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SCROTES MADLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:47 AM
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LEVEL UPLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:25 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:53 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:47 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFELemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:30 PM
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FDS HUMORLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:17 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTELemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:35 AM
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REMINDER 👑Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:20 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:01 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:30 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:08 PM
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REMINDER 👑Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:50 AM
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RANTLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:17 PM
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RANTLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:27 PM
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SCROTES MADLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:32 AM
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RANTLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:00 PM
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NAH, SISLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:45 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:11 PM
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REMINDER 👑Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:27 AM
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PICKME CULTURELemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:02 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:52 PM
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STRATEGYLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:24 PM
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FDS HUMORLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:23 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:22 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:06 PM
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REMINDER 👑Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:44 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:27 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:36 PM
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#JustLVMThingsLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:04 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:24 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:24 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:47 PM
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#JustLVMThingsLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:07 AM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:33 AM
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PICKME CULTURELemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:25 PM
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QUEEN SH*TLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:58 PM
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#JustLVMThingsLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:29 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:02 AM
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#JustLVMThingsLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:47 PM
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LIES MEN TELLLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:43 PM
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FDS HUMORLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:21 PM
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FDS HUMORLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:23 PM
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REMINDER 👑Lemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:37 PM
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RANTLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:00 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:59 PM
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DISCUSSIONLemon_bars_addiction/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:17 PM
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Yes came to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:42 AM
19

So proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:38 PM
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Whenever I see a creepy comment under some girl/woman's Instagram, I click the profile and 8 times out of 10 it's some pervy guy who has pictures of his wife and kids yet following a bunch of Instagram models and commenting on them. It's sickening. They're usually old too but not always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:05 PM
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I blame porn culture 😩 among other factors. Hope she cringes at this one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:21 PM
72

They really are incredibly selfish. Hope he's now blocked. So sorry about your mom ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:18 PM
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Yeah that's odd. It's definitely not deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:31 PM
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Not sure what you're talking about, none of my comments are deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:03 PM
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I'm not American either. The soulmates thing was just a way of speaking. I would personally just never lower my standards to using Tinder (or any OLD app) to find a guy because they 100% are only using the app as a free prostitute catalogue and FDS women are above that but that's just my personal opinion and you are of course free to do as you please. Enjoy the rest of your weekend x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:46 PM
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It's Tinder after all. You're not going to find your soul mate on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:12 PM
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Honestly cringed, he should be embarrassed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:04 PM
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Haha welcome 😁 Had to Google that cuz I'm in Europe but definitely something I would get hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:58 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:54 PM
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😁❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:01 PM
21

Oh there's one literally called male living space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:08 PM
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Yeah when I was on OLD there were a lot of guys openly stating on their profile 'just got out of a 6 year relationship so just looking for fun 😉' it used to make me feel sick. Really shows what they use it for, a la carte menu for rebound sex, indulge in their depraved fantasies, waste your time by pretending they want a relationship, list goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:49 PM
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FemaleDecoratingStrategy (jk would love to know too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:45 PM
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He's not clueless at all, just wants to be mommied so feigning cluelessness and then hoping to strike up a chat conversation with one of them with the aim of it leading to more. Why are men. Edit: Also I hate his place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:34 PM
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Good rule of thumb is to not entertain any guy who hasn't been single for at least 6 months to a year. Longer if they were in a LTR. Anyone rushing to date again after a relationship isn't looking for anything serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:34 PM
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They just want easy sex for absolute minimum effort and OLD is their catalogue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:32 AM
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Jesus, I'll never understand why they ask that question especially if they can't handle the truth. Literally all my exes (except the one HVM) asked that. And of course I lied for the sake of their ego (although new me would tell them point blank lol) Imagine if we asked things like 'were your ex's boobs/ass bigger than mine? Was she 'tighter'?' Or something equally stupid. We wouldn't ask because it doesn't matter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:26 PM
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Gluten-free carrot cake 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:15 PM
10

Now I'm curious what the fight was about 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:47 PM
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Just as I was getting the peaches song out of my head 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:31 PM
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Lost it at the women popping up out of nowhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:29 PM
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How would you feel if a man wouldn't date you because you're on reddit? I personally use it for FDS, investments, leveling up etc. If a guy was on reddit and only using it for good and avoiding the depraved subs then I genuinely don't see the issue there. I know the typical male redditor stereotype of incel neckbeard but pretty sure there's also normal guys using it as a social media platform for news, cat memes (or whatever innocent meme category), personal development etc I'd ask them what sub…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:23 PM
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OMG This has literally happened to me before on 2 occasions with 2 different ‘friends’. Except there was no boyfriend involved. One told me not to wear makeup on a night out as she wasn’t going to wear any, I was so confused and laughed it off and still wore makeup and she was distant the whole night. The other one told me she’s wearing a hoodie and jeans to a night out with coworkers and asked what I’d be wearing, I told her a dress and ankle boots and she made some negging comment about me alw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:16 PM
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To be fair we’re on Reddit as well. It depends what they’re using it for, if they were just lurking on news, Stock advice, Sports etc I feel that’s fine. Definitely not if they were frequenting red pill or porn subs etc 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:01 PM
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Yeah I was like pffff no FDSer would do that 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:56 PM
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She was willing to look past the fact that he looked nothing like his pictures? I feel like lack of self esteem paired with OLD is a recipe for disaster. Being on OLD in general is a recipe for disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:42 PM
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TIL I’m an optimist because I actually feel they start off as HVM (because cute and innocent babies/kids?) and then most get spoiled by their parents, discover porn, become corrupted misogynists etc and turn into LVM while a select few are raised with the right morals and ideologies, gain a strong sense of wrong and right and become HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:20 PM
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Can this trend die please. Let’s bring back being in relationships with fully grown adults and not kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:30 PM
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Serious question, are you not meant to open the dishwasher to add a glass or dish you forgot once the cycle has started? 👀 Cuz I always do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:15 PM
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Haha oh no I’m sure these things happened I just personally refuse to believe it for the sake of my mental health 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:31 PM
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Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:08 PM
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I refuse to believe this happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:56 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:36 PM
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Yep, take note lurkers 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:33 PM
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Yeah my point was that it’s women who are worried about their safety when out and about at night, not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:12 PM
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I wonder how many men ever need to use this service 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:49 PM
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Why does he sound proud of himself? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:48 PM
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Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:21 PM
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I’m so very sorry 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:14 PM
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Feeling’s very much mutual and I hope so too! 😁♥️ Sadly we’ve all been brainwashed at some point in our lives which is why it feels so damn empowering to be on the other side now and see depravity for what it really is rather than the guise of empowerment it previously held. Really proud of you and this community as a whole for taking a strong stance against porn. I wish I had never been exposed to it myself because like you at one point I also didn’t see the issue with it and was very much a li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:11 PM
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Yeah there’s really no hope 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:41 PM
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Porn has really rotted their brains to the point they don’t know how to act normal around women anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:01 PM
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Gentle reminder that dating apps are 99% LVM 1% HVM and you deserve better ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:57 PM
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Definitely still an LVM, read MsWriteNow07’s second comment on this post 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:38 PM
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So tired of their depravity!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:36 PM
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Genuinely wish 100% of FDS would boycott OLD, not only would it vastly improve their chances of meeting an HVM irl (if they so desire) but significantly reduces their lvm encounters as well. Leave OLD for the pickmes and lvm’s and level up ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:52 AM
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Yeah definitely satire. No one would flaunt a trash man like that (hopefully). And no one would post a pic of their nails in that state (hopefully) Besides the nails look purposefully glued on badly for extra humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:34 AM
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Are they just telling on themselves now? So, wife: servant. Girlfriend: Do sweet romantic things in exchange for sex This idiot described all the things men should already be doing for their wives yet calls it girlfriend actions. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:30 AM
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Haha exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:50 AM
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Can’t say no to you ♥️ I read it and it was truly heartbreaking. But you’re right, very thorough statistics. I really hope it shocks people into action. And I feel so sad and angry for us as women/girls both current and future that porn is forever changing the way we experience or have experienced intimacy. Further reinforces the need and importance of FDS so we know to leave at the very first sign of pornsickness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:18 AM
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I love this ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:01 AM
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I can’t believe a woman suffered for 9 months and gave birth to that waste of space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:46 PM
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Yeah I haven’t clicked a dailymail link in over 7 years cuz that site is literal toxic waste. But I can guess the depraved content of the article 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:43 PM
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Love this!! Giant billboards next 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:10 PM
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For iOS app: Under your profile when you click followers you’ll see your list of followers, simply click on a profile and then from their profile page you’ll see three dots on the very top right side, click the dots and click block user. They’ll automatically be removed from your list as well. In some cases you’ll immediately see the block icon on the top right if you click on any profile via a post, if you want to preemptively block any scrotes raging about FDS on other subs. Not sure about web…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:52 PM
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For iOS app: Under your profile when you click followers you’ll see your list of followers, simply click on a profile and then from their profile page you’ll see three dots on the very top right side, click the dots and click block user. They’ll automatically be removed from your list as well. In some cases you’ll immediately see the block icon on the top right if you click on any profile via a post, if you want to preemptively block any scrotes raging about FDS on other subs. Not sure about web…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:52 PM
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For iOS app: Under your profile when you click followers you’ll see your list of followers, simply click on a profile and then from their profile page you’ll see three dots on the very top right side, click the dots and click block user. They’ll automatically be removed from your list as well. In some cases you’ll immediately see the block icon on the top right if you click on any profile via a post, if you want to preemptively block any scrotes raging about FDS on other subs. Not sure about web…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:35 PM
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🤣 My inspiration
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:34 PM
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Reposting a comment from /u/platipus6 from another thread: ‘It got quarantined after a man went on a shooting spree and his internet usage history was "hours of mgtow". The FBi and no doubt hundreds of sociologists were scouring it for valuable information on radicalization, white male supremacy and indoctrination techniques. Something must have happened for them to actually ban it. Like, plotting treason or domestic terrorism. We know they don't give a shit if they were plotting femicide’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:09 PM
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I love tall men and I cannot lie 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:00 PM
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Oh I’m on the app on iOS and have no issues viewing and blocking followers. Sorry I can’t help regarding browser or Android :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:15 PM
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🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:19 PM
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Indeed 😁🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:18 PM
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He sounds sad and pathetic. They really have no lives or hobbies besides online bullying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:00 PM
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Under your profile when you click followers you’ll see your list of followers, simply click on a profile and then from their profile page you’ll see three dots on the very top right side, click the dots and click block user. They’ll automatically be removed from your list as well. In some cases you’ll immediately see the block icon on the top right if you click on any profile via a post, if you want to preemptively block any scrotes raging about FDS on other subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:50 PM
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A certain group of men who were supposed to go their own way got banned for not going their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:17 AM
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They hate us yet need our attention/validation sooo badly 🤣 pathetic indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:10 AM
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Love it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:01 AM
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Yeah my first reaction was that’s cool but still never supporting Bumble or any dating app ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:00 AM
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Haha just commented the same before seeing your comment. It's truly ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:20 AM
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Oh wow! Thanks for the info. And yeah they all seemed unhinged. Can't believe people think we are the female equivalent. Can you imagine any of us going on a shooting spree cuz 'we can't get d*ck and it's men's fault' for example? 🙄💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:19 AM
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Thanks for the warning, won't venture there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:15 AM
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Suffering?? There are people dying in the world FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:14 AM
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He'll notice you scanning the room looking for him and take narcissistic pleasure in knowing he still has a hold on you somehow. So take a few seconds before entering to remind yourself that this person is now a complete stranger to you. You don't know him, he doesn't exist, his presence or absence holds zero meaning and can't affect your mood. Carry on with your day and interact with others there or focus on what you have planned for the rest of the day/week and get lost in those thoughts. Guys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:04 AM
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He can 'fill' what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:40 AM
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OK I have a PhD in this. It's simple really, let's say it's a coworker for example. First of all remember you go to work to work, not to socialize and make friends. On that basis you don't owe anyone your time and attention outside of work-related tasks. Walking down the hallway and see them coming? Pretend to be on your phone or look straight ahead and keep walking (you're under no obligation to greet them or reply to their greeting. Not like they can file an HR report because you didn't acknow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:39 AM
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Good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:35 AM
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Not basic at all! Happy to help https://sokoglam.com is a great starting point (check out their blog too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:50 PM
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I’m bi (but struggling to do something about it) just wanted to say I’m super proud of you for coming out and living your truth. Your STBX is a grown adult man and will be absolutely fine. Screw him this is about you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:06 PM
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Cough cough Caitlyn Jenner (although different sexuality but still)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:03 PM
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Opens post, Look of disgust, closes post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:27 PM
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Korean skincare is SUCH a game changer 😩 can’t believe I ever used anything else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:12 PM
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Yes! Been spoiling myself as well as close friends and some close family members. So much more fulfilling than the energy and resources I wasted on L/NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:10 PM
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Done! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:44 PM
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Couldn’t find anything interesting to watch on Netflix so turned to FDS and this was hands down 100% more entertaining than anything I could’ve found 🤣 Did not see that twist coming 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:21 PM
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Raises hand I’ll be your friend 😁 I’ll be damned if I ever make a man the center of my world again. All for HVW friendships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:38 PM
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I wish I could unread this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:40 PM
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As someone who regularly soaks the brush in neat bleach and also just buys a new one every 6 months anyway, I am highly disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:39 PM
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Yea except porn really does need to be banned. In addition to better sex-ED etc. It’s literally cancerous to society. FDS is vehemently antiporn FYI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:36 PM
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You’re going to be quite disappointed 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:34 PM
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Only been to the sub once and never again. So toxic, would hate to be associated with them by virtue of being childfree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:37 PM
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More like they’re projecting. Or to them ‘low vibration’ means you won’t let them walk all over you because you have standards and stand up for yourself and not afraid of confrontation and that scares them away 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:34 PM
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Heartbroken over not having easy access to porn??? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:11 PM
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Yea came here to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:44 PM
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Ewwwwww hope she learns to love herself one day because wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:43 PM
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Why are they so quick to disclose that they’re broke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:37 PM
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Love your username btw! She’s goals ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:07 PM
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You’re really talented!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:06 PM
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This was ridiculously satisfying 😩 love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:07 AM
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Imagine him pulling this out at the grocery store? Way too embarrassing. So hopefully this is just satire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:03 AM
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Nor do they deserve to run entire countries and corporations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:02 AM
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Cheers !! 🥂 Like anything else blocking gets easier with practice 😁 and there’s an abundance of lvm to practice on 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:00 AM
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Since when is ‘he seems like he really wants this’ a good reason to date a guy 😩 Bar location: 7th circle of hell 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:03 AM
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Thank you! I had so many messages (including some mocking ones from men) asking how come he’s an ex then if he was so high value. Agree with you that being HV is bare minimum and it’s indeed desperate to cling onto the first HV guy you come across. We had the maturity to know it was the wrong time and that my mental health issues at the time were not conducive to a healthy relationship and enough respect for each other to know it was best to walk away and move on. I would never have wanted him t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:32 PM
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Fair enough dating apps are complete and utter trash but can’t help but feel like one would have to be pretty desperate to pay for a matchmaker (or not have much else going for them besides money)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:55 PM
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I’m confused as to why anyone would use a matchmaker in this century or am I missing something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:10 PM
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You should make your own post about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:02 PM
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Thank you, couldn’t have said it better ♥️ I love that we have a women-only space but there’s so much tone policing, conclusion jumping and dedication to misunderstanding that I rarely feel like making posts anymore because there’s always a few who miss the point/intention and reply with hostility. I’m indeed going to stop adding edits to explain myself because as you said it does feel like being back in that space of having to over explain/defend my opinion and feeling gaslit by having my words…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:55 PM
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Thank you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:40 PM
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🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:39 PM
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You should tell her that. I’m not the one calling people pathetic and going on unrelated rants. Defending myself doesn’t make me a ‘mean girl’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:33 PM
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I replied to user GiraffeLibrarian regarding what happened 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:08 PM
21

