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| 163 | What in the apron strings?!He also thinks he has a say in what a grown woman older than him does. Like… I might understand if it was his little sister or cousin maybe, but not his mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Woman’s husband brings her the biggest knife to open a toy next to a toddler… the amount of people saying she needed to explain to a nearly 40 yo man why she needed a small knife is just painful.She also recently mentioned how his go to knife is the small knife, so it feels very much like he went out of his way to get the wrong one. He knew what he was doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 02:37 AM |
| 20 | Woman’s husband brings her the biggest knife to open a toy next to a toddler… the amount of people saying she needed to explain to a nearly 40 yo man why she needed a small knife is just painful.She might also struggle with spelling or typos, or maybe was just referring to a meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Woman’s husband brings her the biggest knife to open a toy next to a toddler… the amount of people saying she needed to explain to a nearly 40 yo man why she needed a small knife is just painful.4 comments only mod bot comment shows Lol when will the guys realize almost no one is seeing their comments? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 08:03 PM |
| 47 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.He said it because he thought it would be acceptable to take his shitty day and anger out on his wife. Men have used women as both mental and physical punching bags. If my husband was talking a mile a minute and I was frustrated, I would have said “hey dondee, could I ask you to wait to talk about this over dinner? My lunch was dumped and I left my wallet here and I just want to eat.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 6 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceMy son tore up 2 makeup pallets at the start of the pandemic, and dumped my entire makeup collection into the bath… if my husband was watching them, it would have been his fault… but I was watching them, so it was my fault. Anyone who blames the kid is goofy, unless the kid is over age 9. But it sounds like these kids were between 1 yo and 4 yo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceThis is exactly what happens when a “gamer dad” is asked to watch the toddlers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 09:47 PM |
| 178 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEUgh yuck. If a guy called me that in bed, I’d be stopping everything and getting the fuck out. I already hate it when men want to be called “daddy”. But being called “daughter”? Yuck. He’s likely to try to molest his own daughter. It’s become increasingly more common for reports of girls under 1 yo to be sexually assulted by their dad. Men like this are dangerous to children. If he doesn’t molest her as a baby or tot, he’s even more likely to try to molest her the older she gets. If not full on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 149 | Horrifying TikTok trend where boys and men joke about going on a date with a girl or woman and describe how they would murder her.There were several tinder date murderers that have seen the spotlight recently. This should not at all be treated like a trend or joke. Women get murdered by dates way too often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 01:58 PM |
| 15 | Yes, you are. 💋My husband once blew up at me because I don’t shave, do make up, or dress up… But when I had been doing all that, he was mad about how long it took me to get ready, how long my showers took, would have a mini fit over any leg hair left in the bathtub, mad about how long it took to pick an outfit and get dressed up… And when I stopped? I was having severe morning sickness and had no energy for any of it. I bet she had a similar experience and this is what he is leaving out. That when she was dres… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 01:44 PM |
| 9 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…I only searched them up to get the tea on the recent drama tbh. Then noticed that there’s almost no clean sub for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 174 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…Right? Man accidentally posts a pic of his D: We HaVe To SaVe HiM!1!1! Woman gets hacked and nudes leaked: SeRvEs HeR rIgHt FoR bEiNg A sLùT! And then there’s a whole phenomenon of “telling people not to look for it makes them want to do so more” named after scarlet Johansson… because of a nude leak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 07:37 PM |
| 3 | As if these messages themselves don’t prove my point in my previous post… this is still misogynistic and sexist.He then tried to say the first 3 messages… debunked the point of “famous women are treated differently than famous men”… by pointing out that men think of men differently than they think of women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 14 | As if these messages themselves don’t prove my point in my previous post… this is still misogynistic and sexist.Right? Another “sin for she, not for he!” Argument and mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 04:05 PM |
| 16 | As if these messages themselves don’t prove my point in my previous post… this is still misogynistic and sexist.Men like this guy are incels in denial. “such a dishonest portrayal!” When he literally tries to justify why the Kim vs. Kanye fan subs are vastly different. Also big lol at the putting Kim down for plastic surgery, but then claiming women who make big bucks on OF have “natural looks”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 04:04 PM |
| 39 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…The poor kids… yea, a man claiming to be god isn’t the safest person on the planet. I could see him doing some crazy shit if he doesn’t get custody or something like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:57 PM |
| 79 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…24 comments but I only see 8… sounds like this simple post triggered some major scrotes. Now it’s 56 comments and I can only see 15. I can only imagine what the mods are saving me from seeing! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 97 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…Lol as if sex work isn’t specifically engineered to be directed toward make pleasure only. It’s almost like many women wouldn’t have to do something they admit they hate and disgusts them if actual employers would just pay every employee a living wage… or if it wasn’t normalized to accumulate a small fortune of debt just by trying to get an education. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:32 PM |
| 131 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…I was originally looking them up to find out more about what their communities thought of the current drama between Kim and Kanye. I was disgusted to see that there is no clean fan sub for her, and that many many men were taking Kanye’s side in the matter because he made some “great points” about how baby mommas “like to mess with their exs”. From what I can tell, he is playing fake Christian, lied about only seeing the kids every 2 weeks, and when said lie was pointed out, he then said his prob… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 33 | SWer finds out her dad watches porn. Calls him vile and disgusting. He doesn’t get why and neither does Reddit.I think he’s lying about blocking her accounts, and that’s what she is actually mad about. He’s just lying to Reddit to make himself feel better. Pro tip: if a person confesses to something bad when they are suspected of doing worse, they are likely doing worse. Examples: guy gets pulled over. Admits to having an ounce of weed, in hopes that the officer won't search and find the fellony amount of Coke hidden in his bag. Person admits to hitting child and bruising them, while being interrogated f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:58 PM |
| 104 | SWer finds out her dad watches porn. Calls him vile and disgusting. He doesn’t get why and neither does Reddit.I don’t trust him saying he blocked all her accounts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:47 PM |
| 123 | FDS works: Why men refuse to pay for datesIf she’s too random for him to pay for a date, why is he trying to go out with her? Men like him sound like they don’t understand the real purpose of dating or having a girlfriend. If there’s no endgame except maybe casual sex… then what’s the point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 11:17 PM |
| 56 | Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever.He sounds like my narc mom. One day I woke up with bad stomach pain and was like “oh, it’s just the flu, once I puke I’ll feel better” fell asleep and napped until the afternoon, where my mom yelled at me…. For “being dramatic and rolling around, moaning in pain”… I was like “what? I was asleep!” And then her face went stark white, she asked where the pain was (for the first time) and then frantically cancelled the rest of her work… doc said my appendix was THE SIZE OF A BASKET BALL and that if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 01:56 PM |
| 25 | The Struggle Is Real...Yep. It was developed by an incel, if I remember right. The numbers are pulled out of his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 05:17 AM |
| 3 | I was told by a female colleague that at first sight I’m totally unapproachableI’m the opposite. I’m so meek and unassuming (and fat) that in most situations I might as well be invisible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 35 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?At 16, I went to a water park to celebrate bfs bday and he kept going on and on about a particular “friend”. Then got panicked when he saw said friends dad and told me to stop showing affection. When I asked why it mattered he screamed “because she’s my girlfriend!” And that’s how I found out I was his side piece. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 50 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childSo, he wants her to essentially have no income for a year, not compensate her, and also still seems to expect her to pay 50% of all expenses? Dude doesn’t realize the baby is his too. “Most couples get by without husband paying wife” most couples also don’t earn over 100,000 a year each. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 05:58 PM |
| 25 | Can a man that has done anal be a HVM?I had plenty of exs who knew I wasn’t into anal and slowly kept pushing it on me until I gave in. Trust your gut. He’s probably downplaying just how much he liked anal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 11 | A daily reminder to protect your womb from LVM scrotes. Apparently once you have a kid, you are no longer allowed to have standards.“Is she good looking enough to make this list of demands?” Yes. Why do men feel the need to police the lives of women they don’t even know? It’s ok for these guys to have standards too, but they are also being “insufferable”. If you wouldn’t date her, fine. But no need to bully her for having standards. I bet none of these guys are hygienic enough to demand anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 03:12 PM |
| 116 | Why is "do literally anything other than a coffee or walk date" so hard for so many men to handle?I had guys telling me I was close minded for refusing to date a smoker or men who owned pets. I have asthma that is triggered by both of these. I could die from cat dander or cig smoke. I’m not dying for a man I barely know lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 06:44 AM |
| 10 | Is Leaving Early the New Coming Home Late for ZVM Who Buy S*x Workers?I hope so too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 06:29 PM |
| 31 | (TW) Her husband PEED IN HERMen who are into pissing during sex don’t respect their partner in any way. The men who are open about this fetish literally call their sexual partner “my toilet”. It’s more revolting than the “cum dumpster” thing in bdsm. My husband once asked me if he could pee IN MY MOUTH… while I was pregnant! But at least he took the no and didn’t disrespect me by pushing the issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 23 | Is Leaving Early the New Coming Home Late for ZVM Who Buy S*x Workers?My sil’s husband leaves for work hours early every day and claims he just plays on his phone in the car. We believe he has been cheating on her with guys. She is currently working on getting away from this man. They have been together since high school and still live in the guy’s grandma’s house. He can’t keep a job. He’s had almost 100 different jobs during their entire relationship. On top of that, he refuses to tell her how much he is making or how much they are getting on income taxes. My hu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:38 PM |
| 58 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.Making it to where she will probably have to keep doing only fans, maybe? Tanking her prospects so he can still have wank material? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦Ah yes, got to the movies. Not watching a movie at the theater. Just arriving there! .... most of these aren't dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 9 | for all those single dads who think I REALLY, REALLY NEEEEEED to marry again... what possible value would it bring to my life?Admittedly, I allow my kids way too much screen time. But if I didn't, I wouldn't have the house in a somewhat livable condition.. and I can barely even keep up decent personal hygiene. Working all all these things, but boy do I have a loooong way to climb. Plus I have several health problems that make it hard to sit and play with them.. working on those too. I think my mental health and my body are heald together by Elmer's glue, sticky tack, and duct tape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 82 | for all those single dads who think I REALLY, REALLY NEEEEEED to marry again... what possible value would it bring to my life?As a mom of 2 toddlers, yes. Everything you said is right. Personally I have no real fee time or alone time, so I'm in a near constant state of over stimulation. Just today I found out my mattress is FULL of black mold and mildew. Because my daughter loves dumping her drinks out EVRYWHERE. Ladies, if you are dead set at not having kids, stand on that point and don't let others peer pressure you. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. It's exhausting, back breaking work, even if you are a stay at ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:59 PM |
| 28 | Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂Funny how men are ok with other men blaming all their problems on women, but if women joke about male audacity they are accused of blaming all problems on men. Also women don't base their generalizations on one single person. Unlike men. Who will go through ONE break up and talk about how ALL women are batching crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 08:40 PM |
| 19 | A Professor Wasted Her Time Interviewing 46 Men About Why They CheatIf that's the case than many many woman would also be cheating on their spouse. The lady's at brokenmom come to mind. Many vent about how horrible their hubby/baby daddy is and most don't cheat, they either keep venting, it's not a common thing for him to do, or she's already making a plan to leave. That's it. Almost none talk about how their emotional AND sexual needs aren't met and so they cheated. Wives on average have more empathy and caring toward their husband than he does for her. So I HI… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 12 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.The discrepancy of men's health concerns being treated as life or death even if it's just a small side cramp, but women's health concerns are almost always met with "this is normal period/woman stuff" (even if it's something that just started happening or you flat out said is worse than usual), or told "you need to lose weight" even if it's not an issue that would be overly effected by weight. Many girls aren't diagnosed with adhd or autism until it interferes extremely with daily life. But boys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 05:36 PM |
| 109 | I think he told on himselfHe does want a submissive woman, but he doesn't want an already submissive woman. He wants to pull you down. He feigned liking your willpower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 26 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.As a sahm of 2 toddlers... this isn't a dream life. You have to work as hard, if not harder, than a paying job. Especially worse if you have a mental issue that relies on structure and schedules like adhd, because you are pretty much only accountable to yourself (if your husband isn't a dick). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 4 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Of course, he says something so mean and then goes crying to his momma. I'm glad her mom has a head on her shoulders. And pregnancy is not meant to be a training course on how to be a mom. As the dad, if you live with her you are going to have to be a parent too. If you don't know how to be a parent and do what has to be done, you won't be able to take over properly if mom is too sick to take care of the kids. Also stressing a pregnant woman out? That can cause her to lose the baby, and stress m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:38 PM |
| 3 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!1- Pregnancy is a bitch. It was hell for me. Both my pregnancies I had morning sickness all the way through, could barely keep anything down, even water. The second Pregnancy a tendon in my hips kept rolling around and make walking so painful (and 2 years later, it still happens every now and then). I bounced back quickly after both c sections, because pregnancy was worse than having a baby pulled out of my stomach and 40 staples in after. So a man HAS to be willing to see that things ARE going … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:35 PM |
| 43 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himSmashing a person into a teired cake is dangerous unless the cake was specifically made with that in mind. There are often support structures to keep the cake from toppling, including rods that run through the cake itself. Even a single layered cake can have one of those bars. I once saw a video where a girl's friend slammed her face into a 1 teir cake and one of those support rods went into her eye. It was holding some sort of decorative thing if I remember right. This could have very well ende… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 11:13 PM |
| 20 | STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state.It's not her oversight that caused this. He was the one who kicked her out in the middle of nowhere! If I was dead set on giving it back, I would just mail it either to him or one of his family members and not include a return address. He can be as mad as he wants that I didn't fucking hand deliver it on a damn silver platter. That's not my problem. Hell, if it's that important why wouldn't he demand she stay put and he come get it from her? None of this would have happened if he did the sensibl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Are there any specific and subtle questions you can ask male acquaintances to vet them?I jokingly suggest to ask him when the last time he cleaned his vacuum cleaner was. If he doesn't have a vacuum, doesn't know how to clean it, or insists you shouldn't need to clean it, than he's an instant out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢He's willing to throw away a 30+ year old marriage for someone he has only known for 2 years? Plus I bet the no cheating thing is bull crap. He's been "falling for" his "friend" "like what me and my wife had at the start"... I doubt he hasn't had a physical affair with this woman who is 20 years younger than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism - opinions on men protecting women? (Or for example doing the heavy lifting etc.)I advocate for women strengthening themselves so they don't feel like they "need a man to protect me". I think women can on average be stronger than men, it's just not super common (in the western societies anyway) because women are taught that working out, lifting, learning to fight, and bulking up aren't feminine. Plus women have a higher pain tolerance on average, so i imagine that would actually give an advantage to working out to improve strength. I mean, it's clear there are women who are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 31 | When you realised that in hetero relashionships mistreatment and disrespecting the woman was the 'norm'?I realized it when I realized all my previous relationships were actually extremely dehumanizing and were abusive in different ways. Then I started getting very upset at the "male protagonist" in romcoms. They are almost always bumbling idiots who are trash and need the "perfect woman" to get their shit together and be a decent human. Then I also started getting mad at the "manic pixie dream girl" trope which is basically just the romanticized of adhd and similar conditions. Basically, once I re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 49 | People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡This is exactly what the common incel believes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 03:41 PM |
| 4 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.My husband is 5'9. He and I met through tinder (he was mislead to believe tinder was a way to find friends, not hook up). I am 5'2 (and been obese most my life, trying to work on that). He didn't lie about his height. He wasn't insecure about it. And I think men don't realize that if a woman does have that rule, it's likely because they've created a self fulfilling prophecy. What happens if a young girl sees men talk all the time about how women only want a man over a particular height? Especial… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 31 | Beware of « stable » families who will judge you for your past trauma.My mom is a narcissistic abuser. Her abuse is often so subtle that outsiders wouldn't know why I was so upset. My mom treated me like a dumb burden that could never be successful. She made me fat by refusing to buy any healthy food while buying me 1 lb bags of smarties. She made fun of me every time I tried to work out. And then she would make jabs at my weight. She was basically the irl mother gothel from tangled. She intended to use me as her retirement. Ever time I got a job, she somehow lost… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 13 | Pays 40K for his gambling addiction or his incompetence (dunno which is worse)The thing with stocks is you have to kind of know what you are doing and study it like you are serious about it. You need to know when to hold the bag, when to sell, what is going on with the company, what future developments the company has planned, etc. But it can also be so unpredictable as well. My family has been doing pretty alright in the stock market, but imo it's not in anyone's best interest to "professionally" trade stocks with your own money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 21 | Whyyyy do men comment on this sub, knowing they'll be deleted........🧠🦧Report comments that get through. Just a reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 25 | My friends keep telling me, “not all men.”I've gotten to a point where I just cut pickmes out. I don't have time to educate them or defend my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Pretend you can't cookI remember my mom gave be a dating advice book... a Christian dating advice book. One of the things they recommended for finding and keeping a "good Christian man" was to cook. To invite them over for meals, give them desserts and treats, after all the way to a man's heart is his tummy! However my mom was a narc, afraid I'd be better than her if given the chance. So she barely taught me how to cook. At all. The most I knew how to cook was eggs. And that's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:18 PM |
| 26 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEThey clearly don't know the actual price of the average REAL engagement ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 12:28 PM |
| 45 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANE"We don't live together yet." You aren't even engaged yet, dingus. And you aren't even willing to buy her a relatively cheap ring. Let me guess, he'd rather just by her one of those $10 completely fake rings that are sold near walmart's jewelry counter? "I can afford it" so why is it such a problem? And why would you rather spend much more on paying way ahead on rent instead of buying what she asked for? I hope she dumps him for going to reddit about this. Why wasn't he told " just communicate!"… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Right? When company text bots and such have more manners than a real life human, something isn't right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 11:56 AM |
| 12 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingI'll hopefully look into that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:37 PM |
| 100 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingIt also might be a sex trafficking method. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:26 PM |
| 56 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingStories like this have been popping up everywhere. It's horrifying. I have a galaxy phone and an iPad .. would my iPad pick it up? It's a wifi only iPad so... would it only detect if I'm connected to wifi? I'm trying to lose weight, but damn it, these types of going ons make me want to stay obsessed forever. At least then most men won't acknowledge my existence at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:25 PM |
| 12 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Nope. But they can't be bothered to put in even a drop of effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 16 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Also it's hilarious that his response to her being like "you're too immature for me" is to then claim a small, kindly worded paragraph is her "having a melt down". And basically just reiterating that he's an immature punk. His response also kinda screams incel to me. Not entirely sure why.. actually, probably the gaslighting "anyone else would have laughed and came back with something funny!"... pretty sure most women, no matter what age, would dislike this comment on their birthday when nothing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Studying for a psych test. Thought you would appreciate this tidbit- postpartum depression in men is related to feeling “replaced by baby” 😭😭😭OF COURSE BABY COMES FIRST! Lol a newborn has no capacity to take care of itself. Grown ass men have the capability, but choose to be helpless babies instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 42 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Plus it sounds like he waited a long time after she texted him. Reminds me of how I had a guy dump me on my 16th birthday and he thought we would still be on friendly terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 153 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.And of course he tries to blame "bad humor" and "insecurity" rather than realizing it's a tasteless thing to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:42 PM |
| 25 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.I just copy and pasted from a Google result 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 43 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Sorry! My sarcasm detector is broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:09 PM |
| 43 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.It can be a back handed compliment, or it can be "jokes" that are thinly veiled jabs at her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 118 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting."Negging, as it is called, is in essence a trick. The idea is to undermine a woman's confidence by making backhanded or snide remarks – give a compliment with one hand, and take away with the other. It is about control, putting the man in charge of the interaction by pushing the woman to earn his approval." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 187 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Right? Guys like this think they can just say anything they want and every woman should laugh and still wanna date him! Insulting someone and calling it a joke, shockingly enough, doesn't make it a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:56 PM |
| 55 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Right? She didn't even need to send the explanation message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:19 PM |
| 391 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Actually, no! Most of the top comments are saying he's a douche, which was very cathartic to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:17 PM |
| 85 | Awww, this poor baby! Let’s guess what actually happened.Many women, specially in Christian hypocrite territories, are lied to and told when taught about sex that they are not supposed to experience pleasure. When you find out your body is absolutely capable of pleasure, they then say it is wrong because it creates lust and isn't necessary for making babies. I bet she was one who was lead to believe her body isn't capable of feeling intense pressure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 9 | Awww, this poor baby! Let’s guess what actually happened.That's a lot of words for "I never made any effort to satisfy her in bed, and she realised she could do that, and life, without me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Ladies please don’t do this. You deserve your dream ring!This reminds me of how a man in my hometown promised his girlfriend that they would marry the day a train that had been still on the tracks for years moved. Guess what? It moved. And he never even proposed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 07:46 AM |
| 52 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Dude, you are complaining about her making a lovely space instead of just throwing together random furniture with no accents or anything like a frat boy. And while I see she is his girlfriend, if you are having a woman move in then it's not a bachelor pad anymore. Plus if he had problems with so much, why did he lie when she asked his opinion? It sounds like he said nothing until they got to the counter. And one dresser for two people? What a stupid idea. Where will HIS clothes go if SHE has a d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 06:42 AM |
| 45 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Porn. That's usually the culprit. They take porn as educational, when it's all just for show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:35 AM |
| 37 | PIED confirmedRape hub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 47 | PIED confirmedThere's also been several times where officers/detectives who had to look at CP to catch criminals ended up becoming pedophiles themselves just from exposure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 08:04 PM |
| 35 | Lol you thought this would make us mad? Dude, we already know that this is what 99% of male lurkers are doing. You want a HVW w/standards. That’s why you’re here. That’s why you send us hate. Any interaction with us turns you on. Y’all need to stop acting like we are undesirable 😂I wonder the same. Maybe most incels, who claim they want a "submissive female" are actually the subs themselves and they actually want a dominant female to talk trash and step all over them. I honestly wouldn't be surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 02:45 PM |
| 61 | Lol you thought this would make us mad? Dude, we already know that this is what 99% of male lurkers are doing. You want a HVW w/standards. That’s why you’re here. That’s why you send us hate. Any interaction with us turns you on. Y’all need to stop acting like we are undesirable 😂Hm.. is it hating all men when we are talking about men who are garbage? Not every man is a pedo, porn addicted, cheating loser. But this guy is clearly a porn addict with a "step on me mami 😩" kink. We aren't mad about it. But personally I'm disgusted by it if only because this man is admitting he wants to be at the very least verbally abused. They are mad that HVW actually have standards, and the haters KNOW they don't meet those standards. And imo the standards aren't ridiculously high. A man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 10 | You might've seen the article on men creating AI girlfriends and verbally abusing them. I was curious after that news came out and decided to download Replika (where these incidents occured). This is the program that they were abusing.They did the same to a different chat bot (I think she was called eve or eva) that was made by Google. I was a teen, and every time I accessed the chat bot it would either be very mean or very sexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:12 PM |
| 57 | The male version of “ABCDEFU” is literally domestic violence and people are celebrating it.I agree with that. Lundy Bancroft's "why does he do that?" Even points out that abusive men choose when to snap, and even gave an example of a man destroying stuff when he is mad, and when his SO is asked if he mostly destroys his own things or things that are hers... she realized he only destroyed things that she needed and were important to her. Most abusers seem to be very calculated in their abuse, which makes it even worse than if they had no control imo. The guys I talked about in my previ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 03:26 PM |
| 66 | The male version of “ABCDEFU” is literally domestic violence and people are celebrating it.I'm no expert, but I've seen plenty of men not keep call around men bigger than them, get beat up, and then antagonize the big guy again (mostly because of worldstar videos tbh, but there's plenty of these idiots on youtube too). Although, I do think men have more impulse control with other men than they do women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:45 PM |
| 235 | The male version of “ABCDEFU” is literally domestic violence and people are celebrating it.I was horrified when I saw a tiktok about a man murdering his girlfriend (and maybe her child?) Because he "caught her cheating" (was never specified what kind of cheating. For all we know he considered her looking in another man's general direction). And in the comments so. Many. Men. Were saying "he went to far but that's understandable". Or "I wouldn't do this but it sounds like she deserves it". NO, GUYS it is NOT understandable to MURDER your SO for cheating instead of dumping her and movin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.Someone flagged this as me being a man? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 12:13 PM |
| 10 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.My ex from a decade ago STILL tries to triangulation me with his new wife or gf. Like dude, I devoted all my free time as a stupid teen to you for 2 years. I was green and niave, got burned and became jaded. I'm married and have 2 kids. I'm not about to drop everything and run to this idiot's goat farm... in fact I'd rather be with his wife than him. He was my "first love". And my first bang. He thought he was the bees knees, but he wasn't all that great in any area of life. Now that dude has li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 12:07 PM |
| 55 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.Yet they try to gaslight us into thinking women are all about drama and men are chill and "not complicated". The only reason they "aren't complicated" is because most of em literally do everything in hopes of sex. It's sad that so many have reduced themselves to porn sick troglodytes who don't even know how real women work and can't seem to tell porn and real life apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:54 AM |
| 17 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?For me the first red flag is him asking her to teach him how to do art. He was already making the relationship transactional. This is a red flag in the art community as well. Ladies do not teach a man jack shit that hasn't been properly vetted. If a guy (or anyone really) who is completely new to you is asking to learn a skill you just talked about, tell them "fuck you, pay me." ... maybe a bit nicer or something, but make it clear you'll need payment to teach a skill. And if they immediately as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:07 PM |
| 171 | A few months ago told my friend dating a particular single dad is a mistake, she said I'm being prejudiced. Today sent me a long paragraph about how right I was.In my experience, if a guy info dumps about his ex like that, he's actually describing his own actions. The same can be true for a woman who info dumps like that too, but with women it seems to be more of a coping mechanism when they haven't quite worked through all the abuse and negging he put her through. If a man tells you a ton about his ex before you even meet irl, it's bad news bears. I'd even say if he goes into extreme detail like this all at once ever instead of the info being spread ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Could dating be anymore discouraging for women today? 🤦♀️ I found a log book today that logs potential online dating matchesThis reminds me of those scholastic friend quiz books. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 04:27 AM |
| 102 | I’m still confused as to why some guys still expect us to put out on the first date or do casual hookups. This is why we don’t. Shit like this isn’t fun for us"How did he end up with the dildo if you didn't like it?" Um... he might have snuck into her toy drawer? Or she brought out the toys before realizing he was a sadist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 03:42 AM |
| 64 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.Once again, men getting praise for clearly not trying (the idiot has eyes. He can see its not the same. And that one of the damn blankets are on the ground) where a woman would be shat on if it was slightly below perfect. Does the bar EVEN EXIST at this point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 02:11 PM |
| 8 | Rules of misogyny: the default is always maleMy daughter and son have somewhat unusual names. And everyone assumes both of them are male based on their names, but female based on appearance. Her name is Jerusalem. Why do people assume Jerusalem is a boys name? Jerusalem, as in the city in the Bible, is almost EXCLUSIVELY referred to with female language. Yet my daughter was called "he" even by nurses who JUST WEIGHED HER (they weigh babies naked). But then when they see my son, who is built like a mini Arnold Schwarzenegger but has long ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:42 AM |
| 237 | girl whatSo.. this idiot made himself poor by gambling all his shit away, and now he thinks because she makes more, SHE should go into debt because of his gambling addiction? In order to be a professional gambler... you need to be able to make a PROFIT when gambling. This idiot couldn't be a professional at any rate. Also, he was unsupportive while she was in school, but now she's supposed to support his LITERAL fantasy that will NEVER make him any money or advance his life in any way? Hahaha "YoU aRe Lu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 8 | This is why FDS is so important !Ah yes, when lvm get ahold of big money they can't handle it and build up expenses way too fast. Gotta love how once again a man is completely misrepresenting his situation for more internet brownie points... disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 28 | This is why FDS is so important !They could be considered to have been common law married. She lived with him for 13 years and was THE MAIN REASON he has this "lucrative job field" in the first place. She could have a court case here to PROVE he OWES HER alimony. Or at the very least she could sue for all the money she spent on him with the assumption they would have kids together and that helping him would help them both. Also, his job is supposedly SO lucrative... but he can't afford to compensate THE PERSON WHO GOT HIM THERE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:58 AM |
| 7 | Looking the same after babiesThat's awful. I hope your body has healed more since. For the first year, I could barely walk... it was horrible. My 2nd is 2 now and I'm only just now somewhat feeling like a simi-functioning human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 9 | Looking the same after babiesRight? I was shocked. I wanted to do everything all natural as well. I planned on going through labor without the epidural, and to breastfeed... neither ended up happening. Now my local hospital says I'll have to do c sections if I have anymore kids, unless I go to a hospital in a city 2 hours away... these have also taken their toll on my mental health. And my doctor says that if I get pregnant at my current weight again, the eclampsia and pre-eclampsia might be worse and I'm more likely to die… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 08:56 PM |
| 29 | Looking the same after babiesI have had 2 kids via c section... there is definitely permanent changes, even without having pushed the baby out my pelvic bone. First, my back has been severely injured from the epidural needle, as the second c section was planned and I wasn't already numbed by the magnesium drip. I'm not crippled, but I have to move slowly and carefully to not irritate my back or I risk being in quite horrible pain for the rest of the day, unable to adequately fight the adhd executive disfunction and so not g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 08:00 PM |
| 4 | What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability?Exactly. I used to be the type that reacted very negatively to the need for self improvement, mostly as a defense from the narcissistic abuse my mom put me through. Turns out that when you experience significant trauma as a kid or teen, your brain is stunted and you are basically mentally the age you were traumatized in... which means I was essentially 13 years old for a decade or so. That's on top of the slow nerodevelopment caused by adhd (and possible autism. Trying to get officially tested f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 22 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much pornI once had one of those "women who are 30+ have expired!" Type of guys on tiktok try to justify that and this preference. I told him he's probably jacked off to many porn stars who are 30+ without even realizing it. He refused to believe any women over 30 are in porn, or ever have been in porn in their 30s. These idiots tell on themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 9 | What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability?To be fair, those ARE symptoms of adhd... I have adhd and struggle with forgetfulness, rejection sensitive dysphoria is also not fun. But... I mean, recognizing the problem means you can fix it, or work towards improvements. For a long time, I didn't have the executive function levels necessary to clean. But I got on wellbutrin, upped the dosage, and started implementing "adhd hacks" for remembering, cleaning, tracking eating habits, taking steps to ensure I don't go bonkers during a rsd episode… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:07 PM |
| 3 | First, your wife had a baby, not you. Second? You’re the problem.If she is the only one taking care of y'alls baby, cleaning, cooking, being the family secretary, etc... she is TOO TIRED TO FUCK. And that's if no complications in healing arose. Let me fix his wording "my wife forced a melon through a hole that is typically the size of my urethra, but it's been 6 months and she STILL won't put my dick first!" If you aren't willing to wait until she is healed and mentally ready (most births are EXTREMELY traumatic and can create a temporary or permanent fear of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 11:53 AM |
| 6 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?I was banned from that same subreddit a while ago. I forget what I had said... I don't even think I have that account anymore. But if I remember right, it was a basic comment about practically entry level feminism. Or a question about such. This sub is the only one I trust. Please, keep doing what you are doing ladies. We need this sub now more than ever before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭"Starfish are becoming obsolete" so are you pathetic scrotes. We can MAKE BABIES without your spunk and we can get ourselves off better alone with toys than with scrotes. Smelly, crusty, man babies are already obsolete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Also, if we are such bad lays, at least we DO know how to dress pretty, smell pretty, be hygienic, act sexy, and take care of our skin. Men like him be bad lays ON TOP OF looking and smelling like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 7 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Porn. Is. Not. Real. Life. They are porn ACTORS and ACTRESSES. Of course topping wears a woman's thighs out, because it's basically intense, small squats with wallsitting elements. Of course bjs happen way more in porn than they do in irl, because porn is for MEN. Women usually don't get wet for the thought of sucking on your dirty unwashed rotten man meat. "At least women in porn can fuck!" And "men like porn cause they can fuck it and not have to date or cuddle" prove that men like him see jac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:32 PM |
