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LEVEL UPCharming-Bee-2337/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:55 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYCharming-Bee-2337/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:37 PM
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DISCUSSIONCharming-Bee-2337/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:14 PM
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Because they just want to punish women and make them miserable, paying for them would be doing something nice for them which they hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:34 AM
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It's these pornsick people who have the truly negative attitude around sexuality. Porn cheapens and degrades sex. This is what Ive always said. Porn is anti sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:34 AM
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I dont get how people think theres nothing wrong with porn. Youre wasting your sexual energy on someone else when you should be with your partner (assuming they both have same libidos). Men know porn is like cheating, theres a certain subreddit thats about a fetish men have of cheating on their wives/gfs through porn. Ive seen some guys admit they wont watch porn or wouldnt out of respect for their relationship. When your in a relationship men should be focused on their partner, not on porn. Its…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:33 AM
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I suspect some of them are men who would rather be sticking their tiny dicks in another man's butt hole. For the ones who like anal, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:27 AM
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Then they should just fuck them for free, theres no stopping them.. unless its a lie 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:23 AM
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I mean we were makeup to make our eyes look bigger right? I keep seeing people say this in this sub in other threads and Idk I have big eyes and I make them into a more feline shape, I thought that was the ideal? I never thought big eyes were ideal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:43 AM
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Ive always said walk dates are fine when your already in an established relationship. But on the first dates when your not official its just low effort and shows hes not invested in you. Lol no idea why my flair changed, Ive never disagreed with anything on this sub 🤷‍♀️😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:26 AM
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But white feminism also exists. Let’s not forget 55% of white women voted for Trump last election. I dont think any feminist voted trump..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:05 PM
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Girl its my kink, chill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:35 AM
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Men have always said they like it because its the most submissive degrading thing women can do. There was one quote where a guy said when men get mad at their wife they take it out on them through rough sex and anal sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:16 AM
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I agree, Ive always been into asian guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:41 PM
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I do believe that age-gap relationships can work - for example, if you're 40 and the man you're dating is 50, Then he'll be in diapers and youll have to take care of him or he dies more than 10 years before you. I still dont think its a good idea at any age to have more than a 5 year age gap tbh. But thats on the person, age gaps where the women are in their 20s or younger are inherently predatory and thats much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:21 PM
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Like shes says in the video I wouldnt say "The guys I usually go out with take me to restaurants" instead say something like "Oh, not a restaurant?" Its more casual and they will still put together that thats what you expect and are used to. FDS also says to not even bother with guys who dont suggest restaurants/high effort dates on their own but I think its alright to make an exception just to see where it goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:23 PM
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Lol the men are always older in these situations, Ive never seen one where the woman was older even by just 1 year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:05 PM
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15?? Thats pedophilic. No one under 18 should be answering sex questions publicly for pedos to get off to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:30 AM
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He probably brags so hard to his friends on how he got an 18 year old girl.. Whole ass adult and a teenager. No way this couldve ever been an equal relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:26 AM
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Well thats still just as humiliating tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:54 AM
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Wow thats so creepy.. I hate how theyre like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:40 AM
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Yup Ive noticed that too. I avoid guys who talk like that for a number of reasons, their either fuck boys or something else. Its also really annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:04 PM
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" I once dated a guy who got a boner every time I cried. He said it was because he thought it was "cute" when I was upset, " Even this alone you should leave. Hes invalidating your feelings as a human and objectifying you. Its also a power move and he'll never take you seriously when your mad/upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:57 PM
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Exactly thiss. So fucking annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:31 PM
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They generally lack empathy, and are very perverted. Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:06 PM
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They get it from porn, women crying in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:04 PM
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Its true, they do this. Theyll say its a fantasy and doesnt effect real life but it just a lie. I saw a post on here of a guy who said he got hard when a child called him "daddy" and another one where he said he heard a woman say "fuck" because she hit her toe and he got hard from it. Its from seeing that shit in porn so much that they have a sexual reaction to it. Thats why watching that shit does desensitize them to female pain, and the DDLG shit makes them get turned on by actual kid stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:59 PM
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" What triggered this boundary for me, is thinking about my sexual experiences with boys back when I was a teen. I remember their eagerness and humility just to have PIV sex! They would literally do anything you asked (carry my bags, walk me home, take me to movies, meet their parents/friends). All of that just to make me comfortable enough for intimacy. And once they had, they were over the moon in bliss and excitement! It was beautiful and it was innocent." Yes this was the best.. The world wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:55 PM
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I honestly think screen time and youtube makes their attention span go down, theres a bunch of articles and studies on it. Being shoved youtube and Ipads since they were 3 is not going to help them. It happened in my little sister, shes addicted to any electronic she can get and can never sit still. Ive noticed my attention span goes down when Im too focused on my phone and all the notifications and social media so I take long breaks from it and theres a difference. Also sugar and caffeine intak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:06 PM
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Men just like to sit in their addiction misery and I have no idea why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:00 PM
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mindset where we fear standing up for ourselves because they could physically harm us for doing so. In public in daylight with security cameras theyre likely not going to do anything. Most creeps are cowards anyway. But in other scenarios if its dark and theres not many people around then I wouldnt recommend it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:53 PM
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In Japan they have a law where every phone with a camera has to have a shutter sound so people can hear when someone takes a picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:51 PM
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Probably his guilty conscious, he could have been masturbating to fucked up things and thats why he thought it was so bad and looked for a cure for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:20 PM
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The men dont want women to have anything because they secretly resent women for "living life on easy mode" in their eyes so they try to make life as hard as possible for women or wont try and make her happy with gifts. The women are just jealous someone else has higher standards and they had to put up with less so they try and get you to lower your standards too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:07 PM
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Idc, tbh I like the clothing equality. Most bathingsuits now for women have the ass cheeks fully out, men can wear some short shorts lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:04 PM
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They also have the right to tell the creep to delete it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:02 PM
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Also if they did pull out a gun on him theyd say how insane they were for overreacting to something so small or whatever. Theyll just say anything to blame women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:58 PM
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You should ask then how theyll feel when a big buff gay guy starts taking pics of their ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:56 PM
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Because people put Youtube under fire for pedo stuff so they changed it. The problem with porn is the opposite, no one is forcing the companies to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:53 PM
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This is why Ive never cried in front of men. Ive seen to many stories of them being turned on by it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:44 PM
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don't consider yourself a virgin at all and never tell a man that you are one. Don't give a guy the satisfaction This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:16 PM
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I just wouldnt tell him. I wouldnt want a guy to get an ego about being my first or if I continue to date him then I still wouldnt want him to know hes the only one Id been with. Personal preference though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:15 PM
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And I’d want someone who knew I was inexperienced so that they’d be more patient with me if I got cold feet or wanted to take it slow. They should already be doing that if thats what you want, virgin or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:11 PM
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So then women would also cheat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:08 PM
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I thought I was the only one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:07 PM
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Probably because they think its shows women that other women desire him and that will make her more attracted to him. Men view women like that, if they see men drooling over a woman it makes her more attractive to know shes desired by other men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:59 PM
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men will think you’re a gold digger and won’t respect you. They have a big ass ego thinking a golddigger would want anything they have to offer. Golddiggers are going after the real rich men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:28 PM
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I hate the idea that women have to go 50/50 or else they owe men something. They say they go 50/50 for feminist reasons but then will perpetuate the idea that if a man pays then she owes him something and to avoid that they go 50/50. Its still promoting the idea then if he pays for a woman then she owes him something but because they went 50/50 she doesnt. The real message should be "you will pay for me but I still wont owe you anything".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:24 PM
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Lol I doubt he calls men going for 22 year olds predators, but it shows they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:54 AM
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He wishes but really hes just a loser who would piss himself in the presence of any woman thats not his mother lol. Thats why hes acting out on the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:47 AM
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Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:59 AM
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People are allowed to criticize something, if you feel like its an attack on you then thats on you. Coming from someone who wears makeup. Its a valid conversation for women to have, do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:42 AM
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Exactly. Recently men have been bashing women for being "fake" and "unnatural" for wearing glam makeup and they say they prefer humble women who wear no/minimal makeup, thats when I started loving glam makeup lol. They perceive women who wear glam makeup as high maintenance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:34 AM
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Speak for yourself, thats really judgmental and rude and screams that youre insecure yourself. People cant control how they were born looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:27 AM
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If you let it grow out fully it doesnt itch at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:19 AM
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It would be cool to both come up with a last name both like and use that one, so instead of one taking the others last name its more equal to come up with one together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:24 PM
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Women write awful 'erotica" like this all the time unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:14 PM
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Yikes... I dont read any sex subreddits for this reason. Its always the women being submissive and its not my thing at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:13 PM
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I started shaving pubic hair right when I started growing it because I thought I had to. A few years later once I realized it was pedophilic I stopped and never went back. Armpit/leg hair I get and do shave but shaving pubic hair will always be too weird for me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:25 PM
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There was a post somewhere a while back about a male on male rape scene in a current, popular TV show. So many men piled in to say how sick it made them feel. I have always said if in mainstream porn men were the ones being humiliated, degraded and borderline rape scenes they would get it shut down so fast and would suddenly understand why its horrible. But since its women they defend it as "freedom of speech" and saying its not real and doesnt matter. The same thing applies for the movies as we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:11 PM
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They dont really care anyway, they just want to shame women into never talking about it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:05 PM
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Exactly, men werent protecting women because they cared about her as a person. They didnt see women as people, only as their property to own and make sure no damage is done to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:03 PM
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Men can 100% tell theyre just doing it for their attention and think its pathetic. I always call women like this simps lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:32 PM
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Ive seen men balding at 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:07 PM
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This is why older men love young women, theyre naïve and easy to groom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:40 PM
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Its an age gap and hes manipulating her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:39 PM
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If you dont mind, how tall are you? Im 5'9 and always wished I was taller tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:18 AM
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" One guy said "Maybe he just doesn't want his wife to be the thought police?" " Are they so braindead that they think porn is their thoughts? You know you can jack off to your imagination right? Your actual thoughts.. Porn is a material thing, not a thought in your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:09 AM
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Do they think male only subs are sexist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:04 AM
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One guy who was a "Marxist" said prostitution was fine then in the same convo said prostitution was exactly like flipping burgers at mcdonalds lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:01 AM
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Ew is men touching women in their sleep that common??? No doubt they only like it because its unconsentually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:15 PM
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Its a complicated topic, especially here. I enjoy fashion but I have a certain aesthetic and like that. I dont wear stuff because men like it or it makes my shape look better or whatever. I will admit though I wouldnt shave if it was socially acceptable, I dont shave my vagina though. Too pedophilic. Makeup is eh but I like to stand out so I do it. I used to think this way though (nothing wrong with your thinking at all) but once I genuinely got into fashion for myself and not to look sexually a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:03 PM
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Fantasies say a lot about a person. I still wouldnt trust someone with murder fantasies or rape fantasies. If you fantasize about that stuff youre fucked up. Men who are getting off on degrading women like that are inherently sexist, theres no way they watch women being tortured, beat and raped and still respect women. They can act like they do but nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:00 PM
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I remember as a teenager I tried to see if my dad watched anything like that and thankfully he didnt. Its so beyond disgusting and I wouldve been beyond traumatized knowing my dad watched that and wouldve done anything to avoid him after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:56 PM
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Yeah, its just men trying to dominate women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:01 PM
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Exactly wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:56 PM
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I mean for me big dicks are uncomfortable, I like average size for that reason. And Ive always only liked it really slow with rhythm. Plus I have to be on top. I cant stand their jackhammering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:35 AM
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Lol I never thought she had a bland personality, she was really funny. She has a youtube channel and said a lot of the things she said she was playing up the Russian golddigger sterotype as comedy and pretending to be dumb because she thought it was funny. She was my favorite when I watched that season years ago and I thought she was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:31 AM
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Just curious, what generation are you from? Im 20 but still hoping I can find a man who isnt effected by porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:38 AM
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I think it was real, she kept it for a long time even before she was famous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:25 PM
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I understand her reaction. Men acted disgusting towards her, like thirsting over a paparazzi pic of her in a tank top because she normally wore baggy clothes and said she didnt want people to see her body. When she turned 18 people were looking her up on pornhub ect. Shes probably doing this as a way to take back control. She felt like they were taking something she didnt want them to have so just giving it to them on your own free will feels more in control and powerful than having them take it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:14 PM
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These men are either full on retarded I honestly sort of believe most men just have this incompetent mental illness that makes them unable to do shit like this. Its not an excuse at all but theres no way they are all just like this. Even for their own survival they cant think to buy a cookbook and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:55 PM
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Theres cookbooks and millions of tutorials on youtube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:50 PM
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Because it shows his values. Your sexual fantasies show what your values are. He is obviously pornsick and only values living out porn fantasies instead of intimacy with his wife. He doesnt view sex as something special to only share with his wife. Why are you even on this sub if you dont understand the basics of it? No guys dont need to fuck around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:21 AM
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Arent they the ones making fun of cucks all the time? Tell them to go watch someone else fuck their wife/gf right in front of them, if not then theyre just insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:17 AM
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I grew up in the same world and still never had the desire to let a man beat me until I cry. There are less shitty men out there, ones who wont beat you so they can get off. Idk I cant coddle every woman like theyre a child, we make our own life choices. I guess I wasnt in the best mindset when I wrote the original comment. Rereading it and it seems like shes being manipulated by him. I just get frustrated when I see things like this all the time and other women calling it sexy and hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:14 AM
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No offence but this is what you get when you willingly date a sadist. It is not natural for men to want to see their partner in pain. They should want to protect you from pain, not put you in it. He doesnt care one single bit for her and its obvious. Men like this deeply hate women, can you imagine how much youd have to hate men to do stuff like this to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:22 PM
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Also making men out to be victims "aw women dont treat men as equals" sounds exactly like some redpill shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:15 PM
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Meanwhile I was never like this before him, I only became that way because of the love bombing and discard phases that made me chase after him and start losing myself. My last relationship was exactly like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:26 PM
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Why are so many men like this when it comes to well meaning women trying to help? Because they view women and girls as inferior and taking advice from something inferior is offensive to them. A #1 vetting strategy could be on how well he takes your advice or something similar. I remember when I was a teenager I was sleeping over my aunts house and her husband got drunk. She told him (in a normal way not bossy) to shut the door because there were bugs getting in the house and he went on a 20 minu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:18 PM
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Plus their 6 year old heard him call her a "stupid bitch" and watched their mom just take it. Normalizing this behavior in men to their 6 year old daughter. Nice. This guy clearly is sexist, got offended at the idea of taking advice from a 6 year old girl and lashed out. Then got mad and called his wife a stupid bitch because she said he couldnt handle pain well. Her even excusing it to her daughter is normalizing this behavior to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:13 PM
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A HVM would not want you to send them. This. Theres really no need for them, theyre objectifying anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:23 PM
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He was showing off all the hot nudes he was getting. Men cant help but brag to other males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:21 PM
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Yup exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:19 PM
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Honestly do men not mature past the age of 14? Not as a joke, they literally dont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:09 PM
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Or BDSM or some other degrading position/act
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:08 PM
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Same here, I hate morning sex but love sex before going to sleep. All guys talk about is morning wood and them getting turned on in the morning. I have no idea if its biological or what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:37 AM
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Lol a incel wrote this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:12 AM
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The top 0.73% of creators only get 11k? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:05 AM
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And I bet none of them are going to date women theyre not attracted to and get a hard on for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:04 AM
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Its already like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:29 PM
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but I will NEVER tell the guy my timeframe, because then he knows exactly how long to wait. This is super smart and should be talked about more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:12 PM
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For mainstream trends, it holds up true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:35 AM
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Yeah same here. Im glad this sub helped you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:23 AM
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These would be the same types of guys that would be turned off when you initiate sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:27 PM
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So he thinks someone must be desperate if they want to go out with him? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:18 PM
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😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:16 PM
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It can be argued that the three month rule before intimacy fuels the Madonna-Whore complex just as much as sex work does. Sometimes it does feel like that when a woman on here says "But I thought he was such a good guy because he never pushed for sex".. But the idea of it is to see if a guy is really dating you for you and not to get quick sex. Plenty of men will go on 1-2 dates just hoping to use her for sex. Its not there to appeal to men but for womens safety of not being used after theyve al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:08 PM
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Theres a video of Hugh Hefner debating feminists in like the 70s and the shit he said was so gross, making fun of domestic violence ect. He was probably laughing his ass off at how stupid he thought women were for believing porn is feminist now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:50 PM
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One day he finally confessed that he was in love with me and that he had been really struggling with his feelings because it felt “perverse”. He knew it was perverse because it was. Just cause a guy acts nice and isnt overly sexual doesnt mean he still isnt hiding being a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:48 PM
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I usually just imagine all the degenerate porn he probably jerks off too and all attraction is gone lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:35 PM
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Honestly this might sound weird but it could work and be a way to help stop having crushes on real guys. I have trouble with daydreaming and fantasy's a lot too. Basically what I do is I have and daydream about a relationship in my head but never project it onto real life guys. You just have to learn that what you daydream in your head is removed from reality and thats ok. Easier said then done I know but I havent had a real crush on a guy since highschool. I will like guys but I never have crus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:33 PM
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I just would have told them "Mind your business".. They could be doing it on purpose or subliminally because they see a woman having a career and job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:19 PM
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"now she keeps it waxed" oh ok clearly Pubic hair is not beautiful, got it. That part got me ugh wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:08 PM
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Dont send multiple messages like this, it looks like you care too much. Just block or never text him again after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:03 PM
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I hope she found FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:33 PM
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" Girl, that is not how proposing to a man works...🤦🏻‍♀️ I should know! I did it with me my husband... and he said yes(the first and second time). you don’t buy a ring for him to stick on your finger, you buy him a ring to put on his finger, then buy on for yourself." Lmaoooooo that was a comment on the video..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:26 PM
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Idk, the beauty standard has changed a lottt in the past few years. Average height and skinny/ long legs used to be what most guys liked but now its being super short and thick with thick thighs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:16 PM
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It really opened my eyes that being beautiful will not make a man treat you well despite what we've been conditioned to believe! They will start to feel insecure and neg her and take it out on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:05 PM
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If a man is actually into you he’s most likely going to be focusing on impressing you, not making you feel bad for him. This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:56 PM
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Most dudes do like the IDEA of a confident, non-passive woman True but you can also be confident and non passive without chasing and pursuing men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:36 PM
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They always act like women have to be the sweetest angels ugh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:29 PM
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Men think they're competing on controlling a woman rather than attracting a woman. So they really think a lesbian could swoop in and snatch up all the straight girls. That's not how straight works! You don't magically turn lesbian or bi just because you're disappointed by the men on offer. Wow so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:04 AM
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I thought she deserved better than MGK lol..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:26 AM
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Yeah exactly, lots of guys will pull upwards when jerking off 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:48 AM
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Most genz was given all access to the internet as well..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:44 AM
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Lol I used to have friends that would talk about if a straight or curved dick was better, is it always a sign of porn addiction or are some naturally born like that? If not then its a sure way to see if hes a porn addict or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:42 AM
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Well if theyre jerking off to the countless deprived videos degrading women in every possible way and pedophilic "teen" porn, Idc one bit. A bent dick is the least they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:34 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:29 AM
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Tbh my ex did spoil me but then I found out he resented me for it the whole time. It wasnt because of money, he just didnt like treating women well but knew he had to to keep a gf. Some guys just really hate having to treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:25 AM
1

