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[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 199 points200 points201 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmao where’s the lie, there’s a good reason pickmes resort to hating other women and acting like they’re “one of the boys” to get male attention.
[–]arwenagon24999FDS Newbie[S] 55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly!
[–]likeitlikethat96FDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This just blew my mind
[–]miasmicivyphsycFDS Newbie 271 points272 points273 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
This is the truth right here. Men on Reddit complain that we might expect too much and any man who holds the door open for a woman is a Simp. Meanwhile they show out money to Joe Rogan and Ben Shapiro, they empty their wallets for PewDiePie merchandise, and subscribe to these people and follow thm religiously and worship these men. Men are the real Simps.
[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 172 points173 points174 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Daddy Elon tweets one word and the simps run to the stock market with their dollar bills.
[–]miasmicivyphsycFDS Newbie 88 points89 points90 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Daddy Joe Rogan Said that weed opens up your mind so now the Simps smoke a bowl every day in the name of enlightenment.
[–]ProtoetypeFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're all one of Daddy Elon's IVF sons at heart
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh men these days. At least Reddit men. They’re all the same. No original thoughts, just total hive mentality. Let’s see - go to gym, “invest” in stonks, listen to and worship guys like Musk and Rogan, Bitcoin, hookers, travel, video games, porn, weed, huge yawn fest of predictability and ultimately they still end up in their mom’s basement with $30 in bitcoin and zero money left in their RobinHood account, playing video games all day even at 35 years old, they love to pretend they don’t want a partner and kids but the truth is they can never afford it. Let’s face it, times are tough, but stop with the “women are all golddiggers” crap and admit you don’t even own one ounce of gold to dig and never will.
[–]XRozeFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
not to mention how pervasive the idea of sharing a woman with your bros is in rap music. keep in mind most commercial rap music is marketed to and purchased by suburban white boys. i watched a doc about this in one of my first women, gender & sexuality studies courses and it was basically my first feminist lightbulb moment. i was like, holy shit - men only care about women insofar as their bros are impressed by her.
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 69 points70 points71 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
To men, women are lifestyle accessories. The end.
[–]XRozeFDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yupppp and natural resources to be used until they’re depleted
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah, so this is why men like women to have a “natural” look...
Joking aside, women aren’t appliances. It’s sickening to experience men stuck in that mentality.
[–]rediitbujuFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
natural resources to be used until they’re depleted
Interesting
[–]nothing998FDS Newbie 181 points182 points183 points 5 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link
They will attach their entire beings to other men like joe rogan but think licking pussy makes them weak and subordinate 😭
[–]Lemon_bars_addictionFDS Disciple 97 points98 points99 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ha this triggered a memory of an ex-guy friend who said he never went down on women because it’s gay. The mental gymnastics my brain went through with that one, oufff
[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 83 points84 points85 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
fellas is it gay to have sex with women?
[–]BetterToBeLonelyFDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TIL hetero sex is gay. Hmmmm.
[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i quite literally have been counting down the days til i hear this
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because being subordinate to a woman is what they despise.
They don’t mind being subordinate to a man. Even a strange man. Even a man who wouldn’t care if they died tomorrow.
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 75 points76 points77 points 5 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
My husband used to do that a lot for me. The first year we were together he'd do it every time.
Now? He expects oral and never offers me oral at all. He won't do anything sexual for me unless I ask, which is bullshit because he acts like I haven't earned it even though I do all the childcare...
He keeps threatening to leave. I wish he would.
[–]azureangel35FDS Apprentice 83 points84 points85 points 5 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
sis-gtfo! you deserve more and men are lazy AF, he's not going to leave.
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
He keeps claiming he can't leave because it would be child abandonment because I'm "too much of a retard to take care of them on your own!" Like... Wtf? I'm not the one who gets angry everytime I'm asked to change a diaper! Or catch a bad attitude because I brought home food to eat with the 2 yo and then just yell at my wife to "just give me time alone when i get off work!" And all this bs.
If I left the kids alone with him it would be child abandonment. He said he could find a 19 yo to replace me in less than a day....
