how the fuck is misogyny not a hate crime. That’s what I want to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:40 PM
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It’s actually crazy when u think that men discriminate against 50% of the population but misogyny is taken the least seriously compared to other types of discrimination
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:39 PM
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Yeah Saudi (and pretty much any Muslim country) is a shithole for women. They’re not even regarded as fully human. No autonomy, no control over their lives. Male children have more power than adult women. It’s a miserable existence. I’ve been to Saudi too, I’m ex Muslim and I can guarantee your ex is correct. I’m just grateful I’m living in the west tbh and wish the oppression of women in countries ruled by religion was talked about more but ofc everyone’s scared that it’s religionphobic or some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:28 PM
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Tbh men should just all get vasectomies until their female partner decides she wants kids … tired of pretending like we’re the ones who need to control our fertility when it’s men, and only men, that cause the pregnancy risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:26 AM
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Women have been asked to consider male feelings above our safety, comfort, pleasure and general well-being since the beginning of time. Miss me with that ‘mens emotions aren’t taken seriously’ crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:19 AM
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Plus, when women don’t take one out of the millions of fucking ‘precautions’ we’re meant to take, we’re instantly victim blamed, told we’re stupid for being at a certain place at a certain time , wearing the ‘wrong’ clothes, talking to the ‘wrong’ men, etc. If we do take precautions and protect ourselves, we’re man hating, paranoid bitches, if we don’t and something happens, we’re stupid, irresponsible sluts that deserved what we got. Every time, no matter what we do men are absolved of all blam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:17 AM
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Yes my too especially when driving!! When you realise women won the right to drive in Saudi in the past few years only …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:12 AM
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Right? Even when u do smile they just think it’s an invitation to be hit on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:11 AM
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It’s classic gaslighting and misogyny. It’s why women are called fmn*zi bitches for being angry at our mistreatment at the hands of men, why we’re called crazy for being upset that our male partners cheat on us, why we’re supposedly miserable and bitter for daring to oppose the patriarchy. I’ve been called a man hater more times than I can count, by friends and family, people on the internet, pretty much everyone, all because I don’t think women should be treated like shit and because I actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:01 AM
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Plus they wouldn’t get the rush of power like they do when they abuse women which they so desperately need to prove their manhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:16 AM
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That girl is so brainwashed man. Yes it is fucking creepy that u were a baby when ur partner was 20. Why can’t he get a woman his own age? Because they’re not as easy to manipulate. There is something wrong with a man who can only ‘relate’ to women 20 years younger than him. It’s not a coincidence that old ass men repeatedly go after young women. It’s not normal either. Fuck women ur own age, damn. I’m young and attractive I sure as hell don’t want a wrinkly old dude. Fuck outta here with that b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:44 PM
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He’ll probably get off Scott free what with being a man and a police officer. The system works to benefit abusive men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:08 PM
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Again, why don’t men just fuck eachother since they hate women so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:00 PM
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Yeah the comments are a joke. The point completely flew over their heads. Honestly though Kevin samuels sounds like an incel woman hater and his entire audience are just misogynist abusers that live to suck the joy from women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:44 PM
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Yeah literally such textbook misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:34 PM
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I really don’t know how this is a burn because no, feminists aren’t going to be happy. Not because we’re alone and bitter forever but knowing the reality of women’s global suffering is fucking depressing. Being aware of what happens to women and seeing it happen in your own life too is awful. So yeah, feminists aren’t going to be running around happy and laughing because there isn’t much to be happy about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:33 PM
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I’m gonna be real men that call women bitches are misogynists, run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:13 PM
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Right? Men are so deluded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:12 PM
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That’s so fucking horrible, what a bastard. There truly is no other explanation other than they do not give a fuck about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:06 PM
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It’s emotional manipulation. That paired with their extreme sense of entitlement. They literally just do not care about us. We are pretty much a means to sex for them. That’s why men can have sex (rape) their parents who are not into it or in pain etc. It’s easy not to empathise with someone when you believe they are inferior to you. We’ve ALWAYS been taught that we have to take care of their sexual needs with no regards for our own. If blue balls really are a thing which they aren’t, women have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:04 PM
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When you read about men’s ‘problems’ and half laugh, half cry at how easy they have it. I wish women’s biggest issue was being rejecting by pretty boys in high school. I fucking wish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:00 PM
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Not sure what he means by ‘crazy’ but the majority of violent crimes are committed by men. We ain’t the ones shooting up schools honey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:53 PM
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Men with financial power over women have always abused them. When women have complete financial control over men we still pander to them when we should be kicking them to the curb for being no good lazy fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:52 PM
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Men cause every single dead bedroom. Men are the cause of women’s low libido. Men and their awful behaviour. Women want sex. Men strip away our desire for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:54 PM
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Men are not fucking owed sex. It is not a human right. Women’s libido fluctuates whether it be due to pms, pregnancy, too much domestic labour etc. Men really knock women up, shove ALL the parental and domestic work on them and then expect women to still have the mental or physical energy for sex. I’m sure some women do just have lower libidos or maybe sometimes it’s due to a medical issue but majority of the time when I hear ‘he wants it way more than me’ I’ll bet it’s because there’s an imbala…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:51 PM
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Definitely, and I wish they would wash their hands after using the toilet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:08 PM
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Exactly right. Men literally don’t put ANY effort into their looks and it’s upsetting to see women spend so much time and money on staying young when majority of the time we look more attractive than men anyways. Men need to do SO much better and women need to care less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:07 PM
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Oh it’s not nice to hear people say dehumanising things about you? Really, Male?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:11 AM
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Men do not use skincare. Men are allowed to age. Why should we be fighting to stay youthful when ageing is inevitable. Yes trying to look your best is fine, no we shouldn’t be afraid to look ‘old’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:10 AM
34

Oof she’s brave to post this online whilst showing her face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:15 AM
49

Btw, the reason all the ‘house stuff’ falls to her is not because she’s a student. It’s because she’s a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:01 PM
59

Religious women are totally lost tbh. If God has told you your needs don’t matter and all you exist to do is please your husband then … that’s what you’re going to do. I’ll bet that woman has major ptsd and hates her life. I feel sorry for her even though she’s an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:59 PM
48

Honestly women can’t get good advice ANYWHERE. Most women are pick mes, forget men and even if you go on the internet you’ll be immediately blamed and told to shut up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:58 PM
6

Police are an enemy to women. Specifically male police. Men + positions of power = bad news for women. Not to mention the terrible victim blaming attitude they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:56 PM
44

Very true. I wonder why some women are able to break through the brainwashing and some aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:54 PM
173

Why. WHY do women not respect themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:44 AM
6

Omg she is hilarious. Men are so stupid they prove us right every damn day. Women should never settle because if we do we are setting ourselves up for a lifetime of misogynistic abuse and bad treatment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:00 PM
2

Women need to be more haughty. If a man gets upset he can piss off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:24 PM
1

I see your point but isn’t this a good vetting strategy? If her wanting him to pay upsets him it’ll be like taking the trash out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:22 PM
4

I wish all men went there loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:14 PM
48

She’s a pick me, the article is trash and Ashton kutcher is even more trash. Men really just impregnate women and dip. That’s how easy fatherhood is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:28 PM
11

Men are out here making up terms for non existent discrimination against them. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:03 AM
1

‘Men provide so women can stay home and be treated like queens’ okkkkkk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:15 PM
2

If anything women have been conditioned to love and put up with men even if they’re abusive … not to mention if they’re just subpar pieces of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:12 PM
3

Pick mes are a disgrace to all women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:10 PM
5

You’ll end up becoming his unpaid therapist. Dump.
/r/askFDS26/07/21 05:46 PM
54

Honestly birth control is a fucking joke. Women are out here having mood swings, pain, depression etc so their ain’t shit dude can cum in them… and most likely they aren’t even enjoying the sex. Sorry but it’s better to be celibate than destroy your body for shitty sex … even if it’s good sex it’s not worth it. Vasectomy, natural methods of bc or condoms. Breast cancer ain’t worth no dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:34 PM
11

How … how is misogyny not classed as a hate crime or terrorism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:18 PM
15

He isn’t sexist because of inexperience. He hates women and doesn’t deserve to be near any of them. What the fuck is wrong with people that think a woman can ‘fix’ a misogynistic man. Why should a woman bear that load? Fuck that, fuck this pick me and definitely fuck that guy. We aren’t here to help men and sort out their literal hatred of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:17 PM
68

Ah yes I’m so sorry my pain and suffering is an inconvenience to u. Men are vile,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:14 PM
1

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:08 PM
5

Seriously men only say this because they don’t see anything of value in women other than sex. They can’t find us funny because they don’t even fully see us as humans. They’re only focused on trying to get inside us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:10 AM
1

Lmao ‘if you owned what you got’ shut up coomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:07 AM
3

I’m angry but I don’t know how to release it. At this point I think I’ve repressed it so much it’s actually causing me health problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:06 AM
61

‘The Court favours women’ MY ASSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:59 AM
1

Yep. I wish more women would be honest like you. Tired of hearing the same ‘it’s not that bad’ or ‘it’ll be worth it’. Also I’m sorry that sounds so awful, hope you’re doing ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:57 AM
1

Yeah that’s what I think too. Women feel bad to complain about the horrors of pregnancy and childbirth so they don’t seem ‘heartless’ and ungrateful for having a child. I’m not a big believer in children being a blessing anyways but you can be happy about having a child and also complain about the extreme pain and suffering you are going through. Why are women demonised for not wanting to be in pain or for having trauma from that pain. Obviously the answer is misogyny :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:55 AM
1

Seems like naturally women are just meant to literally sacrifice their life for a new one. To me childbirth is just torture. I cannot fathom how blasé most men (and women) are about it. It is most traumatic thing a human being can go through and yes, it can be joyous but why do we all pretend like it’s not just 99% suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:53 AM
2

I’m so sorry, that’s awful. Pick me Mother in laws are bastards. So are their sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:50 AM
33

Too many women sacrificing their lives for subpar men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:09 AM
141

Everyone literally just lies about the pain of going through pregnancy childbirth. Women can’t know the suffering or none of us would choose to have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:35 AM
100

Of all the oppressed groups in the world, the one that for sure has the most self-hatred is women. How men managed to make women accept their ‘inferiority’ whether it be through religion, culture etc... I don’t know but they did. It’s unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:24 PM
57

Exactly!!! True feminism is goddamn depressing because you’re literally exposed to so much violence and hatred against women. Liberal feminism just pretends all the problems we have don’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:18 PM
24

I struggle with this all the time. One minute you think you know what I’m not going to let misogyny and men hold me back. Then something happens that makes u want to crawl back into ur room and never leave it again. It is truly shit to be female
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:29 PM
9

Man I’m sorry. This must be awful. All I can say is continuing to clean up after him is exactly what u shouldn’t do. Fuck giving men ur free labour. I agree with the people saying you should move out, until u do, do u think u could handle living in a dirty house? Honestly anything is better than cleaning up after men.
/r/askFDS09/07/21 08:42 PM
2

I’m sorry to hear that. Anger is a normal and healthy reaction to mistreatment. I hope you are doing ok and yes, use your anger to your advantage. Never taking bs from a man is the goal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:22 PM
218

Sorry but even if you are a wife you shouldn’t be doing domestic labour for a man 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:19 PM
1

Omg I love this loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:08 PM
142

Men and society tell women it’s not okay to be angry about our bad treatment at the hands of men. Don’t stop being angry. Anger protects us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:13 PM
9

Yeah definitely. It takes years to undo the internalised misogyny. At a certain point though u can hold them accountable. I’m ex Muslim, I was brainwashed but I managed to overcome it. I do feel sorry for them but at the same time they uphold and encourage patriarchal values so they need to be held accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:08 PM
212

Facts. Most men are not worth partnering with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:05 PM
22

Libfems do not give a shit about women’s rights. It doesn’t make sense to just ignore misogyny just because it’s part of a religion or culture. They’re so scared of being ‘racist’ or ‘islamaphobic’ that they hang women out to dry. They’re not scared to be misogynistic though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:28 AM
23

I hope so. And I hope women that weren’t brought up under religious rule understand that it’s ok to criticise religion, it’s not Islamaphobic and that pretending Muslim women don’t suffer is a massive disservice to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:04 PM
61

If you wanna find pickmes you don’t have to look further than Muslim girls. I’m telling you the brainwashing starts young and it doesn’t stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:02 PM
68

Yeah because unfortunately when feminists critique it they’re instantly deemed racist 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:01 PM
34

So sorry you’re forced to wear it. Anyone that stands for Islam or any other religion is complicit in the abuse and oppression of women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:01 PM
24

Again, this is straight up abuse and it’s crazy how terrible behaviour from men has been normalised to the point that women can’t even distinguish between acceptable and unacceptable treatment. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, women are mass gaslighted from the minute we’re born. Gaslighted into ignoring our gut instincts, our right to be respected and treated as equal human beings. If something like this happened to a man he would know instantly that it’s not on and the relationship wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:58 PM
92

Nah. Take his money and move on. He’s a weirdo. Not worth it. Btw, men asking women if they can cook is a HUGE red flag and very sexist.
/r/askFDS05/07/21 10:43 PM
74

Yeah I’d say men that exclusively text after 9:30 pm are just looking for nudes or sex. You have all day to talk to me bro? Stop hitting me up when you’re bored and horny at the end of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:09 PM
152

Yep. Women actually need to stop forgiving men. We do it too goddamn much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:06 PM
273

