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FDS HUMORylang_ylang/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:29 AM
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PICKME CULTUREylang_ylang/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:04 AM
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Idea: the moment a man starts ‘quizzing you’ nope tf out. Maybe one day they’ll put it all together? I just don’t have time to study for a gah damn date…we either an intellectual match or not; move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:28 AM
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A porn-fried virgin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:09 AM
126

Not just not cute but an active turn off. Manchild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:18 PM
67

As someone who is 5 months out of a breakup of a 6 year long relationship, I could not agree with this more. My life got substantially better after the relationship ended. For the first couple months I held onto the idea that we would get back together, but now I couldn’t even imagine going backwards. Once I started dating other, better men, there was just no comparison. Not only has my life improved but so have my standards. They are much higher now. I will never tolerate that type of relations…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:05 PM
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Beards are a complete deal breaker for me. Who tf wants to makeout with a bush? Seems unhygienic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:15 PM
19

Sex and the city meets black mirror Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:59 PM
25

Does anyone else feel like they’re in love with Lundy Bancroft now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:38 PM
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Duuuude separate master suites would be the dream. Literally what Russian and French monarchs did, so what the heck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:56 AM
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These men out here that are YOUNGER than me have so many awful wrinkles. This is guys in their late twenties too! It’s shocking. If you don’t take care of your skin, you’re going to age poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:31 AM
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They also think they sneaky adjusting their junk. Sir, we can see you lift your leg as you pull at your crotch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:56 AM
286

How can something that provokes people to seek out incest NOT be considered brain damage? Humans are biologically wired to be repelled by incest, yet it’s one of the most searched phrases in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:24 PM
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Men won't ask a woman for help. There's always an ulterior motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:38 PM
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A study from 2013 found that there is a big change that happens in male fertility after the age of 34. At age 35, their sperm count begins to drop. At 40, the sperm concentration, as well as the percentage of sperm with a normal shape, begins to decline. At 43, sperm motility decreases, And from the age of 45, semen ejaculate volume begins to go down. What all of this means is that from the age of 34, there is a declining likelihood that a man will father a child through intercourse. And that pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:01 AM
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This dude is delusional. He literally just shared his fantasy that makes him feel better about himself. Idk if it’s hilarious or sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:51 AM
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I think it’s just an outtake and he would have gone back in post and added a quote in there, but since he messed it up he left it blank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:13 PM
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It’s Kyle Prue on TikTok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:11 PM
55

“Short king”, I’m dying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:10 PM
35

I assume this sign wouldn’t be up in your bar. I assume it would be up in a place where they were capable of offering this type of help; perhaps a much slower bar or restaurant. By the sound of it, management doesn’t care too much about their employees so it would make sense they wouldn’t give this type of care to customers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:17 AM
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My thoughts too. But even more than that, when I read that he got angry and told the baby to shut up when it was crying made me immediately think he’s a high risk for hurting that baby. I understand frustration and anger but if you can’t keep it together enough to not tell your newborn baby to shut up that’s extremely concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:51 PM
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There is absolutely nothing more unattractive to me than noticing a man that’s with his girlfriend, wife, or worst his family, checking me out in their presence. Expect a death scowl in return, sirs. I’m on your wife’s side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:29 AM
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There’s also alarms you can place on your windows that go off when they’ve been separated from the window being opened - kinda old school but efficient and cheap. You can literally get 10 for $20 on Amazon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:33 AM
284

Homicide is a leading cause of death for women younger than 44 years old Horrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:33 AM
177

after he inevitably has strippers at his own bachelor party OP you can guarantee that he will not honor your wishes after the way he reacted and defended his friend lying to his wife. They seemed to be testing the waters bringing that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:41 PM
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He must be low on the male social hierarchy to feel the need to say this to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:27 AM
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I’m curious about what they meant by “the actual wall”? Reproduction levels begin to decline or? My undergrad was in sociology and I was not taught this. My mom gave birth to my healthy half brothers at age 39 and 41 without any extra medical intervention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:37 AM
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Ummm can we identify these laughing men so all women know to avoid them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:56 AM
24