Now I have constant diareah and stomach pains. Like I should be bedridden until I get better. He's just mad I haven't cleaned... 😒
[–]arwenagon24999FDS Newbie[S] 90 points91 points92 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I hope you are gearing up to get a divorce and leave. He is abusive, and you and your child deserve better.
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
We aren't even legally married. So no divorce neccesary. He can keep all the goofy shit he bought... If only I had somewhere to go.
[–]davisgirl44FDS Newbie 43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
NEVER rely on a man financially. Fix that, if only for the sake of your children. You are selling yourself way short.
[–]ProtoetypeFDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
*hug*
[–]nothing998FDS Newbie 56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
wtf??? This is the most nvm shit I've read on here. Divorce him and squeeze him dry for child support and alimony.
[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously. He's not just a low value man...he's a NO value man.
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie 50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is projection. He’s telling you that you couldn’t care for the kids on your own because he knows he doesn’t do any of the childcare now and couldn’t handle the added responsibility if he had to care for them alone.
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth.
[–]helppleasekkFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One thing I've learned since finding FDS is that literally every negative thing males say about women is projection.
[–]plaid-pancakeFDS Apprentice 44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Please leave him. You and the kids will be so much happier. My mother was an abusive achoholic and I will forever resent my dad for bringing her back into are lives. An unhappy toxic home with 2 parents is so much worst than a happy home with 1 parent.
Men always think they'll have an easy time replacing women. What 19 year old girl with her whole life ahead of her would want that lazy piece of shit that doesn't take care of his kids? Remember that man who wanted an open relationship because he thought he could do better do better his wife? His wife found multiple men to sleep with and he couldn't find one women and regretted the whole thing. Men really overinflate their egos and sense of worth. The biggest losers on the planet still think they call pull any girl they want.
Kids can sense your unhappiness and they always find a way to blame themselves for all their parents problems. Cut that man off and let you and your babies grow and be happy.
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I probably would leave if I had anywhere to go. But with the vehicle in his name and us not actually legally married... It would be almost impossible to travel with 2 tots safely anywhere.
[–]plaid-pancakeFDS Apprentice 57 points58 points59 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
DM me and we can start looking into programs in your area that can help. Not being married is a blessing. Less legal stuff you have to do. Start saving text or recording him when he is saying abusive things. And anything else that shows he's an unfit parent. Now is the time to start planning how you're going to leave him. You gotta be smart and safe to protect you and your babies.
Edit if anyone else's wants to DM me about resources and tools for leaving an abusive nvm please do. I've already messaged the Mods because I want to do some kind of FDS approved resources for helping women get away from nvm safely.
[–]paddlesandchalkFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl, start saving up, and buy a used car w/o too many miles! You got this. Even if it’s $10 at a time.
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m so sorry that he sucks. And I’m so sorry that you’re in such a terrible position.
Leaving will be so difficult, but you got to get out of there. Don’t let your kids see this as an example of a relationship. Don’t let yourself suffer in this any more.
I’m not going to lie; it’s gonna suck to pry yourself free. It’s also going to be one of the best things you’ve ever done.
I hope you accept help from the women who offered. I hope you fight for yourself. And I really hope you’re free of him soon.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl. You know what you gotta do.
[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He knows there's no 19 year olds waiting outside the door. He also knows he wouldn't care for children if left alone. He's trying to make you feel utterly worthless to intimidate you from leaving.
In another post I saw you make art. I applaud your strength to do so while stuck in an unhappy situation.
[–]paddlesandchalkFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I saw another FDS user call this being “homosocial” and I love that.
[–]burpleseaurchinPickmeisha™️ 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ikr, this term needs to start trending. Unfortunately, I could totally see men trying to claim the term is "homophobic" 🙄
[–]paddlesandchalkFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Response is that it’s only homophobic if you have a problem with being gay! So they’re showing their own homophobia if they get upset 😂
[–]rayne_chiFDS Newbie 104 points105 points106 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No one hates women more than straight men 🤷🏻♀️
[–]midwesternwindsFDS Newbie 56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Isn't it funny how people will go "nobody hates women more than women" or pickmes who go "even WE hate us!" Like... could not relate less. Who is the one shooting up buildings because they can't get a sex slave? Who is the one stoning women for getting an education in other countries? Who are the ones preying on little girls online? Who has the less flattering likelihood of rap.ing women?
