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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESsveji-/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:28 PM
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26

He could have just told her that he didn't feel like talking at that moment. Communication am I right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:21 PM
8

If men can't help but cheat to their beautiful, loyal, faithful partners, that's their fricking loss. They don't deserve a pat on the back for doing the bare fcking minimum while women slave away their lives to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:07 PM
276

... and yet women are the ones who lose their careers when someone leaks their photos without consent, smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:39 PM
13

"my boyfriend" "I put our kids to bed" ughhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:34 PM
3

They're not married and they don't have shared finances. Essentially, they're just roommates and he wants to be able to get a "better roommate" if he has the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 02:14 PM
6

"C-section is not a real birth" and a baby born by c-section is not a real baby right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:54 PM
634

"I went to Starbucks to work but as soon as I saw a female I had to stop my work to go and bother her"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:47 PM
275

This man is not afraid to break a TV in front of 30 people, including his young kids; something tells me that he has already physically assaulted his wife and/or kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:50 AM
2

Right? Like it's more difficult to get with a woman than it is to get with a man, but it's almost equally as difficult to get with a HV man as it is to get with a (HV) woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:41 PM
1

There's a lot to unpack here, but it's better to just throw the whole man away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:39 PM
2

Because "not all men are r@pists tho" eyeroll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:38 PM
1

Where do all these men get the fucking audacity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:44 AM
195

Also, most men leave their wives if the wife has a terminal decease/cancer/etc., while most women stay with their husbands if the husband is ill. Go figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:02 PM
6

Chores are chores, whether you're a stay at home parent or working from home or working outside of the home. The moment the work day is over, you could rest for a bit, and then step in by doing chores or childcare. Anything less is manipulation and weaponised incompetence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:19 PM
28

Okay, if she's on meds that most likely affects her libido/ orgasms.. but if she says that you're going too rough every time and you say "I give her my all"? Nah, fuck that, you don't give her jackshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:47 PM
210

So she was born when her boyfriend's daughter was 8. Sooo many things are wrong with this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:40 PM
55

At least the commenter's last 2 sentences were sensible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:49 PM
44

I don't have curly hair but I only ever use 2 specific towels for my hair because it's convenient. Whatever the reason, her partner shouldn't mess with something important to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:55 AM
7

Historically most terms used to describe the LGBTQ+ community have started out as slurs. Nowadays some people have reclaimed certain words, while others don't like using them. Neither of those people are wrong, and people shouldn't be judged on how they are comfortable and express themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:14 PM
5

If he keeps going the same way, in a few years his girlfriends are gonna be the same age or even younger than his daughter. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:07 PM
13

Bet this guy says "but not all men tho"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:00 PM
9

Therapy, they need therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:46 PM
16

wE wErE On a bReAk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:03 AM
223

In the comments, he also said that she makes more than him, but that "she can still be a gold digger even if she makes more" and that "she should be happy with what she gets", completely ignoring the fact that he lied by omission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:31 AM
10

She said no but it was a long time ago, so now that time has passed, he is entitled to cross her boundaries 😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:20 PM
5

"my boyfriend" "we have a daughter" "he won't buy me pads because he's uncomfortable"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:29 AM
75

That other girl totally has the "I won, he chose me" mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:46 PM
3

This seems to me like a subtle cry for help because she's been isolated from friends and family and has no one to turn to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:32 PM
74

She said he watches porn so he should know. Right, because porn is soo focused on women's pleasure 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:42 AM
233

He's grooming her to be the primary child care of his daughter. And to do it all for free (most likely) because rELaTioNsHip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:26 AM
12

a concert he spent $3000 for They have a child together A Ring Pop Pick-me starter pack?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:52 AM
142

They don't even live together...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:48 AM
553

No wonder she left it out from the original post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:47 AM
6

That's such a waste of time and paper, and probably nerve endings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:59 AM
15

Just like the post from the other day..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:06 AM
26

"no nagging for a week" wth? He gets to do one thing that she usually does without complaining or reminders or "nagging", and he's free to do whatever he wants without consequences for the whole week? Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:51 PM
9

