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 REDDIT HATES WOMENUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:54 PM
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DISCUSSIONUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:20 AM
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LIES MEN TELLUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:57 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:30 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:46 AM
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How-To High ValueUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:53 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:45 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶UnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:40 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:26 PM
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LVM LOGICUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:49 PM
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NAH, SISUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:07 PM
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QUEEN SH*TUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:34 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:43 AM
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QUEEN SH*TUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:18 PM
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QUEEN SH*TUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:49 PM
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QUEEN SH*TUnstrirringCoffee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:40 PM
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I don't know what else to tell you. If you refuse to read my replies properly or attribute views to me that I have not expressed or could even be inferred from my words then further discussion is pointless. Your misinformed beef with radical feminism is not my problem nor my responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:41 PM
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1) & 2) are individual choices, IMO 3) There is a world of difference between personal hygiene and spending SOME time and effort on your appearance vs spending several dollars a month on makeup, a new outfit before every date, 3+ hours getting ready and thousands of dollars killing your skin receptors for the sake of appearances. I sometimes find the focus on appearance extreme on this sub. At this point I wonder if you are still leveling up or if you are just pandering to the male gaze. Even me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:46 AM
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I have seen this too many times. It makes me wonder if the vast majority of men are borderline abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:06 AM
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This brings back unpleasant memories. Working from home I don't have to listen to this BS. I dread going back to the office, even though I do like to be there a few days a week. Then I hear a conversation like this and I'd wish I'd be working exclusively from home again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:27 AM
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I get what you are saying. But to me it seems more a "if you can't beat em, join em" kind of strategy. It's the same thing as trying to use sexual objectification as a mean of "empowerment". It's like saying "if I am going to be objectified, I'd rather do it do myself." Sure, it gives you a feeling of control, but it is ultimately an illusion and it perpetuates a very dehumanising term term applied to the group you belong to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:56 PM
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Problem is that you can't take back a term you never owned. The N-word has not been repurposed. It's still very racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:56 PM
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I am a radfem and I support FDS, although titles like that do give me pause. I don't agree with everything FDS does and says. For example their complaints about not being supported by other subs they supported themselves and then turning around and dumping on Ovarit and treating them the same as other "female"/"feminist" have treated FDS. I find it highly hypocritical. Also lumping in Ovarit with femcels and wgtow. It needs to stop. It's incredibly ignorant of them. They have Gail Dines on one w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:26 PM
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He occasionally gets it right by accident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:23 PM
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I had never heard of JP Sears till now. Went to check out some of his videos. Wanna know about his misogyny? Check out "If men acted like pregnant women" This dude is a class-A scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:22 PM
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It definitely counts as cheating. They'd throw a fit if their wives acted like that. They know damn well it crosses a line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:37 AM
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Same thing for seafearers and the cheating already starts in college from what I hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:36 AM
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I would never date a contruction worker. The ones I've had to deal with over the years for work on my house are rude and inconsiderate. They don't seem to care that anyone actually lives here. They also don't respect appointments, are more often late than not and don't call to reschedule and then get mad when you have other commitments that don't suit them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:34 AM
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But it still literally means "female dog". It shouldn't be used for anything other than that purpose. Anything female should not be used as an insult, because we dimish our own existence when we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:32 AM
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Yeah, that's so weird. My parents would never show pictures from my childhood to my boyfriends. I've had, however, plenty of moms from the guys I was dating showing me pictures of their sons when they were little. So strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:18 AM
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I agree with the general sentiment, but I can't understand for the life of me why women keep using anti-woman slurs like "b*tch". Shouldn't we hold our use of language to certain standards as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:08 AM
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She needs a new husband too. What a prick. He could have kept the statue somewhere else, where she would not be con fronted with it every day or their children wouldn't see. Futhermore, if he loved her as much as he claimed surely there could be no problem creating a statue of her as she is now, with clothes on. He sounds shallow AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:14 AM
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It's a vicious cycle. Porn was created because they hate women. Because of porn they hate women more. The result: more violent porn and more women murdered by men in western countries for three straight years in a row.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:47 AM
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The Simpsons as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:31 AM
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I'll skip it then, Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:19 PM
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Maybe I'll read the comics instead. Would you recommend them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:39 PM
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I always hated how the women were always washing everyone's clothes and doing the cooking. What did the men do? Also, quite a few of the female characters could not protect themselves at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:02 PM
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Firstly, don't respond to trolls in your PM's. In fact it's better to turn off DM's altogether for the account you use for FDS. Secondly, if you are moving solely for the purpose of dating you are setting yourself up for failure and unhappiness. Sure, it can be part of the reasons you move, but you must like the city you move to, otherwise your whole happiness depends on a guy and that is giving even HVM too much power. A truly HVM would not want that and a LVM will only take advantage of it. Da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:43 AM
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I remember him from the Alias series (well worth watching). He played your stereotypical "nice guy" in it, but thankfully he does not end up Sydney. I also never want to see The Hangover or Silver Linings Playbook. I am not even sure why I don't want to see the last one. I hear it's very good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:18 AM
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It also bothers me that she does not even call her husband when she can't meet him for the dinner plans she made herself. That is not high value behavior. Ofcourse you may wonder why the husband is not making the plans. But either way, if you agree to plans you need to call if you can't make it at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:47 PM
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Really angry at Joe Biden. Afghanistan was never exactly a beacon of democracy. But the 2001 invation really destabilized the country. Now he is withdrawing troops without consulting other countries involved or the people those troops were somewhat protecting. It's such a dick move. "Yes, we came into your house and made a mess. Have fun cleaning it up." <-- Men towards women everywhere since the dawn of civilization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:58 AM
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It a man sees women as "vehicles to be acquired" then he will always be low effort and useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:34 AM
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Sorry, but I am an athiest. I refuse to have anything to do with patriarchal religions that keep women down. Part of the reason we women were robbed of the power we should have had is due to religious arguments that we are somehow "guilty", "unclean" and worth "less than a man". Patriarchy religion has cost and continues to cost millions of women their lives and has robbed even more of their spirit. I am glad you have found a childlike spark, but if you want to keep it patriarchal religions are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:25 AM
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I think all of Andy's friends were totally shitty and Nate the worst of them all. However, it does not excuse the nightmare of a boss that is Miranda. Her demands were often impossible, she only lives for her work. Her career had become dead-end. She could never hope to be anything more than Editor in Chief, while constantly having to do battle to maintain her position. A high value woman is more than her job. A high value woman balances all the important aspects of life, including family and lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:16 AM
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Once is an accident Twice is thoughtlessness Thrice is a pattern He is doing this on purpose. A man doesn't have to be rude to consistently undermine you. If I were you I'd stop wasting my energy on him and block and delete him on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:15 PM
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I am uncomfortable of thinking of ourselves as objects in any shape or form, because scrotes have been doing that for millenia. Instead I would say that without me there would be no table. Since many men don't even own a table this is accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:00 PM
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That's what I meant with sabotage. They create systems and make them essential for participating in modern day societies and then block women's access to those systems. Our "depencency" was only ever entirely artificial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:52 PM
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Women his age would never have him, because he has no value. That's why they prey on younger women who have not yet developed the life experience to recognise the BS. Sadly liberal femism teaches them that this kind of predatory behavior is perfectly acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:12 PM
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They also deliberately misread women's body language. I think it was a thing to consider a woman scratching her hand as a sign she "likes you". Bish, if I scratch my skin, it's because it's irritated. If a man causes that irritation, that's not exactly points in his favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:31 AM
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men aren’t a necessity anymore They never were and they know it. They just sabotaged our lives so much that living under a man's eye was for the vast majority of women the only option for survival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:32 AM
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OMG. What is it with guys and not having soap in the bathroom. It always annoyed me to no end. This is another bare minimum. Soap, a clean hand towel and a bin in the bathroom, because I am not walking my mentrual products through the house to throw them away anywhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:20 AM
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Well, it's no surprise he was a hypocrite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:38 PM
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Nothing wrong with grey hair that is healthy and well groomed. I find the silver color of geniune grey hair rather beautiful. It was even the fashion about a decade ago to die your hair grey. EDIT: I just googled "natural grey hair styles". I can recommend it. These women are gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:16 AM
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Wait what? He was a deadbeat dad? I never heard about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:17 AM
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I am not surprised. These bernie-bros threw chairs when they were not allowed to participate in closed primaries, which was entirely their own fault. If they had registred in time they could have. Bernie Sanders refused to tell them off. I think he was secretly enjoying the violence they caused on his behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:22 PM
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The comments are full of scrotes would either think she is a liar or that the story is not important enough to be "news". Yes, men attempting to murder us is not "news" to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:01 PM
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NLOG? Buffy, although I really liked the show, was also a bit of a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:34 AM
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Would it be possible to discuss leveling up your appearance without becoming obsessive about it? Whenever I focus more on my appearance I have a tendency to go overboard and start scrutinizing every square millimeter of my face and it hurts my self-esteem in the long run. How do you maintain balance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:44 AM
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Problem is that Bella is a really bad pickme. There is plenty to criticise about Twilight. Just because men don't like it either for different reasons does not mean it gets a pass. Plus, don't forget that it spawned 50 Shades too and those books did even more damage to women's self-esteem. I was absolutely horrified to learn that 10 year ago, women in their early twenties considered it good sex and good writing. While Twilight wasn't quite as bad in the quality of its writing, it had a big hand …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:32 AM
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Queen of Heaven and Earth by Enheduanna Lady of the Largest Heart by Enheduanna Women Who run with the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés Gyn/Ecology by Mary Daly The Creation of Patriarchy by Gerda Lerner The Book of the City of Ladies by Christine de Pizan I don't what you are looking for exactly, but this is off the top of my head. These are either religious or are about religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:44 AM
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Nobody beats the market. They just get lucky for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:07 PM
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I think it's important to have conversations with them and to teach them to be critical of media. Ask them what they see and what message they think it sends and why. Kids can be damn sharp and will often notice more than adults think if we are only willing to listen to them and take their concenrs seriously. I think that's what I was missing from my own childhood. Whenever I saw something on TV that or in real life that didn't make sense I wanted to know why things are the way they are. But I o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:45 PM
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Definitely don't ask him. It was a hypothetical question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:58 AM
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Don't you have to get that vaccine before you are 26?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:56 AM
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Agreed, plus there is barely any effort in just sending money. He doesn't have to think about what you would like. He doesn't have to plan and organise anything. This is like the guy who was suppose to organise a cleaning service for his wife's birthday, but he just wanted to order a gift from Amazon for her instead. All because he did not like putting in effort for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:22 PM
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You're right. I had not understood the intention of your post. I took it to mean that both men's as well as women's attention and time is equally valuabe. I think that's how it should but, but it's not the world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:14 PM
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I am not sure I agree. Men's attention and time is abundent. They will give it to any woman who might be open to have sex with him. Men will even spend hours obsessing over this sub. I think their time and attention could be valuable, if they didn't give it away so readily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:05 AM
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If you asked him, would he say no? Not trying to be negative. I, myself, am terrible at picking up vibes, but I also know some men are perfectly fine with being friends, but would not say no to a fling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:03 AM
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Yup, exactly. I think most women hate the public proposal. It puts you on the spot and forces you to consider something he has has weeks, if not months, to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:53 AM
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But how do you know that one friend does not hang around for sex at some point? Or do you know for a fact he is not attracted to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:15 AM
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I don't follow. What do you mean? EDIT:. Lol nvm. I get what you are referrring to. In that case I wonder why they waste their time with dating apps at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:13 AM
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She has given him every opportunity to make things for "equal" by letting him buy half the house or getting a new place together and he says he won't do that. So him not liking paying "rent" is a bullshit excuse to live entirely off of her efforts and money so that in a few years he can retire and divorce her. She is his mealticket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:21 PM
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It's even in the film "Liberated". They asked these scrotes what qualities they looked for in the girls they hook up with, and he said: "She was easy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:44 PM
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So is this a thing that guys do now, deliberately canceling the first date in the hopes of getting you to want them more? I guess it's just as likely they found someone they liked more and wanted to date them instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:55 PM
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I am in Europe and unfortunately I have experienced the same. Men don't want to be friends. They will only ever befriend you because they think sex might at some point happen, even if it is years down the line. The only difference is that they are less brazen about it than US men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:28 PM
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Too many details in the first few sentences already. Block and delete and simplify your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:59 AM
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This guy is dangerous and I hope his poor GF will realize this soon and run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:56 AM
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Great! Being with a man literally shortens a woman's lifespan. Ladies, I don't know about you, but I am staying single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:35 AM
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I think in this situation I would have just left. The guy was rude, but so was your friend. You were out together and this stranger and her just completely shut you out of the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:32 AM
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In part it will also be in their DNA and the fact that men don't age as well as women do. There were a few years in college where I treated my body quite badly and I still looked young for my age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:27 AM
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If this job is legit, he'll likely not even get an interview, or if he does fall flat on his face when faced with any sort of technical questions. If the job is not legit and the employer doesn't know what they are doing, then I say they deserve to get scammed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:00 PM
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BS. Violent crimes against men have been steadily trending downwards. Not so for women, though. For us the violence and murder rates have been increasing in the past couple of years. Feminism is the response to the increasing risks we have to take in order to interact with men. EDIT: It's also the men we date that pose the highest risk to our safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:25 AM
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I think the majority of men hold at least a portion of these views, if not most of these views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:12 AM
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I'd make an exception for films such as Persepolis, which I can highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:24 PM
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Men who can't appreciate art about and/or created by women. I ceased to be interested in men who can't name any female authors they have read or don't watch any movies or shows with female leads, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:52 PM
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That box at the end makes me think this is an ad or an influencer video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:41 AM
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So now I am watching documentaries about lobsters. Fascinating. Edit: I am also trying to find out which crustaceans mate for life, but Google is coming up empty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:30 PM
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I wasn't comparing the two. But are we absolutely certain that the mom simply handed over her child? The mom from the other story will likely end up looking bad as well. Often times there is abuse involved of the mother as well as the child. I am reluctant to blame moms for failing to protect their children. It could she didn't care, but it could be equally possible she did not know how to stop it. We are all raised as pickme's. I too have been guilty of thinking and saying that women "owe" a me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 10:48 AM
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What is it with Peterson and lobsters? I don't get the connection. All I can say about lobsters is not to bother them. They will attack you if you get in their face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:15 AM
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Also rejection. Many men accused the women who rejected them of "witchcraft".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:34 AM
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The same is true for every marginalized group. They more privilege you have the less likely you are to get sentenced and if you do get sentenced, the sentence is likely to be less. This can be seen in prisons throughout the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:32 AM
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Just this week there was a post on Reddit from a mother who had to hand over her kids three days a week to her self-professed pedophile ex. She was even ordered by the judge not to warn the poor girls they would be in danger. How can women protect their children under these circumstances? Many lose custody if they try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:29 AM
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Clearly they have never dealt with a Rottweiler. They don't love unconditionally. You really need to earn their trust and keep it, lest they decide you're the intruder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:37 PM
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They are like coackroaches, they'll survive nuclear fallout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:17 PM
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I couldn't finish it. None of it is news to me, but it's hard to watch all the same. I felt particularly sorry for that little girl of the first guy. He shouldn't be a father trying to take her freedom away for the girl is even off age. What a coward!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:16 PM
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I wonder that if it comes to criticism, if that also applies to criticism of separate behaviors. Such saying "that probably wasn't very wise" as opposed to labeling the whole person as an "idiot". It it any kind of criticism, or specific kind of criticism that belongs to this horseman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:02 AM
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Women are required to always frame every interaction with men within the context of possible violence. This is so true. I am often not even conciously aware of it, but there is always this uneasy feeling in the back of my mind when I interact with men (especially when I don't know them that well) and I am in a vulnerable position, however slightly. This goes away with time. Although, that's likely even more dangerous as most women and girls are attacked by men they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:23 AM
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This is so insidious. I felt the same way. I felt like I owed the guy in some way. In fact the majority of the world feels that way that if a guy does something nice, you should do something "nice" in return and that thing is usually sex. There are so many ways in which we women are guilttripped and cajoled into doing things for men we don't to do. Gavin de Becker in The Gift of Fear talked about this aswell. He says predators use small unsollicited acts of "kindness" to build up credit on which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:07 AM
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I told my partner that in MAJORITY of custody cases, the man wins or gets his way, and he immediately didn't believe it... Ugh, is this not a giant red-flag to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:10 PM
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The message is also discouraging women from having children, or if they do to go it alone. Because with a male partner they can't protect them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:06 PM
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Be aware there are some nasty rumors about Joe trying to pressure her into having kids early on in their marriage. However, it's a rumor so I don't know how much of it is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:36 PM
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There are other places, but no longer on Reddit. It is good to have a backup plan in case this sub gets shutdown as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:30 PM
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I was wondering about some of the red pill rethoric I saw in certain comments. I wondered if these posters really believed it. It didn't even occur to me they could have been men who have slipped through the net. However, with the number of members increasing it should not have surprised me. Thanks for the warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:23 PM
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I only know first one, but I want to read the others aswell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:45 PM
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I feel sorry for them though. I think they are getting the worse deal out of it. Anna Nicole never inherited anything and was forced to go back into prostitution after spending years as arm-candy to a repulsive, walking corpse. Melania has to spend her days with a disgusting orange blob, who can't even string two sentences together and is likely heading for financial ruin, dragging her and her child with him. These women were sold a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:06 AM
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Hear, hear! It was never a question of women being good enough for men, but about men being good enough for women. Even if we lived in a matriarchy there are biological sacrifices women make in relationships that men will never have to worry about, so they had better bring something to the table to even the score.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:00 AM
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You should also check out The Book of The City of Ladies by Christine de Pizan. It came out in 1405.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:49 AM
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Add to this: Being high behind the wheel or even smoking (anything) in the car. Also, unwilling to pick you up from the train station or refusing get you out of jam when something unexpected happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:04 AM
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I have given up on dating altogether. How I deal with it is by realizing that it's good to try and achieve your goals, but we do not get to have everything we want in life, despite our best efforts. Not getting certain things you want does not decrease your value in any way. This is especially true where your goals/dreams are depended on other people. You can't control other people's actions, you can only control your own. However, you do not have to keep people in your life who detract from it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:47 PM
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I love rotties. They are fiercely loyal and you have to earn their trust. I used to volunteer at a shelter and every Rottweiler there was memorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:39 AM
61

Even worse, he throws the tampon in the toilet. I have seen that excerpt too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:57 PM
178

These women are expecting Christian Grey, but I’ve never met a tall/dark/handsome dom. Every self proclaimed “dom” I have ever met, was a gross misogynistic loser. Who is taking out his years of rejection out on a much younger woman with false expectations. But doesn't that describe Christian Grey? He is much older than she is and he does hate women. What he looks like is immaterial. He is a trash human being. I remember being at a birthday party and I was talking to a few women in their early t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:27 PM
1

These looks really interesting. I can't wait to check them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:17 AM
51

That respect only existed for as long as the woman had no ambition of her own. It was also easier for men to control their wives as it was written in the law. Women had to take oit credit cards in their husband names, therefore with their husband's permission, could get a bank account with a husband or father signing the paperwork, had to submit to sex whenever a guy wanted it and were often fired when they married or got pregnant. With women being legally dependent on men, ofcourse it was easy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:09 AM
14

Adoption is a mixed bag at best. Children are literally stolen from their parents for the adoption market. If you want to adopt or foster, foster a child with special needs. They are usually overlooked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:48 AM
4

I would have chosen a different field of study and focused on tech from the get-go, perhaps electrical engineering. I would have kept working and not be so honest with employers about my sometimes uncertain class schedule. I would have switched colleges so as to avoid night lectures. I would have kept up much better with exercise. I would have put my own physical and mental well-being before anything and anyone else. I would have listened to my body and my mind and learned my limits much earlier…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:28 PM
5

Sheez, if you're going to have standards with regards to looks, you should at least be able to meet them yourself. Second dude, criticizing the first, way hotter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:59 AM
83

But if men are supposed to be “leaders” and “providers” how did we end up here? It's the epitome of capitalist patriarchy, create the problem and then sell yourself as the solution to the victims. Men have created a dangerous world in which women have fewer economic opportunities. Men then sell themself (and make no mistake the price for us is high) as "provider" and "protector" as a "solution" to the shit they created for us in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:06 PM
13

I have no idea how much money he has in his savings or checking account — and to be honest, I don’t want to know. It’s also none of my business how much is on his credit card or how many cards he has Bad move, sis. His credit score affects yours because you are married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:40 AM
75

