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MOOD FOR LIFElogickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:21 AM
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LVM LOGIClogickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:33 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?logickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:09 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?logickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:03 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFElogickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:08 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCElogickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:25 AM
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FDS MEMESlogickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:51 AM
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LVM LOGIClogickilledthecat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:06 AM
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So brave of you to share. I can't imagine how much that would have hurt. Betrayal trauma big time. Wow. I hope the fucker rots in jail for this and for what he did to that other woman. Hell has a special place for people like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:39 PM
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Nope. Open phone policy can still be played against you (deleted messages, secret chat feature, archiving chats, etc.). Trust but VERIFY completely on your own terms. Vet, vet, vet. If something feels off, it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:23 PM
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How about their gf's going on dinner dates with other men ? Receiving their attention, sweet flirting, gifts, being looked after and made feel secure ? Since we're arguing FuNdAmEnTaL nEEdS and jUsT a fAnTaSy, iT mEaNs nOtHiNg ? Guys fundamentally need PMO ? No problem, women fundamentally need to be non-abandoned (evolutionarily abandonment for other females, that includes the illusion of it, is the absolute worst-case scenario for a woman). Securing the non-abandonment is the female equivalent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:20 PM
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Even if every woman on this planet loved it - totally their thing. I personally am into different things. I don't want to try it, and gladly don't have to at all if I don't want to. Simple as that. That's the only thing I bring into these discussions. Can't be argued with. I, personally and individually, don't want to. Period. Don't feed the troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:08 PM
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COME AGAIN ?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:04 PM
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True, that was LV of her (plus marrying a guy simply for his money). Still think the last pic is savage 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:57 PM
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I love this sub so much 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:04 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:57 PM
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Absolutely still a long way to go and we're far from ideal. But this sub is powerful and things are far from hopeless, either, is what I'm trying to say. That's why it's being attacked so fiercely. People are waking up about sexism and misogyny, double standards, inequality and hypocrisy. Maybe not immediately and once and for all but slowly and steadily. Setbacks like for example the current problem with porn are all part of the process. Gotta keep pushing through those, and forwards. Enough to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:56 PM
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Enough of them acknowledging how it's everything, though. 👍 But I know what you're trying to say. Childbirth and periods are not hard at all on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:45 PM
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They would hate each other so much for treating each other like shit but then they'd get beaten up and killed. Women are the easier target to take all of that frustration out on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:00 PM
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iT wAs sO 🤡 eMpOwErInG 🤡 lAdiEs iF yoUrE 🤡 bRaVe 🤡 eNoUgH yOu mAkE tHe FiRsT (and 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th) mOvE 🤡 In fact, the most empowered and bravest women make ALL the moves. 👌👍💪💋😻 So amazing guys! Right ? Gimme my upvotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:55 PM
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I aM nOt suRe And may I add: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I'm dead over this post and those two comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:07 PM
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This is exactly how my best male friend thinks, and enough High-ish Value Men in my life, who yeah, have a lot to learn, at least acknowledge this. Acknowledging this reality, to me, is the absolute least common denominator of any HVP, male or female. If they don't acknowledge this for a fact (NOT an opinion), no further common ground needs to be sought with me. I keep those people at a good distance from my life, they are in denial of fundamental reality. Comparable to Flat Earthers or Holocaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:21 AM
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Great. Let men work low paying manual labor/service jobs. Women do the high paid brainwork as lawyers, doctors, statistician, professors, architects and bankers. I see no problem here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:48 AM
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Same. Enough of them probably pickmes but some absolutely aren't, and either way for now that's better than rape-y male docs in charge of my health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:43 AM
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Same, and not surprising at all given that at that age: sexual consenting per law (as opposed to them pesky laws for 17 and lower) perky SO easy to manipulate Perfect for predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:41 AM
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🎯 This post is gold, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:36 AM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:23 AM
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yOuRe cOnTrOLLinG mE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:15 AM
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Thank you for sharing. What a shit show it's becoming. So typical for human beings - taking an arm when offered a hand. Perverting freedom of speech and freedom of expression of the individual to justify the biggest depravities. Laughable. At the same time: set backs during progress are normal. And it always gets worse before it gets better. The most effective method against set backs is to keep educating ourselves and others. Every step along the way matters. They add up. Even if no immediate i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:52 PM
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If he said sorry and actually changed after then he didn't manipulate her (but again, I feel like there's a lot of context and details missing here). ​ Was the pregnancy thing against her will or knowledge ?!? ​ Either way, you are an amazing friend for trying to look after her and rolemodelling her boundaries and self worth like that. It must be so frustrating for you to always pick up the pieces of her repeated poor decisions. Something must not be Okay at home for her to engage in such a rela…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:51 PM
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Exactly what I have in mind. When John Wayne Garcy strangulated his first victim he reported a "deafening orgasm" and that's how he found out that killing was the ultimate sexual thrill for him (after years of previous sadistic and rapist records and activities performed on other animals and people). Biographies are always the same. Paraphilia is such a classic box to tick. That's where it starts. It's not that deep, honestly. You sexually climax to that shit = you are mentally ill. ​ I will tel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:30 PM
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Logic always wins. ​ No, nobody "shames" me for having, exactly, healthy boundaries of a sane person's relationship with sex, intimacy and love. They can try, I laugh it off. ​ If your sex drive and orgasming are tied to power/domination (including an obsession over "innocence"), violence or coercion of any kind, you are mentally ill. Exact same way paedophiles are mentally ill. ​ ItS juSt tHe fAntAsY, iT mEanS nOtHinG ? Great. If its that irrelevant I'm sure you have no problem letting it go. ​…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:05 PM
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Why did you not mention this important bit of context in your post ? That changes the situation a fair bit. ​ Is she somehow financially dependent on him ? Are they living together ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:46 PM
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Again: just impressed you're here with a background like that. Super mega proud how far you've come, mentally and emotionally, when growing up in less than ideal settings. Hope you're out of the worst. But if not that's also Okay. Either way, this sub and FLS supports the fuck out of powerhouse women like yourself. You totally got this, again good to see you here and welcome 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:32 PM
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It always gets worse before it gets better. Healing is cyclical. Not linear. ​ Every big change in society, the closer it was to happen, received fierce backlash and attempts of oppression. Feminism and its waves especially. ​ Some days/weeks/months/years we're taking 3 steps forward. The next it's 2 steps back. Then 1 step forward again. 2 steps back. 3 Steps forward... ​ ​ Overall though, we're getting there. Eventually, the pendulum will come to a halt in the healthy middle. Stay strong, keep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:02 PM
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Wow, you're ridiculously strong. What an asset to have someone like you on this sub. Big like. Something about this short sweet post is uber intense, and I totally did not expect it. ​ Sorry you went through all of this (and still are going through it for your pick me relatives). Were you close with your mom, or are you glad she's gone ? If it shouldn't have happened that she passed away my deepest condolences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:55 PM
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Hm. Fair call. It reads like a complete troll post to me but eh. Not my call to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:31 PM
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I remember your post, I think we all agree with you. ​ Everybody needs to vent but at the end of the day adults don't lecture other adults imo. I find it wrong to take the stance of "I will lead you somewhere, morally, where I already am." amongst two adults. Parents to children, teachers to students ? Yeah, of course. But not adult to another adult - unless it is something completely wrong like lying, cheating, assaulting someone, taking advantage, etc. ​ With my pickme friends, I chose the "ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:20 PM
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The whole post, not just that one line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:04 PM
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I think we're safe to assume you were not the problem here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:02 PM
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Honestly that's the only thing I do with friends and their personal choices if I question them and it has not been downright assault/abuse, etc. ​ "He convinced you ? So you didn't want to, originally yes? I see. I don't do it either, and I don't want anybody to "convince" me in this department. They can suggest it but if I say No I mean it, and if I am curious about trying something I'll say that, too. But you do you. ... aha. So you didn't come. Then probably don't do it again if you didn't en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:58 PM
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This reads like troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:47 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:33 PM
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Hmu via dm (let me crush my deadlines first tho - 3 papers in 2 weeks. Yuck)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:30 PM
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We started off on the idea of pure monetary and societal benefits, and this is still on the table, absolutely, we both love that idea too. So good. ​ But also mutually attracted, we talk out EVERYTHING. Everything is on the table, we both know exactly if one ever initiated to officially start a romantic relationship the other person would be down. Likewise, if one said "It's never gonna work out" it would change nothing. Also everything in terms of controversial things we've done. Overall we bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:10 PM