Yeah I’ve been told to forgive the guy that assaulted me like ... no. It’s not going to help. Men don’t fucking deserve forgiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:51 PM
1

I think it’s a crime punishable by death to leave Islam in some Middle Eastern countries but I’m not too sure. Obviously even in the west when people try to leave they could be killed by family members or the community etc. It just depends on how extreme their beliefs are. I know people that would definitely disown their kids for leaving, even my parents might but I don’t know. I feel so bad for that girl. That’s in a country in the west too. Imagine how bad it is for women in Saudi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:17 AM
8

I’m in the west too. They’re not treated like queens in any part of the world because the religion does not allow it. It’s just something Muslims say to avoid accountability. Islam is misogynistic to its very core. Doesn’t matter which way you interpret the Quran or the hadiths. Muslim women are definitely delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:05 AM
5

Exactly. Men keep their mouths shut when we talk about ACTUAL issues that affect us like sexual harassment, having to take on all unpaid domestic labour, pay gap etc but suddenly have so much to say when we ask them to provide financially ... bearing in mind THEY created the system in which they have all financial control. It’s so hypocritical of men and women to say it’s about equality ... how does making a woman spend more money benefit women 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:54 AM
37

Religion has got to be the biggest scam on this planet. Billions of women forced into submission because men made them believe god created them as inferior. Being a woman growing up in a religious household is not fucking easy. It takes years to undo the brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:47 AM
5

Yeah they always say women are treated like queens in Islam yadda yadda don’t mix culture with religion like ex Muslims can’t differentiate between cultural practices and the actual religion. It’s fucking delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:42 AM
79

When pink tax doesn’t exist too! This isn’t about equality. Men are just broke and want free sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:18 PM
31

I swear to god liberal feminists are just pick mes. Useless activism, male pandering, women hating pick mes. Feminism is about women. We shouldn’t care about men. Thats it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:18 PM
70

Yup. Stress free, drama free, not having to put up with additional misogyny...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:15 PM
7

I got a self harm message too. I thought it was probably some dumb male thinking he’s funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:10 PM
34

‘She reacted poorly’ how else is she meant to react u dumbass? Men are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:35 AM
5

And men cry that vasectomies are worth than childbirth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:51 AM
2

Exactly why I’m never using bc and if I did end up in a long term relationship, it’s condoms or vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:50 AM
9

Yeah as if women aren’t human beings with feelings just like men. Tbh, most Muslim women I know get upset at the notion of their husband taking on another wife, but they’d still accept it because they believe they have to. Religious brainwashing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:22 AM
19

Ditto. Awful religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:20 AM
35

I was brought up Muslim. There is nothing wrong with pointing out that religions are usually misogynistic. I don’t think religions/cultures are exempt from Criticism. We should worry less about offending religious people and more about educating women and not allowing disgusting practices to continue simply because they’re part of a religion. As an ex Muslim I find it fucking infuriating when people try to deny the suffering Muslim women go through. I’ve been through it, I know. Most religions a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:17 AM
52

We get paid less than men and here we are spending probably triple the amount they do to look good FOR them. That’s the patriarchy tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:12 AM
94

Yup. Women spend all that time and effort to look visually appealing to men, so men should pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:11 AM
28

aka the bare minimum and pretty much what every man will receive in a relationship with a woman anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:52 PM
306

This really just proves men use women for sex, domestic labour and offspring until they’re ‘too old’, then discard them for a younger ‘hotter’ woman, completely disregarding all the effort, labour and sacrifices their wives have made for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:09 AM
13

Yeah that’s probably a good tactic. It’s sad that we have to be on edge and act cold to keep them interested. Tbh though I’d say that if a guy loses interest that quick he’s a waste of time anyways. I’ve never really online dated so I was referring to irl interactions but it’s probably worse OLD lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:42 PM
39

The weirdest thing is once you do show mutual attraction they disappear... it’s like they only want a challenge lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:18 PM
85

Massive red flag. I always felt it was based on misogyny too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:10 PM
12

Men as a whole are way more violent and aggressive than women, without any reason to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:03 PM
76

Yup. Men aren’t allowed to express their emotions my ass. We have suppressed trauma that we keep inside for years because we will be gaslight and disbelieved the second we speak about it. Women’s mental health is definitely in a far worse condition than men’s and it’s because we all have shared trauma CAUSED by men and misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:44 PM
3

Right? The standard for ‘good men’ is so appallingly low ... ‘he doesn’t beat women ... goals’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:31 PM
1

How are men not embarrassed that they do such little work... they are so goddamn lazy. Glad he’s Ur ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:27 PM
75

Arranged marriages are the devils creation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:35 AM
148

This is why women being housewives will never work. Unpaid, unappreciated and disrespected. We’re expected to just be there to tend to all the unimportant and boring chores + be mothers so men can go out and live their best lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:15 PM
23

Well men being porn addicted abusive misogynistic assholes isn’t natural either but what can u do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:40 PM
37

You’re not overreacting. Normal men do not follow or look at hundreds (or even one) of pretty girls posting revealing pictures. Women don’t go and lust over other men when they’re in relationships. It’s not okay. You’re right, I’m sorry this happened but remember it’s his fault not yours. Men are brilliant liars and will say anything to make u believe they are your dream man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:23 PM
6

I just wanna meet women that aren’t raging pick mes 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:07 PM
25

Nah men can’t be friends with women. Cut that one off
/r/askFDS24/06/21 07:44 AM
6

Idk why but the only HVW I’ve met are on the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:40 AM
8

I’m sorry. Something similar happened to me recently .... it’s disturbing how women with internalised misogyny will prioritise horrible men over everyone else in their life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:39 AM
144

Oof when a man dares to even open his mouth regarding how much domestic work a woman does ... run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:37 AM
8

They do need to be shamed I just wish there was a way we could do it without putting ourselves in danger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:36 AM
5

Definitely. Men shirk all parental responsibilities, even if the courts did favour women (which they don’t) it would make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:34 AM
21

The fear of male violence is what keeps all women in check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:33 AM
5

I understand. I think each situation is different and we have to assess the risk and whether or not it’s worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:32 AM
37

If only men put in as much effort into raising their kids and being good partners as they did screaming about how women steal their children away from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:35 PM
165

Women do not have reproductive responsibility. We don’t owe men, society, the world or the greater good SHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:34 PM
112

Men are so pathetic. I’m not sure how I feel about women standing up to men in public as it can easily turn violent but when they do, I’m very proud. Well done, I’m sorry this happened but I’m happy he backed off at least. I’m honestly so torn between keeping women safe and putting men in their places. Maybe more men need to be shouted at. After all they pretty much get to harass women with 0 consequences so maybe they need some.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:32 PM
1

All pick mes do is play themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:05 PM
84

And men wonder why we hate them having female friends. It’s because to them ‘Every hole is a goal’. They admit it all the time. That’s why it should be Acceptable for women in relationships to have male friends but not vice verse. Women do not view every interaction with the opposite sex as a possible opportunity to get laid. Men literally do. Sorry not sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:17 PM
58

Always baffles me how women can advocate for religions, ideologies and cultures that cause only their downfall. You are shooting yourself in the foot. As a woman you will never EVER win by pandering to men and not putting yourself and all women first. What the hell did you expect? You spend your life reinforcing the idea that men are superior to women then you are surprised that they treat you as inferior. Cba with pick mes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:15 PM
79

Yeah definitely. As if the can’t find another man to help them? They only talk to us if they have ulterior motives. Most of the time men think women are incompetent dumbasses so why is it that we are in public alone and vulnerable suddenly men treat us like we’re the only people around with brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:10 PM
27

Men don’t even lie to protect their female partners feelings let alone women’s feelings in general. We need to be more honest with ourselves and men about what we find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:20 PM
9

Female pain is never taken seriously by men. The fact that he actually had to experience it himself to show some sympathy (ish) is very telling of how he views women and our experiences. It’s pretty pathetic that men can’t just have empathy and literally need to experience it themselves ... just be normal human beings and believe people when they say they’re in pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:14 PM
9

I’m really sick of seeing women gaslight themselves and refer to themselves as ‘annoying’ or imply that their husbands/bfs have to ‘deal with their crazy behaviour’... these men are awful and they just don’t care about you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:09 PM
9

Imagine if women mutilated men’s genitals because we’re so disgusted by male sexuality ... imagine if we shot up schools ... imagine if we beat men for rejecting us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:32 PM
29

Men are such bums. Can’t even do the bare minimum the patriarchy requires them to do. Make money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:28 PM
72

Yup. Really wish I had read this exact post 3 years ago. All I have to say is don’t send shit you’ll regret sending. You can never take it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:26 PM
28

I think just ask how she’s getting there and if she’s taking an Uber pay her back or send her the money
/r/askFDS19/06/21 11:12 AM
39

It’s not just dating. It’s living as a woman in general. Sexual harassment, misogynistic gender roles, inequality in the workplace, sexist comments, being spoken down to, beauty standards, porn, cultural misogyny, religious misogyny... I could go on and on. As women we deal with discrimination from the moment we enter this world to the moment we leave. It’s difficult to even comprehend how much women go through on a daily basis purely because of men. Even the most privileged woman will have to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:08 AM
3

Yep me too. Unfortunately I think when we’ve repeatedly been exposed to awful men and have only had bad experiences, it’s only natural we’ll just give up entirely. I do think good men exist, I’ve never come across one though. Every man I know is a raging misogynist lol. Pretty sad that we have to resort to staying single as a form of self defence ... still better than being mistreated but it’s a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:57 AM
3

It’s sad and disturbing. Then they wonder why more women are becoming child free and staying single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:54 AM
3

Right? Thing is I think they just wanna have their cake and eat it too. They want us to put all the effort in and be stupid little bangmaid whilst they have to do NOTHING ... works out really well for them even though sometimes it may backfire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:52 AM
7

If you’re scaring off men you’re doing something right. Keep ur face sour and weed out all the overgrown male children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:51 AM
2

I can’t work out if they’re stupid or if they just want to put as little effort in as possible ... either way they’re not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:49 AM
2

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:48 AM
14

Glad to be of service haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:48 AM
49

Yes that is literally exactly what Muslim guys do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:47 AM
6

Anytime
/r/askFDS19/06/21 07:40 AM
84

If only they realised they could escape all their suffering by not approaching women in the first place .. seeing as most of the time we don’t actually want to talk to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:36 AM
75

Why aren’t people focusing on this more. This should be all parents number one concern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:48 PM
24

Think about him taking a dump. Works every time
/r/askFDS18/06/21 04:19 PM
25

5’4 girl that’s not a man that’s an elf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:38 AM
31

My ex did this to me!!! I asked him why he was such a piece of shit and he said ‘I didn’t want to lose you’ and ‘you’re way hotter than me and I didn’t know how to have a relationship with you’ funny because his poor treatment of me was the exact reason I became fed up and left his sorry ass. I was way out of his league and he knew it. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:37 AM
53

That’s horrible I’m sorry. It’s crazy how a man can literally increase anxiety. They’re supposed to make our lives easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:34 AM
348

How strange is it that relationships with men are essentially a burden on women when they’re supposed to enrich our lives and create opportunities for us to make meaningful bonds with our potential life partners ... what have men done to love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:33 AM
1

Yup. They’re all bastards. They raise useless sons and then hate the women that fuck their sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:55 PM
5

Pregnancy isn’t for everyone. Don’t feel bad for not wanting it. Women aren’t born to have children and there is nothing wrong with you if u do not have a maternal instinct or desire babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:54 PM
1

Lol this is what happens when you’re a feminist and u share your beliefs with people. You never know what weird reaction you’re going to get. Gotta vet men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:50 PM
15

Yeah they just literally don’t give a fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:37 PM
14

LVM and pick me liberal feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:37 PM
14

How did we get to the point where abusing women during sex is cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:37 PM
2

Exactly. We do not wish harm on men (unless they’ve been abusive to women) we simply want to escape them. Men actively go out of their way to abuse us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:45 AM
2

It drives me mad. Even in the movement for our freedom women are expected to put others first. Misogyny is inescapable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:40 AM
46

Yesss throw all those thongs in the trash where they belong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:28 PM
148

Women are already cracking. If someone tells me feminists just hate men ONE MORE TIME. I swear to god. We ‘hate’ men because they treat women like dirt. We SHOULD hate people that abuse us. Why are women expected to have so little pride, dignity and self love that we should care for the same people that humiliate and oppress us on a daily basis? We would not be telling any other oppressed group on this earth to be more inclusive or mindful of their oppressors. It’s just mass gaslighting and inva…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:15 PM
28

Give men a fraction of the shit treatment they give us, their worlds will implode. They cannot fathom us not putting them first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:38 AM
20

Yeah it’s hard to connect with people when you’re aren’t even sure if they view you as fully human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:10 AM
6

The least men can do is spend on us ... seeing as they provide nothing else in relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:06 AM
4

Why’s he crying that he’s gotta support a child that he fucking made? Men are so deluded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:42 PM
3

Exactly and we don’t ever ask them to alter their bodies to fit some unrealistic ideal ... we just want them to be healthy, fit, clean and well- groomed. They want us to completely change our appearance to the point that a woman in her natural state is ugly to them ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:41 PM
4

Yeah the internet has made me lose all hope for men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:38 PM
39

She is genuinely so much better looking than him omg.... he’s obese and bald
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:59 PM
2

Haha but all these b*tches keep taking their kids away from them right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:41 AM
5

