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Turning 29 this year and still no sex. Truthfully the past few years it’s been voluntary (I’d say at University it was involuntary I just had a lot of personal mental issues and body image problems). I don’t know if I will ever be intimate in this way but I’m at peace with it now. I’ve also decided not to online date since it’ll be an expectation if I go out with men. Better to just remove myself from the situation and focus on other things…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/22 04:36 PM
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I’m abstinent and never engaged in casual sex but I remember how it affected some of my girlfriends (some were even in serious relationships albeit abusive). Observing them was enough to know I made the right choice. I just wish the sexual empowerment movement for women didn’t center men and their wants and needs. Countless courses, articles and podcasts about how women can improve their sex game and pleasure their men. The grooming and glamorization of OF is also so dangerous especially for imp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:12 PM
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I even saw people sympathising with this asshole today I’m just so fed up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:13 PM
2

Congratulations! I wish you all the best 💗💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:59 PM
42

Tech guys (except for the one i’m seeing currently) are some of the worst people i’ve ever met
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:12 AM
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It should be treated as a hobby but 95% of men make it their personality so idk. I play them…well one that I’m very good at (like tournament level) but after being in that space I’d rather not date a man that plays video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:06 AM
26

A tall man wouldn’t do this though💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:06 AM
10

Very negative energy in that post very insecure too. I feel like he should just avoid OLD with that kind of outlook…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:34 AM
48

The day women realize how much a lot of men truly hate them the sooner we will be free but until then 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:21 PM
75

Like he’s handsome and all for his age but I still think she could’ve done better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:13 PM
21

I can’t wait for these dusty manosphere losers to be obliterated from the earth. They’re giving the younger generation such bad advice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:10 AM
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I think this is fair I do enjoy the radfem centered posts too but the focus of the sub shouldn’t deviate too much, it is a dating sub. I think FDS has been a good way of introducing other feminist topics to women who may not have had a chance in a less intimidating way. So that’s definitely a plus, I think it’s just getting the balance right…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:14 PM
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I really think people shouldn’t talk about their personal life at work. It’s not worth it and always gets used against you. Also she sounds jealous, I would keep your distance from now on if possible since work politics makes this hard sometimes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:09 PM
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🙋🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:56 PM
29

I actually like Meg but I can’t endorse this kind of content and it’s frustrating because she’s not the only one doing this. No matter what libfems say trying to counter misogyny but objectifying yourself doesn’t work. You just harm other women and girls in the process…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:55 PM
30

This is great news. Bigger entities like Mindgeek might be harder to take down but I hope this judgement can steer things in the right direction…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:51 PM
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Yeah I definitely agree with you on that as someone who’s experienced unwanted attention from old scrotes. I think it’s becoming less of an unpopular opinion now which is good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:14 PM
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They’ll learn the hard way it’s not our problem 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:53 PM
14

This ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:07 PM
8

I understand your point of view entirely but thank you for everything you’ve done on here I appreciate it a lot and always enjoyed your articles so I look forward to reading more elsewhere 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:38 PM
48

I wish women would stop answering them. I get why they want to show their attributes and achievements they’re proud of but men aren’t asking because they’re curious about your value they don’t actually care and just want to ‘humble’ you 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:31 PM
36

Gotta get Dr Ramani next now 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:28 PM
17

Omg no way I can’t wait to listen to this after work! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:57 PM
27

