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He so badly wants any form of recognition from her 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:48 PM
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This comment should be higher up! ALL sex workers are victims of the patriarchy, they are groomed from a very young age and many of them have some degree of sexual trauma in their past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:41 AM
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They should include escort rates for every time she wasn't in the mood but gave in to duty sex because he wouldn't stop whining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:21 PM
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Just like women, men achieve easier and better orgasms through masturbation than through intercourse. Just like women, men seek out casual sex not necessarily for the sake of sexual pleasure but for the sake of male validation. Both men and women are taught from childhood that male validation is what determines our value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:33 PM
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Well then just take my comment as a clarification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:56 PM
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Time, energy, focus and passion are finite resources. If I see that these resources are invested elsewhere in his life and his job is just a means to support his real ambitions, I'm here for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:04 PM
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There is other ways to define ambition and success than through a capitalistic framework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:46 AM
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gender and sex are not the same thing And gender is the one that corresponds to how people want to be addressed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:12 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you're being a bit negative and pushy towards her. No one responds well to constant criticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:14 AM
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If you are at all able to, please see a therapist! You are vulnerable right now, not just to your ex but to other people with bad intentions as well. It worries me that the last time you guys broke up, you immediately got taken advantage of in another situation that you now regret. Therapy can help you stay strong and teach you how to feel more secure and stable. It is important you learn how to stand up for yourself and be firm in your standards and boundaries, so you can avoid situations that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:42 PM
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His actions: 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:05 PM
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"Not all men are bad!" "So you're one of the good ones?" "Nah I'm a piece of shit but not all men tho!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:58 AM
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"Even with all my imperfections you still chose me" feels like he's already put her through some shit he's surprised she put up with / forgave him for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:06 AM
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Flowers die, chocolates get eaten, but my husband follows me around with a shopping cart 24/7!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:19 PM
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She's a badass but I hate the concept of this show. That experience could be bordering on traumatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:02 PM
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Seems obvious from the context but a lack of self-respect is indicated by sleeping around for the sake of his ego or validation from his peers, inability to practice self-control, ruining his brain and his ability to have a sexlife that is fulfilling to both him and his future spouse by sleeping around and/or consuming pornography.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 06:51 AM
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It's not that women want to marry a manwhore, just that it's near impossible to find a man who respects himself or his future partner.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 07:41 AM
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Doesn't OP deserve to settle down with a good and devoted man and not some overly experienced ex-party guy?
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 03:50 AM
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I guess his fav porn sub is also homophobic for not featuring gay porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:09 AM
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my lovely wife 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:37 AM
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She is over 10 years closer to her birth than to his age. When she was born he was a whole decade older than she is now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:22 AM
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I see we've both been on reddit for too long and learned some shit we'd rather not've!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:17 AM
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Lol this man wants to simp and spend on a lady and still all he offers is a coffee date? 😂 Can't make this shit up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:39 AM
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👆👆👆👆👆👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:23 AM
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"I have never met a woman who didn't know to say no when she didn't want to go further" ........ how would he know????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:16 PM
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Trust your gut! Does it feel like he is making a genuine attempt at initiating a conversation with you? Anything that feels like he copy+pastes it to all his matches gets an unmatch from me. Anything that shows some thought went into it gets a reply. There's still plenty of time for the dude to weed himself out so I wouldn't worry too much about it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:35 PM
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He comes home to use you as a fleshlight while thinking about those other women who would never actually sleep with him 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:43 PM
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The good thing is, men with opinions like this are excited to share them! If you spend some time with a guy he is pretty much guaranteed to tell on himself. Since you're holding off on sex, he will assume you share his opinion and most likely, at some point he will tell you how happy he is that you are not like these other hoes and how much he respects you for not giving in when HE tries to pressure you into sex. He even said he will keep trying to sleep with a girl to see if she is "easy". A ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:51 AM
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This is NOT why we wait for sex!! If a guy doesn't respect "easy" women he doesn't respect women period. You wait so you have more time to weed these types of men out and don't give them access to your body only to find out later they hold shitty misogynistic opinions like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:29 AM
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Hello? 911? I just took a break from running over prostitutes in GTA and overheard my girlfriend watching a tiktok about shooting men? A while back she asked me to stop beating and strangling her during sex and I told her BDSM is part of who I am and she has to accept me for me. Since then she seems kinda irritable (hormones lol). Anyway I am literally scared for my life and it hurts my feelings that she would watch something so violent. What do I do???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:15 AM