These scrotes are conveniently forgetting that he also k*lled his children. I guess they haven't found a way to blame them so they don't mention this. Sheez, they'll find any excuse for their misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:49 PM
4

So awesome to hear Gail Dines on the podcast. Also, I am freaking excited you guys want to expand this. With how fast FDS is growing I would not be surprised there are plenty of takers. I definitely would like to have the handbook on my bookshelf and others. Well, I already got the FDS Handbook on my bookshelf, but looking forward to buying the official version.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:23 PM
3

No, I mean the guy who is part of her friends group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:12 PM
12

Her father seems okay and her gay-friend as well. I forgot his name though. He is supportive of Andy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:48 PM
86

I don't like Nate either. That said, I feel like Nate is an asshole and so are her friends. However, that does not excuse Miranda. Not remembering the names of the people who work for you is rude. It's not OK to demand the impossible, such as being flown out of a place in a hurricane and getting mad when that isn't happening. It is not okay to make your employees work 12 hour days 7 days a week and for shit pay to boot. Miranda is a nightmare boss. That Andy manages to do well has more to do wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:45 PM
11

If a boy bullies a girl is supposedly means "he likes her". Eff that noise. Boys only bully girls in front of their male friends. They like the applause they get from their buddies, but they have no regard for their female victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:54 PM
69

It's not even about "allowing". If he is even okay with doing this he gets blocked and deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:27 AM
71

Agreed. I have never given birth, but even just the idea of throwing a baby in the river is abhorrent and I don't even like children all that much. I can't understand how any normally functioning adult could even consider doing that to a baby. At least abort, if you don't want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:59 AM
6

If you hate that one definitely don't watch "Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On" There is one episode called "Love Me Tinder" that deals with the same topic, but paints an even darker picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:18 AM
51

I think it's called Swiped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:34 PM
14

This made me smile. Thanks for posting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:48 AM
2

I'd say that any kink that involves violence and/or humiliation is a character flaw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:40 AM
76

They don't even have to post their selfies on Reddit, if they post it on any SM site men will hassle them. Heck you don't even have to post selfies at all. Men will creepily takes your pics in public and post them online. Scrotes gonna scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:46 AM
14

I would so totally next this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:20 PM
283

I felt sick reading this. WTF is wrong with men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:07 PM
151

Seriously, what the hell. Men disgust me more and more each day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:06 PM
4

I felt relieved. Now that don't carry that anger inside of me anymore and am able to outnit behind me and get on witj other matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:39 AM
166

Word. As long as we are living in a "pick-yourself-up-by-the-bootstraps", neo-liberalist dystopia bringing a child into this world that cannot fend for itself at some point is to condemn them to a life of poverty. It's simply cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:53 PM
19

Maybe we should also have a FHS Female Health Strategy sub. Doesn't have to be just about abortion, we can also share tips on how to deal with periods/menopause/PCOS, building muscle as a woman, vetting for good healthcare providers/insurance, how to recognize signs of heart disease in women, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:53 PM
8

Exactly. We have "eQUalItY", but ony when it's convenient for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:31 PM
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If we could diagnoses diabetes and PCOS by looking at body shapes, what would we need doctors for? This would mean there is a risk of women with less abdominal fat to get misdiagnosed if they do have diabetes or PCOS. Just because B follows A, does not mean A causes B. Also, if you are going to claim this is well documented, I'd like to see which sources you are referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:32 AM
9

I have a follow up. He called me again that afternoon. I told him to his face that I work very hard for the knowledge I need to do my job well and that I have little patience with someone who seems reluctant to do the same. I also told him that I don't care how things were at his previous workplace and that every workplace is different. I did inform my boss though. He sided with me, thankfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:27 AM
22

I would so ghost some of them if I could. I do cut them off more quickly than before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:26 PM
78

Bogus. Your shape says nothing about your fertility. Plus, many men find heavily pregnant women "ugly" and childbirth even more so. Unfortunately, if a man has a lot of resources he likely "stole" it by working his subordinates to death, see Jeff Bezos. Many competent men will be financially comfortable, without being rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:37 PM
22

It's for his orgasm, not hers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:31 PM
61

What is it with male coworkers expecting their female coworkers to solve their problems for them? I got a request from a male coworker for a meeting. The request contained all of two words, no list of invitees and no agenda or goal whatsoever. I sent him a disgruntled reply saying that his email contained no actionable items. He calls me and gives me the same sob story about not knowing how to handle an issue that got dumped on his plate that another male coworker refused to handle and how thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:49 AM
13

I think the idea just never occured to her. I think your mom will get their in the end if you keep talking to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:55 AM
32

Totally agree. I want to make a list of things to celebrate being single. - Getting your own place - Going on a solo vacation - Starting a solo business -? Yeah, I am already out of ideas. ​ Edit: - Dumping a LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:47 AM
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Agreed. It's also in line with some recent posts I saw on this sub about snooping/vetting. Just reading all the extra steps you have to take to ensure your man is not up to any shady shit left me feeling exhausted. By all means keep your eyes open, but don't waste too much energy on a guy when you already have suspicions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:44 AM
37

Exactly. That's what the 70s feminsts were all about. They never spoke about "equality" either. They always used the term liberation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:32 AM
25

There is no such thing as a "beta" or an "alpha". These theories have long been debunked. Redpillers still like to use them though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:29 AM
3

Same. If you feel the need to snoop you already know he aint the one. A HVM would never give you a reason to be suspicous. If you can't date without suspicion due to trauma from a past relationship, you need to work on that first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:53 AM
1

Is it really horrible? I am not looking forward to it, but I so want to be done with my periods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:01 PM
18

It used to be called women's studies. I think they should call it that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:27 PM
21

Don't blame yourself. You hadn't heard of it before. I would say your self-esteem is pretty well in hand. You reacted like anyone with a healthy level of self-esteem would do who is unfamiliar with these kinds of deliberate manipulation tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:19 AM
31

I hope she took him to the doctor afterwards. Suddenly not being able to stand is a serious signs that would warrant a 911 call. If they want to cry "wolf!" they can face the consequences too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:14 AM
10

If you doubt him, I think that's you're mind telling you he aint the one. Trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:58 AM
21

I don't understand the video on the right. What is she pointing at when she turns away from the door?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:55 AM
53

The fact that this even needs to be said really pisses me off. They know. The law just lets them get away with forcing women into situations they don't want to be. THEY KNOW! THEY KNOW! THEY KNOW! They just vein ignorance as a get-out-of-jail-free card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:38 AM
16

Let's bring back the hollaback sites. Name and shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:45 PM
18

Sadly, many replies to the comment are porn-defenders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:47 AM
5

They do that anyway. There are plenty of women still in the clutches of these scrotes and they will rape anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:37 PM
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I quit dating two years ago. I do not miss the the STD- or pregnancy risks. It's peaceful. I don't think I'll ever consider dating again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:38 PM
13

I think the red-flag is telegram in combination with other types of apps. IF it's just Telegram I would think nothing of it. I have used it in the past as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:09 AM
3

This is a good list. Thanks for sharing, Are there also lists on current popular media to watch out for, such as: music, series and movies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:04 AM
1

You probably built up an idealized version of him in your head to deal with the betrayals. That's who you are in love with, not the person he really is. It's fine to feel the way you feel. You have some healing to do. However, that won't happen if he is still in your life. Block & Delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:01 PM
13

But not with sexual abuse and violating the rights of his employees. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:19 AM
6

Yeah, and boys learn that behavior from so called "real men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:04 AM
5

Sucks you have to move. Could the landlord just not extend his lease He sounds crazy and dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:01 AM
22

In school, having all my buttons pushed till I get angry and then cry. Then, ofcourse, I am blamed for "being hysterical". I have been in so many situations where I felt trapped and then have my resulting emotions weaponized against me. Sad part is that it was women and girls doing this as often as men and boys. Glad my childhood is behind me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:53 AM
10

You have nothing you need to forgive yourself for. We are raised from birth to accept this behavior. What counts is what you do once you learn the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:40 AM
22

Exactly and abortions could be performed in hospitals as they should. It's not a complicated procedure and with a bit of training any gynecologist could do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:38 AM
5

Nah, they just worry that they lose the ability to control us. They do not fear our control, because they know it won't be that bad for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:28 AM
15

This brings back unpleasant memories from a former job. Having to listen to men talking about women or hitting me with "trick" questions about semi-politcal/personal topics which would cause a lose-lose sitation for me. There was no way for me to answer them without ending up on the defensive and not answering them was also not an option, because I was literally stuck with them in the same space due do my job responsibilities. I can't even count the times they were freezing me out. Back then I t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:27 AM
50

Men should be sterilized by default and get a judge's approval to have it undone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:00 AM
52

Agreed, but I feel too many women get labeled ugly that really are just average looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:08 PM
42

They were not ugly, just plain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:31 PM
10

The bits and pieces of radical feminist theory sprinkled throughout and how you can apply it to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:11 AM
24

...a man who reads PlayBoy 'for the articles' I had one of those. Total porn-sick weasel ofcourse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:17 AM
5

I think you may have fallen into the clutches of an intelligent narc. Red flags there would be difficult to spot for anyone, even experts. These men are rare, but very dangerous. Sorry you had to live through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:33 AM
4

I'd say, don't "give p*ssy" ever. You genitals are for you to enjoy alone or with a man who is into good sex, not a reward for good behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:23 PM
26

Agreed. You did not screw up, they did and you cut them loose once you saw it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:18 PM
18

I what also keep seeing more is this line: "Consent is sexy." I so hate that phrase. No, consent is the bare minimum requirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:00 PM
8

Make sure to celebrate. In fact celebrate this day every year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:22 AM
6

They showed me that scene (and only that scene) in highschool. :-( . I felt sick afterwards and wanted to go home. What the hell was that teacher thinking? barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:02 AM
8

That and Westworld. The moment I heard about the rapes I wasn't gonna watch it. I tried Witcher, but the moment they got to that tower with all the naked women in the garden I noped the f*ck out of that one too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:55 AM
8

Thank you for posting this. I am a firm believer in living a healthy life-style either way, but I also come from a family of fatties. For most of my life I have managed to keep to keep the weight down, although that was mostly through crash diets and alternating between fasting and binging, because food just became an obsessions during puberty. I don 't know why, but I started feeling constantly hungry although I never had that problem before. After I had stopped dieting I gained the weight real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:15 AM
71

Right? When they got married she was 24 and he 32. I wonder how old she was when they met. The dude is vile. I hope she divorces his ass. She'll be much happier for it. He's a deadbeat for sure. If he had enough energy to focus on her looks he was not putting in enough time taking care of the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:43 AM
21

I get what you're and they definitely deserve it. However, have you ever heard of this saying: “For the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house. They may allow us to temporarily beat him at his own game, but they will never enable us to bring about genuine change." (Audre Lorde) Personally I'd rather not lower myself to the despicable tactics that men employ in this low value system we live in called 'Patriarchy'. I'd like to get to a society where, as Renee Engeln says (https://w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:00 AM
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This is a trap. He basically asking you to explain your humanity and right to dignity to him. He was, however, never going to agree with you. Arguing about your human rights is emtionally taxing for you, while for him it's merely a thought experiment since his rights are not under attack either in this particular example or out there in the wider world. Next time cut someone like this off and walk away. Your rights are not up for debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:36 AM
22

Did this 50/50 originated in Holland? I have always wondered why they call going "going Dutch".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:43 PM
33

My answer hypothetical would be: "Nothing, because it's not a table at which I want a seat." My real answer: Leave on read, then block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:13 AM
84

Oh, they'll do something. They make a mess and leave it for you to clean up. I really wish all they did is sit there. That would not even be a burden, then it would make no difference if they were there or not. But they add to your burden, without giving you anything in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:42 PM
2

I think so, but I don't know off of the top of my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:26 PM
3

You could reference it with Right Wing Women by Dworkin to see how much of it still holds up. I would not be surprised if it was still a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:23 PM
9

Please tell me you will turn this into a book eventually, because I would love to read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:56 PM
25

Ha, perfect timing. I just responded to a post on a cat sub where a woman was concerned that her cat might not get along with her boyfriend's cats when she would move in with him. Initially I didn't even see it was about cats, because she is 28 and he is 41. WTH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:00 PM
35

The fact that it popped up in your feed is encouraging though. Sometimes things need time to go viral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:27 PM
95

The article is from 2016. It's a shame it has not made much of a splash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:01 PM
76

Men are perfectly capable of seeing layers and complexity, but they choose not to. The hatred is over the fact that we exist in large numbers. The oppressors hate and fear the oppressed, because revolt is always an option. Look at what happened during the French Revolution? The oppressor knows that they could meet a similar fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:23 AM
75

It's an epidemic of pickmes. We live in a libfem dystopia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:06 AM
84

How much do you want to bet that his messages consisted of something like: "Hi there." or "How are you doing?" When I still did OLD those were a dime a dozen and after the first few I did not bother responding to those anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:00 AM
1

Change all your passwords, which is easier to do with a password manager, because you have a list of all your accounts. But in either case, always enable 2-factor authentication. Makes hacking nearly impossible and never click links in your email.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:20 PM
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Be Our Pondati: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARWwmOsGZGw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:35 AM
2

This is why it's important to use a password manager. This way you can have complex and unique passwords on all your accounts and you only have to remember one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:41 AM
5

This is rape. How is this not already illegal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:13 PM
16

I get what you're saying, but when they start yelling at babies in the process I don't find it so funny anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:36 PM
7

That's so awesome. I used to tried and and join all-female groups, but there were very few and the ones I found were not very active. What do you play if I may ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:34 PM
19

From what I hear, most of his former girlfriends were much younger than he is. I am pretty sure it's a pattern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:32 PM
19

I feel sorry for that woman. He is totally a scrote. Remember when he paid some guys on fiverr to sprout n*zi-propaganda? These guys did not even speak English and propably did not understand what they were paid to do. There was a bunch of other sick-sh*t he pulled, but I forgot what it was. It's doesn't matter either. Men worship other LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:31 PM
7

Try Duckduckgo next time. It'll give you text search results which are decidedly safer. The description still made me feel sick though. Men are gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:25 PM
7

Ewwww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:24 PM
15

He wouldn't the first guy who tries to f*ck his cousin. Unfortunately I knew men who tried this shit. It's gross, but they just don't care. One female body is as good for them as another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:20 PM
0

Wait, he tatooed his own name in his chest? I missed that part, but then again I found the whole video to be a bit off-putting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:50 AM
28

It's say it's the bare minimum. Please, do not compliment guys on things they should be doing of their own accord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:16 AM
6

There are a lot of scrotes out there who felt that Bella should have "rewarded" Jacob with a relationship because he was "so nice". Think That Guy with the Glasses Doug Walker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:04 AM
6

I hate this channel though. These guys are so smug and lecturing. They focus less on the material and more on their own words. I have seen better analyses of the relationship dynamics in Twilight from other Youtube channels and particularly from female Youtubers. I watched part of the Toxic Positivity from Inside Out video and I just had to turn it off. They are not wrong in that the movie does a great exploration of the subject, I just which it was done by a different channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:01 AM
28

No, they aren't. Not when they are calling ab*rtion "m*rder". Not when they claim to have women's best interests at heart while at the same time making life impossible for women. Neither conservative men, nor progressive men are women's allies. Here is what Andrea Dworkin had to say about the subject: ​ The difference between left-wing and right-wing when it comes to women is only about where exactly on our necks their boots should be placed. To right-wing men, we are private property. To left-w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:51 AM
15

The opposite is true. Justifying and excusing men getting off on depictions of violent hate-speech and sexualized violence against women makes you insecure. Demanding respect and not accepting anything less is where confidence is at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:40 AM
41

I think it also plays into the concept of men hurting a woman and getting off on it. It's totally a porn-trope. Men who are into this are psychopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:21 AM
10

Exactly! Plus, posting it on social media makes it perfomative. It's such a pickme think to do to fawn of every single nice thing a man does. A simple thank you will suffice. Furthermore, the same goes for him. If she cooks him a meal a thank you will suffice. I notice women thank men a lot more for cooking than the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:20 AM
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We had a term for that on a forum way back. It was called "fresh manly wisdom". Men think their opinions are soooooo important. They can't handle it when we don't want to hear them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:14 AM
1

Yeah, is using arguments very selectively. We are whatever men need us to be in certain moments. Too weak to fend for ourselves, but strong enough to birth babies and take care of them and the household. Too disorganised to run a company, but perfectly organised to run our own lives and everyone else's. Not capable of enduring pain and therefore useless as soldiers and capable of handling pain better than men so we can give birth and tolerate men beating us. Depending on the situation we are eit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:08 AM
1

I am fine with guys being a little less attractive than this, but at least they are capable of adulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:04 AM
20

They multitask just fine at work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:41 PM
16

Why don't we see the rest of his house? Is he actually clean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:38 AM
54

I wonder if "chaotic" is just another sexist term voor: ​ "She is so busy and stressed and overworked, because he can't be bothered to get his lazy ass away from his playstation long enough to pull his own weight around the house."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:12 AM
84

This isn't even wife shit. A HVM will have his finances together so that he can afford a decent car with the savings he already has. This is more like parent-child dynamics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:08 AM
26

For crying out loud. If parents match their children's savings or an employer matching a 401, is one thing. But she is acting like his mom. This is gross and he needs to grow the eff up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:05 AM
3

It's an interview with someone from the Kinsey Institute. There are quotes from people with fetishes, particularly men. And it almost immediately hinted at pedophilia. It made me sick and I had to turn it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:04 PM
9

This had me snorting my tea all over my keyboard. I'm stealing this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:59 AM
17

Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:45 AM
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Gail Dines has some great talks on this topic and uses Miley Cyrus and Britney Spears as examples. I saw the recent Britney documentary and there people calimed it was all her own idea and nobody told her what to do. But they don't know what went on behind closed doors and how much hinting and cajoling is done by media execs and her own parents to "make her understand" that it's the only way to prominance for female artists. Plus, she was only a teenager at the time. Gail Dines has said many tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:39 AM
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Are you a member of a union? If you need legal advice unions are the way to good. Their lawyers are usually pretty good. If you are not a member you should join asap. They may even have student discounts, many unions do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:30 AM
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This is good advice. I want to second everything in this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:27 AM
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I once rejected a guy for a date and he asked why. I told him "because you failed to entertain me so far." I really should have just blocked and deleted him, because he was mad as hell and I felt at the time I had gone too far. But he did ask and d I was honest with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:19 AM
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OMG. I just checked out the first one on the list, which is called "Fantasies and Fetishes". I am only two minutes in and it's as bad as you imagine this subject to be. Sorry, but this is not a podcast I'll be following, though she is right on about that tik tok message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:48 AM
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It starts with how the tabacco industry deliberately misled people by flooding scientific publications with studies that either redirected people's focus or tried to make the harmful effects seem minimal. She then continues with how women were pushed out of medical science since the 18th century and how medical texts either hid or denied women's contributions or outright stole their knowledge, because many women could not read or write.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:14 PM
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So right off the bat I see two red-flags in the first paragraph: "...immediately invited me out on a Friday night with his (mixed gender) friends. I told him it was too late notice to drive an hour and go drinking with strangers. ..." This screams attempt at merely a hookup. Also, why were his friends there? Were they there to evaluate you? You don't know this guy and it was way too soon to be meeting his friends. "...pick any spot that weekend that I felt comfortable with..." He should have bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:57 PM
5

"...works for his mom.." = he does chores for pocket money, like he is a 12 year old. I can't think of anything more unattractive in a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:42 PM
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But she is not taking control. She is turning her sexuality into a performance for male viewing pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:01 PM
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"Then why didn't you say so?" "You are so bossy (or something worse)."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:02 PM
33

Carrie was totally a placeholder girlfriend. In Paris he meets a woman and gets engaged to her within a couple of months of dating. This woman is also significantly younger than he is. And then he ends up cheating on her with Carrie. Mr. Big is the quintessential LVM. The fact that he has money and dresses well, is only the veneer that hides how much he isn't worth any woma's time. And personally, I don't think he is physically attractive, but maybe that's just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:03 PM
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She backtracked on the Google results, but what about the increased calls to domestic violence hotlines and the increased number of women murdered by their male partners in recent years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:57 AM
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Uhm, I have a bit of a problem with this. According to the story the prince is like13 when he turns an old woman away. And he was right not to trust the stranger, because she cursed him and his entire castle. The visuals don't match up, but I don't see this as an adult man sneering at an unattractive woman, but a boy not trusting a strange adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:43 AM
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Regardless of what we look like we are forever compared to the women we are standing next to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:15 AM
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Some of the responses are worth reading. Many are telling them (even guys) that a lot of women don't want to date men who are going to be a burden to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:55 AM
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Someone in that comment section pointed out that years ago people were swooning over this and today it makes women barf. Progress! We will get rid of pickme-culture at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:59 PM
34