Omg yes I saw that! The hypocrisy was insane. All of a sudden there’s an agenda when it’s BW but when it’s BM it doesn’t matter because ‘love is love’ 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:01 AM
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It’s so crazy because if it was the reverse and this happened to me before FDS I would’ve tried to find ways to fix this and make him ‘happier’. I’m not saying that’s the right mindset but for op that didn’t even cross his mind even though he came multiple times and she (most likely) didn’t at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:56 PM
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Omg congrats that’s great news I’m so happy for you! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:58 AM
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I literally do not give a fuck what these gremlins have to say anything that doesn’t fit their narrative as a result of bullying women into silence is hate to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:25 PM
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If something happened to that lady these weirdos would be the first to ask why didn’t she do this or do that or fight back (like they did to sarah everard) Also why does it matter if she’s a white woman in the suburbs? Is OP insinuating that only poor poc commit crimes or something? There was a UK police officer who got killed off duty recently walking her dog in a suburban park in the AFTERNOON, literally broad daylight. So she can go fuck herself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:04 PM
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I hope she can explain the full incident to her Gynaecologist... Also am I the only one who notices there’s always a significant age gap in these kind of posts too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:48 PM
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Apparently he had a history of stalking another woman before her (why am I not surprised). I think it’s sad that stalking is still not seen as something serious in court, this could’ve ended violently she and her family are very lucky. Not to mention the massive breach of data protection and the fact he still got to keep his job. Just wtf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:00 PM
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🎻🎻🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:46 PM
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I would hate this kind of dynamic but if it works for them then I won’t judge. I just think if women want to be SAHMs they should still have a backup plan incase of unexpected events. Life is unpredictable...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:18 AM
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Sounds pretty nice to me but we all have our opinions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:13 PM
17

Using it was definitely an eye opener into what other women dealt with and the man I’m currently seeing found me on CMB (it’s going well) but if it doesn’t work out with him I doubt I would return to using OLD ever again, I would much rather stay single or just meet someone randomly irl. The fact we are treated like commodities on these apps already gives me the ick let alone the men that use it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:25 PM
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The woman in the vid made a tiktok apologising because they faked the whole thing thank God but hopefully it didn’t give anyone else ideas to do something similar irl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:00 AM
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I think we all know who did it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:20 PM
83

Even after all of that she wanted to give him another chance? Girl what??? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:12 PM
11

Nooo the 32k likes are for the person replying that they’re ‘fake as hell’ i.e. they would never agree to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:29 PM
10

If she marries him it will get worse since he’s not getting the help he actually needs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:30 PM
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Even street fashion photographers ask people for permission before uploading photos online. If someone’s uncomfortable they’re uncomfortable I don’t get why people (women especially) are being shamed for that. Also just because someone’s holding a DSLR doesn’t make them a professional lol. There’s a bunch of creeps who parade around as artists and use it to perv on young women and children. Those pictures didn’t look aesthetic at all the commenters are so full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:37 AM
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I’m from the UK! That kind of chivalry isn’t appealing to me to be honest but I’ve had men open doors and pull out chairs for me without asking on dates and one of my exes did the whole car door thing every now and then so I think it does happen it’s just not very common...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:01 PM
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Someone who is competent and reliable is most important to me amongst looks and personality. If he has a high salary it’s just a bonus really. But a decent education and stable income is key. There’s a lot of people who have good traits but are so aimless in life and terrible with money it’s beyond off putting. Anyway I think our stance is pretty clear on what is HV we talk about it all the time so it wouldn’t matter if we kept clarifying it, people who hate this sub are just committed to misund…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:34 PM
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Japan was literally ranked 120th out of 156 countries for gender equality recently so this does not surprise me at all. Still sad though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:47 PM
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I’m not angry about this I’m happy because it validates everything we say here. I hope more scrotes keep snitching on themselves... Also his hairline is hanging on for dear life lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:06 PM
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Yes! They even have services in South Korea who investigate for women who fear their partner put up a spycam in their house and they find it in all kinds of intimate places. It’s disgusting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:36 AM
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If you want to make people seem like they’re being dramatic that’s fine. But these kind of topics are tacky and there’s nothing anyone here can actually learn from it. We know men are hypocrites and the wall doesn’t exist so why do we have to keep talking about it? That’s all I’m saying. It’s just corny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:43 PM
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Sorry but I don’t believe the wall exists for anyone. There are just people who take care of themselves as they age and people who don’t. I don’t think we need multiple threads on RP nonsense and it’s getting a little ridiculous now 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:13 PM
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“Men’s improvement” but with no tips on how men can improve? Only whining about how women should change themselves to validate men as per usual...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:51 PM
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That’s what I thought too and then it just became a trend to do something completely unrelated to the topic they were talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:16 PM
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Did you see how offended he got when she said he’s old?? The delusional is real omg...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:26 PM
104

I wish women would stop dating people who openly hate them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:24 PM
10