Yeah any time I suggested anything about his family like his depressed brother trying antidepressants or suggesting him going to therapy he would get super defensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:32 PM
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100% I had the same realization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:30 PM
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You know, my ex was of the same demographic. He would acknowledge machismo culture, but I don’t think he realized how much it is still a part of him. The way his father acted toward him (virtually no relationship with him other than sports talk) and the way his father treated his mother (physically abusive at times) has a significant impact on a person. He was in deep denial about that. He claimed to be securely attached but now that I look back on the relationship and his behavior it is clear t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:31 PM
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A guy hit on me in the trash can isle at Walmart today. No joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:12 AM
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It’s a quote from the office…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:32 PM
107

“Snip snip, amirite girls”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:14 AM
22

I was going to say, this story really makes it sounds like he’s done this before…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:33 AM
65

Are men just inherently made to gaslight? I swear they all do it SO much, that they don’t even notice. They’re just used to living life that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:15 AM
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They don’t have empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:09 AM
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She could do SO much better than him. If she only knew her worth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:52 AM
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I would never say that to a strange man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:50 AM
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Most men don’t even try at all anymore. I was trying to “get back out there” until I realized I was the only one doing any work to try to get to know the other person. Men have been so spoiled they think that women should have to pine over them. Uh uh I’m not playing that bull sh*t game. I’M the prize, not your crusty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:11 AM
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My friend was visiting NYC for the first time. Once she arrived in the city, she took a Lyft to meet up with us. When her Lyft driver learned it was her first time in the city, he TOOK HER OFF THE METER to give her a “tour” of the city. We called her and told her to get tf out of his car ASAP bc she was no longer being tracked by the Lyft app. Just bc they’re on duty doesn’t change anything. It will always be dangerous for a women to get in a stranger’s car no matter the circumstances. I used to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:03 AM
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Was it worth it? Yes his rates are insanely expensive. Idk if I should pay for it. But I want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:04 AM
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Divorced in five years or less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:26 AM
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You should check out the YouTube channel of Craig Kenneth. He’s a therapist that specializes in breakups. But more than that, he walks you through attachment bonds, and gives some damn good advice and encouragement about going no contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:59 PM
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He’s had like three wives already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:43 PM
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I think some Gen Zs haven’t got the message yet…they’re always telling me how “good you look for being 29!!!” -_____-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:49 AM
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You handled and stood up for yourself very well to this complete scrote neo-nazi. I’m sorry you had to encounter and interact with trash, but I’m also glad that you called him out on his shit. I hope he can learn something from his encounter with you in hopes to spare the next poor woman that has to interact with this trash bag. Never let anyone neg you about your ethnicity or culture. Seriously fuck that douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:33 AM
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“After date two I went to his place and never left” . TRANSLATION: after date two I let him hit it and I’ve been his bangmaid ever since 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:48 AM
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This is very likely the reality. It’s really heartbreaking because I see so much of my younger self in this situation. The only difference between Gabbie and myself, and so many other young women, is that we were lucky enough to to get a 2nd+ chances, when Gabbie did not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:32 AM
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Yeah that’s…a lot. Very telling. I hope no woman gets involved with that super-scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:25 AM
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It sounds like your friend and her mom have a very good and realistic perspective of women’s place in this patriarchy. That’s awesome you’ve found them. Women that are truly woke to the patriarchy (not libfemism) are far and few. Cherish those ladies, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:44 AM
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This sounds very valid. I mean, there is clearly a correlation between the rise of social media and the decline of girls/women’s self esteem everywhere. Not to say that it’s the only factor, but it’s a huge culprit to a lot of women’s self-worth that otherwise would be secure and stable due to a healthy home life. [I think] social media entering the picture has definitely compromised whatever good the home life has done for an average healthy young girl and put her in a more questionable mindset…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:01 AM
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Uhhh yeah I mean it’s pretty on brand with the whole degrading women thing that’s clearly glamorized in both those movies. Why are we so blind when we’re young?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:35 AM
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Ooofff cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:55 AM
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I’ve said it a thousand times in this sub but I’ll say it again. FEMALE DOCTORS ONLY (and I include therapists/counselors in this, I feel it’s in the same vein). And if you are a woman of color, try for a doctor that is a woman of color. There are soooo many studies on how women’s pain, especially black women’s pain, is straight up discounted by doctors. The best way to combat that is to see a doctor that is as similar to your demographic as possible. Hell, even age is a factor. I’ve had older f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:14 PM
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I have some to add: 1.) teeth gnashing during a fight. 2.) name calling of any kind at ANY time. 3.) avoidance 4.) picking fights out of nowhere 5.) Eye rolling( John Gottman claims this is a tell-tale sign a relationship won’t last and a sign of contempt). Lessons of a LV relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:15 AM
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I feel like this post should be in the New York Times. Women everywhere need this knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:42 AM
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FR. “iT wAs fOr HeR oWn gOoD.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:37 AM
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“wE’rE vIsUaL”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:42 AM
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Yes and the whole locking her out of the car until she “calmed down” because she has “anxiety”. Probably anxiety from being in the relationship with him. Men always find a way to exploit our vulnerabilities into a mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:06 AM
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Oh! I’m going to start doing number 6!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:38 PM
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Unpopular opinion: forgiving your abuser isn’t required for healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:43 AM
117