The shortest relationships I've had were where I asked the guy. The longest relationships I've had is where he was pursuing me. These relationships were still not high value, but heaps better than my shortest relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:05 AM
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What power? Did any men ever promote a woman to the highest position he could offer because she was having sex with him? I call BS. At best it got her some money and single promotion. It did not actually get her any power. What's more "leveraging" sex in order to survive just means women submitted to men, because the alternative was worse. Some leverage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:01 AM
5

Force some transparency on Google? That's all I can think of. They need to be tighter regulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:22 AM
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That happens when they don't want to sleep with you. They also know that you can't warn the women they do want to sleep with, because these women will not believe you. I've been there. They really only care about other men and not us. They will only pretend to be nice and self-sensor around women they hope to eventually talk into bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:32 AM
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My coworkers described women as being susceptible to vibrations and energy That sounds like some Law of Attraction type of BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:31 AM
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I had a feeling men were getting worse towards women, but now I have the numbers to prove it. I sure as hell am staying single for the rest of my life. At least this greatly reduces my chances of getting raped and/or murdered. Edit: I just typed the following into Youtube: "Are men becoming more violent toward women" Wanna venture a guess what videos Youtube found based on this search? "Evidence" of that women are supposedly more violent toward men than the other way around. I can't believe this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:13 AM
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My views on surrogacy is that's it's prostitution on steroids. It puts the women who have to undergo the surrogacy at such a high risk of death and complications and it colonizes their bodies for 9 months and sometimes more. It is abhorrent and another form of modern slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:08 AM
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I rambled too, but it's good your are in a position where you can negotiate this with your boss. I suggest coming up with a policy of your own, communicate it to your boss and tell them it's for productivity and boundaries, which it is. That way you can deal with it on your own without these douche-nozzles disrupting your work or your private life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:57 AM
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Yeah, a year or two ago I swipped Gizmodo and Lifehacker for The Verge. But I think I'll go with other tech sites who actually focus on tech and are not mouthpieces for the manospshere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:53 AM
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This is very concerning. Why is your boss expecting you to receive DM's 24/7? That's totally unreasonable. I second turning off notifications when you are not on the clock. Or perhaps turn them off all together and look at the DM's a specific times of the day, so they do not interrupt other tasks. Only answer questions that are valid. Just mute and don't answer irrelevant stuff. They'll give up soon enough and if they don't just block. If your boss asks why tell them they are keeping you from he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:29 PM
16

The Verge trash-talked FDS? I will have to stop reading it then. Damn I thought it was a respectful publication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:27 PM
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Agreed. If it is love bombing, he won't be able to keep it up. Keep vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:46 PM
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I wish I could take credit for it, but certain systems are already in existence in some of the nordic countries. I. just expended on it as I also want men to take the last two months off for when pregnancy is at its most difficult. But you are right. Having men and women take the same number of days at the same time would do a great deal to leveling the playing field between men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:16 AM
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Exactly you should also be able to enjoy those moments when you first get to see the results of your nine-months-long efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:16 PM
11

It also gives me dystopian nightmares where we are just life-support vessels, not just for babies, but also for our jobs and by extention the companies and economies that rely on our labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:10 PM
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Don't feel bad. Your sense of self-preservation kicked in and saved you from potential violence. However you got out of that situation doesn't matter. You don't owe creepy and potentially dangerous men the truth. Do whatever you need to do to feel safe and you don't have to feel ashamed or guilty about it. You acted in your own best interest and that is always the right thing to do. Personally I think you did the right thing. I have used the boyfriend-line in the past as well. I don't care if it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:40 PM
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Sorry but no. I am sick of this thing where women have to pretend that childbirth is no big deal. What if she's had to have a c-section? She would have been under aenesthesia and not awake to be able to work. Suppose there were complications during her pergnancy that would have her on bedrest weeks prior to giving birth? Would that make her any less awesome or any less of a queen? No! This woman is awesome with or without her ability to work through childbirth. Edit: I want to see the reverse, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:01 PM
6

Haha, I hadn't even noticed. Thank you. One year on Reddit. Not sure how to feel about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:47 AM
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Has she been picked yet? I guess not, otherwise she would had joined this sub already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:42 AM
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She even gave him a link to the ring she wanted and he still bungled it this badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:39 AM
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"Devil's advocate" is the equivalent of slinging an insult someone's way and trying to pass it off as a "joke" when the target of that insult gets angry. Personally I don't believe there is such a thing as "devil's advocate". It's a coward's way of arguing a position they actually hold that they know is unpopular or even outright offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:48 PM
3

I wore baggy clothes as a teenager too. I had barely started to grow breasts and I was already getting so much shit from the boys in my class. It made me feel really self-concious. Now that I think about it, baggy clothes is what quite a few girls in my class wore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:42 PM
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I think the male gaze is one of the causes, but not in the way men think. Controlling what you eat and not "having curves" has more to do with escaping objectification than inviting it. Though I could be wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:47 PM
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Chech the sidebar of this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:39 PM
4

There is more to life than being/feeling feminine. I'd pick being safe over arbitrary gender-standards any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:37 PM
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I am not so sure about that. Remember what Jennifer Lawrence said about her ex-bf when his phone got hacked and her nudes leaked? ​ "... I was in a loving, healthy, great relationship for four years. It was long distance, and either your boyfriend is going to look at porn or he's going to look at you.” ​ Jennifer Lawrence - Vanity Fair - 2014
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:33 PM
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Thank you for sharing. I guess "thank" Vice as well for opening women's eyes, eventhough it is the opposite of what they had intended to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:25 PM
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I got the most "attention" in my life from men when I was between the ages of 10 and 16 and I never looked/acted "mature for my age". In fact, I was quite childish and obviously underage. Yet that's when I got the most attention. I think we hid the wall the moment we're old enough to vote and drive and be otherwise independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:20 PM
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Applies this to your job as well. Always have a backup plan. Employers can be fickle or a workplace can turn hostile. It's not worth your the risk to your mental health to be too dependent on one place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:08 PM
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You Are Not So Smart. I especially liked the one about the trend of parents testing their kids' patience by making them wait for a second treat if they didn't eat the first one. It really shows you that the situation is a lot more complicated than kids simply being able to wait for something Edit: I also love The Fall of Civilizations podcast. But I always feel a little sad in the end after listening to one. Also, they are long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:27 PM
6

Which is likely to be modded by men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:01 PM
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Present!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:43 PM
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Thank you for posting this and I agree. There is nothing to be gained from beating up our past selves. Our paste selves are doen and we can't change them. Also, we were acting on bad information. What's important is how you act once you know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:35 PM
3

I searched for this thread and somehow landed on a sub called Kevin Samuels. Is that another "dating couch"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:52 PM
2

I think they are just showing off to their family that they can "get a girlfriend", but who the girlfriend is and what she is like doesn't matter to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:14 PM
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Seen? No one is posting pictures here or any identifying information (I hope). This scrote is pulling this shit out of his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:38 PM
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You can change your height. I think they do this in Korea . However, if I remember correctly it comes with a risk of a lot of complications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:15 PM
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They should have taken the hyena's with them. Laughing my ass off at the joker not being able to find his socks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:17 PM
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My accout is not FDS-only, but I have turned off the chat messages. Nothing to miss from DM's and private chats anyways. It's all icels and porn-spam accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:41 PM
7

Ugh, there is an episode in Deep Space 9 about comfort women. It is honestly the worst episode of the series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:39 PM
2

They think that by mentioning black women they can hide the fact they are mostly white men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:38 PM
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I used to do multiple FWB, because I no longer wanted a relationship. Reason I did not want a relationship, is because I was investing more of my time and energy in the relationship while feeling like I got very little in return. I don't even think any of my ex-boyfriends knew who I really was or cared. FWB was better, but I think ultimately not worth it, because with each new guy I had to run through the list of things I was not willing to do and inform them that if they wanted that they should…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:17 PM
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I got so much strength from that forum. I got such good advice. There was also a private part where it was saver to share more personal details.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:01 PM
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Ofcourse, go jump through a bunch of hoop and maybe, maybe, you have "earned the right" of some "effort" from him into pleasing you sexually. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:55 PM
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Sweetheart, if you don't already have a spark without sex, you'll never have it. Does this idiot even know what a spark is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:45 PM
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Acknowlegding the problem is usually step 1. As long as libfems keep fooling themselves and shouting down anyone who is critical of prostitution, escorting, camming, BDSM, etc. we are getting nowhere. We also need to examine why we find certain things beautiful, including our own features. Is this really our own taste or is it informed by what we have been exposed to from when we are very young? We also need to expose ourselves to different physical features. Can we find other features than the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:52 PM
22

I remember this post on Twisty's old forum. It said: "How to be a feminist - Step 1: Take off all your clothes" The poster was refering to the covers of feminist books, which often feature a naked woman or the silhouette of one. I guess publishers thought that it was the only thing that make us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:18 PM
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[sound of crickets]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:09 PM
4

That actually sounds bit like autism. Still, it's exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:46 PM
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It's not just the sexual stuff either. Relationships are emotionally one side too. Guys would get mad if I'd rather spend time with family or friends who would actually listen to my problems for a change and emotionally support me. If I spend time with a boyfriend we could only ever talk about stuff that interested him. They'd barely even pretend to listen if it was about situations they had never experienced. Dating always left me feeling so empty and drained. It just isn't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:29 AM
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All in all it's pretty shitty situation. I am glad the kids are save.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:57 PM
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I really wish they had dated. I also hated Hermoine ending up with Ron. Even though he is not as stupid in the books, he is not good enough for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:39 PM
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I take it these children are not yours. Could you contact their mother, because they might be in danger around him. Also, so sorry this is happening to you and good for you for getting away from this PoS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:27 AM
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They know and understand. They just don't care. Plus, basic respect should not require communication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:23 AM
3

Did she draw this? I really like the style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:48 PM
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I have tried that many times in the past and I still can't open the profile from a google search unless I am logged in. The only way you can't be trasked is through a premium account. But this guy sounds too cheap to have that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:45 PM
9

This is awesome. Where is this from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:21 AM
12

This is the situation for me now. I work from home several days a wekk, but I can't do everything from home and there are benefits to being in the office from time to time. However, when it's busy I have to heard men trashtalk their wifes of people coworker's wifes. I hate it so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:01 AM
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He found your linkedin, which means he must have logged in to find it. Linkedin doesn't allow anyone see anyone's profile without logging in themselves. Check to see who has viewed your profile recently. His might be there. Definitely save every message, but don't respond. Unless he makes a specific threat there is nothing you can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:37 AM
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If you, as a woman, are posting on red pill your self-esteem is definitely in the tank, as evidenced by this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:42 PM
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If you can stomach it watch The Price of Pleasure and Hardcore. These fimls firmly put me in the porn = hate speech camp. It's not just hate speech against women. It's also racist AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:26 PM
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Most women-modded and women-only subs have been banned recently. I am happy this sub is still here, but I fear the future. If this sub goes I am saying goodbye to Reddit. Thankfully I have alternatives. The past ten years of feminism has shone me how important that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:50 PM
2

Perhaps he never cared, but successfully pretended to the first few times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:46 PM
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It's perhaps because many women have never had an orgasm in their lives. It cheapens the word and strips it of meaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:45 AM
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I have been feeling this way ever since I discovered the truith about porn and I am happy more people are starting to feel this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:41 AM
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I think it's a green flag if he asks and maybe a yellow if he doesn't. However, if he used to ask and does not anymore, that's a giant red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:34 AM
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I have never heard of a kink that's not fucked up and comes a t a woman's expense. Kink-shame away. This shit needs to die. (no pun intended)> But this is serious more effed up then usual. I hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:25 AM
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Poor women. An ex is an ex for a reason and she is talking about having kids with a man who is clearly not commited to her. She is the one who needs to move on from both of these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:22 AM
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Even if it had been a compilation character. I still thought the first image is an amazing style before I had seen the scond one. I still wish that female characters are less often depicted in such skimpy outfits. You don't often see much else in comic books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:16 AM
46

He intially didn't want to marry her either and drove a car with a hole in the floor of the passenger side seat. Guess where Michelle sat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:57 PM
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I was paying though. These were all paid apps. Then again I grew up in the 90s, where despite paying you were still the product.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:20 PM
27

There was an episode in the Gilmore Girls where Sookie found out she was pregnant. She was really mad about it, because she thought her husband had had vasectomy. He hadn't in the end, but he never told her about it. She was pregnant for the third time and really unhappy about it. Never once was the possibility of abortion even discussed in the show. I felt sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:52 PM
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What has always bugged me about OLD apps is that my filter did not extend to who was able to find me. So I could set a filter for between 25 and 28 for example. Men of 50+ years could still find my profile. I never understood why that is. If I filter out these guys, why could they still find me? It was so disgusting to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:44 PM
16

You could arrange this through a lawyer and/or judge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:43 PM
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Baby-trapping is something men do to women, not the other way around. Men are 100% repsonsible for all the pregnancies in the world. A woman cannot get pregnant without sperm. Without penetration or IVF there are zero pregnancies. It was and always will be their fault so they should pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:38 PM
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Slight less shitty situation than before. I am almost afraid to ask: Does this include Plan-B, abortion and contraception? Because these are absolutely related to pregnancy as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:35 PM
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Not entirely wrong. Men still hate the women they f*ck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:33 PM
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Yes, this needs to be said over and over again. Feminism doesn't work unless all women are free to design their own lives, not just the most privileged of us. If our choices take away from other women's choices, it's not feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:59 AM
21

You don't know the other guy is HV. He just looks "HV" incomparison to the first guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:53 AM
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A 1000 upvotes for the Johnny Bravo Reference. Plus, a link for those unfamiliar with this show: Johhny Bravo at the Beach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:36 AM
73

Demanded? I hope you told them to shove it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:44 PM
9

What it was for me was not letting someone spend money, but whether or not I would enjoy spending a meal with this person. Ofcourse when you aren't sure you will enjoy each other's company the answer is an easy no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:41 PM
14

If I hear one more guy talk about "blue-balls" I actually want to help him out....by kneeing him in the balls. That's one solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:06 AM
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Large or small, I don't orgasm from penetration ever. I need a guy who is good with his hands or his tongue for that. Dick size really doesn't matter to me, though I might be in the minority. Actually that's not entirely accurate. A large dick is a problem for me. It just won't fit. I actual prefer smaller dicks for penetration. But really I get nothing out of it. And with the risk of pregnancy or disease, I'd rather not do penetration at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:46 AM
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White women who tout sex-work 9 out of 10 times don't do that work themselves. They advocate for "other" women doing that work. Futhermore, even white women who do this work are largely not Kardashians or Hiltons. They are fooling themselves into thinking that sexwork doesn't torpedoe any chances of other careers they may want to pursue in the long run. Check out the documentary Hot Girl Wanted. They all thought they were going to be stars, but none of them even lasted a year doing porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:22 AM
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Oh gosh. This reminds me of a fakumentary I stumbled across this week called "The Virgin Trade". It was peddling the myth of the "Happy Hooker" disguised as a documentary. It was on Youtube and it wasn't even age-restricted.Men really disgust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:50 PM
1

Sing it with me: "Block, Delete & Move On!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:51 PM
1

This would effectively make him her landlord. She would become a mommy bangmaid and going into debt to pay for that "privilege", without a tennant's agreement in place. Yuck all around. Who wants to be f*cking their sketchy landlord?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:49 PM
10

He loved the fact she kept his house clean and is bummed out he now has to do it himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:45 PM
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There is only ONE reason I will ever stop leaving that glass by the sink. A lesson I learned much too late: Because I love and respect my partner, and it REALLY matters to her. ​ No, no, no! You don't leave your dirty dishes by the sink, because you are an adult who realizes he is sharing living space with other people and is not a selfish a*shole! Unless, you are a selfish a*shole, but then you can't complain when other people call you out. Sheez, how hard is this to understand? If he is living…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:34 PM
2

I want to do therapy and am on the waiting list for it. But there is a lack of therapists. I usually end up quitting therapy because of stuff like this. I usually end up feeling worse. I have in my life only ever encountered one good therapist who challenged my view without blaming me for my situation of #namalting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:56 PM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:38 PM
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Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:29 AM
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Being "hot" is only compared to other women. You are "hot" because other women are not. It's a deliberate hierarchy that plays us against another. It's like a form of mass-triangulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:27 AM
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I'd like to ask these guy what was stopping them before? Furhtermore, I don't believe they truly respect women. They have learned how to fake respect and get wokeness upvotes for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:14 AM
11

They'll label you no matter what you do. It's important to do what matters to yourself, because you'll be living with the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:10 AM
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FFS, this is r*pe. It's making me so mad that we still can't recognize this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:43 AM
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Even if a guy was okay with me looking through his phone, I am not going to be the bad guy towards one of his friends. He can text himself that he is not available, after he finishes the dishes. Also dishes do not need to be announced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:18 AM
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Methods I find that work: - Saying NO and not explaning yourself, ever - Lie and say you can't because of x,y,z We should just be able to say no, but sometimes it isn't safe to do so or the ensuing argument is not worth the waste of energy and time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:23 AM
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I see what you did there. It's very orwellian, but it is happening everywhere. PR (instead of propagranda) "peacekeeper", "empowerment", "agency", "intersection*lity", "freedom", "free-markert economy" (a.k.a. capitalism, a.k.a. tax-breaks for the rich and large corporations), "r*d-pill" (formerly used by r*dical feminists for women who woke up to the mechanisms of the patriarchy), etc. I can't think of anymore, but I remember learning the definition of so many words where their true meaning sur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:49 AM
11

So, when you left to find a better house and ended the lease, did the landlord kick him out? Please, tell me he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:01 AM
31

So true. Many men are permanently on insult mode when it comes to women. I have been subtly or not so subtly put down by men throughout my life. They always acted like I have to prove something to them. That I am somehow worthy of their attention. As part of the background noise of my life I still feel that pressure. However, now that I am older, I know differently. Interacting with men mostly leaves me feeling negative towards them now. I suspect that's also why they like younger women so much.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:58 AM
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Yeah, but just like Fight Club, many men don't get it and worship characters like that. And that's not even looking at the number of men who worship Tom Cruise, who is a dangerlously abusive jerk in his own right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:54 AM
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The word is not empty, but the way we use it is. People think you can "feel" empowered or that there is such a thing as individual empowerment. This is not true. We can only BE empowered and it only ever truly works if we women, as a group, are empowered to make permenant and positive changes to our lives. Empowerment means that we have options regarding our career and where we live and what education we persue. It has nothing to do with getting cheered on at a twerking contest (Liberated) or a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:57 AM
30

Women have always worked. Traditionally only women from extremely wealthy families could afford to stay home and not bring in an income. For everyone else, and that has been the majority of households throughout history, women and children worked outside the home. They worked as maids, nannies, laborers, seemstresses, etc. Why do we keep forgetting about this? It's only after the second WW that women from middle class families could stay home. But that time was brief and is disappearing again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:48 PM
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"Assign" him tasks? "Require him" to do certain things? At this point you are already 100% the household manager, regardless of what he may humor you in doing. Classic sign of LVM. Ditch, block, delete and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:34 PM
26

Walter White from Breaking Bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:40 PM
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I distrust any man who has something negative to see about the metoo movement, especially when that is the first reaction out of their mouths when someone brings up the topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:56 PM
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I am not that young anymore and even I was brought with the idea of "not being a princess" and just accept any guy that "acts nicely" and "reward" him with my time and attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:58 AM
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My last relationship was like that. I think they are trying to make themselves look good without putting in any effort. When you call them on it you're, ofcourse, a "nag".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:53 AM
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Some years back there was a guy posting pictures of his "fat" girlfriend. He was being showered in praise for "being able to see past her appearance". Eventhough at the most this woman was slightly overweight and could have easily been a plus-sized model. He was doing it for wokeness point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:14 PM
61

Maybe we need a separate sub for evidence of LVM behavior likes FDSSuperfans and keep this sub more for solutions to the problems we face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:56 PM
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I think it fades over time if they really stop watching porn. However, we still live in a pornified society. Even if he actively tries to avoid being exposed to any kind of porn, he will still see objectified women and girls in advertisement (yes, girls, because it's common for modeling agencies to hire girls of 12 or 13 as first time models) and it will impact how he views women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:54 PM
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They really do have a habbit of cutting off their own noses to spite their faces. Very weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:38 PM
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It's not just the men who walked out oif the classroom. It's all men he ever interacted with who laughed away a sexist "joke". It's all the men who share porn with another, who called women sluts behind their backs, etc. The killing was merely the final step. There was a long chain of condoned, excused and even encouraged misogyny that let up to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:50 PM
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You cannot be a good person if you don't treat the one you claim to love properly. If you are no longer interested in dating them then you need to do the right thing and break up, rather than become a crappy partner. Doing the right thing is part of being a good person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:58 PM
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chore-"play"? This is not a game. WTH? Men are such dead-weight to women's lives. Let them go their own way so they can live in the filth they desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:52 AM
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I don't think that being liked by other men is something you can use to help other women. Using it to help yourself is only possible as long as you are liked by men. But, sadly no. Harriet cannot pick and choose. Many men still want to marry for money aswell, unless they have money of their own. That was at least the case back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:26 AM
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She needs to have it removed as it is negatively impacting her mental health. She also needs to divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:48 AM
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I thought you all might appreciate this. I think it's the most poignant scene from the entire series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:55 AM
13

He probably thinks he deserves it more than she does, by virtue of having a d*ck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:45 AM
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I agree. Life on Earth will go one without us, but we cannot go on without life on Earth. Yet, we are literally responsible for the mass extinction phase we are now in and we could very well end up causing our own extinction along with it and it won't be due to lowering birthrates either; it will be due to people dying needlessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:39 AM
8

They hate women for being "feminine" too, even though they try so very hard to get every woman to be like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:35 AM
14

Reddit hates women. That's nothing new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:32 AM
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I am not that far into it yet. But so far the tone of the book varies. There are sad parts where the outcome of the election and the reopening of Comey's email investigation felt like a punch in the gut. But I also love reading about how she worked with her team and the advice she got from Obama before she begain her campaign and the lessons she implemented from the criticism she got in 2008. Ofcourse that let to new criticism and it makes you feel like she was in a position where she was damned…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:20 AM
30

I heard a lot of men say they hate muscles on women. They say it makes them look "unfeminine".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:39 PM
16

Just out of curiosity, why are you putting period marks in the words batterer and abuser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:36 PM
13

Obama had the same stance. People didn't hold it against him enough to not vote for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:32 PM
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In 2016 I got worried when I kept hearing people refer to her as "the lesser of two evils". I started urging people to vote. I think I already had a bad feeling about the outcome of that election. BTW, I am currently reading "What happened" and in the introduction Hillary describes incidents with women who brought their daughters, who were just old enough to vote at that time, to appologize to her for not voting. One woman was actually crying as she fessed up to not voting. A lot of (white) wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:30 PM
17

This is also what second wave feminists have been saying for decades. They never talked about "equality" either. Equal to what? We still live in a patriarchy. Why be equal under a sub-par system that is designed around men's wants (not even needs) and also factors women's needs in second, if at all. We need a society that centers around women's needs, because that automatically includes men as well since women give birth to everyone and have a vested interest in the well-being of their children.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:45 PM
12

I don't believe in "healthy" BDSM. The fact that you can get off on hurting someone, seeing someone hurt or getting hurt means you f*cking need help. None of this is healthy. It's the mindset of a sociopath or the coping mechanism of a victim of violence. "If you can't beat them join them" does not f*cking work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:26 AM
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I would argue that none of these men are friends. They are all predators on some level, whether physical or emotional. They want to use her for something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:52 AM
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This is often it. If you really, desperately need a man to leave you alone telling him you have a boyfriend is way more effective than telling him you are not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:52 AM
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There aren't many left because they never existed in the first place. I have never met one in real life, just ones who were able to hide their disdain for women better than other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:07 PM
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They are not "single against their will". If they want a relationship they know what they have to do - level up! Just like we are doing. The time men got to mooch off of women is largely over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:05 PM
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I didn't want to read and run. In understand your frustration. Sometimes it's like the world doesn't care and we are lucky we can advocate for ourselves, because otherwise we'd be in a similar situation. That is how I see it. We could all be her and we are just lucky we are not. I wish people understood that, but the "system" is so compartmentalized and setup in a way that discourages departments from working together on issues. I face similar siutations at my job. But in here the worst thing th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:51 PM
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A man who knows me as well as I know him. He has the samilar outlook on life and the same standards in various areas of life. This is not very specific and it doesn't need to be. But I have yet to meet a man who is like this. I have never seen a man like this whether in relationships with women I know or my own relationships. My "dream" man is literally a dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:08 PM
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Sex dolls have a similar effect on the brain as the use of porn does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:37 AM
12

Thanks for posting this. I just deleted a bunch of numbers from my phone of people who have done that and I am. nit talking to anyway. It's a pre-fds backlog I have cleared out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:34 AM
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Left that sub a while ago. It often the weird sexual stuff that gets upvoted and the mods won't put a stop to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:58 AM
12

So now that he is a total assholes, as opposed to being so "nice" before, women are now clamoring to get with him? No? Surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 09:20 AM
1

Was it not also named for some guy's ex-wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 08:19 AM
14

There used to be the hollaback blogs where women took pictures ofo their harassers. Sometimes they took videos too, but the phones were not so advanced back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:54 PM
33

I thought it originally meant rude white woman who asks for the manager and is also racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:53 PM
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It may not be illegal, but did they have to announce it over the speakers? They threw her under the bus with that move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:46 PM
14

Sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:45 PM
19

I can't link to the post, as that would be brigading. You might be able to find it be searching "Karen Shutdown"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:44 PM
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Does a new episode drop every Wednesday?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:14 PM
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The latter. They know exactly what they are doing, but they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:30 PM
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I imagine that would take up quite a bit of space that other people can't use either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:58 PM
5

Battle station?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:16 AM
5

What if your are critical of his spendings? This was with an ex, pre-FDS. He spend over a hundred bucks on lottery tickets. I felt like it was such a waste of money and I let him know. In hind-sight I probably should have broken it off already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:15 AM
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They sound jealous. I am willing to bet that the guys who says shit like that you are pretty scrawney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:14 PM
11

Same. I have left numerous of subs, because I was so sick of the objectified anime girls. It's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:11 PM
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I can't believe those other two guys just smiled and stayed quiet as they passed. But let's not forget #namalt /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:40 AM
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Good point. They may be using the images to create deep-fake porn and get women into heeps of trouble. These days, even if you have never taken nudes of yourself, men can still make your image into porn. They don't give a shit. I have given up on them being able to be decent human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:34 AM
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Their arguments are usually inconsistent like that. In some contexts we are mommies to these assholes and in other contexts (usually sexual ones) we are children who should wait to to do as we're told. It's called eating your cake and having it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:22 AM
13

I used to follow Derrick Jaxn and he has some interesting things to say. But if this video is true then he is a total hypocrite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:18 PM
11

I saw this video on Todd Grande recently and I gotta say I completely agree with her. There is definitely something wrong with the guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wc49BXf9Lpw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:16 PM
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Dude, was totally channeling the likes of Jordan Pederson and Joe Rogan. I found it really telling that he claimed "Promiscuity is raising women's standards" Because, if you'll allow me to be snarky for a few seconds, it's definitely fun having sex with a guy who does not know how to please women and doesn't care and that applies to incels as much as these so called "alpha males". And furthermore, it's education and awareness that it raising our standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:37 PM
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I get why you are doing this, but I would still want to know if a man would create a fuss over a condom if he knows I am pro-abortion. Because it's an excellent vetting method. Trying to shirk responsibility? Don't let the door hit you on the way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:03 AM
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I wouldn't bring it up at all. If he does not bring it up it's time to move on and block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:47 PM
1

The Creation of Patriarchy by Gerda Lerner. Or Man Made Language by Dale Spender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:26 PM
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A woman is not stupid for internalizing objectification. We are raised with it and it takes a great deal of strength to rid ourselves of that early and consistent brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:24 PM
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This is helpful advice for women, but how to we prevent angry men from using it to further their entitled attitudes toward our bodies and our labor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:19 PM
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It's a lie. The data is publicly available, but only by numbers and not by names. And it's underreported so the reality is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:43 PM
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There used to be a term for that called "tone-argument". Instead of engaging what people are saying, you are instead commenting on how they say it and thereby derailing the argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:56 PM
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That's probably why they complain about it. They are worried their GF will discover they are broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:36 PM
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They may have been nice to your face, but you have no idea why they said about you to other men behind your back. I think your post is proof of that. ​ EDIT: Also, I don't think its very respectful to lesbians to "experiment" with them. You either are lesbian or you're not. I know lesbians hate it when straight women try to sleep with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:44 PM
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I don't like the concept. I am not sure why. I also feel it's one-sided, where once again the onus is on women to do the translating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:36 PM
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Once again, I don't regret becoming celibate. So done with this BS. I don't know for how many men I have been a pawn and with any luck I will never find out. But my trust in men has dropped below freezing. I don't even want them in my house anymore, let alone my bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:28 PM
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"Misandry" does not even exist. It's made up by sexist men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:16 PM
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"Misandry" does not exist. It's an MRA conspiracy theory. It's the misogynist version of "reverse racism". It's not a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:15 PM
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That would mean they'd have to reflect upon their own behavior towards women. They would rather serve a life-time prison sentence for murder than look in the mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:42 AM
10

He is obviously a pedophile and probably a porn-sick one at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:39 AM
5

Handbook worthy :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:28 AM
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And when a woman does say "no", they'll all be like: "Misandry!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:39 AM
5

I am being reminded of that creepy Gov. Cuomo calling a woman "aggressive", because she was trying to fend him off. We are not even allowed to enforce our own boundaries without being called "mean".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:34 AM
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Oh, men. I had a friend from college who always (and I do mean always) was dating guys with a long string of "crazy-exGirlfriends" and she just couldn't see the pattern. I kept telling her that she would be next on that list of sob stories he'd tell his next girlfriend. But no, she always kept making excuses for these guys. And my predictions always came true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:15 PM
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A "gold-digger" used to be a younger woman marrying an older man in the hopes of inheriting his wealth. I was never one. None of us are. But I was wary of looking like a stereorype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:48 PM
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Women have been thrown in jail for "failing" to protect a child from abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:48 PM
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I used to be like this, but also out of politeness / worried about looking like a gold-digger I would pay. It ultimately boils down to low self-esteem, which I was trying to bolster by paying and making it obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:43 PM
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Indeed and now he also knows how to hide his BS better from his next victim date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:30 PM
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This is around the time when some girls' bodies start changing and the are starting their periods. Girls still get shamed for periods, so I can understand that at that age they don't not want to share a washroom with boys or male teachers. Not to mention that some male teachers are effing pervs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:06 PM
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This is a bit of the "nice guys" debate. It still treats women and the relationships they enter into as a reward for men's good behavior. Guys should be nice as a rule, but unless there is chemistry a relationship should not happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:34 PM
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It's not just standing up for the women they are dating, but standing up for women as a form of principle, because misogyny is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:31 PM
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They think it does, but educating women and girls does more to increase a country's GDP than anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:12 PM
68

Makes me think of Beauty and the Beast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:11 PM
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This is really sickening. Men will never see us as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:43 PM
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It's not just the LV men either. I know many couples who are married and have settled down and won't have children because they can't even afford to buy a house or send their hypothetical children to college. The financial resources to give children a fighting chance in life just aren't there and many HV (and even LV) men realize this and won't have children either because they don't think it's fair to the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:28 PM
14

Don't ask. If they don't offer it of their own volition, block and deleted and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:42 PM
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Swing and a miss. We are not products to be acquired. We do not deserve respect because we "earned it", we deserve respect because we are human being just like they are. Imagine if we only gave respect to men who "earned it", instead of just giving basic respect to the people we meet, men and women included. Actually I don't want to imagine this, because men beat women up for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:40 PM
4

It was definitely systemic and yes I am doing much better in my current field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:05 PM
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His denial comes in the form off "it was not that bad" and "it was a mistake and Hitler had not intended to do that". But it places him very much in the denial camp. Like with most things he doesn't state his opnions outright, he hardly ever does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:02 PM
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In my previous career, on my very first project, I was told by my then supervisor that he judged me "according to the standards of more senior people in my role". So as a junior, as expected, I could not yet perform at the level of a senior employee. To this day I am still kicking myself for accepting that first performance review, because it followed me around on every project and every jobsite. My performance reviews became progressively worse and it becamse clear to me that I was never going …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:40 PM
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They already know. They pretend to be incompetent so they get away with doing less. Untill they get divorced that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:40 PM
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He is also a holocaust denier, climate change denier, wage-gap denie, etc. Dude is just outright anti-science and research. He is basically like Trump, except with a larger vocabulary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:28 PM
3

Have you destroyed his pictures aswell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:22 PM
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Install a security camera and post the footage of his shit online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:19 PM
8

I used to read Jezebel and I tried to warn people in the comments that sex-positivity is a lie. I simply got booted from the site. This author could have had good books to read if she had bothered to read second wavers. There is no need to reinvent the wheel. Everything is already there, but they rejected it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:22 AM
14

You dropped this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:58 AM
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Please bare in mind, that most "feminist" spaces on Reddit are run by men and have a lot of male members cos-playing as women. Please don't believe these lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:10 AM
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I think you are right about guy #1. He puts in no effort and doesn't bother to remember what's important to you. I'd say proceed with the second guy for the time being. Developing attachment to someone should be slow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:39 AM
4

The royals were mostly put on an open cart. I think only Louie was allowed a coach on his trip to the guillotine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:58 PM
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This is funny, but I feel like the last two panels are out of order. If he needs to be treated like a king first then surely the guillotine should be panel #3.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:26 PM
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What a prince charming. I wonder why he is still single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:18 PM
2

I have got to try this. It sounds delicious and nutricious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:52 PM
6

What is up with that video?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:33 AM
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I hate that show. I watched a few episodes and then I just couldn't anymore. Every episode the main character was threatened with raped or actually rapped and this was supposed to be for female audiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:54 PM
22

I used to have a problem with FDS'attitude toward sex. Where you wait for sex till commitment has been established. I thought it meant treating sex as transactional, but even I won't have any fun if I come to the realization that a guy faked liking me just to get sex. I am already having sex for my own reasons and I don't want a relationship, but even that's not enough for some guys. They want full control my manipulation. So I now see the reason for waiting. Al though for me it means I won't be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:11 PM
2

Handmaidens of the Patriachy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:36 PM
11

...I was scrolling through one of the many subreddits that had women posting pictures of themselves. In other words, he spends hours a day looking at porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:33 PM
14

Exactly. That's like "consenting" to attempted murder. It's legally not even possible. Why is BDSM the exception?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:28 PM
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If they were high-value why are they exes now? Did it just not work out? Incompatible life-plans? This post sumarizes all my relationships, I don't think any of my ex-BFs knew me or cared. I never felt known by any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:08 PM
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Dating nice guys. They were relatively decent guys, but I just wasn't into them, but I felt like I should just to disprove the stereotype. But the thing is that I have never been into assholes either. I just wanted to date guys I had things in common with and clicked with, not just for the sake off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:56 PM
2

Question? If we see a post like that can we just screenshot the content and repost it with all the info removed, before we report it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:47 PM
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Agreed. Personal "empowerment" that comes at the cost of other women is profoundly disempowering for all women. Because even though you may be on top of the world now, you too can lose your health, your money, your independence and before you know it you become another source for the "empowerment" of other women. It's also not a hole that's easy to crawl out of once you're in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:18 AM
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It definitely is a test and he knows it too. Deep down, we women also know this but are trained to excuse it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:39 PM
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A guy testing women IS being disrespectful. There should be no testing of boundaries. That's a LV quality. And futhermore, terms like "wifey" and "pussy" are likewise disrespectful and an attempt at turning women in cardboard cutouts of the people they really are. We don't test men either. We vet based on what he shows us of his own accord and walk away when we don't like what we see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:20 PM
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We can only protect ourselves and individual women and girls. But this toxic shit is seeped into every aspect of the society we grow up in, therefore we will never be able to protect the majority of women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:52 PM
86

He knows. He just doesn't care. He sees her as a disposable commodity who will always come back to him. But even if she doesn't, he is sure he'll find someone else to replace her easily. And with the brainwashing young-women have received since birth, he is probably right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:15 PM
2

I think that these are excellent questions to ask of ourselves. There are so may things we do in this world where we don't ask ourselves why or even if we actually like it and wether or not it benefits us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:11 PM
3

Kevin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:25 PM
13

His literal sh*t is all over the house. I would not be able to set a foot inside it. In this case I would actually advice her to pack her stuff (or maybe leave it all behind, because that too is probably covered in sh*t) and go. She should sue his ass for ruining her possesions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:17 PM
58

This guy is a f*cking rapist. She already said NO and he keeps trying to find ways around that NO. He should be in jail. That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:10 PM
7

Don't ruin your health over a man. Be glad he got outed. He deserves nothing less than a good dose of public shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:04 PM
19

Yeah, this has BS vibes radiating off it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:51 PM
69

I have never heard of a 401K being split or a degree being split in half. He also keeps flitting back and forth between her getting half and her getting all of it. This incoherent rant is just another incel-fanfic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:28 PM
66

Okay, so all of these reasons are about guys not being really being into the women they dump. Even when a guy is trying to protect his ego by "dumping her first", it still makes his ego more important than having her in his life. Which translates into: "He was never into her in the first place."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:26 PM
11

Rape is about power, in sofar that there is little to no sexual aspect to it for the victim. But sure, the perpetrator gets his rocks off without a doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:22 PM
33

What I want with regards to intimacy, in exact order of priority: Genuinine and mutual feelings of intimacy Singlehood with the occasional feelings of loneliness Nothing else. There is no "3."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:44 PM
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I also don't want to feel intimacy towards someone who merely fakes it, because they want to control my emotions. If it's not genuine and mutual, I don't want it. I, too, prefer the occasional loneliness to all of the weak substitutes of the real thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:41 PM
70

Tell him after class maybe. It would also be a good lesson that people can have both aspects to admire as well as to despise and advise him never to be a man like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:32 PM
1

If he loved women then what's up with the Taming of Shrew and The Marry Wives of Windsor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:00 AM
59

Bully a woman till she screams and/or cries and then call her "crazy"/"emotional". I have seen and experienced this so often. Plus, anger is an emotion too and men are considered "rational" for displaying it, even if it's merely used as an intimidation tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:54 PM
2

Since he got famous after his death, I never thought of him as someone who got there through shere male arrogance. But I do think he has been over-hyped by other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:22 PM
2

That's very interesting. I didn't know that either. I have never seen a Van Gogh painting I liked, but then again it's all about personal taste. It's very strange some painters got as famous as they are. I find Rembrandt particularly interesting, as you couldn't see how beautiful and detailed his painting were untill they cleaned them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:51 PM
6

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marie_Bracquemond
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:43 PM
8

I saw an exhibition about female impressionists and also followed a lecture. While I am not big on impressionism I feel that they were robbed of the recognition that they deserved even posthumously. It's ridiculous it all goes to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:39 PM
1

That poor little girl. Such a useless father who does not want to take care of her. She did not choose to be born. He is the reason she exists. Men like him ought to go to jail for being such neglectfull parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:24 PM
12

Preventing me from using the bathroom when I really had to go. I should never have accepted that. Even pre-FDS, if a friend told me of this I would have advised her to break up with such an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:51 AM
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He was an impressionist and all of the first impressionist painters were women, because color theory was not yet a science and their technique was regardless as "childlike" precisely because they were women. Van Gogh simply joined a movement that was started by women. It's not about being an adacemic, it's about the originators of this movement not getting the credit they deserve, but a man like Van Gogh has been imortilized for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:38 AM
19

He probably also had people telling him he's smart his whole life. Plus, he had quite a fortune to start with. I don't think he build up that confidence all on his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:30 AM
11

I feel the same way about Shakespeare. I don't like his work. I don't mind saying say so, but I also know that you will be judged as "stupid" and "uncultured". Liking Shakespeare is still seen as a requirement for being regarded as smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:28 AM
5

True, but he should still care someone gets home safely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:28 PM
73

I also noticed that when it comes to guilt and shame, men and women feel it for very different reasons. Women often feel it for something they haven't done, whereas men most often feel it for things they have done. We are always expected to be more than we are capable and willing to be. Men are always expected to be less than what they can and are willing to do. The expectations we deal with are are too high and men's too low. The balance is just not there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:09 AM
63

So if he didn't like the stock he couldn't care less about her getting home safe? What a gentleman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:51 AM
68

Third post in a short time that is handbook-worthy. Perfect analogy. A man on the look-out for a dream-gril is LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:52 PM
20

Sounds to me like your standards and gut feeling are in perfectly working order. Trust them next time. You weren't feeling it right of the bat and you don't need any more reasons to waste another second on anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:59 PM
4

I wonder if we raised all children to be HV, would they be? Has everyone got this capacity or does it require a certain amount of intellect and emotional strength?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:16 PM
7

They probably don't recognize FDS material unless it is labeled as such. I left that sub when a mod took over who was banned from this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:19 PM
3

I am still uncomfortable with the terms "sharing" or "giving" one's body to anyone. When I have sex my body still belongs to me. It will never belong to anyone else. But agree with the rest. I don't want to have sex unless I truly trust and like the guy and building trusts takes a long time, but can be lost quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:16 PM
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The popularity of 50 Shades is really telling. I had women tell with a straight face that they thought it was "good sex". I felt so sad for them, but I just didn't know ehere to explaining, how it's anything but.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:08 PM
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I hadn't thought of it this way yet, but you are totally right. There are several high-profile BDSM abuse story coming out every year for the past couple of years and they shout "no true scotsman" at each and everyone of them. Looks like 50 Shades was right on the money. Except it's still missing the part when Anna is trying to get away from her abusive partner after he puts her in the hospital.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:01 PM
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Not entirely true. Survival has always come first and we rely on an income for that. People of just a hundred years ago or even before that did the same. In fact they were only free on Sundays and religious holidays. This has been the case fot every civilization in the past and present. It was only when people lived in small nomadic communities they put their loved ones and extended family members first. But that was for most of humanity thousands of years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:21 PM
6

But doesn't that sub ban people who are active on FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:16 PM
7

Gross. The worse I've had is guys with holes in their shirts, wearing trousers that are too large cause they are worried about their balls and, finally, broken bags or suitcases. I still hate all three.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:46 PM
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I second this. It should absolutely be added to the handbook. Well done. It's a good example of putting FDS in practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:19 PM
21

This is why I journal. I journal all the bad stuff. So that when I am under the mistaken delusion that I left a good thing, I just read my entries from that time and remember why I left. In a way this is better. I am left with good memories in my head and all the bad shit on paper, which I can throw away if I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 11:38 AM
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Definitely true. When it concerns our own lives we are sometime to close and can only see the trees and not the forrest. That's why we need this sub so we can bounce our situations of each other and can clearly identify what is going on in our own lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:30 AM
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Richard was dating Pennilyn Lott. Emily basically "stole" him from her. But Richard still talks to Pennilyn and Emily is hopping mad about it. Richard's mother is even worse to Emily than Emily is to her own daughter. And Richard never defended his wife. When he mother died, he couldn't keep it together and turned into a useless man-baby, making all sorts of ridiculous demands while his wife was left to deal with everything. Richard got angry another man hit on Emily and he locked in a store roo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:37 PM
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He locked her in a store room. Cheated on her emotionally with the woman he initially abadoned for Emily and never defended her from his own mother. Definitely LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:27 PM
15

Don't forget Buffy The Vampire Slayer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:25 PM
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Except that she was a pickme toward her own husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:23 PM
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Liberal feminism is at best a weak distillation of, and at worst a warped reversal of radical feminism.It's popular with men because it doesn't challenge them, is non-threatening and serves in men interests under the guise of "empowerfullment".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:23 PM
6

Yuck. I wanted to like that sub and see normal photos, but it's just flooded with dick-pics. I wish there was a women-only version of that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:41 AM
6

I don't have the time or mental and physical energy after a full day of work to excercise. Plus, I hate the gym. I enjoy other sports. Sadly they are all shutdown now due to corona. But I used to excerside an hour a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:23 AM
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Biden was creepy and handsy with women and girls out in the open. I didn't want either of them. I wanted Warren. I am also very sad that a lot of people think that Biden was the only one who could defeat Trump. He didn't defeat shit. Trump defeated himself for being such a shitty president. People went out to vote in droves, not to vote for Biden so much as against Trump. The same thing happened in reverse 4 years ago. But attitudes like these mean that it will probably be at least twenty years …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:29 AM
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I agree with most of this. The only exception is hitting the gym 5 times a week. Some excercise a few times a week is needed, but not everyone needs to be that fit to last 30 minutes or more. I've had plenty of sex partners in the past who could easily stay hard for hours (not including PIV, because that would chafe like hell) who only got moderate excercise. Limp-dick syndrome is more mental than physical anyways. HVM do not watch porn ever. I personally also prefer a guy who orgasms quickly wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:06 AM
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I used to follow his channel, untill he posted a video in defence of Jordan Peterson. I was like Boi Bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:48 AM
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10-to-1 says this second prick went after he, because the first had already traumatised her. Good for her for exposing this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:43 AM
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You did what you could to keep yourself save. I hope you blocked him afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:37 AM
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I can't believe they are still trying to use the term lesbian as a negative. It was already not creative 20 years ago. Any guy who does that is definitely not worth anyone's time or attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:57 AM
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I agree. I said it because what gets repeated gets remembered. And I think it's important to keep repeating the reason why men should pay and be generous overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:32 PM
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Neither is empowering. Women being able to choose their partners (based on characteristics like generosity) is empowering. Can we finally get this definition right on the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:23 PM
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Excuse me? What? "...no attention sexually in their developmental years..." What the hell? That's how it is supposed to be. Children should not be having sex or getting sexual attention. Children should just be children and then allowed to develop their own sexuality in their late teens and early twenties with similarly aged partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:33 AM
14

Are there even any pros to nude photos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:57 PM
13

Never send nudes and never let him take nudes of you either. If you want to have nude photo's of yourself take them with a decent camera (no smart-phone) and keep them stored offline.Because otherwise. sooner or later they will end up somewhere you don't want them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:56 PM
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I only know the opposite, women who had to give up bright careers because they had children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:25 PM
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Agreed. Gross and demeaning. I have never done it and don't feel sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:21 PM
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Thanks fornthe recommendation. I'll check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:02 PM
2

Okay, what if this was a friend instead of you? What would your advice then be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:47 PM
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I see your Breaking Bad and raise you Mad Men. Betty Draper deserved better. The actress definitely deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:31 PM
15

Taratino was responsible for landing Uma Thurman in the hospital, but forcing her to do a stupid car-stunt she was not qualified to do and which she heavily protested against. Also he has a weird foot-fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:17 PM
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They consider feminism the matrix. They believe we are living in a matriarchy. If only. Then things wouldn't be so violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:15 PM
19

So is Fight Club, but men still idolize Tyler Durden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:37 PM
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Yeah, cause of the red-pill stuff. Also, imagine Neo had told Morpheus to eff-off and not taken either pill. Who even takes pills from a stranger? It would have been a short movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:56 PM
57

So the it said it was from a commercial, but what the hell is this supposed to sell? Who would wanna buy anything after?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:36 PM
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Someone linked Jenny Nicholson's Brony Con video earlier this week. Thank you. She has quite an interesting channel and I have been watching a few of her videos. But I was surprised to see how many downvotes she got for this video. It got my thinking about movies that have a large male fan-base. In this list you'll find movies like Fight Club, The Matrix, American Psycho and basically any Tarantino movie. I consider these red-flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:24 PM
12

It's not pickme's, because then he would have already found female bodies to have sex with. It's porn, with scenarios of women throwing themselves at men for any and all reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:11 PM
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I have looked up pictures of these guys. And maybe I would have still considered them attractive 10 years ago, but now they just look old and whithered to me. Sure they were generally considered attractive for quite a long time, but I think that their attractiveness is at this point more a memory that people cling to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:10 PM
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I am not really jealous of anybody. I think jealousy is a waste of my energy and implies I do not think others deserve their success> I am , however, envious of the women who knew quite early in life what they wanted to do and pursued their goals with vigor, even if their goals changed a long the way. I am more of a wanderer and often times I still need to figure out where I want to go next. Some roles, I've had, I've ended up in by accident and were never part of any plan, but a result of other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:59 AM
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You being a trained therapist would make you more qualified to assess such a situation than me, a untrained internet stranger. However, I can ask you this: If this was a co-worker of yours, describing this particular situation, what would you advise her to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:48 AM
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I agree, but I recently did this to an ex and he called me with someone else's phone. I then told him I thought he was emotionally cheating and that I don't want to talk to him anymore and not to contact me again. I swear, that when I heard his name on the phone I felt suddenly cold. I didn't think he'd try to circumvent a block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:38 AM
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Good for you for respecting yourself. Next time, however, don't even wait for a second date with a guy you are not into. You don't owe any guy you don't find attractive a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:17 AM
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What they are doing is straight up abuse. Her reactions in thinking she expects to get yelled at a lot really says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:14 AM
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Unfortunately we are. The shit they post there is not what they would ever say out loud to a potential source of sex. Men will fake entire relationships just to get laid once. They don't regard us as human and therefore don't care what they do to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:52 AM
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TRP, big surpise. None of the guys in the comments sound like they have a brain, so I am not surpised they can't recognize women's intelligence, or anyone's intelligence for that matter. They wouldn't know what that looks like. He probably thinks his mom is smart because she made him feel smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:54 PM
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We women are emotionally different. We're better. We're better adept at managing strong emotions, due training we get since birth, and our hormonal cycles are a month long, as opposed to the 24 hour cycle men are stuck with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:48 AM
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I find the whole pedophile theme that is so common in bdsm the most disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:46 AM
9

10 to 1 he watches a lot of porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:42 AM
10

I was just ruminating on this a bit. I believe that self-proclaimed "nice guys" are like self-proclamied "alphan males" in that both are full of shit. "Alpha male" is not even a thing. Check out David Mech's video on this. And genuinely nice people don't have to tell you they are nice; they will show you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:09 AM
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Definitely cringey. I occasionally enjoy anime, but it's along with other stuff I watch. A guy being an avid anime fan = hentai, porn-obsessed fuckboi. I'd run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:55 AM
2

Try and turn it around on her. Ask her to imagine you being in that situation instead of her. Ask her to imagine what advice she would give you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:19 PM
5

Johnny Bravo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:35 PM
10

Definitely. They don't care about anyone but themselves. They show no interest and ask no questions. They just want to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:34 PM
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Thanks for the warning. I unsubbed. What a bunch of bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:18 PM
9

Yup. I have never liked her. Refering to women as skinny "bitches"? Not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:39 PM
21

I have had one man build me up, but that was only because he was looking to date me. I can only image what he would have done if I had actually dated him, because he was definitely LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:45 AM
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I am glad to hear it. Such a connection could only do damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:42 AM
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They both sound awful. But if your partner knew that, why did he want to have lunch with them? He wants to move out of state to get away from them, but will have lunch with them? I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:44 AM
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That was a straight up attempt at emotional blackmail. Still, if this happens next time call the police just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:40 AM
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Why has this been removed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:33 AM
3

In many episodes of this show, it's obvious the dude is at fault. Either they neglect the dogs, don't take it seriously or even mistreat the dogs. WTH?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:03 PM
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"I wanna talk to someone in charge" Too bad there isn't a male Karen meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:48 AM
3

Same applies at work. If a coworker or even boss tries to get you to "prove" something, don't fall for it. It's either a ploy to get you to take on more work or a distraction to not let you work on projects you really want to do. If they say: "I'll let you work on x if you can prove y", that means you'll never get to do x. Someone else already has it or will get it soon. Better let go of it and if happens more than once, start looking for another job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:39 PM
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Yup, I noticed this too. It's not exactly empowering to tear other women down to build yourself up. Also, what the hell is up with calling other women hoes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:18 PM
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This is one I need to remember. Not just in the sens of dating either, but everywhere. My feelings and needs come first. If I have energy and feelings to spare I'll spare it for the people I care about. If I don't I will save it all for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:12 PM
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That whole "developing early" thing is just an excuse that men use to be pigs toward teenage girls. Men (in their 30s & 40s, sometimes even older) starting becoming really creepy toeards me as of age 10 and I was obviously just a child and completely flat. It makes no difference what your body looks like. It makes no difference how you dress. You are female and therefore they try to teach you early that your only possible value lies in how sexually appealing you are to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:21 AM
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So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:16 AM
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A lot of those creations and inventions were done by women who had the credit for their work stolen from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:11 PM
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Especially then. They will still think you are a bitch, but you can feign ignorance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:35 PM
19

Say it with a smile, like another poster in this thread suggested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:02 PM
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Well, I find it helps to be a polite bitch. So you use no profanity and no direct insults, but you make it abundantly clear that fire will be met with fire. Furthermore, I find that being the "nice" one makes it that you don't get taken seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:42 PM
4

Ah. thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:39 PM
149

Don't be afraid to be a b*tch in the workplace. Give them as much trouble as possible for their domineering attitudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:09 PM
235

"36?! But last years I got 37!“ Dudley Vernon from Harry Potter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:07 PM
7

What is PA?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:03 PM
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She is only 30 and she has already mutilated her body a number of times in the name of beauty. Some effects of some of these surgeries are permanent. They cannot be reversed. It is horrible how lightly we treat major invase surgeries for purely cosmetic purposes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:58 PM
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Being a pickme can be deadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:44 AM
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That's acceptable for adults you don't live with, but not children. And if you do live with such an adult, you'd better move out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:49 AM
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How would you nip this in the bud when this happens at work? You can't block and delete your co-workers most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:01 PM
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They still do this? I remember those slimy virginity count down clocks for famous underage actresses that guys put on websites. They count down the days till she is legally allowed to have sex with adult men. I wanna vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:21 PM
4

This! We have been so conditioned to step back and not assert ourselves, that our "arrogance" is on par with being assertive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:08 PM
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Recently I have started to be a bit aloof in the office. I used to say good morning first, but now I no longer do that. I wait for them to say good morning and then greet them back. I also no longer smile at them when I walk in. Probably should have done that from the beginning, because it seems to work. Being professional and kurt seems the way to go. I am by no means unfriendly, but I have dropped what I feel are the forced aspects of friendliness they don't display either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:06 PM
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I have dealt with a lot of situations like that and it got me down too. In hind sight I still don't have any solutions for men like that. Looking back, could you give some examples of how you would have asserted yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:04 PM
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Feminity can have power, but usually to the detriment of the feminine woman. Obviously, don't try to be "just like a man". But definitely be careful that you don't become a "nice, feminine doormat".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:00 PM
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This and similar work-related topics should be added to the handbook. Excelling in your career is vital for leveling up and becoming a high-value woman. I was looking for more advice like this. Thanks for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:57 PM
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Keep score. You should not do this in a relationship, but if you find you are doing more favours for your male coworkers than they are for you, stop it immediately! For example: We get coffee for each other in our office. Normally, if you get up to get coffee, you get it for everyone. (This was pre-COVID). I noticed I was getting up more often to get coffee than they were, because I am a coffee-hound. So, now I only get it for them twice a day max and if I want more, I just get it for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:55 PM
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If men lose respect after certain sex acts, then they never had that respect to begin with. They just faked it to get what they wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:22 AM
3

Thank you for that link. It's a very interesting read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:27 AM
22

Wasn't intersectionality coined by black women, to describe the experiences of dealing with the toxic stew that emerges when you are a target of both racism and misogyny? The term was eventually hijacked by liberal feminism and now has a totally different conotation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:32 PM
66

Exactly. Men will fuck prostitutes, their wives, their mistresses and still rape random women. Condoning this shit is just one more excuse they need to view as anything but human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:38 PM
13

Did you miss the part where she said she is sick? It costs energy and strength to stand up for yourself. Have a little compassion, will you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:31 PM
80

He is only 21? He looks at least 10 years older than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:23 PM
5

As the old adage goes: If he has to say it, he is probably not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:00 PM
6

TL;DR: "So you don't agree with me? Well, I'll just call you stupid then. That'll teach ye."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:53 PM
37

"I am quite smart" = complete nitwit "I am well-read" = never opens a book, but memorized famous quotes "I respect women" = me rotflmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:00 PM
7

Yeah, WTH! First cuties and now this BS. I already canceled my subscription back then, but I really want to cancel my whole account now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:20 AM
9

"...private aspect of your sexuality," There are no private aspects of anyone's sexuality in a commited couple. Not from each other. Plus, do these idiots think that anything they consume on a porn-site is "private"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:49 AM
4

I appreciate what you trying to do, but it's like trying to reclaim words such as "slut". It doesn't work. Men still use it against us. It will never have a positive connotation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:59 AM
5

Well, it's probably best you stay off social media in that case. Not logging on is as good as blocking. You can still block his number and his email though. And make a remember for yourself to block him once you feel well enough to go on social media again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:57 AM
12

As long as you have blocked and deleted him, you don't need talking sense to. It's okay to grieve. He hurt you and you have every right to be upset about that. Continue going to therapy and be kind to yourself. You can't erase bad experiences or bad decisions, but you can learn from them. You have this sub now, so you know how to roughlessly vet any man that comes your way in the future. And remember that being single is always better than a bad relationship. Work on yourself for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:52 PM
13

I believe that's actually PUA lingo and it means that "men should treat all women as trash".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:48 PM
5

Me too, but it hurts sometimes and I find it easier to give advise to others than to follow my own. I feel so guilty sometimes for putting myself first. But if I don't do it I end uo full of stress and resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:30 PM
4

He was preaching water and drinking wine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:26 PM
20

Ture, but the process of breaking with your past is still difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:14 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBOMz3lfJnQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:25 PM
0

I like Sati Sim and Kate Emerald
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:48 AM
50

Depends on what you are playing. I've been watching some youtubers do some amazing sims 4 builds. Been trying to do some of these myself, but it's taking me quite a while to get the hang of the tools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:08 AM
33

It's not a faithful adaptation. In the book she actually excelled at her job and was offered the job in television. In the movie she blundered her way through the interview and her boss is a total creep. She was also not fat in the book, but she believed she was. In the book she eventually loses so much weight that people think she is ill. But like the movie it was all about finding a guy in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:21 PM
34

My own handwriting is terrible. As long as they don't expect me to decipher any illegible notes, I really don't care. These days it's easy to compensate with typing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:52 PM
3

A holiday would be especially good, since the organisation of the trip can be stressful and you can see how he deals with that. We also staying over for a few weeks would tell you enough about his habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:36 PM
4

I found one comment where he said that he broke up with her. Okay, he can do that if he wants, but is now asking for a large sum on a monthly basis which she probably did not take into account when she made the decision on whether or not to move in with him. I also heard that he is getting most of that money refunded. So basically she would be paying him wages to live there. WTH?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:34 PM
41

I am glad to see women are calling themselves sex-negative with pride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:25 PM
13

Flow is great, but I do not care so much for women calling other women bitches and hoes. I hate it even more when guys do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:47 PM
20

Ugh, so many guys in the comments saying shit like: Sometimes you don't notice what your partner is doing either. They will notice if it doesn't get done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:34 PM
10

I think she is just sticking her head in the sand. She probably is doing all the chores, but it worried about seeming "too critical" or "too feminist" I once responded to a blogpost about someone's awful coworkers that I agree with her and that they should not be acting like that and that they were awful. Guess what her next post was? It was about her "having a soft side" I digress
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:28 PM
19

They are not involuntary if they spent months conditioning their brains to react to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:08 PM
15

I get really sad about the 50/50 comments. Reproduction is not 50/50. Furthermore, if the husband had provided enough support during his leave she would never had needed to invite her mother to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:59 PM
20

Right on. Also, I love her hair and her jewelry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:39 PM
42

In a few weeks it will be #KickHimOut2021 It's still relevant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:34 PM
14

He should sit down if he can't aim. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:21 PM
14

I am not sure why, but term "love language" is really pissing me off. What the hell is it even? Seems to me like a poor excuse for low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:06 PM
31

I think there is something wrong with society if we raise our boys to be psychopaths with murder fantasies untill they "mature".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:35 AM
16

It's like listening to the Basilisk from HP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:33 AM
6

It's telling that they think self-respect and seeing people for what they are is hateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:31 AM
85

Trauma will hit you one way or another. Denying it exists will just delay the onslaught of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:20 AM
265

It's rational to be afraid to be sexual with men when you are a woman. Look at what they are doing to women? Does she think nobody will ever try that with her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:03 AM
28

Being bilingual is a hell of thing to keep hidden from someone for that long. He is even living with her FFS. It makes you wonder what else he is hiding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:00 AM
12

Help is not help unless it is freely offered and freely accepted. If it does not meet these conditions it is not "help" and the person acting in such a way is being the opposite of helpfull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:19 PM
24