| 51 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthMost men make relationships transactional. They prove it when they are told "you need to do chores too, and give her a day off every now and then" or "your wife/gf/fiance doesn't owe you sex" and they respond with "if she can't clean or screw me, then I won't pay the mortgage/ buy food/ pay for 'her and/or the kid's expenses' or drive her or the kids around!" Etc. Etc. Like if you refuse to do something because you feel she owes something to you, then you literally make it a transation and make … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:24 PM |
| 16 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthAt this point I'm convinced the only HVM left are the ones in webtoons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 47 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.I would rather he make something himself. Just going to a cheap store and buying whatever without considering what I'd like is bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:51 PM |
| 22 | It’s just me or you also find man cave a bull$hit ?I'm only fine with a man cave if the wife ALSO has her own personal room too. I mean, one room that she doesn't share with her husband or kids, one that she can firnish and decorate WITHOUT any input from him. If she doesn't have that, he shouldn't either. She needs her own space way more than he does. Especially if she is the one who is always home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Ben Affleck casts blame on Jennifer Garner for his drinking problemHis substance abuse issues apparently started when he was 15, long before he even met her. Why are men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 04:32 AM |
| 1 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.That makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 10:38 PM |
| 55 | Not a lot shocks me after following FDS for a while but this just sent me.Also most animal species have very strong females. It's not true that biology proves women are weaker. Petty sure if women weren't taught from a young age that working out is not lady-like, women could easily outclassed men in fights. I had a guy try to tell me it is impossible for women to become strong and muscular because "you need testosterone to metabolize protein into muscle!" Like... no. Testosterone makes it SLIGHTLY easier, but it's not impossible with low testosterone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:32 PM |
| 56 | Ben Affleck casts blame on Jennifer Garner for his drinking problemWho's he going to blame it on when he's still relapsing decades after the divorce? Even if she was the cause (clearly not), he can't continue to blame her for his lack of self control or attempts at sobriety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:46 PM |
| 8 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.I bet she could have got more if she wanted. She's the reason he got acting classes and started his career, and he cheated with women who could be his grandchildren... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:24 PM |
| 8 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Plus she paid for his acting classes. She is THE REASON he is an actor and a household name. And he cheated with women 20+ years younger than his wife. You bet the court sided with the wife! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:23 PM |
| 8 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.I thought so. And she got repaid by him cheating on her with women young enough to be his grandchild... She probably could have got more than half of his shit if she wanted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:19 PM |
| 6 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.They had 2 houses he is, in no uncertain terms, not at all homeless in any sense of the word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:17 PM |
| 8 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.As if an easily influenced religious girl wouldn't leave a man if she catches him cheating. I'm guessing this guy is referring to a Christian girl. In that case, she has been taught from a ridiculously young age that adultery is wrong and would have left this fucker anyway. These guys are ALL ignoring that this fucker CHEATED MULTIPLE TIMES with women who are YOUNG ENOUGH TO BE HIS GRANDCHILD. Fucking hell yes he should lose at least 50% of all his resources! OF COURSE the court will favor the w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:15 PM |
| 6 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Also if these scrotes don't want to lose anything from before the marriage, they should have a prenup. But I'm guessing they have more to lose after marriage... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:10 PM |
| 4 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Didn't they have 2 houses? So she, again, got half the assets there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:08 PM |
| 14 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.And yet if a woman murdered a man for abusing her and cheating on her, these same scrotes would go "she is such a fucking psycho, that was no reason to MURDER an INNOCENT man!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:07 PM |
| 19 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.In fact, most of the "man's house"s in these scenarios wouldn't be anywhere near worth what they bought it for if the homemaker wasn't there to clean up (maybe this guy could afford maids? But I doubt he would pay for a made if he felt he could get free labor from a woman). Men love to act like cleaning is pointless and not work, but have they ever seen a house that has gone a long time not being cleaned? A house can go from "daaaamn! That's so nice!" To "damn this place is a shithole" REAL fast… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:01 PM |
| 20 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.My first guess as to why she got the house and such was "he must have cheated" 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:55 AM |
| 2 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.I don't know either of these people, but commonly the reason the woman gets so much in divorce is because A) she can prove she was the sole caretaker of the children and the house B) can prove she played a big role in his successes. C) can prove he was a cheater, an abuser, or anything along those lines. Women who stay at home and tend to the house and kids makes it possible for their partner to be able to go out an make all that money, build their career, etc. Men hate to admit it, but capitali… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Being on his phone the entire date Not responding to a question or paying attention to the conversation. Talking about his ex in any form. One date I aborted before it started... he literally wanted me to confirm over text that I would screw him after dinner, on our first date, even though I made it clear I was living with my mom and she and I shared a room... he threw a mantrum, again over text, about how he "has the body of a God" and that "you should be GLAD I want to fuck a fat pig like you!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:09 AM |
| 38 | There are only double standards (vent)"Women should do all the housework and childcare if the man earns the most!" "She earns the most? HA, she's so narcissistic for wanting her husband, an ADULT, to do more around the house! She should be GLAD he found a way to play her- uhhh i mean the system!" Uhhuh. Sure buddy. That makes sense. Sounds exactly like what the scrotes on tiktok would say. We are told to level up if we want our men to do more and act like adults instead of treating us like a mommy, but when we do we are torn down fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 11 | He found me.I'm glad that this helped. I was worried my rant would be useless 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:19 PM |
| 17 | I have no words100% she has curly hair and uses a special silk or cotton towel to plop her hair. His family, especially the women, likely wouldn't have made a fuss about her special hair towel. He's the only one who has a problem. I bet she's pissed because she wanted her hair to look great for his family, but ended up with a frizzy/ fly away mess because she didn't have the towel. And it was obvious he unpacked the towel. All he had to do is ask WHY the towel was so important and LISTEN. but no. Gotta be the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 90 | He found me.I'm willing to bet his life isn't as much of a turn around as you think. I had an emotionally and sexually abusive ex contact me after nearly 10 years of no communication (I never shut down my socials, just stopped using them so often) and his new wife seemed perfect. He owned a goat farm. He was regarded as a hero because he joined the national guard at some point. Yet, he still tried to claim im the only person he ever loved, that he was wrong to cheat on me with a 21 yo when we were 16, that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:39 AM |
| 15 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Very. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 03:35 AM |
| 74 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Because in bdsm "stop" means "harder daddy" and is considered part of the "unwilling kink" 😖 I can't believe I ever thought bdsm was sexy 🤦🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Young men on tiktok advising against porn usageYes! I've seen a lot more people speaking against porn, and I'm glad for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:50 AM |
| 15 | Visualization of the time breakdown of caring for a newborn. I can’t believe she credits her husband for giving her a mere 3 hours of sleep at a time. The bar for men is so low that roaches can’t fit under it. Mothers - demand more!She breastfeeds. So no matter what she was going to be up every 2-4 hours to feed baby or pump. I wish I knew what that was like. I wanted to breastfeed but my buds were duds. Bottles only it was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:42 AM |
| 7 | Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page?As a house wife/homemaker/sahm... it is most certainly NOT easy. Working at a busy fast food restaurant as a front end cashier was WAY easier.. and I was being paid for it! I literally have no me time. Dad works all day. The 2 toddler tyrants make cleaning and meal planning a nightmare. No room stays clean for longer than 5 hours. Even with hubby doing his part of the housework. I adore my tater tots but hot damn I miss ALONE TIME and having time to sleep, to recharge... week 3 of literally stay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 07:20 AM |
| 3 | I am having trouble finding that article about how having the same person being the main caregiver and the only one cleaning/running the household causes both areas to suffer.I think it was posted in the last year or two. And yes, it was a link fds post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 15 | I am having trouble finding that article about how having the same person being the main caregiver and the only one cleaning/running the household causes both areas to suffer.None of these seem to be what I'm looking for... I suppose I forgot to specify caregiving as in both tending to children and cleaning, and being the main person who does both. These are all interesting though! I plan on studying them too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:47 PM |
| 14 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endPlease PLEASE tell me she updated and either got him arrested or sued his ass for those damages... destroying someone else's personal property is a crime. And like... what woman wants to be flirted with after dark when she is grocery shopping? He's delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:07 PM |
| 42 | Going to therapy is not the solution to every relationship problem. It only works if the person going is willing to be honest about their situation and is open to change, which is why it doesn’t work with addicts.Also him saying that his gf asked him how his therapy session went, and then assuming that she was hoping to hear that she was right is some next level projection. HE wanted it to be confirmed that HE was right so he just ASSUMES her asking how it went is her wanting the same thing when she was just wanting to know how it went. Unless that therapist specializes in helping people out of addiction, or even specifically porn addiction, they aren't going to be able to help him at all. It reminds me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:45 PM |
| 97 | Going to therapy is not the solution to every relationship problem. It only works if the person going is willing to be honest about their situation and is open to change, which is why it doesn’t work with addicts.These scrotes would really rather hide in another room and jack it than seek out their gf or wife. "It's my body and I feel that I shouldn't have to stop just because she says so!" Then do her a favor and TELL HER THAT so she can stop wasting time on you instead of trying to do it in secret. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 11 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?Wanting to feel needed is a human trait. It's stupid that people try to make it a "man" thing. Many men don't feel the need to make US feel needed. So many will actively put down and insult their partner to "put her in her place". To "remind her she isn't a queen." So if a man wants you to make him feel needed, but has no intention of doing the same, he can go screw a sex doll. The purpose of finding a partner isn't to feel needed. It's to find someone who makes life better, more fun, and who ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 12 | A List of LovebombsIn high-school I had a boyfriend who insisted on being on the phone all the time. Even at school. Somehow he still ended up cheating on me, getting an older woman pregnant (he and I were 16, she was like 21 or 22). And it turned out I was now a side chick and she was his main. She hated his guts too. And was already broken up with him and moved in with her girlfriend before the baby was born. I was such a pickme back then that I actually tried to make it work, despite knowing fairly early on tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:28 AM |
| 38 | Are we supossed to jump around like a dog when we get proposed ( and the worst I could have thinked of)Flag no 3 is textbook negging. | /r/askFDS | 18/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | They hate her cause she attempted to flip the script.I got on an OLD platform that was marketed as "for making friends"... One guy opened with "hey beautiful, would you have sex with me for $300?" Like dude, wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:10 PM |
| 24 | They hate her cause she attempted to flip the script.What red flags does he need to look out for? We have to look out for signs that he's a PA, an abuser, a potential killer, a boundary breaker, a fuck boi, a hobosexual, only interested in sex, that he thinks of us as below him, etc. Etc.. What's he looking out for? Signs she doesn't care he's broke? That she isn't willing to bang the first date? That she has standards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 9 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!Others are saying this is probably because we are trying to keep our distance and aren't freaking them out by getting all up in their face. Basically, because we are the ultimate cat-boundary avoiders, we are the ones they want to hang out with. I once gave a cat a shoulder massage and it's purrs made me so happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!Fair enough. I am also the one who's usually hiding in a corner to get away from the crowd myself, so that might make me even more enviting, since I'd normally be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:29 AM |
| 10 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!That's actually pretty sweet. Yea, the most i do is just acknowledge them, but I can't just run up to them. At all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!I don't feel special when cats show me affection. There could be a whole ass party and that one "cat who hates everyone" will crawl into my lap, demand pets, and fall asleep. And I just have to resign myself to the fact that I'll have eyes practically swollen shut before I get home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 03:53 AM |
| 74 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!I dislike cats because they make my eyes swell. Doesn't mean I'm not going to admire them. I just wish they would stop hopping into my lap! It's always me! Like WHY. Their human is all like "oh wow, my cat usually isn't this friendly! They usually hide in the vents!" And I'm over there thinking "this is why I'm convinced cats are literal spawns of Satan! Out of ALL the people they pick the only one in the room that will suffer from the pets and cuddles!" But damn if they aren't the cutest most p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 03:51 AM |
| 671 | No words. Rest in beautiful peace, AgnesI am speechless. Like... really, it's a deep blow to see such a successful woman, who likely would have gone on to accomplish many more great things, killed by the one person she should have been able to trust the most. Lurkers... this. This should be more than enough for us to be able to say we HAVE to be careful who we let in, we have to have standards and be able to dip as soon as the first red flag pops up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itTo be fair, I didn't know until recently that it was rape either. I was even flat out raped by an ex and didn't realize it until I talked to my mom about it. I think school systems should be required to teach high schoolers the different forms of rape and sexual assult, and that police should take reports more seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 07:43 PM |
| 17 | Hey scrotes, don't want women to be so hard, tough, and difficult? Stop making things hard, tough, and difficult.Part of me is terrified of losing weight because it would draw attention from all the scrotes. But I want to lose weight for my health, but also so people will take me seriously because apparently being overweight is a character flaw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyKeep them? Keeping them 6 ft away from me, at the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 6 | The breakup level up cliche is totally true!Are you me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 8 | Racist scrote had it comingI bet he's lying and they got into a verbal argument instead of it being his "kink" 🤢🤮 Even if that was the truth, he's doing this so loudly his neighbor can hear. There is no "personal" here. And that's a disgusting "kink" anyway. Hope he never gets a great job again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:33 PM |
| 59 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)Could this be considered a form of kidnapping too? Definitely attempted murder imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 89 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)Absolutely! I'm pretty sure leaving someone stranded in the woods with no way out is a crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 255 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)Screams "Narcissistic Sociopath" to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.Crazy thing is... the Bible makes it clear women are equal to men. Any verse that contradicts that is a mistranslation or taken WAY out of context. The verse about wives submit to their husband's? The original word there means SUPPORT HIM AND LISTEN TO HIS ISSUES. Literally to be his friend and confidant. And many forget the second half of that which is "husbands, love your wives like Jesus loves the church" which many take to mean be willing to lay your life down... but Jesus LOVED the people w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I have dust allergies too! Dusting was always the most satisfying yet painful chore for me. It triggers my asthma. When I told my husband I am allergic to peanuts, that they cause migraines... he tried to convince me I had no such allergy... like dude, if I won't touch a food because I "didn't like it as a child..." it's usually because I was allergic and was force fed it anyway! Now he takes it super serious since I almost went to the hospital for a massive migrain because I made buckeyes (pean… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.Very well said! I hate when people act like his incompetence is quirky or cute. Like fuck no. I wanted to marry an adult man, not a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 8 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.Doing chores after years of not lifting a goddamn finger in hopes of sex. Thing is, they think an hour of cleaning is more than enough... after years of being "nagged" to do more! Like... duh, of course it didn't work! You ain't even trying! And you should be doing chores to help her and make her happy, not for sex... stupid oafs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I'm so sorry that so many of your relationships were like this. I'm thankful that you didn't stay with them and kept your own place. However, I did not put this name to it. I'm not sure who exactly did, but I originally saw it in other posts on fds and on tiktok most recently. I'm just pissed that so many do not see this as a form of abuse! I even had a dude in my dms trying to tell me that "you should try to see it through those men's eyes and realize the way they were raised is the problem!" A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.Ok, so a few work arounds: Make things as easy and fun as possible. Can't put the washed clothes away because folding and stuffing it all into draws is a nightmare? Use a bookshelf on it's back or laundry baskets to sort out the clothes. Just toss em in. Don't even have to fold them. For me, cleaning is easier with a list. So I made a page of chores for each room, a check list. Inside plastic page protectors. And got dry erase markers, so now they are reusable lists. Really helps if my executive… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I'm so glad you got out of there! My husband was kind of like this (not quite as bad tho) until I left without a word. When I came back, he realized that he CAN and WILL lose me if he keeps taking out all his frustration on me... totally different man now. He still has his negative moments, but never directed at me or the kids anymore. (He was verbally very nasty, and if I tried to leave the room to cool down he'd follow and corner me. Then I experienced reactionary abuse. Because of my anxiety,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.Right? I think she may have been hard-core gaslit into believing she was the problem. When I was being gaslit by my mom and my church, I was lecturing my friends like crazy about different things. When I finally got away, only after some time did I realize it for what it was. She's so deep in the fog that she can't even see the truth anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:50 PM |
| 14 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.No problem! There are so many mental abuses that are flat out ignored or defended. The scrotes and lurkers are mad 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 20 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.This is a great point. And I'm so sorry that therapist was so dismissive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 19 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I really need them. But I think colorado is super strict about this stuff... I am looking into cerebral and other online stuffs. I hope I can get the help I need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:25 PM |
| 25 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.If my marriage ends, imma focus on myself and consider a lesbian relationship. I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian, not bi, and just fell into compulsive heterosexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:12 PM |
| 20 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.THIS. Say it louder for the lurkers in the back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:01 PM |
| 37 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.That's the thing. They don't become lazy assholes overnight. Plus lovebombing and such... it really screws with your head. I was down for a month with (I think) an overian cyst... none of the tests showed anything, so I think this was my issue. And my husband couldn't handle running the household while I laid with a heating pad on my back for weeks. He does work full time as a manager and dough boy of a pizza spot, and pulls another coworkers slack (a guy who has issues with weapomized incompete… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 128 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I suffer from severe adhd (and possible autism as well) and I often actually struggle to meet my own needs, let alone my kid's or my husband's. Before I realized I have adhd, my husband was constantly frustrated with me... and I was too. I couldn't pay bills on time, couldn't clean often, and having extreme pains on top of it all. I am, admittedly, a train wreck. Doesn't help that my mom was a narcissistic abuser and convinced me I was just lazy. But after I realized it and spent a lot of time e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:27 PM |
| 61 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I recently was down for a whole month from an overian cyst (keeping an eye on my symptoms incase it's PCOS or an often occurrence). My husband kept saying he'd clean after work. He never did. Never took out trash or did dishes. Right now my health is in such a bad way that I can't leave because I am too hurt to work, but not hurt enough to qualify for unemployment benefits. And then he wonders why I'm very passive aggressive when cleaning... like dude, I get it. You work hard at work. I admire t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 212 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I saw a great tiktok on this using a clip from Hamilton. "Look at where you are. Look at where you started. The fact that you're alive is a miracle"... My mom was like this my whole life. I was responsible for keeping track of HER glasses, HER purse, HER phone... often they were on her person. My husband once accused me of hiding something because HE put it in some weird random spot. A scrote told me in the comments that "you have proved my point and warned my mates better than I ever could. You… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 41 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.I suspect this tiktoker has been extremely gaslit by a lazy narcissistic man. She really thinks she is the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:57 PM |
| 23 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.👏👏👏 well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:56 PM |
| 12 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.The bar is in the center of the earth... yet so many still can't reach it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 31 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.Very. She has a whole series about teaching other women to CoMmUnIcAtE bEtTeR... She has so many likes on that video though. Like, it's disturbing how many people think it's all on women to communicate better. I mean, men get overemotional when they feel disrespected and not heard too. But for some reason pickmes and men don't see anger as an emotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 30 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.Don't you know? Women run the whole world in the dark while men are the public faces of that work! (/s but I wouldn't doubt if that was the case). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 59 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.Absolutely. But she's so deep in the fog, I doubt she'd see it that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 51 | Another horrible online dating story. A good example of why you don't have sex too soon before you have a chance to vet thoroughly.I've mentioned before that I used casual sex for self harm when I was younger. Most of those guys were married men who were terrible liars. Like, it was obvious. Back then I just didn't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:44 PM |
| 76 | Bfs family jokingly asking why I am with him - red flag?I had an ex who's family did that. Turned out he was cheating with multiple women behind my back. Not only that, but I wasn't even his "main girl"... no that was a 20 yo woman that his 16 yo self got pregnant. This same guy recently reached out to me. He's married now, as am I, and we live 1,000 miles apart. Didn't stop him from claiming I was the only woman he ever loved and that he still wanted to be with me. Dropped, blocked, and notified his wife. Idk if she ever saw my message. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/21 11:48 AM |
| 12 | Stop calling women girls!I've been catching myself doing this as well. I agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:38 AM |
| 30 | Man baby and forever gfRight? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:08 PM |
| 30 | Man baby and forever gfRight? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:39 PM |
| 384 | Man baby and forever gfHe keeps talking about the girl he's cheating on his other girl with not "keeping her word"... asshat, what about you? You ain't keeping your word to you gf. You had to have promised up and down that you would never talk to the girl that's making you bleed money now... I hate guys like this. They want everyone around them to be loyal and truthful when they are ANYTHING but. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:46 AM |
| 24 | It screams LVM to me, but my friend argued that it's actually a HVM behaviour. What do y'all think?The bar is in the 8th circle of hell if that makes someone hv. That's the bare minimum when you screw up, and you don't need a billboard to show you admit you are wrong or apologize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:30 AM |
| 346 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.This reminds me how back in my depression years I sent out so many nudes and was using sex as a form of self harm and punishment. I wonder how many of them had these groupchats or shared the pics on line. Did any of them secretly record what happened? Honestly, I WANTED to be killed, so I wasn't careful at all. I'm still struggling with the mental damage that all of that caused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 07:54 PM |
| 48 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.It's basically cheating with extra steps and spending a small fortune on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:45 PM |
| 44 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.Using a vr headset, like the oculus rift, to watch porn that was either made with 3d environment like a video game, or shot with a 360° camera and/or with first person perspective. The "toys" would be synced up and follow the movements of the porn actresses/actors so it feels like they are doing the real thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:10 PM |
| 56 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄By extension, he is implying his daughter was a waste of time too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:32 AM |
| 15 | Man claims his gf WANTS him to hold a gun to her head. I call bs.And beg her to seek therapy or take her to a psych ward... lady needs some help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Man claims his gf WANTS him to hold a gun to her head. I call bs.True. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Man claims his gf WANTS him to hold a gun to her head. I call bs.Absolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 29 | Man claims his gf WANTS him to hold a gun to her head. I call bs.God. Man's messed up to even consider it and not give her a hard "no"... instead asking reddit for advice.. Messed up on so many levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:15 PM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I haven't, but 5hat doesn't seem to fit very well because I seem to be missing a few key symptoms. After I can get my levels checked I'll start considering that. But for now I have enough I need to ask about, if I ask about too much at once they might actually think I'm a hypochondriac. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I have an issue with severe nausea, which keeps me from eating a wide variety of foods. The only things I can keep down without being absolutely miserable are sweets and Campbell's chicken noodle soup. Still, I'll hopefully see about supplements in the mean time and ask about b12 testing at the... I literally can't remember the word. The Baby/abdomen scanner thing? Having adhd on top of all this other absolutely does not help. I must sound insane when I talk.. Anyway, I'll ask about it there and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...That sounds exactly like what I'm dealing with right now. I'll hopefully see about checking into that! Hopefully my body can absorb b12 supplements properly and I've just been a dingus this whole time and not making sure to take in enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"She's defending him online 🤦🏻 saying it's "just their type of humor"... 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I'm so glad you're feeling much better! It sucks to have to go through all that to get what you needed, though. I hope the docs in my area have a bit more sense. So far, they are taking this seriously so it's looking up. What did it feel like when you were low on b12? I'm curious because I've been experiencing constant tiredness and fatigue, and I'm wondering if b12 or some other nutritiant or vitamin. Like in the middle of the day my energy crashes and even if I take a long nap I still feel sup… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:03 AM |
| 55 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Too many men online have talked about how a woman approached them and asked them out, that he was physically attracted to her, but her asking him out was an instant turn off because he felt it was too masculine/ bold/ made him feel like his own masculinity was in question. Men don't like it when women are bold and confident or have too much agency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:09 PM |
| 32 | “Men always complain about being friend zoned, but do they know how much it hurts to be fuck zoned? As if our friendship only had value to him because of possible sex?”One of my best friends in high-school fuckzoned me. A few years ago he reached out again but clearly was looking for a sexting buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:09 PM |
| 21 | Not sure why men can't have conversations without getting triggered into wannabe Sasuke Uchiha but wow"Good girl" 🤢🤮 I HATE that phrase. It was used often by a 60 yo man who was grooming me into being into bdsm and being a sub... when I was 14. I can't read or hear a man condescending calling a grown woman "good girl"... it makes me so nauseous that I want to vomit. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:05 PM |
| 6 | Scrote has reading as an interest, drops woman bc her opening message is about reading.Absolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | What are our thoughts on this culture of rushing into marriageOmg i hadn't even noticed that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 18 | What are our thoughts on this culture of rushing into marriageThis. I did this when I was 20. Now I'm a sahm with 2 kids and severe adhd and anxiety where my fear response to my triggers is big mad. I wish I had been courageous enough to move out of my mother's house and get a college education in psychology. Which is what I want to do now that I'm going to be 26 in a few days (God i feel old...) On top of that, no one wants to discuss chronic pains caused by my 2 pregnancies that both ended in c sections. I finally found a doctor who did. She suspects ova… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 8 | What are our thoughts on this culture of rushing into marriageI say it'd be better to get further education and into a career first. Plus no way did she vet proper. He looks like Elijah Woods with the energy of a teen fuck boy. If you get educated and into a great career path, and he's also doing so, then it might be something to consider. But if he's still living at his mama's and working minimum wage or not working at all, drop him like a hot cake and let someone else deal with the mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 16 | And men will claim "it's not most women"...This is horrifying. I knew this already, but everytime I'm reminded of it the horror of that situation sets in.. Why wouldn't they arrest the man for having premarital sex? The logic does not compute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 24 | Cringeworthy :/No. It was a porn category created to degrade and disrespect women. This isn't ok in any capacity. And no man who respects you or loves you would agree to do such a thing. Remember: the Madonna whore complex. Men don't pick and marry the "whores" who enjoy degrading acts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:38 AM |
| 18 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Also, I hate the insinuation that people can only be traumatized by war and guns and bombs. I'm traumatized, and my abuser never once heald a physical weapon against me. But she did hold a mental one. I literally have to force myself to do dishes because I'm very much having flash backs to her not doing the dishes ever, but constantly screaming at me to do them and making me out to be a mentally challenged individual to friends and family. Trauma takes so many forms. Sexual trauma from rape, men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"This comment is so great. I asked on a baking sub how heavy the cake would actually be. 70 lbs for a 5 layer cake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:23 AM |
| 29 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"Yep. And if he immediately starts putting down these things, leave, block, and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 26 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"This is more likely because he has zero motivations or goals besides downing 5 bags of hot cheetos and 2 12 packs of mountain dew while watching anime or hentia and jacking off to it. Proof that "fetishes" "kinks" and "porn" can easily corrupt a mind into not even seeing women as humans with feelings, wants, goals, and desires. Like men in most anime/hentai are... fairly fleshed out while the women are just objects for them to use (not the case with all anime series, but more than enough for me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:40 AM |
| 19 | Yes. Planning an interesting date or activity together can be a turn on. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out 😒. But the two replies on the bottom are just gold 😆."Men have two heads and can't use neither one of them" 🤣 truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 22 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Or worse... end up like gabby... People need to realize shit like this is abuse. Some idiot commented and told me it was just my opinion and he's glad not everyone thinks that way. WHEN THE COMMENT STATES THAT A 5 TEAR CAKE IS 70 LBS... and I don't think anyone can take 70 lbs to the dome and still be unscathed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"He later claimed i was just trying to rile him up in the comments... when he commented on my comment to play devil's fucking advocate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:40 PM |
| 13 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Or claiming one incident doesn't prove he's abusive. "It was just an accident!" No, it was a mistake. One he could feel in his muscles he was making. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 18 | An addendum to my post about the wedding cake chucker...He threw the entire cake, not just one layer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Right? Ugh. If she did it to him men would have a whole other narrative to push. They all see the man as the hero (like patriotic Americans see the usa) and they see women as always being the evil temptress bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 45 | An addendum to my post about the wedding cake chucker...Same. I hope someone told her about fds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:18 PM |
| 13 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"A 5 layer cake is 70 lbs BTW. She was hit with a weight of 70 lbs. And people want to act like it is a light hearted joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 10 | An addendum to my post about the wedding cake chucker...Look at my previous post for context | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"That is actually 70 lbs of cake and hardware. He basically threw a giant dog right at her head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 129 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.Oh.... you mean a relationship? Where the couple supports each other? How is this romance scam if they got married and moved in together? Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 23 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"She doesn't even realize this was assult, just like many women take years to realize they were raped. Please, God, don't make this another case like Gabby's... I can't handle the heartbreak I feel for these women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 25 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Of course! Probably because he was being downvoted. Gotta protect that reddit karma! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:02 PM |
| 32 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Oh God "over grooms 'aggressive' act" ... as if that wasn't assult with a heavy object. Imagine having a 20-30 lb weight thrown at your head and people making you out to be the bad person when you fight back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 13 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Yep. There's a video shot at a different angle and they both seem to be laughing, but... it doesn't sit right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:35 PM |
| 41 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Now, if you'll excuse me, I have to go exercise this anger out or I will blow a gasket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 89 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"A different angle was posted (search "man throws cake at bride") and it looks more like he and the bride where laughing... But was she laughing because she thought it was funny? Or out of shock? Still should be a crime imo. Just like if a woman is raped and she doesn't see it as rape, it's still what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 175 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Exactly! Abuse and assult are still the same, regardless of intent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:06 PM |
| 123 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Instant annulment because of assult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 109 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"This guy keeps claiming that the couple would just laugh it off and move on. What. The. Fuck. And then claims I'm the one riling him up. He responded to my comment originally to claim he didn't see how this was traumatic or where the harm was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:39 PM |
| 137 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Maybe he was focused on masking how shitty he was and thought "she signed the papers already!" Would protect him. Look at how she shrinks back when he stomps angrily toward her. It looks like he wants to kill her already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:23 PM |
