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| 110 | We are on our ownI'm ready to k!ll too. I'm going to rip the next rapist's throat open with my bare teeth if I have to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:49 AM |
| 251 | We are on our ownThis is completely true. One friend I told about it after it happened, he lied to the police and said he didn't remember anything. Another friend kept alternating between telling me it was my fault and then comforting me. Another male friend used my rape to tell me all about all the girls he raped in high school. A female friend comforted me and then she never spoke to me again after that day. The rape victim advocates were just clowns dancing for the police and the DA because they don't actuall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:27 AM |
| 32 | The Realities of Age Gap RelationshipsI know someone who will be 28 married to a 45 year old man probably with 2 children and they might even be autistic due to advance paternal age. She's 26 now. I would rather be dead. Imagine claiming onto a almost 50 year old man and still being in your 20s! She was so easy for him to trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 12:23 AM |
| 39 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..Lol yes he would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 10:45 PM |
| 24 | Had a scary encounter last night and just could use some supportWhat a scumbag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 10:30 PM |
| 68 | Had a scary encounter last night and just could use some supportGod you are so right! That's what she was saying. Life is too short to keep haters as friends. She's long gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 104 | Had a scary encounter last night and just could use some supportShe was too. She later told me that men did stuff like this to me because of my "sexual energy". Fucking asshole had me wondering. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:09 PM |
| 206 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..I guarantee he's dating her so that he always has the upper hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 07:08 PM |
| 197 | Had a scary encounter last night and just could use some supportFuck! I am so relieved you were able to leave. I once told my friend not to leave me alone with a creep who had been groping me. I go to the bathroom trusting her to wait for me. But when I come out nobody's fucking there and he attacked me. We ended up fighting over the bathroom door, him trying to pull it open and me trying to push it closed. I finally got it closed, locked it and luckily the bathroom had another exit and I just ran like hell out of that house. I'm sorry they just left you lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:45 PM |
| 7 | My mom is playing PickMe games and has plans to move in with her BF very soon and I am not coping well at all. Really struggling with boundaries and how to handle this.This is my concern as well. The money from her home sale needs to be secure. I really hope that she could be convinced to buy a home there to rent out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 01:39 PM |
| 45 | SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??Yeah they feel so much love they have to wrench sex out of you and essentially rape you. When a man starts talking about not feeling appreciated and bonding and how much effort he's put in and trust in relation to getting sex you know that he's a manipulative, entitled bastard. No man who cares one wit about trust, bonding or feeling appreciated would try to force you into sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 42 | SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??So he's only taken her on 10 real dates in 5 months? I would still consider him a stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 04:41 AM |
| 168 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.She said in the recording that she was filming the lightning storm and saw the tornado. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 11:03 PM |
| 53 | How the Big Business of Divorce Benefits Men.... Please read ladies and realize that many lies have been spread about how men are "divorce r*ped" and taken to the cleaners. However the data shows something completely different.That's such a scam. Companies know they can fuck women like this. We deserve better laws to protect us and our interests. We really have very few rights and protections considering our situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 72 | How the Big Business of Divorce Benefits Men.... Please read ladies and realize that many lies have been spread about how men are "divorce r*ped" and taken to the cleaners. However the data shows something completely different.Another good point. Also less savings too. Smaller 401k, if she even has one. "50/50" indeed... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 275 | How the Big Business of Divorce Benefits Men.... Please read ladies and realize that many lies have been spread about how men are "divorce r*ped" and taken to the cleaners. However the data shows something completely different.I'm actually a little bit disappointed in this article since the author could have added more information. For example, that the biggest factor in whether a woman will end up homeless is if she's had children. Also if women are doing the majority of the child care and getting so little in child support, and that's if the man even pays, how's this 50/50? The answer is it's not. Women are still doing all the work and now they're fronting almost all the costs as well. Men need to pay significantly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 06:15 PM |
| 176 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay!If he's late he doesn't care and he's not responsible. Cut him off. A gentleman is there waiting for you when you arrive so you don't have to wander around looking for him or pay for your own food / drink. Also how is the guy sending so many goddamn texts if he's late and he is rushing over? Is he texting while driving? Sounds more like he's still wherever he was before and he hasn't left yet and he's just trying to get you to stay where you are and buy himself time. Trash. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 75 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenI grew up with FRIENDS. Then I rewatched it a few years ago and saw where I had been pushed (indoctrinated even?) into so many sexist and harmful view about women's role in relationships. I especially remember that show teaching me sex with my body is a present owed to a partner for their birthday and other events. That really impacted me in a lot of ways. That show was very heavy on pushing sex with a woman's body as a object and right for men. The women performed like clowns for the men. Is a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:27 PM |
| 51 | Weirdest experience I've ever had at the doctorFirst of all, report this pervert. Second, don't ever go to a man for any intimate exam ever again. They're almost all like this. Everyone lies to young women to keep them vulnerable and "nice". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 08:01 AM |
| 42 | There are so many things wrong with this. I don’t even know where to startI hope so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:44 AM |
| 47 | Female Researcher undertakes research on Ayuhuasca with NVM Shaman (while trying to be politically correct and ignoring her instincts) and is later sexually assaulted - Sexual Assault in the AmazonWoo woo, "poly", bdsm, druggies, anyone selling something: all bad news groups/people, especially for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:41 AM |
| 77 | Female Researcher undertakes research on Ayuhuasca with NVM Shaman (while trying to be politically correct and ignoring her instincts) and is later sexually assaulted - Sexual Assault in the AmazonShe obviously got a liberal feminist feminist education. Certainly not a radical feminist one. This is very sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:32 AM |
| 131 | Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuineI almost choked when I saw the rest, or lack thereof, of her top. What a joke! A man set this pic up, every part. That girl doesn't even look older than maybe 19. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 4 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?It's also very typical for narcs. Bad sign all around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 05:40 PM |
| 74 | Men who don’t hold doors openThat's a no go. I don't argue with men to get the treatment I should be getting straight off the bat. No prodding, no arguing, no reminding, no hinting. He treats you how he treats you and that's his first choice and it represents how he feels about you and about women. Like others pointed out, he knows that men are expected to be courteous to women and part of that includes opening doors for women and he's choosing not to do it. I would wonder what other courtesies he's chosen to forgo. Men nee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 47 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Ditto on the exes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:49 AM |
| 51 | Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of youYou're really involved in this. It's bad for you. She's toxic in a way. You need to put up boundaries with her and distance yourself. Also this guy is a perv. NEVER let him alone with you. EVER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 104 | Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of youIf it was for her maximum pleasure then it would be with the sex she is actually sexually attracted to... This is horrible. I don't know how you can watch this woman do these things. This would be the last straw for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | (Part 2) Seriously, how to deal with downstairs neighbor having loud sex?/TW: Sexual traumaTHANK YOU! It's terrible advice. You don't tell strangers about your rape. And yes, referring to your "trauma around sex" is telling a stranger about your rape. | /r/askFDS | 09/12/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | :)FDS isn't about being a trophy wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:09 AM |
| 8 | (Part 2) Seriously, how to deal with downstairs neighbor having loud sex?/TW: Sexual traumaKeep calling. Screw this lady. Sidenote: can't believe you're therapist told you to tell a disrespectful stranger about your sexual trauma. Can't believe she thought that would work. People like this lady DON'T CARE. I would think twice about your therapist's advice. | /r/askFDS | 09/12/21 12:40 AM |
| 79 | Older does not mean wiser and they always use the "she's such an old soul" bsThere is NO substitute for decades of life experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:39 PM |
| 182 | Older does not mean wiser and they always use the "she's such an old soul" bsWait until she figures out the truth. They may be dumber than her but they have more experience in manipulation and life. She's getting played but thinks she's the one on top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:05 PM |
| 61 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileYep. Maybe more tongue in cheek humor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:55 PM |
| 48 | Van life with a grown up child! Any ladies jealous yet?HOW DOES SHE DEAL WITH HER PERIOD?!? These are the important questions. Other than, why is she doing this to herself...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:54 PM |
| 863 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileThat is the profile I would write if I was being myself. I loved this. I don't see any bitchiness though, just humor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 153 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsI hope she's been putting some of his money in her personal savings account for the last 20 years too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:04 AM |
| 79 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsI really hope she makes him pay for her education one way or another and then after she gets a job she gets an apartment and leaves him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 40 | recognize & avoid the energetic vampires in disguise: men who only target women in distress/ in difficult situations because it makes them feel superior and who act passive-aggressive when the women get betterSame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:58 PM |
| 113 | recognize & avoid the energetic vampires in disguise: men who only target women in distress/ in difficult situations because it makes them feel superior and who act passive-aggressive when the women get betterAfter I was raped I only met rapey/rapist men for a over a year. It was bizarre. I stopped dating because it was so awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:57 PM |
| 71 | recognize & avoid the energetic vampires in disguise: men who only target women in distress/ in difficult situations because it makes them feel superior and who act passive-aggressive when the women get betterI guarantee you the electricity never actually went out... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:52 PM |
| 60 | recognize & avoid the energetic vampires in disguise: men who only target women in distress/ in difficult situations because it makes them feel superior and who act passive-aggressive when the women get betterShe gave this asshole 2 months more to live in her house??? This guy sounds like a psycho who would do anything to traumatize her again to get her back where he liked her. This is not a good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 584 | The insane shit men will lie aboutRed flag! Don't marry a man without having met any of his family! Notice they told on him immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:46 PM |
| 104 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.I renamed "let me walk you to your car" "let me sexually assault you by your car" because that's what men always do. I had two or three different men do that to me and after that I never let another man walk me to my car. One of them lunged at me, pinned me against my car door and forced his tongue in my mouth. Yeah dude that really excited me! You would think if these morons were interested in sexual success they could act even slightly more decent. We should be able report this shit to the pol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 154 | Compared to what women bring to the table, sadly money is really one of the very few things men have to offer 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️"cishet" "cishet" why even say this? Even if he's bi or tr@ns he can still be just as useless and undeveloped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 469 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩This is why we need to know how men think and act accordingly. Don't get on their boat, don't go away with them for the weekend, don't get in their car, don't let them take you to a cabin in the woods, don't travel to country where you don't speak the language. These are things for well-vetted men who you are in a relationship with only. And even then have money, a phone, transportation, a plan and hold onto your documents yourself. Don't let these fuckers get the drop on you because you are bus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:03 PM |
| 12 | BDSM is falsely advertised as a way to heal traumaAs a rape victim, that's not special that's most of us women so a woman like that needs to mind her bullshit, I can't imagine being silenced like this when talking about rape, essentially my rape. It can be called our rape it's so pervasive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:33 PM |
| 9 | BDSM is falsely advertised as a way to heal traumaYou would have to be traumatized to fall for that. Imagine going up to somebody and telling them that you're traumatized and then they look at you and say you know I've got just the thing for that. He says, I'm going to choke you, hit you in the face and spit in your mouth and it'll totally heal you! You would call the guy a fucking crazy pervert and run away. Society is doing the priming for these men. Men who hate women and want to hurt them during what is supposed to be a pleasurable experien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 51 | I need advice about workplace sexual harassmentI think this sounds like good advice. The best here so far. The only thing I have to add is about the email, don't CC yourself because the company can see that, BCC your email. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:13 PM |
| 32 | I need advice about workplace sexual harassmentThey might let you go. But this old piece of shit rapist is escalating really fast. Your primary goal is the not get raped by this guy and you need to do whatever you have to. I think he is doing this because he doesn't want to work with a woman. It's about control and also he's a sexist pervert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:05 PM |
| 44 | The Lennie Defense0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 39 | The Lennie DefenseWe don't talk about "good doms" because at the end of the day it's still a man hitting a woman and thinking it's sexy. Or choking a woman and thinking it's sexy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Panic, Have a PlanOnly if you want it paid for by insurance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Don’t Panic, Have a PlanYeah I know that. That was just for people who have insurance that will pay for it. No need to pay if you don't have too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 08:45 PM |
| 150 | The End of Men...and the Rise of Women.Also heard studies show that they cheat more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Mine was a narc who kept a haram of ex's to use for supply. I thought he was a good guy who was so mature. So many mistakes with that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 80 | Don’t Panic, Have a PlanFor everyone reading you can get a plan B prescription in advance. I think the pills are good for 2 years but double check that. If you are a sexually active woman you should have plan b in your cupboard. Edit. Yeah I know you don't need a prescription. But if you want your insurance to pay for it you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 384 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreWe are literally screamed at that we're shallow if we're not turned on by any man. It never was about being genuinely turned on, it was about properly submitting to sexual use. Just like sex isn't about our pleasure but we're supposed to act like we like it no matter what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:02 PM |
| 56 | How do you feel about the comments hating on her? (Possible trigger warning)They really want women to do everything while they just game and watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:01 PM |
| 13 | Don't let the man downgrade you!The dude is crazy. He was already lovebombing you before the first date and before ever seeing you. You should have seen red flags everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 37 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?These women always date fugly trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:56 AM |
| 52 | If any of you have made an account on ThePinkPill.co I highly suggest you reconsider itNo men! Burn! They only come to push their interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:33 AM |
| 27 | Lmao at his whiny edit. The holidays really bringing the scrotes out.And here we see the reason that no woman his own age could be tricked into touching his penis long-term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 105 | Low effort flirting and low effort dates I have been shutting down all weekThese last minute losers are just looking for delivery pussy. Block and forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:57 AM |
| 113 | Anne Boleyn Has Had a Bad Reputation for Nearly 500 Years. Here's How One Historian Wants to Change ThatThank you for posting this. I remember the first time as a girl I heard her story and the incest with her brother part really stood out as bullshit. I've heard more pieces of the truth over the years but never had it all out down here. Imagine running away from some old tyrant who is already married and is trying to fuck you only to have it made into "she really wanted it." Especially the sexual blackmail part! To this day men everywhere cry sexual blackmail when a woman doesn't fuck them on com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 01:33 AM |
| 20 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFFirst of all he's probably lying. Second of all he tried to force his dick in her mouth. He'll rape her eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 02:08 PM |
| 316 | I have no wordsThis is like those men who get jealous that you're giving attention to your child or even to your pet, except in this case it's a fucking hair towel. He's jealous of a hair towel. Why do these trash always try to take away anything we like or need or love? I wonder how many men who murder a woman's children do it to get attention she is giving them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:21 AM |
| 36 | Sexual issues in a HV relationshipIt's been almost 10 years since I was raped. I've done toms of therapy. I'm finally starting to get past what you mention. Do I have any advice? Maybe talk things over with your partner so he can assure you. I would not tell him about the abuse, but maybe make it general to women or ask for what you need. "Can you tell me how much you want to give me pleasure/orgasm?" "Women sometimes feel extra pressure during sex. Can you check in with me and ask how I'm doing?" "Can you ask me if I want to st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:28 AM |
| 11 | Male friend asked me on date and told me on date he’s “only looking to chill”Also any time a woman says a man is great don't take that to mean ANYTHING. I did and the guy raped me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 04:01 PM |
| 14 | Male friend asked me on date and told me on date he’s “only looking to chill”I used to try to not get angry and rock the boat and think about things when I was alone. And now I know I was wrong. If you're in a work situation that makes sense. But not in our personal lives. The times I've gotten angry, told men off and left or blocked them and acted out of anger were 100% correct. Final note: if somebody doesn't apologize to your face then it doesn't count! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:59 PM |
| 23 | Male friend asked me on date and told me on date he’s “only looking to chill”This is why we don't tell man anything. Just block them. He only cried to your friend to get victim points and probably to cause problems for you. It had nothing to do with him feeling bad. He's trying to explode your relationship with your friend and sic her on you so he doesn't look like the bad guy. Next time a man tells you to your face that he just wants to chill and it's not a date after making it look like a date, just get up and tell him well in that case you need to go. If a guy ever tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:56 PM |
| 35 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Fds isn't about "moving at different rates" and everyone "doing their own thing". It's a strategy for dating laid out in the handbook that members are expected to read, understand and follow. If you're looking for wishy-washy trash advice any of the other dating subs have it covered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:37 PM |
| 262 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!And these men will also pin you down and rape you if you change your mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:47 AM |
| 246 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Wow! No! This is a terrible move, OP. It sounded like they had been together much longer when she talked about him wasting all her time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:20 PM |
| 402 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.This is really bullshit! He lied and now he's lying some more. Definitely dump him. For every lady here on FDS, treat everything a man says like a story until you see proof. From income, to criminal record, to past relationships; take it all as a tale from a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 139 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Yeah those pansies! They expect you to have a job, a toilet and a bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:10 PM |
| 10 | Disappointed by my date todaySame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 04:01 PM |
| 54 | Disappointed by my date todayIt's porn sickness. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?Innocent until proven guilty is a legal standard for court proceedings. You are not a court. You're a woman living in a world where men are constantly trying to use and rape us. You need to proceed as guilty until proven innocent. Or you will get taken advantage of. Just because a man is nice once, twice, three times or for over 6 months doesn't mean he's not an abuser or a bad guy. Always be weary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 11 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?Innocent until proven guilty is a legal standard for court proceedings. You are not a court. You're a woman living in a world where men are constantly trying to use and rape us. You need to proceed as guilty until proven innocent. Or you will get taken advantage of. Just because a man is nice once, twice, three times or for over 6 months doesn't mean he's not an abuser or a bad guy. Always be weary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 6 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?I used to feel like this and somewhat still do. Try therapy. It's not healthy to feel this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:34 PM |
| 12 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?And consider new friends, OP. Or stop telling these idiots about your dating life. This pressure only leads to women having sex they don't want and it does feel like rape in the end. Sex obtained by pressure, regardless from whom, will feel like rape. I've been through both and it's just like different levels of rape that make you feel the same and damage your sexuality. This world will have you beaten and choked to serve a male's sexual pleasure so we have to guard it jealously to protect it an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:30 PM |
| 13 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?One additional thought. If he's so nice and thoughtful then why is he pursuing attractive women when he is very much not. He's not that nice. Don't forget how men pretend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 147 | Scrotes still want us to wait on them and their friends, like we’re a restaurantI would use his credit card and order delivery. Get fucked scrote. Or Papa John's it is! "I do 50% of the child care." Bullshit. Bet he shoves the kids in front of the TV and yells at them. Those are his contributions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 197 | Porn is SO normalizedIt's not even about the women ultimately, it's about male entitlement. Women aren't excused for refusing their partners sex so they can go masturbate to super hot beefy 6 foot men with monster cocks, or "smooth-skinned teen boy loves eating 40 year old domme's pussy". We are never excused for making our boyfriend feel less than or insecure in anyway. In fact if he attacked us for it he would get off and we would be told we deserved it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 58 | Where have all the young male novelists gone? *I wonder why young men aren’t writing (or reading) books anymore*Came here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:01 AM |
| 30 | Men’s Rights and TeachingThe delusional woman-hater is not just "confused". I highly doubt you've actually read and absorbed the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 7 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialYeah they made a "funny" episode of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:23 AM |
| 205 | Which one of you is this aboutOnly slapping choking and pissing on your partner if it's a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 79 | Is it crazy to have a goal to make enough money to hire a PI to vet?It's smart to do before you get married. But you have to keep in mind that I've heard some of these PI's will go to the man and get a counter offer for more money to fabricate a report to you. If you're just doing it because you think he's cheating just dump him. I would also search through his phone because I like to know. But just because you don't find anything doesn't mean he's not doing anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:03 PM |
| 193 | Which one of you is this aboutI despise how men think synthetic lube is a substitute for actually turning the woman on. Get bent, scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 81 | article: a couple that has mutual rules in their relationship that ban porn, lusting over the opposite sex, sexting and texting with the opposite sex behind each other's back has the scrotes and pickmes on the internet in a rage; media wants to emphasize this is a "Christian" or "religious" thingWait! I thought women equally watched porn and loved it? Is this NOT true? My whole world is shattered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:57 PM |
| 64 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.He knew you weren't into it and got a dig in. What a clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:49 PM |
| 192 | Which one of you is this aboutWhat? He DOESN'T orgasm just from eating her out to completion? He's broken. I know like 8 men who can do that. It's totally a thing! s/ Play off the "women totally orgasm from sucking dick/anal/other shit that never involves the man touching her clit" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 329 | Which one of you is this aboutHe just needs to stop being a psycho, selfish bitch and give his woman whatever she wants. Doesn't he know sex is more special and you connect so much better when you don't orgasm? That's what women are told. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:12 PM |
| 212 | Which one of you is this aboutHe's just DePrEsSeD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:09 PM |
| 609 | Which one of you is this aboutFirst of all, we all know this is a troll who read that post on FDS. Second, did you see the comments? People were losing their minds at a man being treated like they all treat women. There wasn't one drop of gaslighting in the comments, everybody was telling him to run and that she's a "psycho". One even said that this is her kink and she's trying to force it on op, how dare she! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:07 PM |
| 189 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialThe TV show that she made where she was a doctor, I stopped watching it after her boyfriend tries to anally rape her and she brushes it off. I'm so sick of this shit. You think men would ever be convinced that attempted anal rape on their ass is a funny joke haha? Never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:50 PM |
| 4 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.Oh I did a deep dive in her history after that last comment. It's bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 77 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.More games. Definitely continue with your therapy for codependency. Good luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:49 AM |
| 88 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.If you're only going to twist what people said and not listen don't come to fds asking for help. We aren't going to play your games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 90 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.This. This is what the baby is for. You hit the nail on the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 18 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.Ohhh he doesn't want her to be successful. He's angry she made money. He decided she should give up writing as a "group sacrifice" when she was the one who made all the other sacrifices (pregnancy, birth, breast feeding, her body, caring for a baby). "I don't trust my wife for doing what she loves and making good money at it." 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:18 AM |
| 117 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.I'm so sorry that I have to say this but you sound horribly desperate. And he probably realizes that. He's playing you. It's easy to run around and open doors and other small gestures or to make future plans "when I get this job we'll get engaged". But oops, he just forgets the day he's supposed to start and now you can't get engaged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:12 AM |
| 64 | Another negging tactic: Men asking your interests then telling you how they dislike themAnd beer. 😒 So what you're telling me is you don't leave the house, have ED and you'll get fat soon? Sexy! 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:56 PM |
| 107 | Another negging tactic: Men asking your interests then telling you how they dislike themI had one guy asked me my interests. I told him: yoga, Latin dance, live music, going out with friends, etc. When I finished he told me that was too much and it didn't sound like I had time for a relationship. Lol! Bye, asshole. Go be boring and lazy with yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:54 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?I was sitting in a car with a guy after a late date once. Too late for him to be getting text messages from anyone that wasn't either his drunk bro or a girlfriend. A text came in with her name on it while I was sitting right there. He tried to lie but the text said "When are you coming home?" He then admitted it was his fiancée who he lives with! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:10 PM |
| 28 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & ThanksgivingThis too. It starts just like this. First it's "my dad said this about you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:56 PM |
| 89 | Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?These are multiple red flags. I would dump him just for the phone bullshit. You don't trust me why are you with me? Bye. But really he's just hiding creepy porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 51 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & ThanksgivingEven if he cuts out his family and works on this he'll still be a man who didn't stand up for her and shut this down. FAIL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:28 AM |
| 76 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & ThanksgivingExactly. This is a lose lose lose situation. I bet once things get tough, after kids come along or money problems, whatever, he'll probably start calling her a wh0re just like his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:25 AM |
| 114 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & ThanksgivingYou should just dumped this guy if he won't ditch the family. And I don't say that to be flippant. This is a miserable existence you could get stuck in. What if you get married? You'll still be the wh0re. And what about when you have children? You'll still be the wh0re. By his reaction to you and his lack of any reaction to them he's made it clear repeatedly that he's not going to fight them on this. He's not going to fight for you. This is a massive red flag. You can't have a relationship with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 132 | Pick me gf and pornsick bf vibesWhen he shoes the vanilla stuff. Act turned off and bored and trick him into sharing what he really likes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 417 | Pick me gf and pornsick bf vibesThe guy who shows you vanilla porn IS LYING TO YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 56 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?Or he decided that she was "cheating" on him even though she wasn't and now calls her a prostitute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 65 | How come if two people get into a physical fight, one or both parties catches assault charges? Yet, if a woman gets beaten up by a dom, it’s cOnSeNT?At that point it's just plain rape and should be prosecuted as such. #WeCan'tConsentToThis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:02 PM |
| 24 | How come if two people get into a physical fight, one or both parties catches assault charges? Yet, if a woman gets beaten up by a dom, it’s cOnSeNT?And this is why BDSM should be illegal. Just like prostitution is illegal and selling your organs is illegal, in many countries are making surrogacy illegal because women were exploited. It's done to protect people from exploitation. Women deserve and require protection from the law and society because of men's insane drive to exploit us. We deserve to have and do have an innate human right to protection from abuse, rape, exploitation in marriage (our labor, being cheated on and given STDs/HIV, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:49 PM |
