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QUEEN SH*TNenemae/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:25 PM
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Because there is power in numbers and information sharing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:29 AM
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That is absolutely not what I said! You need to stop trying to pick a fight with everyone. What are you even doing on this sub if all you want to do is argue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:58 AM
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I'm sorry you have such a cynical view of things between the sexs. I have plenty male friends and none of them would dare to risk my friendship to attempt coming on to me. It's about holding queen energy all the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:05 AM
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Yes, very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:19 AM
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Yep, had this with 3 narc exs as well and it's 100% accurate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:42 PM
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This sub and it's sister subs are the only reason I'm on reddit anymore, and I love reading here every evening!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:18 AM
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This comment wins the internet today! 💯💕👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:07 AM
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I probably would have thrown my coffee in his face and stormed out! But then again, I'd never have gone to a guy's house for coffee either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:00 AM
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Hidden Figures was such a good film, but the fact that those women were forced to walk several buildings for the bathroom had me so nauseous!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:56 AM
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You're welcome, most definitely stand by your standards! It may take a while, but your standards will attract the right kind of man, as well as repel the ones that do not meet your standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:49 PM
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You're not being unrealistic, but they are a very rare breed. I'm lucky in having found one in my guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:02 AM
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☝️💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:49 AM
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WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK??!!!?!!!!! 🤮🤮🤮 ok... So #1, I thought nothing internet insane would shock me anymore.... I have been proved wrong! I now need brain bleach, badly! 2, thank goodness I am not hetero, because I think I may have just been cured of ever considering going near any man ever again! If this is a thing that even a small fraction of guys pay for, I'm not risking it! 3, that is enough internet for today, I'm going back to the safety of Netflix for 24hrs. I love FDS and all you queen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:35 AM
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This has been an idea I have had for years that I feel would benefit women! I have wanted to be able to warn other queens about the red flags that I have observed and experienced in my NVexs. No woman deserves to have to deal with those guys in the future and I'd love a black book of scrotery to reference and add to!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:39 AM
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Thank you now for that visual.... Now I'm not sure if I need eye bleach for that or to make a cup of tea to toast you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:46 AM
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Thank you! This is vital info for all women!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:07 AM
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It's tiktok that responsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:37 AM
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Seconded!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:46 AM
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Yes please! A FDS comic series would be amazing!! I adore this, thank you Queen!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:45 AM
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I love your idea of never sharing a bathroom with a man, because that was one of the things that led to a break up for me! Thank you, I now have a codified new boundary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:39 AM
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Best reply I found in a situation like that is a single word... INAPPROPRIATE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:35 AM
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This gave me chills reading this... My stalking spidy sense is clamoring rn!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:18 AM
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I wholeheartedly third this take, as women of color need the support and elevation more than conservative voices do!! 💯💯💯👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:46 PM
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I second this. Definitely should be in The Handbook!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:52 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💥💥💥💥💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:49 AM
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Oh wow.... Your comment just revealed a whole other level of shit of my ex-wife's behavior!! Thank you, I'm buying that book!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:25 AM
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The word salad is real!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:15 AM
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Very true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:48 AM
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I would even say it's a pick-me fantasy. It is 100% a pick me fantasy, the worst of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:43 AM
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Oh yay!! I'm relieved I'm not the only one that has both noticed this, as well as driving myself crazy with over thinking! I seriously wonder sometimes, with how fast my brain can analyze everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:35 AM
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Sign me up for the FDS SWAT team!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:49 AM
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Twitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:47 AM
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Same here sis! I'm seeing red right now!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:44 AM
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I had the same reaction and had to resist hitting the downvote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:42 AM
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Has anyone else noticed that men don't think things through before they open their mouths... while women super analyze every angle of how our words could be taken before speaking? Am I the only one noting the huge disparity of forethought? Edit: spelling correction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:39 AM
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bro how do you even get to the point where you’re comfortable commiserating over this shit in public? Exactly this!! They have the audacity to post this on flippin' TWITTER?!?!? I hope the wives keep tabs on their tweets and drop their scrotey, unwashed butts!! Edit: fixed spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:35 AM
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I'm another beard hater! Between the fact that most guys don't keep their beards even moderately clean and the fact that I don't want to make out with steel wool....FUCK ALL BEARDS!!! Spelling edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:26 AM
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I 100% agree with you on this, unfortunately it's just a fact of the numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:48 PM