| 69 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"That cake is heavy and has hardware to keep it upright. This is full on assult and abuse not just probably having anger issues, and not just the others not getting cake. She likely had to go to the er after this, straight up. SEVENTY POUNDS. THE CAKE WOULD HAVE BEEN DAMN NEAR 70 LBS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:04 PM |
| 42 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Not allowed to share links since it's on reddit... check my comments on my profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 77 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | This just in. Baldness - A systemic issue we should all be taking seriously.Let us not forget that men will make fun of us for days on end about it... yet we ourselves really couldn't care less. A narcissistic man, who has male pattern baldness murder his fiance... that's more important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:18 PM |
| 11 | This just in. Baldness - A systemic issue we should all be taking seriously.The reason balding could have something to do with him killing her is BECAUSE bald men are THIS insecure. Even this guy advocating for other balding men and himself is being a fucking narcissist. Because he put more emphasis on his feewings being huwt than the actual fucking murder. Plus every balding guy I've ment has been a fucking creep. The reason they are balding is because, if I understand properly, their testosterone is glitching out and being produced way too much. There are other reason… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:35 AM |
| 78 | I don’t really have words for this one.I think my stepdad was like this too. I had recently found a picture of him with me and my sister. My sister is standing as far away from him as she can, and I'm actively trying to remove his hand from my shoulder. Plus he looked like a grandpa who got his teeth kicked in. Why my mom married him? She was trying to run from her money problems. The guy looked old enough to be her creepy uncle, but was the same age. There was another guy who looked kinda like hank Hill that all my siblings and I li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:02 AM |
| 15 | Just gonna leave this here.Yet they insist even lesbians just experienced bad sex too... and it would exactly be the same because they aren't gay so it would DEFINITELY be sex they don't want and not just bad sex! Ugh. These fucking scrotes. I need to take a breather. They piss me right the fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 20 | Just gonna leave this here.Sometimes the brain uses humor to cope. I suspect that subconsciously you knew what happened was bad and wrong for him to do. I was raped and didn't recognize it until I talked it over with my mom. Who then slut shamed me... my childhood and teen years were not great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:09 PM |
| 82 | Just gonna leave this here.I'd tell him "if a man forced himself on YOU... would you consider it "just bad sex" and not rape?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 07:00 PM |
| 36 | Just gonna leave this here.I shared because he actually breaks down and explains the study. I feel the information is important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:58 PM |
| 96 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.When my mom divorced my step dad, she found a folder that contained the divorce papers from his previous marriage and a hand written letter from his ex wife, detailing everything that was wrong and making an ultimatum. I can't remember everything, but it was pretty much the exact issues my mom had with him. And he never even brought it up. Men tend to stay the same, especially if they have others telling them their behavior is normal. Like checking out other women. Sorry op, but I think that thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:57 PM |
| 16 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪No, pure depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:05 PM |
| 34 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Yep. I've literally told past sexual partners exactly what I want, and their defense for not doing it was "you don't know what you want. Women in porn LOVE the sex, so I'm going to do it that way!" As if porn actresses aren't actresses. As if women are a hive mind that all want the same exact thing. As if I didn't just tell him exactly what works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 13 | Do not date recovering porn addicts, this post is another example of the misery and pain dealing with a pornsick man. So many scrotes defending him in the comments🤢Two solutions this scrote could have done instead of insisting he needs to watch porn that is likely of women who look nothing like his gf: Go to gf when you feel the need to masturbate to porn. Do NOT go jack off or watch porn. Masturbate without porn, or to pics of gf ONLY. You don't need porn to masturbate. Studies show that men who are denied access to porn will masturbate to thoughts of women they know, and even more likely to have thoughts of his partner. So stupid that so many men act lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 10 | Funny?? - women are treated worse than pets.Ugh. She needs to leave him. If he wanted to treat her better, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:07 PM |
| 45 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪No, they know. It's weaponized incompetence when they claim they don't and do a bad job of it on purpose. "If he wanted to, he would." These guys have likely had many women CoMuNiCaTe their sexual needs and how to get them off many many times. They just don't give a fuck and think those women are lying because of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…I hope so too. I feel so bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 78 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪These types usually only want head or anal anyway. On top of that, if they do want vaginal sex, there is usually no foreplay, no making sure she gets off first, and refusal to do ANYTHING sexual for her after he cums. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:21 PM |
| 18 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…Most relationship subs will outright ban you if you tell another to just leave. At least she could report him. This is a legit crime by military terms. Both he and his side piece would be in deep shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:13 AM |
| 57 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…Seems like she is grieving the loss of the pregnancy, which might contribute to her still trying to keep things together. I can't imagine the emotional and possibly physical pain she is in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:10 AM |
| 77 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…Yea, losing your unborn child and then being told she is losing her husband? Honestly, she seems to be in the bargaining stage. I wonder if he even cares... who am I kidding? Of course he doesn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:08 AM |
| 6 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileWay to make it clear that women are nothing but flashlights to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:48 AM |
| 18 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???"Some women" ... he's oblivious to the fact that damn near every woman has been traumatized by a man at some point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:25 PM |
| 76 | You never really know someone…The domestic abuse rate amongst the police is... scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...It really was. She nearly killed me when I was 16. Why? Because I had appendicitis. She thought I was just playing up a stomach ache until she chastised (yelled at) me for "making it worse by rolling around and groaning" and I, with a groggy voice, replied "what are you talking about? I was asleep and having the most wonderful dream..." She canceled her at home work and rushed me to the closest er (an hour drive away from home). They said if we waited any longer, my appendix would have ruptured … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I almost died 3 different times because I couldn't tell serious health issues from my period, or general "womenly" pains. Appendicitis, pre-eclampsia, and eclampsia. Not about to risk tempting death a fourth time. If any part of your body is in serious pain, something is wrong. The sad part is... most boomers raised their kids to gaslight themselves about pain. By not believing them and making them walk on broken bones and forcing them to go to school even when they were seriously ill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts?It is not tens of thousands of dollars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 190 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Dye your hair brown today and unlock NEW SEXY TIME QUALITIES! Specially formulated to attract every creepy ass old guy who's "lonely" and "bord by sex with his wife"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:49 PM |
| 157 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Literally told on himself. To him, women are sex objects. Toys for him to collect and dispose of at his discretion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:43 PM |
| 66 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)How could he have time to take care of "his" house and "his" kids when he's so busy trying to entertain his ED dick? Probably thinks the ED is because "being with one weman for so long is boring!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 136 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe! They literally think that, regardless of how they actually look, young women will be turned on because they're older and more experienced! ... even though his reason for infidelity is literally "i didn't have much success or experience with ladies!" Edit: fixed a typo of their to they're. I'm in so much pain I literally didn't notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:40 PM |
| 194 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)I committed to one woman, but NoW i WaNt To ExPiRaMeNt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:38 PM |
| 428 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)As if there's a fundamental difference between women of different hair colors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:37 PM |
| 4 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...Omg that's legit terrifying. Why is the info so male focused and outdated? (Spare me the answer, I think I can guess why) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:23 PM |
| 7 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...What scumbags for not telling her. This advice is golden. I'd give you a reddit badge (or whatever they're called) if I could. I really hope one day tour friend finds out why this is happening. It sounds like torture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:16 PM |
| 7 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...My mom always accused me of faking or exaggerating, and she also never apologized when I was vindicated and validated. I can't imagine how it feels for a doc to do that regularly. My closest experience to pain being ignored by medical professionals was tendinitis in my knees. I was told my entire life "it's just growing pains!" Until I was 17 and hadn't grown an inch in 3 years. Mostly because my mom told the doctors I was faking to get out of P.E. class. I had asthma, so P.E. was hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:12 PM |
| 7 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I think it depends on where you are. Down south? Especially in the Bible belt? Probably not. The further west, the better since my pains were never taken seriously in Illinois. Of course, this is generalization and could change on a case-by-case basis. But yes, it sounds like you should have got checked out a long time ago. Never stick with a doc that doesn't take you seriously. Ever. Maybe unless you've run out of options you can easily travel to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 6 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I'm so glad you survived. What an asshole doctor... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:30 PM |
| 25 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...My doctor had told me "if the pain gets worse, or you start throwing up or having diarrhea go to the er." It sounds like your symptoms are far worse than mine. I really hope you get the help you need as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:15 PM |
| 37 | Bad... But not unexpected... 💔It's sad that his family still seems to be trying to protect him (using a lawyer for contact with the police) even though it's pretty obvious he killed gabby. Like who tf just returns home without a whole ass person in tow and thinks they can just hide away until this blows over as if all he did was break up with her on her birthday or something. It's sickening. Don't trust a man to take you out into the wilderness, ladies. Especially not far away from home for extended periods of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:46 AM |
| 12 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.I can't believe I forgot that she was pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.When men hate, they obcess. Yes, they go through as much of the posts and comments as they can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:46 PM |
| 161 | There's our answer ladies.Hell, they show more love care and affection to cars, fishing, shoes, what ever their collection/hobby is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:46 AM |
| 81 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueFetish. He probably had some sick poop fetish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 19 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.These idiots think shock value = humor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:40 PM |
| 107 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.I'm sick of men thinking they can say any deprived, messed up thought they have and get away with it if they say "it's just a joke!" It's that same attitude of "it's just a prank bro!" That have lead to several men recently having killed a partner or friend "on accident" for the sake of "a prank". The most notable being a Russian streamer who often had people donate him money with requests of abuse of his girlfriend. It started small, lead into him outright being paid to physically abuse her, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:50 PM |
| 14 | I finally broke up with my narcissistic abusive ex and everyone around him thinks I'mCut ties with anyone associated with him, especially if they didn't take the time to hear you out or took his side. Move. Contact a DA shelter and tell them about how your ex treated you and that you are scared because you live in the same building as him. Get yo ass OUT OF THERE. You never know when a manipulative narc will become violent and physically aggressive. Learn to grey rock. Stop contacting him. Stop asking him for anything. Block him on everything. The reason narcs pull this reverse … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:01 PM |
| 301 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.Yea, the LoGiCaL sex casually dropping that when he was 18-23 he participated with a group of guys in grooming underage girls, and insinuates that your daughter must be doing that too as if it was EVER a normal everyday thing in society... What the fuck is wrong with these men? Do they just not have any filter? Where the fuck is the audacity and confidence coming from? Why would anyone think this conversation is ok? Does he not realize the implications of saying this to a young girl's mother? Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 29 | I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.This is why it's suggested in the rules/handbook to use one account for fds only and another for general reddit use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 10:02 PM |
| 12 | Its a murder!Right? On top of that, what psychopath just... loses his fiancé in the wilderness and just... drives right home? Without notifying police? Or her family? 100% sus, he needs voted off the ship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 16 | Its a murder!I don't think it was mentioned in this particular article. But, right? Poor lady. I hope against all the odds that they find her alive and relatively unharmed. Maybe she'll be one of those "I shouldn't be alive" stories, or one of those weird missing 411 cases when the person actually shows up and isn't hurt... Her parents seemed so devastated in the interview 😢 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:15 PM |
| 46 | Its a murder!This article is also leaving out many details, including that the two didn't know each other for very long at all. If I remember correctly, it hadn't even been 2 years since they met. He's allegedly a druggie, he could have easily sold her into sex slavery for his next fix, or killed her (either accidentally or on purpose) from withdraws. There probably WAS plenty of warning signs. Including drug seeking or withdrawal behavior. Suddenly living in a van to travel cross country when they aren't ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 26 | Its a murder!If I remember right, news reports said they hadn't even known each other for more than a year or two. I'm sorry, but traveling cross country in a van with someone I haven't known for as long as my 2 yo daughter has been alive? Dangerous. People can get engaged on the same day as meeting a person. Being engaged means nothing. Still not safe behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know if a political add is allowed but this just made my blood boil.I appreciate you being willing to do so! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know if a political add is allowed but this just made my blood boil.I'm on a phone too. Just pull up the post, tap the 3 dots at the top corner, select "change flair" and scroll until you find the red "trigger warning" option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know if a political add is allowed but this just made my blood boil.Please change the flair to trigger warning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 35 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Even if they were married, he would have no standing. These men can fake being a great guy for way too long for us to not have personal emergency savings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:20 AM |
| 91 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄That advice basically boils down to "BE THE BIGGEST GOLD IGGER THAT EVER DUG!" Yet we are supposedly the gold diggers and they are supposedly more logical 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:17 AM |
| -2 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.What's really bonkers to me is we expected to no longer recieve foodstamps or wic because he was promoted to manager, but instead they upped our benefits from a combination of pandemic funds and having 2 kids that are under school age. Literally over $1,000 in foodstamps each month. I have no idea why they did that, but we have all our info up to date so... 🤷🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:46 PM |
| 0 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.As I said before, sometimes to reach success you have to be willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING YOU HAVE to get to a situation where you can succeed. It ain't gonna happen in a state where base pay is 7.25. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:43 PM |
| -3 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.Haha no. He was an uber driver when the pandemic hit. While he was doing so, we saved like crazy and he invested a lot in the stock market as a kind of less accessible savings fund. We came into the money when the pandemic hit, it just so happened. So, maybe stop blaming everyone else for your financial struggles and move to a better area with a higher base pay and tighten your belt and save every cent you don't have to pay bills or buy food with. When we married, my mom and I were being evicted… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:39 PM |
| -6 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.The minimum wage in my area is $12.32. NO ONE IS APPLYING TO THE PIZZA JOINT. The few who are are rich kids who are also working for shits and giggles and who just need some pocket money or who's parents are helping them learn the value of working even though you don't have to. We aren't in louisiana or Illinois where the hourly wage is less than $8. And it's a locally owned business so I doubt my husband is effecting anyone outside of said business. And as I said no one is expecting the other w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:25 PM |
| 3 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.Did you miss the tag? Roast a scrote. Are we only allowed to talk about scrotes we've dated? Or considered dating? I see plenty of women talking about their scrote family members, and they aren't asked what that has to do with FDS. I think it's important to address scrotes from any situation, not just in a dating sense. Because the more we talk about them and the red flags, the easier it is to identify them in any situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:12 PM |
| -7 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.Who exactly is he fucking over? My area is having an epidemic of people refusing to go back to work and many places being understaffed because no one is even applying to work really. They don't hold anyone else to H's standard. But they still have to get rid of people who are just riding the clock and refusing to do any real work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:00 PM |
| -3 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.It makes his job easier. We already have a surplus of money, so loosing out on... what? $4 a day? Isn't that big a deal. He doesn't even really have to work at this point. He's doing it to stay busy. He's technically able to call himself independently wealthy. He only ever applied to this place because he saw they needed a better worker because the guy at the cash register couldn't even count change properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 07:29 PM |
| -7 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.Sorry if I was unclear, he doesn't work for hours unpaid. It's only like 10-20 mins at the beginning of his shift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 4 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.He's probably lying to his therapist about how well the meds are working, honestly. They handle letting someone go very overtly there. First they are moved to night shift, then their hours are cut slowly all the way down to almost nothing. Usually by that point they quit and find other work. If they don't, G will write them up as much as possible so they have evidence that no discrimination is happening incase the ex employee tries to get unemployment. As far as I can tell, they've been doing it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Be careful: Libfem girls will sabotage your safety tactics against LVMThese girls aren't your friends, sis. They aren't your sisterhood, and that's exactly why one went and did exactly what you asked her not to. She WANTED to cause drama because she is a narc too. She is like my mom and feeds off the drama of others to be a more covert narc, but prods the drama if it's getting too boring. She didn't do this to "act tough" or whatever. She was actively putting you in danger for her own petty entertainment. Forget just cutting out scrotes, cut out ANYONE who is toxi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:48 AM |
| 134 | Help I’ve Become Absurdly Hot Since I Got Married and Now I Want to Dump The Only Woman Who Ever Wanted to Fuck Me So I Can Become The Porn Star Of My Dreams"Building a man is the best work you can do!" Her: actually does it and succeeds in helping him be a better person in several ways. The guy: so I'm hotter and healthier mentally and physically now and my wife hasn't changed, so I want to dump her ass. This. Is. Why. We. Don't. Build. Men. Because even if you can get them to change, they will leave you in a heartbeat as soon as they "realize" that hotter women are interested. Classic case of him "settling down" with someone who isn't exactly what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 21 | The audactiy knows no bounds.In what world does ANYONE rent a SINGLE ROOM for $900? Where does he live? New York city? No way is this dirt bag paying more than $900. So you have to pay (likely) all his rent, be willing to be a bang maid, help him decorate, and you still gotta pay him $30 a day? Why wouldn't anyone just go to a decent motel or hotel and possibly pay even less AND you get someone who cleans for you, a continental breakfast each day, and don't have some scrote trying to get you to diddle his dusty bits for him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 11:43 AM |
| 33 | The amount of hypocrisy I've seen from men is just staggering.Men have successfully rebranded anger as not an emotion, just so they could claim they aren't controlled by emotions. Let's not forget the guys that are super into you, but when you turn them down they spew insults about how unattractive you suddenly are... And Let's not let slip by the super racist men who go home and jack it to porn of the very race of people they spew hate at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:58 PM |
| 71 | Guys Always Seem to Think I’m So in Love with Them I Won’t Cut Ties, Even When I Hated ThemMost men are delusional. They consume media that is a fantasy of being the most desired person, or the most liked person. They literally think they are the main character like in an anime or video game. Where everything goes their way. They mistake kindness for flirting. Especially from a woman. On top of that, they are projecting THEIR feelings onto you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.I think faking orgasms has more to do with pain than "wanting to get it over with quicker." I've heard guys say that stuff too many times. They know when you fake, they just don't give a flying fuck if you get off or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 2 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.I just hope they don't reproduce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:00 PM |
| 18 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.I agree. Faking it is a huge issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 24 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.I remember that a boyfriend I had once was freaked out about me getting wet. Like... how did you not know that's a thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:24 PM |
| 53 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.Don't forget actually pulling his weight at home, actually being a parent, and being caring/understanding if you are sick or hurt. Those go a long long way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 62 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary."It's not foreplay, it's coreplay." That is gold. I am unworthy to be in your presence. Seriously though, you are right. It's such an integral part of sex, and of course the word chosen reduces the importance... cause men just don't care, for the most part, about women's pleasure or feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 12 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.Agreed! Well said 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 39 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.It's so unfair. So many cristian men talk about "being unevenly yolked" with their wives since they don't think running a household is difficult (even though according to the Bible THEY are supposed to be running the show and women are supposed to handle the financials), when their wife knows more about his and her reproductive shit than he ever did. I'm so glad I found out I'm gay, honestly. After I'm out of my current relationship, I'm done with guys forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 15 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.I'm not referring to people I personally know... God, I hope they all are smarter than that... but more the sheer amount of men posting this bs online and the amount of men who agree and like said posts. It's fucking scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 22 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.I snort laughed at this one. Seriously these guys are choosing ignorance at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 44 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.I feel like it still failed men in a particular way. There's a certain intimacy that comes with being able to get your partner to orgasm, and if they don't or refuse to change then resentment builds in the one who isn't reaching that point, which is usually the woman in a straight relationship. This is part of what leads to all the dead bedroom stories. And according to those men, they are suffering big time "the sex was always amazing, but now she won't have sex at all!" Gee Carl, maybe it felt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:21 PM |
| 228 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.They don't even understand the point of foreplay. It takes me waaaay longer to orgasm if there was zero foreplay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 25 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.Yes, that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:55 PM |
| 97 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.Yep. I can't tell you how many scrotes online have insisted to me that I pee through my vagina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:55 PM |
| 2 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!You are promoting transactional relationships. This is NOT fds material. We aren't supposed to be trophies for men to win, darling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 8 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!This post is pick me vibes. Men who date women that aren't even part of the same generation as them are predatory, looking for someone he has power and control over, and will never be a HVM. End of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 8 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!Age gaps are PREDATORY IN NATURE. You really need to read the handbook. This is NOT something we endorse here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:06 PM |
| 10 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!An older man who dates women who are young enough to be their daughter can't be a HVM. Those relationships are predatory in nature and can easily lead to the young woman being slowly put into a position of being mentally torn down daily and financially abused. Read the handbook. An old man wanting to date a young woman is a red flag in and of itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:05 PM |
| 19 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!Read the handbook. Older men who date 18 yos like you are absolutely PREDATORY in nature. They want you cause you're young and niave, not because of your looks. They will literally fuck a crusty sock if they can't find an insecure barely-adult girl. They CAN'T date women their age because those women are experienced. They are educated. They recognize the manipulation. They recognize the narcissistic tendencies. FDS is about dating in your age bracket. No HVM in your age bracket? Work on yourself… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 28 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!That is why you build up YOURSELF FIRST. If you aren't going to find a man that isn't old enough to be your dad that is high value, then you build yourself up until you find a guy in your age bracket that is high value. HVM do NOT date women that are 10-20 years younger than them. And you gotta be high value too, sis. We aren't looking for a man that's "relatively young" we are looking for men in our age group. Older men who go for young women are inherently predatory. They go for women younger … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:48 PM |
| 36 | First date: let’s watch a movie on discord!"No body can be creepy that way!" I have never known a girl to "get creepy" so... he just outed himself as a pornsick creep, right? Ugh. The bar is below the 10th circle of hell at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 85 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetNever ever agree to 50/50, especially not with a man you ain't married to. She needs to get out of there and get a female roommate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:08 PM |
| 389 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.Yet he'll claim she was the gold digger when she divorces him and takes everything... even though she made him what he is and caught him cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:39 PM |
| 14 | Sex study into whether size matters leaves much to be desired (The Times)My husband was over 300 lbs when I met him... he too thought he had a small peen... I didn't care about it much, sex was never really all that important to me... although getting off was. Anyway, he's nearly 100 lbs lighter now and what he thought was a small 3 inch dong is now more like 7 inches. And then I found out why sex with men didn't matter to me 🙃 🎶I'm so gay and I don't even like boys🎶... The hints were always there, but growing up in a strict Christian household tends to make you bury… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 06:22 PM |
| 54 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingAnd if he does and is too "embarrassed" to use the terms... he's too childish to be a dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 189 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingWith a pitiful small "stem" to match... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 173 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingI bet she wasn't disfigured. He's just pissed that he isn't the center of her attention and love anymore. If she was "disfigured" down there, her obgyn should have noticed by now and referred her to a surgeon to repair whatever went wrong. And guys like this will both shame women for not giving birth naturally, while saying women should opt for a c-section so "his vag" isn't "messed up". I hope she dumps his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 56 | Sex study into whether size matters leaves much to be desired (The Times)This is a part of why fat men aren't very appealing. I think. Because fat builds up around the base of the penis, making it both look and feel shorter. Some fat men can end up with an "innie" because the fat actually engulfs it. I bet obesity is the "health condition" they are referring to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What did I just read…? At best, this is a disgusting, vile, humorless “joke”. At worst…? I don’t want to think about it.It's because of porn. Straight up. There's so many "step" dad on daughter porn videos... Porn sick to the absolute core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | What did I just read…? At best, this is a disgusting, vile, humorless “joke”. At worst…? I don’t want to think about it."ThInK aBoUt It LoGiCaLlY!!!" THIS IS THE FURTHEST THING FROM LOGICAL A PERSON CAN GET. NONE OF THIS IS LOGICAL! I have a daughter, and if I EVER found my husband saying ANYTHING like this, me and my children will vanish and he will be served a restraining order within a week. NO ONE SHOULD SEXUALIZE THEIR OWN CHILD. The goal is NOT to raise a daughter "for another man to fuck in every hole" it's to raise a child who is smarter and more successful than you. You should NOT WANT to raise a daughte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:09 PM |
| 6 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁I feel like people have no idea that giving birth is pretty much still just as dangerous now as it was 100 years ago. The only difference is we understand a few things a bit better. For example: I nearly died from pre-eclampsia and eclampsia. The biggest danger with both of those is ignoring the signs. And my stupid butt was like "ok, feet swelling, trouble breathing... eh, I'll be ok, don't want to bother anybody!" With the eclampsia. Which landed me in the hospital for a week,, and i was sent … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 9 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Right? When I was 16 I had appendicitis and had to have my appendix removed, a relatively minor surgery compared to a c section. Just 3 small cuts, one being in the belly button.... and that hurt for a long time as well. I wasn't allowed to go to school for a week (too bad we already had a week off at that point... lol) and then wasn't allowed to participate in p.e. or take part in most exercises. A bummer to 16 yo me, because I was riding my bike 10 miles everyday because there was nothing to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:59 AM |
| 90 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.He told on himself, and might have even lied about the traumatic relationship... he was probably just a scrote who either got that tactic from a PA or the woman left him because he's a not-so-great person, potentially abusive or a cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 12 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?Yet at any other time they act like they are smarter than us, even about subjects we have been studying our whole lives. Th LoGiCaL gEnDeR at its -finest- worst. Eta: any other time I tried to put these - around a word it got crossed out.. now it won't do it... yay formatting issues... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:54 PM |
| 36 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁"That's MY baby too.. but you have to pay for it, be the only one to take care of it, can't ask me to watch it, and can't ask me for help!" Like... bro, what the heck ARE you doing then? They act like the baby is theirs until they have to help or pay up for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 53 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁My husband isn't a HVM by a long shot, but at least he doesn't expect me to go in 50/50 and is totally ok buying me pads and other period products. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 236 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁OMG NOOO. I am pissed FOR her! I had 2 c-sections (lol people on here are probably tired of hearing about them) and she is WAY MORE THAN A LITTLE SORE. She was sliced into, layer after layer, directly into her womb. I was on strong pain meds for 3 weeks after both c sections. I could barely even get out of bed with the first c section. Taking the bus? TAKING THE BUS????? You are supposed to avoid such things while healing from this. Just RIDING IN A CAR hurts like hell if you don't have a pillow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:16 PM |
| 382 | So close...Ugh. First, it's often MEN who shame OTHER MEN for being virgins. Second, usually when a woman refers to a man not getting laid, it's because he's either an incel who has less charisma than a ritz cracker, or some lame-o using PA tactics he saw "work" on youtube. If neither of those, it's some scrote with no basic hygiene or manners. Third, yes, it IS because of the patriarchy. Why? Because MEN set the "importance of getting laid", yet they want nearly every woman they bone to be virgins themsel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | I found proof of how uncomfortable my stepdad made me and my sister. No one believed that he was being creepy.Duh. I blocked out the faces for that reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | I found proof of how uncomfortable my stepdad made me and my sister. No one believed that he was being creepy.He always gave off the creepiestvibes. Also, it's common for a man to be mean to a girl or woman he can't have. There was a predatory teacher that acted very similar to my step dad. And, of course, there's an endless amount of porn videos about stepdads boning their step daughters. This picture is also only one example of him disregarding boundaries. I'm sure he would have tried something more solid if he felt he would get away with it. And, it can't bee seen since I bloted out our faces,but he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:41 AM |
| 27 | I found proof of how uncomfortable my stepdad made me and my sister. No one believed that he was being creepy.No. She acted like me and my sister were overreacting. I think she eventually made me let him have his hand on my shoulder. She was a total pickme for this guy for years. I never understood why she wanted this guy. He looked fugly and was a mean old man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 49 | I found proof of how uncomfortable my stepdad made me and my sister. No one believed that he was being creepy.Ok so, context. I was 13 in this picture. This is only a few months after my dad passed. This man made the ENTIRE VACATION a miserable experience. That extra arm is my sister, standing as far away from him as mom would allow. I'm actively trying to get his hand off my shoulder. I remember expressing that he will never ever replace my dad. BTW, this guy was my mom's age (50ish at the time) but people kept mistaking him for my grandpa so... He was always mad at me. Over everything. I think he was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 128 | Just got told off by a woman for being mean to a guy who idolises/sees himself in Joaquin Phoenix's JokerWe all heard the "be nice to the social recluse so when he shoots the place up, he won't shoot you" joke, right? Yet people don't think guys like this need corrected and treatment. They think you just gotta be nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:37 PM |
| 35 | Excellent reality check for older men who think they’re about to trade upThe way I see it, unless it's a crazy amount of charcoal... charcoal itself doesn't have much of a flavor when mixed in with other flavors. I have charcoal toothpaste and it just tastes like mint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:01 PM |
| 7 | I need help finding an article that was posted on this sub.This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:57 PM |
| 36 | Excellent reality check for older men who think they’re about to trade upI've not had it personally, but everyone who I've seen try it has not liked it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I become a HVW when all the odds are stacked against me? (Rant)Similar situation for me, but the genders are reversed. My dad was a HVM and he passed when I was 14. My mom is a LVW who never tried to get better. I... wish I had answers for you. I wish I could tell you exactly how to get better... But I'm still on this journey myself. So, I hopefully can give a bit of advice to help you get started. First: get a new therapist, and keep doing so until you get a great one. It can be difficult, however it's not impossible. Once you find someone who fits your ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:24 PM |
| 8 | I need help finding an article that was posted on this sub.I realized that once I read the article again. My memory... not the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 07:17 PM |
| 61 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?Exactly! I'm so sorry you had to go through that 🥺 I want to make a world where my daughter doesn't have to experience any of this pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 16 | I need help finding an article that was posted on this sub.Lvm and nvm ruin everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:59 PM |
| 48 | I need help finding an article that was posted on this sub.Likely because of the likelihood of the redpillers and other incel groups would try a mass shooting... The event I asked about took place in the 70s in iceland, which is a completely different setting to today.. I'd be worried about incels and women haters killing us in cold blood just for trying to stand up for ourselves... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:36 PM |
| 25 | I need help finding an article that was posted on this sub.Omg i appreciate this so much! 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:36 PM |