| 15 | Stance on posting sexy photos on social media?I still wouldn't do this. Think of all the people who may end up in your home at one point or another. Your mother, your grandmother, a co-worker, your 6 year old nephew or niece, someone you've gone on a few dates with when he comes to pick you up for dinner... Plus it seems a little egotistical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 39 | Stance on posting sexy photos on social media?If you wouldn't want your mother and grandmother or a potential employer to see it you shouldn't post it. It's just not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 29 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?Thank you for explaining that. A very educational comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 20 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?Awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 79 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?Yeah next thing you know Op will be a "prostitute" too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 197 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?Men do this to weed out the women who will see the red flag and run for the hills. Consciously or unconsciously he's filtering for a good victim. He's also going to start calling you names and screaming at you and then come back later and say "I told you I get angry sometime you agreed that was okay." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 275 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?"work side-by-side with me in my company" That means you would be doing all the grunt work. He wants a personal assistant and bookkeeper. This also means if you ever divorced him you would also be out of a job. You would also have nothing independent from him, no space. And once you have kids you would be home with them working for free in your "down time". SCAM Haven't read the rest yet. Oh shit I just read the rest of it. HELL NO! Number two. Claiming his ex dumped him out of nowhere right bef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:33 PM |
| 63 | Lets talk about COWARD MenYou're right. My cat is more protective and comforting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:58 AM |
| 18 | Choice feminism - propaganda?https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2020/01/416421/five-years-after-abortion-nearly-all-women-say-it-was-right-decision-study Just thought I would add a link, I went to look it up right away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:27 AM |
| 59 | Choice feminism - propaganda?Yep. Consent was very quickly co-opted by men and fake feminists to extract sex and free labor from women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 196 | Lets talk about COWARD Men2 of my 3 big relationships ended for this reason. One bf told me to "shut the fuck up" when his mother injured me in a car accident. (I have permanent hip issues to this day) The other ass let his bro pull me into his lap and restrain me there. Treated it like a joke and LAUGHED. Worthless losers. Might as well have had no dick after that because I never touched them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:13 AM |
| 148 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:Or pegnancy complications | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:26 AM |
| 120 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:There's also no way in hell this selfish scrote was ever doing 50% of the housework. I bet in his pretend 90% world he is still only doing an hour total a day. Which is the minimum women do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:25 AM |
| 68 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:But those are all hidden costs that we ignore. It's totally 50/50 if you erase all the extra things that she's doing! s/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:22 AM |
| 45 | Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the BurdenJust another service we exist to provide... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:17 AM |
| 158 | No. FDS is not about clapping back at men who neg youExactly. Don't reward bad behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 41 | No. FDS is not about clapping back at men who neg youRead the handbook is a sub rule. Stop giving men the attention they want when they are rude is a rule. (Block and delete) "You can't do this with coworkers" then you recommend clapping back at a co-worker... Literally the only thing you can do with a co-worker is just look at them and then walk away when they are inappropriate. It's not like they can report "she just looked at me and walked away and I didn't like it." Why are you so addicted to wasting your own time with shity men? Are you reall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 68 | Communicating after a first date: am I being a pickme?It's his job to contact you. He needs to be thanking you for gracing him with your presence and allowing yourself to be taken out by him. It's his job to thank you for considering him as a potential partner. He should say thank you and then you say "I had a lovely time" if that's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 272 | Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the BurdenAnd yet men are so abusive to their partners that they rely on so intensely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 209 | Anyone else become disillusioned with their male friends?I've had quite male friends. They were ALL out for sex. That's all. In addition, one raped me. 2 told me how they have raped women. One lied to the police to cover for my rapist (different rapist) when he didn't even know the guy. One yelled in my face in public for not sleeping with him, lunged at me in my car for saying no to eating some drive thru food (can't make this testerical shit up) and then somehow I got accused of sleeping with him by his wife. So awful. So much bullshit drama. Sicken… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 35 | She has far more patience than meSweatpants hoodie puffer jacket tennis shoes... Nuff said. Anyway she didn't actually have to have any of this conversation with this person. My life is too short. Now I just give them a look that communicates what absolute scum they are and then walk away when people fuck with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 64 | If he wanted to, he would... another postSounds like a fun activity date. Activity dates are good for vetting after he passes the first few talking dates. I don't think that's a good first date because there wouldn't be much opportunity to talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:54 PM |
| 9 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manI worked in a place with a bunch of male employees like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:42 PM |
| 48 | Men will scream misandry when you warn women to weary of all men until proven otherwise. Then, proceed to say the exact same thing the moment their daughters or sisters start dating/working/entering high school! So GTFO!He's not wrong though. Men who have wives who make more money get angry, nasty, abusive, bitter and cheat. Women absolutely should make the most money they can and marry a man who makes even more. It's self protection and self betterment. Also if the man makes less money than you he's going to try to trick you into letting him be a stay-at-home dad/husband where he does nothing and cheats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 06:02 PM |
| 52 | Life hack: 💡Yes, there is a time and a place to “take things personally”.💡Reminds me of a break up song written by a woman. She sings maybe she deserves it (whatever he's doing to her) but she doesn't care. She doesn't want it, so she's leaving. We get to leave whenever we don't like something. Even if we weren't perfect angels, or even outright bitches. And we all know women are mostly just gas-lit to believe they've been totally horrible when really they have just set basic boundaries or been tired of his shit and acted short with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 06:00 PM |
| 55 | Men will scream misandry when you warn women to weary of all men until proven otherwise. Then, proceed to say the exact same thing the moment their daughters or sisters start dating/working/entering high school! So GTFO!Imagine being such a hateful misogynist you even want your own daughter to settle for too little. Men's depravity is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:44 PM |
| 107 | Life hack: 💡Yes, there is a time and a place to “take things personally”.💡And even if it is this other person's own issues doesn't mean you have to stick around to allow that person to take them out on you. It's your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:40 PM |
| 151 | Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bfYeah that's all basic consideration. I would dump or distance yourself from every man who is clearly telling you to your face that you don't deserve it. Scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 25 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.Is the only time they'll give us a hot lead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:39 PM |
| 15 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manI would have too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:35 PM |
| 152 | Young men on tiktok advising against porn usageJust one note. Watch out for the massive misogyny in this group of men. You would think that wouldn't be an issue but it is very very much an issue. A lot of them have a very deep-seated madonna-whore complex. Some of them think that their "seed" is sacred and should only be given to a "worthy" woman. Most are only anti porn because it breaks their dick. Some even think that pornography is a Jewish conspiracy. Yeah... It's bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 04:01 AM |
| 39 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manThat last line killed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 66 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manHe just assumed I would be insecure about my intelligence. Well he got it wrong. I was actually insecure about my looks and not at all about my intelligence. So lol! All I learned from this was that he was an asshole and that I was hot and smart. Too bad it wasn't smart enough yet to dump him though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 11:06 PM |
| 79 | Carole Baskins husband is alive!! She has been going through an ordeal with Netflix who willfully and maliciously misrepresented her in the Netflix "documentary". She has had to deal with too much bullshit and the real sicko who tried to murder her is in prison(good riddance). Hope she wins!Really exposes the MRAs for the fact that the only stuff they have to grasp onto for their false narrative of women bad or even women worse than men are male invented stories that turn out to be false | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 11:01 PM |
| 68 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manYes. This is very homosocial behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:45 PM |
| 13 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)Oh totally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 07:55 PM |
| 140 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manThis is so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 94 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manAbsolutely another huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:55 PM |
| 187 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manYes they absolutely triangulate against using their bros! I had an abusive boyfriend who told me immediately after the first time I met his friends that they were ragging on him because obviously he was only with me because I was hot and I must be stupid. Either this didn't even happen or he trash talked me to them and made them feel safe doing it back. If this were true, why even tell me accept to manipulate me and break down my self-esteem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 132 | Always google a man you’re interested in, use the tools we have now.And this is why men voluntarily admit such serious things early on it is always a red flag. Because they're always lying. They make up a story and they make sure that that story is the first one you here. It's always the tip of the iceberg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 36 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳Good for you. Love this. Men need to get their asses handed to them for fucking with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:39 PM |
| 116 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳This guy is probably a rapist who has a job so he can target women. Is this man going to report him or just make a social media post laughing at the creep? Little things like this that are the reason that all men suck so much. They have no awareness and don't think about women safety, or at least don't think much of it. He doesn't even think that this guy could try to come back and rape his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 63 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)I'm not sure if the point of this letter is to embarrass her publicly or to win her back. It's probably more of a get her to come back to shut me up or I'll keep embarrassing her publicly letter. Poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:05 PM |
| 46 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.Even as a woman I lose interest if I sleep with a man early. It just ruins it. Waiting is super sexy and I have learned to respect the wait. Build the connection. It's so much better that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:52 AM |
| 17 | Model Christy Giles Found Dead at 24 - three men dropped her dead body outside of a hospital after drugging her and her friends during a night out. THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T TRUST MEN AT ALL.Do women choose to inject themselves with dangerous rape drugs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:39 AM |
| 227 | His bride looks mortified. I can't imagine what she felt at that moment.This isn't a time to joke. He is supposed to show his love for her in front of everybody but he's not enough of a man. He has to make it into a joke at her expense because he's a little dick. This is sad and not cute. All these LVM constantly fuck up the wedding. They don't like their future wife and feel they are settling. If he truly had a deep and committed love of her he would show it unequivocally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 34 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagAwful! I'm sorry. Also don't go for guys who gush at you right away. First boyfriend I ever had sent me a message after our first date gushing about me and our connection. In a surprise to no one with any kind of dating experience, he turned out to be a gaslighting, abusive lovebomber. Men who act emotional early on are a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:58 PM |
| 51 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagDon't even get me started on the "empath" stuff! It's no coincidence that most of the people that call themselves empaths are all women (or men lying). Women are raised to be people pleasers and caring mommies to everyone. We have to learn boundaries. We have to protect our energy and mental health. Caring is for friends and family, and then only within strick boundaries. I had to work to undo a lot of training to be able to step back and hold boundaries. Most, if not all, women have to. These t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 93 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagTelling someone something like this on the second date shows, at best, bad judgment and poor boundaries. At worst he is a manipulator and next thing you know he'll be using his mental health as an excuse for using you, treating you poorly, being an asshole, cheating etc... He's also likely a sad sap that's probably looking for a mommy therapist. I knew this guy. He would tell women all his mental health problems on the first date because "he wanted to make sure they could handle his issues". The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 12 | What's with all these shows glorifying casual sex as "empowering"?18? This is so sad. Those girls looked older, 22? The producers of that show are probably lying. The whole show is for men. I saw the advert and it's 100% male gaze. Sorry all of those evil perverts tried to exploit you during college. It's horrible what young women go though, men act like it's one incident when it's hundreds over decades. The level of predation is unreal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 02:03 PM |
| 40 | Criticism of the normalisation of Polyamory/Non-MonogamyLove how they pretend men were being sent to the Haram. Just like they scream fEmAlE DoMs everytime we speak against BDSM. But I can hear him salivating over his fantasy of sexual slave women through they text he wrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:20 PM |
| 121 | women - vet, vet, vet! because you don't want to be married and with children to a man that thinks like this! motherhood penalty & fatherhood bonus exist! inquire about their thoughts on the labour force and what they think are the sources of wage inequality!Why is this guy acting like if he wasn't married he wouldn't have to work? Sorry to break it to you man, we all have to work to have food and not die. If he's too lazy to work 8 hours a day I can't imagine him taking care of the whole house, cooking all the food and raising the child. He just thinks it's a vacation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:55 PM |
| 66 | Men know very well the horrors of non-consensual penetration and this is proof. Don't give them the benefit of the doubtTaking notes for the next time a man tries to rape me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 07:40 PM |
| 195 | Men know very well the horrors of non-consensual penetration and this is proof. Don't give them the benefit of the doubtThat guy in the video is a representation of how men make women feel for about a quarter of our lives everyday all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 04:52 PM |
| 13 | How long to wait for men to reply? (Busy career-oriented men)2 days. A text message only takes a few seconds. If he wanted to he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:51 PM |
| 229 | Does anyone else find themselves shocked sometimes by judgements made by women they thought they REALLY knew?I found out a friend I knew was regularly being raped by her partner. Quote: "Men are like dogs, they can't stop once they start." I had recently been raped and she had been alternating between comforting me and blaming me. This comment was the end of our relationship because I realized she was not a healthy person for me to be around after what happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 10:50 PM |
| 127 | Sisters: They are publicly and actively supporting the overturn of Roe v. Wade. They would sooner put us back in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant than recognize us as humans with choice. How will we protect our rights?They benefit from keeping us on edge about our own most basic rights. Just how rape is technically a crime but has the lowest rate of punishment of any crime. So low it's almost legal. Less than one percent. It's no accident. It's also no accident that domestic violence is the next least prosecuted crime at about 3%. They benefit from our fear and trauma. It keeps us down, exploitable and in line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 17 | Protection or Benevolent Sexism? Vetting StrategiesYes. It's absolutely absurd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 10:26 PM |
| 85 | Protection or Benevolent Sexism? Vetting StrategiesWhile he shouldn't be insisting over you I'm going to set that aside for the moment. I think that your desire to walk away because you would potentially "ruin the cashiers shift" by asking for your overcharged dollar back is ridiculous. You're allowed to get your money back when someone overcharges you. You are allowed to take up space. It's not going to ruin someone's entire eight hour shift because they have to refund $1. This is an example of a way that women are socialized to take up less sp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 9 | My milkshakes bring HVM to the yard!It's like you spoke my innermost heart and feelings. Cowardliness ended two of my three big relationships. There is just no coming back from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:30 PM |
| 42 | The comment section is a dumpster fire. How dare she to have standards! Some of them are “I see her future buying dog and cat food”, “the higher they fly, lower they fall”, “phd doesn’t buy you class obviously”, etc.Love the 10 inch dick part. Same, girl, same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:16 PM |
| 40 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.I get the feeling this guy could chase her off with a stick and she would still be like "but I want to make it work!" 2 months. This is your fish or cut bait time, not ride or die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:58 PM |
| 30 | Why women are having children for free?We do not support surrogacy here. We don't support renting women's bodies for sex or reproduction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 06:42 AM |
| 38 | Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need helpAnyone who thinks like this, I would block them. That's my answer. I'm not going to argue with a moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 15 | At this point women should just complain about going 50/50 for the sheer hilarity that'd ensueYou don't owe a man your body or anything because he spent 25$ bucks on you. He asked you out in order to be considered for sex and you declined. You still spent your time and effort getting ready and getting there. You've done your part. Why do you think your body and time are worth so little? Cost so little? Why? Who or what made you think that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:02 PM |
| 20 | At this point women should just complain about going 50/50 for the sheer hilarity that'd ensueHahhahhahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:57 PM |
| -17 | Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well”Then he's definitely wasting her time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 88 | Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well”When they get near 40 they know the trading up line is ending so he'll probably stick with this one. Hope she gets away. He'll probably get her up knocked up as soon as he can. This is why women have to have a solid plan for their lives. Like not getting married before 28 and not having a kid til 30, getting a degree and career set up before ever considering these big life moves. You can't be a blank canvas he can move on to and push whatever he wants on you. And you have to watch out for those … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:20 PM |
| 105 | This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help.The scum went to a second hand store to look for poor young women. On purpose. They also go out during school hours to find the kids that aren't in school because they aren't being watched and are easier to exploit. These pig know exactly what they are doing. I got injured as a teen and was home for a long time. I would go for walks as part of my therapy. Perverts did to me what you see in this video almost every single walk I went on for 2 years. 2 tired to follow me home. One guy got mad and I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 01:48 PM |
| 104 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.Yeah she's probably fucked. He's going to take everything he can get. He'll take the kids just to get an extra buck and steal them from her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:21 AM |
| 174 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.I guarantee there's a major porn addiction here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:17 AM |
| 52 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.These lazy cheating scrotes always end up "having issues with their employer". I would install multiple nanny cams with a quickness. There's no way this pig is actually taking proper care of his children. If he was how would he have time to use all of these subscriptions and watch shows on all these channels? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:07 AM |
| 49 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.Whenever a man tells you this kind of bullshit it's a lie to manipulate you. Nobody's ragging on someone's wife they just met when all they are as classmates. It's not like these were his bros, and even then his friends aren't going to rag all over his wife unless he leads the way. It's either fabricated bullshit or he's already trashing you to his buddies. You always have to question why somebody would even tell you that. Who would really tell their wife that everyone hates her and that they dr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 79 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedThe mommy breakdown sub auto bans FDS members. Can't have anyone encouraging there members to leave their abusive trash relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:47 AM |
| 189 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedMen love to waste women's time. It's radical to not let them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:43 AM |
| 478 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedBecause women having boundaries is even worse than men killing women. s/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 42 | Hookup culture is a scamThis is completely true. And I got taken in when I was younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 57 | Can We Talk About Cecily Strong's Abortion PieceThat's super un-woke. Hope you blocked him. I decided a lifetime ago I would never tell a man if I needed an abortion. Ever. Some will k!ll you for it. Some will tell everyone and try to ruin your life. No man deserves the truth when some do these things to women. Even if I kept it I may never tell him. Don't put his name on the birth certificate either. He can have access to the child if he earns it by being a HVM. No scrote is having access to my child if I can help it. Kind of a tangent but i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:09 AM |
| 8 | Judging women for loving animalsShe's jealous and attacking you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:49 AM |
| 9 | I met himAfter a month you're still in he's a stranger phase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:14 AM |
| 101 | What are the red flags that it’s emotional abuse?Him making you take responsibility for his own behavior is emotional abuse. And you're using very odd language to explain it. He was just an abusive dick who blamed you for things. Also I find it odd that you're trying to take blame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:04 AM |
| 75 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...Same where I live. Last time I went it was just me alone in a room with multiple homeless men. One keep making eyes at me and starting, obviously interested 🤮. It was so extremely unnerving. I left and don't plan on going back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 01:51 AM |
| 73 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...This is the point right here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | In most cases, it is a bad, bad idea to buy a house, especially your childhood home, with a bf, not a husband 🚩10 years together, no ring 🚩he makes > $100k, she $60k, but planning to split mortgage 50/50 🚩house is barely affordable even with their combined income. Ways this can go south in 3…2…1Thanks for pointing this out! Good information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:51 PM |
| 56 | In most cases, it is a bad, bad idea to buy a house, especially your childhood home, with a bf, not a husband 🚩10 years together, no ring 🚩he makes > $100k, she $60k, but planning to split mortgage 50/50 🚩house is barely affordable even with their combined income. Ways this can go south in 3…2…1You're right. It's very odd that he has 100,000 in savings but still has 30k student debt. Why isn't he paying that off? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:06 AM |
| 43 | In most cases, it is a bad, bad idea to buy a house, especially your childhood home, with a bf, not a husband 🚩10 years together, no ring 🚩he makes > $100k, she $60k, but planning to split mortgage 50/50 🚩house is barely affordable even with their combined income. Ways this can go south in 3…2…1So this is potentially a gift of $300,000, the reduction in cost they paid for the house if they turn around and sell it within a few years. 150k of which would be off with boyfriend. And the daughter might end up with no job in that area. This is a great investment for the BF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:58 AM |
| 575 | I think being intimidating is a good thing.Intimidating woman = "I know this woman would talk back to me if I cross a line or do whatever is in her rights if I screw her over. She would make me account and not keep it quiet." I was often called intimidating too. I liked it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 188 | Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play.Lesson here is always immediately snoop on a man if he's being weird about you dropping by his house. This is crazy. He thinks it's hard dating with a child, she should show him how hard it's it is to date when he lies for 2 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:40 PM |
| 68 | It doesn’t serve me to tell people that I’m happy not having had children.I think faking tearful responses is stupid and a waste of time and energy. I would just shrug and say I don't know. And then change the subject. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 08:20 PM |
| 19 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?"Tell him what feels good" If he can't tell from your body language then he's ignoring it because he doesn't care. If he's past his first girlfriend and he is terrible in bed it's because he doesn't care at all. I once taught a man to be better in bed. He got a little bit better. Then very quickly lost all interest is sex because it was too much work to care about my experience too. Op, you are doing the pickme backslide. Is this really what you want for the next 30 years? You already did it onc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 159 | A real "Cool Girl" is one who turns down Leonardo DiCaprioYou know what would have been a real move? Tell the assistant that she will only give her answer straight to his face. And have Leo walk all the way over to her and then she says "no you're too old and too pushy." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 06:00 AM |
| 102 | He (27M) revealed he was a virgin…He either has porn addiction, porn induced erectile dysfunction, a micropenis, weird hang ups/religious issues, is asexual, secretly gay, or so weird and off-putting that every woman has run away from him. And on top of all this, the fact he would tell you he's a virgin at the end of the first date is absolutely insane. Massive red flag for lack of boundaries. That is not the sort of thing you share with a total stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:39 PM |
| 27 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)I would fuck his best friend and tell him my attention span was too short 🤷♀️ Not really, but fuck this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Happy for Britney Spears for getting her freedom.I totally agree. I'm sure he came on to her since he's the one who will be getting the payday if it works out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 218 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)"you were busy so I had to fuck somebody else" He would have better luck just pretending he can't tell the difference between you and anybody else because he's so stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 02:10 PM |
| 165 | Portrait of a shitty lover (or - run screaming in the opposite direction if this is your man in bed)You described at least 85% of men here. And most of the other 15% are just inadequate through size, skill or ED issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:18 AM |
| 15 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Maybe it's not about you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 07:38 AM |
| 23 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Underrated red flag. So disrespectful and over such a small thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 07:20 AM |
| 10 | I love my friend, but she’s a pickmeisha.She sounds really insecure. It's just sad from the outside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 07:02 AM |
| 23 | Do not project your moral compass and attitudes onto men - you will lose every time.I'm very sorry about your sister. I can't imagine what a shock that was for you. ❤️❤️ So much eww with this guy. You're 100% better off without this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:23 AM |
| 10 | Happy for Britney Spears for getting her freedom.She could do so much better than dating a personal trainer. It's so desperate to date somebody that you work with or get services from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:21 AM |
| 19 | This is part of the reason I will never date a "car bro". He proposed by doing a dangerous stunt in his $500 car with a rockless ring that costs less than his scrap metal on wheels. I'd be embarrassed to even post about it.This could be a joke it's so bad. An SNL skit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:54 AM |
| 195 | Spotted in another thread. She needs FDS!If men would like sex then they have to initiate. That's facts. This is why the rate of sex for young people is falling so drastically. Porn and other trash has become more rewarding for these barely-existing-as-human people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:24 AM |
| 93 | are guys allowed to roster date?I agree that it was patronising the way that he said it and fond is not a good word. Also a man who likes you will not encourage you to date other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:16 AM |
| 71 | are guys allowed to roster date?I encourage you to read u/bediamond 's comment and also mine where we break down his language and tone. Also fds is full of double standards and it has nothing to do with hypocrisy. It has to do with protecting ourselves and maximum female benefit. Just like the whole controversy over "snooping". Women will use it to protect themselves from abuse, men use it to gain control over the woman they think they own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:13 AM |
| 114 | are guys allowed to roster date?I agree. He absolutely would not be encouraging you to see other men. His whole comment is so lukewarm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:07 AM |
| 125 | are guys allowed to roster date?His whole wording bothers me. It's overly formal and cool in tone, using the word fond, usually this is to hold people at a distance and encourage a feeling of his own superiority. Fond is a very lukewarm word as well. Red flag. It's defensive "you should too". Also the way he's subtly positions her as being in the way of finding the right woman for him if she thinks there is a problem here. Also he must be asking out a lot of women to have to he is currently dating since most men don't have man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:06 AM |
| 84 | Happy for Britney Spears for getting her freedom.That was quite a read. Trash all around. I wonder if that pig raped Britney just like his father raped/molested his daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 04:31 PM |
| 123 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Yes old man, I'm super hot for you! Come and bore me with your old man life of work, falling asleep in front of the TV at 8:00 p.m., and a 50% erectile dysfunction rate. I would absolutely love to watch your beer gut jiggle while we have sex for 3 minutes with the help of Viagra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:16 AM |
| 71 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Not to mention their dicks... ED in almost 50% at age 40. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 271 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing."are you stalking me?" "You're right. I don't have to." When did Red pill get into scripting their own nasty rom-coms? Lol! No one fantasizes like a red pill loser. I love the fake woman talking about how great it was to date 50-year-old in her 20s and how mature he was. Nothing says maturity like being a 45-year-old man hitting up 25-year-olds. Pig. In reality land, where the rest of us live, I didn't even look at a man who was 30 years old until I was 28. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:15 AM |
