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| -26 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)God forbid our clicks go to women instead of men 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 300 | The audacity of pick-me ‘friends’LOL apparently the ppl asking why that’s weird are men since their comments aren’t even showing. OP don’t bother responding when someone asks why that’s weird. Sane people know why it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 11:57 AM |
| 8 | is this creepy or is that me? Why doesn't he trust her?Omg this made me burst out laughing ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 07:25 PM |
| 36 | Love bombing/narcissist?Block and delete dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 69 | A New Vetting Strategy???Im sorry but what is the strategy here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 01:32 AM |
| 5 | Is this meant to be like satireLmao that’s totally a troll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:05 AM |
| 15 | Will Smith’s Slap, Protecting Black Women and My Own Experience Being Unprotected by Black MenOmg there’s a thread where they’re saying she’s physically abusive!!! Fucking insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 80 | reminder: power, not empowerment; equity, not equalityCareful now, lotsa women here don’t want to analyze their relationship with beauty rituals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Major trigger warning. This is what pro kink / pro sex work activists are advocating for. They always rant about women having bodily autonomy & making their own choices, but does it look like the people who engage deeply in kink are mentally healthy? I’m sorry, but this mentality is psychotic.I more so meant that it sounds like a man pretending to be a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 02:26 PM |
| 167 | Major trigger warning. This is what pro kink / pro sex work activists are advocating for. They always rant about women having bodily autonomy & making their own choices, but does it look like the people who engage deeply in kink are mentally healthy? I’m sorry, but this mentality is psychotic.This sounds like cosplay Edit : sounds like a man pretending to be a woman for those who misunderstood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 198 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.Lmao the whole “bimbo” trend is just becoming popular because of the number of transwomen who are into it. That’s who’s saying it’s empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 12:50 PM |
| 22 | What in the apron strings?!For sure. Story is 100% fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 72 | Ted Bundy and the power of pornPro-porn people love to say it was just because an ultra Christian group was involved. What they completely ignore is the AMPLE evidence police of hundreds of cities/counties have on their local serial killer who was also watching porn. They love to ignore that. Or somehow pretend men taking pictures of their own victims is somehow different than porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:57 AM |
| 530 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?Is anyone else ever just shocked at this mindset? Can you imagine caring SO MUCH about something so small your partner likes? How insane! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 09:48 PM |
| 45 | Coming straight from one of the most deranged serial killers of all time. Here’s another reminder to stay the hell away from men who watch porn.Why in the world people claim Ted Bundy was handsome is beyond me. That’s just gross mens propaganda because he looks like them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 25 | Man admits he uses liberal feminism to his benefit to save money on 50/50 dates & get easy sex on the dating market. He loves 3rd wave feminist women who “flooded the market with easy sex.” Straight from the horse’s mouth - Lib. Feminism benefits MEN. Get rid of LibFems now & replace them w/RadFems.This is SO stupid. All men know when they give women extra nice attention it makes her like him. Like look how many women end up with the WORST guys because he complimented her a little in the beginning? I guess he just wants a woman who expects the tiniest bit of nice-ness and not actual sweetness? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 01:30 PM |
| 130 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.All this. Very few people realize you can shape your own perspective and then actually work on it. Also, I wish we could popularize the idea that men are cowardly for staying in relationships they secretly complain about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:09 PM |
| 17 | What counts as toxic femininity in 2022Even if you’re not a hottie, why wouldn’t you want that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:11 PM |
| 33 | What counts as toxic femininity in 2022Let me know if someone explains it… I’m guessing it’s 6’ tall, 6” dick and…. Not sure what the last would be. 6 figures?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 07:38 PM |
| 658 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!She had a seizure. Is anyone in the comments pointing that out? 100% she had a seizure. You’re super sleepy after them too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 15 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮The crazy thing is that the grocery store, Walmart, the pharmacy - literally any store you walk into has already given men a roadmap to what to get someone for Valentine’s Day. Even women who aren’t into it, would think flowers and a teddy bear are cute in an ironic way. So why in the fuck men purposefully miss that shit is beyond me. It’s so fucking SIMPLE and EASY to get someone something. It’s insane! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:16 PM |
| 28 | Tonight is the night…What else are you going to do at a party?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:10 PM |
| 43 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Lmao this had me cackling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:47 PM |
| 9 | I’m 37, I might be single for ever — and I’m happy with thatGod. You’re living my dream. If I could afford to have a kid alone I 100% would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 39 | The darker underside of the “cool girl”100%. Wish this was talked about more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:53 PM |
| 41 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?I’ve noticed this is an age thing. Young women realize men are looking at them at a very young age, resent being female and cover their body. As they get older they try out wearing things to attract men. With enough time most of us realize that gets you nowhere and eventually we get practical. I still have sexy clothes and I’ll still wear them. But I 100% realize how disempowering it all really is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:37 PM |
| 41 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!He’s looking back and romanticizing it. Guaranteed he didn’t hold that flame for her. But now that he has to be an adult and a parent he wants to go back to that life. Men are so predictable and dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 41 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.Lmao I love how working out is highlighted so much… as if men don’t solely do that to attract women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Are you unconsciously sabotaging/punishing yourself because of past shame?He asks me the strangest questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:23 AM |
| 21 | Are you unconsciously sabotaging/punishing yourself because of past shame?Someone Im dating asked me how I felt going through puberty. Puberty is singularly the WORST time in any woman’s life. Suddenly at 12 (sometimes earlier) all these GROWN ass men start leering at you and making you uncomfortable. It doesn’t stop for another 2 decades and then suddenly we’re invisible. Every woman I know has this experience. It’s so depressing how no one talks about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:10 PM |
| 182 | The Euphoria ConversationThat show is so fucked up. Wolf of Wall Street was supposed to be a commentary on debauchery and you were supposed to hate the main character. Well… men love it. They idolize it. It’s the same shit with euphoria. Young people 100% idolize and romanticize it. There’s no narrator or actual criticism so the viewer can go “oh that’s fucked up”. That’s the problem with making something like that beautiful even though you’re trying to crticiise it. It’s too wrapped up in the beautiful filming and peop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:30 PM |
| -11 | Man pretends to be doctor, lawyer and council official to control his girlfriend. Story in the comments:Well that seems like an important aspect of the story that was left out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 57 | A couple celebrate their 81st anniversary & I wonder any of us will get to experience this 🥲😭Ugh. These people live for 100 years and the ONLY photos that exist of them are when they’re teenagers & ridiculously old? No photos from their 40’s when they’re really working hard? God the world hates anyone with gray hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 02:00 PM |
| 15 | Insecure Men Will Destroy RelationshipsThis is my ex. Now that the relationship is over I realized he hated himself and thought I was a fucking moron for seeing anything in him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 04:17 AM |
| 19 | How to navigate questions about my family (when No Contact) while dating?I would never tell a man all the trauma I’ve faced. There’s literally no reason to. It’s just going to serve to retraumafize you. My therapist actually told me the same thing. Be vague and just leave it at you don’t talk to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Interpreting a scrote's sad tale…. Mountain biking is not an expensive hobby like horseback riding. You can drop a lot of money but it’ll be invested for years. The way people are talking about his hobby is really misleading. Having art as a hobby, sewing, are both way more expensive than mountainbiking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:39 AM |
| 77 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayThe “motivated and clear thinkers” I know don’t have cars that randomly don’t start. He’s trying to act like he’s secure in his career and I bet he drives a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Only a scrote takes it personallyWhat do you think the chances are the speaker is a woman? And just pretending they don’t understand the fear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Only a scrote takes it personallyThe only violent men I’ve ever dated were shorter than me. It’s like they had to be violent to prove they’re still a man. I’ll only date tall men now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Only a scrote takes it personallyAre we all going to sit here and pretend that we’re at risk from “male presenting” women? Butch women NEVER get harassed, nothing ever happens to them, and they commit crimes as the same rate as men. /s Edit - so glad ya’ll already called that shit out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:42 PM |
| -1 | High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream DressThis is highly questionable. Sewing can be in fact MORE expensive than thrifting or TJ Maxx… so I find it hard to believe she couldn’t find any other dress she could afford. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 01:51 PM |
| 19 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyYou see this online all the time. It’s crazy how everyone suddenly has PTSD when you go online. Oh and all parents are narcissists that need to be cut out of your life. God forbid parents have a life outside of their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:49 PM |
| 13 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerOmg I’ve never seen anyone else say that. I feel the same way. It’s so unbelievably easy for men to be muscular and lean, yet still only a few actually get off the couch and eat well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 01:22 AM |
| 7 | Was wondering if any FDS ladies on here have lost interest in dating after finding a job with a healthy environment and/ making more money?In a similar vein, I didn’t leave my toxic job until I broke up with my ex. I got a new wonderful job and have only recently started dating again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Scrotal audacityOne more piece of evidence that men agree with FDS. We think she’s stupid, he thinks she’s stupid. Men know they’re awful and know what pickmes are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/22 10:20 AM |
| 10 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Men will joke in person and in text to their friends about the pickup lines they’ve sent. They’ll send each other screenshots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 26 | Queen of the Pickmes Ghislaine Maxwell found GUILTY on all counts of sex traffickingYea, no. The conspiracy theory about her having those handles is ridiculous and meant to make people forget that Reddit still harbors pedophiles and misogynists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:27 PM |
| 51 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Lmao @ the line. I recently got on old and the second I got that line I said to the guy “isn’t it funny how pickup lines get trendy on here?” Men say cheesy pickup lines to impress other men, not women. Idk how they ever work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateWhat the fuck kind of sub is this posted in? Who the fuck cheers for someone who gets hit on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:01 AM |
| 16 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Im sorry but how is no one criticizing this person spent $ trying to get a degree, dropped out of school because of “depression” and has no plan to work on their skills and make better money, and also didn’t seem to even research their career before getting loans. Why are we all supposed to view this person as a victim of the system and a victim of some debilitating, untreatable condition? Do we expect no personal accountability anymore? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 40 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔I had an ex who would work 12 hours and then ride his bike 30 min just to sleep with me. We maybe had an hour together of awake time. And then he’d go back to work. If they wanted to they would. Edit : and I mean literally sleep - not sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 08:49 PM |
| 42 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsNot to mention they’ve been together 7 months. So he knew these were deal breakers but dragged her along for 7 months? He just wanted to fuck her and now he’s hoping she’ll get sad and let him do what he wants to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Finally ready to date again after getting a well paying job!Love this post!! We need to see more like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 09:35 PM |
| 131 | Why are men like thisOr goes faster/slower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | My FDS post gets shared across another sub, and now my inbox is flooded. HELP.Edit this post and delete the text and save it. You’re calling on our sub to brigade and that can get us banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:03 PM |
| 49 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Your hips spread!!! Like your literal bones change. Some womens feet get wider and STAY WIDER. Men are so insensitive about how much it changes you physically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:03 PM |
| 14 | Forever GF finally done after being forced to care for BF's stinky slobbering furbabyIm sorry, but I read this type of shit and I don’t feel sorry, I don’t feel sympathetic. All I can think is that I hope I never run into that person in real life because they must be a Grade A moron. Like run a red light moron. Get over in traffic without a blinker or checking their blind spot. Six fucking years dude? Fucking stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | “How to Cure a Feminist...pretend to share her beliefs”, published in the Maxim magazine. Beware Ladies, vet the men claiming to be advocates.Im not going to lie, #3 cracks me up. Men know that liberal feminism is just pandering to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Was your dad an HVM?Im very skeptical of the HVM tally considering how many women come here talking about their HVM who’s so obviously a dud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 10:24 PM |
| 182 | In North America, why is prostitution illegal but “massage parlours” AKA brothels operate so blatantly everywhere?But SoMe WoMeN LiKe iT Edit: every article about that Sandusky douche had people saying “well they were trafficked, that’s why it’s bad” “some women want to do that”. No. No woman WANTS to do that. But if you’ve been groomed, have mental health issues, physical health issues and society makes it seem like it’s EaSy MoNeY then, yea, you might end up choosing to do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I feel like all hope is lost.Wait - I bet there was uproar over the Thinx ad because they said “women”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Been dating a decent guy for about 3 years years on and off. Sent me a screenshot that had message notification from another girl🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:52 PM |
| 6 | Been dating a decent guy for about 3 years years on and off. Sent me a screenshot that had message notification from another girl“On and off” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:51 PM |
| 60 | LVM/NVM Child Predators Grooming Young Teens For Nudes in the Guise of “Sex Positivity” - Mom Says She Tried To Prevent Daughters From Falling Victim To Online Predators, But They Were Still GroomedThis is just another reason why men having Snap Chat is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 62 | Van life with a grown up child! Any ladies jealous yet?A lot of these van lifers come from money and end up staying in a hotel every few days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩Except there’s a real life case of this and nothing happened when he isolated the first women. Took him killing a woman for anything to be done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:31 PM |
| 11 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.I refuse to believe this is real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 10:50 PM |
| 53 | UK considering making it criminal to cat call women. (My take: gee, you couldn’t holler at another minority and everyone say it’s ok…)This is the UK. Other developed nations don’t have issue with abortion. I swear the only reason the US is considered developed is because of our top 3%. Most of our countrymen are so fucking backwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 01:58 PM |
| 23 | Don't let the man downgrade you!Dude, you ignored SO MANY red flags. Your post is exactly why FDS says not to get invested early. You had to make a whole post about someone YOU DIDNT EVEN MEET. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFLmao “they just don’t know what ladies want” after you had to REPEATEDLY tell him what you wanted? God some women are so fucking pathetic, I’m sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 18 | Woman posts about her LVM in 2015 . . . and then updates SIX years later about leveled up lifeGod I hope this is real! Talk about leveling up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:29 PM |
| 121 | I have no wordsHe says in the comments that his family made fun of his ex gf for “acting like a princess” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:42 AM |
| 330 | I have no wordsI agree, there’s something more insidious behind this and I wonder what else he does for her to dip out without a word like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:04 AM |
| 11 | Sexual issues in a HV relationshipRight? So many women here talk about how looking back they had mediocre, even shitry sex with mediocre men that they at some point thought were HV. But we’re all going to ignore maybe OPs partner isn’t as perfect as she thinks? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:46 AM |
| 14 | Anyone Else Tired Of Sexism In The Gym/Fitness Culture?Im so burnt out and tired of the fitness community. There’s so much pressure to wear the tightest clothes and look cute while working out. All the guys I’ve dated in the past 5 years were turned on by sports bras and general workout wear. They’d openly admit it as if I wanted to know they specialized me 24/7. Im probably not articulating it well, but I just got so tired of how I felt and how I knew men were looking at me when I wore workout clothes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:39 AM |
| 6 | Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS systemI just listened to a podcast episode where a man murdered a woman by taking her out on his boat. He’s tried to murder another woman before her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:33 AM |
| 9 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.You should also re-evaluate your STAHM plan… you don’t want to end up divorced, not able to make it to middle management because you never worked, and working yourself to death to take care of your kids while your ex increasingly makes more and more money because YOU did everything at home, hosted all the parties to impress his coworkers, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships.There’s so many things in here that don’t fit with FDS at all. For example, you think it’s fine to decide to stay with someone who won’t commit, but he “fucks good”…. FDS says don’t have sex until you’ve vetted for a few months… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:58 PM |
| 121 | Politician says female Doctor Who is to blame for young male violence on International Man’s DayIs there an uptick in violence in the UK? Also He phrases it as if more women used to commit crime… men have ALWAYS committed crime at higher rates than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 95 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?You shouldn’t be dating. Not being able to stick up for yourself is how women end up married to horrible men who treat them like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:53 PM |
| 32 | Lvm telling on themselves: "sex work is a valid profession" and yet he would "never touch that sk@nk with a 10 ft pole"Yea, what a weird fucking answer he gave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:13 PM |
| 108 | "Men don't actually like women, they want to have sex with female anatomy, but they don't like women."Yea. The “lots of women are leaning into queerness” just makes me think of young girls who go by “they” because they like to wear plaid, but still date men. That’s not a global resistance or feminist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 02:03 PM |
| 19 | Thanksgiving red flagsI noticed this phenomenon in middle school, in high school I vowed to never be in the kitchen with the women and boy do I get looked down on for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:48 PM |
| -7 | I see posts like this weekly - thank god the comments unanimously say GTFO ASAP. But how heartbreaking that this woman WITH AN MBA has resorted to CAMMING and is putting up with this for some scrote she's dated for 5 WHOLE MONTHS?!?!?!??!🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:26 PM |
| 9 | Where have all the young male novelists gone? *I wonder why young men aren’t writing (or reading) books anymore*White women can also be gay…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 33 | I see posts like this weekly - thank god the comments unanimously say GTFO ASAP. But how heartbreaking that this woman WITH AN MBA has resorted to CAMMING and is putting up with this for some scrote she's dated for 5 WHOLE MONTHS?!?!?!??!If you’re married to someone presumably you’ve vetted longer than 5 months. We constantly see women quickly move in with a man and he turns psycho and she’s trapped. If women decided not to do that until marriage, you’ll have more time to vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 4 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.Lmao “he didn’t realize”? Apparently your bf is a fantastic liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the BurdenThis reads like a men’s rights article cloaked in a feminist wig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 5 | "I Killed My Children" Andrea Yates | Psychotic Break or Evil? I really enjoyed this video on Andrea Yates. This is a perfect example of a woman being failed by doctors and her husbandWasn’t she in a cult? I listened to a podcast who had on another member of that cult. Apparently it was common for parents to “wish” their kids were in heaven and obsess on their death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:03 PM |
| 19 | The described woman seems to be awful, but can we notice that he doesn’t like her YET he still hopes to have sex with her?Lmao right? Pakistanis and Indians have a huge beef. Like google some world news before posting shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:51 PM |
| 27 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & ThanksgivingI can’t believe I had to scroll so far down to see this. The bf screams red flags and triangulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:57 PM |
| 68 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & ThanksgivingDon’t you think it’s odd she knows what his dad says behind her back? So is most of the cruel stuff relayed to her by her boyfriend? Sounds like triangulation. I’m very suspect about how “nice” this boyfriend even is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Professor's controversial interview defending 'minor-attracted persons' prompts statement from schoolOk why does this professor trust the men he talked to haven’t offended?? Not having been arrested does not mean you haven’t committed a crime. Pedophiles are like alcoholics, you’re never going to know how much they TRULY drank when they were drinking. It’s shameful and no one wants to admit it. And then you throw in the legality? The professor is a fucking moron if he thinks None of them have committed a crime. Unless the professor has no care for the very real children who are showed in child … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:16 PM |
| -8 | Zach galifiankisI’m sorry but this just SCREAMS red flag to me. I’ve seen “good guys” do this shit, pretend their feminist, but they’re just hiding behind that charade to make women comfortable with them. Why couldn’t he have asked a woman to help him get the guy to not bother you? Or tell you about creepy men? A grown ass strange man telling a teenage girl - he’s never met- to beware of older men, except him! Listen to him because he’s one of the nice guys, is just fucking weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Omg this makes me so sad. I can only assume she’s had a rough go of it since she wants to make that disgusting place her home. She’s better off investing in therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Let’s count the red flags together!$100 for two people over the course of 6 hours is NOT an expensive date…. If they just had cocktails that’s like an entre and 2 drinks per person at a normal restaurant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:49 PM |
| 36 | Today I actually realised that "if he wanted to, he would"Im so tired of the relationship posts on Reddit where women get called superficial for wanting thoughtful gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 5 | When two people try to out-LV each otherRight? Their life reminds me of a TV show. I didn’t think people really engaged in that much drama in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.Lol this is a perfect response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:48 PM |
| 38 | After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.I doubt this is real. It reads like some disgusting redditor’s fantasy. Cum and icing don’t even look alike. It’s prob some dude who’s into that weird bimbo fetish shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:51 PM |
| 5 | In most cases, it is a bad, bad idea to buy a house, especially your childhood home, with a bf, not a husband 🚩10 years together, no ring 🚩he makes > $100k, she $60k, but planning to split mortgage 50/50 🚩house is barely affordable even with their combined income. Ways this can go south in 3…2…1I’m so tired of seeing women wait around for a man to start investing in property. Like she could be looking at rental property to supplement her income. But no. She’s waiting for a man who won’t even marry her for financial security. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Sexy vs ConfidentWe can’t separate societal standards and how clothing makes us feel. If you feel sexy alone in your house because a dress is making you feel sexy, it’s making you feel sexy because of the cultural meaning around it. It’s absolutely impossible to separate societal conditioning from how we feel about ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 04:19 AM |
| 62 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingThis. They also don't realize how many girls stripping are under age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:23 AM |
| 25 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩LMAO this should be tagged as humor. "I love this extra skin" OK buffalo bill. lmao This shit isn't real ladies. Whoever wrote that is either a really funny troll or you won't give the time of day to them. Why are we wasting our time on this? "this extra thickness makes me feel so good when in you" LMAO what the fuck? This is why I think it's a troll, saying "I like your curves" is perfectly acceptable. But no. He says "This extra thickness makes me feel so good when in you"... not even "i'm in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:41 PM |
| 28 | The Baby Trap Scammany men just don’t drop the mask until pregnancy, when women are at our most vulnerable. Facts. Society loves to ignore that women are most vulnerable 1. when they leave an abuser and 2. when they become pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 05:16 AM |