| 36 | Why do men love using this excuse when they f*** up?Translation: I didn't mean for you to get hurt by finding out i was hurting you! You were never supposed to see any of this, and I was just supposed to get away with it for years without any consequences! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | OopsThese men still be out here telling on themselves like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | OopsI'm 26 and recently had a similar experience. Since then I have yet to actually leave my husband, however I've been taking better care of myself and doing things that make me happy. I look better, but still have a while to go to heal my self worth and self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 395 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?I was raped when I was 16. I was wearing a t-shirt and shorts that went down to my knees. It's not the victim's fault that they became a victim. I don't care if a woman is standing naked in the street, THAT DOESN'T GIVE ANY MAN THE GO AHEAD TO RAPE HER. Men need to learn about concent and what rape is and that it is THE MAN'S FAULT THAT HE RAPED A WOMAN. Not her fault. Admittedly, I grew up in a strict Christian household with a mom who's a Karen. For a while, I thought that same way. Only becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 42 | He still keeps sex vids of him and his ex but going through his phone is the bigger violation of trust... 🤡"You shouldn't get rid of every single relic of a past relationship!" Um... sure but he should have at least DELETED HIS FAPPING MATERIAL OF HIS EX. What women has ever been caught with even one naked pic of her ex? Let alone a video of having sex? I bet the ex has no idea that video exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:33 PM |
| -5 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?Still shouldn't have been included before asexuals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:39 AM |
| -5 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?If you are right and it was originally "allies" I hope it was changed later TO FIX THAT MISTAKE. Asexual erasure is NOT ok. You can't be an ally of yourself. That's not how that works. You are either part of the community, or you aren't and you support the community. Heteros who aren't homophobic assholes should have never EVER been included in the alphabet soup IN THE PLACE OF asexuals. If that is the truth, that reflects negatively on the community as a whole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?Isn't a Asexual? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?Any time I've ever seen the acronym said in full or spelled it was always "queer". Even in lgbtqa+ spaces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:37 AM |
| 4 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?Lgbtqa+.... so does that mean the Q should be removed? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:31 AM |
| -1 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?What do you thing the Q in lgbtqa+ is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 31 | Truth 💯 @che_guefarhanThis is an interesting point. What if men are often so violent and unempathitic because (or at least in part) of them seeing "creating life" as a 5 second ejaculation? They think a baby is there's and that they should make all the choices about what happens to it even though they aren't the ones gestating the new human or that have to deal with the pain, discomfort, stress, and (in most cases) trauma that comes with being pregnant and carrying to term. I almost died during/right after pregnancy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:19 PM |
| 84 | The audacity- calling to talk about other women he meetsHe was trying to make you jealous, I think. It might also be a pick me test, to see if you are willing to fight other women for his attention. Probably something he picked up from a YouTube pickup artist or a friend who watches that bullshit. Men are so so so unabashedly stupid and have so much audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:14 PM |
| 12 | “I know it’s weird but”Men really just base their sexual talk on porn, huh? I can suit, I can make myself do it, but it's not like it is in porn. At all. It does not shoot across the room. And it does not necessarily indicate an orgasm. It's more embarrassing than anything imo. And no guy has ever "made" me do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 15 | "iTs mY BiOloGy" is the most last-resort, half-baked excuse there is. When a man says this, he KNOWS he is in the wrong, but is just trying all his options hoping you will buy into one.I made a post about this somewhat recently, saying how if guys can use the biology excuse, so can we. "Of course I don't want to be with you anymore, honey! You've become fat and lazy and more to take care of than the children. You are a kookoo bird and are starting to push the babies out of the nest and demanding more from me than they do. So I'm going to have to shove you out of the nest!" "Why would I be attracted to a lvm/nvm? He isn't building me a house or singing or dancing to try to attr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleIs this why Addy was tested pretty much exclusively on men even though it was supposed to be for women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:24 PM |
| 467 | Pakistan Horror: Crazy entitlement and depravity and victim-blaming and gross animalistic behavior - All wrapped in oneDude can't spell tiktok. So women just... can't be famous or they are asking to be groped and have their clothes ripped off?... who knows what other shit that crowd did to her. That's bullshit. This was in no way her fault. I don't care if a woman even does tiktok trends in the nude on only fans, nothing a woman does gives any men the right to do this. Even more proof that women can't just exist without being blamed for the actions of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 136 | Vet🙌🏻themHe said "do you really want to go there? It's expensive" and she just chose a different place? Lady, don't let them bully you into lying. He's trying not to splurge on her so he can splurge on people he actually cares about. Throw this clown out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Are you kidding me?? Men can't do the bare minimum for their partners... even just take off their socks during sex.Notice how he never gave a reason why they want to keep their socks on so bad? That's because there probably isn't any reason other than pure laziness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 83 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮Ah yes, don't teach them no one is owed sex or a relationship and that they need to work on their mental health, personality, and careers... just FORCE women to be with them! That will make them feel wanted! It's not like a man in a relationship has EVER carried out a mass shooting or violent crime! Oh, wait, there WAS a married man who did a mass shooting in Las Vegas towards the beginning of the pandemic! 🙄 The solution is to teach these men that THE PAST IS DEAD. We no longer live in a societ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 149 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?I've had guys I had crushes on in high-school message me and apologize for not talking to me/having a bad attitude toward me because of me being introverted and reserved around others (I was masking my ADHD so desperately back then, which ment I barely spoke and spent most of my free time reading)... which they mistook for me being stuck up or full of myself. My mema experienced similar things as well because she's more reserved. Insecure people will see reservation as being rude, stuck up, and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.Not acting like scrotes are the best thing since fried chicken, more like. They hate men who are actually kind because then it's harder for them to weponize incompetence and claim that "men just don't know what you want! CoMuNiCaTe BeTtEr!!" And it proves the "if he wanted to, he would" message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 84 | The narcissistic LVM stare. Has anyone else noticed this while vetting in person?YES. Nearly every man I've met has done that stare at some point. And being a people pleaser, having low self esteem, and being a pickme at the time were such a bad combination. I had no chance against these men back then... Plus that was at a time when I was using sex as a form of self harm. So... I'm just blessed to have not been murdered or fallen pregnant back then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 11 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)"Without a path, without anything to strive for..." Um... WHAT? It's not women's job to give you a fucking purpose and direction in life. You aren't entitled to sex or a wife. And the terrorist had plenty to strive for, like improving on his personality and physique so women might actually want to be with him. Instead he focused on these dumb ass incel and women hate groups that convince him "men should not change, women's expectations are the problem!" ... despite things changing drastically in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:53 AM |
| 74 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!"Mummy, daddy, I asked big sis for advice about how to move forward with GF and refused all possible working things out or compromise since she literallycan'tafford to pay 50/50 on my shit and earns 1/10th of my income, so big sis suggested that I might not be taking the relationship seriously, and GF left me! Now I no longer have a mental bargaining chip to keep the woman I wanted to be my emotional punching bag and sex slave! I'M THE VICTIM! Sis and GF are golddiggers! Now I have to waste seve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:29 AM |
| 203 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!I think the family has been lied to and gaslit by the brother. It sounds like he didn't tell them about the part where "i wanted gf to move in with me, but she doesn't make enough money to go anywhere near 50/50 and I was stubborn and refused to even offer to just have her pay 10% since she makes 10% of my salary. I refused to even consider that I supposedly love this woman, and that I'm making things very difficult for her!" He just told them she's a gold digger who wanted to live off his "weal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:15 AM |
| 9 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Perhaps. I was hospitalized a lot as a child because of pneumonia. The nurses were always super kind. And then I had both my kids via c section. Kind, understanding, supportive, and level headed. I ended up an extra week in the hospital because of eclampsia, and they literally saved my life. Also all 3 of my aunts were nurses at some point and I thought they were amazing for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 28 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑That is an interesting point there. However, he made his own youthood far more difficult by getting one woman pregnant (she was like 22 when he and I were 16 so... that's a thing that I tend to forget), and proceeding to cheat on her. Not just with me, either. The constant lies he had to tell to pull that shit off is... baffling to me. Then again, he was more fit back then. And he ended up having like 2 more kids with that woman and another kid with a completely different woman. And he was in an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:28 PM |
| 200 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑If he wanted to show her his photography work why didn't he just... send her the pictures instead of making it the focal point of the date? She likely wasn't willing to talk more about herself because it wasn't even the place to do so. Plus he showed up in his work clothes? What, he didn't even think he needed to go shower and put on some clean duds first? I bet in video chat and pics he looked decent and like he cares about hygiene and presentation, but then meeting in person he smelled from wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 42 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:17 AM |
| 83 | Men who "hate" influencersBet he's also the type who wants a super femme presenting woman, despite openly bashing all things "girly" like makeup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:12 PM |
| 143 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.... anyone want to ban together and make a female only country? The whole world seems so messed up at this point... claiming stuff like this is an "isolated incident", pointing the finger at women raising their standards instead of the men who want things to go back to the 1920s, ignoring how many shooters were abusers, ignoring that most shooters are straight white cis men, ignoring that almost all shooters are men who are pissed that they can't get their dick wet despite making no effort to ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 12 | “FdS IS JuST As BaD As InCeLs” when was the last time an FDS’er, or any woman, went and killed innocent people because they couldn’t get a man?In my pickme days I felt sorry for these woman hating monsters. I used to read all the statistics about how they work more dangerous jobs, and how men commit suicide more. But then I stumbled upon how the female suicide attempts trump the amount of male suicides. Turns out this is because women choose "quieter", less effective/ easier to reverse methods like medication than men, who tend to pick stuff like jumping in front of a moving vehicle, jumping off a bridge, or off of a building, or shoot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:14 PM |
| 23 | When men talk about "the wall", they are inadvertently admitting that women are oppressed.This reminds me of a line from a song "You should treat me better than the goddamn fruit you cut a hole in back in 7th grade" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 6 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️So... he had no interest in talking about what car she should get, then he got mad that she didn't get the type of car he thought she should get? Dude, if you cared that much, why didn't you talk about it beforehand? On top of that, he better be fucking paying for her time watching his kid. He doesn't even consider that if he played nice he probably could have borrowed her car when she watched his kid. What a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:13 PM |
| 21 | I just read a post where a woman was shamed for wanting to be walked to her car post date🤦🏼♀️. The bar is in Hades.In what world is this some unreasonably hight standard? This is so pathetic for them to argue against. So, they wanna fuck asap, but they can't be bothered to help you feel/be safe and secure? Sounds like a fucking COWARD to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 97 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.Ugh. In what world does any of this "advice" work? NOT paying for the date makes you stand out? Yea, in a BAD way! "I have to recieve interaction that could easily become rapey before I give you basic date etiquette!" ... y'all really think that will work in any capacity? "Women are so protective because they never left the cavemen days biologically speaking! There's no risk anymore!" WTF IS THIS DUDE SMOKING? Stds that can lead to cancer isn't a threat? The possibility of ending up being stalke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Men like to use nature to confirm their biases. But they hate it when we do the same. Here's a few I thought are worth mentioning.They are outing themselves as rats 🤷🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Men like to use nature to confirm their biases. But they hate it when we do the same. Here's a few I thought are worth mentioning.This too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:03 PM |
| 34 | Men like to use nature to confirm their biases. But they hate it when we do the same. Here's a few I thought are worth mentioning.They more HV than most of the men you meet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:35 AM |
| 104 | Men like to use nature to confirm their biases. But they hate it when we do the same. Here's a few I thought are worth mentioning.Dance and sing while dressed to the nines AND building me and my children a home! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 78 | Men like to use nature to confirm their biases. But they hate it when we do the same. Here's a few I thought are worth mentioning.Most of those guys are lvm just looking for a quick hook up anyway. Many of them don't even wash their face properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.There's a male sub and even other non-gendered subs that he can go to instead. WOMEN EXCLUSIVE SPACES NEED TO STAY EXCLUSIVE TO WOMEN. There is NO reason a man should or needs to enter a women specific area. They have plenty of spaces that are exclusive or even male specific. And the pickmes are actively working for the idea of NO women only spaces while also not being against male only spaces. It's ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:14 PM |
| 9 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡My bad, I don't live in that area so I heard Mt and thought of the mountain hiking trails near me in CO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:35 PM |
| 9 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡Exactly. Effective communication only works when the other person doesn't care and is specifically wanting the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 27 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡Dude, if she isn't comfortable going for drinks in public, why in the absolute pits of hell would you then suggest to walk alone together on a mountain? You thought "huh, well she clearly is concerned about safety... let's take her to a spot where I could easily rape/murder her!" I'm like 97% sure that guy has raped multiple women (or attempted to) and feigns not knowing what he did wrong, and pretends not to know just how dangerous dating is for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 151 | LVM love to complain about high body counts but can’t help talking about how desperately horny they are when you just started talking to them. As if you are supposed to help them fix that.And then they will either see her as a whore if she agrees quickly, or a prude if she waits more that 3 dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 23 | Can't even let go of your dog without being accused of trying to get men's attention. Actually saw this posted on Yahoo News first and fortunately she had a good deal of support at how crazy this guy is.Dude thinks number on collar is for flirting when it's just for if the dog is lost. ... ugh. Can't use your real number for anything these days without scrotes trying to drop in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 05:18 AM |
| 16 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…... don't look at my post history. It will massively disappoint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:56 PM |
| 99 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…I'm 25, my husband is 36. I had a very similar experience. When I had c sections for both my kids, I basically had an out for a few solid months at a time. And... yea I realized I hated how things were going with our sexual life and how I dreaded a return. ...and then I realized I'm gay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:12 PM |
| 37 | Scrote makes up an obviously fake story to make fds look bad, convenient army of comments referencing FDS and "toxic femininity"Man clearly doesn't understand what a LVM is, shows how insecure he is about his looks, isn't willing to admit that it might have been how he acted. ... what a charmer! /s I bet he overheard them breaking down everything that makes him LV, never talking about looks, and it just wooooshed over his head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:26 AM |
| 101 | Got downvoted for suggesting this woman may have been raped rather than cheated:I don't get why men are so obsessed with "virginity"... it's a social construct. It isn't real. "It's breaking the hymen!" ... which 1. Has zero significance in sexual anything beyond social construct and 2. Means many women have "lost their virginity!" To horse back riding, intense sports, taking an impact to the crotch, masturbation, getting in a wreck, etc. etc. Even running and biking can break the hymen. My first time was also rape. And I stayed with the bastard for another year after... Al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 07:47 AM |
| 28 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedI agree. I recently realized I'm actually a lesbian on top of everything else... so definitely time to rethink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 05:12 AM |
| 108 | Guy I was dating left me at 4 am alone in the middle of the city to go rescue his ex. WTF?Absolutely. The prick really thought I'd leave my husband (who while not being the best partner, hasn't lied, cheated, or hid the fact he got another woman pregnant) for his lying cheating married ass. I hope she finds fds and realizes he's not worth her time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:49 PM |
| 115 | Guy I was dating left me at 4 am alone in the middle of the city to go rescue his ex. WTF?She hasn't yet. She's an RN and is apparently super busy. He sent me her account because she and I are both artists... I think she probably has a main account and an art account, and since she hasn't been able to do art lately she hasn't logged in for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 54 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedUgh. Pisses me off. My husband does this with laundry and trash. I several times found trash on top of the trash can lid... I have yelled at him over it and how a grown man should damn well know how to use a hamper and trash can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 460 | Guy I was dating left me at 4 am alone in the middle of the city to go rescue his ex. WTF?I have an ex who if I called him right now and told him I want him back, he'd leave his wife in a heartbeat. He tried to hit me up recently on a rediscovered insta account. Got his wife's insta, messaged her and told her about him trying to get back with me, and then blocked him. So strange how he claimed I'm the only one he's ever loved when he was a cheater and I turned out to be the side chick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 18 | Why you shouldn’t be a stay at home momThen she should bring the kids with her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 33 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒He's looking for a sex doll. That is the only way he can find a woman that doesn't use the bathroom or have periods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 01:51 PM |
| 122 | Why you shouldn’t be a stay at home momI HATE THIS EXCUSE SO FUCKING MUCH. So... you don't want to just do 2 simple chores to ease your wife's load? You WANT to only be a paycheck??? Men love to "joke" about how any woman who is ok with being a SAHM is a lazy gold digger, yet most of her work goes unnoticed by them. She is the Chauffeur, the Chef, the secretary, the maid, the babysitter, the planner, the problem solver, the overworker, the in house therapist, the detective, the negotiator. And all he is? The guy who works one 9-5 job… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 01:31 PM |
| 24 | On a dating break, starting to notice I'm getting way more rest now! 😴🥰She had a real gf too! Like fr he was her side peice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:53 AM |
| 33 | On a dating break, starting to notice I'm getting way more rest now! 😴🥰He got his real gf pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 48 | On a dating break, starting to notice I'm getting way more rest now! 😴🥰The real girlfriend and his family already knew. Like wtf why didn't his family tell me the truth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:03 AM |
| 115 | On a dating break, starting to notice I'm getting way more rest now! 😴🥰I had an ex who would insist on staying on Skype all night long. All of my free time was spent literally on him for 2 years. Then I found out somehow he had enough time alone to cheat on me with 3 other women. Turns out I wasa side chick. That man still insists he loves me and only loves me any time he seeps through the cracks of being blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 14 | Ever had a man call you and all the women in your family breeders with a breeder mentality? 🤣 Um, sir, just say you would make a terrible father and move on.🎶This ain't build a bitch🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:08 PM |
| 10 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.My husband once suggested that he pee and/or cum in a shot glass and that I drink it. My immediate response was "ew gross never" and he got so upset. He said it was more because I rejected the idea without any thought, and that it was a joke anyway. That he wasn't really suggesting I do it. So... why so mad? If it's just a joke there should be no issue with me expressing the fact it grosses me out and I would never do it. He was seriously pissed that I didn't consider a joke proposition. I used … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.Even I as a newly discovered lesbian still swoon over a sharply dressed and groomed man. If my husband suddenly came home dressed in a suit, I'd die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:16 PM |
| 11 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.Truth! I should have included that in my rant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:55 PM |
| 17 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.That is exactly the term they use for "doing chores so she has energy for sexy time" lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:53 PM |
| 35 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.I recently discovered I'm a lesbian as well, so I literally get nothing out of sex with him anyway, even if he puts effort in. Still working out when to come out about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:07 PM |
| 69 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.Exactly. NVM to their very core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 57 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.The 50s happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 111 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.What they need is a sex doll, not a real woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:55 PM |
| 64 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.That meme is kinda hilarious. But yea, porn has twisted men's minds so much that they legit think women should break every bone in their back trying to bend over backwards to do anything for them... while this was largely the case in the past, we are at a point where women don't need men just to survive, and so this is essentially the first generation of men who actually have to take into account her thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs because she literally doesn't need him. She can dip at any … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:47 PM |
| 82 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.I once told my husband, if you just kiss my neck, I'd probably do anything you want tbh" but he'd just do a quick peck, even when I explained "no I mean like... make out with my neck? Use your tongue. Your beard is too ticklish for a peck to work." But... nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How dare a woman look at her phone when we’re watching a TV show I really like! Others agree and suggest taking her phone away.I suggest you check out women with adhd. You might find a lot of their posts super relatable. If it's not adhd, it might be some other nerodivergent "disorder" (I hate that word... they really need to change it. It's not disorder, it's organized chaos.) I was diagnosed when I was 14, but my mom fought the diagnosis... the like week I was on Adderall was the best week of my life. Now I'm on wellbutrin, but it only treats the anxiety and depression caused by being undiagnosed for so long. I will h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:25 PM |
| 6 | The fact that she still has to come on that sub to ask for advice..Someone needs to introduce FDS to her real quickOp, you need to remove this, block/crop out the sub name, and repost it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 27 | How dare a woman look at her phone when we’re watching a TV show I really like! Others agree and suggest taking her phone away.Don't take men's word on this hellsite. He probably had her watch it all day and she was sick of it. Or she was on her phone way less than he claims. The use of "when I get my gf to watch a show" is probably the same tactic as "I got her to have sex!" ... pestering her and asking over and over even though she said no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:09 PM |
| 27 | How dare a woman look at her phone when we’re watching a TV show I really like! Others agree and suggest taking her phone away.You can't take men's word on reddit sis. When men use language like "I got her to watch a show" they mean it in the same way as "I got her to have sex"... coercion. Asking again and again until she says yes just to get him to shut up. He's likely also over exaggerating just how much she was on her phone and conveniently left out the fact it wasn't one episode, but an all day binge. She probably even asked him if they could watch something else and he denied the request. She might also, like me, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:07 PM |
| 29 | How dare a woman look at her phone when we’re watching a TV show I really like! Others agree and suggest taking her phone away.If you have to "convince" or "get" her to watch the show, she likely already said she didn't want to watch it. Many many women have undiagnosed adhd. This makes it VERY hard to watch a show without keeping your hands busy. It's very likely that, just like me, she has tried to do stuff like drawing or other hobbies and he got mad at her for that too. If I'm not keeping busy, especially during a show I'm not really interested in watching at the moment, I WILL fall asleep, which is arguably far mor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 12:45 PM |
| 470 | The new dating scam.I would have been mad. As soon as you hear them say "separate" you respond "I'll ONLY be paying for MY items." Loudly insulting them for doing this would also be great. "Really? You didn't even ask at any point if I would pay separate, and you also tried to get me to pay for shit I didn't even order? And you think you did anything to make me want to kiss you? Ew. What makes you think any part of this is attractive? Are you poor? Or are you trying to hide something from someone else?" Pathetic. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:58 PM |
| 12 | Being alone is better than being in a relationship with a LVM that drains you - there is so much freedom and peace in learning to be comfortable outside a relationship.Beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:47 AM |
| 11 | He makes a ton of money. Why is he upset over this?.... the wedding is usually specifically the BRIDES DAY. I bet many of those cards specified it was FOR HER to have fun with. If he loved her, this wouldn't bother him. But because he's a "wealthy" LVM, he's trying to get people on reddit to tell him she's a gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Your preference of not dating single fathers, is valid.Yes. All the yes. My ex had a 4 yo and as soon as I moved in it was suddenly "my responsibility" to clean, cook, and teach his son. It got worse as the kid got older. Until, eventually, his mom picked him up and blocked us a few months later. I had no idea what I was doing and my adhd was undiagnosed and not being treated, which isn't a great combination for a "step mother" that's expected to do all the duties of a birth mother. Then we have 2 kids together, the oldest about to turn 3 now, and h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 04:11 AM |
| 3 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.Omg that was popular where I grew up too. Like, why the fuck would anyone make jokes about a movement meant to help victims and survivors tell their stories? It's disgusting, low brow, and pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:08 PM |
| 3 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.I was always disgusted by those jokes. Especially when it was something obviously painful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:06 PM |
| 15 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.Right? It's crazy that its so ok in society to make jokes about violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:50 PM |
| 27 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.I would have punched him at that point. She literally had just talked about being raped and he really groped her after hearing that? Fucking gross porn sick loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:49 PM |
| 60 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.I hate the "women enjoy rape so it isn't rape" bullshit. I honestly think I couldn't stop myself from slapping a scrote if he has the audacity to say that shit to my face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:38 PM |
| 14 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.Yet I bet most of them have never actually seen or experienced either. And they don't listen to victims when they say "that isn't funny or ok" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 22 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”Easy, they think they are the protagonist. The main character. They think everything revolves around them. And that every girl he ever dated or fucked is thinking of him and pining for him. They literally think the world revolves around them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:07 PM |
| 8 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”Ah yes, it's sooo attractive when they make it clear they have a gf but that they want you because she "can't make him happy"! /s I had an ex do this recently. I told him off for it and then messaged his wife and told her. She hasn't seen the message yet, but I hope she realizes she deserves more than that lying cheating womanizing scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 95 | Type “Women attacked after rejecting man’s advances” on Google and you would see just how many incidents there have been. This is deplorable but sure, let’s hear some men say how they are afraid of women instead like as though we are the ones attacking them brutally for rejecting us.Men act like a woman saying no is the worst thing ever, but try to ignore or invalidate the sheer amount of women who share experiences like this. Lurking men: all you fear is the humiliation of being told no or being rejected. We fear BEING KILLED just because we don't want to date or fuck a man. If you think women "have it easier than men!" Then you are FUCKING DELUSIONAL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:44 PM |
| 135 | “You’re a woman though”"Oh, you don't like me whistling at you? How about I just threaten to hit you for calling me out?" Disgusting. Pathetic. Men like this do not appear strong or dominant. They appear as abusive sex offenders. They think they look so big when they threatened a woman, but bro... you look weak and pathetic as shit. I'm legit terrified of losing weight because of assholes like that. I don't want to be whistled at just because I'm decent looking. As it stands now, I almost never have issues because I'm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'Men screech "size doesn't matter!" When they see fds talking about size, yet every single man claims he has an 8 incher when it's 5 at best. Maybe even 3. Like... if size doesn't matter then 🎶why are you lying, why you always lyin🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 25 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'Yea. Apparently this is a common thing amongst lesbians who didn't realize they were lesbians until later in life. I always thought I was bi but HAHA nope. Because of course I couldn't accept i am gay until now, my family is extremely homophobic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 34 | ' gOlD DigGeR '🤣🤣 right? Like he hypes up that he has a 8 in d that is wide, but when we meet up it's like... 5 inches at best and might as well be a limp noodle. Only one guy out of like 20 was actually telling the truth 🤣 but he ghosted me lol. (For context this was like... over 6 years ago, well into my pickmesha days and in the period of time that I was using sex as self harm.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | What about health issues?The way he talks about his ex seems very hateful and negative... that is a red flag. Maybe he does have legal custody and 50/50 physical custody... but how does that at all equate to "raising them on my own until she could step in and parent"? He would have only had them half of the time? Sounds like he might be inflating his role in his daughter's lives for the reason of it being more appealing. Idk. I feel like this guy might be a giant walking neon red flag at this point. Does he have a pictu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:23 PM |
| 24 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'I didn't even realize that until now! That IS a super rapey mindset he has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | What about health issues?I'm glad you got something out of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | What about health issues?Sharing that kind of stuff so early IS a red flag in and of itself. He might simply be trying to gain sympathy with the "woah is me!" Act many men pull to try and get a woman to want to "fix" them or "show them what a healthy relationship is like"... essentially trying to appeal to the pick-me side of things. From what you've said here the ONLY green flag is that he is an RN. That's it. You have no proof of the other stuff, so they are not yet green flags. Be careful. Narcissists who KNOW they a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 7 | «Please dont make sure Pornhub get shut down because its a nice site for chronic masturbators even if they show underage girls and children»If you are a chronic masterbator, you don't need MORE fapping material. You need PROFESSIONAL help. See a fucking therapist. See a fucking doctor. Men survived without porn hub for eons, and they will fucking survive if it is gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:37 PM |
| 7 | What about health issues?Oh, I forgot to mention, most men in OLD are LVM or NVM. So it might be difficult to actually figure out how to spot HVM by practicing with OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 5 | What about health issues?I'd be concerned that he's trying to find a bang-nurse-maid. And that he told you about going to the ER to test if you'll be sympathetic and maybe he was even hoping you'd volunteer to take care of him. I am curious, did he provide any proof that he was in the ER besides just saying so? Has he provided any proof of "stepping up as a dad" beyond just claiming he is? You say he seems to have gone through a rough marriage/divorce. Did he ever mention why it ended? If he said his ex is crazy or "jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 82 | ' gOlD DigGeR '🤣🤣🤣🤣 reminds me of every single guy on any dating site, every single one who talked to me, claiming they have 8 inches 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 03:06 PM |
| 168 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matches"I don't date women my age. They aren't willing to be my servant. They won't put up with my poop streaked boxers and my acting like I have no idea how to do basic necessities like cleaning and cooking simple meals. They won't let me yell at them or punch holes in the walls or doors when I'm mad. They won't let me call them a bitch or a whore to their face. They are honest with me when I don't get them off. They are 'selfish' and 'rude'. They understand that money is a necessity and that a man wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 415 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'What the fuck. If a woman demanded a man pay her rent "just cause he's rich and can afford it" when he doesn't even live with her, men would go out of their way to tell her she's a gold digging bitch. Yet they have no problem doing it themselves. Talk about "give a man an inch and he'll take a mile." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 12:15 PM |
| 15 | When a man cancels on the first date, don’t reply and just delete him. Learn from my mistakes.Because you block their number first. I'm guessing it doesn't let you respond either. Just lets you see what blocked texts you are receiving? Maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:29 PM |
| 124 | A common theme in modern dating: people not knowing what they want. If you are confused because his actions don't match his words, or his behavior is dissonant, 👏 IT IS TIME TO WALK 👏My response: ooh the narcissists are actually making it clear as crystal? I appreciate the massive red flag with gold lettering on it telling me that you are a waste of time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:26 PM |
| 55 | "Are you sure you don't want to...." and other things they expect us to respond positively to.That be a massive red flag. He's trying to get you to not be sure. To undermine your intelligence and reasoning. Imagine if you stay, and a year or two in He's still asking if you are sure... eventually it might get to you. And you might start actually wondering if you are sure or not. He might even gaslight after sometime and tell you that he started asking you if you're sure because you'd constantly change your mind... He isn't worth the headache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 14 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.Dude, why wouldn't you just go take a fucking shower? Or at least "dry your man meat" in the bedroom of bathroom! She doesn't owe you an apology for not codling you like a child. He had to have looked over her shoulder at some point and notice she was in a call. Also what kind of lowlife assumes a person is studying and makes a shit ton of noise around them? Fucking man children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:32 PM |
| 12 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyExactly! I love seeing a man squirm when confronted with his double standards and forced to explain one simple question... why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 19 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyStrange how men act like their body should be desired by every woman he wants, but that they also have this view on the estheticness of women vs men bodies in art. Like... there are so many statues of naked men. And I find those to be just as artistic and pleasing to the eye as statues/other art of naked women... but I suppose that only applies to a fit male body imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:52 PM |
| 41 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyBah. I'm talking about how he would be justifying his discomfort while also minimizing hers. She could also argue that she believes the male body is far prettier. Really force him into a corner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 329 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyDemand him to hang up nude photos of himself. Watch him fumble and say it would be embarrassing, then watch him fail to explain why your nudes need to stay up while trying to justify why his shouldn't be on display. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:47 AM |
| 62 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyNo guys who talk excessively about a girl "friend" or offers to help a "friend" because "the real dad dipped"... or who claims to just want to get to know me. My first boyfriend always talked about a friend of his and bragged that he was SOOO NICE because he was helping her through her pregnancy since the real dad left. Note: at the time he and I were both 16/17 and this "friend" was a 22 yo who was still in high-school from failing or something. I pretended that I didn't notice how weird it was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Women just need to lower their standards 🙄Um... so the "hot guys" want only sex from women they see as below them until the settle down into a relationship? 🤣 He literally confirmed that guys are sex crazed with that post. And even the "ugly" guys do this shit. And they are more likely to turn out to be narcissistic or low value. They tend to be jaded toward women for "never giving them a chance" and will melt down over even the slightest hint that you aren't happy because they are "so scared you'll leave!" They will eat whatever they w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:03 PM |
| 32 | People are finally waking upI realized the bar was super low when I had my son via emergency c section, and everyone fawned over the fact that my husband held the baby and changed the baby's diaper. And then like a week or so later he claimed I was ruining his "vacation" by begging him to help with cleaning. It was PATERNITY LEAVE. His 3 week "Vacation" would have never happened if I didn't fall pregnant. And then I was harassed by my MIL for not breastfeeding when I LITERALLY produced next to nothing. Like pumping ass oft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:49 PM |
| 11 | Don’t talk to any of your exes. ANY.No. She hasn't logged onto her insta. He did mention how she's a nurse or an NA, so she might just be so busy she hasn't been able to check. It's also where she posts art. Hopefully she sees soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 21 | Don’t talk to any of your exes. ANY.I recently had a similar situation happen. An ex contacted me, said he just wanted to be friends, etc. He's married now. And then after less than a week he said stuff like "you're the only one I ever loved!" And talking about how he's thought of me every day since then. I messaged his wife to let her know he was trying to get back with me, and blocked and deleted him. "Just wanna be friends!" ... fucking liars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:42 PM |
| 11 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.He didn't even TAKE INTO ACCOUNT that he expected her to pay for herself and that she makes way less than everybody else? He didn't offer to pay for her 3rd meal or to pay so she could go on those outings too? He didn't even bother telling HIS FAMILY that she is paying ENTIRELY FOR HERSELF and that it might be the reason she is eating less and not going on expensive excursions? On top of expecting her to go 50/50 on all other things???? What an entitled peice of human garbage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 23 | Seemingly HV until you find out how he wants to raise your childrenOh, I once told him I need words of affirmation because it's one of my love languages, specifically for when I clean. "Why should I praise you for the bare minimum?" He said. And I had a realization earlier. So I sent it to him: I just realised since adhd is a constant search for dopamine sources that it totally makes sense why I need words of affirmation for doing chores. It's not wanting empty praise, it's wanting cleaning to culminate into a big surge of dopamine. And receiving praise for cle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:29 PM |
| 9 | Definitely a HVM from among many LVM fantasizing about being house husbandsI told my husband that if I get a lot of cleaning done, I'd like for it to be treated like something great. Back then I thought it was because one of my love languages are words of affirmation. He refused. He said he wasn't going to pretend and lie about being impressed when I'm "just doing the bare minimum"... Turns out I have a DOPAMINE DEFICIENCY and if I was PRAISED FOR CLEANING I'd actually GET MORE DONE because my brain is ACTIVELY SEEKING ANY SORCE OF DOPAMINE. All he does is the bare min… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 09:11 PM |
| 70 | Seemingly HV until you find out how he wants to raise your childrenMy husband claims he does so much with the kids. Yet most of the work is me. He cuddles and snuggles and plays with them? That's because I keep them fed, hydrated, and changed their diapers. He takes them walking or swimming? That's because I packed everything up, make sure they wore sunscreen, made sure they didn't run off, etc. He teaches them words and stuff about the world? They learn more from t.v. than they have from this man. He doesn't want them watching stuff that calls things good (bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 25 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sI HATE this trend. I used to be into bdsm and what not, but after all this time I realised the best feeling is when it's slow, soft, and gentle. Jackhammer sex hurts like hell for me. I had even told my boyfriend that if he just held still and let his d pulse, I'd orgasm in no time... but of course he can't do that for more than a minute without going straight back to jackhammer mode. I have kids with this guy. Ladies, VET. Never stop. If he's actually high quality he will listen to your needs a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 10 | This guy literally took notes about me while we were talking.This just means he was trying to keep multiple women's info at a time and he thought you'd assume he has some sort of mental issue. This also means he assumed you two would be in some form of relationship for quite some time. If it was a "I want sex tonight and will never see her again" type of thing, he wouldn't have bothered writing anything down. Dates aren't interviews. I don't trust ANYONE who asks me about my romatic/sex/dating history and is literally writing it all down. You have a RIGHT… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I’m starting to feel bitter and coldI don't mind! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | I’m starting to feel bitter and coldYour relationship sounds a lot like mine tbh. It's not going to get better. I'm sorry, but that's the truth. I stuck around for 3 years hoping things would change and nothing has. That rage and embarrassment might be from rejection sensitive disphoria. I get big mad when I'm corrected. My husband corners me while I'm having a panic attack, refuses to disengage or stop yelling in my face, and is shocked that when my flight or fight response during said panic attack is blocked from flight, it figh… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 298 | Stuff of nightmares reallySis, he saw you. He HEARD you. He knows. He just chooses to ignore you. Even if his headphones were turned up he should have heard you. If not, he could turn it down to ease your fears. Repeat after me: if he WANTS TO he will. I'm sorry but she might even be a place holder. In 5 10 or even 20 years she'll likely find out he's been cheating for a long time, and that the new woman can get his time and attention easily, as if he isn't gaming or wearing headphones at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:38 PM |
| 6 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???I don't have anyone. No shelters for hours. This guy is willing to come and pick me and the kids up. Can't go far with 2 tots in tow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:41 PM |
| 11 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???He's had many such nvm moments. Like when he told me I was ruining his vacation when he was on 3 week paternity leave to help me with the new born. He thought the 6 week healing time was bs. That I didn't need help. He also didn't believe me about my back being injured from the second c section. Great news is I have a possible way out. Bad news is it's through an ex. But that ex was way less shitty than my husband is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 25 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???My husband recently admonished me for "being allergic to dairy unless it's a sonic blaster." We rarely eat out anywhere. He demanded to know what I wanted and when I said nothing he insisted. I AM allergic to dairy. But I chose occasionally to indulge in something that causes temporary digestive discomfort because it's yummy. He also thinks I'm lying about being allergic to eggs. Tree nuts, and peanuts. Eggs cause a similar reaction to milk. Peanuts cause headaches. And almonds or walnuts? They … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | That time I walked out before a date even started.Because he is a chubby chaser in denial, and he didn't like being rejected for sex right off the bat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 78 | So many stories like this are popping up. I'm glad she's divorcing him."Haha wait, it was just a prank!" After many many "pranks" and "jokes": "why are you leaving me? My jokes? Grow some skin you sensitive snowflake!" Also men: woman makes one joke about his fat or his small pp "How DARE you body shame me you man hater!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 07:44 PM |
| -8 | He Who Poops In The Shower.... RUN!Idk if pewdiepie himself is a scrote. He seems ok. He definitely plays into the scroteness of his audience though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 01:02 PM |
| 39 | He Who Poops In The Shower.... RUN!Wtf. Pewdiepie joked about pooping in the shower. I thought it was just a meme! Wow. They really are just animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:16 AM |
| 497 | So many stories like this are popping up. I'm glad she's divorcing him."It's just a prank,bro! Until you leave me, get seriously sick, or die! Then I didn't mean it, it was just an accident, and I was just joking!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:07 AM |
| 7 | A 3 part story of Why We Avoid Scrotes😰🥺 I never saw that! Even more sad and messed up that he made her freeze to death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 59 | That time I walked out before a date even started.After I left he said that "you didn't need the pizza anyway!" And I was like "dude, I'm broke and knew you weren't fixing to pay for anything. I was just going to get a water!" And that was about the time I blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 64 | That time I walked out before a date even started.To be fair, this was roughly 7 years ago at this point. Way before the pickme I used to be realized OLD was trash and definitely long before I found out about FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:29 PM |
| 81 | That time I walked out before a date even started.Something about his "reputation" or some bs. Honestly, he was just trying to coerce sex at that point. Up until then he was taking some mad shit about how gorgeous I am and how much he wanted to meet me 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 29 | A 3 part story of Why We Avoid ScrotesI originally saw that here on fds. Prank culture is just... a cancer of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 30 | Men: all FeMaLeS are liars, they’re so fake. Damn, they want a guy who’s honest and respects them?!? Wow FeMaLeS are so entitled😤… and then they themselves do this..🤔Lying is an instant red flag and deal breaker for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 68 | A 3 part story of Why We Avoid ScrotesWasn't there a Russian "prankster" guy recently who locked his gf outside in the Russian winter in her underwear, which killed her? During a live stream? This is why I hate prank culture. It's "just a prank bro!" Until she leaves him or DIES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Thanks to FDS, this young adult isn't afraid of ageing anymore! 💕👸🏻Oh the outrage! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 09:35 PM |
| 6 | But you came like 3 times right?!??My husband is horrible about it. I'll tell him "just lay there and let it pulse, I'll cum in no time", then when I tell him I'm about to cum he'll jack hammer and it hurts so bad that I don't orgasm and want it to be over. Like... hey it only takes you 2 mins to cum, just... fucking lay there and be still! It's not so difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Dead bedrooms and red pill theory """logic""" (if you can call it that)I think it feels better slow for most people.just guys don't realise it because they see porn stars jack hammering (plus the jacking off) and are like "tHe GiRl In ThE vIdEo EnJoYs ThAt So EvErY wOmAn DoEs!" Completely forgetting that these are porn ACTRESSES. That they just might be pretending to like it. Forgetting that porn is cattered to men jacking off so it's likely they are trying to match an average jacking off speed. Kinda like a self fulfilling prophesy. Guys were walking off fast and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 137 | Thanks to FDS, this young adult isn't afraid of ageing anymore! 💕👸🏻Men wouldn't deal with that. Advertisers would push wigs for older ladies so much. And men would act outraged if you didn't bother to wear one or be soooo shocked and appauled that you "lied to them" by wearing the wig they demand you wear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:13 PM |
| 42 | Wife lost all her limbs to an infection, husband does everything for her nowHow do we know that he's not just playing it up for the cameras and medical staff? That he won't just drop the ball once she's home? That he won't take advantage of her condition? I know that's negative thinking about a news story that's supposed to be heart warming... but I think we can all agree that things aren't always what they seem when it comes to men with severely injured or disabled wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:21 PM |
| 129 | But you came like 3 times right?!??Dude if she says "I'm about to cum!" And you start doing something completely different... she didn't cum. End of. Also he probably lying. Most of these men inflate the numbers or make them up totally. Eta: apparently in the comments he clarifies that she has to make HERSELF orgasm. How he thinks that mean HE made her orgasm when she did all the work is beyond my compression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | They just have to take a jab at feminismThe kid "ignoring the danger of the real world" as if it's common for a fucking BAT to end up in the stands... Also a dad protecting his child is bare minimum. If he REALLY wanted to protect the kid... whe is his arm the only thing protecting his kid? All the women in the photo likely don't even know this kid, might not have even known he was there? And... the force isn't real dudes. Those guys holding out their hands are like men who claim they care about women being raped but will also say "no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 8 | Dead bedrooms and red pill theory """logic""" (if you can call it that)Sadly not yet. I only found FDS relatively recently. Leaving is hard and there's a million hurdles i have to jump through. On top of that I'm still struggling with breaking the pickmesha mindset. I have several projects in the works that I'm sure would make me decent enough money to leave. At least his "love language" is giving gifts. Which means I have a pretty decent set up to do videos, work on my novel, and that he's paying for me to get new glasses and adhd meds (I have an appointment for t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:45 PM |
| 19 | Dead bedrooms and red pill theory """logic""" (if you can call it that)He told me he's super into getting me off... but he only even tries like once a month. I tell him he could make me orgasm just by chilling out with his d in there and just letting it pulse. But of course he can't stand doing that without trying to jackhammer me after a minute or two 🙄 which legit hurts me. He was actually amazing in bed when we first met. Something happened once he lost roughly 100 lbs though. All the weight went to his big ass head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 13 | Dead bedrooms and red pill theory """logic""" (if you can call it that)Not yet. I'm hoping to leave soon, but there's several hurdles I have to get through first. Like making enough money to move without drawing suspicion or having to hire a babysitter, finding affordable housing, and making sure I'm doing everything legally. I keep calling him my husband 🤦♀️ but we aren't married! He's still married to his not-yet-ex-wife... why did I get with him when he is still married? desperation. My mom was garbage at handling money. I even wrote her up a budget each month … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 29 | Dead bedrooms and red pill theory """logic""" (if you can call it that)Sadly I'm still with him. Working on gtfo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:35 PM |
| 108 | Dead bedrooms and red pill theory """logic""" (if you can call it that)I once went on the dead bedroom subreddit because my husband wouldn't touch me after I had our daughter. They pretty much all insinuated it was because I "got fat" from having the baby... but my weight was the same from before I was pregnant. They suggested it was because I didn't do enough around the house but I did EVERYTHING. And it's not like he didn't want me at all... he only wanted head, foot jobs, and anal. That last one was usually something he did to me while I was dead sleep so... yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:15 PM |
| 265 | I have no words. Imagine WANTING to have your nudes leaked for money. As if anyone wanted their ugly blurry nudes 🤡 (scroll for comments)Of course men see having nudes leaked as "mild embarrassment". They often send nudes to random people all the time. And they want to show off their junk even if it's literally nothing. They don't have the same traumatic experience of nudes being private and personal and not wanting complete strangers to see. All the more reason to not take nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:36 AM |
| 26 | YepExactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:34 PM |
| 80 | YepThey think anything is flirting if they find a woman attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 94 | YepMy husband and I were watching King of the hill and in this episode Peggy walks outside, sees Dale messing with Lady bird (their old dane) and said "oh sure, she barks at me all day but will let any old riffraff in the yard!" Then told Dale he could borrow lady to find a truffle pig he rented. My husband said "wow Peggy just flirted with dale!" And I was like "if anything that was maybe friendly banter between 2 people who have known each other since high-school"... and that was enough to start … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:11 PM |
| 41 | Another day, another scrote abandoning his pregnant gf...I've been there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:39 PM |
| 243 | Another day, another scrote abandoning his pregnant gf...I bet there's a homeless shelter the scrote of an ex could go stay at. He doesn't NEED a safe comfortable place to stay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 479 | Another day, another scrote abandoning his pregnant gf...Translation: potential HVM wants to know if he's the asshole because NVM can't handle the fact that HIS actions have consequences and that everyone cares more about the mother of his child than the man who betrayed her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 191 | Single dads hatred for single mothers is pure projection. "I don't want to take care of another man's child!" No sir, you are looking for a childless woman to dump your parenting responsibilities onto, and a single mother is less willing to fill that role for you.As a woman who ended up moving in with a single dad... YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. He expected me to become his child's mother. He demanded I homeschool the boy myself, because he refuses to let his child go to public school. He trash talked his ex ALL THE GODDAMN TIME. I almost left with our 4 month old because his kid was a pro at pushing every button and so is my "husband". Also an extra red 🚩 is if she leaves suddenly without her child and then comes back to get them. This means she left witho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:22 PM |
| 9 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂True. I'm about to just give up on men completely. I wanna live out my dream of having a cute little cottage in the woods with a massive garden. I want the local kids to call me a witch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 77 | It's the edit for me ~~~And he seems to be trying to make her out to be a gold digger? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 5 | It's the edit for me ~~~"OMG what a gold digger!" "Yea, she should be ok with a cheap ass ring!" "Oh how cute, you thought I meant her?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Am I lesbian or do I just hate men?I am in your same boat sis. I'm bi, but never really experienced a romantic relationship with another woman, and now after 20+ failed relationships with men i find myself wanting to never date another man and becoming more romantically inclined to other women. Your heart and body know what you want. Listen to them. Most men are trash goblins anyway. And once I get away from my soon-to-be-ex boyfriend (he wants me to call him husband but he's still legally married to another woman and wants ME to… | /r/askFDS | 05/06/21 04:04 PM |
| -5 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.This is why I'm glad my "husband" is so into intermediate fasting. Before he was, he expected me to do quite a large amount of this bullshit too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂I made the mistake of checking it out. These dudes legit think we get wet over just any guy that's rich and tall... and they think wanting to be treated like a human is us "asking them to change"... Can't get any denser than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:50 PM |
| 13 | This lil queen out there telling scrotes off is a beautiful thing👑💛I wonder if the scrotes would be less likely to harass a teen online if she said "oh I'm in my 30s!" Since she would have technically "hit the wall" according to them? 🤔🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:16 PM |
| 39 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?As someone who had an IUD placed and had her uterus reject it: WHAT AN ABSOLUTELY IMMORAL ASSOHOLIC WASTE OF HUMAN GARBAGE. It HURTS to get those in place and it can cause PERMINATE IRREVERSIBLE DAMAGE to remove them without medical help! Also HEY THE ASSHOLE PEICE OF SHITS THAT DO THIS BULLSHIT: improperly removing an IUD ABSOLUTELY can cause damage to the point where she can no longer carry a child full term or become infertile. YOU ARE LIKELY PREVENTING HER FROM BEING ABLE TO PRODUCE A CHILD.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 65 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.What kind of sleazy "compliment" is sugar lips??? Like... what does that even mean? I'd take being called a fat pig or bitch over "sugar lips". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 59 | I have doubts…Yea like... he's probably thinking "who needs to actually impress a person to establish a relationship!" Also him saying that he has to put in effort to make conversations interesting makes me think that means talking more about himself and his accomplishments and not that he's actually trying to get to know any of these ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:58 PM |
| 83 | I have doubts…"Or at least making the convos more interesting".. yea you sound like a narc. This is narc speak for "I'm bored talking about your goals and dreams and life, so I'm going to ramble about mine! A convo is only interesting when it's centered on ME!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 34 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂I've seen men fo the rounds "post wall", though! They tend to stay obsessed with "the one that got away" for decades after. It's pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:52 PM |
| 62 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂I'm about to turn 26 and can confirm, looking far better now than at age 18. I'm still a fatty, but my hair and skin is worlds better. Especially since I discovered that my hair is curly and I have eczema. Some conditioning treatments and 4 bottles of lotion later, and I feel like a goddamn queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 69 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂"The jokes write themselves!" Yea... but the jokes on you. We don't want your crusty old ass. As far as "if you don't want us by the time we hit 20, we don't want you!" Um... what human in their right mind WANTS to settle down and be tied down as soon as they gain autonomy from their family? And what makes you assume women can't be financially successful without getting hitched? Guys, YOU are the ones who hit the wall. Have you SEEN an actual 40 or 50 or even 60 yo woman? They are GORGEOUS and f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:01 PM |
| 27 | I have no wordsHE was making HER relive all the trauma while LAUGHING IN HER FACE AND HE THINKS HE HAS A RIGHT TO BE FUCKING MAD AND "HATE" THE BIRTH STORY NOW? HEY ASSHOLE, IF YOU ONLY FUCKING LIKE THE STORY OF YOUR SON'S BIRTH IF YOU CAN MAKE FUN OF THE ONE WHO WENT THROUGH THE TRAUMA THEN YOU NEVER FUCKING CARED ABOUT YOUR SON'S BIRTH AND ONLY CARED ABOUT LAUGHING AT YOUR WIFE. I have 2 tots and BOTH of their births were SUPER traumatic. If he made fun of my behavior while giving birth EVEN ONCE I would hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 08:48 PM |
| 112 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?MEN SEXUALLY SELECT ALL THE GODDAMN TIME. Why the fuck do they act like we are wrong for preferring certain things in a partner when THEY ARE MORE PICKY PHYSICALLY. If having preferences for what genes are passed to your children is eugenics, then preferring a woman with a big rack and big butt is racist. What fucking dead ass hypocrites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 06:10 PM |
| 27 | Here's your reminder to drop any guy who does not take your feelings or your sexual satisfaction seriouslyBTW I love your username. Always with their excuses... its quite pathetic the amount of work they do so they can avoid a little work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:52 PM |
| 52 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them.Most likely. "My wife refuses to be a bangmaid, but I'm rich. WhAt ShOuLd I dO????" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:32 PM |
| 78 | Here's your reminder to drop any guy who does not take your feelings or your sexual satisfaction seriously"I'm not going to be IN the mood if you never make an effort to PUT ME in the mood!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 139 | Here's your reminder to drop any guy who does not take your feelings or your sexual satisfaction seriouslyThey've been conditioned by other men to believe sex is all about the man and that women aren't supposed to/never will enjoy it. Because the old geasers of yesteryear never had sex ed and never bothered to use a goddamn computer and find out HOW to give a woman pleasure. Here's the kicker: my husband also insists my pleasure is very important to him. Yet he often acts out the exact opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:37 PM |
| 205 | Here's your reminder to drop any guy who does not take your feelings or your sexual satisfaction seriouslyAlso when he didn't even bother to so much as kiss you before wanting to go inside. I've told my husband so many times " if you even just kiss my neck for a bit, I'd be down." But... nah. He decided to insist I was selfish and mean for wanting to even be horny while we do sexual stuff. And he wonders why our bedroom is dead 😬🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 155 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them."Me no wanna clean but me also no wanna pay for clean. me wanna hoard me money." That's what I imagine he actually speaks like. In reality, he's probably lying about how much he makes and minimized how much she makes. I doubt such a lazy sleazy bastard works 80 hours a week either. I also doubt he's putting all his money into savings like he claims. I also doubt that this is the first time she demanded he step up and help. She probably also demanded he hire a maid for his part if he earns that m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 29 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them."BuT wHy DiD sHe LeAvE mE??? I DiD nOtHiNg WrOnG!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 28 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them.If he earns SO much more money, why isn't he hiring a maid to do HIS part of the work? Or both of their parts? Also "I'm not going to turn into a simp"= "I don't care enough about how she feels or how stressed she is because I'm the 'alpha' and she is my servant. I will never change a thing about me to make myself appealing to her because she isn't my ultimate choice, she is a place holder" Because these dudes WILL become a "simp" for the woman they actually want to spend the rest of their life … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 670 | “You seem expensive”I think it's hilarious when they get all hot and bothered about how a WOMAN spends HER hard earned money that SHE worked for on whatever she likes that is within her budget. Because when they spend their money on games or cam girls/only fans it's "my money to do what I want with!" But when a woman does the same with high quality stuff that makes her happy it's "getting in the way of our future finances!" Like... do I see a ring on my finger? Are we planning our wedding now? No? Then my money is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:59 PM |
| 136 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"I'm always skeptical of what a man says on reddit, especially involving a long term relationship that no longer involves sex. I used to frequent dead bedrooms about half a year ago. And I always thought "well my bedroom is dead too, but it's because of his rotten attitude and treating sex like it's just about him." It started after I got pregnant the second time. Before that, he seemed to be really interested in bringing me pleasure. I guess he decided I was selfish for wanting that when we have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:11 PM |
| 7 | Please tell me I'm not crazy! If a man hits you once, it's over.You aren't crazy. It isn't ok for anyone to hit their SO, unless they are acting in self defense, in which case it's time to leave anyway. I'm shocked if anyone tells me they were hit once. If they are comfortable to confide in that, it's likely that they've already been hit multiple times. | /r/askFDS | 31/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wish I could yell at some girls that they deserve so much better… sighThe way I deal with his is insisting that I'm not the same woman who did all that stuff. That was the old me and she was very mentally ill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Sometimes I wish I could yell at some girls that they deserve so much better… sighMy husband has retroactive jealousy. I know because he talks about it. Often. Usually during arguments. And it's usually in reference to a time of my life that I just wanted to die and used sex as a form of self harm. 20 different guys in 3 months. OLD sites made this super easy. I just feel it's goofy that women are treated like they aren't allowed to show jealousy when men have no problem expressing theirs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 01:15 PM |
| 16 | Sometimes I wish I could yell at some girls that they deserve so much better… sighIt's sad that she says "what if I'm just jealous?" As if being jealous isn't a totally valid emotion. Its ok to be jealous when your so ignores you. It's ok to be jealous when your so doesn't spend time with you. It's ok to be jealous that your so talks more to everyone around than to you. It's ok to be jealous that he would rather play games with other women than with you. Normalize jealousy. It's just as valid as sadness, happiness, anger, fear, disgust, anxiety, and all others. Men have tried… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 01:04 PM |
| 13 | Preach it, sis!Dude what "kingdom" could be run by someone young and inexperienced? If we follow that analogy, how in the world would a 20 yo be better at being a queen than a older lady? (No shade on women in their early 20s, but y'all have better pursuits than this) A queen does lots of work to help the kingdom run. If you literally had a kingdom, your subjects would be appaled that you chose such a young and inexperienced woman to lead them. And besides, what kingdom? You own a successful company? Run a res… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 101 | Another old man was being a creep and taking pictures of an 19 year old, guess who the internet blames. (Also love how Karen has gone from a term for racist customers, to a swear word for women who stand up for themselves)Just because he has a "professional camera" doesn't mean he's a professional photographer. No man wants to jack off to pixilated photos. Gotta get that fapping material in 4k. Especially if you're going to post it somewhere... or maybe even sell them. I don't trust any man taking random photos in public. Especially if he doesn't ask the "subject" for permission first. And she has a right to ask him to deleted the photos, as he didn't make sure she was ok with it. Men just want the right to be ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 15 | Men like this will go on impregnating women until they get a boy; if you know any man who expresses this, it should be posted publicly so any women getting involved can find out beforehand and stay the fuck awayHe a decendent of king Henry the 8th? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I commented this before watching the video! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 13 | 84/100.... he thinks he’s so slick 😂 (he asked me “Netflix and chill or night out” along w other questions and I played along for the lolz)PLEASE DO IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Don’t know if this one has been posted, but the absolute depravity of this man.True | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 62 | Don’t know if this one has been posted, but the absolute depravity of this man.What if next time he pushes it further and "accidentally" harms her so bad she has to go to the ER or dies? Thats a fucking terrifying relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 110 | Don't date an asshole man child.If you get so mad about a FAKE RANK in a VIDEO GAME... you have a problem and should probably not play games anymore. Sounds like it was an honest mistake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 12 | SEX POZZY MYTHS BUSTED : Why women struggle to emotionally detach from casual sex despite their best efforts. Male semen contains a concoction of chemicals designed to enslave her to the man she had sex with.Oh my God. This makes so much sense. I think my husband KNOWS this. And that's why he prefers oral. With vaginal sex, I usually go shower right away. But oral? Pretty sure that will effect you even if you spit it out (because certain vitamins and chemicals absorb quickly in your mouth). And why he calls it "taking your medicine" and begs me to hold it in my mouth longer. Holy. Crap. Like... I don't even think I can fully process this right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?🤣🤣🤣🤣 that one broke me. I couldn't stop laughing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies?My husband literally gets sick at my unused, unopened, brand new pads on the back of the toilet. Like... dude. Why? It's just there. I need them. It's not like I'm leaving used pads lying out in the open. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies?The only times I ever noticed my vag smelling like fish was when I forgot to shower after my husband orgasmed on/in me. Literally the smell they complain about is caused by MEN. I've tested this theory (when I had nexplanon in for a year), and without fail, it only smelled bad down there if I didn't immediately wash the ejaculant off or out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:10 PM |
| 23 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?My husband bought me 2 vibratory and was shocked that I was no longer interested in sex... like why would i be? Most of the time he literally doesn't care if I orgasm and the other times he over stimulates me and I end up passing out and he gets pissed that I didn't return the favor. Like... I gave him plenty of orgasms, sometimes multiple times per interaction, and didn't expect anything at all in return. Yet he can't let me orgasm one time without demanding I "return the favor" that same night… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?The video! 🤣🤣🤣 I'm dead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 41 | Oh, here's a great idea! Cover your drink! Scrotes will be furious, it helps with vetting AND surviving..."Why date a guy only to make him feel like a rapist?" This looks like a bar setting. Not the best place for a date. I doubt she is intentionally there with that guy. I feel like he randomly approached her. This is a LIFE OR DEATH situation. I pick my life over offending some ignorant scrote that doesn't realise how dangerous many situations are for women and expect us to blindly give them the benifit of the doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:39 PM |
| 47 | Men: Marriage is till death do us part, not till "I don't feel like it anymore". Time to get off your entitled high horse.Somewhat. I need to contact the housing athority in my area. Let them know my children and I are splitting from the head of household and that we need moved into a different spot asap. And tell them about the emotional abuse and rape. It helps that there is quite a bit of damage to the apartment that I clearly couldn't have caused. Cracks in the bedroom door and a hole punched in it from him being mad that I was trying to cool off from a panic attack. A closet door handle that he slammed me down… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 80 | Men: Marriage is till death do us part, not till "I don't feel like it anymore". Time to get off your entitled high horse.My boyfriend (I've been calling him husband but we can't even legally get married because he never divorced his wife) is just like this. Verbally abusive to me and the kids. Scoffs at my pain because "there's always something wrong!" And showing zero compassion even last night when my knee pain had me walking like a granny. Rapes me both anally and vaginally while I sleep. Because I'm too tired to protest. I used to give him bjs anytime he asked. But then he straight up told me they suck and he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:32 PM |
| 4 | I just threw up in my mouth a bit.That is fucking terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 18 | This scrote has an affair, wants sex from his wife and fames it in a way that makes it seem he just wants her to be happy and wants sympathy because she won’t sleep with him?!? This is from his point of view so who know what’s really going on in this relationship...If I had to guess, she was super into the person he pretended to be and got super turned off/ insulted and berated by the person he really is. Maybe she woke up to him bucking her without concent and she became traumatized. I bet he insulted her looks a TON until she felt he wasn't attracted to her and she was no longer attracted to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 28 | I got divorced today! 🍾🎊🎉Here's hoping that I get the courage to do the same soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:43 PM |
| 22 | Y'all men are tired 🤣🤣🤣Oh god, this is like watching a slightly older version of my husband complain. I am pretty sure he's said all of this unironically at one point or another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 10 | I just threw up in my mouth a bit.Making his favorite meal even in the worst times... And GIVING BIRTH is an example???? WTF??? Ugh. I need me some brain bleach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisWhere would I go with my children? The local branch of the housing athority has no units open. I can't just go live on the streets, that would be child endangerment. It would be easier if I could go alone. But that would be child abandonment. And I would miss the little cuties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:02 PM |
| 8 | 💩Scrote sits on a literal toliet to talk about being green and poop at his booth, a woman stops briefly, he makes a public post to hunt her down and spam her DMs... then he plays the victim. 💩I cringe at the thought. I need some imagination bleach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 3 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisThat is a great question! Because a woman can't simply leave on her own without being charged for child abandonment. Because covid hit my area hard and the HA doesn't have any places to move me and my children into ATM. Because I'm currently still to injured to work and would have a hard time finding a babysitter if I could work. It's not as simple as "just leave". These aren't excuses. These are legitimate reasons why I can't currently leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 4 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘If he doesn't wipe proper, he's likely not washing properly either. Or using deodorant. Or body spray. He can't even use lotion. Stop letting him be so comfortable at the cost of your own enjoyment of your home. Like wtf. Tell him to wear clothes and get his bo under control. Tell him he stinks worse than rotten eggs. Stop being so fucking polite. At this point, I'd even say "I'm going to watch you shit to make sure you Wipe until that god damned paper comes off WHITE." and "I'm going to watch y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:46 PM |
| 34 | 💩Scrote sits on a literal toliet to talk about being green and poop at his booth, a woman stops briefly, he makes a public post to hunt her down and spam her DMs... then he plays the victim. 💩What woman would want to be known as "the girl who talked to me about poop and tp alternatives"? What woman would want to be with a guy who had his followers hunt her down? Why is he acting like she should have messaged back right away? She has a fucking life outside of insta. I feel awful for her. I'm suprised she didn't immediately demand he take down any mention of her on his fb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’That is so badass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:52 PM |
| 19 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisAs a woman with a husband who uses "I'm the only one who works" as an excuse to not watch the children alone or clean, and 2 toddlers who somehow inherited the spirit of fucking Houdini... This post is a giant fucking mood. If I don't do LITERALLY EVERYTHING the work just builds up. I wish I hadn't been raised to be afraid of living alone and gave single, alone life a try. Because now I DREAM of how relaxing being alone without a husband or kids would be. Just... The toilet wouldn't have pee all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:13 PM |
| 13 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’... Women stay home to raise men's children and then are talked about as if they do nothing? There would be an economic collapse if women suddenly refused to do the unpaid labor of cooking, cleaning, and child rearing, causing men to have to hire someone to cook, a different person to clean, and another to care for the kids. I hate when men act like staying at home with the kids and housework is easy, when they themselves REFUSE to pick up that work for even an hour, let alone a day or week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 42 | A comment on an article about disrespectful things men have said to their wives during labor. He literally got off to her being in pain, and she doesn't seem to see this as a problemPorn sick to one of the worst degrees imaginable short of being the cause of pain or a killer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:24 PM |
| 58 | A comment on an article about disrespectful things men have said to their wives during labor. He literally got off to her being in pain, and she doesn't seem to see this as a problem🤢🤢🤢🤢 If my husband did that while I was in labor, I'd kick him out of the room and demand he not be allowed back in. And he'd be on thin fucking ice when I got home. He got off. To her moans of pure agony. Contractions are awful, and I think i got the easy way out with c section. But I was taught to mask my pain from an early age. The most pain my husband witnessed me show was gritted teeth and a low growl of pain every now and then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:19 PM |
| 16 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre.This is even a romance genre trope. The handsome prince/jock is wanted by every woman he meets, until the day he runs into the female protagonist and she shows no interest in him either because she sees him as a stuck up pompous asshole, or because she is to busy doing something else to care. I always thought that trope had some real world weight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:02 PM |
| 11 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.I called my real dad "daddy" until the day he died. I always got angry and dropped any man who demanded I call them daddy. Like... No! You ain't my dad. And you aren't ever going to be any sort of replacement for him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 147 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3Wow. Just wow. Dude, it's a women's only sub. Of course an entitled scrote who thinks we care about his bullshit mysogynistic opinion would be mad that his comment was removed automatically. Keep advertising us, boys! Maybe some men will realise what women actually go through instead of listening to the true circle jerk that is theredpill, and more women will find us and realise most men treat them like garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:39 PM |
| 9 | FDS While Married?It's as much his job to keep up the value as it is yours I think. Trust me, if you try to keep up the value alone and he starts tanking his own value, this relationship will become miserable fast. | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | My husband has admitted to watching porn again and I have no idea what to do about it.I know | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 22 | My husband has admitted to watching porn again and I have no idea what to do about it.I wish I had friends or family in the area... I don't. And i have no way to get to where my family is. Ugh. I feel so stupid for moving with him 1,000 miles away from anyone I know... But it was either that or stay with my far more abusive narcissistic mother and possibly become homeless within a month... I hate her for forcing me to make such a rash decision. Even more so now that I have a daughter of my own. I feel so stuck. Like I'm playing chess and I'm in check, but anything I do could easi… | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 22 | Men all of a sudden showing empathy for a rape victim...guess the gender of the victim and the gender of the rapist?I believe the true statistic for women is 4/5 or even "every woman will be raped in her lifetime." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:16 PM |
| 16 | Men all of a sudden showing empathy for a rape victim...guess the gender of the victim and the gender of the rapist?I was raped when I was 16 by my then boyfriend. I ended up comforting HIM afterward. And it screwed me up. For a long time after I used sex as a form of self punishment. I developed severe depression that covered up my ADHD and made everything much worse. Now my memory is so screwed that I can hardly remember what happened yesterday unless it was traumatic or made me really mad. During my time using sex as self harm/punishment I was anally raped many times. And yes, it's awful. But I don't see w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 23 | Men all of a sudden showing empathy for a rape victim...guess the gender of the victim and the gender of the rapist?What more can we expect from ThE mOsT lOgIcAl GeNdEr? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:06 PM |
| 20 | Men all of a sudden showing empathy for a rape victim...guess the gender of the victim and the gender of the rapist?Gotta love how men can't disagree with a woman without insulting her and wishing she was raped... They only served to prove her point. They only care about male rape victims. And think all women are hes and slts. And women are still raped far more often than men or boys... These guys haven't researched anything have they? Sounds like they are just pulling fake knowledge out their asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:03 PM |
| 3 | “Don’t keep score in your marriage! 🥰” is patriarchal propaganda. If we tallied and kept score, there would be millions of divorces.They are all over 1,000 miles away and have their own children to take care of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | “Don’t keep score in your marriage! 🥰” is patriarchal propaganda. If we tallied and kept score, there would be millions of divorces.I never said i don't think this is an abusive relationship. I know it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 9 | Disney lied to us. The original little mermaid movie was made in 1975 and was made to teach girls to avoid being a pickme/give up everything for a man because you’ll just be used as a placeholder until his dream girl comes along. Ending is very dark.Until they wrote "let it go" elsa was the villain of frozen. And the story of frozen was in development for a really long time. The creators of frozen literally said that it was originally to be a film adaptation of the snow queen. But they somehow "couldn't make the story work". There's even evidence that elsa was supposed to be the original villain of frozen in kindgom hearts 3 of all places. Where the arendell world is very barren, there's randomly an ice maze in the middle of the level, Hans… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 11 | “Don’t keep score in your marriage! 🥰” is patriarchal propaganda. If we tallied and kept score, there would be millions of divorces.My main problem is not having anywhere to go and not having anyone to watch the kids when I inevitably have to work. I think I figured out a possible way to get a place, contacting the housing authority, but I'm not sure if they even have a place for me to go right now. All their accommodation sites seem full. But if I can get a place with them, they would allow me to live basically rent free until I can get a job. But that doesn't solve the no one to watch the kids while I work problem... Of co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:36 PM |
| 5 | I keep seeing a guy that looks like my ex around town and it's kinda freaking me out...The restraining order was only for a year. (So roughly until I was 18 and I'm 26 now). So unfortunately my ex hasn't violated the law if he is here or contacts me... I know my husband treats me poorly. But as of now I have nowhere to go with 2 toddlers. If it were just me I'd leave right now. Actually I'd have been gone for a while by now. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 02:20 AM |
| -7 | I keep seeing a guy that looks like my ex around town and it's kinda freaking me out...To be fair I did message the guy "don't message me unless I message you" which in hindsight is super sus, but I panicked and didn't want him to contact me randomly... Idk why I didn't just block him... The pickme attitude ig. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 01:48 AM |
| 14 | I keep seeing a guy that looks like my ex around town and it's kinda freaking me out...That's the thing.. He was an adept stalker so if he found my town I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard to find out where I live... Maybe your right and my husband is using my past against me... It's still unsettling to see someone who looks just like my ex in town... I don't feel safe. I feel restless. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowSo what if she wants a real ring? Why do people act like that is so horrible? If it's so wrong, why is her boyfriend dodging the question instead of admitting it's fake? He's not admitting because he knows she wanted a real one I bet. Personally, I don't care if the gem is real. What I care about is that the ring itself is catered to me and isn't just some run of the mill silver band with one diamond. To me, that type is so boring. Give me a rose gold ring with a sapphire and a ruby with an amaz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:37 AM |
| 69 | “Don’t keep score in your marriage! 🥰” is patriarchal propaganda. If we tallied and kept score, there would be millions of divorces.I know. I feel trapped right now. But hopefully I can leave sometime soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 7 | Mood for life ✨Idea... FDS children's story books designed to actually empower young ladies and teach young lads how to be HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:01 AM |
| 9 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋Low key I've been seeing a lot of ladies wearing crowns lately... By that I mean you and a fabulous lady on tik tok... And I low key want one so bad. My husband probably wouldn't let me order one with "his hard earned money" though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 72 | “Don’t keep score in your marriage! 🥰” is patriarchal propaganda. If we tallied and kept score, there would be millions of divorces.Oh dude my husband keeps score. He tells me all the time I'm "not pulling my weight" even though our almost 2 yo and almost 3 yo are happy, healthy, well rested, not hungry, and ALIVE. My almost 3 yo has a freaking death wish... Oh and dear old hubby (a 36 yo) refuses to change diapers, rarely gets bottles, and acts like him taking the kids on a walk is some big achievement even though I'm the one who washed, dressed, and changed the kids as well as making sure we had plenty of drinks and a spra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:10 AM |
| 78 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.I'm guessing he was also the type of guy who would never have really flown you to paris, weither he could afford it or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:04 AM |
| 30 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.Anyone want to bet he wasn't actually going to propose, but just added that in for extra "feel sorry for me!" Points? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 45 | Disney lied to us. The original little mermaid movie was made in 1975 and was made to teach girls to avoid being a pickme/give up everything for a man because you’ll just be used as a placeholder until his dream girl comes along. Ending is very dark.Almost all Disney remakes of old fairytales are like this. Sterilize the original story, only keeping a few main components, and telling an almost completely different story. They did this with frozen, which was based off of the ice queen. Anna wasn't in the original, and the main female character was trying to find her friend. With a LOT of help from various people and animals who were moved by her search. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 25 | ‘Delete it right now’: TikToker confronts ‘creep’ who took photo of her working out at Planet FitnessThis is a big part of why I have anciety about lossing weight. Go to the gym while out of shape? Get stared at and possibly insulted/harassed for being a "fatty". Go as a relitively fit woman and risk randos trying to take pics with, flirt with, sexually harrass, or stalk you... I have personally only experienced catcalling once in my life, and it was at a water park while I was underaged (like 16 years old), before my mom started cooking SUPER unhealthy food and only buying me candy and refusin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:49 PM |
| 7 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.What they are thinking of probably wouldn't be commercially available for 100 years or more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 27 | wow.Dude sounds like a narcissist. Gets mad at a 6 yo girl giving him advice. Gets mad at wife for trying to calm down daughter, who is crying because daddy just cussed and yelled at a 6 yo. Tries to make wife feel like the whole thing was her fault, shifting the blame of his dispicable behaviour to someone else. Also... Male lurkers... YOU ABSOLUTELY ARE A WEAK BITCH IF YOU CAN'T KEEP YOUR COOL JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE IN PAIN AND WANT TO HURT OTHERS AROUND YOU (either emotionally or physically). Women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 98 | What did he expect when he told her he wanted to sleep with another woman ?Men: I want a tradwife! Also men: I want a threesome! He didn't take her questions as insecurity because he was so stuck on the fantasy that he wasn't noticing her expressions, how she worded stuff, or the tone in her voice. My guess is this was a last straw situation. That he often ignored her and just kept blabbing on. When a man can make a phone call and have a prostitute do anything he wants her to for an hour or more, her concern about him wanting someone else is totally valad. She isn't cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 8 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"Dude is not a victim of abuse. Most men who are jobless while wife works don't do any housework or childcare at all. I bet he did agree to this, he just didn't relise because he doesn't respect her enough to actually hear wht she says. His friends are right. She's hot, bangs him, is a great mom, and cares for the house. If she works ON TOP OF all that (because we know he ain't gonna do shit to pick up the slack) he's going to lose out on one or all of these qualities as SHE would be the resentfu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 361 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.HAHAHA omg men like him always talk about how one day there will be artificial wombs and they won't need women but are mad because women also don't want to need men, but realised they don't need to settle for a scrote? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:03 PM |
| 48 | iT's JuST a PrAnK dOn'T bE sO dRaMaTiC (TW: Abuse resulting in death, sexual assault)Wait... INVOLENTARY MANSLAUGHTER??? This absolute fucking pig forced her out into the RUSSIAN WINTER in her UNDERWEAR... And that somehow is INVOLENTARY??? That should be LIFE in jail. How many women does he have to murder with a slow painful disturbing death before he gets life???? Hypothermia is a horribly scary condition. It's not ever funny to inflict it on someone. And to die that way? Poor thing... She must have been so scared and felt so alone... All for a few views and a "prank"... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 301 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.Don't take them back to your own house either! That's how you get ✨stalked!✨ Trust me, you don't want a casual knowing where you live or they might start stopping by uninvited. And will get mad you are with someone else (if you are). Very dangerous. Casual sex in general is super dangerous anyway. These scrotes be lying about stds and relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 12 | Women aren't funnySis, no need to apologize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:42 PM |
| 13 | Women aren't funnyWorking on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 12 | Women aren't funnyIt's... Much worse than it sounds. My other posts/comments go further into detail, but read them at your own risk. Tw for emotional abuse and gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 10 | I love pick mes that are so ignorant to history and to why some things exist... 🙄Way back when an engagement ring was basically a life insurance policy. It was supposed to be worth months or years of work so the woman would still be provided for if the man died... Which was far more common back then... Because women couldn't/were discouraged from working or being the provider. Rings now are bought for a high price and sold back for a fraction of the cost because most rings are diamond rings and diamonds aren't rare. There are literal warehouses full of dimonds to make a fake… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:17 PM |
| 39 | Women aren't funnyOh... OH! This is why my husband gets mad when i joke while all the ladies in my life genuinely laugh at them! He gets extra salty when I add onto his jokes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 24 | How do I nicely say I want to go on a dinner date? This guy just proposed an ice cream date?Block and delete. | /r/askFDS | 29/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 7 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreIf a guy is abusive or lacks respect, I've noticed couples therapy only makes them worse. It just helps them invent new ways to make you feel worse imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 9 | How would anyone consider these red flags?They are looking for signs of individuality as red flags! 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, can I please hear your success stories on divorcing abusive partners?So, I just remembered a quote from a post here on FDS: "His insults say more about him and how he is than they do about you." We see this all the time. Men project their problems and use women as a scapegoat. So... Our husbands claiming we don't appreciate them or respect them? 😏 that is them admitting they don't appreciate or respect us. And they hate when their gaslighting us into thinking their problems are our problems and we don't buy it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | The ✨ Mandacity ✨ is off the charts in the one.Omg and employers can look up your fb profile and potentially see this winging. Who vents on fb anymore when there are so many sites that are practically anonymous? I suppose the answer is boomers and narcissistic people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, can I please hear your success stories on divorcing abusive partners?I'm currently in a similar situation. Why just last night he told me to leave him alone because he thought I lied about flushing the toilet, and then got mad at me for not trying to spend time with him after he got off work... I have ADHD and was hyperfocused on doing laundry. He didn't at all try to ask me to talk with him. After that his attitude just got worse and worse. He kept talking... Yelling... About how I don't appreciate him? And how I never do anything for him?? And how I'm never hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:47 PM |
| 101 | The ✨ Mandacity ✨ is off the charts in the one.clears throat Ah hem... Venting is not the same as making someone else look worse for your own benifit. It stopped being about his feelings and became bashing the OP. Once people start berating your spouse, you have gone too far. Also this is textbook narcissistic behaviour. Blowing up his own accomplishments, minimizing her struggle, then posting literal lies. ... In short she needs to leave because this sort of thing can easily become him being physically violent instead of just emotionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 46 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"People praise my husband because they see him pulling the kids around town in a wagon. Yet the only reason they are in the wagon is me. I combed their hair, wiped their faces, changed diapers, got them dressed, packed up drinks and snacks, put on their socks and shoes, and gathered the wipes and diapers in case of emergencies. I even carry/walk them down to the wagon. And walk with them. But yea, give the guy pulling the wagon praise for spending time with the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:33 PM |
| 27 | No Neck Ed is a great example on how LVM use playing stupid and pity to get away with sh!tI bet he uses photos of himself before the accident as his profile photos. He used to be somewhat attractive before the accident that injured his neck. I loved watching her put him in his place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:10 PM |
| 36 | No Neck Ed is a great example on how LVM use playing stupid and pity to get away with sh!tHey, don't forget how he insulted her and shamed her with a "gift" of toothbrush and toothpaste, insinuating she didn't know how to care for her mouth (even though her teeth were whiter than his), and flat out stating her breath stank. And he acted the whole time like her breath WAS A DEAL BREAKER and like his shit don't stink. And she had to clarify that her breath was a stomach issue that SHE was insecure about. And THEN after ALL that he acted like HIS insecurities were more important than ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:05 PM |
| 14 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmI guess the buddist principle (or whatever bs sold him the idea) specified that your "vitality" is only preserved if it goes into a being other than yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 05:26 PM |
| 30 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmI'm sorry, but I was cursed with this knowledge and so must share it. I wish I could get some memory and eye bleach... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 31 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmYes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 5 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmYou'd think with how much porn guys like him watched, he would have realized that squirting was a thing. And yea, thinking the only thing in life that matters is your own orgasm has to be a lonely and miserable existance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?There's one that I think is called the 5 senses method, that was super helpful but I have forgotten. Let me see if I can find you some links. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 15 | I don’t even know what to title this one... 🤡"And everyone clapped!" Yea right, this guy probably doesn't have any "plates" and is just making it up for karma on a redpiller sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:27 PM |
| 177 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmThere was an Instagram star that tweeted about how he's straight, but said he once "drank a guys cum" so the dude wouldn't lose his vitality... Which only happens (according to them) when their "seed" is spilled and not going to another being... Like... Guys are fucking weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:23 PM |
| 7 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasm... You'd think he'd know squirting is a thing. Also men can have multiple orgasms too? And there's nothing vital lost by ejaculation? If there was, ejaculation wouldn't be worth it. And this is how we know male privilage ecists. This chump thinks we have it easier because we can... Orgasm? Wtf. He has no clue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 4 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?In that case, also look into grounding methods. Find one that helps incase you have panic attacks. They help a ton. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 15 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!Omg no. I tried to give her the benifit of doubt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:12 PM |
| -10 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!I don't think she is being a pick me. She makes cleaning til toks. Presumably there's a way to make money with views on tik tok. So, at worst she cleaned this dudes place for clout... At best she got unpaid labor by using him as a camera man while being able to make money from the encounter. She clearly didn't clean the place to be picked. He already wanted to smash. It sounds like she denied him free sex and used him to record her cleaning video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?Agreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?If only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?Fair enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?I'm having a hard time understanding everything you are saying. It was hard for me to tell if your first comment was for or against the band. I just came here to make fun of the "white men" who can't stand a song being sung about how women don't want to sleep with them! Not to dig into the lives of the artists or to jump into other controversies they may be involved in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 15 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?Well, the lyrics are "I'd rather die than hook up with another straight white guy."... So one of em being married doesn't exactly mar the message of the song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?Well now it has one like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 9 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?A few things i have learned (due to panic attacks and anxiety caused by ADHD and prevelant imposter syndrome): Take 10 deep breaths. Slow. In through your nose, out through your mouth. All the way in and all the way out. Identify what you are feeling and the potential cause of the feeling. Find a healthy way to express the emotion. Write a letter about it, talk to your fiance about it, draw, make a private video, whatever you feel most comfortable with. Keep a journal. Keep track of what you are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 28 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?Which has been a hook/bridge/corus in so. Many. Songs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 31 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?It's like it only makes cis white men uncomfortable if it's gasp negative words about... Themselves! look of shock and horror... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 31 | Comments about how "the lyrics are trash" and videos about how this is *gasp* racist against white men and crys of "industry plants!"! But.. the lyrics don't lie?Agreed. Besides, white men have a track record of not caring about something being discriminatory until it "discriminates" against them. They wouldn't bat an eye at a white only space but would protest against a black or asian safe space. They don't care if a place is men only, only care if a space is female only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 10 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?More precisely, it's that he didn't even seem to try to find a coping mechanism in the first place. Like... With ADHD a LOT of simple stuff is super hard to actually achive through normal means. For example: most of us can't just clean something when we see it needs cleaned. We have to be in a certain mind state (aka hyperfocus) to even get much progress down. But if a person struggling like this disects the situation, and looks at why it is so difficult, they can more easily find a solution out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 12 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?I'm not sure about neurodivergant men, but I have adhd and am neurodivergent myself. A diagnosis and medication alone won't help. I had to detangle myself from all my triggers, figure out WHY they were triggers and how best to menimalize BEING triggered as well as finding healthy ways to deal with those triggers. Only then could I finally have a level conversation about my faults and how to change them. It's an entire journey and a half for each trigger. And sometimes it's rough if the people in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:27 PM |
| 22 | Nothing newI bet this same study on women would show we are more likely to regester non human items as their own beings. I've only ever witnessed women accidentally bumping into chairs and saying sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Typical LVM: breaks up with girlfriend of 4 years because a medication decreased her sex drive, is now looking for advice on how to find hornier women 🙄 (bonus: commenter who suggests low sex drive means the ex-gf was “using” OP)I'm glad you got away from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:17 PM |
| 68 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoHE IS A FUCKING HUMAN. HE SHOULD KNOW HOW TO CLEAN HIS SHIT. ITS NOT SOMETHING ONLY WOMEN KNOW HOW TO DO! Also... How? Just how? how can someone's shower get like this unless they are literally rubbing shit all over the walls? I have NEVER seen such a horrid sight in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:44 PM |
| 128 | Typical LVM: breaks up with girlfriend of 4 years because a medication decreased her sex drive, is now looking for advice on how to find hornier women 🙄 (bonus: commenter who suggests low sex drive means the ex-gf was “using” OP)When my husband and I first married, my libido was really high. And nexplanon killed my libido. I'm horrified when I hear of men breaking up with their partners because of the libido drop from birth control. Yet these men never consider a vasectomy or condoms and requesting her to stop medication. And they have the gall to claim we are using them if our libido drops? Bah! Maybe if these assholes were willing to do anything to take the burden of medication off of their women, they wouldn't have t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:39 PM |
| 41 | WTF is this?!Remember that the most important part of self defense is to know whether to leave a situation or to fight. A weapon can be used against you if your opponent is stronger. Please, be careful and cautious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 45 | WTF is this?!WHAT THE FUCK?! And the ammount of people who have NO IDEA about this... Those men who started this should be punished for every single rape on that day. (And so should the men who 🤢 participate 🤢🤢🤢) This is disgusting. Depraved. And i wish I could tell every woman and child to NOT GO OUT that day. To stay home on the 24th. Don't go to work. Or school. Or anywhere. Stay inside. Lock the doors. And the windows. Gather all the self defense stuff you have. Get a bat for every family member... Maybe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 49 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡Any conclusions he reached are false due to not having a control group. This study should actually be "a study on how NOT to conduct a scientific study or use scientific reasoning!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 11 | Men Pushing Pregnancy During DatingBecausemen are the ones who baby trap women. He wants you to fall pregnant now, before you reach full mental maturity, and when you're more niave, vunerable, and easier to manipulate. In short, you are right that he has no interest in children he only has an interest in forcing you into a position where pretty much no matter what he will always be a part of your life. He likely won't help raise the children or do any sort of housework. This is why you vet extensively, especially if you want to h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 104 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡A study literally can't be conducted if there is no control group. Also don't most men who quit porn start actually seeing the women in their lives as people? My husband quit watching porn roughly a year ago, and while he's still often a dick, he does seem to actually notice I'm a human being and not a flesh light. He used to get so upset if I denied him a blowey... Right after having a c section. Now days he just goes and jacks off without getting overly upset and throwing a mantrum. Porn negit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 43 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡Wow. The projecting. "I guess we just became lazy!" And then listing off HAVING KIDS as a reason they became lazy as a couple... No, asshole, YOU became lazy. Your poor wife probably had to do all the parenting herself you lazy porn addict. Also if she complains you aren't doing enough housework, that isn't "little shit" to her. If you look like a mental case when you get angry THAT IS NOT IN ANY WAY OK. It doesn't matter where all you took her, what businesses you built together, or that you ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upOf course to a scrote NVM, a HVW would be a total pickmesha. That proves that he has no idea what high value is to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Any online self defense resources you can recommend?Genious! Checking it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 23 | When a single person blames you for their suicide its abuse and manipulation, when men site male suicide statistics and blame it on women it's "based"Oh my god, he ruined their finances yet everyone blamed your mom? I feel a lot of male suicides are over money, especially if they couldn't manage money or commited some sorrt of major tax/business related crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 22 | When a single person blames you for their suicide its abuse and manipulation, when men site male suicide statistics and blame it on women it's "based"Or dragging themselves into a crazy ammount of debt, commiting tax evasion or tax fraud, running a business in an illegal way to where the FBI raids them one day... Lets also not forget the guys that become drug lords and then decide to off themselves when they are busted. I swear, men think the law doesn't apply to them until they are caught up in some massive bs. Bet incels blame women for this one too. "He had a family who was demanding that he provide for them!" "It's his wife's fault!".... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 18 | When a single person blames you for their suicide its abuse and manipulation, when men site male suicide statistics and blame it on women it's "based"I had to block posts from that sub because they made me very angry every time I read them. It was mostly pickmeshas and men defending porn as if it was their child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 39 | When a single person blames you for their suicide its abuse and manipulation, when men site male suicide statistics and blame it on women it's "based"This reminded me of when Logan Paul went to Japan's suivide forest and RECORDED a hanging body and POSTED IT for the world to see. People often go into that forest and are never found again, so most of the people dying in there literally don't want to be seen or found... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 16 | Any online self defense resources you can recommend?This is wonderful advice. True, it wasn't quite what I expected, but is super helpful nonetheless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:21 AM |
| 13 | The myth of the "cock carousel": male projectionRight after I turned 18 I slept with over 20 different men. ... I was using sex as a form of self harm. I made this plain knowledge on my profile. So many men were willing to help me harm myself for their own benifit. And many more who I turned down because there was no time. It would have went on longer if my mom hadn't caught me. Sex wasn't enjoyable at all for me back then. It hurt. And most men didn't even care to try to get me off. And the ones who tried found it impossible to do. I am the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 2 | ‘I Want a Wife’ by Judy Syfers Brady - Ms Magazine, December 1971Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:30 PM |
| 51 | My fellow Bisexual ladies, how many of you are strongly considering starting to only date and pursue relationships with women?Back pain and having 2 toddlers. Can't just go wherever. Back pain is improving rapidly though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:07 PM |
| 84 | My fellow Bisexual ladies, how many of you are strongly considering starting to only date and pursue relationships with women?I have been considering this as well. I knew I was bisexual by age 12. But my family was so against the LGBT+ community that I was scared to even consider the idea. Now I'm 1,000 miles away from them, unhappily married to a man. He often asks me what i would do if our relationship ended. I always respond "I wouldn't ever be with another man, that's for sure!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:02 PM |
| -1 | Epiphany: Imagine if dating made your life easier (like it does for men)He's not the type to lie. Especially not about this sortof thing. Especially since I almost died a year and a half ago while having our daughter. He don't wanna raise 3 kids alone. I'll die if I get pregnant again right now. I'd literally have to lose 130 pounds to have a chance at not dying during or shortly after childbirth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenNice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 9 | Romantic NecrophiliaOften phrases like this that guys would use on me is something along the lines of the song "never ever getting rid of me". Like WTF what if I WANT to get rid of you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:01 PM |
| 13 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 71 | ‘I Want a Wife’ by Judy Syfers Brady - Ms Magazine, December 1971As a wife currently, my god the validation. Wife's are expected to do everything while all men have to worry about is work and school. Just... Wow. I have flat out said before that I'm gine with my husband getting a sister wife if he wished. Maybe then I'd actually have some help around here! ... Ladies, vet vet vet. Never stop vetting. My husband qualified as a HVM when I moved in, but now he's a LVM. They change. They can change from finding new employment, moving, having kids, experiencing lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 8 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨If I leave my husband or he leaves me, I'm done with men. But my lord, is this a nice time period to be bisexual. I denied myself the thought of dating women when I was younger because my family was super concervitive and might have kicked me out. However, I'm 1,000 miles away from those punks... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 17 | Epiphany: Imagine if dating made your life easier (like it does for men)Nope. Stuck for now. But hey... My back pain is gone now that I stopped the pain meds and got my nexplanon removed. So... I can work 😏 now to just recover from my body rejecting my IUD... Although... My husband straight up said he's going to clean while I'm recovering and get a vasectomy... So maybe he's not quite as low on the LVM scale as I thought... And maybe he's scared. Because with my back pain gone he KNOWS I could leave if I want to. I think I might put up adds for mending clothing. I s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenHere's a top teir strat: notice him watching, put on a short show while looking in his eyes, then while staring him down, take a HUGE ass bite. He will grab at his dick in imagined pain and RUN out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 37 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸This is because paying for them emasculates them. They want to feel superior, not equal. This is why they also don't value our sexual gratification, or when we are confident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 63 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸This. Don't take dating advice from men on reddit. You don't want these NVM/LVM. They aren't hubby material. They will only teach you to be a pandering pickmesha, telling you that it will keep a man, only for it to produce hooking up with a guy first date, paying for everything, planning the whole thing, going back to his place and cooking/cleaning for him... And being ghosted the next day... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:15 PM |
| 81 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸I remember recently there was a post bitching about FDS and saying something like "they can't even get men because they refuse to let men give them advice on how to date men!" And yet they ALWAYS post about how a woman was so great, had all the qualities he liked that were supposed to, according to them, "keep a man for life!"... Only for him to dump her and be like this scrote... Only regret it once she settled down with someone else. I have an ex who was the same way. I did everything he asked… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:12 PM |
| 35 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸Lol you made me laugh so hard I snorted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenYes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:03 PM |
| 11 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenPeople who bite the ice cream are so so brave. Personally if I catch a man staring at me for this, I look them dead in the eye, make the movement of whatever I eat more "sexy", and then I bite down. Hard. This usually makes them wince and vanish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:03 PM |
| 14 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenBananas, corndogs, even licking a spoon. Twinkies, cake pops, candy bars... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:00 PM |
| 14 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenIt's a common porn trope for the video to start off with a woman "seductively" licking an ice cream cone/ eating a banana/ corndog/ any " phallic" like item while staring a man down. That man was almost guaranteed to be porn sick. He was probably waiting there just to see any woman eat an ice cream cone. Sick bastard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 44 | Epiphany: Imagine if dating made your life easier (like it does for men)My marriage is extremely lopsided like this. It wasn't at first. At first he cared more about my orgasms than his own, insisted on doing the shopping together, insisted on cooking and helping to clean. He used to praise my art, even though back then it was literal trash. But... Something changed. He became extremely selfish in bed, expected me to do all chores, getting mad if I drew when things weren't sparkling clean, insisted I couldn't do the shopping myself because I bought a $5 notebook, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:41 PM |
| 2 | what the hellAlso, hold up. Rape was a thing LITERALLY for eons. How many Greek gods both raped and were raped? Almost all the Greek pantheon raped women all the time. (With maybe the exception of hades, whose marriage to Persephone is arguably the most functional relationship of the bunch... Even though hades was told by zues to kidnap her...) Rape isn't a new thing. It's not a product of "men no longer treating women like they are special"... Point to ANY point in history where WOMEN were treated with more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 7 | what the hellWhat the ever living fuck did I just read? They really out here claiming women hate rape because they can't charge for sex and have a princess complex? WTF. My first experience with sex WAS rape. I had no intention of making my bf pay me for sex, and I never had enough self esteem to consider myself "princess status"... It was still traumatizing. I STILL have trouble with being touched or having sex because I instinctively flinch away. If sex is innitiated unexpectedly, my mind reverts back to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 39 | Just friends, though!"No strings attached!" But also refuses to wear a condom And also complains about women baby trapping them And also doesn't want you dating/seeing anyone else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I support this. If anything just so people stop bitching about how inhumane this sub supposedly is... Like... How about how inhumane men are to women? There's a sub to go to for "tips on how to look more attractive" or to be rated/reviewed. and most of the women posting there are just basically told to lose weight, style their hair different, and wear makeup. By men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:32 PM |
| 109 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘Yes. Another favorite of these types of phrases for me is "mantrum". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Male anger & female self-preservationI agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 41 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Lurkers, we are NOT trying to attract the degrading and disrespectful men who make up the mass ammount of reddit users. We don't WANT your opinion on what to do to attract YOU. We don't want you. As an unhappily married woman, I'd rather be ALONE than date LVM/NVM/zvm again. I'd be happy to be alone if it ment I don't have a man breathing down my neck, insulting my hobbies and dreams, invading my space, insulting my body, and demanding all my attention. To the man who wrote that post: you are tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 13 | Male anger & female self-preservationTechnically, we have never been married. However, yes I am still with him. Hooefully not for much longer. I'm working on getting better so I can work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 8 | Don’t be meHello, I am your future if you had stayed with him or chose to take him back. Read my previous posts about my relationship with my husband, be relieved you didn't marry or become dependent on this guy. Be free to be yourself, love. Don't become me. Don't marry or move in for convenience. Don't ignore even a single red flag. It can be awful and a misserable existance. Better to be alone than to be with a man who doesn't care about anyone but himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 27 | Male anger & female self-preservationMy husband used to throw and break shit ALL THE TIME. We had to get a metal vape pen because he kept breaking the glass ones. One of his other culprits was MY PHONE. But if I throw my phone, suddenly I'm a crazy bitch. He punched holes in the door, and says it was my fault because I closed the door. I was having a panic attack from his behaviour and just wanted to be alone. And now he's denying me calling to get our dishwasher fixed because "you can't even do them with what you've got"... My han… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨If orgasms aren't important, why are MEN so focused ON THEIR OWN ORGASMS???? Why the fuck should they be able to have orgasms every time while we don't have a single one? Lately my husband has expected me to give him several orgasms in one oral session. While he isn't worried about giving me more than one. A month. He gets mad if i stop at one for him even if our toddlers start crying... So yea, if men can prioritize THEOR orgasms over LITERALLY ANYTHING ELSE, we can too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 142 | I said what I said. Stay mad.The entire Greek pantheon of Gods Did you know back then, all the raping and cheating WASN'T meant to be polarizing? That was literally how the men were ENCOURAGED to behave. And people wonder why so many men use religion to justify treating women like garbage. They've been using that tactic to justify hating women for EONS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | All the emotional labor, organizing and managing being pushed on the woman, who would have known? This is why multiple partners are not beneficial for women, instead of one man baby, she now has two of them.As a mom of 2 toddlers and a manchild who is compitent at work but downright incapable in home... I feel this. It's so frustrating when my husband cleans. He's SO FUCKING PICKY when i clean, but I always have to go back over stuff when he cleans. He doesn't realise the EDGES of a room need cleaning as well. And that's if he ever cleans. It's been a month since he said he would do dishes and clean the toilet. Neither have been fully done. He half assed the toilet bowl 2 days ago (no other part of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Honestly? No. But like if they really were getting baby trapped by women SO often... You'd think they'd be all for male BC and... Maybe even have it in place without telling anyone but their own doctor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.And they refuse to acknowledge that, in being born male, they live in luxury. Making male privilege an obviously existing thing that they just... Deny like crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.The cramps finally died down for me. Still super sore though. I hope I have. Asimilar experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 3 | He says he is all for “enthusiastic consent” but his whole post is putting women down for not wanting to have sex and being upset when their partners turn to porn.Most women who refuse sex with their partner refuse it BECAUSE the guy doesn't fucking understand how to get her off and is already porn sick to begin with! Also most married men refuse to help with chores or childcare and expect their wife to do almost everything in the home, being his personal secretary, a mommy stand in, a personal chef, personal chauffeur, his alarm clock, his personal stylist, and more. Many women are just too wxhausted to put forth effort in sex. Not to mention that the si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 6 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Mine has decreaded in pain even as I've been responding on comments here. My doctor even called to make sure I'm doing ok and recovering well! She's literally the nicest doctor i have had the pleasure to meet so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Your colleague sounds like a nightmare tbh. I hate when people try to invalidate other's experiences just because it wasn't as bad for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:46 PM |
| 3 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.That is horrifying! My god... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 6 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.What a pos gyn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 6 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I hope you find something that works for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I'm not allergic to hormomes (I think?) But they do have nasty side effects for me and similarly for all women in my family. I'm glad it wasn't so painful for you! Mine still feels like heavy cramps now, but the pain is lessening which I'm glad for. And I already feel like the side effects from the nexplanon hormones are dying off. Thank god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I'm blessed to be in a state where medicaid covers almost all reproductive and child bearing costs (nexplanon removal and iud insertion were both free to me, and i only paid $8 to have 2 children. Colorado is fucking awesome on this front.) I'm so so horrified and sorry that you went through so much pain and got injured from this. BIG internet hugs for you. I'm glad your workplace was understanding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 16 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Financial dependancy and inability to work due to injuries from birthing 2 tots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 9 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexIf the dude loves you, he will work with you to become sexually compatable. It reminds me of when people act like drawing is some inate skill you are born with. NO. Just like everything else, your first attempts will probably be garbage, but you improve as you practice, learn, and grow. It's the same with having sex with someone. Sure, some start off on a better foot than others, but it can still be learned and developed and improved over time. For how horrible my hubby is sometimes, if I tell h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 3 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I already have 2 tots. Question: is it just as painful to get removed as it is to be placed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 10 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Because I tell him i want him to leave. And because he thinks it's so easy to do. He just as easily threatens suicide, vanishing so he can't be charged child support, and just straight up going to larger cities and doing heavy drugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 6 | My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about.This is a big part of why I'm disgusted that the majority of people defend porn use and claim it's irrational, manipulitive, and controlling to expect your partner to never watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Once more for those in the back! (Credit: Tumblr user Autistic Abby/Stimabby, 2015)Omg that's hilarious. I'm glad they're all exs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 6 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Omg when my mom and sister came to the hospital after my sons birth, they both wanted to hold son and after like 30 mins went to sight see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Once more for those in the back! (Credit: Tumblr user Autistic Abby/Stimabby, 2015)Is that man my husband? Haha my husband insists that since jesus said he isn't a respecter of men, that we shouldn't respect people, but also shouldn't disrespect them. Yet he also expects me to treat him like the head of the household. While also insisting I have full say in decisions too. Yet if I disagree with him on a purchase, he gets upset and says I'm trying to take his spot as leader. We are getting me a new drawing tablet soon. I will be using it to make sellable art and childrens books… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 11 | Once more for those in the back! (Credit: Tumblr user Autistic Abby/Stimabby, 2015)Hipocrasy is probably a bit more accurate than irony here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 11 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:44 PM |
| 8 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.If you know you don't want kids, go for sterilization. It would probably be less traumatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 11 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I just found out yesterday that I was traumatized by my son's birth (emergency c section). How? I was talking to my doc about it while she was removing the nexplanon and my body was trying to shake violently as I talked about the whole thing. I was able to supress it, but told my doctor. She recommended I schedual an appointment with the mental health specialist on staff to deal with the trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:39 PM |
| 5 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Oh boy, my periods were rough before having kids. But I'd almost rather a worse period than having then every 2 weeks for a year followed by not a single period for months (I hate the nexplanon). I might just get it removed if it's too bad and tell my husband to just deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 4 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 24 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Honestly, I didn't fully understand what was happening. However NONE OF THIS changes the fact that it is extremely uncomfortable, painful, and hurts for a long time after even if you take anti inflammatorys after. I'll edit to include that my explination isn't correct, but this doesntchange my main points much at all. It's still a fucking nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 11 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Honestly the cramping isn't much worse than my usual cramps... But my cramps are on the "holy fuck I would rather die" level so... I'm so sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 16 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.OMG I'm so pissed. About this whole thing. Just... UGH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:06 PM |
| 14 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Even just having a laptop in their laps for too long can temporarily impeed their ability to produce sperm. These methods need to be developed. It's unfair that women are the ones who experience any form of discomfort with BC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 10 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.No, but we both say horrible shit when we are angry or panicked. I too have threatened to find a nice woman to raise our children with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:00 PM |
| 9 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.To be fair, the copper IUD isn't supposed to screw with your cycle. And the mental/emotional effects are minimal. But damn does it hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁The first time i was EVER body shammed was by a guy in my class who had a crush on me I was not at all concerned about my body until the day that guy started bullying me. I recieved no body shamming from other women. The older women in my family were very concerned about my health, but they did not call me fat or shame me for the way i looked. The second and third major times I was shamed was ALSO from men. Both were potential dates. The second told me to get in shape and contact him later with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 23 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.You are absolutely right! Why don't they take this route? It be so much easier on both genders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 93 | There needs to be more birth control options for men."men are still hesitant to try at the risk of causing long term effects or impeding performance." ... Stronger, more logical, less emotional gender my ass. This is complete bullshit. This is... Oh my GOD. I couldn't read past this point. I'm so fucking angry. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:42 PM |
| 41 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.What. The. Absolute. Fuck. ... I don't want to be on this planet anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 47 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.Dude, honestly same. It's just so... Unfair. My sister got her eggs surgicly removed. Honestly, that almost sounds easier than what I just went through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 9 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I kinda don't trust spermacide? Plus my husband isn't super attentive. He'd probably accidently by the wrong one anyway... Ik ik, "why are you still with him?" ... Because I'm... Uh... What's the word for hoping something works out right because you still care for the guy, even though you know things probably won't get any better? Whatever that is, I just can't let it go. Even though literally every other part of me longs to just be alone with my children... And maybe one day meet a nice lady, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 53 | There needs to be more birth control options for men."BuT i MiGhT wAnT cHiLdReN lAtEr!" That's usually the response given when i have suggested that to any man. And I do possibly want children later, if I lose weight first so there isn't as many risks. However, I'm not sure. And my husband talks about how if I do leave him, he'd probably try to find a new wife and start a new family with her. So he won't get a snippy snip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.Great points! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | This song is awesome and I thought y'all would like it too!Agreed! I want to make an animation of this song once I get my new drawing tablet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?Screen shot your conversations. If he does follow through, you can prove it's false because he literally just tried to blackmail you into sex. I personally never had a guy complain to my work or whatever, but i have had a few stalkers. Just do what you can to protect yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | This song is awesome and I thought y'all would like it too!Personally I like this song so much more on 1.25 speed. And I love it. The tone is awesome, the lyrics are so perfect. I love these types of songs and I want more of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 16 | I rejected him, so he emailed my boss 😐BuT wE aRe ThE lOgIcAl GeNdEr!!! Yea, I've not obsessed over a rejection for more than a few weeks. Scrotes can obsess over rejection for LITERALLY THE REST OF THEIR LIFE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 11 | Scrotes chastising women as fake geeks for cosplaying characters they have not even heard aboutI probably feel this way from my mom insisting I was fat my whole life and... Well, the same guys that made fun of that gorgeous and please-be-my-wife queen would make even more fun of someone like me... I had been made fun of before for even talking about wanting to do cosplay. And my current husband would definitely see it as a waste of time and money. Maybe one day I can make custom peices for other cosplayers. I could justify the spediture if I can sell my work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:28 PM |
| 24 | I ditched my fuckbuddy when she caught feelings because she's "drama", now I'm too sick to fuck other women. She's got a bf now, I want her back. Help, please :(I have an ex, my first real boyfriend, who I dumped when I was 17 or 18 because I tried to talk about some of the problems our relationship had and he venomously denied that there was even a singular problem. Every now and then he pops back into my messages. He had the gall to tell my husband that I would leave to be with him in a heartbeat... Right after I gave birth. Like um... No. I'm not going to leave my husband for my ex abuser (he raped me, and tried to get me to spend every waking moment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 37 | I ditched my fuckbuddy when she caught feelings because she's "drama", now I'm too sick to fuck other women. She's got a bf now, I want her back. Help, please :(The character faults he listed as hers are actually his. He legit wants to break up a budding family just because his sick dick is too weak to meet another girl? Also how is it that he's too sick to have sex with any new women, but thinks he could bang this one fine enough that she'd abandon her soon-to-be baby daddy? The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:44 PM |
| 16 | Scrotes chastising women as fake geeks for cosplaying characters they have not even heard aboutI want to get into cosplay so badly... I would love to make all sorts of costumes. But I'm a big lady, trying to lose weight. So as much as I want to do it, it feels like It would be wasted on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 19 | Scrotes chastising women as fake geeks for cosplaying characters they have not even heard aboutI bet she was inwardly laughing anytime a scrote called out to her about how she is trying to hard or to dress up as a real character... What a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:33 PM |
| 4 | Yay Utah!I'm also a mom and in a similar relationship... I want out so badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:06 AM |
| 31 | That fucking slug story broke meStockholm Syndrome. Poor thing needs to be seperated from him for awhile and shown a regular non-abusive relationship before she understands just how horrible this guy is.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:17 PM |
| 13 | It do be that wayMaybe. Still working on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:32 PM |
| 15 | It do be that wayOmg, what an asshole. Glad he's your ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 98 | Yay Utah!Baby trapping is what men do to women. It gives them more power or control over her, especially if she's young or a pickme. It can help them gain financial control (especially if the men refuse to cover childbearing and childrearing costs), get her to move in with him, get her into a SAHM situation, and have the benifit of people demanding SHE has to work out any problems in the relationship "for the children". Even if he rapes her, beats her, or cheats on her... Many people still try to tell he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:21 PM |
| 53 | It do be that wayI made one of my husband's mean spirited fat jokes back to him one night. His jokes were normally about my belly or my thighs. So I made the joke "as a bisexual, I'm glad I can pretend to have a girlfriend" and then motorboated his man tits... I had even warned him it was a mean joke before i told him. And he's said FAR worse to me before. He didn't talk to me for 2 days and got mad over every little thing I did wrong ever since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 8 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.Exactly! This sounds like one of those cases of continued abuse until the girl dies, that could have been prevented if the abuse was taken seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 20 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.It's so so sad that even as she is talking about this man switching her meds and food with stuff that was damaging, and how he literally poisioned her, that she is STILL defending him and apologizing for being over Dr amatic when she isn't... Honey, weither he really loves you or not is no longer an issue, he has taken clear actions to harm you slowly over time from the inside out. His heart's allegiance stopped being an issue the day he started messing with your food and meds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 6 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.Yep. You're right on point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 23 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.My husband refused to order at a new eating spot in town because the lady behind the counter was sooo rude to him. I went to the counter myself and she seemed stressed out, like maybe it was her first day running the spot alone? And when I suggested that was why she seemed to be in a hurry, he yelled at me for HOURS about always defending others and never being on "his side"... Like dude you are hating on a woman for being overwhelmed her first day working alone. YOU were similary overwhelmed on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Has any of you bisexual ladies been told by a LWM that you are a lesbian if you don't enjoy bad PIV or don't orgasm from PIV at all?He did it again today and decided to do missionary possition. It hurt my hips so badly and for some reason he decided this is the day he takes his time... Pure agony. My hips come out of place easy ever since my second pregnancy... Now they are fucked up for the rest of the day... 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:09 PM |
| 9 | Has any of you bisexual ladies been told by a LWM that you are a lesbian if you don't enjoy bad PIV or don't orgasm from PIV at all?My husband has accused me of wanting to be a "butch lesbian" because I actually express my thoughts and opinions and he feels I'm trying to take his place as the head of household. He also gets frustrated if he wakes me up from dead sleep to have sex and I don't orgasm without any forplay or anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 17 | Caught his Tinder notification"Hey asshole, we ain't friends anymore. Get the fuck out of my apartment or I will have the police here asap to kick your ass to the curb. I never want to see your stupid cheating face ever again." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 10 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.I agree. Anal sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 07:58 PM |
| 4 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.It is very sad. I hope she wakes up one day and realises she is better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 7 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.It's not like she tried to argue against it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:12 PM |
| 20 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.She accused me of posting in FDS for karma, and when I said karma was worthless she asked why "all of your posts are screenshots"... That was literally only my last 2 posts. Most of my posts aren't on FDS and the majority are text posts so... Like did she only look at my last 2 posts and thought that was enough? Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 25 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.My dumb brain used the wrong word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 18 | The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife...He said in the comments that he REALLLY wants to do anal but his wife refuses. Also at the suggestion he quit watching porn and only think of his wife, he immediately said he wants to divorce her because she deserves better. They would really rather give up the real ass woman than the fake porn. 🤢🤢🤢🤦🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 26 | The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife...I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 68 | The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife...Any relationship that porn "saves" isn't worth saving and is just prolonging the inevitable. Like if a girl "saves" her relationship by getting addicted to cocain too... It won't last. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:41 AM |
| 131 | The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife...I bet he actually is lying about how much he uses it and not comparing his wife. And that he's probably trying to pressure her into something painful or degrading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:35 AM |
| 8 | Sick and tired of hearing i "look good for my age"I feel the same way when a guy tells me "you look too innocent to be 25!" 🤢 this really means "you look underage, so I want to bang you even more now!" I get the same feeling also when my husband complains about me "not trying to look feminine." I do not shave my pits, legs, or coochie. I do not wear makeup (mainly because my son tossed it all into a bath, and husband sees it as a waste of money to get more), and I wear my husband's clothes. But I don't like looking super "feminine" because what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:38 AM |
| 13 | Hypocrisy of men: Women are not allowed to kink-shame, but they are allowed to boundary shame women?!His ex is 1,000 miles away and has blocked both of us. He doesn't own where we live, we rent, but his name is the one on the agreement and he's the one paying for everything.we are renting through the housing authority. They could probably help me, but I'd be in the same town as him still. I like our town but it would be awkward to run into him all the time. He keeps telling me that he will help me leave him if I want to, that he'd send me and the kids money and everything so I still wouldn't ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 51 | Hypocrisy of men: Women are not allowed to kink-shame, but they are allowed to boundary shame women?!My kink is actually having a fucking orgasm every time we have sex! My husband quit caring if i orgasm or not. He'll wake me up out of dead sleep, ask me to situate myself, and just go at it. No foreplay. No attempt at making sure I'm fully awake first. Done in 5 mins or less. Then.. Get this... He will COMPLAIN ABOUT ME NOT EVEN MOANING... Like I should be aroused just by his dick being in me. And if I say anything about it, he'll just go jack off in another room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 22 | I wish I could knock some sense into my friend. She’s talking about the time she tried anal to please her bf. She puts up with so much shit from her bf. They been together for two years. I don’t know how to help her. She just won’t listen."He always listened when I said no!" No he didn't. If he did he wouldn't have ever asked again. And she hasn't ever orgasmed? Sorry, sounds like he just doesn't give a fuck if she enjoys it or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 15 | Who’s going to tell them?Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 115 | Beauty Hurts, a riddle by DworkinPeople often compliment me by saying stuff like "you are brave to have had two children so close together" or saying my pain tolerance must be super high. It's not that I do well with pain. In fact I can barely function right now because my back, upper abdomen, and lower abdomen have been hurting constantly. No, I went through child bearing because I felt I had no choice. I couldn't have an abortion, that always felt wrong for me. I am not brave. I am a coward. My "husband" causes me so much pai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 17 | Who’s going to tell them?I probably would leave if I had anywhere to go. But with the vehicle in his name and us not actually legally married... It would be almost impossible to travel with 2 tots safely anywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 32 | Who’s going to tell them?We aren't even legally married. So no divorce neccesary. He can keep all the goofy shit he bought... If only I had somewhere to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:28 PM |
| 49 | Who’s going to tell them?He keeps claiming he can't leave because it would be child abandonment because I'm "too much of a retard to take care of them on your own!" Like... Wtf? I'm not the one who gets angry everytime I'm asked to change a diaper! Or catch a bad attitude because I brought home food to eat with the 2 yo and then just yell at my wife to "just give me time alone when i get off work!" And all this bs. If I left the kids alone with him it would be child abandonment. He said he could find a 19 yo to replace … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:14 PM |
| 76 | Who’s going to tell them?My husband used to do that a lot for me. The first year we were together he'd do it every time. Now? He expects oral and never offers me oral at all. He won't do anything sexual for me unless I ask, which is bullshit because he acts like I haven't earned it even though I do all the childcare... He keeps threatening to leave. I wish he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 19 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenI'm bisexual. I hate anal. I will leave my husband if I catch him with another woman. And I'm not open to filming sex acts, even if it's just me and my husband. But damn it all, I wish I had given other women more of a chance. I wish I hadn't feared my family's reaction to finding out i was dating a woman. Ladies tend to care way more about your emotional, mental, and physical wellbeing than men. I have straight up joked with my husband that we should find a sister wife to fill in where he fails… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 32 | I'm getting so frustrated with the number of drinks/coffee/walk dates I'm being offered and would love to discuss this phenomenaBack when I was dating (8 years or so ago) it was very often that guys would offer coffee/walk dates. More often than not, they would just want to meet me at my home and hang out there. Unfortunately at the time, I was very suicidal and mentally unwell, and was using sex as a form of self harm, along with extreme overeating. Fortunately I never got pregnant or any stds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:50 PM |
| 9 | This song is literally 2 women expressing how unhappy they are and the 2 men not even caring.Why is it that Greek mythology has inspired many many retellings and reworks of it, yet is also relatable and horrifying in so many ways? I only recently learned that all the gods raping women was not actually supposed to be as polarizing as it is today. Like... Raping women was severely normalized back then... And that kinda scares me. I love Greek mythology and also hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Gross! 🤮I'm so glad both of mine were c sections so i never had to hear this bs. But my husband acted like his paternal leave was a vacation he earned... And not like it was time off to get to know his newborn and help his wife recover. Litterally yelled at me that I was ruining his vacation any time I asked for help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Never let a man deny you privacy or determine what is best for your mental health.I wish I could. It's a small town with nowhere to go, especially with 2 kids. On top of that, the car is in his name so I can't use it to go either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Never let a man deny you privacy or determine what is best for your mental health.I need it removed. It's making my weight loss journey impossible and I believe it's playing a big role in the declination of my mental health, not as big as my husband though. Besides, we agreed that there are other ways to get off than sex, and he was so scared I would die if we had another kid (first time, my son and I almost died from preeclampsia. Second time I almost died from eclampsia and my daughter almost died from jaundice)... Trust me, this man knows he doesn't want to have to take ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Conservative Pick Me Magazine Evie thinks we’re all Femcels Y’all. I wonder which man dictated this idea for them to write down? Lmaooo, imagine being this desperate for male approval in 2021.Nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 2 | How does a woman go from cheerful and carefree to overworked and boring? So hard to understand. Such a mystery. /sHe always complains about how unhappy and negative I am though. Then again, a tired unhappy person is easier to control than a well rested happy person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 8 | Never let a man deny you privacy or determine what is best for your mental health.I'm fully aware of the extra energy he is zapping. If only he'd do stuff like get up and get his own drinks. Or wipe down the front of the toilet when he's done peeing. Or let me have some freaking alone time without him or the kids every now and then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 16 | Never let a man deny you privacy or determine what is best for your mental health.I have no one for 1,000 miles, and no way to travel 1,000 miles with two toddlers. For now, I have no way out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:36 PM |
| 16 | Never let a man deny you privacy or determine what is best for your mental health.Sadly it's not quite that simple. I have no money, nowhere to go, and would need to take our two toddlers with me. And the car is in his name, so I wouldn't even have a vehicle to drive. I'm working on these things, but it takes time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 14 | Let's discuss: my walmart is locking up condoms and pregnancy tests! This upsets me, these items need to be easily accessible. They literally page an employee to family planning for the whole store to hear and make you checkout asap.Condoms and pregnancy tests are likely frequently stolen at that store, so they had to lock them up. Honestly, it doesn't bother me much if they locked it up or not. Just don't act ashamed for getting them. The stigma comes more from reaction than from the locking up of the merchandise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 30 | Breakups are tougher on men, women's mental health tend to get better after a breakup while men's tend to get worseAs a married woman, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 111 | Conservative Pick Me Magazine Evie thinks we’re all Femcels Y’all. I wonder which man dictated this idea for them to write down? Lmaooo, imagine being this desperate for male approval in 2021.Yay! More FREE PUBLICITY for the sub! Lol when will they learn that leading people here with false claims will help them find us and many of the women will actually join? Lol. I found this sub because of a hate comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationGrowing up with that woman was horrible. Everytime I hear about her now it's stuff like "I am talking to so many men teehee, but why are so many of them stuck in another country?" (Obvious scam to get older women to send them money, and she refuses to accept that because it would bruise her ego) and "I've had to go to the nail salon because I can't cut my toenails anymore!" She blames it on her bum knee but... She's getting very overweight. Part of me gets some real schadenfreude from hearing ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 79 | I HATE the term simp, and I’m honestly so sick of it now.My husband once called an all mom sub where everyone was agreeing he was shit "your simp army"... And when I pointed out it was all women, he just insisted they were simping. Like my understanding at the time was that a simp was someone who was fake nice to try and sleep with a woman. So I was like "that makes no sense? Most of these women are straight and married?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 18 | How does a woman go from cheerful and carefree to overworked and boring? So hard to understand. Such a mystery. /sI have silently resigned to not have sex or give oral to my husband until he does his part of the chores. All I want him to do is the stuff that hurts my back badly... Laundry, dishes, taking out the trash, and cleaning the toilet. But no, he's too tired to do it. To be fair he was recently made a full time employee and manager, but still. He shouldn't abandon his responsibilities at home. Especially when I'm struggling with untreated ADHD and the crazy ups and downs of having nexplanon in my ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:31 PM |
| 40 | #NotAllMenAs them to show you one and their ego responds with "I am! Give me a shot!" While they are exactly what they said NAMALT to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 22 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationCommon manipulation tactic. My mom would make the same excuses as to why she couldn't help with chores. In fact, one of my filters for narcissistic and abusive people is "that reminds me of my mom"... The blessing and absolute curse of having a narcissistic parent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 18 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivation"Porn free" "no fap" yet they talk about how they jerk off and watch porn after... So many men are a lost cause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:47 PM |
| 77 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivation"I DiDnT tOuCh MySeLf, I jUsT wAtChEd It!" This is a BLATANT lie. No guy just watches porn without jacking off. Why else would he watch it? If he was watching it for any other reason, you'd think he would state the reason instead of "I don't know why lol". Don't go back to him. He is a liar and a pornsick loser. He's not even TRYING to get you back. If he was he'd be saying "if it bothers you that much, I will never watch it again!" And even that would probably be a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 14 | "Women don't orgasm during sex because female sexuality is more complicated." If this is true then it follows that women have a hard time orgasming during masturbation as well. How true is that🤔?... This morning my husband woke me up for sex. There was no foreplay, no cuddling, no real intimacy. I wasn't turned on, and I didn't feel any pleasure from it. He did try to get me turned on by touching my clit but it just wasn't working. Men think it works the same for women as it does for them: a simple touch down there can get them horny and with enough movement they orgasm. For many women, that isn't enough. Foreplay starts outside of the bedroom with anything nice or upright he does. If h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Needing some support. I am fuming. Boy moms are fucking worst.Take him to court and go for full custody! This is the first sign of abuse in most relationships, and there are likely other signs that they have managed to hide from you. I am livid. If my husband acted like this toward our daughter, I would move away in a heartbeat. Is there any way you can deny their visitation on the grounds that it is dangerous for her health? Also step mom should not have a say about anything the stepchild wears. That is not her daughter. I'd even recommend reporting them … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 35 | Spring has Sprung...It is time to uncuff and move on from that LVMReminds me of a joke about food companies saying "if you don't like it we will send another for free!" Like... Yea sure send me MORE of what I didn't want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Being a predator is relatable!In the first one, it's a game about banging as many anime girls as you can (and they send you lewd photos throughout the game). The second was a clicker game about running a cam girl service, with the original hunnipop girls and some new characters. The third is about having a ton of 3 soms because you need to have a threesome with 2 godess-like beings to save the world. Oh, and the girls still provide lewd photos, just 2 in each one now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 03:39 AM |
| 10 | Being a predator is relatable!I'm silently dreading the day that markiplier has allegations thrown his way. Only because his videos helped me through a very depressing time in my life. I'm already disappointed in his playing (and obvious enjoyment of) the hunnipop series of games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 3 | People were so mean to Stephanie Buttermore for the crime of gaining weight while female. Her boyfriend, Jeff Nippard, is a good example of what it means to be a high value partner.She didn't even gain much weight? Like wtf. Why would anyone have a problem with her doing what is best for her health? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:28 PM |
| 4 | People were so mean to Stephanie Buttermore for the crime of gaining weight while female. Her boyfriend, Jeff Nippard, is a good example of what it means to be a high value partner.I have been trying to lose weight a long time with no success. For over 5 months I've been restricting when I eat and what time. Finally I said screw it and ate what I could of healthy foods at anytime, no calorie tracking and... I lost 5 lbs in one week. Like... No idea how that happened but ok. And I'm not losing weight to look better, but to feel better. Being so close to morbidly obese is very painful and miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 61 | Saw this and thought of FDS. No surprises."But I can't feeeel with a condom!" Then grow up or get a sex toy because sex between two people is NOT all about one person. "I don't get why men are forced to pay child support!" Because y'all regularly pressure women into not using contraception and to not get an abortion and then y'all think you can just run for the hills! "But contraception is the woooomans jooob!" No. Sure, we have bc and all that, but most women's bc only protects against pregnancy, not stds. Like seriously. Why do men NO… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 3 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.If he didn't want to be a single parent, and she made it clear she wouldn't be involved... Why is he suprised she isn't forced to do 50/50? Even a man wouldn't be forced to do 50/50 in that case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:26 PM |
| 11 | Mind of a LVM - Ex Goes Off About Gifts 🙄"It only takes a few taps on my phone to buy anything, so that's lazy!" Uh... Does he not actually search stuff out, read discriptions, look over reviews? Also finding an amaxing thoughtful gift is pretty difficult. Cooking a meal is not as difficult as proper gift-getting. Also what if the person's love laguage IS recieving gifts? Then spenfing time or having a meal made... Won't matter because that isn't their love language. I love getting gifts. However my husband thinks getting gifts=putting… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 75 | Weight and the behaviours around itI literally had some scrote on reddit tell me my husband treats me like garbage now because I'm fat. My husband is fat too? And my weight hasn't actually changed since we got together... On top of that he only really became an asshole once I started homeschooling stepson on his request... Which he didn't want to help with at all. Then got worse once i became pregnant. Like stressed me out SO bad, I almost went into early labor TWICE and ended up having an emergency c section because my blood pre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableThe mention of childcare didn't clue you in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:32 PM |
| 3 | I simultaneously want to laugh and throw up. He wrote a whole ass love letter to his fav porn star (who makes herself look like a child, btw). Red = pornstar’s nameWhat. The. Fuck. On a side note: I think it's funny how in these long letters of what they wanna do to a woman, her pleasure actually seems to matter to his fantasy, but irl they don't give a single fuck if the woman enjoys herself or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableAnd you clearly have never been in a genuine long term and complex relationship. It's almost NEVER as simple as "just leave"... Especially when CHILDREN are involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableHey, asshole. You do know men can... Fake a personality convincingly for extended periods of time? Abusers wouldn't be able to land victims if they weren't able to hide those tendancies for long enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableFinancial dependance and injury from childbirth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableIf I don't he trows a tantrum, threatens to quit his job, and abandon our family. And I've already stated how I can't get a job in my current condition, there aren't many online jobs in my area that aren't MLM schemes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableIf I don't he will literally throw a tantrum and threaten to ABANDON me and his children. So... Idfk what you expect me to do different. If he leaves rn it's almost certain that I will be homeless with 2 tots in less than 3 months. Unless I really gun for unemployment... Which I'm pretty sure I'm not injured enough to recieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableI also have ADHD and struggle with executive disfunction. In short this means i have zero self control. Currently trying to seek medical help for this. But also BC has certain hormones in it that greatly effect a woman's ability to lose weight. I could get the nexplanon removed if my husband would wear condoms... However he is very against that. I have literally been eating healthy, at a Cal deficit, every day for over a month and GAINED 3 lbs so... That's also with walking most days and working… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableDespite how obvi my resentment for him is in my comments, I try my best to accomidate and make his life enjoyable irl... Damn narcissistic mother programming me to be a fucking people pleaser... Working on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableThat's also a lie. Most "nice guys" are only nice because they expect sex in return. And most also come off as super fucking creepy and try to address personal topics at inappropriate times. A genuine nice guy that isn't nice just because they expect sex? Golden. High value. Not boring at all. But that genuine nice guy isn't going to one day blow up about "being in the friend zone" just because the girl they were "being nice to" doesn't share the attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableBecause it's not as simple as leaving him. My back has been injured for over a year from the c section spinal tap. I'm attempting physical therapy, or what I can of physical therapy from home. I also have no money of my own and can't work currently... Like pick up one of the kids wrong and I'm pretty much crippled for several days type of injury. I can't even do laundry. There's also the issue of finding childcare for my children. Keep in mind we are in the middle of a pandemic. I can't just pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableI used to like it but now it's just "to avoid mantrums and arguments" I swear he throws worse tantrums than either of our toddlers when he doesn't get head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableNot in marriage they don't. Women's lifespans drop in marriage while men's lifespans increase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableWell when I'm the one doing all the cooking, cleaning, childcare, and STILL sucking his dick every day he BETTER act like my presence is his present or he's about to be single with a messy house, no children, and eating takeout every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableWell, the whole process was rushed. We didn't date as long as we should have, I was about to be homeless, and he needed someone to watch his son (who is now out of our life because his ex literally blocked both of us... Not sure why.) While he worked. Originally I was supposed to be paid. But then his work had to fire him due to complications from charges that were dropped years before, and we ended up moving a long ways to a better state.. And that's when he started being an asshole. Up until t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableOnce a day, twice maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableHe wanted me to be a SAHM. And I'm too injured now to work a "conventional" job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:39 PM |