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Yes, assets of yours to be owned and used, mostly to impress other men (until they're gone). Your looks, beauty, your feminine glow and energy. Your money if you have it, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:53 AM
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C O I N C I D E N T A L L Y #alllivesmatter twisted racism exactly into how mostly white people are being put at the real disadvantage here. ​ C O M P L E T E L Y U N R E L A T E D ​ #notallmen twists misogyny into how mostly men are being put at the real disadvantage here. ​ ​ So strange. Weird. Odd. Random. Hu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:45 AM
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See that's too much of an ask of these losers right there. ​ I WaNt aLLLLLL poWAAaaaaaa yESsssss, iTs ALL mINe raAh. ​ Mindset of scarcity. They feel they have their own power taken away the second another person has power too. Which means they hold no power whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:54 AM
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Sis here spitting pure FACTS. ​ To a T. I could add countless examples for further underline every single claim you've made so far here. 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:48 AM
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Bill and Melinda Gates foundation, and how they invest into women receiving exactly this, therewith fighting overpopulation on this planet, is a place to start that comes to my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:55 AM
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👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:52 AM
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"Ironically, he ended up asking me to peg him." ​ Seeing 0 irony here. Anal is pleasant prostate stimulation to men. ​ There are exactly 2 reasons men obsess over fucking a woman anally: - projection, they want it themselves so badly (but can't admit because homophobia) - objectification, a woman needs to be possessed and dOmInAteD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:42 AM
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We got you 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:35 AM
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🎯 ​ Sis keep that shit up. I fell for the same stupid jerks when I came out of my 2 ltr years ago, I was clueless. People being jerks is NEVER a reflection on you. ONLY on them. Eventually this will click, together with a whole mindset shift towards abundance over scarcity. ​ Block and delete this guy without warning if he keeps hurting you. It's super simple when you think about it. Shitty people ? Not in my life. Buh-bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:32 AM
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L M F A O Combined accuracy of meme and this comment can not be overestimated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:18 AM
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"Do they realize that there are women out there whose standards they DO meet?" ​ First of all if you're so insecure and rotten that you have to emotionally abuse the person you claim you love the only women whose standards you meet are desparate pickmes who yaysay you. ​ Second of all: These pickmes are not the 8s-9s these guys exclusively go after cause, again: obsessed with looks (their own and especially women's). So NO, the standards of these women are not met by these losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:15 AM
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RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:07 AM
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Peddit - dive into anything 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:05 AM
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It's US spelling plus that tad of a closer link to how "Reddit" is spelled, were my thoughts. ​ Peddit it is for me now from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:04 AM
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This comment is so powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:00 PM
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Whoa, one minute faster 💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:57 PM
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#toomanymen ​ And can we call it "Peddit" from now on ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:34 PM
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I wasn't married young, but committed in two ltr, and with HVM, luckily, but yes: ​ "the one thing I truly truly want is to be with me and be happy." ​ One of the best decisions in my life. It really keeps the scum away 99% of the time 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:31 PM
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From my own most recent experience with one of the most malign narcs I've ever met in my life (there were a handful, plus two sociopaths, AKA endgame-narcs): ​ This was one of the first things I noticed. He is making a fortune but still: ​ "Avoid these men." ​ For all the bullet points listed in this post. The accuracy hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:20 PM
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#toomanymen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:16 PM
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Welcome to freedom. Once you literally accept to stay single for the rest of your life you're there. ​ "You'll stay single if you keep behaving like this" Don't threaten me with a good time, man. ​ "Eh. Onto the next" No grudges my dude. Look for the millions of pickmes to fight with or yaysay you, idc. ​ I have my peace and my good life with good people, men and women, in it only. Probs gonna marry my best friend next year but even if not: family, friends, career, hobbies, maybe a child one day…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:14 PM
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Beat me to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:05 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:03 PM
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"men are pointless to be with unless they are romantic, wholesome men." ​ I LOVE this. Sooo simple and well said. Thanks. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:02 PM
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This comment hits so hard. Bless you and your kids, so glad you're away from this attacker (I don't believe in the word "abuser" anymore, humans can not be used so they can not be abused/misused), and safe now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:14 PM
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:D hahaha. Knowing Vox this is likely what it will be. Kind of curious now. But eh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:18 PM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:08 PM
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The accuracy hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:06 PM
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Yeah last one wanted to start this shit. Told him once to not ever do this again. His response was laughter. I told him it's not funny, more gaslighting "iT waS a jOkE". I knew talking is not a language he understands. Second time he jumped from the dark I slammed the mfer right into his face, then stepped onto his foot really hard. That got the message across for this one. Dumped him without a word a coupla months later, he turned out to be a narc and this kind of abusive "humor" was foreshadow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:49 PM
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"Don't befriend men, don't go to men's homes alone, don't get drunk in the middle of the day at said dudes home... All men that try to be your friend do it with ulterior motives, male-female friendships were historically not the norm for a reason. It's a relatively recent development and a complete lie that puts women at risk." ​ THIS. #toomanymen ​ ​ "I’ve been friends with this guy for a while and the whole time he was probably thinking of a way he could get laid." Not only probably. Certainly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:32 PM
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😆 I feel attacked. I can sense the agenda... but it's not 100% clearly and definitely out there for me yet, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:09 PM
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We are not understanding each other at all... ​ Eh. Was worth a shot. I'll delete my comment in a bit. ​ Edit: yea, getting downvoted reinforces my idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:40 PM
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Confused by "because age gap" (legit... hu??) but other than that I'd wait for the finished piece to come out... I don't see a problem solely in the fact that they're including all these constellations next to long term relationships, although none of those are ever for me. ​ I worked as a journalist for 4 years, and you always want the broadest variety possible in these sort of pieces. ​ Inclined to jump in and tell him: "Monogamous, straight, engaged, same age. Both politically moderate-progre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:33 PM
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Obviously not when talking to a supervisor or close friend. ​ I picked my examples intentionally... ​ Edit: downvoted. Fair enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:48 PM
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Smells like troll spirit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:16 PM
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What do you mean "at least" ? Coming out the other end sane is pretty good in my books 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:13 PM
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Came here for this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:12 PM
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You're confusing me with someone who doesn't come from a family of narcissists, has not recently dumped a grandiose and malign one, did not have another covert one for a housemate once, and encountered 2 levelled up narcs: proper sociopaths. ​ I know them to an extent that I play them by now :) hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:11 PM
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Good you wrote that out for yourself. ​ One thing I personally noticed for my taste: Many of these are still WAY too nice, understanding, explanatory, asking questions, to the absolute wrong people who don't deserve it and will use it as ammunition to troll you, even. WAY too much talking. I personally shorten these drastically. ​ A SO who SEEKS to embarass me in front of friends ? "Knock it the fuck off, now and for all future." I let them decide how seriously to take me. They don't and do it a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:06 PM
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"If every woman in the dating pool decided to only accept high effort, these men would be forced to have in depth conversations with us" ​ I have completely come to terms with the fact that this will never happen (same way environmental protection or wealth distribution won't ever happen). There will always be enough pick me's, litterers, misers/greedy people. ​ I do it anyways. Simply cause my life is short. I personally have more important things to do in my life than associate with thirstbois…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:41 PM
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🎯 ​ The High Value Men in my life who have not already worked past this mindset acknowledge it when I bring it up. When I pointed it out to them, in productive discussions, they immediately were like: "Damn... you just said something there." And then try their hardest to change for the better. To actually learn, understand and act on unconditional love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:33 PM
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Not even mentioning bots and double accounts to push an agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:29 PM
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"who just wanted human companionship" ​ Yeah but also a woman the age and emotional bond of his daughter or granddaughter he could "do some deeds" with, whenever he did manage to get it up for a BJ despite his ancient age. How convenient. 🤢 ​ I hope she charged the culminated hourly wage of therapist + personal assistant + prostitute. If yes I'm happy for her being one of the very few professional sex workers who at least execute their own free will plus make an income that buys them freedom and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:24 PM
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Ah. Yeh. They're weird. 🤷‍♀️ ​ I have 2 moods for my four exes: ​ "Happy you're happy 🖤" for my first two bf/ltr I'm not friends with, but friendly ​ "Enjoy sis 😂" for the two lying, cheating, manipulative, gaslighting, pornsick dumbdumbs and their APs* ​ ​ ​ * both came back and tried to cheat with me, and both AP-gfs contacted me eventually with "questions" 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:00 PM