| 6 | I made a mistake and was too friendly. How do I backtrack and establish boundaries with my male classmate?Her advice is perfectly clear. You need to focus on yourself, and decide what kind of person you want to be. Do you want to be someone who puts yourself in situations you admit are embarrassing and uncomfortable because a man asked you to do it? Where you go from here is to stop obsessing over boys and focus on yourself. | /r/askFDS | 16/10/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Gabby Petite’s cause of death has been released as strangulation. Does anyone else think Laundries team will try to use sex as a defense?They haven't found him yet right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 12:39 PM |
| 58 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isThe term really just shows you how heavily porn has influenced young people. Not wanting to fuck a bunch of strangers is suddenly a sexual orientation? Give me a break. It's disheartening that so many women/girls view themselves as "different" or needing a label because men have convinced us that we are sexual objects and that we want to be sexual objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/21 05:05 AM |
| -99 | This post will probably be removed.Dude, you don't even post any content in this sub. Why are you complaining/ You can't complain about what gets engaged in a sub and then do absolutely nothing to have the content you want to see posted in the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:46 AM |
| 0 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)I don't know about that. And I don't know if she wasn't coherent because she was nervous. but to me it really seemed she couldn't articulate her ideas because she was slightly worried about saying the wrong thing. I do disagree with the other posters who criticize her for being conservative and are pretending that automatically makes her a bad person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:36 AM |
| 33 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)I understand that. But if you've changed parties by 18 it's just because you were trying to fit in, it's not because you actually believed in those ideals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 153 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)I don't think elle was very articulate in her comments. She kind of flip flopped around, she didn't really have her points mapped out. For example she says that she's all about individual rights and then goes on to say that the individual could also be a nuclear family, a business, etc. Also, how can she say she was ever liberal when she literally never voted for a democrat? It makes no sense. And she joined the military at 18 and immediately "became" conservative.... She's always been conservat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 03:54 AM |
| 30 | 122k likes on reddit 🤮Oh and suck his dick and don't expect him to lick your smelly pussy, he has bodily autonomy too you know! /S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Bad... But not unexpected... 💔What's the connection with the lesbian couple that was found murdered? It seemed like the 2 incidents are really far away from each other too. Is it just speculation from people who don't realize that? It could also be news stories not giving the right areas lol. The La Sals are real far away from where Gabby was found though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:15 AM |
| 118 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨Oh but the B word and C word are fine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 17 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Right? I know someone who found out her husband had a gf for 3 years. She finally got ahold of one of his other credit cards and the amount of money he spent on her was insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 85 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄The whole point of that article is to pretend that men hiding money is the same thing as women having separate money to escape an abusivo relationship. Yea. Let’s all pretend that men don’t abuse women; women don’t need escape bank accounts and the sex’s are equal. Woo hoo! Whoever wrote the article or thought it was a good idea clearly ignores the obvious discrepancy in intimate partner violence. Let’s all play pretend!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:59 AM |
| 3 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most PsychopathsWomen like you are why women don’t travel and try to experience new things. If I listened to ppl like you I wouldn’t have accomplished half my dreams. Saying women can travel if they’re cautious and giving advise on how to do it is not putting women in danger. Also if you knew ANYTHING about human trafficking you’d know that it’s most likely done by a bf or parent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 5 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most PsychopathsSo you watched a documentary and know what it’s like to sleep at a truck stop? And you’re advising a well lit place with 24/hr workers, 3 entrance doors is more dangerous to sleep at than any other remote place? “Yea girl, go on down the road to that remote gas station and sleep there instead of this well known truck stop, with tons of lights, friendly workers who you can give your state and license plate to” You realize you can leave your car at a truck stop and know have it towed if you give t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:52 PM |
| 6 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most PsychopathsWe’re saying the same thing. I’m just saying they’re not as dangerous as ppl make them out to be. Not anymore than a campsite. In fact I’d be interested to see if there’s been an increase in women going missing from campsites because it’s gotten so trendy. Im just saying if you’re sober, keep your wits about you, truck stops really aren’t that bad. I’ve stayed at a ton across the whole US. And quite frankly if you are homeless, with a car, you’re safer locked in your car under a light in a truck… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Help I’ve Become Absurdly Hot Since I Got Married and Now I Want to Dump The Only Woman Who Ever Wanted to Fuck Me So I Can Become The Porn Star Of My DreamsI will never understand how you can be on a journey of improvement and just leave your partner in the dust. I’ve asked every bf I’ve had to work out with me. And sometimes we breakup because it’s clear we’re incompatible regarding activity. But I can’t imagine MARRYING someone and just deciding “they’re not hot” instead of figuring out WHY they won’t get in shape. She’s trying fad diets, the desire is clearly there. I guarantee instead of pumping her up and loving on her, he’s apathetic at best.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumYep! This is how I explain abusive relationships. Women don’t stay with men who slap them on the first date. They stay with men who buy them flowers, dinner, pretend they love them, THEN slap them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumHe spent a whole 20 seconds going to the bedroom and bringing a fuzzy item back to you! How HV! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 13 | Empowering Question to Women Engaging in Hookup Culture (watch till the end)I don’t think it’s a coincidence that most of our music, movies, tv, etc. has been written by men. And they have a huge influence on what shapes our culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 9 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most PsychopathsLmao I’ve slept at a lot of truck stops. They’re not that bad. Like I’ve literally been homeless, sleeping out of my car, sleeping in a new city each night. The problem is when you clearly are lost, on drugs. People underestimate how much LOOKING confident and being aware of your surroundings saves you. Most women killed who have been picked up at truck stops are prostitutes. We tell women/girls our value is our body and then completely neglect women who rely on that. We have NO safety nets spec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 11 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most PsychopathsRight? I’d never date an actor and the way this sub idealizes them really bothers me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 27 | Very Young Girls - Important documentary about commercial sexual exploitation and why we should fight for a world where girls are not for saleThat was so upsetting. To see these men offered their records expunged and LITTLE GIRLS having to do parole? Are you fucking kidding me??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 89 | Very Young Girls - Important documentary about commercial sexual exploitation and why we should fight for a world where girls are not for saleFUCK THOSE WHITE SEX WORK IS WORK LIBERAL FUCKING FEMINISTS Right from the get go you see there’s a world of difference between who’s pretending sex work is work and who is actually living that life. God it pisses me off so much to see the discrepancy. Some white dick on Twitter is going to say “we need to protect sex workers”. Ok so you make prostitution legal? You don’t think pimps are going to get these under age girls IDs to show they’re of age?? You are going to facilitate brothels selling … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:54 PM |
| 15 | Where is the lie, tho?Lmao this reminds me of how in high school all the gross kids were having the most sex. They’d constantly swap partners, make out in the hall. They’d try to hug you because you politely smiled at them. There were never rumors or inappropriate behavior by the attractive kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 22 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardI actually found myself in an abusive relationship with this method. Except it included normal affection. I slowly got to the point where I’d do anything for a hug. It was awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:43 PM |
| 185 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areOh god I’ve noticed this too. Every man loves “hiking” and “travel”. God forbid you actually try to plan a trip with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 5 | His "Worst fear" he says...That thread is full of men saying “ppl change! It’s like none of you have been in a relationship”. Ugh no. He didn’t change. He didn’t want kids with his previous partner. He knew it. He dragged her along. And then he found someone he thinks either elevates his profile, his ego, or she’s easier to control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:20 PM |
| 44 | Some men say, men going for much younger women or even teenagers is just "biology". I just realised adult men who try to be with teenagers/much younger women usually end up alone.Right? A strong stomach with a lil pouch would be attractive too. Muscles and some fat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:31 PM |
| 7 | The audactiy knows no bounds.This has to be a joke post. Paying rent and being open to FWB??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:28 PM |
| 8 | 20 Things to Think About When Dating a Man Who Games 🎮Our male lurkers came out in full force to upvote this post lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:18 PM |
| 19 | Four years for choking her during sex. This is not okay.So if a man likes being stabbed during sex we can just do it? Look at how much time women who have actual evidence of years of being abused get vs this piece of shit. Laws are made by men, for men. This is why we need more women in law enforcement and government. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 34 | Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞Can we stop with posts about this dude? Who the fuck cares about him? 1 post was fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:10 PM |
| 4 | Free Solo - Movies with a FDS LensTheir relationship seems so toxic. She globbed onto him because she had nothing going on in her own life. He’s clearly apathetic about dating, prob gets women fawning all over him (rock climbers have groupies and it attracts women with ‘casual sex is empowering’ ideals. His friends don’t like her. She fawns all over him. He’s not HV but quite frankly if I were him I’d be as apathetic or annoyed by her as he is. OH! She went on to be a “life coach” so she’s basically riding the high of being with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 48 | Why do males think it's okay to rank women?They try to pretend our sub rates men when we just have 2 categories of personality. You’re either a shitty dude, or you’re a good dude. That’s LV vs HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:10 AM |
| 117 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Because society values men’s personalities and women’s looks. Why do you think only women wear makeup? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:00 PM |
| 5 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.One of my ex’s never asked if I orgasmed and refused sex if I initiated. It was like he could only get turned on if I wasn’t sexually available. My more recent ex was the complete opposite. Always checked in and was almost always responsive when I initiated. We were so comfortable with each other I’d ask if I could masturbate when he wasn’t in the mood, and he was totally fine with it. I mean he almost always got turned on. But even if he hadn’t, it’s nice to be with someone who doesn’t mind you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:18 AM |
| 3 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?I saw a man with a beard on the lesbian app. Oh but he had long painted nails, so it’s ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 44 | My mother’s analogy on BDSM“BDSM is just trauma bonding”. That’s what woke me up to realize how fucked up it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Always keep your coins snatchedI realize now that this is my ex. He 100% wanted me to take care of him. He grew up upper middle class whereas I grew up fairly poor. So our relationship with money was different and I think he wanted to rely on me to make sure the bills were paid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:07 PM |
| 11 | Letting men off the hookI remember Oprah getting tons of hate towards the end of her show. She was always called a lesbian as if it was a huge insult. She prob never married her bf because if they broke up she’d have to give him tons of money, but a woman making that smart decision is a lesbian. When a man does it he’s smart. Oh and bromances are a thing and endearing? But her relationship with Gail is weird? If you’re female and powerful you’re doing SOMETHING wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 12:57 PM |
| 30 | 100%You can change 1 word and get your name added as a writer. She’s not a singer songwriter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 40 | 100%Beyoncé doesn’t write any of her lyrics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 07:33 PM |
| 20 | My experience with Female Vets vs Male VetsI’m sorry but buying a dog from a breeder isnt “adopting”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 143 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetWoMeN CaN VoTe NoW - AnD they can wear makeup and make tons of money off their looks while men can’t. We’re in an equal society! Even though men make the majority of CEOs, politicians, bankers, fashion designers, etc. We’re in an equal society. Her bf just HAPPENS to make 3X she does. It’s only FaIr they go 50/50 Because if he actually enabled her to save… buy stocks… buy a house or investment properties… put money in a 401K… he’d be fucking up our equal society! God I fucking hate men sometimes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:22 PM |
| 7 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:52 PM |
| 21 | When you see it..Honestly the only women I know with this issue are super active on social media or social circles and seem to want attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:26 PM |
| 20 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?The red pill has nothing to do with why young women aren’t having sex or getting married. It’s a very very small slice of our culture. Women aren’t interested in relationships because we can finally choose not to have them, and men aren’t stepping up to the plate to show us why we should be with them. Women don’t want to be mommy bang maids that also work. And men aren’t realizing that and doing better. That’s it. It’s not hard to figure out. We just won’t be used anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 11 | This is probably exactly how some scrotes process mundane, everyday transactions… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 72 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...Right? I used to do 50/50 on groceries with bfs. And then I realized they are WAY more than me. They would literally eat 75-90% of the food bought. My most recent ex actually ate 99% of them. I’d buy ingredients for sushi, we’d eat the same amount. But then when I’d go back over all the leftover ingredients would be gone. Vegan sushi btw. Lol it wasn’t like I was expecting raw fish to be waiting a week for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Well… I get women get trapped in abusive relationships and the psychology of it. But. I wouldn’t assume he’s abusive. He’s lazy and he doesn’t want to do anything for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:07 PM |
| -5 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Right? I have a hard time feeling sympathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 29 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Im sorry but does anyone else read this type of stuff and think “god you’re fucking stupid”. She had a child with someone who won’t buy pads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:44 PM |
| 37 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Oh I’m sure our fan club reposted my comment to show how awful we are. They prob said “the guys just trying to help some poor woman! And they’re hoping he gets robbed! Those women are awful!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 462 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.God I hope he gets fucking robbed. Wouldn’t you love to say “sure bud” and steal all his shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 01:55 AM |
| 24 | I need help finding an article that was posted on this sub.It wasn’t just free labor though. They went on strike at their jobs too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 07:16 PM |
| 236 | Study suggests that I don't give afI saw that on the front page and rolled my eyes because of course men want to be desired. We ALL do. But you can’t expect women to go crazy over you if you don’t take care of yourself, stay hygienic and treat your gf like a mother/maid. Edit : they need to do a study on why women aren’t attracted to their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Infantilization and the body hair debateYes! Thank you! Even our food preferences are cultural! How can ppl not see how our entire identity/preferences are shaped by other ppl/society? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:18 PM |
| 22 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?I think your danger situation should be changed to more practical things. Like does he make sure he locks the door when he leaves you? Does he drive safely? If you go hiking does he stay behind and steady you? Or pull you up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:44 AM |
| 67 | Surprising new perspectives on male sexuality...I read that in the UK sex abuse between minors is rising. Like 10 year olds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:55 PM |
| 31 | Surprising new perspectives on male sexuality...Corporations have so many subsidiaries. Idk why we haven’t seen any deep dives into specific writers, opinion pieces, websites, etc. are actually done by pornhub. The internet research agency campaigned HARD against FOSTA/SESTA, reputable American news sources were linking to them. and sure as shit it came out that it was a Russian owned company. And we know that Russia has a huge hand in prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:50 PM |
| 13 | Would you elope with a man who is involved in an active investigation regarding sex trafficking minors?🤒I think that’s the one I was referring to. Or are there 2 sons? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | The "Western Feminism.” Yes, glad she is addressing this! All women deserve bodily autonomy. This idea that women in Afghanistan “don’t need western feminism” is so damaging in its own way.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:01 AM |
| 129 | Would you elope with a man who is involved in an active investigation regarding sex trafficking minors?🤒Jesus I can’t even follow this story. He supposedly has a son living with him suddenly. He’s clearly guilty of having sex with young girls. Are they getting married to hide it??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:32 PM |
| 105 | Infantilization and the body hair debateEncouraging women to remove their body hair is just another tool of the patriarchy. I don’t care if you say you “do it for you”. It’s meant to keep women’s focus on their looks instead of focusing on learning finances, life skills etc. and keep us wasting money on our looks so we can’t get ahead. For every $100 you’re spending on removing your body hair, a man is buying stocks, saving his money, etc. Remove your hair if you want ladies but we need to at least RECOGNIZE that it’s mean to oppress … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:45 AM |
| 22 | The "Western Feminism.” Yes, glad she is addressing this! All women deserve bodily autonomy. This idea that women in Afghanistan “don’t need western feminism” is so damaging in its own way.Im so fucking sick of women and men comfy in the US criticizing western powers from preventing the rape, abuse and enslavement of young girls AND BOYS. In rural Afghanistan it’s common for young boys to be raped. Hundreds of female sex slaves were beheaded and left for our soldiers to find. Sitting back and doing nothing isn’t the answer either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:37 AM |
| 11 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 24 - Pre-Sex Sexual Compatibility Tests + Birthday SadBoyI think a lot of women get really close, think they’re having an orgasm and never do too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:04 AM |
| 200 | Woman tells her Scrote boyfriend about a bad sexual experience she had; he is upset because that means "He had a big enough dick to hurt you, and I don't. :("This is why FDS tells women not to share their trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 104 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.Everyone here is acting like the US, UK, Australian, Danish govts did nothing over the past 20 years. You all realize MULTIPLE govts were there trying to give aid, right? Almost all of Afghanistan is tribal run. It’s almost all rural. You can’t force rural, tribal leaders to suddenly change and pretend women are human. Look at women’s liberation in the west. It started over 100 years ago and we’re STILL not equal. The only way we could have continued helping these women was by staying and no one… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 01:29 PM |
| 3 | What's a Killer Supposed to Look Like? Matthew Taylor Coleman confessed to murdering his two children, and, of course, reports of the crime have to insist he was an otherwise good guyAnd god forbid women try to make money while taking care of kids and a house full time. Women are targeted for MLM shit because we’re expected to be moms full time and are denied the same career growth men are awarded. I don’t like being targeted for MLM things, but why does our culture hate on women for trying to hustle?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?“Improves hand eye coordination”? Like playing sports do? Except with sports you have the added benefit of fitness. And real interaction with other humans. So you can improve your social skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 30 | Imagine needing pixels to get in the mood..I hate how she calls that “vanilla” sex. What she’s doing isn’t “vanilla”, it’s totally not normal, and more bizarre or kinky than a woman being on top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 97 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.This is a website where the user base calls parents who limit their kids access to the internet “child abuse”. The general user base is entitled and childish. Why would a 30 year old woman think she’s getting real advice from them?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 16 | I hate how Reddit made me believe porn and being the ‘cool girl’ is perfectly normal.Let’s be real, that dude was talking about “gummers” to make you insecure and feel like you couldn’t satisfy him. He’s objectifying women, preying on a very young woman, then pretending he’s going to go after an 80 year old. What a fucking loser. Some men are just so fucking awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:38 AM |
| 50 | An analyzation of age-gap relationships and overcoming pickmeism through Taylor Swift's cinematic music.God I love Fiona Apple. She’s always been amazing. She got completely screwed in Hollywood for it. Her last album was phenomenal. I absolutely love that she used her dogs barking in it. She’s a fucking genius. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:22 AM |
| 14 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsI don’t understand how the west went from “we need to accept women have desires” and want intimacy to it’s perfectly fine to fantasize about violence. Im not sex negative. There’s nothing inherently bad about hook ups (other than women get the short end of the stick). But we should be able to recognize as a society that there ARE sexual desires that are inherently wrong. Like fantasizing about children/violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 07:35 PM |
| 20 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.There’s literally no reason to disclose your trauma to a partner. That’s what therapists are for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:05 PM |
| 19 | Dababy makes some (really stupid and uneducated) verbal comments and gets “cancelled” by a ton of companies/sponsors. Chris Brown beats the crap out of women and no one cares. The most (painfully) ironic thing was that news outlets were publishing “Chris Brown’s reaction to Dababy’s remarks.”It’s because men don’t care about women and this is their way of pretending they care - they’re emotionally detached and mentally elevated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 68 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.Except for the trauma thing. If you “have” to tell a partner your trauma so they know your triggers, you shouldn’t be dating and should be getting more therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteI have a pair of Victoria’s Secret underwear and leggings im mad at myself for not buying 10 pairs of lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteMy mom always told me to wear underwear (any underwear) for this reason lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 78 | FDS hits The Guardian 🥳: ‘Sales funnels’ and high-value men: the rise of strategic dating’Yay Savannah!! Love her quotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:44 AM |
| 8 | Gamer husband, I can't believe what I read.It depends on the state/judge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 12 | For those who remember Derrick Jackson, he cheated on his girlfriend (now wife) when they were dating in college.I think the lesson learned from this should be not to follow self-made advice gurus from social media. You know how you get popular? Marketing and connections, not the quality of your work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:40 PM |
| 9 | Young Gen Z women have been conditioned by porn culture to accept brutality during sexual experiences. We desperately need to reach these poor young womenHonestly it’s depressing only the DailyMail will run stories critical of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:14 PM |
| 49 | Nothin but facts 🗣The no hair thing is what gets me. It’s been completely normalized in porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:51 PM |
| 20 | FDS is not about finding a HVM, it's about finding peaceMe too. That’s why the dead bedroom and relationship subs piss me off so much. Men complain they used to get laid and now their gf/wife doesn’t want sex anymore. And it’s 100% because that mans a user and asshole to her. But they refuse to look at their role in the relationship. Women are very sexual. Men are morons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 205 | LVMs be likeLove languages are such a scam. It’s how LVM explain away that they don’t know what type of gift to get their gf, or how to give a compliment, or how to be loving. Your gf being disappointed you got her roses when yesterday she mentioned how much she loves sunflowers does not mean she hates gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 32 | He really thought he did somethingI couldn’t decide if I loved or hated how it was cut short after she said each thing. Laugh at the end was great though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 17 | So much of our culture, including dating culture and how we are expected to treat men, how we are expected to behave comes from media and movies. And this is how women are represented. Funny true and sad.Right? Once I hit high school I could only watch outlandish horror movies or documentaries. The last time I watched a new movie it was Moana, which was awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:17 AM |
| 20 | So much of our culture, including dating culture and how we are expected to treat men, how we are expected to behave comes from media and movies. And this is how women are represented. Funny true and sad.Lmao “you’re not going to find anything about me, I promise” Honestly that’s how I try to keep my work life and early dates. But she’s SO spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:14 AM |
| 73 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡The other responses or funny and true. But quite frankly this is the most realistic response. Why aren’t they working on themselves, bettering their relationships, learning new hobbies? Our sub exists because so many women have faced abuse. It’s cathartic to come here, and we learn to better ourselves emotionally. I’m here to see Im not the only woman who’s experienced abuse/neglect, is a radfem, and learn to level up. People who go on other subs to report back to a hate club or actively try to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡PM me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:26 AM |