To be completely honest, Id be sketched out if my dad told me this like.. yeah you know that because you did it or were like that??? Idk who even thinks of that. But good thing to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:19 AM
15

Yup so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:49 PM
5

but I feel I can really spot the HVM You should make a post about this, I still have trouble with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:20 PM
23

Do they not care about their girlfriends? No, they dont. Thats why FDS doesnt do 50/50 or anything like this. It shows the guy doesnt really care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:47 PM
25

Sounds like hes using her as a booty call
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:40 PM
5

Aw Im sorry. Im still heartbroken over something very similar. I hope you can get better ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:52 PM
12

Ive dated gamers and gaming in games where they can lose a lot does effect them. Like in first person shooters, it makes them have a short temper. If video games arent effecting your mood then youre fine, but I think it effects men because of their testosterone. It just does something to them. Games are made to be addictive and set off the reward system in the brain. I also wouldnt say guys who watch violent TV shows and movies all the time are fine either... It desensitizes them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:34 PM
9

Technically, kink is something arousing that's not considered a sexual norm (can change with generations and culture, what was once kink can become vanila). Then all the choking/daddy stuff should be considered vanilla now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:34 PM
26

I think people avoid using "sadism" and use "dom/sub" instead to make it sound more acceptable lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:32 PM
42

Getting off on people suffering is not the same as a sexuality.. The updated DSM is what therapist/psychologists use today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:31 PM
31

Then that would just be rape/torture... no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:30 PM
30

Yeah same, theres so many things I avoid wearing/doing my hair that way because men sexualized it in a pedophilic way. Its the same with plaid skirts/hair clips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:50 PM
8

Tbh I couldnt be friends with people like that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:02 AM
2

poor people But poor people marry for money because they dont have any 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:17 AM
27

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:16 AM
4

Theyre just trying to make these women suffer in silence at this point. Its clear they dont care about women, they just care about their agenda of making porn/sex work look as good as possible. Doing the men running those industries free reputation cleansing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:28 PM
21

Then if all women had sex with him on command, he'd still want to degrade them for being "such easy whores". Can never win. They just want to degrade women anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:20 PM
7

Do you mind telling me the song through DMs? If you dont want to thats fine. Thats crazy though 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:15 PM
10

Ive been saying this sense forever, theyd do everything to get it shut down, act like victims "look how evil women are and whats its doing to all the little boys!", and then put all women in mental facilities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:07 PM
12

This just shows the point of bjs, cumming anywhere on your body especially the face and anal are supposed to be degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:05 PM
16

He just wanted to have financial power over women hence the strippers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:26 PM
12

she was insecure and didn't like him hanging out with me alone. He probably didnt like it because he thought you could talk some sense into her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:16 PM
56

He forced her to sign the contract in blood, then said they had a "consensual bondage relationship" to get off free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:11 PM
21

How do they show their true colors? I basically do the same but was thinking about starting to date again since I have more free time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:22 AM
22

They just use it as an excuse to get away with anything. They know what theyre doing. So then they can shame whoever for not "being able to take a joke"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:28 PM
18

men we have to live around have a tendency to be cruel in very specific ways that they were groomed by society into If they were actually good people they wouldnt be cruel to women even if someone told them too..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:20 PM
7

I was a wanna be horse girl who had to stick to playing realistic horse games online lol. The hate for "horse girls" is really stupid but maybe it comes from them perceiving and then hating people who are richer/upperclass? Otherwise I have no idea what it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:11 PM
25

Men stereotype women a lot. Ive always seen men say stuff like "If she has tattoos she'll cheat on you" or "If she listens to Meghan thee stallion shes a hoe" or "If she dyes her hair shes a SJW".. Men will also have an ex that had a certain look that cheated on him then will go on to say every woman who has that same style would be like that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:08 PM
50

I dont want to date someone who even thought it was okay to view women that way in the first place. A normal guy should be grossed out by it and avoid it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:39 PM
34

"Connections of Intimacy"? Ma'am they see you as an object and a piece of ass, thats it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:11 PM
9

Yup exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:33 PM
13

That movie is supposed to be erotic.. Did it portray the spying on women as sexy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:19 PM
35

What is their obsession with Nazis??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:04 PM
9

She deleted all her tiktoks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:01 PM
3

Like damn, get a social life, have fun with some girlfriends for once, you aren't mature and cooler than people your age just because you don't drink. Young people dont have to party or drink, youre reinforcing her mindset lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:41 PM
16

Im her age and shes talking and acting like a 9 year old.. Shes way too immature even for a 19 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:30 PM
19

Lmao a guy asked me once and I said "Lol I dont have a weak bladder nor do I pee during sex" and never talked to him again. I dont get the obsession with it, it just looks fucking gross anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:40 PM
7

Yeah pretty sure its for people who have a weak bladder and its mixed with pee, other comment said " It's watered down urine mixed with fluid from our Skene's gland."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:35 PM
19

So true. Thats what I always thought the new trend of anal was for. Even in vaginal sex she would still get something out of it but with anal its pure domination to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:10 PM
28

They think vanilla is boring because theyre horrible at it or theyre afraid of intimacy. When people think of "vanilla" sex they think of starfishing because they have no passion themselves and need to hide that with doing kinks. Or they could have issues with intimacy and use BDSM as a way to have sex without connecting with someone, BDSM is very impersonal. Ive always preferred vanilla and always will. I always hated kink and just thinking about how most men liked beating, humiliating and tort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:03 PM
11

Thats not really the majority of people though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:12 AM
1

Women should dress how they truly want. Not because its a new trend that men find hot. And if men wont respect women who dress a certain way then their respect means nothing in the first place. Theres overdoing it on the actually turning yourself into an object like pornstars often do, then theres just dressing a certain way. Men with a Madonna/Whore complex dont really respect any woman if they dont respect a woman for wearing a certain top.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:23 AM
5

Honestly think it's a power thing Yup it is for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:14 AM
18

libfems are so sexist its insane how they think its so progressive.. ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:36 PM
11

I seriously dont get how they say this shit. Like do they actually believe that? Or..? No one can really be that naive of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:28 PM
127

It’s the send me a picture of your mom off the bat so I can see what you look like when you get old for me. "Send me a pic of your dad so I know when your hairline will start to recede.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:32 AM
7

worked my ass off (the boring and basic way) to get to where I am If you dont mind me asking, how did you do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:29 PM
18

She also has to wash his dick for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:44 PM
78

I used to do this as soon as I started getting pubic hair and stopped a few years ago. Now I think its very weird and honestly pedophilic. But even besides that it feels soo much nicer and more comfortable not shaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:06 PM
8