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"women their own age aren’t interested in them" ​ The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:44 PM
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Uhm... what ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:42 PM
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Thanks, another aspect I didn't even think of. ​ No, this was also not taken into consideration in this "study".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:40 PM
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Seeing as they were together for a total of 14 years, and OP mentions having the daughter so early on in the post, she'd be probably 11-13 years old. Daughter was born early on, and since this guy is a depraved narcissist he first cheated with a coworker THEN wanted another fuckdoll, because his girlfriend was not sex enough during and post pregnancy. Aligns with "after about 3 years together ....". Like yeah, their first 3 years of being parents. ​ Then another, what, 3 years of him fucking "ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:54 PM
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"In it, researchers studied the “desirability” of male and female users, based on how many messages nearly 200,000 users, all of whom were seeking opposite-sex partners, got over one month on a “popular, free online-dating service” — and if those sending the messages were desirable based on the same criteria." ​ My highlighting. ​ Okey first of all methodology and representativeness (data scientist myself): ​ Those amazing "researchers" checked what age group received how many total "messages" o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:32 PM
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It's never truly 50/50 because of gender paygap, and more women working in low paying service jobs than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:52 AM
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Sorry - same side of what ? Not following.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:28 PM
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Human beings can not be bought or purchased. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:19 PM
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I want to add if they lied to you well enough/hid everything well enough: ​ Observe how they behave in bed. ​ Overly dominant PLUS being super close to coming within the first minutes (PMO takes like .3 seconds), then not being able to come unless or sometimes even despite when their favorite specific "kink" (position, scenario of dominance) is acted out -> porn sickness 99% of the time. ​ Men who are not porn sick can't hold it back when they make you orgasm on your terms. It's the sexiest thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:09 PM
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Love how you spelled it right for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:55 PM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:54 PM
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Same. ​ Anal and orgies ? ​ D O U B T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:53 PM
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I understand sometimes you gotta rant and take a bit of a breather from all this madness in the world, but I want to put things into perspective here: ​ Consume your stats & data critically. SO many followers/comments these days are bought, fake and bots. Plus the minority enough times screams the loudest. Does not make them the majority. ​ Honestly ? My pity for women who believe a stranger on the internet, that degrading sex practices are entirely disconnected from misogyny, is rather limited.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:45 PM
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Yes. ​ "How do you manage conflict in your relationships which arise from your views?" ​ Know your conflicts: Conflict1 is by simply disagreeing with the points I make ("This is problematic/difficult/wrong, because ..."). I have no problem with that. "Agreeing to disagree" has happened, and having factual, rational debates that challenge the points I make. They can be heated, I tolerate even that. All healthy and productive. ​ Conflict2, meanwhile, is the inner conflict of the person with the fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:44 AM
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THIS. ​ Failure to render assistance to the level of complicity is a fine line to walk on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:19 AM
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OP this. Calm, quiet, comfortable which does not mean boring at all; passionate and making you weak but in the right way. ​ This, meanwhile: "intense--quick" ​ is almost always a sure-fire sign of narcissist supply and codependence on both ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:12 AM
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YES. It is very easy to spray yourself. The correct use of pepper spray needs to be learnt exactly like the correct handling of a hand gun so as to not hurt yourself, for several reasons (actually its way easier to harm yourself with pepper spray than with a gun). ​ You know how some brands of aerosol deodorants almost hurt your lungs or burn in your eyes when you inhale them (dunno how these still make it to the market) ? Pepper spray is similar. Yes, it has a nozzle for some level of direction…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:56 AM
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Watch Charlies Angel's (NOT the most recent one 🤮) and Lucy Liu "NO"-ing the fuck out of a guy who tries to chat her up when she simply does. not. want. to. ​ Learning from the best. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:20 AM
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This dude is alpha af. Wouldn't want to inconvenience him for sure. He would outsmart the fk out of me. Look at that confidence. Big like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:18 AM
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Amazing, thanks for the tool. ​ My photo is quite blurry on purpose. It's enough for a small Linkedin thumbnail but if you try to extract it and make it bigger you see pixels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:38 AM
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complete coincidence, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:30 AM
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The name alone makes people on here so furious :D ​ But yea... curiosity is for beginners 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:27 AM
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OP what u/SuitablePerformance3 said. ​ Your best "tool" ? Is not the foreign object you believe it to be. It's your own confidence. ​ Absolutely take self defense classes. The psychological aspect of not being a victim is so HUGE. And it comes to most people within a matter of 10-15 sessions. I will make a post about this, because I have a fair bit of experience to share here. Next to, of course: TAKE THOSE MFERS DOWN. :>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:18 PM
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Literally ANYTHING BUT self reflect, and adjust their ways by 1 inch/meet us at 1/10th of the way. Anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:19 PM
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Your comment was sooooooo important. ​ "But Catfi-" S U R E. Hmhm. Yes, that's the reason for a cheap date. Must be convenient 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:15 PM
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Nah, FUCK THAT. ​ We ALPHAS. 🦍 UGAH. 🦍 BEING GOOD PERSON = BEING WEAK/BETA. UGAH. 🦍 ​ ALL WE NEED IS HAIR, AND GYM, AND MONEY. HAIR AND GYM AND MONEY IS MANLY. Its ALPHA. WE SO CHaD. WE ARE OUR ASSETS. UGAH. 🦍 🦍 🦍 ​ ps: fds objectifies men. ☝️🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:11 PM
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Okay first of all I saw what you both did there and LMFAO. ​ And, of course: trp: "fds objectifies men way more than trp objectifies women. ☝️" (after, like, one single comment where a sis said "yuck, bald men" compared to months of posting about sexual violence and male bs against women, how to be High Value for both sexes, etc. pp.) ​ Also trp: "MEN HIT "THE WALL" FOR THEIR PHSYICAL TRAIT OF BALDING. IT CAN TRASH YOUR APPEARANCE. HERE, TAKE THESE CHEMICAL DRUGS TO FIX THIS. YOU MUST NEVER STOP…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:04 PM
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⬆️ ​ Comments like these are the reason so many men hate this sub btw. We're busting each and every single one of their little agendas. ​ This comment really is it. Along with u/janeaustenfan99, u/sexualfoodpantry, u/GlamorKiss and what so many others have said here. ​ It's not about being catfished, that's what videocalls pre date are for. It's not our job to remother any broke, immature or entitled thirstboi out there how to treat and court women properly. Stop enabling poor behavior. Hold you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:57 PM
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The kind of comments I come here for. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:48 PM
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Again, I know this sounds harsh. I mean no diss. But I am not "jumping" to anything, and certainly not to it ain't for you. I used the word "may" on purpose. ​ Yes, these rare exceptions you mentioned can exist. Same way .1% of age gap relationships with the woman being the younger party are not about being predatory, or a prostitute makes crazy good money, works for herself and enjoys her job. In an overwhelming majority, though, age gaps are predatory af, prostitutes are struggling hard, and "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:43 PM
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No, High Value behavior is exactly defined: having high moral standards, and overall cherishing women. Acknowledging without caveat or bitching the fact how women are socially, economically and sexually disadvantaged as a whole, at the very least. This starts with (but does not end at) making an effort to properly court them during the dating stage. ​ "Let's grab coffee sometime during Easter" is casual code for hanging out with friends. FDS does not date casually. We date with a purpose, and in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:22 PM
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Same. ​ #notallmen but DEFINITELY you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:41 PM
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#toomanymen indeed. ​ __________________ This sub is at 148k followers. ​ Bigger than the cities of Savannah (GA, USA), or Cambridge/Oxford (ENG), or Reykjavik (IC), Bergamo (ITA), or Okinawa (JAP). ​ Seven days ago it was at 143k. ​ Special thanks to the haters/male lurkers who Streisand effected the fk out of the sub with their free advertising "nUkE tHe mAnhAtErS, I wAnT aNaL waAAhHH". ____________ ​ Keep walking, don't stop. That's how your crowns fall off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:00 AM
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Dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:15 AM
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Your future self in 5 years will look back and say: ​ "I'm so fken proud of you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:14 AM
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And that's exactly how I KNOW what was going on here. ​ He completely told on himself. Hahaaaa, investigation 101. Dumbass liar, this is so obvious. Exactly how suspects tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:07 AM
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"Like I’m not over here watching porn all the time or anything" ​ ​ THE ADDICTS ✨ ALL ✨ SAY ✨ THAT. ​ And it is a lie EVERY ✨ SINGLE ✨ TIME. ​ Those who actually only watch occasionally have 0 problems ditching it immediately. I speak from 15 years of my personal relationship and dating experience, the stories I read on r/loveafterporn, r/PornFreeRelationships and even r/survivinginfidelity plus from educating myself on investigation techniques. ​ I can PROMISE you OP, I would easily bet 5000$ o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:55 AM
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Happy it worked for you. Also met the "looking for a relationship only" guy who pushed monogamy - turned out to be a narc & love bombing. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:17 PM
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One.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:23 PM
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Exactly this. I have two HVM for brothers, both IT professionals, and they totally acknowledge that their female peers ask for raises just as much - just don't get them as much as their male coworkers. Or that their female peers don't get their contracts extended like the males due to their companies (one works for a public University's clinic, the other for a telco provider) fearing pregnancies. Ageism, sexism, discrimination. It's blatant, it's abundant and the only way to make it stop: Never.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:43 PM