He should get help and I’m not even saying it in a mean way. If you have a porn addiction get help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:39 PM
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I mean I get the point she’s trying to make but I would say just do shit for yourself and focus on achieving your goals whatever it may be first because it’s all nice and good finding a man that will bring some value and help you with your business/education until he feels like you’re surpassing him and uses the fact he ‘helped’ you to sabotage you because his ego couldn’t take it so... yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:32 PM
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I’m happy she’s sticking to her guns and didn’t double down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:19 AM
83

Lmao exactly. Jeff Goldblum had his first kid in his 60s with a woman half his age and everyone congratulated him. So transparent...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:53 AM
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She’s just the placeholder until he finds a woman he actually wants to marry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:56 PM
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Leave her the fuck alone that’s what you do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:50 PM
11

If that’s your experience I just wouldn’t date online then and meet men irl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:48 AM
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Surely you could leave any date though? There’s no obligation to stay in a restaurant/bar if you’re not enjoying the date. Sure you might have to pay or something if he gets mad but I don’t think women should be dating/leaving the house without money regardless. I know a lot of women are still divided on this walk date stuff and I get it. I’m sure some still like them and feel safer doing it and if they choose that I don’t have a problem with it. But I am all for maximum benefit of women in gene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:53 AM
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She did the right thing because the gf would’ve been his next victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:59 PM
328

I bet her being conventionally attractive plays part in the violent response she got lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:29 PM
5

^ This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:38 PM
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I’m a 1st gen brit so I don’t disagree with you on your description of white british men and I think both our experiences are valid. I just get worried that the behaviour of MOC (who can also be alt right and are increasingly joining those circles) might slip through the cracks and not get held accountable. It should also be noted that sometimes when MOC marry outside of their cultures/race that woman isn’t held to the same problematic standard that women in his own culture would be so that’s so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:34 PM
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I think it started it with western white men especially online but I wouldn’t let immigrant men off the hook they are becoming increasingly vile and entitled. I don’t want white women who may think it’s better on the other side to be misled because it isn’t always. Women from these cultures will know what I mean because we are also blamed for nonsensical things too in our own cultures...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:04 PM
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I’m mainly gonna keep wearing them because public transport here is dirty af plus I haven’t had a cold until recently (last time was end of 2019) so the mask has definitely been helping. I know in a lot of Asian countries before covid masks were common for pollution and to protect others when they weren’t feeling well. Plus I don’t really wear makeup so it hasn’t affected my skin negatively. Pretty happy and will definitely keep wearing it even after I’m fully vaccinated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:21 AM
6

I love Wonho omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:12 AM
53

I really don’t care how they feel they can die mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:43 PM
58

If I was his wife I’d be embarrassed by this tweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:40 PM
327

That was a lot of words for “I want to fuck women who don’t want to fuck me wahhhh no fairrr” Still found a way to shade older women (probably the same age as him) and single mothers too. The only women who would’ve given him the time of day. Typical...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:04 AM
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Bragging about their so called incomes is a cope for them. I’m not offended I just feel pity. But at the end of the day 99.9% of women in the sex industry are not so privileged and they should be our main focus...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:01 AM
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It feels like he intentionally wanted her to suffer until he realised she might actually die and he’d be ‘stuck’ raising the kids alone and now he wants pity. I hope she recovers then leaves him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:38 AM
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I still believe that voluntary sex workers are being exploited but there are a lot of bad faith activists that scream SWIRW but would never choose that career themselves. There are so many women like this online these days and I take it more personally when they constantly defend abuse. I don’t think they realise the long term damage this is going to have for many women and girls or maybe they do and just don’t care...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:35 AM
25

Whenever people type in capitals I just assume they are screaming and it’s really off putting. Why is he so angry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:34 AM
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People can say whatever they want but we all have eyes and see this play out daily. It’s the truth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:46 PM
106

I would laugh at the irony if the situation wasn’t so sad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:41 PM
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At this point I don’t care who spreads the message I just need it out there. Gen Z is more receptive to messages that don’t pander to scrotes so I’m hopeful...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:24 PM
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I’ve heard so many stories of women who dated cops getting harassed by both them and their work colleagues whilst they’re on duty. Unhinged af and they never get held accountable for it either...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:31 PM
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My old housemate dated an Indian guy (she was Asian but not Indian). I hated his guts he was disgusting and entitled af. He would physically fight her and gave her bruises, refused to tell his family about her, would constantly put her down and made her get an implant because he didn’t want to use condoms anymore. I don’t recommend dating them at all the ones that grew up in the West are even more narcissistic. Avoid like the plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:57 PM
4