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100% this! Boys having a male role model is so that they can be indoctrinated into the patriarchy properly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:31 PM
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Honestly, fuck Telegram!! Use Signal instead, it's far superior!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:31 PM
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Thank you both so much for the compliments regarding my vibe! This absolutely made my night! I admit, I have been a lifelong FDS kind of woman due to being a homeschooled daughter of a radical feminist. Because of how I was raised to see my fellow women as just that, my fellow sisters, I have come at life wanting to change how our culture programs women to see each other as adversaries rather than allies. I know it is possible to change things through generational teaching, because my mother bro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:43 PM
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And die mad!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:39 PM
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I'm in those numbers. 😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:52 PM
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I co-sign this 100%!!!! Carrying the attitude that you will f*** them up means you don't get f****d with 98% of the time!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:50 AM
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Thirded!! I wasted years 20-24 fighting with a guy and it resulted in my dropping out of college, cost me the career I had my sights set on, got evicted from my apartment, ended up with anxiety and PTSD, thousands of dollars lost to his crap behavior and covering his bills, destroyed my credit, cost friendships, money, time and respect. Don't be me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:46 AM
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Seriously edited because I was nowhere near done with this comment when I posted it! I'm turning 32 this year, and I wish I had had this blueprint and FDS when I was 20!! Don't bother dating guys until you're at least 26. Seriously, they are just a distraction from building yourself up. Invest in a seriously good vibrator! Rechargeable, silicone based, multiple modes. It's well worth several times it's weight in gold!!! If you happen to end up dating a guy.... NO AGE GAPS!!! If he tells you that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:23 AM
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Oof....truth! I'm still learning to not trauma compare!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:09 AM
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100% straight facts!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:08 AM
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Facts!! Financial numbers are the perfect concrete data for breaking out of the emotional fog when leaving a LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:58 AM
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You are very welcome! Enjoy your bath. Good candles and quality bath bombs are my go-to for rejuvenating bath time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:56 AM
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Facts!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:20 AM
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Ooof.... 100% The flashbacks are REAL!! I'm a fellow former kinkmeisha, and it's a constant cringe-fest for me when I'm reading on the sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:20 AM
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FDS is like the beyond scared straight of relationships. 100% this!! 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:07 AM
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For me, I choose to call my best friends, my sisters for support when I am low. I also recognize that my best is a flexible state, so I do what I can depending upon my mental state and energy level. Sometimes all I can do is make sure that I am hydrated, eat enough protein and dump myself into a bath. I usually feel a whole world better when I get out of that bath and I feel ready to conquer more than I did before. The biggest thing is having kindness towards yourself when you are in a low point…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:48 AM
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I agree with you that prevention would be ideal, and I think that that begins with stronger support networks between women, whether friends or not, we need to support each other. Learning that you can connect with someone quite deeply in a platonic way would be super beneficial on the side of prevention. A big thing is, we have to change the larger media narratives that socialize women to see romantic relationships as the highest priority relationships in their lives. So this begins really with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:41 AM
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So: I’m having a hard time articulating this, but how can we normalize staying out of and far away from legitimately abusive relationships? It breaks my heart to hear so many of these stories include a relationship that’s now over, because by that time the damage is done. This is a situation where an ounce of prevention really is a pound of cure. We have to normalize speaking up to our female friends when we see them in a bad situation! As well as truly listening if one of your female friends vo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:55 AM
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Thank you!! Honestly, the best approach I have ever found for helping someone get out of an abusive relationship is helping them shift into rage at how they have been treated! And tallying the financials is a very effective way to do that! Edited for punctuation errors and missed words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:30 AM
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So, not me, but a friend that I've been helping with breaking out of a super abusive relationship...I forced her to start listing off the expenses and everything she paid for in the 10 years she was with her scrotastic NVX...I tallied everything up that we could possibly calculate and it came to over $600,000!!! That was the final straw for her, and if she hadn't already blown several gaskets that day, the reaction would have been even more fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:32 AM
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I would buy & rock that t-shirt!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:13 PM
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🖐️🖐️Huge Lorax fan over here!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:30 PM
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That was the most magnificent episode!! 🎉💕 I was laughing and cheering the entire time!!!👏👏 THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:15 AM
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It's the FDS podcast. Available on Spotify, Apple & Google
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:22 AM
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Oh wow, that's a whole different kind of gaslighting triangulation! It's bad enough when they compare you to their pickme x's, it's something else to lower your expectations of the him (the LMV) comparing to the other scrotes out there! Edit: grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:38 AM
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🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮😠😠😠 I almost threw up reading that, OMFG!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:37 PM
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I'm going to get that book, thank you for mentioning it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:48 AM
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OMG, THIS!!!!!! I dealt with this in my marriage, turned out they were a gaslighting, manipulative, love bombing narcissist that turned my world upside down!! Whenever I stood up for myself with even a little bit of strength, I was accused of being super aggressive and having major anger issues! Everything disappeared as soon as I threw them out of my house and divorced their abusive ass!!!! I straight up danced with joy when my divorce paperwork arrived in the mail!!! Thank goodness they only g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:22 AM
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