| 20 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡“Ohhh no Mr. Bill!” Women don’t want to be abused or killed! Oh geeeze! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:25 AM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inRight? I have a high libido. My libido drops when a man consistently doesn’t make me cum, I end up being his mom and doing a ton of chores or he stops trying to be sensual/romantic. My ex randomly decided to bathe me in the shower, I can’t tell you how much that turned me on long term. It showed so much care and tenderness. It was basically a soapy massage. And he expected NOTHING afterward. He also kept his room tidy and cooked. We never lost our “spark”. After that relationship i hardcore judg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 8 | Women should not go on hiking dates whether as a first one or as a married couple.Yes, shitty insurance agents who don’t actually see both parties sign documents. There’s A LOT of horrible insurance agents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:18 AM |
| 3 | “Soft” sex-work…?All the strippers I know commiserate about how awful the clients can be. But when they’re not in close company they’ll brag about the money they’re making and about how empowering it is. It’s crazy to me. But then again I wear a suit to work every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 15 | Women should not go on hiking dates whether as a first one or as a married couple.Apparently she didn’t know about the policies, which is very illegal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:04 PM |
| 20 | Women should not go on hiking dates whether as a first one or as a married couple.Holy shit, the guy in the first link killed not one but TWO wives. This is what happens when you give men the benefit of the doubt and have all men investigating women’s deaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:02 PM |
| 5 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friendsTo add onto your post, I always side eye men who prefer in person or phone call conversations. Yea, you can get a better feel for people. But in my experience men often use that as a way to avoid a paper trail and accountability. My ex would yell and curse at me on the phone, all our text disagreements were more respectful, or ended sooner. My NVM ex boss loves to rely on his bad memory. He also deletes ALL his email and I think it’s so he can’t be held accountable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 14 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?I had a guy freeze up and act cold because I had the audacity to say after 3 dates that we’re “dating”. Yea. We’ve gone on a few dates. I might be dating up to 10 guys at once you fucking moron. It’s not like I called him my boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 75 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inThere’s another post on the front page of Reddit with lame ass men complaining their wives won’t fuck them. No one thinks that the multiple studies showing women do more housework and emotional work affects women’s libidos? What about the orgasm gap? No one questions these dudes if they even TRY to make their wife cum or be romantic? Everyone in the comments just calls their wives horrible names because they have the audacity to decline sex, but ask for it later. What the fuck is wrong with men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:40 PM |
| 2 | People complaining about Scarlett Johansson suing Disney for more moneyOh I agree. Honestly it seems harder for women to negotiate. Society expects us to be pushovers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:05 AM |
| 20 | People complaining about Scarlett Johansson suing Disney for more moneyI hate how men waive away the wage gap by saying it’s women’s fault for not asking for more money. They don’t even want to learn about gendered socialization or the history of women’s rights. You’re right though, women need to learn to always ask for more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 01:45 PM |
| 107 | Vetting Strategy: What is He Saying About Simone Biles?It was bizarre how many men pitted her against Serena Williams even though everything I saw showed her being professional. It’s not like she told the people attending that match “ok boo now!”. Why wouldn’t they criticize fans of sports instead of the wildly successful and black female athlete? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 01:31 PM |
| 14 | Dating double standards exposed in a radio showAnyone who thinks men and women are socialized the same is fucking moron. Men will never know what it’s like to be a woman, not just because of biology but because how the world treats us, starting before birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 03:56 AM |
| 16 | Shower thought on why the scrotes are angry with us..I recommended FDS to my coworker like a year ago. She said she checked it out. Good lord I could make a whole gross post about the pickme shit she’s done since then. She’s waiting for a man to buy her a house instead of budgeting and figuring it out herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:32 PM |
| 13 | Shower thought on why the scrotes are angry with us..And quite frankly they seem like they can’t discern truth from fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:30 PM |
| 21 | Say NO to bonding over past traumaYea I’ve had women in this sub pushback about this. They think they need someone who understands their “triggers” and then get mad when I say if your triggers are that bad you need more therapy/time and to not date. And quite frankly I give that advice because I had to learn the hard way. Edit: my mom has disclosed almost all her trauma to me. She said she won’t tell her husband shit. And when we’ve found out some odd things about her, she just keeps her mouth shut, doesn’t answer questions and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Grateful for FDS - Realizing the urgent need to openly and loudly nurture, guide and discipline the new generation of young girls and take a proactive attitude in helping others recognize the need to re-parent themselvesIs this a My Fav Murder plug? JK but the producers started a series about parenting yourself/therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:36 AM |
| 8 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorIm really into the outdoors and I’ve traveled a ton by myself. My ex worked in the outdoors, refused to go anywhere with me, thought everyone place I suggested he couldn’t get excited about. I’ve given him TONS of bragging rights for new girls. They’ll never know the only reason why he’s been to these amazing places is because I fucking dragged his ass. There’s 1 spot in particular that warrants pretty good bragging rights that we backpacked. It’s so annoying at how hard it was to get him to do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:43 PM |
| 12 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorLmao awesome! I live for tales of female mentorship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Just a FDS appreciate post. Thank you mods for doing an amazing job creating a safe space for women on reddit. Every other female centric sub is crawling with losers playing whataboutisms like this guy here. Looked through his post history, he follows degrading holes, r*pe fantasies, and worst.Lmao I’m sure he’d love my username. Until men start getting bits of their penis cut off to more resemble porn stars he should shut the fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Things that are definitely NOT queen energy and why FDS must remain blunt and focused on priorities / real life strategies rather than blind following ideologies and people pleasing everyoneWhat if we feel like the sub has gotten soft? I feel like when the sub started it was mostly mods commenting and god damn was this sub ruthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Glorifying toxic codependent pick-me relationships under the disguise of "Twin Flames"This post just seems like you’re picking on the mentally ill…. And I’m not trying to be funny. It just seems like this discussion probably won’t help anyone. And it just drags women who clearly have severe emotional issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:05 PM |
| 8 | Am i being dramatic “friend” abruptly hung up on me when random LVM called herShe sounds like she equates sex with love and that’s the only way she can get male love. Honestly I would completely back away from this friendship. If you think she might listen if you tell her to stop “dating” and get therapy maybe try that. But quite frankly she’s putting her own child in danger by having random men around all the time. So I doubt she’ll listen to any good advice. | /r/askFDS | 27/07/21 12:52 PM |
| 50 | Doctors are performing pelvic exams on anaesthetised women without consent. If you’re going into surgery you need to explicitly state you don’t want one. Stay safe out there.I agree, I don’t know why her comment isn’t the top comment. My first gyno (who was male) treated me super well. The second was so shitty. I agree women should be wary of male doctors in general. I’ve had AWFUL experiences with regular male doctors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:22 AM |
| 45 | Doctors are performing pelvic exams on anaesthetised women without consent. If you’re going into surgery you need to explicitly state you don’t want one. Stay safe out there.My first gyno was a man. Honestly he was amazing. The nurse put me at ease, he put me at ease, he explained everything he was going to do before he did it. At the end he asked if I had any questions - he was straight forward and informative about both control. I got no creeper vibes. It was all clinical. The second one I had tried to make jokes with me and I fucking hated it. I also felt he let his personal decisions influence his advice. Im Jewish and so was my first doctor, so maybe that was i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 54 | Male friends are a scamMen are only friend with women they’re willing to fuck or are using as emotional support. It’s not deep. All you ladies who claim your male best friend is genuine, ask him if he wants to fuck you and find out. Quite honestly I think it’s inappropriate to stay friends with ppl you’re willing to fuck when you’re in a relationship. You’re just keeping them around as a backup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:12 PM |
| 45 | Ladies, it’s OK not to force yourself to feel attraction.That’s such a good point. And at least arranged marriages involve your family already getting along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 6 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)The way people throw around the word “trauma” is so annoying to me. This isn’t trauma you ass wipe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:22 PM |
| 9 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)When I see anyone talk about how “normal” this is, I just think about how my past 2 boyfriends would get hard when I rested my head on their shoulder. And men are out here making out with a girl and not getting turned on. And then also not revolting against porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 13 | Clearly an FDS lady in the wild, with a sparkly blue penOmg. Watching that caught my breath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:11 AM |
| 71 | Clearly an FDS lady in the wild, with a sparkly blue penThey refuse to eat vegetables. There’s tons of jokes about Taco Bell, or chili giving you diarrhea. I’ve literally never had that issue. Because I’m healthy and eat veggies. Subsidizing farming has created insanely unhealthy diets in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:09 AM |
| 27 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickLmao she should totally text him that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:05 AM |
| 22 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickOh god. I didn’t even think of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:04 AM |
| 106 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickHonestly being called “wide” or “tight” are both insults IMO. Why can’t men just say “you feel really good”?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 85 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickWho fucking knows at this point?? Between porn and male culture it’s always going to be weird. Why can’t men just enjoy our bodies as they are and have loving, respectful sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 20 - The Queens Respond to Listener Feedback + Future Plans for FDS!“We’ve switched gender roles for shittier ones” omg I agree with this so much. Not only are women doing all the shit expected of them in the 50’s, we’re also working full time. Sometimes I think our progress went backwards. Either women need to stop agreeing to be mommy bangmaids, or society needs to pay for more social programs. My manager complained to me one day about paying taxes so kids could get bused to school because their moms work…. That’s the shit we’re dealing with when it comes to f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 20 - The Queens Respond to Listener Feedback + Future Plans for FDS!Im actually completely anti-makeup and one of the annoying radfems they talked about, but I also realize they’re right. I don’t begrudge any woman conforming to beauty standards (I wax my legs every few months and wear makeup for job interviews). But I do wish our sub gave a little pushback on beauty standards. 🤷♀️ we can’t get men to stop pressuring us if we don’t pushback. I don’t want my niece thinking she can only go in public if she has makeup on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 20 - The Queens Respond to Listener Feedback + Future Plans for FDS!Do you listen to the Murder Squad? They’re a lot more informative. I just cringe when they have to apologize for talking about prostitution and pretend some women love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 20 - The Queens Respond to Listener Feedback + Future Plans for FDS!Oooo!! I don’t remember them saying that. That’d be so awesome!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 240 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickApparently being told we’re “wide” is a compliment??? And it’s a common thing in porn? Oh also, most of the commenters said “he’s COMPLIMENTING you”. What the fuck is wrong with men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:13 PM |
| 17 | Why you shouldn’t be a stay at home momAnd I don’t mean any disrespect towards STAHMs. I just think it’s absurd for women to decide to do that thinking they’ll feel fulfilled. It’s a full time job no man respects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 04:37 AM |
| 120 | I hope she got picked 🙄My laughter has worn off and honestly I’m just sad for women. I’m so sad so many young women don’t explore themselves sexually without men and then don’t tell men what they need. Maybe a mod will see this and make a post about it. Because I think it’s really important for women to know how to make themselves orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 03:31 AM |
| 357 | I hope she got picked 🙄Lmao “I stop him because I’d rather do other things” but “our sex life is great” I can’t stop laughing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.Yea I agree. The weird thing is the next year he said he bought his dad a computer and his mom a bike. Idk if that was true or if he could see me pulling away and was trying to impress me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I wrote a guide to help ladies who want to transition into remote workIf you’re saying these are long term goals I agree. But they’re not ways out of sex work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else absolutely hate posts like these? There's just so much to unpack here.I guess I was thinking earbuds, not big headphones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | I wrote a guide to help ladies who want to transition into remote workMost of the job titles you put require training or experience. Project Manager? You think a company is going to hire someone without a PMC or experience? UI/UX requires experience. Tech support? SEO? All of these are lofty goals for someone who doesn’t have training in these fields. Not to mention the resume gap. Im not trying to be super negative or imply sex workers can’t exit. But your post should have more realistic options. Restaurants pay really well. Small insurance agencies don’t require… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Activision Blizzard, publisher of video game titles Call of Duty, World of Warcraft, and Overwatch, is accused of unequal pay, promoting men over women, and widespread sexual harassment.I just want to point out there’s a post on another sub about men winning a lawsuit saying they were fired for being men. And the men in the comments are eating that shit up. They LOVE it. Not to mention the stupid conversations about diversity. “We should only hire on merit”. That’s not how hiring works. There’s a study showing that names that don’t sound white are less likely to be chosen. And there’s tons of evidence that all male cultures breed misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.Whew Lordy. My NV ex waited to the last minute to get his parents gifts. And then gave his mom a gift card? Like wtf. And they probably spent $600 on him. He then returned everything to buy it at a discount somewhere else so he’d have money. He was savvy with money, clearly. But refused to make it himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 44 | Why you shouldn’t be a stay at home momIm sorry but women fought fucking hard, just like 60 years ago, to not have to be stuck in the house. We literally medicated women who were bored and not intellectually challenged. We have countless books and stories about how much women hated it. Why any woman thinks that’s going to be a fulfilling role is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Beware of men who have Instagram accounts for their petsHahahahaha how pathetic. Why are men like this?? Ok. Let’s say these porn stars loved his dog and followed him. And his response it to follow anyone back. You have an Instagram for appearances. So you want to be seen following pornstars? Can you not think about how pathetic that makes you look? Everything about social media is curated. But men STILL can’t stop following porn stars. Ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 5 | ‘Looking for a dog mom’I agree. The best guy I’ve ever dated had 2 dogs. He didn’t look to adopt them either. He asked people he knew who he saw neglecting their dog if he could take it. He saw how awful they were being treated and made it right. He also took on a lot of the work for my dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:29 PM |
| 8 | When a man catcalls you and if you feel safe to do so, take a picture of him. Most end up looking embarrassed because they know what they did was wrongYea I have a huge truck. Since I got it driving has been significantly less stressful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:15 PM |
| 9 | WHAT on Earth IS THIS.Please do not use coconut oil as sunscreen. It has basically no SPF. And I had a dude use it as lube unknown to me. He gave me a yeast infection. You’re safer just buying regular lube. I have used it in my hair but it’s makes your hair super oily. It might take a week to wash it out. The coconut oil craze is overblown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:10 PM |
| 37 | Anyone else absolutely hate posts like these? There's just so much to unpack here.Do women really wear 2 headphones in public? Because I always wear only 1 with low volume, specifically to hear someone approaching. I always assumed all women did that because we don’t want to get snuck up on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:37 PM |
| 87 | The new "shit test" and Another common Neg Found on OLDI don’t see any of this. What I’ve seen is men posting pictures that are old, showing that they used to work out, and when you meet them it’s obvious they dropped those habits. There’s a lot of men out there who mostly care for themselves either with a specific partner or only between partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 01:57 AM |
| 8 | 💕 Dear PickMe; Love, Maya 💕What a relief for him to show his true colors. You dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:58 AM |
| 6 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?🤢 yes, I agree. It’s so gross. It’s almost medical TBH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Well yea, but I mean men IRL behave that way too. I don’t want to be too graphic but once I started dating my ex and he stopped watching porn, he enjoyed holding each other during sex, and the most Id ever heard him moan was when we were holding each other close. It’s like men are too stupid to realize they might be able to cum when not being intimate, but it’s not going to be the best sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 12 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Ugh yea. It’s weird too because they’ll make out and be close but as soon as the clothes are off it’s like they need 3’ of space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:15 AM |
| 184 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?This is such an overlooked issue. It’s so easy to tell if a man watches porn because he doesn’t even want your bodies to be close. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:23 PM |
| 104 | "My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?"This is exactly how I feel about my manager. Minus the sex stuff. I make him money, ensures he keeps making money, I get good reviews, subsidize his lifestyle. Allow him to take days off. He absolutely wants me to suffer and struggle for as little pay as he can. Marriage shouldn’t look like a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 20 | The only advice needed is to break up, delete and block the liarYea this seems fake. I wish users would stop posting outrageous fake shit here. Obviously there’s depraved men out there, but come on. When men have second lives like this there’s way more to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:04 AM |
| 42 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮There’s tons of posts about this on the rest of Reddit. It’s really disappointing to see how many men defend this because “the requirements make money because men only watch women’s sports to ogle them”. That’s not a direct quote. But if you look around you’ll see many upvoted men defending tiny outfits so that men will actually watch women’s sports, because women aren’t as good at sports. It doesn’t even run through their tiny brains that maybe we should just encourage girls and women to be mor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:27 AM |
| 60 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮It will give them an advantage. They won’t be constantly adjusting their outfit or pulling it out of their butt. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:20 AM |
| 61 | Even the CDC knows: men who watch porn are more likely to sexually assaultPoverty is listed… I was a CASA and the president of the children’s hospital came to talk to us about child abuse. She said in babies that you see abuse equal across race and economic status. As kids get older, you mostly find abuse in low income areas. These are statistics she’s talking about. Her theory was that abuse is absolutely even between even across economic status and race. If you’re poor, you can’t keep your child home from school to hide the abuse from teachers. Often school IS your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 06:17 AM |
| 3 | "I discovered my partner was a paedophile. He took me to court 37 times to get my kids "Is there any way you can call moment with the text? Every time I click on an external link Reddit crashes for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:26 AM |
| 14 | This guy has convinced himself that his girlfriend is the problem, despite his explosive anger toward her...I get the context. I just wish I understood where he got the use of that word. He used it multiple times in an unusual word. It’s like he memorized it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 05:53 PM |
| 34 | This guy has convinced himself that his girlfriend is the problem, despite his explosive anger toward her...Oh yea. Idk I kind of assume there’s dif types of attachment. But I guarantee the “theories” are misused. And used as excuses. Just like your “love language”. Yea, fucking and massages is men’s love language? I’m sure they’ve never turned down a gift. Or didn’t feel special when they’re complimented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 100 | This guy has convinced himself that his girlfriend is the problem, despite his explosive anger toward her...I don’t understand why he keeps saying “clumsy”. Is there a new meaning to this word? Also, having to put “technically” means you did something and are trying to get yourself out of it. “I’m not technically a pedophile, I only like 16 year olds”. “I didn’t technically yell, I raised my voice and called her a bitch” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 05:06 PM |
| 15 | Pedophiles in the comments are telling on themselves.Omg I was going to post this. I go on the relationship subs fairly often. You know that the men defending being attracted to 16 year olds are also the guys calling their parents abusive for not paying for their college, making them get jobs, etc. Or even their wives, for asking them to clean. It’s just so obvious what type of person (man cough cough) is on Reddit based on the most upvoted shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 10 | HVpartner, but no attraction after many years - advice wanted!Honestly I think it’s LV to not break up with someone when you know you don’t want them. You sound like you got lonely and worried you wouldn’t find someone better. Just break up with him and work on becoming more decisive. Every successful man I know doesn’t second guess himself. But I don’t know any female self made millionaires, only male self made millionaires. You need to dump him and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 2 | For my Vanilla Queens!Im not sure. But it’s an extremely expensive spice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 02:09 AM |
| 29 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."And while that can be fun to wear…. The pics just seem embarrassing. The swimsuit in the 2nd pic is lackluster too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 18 | On the unequal division of physical trauma when it comes to child bearing; therefore, any baby that I give birth to is getting my last nameI’ve never had kids, but I feel the EXACT same way. I’ve already decided if I ever have a girl she’s going to be named after me and my mother. A boy would be named after my brother, maybe even a name close to mine. I honestly think I’d leave someone if they argued about it with me. But I’ve decided the only way I’m ever having kids is if I can afford to take cars of them alone. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 04:36 PM |
| 53 | Man Pens Important Message On How Anger Can Escalate Into Acts Of Domestic ViolenceLundy Bancroft works with men accused/convicted of domestic violence and says that it’s incredibly rare for a man to actually reform. Honestly, I’m not buying what this dude is selling. Abusers just get better at hiding it. My ex talked A LOT about women’s rights and still abused me, his ex, I’m sure many more women. What he’s saying about abuse isn’t wrong. And I guess it’s good we have a man saying it? But I 100% wouldn’t trust him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 69 | On the unequal division of physical trauma when it comes to child bearing; therefore, any baby that I give birth to is getting my last nameThe number of entitled men in the relationship subreddits that say “it’s the birth of his child too! He gets a say” when it comes to naming the kid, who’s in the delivery room, etc. is fucking unreal. Men literally can’t put themselves in our shoes and think what it might be like to grow something INSIDE OF YOU and then try to push it out of yourself, completely lose all bodily autonomy for a few years, and risk death, or other permanent changes to your body. Some women can’t hold their pee afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 117 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."So this young woman is with a famous, rich, fashion designer? Why did he buy her a cheap ass Target swimsuit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 26 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."You should buy them each cheap ass wine and paste this picture on there. Or just buy 1 and leave it in the office kitchen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:18 PM |
| 21 | For my Vanilla Queens!How this post talks about vanilla is how I feel about saffron. Whenever I eat it I feel like I’m putting a crown on my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:53 PM |
| 73 | Today I was told to be less professional at work...This is slightly related, but I have a very young coworker who I want to scream at “you don’t need exclamation points after every sentence!!!”. She just doesn’t know. She’s been conditioned to be sweet, accommodating, “nice”. There’s a few tasks that no one can else but I can do. The older female coworker just asks. She doesn’t even say thank you, Because that’s my job. Every time the young coworker asks it’s like she thinks she’s asking me for a favor. She’s not. It drives me insane that she th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 11 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣The whole point is to make sure other women be careful. There’s no industry that exclusively attracts HVM. But women def look at an industry, think “I want to do that” and think they’re going to meet a good dude. And it’s just not true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:08 PM |
| 25 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣It's funny you say that because all the ones I know are all over social media, love to brag about their 'cool' job, and obviously don't want kids or to 'settle down'. But yes, they're all 100% cheaters. OH! Talk about the nastiness of men. I was talking to 3 guides at a party, they were all going rock climbing the next day, and the one moron bragged about a girl giving him a blow job when they were rock climbing. I knew then his pee-pee was small. I later learned from someone who fucks him regul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 07:22 PM |
