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DISCUSSIONProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:02 AM
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RANTProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:37 PM
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LIES MEN TELLProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:48 PM
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REMINDER 👑Protoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:49 PM
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DISCUSSIONProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:50 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨Protoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:15 PM
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NAH, SISProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:48 PM
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STRATEGYProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:21 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:29 PM
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DISCUSSIONProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:56 PM
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REMINDER 👑Protoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:50 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:22 PM
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RANTProtoetype/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:14 PM
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47

Hahaha! She makes a good point! Be sure to get the scoop on the goods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:57 AM
39

You are correct! I know from personal experience as I have a very low body count and have commitment issues haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:49 AM
142

Agreed. Also "making them wait" implies that he'll be getting something in the future. lol Or it suggests that I WANT to but I'm choosing not to because it'll convince him of whaatt?? If I'm gonna touch a man it's because I can't resist not feeling up that chaste body, I ain't waiting if a man has made himself THAT damn attractive to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:59 PM
111

The few long term relationships I had started like this, they were rejecting intimacy with beautiful girls left and right. Things were taken ridiculously slow and by the time I was in a solid relationship with him my loins were on ffffffire!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:45 PM
88

"Making them wait" implies that you saying no is the only thing keeping them from sleeping with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:07 PM
6

Yeaaah, and unlike men at least I'd marry the goat before it gets raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:41 PM
101

I cannot be bothered to shave any of my body hair. I used to shave my calves to occasionally wear shorts but thanks to Covid, I haven't used a razor in years. Also, getting ate out by handsome men has been my primary form of sexual intimacy so clearly it doesn't bother all of them ;) Body hair is a non issue in my romantic relationships. The idea of being with a man that spends his time bitching about women's body hair is as laughable and utterly inconceivable to me as marrying a goat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:36 PM
17

If you want to talk evolutionary psychology, there really is nothing but societal pressure that keeps women from just leaving male babies out in the open for the vultures to enjoy. *shrug* there's something we can do to get rid of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:29 AM
9

Ohhhh good thing there's no links, I could spend all day crushing these crusty scrote's predatory dreams via email.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:29 PM
13

If someone DID respond you know he'll immediately ask for a picture too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:38 PM
19

He'd ask for younger if he thought he could get it I'm sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:22 PM
21

In my teens I was a psycho. I was aggressive, domineering, impulsive and manipulative. I lacked fear and I controlled everyone in my social circle. My mood swings were stuff of legend. I had absolutely no authority figures and I did anything I pleased. I used men for absolutely anything of value they had to offer, whether this was vehicles, money or specialized info. The best thing I ever did for myself was never take drugs/drink and never have sex with anyone (why would I? It wouldn't benefit m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:48 AM
61

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:52 PM
90

She's right. Watch to the end when he's trying to run away from her on a TV set hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:46 PM
41

And how did they know he wasn't raping her again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:32 AM
66

*hug* Real beauty (and sexiness) is in how we respond to the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:27 PM
3

This is exactly the kind of guy that'll take horse dewormer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:06 PM
22

Tradwives love being classist. When I was married my husband saw it as a type of status symbol to have a wife that doesn't work, he pushed me to allow him to make all the money (and control all the income, yikes!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:23 AM
3

Ohhh, thanks. I'm glad you had some interesting insights. A shift of perspective can certainly be beneficial. I'm lucky to have been at home haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:48 AM
26

I tried micro dosing shrooms to help with depression. It was barely noticeable. Before that I never tried any recreational drugs because my mind is already too out of control so it never appealed to me. Anyway, one day I took a little too much and I spent the day screaming with my face pressed into a towel to muffle the ungodly wails. Be careful, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:23 AM
110

Tradwives talk shit about independent women and then blow their life savings on a pyramid scheme selling leggings and essential oils. I wonder if they ever get panic attacks of existential dread at night as they're laying next to that increasingly rotund man who farts right into her back in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:32 PM
5

*hug* Your life is free and open to make of it what you will. You will feel happy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:56 PM
4

Good song! Give it a listen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:25 AM
84

All these outraged guys are telling the world how small their dicks are. "WHAT? My dick isn't that big!! She's CRAZY"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:09 AM
363

If there was a gold button that women could press that would guarantee that a man doesn't get any of his DISGUSTING JIZZ inside of her during intercourse then I PROMISE YOU most, if not ALL women would press this damn button during every sexual encounter unless she WANTED to be pregnant. Pregnancy is men's fault for jizzing in a woman. Pregnancy is the consequence of a men's actions during intercourse. Ladies, practice saying this "I DO NOT CONSENT TO YOU (the man) GETTING YOUR CUM INSIDE OF ME …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:11 AM
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You can't debate with men, they're an illogical sex and argue purely from emotion and desire. Don't waste your time or energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:06 PM
39

Unfortunately for a lot of low income women in the south, driving to another state would set them back quite a bit of money. That's money that a lot of them simply don't have. If they planned on driving to a state where abortion is legal it could take them all day, often times these places put waiting times on the procedure which forces them to stay for days. I can drive from NY to TN in 12 hours (on paper) It always takes longer than you anticipate. And apparently in Texas you rat out a woman f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:00 PM
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I'm afraid for all of the Southern United States. I'm from NY and it never crossed my mind growing up that I could lose my reproductive rights. This should be the experience of EVERY girl in the USA. I travel to the south often, I've met many of you gorgeous, kind women. you ladies don't deserve this. To the young women in the south; Ignore all men, don't get married. Make your goal to get out. Motherhood is a scam and if you reaalllly want it, be a single mother by choice. Never give a man say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:59 PM
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The smaller the dick the bigger the insecure demands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:11 AM
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He's complaining about how tight she will be when I KNOW she wishes his dick was a hell of a lot bigger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:04 AM
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Masculine = doer? Nope. Please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:36 AM
12

For a moment I thought "Why even bother tucking in the shirt?" then I look at the second picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:33 PM
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You can show us, snap that picture for us, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:57 AM
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Hey, I want to apologize again for offending you. Quite honestly, I bet you're gorgeous (with boobs or without) I actually know a lot of women in entertainment and they have a hard time making girl friends because they're conventionally attractive (either naturally or artificially) and women are intimidated by their looks. Most of my girl friends have had some kind work done and have been in some kind of sex work/ modelling and I don't know how to discourage negative consequences of those indust…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:38 AM
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Pity is feeling sorry for someone's situation. Do you not feel sorry for someone struggling with body issues?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:15 PM
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I do pity women who feel they need plastic surgery. I also pity women who have gotten it and regretted it! Speaking of shame, it seems that people who have or want plastic surgery experience quite a bit of shame! Shamed to have an "ugly" body part or shamed for "fixing it"!! These poor women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:27 PM
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I think it's just fine to look down on people who's values I believe to be harmful. Take a popular example, Kardashian women who have gotten numerous plastic surgeries to fit a porn ideal and sell their shitty products to young girls. I'm sure they're probably NICE people but I don't really think it's "tearing women down" to not agree with them selling their big, fake asses to the mAsses! har har
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:15 PM
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I can't imagine what fucking these disgusting men does to your soul. Rapists, all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:00 PM
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People look down on me because I got the big fat balls to tell them exactly what I think and as you can see that doesn't make me too popular. Insecurity certainly is NOT something I struggle with, especially over my body. I am heart broken for girls who are. THEY PAY A MAN TO CUT THEM OPEN BECAUSE OF IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:32 PM
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You can talk about the work you've had done, I won't attack you I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:18 PM
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I deleted my comment FOR HER. I will post it up again and rub it right in your face :P I will be as judgy as I want because you wouldn't believe how many people look down on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:12 PM
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If you wanted the surgeries you got than I'm happy you got them. If you felt pressured to get them to live up to a feeling of worthiness in an attempt to feel loved and desired then I hope I never feel that way and decide that I want surgery to fix it. I appreciate you online having never once seen your visage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:09 PM
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I apologize. I will remove it because I like you. You deserve way better than how your disgusting ex treated you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:01 PM
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Me neither, but this is a question and it's asking our opinions. I'm giving my opinion. THAT IS MY OPINION. Edit: That's also the same argument used to justify sex work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:58 PM
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It's not like I look them in the eye and say "I LOOK DOWN ON YOU!" but I certainly pity them and I'd never want that for a woman I loved. In places like Korea women take their CHILDREN to plastic surgeons and openly criticize their looks and call their natural bodies ugly. Good stuff right? YAY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:56 PM
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So are women who get plastic surgery, that's exactly why they get it. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:46 PM
51

Men refuse to allow women to "go their own way" especially when they see how happy women are to do just that. Men need to just leave us the fuck alone because they certainly aren't attempting to earn a place in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:32 PM
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Good thing I'm not a prostitute, because I would **** a lot more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:13 PM
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Just because you didn't get the treatment you needed doesn't mean that you didn't deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:28 AM
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He's attracted to multiple women per day. You're just the one that responded to his advances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:18 PM
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I prefer huge, virgin dick that I can defile with my body and ruin for all his future partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:18 PM
1

I can only hope and pray that he wouldn't find me attractive so that I wouldn't have to hear this shit live when I reject him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:44 PM
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Haha! Awesome response to his whining!! 3 years?! Emotionally slow?? WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:26 PM
44

I've seen countless mothers allow their babies and young children to hit, slap, poke and generally allow their young children to treat animals roughly and it pisses me right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:58 PM
13

And men only love me because they want to fuck me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:21 PM
93

Let him continue to lie about being single to the girl he's cheating with? What about new girl's happiness? DOESN'T MATTER, IT'S ALL ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS. He knew new girl would hate the news of what he really was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:59 PM
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Next time I get my period I'm going to take pics send them in and call it abortion juice. Because EVIDENCESES!!! Maybe the guy who unwrapped the girls pad from the trash was really a super duper Texas abortion sleuth!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:54 PM
15

I can't understand these anti-vax losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:23 PM
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I only date men who know that they're attractive and have a lot to offer a woman. A man who is secure in this is a normal guy who enjoys SHOWING a woman what he's worth. He's not constantly trying to prove to himself (or other people) that he can get women. He's more concerned with the value a woman can bring to his life. (it's happiness)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:52 AM
12

Thank you, I also preferred to be alone and spent a lot of time avoiding others and sneaking away. It was the only way I could relax!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:33 PM
106

Hi there, I'm happy you were finally diagnosed and can focus on getting the help you need. I totally understand the resentment you have! I have ADHD and was diagnosed only in the past few years (I'm in my 30's) My childhood was rough in the school system, I do believe that I was treated with unnecessary cruelty because I was a girl, I was expected to "do better" because I was a girl. Sitting in a classroom for hours while I was forced to pay attention to material that bored me was like torture. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:36 PM
20

We're all Cave Peggy Bundys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:33 PM
5

Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:30 PM
95

It is average men. Do they really not know how repulsive and unattractive this instantly makes them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:55 AM
159

Baby girls are literally buried alive, strangled, smothered and many aborted before they're even born for the simple fact of being female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:52 AM
111

Yay! I'm wondering how he was planning on "helping you get pass your feelings of discomfort" ?! "STOP FEELING BAD ALREADY!!" -him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:14 PM
140

Women should not have to be raped for a living, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:58 AM
62

This is the same twisted logic people use when they're driving on no sleep and decide to "rest their eyes" by keeping them closed just a little longer when they blink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:37 PM
16

Very true. No woman raises her son to be a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:11 PM
48

I'm very sorry that you don't understand the exquisite pleasure of watching a hunky slab of blue-eyed Texas beefcake workout those guns for your viewing pleasure to the beat of your favorite song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:02 PM
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You're right, but if people aren't allowed to ask for a TW then you're essentially shitting on all TW. Just because someone asks doesn't mean they'll get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:20 PM
15

I hope we go extinct. Please stop reproducing, people. Lets *** out peacefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:08 PM
28

They're right though, I'm not into you, bro. Sometimes I like to imagine what kind of absolute stud of a Greek God I actually MIGHT fuck on date three. Wow. He'd have to be painfully beautiful, ridiculously intelligent, inhumanly kind. Ugh, this guy doesn't exist. If he did I'd probably already have been sitting on his face date 1&2 anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:35 PM
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Ha! I get that some people delude themselves into thinking the strippers like them, but Brandon and I just GET each other. He even gave me his google number for the small phone he keeps in his glovebox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:42 PM
125

Not a way to treat a HVM? Are you suggesting I DON'T tip the strippers?! Excuse me, miss, but I am OFFENDED for those boys. They work hard for the money, besides I think they really like me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:21 PM
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Take him to the strip club and give him ones to tip your favorite male strippers. Let him watch you enjoy those washboard abs. Buy him a kiddy cocktail and a basket of fries, tell him that if he worked out hard enough, he also could have thick thighs and an ass built to thrust that cock like a roman battering ram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:13 PM
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"ACTUAL FACT"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:10 PM
23

This legit how women are taught about their bodies all over the fucking world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:54 PM
22

"I'm TOOO RICH!!!""" *scurries away* *beats off while crying in his expensive car*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:29 PM
191

indentured servitude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:26 AM
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Men who go to other, poorer countries to find wives are really just trying to buy a slave. Eastern European women are trafficked into brothels in western European countries. Prostitution is rape and slavery. Women in impoverished countries routinely use men who attempt to buy them to escape their countries. I understand why they do it, they don't actually want to marry these men. I hope they can make their escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:29 PM
35

A man hating frigid bitch, you say?! Well then, come sit by me! <3 ;P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:00 PM
59

This is absolutely true. They are looking for a cheap prostitute that they can manipulate and control under the guise of an arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:22 AM
13

Only pervs dig through a woman's bathroom trash. What sane person would barehand a ball of toilet paper in a bathroom garbage can? AND UNWRAP IT? I bet he sniffed it, he probably whacked off to it later. I had an ex that'd sniff my dirty panties, lick them, shove them in his mouth. Whatever! The guy was doing my laundry so have at it, babe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:46 PM
42

Hey guys, why aren't you out there sucking dick for the latest game console? Better yet, just suck some dick so you can pay your child support. If sucking dick is a legitimate job then get out there and deep throat one ya lazy bums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:16 PM
64

This happened with medicine and computers too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:34 PM
27

I personally don't consider men who want children HVM. All of the nurturing men I have dated lavished me with the attention and generosity that they aren't saving for their future children because they wanted none. They understood the sacrifices made to raise children and they chose instead to nurture their primary relationship to the fullest. Childfree people really aren't that rare and it's not at all hard to avoid getting someone pregnant. People without children have more to offer in a relat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:45 PM
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There is a certain level of insecurity that I've picked up on around here over a woman being CF and feeling as though they don't deserve a HVM. Why? It's internalize misogyny to believe your worth is attached to the idea that you're a baby maker and this is what you offer a man. Please, knock it off. (this isn't necessarily aimed at you, OP)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:07 PM
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I prefer to be proposed to with a briefcase full of cash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:54 PM
6

Very lovely. I really like how it's presented on the succulent. Congrats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:49 PM
26

Which car repels single fathers the best?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:31 PM
36

There is absolutely no point in having PIV sex if the dick isn't going to bring you to orgasm and satisfy you. I ain't taking on the risk of PIV sex just so some small dicked dude can get off. My crotch isn't a charity, I will not fuck because I "care". I will not let some tiny dicked dude rub his meat inside of me because "It's nice to be close" fffffuck that dumb shit. I do NOT care. Go straight to hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:59 PM
10