I know right. You love her, right? Well, no they dont love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:04 AM
8

Its about power, it makes them feel powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:04 AM
53

Lmaoo thats amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:08 AM
4

Eminem "foolish pride" is like the racist version of this. Lyrics: " But black girls only want your money 'cause they're dumb chicks So I'ma say like this Don't date a black girl, take it as a diss " " Never date a black girl because blacks only want your money And that shit ain't funny So I'ma say, "Look, honey Why do you do this? " " So get outta here, 'cause I don't need your ass" I said that before, but that's okay because, like I said, you're a whore Black girls and white girls just don't m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:02 AM
61

Men will always look out for other men, even through reddit. Theyre helping him get away with cheating and keeping a naive 20 year old girl. They have no reason to help her, theyll always pick their own gender to help get away with shit. Thats why no woman should take advice from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:09 PM
29

Always an age gap relationship. At this point Idk why these women dont just break up, why do they need advice from reddit on things that are so obviously not okay. Theres something about that guys response that is just beyond creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:57 PM
50

Why is this man calling sex boring? Men are guaranteed to cum every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:52 PM
5

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:42 PM
14

Its the male version of slut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:33 PM
5

Lmfaooooo ok incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:30 PM
23

No. Just a normal thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:28 PM
29

They told me that they knew those porn weren't real, were just entertainment and porn were full of lies. They can know this and still not care. Theyre addicted to the fantasy world of every woman being a submissive porn star on demand for them. It makes them feel powerful getting off to women being that submissive and degraded and theyre addicted to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:21 PM
14

"Cute cuffed teen getting pounded hard in her ass by her teacher". 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:15 PM
14

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:14 PM
26

"Reddit bois my wife is leaving me and I just have no idea what happened! I did nothing! Now call my wife a crazy bitch and say how Im too good for her to make me feel better"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:08 PM
100

Whyd they have to stop doing them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:55 PM
94

I hope you divorce him. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:54 PM
236

I used to go through nofap and all of them agreed their perception of women changed a lot. They said they objectified women more, only saw them as sex objects ect. No one who views women being as submissive as possible on demand anytime they want including getting off to women being beat and humiliated sees women as true equals. They may want gender equality because of course they cant get their porn if women are forced to be housewives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:49 PM
47

Then do that? On your own or wait until youre official. It isnt 1st date material. Its fine when youre already in a committed relationship and want to go on walks or hikes or whatever together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:41 AM
39

Men marry down because they want power over their SO. Not because theyre nice people lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:02 AM
24

Thankfully I never read that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:57 PM
28

Why not both? Dont marry someone just to marry, make sure youre happy with them but also let them know you want to be married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:13 PM
57

When youre consuming incest porn for hours a day itll be on their mind 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:04 PM
88

So fcking true. Anything remotely female or feminine is a sex object to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:01 PM
67

It means women take in the male gaze and judge and view themselves that way, like when women objectify themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:00 PM
112

They like non consent thats why. They know women with hijabs dont want to be sexualized so thats exactly what they do, sexualize them. Kind of reminds me of that quote from a man saying "men like anal because women dont".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:59 PM
32

All these regressive and oppressive things for women are suddenly being promoted as "empowering" and "progressive" hmm.. Wonder whos behind that.👨 Beating up and abusing women, porn, sex work, making women "submissives" and poly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:53 PM
3

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:42 PM
28

men didn't know what they were doing in bed and were kind of adorably nervous about it. Lol I wish I was born earlier before internet porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:28 AM
14

I always hated that joke. Its rape and incest in one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:03 AM
20

Thiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:01 AM
27

I mean yeah but I still am not doing it anyway lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:47 PM
69

Also, I can't tell you how many men have "shown off" their girlfriends' nudes to me - and these were women they claimed to love! Seriously what is wrong with them? Ive seen many posts and comments recently about men showing nudes or sex videos of them with other women to women. What do they expect out of that? Showing them to other men is one thing but why tf are they showing women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:13 PM
25

They dont, they think they own the pictures now and can keep and do whatever they want with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:09 PM
311

Then men shouldnt be trusted to be teachers. Reddit males defend this and say its wrong he got in trouble because they know theyd also do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:05 PM
143

Right people will disrespect dead women celebrities like Amy Winehouse or Whitney then freat out about "respecting the dead" if you ever mention a fucked up thing a man did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:57 PM
64

Hes definitely sus if he even thought of that in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:46 PM
37

" Didn't respect sexual boundaries " If he didnt respect your sexual boundaries then he doesnt respect you, someone who loves someone and is their best friend would never do this. You deserve much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:42 PM
64

In all of these cases its predatory. They can find and hang out with women their own age, theyre going for younger women because they like the power imbalance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:34 PM
77

This is why I say men going down on women is not equal to women going down on men. Eating pussy is not the same as putting a dick in your mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:31 PM
3

A lot of serial killers were into BDSM type stuff toy box killer, ted bundy, the one that cross dressed I forget the name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:49 PM
6

" However, a few days ago I read some comments stating that hair pulling and choking were vanilla sex " people on FDS were saying that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:32 PM
5

Porn is nothing like it was in ancient rome lol.. Porn could be a reason, it makes them lose motivation to impress and talk to women and makes them lazier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:21 PM
93

Right?? First they dont respect you enough to make sure youre into it then using spit is soo degrading. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:48 PM
14

Everyone is calling them "the worst industry plants" and calling them racist for their white guy line.. The same people who were always calling out "white guys" now think its racist lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:41 PM
45

This is why men who are into "freaky" stuff are always perverts. He admitted it himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:39 PM
40

Im sure if their gf/wife also started sexting guys then hed suddenly believe its cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:38 PM
82

Theyre hypocrites. They dont care about porn that promotes beating and torturing women because its not happening to them. They dont put themselves in womens shoes and dont empathize with women. If all the popular porn replaced the women with men they would get it banned so quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:17 PM
50

Such fucking degenerates holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:12 PM
3

Shes making millions of dollars off this, some people will do anything for millions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:56 PM
29

I just had an off topic thought. Imagine if women were the ones that were the majority of pedophiles and were watching porn of men who looked and dressed up like boys and hardcore bdsm where men got the shit beat out of them and bought male sex dolls to do that to because they couldnt on real men.. Men would absolutely use that against women in any situation to say women are evil abusers and need to be locked up ect. But we are supposed to think nothing of it when men do it. Theyre so disgusting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:49 PM
18

It reinforces it to them. If theyre seeing children in sexual situations all the time when they masturbate its just going to make those thoughts worse, theyre going to build up and hes going to get more sexually frustrated because he cant act on them in real life. He'll also escalate like how people need more extreme porn to get off over time, hes going to become bored and it will make him want to escalate it in real life more. Pedos need to die from the gene pool and be locked up, Idc. Pedophil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:41 PM
14

Really??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:35 PM
40

This makes me really hate them (the people that watch it). I cant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:33 PM
26

Yup Ive always held this opinion and spoke up about it whenever the topic comes up. Someone finding teenagers/kids hot is a pedo. Theyre roleplaying it because they find it hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:31 PM
34

Anorexia stunts puberty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:19 PM
170

Eww. For sure pedophilic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:23 PM
3

I always feel a need to ask who the people are so I know Im not supporting them or out here thinking theyre a good person, but I dont want to seem intrusive or anything. Exposing him publicly could work if you include receipts but there will always be delusional fans and death threats ect. but I would wait and try and see where it goes legally first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:51 PM
2

I like this. I honestly agree with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:19 PM
4

Keep the letter and cash it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:38 PM
86

Ugh I just lost faith in everything.. How many views does it have??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:30 PM
129

I just never saw the appeal. To me it feels like a weird power play where they can see you naked anytime they want. Even after you breakup. They could be trading them like baseball cards and sending them in groupchats or on forums or whatever else. It doesnt turn me on and it just feels like they want to make your their personal porn star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:39 AM
25

Thats really nice and well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:10 PM
6

Theres wayyy more problematic lyrics in rap songs by men yet they ignore that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:57 PM
79

Any addict wont have a problem with their addiction until it starts effecting things like their relationships or money. And most addicts are in denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:09 PM
35

This. In couples therapy they try and make the couple stay together instead of focusing on the individual and their health. Both going to separate individual therapy is much better Imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:06 PM
3

He looks like sixnine and has BDSM tattoos of women being tied up and shit so not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:45 PM
8

She should try out her own onlyfans account where she goes and fucks other men for her job and see how accepting of it he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:22 PM
10

They cant put themselves in womens shoes and will always relate to the man more and feel more sympathy for men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:56 PM
14

" Several of them also say that they approached the issue carefully because they didn't want to destroy the man's reputation" This makes me so mad, wtf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:14 PM
36

Yup exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:52 PM
19

I didn't even allow much degradation/power play. The "roughest" sex I had was fast and doggystyle, I dont even do that, or bjs. Never liked them. Still too submissive for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:01 AM
13

Yup exactly, same with "Chicks" and "Bitches". They dont see women as equal to men and cant even call women "women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:39 PM
171

Thats why they call us female incels, they think FDS is how to attract men when really its how to recognize abusive and manipulative behavior and how to filter those men out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:27 PM
32

This is what Ive been saying, we need to start shaming men for not being able to do basic life tasks. Its beyond lazy and pathetic. Then they claim men are superior lmfaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:36 PM
30

I would go to a therapist. You have trauma you need to unpack starting from when men were grooming you in 5th grade. DDLG is pedophilic but I read something where people who get traumatized will mentally stay at the age they were traumatized at. Therapy can help that and you can also talk to a therapist about what healthy equal relationship dynamics look like. For sexual stuff I would recommend stopping porn and figuring out your own sexuality on your own and not related to pleasing men. Edit: I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:18 PM
104

People who think like that are shit at sex thats why, jackhammering and hitting someone and calling them names is easy and they use it as a cover up because theyre shit at sex. It also removes intimacy from sex and a lot of people these days are afraid of intimacy or dont really love the person theyre having sex with. They also dont know how to have passion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:13 PM
103

Ones whos about to get in trouble for fucking a teenager except he really did know about her age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:59 PM
40

I dont think they even know white feminism means
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:00 AM
8

Really? What are his reasons for it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:19 AM
0

Uh Im pretty sure all women dont have those fantasies.. I dont and never did...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:06 AM
34

Is his desire to degrade women in one of the many kinks he has "god given" or "porn given"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:54 PM
45

(Also that doesn't mean I disrespect or hold in contempt sex workers or who do porn).'' Omg seriously? They respect her too much to jerk off to her porn yet he doesnt disrespect porn stars?? Sure..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:21 PM
13

you cannot become pregnant from kissing. Lmaoo I thought I was the only one who thought that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:19 PM
64

Almost? Thinking women peak at 18-21 is for sure pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:16 PM
33

Ive seen many comments about guys sending videos of them fucking other women or nudes they got from other women on matches on tinder or something, wtf is up with that? Is it common?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:05 PM
3

This. I seriosuly dont know how they think theyre so progressive while being so regressive. Its so obvious yet they cant see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:34 PM
3

Cucks still get off though..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:28 PM
15

Aka "Give men anal and bjs even though you dont get off, enjoy the fun experience!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:27 PM
104

I know this dude only pays attention to bombshell women with fake hair and makeup because women who dont get those things done he ignores because theyre not attractive to him. Men want women to look like Kylie Jenner but not be fake, they want completely natural supermodels whos also a cool girl and doesnt want money spent on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:38 AM
3

Lmao I actually like them both for some reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:18 AM
12

She should tell this advice to men because I dont want to hear this bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:08 AM
27

I also cringe at the comments where its like "Oh he cooks for me so I make it up to him and call him king and he can get it anytime hes so high value" or whatever. Like men showing love for you and taking care of you is bare minimum and you dont need to overcompensate to give back to him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:38 PM
16

The last part about overcompensating is so true, well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:06 PM
109

Any time I hear a man say "sexual compatibility" all I hear is "how much depraved porn shit is she willing to tolerate" This, It is exactly what it means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:45 PM
87

Doing his favorite porn star moves, notice how he said "good sex can be learned" he means he needs to train her to fuck like his favorite porn videos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:39 PM
39

Wtf is he talking about? People can talk about sex before they have it and figure out if they would be compatible or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:39 PM
11

Yup exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:27 PM
18

Youtube is the only social media I use besides reddit and when I read the comments I see comments talking about LVM and "scrotes" and I like to think that person is from FDS lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:26 AM
70

How is that pick me? Men fume at the thought of women not wanting men to watch porn. They love a cool girl who is pro porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:04 AM
253

" and no, it's not in the cutesie, "consensual" way that it's portrayed in porn." They dont even try to make in consensual in the porn, a lot of it is rape and thats what the "help Im stuck, oh no step bro what are you doing?" thing came from, instead of helping her when she gets stuck he rapes her. I always hated that joke. If women got off to videos of men being raped and humiliated and degraded men would call women evil for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:50 AM
9