| 7 | Polyamory and the normalization of dissatisfactionMultiple loves = me myself and I | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 72 | Observations from my first post-pandemic partyDamn sad showing! They have devolved even further. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 88 | What the acronym “BDSM” stands for.I was just reading a post yesterday where multiple men were casually discussing choking their female partners until they black out. Saying "don't worry, they'll be fine. Just stop choking them and they will come to eventually. It's no big deal." They didn't even care. They didn't care that this could cause permanent brain damage or even k!ll the woman. Not one little bit. They might as well have been talking about a piece of trash that they threw away. We all know that they wouldn't be down with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 15 | What the acronym “BDSM” stands for.You should. I would read it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 5 | "with those who reported committing offences also admitting to misogynistic...having sadistic sexual fantasies about raping or torturing women. ...Such views and fantasies were not held by participants who did not report..." So not just harmless fantasy after all.Probably 30%? Maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 01:47 PM |
| 20 | I mean… I can’t disagree.Never read anything so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 188 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?Or pull the watch hot buff men in porn after he finished and masturbate to orgasm because he failed. Lol I'll take "things that would cause a man to rage k!ll you", Alex. Hope we all learn to dump these guys. I would ask him if his father knows what a loser he is? Fucking his hand to porn instead of satisfying his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:10 AM |
| 80 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneFlush him out by talking about what a small penis he has / how bad he is in bed with your girlfriends. He'll be screaming in your face in 0.5 seconds. Most men have 1000% entitlement and -15000% self restraint. Plus they really think that we are so dumb we can't put 2 and 2 together. I had a situation where I found out a man was reading my personal information because he shared it with other men and it started coming out in one man's comments to me that had no context or basis in anything unless… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:09 AM |
| 64 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneI was making out with a guy I had been on a few dates with and casually known from a group activity we were all involved in. A text FROM HIS FIANCEE came in right before my eyes at 2 am. Scumbag. She seems to know he was out there running around cheating. But she married him. Never trust the dicks. Always verify. I would absolutely follow a man at night if I thought he was doing some shit. Change his settings so I can see where he is at 2:00 a.m. I'm not getting cheated on and getting STDs so I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:00 AM |
| 36 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneYes I would say factory reset and individually reinstalling everything would be the way to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 03:56 AM |
| 118 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?They would. They're already trying to claim it's emotional abuse when we don't allow ourselves to be raped by them whenever they want. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 03:44 AM |
| 170 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?Jim, you're just here to satisfy me. You don't get anything. Maybe one time next month I'll deign to give you some pleasure. Now stop acting clingy and go to bed with your erection still there. No, you don't get to rub it until you orgasm or I'm going to cry and scream about how selfish you are and physically threaten you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 03:42 AM |
| 298 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?Porn also wastes their limited sexual resources that they should be giving to you to satisfy you. Women can fuck way more than men and for way longer. If he doesn't want me to dump him he needs to bring the dick. I can get it anywhere on tap. Men also need to cut way back on masturbation without porn too. They just waste what little they've got. They need to be using the energy to pursue you, romance you, make you feel secure so that you will want to have sex with them. Yes, Jim what you waste y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 03:38 AM |
| 40 | "with those who reported committing offences also admitting to misogynistic...having sadistic sexual fantasies about raping or torturing women. ...Such views and fantasies were not held by participants who did not report..." So not just harmless fantasy after all.I don't trust teenage boys, especially in groups. They're just as scary and sometimes even as strong as adult men but are even more unpredictable and volatile. While adult men generally try to hide what they're doing, teenage boys will just come at you in public and daylight. Like roving wild animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 8 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)Nose-blind too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)"I'm 6ft but this woman said I was too short." Bullshit. 5'7 at best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 33 | "with those who reported committing offences also admitting to misogynistic...having sadistic sexual fantasies about raping or torturing women. ...Such views and fantasies were not held by participants who did not report..." So not just harmless fantasy after all.Statistically essentially all rapists rape first as teenagers before the age of 18. I wonder about the stat showing 43% of men 18-30 haven't had sex in the last 2 years. I wonder how much of the other 57% are counting the rapes they've committed as "having sex"? (This isn't just because of COVID. This is a growing trend. Most men in the very distant past never passed on their DNA. Look at the stats about increasing rates of virginity among men. Women's freedom and their increased depravity isn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do?She deserved to be screamed at. But it's pointless in the end and only disturbs you peace. I'm older now and would just immediately block this woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:41 PM |
| 13 | Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do?Give her a copy of why does he do that? and save yourself. This woman actually thinks your character is so low you'd go after her boyfriend. I would never again speak to someone who thought so poorly of me. She's clearly not actually your friend. She may very well permanently trash your reputation. She might even lead to you getting harassed, getting fired or being raped. Pickmes aren't just lost women, they can be dangerous assholes that ruin lives. It's also not other people's responsibility t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 16 | Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do?"Deep down she resents you" This right here. Plus even if she gets away from this guy she'll just get with another one and do the same shit. I would be so offended that someone would think I would touch their fucking boyfriend that I would never speak to that person again. That's low behavior. Don't insult me and expect I'll stick around. I can get my own dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do?Nothing you say is going to change this woman. She's on her own. She's also probably going to bad mouth you to everyone you know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 88 | “Under the patriarchal rules they ascribe to, providing financial support should come with the promise of control.”That's a great vetting question. Right then and there you know that man will never help you with the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 09:41 PM |
| 44 | PSA: Halloween is almost here for many of us.Exactly. The first thing a predator has to do is isolate you. Do whatever you need to do or can do to make sure that doesn't happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:12 PM |
| 54 | PSA: Halloween is almost here for many of us.Definitely don't go out on your own. Go out with friends you can trust, don't get trashed, watch your drink, have a safe way to get home, and have some cash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Ask the guy this and tell him it's your "biggest fantasy". Lol 😂 Men need a taste of their own behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 15 | Downstairs neighbor having extremely loud sexYou're so much nicer than me. I would have already called the cops eight times on them to make a noise complaint. Fuck them. You don't get to have loud sex when you share a wall with someone else's living space. Who cares of she glares at you. | /r/askFDS | 29/10/21 06:46 PM |
| 63 | You should have a “hoe phase!”Dump her now. She's dumb and a liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:23 PM |
| 714 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Guaranteed this guy doesn't eat pussy either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 60 | "I just don't want to hurt you"This is the shit he says right before he hurts you to cover his ass. Red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 73 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.My biggest relationships have ended from men not protecting me. No one wants a pathetic loser coward who doesn't love them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Do not take me to a horror movie as a date 🚩Vetting date movie lol! I would love to watch men cry over this. They abuse us so much all our lives. Then mock us for being "sensitive". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 12:26 PM |
| 40 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their height5'9 includes old age shrinkage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:14 PM |
| 49 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightAsk him to stand up and give you a twirl 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:12 PM |
| 99 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightYou would think they would fish in a shallower pond knowing their own failings. They clearly just think women are idiots or that they can guilt and shame us into whatever they want. Bad character all around. If a man did this to me I would just walk off without a word. I don't speak to trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 41 | Ask him upfront what he values?He's just going to lie. We need to see actions. Words are nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 62 | Do not take me to a horror movie as a date 🚩Men would never sit through the reverse quietly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 3 | I need advice on how to handle creepy maintenance manReport, document, get motion sensor cameras and a deadbolt. You could even put a hidden camera in your apartment for a while near the door to see if he's entering your apartment when you are not home. | /r/askFDS | 28/10/21 04:25 PM |
| 40 | I just called the caretaker of my building to do some maintenance in my apartmentHe needs to set an alarm on his phone like everybody else! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 199 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endWALK AWAY Don't keep giving them responses. This is why I shop with earphones in. Even if I do hear them I just pretend I don't keep walking. At most I sort of grunt in their direction and then turn away and never look back and walk off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 25 | What are your ladies’ opinions on finances when moving in with a boyfriend/fiancé/husband?Have you read the handbook? No 3 year engagements are not acceptable. No living with a boyfriend and giving him 3 years of wife benefits is not acceptable. Most men stay just for all the use they can get out of a woman. You think your name will be on the mortgage? This needs to be confirmed before you ever move in with him. You're too young. This is a bad decision. 99% of marriages that happen before the age of 25 fail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:51 PM |
| 16 | Are you okay with your male partner only having female friends?I'm not going to date a guy if he already has a eagle fluffing harem (probably sex too). It's a bad sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 10 | Are you okay with your male partner only having female friends?SAME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:32 PM |
| 25 | Knowing Your Worth: Pricing the First DateFds doesn't give a fuck if the dude gets pissed that he spent $200 on a date and you didn't fuck him. That's his choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 05:12 AM |
| 86 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!Watch out for scrotes that use therapized language to manipulate with emotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:21 AM |
| 36 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!This one sounds like a prince. Even his manipulative language is a huge red flag. If a man ever turns things around on you like this block and drop him. He hates you and is just using you. Gaming you is just a game and he wins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:13 AM |
| 276 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupJust wait until she inherits from her parents. He's probably with her just to get at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 92 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupSo everything he fucking has is thanks to this woman, her connections and her money and he can't even buy her a 6K ring? Or even a real diamond? He wanted to swim in the deep end of the pool with the woman way out of his league but is still a trifling scrote. Also notice his nasty little scare quotes around "so much". Then lists huge sacrifices she made for him when she barely even knew him. Just one more reason not to give shit to men you don't know. She went way to far for dating him for just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:47 PM |
| 84 | Woman comments “we Stan a short king” on random videos on Tik Tok. Men take the bait every single time"I'm 6'5" 😂 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 07:25 PM |
| 31 | Invalidation in FriendshipsI had a friend who gaslighted me into staying with a man who by his actions I thought was a rape threat. I stayed and he raped me very shortly after. As for the American Murder woman, if her firends had told her the truth she probably would have attacked them and doubled down on "communicating" with her hubby and then badmouthed the friend to the other friends. Seen that too many times. So many women don't want the truth, as the askee you just exist to prop them in their trash relationship or as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 01:43 PM |
| 193 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).• "Do you call that sex?" Actually said this to a guy. • "Of course I didn't orgasm." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 01:23 PM |
| 42 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”Even heard anyone mention that there was any connection to cancer prevention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 21 | "The talk" about pornThis is completely stupid and wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 03:23 AM |
| 121 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.All these adult babies sound like such a fucking drag! Never get with a man who can't or won't take care of himself. He will never be capable of taking care of you in any kind of way and he will never be able to support you when you're having a hard time or you get sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 03:18 AM |
| 6 | Omg lol. Scrote husband spends 4 hours a day several days a week doing online therapy. More like porn/cam girls, video games, or both. The audacity. I just can’t 😂😂See but it's cool with the patriarchy to hate cops, not so much with pornographers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Omg lol. Scrote husband spends 4 hours a day several days a week doing online therapy. More like porn/cam girls, video games, or both. The audacity. I just can’t 😂😂A lot of these dudes just spend hours and hours watching porn or other things to stimulate themselves. His dick is probably pretty broken. Also for men generally once they orgasm the fun is over so the porn addicts draw it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 154 | Omg lol. Scrote husband spends 4 hours a day several days a week doing online therapy. More like porn/cam girls, video games, or both. The audacity. I just can’t 😂😂Cop. My guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 04:37 PM |
| 144 | Omg lol. Scrote husband spends 4 hours a day several days a week doing online therapy. More like porn/cam girls, video games, or both. The audacity. I just can’t 😂😂Porn addiction. If you spent 4 hours in there supposedly getting therapy I would definitely listen at the door briefly the next time to see if it was really a cam girl or porn. Or even better get one of those Nanny cam things. If he's really doing therapy just looking at him while he's doing it wouldn't violate any of his privacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 04:36 PM |
| 68 | What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth?"Drop everything and come out with me now right away to a fancy dinner" This really stuck out to me too. When he used it to throw something in her face the very next day and ruin it I was not surprised. I saw it coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 03:55 AM |
| 89 | What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth?Pretty much from the beginning of her story I was thinking that he shouldn't be left alone with the child. But especially after that incident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 03:04 AM |
| 152 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have become"I can have sex an infinite number of times in one night, you can only manage 3 times a week. It doesn't make sense for you to have another partner." Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 02:49 AM |
| 125 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeLol the truth comes out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 02:40 AM |
| 43 | "Men know women better"Yeah joe, if women weren't so selfish they let you cheat on them, pimp them out and rape other women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 01:31 PM |
| 16 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetOr DNA? Men are 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 11:16 AM |
| 38 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetMen absolutely hate a woman who knows what respect is and expects it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:48 AM |
| 28 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetI'm still confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:46 AM |
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| 3 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?Or he'll be emboldened by you doing nothing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 701 | Pornsick scrote can't be asked a normal question without turning it sexual...this was our first conversation 😒 Have I discovered a new vetting question??I guarantee that in reality he hates eating pussy and he's also fucking horrible at it. So that's two red flags. Three if you count the fact that he thought this stupid tactic would work on you. To recap, a porn addict who's terrible at eating pussy and thinks women are stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 08:35 PM |
| 158 | The Real Reason Men Always Pursue the Women Who Want Relationships as “Hookups” - Summarized Perfectly in this TikTok *chef’s kiss*Even going back to what the word polyamory means, "many loves", this guy doesn't fit that definition. He doesn't love these women. What he's doing is called polyfuckery. Because he was an immigrant he didn't know the current male line that he was supposed to spew in this society so he just revealed what he actually thinks, what men actually think. For me but not for thee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:24 PM |
| 141 | The Real Reason Men Always Pursue the Women Who Want Relationships as “Hookups” - Summarized Perfectly in this TikTok *chef’s kiss*They also get off on having the woman be monogamous with him while he fucks around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:04 PM |
| 26 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?Another note. Report now and keep reporting every time he contacts you. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL IT GETS SO BAD YOU ARE IN IMMINENT DANGER. Is much harder to get the cops to help you in that case because there's no record against him. Take and keep screen shots of every time he reaches out to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:48 PM |
| 92 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?Oh man! Do you hire out? This is fantastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:26 PM |
| 13 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?What I was told by the police is that you need to tell the person to leave you alone in no uncertain terms. Keep a record of that. And then keep a record of every time this person reaches out again. They're never supposed to contact you again. That is considered harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 71 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Not one of these people would say the same thing if you were staring at other men in front of him and he got upset. They would all chastise you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 250 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”"If you really have confidence you will be fine with open disrespect from your husband/partner." I've had plenty of men and none of them ever looked at other women. If they did they got dumped immediately. Basic respect is non negotiable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:35 AM |
| 10 | Men are such pick mes trying to gaslight me into being a pick meShare some examples. I'm really interested to hear what they are doing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 03:07 PM |
| 60 | Men who are virgins late in life are red flags.Yeah OP could have avoided this whole thing if she had a make out section where she felt his crotch up. If you can't feel it, it's either limp or too small. He should have a rock hard boner if he's normal. Just a tip for OP and everyone here. It was bleak days before I thought to do this. *Shudders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:45 PM |
| 20 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeThanks for the eye bleach at the end! Those men all look like shit. Yikes! Clearly the bitterness of involuntary celibacy has made them deranged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 166 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!Most importantly, don't have sex with him again. Dump him. Don't keep going back hoping that may be he will decide to throw you a crumb this time. He won't. Remember, if he wanted to he would. That goes for your orgasm to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 95 | Flip the scriptThis is why I like to treat men how they try to treat me. You want me to eat this shit sandwich? No, you'll be eating it. Enjoy, asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 04:59 AM |
| 88 | Buzzfeed pushing dangerous LV shitHow do you go from 15 dates to 1 date for sex? At least vet the guy for three full dates. Most won't make it through 3 or even 1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 04:31 AM |
| 36 | Men always knowAlao they benefit from our oppression and doubly from our ignorance of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 110 | Men always knowI bet he sat there for at least a half hour calling you repeatedly and getting angrier and angrier. Hahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:42 PM |
| 63 | Going to therapy is not the solution to every relationship problem. It only works if the person going is willing to be honest about their situation and is open to change, which is why it doesn’t work with addicts.Two parts that really stuck out to me are the fact he is still in denial that he even has an addiction. And that he said he would like to continue his addiction but more "discreetly", i.e not get caught by his girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:36 PM |
| 182 | Going to therapy is not the solution to every relationship problem. It only works if the person going is willing to be honest about their situation and is open to change, which is why it doesn’t work with addicts.Okay we all know the real issue is that he's wanking like six times or more a day and he probably almost never wants to have sex with his girlfriend. Probably makes her feel bad when she wants to have sex with him. Can't get it up, can't keep it up, and probably blames her and makes her feel like she's not good enough when it happens. And then she finds out suddenly it's all because he's over-wanking his dick day in and day out and he was just manipulating her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 11 | "Horsegirl" is a feminist issue - why girls benefit from handling horsesYou're crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 266 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSI'm pretty sure the drugs and alcohol he's referring to is what he has to use to rape women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:09 PM |
| 68 | Are we supossed to jump around like a dog when we get proposed ( and the worst I could have thinked of)Dump him now. This is so low value, manipulative, disrespectful and childish. What a turn off. "I see my value to you clearly now" This is a pity play for manipulation. | /r/askFDS | 18/10/21 04:00 PM |
| 106 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩Or "let's just eat at my house (so I can try to push myself on you sexually)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:02 PM |
| 8 | I went to a party and was never more relieved to go home alone. 🤣And who says pickme don't have a use! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:41 AM |
| 74 | Never call a man out for negging youI probably would have laughed like he made a really obvious joke, because duh, there is no way he could be better at math than an engineer, and then just moved on. Both are great responses to these clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:34 AM |
| 123 | Has anyone else watched "What Happened, Brittany Murphy"? Simon Monjack was the definition of a Negative Value Male.It sounds like he ran her into the ground and sucked everything out of her. Poor woman. This is why we need to have rock solid boundaries. You never give up your friends and you never allow the man to control your money or your job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:04 AM |
| 192 | The good old “what’s your type” questionBut follows all the hot girl trends, I'm sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:13 AM |
| 227 | The good old “what’s your type” questionBig sign he's not serious and only looking for sex. Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:12 AM |
| 4 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesProbably a lot of rapes since they seem to just let them right out to do it again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:42 PM |
| 351 | Whenever I think men cannot possibly get worse…Unbelievable. Biting strangers in public? And yet they cry when we call them dogs and animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 07:50 PM |
| 90 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesI had a man chase me home in the middle of the night one night. Luckily I knew where I was going in the dark and he didn't. Plus the door on my building locked automatically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 07:36 PM |
| 176 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobHaving a wife and children means you aren't the only one that matters and your kids come first. Everyone deals with that. Stop trying to blame your wife like it's her fault. You chose to date her, propose to her, marry her and have children with her. You aren't a victim. Doubt this guy is a decent husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 34 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩I hate these trifling little morons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:44 PM |
| 6 | I made a mistake and was too friendly. How do I backtrack and establish boundaries with my male classmate?Read the handbook | /r/askFDS | 16/10/21 04:32 AM |
| 19 | This seems to go with posts today, so, I thought I’d share facts. As other have said, stay vigilant! This is why we use FDS!Don't worry I'm sure they're counting scratches on a man's face because she tried to push him away while he was strangling her... They're also including the numbers of men and boys attacked and assaulted by the crazy ex-partner or current partner. Sometimes the guy assaults her new partner, her father, her son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:05 PM |
| 724 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditIf it was so great for her why was she found crying on the couch in the morning? Anyway some young woman doesn't need to be dicked around by this male town bicycle. Dad is right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:59 PM |
| 11 | Man I’m seeing seemingly put forth ZEROOOOO effortYou're dating an old man. This isn't FDS. He's also cheap, lazy, refuses to think ahead and expects you to invite him places for meaningful events. This is why he's dating kids and not women his own age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 12:52 AM |
| 68 | New friend invited her boyfriend to hang outThis girl is a waste of time. At best she's too insecure to meet with another girl one on one and needs her boyfriend as a crutch. At worst he's abusing her and making sure she can't make friends by, for example, not letting her go out without him, hitting on you in front of her or talking about how attractive you are after to cause her to not want to see you again, or manipulating her by talking badly about you after you all hang out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:58 PM |
| 18 | Why men defend predatorsMen form these groups with each other, women tend to form them with men. That is one of our biggest problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 03:53 AM |
| 85 | News flash: scrote was able to pay his $38,000 bond & the school hasn’t expelled him 🙃 Even his fraternity have protected him…Bet he'll get 6 months probation and no record | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:36 AM |
| 111 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….Bullet dodged. We all know he wouldn't be sleeping over at his best guy friend's house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 113 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isI think that's just normal. Kind of sounds like we're taking women's sexuality and making it an unusual subcategory of normal sexuality, IE male sexuality, where most of them will put their dick in a McChicken. That's not normal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Man gets praised for finally deciding to do a 15 minute operation but only after his partner went through the hell of inserting an IUD after almost dying of complications and mentioning removing her eHow nice of him almost murdering her with his penis! Twice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 02:12 PM |
| 31 | I've lost my married friends.I think what she means is she doesn't want to hear about how they're being taken advantage of by their husbands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 116 | "WIFE 💍"Tell me we won't be friends without telling me we won't be friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 08:11 AM |
| 109 | Found one in the wild!Yeah the only way I'm going to be involved in sports on a man's behalf is if he's out there on the field sweating, building muscle, burning calories and getting hot. I'll hang on the sidelines occasionally to watch his tight ass run up and down field. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:24 AM |
| 62 | Get a female therapist, not a male oneThey're manipulating patients and also brining their redpill, male bullshit to their profession. Women have so much more integrity. Women have to walk a finer line. Imagine a female therapist saying this crap to a man! He would report her and she would probably get in trouble. The male therapists will probably be supported if reported. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 112 | Get a female therapist, not a male oneI am absolutely shocked by these male therapists. I was right to never go to one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 32 | Men will try to make you look crazy for lashing out at them after they ignore your boundaries over and over.I've had men like that around. I never let them have anything. Assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:28 AM |
| 32 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️Just looks-wise she could do so much better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 103 | New reddit challenge: try to find a thread on dick size where women with a preference for larger dicks aren't downvoted/ignored and women with a specific preference for smaller penises aren't upvoted. And they think we're the ones coping......Not saying people can't prefer smaller but hmm....I prefer 10 inches and thick. Only way we can get good stroke going. When I'm on top little dicks always pop out just when I get going. I like a long stroke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 80 | I'm done with men shorter than meShort, poor and intimidated. A trifecta of loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 8 | A new Jezebel article compares FDS to TRP. How originalWhen they start saying that women protecting themselves is "inherently victim blaming" you have to wonder why they're positioning themselves on the side of predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 444 | Father playing devils advocate when it comes to sexual child abuse, but wife’s not sure what to do?! Raising daughters is terrifying.hOw dO i CoNfRoNt HiM? Is there any situation these women don't think can be solved by "confronting" the man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:59 AM |
| 14 | FDS is featured on JezebelMorons. "Here's some women refusing to fuck on the first date or pay for dates. Let's call it 1950s to smear it!" So unique. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:14 AM |
| 174 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.And let's not even talk about how disgusting semen is... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:42 AM |
| 276 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.stalker won't go away I lean in and whisper "Did you know my vagina is only one inch from my anus?" and my stalker vanishes. ✨✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:41 AM |
| 14 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This guy is out here talking about design flaws, but has he looked at his own testicles because 🤢🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:40 AM |
| 123 | Block and deleteI look through them and walk away. It's so satisfying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 135 | Racist scrote had it comingIt's great cover. Also gets them access, like this guy to his girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:12 PM |
| 56 | Racist scrote had it coming"I do this minimal supposed good thing so I get to use racial slurs against my girlfriend in the bedroom as a kink." 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:11 PM |
| 65 | [Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him.I bet you're right. That's why he put that out there so she would dump him and then he could get away and be with the other person without even having to do any work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:08 AM |
| 90 | [Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him.So nice he stole 6 years from her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:07 AM |
| 44 | The amount of hate former porn actresses receive for speaking out is interesting to say the least…They're just more evil rape addicts who will do anything for their drug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:52 AM |
| 101 | The amount of hate former porn actresses receive for speaking out is interesting to say the least…They scream that we are evil, psychologically damaged, psychopathic shrews. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:50 AM |
| 395 | [Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him.She was way too nice to that cock. Also he lied. He let her go so easily. Still didn't love her. Also just the fact that he did this in front of other people, he probably did it so she would dump him because he was too much of a coward to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:34 AM |
| 11 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:"Whaaaah! My ex-girlfriend loved Fluffy (babied) more than me! So I told her she needed to take the cat to a shelter and she kicked me out instead!" 😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 35 | After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a wasteHe'll forget this as soon as things return to normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:35 PM |
| 13 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄"I confronted him!" 🥴🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 89 | Yep! Men are truly disgusting!That is such a line. He was trying to get under your skin and fuck with you. Always ignore these people. They're like children trying to get attention by acting provocatively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:19 PM |