Oh yeah. And you can imagine the minute he’s gets a few drinks in him it’s all gonna come out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:19 AM
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Honestly his resentment toward women made me sooooo uncomfortable. I would feel so unsafe around this man. I guarantee, if he has not gotten physical with a woman yet, he will in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:07 AM
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They’re never going to figure it out for themselves if women don’t stop giving away our emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:46 PM
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Honestly, I do a check-in snoop like once a month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:05 AM
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My SO just started his masters in counseling and he told me one of his (female) professors is in an open relationship - her husband being with someone else and her also being with someone else…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:38 PM
32

Why isn’t he cancelled yet? He performed at the 2021 Grammys -__-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:08 AM
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Lol he’s seething with resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:53 PM
21

Out of control sexual behavior? Wtf. Adults should be in control of themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:42 PM
23

MADONNA WHORE COMPLEX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:40 PM
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This is 100% his own responsibility. Isolated and spending all his time on the internet? Yeah you’re a loser that is mentally ill. It’s up to him to change his life. But he couldn’t possibly accept that reality. Rather, all women must be the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:55 PM
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Even the ones that do have empathy, there’s a limit to it. They’re conditioned to only ever think of themself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:41 AM
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I don’t do same-day plans for this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:43 AM
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Yeah she’s having panic attacks because she’s being traumatized, poor thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:59 PM
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OP, I’m not sure how exactly he found your Reddit account, but I just want to say to everyone woman here NEVER USE YOUR REDDIT USERNAME FOR SOCIAL MEDIA OR ANYTHING ELSE. I’ve been found that way and I’ve been able to find people that way. Edit: and once they’ve got your name from social media they can find your location. I’m not just saying this for dating but for general Reddit safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:31 PM
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The f**king seat 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:44 AM
65

This queen getting spoilt ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:37 AM
53

Okay okay that’s valid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:54 AM
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Lol @ the sinister Stranger Things music in the background. Like whaaa?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:00 AM
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Uhh okay chill. No need to put her down about this in any capacity. She thought he was HV, turned out he wasn’t. Let’s move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:57 AM
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Seconding this. I think you should lean into what is clearly bringing you happiness. But if you’re feeling distress because of men try out therapy because YOU deserve peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:32 PM
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Ugh I’m so sorry. I understand that feeling. I try my best to be an activist against porn & help to educate people. But I have to tune it all out very often because of how infuriating and horrifying it can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:11 PM
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Horrifying. I hope she’s not still with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:55 PM
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Comedian Bonnie McFarlane made a documentary about this titled “Women Aren’t Funny.” Even her own comedian husband said women aren’t funny 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:06 AM
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Perhaps going to Reddit for relationship advice is a red flag in men. I mean, it’s a male echo chamber, they come to be validated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:21 AM
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So it’s like the Hunger Games and sex workers are the volunteered tributes. Cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:31 PM
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Yeah there has to be some business happening under the table for her to make a judgment like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:42 PM
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This is the new “you seduced me so you’re a witch” accusation. They’re the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:14 PM
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Ladies, we need to protect ourselves. If this 17 year old boy’s fantasy’s of hurting his girlfriend for sexual pleasure isn’t an indication of the damage porn is creating idk what is. There’s a whole new generation that was raised on violent porn that displays abuse against women and they’re adults now. Protect yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:10 PM
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Can’t wait for the one on flirting. I need help lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:35 PM
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How am I suppose to have any faith in humanity - excuse me, MEN - when I read about shit like this happening every week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:47 PM
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Oh my gosh! Please share how you handled this as a teacher. I’m about to do my teacher training and I’ve always thought this was just a bad stereotype. I guess I just have a good studio :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:56 PM
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I could never bring myself to touch someone who hadn’t showered in days…and announced it proudly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:53 PM
6