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Edit: I was friends with his gf (I mean evidently not otherwise she would not have ripped into me like this). Yea as of now I've also been cheated on, twice. There is a special place in hell for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:28 PM
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phantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:05 PM
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Thanks, and yea. Her and I were sorta friends so he fucked that one up too. Maybe she realized one day, and maybe the pickmeisha your end will realize her worth one day, and the favor you did to her, too. "these NVM are making beautiful and talented women look STUPID" It's infuriating how accurate this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:03 PM
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Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:51 PM
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"I had to let a sister know" 👍👍 and I'm sure this sister fucking appreciated it. I know I appreciate you did that. I exposed myself when a guy lied to me about being single and sex had already happened (she tore into me but idc I know I did the right thing) and exposed when I was hit on by taken guys. Every time. Hell has a special place for cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:41 PM
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Two questions, two answers: ​ First one depends on the guy. "spank bank" can either refer to masturbating to porn scenes, or to own sexual experiences of the past, or to the fantasy of a specific woman/specific sexual acts doing with that woman. ​ Second one I'll leave for others to answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:34 PM
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Ah, yes. My very first dating attempt on a crush in year 9. Smartphones weren't a thing back then, so when he asked me out to a movie, I rocked up and he wasn't there. Claimed the next day he was we just couldn't find each other. lmao. Classic male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:40 AM
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So much. But the women are the bitter ones. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:06 AM
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The "lesson" women learn: men are assholes who ghost for no reason and when I did nothing wrong. Well done. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:04 AM
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Same. Left on read forever, or ask them how the walk "dates" are working out for them so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:18 AM
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I just laugh tbh 😂😂😂 hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:53 AM
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"I felt hopeful she would do the entertainment entirely, and be all over me/feed my ego, since she has everything to offer, meanwhile I myself present the bare minimum while being maximally entitled. The effort of "walk date near my house" translates into the rest of my life. So far I was rewarded by society for this. She didn't do all the entertainment, because she knows her high value and that with so much going for her at this age, she can pick from a golden platter of the best men. Now I act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:15 AM
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Yeah I smell troll aswell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:01 AM
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Also loveafterporn and survivinginfidilety also help so much with the betrayal trauma 👌 super supportive communities. Avoid deadbedroom sub at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:58 AM
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The accuracy hurts. By and large, MEN are the ones who can't be alone. Even when they're not neglecting their kids because there aren't any to neglect. LVM constantly need female attention. Like a drug. The sex, AND ESPECIALLY the emotional labor. Cuddles, being listened to, having someone so Netflix is less boring. They always claim how "antisocial" they are, how cool, strong and independent, "Idgaf" blah blah. It is such a bluff, and HVM themselves call it. The ideal, for LVM, of course: fRiEn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:48 AM
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Both of these. Please take down this survey, it's sexist to connect intelligence to the biological sex. Not a smart thing to think at all. Also women are referred to as "women", while "men" are referred to as "males". Double-standard. Y'all would be laughing if men did this (well, they DO this often enough, and it IS pathetic).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:27 AM
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I mean... they're incels. Men not getting sex makes them desperate. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:07 PM
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IG: We make an app that rates women based on how hot they are. WE BAN THEM IF THEY DARE make monetary gains from those ratings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:32 PM
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THIS. ​ There is nothing to "explain" in that sense as there is nothing to "understand". There is only to "accept", namely: "Sometimes, people behave shitty. No rhyme or reason. The end." ​ Stop trying to rationalize what can not be rationalized. That is a defense mechanism for betrayal or abandonment trauma, and excessively responding that way is not healthy, precisely because you seek something that won't be given to you. "Closure" is a scam. Accept what they did and and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:46 PM
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The day this planet has entirely overcome inequality in payment and social treatment is when I will message a guy first. ​ Yeah. I'm waiting aswell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:37 PM
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Agree. ​ Truer words have not been spoken in a long time. This post is a gold standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:33 PM
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Except in those many many many many many many countries where women still do NOT have a choice, of course, birth rates are as high as ever. ​ TOTAL COINCIDENCE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:32 PM
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Because where would these "therapists" make their money from if not completely broken/unhappy couples ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:26 PM
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Yeah, I find that super fair too. 👍 It's my kink also. ​ Come on, we all wanna stay open, right ? ​ Oh. "Boring" you say ? "Narrow-minded" ? ​ Please don't shame. ✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:40 PM
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Point 5. ​ So he's allowed to feel strongly about how his kinks are extremely important to him. ​ Okay, no probs. She should be allowed to feel strongly about not engaging in them being extremely important to her. ​ I just read the article myself. ​ The onesidedness and pickme is at another level. A random guy the supposed reader just met during dating. Like, just any dude. And the article, not with a single word anywhere, brings up the possibility: "Just fyi you can say No entirely to any of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:38 PM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:07 PM
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It goes so much further. In most cases it is: "I'm already sure 99% I will not fall for you, which has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with your actions or your behavior. Even if you treat me goldenly my mind is simply made up (because I'm a commitment phobe/narc/PD in general, because I decided the minute I swiped on you, because I'm still hung up on my ex....). But I do want to get laid. So while I mostly won't lie, to be able to tell myself momma raised no liar, I will never tell you everything I kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:22 PM
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All of these are way too real. ​ Did you see the one a while ago where a man bullet listed the realest details like: "Yes, real women have body odours, no matter how well groomed. She will have a body hair somewhere no matter how thoroughly shaved. The women you look at are recorded in perfect light, angle and make-up so their skin and proportions of face and body seem perfect. If sex for you happens locked away from real human intimacy, under sterility, within your own head and in front of a co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:11 PM
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Queen of slay. Was banned again just this morning, did you notice? Back up again within the hour, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:02 PM
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Exactly what I was trying to say. 🎯 well put! ​ See also "See where this is going". ​ Men who argue Love Languages and Attachment Styles to avoid accountability are those exact same fuckboys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:34 AM
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Yes... ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:50 AM
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I want to share two of the most savage female incelgram accounts that are out there. One roasts boomer men who set their age range to 16-30. The other is geared more towards bios. Both get shadowbanned regularly by incelgram so can't post their full names here in the open (male lurkers). The audiences should connect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:36 AM
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mY lOvE lAnGuAgE iS aCtS oF sErVicE. translation: "I make money, do chores and exist. How are you emotionally unfulfilled?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:37 AM
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RP dating guru with a smirk on their face: ❌ sEe yOu wErE tOo nIcE aNd iNseCurE. tHaT wAs yOuR miStAKe hEre. ✅ No, he was really just being a jealous little shit AND refused to take her honest feedback ("hey man, don't") about it when she pointed it out to him. This is such a perfect way to assert your boundaries and reassure someone :) wow lady, well done. Taking a leaf out of your book here. Patient but firm. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:01 AM
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Hm, true :D Next time leave it at his "lmAaAaOoo." Let it echo around the room, like the sad little attempt it is. Amplify it by your silence :) He will be back with: "Hey it was a jOke."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:53 AM
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Because they simply don't have to. They can be lazy fuckbags and still get throned and being given all opportunity in society. High time one of these opportunities is being taken away from them - access to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:49 AM
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Same and THIS. Military worker. Not ever again. Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:45 AM
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Quote yesterday from watching a movie with a man: "Psssst, don't ruin my fantasy of her slim slender hot figure". I had laughed at how the baby bump had been removed in a movie like 2 mins after giving birth, because it takes more like 2 months to build back and down to normal (muscles stretched, etc). Final confirmation: he's not only LV, he's Negative Value. Women have to function to serve him, and look pretty. ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:43 AM
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THIS. I feel: awake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:33 AM
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Leave on read for 3 weeks. He'll be back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:29 AM
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"Age is just a number" My words. Then why is your problem that I want someone my own age group, and why don't you want someone your own age group? It's just a number, after all. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:44 PM
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He was running away. Let him. Holla 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:40 PM
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Same. Don't want it in my life, even if every man on this planet would be infested by this. It appals me, and I stay away from other things that appal me all the same. No need to stick around at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:35 PM