What kind of hobbies do you enjoy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:12 AM
40

I platonically "date" women for friendships all the time. If I'm trying to befriend a woman that I'm interested in then I'll invite her to come along with my other friends and I. That way she is included and has the option to interact with me (and others) at her comfort level. After she has enthusiastically tagged along a few times and I like her, I will invite her out on more 1 on 1 outings. Sometimes I don't care much for her so I just stop inviting her out, other times we became like family. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:55 AM
13

Women are just better than men. The only thing men are better at is killing, lifting heavy stuff and molesting children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:57 PM
8

Shit like this is one of the reasons that I'll only see female physicians and actively fear and avoid seeking medical treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:32 PM
53

All my bills are paid by men (who want to pay them) I get vacations and I'll soon be getting a new car. I don't have sex with any of them. I recently cut off a male friend of mine because he gave me sass, acting like his emotions for me were my problem. NOPE. He learned his lesson though, now when he wants to talk to me I get a notification from Venmo that he sent me money. If I like the amount then we have a chat. I am an expensive woman to have around. No one gets to fuck me and if a man EVER …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:17 PM
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A human body isn't a product to be sold and consumed. This is why we're not allowed to sell organs or body parts. When you sell the human body there becomes a market and vulnerable people are forcefully 'harvested' like livestock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:23 PM
32

They certainly don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:09 AM
5

<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:08 AM
125

When I was younger my best girl friend dumped me because her loser, disgusting boyfriend made comments about me to her to make her jealous. This fucking gutted me and from then on I purposefully looked like hell whenever I hang out with my girl friends. When I am done up I'm extremely self conscious around WOMEN because I don't want them seeing the attention men paid me. This only changed when I got older and became friends with a woman who escorted (I worried about her constantly, I didn't like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:14 AM
16

I'm so honored. Go forth knowing no man is above you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:55 PM
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I thought I wanted a relationship, turns out that I just wanted to make out with a hot guy and dry hump him to orgasm. Men start to bore me after a while, they're only good in small amounts I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:51 PM
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Probably, I'd imagine that the whole point of causally snacking on ass gummies is to get a funky taste and smell. MEN ARE GROSS, THEY LITERALLY EAT OUR SHIT. And this is casual and normal to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:17 AM
145

He wanted that pancake ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:04 AM
93

Wannnaa hear something even funnier?! Most of the time it's men posing as internet models selling this shit. If they've got one video of a girl shitting ass gummy bears out, then a guy can stuff his ass full of gummy bears and sends them along with the same video to countless dudes online. Guys do this with used underwear, they skid marked women's panties for some other scrote to sniff thinking it was a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:48 AM
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If men didn't have expectations for women then there would be so much less violence and abuse against women. Men would have nothing to be angry or frustrated at a woman for. It's only they that are "allowed" to have expectations. What they expect = "just the way things are" according to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:42 AM
150

I wonder how many ugly red pillers are screaming at their moms this very moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:36 AM
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Greek culture was obsessed with male beauty. We should bring this back, I'd definitely rather see a disembodied male torso in a banana hammock on a billboard advertising a hard lemonade than a woman. If men like objectification so much then they should have no problem being the meat up for offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:36 PM
51

This is going to be me one day. I WILL HAVE REVENGE. I will wilt boners left and right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:18 PM
20

Sell your girl friends on the idea of attending these classes with you, it's easier to practice techniques on a trusted girl friend and it'll lighten up the class a bit having someone experiencing it with you. It's truly a shame that you quit but I completely understand why you did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:27 PM
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I also used to lurk in the "manosphere" in my teens and nothing pushed me into the open arms of the radfems harder. Funny how they hate feminists but seem to do everything they can to make women into them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:43 PM
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I tell these types of women exactly what I think. I'm not cruel or harsh but I sure as shit don't stay silent to keep them as friends. I also know that many, many pickme women have codependency issues so while I find their behavior repulsive, I do understand why they feel the way that they do and I'm sympathetic. I won't coddle them and hide my reaction to it. Unlike men, I find that women have a greater compacity for self reflection and real, lasting change. That being said, it's never your job…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:39 PM
15

I used to purposefully dress in ugly/baggy/men's clothing to escape male attention. I'd never wear bathing suits at the beach, if anything I'd wear a full body wet suit because I don't like the feeling of eyes on my skin. Not that this dissuaded men at all :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:49 PM
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Get ready for some internet Mrs Doubtfire as they try to impersonate women on FDS because they're dangerously obsessed with us. They won't be able to keep up the charade for long, just like in the movie, they can't help but whip their dicks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:06 PM
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I'm surprised a hate group like that was allowed to exist for as long as it did with the amount of violent extremists it churned out. And I imagine that they look just like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:55 PM
3

Haha, exactly! People will be shocked and disgusted when the R rated scenes are left in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:07 AM
47

I'm so glad you didn't give in <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:02 AM
7

Intelligence and expertise in a specific field are not the same thing. I dated many very intelligent men who were experts on topics that I didn't know much about. Intelligence is measured by ones ability to learn and be creative with what you're given, not how many fun facts you just have lying around in your brain. Usually if someone is immersed in a field they'll appreciate if you can understand what they explain to you, but they usually are quite happy to think about something new!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:30 PM
20

If Mrs Doubtfire wasn't a movie, the scenarios in the film are absolutely fcking terrifying. The guy impersonated a woman to infiltrate the home of his ex wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:20 PM
119

"blaming everyone else for your problems is like watching grown men shit on their hands and clap" Hahaha I love this. Nice job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:08 PM
46

I've been awash in a sea of these men for most of my life. Ugh. I'd also be pretty damn sure that you'd offend the devil with your stupidity and audacity to advocate on his behalf "No affiliation!!" -Lucifer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:58 PM
9

In dating I'm usually the non committal one. I get spooked and panicked at the idea that the guy likes me (hence he feels I owe him something) when I just wanted to go out and have a good time. I'm really quick to shut down the idea of a relationship and a guy mentions that he's not "ready" for a relationship, good! Because his annoying little speech is making me uncomfortable... not going out with him again. And certainly none of these guys will ever get sex from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:42 PM
2

Yes. Totally. Also it's the type of men that will refer to me as a "chick" that are the type of man that won't appreciate a woman who has control of her life. A woman who is unafraid to express exactly what she wants is badass. Good on you for being more assertive! I can't wait to read your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:02 PM
5

Hey there! I do appreciate a woman that says exactly what she means! You're awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:46 PM
-18

I know what you're saying and I see how you feel the way you do. I see an issue popping up among women over and over again in the dating world, that being shock over a man treating her horribly. Having every ounce of power in the relationship makes for a wildly good time, I promise ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:40 AM
9

I totally agree! Women are taught to keep their mouths shut!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:25 AM
6

I agree that it's definitely better to keep the company of a man who feels ashamed to let a woman to pay for anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:07 AM
-12

How do you set boundaries if you don't define and express them? I'm not at all suggesting that you have to repeat yourself EVER. You should never have to repeat yourself, then he's just testing you. Clear disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:57 AM
14

I wouldn't like to find myself at dinner with a man who's out of his fucking mind and I never do, it's lovely. If you're a mod and you think this is bad advise then you can go ahead and remove it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:53 AM
-15

Considering that I have every ounce of power in my relationships, I'd say that it's never a power move to assume people know your expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:15 AM
65

To be honest, they seem to expect me to say something like that. I'm fairly open about what I think and if a man is enjoying my company enough to want to go out then we probably hold similar values. I've had men that I don't care for ask me out and I just straight up say NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:21 AM
48

Likewise I think we should make it crystal clear to men that there will be no sexual contact, especially on a first date. I spell this out for men that absolutely don't even need it spelled out for them but I feel more comfortable when I've said it and he's agreed. Your comfort and safety is always first and foremost, If it's not then it's not a fun date, it's a disgusting hostage situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:08 AM
75

Better that trash like him is gone already than spending years in prison whacking off and NOT regretting his horrid actions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:59 PM
108

Hey Texas! Do what you do best and put this guy right on death row. Yeee haw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:24 PM
78

Men are lying. They only say this to feel superior, as though they wouldn't take any girl's attention or fuck in anyway, shape or form if they had the opportunity. They'll fuck the lowest, saddest people on top of a pile of manure if it were available. Don't forget men pay for sex. This is their bullshit attempt at standards even though they really have none, they're hoping you'll try to prove that you're hot enough to fuck them (a hole in a mattress is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:32 PM
60

I like how the whole of Adam Sandler is pasted on this picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:08 PM
-5

Because the stuff I do know is crap :P I hope Avril is paying you for this ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:53 PM
6

They're sexist and they know you're easy to shame and control so they strong arm you. I'm sorry, time for more covert and indirect revenge. Piss on his pillow, leave dog shit among the clutter in his room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:00 AM
8

When it's not home open his bedroom door and two cans of paint. Splash the entire room. Ohhh you made a mess he didn't like? He's gotta live with it now. You're probably not gonna, but it's always an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:47 PM
17

To both men and women: If you get murdered it's going to be by a man. Yesss, sometimes someone gets killed by a woman just like sometimes someone gets killed by lightning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:33 PM
4

Oh yeah, not only didn't I like her music but she's a hypocrite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:37 PM
1

Admittedly, I've only been exposed to the popular songs of hers. I didn't appreciate them so I didn't bother to search out her music. I prefer devil music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:34 PM
66

Remember that if you ever find yourself hoping that a man will change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:32 PM
30

Avril Lavigne's music was always the cringiest pick me crap! A song about how she's a scrotes second pick, how fuckin' embarrassing. Please come forward and say you did it all for the $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:21 PM
27

Same problem with the religious cults in USA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:21 AM
29

I'm an atheist living in America. It hurts even to imagine the oppression some Muslim women face in an Islamic state. If I were attempting to raise children under those conditions then I'd lost likely do my best to equip them with excellent critical thinking skills and expose them as much as I could to other cultures/religions/philosophies and examples of women in positions of power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:14 AM
11

Yay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:14 AM
441

"Asked not to mention anything to our friends and family." Tell every family member and friend. His good reputation relies on your SILENCE when you've been cheated on?! NO. You were part of the relationship, he broke your trust. YOUR violations of trust with him are YOURS TO SHARE. He is afraid of the shame he brought on himself. TELL EVERYONE IN YOUR LIVES. Don't carry his burden. You are the victim here and he wants you to suffer in silence while you protect him as he casts you aside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:58 AM
17

*hugs neglected donkey* *stuffs donkey with treats*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:36 PM
84

Sexualizing a woman removes her as a threat. My favorite characters in horror are hags! Disgusting, ugly women that chill and repulse men to their bones. Bonus if she eats human flesh, a perfect depiction of death and the dark, devouring mother men are fleeing their entire lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:28 PM
64

I say "Ugh, AGAIN?!" when I see that a guy has a boner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:34 PM
6

I'm childfree and what I mean by that is that I don't want children, never wanted children, I don't like being around children, I won't watch children, pregnancy is not something I could ever want to do and if I ever got pregnant (very unlikely) I would get an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:11 PM
2

Thanks for the movie recommendation, I just watched it tonight! :D Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:22 AM
79

In case anyone needs to be told this.. You never, ever have to be okay with anyone staying in your HOME if they are not welcome. EVER. Even if the person you live with invites them. They are in the wrong for not getting your enthusiastic consent, and that means they can't shame you into giving it. And the reason for you not wanting them there DOESN'T MATTER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:28 AM
164

This is so absolutely foreign to me. A man who doesn't want to take care of you is absolutely useless to have in your life. That's what a HUSBAND is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:05 AM
161

I was neglected emotionally and physically as a child. In adulthood I gravitate to nurturing men, one of the green flags I look for in a man is that he wants to buy me food and I feel comfortable devouring it in front of him to the point of cozy fullness and this satisfies him, he's pleased that I'm happy and comfortable. When men are telling you not to eat or making fun of you nurturing your OWN body and appetites, he will never love you. He hates to see you love yourself. The comment about you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:10 AM
122

I'd like to comment on this but I want to remain mindful of the FDS rules. Moderators, if my post is problematic I will take it down or feel free to remove it, just please don't ban me. I'll get the hint that this post is unacceptable. I never wait for a man to approach me, here's why: I don't limit my pool of suitors to only the men who find me attractive and will take a chance to talk to me. Why? Because psychopaths are more likely to approach a woman. And likely, a man who casts his cock net …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:27 AM
115

This chases so many girls away from sports and athletics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:08 AM
33

AAVE is African American Vernacular English. You gotta spell it out for us white girls or we won't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:04 AM
29

A lovingly applied Mountain Dew colonic for my king let's me feel my femininity in my bones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:01 AM
59

Learn how to masturbate properly, you'll NEVER be unsatisfied. I don't have sex but I LOVE LOVE LOVE dating hot men, feeling them up, making out and then tossing them to the curb and hitting up my HUGE dildo in the privacy of my own bed. I never have to worry about pregnancy or STDs. Just because you enjoy the company of men doesn't mean you have to fuck them. Stop letting the men take the reins. Edit: Just want to add. Make your boundries with men crystal clear. If he steps out of line at all t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:28 PM
81

Clean his asshole yourself because he even refuses to use the wipes you bought for him with your own money, a real woman builds her king up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:23 PM
33

Press charges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:05 PM
23

Don't help those losers. They know they're trash and by them asking for "help" they are getting you to give them your precious attention just so they can dump their shit on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:02 PM
134

This ad said you wanted to buy me bread and butter! It said nothing about wanting me to risk my life repeatedly giving birth out in the back shed in rapid succession!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:52 PM
52

When I was in my 20's I made the mistake of letting my partner pay for absolutely everything while I accumulated no savings. Come to find out that he enjoyed feeling so enmeshed in my life that I wouldn't be able to get away from him. I didn't know what financial abuse was. If a man DOES pay for all your living expenses, be sure that he gives you savings that he as no access to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:29 PM
5

I learned young that I need to meet my own needs. There is no equality in a relationship for me, I prioritize myself always. This chases away some men, others kiss the very ground I walk on, literally. If a man makes me feel bad AT ALL, he is harming me and not meeting my needs. He's useless to me. Relationships are worthless if they aren't fun and fulfilling. Men who are interested in power will never find a resource in me and if they try to take what I don't want to give I will do my very best…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:20 PM
58

I am the jealous sort. I'm also the cheating sort, I can't be bothered to stay jealous for too long. His loyalty buys mine, it's certainly never the other way around. Fuck around and find out, boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:59 PM
32

Who's gonna tell them that women can fck all the young men we want we just choose not to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:50 PM
13

It's honestly attention from women is what men really want. I am an entertainer, I am paid by both men and women to make them smile and feel good about themselves. How you make someone else feel is the most valuable thing you have to offer them. Not sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:18 PM
46

A garbage? Did you mean an ASS GARBAGE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:31 AM
17

I just saw your post after I wrote basically the same thing. "You rarely see rich women choosing to be surrogates." It's absolutely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:05 PM
13

I agree. Surrogacy is the commodification of a woman's sex organs. I've NEVER seen a wealthy woman birthing a baby for a strange couple. It's exploitation and forced birth by monetary coercion. Surrogacy is outsourced to countries like India where there is poorer people, look it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:02 PM
10