| 76 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???"so long" ≠ 5 years What a joke. He shouldn't be entitled to shit because he didn't do anything. He didn't birth the child he didn't raise the child. He didn't pay for the house. He didn't contribute financially to the relationship almost at all. And he sure shit wasn't doing all of the house cleaning and cooking. I'm sure she also paid to furnish the whole thing and has pain for all repairs. The reason women would get spousal support and get the house was because they would give up their job se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 35 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???So he paid for nothing but still wants to steal the wife and daughter's house. What a guy? Hopefully 5 years isn't enough the state will allow him to steal a house from his poor wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 53 | Men playing victimThe funniest part is they really think that they're smooth and we don't notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:57 AM |
| 118 | Men playing victimIt's all for show. They see the ounce of power we scraped together and they want it back. They want to be the big man and the crying baby. A man acts like this and I'm gone. No Eeyores. No victims. No little bitches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:46 AM |
| 197 | Men playing victimThey're all little bitches now. But they also get rewarded for it so they do it on purpose too. Easiest way to control most women as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 14 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysThat's what I thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 11:11 AM |
| 321 | Another horrible online dating story. A good example of why you don't have sex too soon before you have a chance to vet thoroughly.Another thing libfems haven't told you. Casual sex is pretty often you just fucking a man who already has a wife or girlfriend. He's cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:27 AM |
| 72 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysAt least we know he can still, I guess? Hahahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:52 AM |
| 9 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guys👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:52 AM |
| 7 | This HAS to be a troll 🤦🏼♀️I don't know where these old lady stingy scrotes keep finding women! Did she fall off the banana cart yesterday? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:42 AM |
| 78 | I surveyed a bunch of men so you don't have to! : Why guys ask those VERY personal questionsThis is my strategy. I would just let them flap their gums while quietly listening and nodding and maybe giving little encouraging interjections. Men show their asses so fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 58 | I surveyed a bunch of men so you don't have to! : Why guys ask those VERY personal questionsI would be very put out if a guy started asking me all these questions on a date. Major creep vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 38 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.Sounds like an alcohol problem. I can't imagine having two drinks before meeting someone for the first time on a date. He was never serious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:29 PM |
| 44 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.Absolutely. That also means he didn't go home to shower and change, probably didn't even brush his teeth. Unacceptable for a supposed date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 45 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.And to think I could have missed out on all of this by saying "It sounds like you're busy. Why don't we meet up another time?" block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:24 PM |
| 58 | Jesus wept (photo not mine)I would think he cared also. Apparently not. What a loser. I'm sure they all talked smack about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:46 AM |
| 15 | Following an FDS approach to relationships has long-term implications. Case in point: the retirement gap.Well if you were married 10 years or more you can get spousal benefits for retirement. Hope 6pu can get that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:36 AM |
| 59 | Following an FDS approach to relationships has long-term implications. Case in point: the retirement gap.These losers need to keep working to make sure their wife can retire with them. Scrotes. They need to pay the bills so she can put more in her retirement. I hope every one of these stingy user scrotes gets taken to the cleaners when the wife wakes up and divorces him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:26 AM |
| 396 | Excuse me?Fucking WHATTTTTT? He's stealing food from his own child? What has become of "men"? Where did they all go? Also, she's paying for the child's milk? What does this ass even do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:29 AM |
| 19 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Doing the lord's work, I see! Keep it up! Love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 22 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Invermectin has a 90% rate of causing infertility in men. Hahahahah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:09 AM |
| 70 | It's no wonder that men are as dysfunctional as they are... this is from a men's therapist's site...Considering one third of millennial women are being forced into sex before even the 6 weeks is up, which is not the final word in healing after birth, this couldn't be more real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:43 PM |
| 74 | It's no wonder that men are as dysfunctional as they are... this is from a men's therapist's site..."While your scrote does nothing to help you and totally exploits you and degrades you, maybe he's really showing you affection in ways that are just hidden!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meI think that's in the third screen cap although it now won't open for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 90 | "I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀"he already cheated on me repeatedly in the past but I trust him!" Why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 66 | The Magnificent Scrote: the red flags of chapter one of the Magnolia StoryHe's a scrote. I watched maybe one season of their show once and he just seems very lazy, rude, low effort and has no respect for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:39 PM |
| 127 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meI fully believe in this day at home part, just not the dad part. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:37 PM |
| 238 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for me6 non-assholes could retire on that money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:36 PM |
| 422 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for me"stay-at-home dad" "volunteer" Don't make me laugh. What a scrote! This guy can't even freely help his wife with cancer but we're supposed to believe he's going to volunteer to help others for free? If that nanny is already a live-in nanny and it's still not enough help for his wife, then why doesn't he get someone who can cook and clean for her as well? He has seven and a half million dollars! We all know the problems in his marriage are from his selfishness and neglect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 27 | TEA ☕️: If a guy has a small dick, he WILL very likely (try) to cheat.I'd have to continue to date him after finding out he had a small ass dick first to then learn he was a cheater. Not even once. No point. I only love men who make me cum every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:17 AM |
| 150 | The most requested item at the Afghan refugee camps are condoms! As an Afghan American this disgusts me. So these men that already have 4+ kids while their wives are probably exhausted with no real home of their own and he’s just thinking about his penis. Not surprised.A lot of the condoms are also for all the rapes and men using food and supplies to trade for sex (more rape) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:30 AM |
| 17 | Bfs family jokingly asking why I am with him - red flag?"Entre broma y broma, la verdad se asoma" Between jokes the truth appears. | /r/askFDS | 30/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 20 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!I used to know a big group of acquaintances who are all friends and they were all fucking each other 🤢🤢🤢 Their whole group was a laughing stock of STD jokes for everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:06 PM |
| 84 | Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.I guess "rough group sex" is what we're calling violent anal gang rape now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:48 AM |
| 77 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!Destroy wanting to find somebody special who you love? These poor people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:39 AM |
| 41 | Is he your boyfriend or your man?Didn't like him immediately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 220 | The entire pole is a red flagThe missing one is the one he took to make himself look desired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:04 AM |
| 45 | Hinder: A Dating App for Emotionally Unavailable Men (full New Yorker link in comments)The only thing they got wrong on the first one is that the guy has too much hair left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsWow fucking crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsAre you fucking kidding me???? What the FUCK? What is wrong with people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 06:40 PM |
| 32 | Male nurse gives abortion pill to his friend, who force feeds it to his pregnant partner. Thankfully he received jail time and lost his nursing license. Men will never stick up for you. Bros before..... well you know.Didn't even use the drug properly either. Morons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsNo. Virgo. Mars something though, I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:42 AM |
| 16 | Timing question when it comes to exclusivity?Sorry skipped that part. Still going way too fast. Basically getting the better friends and family treatment. He might very well still just be looking to fuck and run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 22 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsI'm fight response all the way. Always have been. It's works great as long as you pick the right situations and not the wrong people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:36 AM |
| 53 | Timing question when it comes to exclusivity?Three dates he's a stranger. He could still be lying to you about his name. If he asks you before the 2 month mark tell him you are still deciding. DO NOT RUSH IN BASED ON MEETING HIS REPRESENTATIVE! Two dates is nothing. What? 4 hours? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 160 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manS A M E !!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:24 AM |
| 67 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsOh they didn't dare. He got out real quick. It's all about attitude and I had just been raped and had PTSD. And I was already aggressive before that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 69 | Be Wary Of Male Doctors100% this. Absolutely. It's always about pressure. Men would attack someone for this bullshit pressure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:36 AM |
| 135 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manSleep deprivation is abuse too! Fuck these guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:24 AM |
| 63 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manHippy scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:24 AM |
| 688 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manThis shit is why I'm aging amazingly even with chronic illness and chronic pain/disability. I don't have some trifling man bleeding me dry and multiple kids who I am the sole carer for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 32 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsWhat the Fuck!? I would report him so fast! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:17 AM |
| 69 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsThese women! This could be a litmus test question for potential female friends. "Would you rather see a female or a male gynecologist?" "Do you think men should be allowed to be gynecologist?" "Would you trust a male gynecologist?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:07 AM |
| 52 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsDon't forget to also report them to their medical association, such as acog, and their licensing board! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:03 AM |
| 182 | Be Wary Of Male Doctors"you're not allowed to only have a woman look at and touch your body" Said rapists or gyno's office employees? Fuck these people. There was one clinic I went to and they started marching in a male nursing student to my yearly gynecological appointment and pelvic exam to "learn". They didn't ask me and wait for my consent before bringing him in, they spit the words out as the man was just freely walking into the exam room. I very firmly told them absolutely not and he needs to leave immediately. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:02 AM |
| 54 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.Being a disgusting pathetic porn addict who can't keep together a relationship is not as bad as all of the women being raped in porn, being sex trafficked because of porn, being prostituted, and all the women being raped and raped and raped in their relationships with men because of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:59 AM |
| 64 | Women going to college is creating violence in men! There isn’t quality in Uni so men aren’t going! We have a mating crisis!!That's the angle there. Great response! Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:45 AM |
| 20 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Yep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 183 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkAnd: "you'll never be as lucky as me because you're a quitter" Lol lol lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 85 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Fools | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:08 PM |
| 23 | Man claims his gf WANTS him to hold a gun to her head. I call bs.It also serves as very obvious manipulation to try to convince women that we would totally love to have things like this done to us. Society has already laid the groundwork he's just coming in with the subtle repeated reminders to normalize this abusive disturbing shit. That is why the story isn't I want to hold a gun to a woman's head during sex because I think it would be hot to threaten her with murder. It's she wants the gun held to her head during sex because she thinks it's hot but I'm rel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 21 | Man claims his gf WANTS him to hold a gun to her head. I call bs.If he had truly been taught gun safety since he was 6 years old he wouldn't be acting like this is a foregone conclusion that he's going to do it. He also would see this as disturbing and get away from her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:00 PM |
| 134 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.All the crying is a clear sign that he doesn't use condoms when he fucks random people, probably doesn't get STD tests, and is more than willing to whine and cry and manipulate women into having unsafe sex with his dirty dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:58 PM |
| 656 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Okay he's obviously lying. Why would she fuck a random Tinder dude with no condom and then a few weeks later get into a relationship and make the guy wear a condom? I assume what really happened is this guy raped her without a condom or slipped it of during sex. Also let's take a moment to notice the emotional language this man is using to try to manipulate people into taking his side which is clearly unreasonable (admitting it's a new relationship and then crying because he can't fuck her witho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 66 | SiNCe whEN dO i hAVe to pUt in effORt??These women were all lied to that if they were just nice enough to men and cuddled their feelings enough then they would turn out wonderful. Turned out that's not true. Now we are overrun with their entitled trash sons. Men clearly need a firm hand. Their dicks/sexuality need to be repressed heavily to keep them acting at all right. They need to be at the bottom of the hierarchy until they have earned a better position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:41 PM |
| 115 | SiNCe whEN dO i hAVe to pUt in effORt??Nah. What you planned has to be good too. Plan something wonderful you know that I will like based on what I have told you about myself. Take your I'm a five year old and Mommy put my picture on the refrigerator energy somewhere else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:35 PM |
| 218 | Scrote wants woman to pay for dates, even though they’re not exclusive after several dates. Pretty impressed to see the comments from other guys saying that they happily pay for dates.HELP! i'm bEiNg AbUsEd! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:32 PM |
| 51 | Scrote wants woman to pay for dates, even though they’re not exclusive after several dates. Pretty impressed to see the comments from other guys saying that they happily pay for dates.That's shocking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:32 PM |
| 181 | Scrote wants woman to pay for dates, even though they’re not exclusive after several dates. Pretty impressed to see the comments from other guys saying that they happily pay for dates."every man that I have ever dated has paid for everything" Love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:29 PM |
| 155 | Scrote wants woman to pay for dates, even though they’re not exclusive after several dates. Pretty impressed to see the comments from other guys saying that they happily pay for dates.Just listen to how much he already hates this woman. That's your answer. These guys are trash. If he liked you he would. He's just using. Hope he takes his "red flag" and runs away. Notice how he uses the language of women trying to prevent being trapped in abusive relationships that might get her killed to cry about paying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 26 | Masturbation requires porn apparently"involves another person" "in a sexual context" ... Exactly what the man is doing. So it's cheating by this own fake woman's post standards. "Girls" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:54 PM |
| 21 | The 'Harmless' man I dated and the mutual guy friend that advocated on his behalf. Why men close to us can be dangerous tooWell in a year she'll know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:41 PM |
| 68 | The 'Harmless' man I dated and the mutual guy friend that advocated on his behalf. Why men close to us can be dangerous tooI really highly recommend never considering men friends ever. They will always always do this. They will do this for men they don't even know, or met once. At best a man can be an acquaintance. Also block this "friend" too. He's working to lead you down the primrose path so his buddy can fuck you. If the best you can say about someone is you've never seen him be physically violent that's pretty bad. He knows, he just doesn't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:39 PM |
| 15 | My bf saw his ex when we were out and he bolted2 years is too long to be acting like this still. I would say he did something to her he doesn't want you to know about like cheating. | /r/askFDS | 25/09/21 12:33 AM |
| 82 | “Why Sex-Positive Feminism is Falling out of Fashion”They are speaking out about the new liberal sexual repression putting pressure on women to accomplish the same ends that men have always wanted from us: access to pussy. She's really trying to call women conservative for fighting against our own rapes and sexual exploitation, pressure to let men cheat on us, sexually abuse us, use us and throw us away, masturbate into us, deny us pleasure, orgasm, foreplay and satisfaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 144 | “Why Sex-Positive Feminism is Falling out of Fashion”And Pickme feminism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:38 PM |
| 98 | “Why Sex-Positive Feminism is Falling out of Fashion”It made all of those things much much worse. It was also used as just one more pressure to push women into sexual abuse and rape. Another way to gaslight them. Another way to have other women, men and their friends turn on them. Another way to pressure women to accept their man cheating on them, but in front of their faces instead of behind their backs this time. It's a huge mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:37 PM |
| 217 | Two things are going on here. 1. He can’t grow up 2. He probably has, or will at some point, have an affair with someone from back home. Making this a normal routine sets up a guaranteed 3 days a week that he can do whatever while not being checked in on. C’mon sis!So in the beginning she was the weekend girl. And now she's the weekday girl. And he goes off for the whole weekend somewhere. He's a busy boy. If a man can only see you certain days or only during the week or just on the weekend. He's fucking other women. This one sounds so like a gaming loser and he goes home to Mommy and Daddy every weekend so they can do everything for him and he won't have any responsibilities. He drops his gf because she's work to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 44 | I don’t really have words for this one.Yes. And we all know he wasn't giving her three to four orgasms a day on top of this. It was him compulsively masturbating into her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:54 AM |
| 37 | This just in. Baldness - A systemic issue we should all be taking seriously.I just saw so many more reasons not to fuck bald losers 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:23 AM |
| 18 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.Yeah I wouldn't trust them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:20 AM |
| 24 | How do you deal with gaining less interest in dating and men overall?It's obvious they're not the right one for you. Who cares if they're interested if they're crap or half crap? I would start discarding them faster and moving to the next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:41 AM |
| 141 | I don’t really have words for this one.Wow first of all nothing she describes in the beginning is healthy. It sounds like he was already an addict. Constantly groping her, lasting forever, fucking four times a day? That's not healthy. She needs to ditch him because she could get any other man to fuck her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:36 AM |
| 40 | A review I saw. The fact the other adults at the table didn’t say anything is disheartening.Instead of whining to the low level minimum wage scrote making your meal, go to the business manager. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:27 AM |
| 150 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.I've seen a few farmer type guys in their fitted shirts, tight jeans and boots with broad shoulders, small waists, and tight asses. I want them all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:24 AM |
| 127 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.It's so trueeeeeeee! American men are bottom barrel trash monkeys. I loved dating Latino men. They would wear button-up shirts ties iron their jeans, cologne shower smell fresh and clean, cut and style their hair. 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:23 AM |
| 17 | I hate talking about my abuse to my friends with boyfriends because it makes them look goodHer response amounts to "hahaha you got fucked worse than me. That means I'm still doing better than you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:59 PM |
| 12 | I hate talking about my abuse to my friends with boyfriends because it makes them look goodYou know what you don't need? This loss of a woman as a friend. Low value traits of gloating about how her trash is still better than your abusive ex like she is winning over you? Fuck no! Also trying to save her trash relationship by using your pain to make her feel better. 💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:53 PM |
| 28 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪dOn'T KiNk ShAmE mE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…This lady needs to get her shit together and do this to the future ex-husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 2 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…Okay he doesn't love this other woman. He barely knows this other woman. But she is convenient to triangulate against his wife and get the wife tripping over herself to do everything for him because "maybe he'll love her again". Spoiler: he never loved her If a man tried this shit on me I would tell him to get the fuck out of my house. "Maybe I'll love you again after sucking up another year of your labor and making you scramble like a trained monkey". No. Edit: just got to the part where he cau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 23 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪I was thinking about my electric nail buffer and facial brush. Imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 45 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪She was in the mood...to actually orgasm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 62 | Sex with a narcissistDon't forget about the love bombing narc. In the beginning sex with him will look like: •He will focus on you and your pleasure •He will do things like go down on you without expecting anything in return •He will tell you how amazing and beautiful you are •He will tell you how amazing you are in bed •He will be all over you in public and private showering you with positive sexual attention •He may even recite words from love songs and poems to you (these won't be his own words) •He will always b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 36 | Sex with a narcissistThis one got me twice. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 37 | Sex with a narcissist98%ofmen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 117 | What’s the standard trade for the entire human being I pushed out of my vagina?My mind started wandering thinking about what it would be like if men wore tight and revealing clothing and worked to be attractive to us... 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:48 PM |
| 55 | I finally had to leave one of my favorite online communities because of the misogynyI'd be dragging a man to HELL if he ever tried this. It's so disgusting these rapists are everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:01 AM |
| 113 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.Oh good! We can have even shorter balder fatter and uglier men thanks to this bro help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 24 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???Guaranteed he's actually following them or, 1, how would he even notice this, 2, why would he care, 3, why be offended, 4, why would so many women be craved out by him that they're running from him? I've run away from like 7 men who were literally chasing me. Never any other time. The reality is he's following women/ogling women/creeping on women and he's angry that they're running away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.Nasty user. Good for protecting your daughter from this pig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:33 AM |
| 5 | Example #141203 of why you should PROTECT YOUR WOMB! Even the guys who seem nice can be full on scrotey sperm donors. Does he have kids? Does he keep in contact with them? Does he abandon his children and then throw pity parties about it?I cut mine off. It's been like 8 years. 8 years without that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:03 AM |
| 71 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?"he's a professional" lol 😂 let's talk about all the surgeons, OBs and gynecologist that violate women. They're all real professionals. Still rapists and abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 50 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Capturing something women need to see in themselves? More like capturing their giant titties for wank material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:32 PM |
| 16 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesHahahahahaha Will remember that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:57 PM |
| 43 | Example #141203 of why you should PROTECT YOUR WOMB! Even the guys who seem nice can be full on scrotey sperm donors. Does he have kids? Does he keep in contact with them? Does he abandon his children and then throw pity parties about it?Meanwhile he's showing an extremely controlling personality. He's just doing it in the whiny manipulative "I'm a weak kicked dog" way. Where, oh where, are his flying monkeys??? Calling all flying monkeys. Deadbeat daddy needs a hero! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 43 | Example #141203 of why you should PROTECT YOUR WOMB! Even the guys who seem nice can be full on scrotey sperm donors. Does he have kids? Does he keep in contact with them? Does he abandon his children and then throw pity parties about it?He's probably just virtue signaling to a new girlfriend or one he's trying to reel in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:48 PM |
| 21 | Example #141203 of why you should PROTECT YOUR WOMB! Even the guys who seem nice can be full on scrotey sperm donors. Does he have kids? Does he keep in contact with them? Does he abandon his children and then throw pity parties about it?The last thing this woman needs to be doing is encouraging her vulnerable hurt children to be forgiving this piece of shit or having any contact with him. You don't heal by continuing to be abused or pretending it wasn't a big deal. You heal by looking at what actually happened, accepting it and blocking that person from your fucking life forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:45 PM |
| 77 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesHe only gets 50% of the orgasms too. These men would murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 51 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesBut it is 50/50 because he has to put up with her while she's pregnant! s/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 30 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesWe have PUSSY POWER 🥳😜 Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:26 PM |
| 17 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”Fact is he still got 5, 10, 15 years of free labor and sexual services. Why would he care? This is exactly why we have to look out for love bombers and men doing the bare minimum or less. You have to make them work hard for you and prove they want you not just a female appliance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 18 | 911 Call Released - Witness saw Gabby Petito being "hit" and "slapped" by Brian on August 12thBro recognized bro and they colluded together to continue to gaslight this poor girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:16 PM |
| 16 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”Fact is he didn't love her. She was a useful object. These kind of men will just wring you dry until you finally leave. It's no skin off their back. They only cry when they can't get another one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 12 | Thoughts?"tens of thousands of dollars" ≠ under 2,000 per | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:10 PM |
| 68 | Have you guys heard of The Body Language Guy on YouTube? He has a video about Gabby and her abuser that you guys should check out https://youtu.be/E9J0Oz47PAsMore than that. They're bad actors. They're looking to demonize victimized women and turn us into the abuser when we are not and to protect abusive men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:24 AM |
| 7 | Scrote steals from wife and gets mad when he can't anymore. DONT! GIVE! MEN! ACCESS! TO! YOUR! FINANCIALS!THIS. I see this a lot. Women catch a man doing something once and they think it's the first time. That doesn't even make any sense. Just like when they catch a man cheating. He's probably cheated 10 other times he just didn't get caught. ITS NOT THE FIRST TIME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:14 AM |
| 6 | Scrote steals from wife and gets mad when he can't anymore. DONT! GIVE! MEN! ACCESS! TO! YOUR! FINANCIALS!I would be watching out for him taking out a life insurance policy in her name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:05 AM |
| 123 | Methods they use to stealth unsuspecting womenIt absolutely is the violation of consent that they love. I learned as a very young child that if you tell a man no to something the first thing he wants to do is violate that no. They despise women saying no to them. It makes them want to do whatever the thing is you said no to even if previously they had no desire. This is exactly why I don't tell men shit and I let them show me their cards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:00 AM |
| 114 | Thoughts?She won't even know if this guy is a fucking psychopath or has other major mental or physical illnesses. Any guy reading this is just going to see an opportunity to put his dick in a woman. Neither of these people should be having children if they think this whack bullshit is a good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:57 AM |
| 205 | Methods they use to stealth unsuspecting womenAlmost all of them. They all know. Just like the men who start shoving their dick at your asshole and then pretend that they didn't know. They totally just got confused on the way to your vagina. THEY DON'T FEEL THE SAME AND MEN NEVER USED TO DO THAT. They do it now that porn has told them to anally rape women because it will feel hot for them. They are LIARS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:48 AM |
| 277 | Thoughts?This sounds pretty crackpot. Plus I don't think signing some form, probably informally, is going to secure the release of his parental rights in any meaningful sense. Also men fake STD tests. She's seriously going to let some random man fuck her and ejaculate inside of her? Gross. Furthermore using a diaphragm with the sperm in it would be more successful anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Be Wary of Male Therapists / PsychsI would have asked him why he's so interested in climbing up into your vagina. What a prick! You know in the future you get to leave the appointment anytime you want. If he's pushing your boundaries tell him that you're leaving, get up and walk out. You don't have to answer any questions or justify your boundaries to anybody and that includes this asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 08:54 PM |
| 38 | Bad... But not unexpected... 💔Reactive abuse is a misnomer that men and pickmes have created. It's not abuse to fight back when somebody's hitting you, choking you, threatening you... That's not abuse. Abuse also has an element of power whereas these actions are the reaction of someone who has no power. Furthermore their actions are not used to gain control like an abuser's are. It's missing all the elements to even call it abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:33 AM |
| 94 | Bad... But not unexpected... 💔"here, let me threaten you with taking your van and leaving you in the desert to potentially die. That will fix your anxiety! I'm just being such a helpful boyfriend!" -every man justifying his abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:30 AM |
| 89 | 27 year old scrote with ED and porn sickness 🤢 and she’s the one who’s insecure and worrying about what she’s doing wrong! 🤦🏻♀️"everything else about him is amazing" First of all, doubt. And second of all, that's an act to reel her and get her to stay even though he literally cannot even properly fuck her because he's beat his dick to porn so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:26 AM |
| 44 | 27 year old scrote with ED and porn sickness 🤢 and she’s the one who’s insecure and worrying about what she’s doing wrong! 🤦🏻♀️WHYYYYY????? Just dump him! So many women get trapped by there training to be caretakers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 122 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menMen know the truth. They're angry the woman is fighting back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:45 AM |
| 180 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menThe poor thing talking about how angry she would get. Yes that's the proper response when you are being abused and threatened. That sanity not insanity. She clearly just wanted them to go away after they threatened her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:26 AM |
| 88 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menMen will first beat you and mentally abuse you and then pathologize you when you act exactly how they wanted. It's cliche at this point the number of women I have heard say they had horrible anxiety when they were in there abusive or exploitative relationships and it just evaporated when they finally got away from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:19 AM |