| -1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableHe had multiple women much smaller than me that wanted to be with him. He rejected all of them. When I started working on losing weight, i became pregannt and it was highly recommended I don't attempt to lose weight while pregnant. Then i got pregnant again. Second verse same as the first. Now I'm on nexplanon because I would very likely die if I got pregnant again right now... Which is keeping me from losing weight. Catch 22 there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:38 PM |
| -1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableNope. Many many women report experiencing the same sort of stuff. This isn't based on my experience alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 0 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableNone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableThat's a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableLIES. I think I'm better than him BECAUSE he treats me that way. I would gladly give him much better head more often if he'd step the fuck up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableWhat do you consider adiquit help? Your definition of a man helping his wife might not be the same as hers. I hate the not every man argument. Not every snake is venomous, but are you going to willingly enter a snake pit full of mostly non-venomous snakes with a few that are? Enough men act like this for it to be an extremely common problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableI am injured from child birth and can't currently work. He insisted I be a SAHM. A 5 year gap in work doesn't look great on a job application. I have nowhere to go currently if I did leave right now. Childcare for 2 toddlers for me to work would be rather expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableThen proove me wrong. Look up the statistics for men leaving or cheating when wife falls ill. And visa versa. Look up the life expectancy for men vs women in marriage. Look up how likely children are to catch covid if dad contracts it vs if mom contracts it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 7 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableHe was perfectly reasonable when we married. He bacame shit once i was pregnant. I am now injured from childbirth. I couldn't work if i left now. I'm not blaming all men. I'm blaming all shitty men. There's a difference. Women can be shit too. But men are statistically and provably more often shittier than women are. You don't know for sure how that "man you know" was treating that woman behind closed doors. If the courts ordered him to give her "all his money" he must habe done something real s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableI said he lost 100 lbs. He's still in the morbidly obese catagory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:50 PM |
| -1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableFacts don't equal hating men... Or being a feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableThen should I treat him poorly because he is fat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableI don't see why that would matter. I was fat when he met me. He was fat when I met him. We are both still fat now. Nexplanon makes losing weight freaking impossible. The least I weighed after he knew me was 220 lbs... Because morning sickness was so bad I couldn't hold most foods down. I'm considering water fasting because nothing else has worked. To be fair, he has shed 100 lbs over the past 5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableTis true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:33 PM |
| 8 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableHAHAH have you SEEN the statistics of what happens when people enter a marriage? Men's life expectancy INCREASES in marriage. Women's life expectancy DECREASES in marriage. Many men absolutely do nothing to satify their partner. Many refuse chores, or even taking care of their own children. Most if not all women experience sexual assult in their lifetime, especially spousal rape. Many men have no problem trying to push the boudaries women set in a relationship. So many women are let down by thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 10 | “Doesn’t like men”When I was a teenager, there was a guy I met through OLD that, no joke, wanted me to start pet sitting puppies and teach them to bang me 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are seemingly all women bi?Truthfully many women through the years were probably secretly bisexual and now that it's more acceptable, they can actually be open about it. How would posting I'm bi deter lvm? Lvm LOVE the thought of being able to bang two women at once, and think it's more likely to happen with a bi woman than a straight one. Also bisexuality has long been used as a chip against bisexuals because of the misconception that bisexual means you date both men and women at once and there for "always cheat" and "Ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Who the hell wants to put up with a man for %10 percent contribution?What book is this from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 9 | "YoU'rE sO JaDeD!!" and "nOt aLl MeN" are not valid retorts for women setting boundaries.Men act like being a woman is life on easy mode. It's NOT. Men's lifespan increases while womens lifespan decreases in marriage. And women are the ones RISKING THEIR LIVES to bear children that the men DON'T EVEN CARE ABOUT. And anytime a woman asks her husband to do anything different, he claims she's a nag because it hurts his toxic masculinity. Women are often put down and outcast from mutual social groups if the relationship falls through and she decides to end it. Men literally think if the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 25 | Masturbating with pictures of Instagram girls. Probably is the “new type of porn”.Either way, even if it isn't lewd pics he's jerking to he's still porn sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 12 | Men that will not complay with the easiest of request to accommodate youMy husband gets pee all over the front of the toilet and on the floor (it dribbles) and I've asked him to either lean over the toilet or wipe up the piss when it happens. "You're imagining it!" "I know I wiped it up this time" "That's just stains" "Can't you just clean it up?" I've taken pictures of the puddles. He has only wiped it up once or twice, but only the floor itself... He drips on the front too, so that ends up getting on the floor. It is NOT just stains. The laminate on the floor IS s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you think it's men or women who mostly engage in small penis shaming?Pretty sure women aren't the ones shaming them. Most women can be properly pleased with 4 inches or so, especially with proper foreplay and clitoris stimulation since most women can't orgasm with PIV alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you think it's men or women who mostly engage in small penis shaming?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 05:41 AM |
| 4 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)I hope so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:18 AM |
| 16 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)Honestly I'm not even interested in sex anymore. If I could, I would live alone with my kids and work from home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:00 PM |
| 35 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)I'm trying to prepare to leave. But it's been difficult. I can't do most conventional work due to my back being injured durring childbirth. More accurately having to attempt the spinal tap for a c section nearly 10 times before being able to not pull away... I'm only just recently becoming aware of just how unusual and disturbing his behaviour is and has become. I have no family or friends in 1,000 miles and no way to pay to get out of here. I'm attempting physical therapy, and have meds to trea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:59 PM |
| 52 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)My husband kept trying to get me to let him pee in his mouth. I refused many times and one day he just... Did so. While it was in my mouth. Since then I've lost all sexual attraction to him. From that, to him trying to sneak in anal while I sleep... Just... No. I've had to sleep on my back and stomach just to avoid him trying that stuff. He is fully aware my libido is dead, btw. He blames the nexplanon. I blame his past behaviour and his tendancies to shit all over hobbies I enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you think it's men or women who mostly engage in small penis shaming?I think it's more from men. I have never once acted like my husband has a small one, yet he keeps claiming he does and making fun of it himself. I try to counter it everytime by assuring him it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 0 | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?This is great for women to protect themselves from men with abusive and violent histories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 06:07 PM |
| 3 | And hobbies you’ve picked up as you’ve leveled up?It also feels nice to read it all back, want to read more, and then be like "Oh yea, I have to write more!" Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Man posts about how his wife works harder at work than at home (aka how most LVM husbands act)... The comments almost all suggest he leave her.For context, I had posted before on that same sub with a similar situation, just the genders switched and was pretty much told 1. I was the problem and 2. CoMuNiCaTe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 7 | And hobbies you’ve picked up as you’ve leveled up?https://blog.smu.edu/ot8317/2016/05/11/leviticus-1822/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CYou%20shall%20not%20lie%20with,in%20the%20eyes%20of%20God.&text=Renato%20Lings%20in%20which%20Lev,male%2Don%2Dmale%20incest. Here you go! Apparently it was also specifically against incest? Anyway, I'm sure there are more sources on this. Also, as is the case with most ancient texts, you pretty much have to take into account the context of the era and goings on back then to fully understand the texts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 33 | And hobbies you’ve picked up as you’ve leveled up?I have taken up writting and drawing seriously, as well as sewing, specifically mending items by hand. My husband, a LVM by FDS standards, hates those first two because "they don't contribute to the family!" Well.. They would if I could write my novel about a lesbian couple without someone whining about how "the apostles wouldn't hve written that! You should be writting about the biiiible!" You know what the apostles ALSO wouldn't have done? Told a WOMAN to write about the bible as if she was an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 5 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?I'm currently on nexplanon for medical reasons (aka if I have a baby in my current condition I literally might die). I hate it. It's been a year now and I have constant pimple problems, it's so hard to lose weight (which is one of the things I NEED to do if I want to have another baby), and I can't stop eatting all the time. Tired all the time, and just relitively misserable. Oh, and my husband had to be present to APPROVE IT. Wth. And my husband got mad at me when I suggested I get it removed. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 109 | Imagine feeling bad for cheating scrotes who abuse and exploit your body AND use you for free therapy sessions.A large ammount of married men that see no sexual action are also: Not participating in child care Refuse to do chores Makes the wife grocery shop Never takes her out on dates or buys her gifts anymore Has no reaction if she breaks down crying Will refuse to help eith anything, even if their wife is clearly exhausted Feel sex is owed to them even if they did no form of foreplay (no kissing, cuddling, or buildup. This also applies to helping her with her daily tasks since that is actually a super… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Had a comment removed from a different sub because telling someone to wait longer than 2 dates to have sex is apparently “dehumanizing” to men?This reminds me of how I used to use sex as a form of self harm, back when I turned 18. I would outright post on meetme about how I hate myself and am dtf, anyone wanna help? So. Many. Men. Responded. So many who knew I was doing it as self harm but just... Didn't care. They just wanted quick action. Only one guy was slightly concerned, but even he wanted sex too... In a span of 3 months I slept with over 20 different men, most never seeing me again. I'm glad I didn't get pregnant or any sti's. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Baby was a little dark skinned so Dad loses all sense and empathy. Slanders and bullies mom... Just wowWell, the second time around he was far more supportive. But he also had to stay home with our son because no one wanted to baby sit. Although that time I nearly panicked because my daughter started out looking like a buda statue that was crying so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 17 | Baby was a little dark skinned so Dad loses all sense and empathy. Slanders and bullies mom... Just wowOk so I had an emergency c section with my first baby. I had preeclampsia so his oxygen was compromised. They also tried to induce pregnancy first, with the final attempt being to break my water for me. My husband is Cajun and I'm an extreemly pale irish/german girl. When my son first came out, he looked dark and had a blue tinge. My husband later told me if son hadn't gotten lighter shortly after that, he would have left me that day for "cheating". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 47 | And they say marriage is bad for men. Who tf think washing dishes is a suprise??My husband changed dramatically after the 1st year of marriage. Some of them are great at hiding the warning signs until it's too late. This is why narcissistic men and psychopaths are so dangerous. They wouldn't be able to attain their narcissistic supply if they were already letting on that they are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 21 | MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnTHe wanna argue biology? The hormone that causes women to be more moody and irritable during their period is testosterone. So, statistically, women would cheat more durring their period, since they basically gain a man's personality during that time. Yet I don't even need to look this up to know that there is no corrilition between women cheating and their cycle. Almost none of our day to day human lives are biologically normal. It isn't biological to use a phone, it isn't biological to live in a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 14 | I'm tired of pretending men don't ageThis is weird because I've read several studies that men's swimmers start carrying corrupted DNA after late 30s. Like an older man getting a younger women pregnant has far more chances of mental and physical issues in the resulting child. As opposed to an older woman eith a younger man, less risk for the fetus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:44 PM |
| 37 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.I made a comment using the phrase the 9 vote comment said and my comment was taken down for review to check context. So no one could have posted something like that here in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:29 PM |
| 7 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.I love how men say "that's anecdotal evidence! It doesn't count!" When women detail all the awful experiences they've had with men over the years yet "I think I read something about a woman wanting to kill men!" Is taken as evidence of female depravity even though they are asking for post LINKS. They big mad they can't"defend themselves" against all the stuff women go through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Scrotes' advice on how to get away with avoiding household choresStraight up, I don't have the resources to leave and be able to support myself, let alone the 2 toddlers who still need 24/7 care. I have no family for 1,000 miles and no way to get to them even if they were able to help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.In the comments he keeps saying that they are "too hookerish and inappropriate". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.I can't wear heels because my feet are flat and my hips and knees are already screwed lol. I agree they can be harmful, but if a woman wants to wear them she can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 7 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.Also, she seemed to know she was being filmed. It shows her face and she does a little spin at one point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 9 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.This was in a marriage subreddit. I think it's against the rules to say which one exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 8 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.When I last checked the comments, everyone was saying if there's no money problems that she should keep the shoes and he's a jerk for trying to tell her not to wear them lol. If that is their fetish, they failed to get the reaction they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Don’t wait for the male BC pill, men can take control of their reproductive system right now - get a Vasectomy!The same way you already do, just there's no swimmers in your spunk. The swimmers are only a small ammount of your ejaculent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 10 | Scrotes' advice on how to get away with avoiding household choresPart of me, the petty vendictive side, now wants to pull the same bullshit on my husband, who is fully capable of cleaning well but won't because he's"the man of the house" and is the only one working... He decided a long time ago that I wouldn't work, so he thinks that means I have to do all child care and housework by myself. He tried to get me to handle bills, but adhd that was both undiagnosed and untreated on top of being pregnant again with 5 times the pain kept me from being able to keep … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:12 PM |
| 4 | This is why we stay vigilantJokes on him, I don't have any friends! 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:54 PM |
| 13 | No one asked him to research love languages...All of them are necessary to an extent, but everyone has one or 2 love languages that matter the most to them, that without that one or two they wouldn't really feel loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 9 | The Financial Times reporting on the ridiculous disparity of who does the childcare between men and women during the pandemic. Shocking statistics.I'm already fat. And injured from childbirth. It's not as simple as just leave. I wish it were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:01 AM |
| 82 | The Financial Times reporting on the ridiculous disparity of who does the childcare between men and women during the pandemic. Shocking statistics.As one of the women who "allow" this behaviour... We are angry and resentful about it. But it's easier to just go along with it than argue constantly for the man to do his damn job as a parent. Men rely on their women being exhausted enough from childcare and housework that they have no fight left in them to demand help, then have the audacity to complain that those same women don't "put out" enough as far as sex and sexual favors are concerned. And if the woman experiences physical sickness fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 21 | Comment says cOmMunIcAte. Sure that’ll fix it!I used to like doing it a lot. Now though I only do it because he'll throw a mantrum if I don't. I warned him not to make it a chore or I won't like it... That's exactly what he did. It's more an annoyance than disgust... For now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:07 PM |
| 31 | Comment says cOmMunIcAte. Sure that’ll fix it!Here's how simply talking to him about it won't work: My husband is a similar way. Doesn't acknowledge anything I do, but will quickly point out everything I didn't, despite me being the sole caretaker of 2 tots and having adhd (which makes everything not related to them 50 times harder for me to do). I have talked to him about this over and over. Telling him words of affermation are one of my love languages, that it feels like he doesn't feel greatful for everything I do, and that I even feel l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 19 | Came across this today I have no words... Yanderedev, is that you? In all seriousness, they have realistic looking expensive sex dolls for creeos like this one... And I hope he never tries to date a real woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Men say they love sex because it’s “proof” of women desiring them. Here’s why they are lying to themselves.You could even say there's a large group of men eager to join. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Men say they love sex because it’s “proof” of women desiring them. Here’s why they are lying to themselves.And if you try to explain it to anybody they act like the sleeping around caused the disassociating and suicidal behaviour instead of the other way around! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 7 | Men say they love sex because it’s “proof” of women desiring them. Here’s why they are lying to themselves.I can attest to the sex as self harm. When i was 18 I was extremely depressed and had sex because I hated myself. I slept with 20+ different individuals in the span of 3 months, most of which I had no attraction to at all! There were several factors that got me to that point. Dad died, grampa died, grandma on her death bed in the hospital, was raped by my ex, and just wanted to die. There was no physical or emotional attraction to any of these men. I didn't care if they pumped and dumped, or if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 0 | What is the future relationship between men and women?That's a fucking lie you douchebags tell yourselfs to justify treating women like objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 42 | What do you ladies think?Tell that to the women in states like Alabama where they can't have an abortion. That's part of reproductive rights. Tell that to the women who aren't allowed to have their tubes cut/tied unless she has a husband and he approves or she's already had one child... Even though men can have a vasectomy without being married, having children, or having permission from his wife. Tell that to all the women who swear they don't want kids but keep being told "that's just a phase!" Or "you'll regret not h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:59 PM |
| -1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Maybe women would be more interested in men if the average man didn't treat her like garbage. Men expect women to: Run the household as if she is their secretary. Raise the kids all by herself, and not bother him about them or as them for help. Make sure everything in the household is tailored only to the man and not to her children or herself, even though she and the children spend the most time in the home. Give sex on demand, regardless of how hard she worked or if she's not even in the mood … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 8 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menSame for me with a mom-based subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 30 | Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy.He fucking CHEATED on her and yet she is seen as at fault for building a life seperate from him? HE HAS AN ILLEGITIMATE CHILD OUT THERE! She doesn't owe him anything, least of all quiting her job and staying home! She was probably pressured into "forgiving him". And trying to take her car keys? In the middle of an argument? YOU AREN'T HER DAD! Sounds like a Mormon or Jehovah's witness to me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Do you believe that *everything* that people do, is to attract the opposite sex? That opposite-sex attention is the only thing that matters in life?This would not at all be a healthy mindset. If you only do things for others, weither to attract them or just make them happy, you will inevitably burn out and become resentful (especially if the feeling isn't resiprocated). I don't think this is how most people are. Maybe at a time it was, but in this day and age? No. Self care is finally seen as important in the mainstream. Without that, everything you do will come apart. For example: anytime in my past that I tried to lose weight "for a guy",… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Blaiming my weight on why a man treated me wrongly. That is something incels love to say, and that I've heard them repeat ad nauseam. I shouldn't have assumed you were a man though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Why do they call FDS female incels?But I didn't only ask him to hug me then. He gives me hugs often, but when he wants a blowey we will just be watching a show and he would ask out of the blue. No build up or anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?The problem is this stuff is common. For me your flair is "interacted with a lot o..." Nothing indicating you're a woman. Plus what you said sounded just like an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?No. Women of all shapes and sizes have remarkably similar experiences. I had a friend who was clearly recovering from anorexia or bulimia. If she rejected men they would still insult her and call her fat... So weight is not a true factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Also, men often act this way to fit, pretty women too. Not only to whales like me. So... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?What a rude and arrogant thing to say. No one "deserves" anything, least of all the attention of another human being. No one owes a thin, beautiful woman their attention, and no one owes a strong chiseled man attention either. You are wrong that if I were a man I wouldn't get attention. My husband, when I met him, was twice my size and there were several women trying to make him theirs at his work place. One even tried to get his best friend to convince him to be with her... He was, at the time,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Eh. It was a pretty regular occurrence. It's suprising how many men want to skip plesantries, build up, and respect. For many of the men I talked to, sexual gratification was more important than how I felt or if i wanted to take that step or not. My first real boyfriend was much the same. So much so that he cheated constantly and had a baby with a 22 yo woman... He and I were both 15/16 around that time. The first time I had sex was with him, and i was unwilling... And in denial about both the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Ok so, it's been a few years, bit I'll sum up the text convo. Him: we better be going to your place after we eat. Me: why? Him: well, I am a god and you are fat, so you owe me sex just for being seen in public with me. Me: I live with my mom. We wouldn't be able to do that even if I wanted to. But i dont. I don't owe you my body just for going to pizza hut with you. Him: well I'm not coming into the place if you aren't going to let me smash Me: I'm going home then. If I was looking for a hook up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?The dude was trying to bypass consent because he thought he was a god. That isn't just cruel. That's actively manipulative and borderline violent. And it's not like I was only talking to "fit" guys. Even average guys were often douches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?I don't know. I left the meet up spot and walked home before I met him irl because he said that stuff. On his profile it looked like he at least had abs. But "body of a god" is stretching... Quite a lot. He wasn't even close to "statue of david" levels of physical fitness. But let's be clear, I left because he thought I owed him anything and severly disrespected and devalued me for my physique alone. And I wasn't looking for a quick hook up, I was looking for a potential relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do they call FDS female incels?We only are complaining about how many LV/NV scrotes their are, and how it'd be nice to find a HVM every now and then! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:36 PM |
| 8 | Why do they call FDS female incels?Can someone PLEASE explain this to my husband? He complains how it feels like I do sexual stuff only for him, and like I'm not into it. I'm NOT into it. I literally lost my want for sex after having 2 kids. And if I refuse the "favors" because I'm not in the mood, he'll catch an attitude. I even told him it would be nice if he did anything for me first. "But I work all day!" So? You could stop by the store and buy me or the kids a thoughtful gift. You could do a million different sweet things.. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:33 PM |
| 7 | Why do they call FDS female incels?This proves most men only care about their penis and nothing else. Most men veiw relationships as "that one girl I regularly use to masturbate with while I think about 'the perfect girl'", most husbands think their wives should do literally everything else while all they have to care about is work, MAYBE finance stuff (bills, stocks, rent, ect), and weither their D has been serviced enough. Their WHOLE mindset is focused on sex. To a disturbing degree. They can't fathom that ANYTHING ELSE could … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Lol agreed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:25 PM |
| 4 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Because they don't think it's worth paying for. They want it. For free. Worth noting that at least half of the men expecting nudes/sex talk/actual sex within the first DAY of communication were either jobless or living pay check to pay check... So of course they don't want to pay or go through the trouble of actual courtship or even one date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:19 PM |
| 9 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsShe may have even got several divorce attorney's offering to tear this man down from the post alone! I hope she gets everything. And demanding half of the selling of the house HE ABANDONED? HA! What a cruel joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsMore thannlikely he got approved to change hisnjob over to texas, or already got hired over there. He may have been spending a year or more setting up his new life... I hope it all crashes down and burns before his eyes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:09 PM |
| 17 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsYep. Could have got one after the first child without even having to discuss it with his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:55 PM |
| 10 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsHoly fuck as a SAHM this is SCARY. Like WTF? Men just don't fucking care about women if they aren't pretty and can't provide sex.. And why did they have 3 kids if he never wanted them? It takes 2 to make them... Her and my situations are pretty similar. Only I haven't been with my husband as long and my kids are younger. I have a 1 yo and a 2 yo. I haven't worked in the 5 years we've been together. But we live in a relitively cheep area, and minimum wage is over $10, so it wouldn't be hard to st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Back when I was still online dating, almost every guy wanted to skip the dating aspect and go straight to sex. One guy even acted like I owed him sex because he "had the body of a god" and I was fat. So many guys ask for nudes before you're even 5 messages in. About 9 years ago so many guys tried to get me to be basically their personal cam girl. Things seem to have only gotten worse since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 12:44 PM |
| 5 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!He probably watched a porno earlier that day that was a similar circumstance. And he's probably " fetishizes" this type of thing. "I always wanted to just walk into a woman's home and bone her without saying a single word!" Ugh. So many men are just deplorable and irredeemable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids.I used to participate in a mom's-only subreddit (until my husband found my posts). Sometimes i would catch the comments men left before mods removed them... Many of the men were so mean if a mom expressed remorse or discontent or unhappiness about having kids... Especially if the husband/baby daddy wasn't helping at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenI've had guys literally tell me it's my fault that my husband started out pretty HV and then became LV over time. To be fair, since he discovered my previous reddit account he has been stepping it up more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Female here. It doesn't dictate my self worth, but definitely is a factor. I'm very overweight (been so since I was about 15), and looking in the mirror sometimes physically hurts... Especially if I'm bloated from a food allergy or close to my period. However, I'm happiest when drawing. I like all forms of art, but my favorite is plain old graphite and a blank page. Second is watercolors. I'm also a fan of digital painting, but it's so different from paper that I can't get much of a grasp on it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement?I have no close friends. At all. I have sisters and my mother, but I'm not sure how healthy my sisters' relationships are, and my mother has been divorced 3 times and is now online dating and falling for obvious scammers that she refuses to see are scams. It is not at all my fault that men act like decent fucking human beings for up to a year or more and then suddenly become totally different people. Also the goverment has specific programs for women in abusive relationships... So technically th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement?I'm in America. The problem is men who are a man child know how to hide it until they lock a girl in. My husband was amazing at the start, but became a man child over time. And even you are blaming me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement?I can't work. I haven't worked in the past 5 years, and on top of that I have several complications from childbirth (my back is injured, and a couple of the tendons in my hips never recovered, and my abs seem to be extremely weaker than they should be)... Even in this modern era, childbirth is messy, painful, and dangerous.... And both mine were c sections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement?Oh, why am I still with him? Simple. Financial abuse, topped with injury from child birth with a dash of threats of either taking the kids because I'm "mentally unstable" or vanishing on me so there is no threat of child support or alimony... He's not all horrible, he has some great qualities... And I still love HIM just... Not a generous portion of how he acts. Also women have a disadvantage in regards to refusing certain expectations or making demands of their own. They can literally be killed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement?No I wouldn't be happy if he keeps this up. But I'm stuck right now. Weither it just be mental/emotional ties, or the financial situation... I'm just stuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement?It's much more previlent in the 30+ yo men than it is in women. It seems to me most people hate to adult, but the adulting is often left to the female half of the relationship. Especially when kids are involved. So. Many. Men. Want almost nothing to do with their kids. And yea sure "not all men" and "not all women" apply here. But there is an absolute TERRIFYING trend of 30+ yo men who want their wives to handle all housework and kid stuff (regardless if she isn't working, is working less/equal/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement?As someone who dated a man-child and then married a different man-child: this is very true. I have never met a man who didn't want "his girl" to be anything other than a mom replacement that he can bone whenever he feels like it. I have never been seen as an equal in any relationship I've been in. Being fat doesn't help because then men feel you should be SO very greatful they even looked at you that you should do anything they as in return for the pleasure of being graced with their presence. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.It is. What's worse is I STILL love him. I want things to work between us... I don't want to leave. But I also don't want to be treated like garbage while being expected to operate like someone who feels like gold... Does that simile even make sense? That's the thing though... I try hard to change everything and make it the way he wants, yet he can't even wipe up if he dribbles when he pees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.Would you believe me if I said I wish i wasn't "woke" to the mistreatment? Then I'd be blissfully ignorant and wouldn't have this strange resentment of him along side of my love for him. This is what i mean by the bar is set so low for most men... This is why so many women don't leave mentally abusive relationships. They still love the guy. Me included... And it feels bad, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.My family won't help, I have no friends, he's literally threatened to vanish on me if I left him... Maybe I could find some form of help from the government... But getting the resorces together for that takes time. Time I'm willing to spend but just can't with such young kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.Because back then I was still in love with the man he was when we met and was holding hope that he would "go back to the way he was" eventually. Men LOVE to act one way when they first meet a woman they want to be with, but will quickly stop doing everything that made the girl fall in love with them, and act like they were always this way and the woman is wrong for feeling conned... I did love him. I wanted to be with him forever. But he became a totally different person. He even told me when I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.I wish. He's got me in a financial bind. I can't physically work, I don't have time to build up the at-home works I'm doing (writting books and illustrating kids books), and even if I could work I'd only earn minimum wage and wouldn't be able to afford childcare for the kids. He does have some redeeming qualities... But not enough to make up for the previous treatment. He claims he's trying to improve but will still act like I'm an ungreatful bitch if I tell him something he's doing or not doing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.Because there were complications during the last c section. I wouldn't be able to work or provide for the children myself. And he boasts that he will never pay child support or alimony (which I would likely be entitled to in our state) because "if you leave me I will vanish and they will never find me!" He also acts like I wouldn't let him see the kids if we split, despite me clearly saying I'd never withhold them from him. And "why should I pay child support for kids I'll never see again?" I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.My husband has claimed he could easily find someone smarter/sexier/more caring than me. Meanwhile I've told him if things don't work between us that I'm fone with men. It has only been a negative experience. He treated me so badly before I was pregnant with our first child that I was about to go... Do something entirely irreversible. He never made me feel like how I felt mattered, or that my needs were the same importance to him as his needs were to me. If he asked for anything sexual and I refu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Anti porn women vs anti porn men. (Not my meme)My husband once accused me of being why he watches porn... Because "you don't do anything sexual for me anymore!" This was only 2 months after a c section to have my daughter, in which I experienced (and still experience) several complications with. Including: dabilitating back pains that spasm through my entire body, 2 sutures busting and a brief infection in one of the busted sutures, the suture area being extremely painful even after healing, period cramps that happen randomly regardless of m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Yet, women are often expected to handle 100% of child care while the man gets to just work and come home and rest. Being treated like I'm an idiot, yet being expected to raise above average citizens is so fucking demeaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Why am I still with him? Well, for one I have 2 tots who need 24 hour care, I couldn't work a minimum wage job in my current condition (injured back, no ab strength what so ever), and then there is finding a baby sitter who's willing to wait until I get my first check... I'm working to change several of these factors. Maybe if I actually had a leg to stand on to prove I could absolutely make it without him, would put a fire under his arse to change. I am working to lose weight (less pressure on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Don't you think I could if I was able? I haven't worked in 5 years, my back would keep me from being able to do most any minimum wage job, and even if it did I would have to pay at least half my check to a babysitter, if not more. I'm working on losing weight and helping my abs/back recover from the c sections, as well as trying to start a few things that will earn me an income (writting novels, illustrating children's books, and getting my artwork out there as well as improving at it). Once the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?My husband of 5 years says he loves me. But he doesn't do housework or help with babies, he acts like I over exagerate pains and exhaustion both from childbearing complications and being the only one to get up and help the 1 and 2 yos all night, when I told him dishes were aggravating my back injury from the last c section, asked him to do them. He told me I have to remind him to do it, even though it was his only chore. He's 35! And after he didn't do them AT ALL for over 2 months, I decided to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 54 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.This is why I gave up on making online friends. Guys hear "I'm married, I just want a few friends with mutual interests" but interpret it as "I want to sext and send nudes because I'm being somewhat decent". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | LVM/NVM LogicHere's a tip I have: at some point, ask the guy "how do you clean your vacuum?" This is a GREAT way to screen men for weither they have ever had to be an actual adult and have ANY sense of cleanliness and how the world works. One guy told me "vacuums are meant to make your life easier, you don't have to clean them!" And immediately blocked him. I wasn't looking for a relationship, but not knowing that even the most basic machines need maintenance? That's rediculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:55 AM |
| 4 | Why cOmMuNiCaTe simply doesn't work. Extras is from "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Susan Forward and Joan TorresI can vouge for this. I'm currently in a relationship where he mansplains my health issues to me, refuses to give me any sort of words of affermation despite me insisting that is one of my love languages, and won't take any criticism. If I disagree with him, he shuts down the conversation altogether. God, I wish I found this sub before I got married to this guy and had kids with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 6 | “Rape isn’t about sex: it’s about power”I once was with my boyfirend at the time. We started making out and he started trying to insert himself. I asked him if he had a condom and he said no, then pushed on. I begged him to stop and he wouldn't. When I tried telling my mom later she said "you shouldn't give sex to a guy, because now he already got what he wants!" ... So I never reported him. If my own mother didn't believe, why would the police? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:04 PM |
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