Yeah I used to believe socialization because I wanted to believe men were still good deep down and they were just taught to be like this but yeah no way. Their need for power and dominance overrides their need to reproduce and thats why some are pedophiles. Men just really want dominance any way they can get over women and children. Rape, pedophilia, through sex acts, manipulation, abuse, coercion ect. All of it comes down to them wanting to break someone and have power over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:08 PM
8

There are teenage boys who molest little girls all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:03 PM
26

Exactly, theyre pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:57 PM
4

It doesnt mean that you only get one, it just means which one you would like to be prioritized and feel the most loved from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:38 PM
25

I can believe this is by a woman, many women are so naive to how men really are and think. They think men think similarly to women and thats why you get posts like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:29 PM
10

Thiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:43 PM
31

Yup it makes them feel alpha. Theyd love to have women chase them like groupies. Feeds their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:37 PM
7

Very true, I would say do this for any advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:37 PM
30

No, just because someone agrees with a few points FDS makes doesnt mean all of their advice is good or even okay. Im not into being submissive or acting a certain way.. She just sounds like a typical conservative who wants old fashioned traditional gender roles (women submitting just because man buys her something) mixed with being a sugar baby, thats not what FDS is about at all, to me at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:55 PM
13

What does the caption have to do with the video? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:49 PM
39

They want to encourage other women to be doormats too so they can walk all over all women and feel like the man of the world. They dont respect those women but they like it because its convenient and they get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:39 PM
28

I swear porn use makes them more lazy and less motivated to date women in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:32 PM
38

Then why are they still there? Theres one really awful youtuber that this sub recommends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:32 AM
38

That she emasculates men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:29 AM
10

I do so 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:14 AM
24

Lmao I hate when people say "if this happened to girls then theyd be in jail right now" or whatever else, I keep seeing people say that about the James Charles thing where he was texting underage boys. It is happening to teenage girls and still no one cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:06 AM
59

They want women to be with them and clean and cook for them and be their sex doll without them putting in any effort at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:08 AM
75

This only happens when men die. Every ‘controversial’ woman that has died gets ripped apart even after death So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:26 PM
14

Or theyre afraid of it happening to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:25 PM
62

Wow thats so fucked up, and they say FDS is manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:07 AM
294

Only white guys do that? News to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:40 AM
56

Always kind of confused me why porn is legal to make but prostitution isnt legal, porn is just filmed prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:06 AM
37

I agree but Im just worried the behavior will be normalized and women will continue to have kids with them. I mean look at the fucked up porn thats considered normal now and women accept it and still have children with those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:58 AM
2

Exactly! Thought I was the only one lol, I dont and have never given head. Its gross and degrading. Men should be happy just to have sex, if they push for more theyre out. But I especially never got why women blow some random guy they dont know for nothing. I seriously dont get that. I get when its a famous person but some random man??? Its extra degrading because you just know he goes around bragging about how hes the shit because some random girl blew him for nothing in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:42 AM
12

Never got why women give out head for free with nothing in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:45 PM
5

True but Id be glad this guy revealed himself early, I never want to even be near someone whos into that. Nevermind date them and end up finding out later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:44 PM
7

No he smacked her face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:25 PM
42

He does love to publicly embarrass women, he did the same to Selena. Selena says he is emotionally abusive and I agree. I didnt even hear of the smacking thing but I did see a compilation of him being disrespectful of her in livestreams, I commented that if this is what hes comfortable doing in public when people are watching hes probably much worse behind closed doors. I feel really bad for Hailey, she seems really sweet to me. She was also a fan of his so theres a power imbalance Imo. His fans…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:12 PM
9

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:08 PM
8

Omg..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:02 PM
30

Do they think women like this?? Ive seen a few comments saying that men will send nudes they get to women on OLD. I seriously dont know how they expect women to react to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:01 PM
10

These men truly think they own the images of women Yeah they do think of it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:59 PM
32

Yeah Ive been doing the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:46 PM
108

" “He rapes, but he saves,” Chapelle laments in summation, and the audience lapses into thoughtful silence upon hearing yet another testimonial for why we must take the bad with the good when it comes to men. The message is that great men are deeply flawed, and we must simply learn to live with this unsettling ambivalence." And this is why we should call out men who simp for other men. Bill Cosby didnt save shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:45 PM
32

Ew. Dont date or talk to men with kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:42 PM
85

As if porn isnt dehumanizing enough "Bunnies" makes me cringe so hard, beyond degrading and objectifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:03 PM
2

Tbh id rather them not pretend so I can stay as far away from them as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:39 PM
29

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:09 PM
45

Can you send the zoom court case to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:55 PM
55

Lmao I saw a Reddit post about some guy doing this to his wife, new trend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:15 AM
20

What??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:47 PM
60

There was another post on here where the guy admitted to putting his semen in his wifes food. After I read this one and that one I swore I would never trust a man to make me food lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:43 PM
48

Those dates are fine after youre already committed but like you said men look for the cheapest possible dates because they want to date and use as many women for sex as possible for cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:16 PM
13

Yup exactly how I feel about it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:06 PM
15

They want to think we live in an already equal society but we dont. Its not safe to go to random strangers mens house so they can fuck you because theres a risk. Just like sending nudes is also risky, plenty of men share them, use them for revenge porn, upload them to porn subreddits or sites/forums, none of those men delete them when you break up with them. Someone else pointed out that in porn men feel like they own those women because they have them naked on demand anytime they want and nudes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:00 PM
20

All so accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:49 PM
82

People like to say that women have such an easy time expressing emotions but then do that, make fun of women having the slightest emotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:12 PM
71

I mean women already have their legs and underarms, I think women shaving pubic area should go no matter what. Its pedophilic to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:09 PM
53

So he pimped out his own wife because he failed to provide for his family? And catering to pedophiles when you have a kid- nice. Kids gonna be reall happy when he grows up and realizes mommy was dressing up as a teenage girl to get men hard on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:18 AM
88

Didnt Kim and Paris make private sex taped and thy got leaked and were victims of revenge porn? People also mocked and degraded and humiliated both of them when it happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:11 AM
29

Well he cant even spell dying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:44 AM
54

They probably do. And also thats pedophilia wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:43 AM
12

Wtf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:27 AM
14

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:16 AM
61

Yet men go on and on judging every little detail in every woman and thinking they deserve a supermodel pornstar while telling women to have absolutely no personal preferences or boundaries. There was a thread a few posts back of a bunch of men saying Marilyn Monroe looked hideous without makeup..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:55 PM
70

Well porn did come right after women werent forced to be slaves in the household anymore. Men jjust wanted power over women and when they couldnt get it that way then they wanted power over women sexually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:51 PM
41

Lol if men need a male role model to not rape anyone then theyre beyond pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:43 PM
65

Men who have the need for someone to obey him and has sadistic tendencies should just remove themselves from the gene pool instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:41 PM
64

But dont guys who watch porn get desensitized and need more to cum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:39 AM
64

Imagine if there was a boysgettinghurt account ugh it would probably be banned real fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:22 AM
49

Live out their revenge fantasies on women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:22 AM
7

Yeah I feel the same. With lots of making out and going down on me before then I think its fine. If a man lasts too long hes either desensitized to sex and has had a high body count, is addicted to porn or masturbated before hand all of which I dont like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:03 AM
8

Not suprised tbh, incest is one of the most popular genres in porn. They are so beyond disgusting at this point 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:33 AM
22

Thats literally still grooming and Id hope still fucking your child no matter what age is still illegal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:28 AM
3

I bet they would start begging to do it like they beg to eat the box. Isnt that the same thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:18 AM
3

Really? I watched it mildly like in maybe 2017 and it wasnt that bad.. ugh. Theyre obsessed with it because they know its the act that degrades women, women dont get pleasure from it and its taboo and the most submissive positions for women. Makes them feel powerful .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:16 AM
68

"never ask a woman for dating advice, when you want to learn how to hunt, you ask the hunter, not the deer" That would only be because the deer wouldnt want to be killed.. If you view dating as you doing something women dont want you to do then thats a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:11 AM
5

Men love to think that because one woman somewhere said its okay then its automatically not sexist.. ugh no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:48 AM
3

They judge women like this then complain that the standards for men are too high and women are too picky and women objectify men blah blah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:44 AM
11

And then when men do want women with a mental illness its only because they say they have better sex because of daddy issues and they seek out those women to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:52 PM
11

At this point? It always was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:20 PM
34

The only thing I can think of is stuff like preferring virgins, innocence and lack of experience, obsession with younger women in their 20s or 18/19 he will eventually want to go younger, only liking shaved vaginas, school girl roleplay, ddlg fantasies, watching teen porn ect. Lots of women wont count that stuff as pedophilic but I do. I was watching a video of a man who killed his wife and for some reason I forget the comments were talking about women dressing up as schoolgirls and doing that r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:00 PM
47

They like abusing real women, thats the point. Theyll never be satisfied with dolls lol. They resent women and want to take their anger out on women, it isnt their natural sexual desires and they wont be happy with a doll. They hate women and want power over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:49 PM
87

Maybe they want someone insecure or overly giving? Like they want her to be nice and giving enough to offer to pay but will actually pay themselves because they still want to feel like a man? Men also have a thing against women who expect men to pay, they call them golddiggers, stuck up, high maintenance and entitled for expecting anything. So maybe its to get rid of women who are "entitled" enough to expect them to pay but will be more humble about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:34 AM
4

Tbh Id be worried too, seems like a definite madonna/whore effect and he wants a good girl who doesnt give it out easily. If a guy only falls in love with you because you played hard to get then they really dont actually love you and youll be having to play thse hard to get games the whole relationship. Its a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:40 AM
9

Ahh the famous 3 date rule
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:34 AM
8

Lol I thought that said Courtney Love for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:16 AM
7

Or call eachother "simp" for doing anything nice for a woman, even their own gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:50 AM
32

Or they go for strong women because they like to tear them down and find them more of a challenge to break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:20 AM
12

Ive seen men say they like fucking prostitutes because they like the power they have over them and I even saw one guy say he liked the idea that they didnt want to but had to anyway because he was paying her, so no I dont feel bad for them at all nor are they "misguided". They know exactly what theyre doing. Men going the the Philippines for child prostitutes is common too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:36 AM
70

They just want a perfect sex doll that feeds their ego by being impressed and head over heels for them and cooks/cleans for them. They dont love women at all, and dont even see us as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:10 AM
9

Tbh I always assume guys more into ass than boobs are more misogynistic/objectifying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:42 PM
46

His friends told him to knock me up so i couldnt leave. Men alwayss say its women who do this and yeah some probably do but men absolutely do too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:18 AM
15

Only gay guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:40 AM
58

No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:38 AM
150

Because they dont love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:28 AM
19

English isnt my first language, maybe I explained it wrong? I wasnt approving of it, just pointing it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:38 PM
24

They watch porn on the bus??? I swear excessive porn use must get rid of their ability to feel shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:28 PM
8

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:21 PM
10

No I would stay with a guy like that. It would make me feel bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:21 PM
57

Wow shes very high IQ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:18 PM
36

Porn kills their desire for real sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:36 PM
61

They want to feel superior by putting women down. The guys who talk about how women aint shit and women are a joke are probably the most insecure and have trouble being dependent or needing women and are trying to convince themselves they dont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:35 PM
9

This is all so true and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:04 AM
9

Yup fur sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:01 AM
33

If it were men being tortured and degraded on all of the most popular porn videos men would make it illegal in a heartbeat. But they dont care because its not happening to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:43 AM
53

They also shame us for being "boring" for liking vanilla. They think its boring because theyre shit at vanilla sex. They think its unpassionate starfish sex because thats the only "vanilla" sex theyve ever had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:03 PM
177

Its only okay for women to orgasm when theyre orgasming from anal and being slapped in the face, but if you say you can only get off on loving and respectful sex then they lose their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:02 PM
16

Porn has the same effect doesnt matter if theyre a virgin or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:01 PM
14

Pretty sure theyre talking about woke people who still believe sexism hurts men but dont believe racism hurts white people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:48 PM
26

Why are they fucking men theyre afraid will hurt them if they say/do the wrong thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:37 PM
2

Theyre like that because they view men as people equal to them so they have no problem following what other men say but they view women as inferior to them so following a woman would mean theyre inferior to women which would in their minds make them bottom of the barrel, because at least when theyre following men theyre still above women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:36 PM
60

Yup exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:26 AM
35

Because theyve been watching too much pedo step daughter porn 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:27 PM
49

is in and of itself morally neutral. Seriously..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:14 PM
277

Ugh when will people realize them taking care of those "urges" by using CP or fake CP or a child sex doll or a young looking prostitute or whatever the fuck else makes the urges more intense and theyre more likely to offend. Also pedophiles arent just people who happen to be attracted to children and feel bad about it, they fantasize about taking away and breaking childrens innocence and ruining them for life. Pedophilia is about power to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:12 PM
4

So some STEM guys who think they sound intelligent for hating on spiritual stuff dont like astrology so that means anyone would lose respect for her? No , most people dont care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:15 PM
15

libfems have serious internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:08 PM
26

They alwayssss say that but its not fcking true at all. It really pisses me off tbh. Men get away with real fcking rape all the time yet they really thing men go to jail for looking at a woman. Ive seriously heard them say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:22 PM
27