| 114 | Remains believed to belong to missing woman in van mystery are found.Hope he fries. We need more death penalty for these men. I hope that cop never works again. I hope he is never again placed in a position where he can get a woman killed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:16 AM |
| 21 | Just scrotey thingsHahaha! My inspiration will always be April Ludgate from Parks and Rec who was asked if she had a phone by a guy while she was literally on her phone and without even looking at him she says no and just keeps on looking at her phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 75 | Just scrotey things"no I don't have any hobbies." "No I go nowhere and do nothing." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 160 | Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids?It's a vacation because you aren't earning, money and also doing all the cooking cleaning and child raising like they think you should be. Fact is they want you to do all of it while they do hardly anything. I am going to reiterate something I said in another comment. Men are already failing at life, failing at work, failing at emotional regulation, refuse to clean themselves or their homes, and are horribly abusive, pedophilic and porn addicted. Yet we're supposed to believe they would make won… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:46 AM |
| 29 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsEverything men do "Wow! He barely shows up to work!" "Wow! He barely shows up as a father!" "Where is his fucking Nobel Peace prize!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:38 AM |
| 24 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsSickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:33 AM |
| 62 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsWhat? That doesn't sound like fun to you???? And we all know who's going to be cleaning and cooking when she gets home too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:26 AM |
| 16 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsMost men only want to stay home with the kids because they think it's vacation time to play video games, masturbate and cheat. I also think it's disgusting to put your baby in daycare at 5 months. Or is she one of these women who has enough money to afford a private nanny? Just your average wage! Most men can't even cook or clean or regulate their emotions but we're supposed to believe that they would be fantastic stay at home fathers? How? I am horribly disgusted by the unmasculinity of a guy e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:16 AM |
| 378 | Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids?Well they think all there is to raising a child is sticking it in the playpen and then playing video games, and when it's a little bit older, you can stick it in front of the tv. They would raise psychopaths. They also just hate women and don't want them to have anything and they seem to think raising your own children is some sort of privilege rather than the hard work and sacrifice that it actually is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:07 AM |
| 159 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueI don't mean get pissed and then go through displays of anger in front of him/yell. I mean get pissed and dump him fast and early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:59 PM |
| 185 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨This person is probably some 20-year-old scrote with no children anyway. They're such liars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨No one clutches pearls like an LVM! Meanwhile he's a misogynistic abuser who get off on rape porn and calls women c*nts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:20 PM |
| 636 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueAll these shitty men really get high on violating women's boundaries. This is why you have to get PISSED if some man ever does this stuff to you, so you won't put up with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 11 | I finally broke up with my narcissistic abusive ex and everyone around him thinks I'mThese friends of his are his flying monkeys. Narcs are the WORST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 9 | I finally broke up with my narcissistic abusive ex and everyone around him thinks I'mYou will never win with this person. Never. You will have to take control and cut him off no matter how he pushes your buttons. This guy is going to win no matter what. He's insane and people believe him because they hate women. Every time you let him trigger you into doing something you're at more risk. You will likely need to involve the cops to get your stuff back because he's going to cause some sort of problem and then turn around and try to get you arrested. You will also have to move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 86 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.Ouch! That definition. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 252 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son."failsons" Hahhahhaa We all need to commit to using this new term! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄I would further take a bet that he's the one who's always "coming up short" and she covers for him. It's probably to make sure that she can't save money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 36 | courtesy of ‘feminists without religion’ on FB today. enjoy your game of chicken ladies.Oh we should definitely shout profanity at men. Scares them right off! Bought you some nice space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:27 AM |
| 55 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Let's reflect for a moment on how nefarious it is to tell someone that if they have an emergency fund it means they're not all in in their relationship. That is so disgustingly manipulative. I guarantee this guy is already abusing her and that's why he's upset. He wants to make sure she can't get away from him. He also he also wants that money because he's a greedy POS. It is certainly not that he's "confused and doesn't know what he feels". He knows exactly what the fuck he feels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:11 AM |
| 253 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Angry she has a getaway fund. Angry he can't access it and empty it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:16 AM |
| 40 | WSJ article cites how males are completing college education at almost half the rate of women, with porn, drugs, and video games as major "distractions."Hahahhahah! Weeding out the LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:56 AM |
| 50 | He locks her out of the house, because men are literally the worst.She needs to take him to small claims court, as long as she has proof. She might only get 5,000 or 10,000 out of that depending on the principality but it would be fucking worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:27 PM |
| 26 | He locks her out of the house, because men are literally the worst.Take all the batteries! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 76 | He locks her out of the house, because men are literally the worst.This is why you always have a credit card with his name on it. Buy yourself a couple of nights at the local Hilton, or closest equivalent, order room service,and then go to the mall and buy yourself some new work clothes pajamas underwear etc. Stay there and file for divorce. Notice pickme mommy is right there to defend her trash child, and LVM daddy too. Trash begets trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:19 PM |
| 23 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureEven if you aren't using a condom he should pull out and ejaculate in his hand. Problem solved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:06 PM |
| 262 | It's 2021 why is it still on women mostly to take birth control? 79% of men think it should be a "shared responsibility" its msyogynisyic that we still have to carry the burden as womenThe only way 79% of men believe birth control should be a shared responsibility is if those 79% of men believe asking a woman if she "takes something" and then never talking about it again is equal . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 286 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.All of the brainwashing, particularly the push to be so sympathetic to men and lousy boundaries and low self-esteem. Women are lead to believe that they have nothing to offer. That they are a burden a man takes on and they have to make up for it. The reality is men don't even exist without us. They live in filth and squalor and have miserable sexless lives with no meaning without a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 74 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.These women are chumps and the men see them coming and use them for everything they can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 23 | They’re telling her it’s “just a game”Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 127 | They’re telling her it’s “just a game”He's with her because he gets off on her trauma guaranteed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 99 | They’re telling her it’s “just a game”"He's told me he wants to drug and rape me but I didn't think that was a big deal" Thanks sex positivity and pervert rapist males working through naive liberal feminists! Wow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 31 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleI love this response. Dumb fox him, draw him out, then dodge left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:49 PM |
| 96 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleI always thought saying exclusive was a way of saying "hey, I'm not fucking anyone else but you" and thought and? That used to be granted. It's all clown bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:27 PM |
| 425 | A Man and Sexual Harassment (?), + I'm not crazy right?He's a fucking pervert and furthermore he's leaving things out of his little pervert story or the girl wouldn't have blocked him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 103 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersMoney may not buy happiness but it does buy a decent house in a safe neighborhood, a decent car that doesn't break down all the time, vacations, daycare, sports and activities for your children, maid service, grocery delivery, extra time for you to spend at the gym keeping healthy and fit, a good retirement... All benefits to your time and energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:27 PM |
| 40 | “One third of hookups ends up in marriage.”Same. Sounds like lies to me. I've never heard of this happening with any couple I've known in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 02:49 PM |
| 4 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsWell that's a big difference in what's going on here. You should have said. FDS is about "judgement". And anyway my comment wasn't about judgment, it was about holding this community together and keeping up standards and making sure members are following rules (read the handbook). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 02:22 PM |
| 2 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flags"upholding community standards and expecting people to read our handbook is mean 😭😭😭" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:17 AM |
| 39 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsSo this was your first date? You went to his house for a coffee? Have you read the handbook? This is exactly why we say no coffee dates and also no to going to some dude's house that you don't know. Those are the red flags right up front that would have saved you from this whole experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:00 AM |
| 45 | Where is the lie, tho?It's true to a T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 79 | Where is the lie, tho?It's so true. I knew the guy on the right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:19 PM |
| 73 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.And if you were vaccinated as a teenager get a booster shot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:10 PM |
| 7 | Oh woe is men!Hahaha 👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:44 PM |
| 91 | Oh woe is men!What I'm hearing is they've been catered to and cared for too much. We need to be so hard on them. Mom needs to crack the whip! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:37 PM |
| 71 | Hotels in Turkey are banning men from staying without women because "they're harassing girls to try and hook up with"This is exactly what they should be doing. Ban the problematic men so women can live our lives while being good people and not pieces of shit like these creeps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:34 PM |
| 29 | Such Entitlement!Fuck this! I'll wear a shirt that says "The Rude Bitch" on it before I would let a man put his fucking hand in my face without slapping it away and cussing him out. Prick! The audacity! (Pissed at him. Not you. Angry for you.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:20 PM |
| 40 | I'm ready to make the bald lurkers cry."would you love me if I was bald?" 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:36 PM |
| 36 | Dudes who lay it on thick during initial talking phaseHe's trying to schmooze his way into your pants. Never trust anybody who's making statements about you as a person when you've only had a few conversations with them. You haven't even met in person! He could also simply be unstable looking to attach quickly to someone. Another big red flag! Either way this is bad news. | /r/askFDS | 09/09/21 01:33 PM |
| 17 | Straight from the horses mouth.So, how long until the divorce do you think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:30 AM |
| 262 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'"Hunny, come here." grabs and twists his nuts till he screeches like a little boy "Hush. Stop making a scene." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 7 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menAnd if they ever do finally decide to leave these losers are going to take them to the cleaners. That's so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:49 AM |
| 26 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingThe least you could ask for. There is much more to relationships. If you just want to fuck then don't pretend to be using FDS. Be honest with yourself. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 03:54 AM |
| 31 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingHe also had to know that pulling this would result in a good chance of her losing attraction for him and ghosting. But he didn't care. And he doesn't care because she's not that important to him. He's not in it for real. Let him go invest in his fitness classes so he can look at himself in the mirror. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 01:42 AM |
| 24 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingI'm betting that two-way street will go out the window fast when it comes to cooking cleaning sex and orgasm. He is a waste of time. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 01:40 AM |
| 23 | Dating (relatively poor) teacher who wants me to alternate payingNo. | /r/askFDS | 07/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 6 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡Good. What a creep! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 27 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?Their mob mentality is second only to their victim mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:16 AM |
| 145 | Women aren't morally obligated to have babies.What are they even doing? They seem to think it's their right to ejaculate in a woman. Men need to pull out even when using a condom. It's an absurd risk and no on even talks about it. Why do men get to cum in us and risk our lives and futures? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 01:55 PM |
| 94 | Women aren't morally obligated to have babies.And let's talk about men doing everything they can to fuck women they don't even care about. Let's hold men responsible for that. If you don't want to marry her why are you wasting her time? Why does he get to run off? Fuck these guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 43 | Bette Midler recommends all women refuse to have sex with menRape isn't though 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 11:33 PM |
| 63 | FDS, why is it that men are such psychos about women having standards and boundaries? Our super fans in particular are just nuts.Because they don't meet them. We could have a standard of "doesn't rape me" and they would still reeeeeeee off into the sunset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 75 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴I think it was a great example and metaphor for young girls staying away from old creeps. Watch out for older men! He was supposed to be a creeper. She escapes in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:25 AM |
| 35 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴That movie was so bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 48 | listening to Gotye song “Somebody that I used to know” after discovering FDS made me laugh at the whiney scrote lyrics ..Yes. That's song is crazy. The man is such a lv stalker creep. You should also look at the lyrics for wild world by Cat Stevens. It sounds really nice but basically he's saying she has nothing to offer, she's not going to get by in the world and her wants are shallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:25 PM |
| 51 | listening to Gotye song “Somebody that I used to know” after discovering FDS made me laugh at the whiney scrote lyrics ..We all know he did her wrong for her to act like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 130 | Comments say a man standing on his toes is fair because the women he is talking to is wearing heels 🤡 Thoughts?If he wants to be on his tippy-toes he sure can but he ain't going to get fucked with that clown shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:31 PM |
| 274 | No wonder I saw few/if any women and children rushing to the outgoing planes to leave Afghanistan. Apparently, the military was letting men/allies through but refusing to let their families come through the airport gates.And all those men just left their families. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:30 PM |
| 15 | Notice how she's the one trying to get advice, not himThere you go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 44 | Notice how she's the one trying to get advice, not himI guarantee she's going to be the one paying off his almost a million dollars in debt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:45 PM |
| 16 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️Clearly she never even dreamed he would do something like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:16 PM |
| 45 | Harrowing thoughts from a Reddit - women aren't afraid of consequences when challenging men (context in comments)Be rude accusatory use name-calling red herrings sealioning etc. These guys are so full of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 18 | JealousyFirst of all you need to stop beating yourself up. It's not going to make you feel any better. It will only make you feel worse thus making it harder to move on. So what if you fucked some people casually? Let it go. It's not like you killed anybody. And this isn't to be dismissive at all. But you didn't commit a mortal sin. Work to forgive yourself and let that go. Second of all as for your friend, instead of being jealous try to learn from her. Talk to her about her philosophy and relationship… | /r/askFDS | 30/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 155 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️He's the gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:00 AM |
| 66 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️These people are being ripped off being quoted $2,600 for lab created trash. I really hope she leaves him. His entire attitude in this post is just vile. You can clearly see how he hates her. He also thinks it's fine to lie to her. I also have no idea how she didn't notice the difference between a quartz and a diamond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:55 AM |
| 258 | Notice how she's the one trying to get advice, not him"you can only date the man he is today" So many lost women need to learn this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 359 | Notice how she's the one trying to get advice, not himIf I was dating a guy and I found out he had $900,000 in loans I would just start laughing and then I'd walk out the door still laughing. He would hear me going down the hallway and out the building still laughing. He would never see me again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 47 | I just…🤦🏻♀️oh my god TW: DV🤡🤡🤡🤡 If you don't want to end up some scrotes servant or mommy, don't take on the work of a servant or mommy. She delivers home cooked food and does all the clean up and then entertains him and then fucks him sucks his dick and doesn't cum. Lol no She's just a servant 5 to 7 nights a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:05 AM |
| 76 | Multiple kids without marriage- thoughts?Men need to marry you, buy you a ring and a house that's in your name only if they want to jeopardize your womb and the lives of your future children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:52 AM |
| 59 | When friends ask you for advise, ask the guy you’re dating what he would do!Nah he assumed immediately that Jake cheated or was going to and was just trying to cover up and he was having Jake's back. He doesn't care about Kate having a friend. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:27 PM |
| 37 | Reminder: Don’t Let People Make You Lower Your Standards Because They Disagree With ThemI would just smile and laugh then change the subject. Fuck people like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:56 PM |
| 40 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsWell this is nightmare fule | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 111 | Reminder: Don’t Let People Make You Lower Your Standards Because They Disagree With ThemNever. I never share them. And if they ask point-blank I give a non-answer. "Oh I don't know. Someone who's nice. Hehehe." They're never snooping because they actually want to help you or care about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 74 | Reminder: Don’t Let People Make You Lower Your Standards Because They Disagree With ThemYour friend is gonna get FUCKED OVER. So she just thinks that any man she's with, even in a dating context has a right to her money. Just wait till she finally decides to leave some abusive man and he takes all her money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:04 PM |
| 67 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesAnd he said this in front of about 15 coworkers with no thought to how this made him sound. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 147 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesI worked with a scrote one-time who said that he only married his wife because he believes he is so much better and smarter than her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 19 | I’m planning my own date and now I’m less excited - what should I do?Yuck! Just block him and be done with this do-nothing loser. | /r/askFDS | 29/08/21 06:22 AM |
| 60 | Imagine an unknowing woman finally gets her guy to go to relationship therapy and it's this guy. This is why we never utilize men for any type of therapy or coaching!And also the audacity for the home nudist aspect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 45 | Imagine an unknowing woman finally gets her guy to go to relationship therapy and it's this guy. This is why we never utilize men for any type of therapy or coaching!"35 pleasures" 🤣😂😂🤣 I can't. I bet he can't even find the one pleasure... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:47 AM |
| 56 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsI guarantee you he's been cheating the whole time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 39 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsShe played herself. This is exactly what high standards protects you from. "Non diamond engagement ring" fuck out of here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 19 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetObviously that counts for any children you would be raising. Even if say one of your siblings passed away and you raise their children. I think my point was clear that I'm speaking of adults not children that you raise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:18 PM |
| 95 | Pickme’s sacrifice living situation for LVMI think that you were too easy on girl number two. I would never let someone bring a man over the first night they moved in. I would want to know who she was first and second I'd want to know who the man was. That was sketchy on her part. This whole situation sucks. I would sooner downsize that have to live with other randoms. It's not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | It is amazing how far some people will go to justify manipulation!Thanks ☺️ Life is too short to be a chump and to not tell it like it is. I never tell men though, I just play dumb fox and then disappear for their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 12 | HVM that make less than youThat is not what FDS is about. FDS is about maximum female benefit. You don't get maximum benefit from dating somebody who hardly makes any money. Read the handbook. The no standard shaming rule is for women who have high standards not low standards or short-sighted standards. This isn't a "whatever the woman wants" where we use that to push low standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 23 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?He just wanted his ego stroked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:09 PM |
| 34 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?I've had a few guys do this to me. Two of them moved in after I was raped. They were just waiting for a little vulnerability. One ended up raping me when I was drunk and at my lowest point. The other one night started demanding answers as to why I wouldn't have sex with him. I immediately told him off, left and blocked him. He chased me through the bar in public making a fool of himself grabbing at my coat. I had yet another one still who when I told him about being raped didn't even express his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:59 PM |
| 67 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetBuilding people up is for children that you birth. Nobody else. I'm not dragging a man anywhere. He needs to get there himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 8 | First date: let’s watch a movie on discord!For a first date one time I had a man take me to a movie that turned out to be a horror suspense flick. The girl gets theatrically and brutally raped for the boners of the men in the audience. I never spoke to that man ever again. I don't know what they are thinking? How would he feel if I took him to a movie with a graphic and sexualized male on male prison anal rape scene? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:49 PM |
| 9 | First date: let’s watch a movie on discord!They always have to somehow make some kind of reference to sex, even a negative and rapists sounding one. It always belies their porn sickness and rapists nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 6 | First date: let’s watch a movie on discord!This dude just told her he's not even interested in enough in her to drive across town. Lol 😆 bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 70 | HVM that make less than youThat's not long enough to declare him high value. I don't know why you're investing so much time and energy in someone who doesn't even meet your financial standards and who you barely know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:30 PM |
| 29 | HVM that make less than youThis is not FDS advice. We do not date men who don't meet our basic standards. Dating isn't just about feelings, it's also about thought and planning. Financial incompatibility is one of the biggest factors in divorce. And he will be in position where he can take her money. This situation is exactly why FDS preaches having high standards, being ruthless and moving on immediately when a man doesn't meet them. So what that he's nice? Now she's entangled and thinking with her heart instead of her h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:28 PM |
| 48 | HVM that make less than youI wouldn't do it. If you divorce he's going to take you to the cleaners. Eventually he's going to not feel like a man and eventually you'll feel like he's not a man. I suppose he's going to stay home with the baby after you birth it and you go back to work? What happens if you get put on bed rest for your pregnancy? What if your injured during pregnancy? How are you guys going to survive? The way I look at income where women are concerned is that whatever she earns means that she can ask for a l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 145 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetThis is why a man needs to be a man. He's got to pick himself up and make something of himself. You can't do it for him. He will only resent you because it makes him feel emasculated and childish that he didn't do it himself. These men ain't shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 8 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingOkay look at my previous comment. I edited it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 7 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingYes. It's due to the pregnancy hormones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:09 PM |
| 98 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingWhat's even sadder is that if he was properly helping her she probably would be able to lose the weight since she would have the time and energy to do it. I see this again and again. Men foisting all the work on to women and then crying about their pp when her health and fitness is affected or the sex dries up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 86 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingI get the very strong impression he's probably referring to the fact that her labia are larger and darker than before, which is caused by hormones during pregnancy. Another result of porn use in men. Edit: I looked this up and it seems the vulva goes back to normal after pregnancy. I couldn't quite find a straight answer though since almost all the results were just talking about the changes during pregnancy and not what happens after. Edit edit: I googled the question differently and it said th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:55 PM |
| 411 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingWhat do we want to bet his body looks like a pumpkin on two sticks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:36 PM |
| 55 | I just had to unfriend someone on fb for sharing this. Scrotes will admit they’re only with women to use them and women will be in the comments like “🥰❤️😘” it’s so gross🙄🤢 I guess we should start telling men that unless they’re here to build us up they’re “dead weight” 🤷🏾♀️I've seen that lately. It makes things unreadable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 36 | Sex study into whether size matters leaves much to be desired (The Times)If you ain't got a man sized dick I don't want it. Not sorry. If you want someone to suck your child size dick go find a pedophile. I'm not one and it disgusts me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:33 PM |
| 107 | If he pulls away, don't give him space...When men tell you they need a break (from you) you are supposed to know you are too much, as all women are, and he needs a break from you. Women are trained to accept this. We are trained to think we are a burden to a man and let him pull bullshit on us. Only clown couples repeatedly "take breaks". Just break up already. Why let someone who apparently doesn't even actually like you put you through a roller coaster ride of bullshit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:30 PM |
| 704 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...70/30 relationship at best but keeps calling it 50/50 🤔 Imagine some scrote not even letting you rest while you are pregnant. Meanwhile I have a male family member right now who's doing everything for his pregnant wife so she can just rest and not worry. I know which type of guy I would rather choose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:45 AM |
| 6 | Best perfumes that you recommend?Crystal Noir sounds amazing. I have Black Orchid and I love it. | /r/askFDS | 26/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 20 | It's amazing to me how anyone can justify manipulation!In the past I would agree and then just say no anyway. Lol! Get fucked, bro! I just wanted to see what shit they were going to try and pull. Waste of time though and dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | It is amazing how far some people will go to justify manipulation!I would dump that jar and read every single thing he wrote. Fuck this guy! What's left? Rape a child together? She needs to write one that says take a man's dick up your ass and another that says swallow your own cum and put them at the top of the jar. Those are all just rapist male MRA incels arguing in the notes. Their goals and manipulation are so obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 48 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Imagine how you would feel seeing this video of your son | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:21 PM |
| 12 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Whatever that thing he did at the beginning where he kept shaking side to side while looking up with his hands turned up like some kind of idiot. Made me want to kick him in the balls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 7 | I…am speechlessHe needs to work way harder in the before. Not throw some shit at her afterward. I had a lover who was small and didn't last very long. But we would spend an hour talking and laughing. Then another hour kissing, caressing and massaging each other. Then he would rub me down with coconut oil and we would go down on each other. Only then would we have sex. He would rub my clit the whole time and I always orgasmed. He was a fantastic lover. This guy does not love this poor woman. Imagine being a vir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:36 AM |
| 3 | I…am speechlessRed dye in the bathtub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:26 AM |
| 7 | I…am speechlessThere it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | I…am speechlessThis fucktard actually thinks women marinade in their own blood if they take a bath on their period 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:22 AM |
| 6 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.And how is it that a woman staying home and raising her children affects you negatively? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 6 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.This is true. But it's not what you said in your first comment. Women who decide to raise their own children aren't betraying you personally or other women. I experienced both. My mom stayed home with me for the first few years. Then my dada lost his business. She put me on daycare where I was sexually harassed by the baby sitter's son, he eventually trap me and tried to sexually abused me. The husband of another babysitter put me in the back of his open truck and drove around town when I was si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 11 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.There's a big difference between staying home for 5 years to raise your kids in the early years and never working or pursuing a career. This is called hyperbole. A very large percentage of women don't make enough money at their jobs to even pay for daycare. Those women aren't as bad as women who promote porn and prostitution. Women wanting to raise their own children and give them a good start in life are also not the equivalent of women who promote porn and prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 13 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.Did you really just lump somebody staying home and raising their own children in with porn and prostitution? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 40 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.It does though! How are they supposed to share their meet-cute about matching on Tinder and fucking on the first date and their Ring Pop proposal after 2 kids and 7 years without feeling they got screwed. Lol they know their trash man doesn't love them. Any woman getting anything more than what they have is a threat to the lies they tell themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:58 PM |