Or even being called a bitch by the scrote that got u pregnant lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:35 AM
9

Hearing about the way men act in the delivery room, I think they shouldn’t even be allowed in there anymore. Let women give birth with their female relatives and the midwives present. Men are a fuckinf burden and just make the whole process worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:27 AM
25

But we’re supposed to be sympathetic to male problems yeah 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:25 AM
95

Why are we encouraging the sex that already don’t even put the minimum effort into their looks and maintain basic hygiene. If we tell them they’re perfect as they are (which they already believe) they’re going to just carry on having unwashed asses and terrible self care ... men NEED to be body shamed. Women pay so much money, put so much time and effort into our looks just so we can resemble some unnatural female beauty ideal and we think we need to tell men they’re perfect? Hell no. You do nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:23 AM
102

Every goddamn social media platform silences women. Twitter, Instagram, Reddit ... all of it. But men making rape and death threats are allowed on all these platforms lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:08 AM
15

Haha I hope those two guys live miserable lives alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:57 PM
14

No way lmao why should u go to an unfamiliar city to meet some random guy u don’t know? If he had a brain he’d realise that’s inconvenient and dangerous for you. He’s deluded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:13 PM
3

It’s weird. The whole concept of bdsm should just be eliminated. That being said I’d rather see men being beaten during sex than women lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:50 AM
33

I mean it just proves that men are literally only nice to girls they want to fuck and they think it’s an incredibly generous act to show human decency to women they’re not attracted to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:31 PM
42

Men are psychopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:34 PM
17

It literally doesn’t trust me I’ve gone from one extreme to the other, only thing that changed is the type of men that prey on me. Wear cute fits when you feel comfortable to do so. Be safe!
/r/askFDS08/06/21 08:50 PM
47

For fucks sake there are so many thing wrong with this. It’s not love babe. You’re fucking traumatised and you need to get out. How is this considered ok in heterosexual relationships. He’s literally abusing her physically and mentally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:43 PM
89

I used to cover head to toe. Men catcalled me and followed me. It doesn’t change shit. I totally get where you’re coming from though, showing more skin unfortunately makes men think you’re ‘easy’ or whatever. I usually dress that way when I’m with other people because I feel unsafe when I’m alone.
/r/askFDS08/06/21 08:36 PM
18

Men face little to no consequences for their nudes being leaked. The majority of people are sympathetic to them unlike when women nudes are leaked. If it happens to a woman, her image is destroyed. All respect is lost for her. No wonder they think it isn’t traumatising or worth it for money, if it happened for free they wouldn’t even be shamed for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:21 PM
9

Why don’t female only gyms exist
/r/askFDS08/06/21 08:23 AM
129

My mum had to get my grandma (her side) to come and help out every time she had a baby like she didn’t have a whole ass husband who btw didn’t lift a finger with household chores and taking care of the babies. No wonder my grandma hates my dad lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:36 PM
17

Man of the house but doesn’t know how to operate the washing machine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:55 PM
18

Mission impossible for men to wash their own undies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:53 PM
21

I haven’t ever been to a club or any environment where men and women mix and alcohol is involved. I protect myself in pretty much every way imaginable, I don’t go out alone, don’t go out at night, avoid dodgy areas etc ... the only thing I don’t want to change is the way I dress... solely because when it’s hot I don’t want to cover up, I want to wear shorts or a dress because it’s more comfortable. It honestly makes me angry to think that I have to be smothered and sweaty because men are creeps …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:51 PM
13

They enjoy making women suffer ... that’s what they masturbate to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:41 AM
9

I was trying to be optimistic haha I definitely think women experience misogyny a lot more often than once Men actively choose to hurt us every day. Even men that are supposedly meant to understand our pain eg rape victims ... they’re all fucking self serving assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:40 AM
123

Perfect example of society literally falling into disrepair because scrotes cannot do anything for themselves. They rely on us so heavily it’s embarazzing. All of this could be fixed if men moved their asses a bit more and took on more domestic work and didn’t treat women that worked like shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:07 AM
133

Yeah the thought crossed my mind too. After all we are literally just incubators to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:05 AM
209

But men are meant to be in charge, right? Righttttt...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:19 AM
189

Men get mad about us wanting big penises (just so we can reach orgasm) but have made women so insecure about our bodies that we’re literally getting labiaplasties, waxing all our body hair off, wearing makeup and heels, dying and chemically altering our hair, getting our nails done, boob jobs, nose jobs, tummy tucks, BBLs etc etc ... half of these standards stem from pedophillia too and some are extremely dangerous ... men need to fuck off. Men have ridiculous and unnatural requirements for wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:53 PM
132

I don’t think there’s a woman alive that hasn’t experienced misogyny at least once in her life ... that should tell you what % of men are misogynistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:44 PM
23

That’s terrible. Sometimes I feel like the pill and other methods of contraception such as IUDs are a double edged sword. On the one hand BC freed women from the burden of motherhood and the ability to have reproductive control but on the other hand women are paying the price by enduring the increased risk of cancer, awful side effects and the responsibility of birth control. I’m so glad you left him. How can he have the nerve to not get a vasectomy or wear condoms but on top of that, complains …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:35 PM
97

Marriage shouldn’t be your goal in life. Try to focus on other things eg career, friends, hobbies etc. Also you’re only 23! Finding a HVM may take years, it may never happen and you need to be okay with that. It’s better to be single than with a man that sucks the happiness out of you and only causes stress. ESPECIALLY if you want kids.
/r/askFDS06/06/21 09:22 PM
31

Gaslighting has got to be the number one thing I’m going to be on the lookout for ... my ex would literally gaslight me til I felt like I was going insane. My brother does it too. Seems to be a trend amongst men who don’t want to take responsibility for their actions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:04 PM
47

You brought it on yourself u dumb male. Literally how can u go on social media and speak on a topic you have little to no knowledge on, then get upset when you get dragged and your ‘character is brutally assassinated ’. No mate, you made a fool of yourself and you have to beg women to fix your mess just like men always do. Btw, vasectomies are reversible and men should be on birth control, not women. There are so many awful side effects of hormonal birth control that can last for YEARS after not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:42 PM
19

Glad to see that there were some women with sense commenting under the first post. Hope she’s okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:21 PM
117

Not sure about male strippers but when I see women’s bodies commodified eg porn, stripping etc I feel sorry for the women put in those positions, I feel angry that men treat them like objects to be bought and sold, I feel sick that society as a whole acts like the entire sex industry isn’t just female slavery. Everyone either turns a blind eye or blames it on women. I cannot see men lining up outside strip clubs without being reminded of our unending suffering. How can we ever feel like we’re re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:18 PM
41

I’m so sorry. ‘Sex addictions’ are no excuse for cheating and if he was prepared to cheat because he wasn’t having constant access to sex from you, he shouldn’t be in a relationship. It will take time but you will heal. Remember you are not crazy, he is just evil. Try to get out as soon as you can. I hope you’re okay ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:10 PM
28

LITERALLY! ‘My wife just gave birth and she’s not sucking my cock and tending to me constantly? She’s actually spending time and caring for our baby?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:03 PM
10

Waaaa my girlfriend doesn’t pay attention to me 24/7 or cook me food and it makes me feel insecure. Honestly, what is it with men getting jealous over their partners PETS? How pathetic are you? Just enjoy the animals company or leaveeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:00 PM
3

He was probably shocked that a man was choosing a woman over him. Men are used to throwing women under the bus for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:58 PM
3

Cackles in sane, happy, stress free woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:57 PM
2

Haha please feel free to use it on as many pick mes as you’d like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:55 PM
2

YES! I also come from a traditional religious family and I’ve heard countless men talk about the multiple (4+) kids they want, they have NO concern for the women they plan to impregnate, they act as though pregnancy and birth has little to no effect on women’s lives, they completely disregard the fact that a whole WOMAN is needed to create a child. They behave and talk as if what happens to the woman’s body is irrelevant to having kids. The same men that want many or even one child are usually t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:54 PM
3

Yep. Tell a man that you don’t want kids and he’ll try to convince you you’re cold, you’ll just ‘grow out of it’, you’re naturally meant to want kids, you should do it for him etc etc ... they do not give a fuck about us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:44 PM
1

Men never fail to leech off women in every possible way do they
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:43 PM
87

I noticed this too when watching the show. Honestly most of the problems can be blamed on the father. One overworked person cannot also parent multiple or even one child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:13 PM
11

This is genuinely sickening. I cannot believe he’s actually shocked that she left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:11 PM
187

Finally a dude does something decent and other men will literally be angry that he treats women like people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:04 PM
16

Loool you’re welcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:40 PM
233

Why would u actively chase the same people we are trying to escape from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:43 PM
54

It’s funny because they probably think it’s a compliment that they’re 24/7 trying to fuck us. Can men not be attracted to women in a healthy way or ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:46 PM
6

Yeah they probably did initially put in effort only for him to do something to put them off. Idiot scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:37 PM
3

Wait what??? What the actual hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:35 PM
3

Thank you I’ll check it out !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:35 PM
6

Yes exactly! If a woman calls me baby or love I have no issue with it. There are no creepy undertones and obviously women in general are way less threatening than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:35 PM
6

I see, I wouldn’t know anything about southern culture but generally I’d say it’s pretty condescending for men to call women ‘sweetie’ ‘darling’ or ‘love’. They only speak to women in that way and it’s intentional. Plus I don’t want creepy old dudes to call me love lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:34 PM
82

Honestly you can reject men even if you’re bisexual? Straight radfem women reject men all the time. I’m not sure as to whether you’re lesbian or not, but I definitely think it’s fine to choose not to date/engage with men in a romantic manner. Also, if you’re comfortable with telling men you’re lesbian, just do it lol. They won’t know either way.
/r/askFDS04/06/21 05:00 PM
81

This is why I have trouble hanging around women because the majority of them, especially older women have been extremely misogynistic. Recently I’ve decided I’m not going to hang around pick mes anymore and if that means I have no friends then so be it. I honestly cannot think of a single woman other than my sister and one friend (that had YEARS of misogyny drilled into her head to undo) in my life that aren’t stupid and brainwashed. I don’t like these women, I don’t want to relate to them and e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:22 PM
148

THIS! My ex wanted kids (I never ever want them) and it seemed like the only reason was to raise ‘good religious kids’ and he literally told me he planned to beat them if they misbehaved. I obviously told him that’s fucked up to which he then used to try and coerce me into the idea of having kids by saying ‘see you’d make such a good mother’ MATE. Not hitting your kids is the bare minimum. Also I just don’t feel men have the right to want children. They aren’t the ones doing 100% of the brunt wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:41 PM
9

I had to block my ex on every single social media platform lmao. These motherfuckers don’t respect themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:14 PM
28

With her own money as well?? What is wrong with men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:13 PM
11

People with peanut allergies DIE when they come into contact with peanuts. He is literally trying to murder her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:11 PM
22

She thinks it’s just her opinion that finding sexual compatibility as a woman is more difficult to find 😂 honey that’s a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:09 PM
30

This is depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:05 PM
293

This is why men that want kids scare me. Since they’re notorious for being depraved fucks with no concern for women’s feelings and safety, I fear that their desire for children puts the woman they’re with in even more danger. They’re willing to do anything to get what they want. Absolute animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:04 PM
47

Um where are the thousands of cases of rejected women killing men? I don’t see them. Where are all the men murdered, raped, harassed, stalked and verbally abused for breaking up with or rejecting women? They dont exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:08 AM
274

They really believe we’re just meant to lie there while they USE us. No concern for our orgasm or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:11 PM
266

I wish I had older women like this in my life. What a queen. Also judging by her description of having sex with him, sounds like he was a porn addict
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:10 PM
5

Yeah that’s a valid point too. I also have family with disabled children and the help they receive is appalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:01 PM
93

Yup, in the uk women will be referred to as ‘love’ ‘darling’ etc. I’ve yet to hear a man being called these words...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:00 PM
323

Has he ever thought maybe those women just don’t like him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:39 PM
41

Uh sorry women don’t want you because you’re a misogynistic freak, not because you’re a ‘beta’ whatever the hell that means
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:13 PM
34

What the fuck man. I can’t say I’m surprised but honestly, wow. What a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:41 PM
10

Yes exactly! Honestly even reading about other women’s experiences can be painful not only because it’s disturbing but because a lot of the time we can relate to them. It’s ok to take breaks and come back when you’re ready and feeling less overwhelmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:37 PM
3

Do men not realise vaginas have to stretch to accommodate a babies head? What a tool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:35 PM
2

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry you had to deal with that. Hearing about men’s complete lack of empathy and compassion for women is so upsetting. I feel so sad for women who went through unimaginable pain to birth their partners child, only to be laughed at or have their experiences invalidated. It honestly makes me feel like women should never have children again because you just never know if the man you’re with is secretly making jokes about your private parts or finding your pain amusing. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:34 PM
1

Honestly out of all the horrible things men do to women, laughing at your wife giving birth to your child has to be top 5. The lack of empathy is disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:30 PM
26

I have to take breaks from all feminist platforms every few months. I’ll probably take a break from FDS too. Don’t get me wrong this sub is amazing but seeing and reading about horrible things that happen to women every day can really negatively impact your mental health. To be honest I find it incredibly difficult to deal with. I try to ignore misogyny I see on a daily basis too because I know getting angry over things I can’t control just makes me feel helpless and overwhelmed. I try to give m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:44 AM
70

I’ve thought about this a lot myself actually. I’ve seen a lot of libfems say it’s ableist to abort a child that may be disabled, physically or mentally. I don’t know if I agree with that because it’s the woman who will have to deal with that child for the rest of her life. She’ll be giving up the next 40+ years to raise a child that will never be capable of independence (depending on how disabled they are). I understand their POV (disabled people are just as important as able bodied people) but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:38 AM
2

Thanks for clarifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:34 AM
82

Yeah he absolutely hates her. No doubt about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:25 PM
90

I’m so fucking angry please tell me people told her to divorce him? Imagine mocking ur wife’s pain and trauma. Men are fucking bastards. What the hell is so funny about extreme suffering and pain? I hope him and his friends fucking choke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:24 PM
188

Of course it’s misogyny. It’s literally reducing women to objects. And we know it’s not a fucking ‘joke’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:54 PM
16

What would be an ideal proposal? Genuine question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:31 PM
49

Literally was about to comment it too. Great minds think alike
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:46 PM
7

What a pedophile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:42 AM
38

DUMP HIM I CANNOT DEAL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:34 PM
45

Modesty culture is sickening. It’s literally just victim blaming 101.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:55 AM
8

Yes!! I’ve heard this too. Explains a lot since men are ones always about to snap or have totally irrational reactions to pretty much anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:10 PM
7

This is just a given in heterosexual relationships. If a woman doesnt cook, clean and provide sex 24/7, even if she herself doesn’t want it, men will discard of her. Why? Because that’s all men want us for. Sex and domestic slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:09 PM
5

Then we can wear t shirts that say ‘smash the patriarchy’ and be girl bosses all whilst in heels 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:07 PM
3

U right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:06 PM
3

Literally the whole things screams psycho killer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:06 PM
9

Definitely!! I hate when people say women are moody or irritable. Men get a fucking free pass for borderline abusive behaviour when they get a common cold. They have it so easy and don’t even know it. They can’t even comprehend our suffering, from period pain, to childbirth, catcalling, sexual abuse, domestic violence, general misogyny ... they live completely different lives to us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:06 PM
16

My friends can be pickmes and the majority of ppl on the internet (outside of FDS) are misogynistic freaks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:04 PM
2

If that were really true men should be obliterated from the earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:19 PM
254

I predicted this Karen thing would become a free pass on misogyny. People told me I was being dramatic. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:55 AM
162

This is what every single woman in a relationship does and a hundred times more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:48 AM
62

Yeah me too. It’s crazy how they’re so confident in their ability to do as they please. Bastard. Hope she broke his balls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:33 PM
29

Yep. He didn’t get half of what he deserved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:32 PM
39

Funny because those same men would start screaming and vomiting when they see pubic, leg or facial hair on a woman. Natural my ass. They can’t stand the sight of a woman in her natural form
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:31 PM
81

This guy announces on his dating profile he wants a domestic slave and really thinks women are gonna want him ... r men ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:30 PM
7

As a feminist male, I want women to do what benefits me, a feminist male. Pssst ... men can’t be feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:53 PM
145

This is nothing compared to actual period pain but it’s so funny to see how it’s so shocking to them. Just goes to show they rarely have to deal with much physical pain unless they have injuries or medical conditions ... MOST women experience this every month for about 30 years ... we are so incredibly strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:51 PM
60

Men believe women deserve violence just for being born women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:28 PM
38

Right but a sub where women talk about how to have healthy relationships is the problem 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:28 PM
78

Liberal feminists are fucking braindead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:26 PM
34

Psycho abuser alert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:21 PM
116

Exactly it’s so unrealistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:18 PM
41

Oof that’s rough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:17 PM
14

Men are the ones that invented the concept of chivalry but get mad when we expect it from them. They do the same fucking thing when it comes to paying the bills, for dates, women working ... men have actively prevented women from entering the workforce for DECADES, they still don’t like that women work but also don’t want to spend their money on us??? Men, YOU invented this shit so you deal with it. We wouldn’t expect you to be providers if you hadn’t imposed these gender roles, forced us to hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:12 PM
895

Who wants to bet her domestic workload increased 1000%, so much so that she doesn’t have the time to brush her hair in the morning. Men want slaves but still expect us to look pretty. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:12 PM
170

I’m sorry that happened but I am also very happy he started crying. Little wuss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:10 PM
10

No human being wants to be in pain ESP during sex which is meant to be pleasurable and the fact that kink culture and the normalisation of male violence has brainwashed girls into thinking this is desirable is just .... so sad. I honestly think a lot of them know they don’t like it but don’t want to say so because they’ll be labelled ‘vanilla’ (aka wanting normal loving sex) and they’re afraid men won’t think they’re cool anymore. Newsflash : if he gets off to your pain and abusing you he won’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:10 PM
11

‘My bf beats and chokes me’ ‘Omg I’m so sorry? Do you need help? ‘No silly, I meant in bed’ ‘Oh my bad, u go girl xx’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:05 PM
549

When men actually get punished for their terrible actions they can’t believe it. That’s how rarely it happens to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:13 PM
142

Men are actually so jealous of women omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:25 PM
140

The intellectually superior sex yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:23 PM
18

This just reminds me of how in Saudi people would bury their newborn daughters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:01 PM
23

I wasn’t even aware that was a thing. So whatever happens you can’t go to court? How are employees protected then? It’s sickening that u have to continue to work with him, I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:26 PM
14

I’m happy you stuck to your guns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:21 PM
45

Men shouldn’t stop watching porn because we don’t like it. They should know themselves that it’s sick, depraved and only harms women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:13 PM
9

Yup. They always invent new ways to ignore their own oppression and disrespect. They can’t do anything about their bfs cheating so they might as well pretend they’re ok with it. It’s a lie and a disservice to women. The woke crowd are so fucking annoying. Honestly most of the time I don’t think they even understand what they’re saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:08 PM
49

@ my ex HAHA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:06 PM
48

Man I’m so sorry. It’s like whatever we do we can’t win. If we don’t report it carries on, if we do we get victim blamed or nothing happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:03 PM
55

This is exactly how I feel and why I want to work for myself too. I currently work in retail and I’ve had to deal with a LOT of inappropriate comments from customers and colleagues. Unless I find a workplace which is majority/only female, I’d rather work at home. I love making my own money and being independent but the fear of going into male dominated fields (I study accountancy) is what prevents me from changing jobs. I just want to protect myself from further harassment and being traumatised.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:56 PM
21

I would very cautious with having male friends. I have one, whenever he says anything I don’t like I tell him immediately that it’s not on. So far he’s always apologised and stopped doing whatever it was that bothered me but if he ever disrespected me that friendship is finished. Don’t be afraid to cut misogynistic men off. Hell don’t even be afraid to cut misogynistic women out of ur life. We don’t owe anything to these people and we don’t need to waste time and energy on them. Male friends ESP…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:14 PM
145

Has anyone else noticed how much women are being gaslight recently? I’ve even seen women call other women insecure because they don’t like their boyfriends liking other women’s pictures. It’s insane to me that only men are allowed to feel jealousy. They’re justified in being abusive fucks to us when we talk to a guy platonically but when we say please don’t follow half naked women with perfect bodies (that they definitely wank off to) we’re controlling and crazy? Okayyyyy. Same goes for sleeping…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:40 PM
2

I think they know what they’re doing. They get off on the fear they’re causing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:26 PM
5

Yeah when I see dodgy looking men I turn it down but still keep the headphones in so they hopefully leave me alone. Doesn’t always work tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:25 PM
3

8 years old?? Bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:24 PM
3

They don’t care if we like it or not. Honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:23 PM
10

Parenting is completely different for men and women. For women it’s for life, men it’s til they’re done with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:23 PM
6

In their minds, a man approaching us is the most flattering thing they can think of. Why don’t they all just start fucking each other. I genuinely would not care if a man never talked to me again in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:22 PM
6

Yup, and either way they hate how we react. If we are emotional they find us annoying, if we’re not we’re cold bitches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:16 PM
6

Haha and this is why the whole ‘men can’t express their emotions’ is liberal and mra BULLSHIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:15 PM
26

The difference is men are disgusted by us just existing and we are disgusted by the way they abuse and oppress us. It’s not the same honey. It’s justified anger at our own mistreatment. Men are mad that they can’t use and abuse us. We are mad that they want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:13 PM
65

I thought not being able to get hard quickly/needing a lot more stimulation is an indicator that he’s watching porn?
/r/askFDS23/05/21 08:05 PM
42

My dude is in a relationship with his game not his gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:48 PM
106

They always find an excuse and for some reason people are happy with it. If you are capable of leaving your wife and kid simply because you aren’t feeling it anymore, don’t have a fucking kid. Don’t be in a relationship. Stay single and stop ruining women and children’s lives. Then again, they’ll continue to do whatever they want because they know they’ll get away with it. Again just imagine if a woman did this. She would be crucified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:22 AM
143

Friends don’t abandon each other but men don’t know the meaning of true friendship and caring relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:19 AM
297

How is it that men are able to shirk their responsibilities, quit being fathers and husbands simply because they decided they want a change? If a woman did this everyone would scream that she’s a terrible mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:11 AM
440

Walking fast and wearing headphones have been my safety tactics since I was 13 years old. Fuck men that approach women in public. We don’t want to talk to u!!! Leave us alone!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:43 AM
11

The wall doesn’t exist. U look fabulous, genuinely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:26 PM
3

Also,,, people saying rude things to you is not the same as being called a slur. You have to actually be discriminated against for words to have meaning 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:34 PM
66

He sounds like a full on incel I’m ngl
/r/askFDS21/05/21 05:10 PM
3

Yes exactly that. As long as something is labelled empowering, even if it’s inherently damaging and misogynistic it’ll be a feminist action now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:38 PM
168

If you are using the phrase ‘red pill’ to refer to ur male significant other, just leave. There’s no hope. He’s way past redemption. Love urself and just leave. Plus he’s cheating on you? This entire relationship is a lost cause.
/r/askFDS21/05/21 04:01 PM
73

Self respect? She doesn’t know her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:30 PM
33

Plus way better sex lives for women. Win win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:05 PM
15

Yeah most lib fem ideologies benefit men. This is why men can’t be feminists. They shouldn’t have a voice in a movement meant for female liberation because of this exact reason. We can’t trust men because they do not have our best interests at heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:33 AM
24

Misogyny runs so deep that we are expected to put other people first even in our own fight for liberation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:30 AM
4

This dude is way past the wall lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:19 AM
13

Oh wow I didn’t know that. He looked good through the series though. He looks so happy tho I kinda can’t be too mad about it. Yeah I would honestly not care about men’s looks as they age if they didn’t hold women to such ridiculous standards. As long as they expect to stay looking like 18 year olds when we’ve passed 30, I’m gonna cuss them out for not taking care of themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:46 AM
11

I guess but I never found him attractive haha. Matt leblanc was actually hot so maybe I’m biased
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:37 AM
34

That’s true. It’s really bizarre that they don’t do these small things that could make a big difference to their appearance. I guess that’s what happens when u feel no pressure to look good and u are comfortable with ageing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:23 AM
20

Matt Leblanc looks alright. Matthew Perry looks like shit tho lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:52 AM
4

Yep. So did I. It was cute until me wearing certain clothes would cause anxiety because I knew the reaction id get. It was cute until he took out his insecurities on me and went crazy because I had a guy friend. I do see how girls would mistake this behaviour for protectiveness and care for their safety but it’s so far from the case. You’ll just end up with 0 self esteem and control over ur own body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:20 PM
33

He probably thought he was so clever lmao. U were right to block
/r/askFDS19/05/21 09:19 PM
18

Yeah exactly like thanks you just confirmed what I already knew, men are all depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:18 PM
1

From what I’ve seen, there is contrasting evidence concerning the effect of male circumcision. Some say it can affect pleasure, some say it doesn’t. Either way, a slight decrease in sexual pleasure isn’t gonna do men much if any harm. There can be benefits to male circumcision too such as reducing the risk of infection and better hygiene. This is something I came across today while reading about the subject https://www.webmd.com/men/news/20090721/male-circumcision-improves-sex-life-for-women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:17 PM
26

Only fans is even worse imo because they’re literally PAYING to see a woman get naked ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:58 PM
2

Loool seriously? Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:53 PM
26

Meryl Streep is HOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:53 PM
54

Then they’ll say oh you’ll never find a guy that doesn’t watch porn. Ok, then I won’t . Single > feeling shit bc ur bf is cumming to other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:53 PM
9

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/female-genital-mutilation If u need more info, be warned it’s upsetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:52 PM
18

There are 200 million FGM victims. It’s such a calculated attack on women and female sexuality. If anyone needs proof that men hate us and want to control us, I’d start with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:51 PM
1

A lot of money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:49 PM
11

This!!!! It is literally just a consent issue. Fgm should never be performed with or without consent. The outcome is too devastating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:49 PM
22

I know, casting aside what it means for their sex lives (it will be terrible) they have complications during their periods, pregnancy, sometimes they can’t even fucking pee properly. It’s inhumane. All in the name of keeping women pure for their husbands and controlling their sexuality. The only reason they do it is because they believe women experiencing sexual pleasure is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:47 PM
14

Their lives are not incredibly negatively impacted by it. They can still have sexual pleasure. From what I’ve read, they could potentially have slightly reduced sensitivity, this study says that there are no adverse affects from male circumcision. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23937309/ . Either way, I don’t really view it as a problem. Men are still capable of having healthy and satisfactory sex lives unlike FGM survivors. If you think it’s morally wrong to perform a procedure on a child I ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:36 PM
33

Yeah they sound very religious/cultural. The type that will tell their daughters to go back to their husband even if he’s beating her. The shame of divorce/unsuccessful marriage is more important than their daughters wellbeing and safety. Absolute bastards. I hope she’s able to leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:50 PM
91

Those parents really don’t care for their daughter. Everyone fails women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:32 PM
38

Need to print it out and stick it on my wall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:30 PM
74

Lmao MGM isn’t even a thing. Male circumcision doesn’t affect pleasure. Female circumcision is just mutilation. The sole purpose is to remove all sexual pleasure and cause suffering. It is not comparable in the slightest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:29 PM
58

Yeah they just don’t bother because they don’t feel pressure to look good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:21 PM
179

Oh man .... women of their age look so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:11 PM
145

Please expect more for yourself. Your mother didn’t go through backbreaking labour to birth a doormat. She birthed a human. Please expect to be treated like one. FACTSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:51 PM
10

Funny how that works isn’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:42 PM
17

I cannot stress this enough : block him. Do not let him have any contact with you. If he does, he will try to weasel his way back into your life. Men are master manipulators and liars. He will wrong you again. No matter what promises he makes or if he says he’ll change. He will cheat again and probably do worse to you. Don’t waste your time with him. I know it’s so hard but if you want to protect yourself you need to cut him off completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:37 PM
4

Yeah at least one good thing came of it. Now you know what the warning signs are and how to deal with it. This is why men like young inexperienced women. Easier to manipulate and control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:26 PM
279

Men cheating on their partners with porn and onlyfans is so common now that it’s become easier for women to just accept it. Not saying it’s right at all, but it’s so normalised women just gaslight themselves into thinking it’s okay. Literally women have been manipulated and brainwashed into accepting cheating as part of hetero relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:03 PM
195

Ughhh just break up with him he hates you. I hope to god at least one person gave her good advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:49 PM
59

Loool right??? Men don’t even want to have real conversations with women because if we’re ever smarter they’ll just hate us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:05 PM
107

He wants her to push him forward in life, thinks she needs to catch up to him and doesn’t believe she offers the chance to have deep and meaningful conversations but he is addicted to the most depraved content you can find online? Uhm, no. Men that watch porn have rotted brains and low IQ. THEY are the ones that can’t have a better and deeper understanding of life. You literally jerk off to a woman faking orgasms on ur screen. Please. You are intellectually inferior. I cannot believe the hypocri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:53 PM
5

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:47 PM
29

Ew men are so nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:47 PM
7

Exactly this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:43 PM
37

Definitely not the same. When men don’t allow women to wear certain things, it’s due to possessiveness and misogyny. My ex told me not to wear skirts/tops that showed cleavage simply because he didn’t like that other men saw. If we were going out somewhere and my clothes were not suitable eg dirty, ripped or just not fit for the occasion and he suggested that I change, that’s not abusive, it’s looking out for your partner and saving them from potential embarrassment/awkward situations. It depend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:43 PM
42

Since lvm are the majority that’s what I meant when I said men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:32 PM
45

Since lvm are the majority that’s what I meant when I said men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:32 PM
44

Wow just looked that up, I wasn’t aware. Basc every woman I know is a victim of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:24 AM
82

Men created the patriarchy, they need to deal with it. Also as if they don’t use women for sex, free therapy and domestic labour. Hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:13 AM
244

Men hate this sub because they’re not allowed on it. Fucking hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:01 AM
20

I’ll keep them in my prayers, poor ikkle babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:01 AM
32

I think a lot of women find it cute? Or it’s just so normalised that no of thinks much of it. I grew up in a religious family, you could literally be sitting in a group of women and they’d be telling each other how their husbands don’t let them do this or that but they all thought it’s normal and they’d say it with a smile on their faces. Internalised misogyny is a disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:54 AM
67

This is pick me shit. Ur husband isn’t gonna love u more because you’re trying to be the ‘cool girl’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:41 AM
189

Has anyone else noticed that girls saying their boyfriends/husbands don’t ‘allow’ them to do or dress a certain way is completely acceptable to people ? No one seems to pick up that this is extremely abusive and controlling. Just goes to show what kind of fucked up behaviour is considered normal in Hetero relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:40 AM
6

It’s just another tactic they use to deflect and avoid taking responsibility. You don’t grow out of misogyny. It’s complete bullshit. Plus they say it like grown ass 35+ men aren’t beating and raping women on the daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:04 AM
31

We NEED female only spaces. It’s the only way we can be safe. Men are against it because they want access to us 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:51 AM
7

When u show this to sex posi/liberal feminists/kink lovers they’ll say this was just an unfortunate accident and that porn and kink culture did not contribute to the growing number of cases just like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:49 AM
147

The woman’s life always matters more. And that’s why pro lifers are misogynists. They see female lives as replaceable, irrelevant, unimportant. There is no morality in ‘saving’ a fetus over a woman. It just proves how little female life is valued in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:43 AM
163

When men stop using these terms to describe the female body : mosquito bites, saggy boobs, camel toes, ‘no hips’, roast beef curtains, loose, used ... etc etc, then maybe we can consider not insulting men with small dicks. Which barely happens anyways since women have taken it upon themselves to convince men their bodies are perfect and that we’ll love them no matter what when they want us to have perfect porn star bodies that are not attainable without plastic surgery. P.s. men, comparing boobs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:37 AM
27

Tell the mother if you’re sure she’s not going to do anything abusive to her daughter
/r/askFDS19/05/21 09:31 AM
77

Wow men really have a hard life. Imagine how devastating it must be to know women expect you to open doors for them. Truly, I can’t comprehend the suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:30 AM
3

Yeah exactly that. They are really desperate for male validation. They actually believe if they think and act like men they’ll be treated like they ARE men. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:29 AM
10

Am I a simp if I view women as human beings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:13 AM
4

Yes literally!! This is exactly what my ex did. I tried to break up like 1937383 times and suddenly he was depressed and feeling like no one loves him. Good riddance to that bastard. Women have to be really headstrong when they get trapped with these men. It’s so difficult to leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:01 AM
2

I’m sorry that’s awful. Hope she leaves him too :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:59 AM
9

Yep. Their reactions are always warranted, nothing u feel is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:58 AM
5

They basically take part in our own degradation. So desperate to be ‘equal’ whatever that means they’ll literally start behaving like men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:56 AM
3

Honestly me too. Also it feels impossible to find a guy that doesn’t watch porn. I don’t think they even exist at this point. There must be a correlation with violent entitled behaviour in males and porn consumption
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:55 AM
236

Oh no I don’t want to fuck a female I know what is wrong with me AM I GAY???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:27 PM
2

Men are so fucking weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:27 PM
106

Yes to everything she said but side note : her eyes are so pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:12 PM
34

Liberal feminists have reinvented being objectified as empowerment for women. These women probably have extremely low self esteem and need male validation. They need help. Also it takes time and effort to undo years of brainwashing and misogyny. Hell I’m a raging feminist and I still find myself doing things to cater to the male gaze. It is really difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:11 PM
161

You wanna break up? Instant breakdown, crying, talking about how depressed they are etc. You want him to change his shit behaviour? Crying, using poor mental health as an excuse. You want him to stop watching porn? Will guilt trip u by saying u don’t satisfy him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:10 PM
41

Liberal feminists have been completely denying that connection is part of sex. They’ve removed the emotional part entirely because they want women to have sex like men. Detached and devoid of emotion. It’s to prove some point that women don’t need to love the men they sleep with. Looking at the orgasm gap between men and women on one night stands and hookups, I’d say that this mentality only benefits men as it provides easier access to more women and only increases the risk for stds and pregnanc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:12 AM
39

You hear about 12 year old boys assaulting their female classmates ... this ... this is why. They’ve been watching rapey objectifying porn since they were 11. How do u even undo the damage that it causes? I’m honestly angry at parents for not monitoring what their sons get up to online. One of the things u should be worried about is your children (esp boys) watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:09 AM
5

Well that’s the difference between us and men. We can be attracted to them whilst being respectful. For some reason they can’t find us hot and human at the same time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:02 AM
1

Yeah I don’t like cologne lol just smell clean please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:00 AM
4

See that’s what they do. When you start asking difficult questions or things they don’t wanna answer they just shut down. When will women love themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:59 AM
10

Too hopeful. It’s just a sub for people to post their ‘fantasies’ abour raping and being raped. Their excuse : most of us are survivors and this is how we cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:59 AM
8

And on top of that they come crying to you time and time again which is fine in the beginning but for long can it go on? At what point will they decide they’ve been through enough? It’s so frustrating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:50 PM
88

Never, ever EVER settle. Especially when kids are going to be involved. Women are at their most vulnerable when pregnant and giving birth. It is also the time when men decide to be the biggest assholes. Not worth it. Never has, never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:20 PM
52

Men are such terrible partners and fathers that it’s easier to have a child ALONE than with them. They provide such little support and on top of that are an added burden so much so that you’re literally better off having a baby by yourself. Just deep it. If this doesn’t make women wake up and realise having kids with men is not worth it I don’t know what will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:19 PM
93

Turn off ur dms I did it after some freak incel messaged me. I don’t care about their opinions. They can rot in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:43 PM
84

Ummm there is a whole sub here called rape fantasies ... fuck anyone that calls this the most toxic sub whilst that one exists ... sorry this happened to u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:42 PM
51

Lol and what exactly did he bring to the relationship? Nothing probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:39 PM
33

They act like we’re the evil ones causing trouble when all we’re trying to do is help them and save them from pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:33 PM
33

I’m in a similar situation. It’s so upsetting knowing your friends, people you thought were smart and on your level are allowing themselves to be treated like shit by pathetic men. I feel sorry for them but also some contempt. I know it sounds bad and like I’m blaming them but??? They CHOOSE to stay in shit relationships even when they know it’s not benefitting them. Then they get mad when you, the only person that actually gives a fuck, tells them they need to leave. I know abusive relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:27 PM
81

I’m gonna be real not being hit on by men in public should be considered a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:18 PM
7

Honestly whys it so hard to find a dude that smells good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:50 PM
1

Be ready for a mantrum then haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:56 PM
2

Yeah definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:55 PM
14

Plus it’s different when you’re in a relationship. Imo once you’re committed you shouldn’t be looking at pics of the other sex for pleasure but porn in incomparable. They just wanna be mad for no reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:01 PM
15

Looooooool omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:00 PM
22

Lmao men are so insecure but we’re meant to be ok with them literally orgasming to other women’s bodies .... how this is not considered cheating is beyond me. As usual women are being gaslighted en masse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:58 PM
2

Definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:51 PM
6

Yeah we’re being shamed anyways might as well start doing it to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:50 PM
161

Oof I’m sorry but Im well accustomed to men that have immigrant parents/ non white men and in my experience they are so much worse. Women are treated like subhumans in their cultures and they’re even more disrespectful in the way they view women. We are just dishwashers and baby makers to them. Plus they’re all weird about virginity and women making money. This is just my experience but as a rule I would NOT say men of colour are less misogynistic. I’m happy u have better experiences with them b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:21 PM
16

They are perfectly capable of being emotionally intelligent, of expressing their emotions, of having empathy. They just don’t want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:14 PM
36

Lol but at the same time men make up new ‘fish’ jokes every day... nasty shits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:59 AM
63

The entirety of my last relationship was spent constantly repeating myself to the point when he pissed me off I would say ‘you know what you did’ and this motherfucker would say he had bad memory and couldn’t remember what I didn’t like him doing. They know exactly what we’re thinking/feeling,they just like to push us to the limit and see how much gaslighting we can take. I always found this narrative annoying and frankly bs. Men are not dumb and I am tired of them acting like they need us to gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:57 AM
98

Please it’s impossible to go on any social media platform without finding extremely misogynistic body shaming of women. Men don’t care about body positivity. They just want their ugly bodies to be accepted whilst criticising women with conventionally perfect bodies. It would do good if we shamed men a bit more. At least they might wash their asses and moisturise themselves once in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:41 AM
10

Exactly if someone doesn’t respect you, leave. You can’t make them suddenly see your value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:23 AM
4

Yeah it’s definitely fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:22 AM
12

She is probably an asshole and a pick me that only cares about male validation but OP needs to realise her husband is the issue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:22 AM
16

Sexual violence committed against women is entertainment for men. That’s all it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:20 AM
13

Men get women pregnant then are shocked that their bodies change. It’s disgusting to even think about superficial things after ur partner has literally just given birth to your child but like .... what did u expect? Do they think we’re going to snap back to normal? Stretch mark are gonna erase themselves? Boobs are gonna spring back up and stomach tone itself? No and we shouldn’t have to care about these things. We brought life into this world and that should be enough. Men are always going on a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:18 AM
241

She thinks it’s a competition with the other girl but the problem is him. Not the girls he fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:00 PM
162

Women have nothing to gain from settling down and having kids with men anyways so the fact that we’ve been brainwashed to beg for that from them is incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:50 PM
8

We get told we should be grateful to our husbands instead lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:43 AM
37

Selflessness should not be celebrated in women. We should encourage each other to be as selfish as possible with our bodies and who we choose to spend time and energy on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:53 PM
1

That is unfortunately true. But still how stupid can u be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:22 PM
6