I hope this is fake but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was real yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:47 AM
72

Since I started dating seriously I haven’t had to pay for any date and I’m from here (live in London). There was no pushback and I didn’t have to force them they just did it. I wouldn’t say there was a method to it I think it really just depends on the guy. But I am really picky and probably just lucked out even if it didn’t work out with them they have all been very pleasant experiences. I don’t drink and don’t like coffee much and make that known so they knew I wouldn’t be interested in a bar …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:21 AM
78

Looks like the UK and doesn’t surprise me one bit as someone that lives here. Of course the train guard didn’t help 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:12 PM
94

Men buy a 50% off suit from the outlet store and think they’re a king it’s so embarrassing. The comments were so funny with men saying older women are just jealous meanwhile all the younger women were saying they’re not interested in helping him run his ‘kingdom’ 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:12 PM
29

Paid for dates he asked (literally pestered) me to go on the gag is he would take my money and use it to pay so it didn’t make him look bad lmao. When I said I wasn’t interested in sleeping with him (was still a virgin at that time) he became hostile and I peaked instantly. Will never go through that again spent money on gifts, dates even cooked for him got no reciprocation at all. We were both university students too to make matters worse. Never again...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:09 PM
4

That happened to Saweetie and they blamed her for Quavo cheating on her smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:23 PM
27

That happened to Saweetie and they blamed her for Quavo cheating smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:23 PM
29

Exactly a lot of them are miserable but too proud to admit it. I would never try to imitate male behaviour they make such harmful decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:24 AM
6

Hey at least they’re being honest about it now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:10 AM
5

He did the right thing but I can’t help but think if it was a son he wouldn’t have reacted that way lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:36 PM
11

Didn’t internet porn used to have a paywall in early 2000s? I doubt they would be able to bring that back and regulate it since amateur porn is everywhere and mainstream porn spreads through internet piracy. Don’t even get me started on the dark web. ID access could work although I’m not very optimistic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:40 PM
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I mean she looks happy but I just hate she probably put so much effort asking for this kind of date with him probably shutting it down until he found a way for it to benefit him and so that he could humble brag...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:48 PM
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I don’t have experience with this kind of thing but doesn’t buying a house after being together for only 2 years seem a bit risky? They aren’t married either and clearly neither wants to make a sacrifice in location (both want to be close to their families). Seems like a bad idea...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:33 PM
72

This was my thoughts too, I wouldn’t be surprised if this was the case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:00 PM
15

^ this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:44 PM
25

Upvotes and karma don’t mean anything in the real world so this is a non-issue to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:41 PM
134

Maybe he should go and buy his own place to move into instead of leeching off her since ‘it’s not her job to provide housing for him, he is an adult’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:26 AM
36

I still like makeup (prefer skincare much more) but I’m not blind to the reasons why I wore it especially in my pick me days. I think being defensive about it and parading it as ‘empowering’ is counterproductive...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:21 PM
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Any sign that you might be better than them in something brings out the bitterness. It took me years to realise how many lvm were actually competing with me and they weren’t even in my thoughts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:57 AM
4

I have 4b hair and this has been my experience too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:54 AM
45

Exactly! It’s pathetic that they get so much pity for their shortcomings too but I’m not surprised...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:57 AM
260

cooking is a genderless skill btw :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:47 AM
46

Skincare is important to me as in actively cleansing exfoliating and toning the skin. There’s so many guys in their 30s with blackheads and dull sagging skin already because they never bothered to have even the most basic skincare routine. Other dealbreakers: being severely underweight or overweight, unkempt hair/beards, poor dental hygiene, dry ashy skin (basically never lotions) and long nails (fingers and toes). My type is generally 6’0+ with dark hair, a groomed beard not too muscular but wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:10 PM
119

The women in Tel Aviv know what’s up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:56 PM
23