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First of all, 90% of men in porn have huge dicks. And yes, it makes small pp'd men insecure as fuck. ​ SECOND OF ALL 🗣 The female equivalent to guys taking their emotional and sexual attention away from their hot willing girlfriends and wives and towards jacking off to their favorite fantasy porn women "getting fked hard" is NOT watching porn. Oh babe, I am not emotionally attached to any of these women, so it's not cheating. It's natural for a man to have sexual urges, and wanting variety. It's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:44 PM
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Simply this. And since only the fewest women are "established" at 22 (ie. financially AND emotionally sound), I agree with OP wholeheartedly: Having kids at a young age is a privilege mostly for the rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:55 AM
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Reason no. 2836291936 this sub and movement will keep. going. What the actual fucking fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:46 AM
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You're similar to my mom. A lioness of a woman. Booted our absolute abuser-loser of a father eventually, then worked fulltime WHILE getting her masters degree during nights AND raising us completely single-handedly. No child support, no spousal support, ZERO support from her own shitty family. Nada. Nothing. I'm content to say my brothers and I became minimalistic and financially successful IT workers. Most importantly though we were raised to be good. human. beings . That is the biggest value o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:40 AM
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The latter. Irony is ofc: he has PIED in beginning stages. But he will claim it on the mental stress the military caused him, not his decade long porn consumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:26 AM
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NVM > LVM >>>>>>>>>> HVM/single (either are fine) AnGrY fEmCeLs 🤡🤡🤡 Yeah, Karen, me and my savage-kind personality, my self awareness, my passions, my fat bank account, my fitness and my grooming standards are livid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:04 PM
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The first three. Never confirmed the public bathroom depravity, but wouldn't be surprised. No husband thank FUCK. After some big red flags I started counting in the first 1-2 months I mentally checked out irreversibly after month 3 or 4, when I noticed I was entirely being taken for granted. Tried cOmMuNiCaTiOn. Defs totally worked ....... Sorted out my things (moving 400k's away, uni deadlines, mostly), threw myself into my work, fitness and self care. Matching energies. If he doesn't invest AN…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:57 PM
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fAnTaSy. The exact same reason men hate women putting on make-up/realizing how much make up is involved in "I woke up like this, makeupfreelook y'all". It destroys their fantasy of being LoVeD and cArEd for, or that their favorite porn star is a nAtuRaL beauty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:23 PM
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yOunG aT hEaRt 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:47 PM
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"That's why, at 58 boomer age, I seek women younger than my daughters. Women my age jUsT cAnT kEep uP wiTh mE." Yes. My biggest disdain are paedos and entitled boomer men who literally bring nothing to the table except pink skin and stale breath, but feel entitled to a hot 20-something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:53 PM
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My brothers and I had no father figure - well, we had an emotionally and physically abusive mentally disturbed rager man for a father figure to be exact. Both my brothers are financially successful IT professionals and HVM who treat their wives and our mother right (they treat all people and other animals right in general), and acknowledge their weaknesses and imperfections while being assertive and leading with direction and purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:32 PM
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Well over the past days we've seen exactly where Reddit's origins are in terms of userbase and content. So not the least bit surprised these days about any depravity on the company's behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:52 PM
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10/10 the same exact people/accounts on Reddit, Twitter and YouTube (or burner accounts). It's common knowledge that paedos can't be "cured" from their paraphilia. They can manage it, at best, ie. not acting out on it/refrain from molesting children. But why even risk it ? If you ever sexually assaulted/raped a child you instantly and forever lost your privilege in society. I'm completely pro death penalty for exactly these cases. Depraved monsters like David Challenor - why tf does he get 22 ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:48 PM
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"No, no, it will change everything !!! We will call it.... uhm... uhh.... well SOMETHING, and they won't know!! We smort 🥸😎💪"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:34 PM
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Outrageous assumption. I woNT bE a wHiPpEd mAN, muHh 🦍🦍🦍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:32 PM
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The alpha concept was misunderstood and misused. It's not a myth. There are clearly visible hierarchies in wolf and dog packs, no matter whether in captivity or not. The misunderstandings are that the alpha in carnines are always male when actually female wolves/dogs assume this position often enough, and it's mostly a pair of parents who dominate their offspring and also all other younger wolves/dogs there are no hierarchies amongst the non-alphas when really every pack member is part of the dy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:27 PM
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Literally. In 10 years of dog training, walking and owning I never had one on a flexi lead that is not an awkward dickhead one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:13 AM
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Nothing to discuss, all said in OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:15 AM
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We have a winner. Who tf ever argued that? Where was this discussion happening ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:14 AM
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Great to hear you have built this partnership with your dog. You certainly did not "just luck out", stop minimizing your hard work, consistent training and overall right attitude and mindset about partnerships with dogs to begin with. What I do encourage you to challenge is your mindset of "They don't respect his boundaries". I do not tolerate my dog to unprecedentedly snap at people in my presence for merely touching him (before they actually touch him I assume). With my clear command to snap, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:01 AM
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pretty much. Started before FDS for me. Got finalized here. Left on read forever until you actually show up with some substance. I can wait, no probs. Life's good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:29 PM
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💯 Can 100% confirm. Left my first love at 20, after 3 good years together but I had outgrown him. After no contact for almost a decade we're in touch and casually friendly these days, told each other recently how that relationship spoiled us both but that it was the right decision to break up. Recently left a porn sick limp dick emotionally abusive loser here officially. Never gonna look back, defs not gonna keep in touch with him. Just another relationship he burnt entirely. All he has at this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:20 PM
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Terrible day to have eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:40 PM
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Second one's my favorite tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:15 PM
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Worked with dogs, cats and horses for years. Hello fellow animal lover 🙋‍♀️❤️✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:11 PM
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lmfao this is getting better and better. PSSST, mate - you are supposed to _LEAD your dog. The leash goes in the front of your body (next to it). Not behind it. Also not in your pockets, mouth, twisted around your fingers or tied around your neck._ Fml. Glad you came out Okay. That dude should not own a dog. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:55 PM
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First 53 seconds are all you need: https://youtu.be/SJRr5eIVRWE Flexi leads confuse the fuck out of dogs. Am I free? Am I on a leash ? Wh-which one is it? Buy a firm short lead. Plus a long line for safe training. Consistent training of 8 weeks and he will be normal. PS you always calling him to you when people approach reinforces him "Uh oh, mom's worried! Is it that cunt over there mom?? I'll get them!!! 🤬🤬🤬" Dog doesn't know you're worried over him biting a person. All he knows is: Person app…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:50 PM
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I mean 👀👀👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:46 PM
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"on flexi leads" ​ Says it all. Stay away from people who haven't understood one of the most basic concepts of (literally) leading a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:43 PM
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I just edited my post, thanks for pointing out the wives. ​ Yes, some men can LEARN this, FROM the women in their lives. And also yes, they remain a minority. And also yes, it's sad. But it is what it is, and I rather stay alone making time for self love than having a LVM taking away that time, and taking away value from my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:39 PM
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"one dude told me "I look hot" in a creepy pervtastic whisper" ​ Must have been the same creep who did that to me a coupla months ago walking just past me. ​ Do you know what I did ? I finished what I was doing on my phone, then followed him. He was waiting on the subway platform, and I would have gone that direction anyways. He saw me approaching from afar, and I stared the motherfucker down. He tried the same and I didn't look away. Didn't blink. Just looked at him. Solid 20 seconds. Then I sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:35 PM
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Why is this not the most upvoted comment, pinned to the top ????? ​ I didn't even go through the slides. Just stopped reading at the first one boohoo victimizing himself, then lying straight to her fucking face lmfaoo. It's ALWAYS the same script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:19 PM
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If a man treats you like a toy be Annabelle. ​ Agreeing with everybody. Sis, some tough love real talk here: ​ He didn't decide to call it quits "out of nowhere", and suddenly after "one fight". The faster you realize this the better. He had made up his mind LONG time before he dumped you, probably around the 3-month-mark when the first excitements of new and variety tapered off for him. It's called honeymoon and hormone phase for a reason. Yep. He got himself too excited over pussy, and then to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:16 PM
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Definitely this. It mostly shifted. But yeah, a fair bit better imo, as in the digital world you can still escape via block and delete. Plus everything gets recorded. I enjoy the pandemic because I'm an introvert. Love how the world slowed down and took a break. Except my gyms/sports, and some socialization with my teams and friends I miss absolutely nothing. Loving the peace and quiet of home office, not having to commute, etc. So much more time for the things that matter. I will stay out of si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:17 PM
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Ah yea sure. Hm, maybe I'll just make a post about it. Now that you're mentioning it, probably a coupla people here could benefit from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:33 PM
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To me personally it is not "helpful" in the sense of making me feel good, obviously. Let's call it insightful? Same mindset of insecurities, competition, and worrying what other men do. Accurate either way. ​ ​ "I'm starting to think many guys are incapable of loving women." ​ The HVM in my life openly acknowledge this. And see it as their biggest flaw and shortcoming, and started to work on it the minute I brought it up. They say that they can LEARN from a woman (mostly their wives) how to prop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:32 PM
8

