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| -5 | Double standardsHmm I don’t think so. It’s just an ugly thing that’s all. Nothing beautiful about it, I don’t imagine my vagina is beautiful either? But we sure as hell feel incredible when we bump uglies. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 07:39 PM |
| -30 | Double standardsWhat’s interesting about this sub is the automatic blame you place on women for literally everything No mention of the fathers here, who, since your all obsessed with dick sensation as if it were the end all be all to life, should be adamantly against taking that away from their sons. So are you guys saying guys are terrible and cut their sons dicks off? Or is it the mothers? Hmmmm | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 07:30 PM |
| -34 | Double standardsMy bf is uncut, he makes sure he washes before we have sex. Unfortunately a lot of guys don’t, and insert a bunch of dick cheese into women and give them UTIS which are a nightmare for us. Have some consideration and just clean it beforehand. It feels great, I love uncut dick but let’s not pretend it’s not unclean. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 07:27 PM |
| -23 | "My male coworkers are insisting on taking “period leave”You guys are insane. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 06:17 PM |
| 14 | Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever.I once went to the ER for cervical bleeding from rough sex (that I didn’t want or ask for). I texted my ex who I was still in contact with that I was in the hospital and he replied “omg” and that was it. No follow up, didn’t ask to come down, nothing. Last year I had a bad UTI and my boyfriend (current boyfriend, very amazing man), went to a doc in the box with me. I ended up having a seizure (due to intense pain) in the waiting room and was transported by ambulance to the ER. When I came to, my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 72 | How quickly widowers move on from their wives shows that they don't see women as people, just bangmaidsI truly don’t think I can be with another man if my boyfriend (someday husband) precedes me in death. He’s lit up my world, he’s truly an angel on earth. I’ve been in enough relationships with LVM. I’m done rolling the dice. I’ll be like the woman sleeping with his photo on my nightstand for the rest of my days. My grandma was widowed in her 40s, lived to be 85 and never dated anyone in 4 decades. It’s true that men move on faster given the opportunity. They aren’t too picky either. The sooner t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 01:24 AM |
| 128 | Low Energy Men - How men steal women's energyThis is the holy gospel right here. I’m speechless. This is too disturbingly accurate. Mind blown. 👏 👏 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:07 AM |
| 8 | Men's ability to make everything about themselves is astounding but also the fact that the same features celebrated on men are shamed on women. Men were telling her she SHOULD get a nose job but saying her hypothetical son is a God. 😐Barbara Streisand too. She’s only been with hunks as far as I know. She’s been with hunky James Brolin for decades. I love interesting facial features on people. I think such faces are often much sexier than traditionally good looking faces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Why she doesn't care for him during sex...I find it highly likely that she discovered some porn he was watching and was disgusted by it. She called him a pervert. Women don’t call men that just for wanting sex with them. She’s discovered something dark within him. She checked out a long time ago but as others have said, feels financially trapped in the marriage. Their sex life sounds abysmal. I’ve been there. It deadens you inside. Without the true emotional connection between two people, sex can never be great. Sure you can get off, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 83 | So done with avoidant men.I think clingy is an unfair term. To me, it’s a place of questioning your mental health because the person you’re involved with isn’t meeting your needs. It took me a long time to realize that I wasn’t “clingy”, I was just with emotionally avoidant men time and time again who made me feel insecure. For me, the key was finding a man who wanted the same as I did (commitment, honesty, lots of time together, lots of mutual respect and willingness to dip our toes into each others’ passions, finding n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 217 | So done with avoidant men.Yep. This has remained one truth throughout my almost 5 decades on this rock. If a guy really likes you, and he’s emotionally stable enough to have a healthy relationship with, he will let you know from the get-go he wants to know you and he will respect you, your time and your space while doing so. It’s a good thing so many of them fail to keep their charades going and let us know early on who they are and what they’re about. My pet peeve is selfish men, the minute they display that their exist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:10 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now?My bf’s bro hates me so much I swear. He keeps asking my bf to hang out Christmas Eve, NYE, etc. My bf just wants to hang out with me. He says his friend screws up all of his own relationships because he’s super selfish (and emotionally repressed). He still thinks my bf is available to hang but my bf is way past that. It’s all about not being alone really. I tell him to go hang out with them if he wants but he prefers my company by far. If men want companionship they should learn how to be good … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 34 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Everything old is so good when it comes to cookware I swear! I have lots of Le Creuset I inherited from my mom but my favorite pot of all is a big stainless steel, copper-bottomed pot that’s been in my family for four generations. Not sure of the brand but it’s magical. Everything I cook in it turns out so well! The handles even stay cool so no mitts are needed when it’s really hot. Why can’t they make things that good anymore? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:06 PM |
| 252 | A "compliment" that men need to stop usingHaha! I had a male friend with a huge crush on me who I played Words with Friends with a few years back. I was winning more than he was so he decided I was playing dirty by blocking him in to where he had the least options for good words. That was not even true, but if it were, isn’t that what games are about? The funny thing is, he was really good at the game. I was just better, and his ego couldn’t handle it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 12:59 AM |
| 116 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?Yep, I took really good care of my ex husband. All the sex he wanted, raised two great kids, cooked him lunch and dinner every day, and then he got restless and wanted more money. A lot more. He was also cheating on me. When I found out, we separated. I’d had an emotional affair online after finding a personal ad he placed looking for women, and he made it allll about my emotional affair rather than him trying to physically cheat on me. I can’t imagine this arrangement is good for any woman long… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 03:24 AM |
| 187 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?I wasn’t sure where to post this, and I didn’t want to make a new topic, but my boyfriend’s friend just resents the hell out of me. I’ve been sick off and on all year and my boyfriend has taken care of me, which I never asked him to do. He does it with love in his heart. My boyfriend is a grown man of 43 and his friend is 35 and called him pussy whipped the other night because we already had plans to spend the evening together and this guy wanted to spontaneously go out to dinner with my boyfrie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 03:09 AM |
| 20 | In North America, why is prostitution illegal but “massage parlours” AKA brothels operate so blatantly everywhere?Wow I can’t imagine all the diseases being spread. That is truly disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 95 | In North America, why is prostitution illegal but “massage parlours” AKA brothels operate so blatantly everywhere?There was a high profile case several years ago where several of the San Francisco (if I recall correctly) police department basically passed this underaged prostitute around. She ended up exposing them all, one of them committed suicide, and she also sued the city for millions and millions and I’m pretty sure she won, as well she should have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:07 PM |
| 24 | In North America, why is prostitution illegal but “massage parlours” AKA brothels operate so blatantly everywhere?I’m guessing they don’t have unprotected intercourse. I think it’s more like they give a BJ or handjob, from what I’ve heard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 51 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesA gynecologist I saw a few times was a very kind, caring woman. I believe she was Indian or Pakistani. I saw her at the mall one day. Her husband, of the same ethnicity, was absolutely berating her as they walked out, she had her head down and was just silent. Even being highly educated can’t protect you once you’ve been married. I’m not sure of her situation but it was really troubling to see such a kind woman being obviously abused to the point of her husband doing it openly in public even. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 12:44 PM |
| 7 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.Thank you! It’s great being with a man who truly respects women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 12:24 AM |
| 35 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.The night I met my boyfriend, I was passionately speaking out against porn around a bonfire at a small party. He liked what I had to say. He later confessed he’d watched it and really regretted it. I could tell he was telling the truth. He’s a wonderful lover and never displayed any pornsick traits to me. I can’t tell you how great it is to be with a non-pornsick man. He is my absolute best friend, loves women, thinks we are superior, treats me so well, and he actually has never asked for oral s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 50 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.They like looking at big dicks honestly. Even while they’re shaming themselves for having small ones. It’s some weird stuff I don’t understand but I know it to be true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:42 AM |
| 30 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Omg, I would dry right up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 03:22 AM |
| 85 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Had a boyfriend do this. We went to see a football game out of town with like three of his friends and when we were walking from the hotel to the train he was way ahead of me, two of the friends noticed and stopped to walk beside me. I thanked the guys for doing that, he heard and obviously saw the situation and didn’t seem too phased. Needless to say we are not together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 03:04 AM |
| 80 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Check out the sub neckbeard nests. Prepare to be a little sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:27 PM |
| 27 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenNot shocking at all if you grew up with that. I might be the outlier but I miss some of those shows. I don't feel like people who could have been offended by that stuff were as much as they'd be today. It was a much more relaxed mindset. I'm much, much more offended by today's porn addiction culture and so many violent shows. Tried to watch Squid Games. I had to leave the room. I was so sickened. Couldn't do GoT either. We haven't really actually made any progress socially if we look at what pas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 91 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenThe writing was always over the top. Like when Phoebe gets IVF to have the triplets for her brother that I don't think she knew that well? And Ross with the lesbian baby mama. They just wrote anything, audiences just ate it up. Worse storylines than a daytime soap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 15 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenI started watching it with my 15 yr old daughter. It was popular with her peers. This was like a year ago. She gave up around season 5 and never asked to watch it again. Not sure of her reasons, but I was kind of surprised how bad if actually is. Ross was the character that drove me the most crazy. So whiny and one-dimensional. Chandler and Phoebe were fine, they seemed to carry the show in a way. Joey had his moments. But Ross, Rachel and Monica - meh. Anyway, I know some people got a lot of jo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:35 PM |
| 35 | Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of youSounds just like my ex husband. Wanted to see me with another woman so bad. He even told some women at a party and they were down for it and I refused. He always watched women on women porn too. Just his thing I guess, was very pornsick and made our marriage hell because of it. His current wife has always resented me because when they first met he tried to get us all into a threesome. We were super drunk on tequila that he plied is with and ended up fooling around a little then we both just kind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 8 | Anyone who uses porn is fucking terrible in bed, and it’s time to spread this message far and wideTruth, sister. Preach it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:44 PM |
| 10 | Anyone who uses porn is fucking terrible in bed, and it’s time to spread this message far and wideIt's always one of those things that sounds good but afterwards I'm always feeling buyer's remorse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 36 | Anyone who uses porn is fucking terrible in bed, and it’s time to spread this message far and wideMy ex husband put porn on one of the first times we had sex! It was playing in the background! I was naive and not sure what to think but I soon after let him know that I didn't like it and wondered why he needed it on. He still tried a few times after that though. Mostly I just caught him looking at early in the mornings when he thought I was asleep. Nothing like walking into the kitchen to find your partner on a laptop watching porn. It was a never ending battle to get him to quit. I don't thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:41 PM |
| 55 | Anyone who uses porn is fucking terrible in bed, and it’s time to spread this message far and wideIn my experience, and I'm no stranger to relationships, men who use porn do not make love, they fuck. I was married for a decade to a porn addict. I did try watching it with him in the early days. Of course some of it was arousing, but I felt sick inside too. Nobody has to watch that evil garbage. I told him I didn't want that in our lives anymore and he threw his tapes out, then a day later went out to the trash bin on the street to look for them! And the addicts pretend it's not like drugs to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 59 | This is not how you ask about financial healthMe too. If I won the lottery I'm not sure I would tell anyone except my boyfriend. My family? Heck no. After my mom died I already had some distant relatives reaching out to me on Facebook. They had sob stories. It was very obvious they thought I'd received an insurance windfall and hoped I'd help them out. I didn't even know these people. If I win the lotto I'm so just going to disappear into oblivion I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 12:31 PM |
| 26 | This is not how you ask about financial healthI think discussing your finances is something personal, but perhaps keeping what you do from him after a year is kind of strange to me. If you don't trust him after a year why are you dating him? I think at the point things should be pretty open. I mean, my boyfriend and I know each other's financial situation and did by the one year mark, but I don't ask him why he got a certain windfall or how his stock portfolio is looking. But we have a general sense of things. I think that's important. It s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 38 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?I met my ex husband on a solo trip overseas. It was a great time we had together in two weeks of my being there (was there 3 weeks, met him after a week), but I thought of it as just a fling. He ended up talking me into staying then proposed three months later. I said yes because life was sooo good and such an adventure in this beautiful country of his. I eventually had two kids with him whom I totally adore so don't get me wrong when I say this, but I don't think either of us knew what we were … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:48 AM |
| 16 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?I'm with someone, been together 1.5 years. I honestly have no desire to call him my husband or be called a wife again. I was married for ten years and it didn't end well. This guy is completely different than my ex and a perfect match for me, but I just don't really see the need to marry. If we do it will definitely be several years from now. My parents married 12 years after meeting. They were total soulmates. I think when you know someone is really right for you there's not that sense of "I be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:37 AM |
| 47 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsAbsolutely. He always is, to this day, trying to fill up his time with projects or riding his motorcycles or anything he can to get away from facing his own self. His wife is miserable as was I. She even called me once, drunk, to express this to me. I said, this is him. This is who he is. He isn't emotionally available. He throws himself into projects and work. I talked to him many times about how lonely I felt. It got me nowhere. I can't believe she hasn't left him yet. She literally told my 15… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:40 AM |
| 3 | The insane shit men will lie aboutMy friend was with a guy since she was really young. They married and had a couple kids. He supposedly went on a trip to see a football game. He actually never left town and was in a hotel with someone, he took pictures of the tv screen showing the game, sent them to my friend and said his seats were great and he was having a great time. Men are grade A liars! But, they almost always get caught because we aren't stupid. My friend didn't know at first but her intuition was trying to tell her some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:13 AM |
| 68 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsI did everything for the kids and had a delicious, hot lunch ready for my husband every day (he worked nearby), for years. Childcare was going to be more than I could earn so it made sense for me to be a SAHM. Eventually he became resentful even though I had part time jobs outside the home when the kids were no longer infants. He couldn't be happy with the vehicles and lifestyle we had and wanted more. We eventually divorced and he got with a pickme in the healthcare industry who made six figure… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:01 AM |
| 120 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughEvery breath you take. My ex husband after our initial separation dedicated that song to me. I was pretty creeped out. "Oh can't you see, you belong to me" "I'll be watching you every move you make", and he did for awhile. Thankfully he accepted things and stopped being super weird but he definitely had viewed me as his property. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:54 PM |
| 63 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughThen he married later on a much younger gold digger who cleaned him out and divorced him then he married her again and she did the same thing to him a second time. In fact after the second time, she married a much younger guy than herself and they lived off all the money she got from him. Kinda hard to feel sorry for the dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:49 PM |
| 149 | Roe will likely be overturned.Unfortunately I personally know too many pickmes that would just fill in for those of us with a moral and social conscience. There is a shocking amount of women that can't live without men or penises. I'll never get it. Most of them I know are cheated on and dissed. They tolerate a lot just to have a scrote around. In fact I've lost friends because I have a really great boyfriend who wholly respects women and will vote only female if all things are equal (and even if they're not which I don't en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:04 AM |
| 33 | Roe will likely be overturned.And they never care about the "kid" when it was an embryo either. This is about control and misogyny hands down. My teenage daughter had a pregnancy scare recently due to condom breakage. She absolutely did not want to become a mother. She has her whole life ahead of her. This is absolutely horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:59 AM |
| 14 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombI know of a few Catholic, conservative families who were anti-choice until their teenage daughters got pregnant. The hypocrisy out there is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 26 | Ladies please share your experiences with gamer guysMen bond over the degradation of women. Period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 31 | Low effort flirting and low effort dates I have been shutting down all weekThe life of a typical pickme. Guy doesn't respect you, never will, will walk all over you, take your money, cheat in various forms any chance he gets, leave you high and dry, often with asshole kids who learned by example from their shit father. They really walk right into their own fate. Having standards is important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:41 PM |
| 158 | Porn is the worst template for what real sex is: an exampleImagine if we started treating them that way, trying to stuff things up their butts and other things that make them uncomfortable (though they secretly love things up their ass so it wouldn't exactly be a fair trade off). I can just imagine the look of discomfort and confusion on any of exes faces if I had suggested it. It's time we start treating them like objects too, cause sex is all about your fetishes, not about connecting with someone you care about! My ex was super into facial cumshots. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:51 PM |
| 112 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?They do this when they feel they've lost you, then it's safe. Then they don't have to commit, be emotionally available etc. they can just fantasize about you and waste your time when you're trying to move on from their sorry asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:02 PM |
| 75 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?"All my exes were crazy". Hmmmm. Common denominator was you buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:00 PM |
| 26 | yes. yes I am here because of the Hair Towel :D - share you're favourite LVM stories if they fit the rules of my post, as told in the main body.My dad is 75 and never learned to cook anything but a frozen meat patty and frozen mixed vegetables. He would see me making a salad and say "that looks good" and I'd be thinking yes, and super easy to put together. But no, if I didn't make it for him he couldn't do it himself. Picky men are the worst. So, you can't cook AND have the palette of a 5 yr old? I know guys that eat fast food every single day. It's not even good! Then they'll refuse a home cooked meal because oh I don't like x, y or z.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 30 | yes. yes I am here because of the Hair Towel :D - share you're favourite LVM stories if they fit the rules of my post, as told in the main body.What is he, 12? So tired of the babied mama's boys. Grow up already 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:18 PM |
| 64 | yes. yes I am here because of the Hair Towel :D - share you're favourite LVM stories if they fit the rules of my post, as told in the main body.Omg. I dated a guy who made lasagna in front of me, handled raw pork, rinsed his fingers for two seconds under cold water then wiped them dry in his hair. Yep, I believe the stats that 80% of men don't wash their hands after pooping. This was over the top for me. Raw pork molecules in your hair? 🤢 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 20 | yes. yes I am here because of the Hair Towel :D - share you're favourite LVM stories if they fit the rules of my post, as told in the main body.Butt nugget 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 121 | yes. yes I am here because of the Hair Towel :D - share you're favourite LVM stories if they fit the rules of my post, as told in the main body.I won my college's poetry contest, first prize. My 15 yrs older scrote of a boyfriend at the time said it wasn't a good thing because now I was going to believe I was more talented than I was. I've never had a more satisfying breakup in my life. I went on to win more awards while old Scrotey McScroterson probably just hit on more young women and nearly instantly turned them off with his abject arrogance. Guarantee you 100% he's been alone since me and that was 22 years ago. I was just young and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:52 PM |
| 43 | Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone.I nEvEr gOt to PeE on HeR tHeN sHe LeFt What a serious creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:40 PM |
| 20 | Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone.What a serious loser. I wish his wife could know the truth about him. Makes me so damn sad that she probably has NO idea what she's wasting her life on. Total scum, that's what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 65 | Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone.She didn't feel what he did for her. He created a fantasy. He's emotionally unavailable so this fantasy was a safe way to pretend to get his needs met. He can't be arsed to connect to his WIFE. What a damn loser. Not in the slightest self aware. Wants to damage another woman with his shit. Hope the coworker doesn't respond to his inevitable attempts to control her from afar. And wife needs to gtfo of that marriage, I hope she does sooner than later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone.So his WIFE wasn't his emotional support, it was this coworker he didn't even establish true intimacy with? He sounds like a total commitmentphobe, his wife is miserable because he can't connect with her and, unbeknownst to her I'm sure, is "connecting" (in his own mind) with this other woman. He is emotionally unavailable. I really feel sorry for his wife. I've met his kind countless times. They never change. I hope wife leaves him and coworker does not respond to his inevitable attempts to rei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:32 PM |
| 66 | Men don't care about women. They won't even engage with a book/movie/TV show if it was written by or centres a woman. They have class solidarity only with each otherYet terrible writers like Charles Bukowski are revered for their misogynistic bullshit. Sylvia Plath's cheating husband gets more attention it seems than she did. Her poetry was 10x better but she went down as crazy. Always. A man commits suicide and he's sympathized with and revered (Chris Cornell, Chester Bennington as examples), a woman does it and she's written off as looney tunes. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:23 AM |
| 61 | I have no words"Better than listening to a hair dryer all the time What a jackwad. No one uses their hair dryer all the time. This guy is just a controlling dumbass, probably actually wishes he was a woman. I'm seeing more and more of this from "men". They get jealous they can't wear dresses, makeup and have pretty hair. It's really weird out there these days. My boyfriend once complained about my hair dryer noise, I use it for like two minutes at most. I told him to gtfo with that crap. He listened. He listen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:41 AM |
| 18 | This ancient dating wisdom still applies to modern dating. Young women: beware age gaps and older men.He would reach out regardless of your age. Lots of guys will die alone so they constantly "reach out" to exes to check our status, try to manipulate us, etc. None of my exes have taken well to me finding true love. One threatened suicide for like 6 months. At some point I was like just do it, but don't pull me down into your abyss because you are a shitty person and a shitty partner. That's on you, not me. They'll all always check in to see what's up with you. It actually isn't their gd business… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:28 AM |
| 10 | This ancient dating wisdom still applies to modern dating. Young women: beware age gaps and older men.I love my boyfriend but I love my solitude too so I'll frequently "banish" him to another room in my house when I need space. He's fine with it and entertains himself and does his work online. When you're with someone as much as we are, you inevitably need to ask for space. I'm not sacrificing my well being for anyone and my boundaries are important. When I feel replenished I feel excited to be with him again. I heard Julia Roberts' husband lives across the street from her. That seems a bit extr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:23 AM |
| 11 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Yes. I get that. I married a guy from a really quite wealthy family. We moved to the US (where I'm from) to have our first child and try to build a life here. He just wanted to have a hot dog stand. I was like, how can we raise a family on that? I worked in the evenings but obviously childcare while he was at work (at a call center) was more money than it was worth. He was ok with it all. I guess growing up wealthy made him really unambitious which seems so counterintuitive. Had everything hande… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 158 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.I had a 50 year old lawyer proposition me when I was 19. The audacity of some of these old farts! My boyfriend was my age and we were having a great time and this old fart from two generations before me thinks I would ever want him? No amount of money is worth holding my breath while being kissed and sexed by some much older scrote. Oh hell no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 190 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.Most guys are too unfit for missionary. They need woman on top or doggy. My boyfriend can do missionary because he's fit as a fiddle and personally I love that position because he likes to kiss and really engage with me which is always a great thing. I got really lucky I know. I wasn't enjoying sex before him. Holy hell do I enjoy it now. He's 5 years younger btw. I've been with older guys, it's just not the same. The fit older ones are really entitled and always want younger hotter women. The y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 108 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!I met a guy who lived in a trailer. Found out he was unemployed and living on a $500 sum per month his deceased grandma set him up with. He thought that was enough money to support himself and a partner. He talked about kids with me. I was just blown away. Our first date he cooked us frozen Mexican dinners. He was actually a nice guy but seriously? I felt offended that this was all he felt I was worthy of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 135 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Yeah then disapprove because we aren't totally clean shaven everywhere, smelling pretty, our hair is in arrays, clothes are old sweats and other easy to wash rags (you know, in the River with Dr. Bronner), they can claim all they want to want "granola" girls but the reality is that lifestyle tears us down real fast, not to mention how grody THEY get. Never met a man who lived in a trailer/RV/car who didn't stink. They're rank and don't even care. No thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!What did he do to trigger the safe word? Try aggressively to stick it in her butt then was secretly mad she said safe word so stopped all sexual contact? This sounds so wrong on so many levels. This woman is in for a world of hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.This guy flew me down a couple times to see him then wanted me to pay for myself. I didn't make nearly as much money as he did plus frankly I am wayyy better than looking than him! I ditched him after this and he texted me the other day knowing full well I'm in a very loving, fulfilling relationship with a man way hotter than him and said "I love you" "I'm ready for this now". Lmfao! I replied "wow that's the most romantic thing I've ever heard" then basically told him to fuck off. He showed me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:27 AM |
| 40 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedDon't let these jackwads scare you. Some idiot thought I would be scared because he found an Imgur image I posted based on my IP or something. I don't even know but that's all that came of it. Just never reveal anything about your location and whatnot. Lots of stupid basement dwellers that want to scare us into thinking they can find us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 25 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.Or clean hair for that matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:14 AM |
| 43 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.Yep, my ex was lucky to have me but still tried to solicit sex from women online. He was balding and gaining weight in his 20s while I stayed fit and took care of myself. He's now in pretty bad shape at only 45. Men are really deluded about their looks and the category of women they think they can eventually get. It's sad really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:13 AM |
| 26 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...Exactly. It's been my reality as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:48 AM |
| 48 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...I can't believe even libraries can't / won't filter that shit out! God this world has gone to hell in a hand basket. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:46 AM |
| 40 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...Omg something so similar happened to me on the city bus in LA. I was 16, my sister was 18, a homeless man follows us on the bus and sits near us and starts to say gross, threatening things to us. He said "no matter where you get off I'm going to follow you and give you a taste of my 9" chocolate lollipop". We were really scared obviously. After awhile the bus driver, a woman (of course, doubt a man would have cared) called us up to her. She said she'd heard everything and said stay on the bus as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:41 AM |
| 16 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postDudes are all dead in the eyes. Wouldn't even respond to them if they were charming af. Really unattractive. So glad I'm not on OLD, must be so depressing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 11 | Help, I’m disgustedWhen I was 14 I was walking down the street and two guys maybe early 20s drove by in a convertible, slowed down to drive along side me and repeatedly asked me if I would sit on their faces. I was mortified and terrified and just looked down and kept walking until they finally drove off. After that I began wearing baggy clothes and that lasted for years. To this day (I'm 47) I feel uncomfortable in clothes that show my body. Only if I'm with a boyfriend (or when I was with my ex husband while we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 15 | Help, I’m disgustedAnd they don't care that they have ZERO chance of getting with you. They know they don't so that makes them even more brazen about their harassment. They've got nothing to lose so they get off on making women uncomfortable. Good looking, normal, well raised guys don't behave that way. It's usually ugly men, older men, and/or men who grew up in misogynistic cultures. 13 isn't too young for these cretins. They look at "barely legal" porn because "young children porn" would get them arrested. Absol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 12:23 AM |
| 106 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I'm very fortunate in that my boyfriend isn't into blow jobs. He never asks for any. My ex husband frequently asked for them. I have never enjoyed it. It's strictly for them, I get nothing out of it. I don't find it sexy or sensual 🤷♀️. We just have sex and it's amazing. I love that he doesn't last too long either. I'd rather have shorter, more frequent sessions. I always get off even if not through intercourse. He doesn't offer to go down on me either but he's tried a few times and I guide him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 11:41 AM |
| 15 | Found one in the wild!I'll watch any sport if it's my fit, sexy man playing it! In fact I do watch my man play very often, almost never miss it. Such a nice contrast from the other guys I dated who sat like blobs watching sports all weekend long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:51 AM |
| 10 | Found one in the wild!My favorite is the military guys. Some are dumb as bricks but have fancy, exotic sounding job titles, that is, the ones that still work for the military. A lot come out and just end up doing menial labor. Again, nothing dishonorable about any job, but they should lower their standards accordingly and not expect 8s and 9s to be cool with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:48 AM |
| 36 | Found one in the wild!"Own my own business" = I have no gainful employment "Self-employed" = I do Door Dash I've seen this a lot of times. Nothing wrong with any job but don't expect women to be breaking down your door when they find out life with you will consist of Netflix and chill in a crappy little apartment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:44 AM |
| 28 | Found one in the wild!BPD! A favorite label of women by abusive, gaslighting men. My ex literally went through the whole list of mental disorders and labeled me with everything under the sun. His whole MO was to chip away at my self worth systematically so I wouldn't wake up to what a LVM he really was. He didn't stop there, he told everyone we knew, friends and family, that our relationship problems (which were known to many) were the result of my upbringing and the consequential mental defects that created in me. G… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:36 AM |
| 787 | Ummm. What?He should have a drink with Woody Allen and they can wax poetic about the joys of marrying the daughter you raised from a very young age. If there is a hell there's a special place for these cretins who groom their own daughters. Blood related or not, it's beyond wrong and these old disgusting men need to just die already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)Wow that is purely evil to do that to someone! I hope she never hears from that demonic sociopath again. A guy I was with in a weird "relationship" (he was impotent and did nothing about it or to try to please me in any way physically but I was dumb and still stuck around) left me stranded in a desert hours from my home. I had to stay in a casino and ended up taking a ride home with a stranger I didn't know that well. Stupid I know but it had been days, there was no bus or any way home other tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 07:00 PM |
| 25 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningI'm tall and slender (well I gained weight since Covid restrictions) and got involved with a pretty darn overweight guy, who was also shorter than me at 5'7", about four years ago. He was fit when we met but rapidly gained about 60 lbs, then kept going. We were not going to work out but I kept making visits to him at night out of loneliness I guess. Looking back I really don't know what I was thinking. I see him now around the hood and he just looks so very unattractive to me. Those bonding horm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:42 PM |
| 48 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningI was about to go out on a casual date with a guy, I was hanging out in his place and he changed into a tee shirt that said "I'm with beautiful" with an arrow pointing to the right. I said take that off, I am not going out with you, that's an embarrassing and childish tee shirt. He agreed and I got him to put on a nice shirt. What are some guys thinking? And what if the person to your left is another dude? I mean seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 36 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.I've slept with dozen of men in my three decades of adulthood (take that, lurking scrotes 😛) and I really only remember it being good with two of them, plus the man I'm with now who is far and away the best, not because he's super experienced but because he loves me and cares about me deeply and wants to please me. The other two I was in relationships with (one year and ten years). Every short term "thing" I had, every fling or ONS, was very unmemorable. Pretty much downright regrettable. I was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 7 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Not a one. That would look odd and that's not generally how the human body designs itself. My daughter is 5'7" with 8.5 shoes, the only women I know with 6-7 size shoe are definitely 5'4" or under. Dude has a small foot fetish, a youth fetish, a naughty costume fetish and likes raunchy XXX sex (probably degrading to the lucky lady), and is homely af, what a catch lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Ohh I'm gonna have some fun with that 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:42 PM |
| 35 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Sorry, you're just out of his league with those clown feet. I'm sure you're really sad about that. P.S. I have size 8 feet too, but alas I'm 1.5" too tall for this charmer. For shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.I was wondering if he was going by flat pants measurements so 12 inches x 2 = 24" waist. Basically he wants a build-a-woman. He should just get a custom made sex doll 🧍♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:38 PM |
| 12 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.I just threw up in my mouth. XXX rated with him? 🤢 Not only are his demands audacious, he is not attractive in the least. Catholic but must wear costumes to bed and be a freak? 18-26 and dude is "38"? Absolutely disgusting. Hope he likes being single for another 38 years, probably will be 60 still looking for women half his age. Pitiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:34 PM |
| 41 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsBeen there too. Some guys really enjoy stringing us along. They are selfish and don't care about wasting our lives, energy and affecting our mental health and self-esteem. They just don't have anyone else around and you are good for those bored/lonely/horny times. A friend of a friend is with a guy for three years now. He's never said he loves her. They keep separate residences but spend most nights together. That's two people that are settling, afraid to be alone, afraid no one else would want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:27 PM |
| 68 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsIn my 20s I dated some guys 7-12 years older than me. They were anything but caring, sweet or loving. When they realized I was assertive and not afraid to demand basic respect, they became jerks in short order. Looking back I'm so grossed out by it all. I'll be 50 in a few years and with a 5-6 years younger man. He treats me wonderfully. Young women need to exercise a great deal of caution getting involved with older men. Don't waste your youth on these guys! They don't deserve it. They got to e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:21 PM |
| 11 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄Leave. My friends husband was caught doing this, turns out he was living this "fantasy". Arrested for incest, went to prison, re-offended (caught looking at child porn), never saw his kids again. Very sick sick person who destroyed an entire family. They aim to live out these twisted fantasies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 7 | Channeling this energy today.I definitely do, but I try hard not to look back on my past as doing so can be so toxic to my well-being. I used to dwell on it for most of my life but I learned to knock that shit off. I did waste a massive amount of energy on LVM. All I can do now is take what I've learned about myself and men and go forth and try to live my best life. I wish you lots of healing. They really do a number on us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 25 | I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was greatIn my case my Latino husband labeled me everything in the book because I wasn't submissive and didn't "respect" him simply for being born with an appendage between his legs (respect must be earned). I was BPD, Bi-polar, a curse, a demon, an intoxicating evil seductress, a depressed loser, I could go on and on, but I was never a normal human in his eyes who found myself in a terrifying situation married to a man I didn't really know (he proposed after 3 months of knowing me), a language I didn't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:12 AM |
| 29 | I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was greatI married a man from Latin America. Ten years after our divorce he still claims I was a curse upon his family. I was just an American girl he pursued and I somewhat reluctantly went along with it and lived in his country for several years with him before we went to live in the US. He claims I sent his father into an early grave. He's absolutely bonkers and totally projecting. He was the cheater, the druggie, the major porn addict and lived off his parents well after adulthood. I didn't do anythi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:04 AM |
| 31 | Channeling this energy today.Some men actually grew up in healthy households shielded from porn and had hobbies and sports and good parenting. My bf is one such man and he loves my more mature, curvy body and kisses me all the time even when we first wake up and I'm feeling like I need a good scrubbing up. I have to tell him to lay off the physical affection sometimes, and he's an attractive, sexy, fit man. He adores me way more than any man ever has. We met when I was 46 and his passion for me hasn't waned in the slightest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:31 PM |
| 14 | Channeling this energy today.For me it was age 22, and the creepiest most aggressive guys were always considerably older. Guys my own age I could deal with but the older ones were just damn disgusting. Don't even get me started on how many of them are into teen porn, barely legal shit. Makes me think they'd go even younger than that if they could, even the ones who claim to like 18 year olds. As someone who was molested as a child and also watched a 30 year old man desperately (yet tried to groom her in subtle ways) pursue … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:25 PM |
| 9 | Channeling this energy today.I just posted about this. They'll still look but they don't say stuff to me or stalk me or try to figure out how naive/innocent/malleable/stupid/insecure I might be that they could have a shot at getting down my pants. I now attract men who appreciate my wisdom, confidence and intelligence over my looks. I still look good but I definitely get less attention and I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:14 PM |
| 31 | Channeling this energy today.It's so liberating to not care what men think of you, or if you stop turning their heads as much. I'm 47 and the peace I feel at this age was virtually unknown to me in my 20s, and very seldom known to me in my 30s. I just stopped wearing makeup last year and I choose my glasses over contacts far more now, wear comfy clothes instead of trying to be sexy. To me that IS sexy. Sexy is being who you want to be, comfortable in your own skin. I'm just sorry it took me decades of massive insecurities b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Gabby Petito's case; Police bodycam footage shows how Brian made Gabby seem hysterical while he played it off coolThanks for sharing this. I want all women to know that you can leave an abusive man, heal yourself and eventually (please be patient!) find a man like this. Settling for anyone who is willing to be with you is not good. You should feel like the prize, period. Women have a far greater range of options than scrotes do. Don't settle for scrotes when good men still exist out there. I am with the first man who ever was willing to look in the mirror. That's very, very important. Men mostly do ANYTHING… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 05:08 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?My male friend is 55 and says he's not attracted to women his own age. He's never had a girlfriend. I'm like yeah keep sending money to those 22 year old prison inmates who talk to you. No joke he's that pathetic. He does that. Wouldn't be surprised if he is full on subscribing to Only Fans now but before that was a thing, it was prison inmates. It's pathetic, I feel for him but he's a fat 55 year old. He needs to get real with himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:54 PM |
| 22 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?I've basically lost all my female friends since Covid. But it was a time of great reflection and realizing I was just being used and not really valued by them. I'm 47 and self employed and my major hobby was cancelled since Covid. My chances of making new female friends is next to nothing right now. I have a boyfriend, a gay best friend (male) whom I love dearly, and a male friend. I have a female friend I've known for 40 years but she's an ultra pickmeisha and since she's been remarried for a f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:49 PM |
| 22 | I don’t even desire sex with a man anymoreTrue mutual love and respect really helps sex be a wonderful, mystical experience. Most of my relationships went into a bad place and that was lost after the initial infatuation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:32 AM |
| 128 | Men are terrified of being alone and will project that on youI was also very lonely in my marriage. I ended up having an emotional affair with some random stranger I met on a message board. He was giving me more attention than my own husband. My (now ex) husband would just throw him into projects constantly instead of spending much quality time with me. After our divorce I was pretty much single for 8 years. I never felt lonely. I love doing everything alone. I'm with a man who was also alone much of his life and also loves doing things alone and I think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 383 | Gabby Petito's case; Police bodycam footage shows how Brian made Gabby seem hysterical while he played it off coolI've been in a few abusive relationships. They push you to a point where you lose it, then it becomes all about your reaction. The man will then point out to you how hysterical and "crazy" you are and you truly start to wonder if it's you, when all along it's them. This is so frequently used by men to avert any responsibility on their part and to subjugate the woman. I ended up believing it was all my fault and continuously tried to change myself, but it wouldn't have made a difference. These me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 56 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)With big SOLID breasts no less. None of this soft, squishy stuff, he wants the plastic. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:24 PM |
| 12 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴This guy is taking the Mickey out on women because no one wanted his stank ass. He definitely doesn't even have one kid. No woman would procreate with this beast. Sorry you're a repugnant loser, Sean, but trolling isn't going to get that anger out of you or get you laid. Seek serious help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:35 AM |
| 15 | LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.This is really interesting since I've never met a single guy who wouldn't betray his "buddy" if he could and get away with it. They're also usually of the same pathetic ilk if they're still hanging out together in their 30s and beyond (LVM that is). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 16 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksMy now ex husband called the cops during the a fight we had. He was getting texts and went into the bathroom, I was suspicious because of prior things he had done and tried to see his phone, grabbed his shirt, and next thing I know I'm being arrested. I was just like Gabby, crying and trying to make excuses for what I had done which was nothing. I got thrown in the slammer. The cops were extremely empathetic and sorry they had to arrest me. They said I needed to leave my husband which I did. He … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:20 PM |
| 13 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksThe Duggar's defending their pedophilic, incestuous son who instead of going to prison was free to make at least 6 kids with his pathetic pick me wife. Bill Cosby getting out of prison after drugging and raping multiple women and his repugnant pick me wife waiting with open arms for her rapist cheating pig. I'm so over this GD world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 53 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksJealous of women even after their DEATH. Men are the most insecure, pathetic, neurotic creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 11 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksI knew she was dead from the moment I read her fiancé drove away without her. I mean wtf. Such a botched effort to find her. Her mother even said only one person, a woman no less, cared enough to really take the case on. Meanwhile we have an over the top "we care so much" act by the authorities because this was heavily picked up by media. Disgusting. Meanwhile, the guy who killed his wife last year (check daily mail website) get out of prison on $500k bail. The comments by scrotes are disgusting… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Just scrotey thingsWhen I was pregnant I was so obsessed with injera bread that I thought about having some fed exed to me from the city I used to live in. We didn't have an Ethiopian restaurant here but now we do so I get to enjoy it (with all the delicious dishes) when the craving strikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Just scrotey thingsI love Indian food and would love to go vegan again but it doesn't work with my health issues. I have SIBO and IBS and can't eat soy, grains, eggs or dairy. I can only eat meat and veggies and some fruits. I love Indian food and sag paneer is my favorite too. Sometimes it's just way too oily though. Also being vegan wasn't good for my mental health but everyone is so different. I just felt my depression really improve with meat. I was vegan for 5 years so I certainly don't judge anyone who is al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 11:09 PM |
| 8 | Just scrotey thingsI only met one vegan woman that really guilt tripped her boyfriend for eating meat and eventually got him to eat like her but you could tell he was resentful as hell. That's not cool either. Just leave people alone about their dietary choices. She even guilt tripped me for drinking red wine, something about fish bladders in the wine lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 11:03 PM |
| 11 | Just scrotey thingsThat's so cringey! And so rude! Wth. So many men really lack any social cues and graces. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:59 PM |
| 30 | Its a murder!Also never believe what you see on social media and in photos! My friend had her house cluttered with happy family photos and found out her husband is a pedophile. Happy photos do not always tell the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 13 | Its a murder!I think eventually he would have killed her, road trip or not. It's sad that she was engaged to this man and trusted him. I did read that was her van as well. Imagine not only leaving the scene of your disappeared fiancé but driving thousands of miles away in HER vehicle. Everything just stinks to high heaven with this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:33 PM |
| 16 | Its a murder!I read that as well. The mother didn't want to talk about it but alluded to that they had a fight. It had to be pretty bad for someone to call the police. I feel so bad for her mom, she wants to believe Gabby is just hanging with drifters off the grid but everyone else knows she's dead. Brian is going to prison if justice is properly served. I read they knew each other for two years in high school. They always say take a road trip with someone if you want to really know your compatibility. Unfor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:28 PM |
| 18 | WSJ article cites how males are completing college education at almost half the rate of women, with porn, drugs, and video games as major "distractions."I've met guys who didn't really work, lived in shitholes and maybe took an online class here or there and the rest of their time was spent on porn, going to the gym, and whatever else they wanted to do. They probably just lived off student loans doing the minimum and as far as I know none of them are gainfully employed many years later. Current society has encouraged men to be hedonistic, selfish, non-providers. I came out of college with a good amount of debt that took me ten years to pay off b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:21 PM |
| 11 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄I've lurked on "men's rights" subs (now defunct with good reason, breeding mass shooters and totally toxic) and they literally encourage each other to invest in crypto to hide it from their partners, to get iron clad pre-nups or just to not marry at all so they never have to give a penny to the women they string along for years. It enrages me that any man would have a problem with a woman having a get out fund when they have built a whole culture around leaving us high and dry. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureNo he doesn't do that on purpose ffs. He felt terrible and was by my side during my entire hospital stay, you really think that he would want me to go through that again? I don't understand your thought process at all. I just feel like your goading me which happens here sometimes. Not all men are nasty pigs. Many yes but I've posted about how good my boyfriend has been to me. He would never purposefully infect me with a UTI. I'm so disappointed to see this kind of response on a sub I've been on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureIt's a convenience thing when you're using the pull out method. Cumming on your vagina is much riskier. I can see him and know he properly pulled out. As I said, it's worked for me my entire adult sexual life. And my bf doesn't watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:42 AM |
| 37 | Kicked out my LVM roommate. I feel like I can finally enjoy life again 😄That sounds awful, can't say I haven't known guys like that. I will say my aunt is like that so it's not exclusively a male thing so vet anyone carefully. Roommates in general are challenging. I've had many female ones and there were issues. I had a tiny studio apartment I lived in alone and that was better than any of my roommate scenarios. I live with a family member now but we clash too so I keep to myself mostly. I'm respectful of him, it's just hard to find someone who has the same standard… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 22 | Ladies…please have/control your own finances, have a social circle and skills…even with a HVM by your side.My grandma had to to become a janitor in her 60s after her husband died. She had to work 5 years to get retirement. This after raising 4 kids with a basically absentee alcoholic husband. I'm not really sure how I'm going to survive. I've been self employed selling goods but that's pretty hit or miss. Together with my partner we can get by but if I lose him I'm not sure what I'll do. I'm teaching my daughters this principle, being able to support yourself and build up your own assets is crucial i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:46 PM |
