I had a female friend when we were 16 or so who just started to have sex and more serious boyfriends. She told me that she had sex but he just started doing it when she was lying on the bed and she didn’t say anything and that was her first time and she thought that was normal. I had another female friend (I’m 23 now and so is she.) she told me that some guys in a relationship with you will just have sex with you randomly even if you say no, so for them to wait till you are ready to have sex is the bare minimum, of course but it’s praised that men do the bare minimum in relationships. (By pickmes) Not raping their girlfriends is the bare minimum! That is so sad. Also them making you cum first is the bare minimum. They should be trying to make you cum first! Before they do. They don’t care about you!