| 38 | How do I stop comparing myself to other women and craving attention?FYI your post is prob better for the femalelevelupstrategy sub. Do you go on social media a lot? Read radfem literature? Do you journal? There's a few steps you could immediately start taking to help you love yourself more. get off social media. Do not have it on your phone. Don't check it on your computer. Go outside more, hike, walk, bike, run, focus on what your body can physically do. Get that adrenaline running and clear your mind. Read about women's rights and radical feminism. Nothing wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:09 PM |
| 178 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.Hmmmm.... What do you bet the wife was convinced/conned into this "open" relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 37 | Low effort is now the bare minimumDisgusting. The only time I'll ever get fast food is when I'm on a road trip. Even then, I'd never support homophobic/misogynistic chik-fil-a. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:14 PM |
| 57 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣Well it doesn't help how much women fawn over them for it too. I also think they're fuckbois partly because so few women are in the industry. Really any male dominated industry is going to create a misogynistic culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:01 PM |
| 148 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣Salt Lake City and Boise. Bet $50 he was a hiking guide or fishing/hunting guide. Those dudes are the biggest fuckbois. And they always seem to enthrall badass women like these 3. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | He makes a ton of money. Why is he upset over this?Honestly all the comments here seem fake as fuck too. First of all. No one gives cash at weddings, they’d be checks and have the wife and husbands name on them. And FDS is not about taking wedding money and hiding it. What the fuck? A HVW and a HVM are going to have a plan for that money if they know they’re getting money. This is the dumbest post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:43 AM |
| 6 | He makes a ton of money. Why is he upset over this?This is so fucking fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:37 AM |
| 5 | He had audacity to say, it's not cheating if it's not physical. So porn, only fans, sexting aren't cheatingGod. This is pushed by men because they KNOW, they fucking KNOW that most men are ugly as sin, don't take care of themselves, and can't even take a normal fucking selfie. Look at any man's tinder profile. He takes photos below his fucking chin like he's literally never seen a woman's selfie and how we change the angle of the camera. Men rely on other men to be ugly/unattractive, so they're not jealous/insecure when they see most other men. Men know what a handsome man looks like. They know what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:27 PM |
| 11 | I am so tired of men always trying to be the "victims" 😩😩Go look at some of the relationship subs. Men want to be victims SO badly. It’s prob why they never believe actual victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 19 | I'm sick of harassment on the streets for simply being a womanMaybe I just let it roll off my back more, or it's our age difference. I don't let men push me around at work or make me feel small anymore. I'm also better at hiding my snarky comments :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:07 PM |
| 26 | I'm sick of harassment on the streets for simply being a womanWell it's not really about how your face looks. You just carry yourself differently. If you can make it out of high school/college without becoming a pickme or insecure because men torture young girls, you generally grow a back bone and fight for yourself more. I don't worry about walking home alone at night anymore. I don't worry about assholes. Or men at work pushing me around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 78 | I'm sick of harassment on the streets for simply being a womanAt least it gets less severe as you get older! That's the only comforting thing I have to share. Ageing as a woman is fucking incredible, I'm not going to lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:37 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Check-inI'm so fucking sick of men on Reddit whine about male abuse. There's an 'unexpected' video where a woman swats at her husband for drunkenly dancing with a performer. That lady is older. She's a woman. She's clearly not lifting weights. And she doesn't even really make contact with him! She looked like she was hitting a fly! Yet all the scrotes are going on and on about how sad it is to see this type of abuse blah blah blah. While there are MULTIPLE subs dedicated to men beating the shit out of w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:35 PM |
| 350 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhI sincerely doubt this man is going to the Arctic and needs a $5K tent. My brother says there are “buyers” and “doers” in the world. This dude sounds like a guy who buys really expensive shit he never actually uses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 11:48 PM |
| 14 | Beware the wolf in sheep's clothing.Lmao I’m sorry but what is this post? Are women really out here talking to married men who don’t mention their wives??? Have men really eliminated any normal boundaries women have?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do they do this?I’ve never seen this, it must be new or an age thing. When I was on OLD I saw men post pics of themselves with other peoples dogs or children. “It’s my nephew! Not mine” was in their profile. It was particularly disappointing to ask about their dog only to have them say “oh it’s my friends dog”…. So it’s your ex’s dog? If you love dogs so much why don’t you have one? None of it made sense. No idea what they were trying to achieve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 158 | Every damn timeI’ve even told ppl “the only time I’ve lost my sex drive is when I had to take care of my partner like a child” and gotten shouted down and accused of sexism because I’m automatically assuming a man does nothing around the house. Quite frankly that’s the experience EVERY woman I know has had. There’s studies backing it up even! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 11:50 AM |
| 50 | Too often young boys are excused and babied. Then we wonder why they grow up to have no emotional resilience and depend on women’s emotional and physical labour.Obviously his mother is to blame, she’s supposed to raise him! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:30 AM |
| 18 | In this thread: Hundreds of LVM and Pickmeishas squealing to the high heavens that an elite 23 y/o woman at a top tier university will NEVER find a high paying, traveling job post graduation, and should shut up and be a compliant wife and mother to boring old scrote who trapped her in her youth. 🥴🤮I’ve broken up with 3 men over their inability to save for travel (but they get tattoos, motorcycles etc.). I’ve also found jobs that encouraged time off and I’ve taken at least a week off every 2 months. I’ve also taken UNPAID time off because - guess what, you can! I’ve also taken 2 months between jobs to travel. I’ve also dated men who are like me and they work jobs that allow them to save up, travel and go back to work. The dude is just a fucking douche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 01:40 AM |
| 54 | Liberal feminism is easy to consume, fast food equivalent of feminism. It requires no critical thinking and encourages mob mentality.Ah yes. The “wearing makeup and sexy lingerie makes ME feel good, that’s why I wear it” type of feminism. Unless your makeup is made of MDMA, there’s a ton of cultural reasons why that makes you feel good. And recognizing why we feel good in conforming to the patriarchy doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a bad person for continuing it. We all make compromises. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 131 | “It’s funny cuz it’s true!” - Leslie ChowGod this is so real for women who are into the outdoors/travel. I’ve had multiple men say they like to travel and the last international trip they went on was on their parents dime in college. Or they say they like to hike and can barely walk a mile on pavement. It’s fucking pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:37 AM |
| 118 | The open demand for ‘feminine, submissive’ women by LVM is cringy as hellThis isn’t even why men have sought wives. Men want women to run their lives for them. They don’t want submission. They want quiet managers. Women have always managed men’s careers and homes. We just used to be more quiet about it. Edit : my thought process seems random, but I was thinking about how many young men go on about wanting conservative and submissive women. We’ve never been submissive. Women have just directed the home in significantly quieter and unseen ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨I get that but if you start thinking “damn I should record my bf for how shitty he is to me”. Just walk away. Don’t record. If you feel like you need to record someone it’s time to exit that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 04:01 PM |
| 87 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushThis is what I gathered from his personality too. He seems like a guy who brags he doesn’t need money or capitalism while profiting off a woman’s labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:37 PM |
| 36 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨Oh I can. I’m not advocating anyone record their calls though. I should have dumped him after the first time he cussed me out on the phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 97 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨My ex would never argue or be angry over text. I finally realized it was because no one thinks to record their bf cussing them out on the phone. One day I said “it’s not like I record all our calls” and he FLIPPED out because he thought that meant I recorded some of our calls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:00 PM |
| 120 | I love her TikTok’s, she’s very insightful. Any thoughts on her stance regarding dating multiple men at once?Im upvoting because I think her arguments can create a good discussion around FDS principles. Dating multiple men 100% makes me less attached. When you’re dating dudes you’re not into and 1 you’re into, that prob doesn’t work. But I only go on dates with men I genuinely consider. She talks about men encouraging a “roster” and it not working out for women. Yes, that’s true, but that’s when you have physical relations with them. I think it’s important to date many men at once as long as dating isn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Lingerie is NOT a giftLmao I def gifted my ex a thing of coconut oil to massage me 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Lingerie is NOT a giftOh god. I’d love to have a man who randomly gifted me a $60 tan Wacoal bra I could wear every day. How heavenly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:00 PM |
| 12 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!Me too! I had a guy say he liked hiking, showed up in jeans and boots 😂 and 15 lbs heavier than his photo. Honestly the most hardcore ppl I’ve dated off OLD didn’t mention hiking. They just had photos of their trips and talked about music, family, and general expectations of a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:48 AM |
| 163 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!As an avid hiker, what people call “hiking” dates is usually a stroll on pavement. So you’re showing me you can’t actually hike, can’t pay for dinner, and don’t understand how dangerous it is to be a woman and go on a legit hike with a stranger. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:48 AM |
| 4 | And then everyone clapped! Do they seriously spend time and energy roleplaying and making accounts so they make us look bad?? 😂Lmao thanks for pointing that out. I have no desire to find the original thread, but your comment made me laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | And then everyone clapped! Do they seriously spend time and energy roleplaying and making accounts so they make us look bad?? 😂“All males are like this” is not anything women typically say here. We say men and women because we view them as people. Men view women as animals, that’s why they same “females” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 109 | Don't be a pickme, even men won't like you. Credits: https://twitter.com/finegodmother/status/1410316385545330689?s=20Not to mention unwanted pregnancy, making less money, dealing with constant sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:18 PM |
| 10 | I thought I’d enjoy this article about a single female traveller till I got to the ‘mid-life crisis’ at 30 part 🧐Considering 25 is the age for a ‘quarter life crisis’- how are you middle-aged at 30? Bizarre. Language matters! Don’t buy into the ‘maxed out at 30’ nonsense.Yea that wouldn’t even be fun. You’d just be doing it to say you’ve done it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:56 AM |
| 8 | I honestly think that when women say they want a nice guy this is what we are talking about. This man is masculine but also very sensitive and kind to his wife, it is so nice and attractive. thoughts?Lmao I couldn’t get through it. I can’t watch this type of stuff. BUT that’s 100% what I want in my life. I love being carried around too LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:30 AM |
| 67 | Big Clit Energy Right Here!Itty bitty clitty committee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:21 AM |
| 15 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”This pissed me off too. Awwww, you have a decent paying job, a partner to help cover the bills, probably a house, a yard, you go on vacations. UGHHHHHHH SO ROUGH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.Right?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:50 PM |
| 150 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.I do think he knew, but I think it’s important to point out that even if he didn’t remember, he’s a fucking jackass. I guess I’m trying to address how the “bumbling boyfriend” is still a fucking horrible person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:10 AM |
| 348 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.So this man apparently doesn’t know his girlfriend is taking the bar exam IN THEIR FUCKING KITCHEN and proceeds to undress and Wipe His Sweaty Balls. This jackass either literally never listens to her, completely forgot about her extremely important test (and apparently doesn’t even notice what his gf is doing when he’s in the room), thought it’d be a good prank, or he’s maliciously sabotaging her career. Anyway you splice it, it makes me fucking livid that people think this is funny and accepta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:02 AM |
| 9 | I don't know where else to ask this without getting harassed by scrotes, but how can you actually tell if a guy has a big dick?No, def had two dudes with big dicks say their dick was big prior to intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:46 AM |
| 41 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.”This reminds me of women who say “I wear sexy makeup and sexy clothes for me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:38 AM |
| 27 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyOh sorry, I understood what you were saying. It’s a good argument “put your nudes up”. It just made me think of the default response when people talk about men’s and women’s bodies in terms of beauty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 65 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyYea, I think it’s just built in misogyny. We’re told we need to be hot and pretty, so we say “well all women are pretty” and I think it makes a lot of women feel like “at least im a sexy woman”. And I think they also want to justify men’s behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.Yea, I guess I was pointing that out for any lurkers who assume we think men are maniacal and cunning. It’s so much worse that they learn it over their lives and it’s a second instinct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 69 | do men just turn into complete POS when they hit 50 or is it that generation?Yea, I think they grow entitled as they make more money, get more authority, etc. I think that’s why they suddenly make their shittiness public. Also, it’s socially acceptable at this point. Men invented the midlife crisis. Every woman I’ve known has worked hard and had hard turning points. But not thrown their entire life away or hurt people they supposedly love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:21 AM |
| 37 | Don't be afraid to get that ring!🎉🥳🎊🥳🎉 looks like it’s a beautiful place too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:18 AM |
| 11 | This!Wait why are you renting a cheap apartment to rent a condo?? Do you mean renovate it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:16 AM |
| 24 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyIm the biggest nudist you’ll ever meet. This would be absolutely humiliating to me. You’re trying to entice your bf into a special sensual moment? And he does that shit to you??? There’s such a big difference between that and changing your top in front of someone or even nude sunbathing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 229 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy Moly“But the female body is so much prettier than a mans”. I’ve heard MANY pickmes justify objectifying women because our bodies are “objectively more beautiful, they’re more like art” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:10 AM |
| 7 | I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy MolyI don’t think this is real. Every man I’ve met who shared his girlfriends (or really any woman’s nudes) were much more cunning about it. They know that they’re doing and they’re not going to end the nude gravy train to share with their boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:08 AM |
| 17 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.I don’t think people intentionally do that shit either. There’s just some people who grow up manipulating and it’s second nature. Like I think it’s an instinct for them. Not thought out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:49 AM |
| 66 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.If this is true, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s into the DD/LG thing and just HELLA manipulative. I’ve known plenty of men who pretended they didn’t want something and manipulated their partners into wanting it. Like he prob peppered her with small suggestions over time - “it’d be so hot if you were in that outfit”, showed her a porn video of DD/LG, maybe talked about how his ex was into it and it was so hot. So when she finally asks for it and he says no, she tries to “convince” him and he giv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:14 AM |
| 45 | I found an HVM!You need to be careful. Look up trauma bonding. If you were with someone abusive you should wait a minimum of a year to work through the trauma. I know you’re lonely, but most men will seem HV compared to your ex. This is how women get into shitty relationships. They think “oh he doesn’t hit me” “at least he works” “he doesn’t cuss me out”. Honestly you should stay far away from him so you’re not tempted. | /r/askFDS | 29/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 27 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.This behavior has caused me 3 breakups. “You can get that $1,000 tattoo but we can’t go on a trip? Fine I’m done”. Also my other ex’s car worked for clients but not for our trips, we had to use mine. That was one of many nails in the coffin. I’d always think “I’d be doing this trip alone and my rig is better” after some maintenance bills I realized why he encouraged that thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:32 AM |
| 17 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.Im sorry but my first thought is that he wanted to keep you hidden and not have someone he knows or a restaurant realizing he brought a new chick every week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 32 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.I didn’t even think she was splitting his meals! God I hope that’s not true, for her sake. And I hope he does dump her, for her sake. Maybe she’ll wake up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:02 AM |
| 58 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Yes. Or, I personally know someone who grew up affluent and squandered all the money she made, every opportunity she received, etc. In her head, you don’t have to struggle because your parents will give you their BMW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:25 AM |
| 60 | This Headline - Media Gaslighting Us Again - Why in the World Would Jennifer Anniston Do Online Dating?!?Apparently he’s a piece of shit though. His divorce with Angelina Jolie is not good. I’m pretty sure their eldest child said he didn’t want to see brad anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 03:52 AM |
| 39 | Don’t talk to any of your exes. ANY.Omg that’s insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 03:45 AM |
| 137 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Honestly, I’ve only seen this behavior in people who grow up rich. They grow up with their parents complaining about taxes, how people just don’t work, blah blah blah. Every rich person I know who built themselves from the ground up is extremely generous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 146 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Yes! I’m glad other women see this too. Men who make more than you and insist on 50/50 are using you to subsidize their savings and retirement. That’s it. That’s all you’re good for to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 03:29 AM |
| 180 | People are finally waking upIdk why I especially liked the guy saying he said he has standards. Maybe that’s ripped from women and he doesn’t mean it. But I would LOVE it if men didn’t throw the dice with every woman and actually were actually honest about what they want. I think it’s obvious most men shoot their shot with every woman. It’d be great if they were transparent. Also the dude who talked about getting laid by not being all over a girl in his dorm… common dude. It seemed like he was telling men HOW to get laid, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:15 PM |
| 107 | Accountability for Pickmeisha actionsWell you’re a woman! You’re supposed to be nice and welcoming regardless of anyone’s behavior. You’re not allowed to analyze the world or look at it with a critical eye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 10:33 PM |
| 46 | I'm ✨embarrassed ✨🙄 I wish there was a side eye emoji. This is literally the shit I heard in high school. If she actually read anything about feminism she’d know bra burning wasn’t a thing. And there’s a VAST difference between having a six pack and being “stick thin”. Men with six packs eat healthy and exercise - they behave in healthy ways. “Stick figure” women often take drugs, under eat and have other unhealthy behaviors to maintain their appearance. Oh also men aren’t valued for their appearance the way wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 09:11 PM |
| 82 | Why we don't do "girlfriend" titleYesssss. I’ve had multiple men tell me they can never tell what I’m thinking. But I can see on their face I’m not doing what they want. And it gives me power to negotiate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 06:56 PM |
| 171 | Why we don't do "girlfriend" titleLmao I love that she says “shut the fuck up”. I’ve gotten the best information and negotiated contracts by simply asking a question and being quiet. Or just being quiet. Men tell on themselves when we’re quiet. Even just a blank look and keeping your mouth shut will make men stumble and reveal themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 82 | How men act when they find out I'm on FDSI always privately DM women. When pickmes see the replies they assume we’re crazy. I just send a nice note and say they should check out the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:49 PM |
| 40 | ‘Make sure they are invested in you first’ erm I’m sorry but as women our default is skin in the gameYour comment reminds me of an ask men thread I read yesterday. I forget the title of the post but one of the comments went on a diatribe about how women don’t want to recognize sexual tension and just look away (he works in the service industry) and it just blew my mind. He couldn’t imagine that women didn’t make eye contact with him because they’re fucking sick of being sexualized. The whole comment made it seem like he thinks women want him when they’re being distant. It was bizarre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 22 | This is uncomfortable on so many levelsI agree, I think she was extremely straightforward considering how young she looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 23 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?I wrote a very long reply about my ex and how he treated my dog and deleted it. Women should realize men who treat your animals like they aren't sentient beings aren't good men. That's it. Any man who treats an animal horribly is LV in my book. It's that simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?Yes. Anyone who hates any animal is a red flag. You can have trauma and not "hate" that animal. I have trauma around men. It doesn't mean I hate them, it just means I'm cautious. Hating and being warry is different. Anyone who hates an animal is a red flag. Edit : to address your edit... having a cat or dog attack you isn't reason to hate that animal. Nor is being allergic. "I'm allergic to cats" is WAY different than "I hate cats" so the users giving men those passes are fucking stupid. Sorry, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 41 | Britney Spears and Why We Shouldn’t Use the Terms “Crazy”/ “Psycho” or Mental Health issues in General, to Describe, Discredit or Label Other WomenIsn’t it known now that paparazzi are actually CALLED to where celebrities are? What do you want to bet her dad called them and said where she was? Also, all domestic violence counselors agree that victims can never be/act sane and heal until they’re away from their abuser. It’s clear her dad is horrendously abusive and I guarantee that’s what makes it seem like she’s bi-polar. It’s not uncommon for DV victims to be diagnosed as bi-polar when they really have PTSD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:41 PM |
| 34 | How do I convince my bestfriend to leave her NVM boyfriend?You can’t make him leave her. You can show her FDS, and slide into conversation toxic relationship things. She has to see it for herself. I’ve found I’ve changed peoples minds about various things by asking questions too. “Don’t you want someone who adores you” “don’t you think it’s fucked up he told you his family doesn’t like how you look?” That’s the really obvious thing she should recognize. Telling someone “x said you don’t look good” is SO fucking fucked up. It’s only meant to tear someone… | /r/askFDS | 26/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 680 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefThis is so fake. Female discharge isn’t the same as ball sweat. Selling your panties is a saturated market. At best you might be able to replace your underwear. OR you also have to do porn to make any money. Im so tired of the lie that sex work is easy money for women. Men don’t even want to buy us fucking dinner. How do they keep pretending that we can sell our underwear and do nothing all day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Just because a guy appears to be altruistic, it doesn't mean he's a HVMOk everyone in the comments saying donating money is just a write off is just so misguided. If you donate $10K, it’s not like you get that $10K back. And let’s say you don’t donate it and have to pay $5K in taxes for keeping that money - you’re still keeping $5K!! Having a donation as a write off doesn’t mean you’re making money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Just because a guy appears to be altruistic, it doesn't mean he's a HVMThat truly sounds like a bizarre test. How is taking money, saying thank you, getting you both ice cream, and then saying “thank you” again a test of gold digging. It’s like $10 tops and if it were me, I’d prob give him a kiss on the cheek or a hug afterwards! Hold his hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 10 | Just because a guy appears to be altruistic, it doesn't mean he's a HVMThe most abusive man I dated lived off $600 a month and ran a charity. He slept in a closet in a friends house. Behind closed doors he was horribly physically and mentally abusive. Just awful. But everyone knew him as starting his own charity and loved him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 30 | FDS's stance on dating outside of your social classThere’s a lot of general contractors or other specialized contractors who are millionaires. Also my step dad didn’t graduate college and is now a millionaire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:21 PM |
| 62 | Couldn't have said it betterLVM seem to love "unnatural" hair colors in women. In fact - There's a name for us! Manic Pixie Dream Girl! LVM also love brunettes who dye their hair blonde. In fact - There's a name for us! Bimbos! Let's not forget -the seeeensssssitive man. Who loves to whine that women can wear and dress how they want, but it's weird for men to exhibit artistic expression by dying their hair, wearing makeup, etc. I wish men would fucking enact change instead of criticizing. Start clubs and trends that embrac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:30 PM |
| 113 | When men tell on themselvesLmao I love that men yell "Women rape too!" And then you have that kid saying "Men are raped more in prison" - yea, cause women don't fucking rape people. Statistically speaking, men do all the raping. You can't have it both ways. I've actually met 2 men who were raped.... By guess who? MEN. Look at pedophilia. Boys are definitely molested, but mostly by other MEN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 8 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.Sometimes I think "how could we legislate to prevent this" but then I realize men would just use it against us. We just need a cultural shift where men don't abuse. I'm not even talking about "believing women" because that seems like a loosing battle in my opinion. But teaching men not to be abusive and murderous? Women aren't that way. There's no way we can't raise boys to not be violent/abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.Unbelievable. I can't believe they wouldn't even consider custodian with a grandparent or family member until it was sorted out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.Women get shanked in court all the fucking time because we don't trust ourselves, don't keep evidence, and when we stay to get ourselves in a good place to leave, we get accused of "staying with him" instead of running away. If someone's abusing you, sometimes you need to plan and squirrel away money. Most people can't just pick up and go. And even if you do pick up and go, where's the evidence? When someone's abusing you, you don't think "save this text, send screenshots to friends", you think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:46 PM |