I think this is fair. I can do most of these things for myself so why would I date someone that can’t?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:35 PM
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I was reading a post not here but I think another board about how women should tackle misogyny and I’m paraphrasing but a big part of their argument is that you should attack men where it hurts and not spare them. So report them to authorities and press charges for hate crimes, contact their places of work, their families/loved ones etc. Make them realise the consequences for their actions and we might start seeing some progress. Just saying to a man ‘hey they was kinda sexist you probably shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:32 PM
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I like to wait until these pornstars retire before hearing their thoughts on things. When they’re active they just recite the pickme script and try to convince themselves that the losers that jack off to them actually care about them as people lol. Lana Rhoades becoming anti-porn after retirement was really interesting to me and I don’t think she will be the last to come out about it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:22 PM
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“Does he think I’m hot?” “Why does it matter if he thinks you’re hot if you don’t like him?” 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:08 PM
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I don’t think he’s trash but they’re clearly incompatible. I wish she kept her cool in the messages but OP also conveniently cropped the convo so we don’t know what he actually said. I also think if you ask someone on a date (I’m just assuming here because I feel like this was probably their setup for the previous 2 dates) you should pay regardless so for him to suddenly ask her to pay was not a good sign really...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:35 PM
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I’m happy that she figured him out early and didn’t take the bait. Good for her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:16 PM
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It’s really not worth it and it’s a shame the overall pushback on sex work isn’t that it’s degrading and dangerous for young women. Most men are just upset/jealous that a regular woman might profit from it somehow (even though most of them don’t).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:12 PM
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I don’t think rejection is a big deal I just don’t like how men lie about them liking this kind of thing because they obviously don’t. They either feel ‘emasculated’ or claim the girl is desperate so they lose interest or they use you pursuing them as an ego boost to ask the girl they actually like on a date. Seems like a waste of time to me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:26 AM
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He’s been brainwashed by the scrotesphere and thought this garbage would work irl lmao even the most extreme pick me would’ve rejected him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:36 PM
23

If it gets them more matches then that’s fine, they always tell on themselves after a month of grifting and not getting what they want...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:53 PM
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Yup. Hollywood tried to so hard to make us believe younger women would go for someone like Adam Sandler or Seth Rogen. But look at the type of men who actually get the most attention from younger women. They are always objectively attractive and closer to their age. I always laugh at how jealous men get since kpop has taken off in the West. They’re youthful even if they’re in their late 20s or even 30s. They have nice faces, good skin, intact hairlines and toned bodies. It makes perfect sense th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:31 AM
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The homoeroticism is on another level it’s so funny everything they do and say (even the women they date) is for male validation. Do men even have an identity of their own these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:20 AM
29

They’re always crying as if this whole website isn’t their echo chamber. They should stfu...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:14 PM
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This is why I always say you should humiliate men if they don’t pleasure you. Don’t protect his ego or fake orgasms you’re the only one losing out...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:00 AM
20

I had an interview last year and the male interviewer flat out told me if I get the job I’ll probably get paid less than the male employees so I should get ready to negotiate. I was so pissed it’s not a myth at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:54 PM
22

I just don’t get how we can all agree that child labour and slave labour is exploitative and highly abusive but sexual labour is okay?? What??? As a progressive it really upsets me. What do these people actually believe in? They can’t even stay consistent in their supposed values...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:10 PM
32

This 100% is the way to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:02 PM
26

And they say FDS is the problem... This isn’t even the first time this has happened it’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:15 PM
27

If you’re not attracted to them just don’t give them a chance period. I’ve tried and from experience it’s hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:13 AM
17

This happened to me! Luckily the guy was still pretty handsome but he looked so different from his pictures it was so weird...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:39 AM
6

I’d love to see Deborrah Cooper and Gail Dines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:58 AM
2

I feel like this applies to sexually repressed (because of religion, upbringing etc.) men much more but even the most ‘chill’ guys start acting weird if you get intimate too early with them. It’s so ridiculous...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:36 PM
4

Great news!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:01 PM
15

Men are so emotional ahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:58 PM
94

Idk how this became the norm it’s really weird hearing women reduce themselves like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:16 PM
11

Wait people still use Snapchat??!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:38 PM
35