Ahhahahahahah Wow. He has a court document demanding to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:27 PM
34

Men who ogle women are repulsive. You are an embarrassment to your wife and yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:17 PM
15

Never fear, I've chosen not to be a mother for a damn good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:39 PM
82

I decided not to have children (or sex really) when I was a child myself and would regularly get followed (hunted) by adult men soliciting me for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:38 PM
7

I was considering getting a vanilla orchid the other day and decided against it because it was too hard to take care of, I'd only kill it. Also, imitation vanilla is made with a substance extracted from beaver anuses. So, ironically vanilla flavor is kinky AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:18 PM
21

I'd only want to give birth to a girl. If it was a boy I'd leave the baby with the dad while I "go the the store" and never come home. Then I'd tune into reddit to read all his whiny posts about how hard it is being a single father and watch everyone lick his ass by assuring him that I'm a super villain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:10 PM
37

Yup! The ultimate goal and seemingly purpose men have in this world is sleeping with as many woman as they can. The men considered the "greatest men" hoard power and women and men only give a shit about power because it gets them women. They feel like they need sex and they're "starved" and desperate constantly. They hate and envy women because women have ovum, the biologically more valuable gamete and can have unlimited sex from thousands of desperate males should she desire. Female sexual sele…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:25 AM
115

Maybe men should try earning a woman's respect by NOT trying to sleep with her. A man that only respects a woman that refuses to sleep with him is admitting he's shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:45 PM
28

When women say men should "feel their feelings" they're hoping that there is redeeming feelings in a man that he keeps buried deep down, hidden away because I don't know, reasons. Like he's gonna breakdown and tell them the secret to why he is such an ass... because he really LOVED her all ALONG!! BUT COULDN'T SAY! They don't want to imagine that his real honest feeling is just "I wanna rape"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:40 PM
17

You've tried enough. Don't this woman make you feel unimportant any longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:26 AM
153

Stop waiting for a sis-mance. Ask a cool girl out (what us women consider cool), Send a girl friend flowers, plan little day trip for the two of you or take her out to a new restaurant you've been dying to try. I'm dripping with lady friends because I make time, do the work and invest in them. Get moving girls. Put your girl friends first, block off time on your calendar already! WTF are you waiting for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:39 AM
-1

So you were sexually harassed. Ya just proved me right, silly. Men in the military won't ever think a woman is stronger mentally or physically as her males peers. A woman who thinks that she has to 'earn' their respect as an equal is kidding herself. Unfortunately I know ooodles upon oodles of military folks, both male and female. The most badass female officers I know go hardcore feminist in the military and all the men fcking hate them with a seething passion because they don't pander with tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:25 AM
5

All you can really do is demand exactly what you want and if he can't give it to you, there's another guy that will. And do nothing that you'll regret. If you feel like something was taken from you in hopes that he'll "pay you back" with what you want from him then you're just fucking yourself, how does it feel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:28 PM
44

First man I ever had sex with, I went with him to his Vasectomy appointment and we got pizza after it was done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:24 PM
3

Only female vets I know didn't face sex abuse and misogyny in the military were paper-pushers. :\
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:39 PM
78

Two different male teachers attempted grooming me in middle school IN THE SAME YEAR. I was a very quiet girl who kept to herself with no family life, I must have been a pedo's wet dream. Unfortunately for them, I was well versed in men's pervy shit. The only way I made it out of childhood without being raped or molested as a "troubled girl child" was knowing exactly what all men were capable of. Warn your girls, trust no man. The ones that want to "help" you want to fuck you. Even male relatives…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:55 AM
74

I hope the only women who attend this thing (if any) bring along all their screaming toddlers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:55 PM
108

I didn't fiercely guard my womb my entirely life and remain childfree only to mother some kid that's not even mine. You had your chance at a childless life, buddy. You blew it. You got a family now, they will always be more important than me and they SHOULD be. You ain't prize enough for me to play second fiddle. Men with children should remain single and focus on raising their children and being better fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:29 PM
99

Men used to consider lust for women other than your wife unmanly. It was also unmanly to not provide for your family, abandon your children and be anything OTHER than a stable and reliable husband/father who'd do anything for the wellbeing of his family. Imagine that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:37 AM
20

Because they hate themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:24 AM
9

I hope his wife took this break as an opportunity to finally fuck her way through a hot fireman calendar. Once she's had a good dicking down by a real man's sausage this bullshit won't sting nearly as bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:19 AM
28

I don't care as much about height as I do facial handsomeness, a ripped body and the size of the D. At least ONE of us women here isn't a shallow giant chaser... /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:17 PM
13

This is absolutely true. You just gotta sit back, relax and let his words thoroughly disgust and repulse you. Ta da!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:26 AM
49

If a man attempts to neg a woman with a mouth like mine that sorry sack will be melted into a puddle of existential dread and self loathing. You'd better believe that I'll be loud enough for EVERYONE to hear, I certainly can't be the only one laughing, that would just be unacceptable. Who's the better person here? I won't let that be me tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:32 AM
71

I absolutely hate being around my girl friends' boyfriends and husbands. Some of them seem to be good guys, but I am terrified of a situation like this occurring. (I've gone through it before) I actively tell my friends that I'll only see them without their partners and I leave before their partners get home. It's not fair, not only is a man betraying his partner, but he's putting you in a situation where you'll be hurting your friend instead by telling her what happened. And while it's not your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:43 PM
20

I bet this happens more often than we can imagine... Some old scrote who badgered a timid young girl into dating him, introduces her to his son who is the same age as she is and he is FINE AS FUCK. Think of all the heart attacks and bruised egos these girls avoided by not mentioning it to creepy gramps. Hide your sons, old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:31 PM
11

If a man calls me a gold digger I just say... Yup. *shrug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:58 AM
26

When women hit men their hands bounce off the guy, when men hit women they die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:48 PM
106

I know one thing she'll do with him that she did with all the other guys, dump him! Dudes cum the hardest when they're crying over what they never got. Waaaaaa! *squirt*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:56 PM
8

Just the title plus her grin in the thumbnail gets me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:59 PM
509

This reminds me of the time one of my exes texted me out of no where years later. I confessed that I was now married to an unemployed man and I had 2 babies and was pregnant with a 3rd. None of that was true. Never heard from him again. Woooooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:51 PM
22

I've seen one or two videos. I get a good cackle out of sitting here in the middle of the night eating snacks, lookin' like shit while she talks to us 'classy ladies' about what rich men like (rich men are just trash in a fancy can) She's selling women a fantasy. Rich men will chase women wearing a potato sack with a dirt smeared face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:20 PM
69

The next time you think a man is unaware that he is crossing a boundary that you set just remember how easily he will fly into a whining fit as soon as you cross one of his. Look through his shit, date other men, don't call him, ignore him and tell him to shut the fuck up because his voice annoys you. Watch how quickly he turns into a mess and DEMANDS that his boundries are "respected" He knows he just doesn't respect yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:20 PM
6

Ohhhhh, the cynic in me will just point out that we can *** off hands too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:10 PM
201

If men can't avoid raping then maybe they should be cast ray tedd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:44 AM
1

I would love to, unfortunately some of my methods go against FDS and I don't want to cause any trouble or be banned. I enjoy this community because it is all female. I will say that it is a numbers game. I meet a lot of men and the ONLY thing that makes men interested in you is how you make THEM feel. Your looks don't matter nearly as much as you think they do. Remember this always. Be incredibly selfish. This weeds out men who use women. You don't have to be rude to be selfish, only move toward…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:34 PM
16

Damn straight, you don't owe them shit. They should be grateful to get a smile and a thank you out of ya. ; )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:56 PM
94

I'm sorry you have to wear hijab by force. That makes me so angry. I'm with you in disliking religion, the misogyny is right there to read in the holy texts! I'm so proud of ex Muslim women, good on you! Stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:46 PM
32

Legally push to get as much money as you can out of him for the children and your living expenses. You deserve every bit of money you can get out of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:24 PM
49

I've gotten so much free labor and been "rescued" so many times thanks to men's "need to feel needed" I mean, what would I ever do without them, right?!? If I've got no guy to call my lazy ass throws a little mental fit and then does it myself. *sigh*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:02 PM
9

The problem with women I see in dating is this... "I am XYZ.. I think that makes me entitled to an XYZ type of man" *anger/confusion/hopelessness ensues when their perception doesn't fit reality*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:54 PM
18

I'm a female loner, I keep everyone at a very far arms length including my female friends. Social interaction is work to me and this isn't because I'm shy. People think I'm an extrovert and envy my "ease" in social situations. I just genuinely don't give a shit about a lot of social norms while keeping in mind which broken ones will get me in a lot of trouble. As a result I ask lots of invasive questions to damn near strangers nearly every time I'm in a social situation. There is literally no qu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:40 AM
5

I know how horrible they can be, I'm sorry you were treated so poorly. These losers need to be seen as the filthy rapists that they are. Call them what they are, rapists. Culturally we all need to stop shrugging it off and acting like he simply is mean for lying about something so intimate. Publicly shame him, it's no longer a private relationship matter, tell his friends and family. Get his children taken away from him. He is a sexual predator and a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:06 PM
32

Tell a man that you're in a relationship with that you do not consent to sex acts with him if he is consuming porn and if he does so behind your back without your knowledge and still engages in sex acts with you he is raping you. Rape by deception. Make him extremely uncomfortable lying to you. Your body is yours and it's not to be used as a means to an end by a lying man who doesn't respect your sexuality and emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:18 AM
73

All that "post nut clarity" is in a man is a crushing wave of his own insecurity that he has no idea how to handle because he can't blame it on not being laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:03 PM
118

I completely agree, I'd tell anyone who'd listen including the public, the news and his entire family. I'd also most definitely warn the children. Keeping children sheltered from the horrors of pedophilic abuse is what gets them into compromising situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:31 PM
6

If you feel that uncomfortable around men then I'm wondering either what these men are doing when talking to you, who are they? Are they hitting on you? Men who are pushing your boundaries will make you feel sick and uncomfortable because they're abusing you. If you're sick talking to normal strangers who aren't coming on to you, it sounds like a trauma response. Have you ever been molested or put in very uncomfortable situations by men where you felt you couldn't assert yourself or escape? This…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:11 PM
91

Gay men aren't attacked for talking about how they like big dick and regularly talk about dick size freely. Oh geee, I wonder why?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:36 PM
2

I don't think men owe me a damn thing and I don't expect shiitt from them. I take them for what they have to offer and if they offer me nothing or worse, grief, they are totally useless to me and I am quick to drop them. If dating isn't fun for me I wouldn't do it. As soon as something feels like work or emotionally too much for me... yikes, nope, nope, nope. I'm way less interested in commitment than many of the guys I date, I've had to "breakup" with three guys I was seeing casually this year …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:47 PM
11

TRUTH. It makes them nervous for sure. They hold up the cross and flick holy water at us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:58 AM
25

Wow, I am impressed. I'm sorry you grew up in squalor, I'm glad that you found a healthy way to feel and be in control of your surroundings. You could make money off of people like me with your skills!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:26 AM
23

If that would make you really, really happy if someone cleaned up after you then it's a shame that it hasn't been done. When I was married I had my own rooms of the house where my husband wouldn't touch (I REALLY need my own space) and the rest of the house was kept ordered and spotless (he cleaned) There are men that will clean for you, just never accept less than what you're happy living with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:53 AM
87

ACTUALLLYYYY, I can't stand other people's messes. The only men's houses I've been in were SPOTLESS and I silently wonder how they could be attracted to a woman like me. I second this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:05 AM
66

Ladies, I just wanna say that I've never, ever had a raw dick inside of me and I've never once got a yeast infection or UTI. *knock on wood* Dick juice is poison, condomless sex is useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:26 PM
30

Hetero ladies, the best thing I ever did for myself was part with the pleasure that male validation and attention gave me. Look to your sisters, it's only women that have selflessly helped me when I've been at my lowest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:43 PM
37

I'm single until I'm married. I'm not getting tied down until he ties his entire life down. VIP access is pretty expensive. He can ask me to be his girlfriend all he wants, that doesn't change shhhhhit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:53 PM
82

I would NEVER... NEEEVER.. Fold my underwear. You got time to fold yours? Girl, fill that time with something fun. Don't buy into that shit that you have to make dicks hard to deserve love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:27 PM
105

As sick as this sounds, I think this is one area of life men think they can harm a woman without facing legal consequences so they readily do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:04 PM
29

My suspicious, untrusting mind would never allow me to eat anything a man has cooked or offered me. Maybe because I'm so aware of how easy it is to die from a poison. This is also the reason why I don't understand how men can abuse women and still trust a woman to cook their food...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:58 PM
7

Ugh, I my parents were emotionally distant too. Luckily I went in the total opposite direction and refuse to believe people love me until they prove themselves over and over again. Those wondering feelings are totally toxic! I'm glad you don't put up with that abuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:49 PM
112

They're the ultimate pickme woman. They honestly believe that they will be the one that he will love and won't k***. They've probably spent their lives trying to earn the love of emotionally abusing and unavailable men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:35 PM
26

Hey there, I'm sorry that your husband left especially to be with your "best friend" being abandoned is hard, even if it was by someone who made your life hell. He was your family and you've spent countless hours and tons of energy dedicated to that man who in the end didn't appreciate it one bit. Don't fucking buy the bullshit men spout about not being "entitled" to "his" money. Marriage and divorce laws exist because they know men use women's lives and labor and then cast them aside. You've sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:25 PM
11

Gail Dines?! YesSsSsSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:26 AM
45

Your father knew exactly what he was doing. You must have been his emotional power trip source. I'm so, so sorry. I recently blew up on my father for calling me up just to shame me. Don't dump your shit on me old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:38 PM
81

Sex can't be sold. All monetary transactions for sex are coercion and rape. All sex work is sex abuse. All sex workers are sexually abused. Grooming exists to keep the victims complacent in their abuse and give the illusion of free choice/ willing participation. This even happens with adult women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:58 PM
340

You were sweet enough to assume that he'd do something nice for your daughter. He clearly didn't deserve you, you gave him more humanity than he actually had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:42 PM
26

All the strippers I know got into stripping for the money alone and stayed for the money. I was a backpacker and in major cities I was sometimes mistaken for a young runaway. I've been approached by strip club managers who have offered me work and tried to "get to know me" they target young, poor girls who'll respond to kindness and offers of food, a place to stay etc.. They're pimps. A strategy of pimps is to offer a girl nice things under the guise of a relationship and then slowly "make her p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:07 PM
24

"All men" check out other women too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:59 AM
13

I'm sorry you've experienced such horrible things. I know how you feel about the "pickmeisha" thing. So many women are conditioned for survival and the mocking adds a layer of shame where there is already so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:59 AM
184

Not just formed by women but nurtured to adulthood. I wonder how many Chinese husbands could stomach a single day of childcare on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:48 AM
51

I wouldn't want a man participating in my relationship with any woman, not even my friends. Get the fuck out of here so we can talk shit about you in peace. By the way ladies, men will use the WOMAN to approach women for threesomes. This has happened to me multiple times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:34 AM
36

Ohhhhh yeah and large meat looks amazing on a handsome body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:26 AM
13

When a man is selling himself he still has the power that comes with being a man and being respected as a sexual being. The backlash of sex work doesn't hit men as hard as it does women. I don't respect men any less for selling themselves, I don't respect women less for selling themselves. They're participating in a system that was set up like this, for them it's just the way things are. I've known plenty of women who have worked in the sex industry and for lots of women their first impulse is t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:09 AM
11

You're gonna get through this and you'll be happy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:59 AM
1

Totally. There should be a website where divorced women can pair up with others for a joint living situation. It'd be so much easier for abused women to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:52 AM
9

Ohhhhh, a woman acknowledges his existence?! SHE MUST WANT THAT COCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:50 AM
1

Maybe they should take a clue from Europe, girls are trafficked into legal brothels and surrounding areas daily. It's just increased demand for lower prices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:48 AM
17

Hah! This is the kind of stuff my brain decides to say to me as I'm falling asleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:44 AM
9

Men are the real sluts. rotten coconut. ROTTEN COCONUT!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:48 PM
85

Can you imagine a job placement agency sticking you in a brothel because the government sees it as "legit work" to be fucking raped by a "customer" This is a possibly if prostitution is legalized and women's bodies are commodified. I can't imagine how traumatizing it would be to suck off some disgusting dude that just wandered in off the street. Times that by 20 a day. WTF What happens if a prostitute catches a disease in the line of work in these "health checked" brothels?! Is she then fired? I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:32 PM
48

They gotta LARP as us so they can finally admit that they like big dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:05 AM
9

Yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:37 AM
66

Unfortunately for me I'm not sexually attracted to women. I am interested in having a committed partnership with a woman I can own a home and live/travel with. We could each have a boyfriend on the side if we found one half way decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:33 PM
3

There's nothing like looking down and seeing a sexy face between your legs and his tight bubble butt up in the air. Thanks babe, next time maybe we'll go allllll the way.. (never calls him again)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:05 PM
6

I don't think she was nonchalant about it, I think she felt like the cost of acknowledging it was too great. I think she felt like her family would be thrown into chaos and would possibly turned against her, her father wouldn't end up in jail because there was no evidence at that point. She just existed with this dark secret she carried with her and then I carried it too. Before I lost touch with her she was in therapy and doing well. At that point in my life I probably would have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:44 PM
11

Any intercourse at all is hardly worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:05 PM
5

Those are some very sad lyrics, thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:28 PM
9

I'm sorry if it bothered you, it was the first time I ever was really faced with the fact that men do these horrible things to their daughters instead of just hearing about it happening somewhere else. It shook me deeply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:26 PM
74

When I was younger a girl friend confessed to me that her father had raped her years ago. She never told anyone and preferred to pretend like it never happened, she still saw her family. I was shocked over how could you go on living normally knowing your own father did that to you. I offered to k*** him for her. I was young and had absolutely nothing to lose. At that point sitting in a jail cell would be worth it to me. She refused. She's a better person than I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:47 AM
29

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:23 PM
92

My womb, our wombs, are NOT public property. NOBODY but ME decides what gets to exist inside of it or not. I am NOT obligated to grow any child regardless of what qualities it has. Every time men let their sexual preference be known we should accuse them of eugenics and racism. Even though porn is already OPENLY racist (black on white, asian yada yada)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:14 PM
7

I had access to unlimited pornography at a young age due to childhood neglect. I was never physically abused but I have all the classic symptoms of a sexual abuse/rape survivor. I also had extreme gender dysphoria during and after puberty due to internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:34 AM
25

I definitely noticed this too. If he's gonna wear a stupid Tshirt he should at least fill out the sleeves with some bicep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:47 PM
31

Ladies, if he isn't available any time you need talk/see him, what good is he? Get a man who's on call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:56 PM
19

True. Men are such piss poor liars and then take it out on everyone when his shitty lie isn't believed. How DARE we call him a liar!? Says the pearl clutching liar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:25 PM
60

If you're a virgin never tell a man and don't be either proud or ashamed. What goes in your reproductive organ is none of his business until you're married to him. LET THE FCKER WONDER, SHAME HIM FOR DARING TO ASK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:05 PM
5

Yuck, I'm sorry. https://img.ifunny.co/images/01a2d59de7594ebfbd5911a764dfc2574fe8f5d685d95182ffa8954c350ee78e_1.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:00 AM
18

He can go to hell for even suggesting that he cheat on you by "opening the relationship." I hope you at least enjoyed the sugar daddy and got some good dick and cash out of it. I'm always painted as the bad gal in my relationships, I just embrace it. Heart breakin' villainess right here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:30 AM
50

Andrea Dworkin is badass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:19 PM
159

If you're still pregnant you can hop on a bus to another state or go far away to a shelter. As long as the baby isn't born you aren't "kidnapping" and he has no claim on that baby. Don't put his name on the birth certificate. Get out before you give birth if you can. Once it's born claim that it's not his so you're not tied to him for life. Once he claims the baby as his he has rights. File for divorce and apply for financial assistance and emergency housing if you can't leave. It'd be better if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:08 PM
12

Awwww! I definitely would have shown up to your party! We can have one here!! Congrats! Men also want women to organize all the milestone celebrations usually. :\
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:54 PM
7

Ahahahahaha! I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:58 PM
13

Ohhhhh noooo, WHAT IF THEY ARE?! *gasp* One thing I absolutely hate is that nagging voice in my head that I have to "be worried" about where a man is "getting sex" That's a waste of cortisol. Usually men are worried about who I'm dating aside from them. Their loyalty buys mine (maybe) heh If a man needs to be getting sex I make it very clear that staying with me is a waste of time. Promiscuous men are very UNSEXY to me. It's not your job to provide him with sex, it's his job to please you. Edit:…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:38 PM
18

Snip! Snip! Snip! Snip! That's me with my magic anti-rapist scissors!! GUESS WHAT I'M CUTTING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:09 PM
20

Make your own 'boner' priority and don't waste your empathy on men. ;) <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:56 PM
41

I just saw a headline that said that there was a mass shooting in Miami. I didn't read the article. I just know that it's men, it's always men. The common denominator is men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:27 PM
62

I want to reassure the ladies here that men CAN and WILL wait for intimacy. It seems that my kink is ruthlessly testing a man's loyalty by denying him sex. Trust me, I've had men court me for YEARS without having sex with them. Keep this is mind.. sex is always better in your head. While you're NOT having sex with a man I recommend you learn how to masturbate. Learn what you like. Get a range of dildos. Find out if you even like vaginal sex or if you prefer to just stick with clitoral stimulatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:24 PM
4

Congrats on your house! We also have the exact same hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:10 AM
8

YESSSSSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:05 AM
5

You should try on a pair of my platform boots, they'd make you look intimidating I bet! They're not very work friendly unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:09 PM
84

These clowns don't seem to realize that that faithful men are sexy men. What to turn her on? Stare right in her eyes when another sexy woman walks by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:50 PM
12

Decent men who see women as people have no trouble being attracted to a less 'femininely' dressed woman like myself. In fact they prefer it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:47 PM
52

Like women give a flying fuck what men think of us anymore. Everytime a man opens his mouth he becomes less attractive to the women around him. It's like shut the fuck up so I can still pretend that just maybe you might be intelligent and emotionally stable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:30 PM
45

When you dress for yourself you're dressing for the female gaze. I am so uncomfortable when dressed in women's clothing, wearing a full face of makeup. I feel like I'm not myself just a drag queen in a bio women's body. I feel like a sex object because I am. Women become standoffish when I'm dressed like this, when I'm dressed in my own personal androgynous type style women are more receptive and relaxed in my company. I'm more comfortable, I'm more confident and I think women respond to that. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:04 PM
25

Men need to suck some dick for cash before they can say shit about the validity of sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:39 PM
1

This is absolutely ridiculous. The chunk of flannel haphazardly pasted over the girl's chest is fucking hilarious in a dystopian way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:14 PM
44

I agree. What should be normalized is the choice to have the sex you really want, when ever that is. As a woman who chose "virginity" until 30 I'll tell you what I think of it. I hate the concept of virginity. I hate that it's valued for women. Never tell a man you're a virgin. I have girl friends that were robbed of their "virginity" through rape and to identify as something you have no control over ultimately can be devastating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:02 PM
1

I love to travel, I've backpacked all over the USA. Miami beach was amazing and I was more delighted then I should have been about the iguanas running around everywhere like squirrels. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:32 PM
26

I'm a total horndog and I love, love, love sexy, hot man watching. When I'm with a man romantically I don't find it hard at all to make him feel like I've only got eyes for him. I think we've all had that experience of watching a man with his girlfriend in tow whip his head around to watch you walk by, and all I feel for her is pity and disgust for him. If you've been that girlfriend, I see you girl. You're gorgeous. Don't allow him to make you hate yourself and other women. The men I have been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:26 PM
116

I'm not a submissive woman at all. The idea of a man pressuring me for sex is so gut-wrenchingly disgusting that I didn't have sex until I was nearly 30 years old with a man I "made wait" for 5 years. I'm a conventionally attractive woman, the reason I did this was watching my sisters of the female sex used and abused left and right for years by men and being pursued my entire life by rapists in my adult years and pedophiles in my youth. I'm an atheist and watching timid religious girls shamed i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:50 PM
3

Back before covid hit I frequented a lot of coffee houses and attended a lot of events. Work and school is one of the best ways to make friends considering that you see them regularly and you get a feeling for the people they are over time. Get involved socially in things that interest you. Attend a meet up group. Regulars at your local coffee house are easy to approach considering that they recognize you. People go out to events to be social so don't be shy about throwing someone a compliment o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:46 PM
79

This is so fucking true. Rape by deception is actually what it is. A man cheats on you, lies to keep access to your body, he is not simply betraying your trust he is raping you because you don't consent to fuck his potentially diseased body. If you've felt raped when you find out you've been cheated on, of course you do because you HAVE BEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:41 AM
7

I agree, if a woman doesn't add value to your life there is no reason to waste your thoughtfulness on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:07 AM
6

Yay for proactivity! Ugh... I'd love to be in Miami right now! Uh oh, salty sister in law who can't enjoy herself. That must have been some gorgeous airbnb to want to sit in it all day. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:35 AM
4

I picked up on the radfem undercurrent of this sub pretty quick and that's why I keep coming back. Most female only groups develop a radfem flavor if they exist long enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:30 PM
29

Ladies, don't be afraid to walk right up to a woman and introduce yourself. I've done this with ALL of the women that have become my best friends. I literally made conversation with them and then invited them to do something along with me or left them my info. It takes practice and admittedly I have no fear of rejection so it's easy for me. BUT PEOPLE WANT TO BE LIKED. PEOPLE WANT POSITIVE ATTENTION. Don't forget this. I think we as women know what it's like to be bothered by someone who's atten…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:21 PM
47

I got a mental harem of them. No included men I know, because listening to them speak.. the quickest way they turn me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:45 AM
6

Femininity is anything I choose to do because I have ovum and a woman is doing those things. It's a shame that femininity has been reduced to a costume that a drag queen can throw on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:50 AM
58

Ladies, if you think an "ugly" woman can't be HV, doesn't deserve human respect and dignity, if you believe deep down that love for her is not an option and likewise if you only feel worthy in this world if you feel attractive to other people. You have internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:18 PM
16

I'm a radfem anti-natalist A HVW? I mean, in my imagination yeah I totally am ;) *puts on burgerking crown*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:08 PM
23

I'll be sitting at a red light in a depression haze and glance out of the window to see pigeons running away from the male pigeons chasing them "COOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! COOOOOOOOOOO!!!!" bowing away at her "COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!" she speeds up, runs in circles. It's everywhere. DEAR GOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:21 PM
57

Holy hell the entitlement of that loser, glad you blocked him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:04 AM
30

Hey there, I'm glad you made this decision. I'd like to let you know that you're not "contaminated" You're still fully you and you still are that bright woman you were before participating in sex work. This is not a stain on your life or your value as a person. Please don't let shame hold you in place and don't let defensiveness pull you back into that world. I'd personally recommend that you get counselling to help you deal with the sexual abuse you've been through. You'll be happy again and yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:56 PM
11

This hurts to read, ugh. I'm so sorry, they didn't deserve the sex they had with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:57 AM
16

If I get to that point in life where I'm dying and I've got nothing to lose any one who treats me bad better be really afraid of me. I'd burn that house to the ground and I won't mention what I left inside of it. I wouldn't care if I died in the back of a cop car, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:28 PM
2

Would it be acceptable to you if men were only hired if they're dressed in full drag as a drag queen? That should be a requirement for male exposure in a company, because that's what's being demanded of women. A bare face should be an "acceptable aesthetic"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:56 AM
3

Isn't it fucking obvious? If media featured more women without garish lashes, contoured faces and painted lips. That is the STANDARD for women on screen, just watch your fucking weather report. Also if service industry DIDN'T require women wearing makeup to look "professional" for customer service. You're comment is suggesting that it can't be accomplished so why try at all? Pssh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:50 PM
16

What a pretty bouquet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:06 PM
4

I would prefer that a woman's sexual attractiveness never comes into play at all when offering her services and skills to the world when making money. Her value is not in how many dicks she can make twitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:01 PM
5

Also am I "less feminine" if I choose not to wear makeup or beauty products? Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:48 PM
54

Women are not jealous of prostitutes, women are disappointed that men they thought might be decent are actually flaming piles of shit. Women like integrity. No woman wants filthy John dick, not even the poor prostitute that he raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:27 PM
-7

I work in the arts and entertainment industry and the sad reality is that I make more money if I look like a feminine sex doll than I would the horror show makeup that I'd love to actually wear. I'm friends with models and dominatrices and I routinely watch them slap on the paint because peeeeeeeeeeeeenis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:12 PM
42

I get treated sooooo much better when I go out with a full face of makeup verses wearing none. I also make waaay more money. It's actually very disheartening that goop on my face influences the manner in which people treat me. It's pathetic actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:37 PM
8

I'm a goth woman, it's rare that I find a fellow goth woman who'll make herself look like a corpse.. That would just be way too badass of her. Their makeup is usually gorgeously feminine. Anna Varney's makeup is fckin terrifying and I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:25 PM
36

I'm noticing a few women are getting defensive and upset about his post. I promise you ladies, no one is trying to take away your precious makeup, the point she is making is that you should examine your steel tiger grip on it. And women should not be forced as a group to wear it and to be seen as unkempt if they're not wearing it. If you feel ugly without it and powerless, if you feel like a more "HVW" with it on then you've got issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:46 PM
27

She can be, it might be dangerous for her though... that says more about the nature of the Islamic influenced culture though. Islam is inherently patriarchal and oppressive to women. You can share with me how it's not if you'd like :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:43 PM
213

It's like magic eh? To be radfem is to be hated by both the political left and the right. A radical feminist is not the fun kind ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:47 PM
13

A big dick has got some hhhheft. Bounce that thing up and down in your hand, the heavier it is.. grrrr. I like 'em so big it can barely lift itself when it's hard. DENSE AND VIENY just like those thicccc thighs and armss.. Woooo, damn! I must be getting my period ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:26 PM
4

Also if anyone sees a man with a gun in his hands he'd already be doing something illegal and we'd definitely know who the bad guy with the gun is. Good thing we'd have "good gals with guns" to save the day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:17 PM
87

If you're a woman you can limp your crooked, deformed, old, sick body onto screen and there will be some man that'll pay to watch you do something dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:42 PM
43

Yes yes yes. I'm a size queen. Even dicks that are too big to use internally I can dry hump that monster meat to orgasm. Roar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:31 PM
77

I've thought this before myself! There'd be so many less shooting deaths if it were illegal for a man to carry or possess a firearm. Men wouldn't know if a woman was carrying or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:27 AM
124

There are types of pick me girls that will throw women under the bus any chance they get, they want to see cruelty done to women because they hate the weakness in themselves and they love to mock women to make themselves feel like 'tough girls' I also feel like these girls would be the ones to be performatively bi as I doubt they have any genuine romantic relationships with women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:08 AM
156

Let's introduce legislation to deny men medical treatment. I will vote in favor out of pure spite. I will also have my support written on a baseball cap and wear it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:00 AM
27

Women are taught from when they are babies that beauty/desirability = financial/emotional/social security. The end result is just feeling good because you can make some disgusting dude's dick twitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:08 PM
18

I asked for this when my financial abuser was asking "what would make me happy?" because I said that I have no security. He backpaddled bigtime, he wanted me to have no security
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:51 PM
15

This is a great post. I'm so sorry this happened to you, I know exactly how you feel because it happened to me too. I've always struggled with work, I have issues that make it hard to keep a schedule and routine so naturally my ways of income are very limited. I don't tolerate stress very well so when I started dating a man who was very accommodating and sweet, it was great. He was so eager to give me anything I wanted, he gradually took over all my bills, bought me a new car when mine died. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:45 PM
61

Yes! This is so important and you put it so simply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:59 PM
71

I wish he slipped in your broken water
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:13 AM
184

Oooooooo, this is ssooo true. They love to point out when a woman has "let herself go" (usually after she has a baby and her entire body is brand new to her) ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:25 PM
31

I got my bed in the "living room" next to the fireplace. One of my "bedrooms" is my library/wardrobe. Another one of the "bedrooms" is empty space with pull out tables for workouts/art studio with just plants in the windows. I don't let people in my house, this is myyyy space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:59 PM
2

Ella Fitzgerald -Hard Hearted Hannah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:55 PM
298

Yay! Embarrassed the hell out of them! Since they have no problem letting you know what they like sexually be sure to tell them what you really want in a man that they're not. (youth, looks, tact)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:44 PM
3

This song is fire. Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:01 AM
8

That woman saved that girlfriend from the exact same life. "major boundry violation" LOL as though being abandoned with 4 kids ain't a "major boundry violation" not to mention lying to new girlfriend about having a secret family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:16 AM
92

I remember this movie. It's a shame that she says this only to sleep with him hours later and then doesn't see him again until years later where he cheats on his wife while seeing her. I don't really find any of it romantic. I did totally hate watch it because it's full of dialogue ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:06 AM
52

This is one of the qualities that attracts me to a man and it's the only type of man I'll spend time with. A smart man knows that for a woman to like him she has to have a good time, if she's not comfortable she's not happy. A decent guy is proud that the woman with him is satisfied and he'll go out of his way to ensure that she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:49 PM
26

If buying sex from a person is legal than why would be illegal to offer someone a job? We'll all have to wear "No soliciting" signs on our shirts :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:37 PM
36

Men want the clout of having a wife without actually having the wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:33 PM
142

"you can grab something at the grocery store on the way back." How insulting! I would have dropped him right away and ate there anyway! In the few long term relationships I have been in when I declare that I am hungry or thirsty the world stops and he finds a way to remedy my discomfort. That is first and foremost. A man who doesn't care about your needs certainly wouldn't care about the needs of your possible children or his pregnant wife. Mind you, I'm not having children. But there is absolut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:53 PM
43

A man that views sex as a commodity that he greedily grasps at any chance he can get is a man I think a lot of women here want nothing to do with. If anything libfem exposes these men for what they are, it's unfortunate that vulnerable women are their targets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:55 PM
167

If sex work is work then sexual harassment becomes a job offer. Normalizing sex work is dangerous to all women. Prostitution is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:47 PM
11

This should be common knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:42 PM
16

Congratulations! I'm sorry about the abuse :( your new life is waiting. Yay for choosing a female lawyer ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:07 AM
14

She's right. Only sleep with beefy sea horses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:04 AM
11

If a man makes you cry just cheat on him to make yourself smile again. <3 Have a blessed day. Oh, I'm just kidding :P Men do it enough to women. I personally wouldn't even be kind enough to 'breakup' with a man if he made me cry. Why? Just disappear. Don't be nice in response to cruelty, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:01 PM
111

I love the feeling of being hidden in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:07 AM
24

I would take a lap dance from this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:52 PM
112

WAIT! She was BRALESS?!!?! CHIPS TOOO???!?! Holy shit... Just holy shit. Mind BLOWN, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:46 PM
38

Yeaaaaaaaah! Get it! Get it! I'm envious of those women on their wicker thrones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:07 PM
12

I'm not a tattoo girl but damn, that face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:56 PM
18

The last box would be an excellent pic to send all the old men fiending for younger women on OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:57 PM
3

Yes! Something like that! I usually don't talk about my preferences because it just becomes confusing for everyone! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:51 PM
6

The only thing men could gatekeep was access to resources using violence and oppressive laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:45 PM
10

I'm not physically attracted to women for sex at all but I am romantically attracted to women (crush on them, enjoy cuddles, hand holds, "romance" them) I'm physically attracted to men sexually but not so much romantically. I call myself heterosexual but there should be a recognizable word for romantic attraction, usually "sexuality" implies both these elements together unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:15 PM
98

This is an incredibly taboo thing to say and I've been flamed for it hard IRL, but why do men think that women DIDN'T **** infants that they didn't want to raise before law existed? A woman will only breastfeed and care for a baby from a man she wants a baby with. It's incredibly easy for babies to pass away, just by simple doing NOTHING for it. I imagine this was the fate of many babies conceived through rape. If men want offsping to live they have to keep women on board with raising it... unle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:51 PM
17

Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:46 PM
20

Ooooo, can I see?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:21 PM
236

You are absolutely right. Women are the choosers since pregnancy is extremely dangerous and life altering. Women are biologically more valuable than men in a reproductive sense, especially since infants take so long to become adults, childcare is a massive contribution women make also. The only species in which the females fight for males (the only one I can think of is sea horses) are the species where males DO ALL of the baby rearing themselves. They're active fathers, females leave. Funny, if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:17 PM
8

I bet she feels less stressed already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:47 AM
30

After a breakup all your male friends are hoping to get rebound sex. They're vultures, waiting and watching to take any opportunity to move on you. They totally want to offer support :P Also male "mentors" don't actually want to be teachers, they wanna fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:43 AM
15

I love the happiness in her voice at the end. I wish I had the backbone to try bangs like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:35 AM
51

I've noticed this too. For being a self professed man-hating, hairy legged feminist that refuses to sleep with or commit to a relationship with a man and dresses in baggy men's clothes, I sure do got more than enough men crushing on me. Go to hell guys. They're always looking for new wings to clip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:30 AM
5

Welllllll... here's what you said "I have never understood people who enjoy taking the easy way out like this when it comes to making a living. I don't care if you make some absurd amount of money because you fucked someone. That is not a difficult task to accomplish." and "Sex work is easy money." I don't think you could hack getting raped multiple times a day simply to survive. Some of these prostituted women are stronger than you or I will ever be. We have the luxury to not have to be prostit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:12 PM
7

I understand what you're saying but please be aware that sex work is not easy, it's probably the hardest way to get through life for a woman. It's so hard and destructive that it shouldn't even be an option to rent your sex organs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:56 PM
10

By defending the sex industry they're really setting themselves up to be abused and silenced. They're way less likely to point out abuses and leave once they've defended themselves working in that industry, the shame of being wrong is terrifying so they'll just keep their mouths shut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:07 PM
33

I've personally never sucked a dick in my life. Never would! I've received plenty of oral though, hah. She acts like sucking off a crusty old man isn't the biggest self own out there. There's a reason you're getting money for these acts, they're fucking foul. Have fun swallowing ball cheese I guess?! Also, nothing but preference is really stopping any woman from entering sex work, maybe they should be thanking us for not forcing them to mark down their walmart blow jobs by joining in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:55 PM
7

You're gonna own the most beautiful ring you've ever laid eyes on because you're going to be the one who picked it out! The end of a relationship is always painful, even if it needs to happen. Take good care of yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:32 AM
38

I'm sure she'll charge guys to watch her breast feed too. They even get to buy milk and drink along too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:37 PM
6

This is a fantastic post! This is sooooo many men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:27 PM
6

Congratulations!! Your life is entirely yours!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:26 PM
10

They want to see her take a shit on the hospital bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:21 PM
23

I wanna see a woman spring a pre nup on a scrote before their wedding that states that she is entitled to absolutely everything contingent upon divorce because when men call me a heartless bitch they're totally right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:09 PM
31

I'm sorry, we shouldn't have had to grow up feeling like that. *hug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:12 PM
27

Yuck. That'd definitely give me the WTF panics! I hope you got out of there safely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:09 PM
89

I lived at my dad's when I was a teen. I was never molested or raped by him but he gave me a disgusting feeling and I stay away from him as much as I could. I'd find his porno mags loosely hidden all over the house and read those. Being exposed to porn fucked me up and I didn't want to be a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:51 PM
35

I like rock hard pecs on a man that are bigger than my own boobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:41 PM
29

What did you do when you encountered that thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:38 PM
31

Oh my god, how unprofessional. If I ever need surgery I really hope that I can be treated by an all female team.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:29 PM
33

Wow, this is an amazing post. For women without skills, leaving a partner is extremely hard, she often doesn't know where to even start. I really appreciate you taking the time to offer help and I'm sure you've helped some women today. If someone would laugh at this then they've lead a completely sheltered life ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:34 PM
18

Stupid shit like this makes me avoid telling anyone I game at all. I'm so tired of gaming pickme bullshit. Tons of women game, you ain't special, games are literally made to be entertainment. It's about as special as being a person who enjoys a slice of cake, no shit you like it! Also, competitive people have no self esteem and their ragey intensity to win at something so worthless as a damn video game makes me instantly lose respect for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:47 PM
112

It seems like every single wealthy person knew Epstein. Pedophile rings exist at absolutely every socio economic class and where there is any prostitution it certainly comes with the territory. It's not just billionaires, it's also the poorest men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:53 AM
189

I'm so damn happy that women are having less babies. Yay! Go ladies! Your reproductive power is yours!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:36 PM
15

He thinks it's gross but he'll still put his dick in her... What does that make him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:25 PM
27

Tradwife or libfem, either one you're down on your knees letting him wipe his ass with your perfectly made up cheek. Don't forget to thank him. This is an excellent post, great job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:13 PM
6

Happy Mothers Day!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:31 PM
5

What this guy means is 3-5 babies WITH HIM because you know what a condescending fit he'd have when talking about a woman with 3-5 babies by different fathers. They're only "mentally stable" when wanting an army of babies all from the same man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:26 PM
10

It's sweet that he likes to simply stroll and hold your hand? He'd be happy on a stroll holding a burrito too, happier probably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:32 AM
36

Beard hair just looks gross to me, especially when you notice one lone, spindly hair that's poking out where it doesn't seem it should be growing. The whole beard thing I think is just men trying to get out of shaving and "embracing their natural selves" all the while still shaming women for having any body hair at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:24 AM
5

Pssshhhhh. If I was going to be a wife and mother you'd better believe that I'd also be a gold digger, it just isn't worth it otherwise. GET THAT COIN LADIES! Make him invest in you as much as you're investing in him. That means $$$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:24 PM
36

With men of any race it always comes down to a power grab and who they can have power over doesn't it? I'm tired of men and their relentless need to dominant. Men all want freedom but don't want that same freedom for their own mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:02 PM
20

No one should be surprised by Chrissy Teigen defending perverted old men especially since she built her career on exposing herself for perverted old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:22 PM
34

She's probably just embarrassed that she spent her whole childhood and early adulthood doing exactly what these old gross scrotes wanted her to do and that's why she is where she is today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:19 PM
72

You'd think black men wouldn't be raging misogynist when it comes to black women especially considering that as black men they understand what it is to be oppressed. NOPE! How dare they complain about oppression when black women have it the HARDEST and they openly disrespect them! BLACK WOMEN DESERVE BETTER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:59 PM
14

There needs to be a Studs of FDS wall calendar. Names hmm?? Fuck Me Friday. I'm down to see dick in these pics but I realize that we may not wanna head in that direction. HEAD ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:44 AM
36

Why are you all making me laugh at such a horrible misfortune lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:14 AM
34

This is all of us :( Look how she's leaning away because she can feel his uncomfortable presence on the back of her neck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:45 PM
31

The not-so-fun fact of the day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:05 PM
10

This is rape. If men can't handle owning their own balls they should be removed. "CASTRATING BITCH!!" Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:40 PM
28

That's disgusting, I'm sorry. I guess getting closer to him meant finding out how much better than him you'll always be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:26 AM
22

The ones I have experience with have not been violent but controlling. They can't wait to offer help in all kinds of ways. Which seems nice at first. Since mentally ill women usually struggle more than mentally stable ones, it's very tempting to take it. The problem arises when you realize that they didn't actually want you to be helped, they wanted you indebted to them for their "kindness" and the abuse starts. "Without me you'd be XYZ...!!" Since they know that you're vulnerable to stress and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:18 AM
71

Motherhood is literally spending your life giving life away to someone else. No fcukin shit we don't wanna
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:23 AM
319

"You couldn't be sexy even if you wanted to" -Men, pornographers "Ohhh yes I can! Watch me!" - Young girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:19 AM
24

Aww, please don't EVER be afraid to decline a sex act. If you are afraid to have boundaries or tell your partner what you do and don't like then it's a good indicator that you shouldn't be having sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:27 PM
21

*hug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:18 PM
103

I've been branded masculine my entire life for my interests in sciences, philosophy and athletics. It's abusive and the idea of gendering an interest in the world around you is absolutely ridiculous. I love to see women in science. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:01 PM
46

No dude who got close enough to me for a fuck would even dare even suggest his dick go anywhere near my mouth. I run the show 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:44 PM
125

That's not cool, I'm sorry you were with a guy who saw your vulnerability and LIKED it rather than helping you out of it like a normal, healthy human being should. My entire life I've had mental health issues and I still have them today. The amount of men I have encountered that have been attracted to my vulnerabilities has been disgusting. They pretend that they want to help but in reality they harbor a twisted fantasy of "caring for a broken girl" but really that means keeping her like a pet a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:35 PM
3

Imagine meeting a guy on tinder and finding out he just broke up with his fiancé LAST WEEK? Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:14 PM
25

Which kind of sexual activity "takes" your virginity and why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:22 PM
38

Can that be considered both bestiality AND necrophilia?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:36 PM
207

In the Disney movie Frozen there is a whole song sung by trolls about how girls should accept a man that's a "work in progress" and it's even titled FIXER UPPER? How come no one talks about this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:09 PM
42

I was technically a "virgin" until very late in my life through personal choice. I recommend that you get yourself a dildo, find out if you even LIKE vaginal sex at all, don't consider yourself a virgin at all and never tell a man that you are one. Don't give a guy the satisfaction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:38 PM
44

Lesbian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:48 PM
16

Thank you for the reminder :) <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:44 PM
81

He took out his dick?! WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:43 PM
509

What gets me hotter than nothing else is a hot man who DOESN'T sleep with women who throw themselves at him. A man with self control and dignity when it comes to sex. These guys that'll take any sex he can get? Turn off. Scrotes are out there being 5th+ hand cars with way too much mileage for my taste. Hold them to the same standards, ladies. Dump that nasty dude for his sexual history, you don't gotta accept it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:36 PM
36

It's always men. Ladies, scare your daughters when they're young. Teach them that men are the real monsters and there's no need to be afraid of anything else. If I hadn't figured this out early in life I'd be dead right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:14 AM
169

"I'm confirming that you make my dick hard! Then you'll want to fuck me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:08 PM
119

I always knew I never wanted to be a mother. It's a damn shame that I have to say that I'm 'lucky' enough to live during a time that I can make that choice instead of a man making it for me. To all those women who are mothers and really don't want to be, I see you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:04 PM
19

We all stand in a circle death gripping our flower bouquets for each others viewing pleasure. lol I think we could all go for a tea party
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:55 PM
57

If it WERE literally a circle jerk, he'd want in on that too. I'm sure he'd try to film it and stick the clip up online too titled "MaLe LuRkeR tAkEs It To ThE FaCe FrOm UnBeIleVaBle BiTcH"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:20 PM
61

In tip based payment Jobs like server here in the USA if you don't wear make up you don't make as much money. You also won't get HIRED at many jobs if you interview with no makeup on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:45 PM
29

Women are more sensitive and thoughtful than men and have such a need to be included and loved by those around them. Of course we experience rejection more! On top of being shamed from the day we are born we are mined for our emotional, physical and reproductive labor and are hardly ever accepted for our true selves, only what we can be of use for those around us :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:25 PM
174

Men want to be the "leaders" in the family and the community but they're only good at leading us all straight into a dumpster fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:00 PM
12

Sex with a dude is disgusting and disappointing. The clit is where it's at. I rarely have vaginal sex anymore and when I do it's with a large, soft dildo that can really stimulate my clit internally. A living, breathing man can't do this, nor would I want him to. There is zero value and just risk letting some guy put his dick in me. When I do have sex with a man, I am on the receiving end of oral sex only. The closest I ever got to semen was that it got on my hand once. IT FUCKING BURNED MY SKIN…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:55 PM
2

Those are beautiful! Pink flowers just scream springtime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:44 PM
87

I'm a total ladies girl, women's woman through and through! I simp for women hard. I can make friends anywhere I go and I'm a hit at parties because I compliment women left and right while throwing men under the bus. If I'm ever lonely I can simply point out something interesting that I admire about a woman near by and watch her light up! Ask a few follow up questions and let her talk about herself a bit and BAM! You've got a pleasant conversation because women aren't selfish and they actually c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:39 PM
9

Totally accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:26 AM
55

Funny, guys don't get pissed when women wear tiaras while marrying them. (Probably because they feel like they own the woman by marriage, only time allowed to feel important)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:59 PM
198

Hahaha! Kiss her royal ass you fuckin' lowlife peasants! Crown is gorgeous on you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:54 PM
140

I smile at my friends' boyfriends/husbands but hate their guts knowing all the bullshit they put my girls through. If a woman EVER gives you a warning about a man you're involved with. LISTEN! She is angry for a reason and doing you a favor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:44 PM
2

*hug* good. That's all I care about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:46 AM
7

Working in the spotlight in the entertainment industry for women is a form of sex work nearly always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:43 AM
13

As a former sadist who abused men, I will tell you, there is nothing sane about it ;) I'd also like to mention that female sadists don't hold a candle to what these monsters called men are capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:30 AM
22

I know how you feel though, I used to be outraged when I heard of women doing these things and seemingly desiring them. It disgusted me that they'd let a man do that to them. I don't really talk about this but I used to be in the BDSM scene as a sadist. I got off on hitting men, I got out when I realize now only how fucked up I was but also how unbelievably sad it was for subs both male and female needing to self destruct to feel loved. This is abuse carried to adult hood through childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:29 AM
142

This is very, very accurate. A sadist enjoys control and causing harm and if she can use a safeword she has control of herself and her own pain. This is what a sadist wants for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:17 AM
65

Welcome to your own desires and loin burning lusts ;)~ When people say "men are not physically beautiful" they haven't allowed themselves the self possession to selfishly admire without owing the world a damn thing. When you see a man that you find sexy, drink him in with those eyes. I don't even see fugly dudes, they melt into the scenery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:08 AM
-7

To all you Muslim women, you deserve so much more than what Islam offers you. I'm sorry if that offended any one of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:39 PM
22

He shoulda wore underwear, he knows he's showing that print. They like when you grab it anyway, they like the attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:26 PM
27

I hate that, it's so disgusting. If I were her I'd be petty and claim with I had already slept with two men before him. Surprise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:20 PM
83

You are so right. Women have no reason to feel secure in their relationships between how encouraged it is for men to objectify women in culture and how normalized it is to shame women for not going along and accepting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:11 PM
10

Woooooo! PAY THEZZ BILLLLS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:09 AM
142

Him in them sweatpants, of course I'm gonna grab it wtf did he expect wearing those pants with a big diiccck like thaaat?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:04 AM
47

Stock photo of the chapstick got me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:57 AM
18

Ahahaha! I wouldn't tell him though, if he noticed the kid looked like him I'd just say that I fcuked his brother and daddy too, there's just no way to know *shrug* Noooo, I don't consent to DNA test thanks. ;P By the way, it's totally not your kid but can I have your medical history just for funsies?! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:28 AM
7

Me on da street
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:25 AM
10

Those are gorgeous, I absolutely love white flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:49 PM
41

Yessss, this is the future I like to see! I'm childfree but if I decided to have a baby I'd probably just hit up Studly McStud PhD for his choice genes and then raise the baby myself so I don't have to take care of him too! Since I'd only use the sperm of a stunningly handsome man I probably wouldn't mind an old fashioned insemination. Show me a good time, handsome ; )~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:39 PM
16

Mhm, this is a very nice post. Thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:26 PM
26

This is infuriating :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:01 PM
135

My dear ladies, have a stash of money that "doesn't exist" tucked away where no one at all can see it. Never spend it, act like it's not even an option to spend because it's already spent.. on that dire circumstance that is always a possibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:58 PM
61

Oh my god, how violating! I'm so sorry. That pisses me off so much! When I was younger I'd routinely sleep outside/on a strangers couch/in a car/in hostel like settings and I got into the habit of sleeping totally dressed (with sneakers on) wrapped in my jacket/hoodie and tightly clutching my bag to my chest. If I could I'd even sleep in a closet or under random stuff to hide my sleeping body. I'm also a very, very light sleeper even now. I totally understand your feeling of distrust. While it D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:54 PM
13

Hahahah. This needs to be on a billboard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:03 PM
23

Ugh! I can't stand hanging around people who are drinking. It's so depressing and there's zero enrichment. Yay for visiting the parks and beaches. Bring a coffee and a journal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:56 PM
30

Right on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:07 AM
3

It's never fair to the child when they're neglected and abused. It teaches us to accept harmful behavior in our future love relationships by hoping for the best outcome. You deserved to be loved all along. Notice how the women he dates that "he doesn't really like" are who you're really scared of being. Please take care, and good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:01 AM
30

Women aren't allowed to admit it because they've been beaten to pulp by jealous men for admitting it for hundreds of years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:54 PM
7

Men can't handle the truth of a woman's desires and sexuality. Men are angry and jealous of female sexual power so they'll make themselves monsters trying to control it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:12 PM
24

So I want you to notice that in this fantasy you're obsessing over a emotionally distant and unavailable man. But you make this okay because it all comes to a head when he reveals that he's been in love with you all along. Did you have emotionally distant parents? A child with parents that are emotionally neglectful will make excuses for emotional absence and it's a balm on a wound, kind of like "emotional justice" for a needy person who suddenly it is revealed that YES THEY REALLY DID LOVE YOU …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:02 PM
1

This is wonderful! Congratulations. Not only are you doing great but you've certainly made me smile because of it. Yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:55 AM
11

Mitch McConnell is secretly dying to make an OnlyFans I bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:19 AM
13

If you think that being sexy is powerful then imagine how disempowered and worthless you're going to feel as soon as you feel "ugly" I say embracing the inner harpy hag and gain self worth from that starting point. Your worth on this planet is NOT to get a man's dick to twitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:13 PM
49

I think this is a really helpful post. The thing I find beautiful and admire about a lot of women is unfortunately the thing that can really harm them, they prioritize the people in their lives over their own interests. I'm the same way. Detaching has saved my life. Please ladies, stop blaming yourself for his sins. He's pathetic because he's a loser. Not because you're not worth all the love you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:59 PM
37

She was a sweet older lady, if she could nab him more power to her! He wanted me to see the tip, he was flexin' ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:47 AM
94

I went out to breakfast with a man I was dating. It was breakfast food so the bill wasn't that expensive. I did look at the ticket after he paid and he tipped the waitress 50 dollars. That was so fucking sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:03 PM
46

You're right, a sink right there is very convenient. This is a reason why I never tried a menstrual cup. How to empty it without a big mess in a public bathroom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:54 PM
108

My ex called me a spoiled brat during a tiff. I'm not the type to fling back an insult or open up a wound but damn, you call this spoiled, boy? My mistake for being loyal when I could look at my options and really show you what a man spoiling me looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:45 PM
47

This is like nightmare stuff to me. I feel smothered really easily in average dating, reading that really disturbs me.. and they're not even dating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:32 PM
25

Some guys are just pissed that even though I'm straight I still can attract way more women than them. You crusty assholes better be nervous, I'm definitely coming for your girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:38 AM
6

You gave me strength today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:45 AM
87

Nothing turns me off faster than disrespect. I become dry as a fucking bone and he becomes repulsive, he even starts to stink. I'll notice every single little flaw. My wandering eye opens right the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:43 AM
41

I take photos on my phone of the gore globs that I give birth to on toilet paper when I'm on my period to send to men that insult me or send me unsolicited dick pics. Assault their eyes right back, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:39 AM
20

Wearing a dead woman's wedding ring! Wow, that just really hits the point home just how replaceable you are to a man. Must feel great :\
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:59 PM
24

If they could fit a dick in a female urethra that'd be the new hole they'd bullying women to get into instead of anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:55 PM
11

Yuck, I wish they couldn't even read what we said about them. I'm ready and willing to do zoom vetting interviews to cut them out completely ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:58 PM
12

The feeling of being disrespected by someone I trusted cuts me to the core. You'll miss him because you missed sharing yourself with him and feeling accepted. This is a resource he provided for you, don't get to thinking that it was HIM. Once you have broken up you'll be free not to include him in the mental box of "things you have to worry about." You'll realize just how much stress has been cleared up not having to worry or wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:43 PM
7

She can come clean my house. I'll be happy to film her. I'll even make her lunch and tell her she's pretty :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:31 PM
50

The worst ones are libertarians who claim to "know economics". Every white man under 45 in America who'll claim they're not a Republican but will low key defend Donald Trump over and over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:42 PM
66

Never argue with a man. He is your inferior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:12 PM
25

I GOT A SEX BLANKET TOO! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:45 AM
15

If I got a letter like this.. Ooooo you'll better believe that I'd print out a copy for each of my friends, frame a copy for myself and print out one extra copy for that scrote she's talking about so I can hand it to him when he comes crawlin' back. 'Cause that's hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:54 AM
66

" I enjoy sex more on my period because I am hornier and everything in there feels sensitive and puffed up " ME TOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:18 AM
20

One awesome thing about struggling with self care my entire life is that I could never be bothered to shave and I just shrug and say fuck it. I will occasionally shave my pits and legs like the one time I was in a wedding. I wasn't gonna upstage the bride by flashing my fuzzy pits to all the pearl clutchers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:16 AM
6

I've helped a couple sexy guys earn their red wings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:05 AM
36

If I see a rape scene in a show/movie it's really no surprise to me because I'm sure it's a man that made it and men that are going to watch it. I'm already aware that men are complete trash. What I'm most saddened by is the actress that allowed herself to be filmed in a rape scene, I'm so fucking disappointed in her. Especially because I know she had other options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:51 PM
18

The main issue libfems have with me both online and in the real world is that I'm critical of transsexual policies and the sex industry. They hate radical feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:40 PM
9

Unfortunately the people usually attracted to law enforcement in this country have authoritarian mindset from the beginning, racism is well known to have permeated law enforcement in America for a long time. I would really like to see more black folks, especially black women, enter law enforcement as officers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:46 PM
11

When you decide to have sex you deserve to be burning with lust and love *hug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:26 AM
3

totally agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:19 AM
11

Aw, I hope you didn't carry that embarrassment over into your own household and I hope you've found ways to manage the pain. I appreciate your sympathy, I've never really told anyone that! Unfortunately, I've carried over a lot of coping mechanisms and odd ways of doing things into adulthood which I hide because I know they're not socially acceptable. Your suggestion is a great one! I also was turned off by the amount of plastic in feminine hygiene products. I have tried rags but I find myself t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:36 PM
33

Ummm.. this is a lil embarrassing and it might disgust some of you ladies. I was neglected throughout my childhood. Hardly any parental involvement at all except I was given money so that I could buy my own food. My parents didn't care if I went to school or not. Thankfully, I loved to read and the library was a massive resource for me. I knew about menstruation way before I actually got my period, but I dealt with it by stuffing wads of toilet paper/napkins/paper towel in my underwear which I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:07 PM
109

Bonus! Men will stay away because they don't want to be asked to clean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:06 PM
25

Very concise explanation of how the phrase is used to justify sex work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:27 PM
14

Hell yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:21 PM
5

I'm glad you've changed for the better. You're self aware so you'll only get better with time :) Thanks for sharing, I'm so sorry you were in such a dark place. Good on you for looking out for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:21 PM
1

Don't be too hard on yourself, just remember that all those beautiful hopes you had for the relationship came from you to begin with. You can have all those things for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:01 PM
13

This is very true. Men ACTIVELY oppress women and they do so to keep us a slave class so they can control reproduction and use our labor. Men are the warring sex and this includes every single aspect of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:56 PM
1

A man's personality can totally turn me off no matter how attractive he is. I have an ex that looks eerily similar to Henry Cavill. Objectively I know they're attractive men, but now I can't even look at Henry Cavill without that 'ew' feeling. Glad I'm not with him anymore! He's... not so glad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:28 PM
51

Men ruin their relationships and then expect them to magically not be ruined? The past just doesn't disappear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:14 PM
3

*hug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:43 AM
44

Men are angry that they want you and can't have you. They think you have all the power and they try to take it back with intimidation. He is admitting his defeat by attempting to jar you emotionally. Try not to let him have the prize (humiliating you by attempting to force his sexually on you) You are superior. If you weren't, he wouldn't even glance at you, you would be invisible to him. He can't stand that he's invisible to you. To all the women that have been hurt by men forcing their sexuali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:09 PM
102

I'm shallow AF, I like good looking men, I get them, and I've never regretted it. (They've all been super sweet too, because I won't accept less. Imagine that!) Sorry scrotes, good looking guys CAN be nice and faithful. Maybe because they're not ridiculously insecure?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:58 PM
72

I've been called a racist for ignoring the vile, misogynistic sexual harassments of men of a different race. Men will try to use this label as a weapon. I know that porn is FULL of racism, men enjoy domination and get their rocks off on the idea of colonization and using women of other races. Asians have become a fetish for white men, feeding the twisted idea that Asian females are dominatable at a racial level. I'm sure this has roots in past wars and white military men using and abusing a poor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:52 PM
51

A lot of ladies here are voluntary celibates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:20 PM
26

I was just going to comment that we need to support women in the funeral industry :) I feel like women are better able to deal with grieving families anyway, ESPECIALLY during the loss of a child :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:29 PM
118

A man demanding to know "Why you came here if you hate Americans" while you're stuck in the backseat of his vehicle is fucking scary. Uber doesn't do enough to protect women using their services.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:15 PM
30

Yay! Good job! A creep avoided. It is unfortunate that we have to change our lives to suit their entitlement, but I'm glad you didn't sit there frozen in discomfort like women usually do :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:32 PM
61

Women's shelters are heartbreaking. Women are forced to leave their homes because the men in their lives turned violent. This is so ridiculously unfair that a woman has to flee from the life she built and invested her all into based on the whims and tantrums of a man. If you volunteer your time or money to a homeless shelter, make it a woman's shelter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:02 PM
40

Uggghhh, this is sooo gross... and true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:51 PM
14

That sounds like absolute hell. You were certainly traumatized by this and you need to treat yourself like you are a victim of sexual abuse because you are. *hug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:59 PM
46

Men are envious that women are the choosers and can have sex whenever they want. Men are also jealous AF of women "cucking" them and this is why they dehumanize women as sex objects to give them a sense of power (rejecting her, not the other way around) Men want to fuck multiple women all the while these women don't fuck anyone else. That's what men want because they're stupid fucking animals. Deny them sex, ladies. They're trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:36 PM
2

Mulan irked me when I watched it as child, scenes where she's physically fighting men and running ahead of them, like she could ever grow stronger and faster than bio males. That about as much fantasy bullshit as a mermaid is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:34 AM
1

She worships "femininity" huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:26 AM
3

I'm sorry, that's horrifying! Something like that happen to me recently and I raged. It stuck with me for a while and couldn't shake that nasty feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:41 AM
42

Being a pick me is being in survival mode. I also know a lot of women are embarrassed to talk about the abuse they endured because women are taught to believe that relationship maintenance is a woman's JOB and if she receives poor treatment she is to blame for "picking a bad man to begin with" it's her fault, from start to finish. You are NOT a failure, he is. Do not be ashamed of the degradation you endured at his hands, it's HIM who degraded himself by treating you so poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:58 PM
55

They started noticing that women have been relating to the female villains more than the princesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:46 PM
88

What a disgusting thing to hear after intimacy. You must have felt sick. :( I really appreciate the reminder, it's a good thing to hear today. Men hate that they need women so much, all make desperate grabs for power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:19 PM
140

Shame is put on prostituted women but it really belongs on all the filthy Johns. We need to stop talking about prostituted women like they are the problem. Talk about THE JOHNS for what they are! Filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:54 PM
21

I admire women who do this, as long as that's what you want and you're ready and able, go for it. I personally think it'd be easier for a woman with resources to raise a child on her own because she won't have to "worry" about maintaining a relationship with a husband and she'll be in total control of the finances and decisions. This seems like it'll make raising a child so much more stress free and enjoyable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:08 PM
114

Ha! My immediate thought was that women have more than enough dick coming at them from all sides and the best ones are FAKE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:57 PM
6

Why are men so obsessed with us, why can't they just leave us alone? It must be because they're inferior and absolutely nothing without women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:34 PM
5

Very inspiring story, thanks for sharing. It was a pick me up to read on what feels like a bad day for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:19 PM
16

As soon as a girl is born all men see is a dick receptacle regardless of age to be rated on a scale of 1 to 10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:14 PM
95

When it's women they don't call it what it is, slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:09 PM
6

This is so true it hurts. When a woman asks a man "Why did you lie to me?" you damn well better believe that the truth is always "because I knew you'd be angry and would stop letting me fuck you" They are admitting to sexual coercion. They want to do what they want and still want access to your body, your standards and emotions be damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:52 PM
2

We needn't throw out the 1-10 rating system, we can use it in tandem with the new system to rate the size and shape of his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:42 PM
2

Will add it to the library, thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:26 AM
76

Gorgeous patio. The men would probably film it and stream it online anxious to catch a glimpse of the hOt LeZbO SeXXX!!!!11 Just to be totally confused when they catch us all crying in a circle and patting each others backs.. yet smiling?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:24 PM
100

Men are absolutely pissed that women can choose not to have sex with them. Anything that can erode this choice that women have to say no men will encourage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:18 PM
74

I'm too young to have experienced the separatist movements in the 70's, but I'm there in spirit. Proud radfem harpy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:45 AM
50

Yes. Some men understand the harm it causes prostituted women and the harm it causes relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:36 PM
42

Yeah, it's about as edgy and unexpected for a man to be into those things as it is for a woman going through menopause to enjoy houseplants. I already like houseplants, I'm gonna be a full on hoarder once I go through menopause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:35 PM
6

This is actually why I never get involved with men who approach me. If you go out of your way to speak to a stranger and potentially make them uncomfortable, this person has a high likelihood of being low on empathy and high on selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:32 AM
-6

I think men are the better looking sex, then again I'm also a heterosexual female. A female's body isn't appealing to me at all, in fact I find it kinda plain. If I'm attracted to a woman then it's our sameness of style that I'm attracted to. The shape of a cut man's bulging muscles...oh god, how is that NOT a peacock display?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:25 PM
82

Prostitution is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:21 PM
2

I get how some women are sensitive because it's been used as a tool of oppression for so long, there's lots of trauma ingrained in women thanks to these standards. It's not a choice for most of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:15 PM
8

It's guys with attitudes like this that taught me that cheating on men is 100% legit as soon as they they step out of line. This was before I learned to just dump them. They whine and cry when it's the girls with this mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:42 PM
4

I recently saw a movie you might enjoy called The Beguilded (2017) with Nicole Kidman. It's a period drama about a southern girls boarding school and how they deal with a dangerous solider
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:28 PM
14

I love my baggy, loose dark clothes and I feel like myself most in them. I'm kinda soft butch except I have the longest hair of anyone I know. If I ran across you at a coffee shop I'd definitely check you out (In a very non creepy way :P )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:19 PM
37

They forget that if the weaker party is the subordinate then they're subordinates to horses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:57 PM
34

Yes! Don't allow him to unload his bullshit onto you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:54 PM
87

I absolutely hate media portrayals of women being tough girls that "kIcK MeN's BuTts" and wouldn't tolerate a man touching or insulting her because she'll "kIcK hIs AsS!" *que stupid fantasy martial arts in high heels* No. It makes women feel like failures for not being able to fight off their aggressors and it puts the pressure on women to be able to defend herself. Maybe some women have never physically fought a man, but I'm here to tell you, don't kid yourself. Don't fuckin' kid yourself, lad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:34 PM
23

Studies conclude that older women raising a baby produces smarter children. Older women have the patience and wisdom to handle children way better than younger women. It's a feature of patriarchal societies that when a woman is married she leaves her mother and forms a family with the husband, cutting a woman off from her greatest childrearing asset - her own mother. Yet another way for men to keep women like shackled brood mares. Women aren't supposed to be the sole childcare provider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:29 PM
3

They're one of my favorites too! It's amazing to realize just HOW MANY lilac bushes there are around here once they all bloom. For the rest of the summer they're very plain, inconspicuous bushes that are just tucked away everywhere unnoticed. I also look forward to all the wild orange daylilies that grow invasively all over the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:51 PM
2

Lilacs grow like weeds where I live. Be sure to pick some for yourself before their gone, they come and go so quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:34 PM
16

Yes! I second this! I buy my girl friends flowers all the time. I'll show up with a cute bouquet of tulips for a coffee date or send them some roses for their birthday. It's really satisfying to see fresh flowers on her table when I visit. I also tell my friends that I love them. This sketches guys out because they can't seem to comprehend loving gestures without sex involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:30 PM
5

I'm in my 30's. I've dated men (boys) in their 20's. I've learned my lesson, they're simply stupid. Not unintelligent, they simply lack knowledge. Having to correct and teach them every time they open their mouth is a chore. Yeah, honey, I bet I'm interesting... *sigh* I couldn't bring myself to use those hard bodies even if they follow me around like a sweet lil puppy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:39 AM
1

Oh, that's okay. We'll all have to eat the house because finally men's wish will be granted, there's so many ladies here there won't be enough of him to go around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:24 PM
30

If you girls are down, all are invited to lunch at my gingerbread house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:37 PM
41

Don't cry ladies, I would happily **** him for you without a lick of remorse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:24 PM
54

I saw that movie, it was boring as fuck. If I wanted to feel miserable and upset I could have just sat around wallowing in my own PTSD or thought about the slug man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:11 PM
42

Men respect women like men respect the cow they're eating in their cheeseburger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:31 PM
28

That's basically it! I certainly do not keep it a secret that I like a nice body, that includes a nice set of genitalia. I never dated a guy that wasn't more than happy to show off! They were all fully aware that there would be no reciprocation or sex. I'm am very careful to keep absolutely everything on my terms, I run like hell away from men who have a problem with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:31 PM
39

If I really start to like a guy I'm seeing I'll just straight up tell him to take his clothes off so I can get a look. I'd like to add that I have seen all of my few long term ex partners nude waaaay before any sexual activity took place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:58 PM
28

China has sex selective abortions favoring male babies. Nothing is really stopping women from favoring female fetuses. It would certainly cut back on the prison population and car accidents wouldn't it? Discrimination against female children is as plain as day but even a suggestion of the opposite and REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:44 PM
15

I have nothing interesting to contribute to this discussion aside from mentioning that I would have taken all your free stickers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:09 AM
3

I used to absolutely love the high of being chased by sexy men. I had to answer for myself who would I be should I be that invisible woman society deems unattractive. Do you still deserve love if you can't feel beautiful in the eyes of a man? When you require acceptance to feel good and complete you are giving away your power and wholeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:58 AM
14

In my teen years I would have hate trolled this old loser like I did all the neighborhood pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:44 PM
40

How many people are on this planet now? Like, 8 billion approximately? We'll say that half of those are men. So 4 BILLION men. If all 4 billion men are rapists except for ONE then "Not all men are like that" is still technically accurate. NO FUCKING SHIT NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT. Ugh. Saying that is a manipulation tactic used to make your pain less painful for THEM to bear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:35 PM
54

This is the warning a lot of ladies wish they had gotten and taken to heart in their younger years. Hugs to you for taking your harsh lessons learned and sharing. Don't let that NVM get you down today. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:40 PM
11

Yuck, I'm sorry you've had to experience abuse. Relationships exhaust me too, they're suffocating and I'm crushed by the weight of a man's romantic expectations once he decides that he's in love. My anxiety becomes out of control and this mostly comes from not being allowed my own emotions in childhood :\ ALSO THAT MEN ARE CRAZY AND ENTITLED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:03 AM
131

I don't even think I can fall in love anymore. *shrug* I'm not mad at it. Men put me on a pedestal and I know they just can't wait to knock me off. Now where did my crown of ice go?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:52 PM
124

If another woman can "take' your man you should cackle like you're high on coke because that dumb girl just took out your trash. Can you IMAGINE having a man that is still married and did such horrible shit to his ex LOL. You'll get through this and you'll be happy again, I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:46 PM
5

*hug* I've been called a dyke too. All abuse is wrong. I'm sorry :\
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:46 AM
64

Sounds like he admitted to sexual assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:35 AM
21

I've been branded a lesbian my entire life. I'm not, I'm also not at all bi. I've given it some thought, I've genuinely considered it. I don't find the female form sexually attractive in the least. I certainly would totally be a lesbian if it were a choice. I used to be insulted when men did it, they did it to be hurtful, it's a form of shaming because you don't put up with the bullshit straight girls usually do. As I got older I started getting hit on by actual lesbians and bi women. They are a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:24 AM
276

Women wreck their brains over why and how a man could be so callous. Empathy is valuable and sought after. DO NOT waste your caring heart on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:19 PM
22

*hug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:31 PM
38

They're all one of Daddy Elon's IVF sons at heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:29 PM
22

I know that not every woman wants children, but don't forget that when we sleep with a man we are giving him an opportunity (at least in a biological sense whether we are made pregnant and carry a child or not) to father children through us. Love yourself and by extension those imaginary possible children of yours by only sleeping with a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:47 PM
15

I have absolutely no shame about behaving like a rabid harpy should a man try something with me in public. Try me, fcker and everyone gets a show and you'll be the star. Public shaming FTW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:50 PM
29

What's really funny is that a balding guy can go out with a full head of luscious hair and feel great about himself if only he'd invest in a top quality lace front wig. He won't though because I guess it might just fuck a little too much with his sense of masculinity. Uh oh! Tough luck, baldy :*(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:45 PM
62

They legit what to fck the bunny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:38 PM
15

Ugh. I'm so sorry. Please report him, if he's making comments to you he's probably being a perv with patients. I was sexually harassed by a doctor when I was a patient and for a while it made me avoid getting medical attention. Even now I always request female care providers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:28 PM
35

They DO always come back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:43 PM
14

I am so, so, so sorry. I know you feel like shit. I promise that once he's gone and you don't have to WORRY whether or not he's being a fucking pervert your life will be so light and effortless. Don't let him steal your peace of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:42 PM
25

My studies show that I'm more attracted to jacked studs with huge dicks because that's the only male body I'll catch myself studyin' :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:32 PM
60

It's always been men forcing their own reproductive choices for women on them for most of recorded history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:26 PM
10

Any man who pays for sex is a rapist. Prostitution is slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:53 PM
55

Oh god, you're right! I can effortlessly talk to men my age but any men older than that I say as little as possible and avoid communicating at all. It's preemptively rejecting them and feeling sooo disgusted and creeped out by them possibly hitting on me. I don't have a lick of trouble speaking to women of any age, I wonder why ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:37 PM
164

Also a fan of jacked guys with huge dicks. I can't help it, I'm a very visual person ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:12 PM
47

This is so disgusting and ridiculous it hurts. So find a man who's pro choice and together claim he's the father? How could they argue? No one ultimately knows who she's slept with, isn't that what all these insecure men punch walls about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:07 PM
18

Andrea Dworkin was absolutely hated by men. Her works are amazing, brutal and true. I will always admire the absolute gall she had to put that on paper and defend it against the world. Thank you, Andrea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:58 PM
6

Being abusive makes someone a bad person, doesn't matter who they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:51 AM
5

How does she explain women like me who were given everything a girl was told to want and then gave all that shit right back because I realized all it was good for was a damn migraine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:48 AM
13

I can't stand hearing "I don't know, I just don't like her" when it comes to Hillary Clinton
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:00 PM
14

Hi, I've got sensory issues too. I find it a struggle to just let a guy take the reigns and plan something for us both considering that what he plans might stress me out. I've found that the guys I like the most are super adaptable and really focus on what ever will please me and make me comfortable. At the end of the day the best date for you is the best date for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:42 PM
52

" my ADHD makes me more prone to anxiety, overthinking & hyperfixating in details" This is a very real problem for me too. You are absolutely spot on with the dangers of dating for ladies with ADHD. I have it and if there is ANY friction in a relationship I become way too stressed and the anxiety interferes with all aspects of my life, it's down right debilitating and I can barely function. This is an excellent guide, good job. I wish I had something like this when I was younger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:20 PM
19