| 43 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS BUY PRECHECK What the fuck is wrong with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 10 | Iliza Shlesinger’s Ex-Boyfriend Lied About Everything—So She Made a Netflix Movie About HimMe too! If I were you I’d change every detail if you’re going to share it. But DM me if you want to chat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 47 | Iliza Shlesinger’s Ex-Boyfriend Lied About Everything—So She Made a Netflix Movie About HimIt’s absolutely insane how similar her story is to what I went through. However, I did warn the next girl. I’m somewhat resentful of women who don’t warn other women - but I get it. You feel crazy, you barely believe your own instincts. You prob don’t keep the receipts to show he’s a liar. I just wish I’d been warned 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 0 | The Misattribution of Arousal: Why Cliff-Dangling is SexyHold on wait. So you’re saying HVM lost belay partners (probably the men they were friends with and climbing with already) because of COVID? But they’re going to look for a strange woman to climb with because they’re social distancing. This makes no sense. Everyone I know got closer to their friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 0 | The Misattribution of Arousal: Why Cliff-Dangling is SexyI think we just don’t understand each other. I got the impression you’re encouraging women to rock climb/mountaineer to meet men. And I absolutely disagree. BUT I’d love to find a HVM in those communities. Your post made it seem like those men were less misogynistic and “don’t have toxic masculinity” and I don’t think that’s remotely accurate. That’s why I said your post is absolutely misguided. You’ve “met more men in A FEW weeks” rock climbing than you have in on “OLD in 6 months”…. That’s not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:42 AM |
| 0 | The Misattribution of Arousal: Why Cliff-Dangling is SexyMen who mountaineer and rock climb 100% use that persona to fuck women. They think it makes them interesting. And the "liberal" dudes who pretend to be all about equality will use you for sex in a heartbeat. Mountaineering is sexy. So is rock climbing. Getting your WFR does attract women. You're a boatman and can take a woman for free on a river trip? She's going to sign up. Again, I 100% encourage women to climb, mountaineer, raft, backpack, etc. But do it with women. Men who are into the outdo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:02 AM |
| 8 | The Misattribution of Arousal: Why Cliff-Dangling is SexyDon’t get me wrong, I’m all about encouraging women to climb. But you seem to be putting those men on a pedestal they don’t deserve. If your post was simply encouraging women to climb I’d be all about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:37 PM |
| 14 | The Misattribution of Arousal: Why Cliff-Dangling is SexyI’m sorry but this post seems SO misguided. You’re literally encouraging women to go for men who are known for dirt-bagging… like they literally encourage and revere that term. And most men I’ve met who are really into climbing have no ambition and work dead end jobs to spend all their time climbing. Edit : I am active in hiking and climbing communities for a long time now. These communities attract LVM. Average ability to climb isn’t a feat for men. Camping on their own isn’t a feat for men. Me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.Ah ok that makes sense. It just seemed like there was a weird beef I wasn’t aware of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.I’ve seen a few posts referencing Spinster and Ovarit… I’m sorry but I always assumed the users there are our sisters and like minded. I’ve had multiple ppl on FDS DM me to invite to me to those platforms. What’s with the sudden hate for Ovarit? There’s no where for radfems to go, I know a lot of mods here are radfems. Am I missing something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Men truly build their entire lives around gaining access to womenI’ve dated a few of these type of male vegans. Very happy fir me to teach them about veganism, which is nice. But I can tell it’s so they continue having chiseled abs, and not because they empathize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 6 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??I’m sorry but she’s a fucking moron. What is the point of working so hard for that degree to just throw it away like this?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWYea, I have extreme anxiety, intrusive thoughts and some compulsive tendencies. Running really helps put them at bay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:14 AM |
| 19 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWI often embrace solitude further by backpacking or doing 12 hour hikes alone. I care for my dog. I reach out to family members. Whether it’s text or asking to talk on the phone. Put on good music and create art, dance or clean. I also love discovering new artists, shows, musicians, books, on my own. It has the added benefit of when you do talk to other people you can try to share something with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:43 AM |
| 4 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY JUNE 12 2021I agree with you, and I completely disagree with why the OP says we shouldn’t do 50/50. Women shouldn’t do 50/50 because men cast a wide net and will happily go out with a million women he’s not really into if it might mean sex and no effort from him. I don’t think women should go 50/50 because men only pay for women they’re serious about. Has nothing to do with masculinity or femininity. It’s just that if he wants to be with you he’s going to treat you! Or want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 15 | “Pretty privilege” an expensive ticket to a casinoQueue the “I wear makeup for me! It has nothing to do with men” replies. Yea. Let’s pretend beauty standards are insular from men’s desires. Unless you’re dressing totally avant-garde, you are letting the male gaze affect your choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 15 | “Pretty privilege” an expensive ticket to a casinoThis is the radfem perspective I come here for. I hope this makes it into the handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Don't put men on a pedestalTo piggyback on /u/academicmobile1 s comment - it’s well known among domestic violence counselors that women with PTSD are often misdiagnosed with BPD. That doesn’t mean BPD isn’t real. It just means our misogynistic world loves to ignore how deeply men’s abuse affects women. If her friend doesn’t have OCD in any area BUT this one relationship, I’d find that suspect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:21 AM |
| 6 | I just love everything about this absolute Queen!!Lmao I cried at that too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:08 AM |
| 6 | Pregnant feminist who makes way less than bf will "pay for herself" in the name of equalityYea. Let’s see men do their fair share of creating life. Think you’re going to trade days of the week for which of you has swelling, nausea, joint pain, stretching your stomach, hurting your back? The “fair share” shit is a crock of shit. I swear liberal men want us to ignore biological differences so they can have their cake and eat it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:01 AM |
| 80 | Knock it tf off, pickmeisha 🤡I mean isn’t that all of us? We don’t want their money. We just know men spend their money on women they truly love. It’s men who have set the standard that if he pays for you and takes care of you that he’s genuinely interested. Women didn’t set that standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 11:19 PM |
| 5 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???Honestly I can’t imagine someone doing that to me. Every man I’ve dated has adopted a vegan diet for me. They’re not vegan but they ALWAYS eat vegan with me, learn to cook vegan, and suggest vegan restaurants or at least vegan friendly ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Going through relationship subs makes me nauseous now. Women have been brainwashed and gaslit by society to put up with so much disrespect and abuseGuarantee he’s going to trick her into fucking his friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 18 | JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us.You HAVE to listen to the podcast. The show makes all the women look like superficial morons. The podcast is way more humanizing toward Debra and her daughters. I listened to the podcast a long time before the show came out and I was horrified at how they made her daughter look like a superficial nitwit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:28 AM |
| 35 | JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us.This is only slightly off topic - did anyone else listen to the podcast that actually interviewed Debra and her daughters? Because her daughters are BAMFS ! The show made her one daughter seem shallow - she’s not. She’s fucking smart as hell. Her daughters saw that man for what he is. And one of them fought like fucking hell to get away. I don’t think most people can imagine the strength she mustered to survive. The real story is way more horrifying than the tv show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:21 AM |
| 18 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")😭😭 I’m honestly crying, im so happy for you! You could do GREAT things for other sex workers since you have a social work degree. Most of the non-profits I know of that work to get marginalized women into better situations have sex workers as employees. Your experience can be SO valuable to your work and to helping other women. Most people don’t have the strength to make a change like you did. Bravo! And stay amazing! Im sure you’ll do incredible things! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:04 AM |
| 16 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceI was going to say the same thing. Diamonds are like cars, they immediately drop in price. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | bad tripWomen loving women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 10 | bad tripMe too. Im bi though. Unfortunately WLW are rare where I live. And I want kids. I guess I’ll just die single and “alone”. Too bad I’ll live longer as a single woman 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Paid for by Rachel MoranOh Jesus I didn’t know that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Scrote is jealous of his girlfriend’s dogs…Girl. Don’t get me started. Dogs are my passion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:28 PM |
| 12 | Scrote is jealous of his girlfriend’s dogs…Lmao omg I’m so glad someone posted this. Bulldogs have respiratory issues. By pushing them in a pram she’s letting them smell and experience the world without making them overheat or have issues. It’s very kind of her. Most dog foods have carcinogenics. They’re really not healthy. But you know, they’re dogs. I fucking hate that he has NO issue with her purchasing dogs instead of rescuing and no issue with her buying dogs that have health issues bred into them. And the comments on that post were… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:17 PM |
| 12 | Paid for by Rachel MoranWas Rachel Moran a porn star??? She has a podcast too! Edit : omg 🤦♀️ I confused her with Megan Murphy. I’m a ducking moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 143 | Always, ALWAYS check his phonePut him on fucking blast. His friends are your friends? Tell EVERYONE what a piece of shit he is - and get proof prior to telling people. Figure out how to get proof from his phone, reach out to the women he cheated with, get receipts. And go scorched earth. That’s what I would do. Sending you virtual hugs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 25 | Her boyfriend is trying to kill her because of his...EGO?! WTF.I saw that post when it was new. Thank god for her edit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:03 PM |
| 10 | Why I will never allow a gun owning man in my homeI’m going to politely and minorly disagree regarding agency. If anything I think society and families of victims give them too much agency. For far too long we’ve said “well she chooses to stay” “she doesn’t want help”. We force people who are suicidal to get therapy. I would argue staying in an abusive relationship is similar to being suicidal. Or being so mentally unwell you can’t see you’re hurting yourself. I do agree the system we have now revictimizes women though. I think we agree we desp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 12 | Dating in ScandinaviaInteresting. This prob isn’t the thread for this discussion, but I’d love to hear more insight about your culture and keeping standards high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:49 PM |
| 39 | Dating in ScandinaviaThis is interesting because walking/coffee dates are normal in the US. Part of why FDS preaches only doing dinner is because dinner dates are rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 61 | Dating in ScandinaviaWhen I was in Denmark it seemed like most people kept their dating circle (like serious dating) to people they grew up with. Is that true? And marriage was fairly rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Why I will never allow a gun owning man in my homeI saw a case where a neighbor called the cops because the couple downstairs were playing video games too loud. He wanted to put an end to it so claimed there was DV. It ended with the guy being shot and dying because he answered his door with a gun. But that’s the only instance I’ve ever heard of. I think when there is intervention there’s a lot more we could be doing. But part of the problem is that it’s not viewed as a societal issue, but a personal issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 235 | On creepy old pervy men…I wish we could blast this in the relationship subs. I’m so tired of seeing age gaps posted and commenters saying “well age gaps can be fine” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Fantastic post over on popular womens' subreddit. But OP's edits demonstrate clearly why the FDS subreddit and its mods are so precious.To be fair, I don’t think Ovarit is as popular as this sub, they need all the users they can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:07 PM |
| 11 | Fantastic post over on popular womens' subreddit. But OP's edits demonstrate clearly why the FDS subreddit and its mods are so precious.Yea I see the male sub praised constantly on the women’s sub and I just have to roll my fucking eyes. I’ve def seen “men too!” On the female sub and don’t understand why WOMEN have to fucking say that? We don’t have to include every demographic in every issue. You don’t see BLM going “and Latinos!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:04 PM |
| 30 | Reality is often disappointing...Yea. I only come her for the female kinship and to be reminded of why I’m not dating. I really don’t need the vetting strategies LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 11 | OP drank the LibFem koolaid and posted nudes online... now the same redditors who jerked off are judging 😳🥸It’s just an extension of being reliant on men’s attention for confidence. I saw it all the time in middle school and high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:49 PM |
| 8 | This is why we don’t date broke and/or ugly men. It’s not for shallow reasons, it’s because he’s more likely to feel threatened by your success/attractiveness and will try to break your spiritLOL I can’t believe no one else commented on that. Idk if he’s lying for tiktock cred, like he’s filling a niche market, or if he’s serious. I just have so many questions now. And do we want advice from diagnosed narcissists? Don’t they make up like 1% of the population? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:37 PM |
| 44 | Men are more responsive to women's facial expressions than our actual words.And never forget how important silence is ladies. Whether you’re negotiating with a manager or having a talk with a partner. Men hate silence. I’ve found silence doesn’t work as well on women lol. But I’ve successfully negotiated with a lot of men just by staying silent when they expect a reply or argument. Also job offers. If a man is hiring you, just be quiet when he tells you the offer. He’ll probably try to fill the silence and tell him you’ll need to think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 57 | Why I will never allow a gun owning man in my homeThis is going to be a controversial comment, but I’ll say it anyway since I was once a DV victim We need to do something new for victims of domestic violence. Victims OFTEN reach out to their abuser, regret reporting, violate no contact orders, drop charges. We need to recognize being in a DV relationship makes you mentally “sick”. It’s confusing, you make bad decisions, and you don’t understand what real love looks like. After reading that she went back to him a few times, it’s no wonder they d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 30 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?I agree with everyone else, they want to trap a woman; be a fun dad and have a bang maid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.Yea I agree. When I moved to the south I hated it. Once I saw older women doing it to men it bothered me less. Tone is also important. And context. Like I said. It can be condescending, belittling or put you at ease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | If he wanted to, he would!Tattoos on bone hurt the most too. Arm tattoos aren’t bad at all to be honest. It’s prob the easiest place if you don’t do your elbow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:52 PM |
| 71 | The random man I locked eyes with the other week shopping for cool ranch doritos and mountain dew 🥰🥰LMAO - Scrotes gonna be MAD as fuck about this post. While they "roast' young women on a specific subreddit. While they have a sub called entitled-B*, a sub for Karens to mock their appearance. Not to mention all the porn subs that treat women like absolute dirt. But WE are the bad guys for making 1 joke about a man's appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:33 PM |
| 7 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatThis reminds me of Instagram getting rid of that feature where you had a feed of who was liking what photos... It was so much easier to see if you were dating a NVM and how he used his instagram. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 169 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?Right? 5 years is a lot at 25. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:02 PM |
| 277 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?No. I’m not shocked at all. It seems like tons of men coerce women to have kids and then dump them. You see it all the time in the relationship subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Audacity of FathersI totally agree! I remember learning you might shit yourself and thinking “why the fuck would anyone do this?!?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.Was it a vegetarian/vegan restaurant? If so, it might have been you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:33 PM |
| 108 | If he wanted to, he would!Love the tattooed chic style she has going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 10 | If you’re into spirituality, be careful. Men will think you’re stupid.I also think we can compare men who are into the INJP personality shit as the same thing as women who are into astrology/tarot. When I was on OLD I got so annoyed by so many dudes bringing that shit up. And yea, they were def the type to shit on women into spirituality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:51 PM |
| 7 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.Yea I lived in the south and saw young people of both sexes get called pet names. But it was a shock when I first moved there from the north. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:39 PM |
| 25 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.To be fair, in the south older women call men younger than them “sweetie” and “honey” fairly often. Edit : my tiny comment got more attention than I thought it would. Southern women 100% use “sweetie” in a condescending and nasty way toward women and men. As well as a nice way. I wasn’t really defending the use, just explaining it’s used on both men and women and sometimes we have to approach cultures we don’t understand from a dif way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:38 PM |
| 16 | Audacity of FathersOh your comment reminds me of a post on Reddit about how fatherhood changed Jay-Z. What a crock of shit. He cheated on his recovering wife! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.Her argument isn’t ineffective because she has naturally attractive features. Her argument is ineffective because she’s pandering to the male gaze while telling other women not to. I see that shit on MANY FDS TikTok posts. I never said she was too pretty to make the argument she’s making. I’m saying she’s participating in a system she’s criticizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 0 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.Flush out is accurate if you think someone is arguing from a place they’d be ashamed of if they full understood it. Providing criticism isn’t shitting on someone. I gave her a genuine compliment and expanded on my point as to why I felt the post was ineffective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:31 AM |
| 0 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.I felt like we were engaging in a meaningful argument. Most women and girls haven’t read the beauty myth or radfem literature. They literally think “it’s her choice” without analyzing those choices. I replied because you kept replying and I think it’s important to flush out arguments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:21 AM |
| 31 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeYes! And being confident in your “abnormalities” (like her hair) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:12 AM |
| 0 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.Lesbians aren’t immune to misogyny. ALL women are influenced by beauty ideals and their culture. “She’s a lesbian” does not mean she isn’t pandering to the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:01 AM |
| 16 | Ultimate pick me! And her parents think it’s “funny” 🤦🏼♀️I don’t believe for a fucking second that men aren’t as pushy in swinger clubs. Bullshit. Sounds like the club paid her to write an ad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:46 AM |
| 7 | If you haven't already, get to know yourself sexually. It'll make it easier to stop desiring LVM and make it easier to drop men that are selfish in bed.I got so much heat for a comment lamenting women are encouraged to use vibrators and not their hands. There’s something about knowing what you’re touching and how that touch feels that’s important to a good sex life. When you use a toy there’s a disconnect. I’m not saying never use them. But we should be encouraging women to touch themselves to learn what they like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 34 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeIn my experience the most rotten people I’ve met were charismatic but average looking. All the truly modelesque people I’ve met have been wonderful humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:34 AM |
| 45 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeLOVED that movie!! It was so good. I love how driven she is and how she’s so focused on creating. Sustaining that drive is pretty difficult so she made a great role model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:33 AM |
| 7 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?And they ignore all the posts talking about specific cultures and how to date HVM in that culture. Shitty men who treat women like shit aren’t a fucking race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 25 | I have no wordsI was kind of hoping the friend was laughing at how red in the face her husband got and how he got what he deserved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.Thanks and she’s 100% pandering to an alternative male-gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:05 AM |
| 2 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.I’m just tired of seeing Dworkin not upvoted and videos of women pandering to the male gaze get upvoted more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Worst proposal ideas 💀I’m gonna have to disagree about the sports one. I can see that being special. And everyone should talk about marriage before a proposal happens. I mean. You can buy suites at sports games. You can spend mad money, set up a special suite, or buy the best tickets. Get photos with the players. Just don’t do it in the cheap seats like you got no money. Edit : I’m looking at the other comments. I used to plan corporate events at sports stadiums. That shit is expensive, it takes planning, and if you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:47 AM |
| 62 | Thank you mods!Can users implement a mod appreciation day of the week? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 13 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamLmao let’s take this to the top!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:40 AM |
| 52 | So true - this sub is a threat to the status quo which is why we receive so much backlashQueue scene from Practical Magic : “witch! Witch! You’re a witch!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:39 AM |
| 14 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.I’m sorry but she is extremely conventionally attractive. She looks like a baby deer. The only “unattractive” qualities she has is the pierced nose and hair. She’s even wearing a conventionally attractive and revealing outfit. This isn’t a woman with a large nose or quirky features. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Stop fucking lyingggYea I don’t believe him. I’ve had someone withhold affection (like normal hugs and cuddling) and then try to have really rough sex with me a week later. It was a pattern. I’ve also seen other women say they’ve experienced it. Edit : my point is that she prob wouldn’t have sex with him... because he was a huge fucking asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:29 AM |
| 7 | Stop fucking lyingggThere’s a post on a popular sub right now where apparently the mans ex wife messaged his current gf to warn her. But the ex wife is lying... I just don’t believe it. Especially if the ex is claiming he withheld sex... the current gf would know if that’s happening. If she believes the ex it’s because they’ve compares notes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 142 | Disappointing Role Models: Athletes, Only Fans, and Toxic boyfriendsI used to follow lots of women who travel on Instagram.... and then I started to realize how many posted thing swimsuits and photos men would masturbate to. It’s a shame because there’s not a ton of women who travel alone. I started realizing there was a bf behind the camera for a lot of them. It’s honestly hard to find accounts by women who aren’t trying to appeal to the male gaze. It’s like we’ve forgotten we can be attractive, look good in a photo, and not pander to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm alone in my real life when it comes to FDS mentalityRight?! I get the idea of being in your face for activism. But for people you know consistent bits and pieces are better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 6 | Saw this on my Instagram feed and I’m completely wrecked for this woman. This man had a “report card” for his wife that he eventually murdered. TW: Domestic Violence, Religious AbuseSo “support” is sex? Men are fucking depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 3 | I’m tired of men going “postal” and people accepting it as him just “having a bad day”I saw a really sad video of a very attractive white woman going postal on a black men. The top comments called her a Karen but I was relieved that almost all the comments under talked about how she looked like she was having a psychotic break. Also the man in the video did a good job handling her IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 4 | I'm alone in my real life when it comes to FDS mentalityI know! This is why When I see Reddit say “just cut them out of your life!” I roll my eyes. Yes. Let’s all isolate ourselves, surround ourselves with yes men and never try to understand someone else’s perspective or come to an agreement. 3 of my closest family members are now 60% more feminist than they used to be. I’ve changed my moms opinion on so many things. People have gone vegetarian or eaten less meat for me. Also. It’s really refreshing to calmly flush out someone’s opinion when you abso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Always felt Electra complex had something off about it. Now it makes so much more sense. I feel many other women can benefit from knowing this anecdote. From "Why does he do that?" By Lundy Bancroft.That’s true. There’s a disturbing number of cultures where it’s acceptable for men to rape boys - their own sons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Need to start doing thisLmao well if you’re being intimate enough to touch his penis, you prob have your hand wrapped around it. So you can measure with the width of your fist. I can’t think of a scenario where I’d basically hold my hand flat against a mans penis so you can see how it measures against your hand... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 7 | The "Woke" Men Who Still Want HousewivesI had to cook for my family as a kid. I think that might be part of why I hate it so much now. But I just tell men I don’t cook and they all seem to step up to the plate 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 124 | I have a dog, just bought my first car (cash), for my birthday, I’m gifting myself my dream engagement ring, I could get a house, but prefer traveling the world, and I never wanted kids. Basically, if a guy wants a place in my life, he has to be really good in bed. Don’t need one for anything else.Just want to throw it out there - having a house can fund your travels. If you're OK with roommates, they can pay your mortgage so you can put money away. And houses generally increase in value. If you time the purchase well they can be really good investments. Paying yourself "rent" is going to benefit you more than paying a land lord rent in the long run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:44 PM |