It has nothing to do about fertility lol. Women peak fertility mid-late 20s. They use "fertility" as an excuse for anything theyre attracted to but theyre not looking to have babies and settle down with anyone most of the time and if they are its only to trap the women to be forever in his house taking care of their kids. Its really just that they want someone younger, smaller and naïve so they can manipulate her and be in control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:16 PM
15

They want to be the older, bigger, stronger, richer, more in control one in the relationship. Its control issues and pedophilic tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:13 PM
43

I swear the number is getting lower, Im pretty sure it used to be early twenties then 22/21 now 18. Soon Itll be 16.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:40 PM
27

Lmao seriously I dont get why people say hes attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:38 PM
14

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:33 PM
23

Which one is that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:50 AM
49

" Men lecturing you about your OKCupid questionnaire: "you don't like anal? Uh, ok weirdo lolololol" " Do they actually say this? Lmao I usually dont like calling everything projection but that ones pretty obvious. They know theyre the weird ones for liking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:44 AM
11

Same, the thought is making me nauseous ugh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:17 AM
37

Eh personal preference but I dont want to be with a guy who ever thought porn was okay, they way porn portrays women is disgusting and sexist and I dont want a guy who ever thought that was okay in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:11 AM
16

The problem is men getting off on women being in pain and being submissive and framing it as something new and empowering when its an old regressive tale as old as time. The other problem is men and women shaming vanilla sex as boring and uncool so now teenage girls are going into onlyfans and letting men choke, hit, slap and call them dirty slutty whores (wow so very not sexist) to try and fit in and be cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:37 PM
46

Lol hes seething, shut up and go watch your step sis rape porn now Having sex is natural, jerking off in a corner to two other people fucking on a screen made out of pixels like a peeping tom is not a natural instinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:52 PM
7

They are so jealous and resentful of women. They dont want women to have anything and they want to overwork and make women suffer and never get anything in return because theyre jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:38 PM
6

They hate giving women anything thats why they dont even like buying women a meal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:29 PM
6

but secondly what would they rather this teacher walk free? Because they would do it too so they empathize with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:23 PM
9

Its beyond creepy, they are pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:56 PM
8

Im getting kind of sick of people saying "What kind of conversations is a 30+ year old having with a teenager" like do they not realize yet these men are predators and they dont give a shit about what kind of conversations they are having with their teenage gf. All they care about is manipulating and having control over a teenage girl and getting to fuck her. They dont give a shit if she talks about her favorite tiktok star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:51 PM
31

Yup, they can screak about consent all day long but its a fact that these men are getting turned on by women being in pain and now when they see a woman in pain not by their consent it still turns them on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:18 PM
15

Well it makes them horny and gives them power over women which they desperately want so bad so they dont see a problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:15 PM
45

BDSM was always men getting off on women being in pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:11 PM
15

Yeah Ive recently noticed literally today most women get off on their own self objectification. I was going to make a post about it but wasnt really sure how to word it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:19 PM
15

I think shes more so trying to say its weird how he offers and insists so heavily on buying her stuff when she doesnt ask for it but then never actually buys it. And is asking why he does that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:05 PM
6

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:03 PM
15

Never do more than a 5 year age gap relationship where the man is the older one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:43 PM
107

Its why they always come off as so jealous of women lol they want to "live life on easy mode" as a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:08 PM
29

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:32 PM
27

Stopping masturbating at all for a while worked for me. Then when I started again I got off easily without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:25 PM
4

I like to think of it that way too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:53 AM
35

She has a manager thats really strict and theres a ton of mens writing credits on that song. I feel like she likes to slip more feminist meaning into it when she did the president themed scenes. Shes always been vocal about being feminist and has went off on interviewers for being sexist or objectifying her. People think artists have more control than they actually do. Her manager is the same one that fucked over Taylor Swift. He also forced her to put a very personal song on an album when she d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:49 AM
10

What song is it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:28 AM
11

I hope you leave him, you deserve way better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:34 AM
1

Im confused what are you guys talking about? Putting your legs up on his shoulders or..? The op made it sound like hes pushing her legs to her shoulders and folding her in half.. Im confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:46 AM
4

They even say they like women wearing lingerie more than naked women. Then theyre not attracted to real women, only pornified versions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:41 AM
3

Right? That and the spanking shit, they get off on humiliating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:34 AM
9

All of these are for sure from porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:32 AM
4

I thought women get wet when turned on? Why is using lube normal then? She mentioned being tight means youre not turned on but isnt it the same about getting wet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:01 PM
0

Then skip over those posts? Not really that hard at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:43 PM
11

I would love to get the chance to tell on one of these men to their wife and see him have consequences for his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:28 PM
43

Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:26 PM
94

They really do. I let my little sister use my youtube account one time and she was watching kid videos so I kept getting them in my recommended for a while and one day I saw some video and it was of a childrens TV show character in a sexual way.. You cant have any females anywhere not get sexualized even if its from a kids show ughh. Theyre such degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:25 PM
197

No genre is free of sexist/objectifying/pick me stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:14 PM
4

Yeah this is always what I thought it was lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:54 PM
22

Those men dont like women enjoying sex but love having se with women. Its a weird madonna/whore effect except they expect all women to give into sex with them but think theyre a whore when they actually are enjoying it. Its a power play to them. They want women to please them without getting pleasure themself. Biggest red flag ever, that and when men dont like women initiating sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:39 PM
18

This. These men are going on dates with a lot of women and thats why they dont want to invest in you. Theyre doing the cheapest possible dates because theyre dating (or looking to) many women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:15 PM
10

A woman in a vulnerable state?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:54 PM
5

A normal person wouldnt have a thought like that in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:52 PM
8

I saw a twitter thread about that topic and there were a bunch of men saying they dont do it because its submissive, and others said women dont make them do it so they dont care to put in the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:11 PM
39

I dont give head at all and Ive still had guys go down on me regularly. I dont do 50/50, shoving a dick in my throat is not the same as them licking a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:53 PM
9

You dont have to only please men during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:45 PM
32

They dont see women as human so they dont care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:31 PM
67

Yes. Thats one of the reasons why I wont date anyone who was addicted in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:24 PM
96

Because they would use it against women and feminism for forever and use it as a reason why feminism is horrible and ruining society and women shouldnt be in positions of power. Thats why Idgaf about "Not all men" because you know if women were the ones causing most of the violence men would always use that against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:21 PM
4

Get banned for calling a man a loser but I bet they have no problem with people in the comments calling women bitches ect. I think its way more helpful if you message the user instead of commenting people really go through others account to see if theyre a part of FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:11 PM
38

They want to treat women like children, ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:50 AM
4

Honestly someone should make a "creative writing exercise" on one of the big relationship help subreddits where they tell women to accept their mans kinks where a woman has a with a kink for dominating men or something and make it believable and see what people say about it. Im honestly curious if the majority would have a problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:47 PM
18

Yeah because everyone under 25 is addicted to porn, thats where they get their "kinks" from. They think its natural for everyone to have at least one kink lol. Maybe its because youve never explored sex without having porn feed you a million kinks first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:37 PM
7

Exactly. Even if he has a small kink it will eventually escalate. First he wants you to put whip cream on yourself then its spanking then blindfold and then hes tying you up and then its full BDSM. I seriously have never done and will never do any kinks like that that men suggest, mainly because the thought of being submissive always turned me off and I was never into that but also If you give into one then theyll just end up begging for more until you give into that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:36 PM
9

Its literally this except men were pushing that narrative back then and now its women pushing this shit now which makes it even worse tbh. Women cant even go to other women for advice without being shamed for not doing kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:27 PM
8

Its literally coercion. The people who are so worried about consent sure love to mass coerce women to bend to every wish and kink a man desires or they get shamed and called names for not doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:23 PM
12

Men will pretend to be decent to get a gf/wife and be degenerate behind doors. Men admit they will do and say anything to get in someones pants and thats the same for getting a gf/wife too. Theyre not good people and who they are behind closed doors is their true self. Block and delete this guy, he sounds awful. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:37 PM
15

For some reason men just seem to not be able to break up with women straight up. It gets on my nerves so much. But they always play games like acting like an ass so the woman breaks up with them first or do it on the phone or texting or whatever else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:32 PM
59

Men who are addicted to porn are always going to do it secretly. Its not worth it to try and work it out or get through it with them. Get a guy who has never had an addiction to it in the first place. Men who watch porn dont respect women or view the as equals but yes there are men that arent addicted to it or watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:56 PM
20

Whew all the republican and libertarians are coming out. FDS doesnt support that and Im not sure how any woman would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:47 AM
22

Exactly, I feel like if youre a truly good person deep down you would realize women are humans too and deserving of respect from the start. They never would have done that behavior in the first place because they would realize its wrong. And I wouldnt compare men wanting pure untouched virgin women for their own ego to women wanting a man whos never abused, hurt, degraded or thought of women as less than human lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:29 AM
87

Theyre just made because "Oh noo womens bodies have actual functions other than turning me on and something to jerk off too??/ Ewww gross" or "Ewww womens bodies have functions and a purpose besides being an object to get me off??" Its like when guys get grossed out about periods and period blood but have no problem playing games and watching shows with tons of blood and peoples faces being blown off ect. Lots of men want women to be like sex dolls, no bodily functions or pubic hair. They hate t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:48 AM
250

Only incels and red pillers say "women live life on easy mode" you could say that she has it easier but the "easy mode" is 100% incel and red pill talk. I wouldnt be surprised if he goes on those forums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:22 AM
78

They just want you to follow behind them like puppies and when you dont its "unfeminine"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:57 PM
11

The way pixar designed the mom characters always bothered me. Its supposed to be for kids jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:21 PM
38

There used to be no age of consent there and they have to prove there was violence to be counted as rape. They recently changed the AOC to 15 like last year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:13 PM
82

True, when men decide to have kids they assume they arent going to have to do any work besides play with them for a few hours a week. He doesnt care that she has to take care of them by herself, or that shes overworked and exhausted. Men only care about the effects once it starts to effect them. Waah she isnt fun and exciting anymoree now she has responsibilities that I should have too but leave them all to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:16 AM
118

Exactly. I hate when they use "girl" instead of woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:13 AM
7

“you can’t blame someone for thoughts they can’t control”. Watch me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:27 AM
4

Its on youtube too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:25 AM
7

I stupidly used to have the idea that people all thought of pedophilia to be the most evil and disgusting thing there is but after being on the internet for so long I realized a lot of men sympathize with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:22 AM
20

Belle makes porn where she looks like a child, Kylie sold lipsticks. They dont compare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:12 AM
13

What I find hard lately is interacting in social circles where there is a lot of mainstream media. It's usually a bit of a shock when I hear the music they play, tv shows they watch, the off-handed comments they say, etc. Same problem here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:56 AM
25

Yeah I cut out all media for like 2 years and now Im super sensitive to that stuff, I feel like most people grow up seeing women like that all the time so they get desensitized to it and never question it but once you take a break from it for a long time I realized how gross and unnatural it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:52 AM
38

But when women have anger they for sure consider it an emotion..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:44 AM
19

Ah yes the worst kind of bigotry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:39 AM
74

More like her "friends" tried to rape her. No one roofies or pins down their friends, theyre predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:38 AM
36

I agree, same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:29 AM
20

Can you explain more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:27 AM
15

I know, I just thought it started out pretty tame and got worse over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:24 AM
9

Its way worse than gross and inappropriate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:07 AM
25

I hope hes an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:04 AM
59

" women gets raped into ecstatic pleasure by a handsome, fit, well-endowed fellow and she loves it (yes, this was 90s porn)." Was it really??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:55 AM
71

Theyre trying to make women out to be as evil as men lol. No woman ever has killed men because some other men rejected her. Thats only a male incel thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:30 PM
11

Yes exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:13 PM
31

Tbf men are literally touching their dicks while women dont have to really touch anything.. Still gross though..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:49 PM
49

They defend it because thats what they want to, theyre just not as stupid to actually say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:45 PM
195

So its okay is he sleeps around yet he cant look at her the same because he thinks she did? Dump him. Ugh I could never put up with that, beyond annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:24 PM
46

I used to look on pornfree or nofap subs and a lot of men would talk about how after theyve jerked their dick so much they will still watch hours of porn and non jerk off to it, just sit there watching it. Its like they have an addiction to viewing pornified women and watching as many porn videos as possible. Theyve damaged their minds so much consuming all that material of women being degraded and humiliated. Now this dude is definitely lying though lol, I just wanted to mention that because wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:45 PM
75

Do they think this line helps? Its the fact that they watched it in the first place that makes me disgusted Idec if they jerked off to it or not (they obviously do). But like do they think women will be like "Ohh that makes it okay then! Carry on!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:33 PM
80

They could quit if they really wanted to and for the right reasons. If they still dont see anything wrong with it and are just quitting so they can keep a girlfriend then theyre not going to really quit. Its like drug addicts, they have to want to quit for themselves and for the right reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:30 PM
101

Guys with kinks only want them because they cant get hard from normal sex anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:06 PM
83