She moved in with the guy with no furniture in his dirty empty apartment It doesn't negate his treatment towards her, he's still a heartless a$$, but... She moved in a place with no useful furniture, sat on the floor for a year, waited and "nagged" him to change (he won't), did all the housework and contributed financially while also keeping her own apartment and never thought to go back there?? Like I know it sounds harsh and what he did to her is unforgivable, but at what point do pick-mes jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:55 PM
22

Of course he isn't worried that he's in the video, his career will not be ruined by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:09 AM
3

... and she's ready to pay for her hotel stay. Girl, that's a grown woman, and not only will you be paying for her, you'll be paying for her and your "thoughtful" husband to stay in a hotel. Good luck with that relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:59 AM
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It will show how "not disappointed" you are once your friends find hvm who worship them as the queens they are, while you accept the crumps your nvm gives you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:43 AM
380

He lets you cry yourself to sleep every night sis, how much more proof do you need to understand that he hates you wholeheartedly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:37 PM
43

Why do you need to change him, did he pee himself, or just didn't wipe his a$$ again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:38 PM
10

Just let women have their preferences, it's not the end of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:32 AM
9

Even if she did enjoy it, even if she would do it in the future with someone else, that still doesn't mean she owes it to her current partner. For all we know, he gives her five minutes of oral and doesn't give a crap whether she came or not. "But I want the kink!" too fricking bad, you're not owed anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:57 AM
25

It takes a lot of time for a woman to figure out she doesn't actually like men but she's been conditioned to think that she does. I hope she figures things out (and sooner rather than later).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:52 PM
14

Who said they were married tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:53 PM
2

If we ignore the horrible capture for a moment, the kiss looks so unnatural and uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:54 AM
6

I mean, insecurities should be worked out in therapy, but your partner shouldn't be content with you thanking him for "putting up" with you. And it's almost always the woman thanking the man. I wonder why (we all know why)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:52 AM
1

It doesn't seem like he wants to cheat the system and lie about his qualifications, it seems that his wife and his bil are insisting he do just that. But I do agree that someone else who has the qualifications should get the job (unless he goes to an interview and the company deems his master's degree and experience so far enough for the job).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:30 PM
7

And when he said he's tired of his wife trying to prove to him that she loves him.. then at least leave her for her own sake you selfish prick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:18 PM
37

"Is this the final one" as in "Will you stop bragging about finding someone that actually treasures you, and stop reminding me that you wouldn't let me use you as I please" or what does that comment mean? Either way, I think you would feel better if you do block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:34 PM
6

He doesn't want her to call him daddy because he knows he could be her dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:26 PM
9

He didn't know about her camera... Has she not worked from home at all for the last year? Does he not assume that there's a chance she might be in a meeting? And also, if it was a woman who did this, her reputation would have been nonexistent by now. But since it's a man who did it in front of his girlfriend's camera.. yeah, the repercussions would be for the woman again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:22 PM
105

I know right, he's saying it as if that was ever a realistic option and she wouldn't have just been mocked or ignored completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:54 AM
256

but he and the family didn't outline WHAT would be happening or HOW MUCH IT WOULD COST In one of his comments, he said that she was given info on the restaurants/ activities beforehand, and "if she had a problem with the prices she should have suggested another restaurant to go to but she didn't." I'm sorry what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:34 AM
9

Ew. At least the trash is taking himself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:20 PM
11

"he's done being the giver" "you gave your ex-bf anal, you have to do it for me!" He's done being the giver, aka you're not important enough for me to make you feel special. But you had a bad experience with an ex and now you don't want to perform this specific sexual act? "How dare you, don't you know I'm entitled to your body?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:27 AM
18

All I'm hearing is "I put the effort once and my first marriage didn't work, so I won't spend a lot of money on you since it won't work out anyway"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:23 AM
9

We've seen enough cases of "my partner won't stop doing xyz even though he knows how much it bothers me, what can I do?" You can give him an ultimatum, or you can leave. It's hard enough to change oneself, you can't change others, especially when they don't want to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:21 AM
13

I hate the avid "I am NOT leaving no matter what" type. It's like, you know you and/or your child can be in real danger and he wouldn't bat an eye until it's too late, but you're so deep in your pick-me state that you're numb to reality. And for what exactly? More chores, more stress, less time for yourself (and to rest, so you can be better for you and for your child)? Yeah, no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:41 AM
11

Did a pickme write this? Pretty sure a man wrote it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:40 PM
2

I agree with the point that men are labelled as gay if they wear certain clothes/ do certain activities that have nothing to do with being gay, and that shouldn't be this way. However, I think OOP focuses too much on the attention women's bodies are getting, and even though they kind of understand that it can be creepy, they don't fully understand how terrifying it can actually be, and they're jealous, while we as women would do anything to receive less attention from creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:37 PM
5

The two hours she spent getting ready are not worth it for this "man".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:22 PM
91

I hate to think like that, but probably the only thing stopping them was the 3 young kids presently in the house. But with how things are for her, maybe even that won't stop them soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:12 PM
152

Why has she not specified his age? This was the first thing that came to my mind. She's 22, so she was pregnant at 19 or 20, and they are married. He groomed her when she was a literal child and didn't know any better. I just hope that "I don't want to leave" turns into "me and my kids are packing our bags".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:08 PM
3

He got rid of it? Time to get rid of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:13 AM
8

You can also adopt/ foster kids, but most people who get tubal don't really "change their mind" as easy as people want us to believe. It's all fear mongering to turn people, mostly women, from having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:03 PM
2

If two women are in love, intimate or in a relationship together and no man benefits from that, does it even count? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:41 PM
686

Traditionally the female child would care for the elderly. But since there are much more male children now, there's just no one to realistically care for the elderly. So instead of teaching the male gender to do some work, we need women to have more babies. Jee, I wonder why they're not jumping from excitement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:31 AM
10

Why can't they let people just be attracted to women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:24 AM
5

If his girlfriend ever reads this, I hope she buys the ring for herself and leaves his materialistic a$$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:00 PM
89

Good for her for knowing her worth and breaking up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:57 AM
4

Men will never even begin to understand the physical pain women experience, every month and also during birth. I bet if she kicked him in the nuts he wouldn't find it funny at all, but her bringing their son to life and being traumatized during the process is somehow the funniest thing he can imagine. (And I'm only using the kick in the nuts example because it's nothing compared to period pains (in which we have no choice but to endure) or giving birth, but that's the only thing that men will br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:10 AM
4

I'm also fake as hell. Goodbye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:35 AM
5

He's been doing this for a whole year and she's still with him? Hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:55 PM
3

A bangmaid mommy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:53 PM
39

If you don't find her attractive, you don't like her. Simple as that. Please don't waste her time if you won't treat her as she deserves (and you most likely won't).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:12 PM
29

And don't ever say "I am not breaking up with him no matter what". Your attraction to him can change over time, especially if the honeymoon/ love bombing phase is over and he's not the person you fell in love with anymore. Relationship dynamics can change if he stops pulling his weight in house chores etc. If you think something is weird or off about him and it bothers you so much you start questioning your sanity, and talking and ultimatums don't work, it's fine to leave. If he's treated his ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:08 PM
65

This post just radiates "I'm not like the other girls" energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:11 PM
40

I read a bunch of posts in which the guy would go to his mother's place and even take the kids with him, spend the whole day there, and wouldn't give a crap about the mother of his own kids. No words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:17 AM
258

You see an age gap like this one and immediately know that the post will be horrible without even reading the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:32 AM
10

You can tell by reading this that he hasn't even thought about trying to pleasure his girlfriend. This speaks volumes on how we women are conditioned to want approval of men while men get away with almost everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:22 PM
11

I want zero, do avoid me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:54 PM
11

"y'all stuck in your ways" dude you're stuck in the 50s (except you probably expect the woman to go to work and "pay her share")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:31 PM
39

If most men weren't bs human beings and I wasn't afraid of every single one of them until they prove they're safe to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:41 PM
80

They are, just not nearly as much. Almost no little boy will grow up hearing that his only purpose in life is "to be a father and provide" while so many little girls grow up hearing that it's her only purpose as a woman to "mother and nurture".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:00 PM
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Men think it's bad to be in the "friend zone", try being "fck zoned" by every man you think is your friend. Then we'll talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:57 PM
7