| 12 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureYeah, I agree. Just saying it doesn't take that much usually. It's really not a big deal. I also don't let them cream pie me which they never have actually. That's another porn thing like the sticking in the ass then pussy bullshit that is extremely risky for the woman. I can't stand men and their fucking sick sexual fantasies that harm women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:40 PM |
| 20 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureOmg I've had two since I met my boyfriend. He's uncircumcised. He feels amazing but I didn't know I was supposed to pee afterwards so I got two had to take antibiotics now my gut is all messed up. Ugh. So now I'm like, you are not just going to poke it around down there, I am putting it in. Because it stems almost always from men poking your ass a bit while trying to get it in your vagina. I can't believe there is porn suggesting this is a sexy thing, it was so painful that last time that I had … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:34 PM |
| -30 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureWell honestly all my partners have managed to pull out and not get me pregnant but I suppose there are plenty of guys out there that can't control themselves. I just knew my partners could so I felt safe with that method. I don't suggest it to women necessarily but it's just worked for me, I couldn't take BC and condoms irritated me, there weren't many options but I kept really good track of my cycle too which was very regular and we just didn't have sex during like a week window each month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 18 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureWhat in the actual f*ck? My guy pulls out and does it on my belly then cleans it up for me using very little toilet paper, who cums that much? What a ridiculous product. No woman should ever buy that! If you really need to feel extra clean there are these things called baby wipes? Like 100 of them for $5? Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 3 | How to not feel insecure about someone I’m seeing?I'm in a serious relationship with a man who is a top ranking athlete in his sport and I frequently feel inadequate because I've gained 20 lbs since we met 16 months ago. He thinks I'm sexy and beautiful but I am very frustrated because he can eat anything and still be so toned and fit and I can diet my ass off and lose nothing. I've relaxed lately and he reassures me often that I'm perfect the way I am but the insecurities still creep in. I also envy that he's had this lifelong passion and, wel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 04:06 PM |
| 3 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.I bet he did something wrong somewhere in his attempt to cover up his crime. Dumping her body in a remote location or lake or something, that didn't pan out too well for that Peterson guy who killed his pregnant wife. They usually screw up unless they are extremely cunning like Ted Bundy. Most are not. His victims were strangers, this was his fiancé I really think they are going to prove he killed her even if takes awhile. He has to talk, he can't remain silent for very long. Not how the law wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:55 PM |
| 3 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.Horrific. I would gladly sacrifice my son to legal justice if I had one if he had committed a murder. I have daughters and I wouldn't treat them any differently but they would never do such a thing. I'm worried for their safety every day. I dread the day they start getting into relationships and I have to worry about them getting hurt in some way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 3 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.Oh he'll love the attention he's going to be getting from Bubbas for the rest of his life behind bars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 4 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.So true. I took a road trip with a guy I didn't know well. I was like 22 also. My mom met him and said to him if you do anything to her I will make sure justice is served. He totally assured her he was a "nice guy" ™️. Well he got drunk and tried to rape me at the hotel. I had to flee on a gray hound bus in the middle of the night. You can't trust men especially ones you don't really know. I was young and naive as this poor girl probably was as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.Even if the man is a good, safe one too many people disappear in national parks. There was a whole family killed in one just like last week. If you choose isolated areas you risk your life. Lots of evil out there lurking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 4 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.Same but he lived in an RV. I let him hook up to my electricity for free and one day the power went out and he thought I deliberately caused that (I wasn't even home!) and he took some major revenge out on me. That was when I really learned the saying "no good deed goes unpunished". Anyway he was gross and I thought he was nice but I was so totally wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.If it was his life that would be one thing. I don't think enough details have come out about their other life. I just assume they were taking the trip of a lifetime before getting serious, maybe a year off after college, who knows. Her dad said she was a free spirit and not at all materialistic and there's nothing wrong with that. I'd love to do the van life for a time, but definitely not as a lifestyle. If he had no money or ambitions maybe they fought over money and he offed her. The authoriti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 18 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.There's a whole sub here about that case. That was absolutely horrific what he did and no one ever saw it coming. Definitely this guy is a Chris Watts. What I don't understand is in this case why not just break off the engagement? I wonder if he strangled her during rough sex or something weird like that, it wouldn't be the first case of its kind. Poor girl and her poor parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 12 | An engaged couple go out for a trip, the man comes back without the woman, refuses to cooperate with the police and hires a lawyer.Who leaves the area their fiancé disappeared in without contacting authorities and helping in a search? He's got a lot to answer for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with rejection?Not sure why you were downvoted. I too was super skinny and ate a ton of food, it really was just genetic. After 40 I started gaining. My daughter is the same way but with a much smaller frame than I have and she eats a lot too. It's not unhealthy to be skinny as long as you're eating enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Saying "I love you"I wouldn't tolerate it beyond maybe a month or two. If they are that afraid of those words then they probably aren't for me because I need a lot of love if I'm going to give my heart and soul to a man. I've heard of men going like a year or two without saying it and the women stay. It just blows my mind..makes me think of someone "better" came along they'd get right out of there and with the new woman. That said, to me it's the actions that really show love. If the actions match the words, that'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:46 PM |
| 14 | Share your FDS dating success storyMy guy set up a desk for me too! Funny. Part of it was that he wanted to do some of his business at my place because he loves being around me and we make a great team. Totally respects all my boundaries, picks me a fresh bouquet of flowers nearly every day, cooks and cleans for me, is super sweet to my teens and my dad, writes me poetry, remembers everything I like and all important dates, etc. tells me he loves me multiple times a day, really loves women and considers us the superior sex, he vo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:34 PM |
| 32 | My new definition of BDSMI know a guy into BDSM. I found him pretty attractive so we messed around a bit. He loved not allowing me to orgasm and never had sex with me. He is like 50 and never had a girlfriend, his whole thing is BDSM with strangers but I'm guessing he doesn't find a lot of women into that. Very strange man. Good looking but weird af. To me BDSM is a red flag, they probably have intimacy issues and mental issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?I might be more open minded to them if their were equal male pageants but there obviously isn't. I've always found them creepy and then when I found out Trump was behind them I was really creeped out. He always talked about women as if our entire worth was how we looked. That's very damaging to young women and I would like to see these contests go away entirely tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 09:25 PM |
| 47 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?They can't handle the truth about their gender, period, so they grasp at straws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:54 PM |
| 15 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Thought the same thing, probably lots of pick mes in that mix of responses. Under no circumstances is a man allowed to hit or slap me, how was he just 'misunderstanding" her when she never asked for that? Sounds like his personal fetish and he chose to indulge it rather than treat her like a human being deserving respect. And the poster talked about how "sincere" his apology was. Good luck lady. We already know she's going to get with him again and he's already got no respect for her, she's in f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:52 PM |
| -2 | Men Who live With Parents or RoommatesNot sure why all the downvotes. I was parked down the street from my own house at night and no one saw anything. We were discreet. I chose not to introduce him to my family for 6 months to make sure I could properly vet him first. I don't know why that's a bad thing. We simply had nowhere to go during that time. SMH at the downvotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:46 PM |
| 14 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.I was terrified of sex and boys and men. I lost a few boyfriends because I wouldn't let them go all the way. I just froze up. I finally met a sweet guy when I was 21 that somehow put me at ease but I pushed him away as soon as he got too serious, and I pushed away every guy I met until I met someone when I was 25 and I think I just wanted to move to his city and have a new beginning. I definitely had issues with him as well. Then I got married to another guy and we had issues. It wasn't until my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 09:42 AM |
| 9 | Men Who live With Parents or RoommatesMy boyfriend rents a room from someone and I live with my widower dad and two teens so I don't have a problem with any of what you mentioned. He spends most nights with me and gets along great with my dad. He's been working on our house in a lot of ways and has been very helpful to us. He's saved most of his inheritance so we have a nest egg (we've talked about marriage). Neither of us want more kids (we are in our 40s, he has no kids and I have two older teens). I understand if you want a famil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 09:26 AM |
| 226 | I’m just so over dating at this pointDrop. You deserve a man that makes you feel alive and wanted. F*ck these boring guys. Some guys don't like to text and prefer phone calls, they are the rare exception. If you have a texter and he can't find the time to text you, he's a DUD. Just drop his arse. They let you know early on who they are. I was skeptical of my guy but he told me upfront he wasn't a texter and preferred phone calls. He stuck to that and I followed through with him on that and he's been a great boyfriend. Others are ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardI'm not really sure to this day, who she was or what her purpose was. I probably barely had a little hair around my bikini line honestly, but that was an extremely humiliating experience. My husband I married years later found out and he used it against me later because I had sex with a guy I met there, it was on a military base. I was single, I only tried it for like three days (stripping) and it was so traumatizing for me I quit. But he had to goad me about it for the entirety of our marriage.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 63 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.Ugh. My mom was a pick me and I'm fairly certain my first stepdad molested me. We can really block things out, I feel like I did. I remember him looking at me when I was changing into my nightgown and I was like 9 at the time. After they divorced, years later, I ran into him and couldn't even look at him nor did he say a word to me. I know it was my gut telling me that man had an in appropriate relationship with you. My mom stopped letting him have me on weekends. I think she was so pick me and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 12:52 AM |
| 79 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.My friend's husband (ex now) connected with a daughter he'd never met when she was 17. He immediately began having sex with her. Sadly I was the one to find the evidence for my friend. He was an absolute disgusting pig who also hit on me which I never had the heart to tell my friend. We found out he was having sex with his own best friends wife too. This guy was gross in every way. He lied to my friend in so many detailed ways all of which were discovered cause men are fucking stupid liars and u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 12:41 AM |
| 65 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.I house sat for my boss and unfortunately couldn't resist going into his bedroom. What I found was horrific. A menagerie of pregnant women porn mags and books of incestuous families. He was awfully close to his brother. Really made me wonder. Worst thing was brother was a teacher at junior high school. There are some really truly sick people out there that keep their secrets hidden very well. Unfortunately for me my own uncle wanted to have sex with his sisters (one of them my mom). I'll just ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 12:30 AM |
| 159 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.I've witnessed more incestous activity from males than I care to talk about. They have no self control most of them. No morals, no nothing. Just what their peens want. They destroy families and lives due to their need to cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardAdd to that male doctors using unwashed hands to reach into a woman's vagina during childbirth. Causing infections. They think their such geniuses because of airplanes and buildings but they have made some grave mistakes too and continue to do so. I know plenty of female engineers too, I feel I'm general women have a lot more common sense while men just say they have LoGiC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:10 PM |
| 13 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardI tried stripping one time (I was a lost young woman) and literally while I was on the stage a woman brought me a razor in front of all the guys. She said I wasn't properly shaven. Wow talk about an eye opening moment. Women are still absolutely oppressed. I was humiliated. I had to leave the stage during one of the most vulnerable moments of my life. Just because of some hair. The worst part was it was a woman handing me the razor and humiliating me. I don't even think the men really cared that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:51 AM |
| 6 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardI've been sick and just taking a shower can be a challenge at times. The last time I shaved it took me like 5 minutes and a lot of work, I was exhausted and you know, my bf doesn't even care about that really. He has a full bush and a hairy ass and I'm not in the least bit turned off by it. I'm also not pornsick and sex with him is very beautiful so all these guys requiring waxed pussies can keep jerking off cause likely that's all they're getting. Let's see them wax their privates. For 1000s of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:46 AM |
| 80 | Don’t be fooled by pickmes who seem to attract a bunch of menYeah dealing with this too. My best friend since she 8 is all about her man and now she's besties with her much young sister, neither of them have any friends, I asked her doesn't she need female friends and she just said she's been isolating herself. Fair enough but don't contact me only because you're having problems with your man, which she does. Value my friendship please. I'm not an emotional tampon. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 05:49 AM |
| 3 | “One third of hookups ends up in marriage.”Some people just can't be alone. I was on a solo vacation, met a guy and he proposed me to 3 months later. He promised me a beautiful life but didn't deliver. We divorced after ten years. He married a woman who gave him head after meeting in a bar. They pretend they're happy but I know they aren't. She will never have what I had with him but she won't give up trying to outdo me. It's pathetic. I have zero desire to have him back, I met a much better man. The night I met my boyfriend he didn't ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 03:07 AM |
| 66 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”For real. She's had terrible luck with men and she's highly educated, owns her own home and is attractive. She just lacks self worth after what her (ex) husband and shitty kids put her through for two decades. I wish so much she could find a HVM but it's been such a struggle for her. :( Her son is like her ex and he's abusive to her so she's had to deal with that plus a spoiled ass daughter who is a full grown adult and thinks her mom should still live for her. It's really sad. I hope she finall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:05 AM |
| 14 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersHe's very low value. He also got all the Biden child stimulus money because I let him claim the kids as dependents. I asked him to share it with me and he refuses. I'm too tired and broke to hire a lawyer. I imagine there are so many women going through the same thing. I just gave up. Im hoping karma will take care of things. And I did everything for them like most moms do. He was fun weekend dad. If it wasn't for my father I'd be fubar. I guarantee you my ex is not welcome in our home ever. My … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:56 AM |
| 9 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenI would have to get an abortion, I'm 47 and having a baby would destroy me emotionally and physically. I am very careful and pretty much infertile now though I still have an occasional period so bf is really careful too. I'm pro-choice but it is such a horrific thing for most women to go through, however, what's even worse is having to have an unwanted child. Thankfully I've avoided that despite not being able to take BC. But I am extremely careful. It's so hard being a woman. The burden of birt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenI've used the pull out and calendar method for years but unless you are both meticulous about it I wouldn't recommend it. I could never take BC (made me really depressed) and the pull out / calendar method worked for me my whole adult life but as I said, if you both aren't very careful it can be risky. I'm almost menopausal now and have about one period every 4 months so my bf and I are extremely careful since I can't chart my periods anymore. That surgery sounds great and I wish I'd known it wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:45 AM |
| 7 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenGlad we are both in our 40s and I'm nearing menopause. I definitely would not have another child at this point in my life. I am relishing the fact that mine are older teens now and I can enjoy time with my boyfriend. Parenting is so damn hard. My boyfriend never married or had kids and believe me it's perfect. I definitely don't think I could date anyone with kids. Parenthood was too hard on me and I don't want additional kids to worry about because I already worry enough every day about my own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:40 AM |
| 42 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”This is my aforementioned friend. The one who was willing to give a stranger head. She said no men have ever been that into her since her divorce. This is because she behaves in this way and has no self-respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 125 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”My friend hooked up with a guy on Bumble, she went to a hotel with him and gave him head then caught him filming it! She grabbed his phone to delete it and saw a bunch of other videos of other women giving him head too. Why do women stoop this low? Jesus. How desperate for any male attention do you have to be to give some stranger head??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:33 AM |
| 26 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersI feel for you. I do not get disability, I work odd jobs to get by and it's been very hard but my aunt gets disability and it's about that much here too. She never can make ends meet on that so she frequents the food banks and never gets anything like new clothes, it's a tough life. I totally understand. If I didn't have my dad's help I'd be fucked. I have two kids and their dad pays $130 in child support and I have them 5 days a week plus the housing is insane so I'd be homeless without my dad.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 11 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣I'm happy to say two of my female friends really reached out to me yesterday and it was lovely. I love my boyfriend but I need female companionship too. I feel really positive going forward. They never forgot or gave up one me. It just felt like it. But it's been a hard year for us all. Really happy to have my friends back in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | "All ages considered!"My dad loved my mom to pieces but didn't want her to lose weight because he was afraid she'd find another man. She confided in me about that. Then when she did lose weight he was saying how spectacular she looked. Men are so conflicted with these things, so insecure. My own boyfriend says don't worry about my weight because I've got him now. He treats me like a Queen but that's not how it works for me. I want to lose weight for me, but I suspect there is some element of "will she find someone be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:06 AM |
| 8 | It’s the little thingsThere was a recent post about things being the minimum but I honestly recognize men who do these little things as being the exception and that should be celebrated. My boyfriend has done more for me than anyone in my life, and I think it's ok to share and celebrate such men. It's not like we're talking about washing the dishes now and then. These are real and sweet and caring things they do for us and it's ok to let other women know this is what we deserve. I'm sick but I tell my boyfriend every… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 5 | It’s the little thingsMy guy washed my tennis shoes that had cat crap on the bottom that had been sitting outside for like a month. He just sees things that need doing and does them because I've been sick for several months and he doesn't think twice about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 10 | Signs that he is a gold digger: an ever-evolving master list to which contributions are valuedDated a guy who ate my food late at night while I was sleeping then lied about it but I saw the wrappers in the trash. I was like wtf. He was a total broke loser but come on, lying about eating my food? That was the final straw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:26 PM |
| 18 | Signs that he is a gold digger: an ever-evolving master list to which contributions are valuedMy neighbor married a female doctor he's a stay at home dad. He confessed to me it took him years to agree to that but now he literally does nothing all day and guess what my other male neighbor does? Nothing all day while wife works. Men love to believe women are the only gold diggers when in actuality they would love to be in that position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:19 PM |
| 7 | [A LOVE LETTER] Thank you all for helping me escape my batterer.I'm so sorry you went through this. I was also abused by my partner, one night he really beat me up and I ended up crying on the steps of my apartment complex. A total stranger woman took me into her apartment where I stayed for like a week. I had called a shelter but they said they were only accepting women with children. She was such an angel at that time when no resources were available to me. I eventually left him permanently, took me longer than I'm proud of but I'll never forget the kindne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:04 PM |
| 151 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣My ex husband during the downfall of our marriage wanted to take me to Vegas to a swingers club. I was so beaten down emotionally at that point that I was open to it but he did a lot of research and decided the men were all too ugly. I guess he wanted to watch a good looking guy screw me? I still don't understand, he was a porn addict big time and I was basically a sex slave to him then I got pregnant and lost interest and he placed personal ads I found looking for other women. The whole thing i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:55 PM |
| 34 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?His besties are also pigs. Toby McGuire who married just for power and money to a daughter of a big producer, and some other d-bag. They all just want young pussy now and love being the ultimate d-bags. All of them are ugly af and their exes went on to to REAL men (Giselle with Tom Brady as an example) total LVM. Wouldn't date them even if I could. Just yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:47 PM |
| 29 | Looks are so importantSo true! I've had this happen several times. The shorter guys made excuses why they couldn't commit to me and I knew intuitively it was their own insecurity. Now with a guy slightly taller and it's perfect, I was usually with guys 6' and over because I'm tall for a woman but every man I dated that was slightly shorter than me had a huge hang up about it and treated me poorly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:05 AM |
| 101 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.My boyfriend tucks me in all the time! I'm 47 and I guess I've never been properly tucked in, he pushes all the blankets around me then kisses me before he heads out, it's so sweet. Then he checks up on me throughout the day and asks if there is anything he can bring me. He's so cute too, I didn't have to sacrifice anything to find a man that checks all my boxes. Just luck of the draw I think. Neither of us are perfect but we are getting better everyday with our love. I still can't believe a man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 81 | Some men say, men going for much younger women or even teenagers is just "biology". I just realised adult men who try to be with teenagers/much younger women usually end up alone.I know a guy who was SO hot as a teenager, ended up with like 4 kids from 3 different women by age 25. I saw him at a party when he was around 35, totally had hit the wall and was hitting on me. I'd known him since I was like 10 so it was weird. He was so lonely and his looks were totally gone. But man he had a good run for awhile at least. I'm guessing he's still alone. Got his kids at least part time but all his confidence was gone. Balding and aging badly. He really was quite good looking. Me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:37 PM |
| 19 | The audactiy knows no bounds.He's probably hideous as well. Like any woman would be a gift to him let alone a woman in her 40s. I shudder to think what he looks like but even if he were good looking he's still creepy af but we all know he looks gross too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:56 PM |
| 23 | The audactiy knows no bounds.Totally. If I have $900 to spend on a fricking room I'm not going to stay with some crazy dude. I've had friends who ended up staying with crazy guys with all kinds of issues. I'd rather be homeless too. I can't imagine the emotional torture of living with someone like this. I'd rather die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:54 PM |
| 13 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.47 and happier than ever and happened to find my HVM last year after sifting through several LVM. I was already in a good place on my own when I met him and he's never taken me for granted because he knows I'll be perfectly fine without him. But life's been really fun with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 05:03 AM |
| 5 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.My boyfriend is only like an inch taller than me and it's wonderful, so much eye contact and easy kissing/hugging, I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 6 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.I'm almost 5'9" and found my height has been a fetish for men. They come in all types. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 24 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menI'm with the most wonderful man. He's exhausting because he has SO much energy but he plays his sport every day and his hobby and does not watch porn or play video games. He's 42 and has the energy and body of an 18 yr old. They do make their own beds and must lie in them. Then they wonder why women don't want them. Get real lives, get up and work and play hard, stop with the sitting in front of screens all day. Get a life. No one is attracted to a hedonistic loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:22 AM |
| 47 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menIt's insane. My neighbor married a much younger guy who doesn't work and just takes care of the lawn. She works all day 5 days a week. He walks the dog too but that's all he does. No kids, just life on easy street. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:13 AM |
| 28 | He asked to borrow moneyI've met two personal trainers, I dated both of them, they were extremely LVM. I can't imagine actually hiring one after dating two of them. I'll just hike and do my own thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 07:27 PM |
| 14 | He asked to borrow moneyA scrote asked me for $2000 the day after we met at a casino, he wanted to gamble on several sports. He was an ex felon lawyer with a huge gambling addiction. He love bombed me hard then asked for the loan. I was like no way, are you kidding me? The audacity of some of these scrotes! Then he proceeded to harass me by text calling me a slut. He was used to stealing from people and was pissed off that he couldn't steal from me. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 07:22 PM |
| 61 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.No shit. Just in the past few days two scrote killed children and women just because their feelers were hurt about something. One killed a three year old, another shot to death an infant to and his mother. And men still think they're the superior sex and women are the eMoTiOnAl ones. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?My partner and I are truly a team and we look at our finances as a shared endeavor, he has offered to pay my credit card debt but I said let me help you with your business and work it off. He is cool with that and it makes me feel good. We both buy each other things without much thought. It's not like, oh I spent $100 on you last month so now you need to pony up $100 for me. We don't even think like that. We're a true team. I would never be able to be with a man who kept track of shit like that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 6 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?I know two women who put their scrotes through college. One of them left her after he graduated, the other one turned out to be an incestuous pedophile who destroyed their family. Thank God both of them found HVM after their horrific experiences but be careful, the lesson is don't support a man through any of his endeavors. It's too risky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 23 | Unlearning my perception of pubic hair.My ex husband whom I met in 2002 was the first man to request me to shave. I had never thought about it other than around my bikini line and none of my other lovers seemed to care. He also shaved himself though at least. He was pornsick. My boyfriend now has a full bush and has never expressed a desire for me to shave at all. I joke with him about it and he says he's from a small hippy town and that's the norm. THANK GOD. I can go a goddamn week or two without shaving my pussy and he still finds… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:16 AM |
| 30 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.I have a friend I've known for 38 years and she abandons me whenever she gets a man. In between men though, I am nothing but an emotional tampon to her. Plus she's constantly worried about her guy cheating so if she ever does call me I know it's because she's got anxiety cause he's out of town or they had an argument. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:09 AM |
| 24 | If he needs space from the relationship, it's a no.Exactly. Can I not emphasize this enough ladies? A lot of guys are ALL about their bros. Some guys will be a little about their bros but mostly about YOU. That's who you want. Tonight I encouraged my boyfriend to go play games with his friends. He thought it over for an hour and said I decided not to, I would rather miss out on my beloved game than missing out on that time spent with you watching a movie and hanging out with you, and i would rather do that now that I have a dream girlfriend. My … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 01:50 AM |
| 6 | The Power of ✨Allowing Men To Feel Needed✨5 years younger, we hardly notice except that he's exceptionally fit for a 42 yr old so it's harder to keep up with him. My aunt has been married 20 years to a man 10 years younger than her and their marriage is better than ever now. There is so much to learn from each other if you love each other, and you eventually don't even feel there is a difference in age except sometimes with cultural references but even with those we totally get most of them. My break off point would be around ten years … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:06 AM |
| 22 | Beware of this type of men. It's one of many abusive types mentioned in Lundy's book, but I see this specific type very often lately, especially on social media.Excellent advice. When a man says all his exes were "crazy" - run. A man of healthy mind and soul doesn't need to talk shit about all his exes. My current partner says of his exes "they didn't really do anything wrong" (but he will at times express some anger towards specific things they did to him). My ex said they were all crazy and unsurprisingly I became "crazy" too (yet he tried to string me along for 5 years and still tried to get back with me after I found my SO, go figure. I also met a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:04 AM |
| 21 | The Power of ✨Allowing Men To Feel Needed✨I think being vulnerable is necessary as well. I'm not really sure why my partner and I have this incredibly deep bond but he grew up around all women and just gets me. He's an interesting one because he hates makeup, but likes dresses and skirts on me but would still rather just have me be comfortable at any given moment so he likes to see me wear sweatpants. He already feels like he won the prize with me so I don't have to jump through any hoops to keep him interested. I just have to be me, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 07:45 AM |
| 72 | Always keep your coins snatchedMy ex husband promised me a financially secure life and I believed in him so I had his children (the 2nd was unplanned because by then I knew he wasn't going to hack supporting a family so I wanted to stop at one). Well he turned out to have low ambitions and it was a financial and emotional struggle raising the kids as I was a stay at home mom. He wanted to open a hot dog stand. To support a family of four!? Ultimately we divorced and he found a woman who makes a good deal of money more than hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:15 PM |
| 30 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveI've had several long term relationships and one marriage and these posts are so true. While those men did do things for me and spend money on me, they didn't give me affection or attention. My ex husband stopped holding my hand after we got engaged (after 3 months of knowing each other). I asked him later why he stopped, he said "I was courting you then." Courtship shouldn't end. Romance shouldn't end. I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and he has never taken me for granted that way.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:47 PM |
| 281 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.My own step dad who is 75 admitted to lusting after 22 year olds. He's a churchgoing "Christian" as well. I am totally disturbed but at least he was honest I guess. Men are pigs, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:12 PM |
| 11 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?I got so lucky with my guy. He was raised really sheltered and never got into porn though he admitted watching it (who hasn't)? He says eventually he would reveal his fantasies to me - they were so benign like having me drape myself over the side of the bed. I was so glad they weren't something super disturbing. I won't accept having my face cum on or anything like that and no woman should. I'm having passionate sex with a man who looks me in the eyes and kisses me, men who don't do that are pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 391 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingYep had two kids and my body was a bit destroyed. Kept catching him looking at porn. Now I've been divorced for a decade and my body is fully voluptuous and a guy that actually loves the hell out of me gets to enjoy it. I've never felt sexier and I'm pushing 50. Screw these guys, they are mostly porn addicts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 29 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...In the beginning of our relationship we went 50/50 but now over a year later he pays for most of our dates and is taking me on the trip of a lifetime. If they love and value you then spending money on you will feel awesome to them. Screw stingy scrotes, we don't need or want them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:10 PM |
| 14 | BruhAlcoholism can cause terrible poops and if a guy has a hairy butt and drinks a lot it's possible. I can't imagine jerking it to porn that much. Seems so life wasting and depleting. I'm going with alcohol and hairy butt lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:43 AM |
| 11 | FDS recommends being upfront about marriage/serious relationship goals to potential partners but FDS-Approved books say to never mention it?I second Baggage Reclaim, and yes men will typically value you / fight for you when you let them know you're not taking their crap. Then if that changes cause you fell in love / lust with them and do start taking their crap, they withdraw. So glad I found a man that never treated me that way. He values me every day through thick and thin and treats me like a princess. It's pointless to be with a man who is hot and cold and compartmentalizes you. You'll never get anywhere with this type ever. Dem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:31 AM |
| 17 | "No one likes a know-it-all" and other stupid things LV's say. Comment your own!"Sorry I just have to get my shit together, just give me some time". A year later he was still trying to get his shit together (was ruled by an ex wife he let completely control him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:14 PM |
| 22 | Starting to Regret Getting TattooedMy ex has a full sleeve and when he was really hungover one day I offered him a vitamin shot. He turned it down claiming he was " afraid of needles", go figure. Anyway he thought he was a badass and I'm like anyone can get tattooed, just like any woman can get breast implants. It doesn't make you special it just gives you attention. Unfortunately for women it's negative attention. I've always preferred to be extremely low key but don't judge others, I just like to fly under the radar as far as a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 11 | Psychologist ScroteI was always sexy for my husband but he couldn't stop looking at porn and I would catch him doing it, was very disturbing. I'm 47 now and still get a lot of male attention while he's fat and lost his hair and his libido (he's remarried). He told me he couldn't wait till i was sexually unattractive. That was ten years ago and it hasn't happened. The jealousy some men have towards women being hot is astounding. I have multiple men interested in me and I don't take them up. I can't be bothered anym… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 56 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Today's men have no prospects to care for a family. Most of them still live with a roommate into their 40s. They have a "must be so hard to be attractive woman" bitter mindset and feel entitled to an attractive woman. They will make you uncomfortable no matter how many times you tell them to stop. Lurkers, just stop. We let you know upfront we aren't attracted to you. You harass us when you keep trying. It feels bad to us, it IS harassment. Made me hate men till I found one good one but man some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.Thank you. I think he threatened to divorce her so she stopped talking to me. I just can't imagine being that desperate for a low value man. She was totally independent and had a great job. She really didn't need to settle but I guess they both can't live without a partner. I was on my own for about 8 years after the divorce. He wasted no time finding new partners and his now-wife. Just found someone a little over a year ago who treats me wonderfully. He was definitely worth the wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.He became really serious and threw himself into work projects like around the yard and the house. He wasn't sweet and affectionate anymore. Everything was about money and being responsible which was interesting since he grew up never having to lift a finger (wealthy family, maids) and the year before I married him he seemed like the most laid back fun guy. Once he quit the weed (which he asked me to help him with and I did) he just transformed into someone else. I felt really lonely in my marria… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:26 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Harrison and Calista don't seem to have a predatory relationship even though he's much older. I think they're two very eccentric people who get each other. I have this with my younger boyfriend. We are just soulmates. I feel like the Courtney / Doug thing was definitely an older man exploiting a vulnerable young woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:14 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Thank you, my brain wasn't working yesterday but that's them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:11 PM |
| 13 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”I agree. I'm 5'9" and I actually don't prefer really tall guys. I do like them a little taller than me though. My partners were mostly around 6', current bf is 5'10" and I love it. Maybe it's me being older but I have no hang ups about needing to feel more feminine with taller men. If you've ever hugged and kissed a man as tall or slightly taller than you you know what I mean. It's amazing. But 6'4" personally is too tall for me. I have a range I prefer but it's more based on sexual / physical d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 48 | [deleted by user]I'm thinking of that blond girl who dated a 50 yr old actor. I cannot remember their names but it ended eventually, she turned lesbian I think. Can't blame her. Old men using young vulnerable women are disgusting. If you are so pathetic that all you can get is young, dumb women, you are going to surely die alone because eventually they leave your old ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:44 AM |
| 84 | [deleted by user]Infants with size E breasts. The depravity is unreal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:38 AM |
| 110 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.Met my ex husband on a solo vacation overseas. I had my fun with him and was ready to go back home and he insisted I stay. I did. He proposed to me after a few months and promised me a wonderful life and that we would be able to split our time between our home countries. That never came true and he spent years blaming me for his misery of taking him away from his people, culture and language. After a decade I finally divorced him. He put me through the wringer with the guilt and he was the one h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:35 PM |
| 20 | LVM doesn't want women to be happyThey used to tell me that all the time in my early 20s. They say that to young women because they think they can get away with it and they think they're being flirty (it's just fucking annoying). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageSo so true. I'm in my late 40s, divorced, two teens with a boyfriend of just over a year who goes the extra mile for me because he knows I'm not trapped by him and I will ditch his ass in a heartbeat after all I've been through. He respects and admires all that I gave up being a wife for a decade and raising two kids. I remind him at times how easy he and his friends have it being never married and no kids, and that I'm not doing a damn thing for someone now who doesn't give back. He listened an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:10 PM |
| 57 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Had a similar thing with a guy. He was so incredibly boring and had mostly one word responses. How they text can really tell us a lot about them. I know much gets lost in translation but in cases like ours, you can almost guarantee they will bore you to tears, and are "guido" types - gym rats, think they're hot shit, probably no financial aspirations. Been there done that 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 10:00 PM |
| 4 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.I'm so glad to have a normal, monogamous, super committed man who makes me feel beautiful and loved every day and he never acts jealous, he'll just say stuff like "you don't need makeup, you have me now and I think you're beautiful the way you are". I tell him I'm still going to wear it and he's fine with that but I've been wearing a lot less and it feels great. I'm 47 and at some point it becomes less fun and more of a chore I can't always be bothered with. But anyway, I can't imagine being in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 44 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.I married a Latino. He claimed he was "progressive" because he'd grown up in other non-Latin countries part of his life. Bullshit. I found out after we married that he was as bad as every other guy from his home country. Thought I was his property, demanded respect and submission just for having been born with a dick, and placed ads I discovered, trying to cheat on me. But when other men hit on me he just let them. He never once confronted any of them. Even his friends who flirted with me. He re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:52 PM |
| 37 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.It has happened to several women I know, one died from her injuries from her jealous ex, and my own relative had to jump out of a car at 60 mph to save her life when she realized her ex was taking her to a remote location to murder her. Demonic creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:45 PM |
| 126 | Just a quick reminder: never ask a guy out.My boyfriend asked me for a hug the night we met out of the blue. Then he ended up kissing me. The next day he was super respectful and gave me space but he showed up every time we made plans and has been by my side for over a year now. You will know when they value and respect you. Respect is key, they will fight for your love and respect. If they don't, they never will. Just give it up. Don't waste years on men who string you along and take you for granted. Always go for men who love you even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 10:55 PM |
| 11 | And people were praising his honesty 🤡🤡🤡.Men are not okay. My mom's first husband tried to fuck her sister and even my aunt's husband flirted with her shamelessly. She is asexual, that probably made her more attractive to these cretins. I have two daughters and of course have thought a lot about bringing a man into my life because they are such sexual perverts all of them. I believe my partner sees them non sexually but I'm traumatized by all the shit I've seen men do to women because of their peens. I'm always on high guard. I truly w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 10:47 PM |
| 99 | And people were praising his honesty 🤡🤡🤡.Well it's not at all surprising and this is why being single is the best way to go. Male depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:25 AM |
| 202 | I will no longer be the only one who doesn't get an orgasm...Please make sure you get an orgasm every time. I've heard too many women saying they accept sex without that. Yes it can still feel good but what's going on that you think you can't have one too? If your man doesn't want you to come that says a lot. If they love you they will want you to. You might need to guide them but they'll try to make it happen. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 49 | Potent.But men are so oppressed! Ugh. Are you kidding me. Stories like this are everywhere. They are so selfish! Even my boyfriend who is the sun in my sky and treats me like a queen admits he's selfish. It's male nature. Me me me. Just go into any relationship with a man realizing that. The only ones who will change are the ones who really really wanted a girlfriend and are terrified of losing you. The rest will stay the same. Male nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 26 | Potent.My grandpa was at the bar all the damn time. He knocked my grandma up 4x. My aunt had to drag his ass out of the bar when my grandma was in labor with their last child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Preach.At least his ex wife moved on to a real man Adrien Brody, they seem so happy together. She must have been miserable with that disgusting toad rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 41 | men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it.My best friend is a gay man snd holy hell has he met a ton of crazy men. They love to say we're the emotional ones but so many of them are bat shit crazy and aggressive. My poor friend has had his property destroyed and been beaten and threatened by so many of them that he was nothing but kind to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:26 PM |
| 23 | Scrote ShitMen claim all the best chefs are men which is bullshit. Beside the point, most of them can't cook worth a damn and if they cook some basic meal like lasagna or spaghetti they think they're amazing cooks. I cook delicious meals from all different cultures every night and usually feed my father and he doesn't say anything most times. But give him a cheap ass $3 fast food hamburger and he'll be all over that. Most men eat like shit and it shows. They prefer fast food over home cooked foods in many … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:48 PM |
| 112 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youI hope women are truly learning from each other here. My friend is/was a pickme and chose to have a THIRD child with a complete douchebag. That child, her only son, hits her, does drugs and is having sex at like 15. She has no control over him and his dad is a useless Trump loving mysoginist. Her whole life is possibly destroyed by this little piece of shit and his dad completely influenced him. Please be careful out there ladies. Men are so toxic. They will suck the life out of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:40 PM |
| 173 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youYes learning from other women is so important! I'm glad you saw the light sister. I found my real soulmate a year ago and he has to hide his happiness from his friends. Men are such envious creatures. My boyfriend told me he felt that way too when one of his friends got a woman. Pure resentment and envy. Now I'm 48 and still we have to deal with jealous men. They betray each other all the time whether it be trying to get with each other's women or just being extremely envious of each other. Wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:35 PM |
| 66 | This is so real and it makes me sick.Thank you! Yes I really work hard to feed others and it's very often taken for granted. I recently told my boyfriend that I needed to be taken care of too and he really put in the effort to clean and cook for me. He knows I have options and I already raised two kids and it's my time to relax and enjoy at least this much. I can't see myself ever being with a man who doesn't help out a lot. At this point in my life I raised my standards considerably. I can walk away from any man. Kids are nearly g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:23 PM |
| 83 | This is so real and it makes me sick.I secretly hope my daughters don't marry. It's such a losing proposition for the majority of women. I do kind of want a grand child but even then, if they don't give me any I'll be ok with that. I just want them to never need a man for anything. They are mostly useless. Luckily they are both very ambitious and will make their own way in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 105 | This is so real and it makes me sick.Exactly. I was the one always taking my kids to the dentist, ortho, doctor, dermatologist, etc., driving them to school, meeting with teachers, planning parties, I can't even imagine my ex doing any of those things. He isn't a bad father but he, like most men, got an easy ride with parenthood. They get the most benefits with the fewest efforts. My kids are amazing students because of me but he refuses to give me credit for anything. Let's see, who read to them every night? Not him. Who helped wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 82 | This is so real and it makes me sick.I swear men literally live to be victims. They obviously get something out of it. There's a reason why most divorces are perpetuated by women by they fail to think about the logic behind that (that they are more burdensome than an asset to our lives). I even know a guy that made his wife leave their three kids behind maybe forever because he tortured her so much after they divorced. He refused to let her win in any way, stalked her relentlessly, took her to court relentlessly, to the point she r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:03 PM |
| 228 | This is so real and it makes me sick.I cooked the entire holiday meal for my family for years by myself. Some old crone I fed for years (my step dad's fathers girlfriend) actually thanked my then-husband for the meal when she knew full well I cooked it. It's just that the bar is so incredibly low for men and so high for women that even him mixing up a salad was praiseworthy, meanwhile I cooked the damn turkey and everything else and I don't even remember being thanked really. I finally got smart and stopped cooking holiday meals. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:52 PM |
| 198 | This is so real and it makes me sick.Every single father I've known think he's father of the year I swear. The bar really is set low. Meanwhile women actually grow babies, nurse them, do all the tedious stuff like school meetings, play dates, birthday parties, etc. Men can make microwave Mac n cheese and take a kid to the zoo and get applauded for his great parenting. Actual parenting is exhausting. They don't do it in the vast majority of cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:47 PM |
| 7 | Truly embarrassingI got so lucky, my bf is almost always hard as a rock and doesn't need to squash it in, he just grinds on me till he gets hard. Incidentally he also watches little to no porn, as far as I know none and I'm with him almost 24/7. My ex was impotent and sex happened only a few times in years so I deserve this. My bf actually apologizes if we don't have sex every day. I don't always want it but he's so fricking sexy I usually want it several times a day. Will never be with an impotent man again. It … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:08 PM |
| 28 | I honestly think that when women say they want a nice guy this is what we are talking about. This man is masculine but also very sensitive and kind to his wife, it is so nice and attractive. thoughts?I think of the movie Life is Beautiful. They are a real life couple of over 20 years. His adoration for his wife is so obvious. He romanced her in the most beautiful way, It's the "ask and receive" scene. I never wanted a bad boy like all these idiots believe. I wanted a man like this one and I finally found one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 18 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...Men have so thoroughly turned me off to them that I now require they be younger and fit for me to even consider them. My boyfriend is pure youthful sexual energy and half a decade younger, no fricking way I'm settling for an older guy, why should I? Women are waking up, we don't want marriage, we don't want men invading our space 24/7 like they want to, and we want great sex. So most men can sit the f*ck down because we are finally getting what WE want, it's not about you boring, angry scrotes. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:17 PM |
| 39 | Princess Diana: “I am a free spirit. Some don’t like that but that’s who I am.”I'll never forget the day she died. I was shattered. She deserved the life she was having finally with real love of a good man (as far as one could tell). Charles put her through hell. I'll say it again, men are not worth it 95% of the time if not more. Look at the men's rights subs if you dare, they are celebrating a serial rapist being released from prison WAY early. They love men who violate women, they are their heroes. Beware. They really show their true colors here on Reddit. Thanks scrote… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 20 | 🤭Detachable penis - King Missile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 11:49 PM |