Probably 95% of the time they make up excuses because its embarrassing to say they broke their dick from porn, or they just dont know that porn causes it but Im pretty sure they do know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:05 PM
72

Sidenote, the way they use "girls" to refer to women will never not bother me now, pedophilic tbh. Theyre clearly women not girls. (I noticed the "Lakers Girls" logo).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:01 AM
4

Im tall too and I really love it, I think tall women look really elegant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:26 AM
8

men who are obsessed with short women lowkey give off pedo vibes. I saw a post from a woman saying how she went on a date with a guy shorter than her and it felt like he was a child. I just thought to myself that is probably why men like shorter women so much I mean they must feel the same way right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:14 AM
7

I thought I was the only one who actually genuinely prefers guys who are shorter than me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:43 AM
8

Yeah I thought the same too, I mean models are tall soo..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:35 AM
1

What book is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:27 AM
12

Can't they see how insulting that is? Yes thats why they do it. Men need to have all women inferior to them or they feel emasculated. Theyre threatened by women having strength and they need to "put them in their place (below them)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:06 AM
15

Lesbians are threatened for not wanting to suck “lady dicks” in their own safe spaces.. Theyre just mad that some women dare to not suck dick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:48 AM
91

Damn he was really going through the depths of porn sites to find that lol. Id be so creeped out if a guy told me he saw me in some random porn video cause how tf did he even find it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:45 AM
75

They get so used to wanking it off to pornstars they need to find women Irl to wank to. When men start objectifying women that much they look at all women like that, as potential porn stars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:34 AM
117

Ive seen people complaining about text message posts but I honestly think theyre needed. They can provide insight and I think it helps new users especially and people looking through the sub for the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:43 PM
34

Yeah men dont pay attention to the details of women. Probably because they objectify us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:18 PM
99

They know. They get off on the fact that the women arent into it but are complying just for them. They like it because theyre rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:11 PM
420

Because then they would have to admit that they themselves do or have done this. Men only like to count violent stranger rape as rape because if they counted other forms of rape they would have to admit they did it themselves or knew people who did or encouraged this behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:05 PM
42

Women really convinced themselves that their "sexuality" is objectifying themselves and doing whatever men want to appear sexy. Thats why they think porn is empowering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:43 PM
18

don't you realize bonding through painful anal sex is most men's love language????" Lmfaoooo. They really like to convince women they feel so unloved when their gfs/wives dont give in to their degenerate fetishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:41 PM
18

but there were many comments commending the “boyfriend” for tricking “her” in this scenario. What?? Most redditors are really okay with rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:40 PM
10

Ikr they want to be women so badly. Okay princess, very feminine of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:21 PM
25

Logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:11 PM
63

Lmao men are so mad women find it disgusting and pathetic to wank off to pixels on a screen, they desperately try to convince women that everyone does it and that youll never find another man who doesnt. No, its just you thats pathetic. She should just break up with him. He clearly doesnt care about her. Its not worth the trouble, being single is better than putting up with this. You should direct message her a link to this post so she can read our replies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:06 PM
25

never understood how males act like a woman’s body changing is like this huge deal Because they dont actually love women, they use them for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:20 AM
37

Glad someone pointed that out. I always cringe when women have stories of men doing that to them and they frame it as something cute like "Ohhh look how into me he is! Hehe" like sis no... Hes objectifying and disrespecting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:11 AM
17

This is so true. I believe relationships only really work when the man is the one putting in more effort. But so many women are too nice and cant just take, they always try to pay him back or even give him more than what he gave her in return. More women need to learn this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:00 AM
9

This is such good advice that more women need to see. Its just how it has to be, men are the givers and women the takers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:42 AM
11

Yup Im definitely not cooking or cleaning up after anyone even when I marry them. Theyre a grown up and can do it themselves. Acting like him giving you the title of wife or girlfriend means he deserves all of this lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:35 AM
61

Yup I was gonna comment this. They like having power over something small and vulnerable and breaking their innocence. Honestly I believe anyone who defends pedophiles are ones themselves. I used to think pedophilia was the one thing most people including males would agree is the most horrible act ever but no, many males defend it. I would cut contact with anyone who even remotely tries to defend pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:54 AM
92

Seems like theyre projecting cause libfem is so obviously patriarchal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:46 AM
21

Does she not get what sarcasm is? If she saw any FDS posts or comments about incels needing to see sex workers because they should be absorbing all the male violence then Im 100% sure it was sarcastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:43 AM
62

My libfem friends recently celebrated defunding a rape shelter Uh what..??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:36 AM
12

Oh yeah I forgot about that but its so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:25 AM
21

Theyre pedos thats why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:05 AM
6

hunnipop series of games. Whats that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:01 AM
40

Women actually have empathy for those men while men just try to save their own asses by saying "not all men" implying hes a good one and to leave him out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:44 AM
70

Yeah they only really count snatching up a woman then pinning her down as rape. They dont think anything else is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:32 AM
25

It’s not because “men can’t talk about their feelings” I hate this one because women cant either. Women get called overemotional, crazy, attention seeking, damaged goods and whatever else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:22 PM
9

They use it to get women to feel guilty and they hope by convincing women men have it soo hard that women will want to make mens life easier by doing everything for them because "aww I know you have it soo hard". Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:19 PM
33

Yeah Its my #1 pet peeve when people use "girls" and "men" together. Either its girls and boys or women and men. Ugh. "Chicks" annoys me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:15 PM
141

If a guy thinks youre manipulating them or doesnt feel empathy for you when you cry, break up. Its clear they dont consider womens feelings at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:06 PM
109

They conveniently care about statistics until it doesnt fit their narrative huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:04 PM
14

I swear theyre jealous of women. They call women entitled and spoiled ect whatever else because they hate that women get anything. They hate that women get people to spend money on them, they hate that women are the choosers, they hate when women get attention. Theyre jealous and dont want women to have anything. And they want to switch the relationship dynamic so they get treated like princesses and women get nothing. Thats why we should avoid 50/50. It attracts the type of men who wont ever gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:45 PM
11

Its all predatory. Pedos go after kids because theyre vulnerable and men who go after vulnerable women are also predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:42 PM
10

Yeah men like this want women weaker and smaller than them so they feel big and superior in comparison. Its pathetic and weak. Men who are actually non insecure and comfortable with themselves and their masculinity arent threatened by confident women and dont feel the need to put down or objectify women to make himself feel bigger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:32 PM
8

I think hes confusing that "protector" instinct with a predator one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:25 PM
33

"dead women cant say no"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:23 PM
51

The psychopath/socio/narcissist/no empathy/selfishness trait got heavily widespread in men..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:08 PM
89

"Then Im sure your wife would love to see these messages" and send them to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:54 PM
7

Wow thats awful. But yeah its all about power and control, and its never enough for them they always want to escalate eventually. They get a taste of power and control and then that isnt enough and they need more so they go younger or go after women from poor countries ect. Men like something smaller than them to control and have power over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:23 PM
28

Yup I do too, I really dont get it. Getting walked all over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:14 PM
236

Ive yet to see a disabled woman ask for a man to finger/eat her out as an "assistant" for "release"..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:08 PM
64

Honestly most men are pedophiles. All the "teen" and schoolgirl porn being the most popular genre, calling men "daddy", all these guys on social media being caught talking to 14-17 year olds even when theyre only 21, men being so obsessed with youth ect. A lot of male celebrities have been accused of being with underage girls and some did it openly (Elvis, Woody Allen, Ted Nugent ect.), "Baby Groupies" (11-16 year old girls) were so popular back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:43 PM
14

Arent women most fertile at 25 or something? Bs excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:55 PM
12

Yeah thats what I thought jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:54 PM
35

and men are raped and abused more than women" Omg I remember this guy on a youtube comment section on a tiktok compilation of women showing how to be safe literally said more men get raped by women than the other way around. Beyond delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:40 AM
174

Old men only want young women because they like to brag about being able to bag a young woman, plus the other reasons you stated. Theres a power imbalance and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:27 PM
-10

Honestly I think the hatred of pickmes on here gets to be a bit much, like people like putting down those women to feel better about them self which is ironic considering thats what they put pickmes down for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:47 PM
33

Whats wrong with having high standards? I dont see that as an insult lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:25 PM
18

From the woman who is in a situationhip with a man who thinks it’s “gay” to go on picnics What.? Can you send me that post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:24 PM
0

Eh I dont think Arianas a pickme, she has some non pick me songs but of course theyre less known and not promoted. I like a few of Dojas songs but cant stand her music videos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:01 PM
22

Just cause something is an addiction doesnt mean you have to stay or try to fix him or feel bad for him. Thats what people dont get about addictions to anything. They cant really quit unless they want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:57 PM
33

Pedos who dont want to break the law love going for women who look really young. My friend had this problem and she started doing her makeup and hair in a more mature way and it died down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:48 PM
2

What song? And what happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:42 PM
36

when this guy started off with abusive BDSM (sorry, there is no way anyone is going to convince me it isn’t abuse just because he cums at the end), also, he cheated on you. I was gonna say this but didnt know how without sounding too harsh. She also said he treats her like an object. Hes not a good guy at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:57 PM
27

They know their man doesnt respect their hobby and want to see them happy and theyre mad about it so they lash out at you. And I hateee the trend of calling men "Kings" ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:46 PM
17

No, men are more predatory than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:48 PM
32

As a teenager you should only date your age. Teenage girls are more easily pressured into stuff and there are stories of their bfs pressuring them into weird sex stuff so I would avoid anyone older at all. Idc a 18 year old dating a 15 year old is very weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:36 PM
13

People are doing that challenge wearing thongs.. They showed one where the person wasnt because the video would get demonetized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:31 AM
8

I feel like everyone uses the app though. Especially people from preteens to early/mid 20s. Pedos are definitely in heaven with it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:29 AM
39

For natural selection to work women need to stop having babies with these mfers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:21 AM
29

They asked a university why they did not repeat a study where they would compare the beliefs about women from men who watched porn vs men who never watched porn. The university said they could not repeat the test, because there where no men left who never watched por LMFAO! Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:16 AM
51

afterwards he said he "liked that I was feisty Honestly I feel like thats one of those situations where they try to diminish what women are saying, like when a woman gets mad and the guy goes "aw youre so cute when youre mad" Its a way of asserting themselves above the woman. Dont know if I explained that right but I noticed they do that to gain power over the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:32 AM
14

Yeah, to get the women who are into that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:14 AM
23

Even the most shy men pursue women for sex/relationships... Yes I hate when they use that as an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:09 PM
15

Shes the leader of the pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:00 PM
68

Every man I met who trashtalked overweight women had a sexual fixation on them. Yup Ive noticed this too. I believe it 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:54 PM
46

Mac Miller saying "Hey dont disrespect her like that" when a male interviewer said "So when did you start hitting that?" In reference to his girlfriend at the time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omTQNWPghhc I liked it because men rarely stand up to other men like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:43 PM
12

Then you do you. But dont call other women abusive for it lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:34 PM
148

"No porn aint bad but damn we love inflicting violence on women.. Still not bad tho. But you shouldve known better"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:26 PM
77

Pick me boys, they want to feel special. If she is bitter about all men but likes him that makes him feel like not like the other boyss. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:52 PM
9

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:25 PM
7

Oh the "women are abusive for doing this thing that isnt abusive". Seriously..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:24 PM
107

They really generalize all women for liking criminals but theyre the same type to say "not all men" when anything negative about men gets brought up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:52 PM
96

Whys that a good thing? Having some random mans sperm from facebook is way worse than going through a sperm bank.. Theres a reason theyre selling their sperm on facebook rather than an actual clinic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:45 PM
34

That said, DATING is easier for women - as long as you don't mind dating endless LVM. Once you smarten up and stop entertaining men who don't have the same relationship goals and/or fetishize you and/or disrespect you, your dating pool goes basically down to zero. I literally feel like I have a better chance of winning a sweepstakes than finding a man who can actually complement my life in a positive way. Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:27 PM
268

Someones mad those "harpy whales" never matched with them. Also none of these people even know what a background check means lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:02 PM
146

You can still call off an engagement at least he didnt wait until after marriage. Men are getting wayy too comfortable with their disgusting fetishes thinking that women would just accept them and go on as normal. Keep it to yourself. Also that age gap ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:19 PM
27

What were the ones calling her out saying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:14 PM
6

rapes a puppy Wtf?? What youtuber?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:41 PM
45

Im surprised most people dont know they use a tonn of lube in porn but do that before shooting or cut it out of the video, the guys take pills to stay hard for hours and they prepare before the scenes. Women fake orgasms. Not even sure how I know this lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:27 PM
34

Yeah but shes giving this advice to other people ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:23 PM
29

No HVM would go for 18 year olds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:01 AM
39

Yeah I was gonna suggest to start taking videos and pictures of them back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:47 AM
7

Considering all the stories of wives with husbands addicted to porn Im gonna say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:14 AM
12