I'll dm you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:00 PM
18

Well in that case my anger goes out to the porn sick dumbfuck who traumatizes their partners without batting an eyelash. Porn and cheating hits women at their innermost primal vulnerabilities, and these guys know it and don't give a single fuck about it. Addiction is more important. If I had to guess you had no fucking idea what's coming for you, would have given the world to this man... but it was not enough, of course. And for what ? His addiction. ​ And men are surprised why more and more wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:59 PM
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You are 100% right it's twisted from bottom to top. ​ And my biggest condolences to what you went through, and also my biggest pride how you came out the other end. ​ I have no words for it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:18 PM
26

"He kept saying that "there are medical reasons for it, I swear". Like... dude you're in your 20's?" ​ Yeah no way. What a load of crap. ​ "it's clear what the real reason is for these young men..." ​ It is very clear. My first boyfriend was like your current one aswell, barely watched it ever (and if it was so soft). We emotionally, sexually, financially and mentally satisfied each other. Next one, a long term friend of mine, will be like this :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:15 PM
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Simply this. ​ Typical druggy behavior. Next hit/fix with a higher dosis, next one higher yet, etc. ​ No 15-year-old-boy immediately jumps into BDSM fantasies. It is always a progression to get there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:11 PM
25

This. PIED is the most prevalent cause, like overwhelmingly so. And enough men are starting to finally fucking realize it. About damn time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:09 PM
41

"But guess what? He had porn sick limp dick. He could only stay hard here and there. He had a lot of sexual shame. It was terrible. I asked him to work on his porn addiction and he said “I’d never ask someone to change for me”. He broke up with me after realizing he didn’t want to work on his porn addiction." ​ Twinsies. Especially the staying hard part. But also the whole yOuRe tRyinG tO cHanGe Me and total denial of decade long excessive porn use having completely rotten his mind and dick. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:05 PM
20

The men who say this in such a situation yes. 100%. They gauge women and their ability to be good mothers by the lack of their ability to say "No" to behavior (while saying Yes to the person) and don't understand the damn difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:59 PM
33

🎯 ​ And what's so fucking hard to understand that coddling (or bribing) ≠ love. ​ In fact, they are exact opposites. If you can't assert a transparent, predictable "No" against temper tantrums and other manipulation tactics of your 6-year-old while remaining emotionally available to when they behave again you have failed the absolute essence of being a parent. In fact, you crashed and burnt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:57 PM
126

"Girls can circumvent it by just saying, "maybe". They keep their options open whilst not triggering the rejection rule." ​ And the cycle will NEVER be broken. Men will forever whine wOmEn nEvEr cOmMunIcaTe cLeaRLy. _____________ "I wouldn’t expect more from a Christian school in TX." Me neither, this school is not the least bit surprising... ​ ... and btw every bit a perfect analogy of what is wrong in this world. EXACTLY what is wrong. Fml. Not only in this school, this is exactly what happens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:47 PM
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His mirror. Little narciss can give himself a 🧚‍♀️😘✨ kiss and close his eyes: if him and pickme simply pretend it was his money, that means it must have been. Amirightguys ? ​ ... Guys... ? 👀 ​ Incels outside: sO meAn. AnD biTteR. 😤 sHe iS a kEepeR fOr lOokInG aFteR heR mAn LiKe tHis. a truE qUeEn pRotEcTinG hEr kInG. sHe wIlL bE a gReAt mOtHer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:27 PM
3

The thing is: I want the sexes to mingle. This is not about mEn hAtiNg waAaH. ​ It's about staying away from misogyny (and paedophiles, and all other sort of disgusting perversions enough men display), next to staying away from shitty women. THOSE are the kind of people I don't want to mingle with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:46 AM
37

Enough internet for today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:30 AM
130

Honestly this is the worst (and a pretty bad) problem here. ​ He doesn't make enough money to buy "an expensive meal" (20 bucks). Hey, probably teens. I get it. ​ BUT. OWN. IT. That's simply what it is when you're young: you're broke af (unless you have rich parents). Don't have money = No Cheesecake factory. Simplest of things. Gives you an incentive to MAKE money if it bugs you. ​ I can't believe this enabler pickme, this is exactly the wrongest kind of feeding the male ego. And she does it fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:29 AM
15

Not the ones OP mentioned (HPV/cancer, and aids). But yes, herpes, for example, in tanning salons or by giving nana a peck on the cheek is real. Defo keep getting tested every 12 months or so. In a functioning relationship of two health educated people this is part of your yearly gyn/urologist visit. Nothing to do with lack of trust, just being educated and real with ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:32 AM
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100% deny access to energy vampires, negative and desperate men like this. Holy shit, this man needs therapy. If the roles were reversed I'd tell any woman the same: leave your coworker alone, you have issues clearly. "My friend just died" wtf. You don't just blurt that out casually on the hallway to someone you barely know. Emotional dumping, much. You owe him nothing more than what you've already done. Professionalism, and "No, I'm not interested.". Done. I'm similar, also have told people dir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:22 AM
26

And/or the age they learn to take no more bs. Sad for incels :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:28 AM
105

This is golden. Mostly because it says: "see if". Yeah ask a coupla questions. But standalone they won't get you far. "See if", however, really is where the magic comes in. This sub promotes it and I wholeheartedly support it: sit back. listen. observe. That's 90% of all vetting (yes, promise). And the reason so many people fail. We're too impatient. Sit back. Listen. Observe. Intuition is everything. KEEP vetting. Until foreverday. Never compromise your standards, never fall for the "sunk cost …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:57 AM
30

🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:09 PM
142

BOOM. It is SO wild. The projection and absolute oblivion behind double standarded crybois like this never fails to amaze me. Men have nothing except the audacity. Over and over and over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:07 PM
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Wow I felt that. Yes. Absolutely, same. Is nothing sacred anymore ? ffs. Especially the whole pOrN or kiNk entitlement has completely gotten out of hand. I mean Jezus fucking Christ. We're talking about an entire generation growing up with the new drug of the century which is: hardcore porn en masse. And it's literally getting more depraved with each year that passes. Rape, incest, and all this completely disgusting crap that has lost all touch with reality. Is being defended for supposedly bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:00 PM
5

Underrated comment. My thoughts exactly. Hard cringe. yuck. ​ Joey Donner in 10 things I hate about you, anyone? hahahaha ​ And yet insecure NiceGuys™️ believe his stories how he baNgs hoT cHicKs because he shows them numbers in his phone or sth, no-one realizing he is being left on read forever by all of them but 1 desperate pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:16 PM
9

They don't know care*. Fixed that for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:06 PM
74

"He is refusing to accept that's what he was, acting as though he has to agree for it to be true." ​ That was the most powerful thing I read this year so far. Take my award. Oof. ____________ tl;dr DARVO. Defense, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. ​ Men and their narcissism in a nutshell. ​ Because why EVER simply say: "I know I don't deserve you to forgive me. I truly feel sorry. I wronged you. Totally and entirely. There is no excuse and I assume full responsibility. " ​ Their fragile egos …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:09 PM
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Oh believe me: I feel you. That was the last nail in the coffin for me this morning. I'll be outta here soon. Enough is enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:04 PM
142

"this is the direction Reddit is choosing." ​ And for that reason I will be closing my account soon. After only 2-3 months here I've seen enough. ​ There are other morally intact options, and if not there will be. A Reddit without the porn/misogyny. Maybe traffic would be smaller compared to original Reddit but still big enough after a while easily, and in that case we'd know exactly what sort of users wouldn't be frequenting such a site - and that would be no loss at all to the community there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:01 PM
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Still way too polite. He will walk home thinking "Wow, that was so cool haha, can't wait to tell the bros." ​ The only appropriate response to male sexual aggression in form of hollering and catcalling on the streets is double that aggression. Make the biggest scene in public ever. Speak so that everybody can hear you. Stare them down, right into their pathetic little eyes. Tell them to go and fuck themselves. Ask them who the fuck they think they are, treating fellow human beings like this. Ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:52 PM
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Can we start sending these 200% accurate translations to them for a response ? ​ IF we feel the need to say anything altogether, I mean. Mostly it will be just left on read forever, or unmatch without any response, or maybe: "No. But I'll send one of my mates around to suggest this to your mom or sister as a complete stranger, first thing to say to them. Since it's so confident and easy peasy harmless you surely have no problem with that. What are their numbers ?" ​ Then stop responding/leave on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:24 PM
13

lol "conspiracy theory" ​ u/Wonderrednow account name is u/maxwellhill Check post and comment history. Fell entirely silent 2 days after Epstein was arrested. ​ Jim Gordon: "You're a detective now, son. You're not allowed to believe in coincidence anymore."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:08 PM
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Obviously. Even without the whole virginity - mate you are 63, wearing flannel shirts and have stale breath and pink skin. And you really sit here thinking existing and checking your pension makes a 24-year-old fall in love with you ? ​ Weird flex but okey. ​ I badly want to advertise an incelgram account here that exposes exactly these type of men who openly and freely admit their depravity, but it gets shadowbanned by incelgram often enough as is. Plus another one that just busts guys of all a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:01 PM
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I know I'm in the right community when Reddit's blatantly obvious bullshitting gets busted one after another. ​ Still will be closing my account. It's only been 2 months. I recently came to know that Ghislaine Maxwell was a supermod/admin here for years. Last nail in the coffin. ​ There are morally intact alternatives (and if they aren't there yet, time to make them). ​ Reddit and incelgram ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:20 AM
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It's always, always, always the woman's fault. ​ Age gap relationships too. Men and their keyboard warriorism, screaming gOLd dIgGeRRrrr. ​ Maybe, but also: huge pussy digger on behalf of the guy ? ​ No, hE lOvEs hEr, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:15 AM
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Another reason to leave this site for morally intact ones that are not paedo porn sick losers. ​ Deleting my account soon, it's only been 2 months. No thanks. Together with incelgram, banning accounts that are doing the Lord's work. ​ If the alternatives aren't up and running yet, they are in the making (IT worker myself).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:11 AM
19

Massively this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:08 AM
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THIS. SO much this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:42 PM
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Emphasis on pretend. It is a previously planned strategy. Harass -> if she calls it out -> wow why are you talking about these inappropriate things ? It's called manipulation tactics. Same way with cheating. "She seduced/forced me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:54 PM
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me2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:51 PM
1

HVM do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:26 PM
234

Just dumped the most emotionally abusive, cheating, lying, pornsick Air Force lowlife I have met in my life this Friday. Karma coming for him, with a bit of help. Can confirm this post 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:59 PM
3

How is the Lemonade album not up there ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:46 PM
4

This is the best one yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:38 PM
8

My mom. I was gonna make a post about that soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:35 PM
19

L M F A O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:11 PM
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iT wAs juSt a jOkE !!! No you gaslighter. Your creepy stalking of other women + a whole bunch of other shit got you fired, not her call (nobody gets fired over adding someone on fb, there is more to this). Go to therapy with your victim mentality (and, again, probably a whole bunch of other things to discover...!). So fucking proud of you OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:11 PM
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All of this SO much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:11 PM
44

Tag yourselves I'm bad words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:49 AM
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All I thought was lol after the title of this post (I smell troll/man/rp'er btw)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:38 AM
5

Accurate tl;dr of my mumble-fumble essay, yes 👌😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:36 AM
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™️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:17 AM
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I only set up this account and it's starting already. Good laughs, every time :Dbut yeah ignore and block, obvs. Just one thing: can we stop arguing the whole "fat ugly loser/pimply teen" on whos behind attacking females online ? It's ego arguing, and stooping down to their level of saying "Bet you're fat and ugly hur hur". It doesn't matter how "established" a hater is, some very well may be. But it doesn't matter either way. I call people on misogyny even if they were a a bunch of popular radi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:13 AM
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Why? I just feel informed, and that's good. Uncomfortable truth > comfortable lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:56 AM
5

Same. Complete emotional bankrupcy. Karma got him in the end though, plus people talk. He (classic) had no male friends already and eventually the women stayed away from him aswell. But yeah total douche haha. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:21 AM
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Wow twinsies. "Uhh? So you're saying you'd be attracted to me if I were a minor" That is 100% EXACTLY TOTALLY AND DEFINITELY what these dick-controlled primates think. Uga, woman, young, must sex. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:29 PM
4

100% same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:06 PM
24

That or they want to NEWLY do now what they MISSED OUT ON doing in their 20s because they were less experienced, mostly NiceGuys™️ who have regrets of marrying "too young". At 31 years I have seen it all. Last more in depth experience ? Summer 2019, guy at a bar. Small town. Immediate narc/socio bells ringing for me the moment I saw him (the god damn EYES, ladies. When you see it you see it). He was hitting exclusively on the 19ish year olds. Eventually we had a brief chat and I said to him "Don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:04 PM
21

First of all THIS. ​ Second of all: "We don't [owe] anybody anything." We do owe each other respectful treatment. Nobody has to love or even like me, but they must respect me. However I know that it is not 100% within my control whether they do. All I can do is assert and live by my beliefs and boundaries, and I will do so btw with or without other people acknowledging them. ​ Ghosting per se is not respectful. But yes, absolutely and immediately warranted after ANY (!) form of: - negging, haras…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:20 PM
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The kind of content I come here for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:25 PM
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Ask both genders what makes a successful monogamous marriage. They both reply: the friendship. ​ Men crave emotional connection, emotional intimacy just as much as women do. Women are just as visually stimulated as men are (most creative jobs are done by women, think of how women make content for presentations, flow charts, etc.). ​ Open relationships and non-monogamy are not the magic remedy to a disease called "lack of either of these". They are a quick-fix of some symptoms, a band-aid when th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:23 PM
12