| 51 | Always felt Electra complex had something off about it. Now it makes so much more sense. I feel many other women can benefit from knowing this anecdote. From "Why does he do that?" By Lundy Bancroft.Right? Men do not understand the female experience. They can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 43 | Always felt Electra complex had something off about it. Now it makes so much more sense. I feel many other women can benefit from knowing this anecdote. From "Why does he do that?" By Lundy Bancroft.I wish more young girls knew this history. I remember reading about this and thinking "Why the fuck is Freud worshipped???". I'd love to know if we know who convinced Freud the women/girls were lying and what patients told him they were abused. I'm sure there's overlap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 159 | The "Woke" Men Who Still Want HousewivesI'm not going to lie - I want a housewife. Who doesn't want one??? Someone to make dinner, tidy the house. If any other ladies want one, the secret is to NEVER do housewife shit. If you say you can't cook, the dude you're dating will step up to the plate. Same thing with cleaning. Just don't do it and they will. This is prob not FDS approved, but I'd buy groceries if it meant I never cleaned, cooked, or did my own laundry... Just sayin. Edit : I just realized my post sounds hypothetical. It's no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:18 PM |
| 15 | The woman my LVex cheated on me with told me "You have to trust your man" when I was catching onto themI felt like I didn't have "real proof" of the cheating This is why I hate other subs. Someone is obviously being suspicious and the OP always says "I know I shouldn't have snooped" - FUCKING SNOOP I don't know any women who snoop through a man's phone and read texts between his friends or his parents. We always look for women's names or quickly look through for suspicious phrases. And it's not a fucking diary - it's conversations between your partner and another person. Why should those be so se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Need to start doing thisLmao I really wasn’t sure if she was holding her hand straight against a dong. I get more measuring by knuckles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 11 | Need to start doing thisI don't need tape by my door. If I meet a man and he exaggerates his height I'll know because I'm a tall lady and have great posture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 13 | Need to start doing thisWait, is this for measuring penises? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 30 | young girl posts tik tok about being flat chested, middle aged plastic surgeon comments.I wish I could give you another upvote. Cosmetic surgery is 100% putting people's lives at risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 10:30 PM |
| 17 | This person could not legitimately see the glaring red flags. Comments are filled with women telling her to run and she's still confused. Don't let this be you.To be fair, it's pretty common in all the places I've lived that if you go shooting, you don't go to a gun range. Gun ranges are for actual deliberate practice. I wouldn't be freaked out if someone said "let's go shooting" and it was out in the wilderness. Then again. I'd never do that as a first date LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 63 | Vetting for rapistsI just want to add a few things. My rapist was not a drug addict or alcoholic. He didn't drink at all actually. He was the "perfect" feminist. Talked a lot about womens rights. He talked a lot about consent. He even asked permission very frequently in the beginning. He talked about female friends being violated and how angry he was about it. He actually doesn't meet ANY of OP's suggestions. He absolutely seemed like the perfect "feminist" man. So don't forget that rapists over compensate to hide… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 21 | Date with a LVM starter pack 😂😩🥴Lmao right? There's some things I read here and I'm going "who the fuck are you 'dating'????" I've never ever had a man do that to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Why would my [F21] FWB [M23] be upset about the fact that I'm seeing someone else if he explicitly told me he didn't want a relationship with me?I get that. And there's a spot "in between". You don't have to argue with her that she dumps her friends for a bf. You can just keep her as someone on the edges of your friend group and find value in that, while realizing you probably need to find a better friend. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 06:19 PM |
| 16 | Should I confront my fwb?He's not a friend and you deserve better. Women are very sexual beings... Everyone likes to pretend we don't care about sex, that it's hard for us to cum, we only care about emotional attachment and not sexual needs. We're sexual. So I get why you thought you could have a FWB. You can have a desire for satisfying sex without putting up with FWB. But don't forget men WILL use you for sex. They'll string you along and pretend they want more. Make yourself cum and see if you can find someone who ac… | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 06:17 PM |
| 10 | Another old man was being a creep and taking pictures of an 19 year old, guess who the internet blames. (Also love how Karen has gone from a term for racist customers, to a swear word for women who stand up for themselves)I’m sorry... you said “people” are justifying it? MEN. Men are justifying it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 36 | Should I confront my fwb?So you’re going to pretend you’re FWB, who have no emotional investment in each other, but you’re upset he’s trying to fuck other women? You realize that makes no sense right? If you don’t care about him and you’re emotionally unattached why are you making this post? It’s so insincere. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Why would my [F21] FWB [M23] be upset about the fact that I'm seeing someone else if he explicitly told me he didn't want a relationship with me?I’d say that’s a bad sign for your future friendship. Do you want to be dumped any time she has a bf? | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Why would my [F21] FWB [M23] be upset about the fact that I'm seeing someone else if he explicitly told me he didn't want a relationship with me?Ummm.. i think you need to find friends who devote their time to you when you're around. It's incredibly rude to talk to your bf for an hour when you're with someone else. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 98 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.Right? I wish I’d picked up on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:08 PM |
| 26 | Less TikTok and more reading books by Bell Hooks, Andrea Dworkin, Naomi Wolf, and many othersDont worry, I’m a millennial and feel similarly criticized. No matter what the bar is for femininity, women will feel like they’re not meeting it. I’m extremely feminine and everyone in high school thought I was a lesbian because I said feminist shit and wasn’t attracted to the boys at my school. Actually I was attracted to two. One of them was high all the time and tried to stop me from going through a door, to tease/fuck with me, I stepped up real close to him like I was going to beat him down… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 262 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.I had a waitress try to warn me about a man who took me to dinner by saying “oh you’re back again this week! Do you want the usual” 😂 Unfortunately I was too naive to realize what she was doing until months later I found out he was cheating with tons and tons of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Why would my [F21] FWB [M23] be upset about the fact that I'm seeing someone else if he explicitly told me he didn't want a relationship with me?Your friends are dumb. Men get jealous over all kinds of shit. It does not mean they want to be your bf. It just means they feel inferior to whatever dude you’re seeing. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Why would my [F21] FWB [M23] be upset about the fact that I'm seeing someone else if he explicitly told me he didn't want a relationship with me?Oh no, there’s def logic on his end. He has some girl miles away worshipping him. Even ignoring her friend to face time him. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 9 | Why would my [F21] FWB [M23] be upset about the fact that I'm seeing someone else if he explicitly told me he didn't want a relationship with me?So you have a dude who used you for sex, knows you’re super into him and you’ll be available for sex or emotional attention when he wants it, getting mad that you might be moving on from him. You won’t be his personal worshipper while he fails to get laid with any local chics because they know better. He sounds like a douche. And quite honestly, why are you FaceTiming someone when you have a friend over? Why aren’t you hanging out with the friend? | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 4 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack hereThanks! I wonder how much of her budget is her loser boyfriend dwindling. That was obviously avoided. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Some important changes in the prosecution of rape cases made in NSW, Australia yesterday. This makes me feel so hopeful, and proud of the progress being made in Australia. I hope these laws can be an example for law makers around the world and more widely adopted.Thanks. Maybe I'm just jaded but I'm surprised about how excited the comments are. Yes it's a step in the right direction, but it's not going to FIX anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 23 | If you weren’t convinced of how far men will go just watch this. This is why it’s advised to follow most if not all of the FDS rulesImagine if he put this much time and energy into a job or self improvement. He’d prob be a fucking CMO somewhere. Why invest so much into ruining women? He’s seriously sociopathic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Some important changes in the prosecution of rape cases made in NSW, Australia yesterday. This makes me feel so hopeful, and proud of the progress being made in Australia. I hope these laws can be an example for law makers around the world and more widely adopted.Idk man. I don’t think this is going to do shit. It seems like it’s just virtue signaling. So you text a man “yea please come over” - a jury can totally interpret that as consent. Or a kissy face. And let’s say you do consent but he sodomizes you and you revoke consent. It’s still all he said - she said and men always side with men. I’m pretty sure women obviously don’t consent to being murdered but men have gotten off by claiming she wanted to be choked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 8 | The main subs on reddit...Prob cause they saw you post here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:35 PM |
| 11 | In case you forgot that being nice to men will get you literally nowhere, here's a tiktok with 2 million likes to remind you.You’re right. Looks like the auto mod broke? His comments shouldn’t show if he doesn’t have flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 13 | In case you forgot that being nice to men will get you literally nowhere, here's a tiktok with 2 million likes to remind you.This is why we have a report option with “sub is for women by women” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:57 PM |
| 8 | My dad is an anti-feministMy comment didn’t pertain to men who don’t think rape is bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 49 | FDS has made soooo many shows unwatchable for meThere was a recent thread where the comments involved snoop dog and someone seriously asked if he was sexist. He had an album cover of women with dog chains and leashes. I remember hitting puberty and realizing THATS what men thought of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:52 AM |
| 15 | My dad is an anti-feministUhm. Idk what to say about your situation. But my brother and I have had a somewhat terse relationship regarding politics/human rights, etc (feminism IS human rights) I remember telling him that rape was a hate crime because we wouldn’t be raped if we weren’t women and I could see his mind blow up lol. Sometimes it’s just a matter of finding the right phrasing to convince someone of something. And sometimes you just need to have tiny convos in small chunks where you decide to not be upset becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:27 AM |
| 9 | What the "critics" think this subreddit is teaching women vs. What it's actually teaching womenRight? I wish we could get male subs banned. Reddit didn’t ban a sub devoted to pictures of dead girls until Anderson cooper did a segment on how horrible Reddit was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 6 | I just wanted to share this hillarious scene from the movie The Other Guys parodying the UglyGuy/HotWife trope widespread in movies and television.I didn’t know he produced that! I love the scene where the prostitute spits the mans cum into his mouth, and as he’s telling his buddies he’s realizing how disgusting that is lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:48 AM |
| 10 | The rest of Reddit is a toxic dumpster fire. (Found on a sub about a kind of relationship we don't support, you know the one)Idk if mature is the right word, but I do agree. All the healthy, successful adults I know came from stable homes and have had age appropriate relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:34 AM |
| 18 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack hereLmao my mom used to tell my brother that women’s vaginas had teeth WAY before that movie was ever made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 17 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack hereThere’s a paywall. Can you paste the text? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 22 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack hereOk ok I get the incredulousness.... but it also makes me wonder what sort of hell this woman has lived through to think this is romantic. Honestly it makes me think she’s had some deep deep trauma (being molested, trafficked, abused etc). It just makes you sad to wonder about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 72 | More evidence the red pill ruins relationships, makes insecure men irrationally paranoid and cheat on their partners to make them jealous/unstable and is full of bitter late bloomers seeking ‘revenge’ on the types of women who ignored them in school.I dated a dude who for all intents and purposes seemed HV. Now I’m wondering if he was secretly RPD. He said he used to go on Reddit. Never posted pics of us together and consistently withheld affection. He was also obviously insecure about my intelligence so maybe it was just his insecurity showing. That boy was fiiiine but dumb as dirt. The first time he ever bought a book was after turning 31... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:21 AM |
| 4 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?Idk if I’m going to agree with that. Part of African countries issues is being used by “developed” nations for their minerals and diamonds. Ethical diamonds are probably the same as “feminist porn”. They just hide behind a curtain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:04 AM |
| 5 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?I think most diamonds are actually blood diamonds. It’s really easy for them to fake the certifications. Honestly lab made diamonds seem like the most ethical choice, or vintage. I think it fairly inexpensive to get diamonds re-set | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 3 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?I want to know the artist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Avoid joining an activity if your sole purpose for joining is to meet menI made a comment the other day about how new moms only talk about their babies and spouses and got some backlash. That’s been my genuine experience with new moms. ALLLLL about babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:36 AM |
| 6 | And they aren’t treated well either!Seth Rogans movies are only funny if you’re actually high. I don’t smoke weed so I could never get into them. They’re just so fucking stupid, not clever at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 30 | Porn is one of the leading factors in why couples get divorced. Divorce lawyers have been sounding the alarm since 2002.Is it really that low? When I’ve gone to porn sites it seems so much higher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:59 PM |
| 12 | I've made a new friendSo many women (and men) have been conditioned to think “it’s natural for men to lust after other women” I really don’t think having a separate account is common. Society just thinks it’s fine now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 11 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭I know in my experience I’m giving during sex because I’m turned on and I think it will be reciprocated. I think if you turn me on, then if I’m turning you on, then you’ll want to please me too. And I think that’s just not true for most men. And yes! Men partially or half assing what you ask them to do to make you cut isn’t unique. So many guys have taken instruction and then quit right when I was close. Or they’ve totally not cared. And part of my original post was inspired by me dating a man, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:42 AM |
| 27 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭That might have been my post! I made a post about how women must be the most sexual creatures because even though most of us don’t orgasm, we keep having sex with men. It got deleted though. I agree. Women have been conditioned to put others first in daily life, and it extends to our sex life. But I also think women are extremely sexual. I know when I don’t cum during sex, I’m ok taking a break, but I’m still like 60% turned on after that. I think most women who have a hard time reaching an orga… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:17 AM |
| 25 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.I’m really sad these posts don’t get the 1K upvotes the kinda generic posts get. But I’m really glad the mods are putting themselves out there and creating this content. Women need to wake up and realize their worth doesnt lie in their looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 79 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭Thank you. It makes me rage when I see women talk about being insecure about their vulva. Idk if mine is average or unique. I know lots of young girls are ashamed of their labia because of porn. Loving my vulva is one of my ways of fighting the patriarchy. You’re not making me insecure about something very few people will see. Also men should treasure it! They’re lucky to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:45 AM |
| 17 | In a world full of disappointing pickmeishas, I’m thankful for creators like her. Been watching her journey since law school and I love how open she is about having high standards on tiktok, a platform where that isn’t usually welcomed.There’s a post on a well known relationship sub where men are calling the OP a gold digger because she wants her bf who makes like triple her salary, to not do 50/50. She’s being used so he can save more money, get sex, and I guarantee she does more chores because “his job is so hard” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 11 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.That’s def a pimp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:37 PM |
| 31 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.The interesting thing is that all the women I know in real life, IG is their modern photo album. Like it’s trips, maybe nice food they made, their pet, their parents, etc. But when I’ve looked at who men follow.... it’s all thirst trap shit under the guise of travel photos. Or “life coaches” or whatever bizarro “job” they put as the account. I really think it’s just porn for them at this point. We see men recording women at the gym. They’ll save a regular friend/family vacation bikini pic that i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 9 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.Right? I wonder how many clout chasing women have LVM in the background holding the camera and coasting off her income. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:28 PM |
| 18 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.We should 100% analyze and be critical of women’s behavior. Women are some of the fiercest pillars of the patriarchy. OP didn’t talk about any 1 person. I’d agree with you if she was singling women out. She’s talking about behaviors that help the patriarchy and a lot of our users may have never even considered what they’re doing is conforming to patriarchal standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 45 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.Did the mods have a round table about posting more radfem content? 😂😂😂 im looooooving it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 239 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭My ideal man is a 30 year old woman who wakes up in a mans body. Honestly. I’d rather date women. I am unfortunately often attracted to men’s bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 212 | Saw this today, and I'm disturbed.. A- This is rape. B- I'm pretty sure this is what porn consumption has led to.Most children and teenagers are introduced to prostitution by a boyfriend or family member who convinces them to have sex with their “friend” and they have no idea money is being exchanged. And then it just slowly becomes part of normal life for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:10 PM |
| 39 | Alarming Sexualisation By MenIt’s really sad how many comments here are about fathers wanting to protect their daughters from other men but simultaneously embarrassing their daughter. I remember my mom wanting me to wear a bikini that was my sisters. It was really cute actually and vintage. I refused to wear it because I didn’t want men looking at me. I even cut my hair and wore boys clothes in early puberty. However the looks I got when people realized I was a girl were worse than men lusting after me. I went from having j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:15 PM |
| 46 | What is femininity?I’m all about this but it seems like every radfem post this week gets stereotypical replies by newbie libfems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:05 PM |
| 21 | Green Flag BaitLmao what? Everyone curates their social media. Of course you’re putting up the best photos of yourself. Same thing with OLD... why would you put something unattractive up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 10 | Men pretend they're clueless and incompetent to avoid being self-sufficient and accountable. This is how women end up doing most of the house work. The "mental load" of organizing and managing falls to the women. Link in comments for more about the invisible labour of "mental load".Yea, idk what chemicals are used or how it’s done but porn stars bleach their butthole. You know how the skin around genitals is typically darker/a dif color? Even though men want to fuck you in the ass they also don’t want to know it’s your butthole. So pornstars bleach it. Then instead of having a ring around the spot poo comes out, it’s the same color as your butt cheek so men can pretend they’re not getting poo on their dick! Which leads me to my next Ted Talk - why are women giving themselv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:09 AM |
| 10 | "My Ex accused me of rape"The man who raped me ran a charity, constantly spoke feminist woke shit, identified as a feminist and had a ton of female friends. Abusers often hide behind their superficial friendships, being an amazing guy, to torment their victims. They also go after women with emotional and addiction issues. My rapist said his ex was crazy, he felt bad for her, she had BPD. I talked to my rapists ex and found out he used the same phrases word for word on her and did the exact same physical harm. Only it esc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:56 AM |
| 22 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.Fucking thank you! It’s really depressing seeing so many women in the sub absolutely refuse to self analyze and analyze beauty culture and our society. So you call men trash for treating women like shit? But then you pretend you’re not conforming to their shit treatment and standards of beauty? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:37 AM |
| 36 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.I dO iT fOr Me! 🙄 I’m so fucking tired of comments in this sub where women lack any introspection as to why they have a certain beauty ideal. You do not spend an hour contouring, filling in eyebrows, and putting on fake eyelashes because you’re immune to beauty standards. Like come the fuck on. If you were wearing makeup simply because it gives you enjoyment you’d prob be wearing some REAL avant-garde shit like sparkles, blue lipstick, hearts drawn with eyeliner, etc. You don’t conform to what e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:28 AM |
| 55 | But we know that will never happenI’m pretty sure it depends on the state. They can definitely garnish your wages. But a lot of men just work under the table when that happens. My mom drug my dads ass across 3 dif states he owed child support in (we moved a lot). The ONLY reason he ever flew to our part of the US was to go to court. She managed to get all the child support that was back-due and surprised me with it when I decided to buy a house. She said she prob spent more money over the years fighting for the child support tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:13 AM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterIt’s funny you say this because my ex would hardcore cuddle, to the point I’d be getting pushed off the bed. And the few times I woke him up and said “move over” he’d get angry and said he had no space. I’d reach over and angrily tell him he had 2 fucking feet while I was on the edge. He’d also hold me down in his sleep. The first time we slept together I literally thought I was going to die because when I tried to get his arm off my shoulder/neck area, he grabbed me tighter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:54 AM |
| 7 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)I'm not but I'll look it up, thanks! Most people I've mentioned dating a drug dealer to are horrified. So thanks for laughing with me and letting me talk about it. Honestly, he really loved me and treated me better than the doctor, financial advisor, and cop I dated after. He's still LV but I def look back and laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:24 PM |
| 24 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.That's awesome! I hope your job goes well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:18 PM |
| 13 | In animal kingdom women are always more valuable.The first time I saw hyenas IRL was in Kenya. I immediately loved them. They became my favorite animal. They're SO FUCKING CUTE. Then later I learned female hyenas kind of have a phallus? It's a bit odd. But this video just solidified my love of them. There's also a South African dude who feeds hyenas and has videos online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 28 | Our culture teaches men that it isn’t romantic to ask for permissionOh god it's so charming when a man asks if he can kiss you. Honestly I think women give off a TON of non-verbal consent/non-consent that men just fucking ignore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 30 | Men pretend they're clueless and incompetent to avoid being self-sufficient and accountable. This is how women end up doing most of the house work. The "mental load" of organizing and managing falls to the women. Link in comments for more about the invisible labour of "mental load".Isn't it depressing realizing how much control men have over us? They've got young women bleaching their asshole while pretending they don't see differences in tones of paint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:20 PM |
| 28 | Men pretend they're clueless and incompetent to avoid being self-sufficient and accountable. This is how women end up doing most of the house work. The "mental load" of organizing and managing falls to the women. Link in comments for more about the invisible labour of "mental load".One of the extra fucked up things about this is how many male artists are family names vs. female artists... If men can't understand nuance in color why the fuck is Picasso, Van Gogh, Lautrec, so fucking popular? Huh? Try to name 3 female artists. Men can see color and tone variations. The majority of people in my art classes were female. The majority of instructors were male. Men live life on easy mode. I swear if women started their own country we'd be much happier, healthier, and thrive in a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 18 | Men pretend they're clueless and incompetent to avoid being self-sufficient and accountable. This is how women end up doing most of the house work. The "mental load" of organizing and managing falls to the women. Link in comments for more about the invisible labour of "mental load".LMAO this made me snort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 67 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.There was a post a little while ago about BookKeeping. How you don't really need credentials and it's a good way to make money without much experience. Look at FemaleLevelUpStrategy . Also, you can work in insurance without a degree. You can work for a local agency answering phones, etc. and they'll train you. And figure out how to network. Everyone I know with a good job got it by knowing someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 51 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.I wish I could give you a hug! I've been called a SWERF. I believe in de-criminalization of prostitution and keeping buyers criminalized. Have you heard of the Nordic model? As an ex-sexworker you might find more enriching work working with organizations that help prostitutes. I've always been into radical feminism and over the years I've seen a few different organizations that employ ex-prostitutes. If you have a hard time finding work, you could start there. And network. I've seen complete fuc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:02 PM |