As previously mentioned in another reply, I worded the title wrong, it should’ve said impeccable hygiene rather than just ‘good hygiene’ as I didn’t even list everything he does and trust me he went above and beyond when it came to hygiene and I found that incredibly sexy as someone with contamination OCD. It’s obviously a bare minimum to be clean, I just found him being extra clean to be the sexiest thing about him. But thanks for your dissertation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:50 PM
13

Thank you! Same to you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:31 PM
4

Thanks for sharing! It’s a shame it didn’t work out but really lovely that you remained friends nonetheless ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:10 PM
29

Haha 😁 he was truly something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:41 PM
47

That’s just the minimum I require of house guests. In my day to day life I wash my hands so many times a day that they sometimes start peeling a bit, I practically get a panic attack if I leave the house without hand sanitizer, I have a very specific cleaning routine, I avoid touching door handles, can’t have my bare skin touching anything outside (especially public transport seats) have to take the trash out daily, do laundry daily, have to sanitize my groceries etc and that’s just the tip of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:39 PM
80

Haha I felt this in my soul 😩 100% something I would do. Currently delaying some electrical work that needs to get done in the bathroom because the workers would show up with their boots and walk all over the apartment and I’d have to mop and disinfect every inch afterwards 😩 And regarding my ex, regrettably I was going through deep depression at the time (due to issues from my past) and pushed him away and in general behaved in a pretty immature way which resulted in me picking a lot of immatur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:32 PM
34

Yes I’m well aware of that and it is indeed sad. I feel like we’ve shifted into an era where the bare minimum has become the bare maximum with no signs of going back. I also feel like I undersold just how hygienic he was by not listing every single thing he did thus why I wish I had written impeccable hygiene rather than just ‘good’ hygiene. But yeah, wish more men were naturally like that! Out of 5 long term exes he stood out the most in terms of hygiene. The sex stuff was definitely bare minim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:54 PM
23

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:04 PM
54

Haha who cares if it’s manual or automatic as long as you finish! Glad he’s an ex 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:57 PM
92

The insecurity is real. Like I can understand if you pushed him aside and pulled out a giant dildo to finish yourself off. But there’s absolutely nothing wrong with a clitoral vibrator to help you finish. Any man who cares about your pleasure would just want you to feel good no matter what it took without getting ego involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:42 PM
42

Minimum of course, goes without saying (although sadly rare seemingly) but also sexiest in my opinion. Edit: His hygiene was impeccable not just good so should’ve clarified that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:37 PM
14

May I ask what happened? No need to reply if you don’t feel comfortable talking about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:41 PM
17

Yea RIP my libido lately. I don’t even use my vibrator that much anymore because even my imagination is boycotting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:40 PM
299

Like when they were giving Naomi Osaka shit for bowing out of press talks. I don’t understand people who lack basic empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:39 PM
12

The disrespect makes me livid !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:15 AM
11

In her defense people aren’t used to women being bold and assertive and blunt so when they do the immediate knee-jerk reaction is ‘wow what a b*tch, who does she think she is?’ And this backlash comes from both men and women. I experience this first hand ever since deciding to be more assertive and take up more space in the world by speaking up and demanding more for myself. It’s exhausting that men don’t have to deal with tone policing to the extent women do. Been meaning to do a post about thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:10 AM
3

😁♥️!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:53 AM
12

How many HVM did you come across out of curiosity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:11 AM
14

Omg YES my people 😁 Nevermind the fact that going on dates itself is so draining with the constant reading their body language/facial expressions/tone of voice etc in addition to just gearing yourself up to be social and getting to know someone on a deeper level. So for the very few men who do make it to that stage it’s always disappointing when their mask eventually slips (although block and delete feels sooo good haha) but then you have to start the dating process all over again 😩 Indeed exhau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:02 AM
56

I need to know how/where you have the energy for 100+ dates 😩 my INFJ self could never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:33 AM
23

PTSD triggered 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:58 PM
163

Thank God the comments are sane. But yea there’s a reason men die earlier than women. It’s called taking stupid risks for adrenaline highs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:30 PM
1

😁 Enjoy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:55 PM
23

Haha right, even though it was a made up example, questions on there aren’t too far removed ! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:56 PM
10

I’m sorry but there’s nothing sexy about short men from a biological POV. It’s natural to feel attracted to a man who’s taller than you, unlocks the biological urge to feel safe and protected from predators etc. Sorry short men, it’s just science 🧪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:46 PM
229

That’s why I don’t frequent relationship advice subs anymore. ‘I walked in on my boyfriend cuddling naked with his ex last night, not sure how to feel about this but don’t want to turn it into a big deal since he said they’re just friends. Am I right to still feel upset though or should I just let it go?’ 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:43 PM
25

Sorry I meant pillow protectors * you zip the pillow inside the protector then put the pillow case on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:21 PM
20

Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:21 PM
31

Reminder: Pillowcases are a thing. Also mattress covers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:54 PM
44

I almost choked on my wine. Good lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:56 PM
11

It’s not your fault that he’s basically harassing you via burner numbers after you blocked his number. And it’s human nature to still be curious about what he has to say despite being block listed. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Is changing your number and email address a possibility? Along with making sure any mutual friends don’t pass on your new details? In the meantime whenever you’re tempted to read his emails in spam, take a few seconds to remind yourself that he’s not going to say anythi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:23 AM
9

You deserve to be treated more than half way decently. You also deserve someone who doesn’t get mad at you just for asking for the bare minimum. I’m unfortunately very familiar with on again off again cycles due to a now ex of mine, and it’s going to be incredibly hard to keep him blocked but whenever you’re tempted please remind yourself of how shitty he is and how you deserve so much better than someone who half asses everything. You’re going to find someone who you don’t have to nag into trea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:13 AM
25

What in the audacity? 🤢 Can’t imagine how shocked you were to realize who you had been talking to all along. They’ll really drag you down to their level if you let them and not just that but resent you for it too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:00 AM
12

What a creep!!! So glad he’s blocked now but please stay alert. Guys like that who can’t take no for an answer tend to be quite unhinged. Let your mutual friend know about the incident and be wary of him potentially catfishing from a different account. Also hope you live in different cities (although you matched on the app which makes me think he’s nearby but hopefully not) Please stay safe ♥️ And yes to always trusting your intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:46 AM
23

Ouffff even just reading that made my blocking finger twitch 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:03 PM
26

Love it!!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 07:43 PM
27

OK this literally made my whole year and the year isn't even over yet 🤣 love it!! Thanks for the laugh ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:32 PM
69

Yea same. It would be stooping down to his level. Imagine if it was the other way around and he showed up at your door and demanded his gifts back. You'd make a post about it and we'd all laugh at how pathetic he is for asking for his gifts back and rightfully so. It's like those guys who venmo you for your half of the dinner date after you decide not to see them anymore. Just learn the lesson and don't buy gifts worth more than a few bucks for any man until he's thoroughly proven himself (and u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:19 PM
121

Just felt second-hand ick reading that 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:51 PM
54

I never have and never will put myself through birth control so a guy can cum inside me. FUCK THAT. All my exes either wore a condom or gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:42 PM
555

These age gaps always make me do a triple take. How do these men not feel disgusting about dating women barely into adulthood ? Imagine having such a transactional relationship that he literally breaks down expenses to this degree and she has to pay for the pain that comes with growing his own child. So glad she left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:19 PM
29

Yet this is the mildest instance of their disgusting behavior I've come across so far 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:05 AM
13

Now that's what I'm talking about!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 So proud of you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:38 PM
21

Pathetic creatures! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:00 PM
137

Ughh reminds me of a date an NVM ex took me to, an escape room. I kept solving all the 'puzzles' and he got mad at me and even accused me of cheating when I had literally never been there before? As if I'm going to dumb myself down for his ego 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:03 PM
54

Yes and some still remain today ! Especially in Asia and Africa. Google matriarchal societies and enjoy the deep dive ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:46 PM
32

Good lord I'm so glad you bailed!! He sounds like a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:06 PM
21

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:35 PM
69

So sorry that happened to you (and sorry for the trigger) I genuinely hope you're in a better place now. And hope he's rotting away somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:08 PM
146

I truly hope she's living her best life now and has found a loving and supportive SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:56 PM
644

Long story short I got banned from that subreddit for asking OP wtf is wrong with him for not seeing that his then-girlfriend was clearly raped. Never mind how pathetic it is that he made it about him and couldn't get over it decades later. So tired of reddit sometimes and the fact that this is not only normalized but he's apparently the 'victim' here. Stay far away from men who don't know the definition of rape or even worse blame or question women's experiences of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:13 PM
4

Not being mean but do you really want to be chasing men? I cringe at the thought of asking a man to introduce me to one of his friends but to each their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:36 PM
33

The lvm circle of life 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:09 PM
9

This made my day 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:40 PM
32

Regarding the typos my first thought was that English is probably not her first language. I try not to assume by default that everyone is an English speaking US-based user especially since I myself am based in Europe for example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:04 AM
62

Mind blown 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:54 PM
29

True FDS energy in those words 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:00 PM
205

Ok I didn’t schedule crying into my evening routine tonight. Rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:58 PM
70

Ok I laughed too hard at this and triggered my asthma so thanks for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:35 PM
16

You made my day 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:33 PM
17

Leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:15 PM
23

Correct! Except point two should be nerdy men for emphasis hehe. I’m a nerdy software engineer 🤓 (although I don’t look the part and thus have male colleagues sexualizing me rather than taking me seriously but that’s another story) and also I have a few close friends at least! 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:15 PM
6

Prob hoping she goes ‘cool girl mode’ and says no so it’s one less step for him to get inside her. Pickme vers of me used to tell my exes I hated foreplay when really they were just so bad at it that I wanted to rush that part and get it over with. The first time I had sex with a HVM is when I truly understood the importance of foreplay. I finished before we even started 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:32 PM
7

This is the only appropriate response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:28 PM
47

Now that’s what I’m talking about 😁😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:07 AM
79

Not enough emojis tbh but yea he sounds pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:03 AM
17

Can someone provide a summary, can’t watch this guy talk for that long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:00 AM
40

Haha exactly. 5 or 500k makes more sense. Or 5 or 5M.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:23 AM
189

Don’t 👏date 👏down 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:04 AM
44

✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:02 AM
42

Aww sending you hugs ♥️ We’ve all had experiences we deeply regret but that was a different you. RIP to that version of you. New you is a 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:59 AM
88

Hell I wouldn’t stay if he only had $500
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:40 AM
3

I love this ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:15 PM
12

She’s way above his league and he knows it, that’s prob why 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:13 PM
45

You mean soon to be ex-husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:14 PM
4

If my therapist ever told me this b.s it would be the last time they see my face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:29 PM
2

I LOVE that metaphor!!!! So very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:40 PM
1

Ok but I actually love that name!!! I’m pretty sure it would be a hit too. Many people probably feel this way even if secretly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:37 AM
2

Good riddance!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:36 AM
1

Happy you’re here! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:36 AM
3

So proud of you! You’ll 100% find a company that values you and pays you what you’re worth and more. He sounds terrible, sorry you had to go through that ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:23 PM
3

Hangovers feel so awful that I constantly wonder why people quickly forget the feeling and do it all over again the next day or next weekend. I’m down to only drinking on special occasions but even then I don’t have much be caused anything above a slight buzz stops feeling fun for me, nevermind a hangover the next day. A coworker of mine constantly gets blackout drunk and was surprised that I’ve never experienced that feeling. Why would I want to 😩?? But yea a friendship app for people who want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:30 PM
5

Yea the functional alcoholism in my old friend group was off the charts. Definitely had to distance myself from people who couldn’t have fun and just be in the moment without being intoxicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:12 PM
35

An ex of mine was the exception to the rule it seems. Tbf he was half Greek half British and was living between Athens and London. His mom did coddle him (and she was lovely and coddled me too haha) but he truly was the sweetest boyfriend I ever had. I’m sure he was a puppy or something in his previous life. So sweet and thoughtful and always treated me with respect and adoration. I was living in a different country at the time though and we could only fly out to meet each other every 2-3 months…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:58 PM
55

This comment really made something click in my brain. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:51 PM
6

Which aspects specifically are you struggling with? You have to ask yourself if you would rather be in unfulfilling friendships or temporarily lonely but working on yourself to attract the people meant to be in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:05 PM
13

Haha I’m glad ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:47 PM
10

Cheers to you and your new role!! 🥂 He sounds like he lives and breathes audacity ughh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:03 PM
82

It’s like depravity is in their DNA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:39 PM
100

I’m offended on your behalf that he even liked your profile. I know you’re way out of his league without even seeing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:09 PM
42

Why does he look like he’s in his 50s 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:06 PM
267

Ma’am that is a potato not a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:05 PM
30

Tbh I was never a people pleaser when it came to work (unfortunately I was in relationships/friendships and thankfully not anymore. One of the reasons I lost so many friends last year is because I decided I was done being a free therapist to them) Work wise I did sometimes feel I couldn’t say no to tasks or wouldn’t speak up if I felt taken advantage of or if something was bothering me. But was otherwise quite private and reserved and only came to work to focus on work and leave, didn’t make it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:03 PM
12

Sounds incredibly draining. You made the right choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:40 PM
34

Haha I love you guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:33 PM
20

You’ll find your people eventually! It’s worth the wait ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:10 PM
23

Yea negging in general is so annoying, that’s a great comeback!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:09 PM
17

Yea it really is eye-opening isn’t it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:00 PM
14

Love this!!! Very proud of you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:59 AM
61

Petition to have a queen bee as our official mascot 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:21 AM
16

Haha first sentence was exactly what I was going to write. Definitely proud prude😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:20 AM
642

Did he expect her to break down into tears and beg to be chosen? 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:13 AM
10

You cracked the code, this is painfully accurate about my exes 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:54 AM
124

This roast was 👩‍🍳💋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:48 AM
2

😱😱 You are missing out! It’s the most divine treat ever. Soft chewy base and firm but custardy sweet and tart top. Dusted off with powdered sugar 🥰 Best served chill on a hot summer day (but tasty year round!) There’s so many recipes online, try one this week and let me know what you think! You can also freeze them and thaw them as needed ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:59 PM
29

Cackled at dusty sperm 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:05 PM
76

Plus she only has 2 years left until she peaks ! He’s clearly doing her a favor 😤 s/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:04 PM
12

I second this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:13 PM
40

Yeah either he lied about not knowing her or clearly completely wrong for her for the reasons you stated. Makes me so sad that successful women trade down and yet successful men always aim above their league 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:01 PM
18

It’s like I never learn my lesson when it comes to clicking these links 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:23 PM
28

Excuse me while I throw up my dinner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:20 PM
49

Thankfully he’s only in a few clips and not a majority of the documentary! But even those clips lowered the quality of the documentary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:59 PM
11

Bake some! Super quick and easy ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:54 PM
4

Excuse me but WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:38 PM
16

Haha 🍋🍋🍋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:36 PM
10

Love it! Thanks for sharing ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:47 PM
57

Never thought about this but so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:46 PM
14

This was heartbreaking to read. What a pathetic excuse for a human being!! You deserve a million times better and I hope you see that you dodged a giant bullet and can look back and be grateful he showed his true colors before you moved in together and got married etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:45 AM
23

Triggereddddd. An nvm ex of mine was pressuring me to quit my job (at a pretty big deal organization that I literally beat thousands and thousands of applications to get) to move to his city and old-pickme me was actually considering it 🤡 Luckily his mask slipped a few months later when I discovered he had cheated on his previous fiancée (his excuse for not confessing was that I’d never have given him a chance 🥴) He also had a huge problem with cheating in general since he was literally messagin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:41 AM
236

I have to admit I delete the reddit app at least once a week after reading some highly disturbing shit. Brb deleting for the week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:08 PM
14

That show was problematic on so many levels 😩 2 most LV people I know 'absolutely loved it' and raved to me about it so I watched it and just thought it was a mess from start to finish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:48 PM
73

This made me stare into space for a solid minute as I tried to process what my eyes just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:02 PM
26

Are you new to reddit? This is definitely a believable study based on some of the atrocities I read about male hygiene on here 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:00 PM
33

No I refuse to imagine this 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:35 PM
44

Ummm WHAT. I change mine 4x a month and even that doesn't feel like enough. I remain grossed out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:25 PM
51

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:46 PM
79

Too cute. Love their hair as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:03 PM
6

The audacity! Who has that kind of time 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:08 AM
2

Missed the 2 years ago part but irrelevant regardless. Block away! Denial is one hell of a drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:19 PM
263

Deceased 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:44 PM
15

Proud of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:02 PM
2

You deserve better than going dumpster diving on the apps is all I'm saying. Nothing but porn addicted Lvm's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:01 PM
78

6+ feet, 6+ figures and 6+ inches please. Thanks 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:02 PM
70

Were these men or rabid dogs, wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:54 PM
59

He only wants sex and he's not worth seeing again but you knew that already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:52 PM
59

Oh wow, new bar level unlocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:49 PM
1

Lol right ? OLD is trash and full of trash so I no longer see the point of these posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:47 PM
4

Why go on OLD and be shocked to see trash like this? It's like going to a landfill and being shocked to see trash and taking pics of it to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:57 AM
5

Have you checked out wgtow? Edit: Not sure why I'm being downvoted, everything you described is exactly what that sub is about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:38 AM
342

He gave up on finding the one and decided to settle 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:35 AM
87

Yea the 'my friend began drinking immediately' part had me facepalming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:05 AM
423

Exactly, because they silently resent women for rejecting them, unlike the 'jocks' who still get women despite their attitudes towards them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:15 AM
195

Whatever you do, do NOT give him a second chance. He already showed you who he was. He doesn't miss you nor is he sorry for his actions nor does he even feel proud of you for reporting the rape. He just misses his 'supply'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:35 PM
137

Keep headphones on and ignore anyone who talks to you. If they get in your field of vision, wave them away. And if that trainer ever touches you again then remove your headphones, look him right in the eye and firmly say 'Don't ever touch me again' before putting your headphones back on. No please and thank you needed, no elaboration needed. You don't owe them your time, your attention, an explanation, NOTHING. It's a public place and you have every right to go there, focus on your workout in pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:33 PM
23

Accidentally call him another name every time you see him and blame forgetfulness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:03 PM
33

Your comments always make my day 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:26 AM
43

For the love of God why won't anyone think about his peepee? 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:12 PM
45

Thanks! Just finished my workout, showered and sat in my robe wondering what to watch this evening so this sounds perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:38 PM
59

I vote for her to be the official pickme mascot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:15 PM
52

Thanks for the laugh 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:51 PM
1

I would've loved to hear your explanation! I find vaccines/immunology fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:48 PM
7

What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:11 PM
6

Haha sorry 🤣 I'd happily bake some for you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:26 AM
11

I'm so sorry that happened to you 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:06 AM
39

Hehe it was satire ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:02 AM
3

🥰😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:42 AM
45

Depends, Nordic men are tall and pretty feminist in my experience. But yea the rest of European men are indeed quite small and angry. Coming from someone who lives in Europe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:00 AM
103

bUt FdS iS wOrSe 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:03 AM
5

😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:25 PM
20

You'll love this https://youtu.be/IOYHBwQYnrE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:23 PM
60

Oh never knew this, how interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:13 PM
1

Sorry for the trigger 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:58 PM
17

How to get pushed off a cliff 101 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:41 PM
18

That's great! And yes mine led me to FDS as well 😁 the only good thing that came out of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:39 PM
26

Been there, hope you're doing better lately ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:16 AM
25

Thisssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:16 AM
15

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:16 AM
8

Love this! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:10 AM
3

Cafe food yes but very tasty café food 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:34 PM
5

You have excellent taste in food 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:21 PM
10

Fair enough, just keep in mind it's nothing like in movies (sorry to be a party pooper) but true that it's good to experience it once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:17 PM
14

As someone living in Europe, Paris is very overrated (and dirty) ! Go to Lyon or Nice or Marseille instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:08 PM
27

Words fail me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:08 AM
17

This made me smile 🥰 very proud and happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:06 AM
2

Definitely. I live in a country in Europe where 12 wouldn't even be enough of a tip for the service 😩 sometimes forget about normal pricing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 01:31 AM
2

You should've filed a complaint!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:56 PM
10

You lost the 'wrong people' which is a gain, not a loss. You will find your people and it'll be very much worth the wait, I promise ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:13 PM
21

How rude and entitled of her! Don't worry I would've reacted exactly the same way except I wouldn't even have given her a reason, just turned around and walked away. It angers me that women are just naturally seen as people pleasers and helpers, thus her shock that you said no and her audacity to reach out for your phone. Screw that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:12 PM
18

Super proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:09 PM
14

Pure bliss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:07 PM
10

Welcome 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:07 PM
47

Honestly beaming that you have this mentality at only 20. You're going to save yourself a lot of heartache and stress down the road ❤️ Super proud of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:17 PM
127

Reminds me of that quote "The only people who get upset about you setting boundaries are the ones who were benefiting from you having none." Let them be mad, it's YOUR life and no has always been and will always be a complete sentence. Very proud of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:12 PM
7

I'm so sorry love. Wish I could go no contact with my parents (dealt with similar issues) but they're professional guilt-trippers so I'm really proud of you for managing to do so and put your peace of mind and mental health above everything else. She truly doesn't deserve your love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:46 PM
177

My voluntarily single and happy self laying on the couch sipping hot chocolate while reading through this Hmm can't relate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:41 PM
9

Reminder that especially if you met on dating apps they literally dgaf about you as a person, just as a potential lay so this shouldn't be surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:50 PM
34

I hope she's no longer in your life, how horrible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:39 AM
285

How sad she's asking what's wrong with her rather than HIM and his porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:05 AM
40

I bet he always apologized by saying 'I'm sorry you feel that way' Congrats on dropping the dead weight 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:03 AM
189

12 for eyebrows is bargain of the century
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:06 AM
21

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:03 PM
22

Weeks??!?! Disgusting !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:30 PM
72

Holds out satin pillow for you to place your earrings Go get them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:28 PM
19

I think the word dry is missing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:35 PM
4

Sounds lovely! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:01 AM
58

She's truly inspiring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:59 AM
72

Hell she can be my FaF pick. I think it's a good reminder that women need to focus on their own dreams and achievements, I know it's technically a dating sub but some women forget that working on themselves is part of the equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:59 AM
153

Literally never been on birth control in my life. Why put myself through that just for a man's pleasure? No thanks. All my exes wore condoms and the only ones that complained about it were the nvm's. The decent ones and even one of the Lvm's were completely against me putting my body through the grueling effects of birth control and supported my decision not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:56 AM
38

This is men we're talking about though. They're always shooting for women way out of their league. If he was genuinely attracted to OP there's no way he would've made up an excuse to bail. Back in my pickme days when I was still online dating I used to match with guys who looked cute in pictures but I was absolutely not attracted to them in real life. I felt bad wasting their time though so would just have a quick chat with them then say I was having horrible period cramps and had to go home. Wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:50 PM
6

Yeah how insulting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:05 PM
143

Exactly, because to them being involuntarily single is a nightmare and they feel the need to project and praise the virtues of settling. Whereas voluntarily single women are the happiest demographic and would never jeopardize that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:13 AM
185

Wouldn’t want a guy doing something like this just to get thanked with sex though 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:09 AM
53

Haha my neatfreak self was more focused on the logistics of cleaning up all those petals than anything else. Glad I’m not the only one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:07 AM
73

Beyond insulting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:58 AM
722

That’s a long essay just to say he doesn’t love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:24 PM
3

Glad you liked them! And of course I have vegan lemon bar recipes too 😁 https://ohmyveggies.com/vegan-lemon-bars/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:50 PM
324

That was pretty heartbreaking to read. I’d feel so guilty wasting someone’s time like that if I wasn’t genuinely into them. Have felt terrible ending relationships very early on but knew it was way better than waiting around to catch feelings. When you know you know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:24 PM
6

I’ll be trying the top one on this page soon! https://www.morganlynzi.com/recipes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:43 PM
2

Enjoy! Sounds like the perfect cozy night in ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:50 AM
4

How lovely 🥰 enjoy and hope next week goes smoother for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:37 AM
38

I’m obsessed with her books ♥️ and can’t wait for her next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:34 AM
22

She sounds really smart and hope she sticks to her guns and doesn’t fall for that arrangement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:56 AM
3

♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:33 AM
2

This was very touching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:31 AM
10

Agreed that it’s very bizarre. I acknowledge that certain parts come off a little bit privileged but it was completely unintentional and I rectified one part in particular that was pointed out to me. I usually know better but got caught up in writing the post. So perhaps that’s one reason. And one user seemed to just be looking for conflict. May have accidentally overwhelmed the rest or made them feel like if they didn’t have everything on the list then they weren’t HVW when in reality it’s work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:31 AM
9

Very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:22 AM
8

Very well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:21 AM
4

🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:21 AM
2

Exciting!! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:16 AM
10

To say I’m proud of you would be an understatement but for lack of better terms I am so freakin proud of you for paving your own path in life despite what’s expected of you! Wishing you lots of success with your degree and glad that things have turned around for you. You are much stronger than you give yourself credit for, I promise. A beautiful life awaits you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:15 AM
11

Aww you are so sweet ! This genuinely made me tear up. Thank you ♥️ And I do avoid sugarcoating things because directly challenging our beliefs is an uncomfortable but necessary part of leveling up. I’m aware my views aren’t always the most popular but really makes my day when it resonates with other women on here. And yes important to step away from victim mentality and make solid strides in bettering ourselves now that we know better. My inspiration for this post was the fact that we all most …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:10 AM
8

Welcome ♥️ and glad it resonates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:59 AM
10

Ah ok gotcha ♥️ and thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:59 AM
23

I’m working on it daily as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:18 AM
5

I’m confused because my post is indeed about improving oneself and leveling up… unless I misunderstood your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:17 AM
11

♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:15 AM
10

So glad! And yes please schedule those appointments ASAP and I hope everything comes back all clear ♥️ And agreed regarding higher education, it’s good to aim for it if you can because education is incredibly valuable but certainly not a necessity at all. I later mentioned entrepreneurship as a valid career choice and good to remember that many entrepreneurs who went on to make it big skipped higher education all together ! Love your personal markers, especially integrity, family and spiritual h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:15 AM
30

Thank you! This is the first time I’m receiving hate messages from some fellow FDSers (just had to disable my dm’s after one sent me a long rant (tbh I didn’t read it all just skimmed a few sentences) about how this is why she hates FDS or something and is tired of trying to be a HVW. In retrospect I should perhaps have reported her to mods because why comment on FDS if she hates it? Another 2 sent messages mocking the post and another was picking an argument in the comments. I’m genuinely confu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:44 AM
64

This is the biggest example of that I’ve ever seen and it’s super sweet 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:30 AM
11

? The very first line says disclaimer this is my personal perspective. That was part of the original post, not added later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:29 AM
12

Thank you. And that’s a very valid critique which I feel really bad for not considering actually, so I will edit the post with mention of this comment if that’s ok with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:20 AM
8

Great news!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:10 AM
24

Not surprised at all :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:01 AM
8

That sounds lovely. Wishing them a happy married life! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:53 AM
14

I’m glad you found this helpful! And it’s definitely not a process that happens overnight, just like everything in life it’s something you work on daily. And everyone’s list will look different so I tried to touch on core issues and I’m loving additions offered by others, also getting insight into the ways others are leveling up. I definitely wasn’t HV a year ago when I first came across FDS but have worked hard to become one and still work hard at it daily. Would personally love to see everyone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:46 AM
9

How was it? ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:23 AM
15

I don’t even know who you are and it’s creepy if you’re following my posts and comments that closely. I speak my mind and stand up for myself and don’t appreciate being tone-policed. If that makes me ‘quick to fight’ then so be it. Plus the irony of you saying that after basically mocking a self improvement post isn’t lost on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:40 PM
17

Typical response to being called out. Tired of the pointless back and forth anyway and once again sorry this triggered you and hope that inspires you to work on whatever emotions this brought up! Perhaps an opportunity to work on self esteem. P.S I do ironically speak 3 languages, one of which is only spoken in 2 countries and zinc has done wonders for my anxiety! So jokes on you I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:34 PM
15

Very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:30 PM
12

Such an important point! Thank you. Altruism is definitely a HVW trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:29 PM
11

There are women, myself included who ‘collect degrees’ how is mocking the pursuit of education helpful in any way? No one wakes up and becomes everything on the list (or everything on their own personal list) it goes without saying this is all work in progress, didn’t think I had to state that obvious part especially considering in the disclaimer I mentioned it’s for inspiration. Sorry you felt personally triggered by the list despite the disclaimer. I don’t even think ticking everything on the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:27 PM
36

https://food52.com/recipes/38412-coconut-cashew-oatmeal-cookies-gf-vegan ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:19 PM
8

I’m a bookworm so I forget that not everyone is so I’ll edit that part. Anyway, this isn’t a dictionary definition step by step guide, it’s just an opinion piece for the purpose of seeking inspiration. If none of it resonates with you that’s fine as well, of course we’re all individuals. But the disclaimer was right there in the very beginning for this exact reason so I’m a bit confused why you’re saying it’s a blueprint when I mentioned it’s an opinion piece? Edit: If guide in the title is the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:13 PM
15

Congrats 🎉🍾😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:08 PM
9

Yes it’s definitely about adding to peoples lives and vice versa and involves a lot of self development. Glad you found it helpful ! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:07 PM
3

Edit: For anyone wondering about the deleted comments, she basically picked a random argument about this post, claimed I’m always fighting people in comments then when I asked why she stalks my posts and comments to come to that conclusion she denied that she previously commented on a previous post of mine and called me a liar when I insisted that she had. So I used removeddit site to find her deleted comments on that post as proof and she switched the narrative then tried to get me banned by th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:05 PM
12

Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:04 PM
25

That genuinely sounds amazing! Cheers 🍹🍹🍹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:50 PM
15

So cool! Will be so exciting once they start growing. Gardening-related weekend on my end too as I’m deep in research and planning phase to revamp the garden starting with getting rid of my old hose and replacing it with an automatic wall-mounted wind-up version. Then finding a contractor to power wash the terrace area and trim the hedges and do a big pre-summer clean of the garden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:49 PM
20

I didn’t even know that was a thing, so cool!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:43 PM
10

So exciting! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:43 PM
14

This sounds so fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:42 PM
18

I am so incredibly proud of you! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:36 PM
6

😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:35 PM
6

Enjoy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:35 PM
9

Sounds like the perfect weekend ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:35 PM
12

Where to? And what kind of 🌮 ? Enjoy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:34 PM
107

Sounds lovely! I had 2 intense workout sessions, baked some oatmeal cashew cookies and now doing research on automatic roll-up hoses for my garden while watching Black Summer season 2 in the background!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:56 PM
750

Oh no… anyway, how’s everyone’s weekend going? 🍹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:20 PM
37

Haha that last line. An ex from years ago used to complain how long my showers took, yet he was in and out in 5 mins, what can you wash properly in 5 mins???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:54 PM
19

Ok had to stop scrolling through this thread cuz my germaphobia was getting so badly triggered 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:17 PM
53

Even animals care about their basic hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:13 PM
82

I would’ve walked out on him the second he said that. Low effort people will always try to drag you down to their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:12 PM
48

Technically we all die alone sooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:32 PM
39

Hell I'm embarrassed for them and I don't even know them. Cheapskates are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:04 AM
30

Ordered ! Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 11:55 PM
48

Yea I was like is that supposed to be... Impressive? It's embarrassing. Google has millions of recipes wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 11:54 PM
19

Keep doing it 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:05 PM
1

That's only if they're lucky. Worst case scenario is anal cancer caused by HPV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:06 AM
514

Disgusting doesn't even begin to describe it. Yet it's supposed to be 'funny and adorable' 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:25 AM
47

Oh I didn't even notice til you pointed it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:11 PM
109

A coworker and ex-friend of mine went through a bitter divorce with his wife and used the most foul language when talking about her. Called her all sorts of names. This is someone he married and had 2 young kids with. I used to call him out on it all the time and that, paired with finding FDS a while back is what caused the end of our friendship. I remember once asking him how he could say such things about the mother of his children and didn't he once love her? Given he once married her and had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:12 PM
20

This made me pretty emotional for some reason. Super proud of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:37 PM
6

Sending lots of hugs ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:07 PM
29

Give yourself grace OP. Having a big and loving heart is a beautiful thing, only tragic when given to the wrong person but you will heal and one day he'll cross your mind for the very last time, I promise. Allow yourself to feel bitter and rage, you need to let those feelings out before you can truly move on. I promise it makes the process faster than surrounding yourself with distractions as is commonly advised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:35 AM
24

I was half expecting him to compliment her weight loss while she was laying sick in the hospital 😒 ughh. Also there's no marriage to salvage, she needs to leave him because he's not going to suddenly wake up and change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:18 AM
31

Eww he sounds bitter that he can't have you. Block and delete 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:04 PM
8

Genuinely thought so at first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:02 PM
17

Yea slipped the mod filter somehow because posts and comments seem to indicate this person is a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:34 AM
12

Your mom sounds amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:07 AM
5

Beyond infuriating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:58 AM
18

I'm honestly surprised you lasted 5 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:57 AM
18

That unexpected ending floored me but 100% agreed (both points)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:41 AM
32

You shouldn't be sleeping with platonic male friends as that's the opposite of platonic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:47 PM
27

Soooo proud of you! Cheers to your new home and new life 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:45 PM
3

Bit conflicted with this because I have a history of depression so I tend to retreat whenever I'm going through something emotional. Therefore I'd feel like a hypocrite if I labeled that a red flag. A loved one being diagnosed with cancer would definitely make me put everything else on hold. I distance myself because I'm not good at masking my emotions and pretending to be fine when I'm not. And it takes a huge amount of energy to try to just carry on as usual while life is falling apart. And so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:40 PM
55

Took me too long to realize that all my 'platonic male friends' were secretly hoping we would one day hook up. Their masks all eventually slipped and I was really disappointed. This was all pre-FDS thankfully. One even drunkenly described in explicit detail to a mutual friend what he wanted to do to me but to my face he was so sweet and polite. I feel like if they're genuinely fun to be around and you manage to have deep meaningful and respectful conversations etc it's because they are probably …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:27 PM
132

I recently had to return 3 toys in a row (unopened of course) because each time I was shocked by how huge they were haha. It's a lot more helpful to use sites where you can filter by girth as well. I'm definitely a fan of bigger sizes and give me all the girth please but apparently the average toy on the sites are HUGE/intimidating but they're top sellers as well so goes to show what women really like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:46 PM
7

Yes ! His nest on his bedroom floor is so cozy 🥰 some of the clothes are a bit mildewy though but he likes it that way so it's not a problem 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:20 PM
3

Hahaha 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:44 AM
2

Haha welcome 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:34 AM
7

Loool 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:33 AM
2

Definitely been cracking up at them 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:32 AM
31

It will always be crazy to me how guys expect sex right away. The damaging effects of porn runs so disturbingly deep that they'll feign interest in you and your hobbies, treat you to dinner, etc whatever it takes to get you to let your guard down and be open to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:35 AM
4

Thus my slight but careful wording. Definitely in the category of focusing more on my self growth instead (personally currently not interested in dating)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:21 AM
7

Haha you're welcome ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:54 PM
31

Thanks for the laugh!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:44 PM
15

Aww hugs 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:17 PM
13

Haha ! Sorry for the false alarm and you're too sweet ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:16 PM
73

Honestly depressing to hear 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:26 PM
31

Haha sorry 😭 just some Sunday humor 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:25 PM
6

😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:25 PM
14

Really sorry to hear that and that you grew up witnessing that 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:24 PM
11

Haha I'm sorry ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:23 PM
136

Haha I actually thought people would immediately tell it's satire as I did my best to be as ridiculous as possible. The fact that it was partially believable is prob a sign of how low the bar is these days 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:01 PM
243

Omg thank you 🥰 yea haters will hate on the age gap but he said I'm totally mature for my age and we're happy so that's all that matters! And omg how did you know we're planning to try for a baby this week? 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:37 PM
52

Hahaha sorry 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:20 PM
7

I 100% thought this was satire. First date at his house? Calling him a HVM after the second date !??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:56 PM
13

There's been a barrage of OLD posts lately and it's honestly frustrating that women working towards becoming HVW can't see the irony of using lvm saturated mediums like OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:33 PM
11

If you feel it's a shitshow why did you rejoin? New leveled up you should know you deserve better than OLD...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:44 AM
15

Why give them your time then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:05 AM
1

I’m bi and I actually agree with this. I was talking about the apps as it relates to lvm. Regardless no longer using them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:57 PM
1

Whatever works for you but the fact remains 99% of men on dating apps are lvm so I hope you find your 1%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:55 PM
9

Exactly! I think FDS should ban any posts mentioning OLD as a statement that we don’t condone them here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:57 PM
17

There’s unfortunately a large percentage of women still desperately clinging onto the hope that they’ll find their hvm on the apps and just stick their fingers in their ears when we go on about how toxic and time wasting the apps are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:43 PM
6

I’m hoping you don’t hunt for antiques in dumpsters 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:56 AM
19

The only strategy you need when it comes to OLD: Delete it and stop wasting your time and lowering your standards by interacting with lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:54 AM
29

Thank you for this. I had a history of dating narcs (only realized in retrospect) and all these ring so true it hurts. Narc rage is one of the scariest things I’ve ever experienced. They just completely turned into a different person altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:52 AM
82

I can’t wait for the day PH gets shut down permanently 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:29 PM
74

Came here to say this. You’re not alone OP, it’s all part of the process. It’s only uphill from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:26 PM
72

Happy to sound like a broken record saying this but OLD is trash and it’s beneath us FDSers. Who wants to dig through trash daily in the hopes of finding treasure? We should all be mortified at the thought of using OLD apps and rightly so. On a more important note, what dog breed do you already have? 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:24 PM
84

Your aunt is unfortunately being abused… So sorry this happened to you and sorry for your mom as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:09 PM
229

FDS has the best memes in Reddit and that’s a hill I’ll die on. This is gold 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:19 PM
15

Omg I haven’t laughed this hard in a long time!!! Thank you for that ♥️ was having a tough week dealing with anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:44 AM
62

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:40 AM
11

Ewww really? I hate how Netflix keeps shoving it in my face but I refuse to watch it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:26 AM
22

Love her accent 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:27 AM
263

I’m not a virgin but I’m equally disgusted by slutty guys. You’re right, they’re most likely riddled with std’s. Run far away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:57 PM
83

I’m so glad you got out of that situation!! And agreed, nothing worse than dating cheap men, controlling behavior aside, they carry around a really toxic scarcity mindset and sacrifice so many life experiences just to ‘save money’. Love that he has to pay child support btw!! With no visitation rights even better. Would never trust him around your daughter anyway. The most empowering thing women can do for themselves is gain financial independence, work hard, save wisely but also set money aside …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:38 PM
9

He definitely sounds amazing and aww thank you ☺️ and love your username too, instantly made me smile (and crave marshmellows!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:54 PM
56

Cherish him 🥰 Sounds like a keeper. Glad to read 3 years for once rather than 3 weeks or 3 months hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:14 PM
1

Definitely progress ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:58 PM
4

Added to my reading list! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:59 PM
259

Hahaha needed that laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:58 PM
21

Remember when their ex’s are labeled crazy he usually did something to make them ‘crazy’ (which prob means they got angry at his behavior and lashed out or drew boundaries and suddenly labeled crazy) Also 5 months is way too soon to even use the term HVM in describing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:31 PM
21

Sadly this was my first thought. The amount of times I’ve been hit on by Uber drivers, even with a mask on they’ll say creepy shit like ‘I can tell you’re a beautiful woman based on your eyes alone’ and expect you to thank them for the compliment. I just turn it into an awkward silence by being on my phone then rating them one star when I get to my destination. And if headed home I give an address one street over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:34 AM
18

Why does he look like a million ugly men out there but also hope they catch him soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:18 AM
2

Ok this is gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:05 AM
18

Lost it at pick a struggle lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:02 AM
18

I’ll die on this hill but I still strongly believe deleting dating apps should be a prerequisite to this sub because it goes against everything it teaches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:01 AM
11

Looks staged but still not funny at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:52 AM
9

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:50 AM
39

Haha love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:47 AM
7

Noted! Thanks for the tip ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:12 PM
11

Thanks for the laugh! 😁 and wow! I’ll have to try that version this weekend. Thanks for sharing both this and the roasties one ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:25 PM
54

Words cannot describe how much I love this! ‘We’re not even playing the game’ exactly how it feels. Just a league of our own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:08 PM
14

The sexiest of them all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:05 PM
22

An ex of mine had this and he was 29 years old. I was so weirded and turned off by it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:51 PM
17

Share the recipe please 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:49 PM
49

My fav part of FDS. We low key have the funniest subbies in my opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:48 PM
72

Where is the kinkshaming option? That’s my fetish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:46 PM
126

Yea sometimes I see posts on here along the lines of ‘we’ve been dating for [insert ridiculously low amount of time] and he’s such an HV! Here are all his green flags’ And I just think to myself oh honey…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:18 PM
98

Making myself a cocktail in celebration 🍹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:42 PM
5

Thank you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:51 PM
59

The mental calculations I was doing almost gave me a headache (to determine age they first got together, age she first gave birth, etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:50 PM
161

Love that you left him on read! I would’ve been so tempted to let him know he’s not even going to be considered as a potential tenant so he can F off. Also please only rent the room out to women for your own safety ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:17 AM
379

This was painful to read. She’s going to look back at that decision with so much regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:11 AM
58

Oh you missed that announcement? It was even live-streamed on YouTube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:08 AM
3

🥂!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:40 AM
3

I’m there with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:18 AM
10

Can you talk to your friend about FDS?😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:33 AM
5

Very good point! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:32 AM
6

Hahaha this made my day ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:30 AM
4

♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:29 AM
3

Loved it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:15 AM
83

Porn fried brain clearly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:45 AM
15

Sorry for the trigger! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:58 PM
16

Cheers to that 🥂 and safe driving!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:57 PM
16

Haha thanks for the laugh ♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:44 PM
38

Better late than never as the saying goes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:44 PM
55

Hehe thanks 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:34 PM
18

I’m so sorry 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:06 PM
53

I’m so glad I gave up dating because I no longer have the patience to train/teach men how to treat me. I have bigger more important goals in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:28 PM
36

This isn’t AITA this is FDS, no self-gaslighting allowed. You’re clearly not the problem, he sounds insecure as hell and quite immature. You can do better. Just because you have history together doesn’t mean a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:24 PM
66

I feel like the pickmes would side with men sadly, further reducing our impact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:35 AM
163

The fact that a convention is needed at all 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:10 AM
5

Yea learned that the hard way once
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:45 AM
9

Well Damn by Morgan Lynzi - described as a modern guide to a damn good life. Every episode blows my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:41 AM
9

Agreed, disappointed by some of these comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:17 PM
27

Just sacrificed a few brain cells reading that and it definitely wasn’t worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:08 PM
18

I love this! Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:25 PM
87

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:36 PM
20

Friendly reminder to delete your dating apps because it's beneath you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:03 PM
9

😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:50 PM
160

She has 2 kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:48 PM
31

Googled and still dying from the cuteness 🥰 Hope they're super spoiled hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:23 AM
88

Jesus christ she's drop dead gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:19 AM
39

Ouh what kind of birds?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:23 AM
56

Yea I was thinking where's the rest of the story?? Surely he came home to changed locks and his stuff outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:40 AM
23

I read it as satire (hope I'm right!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:07 AM
19

This needs to be a published article because wow. So many good points made as well! Boris Johnson's disheveled hair always comes to mind when the topic of men in power not caring about appearance comes up (although he alledgedly purposefully wants to appear aloof to gain people's trust) but a female PM certainly wouldn't have that luxury given how much looks are tied to women's worth in society. Agree that the best remedy would be to stop caring and fully live life. Have to admit that once you'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:05 AM
21

I love this ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:27 PM
83

I crack up everytime I see your username 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:07 PM
257

Documentary narrator: And here we see a clown in their natural habitat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:26 PM
35

Never have never will. In all past relationships they had their place and I had mine cuz nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:31 PM
1

Cuz they're all porn addicted and would do the same so they can relate. Ughh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:09 PM
5

Disgusted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:31 PM
13

She lost me further at 'we girls can be pregnant' Also imagine being this complicit in your own subjugation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:36 PM
2

There's news, home and popular on the app. I never click news and home only shows fds or any sub I'm following whereas popular unfortunately tends to open by default on the app but now only shows me what's popular in Greece instead of the US (I'm not even in the US but the posts that annoy me are from there)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:35 PM
15

Yessss ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:55 AM
9

So happy for you and give your future puppy lots of kisses and cuddles on our behalf 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:49 AM
48

Haven't seen the front page in months and it's made my reddit viewing so much better. Got tired of the misogynistic/racist/depraved top posts and comments so I switched my location to Greece (can't read Greek and not in Greece) but my popular tab on the app now only shows easy to ignore Greek posts and my home tab only has FDS and any other sub I'm subbed to. It was either that or delete reddit cuz I hate it so much but love this particular community enough to offset it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:47 AM
177

What does she mean by where do we go from here? Wtf OUT THE DOOR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:24 AM
12

Haha love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:22 PM
34

OK I lost it at the dishwashing soap line 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:13 PM
43

Their snowflake egos are so fragile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:12 PM
108

Lose weight WHERE? Men's delusions have reached epic levels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:08 PM
73

Thank you! I get so incredibly frustrated whenever I see posts mentioning OLD because every single FDS member is above that. Can't complain about LVM then switch over to the apps and start swiping through a sea of them in the same breath. Delete the apps and go out there and live life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:50 PM
184

Breaking news, ugly scrotes found to be undesirable. More at 5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:20 PM
3

You're in 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:56 PM
93

Teamchildfree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:42 PM
12

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:31 PM
5

Definition of insanity 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:54 PM
13

Right there with you. Honestly disappointed whenever I see fds women using them still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:25 PM
39

Delete 👏 dating 👏 apps 👏 you 👏 deserve 👏 better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:18 PM
147

Ah OK neverminddddd thirst vanished
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:47 PM
79

Love this! Even pre-FDS I was side eying Nate 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:54 PM
17

You're only a failure if you don't walk away after making this post and seeing all our comments. You know you deserve better and you needed to hear it from us as well so here goes: YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:55 PM
31

I second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:52 PM
5

I would legit pre-order her future book hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:09 AM
82

I can attest to that. Skin clears, you sleep better, anxiety and depression either vanishes or is significantly reduced, life just gets better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:52 AM
7

Haha 😁 was thinking the same about his eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:44 AM
3

Loved this! Especially as an extreme introvert hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:02 PM
8

This isn't really the sub to post this especially considering you should be seeking hvm men who wouldn't give a damn about things like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:58 PM
70

Haha I thought that was him in the pic 😅 He sounds lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:55 PM
107

Words fail me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:30 PM
18

I don't know if I'm more sad or angry. OP can you please PM her the link to this fds thread?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:27 PM
22

OK I don't know what you do in life but you need to drop everything and become a writer because that was so engaging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:27 PM
39

I would love to get drunk with all of you and play this haha 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:25 PM
28

Yea mine's simple too, he sent an SMS (after I blocked him on everything) 4 months ago and I left him on read, where he'll remain for eternity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:23 PM
21

Wow the audacity ! Signed ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:20 PM
10

Loooooool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:09 PM
37

💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:09 PM
135

I'm 100% child-free as well so fully support your choice but really saddens me that you and many women even have to live in fear of being raped..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:16 PM
24

What kind of best friend says backhanded things like that about you? Perhaps reconsider your friendship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:54 AM
479

Yep definitely just seeking praise. Imagine if a woman posted this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:43 AM
40

Honestly, sign me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:42 AM
29

The fact that you even brought him up in your reply shows how full of empathy you are (just like what you did for your sisters) but please forget about him and his feelings and just focus on yourself. You owe him nothing and his well-being is not your concern. Hope life is beautiful from here on out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:08 AM
64

This absolutely broke my heart. I am so sorry... So glad you can seek refuge and solidarity here ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:23 AM
1

Haha it really is 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:24 PM
9

What an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:50 AM
23

My condolences for being straight 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:49 AM
15

We need this on a shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:37 AM
25

You just reminded me to take my D3 supplement hehe thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:36 AM
118

Can confirm. I went from being flattered by constant male attention to literally nauseated by it (post-FDS) They're only nice to you if you make their peepee stir and it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:34 AM
46

Or deleting the app tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:56 AM
88

I'm bi but can't pluck up the courage to start dating women (completely done with men) so I'm just staying single until I do 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:23 PM
50

The bigger the better 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:52 PM
61

Holy shh so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:51 PM
2

Omg just today I was thinking this. Whenever there's yelling in public or loud noises 9/10 it's a man. They literally walk around like they own the world and we just happen to live in it too. It's so infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:50 PM
9

I'm tired of these AITA for [insert bare minimum request / reaction to boundaries clearly being crossed / incidence of major disrespect or lies/ here ] posted by women bracing themselves to be gaslit into oblivion by scrotes in the comments. Ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:44 PM
99

Please also come back to this post whenever you feel tempted to stay and work things out. The worst thing you could do is forgive him and give him another chance. He will absolutelyyyy keep cheating because you forgave him once, he'll just be extra careful not to get caught again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:29 PM
14

Beyond gorgeous indeed. And couldn't agree more with her stance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:12 PM
17

So sorry about what happened to you, it's heartbreaking how many women carry sexual/emotional trauma caused by men. And thanks for the solidarity, right up there with you that women, especially FDS women should boycott dating apps out of self respect more than anything. It's very much beneath us to go dumpster diving trying to find an HVM. Sadly the apps are designed to be addictive and to give false hope through FOMO so many women won't heed our advice but to each their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:11 PM
2

You are worth so much more and glad you realized there's nothing worth pursuing on the apps ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:39 PM
11

First line and I was like wait what? The purple dinosaur? ((Expecting the character who played him to turn out to be some kind of creep) hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:53 PM
7

That comment pissed me off so much. So low effort can be excused based on the fact that he's a guy? Glad the video is fake because wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:46 PM
13

I'd join in a heartbeat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:59 AM
10

Your comments are always gold ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:58 AM
5

I feel this so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:55 AM
16

You guys seriously crack me up and make my day ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:54 AM
5

Proud of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:05 AM
114

Any guy with a high body count has always automatically disgusted me and I assume they are riddled with stds as well. So yes I'm all for turning the narrative on its head and slut shaming men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:24 PM
54

Being a woman is exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:12 PM
73

Yep definitely crying about his soon to be abandoned peepee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:04 PM
46

It's like I had been blindfolded my whole life and someone ripped the blindfolds off when I found this sub. And I'm so thankful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:39 PM
90

In case it's real she really owes him nothing. She could repay him the financial debt as an act of gratitude for supporting her education and walk away. Men do this to women all the time so shouldn't be a shock when it's reversed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:24 AM
133

Here's to making your own money and not financially depending on anyone let alone a man🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:35 AM
4

I genuinely don't care about your opinion of me since you don't know me. Have a lovely weekend though ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:40 AM
15

And fries 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:35 PM
6

I love this 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:34 PM
10

Hahaha omg me too!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:33 PM
24

You have excellent taste 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:50 PM
31

A little??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:10 PM
22

OK this made my day 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:25 PM
1

Sharing is caring 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:24 PM
1

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:23 PM
1

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:08 PM
5

Exactly! Be gentle with yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:01 AM
109

Thank God
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:52 AM
12

🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:56 PM
55

What are men for? As in what's the point of men H20= chemical symbol of water, MEN, 4 Water men 4= what are men for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:43 PM
56

I got the H20 part and that's why I was confused. Was just thinking water men 4? What? Ahhhhh and just as I wrote that out I got it haha thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:28 PM
23

I still don't get it 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:23 PM
7

Right there with you. So glad the mods have the fds website as a plan B
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:15 PM
119

We've all been there sadly 😩 hurts so much more knowing I was way out of their league yet they still managed to turn me into the desperate one. I will never ever date down again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:14 PM
64

I would gild this a million times if I wasn't opposed to financially contributing to this cancerous site. So well said!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:02 PM
13

Fucking hate this website
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:59 PM
367

Who's going to tell him he hit the wall already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:10 PM
2

Exactly, it's not only a waste of time and energy but also degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:41 PM
3

Seems like you had the most sense in your friend group! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:41 PM
1

Exactly! Keep standards raised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:39 PM
1

So proud of you! And glad you got rid of that therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:38 PM
2

Yea they forget that people still had dating lives before apps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:37 PM
7

They're so delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:28 PM
7

You'll eventually be tempted to redownload as the apps were designed to be addictive but don't give in! It's one of the best things you'll ever do for your mental health ❤️ you are worth so much more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:26 PM
2

Sorry you got backlash too at the time. I'm so glad so many agree but pretty disappointed in those defending the apps considering we should all know better by being on this sub. And good for you for quitting the apps ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:20 PM
24

Haha love it 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:17 PM
100

Good !!!! Wish there was a way to also take paint from the wall 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:56 AM
2

🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:58 AM
1

So well said!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:58 AM
2

I met 3 of my closest friends on Bumble BFF! Only time meeting someone off the apps has been a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:56 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:54 AM
1

K
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:52 AM
1

Welcome ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:52 AM
6

So proud of you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:56 PM
6

Not every woman's goal in life is to start a family (certainly not mine as I'm child-free) But if that's a goal of hers she needs to be out living life and doing activities that'll increase her chances of meeting hvm in the real world as I mentioned in my post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:50 PM
5

Yea so many butthurt comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:27 PM
9

I'm really happy for you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:06 PM
16

Symptom of a porn fried brain if I've ever seen one! So glad you dodged that bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:20 PM
6

It's truly draining. Proud of you for leaving ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:18 PM
9

Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:17 PM
8

Appreciate it ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:16 PM
41

Thank you! I can't believe it's even considered controversial on FDS of all subs to say these things. These apps are toxic and full of trash and anyone hurt by being called out for still using them is by definition a pick me and that's a hill I'm willing to die on because I know we can and should collectively do better and raise our standards and refuse to give our time, energy or resources to dating apps and the trash lvm on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:16 PM
3

Agreed !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:12 PM
10

I'm so proud of you! This is exactly how it should be rather than wasting any second of your life on toxic apps weeding through trash. That time can be spent flourishing and enriching your life in ways dating the wrong type of men never could!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:11 PM
13

They have zero shame. I bet he thought you'd be flattered, Ughhh. Well done for deleting and exiting the meat market!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:10 PM
6

Exactly !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:08 PM
17

So well said!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:08 PM
11

Exactly! Men never get tone policed but women are expected to be gentle and indirect and coddle feelings. Screw that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:07 PM
15

Lol I'm getting a lot of hate for it but focusing on the women who agree instead which seems to be the majority thankfully. So much retaliation for a statement that 100% aligns with FDS? Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:50 PM
14

Lol ridiculous that we're getting down voted for something that 100% aligns with FDS ideology. I sure hope it's lurkers downvoting and not fellow fdsers who are still drinking the OLD kool-aid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:48 PM
19

So proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:45 PM
12

Haha love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:44 PM
7

Wtf ? Really ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:54 PM
-2

FYI I work full time, getting my second masters at the same time, have hobbies and still manage to make time for activities that get me out in the real world especially now that most people are vaccinated where I live, because I make the time for it and the idea of wasting time on apps doesn't appeal to me but to each their own! Done with the back and forth but carry on alone if you'd like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:53 PM
2

The irony being men unapologetically state their opinions all the time and no one bats an eye. Not going to lose sleep over you calling me immature 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:06 PM
-11

I'm simply stating my opinion unapologetically. Try it sometime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:00 PM
-7

I still think it's LV behavior but to each their own. You make time for things that matter (such as new hobbies, activities, traveling etc of course if you have the means to do so) and meeting someone organically that way is a much better use of time than using apps for 'fun'. If someone's idea of fun is swiping through apps making fun of lvm or going on pointless dates then they are the butt of the joke without realizing it. HVW women have better things to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:57 PM
21

My point still stands that 99% of men on dating apps are lvm and don't deserve to be defended. Of course there's active Lvm's with hobbies etc, I was just painting a picture of what hvm are most likely doing which is anything but sat at home swiping left and right all day. Exceptions to the rule doesn't mean dating apps should be defended. Meeting organically and not through tools designed for hookups is the way to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:52 PM
13

They're definitely designed to be addictive and give you FOMO and that's how they make a profit. You're definitely not missing out on anything and deleting it removes you from that toxic cesspool of Lvm's who only see you for what they can get out of you. Boycotting is the way to go and should be an fds rule in my opinion as we can't call ourselves HVW yet participate in low value activities like dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:47 PM
17

Glad you agree! I seem to have offended some people but I guess that means they needed to hear it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:43 PM
25

As I said, just because some women find the 1% rare unicorn doesn't make the apps worth it. Would you go dumpster diving daily in the hopes of finding diamonds because someone you know once found diamonds in the dumpster? There's so much more women can be doing with their lives than swiping and going on dates with lvm in the hopes of trying to find a rare unicorn. Let's want more for ourselves and not advocate for low value behavior in the hopes of getting lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:40 PM
18

Lol @ point 3. Well done for dodging all bullets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:35 PM
36

Yep, it's sorting through trash hoping to salvage something when you could raise your standards and attract gold instead. So many better ways to use your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:34 PM
25

I don't mind the hate, truth hurts. I needed to hear this back then and whoever is triggered by it needs to hear it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:32 PM
22

Yes !!! It's a complete waste of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:32 PM
61

They will literally create entire new identities to trap their next victim. It's so unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:31 PM
-15

20s. What does it have to do with having too much self respect to ever use old again? IMO if you disagree with the statement then you still have a long way to go to unlearn pick me behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:30 PM
46

I mean some of my friends met their lvm online, settled and are 'happy' because they'd rather be in a relationship than be single because society has drilled that into women. You have to want better for yourself and respect yourself enough to never settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:45 PM
45

It's like saying dumpsters have food, however some of us don't have supermarkets within walking distance. Will you go dumpster diving to get food or will you walk longer or take some type of transportation to find a supermarket? It's about raising your standards and expanding your circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:42 PM
70

What an insecure asshole! And exactly, they couldn't care less about our interests and our minds, just what's between our legs. The sooner women realize this the faster they'd delete. Far too many meet and settle for Lvm's on there then sell the idea that meeting 'the love of your life' is possible on Tinder. It's like congrats on getting picked and settling but please keep that b.s to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:34 PM
92

You're amazing! And yes 99% of them are just looking for sex and even if you had anything on your bio they would either not read it or just use it to create a false bond with you in order to get in your pants. They're truly shameless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:23 PM
39

Never worth it. Leave it to the pickme's and Lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:20 PM
44

That needs to be a flair tbh because yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:19 PM
23

It's truly disgusting 😩 we all deserve so much more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:19 PM
78

You can do it! It truly is just a sex dispenser as far as men are concerned. They put in minimal effort and swipe enough times to get 'lucky'. It's revolting. At my worst pickme phase I went from one relationship with an lvm to another, all met on OLD. And as soon as one relationship ended I would be back on the apps within days🤡 then would delete my profiles once I was officially dating a new guy 🤡 it was an endless cycle and I'm so glad FDS showed me how low value apps are!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:17 PM
26

Why would anyone do that? Lack of attention growing up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:59 PM
3

Very much agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:53 PM
3

See my reply above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:53 PM
4

No one said ugly women deserve to be treated badly. I can confirm that life is easier in some ways when you're considered attractive but it also works against you in many ways. For example I'm an attractive woman in STEM and I need to work 2x as hard to be taken seriously in comparison to women who don't fit the conventionally attractive mold and 3x as hard in comparison to men. Not going into a woe is me line of thought but just saying. I didn't choose my genes but I appreciate them and even if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:52 PM
16

Good lord, 7 years together and she had to drop hints to get him to finally agree whilst being completely out of his league. He's more like a soft 4.7 than a 6. So embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:26 AM
46

May as well say I'm staying away from dumpsters for the summer. Please do yourself a favor and just flat out delete it and never go back. Hvm are not hanging out on there and you know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:18 AM
98

This is only acceptable for stray dogs and cats tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:14 AM
18

Thank you! ❤️ and yes they truly are delusional aren't they? Ughh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:21 AM
8

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:19 AM
100

I'm honestly so very proud of you. You have yourself to thank just as much because plenty of women view this sub as delusional and toxic because they are neck deep in internalized misogyny. So also thank yourself for having the intelligence and courage to see the reality of what we advocate here and using it to get out of your situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:02 AM
5

Oh this came out in Europe last year. I remember bingewatching it angrily haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:01 PM
71

Exactly. I was thinking ugly where?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:58 PM
10

Ewww to broke men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:37 PM
2

Hehe thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:37 PM
27

Can confirm 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:34 PM
119

Reddit has always been and will always be trash. Literally only use it for this sub but would happily delete otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:34 AM
54

So well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:31 AM
41

She doesn’t sound like she lives in the US either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:59 PM
2

I said everyone should get tested whether a male or female gyno, they should just do what makes them comfortable. Please leave me alone now cuz you’re annoying me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:57 AM
52

Oh didn’t realize the artist is male. Gives a troubling spin to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:18 AM
5

I’ll just continue doing what makes me comfortable and everyone should do the same. Have had the same male gyno now for 5 years and he’s nothing but professional and makes me not dread my annual visits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:48 PM
101

Hahahaha!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:46 PM
45

And change gyms hopefully!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:45 PM
23

You’re my hero ♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:44 PM
6

Yes this is medically correct, so no clue why you’re being downvoted. Unless they were each other’s firsts he very well could’ve caught it from a previous relationship. But I hate giving men the benefit of the doubt 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:35 PM
197

Fuck him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:30 PM
25

Yea can you imagine if we brought up our parts in conversation?? Hard to imagine because we’re the civilized sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:26 PM
61

You are so talented!!!! And couldn’t agree more. It’s ALL men either through direct action or enabling behavior or silence (which is also enabling)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:25 PM
14

Proud voncel over here 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:22 PM
119

My 2 worst gyno experiences were women. The first one didn’t believe I was a virgin at the time (21) and laughed at me and shoved an uncomfortably large speculum inside me as I cried out in pain. The second one was really rude and rough and rushed through the procedure and also made an unsolicited comment about my stomach area at a time I was dealing with a full on eating disorder (I was basically skinny except for my lower stomach area and she poked at it and said she was surprised I have fat t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:57 PM
6

I love this so much !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:23 PM
98

My taste in absolutely everything except food has changed 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:09 PM
31

The accuracy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:03 AM
10

You’re doing God’s work by introducing him tbh 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:21 AM
2

Thanks! I’ll check them out this weekend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:30 PM
25

I love this SO MUCH OMG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:30 PM
24

Laughing to myself in public like a crazy person hehe thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:38 PM
7

Remember him from black mirror!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:37 PM
14

Oh I’m genuinely shocked! He’s definitely age appropriate then although he really doesn’t look it haha. Great genes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:34 PM
29

He looks like a kid so I feel uncomfortable sexualizing him lol 😅 Men could never 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:34 PM
84

Oh I didn’t know I could be even more disgusted with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:30 AM
1

I’m confused, did you just reply to your own message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:46 AM
40

Good lord she’s gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:36 AM
19

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:36 AM
32

This is the first time I’ve ever been tempted to buy Reddit coins just to give someone gold (before remembering I never want to financially contribute to and thus indirectly support this pedo-embracing, misogynistic, porn-filled site) But so very well said!!!! Handbook-worthy 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:45 PM
345

Meh. I like orgasms and I don’t need a man for that 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:38 PM
52

This is so fucking sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:54 PM
111

I so wish this for women everywhere ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:51 PM
19

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:09 PM
101

More like how many women don’t love and respect themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:08 PM
59

Jesus!! Report him please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:21 AM
7

Same but more like 5x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:44 PM
140

Good lord he’s unattractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:43 PM
20

Haven’t laughed so hard in a long time hahaha!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:44 PM
93

Laughed so freakin hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:04 PM
22

The only acceptable kink ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:23 PM
67

Where are my fellow kinkshamers? It’s kinkshaming time 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:55 PM
60

Look of disgust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:17 PM
36

Next step, making it global
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:42 AM
8

We care about how you feel. It’s more than ok to feel angry so take as long as you need. Narcs are literal soul drainers, you’ll look back at this and feel so grateful it’s over. He deserved everything you said to him and you have the right to raw and unfiltered anger after going through narcissistic abuse. Fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:32 AM
10

Hopefully a man posing as a woman 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:16 PM
2

Not even tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:37 PM
90

Hypocrisy at its finest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:16 PM
174

More like dinner then home to use my vibrator so I can actually have a good time and come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:15 PM
85

I've never understood either. Then again I'm a germaphobe so feel uncomfortable even hugging/shaking hands with strangers let alone sleeping with them. Even if I wasn't I still wouldn't though because sex without a deep connection is just mutual masturbation except you don't finish and he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:14 PM
168

Who knew there was a level below pickme? Pleasepleasepickme?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:07 PM
2

Sending lots of hugs ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:34 AM
2

Reading that made me so angry on your behalf! I hate selfish/inconsiderate and loud people. Yes please file a complaint as many times as it takes for them to intervene, no one should have to just put up with that. Especially when dealing with health issues. Keep me posted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:10 AM
14

Written like a true psychopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:07 AM
9

I'm equally confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:11 PM
40

Can confirm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:49 PM
72

I made some of my closest friends on Bumble BFF, just to note it can happen. But just like with dating, chemistry is everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:39 PM
19

Raises both hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:01 AM
13

Same!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:59 AM
75

I really need to stop scrolling FDS while eating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:17 AM
15

Congrats! 🥂🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:52 AM
31

🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:51 AM
35

I never liked him as he always gave me creepy vibes. Not surprised my gut was right !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:40 AM
20

This warmed my heart !!! And well done for taking the trash out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:36 AM
62

I love your username. And I hope that radio commercial will help millions of women find the courage to walk away. Makes me so sad to think about the fact that a global pandemic which is meant to bring out men’s so called protective side instead brought out the worse in them. All the women that feared the virus yet lost their lives to their boyfriends/husbands instead...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:32 AM
276

I love that we’re normalizing breaking up due to porn use. Any scrote reading this post will scoff and roll their eyes and think it’s crazy to dump a ‘nice guy’ just because they watch porn and will probably be dying to type ‘hahaha good luck finding a guy these days who doesn’t watch porn you crazy women!’ (Scream away into the void scrotes) And that goes to show they are truly clueless about the dangerous effect porn has on their view and treatment of women and how it’s as normal to them as wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:27 AM
204

Porn is ridiculously addictive is what I gathered from lurking a certain sub out of curiosity (the one dedicated to men quitting it) I’m guessing he would say he will quit then watch in secret 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:20 AM
19

Porn categories are truly so strange and disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:18 AM
34

So elegant ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:15 AM
42

Triggered 😩 so glad to no longer be in that situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:14 AM
21

Happily child free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:52 PM
23

I’m sorry but wtf????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:09 PM
174

Ah this makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:44 AM
2

Glad things are coming together and I’m genuinely so happy for you! Peace of mind is the most amazing feeling. Wishing you a beautiful life going forward ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:44 AM
22

Anyone else craving pizza now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:33 AM
22

Apparently so! That 150k-timing cheater!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:31 AM
17

I was waiting for the part where you pepper-sprayed the hell out of him. So sorry you went through this. Being a woman in this world is so exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:30 AM
38

Back to baby/toddlerhood and ignorant of danger because even as children we get harassed by men. I still remember being 9 and having a man in his 50s say something completely inappropriate about my body. At 9!!!! Never felt safe in public since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:28 AM
37

Laughed so hard!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:23 AM
41

Omg what a catch!!! If you don’t want him I’ll take him 😍😍 /s 🤮 How low effort can men get honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:21 AM
2

How have things been? 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:17 AM
783

Original tweet must have fallen and bumped her head cuz wtf??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:08 AM
18

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:05 AM
36

I’d like to add be prepared for backlash once you start being more assertive (especially in the workplace) oh boy they really don’t like it but screw them and carry on anyway 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:51 PM
8

I was expecting it to be followed by some comment about gross greasy hair or something lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:05 PM
43

Skin cancer is super manly though /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:02 PM
26

Hahaha literally just finished listening to the FDS podcast about dick size and opened Reddit and saw this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:16 PM
32

🥳🥳🥳!!! Welcome new members
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:39 PM
1

I haven’t crossed her path yet but I can hear them having loud sex right now 😅 so I have a feeling she’s in a cycle of fights/forgiveness which makes things more complicated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:46 AM
21

You have permission to spoil yourself, it doesn’t have to come from a man to be any more meaningful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:01 AM
37

This was the most heartbreaking post I’ve ever read on this sub and I’m speechless. Thank you for speaking out/fighting against this atrocity even at the expense of your own health. Men can be so depraved it honestly makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:54 AM
167

I mean... he could’ve cheated and she decided to break up with him but later down the line stay friends and he does stuff like that out of guilt or something. Labeling a man HVM simply for doing nice things is a bit problematic in my opinion. Lvm do nice things all the time in the hope of eventually getting laid. Edit: I admit I’ve lost all faith in men though 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:48 AM
13

Loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:12 AM
14

God you guys seriously crack me up so much 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:12 AM
6

That song got me through a really bad breakup at the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:44 AM
0

See my reply above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:39 AM
4

It wasn’t a criticism, just a fact, he doesn’t currently look like that and I assumed the tag was for showcasing hot men (as they currently look) I used to have a huge crush on Brad Pitt for example but it would be weird to post a pic of him back when he was hot and lust after the past version of him. Nothing wrong with HF pushing 80 but it’s fine as F Fridays...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:38 AM
20

I feel like all posts need to be current because post-wall HF does not look like this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:12 PM
1

Oh, strange that it disappeared. Ask one of the mods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:09 PM
2

Coming right up 🎁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:37 PM
1

Didn’t realize I was smiling til the end of the vid. #CancelDadBods2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:15 PM
2

Loool you crack me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:15 PM
5

Luther is such a good show!! And he is fine 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:52 PM
6

Of course! He owns mirrors after all 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:51 PM
15

My immaturity at the time to be completely honest. I’m completely different than who I was 3 years ago thankfully. There were other factors as well but it boiled down to me not being ready for that level of commitment at the time. But glad to have met a rare unicorn of a guy! He was tall and handsome too but other guys (all lvm’s in retrospect ) were also chasing me and I let the attention get to my head. I’d love to go back through time and give myself a reality check!! He’s still in my life (n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:25 PM
26

Hahahahahaha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:00 PM
15

I don’t get it either 😩 but then again I barely slept last night so brain not at full capacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:01 PM
22

Forgot to mention that I need a clitoral wand in order to climax (unfortunately the only way I can) he’s been the only one that had zero issues with it and even encouraged me to use it. All my other exes threw a tantrum and felt it was emasculating so basically they would try with piv alone then give up and sex would be over once they finished. But I get your point as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:58 PM
3

Why thank you ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:53 PM
157

In my experience, the best sex of my life was with an hvm I dated on and off (long story) and one of the reasons it was the best sex was because he always pulled me in close and wanted to cuddle afterwards. He would kiss me really gently and we’d lay there cuddled up talking and laughing until our heart rates returned to normal and then move to the living room to cuddle up again and watch a movie or something. He was always super affectionate after climaxing (after obsessively making sure I fini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:53 AM
4

Yep, past me was a 🤡 So glad she no longer exists !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:44 AM
10

Good! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:43 AM
13

Yesss although his eyes do it for me more than anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:40 AM
4

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:38 AM
4

Congrats! And can so relate to feeling like you’ve leveled up more in a few months of FDS than in years of your life. I’m pretty sure that’s how you know you had been brainwashed by society til having your eyes opened by FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:12 AM
24

I had no clue it sold more than HP! Wtf is wrong with this world 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:08 AM
7

Aww will do! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:57 AM
14

Ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:29 PM
87

I think this goes for single women in general whether previously married or not. I’m voluntarily single for the first time in years (and plan on staying single for the foreseeable future as this sub has opened my eyes to the true nature of men and I just can’t see myself ever dating one again) and to say that I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life would be a solid understatement. I feel free, excited for the future, feel whole and sane again, I sleep so much better, I have peace of mind, thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:17 PM
26

I am all for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:08 PM
5

Yes!!! So very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:53 PM
56

Honestly, standing ovation to this. And 100% completely agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:52 PM
30

Yep love goggles are the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:41 PM
69

They’re literally attention seeking toddlers and it’s exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:33 PM
61

Stares blankly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:50 PM
8

Sending you the biggest virtual hug!!! 🫂 So proud of you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:33 AM
97

I frequent the sub that shan’t be named from time to time and always click away in horror after a few posts. It’s so sad that far too many women put up with this crap either because they are financially reliant on the scrote, would rather endure disrespect and abuse than remain single, think it’s best for the kids or just have a victim mentality. My heart aches for them but also find it hard to pity the ones that can but choose not to walk away. The site above also makes me feel the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:29 AM
46

Sorry should’ve put a warning 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:08 PM
7

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:52 PM
105

I googled out of curiosity thinking it couldn’t be that bad and said oh my god out loud when I saw this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:49 PM
20

Literally burst out laughing hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:45 PM
24

Cackling !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:44 PM
23

So fucking proud of her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:42 PM
12

She is goals ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:39 PM
13

This is so accurate for most men that it felt more like a documentary than comedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:34 PM
13

Smiling from ear to ear, so happy for you and cheers to the beautiful life you’re creating for yourself ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:31 PM
46

Ikr? I want to scream and it’s not even my relationship. Just pisses me off when men have this kind of audacity and heartlessness and get away with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:35 PM
51

He doesn’t love or respect you AT ALL!!! Dump him and walk away, you keep granting him permission to treat you like crap. He has cheated and keeps cheating and went no contact with you and you just accepted and now that he’s bored and crawling back you’re considering taking him back? I’m sorry but I want to shake some sense back into you 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:30 PM
14

Hahahaha love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:15 PM
23

Laughed way too hard at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:15 PM
26

Get 👏him 👏fired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:14 PM
7

I couldn’t even watch more than a minute of this garbage fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:12 PM
12

Truly disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:12 PM
12

Pickmes will be pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:11 PM
10

Using the term news channel pretty hard and loose there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:08 PM
17

This is why I stay the fuck away from men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:05 PM
6

You’re amazing!! I’ll work my way up to befriending her. And next time I hear the argument I might just go knock loudly on their door and ask if everything is ok because I can hear crying or something and watch how he reacts. I’m on the ground floor of the apartment building and they’re above me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:56 PM
3

I’m sorry ♥️ Hope you’re doing much better now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:17 PM
98

It’s 100% illegal. I feel sick to my stomach. Lives can seriously be ruined by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:09 AM
12

Very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:12 AM
22

Absolutely awful 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:56 AM
17

I’m so used to the app I forgot about the webpage version 😅 good point!! Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:19 AM
21

Yea truly sucks to feel helpless. I will try to discreetly reach out to her when he’s not home as suggested in this thread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:41 AM
17

Hehe just shows how pure hearted you are ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:39 AM
59

This is unfortunately most likely because the idea of it turns their pornsick brains on 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:25 AM
20

That’s so heartbreaking, I really hope she made it out somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:24 AM
15

Very sweet indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:23 AM
51

Good idea too. I’m thinking lemon bars might go down well too 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:22 AM
29

I can leave the note in French as I’m French-speaking as well, just wish I could direct her to this subreddit but it’s all in English. Will keep an eye out for when I believe she’s home alone, totally happy to leave her a note. Thanks !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:21 AM
37

Which is why I always found Hinge’s ‘designed to be deleted’ claim suspicious. So glad I left the apps, total waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:17 AM
39

I wouldn’t hesitate if there were sounds of physical assault but just seems to be an argument :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:14 PM
12

Congrats 🥳🥳🥳!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:03 PM
82

Yep men are depraved and that’s why these things don’t bother them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:03 PM
57

Lol the downvotes are prob because this is female dating strategy not female hookup strategy. If someone is on bumble which is meant for dating and they put relationship that’ll clearly attract more women. Women looking for hookups are prob on tinder. I wouldn’t know anyway as never had tinder and deleted bumble and hinge months ago cuz OLD apps are trash juice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:59 PM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:55 PM
82

To answer your last point, they know it’s the fastest way into a woman’s pants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:22 PM
11

Switch wine to tea and I’m in 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:13 AM
33

Yes!! I’ve been called difficult so many times (especially by exes) and it genuinely no longer bothers me. If anything it makes me more determined to keep speaking up, keep calling people out on their b.s, standing up for myself and living my life for me. I’ll be damned if I stay meek and mild to appease others. My fav quote related to this is: Stop breaking yourself down into bite sized pieces. Stay whole and let them choke 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:11 AM
90

Thank you for posting the article content. My heart sinks for Melinda but honestly not surprised at all. I bet more allegations come out shortly. Even when they have it all it’s never enough for men 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:29 PM
83

You are awesome 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:45 PM
173

Mission accomplished 😌 Also I bet worse gf ever translates to she woke up and wouldn’t let me treat her like crap anymore 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:15 PM
112

Well done for saving yourself from heartbreak weeks/months down the line!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:37 PM
75

Haha just saw this and rolled my eyes at all the lvm’s insulting her cuz they know damn well they can’t meet her standards 🙄 die mad scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:20 PM
61

Love this! Sad that nothing has changed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:59 PM
120

‘lol be nice to me’ translation: I just need to vent but I’ll ignore all your advice telling me to leave him and go back to dealing with the situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:45 PM
95

Literally scrunched up my face in disgust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:47 PM
231

Beyond ridiculous especially if you live in a city with highly efficient public transport, why would ever drive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:12 PM
38

It’s so heartbreaking that so many women and girls have been raped that people aren’t as outraged about it as they should be. I’m fucking pissed off for you and so sorry you went through that. Glad you’re going through therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:35 PM
3

I’m really glad to read that ♥️ Genuinely made me smile. Stay strong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:01 AM
8

Please always listen to your gut when it comes to men. Don’t give this guy a chance, any guy that calls his ex crazy is most likely the one with issues himself that caused her to react that way in the first place. Also please don’t read all our advice then proceed to ignore it and give him a chance anyway. I promise it doesn’t end well. Focus on yourself and focus on healing. You are likely to attract other lvm’s when you’re not at your best because they sense these things like the depraved bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:50 AM
12

I’m so sorry this happened to you and hope you can one day completely cut ties with them. You owe them absolutely nothing, especially after that kind of treatment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:45 AM
33

Cheers to you 🥂🥂🥂🥳🥳!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:32 AM
29

And proud of you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:45 PM
37

So proud of you OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:45 PM
29

Hey, I’m an attractive woman in software dev so I know exactly how you feel. I’ve fought for years to be taken seriously (at one point had my own dev business but quit due to endless sexual harassment, something I now deeply regret) Working for a company now that offers amazing pay and benefits and doing great with the exception of still not being taken as seriously as male colleagues. I’ve had to just keep pushing though and things are finally changing and I’m gaining more respect at work. It’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:44 PM
62

Love this! My entire world changed when I came across FDS and realized I’m actually much happier single. It’s so strange to think back at my pickme days and truly have no idea who that woman was. I thankfully no longer cringe at the past, just grateful it led to where I am now♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:55 PM
5

Ughh I’m annoyed just thinking about it 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:50 PM
11

I’m reluctant to google this 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:09 PM
22

I left at 3 seconds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:09 PM
53

Talent ! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:39 PM
11

Awesome!!! 🥰 Hope she wakes up and walks away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:29 PM
17

PM her privately and link her to the reactions on this post perhaps? And let her know you meant no harm in reposting but she should see how many women support her and think she needs to get out of this toxic situation? Heck if you pm me the original link I’ll message her myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:31 AM
28

Yes the difference is I never mentioned anything to them because obviously they can’t help it and I’m not some emotionless psychopath. But also I like what I like 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:29 AM
20

Seething after reading this. OP, rescue mission perhaps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:47 AM
8

Yes please 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:34 AM
8

We’ve all had our mistakes and grown from them. Think of it this way, many women settle for situations like that out of fear of being alone. You left. That is definitely something to be proud of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:32 AM
27

🥂 cheers to you!!!! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:29 AM
97

Pencil dicks are the most frustratingly unfulfilling types ever 😩 my last ex was also a thin/scrawny ✏️-dicked guy and sex couldn’t end soon enough. Thankfully ex’s before him were all quite girthy and even though that hurt a bit sometimes- I’d still rather have that than a ✏️. And p.s fuck anyone’s opinion on your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:27 AM
55

That part took me out 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:58 PM
13

It truly is. My mental health is thriving as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:39 PM
30

Oufff is that a 16-pack? 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:35 PM
14

Thanks for the laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:19 PM
10

Haha I only temporarily reactivated it to chat with a few women here who were asking for advice after one of my posts. But otherwise it’s disabled 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:12 PM
35

The bonus is he appears to be HV as hell based on his online profiles. Ocean conservationist and passionate about the environment in general and incredibly sweet to his gf who also looks super sweet and down to earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:33 PM
24

Lol one balding scrote actually just messaged me 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:24 PM
50

You’re about to get downvoted to hell by balding scrotes 🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:47 PM
10

Yes please 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:46 PM
21

First of all get over yourself. In case you missed the memo the mods agreed to Fine AF Friday for the sake of having fun and also to show the double standards (both men and women like you get their panties in a bunch when women drool over hot men as if men aren’t out there objectifying women 24/7) this is just poking fun at that irony plus with the added benefit of making scrotes mad. I’m not the only one posting these so go bother someone else cuz trust me I’m not the one to start b.s with 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:36 PM
19

Haha sorry to hear. I keep moving countries so thankfully I never bump into any of them 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:29 PM
32

Yea he’s perfection isn’t he? 🥰 No wonder the scrotes keep downvoting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:01 PM
29

You’re just asking for the bare minimum as far as I’m concerned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:55 PM
38

Hahaha love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:36 PM
107

🤣🤣🤣 What’s unrealistic about dressing well, having great hygiene, eating healthy and working out to get an amazing physique (instead of sitting down on their ass all day gaming) And sure some of them won the genetic lottery but they still put effort into their physique. Steroids my ass. Jealousy isn’t cute scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:33 PM
183

Can they stop downvoting the fine ass men being posted 🤣 so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:27 PM
163

Tbh all my exes are blocked on my phone and I don’t have social media so I just pretend they’re dead. RIP 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:45 PM
15

Welcome! Be careful not to cut yourself on that sharp jawline 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:31 PM
6

?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:39 PM
21

Yessssss!!!!!!!!!!!! Ughhh he’s so fucking hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:32 AM
4

♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:30 AM
73

Love the way you turned it around!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:34 AM
22

Yes please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:27 AM
249

Not to mention if he was genuinely interested he could’ve asked for her number at the event rather than an afterthought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:26 AM
15

Let me shorten that for you. I recommend every woman on OLD to leave 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:21 AM
2

Yes!!! Love it. They feel so entitled to our time and attention and it’s fucking exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:17 AM
184

Fear of being single sadly! Couldn’t be me 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:19 PM
16

Loved this ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:47 PM
180

I’m right there with you. Literally just 3 months ago I was still looking for a relationship and still letting men take up some space in my life and thoughts. I’ve become a completely different person now. So much has drastically changed that I don’t even recognize myself anymore. The idea of being in a relationship now genuinely fills me with complete dread. I’m young, single, child free, happy and free and I am never giving that up for a man. I used to be addicted to the way men swooned over m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:07 PM
28

🥳🥂 cheers to your new life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:29 PM
142

Your ex-friend you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:17 PM
7

I’m so disgusted and disturbed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:30 PM
353

My dishwasher and washing machine are both going at the moment and I’m relaxed and reading on the couch while looking out at my beautiful sunny garden. Going to bake a cake shortly while sipping on some mint tea. Nothing to disturb my peace. Being single and child free is definitely complete bliss 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:40 PM
69

How do you unread something ? Please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:00 PM
7

Ah ok! And hehe yea would totally also get one with spikes😁 And I don’t even give them time to get surprised, I’m already back on my way by the time they react. Screw them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:25 AM
13

Burst out laughing hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:57 AM
13

So very proud of you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:54 AM
8

That pisses me off so much!! Ughh they have no regard for anyone but themselves I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:47 AM
8

Great tip! I’ll implement that one. Usually I carry on and let my handbag take the impact but this is a great idea too. I’ll edit the original post and credit you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:37 AM
7

Yes!! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:25 AM
11

Wow didn’t know spiky umbrellas were a thing! As for my tip: I keep my bag to my side and let that take the impact. Then I shoot them a dirty look and tell them to watch where they’re going before turning around and walking away. Flip the fucking script on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:24 AM
4

I keep my bag to my side and let that take the impact. Then I shoot them a dirty look and tell them to watch where they’re going before turning around and walking away. Flip the fucking script on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:22 AM
6

Welcome, hope it helps ♥️ you have every right to go out into the world and enjoy it as freely as they do, I promise x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:20 AM
5

Yea they genuinely think the world revolves around them in general 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:12 AM
18

I challenge you to not even pretend next time. You don’t have to spare their feelings, just get up and change seats if you feel uncomfortable. I do it all the time. You’ve got this ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:09 AM
5

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:06 AM
7

Haha that’s the spirit 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:06 AM
6

Most will move out of the way but for example I’ll have my handbag to my side and let that take the impact rather than me if they don’t move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:04 AM
48

When they walk into me I shoot them a quick dirty look, say watch where you’re going and turn around and walk away before they even get a chance to process it. Or I just make sure my handbag takes the impact and carry on walking as if we didn’t just collide. I’d say 9/10 they chicken out and move away at the last minute though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:45 PM
63

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:18 PM
51

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:31 PM
128

I doubt every woman pretends 50% of the population doesn’t exist and never makes eye contact with any man at all during the day. Women tend to also move out of the way when someone is walking towards them whereas men tend to hold their ground. Just small shifts make a big difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:13 PM
61

Fuck that piece of shit!! I’m so sorry this happened to you. If you remember what he looks like please consider reporting the incident. He shouldn’t have to get away with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:09 PM
218

He hit the wall at 20
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:29 AM
2

Ah ok thanks for explaining!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:54 AM
9

Out of genuine curiosity, why was you sleeping with other men fine (I get that it was better sex ) but you had an issue with him sleeping with the LDR woman? I ask as someone who’s against poly btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:03 AM
27

Thanks for the morning laugh!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:58 AM
62

He clearly hates her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:44 AM
240

Yep please unsubscribe me from earth as well. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:22 PM
12

You need to delete OLD apps because: 1) 99% lvm’s 2) They are swiping looking for easy sex. Even the ones claiming to look for something more serious. 3) They have no respect for women who initiate. If he wanted to he would. 4) You’re cheapening yourself by being on there. 5) Hvm’s would cringe at the thought of dating apps and are busy in the real world living their life. Go join them there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:12 PM
135

Puts plate of food down and stares into distance traumatized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:27 PM
285

I’ve never slept with an ex without them showing me their full and verified std results first. Printed with contact details of the lab etc and their full details on there. I have a massive std phobia and that overrides everything. The fact that all but 2 of them complained when I asked them to get tested still boils my blood. Men have zero regard for their health and will put yours at risk unless you take it upon your own hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:15 PM
5

Google Peter Pan syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:06 PM
13

Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:06 AM
20

I’m in Europe and back when I was on the garbage bin that is OLD apps (thankfully deleted now) I never had any issues with low effort dates because I kept my standards high. I also came across a certain way in my pics and my profile I suppose because very few men dared suggest a low effort date. It was always dinner and never had to worry about the bill either (one even seemed offended when I pretended to reach for my wallet) It’s not about your location but your standards when it comes to men b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:05 AM
16

If this isn’t my Peter Pan assed ex in a picture 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:16 AM
8

Please pm me the link ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:09 AM
29

How do we fast track the process please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:06 AM
49

Hahahahaha 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:05 AM
26

I could cry because this is EXACTLY how I feel!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:59 AM
47

🤣🤣🤣🤣 In their heads they do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:54 AM
31

Just gonna casually link this here Deleting OLD was the best thing that ever happened to my mental health. Please stop dumpster diving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:45 PM
66

I knew I’d be child free since I was like 10 tbh. Nothing has changed and can’t ever imagine losing my freedom and autonomy or worse: being potentially tied to a man for the rest of my life due to kids. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:39 PM
165

Can women just stop reproducing with men please? Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:08 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:42 PM
190

Definitely an insult to rats who are one of the most intelligent creatures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:51 PM
67

Literally gasped. A clip has never made me so angry 😡 seriously fuck men like this wtf????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:29 PM
4

Hahahahaha please do. You can crop out the rest of his face and just post his chin. We need a good laugh 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:32 PM
25

I’m not a cat person but damn those are some cute cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:04 PM
63

Imagine if she ever had kids with him!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:02 PM
4

Hahahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:46 AM
21

Ummm fuck that doctor but also fuck that scrote, not literally of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:40 AM
10

Hahaha you’re welcome 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:37 AM
66

Yes because you should’ve communicated to him that you wanted gifts and pampering on Mother’s Day! How else would he know?? 😤 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:11 AM
13

If there’s men out there with less chin than this then they have a medical condition 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:09 AM
34

I’m sorry 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:08 AM
92

I would never play devil’s advocate especially to defend lvm but not all mother-child relationships are loving. My mom was incredibly toxic and abusive growing up and it caused a lot of pain and trauma for me so our relationship is now non existent. I don’t even acknowledge Mother’s Day because as far as I’m concerned I don’t have one (that’s how bad the abuse was) so just putting that out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:34 PM
298

I can’t even look at beards the same way anymore after one FDS user mentioned the fact that most beards were found to contain fecal matter 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:29 PM
37

67 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:01 PM
78

They’ve always been feral, it’s just magnified by the pandemic 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:54 PM
15

Can’t speak for anyone shorter than me but I’m 5’5 and lose weight really easily by intermittent fasting (eating window of 12 to 8pm) no calorie counting but I do make sure to hydrate and be as active as possible. My comfortable weight is 120 but I yo-yo up to 130 if I’m not careful. But literally 3 weeks of IF and I’m back to 120. No one should be eating child portions to lose weight for the love of God. Just move more and try IF or whatever eating pattern works for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:35 AM
14

💯% agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:20 AM
11

From neck down he’s chef kiss 💋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:17 AM
21

Cringe quota for the day used up in one post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:15 AM
12

Loved having this be the first thing I see when I wake up !!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:58 AM
23

We’ve got a winner 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:18 PM
5

Most women can’t orgasm from a penis in general anyway let alone one that size 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:12 PM
18

That was the longest I’ve ever examined my pinky 🤣 Good on you for walking away from that!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:34 PM
84

Words cannot describe how much I love and agree with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:34 PM
4

✅General: Even though I’m child-free I still think it’s mind blowing that women literally bring life into the world. Every single human being walking around on earth has been birthed by a woman. So the giving of life and continuation of the entire species is the most major thing we bring to the table. But that aside, we bring empathy, strength, the pursuit of peace (to counter how violent most men are) we are intelligent, intuitive, solution-oriented and so much more. ✅Personal: I’ve lived in 8 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:00 PM
217

What in the absolute bare fucking minimum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:15 PM
20

You’re literally a hero ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:31 PM
3

Ewwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:21 PM
52

Cue men foaming at the mouth and almost falling over as they scramble to proclaim not all men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:25 AM
19

Excuse me but wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:23 AM
43

Love seeing other child-free women! To freedom and autonomy 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:29 AM
7

Let them die mad!!!! 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:48 PM
7

I just laughed out loud for the first time today haha thank you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:46 PM
6

Just got a flashback to my ex’s long saggy balls hitting me from behind during sex 🤢 I kept thinking FFS you’re only 29 why are your balls so saggy??? Weirdest fucking feeling ever. I crave penetration sometimes(but not thrusting) just the feeling of fullness. Although I recently got my first dildo, used it once and got bored of it and now it’s stored away for whenever I feel like trying again. And also super grateful to be bisexual so recently giving up on men has been amazing in every way 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:41 PM
2

Oh piss off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:26 PM
2

You’re adding your own narrative to this by turning him into a senile old man who’s wife literally just died. He told the doctor himself he was just eating biscuits because he didn’t know how to cook. And it’s undeniable that most wives unfortunately take on the caretaking roles of cooking and cleaning and most husbands don’t bother to learn these basic skills. I don’t have any pity for old men who got themselves into a situation like that. I doubt they’re seeing cases of old women who don’t kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:37 AM
18

I am genuinely surprised. Had no idea!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:27 PM
459

Deleted all my OLD apps and staying voluntarily single for the foreseeable future so doesn’t affect me but stay safe out there. May the odds be ever in your favor 🤟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:11 PM
27

Love this so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:08 PM
55

But who’s going to peel it for him? Think of his poor fingers /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:13 PM
6

Your poor mother 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:12 PM
25

That’s asking a lot of the porn-sick male population !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:33 PM
33

This is heartbreaking 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:14 PM
5

Ahhh I’m so excited for you !!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳 Cheers to the beginning of a beautiful new story 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:44 PM
21

Good lord, this takes the cake 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:41 PM
43

But who would hold his sippy cup for him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:39 PM
60

Can confirm, the bar industry has gone bankrupt and no longer producing bars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:38 PM
21

I 100% believe that you can do better and deserve better than that 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:34 PM
25

Where did the daughter mention that her dad was handicapped? You’re projecting your own situation onto the story to garner pity for some man you don’t know and that’s so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:34 PM
19

Incapable of change? Give it a rest 😩 I’ll give you a pass since you’re a newbie but you really really have to stop making excuses for men. It’s not a good look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:30 PM
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