Men are fucking sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:09 PM
23

You can tell a man that and it can be true. He won't change though. He'll just move on to someone who'll put up with it. Which is honestly fine. We no longer live in a world where being single as a woman means poverty. In fact financially you'll be better off by yourself than in a relationship with a man who does not have his shit together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:15 PM
6

He's cheating. This has "The Murderer Next Door" written all over it. He has someone else and wants to get rid of her. I am so worried for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:12 PM
6

Not even hooters and that's saying something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:08 PM
75

Men will say that to each other, but they will spin yarn for their female partners pretending to want an equal partnership. They can lie to your face about this without flinching. When it comes to patrarchy men are like scnientologists. They will lie "for the cause."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:50 PM
21

I am offended that "vanilla" is somehow bad. Vanilla is my flavour of icecream and it will always be that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:38 AM
23

There were hunters, gatherers, farmers and midwifes before there were prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:37 AM
11

It's like Marge and the bowling ball. I love that she learns how to bowl out of pure spite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:19 PM
33

Plus, your loans are private. The whole of the internet does not need to know how much you owe in student loans and neither does your employer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:48 PM
13

It's the same thing about yelling "don't take away my agency", when you point out some harsh facts about human society. Libfems think that they can talk utopia into existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:19 PM
77

They didn't reclaim anything. Men still use the term "slut" as an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:16 AM
71

Liberal feminism was never meant for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:14 AM
93

His "new found religion"? Also he is thirty-fucking-four, while she is 23. What the hell? She has bigger problems than his religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:52 PM
1

The price or quality of the gift is not in question. But why did he order it so late? And when it didn't arrive in time, what prevented him from going to a store and buying something in person? Or at least a nice card with a thoughful message or perhaps a bouquet? Instead he chose to show up to his sister's birthday empty handed. I call his lack of planning ahead of time thoughtless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:27 PM
2

If he was being that inconsiderate to his sister I hope you kicked his ass to the curb. Ordering an expensive gift late and showing uo empty handed too. I think the price of the gift was him compensating for a lack of care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:37 PM
8

Install an ad-blockers and only use reddit with a browser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:22 PM
110

Same. I would never compliment a man I don't know and never for looks. I also don't smile or say hello to strange men in passing. If they say hello first I nod politely and say a kurt hello. But I always make sure to be as unapproachable as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:51 PM
87

Oh now they care about certain content, now that they have been losing ways to get paid. Typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:11 PM
2

Who is saying you come across as a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:22 PM
6

This is why I am constantly afraid for this sub everytime Reddit has another ban-wave. It affects female subs much more than male subs. Which is why, I have already made backup plans for myself. I have joined other communities outside of Reddit and have become a members of this sub's website too. You'll find me there if anything ever happens to this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:46 PM
3

It is a shame the comments are full of pickme's advocating for BDSM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:19 PM
14

"Seeing as the numbers are rising I don't want to go anywhere public." This is such bullshit. You're more likely to catch Corona in someone's home then with masks and social distancing in public. This is a pathetic excuse to try and get sex from a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:14 PM
5

Or cars or football.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:59 PM
15

Or when you politely listen to them talk about their interests you don't share, but they try to change the topic when you want to talk about something interests you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:57 PM
18

Patriartchy has always consisted of poor logic and they continuously move the goal-posts. Whatever "argument" suits them best at the moment, even if it directly contradicts what they said not five minutes earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:38 PM
14

This is really it. It's the same argument against women having had "too" many sex partner. She learns what she likes, she learns how to communicate, she learns to enforce her boundaries better and she learns how to select suitable sex partners. Men are well aware this excludes 99% of them. Women's increased sexual experiences is detrimetal to their access to women, because at some point the effects of brainwashing, due to living in a pornified society, diminish. LVM know this, which is why women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:35 PM
70

This makes me legit scared for a friend right now. I know her boyfriend recently hurt his hand by punching a wall. I used to think he was nice, but that kind of violent outburst really puts me off. But I saw no signs of him being abusive towards her otherwise. Now, I see the wall punching in a different light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:57 PM
11

I've had the same thing though I was upfront about this not being a relationship. Then when I did agree to a relationship he turned into a real jerk. Yeah, that's me wearing clown face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:28 PM
21

I thought fashion magazines of the early 2000s and Toddlers and Tiara's were bad. But men have been doing this since forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:57 AM
9

"TERFs" don't exist. Many women who get called that are not even radical feminists. And radical feminism has always been critical of gender, because it's s een as the main form of patriarchal brainwashing of women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:19 AM
47

That's also the reason "ladies night" starts early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:10 AM
41

You are the product whether you pay for it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:10 AM
56

I joked with a male coworker about my age. He seemed pissed when I refused to tell him how old I actually was. Men tell these jokes all the time and I never get pissed if they tell me an obvious lie about how old they are. I never understand why men apply different standards of acceptable behavior to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:15 PM
3

The moment you can afford to, you need to stand on your own two feet. Don't live with anyone for a while and it's probably best not to date either. Don't date, because you have not had the best role models for a love life and you'll need time to heal. As for your mother, it's clear she wants you out of the way for all the shitty lvm she wants in her life. Best focus on building up a good life for yourself and making good friends and then look towards dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:29 PM
3

I am spending it doing whatever I feel like at the moment. Probably some stuff I have been putting off cause I am so tired from work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:29 PM
24

And to tell other men off for being creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:50 PM
23

In thus case it's getting rich through plagiarism and bad merch. Nothing new. I think Gloria Steinem has talked about this too. When she got some renown as a feminist author she was asked to endorse all sorts of products that had nothing to do with her writing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:49 PM
13

Thank you so much for sharing this. I love reading inspirational stories. It feels so good to see how we women can positively impact each other's lives. Congrats to the both of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:38 PM
5

If you feel he doesn't care about you,... ... he probably doesn't. FTFY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:04 PM
3

I am spending it alone aswell. Initially I was sad, but now I am looking forward to it. I am still considering buying myself something that I want and not need, but for some reason I can't think of anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:34 PM
7

I know. I can only imagine the damage it must do to a woman's self-esteem to have him for a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:10 PM
7

I tried to read it. Maybe I just had a bad translation, but I found it so boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:07 PM
10

Sam Harriss. Personally, I find that if a guy idolizes shitty men it says a lot about who he is and how he views women (and therefore me). I don't need to be with a guy who looks down on my existence, but still wants to use me a living fuck-toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:04 PM
14

Yeah, he also thinks the pay-gap doesn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:38 PM
13

I watched some of his lectures (as far as I could stomach them) and I near fell off my chair laughing when he referred to a drawing of two snakes copulating as a "bizar and unusual phenemenom," that people just had to draw because of how supposedly unsusual it is. The guy mostly uses a lot of words to say f*ck all, but when he does actually speak he sounds like a quack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:36 PM
26

We seemed to have pissed of some scrotes. They keep downvoting our comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:04 PM
38

I take pride in being boring. I'll grey rock myself to peace and happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:45 PM
30

Like we would ever need a reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:44 PM
28

Thank you! I wish more people would realise this. Things don't become magically okay because of "choice". Sure, it's a "choice" to become an Amazon warehouse worker. Sure, it's a "choice" to go broke working for Uber. And yeah sure, it's a "choice" to wear make-up if you get fired without it. None, of this is okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:41 PM
3

I didn't know that about Britney Spears. They did do that to Jessica Simpson. I remember watching Newly Weds wayyyyy back (she was married to a scrote) and one episode she was in tears because the bosses of her record label said that her music sounded "too bluesy" and that because of the high notes people couldn't sing along to it. I felt so bad for her and was angry a the label heads. But I already knew back then how fake the music industry is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:32 PM
1

Why did you do catfishing on a language learning app? Not trying to be negative. I am genuinely curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:25 PM
19

They are beautiful and not just "ordinary". They are just not sexualized, which is as it should be. Also the term "strong female character" is really toxic, like it is something unusual that should surprise us. Just because most of malestream media can't be arsed to accurately represent what we women and girls are, doesn't mean we are all docile doormats. Men need to get a grip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:11 PM
28

Yeah, in the beginning there is also this line: "We don't kinkshame here." Pretty much says it all I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:38 PM
1

It would not unless she thinks it is and feels compelled to lower her standards. It was the tone with which he said it that bothered me the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:35 PM
8

One of the final guys made a really shitty comment by saying "You're gonna be single for a while."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:03 PM
6

Uh, there is identifying information in this screencap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:27 PM
19

He is only nice to her as long as she doesn't challenge any of his opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:23 PM
29

It's from the handbook. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:44 PM
4

It's legal because they have a powerful political lobby, a lot of money, politicians that protect them and an army of lawyers that go after anyone who criticises them. See Ashcroft vs. The Free Speech Coalition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:59 PM
11

The issue is not pornography but rape. Really? I am pretty sure the rape-rates are so high, because of pronography. Scenes depicting non-consesual acts (even if performed by paid performers) are immensely popular and a lot of men and boys jerk off to it. They are rewarding themselves with an orgasm for watching this shit. I am pretty sure it reenforces the notions that women and girls somehow "deserve" this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:54 PM
55

And that he expects his visitors to sit on the floor, assuming he ever has any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:44 PM
35

An all male sub? Why? Is he new to Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:12 PM
11

I have never heard that story before, but I can well imagine it. I think this probably happened to a good number of women this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:58 AM
34

Now that he's lost his job he is "too depressed" to do anything, so his wifey still has to do it all and play therapist. Because he can't be arsed to go see a professional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:28 AM
50

He wasn't nice if he made you go 50/50 on a lifestyle based on his much higher income. That probably ended up costing you more than if you lived by yourself at the time. He was putting on a facade of "niceness" to hide the fact that he was greedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:20 AM
19

That is such BS. Right now, except for COVID hit jobs, every employer I know is clamoring to get new people. Except they have difficulty getting them because they won't pay a decent wage to those who already have the skills they need and they won't retrain people either. That's the reason a single income can no longer support a household of four or more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:16 AM
36

Apparently he also made a new account just to reply about the typo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:00 PM
7

Guys got creepy to me as shortly after I had turned 10. As a woman in my tenties I had already grown thick skin and men couldn't shock me anymore. Lo and behold, the creppy behavior got a lot less. Maturity makes it easier to tell people to fuck off. These cowards creep on young girls for that reason alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:31 PM
18

I think the moment you feel the need to snoop, you already know he's untrustworthy. I am not sure I'd even bother checking his phone. I'd drop him the moment he gives me reason for suspicions. A HVM should never make you distrust him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:29 PM
11

"The other side of things" should have been if he was the one who got cheated on. He doesn't even spare a thought for how his wife must feel. I hope she leaves his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:41 PM
46

This is too sickening for words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:02 PM
5

This sounds like a dream, but it's exactly how it should be. Otherwise, what's the point of getting into a relationship if you are not their for each other when one is not feeling well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:02 PM
59

The act alone would have been enough to make me get rid of that filfthy POS. No apology would have been enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:16 PM
230

Iran would have been far more beautiful if men were not in charge. They destroyed a lot of that beauty with their stupid wars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:47 PM
66

Women's Health Magazine? I am pretty sure it's better for your health not to buy toilet paper like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:23 PM
11

I think we women are especially prone to job-creep. I noticed it's mostly women picking up the slack and the men start complaining when they don't keep doing that slack that was somehow created. But I am glad that I know the name for it now. I think I have fallen in that trap a few times myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:10 PM
3

That's good. I think it's best if you limit your exposure to this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:38 PM
7

He suddenly had a family emergency when it became clear his flakiness was unacceptable to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:25 PM
21

I have had guys try to put their heads in my lap in the past or generally acting immature around me and I find it such a turn off. I could hardly touch them after that. Unsuprisingly, I always broke up with a guy soon after he put me in a mom role in any capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:29 PM
24

There are definitely makeup artists who are geniuses with makeup and can make people look unrecognisable, but those skills are not very common and take a lot of time and money to accomplish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:26 PM
2

Thank you for clarifying. That makes a lot of sense. I am glad I misunderstood. You still deserve credit for organising though, because ordering, checking up on it, setting the table and putting the turkey in the over is still organising, although it should be faster and easier than organising it from scratch. I just frowned a little at them being okay with pizza and stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:22 PM
-1

I want to find out how involved the men in the house are in the day to day running of it. Yes, shit happens, but if the adults generally share the burden of organising meals then no one needs to be on the verge of tears about a single point of failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:16 PM
16

I completely agree. Any form of self-harm is technically done with consent and yet no one is calling it healthy or thinks it's okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:13 PM
5

Do you often work together with him? If so, is there anyway you could work with someone else? I would not trust this guy even as a coworker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:10 PM
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I think I am about to be a debby downer on this, but I have some questions. How did the situation get so far that organising the dinner was all in your hands till the delivery fell through and you could not stand the idea of cooking it all yourself? What would have happened if you hadn't gotten upset about it or had not planned on a delivery in the first place? Would you have spend hours by yourself cooking it? What about the cleaninging and the cooking they did? You describe it as though this i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:06 AM
4

It's always easier to talk down to a woman then it is for a (male) doctor. People will usually pick the path of least resistence, since if they criticised a doctor they might get push-back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:45 AM
1

How is it not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:44 AM
18

Then they should have berated the doctor for feeding a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:04 PM
34

Predators are opportunities, most wouldn't bother with the effort. The number of men who would seek us out would remain the same. EDIT: I meant to say "opportunists"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:05 PM
35

That is really scary. I think women are safer living alone and if you think that is think that's not enough get a big dog or a good security system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:03 PM
30

This may be personal, but in my experience these "chads" or jocks or whatever are simply scrotes with a gym membership. Same BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:57 PM
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They aren't accepting the situation as it is now. They are violent now, because they are so used to having women around who put up with their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:53 PM
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Some of these comments really disturb me. In every country on Earth the statistic proof that the women most at risk from are the ones partnered to one. If we stop dating men (and kill the sex industry) the murder and rape rates would go down, not up. Men with female partners do not hesitate to kill or rape. Furthermore, who should these sacrificial women be, partnered to scrotes to keep the rest of us "safe". It is the very fact that sex and relations are easy to get for men that causes all thes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:51 PM
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Women living with men are most at risk. If we stopped sharing our living spaces with men we are less likely to face violence from them, not more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:37 PM
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I highly doubt it. Men with partners rape and murder, too. In fact the partners of men are most at risk. I think the rapes and murders of women would go down, because we are not living them anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:35 PM
2

Damn, that wholesome and sad at the same time. Truly a shining example of a human being. This deserves a lot of praise, but what a sad ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:00 PM
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How did you eventually find out? He kept his facebook clean, I am guessing you found it via instagram or other social media sites. Good for you to keep digging though. Poor GF, he really pulled the wool over her eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:06 AM
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I feel the same about this story. He claimed she left him angry messages that demanded he'd contact her. I'll bet it was about the rape and that's why he broke it off. Although it could also have been that she broke it off. The police not believing her story does not proof his innocence, because police often refuse to take rape victims seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:58 AM
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I doubt she actually sent the text. "wanna smash" is not how many women would suggest sex, if at all. Especially not at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:47 PM
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Men, too, are more likely to get raped (by another man) than they are to ever be faced with a false allegation. EDIT: there is also no question of consent in his story. On the surface it seems like he just did this to her without asking. I checked out the username aswell. He is very active to BDSM and furry subs. It doesn't make a difference for this post, but personally I'd be wary of his other activities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:42 PM
5

I just had a look, but I am seeing mostly guys and I sorted by new. However, there is a r/RoastMeGirls Maybe you saw that one. I didn't see a guys or men specific roastme reddit though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:36 PM
5

If you can stomach it, watch The Price of Pleasure. Just don't watch it with him, because he'll likely get off on it. But it will show you what a lot of men watch, although it has gotten even worse since that documentary was made. Massive trigger warning though. I couldn't even finish watching it the first time. Never have I seen such clear evidence of just how much men hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:21 PM
1

Good point. It definitely another way to measure consistency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:02 AM
22

He watched it and learned nothing? You're not losing anything by ditching him. How could he still have no empathy for these young women? They are being suckered into decisions of which they do not yet understand the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:38 PM
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On top of that your value as a sex worker is inversely related to your age and your level of experience, so the longer you are in it the less you can charge till you get too old to get any clients at all. It's is the most dead-end "career" of all careers. The worst thing of all is that they pitch this kind of work to young girls and make it seem glamorous and easy and a path to stardom in more mainstream media careers. I remember seeing those girls from the Hot Girls Wanted documentary. They all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:35 PM
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I hope that women soon realize that being single is better than to be set up to compete with other women. If your man does that he is not worth it and should be divorced, blocked and deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:27 PM
7

These shoes seem to fit him very well, which is probably why he is so desperate to take them off and shout: "But not all men!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:14 PM
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Preferably never. I don't want to hear it, I want to see it. Been with too many guy who will tell me they love me and then disrespect me in front of my own friends on the same day. It cheapens the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:37 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXwaQXquA7E&feature=youtu.be&t=597 There you go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:17 PM
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We also don't negotiate for ourselves well, or at all sometimes. Remember what Jennifer Lawrence said about not negotiatiating for a hire rate while being paid less than her less qualified male co-stars: "I didn't want to be perceived as a brat." We get told over and over again not to ask for things we want/need/deserve. Little girls get assertiveness and ability to advocate for themselves stomped out of them at quite a young age. I was always told that "children who ask for things get nothing" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:05 PM
7

Never underestimates a man's capability to lie, particularly when it comes to sex. He never wanted to get married. It's only because Michelle kept brining it up. In the end he proposed by having a waiter bring the ring along with dessert and he then said to Michelle: "This ought to shut you up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:00 PM
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Remember this for your career aswell. If you didn't lie about your qualifications and are doing your job, they got no right to complain or try to make you feel like you don't deserve to be there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:08 AM
5

It's always satisfying to watch the trash take itself out and save you the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:09 PM
16

I just went to check that sub and almost every other post was about FDS. They are really hyper focused on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:01 PM
17

These idiots would really cut off their own noses to spite their faces. A high birthrate? Yeah, that seems like a great idea right now. Let's put more 'good little consumers' on this planet. Such common sense makes for great leaders. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:54 PM
18

Women don't talk like that, not even edgy, cool, pickmeishas. Girls definitely don't talk like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:31 PM
9

His story is all over the place and he seems to be leaving parts out. I don't buy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:36 PM
3

Perhaps I did and I apologize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:12 PM
12

You have to ask yourself who you are really angry with. They rightfully deserve your anger, you however deserve your own forgiveness. Anger for them takes away energy for yourself. Don't forgot how they have treated and learn from it, but also don't forget to treat yourself well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:43 PM
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He can have whatever standards for women that he applies to himself first, otherwise he should just STFU and GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:59 PM
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Agreed. There was so much f*cked up shit that women were just expected to put up with a not talk about, that romanticizing past relationships is simply a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:27 PM
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Yeah, she doesn't sound like much of a friend. But you should really stop competing with pickme's for male attention. It's not worth it. Look beautiful for you and never compare yourself to other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:43 AM
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Exactly! Someone did ask Ona Judge if all her struggles were worth it, because she might have had an easier life living in Washington's household and she said this: “No, I am free, and have, I trust been made a child of God by the means.” https://www.history.com/news/george-washington-and-the-slave-who-got-away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:23 PM
1

But why did he have to cut the other ones though? She might have want to keep them as a spare and it was just for a video too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:13 PM
2

I am leaning towards frenemy. Is she competing with you in other ways? Because I would not be surprised if she is hiding pickme underneath her so-called friendship with you. More information is needed. There could be something else going on, but like with men it's usually a pattern. The bad pictures won't be the only negative thing you'll notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:26 PM
4

Definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:11 PM
3

I've been grey rocking and it seems to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:10 PM
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Normally I'd say not to applaud a guy for doing the minimum, but the penguin water bottle and fuzzy socks are a really nice touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:51 PM
16

I got this at work. A co-worker will complain constantly toward me about all sorts of shit, but won't to the manager who can actually affect change. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:27 PM
12

A man pretending to be a woman defending men's shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:25 PM
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Right? I don't believe this is a woman either. Even pickmeishas usually have a different tone. This was definitely personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:24 PM
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I wasn't making that argument. Don't put words in my mouth. My argument was that their husbands are not good men, because they don't do 50% of the houswork and they don't keep their dick on their pants. I am privileged, because I am not lugging the deadweight of a useless man. But it was a 100% my choice, just as it was a 100% the choice of your married sister and your married friends to get into a subpar marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:39 PM
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There are plenty of white people who have more kids than they can raise. I am not saying they should have more money, although it would be a good goal to aim for, I am saying they should limit the number of kids they have. Unless you don't have access to birthcontrol or don't know how pregancies happen, then it has little to do with privilege and everything to do with being responsible parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:23 PM
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The bar is low for good behavior in men. The minimum for husband should be 50% of the housework when he is at home. That said, I wasn't calling them lazy, but kids are very expensive, particularly if you want to give them a good education. I feel a lot of people have kids for the sake of it and don't consider the circumstances under which these kids have to grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:06 PM
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You say they have good husbands, but they have more kids than they can afford and they have no help. How good can these husbands be if they are not pulling their weight and let their families live in poverty. The kids didn't ask for this and they deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:49 PM
2