I wish there was a way to criminalise these kind of acts. R-pe, incest and cp simulation has been a loophole predators use to indulge in these grotesque fantasies and not face consequences. I highly doubt it stops them from acting these things out on victims in the real world either. It’s just really annoying seeing women encourage this and join in. I understand some have gone through trauma and think acting this way might get them some validation but we can’t ignore the selfishness of it all. D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:08 PM
28

If they can’t use us sexually they will always find another way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:00 PM
4

Yeah I wouldn’t worry too much I’m in this 20s age group too and most on social media don’t care about this anymore. We’re more concerned about making money and enjoying ourselves. I think berating and judging women who are worried about being single is counter productive though because there’s nothing wrong with wanting a relationship either...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:54 PM
51

Kevin Samuels is a washed up old man with multiple failed marriages why would anyone take advice from him ahahaha. Even male viewers have admitted he’s scammed them in the past. Not that I give a fuck what these weirdos think about FDS anyway they’re just upset this is the one place that they can’t mansplain us to death...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:58 PM
61

It’s definitely a lie it was always the guys in their 20s waiting outside schools for minors to hit on. They think we forgot...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:19 PM
53

Humiliating them, as messed up as it is generally works for me. I shamed my dad for not being able to make ramen for my sister because he was too lazy. You know that thing men do where they mess it up so you get frustrated and do it instead. He did it one too many times and I caught on. When he asked me again I just laughed in his face and said “How can you not know how to do it the instructions are right there on the packet. Even an idiot can cook ramen. I’m sure you’ll figure it out”. Then I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:16 PM
27

And they’ll lie about their age to get with the younger girl too. It’s comical...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:07 PM
212

What happened to taking responsibility and researching who you date/sleep with. I guess their dick >>> logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:55 PM
24

Yeah I know what you mean. Definitely think OP was joking though it was the ‘let’s elevate our men’ and ‘you are kings’ for me that’s like textbook pick me language that gets mocked on twitter these days haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:11 PM
37

I have a feeling this is satire lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:03 PM
41

The fact this type of thing is normalised is so scary to me. I can’t unsee it now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:05 PM
16

Yeah...no this isn’t worth congratulating at all he’s doing what he’s supposed to. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:44 PM
19

Anyone that comes running to get validation from a man who looks like he hasn’t showered in months needs to reevaluate their life. Most men can’t tell the difference between a woman that is ‘natural’ or ‘glammed up’ anyway because they’re dumb as shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:21 AM
13

I can orgasm multiple times by myself though? Why are we protecting the feelings of men who are purely just shit at sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:02 AM
62

Do what makes you feel comfortable obviously but definitely do not fall for this whole ‘we need to figure out our sexual compatibility’ shit because men will fuck anyone that’s available even when they know they don’t like them. Having sex before marriage will not guarantee he stays with you or commit to you in any way. It’s a scam that many women have fallen for already...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:04 PM
13

I’ve heard this quite a lot so it’s probably true. However, I’m an introvert and would prefer to just use that money and invest in a personal gym at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:21 PM
62

I don’t have anything in common with a man twice my age. It wouldn’t be beneficial to me in any way. My limit is 30 and even then I’m being generous because a lot of these guys start expiring by 32 now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:48 PM
15

I just got a new job after grad school and my salary doubled I’m so excited to start saving up to buy my own place and invest. True financial independence is my dream and I’m getting closer to achieving it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:01 PM
36

Yes it’s our fault men are lazy entitled and lack ambition /s Ahahaha do they even hear themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:56 PM
138

🎻🎻🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:51 PM
36

Run for the hills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:49 PM
26

My mother conceived naturally at both 41 and 45 so I don’t know why people act like it’s impossible after 35 it’s definitely a lie...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:09 PM
369

As soon as he started ranting about her getting a PhD even though she has a career I could sense the jealousy lmao. It’s not about the housework he’s jealous of his gf and wants to assert his dominance by not doing chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:42 PM
3

Sounds like a serial killer’s origin story. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:12 PM
216

This only happens when men die. Every ‘controversial’ woman that has died gets ripped apart even after death so my sympathy is limited...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:06 PM
40

If the chances are you won’t see each other again why would you even accept the date in the first place? Some people make it harder for themselves istg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:58 PM
13

Why couldn’t he start an onlyfans himself? Gay men buy porn too. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s the one that racked up the debt as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:31 PM
8