| 22 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒I love how they love to reference the oppressed, apron wearing housewife of the 50s as being the ideal woman. Not any of them are prepared to be the sole breadwinner, buy two cars and a house and pay for the kids' colleges as depicted in this 50s fantasy, yet they want us to be submissive and dependent like that but also work full time and do the majority of the child rearing, house keeping and cooking. Hmm. Sounds like a great deal for men, no wonder they idealize that time period. What these a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 17 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefWell seeing as how obsessed they are with other guys' dicks I bet they wouldn't mind "accidentally" getting ball sweat drenched panties. But no way are women even close to be as stinky as men, between their feet, pits, butts and balls. I don't even touch my bf's underwear or socks. Can't imagine ever wanting to buy them but men are creepy AF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 79 | “Build with him”And if/when these wives divorce their terrible, greedy and shallow soulless husbands, you can bet husbands will become the victims and wHaMEn aRe EViL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 23 | And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy.They insinuate or blatantly tell you it’s your problem. “What do I need to do to make you come?” (In a frustrated sort of way). How about at least pretend that my orgasm is important and a turn on for you, rather than a mission impossible? It’s very mental for us, we don’t want to hear shit like that. That will endure we don’t come! If a guy acts like he’s just performing a duty, it’s a turn off full-stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 24 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??That part is even more disturbing than her boyfriend telling her she's got an unattractive body, and that is hella wrong and sufficient enough reason to leave his ass. But accepting he not only checks out and probably masturbates to naked women degrading themselves, he pays them for it! I honestly have no sympathy at all for her. None. She is going to be a doormat for as long as this slimeball sticks around, and play victim when she fully well knows he's trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 68 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??True, they have to have a non-death-gripped penis. My boyfriend is very sensitive which in turns makes sex a lot better for me. He doesn't have to go to pound town, he doesn't last overly long, he can feel what's going on in me, my energy, my pleasure, we are very connected that way. Unsurprisingly he doesn't watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:22 PM |
| 7 | Every damn time..And saggier! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:59 PM |
| 108 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesThey probably also dislike women like Scarlet because she doesn't give a shit, cuts her hair short, dresses normal, and doesn't use her sexuality to sell herself. They also hate Emma Watson and rated her looks low too for the same reasons. Emma is strong, independent, and doesn't give a fuck what men think of her. I'm sure many of you remember the outrage scrotes expressed when she said she didn't need or want a man and preferred her own company. Note the popularity of instagram "models". They p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:02 PM |
| 38 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂Im convinced all men really get something out of self-victimhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 99 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂They already have porn for every imaginable most repulsive thing out there, there is nothing left for the coomers and their mushy pornsick brains, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:54 PM |
| 56 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂Our souls and hearts vs theirs makes it impossible. Even if we had dicks it's not in women's' nature to destroy, abuse, intimidate, etc as it is in the nature of the male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡Thanks! I didn’t even notice haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Reason #8265 why our female-only space must be protected at all costs. Women simply don’t say shit like this. Lurking men might say he’s just a troll, but the reality is that we can’t afford to not take violent threats seriously. And of course Reddit only gave him a temp ban.This way the focus is off their shitty behavior and diverted to the woman’s reaction. They love to do this. Then they wonder why we get so gd fed up with them. Don’t forget the whole “she must have BPD” crap they throw at us. They’ll literally go to any lengths to blame us for everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:54 PM |
| 24 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.Geez I guess I got lucky with my ex husband. He would clean the house for me while I was at work and he wasn’t. My bf now cleans and cooks as well. I still do more than they did/do but at least they put some real effort in. That includes with sex. I have a few friends with really low effort men. I understand their resentment towards them, don’t understand why they stay. They drag them down. It’s no wonder women initiate most divorces. Marriage really is to primarily benefit the man. I’m probably… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:37 PM |
| 31 | FACTS 💯My boyfriend has chosen me over his friends a lot. Men can pretend to be bonded but they know nothing trumps the love and companionship of a woman. My ex recently texted me saying he’s been sober for months and realized his friends were idiots. I love my bf because he’s so unlike all the other men out there. All he wants is to be with me. The ex was too little, too late and now he wants to golf and shit with me. Men betray each other all the time. That’s why they need us so bad but then they can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 65 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.Makes you wonder what men will have to complain about on Reddit since no woman wants to procreate them or take “half muh stuff”. I have two teen daughters and id be perfectly happy if they never married or had kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 38 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡Wearing “too much” makeup even if you wear none then they’re fantasizing about makeup laden women. And basically anything and everything. They’re eternally jealous because we can get laid anytime even though we don’t. They’re just obsessed with our power in that department. They can all fuck off, I met one man in ten years I’m actually enjoying sex with, most of them suck at it so they have nothing to be jealous of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:26 AM |
| 16 | We need more kink shamingHe also thought he was so clever pretending to be out of town and left a receipt to a hotel from within their town in his car which she saw. They get the karma they deserve, we always find out, always. Listen up scrotes, we always find out. Always He even took a photo of the tv of a football game and sent it to my friend and said it was a good game and he was enjoying himself. He never left town. Men are such liars and really bad at it but they can trick us for awhile before we’re onto their sli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:35 AM |
| 22 | We need more kink shamingAbsolutely. He will never see his kids again and my friend is scarred for life, I can’t even imagine how the daughter feels and how her life has been destroyed. This same man also commented on my breasts to my husband at the time and he was ok with it. It’s so hard not to hate men I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:32 AM |
| 14 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?No one is protecting these kids it’s horrendous. We are living in a nightmare world for real. Male depravity trumps protecting children and women. It’s seriously all about their dicks and cooming. I love my daughters but holy hell I wish I could have shielded them from this world. It’s no place to live and raise children. It’s hell on earth now because of dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 25 | We need more kink shamingMy friend’s husband was sleeping with his own teen daughter he had met for the first time. She ended up testifying against him and he went to prison but it wasn’t enough he for what he did to her. She will never be ok. She will never be a normal, healthy person. All because of her dad’s disgusting desires. My friend was beyond devastated as you can imagine and divorced him immediately. I bet there are plenty of men who would defend him. I completely understand wanting to be celibate or a lesbian… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:03 AM |
| 45 | We need more kink shamingTonight I was at a bar eating and some guy walked up to another guy he knew and they conversed a bit and he said “life is good, I’m not working and I just jerk off and get high and drink all day”. I was mortified. They aren’t even ashamed anymore. No boundaries just pure hedonism and zero class. I was so offended honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:57 AM |
| 14 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYThey love to see it. Sick fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 45 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreMy therapist after about a year worth of sessions said something I don’t think she felt was professional but she said the majority of her clients saw her because of problems with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 12 | How is this even a question??!!This is repulsive. I would have been done with him the first date. My aunt married a guy who made her buy her own toilet paper. He didn’t let her have a car so she bicycled into town for stuff. She divorced his ass and married his best friend who set her up with a great life. Had his kids, got to travel the world with him. She’s a millionaire now and they’ve been married for 40 years, she became a professor in her later years just for fun, she didn’t need the money. Fuck these cheap ass men, why… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:22 PM |
| 6 | On today’s episode of MEN (TM) fetishists ruin EVERYTHING. 🤢🤢Yeah the feet thing is weird. I have nice feet and I hate being told by men this. It’s my feet. How about something about me like my intellect, personality, etc? My feet? I’m supposed to be flattered by your foot fetish? Don’t even get me started on boobs. I grew big ones a few years back and I can’t tell you how much men look at them. I started wearing unpadded bralettes to try to make them look smaller. I usually wear sweaters over my blouses too to further hide them. Maybe I’m a rarity but I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:56 AM |
| 20 | Epidemic of LVM in their 20sSmall wonder why there’s so many guys on Reddit saying they won’t pay for a date or get married or have kids, they cannot even support themselves. They literally just want to be bums probably living off ma and pa and be do-nothings their whole lives. The whole “family courts are rigged against men/ women are evil!” thing is just a cope for their failure to launch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:16 AM |
| 29 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!Yep. They talk about going overseas to find just such a woman because they do not see us as equals. They want a bangmaid, nurse, mummy, cook, emotional tampon, etc. They view us as chattal. Imagine the outrage if women wanted to find disadvantaged men overseas to use as personal slaves and warm bodies. You just can’t can you? And god forbid you want equality because to them that means we have to accept physical abuse and other shitty treatment just in order to be treated with the same respect an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Men, Integrity, PornGeez that’s absolutely horrid. I guess I haven’t looked around at it for a long time. I remember reading that porn producers were saying they just couldn’t do harder stuff with porn that was already out there but they got constant requests from men for harder and weirder stuff. This was 20 years ago too. Really tragic. Such an evil, evil thing porn is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 10 | Men, Integrity, PornMy ex of three years seemed so vanilla. He never asked for anything remotely kinky from me. Just regular PIV sex. He was abusive though and had a ton of issues. He was an IT guy. He gave me one of his old laptops. After we broke up I eventually needed to get a repair done on the laptop. The guy who fixed it told me it was full of erased cumshot on face porn. I was shocked. I never would have guessed he had that fetish. I was disgusted. You’d be surprised what stays in computers, even an IT guy c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅I, too, had horrendous periods until after I had a baby. After that the pain was greatly reduced. I think maybe because my uterus was stretched out. I used to have to curl up in a ball on the floor white as a ghost, sweating, oftentimes I would have diarrhea as well. The pain was so unbearable. It happened at work a few times and I remember my bosses rarely having any understanding or compassion for me. My teen daughter has horrible periods as well. My other one doesn’t, so it’s a very individua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardPickmes only care about the LVM they are with. I’ve had girlfriends that call or text me and right away know one of two things a) she’s fighting with her LVM or b) he’s going out of town and she wants to hang because she can’t be alone. Otherwise I don’t exist. It’s very sad. I flat out asked my friend of 30 years if she valued our friendship because she only reached out to me on the aforementioned occasions, she made up some excuse like she had just been overwhelmed with life. Too overwhelmed t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:51 AM |
| 163 | Say it LOUDERI do wonder why they don’t just go to the other side? They’re obsessed with us while simultaneously hating us. It seems like they’d be a lot happier just loving other dudes if women are so horrible and awalt. Maybe cause another man isn’t going to do everything they expect women to do for them including tremendous emotional labor. Trust me I know. I love my boyfriend to pieces but he unleashes all his bottled up emotions on me from his past. He also couldn’t live without me and cries at the thou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:27 AM |
| 34 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.I didn’t even want my husband in the room with me while I was in labor. At least he seemed to understand and didn’t throw a mantrum over it. The pain was so intense that the last thing I wanted was to see his face. Men don’t know the pain of menstruation, childbirth, pregnancy, breastfeeding (my nipples bled for days while I tried to accomplish this feat), all they gotta do is coom and then whine the rest of their lives about having to pay to raise their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:29 AM |
| 26 | Assholes are good at sex ...Most men aren’t concerned with your orgasm honestly. I’ve had several partners and only a few really wanted me to get off. The rest thought sex was just about them getting off to my body. The worst were actually the assholes. The more gentle the guy is, the more he tends to care but will probably need to be taught. It’s hard being a woman to get sexual satisfaction. Men make it harder for us than it should be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:01 AM |
| 14 | Just a reminder, LV/NV men only see you as an extension of themselvesI never changed my name after getting married. Years later my then husband said it had bothered him but he’d never said anything till then. We got divorced and that part was very convenient. My friend had been married 3 times and changed her name every time. Total pick me. Just keep your own damn name. It’s 2021. You don’t “belong” to a man ffs. My mom did take my stepdads name but she hyphenated it with hers. Still not going to change mine if I marry my boyfriend someday. I see no purpose at al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:00 PM |
| 46 | Just a reminder, LV/NV men only see you as an extension of themselvesOr how whenever a random animal is spoken of it’s automatically a male. How often do you hear someone call an animal a she. It’s always “look at that turtle HE is so cute!” Same with God, it’s some man in the sky apparently. Everything is male even in 2021. And then they say they are the oppressed sex. Give it up guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 36 | “Never give him second chances, we men are fully aware of our actions”The first time my ex laid his hands on me he cried later on and made me actually feel sorry for HIM. Well guess what? He did it again. And again. And again. And the second time and beyond he stopped apologizing and just indulged himself in his rage. I became his personal punching bag. When a man hits a woman he WILL do it again, guaranteed! That’s a perfect example of what Maya meant. People are who they are. In order to change it takes some serious introspection, therapy, tough life lessons. Me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 17 | “Never give him second chances, we men are fully aware of our actions”The story of my life, trying to rehabilitate broken men. Sacrificing my sense of self and happiness and inner peace in the process and blaming myself for how they were. “If only I were this way then they wouldn’t be that way”. No. It’s not your fault. There are an astounding amount of men out there with serious issues that will take you down, deplete your life force, make you doubt yourself, make you cry. They are never worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 19 | *Cries in spinster.*It feels WAY worse!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:02 AM |
| 39 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmYes I am. The bf who didn’t know about periods was basically homeschooled and I guess none of his exes ever explained anything to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 27 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmThat is really sad that you’ve never had an orgasm with a partner. But it’s easy street for women! Girl you need to demand to get yours too. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:36 PM |
| 126 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmIt’s crazy how little they know! I was having sex with this guy I was seeing and he asked me if I wanted some lotion. I figured he meant lube, I said sure. We hadn’t done any foreplay and I wasn’t all that aroused. He literally stuck his finger up me with it on there and I immediately felt an intense burning sensation. I asked what the hell kind of lube is this and he said it was hand lotion. I kid you not! How did he make it to 45 and...not know hand lotion isn’t lube and doesn’t belong in vagi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:33 PM |
| 36 | 🚩 RED FLAG ❗️🚩 making you live up to the “cool girl” personaA lot of them have serious issues with emotional intimacy so they use any excuse to sabotage the relationship. I dated a guy for about 3 months and one day I had a very stressful situation in my family and broke down in front of him and he used that to basically say I wasn't who he thought I was. So empathetic. I didn't want him after seeing his reaction to my stress. He still calls me drunk and tries to make it seem like HE broke up with ME over that. Not the case. He still tries to get me to f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:15 AM |
| 16 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!My friend had three kids with a scrote. She knew he was a scrote but her pickmeisha- ism was strong. She tolerated him going to strip clubs and spending more time with his creepy buddies than her and the kids, she finally broke down and screamed at him that she was divorcing him (after 20 years of his shit). I later saw him on OLD and messaged me saying he was lost and regretful about how he’d treated my friend. But as they tend to do he moved on super fast with another woman. Another pickme for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:05 AM |
| 26 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!I was a stay at home mom who had a hot lunch and dinner on the table every day for my husband. Then one day he said he was going to be busy at work and couldn’t come home for lunch, I found out he was having lunch with a female coworker he was crushing on. I knew he way lying, I always did. They can only trick us for so long. We always know something is up despite their tremendous efforts to cover their tracks. He’d also disparaged me to her and everyone I know including my own family and his. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:51 AM |
| 44 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadWomen enable these scrotes. They’ll stay with men who don’t say I love you, who don’t tell them nice things and do nice things for them and care for them, they’ll accept LVM just to not be alone. Then after the LVM cheats or does something to finally make them leave, they just find another LVM asap. It’s really sad to see. I put shitty men in their place and believe me they respect you for it, but if you let them walk all over you they are going to go to extremes to get away with whatever they c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 19 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoMy exe’s shower was immaculate - because he never went in it! My nose must be messed up because I never smell BO but I think they just apply deodorant each day they don’t shower, but I do smell bad breath and he never brushed his teeth but he would pick at them with this rubber thing. What was I thinking? Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 16 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoSay it ain’t so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:01 PM |
| 48 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoYeah not if you don’t wash your arse and feet properly and then rub that towel up your hairy butt crack it’s not. I’ve known some guys who just take a water shower, no soap 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 28 | The phrase "SWERF" is corporate propaganda. The porn industry is attempting to shield itself from scrutiny by hiding behind the very laborers that they exploit. Sex workers are a class of oppressed, marginalized, exploited workers, not human meat shields for protecting industrial interests.I agree! I was just thinking I needed to say this, and I rarely say these things but I’m super impressed by OP’s eloquency, truth and insight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit ManosphereI was curious too. There’s quite a few but my guess would be the one where men supposedly go their own way but hate women so much their sub is quarantined, I think mostly because another one of their subscribers murdered some people, or pussy pass denied which is a sub for men who get off watching violence towards women, but there’s too many to know. Reddit is a misogyny cesspool. I’m wondering if the “life coach” person is Jordan Peterson? I don’t know much about him though. Hard to believe the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 29 | The reasons behind the myth of short men having a “hard time” dating is other men, their own insecurities and how vicious they are to a taller woman who dares to show any interest.Same. I’m tall and they teased me in high school then they fetishized it in college (especially older men). I dated a few guys shorter than me but it didn’t last. They pulled away out of insecurity. I spent a combined 13 years living with men who were about 6’ and even then one of them didn’t love me wearing heels out and about with him (made me about the same height). My boyfriend only an inch taller than me but it made all the difference compared to the guys I dated who were an inch shorter. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 48 | As it should be.Some guy I had a regrettable one night stand with slut shamed me over texts after he realized I didn’t want to be his girlfriend. The audacity. He can have a one night stand but I am the slut for doing the same. Typical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:31 PM |
| 21 | As it should be.They live in fantasy land. They want a young, beautiful virgin and the few who actually get that take full advantage of her to be the dogs they are. I’ve seen it with my teenage daughters’ friends. The teenage boys, once they are sexually active, will cheat. Adult men, teen boys - they’ll all cheat given the chance, and these are scrotes way less attractive than their girlfriends. I was 15, pretty, fit, loyal, and my 18 yr old bf cheated on me because I wouldn’t have sex with him, because I was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 27 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡It’s tragic. My boyfriend canceled his Netflix over that teens twerking movie. He encouraged others to do so on his Facebook feed and got no likes or comments really. Society has become so numb sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 32 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡My ex let me throw his porn videos in a dumpster outside our home. He later tried to retrieve them. I was floored. I feel sorry for his current wife, he is most certainly still consuming it 20 years later. He started in his teens and is 45 now. He didn’t respect me and in fact told me after we split up that he always thought my vagina would belong to him. I wasn’t a human being but a walking fleshlight . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 60 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡“We made love” - I doubt she saw it that way. More like you had disengaged sex with her while thinking about porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Guess what, my lovelies. I still like good abs... And I can not lie...Yep. I went out with a very tall man from my past who had gained a bunch of weight I didn’t know about. But then he didn’t even buy me a freaking beer. I’ll say this again - I finally, after most of my life being with overweight men who didn’t give a shit, got myself a slender, toned athlete and let me tell you the sex is incredible. The difference is night and day. My ex husband never once hit the gym during our ten years together until we separated and he wanted to attract other women. I never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 23 | PSA: Ladies, don't post self identifying content using the reddit account you participate in FDS with. And PLEASE don't cross post in beauty subs with your face!Meanwhile another young white guy shoots up a bunch of innocent people, the latest one in love with a cartoon character from My Little Pony. Then they have the audacity to take one rare incident involving a woman to try to prove that “women are just as bad”. They live in an alternate universe where denial rules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:13 AM |
| 9 | PSA: Ladies, don't post self identifying content using the reddit account you participate in FDS with. And PLEASE don't cross post in beauty subs with your face!One of them got me banned for 3 days, pretty sure it was a “woman” if you know what I mean. They went back years into my comments which is really psycho imo. Just being on this sub gets you tons of hate yet their actually disgusting subs can exist and it’s all good. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Amazing that the men who love me tell me not to date and stay away from men.Mine too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:30 PM |
| 28 | ✨ mood ✨Ugh, he should have respected your feelings and let it go. I let my ex husband do that one time, it hurt. I did not enjoy it. He never asked for it again not once. My ex husband had a lot of issues but he was an amazing, caring lover and it’s hard to find men like that. I dated a guy that really tried to force me to lick his butthole. I clearly didn’t want to and he was very aggressive, grabbing my head and trying to shove my face down there. I want nothing to do with where poop comes from. I’ve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 30 | Do men that dont watch/dislike porn even exist?My ex husband was obsessed with sex with me and still I caught him many times jerking to porn. It was heartbreaking. He was a sex addict. I didn’t know. I was naive. It carried over into him looking for other women to fuck which I caught in his email inbox. Men try to cover their tracks so damn carefully and usually fuck up at least at some point in their sexual pursuits. Women are way smarter than them with that stuff. Anyway, caught him and never saw him the same way again. The porn was bad en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:30 AM |
| 10 | Do men that dont watch/dislike porn even exist?I will admit to have occasionally fallen prey to porn and I really honestly find it boring and it really sucks so much energy out of you by removing your own beautiful imagination from the equation. There’s no romance, it’s just raw sex and watching others orgasm. I realized it just doesn’t do anything for me even the low key stuff I checked out. And I decided I couldn’t be a part of that industry. If you are horny enough, you don’t need porn, it artificially amps you up. It’s a choice you make … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 38 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"I know what you mean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 7 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.Men love to harass us any way they can. I was driving with my teen daughter the other day and turned into a lane and some guy felt I cut him off (he literally had to get into the left lane anyway because it was a turn lane!) He proceeded to flip me off at the next light when I pulled up beside him. He didn’t stop flipping me off for a good two minutes as we drove pretty much side by side. My daughter got a real good taste of male aggression. Tough guy wouldn’t have done that to another man. They… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:02 AM |
| 73 | Globally we perform 66% of the work, earn 10% of the income and own 1% of the property. It makes me shudder to know there are women out there hApPiLY squandering that 10% away on a 50/50 date or rElAtIoNShIPMexico is such a violent place for women (and men). I remember all the women being killed on the border by Juarez years ago. Dozens and dozens. They also have a huge problem in India with violence towards women. Both women and men protested but I don’t know if it changed anything. There is worldwide hatred towards women. Something must be done. We do have a long way to go. Look at the male backlash to metoo, they think that women are just making shit up about being assaulted. They can go die in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:52 AM |
| 5 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsIf you ever look at the men’s rights activist subs, my god the posters here are vastly more eloquent, witty and intelligent than their base, recycled complaints about women, Chad, half muh shit, go to the gym, get money, etc. They must hate that fact but I guarantee you they are fascinated by us and constantly lurking! I would be too if I was a basic loser of a male threatened by intelligent women with high standards. I’ve even been threatened to be doxxed by some of them. They have the most dep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:45 AM |
| 3 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsThat $100 sHe sPeNdS oN hErSelF because children don’t cost a thing to raise! Also “half muh shit” aka nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:34 AM |
| 17 | We should all pay attention to what empowerment really means in our society and who comes up with the definition of it! Taking advice from the oppressing class is not the way to go.Absolutely. I was married to a man who promised me the moon and failed to launch. I ended up a single mom living with family. I’m enormously grateful for a roof over my head but not a day goes by that I don’t dream of a place of my own. My ex has a home and a fancy truck and pays almost nothing in child support. My dad does more for my kids than he does. I’m sad that I believed in him not only as a person but a provider and he failed on both fronts. He’s living a much better life than me and sti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | A lot of criticisms of women are just male projection when you really think about it.I was fighting on the phone at a stoplight with my now ex husband and I was yelling and some guy pulled up next to me and flipped me off and told me to stfu. Only men are allowed to feel anger. Men cannot handle anger in women. They’ll stfu when another man gets angry at them though. Bunch of cowards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:31 PM |
| 19 | I said what I said. Stay mad.Straight men would fuck a man or an animal or a tree. They don’t care as long as there’s a hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticisms of women are just male projection when you really think about it.Too true sister. Too true. I’ve been through all that shit with men. Criticizing my makeup, being too pale, etc. meanwhile I’m aging a fuckton better than they are. They all get baggy eyes by age 40 and look like shit. Enjoy that tan boys, also enjoy those early onset wrinkles you all get. I’m not tanning to please any scrote. I’m not gonna stop wearing makeup either or dress differently. Men are very very insecure. They constantly fear losing us and at the same time trying to mold us into what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:31 PM |
| 15 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅Another thing, two pregnancies and breastfeeding each child for 9 months completely depleted me and I had no energy for several years. My ex husband had plenty of energy because all he had to do was have two orgasms. Then they think they’re doing more work than us. I gave up years of my well being to grow and nurse and raise his children. Women will never get respected for that. My bf now certainly does, he absolutely respects me for being a mother, but there is a ton of guys out there that thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:22 PM |
| 51 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.He’ll change the diapers a couple times and become DaD oF tHe YEAr in his own mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 23 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅This is insane. I just don’t understand how women can even entertain men like this. I’ve been sick and my room got messy and my boyfriend has cleaned it up several times without me asking, definitely never wanted an award for it. Anytime I made us food he’s thanking me. That’s some real labor but often taken for granted. This guy folds some laundry of his clearly exhausted partner then gets online looking to be exalted for it. Unreal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 83 | This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys.Oh no, I thought at least those two were spared. What are some women thinking? I haven’t let a man anywhere near my daughters alone for their entire lives ever. They are nearing adulthood now and I will never regret giving up a potential love life to put them first. I have been through too many horror stories with men and their dicks, including my stepdad hitting desperately on my mom’s sister. They will literally go so far to get off. Destroy lives, marriages, relationships, just to get their d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:01 AM |
| 36 | This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys.Same. Always allowed them to go to sleepovers so long as their was a woman in the house. I can’t know for a fact they were never molested. Kids don’t open up like that to their parents usually. I have had to hope for the best although I constantly worry for my daughters because of all the sick sick sickos out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:10 AM |
| 158 | This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys.This is the part of the single mom stigma that irks me the most. We are stigmatized by these loser guys because we didn’t stay with abusive men who didn’t show their true colors before we married them? Being a single mother is the hardest fucking job on earth. None of us went into this wanting this life. No you never truly know someone, even after years of being with them, decades even, they may reveal something that crushes your heart into a million pieces and ends the innocence. It’s happened … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:06 AM |
| 21 | This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys.Sounds fascinating, I’ll definitely check it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:03 AM |
| 212 | This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys.Ted Bundy had a LTR with a single mom he never hurt. He wanted to kill all the other women though. Crazy stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 11 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.Thanks so much! I’m a proud mama bear for sure. Just happy that they realize men/boys are so not worth the misery, and that they’re enjoying their friends and hobbies. That’s where it’s at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:31 AM |
| 11 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.I’m starting to think ring size inversely correlates with how much a man actually respects his partner. Seriously. I’m picking up on a pattern here. My friend’s now ex husband told me one night he had bought my friend a huge diamond ring that cost $3k and asked me if she would like it. It turns out he was cheating right and left on her and this big purchase assuaged some of his guilt. My biggest pick me friends are all highly educated or skilled in some trade. I’m the artist that required true l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:25 AM |
| 112 | They hate confident women because they can’t control us!You can’t be too successful, get too much attention, make too much money, be too much hotter than them, etc etc. Men are totally insecure, sometimes they even want their partners to gain weight or at least not lose any in case they upgrade, but then they lust after other women too. They are the biggest, most needy and insecure creatures. Look at their subs. Most of them were/are shitty partners and can’t stand that a woman left them, but it’s always her fault or all of womankind’s fault because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:36 AM |
| 25 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.Yeah it’s sad to see. I have a few female friends that are lost without a man and when they’ve broken up or divorced they made it their life mission to find another man asap, then when they find some LVM to please they get so smug about it and I’m just realizing even more how happy I was being single. They just identify as some LVM’s woman. Now they’re all having problems with their LVMs. How surprising. But they will stay, because they are pickmeishas, and I’ll only be good as a friend when the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:22 AM |
| 55 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.I dislike that so much. I used to do gig work. I’d here stuff from couples like “WE don’t like (this or that)”. I’m like, we’re you ever individuals, did you morph into the same person? It’s so weird to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 86 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.Good for you! My 17 yr old daughter is learning coding and has zero interest in guys. She’s thinking of her future and dreams of going places and having her own financial security. I’ve been telling both my daughters to focus on other things than male validation. At their age and in these times it can only end badly. If you can’t find a sweet, gentle man out there it’s so much better to just go it alone. I can’t tolerate even the tiniest smidge of male aggression anymore in any form. I truly lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.He kinda started going there but not in a scary way. Just seeing me online and calling me his pet name he made for me, I finally just stopped going on social media at all in part due to him always lurking around for my presence. He was harmless I’m sure, but just completely clueless and in constant denial that he had no chance with me. I actually think he’s a kind hearted guy but men are so damn delusional and just want what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 11 | Scrotes Are Mad 🗣😂My boyfriend has beautiful hair at 42, doesn’t watch porn and is very loving towards women (me, his sisters, his mom, female friends). My ex husband was a huge porn addict from his teens and was losing his hair at 25 when I met him. Another guy I know was so hot in his teens and he got a girl pregnant at 16 then went on to have 4 more kids with very attractive women, he lost his looks and hair by his mid 30s and was hitting on me at a party, I was like wtf, I always saw him like a brother and ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 14 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.Yeah I think about that every time I see him. What a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:36 AM |
| 52 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.Another HVM is Hugh Jackman who just celebrated his 25th wedding anniversary with his wife, 15 years older than him and seems like the antithesis of a Hollywood wife. Nothing fake, just a normal looking woman. He tweeted he loved her with all his heart. Wish so much they could all be like him and Keanu and Pierce Brosnan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:31 AM |
| 44 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.I befriended a much older man. I was 38, he was like 60. The first time we went out, I thought as friends, he tried to kiss me as we were crossing at a major traffic light in my city. I was mortified. First of all, I never gave him any cues that I liked him that way, (we met at a game we both play and he wanted to go paint the town and I agreed because he was a charismatic guy, by no means a date) and second of all, he also had rotten and awful teeth and smelly clothing. I had zero attraction to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:24 AM |
| 11 | "dating for a free meal"And a lot of these scrotes will drop good money on their bruhs in one night at the bar so the bruhs keep “liking” them. My ex dropped easily $100-200 a night at the bar buying drinks for his buddies, who were hitting on me behind his back. Men are the real opportunistic parasites in my observation. They just pretend women are. It’s all projection. I never dated a guy who didn’t at least try to buy me several dinners. They can tell themselves they’re the prize till the cows come home, but they ai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 13 | Preach it 👏🏻Truth ladies. What you see is what you get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:50 AM |
| 9 | You can't have it both ways. They've always needed us more than we need them. Never forget it.I know some women who went that route and have the cutest kids ever. Why risk it with some unattractive scrote whose gonna make your life hell if he has to actually work and pay for his child/children if you split up. “Half muh shit”. They don’t want to pay they prefer to be bitter and controlling. If I had to do it all over I’d have gone to a sperm bank. I literally get no support only hell from my ex, and my poor kids have been the collateral damage. People say kids need a dad. No they don’t. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:21 PM |
| 4 | The lower status, poorer performing men treat women with "hostility." Higher value, higher skilled men treat women better. Once you see this truth, you will begin to see this everywhere.So true. When I was in college I gave this short guy a chance who had been pursuing me. I realized I just wasn’t attracted to him not because of his height necessarily but other things. I distanced myself and he stalked me and showed up at my classes when I was walking out and asked me what was up. He was really angry and needed an explanation as to why I just didn’t want to date him. I think he wanted to hear it was because he was short but it wasn’t. Another shorter guy I dated lost his shit w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Standing up for women has never been popular, which explains the backlash against FDS. It's worth it because I can already see our culture changing. More and more women are choosing to be bold, have non-negotiable boundaries, and speak up unapologetically.I just used the term pickme on my 17 yr old daughter and she totally got it. I was so proud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:01 PM |
| 26 | Why comparing small dicks with small boobs is a massive false equivalenceSo true, and they are all obsessed with their dick size. I’ve gotten many DMs from guys about this topic asking me what is acceptable for pleasure. The monster cock porn isn’t helping for sure. They can dish it out but can’t take it. Women should be busty with tight asses but they can be themselves, small dicked or flabby or whatever. Such a double standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:41 PM |
| 13 | Why comparing small dicks with small boobs is a massive false equivalenceI’m glad you got them removed, I’m sure that gave you a lot of peace of mind and fuck what men like! I was small breasted all my life then my 40s hit and I got big ones now and I don’t even like them because I feel I looked better in clothing before. I do get attention for them and I honestly hate it. I like my body because it’s mine and I embrace it but I definitely wouldn’t mind going down a few sizes. I am way over caring what men think of my body and am all the way about comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:37 PM |
| 76 | Why comparing small dicks with small boobs is a massive false equivalenceThat’s terrible. What is wrong with some men? I hope you stayed natural, fuck these shallow guys. It’s one thing to find certain things attractive but to shame someone for not having those things is really shitty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 48 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.The self-pity and victimization is insane! Nearly every man I’ve had a relationship with has lived to be a victim. They literally get off on it. The whining from men is really something else. Just look at their subs here, it’s never their fault for anything that’s gone wrong in their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 13 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.So true. My boyfriend sometimes burdens me with emotional stuff but he has a group of tight knit friends that are so awkward with each other they could never talk about any of the stuff he puts on me. I’m happy to listen and be there for him but sometimes it’s a little too much. He’s really needy for me which is fine because he’s a wonderful, caring man towards me but I don’t want to hear about women being the emotional ones when I know firsthand that men are the real children if you will. Even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:12 PM |
| 115 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”Thank you for raising your sons so well. It takes effort although with my daughters I basically said if you want something done for you, do it yourself. They’ve been doing laundry since they were 10 and keep their rooms immaculate. They are learning how to cook, I am an avid cook and my oldest has really learned the skills passed down from my mom and grandma that I’ve taught her. The younger one is a baby at heart but I’m trying to teach her life skills, it’s imperative to know how to cook and p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:00 AM |
| 4 | "CoMmUnIcAtE"Thank you, it’s a difficult time especially for young women, the porn epidemic is beyond damaging to all involved. I try to be a good mom, I will certainly fight for them as long as I live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 11 | "CoMmUnIcAtE"I have two teenage daughters and this pornsick world just kills me. Maybe literally. I’m so saddened for what my daughters will likely inevitably go through. I’m so sick of men complaining about me too when I’ve been raped and almost every woman I know has been raped or assaulted in some way. I swear I’m going to get medieval on the ass of any guy I find out hurt one of my daughters. They better stay the fuck away. The damage they’ve done to society because of their dicks is atrocious and there … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 36 | A hard truth I've come to understand about 50/50:My ex husband bought me chunky jewelry that was so not my type just because he liked it and wanted to see me wearing it (I never did). He also bought me the same perfume his sister wore because again, he liked it. Men will often try to mold you into someone you’re not. Ultimately I wasn’t his dream woman and we divorced, he’s remarried to someone who is also not his dream woman but a total pickme so I guess they’re good. He was ultra machismo and that’s probably part of why I went to the other s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”“unwashed sasquatches” - I nearly spit out my coffee 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:43 PM |
| 4 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”Oh dear. Well at least he tried lol. I had a regrettable ONS with a guy whose sheets smelled like garlicky sweat. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:20 PM |
| 7 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”Dated a guy for a few months who questioned my clothes and makeup yet his house was falling apart literally and was full of dust and the plumbing barely functioned and the swimming pool was full of leaves and dirt. Not to mention I was wayyy better looking than him! In fact he got really triggered when some random guy saw us together and said “hey man, how’d you get such a pretty woman” lmao. He was so hurt by that. Another time he thanked me for wearing flats out on a date because then we were … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 5 | The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone.My boyfriend is a total nerd but very not shy and that’s what does it for me. The nerdy / brave combo is the best imo. Shy guys just bore me. I need someone full of life to keep me interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Apparently struck a nerve with my last post. Dude chose to ignore the “FDS Humor” flair lmao...I know of a really homely woman who got herself laid and impregnated at 40 by some random guy at a bar. She didn’t involve him as the father, she just wanted a baby I think. He wouldn’t have wanted to be involved anyway, it was just a drunken one night stand. But yeah men will screw anything or anyone if there’s a wet hole involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:03 AM |
| 47 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.My dad is a widower and I cook dinner for him almost every night, he cannot even boil a pot of water. He’s in his 70s. I’m also raising two children. I always think how nice it would it be for someone to cook for me for once. It’s a very rare occasion. People also tend to take it for granted, I hear a thank you maybe 1 out of 10 times I cook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Who’s going to tell them?Ugh men these days. At least Reddit men. They’re all the same. No original thoughts, just total hive mentality. Let’s see - go to gym, “invest” in stonks, listen to and worship guys like Musk and Rogan, Bitcoin, hookers, travel, video games, porn, weed, huge yawn fest of predictability and ultimately they still end up in their mom’s basement with $30 in bitcoin and zero money left in their RobinHood account, playing video games all day even at 35 years old, they love to pretend they don’t want a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Who’s going to tell them?Hmm. Well I have to disagree. Nearly all my exe’s good friends have hit on me either while I was still with my partner or after we’d broken up. The things men say about each other to us women when the “friends”‘aren’t around is very telling. Many men are not loyal to each other at all. They may need each for companionship but it doesn’t mean they necessarily like each other or wouldn’t sell them down the river if a good opportunity came up. Men are selfish. They put themselves first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”First of all, I was here in this sub when there were 30k people and I was assigned flair for my contributions. I don’t pretend to be the perfect FDS ambassador. I am very much a radical feminist however, and I am with a man who also truly thinks of women as not only equals but superior to men. You keep spouting off without backing up your claims that my relationship does not align with fds values. Please elaborate. You honestly sound really bitter. This is a sub for women to support each other, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 8 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Thank you 😊 That’s something to look forward to someday, getting a kitten with him. He’s always wanted one and they are so much fun. No cat can ever replace the one I lost though and you are right, the pain never really goes away. I’m blessed to have one of the sweetest cats ever though. He lived at a different house that I’m now at. He’s getting up there in age but he’s been a part of my kids’ lives almost their whole lives and absolutely adored them from day one. He looks for them when they’re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Thank you. I’m one of the older women here and I am well aware of red flags and have shared a lot of cautionary tales here after decades of life experience. I always find it curious when other women express doubt that I found a good man, that something must be amiss and I must be naive. I am hardly naive at this point in my life, and I have gone into this with my eyes wide open. And the cat wasn’t hurt at all and I think most people would have done the same thing. My boyfriend loves cats but fra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Yes he gave him a black eye. It happens. And we’ll just have to agree to disagree here. If an animal is damaging my face I’m gonna smack it away, sorry. I take very good care of my pets but I draw a line too. My boyfriend was showering him in affection when he did this. He’s hardly a poor or sketchy choice of a partner because of this or anything else you’re referring to. I find it odd that you had to parlay my comment into dissing on him when he’s been an incredibly kind and loving man to me an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 12:21 PM |
| 10 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”He scratched him 4 times in a row and gave him a black eye. Sorry but I disagree that you can’t smack a cat when they are battering your face. He wasn’t just “annoying” him. The cat is a jerk, period. He’s never been abused but I also do not just let him get away with him hurting people. Do you suggest praising him? I mean come on now. And no my boyfriend would not smack me. He didn’t smack him hard at all but who just sits back and allows a cat to attack their eyes? Ridiculous comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:35 AM |
| 4 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.My ex husband has it so good. I raised our kids and he was fun weekend dad. I challenged them with school work, read books to them, took them to all their activities, chauffeured them, did the bday parties, took them to the hospital with broken arms and rotavirus, etc, while fun weekend dad just spent money on them and called himself dad of the year because I turned out two wonderful human beings. I was the CEO of my children and their dad will always take credit for my work. But they know. They… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 06:11 AM |
| 6 | Scrotes are mad over the new Lola design. They are mad over a CARTOON bunny who is no longer sexualized!!Absolutely! So glad they let us know early on sometimes how their minds work and who we’re dealing with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 8 | men on reddit really believe this........Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:56 AM |
| 21 | men on reddit really believe this........They spend more money on their $40k small dick-compensation trucks than supporting their kids. Ask me how I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:49 AM |
| 21 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”I found my kitten in an empty bag of cat food in an abandoned house overrun by strays. He was hissing at me like crazy. Little black kitty with a white chest. I took him home and he became my closest companion through my divorce. He would sense my pain and put his paw on my hand and sleep with me all night. I loved the hell out of him for three years then one day he died from antifreeze poisoning. I still hurt from that and it’s been 7 years. I feel like he always knew I rescued him and was so i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:29 AM |
| 8 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”My cat is gay I swear. He loves men and he loves my boyfriend even more than me. Once my cat scratched his eye, he just got overstimulated while my boyfriend was petting him. Boyfriend was not happy and gave him a smack but a few days later he was petting him again and being all sweet to him. I took that as a good sign! Turns out he really is such a forgiving, patient man. Cats can be aholes not gonna lie. I have two and the other is a total sweetheart who can’t even bite you if you tickle his b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:16 AM |
| 10 | 🎶If he touches me (without consent) then I will taze his ass⚡Men hate seeing women get mad or stand up for themselves. They just can’t handle it, so thanks for posting this kind of stuff. Male woman hater lurkers can go die in a hole. The rage they feel at women feeling enraged is truly sickening. They’re beasts who are too cowardly to take their issues out on other males so they target women. Hence all the murders of women they commit. And they think they’re the better sex. One woman does something insane and they’re all over that like white on rice and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 45 | Scrotes are mad over the new Lola design. They are mad over a CARTOON bunny who is no longer sexualized!!Reddit has made me see things I just can’t erase from my mind ever. The piss bottles, the anime porn, the mountains of wadded cum tissues, the misogyny, the violent fantasies towards women, what’s not to love about men after discovering this place? Sick sick world we live in. This is the toilet of the Internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:35 AM |
| 28 | Scrotes are mad over the new Lola design. They are mad over a CARTOON bunny who is no longer sexualized!!It’s like watching the fall of Rome these days, and men will defend their degeneracy to the very end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:33 AM |
| 30 | Scrotes are mad over the new Lola design. They are mad over a CARTOON bunny who is no longer sexualized!!I dated a guy who got drunk one night and talked about how “hot” Jessica Rabbit was. I never saw him the same way again. Men have issues I want no part of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 10 | Why sex positivity always harms women and why I'll never accept it.I contributed to one of the many negative reviews on Amazon for that book. Absolutely awful writing and did nothing for most women. I didn’t know her husband had connections. Makes a lot of sense now because that book was a joke. She’s so rich now off that crap it’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:00 AM |
| 19 | Why sex positivity always harms women and why I'll never accept it.So many men love to refer to that book’s success to say women love porn and kink. It’s such crap. It became one of those books and movies people checked out because it got so popular, but most women aren’t into that stuff. I’ve tried a little bit outside my comfort zone and it’s not who I am, and I’m not surprised that the men who wanted me to do these things with them are perpetually single. I personally think you have issues if you need to tie someone up or choke them or whip them or whatever.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 3 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPWhat a beautiful post! Thank you sister! He DOES love me for all I’ve been through. He’s always telling me how smart and worldly I am. He really admires me and that’s a new and wonderful feeling to get from a man. I think others didn’t want to tell me great things about myself because it’s male nature to keep a woman down, but this guy really does let me know and he’s brutally honest with everything so I may he getting a bit of a big head being with him haha. It’s really fantastic though. He saw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPThe poverty has been tough. I’m working on that and I’ve had to ask for help from family because my ex doesn’t pay hardly anything for child support. The same guy who wants to shout to the world look how great my children are, I didn’t even have to pay for them while my ex wife had to live with family for a decade to give them the best schools and life, I am fAtHer oF tHe yEar!! He paid more for his massive truck than he has paid in child support in 7 years. I realize I’m an outlier in not going… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:25 PM |
| 18 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.I agree. He’s tried a few times and I’ve stopped him because I haven’t showered that day and now he thinks I just don’t want it. I definitely do but he’s not as good as my ex husband and I could tell him what to do but sometimes I feel like it’s just easier to go with the boobs because those never fail me (super erogenous zone for me). I never liked giving head unless they finished fast but it’s still never fun honestly. For me anyway. I’m very content with my current partner because he never as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:12 PM |