Yea, this story is very similar to my own parents’ divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:50 PM
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THE BETTY BRODERICK STORY. This is the Betty Broderick story (Dirty John season 2). It’s the classic tale of a woman sacrificing her entire life and identity to be a mommy bangmaid, only to be dropped for a younger woman once the husband reached success. He ruined her whole life without any remorse. It seriously has me now questioning my own man’s motives. Every move men make is out of self-interest and nothing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:03 PM
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he wanted a woman more like Natalie Portman in Garden State. Bleeeeh! Wtf. Nothing wrong with Natalie but the specificity of this is creepy. This isn’t build-a-bear for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:05 PM
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Gah damn I’m happy I’ve found you all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:30 PM
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I don’t want to be pedantic but as a librarian I hate incorrect statements on the internet. Unfortunately black women are not the highest paid by any means. They’re actually notoriously underpaid. They’re the most underpaid demographic statistically speaking. However, her message still stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:30 AM
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How does a grown human adult not understand why a toddler would need toys? Play & curiosity is a HUGE part of development. Quel imbécile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:13 PM
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I feel the same; I want a child but feel disconnected to imagining pregnancy or childbirth. I’m 29 years old and I continue to learn how little I actually know about pregnancy and childbirth. It breaks my heart bc I know that mothers only feel they can discuss those things with other mothers because no one else wants to hear about it. But holy shit, the fact that so many women go through the traumatic experience of childbirth and keep it to themselves says something about how we allow women to c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:34 AM
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To be honest, I only want a child if it’s a daughter. I have three brothers, I was raised by my dad...I only want more family members if they’re women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:28 AM
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I did this before and the guy was so bewildered he followed me out to my car and watched as I drove away down the street lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:04 AM
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I like your point about how makeup over time can be detrimental to your skin. This is why I never wore foundation, even when I was younger. I hated how it felt on my skin and I figured it had to be clogging my pores. Now years later I can see that my skin is in a lot better shape than many of my peers of the same age. And I was a smoker for 8 years so that says something. Perhaps less pulling on my face from not having to put on foundation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:16 PM
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I think you just put into words what I’ve been trying to form in my mind for a while now. I enjoy accenting my features with makeup, but completely changing or covering your face in makeup is not empowering. It’s a crunch and a veil to meet the standards of the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:10 PM
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I was instantly & permanently banned from a “feminist” sub for simply replying “they would love that” when a woman commented that “we should all just treat men like sex objects.” FDS is not the toxic female sub...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:11 PM
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Ugh 🤢 next time one ask you if you hate them, just tell them they’re being really insecure for asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:48 PM
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:0 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:43 PM
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I know...all I was thinking is I don’t have to do that, period. Unless it’s something I really want to do for my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:05 PM
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I’m so sick and disgusted with how our society has conditioned all men to think their existence is a gift to us 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:40 PM
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I think A LOT of us can relate to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:50 PM
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DRAMATIC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:59 PM
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“What’s stopping you? Oh, you don’t want the social stigma and the physical violation? Come on, it’s empowering you get money!” -___-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:52 PM
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Omg I love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:50 PM
6

Is that a topaz? If so that’s my birthstone :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:31 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate your kind words :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:52 AM
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I took your advice and did this today! Guy tried to walk by me like 2 inches from my back so I stuck my foot out behind me and he had to hop out of the way. Thanks sis! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:43 PM
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That’s definitely harassment I would have called the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:36 AM
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I have noticed how men often invade women’s personal space! Men do this a lot to me at the gym; walk by me but walk like 3 inches from my body when there is plenty of space to walk around. Whether they’re doing it on purpose or not, it’s fucking rude and inappropriate and idk what they think would happen if they did that to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:32 AM
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Omg I used to date a NVM that wanted to emulate Christian Bale’s character from American psycho...I don’t know why I didn’t see that flashing neon red flag right there 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:51 PM
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Where does he expect this to go? If things work out she moves into the van with him? Will he never want to move into a house with her? Yah, fuck alla that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:55 PM
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I like how the psychologist said he doesn’t think they can run an equivalent experiment to see if women do this to men because women take men’s minds and desires into account for attraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:24 PM
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I see you. I’ve been in a LTR during which I went through several serious and life-changing hardships and not once did I feel genuine support from my partner. If anything, he made me feel like a burden for “being like this.” It’s truly sad to feel that isolation and abandonment from someone that’s supposed to be your partner, especially after you’ve been supportive to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:01 PM
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It clearly not the blood that disgust them. It’s where it’s coming from. They don’t want to think that the hole they want to stick it in so badly has other more important purposes than being pounded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:48 PM
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So you couldn’t move your body? If you think you were drugged you should go to the police. I know they can test for the date rape drug up to 24 hrs or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:07 PM
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This poor woman needs therapy from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:37 AM
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Tampering with another person’s food is a considered a crime in most states. I would assume the worst of his intentions. Someone needs to tell her to hire a lawyer and gtfo of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:09 PM
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I just try to avoid male doctors in general. In my sociology undergrad we learned that to receive the most considerate care it’s best to see a doctor that is similar to yourself: if you’re a woman see a woman, if you’re a member of the LGTBQ+ community maybe you want to see someone from that community; if you’re a woman of color you want to see another woman of the color. It’s really scary the stats on how common it is for doctor’s to underrate complaints of pain reported by women of color.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:51 AM
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In his mind, does he think he broke up with her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:03 AM
7

Talk about being insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:18 PM
20

Uh it sounded like he was ready to choose his porn collection over her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:45 PM
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Porn has deluded them to think these are possibilities for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:24 AM
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That post was the most infuriating thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:53 PM
21

This literally makes me nauseous. That is so terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:50 PM
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Yep they don’t have to work for it anymore so when they encounter a woman with standards it’s so absurd to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:26 PM
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Lmao none of those scrotes are going to be in their prime at 50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:20 PM
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Men think that THEY are the gift. Our society has played up competing for a man for so long, they all have egos now. He sits around playing videos games every weekend, eating crap, scrolling on his phone. But then think he’s a great bf because he gets you flowers once a year on your birthday (that he remembered this year!). Like that’s not attractive to anybody. I sometimes wonder if they even care about how they come off to us. Because they aren’t appealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:00 PM
33

Yes whenever I start to feel jealous about another girl, I reframe those feelings to be “I want to be her friend!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:58 PM
74

I’m sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:21 PM
63

I literally said “oh fuck yeah” out loud when I read that. He must’ve had to go to the ICU for that burn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:54 PM
56

Chivalry IS sexy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:45 PM
26

Lana del Rey is the epitome of a pick-me. I liked her music at the time, but honey no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:14 PM
31

As someone with a sister who has borderline personality disorder...I can assure you it’s real and it ruins lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:36 AM
3

Last year on my birthday my mom cancelled the day before my birthday lunch we had planned for a date with a random guy. He ended up standing her up. I don’t talk to her anymore. Seeing how much of a pick-me my mother is has explained a lot of her short-comings as a mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:35 AM
3

I’ve been wondering about how the women in this sub deal with NVM or LVM male family members. Personally, my father and brother fall into these categories and I have had to cut them out of my life. They only see women as an accessory to themself. My father never allowed me any agency over myself or had any respect for my boundaries or needs. It’s hard to put up with this behavior from men we date but with family members it can be soul-crushing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:19 AM
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We support you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:10 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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