That picture makes me cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:28 AM
6

Good job for sticking up for yourself. Don't go back to him. He imagines fucking other women. You do not deserve to be the thing he settles for because he can't fuck the women in the porn he watches. He is not special, once you are free from having to manage his life and live in fear of him crossing your boundaries and hurting you emotionally you will wonder why you were with him at all. Life is so much more peaceful when you're not constantly worried about him "slipping up" and finding out he i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:41 PM
331

The culture that blames a girl for "daddy issues" and treats it like a joke is the same culture that shits on single mothers, even though they're the parent that stayed to raise the child. It's pure misogyny. It's the father that has "daddy issues" considering that he failed time and time again to be a daddy. Your situation was tragic and I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:08 PM
6

This is exactly what I did at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:36 PM
3

Ugh. I was like your daughter when I was younger. Covering my body because of how disgusting men were. Please be sure to remind her that she is not the source of shame, the disgusting pervs are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:29 PM
18

Yay! I'm very excited for you. I hope your new job fits like a glove! I hope to be entering a new field too soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:24 PM
87

Holy shit. This is the type of power men want in everyday society, of course a Christian school in TX wouldn't have any qualms about letting their fucked flag fly. A really brave homosexual boy needs to do the lords work and run through that school asking out all the scrotes. Imagine a prom full of only girls :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:18 PM
3

Congrats on the publication and losing all the dead weight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:39 PM
10

Being childfree is probably the best decision I've ever made for my life. I usually don't like saying that though because I feel bad for women with children, I know motherhood is extremely tough and it's hard for people to be happy for others when they are struggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:19 PM
16

I would lurk on PUA forums and websites when I was younger, it was painful and sickening to read. Especially since I've been pursued by many of these men and I shudder to think what would have happened to me had I been ignorant of these things. It was a traumatic education on the nature of misogyny and it made me the hard core feminist and activist that I am today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:31 PM
8

That's a great article. I'd argue that it's just the same ol' patriarchy doing it's horrible thing. Thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:57 PM
36

Military wives and families are abused. They'll blame military wives for not "supporting" husband should she have any problems being alone and neglected for months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:54 PM
31

Men love love love the idea of being able to break a woman emotionally just by saying "you look fat"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:50 PM
3

The older I get the happier I am. You move into your own power as you age and it's glorious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:27 PM
157

Men are obsessed with arguing and consumed with the need to "win" no matter the cost and it's disgusting. Debating them is useless because they don't actually know how to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:25 PM
7

Those are lovely, I love white flowers they're effortlessly elegant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:22 PM
18

We are not allowed to be angry at men in open society even when that anger is warranted, women are made to take abuse and shut up. I'm so sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:59 PM
18

Haha. I think a guy could actually tell on himself like this and be dead serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:04 PM
47

I totally agree. It's a complete lack of respect. This is what my ex did before we split up. All those stupid sighs and passive aggressive digs at small things. It was like he was trying to get the point across that my existence in his life didn't matter. When he came crawling back I told him that there was no point in having me in his life since I annoyed him so much. byye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:52 PM
16

Well, I've only had sex with one man and I was with him for ten years lol. You can date men, enjoy yourself and not sleep with him. ;) Also I'd never clean for a man, or pay for him, or put up with shit behavior. There is so many men out there (many of them are shit) a woman never has to tolerate a man stealing her joy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:34 PM
14

Awww, poor sweet pups. I know how they feel, I'm like an emotional support animal for my girl friends. I think I need a little vest that says "Doesn't like men"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:27 PM
41

I'd totally be that lesser person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:13 AM
183

Scrotes pissed alright
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:43 AM
26

Maybe it was the clothes he was wearing that made him so kickable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:28 PM
23

*Man stands next to a dairy cow* I guess we know who the submissive bitch is here! Huehuehue!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:05 PM
9

It's totally fine and completely okay to just make out with a guy if that's all you want. Don't allow him to pressure you for more than you'll enjoy. A man that pushes for more than you want is dangerous, please keep yourself safe. I totally know how easy it is to ignore danger, I was a pretty wild kid. A part of learning to take care of myself was treating myself as though I were my own daughter, when I did that I started really seeing all the danger I put myself in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:26 PM
50

angry squeal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:03 PM
86

If a man even attempts to test the waters on testing your boundaries drop him because this will never, ever end. Very nice post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:44 PM
22

If you honest to god like casual hook up sex and that is satisfying when you have it, then you do you, but if it harms you in anyway I suggest you get to the root of the cause of you needing to hook up with strangers when you can give yourself way more orgasms than any strange dude could. I'd like to add that I enjoy the attention from men, I enjoy touching and hugging and cuddling, I even enjoy receiving oral sex from them. You absolutely do not have to fuck a guy just because he wants it and y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:24 PM
60

This is absolutely true. "I didn't mean to hurt you" "I had no idea that would hurt you" What he really means is "I didn't care if I hurt you" "I never consider your feelings only my own desires" Men want to control your perception of them so they'll try to tell you what they want you to believe about them. ALWAYS JUDGE A MAN BY HIS ACTIONS, not JUST his words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:22 PM
3

When men "debate" they loudly throw out statements so ridiculous that to break them down to illustrate why they're so absurd would be like teaching a class that spans multiple different topics. All the while this guy is throwing out more and more rage phrases thinking that they prove anything other than how stupid he is. "BAM! tAke ThAT fEmIniSt!!! Durrr"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:00 PM
203

Men: No mAn wIlL wAnT yOu IF yOu DoN'T hAVE SeX!!!!!! Me: Really? That's fantastic! Men: ...REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:47 PM
19

My heart breaks for women going in and coming out of sex work. I hope you've been able to work through some of the damage that's been done and you have supportive people in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:03 PM
49

These men have absolutely no sympathy or empathy with your suffering. Don't EVER feel bad for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:40 PM
5

More women need to know about this, thanks for the links!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:12 PM
7

Excuse me?! Microwaving birth control pills?!?! HOLY SHIT. Never heard of this! Ladies, keep your pills in your bag at all times. Don't let your man know where they're kept
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:45 PM
48

I was a 90's kid and a teen in the 2000's growing up in America and the amount of female objectification in the media and advertising during this was THROUGH THE ROOF. I'm absolutely sure that it created a generation of women LOADED with sexual/emotional trauma and mental illness not to mention a huge boom in porn culture. gIrLs GoNe wIld UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:42 PM
61

I certainly don't mind if my girl friends enjoy sex that I wouldn't be into, but as soon as she starts attempting to shame me or pressure me to do acts with men, she's GONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:59 PM
257

Ew, being pressured for sex is such a gross feeling. He probably expects you to chase him and bend to his sexual demands so he doesn't walk away. Psh! Good job on waiting! One of the best things I ever did for my well being was being extremely choosy with who I slept with. Now go enjoy some chocolate, relax and give yourself an orgasm. We both know that you can give yourself one of those waaay better than he ever could ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:40 PM
154

LOL He figured out how hard life was without you. He wanted the easier life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:56 AM
22

Your best years are yet to come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:51 AM
371

I've certainly felt the beautiful lightness that comes after he's gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:27 AM
87

Men spout that BS lie about being afraid to be "trapped" when the fact is that it's the woman that's trapped by a pregnancy, men just bounce. I hope your rapist rots in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:05 AM
18

I'm so pissed for you. That's right, never again. Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:31 PM
16

I do know that when the birth control pill was commissioned by Margret Sanger women were having baby after baby in their marriages., she herself was 1 of 11 children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:23 PM
62

Oh my god! I'm so, so sorry! That had to have been absolutely devastating. Thank you for sharing your story and I hope you're doing a lot better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:20 PM
74

I agree, I've never been on it either. The stories my friends tell convince me that it's a bad deal for the woman. Unless she's using hormonal birth control as a treatment for an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:12 PM
12

I NEED TO SEE THIS POST!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:07 PM
258

Not only do female personal trainers understand your female body better, you'll probably feel way more comfortable and less self conscious working out in front of them and there for more likely to stick to your workout routine. Also it's important to support women professionally and I always prefer to give my business to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:36 PM
7

THIS!! YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:42 AM
46

Men think sex is a commodity that can be bought. Next they'll start to claim that sex is a right. Then they'll start demanding the government fund their access to sex. Then the government will start recruiting women into sex work because it's a "legit job"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:40 AM
36

piece of garbage? Ass garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:29 AM
5

ovarit.com I'd really like an invite code if you'll do me the honor of sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:19 AM
7

We can do the scrotes a curtesy and instead of just saying men we can say 99% of all men when we reference them so they don't feel the need to remind us. If they still complain about this then we'll have to start demanding to know percentages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:58 PM
8

Inspiring story! You've come a long way. Very AWESOME ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:44 PM
27

Good Job! You'll find out just how much mental space you wasted on a man who didn't care about your feelings and you get to take it all back and focus on what makes YOU happy instead of waiting on him to do it for you. You're going to be happy again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:28 PM
3

I swear I see dick shaped lightbulbs above their head when I walk by YES! I can see it light up! lmao! You know exactly what's gonna happen next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:17 PM
8

I'm so sorry. I totally know how you feel, I dealt with that a lot. I'd always come away feeling gross and horrible and it's not fair. I'll share with you what I started doing. Cut him off instantly! I know that when we're out in public and someone speaks to us we feel like we have to at least be polite and respond. We DO NOT. Predators use our sense of politeness to their advantage to get us to engage. Make a scene. Go head, scream at this man in public. MEN RELY ON OUR POLITENESS AND TIMIDITY …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:15 PM
8

Men want to feel like they're not getting old and instead of buying makeup and plastic surgery like women, they go after younger women and think it's the woman's job to go along with the lie that they're still sexy and attractive but the reality is that they're old, crusty and gross. Hey men! It's not our job to put our desires aside and convince you that you're sexy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:52 PM
85

Let's not forget that men love to argue. They want to feel like they're dominating something and women are their prime fix. The more willful the woman the better it feels to "put us in our place" They're foaming at the mouth to stomp us all out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:31 PM
9

Doesn't killing your neighbor for not having sex with you mean that you then NEVER get to have sex with him? Psshh, that makes no sense! If not today there's always tomorrow when he's watched loads of porn and willing to have sex with just about anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:07 PM
5

Holy shit, how traumatizing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:02 AM
8

My advice is to go out of your way to find female care providers. I have a female care providers across the board including a female dentist. Request a female! In my early twenties I was sexually harassed by a doctor. I was young and shaken enough (gaslit ) to not report it and just drop the doctor and move on. But from then on I'd ONLY see female care providers. A man so close to my body is threatening and my body responds in panic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:58 AM
15

lmao totally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:46 PM
4

Your post put a fire to my butt reminding me that I need to get my act together and work harder on making money! :) Priorities!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:42 PM
7

I gotta learn to make more money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:34 PM
23

I waited a long, LONG time to have sex for the first time. Once I did with a patient, devoted man whom I was VERY sexually attracted to, it was like eeeehh. Not all it's cracked up to be. The anticipation and lust is way more steamy then the reality of the actual act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:31 PM
31

When I'm getting I know a new woman as a potential friend and she says "women are so dramatic" I'll immediately take this as a confession from her that she is really the dramatic and competitive one. I'll know not to share too much with her in fear that I'll trigger her frenemy low self esteem. A woman's success and happiness is not another woman's failure. I wish more women felt this in their bones and could take pleasure in seeing the women in their life succeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:55 PM
2

hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:35 PM
57

How awful it must be for him to see her in pain?! Uhhhh.. how about being the one experiencing it?! Must hide your pain and smile so as not to inconvenience him? God forbid he have to sympathize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:09 PM
17

Remember resist do not comply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:25 PM
11

I'm so glad you both broke away from that man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:23 PM
68

How many of these men torment themselves in their 24th year of life hyperaware of all the sexy muscle men around them and obsessively checking with their dicks as to whether or not it made them plump? Then ruthlessly punishing themselves and the women around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:10 PM
50

Women are taught to accept blame and when they don't they're villainized and blamed harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:00 PM
88

"The moderators are also proudly kink-shamey" Wasn't this whole article kink shaming us? We're not allowed to want what we want? According to VICE BDSM where women are beaten is fine but FDS is "Strange and mean-spirited" For wanting good men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:58 AM
66

I saw "ass garbage" and I LMFAO "I have to use the restroom and drop a load of ass garbage" ..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:39 AM
25

I've seen youtube videos of libfem girls reviewing FDS and they'll read shit for the camera like "Dump a man who doesn't show you respect" and she'll roll her eyes and it's like DO YOU KNOW HOW STUPID YOU LOOK rolling your eyes to what should be common sense?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:16 PM
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I'd like to add to the idea of confidence.. Ladies, we lack the comfort men have in their own skin because we are (usually) clean people who care about being presentable to others. I was a backpacker. I spent days on the road, not showering, not shaving my body hair, dried period blood on my hands. Gross right? Yes. I felt ugly, I felt disgusting but eventually I stopped caring and there is a freedom in not needing to feel pretty. I'm not suggesting that you should be as extreme as I was, but st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:45 AM
31

I cackle when I read these. It's like they're trying to convince themselves of something and drown out the anxiety with magic positivity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:37 AM
5

My mother allowed her boyfriend to verbally abuse me and I was neglected in favor of her relationships with men. I was a child and felt so betrayed by her, I had to accept that I couldn't rely on her but she was my mother and I needed her desperately. As an adult I pity her and her deeply rooted internalized misogyny. I try to be for other women the strength that she didn't have to protect me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:32 AM
28

Ladies, I'm lucky enough to have a couple very HV women friends. Don't be discouraged if you don't have any right now. I encourage you to invite a woman you admire to lunch or express to her how much you enjoy your conversations. Please don't be afraid of rejection, initiating and investing time and effort into other women has really paid off for me. So take that step and invite an interesting women out with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:55 AM
8

Tell them you're forced to only masturbate to pics of strapping male nudes with huge dicks because they don't look anything like that and the line to bang 'chad' is just too long. (much like chad's dick)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:40 PM
33

Never have sex with a man who won't go down on you and can't take pleasure in that alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:35 PM
17

Don't let them kid you... men will still have sex with a short, ugly, broke woman should they get the chance. That's why men's sexual attention is worthless, they'll stick their dick in nearly any thing female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:32 PM
119

Jennifer Lawrence strikes me as the embodiment of the pick me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:06 AM
1

Congratulations on starting to live your best life! I have been an isolated radical feminist for years and discovering FDS has been a breath of fresh air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:16 AM
1

I was never a huge fan of rap until I heard Megan Thee Stallion, I love her songs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:49 PM
67

Growing up and into my teen years I was bullied (by adult men) being called a lesbian because I refused to participate in my own sexualization and enjoyed traditionally masculine gendered hobbies. I am a completely heterosexual woman, I wish I could be a lesbian! When I was a young I experienced a bit of gender dysphoria that I realize now was just gender roles forced on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:58 PM
1

You weren't being rude! He was being very rude by ignoring what you were telling him. Unfortunately I've never been friends with a man who wasn't slyly circling me like a vulture waiting for his chance to have sex with me after a breakup or an emotionally vulnerable moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:40 PM
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