This so hard. ​ I commented on a narc woman video earlier today, and was messaged with (surprise surprise): "Just because someone has a different opinion from your self they are not immediately a narc" blabla. ​ Just like EVERY narc argues; they were shamed too much without any rhyme or reason (instead of being reasonably told boundaries à la "I love who you are but you will knock off what you are doing here, as that is not acceptable") so they lost all faith in society's morals, as they appear …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:16 PM
61

Same here, my second relationship. 5.5 years in total but looking back only 2.5 or so were really good. I outgrew him. Loved that man to pieces, and he loved me. Also ended up having low libido. In my case it was caused by contraception hormones, and just the fact that he ended up not being 100% right for me (he developed serious depression, it literally got worse every year and ofc then I couldn't leave him). It took us MONTHS to finally break up (we were also living together), he tried to guil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:03 PM
13

I personally would most likely invest the time to engage in the chatting, as flirtatious/sexual as possible, get his baby mama's details and expose the screenshots of your convos, together with your experience with him to her. But that's just me. He 100% cheats on her regularly and with other women + porn aswell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:49 PM
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In many enough cases you are probably right. In my case it worked out well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:44 PM
24

Unreal. I'm so sorry. I hope the bastard caught cancer. Disgusting. ​ Be kind to yourself. What a fucking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:35 PM
0

Again: your first boyfriend/girlfriend at 15-16. ​ That's what I did. He was 17 turning 18, I was 15 turning 16 = 2.5 years. Best relationship of my life. ​ Edit: typos. fml. But yeah I understand where you're coming from, still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:29 PM
1

THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:55 PM
2

THIS. Once the younger person is 40 an age gap of 10, in some rare exceptions even 12 years, is Okay I find. It has to become smaller and smaller the younger we are. ​ Keanu for me aswell. All time fav. Next to Heath and Robin who both were troubled but seemed like out of this world amazing human beings. ​ Other examples here also good examples. Denzel Washington, Hugh Jackman, Chris Hemsworth, Jeff Bridges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:51 PM
4

Pretty much this. Or the whole press against him briefly in a somewhat secluded space. I am personally not a lap sitter at all (I'm 80 years old on the inside), and in general don't display too much physical touch in public. Never have, never will. ​ I can also safely say hand (especially palm) size has worked pretty accurately for me so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:17 PM
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Tell me all about it; I was that 16 year old girl on more than one occasion, and some of them were 40 or 50 plus. Yup. ​ I agree with you, IF together with this it will be made completely illegal to produce porn with this. I do acknowledge that there are the most rare instances where a 28 year old and a 20 year old really work out. But it shouldn't be exploited as a sexualized fantasy/fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:30 AM
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Mistress of a male narc 80% chance, female narcissist herself: 100% chance. ​ Edit: yes. Just rewatched that video again, no sound this time. Observe her eyes, in overall expression and movement, including blinking. She has narc eyes. Holy sh it's so evident. SHE is the one who breaks people. Manipulative as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:51 AM
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In your teenage years (your first bf at age 15-16 yourself): 3 years max In your twenties: 5 years max In your thirties: 6-8 years max In your fourties and beyond: 8-10 years max ​ Definitely NOT "hALf mY aGe pLuS 7" 🤡 That would make it okay for a 30 year old to date a 22 year old, for a 40 year old to date a 27 year old, for a 50 year old to date a 32 year old, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:41 AM
1

"I started dating my bf before I found this sub. He is not wealthy, would not be considered a “chad” type, which I have never cared about whatsoever." ​ Both my first two ltr were men exactly like this. In fact, they were properly poor*, but both times hard working with a drive and grind, and we ended up being just fine. Especially when I got together with the first one age 16-19 I got hated on and bullied beyond anything by guys in my year in school. I was ousted prior to meeting him, mostly fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:05 AM
1

100%. ​ I doNt bElieVe iN cHaRitY. ​ If they could marry money they would (and many do). ​ Perfect, that's exactly the purpose I tried to serve. Logic and ratio always wins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:46 AM
2

"Why do they think it's about money?" ​ Projection Slander/spreading rumors, fear, shame, hate and anything they can to stop this (again, certainly NOT proper logic/arguing)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:43 AM
24

This is EXACTLY how I spent my 20s. ​ 31 now and in sweet heaven, oh my.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:31 PM
44

He did roast himself there nicely didn't he. ​ Unfortunately for everybody, I will keep doing whatever the fuck I want. 😌💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:29 PM
15

100% same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:26 PM
9

I'm 31 now. Met him back in 2018, and developed the strongest bond with him while (ATTENTION male lurkers!) he was piss-poor, struggling to get a foot in the media industry. ​ I was struggling financially myself, and also was working through things emotionally and mentally. ​ We both decided to be reasonable, and that timing wasn't right. ​ Fast forward 4 years: - I am in Europe he is in Australia. We will meet up later this summer when travel bans have lifted. It's his birthday in September. - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:20 PM
59

What do you expect from someone man-talking that braggy, shallow "aS aN atTrAcTivE wOmAn ... frOm aNotHer aTtRactiVe wOman" ​ The cringe hit me so hard right there. ​ What, cause if two women SHE deems unattractive would have been discussing this, they would have somehow been less believeable? ​ Oh. Wait. That's how men argue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:35 PM
31

Pick me boys = nice guys. Same same but same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:24 PM
26

This one right here: "Guys aren't your friends. They don't see you as a friend and hate you for 'friendzoning' them." ​ over and over and over again. ​ I had two wonderful ltr from 16-19 and 20-25 thankfully, and rn have exactly three male friends who are self aware, with strong boundaries for themselves and others, and absolutely know their place. They can openly and honestly say "ofc you are attractive, but I will 200% not shoot myself in the foot and loose you for my dick like that". I trust …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:20 PM
2

I totally am, to prove exactly that point. LVM will always always always find new ways to supress is the tl;dr of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:19 PM
3

Trust me. He won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:43 PM
12

Even if it was 300 or 0.3 - it's completely voluntary. Manipulation who? ​ Also 3$ for one full hour of podcasting. PLUS weeks of buying and setting up the gear, trials, preparing, organizing things before, and the editing and postproduction steps. Not even mentioning months worth of setting up and running this hugeeeee sub + website + sm accounts, all the guides and handbooks written, the logos created, moderating the channels.... the list of labor goes on forever. ​ If 5 or so creators were pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:44 PM
8

Proud of you for breaking your cycle. I know it's tough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:27 PM
15

Your last paragraph had me ON THE FLOOR. Bahahaha. ​ And yep, like dogs or horses. Any attention is still attention. Don't enable. They are still the 6 year old boys throwing a candy tantrum. NO, and now stfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:02 PM
15

If I ever hear a person misusing the definition of sexual assault/abuse like this and I am physically present I will fart into their face. Oh, edit (did you edit your original comment aswell or did I just not read well enough?): there are narc women out there, who do use it this specific way you described. I thought originally you were talking about women just saying No from the beginning, and that's not sexual abuse obviously. Withholding physical intimacy with your spouse after a fight (instea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:52 PM
18

To 👏 a 👏 T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:24 PM
20

Do we know Epstein died in prison and was not swapped for someone else ? ​ Elon: Didn't trust the guy from day1. Look up how he talks on Joe Rogan, observe his eyes. Narc, if not even sociopath. It's so clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:21 PM
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And this is why LVM hate sexy women 40+ the most. They are attracted to her, AND the leverage is gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:15 PM
28

"We don’t grant High Value-ness based on looks and money because a rich and handsome man can still be an abusive asshole." ​ This projection is the realest of them all. There was a post here recently that pointed it out, also written completely logical, busting male projection. ​ I booted my yearlong absolute mega-crush last year after we went on two dates. He is 31 and has very evidently made good bank. Hey, good for him. Lawyer, 6'5'', BJJer, handsome af face, well dressed, charming (ofc). And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:08 PM
18

"FDS is anti-misogyny, not anti-men." ​ A LITTLE LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:51 PM
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Ok your last sentence hahahaha. Same! And massive same on what I think about the benefits of this community. The level of education and support and being strict with each other will last beyond generations. I can honestly feel a change coming, also because of similar outlets on other social media. ​ In more detail, yes, my past 15 years looked a lot like this. Oof. I did have two wonderful ltr, though. And my older brothers who totally treat their ladies right. Abusive as hell father though, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:51 PM
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