| 75 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.They even downvoted the women who said marriage is a serious commitment and so meaningful that a proposal should reflect that. If a guy chucks a ring at you while you're at Chili's he doesn't love you. Likewise if he does it at home after you finish doing the dishes from dinner. These men are scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 127 | It was too good to be true.This is a great example of how modern liberal touchy-feely empty language is used by men to continue exploiting women with a veneer of progressiveness slapped over the top. So much emotion and feeling in this statement, for others of course. All onlyfans cares about is the money and all the men care about is continued access to the women for a couple of bucks. They use female coded language to exploit women and act as if they are doing us a favor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Other Women Demanding Performative Femininity from YouThere's a big difference between the two situations you're describing, leaving out the middle ground. There's an ocean's difference between having to tiptoe and minimize and make any complaint indirect and spineless, and saying "That's trash". It's also not appropriate to use curse words at work re: "cover you ass". This is why we have the acronym CYA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:22 PM |
| 219 | I thought this exchange was funny. LVM gets triggered over a gif.Again these are the same men that complain about deadbedrooms etc. If your wife is happy she's going to help you, take care of you and your home life will be pleasant. In other words, you get back even more than you put in. LVM are absolutely allergic to making a woman happy. They want to have everything and get everything and take everything without ever giving anything in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 362 | Study suggests that I don't give afWhere are all the studies talking about how detrimental it is to women to be badgered to death by their male partners for sex? All the studies decrying the massive rape problem men have? Do we even care about all the women being raped by their male partners? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 63 | What age range should I be dating in?No. A 35 year old man has already failed fds vetting because he's too old. You aren't meeting Prince Charming except for his age. You're meeting real men and trying to find a good partner. We don't benefit from casting a wide net. We benefit from knowing what's best for us and figuring out what we want and pursuing that one thing. You only have to find one partner. We don't need the rest. And if he's 35 when they start dating by the time they got married and had kids he'd be at least 38. And tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:35 AM |
| 94 | FDS recommends being upfront about marriage/serious relationship goals to potential partners but FDS-Approved books say to never mention it?The point is to not give men a road map on how to lie to you and fake their way into using you or getting sex. Your first sentence is wrong. Have you read the handbook? All of it? You were supposed to stand back and evaluate what he is bringing to you. What energy he is bringing to you. Is he clearly only interested in casual? Can he only keep up the facade short-term? Or is he seriously interested in you without you prompting him and giving away your position? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:29 AM |
| 121 | My Sexual Requirements In a ManSo in this scenario him asking you to be his girlfriend occurs before the one-month mark? Per FDS standards you only see this person once a week so that would be after what three dates? I would expect the man to properly wait at least six weeks to two months before asking me to be his girlfriend. Anything sooner than that is a red flag because he doesn't know you and it becomes clear he's just trying to secure some pussy, any pussy. Also if I'm waiting two months to be a man's girlfriend and goi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:28 AM |
| 64 | What age range should I be dating in?The best relationships are with people within two to three years of your own age. 35 is still too old. A 35 year old man has no business even looking at a 27 year old woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:20 AM |
| 45 | What age range should I be dating in?30 or 31 max for a serious relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Question about a new beauty standard I noticedAlso see hip dips and cellulite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 135 | Men actually do know how dangerous other men can beThere it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 85 | Men actually do know how dangerous other men can beYes they do. That's why they never get involved when other men are going crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 28 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?Thank you. That was the END. I left him for that. I figured. I read what you wrote and tried to think on my past experiences to add some more typical experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 11 | How do I deal with my extremely high libido?Children being exposed to porn is a form of sexual abuse, in this case, perpetrated by society. It's telling that both you and he are now addicts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with my extremely high libido?Don't just take birth control to cover up your issues. You need to work on the. In addition to side effects you listed and more, it can cause permanent deficits in sexual function and desire. One way is by permanently increasing your sex hormone-binding globulin. It also deprives your genitals of the estrogen they need to be healthy and sensitized to pleasure. Can reduce lubrication significantly causing pain. All of these can significantly reduce your chance of orgasming or make it impossible. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 8 | How do I deal with my extremely high libido?I'm going to say therapy. Do you think you have issues you avoid with your hypersexuality? Maybe you are channeling other emotions into sexual desire or avoiding intimacy or other fears? Someone else said you watches porn with your brother. That's fucked up. Porn fucks kids up. Another reason for therapy. Any sexual trauma is often expressed in hypersexuality as well. Being exposed to porn as a kid is sexual trauma. How did you react to the violence men enact against the women in pornography at … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:01 PM |
| 119 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?What are lesser and more common situations in which you can evaluate whether he will protect you or abandon you? Does he have your back if hurt in a car accident, even a mild one. (I've had long-term back issues from an accident when I was a team. When I was involved in a car accident and got hurt again, my boyfriend screamed at me to shut up.) If you get sick does he take you to the emergency room or urgent care and stand up to a doctor for you to make sure you get the care you need? Does he ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:52 PM |
| 118 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itThis. Lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 37 | Pick me mother said to me that she wished she had forced me into marriage in my teens so she could have grandchildrenI don't know how well you see this because this person is your mother but I would never talk to her ever again. Ever. Every time you ever want to talk to her again remember how she said she wishes she had sold you off as a child to be raped, impregnated and to be some man's slave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 09:30 AM |
| 31 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑I've heard that too many times now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:35 PM |
| 131 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑It's not really the authenticity they're looking for, it's the performance. They love the idea that they can force women to perform sexuality and sexual desire whether they feel it or not. That's what they want. See how petulant and enraged these men get when women express genuine sexual desire. Some of these men even get angry when their partner actually wants to have sex with them and actually orgasms and enjoys it. They feel cheated and they start to feel used even though the woman is still b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 567 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑That other woman jumped in to keep her in line "you support sex workers don't you? Don't youuuuu?" Libfems 🥴 Edit: apparently it was a man. Wow. They know what they are doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:12 PM |
| 288 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑He probably spends more money on these women every month than he does her. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:11 PM |
| 300 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑"I love that my boyfriend gives his sexual energy to multiple other women instead of giving it all to just me like he should!" 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 "I love that my boyfriend sees women as sexual objects for him to purchase" 🤡🤡🤡 "I love that my boyfriend spends his money to buy performative and insulting displays of false male-created "female sexuality" from prostitutes instead of taking me on dates and giving me his sexual best!" 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 4 | Sometimes I feel a little bad being single and then I read something like this and know I’m better off😂These are the men who then cry when their wife won't put out three times a week anymore. And how is one fucking lousy fucking dinner at some fucking restaurant compensation for taking care of two kids alone while he goes on vacation? Compensation is getting to go on a three-week vacation so that his work will equal the work you put in, maybe, because men always do less and they know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 05:47 PM |
| 32 | Excellent thread on why sex work will never be empowering, no matter how much libfems want it to be. It’s a man’s game.And this man is just co-opting other women's words who have been saying this forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:55 AM |
| 106 | Horrified at the scrotes in the comments defending this POS, and the pickmes trying to make him feel better about doing a runner, leaving his girlfriend and her 7yo nephew at the site during an active shooter attack.Comes off fake how he keeps crying about "both genders" hating him now. Did he think only women hate a coward? Only women find a cowardly man who abandons the woman he supposed to love and a helpless child? That only women expect integrity? Glad she left him. No truer sign he didn't love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:33 AM |
| 107 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyIirc eomen do 2/3 of all labor on the planet and get like 10% of the value of all labor performed (money). We more than earn our keep in the world while men theive from us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:42 AM |
| 79 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyMeanwhile girls are raped and assaulted left and right as they move through girlhood to womanhood. Must be so hard for men though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 40 | You should NEVER give ugly men a chanceI hate that guy! Sorry you went through that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 152 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnMen like this always do this sort of door slam against women in order to maintain all the power. The only thing that we can do is leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 369 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnEvery single aspect of his response was so manipulative low-value and disrespectful. He told you right to your face he doesn't give a crap about you. He is willing to manipulate that you until you pretend to feel okay with his shit though! How generous of him! And I really can't imagine calling someone immature for having extremely basic boundaries for respect. The only thing different I would recommend is that in the future just don't tell the guy anything. Wait out the flight, go home and just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 119 | You should NEVER give ugly men a chanceThey don't get wet, they don't orgasm, it causes them pain. It's self harm. I think they don't feel good enough to deserve an attractive boyfriend. Some also truly believe being attracted to a man is inherently "shallow". Finding men attractive/other women finding a man attractive is even a strong trigger for many. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 08:38 PM |
| 2 | There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough.They literally cry that they should be dead if they don't get to touch us, look at us, talk to us... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough.Men really want to pretend we bring them nothing when their entire lives revolve around just getting to be near us, smell us, look at us, breathing the same realm and, God willing, touch us once in awhile. LMAO 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:23 PM |
| 14 | JusticeI reported it and you would be looking at years of bullshit. And that's if the cops don't tell you to fuck off right away. Your chances of getting him on any kind of registry are probably zero. There is almost zero interest among the police and district attorneys to prosecute men who rape their partners. Mine confessed twice and the police still wouldn't charge him. They still turned on me and abused me and violated my privacy and violated my rights and told me I deserved it. I was pretty much f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Apparently, men are in their prime in their twenties.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 11 | Dating someone who travels for work?So essentially you only have a boyfriend three quarters of the year? This wouldn't work for me. Also I just really doubt that any man wouldn't go sleep with other people when he's away this often. Furthermore I have a feeling that if he was truly serious about you he wouldn't have taken this job. | /r/askFDS | 21/08/21 04:09 AM |
| 6 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.Ouch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 35 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorI think those are those cheap free-standing zip up plastic frame and sheeting "closets" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:34 PM |
| 116 | Had to share this 😩I doubt he'd be crying if he really wanted this woman for more than a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:27 PM |
| 202 | Had to share this 😩Yet another reason you don't pursue the guy. Now she's going on a non date with a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 46 | Apparently, men are in their prime in their twenties.When they have undefined noodle arms 🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 117 | Apparently, men are in their prime in their twenties.There has definitely been a change. I look around and I see so many fat young men that have sort of a female fat pattern. I never saw that as girl or young woman. The food is poison and males seem to have lost all self-restraint in relation to it. No care for their bodies, no pride in being fit and attractive. No masculinity. The same has happened with respect to men being strong, competent, skilled, or having any emotional wherewithal. Call me shallow all you want but I'm not attracted to these… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:30 PM |
| 18 | Should you ever pay on a first date?Absolutely not. He still took up your time. He still invited you out. It's not your fault he failed to attract you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:04 PM |
| 129 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.I wonder how people like this seem to have no public shame? It must have felt bad at first to be known this way? Then she covered? Idek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 50 | Psychologist ScroteFunny because single men have almost no chance of any sex... It seems men's biological fate is to be sexless. So sad. This guy was a hair's breadth away from advocating rape. Meanwhile there's nothing that could possibly ensure less access to consensual sex with your female partner. I'm sure he's fantastic in bed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:08 AM |
| 7 | A therapist and coach shares her dating advice. What do y’all think of this? Screams massive pick me vibes to me.That's a lot of talking for something that supposedly doesn't bother her... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 03:27 AM |
| 92 | This girls IG is every red pill mans fantasy 🙄Lol this girl is going to get played | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:28 PM |
| 21 | Vet🙌🏻themSounds more like he's dating his buddy 💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.I love it! 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 139 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮Hahahahahaha! Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:12 PM |
| 72 | Biggest conspiracy: Women are the weaker speciesAnd you can see how ldm they are. They look like they're in a low blood sugar slump with that vacant look in their eyes. Reminds me of two-year-olds before they have any clue about what's going on in the world. Plus the clothing and the slouched posture. I want a man, not a slug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 46 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.I would straight up tell him I want him to start working on his flexibility because I want to see him suck his own dick. Straight face. See how he likes this BS. Pigs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:23 PM |
| 159 | Biggest conspiracy: Women are the weaker speciesThis made me feel warm and fuzzy inside lol "Women are way better than men" These guys: 😯😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 232 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. 100% it is male manipulation this idea that watching your husband fuck another woman is going to "spice up" your marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:10 PM |
| 33 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outLV male bravado is the most pathetic and transparent bravado. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:30 AM |
| 17 | Old as dirt scrote tries to hit on much younger (and richer) woman at gym. She acts like a Queen 👑Literally any question a man asks that I don't like I either just laugh like he made a joke and don't answer or stare them down and don't answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:51 AM |
| 275 | Old as dirt scrote tries to hit on much younger (and richer) woman at gym. She acts like a Queen 👑Never tell a man your business, your social media or your name. Yikes. I've had men ask my last name. I just laugh and then gray rock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 26 | "Young men without hope, without a path, without anything meaningful to strive for become dangerous to the societies around them."Same place I always get them. Out of their ass! "99% of women reproduce" it's not true. And anyway why do they think a man without a girlfriend would be getting sex? They just want free sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:48 PM |
| 23 | "Young men without hope, without a path, without anything meaningful to strive for become dangerous to the societies around them."It's said 80% of single men are celibate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:24 PM |
| 32 | "Young men without hope, without a path, without anything meaningful to strive for become dangerous to the societies around them."The video wasn't made by incels. I'm pretty sure this clip was taken from a joke video made by another woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:19 PM |
| 28 | FDS position on lube?I mean this sounds ridiculously unpleasant. You sound sexually miserable. You can take other things for acne. I recommend stridex, retinol and retinyl palmitate supplement altogether everyday. I have PCOS and it works for my terrible acne. No sexual side effects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:51 AM |
| 43 | FDS position on lube?A crutch! I snorted. These "men" could barely make a slip and slide wet. No wet, no sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:43 AM |
| 23 | FDS position on lube?Clearly the pigs need to work for it. I've always had to use lube due to hormonal issues. Still make the men work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:42 AM |
| 115 | No Mention of Congress Quietly Trying to Conscript Women?We already do everything else and they want us to do that too. They always want to get back at us in these fake ways they believe they are oppressed. For us oppression happens in real-time continuously every day every week every year forever. Their oppression hasn't happened since the 70s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:39 AM |
| 361 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!There it is. And the family agrees. Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:12 AM |
| 190 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!Fam took this delusional jackasse's side? Wow they're never going to love her while being so far up his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:10 AM |
| 23 | i must’ve subbed to this ‘dating coach’ back in my pickmeisha days... No, he hasn’t responded yet 😆 *mods pls delete if not allowedHe knows what he's doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:21 PM |
| 43 | i must’ve subbed to this ‘dating coach’ back in my pickmeisha days... No, he hasn’t responded yet 😆 *mods pls delete if not allowedIt's so blatantly obvious the manipulation he is using to get women in general to have trash boundaries. He's working for men. He uses emotional language that he doesn't believe to gaslight women into never trusting their instincts. "Maybe you're wrong. Have you thought of that?" "What if he's your Prince Charming? Don't throw it away so quickly." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:29 PM |
| 32 | This is actually my worst nightmare. It was posted on a "wholsome" sub.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:30 AM |
| 13 | Story Time: The importance of looking someone up on social mediaDon't give your phone number to a man who just propositioned you for a hookup. Unless you are also looking for a hookup. If you're looking for a relationship run away. Everything after that was totally unnecessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:19 PM |
| 89 | “Pointing out toxic behavior is toxic 🤡”This is why "don't be judgemental" is a scam. I can't recall in my life ever seeing or hearing of a man being called judgemental, and that's because it's a psychological abuse tactic used on women to shame us for having any boundaries, standards and even basic self-preservation skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:43 PM |
| 58 | Misogyny and inceldom have just caused the WORST mass shooting in decades in the UKWhen it's against any other group than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 143 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.Another very good possibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 75 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.I would have stuck use pads to my brother's wall if he had ever tried any of this crap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 127 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.And yet there's researched scientific proof that their dick literally has shit bacteria on it due to proximity of it to their uncleaned buttholes and sweat, but they will screech if we even expect men to wash their hands after touching it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:47 PM |
| 153 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:45 PM |
| 194 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.The whole point is to get women apologizing for normal things so that they always feel wrong and bad and can be broken down and used by LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:43 PM |
| 11 | Man on Twitter turned off by a woman being too GOOD at budgeting and not over-spending 🤡He's right. I would absolutely dump a man if all he was eating was beans, rice and chicken every day just to save a few bucks. Healthy diet is a must. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 02:52 PM |
| 37 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?Oh my god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:40 PM |
| 280 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.He totally wants to fuck his daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 327 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.The son knew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 176 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.He definitely wants to fuck his daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 39 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleThe truth is that deep down they just don't think they're good enough for a man to actually want them and not just their pussy or their free house cleaning and cooking. And then men. Then men and society come along telling them they are special for being easy to use for sex, cooking, house cleaning and child-rearing. Pickmes jump at the chance to feel special. But it's also a cheap and easy type of special. Anybody can let themselves be used for house cleaning and sex. Again it's an empty attemp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:42 PM |
| 134 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️I know! How did she not laugh in his face? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 216 | Scrote goes to brothel and gets serviced by his obviously miserable friend. Reports on reddit for awards and mostly pats on the back.Another scrotes rape fantasy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:38 AM |
| 297 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!This guy is a liar and these numbers aren't correct. Plus no one ever said white or 6'1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:36 AM |
| 38 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation."choose your hard" The truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 184 | "I went to a doctor and he said it's normal because I'm stressed all the time!"Turned on by dads raping their daughters, boys raping their sisters and just plain old rape. This guy would have eventually raped you. Glad you cut him off. Too bad you didn't out his broken dick to the group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 14 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....They act like men with big dicks can't eat pussy or rub your clit lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 25 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....The biggest joke is that the 3 to 5 inches they're quoting is the unaroused vagina. UNAROUSED All to not "hurt men's feelings" they lie to women about our anatomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 185 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”These are the women who don't cum and "don't like sex". If you want to cum and have great sex don't chose a man who doesn't do it for you. It's basic math. Great sex and respect are the base of the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:17 AM |
| 34 | Honest question: have you ever met a man who has fully examined his relationship to patriarchy?Never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 100 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me...."size doesn't matter" only if you want to feel nothing. Women are expected to passively accept what's given and not ask for anything more. If a man isn't making me cum every time I will leave and go fine one who will. It's my lowest bar a man has to meet for me to even look at him. Big dick or get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 10 | Attempting to “heal” my trauma set me up for more abuse.I'm really happy to hear that something I said was so helpful! Thank you for telling me. I find peace away from men only. Long walks, yoga, gardening, going to the river when I can are things that help. Peace will come in time. Peace and knowledge do not coexist well in the beginning, but as you move away from past abuse and people who remind you of it (men) it gets a lot easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:34 PM |
| 18 | Attempting to “heal” my trauma set me up for more abuse.Fuck that is damaging. I'm so sorry. My comment was a generally "you" for all the women reading, not directed specifically at you. I had too many abusers to have that pulled on me. I'm also older than you (I believe) and I was always a hard bitch after my abusive childhood. Mine did try to be subtle, I'm just really harsh in my assessments of things. I've always been put down my whole life for it but it's been my lifesaver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 71 | Attempting to “heal” my trauma set me up for more abuse.My counselor tried to go there a few times and I shut her down. I'll just walk the fuck out. Never allow anyone to fool you into not protecting yourself. You never owe anybody the benefit of the doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:33 AM |
| 109 | Today a stranger man grabbed my friend's phone and opened her Gallery in public.My first thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 10:03 PM |
| 200 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental HealthI love this. Let her go be his fucking Mommy if he she wants to do it so bad. Wonder for how long she'll be interested in having sex with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:38 PM |
| 423 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental HealthIs there anything women aren't expected to do for men now? Would we get attacked for not wiping the poo from his ass for him? We can't have even the most basic standards without even other women trying to gaslight us. It's a race to the bottom all the way. How the hell is this man going to help his wife when she's pregnant and having complications or passes out from a car accident or something? "Oh I can't talk to the paramedic and tell him what's wrong with my wife because I'm scared." I'm not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 25 | Unruly scrote duct-taped to seat after allegedly assaulting flight attendants l GMAThis is why I never trust them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 59 | Unruly scrote duct-taped to seat after allegedly assaulting flight attendants l GMAThe part where they duct taped over his mouth was 😙🤌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 189 | Facts. Straight up facts.A woman eating any return on sexual service she supplies to men: "don't be so orgasmcentric". They already made women having and wanting orgasms a mental illness in the past. See hysteria and clitoridectomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 80 | Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.Another loser using women to trick other women into thinking he's not a loser or a perv. Got to be "inclusive" by allowing men to use us! Be a good girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 270 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”I've had so many friends who would lie to me and tell me they weren't going to get dressed up in an effort to trick me into not wearing nice clothes and makeup so they could look more attractive than me. Ridiculous. I had no idea what was going on with these women for years. One would wait until I came to her house and then make me wait for 2 hours while she endlessly changed her outfit finally settling on pushing her tits out as much as possible in an effort to "compete" with me somehow. I just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:45 AM |
| 46 | 🤡🤡🤡I got accused once. Woman yelled at me for... being a guy's salsa dance partner. I was "cheating" with him. Wasn't even attracted to him. Getting anyway involved with an LVM doesn't pay. There will always be bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:38 AM |
| 83 | Scrotes madThe reason women aren't (edit) orgasming during sex isn't because our bodies are deficient. It's because men are screwing us on foreplay, not bothering to be fit and attractive, have tiny dicks, premature ejaculation, no clitoral stimulation and bad skill. Most men are so bad in bed that I've never orgasmed with them. Then there are the good ones I kept fucking and they made me cum every single time. LVM like the "women don't orgasm anyway" line because they use it to say that they shouldn't hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 97 | Scrotes madI don't know why they always want to talk about how they use their dick because we all know whatever they're doing it's an embarrassment. A small dick plus whack stroke and premature ejaculation isn't hot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 143 | Just seen on relationshipadvice... guess it's about usWe've also never said anything about a guy taking you on one restaurant date proving he's a provider, or ever used the phrase "low-value genetics". Their ridiculous inventions always give away exactly where they got their information about FDS from. And it's not from FDS itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:38 PM |
| 233 | 🤡🤡🤡"SAFEEEEE!" = Can't cheat because he's home, and also a fat loser. It's extra pathetic she has to couch her fear of him cheating under the concept of being "safe". What is this man not safe from out on the streets or at the gym? Other than a heart attack. Give me a break. This is the kind of woman who tries to claw an other woman's eyes out after accusing her of trying to have sex with her husband because she looked in her husband's direction to avoid bumping into him at the store. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 41 | Men flip shiet when you say 'No'.This is exactly it. Op, if anything like this ever happens again just leave, and I mean go home. I would never go anywhere where any one of these men is ever present again. And I would consider ending the friendship with whoever was friends with these ass clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:24 PM |
| 115 | i don’t know who james fell is, but i appreciate him (shared via The Female Lead) on instaI've told a man that I'm a feminist less times in my life than the number of fingers on one hand. I've learned men don't deserve this information because they only use it to mock you or manipulate you. He's probably one of these idiots who thinks having pink hair and a nose piercing is the sign of a "feminist". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 04:21 PM |
| 35 | Guy self-invites himself to dinner at girl’s home, gets angry she never gave him a heads up (to something he invited himself to?) - this is why we stay away from LVMThis is the beauty of block and delete at the first sign of scrotery. Just do it and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:46 AM |
| 141 | Ugh, expect?It's bigger, harder and doesn't go limp after one minute of abusive pumping after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 83 | Ugh, expect?Oh yes, every day for twenty years I've masturbated with a beer bottle, Jared. You know women so well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 22 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageAnd this is why we don't let them low-ball us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:20 PM |
| 12 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageLol 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:01 PM |
| 83 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageShe should have just left the clown. But this is a good reason to never give in to men's apparent "change" quickly. Make then work longer and harder. They will break quick. If she had held out for a week he would have lost his shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 22 | For those who remember Derrick Jackson, he cheated on his girlfriend (now wife) when they were dating in college.I don't know what it is but his mouth says a cheater and bastard to me. And his eyes agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Sick of male attentionYes. Her work should be doing more than telling her to hide in the back. The manager should have come out and told him to leave and not come back. It's their duty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 06:34 AM |
| 117 | He is LV or NV if you see any of these 🚩also, “sexual compatability” is a myth. Only a porn sick man or a man with bizarre kinks struggles to get and sustain an erection in the presence of a woman. Notice how the bumblers make basic dating etiquette and healthy sex/intimacy seem like rocket science.Poverty. His special diet was poverty. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:39 PM |
| 31 | Older women aren’t cock-blocking you. It’s the younger women that just don’t want you.The truth is that these were leftover men other women didn't want because of exactly what you described. Shitty user Peter Pans and bad at sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 52 | Older women aren’t cock-blocking you. It’s the younger women that just don’t want you.I know when I was 18-21 men over 23 didn't even exited to me. I can't remember ever looking at a single one. At 23 I fucked a guy who was 29 for awhile, he was super hot, fit, strong and virile. Men over 30 didn't exist for me until I was 28 and they still had to be super hot and fit with all their hair and amazing penis function and 31 max. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 52 | Older women aren’t cock-blocking you. It’s the younger women that just don’t want you.I love this! So mean and yet so true. "Struggling hairlines" 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 26 | Public Displays of DisrespectI like to sidestep all of this by dumping them immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:17 PM |