I think that’s my biggest issue a lot of these sw’s don’t realise their glamorisation of this industry puts so many vulnerable people in danger. It’s not empowering at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:29 PM
8

I really could care less if their feelings are hurt lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:27 PM
46

Exactly! A lot of these guys who complain about single mothers have sisters who grew up in the exact same conditions. There is no excuse...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:00 PM
40

Dangerous rhetoric. An unstable person might interpret this differently and use it to justify marital rape. Shame on her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:52 PM
75

I think the most important thing about divesting is to not feel like you have to have to justify your decisions for a better life which is something I feel like bw do a lot. If you constantly have to explain yourself and feel guilty you’re doing it wrong. People are very bitter and jealous nowadays but the bc in particular will always find misery in your happiness or growth. All I have to say is stay really firm in what you want from life/relationships/careers because that makes it a little easi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:45 PM
107

A 6ft+ man with dark eyes, dark hair, big hands and a big dick please. Oh and financially stable too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:13 PM
53

They’re so close to getting it. Sooo close...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:41 PM
20

They always have so much energy for the parent that stayed and never the one that ditched them. Okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:38 PM
12

This lady is a huge pick me I wouldn’t take anything she says seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:41 AM
45

People actually do this?! That’s horrible wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:40 PM
34

When a content creator apologises it’s normally in fear of losing their easy money and rep not because they feel bad so I just see it as damage control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:41 PM
10

I’d rather just not be degraded at all sad many people think that this couldn’t possibly be an option
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:22 AM
96

Calling them disappointing is enough to make them this emotional? Cry me a river
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:05 PM
12

Yeah I agree with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:12 PM
27

Social media made this even more obvious to me and it’s pathetic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:38 PM
72

Honestly they aren’t shamed enough for it (amongst other things)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:08 AM
31

The age gap example requested says it all really...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:45 PM
5

Do you mean Megalia? It’s the only radfem site I’m aware of in Korea I’m not sure of the specific link though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:58 PM
21

At this point I’m indifferent to posts like this. Pickmes will always exist and some seem very happy with that so I’ve accepted that some women will have to be left behind when it comes to these things. That can’t be good for her sinuses though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:12 PM
5

You can’t make a comment like this but there are countless subs dedicated to the graphic physical and sexual abuse of women?? Make it make sense Reddit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:42 PM
29

I discuss it with my parents and it seems they agree with a lot of the principles including my dad but a lot my age peers don’t seem to get it. Heard my female cousin start spouting ‘not all men’ rhetoric and when I clearly explained why I disagree it seemed like she got what I was saying. A lot of FDS principles for dating aren’t that different from my culture but they start to zone out when it comes to radfem stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:37 AM
13

I’ve met one but I’m still vetting him. I am hopeful though but if it doesn’t work out I highly doubt I would find anyone close to HV again online so I agree with you there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:14 PM
64

I can see the pain in her eyes that was hard to watch. I really hope she can get out somehow...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:01 AM
29

The most hilarious are the men with dad bods but no kids lol. I’m just tired of the media gaslighting women and coddling unattractive men you see it everywhere cartoons, movies, sitcoms it’s downright evil in my opinion...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:22 PM
7

If you’re unattractive to the opposite sex just say that lmao. The entitlement is off the charts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:43 PM
14

I can’t stand Abe & Preach such trash content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:08 PM
9

I’ve looked the same since I was 16 (in my late 20s). Doesn’t help that I don’t wear makeup since I’m not good at it which makes me look pretty young. I get hit on more by men in their 40s these days but I still get 19 year olds trying to talk to me which I hate. I think men (esp the old crusty ones) just try their luck regardless of age lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:42 PM
28

I’ve had this experience too it’s crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:05 PM
4

Don’t do coffee dates period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:35 PM
20

Same I had already avoided men that didn’t align with my values and learnt from traumatic experiences. I don’t hate men at all, just misogyny. FDS just validates my existing mindset plus it’s nice to talk to other women about these topics where I won’t be gaslighted by men who already don’t give af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:23 PM
38

If you need to porn just to get into a ‘headspace’ of wanting to be intimate with your partner you probably shouldn’t be sleeping with them idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:51 PM
9