| 22 | You weren’t asking for too much- love and attention are necessities ❤️✨Women have sex when they feel loved = you treat us as human with needs to be cared for and loved. Not just a vessel for your dick. God. So many dead bedroom posts and relationship posts by men are easily explained. She doesn't want to fuck you because you probably do fucking NOTHING around the house, nag her for sex, and don't even make sure she cums. I lose my sex drive when men start taking me for granted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:39 PM |
| 11 | You weren’t asking for too much- love and attention are necessities ❤️✨I don't get this trope. I think it's been created for men to have a harem. Every man I've ever dated craved attention/affection/love way more than I did. Pretending men don't want affection is just their tool to get away with hate fucking women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 11 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)As we're talking about this and memories are coming back, apparently I'd make a pretty good drug dealer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:34 PM |
| 19 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)LMAO Ohhhh my gawd!!! There were too many times I told him to shut the fuck up about some stupid asshole supposedly talking shit about him. Lmao that’s so funny. I also would lose his ass at a party, walk into a room where he was making a deal and have to be like “where’s the cash”. Everyone hated me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Got called useless by someone close to me. How do I proceed?What type of family member? If it’s a parent the dynamic will be different. | /r/askFDS | 22/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 37 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)Lmao it’s def funny. What’s worse is I stayed for him and his roommate’s dogs. There was another pickme who would come by to walk and take care of the dogs. I honestly don’t know why we didn’t become friends. I also caught him giving out drugs on loan AFTER his boss and I chewed him out. I also helped him collect money owed. And by “boss” I mean the drug dealer who recruited him to sell so HE would have less of a risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 16 | More Dad Bod Cope: Babies have tiny little weak arms and you’re supposed to use your big strong arms to support them, not let them hang on for dear life from your gutWhen I was 6 I remember arguing with my brother that girls were as strong as boys. And we totally are at that age, we’re just encouraged to do dif activities. Since having a much smaller man beat the shit out of me and overpower me, I realized how wrong I was. So it’s personally annoying to see that sub pretend men and women have the same biology and chemistry. I’d love to see encouragement/celebration of women having stronger legs than men. Also women have better endurance. Let’s talk about tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 70 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)Lmao I’m glad you enjoyed it. Bike Commuting in my city is totally normal and encouraged. He rode by on a bike, saw me laughing and turned around to ask me out. A very meet-cute situation. I learned later he thought I was SMILING AT HIM 😂😂😂 even though I was walking with gf and we were both laughing. Men are so self absorbed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | No Other Spaces To Vent About How I Really Feel About MenWhat really pisses me off is men complaining that they’re seen as a predator. BECAUSE YOU FUCKING ARE. you know who molests children? MEN. Repeatedly. It’s really hard for the police to gather enough evidence to put a guy away for molesting a child. Most children burry it and don’t realize how bad it is. Or feel THEY did something bad. I’m so fucking tired of seeing men whine about being thought of as child molesters of rapists when every woman I know has been sexually assaulted, 2 women in my f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaGod have you seen the sub devoted to people pretending to have DiD? Claiming you have a mental illness and never getting a diagnosis seems super popular these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 3 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaYes. I’m so tired of seeing “triggering” in regards to benign situations. It’s become a trendy word for middle class kids with minor issues. Oh and “abusive”. A parent not letting a 13 year old have full access to the internet isn’t fucking abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | MEN ARE THE BIGGEST GOSSIPERSGod I have a lot to say about this. A lot of it is self identifying though. I’m just going to say “yes” and they’re also the nastiest backstabbers I’ve ever experienced. I’ve never had a more supportive environment than when I worked with only women. Men are jealous, love to shit talk women, and constantly compare themselves to us while they can’t do half the work we do. So they grow small egos and have to self aggrandize somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else see a problem with a 4 year old making her mom PROUD for decorating their faces with make up?Children want to be their parents. If you watch mommy spend hours on her makeup, you’ll want to try it. Honestly, it’s part of why I’m so anti-makeup. I really hate the pressure on women and girls to be “pretty” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:16 PM |
| 11 | Why do so many men think hitting, slapping and strangling a woman is acceptable?I really think we need a law reviewing a prosecutors history of what porn they watch. You can’t have someone who watches rough porn prosecuting a case like this. What happened to her 100% sounds like a porn video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 5 | SEX POZZY MYTHS BUSTED : Why women struggle to emotionally detach from casual sex despite their best efforts. Male semen contains a concoction of chemicals designed to enslave her to the man she had sex with.😂 so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 13 | Don't worry if you're not one of those "popular girls"I’ve never had more male attention than when I’d gotten out of an abusive relationship, was suffering from PTSD, doing drugs and anorexic. At this point public male attention feels like a big warning sign that I need to work on my shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:43 PM |
| 7 | L.A. Affairs: The sheer exhaustion of dating as a single momAnd quietly creep into the house? Wtf is that??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:34 PM |
| 10 | L.A. Affairs: The sheer exhaustion of dating as a single mom😂😂🤣 omg thank you. I closed the article and thought “what the fuck is this shit?!” You perfectly summarized what I couldn’t articulate. This is why I don’t read opinion pieces or really anything in a paper that isn’t investigative journalism. EVERYONE can write an article now. You have people with no credentials, experience or creativity writing these stupid fucking pieces. Even when it’s about a bill passed, I’ve noticed it’s a complete no-body with no sources spouting off what they read on Twi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 9 | I have never been spoiled :(I think you need to re-read the handbook and the suggested literature. The first principle of FDS is to learn to be happy being single, filling your life with things you love, and accepting you may never find a HVM. And you being so jealous of other women getting spoiled shows you haven’t worked on yourself. You’ll never find a HVM while you’re so desperate for one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Ladies be careful about accepting massages in public. Have you all seen any Luo Dong videos on YouTube?I can’t watch the videos. But why hasn’t he been sued or arrested yet??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:19 PM |
| 8 | To my fellow WOC - if you date outside your race be careful of “woke” guys. There’s a good chance he’s a LVM putting on an act to impress you.Honestly I’d love it if we normalized going through each others phones on a 3rd date! I never went through my ex’s phone and it was honestly because I felt like I wasn’t going to like what I found. The one time I went through a guys phone, he was cheating on me. With a lot of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 23 | To my fellow WOC - if you date outside your race be careful of “woke” guys. There’s a good chance he’s a LVM putting on an act to impress you.Remember ladies - men CAN NOT be feminists either. They do not know what it’s like to be a woman, they have no skin in the game. It’s just like OPs point. Forwardly woke or feminist men are over performing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:02 PM |
| 8 | Nah you can be mean to men and still find a HVM who gets why you're mean lolEvery guy I’ve dated who listened to my radfem rants seemed to like me more cause of it. And I don’t hold back. Men respect women who respect themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:58 PM |
| 38 | More Dad Bod Cope: Babies have tiny little weak arms and you’re supposed to use your big strong arms to support them, not let them hang on for dear life from your gutThe female workout sub loves to pretend women can get as jacked as easily men do. It’s so fucking annoying. Even when I’ve worked out my hardest for months on end my ex could walk into the gym and deadlift way more weight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 41 | It's just a myth that attractive people have terrible personalitiesIn high school it actually seemed like the most unattractive kids were actually the most sexually active. It was gross. They did gross shit, like having sex at the school, trading partners all the time. I’ve never agreed with the idea that the most attractive people are the most sexually active. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:43 PM |
| 15 | Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again!I’m very hairy as well, and honestly I’ve gotten to the point where I feel sad for women who feel like they have to remove all their body hair. If a man can’t handle your arms being hairy, I don’t want anything to do with him. It’s absolutely pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:35 PM |
| 27 | Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again!I was made fun of as a kid for my hairiness. Even my mom jokes about how I was a hairy monkey. It’s never stopped men from hitting on me! Hell, I’ve had a full bush and full leg hair and still had sex. You should keep your back hair! And your arm hair! Guys don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:33 PM |
| 10 | Got called useless by someone close to me. How do I proceed?Is this a roommate or a romantic relationship? The way you phrase it sounds so odd. If it’s a roommate, don’t hang out with them anymore. | /r/askFDS | 22/05/21 01:28 PM |
| 132 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)I don’t know. He thought everyone was his BFF. I remember chewing him out with his boss about how he lost money lmao Anyway, that’s what getting a relationship on the streets will get you - a dumb ass drug dealer and embarrassing stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 311 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)🙋♀️ me, right here! This gal! Extreme LVM who I had a lot of fun with, but he was also the worlds worst drug dealer and I had to teach him not to give out drugs before getting the money. Edit : sorry, your comment made me snort and I had to reply with my story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:00 PM |
| 14 | HVM are always HVM, even if they’re your ExMy ex supposedly worked on himself, became closer to his family, etc. and really wanted to be my friend. That’s exactly what he wanted. An easy lay. And I was dumb enough to eat up him talking to me like how he did when we were together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:49 PM |
| 11 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Lmao what is wrong with men? According to the women replying this is universally hated and yet they still do it. Like I said, the only way I got my ex to stop that shit was by covering his mouth and saying “stop talking” lmao he never said it again after that. But I guarantee he’s going to be single for a while, start watching porn, and do it again with the next girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:39 PM |
| 59 | HOW THE HELL HAS NO-ONE POSTED KEANU YET? Seems like a dope af person, too.Angelina Jolie? God I love her. Thrust into an industry she never asked for. Gave her fame and savings to disadvantaged people. It’s clear she has had an eating disorder, which my heart hurts for her. But I can’t imagine being in her shoes and not having some kind of visible issue. I had an eating disorder after a particularly horrible relationship. I’ve volunteered at shelters and fostered dogs. But I’ve never been able to raise the type of money she’s been able to raise for UNCIF. Scrotes are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:25 AM |
| 61 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Thank you! I kinda felt weird being so graphic. But there comes a point where we’re surrounded by gross pornographic shit and I feel like young women aren’t hearing 1. Yes women can be super horny and turned on 2. That we don’t have to watch porn or be demoralized to be turned on and 3. We CAN tell a man what he’s doing sucks and we can ask for what we need. But all that only works if women know how to make themselves cum/their own body prior to having sex. I was so late to date when I was a tee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:18 AM |
| 13 | Girls did you read the shocking news about Lady Gaga?This was a big post on the rest of Reddit and I read that she’s been with her current producer a long time because her like an equal. But damn if women don’t have to go through some fucking shit - ESPECIALLY for our art. It seems like if you’re a bit odd and even somewhat artistic that we rejected, told we’re stupid, and then preyed upon. Even as a woman who’s never had fame for her art, I’ve seen the switch in men when they realize I view the world slightly dif than they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 9 | Girls did you read the shocking news about Lady Gaga?Her story was posted here too. I remember we had a few speculative articles and then one she supposedly gave details to. I’d love if the mods could get her actual input! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 197 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.I can still hear the ring of my NVM exs voice in my head, “ahh ya I can feel you’re about to cum, cum for me NOW” Lmao honestly, I cum pretty easily compared to most women. And hearing a man say "cum for me" is an INSTANT mood killer. It's fucking gross. 1. Don't tell me what to do 2. I'm not doing this for you 3. This isn't a fucking porno I've learned to be pretty assertive and express what I want/need for sex. And there's been multiple times where a guy was moving his hips while I was on top … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 11:14 PM |
| 57 | This is why you need your own income.This lady sounds happy, she loves her husband, it made “sense” for her to be a STAHM. And now she can’t get a fucking job. She has no friends and no hobbies. Even in the best circumstances being a STAHM ends badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 09:05 PM |
| 25 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?I don’t think there’s anything wrong with adult women using a vibrator. I do think it’s very important for girls explore their sexuality and learn what feels good with their hands though. When you look at what young women say about sex, it’s clear they think they need penetration to cum when most women cum from clitoral stimulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 12 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?I don’t think there’s anything wrong with adult women using a vibrator. I do think it’s very important for girls explore their sexuality and learn what feels good with their hands though. When you look at what young women say about sex, it’s clear they think they need penetration to cum when most women cum from clitoral stimulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Why women oppose prostitution.I don’t work in criminal justice so I don’t know... but if you listen to any true crime podcast you’ll quickly learn that yes, the courts take that seriously. Listen to Small Town Dicks. They talk about a lot of cases where they knew a guy was awful but didn’t have the evidence to arrest him for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:42 PM |
| 68 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?When was this study done? I can see that 94% going down as young women think it's normal to need a vibrator and to watch porn in order to orgasm. We're cheating a lot of young women by pretending women need porn/vibrators to cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 27 | Jason Mamoa 🔥Honestly, I think I got downvoted for saying most famous men are LV. This sub has a bizarre fixation on defending/idolizing famous or rich men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Thanks to this sub, I’m divorcing my extremely LVM husbandWoo Wooo Woo! Love this post. But as another user said, if it's not too late you should figure out if you can move further away. I assume your decision to stay there has to do with your credit score? Or something like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Why women oppose prostitution.Sex Work twitter is a whole dif species than normal prostitutes. I actually do feel bad for sex work twitter. A bunch of women who probably feel degraded every day, don't know how to get out of it, and are told over and over what they're doing is empowering. It's all sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Why women oppose prostitution.Because when abusive men catch wind of "parental alienation" they think 'She can't prove I scream at her or the kids, so I can lie and say anything negative she says about me is parental alienation! Perfect"! And men believe other men. You don't see many female judges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Why women oppose prostitution.Most prostitutes were molested as children, trafficked by family members or boyfriends. There's a study showing prostitutes have similar rates of TBI as football players. It's beyond me why ANY woman would argue "sOmE wOmEn LiKe It". Becoming immune to something or being able to disengage from your body to survive is not enjoying something. Just because a handful of women say "yea I can do this work, it's not that bad" doesn't make it right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why women oppose prostitution.I'm sorry, but where in the world have you seen men opposed to OnlyFans? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Applying FDS Values in Nordic Dating CultureI'm not Nordic but I visited a friend living in Denmark. It seems a lot less common for people to marry there because there's no financial incentive. I think part of FDS saying "go for marriage" is all the health and financial benefits it brings. Do you pay less taxes if you're married in Denmark? I know you don't have to worry about adding a spouse to your healthcare plan. Also in my experience it seemed more common to have tight knit social circles. So most of the people I met had known their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 40 | Jason Mamoa 🔥Yea there's weird stuff about him and the rape scenes in Game of Thrones. Also, I think most famous men are LV but that's my personal opinion. You have to share some qualities of a narcissist to excel in a field FULL of them. I'm suspect of most famous people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 16 | This is so distributing.I read a comment on one of the relationship subs saying this. The person (I assume a woman) talked about working in social services and hearing a man say “parental alienation” was a huge red flag to her. She also said judges don’t take the term seriously. But that was a rando on Reddit, so who knows if it’s true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 29 | Jason Mamoa 🔥Jason Mamoa is a LVM but damn is he fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 10 | Katherine Ryan’s “fix” for the gender pay gap... where do I sign upDo fine as fuck fridays count as a ritual? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureLmao ok 😂 I’m sure you’re a lesbian radfem and are up to date on radfem literature | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 11:19 AM |
| 24 | We love and admire an independent queen who stays true to her eccentricitiesBOO. There's no way to send her physical mail, only email : http://enya.sk/faq/#:~:text=There%20is%20no%20direct%20way,controlled%20before%20being%20handed%20over. There is no direct way for fans to send letters to Enya. On particular occassions, members of the official forum can send an online greeting or a postcard to Enya, Roma and Nicky. Please note that these messages are limited in length and controlled before being handed over. Idk how to join the official forum. But I would LOVE it if FD… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 5 | What About Equality?I think when people read "55% of women voted for trump" they're not realizing that's a VERY small portion of the population. They read that and say "it's white women's fault trump got elected" even if 30% of the population actually voted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 23 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaThey're not organizing to pass laws, You know how many people have actually read FOSTA/SESTA that advocate against it? ZERO. This is my biggest issue with liberals. They repost shit without ever actually reading the fucking bill! I've asked multiple friends if they've read bills/reports that they're talking about and they never have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 10:31 PM |
| 60 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaAfter I was raped and experienced extreme physical and emotional abuse I couldn't watch sex scenes. Like no even loving ones. You know what I did? I closed my eyes and covered my ears. Or I got up and left the room. I've never ever understood the crowd that adds * in rape. Whether or not the A is there, I know what you're talking about. I've literally broke down and cried about a kissing scene, and had night terrors where I woke up screaming - all over a normal kissing scene! I'll never ever und… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 10:29 PM |
| 64 | We love and admire an independent queen who stays true to her eccentricitiesOmg I love when Enya is posted here. We should all write her individual cards asking that she be on the podcast. She's our true queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 21 | Bf May have acted sus with girl he was seeing before me and I wanna know moreUghhhhh.... You don't know who the chlamydia came from? Did you have symptoms? When was the last time you got tested? Who was your last partner? It sounds like he gave you chlamydia. | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Is this normal in American culture?OK. I'm familiar with Mormons, not the stereotypical creepy Utah Mormon either. It's my understanding that Mormons marry young, and quickly decide they want a future with someone. Is he also 30? Because maybe he isn't like the typical mormons I know even though we're from the same area. I agree with /u/ASeaOfQuotes, that it sounds like he's trying to meet as many people as possible. He may be pretending that he wants a relationship because culturally, that's what Mormons do. Does he have plans t… | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 14 | What About Equality?I think you mean to say the percentage of women who voted. The number of people who vote in America is very very small. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 44 | What About Equality?I want equity - not equality. I can't speak to race, but as a white woman I know that men and women will never ever be equal. We will ALWAYS carry the burden of pregnancy. And I can't imagine in my life time, that women don't have generational trauma. It's easy to see how differently boys and girls are raised. My mom unloaded her sexual assaults and trauma on me, warned me at a young age about the evils of men. My brother didn't realize how horrible men were until I started explicitly telling hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:51 PM |
| 23 | Are flowers okay for the first date?I had a guy bring me a bonzai tree on a first date. It was adorable, I loved it. Flowers are great. If you can hand pick a bouquet, like wildflowers in your area, that'd be super cute too. | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 06:40 PM |
| 8 | The Pink Tax and Makeup Culture“It’s fun to be artistic” would explain why women give themselves glitter eyebrows, black lipstick, paint designs on their face. It doesn’t explain conforming to a beauty trend that most models and porn stars sport because men find it attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 13 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureI've seen this argument a hundred times. You should read the Beauty Myth and think about how fashion trends have been driven by both men and women. Wearing makeup is fun. I'm not arguing it's not. My point is that there are deep cultural and patriarchal reasons why it's "fun" and why women defend it so vehemently when radfems criticize conforming to the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 9 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureRight? Empowerment comes from taking power when you had none. It doesn't come from leaning into your oppressors and getting pats on the head by them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Just in case the men do not believe the previous picture of them separately is taken at the same time, here they are taking a selfie together. The cast of Friends. There is no Wall for women.That's such a good point, the fertility is the real issue. But all these young women have simply internalized the 'looks' issue because they're not ready to have kids. It's frustrating to me how much this sub is getting obsessed with looks. Recognizing women often spend more time/money on their looks, so men shouldn't whine about spending money to take us out is dif than buying into the beauty industry. That part of the sub, the looks obsessed part, is really tilting the sub toward liberal femin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Men - Step UpOooo I like this post! I hope we get more of them. Maybe we’d help a woman out there if her Scrote reads this and it gets through to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | What's the point of The Wall?I’m pretty sure balding skips a generation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 8 | What's the point of The Wall?Idk how long you’ve subscribed here, but there’s a huge onslaught of “the wall” posts about once a month. It gives way too much attention to LVM. We should be focusing on leveling up - talking about how normal aging is. And not giving credence to nasty men’s excuses for pedophilia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 19 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureI’m so sick of that argument too. They won’t even try to analyze WHY it makes them feel good. Or analyze that every choice we make is heavily influenced by our culture. Feeling good when wearing makeup has everything to do with performing femininity and attracting men. I have seen the difference in how men look at me when I wear makeup and when I don’t. You can’t convince me no other woman notices this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 35 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureIt’s so annoying to see women saying “I do it for me! Not men” without even trying to analyze why wearing makeup makes them feel good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 16 | Just in case the men do not believe the previous picture of them separately is taken at the same time, here they are taking a selfie together. The cast of Friends. There is no Wall for women.100%! And no, I don’t think you missed the point of the post as other people are saying. You’re adding a radfem point of view. I hate how obsessed with proving women don’t age some of our users can be. I imagine they must be insecure about turning 30. They’re clearly still trying to de-tangle from patriarchal norms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:44 PM |
| 21 | This is why I'm divorced - I also brought home 70 percent of the family income when I was married.Right? Ruin your earning potential, not mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:48 AM |
| 31 | This is why I'm divorced - I also brought home 70 percent of the family income when I was married.My SIL breast fed and pumped. And my brother got up at all hours for his “shift”. When the baby was born they decided they’d each take a 3 hr shift. Whoever’s shift it was slept in the guest room by the babies room. They were both tired but it actually sounded really effective! Especially because the shifts lasted through the day too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:47 AM |
| 4 | And the award for pickmeisha of the year goes out to... my own MIL. The very definition of slavery is unpaid labour smfhBut you’re paid with having orgasm-less sex! And the joy of giving your husband good career advice and never getting credit! Oh boy! The joy of being disappointed on Mother’s Day! And being the “bad guy” because you’re the only person who actually parents your children. You’re not doing thankless work for free! You’re paid by your husband groping you after a long hard day! 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:24 AM |
| 70 | This is why I'm divorced - I also brought home 70 percent of the family income when I was married.The reasoning was that women earn less, have jobs that allow them to be more flexible with work, and “women are just better at it”. So basically all the same reasons men claim their is no wage gap. I actually thought the article was pretty sympathetic to women. All their reasons why women do more work were informed by studies and it pointed out how sexist it all was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:10 AM |