Cars, steaks, pieces of tape, gum, women are anything other than human to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:13 PM
31

"women my age are a mess" jee I wonder why, certainly not because of men like you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:23 PM
107

Leech. He lived with his parents for free until he was 26, now he's 27 and living with his girlfriend without paying a dime for the condo she bought. I seriously hope his girlfriend sees her worth and demotes him to an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:34 AM
10

You. Should. Have. Never. Married. Him. You're not a consolation prize because the other girl said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:46 PM
1

"What would be more important in the past, a glass of water or a nice expensive ring?" You can't sell the glass of water to survive if your husband leaves or dies and you have no other valuable property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:32 PM
3

I'm gonna assume that by babysitting she meant their old child(ren) and be annoyed at society for assuming the mother is the main caretaker and the father is the best guy in the world for watching his child for half an hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:09 PM
11

The freedom to play video games all day and to eat chips for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:10 PM
5

I hope you can leave him sooner rather than later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:39 AM
25

They think they are entitled to sex from any and every woman they desire, yet they put no effort in being at least decent humans. "Nice" isn't a personality trait, and they're not even as nice as they think they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:29 PM
11

Ah, and then he had to get every woman in the kingdom to try a shoe because he couldn't recognise her without make up. How have we ever idolised this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:27 PM
22

The part about ripping women's tongues makes me want to cry. I will never stand against another woman for any man, no man is ever worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:25 PM
19

Wait, so you're telling me that you don't know how to cook? Oh then how do you expect to get marrie, and what will your wife eat when she gets home from work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:22 PM
7

"He doesn't abuse you mentally and physically? Treasure, never let him go"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:17 PM
12

Bruh, like there's anything to dig with men like these...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:00 AM
36

Jewelry won't cheat on you or tell you it doesn't love you anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:58 AM
12

Right? If I was buying my fiancee a ring that she's supposed to wear for life, I would spend hours and days trying to figure out her ring size, what she likes and dislikes, and so much more. Men have it too easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:55 AM
27

"Okay but she's an ex, he's with you now" god as if she's won some kind of lottery. The ex took her trash out, you can have him now along with the fake jewelry. The only real winner here is the ex wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:53 AM
41

he is probably fantasizing about an alternate childfree, bachelor existence where he has all his money to himself Nothing wrong with that if he's single and childfree. But he's neither, and given the fact that he probably can't cook eggs for himself and probably hasn't changed a diaper in his life, yeah that's quite embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:04 AM
43

They're so appalled when women around 40 know that men are trash. Oh what a surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:23 PM
9

Oh god no... He most likely won't share housework and childcare with you, but yeah, pay for half of your ring to show how committed you are.. jeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:59 PM
76

And the "joke" was about sexual assault, or women having "daddy issues", or "make me a sandwich", you get the jist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:27 PM
3

I mean, yes, after 4 years of relationship it's absolutely normal to want to be married. On the other hand, a public proposal without previous discussion of marriage (correct me if I'm wrong in this case, I haven't seen the show) can be considered manipulative, no matter who is proposing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:39 PM
30

"I want a 50's wife but I won't be a 50's husband. Oh and marriage is just a piece of paper."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:16 AM
4

Buying him clothes was her mistake in the first place. It's true that people like to refer to their partners as "baby", but girl that doesn't mean you need to be his bangmaid mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:33 PM
14

Cringe, just cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:07 PM
6

He is there to support his wife (if she wants him there), if he needs support of his own he's not ready to be a parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:01 PM
10

We have everything so easy? Yeah right cause it's so easy to be scared for your life and well being every time you get out of your house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:42 PM
5

"I don't wanna seem toxic" "I'm sure he's cheating and will guilt trip me" who's the toxic one again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:01 AM
17

They just don't want to admit that they're talking about literal children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:57 AM
24

"Women over 30 have been through a lot and won't put up with your crap, groom a freshly turned 18 year old instead"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:56 AM
12

"He never really liked you anyway" how are you so sure he likes you and won't tell his next girlfriend that you were crazy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:52 AM
104

"But, but, but, I'm not giving up the 🍆"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:49 PM
63

