Bad... But not unexpected... 💔

NLM2019 · 2021-09-19T23:14:10+00:00

Absolutely horrible. I hope they find him before he offs himself.

Frogspocket · 2021-09-20T00:26:18+00:00

💔 a friend of mine participated in the search so ive been following the events and checking reddit periodically because they had the best source of live updates. It was so frustrating because people had all these crazy theories about HER being the abusive one, or the boyfriend being some criminal mastermind (in reality he is just an average, cowardly, gaslighting abusive loser)

The police cam painted a very clear picture of a reactive abuse and gaslighting. And misogyny amongst the police too. The whole thing has been heartbreaking, and it is so hard to watch her suffer with treatment that she didn't even know was abuse and not get any help. It's impossible to watch that footage and not want to hug her and explain to her that she's not crazy. Those cops completely failed her.

Once the witnesses came forward and the story started unfolding itself I lost hope that she'd be found alive, because I know that it is dangerous (in abusive relationships) when women break up with men, and I strongly suspected that she had called off their engagement or even broke up with him on the 29th.

They had split up for a few days because they weren't getting along. She stayed with the van while he was gone for days hiking. He was very likely supposed to meet her back at the van at a set time, but showed up extremely late (last witness placed him hitchhiking the wrong way at 6p.m.). So she had been sitting there alone all day and into the night, into the dark. Sitting there probably scared out if her mind and wondering if he was okay. She was without signal, with no way of communicating to her friend (who she had plans with that day but didn't have the service to contact) and no way of contacting him either. They would've had a big fight upon his return for sure. And i just have a gut feeling that she broke up with him. And he reacted violently, like they often do (abusive men). Then he panicked and drove home to his mom like a coward.

I had a horrible feeling she'd be found today once the story started coming together (to be clear i'm just speculating based on detailed I've learned though).

Senseless loss of life and she deserved so much better. At least her family has some sort of peace knowing that she was found.

xD_itgoes · 2021-09-19T23:13:43+00:00

Sad situation all around. My parents were really hopeful she was still alive, but I knew if the scrote escaped and hid away for so long it was over...

PetuniaXo · 2021-09-20T01:52:44+00:00

😞 Ugh. This is heartbreaking. For her, her family, and all the women like her whose stories were never told.

Some people were saying maybe they had a fight and he just left her in the middle of nowhere, so I still had hope that she was alive, even if I knew it was unlikely.

It's blatantly obvious, now, that he murdered her. Why else would he refuse to talk to police and then go on the run/ into hiding? I hope he lives a miserable existence for the rest of his days.

It's especially chilling to those of us who have been in abusive relationships, knowing that could have very well been any of us. 😔

sacchilax · 2021-09-19T23:49:51+00:00

I knew this was going to be the outcome. From the beginning I just knew he killed her. I honestly thank FDS bc before I actually might’ve thought he didn’t and “sHe KiLlED hErSeLf” as various scrote and pickmiesha heavy subs have been tying to say.

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-09-19T23:31:15+00:00

It still bothers me that people were calling her abusive from the body cam footage. He pushed her so she scratched him probably as an attempt to get his hands off of her. Isn’t that what equal rights equal rights is about maIe lurkers? Nonetheless though she still wouldn’t be able to physically defend herself against him without a weapon. It’ll never be an equal fight.

It’s so sad that this happened to her and that there are people there blaming her for it and saying “She should’ve been arrested. She wouldn’t be missing if she was” no HE should have been. Red flags were everywhere by him in the footage. Falsely accusing women of abuse and sexual assault and putting the blame on them to avoid responsibility are so easy to get away with nowadays because there are people there who don’t believe that men are even capable of doing such a thing.

I really hope that the remains aren’t her. But unfortunately, it’s unlikely that isn’t the case. I really wish her the best and peace.

And of course, we really need to start naming the problem. The more women that are aware of this, the true nature of men, and that it’s not women's responsibility to change a man despite what the media says, there would be so much more women alive today.

the-worst- · 2021-09-20T05:46:29+00:00

It's sad that his family still seems to be trying to protect him (using a lawyer for contact with the police) even though it's pretty obvious he killed gabby.

Like who tf just returns home without a whole ass person in tow and thinks they can just hide away until this blows over as if all he did was break up with her on her birthday or something.

It's sickening. Don't trust a man to take you out into the wilderness, ladies. Especially not far away from home for extended periods of time.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-09-19T23:39:38+00:00

That cop that pulled them over then charged Gabby should be fired.

Lizard301 · 2021-09-19T23:57:47+00:00

😭😭😭 I knew she was dead, but that sliver of hope was still there. Oh, my GAWD I hope he ... not gonna say. Fuck!

Hot_Procedure1648 · 2021-09-19T23:34:06+00:00

Give scrotes who's so underserving of you a chance they say, date down, it'll be fine they say. You deffo won't wind up face down in a ditch and have him drive off with your VAN they reassure.

OptionalCookie · 2021-09-20T02:10:19+00:00

100% bet we are going to see "not all men" hashed on Twitter.

Fucking sick. I'm so upset for her family.

Title	Bad... But not unexpected... 💔
Author	MgrofChaos
Upvotes	350
Comments	34
Date	September 19, 2021 11:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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