But sure, women disagree sometimes and that means we're the ones hurting us the most.
[–]ScandikandiFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THANK YOU
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie 102 points103 points104 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Where was this when I was a boy-crazy child and why wasn’t it drilled into my head?!? 😡😡😡
[–]arwenagon24999FDS Newbie[S] 99 points100 points101 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s no coincidence that the libfem/pickme cool girl persona is synonymous with wanting to be one of the “bros.”
[–]midwesternwindsFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Heaven forbid you call them out though. There's some pushback on a certain site known for caring about social issues and quite a few self proclaimed feminists have been pointing the finger back at women who calling out the "not like other girls" phenomenon and saying we're the real misogynists. We're the ones who like things the patriarchy tells us to like and we are the bad guys for even insinuating women who refuse to befriend other women have a problem.
Clearly they feel a little called out.
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn, that makes so much sense!
[–]logickilledthecatFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Truer words have never been spoken.
I know. I practically had to scrape my jaw off the ground after reading the quote.
Incredible.
[–]malibooyeahFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men simp for other men hard on the daily. I do have to wonder... if it's love they want, just date them and leave us alone.
[–]pinkcityscapeFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Social media made this even more obvious to me and it’s pathetic lol
This is why I can't get onboard with marriage. Certainly some marriages ARE about honor, respect and the rest but the majority are not. I feel like a lot of couples don't even know who their spouse is, they just married to check off a box.
Men do not see women as human and equal. Simple as that.
[–]carltherFDS Newbie 107 points108 points109 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Notice that women rarely idolize strangers. We by and large view people as people, flawed and imperfect. Men will idolize sports stars, businesspeople, motivational speakers, tv personalities, even comic book characters. They can be convinced to follow viewpoints simply because their admired man-of-choice parrots said viewpoint. There is no nuanced view. They give no such benefit to the women in their lives, the people who actually love and care for them. To admire a male persona, who has never met them and doesn't care if they live or die, over their strong and loving women actually in their lives, is both very odd and very disturbing.
[–]puddinhFDS Newbie 62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Just like women, men achieve easier and better orgasms through masturbation than through intercourse.
Just like women, men seek out casual sex not necessarily for the sake of sexual pleasure but for the sake of male validation.
Both men and women are taught from childhood that male validation is what determines our value.
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When we see men say that boys need a male role model ... know that a solid percentage of those men really mean that boys need someone to indoctrinate them in this way of thinking.
[–]Nenemae2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
100% this! Boys having a male role model is so that they can be indoctrinated into the patriarchy properly!!!
[–]divination__FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Incredible how in almost 40 years, male behaviour and mindsets haven't changed at all.
[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Their fragile masculinity will implode like the weak boys they are
[–]thenyashouldaFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If the visual portion of the pornographic video (ya know scrotes, the cum shot 😘)
is the arousing element propelling its member to ejaculation, said man is probably homosexual.
[–]twisdom12FDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A bit sad to realize how true this is. Find you a man who speaks highly of other women's accomplishments and who has genuine admiration for women outside of their appearances.
[–]sveji-FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So basically they love men.. but being with men is gay and therefore bad.. but treating women they are attracted to with kindness is checks notes also gay for some reason? And going down on women would emasculate them? And they can't even treat women like people (or, in their world, like men). Why are straight men like this?
[–]Charming-Bee-2337 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Theyre like that because they view men as people equal to them so they have no problem following what other men say but they view women as inferior to them so following a woman would mean theyre inferior to women which would in their minds make them bottom of the barrel, because at least when theyre following men theyre still above women.
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hmm. Well I have to disagree. Nearly all my exe’s good friends have hit on me either while I was still with my partner or after we’d broken up. The things men say about each other to us women when the “friends”‘aren’t around is very telling. Many men are not loyal to each other at all. They may need each for companionship but it doesn’t mean they necessarily like each other or wouldn’t sell them down the river if a good opportunity came up. Men are selfish. They put themselves first.
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[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 199 points200 points201 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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