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"Even if they got a cut"??? Why is HE getting a cut when it's their bodies people would be paying to see? If these women wanted their nudes/porn spread all over the internet they could just make an OF themselves. What did he contribute that he thinks he's entitled to make $$ using their bodies and labour?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:28 AM
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I still really like your original observation, it is very nice to see a stereotypically attractive woman who put effort into her appearance represented as a a human being with complicated thoughts, even if the comic was edited! I also think it's awesome that you're taking the time to respond to everyone who replied to your comment :) Just wanted to mention that I agree with what you said and think it's a great observation regardless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:15 PM
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It's not the original text. In the original she is thinking something along the lines of "6'0", educated, funny, charming, rich" etc which is sOoO DeManDiNg - while seeing a woman as just a wet hole to put your dick into is apparently the epitome of enlightenment. The funny thing is that even though the message is that women are shallow and have impossible standards while men are just simple and undemanding, the woman in the comic has a body that defies physics and clearly put effort into her ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:18 PM
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She sounds scared. "I know this is not the same as cheating" "I know they are grown men and can do what they want" etc. These don't sound like her own words/beliefs but things he has yelled at her so many times (and maybe got other men to "confirm") that she now expects abuse unless she adds them as a disclaimer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:04 AM
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"Feminists think a woman's societal value and ability to survive shouldn't be dependent on her desirability or availability to men!" Um, yeah that's true I guess? What's your point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:04 AM
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He's an adult and still hasn't realised that 95% of his classmates who bragged about getting laid in the PE lockerroom were full of shit 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:39 PM
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Notice that some commenters seem to think it's more shameful that he said he's "not that big" than that he tried to rape a child. I guarantee you those people are not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:42 AM
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This man even made a post about it: https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/kx6lat/your_little_head/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share TL;DR: Men can't be held responsible for their actions because TeStOsTerOnE :((((((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:51 AM
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I'll date a short guy (I don't have a strong personal preference regarding height) BUT I won't date a guy who is insecure about his height. Red flags are - asking if his height is a problem for you - asking if you have dated or would date a guy who is shorter than him - not wanting you to wear heels - suggesting that all girls prefer tall men - suggesting that tall men have it easy in the dating scene - complaining about times he's been rejected because of his height - generally calling himself …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:04 PM
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I read the entire thing I just didn't see an answer to the question you pose in the post title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:51 PM
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I think there might be many valid reasons not to date a man who smokes pot. It seems like a no-brainer not to date a man who smokes pot every single day or identifies himself with "stoner culture". Yet, FDS usually has well argued out reasoning and examples of why something is a red flag. All I read here is "my abusive ex got off on gore and violence, but I left him because of his seemingly unrelated pot use".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:28 AM
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Out of all of the red flags you think smoking weed is the one to fixate on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:28 PM
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Because women are fed the lie that 1. Sex is a / the only way to receive validation, affection and intimacy from men and 2. Receiving validation and affection from a man is more valuable than getting those things from other sources like female friendships. If your reality is that all men will use you for sex but you still crave some kind of intimacy from men, it creates the false dichotomy that you can either be the boring starfish that made him wait to use you for sex or the down, kinky cool gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:55 AM
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EVEN IF for the sake of a thought experiment we pretend that his desire to sleep around and still continue to string her along can be reconciled with a healthy relationship in which he respects her, the fact that he did so without her consent and went out of his way to betray her trust negates all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:00 AM
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This is such a representation of what men have to offer, it's almost poetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:57 AM
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What a lunatic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:47 AM
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?????????????????????????????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:33 AM
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He 100% knows what he is doing. That's why he doesn't want her going to therapy. It's harder to gaslight someone when that person can talk to someone outside the relationship who validates their experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:54 PM
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Men won't feel guilty about wasting YEARS of your time when they already know it's not going anywhere and they are just using you as a placeholder. NEVER feel guilty about allowing him to take you on dates and spend time with you. Getting to know each other is a necessary part of dating, it's impossible to know if someone is compatible with you at first glance. Would you be salty about a company "wasting your time" if you don't get the job after writing an application letter and going in for a f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:44 AM
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Who wants to bet she's 10 years younger than him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:50 PM
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It can absolutely be terrifying for the woman. This kink is often used by rape-victims to retraumatize themselves. If it gets "too real" a woman might also feel scared to use the safeword because she is afraid he might continue (actually) raping her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:21 PM
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I don 't understand how even the kink crowd can praise this and see it for what it is - this man doesn't want to rape/hurt you because he cares about you - but refuse to see the flipside - if a man enjoys raping/hurting you its because he doesn't care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:54 PM
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"If a woman is attractive she won't have a problem getting men to pursue and commit." "I went to the gym once and now have twelve supermodels competing for my attention!" Which one is it, Jimothy? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:02 PM
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Isn't savage a compliment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:15 PM
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