| 6 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.Yeah I’m jealous of my boyfriend’s ex just because I know she could come that way. I really would love to do this with him and he would love it to. First off, he doesn’t last long so I don’t know what was up with her because few women can come that way in minutes. I’m thinking of using something if there is some toy that could help because I can only imagine how good it would be. I did come that way with my ex husband sometimes but he was could really last and all about my pleasure. We did it to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 17 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.I had to straight up tell my boyfriend I need to orgasm too and that if I didn’t, there was no reason for me to have sex. He’s an amazing sweetheart of a man but was absolutely clueless when I found him. I’m teaching him but I think there’s always that part of men that want to just be done when they’re done. I’ve noticed he’s become more excited by pleasing me now that he feels skilled lol. But he knows it means a lot to me, especially after 6 years in a dead bedroom relationship, plus several f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 21 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.There are guys that make sure their partners orgasm first. Sometimes I have my boyfriend do that for me because he doesn’t last long and it works him up as opposed to that feeling after they orgasm that they just aren’t that into pleasing the woman anymore. I still make mine though, if he chooses to go to pound town first. Don’t care how tired he is, I’m getting mine too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 8 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.I just touch myself while he licks my nipples because honestly a lot of guys are bad at oral and it would take me too long with some of them, so I found something that works for me. I can only climax maybe 10% of the time with PIV and although my boyfriend feels amazing, he doesn’t last nearly long enough for me to do that with him. He doesn’t initiate oral very often and he’s never asked me to go down on him and I’m happy with that trade off because I don’t love giving head. We found something … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 7 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.I’ve had several partners who were too lazy to pleasure me. My longest relationship was of ten years and he genuinely liked to get me off, I guess he was a rarity because a lot of men just cum and will even get up and leave, leaving the woman horny and unsatisfied. My current partner was pretty clueless and I had to tell him very upfront that if he orgasms, so do I. He hasn’t acted resentful at all which is good because if he ever does, I’ll go find a man who likes to pleasure his partner. I wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 14 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPThe patriarchy tells us single mothers are the worst people out there. Women are expected to stay with shitty men or be stigmatized. Fuck that noise. My life became infinitely better once I left my husband. We have a right to be happy and he wasn’t cutting it. Kind of hard to be happy when you’re husband is constantly thinking of other women and ways to hook up with them but oh, I’m supposed to feel bad that I left that? I’m supposed to feel bad that I didn’t remain in a toxic relationship with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 32 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPEven the ones with jobs bring nothing. Women will always be the ones sacrificing themselves while men want medals just for working and maybe doing a small percentage of the household and child rearing duties. Then they all cry foul when the woman leaves, and they don’t believe in supporting the children clearly because all they do on those misogyny subs is bitch about losing “half muh stuff” and having to pay for the raising of their children. Also don’t forget, wOmEn hAvE it sO eAsY. I’ll tell … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 38 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPThis happened to me as well. An abusive ex caused me so much stress that by the time I finally left him, I was so skinny and pale and sickly looking. I later met my (ex) husband and for a time was quite happy and got my looks back. After years of catching him wanking to porn (he would even wank it to girls gone wild), and found out he’d placed an ad looking for side pieces, I started looking like crap again. All my photos tell the story and timeline of my experiences with these guys. One day aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 8 | ED is no excuse for a dead bedroomI spent 6 years off / on with a guy who fucked me ONE time in earnest. A handful of times he could go then get soft then go again but he finished only once in those 6 years. I was so sexually frustrated. I thought I really liked him and I guess I did at the time so I just accepted it and got myself off. He still talks to me and professes his love for me. Really? Love? He never tried to pleasure me in any way. He was the epitome of sexually repressed. I know he had issues even though he’s extreme… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:48 AM |
| 22 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenI’ve been with tubby guys and I’ve always kept myself in good shape. I’m now with a man with the body of an 18 year old because he exercises almost every day just for fun living his best life, not a gym rat, and nothing I mean nothing feels better than curling up with him at night wrapping my limbs around his tight youthful body. Not to mention he can move his body like nothing I’ve ever experienced. I reconnected with a guy I had a weird thing with when were teens. He was really tall and skinny… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:05 AM |
| 7 | Green flags for breakfastMy boyfriend also makes me breakfast and does lots of little thoughtful things for me, and I can ask him to do anything and he will do it. I also do the same for him. We really care for each other and respect each other. He often says he can’t lose me. He knows what he’s found in me. It brings him joy to make me happy. He also doesn’t get many sexual references and is quite innocent (but still a great, affectionate lover) which I truly love after years of being with pornsick men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 16 | WHY are Males?I only wear huge shirts that cover my butt when I go to the gym. I still felt ogled. Plus the grunting and the sweatiness everywhere. Yuck. If I had access to an only female gym I would totally sign up and feel free to wear actual gym clothes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:29 AM |
| 7 | I really feel so sorry for this generation of women.It’s true. My boyfriend cried to me about having watched porn. He grew up so sheltered and to him it felt so shameful. I appreciated his honesty and his true convictions that porn is a harmful, evil thing and not a “natural” or “healthy” entitlement. I want to second that not all men are pornsick, but you wouldn’t know it from hanging out here on Reddit. I’ve known so many different men in my 47 years and I’m going to say it’s somewhat rare to find a good man of a healthy sexual mindset but it i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 21 | I love being tall. There I said it.I’m also 5’8.5. My ex husband is 5’11 and didn’t like it too much when I wore heels in public (however, he would want me to wear stripper heels and dance for him in the privacy of our home which I did, always trying to please him). I remember feeling like an Amazon woman in my l teens / early 20s but I grew to own it. I really love my height now and all the other stuff about me I always hated. Learning to love and own what you were born with is a wonderful feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:57 PM |
| 95 | Let’s Not Forget That A Certain Pedophilic Be-Diapered Furry Fetished Former Admin Was Very Instrumental in Getting All Feminist Subs Who Were Critical of The Porn On This Site Banned The Past Few MonthsI’m absolutely with you. I can no longer support this place. It’s been causing me to resent men more than ever. It’s toxic and depressing. Listen to your heart and spirit. It’s so hard to avoid the darkness out there but we have choices that can make us happier and more peaceful women. I will check out the fds website. Women need safe spaces. This place is infiltrated with men who hate us and spread their misogyny around and are destroying the minds of others in so many ways. I can’t be any part… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:11 PM |
| 8 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastMy bf sleeps on the floor and uses old blankets he finds at thrift stores. All the stories he’s told me of his life, I really think it was just how he was raised. He is at least organized and a hard worker and washes his clothes, I guess he’s just super hardy and low maintenance. Sleeping in my bed must feel like a dream to him (I invested in a very nice mattress and bedding because humans spend 1/3 of our lives or more in bed). I’ve slept on his floor with him and it wasn’t fun, but at least it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Accept no excuses for aggressive behaviour from men. There are no excuses for a man to even raise his voice at you. Ever. My partner never did once, not even when he was dying from cancer.Thank you ❤️. I completely understand, I also feel sick when I hear loud men, even if they’re just being obnoxious over some game they’re watching. I can’t handle it. I just cannot bear any part of male aggression at this time in my life. My health was already compromised by men, I refuse to allow further damage. I’m very much enjoying peace at last. I do have a partner but he is a very soft spoken, sensitive man. At times I need to tell him I need space, I’m just at a point in my life where I n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.I am not aware of the pedo controversy, I’ve been oblivious to all the terrible news out there dealing with covid aftermath, it’s been affecting my mental health a lot along with constant eye and ear pain and intense fatigue. It’s all become too much and I just want off this planet sometimes. Reddit is an extremely toxic place. I’ve lurked on subs that truly break my heart and reinforce my repulsion towards much of the manosphere. I didn’t find Reddit until two years ago and I’m actually sorry I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 10 | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.My friend had to threaten to leave her (now ex thankfully) husband because his best friend hit on their 14 yr old daughter. It’s so pathetic that this guy still wanted to maintain a friendship with a creepy guy who made several passes at his own young daughter. My friend had made too many concessions for her ex’s behavior and finally divorced him. Unfortunately she’s still a pickme and hasn’t done a whole lot better with other guys out there. I’m a single mom of two teenage daughters and I see g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:04 PM |
| 10 | Accept no excuses for aggressive behaviour from men. There are no excuses for a man to even raise his voice at you. Ever. My partner never did once, not even when he was dying from cancer.One ex of mine also had severe issues and was frequently aggressive towards me. He was the first man I really fell hard for so I thought it was my fault. I was pretty young and naive. I wasted three years of my life on him. Now I’m with a gentle soul who can’t even hurt a fly. I still have issues with men as a whole because of their aggressive capabilities even though my boyfriend is not like that at all. I’ve had to rein myself in a few times with him and remind myself he isn’t that way. The tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanI feel exactly as you do. I found a rare one. He’s not always easy but he’s kind, loving and adores me. He’s not pornsick and in fact he complained the other day that I don’t look him in the eyes enough during sex. I was so used to my pornsick ex lost in his own world while using me as a human flesh light. My boyfriend truly wants to connect with me. He treats sex as a sacred act of love. After him I don’t want to look for another one in a million. I also went through insane amounts of emotional… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:38 PM |
| 32 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a woman47 and life has never been better! My boyfriend worships the ground I walk on and I’m so looking forward to a future with him (we are at 9 months and going strong). I had covid and continue to have severe complications from it, have been bedridden for weeks, haven’t showered for days and days and look totally sickly and he has still made me feel beautiful and loved. Do not believe the tired old tropes about women being unloveable and undesirable after a certain age. It’s utter bullshit. You woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:57 PM |
| 38 | 💯% true for me.Yep. Same. A lot of them strongly dislike women. I’ve been around many gay men and I can confirm this. I absolutely do not paint them all by the same brushstroke but my overall experience has not been great, my best friend is a gay man but he’s had terrible experiences as a gay man, he should have been born a woman, he loves women, he’s very gentle and kind and has never managed to find a partner, it’s just endless hook up culture and he’s not into that. I’ve seen what he’s gone through. It’s be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 52 | 💯% true for me.Jesus, how many of us have been assaulted by gay men? This thread is insane and really surprising. I thought I was alone but this seems to be a fairly common occurrence. I’m truly shook by these responses. 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 34 | 💯% true for me.Well my gay best friend is the most gentle man I’ve ever met and he’s had multiple gay men be violent towards him. He has been very saddened by his experiences. It seems to me there are a lot of mental health issues within that community just as in the straight community. Maybe moreso because of the sexual emphasis, I just know what my friend has gone through and my own experiences. I’m glad to see replies that I can relate to, sometimes I disagree with posts here but that’s ok, we can discuss o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 54 | 💯% true for me.I’m so sorry you went through this. I had my nipples twisted painfully by a gay man alone in a room at a party who then tried got on top of me trying to unzip my jeans before someone walked in on the assault. I ran home crying, I was only 17. My mom asked if she should call the police but I didn’t want my friends busted for marijuana. All gay men are NOT friendly to us. He was definitely gay btw. We were young, maybe he was very confused how to deal with it but he was gay as a blade and we all k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 123 | 💯% true for me.Oh gosh this happened to me too. It still haunts me to this day. I’m not sure how far he would have taken his assault if someone hadn’t walked into the room in the middle of it. Some of the most heinous serial killers have been gay men. There is no reason to pedestalize them. My best friend is a gay man and has been through some hell with other gay men. They are as toxic as straight men, they are still men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 33 | 💯% true for me.Yeah this was my point in a previous post, and I was assaulted by a gay man at a party, my best friend is a gay man so my experience is that they can make absolutely wonderful friends to women but there is a subset that hates us. They can be incredibly violent towards each other as well. I think we need to be careful with the assumptions regardless of gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 11 | 💯% true for me.My best friend of most of my life is a gay man, but some gay men hate women and have even assaulted them (as I was). I just think it’s important to acknowledge that men are still men and can be aggressive even if gay. I do feel much safer around them as a whole but recognize some do dislike women. It’s dangerous territory to stereotype this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 50 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)But but...men age like wine 😂 😂 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Queen energyLooks like a kid anyway. Get you a man (or be happily single too!), scrotes are always dead weight we don’t need! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 79 | A trend I've noticed among LVM.She was cute as a child but then as a young teen you could see she had a very square face, thin lips and a bigger nose. She also had an athletic body, not many curves at all. She looks nothing like she was meant to look. Even now when she is unexpectedly papped, she is not very pretty. Her lips give her a frog face in real life. And most of us remember Kim in Cancun, cottage cheese bum. Like a lot of women. The world finally got to see what these filtered, airbrushed women really look like. It w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 19 | My current (HVM) partner bought me a tapestry for my office that represents our first date (going out and photographing the NEOWISE comet together) for Vday. My last partner gave me an unsigned valentine clipped out of a newspaperExes didn’t do anything. I guess it was above them. 🙄 I appreciated my current bf telling me upfront he wasn’t going to get me anything because he didn’t believe in V-day, he wanted to make me feel special every day (and he does). He still surprised me with a dozen roses and a card with two handwritten love poems he created for me. To think I wasted my time on men who couldn’t even make me feel special on one day, but they’ve been replaced now by a man who makes me feel special every day. Don’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 36 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveI’ve been with mostly unfit men my whole adult life and now that I have a fit ass boyfriend I realize what I was missing all that time! Nothing beats running my hands all over his toned body, and the sex is way better. We are so tolerant of their appearances but we really do dream about fit, hot men. It’s so nice to have one of my own finally. Added bonus, I gained 20 lbs in 2020-2021 and I don’t like it but my bf has never done anything but make feel totally desired even with this new belly poo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:36 AM |
| 15 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveAnd MAYBE take one shower every 4 days. Lurking scrotes - you know it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?My step-grandfather’s girlfriend was in her 70s and all she did was complain about how young women dressed these days and she had so much disdain and resentment towards them. It was really hard to hear her constantly putting them down. You’d hope by that age you’d have risen above that way of thinking but nope. My own grandma was a bitch until the day she died at 85. When I was pregnant with my second daughter she said she hoped I’d have twins. She meant that in a totally nasty way. She wanted m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?My boyfriend deeply respects me. He’s always telling me I’m smarter than he is (truthfully only in certain ways, he’s smarter in others), he votes for women, he asks me for advice on stocks and buys and sells when I tell him to (and my track record isn’t perfect), and he always cares deeply about how I feel. He talks about his sisters very favorably and never trashes any of his exes. He often puts down his own gender and often feels embarrassed by them. Maybe he’s an outlier, and I do know a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 04:10 AM |
| 9 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.Eating wings, cuddling and watching a movie sounds like much more fun than being read poetry to! In fact, I like the idea. Maybe I’ll get some wings for bf and I. I just so happen to not have my kids that night (I usually do). I dated a guy in 2019 who was the kind of guy who’d like to read poetry and books to each other. I am somewhat of an intellectual so I jibed with him being a total intellectual - for a time. Then I realized I felt old around him lol. Our conversation was always dry and dee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:58 AM |
| 17 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?My grandma always told my sister and I that we talked too much and men don’t like that. In other words, stop sharing your thoughts and opinions, just look good and be at a man’s service and go along with whatever they say/feel/think/want. 🙄 Btw, her husband was a drunk who spent every evening at the bar while she raised their four kids. She spent decades after his death being bitter and grumpy. Can’t blame her. What a shitty life. Thank God for birth control and women’s lib. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:13 AM |
| 13 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.I agree. My birthday is non-negotiable. Your SO sounds like mine. He actually wants to be asked to do things for me. He just enjoys having someone to care for. He waited a long time to meet a woman and fall in love and he’s never taken me for granted in the 8 months we’ve been together. Mine listens too, and if I told him I wanted flowers on Valentine’s he totally would buy me some. I would rather have them as a surprise on any other day. I don’t like feeling pressured to get Christmas shopping … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:30 AM |
| 13 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.My ex husband was the only handy man I was ever with. He rewired our whole house just looking at a book, he could fix just about anything, and he was a great lover. It’s complicated why we divorced after 11 years but he was one of the only men I was ever with who got shit done and taught himself things. I’ve been with a few guys who probably wouldn’t know where to put jumper cables on a battery no joke. No incentive to learn anything practical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:19 AM |
| 15 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.If there was a draft they’d have to physically pry gaming controllers from their hands and remove them from their dwellings, and imagine their porn withdrawal. They’d be total messes, brains fried, wouldn’t last long in actual combat. Most of them are probably too out of shape to fight in a war anyway. I love how they lump themselves in with the men of yesteryear who worked 10x harder than most of them do and didn’t sit on their asses most of the day alternating between wanking, gaming and onlin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:11 AM |
| 54 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.My bf is an exception. He told me last week that he isn’t going to buy me anything on V-day because he thinks it’s a silly day and I don’t care because I hate commercial holidays too. We’ve both spent too many alone and it’s sad for a lot of people. He is so giving and generous with me on a daily basis and would do anything for me. My exes on the other hand were generally selfish and neglectful so to receive nothing on V-day was just salt on the wound. It’s like wow, so even when it’s in your fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:45 AM |
| 32 | Not sure if this was posted before, but I feel most of us can emphatize...God I can relate. My ex was pretty much impotent all the way, he would hold me all night though which was really weird, wouldn’t address his ED and get meds. I would have to get myself off while beside him. Do men not understand women get “blue balls”? My boyfriend is a sex god and I still sometimes have to get myself off because I’m horny as hell in my 40s. They think we aren’t sexual like they are but oh yes we are. My bf laughs at how horny I am but he’s very giving and loves to please me but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:03 PM |
| 60 | Dispell the myth that LVM aren't smart enough to absolutely destroy MOST women's lives.It doesn’t have to be this way. We are the PRIZE. Hell i’m 47 and my boyfriend is obsessed with me and does anything I want him to. I’m very respectful of him because I want an equitable, healthy relationship, but he knows damn well he’s lucky to have a girlfriend. It’s really tough out there for us all. Don’t ever settle for anything less than a guy who knows how lucky he is to have you. And yes he’s a HVM. He is really good to me and I’m good to him too. My exes took me for granted. Fuck that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:06 AM |
| 15 | Due to Tiktok being taken over by semi naked pickmeishas, I also won't be dating men that have a tiktok accountI watch it with my bf, he only gets the occasional e-thot in his feed and he scrolls right past her. Would he alone? Maybe not. But he’s not following any of these women. They somehow make into everyone’s feed. I’m so damn tired of seeing women lowering themselves this way. Just the other day on my feed I saw two women twerking. What is seriously wrong with them? I have been attractive my whole life and the only thing I ever wanted was not to be objectified by men. I just don’t get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Men that want to teach you about stocks, real estate, investing or house flipping are con artistsBlack berry released a statement saying there was no material reason for their stock to go up. These are gangs of dumbass amateur RobinHood traders manipulating stonks. I invested in Express when it was 60 cents, it’s now at $3 just months later. It’s off the Robin Hood radar thank god and is a true value stock. No way GameStop is a $150 stock and no way is Tesla a $3,000 stock (before reverse split). Ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:45 AM |
| 11 | Men that want to teach you about stocks, real estate, investing or house flipping are con artistsI lost 100k following a guy who claimed to be a stock guru. It took me years to get over that as you can imagine. He got me into options trading, that did me in. One night I made 30k overnight so I got hooked into thinking I could do that again when I started inevitably losing my ass. He kept encouraging me to make high risk moves. I really regret trusting him or any random idiot out there who thinks they are stock trading wizards. Now I listen only to my own wisdom and research and my investmen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 23 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.I divorced my porn addict ex too. He was into big boobs. I had a B cup my whole life. Jokes on him, now I’ve got DDDs lol. Gained a little weight later in life and maybe perimenopause but they just blew up. Honestly I don’t know if I love them because they remind me of male depravity. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:38 PM |
| 25 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.I was in good shape and young and “hot” and he still watched porn. It was mostly pretty standard stuff but I’ve heard horror stories from other women where they found out their partners were watching tranny porn and just weird stuff. I can’t imagine how much pain porn has caused to women. My best friend’s now ex-husband became super into rape and incest porn. I’ll never forget the day she asked me to come over and look at his email for something she might have missed, as she was suspecting somet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:33 PM |
| 83 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.I remember feeling this way years ago and having guys say “well good luck with that, all guys watch it”. That is patently untrue. Don’t let them lie to you about that. One of my exes said he didn’t watch it and I believe him. I know a lot of the signs. My current boyfriend admitted he checked it out and felt terrible about that. I have no reason to believe he watches it today. He’s honest to a fault. I too checked it out a few times over the years and was always left feeling grossed out about it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:26 PM |
| 35 | Sexism in MedicineI didn’t know what to expect when I was in labor but it turned out I couldn’t stand my husband being around me. I was physically revolted by him. I also told my parents to leave the room. I was suffering terribly as women do in labor. The only person I could have around me, and wanted with me, was my mom’s dear friend who was like a sister to me. She was so strong and calming to me. Sadly she passed away a few years later from cancer but I’m glad she was there for me and got to help me through m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 42 | Sexism in MedicineI took my daughter to see one in the middle of summer and he was so awkward he asked her how school was going lol. School isn’t in session in July. Anyway, it was so uncomfortable just how awkward he was. People tend to worship doctors and I don’t why. My neighbor is a doctor and she is one the strangest people I’ve ever met. I also had to diagnose my mother with MRSA because her doctor (a woman) didn’t. I demanded a test and it was positive. The incompetence is sometimes astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:39 PM |
| 35 | Sexism in MedicineMy mom knew right away something was very wrong. I was 4 years old and woke her up. I was trembling and cold, she wrapped me in a blanket and rushed me to the ER. Like you, my appendix was also about to burst when they removed it. My mom was always there for me. My dad wasn’t even in my life. I thank god I found a man, one man, who takes my pain seriously and he expends so much energy on trying to heal me. I swear once I get better (I have covid right now), I’m going to make it up to him, he is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 19 | Glad to know there are more women who are not afraid to speak up against kinky culture and its roots 👏👏👏👏👏👏Who are these men? Run from them ladies! My boyfriend is also into vanilla sex which is exactly my style also. No surprise that he’s barely watched any porn and even then pretty sure he never went down the rabbit hole of kinkier and weirder stuff. He can’t even say dirty words. I just don’t want women to think that being objectified is in any way, shape or form normal because of the prevalence of porn. If you do feel that way with a man please get out of that relationship because chances are he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:57 PM |
| 8 | 87% of men think that they actually made you orgasm. Sorry to burst your bubble scrotes, your gf, wife and that porn star are all faking itI looked at porn here and there over the years (I don’t anymore thankfully). The moment I saw a penis I skipped right over that shit. The only porn I could ever stomach was lesbian stuff and I’m not even gay. Just couldn’t stand seeing dick in ass or mouth or anything where the woman was clearly pretending to like it but totally didn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:58 AM |
| 4 | 87% of men think that they actually made you orgasm. Sorry to burst your bubble scrotes, your gf, wife and that porn star are all faking itWeird. I rarely come through PIV sex and my boyfriend knows exactly what to do to me after he comes to make me come. He isn’t the slightest bit insecure that his penis alone can’t do it. We both hope for the day that it will, but I’ve been single for so long there’s only certain forms of stimulation that work for me because I’ve gotten so used to them. But we both are always satisfied and that’s all that matters. Screw guys taking it personally - learn to pleasure your partner whatever it takes.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 24 | My sister sent this to me saying "Your life motto", She's definitely not wrong.Nah they aren’t attractive. Especially in hindsight, you just wonder what you were thinking. Maybe 1% sounds about right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:35 AM |
| 22 | Comeback queenMy boyfriend doesn’t talk like that either. He might say something like “my sexy angel” but never anything crude. My ex husband used to always talk dirty during sex and so it’s really nice to be with a guy that couldn’t even say anything nasty really. It just gets old. He’s more of a romantic type, which is what I always dreamed of. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 41 | Comeback queenHey isn’t it fun to be as shallow as they are? But on that note, my 42 yr old boyfriend has the nicest ass I’ve ever seen on a guy. He works for it too. I’ve overlooked weight and flab and ED and baldness and all kinds of stuff with men so now that I finally have a guy with a hot ass body I am enjoying every second of it. I actually wish I’d been more shallow like they are. I’m visual too, I just didn’t seek out hot guys, I was always the better looking one always. Just happened that way. It’s s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 11 | LVM are not a prize, they are the pipeline to women's poverty. Financial, social, physical, mental, spiritual and generational poverty.Then you have situations like I’ve witnessed. I once went to a female gynecologist. She was middle eastern. Very compassionate, caring, lovely woman. I saw her at the mall a few years later, her husband was shouting at her in front of everyone and berating her. She just looked down at the ground. I felt so very sorry for her. I can only imagine the hell that was her life with this abusive prick, and yet she went to work every day and was able to be a kind, caring soul towards others. I’m guessin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 80 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Yep. When I was 24 I actually dated a 40 yr old 🤢 Didn’t last long at all. Sex was not good, and he turned out to be a controlling narc. When I broke it off he didn’t even try to get me back lol. He knew I was done with his ass and that he brought nothing to the table except shitty sex. He was too miserly to show me a good time too like take me out to dinner or a show. All he did was bake his own bread and take me to the park to eat it. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 18 | Men who say "past her prime" = LVM/IncelsmEn AgE liKe wiNe 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:42 AM |
| 15 | Men who say "past her prime" = LVM/IncelsIf we are livestock to be bred then we require the sperm of handsome, strong, intelligent men with perfect physiques and all that jazz. Why do they care about our fertility? Women don’t want to mate with inferior specimens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:40 AM |
| 9 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low valueIn addition to my ex sleeping in hours longer than me, leaving me bored on my phone, he would then wake up and want to order in Mc Donald’s or make really greasy breakfast burritos. I ended up eating stuff I normally wouldn’t. Healthy eating wasn’t a thing with him but that’s very important to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:06 AM |
| 11 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low valueThis was my ex too. I sleep around 6 hrs a night. He slept up to 12 hours! I’d lay in bed beside him for hours just playing games on my phone just waiting for his lazy ass to get up. So glad my boyfriend now is also a not-great sleeper but he still has a lot of energy compared to me. He gets me going even if I don’t want to. Usually we go grab a coffee and go for a walk and plan our day. If we didn’t spend the night together he still calls and tries to get me to get going. He’ll come and pick me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:58 AM |
| 15 | This is the energy!My boyfriend does this too. He doesn’t even like to be thanked. To him it’s just what a man does for his partner. Yesterday he ran some important errands for me. He wasn’t feeling well himself (I’ve been sick and he just got sick too) but he went out and did them without being asked while I rested in bed. If I do anything for him as simple as taking his dinner plate to the kitchen he always thanks me. He’s always offering to take me to doctors appointments, any kind of errand or appointment you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:20 AM |
| 14 | Creepy male teachersIn 3rd grade our disgusting, obese, married (with kids yikes!) male teacher molested the girls in the class. He’d have us do individual “exercises” with him back behind the cubbies where no one else could see. He’d snap girls’ panties who wore skirts or dresses, while make them do handstands. At the end of each day we’d all (boys and girls) have to line up and kiss him on the cheek, no joke. Some parents finally found about him and the school simply moved him to the 5th grade! This was around 19… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 13 | *NSFW* There’s a trend going on in the gaming subreddit about old gaming ads that were sexist/extremely misogynistic. More proof that the media has been teaching boys from a young age that’s it’s okay to view women as objects/servantsIve been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and he isn’t that into video games and doesn’t get on his phone much. He didn’t even know what Reddit was. He is the best guy by far I’ve ever had a relationship with. I’ve been sick with covid and he hasn’t left my side in 3 days. Friends have called him to do stuff with him and he told them all he really appreciated the invite but he was taking care of his girlfriend. He even cleaned my room as I laid in bed sick. It took hours. It had gotten bad due… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:12 PM |
| 8 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.This. It’s normal to get annoyed at your partner from time to time or for them to accidentally offend you somehow. But if you have to go to others looking for advice and feeling hurt and/or confused, it’s not a good harbinger of things to come. Source - 47 yrs old, many relationships, countless books about emotionally unavailable men, the ADHD man, how to fix relationships, etc. I donated all those books. I now know I should never have had to buy any of them. A healthy man won’t make you questio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedThis guy was into some absolutely revolting things I can’t even mention here. My friend was totally blindsided. He was always acting lovey with her but had this double life that was unspeakable. I mean I’m talking sick AF. Plus in addition to having this extremely evil fetish that he acted upon, he hit on me, while I was married to my husband who he seemed to like, and we found out he’d been fucking his best friend’s wife for years. But the worst was the incest stuff. It’s hard for me to even me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:18 PM |
| 14 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedYes. I found out he was looking for sex partners while I was pregnant. Poor little guy didn’t get all the sex he wanted because it was my first pregnancy and I was a little scared and not feeling very well so he took it upon himself to solicit other women. His status, was of course, “it’s complicated”. The worst was my parents were with me when I discovered his ad. (He left his email open on a computer at a hotel we were staying at). It was really hard not to break down in front of them. And the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:32 AM |
| 75 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedI have two teen daughters. What I spend on just shampoo, conditioner, deodorant, pads, toothpaste, face wash, and all the other toiletries escapes their father. He has no concept of how expensive kids are, and his child support does not even begin to venture into fairness territory. Yet, he wouldn’t be him if he didn’t find a way to ask where that $150 goes every month. Try food? Gas? Car maintenance? Medical and medicine co-pays? All the above aforementioned things? Yet he spent $50k on a truck… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 03:38 AM |
| 32 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedMy ex husband had a fairly valuable property in another country when we married. We moved to the US and after 10 years of marriage we divorced. He still has that property and I’ve got nothing and he tries to pay nothing in child support and won’t sell his property because I might trie to raise his CS. Men are so greedy and vicious. Let them die alone with their stacks of cash. Cash they got because the mother of their children were / are far better people than they will ever be. Divorce rape my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:59 AM |
| 48 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedThere are so many stories like this. My aunt supported her boyfriend through dental school and then as soon as he graduated, he left her. I’ve learned by observation and experience that men are absolutely as capable of being gold diggers as women if not more so. I dated a guy who asked to borrow a couple grand on our third date. I was like yeah, no, byeee. Women need to protect themselves financially. My friend got taken to the cleaners by her ex husband after they sold their marital home. He ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:38 AM |
| 29 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedMy ex pays $150 a month in child support, he makes 4x as much a me, and has the audacity to question how I use that $150. Go ahead ladies, call me out. I already know though. I’ve been really dumb for not taking him to the cleaners like I could. But, the only silver lining is he finally started treating me well again after years of being a total dick to me. I suspect that’s because his marriage is not good and he knows I now have a boyfriend and am super happy with him but he still hopes we will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menHe’s actually planning to get his own place and has budgeted for that for the next several years. It just kind of pains me to see him blow all his savings on that. It was just a thought I had about him moving in, nothing he mentioned. It’s not the right time anyway. Trust me, he’s been very generous with me. He probably pays 80% of the time with everything. It’s just that he doesn’t make great money and I hate to see him blow what he has on rent, but I know a big reason why he wants to get a pla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:11 PM |
| 6 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menI understand what you mean. I just want to say that I have an auto immune disease and sleep a lot of the day recently, was unable to get out of bed, my boyfriend understood that my room was getting into neckbeard nest territory and offered to come clean it. I was mortified. Finally I let him. He not only cleaned it for me but it was the first night we spent together at my place (I rent a room). He knows I’m not good at keeping my place clean when I’m sick. I know he sleeps on a floor in a tiny r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 6 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menI had zero desire to live with another man for the rest of my life ever since my divorce. Meeting my boyfriend changed that perspective. He’s become my best friend very quickly and carries no toxic masculinity within him. We bicker a bit like an old couple but nothing ever serious. We love taking care of each other and just being around each other. I didn’t have that with my prior boyfriends. They would never have cohabitated with me but they would string me along forever believe me. Don’t fall … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 12 | Dump that trash!This guy who pursued me stranded me on the side of the road in winter. He bought me several drinks then we ended up having sex in his truck (we had been flirting a couple times at a local pub and I was lonely and horny not gonna lie). I regretted it immediately as I really didn’t have feelings for him nor was it good. Anyway, he dropped me off at my car and sped away without waiting to see if I even got in my car. Well my car battery was dead. I tried calling him several times but somehow he did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 3 | One of the three jewellery pieces I bought myself for Christmas. I am also selling the gifts my NV ex bought me so I can put the money towards something I actually like. I will put my comment in the thread belowMen almost never buy me jewelry. My ex husband bought me some cheap stuff that wasn’t me at all. It was who he wanted me to be. Think chunky necklaces when I’m more of a whispy chain necklace type. Hell even my dad used to buy me clothes that weren’t me and he later admitted he did it because he wanted me to be some wholesome horse girl type. I’ve yet to have a man buy me something that actually is me. I wear the jewelry my late mom gave me which is super classy and vintage gold stuff. I would l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortAbusive men will always tell you you’re stupid. I am a writer. I had an abusive ex tell me I was too stupid to write, yet I was winning awards at my college and everyone enjoyed my writing. We broke up (one of several times) and I wrote him a long letter. He later confessed to me that it brought him to tears it was so beautifully written. He was not really one to cry. He was a total mess though. He had so much rage in him yet he hated himself. It was a rough three years for me because when he wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:25 AM |
| 29 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsAnd they constantly criticize single moms, who are doing one of the hardest jobs in the world. They would barely last a day or a week trying to do what a lot of women do. They mostly have only their lazy asses to worry about and even then most of them don’t do half the work men used to do back in the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:29 AM |
| 47 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsMy teen daughter declared herself a communist the other day. That’s how bad this shitshow has gotten, that’s how little hope much of her generation feel. They just don’t want to be homeless. She believes in a universal income. It’s tough these days. We are now a country running on a service economy, manufacturing very little. It’s hard for a lot of people. The thought of raising a family on two service industry incomes? Not great.,but you are 100% right, it’s men who got us here. Meanwhile these… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:13 AM |
| 37 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsMy 16 yr old knows enough already about them to know she doesn’t want marriage or kids. I’m sad about that in a way of course, but she’s not wrong to not want to get into a losing proposition. Today’s men are even more selfish and blame women for all the world’s woes as well as their own. Most are best to be avoided unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortWow, I’m thinking you dodged a serious bullet here. If he didn’t comprehend / remember where you were moving to, he may be getting early onset dementia and that would have been hell for you to deal with. Otherwise he’s just stupid AF and having dated a really stupid guy or two, they make you feel more lonely than before you met them. No connection, just the daily wonder of how a grown man got through life being so incredibly stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...It really is sad. She’s such a nice person. Super educated, has a great job, took care of everyone including her manchild husband. We reconnected after her divorce and I saw her go through so many shitty men doing OLD. Last I checked she’d found someone but I’m afraid she settled. It’s tough out there I know. I at least feel like anyone is better than her ex husband, who btw chatted with me when we saw each other once on POF. He was clearly remorseful about losing his wife. Too little, too late.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:50 PM |
| 10 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏I’m 5’9”, both my daughters are fully grown now and 5’7”. They used to complain about their height but now they are enjoying it. I’m always telling them that to me that is the perfect height, I always felt taller than so many guys, but somehow I always ended up with tall guys. Right around 6’. I don’t like real tall. Current bf is 5’10” and I love it. He loves how tall I am. He is not in the slightest insecure about it. Mick Jagger and Rod Stewart always had taller women and you can’t be more co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:50 PM |
| 22 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Thanks for your beautiful message. I’m 5’9” and always felt awkward about my height but my aunt is 6’2” so she had it way worse growing up. Now I own my height and everything about me. Only took four decades but it’s great, life is sooo much better in your 40s and I’ve heard 50s too! Boyfriend is only an inch taller than me and I love it. I don’t wear heels and he hates heels so it works. Plus he always tells me my height is a beautiful thing. No one really ever said that to me. I always felt li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I literally don’t even have wordsI’m 47 but about 5 years ago I dated a guy who was 59. A lot older than I’d ever normally consider but he was such a gentleman. One night he took me to a bar next to his place and I got absolutely wasted and we walked to his place and I assumed he would want sex so I kind of got all over him but he didn’t do anything. The next day he said he didn’t have a condom so that’s why, but honestly I think he was such a truly nice soul that he wasn’t going to have sex with the woman he really liked when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 16 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...Can you believe I told this to a guy once and he said there was pornographic engravings in caves from 1000s of years ago? No joke, he made that comparison. They’ll try any angle to justify their usage of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 30 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...They are so weak. My ex husband made me watch porn with him. Of course I got aroused (it wasn’t ever anything hardcore). I watched it a few times as a single woman and always felt gross after. I decided to stop watching it and I did, and it wasn’t that hard at all. If I need to get off I think of my boyfriend. Porn addicts are self indulgent losers with zero self control. Porn is an evil industry and does nothing to enhance one’s life, in fact it probably invites a ton of negative energy into it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:33 PM |
| 36 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...One of my good friend’s ex husband frequented strip clubs. She allowed it even though she didn’t like it. She was busy raising their little kids at the time and he was still acting like a child and getting shitfaced with his buddies. Fast forward 20 years, she finally left his worthless ass. That was 20 years of her life she can never get back. And her teenage son acts just like his dad and is an abhorrent little shit who hits her sometimes. Guys will show you who they are early on if you actual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 22 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...I dated a guy last year who said he didn’t watch porn and I actually believe him. My boyfriend now said he watched it a few times and felt really ashamed and dirty. I hope he quit since meeting me. He certainly doesn’t seem pornsick. He’s totally into me and constantly touching me whereas my porn addict ex husband only touched me one place - my ass. Did not hold my hand or kiss me or touch my face, and had a faraway look in his eyes during sex cause he was likely thinking about porn he’d watched… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 28 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...About 10 years ago I read an article about a porn convention in Vegas. The porn producers said they were getting deluged with requests by men for harder and harder core stuff that wouldn’t even be legal. They said they couldn’t do much more with it but that men were demanding sicker stuff. It can only get worse. They are vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 12 | I literally don’t even have wordsI had a guy tell me he’d cook me lobster tail but only if I put out. Lol, the audacity! Access to my body is worth a hell of a lot more than that! Unreal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:29 PM |
| 11 | I literally don’t even have wordsShe made a lot of mistakes. Hopefully she learned her lesson. He knows where she works, and when she realized he wasn’t driving to a restaurant she should have jumped out of the car at a stoplight. Instead she goes into his place? She should have driven herself somewhere public to meet him. Never get in a car with a stranger! So many potentially fatal mistakes that girl made. I’m glad she’s ok. There’s been women murdered by Tinder dates, you can never be too careful. One of them went ballistic … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:21 PM |
| 13 | I literally don’t even have words5% honestly sounds about right. I’ve dated a lot of guys and had several LTR and sadly this statistic sounds accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 28 | I literally don’t even have wordsI’m 47 and even 30 years ago guys were raping drunk girls at parties. I’m not sure it’s ever been any different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:09 PM |
| 27 | !!ROAST THE SCROTES!!They’re dumb. My boyfriend is one inch taller than me at 5’-10”, all my exes were around 6’. I prefer his height because we are almost always perfectly eye level. I don’t miss the taller guys. People are so silly with height stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:55 AM |
| 3 | A pp after too many sexual partners 😔Ugh so sorry you had to go through that! Sounds mortifying alright, and you were only a child at 14. Horrible. I’m glad you have a good lover now in your husband. When I read these anti-women subs it absolutely seems like the reason they want virgins or super low “body count” is due to their own insecurities 100%. If you don’t know what you’re missing that’s ideal for them. How can they teach you all about sex if they’ve got no experience either? They can teach what they like but probably won’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:14 AM |
| 3 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationWe had a talk one night and he broke down and cried to me because he had watched it. He grew up very sheltered on a farm raised by women. I know he felt very ashamed and didn’t even watch it until his late 20s. He knows it’s wrong. I can’t guarantee he hasn’t watched it since me but the way he makes love is totally different than my 100% porn addicted ex husband. He’s totally engaged with me emotionally. He hasn’t gone to the dark side yet and I hope he never does because I lived that with my ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 13 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Just posted something similar before reading this. Had an ex always threatening suicide but he never did it. All my exes are forever alone, no joke. I attract or am attracted to these types. They can’t let go of me cause I was the only woman who showed them love maybe in decades. My boyfriend now deserves it, he treats me so damn well. But the others, we had fun but they were never relationship types and I didn’t see that and wasted a lot of my time. Lots of guys have problems getting truly clos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 34 | The Look On His Face Was My Christmas PresentThis too, the ego stroking. They keep you at arms length and don’t love you properly then when you leave they feel guilty and need to feel better so they seek attention from you. My ex threatened suicide. He’s still alive today. Thanks for the mind fuck asshole. As if what he did to me when we were “together” wasn’t enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 21 | The Look On His Face Was My Christmas PresentYes. This is their modus operandi. They can’t handle intimacy so when you pull back is when they want you more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 38 | The Look On His Face Was My Christmas PresentMy ex was someone who cared so little for me in reality (he faked it when he was drunk or lonely) that I didn’t even contact him when I was in the ER one time. I knew he probably wouldn’t come see me so it was pointless. I also chased him for years on and off when he would pull his disappearing act (he’s afraid of intimacy). I thought he’d come around but he never did. So guess what? Quelle surprise. When I stopped texting him and got a new boyfriend suddenly I’m the best woman and he should hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 39 | I stopped being his mom and it pushed me to end the relationship.Well done, any man worth his salt wouldn’t allow that situation. They would take pride in doing their share and being self-sufficient. I can think of nothing more unattractive than being some guy’s mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 11 | A pp after too many sexual partners 😔Most of them don’t even get a girlfriend, forget a wife and children. Their pornsick brains and failure to launch lifestyle makes them unable to attract a woman or pair bond with them. Most don’t even have a personality to overcome maybe a low income situation, just...nothing. And they’re concerned about being used, it’s too funny. The others pretend to be millionaires. Ok, sure. Last I heard, money can’t buy you love or happiness. They just can’t win lol. They have to cut women down to feel bet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 30 | A pp after too many sexual partners 😔Vaginas are remarkably amazing at snapping back. I’ve had two kids and after each one, water would get up in there when I took a bath (sorry if TMI), for a few weeks. My kids are teens now and my bf comments how incredibly tight I am and I’m 47. Not only have I pushed two 7 pound babies out, I’ve had more than a dozen lovers (I lost count honestly). Their claim is ridiculous. Vaginas are extremely elastic and made to remain snug. Let them be happy with their palms, that’s all those guys are ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 12 | A pp after too many sexual partners 😔Notice the guys who hate women because they can’t get one, and talk about “body count” and used up “roasties” tout the services of prostitutes who, according to their logic, should have cavernous vaginas lol. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 34 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Eww, thumbs up? That’s kinda, I dunno, dismissive? Cold? Anyway, it’s a hard time for a lot of people. Loneliness can get the better of us plus nostalgia. Go easy on yourself! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 24 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Same, he texted Merry Christmas then texted again in the middle of the night wanting to talk. I was sleeping, which is good because I may have called him just to see if he was ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 10 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.Any man who uses the term simp is trash imo. I have a several male friends and my boyfriend as well all respect and admire women, that makes them “simps”. Some of these turds out there are trying to turn all men against women in a giant collective mantrum because they are shitty misogynists. It will never happen. Healthy men need and want the feminine energy of a woman in their lives. Other men cannot replace that. It’s almost as if being kind to women is a crime in their eyes. Good luck with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:28 AM |
| 36 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationIKR? That was a first for me! We only did that particular position once. We were road tripping and I think by the time we got to the hotel he knew what he was going to do to me and I can tell you I will never forget that. Sweet and sexy and fit, the perfect trifecta imo. I didn’t think I cared about the fit part so much until I met him and realized what I’d missed out on all my life. I did have this great of sex a couple times in my youth with fit young guys but to find that in my 40s with a guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 37 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationThere’s a huge difference sis. I was slender, I’m more curvy now but not overweight, but when I was slim my sort of booty call got really large and I still had sex with him. He lasted a minute tops. I resigned myself to it because I taught him good oral but honestly I wasn’t attracted to him. Now I’m with a slim toned athlete and holy hell the difference is HUGE. He is sooo good at sex. I don’t even know where he learned it but I think he’s just a natural. His body is just made for sex. And he l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:36 PM |