| 45 | Scrote makes up an obviously fake story to make fds look bad, convenient army of comments referencing FDS and "toxic femininity"If he thinks the term low value male is dehumanizing wait till he hears what men call women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:42 AM |
| 57 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?Lol! Or "you sound fragile." That's it. Don't say anything more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:09 AM |
| 75 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?Lol he was hoping for a one night stand. And now he's putting you in the refrigerator for later in case he want to try for free sex again later. How ridiculous and weak these guys sound, it's pathetic. "I'm so scared I have to run away after one date!" I would laugh at him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:01 AM |
| 47 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationIf it works for you and it allows you to save money do it. Fds's primary rule is maximum female benefit!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:56 AM |
| 21 | I’m so sick of hearing “don’t undermine your value” in terms of having sex. Stop talking about “value” and “worth” when it comes to women and sex. This isn’t a market.Don't fuck a dude on the first date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 57 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationIf you're paying 20% of the rent I would try to save as much money as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:18 AM |
| 91 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationOr the way rich people had a maid and a cook and separate bedrooms with an ajoining sitting room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:55 PM |
| 41 | “My husband proposed to me with a box of pizza and a 20€ ring. I am marrying him because I love him, not for his money.”Small ring- small dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:54 PM |
| 23 | “My husband proposed to me with a box of pizza and a 20€ ring. I am marrying him because I love him, not for his money.”Wrote it on a pizza box 🤡🤡🤡🤡☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 120 | im so sick of men saying they're viewed as "success objects" and comparing it to how women are viewed as sex objects.Men don't really have anything else to offer us. Most of them nowadays don't have any of that success and money to offer us either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:44 PM |
| 158 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationI always liked the Frida Kahlo Diego Rivera setup where they had a roof bridge between their two houses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 28 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreeThat's the one! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 102 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreeThere is a child free women sub that might be better. I don't personally know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 14 | Aaaand this is why drink dates and coffee dates are a bad ideaIt sounds like she has emotional problems. I think she's taking this as some kind of rejection in a very deep way. Which is very problematic and points to needing therapy and some self-esteem building activities/friendships/work/schooling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 07:50 PM |
| 15 | Aaaand this is why drink dates and coffee dates are a bad ideaFDS is not about last minute dates, low effort dates or pursuing men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 07:35 PM |
| 15 | Aaaand this is why drink dates and coffee dates are a bad ideaThis is pathetic. I have no idea why you would cry because a stranger canceled a drink date. She should still go out to that wine bar, or somewhere else either by herself or see if a friend can join her. Edit: to the people who are crying that maybe she's young. Based on the way she writes this is in the US where you have to be 21 to drink and go to a WINE BAR. That's too old to be crying over a random who canceled a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 07:33 PM |
| 46 | She says she hopes she won’t have to deal with this for years to come… sadly, she’s likely mistakenYeah it sounds like they have a great marriage. Nothing like double standards and a man thinking your money is his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 04:20 PM |
| 15 | And Another One Bites the Dust! 🥳🍾That dude was telling you his rape fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 28 | Male fragility means that a picture of a small sausage in a South Korean ad makes men there feel bad about the size of their genitals. So the answer is getting back at feminists by playing cancel culture towards the supposed companies they work for. (You can't make this shit up!)I'm shocked everyday what men can cry about and have other people run to soothe them and do whatever they want including hurting innocent people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 97 | Obviously this isn’t the right place for this, but it kinda does relate to dating so hope the mods will let it stay up.That sounds horrible. Exposure therapy doesn't work for rape. I don't know where these people get it in their heads. I'm not sure how that's supposed to make you want to go back to being sexually active. If you like her for the rest of the therapy you could try stalling her by saying that it sounds really interesting but you think you need a few more months. I would just shine her on for a while. If she pushes back at all dump her immediately. The idea that you would be back, fixed and having se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:32 AM |
| 9 | I dropped my friend who turned out to be a pickmeShe sounds like an idiot. She clearly has just cemented herself into an abusive relationship. The kind of control that he's displaying is one of the first signs of abuse to come. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:49 PM |
| 9 | 'Mainstream' media catching on? These Gen Z Women Think Sex Positivity Is OverratedThat while are tical was itself "sex positive" trash. The only real parts were the words of the 2 women interviewed. A surprisingly meatless article considering books could be written on this topic. I guess that was the best they could do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:46 PM |
| 10 | What to do about medium value men?Literally what I thought at the time. RIP my young self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 03:25 AM |
| 20 | What to do about medium value men?I was with this guy who was only abusive 10% of that time. I guess I could call him a "medium value man". And that is why that term is non-existent and bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 03:06 AM |
| 112 | Anyone who is actually high libido who is now low libido because of disapppointing experiences with men... that thinking about having to deal with their BS in order to have sex is just too unappealing?Me too. Got tired of men raping me, trying to rape me or being sexually abusive. Just quit men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:58 AM |
| 128 | Why are there so many more homeless men than women?To add: Women stay with abusers to not end up on the streets because they know what awaits them there. Women will find other males ("friends" etc.) that will let them stay at their homes for sex and/or house work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:56 AM |
| 122 | Why are there so many more homeless men than women?Recently a woman that works with women in this situation, who is on FDS, mentioned that they will get a call about a woman who's on the streets and they will show up within hours and she's already been taken for sex trafficking or prostitution (forced?). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:53 AM |
| 11 | What to do about medium value men?It sounds sad and makes me tired | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:49 AM |
| 36 | What to do about medium value men?This whole post is whiny and pathetic. If you're not happy with someone you need to dump them. It's part of being an adult. Stop hanging on to things that don't serve you. If you do you won't ever find anything better because you'll be staying in the same place you're already at. You need to work on your scarcity mindset. Read the whole handbook. Also there's no such thing as a "medium value man". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 01:41 AM |
| 148 | Dating double standards exposed in a radio showFirst guy was selling the sex videos to porn sites | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 51 | Marriage is a bigger commitment??? Huh!?!I would laugh in a man's face if he thought he would have access to my womb without marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 28 | This is what happens when you marry a Scrote and do the 50/50 thingThe least he could do is help her with everything and pay every single penny related to the pregnancy. It still wouldn't be equal investment at all but at least he would be showing respect for what she's doing. But here it's all her and only her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 04:27 PM |
| 3 | woman calmly dumps and kicks out cheating bf (as she should)This is NOT it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 5 | woman calmly dumps and kicks out cheating bf (as she should)Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:34 PM |
| 71 | woman calmly dumps and kicks out cheating bf (as she should)This is a waste of time. She's still trying to be his mommy. The only appropriate response at this point is just throw his stuff outside and change the locks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:50 AM |
| 154 | Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments.God the author sounds ridiculous. I have no idea how marriage is going to be better with a 50 plus year old man who is poor and socially awkward? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:29 AM |
| 47 | Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments.🥺 poor bald child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 57 | I hope she got picked 🙄This right here. "I masturbate for the closeness" said nobody ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 202 | I hope she got picked 🙄"He's great at sex that's why I never orgasm." Anyway, I fuck to cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Asking a HVM about HV friends?No this is weird. 5 years later coming out of the woodwork to ask someone you barely even knew if they can set you up on some dates? Weird and desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:37 PM |
| 55 | Anyone else absolutely hate posts like these? There's just so much to unpack here.I agree. It sounds more like he's getting off on how big he is and how that's intimidating to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:09 PM |
| 15 | If he wanted to he wouldIt's CZ 🤣😭🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 06:53 AM |
| 74 | If a LVM tries to pressure you into twerking, ask him to helicopter-dick in the middle of the dance floor.Just walk away and go home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 01:07 AM |
| 7 | Update on moving cities for dating scene: I realized I'm not moving cities because I'm obsessed with men, I'm moving because I'm obsessed with ME.It's okay to move somewhere else for better dating prospects. Those people are just reciting a script. People don't think about most things they say. I live in the sort of area where you don't meet a partner, you leave and meet a partner elsewhere and then bring them back here to start a family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 29 | Men only ask about sex on TinderDon't answer, just block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:40 PM |
| 7 | The Warrior Queen That Stuffed Her Enemy’s Head In A Bag Of Wine.I enjoyed this. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 45 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.They'll be divorced before she hits 30. Hopefully she won't lose much to this cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:43 AM |
| 21 | Living rent free in his head: A guy I criticized YEARS ago turned his life around because of a comment I made.Lol I thought threesome too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:55 PM |
| 164 | So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children.If he suggests anal or oral for him, dump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:15 PM |
| 148 | So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children.Women don't divorce lightly enough... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 142 | Kink community showing their true face. This is why kinkshaming is importantSo a "MAN" is going to tell us that the way to heal from rape and sexual trauma is more rape and sexual trauma. Thanks, bro. Go peddle you sick misogyny kink elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 121 | Why does stuff like this always go viral? It’s just encouraging more women to accept less and “adjust” themselves to tolerate bs !! 😤😐And this is how women are brainwashed to waste their own time from every angle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 92 | Ohio man charged in 'Incel' plot to kill women in OSU campus mass shooting. (Funny that this sub is often labeled misandrist, yet when has a woman ever decided to wipe out 3,000 men because she was unhappy with her sex life?)Well if they're trying to charge him with a hate crime they're going to fail because misogyny is not considered hate crime in the US. You can do whatever you want to women, doesn't count. We're not human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:04 PM |
| 37 | This is why pickmeishas are dangerous… she wants to be instrumental in causing a girl’s trauma all to be friends with her bf’s friends 😠😠"he's just sexist because of inexperience. Let's get him a woman to experiment on with this shitty everything!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:54 PM |
| -10 | To the women here who are childfree: how do you define “childfree”?I was saying I think she may be used the wrong wording. Not attacking you. Get a grip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:53 AM |
| 2 | To the women here who are childfree: how do you define “childfree”?Maybe she just meant child free as in currently have no children. Not "childfree", the one word phrase that stands for people who never want to have children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:32 AM |
| 88 | His good qualities firstI just skip over that part now. It's so pathetic and embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 111 | 🙄🙄🙄 Age gap 🚩clearly lying about how they got together (cheating) cos he hadn’t officially separated from his wife🚩. In fact doesn’t seem like he broke up with his wife at all, as they’re still in VERY close contact 🚩who’s gonna tell her? 🤡"get a grip"? Definitely a dude. Always implying women are crazy for having basic boundaries that anyone would have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:47 AM |
| 37 | How does he talk to the one who loves him unconditionally? You know, his dog?That's awful. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.Always | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:46 PM |
| 20 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.The really sad part is women who aren't orgasming push this narrative on other women, especially on young, naive women. Just so you all know, any woman pushing this narrative doesn't cum. So if you too want to not orgasm then take her advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:41 PM |
| 35 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.Exactly. They also get mad if you actually want sex because they don't want you to enjoy it or have your own desires. That still results in work for them. They also don't like women initiating. This seems to be perceived as a threat to their masculinity as well as indicating you might look at, be interested in or have sex with other men. Next thing you know they're accusing you of only being interested in them for sex, or of cheating. I think they're so sensitive because they know who really has… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 373 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.Don't forget about the ones who admit that they don't give anything to their partner sexually. No sexual pleasure,screw her on foreplay, never gives her an orgasm, doesn't eat her out, refuses to give any physical affection without getting sex in return or trying to pressure sex. Then there are the guys that just outright describe pressuring, coercing and raping their wives. All they want is a rape toy who fakes pleasure and requires no effort or investment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:47 PM |
| 24 | No more friends in abusive relationshipsWomen need to stop emptying their cup to fill someone else's. If I'm speaking to a woman and she starts emptying out her problems and drama on me I'm done. That includes abusive or disrespectful partners. No thank you. I'm only looking for certain people in my life and people who drain you aren't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:11 PM |
| 7 | Why do people pretend that pegging is a two-way-equally-pleasurable-street? Am i crazy? Women love to be generous and state that pegging is for both but i honestly fail to see how this is a gift for anyone but himselfI fail to see how getting up close and personal with someone's fecal matter would be exciting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 4 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get offIt's true. I don't think it will ever change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 34 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get offSame. The police 90%, shitty friends and therapists the other 10%. That and I tried to continue dating and suddenly every guy I dated either threatened to rape me or tried to rape me, to my shock, and then one guy finally did rape me. All these people are like sharks and there's blood in the water. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 56 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get offThey really will say anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 66 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get offI swear when you are down people will flood in to put their foot on your throat. This is exactly why you should only talk to people who have their life together, or no one at all. This is a prime example of why we need women only spaces run by women with firm boundaries and solid rules. I had a lot of very similar situations after being raped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 64 | They even use our sexual boundaries against us to get off"once in awhile I let him" This should not be your sex lives, women. This should not describe any sex act you engage in. I'd wipe it right back on his face and make him eat it. This whole conversation was an utter waste of time. This is exactly how you get stuck with a man who does not respect any of your boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 18 | Typical scrote behavior. He misused the subreddit &got mad when the comments weren't as supportive as he wanted them to be. The nerve you must have to tell a bunch women traumatized by the bdsm culture about your r@pe fantasies and then expected them to cheer you up.He knew exactly what he was doing and he was just playing dumb. These women fed into it. He should have just been banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 46 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?Well you won't ever have to play games with a high value man to get him to give his best sexually. These guys aren't men. They're just little clowns looking constantly to short change women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:19 AM |
| 148 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?I had a friend who would out right tell men that she would only have sex with them if they made her cum from oral first. Suddenly almost all of them could. Take from that what you will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:05 AM |
| 18 | The various ways financial abuse can look.That's another one. But no, this one had a kid and he would tell her she wanted the kid so she could pay everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:28 AM |
| 75 | Even the CDC knows: men who watch porn are more likely to sexually assaultWatch out for paranoia too. One guy who raped me thought that people were after him. Pretty sure it was because he was on steroids. The other guy who raped me had this weird paranoia that I was like really super into him wanted to like trap him, very early on. I just ignored it because it was ridiculous and I didn't see any reason why it should prevent me from getting the sex I wanted. Don't ignore red flags, ladies. Ever. Also watch out for steroids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:30 AM |
| 9 | She-Devil is on youtube. You'll love this comedy about a scorned wife. Don't watch it with a guy. I definitely recommend it, enjoy!I just watched this and it was great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:24 AM |
| 142 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?This is .... 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:22 AM |
| 121 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?I think many of them really are this dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 172 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?Eating pussy. So bad. They are SOOOOOO OOOOOOO bad at it. Cooking is ☠️ almost always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 8 | Why do some men insult their partners? (study)✨LVM mate-guarding mindfuck - shifting the burden of their own low value into their partners✨never forget you’re a queen and that a man’s behavior reflects HIS VALUE, not yours!👑Always the same bs. Pigs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 08:52 PM |
| 65 | The various ways financial abuse can look.One I read on Reddit was a woman who made less than her husband and was paying all expenses for her and their child plus half the rent and all the food. He used his money to play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 15 | I don’t know why women don’t give men a taste of their own medicineIt's pretty funny if you check out a hot tall beefy man with a nice package in front of them they'll lose their minds. Plus we actually have a real chance at fucking those gorgeous masculine men. They're not fucking Instagram models anytime soon and they know it! Lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 07:57 PM |
| 162 | When he says "You're so insecure"...If a man ever looks at other women in front of you or you find out he's a porn addict and especially if he tells you you're insecure from having a problem with it you don't need to communicate anything with him. You don't need to communicate your boundaries and then leave if they're not respected yet again. He already knows what he's doing. He's like a dog pissing on the furniture. Just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:33 PM |
| 51 | Pedophiles in the comments are telling on themselves."people don't act on it" First of all we're talking about men and everybody knows it. Second, men act on it all the time. Most babies born to teenage girls the father is 5 years or more older than her. Massive amounts of girls are victims of childhood sexual abuse (50%). 1 in 3 are raped before 18 I'm sure probably half of the rapists are adult men even though I haven't seen a statistical breakdown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:01 PM |
| 14 | HVpartner, but no attraction after many years - advice wanted!This is why we say "no backsliding". When you dump someone NEVER go back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 02:53 PM |
| 18 | There’s a new girl gang in town 😏This was really good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:10 AM |
| 19 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.That is so wrong. I feel like things have changed for the worse. When I was a kid the boys wouldn't have even reported that. They knew they earned it and they fucked off with their tail between their legs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:30 AM |
| 69 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.Old school these boys would have had their asses beat. I'm glad this never happened to me as a kid. One time a boy in class stole my pencil I stood up on my chair and screamed at him to give me back my pencil. I was 6. Plus any boy who picked on me got confronted, scared, and possibly kicked in the balls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 36 | On the unequal division of physical trauma when it comes to child bearing; therefore, any baby that I give birth to is getting my last nameI'm sure that's true to a degree for some people and for a short time after the birth. But I think it's also just a nice thing women are taught to say to diminish their pain as usual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 21 | On the unequal division of physical trauma when it comes to child bearing; therefore, any baby that I give birth to is getting my last nameHe means having to suffer through listening to his partner talk about dealing with it. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Red flag - married coworker randomly negging me?This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Red flag - married coworker randomly negging me?By don't ever drink with a co-worker I didn't mean required office events. I still would consider not drinking at those. Just go and interact with your coworkers because that's the point. It has nothing to do with the alcohol. You're purposely misconstruing what I'm saying and turning it into black and white because you don't want to take responsibility for your poor judgment. No part of your job involved voluntarily leaving work premises with an individual male coworker to go drink in the middl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Red flag - married coworker randomly negging me?Based on your multiple upset responses to me clearly need to work on all of your boundaries rather than putting your time into attacking women that are trying to help you. You also need to read the handbook before posting. That's a requirement of this community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 09:49 AM |
| 5 | Use a privacy screen on your devicesYour wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 09:49 AM |
| 25 | Use a privacy screen on your devicesNext time you cut this whole thing off by either continuing to ignore him while he speaks or simply turn to him and say I'm working and I need to get this done. And then ignore. He probably got your last name because you gave him your phone number. You can Google a phone number and get a person's fill name and maybe even their address. That's why you don't give out your phone number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:57 AM |
| 5 | Red flag - married coworker randomly negging me?I only got as far as you ordering a second drink. Don't drink with coworkers. Especially not men. The other thing you should learn is that men always have intentions. Always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | S.O.S!! How do I make my friend see the massive error of her ways?!Personally I would just rip the Band-Aid off and then walk away. Let her figure it out. I can see why relationships have always been a sore spot for her. She's 30. She's a mess. I would never be friends with a woman who fucks other women's wives. That's a look I don't need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, I got lost on YouTube and found this gem of a documentary. Even in the Ultra-orthodox Jewish community there be LVMs. Their concept of dating with purpose though was quite intriguing.Being purposely vague, someone that I know who is Jewish talks bad about the hasidic Jews. Too weird and strict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 12:35 AM |
| 9 | A Quick Reminder!Great reminder! Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 12:19 AM |
| 8 | Low effort is now the bare minimumImagine shoveling down a 1500 calorie diabetes bomb fast food meal in your fucking car and calling it a "date". Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 168 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.So when are they all going to come out and admit that polyamory is just about the man cheating right in front of your face instead of behind your back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.Thank you so much for telling me. I'm so proud of you! Your message moved me. You chose yourself and that is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 75 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhIf I were making that kind of money I'd be funneling it into retirement so I could retire at like 40. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 03:42 AM |
| 30 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhI hope she dumps this scrote and buys herself a $20,000 ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 03:41 AM |
| 25 | Women can predict a man’s interest in short-term uncommitted relationships just by looking at his face - Scientific study resultsIt's true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:53 PM |
| 19 | You don't need to have an actual mate in order for men to mate guard youSo pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 107 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.I find that when you get to a certain level of healing you stop talking about it. That's when you date again. Most men either want to rape you again when they hear you've been raped or they hate you for it or both. At best they have none of those feelings but they still can never ever ever begin to understand what it's like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 141 | You don't need to have an actual mate in order for men to mate guard youThis is a really good post to show why you should let low value orbiters hang around you or be part of your extended friend group. I had a pickmeisha extraordinaire block me from an ivy league young man who was really interested in me. Just my type. All she could get were scrotes that hit on me when she went to the bathroom. She was beautiful with a great body. Never realized she was such an insecure fool because it just didn't make any sense. So she cock blocked me for years from having a relat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:48 PM |
| 108 | Disgusting scrote sought out SA survivor to fulfill his “kink.” Reason #485949 to NEVER reveal your trauma to a man when you first start dating. ALWAYS vet for this behavior! I hope she leaves his ass for good!That commenter is an idiot. He's clearly ramping up to do more. This is going to end with that woman being repeatedly raped and sexually abused if she doesn't leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:26 PM |
| 56 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?I just harnessed all of the anger of years of abuse and gaslighting. I tucked it up in a reserve and I save it to be proportionately metered out against assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 06:24 AM |
| 131 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?It's hard. It's a muscle like any other. You have to embrace your inner bitch. Be the bitch. Eat sleep and breathe bitch. Lol! And of course by that I mean have basic boundaries and don't be afraid to be a little rude when needed. And don't be afraid to be downright aggressive if a man tries to look like he might get aggressive with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 04:32 AM |
| 76 | Watch how men treat you when completing tasks they want to “do themselves”A high value man would know how to change the battery in his car. Losers! These guys don't deserve to call themselves men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:40 AM |
| 373 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?To add: write all this down with dates in case you have to go to the cops later. Definitely get better locks and security cameras. Get reinforced strike plates and longer thicker screws for your locks. They should be 3 in for deadbolt locks. And GREY ROCK this man. Do not talk to him. Do not make eye contact. If you must engage give him a boring one word answer without giving away information and while making almost no eye contact at all. Continue to "be busy" and walk away. Do not answer his qu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | If a guy refuses to reveal their job, block and delete!Next time just block and save your time. That guy sounds abusive and toxic for turning around abuse language on you for wanting basic information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 18 | How do you do it?Since you've already blocked him and he doesn't seem to want to take the hint I would just be extremely rude. Send a message that is something like "fuck off already! I'm not interested in you. Take a hint loser. I don't date poors/little bitch boys/guys with small dick energy/the vertically challenged (pick whichever one fits)." Be so mean that he thinks fuck you bitch I don't want you and he fucks off. That's what I used to do with men who wouldn't take a hint. If they won't respect that you d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with an insecure partner?You dump him. Any dude who genuinely has this many problems needs a lot of therapy. Not a girlfriend. You aren't a therapist are you? No. He's a little bitch and he sounds annoying as hell. I'd probably cut my arm off trying to get away. Second of all most men use insecurity to manipulate women. That's what it is nine times out of 10. Considering he's gaslighting you and lying to you I would say he's manipulating you. In fact 100% he's manipulating you. The way you're feeling is probably the des… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | just got back from OLDYou paid for your own coffee and drinks which makes it a non-date and then you let the man kiss you? Waste of time! Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 66 | Four Statistics on Living Together Before MarriageThe numbers in section 2 are just dismal. Really dismal. Thank you for putting together this post it really helped to visualize a lot of what we talk about and what the reality is. I wish that the graphs showing differences between cohabitating and married couples also broke it down by sex. I think that would reveal even more information about how predatory men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:56 AM |
| 13 | One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the Rent👏👏👏👏👏 This ten thousand times! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 75 | Why do so many women think they need violent sex now?It's so creepy and low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:28 PM |
| 84 | My ex-LVM friend sent me a handwritten letter and I tore it up and threw it away without reading itJust because somebody contacts you doesn't mean you have to read it. They usually just do it to either insult you or manipulate you. Good for you not giving him any space or time in your head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | The 1/2 plus 7 ruleRead the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:01 PM |
| 376 | Again with the height thing....100% a short losers fantasy of getting back at the evil women for having even one single physical standard for a potential partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Bulge appreciation: Part 2Oh my God thank you for that! And SNL! I died. He has big dick energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 42 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!We know she's thinner, healthier and has more free time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Bulge appreciation: Part 2Big dicks are also my fetish! 🙌 Like when it's so big they gotta put it down one pant leg. When it's so big you figure out where terms like third leg and trouser snake came from 🥵😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:59 PM |
| 60 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!I'm sure his wife had 40 very good reasons to leave him and put up with his shit way too long considering he's this kind of loser. He really does just want people to kiss his boo boos and tell him he's a good guy and he doesn't deserve to be treated so badly by his evil wife! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:55 PM |
| 45 | Are success stories on marrying a HVM?Don't forget to search for old posts too. I believe we had one a week or two ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:25 PM |
| 122 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…Don't forget the shitty sex she is having with him. That's unequal as hell. Most lvm couldn't even manage 50/50 sex. And the woman needs more because she needs more foreplay and more time to orgasm and takes away more of the risk. It should be 75% male effort 25% female. They can't take on 50% of the pregnancy scares or what pregnancy does the woman's body or the birth or breastfeeding, they can't take on 50% of the birth control issues (condoms ain't shit to them), they aren't taking 50% of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:23 PM |