There’s so many slimy manosphere personalities profiting from ways to manipulate women, so why do they even care. I thought they were ‘going their own way’ but here they are in women’s business lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:46 PM
3

You can’t get out of the friend zone, especially not with those tactics lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:25 PM
3

I was polite and he violated me. So now what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:51 PM
50

Nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:33 PM
25

Always the goblins with receding hairlines that have the most to say. But I don’t blame them, society never tells them the truth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:00 PM
8

The delusion is strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:12 PM
13

Yup it’s just another form of control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:01 PM
46

I feel like I should’ve made the connection that saying Bundy was attractive to these women was essentially victim blaming but I never did. How gross...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:58 PM
60

It’s a lie they just want fap material. If they really want to weed out catfishes they could ask for a video call like a normal person would...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:49 AM
34

That’s terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:22 PM
120

A very good response from that man. I hope OP actually stopped dating the guy because based on what she said she clearly doesn’t match his true preference. That can really eat at your self esteem it’s not worth it. I’ve seen many BW go through something like this with colorist men and it’s a shame. Ironically I experienced this kind of behaviour more with BM as a teen where they make you feel like them choosing you is an honor since no other race of man would want you plus he has other ‘options’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:49 PM
9

So disgusting. My heart goes out to these women and their families and I definitely think there was a racial element to this attack 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:47 AM
6

Thank you! Just completed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:08 PM
33

Exactly or even at the very least they would strategically position themselves so the guy approaches them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:55 AM
21

For me I’ve never believed what men say because their actions are always different and this applies to many things not just romantic relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:40 PM
6

More like two hours sadly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:19 PM
121

I don’t expect her to say anything different these men are her source of income
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:14 PM
109

You were downvoted because it was true lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:03 PM
19

Definitely will subscribe to this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:34 PM
33

This is so true I remember a tweet where a man complained that there weren’t any safe spaces for men to talk about their mental health. Another man who actually did regular talks on mental health replied that whenever he held an event specifically about male issues the majority of his audience were women and that men never really made an effort to show up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:30 PM
29

My dad does a great job with my younger siblings (cleaning, changing, feeding, teaching etc.) and works from home so he always makes sure the house is clean before my mum gets back from work. This definitely isn’t common in most millennial men of my generation though so I’ll have to vet strongly. If I don’t find a capable partner in that sense I will happily be childfree. I think accepting that is usually that hardest step for many women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:43 PM
48

She should be ashamed of herself statistics have shown that femicide isn’t in fact rare at all and even the UK femicide census showed that women are killed by men in the UK approximately every three days. These deaths are preventable and stem from the ongoing abuse men (usually family members/partners) are allowed to subject women and girls to globally. So I’m sorry but she’s completely wrong continuing to dismiss it as a rare event is much more dangerous because it’s OUR lives and mental health…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:57 PM
18

The bar is in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:15 PM
5

Exactly! Plus a lot of them know they aren’t attractive but have no desire to improve themselves because they believe they’re entitled to women even if they have no redeeming qualities. It’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:16 PM
236

This story has really haunted me and my mother. It’s even making me question certain routes I will take on the way home in the future because I live in a very quiet residential area with a lot of parkland. Seeing the #notallmen brigade online just added insult to injury. My heart bleeds for Sarah and her family. She did nothing wrong, she was just walking home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:09 PM
18

They’ve brainwashed us for decades to believe that we should settle and date men we aren’t attracted to because if we give them a chance they will be ‘nicer’ to us and it couldn’t be further from the truth. I’m just tired of hearing this bs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:57 PM
270

I love how men can reject a woman for any trivial reason under the guise of ‘preference’ and no one questions it but a woman can’t want a partner who is mentally stable and doesn’t financially/physically/sexually abuse her? Unbelievable...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:07 AM
10

I fell for this again recently thank you for the reminder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:37 PM
5

The average British person doesn’t even care it’s just the media and the biased royalists in their feelings right now. The passive aggressiveness and racist dog whistles are so embarrassing to witness...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:34 PM
1

Her anger is misplaced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:08 PM
17

He should take his own advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:00 PM
23

I always do this when I talk regardless but it’s so interesting seeing how men react to it especially narc men it’s like their life flashed before their eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:49 AM
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