| 81 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationMy man is an athlete too and he can sex me up in so many ways no one ever has. One time he was squatting down on the ground and I was on top and he was doing me like it was nothing, he is so f*%cking fit and he questions what I see in him but he’s not just fit, he’s a beautiful soul and a great, fun spirit and loves me completely. But my lord I can never stop running my hands all over his body ever. He’s not buff he’s just toned AF. He’s high energy though so he’s always on the move. It’s really… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 34 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationThis is the absolute truth ladies. My guy is 5’10” 180 lbs of solid, lean muscle. I feel like I’m having sex with my first boyfriend who was 19 (I was too). It’s unreal. My last lover had really let himself go and gained like 90 lbs but I thought he was better than nothing when he booty-called me. Jesus what was I thinking. I’m having the best sex of my life now at age 47 (he is 41). I’m 165 lbs 5’9” and he carries me to the bed from the couch. He’s superhuman I swear. Everything you said is so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 26 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationI don’t do anal, ever. Most of my partners haven’t been very obsessed with that thankfully because I am not wavering on my stance. It’s not my thing. A finger up there during sex on his lap ok sure, that can be nice. But I draw the line there, and yes I’ve tried it and was also anally raped so no thanks. My boyfriend has not once asked me to suck his dick. Sometimes he does just climb on me and go at it but he’s always sensual about it and his moves are amazing probably cause he’s fit AF and he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 19 | Y’all... 😂 💁🏻♀️ Merry Christmas Eve!Lived with that for seven long years. Never again. He didn’t do anything about it either. Now that I’m having a sex life again (in a relationship) I’m really sad for my old self that I thought it wasn’t all that important and that I could just live without it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 24 | Y’all... 😂 💁🏻♀️ Merry Christmas Eve!My ex husband was balding by his mid 20s (when we met). I have daughters and I think I read that if they have sons, the balding gene is through the mom - her father. My father has a full thick head of hair at 70. Haven’t been able to verify if there’s any truth behind that. I have mixed feelings on addiction genes, I think anyone and everyone can become an addict under certain circumstances/environments. I do think mental illness can run in families and that scared me when I had my two kids beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:27 AM |
| 2 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!My boyfriend did something similar. I told him I felt like I was doing more than my fair share and he got on stuff right away and has been different ever since. Sometimes they just don’t think about it. He’s used to being a bachelor and I’m a mom of two so I certainly don’t want another person to take care of. That said, he is incredibly good to me in many other ways. He is there for me 24/7, will always answer his phone and drive to my house anytime I feel sad or just needing him. I know I can … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 5 | "But WomEn aRe jusT as AbusIve As Meeennnn!" 🙄MOST WOMEN DO NOT REPORT. Actually stats on violence against women would be even more mind blowing than they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:50 AM |
| 5 | "But WomEn aRe jusT as AbusIve As Meeennnn!" 🙄I’m so sorry you went through this. My abusive ex also went for my throat every time and left bruises. He spit in my face too. He lifted up a couch once while I was on it causing me to violently fall onto the floor. I was too afraid to call the cops. He was such a respected professional in his field and I thought it would ruin his career and life. I’m so sure so many women don’t report their abuse out of these fears and many other fears (retribution being a big one) and somehow you still “love” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:46 AM |
| 61 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!I absolutely agree with this comment except the financial part because some actually do enjoy and feel good spending money on us. But the rest is very true. The avalanche of emotions some men have unleashed on me is insane. I didn’t mind until it became one sided and when I needed a shoulder to cry on they weren’t there for me. They have done all kinds of emotional mind games with me whenever I started backing away. They put me through some real hell. One threatened suicide so much that I had to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:28 AM |
| 11 | The Modern Man's Hatred of WomenI’m exhausted because I’m a woman. My pregnancies depleted me in every way for years. It took me about 5 years to recover from that depletion. Before then I had debilitating periods that would force me to collapse on bathroom floors during my work shifts, my managers didn’t give a fuck or believe me even though I was white as a ghost, shaking, and clearly suffering immensely. As a wife I tried very hard to please my husband - even putting on heels and doing the strip teases he wanted that I didn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 10:15 AM |
| 20 | Because women deserve nice things for simply existing, too.Isn’t that just sad af? My boyfriend tells me everyday he needs to see me more. He tells me sweet things and kisses me often. He always holds my hand. He says I’m the best girlfriend ever. All because I love him, not because I suck his dick (I actually don’t, he doesn’t ask for that) or cook and clean for him or anything at all other than being there for him. For lurking scrotes, I’m WAY past what you consider the wall and not only is my boyfriend 6 years younger than me, we have the best sex ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:38 AM |
| 2 | PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny.My boyfriend has a handful of friends that I am getting to know. I hope they will accept me and like me as well. I understand their love for my guy and I encourage him to spend time with them. He always comes back to me extra in love because he needs his friends but he needs me even more. I would never make him choose between them and myself. It just makes me smile thinking of how much they love him. He has said to me many times how much he needs me. There is no substitute for a woman’s love. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny.Exactly. My boyfriend treats me so well and I treat him so well. He just dropped a load of groceries off for me because I’m sick. Going out of your way for a woman makes you a “simp” apparently. I’ll take a simp any day then please. I am beyond happy with him and he enjoys taking care of me. I also make him feel very special and wanted. These guys who shun women have no concept of the give and take in any relationship. They can go hang with their bro’s all they want. Nothing will ever compare to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 7 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.Also he chased her. She isn’t really even into men but he was relentless because he’s always gotten every woman he wanted. She probably never felt it with him but he’s Johnny Depp so he demanded she want him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 50 | PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny.They also hate any man that loves and respects women and is getting sex on the regular as a result. They want all men to punish women. Imagine going through life with that mindset. I don’t hate all men, I just wanted to find one who wasn’t an aggressive pos and I did. My boyfriend is more female than male in a sense, and he can f*ck way better than any of these “bruhs”. I hit the jackpot. He is unreal in bed and he’s totally not a bro. Don’t let anyone poison your mind - there are men out there … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 4 | as soon as a guy says this, run. this is him telling you that he’s manipulative as hell.If they’re all crazy - and they were with my ex, common denominator is you buddy. You have no self awareness and destroy women. My current boyfriend has only claimed one crazy girlfriend out of the 4 or 5 he’s had. The rest he says it just didn’t work but they didn’t do anything wrong. When they’re all “crazy” yes run like hell. He’s toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:20 PM |
| 19 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.Amber and Johnny were both toxic together, triggered each other. He isn’t a saint and neither is Brad Pitt. Both of those guys left their loving wives. All you hear from men is how shitty women are for divorcing, yet these two clowns get a free pass. Even after both were documented being complete alcoholics. I don’t think Amber nor Angelina are saints but holy hell the bias towards the men in these cases is insane. Brad even admitted he was a total fuck up. I have compassion for them all because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 25 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.Like Jim Carrey did with his ex who killed her self and the world still loves him. Fuck this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 09:12 AM |
| 16 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-9047947/Sia-contends-Shia-LaBeouf-conned-adulterous-relationship-claiming-single.html He is a total disaster of a human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 09:05 AM |
| 124 | I got you, babe.It’s great to hear stories like this. Women looking out for each other. It’s our only defense sometimes. When I was a teenager my friend and I were on a city bus and this man started saying disgusting things to us. He said he was going to follow us wherever we got off and give us a taste of his nine inch lollipop. Bus driver (a woman) heard everything. She called us to the front and said stay on the bus, her shift was almost over and she would drive us back to the station. The guy ended up getti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:48 PM |
| 51 | EwGross. That limp wristed, limp dicked guy is a joke of a human. Guy on the left is awesome. Not many guys out there like him, hope some awesome woman swoops him up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 5 | I have been sharing my healing journey here through my cakes. And I am so incredibly grateful for all the love and support I have received here from my Queens 👑💜 this scrote is lurking in FDS and commenting on my old baking related posts in r/cakedecorating. Scrote is mad over a cake 😂I’m guessing 95% of that forum are unwashed scrotes who can barely support themselves and daytrade away whatever they manage to make when they’re not watching porn or playing video games. If they were the calm, financially successful, well-traveled, gym-honed bastions of wisdom they like to dream they are, they wouldn’t be on Reddit all day talking about “losing half muh shit”. They just enjoy hating on women cause they aren’t getting laid. That’s what mgtow is about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 14 | Don’t let anyone not even society dictate who you are as a women. Don’t let anyone force you to follow immoral/harmful codes to the peril of your mental health and bodyI’ve been trying to lose a few pounds lately. I’m not overweight but my clothes are a little tighter. My boyfriend said to me, you have me now, stop worrying about your weight. It really drove it home that so much of a woman’s self worth is based on her sexual attractiveness to men. I’ve gone easier on myself these days. Many men will critique you no matter what you look like, if you are not their type. Or they could fucking just love you instead of objectifying you? What a novel concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:28 PM |
| 21 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Thank you sis, ❤️. I’m super protective of my daughters and I’m almost certain no one has molested them. Back in the 80s a lot of us kids were so free range and parents didn’t keep tabs on us all that much unless it was the Mormon family down the street or whatever, most everyone I knew was in compromising positions on a daily basis to be abused. I keep my daughters close and I talk to them about these things. I refuse to let them suffer what I did. My mom meant well but she was naive and absent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:28 AM |
| 18 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.I’ll swim across the Atlantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 38 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.I’d really like to hear these tools explain how it’s fucking easy to be a woman. I’ll be waiting patiently! They make that claim and have nothing to back it up with. Their brains are zombified and they live in an alternate reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 34 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Ugh. So messed up. I wore jeans as a 14 yr old and started getting lots of comments on my ass from boys and men alike. I developed a fear of showing my ass that I didn’t get over until a few years ago thanks to therapy. I still prefer to cover it up though. I feel a lot better hiding my body even though I’m no spring chicken at 47. My aunt was still having guys lust after her in her 60s because of her body. But it’s hard on young girls who are just trying to exist and wear cute clothes and they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:20 PM |
| 48 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.So disgusting. When I was 15 this 15 yr old guy I hung out with had a 12 yr old girlfriend and they were having sex. She acted like it was so normal. I have to wonder if she had been abused by a man at some point (other than her boyfriend cause that was also so wrong) 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:13 PM |
| 139 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.When I was 12 I had two female friends who were hyper sexual with me and we would pretend to have sex with each other. Looking back I know we were all being molested. I was being molested by possibly my stepdad (I blocked a shit ton of my childhood out but I remember him staring at me naked and always taking naps with me), I was definitely molested by my friends’ brother who was 15. We acted out our abuse in this way with each other even though we were not gay or anything. Then as I grew older I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgThat’s horrific, I can’t imagine what that felt like to think you might even die, and these POS get off on that. So sorry you were violated by someone who was supposed to love and respect you. 😢 My boyfriend likes me to bear hug him when he’s on top, and he does that to me but gently ffs. I’m not sure why that’s such a thing with some guys? But the strangling shit is horrific and no good man would ever do that to a woman, period. A man you are sharing your body with should always respect your bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 29 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgMy ex boyfriend physically abused me. His number one thing was to grab my neck while I was slammed up against the wall. Sometimes I’d have bruises where his fingertips were. That was fun trying to cover up. While doing this to me he would usually spit in my face. I was 24 and trapped in an expensive city finishing my degree so I had very few options to get away (though I finally did, despite the super uncomfortable circumstances of my new living arrangement, at least I wasn’t risking death). I a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 10 | Another reason why studio Ghibli is better than regular "Anime" that is hyper sexualized and full of "Fan service" for basement dwellers. Regular anime is full of misogyny and portrays women as objects.My teen daughters input, fwiw, as a huge anime fan and feminist - she doesn’t think the girls in Neon Genesis Evangelion (her favorite show) are sexualized except by people in real life. She said the guy in death note doesn’t abuse his girlfriend, he’s a sociopath who uses her because it’s a crime mystery show and that the girlfriend may be a sociopath too. She totally agrees about kill la kill and no game no life being nasty stuff though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 32 | Don't blame yourself for getting abused and taken advantage of by men... Men are the ones at fault here, not youThis was my reality too. It didn’t necessarily end in my 20s either. In my early 40s I discovered most of ex’s friends wanted to have sex with me once we broke up. I did sleep with one and he hurt me badly physically. He was really getting off on it all and this was his best friend supposedly. I get so distressed thinking about him and the other guys who used me that way, and I had to wait till age 46 to find a man who is so gentle with me that he asks me if he’s hurting me, if I’m ok, and cares… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:55 AM |
| 30 | Don't blame yourself for getting abused and taken advantage of by men... Men are the ones at fault here, not youBeen there, my sister. They do know when we are vulnerable and ripe to be exploited. The worst years for me were between 22-24. That seems to be a favorite age for the predators though many go much much younger and a little older. They love young women because we are naive and innocent, not because sex is somehow better, it’s all about taking advantage of us. I too was beautiful and it pains me deeply to think back on all the men I thought cared about me but were only in love with my youth and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:36 AM |
| 21 | 14-16 was when I got catcalled the mostSo sick. My friend and I were into horses so one day the farrier came over to shoe her horse. He was an old gross dude. We were THIRTEEN. She was very polite and asked if he’d like a glass of water. She comes back and he’s got a $100 bill sitting out. She said something like that’s a lot of money. He said it could be yours sweetheart. It was just SO disgusting. My god they are everywhere. Makes me sick. I myself was molested by older teens (I was 12-13, they were like 15-16 🤢), I sometimes feel … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 10 | Replace, don’t chase! Remember YOU are the prize!Can confirm. If they’ve think you’ve moved on, they at least start pretending they’re sorry and had a revelation that you’re such a special person to them and they messed up. They may say things like “I don’t deserve another chance so I don’t dare to ask you for one”, “I took you for granted. I think about you all the time I was just really bad about letting you know how much you mean to me”, “I love you and you deserve so much happiness” (so much so that they hurt you repeatedly and made you su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?You have a point, however, he was so cunning about his secret double life that right before I helped my friend discover his sick activities (he forgot to erase his sent messages in his email which believe me, you don’t even want to know what horrific, dark world we entered when I clicked on that link), he was telling me in private he wanted to surprise her with a diamond ring. He was all about her it seemed. They were long married but he was clearly feeling guilty, but at the time we didn’t know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 8 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?I’ll be at 6 months in a few weeks with my boyfriend. I will feel no more qualified to post about how well he treats me. There is no magic number. I would just advice caution in the first 2-3 months because that’s often when the oxytocin rush starts to die down. Other than that, you NEVER really know someone. If you did the divorce rate would not be upwards of 50%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 01:34 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend was worth the wait! He’s been taking care of me since I broke my foot.Yesss! This is how we are supposed to be treated by our partners. My boyfriend brings me special foods, medicines, anything I need when I’m sick or just feeling down. He’s always willing to go the extra mile for me. When I had recent painful UTI, he never left my side until I told him to cause I needed some space haha! I was in tons of pain so wanted to be alone for a bit but he was there in my home and ready to bring me anything i needed. This is what love is. We want to be there for each other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:21 PM |
| 14 | This, seriously.My daughter is 16 and has several friends who are displaying this behavior. Most of their boyfriends are emotional wrecks, threaten suicide, and manipulate them in different ways. The girls complain to my daughter yet continue to accept this behavior, sometimes for years. Who is teaching the boys these days? Are men going to blame women for this, too? These are boys having sex and they still put a huge burden on their girlfriends, so lack of access to sex is not a valid excuse for male emotional… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 33 | For any women out there that has been disrespected by their partner in a heartless way. Leave. Even if it’s the first time.Sometimes you teach people how to treat you. It’s important to never let them get too comfortable and take you for granted. If they do, and you leave, and they come back with half-assed efforts, just run. If they don’t come back shaking in their boots never to fuck up and lose you again, they aren’t going to change. Been there many times. If they genuinely care, they will make sure they don’t mess up again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:49 AM |
| 11 | This is hilarious. She took the opportunity and nailed it.My boyfriend is a feminist. I’ve seen men stand up for women’s rights in this world even in places like India and Africa where women are brutalized, raped, have their clits cut off, left abandoned because they become incontinent as a result, raped on buses by gangs of men and the list goes on. It’s easier and more gratifying for them to hate us, but there are intelligent men who understand our plight and love us, and they are the ones receiving loving, feminine energy while the rest who got brai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 13 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"My ex’s “friend” told me one day after I was no longer with the ex that he has always thought he was gay because he never discussed tits and ass and hot women with the other guys at the bar. I don’t think he was gay at all. Just not raised to talk about women in those terms. My current boyfriend said sometimes guys talk about their sex lives with their women in front of other guys. He is decidedly not that way and prefers to do everything he can to keep our sex life from his friends. He will hol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 12 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"I could have written this post word for word. Ex also had mommy issues and treated me very badly. My current partner of 5 months admires and respects me a great deal and is 100% macho free, thank God! He is my best friend and his friends are not “locker room talk” bro types so I doubt they will ever diss me in any way to him, but I truly believe he wouldn’t be ok with it if they were to, unlike a few of my spineless exes. Also can confirm attractiveness has nothing to do with character. My curre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 33 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"Also, men sense other men’s weakness and no matter how long they’ve been friends with that guy will try to have sex with their girlfriend or wife. They absolutely do not care about how wrong it is. I know because several of exe’s supposed best friends tried to get with me. I suspect my ex found out about one of them and as far as I know was still cool with him. Probably not really, but he never got mad at his “friends”, his anger was all reserved for me and drivers on the road. What a cowardly l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:02 PM |
| 4 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"My now ex husband’s best friend picked up my foot and started massaging and caressing it right in front of him. Mind you, we were married at the time. He never did anything and remained good friends with his guy. I believe most men would not act on inappropriate behavior by their friends towards their partner. This post doesn’t surprise me at all. Another time, we were on a raft on the river and I had a baby at home I was breastfeeding so my boobs were bigger than normal and this guy on the rive… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 18 | Couldn’t Have Said It Better MyselfGod this is sadly so true for many women. I am SO damn lucky I have a non-pornsick man who treats me so well. I was married for a decade to a man who wasn’t at all a bad person but he was pornsick, and he didn’t give me much affection. It took me till age 47 to find the love of my life and he gives me everything I’ve always wanted in a man, but I think I had to really know what I wanted to find him. I wouldn’t have appreciated him when I was younger. Now every day I wake up feeling so blessed, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:52 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.Wow what a loser that guy is. Good riddance! I had a similar situationship when I was 25 and he was 45. I had just gotten out of an abusive relationship therefore any guy who wasn’t beating and choking me seemed decent. We worked at the same place so we ended up hanging out. He turned out to be controlling and condescending as well, and the sex was good for him, not for me. The final straw was when he disparaged me for winning $500 in a poetry contest. He said it would only make me think I’m mor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:28 AM |
| 4 | How to spot someone whos been redpilled or someone similarThis is exactly what they think! Or should I say thought. They find out you found someone else and it’s unbearable for them. Unfathomable somehow. I kept in touch with every guy I dated because they just have to periodically check up on me. Every single one is still single and always will be. They just can’t function in a relationship. If they can’t with me, they can’t with anyone, because I am very laid back and independent and give them plenty of space, don’t try to control them, and I know I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | We are not far from this time. I’m just saying, men have been trying to gaslight her forever.Thanks for the lesson. After I posted that, I realized I hadn’t really researched the etymology. I just remembered growing up that the word hysterical was at some point used to describe women’s emotions in a negative way. Good to know that the original term isn’t sexist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:08 PM |
| 39 | Imagine thinking consent is a turn offMy boyfriend was a very late bloomer to porn and hasn’t watched it much (admitted to me he is ashamed he’s watched it) and he’s very sensual and old fashioned (kisses and holds my hand almost all the time). It’s so amazing what these simple things can do for a woman yet so many men just aren’t that affectionate and also have porn style sex. I’m not saying my bf doesn’t sometimes ravage me but more often he is very passionate and sensual and engaging me emotionally. I wish this for every woman I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:36 AM |
| 26 | Imagine thinking consent is a turn offI have a pickmesha friend like that too. I am super picky and it took me awhile to find my person (I’m 47 and it happened this year). Had semi-relationships before him but they were a joke. Anyway, I see my friends and they’ve just totally settled. Maybe the guy checked their boxes in the practical ways but they don’t have chemistry. What’s sad is a few of my female friends have distanced themselves from me because I have something really good with a guy, and they settled and aren’t that happy. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:24 AM |
| 9 | Being single is okay!Yep. Most of my friends are with LVM. I didn’t ever envy them a bit. I was too for awhile. Wish I could take back those years of my life wasted on them. It was so not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:02 AM |
| 10 | How to spot someone whos been redpilled or someone similarEveryone “invests” in stocks these days, it’s trendy, but I did notice a lot more of the misogynists investing in metals and bitcoin and of course, Tesla. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:41 AM |
| 15 | How to spot someone whos been redpilled or someone similarSo true! I really feel for what women must deal with these days. So much shit to try to filter through out there. But I’m thankful for Reddit in that it’s been very educational on these red pilled men and how to spot them. I’ve met more than my fair share. They ain’t getting a drop of my feminine energy or attention. Women have every right to be as demanding as we need to be. We are the prize. If they don’t think so, tough shit. All the guys from my past who didn’t treat me like I was the prize … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:33 AM |
| 4 | How to spot someone whos been redpilled or someone similarDefinitely not always the case though. My bf is sporty af and not at all a “bro”. He wants to spend most of his time with me and is the most feminist man I’ve met. He voted all women this year. He has his buddies but at the end of the day it’s all about me. My kids’ stepbrothers are also very athletic, on athletic scholarships and they love their girlfriends and are also not any part of any gymbro culture, so just keep an open mind, but I am not really around all that so perhaps it’s the majorit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:01 AM |
| 14 | We are not far from this time. I’m just saying, men have been trying to gaslight her forever.Thank you! Yes we are 🤗. It’s a tough life physically for sure being a woman, but I’m still glad I am one. Life is good and I have much respect for my fellow sisters! We endure so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:02 AM |
| 47 | We are not far from this time. I’m just saying, men have been trying to gaslight her forever.Why do we still use the word hysterectomy? It’s so crazy sexist and offensive. I love how some men go on about how HaRd it is to be men, when women have been through stuff physically they can’t even begin to fathom, between pregnancy, childbirth, periods, UTIs (usually due to poor male hygiene or them poking your bum accidentally then inserting it into the vagina) not to mention the fact that women have always been oppressed until recent history, and in many ways still are underrepresented and f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 7 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythI was very sure I never wanted to live with another man but my boyfriend changed my mind about that. We don’t live together but I’ve spent enough nights and days with him to know that he’d be very easy to live with. Most men I’ve dated in the past decade - actually all of them - I couldn’t fathom living with them and usually wanted to wake up in the morning and be on my way. It gets so much harder as we get older and more set in our ways, but i definitely want to live with this one. He gardens a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:40 PM |
| 40 | MaturityMy mother was very Catholic and instilled in my sister and I that sex was filthy and gross and so we were both virgins into our early 20s. I tell my own daughters about sex and encourage them to wait, but I don’t ever make them feel like it’s dirty. I just want them to have it with someone who cares about them. That seems impossible these days with all the dysfunction in this pornsick world. I feel sorry for these younger generations, it’s heartbreaking especially for the girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What would happen?He seems to have a love/hate thing for women. He’s harmless but you are right to be concerned as so many of the incels are unstable. His situation is really odd because he’s sexy actually, very tall and fit and nice looking, just eccentric and selfish and just not interested in relationships. His thing is just hooking up apparently, although he turned me down in the middle of a passionate make out session. Super odd. He was clearly very excited but he said I needed to get rid of the guys in my l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:37 AM |
| 38 | What would happen?A man who likes cats is likely a gentle spirit in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:10 PM |
| 46 | What would happen?I had a male friend suggest male violence stems from their lack of access to sex. He said something along the lines of the state should provide sexworkers for males! That’s is such incredible bullshit. I have beautiful female friends who were abused by their partners. I was as well. Men will be men, you can be a beautiful woman inside and out and they will hurt you. OJ Simpson just came to mind. They can be horrific creatures. I’m generally scared of men. My boyfriend is a gentle giant and that’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:06 PM |
| 67 | Feminine "hygiene"A woman’s natural smell isn’t bad ffs. My boyfriend has sweaty ball stank sometimes. It turns me on. I mean I’m not talking days old stank but a few hours of building up of your natural smell should be attractive to the opposite sex. I do shave, it’s just a habit I got into. My boyfriend has the full bush going on, is uncircumcised and never once has asked me to go down there. Why I don’t know. I assume he just prefers vagina. I love how natural he is though. I wish we could go back to the times… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 7 | Or both?Oh dear, well I don’t think he’s gonna transition. He was just raised by his mom and sisters in a very sheltered environment. He doesn’t even like to play cards against humanity because he said he doesn’t get a lot of the sexual references. He’s just one of a kind but he’s definitely into women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?Oh I’m not surprised. My friend has three kids from three different men. The first one was a good guy, the second and third are awful. The second is a pot farmer/dealer and lies about his income and also abused her physically, the third one was unemployed for three years while she worked to support him, and now he’s in jail for a year for stalking her (also abused her). She’s beautiful and a great mom and recently found a seemingly really good guy, but he’s hesistant to take on her and her two k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:41 PM |
| 27 | Or both?I was considering other women at some point. I’d given up on men after several scrotes took me for granted and caused me grief and pain as they are wont to do. Oddly enough the man I’m with now is kind of effeminate and declares himself half woman. In some ways he seems gay but he’s totally not at all. I wish more men were this way so my sisters could experience this bliss. He does my nails even! It’s like having a gay best friend and a sexy lover in one. I’m so over toxic masculinity. God forbi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?No child support here either for my entire childhood. There were two of us kids. Sperm donor didn’t want to work and wanted to live in the forest and pretend to be a hippy. He must be around 70 now and still bumming around. My mom just wanted nothing to do with him at some point (he never met me, I was an oops on a one time reunion they had after my sibling was born), so she didn’t file for child support. He was cool with that and just abandoned us. I’m divorced and receive very little child sup… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?My mother gave me my POS sperm donor’s last name even though he never met me. Yep, he left before I was born. Three years later she got my birth certificate changed. I guess she thought he might come around? He actually did call her when I was about 8 years old and asked if we could all be a family. She told him to fuck right off. Now he’s had a couple wives since then and I don’t even know how he managed that since he’s such a fucking loser. Maybe he has a big dick or something, but he’s never … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:50 AM |
| 9 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?Can we all agree that probably 9/10 guys would cheat given the chance, pregnant partner or not? And they think we’re the thots. They just can’t succeed at it but they sure af would if they could. I’ve seen a lot of married men on Tinder that I know. It’s insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:46 AM |
| 8 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?This is truth right here. Sadly I can say I’ve experienced this firsthand. He seemed like he wanted to impregnate me and was always asking if I’d had my period and I finally asked him if he wanted to become a father and he was adamant that he did not. So he basically was getting off on the idea of getting me pregnant and me getting an abortion - one of the most emotionally painful things a woman can through - just to feel studly. Btw he knew I didn’t want a child either, so it wasn’t like he tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:38 AM |
| 7 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I’ve heard of this too. Men demanding sex up until birth and also within weeks after the birth. My ex husband tried to cheat while I was pregnant with our first. I wasn’t much in the mood and was nervous about sex but that didn’t justify him trying to stick his dick in other women. I forgave him but I never saw him the same way and we eventually divorced. With my second pregnancy I wanted it all the time but I wonder if I was just afraid of him trying to cheat again. It’s so disheartening to hea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:34 AM |
| 16 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?That’s so damn sad. Yes, men are fundamentally very selfish. There was a woman who sold me food products I bought from her who had ten kids and lived on a farm with her husband. My husband at the time worked at the food stamp department and told me one day that her husband left her and she came in to file for food stamps and child support. When the guy found out what he was going to have to pay, he came back to her. They were supposedly devout “Christians”. Men do what they want and are driven b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 7 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?Happened to me. I discovered that my husband (at the time, now ex) had placed a personal ad looking for women while I was around 6 months pregnant. His status was “it’s complicated”. He destroyed how I saw him forever after that. His response was “nothing ever happened”. Yeah, because no one responded to you, that was the ONLY reason. He also ordered a porn movie and I saw it on the cable bill and he denied it. I called the cable company and the agent was obviously not buying that this was a mis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮Go get you some sis! The whole enchilada AND a bag of chips 😛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:33 PM |
| 5 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮Thanks for the reminder, that is very true. Yesterday I talked with him and told him I had to slow down with the drinking and he’s been very supportive. I also need a little more time to organize certain areas of my life and he understands that. It’s easy to lose yourself in someone, especially when they are so good to you and so much fun. But you have to find a balance for sure. And thank you! I just think I knew I found a really great one for me after 46 years of life on this rock. I do gloat … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮It was pretty unlikely. Friend I hadn’t heard from in years calls me up and invites me to her boyfriend’s cabin for two nights. There were going to be a couple of his friends there too. I said thanks but no thanks but then the second day I said to myself “why not? Just go, you never know, you might just have a good time!” Turns out they were really only going to stay the first night but when I said I was coming up they all decided to stay one more night. And there I met him. He almost didn’t go … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮He has all four of those points. I’ve seen him push himself hard, he tries to exercise every day and knows how to eat well. He was super nerdy in high school and sheltered so he didn’t really get any girls but he always had his passions and a close knit family. Eventually he wanted a new beginning and moved away from everything he knew and moved to my city. Since his life is about his sport, he is still very fit and has inspired me so much to exercise in enjoyable ways. He is very calm and never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮Thanks, it was a long ass road but so worth it. I’d seen other couples in these types of relationships but it wasn’t happening for me. That’s because I was settling for crumbs instead of taking control of my own destiny and finding someone who checked all my boxes. But once I found that man boy did I grab onto him. He’s been such an angel, 41 never married, I guess the universe set him aside for me. I’ve never been happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮Thank you! He’s not even buff, just strong AF and yes, that mid air sex is something else! One time we got to a hotel room and he just ravaged me as soon as we walked in and at one point he was squatting down on the floor with me on top, he’s superhuman I swear. It was so good. Definitely a first for me! So glad I found him, he’s the whole enchilada. Glad you got a good one too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:36 PM |
| 7 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮She knew her price, that’s great! I can relate. I have had more guys interested in me as I get older (and a little bit more curvy ha!). They are mostly younger guys. I can’t explain it but the dynamic of an older woman/ younger man is crazy good. I’ve now been with more younger than older guys. They seem to appreciate our wisdom and experience and it’s very sexy to them. They fall hard for the older woman, I’ve just seen it happen too many times as well as experienced it myself. I am not in my b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:31 PM |
| 18 | The pickmeisha in the comment sec being like "OR you could both love each other and it doesn't have to be a one sided street" Nah sis that's how you get played. Learnt my lesson the hard way , a man should always ALWAYS love you more than YOU love HIM.I learned this after 46 years. I remember reading an article where in the comment section a woman said “go for the guy who loves you more than you love him” and it was super upvoted with a lot of comments from women with regrets. I was one of them. I loved men who absolutely did not deserve me. I am now with a man who is crazy about me but I think I love him just as much, but he has told me how much he needs me and I know he’s not going anywhere. It’s the best feeling when a man is not afraid to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:29 AM |
| 72 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮So spot on sister! My ex had a very small dick and gained a bunch of weight and still treated me poorly. The other ex was attractive at one point but grew his hair out and wore it in a sloppy bun and got a big beer belly. What was that about women and “the wall” again? Right. Most men hit it hard after 40. So then after kicking these guys to the curb (they tried to string me along forever I think was the goal), I find myself with a very sexy man 5 years my junior, very fit and treats me like a Q… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:14 AM |
| 37 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮Oh geez. Can relate. Had a few exes who were not attractive. When I got with them they were pretty good looking but their lifestyle quickly caught up to them. One became obese in the span of a year and I still had sex with him 🤢. Nothing against larger people but that wasn’t what I signed up for. Now I’m with the love of my life and he’s beautiful inside and out. The smoothest skin and toned body. He rocks my world. We don’t have to settle for men we are not attracted to. Attraction is very impo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:04 AM |
| 10 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highSo true. And don’t get me started on all the guys who look down on women yet fail at traditionally manly things. The men I know who bust their asses building houses, hunting and skinning animals, etc, are good men who love their partners and don’t go around feeling like they are special or owed something. Scrotes who despise modern women wouldn’t last a day in the 50s. They’d be crying like babies without their internet security blankets (porn, Reddit, gaming). Imagine being at the end of your l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 67 | So thoughtful 🥰Legit had a guy pull this sh*t. He was SO dull and boring. Nothing interesting to say. Then he would get drunk and call incessantly even when I was working. What’s up with these guys? I’ve met so many that I truly think we are living in an idiocracy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:13 AM |
| 6 | I think the f*ck notBroken guys can’t be fixed. Please. Just move on. Trying to fix men will suck the life out of you as most of us here know all too well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:08 AM |
| 8 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThey don’t have careers. Men with stuff to actually lose “half of” to women are not on Reddit. These guys ain’t got shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:58 AM |
| 15 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highTheir idea of a good woman is an 18 yr old sheltered virgin who will be a house maid and bear their children and basically be enslaved to their low value asses for life. Because, you know, the 1950s were apparently the pinnacle of society - for men. They don’t even know what feminism stands for, they only know they’re against women gaining power, but for men to want better lives its all good because they’ve been SO oppressed lol. The reality is, they hate that women these days can support themse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:57 AM |
| 15 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highAnd that’s about half the country. Vet very carefully ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:52 AM |
| 26 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highYep. My bf is far exceeding basic decency yet before him I dated half a dozen guys that didn’t even come close to basic decency standards. Instead of celebrating the fact that they have dicks and build stuff, they should be helping each other figure out why women are noping the hell out of them in droves. I am extremely blessed to have found a good one. It’s very sad that it’s so hard for women to find decent, respectful men. Damn sad state of affairs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:47 AM |
| 8 | My worst date...🤷♀️ I appreciate it and don’t feel like a hobo. If anything he does perturbs me in any way, I lovingly let him know. I don’t feel it’s condescending to give me the change. To each their own though. We are pretty established so that changes things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 12:55 AM |
| 85 | My worst date...My bf gives me the change when he pays every time. He says I might need it for parking. Who are these losers, my lord. How do they feel good about themselves? My mind is truly boggled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:12 AM |
| 15 | Most men my age are permanently undateable because of porn. Yes, permanently.I am very glad you posted this. This is REAL and it’s TRAGIC. When I first met my (now ex) husband, the first few times we had sex he was playing porn on the tv! I was 28 and hadn’t watched much porn at all and thought it was weird of course. After a few weeks I said I didn’t feel comfortable with that set up. Imagine being a sexy, fit foreigner and your boyfriend has to have porn on in the background while you fuck? I remember jerking him off and it took so long and so much friction that he got… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:52 AM |
| 23 | Found this lol. "What myth is still widely circulated as truth?" Sorry, didn't know what flair to use.Same. My homely exes treated me like dirt. My boyfriend now is beautiful, has an amazing body and worships the ground I walk on. Why was he single? Because he’s super unusual and is obsessed with nature and his hobbies and women didn’t connect with his interests but I do and it’s been blissful. I love having a sexy boyfriend after years of hoping the homely guys would love me. Nope, they all took me for granted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:27 AM |
| 9 | Found this lol. "What myth is still widely circulated as truth?" Sorry, didn't know what flair to use.I had a boyfriend once who seemed really attracted to me on the surface. I was 22 and wore long skirts and was very cute and he’d been watching me walk by his apartment for months then asked me out. Turns out his twin sister was a lesbian, and for whatever reason, he told me that cheating on him with a woman would be 10x worse than with a man. When we had sex it felt so awkward and forced. Then his female roommates approached me one day and told me they’d caught him looking at anal porn , I gues… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:20 AM |
| 2 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.Awww thanks so much for the bday wishes (it’s in a few days!) and the recipe links, I am totally going to make this! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:43 PM |
| -1 | Don't let these men use you!I agree to a point, but sometimes a person can search for a job and not find one. I hear people say this a lot who haven’t had to look for a job. I had a very hard time finding a job and ultimately did gig work and self employment. If someone is looking and clearly ambitious that’s very different than someone who doesn’t care and has given up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:24 AM |
| 32 | A lot of men treat dating as transactional, if he’s looking for a transaction then maybe he should consider hiring a sexworker.Yep, I don’t put out for the price of a meal. These scrotes be bargain hunting, too cheap to pay a hooker so they hope a $30 dinner with drinks will get them sex. Nope, go down to the seedy side of town with $30 and get you a blow job from a toothless methhead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:07 AM |
| 4 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.That’s gorgeous and I bet it tastes delicious. Nothing like a homemade cake. I feel inspired now to try to make something this amazing! And happy happy birthday from a fellow Scorpio 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 16 | DID SHE LIE?!Gross. My boyfriend is not rich by any stretch and lives very frugally but just the other day he gave me $100 and said he wanted me to keep it in my room in case I needed it because times are tough. He pulls out his wallet all the time to pay because it obviously makes him feel good. These cheap ass scrotes can’t afford sh*t, probably have no life skills and eat out all the time and blow their small income on stupid stuff then complain about women wanting dates paid for. We want dates paid for b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 10:55 AM |
| 20 | DID SHE LIE?!Exactly! I get $130 per month each for my two kids. I could be getting a LOT more but I didn’t want to stir the pot with my juvenile, vengeful ex husband. I have friends who are the same. One of my friends got divorced and her ex got their house and was supposed to give her half the profits upon selling it. He made 100k profit and kept it all to himself. She was so disgusted with him at that point she didn’t even pursue her 50k share. I thought she was crazy but that’s how beaten down she was by… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 10:50 AM |
| 17 | DID SHE LIE?!You know it. They use women as much if not more than woman use men financially, yet all these subs exist for men to complain that only women do it. You know “take half your shit”. They got the shit part right, cause most of them have shit to even take. They can’t even support themselves, or barely. They have no ambitions either so they claim to be going their own way but the reality is they’re dying for the love of a woman. I’m not one to look for money, I’m happy just getting by for now, but I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 10:40 AM |
| 19 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyMy ex husband actually asked me how big my boyfriend’s dick was. We were divorced for a few years at that point and he had a girlfriend. It was super weird to me that he wanted to know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:11 AM |
| 31 | I love when she says “low effort might work at the first stages of the relationship, but I guarantee you that you will be pissed in a few years, when he puts in 0 effort into doing anything for you...don’t set yourself up for failure like that, be firm in what you want”My bf is a wonderful man but whenever I housesat (it’s my side job) and he stayed with me, I felt like I did the dishes and cooked while he just relaxed. I ended up talking to him about it a bit, more like a passing comment, and boy did he change his ways fast. Ever since then he’s washed dishes, cooked and even given me massages. He said I was right and he needs to be the bf I’m worthy of. If you communicate with them and they still don’t get a clue, they probably never will. Set your standards… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:40 PM |
| 156 | The audacity!My ex husband would do this all the time. He’d get me upset then the focus would be on my reaction rather than what he did to cause it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:58 PM |
| 4 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️This is how my boyfriend would be if, god forbid, I were to get very sick. Last week I told him that the weird pains I’d been feeling in my lungs warranted a trip to my doctor. He asked me if he could go to my appointment with me. I was so touched by that. Imagine, some of us have been so used to LVM that when we finally find a decent human being of a partner we are overwhelmed with emotion and shock that we got so “lucky”. I’ve only known him for 4 months but he’s wanted to be a part of my life… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Found on iFunnyI did fact check, thank you. Snopes verified it when I looked there, so I don’t know what this is that you found. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:51 AM |
| 13 | Ever taken a really good, leveled-up look at your labias and vagina?I hear you, I was petrified of sex as a teenager because I thought I was deformed down there. I’d been exposed to porn, sadly, at a young age and I felt like I didn’t look normal. I even looked into a labiaplasty as well. With time I accepted my body and was able to be a sexual being but never felt entirely okay with my partners looking up close at my vagina. I don’t know what they thought of it, but they still went down there, and has they stopped, so would I have, because unlike most men, I th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:49 AM |
| 21 | Ever taken a really good, leveled-up look at your labias and vagina?Let’s not forget they’ve been known to fuck cows, sheep, horses, etc. They don’t actually care about our labia, it’s just another way to try to diminish our power. Making us insecure is how they try to control us. Secure men have NO problem with varying labia shapes and sizes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:38 AM |
| 50 | This is true 100% of the timeI also find it curious that in 2020 society still refers to all animals of an unknown gender as a “he”. “Look at that cute elephant, HE’S so big” etc. Try replacing he with she and it will be met with confusion and resistance in cases where gender isn’t obvious, and I’ve seen videos on Reddit where the gender WAS obviously female and the animal was still referred to as a male. I once brought this topic up on another Reddit forum and was completely bashed right and left by men. At least the Spani… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:23 AM |
| 32 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”I was with a guy for years whose dick couldn’t stay hard enough for him to perform so he just gave up. Didn’t try to pleasure me either. He just cuddled with me all night. I’m ashamed I put up with that. Most men would never stay for years with a woman who didn’t give them sex. Anyway, I finally dumped him he started sending me drunk texts like “I want to eat your pussy hole so bad” (wtf says pussy hole?), they then progressed to “I want to eat your butthole so bad” and he kinda stuck with the a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 11 | Found on iFunnyHmm, thought it would post as an image. Could a mod maybe fix that? TIA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:05 PM |
| 11 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!Thank you! A friend invited me to spend the night in a cabin two hours away with her and her boyfriend and 3 of his friends. There were plenty of rooms and I had no intention of hitting it off with any of the guys. I just wanted to be in nature and have fun. One of the guys wouldn’t shake my hand until he washed his which I thought was very thoughtful. Later that night around a bonfire I was kinda drunk and aired my views on how damaging porn is. I guess he liked what he heard/saw because he end… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:24 AM |
| 25 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!Porn changed my mind about men like 15 years ago. I dealt with my ex husbands addiction to it for many years and after that I just lost interest in men. I did think I’d found guys that were different, but they weren’t. I wanted to know what making love felt like versus sex. I had that with one post-divorce boyfriend, but he was such an alcoholic that his dick didn’t function (there was more to it than just the alcohol, he smoked too and was emotionally and sexually repressed). But the handful of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:22 AM |
| 5 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.I know men who totally string along women because it’s better than being alone to them. Usually boring, unattractive men. One of them has never told his girlfriend he loved her after two years. I do think some men treat women better if they make their dicks harder. It probably doesn’t last, relationships based on sexual attraction usually don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 11 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.Exactly. I was 20 and dated a married 31 yr old. He lied and said he was permanently separated from his wife but they lived together for financial reasons. I do believe he wasn’t sleeping with her because he ended up giving me clamydia, I doubt I was the only one he was being a dog with. I broke it off and he threw a mantrum over it. I think he thought being tall, having a big (diseased) dick and being a pro athlete with his own home and classic cars made him catch of the century. So glad I had … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:15 PM |
| 9 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.So glad I’m dating a guy almost 6 years younger than me (we are in 40s). He is so into me physically and adores me. I’ve dated older men. One 42 yr old when I was 25. Total douchebag and a shitty lover. With all the choices women have it behooves me that they waste their youth on any much older guys. We deserve to enjoy our youth with equally youthful men. When I was 42 I tried to date a 57 yr old but he just seemed so old and people stared at us everywhere, I know they thought he was a sugar da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Do you trust him to take care of things?I agree but I have so much experience under my belt now, I’m older than most women here I’m sure. I know what I want and need now which I really didn’t know in my 20s and 30s. He’s older too and I’m sure feels the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you trust him to take care of things?That’s true, going through all those things cost me my marriage. I do sometimes wonder if we would have made it without all the stress we had to endure. But I still think there were fundamental compatibility issues from the get-go that were buried by our sexual chemistry and having fun together. My current boyfriend and I have that too but very similar emotional styles and love language. I think that’s very important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:59 PM |