| 90 | This is why I'm divorced - I also brought home 70 percent of the family income when I was married.Ughhhhhhhhh... what a fucking depressing read. I hate reading about how women are held to higher standards and simultaneously looked down on. I swear if I ever have children with a man he’s going to make a fuck ton of money and we’re having a prenup that favors motherhood. Or. I’ll just never have kids and stray dogs will enjoy my money 🤷♀️ Honestly, maybe that’s the best way women can help future women. If we stop having children/getting married, maybe they’ll fucking wake up and try to treat … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Don't accept men who only go 50/50.That was my immediate thought too. I’d also be pissed if I permanently changed my body to have a child for a man who wasn’t paying shit for our home life. And men seem to think they’re doing emotional labor simply by listening to their wives chew them out. Your wife getting mad you don’t do the dishes isn’t emotional labor you fucking moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:57 AM |
| 29 | My boyfriend acts strange regarding me talking to his mom, and I don’t know if it’s a symptom of something bigger.This is a huge red flag. At least one of the following things is happening, or maybe both : He doesn’t respect his mom and treats her like shit (he clearly lied to her, and chastised her for no reason) He doesn’t see something long term with you and wants to limit your interaction. Idk if #2 is true, but #1 def is. You can judge a man on how he’ll treat you down the line based on how he treats his mother. She permanently changed her body for him, spent 20 years raising him, devoting her life to … | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 62 | FDS for teens? Are the standards the same for 18-19 year olds?No, you can apply the same principles. A man courting you can still take you out to eat, maybe not to a 5 start restaurant, but he can take you somewhere nice! The principles of not having sex early, vetting, and watching out for red flags apply to you too. The best piece of advice FDS has for someone your age is to focus on your career and school. Focus on networking with women instead of dating. Look for internship opportunities. If you’re living away from home for the first time focus on crea… | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 01:13 AM |
| 6 | My aunt had FDS principles for decades. I used to think she was a crazy spinster. Now I realize that she is right about everything.Lmao are you calling him the chicken? Love it. It was even a 30 min convo of me chewing him out for muting me and pretending he didn’t get meat. I should have dumped his ass then 🤦♀️ Honestly, I have really fond memories of him after that, even if he wasn’t HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:47 AM |
| 9 | My aunt had FDS principles for decades. I used to think she was a crazy spinster. Now I realize that she is right about everything.My ex went vegetarian for me. I found out he was eating meat again because HE called ME prior to getting fast food - AND THEN MUTED THE CALL WHEN HE ORDERED. Like how fucking stupid are you to think I'm not going to realize you're ordering meat??? It honestly wasn't an issue for me either. I was disappointed but, you can't force someone to care about animals. It was him trying to pretend he didn't order meat that pissed me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:36 PM |
| -24 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallDon't throw rocks in glass houses :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 65 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallI heard that too. What’s worse is that model he dated even though he knew her when she was child. Woody Allen vibes all over him. I also wouldn’t be surprised if he got fat on purpose to see if he could still get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 171 | ~Anyone anywhere bringing up women's issues~ Men and pickmes: bUt WhAt aBoUt MeN? wHaT aBoUt MuH pEnIs?Circumcision isn't remotely similar to FGM. You can tell how well a man understands female anatomy/sexuality based on him comparing FGM and circumcision. It's why you only see men online arguing they're similar - because men who have lives outside of the internet actually understand the parts of a vulva. Also - their misunderstanding of vulvas reminds me of that post recently where the girl was worried that she had larger inner labia.... like the rest of the fucking world. Porn clearly warped he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:15 PM |
| 97 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallI'm certain DiCaprio has a drinking or drug issue. You don't get that fat out of nowhere. Also he's entitled and self righteous. Although I am really happy he pledged so much money to the Galapagos! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 8 | FDS principles lands on a political news channel. A few FDS’ers in the comments defending this woman for setting standards. So many complaining dinner is expensive and she’s a gold digger for the bare minimum.Jesus I feel old. I had no idea TYT was a news source.... since when? Is it just a YouTube channel? I'm sorry but I'm not getting my 'news' from a source where no one has to have a resume or prove they do investigative journalism. Same reason why I don't read opinion pieces in long standing publications. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 42 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??Lmao he's literally saying "you don't have the right equipment" - love your interpretation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 4 | A conversation between my friend and I. We are in our 40s and married with children. Made me think of you girls.Yea. And I don't mean to sound callous to new moms. But it's honestly frustrating when you lose a friend because they can't carry a conversation unless it's about babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:36 PM |
| 4 | A conversation between my friend and I. We are in our 40s and married with children. Made me think of you girls.Like I said, I’m referring to new mothers. The women im thinking of have supportive husbands who do take care of their wife and then their child. Two of the women im thinking of ended up having parents who babysat multiple times a week so they could go shopping, get their hair done, etc. I’m speaking about personal experience. Once pregnant most of the new mothers I know couldn’t hold a conversation if it wasn’t about babies. So in my experience, women become nothing but “mothers” because they m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:23 PM |
| 7 | Yet Another case of a Man and His Fetish Destroying a Woman. Porn Isn't Just Fantasy- It Has Real World Consequences for Women! If He Watches Porn Throw Him Out 👏🏻Cough cough : Brazilian waxes : cough cough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:36 AM |
| 5 | Don’t use Ring; it’s a police surveillance networkJesus, thank you for some fucking sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:30 AM |
| 2 | I still have a “pick me” mindset.I kind of wish we had more posts like yours here. It’s really insightful and I’m sure it speaks to a lot of women. It’s hard to stay ruthless when every day we’re told we need to lighten up, not be so critical, etc. I wish we saw more posts about this type of stuff. I don’t learn from or relate to posts detailing the absolute worst of men. I’ve been there and done that. It’s the normal day to day resisting the patriarchy that’s hard for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:14 AM |
| 3 | The Tiger King v. Carole Baskin: The “hate” surrounding Carole is worse than you think. It’s really a microcosm of how ACTUAL corrupt, evil men in power with greedy, hypocritical agendas, manipulate low IQ scrotes all over the world into hating powerless women.Wow. This is the content I come to FDS for. Honestly you make me jealous that I didn’t do my own research into who made the show. I couldn’t watch it. I got, idk, 10 min in and started crying over the captive tigers. I honestly thought everyone who was witnessing that was cruel - and you proved me right. I wish you could blast this info all over Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:02 AM |
| 22 | A conversation between my friend and I. We are in our 40s and married with children. Made me think of you girls.I have to say, all of the new mothers I know literally can’t hold a discussion unless it’s about babies/motherhood. I’m not going to lie, I think a lot of the “we’re nothing but a mom now” issues are partially women shouting themselves in the foot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:53 AM |
| 8 | I put in the years to become a HV woman. But I still struggle with boundaries when it comes to dating men.Ugh. Thanks for sharing. I struggle with the same issue - wanting someone to love me. My therapist made me realize I was severely neglected by my father (when I’d answer the phone he’d ask for my brother, remembered his birthdays but not mine, and even when I was the only person talking to him he’d call me by my brothers name or call me “son”). I struggle with boundaries with men too. My biggest regret is not listening to my gut. That’s my biggest advice. Listen to your gut, even if it seems imp… | /r/askFDS | 19/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 16 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesWhat you’re describing is what this sub calls “choice feminism” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 19 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesWe don’t make choices in a vacuum. Our choices are influenced by how we’re raised by our family, our friends growing up, and our culture. I’m not going to pretend my choice to not wear makeup has nothing to do with the culture I was raised in and neither should you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 20 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesThis is the same logic of “it’s my personal choice to do porn and it has nothing to do with my standing in society or the pressures put on women”.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 26 | Buying you things doesn’t make a man an HVMYour post is one of the reasons I hate the libfem idea that women should feel empowered by being STAHMs. Yea? A tool used to oppress women for centuries is also feminist? Give me a fucking break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:30 PM |
| 73 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesI really don’t like makeup (it’s just a tool for the patriarchy) but I love where she went with hers. All the women I know who wear makeup don’t wear it for fun, like this. They feel like they absolutely have to cover their entire face with foundation, because god forbid women have actual skin. If you get used to seeing yourself in makeup every day, and that’s when you look your “best”, you’re not going to have confidence from within. Your confidence is going to come from conforming to patriarch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 44 | This was posted in a subreddit (which I can't name as to not break FDS rules) where users share "cringe" content. I fail to see what's "cringe" about a woman having standards? This is why males on Reddit are singleThis is exactly why women can’t “reclaim” the B word as our own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 113 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎I remember seeing that sub... there also used to be a sub dedicated to pictures of dead little girls... but we’re toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 15 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditYea this claim pisses me off too. Men literally won’t show up for court. Or don’t argue for custody and then complain about paying child support. And that’s how abusive men get custody of their kids. So few men want custody, that when an abuser acts charming and wants it, it’s granted because judges never see men asking for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:05 PM |
| 16 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditI’m so sick of the inclusive language around domestic violence and rape. Yea, men under-report - BUT SO DO WOMEN. Women are still affected way more by these things than men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:01 PM |
| 5 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"That’s so insightful. Communicating shows the mistreatment you’re willing to put up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 10:23 PM |
| 3 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"That’s true. I should have dumped him the first trip he future faked with me. He’s really good at love bombing though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 21 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"Actual narcissists and sociopaths are pretty rare. But I’d agree most men have some of the traits they have, but they’re mostly directed at women. Men who treat women like shit and seem like a sociopath can genuinely love their male friends and treat them well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:54 AM |
| 37 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"Oh god this. I’d try to say this to men on Reddit complaining about not having sex and would get downvoted or argued with. They all want to pretend women aren’t sexual instead of realizing what horrible partners they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:26 AM |
| 22 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"He’d agree about places, listen to planning, but when it came down to planning an actual date he’d have excuses, like say he needed to confirm something with work, or save up a bit more. I’ve actually had 3 dif guys pretend they liked to travel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 30 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"It annoys me to think my ex is prob bragging about going to the cool places we went when I had to drag his ass there. The next woman is going to think he’s way cooler than he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:21 AM |
| 4 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"Idk if I’d call most men abusive though. They’re shit, but that doesn’t mean they’re always abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:06 AM |
| 151 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"Right? My ex tried to pretend he didn’t totally understand that I wanted to travel, and how much I hated begging him to go anywhere. He also future faked trips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:57 AM |
| 229 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"I’m pretty sure I saw a post of a woman talking about pointing out a gift she wanted and still not getting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 19 | A Woman's TouchRight? I realized there’s no box spring or a mattress. And yea. That frame is totally hers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 229 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"The advice you see on other subs is seriously like that. It's batshit. I saw a post by a woman complaining about her bf following instagram "models". I was surprised to see a man say "If my gf did that I'd be pissed".... Now that I think of it, I wonder if it was a woman and not a man... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:18 AM |
| 231 | What in the fresh hell-- throw this man out of your LIFE and slam the lid shut 😡What the fuck is wrong with men? Why do they ALWAYS get abusive after their partner gets pregnant? They're so fucked up in the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:46 PM |
| 2 | TeaMarrr - One JobIdk "you only had 1 job to fuck" seems like a pickme anthem. Edit : yea idk if I'd say this an FDS anthem. She talked about telling her daughters that men are good for nothing but fucking. That's not FDS. FDS isn't about casual sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Stephen James. I've got a thing for inked men. Who else?Ughhh..... The black Native American headdress?..... No thank you sir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 43 | Dear Scrotes, children aren’t trophies 🏆 🙄(Heteronormative, I know, sorry fellow LGBT ladies) That's because this is a sub built to discuss male-female relationships. Women do not act like men. Let's stop pretending they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 30 | I see your lovely dudes and raise you.... Charlie Hunnam in literally any formYESSSS - He's so fucking hot. I only watched Sons of Anarchy because I had such a HUGE crush on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍Omg that last picture though. So fucking funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 12 | Simon NessmanLmao look how tame our posts are compared to the shit on reddit too. But WE get chastised? I didn't see the comment you responded to but I can guess what it said. I think we should have a pasted sarcasitc response of "He ChOsE tO pOsE lIkE tHaT" "his body his choice" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 33 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)When GC was around I saw comments downvoted into oblivion for saying obesity was unhealthy. I think most people on Reddit are young and have a hard time recognizing nuance. I think if women weren't pressured to correlate our worth with physical attractiveness we'd be a lot further in life. Just like the Handbook says, we spend time, money, effort in looking good. Imagine if women put were actually respected and recognized for the effort we put in our jobs. THEN imagine if we could stop worrying … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:44 PM |
| 85 | A Woman's TouchLMAO omg. I saw this post too. I was going to figure out how to put it here but didn't want to brigade.... The whole sub was ridiculously sad. Edit : I thought maybe they had 2 mattresses for comfort reasons. And I just realized she took the mattress cause she bought it and he found a fucking futon to sleep on lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:29 PM |
| 75 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)I agree. Every "body positive" post I see is "ALL women are BEAUUUUTIFUL" - Fuck being beautiful. Fuck that we need to make every woman beautiful. That's not the body positivity I want to see. I don't want my sense of worth wrapped up in my looks. And yea, I think you got downvoted for the whole "healthy at every size" but it's just a fact that being obese wears down your joints and affects your health very seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 33 | To our lurkers: Just don’t read our sub.Right? The last guy I dated Used to look like that, but he stopped weight lifting and switched to all cardio. We went weight lifting together once and he was only there 30 min. My routine is anywhere from an hour to an hour and a half. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:32 PM |
| 65 | To our lurkers: Just don’t read our sub.I've dated 3 dif men that could have been models. They all had six packs almost 24/7. They also all never missed a day working out and mostly at vegetarian, one was vegan. It's really not unrealistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 69 | Women always knowI HATE the posts on Reddit where a woman snoops (when she usually wouldn’t) and then finds suspicious texts, or deleted texts, and then Reddit chastises her for snooping. He’s suddenly hiding his phone, has deleted texts, and has a female colleague he talks to 24/7? She clearly knows somethings going on and lets Reddit gaslight her and says “just talk to him, you really didn’t find anything” Honestly I think most of Reddit’s advice is just men defending THEIR shitty behavior. They know they want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 6 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘One of the commenters on the original post even said “why don’t you try showering with him?” 🤡 like he’s a fucking child or dog. She was dead serious too. Her comment was pretty long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:18 PM |
| 14 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.This is part of why we don’t do LDR, at least when you meet. You shouldn’t be trying to date people who aren’t in your area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:15 PM |
| 34 | Yazidi survivor: 'I was raped every day for six months' - ww documentaryMy brother was in the military. Before it was ever in the news (which it was never big news) he told me that ISIS beheaded 50 women (he said a hundred) in Baghuz when ISIS fled the area... I know there's "lore" in the military, but I wouldn't be surprised if they found more than 50 women and it never hit the news. I couldn't believe that no one was talking about it. How horrifying. Why couldn't they just leave the women to be rescued?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:32 PM |
| 153 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisI was thinking this too. There's clear favoritism for boys in our society. They get away with not doing shit around the house. She made those kids that way, probably because they're boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:09 PM |
| 81 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre.Men don’t respect women who bow down to them. That’s part of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:37 AM |
| 19 | Pretending men in public are invisible: a new game I like to playI like #2 because I hike a lot and walk a lot. I decided to start stepping into men’s way when it’s a group of guys who aren’t trying to move out of the way. It’s really nice to make some big dude have to dodge you because you moved to the left a few inches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:30 AM |
| 4 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderYea they can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 7 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderYes! Please do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:39 AM |
| 10 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderThe main issue is brigading within Reddit. Reddit also has rules about DOXing so Facebook profiles shouldn’t be posted. But I’m not sure about tiktok. I’d imagine that can’t count as doxing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Another Valid Reason Women Are Refusing To Procreate With Pornsick Scrotes : in the U.K. there was over 9 million attempts to access photos and videos of children suffering sexual abuse in April last year alone. Britain is the THIRD largest consumer of live- streamed child abuse world wide.Oh I agree 100%. When I travel I budget for low key local foods and a few really nice restaurants. Street food can be amazing. I also budget for local transportation and splurge when I need to. My point was that he’s not being cheap, because there’s tons of cheap options in NYC. He could even get an appetizer for dinner and supplement it by making food! The dude probably wants to tick a box off and that’s it. He doesn’t want to experience NYC, he wants to say he’s been there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:49 AM |
| 32 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderThis too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)It's going to be a couple hundred bucks and if you get multiple quotes they may rate you based off your gross receipts, number of clients, or have super specific questions about the work you do. Go to multiple brokers to get quotes too. Most insurance agents are lazy and sell the cheapest thing they can find, even if it gives you NO coverage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)You have a notary public bond. They cost nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 57 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderThe problem is that subs/individuals who want us shut down take screenshots. So they’re going to compile all the screenshots and say “look! They encourage brigading!” That’s why we need mods to delete the comments quickly and users to just not do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:52 AM |
| 9 | The bar is on the groundTHIS!! You should definitely make a post elaborating on this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:44 AM |
| 51 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderRight? And I'm prob being a bit more cautious than the actual rules. But that's because Reddit really really hates women/our sub. We're targeted by literally every other sub. And, we're smart ladies. If we really want to find the original post, we can easily find it without assistance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:37 AM |
| 131 | Swipe left for evidence of said rational, objective logic 😂lmao I love that he proved her right. He got so upset she said some men were the most dangerous thing and he decided that because that upset him, that it's a fact she's wrong and sensitive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Another Valid Reason Women Are Refusing To Procreate With Pornsick Scrotes : in the U.K. there was over 9 million attempts to access photos and videos of children suffering sexual abuse in April last year alone. Britain is the THIRD largest consumer of live- streamed child abuse world wide.He doesn't even sound shoestring though... NYC pizza is cheap, pretzel carts are cheap, it's cheap to window shop, cheap to go to the parks... There's a lot of cheap things to do in NYC. Especially what that person said about museums... You can donate a penny, or not donate at all. That's cheap! He just sounds neurotic and like he's in NYC so he can say he went there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:32 AM |
| 25 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.I’m pretty sure rats are intelligent and loyal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:49 PM |
| 52 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.After my dad's gf gave me a manicure we went to my grandpa's and rode on dirt bikes, etc. I was bored waiting for my turn and started playing with the dirt. I got yelled at for playing in the dirt. Idk why that always stuck in my mind. That my brother, father, and grandfather all had oil on their hands and feeling SO excluded. I didn't even want the fucking manicure. I got bored and was fidgeting and got yelled at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 8 | Can we talk about how insane and psychotic scrotes are about porn? Scientists, psychiatrists, people that work with porn addicts or sex offenders are expressing a very consistent narrative about the toxicity of porn...how it can destroy women, AND men. But men don't seem to care at all.I def listened to a podcast where the interviewer was talking to teenagers about porn use. Do you want me to DM you what I find? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:33 AM |
| 68 | Can we talk about how insane and psychotic scrotes are about porn? Scientists, psychiatrists, people that work with porn addicts or sex offenders are expressing a very consistent narrative about the toxicity of porn...how it can destroy women, AND men. But men don't seem to care at all.I’be seen studies showing CHILDREN have increasing rates of sexual assault between each other because of porn use. I get frustrated because I’ve been reading studies, listening to podcasts, etc about porn for probably 15 years and it’s SO difficult to find the older content I’ve read about it. It feels like the internet is wiping it out of existence. I wish I’d started compiling resources when I first started reading about it. 15 years ago I found a website by an ex porn star, she was documentin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Mind your own business, respectfullyHe had a navy seal on who addressed “defunding the police” and that episode was SO good. I think it was Jocko Willinck. His opinion centered on lack of training the police get vs military, when the police actually have more hours of doing their job. He argued for reappropriating funds to get police more training and real world scenario training. You should listen to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:55 AM |
| 13 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieLmao “they have bad motion of the ocean” 😂😂😂 AGREED It’s too bad men won’t actually listen to the episode and learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieIs there a way for you guys to influence your “suggested” section on iTunes? Or any other platform? I feel like we could take a vote/suggestions and cultivate more FDS approved content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Even in the midst of a pandemic crisis and requesting medical assistance, women can’t avoid unsolicited D**#pics! It’s a necessity to own a Google NumberBecause they hate us. It’s like a rich kid who hates a self-made millionaire. Women have created success for ourselves in a hostile world. We can also give life. We have more empathy. Men want to be us and be validated by us. Instead of admitting that they put us down and try to use us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:15 AM |
| 7 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!“Too sensitive” - yes I have emotional intelligence “Bossy” - yea, I have an opinion and stick up for myself “Don’t listen” - idk if this is a compliment but I get this when debating with men, they make a counterpoint and I tell them “you literally didn’t address my point” or I address their point and don’t succumb to their will. Sorry for doing actual research. Oh! “Im entitled to my opinion” - if this is your response when I’m asking for articles, research, studies, you’re admitting you’re fuc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:10 AM |
| 23 | Husband pushed his pregnant wife off a cliff...Honestly it’s prob a godsend. She can actually be rid of him. She won’t have a child who hates him and still wants a relationship with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:02 AM |
| 24 | Husband pushed his pregnant wife off a cliff...Omg she’s so pretty. She legit looks like a model. Also he had to pay $170K when she gave him $300k?!!? The law is not on our side ladies. Never ever forget that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:01 AM |
| 9 | My personal projectI’m not a cam girl but can you help me get a better job 😅 It’s hard out here for shy people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Training for Evaluators in the Effects of Domestic Violence and Ongoing Signs of Abuse in Family Court CasesYou need to speak to a therapist who specializes in domestic violence. PTSD often looks like other issues, and all your other diagnoses could be PTSD. I kind of skimmed because I was getting angry, so I’m sorry if I’m asking something you addressed. Do you have a therapist for your daughter? Children who are abused are supposed to be interviewed by a specialist without parents in the room. Have you looked into what precincts in your area may have that? Edit : also never ever ask your daughter le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 21 | Mind your own business, respectfullyJoe Rohan likes 2 things. 1. