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45

Tats on the face, neck or hands, poorly executed, other women's names, naked women, misspellings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:28 PM
35

This is great! FDS is a lifesaver. I'd like to see more posts like this where we assert our boundaries to scrotes and their reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:31 PM
61

Seriously he is so full of shit. He'd lose his mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 03:06 AM
42

That would depend on whatever particular grievance the 'emotional' man has with me. Three strikes might be giving too many chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:55 AM
7

Hats are a telltale sign of balding or thinning hair. They're not fooling anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:49 AM
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This scrote's attitude shows that we need to closely vet 'successful' men who might have dumped a loyal woman once they became a success. Money or a good job =/= HVM. In fact, vet harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:31 AM
385

Scrotes are so quick to criticize women for perceived flaws. We are regularly 'rated' a 5 or an 8 or whatever, as far as attractiveness goes. So then what is stopping bald men from getting hair transplants, using Rogaine, or wearing a hairpiece?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:58 AM
378

I've thought about this happening. If a man I knew showed interest only after my glow up, I'd say 'if I wasn't good enough before, I'm not good enough now'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:29 PM
31

Why do they even care what we think? More scrotes for pickmes and vice versa. Better single than miserable stuck with an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:35 PM
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Appointments work too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:02 PM
1

Scrotes feel that advice like this will get them cockblocked. But nobody wants these losers to begin with, and they don't want single mothers anyway. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:53 PM
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On a short leash, with a muzzle on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:22 PM
46

I just now remembered that my abusive narc father used to tell people that he was an asshole. Same thing, he was being 100% honest. He was the meanest man I ever knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:52 PM
78

My first husband called himself an asshole. I was in my 20s and didn't think too much of it, even after he started proving just how much of an asshole he was. My most recent NVX said the exact same words, plus he didn't think he was 'good enough' for me. Same outcome. Only this time I realized much sooner than I did with my ex husband, but still too late. I haven't dated in a year, but when I do and if I hear even a hint of this type of talk, I'm gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:48 PM
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I've had a few driving jobs and got to know the company vehicles I drove regularly. One overheated while I was driving it, but behaved normally at the mechanic. They couldn't tell me what was wrong unless it was overheating. Finally I was able to get it properly diagnosed as a coolant pump malfunction. The mechanic had pretty much implied he had thought I was clueless, and told me so after the car was repaired 🙄 Another vehicle was making a noise and I told the manager it sounded like a wheel be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:17 PM
237

Good God, THIS. A few men have made the proclamation of being an asshole early in the relationship, and they were not kidding. Now if I ever hear it again, I'm gonna head for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:01 PM
27

I'd take it to Judge Judy. She would tear him a new one and OP would win the case and the world would get a good look at this monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:08 PM
3

If he has a car, he can do door dash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:12 PM
105

I wish I was a size 8. Or even a size 10. But no, I wear 11/12 wide shoe. Forever alone I guess lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:46 PM
199

He really doesn't have a clue. I'm the same height as you and before having kids, when I weighed 155lbs, I wore a size 14. I love how these guys have a list of demands but they always seem to look like Shrek. I wonder why that is 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:43 PM
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She is saying women need to cOmMuNiCaTe the 'right way'. 🙄 Seems straightforward enough.. but you can plainly state your needs over and over and over again, in different ways. Too bad it just doesn't work. Why do this to yourself? Men truly understand what we have been saying, only when we walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:52 PM
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He accused you of being 'triggered' and then had a meltdown. How surprising 🙄 Misogyny is so deeply ingrained in men (and some women), they see it as normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:19 PM
1

First three pregnancies no BC no clots, fourth pregnancy bc and a clot, so yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:15 AM
65

I hope this is fake. But some women really are this gullible. My NVX tried to sweet talk me into letting him control my finances. It was a solid NOPE from me and a fight ensued. The same thing would have happened, with me doing all the work and him trying to dictate to me how to spend my money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:03 AM
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I don't want to fund Reddit in any way 😏 I was talking to my mom about your post and it surprised her. Everyone believes the story of Narcissus, about excessive self-love. Nobody met my NVX who openly admitted he despised himself, and held all malignant narc traits. I wish more people were aware of what narcissistic abuse really is. I wish I had known before I met my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:48 PM
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I would innocently say I don't listen to any podcasts, and could he recommend some I might like? If he makes recommendations, it's a window into his mindset, and good info to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:51 PM
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A lot of pro lifers are also pro death penalty and anti birth control. It's all hypocrisy and attempting to control women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:45 PM
51

This is the truth bomb of the day. I'd give you an award if I could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:31 PM
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I'm in my 50s and the dating pool in my age range is so disappointing. I'd date someone younger, but not too much younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:29 PM
420

She doesn't yet realize she's an amateur p*rn star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:03 PM
183

Translation: Women - no matter what, it's all your fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:01 PM
90

This is so true. Smol PP men are over the top trying to overcompensate for where they are lacking, it's a cliche lol. My second to last ex was like this, couldn't stay faithful. Tiny peen and super selfish in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:09 AM
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I've never had one threaten su*cide, but if a guy pulled that, I'd call 911 and send an ambulance to wherever he was, then I'd block and delete. Not gonna deal with a manipulator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:47 PM
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I get the feeling that the person who wrote that article is blaming women for both women enrolling more and for men enrolling less. He blamed this on the rising cost of education. Men's tuition is more than women's? That's a new one. Men: go to school and better yourselves, women don't want broke ass bums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:16 PM
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My son is 27, no clotting issues since. I got my tubes tied 25 years ago, didnt want to risk it happening again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:31 PM
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I got pregnant immediately after I went off the pill and ended up with a DVT during the 8th mo of pregnancy. Idk if being on the pill was related to the blood clot in my leg, but blood clots are a possible side effect of hormonal birth control, so..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:42 PM
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What's the purpose of doing this? Block and delete right away and don't stoop to their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:29 PM
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It's possible, but he would be emaciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:23 PM
9

Block at the first red flag, don't entertain these losers. FDS 101
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:13 PM
36

Birds of a feather
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:08 PM
70

In that case, lifelong spinsterhood is the best possible option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:05 PM
250

I can cook, but men should not act entitled to my cooking. Men who 'subsist on frozen/fast food' can learn how to cook, too. Who knew? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:49 PM
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I read that post. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:44 PM
65

Horrible, I can't get past the headline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:43 AM
21

I feel this. My NVX was a stage five clinger and we would have fights because I needed alone time and he couldn't tolerate being alone. Now I am not sure if I even want to attempt to date anyone, I've had enough 'togetherness' to last a lifetime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:40 AM
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She might as well have bought her own ring, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:47 AM
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Good lord, at least he told on himself right away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:19 PM
130

'Females' 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:08 PM
50

That sounds like a case of protesting too much and definitely sus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:17 PM
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Block block block. Don't give him the satisfaction of a response. It won't serve any other purpose than to annoy you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:18 PM
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My love language is 'go away and leave me alone'. Am I doing this right? 🤔😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:56 PM
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It was the comment about 'wasting all those years' with OP's mother that pushed her over the edge. What a slap in the face. The fucking audacity of the scrote father. NTA, but anyone who took the scrote dad's side was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:32 PM
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I've seen them lol my favorite was the one that said please don't do coke in our bathroom 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:26 PM
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This would make a great needlepoint wall hanging, the fancier the better 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:22 PM
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He doesn't even do the bare minimum tho. Like be available for an exclusive relationship with OP and not be a lying sack of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:41 PM
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She will not accept that the only way to 'handle it' is to walk away and work on finding some dignity and self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:34 PM
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I am embarrassed for her 😬 I'd love to see her response to that truth bomb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:36 PM
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Why would he even want to have sex with someone who admitted to having risky sex with randos off tinder? And without a condom? He made it all about himself, of course. Also, never say you are on birth control. This is why. Scrotes gonna scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:48 PM
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I agree. I know my son's ex gf endured extreme abuse growing up and hers was a trauma response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:29 PM
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Liberal feminism is a cancer, it's not surprising that shit like this has been normalized. My son recently broke up with his libfem gf of two years. He told me she insisted on being choked and slapped around during sex and he didn't like it but only went along to make her happy. She wanted to be an OF cam girl and he didn't want her to. They would fight over this stuff all the time. So idk, there's some truth to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:26 PM
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Crap, my mentality was just like this. I would feel guilty and undeserving when a man spent money on me. I haven't dated at all since I found FDS, so this will be good practice for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:08 PM
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I hope she reported him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:00 PM
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"She sat with me at lunch and laughed at my inappropriate jokes. She definitely wants to fuck me" 🙄 scrotes gonna scrote. They just refuse to see how off-putting their behavior is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:28 AM
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If he has 'social anxiety' that bad, he needs therapy before dating anyone. Good mental health is underrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:57 PM
191

He is mentally deficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:52 PM
345

That would be an instant annulment and assault & battery charges filed. I don't believe this scrote didn't show red flags before the wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:21 PM
120

He has another gf on the side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:16 PM
122

I need to get this shirt 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:39 PM
442

The short answer is because liberal feminism isn't actually feminism. It's male centric pseudo feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:15 PM
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But is it really 'joking' ?? The truth is said in jest. They really do feel this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:31 PM
8

On a follicular level 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:55 AM
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I am embarrassed for this woman. Idk what else to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:58 AM
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I've never heard of a marriage lasting longer than a couple of years when there is such a long relationship/engagement preceding it. Your family member will be single again before you know it. Edit: clarification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:56 PM
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This. I had a multi-day bout of anaphylaxis & extreme hives in my last relationship that I'm convinced was a physiological reaction to my ex's abuse. When the hives finally went away, I was left with literal bruising all over where the hives were. I had never had this prior to 2019 and I have had zero symptoms since I ended the relationship a year ago. I carry an epi pen now. Your body knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:00 PM
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She got tired of cutting pictures of groceries out of magazines and pasting them to a 'shopping list' as a visual aid for her scrote. I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:28 PM
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My ex was abusive to my cat. He's about as scrotey/NV as you would expect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:05 PM
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Men tell on themselves all the time when they disclose previous relationship info. Bonus points if there is even one 'crazy ex'. He told you up front everything you need to know. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:55 PM
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Disturbingly accurate 😬💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:05 PM
283

Please block him, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:10 PM
386

Doesn't the military frown on shit like this? Leave him, sis. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:44 AM
118

He bears watching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:56 PM
68

Imagine that. Gaming addiction is such a big problem, hospitals had to take the step to ban game consoles from delivery rooms. Scrotes will disagree, because scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:33 AM
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The best advice I've gotten here is to stay away from online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:19 PM
7

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRbYGmde/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:55 PM
23

I watched a TikTok video last night where the father threw the adult son's Xbox into their pool. The young scrote completely lost his shit. The neighbors must have thought someone was getting murdered 😂 The dad was done with fully supporting a grown adult baby who was 100% addicted and focused on stupid video games. It was so satisfying to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:45 PM
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Why do they always go surprised Pikachu face when we stop tolerating their nonsense? I'll never understand scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:15 AM
39

'I want to be a better person for you'. Spoiler alert: he failed miserably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:09 AM
43

I get the feeling when that scrote wrote this article, he did so with his teeth clenched. He says all the right words, but he's full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:57 AM
97

This is another form of financial infidelity. I would be absolutely livid. NTA, but every other person in the story is TA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:33 PM
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He asked me specific details about how I was subject to SA by my cousin and wanted me to explain exactly what happened. It makes me wonder if he wanted JO material for later. Scrotes gonna scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:34 PM
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Appealing to a man's sympathy opens you up to further abuse. They don't give a shit about you or what you are telling them. They weaponize our vulnerabilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:45 PM
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Last sentence of the article: "Laundrie is not wanted for a crime, officials have said"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:16 AM
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You are correct. The police are of no use, anyway. As more details of this case come to light, BL's behavior will be analyzed in the media and hopefully there will be more public awareness of narcissistic abuse and exactly what Gabby suffered at the hands of the murdering scrote she trusted. I plan to do my part on social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:36 AM
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They touched your thigh against your will. That's actually sexual assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:09 AM
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I hope the laws are changed as a result of this case. It seems insane not to be able to detain someone who so obviously has something to do with a person going missing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:06 AM
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Lib fem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:23 PM
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I'm happy that so many FDSers are young women. You won't go through decades of male BS and finally see the light in your 50s, like I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:03 PM
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Dear scrotes: don't act like a scrote, and you won't get called a scrote. Now I want to use that word even more 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:25 PM
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What is it with men and bathrooms? My first ex husband got so pissed when I'd lock the bathroom door. He felt he was entitled to go into the bathroom when I was in there. My most recent NVX picked the lock on the bathroom door not once but again, after I screamed at him the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:23 PM
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I'm in my mid-50s, overweight, no makeup, gray hair, never considered myself attractive. I received male attention when I was younger, but now I'm invisible to men and it's a relief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:02 PM
13

I didn't think of that 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:59 AM
8

A pickme or scrote that snuck in under the radar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:21 PM
247

Why do men want to play devil's advocate? Because they hate women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:53 PM
37

Pimps or gigolos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:52 PM
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A guy I had been dating for a couple of months told me that his ex wife had cheated on him, and he responded by slapping her across the face and had DV charges coming up in court. I never saw him again after that confession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:49 PM
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It got taken down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:26 PM
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The other video she posted after showed a filthy condo and drug addled scrote nodding off on the couch. I believe she is a model, but definitely supporting a worthless POS. Tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:34 PM
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The video she made after this described a typical drug addicted loser who expected her to take care of him. Shocking, I know 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:16 PM
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They cock block themselves and blame us 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:11 AM
78

The shortest one looks like a 9yo kid. I can't think of anything less attractive. 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:41 PM
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Basically, this woman’s 37 year old husband secretly bought a $300 saint Laurent bracelet for a 17 year old girls birthday gift Now this is financial infidelity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:22 PM
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I hope the cops' eventual testimony is televised. I can't imagine how they will respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:18 PM
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Can confirm. My daughter is a lesbian and she's been in a few relationships with abusive women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:10 PM
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The mom is pathetic. I almost feel sorry for her, then I remember she hatched and raised Good Boy Kind Boy Bradley, King of Barbecue Sauce. Seriously, I do hope it's a prank, because if not, Mason needs to protect herself. Sickos like Brad are dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:57 AM
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I love this sub 🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:15 PM
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Women who are new to FDS may not yet realize what they have experienced is actually abuse. It is educational for them. I still recognize myself and things I have experienced in some of the stories I read here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:49 PM
8

Wow 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:25 PM
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My ex tried so hard to get me to turn over my paycheck to him so he could 'manage it better', and he was furious when I told him to stfu about it, because he was never getting his hands on my money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:05 AM
27

That is relationship-ending behavior. Let the asshole go be with his enabling asshole parents. I'm sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:39 AM
481

Anything to control women, WTF. Hide your money well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:27 AM
21

I read enough about male depravity here. Why would we subject ourselves to ugliness like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:18 PM
2

What a jerk. And they blame us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:51 PM
49

Every one of these situations can be easily solved by getting rid of the scrote, but then these relationship therapists wouldn't have anyone left to treat. I wish I wasn't so cynical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:46 PM
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The advice is to 'be gentle with hIm'. He stomped her boundaries and the advice is not to leave, but cOmMuNiCaTe more. I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:38 PM
73

I worked with a guy who lived in a van. He was just about the most disgusting individual I've ever met 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:12 PM
8

So, Norman Bates had his Mother call? LOL He knows what he's doing is fucked up. He deserves to be put on blast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:31 AM
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I have to know, too. This is gonna be good 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:27 AM
31

Intentions matter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:56 AM
9

The toddler & tiara child beauty pageants are worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:37 PM
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Pageant expenses are def a waste of money that could go toward a college education, since there can only be one winner and a runner-up or two. It's a bad investment, at the very least. Pageants are literally 'Pick me! Pick me!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:32 PM
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Oh boy. If a man did that to me during sex I'd give it right back to him with a closed fist, and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:00 PM
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Or think that he should have rights to access to the child or rights to some amount of decision making power. My daughter's ex gf had a baby by a sperm donor, who was the boyfriend of the ex gf's best friend. Before the baby was a year old, the sperm donor got in trouble for some type of sexual assault. He wanted access to the baby. This wouldn't have happened if the sperm donation came from a sperm bank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:31 PM
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My father got married after he and my mom divorced. I used to speak regularly to my sister's mom on the phone. During one phone convo, she told me that she, my father, and his mother (my grandmother) were all playing cards one night and grandma said out of the blue "My (my father's name) has a big dick. Nobody has as big a dick as my (name)" At this, my sister's mom was speechless. I always wondered if there was shenanigans between my dad and grandma, that went beyond emotional incest. The stori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:52 PM
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I saw one scrote who was shaming women in his profile for not responding to his initial messages. Talk about entitlement! They really do have zero self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:20 PM
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My 'favorite' scrote profile cover photo was one of just a toddler wearing only a diaper, holding a rifle. The child's face wasn't covered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:14 PM
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My sister got into it with her daughter-in-law on Facebook last year. Trashy af. I am not close to my sister, and stayed silent. But I feel bad for my nephew's wife. I'm not sure if they are still together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:13 PM
1

That really sucks. I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:09 PM
15

Has he been reported for sexual harassment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:12 PM
3

Did he have to wash dishes? Or did the restaurant call the police?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:09 PM
11

What would happen to the scrote who 'forgot his wallet' if the woman paid for own meal only? Because I would totally do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:01 PM
3

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:51 PM
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Don't forget they are looking for their 'partner in crime' 🙄💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:45 PM
6

Dear scrotes, Be careful what you wish for. Signed, women 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:49 PM
2

The cat does look worried 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:40 PM
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This was in interesting article. I didn't know about 'resistance to chaos' or anything else that makes a psychopath tick. Thanks for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:13 PM
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Idk about anyone else, but having money makes me feel secure, which makes me happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:55 PM
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My NVX let slip that his relationships didn't usually last past 6 months, until the woman got to know him. When I brought this up later, he denied ever having said it, and got angry at me. Edit: in fact he turned it around and said I was the one who said that, not him. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:37 PM
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I'm deceased 😆🤣 I've never heard of this guy before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:30 PM
34

Yup, life is too short to date ugly losers. Most of us here have wasted our time on this garbage. Oh Chad, where are you? 😆🧐 Check out the backgrounds in the photos. So many are taken with a feminine theme in the background. I wonder why? I noticed a trend of photos of scruffy, weathered men who list generic/normal stats in their profiles, but the background looks institutional. I'm thinking these are hobosexual dudes living in homeless shelters and doing their thing, looking for a woman to suck…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:51 PM
91

Their profiles are low effort, you know the men are low effort, too. 🥴 How about the photos of a fat old scrote shirtless in bed making eyes at the camera? 🤢 Or the one with ten guys and you don't know which one is the scrote in question? 🤔 Or a picture of them with their ex scribbled over or cropped? It seems like they are triangulating you before they even meet you. How hard is it to take a selfie for your profile? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:11 PM
63

For real. Online dating is not worth the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:37 PM
279

They do this at all ages. Idk how old you are, OP, but I'm in my mid 50s and not only do men in my age range put an abundance of beer drinking, dead fish and jet skiing photos in their profiles, but they look old and decrepit and are still obv low value. It doesn't get better with age. When I was last on POF, I got bored very quickly. Ad after ad was the same. Bald, yellow teeth, short, fat, and ugly. Stupid pictures that all look alike. No effort made to make a good impression 'what you see is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:29 PM
17

😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:42 AM
25

• existing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:40 AM
281

A couple of years ago when I on OLD, a poly scrote hit me up. What an ugly mfer, I felt like telling him he was lucky to have found one women who could look past his gross appearance, he was pushing his luck with two. But I said no thanks and blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:10 PM
2

My life is in transition. I'm leaving my job next week and starting up again with an online business. The relief I feel is off the charts. Today, I finally spoke to a psychiatrist about my MH issues, and starting treatment as soon as I can pick up the scrips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:27 PM
76

We’re inadvertently taught as women Sometimes, we are actually told to disregard our gut feelings. There was a post here within the past week that outlined this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:57 PM
133

Don’t ignore the quiet voice that says wtf? This is why I am on FDS. I am too used to telling that quiet voice to fck off, instead of paying attention and acting on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:27 PM
270

My moment of clarity came very early in my last relationship, but I was operating with a sunk cost fallacy mindset. It took almost 2 years to escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:23 PM
70

These losers may believe since women are generally better-educated than they are, they will leech off women instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:57 AM
3

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:52 PM
64

Men hit the wall harder than they want to believe. And much sooner than they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:42 PM
19

Can you imagine having to run this guy's house and have lots of sex with him and then have to pay him $600 for the 'privilege'? This makes a homeless shelter look like a step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:29 PM
43

This is the end game for an age gap relationship, and why we should not entertain age gap relationships. 13 years is just too much of a gap. She was 38 and he was 51 when they got married. He clearly prefers much younger women and this wife 'aged out'. They trade us in for younger models, it's time-honored scrote behavior. So, younger readers take heed and don't let it happen to you. Of course, I believe karma will bite this particular scrote in the ass, because there is no way he isn't being ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:14 PM
34

This reeks of catfishing. The poor wife will be better off without this crusty old pig in her life. I hope there is an update where the saggy balled fossil got cleaned out by both the wife and the '19 year old'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:02 PM
23

That turns the old 'damsel in distress' trope on its head. I've seen dating advice that advocates women acting helpless around a man, to be more attractive to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:49 PM
36

Maybe the 'nanny' is the wife and this is one big polyamorous LARP. Stranger things have happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:14 PM
296

I'd rather live in a box under a bridge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:32 PM
15

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:36 AM
22

That would be a great time to block and delete without responding at all 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:32 AM
1

LMAO 😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:53 PM
17

Id rather watch paint dry, than watch some loser playing a video game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:36 PM
112

I've never met a man who lied about height, but this would 100% be a deal breaker. Not for being short, but for lying about it. Someone posted that they don't understand why guys lie when we are just going to find out the truth when we meet them. I have a few theories why this may be. 1) they think we won't notice 2) they think we won't care 3) they are delusional and believe their own lie 4) they think meeting us is their 'foot in the door' and they can convince us to give them a chance, anyway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:20 PM
148

"small but mighty" makes me think of "tough cookie" which makes me want to start liberating teeth from scrotes' mouths 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:26 PM
57

I avoid gamers like the plague, so none of this applies 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:24 PM
14

Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:08 PM
63

Obsessive thinking about the object of your desire... When you are not in control of your emotions, that's mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:20 PM
21

Get out of my head.. that's what I thought, too 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:35 PM
155

I haven't addressed this in therapy, if that's what you're wondering. Not yet, anyway. FDS has helped me immensely in this regard, among other ways. My only advice is to be mindful. Several months ago, I started to get the dreaded 'what ifs' when I met an attractive man during the course of my job. I gave myself a stern talking-to. I reminded (and convinced!) myself that these things have NEVER, EVER worked out for me, in over 40 years of dating, relationships, and marriages. It's disappointing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:11 PM
25

The FDS Handbook is accessible to anyone, including men. They choose not to read it. It's not on women to teach grown ass men to behave like normal human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:48 PM
2

"Married man strangles lover to death during sex, gets only 4 years jail time"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:02 PM
397

I despise limerence. I've had this pattern of infatuation since I was a kid, and made a fool of myself over males so many times. Not so much now that I have more awareness. I'm going to check out this book. Thanks for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:56 PM
25

For me, smart phones ruined dating and relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:05 AM
85

Hopefully a big, burly lifer will choke this POS to death during sex in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:28 PM
5

This 14yo scrote has been playing too many video games. Run along scrote, mom's got the hot pockets waiting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:16 PM
2

Wow, you dodged a bullet 😳 I wonder what their success rate is when they disclose reprehensible behavior/personality traits to women they just meet. 🤔 Probably not very high, and then they get even worse advice from dating coaches and other online PUA/TRP charlatans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:57 PM
28

I associate tradwives with housewives in the 1950s. Most of my mom's school years were in the 50s. She idealizes that time in her life, and looks back upon those times with wistfulness and is very unhappy with the current state of society. Dad wore a hat and overcoat to work and took a briefcase, mom was a homemaker who ironed everything, kids didn't beat up teachers, you could live comfortably on one income, etc. I explained to her that she remembered that time as a child. Women had few options…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:33 PM
5

"Aw you're not bad at all! You have xyz awesome traits, don't be so hard on yourself!" Scrotes count on us reacting like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:42 PM
6

Perfect reply to an asshole 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:15 PM
6

“I’m selfish” and “I have nothing to offer, I’m a bullshitter.” Well no shit, Kevin, nice of you to finally catch up. Bye! 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:59 PM
11

Sarcastic = abusive 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:26 PM
43

It's a shit test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:24 AM
15

My daughter found her husband on OLD. They got married 3 years ago and my grandchild is almost 2. My SIL is not perfect, but he's a good guy and just landed a great job, and does right by my daughter. She has a great relationship with her inlaws. My daughter found her hamburger 😆 It's not very likely to happen, but it isn't impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:01 AM
48

I liken contacting an ex, to stepping in dogsh*t, again, but on purpose this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:01 PM
161

These guys are so long winded for what surmounts to "I have never made a woman orgasm" or "I have never touched a woman"... Or.. "I don't care if a woman orgasms, that's her problem"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:54 PM
89

All men are capable of being Low Value. Likewise high value, but I have yet to meet a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:47 PM
6

Cancer, that's low but typical scrote MO. What normal person would be trying to date when their mother is dying? They will say ANYTHING to get their pps wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:58 AM
4

One of the commenters said "I like to pretend that I'm going through something sad just to see how much she is willing to tolerate". Thanks for this insight. No matter what the reason is, fake story or true crisis, it's manipulative and an immediate block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:50 AM
7

miracle births where they should have been dead My NVX had one of those stories, but the best was him being clinically dead for over 10 minutes and revived by the doc's herculean efforts. 🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:39 AM
63

The base of the toilet in particular, even if the bowl, rim, and seat look clean. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:10 AM
9

Same. It's an easy way to weed out the losers early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:52 AM
5

This sounds sooo exhausting. When a scrote becomes a child to raise, which happens all too often, it's time to bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:48 AM
33

All I can say is, I'm glad this is only a boyfriend. Imagine being married to this millstone. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:11 AM
23

Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:03 AM
41

I was just gonna say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:25 PM
27

Men are the ones who often will tell me that i wont be happy if I don't get married or that i will be lonely. They have a tendency to respond with these "threats", especially if they are older than me. This is pure projection from men. They are terrified of dying alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:46 PM
68

Instead of doing all this, just leave the bum. Trust me, I understand the impulse, but nothing good would come of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:18 PM
217

So does he think HE is the 'prize'? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:13 PM
2

"kinky roommate"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:00 PM
1

I'm not surprised. Scrote's gonna scrote. What was the verdict in that case, if you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:49 AM
125

Make him buy his own damn toilet paper. Better yet, dump him, his attitude sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:29 PM
99

They love to claim it was a 'mistake'. 🙄 Like no, Frank, you didn't trip and fall into someone's vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:09 PM
15

Poor baby 🥺🎻🤏 Won't somebody think of the poor scrote?/s And no, this egregious act of cowardice will be what defines him forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:18 AM
47

This is bad advice from a religious zealot. Women shouldn't keep breeding until they hit menopause, and shouldn't stay with shitty men for any length of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:39 AM
101

It's one thing if a pickme chooses to be some scrote's chattel, but this is horrible advice to give other women. I hope it's satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:07 PM
49

Only 4 of 11 comments visible. Scrotes big mad, the truth hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:00 PM
5

Sure, let's keep blaming women. I hate one sided bullshit 'advice' like this, that keeps scrotes scroting. My mom watches a certain tv evangelist every day. Recently, when I was visiting mom, she had the show on, and the pastor was reading a viewer's letter on air. The man who wrote in was complaining about how his wife told him no sex after menopause. What a look of absolute disgust on the pastor's face. The advice from this world renowned man of God, was to get a divorce. (not said: don't even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:10 AM
147

True. I was in a threesome one time thirty years ago, and I still regret it. What I regret more, was telling my ex husband, who would never shut up about me doing it with someone else but refusing him. It's like our trauma doesn't matter at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:28 PM
131

Why is she still with this insecure, depraved scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:58 PM
24

Did a man write this nonsense? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:56 PM
14

It's a nice fantasy, I guess 🦄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:55 PM
5

I had a DVT in the 8th month of my 4th pregnancy. I had pain in my leg and went to the ER and had a leg ultrasound. It took the docs 5 days to get back to me and admit me to the hospital, where I spent 10 days and had to inject blood thinner until my son was 3 weeks old. Mine made the correct diagnosis, but in the 5 days between the ultrasound and me being admitted to the hospital, I could have died from a pulmonary embolism. The delay was the negligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:51 PM
78

I'm not gonna 'talk nice'. I'm not gonna talk at all. Block, delete, next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:54 PM
45

Scrotes are talking out of their ass again. All their blathering 🤡 about FDS just drives more female traffic here, guys, keep up the good work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:50 PM
75

'Giving' women to incels, eh? Like giving a child a baby bunny at Easter? No. He could have ordered a fake diploma off the internet. I doubt this man is an actual PhD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:47 PM
139

Why would he even want a gf at all if this is his way of thinking? Scrotes make no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:00 PM
20

She did that to herself because her husband either cheated or left her for another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:51 PM
15

I'm not sure why I was downvoted here. I was talking about men projecting, not OP. I apologize if I offended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:35 PM
25

Men lose interest ('are not into us') if we don't have sex with them by the third date. Not the other way around. They project this stuff onto us as always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:32 PM
15

That sounds like projection again. How many of us get ghosted after not 'putting out' by the third date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:12 AM
79

Projection again. They always tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:56 AM
7

They want what they can't have. Human nature, as applied to scrotes. And just because they hate us doesn't mean they won't fuck us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:45 AM
23

He's tired of pretending to be normal, looking for his next victim he can abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:43 AM
23

Wtf, that sounds like a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:29 AM
23

Gaming can be an addiction, and addicts are hard to deal with. When something interrupts their game, they get nasty and abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:16 PM
36

Incel a misnomer. It means 'involuntary' celibate. The incels who spew misogynistic hate online could certainly get girlfriends, but they feel entitled only to women who are way out of their league. So technically they are voluntarily celibate, thus 'volcel'. Having shitty personalities doesn't help their cause, either. I choose to be volcel because it's so much better than having to deal with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:33 AM
32

At this point in my life, I would ban video games from my house, rather than clean up after lazy and useless men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:23 AM
12

If that isn't gaslighting, idk what is. High standards are a sign of high self esteem. Your high standards protect you from LVMs and their BS. Only a scrote would get that twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:12 AM
5

Because women are the primary victims, and we don't matter to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:25 PM
66

When people online mock incels and point & laugh at them, I am reminded of all the recent mass crimes committed by incels. Incels are not amusing, they are dangerous and getting more bold and desperate by the day. Incels rant online 24/7 about hate, rpe, vilence, and deth against women and even girls. Every one of them is capable of the high-profile crimes committed by other incels, and every one of their posts is part of their individual and collective maniesto. Fortunately, a few have been sto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:48 PM
37

'Scrote' has been in urban dictionary since 2005. I remember hearing that word on The Wonder Years back like 30 years ago. Kevin's older brother called him a scrote all the time lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:07 PM
49

Several years ago, I met a man in passing who was in the same industry as I. I had to write something down for him, or give him some job-related paperwork. I forget exactly how it went because it was so long ago. He knew who I was because he recognized my distinctive handwriting. He knew who I worked for and used to work for, without knowing my name, just based on my penmanship. This isn't inherently HV behavior, but men are certainly capable of paying close attention and making mental connectio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:45 AM
89

I told my last NVX that a relationship was either a blessing or a lesson, and that he was a lesson. He didn't like that too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:40 PM
91

If she is beautiful, and together they are average, that makes him far below average looking. Look at how their relationship is playing out. Tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:59 PM
32

You are correct. My father never knew his own father, and was raised by a narcissistic mother, who eventually married an abusive drunk and had several more children with him. It had a catastrophic effect on my father's life, and continued the cycle of dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:23 PM
13

I got banned from a fake feminist sub. I imagine because someone checked my post/comment history and saw mostly FDS content. Imagine women getting banned from feminist subs. That's how you know misogynistic men run those subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:47 AM
37

What a POS. He is attracted to his own underage child. And her underage friends. How he worded it, means he's been thinking about it. A lot. The upvotes say it all. I'm not sure where the bar is at this point, but it's a long way down way beneath hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:51 PM
10

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:44 PM
66

This is male cheating behavior, IMO. I'm sure he's showing other red flags that would confirm it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:36 PM
26

So.. avoid men altogether? Way to tell on yourself, Mr Tiger lol. That's actually great advice that I already practice. I do not put myself in situations where I am alone with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:00 PM
22

If someone like Kevin James asked me to get a boob job, I'd tell him to get penis lengthening surgery first. You know a fat slob like that hasn't seen his peepee in years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:49 AM
4

A scrote who believes this manipulative bullshit works would give himself away before it got to this point, and be blocked & deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:27 PM
10

I hope wife #2 takes him to the cleaners. He is the type to demand 50/50 custody even though he doesn't want his own child, to minimize child support payments he would be making. What a POS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:58 PM
195

When you're vetting them, ask what type of porn they watch. They won't realize that any answer other than 'none' gives them away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:15 AM
4

What
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:52 AM
6

The last female boss I had accused me of stealing. Baselessly, I might add. She ruined that job for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:32 AM
83

I despise having a crush. The loss of emotional control never leads to anything good. After finding FDS, I see men in a completely different light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:50 AM
141

I hope she finds her way to FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:30 PM
9

To get sex with the least amount of energy expended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:20 PM
189

That's quite a shit test. Even the pickme 'friend' bought it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:58 PM
70

I would be blunt and ask how he is managing his anxiety. If he is not getting therapy and seeing a psychiatrist regularly, he's undatable. I hate when people use mental illness as an excuse to be shitty people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:46 PM
101

I would say 'Go ahead, put 'sex worker' on a resume. See how it goes.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:27 PM
191

Good response! I am picturing Mr. Broke with a surprised Pikachu face at the end of that exchange. He really expected you to pay. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:51 PM
12

I like the article, it resonates with FDS values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:48 PM
386

Set the roommate up with Mr. Anxiety. Problem solved 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:43 PM
25

Lol I would tell this type of scrote "No, you cannot use my car. Stay true to yourself and walk"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:14 PM
66

But... they ARE trash. Their trashiness isn't always obvious early in a relationship. The overwhelming majority of men are worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:50 PM
76

He's so close to 'getting it'. A stopped clock is right twice a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:45 PM
85

"...but I'm down for NSA sex anyway, just putting that out there "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:43 PM
3

No, he didn't have to announce he was a man. Isn't it just like a scrote to invade women's spaces where they are not wanted. I am SO grateful for our mods who keep FDS scrote free! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:18 PM
34

I'm so happy you found FDS ❤️ before something awful happened with that POS scrote. 💀 And with pickme friends like that, you do not need enemies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:33 PM
3

I'd worry most about dying while under anesthesia, like Joan Rivers and Kanye West's mother died while under. And of course about blood clots, botched results, and looking like I had obvious plastic surgery. It looks like most of the celebrities who had a face lift, all used the same surgeon 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:25 PM
419

None, because I had no interactions with any men this week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:08 PM
145

Next time block the scrote and burn the shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:07 PM
34

When MGTOW bring this up, it's a self own. 4 out of 5 women who get a divorce have had ENOUGH. The 1 out of 5 women who didn't initiate divorce may have left the marriage first but the man filed first. This was my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:55 PM
17

The Swan was the only 'reality show' I ever watched to completion. I was only interested in the weight loss/fitness aspect. The plastic surgery sent a negative message to viewers, including me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:45 PM
240

And yet, the average man can look at any automobile and tell you the year, make, model, engine size, available trim, horsepower, spark plug gap, and the car designer's MIL's bra size (/s) The point is, he has to care. Men who don't know your name after 4 years simply don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:32 AM
18

If I found myself needing to do shit like this, I'd cut out photos of a divorce courtroom, a judge, and lawyers, and stick them all to a piece of paper. Do you think the scrote would 'get the picture'? 😏 Edit: word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:00 PM
86

I see a scrote who prioritizes his stupid fucking video games over his relationship. I also see his pickme SO enabling his bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:48 PM
16

I've never heard that expression before either, and I took it to mean relationship issues in this context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:06 PM
152

If their 'few bucks' had really been 'handled gracefully and respectfully', their newfound passion wouldn't already be cooling off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:36 AM
30

The first red flag was the first sentence. He hates his job. Which leads into.. he hates to work. Huge red flag, right out of the gate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:15 AM
18

That's typical projection. He's the promiscuous one, still married and living with another woman. What a complete asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:29 PM
12

It is discouraging, but you are right. If they are powerful enough, they get away with everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:20 PM
33

Bill Cosby got off due to a technicality, despite a mountain of proof. I hope all legal procedures were/are properly followed this time. Edit: clarification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:16 PM
4

I'd love to spread FDS everywhere I go. I want to buy some of these, as I have no way to print them myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:03 PM
21

Why did this scrote marry her if she had a 'promiscuous past'?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:59 PM
13

Did you respond, leave him on read, or block & delete?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:31 PM
78

LOL whoopsie he better go find some advice that actually works. Like, learn how to take a hint, for starters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:28 PM
21

EWWWW 🤢🤮💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:30 AM
47

Their expressions remind me of the classic comedy and tragedy masks. However, it's too tragic to be funny. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:39 PM
133

"this is what we're gonna do, but don't tell anybody" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:33 PM
23

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:30 PM
197

Mom hasn't yet realized the umbilical cord was cut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:45 PM
3

It doesn't matter to a scrote, as long as he can get his pp wet sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:28 PM
253

The woman looks manic and the scrote looks.. scrotey, I guess. This is just ridiculous. If you feel the need to do this to get a man to be a responsible adult, walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:23 PM
7

I am so glad she stood up for me. The situation you describe is different, so it may have gone differently. It makes me sad that we have to keep our mouths shut to avoid that violence being turned toward us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:15 PM
26

I wish I could find that woman and thank her. It took me 6 more months to be rid of that POS loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:24 PM
22

It still shows as message from a blocked user. That sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:15 PM
26

Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:48 PM
79

I've gotten two su*cide bot messages so far 😂 Scrotes BIG mad! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:43 PM
29

Me too, sis! It's been almost a year since I flushed him out of my life. AFAIK, he met someone else thru OLD. He is no longer my problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:38 PM
59

I posted about how my NVX went off on me in a store, and another shopper went off on him. Same scrote, different day: we went fishing one night and he got angry with me over something stupid, as usual. By then, it was 1am and I was tired and fed up with his shit, so I told him I was done and I'd be waiting for him in the car. He screamed at me that he hated me, hoped I'd die, etc. This echoed across the lake. I wish I had left him there. After, he acted like nothing happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:31 PM
234

I'll never live with a man again, even if I get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:31 PM
31

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:27 PM
8

Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:22 PM
84

Mansplaining how to disclose abuse? Fuck this guy. I went thru this with my NVX. It was months before I told my family what an abusive POS he was. When he found out about it, he flipped out and accused me of 'stabbing him in the back'. I'm still grateful I no longer have to deal with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:59 PM
29

I need to make sure that I stop ignoring red flags because that is my biggest issue. Mine too, sis. This is the dating strategy that I need to work on the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:15 PM
303

"...this will hurt the porn industry" Good, that's the whole idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:23 PM
163

I'm not dating because I have too much personal stuff going on right now, and I don't have the energy or motivation to date anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:46 PM
1

That's my thinking. Get it on record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:16 AM
420

When a man goes through pregnancy, labor, and childbirth, then he can dictate what a woman can eat. Do scrotes ever stop policing women's bodies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:18 PM
92

I read as far as 'broken kitchen appliances' and had to stop. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:36 AM
3

It's something I am going to bring up when I see my therapist again. Maybe I can have him prosecuted. It happened two years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:24 PM
314

What would I have done? Paid for my own meal and told the server the gentleman would be paying for his own meal. Then block & delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:09 PM
137

What a jerk. He was rude by ignoring your signs. And to call YOU rude? Lol my petty ass would find out who he worked for and get him fired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:19 PM
61

I'm glad that whiny scrote was only on screen for a short time. 'Waaah waaah I deserve a woman even tho I'm a loser waaah!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:51 PM
37

Red flags are like cockroaches. When you see one, you know there are more hiding. 🚩🚩🚩 serve as a warning, which will always end up being a deal breaker. My issue has been identifying those early red flags, and when I do, being able to walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:36 PM
61

My NVX convinced me I was crazy and to take his antidepressants which he didn't take. No need to see a psychiatrist, just take these pills. I told him I'd be getting therapy, too, and he didn't like that. He knew what a therapist would tell me to do about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 12:39 PM
68

I consider OLD similar to a curb alert after a yard sale on craigslist. All the crap nobody else wants, waiting at the curb for trash day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:26 PM
115

Men are always objectifying us. TRP 'wisdom' is to compare us to fishing, as in do you ask the fish how to catch fish?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:04 PM
28

Excellent advice! It belongs in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:13 PM
27

Edit: it looks like the 'man medals' ARE the gold stickers 🤦🏼‍♀️💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:25 PM
62

Pathetic. Does it come with gold stickers for his forehead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:24 PM
9

I only have alt fb accounts because it's good to have one for other purposes. No friends on FB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:05 PM
109

I'm looking for a vetting strategy to weed out these cheap ass scrotes before the first date, to avoid this nonsense altogether. Other than asking directly or him telling you, how can you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:03 PM
32

You know he's lurking here right now. You can spell things out for them plainly and they pretend to not hear you. Or they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:43 PM
39

If he's gonna stay single, he can go for it, as creepy as it is. But if I met a guy who did this, I'd think he wasn't ready to start a new relationship, and I'd block delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:29 PM
15

But she specifically asked him not to text and he did it anyway. That's the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:25 PM
20

No, cut your losses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:22 PM
147

I hope she didn't accept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:41 PM
54

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:24 PM
39

I wouldn't consider dating if I had mental health issues or other big complicated life problems, it wouldn't be fair to dump all that on a new partner. I know that getting involved with anyone at this point would set me back in progress. I wish men understood the necessity of healing before dating again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:48 PM
22

Wtf is that? It looks like a mealworm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:14 PM
634

This is healthy. You recognized his high values, realized that just because he has HVM qualities, you may not be compatible, he agreed because you are correct, and he didn't get squirrelly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:44 PM
5

It's a hookup site
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:48 PM
132

This scrote made it all about himself. He is the type to demand this woman to let him act out his rpe fantasies on her, because she 'let' other men rpe her and she is denying him acting out his fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:16 PM
153

Men are conditioned to hate women, and women are conditioned to accept men's bullshit and blame themselves if their relationship has issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:49 PM
100

Is this type of post some new manipulation technique? This guy has got a 'bad boy' vibe. He has a menacing presence if all women react that way. Common denominator, etc. The bar is so low, this post was actually celebrated. Wearing pickme blinders is hazardous to our health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:34 PM
65

He makes it a point to immediately list his height and weight, like his post is a pseudo OLD ad, talking to his bros, but aiming at his female audience. I'm going to watch for more posts like these. It bothers me that pickmes gave money to reddit to buy those awards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:50 PM
500

Virtue signaling douchery. Do something about the issue. I'm sure the pickmes love him. You know that's who gave him all those awards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:35 PM
55

There is truth in jest. All the men HE knows are like that because that's primarily who he associates with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:20 PM
35

My NVX used to brag about being this awesomely skilled tech guy. Yet when I opened my laptop for the first time since I left him and found his main email address wide open, I was reminded of the fact that he was full of shit about his tech prowess. Plus, as of May, he was still on adult friend finder 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:58 PM
45

This scrote I was involved with several years ago told me when he was married, he had to work out of state and would cheat on his wife. His rationale was she would never know. I guess he didn't care how this made him look. Sadly, this man pounded me over the head with red flags all the way through, and it was still months before I was able to get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:49 PM
1

When my NVX used to talk to me like this, I'd piss him off by saying "If only your opinion mattered."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:47 AM
32

Wait until someone tells him about periods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:29 AM
23

Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:12 AM
1

From what I read, he aligns with John Gray, the Mars and Venus guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:10 AM
23

They are like Wile E. Coyote chasing the Roadrunner and getting smashed by the boulders that they let loose on themselves through their own shit-brained schemes This is poetry 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:21 AM
41

I've heard somewhere and I quote, you can sue a ham sandwich. How could he possibly win? He knows it won't fly, but he sure got to her, didn't he? This is terrifying. When he loses, who knows how he will react?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:05 AM
23

Yes please 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:50 AM
23

Ick, shower in a can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:47 AM
6

🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:39 AM
28

That works 😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:55 AM
59

I'm glad I'm still wearing a mask, because I involuntarily make stank face when I see most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:35 AM
58

Someone should make a mockup of a version for men. I lack Photoshop skills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:33 AM
22

This poor woman. A man who goes on and on about religion is already a no-go, and it's no surprise that so many narcs are drawn to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:10 PM
149

Tell me why when I checked his "dogs" instagram account, his poor dog was following over 2k instagram models/pornstars. I'm sorry, but this is hilarious 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:41 PM
46

She never gave him permission to upload her nudes or their sex video online. She may have a good revenge porn case. I'd be out for blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:39 PM
24

What a POS. The sad thing is, some pickme will think 'i CaN cHaNgE hIm'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:50 PM
1

I'm waiting for your answer. I need to know what I'm doing wrong 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:11 PM
0

These guys love to play these little games, and can't understand why they have no luck with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:08 PM
1

He won't get even a part time job to pay toward his own living expenses. The man is a leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:49 PM
3

Why did she ask him for his birthday money ? I'd love to know the answer to that. 100% she has a very good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:43 PM
7

By his logic, the next time I pay rent to a landlord, I am going to request the deed to the property I'm renting, and I better get it. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:39 PM
89

Thank God she 'found' evidence of his depravity only a month in. Edit: was this the definitive reason why she dumped him, or was it the whole low-effort thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:11 PM
1

What do women need to figure out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:51 PM
2

A man in that situation needs to figure it out, not whine on Reddit about how nobody wants him. If the dating practices in this sub actually worked, why are there so many bitter men posting about how they still can't get a GF? Let me guess, it's all the women's fault, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:23 PM
9

You have no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:34 PM
49

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:29 PM
215

I don’t get how is that supposed to turn someone on. Projection. In general, sex is centered around male ejaculation. They think they make you 'cum' the way they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:59 PM
49

Whom do even date and marry then?! This is why FDS exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:39 PM
56

I feign vomiting Now that's a good strategy. Just pray that the man doesn't have a vomit kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:38 PM
54

He claimed he always paid anyway, but shit tested to see if women offered. I can only imagine how this man treats women in a relationship. If I went on a date with this man, I didn't offer to pay, he paid and never contacted me again, it wouldn't matter anyway. I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't want to be with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:26 PM
129

Dead soulless eyes Porn destroys the mind and soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:19 PM
95

This topic does not get enough exposure. When I first met my last NVX, (thru OLD) my gut told me immediately NOPE. But I had been single for years, he was attractive enough and I told my inner guide to take a hike. Oh, do I still regret not heeding that inner voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:10 PM
520

My personal experience with porn addicts: They want you to perform something for them that seems weird, or a sexual act or position you are not familiar or comfortable with. Sex feels performative with them They get off on your suffering (this happened to me last year) They have ED. This is telling for younger men who should have no trouble getting it up. This is from constantly jerking off to porn, and/or needing more extreme sex acts to get off They follow nude/scantily clad 'models' on IG or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:57 AM
7

Did you tell the medical caller they had the wrong number?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:46 AM
31

another victim, another skull for the pickme skull throne 😂🤣🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:45 AM
68

That is why they see dating, sex, relationships, and even marriage as transactions This. They can be sneaky about it, too. One gent commenting in the other sub said he shit tests women by seeing if she offers to pay. If she doesn't, there will be no second date. This highlights the need to check a man's social media history before that first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:43 AM
21

Funny you should mention supermarket. My ex and I were together 24/7 (he insisted) and I would argue with him in stores because I wanted some alone time to shop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:22 AM
73

I was just on another relationship sub debating who pays on dates. So many men feel entitled to 50/50 on a first date. The red flags are there, we just need to know what we are looking at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:17 AM
1

Since the man does the asking, the man does the paying. It's pretty simple. I don't ask and I don't pay, so for me, 'whoever' would be the man. In a lesbian situation, obviously a woman will be paying, but since both are women.. point is who asks, pays. Last summer, a female friend visited me from out of state. I asked her to lunch, and I paid... Point is who asks, pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:06 AM
144

Never trust a man with your money This. Early in my last relationship, my NVX tried to sweet talk me into letting him handle my finances, citing BS reasons. I was immediately like fuck no. He was furious, but oh well. That was one of the few ways I was able to stand up to him. After a while, I realized he would have used my money to finance illegal activities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:45 AM
88

Does he expect to live there for free? She is probably tired of supporting a career student who pays almost nothing to live there. Thank goodness there's a prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:33 AM
16

Yes, when I was young and stupid, I asked men out. It never worked out. I am embarrassed to think about it, years later. A woman who asks a man out, never knows how the man really feels about her. That is not my definition of a happy relationship. I speak from experience. Yes, it's the man's job. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:21 AM
10

Nope, if a man asks me out, he pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:46 PM
5

Women certainly can be attracted to narcissistic men. However, narcissistic men are very well known to behave themselves and love bomb women at the beginning of the relationship until the woman gets attached, then the mask slips and the monster appears. I didn't know my ex was a narcissist until it was too late. The very last thing I want is to be with that type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:40 PM
29

Do you think these purveyors of scrotedom are the only ones who do this? Now watch the floodgates open and other video game companies come under fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:23 PM
32

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:25 PM
86

I'm all for cross dressing couples costumes. If a man willingly puts on fishnets, garter belt stilettos, bra, lingerie, makeup, etc because you ask him to, he's secure in his masculinity, and that's a green flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:23 PM
22

The Streisand effect works in mysterious ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:01 PM
15

He looks like he has some chromosomal disorder. May he never again walk free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:56 PM
323

Why are men? I have two exes who would get furious when I would get my period and they wouldn't be able to use me as a human fleshlight. Another one was so grossed out by periods in general, you would think he was 9 years old.. this 'man' is in his 50s. Worthless, the lot of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:11 PM
-11

I meant I am not raising children anymore. They are adults, I am no longer responsible for them, they are all self supporting, and I am in full contact with all 4 of them. So
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:06 PM
55

If a man doesn't have the 'capacity' to respect a woman's needs, he is utterly worthless. And probably has a very low IQ. I don't bother with morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:51 PM
201

🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:29 PM
141

The fact that these women have to ask. Makes me sad and furious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:28 PM
100

I read this as: 'accept and tolerate abuse'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:27 PM
36

Yes. And I regret giving him another chance. One thing I absolutely despise about cell phones is you can block a phone number, but they can still leave voice mail. I've gotten in the habit of automatically changing my phone number when I end a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:46 PM
15

I am not childfree, but I am free of children. Mine are in their 20s and 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:54 AM
145

Oddly enough, I'm at my loneliest when I am in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:49 PM
147

From the article: if you’re a man, you should probably get married; if you’re a woman, don’t bother. The men should all just marry each other and leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:46 PM
30

It's nothing but projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:40 PM
94

This man despises her. She needs a good divorce lawyer now to take his cheap ass to the cleaners, get everything she can. Can you imagine having a baby with this asshole? Having to go through pregnancy and childbirth for this scrote, and then have to pay for all of it yourself? And take care of the scrote, too. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:19 PM
16

Are you me? I still thank God every day that I am free of the monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:31 PM
59

This is so true. I was a white knuckle passenger when my NVX drove. He drove too fast, got speed camera tickets, jammed on the brakes, made risky maneuvers in traffic, etc. And he was as LV as the day is long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:54 PM
9

I liked this actor, for his acting, before FDS. I didn't know any of this until recently. He is the biggest LVM! And another glaring example of why money and fame do not make a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:48 AM
4

So... what else is he lying about? I wouldn't want to stick around and find out. At first I thought this was a fake post and may be, but think about what lengths men go to, in order to deceive women. This guy's mom is probably raising his kid and he goes to 'visit'. It would be super easy for him to hide his kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:43 AM
18

I love her response. Too bad it would be wasted on a real, mouth breathing scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:39 AM
22

Being religious is a big red flag for me. So many people use their religious beliefs to control other people. Unless I am mistaken, most if not all of the 'major' religions expect women to be submissive to men. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:35 AM
54

My second husband purchased the 'equipment' so I could peg him. It was a strange experience, and not one I'll ever repeat. He also wasn't interested in my orgasms. He recently married #3, but I'm really wondering if he's in the closet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:25 AM
4

Close-minded and prudish Translation: not willing to put up with a man's bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:19 AM
25

There's a FB tag page called 'but did you get picked, sis?' I think I got tagged once.😂 I'm not on social media anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:15 AM
37

😂🤭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:00 AM
32

I didn't read past the title, because exes need to be blocked so they can't text you anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:09 AM
46

Scrote doesn't understand why he's wrong. How about because random women don't want to see your dick, Kevin. Flashers used to get arrested. Used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:06 AM
23

Their answers are pure projection, of course. I get why you engaged them, but it never does any good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:14 PM
7

I love posts like this, but I could not read past the first few sentences of that wall of text. What a waste of time, energy, and effort. This is an example of why FDS teaches us to wait a few minutes, get up, leave, block, delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:57 AM
208

Until you actually ask something that makes him squirm lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:48 AM
51

I'd give him advice, but I don't want to get banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:38 AM
2

Several years ago, a guy I knew made me the same offer, to be a kept woman while he went off to work 12 hours a day. I tried to keep a straight face as I politely declined. The last time I saw him, he was with his next choice. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:55 AM
1

Or recently dumped and on the rebound
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:51 AM
12

I've never watched this movie, and now I have to lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:48 AM
16

My goal is to get a decent tax credit to make up for what he didn't pay for living expenses. I am still struggling, almost a year later. If he gets in trouble for it, that's his problem, he should have done the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:37 AM
9

Wow. What ultimately happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:11 AM
40

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:17 PM
37

A trade union would be immensely helpful. I've been sexually harassed at almost every job I've held. This idea was relevant decades ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:16 PM
122

Sounds like my ex. After we got our apartment, he refused to pay his share of bills as he promised to. He had excuse after excuse and changed up the bill-division arrangement we had made before signing the lease. Financial abuse on top of emotional, verbal, and mental abuse. I figured out a way to be made financially whole. I am self-employed, and he is on disability. He never updated his info with SS to include my income, and may have to pay back almost 2 years of benefits once I amend my last …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:32 PM
339

Women get wise with age, and we are far less likely to tolerate BS from men. Scrotes always get it twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:23 PM
153

A good deed is its own reward, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:18 AM
1

I had one too, and my kids had more than one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:40 PM
19

In their minds, 'kind and genuine' doesn't get them laid, at least as quickly as they would like. PUA appeals to an instant-gratification mindset, which never leads to anything good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:44 PM
123

...just leave me." If a man ever says this to me, I'm going to do just that. Imagine the surprised pikachu face lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:08 PM
5

It's in your account settings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:59 PM
45

Seriously, why even question and analyze a man's unwanted behavior? As soon as you realize he's a whack job, you block & delete. This tells me the OP has a whole lot of mental health issues themselves, which is why I am skeptical about therapy in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:48 PM
20

I disabled dm and chat months ago. This morning, I got a hate comment on another sub I posted on. Blocked and reported as hate speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:56 PM
28

My last NVex threw a mental fit on our third 'date' (not directed at me) which I immediately knew was a deal breaker, but I stayed out of fear. Had I known about FDS before I met him, he never would have passed the earliest vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:04 PM
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I've caught shit about my phone usage. To be honest, both scrotes didn't deserve my attention anyway. The first scrote would be drunk and wanting attention. Unless I was going to allow him to look up porn on my phone. He was shameless about his porn consumption. When the second scrote complained, asking me why I was on my phone so much, I would tell him my phone didn't call me a fcking cnt or a stupid bitch. He never had a suitable reply, and called me those things the next time we would 'bicker…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:32 PM
6

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:48 PM
10

I recently found myself crushing on this guy I run into on occasion, before I caught and stopped myself. Past pickme would have made a fool of myself to get his attention. Crushes don't just stall progress, they set you back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:32 AM
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guys will very very often point out things under the guise of "my ex did this" I would tell my last NVX that if I did a thing, and his ex did the same thing, he was the common denominator. Men don't like to be told about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:12 AM
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This is the hallmark of a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:08 PM
606

Be a fuckboi or be celibate are the only two choices? Cool. Please stay celibate and don't reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:19 PM
63

Scrotes are becoming self aware? Dare I hope? Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:27 PM
116

If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:37 PM
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You and I have a lot in common. I am also 53 and twice married. I have no desire to marry again. I will never live with a man again, regardless of relationship status. Women like me are magnets for hobosexual predators. It's worth paying more to live independently. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:28 PM
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Used car dealers and repo guys, because lying is integral to their jobs. Doctors because they have huge egos and tend to be narcissists. Lawyers because of how they can manipulate the legal system to ruin women (read: Betty Broderick story), among other reasons. Military and veterans for the same reasons as law enforcement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:04 AM
10

I wouldnt be surprised. Resentment can come out in strange ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:47 PM
13

Thanks for the award ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:53 PM
18

I wish, but I see him around regularly, he is a pizza delivery driver in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:19 PM
21

You are unfortunately correct. I am friends with his brother who told me it was the same thing when he rented a room from their SIL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:54 PM
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I didn't go in his room, didn't know it was this bad until everyone moved out... Scrote's excuse was 'depression'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:01 PM
48

I am so sorry, but this was my reality two summers ago. Yes, scrotes actually do live like this, it's so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:31 PM
77

I'm sorry, here's what he slept on. NSFW http://imgur.com/gallery/etRWtqO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:19 PM
118

Sheets, you say? My former LVM roommate didn't use sheets on the crusty, disintegrating mattress he put on the floor with no box or frame. So the man has to have sheets in the first place 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:37 PM
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is sad and telling that the wife would be open to that kind of email. This isn’t the first time, folks. I was going to say the same thing. The irony is, she created her boutique business to 'empower women'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:02 PM
128

True enough. However, this man's careless misogyny ruined his wife's business, he didn't apologize to the woman he insulted, and the internet is forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:55 AM
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They do it to control us. And they will fuck anything if given the opportunity. The woman in the article is beautiful, the man in question looks like a bridge troll. His 'not that cute' comment sure looks like projection, how very scrote-y of this man. I am hoping the woman who owns the boutique immediately gets rid of the loser and is able to restore her business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:47 AM
125

They always tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:31 AM
104

Also, it doesn't appear that he owns a mirror. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:30 AM
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The boutique in question was founded by a woman who is all about 'empowering women'. If this woman stays with this man who ruined her business, that's not very empowering. The scrote who got outed was reportedly crying after the backlash. Not because he was wrong as he claimed, but because he got exposed for his misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:27 AM
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how to break up with her without ‘ruining her for the next guy’. No concern at all for us, just looking out for his fellow scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:11 AM
2

I signed a lease with my last NVex. Huge mistake, which I quickly realized. Several months before the lease was to expire, I made a plan to give the landlord notice to vacate the month before the lease ended, but then the pandemic happened, and I ended up staying 4 months longer than I needed to. I will never live with a man again, IDC how good the relationship is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:54 PM
40

I started getting a headache 30 seconds in. And the misogyny in the comments 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:54 PM
40

Tbh, some stepmothers are horribly jealous and abusive to their stepkids. These women are ultra pickmes. They want the man at any cost, even if the man comes with unwanted kids. Ask me how I and my kids know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:45 PM
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A man in my age group (50s) who has minor children doesn't sit right with me. My kids are grown and living independently, and I do not want to take on that responsibility again. I say again for all the obvious reasons you stated, being an unpaid babysitter. Also, an ex in the picture who is still involved. Hell no. And why is a man with minor children even thinking about dating? He needs to take care of his children, who are likely traumatized by their parents splitting up. These men are selfish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:41 PM
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She must have thanked her lucky stars that she had already left him before the pandemic hit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:37 PM
11

So you see, Mr. Scrotey, there's this thing called Google..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:30 PM
10

I am 53 and I don't think I've ever personally met a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:45 PM
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Feminism is ruining marriage ((for men)) He omitted that disclaimer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:41 PM
10

I'm also tall and not insecure about it at all. What a perfect blood drop for a blood in the water test 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:05 PM
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LVM who condemn women for height preferences are the same ones who judge women from 1-10 and insist on dating supermodels, in spite of said scrotes who rate only a 2 or 3, by their own standards. Keep crying scrotes, and go be short somewhere else 😂 🦐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:05 PM
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This person acknowledges why women avoid narcissists and toxic men, then goes on to bash women. These guys know what they are doing, and when we don't respond the way they expect us to, we are the bad guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:06 PM
5

I wondered if he meant driver or rider. Either means he is trying to convince you he isn't a scrote. Also, either way it doesn't matter, his whole profile screams NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:33 AM
76

Agreed. The man gets to come home and put his feet up and call it a day, while the woman doesn't. It's even worse when the woman puts in a full days work outside the home, and has to do both home maintenance and child care after work, because the man refuses to do it. That's three jobs. Four if that scrote whines about having a dead bedroom because you are 'too tired'. Women can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:11 AM
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We should make a form for men with the yes/no dealbreakers being: Do you have at least one 'crazy ex'? Are you bald, fat, short or ugly? Do you believe in 50/50? Do you consume porn in any way? Are you on Reddit? Can anyone add to this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:33 AM
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That's way too soon for him to be looking for a new relationship, after 10 years with someone. You could very well be a rebound. And not married? 🚩 When a man tells you that you are too good for him, believe him. I learned this the hard way. Sometimes men are actually honest, but you have to know what to listen for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:57 PM
34

I have an ex who would just not take no for an answer re: alcohol consumption. Up until recently, I'd visit him out of boredom. Sometimes I would have part of a beer and he'd be pressuring me to drink more/faster. He is also a heavy smoker and I quit smoking over 5 years ago. Last year, I got in a huge fight with him one night because he was drunk and I didn't want to take him to the store for cigarettes at 1am, after I had taken sleep meds. I finally gave in and ended up leaving later in the mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:31 PM
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Wow, she made the right choice! What a POS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:49 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:43 PM
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Thank you for your kind words. People who destroy other people and laugh while they are doing it are a special breed. I never understood how parents (mainly fathers, but women can be just as bad) justify physically harming their children. My ex husband used to brag that he was 'spanked' as a child and he 'turned out fine'. Yet, he told me when he was a teenager, he beat the crap out his stepfather for abusing his mother. The cognitive dissonance is mind boggling. Edit: not just physically harmin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:04 AM
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I don't drink and the assumption is that I'm an alcoholic. The peer pressure is off the charts. I just don't like it, and can't even force it down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:33 AM
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I had my drink spiked at age 17. It wasn't my drink, but a bottle that got passed around. I didn't wake up until the next afternoon. I still don't know if anything happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:30 AM
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Spoken like a true sadist, just like my father and my ex husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:09 PM
9

That's a 12 year age gap. This poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:00 PM
3

This is true. My NVX was jealous of my cat and abused him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:48 PM
2

Perhaps he doesn't like dogs because dogs don't like him? There's an old saying that goes "if my dog doesn't like you, neither do I" dogs can sense when someone is not a good person. This guy is a whack job with a bad attitude and dogs can pick up on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:45 PM
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"Someone who values you will never put themselves in the position to lose you." I'm not sure who takes credit for this quote, but it resonates. If a NVM hurts you, don't feel bad about dumping him. Also, he will only pretend to change to get back in your pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:12 PM
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Oh yes, when I finally told family members about the abuse I was dealing with, my NVX lost his shit and accused me of 'stabbing him in the back' like I'm sorry not sorry, Scrotey, you don't get to abuse me and keep it a secret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:00 PM
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Haha I love this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:50 PM
49

Looks like I found my kink 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:30 PM
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I see lots of screen shots of posts by alleged HVM that shame LVM for abu sing women. I am so deeply mistrustful of men, I look at these pro-women posts and wonder if the man who wrote it is just pandering to women to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:42 PM
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Yikes, then it's even more urgent that she remove herself from that situation! She has no recourse and setting herself up to get royally f*cked over by that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:36 AM
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Men do not care if you are sad. Once upon a time, I told my ex husband that I wasn't happy with him or the marriage. His response? He was perfectly happy and didn't know what my problem was. If your partner is miserable, how can you be happy? I guess it's easy if you are a narcissistic asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:28 AM
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That was my sticking point with the reply. Asking questions would not be productive at all, pointless really. Just leave without any words or drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:18 AM
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I get that, and I would be tempted to tell him off. But it is more effective not to react at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:14 AM
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Pickme-me would have been devastated by hearing this, and jump through hoops to be what this guy wants. FDS-me would say 'ok' and block/delete and never look back. Edit: I just noticed the second slide. Ask questions? What? Don't ask the scrote anything, just walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:59 AM
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Oh, he says plenty about himself. He uses a lot of words to say 'I have unreasonable demands because I am pathologically insecure. Date me at your own risk'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:55 AM
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You don't avoid the question, you just don't answer it. A man should not be asking that, it's a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:25 AM
11

The next guy who suggests anal is going to get this response: "Sure, you go first. I'll get my biggest dildo. Bend over." No, Scrotey? Why not? Fair is fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:23 AM
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She is better off divorcing him and getting spousal support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:11 AM
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I thought it was no-talking-about-exes at first, but then realized it was literally no exes. Wow. I'll bet this guy has exes, tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:39 AM
9

My same ex husband was capable of taking apart a car engine, replacing/fabricating parts himself and putting it back together and having it run. Yet, he flatly refused to do laundry. Idk why, he never gave a reason, he just would not do even his own laundry. I don't miss that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:31 PM
61

My ex husband badgered me for the same reason. Now I will never discuss my sexual past with any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:48 PM
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It's on my must-watch list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:04 PM
35

"Well my job is harder!" That's what my LVM ex used to say. Any excuse to get out of household tasks and dump them on the woman .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:54 PM
3

'ONLY' pretty daughters. Like sons would have been preferable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:30 PM
69

Now that's what I call desperation. I would be embarrassed to admit this to family members, let alone online to the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:15 PM
172

She needs to put on a pad, pack her stuff, and leave. Like, now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:18 PM
3

IDK about that. We were together 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:43 PM
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No.. she is actually in her late 30s, like my daughter. My NVX had something nasty to say about everyone, except my oldest daughter and my mom. None of my family had done anything to provoke his hatred, he was just a miserable, hateful bastard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:30 PM
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My NVX despised a friend of mine for no reason. This young woman was a friend of my daughter and needed her battery jumped, so she called me. I went over with Scrotey and took care of it. He was nice to her face, but when we left, he called her some of the most vile names. She never did anything to him, it was the first time the two had met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:17 PM
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I used to feel guilty about a man spending money on me and I would be the one to suggest cheap dates 🤡 my self esteem has been in the toilet my entire life and I'm working to build it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:21 PM
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Oddly enough, this is what I would tell someone who asked me out. I don't like myself fat, and I wouldn't want to be with someone who liked fat women. Idk if it's different when men say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:18 PM
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My NVX still socializes with the ex who did him dirty. In fact, he has lived with her and her new man, after she supposedly cheated on my ex and he caught her in the act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:21 AM
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I am Gen X. One excuse I've heard from men was, since their job was 'harder' than my job, they were entitled to not have to do any upkeep of the home and minimal child care. They always had the energy to do fun weekend- warrior stuff, though. Meanwhile, I had little fun time because I had to pick up the slack. And people wonder why you seethe with resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:46 PM
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It is actually common. Most people who are used to walking all over you will not like it at all and will get ugly with you. Someone's respect/lack of respect for you is determined by their reaction to your firm boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:24 PM
1

Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:00 AM
59

This is the trash taking itself out. I would not want a man like this around my children anyway, even if he has kids of his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:41 PM
21

Please re-read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:59 PM
6

AncestryDNA keeps sending me teaser info about British Vikings, maybe that. I haven't looked into it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:57 PM
48

Ewwwww WTF is this? We need to normalize women not tolerating this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:15 PM
22

The preservation instinct has been socialized out of women. We've literally been brainwashed to accept abuse masquerading as sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:42 PM
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I've been with guys who announce that they are assholes, early in the relationship. Including the last one 🤡 and I still stayed 🤡🤡 and they weren't joking. When they say stuff like this, believe them. It's one of the few times you will catch them being honest, and it's your cue to run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:38 PM
33

This is what happened to the lead actress's daughter in Three Billboards outside Ebbings, Missouri. 'R*ped while dying' was on one of the billboards. And now in real life it's normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:31 PM
2

Two brain cells, you say? One's lost and the other one is out looking for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:27 PM
48

My LVex husband gave me HPV almost 30 years ago.. the kind that turns into cancer. I had the LEEP procedure done and so far, all pap smears have been normal. Fingers crossed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:34 PM
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They are telling you what you can expect to see if you end up waking up next to them.🤢 I saw so many selfies of disgusting men lying in bed giving come-hither eyes at the camera. No thanks! It's never the good looking guys, just the fat, ugly, bald ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:44 AM
19

I would do it for free 😂 but getting paid would hardly seem like working
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:25 AM
104

The fucking fish pics 🤦🏼‍♀️ and lots of photos of bars and the guy with a drink in his hand. And motorcycles. I always wondered why most male profiles were like this. Now I know. When I did OLD, I felt the urge to critique these guys and heckle them for their ridiculous personal ads, but I didn't want to give them any attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:10 AM
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Thanks for posting. IMO, the very core of FDS is walking away at the first sign of disrespect, since that's where the trouble begins. Your story drives the point home. I'm happy you were able to get rid of that guy. My last relationship turned out to be the most damaging one of my entire dating life. It ended last September, and I found FDS earlier this year. I'm so happy I did. I'm not sure if I will ever get in another relationship, but I want to be able to protect myself in case I do meet som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:41 AM
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Message to scrotes reading; these tactics only work on insecure girls. If you want to enter a good relationship this is NOT how you get a girl Scrotes do not care if the relationship is good for you, only if it is good for them. All they want is free easy sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:49 AM
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She doesn't look like she is enjoying that kiss. Her expression looks like she smells something bad. Also, she is beautiful and has it all, and settles for that greasy looking dude? Why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:41 AM
2

I don't understand why there is even a conservatorship. Is it because Britney shaved her head and went after the paparazzi with an umbrella? So what, lots of people have meltdowns. This reeks of golddigging by her family and anyone associated with her. And she is not allowed to take out her IUD? WTAF is this?? How can this even be happening? I pray she can regain control over her own life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:19 PM
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My last NVex made about a quarter of what I make. His excuse for not wanting to pay his share of rent and living expenses was that I was 'already paying rent anyway' whether or not he was there. This is their freeloading attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:40 PM
32

They don't even care about their own health, let alone ours. It's so risky, why do we even bother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:30 PM
76

Yet more proof that LVM are bad for our health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:04 PM
34

It can be hard to avoid, some hide their nastiness really well. Then, we find out the hard way, like this young woman did. We need to teach young women (all women, really) when to walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:59 PM
40

WOW 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:28 PM
47

I am wondering why he was not blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:45 PM
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This is just sad. This beautiful girl needs to get rid of that unwashed scrote immediately. We need to normalize just ending any involvement with LVM at the very first sign of LV behavior. Also, why are so many men this nasty? Take a shower, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:41 PM
11

OLD is generally frowned upon by FDS, and with good reason. I liken OLD to hunting at the landfill. Sometimes you find something valuable, but most of it is garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:30 PM
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Haha, he is soooo jealous and cannot control her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:38 AM
24

What? Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:10 AM
16

If I wanna get some and have a choice between a good looking guy and and an ugly guy, I'm going for the good looking guy. If it's a choice between an ugly dude and a toy, I better stock up on batteries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:40 PM
10

I just did laundry at a laundromat in high heat and humidity. 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:06 PM
108

Hey scrotes: It'S biOLoGy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:13 PM
24

Yes. I lost a fair amount of hair over my ex. It's just starting to really grow in now, after almost a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:48 AM
7

Or c * nts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:59 PM
19

He can cure his own blue balls with his hand and a sock, like they all do. I wonder if their manipulative BS actually works on actual women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:46 PM
15

What? They have the urge to k*ll women right after sex? WTAF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:42 PM
9

It looks like a woman wrote that screed. 'seeing other women in leggings' makes me wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:00 PM
7

The same dude would balk at wearing a condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:53 AM
3

Not in 1997
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:18 AM
1

The ex husband was in the mid-late 90s, long before smart phone sneaky shit existed. The recent scrote was just a couple of years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:17 AM
13

I'm fairly tall, have no issue with it, and I can use 'being too tall' as a fake insecurity. I am so happy I read this post. I wish I had read it years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:11 PM
2

My NVX liked to jam on the brakes when he'd get to a stop sign or a red light. He drove 50 in a 25 zone, road raged at and raced other drivers, and was just generally a menace behind the wheel. He also got two speed camera tickets.. all in my car. Of course, he didn't have a car when I met him, and that's on me for not vetting. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:52 PM
164

Men just don't care about what women need, it's all about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:27 PM
83

I made this mistake with the last scrote I was involved with. He refused to pay his share of bills after promising to. Among other egregious things he did. Unfortunately, I did not have savings to fall back on, and I'm still dealing with the consequences of this nightmarish relationship, almost a year after I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:52 PM
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I would encourage her, and all women, to keep an open mind about FDS. It sounds like she read bits and pieces of the FDS sub and took a lot out of context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:28 PM
5

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:16 AM
53

How is this even allowed to stand? What did Britney even do, that warrants her father having complete control over her? The IUD thing is horrifying. The whole thing is horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:06 AM
22

Thank you. I had forgotten about the bathroom door violation. There was so much other stuff that went on, it is hard to remember it all. But yes, he was a bad person in general and not a day goes by that I don't thank God I got rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:08 AM
10

Brought to me complements of OLD. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:05 AM
32

My first husband was weird about the bathroom, too. He would get furious because I would lock the door when I went in the bathroom. WTF. He demanded access to the bathroom whenever he wanted. Fucking control freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:03 AM
37

Crazy, isn't it? Not once, but twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:00 AM
56

Ugh, the constant togetherness was depressing. I mean 24/7. To the extreme.. early in the relationship, he picked the lock on the bathroom door when I was on the toilet.. and he did it again, after I got mad at him the first time. This mfer could not stand to be alone, even when I was in the bathroom. You will feel better when you get rid of your LVM. It's only been 7 months for you, it was 20 months for me. Good luck and please keep us up to date on your progress!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:09 AM
22

I'm early Gen-X and it's been a struggle relearning how to relate to men. I don't talk to many women outside of family members, most of my communication is here on FDS. My mom is Silent Generation and never remarried after she and my father got divorced, which was almost 50 years ago. She had had enough. My 2 daughters are in their mid-late 30s. Both are liberal feminists, one is a lesbian. I know better than to offer relationship advice to either one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:36 PM
10

I'm not sure about giving red-flag-displaying men 'a chance to grow'. FDS teaches us to walk away at the very first sign of disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:29 PM
130

Eww scrotelings, wtf 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:25 AM
86

OLD is depressing af. I've gotten on there for practice, and I have no idea what to put in my profile or what to say to men who respond, and I stay on for a day or two before I delete my profile. It's too anxiety-inducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:19 AM
357

Younger men do this too, to get into older women's searches. It's still a boundary issue, if I wanted to meet men 20+ years younger than me, I'd say that up front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:43 PM
13

A message you receive from an anonymous 'concerned redditor' where you are given mental health resources. This is all they can do to get at you. I got my first one not long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:16 PM
41

They can't reach you if your chat/dm are blocked. The worst you will receive is a suicide bot message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:44 PM
5

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:07 PM
6

i can’t even articulate how happy i am to be single and to have found this sub You and me both, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:06 PM
9

Looks like more bad news for PH, LOL maybe this will finally take PornHub down. It makes me wonder how many other victims are out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:58 PM
10

Thanks for posting that additional info! I got as far as 'Contents' talking about how a woman's #1 priority is 'catching and keeping the top man' LMAO 🤣🤣 the scum who perpetuates this shit is bald face lying to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:20 PM
80

This scrote made me realize that I need to read as much pick up artist info as possible, to see what fuckery they will try. Thanks for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:20 AM
16

Ew, no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:13 AM
17

Holy shit! And they just put it out there now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:50 PM
131

First PH gets kicked off Insta, now getting sued for this. It's not looking good for Pornhub. Good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:06 PM
100

Individual therapy is what's important. The right therapist would have urged Caroline to leave her abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:04 PM
3

Hello there 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:08 PM
11

According to him, he was never wrong. This is my ex husband. 'When I'm wrong, I will apologize'. He never once apologized, yet he was wrong about so many things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:56 AM
27

I would not date a single dad ever again, especially now. A 50-something man with minor children is weird. My kids are grown and I do not want to deal with someone else's kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:28 PM
19

I dated this scrote-y widower in 2010 whose wife had died several years earlier. According to this scrote, she had left him for his best friend and then died of breast cancer in her 30s. That was my one experience with a widower. He technically wasn't a widower, since they were divorced when she died. Still, never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:32 PM
28

So true. The last scrote I was with, his ex wife had taken their two toddlers and fled the state. After getting to know the scrote in question, it was easy to see why she did that. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:28 PM
163

I'm starting to view dating as seeing how far the man will go before I have to block and delete. The constant vetting is necessary I know, I just don't have the energy or motivation. I'm still dealing with the consequences of the last scrote. Someday, but not now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:06 AM
4

She lost me at 'police officer'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:21 AM
24

I still cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:39 AM
4

Nice lesson and now she needs to dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:46 PM
85

That's the idea lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:50 PM
52

One ex never believed me when I had my period. He would accuse me of cheating 🙄🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:29 PM
37

I got my very first 'concerned redditor' message today. I wonder which scrote got pissed off at something I posted 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:13 PM
47

Since when do men need to be desired? A warm accessible hole is all he needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:17 PM
23

I still associate with a porn-addicted scrote I broke up with in 2002 (when I need something heavy/bulky moved I pay him to do it) Last year, we had a huge fight and months later he told me it turned him on because I was so upset and crying. By this point, I had found FDS and remembered reading about this very thing and I knew what was happening. I don't know if all my exes were into porn, but this one is. They probably all are, but it is normalized. I assume all men are into porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:25 AM
83

Imagine hoping your SO gets sexually assaulted. What a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:32 AM
15

My ex husband insisted on spending only 5 minutes in the shower, because that's what he 'learned in the military'. IDC who you are, 5 minutes is just not enough time to get thoroughly clean. He never really seemed clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:34 AM
2

I would love this. One room would be a craft room, one would be a gym, one storage. I never considered having a dressing room, but yeah why not? Along with kitchen, living room, dining room, small bedroom, mudroom/laundry, and 2-3 bathrooms. Five bedrooms in my dream home, and none designated as a guest room lol I would also use a spare room for pets, they would have their own space, too. So at least 6 bedrooms is not unreasonable for a single person, and sounds like a life goal. The idea of liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:41 PM
48

I wouldn't trust him around children, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:10 PM
57

Of she's ok with being abused, why is she complaining about it on the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:22 AM
48

Take your babies and leave him. I'm not sure what other advice there is to give. You can't reason with and cOmMuNiCaTe with someone like this scrote. He despises women. It's going to escalate, and the kids will grow up learning abuse is normal. I agree with others this is a significantly older scrote. This young woman may have gotten married to escape an abusive home life, frying pan > fire. I hope she reads about herself on FDS and finds the strength to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:18 AM
14

Put on a pad and use the time he's gone, to pack up and leave him. It's not going to get any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:17 PM
44

Yup, this card is almost full 😂🤡💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:15 PM
59

I had the surgery at age 29, after 4 kids. It was a simple outpatient procedure and I have zero regrets. The only issue I've seen in younger women who want the TL procedure done, is finding a doctor who will do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:37 PM
10

This makes sense. Four months in, I was so stressed out, I developed anaphylaxis for the first time in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:15 PM
93

“It’s not fair that I don’t get to do that because of what someone else did”. My NVX pulled this exact shit on me. It's like they all read from the same script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:03 PM
10

Even with significant overlap, this leaves very few men worth our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:15 PM
28

I'm wondering if there were crickets in response to his last post. He is not a good person at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:40 PM
12

Thank God she left ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:06 PM
27

Whether or not she is 'nuts', he knew about the dogs going into the relationship. And he doesn't deserve to be #1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:02 PM
34

She needs to keep an eye on him around her dogs. Jealous men tend to be abusive men. My poor cat.. Also, it's just like a scrote to meet a woman and decide she needs to change things about herself to suit him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:31 PM
5

Men: We are so lonely. Also men: We do not see women as human beings, just holes to fill. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:40 PM
105

Law enforcement officer, check. 13 year age gap, check. Gun given back to scrote, in spite of domestic violence charges, check. This was so predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:23 PM
5

So.. like, take one for the team? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:33 PM
5

😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:08 PM
19

This is what goes along with sex on the first date. It just isn't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:59 PM
89

Sorry sis, my gag reflex has a mind of its own 🍕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:12 PM
223

Please add a content warning: will induce vomiting 🤮🤢💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:09 PM
7

Nah 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:04 PM
985

This sounds like reproductive coercion, with a side of sexual assault/battery. I hope she leaves and has him prosecuted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:58 AM
242

it wasn't actually the thousands of people telling him he was wrong that made him realize he was an ass, but incels congratulating him and calling the gf all kinds of disgusting names. It was only the opinion of other men that made him change. A scrote is a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:36 AM
14

But it's bIoLoGy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:36 AM
45

A good start is to contact a divorce lawyer with a quickness. There's nothing else she can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:58 PM
65

That explains OF and the scrotes that grace Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:46 PM
4

It is lovely when the trash takes itself out 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:39 PM
6

They all have a sadistic streak, to varying degrees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:35 PM
45

This guy is acting like HE is the prize 😂 By 'reciprocation', does he mean he wants the woman to approach him, ask him out, pay, etc. Or does he expect sex right away? Either way, he sounds repulsive and has no self awareness. Even the most desperate pick-me would reject this shlub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:12 PM
37

He has already hit the wall, he just doesn't know it yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:27 PM
26

He sounds like a bumble fuck loser like those portrayed in media, like Homer Simpson or Ray Romano. Useless. She needs to get rid of him, like yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:30 PM
16

So true. When I've ended relationships, most men have thrown 'who's the other guy? ' at me, which I now know is projection. I'm not anywhere near thinking about starting over again right away with a new person, but they sure are. My exes all hooked up with someone right away, or already had someone when we broke up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:07 PM
70

They'll likely name more than 5 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:45 AM
3

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:22 PM
27

Every time I go on FDS, I check to see how many more women join. The numbers are really starting to increase! These NVMs are panicking because so many more women are getting wise to their BS. The irony is, the more the scrotes piss & moan about FDS, the more attention they call to FDS, and the more women join 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:21 PM
72

That's the best advice I've read all day 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:01 PM
84

Two years ago, out of the blue, I developed anaphylaxis, to the point where my airway was beginning to swell shut. Later, the allergy doc finally decided it was EBV from when I had mono 36 years earlier. Hmm, it was more like the scrote I was with stressed me out so much, I developed a life-threatening condition. Since he's been out of my life, I have had zero symptoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:56 PM
5

She is NTA, scrotey hubby and his mommy are. I hope she finds FDS soon and gets rid of the trash she married and his mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:11 PM
87

Pro life? Only when it dovetails with their narrative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:42 PM
121

Wait, if I don't want to have children with a low quality, abusive, parasitic scrote, that makes me a eugenicist? That's a new low, but there is no low too low for scrotes. The libfem who posted this should be ashamed of herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:41 PM
59

I came here to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:43 PM
15

I tried Tinder over 5 years ago. There was one 'meh' date with a 'separated' scrote, and one scrote who was content to waste my time and cancel dates until I finally blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:32 PM
14

I'm in my 50s and the entire dating pool in my age range.. is actually a cesspool. I'm not sure younger women have it any easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:52 PM
205

What a disgusting shirt. This idiot told on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:35 PM
94

The good news is, she makes enough money to leave his LVM ass and live a comfortable, scrote-free life. If she gets a good divorce lawyer, he will end up paying alimony anyway, since he earns 3x as much as she does. All because he doesn't feel as though he needs to do dishes or laundry. I hope it was worth it, Mr. Scrote. Watch him hire a housekeeping service after she divorces him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:56 PM
16

Every word here is true. I highly doubt if I will ever get involved with anyone again. It's just too risky. I have to focus on knowing how to protect myself from them. Just being a woman is risky. The scariest part is, men simply do not care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:43 AM
7

Figure of speech, but he was possessive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:48 PM
30

I wish I had this advice handy when I met my last NVM. Early on, he told me his father was a complete piece of shit in every possible way. (Like father like son) He was closer to his mom, but still said negative things about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:49 AM
31

This is so true. My father never knew his own father, but was a total mama's boy. One of his stepfathers was a mean drunk who beat my grandmother. I believe my then-teenaged father put him in the hospital for it. My father always told women about his past up front, which involved manslaughter and ofc his sad, dysfunctional childhood. He was a tall, dark, handsome dude who got women to marry him quickly. Maybe his women were afraid to say no to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:41 AM
56

He doesn't know what boundaries are. He is describing entitlement. That's not how it works, scrotey. This is a r*pist in the making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:57 PM
2

Sorry scrotes, if you are doing nothing wrong, you have nothing to worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:33 AM
15

He regretted doing it because he realized he was gonna be found out anyway. Not because he realized he did a bad thing. Scrotes tell on themselves all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:07 PM
56

Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:30 PM
16

Nice! I have an empirical degree in the ways of scrotes. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:41 PM
31

I couldn't get past the face pubes, tbh. Ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:38 PM
14

He looks a lot like my youngest son, except for eye color.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:53 AM
39

Sure Jan, nag nag nag, get frustrated and accomplish nothing. How absolutely pointless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:09 AM
34

I'm going through menopause right now, in the 12-month-no-periods perimenopause phase. I can't wait till it's all over and done with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:02 PM
54

So true! It is sad how women are brainwashed to give men the benefit of the doubt. The way I read it, she was trying to squash her gut feeling about this scrote, thus the original post. Whoever she is, I hope she finds her way to FDS, and soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:28 PM
26

I love the artwork, it fits so well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:58 PM
162

It was wise to tell him yes, she would see him again even though she hopefully had no intention of doing that. Alone in the woods with this weirdo is not a good place to be rejecting his creepy ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:56 PM
30

Real? Real dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:11 PM
16

How about if he works, doesn't cheat, and isn't abusive? Maybe he's a keeper, but time will tell. I hate these stupid FYI memes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:29 AM
7

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:15 AM
37

Menopause is not a walk in the park, either. I currently have PMS bloating and cramping and sore boobs and sugar cravings. Everything but the actual period. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:05 AM
4

How I despise that phrase. Every other men's OLD ad asks for a partner in crime 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:01 AM
86

How to say you are a cheap POS low value scrote, without saying you are a cheap POS low value scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:15 PM
10

Scrotes have been oppressing women since the dawn of time. I'm glad Dr. Joyce stuck it to them and won anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:24 PM
15

They'd have a field day with me. I wear a size 12 ring and size 12 shoe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:22 PM
15

This is a whole other level of prostitution. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:49 PM
17

Scrotes say this like it's a bad thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:14 AM
38

Kevin James character from King of Queens. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:58 PM
43

One of the first things I did on FDS was to not allow chat/dms. I love that they can read about themselves and there's nothing they can do. Scrotes can go cry some more about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:54 PM
71

No woman should date, marry, or have kids with LVM losers. These scrotes need to stop contaminating the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:34 PM
15

Disgusting. It goes without saying that she needs to leave him. Why is this so common now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:02 PM
54

Yes, you ATA. It's a stupid fvcking GAME. Your GF is a real life person. Imagine acting so stupid over a video game. Grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:59 PM
32

It's always the woman's fault, right? Never ever the scrote's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:40 PM
12

This is so true. An ex, with whom I've remained 'friends' for almost 20 years after we broke up, told me that when we would argue, he would get turned on by my anger and crying. He is an admitted porn addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:25 PM
2

Why do they want to go where they are not wanted? They don't need to be at a woman's only gym. The entitlement is off the chart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:05 AM
14

Or he could just talk about it and do nothing to fix his issue. Addictions can be overcome, but the person has to want to. Pornsick men choose images on a screen over a live person who wants to be intimate with them. What bothers me about this convo is the man fully knows what's going on, but he seems unwilling to address it. Maybe he hopes she will just go along and be miserable while he continues with his addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:10 PM
5

Info like this actually belongs in the fds handbook because it is so important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:57 PM
4

As an aside, regarding younger men and online dating, many of them put their age as older to get in your search results. This is already a boundary violation, since you didn't include their actual age in your search. Pervy old men do it too, to be seen by younger women. They don't care about what you want, only what they want. A scrote is a scrote is a scrote, and they show their ass early, if you know what you are looking at. I reported every one I happened across for scamming, not that it matt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:27 PM
14

Or if strangers in a store hear him flipping out on you and intervene on your behalf. It took me six more months to escape after this happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:11 PM
19

Online dating and smartphones in general ruined dating for me. Every man I've been involved with since the internet took root, had shown shady behavior with their phones. There is no way to know what they're up to, even if they are not outwardly acting suspiciously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:39 AM
28

Thank you for this heads up. The more you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:19 AM
14

If I had my druthers, I'd live in a big house all by myself. It sounds like heaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:01 PM
121

Did you notice that he took your words about your previously being ghosted by men and twisted it against you? My ex took all the stuff I told him and abused me with it. Past relationship trauma, mental health issues, etc This is why we should never divulge personal stuff to men until the time is right, which is never in the early stages of dating. They consider it a weakness and wield it like a weapon to manipulate and abuse us. Don't give them ammunition. I did all this before I discovered FDS.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:21 PM
1

My ex negged me on our second date. It was an early sign of things to come. Had I known about FDS, I would have ditched him on the date, block, delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:32 AM
96

Yes. I saw two exes on a dating site, both had photos of themselves taken in the apartments we shared. The more you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:49 AM
32

I'll give you advice.. leave his ass, yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:10 AM
23

So, the scrote in question has never heard of Google? Really? I guess he would have to actually care about his poor wife, to even consider looking up helpful info on his smartphone. I hope she survives covid and divorces him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:32 AM
1

As if any of them ever changed a blowout diaper. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:22 AM
19

Young, dumb, and full of c&m, like my mama always says lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:53 AM
15

My most recent scrotific POS ex told me he had a woman break up with him because her 'slow, disabled teenage daughter didn't like him'. My first thought was I was happy his ex chose her kid over the scumbag. And my second thought was wondering what really happened. Edit: clarification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:39 AM
7

'Are you on your period?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:27 AM
1

Bad or missing teeth is a huge turnoff. Bald, comb overs, facial hair, hairy back, a smoker's leathery complexion, tattoos above the shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:30 PM
6

There is no excuse for an fully-able grown adult in 2021 to be unable to take care of themselves. Learned helplessness is such a turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:38 PM
10

I've heard stuff along similar lines, I should be flattered because I'm 'not all that' and this makes me so damn mad. I wonder if blatant negging like this has ever gotten any scrote laid, in the entire history of scrotedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:35 PM
33

I agree. I got almost a foot of hair cut off two weeks ago, and it really is freeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:34 PM
55

When a man goes through pregnancy and childbirth, then he can have his say. Until then, he can zip it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:18 AM
5

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:49 AM
1

Disgusting. I'd never be able to tolerate this. I'm reading this as the woman who wrote it wants to be convinced/supported to leave him. She's got my support!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:34 AM
8

I watched this and was amazed that this woman spent $34,000+ on a motorcycle and boat for that POS scrote. She was from a rich family. I can't imagine the coercion that went on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:21 AM
8

My NV ex was the self appointed cat groomer, and he was too rough about it. He was so mean to my poor old cat. I felt trapped and gave the cat to my kids until I could escape. The cat is now almost 13yo and with my son halfway across the country and I'll probably never see him again. I escaped the horror show 8 months ago and still struggling with getting through every day. I don't have a place of my own yet. Never again. So yes, how men treat/react to cats is something to pay close attention to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:01 AM
26

I've had dark circles under my eyes all my life, due to genetics, and I'm tired of always being asked if I'm tired lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:26 PM
19

Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:04 PM
13

Clipping nose and ear hair cannot be overstated. Especially nose hair. Ewww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:34 PM
2

My ex did this. It was one of many red flags glaring from early on. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:48 PM
9

My former LVM roommate liked to piss ON the bathroom sink. The toilet was literally next to the vanity sink, but he claimed he 'couldn't make it' to the toilet and pissed in the sink. And how did I know this? It was a vanity sink with bottles and dispensers and toiletries on top. He would piss onto the vanity part and not clean it up, and it would get under the other stuff and stink. Scumbag roomie did this more than once. He was beyond disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:04 PM
10

I never had symptoms of anaphylaxis until I was with my last nvx. Since getting rid of him last summer, I haven't had any symptoms. Stress really does a number on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:49 PM
1

I watched this movie when it came out on VHS. I can only remember the what the lead characters looked like, but not the plot, and it was pleasant and bland and I'm not even sure if I watched the whole thing. Now I want to watch it again, with the FDS mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:19 PM
100

Watch him still expect sex, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:29 PM
38

Unlike your average scrote, cow shit is actually useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:14 PM
8

I have to hide the slug posts because they make me want to vomit. I hope the scrote who did this gets put away for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:19 PM
12

Ewwww no words 🤮 Eating slugs can literally kill you. https://time.com/5445715/australia-slug-dare-sam-ballard/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:34 PM
3

Ewwww the audacity! 🤮💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:53 PM
3

Incels are really voluntarily celibate tho. They choose to go after women who are way out of their league, and ignore those women who would be a better match for them. I believe incels do this because being rejected by a "3" would hurt their ego much more than being rejected by a "10".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:30 PM
12

Yes. I am c. 70lbs overweight, and it's mostly in my midsection. I also don't wear makeup, dye my gray hair, or dress up. I get very little male attention and I am so grateful for that. Yes, there are men who fetishize heavy women. No, I wouldn't bother with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:15 PM
2

I couldn't agree more. Red flags are an early warning system. Any crazy talk is a red flag. If you find yourself flinching when he dumps embarrassing, cringe-inducing dysfunctional past-relationship stories on you almost right way, run. Run even faster if he so much as hints at a terrible childhood. This man will destroy your life. Ask me how I know. My most recent NVex laid some heavy personal business on me far too soon. His 1st wife cheated on him and he caught her in the act. The second one …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:37 PM
1

It's always nice when they tell on themselves up front
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:18 PM
1

The Onion has been eerily accurate lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:06 PM
84

This is like when someone says their relationship is 'worth fighting for'. I disagree. If I feel I have to 'fight' to keep a relationship, it's not worth it and I'm gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:48 PM
30

No. A woman who does this will never know how interested the man really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:32 PM
9

No doubt we will someday find out what we are poisoning ourselves with. I'm glad I don't use cosmetics. I know there was a recent lead-in-lipstick scandal, like within the last decade. It is still happening in the 21st century. Can you imagine, actual radium was infused into so many items sold to the general public. Makeup, face creams, toothpaste, condoms, food, baby toys & clothing, etc. Fortunately, many of those goods didn't radium because it was so costly. I lost interest in antiques becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:04 PM
75

Awww 😍 and it's still more than a lot of men will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:56 PM
22

Guys want a strong, independent woman so they can destroy them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:24 PM
44

This scumbag should have been summarily executed for what he did. Whenever there is a life sentence, there is a risk that some bleeding heart judge will overturn the conviction and set the monster free. He and his mistress deserve each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:12 PM
19

This reminds me of the old saying: the truth sounds like hate speech to people who hate the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:04 PM
16

I read that the radium painters were unwittingly used as test subjects to see how much radium the human body could tolerate. I don't know if this was intentional or done after the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:16 PM
6

I've seen the book and movie advertised, and they are both on my list to read/watch. I actually had to stop reading about this because it was so depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:14 PM
24

I haven't seen the movie, but now I want to. Audrey Hepburn was the epitome of class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:41 AM
4

Same! George Carlin is my all time favorite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:52 PM
62

For me, it was like 'forgetting' the pain of contractions and birthing. I didn't even think about the afterpains until I got them again. The last one was particularly bad, and that's why I remember it so well. But yes, so much is kept from us. Our grandmothers had it worse. Nobody told them what childbirth was like. My mom was 11 when she got her period, had no idea what it was, and thought she was dying. Her mom never bothered to tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:26 AM
7

How does he act when you decline to see him? Does he cop an attitude or is he ok about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:20 AM
134

I think people who want to be in the medical field should be tested for empathy before being admitted to med/nursing school. I would have reported her to her superiors for being such an insensitive bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:00 AM
61

Yeah, it lasts 2-3 weeks. Nobody told me about this or postpartum depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:44 PM
259

Nobody ever tells us about the afterpains. After each birth, the uterus has to work harder and harder to get back down to pre-pregnancy size. The cramping eventually stops after a few weeks but OMG, it's as bad as labor. I remember being doubled over in agony for a few weeks after each of my four deliveries, and it got worse each time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:52 PM
12

I wonder which incel loser reported you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:49 PM
11

She chose wisely. I'd rather have my cat than a scrote like TA in question. I'll bet he's full of regret now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:26 AM
21

Anything about looking for a 'partner in crime', 'long walks on the beach', 'no drama', 'fluent in sarcasm', 'message me first', 'no whores or thots', cuddles, passion, kissing, oral, PDAs, the list goes on. They brag about their kids, so go be a father and get TF off OLD. The lying about age lol I report them all. And photos they use! Holding up a dead fish like it's a sacrificial offering, project cars, sporting events, motorcycles, jet skis, bar photos, pics of kids w/o consent, can't be both…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:38 PM
28

My ZV ex made me coffee and egg sandwiches every morning. He was also horribly abusive. I'm glad you put that disclaimer that just because a man exhibits HV behavior, he isn't necessarily a HVM. Never stop vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:17 PM
25

Everyone doing OLD knows that everyone else is looking for sex, so why hit the reader over the head with it? Be original. Nothing makes me swipe left faster than a headline about oral skills or when they use their single paragraph to talk about 'cuddling, passionate kisses, must be ok with tender caresses and PDA' I wonder if they all copy and paste from some PUA guidebook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:30 PM
21

I would never send a message first. How lazy is that, that they won't take the initiative and expect p*ssy to just throw itself at them. It makes it easier to weed them out, though. Too many claim to be sarcastic and want an easy-going woman. I read that as an abusive man wants a woman who will put up with his abuse. I generally don't see sarcasm as a positive personality trait. They all tell on themselves early on, so we have to know what to watch for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:53 PM
3

I had to give my cat away because my ex was abusive to him. I was afraid to leave, and he wouldn't move out, but eventually I just left, I couldn't do it anymore. I'll never see my cat again. My ex shoved me one time, after I shoved him away from me.. we were fighting and he thought that would be a good time to force a bear hug on me. Then I got called the abusive one. What I wouldn't give to unmeet that fcker. This wasn't an ex husband, it was a Negative Value SCROTE I met online. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:42 PM
7

This is illustrated like a RW tarot card. I like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:26 PM
3

Then he can go be a 'good partner' to someone else. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:43 PM
19

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:09 PM
37

The comment almost sounded like a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:17 PM
55

This was a hard lesson to learn. I told my most recent ex personal stuff about my past, and when we would argue, he would throw it in my face. What a piece of shit the men are, who behave like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:46 PM
33

This is the first time I'm hearing of a cum wall, and it's one time too many 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:04 PM
1

Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:19 AM
1

I saved one that used a 2yo baby in a diaper, holding a rifle. It was his lead photo 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:41 AM
2

All that but no apologies. He just acted like nothing had happened. He told me I made myself cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:24 AM
42

Victim blaming at the highest levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:10 PM
17

I have an nvex who loves when women go visit him and drink, because 'drunk girls don't say no' He's also a porn sick POS. Even as a 'friend' he wouldn't leave me alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:39 PM
104

I still have a lot anger. My last relationship ended last summer. I lost so much. I can't see myself ever getting in another relationship again, especially since finding FDS. I'm ok with it, because I've always been at my best & happiest when I'm alone. I get flashbacks and dreams, nighttime is the worst. I know I should be in therapy, but I've never had much luck with counselling, so I'm at a loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:11 AM
1

This video the feel of a bitter, jealous, angry incel who didn't get laid on the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:37 PM
64

But they still can't get a woman. They've tried everything except being a kind, empathetic human being. Remember that sage advice we were given as children, that a boy was mean to us because he liked us? They are taught from birth to be like this. Real life has proved otherwise, and they can't handle it. That's their problem, tho, not mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:48 PM
2

Correct, no chat, no way to contact me. I'm seeing message notifications with no messages, is that why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:26 PM
352

Thanks for posting. How can men not see how exploitative this 'dating advice' is? Or do they just not care, because they are blinded by their own sense of entitlement? They see women as commodities, not human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:18 PM
2

He's a gift that needs to be regifted, like a certain famous food object that made its way around the world a few times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:48 PM
200

If it's not for sexual reasons, why does it even have to be a woman? And what's this about said woman being disease free? Is there some new STI that's transmitted by a handy? These scrotes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:09 PM
55

OLD should only be used to practice what to look out for. I like the long, wordy ad bios that scream misogyny, self pity, unrealistic demands, and lack of empathy. It's a great educational tool. OLD certainly is a cesspool. All the fish in that pond are bloated and stinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:00 PM
5

Men do it because they feel entitled to your body. Women do it to get approval from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:10 AM
6

I've noticed in OLD ads that guys will put down a fake age for the app, but reveal their real age in the bio. Already lying and overstepping boundaries right out of the gate. What else are these NVM lying about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:08 AM
78

I like the identifier 'scrote'. Is there a better word to describe a L/N/ZVM? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:12 PM
1

I hope this guy is at least on a watchlist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:03 PM
2

He is describing a sex doll. Men post pics of them with their sex dolls like real human women. It's creepy AF. There was one guy who cheated on Doll A with Doll B while Doll A was 'in the shop getting repaired' and he felt bad for cheating. Doll A probably just wanted to be friends and malfunctioned lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:02 PM
11

He shouldn't be. It isn't about dating, that child is grade school age. It looks like grooming. The shocker at the end, a little girl talking dirty. WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:07 AM
2

Count me in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:49 AM
31

I love these posts. Entertaining and educational. I've seen some doozies, and I only joined a couple of days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:21 AM
36

There are pedos o' plenty everywhere. We need to educate our daughters at a younger age now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:00 PM
163

They say they want a girlfriend, but what they really want is a bangmaid, mommy, babysitter, ATM machine, cook, housekeeper, nanny, and whipping post. None of those are a girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:45 PM
10

This was quite a reach. I hope the poster didn't dislocate something, because we'd get blamed for that, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:40 PM
119

He lost me at 'empathizing with some of your experiences'. They always tell on themselves. I wonder which things he doesn't empathize with, and why. This undercover scrote is not as slick as he thinks he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:34 PM
7

The answer is to screen men. Vet, vet, and keep vetting them. Never let them slide. At the first sign of disrespect, block and delete. This includes asking for anal or other degrading things like choking or peeing on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:26 PM
10

I have to research 'analysis paralysis' now, it resonates with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:15 PM
2

It's a start, unless the writer is pandering to women who might give him a chance because he's 'not like other guys'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:12 PM
1

This 'advice' is aimed at those few lucky incels who fooled a woman into thinking he is actually a decent human being. And they wonder why they fail. It's all the woman's fault, of course./s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:41 PM
66

What a selfish POS the father is. Now he has some idea of what single moms have to deal with. How is she a deadbeat parent if she pays 125% of court ordered child support? I feel bad for the child, hope he doesn't grow up ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:17 AM
15

This is beyond depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:12 AM
1

When I was born, my dad announced that I was a 'split tail' which is a disgusting name for female. He also told my sister one time that her first mistake was, she was born a girl. No misogyny there, none at all. I'm happy he didn't father any boys, there are enough serial killers out there already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:10 PM
11

This has been a motivating factor in my choices in men. Low self esteem and ingrained fear of men from infancy adds to the mix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:29 PM
3

Maybe because they believe it will all blow over like it has every other time before. Then they can list 'being patient' as a positive character trait in their OLD ads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:16 PM
19

My (76yo) mother goes on about this constantly, how women stood by their men back in the day, how my grandmother stayed married to my grandfather for 42 years until he died. When I point out what you said, she talks about women divorcing men. Back in the 50s, a divorcee was shunned by all the other housewives because of fear that their husbands would leave them for said divorcee. There was literally no support for women back then, they were trapped, and they couldn't help themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:06 PM
9

What a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:52 PM
38

The scrotes will tell you that your standards are 'too high' and to take a chance on them, a Nice guy™. I've had two different men tell me I should be grateful anyone wanted me, and both couldn't understand why I never wanted to speak to them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:24 PM
7

I think that episode ended when Donnie's 'caretaker' was supposed to be female, and it turned out to be a big brawny dude instead. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:10 PM
11

Your comment reminds me of that episode of Just Shoot Me, when Donnie acted like he was mentally challenged so he could get away with scrotey behavior towards empathetic women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:40 PM
99

This reminds me of those poor girls in middle school who developed early, and got called a slut because they had large breasts. The misogyny goes back to the cradle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:34 PM
2

Objectification. They compare us to dogs and cars. They don't see us as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:28 PM
223

Why is she buying all the food and doing all the cooking? Send that manchild home to his mommy and focus on you, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:22 PM
287

The same scrotes will also say, in the same breath, that a woman who doesn't bother with hair, makeup, and dressy clothes.. has let herself go and not worthy of male attention. My scrote-y ex called me a 'plain jane' when I was with him. I said, 'nice to know you find me unattractive.' He backpedaled by saying I misunderstood him, he only meant because I wasn't into makeup and hair. However, during one particularly vicious argument, he screamed at me how fat, ugly, and dumpy I was, and that nobo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:17 PM
2

They all look gross in the 50s age range. If they put forth zero effort to clean themselves up for a photo, what else will they put zero effort into? Everything except tearing women down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:02 PM
2

It threatens their masculinity. It also puts them on notice that they might not like how a muscular woman reacts to their BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:27 PM
4

He can't or won't see it that way. He thinks he is the upgrade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:58 PM
103

And then they will gaslight you with 'at least I tried' completely missing the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:42 PM
12

I think he got catfished and he's salty about it. Cheap, rude, and zero self awareness, what a great catch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:24 PM
7

This. Many of the guys will at least be polite in their profile about not having the upgraded membership. I still won't entertain them with a reply because of other red flags, but this guy is right up front with his BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:20 PM
10

His headline is a total turnoff, and he's letting every woman know how cheap he is. How do you interpret his headline?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:43 PM
25

I am in my 50s, and the guys in my age range are just gross. This scrote has lived 60 years and hasn't figured it out yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:31 PM
17

He is showing his contempt for women with his headline. "You aren't worth the upgrade"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:25 PM
1

His anger is all too familiar. Is this roid rage plus incel anger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:11 PM
1

He projected his own LVM-ness with that last paragraph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:30 PM
2

She's actually young enough to be his granddaughter. Eeewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:53 AM
1

Dump this scrote. Unless you enjoy being someone's free personal chef.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:49 AM
3

My ex swore he was an empath. Abusive, lying sack o shit more was like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:25 AM
2

It sounds like we know the same scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:30 AM
10

I'd love to see a woman do this exact routine, but aimed at Z/L/NVM. Only it would all be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:34 AM
9

I couldn't watch more than a couple of minutes. And the women cackling over being dehumanized and degraded by this nasty, ugly ass 'comic'. Ugh. Two minutes I'll never get back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:24 AM
14

Wow. Who would have thought a simple 'No, thank you' was anything other than polite? I've been doing it all wrong 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:04 AM
1

I realized it after reading the comments. The problem is, it's too common to see guys sincerely behave this way. Now I wanna check out what he has to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:45 PM
1

How to say you are a ZVM without actually saying you are a ZVM 🤦🏼‍♀️🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:22 PM
21

Pickme fanfic oh my! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:39 PM
68

I've been contemplating doing just that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:34 PM
1

He's really saying he wants women to settle for his undesirable, worthless ass, and puts her down for having standards. What a turd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:03 PM
232

Cars are an extension of their peepees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:28 PM
140

I can only imagine the poor women who had to constantly hear about 'the one who got away'. My ex husband was like that. I would ask him why he was with me instead? Come to think of it, he never had an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:06 PM
14

This is great! The only difference between a bad boy and a nice guy is the level of confidence. Makes perfect sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:10 PM
6

Well, about that.. efforts at communication have usually been met with anger or scorn, or I was just ignored. I've asked for what I need in a relationship and been shot down, been yessed to death and then nothing changed. I gave up asking. The last guy guy complained that I was on my phone too much. My answer was, It could be because the phone doesn't call me a c**t. Men understand NC loud and clear. That's my go to communication style from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:01 AM
12

If you are having doubts, go with your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:24 PM
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