Divorce. Dump him. Leave. He does not have a single bit of respect for her. Also @ the people telling her she should’ve communicated : stop fucking gaslighting women. We should not have to tell men how to be decent human beings and even when we do they don’t listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:17 PM
81

What the actual fuck. That is no friend of urs. How can she be with a guy that calls women bitches. Fuckinf scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:22 PM
3

The fact that the article even exists is the epitome of male depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:53 PM
19

If doing women’s work is so easy why don’t all men quit their jobs and become SAHMs? Oh right because staying at home working and looking after kids 24/7 while not being paid (but also being mocked for not having a ‘real job’ is the biggest fucking scam of all time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:51 PM
7

How do women stay with these nasty guys. After a guy does one gross thing I’m put off. Imagine having sex with a fucking filthy male like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:48 PM
150

After years of watching my mum and literally every woman I know endure back breaking work every single day without ANY time to themselves I decided I will never ever have kids. ALL their problems stem Ron their husbands and children. The key to a truly stress free and happy life for women is to be childish and probably single. You will always end up their maid. No matter what you do your life purpose will become serving and looking after them. Be smart. Choose yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:47 PM
9

I’m going to cry. Men are so depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:28 PM
19

Ewwww just break up with him bro is he a man or a pig??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:27 PM
26

In my opinion, women can be friends with men but not the other way around. Men only engage with women they want to fuck. Women are able to form meaningful platonic relationships with men since we view them as humans, not sex objects! I’d steer clear if I were you.
/r/askFDS12/05/21 11:29 PM
10

Right? I am aware that usually sex is crap for women but are we just mean to accept that then? If that’s the case I’ll pass forever. Sex is literally supposed to be enjoyable for both people involved. Liberal feminism is cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:18 PM
14

It’s not that he’s not attractive. He is ageing and so are the women of his age group. Do men really think they can get older all the while still attracting 19 year old girls? Also him referring to women as ‘post wall women’ indicates that he’s probably just a sexist asshole aka the reason women aren’t dating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:40 PM
100

You know what’s weird. They act like sex is something horrible that women would never want to do unless it is paid. Yes the majority of the time sex with men is unfulfilling so being compensated financially could possibly feel like you’re not wasting your time and getting something back but the thing is, women are meant to actually enjoy sex. It’s like they just thought well sex is shit for me so I’m not gonna do it for free anymore? The solution is not to simply be paid to engage in bad/even ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:11 PM
6

Yeah me too but there is no excuse for this. Those kids truly have a terrible role model in their lives. I hope something is done about it because it’s literally CP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:39 AM
40

And literally just having basic empathy and common sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:30 AM
29

What a bastard. I hope she leaves him. There is no way he can come back from this. Abandoning someone at their most vulnerable and claiming it was just because you weren’t educated properly. How dare men have children and then ‘mentally check out’. You can’t fucking mentally check out YOU HAD A KID. This is why men don’t worry about being parents. They can just do as they please because they know their wife will have to step up as she literally has no other choice. They think their lives are har…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:29 AM
79

Nice to see some goodness in this world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:22 AM
23

A woman screaming bleeding and in pain I assume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:07 PM
58

Judging by these comments I think I’m gonna pass on clicking for my peace of mind Edit : Well I clicked on it and let me just say ... are there no limits to what women will do for men providing they pay for it? How has ‘do whatever empowers you’ even if it’s to the detriment of all women become a feminist mantra? If men are into seeing women abused is it okay for women to post videos physically harming themselves? Why are we enabling abusive men and allowing them access to harmful content online…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:38 PM
6

Can’t stay looking pretty when a man is literally sucking the life force out of u
/r/askFDS11/05/21 09:35 PM
3

Yeah it’s crazy she sees everyone else and their negative reaction as a problem but not him. Thank u for the advice x
/r/askFDS11/05/21 09:34 PM
2

I honestly think this is why she’s staying with him. He’s supposedly changed (not) and I’m sure she just can’t accept that she’s spent so much time and energy only for it to be wasted.
/r/askFDS11/05/21 09:33 PM
4

Glad ur out of that situation! Yeah it’s very emotionally and mentally taxing. Looks like that’s what I’m going to have to do. She’s just told me that there are good parts to the relationship too like cheating and porn addictions are just part of the normal highs and lows of being with someone ffs.
/r/askFDS11/05/21 09:31 PM
6

Well she responded and it didn’t turn out great so I doubt I’m going to bother now but thanks again. I know it’s so strange she even just said it’s more complicated than I know but I doubt it. There is nothing tying her to him except emotion. Not saying that isn’t valid but still .
/r/askFDS11/05/21 09:30 PM
59

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEDOS AND PEDO SUPPORTERS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:08 PM
15

Incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:58 PM
12

Yeah instant gaslighting and self pity
/r/askFDS11/05/21 04:26 PM
2

That sounds fine to me. I think this situation is different, it sounds like the father is pushing his kids into their gender roles hence the boy being told he’s gonna be a player and the girl told she’ll have babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:26 PM
5

The only time they care about women being raped is when it’s a hit to their ego. Which is why it’s usually only when it’s their relative. They don’t care that a human is suffering, they care that another man damaged their property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:08 PM
17

It’s very clear who should bear the burden of birth control. It’s easier and safer for men but women, who already go through periods and childbirth have to suffer even more. Men even dare to complain about women’s reduced sex drive/mood swings when she’s on the pill but will refuse to wear a condom/get a vasectomy. That’s misogyny for you though! Also I hope ur cat is doing ok now x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:07 PM
19

I’ve never explicitly asked her actually. She lives with her parents so she doesn’t depend on him financially, I suspect she’s just formed some unhealthy attachment and can’t imagine life without him. Thanks a lot for the advice, I will talk to her today as I do think the friendship is worth saving and tell her how I’m feeling. Hopefully she understands where I’m coming from. Much appreciated!
/r/askFDS11/05/21 03:24 PM
12

He’d blame her for his hand hurting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:14 PM
5

Men had the freedom to invent and be free thinkers and be artists because women were too tied down to the boring, repetitive, emotionally and physically demanding household chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:24 PM
3

Brilliant post. Every woman needs to see this. Exactly how I feel every time a woman online/irl complains about her ridiculous workload. You do not and should not have to put up with this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:19 PM
23

Right!! They act like it’s a compliment ‘oh I can’t help it’s you’re just so sexy’ bro idc don’t touch me
/r/askFDS11/05/21 12:09 PM
356

I don’t know why ‘imagine if she was your daughter/sister/mother/ is even a saying as if men don’t rape, marry off, sell, abuse and treat their female family like maids on a global scale. Especially in religious/cultural families, women are like cattle. They are born to take care of their family and then sold to be sex slave/take care of their husbands. Men rape their daughters, nieces, granddaughters ... being related to a man does not mean you are safe. I feel so sorry for this girl imagine kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:07 PM
1

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:40 AM
4

They happily admit white privilege exists but when we want to talk about the misogyny in our own communities and people they instantly shut us down. They want to have the power of white men whilst keeping woc subjugated. I don’t trust them and never will. It’s even worse because they KNOW how it feels to be humiliated, degraded and treated like subhumans yet they do it to us. No sympathy from my end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:39 AM
5

Real reason is they probably want to abuse women themselves but don’t want to get into trouble for it. So when they see other men do it they applaud them for having the ‘courage’ to do what they cant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:35 AM
6

You just know any guy that says that is an incel rapey woman-beating porn addict fuck. His brain has turned to mush from beating his dick to vulgar pornographic videos 23 hours a day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:34 AM
16

Oh no, if you give them a taste of their own medicine all of a sudden you’re a cruel bitch that has unrealistic high standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:31 AM
21

Haha we really need to start treating men the way they treat us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:31 AM
36

They really think they did something when they say that like ... men ... men hurt me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:27 AM
54

It’s like vasectomies and BC. Contraceptive pills have horrible side effects and increase risk of cancer, vasectomies are safer and in the long run much less painful. But who will bear the burden of birth control? Women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:25 AM
108

Pls men will watch women get sexually assaulted with their own eyes and not do shit. I have absolutely 0 faith in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:23 PM
44

I hope she grows up and unlearns this bs but man. The son is going to be an animal and the daughter is probably going to end up with an animal. Her dad set the bar for how men should behave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:37 PM
140

Men can’t take being told what to do by a woman. They see us as inferior and so taking orders from us is the ultimate humiliation for them. You wanna know if a man believes he is superior to women? See how he reacts when he is made to assume the role of ‘helper’. It’s too emasculating for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:21 PM
164

Why the FUCK is he telling a child that she’ll have babies. Men are fucking deranged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:18 PM
3

I see. I would still say that forcing attraction/feelings is not a good idea. It is possible you could develop feelings but I think it’s better to be single than just giving guys you aren’t really feeling it with a chance
/r/askFDS10/05/21 06:25 PM
417

If she turned around and asked his dick size he’d have a mental breakdown and punch holes through every wall in his house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:16 PM
87

Indian men are vile. Take a look at the state of women’s rights in India and it’s not surprising. P.s. who the fuck asks someone’s labia size??? A porn sick limp sick scribe, that’s who.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:15 PM
34

I’m glad u got out okay. Men are really crazy and cannot accept rejection. Also well done for not putting up with sexist comments. Just so you know, men are always lying when they say they want to be friends. They take our ‘no’ as the beginning of a negotiation. They say they want to be friends because they’re planning their strategy to get you to be with them/have sex with them. Always trust your gut!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:13 PM
7

Exactly and why would u want to be with someone you aren’t besotted with
/r/askFDS10/05/21 04:01 PM
21

Men wouldn’t bother why should u
/r/askFDS10/05/21 02:00 PM
28

Yeah sorry I meant just in general, it’s always framed as a problem which it isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:32 PM
13

Fatherhood was the top search when I opened Instagram 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:18 PM
20

True and and the sheer scale of violence committed against women needs to be kept hush hush
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:16 PM
37

You have to be ready to run or fight for ur life at any moment. Men have really made this world hell for us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:40 PM
51

True but I don’t know why this is being framed as such a huge issue when it’s literally the opposite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:39 PM
101

Aren’t we overpopulated?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:35 PM
16

Wow I didn’t even see that part. What a piece of shit. And men wonder why we don’t want to be mothers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:10 PM
40

How sad is it that he knows the trauma birth caused her and yet still says it was a gift from him. How cruel can you be. It’s shit like this that keeps me happily single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:57 PM
31

It’s always those filthy subhumans that hang out in groups literally just wait for women to appear so they can abuse them. They’ll never attack other men. Wusses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:49 PM
59

When I hear men shouting I get anxiety straight away. We literally live in a world where we can be assaulted and no one will do shit. They are predators and we are prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:48 PM
83

Misogyny needs to be classified as hate crime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:46 PM
97

Honestly you see clips like this and there’s ALWAYS men around that could have helped but they just stand around like useless fish and watch women get assaulted resulting in lifelong trauma. Men are so weak and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:46 PM
30

Nice to see our protectors and providers doing absolutely shit all whilst women are being assaulted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:43 PM
7

I seriously cannot believe being against porn means you’re a misogynist. In 2021 this is what centring men in a movement meant for women ONLY has done to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:54 PM
135

Never side with race over sex ladies! You think they’ll have your back but they never do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:07 PM
5

Pick mes are fucking cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:44 AM
21

They literally can’t say yes it does because they’ll be demonised and called evil bitches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:35 AM
10

That’s true :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:32 AM
54

Of course. I’m glad you’re doing better now x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:12 PM
50

This isn’t toxic mate this is complete hardcore abuse. I’m sorry to all the ladies that watched and got triggered, hope ur doing ok. So disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:12 PM
31

Me three
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:07 PM
83

That’s so fucked up wowww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:05 PM
47

My ex said this too. It’s a complete lie. If they were decent human beings they would know that when someone is upset you should comfort them not try to stick ur dick in them. They really think their nasty penises are a godsend and will somehow dry up our tears immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:04 PM
94

That’s awful I’m so so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:02 PM
2

Yeah I’m unfortunately surrounded by pick mes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:57 PM
2

Yeah I think when people see women behave badly they suddenly think they get a free pass to be as abusive and misogynistic as they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:57 PM
5

Yeah that’s fine but it’s a rich of him to ask you to do that which is literally meant to be the mans job on top of all household work
/r/askFDS06/05/21 08:56 PM
154

100%. wish I had realised this before. My ex told me he wanted me to choke on his dick til I was sobbing and I really convinced myself that was ok. He also lied to me the for the first year of our relationship and said he didn’t watch porn, later on admitted he did. I don’t know what sort of porn it was but I’ll take a wild guess and say it was probably violent, degrading to women and extremely abusive. A man that watches porn is an absolute no for me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:49 PM
6

He asked for car maintenance too?? That’s literally a typically male role. Men are so useless they don’t even stick to the fucking gender roles they created
/r/askFDS05/05/21 10:47 PM
10

First of all I’m so happy you’re leaving him, I was ready to write a whole paragraph about why u need to leave lol. For the next guy, if you live together he should pay, 50/50 or more, depending on his salary as long as he puts the exact amount of effort into housework as you do. If not forget it, ur better off living on your own. Tbh I’d worry less about the next guy and more about getting Tf away from this one. He is literally using you. I can’t believe he makes 4x more than you and is still a…
/r/askFDS05/05/21 10:45 PM
48

@ that dirty, disrespectful and incredibly stupid scrote Kevin samuels. The dude has made a fucking career out of misogyny and men worship him. A whole bunch of filthy animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:48 PM
6

Whatever reason u wanted to block him for in the first place is good enough. Men like this just want u around as an option. He’ll tell u he wants u and then go back to playing u like a fool soon enough. If u want tell him you’re just not interested anymore and then block and delete. I can’t stress enough how there’s no point continuing to talk to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:59 PM
32

Funnily enough I think more women have called me a man hater than men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:35 PM
33

I’m sorry, I hope you’re doing better now x I think women tell each other to lower their standards because the alternative is to be constantly disappointed and let down. It’s like a coping strategy. Either way we’ll be treated like shit so might as well just say fuck it and remove ourselves from the equation entirely. Better to be alone than lower your standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:35 PM
74

This is great. Nice to know women are looking after women. Keep it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:25 PM
110

If women expect nothing, men can get away with everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:22 PM
4

This made me laugh out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:12 PM
8

Let me get this straight ... man touches and treats woman like normal human being, fucks her but no mention of her orgasming, gropes her without consent, she gives him oral which he does not return, she rides him but ‘can’t cum’ and she’s grateful that he laid next to her while she masturbates? This is the goddamn BARE minimum, IF that since he didn’t even make her cum. I think it’s fairly obvious this woman has had terrible previous sexual encounters very low self esteem. I feel for her, it’s n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:07 PM
120

Man hater
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:25 PM
49

Man I really hope someone in the comments gives her good advice because this is a terrible but avoidable situation. She can move out and live happily by herself or make a massive mistake and take on a broke man child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:30 PM
245

Tell him he’s broke, dump him and get with someone that makes the same or more than you. Also he is a HUGE fucking gold digging leech. I bet if they do move in together he’ll still assume the role of ‘the man of the house’ and make her do all the domestic work all the while bringing fuck all to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:28 PM
132

Also men need to create a sense of urgency in young women to settle down, get married and have kids otherwise how else would they all be with young hot women? They don’t want women to have the freedom to have a partner/ kids much later on in life as that’s not beneficial to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:26 PM
32

Men are either devoid of emotional attachment or literal obsessed psychos. This reminds me of my ex and how sometimes I’d be home late and he’d bombard my phone with texts and calls, other times he’d ignore me happily for 7-8 hours coz he was gaming lolll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:10 PM
12

Thats another reason marriage is essentially a trap - you get married not knowing much about the guy and then suddenly you find out you’re married to some abusive fuck but you can’t get out as easily as u would just a normal relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:18 PM
2

It’s exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:15 PM
44

Men that leech off their girlfriends/wives financially are totally ignored by society to the point that everyone has convinced themselves ONLY women ‘use’ men for their money. Men keep fucking saying they’re our providers yet when we say ok cool pay for my shit we’re ungrateful entitled bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:02 PM
3

mEn pRovIdE fOr WoMeN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:58 PM
4

Probably but I do think the fact that people can say whatever they want online with little to no consequences allows them to say what they’re too afraid to say in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:40 PM
3

I think there have been new studies that prove the number is actually much higher, in the uk a study by Dr Jessica Taylor revealed that ‘99.3% of UK women have been subjected to one or more acts of sexual violence since birth’. That’s in a western country where we’re supposedly equal to men. Imagine the numbers if we did similar studies in countries like India or Saudi ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:41 AM
19

Looool that’s an explanation for such a disproportionate reaction to someone disagreeing with you on the internet. The guy is absolutely unhinged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:39 AM
3

Since youth is the defining factor for beauty in women once we show signs of ageing we are no longer attractive. When men start to show all the things that make women ugly e.g greying hair, wrinkles etc they are actually still considered hot ... I think that’s brainwashing and conditioning of society to correlate female beauty with youth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:36 AM
3

I’m sorry to hear that :(. I personally don’t know any childfree women but I come from a religious community so that’s probably why. It’s good to know more women are taking control of their own lives and not just doing what society expects of them though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:33 AM
29

Getting married is literally like signing a contract agreeing to be a bangmaid slave for the rest of your life. I do not think men that want to get married have pure intentions, it isn’t about love or companionship like they’ll have women believe, it’s simply the most sure fire way to secure a domestic labourer, sex anytime they want and children. Men aren’t capable of true partnerships with women. Exactly. Marriage puts men in power. It may work out for some women IF they’re with a HVM but as a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:31 AM
11

I’m new to Reddit so I’m not sure which sub that is lol but just from my own life experience I know that being a mother is not worth it and just slowly sucks the life force out of u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:03 AM
163

Who wants to bet that this dude has actually committed some act of violence irl or at least verbally abused someone? You don’t say shit like this on the internet and go back to being a sane, well adjusted human being in your every day life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:13 AM
16

Women honestly mass gaslight themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:48 PM
162

People, especially women have forgotten the origins of marriage. They really see it for what it can potentially be and not what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:41 PM
63

Those bitches didn’t let me call them bitches!!! Waaaaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:26 PM
7

She completely ignores the system of oppression against women, as well as social/cultural norms that hold women back from dOInG wHatEvER thEy wAnt. Doesn’t she think that if women could they fucking would?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:19 PM
1

Would be nice if that happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:16 PM
2

I really hope she at least cuts off all contact with him. Absolute animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:14 PM
205

Having children is always extremely difficult but women that are with LVM are all miserable. Just the sheer workload and the lack of emotional support they receive is bound to have a negative effect. The number one reason I decided not to have kids was seeing the way women around me were overworked, undervalued and basically had no lives of their own other than their kids and husband. Honestly i just don’t want to live that life and repeat the same mistakes women before me have. Also I ain’t no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:10 PM
62

It’s a very misogynistic tradition and I would urge women to phase it out as much as possible. Either keep your own name or you both take each other’s names. Your name is your identity and taking your husbands name essentially makes you his property. Also don’t you want your kids to take your name? It’s time women start passing their names down seeing as we’re the ones that actually gestate and give birth to the damn babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:42 PM
24

I’d like a source proving that men age slower than women because all the 30 year old females I know are hot but some men start balding at 28
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:49 PM
4

There isn’t even a salary loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:34 AM
100

Women setting boundaries and saying no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:30 AM
5

If it’s so easy when don’t the majority of men quit their jobs and become full time housewives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:23 AM
11

This!!! People will never target men because they pose an actual threat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:12 AM
7

Every woman I know would be better off without their husbands but they’ll never leave
/r/askFDS04/05/21 08:11 AM
9

Yeah I think the fact that women are starting to realise that they can in fact be relationship/man/child free worries them. They need access to us after all! I think FDS is framed as some evil misandrist ( misandry doesn’t exist) sub, so when people with a brain come here they’re probably surprised when they realise it’s just a place for women to speak freely and set boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:10 AM
51

Men care about rape ONLY when a man is raped. And even then they find a way to blame that on women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:01 AM
83

Nobody likes rape or it wouldn’t be rape They don’t view women as people so ofc they’ll invalidate our trauma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:59 AM
92

They really see women as subhuman trash. I don’t know how any of them can claim more men get raped because every single rape statistic will show that’s completely untrue. They say rape is worse if it happens to a man as if women aren’t left physically, emotionally and mentally scarred. Like women don’t have trauma and PTSD. Like it isn’t just as degrading and humiliating if not more so for a woman to be raped. This is why women should give out the same energy they receive. All too often I see fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:58 AM
31

This is the first I’ve heard of it. Seen women called Karens multiple times but Kevin? Never. It’s just easier and more fun for people to bully women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:17 PM
14

Women/feminists are the only people that are told to be inclusive and include their oppressors in their activism. We can’t even fight for ourselves without centring men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:04 PM
13

It’s not our job to care about men. They’ve never considered our feelings since the beginning of time. Feminism is women only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:58 PM
250

This whole Karen meme is so telling of the deeply rooted misogyny in our society. It originated from white women being racist/harassing employees as far as I’m aware but I think this doesn’t actually have anything to do with racism and everything to do with misogyny and hatred of the ageing woman. This is further proved by the fact that even WHITE men call women Karens and men of colour call WOC Karens. It is simply another word for ‘naggy bitch’. Men have always hated women that speak up and vo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:56 PM
49

I think it’s a form self preservation. It’s better to be single than risk being with an abusive/LVM that brings nothing of value to your life. I feel pretty hopeless about men and relationships in general too but it doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Finding a husband or bf isn’t a necessity we’re just conditioned to think it is
/r/askFDS03/05/21 04:40 PM
37

It really is crazy to see what women will put up with, and crazier when you’re called negative/angry/bitter for pointing out that we aren’t slaves but in fact humans deserving of good treatment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:00 PM
64

Thanks for the link! ‘Feminism is not supposed to be palatable to men; it is supposed to be threatening’ EXACTLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:26 PM
53

Honestly!! I don’t even know how these women dare to call themselves feminists when they have little to no concern for the actual safety, liberation and empowerment of women. Like u said they just regurgitate the same woke crap without anything critical thinking or analysis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:40 PM
102

Women are powerful when we come together safe from the male gaze and opinions and that’s what they’re afraid of. They don’t like the idea of us setting boundaries and having standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:33 PM
113

The most ‘radical’ advice I’ve seen here is telling women to date HVM or no men at all. So the worst thing we’re doing is just not dating men. Incels on the other hand hate women but believe they’re having access to us is their human right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:32 PM
90

Emma Watson has got to be the most useless feminist out there. She’s similar to Jameela jamil and the rest of the liberal crowd that refuse to acknowledge sex based oppression and just harp on about some vague idea of equality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:28 PM
91

Everything self proclaimed male feminists say is garbage so I’m not surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:27 PM
102

I’ve actually seen other subs/twitter/ YouTube accounts compare fds to incels like we’re advocating for the mass oppression and abuse of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:26 PM
82

They made feminism more palatable to men and subsequently missed the entire point of feminism or women’s liberation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:25 PM
393

Feminism is supposedly meant to include men now thanks to libfems and ‘woke’ men so that’s why women creating female only spaces is so controversial and even considered evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:04 AM
2

Oh, 100%. As if they can’t find another man to ask the time or for directions. They always have a sick motive when they approach us. It’s never innocent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:14 PM
32

Men can’t even handle being a housewife for a week. Shit is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:45 PM
20

So many times history has proved to us that men hate women simply for existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:40 PM
64

We can literally do everything they do work wise but they’ll still expect us to do all the domestic labour. I can’t believe men that don’t even cook their own food had the audacity to question u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:37 PM
18

Men created it so they could continue to physically abuse us but now it’s woke abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:36 PM
29

Right? Not to mention that even after u perform all that emotional labour they won’t even think about doing the same for you. Not ONCE have I been supported emotionally by a guy like I have him. I do not CARE if men are unhappy. They never care that we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:35 PM
32

Honestly its just natural selection at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:55 PM
43

They always find a way to blame it on women too. We didn’t create the patriarchy or misogyny babe if you ever felt like you can’t express your emotions that’s your own problem, go to therapy. Not women’s duty to end toxic masculinity which doesn’t even exist in the sense they say it does. We’re not your mothers to be patting ur back and telling u to let it all out. I’d rather never hear a guy expressing his feelings again tbh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:27 PM
86

my new solution is just remove all men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:00 PM
55

I didn’t think of that, oops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:54 PM
272

Ladies if u wanna how to take out the trash men in your life : make it clear u can’t/won’t cook or clean. They’ll see no more use for u and piss off to try and leech off another unsuspecting woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:59 PM
50

Sex workers aren’t even humans to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:58 PM
137

Their feelings are the only ones that matter in this world. One of the biggest scams of the century is ‘toxic masculinity’ and the absolute LIE that men can’t express their emotions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:57 PM
71

Literally!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:56 PM
170

Women don’t even get this much sympathy if they get r*ped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:56 PM
621

‘Poor old man’?? Men get sympathy for being incompetent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:32 AM
3

That’s exactly what I mean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:35 AM
13

Good strategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:58 PM
342

Her not taking as much pain as he wanted her to was a compromise?? FUCK BDSM AND FUCK PORN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:06 PM
405

This is rape? He’s a fucking animal. Men that want to see women in pain or crying are twisted. I really wish she had seen that. This is what kink culture has created. Men expressing their desire to physically and emotionally abuse their female partners is acceptable. If BDSM wasn’t a thing I doubt she would’ve agreed to this and would’ve recognised it for the sickness it is. I really hope someone tells her that he abused her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:05 PM
66

Ignore a text or cancel plans once, they’ll be on you like they’ve been starved of a woman’s touch for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:14 PM
3

They really tell on themselves every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:12 PM
18

Point still stands. Conforming to patriarchal ideals of what a woman should look like is not empowering to women. Not judging any women that do wear makeup etc, just not going to lie and say it benefits us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:09 PM
18

Not really, most women adhere to beauty standards simply because its expected of them. They don’t think they’re doing anything special so they wouldn’t demand anything in return. They believe women are just meant to look a certain way e.g hairless, face and hair made up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:59 PM
14

Yeah I also wear makeup / shave legs but I know it is for the male gaze. I think it’s a process and not everything we do has to be a feminist statement as long as we don’t pretend they’re empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:18 PM
16

Man these women must be with some shitty pornsick men. I’ve found that women that are with the worst men tend to excuse their behaviours as they don’t want to admit their partner is doing something that upsets them. No woman can be ok with their partner essentially cheating on them every day. They just pretend to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:26 PM
26