| 13 | “Stop accepting what you don’t want to settle for and go find you someone who can give you what you want.”Same. I somehow normalized it in my mind because I had never cared about my birthday due to no one really caring about it either. That’s not okay to think that way. I wasted 7 years on this guy who forgot probably half of them! And the times he remembered he would just send a text “happy birthday!” That was literally the extent of it. Oh, until the year after I left his ass. Then we sort of got back together shortly before my bday and suddenly he was all like “we have to celebrate! I would love … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:02 AM |
| 11 | Do you trust him to take care of things?I met the love of my life only 4 months ago but when you know you just know. Met him through a friend I hadn’t heard from in many, many years. I don’t think she expected us in particular to hit it off but she wanted to get me around a small handful of single men that weekend. He’s got a great sensitivity chip and since day one has made my emotional and physical well being a priority. He thinks of things that I might have missed, he’s responsible and keeps me in check with certain bad habits I po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Why can’t men get this through their brains?Thanks for your reply! I definitely don’t take any shit from any men anymore. He definitely knows that. If I am remotely upset about some dumb thing he said he fixes things right away. I’ve got him wrapped around my finger, but I also respect him and it’s just a really great dynamic between us. The girlfriends weren’t all bad but there were a few workplace romances that ended badly. And I think being so deeply into his hobbies didn’t help him meet women. He’s very quirky and boyish and this woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:21 AM |
| 8 | Why can’t men get this through their brains?Truth. My boyfriend fully agrees that men as a whole are to be distrusted until firmly proving themselves otherwise. My boyfriend describes himself as half female because he’s so not your typical male. He didn’t even know what an incel was, he’s had problems finding and keeping girlfriends just because he’s so different and maybe a little overly enthusiastic early on (I love it). He is so gentle and innocent and cares so much about my every feeling. Maybe if more men would be like him they could… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:46 PM |
| 18 | I don’t think Taylor really cares what you think, Stefan.I remember reading that women in their 40s are one of the largest age groups for having abortions. It’s such a myth about fertility declining rapidly after 30. I was pregnant at 30, 32 and 35 way too easily. I’m 46 and only now skipping a period here and there but you better believe I’m careful af these days. My friend could never get her pregnant in her 20s, ended up adopting. Each woman is different as are men, when it comes to fertility. Many men seem to get something out of perpetuating the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:36 AM |
| 28 | Good morning FDSCollectively, about 20 years for me. Yeah I was a slow learner but I really like and respect myself now and wouldn’t you know it coincided with meeting a great guy who treats me so well and cares so much about me. I sometimes catch myself thinking I don’t deserve this, but then I stop myself and realize it’s that same destructive voice in me that told me to stay with LVM because I was making them that way and I just needed to be better for them. I totally deserve this! And I’m not ever settling … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 46 | Male delusion is realMy 16 yr old daughter was just telling me today how she hopes tik tok is banned because it’s now become another hub for incels (she used to love it). I asked her to elaborate and she said it’s a bunch of losers calling each other Kings over anything they say like “my girlfriend left me”, it’s like “bruh you are a King and deserve better” without knowing anything, the self-victimization is so strong with these boys, they don’t even consider what men do to make women leave. She said they all feel … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:11 PM |
| 46 | I'm tired of viewing men as the enemy.Same, sister. I had CFS most of our marriage. It took a few years after our divorce to start feeling better but every year that goes by that I’m single, I feel so much more energized. Most men are very selfish and will suck the life out of you if you let them. I do have a boyfriend now but we don’t live together and he showers me with affection and attention so I feel really good in my life right now. But most of my exes aged me and I wish so much I could go back in time and not been such a weak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 13 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectStory of my life. Most of my exes used me as an emotional tampon, were very manipulative too. Like threatening suicide when I left, crying to me on the phone when I withdrew from them, pretending that they loved me SO much whenever I left, but neglecting me emotionally when we were together. Ugh. My current bf can be a little needy and emotional at times but he’s so generous towards me with his love, time and support unlike my exes. It’s so typical of men to act (and actually be) clueless when i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 7 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEThank you! He’s too good for this world. One of those people. He’s the sun in my sky. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:09 AM |
| 15 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEJust rediscovered that song yesterday! Her music is angelic. My favorite song by her is Afer Ventus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:06 AM |
| 77 | In MemoriamI believe they still fall short of confirming someone. Romney, two Republican women and I think one other have vowed not to vote for anyone and so I believe it won’t happen. Let’s hope anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:36 AM |
| 225 | In MemoriamBrought me to tears. She hung on for so long. What a beautiful soul just wishing to change the world for the better. I would also like to add that she said she married the only guy she dated who loved her for her brain. Married 56 years. HVM right there. Supported her through her life mission and remained loyal and loving. She said he had a great sense of humor while she had a sober one. Go for men with great senses of humor who respect intelligence in women. That aside, she lived her life on he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 62 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEMy boyfriend adores Enya and one of our first dates was a picnic in the park listening to her music while drinking BOXED WINE. He also loves cats as do I. It’s so funny how they spin what we consider a damn good life into something negative. Enya knows. It would take one hell of a man to be worthy of her beauty, amazing talent, castle, and life of wine and cats. I’m sure her friends and family are all she needs in the absence of such a rare man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 8 | Poor womanI’m super visual. I usually go for baby faced guys that are playful and sexy so I have a type and I need to be attracted to them. The same guys who claim women don’t care about looks are probably the same ones that think women can’t, or don’t care about, getting her own orgasm. Simply delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Charlize Theron Reveals She Hasn't Dated Anyone In 5 Years: 'I Don’t Feel Lonely'Exactly. They don’t know what they want at all. When I pursued them harder, they retreated more, then when I withdrew from them, they pursued me harder. Then when I tried to break up once and for all with them suddenly they would text and say they wished they had married me, will never find someone like me, miss me so much, etc. One even said he had no reason to live anymore. Please. I told him he had had plenty of time to try harder with me over the years and I was done. So much time wasted, so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:52 PM |
| 17 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.FDS helped me dump my LVM ex once and for all. He’s still trying to contact me. I am in a relationship with a man who treats me like a queen too. Makes a lot of time for me, cares deeply about my emotional and physical well-being, makes me a priority, romances me, and as a bonus he keeps himself fit. This sub helps remind women that there are such men out there, and I was ready to be single forever rather than lower my standards. I had low standards for far too long. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 35 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.So awkward! Ugh. The small dicked guys usually harbor a lot of mental issues over their size and act out oddly. My ex would get drunk at the bar and blurt out “I have a small penis but my girlfriend seems to like it!” And other ways he could bring his penis into a conversation. I’m so glad I’m not with him anymore. Before that guy, I was in a sexless relationship for years with a man with ED. Thankfully God finally took mercy on me and sent me a man not only bigger than average but even in his 4… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 22 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.It also feels better for them because they hug their penis, but these scrotes are so brainwashed by porn they think normal women are gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 47 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:I once had a guy tell me that he cooks a mean lobster tail and would be willing to have me over for some if I would do sexual things with him. He said that’s the only way it would be worth his money. I kid you not. He was a NVM as in negative value. 48 and never had a girlfriend. Go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:15 AM |
| 29 | Charlize Theron Reveals She Hasn't Dated Anyone In 5 Years: 'I Don’t Feel Lonely'And he’s marrying a 28 yr old. Typical. I’m sure that will last forever 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:52 AM |
| 29 | Charlize Theron Reveals She Hasn't Dated Anyone In 5 Years: 'I Don’t Feel Lonely'46 and was pretty much single for the past 11 years. “Dated” a few flakes that could neither commit nor let me go. I found someone this year who is perfect for me but before him I was totally happy to continue being single forever. I’m not sure I need to marry again either. Maybe ceremonial somehow, but legally, I doubt it. I’m going to end up with more money than him anyway and we aren’t having kids. I don’t see the point. Women like Charlize and Winona are too much for most scrotes. Being stro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:42 AM |
| 28 | It’s amazing that so many “red pilled” men think women can’t take accountability for their actions and yet these scrotes can LITERALLY ABANDON CHILDREN and somehow make it women’s fault.I dated this guy for a brief time who didn’t work and had his kid half the time. He did what I see all my female friends do as far as taking care of the child, and he described himself as “the best fucking father in the world”. 🙄A scrote I know who terrorized his ex so much that she left him and their three sons, had a huge deal of help from his mom. When I pointed that out when he was on a trip about the other greatest dad in the world, he said he had to pay his mom so it didn’t count. He paid … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 12 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.That’s so awful, I’m so sorry. There are some really evil people out there. Hugs 🤗 I briefly stayed with a guy I wasn’t romantically involved with who had a tiny puppy and one night I watched him toss her in the trash can in a rage because she peed on the carpet. I was so traumatized and the next day I left and moved in with my estranged sister rather than stay one more night with that fucking beast. I can easily imagine he beat up women. How they treat animals says so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:07 AM |
| 16 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Anecdotally, my shitty ex hated cats and the love of my life likes them. Every halfway decent guy I’ve known owns a cat or likes them at least. The shitty guy never owned a pet and barely acknowledged his two daughters, who were raised by his mother and aunts. Ashamed I wasted years of my life with this selfish ahole because he was “fun” and had an exciting life. Now he’s a major alcoholic in a downward spiral. Men who like cats (and their own kids) are a much safer bet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 16 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.My female gynos would ask me if I was abused because I tensed up so much during Pap smears they could barely get the speculum up there. In fact, I was. Like 1/3 or so of young women/girls sadly. After I broke up with my “boyfriend” (we never had sex after the first few months and he had major issues), his friend and I got drunk at a bar one time and ended up in bed and he actually damaged my cervix. I had to go to the hospital the next day with cervical tears and bleeding. He obviously totally g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:53 AM |
| 3 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the trufI didn’t know that sub existed! Jeez how many subs do these scrotes have trying to convince themselves their violent gender is superior? 98% of prisoners are male, and all they can do is post the rare and random female sex offender or murderer stories. Pathetic really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:36 AM |
| 14 | The most popular career for men is...We had an HVAC guy show up stoned years ago and did the entire system back asswards, long story, but he totally fucked it all up. Then another idiot refinished my wood floors stoned and buzzed and whatever he did, the finish did not cure properly. Plus he stole some tools out of my garage. A meth head plumber showed up and stole all my jewelry once and didn’t even fix the problem. Men say women can’t do these jobs yet so many men can’t even f*cking do these jobs. It’s not rocket science. I know … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:26 AM |
| 9 | New Zealand passes legislation granting domestic violence leave!When I was being beaten up by my partner at the time, I remember having nowhere to go, no recourse. I called shelters only to be told I couldn’t go to any because I didn’t have children. I ended up staying with a total stranger in my apartment complex for a few weeks. She was an angel for taking me in, saw me crying in the lobby and offered me a place to stay while I could figure out where to go. I’ve since helped a friend in a similar situation. She was in two consecutive abusive relationships … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:11 AM |
| 30 | Go build me a table!Love this. Men will go on about how their gender built everything and constructed society, meanwhile they sit around on Reddit and porn sites unable to even properly wash their own bums. It’s like, no chimps, you don’t get to ride the coattails of men who actually did shit in the world. If you wanna go there, get off your arses and go build a skyscraper or hell, even just change a fucking flat tire. Most of them are totally useless these days yet try to lump themselves in with the productive, sk… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:45 AM |
| 55 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?He has really ramped up flirting with me and told me he would wear me down till I would be with him. Not going to happen. I am with a man that I’m very attracted to, I don’t need to settle for someone who thinks he can “wear me down”. I do care about this friend but as we both get older (I’m 46) he is getting increasingly flirtatious and I don’t appreciate it. It seems that I will have to end the friendship soon if he doesn’t stop. I don’t want to rub in his face that I am blissfully happy now w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:04 AM |
| 126 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?My boyfriend is so innocent that one night in front of the glow of the TV he said he could see 34 pores on my cheeks and he said it like it was something cute. I was horrified. But it wasn’t something in his eyes was even unattractive. He makes me feel beautiful all the time. I have taken great care of my skin my whole life but it’s not 100% perfect. I have pretty big boobs but he told me that most men don’t even care about the size, they just like boobs. He’s never objectified me. I had to tell… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 16 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?Not gonna lie, my boyfriend is a pretty bad dresser but I can work on that. He just doesn’t ever buy clothes for himself and has pretty...interesting... taste. That said, I can walk around with no makeup on and looking kinda rough from a night of partying and he makes me feel like the sexiest woman on the planet. I will take the bad clothes for now, he is super good to me in every way. There’s hope with the clothes, I’ve gotten him some and he likes everything I buy him. Not so much hope with ov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 66 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏I was 26 and he was 43 and turned out to be a total jerk. He criticized a poem I wrote that won a prize ($300) and that was the final straw for me. Super controlling and weird guy. Don’t know what the hell I was thinking at the time. Just young and dumb, but not too dumb to not realize what a loser he was before investing too much time in him. Sex wasn’t good either. He didn’t even try to win me back after I dumped him. I’m 46 now with a 41 yr old partner who would crawl over hot coals to win me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:37 AM |
| 14 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Yeah it is. I’ve tried it and it felt so wrong and I got nothing out of it. I’ve been with several men who needed weird things to get off. My boyfriend is so old fashioned and romantic. Writes me poetry and holds and kisses my hand all the time. I think back on the guys I dated who really didn’t have a romantic bone in their body and just wanted to sex me up and it’s just all too common. I think most women would love to be courted and cherished and all that. Respected and not sexualized (though … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 22 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Oh that wouldn’t do. I actually did that to a guy once. He liked it but what he wanted was phone sex. Broken brains indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:39 PM |
| -3 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Not sure why you got all the downvotes. They certainly were more wholesome in general but yes many women were trapped and miserable, however there were a lot more cases of true loves sticking together for all eternity than there are now too. It worked both ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 44 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Yep, even a 6 yr old boy I used to babysit would look at the lingerie section of a Sears catalog and chase me around haha (I was 13). Boys and men have always found women beautiful, there was never any need to take it as far as it went with porn. It’s such disrespect. Used to be that a woman in her underwear was extremely tantalizing. Now it has to involve huge dicks raping her anally or something else super degrading. Porn really is evil and anti-women all the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 39 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.My boyfriend takes photos of me when we are out together, they don’t turn out great because I’m totally not photogenic, but he’ll text them to me randomly and I know he’s looking at them and thinks I’m beautiful. Never asked for a nude, never tried to take a nude photo of me. That’s a LVM who will ask that of you, period. A man who loves you needs only to see your face. He may love your body but that boundary of respect will be there. I’m truly sorry for the state of things these days for women.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 36 | Men who "lost everything in the divorce" usually deserve it. Rich men often target poorer women because they are easier to control and financially abuse. It's the same reason men go after much younger women: they seek to have more power in the relationship.I receive around $150 a month in child support for my two teens. My ex makes 3x my earnings. He remarried and his wife makes 70k a year. He owns a house, a fancy vehicle, a boat, etc. I have none of that. I could get a lot more in child support, but like many of my friends, we just don’t bother. It’s not worth it in the end. I do expect him to do more for them and sometimes he delivers but not always. He got a real sweet deal and he knows it. I’m so so tired of hearing men screech about “losing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:35 AM |
| 13 | Seriously?Then again, women could slap men across the face and not get beat up by them. Not so today. It’s always fun to see the old movies where the badass woman smacks the dude’s face hard, and he always deserved it. But yeah, I hear ya about some of those shows. I recently watched Mad Men and those guys were all such dogs and pigs. And scrotes like to pretend that was such a good era for men and women alike. Sure, because women loved being second class citizens and cheated on and not being able to leav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 15 | Seriously?Don’t you know? They can’t make a living because women sToLE aLL tHe jObS. It’s women’s fault they failed to launch. Women tRyNa bE MeN. We should have stayed in the kitchen where we belong. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 31 | Seriously?Reddit men be all “back when women were women!” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 120 | Leveling up is the best revenge.So beyond glad I didn’t marry any of the 3 that talked about it to me. For starters, they were all messed up emotionally, just hid it well from the rest of the world. I also might never have met my current partner and the love of my life who gives me so much of his time, love, affection and attention - something my exes didn’t do, they tossed me just enough crumbs over the years to keep my then-pathetic ass strung along. I weep for the pickmeisha I once was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:32 PM |
| 7 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultLike the men in Victorian times lusting over the sight of an ankle, although methinks they were looking at the outline of her breasts no doubt. She should have wrapped them down tightly with several layers of tight bandages. Such a dishonorable woman! Ugh. Total animals, so grateful to have been born in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 7 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultI find many have empathy for themselves only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:10 AM |
| 179 | Hey Males, Instead of being offended at us calling you "Scrotes" you should try and reclaim the word so it's Empowering. You can try slipping it in casual conversation to signal you're cool like "Me & all My Scrotes about to hit up a party" or "What Up My Scrotes?". Let us know how it works out.Don’t forget thots, c*nts, bitches, hoes, gashes, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 64 | Facts: Facts editionIt’s also yet another way for men to play the victim, which they clearly love to do. They aren’t frickin “friend zoned” - they were never anything more to begin with, except in their own minds, so they had to create a whole term for their self-pity over not getting the kind of women they feel entitled to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:39 AM |
| 16 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...I had a bf for a short time who did the same thing. He would orgasm and after I would ask if he would go down on me and he wouldn’t do it - he said men lose all interest in sexual stuff after they come. Way to be a selfish asshole. I have had a hard time asserting myself too. Only with my ex husband of ten years did I have a very mutually satisfying sex life. It was effortlessly great that way, and he always cared about making me climax. Then I had several lovers after him that didn’t even come … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 26 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?They totally stalk us. Supposedly at 5’9 (almost) and 165 lbs I am overweight. They can’t be serious but that’s what they say. I look way better now than when I was a stick figure which I was most of my life. I love my new curves and so does my guy. They are just so jealous that we can have sex anytime. That’s their whole deal. It’s quite obvious. They resent the power of the pussy. Sorry guys, you have had all the power since the beginning of time and you can’t stand we have this one thing over… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 35 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?No self awareness. Very rare to find a guy who possesses this. I’m sick of hearing how society teaches guys to be “stoic” and unemotional. That’s a bullshit cope. My boyfriend is super emotional and supposedly women don’t like that? Oh yes i do, after years and years with men who couldn’t even cry or act human at times when it really mattered, yes I do. And he’s more manly than most of them believe me. That’s the funny thing. They think their toxic masculinity is appealing. It’s gross and if I l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:52 AM |
| 10 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Yeah my boyfriend is a normal human being and he said to me yesterday that he has only the utmost respect for any man who loved me. He never asked me my number and I’m sure he wouldn’t want to know, and yeah I know when we mention our exes it’s not super pleasant but we are both fully mature adults that understand we had a life and sex and love before each other. The incels are like children throwing a fit over not getting candy. They think a woman they like should never have loved or had sex wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 14 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Wow lady, what a post. You said everything we’re all thinking here but so damn succinctly. This sub is full of intelligent, insightful, tough ass, wise women and they can’t stand it. All they can do is banter about superficial, meaningless shit and hate talk so of course they are threatened by the true sisterhood we have here. I love how they talk about men building the world, really? Let’s see a world without women. Even if they could grow humans in a lab, that world would go to shit so fast wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:34 AM |
| 9 | Easiest decision ever!Meh not impressed with the guys. They are probably super vain. Mind you my boyfriend is very fit but he’s not buff and that’s totally ok with me. I’ve dated guys that look like this and they were actually a lot nicer than the sloppy scrotes though, you know, the ones who look like sh*t and do nothing but judge women’s looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 11 | Straight from the horse's mouth, what garbage low value mgtow 'men' thinkYep. They talk about wishing to have sex with young women all the time but all women are bad because we want to fuck this mythical “Chad” guy. The hypocrisy is truly astounding. They are extremely jealous that women can have as much sex as we want so they waste hours of their lives every day trying to make us feel too old, too ugly, etc, it’s really pathetic. They haven’t gone any way except straight down a hole of abject misery and loneliness. All the emphasis on money and selfishness, haha ok.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Straight from the horse's mouth, what garbage low value mgtow 'men' thinkThose guys are SO toxic and fucked up it’s not even funny. They will disparage any woman who didn’t marry as a Virgin at 18 and have 5 kids and stayed with their douche bag asses until their dying breath. The worst is the whereareallthegoodmen sub. They make the pathetic mgtow pricks look like slightly less incredible losers and I didn’t think that was possible. They think that women who have had multiple relationships are used up, our vaginas are “blown out”, we are no good and have no sensibil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 35 | A Reminder: What He Won't Provide For You, Someone Else Will.My boyfriend is really affectionate and caring. He’s very concerned about my health (which is fine, he just wants me to outlive him), he bought me expensive vitamins ahd is always trying to better my life in any way he can. Couldn’t sleep so he cut some fresh lavender for me and brought it to my house (supposed to help with sleep). Remembers every little thing I ever told him, so he already knows so much about me. I’ve been with men for years who never knew me like he does. He always supports me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:31 PM |
| 25 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madI’ve had like 6 guys mention marriage in the early days. They seem to like to do that, they put you on a pedestal for several months. My entire love life has consisted of men doing this, then finding out I’m not actually their fantasy woman - gasp - and I get mad sometimes, and I don’t always think they’re funny and I let them know that, and call them out on all their bullshit behavior, and their little egos get hurt and then I’m not their fantasy woman anymore - BUT - they can’t do any better t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 29 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madSo true. My ex who treated me like crap is losing his damn shit because he found out I have a boyfriend. I flat out told him “too bad, you had endless chances to treat me better and you never did, now let me enjoy what I deserve from a man and stop contacting me”. Have been getting the “I’m just done with life now, wish you the best” texts. God sometimes I just despise men. They take SO much from us, shamelessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:45 AM |
| 29 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madThis is really sadly spot on. My last relationship, loser wanted to tell me how to dress, not too sexy, but then sexy for him but then not this way or that way, and don’t cut my hair ever, don’t deprive him of his “right to sex” (yes he said that), look good but not TOO sexy that I could leave him for another guy (said that too), don’t get a spray tan, too sexy! But then, wait, you’re kind of pale, let’s get you some sun babe. You don’t have to do x, y, or z anymore because now YOU HAVE A MAN. M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:39 AM |
| 39 | Unconventional red flagsDated a guy with a small penis. I never said anything to him or acted like it was a problem but he would get drunk at the bar and blurt out stuff like “I have a small penis but my girlfriend seems to like it!” It was so cringey, then when I broke it off because he was an obnoxious, insecure drunk, he cried like a baby then proceeded to text me every few weeks begging me to come over and he just “needed a hug”. No buddy, you need a shit ton of therapy and I’m not your therapist. Buh-bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 20 | Unconventional red flagsWow this really resonated. He used me to trot around to his friends, family and colleagues to boost his ego and status (look ma! See, I CAN get a girlfriend!) but in reality kept me at arm’s length emotionally and was flaky and selfish and just a terrible (non) boyfriend. I should have known when I met his incredibly sweet grandparents and they told him right in front of me “you better be good to her”. He wasn’t. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Unconventional red flagsI get that, but it’s good to have them and build credit. I’ve had about ten cc’s for years now and I pay them off every month. If you can’t even have them without paying them off every month then you shouldn’t have them at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:20 AM |
| 31 | Unconventional red flagsI had a bf once and we were at a party and the guy throwing the party was there with just my bf and I in the backyard, we had all been drinking, and he pulled me onto his lap and my bf literally said to the guy “what about me?” And the guy goes “she’s good looking, you’re not”. Talk about bottom of the hierarchy. No respect given to him. I just let it happen because I was pretty tired of his shit anyway. He was the kind of guy who let his buddies treat him however, and then he’d rage on me, his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:14 AM |
| 36 | Unconventional red flagsI have a few to add that happened to me - Wayyy too close to his sister. Fawned over her, always talked about her, took her to the airport and picked her up every time, always said how “incredible” she was. Met her and she was screechy, obnoxious woman. Both he and his sister were around 50 and neither had really had a relationship. We didn’t last long at all and I was relieved. Weird stuff. Guys who talk bad about their exes or you know of some circumstance about them that raises red flags. For… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | What is going on with men these days? Rant, will probably delete but damn.Yes, I have pretty much been telling her all these things most of her life. I finally met a man who I want to actually spend my life with and who is so not your typical guy. He’s very sensitive and grew up with sisters and his mother and loves women. He has a feminine side that I really love. We are already best friends after two months. But before him I talked to my daughter and broke down and told her I had been thinking maybe I could be with a woman. She was super supportive and totally under… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 11 | What is going on with men these days? Rant, will probably delete but damn.You can be certain that there will be sexbots for women, and that men will throw massive fits about that too. They’ll never stop harassing us and being jealous of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 58 | What is going on with men these days? Rant, will probably delete but damn.Never!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:32 AM |
| 77 | What is going on with men these days? Rant, will probably delete but damn.It seems like a way for men / boys to “bond” with each other. A very sad way. Similar to “locker room talk”. I have found looking around on Reddit that they bond through degrading talk about women, porn, pop culture references, and complaining about women. They encourage each other to think this way and it’s a mode of acceptance at the expense of women, as usual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 3 | A pretty reminder to continue being your baddest self.My username checks out 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 5 | He's not too busy to text back. He's not having phone issues. He's just a LVM.Yes. They certainly do notice and while they might not be openly upset about it I’ve had them say some things like “well you went a whole day without texting me” when I complain. It’s like, ok wow, I didn’t think you cared since you don’t care about keeping in touch with me, but they DO notice and care when the tables are turned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:06 AM |
| 7 | He's not too busy to text back. He's not having phone issues. He's just a LVM.So, my bf is a little different in that he got a cell phone real late in life and really does leave it a lot so I don’t get replies super fast, BUT when he does reply, he addresses every single thing I said, and it clearly took him some effort. He tells me if I ever feel insecure because maybe he isn’t texting back fast or his words were misconstrued, to please call him. He really emphasized that. And he is really into me so yes you will know. A HVM will communicate with you even if it’s to tell… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:03 AM |
| 3 | The double standard behind “not all men”Exactly!!! My dad says this too! And my boyfriend freely admits most men are yucky. He has his group of buddies but doesn’t participate in “locker room” talk about women, doesn’t get it, and is so chivalrous and romantic, they do exist out there but man it’s depressing a selection these days and I had to wait till age 46 to find him but damn he was worth the wait. I had to find a guy who was really into the things he loves and didn’t have time to be red-pilled, nor would he have allowed himself … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:55 AM |
| 13 | Freudian slipOmg this is hilarious. I kind of believe this one unlike the “I have the wrong age but I couldn’t figure out to change it” guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:47 AM |
| 10 | Stop Sexualizing yourselfThis so much. My bf saw a really passionate, strong woman speaking my mind the night we met and he was confident enough to ask me that night if he could lay beside me. He did not push sex at all but we made out passionately, it was far more than just physical attraction. He tells me I’m one hell of a woman and he truly respects and adores me. If all you present is sex you probably won’t find a HVM. I don’t dress super sexy or anything and he seems fine with that. If anything he gets a little ner… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:41 AM |
| 8 | Stop Sexualizing yourselfI’ve been seeing someone for almost two months now and he basically told me I didn’t need to keep acting sexy, I mean I think he picked up on that was my whole sense of self worth in my life. He just wants me to know that I don’t have to play that role for him. I’ve never had more intense or better sex with someone in my life. He always makes love to me, not just sex, he gets emotional and he stays connected to me the whole time. It’s really been hard to grasp that a man loves me this much and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:32 AM |
| 6 | “Girl he is the SWEETEST, sometimes he just doesn’t text back bc he’s busy you know?? We aren’t even official but he wants to move in w me, he’s THAT into me.”That’s so sad. I’ve been there. It was the biggest waste of three years of my life. Same thing - choking. That was his favorite tactic, had spit on my face many times too. At least after I finally stopped trying to love him into not hurting me anymore, and left, I found a guy who would never lay a hand on me. We lasted for a decade, married, kids. Then I kissed a few frogs and now have the most angelic man to love. He’s so pure, so charming and a fantastic lover and treats me so well. When I rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Friendship is MagicMe too please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 34 | If he wanted he wouldI just wanted to say this is all true, and that I was with two men in the last 7 years that just strung me along, flaked out on me constantly, didn't make me feel all that sexy except when they were drunk and lonely, didn't make time for me, I despaired so much for so long that I decided completely and without a doubt that I was done with men. Done, done, done, forever. Never expected to meet someone that would turn on its head everything I thought about men but it just happened. I thought I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:12 AM |
| 20 | Back on dating apps and forgotten how BORING most men are.It's truly mind boggling, I hear ya. The low, low effort from the get-go. I tried tinder and plenty of fish once each and was so put off by the boringness of the men on there, don't even get me started with all the "hey"'s and "hey sexy"s and "what's up?" Trying to have a convo with them was often painful. I had one guy already talking about all the football games we were going to watch together just because I liked the same team as him, and I had barely chatted with him! Another guy seemed real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 21 | High Value Men and what it means to be oneThanks so much. 😊 I forgot to add that he’s an unbelievable lover and very giving, respectful, and very sensual. It’s mind-blowing. I’m 46 and I had no idea it could be this good. He’s 41 and by far the best I’ve ever had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:46 PM |
| 15 | High Value Men and what it means to be oneThank you! Met him very unexpectedly at a friend’s boyfriend’s bbq! There were only about 6 of us there because of covid fears. I am still in shock that I found him but they are out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:45 PM |
| 92 | High Value Men and what it means to be oneThis. After dating 6' tall men with money who treated me not so well, I found my HVM in a 5'10" baby-faced guy 6 years my junior, who drives an old car and dresses kinda funny. He's everything I've ever wanted in a man and I never thought I would ever find, and he treats me better than anyone ever has. I didn't care much about his lower paying job and fell in love with him and then he told me about all the savings he has, which is is why he appears so frugal. But he is absolutely not frugal with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️Or buying a bunch of books, dear lord I have around 6-7 books I bought trying to understand my ex while we were off and on for years. I thought I could fix him, or myself, and blamed myself for his shitty behavior. One was about emotionally unavailable men, another about walking on eggshell around men with ADHD, I tried every angle and approach to figuring him out. I really feel sorry for all the time I wasted but now I'm with an amazing man who truly treats me like a queen and knows how to comm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 15 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Yep, I got that feeling too. But they were all emotions when it came to their precious egos needing boosted after I’d had enough. I couldn’t have counted on either of these guys if something bad had happened to me, and honestly don’t think they’d have cared that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Nailed it! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 11 | LVM playing dumb to dodge responsibilitiesIt’s all about the balance for sure. No emojis is kinda cold, too many is corny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Becoming a MGTOW has made me more of a "snob." And quite frankly my dear, I don't give a damn.My daughter and I had a good laugh at this. Ok Patrick Bateman 😂 | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be.You speak the truth, sister! He took out a Yahoo personal ad. We were on vacation overseas and using the hotel computer to check our email and he hadn’t logged out of his email, that was how I found out. I was devastated. By then our child was a year old and my parents were also with us on this trip. It was awful. The date of the ad showed he made it when I was 6 months pregnant. You are so right about their damn insecurities. I wasn’t too interested in sex, it was my first pregnancy so I was ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:51 PM |
| 7 | Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be.There are also tons of fathers out there who think that doing the basic things make them great fathers. Mothers meanwhile just do those things because it’s what a parent does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be.The first time my ex husband tried to cheat (I found a personal ad he had made), I was 6 months pregnant. It all went downhill from there. The innocence had been destroyed and I could never see him again the same way. The whole “you should have chosen more wisely” crap single moms always get is really unfair, because as you said, you don’t ever really know someone, and often they don’t show you what they’re capable of until you’re in a vulnerable position. My second child was unplanned, we were … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:55 AM |
| 4 | Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be.Don’t forget - single fathers, regardless of the situation, are automatically revered and never put down the way single mothers are. The assumption is they are victims of evil women, while the assumption with single mothers is that they made bad choices, etc. You are right - single moms get far more flack than deadbeat dads. I did vet with the father of my children but he turned out to be a habitual liar and attempted to cheat (maybe succeeded), and that was not someone I wanted to spend my life… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 15 | Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be.I also grew up without knowing my bio dad. He left when my mom was pregnant. My mom never pursued child support. She just moved on. In my late teens, his wife (at the time - she later dumped his ass) encouraged him to reach out to me. I ended up meeting him and kept in touch with him for awhile but ultimately I broke contact with him because I didn’t like this person and it was too little, too late. Getting to know him though, I realized he would never have been a good father, nor a good husband… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:35 AM |
| 13 | Let it goSeveral of my exes try to weasel back into my life but keep me at arm’s length. It’s so insulting to think they think that’s what I’m worth. Some hot/cold, push/pull bullshit just because they’re too fucked up to have a normal relationship, yet they are flattered that anyone like me ever loved them and probably don’t want to “lose” me to another man. It’s so selfish. If they really loved you, they would want to let you go to find someone who could give you all that they couldn’t. It’s not like t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:25 AM |
| 26 | REMINDER: dating a guy who frequently watches porn and can't just drop it is like dating any other drug addict and all that entails. Don't kid yourself otherwise 🤡My ex husband was addicted to porn so badly that the first time we had sex, he had it playing on the TV. I was pretty naive even at 27 so I went along with it a few times but then I spoke up and said I didn’t like this. Awhile later he had me watching it with him. After a few times I said I didn’t want to do this anymore and that he needed to get rid of his porn. He agreed and let me throw away his box of VHS porn tapes. The next day he actually went out to the dumpster and searched for them. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 12:26 PM |
| 10 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Thank you Queen, one of the best posts I’ve seen in awhile. I’ve been single for a long time and I wish I weren’t, but I absolutely refuse to lower my bar and if it means I’ll still be a single 90 year old hopefully kick-ass Queen like Betty White, that is just fine. We all need to remember we want a good man but we do not NEED a man. We are whole within ourselves. Be patient forever if that’s what it takes. Don’t settle my sisters! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:20 AM |
| 10 | I Love Men: An Open LetterExactly! My ex husband and I met in 1999. Pubic hair was still accepted by men born in certain generations. Ex was too young and a porn addict so after a few times having sex with him, he asked if I would shave. None of my exes had ever asked that or had a problem with my natural state (I did trim). So I said I’ll do it if you do it, and he did, and he trimmed and shaved his pubic hair the whole decade we were married. They need to do it too. I went down on a guy not too long ago that was totall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:50 AM |
| 9 | I Love Men: An Open LetterI’m not a fan of hairy bods either but chest hair is ok, back hair is a different story. They have laser hair removal, no excuse for back hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:45 AM |
| 21 | I Love Men: An Open LetterExactly. I’m always amazed at how I trigger some Reddit males with my words. I get my fair share of vitriol from them. It just further justifies why I’m a member of this sub. They stalk me and then use anything they can against me in DMs or trying to publicly shame me. I am not a fan of the male gender as a whole. But I have several male friends and exes that I care about and talk to. I am one of the few people they can open up to, so I feel bad for them in that they do struggle with that in thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:39 AM |
| 17 | I Love Men: An Open LetterThe vast majority of men can’t and won’t change. We are all vying for, searching for, men who are already healthy and whole. For a person to make any meaningful change they usually have to go through years of soul searching and life lessons. I’m not saying people ~can’t~ change, they just rarely don’t, especially men who really have a hard time accepting responsibility for their actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:31 AM |
| 19 | I Love Men: An Open LetterHa! It made me cringe. Most of them are useless. I definitely do not love penises, but that’s ok because guys love them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Finally met the HVM who will listen to me talk without interrupting!How cute is he? You’re a lucky lady. I want a chill dog like that. And none of us need a man! I’d rather have a dog than what’s out there to choose from for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:17 AM |
| 28 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔For me it was my ass. I had a bubble butt not commonly seen on white girls (lol). It was always there but when I was around 14 I gained a little weight and was no longer a stick. Once the butt came onto the seen I couldn’t walk anywhere without teens and grown men staring or making inappropriate comments. I actually developed a phobia about it that manifested in various ways. Eventually I overcame that but not entirely. It still is with me to this day. Men don’t get how these things they thing a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:32 AM |
| 50 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔I agree. I don’t even remember when it all started but I was young. By the time I was 9 or 10 I was very well aware that some men were attracted to little girls. My 3rd grade teacher, a man, was sexually molesting us girls. He would call us back into the cubbies individually for “exercises”, he would have us do hand stands especially if we had skirts on, then snap our underwear. He would also have us line up every day and each of us give him a kiss on his cheek. This was the early 80s, rural are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:18 AM |
| 12 | Had to make thisI’d say more like 20. My ex was 25 when we met. He was cute but nothing like he looked when he was 20 (I saw videos and photos of him). The hair loss and facial changes between 20-25 were harsh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 10 | Had to make thisThis checks out in the case of my ex husband. He had very early hair loss (early 20s) and had been completely addicted to porn since his teens. I’m talking obsessed. Still had a problem with it throughout our marriage and I’m sure he still does. Thankfully I don’t have to deal with that anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 15 | Had to make thisLaziness / total lack of awareness (and self-awareness). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:15 AM |
| 50 | Stop being nice to men.I was friendly to a homeless looking man the other day while walking my dog. He made a sort of funny comment about my dog and I laughed at it, really it was a courtesy laugh. He then walked across the street, leaned up against a wall, and proceeded to stare me down for minutes as my dog was sniffing around in the grass. All I could think was he was thinking I would be an easy target because I gave him, a homeless old ogre-looking dude, the time of day. I got really strong psychopath vibes from h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:20 AM |
| 44 | Stop being nice to men.It’s better to not be friendly unfortunately. Many men would take that as a sign of possible interest and make advances towards you. I’m not saying be a bitch but there are some sick men out there and I’ve found that they’ll test you to see how naive you are. Better just ignore them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:13 AM |
| 24 | Mood.One of my friends just had to get a restraining order against her husband. About 2-3 years into their marriage he started to rough her up. As it ALWAYS does, it only got worse as time went on. For her (a pick me) to get a restraining order, it had to be bad. They have a 3 yr old together, and she has an older boy from another man who her husband hates because of that fact. He terrorizes the older kid. He’s only 11. He thinks this kid is molesting his 3 yr old daughter. Totally insane and not tru… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 05:36 AM |
| 34 | Mood.I doubt any really get it either. If I could find one that did, I would love that. I enjoy male energy until it turns toxic, which it inevitably does. I’ve only recently started seeing women in a diffferent light, finding myself thinking what it would be like to actually fall in love with one. I attribute these feelings to both having been hurt by many men, and also to letting go of all the ways I’ve held myself back and down to try to please them. By not caring anymore what they think or if the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 05:22 AM |
| 17 | Mood.This is true, but the abusive men I’ve had the misfortune of being with have largely been financially independent. The one common denominator seems to be issues with their mothers though. My ex husband is far more respectful towards his mother than he ever was to me, but he verbalized to me many times that he resented her. He just didn’t show that to her because of his culture and upbringing. He had no problem at all letting me know how he really felt about me though. Still does this to this day… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 05:09 AM |
| 15 | Mood.I am starting to feel this way for real. I’m 46 and never imagined things turning out this way for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Being my own boyfriend and getting myself late night dessert and coffeeWorse. Much, much worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 05:10 PM |
| 80 | Depravity in AITA: husband gets wife pregnant, cheats on her, abandons her for another woman; stress causes wife to go through traumatic pregnancy and she gives birth to stillborn and handles funeral alone. Reddit: wife is the asshole. Fuck this website.Imagine - a man can recklessly impregnate the wife he didn’t love anymore (do they ever really?), while cheating on her, no less, then have the sheer audacity to bring his mistress to her prenatal appointments, and Reddit scum can only think about fathers rights. What about childrens rights? What about their rights to not be created by a cheating shitbag who didn’t love their mother and was planning to leave her at the time he was actively nutting in her? What about their right to not die becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:27 AM |
| 27 | "Punish him with the whip of your indifference"They enjoy sitting back from afar watching us suffer. They won’t do anything about it many times, unless/until you go radio silent. Then they seek you out because they miss the attention, and the ego stroking your suffering over them provided them with. They’ll say they miss you, but what they really miss is how your sadness over them made them feel special. Never going to be that pathetic again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateWhenever I hear that song I always think of that night, except we DID have to take our clothes off 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:57 AM |
| 11 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateSame. First bf at 20, but we had some raging chemistry. He was my neighbor in an apartment complex and showed up one night when it was snowing outside with a bottle of cherry wine, introduced himself, and the rest was history. We’d definitely been noticing each other. That was some damn good sex with that guy. He was 19. They don’t necessarily get better with age if they were never good to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 7 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateI’ve had one extremely caring partner and his enthusiasm and concern for my pleasure was always a huge turn on. I’ve had others who cares too but not like this guy did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:11 AM |
| 8 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateWhen it’s good for me (I.e, I’m doing it myself) I get really sleepy for like 5 seconds then I’m back to normal. I never fall asleep but I get this super relaxed feeling. It’s pretty interesting. Something to do with dopamine flooding or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:08 AM |
| 18 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedGood thing I didn’t have coffee in my mouth when I read this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 48 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translated“Finding this online dating thing challenging” - “I have more issues than The Saturday Evening Post, and it’s hard having to pretend to be normal and interesting when I’m actually a case study.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:57 PM |
| 33 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translated“Looking for my better half” - Let’s rush right into codependency. I’ll be that guy who texts you right after the first date saying what an amazing time I had, how excited I am, and are you free tomorrow night too?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:52 PM |
| 127 | LVMs watching Miss UniverseThey also totally lost their shit when Emma Watson said something about loving her single life. She’s 30 and they were saying she’s way post-wall and will never get a man (lmao). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Do not take him to your favorite restuarant/dessert place/park..etcThat’s so funny, I dated this guy who is a huge doormat for his ex-wife (mother of his only child), and I had a convo by text with her one day (long story), and I realized my ex was using all her grammar and language quirks in his texts to me. Then I looked closer and realized a lot of the things he suggested were fun were things I saw on her Facebook page. After that, everything he said I figured could be traced back to her in some way. It was pathetic lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:33 PM |
| 16 | If you ever want to see the brigading in action just filter posts by "hot" and then click in and out of posts and watch the number go up and down as the triggered LVMs react!They love lurking here. Nothing triggers them like this sub. They feel so threatened by smart, empowered women. I am not surprised they lost their shit (no pun Ha!) over a post discouraging anal. Bunch of pornsick misogynists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 19 | Reminder to always stay weary and don’t trust any guy 100%. Always look at how they treat others and their interactions with friends. Stay alert and safe Ladies 💕Never talk to men about your sexual trauma. It brings out some crazy shit in them. Jealousy, insecurity, disgust, disrespect towards you, etc. Good luck trying to share that with a man and getting a compassionate response. That would be from the man we all want, and finding a man like that is like finding a unicorn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 04:50 AM |
| 11 | Y’all. The AUDACITY!!I also agree that a lot of military guys are LVM. The only guy I dated from an OLD app was in the military for a couple decades. We talked quite a bit online and he seemed like a decent guy and wanted to go on a date. I proposed meeting for drinks first. This was just what I felt like doing simply because I hadn’t been on a real date in so many years and felt uncomfortable with anything more than that. Anyway, we have a few drinks, talk for awhile, then parted ways. He seemed nice enough and pre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 27 | Oh baby! 👶But... but...once in awhile he shows me he is possessive and insecure very protective of me! It makes me feel so wanted by him. Which is what I need...to feel remotely ok about myself. And you know, boys will be boys! But at least I got one! You’re all just jealous shrews! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:05 AM |
| 4 | From a single mom to youBut but muh dick! Here’s the thing - you choose your path when you choose depravity. It is not “biological imperative” to watch others bump uglies and get off to more and more disturbing and just bizarre porn poison. I’ve done some things in my life I really regretted but mostly I just hurt myself. If I hurt someone I care for, I always try to be a better person. This isn’t about being perfect, it’s about making the conscious decision every single day to break away from evil and move towards the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:47 AM |
| 19 | Wife permanently alters appearance for husband, he hates it and she thinks she should now apologise??? Wtf.The worst is her asking if she should APOLOGIZE to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 19 | In 2020, the pickmes are... uh, I guess bragging about how their husbands never wear their wedding bands?What’s interesting about this to me is that I have a couple male friends from my teen years, and while I mostly see them as more like brothers, there are times when I thought they were looking quite good. Sharing a room with them after drinking might well have led to something ...illicit, since even as their friend, they always tended to drop little sexual innuendoes. This whole post of hers is probably a cry for reassurance, which she seems to have gotten, bizarre as it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:04 PM |
| 17 | In 2020, the pickmes are... uh, I guess bragging about how their husbands never wear their wedding bands?She sounds like a pickmeisha trying to seem like the cool, progressive girl who is just so chock full of confidence about her husband’s loyalty. Throw alcohol into the mix and anything can happen. It happened to me with one of my male friends. Sober I never would have gone there. It’s a music festival. My guess is they will be drinking. Free range husbands generally take full advantage of their freedom. The ring think is certainly suspect. Why would you boast about any of that? Did a woman even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Men who walk in front of their partnersThanks for posting this! I didn’t know that this was a trait of narcissists. My ex certainly had all the other behaviors - love bombing especially. He would love bomb me like crazy and then the minute I came back, it stopped. He hasn’t ever really formed real deep bonds with anyone. He’s been somewhat suicidal over the emptiness and loss he created in his life.I think he’s made some changes and is trying harder to connect with his family (he has adult daughters who are pretty messed up). But it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:11 PM |
| 3 | So... giving this one personal information (that he claims to not care about) would make me REAL aka a Pickmeisha! He can miss me with that BS.That’s great! I wish you the best, and just be careful as you know! Maybe someday soon I’ll give Bumble a try. You do have to weed out a lot of creeps and such but sometimes you find a gem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men who walk in front of their partnersYep, he used his height as an excuse. I don’t think so. I’ve been with other tall men who didn’t have problems controlling their walking speed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Men who walk in front of their partnersAgree with everything! The Queen has been such a great role model and public figure for her entire life, such a classy, gracious woman, and that was so disrespectful. Also agree about the rest of monarchy, they couldn’t hold a candle to the Queen. Most are embarrassments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Why "Don't talk about politics/religion/kids" on a first date is a prolific piece of advice on reddit, and why you should do it anyway.Haha! I was on a tear with posts yesterday and obviously wasn’t paying attention to spelling but that’s funny! Elderly parrots 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 137 | Dorothy speaks truth...I’ve seen so many wise old women saying basically the same thing. I think if it weren’t for the economic aspects of partnering up, a lot of women would really be better off remaining single. Women usually bear the brunt of the relationship emotionally and physically. I’m done spending my life trying to figure them out, walking on eggshells, investing in self improvement because I thought I wasn’t good enough, going to therapists, taking pills, crying boatloads of tears, honestly since I’ve been … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:33 AM |
| 2 | A LVM is convincing my pregnant friend he cheated because he wasn't getting enough sex. I had another explanation for her: he cheated because she's a HVM who was finally in a weak enough position for him to feel like she can't escape, and is stuck with him no matter what he does.I hear you. I have the exact same issue. My ex and my dad. I can’t heal until I’m really distanced from them. I have no one else in life. Their presence has been so intense and toxic. I need to be surrounded by warm, feminine energy these days more than ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:19 AM |
| 4 | Men get a 'free pass' of being abusive and not putting in effort due to an ex they hadWow. I would so much rather be alone than marry a guy like that. My dad has his own set of problems I could never handle and don’t know how my mom did it, but he was never a cheap ass. My mom was a pickmeisha though, so she put up with him being a boring, dawdling homebody when she wanted to go out and take trips and have fun. It’s always about compromise and sacrifice to be with a man. Curious how he almost didn’t show up. I’m shocked by the number of older women who find apparent bliss in sett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Men get a 'free pass' of being abusive and not putting in effort due to an ex they hadMen don’t tend to grow. I work with an 84 year old man who still acts like a child and he’s not demented. Just super selfish and entitled. Men get older and it’s still all about them. The people I see evolving the most are almost always women. The HVM I know were never LVM. That’s because they (LVM) don’t change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:04 AM |
| 20 | Men who walk in front of their partnersThis is so true! I’d forgotten about that. I remember thinking how rude it was that he always walked in front of her. Poor long-suffering Melania. She surely has paid a steep price for her lifestyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:33 AM |
| 9 | A LVM is convincing my pregnant friend he cheated because he wasn't getting enough sex. I had another explanation for her: he cheated because she's a HVM who was finally in a weak enough position for him to feel like she can't escape, and is stuck with him no matter what he does.Absolutely. I haven’t felt depressed for quite some time now and don’t take any pills. I’ve also been single this whole time. Coincidence? I think not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:28 AM |
| 11 | Scrotation ObservationIt also seems to make them feel emasculated somehow. I’ve never really had a partner who acknowledged his “love” for me on Valentines. I’ve just accepted it isn’t ever gonna happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:25 AM |
| 26 | Scrotation ObservationWow. This is why they hate our sub. Because we are every day exposing their true nature. I dated a man who was older than me, recently out of a very long marriage and was a complete gentleman. On our second date he asked if he could have a kiss. We kissed and he said “that was so nice. It’s been so long since I’ve had a kiss.” We went on a few more dates, unfortunately I drank too much one night and slept at his apartment and he never tried anything with me. Just a respectful, normal, decent man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:22 AM |
| 10 | Scrotation ObservationVaLeNtiNeS DaY is FoR CuCkS and SiMps🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 9 | A LVM is convincing my pregnant friend he cheated because he wasn't getting enough sex. I had another explanation for her: he cheated because she's a HVM who was finally in a weak enough position for him to feel like she can't escape, and is stuck with him no matter what he does.Good for you! When I got depressed when my kids were small, my husband told me men don’t want depressed women. Needless to say he’s my EX. His current wife takes antidepressants and he asked her if she took hers and she got really upset as you can imagine (my kids reported this). He thinks he’s so much better than pretty much everyone. He asked me about the size of my bf’s penis lol. So I’m the one with issues and yet you’re asking your ex wife how big her bf’s penis is. Okayyy buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:09 AM |
| 8 | A LVM is convincing my pregnant friend he cheated because he wasn't getting enough sex. I had another explanation for her: he cheated because she's a HVM who was finally in a weak enough position for him to feel like she can't escape, and is stuck with him no matter what he does.It’s said that men cheat for variety, which I’m certain was my exe’s reason for looking around. He placed a personal ad declaring his love for ALL the local women (he is from another country). Women tend to cheat for emotional reasons, i.e, they feel neglected, mistreated, lonely. So you can have a good relationship with a man and he may still cheat just for some new exciting pussy. Women in happy relationships don’t generally look for new exciting dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:03 AM |
| 27 | So... giving this one personal information (that he claims to not care about) would make me REAL aka a Pickmeisha! He can miss me with that BS.Wth? That’s just so wrong and childish to ask someone that (along with those emojis, geez). I tried OLD for awhile and would have men say “I bet you get a lot of messages from guys”. Maybe I do, maybe I don’t, but that’s kind of inappropriate to add to the conversation. It’s not relevant and not their business. Every time I would sign on, these same guys would be online and right away ask me stuff like “any luck?” I finally told them no, I’m done with this whole thing, I’m getting off this app. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:54 AM |
| 30 | Men who walk in front of their partnersI agree. That’s a red flag for sure. I will admit I was stupid. This guy always paid for our dates but he did a lot of shitty things too. He did just enough to keep me hanging onto whatever it was we had. I can’t honestly call it a relationship even though I wasted three years of my life with him. This was the guy I barely had sex with. As someone else pointed out in this thread, they can often be very into PDA in the beginning. He would hold my hand when we walked. That didn’t last long yet eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:44 AM |
| 37 | Men who walk in front of their partnersI dated a guy last year who didn’t work out but he did always insist on walking on the street side and walking beside me too. These are men raised with manners by other polite men. My ex really didn’t have a father to teach him these things, however, he clearly saw his friends doing that with me and still didn’t think it was something he needed to be doing. I saw the video of Hailey and Justin. Not a good sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:38 AM |
| 19 | Why "Don't talk about politics/religion/kids" on a first date is a prolific piece of advice on reddit, and why you should do it anyway.Right? One of my exes is 48 and I’m 46 and he still mentions that he wants me to have his baby. Oh hell no. I’m sorry that ship sailed for him too but my kids are teens and I will not go through child rearing again and also have the kid have old parents. If someone wants to do that, I don’t judge really, but I know I wouldn’t want to be 18 and have elderly parrots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:27 AM |
| 23 | Why "Don't talk about politics/religion/kids" on a first date is a prolific piece of advice on reddit, and why you should do it anyway.I wanna know if a guy likes and supports Trump. I no longer care if they claim it’s just for tax purposes (which is a dubious claim at that). If a guy supports him, I don’t want to date him, and I need to know this upfront. Ideally I would find this out before even agreeing to date him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:13 AM |
| 22 | On “Choosing Beggars” sub. A 22 year old pretty girl with the most basic of requirements being roasted by LVMs. Reddit is a cesspool of raggedy ass losers.She admits she’s small breasted, which was a kindness to men with big boob requirements, but can’t be also open about wanting a straight penis? Maybe she experienced a crooked one in the past and it hurt her? Nothing wrong with wanting a non-hairy man. My gay friend likes hairy men. It’s a preference that she’s entitled to. Also nothing wrong with wanting a man who is gainfully employed. At some pint you want someone who does more than gig jobs. Nothing wrong with gig jobs but you shouldn’t real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:04 AM |
| 6 | The Verge’s Erin Taylor Doubles Down on the “Choosy Choice Feminism”, completely missing the point of FDSI’m sick to death of hearing how “toxic” this sub is, when Reddit is FULL of actual toxic subs. I’m sick to death of our minimal requirements for male behavior being demonized while men continue to abuse women in countless ways, including violence against us that is growing everyday, across the globe. I have no idea why we are getting the attention we are but I’m not very happy about it in a sense. We are here to protect each other from male depravity and inspire each other to raise our standard… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Men on RedditI think I went there once and it was so disgusting. Pigs reveling in violence against women. How do these subs not get shut down? It’s horrific. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:46 PM |
| 13 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerThat’s terrible! At least he let you know early on what a tool he is. When my ex husband was courting me, he met these girls I was hanging out with at the time and one of them was super short and very curvy. He actually said to me “she’d have the perfect body if only she was taller”. Somehow I overlooked that comment, even though it hurt and I was like wtf, but I shouldn’t have. I married him and he was porn addicted and philandering the whole time. They let you know who they are, and you better… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence.Thank you! I just mostly ignore holidays now but sometimes I’ll take a little solo trip for my birthday. My partners never really cared about my bday so I care about it now. One year I went to Vegas and met so many other solo people celebrating their birthdays alone too and it was so much fun. I also travel during Christmas if I don’t get my kids that year. Met one of my exes that way. I love traveling solo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:02 PM |
| 7 | Men on RedditYou are right, I went to r/Mexico. I understand most Spanish and it seems like these men are making this about them. I can’t read anymore. I just can’t. The world has truly gone mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:57 AM |
| 10 | Men on RedditDisgusting. And you ladies want to see more male depravity? I made the terrible mistake of looking at the sub “whereareallthegoodmen”. They are over there posting photos of diseased vaginas, photoshopped “blown out” vaginas, absolute psychopaths. I cannot believe Reddit hasn’t banned that shithole of a sub too. Toxic doesn’t even begin to describe these animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:52 AM |
| 8 | Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence.Being alone has proven so satisfying in so many ways. The lack of suffering and frustration with a partner who doesn’t respect you is priceless. I have loved men in my life and still could, but I will never accept compromise as part of the deal anymore. I’m not suffering in any way so I can have a man around in my life. He must add value to my life, period. I’m done being drained by LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:28 AM |
| 5 | Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence.Same, sister. Having no expectations means I’m much happier. I was mostly let down by partners on V-day anyway. I went out to eat by myself today pretty late. I didn’t think about it till I was halfway done with my food that I was eating alone on a romantic holiday. It was like any other day but a lot better than having a partner you wished did anything to show he was thinking about you but didn’t bother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:24 AM |
| 7 | Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence.I also never had a guy do anything for me on this day. Sometimes they have forgotten my birthday. I’ve come to loathe all holidays at this point because men are generally not thoughtful enough to pay you any special attention if it isn’t based on some whim of their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:19 AM |
| 13 | No excuses for low-effort behavior this V-day! On my way home a random male STRANGER gave me this bouquets of roses. If your man puts in less effort than this stranger did for me, you two might as well be strangers. Nice things like this never happened to me when I was a Pickme.That’s sweet! The best thing that happened to me on V-day was a tiny chap about 5 years old, dressed in a vest and tie, handing out roses to all the ladies in the grocery store I was at. He was with his dad. It was the cutest thing ever. One rose handed out by this little guy made my day. It’s the little things really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:13 AM |
| 7 | Everyone, I'm a florist and this is HELLWhat a right asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:05 AM |
| 15 | Men on RedditI think a lot of them truly don’t care. They harbor so much hatred towards women only because women have more sexual options than they do. They don’t treat us like human beings. They get something out of blaming us for their failures and shitty personalities. And then they try to say women are just as bad. Can you even imagine a woman skinning a man? Men are the devil compared to women. It’s a hard pill for them to swallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:58 AM |
| 10 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality.You have to answer that yourself. I would not want to be in a relationship with a man who watched porn or wanted me to share in his addiction. I know the difference between a HVM and a LVM at my age and there is no reason for me to sacrifice or compromise for a porn sick man. The few times I watched it with my porn sick ex husband of course I was turned on but ended up feeling disgusted that he even felt we needed that in our lives. Ultimately I was very resentful and felt so off about it all. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:59 PM |
| 9 | Started from the bottom now we here. (FDS TRAFFIC STATS)The truth is, our haters are greedy ass selfish gamer-type guys with limited funds and prospects. Men with any money and gainful employment do not mind paying for a woman’s dinner. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:00 PM |
| 15 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSWhat is it with these smelly, nasty men? Take a damn shower, brush your teeth and do your laundry! One whiff of some of them is enough to put you off them for life. I was at this guy’s place and he was cooking raw pork and rinsed his fingers in cold water then dried them in his hair. 🤢 You also don’t want to know the stats on men vs women washing their hands after taking a dump. It was something like 30% of women don’t, but 75% of men don’t. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 11:50 AM |
| 3 | That made me lol 😂 They are all the same no matter what language they speak. *Not my messages, got it elsewhereI can translate - “I haven’t got two brain cells to rub together but please give me fresh jacking material!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 9 | And supposedly we’re the ones that are gold diggers.It’s hard for me to keep a secret that I have some property I will inherit but I never live my life taking it for granted. For starters, I don’t wish for my parent to die, and secondly, if they want to sell the house and spend the money that’s their right. But I get comments from men I have dated who have definitely thought this over because I’m the sole inheritor. I don’t understand people who remarry and give everything to a spouse. I would want everything I have to go to my children. Adults c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:32 AM |
| 14 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.Gross. Ugh. That bruh mentality is strong with pub goers/bar dwelling men. The least likely place you’ll find a quality man who doesn’t have issues with women. It’s sad to see how many men excuse bad behavior from other men and then they wonder why women feel the way we do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:39 PM |
| 17 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.Don’t even get me started. Churchgoing men are just as big of perverts if not worse. I confronted one about it and he said “church is so we can learn to be better, not because we aren’t sinners”. In other words, in their minds, going to church helps make up for the fact that these old (and young) men are being disgusting perverts in ways you don’t even want to know. I laugh when people say go to a church to meet good men. Yeah I don’t think so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 16 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.I’ve had some pretty awesome sex with short guys and they can be a lot of fun. The ones blaming their disordered personalities (and thus lack of interest from women) on their stature just can’t handle the truth about themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 28 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.It’s almost like the question is now “what woman hasn’t been raped?” Then these idiot men try to claim women falsify rape claims. This really gets me. As a rape victim myself, I know how hard it is to go to the authorities. Being responsible for the legal and social demise of someone you likely fear is extremely hard to handle so most women don’t even report it. These rapist apologists and deniers make me sick. Rapes are vastly under reported. The fact that the me too movement gave women a chanc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 24 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.Annnndddd.... not one single rational, intelligent response in that whole thread. Chad this, daddy issues that. They are such boring, broken records. Yawn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 06:59 PM |
| 65 | Talk is cheapMy ex did the same thing to me not long ago. Sent $200 to my Paypal for being an ass on a trip we did together. We haven’t spoken since the trip. Honestly $200 isn’t that much to him. He makes six figures. But if you’re going to suffer with an asshole, it’s nice when they at least throw a little guilt cash your way 🤷♀️It’s not worth it and he knows I’m done. It was really just for him to feel a little better about himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 06:55 PM |
| 6 | You gals were right. Thank you.I could have written your post. He was all over me and the sex was really pretty good. He wasn’t seeing anyone else. He was super excited in the beginning and making all the plans about our future but then he just started making excuses for not spending actual quality time with me (which drinking together at the bar is NOT). Then he starts telling me he just needed “more time to sort out my shit”. Well three years on and he just managed to pile on more shit in his life and never did fit me into … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:04 PM |
| 18 | My boyfriend started to read books because of my interest in them.This is so wholesome. I dated a guy for awhile last year and we both read books in the evenings while taking a bath (in our separate homes). We definitely both inspired each other. Reading is so satisfying but I think so many people are addicted to their devices that they can’t put them away and focus on a book. I’m glad you’ve inspired your bf to read! Some of my best memories were reading a book at the beach or in a time when I was down, and my books gave me comfort in a way Internet “reading”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Man wants to abandon GF of 3 years after she was hospitalized for 2nd degree burns, finds her repulsive to look at. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!!!!!!He might be a troll but you are right, there are plenty who would absolutely ditch their “love” in a NY minute if her face got jacked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:46 PM |
| 11 | Man wants to abandon GF of 3 years after she was hospitalized for 2nd degree burns, finds her repulsive to look at. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!!!!!!It’s actually a fact that men leave dying or disabled partners in droves. I’m 46 and no way I’m getting married again just to end up taking care of some selfish ass aging man. I intend to grow old with only myself to worry about. Sure I’ll date if I feel like it, but I’m not taking care of any man when I’ve seen all my life how they tend to behave. They also never stop wanting sex or lusting after young women 🤢. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:40 PM |
| 4 | Man wants to abandon GF of 3 years after she was hospitalized for 2nd degree burns, finds her repulsive to look at. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!!!!!!I’m going with this is a sick male with a fantasy of of a woman he likes and can’t have losing her beauty. He has no other post history and gives no details about this so-called work accident that destroyed this woman’s face. Either way it’s disturbing af but Reddit is a gathering place for disturbed men so neither scenario would surprise me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Man wants to abandon GF of 3 years after she was hospitalized for 2nd degree burns, finds her repulsive to look at. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!!!!!!The circle jerkers make a lot of false claims. It’s sheer projection because they know their gender is the violent, depraved and totally selfish one. I even saw a male poster the other day blaming single mothers for all the male criminals. Really? No mention of where the hell the fathers are. Oh, that’s right. They’re all homeless because the unfair court system. Ok, whatever. The denial and victimhood is strong in some of them. Reality doesn’t factor into their arguments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:32 PM |
| 12 | Man wants to abandon GF of 3 years after she was hospitalized for 2nd degree burns, finds her repulsive to look at. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!!!!!!Sadly it wouldn’t surprise me if it was some sick fuck who fantasizes about throwing acid on a woman’s face. There are more out there than you want to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Die madI’ve heard this many times. Men hiding money to avoid child support. One I know grows and sells pot and doesn’t even pay the $30 a week he was ordered yet somehow produced money for a lawyer and tried to get full custody. He got almost half custody even though he beat the kid’s mother while she was pregnant and has felonies on his record. Smh. The courts are definitely NOT unfair to these losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:02 PM |
| 8 | This sub makes me want to die a virginI don’t know if I agree. I know stereotypically they’re the worst, but I don’t think they get better if they’re not good human beings then. I think I liked my college boyfriends more than the older men I later dated. But then, this was the 90s before the porn sickness epidemic. I did meet some sweet guys in my youth and equally as many douchebags. I’m here because I know there are a good deal of good men out there and an even greater deal of shitty men. I’m just not sure we can categorize them b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:33 AM |
| 19 | Another one managed to slip right past that wall. Penelope Cruz, age 45I might be biased but I think the sexiest women are older and took care of themselves. Penelope, Marisa Tomei, Rachel Weisz, Cate Blanchett, etc. are good famous examples, but I see regular women everyday who look great past 40. None of these women would give the LVM the time of day anyway. Notice they almost all have very masculine, HVM who married them. No one can say Javier Bardem is anything but a HVM. Same with Daniel Craig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 06:17 AM |
| 26 | No lies detected. Block. Delete. Move on.Because they got nowhere with any other women and they never forgot the one woman who put up with their shit for far too long and was way cuter and funny and interesting than they ever deserved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 06:09 AM |
| 13 | These dudes get itI so miss sex pre-internet porn. Something has happened to most men these days. The magic of sex is just gone and it’s just about fulfilling some crap they saw on pornhub. It truly has poisoned them. To think humans went for thousands of years without porn and still enjoyed the hell out of sex, and now some guys can’t go a day without beating it to weirder and weirder shit. Ruined. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:33 PM |
| 3 | These dudes get itI love kissing but would rather not kiss at all ever if a) he’s a slobbery kisser and/or jams his tongue in my mouth and/or b) he has a strong odor from his mouth. Sometimes they have some kind of digestive insufficiency and no amount of oral hygiene is going to rid that smell. I just can’t kiss someone who has bad breath. It’s hard for me to tell them too, so I just sort of back away from it. I had one bf who consistently tasted like some kind of grassy spirulina powder. Like chewed up hay from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | These dudes get itNo doubt! He was definitely watching porn throughout our entire marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Don’t commit to a man who chooses other women over you.Dead porn stars memorial on YouTube is a real eye opener. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:37 AM |
| 17 | Don’t commit to a man who chooses other women over you.Dealt with this for so many years and it was very painful. I should have seen the signs and heeded then before I married him. He would look at other women all the time and say stupid stuff like “just because I’m on a diet doesn’t mean I can’t look at the menu”. I would catch him looking at porn a lot, sometimes waking up on a beautiful morning and there he was closing his laptop down when I walked into the kitchen. Yeah dumbass, you think I’m stupid? He was obsessed with it and I knew he was was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:34 AM |
| 10 | Die madThis is where I’m at. I’m protecting my assets because I’ve seen too many men get way more than their share after divorce / break ups. What I see is a lot of women just so broken down by them that they don’t fight them for their fair share. They just want it all to be over and done with and men can become super vengeful and spiteful even if they are the cheaters and the cause of the breakdown of the marriage. That will never happen to me again. It’s women who get shafted in divorce more often th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:16 AM |
| 4 | Die madGeez, I had a guy take me there and he went all out ordering all kinds of stuff for us. Spent like $200. Didn’t expect sex. He was very happy to get a kiss though. Very sweet gentleman. I genuinely liked him, but our lives were too chaotic at that time for anything to really come of it. Weed out these losers ladies! There are generous, kind men out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:08 AM |
| 26 | These dudes get itUgh. Prolonging the encounter. I love it when guys finish somewhat fast. It probably sounds crazy I know, but my ex would try to draw it out way beyond my comfort level. I love the excitement of the fast comers. They are just so into it. They are happy just to touch and feel your body and don’t ask you to engage in any weird stuff. I’ve had them tell me they don’t even care that I hadn’t shaved in days. I’m always happy to see them again. The ones I don’t care to see again are the ones who think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 03:09 AM |
| 60 | These dudes get itLove vanilla sex with a giving partner. That point where you’re both just so into the pleasure of it and not into some kink that you can even climax together, is just the best. Had a lover who was into all this kinky stuff like hurting me and it was so gross. The guy I sleep with sometimes now is so old school and just does it for me. The kissing and the way he moves, no weird shit to make him cum. In fact he gets there a little too fast, but he always makes sure I get mine. Call me old fashione… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:55 AM |
| 26 | Yikes, girl.This. Think about it ladies, how many women do you know who are good people with shithead partners who are selfish and disrespectful? I’m sure a lot. I seriously get so mad at women who are otherwise intelligent but just cannot be alone. They would rather a man disrespect them than be alone. I truly don’t understand, because I absolutely demand being treated well, and I would give the same right back to a good man. I’d rather stay single for the rest of my life than be saddled with a LVM. Holy h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:00 AM |
| 12 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionIt doesn’t end. I’m 46 and I made out with this friend of mine when I was drunk and 26. He still carries a torch for me and I value his friendship so much but when he makes sexual innuendoes it just makes me sad as hell. The thought of doing sexual things with him makes me sick. He feels like a brother to me. I’m sad that he can’t see me the way I see him. Twice in 20 years I did things with him I didn’t mean to - because I was drunk. Never sex but nothing I meant to do and it makes me sad becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:41 AM |
| 10 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionThese male “friends” really don’t care about you in most cases. You’ll find it really all come down to their incredible sense of entitlement to have sex with you, and thinking they are much better people than they really are. I’ve had male friends who just blew my mind with how they thought they could have sex with me someday despite me being way out of their league. I never asked them for anything other than friendship and they’d try countless times to coerce me into sexual scenarios with them.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:31 AM |
| 23 | Unapologetically female-only spaces are so necessaryI’ve got 40+ pickMe friends. It’s so disappointing to see. They are over 40 and still finding a man screwing them as a form of validation. Then they come to me when they’re being treated like crap. Snapped at, disrespected. I’m sorry, I can’t relate. I don’t lower myself that way. I try over and over to wake these women up but they need a man soooo badly that that settle for damn near anyone who pays them any attention. Women, you can do better than this. Dick is abundant and over-rated. They su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:56 PM |
| 86 | Funny that he is treated like a God in Hollywood and nobody is calling him outHe was cute for maybe 5-10 years. He hit the wall long ago. And yes he hates women. Giselle did well to rid herself of him and find a devoted husband in the (much hotter and pretty much just as rich) Tom Brady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 10:58 PM |
| 60 | Vietnamese women shutting down sexpat losers on OLDI love Vietnamese people and the women don’t take any shit. They can be brutal. I’ve seen men desperately trying to have sex with timid Asian women - was sooo proud that the young women I was with at a concert absolutely refused these pigs. Go buy a sex robot, pigs. Women are ideally just submissive holes to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 06:40 PM |
| 26 | Notice the big share of the pie on ‘therapist’ - a role most women take up for their men even before being married.And yet a lot of males will claim women do nothing. Put them with little kids for a day, all day, and they’d lose their shit. They act like it’s so easy, meanwhile their soft bodies are sitting in front of computers all day (or video game consoles in the case of many Redditors), and proclaiming men to be the “backbone of society”. Sit down assholes. My family members are in the construction business and none of them have ever wanted a gd award for it. They certainly do not want to be lumped in w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:10 PM |
| 22 | Is it really “MGTOW” if you lurk in a female only forum to send unsolicited messages to women you don’t know? Hmmm... you’re not really going your own way are you?Oh they completely ignore shitty male behavior. You will never find one man who DM’s you apologizing for his gender, ever. Men don’t think that way. They prefer to be the victims for whatever reasons. Poor men, wimenz want free meals without letting me get muh dick wet! What’s hilarious is they think we are so desperate for crappy restaurant food that we are willing to sit through an hour of awkwardness with some guy in order to get a free $10 enchilada. That’s so insulting. My time is worth WAY… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:48 PM |
| 6 | LVM proposalsThere was that one senator (name escapes me) who proposed to his wife at a Wendy’s. They would go there for their anniversary every year. He ended up cheating on her and knocking the side chick up. Wife later died from cancer. So sorry, it’s depressing AF I know. Oh, it was John Edwards. Yeah, LVM there. His wife was loyal and had his four kids then he doesn’t just cheat but impregnates some woman in her 40s who was basically his groupie. Sad shit. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:43 PM |
| 4 | LVM proposalsIt would be fun to do it as a prank lol. Like get a fun male friend to go with you and some friends and do it as a joke. That’s the twisted side of me talking lol. And plot twist - girl says no. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:36 PM |
| 7 | LVM proposalsI had my first real bf when I was 20 and he was 19. I remember he started talking about marriage and boy did I run. I literally left the state to get away from him. These guys out there wanting to marry young women are insane. We have zero idea who we are or what we want at that age. You want to get hurt, go ahead and marry a young woman. I didn’t get married until I was 28 and I was caught off guard by that b/c I wasn’t looking at all. Your 20s should be about finding yourself. I feel so sorry … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:34 PM |
| 8 | LVM proposalsI think I’d be embarrassed by a public proposal. It just reeks of attention seeking imo, but I’m a pretty private person. My ex proposed to me privately in one of our favorite places. It was very unromantic and more of a practical proposal but despite being a romance writer, I don’t actually like men trying to be romantic in real life. It usually is just over the top or feels contrived. Luckily I’ve never been with very romantic men. I tend to look at the big picture and not the little things so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:22 PM |
| 11 | LVM proposalsCan you imagine? The sheer commercialism of it all 🤢. I have a problem with silly commercial holidays as it is. I would much rather be taken out for a nice meal on any other day. Humans are funny that way. I’ll straight up tell my partner not to do anything for me on V-day because I just find it so corny and meaningless. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:15 PM |
| 10 | LVM proposalsIt’s super popular and super basic. Salty, microwaved food, iceberg lettuce salad, canned soup, and very basic breadsticks. Once in a blue moon I’ll get a hankering for that crap lol, I do like the soups, but there are better, cheaper Italian restaurants in my city that don’t require getting a beeper because the wait list is so long 🙄. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:08 PM |
| 24 | Is it really “MGTOW” if you lurk in a female only forum to send unsolicited messages to women you don’t know? Hmmm... you’re not really going your own way are you?I’ve noticed everyone is fixated on the men-pay-for-dinner thing, as if that’s all we are about here. We are so much more than that, and not all the women here even necessarily subscribe to that. I’m sorry if my decades of experience has taught me that there’s a direct correlation between cheap and making crappy partners. Move right along if you’re one of them. I pay for myself when I know I don’t want a second date. They act like wanting a man you like to be gentlemanly is the biggest crime. Me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:01 PM |
| 9 | Pregnant women in Louisiana are at a high risk of death by the hands of their baby’s LVM father. Reason? He feels threatened.I lost my libido with my first pregnancy and lo and behold I caught my husband looking online for fuck buddies. I was going to divorce him but I got pregnant again a few years later and that time I did have a sex drive so he got what he wanted but I never fully recovered from him being willing to cheat on me the first time around. The entitlement for sex is truly astounding with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 9 | Why do men put photos of themselves in their prime on their OLD profiles?I agree completely. My kids haven’t even met several of the guys I’ve dated because I have a 6 month rule. I would never put their photos up, just because you’re a guy and most women aren’t pedophiles doesn’t make it ok. It’s still wrong. They should not be part of your dating adventures. Obviously as a mother I have to worry incessantly about pedophiles. I don’t even put down the gender of my kids. In fact, I consider online dating one huge risk and I don’t even do it for that reason. My kids w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Studies Find Children Born to Older Fathers Are More Likely to Be Ugly. Even Snoop Dog Agrees. 😂I did the DNA test and I have around 3% Neanderthal dna. I was kind of weirded out but I’m way healthier than I should be considering some of my habits, so I’ll take it and be happy, 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 03:51 AM |
| 21 | Studies Find Children Born to Older Fathers Are More Likely to Be Ugly. Even Snoop Dog Agrees. 😂My daughter looked like an ugly old man for the first three months of her life. She had no hair on the sides of her head and had baby acne and was just homely. Then at around 3 months she just blossomed and became beautiful and people would stop all the time to tell me how pretty she was. Her dad was 27 and I was 30. She was a beautiful little girl but man those first few months she looked rough 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 03:39 AM |
| 23 | Why do men put photos of themselves in their prime on their OLD profiles?So true! Then you have the guys with a kid or two who they live vicariously through- look at my son/daughter they are sooo cute. Yeah I get it, your mediocre ass produced a kid much cuter than you (for now). And the gloating is just..,weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 25 | A kind stranger from FDS saved me from r/AgeGapI’m so glad you didn’t waste even more time on this deceptive cretin. I, too, fell for an older, lying man, I was 20, he was 30. He was married and a pro-athlete. He had a young child. He claimed he and his wife did not even sleep in the same room and were waiting to divorce until the kid knew he was dad (wtf?). I was 20 and super naive and he made me feel very sexy (it’s gross thinking back on it all now). One night he invited me to his Christmas party where I met his wife. She looked a lot lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 14 | Parents and their gender favourismI’m a single mom of two girls and they are both very well adjusted. My oldest is almost the top student in her entire grade and is very involved in extra curricular activities. I didn’t even push her that much. My youngest is really popular but very compassionate and empathetic. I was always very involved in their lives though. I know messed up kids from two parent households. If a child feels they can’t open up to anyone, that can create a lot of turmoil within them. More than anything, being t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:05 AM |
| 15 | Parents and their gender favourismI have no males in my family and wouldn’t know what to do with one. So glad I had two girls. We have the best times. I never coddled them and so they’re super independent and badass. I always taught them to be accountable for their choices. We are very close despite my being somewhat of a hard ass mom. They don’t take any shit from anyone. They move on gracefully from low value people. What I see with some of my friends is their kids walk all over them. Girls or boys. The boys seem worse if I’m … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 11:57 PM |
| 13 | I need some supportWhatever you do, don’t blame yourself. The most amazing, beautiful women are cheated on. It is not about you. Please take a lot of time now to be with yourself and get to know your true self and the things you are passionate about. Men are really not an asset to women. They are a liability in most cases. You need to be willing to be alone for several years while waiting for a man who will complement your life. This means you need to become content with being alone. I’ve been single for many year… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Finally leveling up after 27 yrs of LVM.Women are so much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. I’m so glad you’re taking control of your happiness now and ditching the toxic people. Family doesn’t mean we have to accept toxic people who suck us dry. I have one sister and I’ve been estranged from her for 15 years and will never speak to her again. I’ve had random relatives I don’t even know trying to contact me and I know it’s for money. I am happiest when I distance myself from these people. Be “selfish”. Your happiness is all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:58 PM |
| 63 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!Great quote. We’ve always said we have to hold ourselves to high standards too. I love that the author picked this quote and was very fair towards us. We all know what we’re about here, only the angry failure-to-launch types are raging at us instead of trying to better themselves. This sub is as much about respecting ourselves as it is about finding respectable partners. And we aren’t desperate. This is a process and a journey and along the way we learn to love ourselves. At least, that is the g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:13 PM |
| 12 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!This is so great. It’s not surprising given the amount of attention Redditors have been giving to this sub. We are obviously getting strong reactions out of people, both positive and negative, and that’s a good thing. Well done us, let’s keep it up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 40 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦I was introduced to the world of male-on-female violence at the age of 12. My best friend’s aunt was beaten into a coma by her husband. We visited her in the hospital. I will never forget how when my friend’s mother told this comatose woman she would make sure justice was served, her heart rate monitor went crazy. It was as if she was saying “please do that for me”, or she was still scared, who knows. It was so disturbing. She ended up dying from her injuries. My own step-aunt had to jump out of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:21 AM |
| 28 | Watch out for pornsick LVM, ladies!!When I first met my (now ex) husband, he didn’t right away try to sleep with me which was kind of surprising, but even more surprising was that he put on a porn tape (this was 2001) during our first sexual encounter. I was just so weirded out but went along with it but later told him I definitely didn’t want porn playing a role in our sex life. That first time, I ended up giving him a hand job that never got him off but made his dick sore and we had to buy him some special cream. Wtf. Eventually… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Empirical proof why dick pics are worthlessAnd then you realize nope. Zero demand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Another Low Effort Male who “Doesn’t want to make a big deal” about Valentine’s DaySums it up perfectly! 😛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:53 PM |
| 17 | Another Low Effort Male who “Doesn’t want to make a big deal” about Valentine’s DaydADs ArE hErOes AnD bEsT dADs eVeR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 10 | Sexual market place nonsenseI second that. It seems to go into overdrive in our 40s! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:47 PM |
| 21 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.This happened to me. He touched my ass then put his finger in my vagina. I then got a raging UTI and was peeing blood every few minutes until I finally got some antibiotics. I kind of knew after he did that that it could not have been a good thing. Women need to post their stories. Knowledge is power. Fecal bacteria was never meant to get up in our lady plumbing. Women need to understand the painful and serious consequences, and it can happen just from the barely touching the anus then the vagin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 6 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.I didn’t really know of him until Marriage Story. I watched that the other night and I thought his character was lovely and it made him all the more attractive. Rugged and gentle is a great combo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:19 PM |
| 42 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.Exactly. It makes me sick. I have two young daughters. I’m always trying to find the right way to explain this reality to them without harming their innocence or making them anti-male. We are clearly living in very sick times. So much perversion is readily available to all our children and no one seems to give a shit about the consequences. I hate to be a downer but it’s hard not to think we peaked awhile ago and it’s just all downhill from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:15 PM |
| 25 | I truly don’t understand all the hate this sub getsRight, I don’t agree with men paying all the time. If I go on a date with a guy and I know I’m not interested in seeing him again, I don’t let him pay for me. I know many women who do the same. If I am getting “free meals” it’s because I think there’s chemistry between us and it will go somewhere, and I happen to like men who are generous with ladies they like and whose company they are enjoying. It makes me feel valued. I got a message today from a guy calling us all selfish. I don’t think we a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 11:18 PM |
| 24 | I truly don’t understand all the hate this sub getsI’ve been married and don’t know if I want to be again, but I completely understand why younger women are looking for husbands and possibly children. I would like a life partner and that’s why I am here. I have a vision of the kind of man I want and he’s definitely high value. That doesn’t mean rich. Just self-sufficient would be a start, though thankfully most men my age are. Meanwhile I have needs i occasional fulfill with someone I know, not because I can’t live without sex but just because i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 11:05 PM |
| 135 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.Thanks for posting this. It’s definitely not worth the risks. I have several gay friends and one of them contracted chlamydia in his anus. I didn’t even know that was possible! Yellow pus was coming out, that’s how he knew something wasn’t right. Another has fecal incontinence. Prolapse is real and common, I never minded my husband gently inserting his finger there during sex, it does feel really good when it’s something small, but I never enjoyed anal the handful of times I had it. I won’t do i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:56 PM |
| 15 | On a post about MGTOW getting banned in blue pill. 🙄They call women “roasties” all the time and post pics of women on dating sites then pick them apart. Total hypocrites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:30 PM |
| 119 | The cockacity!!!!My ex never could apologize. He’d say “I wish we didn’t trigger each other”, or “I’m sorry I’m such a dick”, stuff like that. It was never ever “I’m really sorry I hurt you”. I’ve found that it’s hard for men to offer up an appropriate apology because it’s hard for them to be fully accountable for their actions. The blow to the ego is too much for them. Eventually they’ll resent you if you hold them accountable so it’s better to just look for a man who doesn’t consistently fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Women in relationships: What was your dating journey?Some men are like this. I know a woman who had a relationship with a guy, they were both around 40 and he was still married. He and his wife just remained together for the kids. The wife was aware of this woman. It was fine b/c it truly was about the kids and I’m sure, finances. Anyway, the woman decided she couldn’t deal with that situation and broke it off with him. She hadn’t had an actual relationship with anyone but this guy since her divorce like 12 years earlier, so it was not easy for he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:24 AM |
| 9 | I miss my toxic ex.I missed every one of my toxic exes, but believe me when I say there will come a time you will not miss them really at all. You’ll just be regretting the time and energy you wasted on them. I know it’s painful as hell when you’re in the emotional thick of things with them, and sometimes it takes several reunions and break ups to finally wake up and say “I’ve had enough”. You have to handle it in your own way but don’t waste too much of your time because you know in your heart what’s ahead if you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:08 AM |
| 14 | ePiC pWn MY BOI! The best part is a highly upvoted comment, “minimalism is awesome” lmao. Nah dude you’re just lazy and broke. The average redditor is a LVM so let’s stop concerning ourselves with all their MRA trash subreddits and what they have to say about women. They are not on our radar.Or a first set for that matter! I’ve known men who sleep with just a blanket, either on a couch or a mattress with just some random old sheet on it but no top sheet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:22 PM |
| 4 | The bar is set so very low for men. Remember that!That’s because they’re terrified of emotionally intimacy and are repressed, so their preferred type of woman is just a “fun girl” - aka someone who will be like a bruh but also fuck him, not question him, let him do as he pleases, not require any real commitment, and accepts being placed in a little box that he opens up at his sheer convenience. You’ll not only be totally cool with that, but also funny, witty, charming and oh-so fun. They don’t ask for much, ladies. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Men think it’s somehow moral to want women for their bodies, looks, fertility, and youth, but immoral when women want them for their money.Sounds about right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Men think it’s somehow moral to want women for their bodies, looks, fertility, and youth, but immoral when women want them for their money.Men think they’re immortal in many cases. I know plenty of them pushing 50 who are overweight and never gave a crap about nutrition. They are smart in one way, as several are engineers, but man are they dumb af in other ways. How are you going to enjoy your money when all those decades of eating Taco Bell and Dominos catches up to you all at once in the form of diabetes, cancer, heart disease, etc. They love to stick their heads in the sand, don’t they? I wonder who will take care of them. I do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 01:49 PM |
| 20 | When he comes back expecting Pickmeisha but you already found FDSWe wasted way too much of our precious life on them as it is. Regrets. I have a few! Not making the same mistakes again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:22 PM |
| 71 | Share your LVM older man story here.I took care of a man who was about 75 or so. I was 40. He constantly hit on me and this guy was in a diaper and talked to me alllll day about his sexual dalliances in his youth with various women. He also demanded that his will was amended so that I could receive some of his money because he said I was the only person that paid him any attention and his sons were just waiting for him to die. Sadly it seemed true. His sons never saw him at all. Of course that didn’t happen. The guy was really luc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:43 AM |
| 12 | Y’all get ready, lurkers are coming to FDS, again.Isn’t it ironic that a lot of these same guys who feel entitled to sex after a dinner or two they paid for, also go on and on about women being sluts these days? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:57 AM |
| 14 | Y’all get ready, lurkers are coming to FDS, again.The difference between the ladies here and those guys is that you are witty and funny and real, while they are just miserable and grasping at straws to make the case for their supposed “voluntary” sexual and romantic exile. Their view of women and the world is so pathetically myopic I can’t even imagine living with such a self-defeating set of beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 6 | Why it seems to men like a lot of women are less interested in sex as a relationship progresses...And most of them don’t even put the effort into pleasing you that would lead both to finding out what makes you tick, leading to much more enjoyable sex. With the men who did that for me because they truly wanted me to get off too, I was able to relax into sex with them. Not only did I climax usually under ten minutes if that, I was that much more enthusiastic about their pleasure and was always super happy to reciprocate. I can’t feel genuinely eager to please a man who isn’t genuinely eager to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:17 AM |
| 11 | Why it seems to men like a lot of women are less interested in sex as a relationship progresses...My ex husband always went down on me after sex or whatever I wanted to get me off, so after 11 years with him, I expected most men would be this way. I met a guy about a year after the divorce and I hadn’t had sex in a few years by then and had a pretty high libido. I spent a long weekend at his house and we had sex the first day but I didn’t climax, so I asked him to go down on me. He wouldn’t, and went into this spiel about how “men lose all interest in any of that once we come”, and that he w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 35 | Enough saidAnd what if you don’t - gasp - have big boobs? Then you’d right away know you’re not his ideal type and could never feel sexy enough for him. Talk about shallow. I would have said “my preference is a 7-8 inch cock, do you have that quality?” What a tool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:08 AM |
| 7 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Jesus, he needs to get a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:46 AM |
| 7 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”You’re famous with them haha! I’m actually kind of sad that none of them bother me. I am usually so triggering to these types of men. I need to step up my game 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”They’re clearly frustrated because they bond over hating us, and stupid things like motorcycles. They see women are capable of emotional attachments and true bonding and they envy us for that. Total toxic masculinity. 96% of inmates are male yet they post about female criminals. They are completely lost and desperate. Why they do this to themselves is truly baffling. They can dream of accumulating a bunch of money and in the end they’d still be miserable gits. Work on your spirits and personalit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:40 AM |
| 7 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Men who revel in self-pity and band together in their hatred for women. Men who pretend they’re all driving around in fancy sports cars, screwing high end hookers and jet setting around the world giving the middle finger to us horrible womenz. I truly feel sorry for them tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:33 AM |
| 50 | "I'm looking for a woman who will clean my house, cook for me, and pay the bills. No gold diggers."They’re self defeating with no ambition so they know they’ll never have money, so they overcompensate to the point of entitlement, wanting others to buy stuff for them. I’ve seen this a lot. The men who make good money don’t care about spending it on people they enjoy being with. The ones who are complacent and ok with squeaking by in life can’t fathom generosity and wouldn’t even buy you a coffee. They’re the ones on these subs claiming woman are gold diggers. Sorry, but wanting one of the many… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:22 AM |
| 19 | Sex isn’t worth it for womenI’m done with sex with men for now. It’s been mostly unsatisfying and tedious. There is a huge mental component to good sex. Most men these days don’t even like to kiss or try to please us. Living in the internet age has shown us all the true depravity of men and their fucking fantasies. I’m not interested in participating in that with them. My fantasies are pretty damn basic and I’m not porn sick and I’m glad I don’t have to ask some poor soul to do some twisted shit so I can orgasm, but men wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Study Finds Older Women Who Date Younger Men Are More SatisfiedMaybe, I couldn’t find a definitive answer, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Study Finds Older Women Who Date Younger Men Are More SatisfiedI guess Mary Kay LeTourneau /Vili Faulauu is not a good example. I will say this, they are still together to this day even after all the incredible stress they went through. If she was just into kids he would have gotten too old for her a long time ago. I’ll admit it’s creepy but she’s always said he’s an old soul and who really knows the mystery behind their incredible bond. Some people say Céline Dion was groomed but I’ve never heard her late husband catching any flack, and again, like Mary Ka… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 10:15 PM |
| 10 | Are most older women suffering from internal misogyny?I can relate. My dad was very LV and left before I was born (I was a one time “oops”). He tried to reach out to me when I was a teenager. His then-wife had made him feel guilty, but I just didn’t want anything to do with him. Never paid a penny in support for my sister and I. My mom was very young too and very naive. He was even younger. I’m very grateful he was never part of my life. I do severely regret the nasty, messed up stepfather #1 my mom married when I was 4. They divorced when I was 9.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 13 | Are most older women suffering from internal misogyny?The number of marriages I personally know of that are hanging on by a thread, usually for financial reasons or until the kids grow up and leave, is pretty crazy. Not surprisingly, the wives really rely on their female friends to get them through it all - and wine lol. I was also pretty nonchalant about marriage but my (now ex) husband proposed to me after three months and I just went along with it. I don’t think I ever really believed in marriage. The only marriages I knew that lasted forever in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 09:28 PM |
| 22 | Are most older women suffering from internal misogyny?This older lady who dated my grandfather up until his death was super jealous of almost every young woman out there. Just the sight of a bit of cleavage disgusted her. She always talked about “women these days” in a derogatory sense and hated pretty much all women. One day my then 6 year old daughter decided to sit next to her at Christmas dinner. My daughter told her “I like your jewelry!” You could just feel this woman’s heart of ice melting and from that day forward she never complained about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | Are most older women suffering from internal misogyny?My grandma was toxic too. She died 12 years ago at age 85. She was racist and now that I think about it, sexist. She was definitely bitter. She’d been widowed fairly young (in her 50s) and out of her 4 kids, one was a schizophrenic genius (my uncle) and her youngest daughter was a definite oops when she was almost 40 and never left home or got a job or anything so it was a very toxic, co-dependent relationship. When I was pregnant with my second daughter, she was so bitter that she said repeated… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 12 | Comedy hour: How has karma treated your LVM ex?My ex husband attempted to cheat on me while I was pregnant with our first child. He was no ideal husband. He also encouraged me to get an abortion. He’s a foreigner and tortured me throughout our ten year marriage about his misery, that he didn’t belong in the US and that I had taken him away from his culture, people and language. I couldn’t take anymore and we split up and he went back to his country. A full year passed of me being a single mother of two thinking he was never coming back, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Comedy hour: How has karma treated your LVM ex?And it’s been removed. Damn! ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:03 PM |
| 13 | My friend broke things off with this LVMThat’s disturbing. I swear to God most of them have faulty brains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:32 AM |
| 25 | Jeff Bezos cheated on his wife who helped him built his empire with the woman who set up him up to get extorted by the National Enquirer 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️And her husband married her as a single mother and is a handsome, very successful man. I personally wouldn’t have traded him for old wonky eyes but that’s beside the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:27 AM |
| 28 | Jeff Bezos cheated on his wife who helped him built his empire with the woman who set up him up to get extorted by the National Enquirer 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️The scrotes’ reaction to the Bezos divorce is hysterical. Imagine if the tables were turned and Mackenzie had the money and cheated on Jeff. You better believe they would be rooting for him to take half of everything because she’s a cheating whore cunt (cunt is their favorite word for women). Bottom line - she fucking deserved that money. She did a lot to get that company going while raising their FOUR kids. It’s amazing how outraged they are by female cheaters while completely dismissing male c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:24 AM |
| 22 | Dudes who complain about women with fake butts/boobs don’t seem to realize they’re not the target audienceI don’t think she’s attractive in real life and I don’t think a lot of people think she is either, but I get your point. I can’t stand that whole family but we all know men’s actual standards are very low as far as where they’ll stick their dicks, so to hear them saying women way out of their league aren’t attractive enough is pretty comical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:18 AM |
| 65 | Dear men lurking this sub...I briefly dated a super narcissistic man who was bipolar and a compulsive gambler. I found out later about those things. He had a teenage daughter. When I realized he was mentally unhealthy and began to distance myself, he started blowing my phone up calling me a slut and all kinds of nasty things. I asked him how he would feel if a man spoke to his daughter that way. He didn’t answer and just kept the focus on me and my supposed slutty ways. I have a feeling his daughter is well aware of what a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else notice how some guys whine about how women aren’t “traditional ladies” these days yet they expect women to pay at least half for everything and to take care of THEM?We could make a whole, long list of how they contradict themselves all the time. It boils down to beggars can’t be choosers and they are well aware of this so they just disparage us across the board. We’re either feminazi career women or lazy, welfare single moms (they love hating on single moms - they are jealous little beasts), either virginal teenagers who will inevitably discover “Chad or Tyrone”, or used up, loose sluts. Either independently financially secure because of some ex of course 🙄… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone else notice how some guys whine about how women aren’t “traditional ladies” these days yet they expect women to pay at least half for everything and to take care of THEM?Sounds like my ex, and the reason was his alcoholism. He got up every morning and semi-ran his small business, but was completely dysfunctional in every other way. He slept in front of the TV every night like a lot of dysfunctional guys do, and I would go to his bed to sleep (alone of course), and always found it piled high with laundry, mostly dirty. A single man can’t keep up with his laundry. At least we didn’t procreate with these guys. He also never cooked and always bought gas station food… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:48 PM |
| 8 | Once you defeat all the Pickmeishas, you have to battle the Queen.They spent money on a man. Joke’s on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:35 PM |
| 19 | Men seem to think that attractive women are *trying* to attract themI could not care less if a guy finds me attractive or not. I think a few of them get off making eye contact and looking away from you. They’re always the old bitter looking guys that look like domestic abusers. I am thankful that they don’t all leer at me. Enough of them do, usually with their wives next to them. I usually cover up and wear sunglasses anyway. I am over being objectified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:01 AM |
| 6 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menWhat am I missing? She’s beautiful. What do they want? They are greasy, disgusting, beer drinking, Cheeto eating pigs. I swear to God, the pickmeishas I know that I tried to save, I am actually now reveling in their misery. You made your bed, now lie in it. I don’t want to hear about it. And they don’t even tell you what they’re really going through b/c they’re too embarrassed. But everyone knows. Too weak. Too pathetic. All of them are abused. They are all addicted to male attention and all are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:42 AM |
| 45 | Does anyone else notice how some guys whine about how women aren’t “traditional ladies” these days yet they expect women to pay at least half for everything and to take care of THEM?It’s hilarious how hypocritical they are. It’s a joke. I sometimes look at their subs and can’t believe what I read. The self-pitying of the most privileged class of people - white American men - is truly pathetic. I’ve known men and women from other less advantaged countries who worked from sun up to sundown and still had a smile on their faces. These guys are their own worse enemies and drowning in their own misery. Just know that these Reddit mama’s boys are hardly representative of all men. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:28 AM |
| 25 | Comedy hour: what is the most ridiculous thing a LVM has ever had the audacity to say to you?I let my daughters be with their dad one summer more than was court ordered. He then turned around, used my kindness against me, and spent 1000s on a lawyer who said that he deserved more custody because the kids had already been with him that much and it was working. He totally tried to screw me for being kind. He lost btw. Was the best feeling ever. Motherfucker already was getting the better arrangement (3 weekends a month). He was just trying to screw me out of the tax break. It was allll ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:48 AM |
| 25 | Comedy hour: what is the most ridiculous thing a LVM has ever had the audacity to say to you?Men are incredibly vengeful toward women. This doesn’t surprise me at all. That fRAGiLe EGo 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 16 | Comedy hour: what is the most ridiculous thing a LVM has ever had the audacity to say to you?I dated a guy who was shorter than me and frankly not on my level look wise. I didn’t care too much about that because he was fun (before I found out he was a total mama’s boy and highly insecure). He started questioning “do you always wear your eye makeup like that” - I wear very subtle eye makeup and get compliments on it all the time. He also said I could shake up my wardrobe or something like that. I was wearing feminine blouses, jeans, cute sandals. I’ve never had any man question my wardro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Anne Hathaway is more of a bombshell now than ever - a response to "the wall" BS. 2010 vs 2020 - using more comparable events, lighting and photography.I have a similar look to hers/body type and I put on 30 lbs in the past 5 years. I was underweight before. It hasn’t deterred men whatsoever. A little extra weight looks great on a lot of women after a certain age. She is beautiful then and now. The anti women subs are seriously reaching. They can’t handle all the male celebs their age that look terrible so they have to take a perfectly lovely woman and say she’s unattractive. They are ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:19 PM |
| 18 | LVMMEN AGE LIKE FINE WINE OK?????? Women are just jealous 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:12 PM |
| 5 | where's the lieYeah, that’s a lot of digging for gold that guy did 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 15 | where's the lieIt’s like Jerry Seinfeld once said - men wear their underwear until they literally vaporize. Truth. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | You are my people! I feel like I can finally tell my fucked up reddit storyWhat’s hilarious is I read a comment over on their sub recently where they still claim men age like fine wine. The denial is STRONG with men. They just can’t accept that they never had it and never will. It’s all downhill for them and they refuse to face reality. On what planet do men get better with age? They look like dog shit. If they had a personality it would help immensely but you can see on their subs that they are the ultimate victims despite being the single most favored demographic eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:35 PM |
| 8 | $36 is the going price for sex, apparently!He wanted a threesome with you. I can’t think of any other reason he would say that if he wasn’t looking to spice things up. He was just super awkward about it, but they were looking for a woman to have fun with imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:28 PM |
| 91 | guys are learning astrology to try to get laidWhy does he care, it’s not like he’s going to do anything useful with her clit anyway. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 96 | The male rights subs get outraged by men in India invading women-only subway cars and getting smacked for it. They conveniently ignore the truth about the brutality against women and girls there. Warning - this is a hard read.And don’t read about the girl raped on the bus unless you have a strong stomach. Even the bus driver took his turn and raped her, and they penetrated her with a metal bar, she died after suffering for two weeks in the hospital, trying to stay alive. It’s haunted me since I read about it years ago. I can’t fathom how men do not understand what we fear on a daily basis, knowing full well what their gender is capable of. It’s so incredibly hard to see them in any sort of good light when you know th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 03:07 PM |
| 58 | The male rights subs get outraged by men in India invading women-only subway cars and getting smacked for it. They conveniently ignore the truth about the brutality against women and girls there. Warning - this is a hard read.It gives me hope to see so many men in India organizing to protest this abject violence towards women. They are the real men, standing up against these soulless demons who think women are completely worthless and think nothing to rape and kill them. Unfortunately the system there is clearly totally bogged down with rape cases. Women are constantly being raped there. And little girls. They need their dicks chopped off for real. Then maybe this would stop. All over the world women are brutalized, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 120 | The male rights subs get outraged by men in India invading women-only subway cars and getting smacked for it. They conveniently ignore the truth about the brutality against women and girls there. Warning - this is a hard read.Coddling the fragile male ego far surpasses the rights of women and children to exist without being raped and assaulted. And they wonder why subs like this one exist. It’s so sad that so many of them celebrate violence against females. This is the harsh reality when they have a chance to really express their hatred. Imagine what these psycho redditors would do to women if they could. Protect yourselves, ladies. There are too many of them out there even in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:39 PM |
| 42 | Truth Hurts.Ugh, the bun wearers couldn’t even fix a flat tire. They think their dicks are a gift to humanity. Many are perpetual students still living with mommy. It’s gross and sad out there, for real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:18 PM |
| 46 | Truth Hurts.We’re all in the same boat, with 95% or more of men being low value. I met a nice guy last night at the pub but he talked about himself constantly and had very bad breath. I just don’t know what it’s going to take to find a decent man with enough self awareness to know he has halitosis. It’s like the universe has played one big joke on me my whole life. I just can’t with men anymore. I’ve tried, I’ve given really low value men a chance, I’m done with the sacrifice and compromise. I can only imag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Imagine being in a relationship with this guy 💩From the first live-in relationship I’ve had with I man, I stole and wore his boxers to bed, and it has never impeded my sex life in any way. Fuck this guy. What a shallow little shit. That woman needs to move on. You take your underwear off for sex, duh. If he needs a couple seconds of seeing you in certain undergarments too fucking bad. I’ve been single for 9 years more or less and I still wear my exes boxers. They are so much more comfy. I’ll always wear men’s boxers. And I have never had a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 06:45 AM |
| 8 | Parrots vs LVMsParrots have souls. That’s the difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 06:35 AM |
| 21 | You are my people! I feel like I can finally tell my fucked up reddit storySeriously wondering if they’re frustrated because they want to fuck each other but don’t want to identify as gay. The level of hatred they have for women, our bodies, faces and sexuality is psychopathic. At least their subs along with ours are teaching a lot of women how they really are and to steer clear of the majority of them. Most of them hate us. I’m in my 40s and it’s sad for me to say this, but they really do. Stay single if you can’t find a man who loves and respects women. Never ever se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 06:17 AM |
| 12 | When men call themselves stoic and rational. Is it opposite day?Have you seen the Mgtow sub? They cherry pick the most extreme cases of women being bitches then post it to the massive uproar of the misogynists over there. It’s comical. One guy posted texts of his wife saying she slept with some dude and got an STD. It’s so fake yet all the guys are like “cunt!”, “bitch!”, god they are absolute drama kings and psychos. They are mad about men in India riding in women’s only subway cars and getting reprimanded for it when that country has a HUGE problem with wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Yelled at during sex for showing him what she needs sexually. Questioning if she has a right to be angry. Sigh.Right? I absolutely refuse to continue having sex with any man who does not make my pleasure a priority. If he’s worth his salt, your pleasure excites him. If you find a selfish lover, dump him because he’s not going to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 9 | Yelled at during sex for showing him what she needs sexually. Questioning if she has a right to be angry. Sigh.If he was any good, and listened to your directions, you would have an amazing orgasm within 10-15 minutes even drunk. Who has time for these lazy ass scrotes? Women, PLEASE stop giving them sex. You are getting nothing out of it, and these guys are total pricks. Get a vibrator and never look back. Unless/until you find an enthusiastic, caring lover, JUST SAY NO!!! My FWB (he’s my ex and still good for something) paid attention and now gives me very good oral and I climax like I never could on m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 13 | Yelled at during sex for showing him what she needs sexually. Questioning if she has a right to be angry. Sigh.JHC. I hope he didn’t procreate, not even knowing what a cervix is. Imagine how many douchebags become fathers (don’t forget - “fathers of the year” for doing basic shit) just by blasting their orgasm into a woman, not even fully comprehending how babies are made. Ugh I would be so pissed to get attitude from a scrote during sex. I do tell them when it’s shitty though. I don’t have time for shitty sex. Nope. They can move right along if I’m just a cum receptacle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 34 | Yelled at during sex for showing him what she needs sexually. Questioning if she has a right to be angry. Sigh.That’s truly awful. Any man who displays impatience while learning how to pleasure his partner is a genuine asshole and should be set free. I just can’t even imagine. Ladies, if I they don’t care about your pleasure, they don’t care about you. For gods sake, there are men out there eager to make you cum. Why on earth are you staying with these selfish, horrible lovers? I don’t get it at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Yelled at during sex for showing him what she needs sexually. Questioning if she has a right to be angry. Sigh.Damn this is sad. What a prick. This was hard for her to ask for no doubt, and her selfish prick of a boyfriend scolds her? Jesus. I just can’t even. I’ll admit I had pickmeisha tendencies as a young woman, but I had grit, and this would have been a dealbreaker. He showed his true colors very clearly. The saddest part is she’s going to stay with him and put up with a shitty sex life where she never gets to experience orgasms. My FWB might be a stupid man in a lot of ways but he genuinely gets of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 30 | What was that about being a lonely spinster?Who says she’s lonely? Trust me, there is no more lonely feeling than feeling lonely with a man who takes you for granted, drains your emotional energy, and adds no value to your life. You must be young to think that being alone is a sad state. It only is if you never seek your soul and never find inner peace. I have, and I can promise you the feeling of loneliness never even crosses my mind. I think if you feel lonely, it means you have a lot of work to do within yourself, because no person can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:39 PM |
| 62 | What’s wrong with the image??? Lmao these Scrotes be MAD mad 😳😤😤I’m so damn sick of that stupid shit they parrot about them being victimized. Most states these days strive to give equal custody to men. My ex husband has my kids half the time, pays almost nothing in child support, was always the breadwinner so he’s doing great and I’m struggling yet I haven’t filed for the much higher child support I could and should be getting. My story is not rare. If anything, men have it a lot easier than women when it comes to raising the kids. They can all fuck right of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 10:32 AM |
| 14 | i am so tiredSo damn disrespectful. That question alone gives his LVM status away immediately, at least. It’s really none of his business, what a tool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 10:27 AM |
| 22 | Again, what wall? 41 y.o. Woman with 6 kids still beating 20 and 30 y.o. men off with a stick.I’m 46 and this happens to me, though I’ve also been attracting guys in their 50s and 60s, but by far they are in their late 20s. I had a Reddit scrote DM about this phenomenon and claimed they are only hitting on me because they think older women are easy. That’s not true. Many of them want to hang out with me and we have a great chemistry because I literally don’t give a shit around them and can be free to be myself and have fun, and they make it easy to do that. They’re just more fun honestly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 10:17 AM |
| 33 | I’m sorry...what?!He was clearly testing you to see if you were DTF because that is 100% all he’s interested in and doesn’t want to be out $30 for drinks if he can’t get his dick wet. Even most cheap ass men wouldn’t say that and just carry a couple condoms in their wallet just in case. What a fucking loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 10:07 AM |
| 86 | What was that about being a lonely spinster?I’m sure she’s very happy. Her sister was in the band Clannad. Maire Brennan. Very talented ladies. I listen to both of them from time to time. Beautiful music. Honestly I’ve come to a point where I’m perfectly happy without a man. No man could ever come close to what I would want, I think, so why bother trying. It’s not even that my expectations are super high. It’s just that experience has proven to me they are generally a big letdown. Living alone in a castle with just staff and security and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:59 AM |
| 12 | The only thing more pathetic than this profile, is the fact that he tweaks it on a regular basis. Looking for "💗"It looks deformed. I’m all about nice arms on a guy, that just looks weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:14 AM |
| 3 | It’s much more honorable to adopt a child with special needs than to marry one. If he doesn’t have basic life skills like feeding himself, prepare to become his surrogate mother.I think a lot of women struggle with an ED in some form or another. We are always restricting calories or trying new diets or whatever. You aren’t alone. I told my therapist I purged sometimes and she didn’t even think anything of it because I think it’s so common for women to do this. I’m now much better and it’s ok to be obsessed with food if you’re eating well and trying to become healthy. It’s hard for women because of the extreme emphasis placed on our bodies by men. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:07 AM |
| 31 | don't do it, queensWhen I was 22, a man randomly came up to me and told me never to date or trust a man whose name started with the letter D. Holy crap has that come true. I attract “D” names like crazy and they’ve ALL been trouble! 🤷♀️ So weird I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 68 | This wealthy 38M has strict requirements for the privilege of dating him. Too many to post, but “female applicants” must answer ALL questions (A-Z) to even be considered. It’s written like a business proposal, but I’ve seen less strict RFP’s in sales 🤣My daughter is 16, she’s just a kid! She’ll still be a kid in 2 years. These guys are just fucking gross. My kid likes other kids. What is seriously wrong with these old guys looking for KIDS?? I would punch his mug if he tried to date my daughter, and her dad would destroy him. Ugh. Such a loser, get a life you sack of shit. There’s a real good reason he’s 38, “wealthy” and still single advertising for skinny teens. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Straight to degradationThe musician I dated lived paycheck to paycheck. Most don’t make squat. The one I dated procreated with a woman with money so he didn’t have to pay much child support. She just wanted his tall genes. Why I don’t know because he’s not very cute. So he rents a room with someone and scrapes by as an artist that is going nowhere. He’s a terrible partner with the track record to show for it. Just say no to musicians, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:29 AM |
| 12 | Straight to degradationI don’t know. I dated a musician I met on OLD and he was pretty good but man was he a hot mess. A total manchild. Always feeling sorry for himself, going on about his anxiety, trying to force me into his twisted sexual fetishes, easily ghosted me once I was onto his LVM ways. I’m sooo not impressed by musicians. It’s not that hard to be good at music if you’re born with the talent. My 13 yr old taught herself extremely intricate pieces on the viola that blew everyone’s minds. She’s a regular gir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:23 AM |
| 35 | ..... so you want a girlfriend but you don’t want to be in a relationship okTranslation - “I’m emotionally retarded, have never had a relationship, I am far too selfish for that, I have a dog, she’s the only woman I need, I just need a chick to screw once in awhile to remind myself I’m human, but you better not be screwing anyone else. Your pussy will belong to me and me only, and in exchange you’ll get 2 minutes of jack hammering and an extremely empty feeling for days afterwards that you are nothing more than a cum receptacle for a complete loser. Come on now ladies, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Friendly reminder not to date pornsick menKinda gross story but my bff is a gay man and one of his friends is into fisting and wears a red bandanna on his belt loop to let other men know this. Anyway, the friend is getting fisted one night and reaches down to touch the guy’s genitals, only, there aren’t any! Turns out it’s a woman who pretended to be a gay man. This guy was so into it he shrugged it off and let her finish him off. Guys are sooooo grooossss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:33 AM |
| 14 | Literally MenThat is so gross. Holy hell. My ex husband admitted to screwing papayas and I thought that was bad enough but this is utterly repulsive 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:23 AM |
| 28 | Giving Up on Men...Yes sister! It’s the best feeling, isn’t it? I decided the same thing and have never been happier. I have a number of female friends in partnerships and I see it’s really all about finances, because their men do nothing for them, and I mean nothing. I’ll admit financially it’s hard these days but I figured out something that works for me. Having that pressure off the table, plus I already did the marriage/kids thing, means that I have zero incentive to be with any man who doesn’t legit add value… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:16 AM |
| 31 | "I set my age preference for 18-25 bc I might want kids one day" - every man over 35 on OLD. Since when did men start openly pining after having children? Since when were men struggling with baby fever?Yeah they age like milk so you’d be 27 with a kid by a guy who looks like gramps with a huge belly and questionable sperm. I know a 48 yr old with a 5 yr old kid. He loves him but he is a mess and killing himself with his terrible habits (beer, frozen pizza). It’s not young women’s’ responsibility to provide aging losers with spawn. They had years and years to get it together and attract a partner. Even if they have money by then, there are usually fundamental issues with these guys. ETA: trigge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I’m tall for a woman and always pretty lanky and thin. I recently (past 3-4 years) packed on about 20 lbs and became curvaceous. I find now that skinny guys are more into me. They don’t seem to want a skinny woman. I’m not real into skinny lanky guys either. I love toned arms on a man and men who have some definition. I know women who love skinny guys. That’s great that there’s someone for everyone. I like men who look different than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I’m almost 5’9”, you’d be surprised how much a woman’s height can contribute to her offspring’s height, and then genetics can throw you for a loop. My ex husband is 6’ and one of my daughters is fully grown and not even quite 5’6”, (the other is going to be about 5’7”) and my parents were 5’8” and 6’, and my ex’s dad was 6’3”! Genetics are funny. It seems that a child takes after one side or the other rather than a mix. I didn’t want super tall daughters because even at 5’8 1/2 I was often talle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:11 AM |
| 5 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Yep. Dated a guy maybe half inch shorter than me. On one of our first dates we went to see a movie and I wore flats. He whispered to me “thank you for wearing flats”. Made me feel pretty bad, like this was a guy who was going to always want me to wear flats and even then feel insecure. I can’t deal with that. I could date a shorter guy who was confident, but I’m not prepared to wear flats all the time and kowtow to insecure men. That ain’t living. Give me a Mick Jagger type any day - short and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | get off r/SkincareAddiction and dump himThat male selfishness, ugh. When I meet men who actually care about my comfort, I almost go into shock and don’t know how to handle it. I’m so used to these gd manchildren who the world apparently revolves around. I’m so glad I’m at a place now where I can say fuck off easily and with no regrets to manchildren. Life is wayyy too short to deal with these spoiled infants. My ex stayed up late watching TV. I had to bring eye masks and ear plugs to sleep at his place. He never once tried to make thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Friendly reminder not to date pornsick menImagine being most remembered for your poop shoot. Thank u, next indeed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:41 PM |
| 40 | Friendly reminder not to date pornsick menI dated this guy that had a HUGE fetish for having his asshole licked. I told him I wasn’t going to do that for him but every time I was giving him head he would try to force my face down to his asshole and demand that I eat it. He was so damn passionate about it. I absolutely refused. I will never do that to anyone. These anus obsessed guys should really get together with each other, seems Iike it would be heaven for them to explore each other’s sweaty, rank, smelly buttholes. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Freinds with benefits is over!I need to, I think the worst case one is settling down though after being pumped and dumped by numerous men she met on OLD. She divorced a LVM a few years ago after 20 years of marriage so she really needs to rebuild her self worth before putting herself out there. He emotionally abused her to the point where she’s behaving this way despite being highly educated with a great career, her own house, plenty of money. I think she’s realizing now the challenge of finding HVM, and the extremely slim c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 7 | Freinds with benefits is over!That’s my situation. For starters, he’s practically my neighbor. He gives me great oral, he’s super easy and fast to get off, he’s sweet and forever single, not an asshole at all. Just clueless. He gives me airline miles often and helps me out in other ways. I see him maybe once every 2-3 months. He’s an ex of mine that didn’t work out. I might feel differently if I were kept as a fwb from the get-go having never been the girlfriend. I also know he still has feelings for me. But I’m all for wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 12:24 AM |
| 3 | A reminderCan’t disagree with facts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | A reminderIt’s not good because men these days can’t be bothered with sensuality and foreplay. Just sticking it in isn’t a good sensation. They have to get us to where we want it in us bad, but how many actually bother? I never thought I’d prefer minutemen over guys who last. Just go down on me and then get yourself off fast lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:36 PM |
| 45 | You are the star of your own storyThey need to build and fix themselves. The best thing us women can do for them is to NOT be there for them while they do this, IF they do it. Why? Because chances are they won’t. It’s as good as enabling them. Robert Downey Jr. is a HVM thanks to his wife. When they were dating, he started dabbling in drugs again and she said “I can’t be with you, I don’t want this. “ I think that night he went down to the ocean and dumped all his drugs and never looked back. He gives her a ton of credit for “sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:24 PM |
| 11 | OP (25F) dates old, post wall male (40M), is SHOCKED at his low-libido & unfulfilling, lackluster sex, feels insecure with lack of sexual foreplay. There's NO BENEFIT to dating someone much much older... and let this be a DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!Yeah women don’t fucking squirt. That’s a male fantasy because penile ejaculation is so damn fascinating to them that they need to project that onto women. Maybe as “proof” women orgasm? I’ve known men who didn’t believe women had them. They are such pea-brained idiots. In reality, when you’re in perfect sexual harmony with a man, you come together and the female orgasm is designed to draw sperm into the uterus. It’s inward contractions, not outward spillage. My male friend who I’m pretty sure i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 26 | Man hits wall. Admits that hairloss took him from a 6 to a 3 in looks. Admits that baldness made him uglier (baldness is age-related). Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men and keep your self esteem high, ladies!!!!!Lol, mine joined a gym and got fitter than he ever ever was with me. That drive for new pussy was fierce! I was like, thanks asshole for giving a damn what you looked like for your WIFE. Of course, I was slim and looked good and his friends crushed on me but no, he couldn’t care about his looks until we were split up. He wasn’t quite the hit with the ladies he thought he’d be though. I almost feel bad for him because now he’s quite overweight and the hair loss doesn’t stop. Too bad he didn’t che… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:09 AM |
| 13 | Man hits wall. Admits that hairloss took him from a 6 to a 3 in looks. Admits that baldness made him uglier (baldness is age-related). Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men and keep your self esteem high, ladies!!!!!Sounds like my ex husband, and you are right. He should have tried harder to hold onto me. A lot harder. In typical male fashion, he has always refused to take any responsibility for the dissolution of our marriage, even though I fully accepted him up until he began to withdraw affection, lie, go back into the porn addiction he claimed to have overcome, etc. I was a catch. I was very attractive and loyal and had his babies and was truly looking forward to building a better life together. He was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | “Suspended Billing” RageBut what about guys who never had kids? Aren’t they often selfish and clueless how to deal with single mothers and our situations? I think you might be coming from a different perspective, do you have kids? I’m truly curious about this because I always though single dads would be a better match for single moms. I’ve only dated one single dad and he was not a good father to his two daughters, both of who turned to drugs as young adults and are still a mess. It always broke my heart. He just wasn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:47 AM |
| 46 | Woman helps her husband “transition” & now he calls her “some d*ke" and filed for divorce. You don’t have to be a Pickmeisha in the name of gender equality. Abandon ship as soon as they start to put their needs far above yours. Trans scrotes are still scrotes and expect them to behave that way.The vitriol I’ve gotten from them for even hinting at disapproval for their behavior more than proves this. I feel like a lot of them are jealous of us, and they become a caricature of women in most cases. They definitely do not represent us in any way, shape or form. I’m waiting to be proven otherwise but this has long been my observation, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:10 PM |
| 53 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"Yes, they tell us the wall is age 18-20, because they can’t handle the fact that women can be sexually attractive well into their 40s, 50s and beyond. I’ve heard some of them claim the wall is age 14-15. I sure hope the FBI is keeping tabs on these sick fucks. And you are right - their jealousy is manifested through their rape and violence fantasies. Most of these wastes of oxygen would get the pulp beat out of them instantly by normal, sane men. They target women because they are absolute cowar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 22 | The most hilarious allegation about FDS is that we are celibate & not by choiceMy ex bf is 43 and in the past few years seemed to have been going through his “dark night of the soul”. He expressed to me that he had lived enough and he was done with everything and life was empty. All he did was work or hang at the bar with several losers who never got their shit together. He was inferring that he was going to kill himself but I had heard that enough so I didn’t respond. It’s been a month and I just saw online he’s still racking up points for this football game we both do so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 26 | The most hilarious allegation about FDS is that we are celibate & not by choiceNope. I knew a very homely woman who wanted a baby. She managed to pick up a guy from a bar who not only happily had sex with her, but didn’t use protection either. She got the baby she wanted, I don’t even think the guy ever knew about it. Not something I would do, but it goes to show not only can any woman get laid, but men are so horny they’ll even go without a condom for a moment of extra pleasure. They hate this truth so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:43 PM |
| 21 | The most hilarious allegation about FDS is that we are celibate & not by choiceMany studies have shown that marriage makes men live longer while the opposite is true for women. Men get far more benefits from it. Satisfying sex, home cooked meals, someone to help them have healthier habits, often clean up after them, etc. Women get shackled when they could be free to enjoy friendships with other women, which are really so much better when you’re older, enjoy their kids and/or pets, enjoy taking care of themselves and discovering new hobbies, etc. Other than companionship, w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:31 PM |
| 29 | The most hilarious allegation about FDS is that we are celibate & not by choiceAnd that loser isn’t going to die alone? Pure projection. Newsflash - most of us die alone. The difference is women have souls and generally work on their spirits and find inner peace whereas men go through life still in their 50s hanging out with other bros who still think they’re 25, doing the same shit (drinking, sports), they are the ones who lie awake at night panicking because they failed to evolve themselves in any meaningful way and have no true deep connections with other human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 31 | The most hilarious allegation about FDS is that we are celibate & not by choiceJust a cope. They readily admit that ANY woman can get laid anytime, yet they now want to claim we can’t? Not only can we, any of us have at least several numbers on our phones we could call for sex right now, at 6 am. They only wish they could do the same. The fact is, I could be having gobs of sex, but unlike men, the thought of sharing my body with any random body out there, knowing nothing about disease status, hygiene, or the sanity of the person attached to that body, really does not appea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 31 | ConsequencesMy ex is finally realizing this cold, hard truth. He claimed to have changed dramatically and so, after a year of ignoring his texts, I agreed to go out with him on a couple dates, then on a short trip with him to see for myself. When he went RIGHT back to his old ways and I said “no thanks” to more of that shit, he told me “you haven’t changed at all!” Lol. Buddy, the onus was never on ME to change! He actually hoped that I had changed and wouldn’t “trigger” him, because you all are right - if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 21 | ConsequencesYou’re wrong though! They don’t pay for sex - they pay her to leave 😂 😂 😂 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 15 | ConsequencesThe truth HURTS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I created a Spotify playlist with all your recommendations.Lana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 8 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!And they can’t figure us out, which is threatening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:53 PM |
| 15 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!Of course they would hate Scorpios - they think we’re all out there seducing men and having hot sex with gobs of Chads or whoever we feel like. They wouldn’t be totally wrong 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Seriously, why do they ALL think and act like logic and emotion are two mutually exclusive things???? They can coexist!!!Pathetic! Just. Wow. These “men” make children look mature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 14 | Seriously, why do they ALL think and act like logic and emotion are two mutually exclusive things???? They can coexist!!!Women aren’t allowed to be angry, only men are. They display plenty of emotion, as we all know, but the main difference is they don’t tolerate it in others, especially not women. They have very little capacity for empathy and understanding, so the emotions of others (especially women) “confuses” them, most also lack self-awareness so they aren’t even fully aware of what they’re feeling or willing to be accountability for how they let their emotions play out. I don’t care, I will not hold my ange… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:39 AM |
| 4 | 🗣My ex had the same face without his goatee. The goatee made him look 10x better. Rugged even. Then he shaved and looked like a goofy 17 year old boy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:22 AM |
| 32 | Guy gets a drunken hook up pregnant, and instead of worrying about the child, he’s worried about his social prospects. And he thinks he can still be high value? 😂I dunno. I kinda miss the 90s. The economy was good, we all just wanted to get out and have fun, guys weren’t porn sick Reddit keyboard warriors, the Internet hadn’t taken over much of people’s time yet so you had to actually seek real community, not just connectivity. I personally think society has been steadily devolving for decades. I would gladly go back to the 90s, especially if I could take my wisdom with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:11 AM |
| 12 | MALES should try to be physically more beautiful, NOT women.Agreed, and to be honest, most of the guys I know who cheated (on my friends) were NOT attractive. My friends were by far the better looking. The ugly ones are often the most insecure, and once they bag a woman, start thinking they’re something special and look around for side ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:53 AM |
| 9 | I think another FDS angel just got her wings 😇Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 8 | Man realizing what the majority of women go through everydayI don’t have the energy to keep my house the way I’d like it to be. I like a spotless house. Including cooking, I spend about 10-15 hours a week cleaning. I used to live in a country where even the poor have maids and it was just my husband I then, no kids, and the maid would come 3x a week for 8 hours each time. Honestly if you want a sparking house and home cooked meals every night, it would take at least 25 hours a week. Granted we had tile floors throughout which get filthy fast, but still, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:16 PM |
| 11 | Man realizing what the majority of women go through everydayWhen I read things like this, I just wonder what exactly DO these lazy men bring to the table? When I was married, my husband cleaned and cooked with no complaints. He also helped with the kids at all stages. I couldn’t have done it without his help in the early years. I dated a guy who exhibited signs of laziness and I cut that shit off real fast. I’ve never been with a lazy man and I’m not about to in my 40s. I feel bad that you had to work so incredibly hard, but at least it did pay off! I se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:05 PM |
| 10 | Man realizing what the majority of women go through everydaySame with my mom, zero child support and did everything. Really lived for her days off, and even then a lot of those were spent cleaning house, and always cooking. I am a single mom and it’s hard because I cook every night, work 30-40 hrs a week and am a personal chauffeur for two teenagers. My saving grace is the two days a week their dad has them. I work those days but the evenings are all mine and I usually crawl into bed and just read, watch Netflix, snack, drink tea, and just enjoy my solit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 10 | I created a Spotify playlist with all your recommendations.Yeah I can’t see how she’s empowering but I do like a lot of her music. She got where she is because of a very wealthy father and a lot of plastic surgery. I hear her live voice is awful. But, some of her stuff is pretty catchy imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 26 | It's 2020. Let's all acknowledge that Drake is a pedophile :)Apparently he did this with Billie Eilish too. Why is this being normalized?? The guy is seriously disturbed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 04:02 AM |
| 20 | LVM called me old while asking me out!What a douchebag. I’ve dated guys 3 years younger several times and our age difference never came up, because it’s pretty much non-existent. Some guys will just try anything to lower your confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 30 | LVM called me old while asking me out!Only in their fantasies, but same difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 19 | LVM called me old while asking me out!Mentally these toads are 18 though. Forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:13 PM |
| 54 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.It surprises me how desperate some women are to get themselves a man, knowing how utterly depraved most of them are. I am leery of them as a whole but even when I encounter guys who seem nice and normal, I know they’re likely harboring skeletons in their closets that would make me run. Reddit proves that men bond with each other over the domination and degradation of women. It also proves how sick most of their minds are. I mean I always knew men were perverts but being on Reddit has been an edu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:59 PM |
| 31 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.A lot of truth in your comment. I really think we are better off letting go, focusing on ourselves and our true interests, and we are far more likely to find a HVM when we are not looking and simply living and finding contentment. I also agree that HVM generally aren’t on OLD and you really kind of do have to catch one between relationships or maybe one who has had a hard time finding a HVW. I’ve met men in bars and casinos and guess what we had in common? Mostly drinking. I’m definitely not int… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Divorce is final on the 15th:My friend was beaten during her pregnancy too. She isn’t with the guy anymore but he still torments her from time to time. I feel so sorry for the kids. It’s so incredibly heartbreaking. And I know how hard it is to leave but I thank God I did not have kids with him. Three years of enduring the abuse, three years of crying to my mother, who is now no longer here and it kills me that I put her through that instead of just coming home and getting away from him once and for all. I have daughters of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 11 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.I chased a guy once. Turns out he had been single for most of his adult life and was really not good relationship material, but he concealed that fact very well for several months. Really spread the charm on thick, took me out and paid every time, always thought of fun things to do together, took me over to social gatherings with his friends, introduced me to his family. I was super smitten. Then, as they always do, the facade began to show hairline fractures, and I eventually responded to his c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.I was on a major online newspaper where that comment was posted by a woman (about the man liking the woman more). She had sorely regretting not knowing that sooner. It was a heavily upvoted comment - because it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 9 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.Me too. I’m reading Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which I think another FDS sister posted about here. I realized I have a lot of work left to do to basically regain my innocence, and undo the damage that years of being told who I was (and I wasn’t at all) had made me believe it, so I began to internalize those beliefs deeper than I had understood. With my ex husband, even though he never physically abused me, a decade of gaslighting resulted in me having some form of PSTD when I have to interact… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:35 PM |
| 19 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBI dated a guy was an inch shorter than me at 5’7”. I still chat with him on the phone once in a blue moon and he still insists he’s 5’9”. I’m not even 5’9”. I was wearing flats too the whole time I dated him lol. Saying something false to yourself and others your whole life doesn’t make it true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:35 PM |
| 84 | No more!The teddy bear probably housed a hidden camera. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:40 PM |
| 12 | Shut this guy down via Instagram. Why is it the bad eggs are always the loudest?They’d worship this asshat over on the mgtow/red pill forums. He sounds like the very embodiment of those guys - shallow, women are dumb, need to be talked down to and insulted, grown men acting like 13 yrs old, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:09 AM |
| 7 | Girl DatesI am blessed to have a female friend whose husband and her don’t like each other a lot (they even take separate vacations lol), and so I go out with her two nights a week for two hours. We’ve been doing this for 7 years now. I felt like it was so hard making friends as I got older but then I met her through someone else I knew. Both of us also love doing things alone. She goes dancing on Saturday nights alone even. My female and male friendships are so important to me but I also date myself. My … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 16 | A theory: ostensibly straight men that don’t eat pussy are possibly homosexualsI just wanted to add, when I was about 25, I stupidly started hooking up with a 40 yr old narcissist from my work. One of the other ladies who worked there who was very nice and about 50 and came up to me one day to ask if he and I were dating. I said yes. Her eyes started watering and she looked sad and told me that she had hooked up with him a few times and it was a humiliating thing for her because he wiped her vagina down with a washrag before they had sex. He hadn’t done that to me, I think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 16 | A theory: ostensibly straight men that don’t eat pussy are possibly homosexualsI don’t know if they’re gay but I do know they are selfish as fuck. I dated a guy for awhile then things surrounding his ex and child were just too complicated so we broke up, but I still hook up with him once in awhile. He gained quite a bit of weight since our breakup, but after a few drinks I can get into it because I just like his style. He LOVES going down there, it turns him on and he will do it happily for as long as it takes. He is probably 4” too but I’m ok with that b/c of his devotion… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:37 AM |
| 32 | Your thoughts on dating truckers? It’s a no for me, sis. I think that’s where this relationship ended.Men really don’t give a shit about us. One of my friends from college had a guy in her class that pursued her like crazy. He was short and not very cute (my friend was sexy and had no shortage of men interested), but eventually won her over with his “charm”. They got married. He went on a business trip alone, called her up and said “I’m sorry, but I met my soulmate and I want a divorce”. She was very blindsided, as things had been fine in her marriage. She got the last laugh though. Got a lot of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:08 AM |
| 10 | My biggest regret is having "boyfriends" in my 20s. Don't do it.I also don’t care if I’m in a relationship ever again. I’ve had plenty of them and looking back I just can’t see the positives of being with men. Companionship was really all. I only had really good sex with one of them. Sure I sometimes miss having a guy to do stuff with. But pretty much all of them hurt my self esteem and I really regret all the years I spent trying to change myself for them. But it also hurts too much to have regrets so I focus on how thankful I am that now I know better, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Make yourself firstIt seems cliche I know, but you can experience true love with yourself! I was thinking this morning, about my past and how I always fell for men who made me feel a certain way (that in hindsight wasn’t healthy). This guy was checking me out in the gas station and I suddenly realized that wow, I’ve literally been punishing myself by getting with men who are attracted to me as I am now. I’m far from being fully whole yet and so I keep attracting the same damn types of men and I’m over it all. So I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Lisa Bonet (51) and Jason Momoa (40) together for 14 years. He said he’s been in love with her since he was 8 years old.That’s so sweet. My teenage daughter just adores Danny DeVito, no joke. I was shocked when she told me so, as so unexpected but I’m proud of my girl. She knows a real funny man when she sees one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Another Man lying on the internet that he “accidentally” found out about his girlfriend being an FDS member. These revenge fantasies about dumping a girl after “discovering” her FDS usage are getting less creative.You can’t reason with men. Accountability is really not in their vocabulary. Maybe once or twice in the beginning of a relationship with them if you’re lucky and that’s it. Trust me. So, we are horrible for wanting to be treated with respect, we have the “worst” sub and should be banned, why? Because the truth hurts. Meanwhile they have all their disgusting subs and are incapable of understanding how truly warped they are, because men aren’t taught to think like that. All they do is react to tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 06:40 AM |
| 4 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢In my experience, Russian and Ukrainian women are very crafty and they know exactly what they’re doing. They aren’t going to settle down to a life of misery with some fuckwad. I’ve known men who ordered brides and some worked out ok and others ended disastrously. The only one I know that actually worked, the guy took on her two sons from another man. I’m sure all she was thinking about was her sons and not this guy she didn’t choose, but she made the sacrifice as a lot of single mothers do. I’ve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 06:19 AM |
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