A bangmaid, if you will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:46 AM
6

Why, just why? And why did they not ask a single person with a uterus if this is actually needed before wasting resources on creating this crap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:29 PM
12

🙋🙋🙋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:57 PM
2

So he's not financially responsible enough to have his own place, car, not even good credit, and you want to checks notes elevate him? I mean there are other ways to have children, but if your preferred option is to be a bangmaid to a manchild, that's your choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:29 PM
8

Women have said this too though. It's fine to wait however long you want, it's fine to end things if you're being coerced. But many people with the "wait until marriage" mindset rush to get married just to have sex. What if you find out you're a lesbian and don't like being intimate with your husband? What if you find out you were fine with waiting because you're ace but now your husband demands sex from you? What if one of you has higher libido and that is a deal breaker? Again, it's fine if on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:39 PM
21

So much this. Is "yes" really a "yes" if a woman cannot realistically say "no" because she fears for her safety and her life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:10 AM
6

In the past I thought that proposal was supposed to be a total surprise without any previous talk about marriage. Now, I think it's okay and it can be a beautiful memory if the proposal itself is a nice surprise, but marriage has been discussed prior to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:05 PM
3

It was nice reading that "ex fiancé" at the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:32 PM
10

Forget about rating her appearance for a second. Maybe she took the time to plan more than one date, maybe she was the one to always text first and ask him on dates etc, and eventually she got tired of how one-sided it was and moved on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:10 PM
6

Oh, so you got what you wanted, a woman asked you out and planned the whole date. So where is she now? Hmm? Why aren't you still together? Maybe because she realised how little effort you want to put in dating her, and realised she was better off without you? Ever thought about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:07 PM
19

The "she's finally 18" crowd is disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:48 AM
216

They got married when she was 19, so he probably groomed her for a while as a teen. A literal child, because women his own age know better and it's so much easier to manipulate someone young and naïve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:51 AM
14

Ugh. If you want a poly relationship, find partners who consent to that. In any other case it's plain cheating and manipulation. But honestly they feel like scum that would cheat even in a poly relationship🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:50 PM
66

She works full time.. and part time.. and is doing her fricking PhD.. and is also a bangmaid. Girl, you'd be so much better off without the last title, it really doesn't add anything to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:07 PM
145

Oh this is so funny. "I didn't want her to get an abortion but now she won't do the childcare and housework while I have a beer and play video games with the boys, why can't she just be a normal married single mother like women are supposed to be?!? Am exhausted? I get 125% but she's a deadbeat, help?" Honestly, good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:22 PM
1021

125% child support!! Like deadbeats don't even pay child support most of the time, that's why they're deadbeats. And it's not like he didn't know what he was getting into when he stopped her from getting an abortion. Oh the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:17 PM
1

Wait, I thought that she dumped him, but reading this I'm not so sure anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:36 AM
11

Oh god I wanna cry just from reading this. Girl, run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:00 PM
60

BeCaUsE ThE FeELz? Straight men will complain about how a condom feels or how his orgasm won't be "as good" all while not even trying to make their partner come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:57 PM
8

So basically they love men.. but being with men is gay and therefore bad.. but treating women they are attracted to with kindness is checks notes also gay for some reason? And going down on women would emasculate them? And they can't even treat women like people (or, in their world, like men). Why are straight men like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:16 PM
2

Dude chill, no sane queer woman would touch you with a 10-foot pole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:13 AM
11

If this isn't hell on earth, I don't know what is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:53 PM
9

I just love doing my own thing for myself and not for male attention. I also love seeing my fellow women do their own thing for themselves and not for male attention. If any "competing" is involved, you know that the man you're "competing" for is not worth it, so why even bother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:16 AM
19

Please don't, just leave her alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:49 AM
33

No judgement OP, I don't know your relationship, but are you sure you want to be with this guy for the rest of your life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:02 AM
14

I hate it with passion how they don't ever even say that it's okay if this is a deal-breaker for her, and it's perfectly fine for her to end things with him over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:18 PM
15

I almost cried just by reading this, the poor woman.. I'd be out the door with the child so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:42 AM
135

"in the meantime the kids are her only priority" why aren't they your priority too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:43 AM
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