I just realised it was women! So sickening. I think women have been gaslit and pressured into accepting porn as something normal so much that they go overboard in acting like it’s ok. They really want to be the ‘cool’ girlfriend or wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:17 PM
66

You can be sexual without watching porn lmao. Is that really the best men can come up with? Porn is all that comes to mind when they talk about sexuality? I really resonate with this because I feel I’m in the same boat as her. You literally cannot find a man that doesn’t want kids that isn’t some porn addict casual sex obsessed weirdo and on the other end of the spectrum u have Mr ‘I work, you stay at home and have my babies, woman’. Anyways I cringe seeing women ask for relationship advice on o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:13 PM
8

Yup. Removing urself is the only solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:06 PM
13

I didn’t know that was a thing! Im also super paranoid about body odour. At least we don’t stink like men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:05 PM
17

Yeah me too. Plus I’d never mock a man for the way he looks unless he was a misogynist asshole but men? That’s a whole other story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:59 PM
23

Omg round butt forgot about that one! Love me a man with a fat ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:51 PM
39

Yeah it’s just performative femininity and it only benefits men. Certainly isn’t great for us to spend time, money and energy into looking fuckable. Let’s not forget that hair removal is extremely painful so why would we subject ourselves to that if not to please men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:38 PM
28

Honestly and it’s crazy because I’ve always felt bad admitting I’m not attracted to short men like as if I’m proving some point that women are shallow but who cares lmfao if im not attracted to a man I just won’t be with him if men aren’t attracted to women they see no value in them as human beings so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:34 PM
38

I’m really sorry that’s awful especially the second one 😭Women can’t even be safe while we’re trying to do basic fucking tasks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:20 PM
27

Dislikes : Can’t be shorter than 5’9-5’10, balding is just gross, fat belly, long beard, hunchback, long nails, dry/ not moisturised skin, very yellow/brown teeth, shaved on the side and long in the middle haircut (whatever u call it), permed hair, bad dress sense, narrow shoulders, small hands, overly hench and ripped to the point it looks ridiculous ... Likes : Dark hair and eyes, the taller the better broad shoulders, nice teeth, strong jaw, straight nose (not too small tho lol), plump lips, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:15 PM
49

Actually it also reminds me of my dad ALWAYS being so fucking snippy to my mum when she’s literally giving suggestions in the most gentle way possible. He always explodes and acts like she’s so annoying when she’s just trying to help. He’s so impatient with her and clearly just finds her annoying at times. He also tries to do this with me but I set him straight so not as much or he’ll apologise after. My mum just takes it so :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:45 PM
11

The therapist that told her she has communication issues is a fucking asshole. Just enabling abuse. Tbh I’d say anyone that tells women they have communication problems is an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:39 PM
11

Had to come back to this post because I can’t actually believe he screamed at a sweet little girl that just wanted to help. And then the mum actually acted like that was normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:36 PM
9

‘Female things’ lol. Glad he’s Ur ex sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:32 PM
23

That about sums it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:31 PM
29

Exactly!!! Baffles me how women take on literally all household and parental responsibilities + working a lot of the time and men still expect authority and the status of leader lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:31 PM
48

Oh my godddd this reminds me of when I tried to comfort my ex because he didn’t have a job (ew I know) and he basically told me to shut up and stop emasculating him ... after that I wasn’t very sympathetic or overly sweet to him no matter his problems and guess what ... he complained I wasn’t ‘nice’ to him anymore 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:29 PM
155

A man could literally rape a woman in broad daylight in public and men wouldn’t do shit. Our protectors my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:26 PM
134

We need women-only everything. Women-only gyms, shops, leisure centres, transport, workplaces, schools, nurseries, banks, hairdressers, hospitals, doctors... everything. We are only safe when we are separate from men. No other measures work other than complete sex segregation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:24 PM
101

I agree with all of this except the dressing for men bit. We are still heavily influenced by beauty standards and even though women think it’s empowering, makeup and dress codes are just another tool to oppress women. Men want us to look pretty after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:05 PM
16

That’s true :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:36 AM
9

Oh yeah I remember reading something about that. Men are such animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:34 AM
63

Because they assume women will do everything they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:21 AM
37

Wow. The way men just take advantage of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:10 AM
326

Fr men can’t even be patriarchal correctly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:01 AM
20

This is fucking laughable. Being a SAHM is the most tiring, emotionally and physically taxing job there is. Little bitch just needs to shut up. I bet he doesn’t even lift a finger at home or parent his kids in any way. If she did work who would continue to do all the domestic labour? Her. He’s not gonna split it 50/50. Men don’t know how easy they have it. She literally carried and birthed your children, ungrateful asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:55 AM
56

I hate seeing pathetic tweets like this that further promote sexist stereotypes against women. I’m very fed up of women calling themselves irrational and sensitive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:41 AM
48

I’ve always thought women are more horny than men. We just aren’t able to express it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:18 PM
27

Same sis same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:49 PM
133

Sorry, MANSLAUGHTER? Six years?? This fucker should be charged with 1st degree and life in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:27 PM
1

Why should I accept my partner partaking in the abuse and dehumanisation of women? That’s bad enough but he’ll then start to project his rapey porn fantasies onto me. I’m good thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:23 PM
2

Just googled that guy, and omg. Why do men exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:18 PM
1

Men really are master manipulators and gaslighters ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:25 PM
59

This should happen with every bastard scrote that releases a song dehumanising and sexualising women. Which would mean pretty much every damn song created by males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:06 PM
45

A man that could do all this would be considered a godsend by most women. But then again most women are pick mes so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:54 PM
38

THIS. EXACTLY THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:11 PM
103

They want us to be devoid of personality, pretty and braindead. That’s why they hate funny women so much and scream that women aren’t funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:03 PM
160

This just further proves that men don’t see women as fully human and only want us for sex/domestic labour/offspring. Every human being is capable of making a joke lol. Men don’t actually enjoy our company, in fact they despise us. They only enjoy the benefits we bring to them. Of course they don’t find us funny, if they did they’d have to humanise or relate to us on some level. Not to mention the fact that most male humour consists of derogatory jokes aimed towards groups of people less fortunat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:02 PM
15

Yeah anyone that even tries to compare male and female beauty standards is deluded. They aren’t even on the same level. Men think washing their ass is gay. Or washing their hands after they go toilet. The absolute bare minimum is too much for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:18 AM
17

Blocking them is hard. You feel obligated to stay in contact. It’s literally the best thing for you though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:33 AM
7

I’m sorry :( he’s a piece of shit. See what happens when we ask men to do 1/10th of what we do for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:59 AM
48

Every time I tried to break up with my ex he would say ‘I’m so depressed please don’t leave me’. It was because of him that I changed my entire view on male mental health. The idea that men can’t express their like women can emotions is a lie. Women are belittled and mocked and called dramatic and sensitive when we have the slightest reaction to anything. Men cry and suddenly they’re fucking woke kings destroying toxic masculinity. Men express their emotions too loudly and too often. They just d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:47 PM
11

Getting real tired of all the pick mes in my life. Having to deal with misogyny from men is bad enough but to get it from my own kind? It’s another level of pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:20 PM
194

It just reminds me of the fact that men want all women to be available sexually 24/7, to all men but when women ‘sleep around’ they’re whores and sluts. Women that don’t have sex/ show interest in men are cold uptight prudes, women who do are loose and dirty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:27 PM
92

They think they’ve been wronged if they have to even consider improving themselves in any way. They do believe sex is their human right after all. Yeah unfortunately I think many women do but trust me, forcing urself to be attracted to an ugly dude will only backfire on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:23 PM
295

Men made this up so that women would feel pressured to have sex with ALL men, whether or not we’re attracted to them. The perfect strategy to get ugly ass -1 men the chance to land a beautiful woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:15 PM
17

I can just remember the sheer frustration and tiredness that comes from repeatedly saying the same thing over and over. Begging someone to change. Begging someone to view u as a fucking human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:00 PM
42

Wow. Very happy to hear you are separated now. That’s what I mean. They will happily defend all sorts of toxic misogynistic behaviour in men and we’re just supposed to accept it as part of the ups and downs of a relationship. Watching porn is not fine but we’re being forced to accept our partners watching it and essentially cheating on us multiple times a day. Not to mention all the other horrible dehumanising aspects of porn. Our feelings about them getting off to other women don’t matter.’Some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:47 PM
49

Exactly and more often than not, men are the ones responsible for ruining the relationship. They’re definitely more likely to be abusive too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:32 PM
71

Men really think they’re gods gift to us when in reality we literally just want them to leave us alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:37 PM
157

This is why I don’t trust couples therapy/counselling. Either they’re like you and see that the men in the relationships are just misogynistic fucks, or they try to rationalise all the males abusive behaviour and tell women to just communicate. The problem is they don’t acknowledge the power imbalances between men and women and just Misogyny in general. They act like it’s a level playing field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:36 PM
1

Oh my god that’s fucking horrible I’m sorry. I hope she’s ok :( I keep telling myself she’ll listen one day but time keeps passing and nothing is changing even though she even admits she isn’t happy. Thank u for ur suggestions I’ll try to implement them when I’m less mad at her lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:21 PM
2

Thing is, she’s generally pretty ‘feminist’ but not when it comes to him. It’s so depressing to think that someone that is actually smart could be played like such a fool. I guess I’ll have to just ignore it but I’m worried about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:17 PM
4

Happy for u ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:10 PM
27

And if he was with a 10 who didn’t help him with his style/buy him clothes he’d say she’s a crappy girlfriend that doesn’t put enough effort into the relationship and doesn’t assume her roles as a woman aka bangmaid and mommy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:50 PM
16

Open relationships but only if it benefits me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:47 PM
4

See, how is this not counted as discrimination? Women cannot control what our bodies go through. Why should we be punished for it? We shouldn’t be fired for having a goddamn bodily function. That would be like firing a disabled person because they can’t perform as well as an abled bodied person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:01 PM
5

What a fucking asshole. Men that ask why women are going to the bathroom are absolute dumbasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:59 PM
1

Omg I want to work for her :( taking leave for my period gives me stress every month. Period pay should be mandatory. Or at least women should be allowed to take days off unpaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:50 PM
2

I honestly don’t think you can watch porn and be a good person. Maybe it wasn’t intentional at first but men that watch porn will inevitably become women-haters and pro violent sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:47 PM
5

Having children is not a human right and women’s bodies should not be available for consumption. Once you are able to buy a human being, they are no longer a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:37 PM
2

Honestly they know they just don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:30 PM
4

It’s so fucking tiring. At least if there were consequences to men assaulting and harassing women, we might get somewhere. If they knew that they wouldn’t get away with it then it’s likely it wouldn’t happen as often. But there u go the law and the system is designed to allow men to abuse women freely and women are gaslighted and victim blamed when they complain about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:29 PM
3

Being attractive is not a privilege if you’re a woman. People that say it is completely disregard the power imbalance between men and women and obviously the male tendency to rape and harass every woman they come across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:24 PM
6

She’s a single mum anyways might as well leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:06 PM
153

Wow what a bitch she improved your life and dress style how can u put up with that dude???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:03 PM
6

Men literally think women that make the first moves are slurs. So why would we. Plus they’re more likely to reject us in humiliating ways. Makes me laugh when they talk about us rejecting them and hurting their feelings. No one asked u to talk to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:58 PM
1

How do I send this to her without sending this to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:59 PM
54

Men being shit fathers and partners is so normalised to the point that taking care of their own children is called ‘babysitting’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:42 PM
17

Speaking from experience, going for a less good looking man does not guarantee that he’ll treat u better. All men will treat u like shit tbh I’d rather go for the good looking ones at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:35 PM
32

That girl is gonna have a hard life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:34 PM
1

This man is a goddamn incel and he is trying to gaslight and manipulate women into being sex slaves for their male partners whether or not they’re in the mood for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:33 PM
1

Men aren’t more horny than women. Women have just rarely ever been able to experience good pleasurable sex. We like orgasming just like men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:32 PM
45

I’ve never been protected by a man in my life. Every time I was harassed in public no man did shit. Even my male friends and relatives can’t spot the danger signs before I can. Guess who has the self preservation instinct and knows when they’re in danger? Me. Because I’ve been through it so many times I know what to look for. I pick up on warnings signs way before any man can. We have ourselves and other women. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:15 PM
159

Honestly. Men are scared to fucking death of other men, and us women, the smaller, weaker more vulnerable sex are supposed to waltz around without fearing men??? Not to mention that men have a solid track record of beating and raping women and we are aware of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:24 PM
36

Men say that women need to communicate more but we do. They just don’t give a fuck. We can communicate til we drive ourselves crazy and they won’t change lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:20 AM
108

Men can’t live without women. We can live without them, and on top of that our quality of life improves dramatically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:18 AM
1

Liberal feminists will be like don’t kinkshame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:25 PM
27

Men are literally told as boys not to take no as an answer from girls. They’re taught that they should ‘never give up’ and keep going until they ‘wear the girl down’. Just accepting that a girl rejected you is too humiliating and a blow to their ego. Which is why they cannot let it go. They view women as a conquest. Not as human beings with the right to say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:41 AM
10

Ive heard so many horror stories about childbirth and men having absolutely no empathy and honestly the only way women can be happy is to avoid partnership but ESPECIALLY having children with men. Because the problem is, when you are at your most vulnerable and you really need them, they won’t be there for you. My advice : never put urself in that position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:09 AM
1

Reminds me of this quote ‘feminism is the radical idea that women’s safety is more important than men’s feelings’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:04 PM
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