The cake is also placed on the edge of the table and can fall down at any time, making a mess she will no doubt be expected to clean up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:37 PM
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If all a guy knows about you is what you look like, then I'd say that it's definitely a LV action. If he is HV, your whole existence should matter to him, not just your appearance, which will change over time anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:29 PM
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I agree. What little effort they put into taking at least a decent picture is very telling how much they care. If a tourist asked them to take a picture, he'd probably do a better of it. But I've also had exes who wanted me to pose in a certin way, usually some kind of sexually, vulnerable (still with clothes on though) way. I hated that too, because it's not natural for me to be that way. It made me wonder how they really saw me and I didn't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:39 AM
8

True, it's literally a pua move to show himself hanging out with average looking women to make beautiful women think that he is not shallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:36 AM
5

Not even that. The comments basically stating that he cares about "you", not what you look like. Or "they want to see genuine pictures, not instagram perfect ones." The self-delusion of these women is killing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:32 AM
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I think men often don't notice women at all, even very beautiful women, when they are just going about their lives, bounding with other men and building their careers. Women only become visible in specific scenarios and specific contexts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:30 AM
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Don't read the comments. People mistake the lack of effort in taking a proper picture for affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:17 PM
6

Install ublock origin in your browser and you'll never have to see this trash again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:30 PM
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Definitely. It's women and lower ranking males who enforce it. Higher ranking males are not that interested in the day to day upkeep of the patriarchy, they have others do that for them and profit from it the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:09 PM
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Now that you mention it, I think it might have been entirely possible an adult in his environment was using porn to groom him. 8 seems really young to discover it on his own. EDIT: It was succesful because he turned into a little shit towards all the girls in class, where as before there was none of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:42 PM
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A boy in my class who was 8 at the time drew a picture of breasts and told me that it was supposed to be me. I was 7 and not even close to puberty. We didn't even have the internet back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:35 PM
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It's a start, but I would amend it to say don't do "wifey" shit for anyone. Adults should clean up after themselves and help each other out. Being responsible is not a reward for someone else's good behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:34 AM
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It's their tiny minds that are the problem. I am sure a large dick won't stop a guy from being a rapist. It's all because they don't see as a human beings, but merely as meatsocks to use and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:49 PM
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I really don't want to do PIV, because I absolutely don't want to get pregnant. I. think the stress was preventing me from. enjoying it. So I stopped having it. My libido got much higher once I took piv off the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:49 PM
9

There apparently is an exfds sub for members who got banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:25 PM
1

Where headphones and listen to music you like. It makes it easier to ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:25 PM
3

I was desperate for validation in other ways, but not this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:01 AM
6

This is horrifying. I thought teengage boys were bad in my time, but this really takes the cake. Good for you for realizing your self-worth though. I wish I had FDS at that age. It would have helped me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:03 PM
5

Definitely. If he had wanted that he should have dated someone older. I didn't feel pressured by that at all and I am so grateful to my parents for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:51 PM
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It makes me sad to see so many teenage girls feel bad about not having had sex yet. I waited till I was in my twenties, because I just wasn't ready and my parents often impressed upon me not to have sex till I felt like it and that no one had the right to pressure me. I am very glad I waited. Don't regret it at all. I didn't have sex with my first boyfriend although he literally cried about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:20 PM
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I hadn't considered this before, but you are right. I don't often see men (online at least) go around calling male accusers liars, only female accusers. It's even a default. "Woman/girl says she was raped? Oh she must me lying/regretting." While male victims are often discredited by their rapists, they do get sympathy and understanding from the world at large. This is how it's should be for female victims as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:18 PM
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Depp ruined his own career by being drunk on set all the time. How can these idiots not see that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:08 PM
4

I don't even stick around long enough to get banned anymore. As soon as I see BS on a sub, I'm gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:44 PM
4

Yeah, let's not get soft / complaisant just because the democrats will soon be back in control. Don't forget how many abortion rights got erroded under Obama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:25 AM
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It sucks this one faked HV, but you are well rid. Mad respect to you for keeping your cool, calling them on their shit and then walking straight out. I probably would have been either tongue-tied or would have completely lost it. I think you handled it well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:23 AM
5

Her telling the women to go to the window and shout is a reference to the movie 'Network'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:08 AM
6

Yeah, I like this song better than Independent Women. I think this is more about indepence than its namesake and they are loud and unapologetic about it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:04 AM
12

Damn, how did I miss this song? It's awesome. Glad I discovered it and just had to share it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:36 PM
19

All good points and I'd like to add another: "Show me you love me, don't tell me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:28 PM
2

In the other video I posted there is more focus on dancing till they break away to another scene where they are basically wearing bikinis and stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:52 PM
5

Ah, yes that makes more sense. Agreed an adult should definitely have a car if they want to date, unless there is a medical reason they can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:51 PM
4

Well, the these are also sex moves and sadly the video does highlight certain parts of their anatomy. They deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:30 PM
6

Yeah. Been listening to in on repeat for the last half an hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:29 PM
1

She did really well in The Bling Ring, but now it has me wondering how much acting that was or am I being unfair now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:15 PM
22

Probably not, but unless you are well familiar with them they are hard to recognize. It's too damn ridiculous we women need to learn this for our own preservation. That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:11 PM
5

I promise I won't be posting anymore TLC here today, but I still love their music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:50 PM
5

You see I had this brother who was mad at me 'Coz I told my home girl that he wasn't packin' Told the truth so I really don't give a damn That I spilled the beans on his little short stem man Some of y'all be foolin' us Big feet big hands just plain big, the sex ain't worth a damn We women wanna know these things If y'all got the bat but not the swang Put in work if you don't want the girl to talk And you don't want your feelings hurt Put in work 'coz if you don't That girl's just gon' go spread…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:50 PM
6

Only line I don't agree with is the line about walking. Nothing wrong with walking if your destination is within walking distance. Can we get a nostalgia flair or a "queens ahead of their time" flair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:41 PM
39

She is turning into such a pickme, it's painful to watch. Still really pissed about how she and the rest of the HP cast dragged Rowling who basically made their careers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:35 PM
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I wondered about this too. I recently went in for a Corona test, because of cold symptoms (thankfully negative), but the nurse (was a guy) doing the swaps was really rough. I ended up retching and coughing and they said that it was a good reaction. I felt like they were getting off on seeing me nearly vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:13 PM
16

Like Lars and the Real Doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:45 AM
26

Like you love me? F*ck that noise. Either love me or f*ck off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:34 AM
9

I think you need a change in siutation if the people around prevent you from voting. Sounds like a very toxic environment where you live now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:42 AM
10

For me it said the video is unavailable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:38 PM
31

This is finacially generous, but low in effort. It's also inappropriate early on in the relationship. It's like he is trying to buy affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:33 PM
8

This is BS. Been in a relationship where a deceased ex came up once. He was LV in other areas, but the ex was not an issue at all.The ex is only hell if the guy makes it one. The ex is just an axcuse and it's a double insult to both his current partner as well as the legacy of the former one who died and is now being used as a stick to beat people with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:51 AM
10

Yes, I've had a DM saying the same thing. I have blocked it and reported it as spam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:04 AM
1

I've had a few. I've blocked them immediately and deleted the chats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:48 AM
4

I am so happy for you that you have such supportive friends around you. I think that's very important. I also think you made the right decision with regards to your BF. You now have more time and energy to devote to the things you want to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:42 AM
8

Usually this turns into a game of chicken to see who can live in filth the longest. Hint, it's always going to be him. She'll end up leaving him in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:14 PM
40

He will work on his filter? How would he feel if she started pointing out hot guys to him and asking him to to talk about others guys with her? I'll bet all of a sudden the obtectification won't be so much fun anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:19 PM
11

Omg, that poor woman in the original post. She did something nice for her BF and he starts trash-talking his exes, because they didn't do that for him? And you ex-bf praises that kind of behavior. You are well rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:17 PM
13

They want someone who is smart enough to show off as a trophy to friends and family, but not smart and strong enough to challenge them. It's the mark of a deeply insecure man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:00 PM
8

I think remaining civil in the face of such rudeness is showing character. You are not to blame. You took the high road and dodged a bullet. It sucks that he wasted your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:58 PM
24

This is why I cannot watch shows like Game of Thrones. Plus, they pretend rape is just "rough sex". I also can't watch Outlander for that same reason and I turned off The Witcher the moment they started to show a garden full of naked women. None of this is entertainment for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:29 PM
7

I think this is the right attitude. What interesting thing could their possibly be to try at a coffee place? The pressure will be solely on whether or not you click and there is nothing else to make it enjoyable if you get of to rough starts with finding conversation topics. With dinner you can start off by talking about the restaurant and the menu and take it from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:48 PM
28

This sounds fake. Probably propaganda spread by trumpers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:56 AM
15

Good for you. You deserve much better than this a*hole. Glad you stuck to you guns. You can't blame yourself either. It seems like he played with your emotions in a very abusive way. No wonder you were questioning yourself and that the break-up felt like a serious heartache. You were practically trauma-bonded to this abusive narc. Here is to the next man actually deserving you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:47 AM
77

You had me going for a bit. But I think hearing some dudes opinion on Jordan Peterson is an excellent red-flag test. Block and delete immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:24 PM
15

They can do this just as well as we can, because they do it with other men all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:46 PM
32

We are expected to read between the lines, interpret their body language and tone of voice. It's only fair they do the same for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:25 PM
20

Because Hollywood just threw a few men they didn't like very much to the wolves to placate women and then called it a day. The abuse is systemic, which is why most abuser were able to remain put.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:35 PM
1

That's an appeal to authority that without other evidence I would not trust. There have been plenty of idiots with airtime on prime time television in the 90s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:18 AM
4

A lot of the time, we won't even notice your efforts to get our attention. Could that possibly be because they are not interested? Because a guy who is interested will pay attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:10 PM
8

You shouldn't tell him that. Find out if he voted for Trump and get rid of him if he did. Don't give him an opportunity to lie to you so easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:55 PM
10

Had to look up what SPH meant. SMH. I wish I was born a thousand years from now and people would in general be smarter, I hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:37 PM
12

Ugh, it sounds like a neat idea untill someone turns this into a porn trope. Some guys are into humilation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:32 PM
8

Like a little instruction note for your sex partners? Although they shouldn't need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:55 PM
2

The only way it stop is if the overwhelming amount of people in the military are women. And I don't think we women should be dying for men's wars anymore than we already are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:44 PM
6

I worked in the shipping industry for while. While, I was never assaulted the men there made it clear they "tolerated" me at best. It was a mental hell-hole. I had to listen to their stupid anti-woman "jokes" on the daily. I always got the worst shift too and was blamed for being new and inexperienced. So glad I got out of there and I had it "easy" compared to quite a few women in that industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:39 PM
8

At least your mother got out and voted. So many women stayed home and basically defaulted the election in favor of Trump. Men will vote against women's interests in a heart-beat. Then you get stuff like this: https://edition.cnn.com/2020/10/29/politics/wives-of-the-deplorables-support-group/index.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:23 PM
6

Ugh, I don't even know what to say to that. Glad you got rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:37 PM
67

Also I hate the term "foreplay". Honey, for me that is the main event. Your orgasm is "foreplay" or "afterplay" or "no-play". But my orgasm matters most if you expect me to have sex with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:34 PM
5

Just a warning about Adam Curtis. He loves sweeping generalisations and broad statements, without providing much evidence. He pulls a lot of different things, some of which are unrelated, together to form terrifying and rage inducing narratives. He is enjoyable to watch and has some good points, but take most of his stuff with a grain of salt. Edit: a few of his favorite lines: This is the story of... Fortunately... Unfortunately... What they didn't realize... You can even turn this into a drink…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:16 PM
6

Lange Frans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:08 PM
7

This is also really the main purpose of BDSM. The victim feels so good about the trauma bonding that they are blind to the removal of their self-esteem, their self-determination and even their own identity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:06 PM
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All her examples were from women who were being abused, but it's important to note that emotional, psychological, and physical abuse can happen to anyone. This is the part that stood out to me. Everything here is classic narcissistic abuse taken to extreme ends, but even a little bit of this can be very damaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:01 PM
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You have fallen into the clutches of a narc. He probably recognize the abuse you suffered in the past and that's what he honed in on. I suspect there was also a good amount of love-bombing early on in the relationship. Please, get yourself out sooner rather than later. Every day you stay with him will put you more in danger. It's better to recover after you surgery with family or friends. Is it abosultely not possible to move back before you have it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:18 PM
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I hear you on the self-esteem front. I used to develop crushes that were sure to go unnoticed/unrequitted. For me this was like drinking alcohol when I was feeling low and not good enough for my surroundings. I haven't had it happen to me since I fully emerged myself in FDS. I don't need them anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:47 PM
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But given all this, is it even remotely worth it to interact with men in your free time? There is a good chance they will do this given half a chance. Why risk it all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:39 PM
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Just when I thought men couldn't get more repulsive to me, they somehow manage to make themselves even worse. I don't I'll be able to even make out with any man ever again, let alone have sex with one. The subtle and not so subtle signs of disrespect are always there. We will always be objects to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:06 PM
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I would argue that all of the male love interest in that show are LV. I can't ship any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:02 PM
3

trauma bonding = BDSM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:49 PM
11

I believe this is similar to a "tone"-argument, where the focus of a discussion is pointed at how someone sounds rather than what they said. It's a classic derailment and a old method for not having to engage with criticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:47 PM
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Many men use it to groom their female partners into actually doing the degrading stuff they see on screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:03 PM
12

Watched the first clip and serious what has objectification got to do with sex? How can you even have sex if you are a object rather than a human being? If you are an object you can only have things done to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:32 AM
2

So for you this is a positive habit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:37 PM
2

Yeah, but you also do it mid-conversation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:52 PM
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Agreed. He's been putting up a good show, but that's all it is. Laziness in bed is a sure sign he is LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:35 AM
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I have a lot of my male coworkers say my name when talking to me, but I am convinced this is not because of a romantic and/or sexual interest. ​ EDIT: I find it a little be strange though. When first addressing someone, sure. But I don't get why people do it repeatedly during a conversation when it is already clear they are speaking with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:01 AM
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I thought the same. What self-respecting woman refers to her breasts as "titties"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:36 AM
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Yeah, sometimes men who call themslves feminists are even worse. It doesn't just stop with menspalining feminism to women either. This is where the whole idea of sex-positivism comes from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:18 AM
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This is awesome! But I feel ignorant, to which horrible meme are you referring?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:45 PM
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I work with mostly men and I am fairly new. That's how they get away with it. In some ways it's kinda like highschool. If you protest they know you hate it and will continue untill you get fed up and quit. If you punish and discourage the behavior it'll stop in the end. Mostly I just turn away from the conversation to get back to work. Nobody can get on your case for that. Or I interrupt the conversation with a work related question. This time I just had to say something to put a stop to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:52 PM
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If I did that I'd be finished. Unfortunately, unlike with my personal life I have to approach this kind of BS with some strategy and a bit punishment to discourage them from doing it again, but not in such an obvious way that it marks me as the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:51 PM
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OMG, had this stupid "discussion" at work again recently. Some dude had taken pictures of women's supposedly shitty parking jobs. I have seen men do worse with parking, but whatever. When I was asked for my opinion I told them that since expectations for women's parking are so low I park like an asshole on purpose to get as much space for myself as possible. I exaggerated this by stating that I park diagonally across three spaces. I think this may have been a bit of a lightbulb moment for them. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:43 AM
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So Only Fans is basically the "Girlfriend" Experience 2.0. Somehow that that not surpise me at all. It's a smart business model though. I read through the comments on that video and it seems that some of the content creators on only fans pay other people to message the fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:06 PM
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I like your post. ​ I would just like to make one small side-note. There is a difference to "feeling" empowered and "being" empowered. I fear that libfems put too much emphasis on the feeling. That focus on feelings in this instance can lead to being tricked into doing things that are decided disempowering such a porn and BDSM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:38 PM
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A lot of guys get red pilled before they even hit puberty. I don't think you missed out. You need to selective regardless of what age group you are in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:16 PM
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Your dad is a classic narc. Sadly they never change. They enjoy other people's emotional outbursts and will go to great lengths to cause them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:36 PM
2

I hope the students learn something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:03 PM
5

Is he much older than you are by any chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:03 AM
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This. It doesn't matter what he wants or why. If it's incompatible with your wants and desires there is no point in wasting time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:47 AM
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I still think we're better off knowing it. It helps us make informed decision about who to spend our time with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:59 PM
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These red pillers can twitch and squirm all they like. They are a dying breed and they know it. We are the future, they are the past. Speaking of which, just had one trying to get into my DM's. Account was less than an hour old. I think he made it just in an effort to talk to me. I almost feel sorry for him that his efforts were fruitless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:55 PM
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The internet does help us to connect, but it helps us do a lot of other stuff too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:40 PM
4

I can understand why you reacted that way. If anybody blamed my mom for something that was done to her I would probably lose my shit too. 25 years is a long time. Maybe don't reach out to her, but keep the line open, so to speak, in case she decides she wants to level up. If she ever wants to come around, perhaps it's worth rekindling the friendship. ​ It's up to you if you are okay with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:20 PM
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That is simply horrifying. I am guessing you divorced him after all that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:19 PM
3

Wrong ring from Sex and the City
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:17 PM
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He relied on Darcy's opinion, who was negative about Jane right from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:24 AM
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I am not so sure he was actually goodlooking. There is a line in both this series and the book which goes: "He wouldn't be quite so handsome if he was not quite so rich." So all he had going for himself was his money. It's also a bit of a disconnect where he treats the people he has known for a long time well, but is a jerk to every new connection. He had no need to treat the people in Hertfordshire the way he did. They immediately hated him for his behavior too. Maybe it had something to do wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:21 AM
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I prefer Bingley too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:55 PM
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I think he grows into a high value male, after it becomes clear that Elizabeth will accept him as no less. But she doesn't set out to fix him. After that proposal it looks like they won't meet again. But , this being a book and all and ofcourse they will end up together, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:53 PM
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There is nothing to it. I simply would tell them I wouldn't do those things. They can either accept or find another sex partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:52 PM
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Nah, it's not that kind of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:15 PM
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It's a movie, about a strike at the Ford factory in the 70s, where the female employees demanded equal pay. Sadly they never got it, but this is about their struggle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:29 PM
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It's a shame that they are still friends in the end though. I really wished she had just cut him out of her life. Also what she does before she finally leaves screams pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:25 PM
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I used the have the DVD. The starting menu features a "his side" "her side" selection. I've always hated it. This movie was advertised as two people disagreeing and not communicating, but it's really about a woman and her dead weight, man baby. Their relationship never made sense to me. She went out with this much better looking dude and then suddenly this guy because he started verbally harassing her. Like, really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:23 PM
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I hope she divorces him and find a man who appreciates her. I am sure she'll find plenty of guys interested if she started dating again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:55 PM
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What I found worked for me in the past is taking penetration and oral off the table. Guess what's left? That's right, my pleasure which becomes the focus of the sexual encounter. After that I may give them a hand job and I don't even feel bad about this arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:53 PM
2

Forget to mention, but I want some dividend paying stocks as well for some extra income and to reinvest what I don't need straight away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:38 AM
2

I definitely don't want to do daytrading. I also know trying to beat the market is about as effective as a blind-folded monkey throwing darts at a list of stocks.I want to spread my investments and watch them grow, like you do with plants. Thanks for the book suggestion. I will check it out. EDIT: I don't have a 401K, because I am not in the US. However, employers often do match investments into pension funds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:35 AM
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Financial indepence is the first step to leveling up. It's the foundation on which you build the rest of your life. Right, now I am still completely dependent on steady employment, which is the same as putting all your eggs in one basket. If the economy takes out my industry, I won't even be able to keep a roof over my head. That is what I want to do FIRE, because I want more than one source of income. Retiring early is a bonus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:33 AM
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I want to do FIRE, but I feel overwhelmed with the choices in brokers and stocks. But I believe it can be done if consistently over time and not treated as a get-rich-quick scheme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:21 PM
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Have fun without self-respect? How is that even supposed to work. It's impossible for me to have fun without respection myself, because then I feel like I don't deserve it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:18 PM
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Yeah, guys being LV is a common phenomenon. But you know what else is common? Low wages, not having adiquate healthcare, no access to proper schooling, car accidents, wildfires, hurricanes, etc. Just because it's common does not make it okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:58 PM
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Exactly. If we are going to talk about HVM celebrities I think Keanu Reeves or Tom Hiddleston are much better examples. Unless I missed some fucked up stuff they are known for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:46 PM
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Is it strange that I do like the reverse? Both in sitting as well as texting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:22 PM
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I also saw his "appology", which amounted to something like "I am sorry, anybody got offended." Saw him ask a female interviewer: "What do you think of me?" Yeah, like nope. He's got a pretty face, but that's about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:17 AM
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This is what feminism was always about at its core. Liberal feminists have just lost the plot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:06 AM
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Except they are not going through this. I don't know if single business or organisation that won't fire someone on the spot for starting a fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:05 AM
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The only reason a bully bullies is because he or she is trying to score some cheap points with their shitty friends, regardless of the sex of the victim. The motives for abuse are always the same. The victim is just conveniently there. Usually the bully will have forgotten within five minutes the hurt they caused and the laughs of approval and fear they have received. They will do it again tomorrow or even an hour later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:04 PM
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Exactly! And she is putting that child through hell. Can you even imagine growing in a home where there is a lot of abuse going on? It's not fair to the potential child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:57 PM
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Sure, this is financially generous, but it's not much of a date. Browsing and selecting books to buy is a solitary activity. Plus, this requires no planning and no preparation and requires little to no effort in trying to impress your date with your conversation skills and personal grooming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:13 PM
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I would love to hear about alternatives to OLD. I would also love to hear people's positive experiences with dating where they did not meet their date on a dating app or website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:42 PM
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I saw that too. He is still superficial, just less so than most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:15 PM
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BTW, for those interested in the talks of Gail Dines, I can recommend Neo-Liberalism and The Defanging of Feminism: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDcTt0emXhE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:13 PM
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You should check out some lectures by Gail Dines. She talks about this at length and also about the endorsement of porn by liberal feminism. Gail Dines doesn't show graphic material, but she does talk about the acts done to women's bodies in porn in details and also of the injuries that women in porn sustain, so beware. She says: In porn they have done everything to a woman's body short of killing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:03 PM
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Yes, it is. Massive trigger warning for this film.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:00 PM
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OMG, The Price of Pleasure was so difficult to watch. I saw it over 10 years ago. It showed me for the first time what men are actually watching and not what they want women to think porn is. I cried a lot watching that documentary. It has alerted me to the fact of just how much men hate women. Hardcore is another difficult, wake-up call documentary. Also traumatizing to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:42 PM
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Either way, he was asking to be reassured and soothed. Good on you for recognizing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:45 PM
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This is code for: I want a young woman who has never dated before and therefore hasn't yet finalized her list of dealbreakers. She is also not yet aware of how valuable she is and that men are a dime a dozen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:42 PM
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I am thinking that this guy is just trolling. He is trying to get rid of the competition but having the LVM around him look even worse than he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:35 PM
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I don't know chefs that serve food, let alone Mac and Cheese. Nothing wrong with being a waiter, unless you lie about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:24 PM
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It's a tie, between a date at a restaurant with flies buzzing everywhere and a guy who couldn't hold a conversation and a date where I was wearing heels, which made walking uncomfortable, and the dude still made me walk several kilometers over cobble stones to a bar. EDIT: Sorry these were actual dates, rather than suggestions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:58 AM
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Ugh, I get asked this question on job-interviews. Substitute friends for something like former co-workers or even boyfriend (that question is bordering on illegal). I hate it when men do this, even more so in a professional setting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:54 AM
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Don't! It's actually in the handbook. This is classic predator trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:44 AM
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So he lied on his profile? The reason you are talking to him, is because he made you believe he was something he isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:14 AM
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Hey, you Schnitzel! Read the sign! I am dying. ;D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:46 PM
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What is with these wild, unkempt beards? Is that a right-wing thing? I see this on so many of these white guys at these racists rallies. Whenever I see it on a guy I immediately wonder what his politics are and I want to stay as far away from them as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:54 PM
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I would not surprised if they have them as wallpapers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:51 PM
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Upvoted just for using the cake eating in a way that makes the most sense to me. Though I know both are correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:54 PM
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Is that what that article was about? That this dude is exchanging letters with a woman who was writing a book? Because that actually makes sense and good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:22 AM
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I love the term "gentle masculinity." I am not a big fan of the whole concept of "gender", but if we must have it, "gentle masculinity" would be my ideal for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:34 PM
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It reads like a deliberate misrepresentation. Like the were more focused on the critics than the sub itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:39 PM
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Sadly, I doubt it. I'll bet this thing happens quite often. She told everyone. It was no secret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:35 PM
10

But does that mean one of your children is now living with your abusive ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:45 PM
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A friend of mine got into a fight with her brother when they were both in their early twenties. I don't know how it got started or what exactly happened, but guess which of them ended up with a broken jaw? "Equal fights"? Is she crazy? Does she think she stands a chance in a fight with a man? Maybe if he was very weak, but otherwise she'll likely end up in the hospital, regardless of who hit first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:41 PM
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FFS, he creates a child and can't even do the bare minimum of being financially responsible for his own daughter? On top of that he evicted them from their home. What a bastard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:52 PM
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What I noticed that he is sitting in front of her taking up more space in the frame. It was downhill from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:46 PM
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This was not minor. It was a system of laziness this guy was developing at a rapid pace. I would not surprised if he hadn't pulled this crap, and gotten away with it, many times before. I suspect a lot of coworkers will end up coming out of the woodworks who have been targeted like this aswell. I would also not be surpised if this guy will end up fired before the month is out. Unless you have very good labor laws in your country, in which case it will take longer as they need to build a case aga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:30 PM
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I think that's where the push for BDSM comes from. They get off on it and have tricked women into believing it's empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:31 AM
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Some of the comments to that post are horrifying. They are calling it a "tactic" and saying "my wife used to do this." I wonder how many abusers are on that sub taking notes from posts like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:29 AM
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Libfems are pickmes and they don't even know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:59 AM
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It means he is using her as a therapist on top of everything else she is doing to make his life comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:36 AM
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It's a shame they don't realize they can get a lot more out of life if they raise their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:35 AM
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It's good you want to help out, but do not sacrifice the quality of your own life because of your sister's mistakes. Do not stop leveling up. Also I hope she makes the bastard pay through the nose in child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:33 AM
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It makes me sad that there are women out there who are convinced you can get bored of love, respect and sexual that centered around their own pleasure. I think they are just afraid to dream of what they really want in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:23 AM
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Agreed. Can we start calling that "vanilla-shaming"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:01 PM
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Yeah, you never know what someone else is aware of. Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:00 PM
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I have never looked at it like that, but you are absolutely right. It is victim blaming. Eventhough I have never liked BDSM, I always felt like there was something wrong with me for expressing it openly. Now I know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:18 PM
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Perpetuating this shit still has consequences for women in the real world. Women die because men hate them so much. Feeding this hate will just cause more women to die. It's like Trump running around with COVID and still infecting yet more people, some of whom will die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:56 PM
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I think there is a good chance that if Michelle Robinson had been on this sub during that time, she might have given him some strong pointers as to how she wanted to be treated before they started dating. He did step up to the plate after they got married. He also got married because that's what she wanted to. I'd like to think he would have leveled himself up earlier, but who is to say. It's also possible that she would have moved on to someone else. ETA: The state of his car when they first me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:19 PM
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I have nothing to add, but didn't want to read and run. I couldn't agree more. Self-respect is at the core of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:03 PM
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Have any of you read Becoming by Michelle Obama? She wrote about her life and her marriage in detail. I will have to say that while I think of Barrack as a HVM now, he wasn't initially. He did not want to commit and was on occasion an absent husband and father, although in his defence he did try to prioritise his family and it ended up costing him politically. I think he has come a long way when Michelle made it clear that she and the children also had lives to lead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:56 PM
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Yup, Aileen Wuornos was a prime example of this. She killed her rapists and her would-be rapists. She got the death penalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:31 PM
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I don't trust men who say they don't hit women. They definitely do, otherwise it wouldn't even be on their minds and they would not even mention it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:29 PM
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I want to add to this that his lack of interest isn't your fault. If he was truly interested he would have been truly interested. There is nothing you could have done to change that. All you can do is recognize it and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:46 PM
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Couldn't agree more. Shut down any non-work related topics and bring it back to something relevant. If that doesn't work, end the conversation. Be very strict in your boundaries with this man. He's temperature testing you. This is grossly disrespectful and he knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:50 PM
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I didn't know Bumble had a friend mode. That sounds awesome. Then again, OLD sounds good in theory, but has some pitfalls they don't like to advertise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:14 PM
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Ugh, the financial security is always necessary, even if "you can take care of yourself". Because you can't swim with a block of cement attached to your legs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:09 PM
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The neighbor thought he was sketchy as well, when reviewing the security footage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:57 AM
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Maybe she wanted the girl to die. I mean, the icecream had everything in it Cece was allergic to. It could have put her in anaphylatic shock, which is life threatening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:56 AM
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I thought the GF mostly was a fool and a pickme, but maybe she was also sketchy. She fell for the oldest trick in the book. Dude telling her he is not happy with his marriage and is going to leave his wife. Most won't, but this psycho actually killed his wife and children, because he wanted a completely new life. Everything about him was sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:54 AM
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What amoral POS publishing house gave him a book deal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:50 AM
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I don't think being nicer could have saved Shannan. Her very existence and that of the kids stood in the way of the shiny new life he wanted. They just had no value to him as human beings. To him it was like killing one dog and adopting another. The guy was just a psychopath and probably addicted to porn. Please, get yourself out sooner rather than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:23 AM
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I see a lot of "I will do this once... (insert any old excuse)." He is asking you to bet on him without any evidence he ever intends to pull his weight in the relationship. He is "nice", but refuses to prove it to you. I'd say you are well rid of this dead weight in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:22 PM
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Just remember that a man who will cheat with you will cheat on you and will treat any woman as disposable. Dude was clearly low value and I'd say good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:06 AM
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It pisses me off when white men use it against women they simply don't like and not to point out racism. I feel the term has been hijacked and made into something other than what it originally was. I have even seen men call black women "Karens". Seriously WTH?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:36 PM
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I love these metrics. In my thirties I am definitely more in the prime of my life than I was in my twenties, because I did not know how to set boundaries and I didn't know what I wanted out of life and I had no sense of direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:44 PM
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That's awesome. I am going to try that once COVID is over and we can travel freely again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:19 PM
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I don't want to be in relationship with someone I can't eventually share my darker sides with. I fully believe men can't be trusted with this information, which is why I don't date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:27 PM
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This list is perfect. It's what I want in a man, too. And it's nothing we would not ask of ourselves either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:43 PM
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It may be a bit hostile, but it also accomplished its goal. She now knows right away who he is rather than wasting any more time on him. If she had responded with a polite "thanks", it would have taken him longer to reveal his true face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:10 AM
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In this instance she might be better off with the shame. He and her own family treat her terribly if they had rather she stay with a man who is so impure than set her standards higher and demand to be with a man who practices what he prays. ETA: Disclaimer I am an athiest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:09 PM
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...how you lead yourself is all that matters in the end of the day. Words to live by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:40 PM
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Reminds me of a scene from "Liberated". Guy comes out of a room, during spring break, after just having had sex with a woman he met 20 minutes before. Male interviewer: "What were the qualities that attracted you to her?" Douche-Bro Scrote: "She was easy." hahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:10 PM
3

Thanks, I was wary of googling it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:57 PM
15

Kink shame away, because men like him deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:53 PM
3

DD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:52 PM
5

They are narcs who think they are doing the world a favor. If he cared he would do a combination of chemical castration and therapy to make sure he wouldn't hurt any children or young women. They would stop watching porn or get treatment if they are addicted. They are doing none of that which means they just don't care. Edit: fixed spelling mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:52 PM
21

Damn, this reminds me of the movie The First Wives club. All these women built up their husbands and then got dumped for younger and hotter women. "Made rich by his first wife's connections and now made happy by his second wife's youthful, good looks."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:24 PM
14

Some people believe the Earth is flat. Your believes do not make you right. Short of entering politics yourself, your vote is the only power you have. Unless you're content to be a doormat, then be all means stay home and chain yourself to the kitchen stove.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:15 PM
8

A lot of (white) women stayed home in 2016. Hillary might not have been everyone's candidate, however if there had been a higher female turnout in 2016 in both the primaries as well as the general election, there is no way you would have had trump for a president right now. The dumbest thing you can do as a woman is not vote. You'll always hurt yourself more than any male demographic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:07 PM
19

This is such a trap and these influencers are lying and often not even doing the work themselves. Furthermore, if everyone is an influencer no one is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:18 PM
15

Plus, they have created this system in which they are seen as a utility. They have themselves to blame and need to stop looking at women to fix their messes for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:04 PM
18

It seems that MGTOW is quarantined. It states that the sub is dedicated to highly offensinve content. Who would have thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:02 PM
4

And he has the gall to call himself a "gentleman". Good grief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:50 PM
8

I had to laugh at that dude who hid his wealth from the women he was dating and usually gets dumped when they find out he's been lying and tight fisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:52 PM
9

It was deleted by mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:13 PM
24

The post has been deleted already. Why are these posts disappearing so quickly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:12 AM
6

I have seen that before and I am not surprised. Rapists are selfish cowards who are a drain on the community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:31 AM
49

He is so full of shit. In small communities it doesn't help anyone to tolerate rape. It creates unrest and trauma and I am fairly certain hunter-gatherer communities either killed or expelled their rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:33 PM
7

Yeah, it's very one-sided. Women hear this all the time, but I am not so sure men are given the same advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:57 PM
6

Maybe in the back of his mind he was always like that and the Creatine made him show you his true face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:50 PM
61

If I noticed they saw me this way after I have sex with them, I'd might wish violence on them too. As it stands, not having sex with them at all is the better options. Men are so vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:46 PM
5

Those with power will claw and fight to hang on to it. The more violence and intimidation they use the more power they have to lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:44 PM
2

It might not have been you, unless the mods can read DM's. It could be that someone else who got DM'ed reported OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:43 PM
7

I have a few things I also don't agree with. I don't want to settle down and I think men are too much trouble to spend my efforts on in the dating department. I use it for my career. But style wise I will always be just a little too casual to be a HV Queen. Plus, I am not that young anymore and my weightloss has plateaued. I think I'll probably grow old as a fat woman and I don't mind it too much. I also really don't like make up and dresses. So this highly stylish impacable look is out of my re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:37 PM
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We don't get more emotional support; we ARE the emotional support for both men and each other. Even the men who have attempted to empathize with a shitty situation was I was going through in the past, provided only sub-par support. It's other women I rely on for that and men rely on women for that too. That't why men want the "Girlfriend Experience". It's not the sex that is the most important to them, it's the soothing of their pain that matters most to them which is they really should be deali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:06 PM
41

Even if you will never be pregnant. Sex is never 50/50 even when a men puts your sexual pleasure first. He will never run the same risks we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:58 PM
24

He "ate" your face? He sounds like a bad kisser who thinks slobbering all over your face is somehow hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:20 PM
9

Well so far so good. Haven't been banned yet. If the other comment is visible for you guys then they have decided not to ban me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:27 PM
15

Gross. He is already 15 years older than Theron and has now suckered a 28-year-old into marriage. What a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:49 PM
32

I made a sarcastic comment about the emotional blackmail you have received from your previous post. I received a message that is has been automatically removed and that I may soon be banned from reddit. So if I disappear from this sub you'll all know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:10 PM
20

I got SEVERAL direct messages and chats from men telling me that my post convinced them to kill themselves So they were messaging you from beyond the grave? That's some impressive "ghosting".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:51 AM
5

I will tell you this story back when I was still doing OLD. I was texting (before the age of smartphones) with a guy who kept asking me out and I didn't feel like going out with him. In the end he called me. I gave him a definitive NO and when he asked me why I said that he had failed to entertain me in our interactions. I got a very angry "WHAT!?" in response and I immediately softened up my language, because I felt like what I said was out of line. The next day he sent me a screenshot of this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:11 AM
17

For me it was not so much a question of whether I am worth it, but whether he is worth spending my time on. I quess when I ask that question I already know the answer and a date would pointless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:15 PM
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No woman with real options would go into prostitution, even if they like to have sex 20 times a day. They'd still rather have it with partners they chose themselves rather than assholes who bought their "consent"/"agency".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:41 PM
28

Can recommend this comic too: Mimosa Memoirs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:52 PM
90

Could also be a guy using a female avater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:29 PM
277

And pay for the privilege of being forced to do all this without getting anything in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:28 PM
6

I think this is already happening. I think it was a bait post. They sure found this sub quickly enough and have now removed the post with a link to this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:52 PM
3

WTF? Post has been removed and underneath it is a link to this sub, labling us a hate-sub. Perhaps this was a bait post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:50 PM
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They are not at fault, but it's also not worth the risk. Plus men of value will never disrespect a woman by asking for nudes. What use does it have other than disrespect and power over?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:20 AM
14

Yup, I started getting weird comments from guys in their 30s and 40s when I was only 10. I didn't understand them at the time, but made me very uncomfortable. However, that could also be due to the smirks accompanying these comments. I just knew they were inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:31 AM
1

Despite all his money he was still zero value. The fact that he even considered her an object to be acquired. I really wish there were a hell so he could rot in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:21 AM
20

Remember that loser who married Ana Nicole Smith and left her with nothing on his death so she had no choice but to go back into stripping and prostitution? Men are not automatically more generous when they can afford to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:58 PM
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It's also unrealistic, since in most cases she'll be making less than he is. So for her to do 50/50 means you'll put a larger percentage of her income in to "shared" expenses. The further along people are in their careers the worse this divide gets. Men asking for 50/50 is further reinforcing inequality. You'll also notice that men who say "50/50" and "no gold-diggers" also don't believe there is a pay-gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:56 PM
13

Yep, I think the other was unnamed. The reason she was kicked out of paradise is because god made her in front of Adam and Adam saw the whole process. It freaked him out so much, that he couldn't even go near her because he had seen her insides. Adam sounds like a scrote to me. It's not like his insides were any prettier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:01 PM
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That's what I thought you meant. So that means he backed off if they weren't enthousiastic. Good. I think that's how it should be, but I feel it's just not considered the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:59 PM
16

Give him sex? Did he still have sex with them eventhough he knew they weren't into it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:21 PM
10

Eve's two predecessors were banished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:10 AM
8

It's true that he doesn't love her any less because of porn, because he didn't love her at all to begin with or he would not be disrespecting her by jerking off to imagery depicting the abuse of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:25 PM
5

I feel that the forced positivity and the pressure to be grateful for every little breadcrumb we received is mostly aimed at women. I seriously doubt such an exchange would ever take place between a group of male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:38 AM
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The comments are interesting. They are telling you off for not being happy. It's the equivalent of having strangers tell you to "smile." Why are we women always under so much pressure to be happy and grateful, even when we don't feel it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:49 PM
3

People adopt children all the time and what about people who couple up with someone who is already a parent. That unwillingness to devote "resources" is just a bullshit excuse. If they feel that way about children who they haven't passed their DNA onto, I can only imagine how tight they would be with their own children or spouses. Such people should not reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:05 PM
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This only works if you accept that parents "own" their children rather than that a community is responsible for raising all children in it. That's really the problem I have with these paternity claims. It's very possesive. It's possesive of both women's bodies and children. It's totally unnatural and fucked up. Children do not exist for those who brought them into this world, they exist to be taken care of untill they can do it themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:14 PM
39

She probably was all that and he got bored with the lack of challenge, so he still basically threw her out on her ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:00 PM
80

I hope he even gets jailtime for this. She'll still has bills to pay. Her leg is broken so that's going to need further care and she'll need groceries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:56 PM
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I think he may have moved the money before he filed. I hope it won't make a difference though. I feel so sorry for her. He manouvered her into a positon of dependence and is now leaving her to basically starve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:55 PM
6

If you can't find a good one, no mate is better. Men need us a lot more than we need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:35 AM
3

Haha, had men complaining if I was taller than they were. Dated one guy who claimed to be taller than me (I know, I know), but there was actually an objective measurable difference in our heights and I was the taller one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:14 PM
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