He thinks if they got married his porn use would magically go away?? If you were dating her and didnt quit porn being married is going to make 0 difference. I used to know a guy that always said when he got a girlfriend he wouldnt need porn anymore, he eventually got one and kept on being addicted to porn. Its not going to magically go away. Hes also clearly trying to guilt trip you. Wahh I treat my gf badly feel bad for me plss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:07 AM
3

Yeah women get addicted to porn too, or they try to fit in to seem cool and sexy. I cant find anyone male or female against that shit except my sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:49 AM
18

Well they obviously lie. Excuses to guilt someone into giving them sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:37 AM
27

Watching porn is cucking yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:36 AM
9

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:34 AM
31

They say they do to make themselves look better but do they actually? Probably not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:07 PM
6

I hate when they assume shit like that. I used to never wear anything feminine because I didnt want people thinking I was submissive but honestly I dont give a fuck anymore. Theyre so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:38 PM
8

Who truly cares about him? His racist family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:14 PM
3

You being addicted to porn probably has something to do with being into bdsm..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:58 PM
45

They just hate women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:01 PM
28

If he didnt see anything wrong with that hes just as guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:57 PM
22

"Women are like children so that means they should cook and clean up after me cause I cant"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:51 PM
10

And they hate to be reminded that women (should?) hate this kind of sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:20 PM
10

That fake incest porn is already one of the most popular so..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:15 PM
3

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:13 PM
5

Did he actually say that? I dont feel like reading this whole thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:10 PM
20

"Dont kinkshame me but Ill shame you!!" The least they could do is also respect people who dont do kink but no, they cant even do that. They 100% pressure women into it by making them feel uncool and prudish if they dont, Id count that as coercion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:05 PM
62

He also admits women in porn are portrayed as objects and I “fuck dolls” if The fact that men view women theyre sexually attracted to as dolls and objects disturbs the fuck out of me. Why cant they just see people as people. Makes me so mad, theyre the ones that are sex negative and ruin sex with that stupid shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:51 AM
4

empowering sex work is and makes women feel sexy Wow..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:40 AM
21

Its like saying anti capitalists are against anyone who has a job instead of hating the people at the top with the power over everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:36 AM
116

He was expecting her to magically change her mind lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:53 AM
100

Lmao he goes off on you for telling women what the can and cant do then shames you for not betting beat up and humiliated during sex. Theyre the ones who think vanilla sex is boring because they have no passion and they cover that up with extreme acts. Men who are horrible at normal sex cover that up by hitting and tying up women and expecting them to like that, its so easy to slap someone and call them a whore and jackhammer into them instead of actually putting in work to be good at sex and ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:19 PM
48

Its just common sense, If I got off to a bunch of different men while I was in a relationship Id be way more likely to have the compulsion to cheat. Same goes for guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:50 PM
2

(the sub (being "bottom") gets praised by the dom) Uh that should be the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:26 PM
4

Plus guys would never take disrespect like that but women are expected to. Its normal to not want to be degraded and disrespected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:22 PM
5

Yeah Im sure men made porn popular right as they werent allowed to have power over women in the home anymore so they chose to have sexual power over women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:17 PM
66

Theres a sub where its just videos of women getting beat up and its fairly popular and no one says anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:48 PM
20

She should start following and liking a bunch of male models with their shirts off and see if he gets "insecure".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:14 PM
56

They actually already say that with open and poly relationships, they think monogamy isnt natural and people need to get over their "insecure and jealous" feelings and Ive seen people say monogamous people are controlling with jealousy issues..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:07 PM
127

They get off on degrading women, not empowering them. Yet women convinced themselves that being degraded is empowering lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:37 AM
47

"I get turned on stuffing a man in a suitcase". Wheres this from.?? They like stuffing women in suitcases now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:36 AM
2

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:30 AM
6

The perfect example of this was a post here, where a woman said he ex had dropped a packet of banana laffy taffy at her door with a note saying "You said I never listened to you, but I did, so I got you your favorite laffy taffy", she added to her post "my favorite laffy taffy flavor is strawberry" Lmfaoo whyd I laugh so hard at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:29 AM
26

Do they really find old gross men throwing scraps of money on them empowering..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:31 AM
82

And then these are the same guys who will say not all men and to stop being misandrist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:18 AM
23

Yeah I think so too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:02 AM
66

When I went to search up this post I searched "men are absolutely amazing" and the first result is a porn subreddit of "a place to observe sexy girls flashing their private parts"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:40 PM
42

Yes women can be sexist too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:29 PM
30

And a bunch of them complaining about women not pursing men lol. Its obvious they just want to put 0 effort into a relationship. One even admitted he just liked the ego boost of someone wanting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:06 PM
47

I read the whole post and seriously?? What media is he watching? The idea that women can freely express their emotions and men cant is stupid. Women get shamed for having emotions all the time. Too naggy, over emotional, crazy bitch, men call other men pussys for crying because they see women as weak for crying ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:40 PM
37

"girls" he must be young lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:26 PM
19

I always had the theory that cuckolding was really submissive to the woman in the scenario and he just confirmed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:09 PM
172

We should start calling men like this out for being pick mes to other men. Maybe thatll get them to realize how pathetic it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:05 PM
75

I seriously believe men are sexually attracted to cars because wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:03 PM
29

They use it as an excuse to objectify women and look at porn or check out other women during a relationship. They think women are emotional and men are visual and that means men only care about looks and women like the emotional aspect. Its weird, outdated and no one should ever fall for that excuse to just objectify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:24 PM
12

Its weird. If he wants to see me we can meet up in person. Im not wasting my time with this shit. Like other comments have said its a power thing and they do get off on it. And it will eventually led into them asking for nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:58 PM
15

Last time I went on OLD was 2018 too, I wonder how it changed so much in just two years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:45 PM
11

Yeah exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:03 PM
52

Calling women "ass". Shame used to be a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:52 PM
53

They want to hurt people consciously which makes them worse than animals in my eyes. Humans have a conscious and they chose to hurt others to feel power, animals do it out of instinct. I dont buy for a second that men or people do it out of instinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:37 PM
4

I dont go on any subreddits besides this one anymore, and Ive cut all media besides netflix and youtube out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:01 AM
12

Wow I cant..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:58 AM
12

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:49 AM
40

Idk since I dont and wont cook or clean for anyone, not even if im wifey lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:33 AM
36

Women are shamed for wanting anything. Men dont like when women in their eyes are "entitled", and spending another mans money makes her entitled to them so they have to humble women to accept whoever and whatever for nothing For the women its because theyve been shamed into having no standards so they dont want other women having any either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:11 AM
29

Jfc.. Bjs in an alley with a guy you just met?? Self respect is a thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:04 AM
8

That last paragraph is so true wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:54 AM
4

But yeah FDS is the female incel sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:23 AM
12

I saw a tiktok calling out that the Manchester attack at Ariana Grandes concert was also misogyny based and no one reported on that and instead used it as leverage for their political beliefs about religion and immigration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:41 PM
13

What libfems call "white feminism" is just liberal feminism . Thiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:37 PM
61

Men absolutely know what consent means. They just dont give a shit about women. They would never let someone do something like that to them, theyre just privileged enough to never have to be on the receiving end of it and dont care about women enough to not do it, and they get off on feeling powerful. They only do other forms of rape because they know it likely wont get them in trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:09 PM
39

Yup, people always take mens opinions more seriously .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:46 PM
49

You can redeem a free award but its a random one and you have to give it out in 24 hours, its probably that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:06 PM
77

Because in that type of porn its the degrading acts theyre doing that they get off on, not the actual women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:41 PM
5

Pretty sure hes saying he thinks the value of her sexuality goes up when shes a virgin or hasnt slept with many people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:04 PM
64

Theres the "Oh but I definitely dont mind that my bf objectifies other women with his buddies Im so totally cool with that" never fails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:46 PM
3

Women think this is quirky and funny.. I absolutely hate the daddy thing ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:17 PM
13

Yeah youre right but it gets to a point where there are no women in the music industry that arent being objectified 24/7. I like that women are being more sexually direct in music now but Imo it gets to a point where its just objectification. They all have surgery to have huge unrealistic hour glass bodies and are showing them off 24/7. And I kinda hate the obsession with ass now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:14 PM
8

I dont get it either.. But Ive never honestly looked at an old man and found any of them attractive so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:22 AM
3

Can you send me posts like that? Thats crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:56 AM
15

They seriously cant fathom that that would be gross and uncomfortable without having it happen to them first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:13 AM
228

I used to have a screenshot of a gay man saying he was only attracted to women in porn because he liked the power imbalance and something about him liking seeing women being humiliated and would imagine that after the scenes the porn actress would go home feeling humiliated and cry in the shower trying to scrub it off. I wish I could find the screenshot again It just showed how men who watch porn really feel about women and that men are more attracted to degrading women than actual women, I feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:23 AM
57

Its the fact that the other party still did that to someone. Like the murder thing, it doesnt matter if the person wanted it the point is someone was capable of murdering another person. Also people recognize self harm and suicide are not okay and the people who want that need help. It should be the same way with someone who wants to be abused sexually. People should also think about why these men want to hurt and do that to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:05 AM
20

What did she mean by that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:48 PM
127

Men of all generations do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:47 PM
20

They say having sex is a biological need but if it were so would actually reproducing and having kids. In biology having sex = having children, so if it were a need for them theyd also want to have children along with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:38 PM
31

Yup its right, the type of music and lyrics we listen to effect us and how we behave and what thoughts and actions we find acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:35 PM
36

They like taking powerful female characters and degrading them because they cant stand it when they perceive women to be above them, so they have to bring them down below their level. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:30 PM
68

I saw this comment: " It is strange how it seems any and all film, TV, music, books, etc. can all be criticized for expressing sexism or misogyny, but not porn. The littlest sexist remark gets shamed amongst my feminist friends yet he can totally degrade his GF in the bedroom as long as she consented. Why is this one area untouchable? In the second wave there was plenty of criticism and analysis going on. It sometimes went too far but now the pendulum swung WAY too far the other way." And I thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:26 PM
3

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:01 PM
33

There was a post about a man wanting to break up because he found out her hair color wasnt natural, men will break up over the smallest things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:22 PM
100

They only worry about getting falsely accused because theyve dont some shady stuff and dont want to get caught. Otherwise they wouldnt have anything to worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:52 PM
132

What des NAMALT mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:46 PM
3

cowgirl Cowgirl is so performative I feel like, its awkward and uncomfortable trying to do that backwards. Ive had the most orgasms just getting on top regularly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:12 AM
25

Because theyre so used to being able to do whatever they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:51 AM
29

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:49 AM
9

For example, apparently a girl who was a user here got dumped by her BF for being mean to him and he left her in Mexico, and she made a post complaining about it. Like yeah if you treat your SO poorly he will likely not value you for being independent but rather break up w you? its irrelevant tho If a guy is willing to leave her in a country just because she was a little mean to him then he obviously didnt really love her at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:14 PM
30

Tbh probably porn has so much to do with this. The male brain gets “tricked” subconsciously that he is having many partners. He therefore doesn’t feel the need to put effort into any woman, and expects sex to come after 1 walk date with a 10/10 model while his ass is a 4. This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:06 PM
41

she has go help her son work through getting bullied for not watching porn even though he’s really young. What??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:37 PM
128

" “tRuE EqUaLiTy, tHiS iS wHaT wOmEn wAnTeD!!!!!!1 " Men who say things like this and "Oh but I thought you were a strong empowered independent woman right?" just want to get back at women for wanting equality, theyre trying to get back at women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:17 PM
79

" HOWEVER Three of my ex’s have followed the same pattern of trying to push me into doing things I explicitly said I never want to do. I’m going to show you how to maintain your boundaries with this type of man (booo hiissss). " Dont. Just break up and dont look back. Any man who pushes you to do anything is not someone who deserves to be with you at all. A good man will respect your boundaries the first time and never ask or try to push them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:13 PM
1

I dont want to sound rude or anything but that mentality is not healthy. Does that mean in relationships you have a desire to cheat because its "forbidden"?. How does someone even have morals if they feel a desire to do everything they think is wrong.?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:31 PM
23

Omg..he had a fetish for it.. think I gonna throw up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:11 PM
22

Ew this is the worst one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:00 PM
4

“Ladies is pimps too go and brush your shoulders off” Uh that doesnt sound like a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:46 AM
5

Lmao fixme sadbois
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:44 AM
3

mixed with old-fashioned morality How so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:48 AM
17

Why is there such an obsession with being sexually empowered over, say, financial or career empowerment? Because they want sexual validation from men and when they get that it makes them feel good and thats why they think its "empowering", because it makes them feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:42 AM
18

No need to apologize, I get that it can be too much and gets depressing after a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:24 AM
42

Of course there are better men than this but dismissing this as men whove never touched a woman in years is coping, men in the real world who are popular with women do use them for sex and string women along. The tactics are still good to know so theyre less likely to work on someone if they know what to look out for. Red pill and PUA tactics are common and a lot of men will use them without even knowing what the red pill is, it just exposes the tactics online. Its not misandrist to be realistic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:21 AM
91

He should be an ex husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:47 PM
6

Is that a threat.?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:25 PM
53

People always focus on problems men have with their mothers but honestly Ive never met a guy like this that didnt have a horrible relationship with their father or have a father act like this and they learned it from him. I think it has more to do with them having daddy issues than mommy ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:11 PM
8

Maybe recommend her to read some of the books that FDS promotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:02 PM
154

Honestly I wouldnt tell them youre a virgin right off the bat either, some guys will do anything to take a womans virginity then lose interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:42 PM
9

You know they have no problem with women going down on them. Ive seen men say they dont go down on women because its submissive.. Its a red flag to me. Eating pussy is kinda vanilla anyway..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:40 PM
8

They talk like this in that podcast?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:06 PM
30

Belle is famous. She was one of the first "egirls". Normal women will never make as much money as her and theyre delusional if they think they will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:28 AM
7

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:26 AM
44

Shes all over the internet, her future kids will 100% be effected by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:25 AM
81

“exciting, in a really sort of dirty way”: So he gets off on stalking women, got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:20 AM
73

This is who they compare FDS to. "Female incels" your ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:18 AM
2

Nope. Im grossed out everytime I see some anime girls and theyre always in some weird submissive pose with big tits. (I was looking up pictures of My Little Pony with my sister so she can pick one to print out and some weird anime girls showed up in the images) Pretty sure all guys who watch anime also watch hentai. Theres pedophilic tones in anime and I dont like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:24 AM
26

She was asked about prostitution and she said she was all for it especially since it’s the only way some men can get laid so imagine what they’d be like if they didn’t have an outlet for their sexual aggression. Then why arent men legally considered animals? If theyll rape/murder if they dont get laid why arent they all being locked up then? Such a stupid excuse and I have no idea how you can still like men after thinking they need to rape prostitutes for money so they dont go killing and raping…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:12 AM
20

A man who sees a prostitute and makes her do his fucked up kink is a disgusting man and she should divorce him anyway. Hes basically suggesting men need to either force their wives to do their kink and if they dont theyll threaten to go see a prostitute and make her do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:58 PM
25

They dont have empathy in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:55 PM
30

Libfems want to pretend that men and women are the same so they can say "See men and women are the same, that means we are equal!" so they pretend to like the same things as men (hookups, kink, porn, stripclubs, sex work). They think the way to get equality is to convince men that women are just like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:48 PM
8

What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:31 PM
23

Same thing happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:34 AM
15

Its not a compliment, just some just needing to show dominance over you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:44 PM
19

There was a study a while ago saying narcissism is on the rise. Something to do with social media lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:23 PM
51

"FDS isn't going to smash the patriarchy, it's just going to alienate men, it's just going to create a more toxic rift between the sexes" Do they think "smashing the patriarchy" wouldnt divide the sexes anyway? Do they think men will be happy to give up their privilege for women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:11 PM
29

Men will literally break up with women over their hair color. Never let anyone tell you blank reason isnt good enough to break up over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:00 PM
18

Wtf.. Really???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:57 PM
16

Wow I forgot about that lol but pretty sure it was proved fake anyway lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:17 PM
20

Men want to take over feminism so the attention is back on them always. They want to take attention away from womens issues and put it back on mens issues even in feminism. Some sort of infiltration to make feminism about men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:08 PM
19

They just want to be victims of something so badly so they can have more attention on them instead of womens issues. They love making feminism about them, and they succeeded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:05 PM
69

Ugh 18 year olds, I swear most of them are pedophiles and no one cares because its "legal". All their fucking teen porn disgusts me and no one else outside of here seems to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:44 PM
49

Theres no women on that website lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:41 PM
28

Did he skip 6th grade grammar classes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:41 PM
1

guy thanking me for my input on a relationship sub, where he said the vast majority of commenters were just being assholes, and he was grateful for my perspective, So why cant he just reply to your comments in support of you instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:14 PM
44

I want someone to deepfake all their faces into some kinky gay porn and see how they like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:20 PM
158

I used to be pro-porn simply because of how normalized it is, nearly every guy my age has been watching it since they were 10. Im pretty sure most women who are pro porn are only like that because its easier to accept that rather than face the reality of it being degrading and humiliating to women and the fact that almost every guy watches it feels hopeless to go against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:46 PM
11

Uh why not both? A man cant push a cart and also buy you flowers??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:17 AM
35

So hes somehow bragging about settling? Never gonna be happy if you dont go for what you really want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:11 AM
19

Want what they cant have, then get bored when they do have it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:06 AM
24

Shes promoting it because when you use her little code on the sugar daddy website at the end she gets payed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:00 AM
4

Lmao, sad but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:55 AM
4

All of this is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:53 AM
9

Says his baby is spoiled because mother suggests the baby have a peaceful place to sleep, he should look in the mirror and see the only spoiled baby here is him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:42 AM
47

I dont think I ever really believed in it. I never liked kink at all. I was kinda eh about the other subjects when I was a teenager, I saw people talking about them but never really cared. Then in my late teens I was against porn, kink and sex work. Then I found FDS and figured out 50-50 is bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:28 PM
7

Theyre so sensitive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:12 PM
6

why do women love playing victim?? Biggest projection ever. These men love playing victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:05 PM
2

Is it really?? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:02 PM
13

This was also the first person to rape me, and then not understand that what he did was rape He did, he just didnt want to admit it because then that would make him a horrible person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:59 PM
11

Compulsive liar, Its an actual diagnosis I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:55 PM
5

Statistics dont lie. If it were women that committed 97% of rapes and sexual assaults/abuse they would pull up those statistics all the fucking time to excuse doing whatever to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:51 PM
160

Its so sexist to assume women are naturally submissive, they think theyre so progressive but its the same ideas men have always said to excuse why women shouldnt work and should stay at home slaving away for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:39 PM
36

Wanting someone to dress up or act like a kid means theyre a pedophile. Yes that includes the stupid school girl outfit thing and ddlg kinks. Ive seen women defend the school girl "roleplay" and anyone who defends it is automatically a pedophile sympathizer to me. Nothing makes me more mad than men and their pedophile "fantasizes" and how common they are. Most people claim to care about pedophilia and protecting children but they really dont. They only care if it happens to their own kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:33 PM
16

Probably trying to publicly humiliate her. What sub was this in?? Its so fucking creepy to secretly film her and post it like that wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:22 PM
58

Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:51 PM
19

But we're told to bury any empathy we may feel for ourselves. We're not allowed to put ourselves first and think about our own wellbeing because men see it at the expense of themselves. Women caring about themselves is equivalent to them as women not caring about them. Men cannot fathom a world where a woman can put herself first Thiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:46 PM
32

Because women must be empathetic and nice at all times even when theyre being disrespected and walked all over /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:44 PM
7

I saw a Tik Tok of a male friend reuniting with his friend group and his GF tagged along. All of the comments were from men shitting on his GF creating this narrative that she’s the reason why the BF doesn’t see his friends as much... It got so bad the BF had to step in and set the record straight. They love demonizing women in relationships and try to make other men as miserable as them by ruining their relationships ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:20 PM
37

I dont know who married him but they should be beyond embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:27 PM
13

Lmaoo amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:24 PM
78

Men: do this Also men a few years later: "Why do we have a deadbedroom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:16 PM
18

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:26 AM
6

Uh why do I have this flair..? Never said anything pick me on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:18 AM
16

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:16 AM
5

Since when do men object to degrading women when they ask for it? Men happily degrade women sexually when they ask for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:36 PM
-18

Idk just seems like he prefers women on top.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:31 PM
17

And have object constancy (realize she’s still the same human worthy of respect even if he’s horny when looking at her). This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:42 PM
10

I remember seeing a video disproving that prostitution was the oldest profession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:19 PM
3

Reminds me of this: evrdegsiigj61.jpg (828×1615) (redd.it) thybofsiigj61.jpg (750×1334) (redd.it) from some feminist article on jezebel I think. I dont have the original post from here but its forever burned into my brain unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:15 PM
36

Men probably secretly laugh at these women behind their backs, they know none of this shit is empowering and its pathetic for women to preach this shit as feminism. They know porn and sex work degrades and humiliates women, thats the point of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:08 PM
44

“Slutever.” Do I wanna ask wtf that is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:13 PM
13

Wow so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:12 PM
4

Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:16 PM
7

Violence and rape happen exactly because most men love seeing women helpless, objectified and in pain And thats exactly what all porn looks like and thats why they get off to it. The escalation is exactly how kinks happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:51 PM
8

Oh, this is just a perfect example of the toxic, hypocritical bullshit libfems are trying to feed us. You see how the mask slipped here? It's clear sex work has nothing to do with "empowerment" lol. Lmaoo I was gonna say "Hey at least she doesnt pretend sex work is about empowerment"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:45 PM
20

Men don’t r@pe because they want sex or are aroused. It’s about exerting power over something that can’t make you stop. That’s what turns them on. That’s why they r@pe dogs, sheep, women with Down syndrome who can’t tell anyone, smaller men in prison and disabled old women. They’re aroused not by the idea of women but by the knowledge that they’re violating something smaller and more helpless than them. This. Dont know why thats so hard for some people to understand still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:43 PM
37

I agree, I think there was a study where it said if you give pedos any form of cp it will make their urges worse and their risk of offending goes up. Because there was a debate on if giving pedos cp would hold them back on offending on real children. That applies to violent porn against women too, it makes it worse not better and I feel like it takes somewhat normal men and makes them more violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:37 PM
7

Imagine if women acted like this, they would lock all women in asylums. Men shouldnt be in positions of power if this is how theyre going to act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:27 PM
156

They still get so mad even when women let them down easy, imagine if women just told them bluntly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:35 PM
15

I dont really understand the tiktok, was she having a panic attack or saying that men do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:31 PM
22

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:59 PM
11

This. Theres a french film that reverses the genders roles in society really well and shows how fucked up it is, I forget the name unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:44 PM
18

Because he doesnt want you to like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:27 PM
16

Its not that they dont deserve it, it reflects him not her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:16 PM
17

I hate that its only women who get called "harpy/ bitchy" even if men do and say the same things no one says anything but when a woman does it shes naggy./harpy/bitchy ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:10 PM
23

Uh no.. Men have been getting circumcised for a long time and erectile dysfunction has only been a problem for young men in the last few years. Its because of internet porn addiction and using the death grip on themselves. Uncircumcised men are being effected too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:29 PM
50

Yes this. I was gonna comment then they can call out men for sexualizing teenagers and teen porn being one of the most popular categories and until then they dont have any right to complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:50 AM
24

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:47 AM
25

Never go with a guy who doesnt like giving oral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:13 AM
161

Men like destroying anything nice and pure because it makes them feel powerful or something, its obvious by porn they like "destroying" women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:32 AM
80

Ive noticed men have this competition on whos the worse gender and they hate to admit when men are horrible so they always like to shift the focus and blame on women so they dont have to admit men are beyond horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:19 AM
26

I watch Jessicas channel and those videos keep coming up in my recommended but the titles and thumbnails alone are enough for me. " I swear to god, the producers must have a humiliation fetish. " They definitely do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:44 PM
11

Theyre acting like women need to be proper polite and calm 100% of the time. Pretty sexist if you ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:06 PM
2

What country??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:15 PM
3

You're right. I grew up in a lonely, broken home, and when I'm in a severe depressive episode, I escape into my fantasies where I have a family and a romantic partner who loves me. Sometimes I don't know if I genuinely like being alone or if I merely tolerate being alone because I'm afraid to connect to people and I have a hard time trusting men. I relate to this so much. Honestly Im glad Im not the only one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:06 PM
2

I’m not knocking on the actresses But considering that most kids don’t have sex as early as they used to, They used to earlier?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:21 PM
8

I agree with you, I think wanting women to be these perfect pure little angels who do no wrong is very sexist and I hate when people especially other women hate women over the smallest things. Comes off as jealousy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:07 PM
3

but why is it that rich women who have so much power like her or Beyoncé (who did the same thing, fake pregnancy) Seriously, conspiracy theories??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:56 PM
12

Those comments reek of jealousy..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:53 PM
14

So? The people hating on her are still racist and sexist. Anyone who married Harry wouldve been "marrying up".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:47 PM
10

Same here. That last paragraph is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:25 PM
8

Getting an escort isnt as acceptable and cool as going to a strip club.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:19 PM
9

It means they collectively came up with an excuse to objectify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:09 PM
12

Can you send me the post through DM? Wtf..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:59 AM
32

They have such build up rage for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:35 AM
20

"B-But you stupid feminists we dont need feminism anymore theres no sexism anymore1!1!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:34 AM
136

I bet they wouldnt like it so much if women started using the same analogy towards men to justify being interested in other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:27 AM
19

I dont think he realizes that hes supposed to aim to get a second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:40 AM
53

Women are definitely not the ones profiting off little boys. Its the porn companies, little boys arent buying onlyfans so its places like pornhub that are responsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:27 AM
29

Men just love to police other mens relationships for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:50 PM
29

People who even use the word slut always have a madonna/whore complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:15 PM
9

Do we support women here or just women who we find palatable? They should just say they dont like when women are aggressive and go. Men say the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:34 PM
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