| 138 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!He's going to check his ego at the door y'all! What a fucking loser! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:18 PM |
| 30 | UPDATE: He DID lie about his age so that he could match with younger women, but he still looks older than his actual ageCalled it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 06:40 PM |
| 34 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.my 50/50 prostitute ☠️☠️☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 06:10 PM |
| – | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.I would just laugh and say good luck. Or no response. He has no rights and he can't do anything. She needs to just ignore him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 06:07 PM |
| 209 | Let them get a taste of their own poison and see how they react.I had a guy I had only met once and we were sort of on a date. Well he grabbed my ass in public and squeezed it. He did it to show off to some men nearby. When I grabbed his ass right back and gave it a squeeze he jumped in the air like I was trying to put something in his butt! I held on tight while he bucked. Then I said "See! You don't like it so don't do it to me." Of course I never went on another date with him. I've done other similar things like that to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Best Way To Let Men You're Dating Down When You Get Into a Relationship While Leaving Door Open?Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | "Just" is becoming a trigger for me. "I was just...."Please read the handbook. This guy is a fuckboy loser. This is always what they do. Never let them come over. Also the chronic UTI is probably because he's dirty, either his hands or his dick or both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:06 AM |
| 37 | The more assertive I am, the happier I am! Be assertive and walk with prowessI love this! Good job! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Worth dating? Guy has stalkerAll this and at the end it turns out you've been on two dates with him? This guy is fucking crazy. And on top of that I guarantee you he's lying about only going on one date with this woman. Run! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:33 AM |
| 58 | To My Fellow Chronically ill HVWIt's so hard. I can't do half of what I need to, let alone want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:59 AM |
| 45 | Could there be a more dumpster fire LVM tinder profile? I need to unpack with the FDS ladiesI got the pox and an STD just reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:51 AM |
| 16 | Pushed into buying a housePersonally I would just tell him no and then go silent for a long time. Let him figure it out. I would not marry this person. If he were serious he would have asked you to marry him before proposing you buy a house together. | /r/askFDS | 11/07/21 03:14 AM |
| 192 | Two men casually threatened to kill meA lot of these men really fucking hate women and they wish they could kill them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How many times to put up with threats to break up?First time I tell him fine. Bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:05 AM |
| 164 | Step sister waited over 13 years for her boyfriend to propose to her.Fucking clown shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 11:31 PM |
| 196 | Women deserve to cum tooSee, LV men don't want women to orgasm because they see that as work for them. They think they are owed sex and they shouldn't have to do anything for it. They also hate us because they have to work to get sex from us so they get back at us by depriving us of foreplay, pleasure, orgasm and causing us pain during sex. Find one who loves to give. They're out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Sexual health.I'm glad to hear that. Don't forget to look into their eyes in the photo too. You got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Sexual health.Usually if you look at the clinic they should have photos and descriptions of each of their providers. I literally pick people by photo. I pick someone who looks nice but not like an idiot or a pushover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Sexual health.If you think you have something going on then definitely go to the doctor! A lot of primary care doctors and nurse practitioners will be able to handle that for you. You don't necessarily have to go to a gynecologist, who's more of a specialist. That might make it easier to find someone you're comfortable with. I'm in the US, recommendations were changed for first vaginal exam. We used to be told to go at 18 even as virgins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Sexual health.Things were changed several years ago and now it is not recommended for women to go for their first vaginal exam till about the age of 25. Unless you're having a problem or you are having sex and need to be tested for STDs or get birth control I would not go. And I say this because even under the best circumstances it's just really fucking creepy and uncomfortable in many ways. I went my first time for PCOS at 17 as a virgin. A doctor's hand was NOT the first part of another human being I would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:36 PM |
| 201 | "friend" refuses to accept "no means no".Wow I would have just called him a rapist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 25 | Proof FDS works... I just discovered you can access blocked numbers! Look at the coffee dates. Swipe for the guy that asked me out to mcdonalds and what he messaged after being blockedLol 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 23 | Be careful around your friends’ boyfriends/husbands. Vet them & NEVER get too comfortable, no matter what.What it means is that she chose him over you. Sorry about posting that comment multiple times. Reddit kept telling me it couldn't post it. So I kept trying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:48 PM |
| – | Proof FDS works... I just discovered you can access blocked numbers! Look at the coffee dates. Swipe for the guy that asked me out to mcdonalds and what he messaged after being blockedI'm leaving this up because of the complete shock I felt when he admitted that he got a free pizza from Pizza Hut and free coffee from McDonald's. I guess that's supposed to be the date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 62 | Be careful around your friends’ boyfriends/husbands. Vet them & NEVER get too comfortable, no matter what.Your friend isn't high value if she has poor boundaries and dates creeps who physically violate her friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:48 PM |
| – | Can an engagement ring be a non-negotiable?This guy is 100% scrote material. You're excited because he took you on dates and has empathy supposedly after he hurts your feelings? I'm really sorry to tell you this but this guy is a scrote and you are settling hard. He's making six figures he should have been paying for everything. And you never leave your career and move somewhere else for a man that you're not even married or engaged and almost married to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:07 AM |
| 6 | Bulge appreciation: Part 2Big dicks show through underwear when they're hard. He actually has a moderate size dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:27 AM |
| 23 | Vidyut Jamwal.I was just reading an article last night that was assuring scrotes that women have zero physical standards for their partners. Only a scrote needs that comforting lie. Hot men know the truth because they get tons of female attention for being fit, muscular, having all their hair, and having a fictional normal to above average sized dick etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 45 | LDR Further than 300miles relationship adviceSo I spoke to the other mods about this because we don't usually approve of long distance relationships. Notes: If you have dated for at least 6 months prior to being separated and living in different areas and you have a upcoming plan to close the gap that is acceptable. If you have not had a real in life relationship or there is no plan to close the gap after having a real relationship it's a no. We agree that you have to meet him in person before you can consider it a relationship. The only o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 18 | Vidyut Jamwal.I approve! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:21 PM |
| – | Found strength from FDS to end a relationshipI'm glad that you ended this because it sounds pretty shitty and also very unfulfilling for you. In the future I suggest only considering a relationship with someone living near you. This is why. FDS does not recommend long distance relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 07:37 PM |
| – | Is my boss flirting with me or being friendly?Absolutely none of this is acceptable. You need to put up some boundaries or it's going to get worse. Frankly I would just start looking for a new job because he probably won't be happy when you put up boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 07:14 PM |
| – | it’s faff but it can also be fire him fridayOne of FDS's rules is we don't tell men why we're dumping them. We let them be clueless so that he doesn't learn to hide it better for the next woman. If he's really genuinely nice but you just not feeling it you can let him know that you guys just aren't a good match/a good fit. But if the guy's effort drifts off or he is clearly not in it for a serious relationship then you just block and delete him or ghost him. We aren't explaining anything to men and we aren't leaving them anyway to argue w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Need some adviceBetween telling you that you're out of his league and already telling you he loves you and he's crazy about you. Run. This is ridiculous. If he were mature and had good boundaries he would be spending at least a full year out of that relationship and working on himself. Also sounds like he's insecure and who wants to deal with that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 19 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.But not acting like no man is a rapist is abusive to men!!!! Protecting yourself is toxic! Being smart means you're bitter! -That's what this type sounds like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:53 PM |
| 44 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:30 PM |
| 40 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'I just don't get these people. Why the hell is she asking how to get him to understand? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 55 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.It's like she's never been outside! Or talked to anyone. When I was 15 a boy at school offered me a breath mint and I wouldn't even take it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:12 AM |
| 31 | A FAFF reminder for you all todayRight? Half of them have their own set of titties. Unless I'm fucking another woman I don't want to see a second pair of titties in my bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:10 AM |
| 27 | Rejected a man due to his height - family are giving me second thoughts +gaslighting me!5'4 for a man is just gross. You did the right thing. Don't let your family push you into anything you don't want to do because it would be forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:02 AM |
| 136 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.So the ex-boyfriend was in cahoots with the woman who gave her the drugged drink? Did he organize the gang rape? I bet he did. That's too crazy a coincidence. He probably got money for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:39 AM |
| 149 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.Another good point. Don't have dumb friends. If she had been walking around and that dude had given her both the beers she might have walked them back to the girl and they both would have been passed out and gotten gang raped. I went even a step further and if I ever went to a house party I brought my own flask which I didn't let out of my sight and I kept the cap on. Never got drugged. Also don't accept joints and other things like that from people because they can be laced with acid and other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:34 AM |
| 107 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.This is absolutely ridiculous. You never drink anything a man gives you. Ever. Her friend is dumb and so is she for almost drinking it. A man hands you a drink you "drop" it. Oops. Or you accept it nicely and then "forget it" somewhere. Also if something like this happens please try to at least let the bartender or the bouncer know. The bar probably has cameras they might even have the guys on film lacing the drinks. The cops should be informed too. You don't need intuition to tell you not to ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:25 AM |
| – | My fiancé doesn't seem to care at all about women's rights and it is really bothering me. He supports me on everything but he is very passive in his support. Should I care?He is an asshole 10% of the time? Yes you should dump him. He's clearly a misogynist. And I don't understand how you're saying he supports you in everything when in actuality he gets angry at you and laughs at you when you're asking for support. A man like this shouldn't get past the second date. In fact, pretend this is the second date and he treated you that way, would you continue to see him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:33 AM |
| – | Can I participate in FDS as a teen?Yes you can. If you're asking because your comments keep being removed that is because people have to be assigned flair by a moderator to participate and until that happens comments are manually approved by moderators. That might take a few weeks. We vet FDS members. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Would you leave a relationship the first time your partner said “stfu, shut up, or be quiet” in an argument?There is a new trend among LVM, and it's calling women toxic for having basic boundaries around respect and abuse. That guy isn't your friend because he would rather see you be abused and knocked down than protect and respect yourself. He's also admitting he's an abuser who talks to his girlfriends like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:18 AM |
| 8 | Cats and HVMsI hope you can get some calories into her! Maybe something plain like chicken breast, as the other comment or suggested, would be a good choice. My cat really likes chicken livers and hearts and those have great nutrients for cats. It's not as high in fat as organ meats from other animals so if that's an irritant it might be good for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:33 AM |
| 21 | Imagine your boyfriend telling you he won’t hesitate to hit you because he’s afraid you’re a psycho...These pigs try to pretend this bullshit is sled" defense" when in reality most of them just have to put a woman in a bear hug and we really can't do that much about it. I don't care if a woman slaps a guy or pushes him away or punches at his chest. I guarantee he's fine unless she's a bodybuilder. It's not self-defense to turn around and beat her up. He's not defending himself from anything because she's probably already done and he's just fine. He should just turn around and walk away like a ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:02 AM |
| 12 | Imagine your boyfriend telling you he won’t hesitate to hit you because he’s afraid you’re a psycho...I really always want to punishment like this except have like three giant men who are my friends and family standing behind me so he can't do shit. Then I would taunt him about saying he was going to hit me and where all his aggressive masculinity went. These guys pull this bullshit about how they're going to beat the crap out of a woman because she smacked them once for being a piece of shit precisely because they know the woman isn't a threat and they can just brutalize her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 03:50 AM |
| 19 | Women get judged & picked apart from head to toe while the bar is set in hell for men but lord forbid we say anything about their dicks 😒 Nah, we need to hold them to the same standards!Additionally we should also wait for masses of men to be having genital surgery where it's very likely for them to end up with damage to their dick and never being able to orgasm or feel pleasure again. But they can still get an erection and service women so nobody cares or talks about it. It's women doing the surgeries making the men's genitals look like those of female driven fantasy porn characters, either comically fat and huge or very very tiny, small, pale and hairless. Men are congratulat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 03:30 AM |
| 154 | Rejection after sexual assaultHe's a fucking scumbag piece of shit. Block him more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Is this weird?He sounds like he's looking for a child or has some pedo porn induced desire for a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:25 PM |
| 39 | Women get judged & picked apart from head to toe while the bar is set in hell for men but lord forbid we say anything about their dicks 😒 Nah, we need to hold them to the same standards!Lol! Fuck you and your little boy dick that no one can feel! You aren't fit to reproduce if you can't give the women pleasure while doing it. I said what I said. Take your tiny toddler dick to a male pedophile for appreciation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:13 PM |
| 145 | Oh honey no, HE'S the a**hole...!!!!! Instant dumping offenceSee this is what happens when you act like a fucking doormat your whole relationship. You'll be recovering from emergency surgery and saying "Thank goodness he made it back in time to see the game". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:05 PM |
| – | The start of my mostly Green Flag relationship.I'm removing this post because doing all of these major steps early isn't a sign of high value. In fact it makes me concerned. This is usually how love bombers work and even narcs. If he were truly high value he would wait a reasonable amount of time to give someone who is essentially a stranger a key to his house, to meet his family and to meet her friends etc. Even all of the photos he sent after only one date. That would have put me off. Why is he so desperate to have so much contact with som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 04:23 PM |
| – | Is there any interest in creating a positive/inspirational only subreddit?We have female level up strategy. If you see anything that you do not think belongs on this sub please report it to the moderators! Our members are not allowed to make unapproved FDS spin-off subs. This in order to prevent issues with trolls and also people who mean well but don't have the tools to run them properly and may damage the FDS name. Thank you for your understanding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 04:13 PM |
| – | What an absolutely vile person!I approved this because it's kind of crazy that he pretends to be one person in front of his wife of 20 years and really is a whole other person. Stay sharp, Ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Am i being superficial?Please read the handbook. He too old, you find him embarrassing and no job. Plus, you want to dump him. Dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 10 | Report and block… report and block… must remember talking back just stokes their egoI guarantee you it's just another edgy virgin teen male shitbag on Reddit making up bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 39 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sI guarantee this little bitch badgered this poor woman until she gave up details and now he's holding it against her. "I genuinely want to anally rape this girl. I feel emasculated and humiliated because I can't." 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | "the balls in your court" 🤡 cya later!Please read the entire FDS handbook before posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:33 PM |
| 122 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushYes you definitely wouldn't want to judge someone that you are going to date, have as your boyfriend, have as your husband, live with, share finances with, and have children with! nO JuDgEmEnT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 54 | Stoicism and the journey of leveling upWonderful post. The part about Marcus Aurelius and the plague and his reaction to it really touches on fds principles for me. You have your emotions but then you set that to the side to tackle what you can do with what you have. I also appreciated the part about what stoicism is and is not. How it's not "suck it up" feel nothing move on, like men like to promote or pretend. This was exactly what I was getting at. We need to feel and process but we also need to set that aside and act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 05:32 AM |
| 163 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹Libfems are just evil at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 10:33 PM |
| 5 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSWho was that? On FDS? Never mind. I found her and she deleted her entire account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 10:20 PM |
| 89 | I am absolutely speechless. Tl;dr, if he can’t have sex with her after a surgery, she will not be allowed to use her cup/tampons. This is straight up abuse.Thank you and you're welcome! We get plenty of hate so the love is really appreciated! Red pill is absolutely crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 98 | I am absolutely speechless. Tl;dr, if he can’t have sex with her after a surgery, she will not be allowed to use her cup/tampons. This is straight up abuse.Bleed on everything he loves 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:38 PM |
| 603 | I am absolutely speechless. Tl;dr, if he can’t have sex with her after a surgery, she will not be allowed to use her cup/tampons. This is straight up abuse.You communicate to him by getting the doors rekeyed, leaving his shit on the lawn and contacting a divorce lawyer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSI knew a guy like that. Never worked on anything, just moaned weekly to his counselor. He never leveled up. He never matured. Never took accountability for anything. Was just a shitty, draining, whiny Eeyore asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSAwesome! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:23 PM |
| 22 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSWould you like to make a post about that? I think how stoicism helped you level up would be a fantastic post! We need material like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 06:22 AM |
| 18 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSA post about stoicism would be great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 06:22 AM |
| 150 | ABV - Always Be Vetting"he wants me forever, but do I want him forever?" This is exactly the mentality to have right here. Most women don't even get this far because they never even ask themselves if this is the man they really want. Or if it's the husband that they want, or the father they want for their children. These are the questions we should be continually asking ourselves in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating VettingDo an internet search for the web address to the article, but change "reddit" to "removeddit". That should give you the post. Let me know how that works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | What should I do? Go for him or no?I'm in like this or rapist. If you would like to knock it right then don't date him. This guy is a misogynistic jerk. He will abuse you and rape you and beat you down emotionally. Please read the handbook in the about section. Please post this to r/askFDS and then tag me so I can approve the post. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 04:26 AM |
| – | HVM plans the best date ever, surprises me with it, and I am still over the moon.One note. It doesn't sound like you have been dating him long enough to declare him a HVM. Keep vetting and watch out for love bombing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:30 AM |
| 297 | Eye-OpeneningHi hun! Read all of the handbook and check out the recommended books, I think there are some great ones that might be of benefit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Asked by a guy to give a ride to a party, not invitedNext time you don't meet a man at his work. You only meet a man somewhere like a restaurant for a real date. You also leave after 15 minutes of waiting. This guy is a PRICK! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:21 AM |
| 30 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSA lot of the pickmes have learned that if they say their dumb shit on the sub they'll get banned, so they hang around quietly and downvote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:10 AM |
| 63 | The restaurant is closedNo. If he didn't check he ain't shit. Bye. Block. | /r/askFDS | 05/07/21 11:58 PM |
| 36 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSI think that's a really good point. You are correct. They very much are taking responsibility but for the wrong things. And also in the wrong way and with the wrong mentality. It's not about beating yourself up. It's about being honest with yourself that you made certain decisions and why. Otherwise you'll just never fix the issue. It's hard to accept you failed yourself but it's necessary. Twice I was raped because I ignored my gut feelings and intuition. I failed to protect myself for many rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 12 | BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist.Sorry you went through something similar. Drag them for filth! ✊ I tried to get a review, to sue, even contacted the media. Crickets. I'm behind you 100%! I don't talk about it much because it just feels like shit to bring it all up. I've got other things to do with that energy. It's too exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:37 PM |
| 77 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSIt's not even about assigning blame. Just recognizing your part, your choices, what held you back from doing what's best for you and then fixing it. It's more like radical acceptance in part. Look at it, accept it, change it, move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 15 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSThis other person is an example of another facet of what I'm talking about. Purposefully derailing and pretending to be daft. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:47 PM |
| 62 | I am done with trying to make pickmes see the lightI've seen women who are convinced that taking care of their health is selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:41 PM |
| 161 | I am done with trying to make pickmes see the lightIt's not selfish to kick idiots who suck the life and energy out of you out of you life. That's more patriarchal brainwashing of women to keep us in place. Keep us wasting time. Keep us having no boundaries. Keep us being used. Never Let people waste your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:34 PM |
| 69 | Never date someone who criticizes your fitness routine.This is just crazy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 99 | BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist.Watch out for some women too. Best to get someone who is trauma informed. That increases the chances of finding real help. I had a few women I tried to get therapy with and they had ISSUES which were then projected onto me. One tried to slap me with the BPD bs when I had zero prior issues and was dealing with PTSD from not only rape but abuse by the police when I reported and then was raped again right when I started seeing her. Watch out for anyone who tries to pathologize women's justifiable a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:27 PM |
| 28 | I just did it.Yes. And no one with any respect for your time, work and sleep will text you at 11pm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:01 PM |
| 237 | I just did it.Any man he doesn't have time for you before 11:00 p.m. isn't putting any sort of priority on you He's just looking for sex. Those 11:00 p.m. men are only trying to find some stray pussy at the end of the night. Also what sort of loser uses a photo with their previous girlfriend on their dating app? Clown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 30 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?I thought this would be a nice discussion for today. Remember we also have r/femalelevelupstrategy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Applying “high standards” to friendshipsStop being worried about being nice and actually listen to what these women are saying. They want to ruin your relationship, they want to ruin this career opportunity for you, they want to ruin your wedding. Push these women away and put up an electric fence so they can't come back. Please post this to r/askFDS and then tag me so I can approve the post. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 02:39 PM |
| – | Do you like it when a guy plans an elaborate, multi-course first date, or does it make you feel nervous/uncomfortable?This is exactly why a date like that is not fds. Your time is valuable and you are in demand. That's why he only gets 1 hour of your time. Maybe 1.5 hours. Texting is only to set up a date/ make a plan. Phone calls are only 10 to 20 minutes once or twice a week. Dates are once a week. The goal is to prevent a man that you don't know from monopolizing all of your time and energy. To prevent premature and Ill advised attachment. To prevent love bombing. To give you proper time and space to vet the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:16 AM |
| 70 | Thank you FDS for giving me courage to take care of my needs and wants.Traveling alone is so amazing! Glad you're having fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Never date before and need some advicesThis guy is weird and trashy. Opens the door for you once and then tells you he's not going to do it again. Huge red pill red flag. Please read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:41 AM |
| – | How Long is Too Long— How to Avoid Being a Forever GirlfriendTerrible advice. Why should any woman waste 2 years or more of her time and youth with a man who hasn't made it clear he wants to marry her? Why would you waste your time dating non-seriously while working on an advanced degree? Either you should be in a very serious relationship or single and focusing on your studies. Don't get caught being used for housework and easily available sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to move forward in my friendship.Thanks. I'll check it out right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to move forward in my friendship.Thanks. I'll check it out right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to move forward in my friendship.Why would you want to keep being friends with someone who essentially prostitutes herself? That looks terrible on you. I wouldn't want everyone looking at me knowing what she does. Plus she's putting you at risk letting old creeps hang around with you both. She's a mess. She's disrespectful. She walks all over you. She is not your friend. She's not capable. You should have been done with her after this whole Chicago thing. Please read the handbook and search for posts about dealing with pickme f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Help with communication!So this guy makes no time for you? And you live together? Dump him. He's using you. Please read the handbook in the about section. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:07 AM |
| 311 | Is the transitioning stage always this hard?This is exactly how people act when they're used to walking all over you and you finally stand up for yourself. You might have to start new friendships with your new self to find decent people who respect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 13 | I know most of us know the pitfalls of pursuing age gap relationship, but would you pursue a friendship with someone in an age gap relationship?Yes. AVOID! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 05:17 PM |
| 118 | I finished my bachelors degree with First class honours and I would like to give a shout out to FDSMy favorite kind of FDS post! 🥰 CONGRATULATIONS! 🎊🎉💃🪅 Your hard work really paid off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 17 | Ah yes, how could you turn down an awkward marriage proposal in the middle of the street? 😩👏🏻👌🏻Why not both? You can have both. Anyway that cheap ring is not going to last with daily wear for 5 years, 10 years, 20 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Talking about not doing a 50/50 without coming off as patronising/trying too hard to be wokeMale poster | /r/askFDS | 02/07/21 02:42 AM |
| 243 | Stop asking why he did that—start asking if it’s acceptable to youThis is SO important. The path to pickme hell is pathed with obsessing over finding ridiculous barely plausible justifications for his bad behavior. Once women give that up dating becomes so easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Advice to do better next time?I approved it for you. Thanks for letting me know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Advice to do better next time?Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 38 | I can't tell if I'm being mirrored and stalked. I can't tell if I'm being dramatic.This is not ok. Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 14 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...Apparently I'm developing a reputation for being blunt... Lol 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I over reacting or my bf is controlling?Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 196 | "Are you sure you don't want to...." and other things they expect us to respond positively to.This is a manipulation tactic to slowly undermine your thoughts and feelings and replace them with his own. The point is to make you question everything until you accept his choices, thoughts and feelings as your own. Until you accept his reality. This is a huge red flag. Get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 57 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...If that's the best they could do you know they really had to scrounge around to find any. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 163 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...God he looks like somebody took an already ugly man and then melted him in the oven | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:21 PM |
| 9 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 17 - Scrotation Management : The Benefits of Multi-DatingTell them something has broken watch them fix it for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 17 | Subreddit Update: Reddit Admins “improved” their spam filter and it’s removing everybody’s posts!I've also noticed the weekend before the spam filter went into effect that Friday Saturday they were almost no submissions. I think everyone is going out places for the weekend since covid restrictions are lifting!! I hope everyone has fun getting back out there and getting to go away for the weekend and go out with friends, and date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:58 PM |
| 26 | I don't know where else to ask this without getting harassed by scrotes, but how can you actually tell if a guy has a big dick?Also the funniest part is that a lot of them seem to only add one inch in length. Lol! If he's 5" that's not enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What are good questions to ask on a first date?Please read the handbook in the about section. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 24 | I don't know where else to ask this without getting harassed by scrotes, but how can you actually tell if a guy has a big dick?Here is a picture of one on a dildo. https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fkissngiggles.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2020%2F05%2Fmaxx-men-compact-penis-sleeve-clear-img1.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Fkissngiggles.com%2Fproduct%2Fmaxx-men-compact-penis-sleeve-clear%2F&docid=gFDiomXetw2xIM&tbnid=czaKidVvn8eyFM&vet=1&source=sh%2Fx%2Fim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 10 | I don't know where else to ask this without getting harassed by scrotes, but how can you actually tell if a guy has a big dick?You got it down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 174 | I don't know where else to ask this without getting harassed by scrotes, but how can you actually tell if a guy has a big dick?Yes. You can tell by how they carry themselves. Confident and secure, but not cocky. Secure in their manhood. Best way to tell is through vetting. If you follow FDS you have at least 3 months to vet this man before having sex. By the second month you can know his size. During a makeout session give him some time to really get into it and then feel up his crotch. If you don't feel anything it's either too small or he has erectile issues. Either way that's your sign to get out. You should be able … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:22 PM |
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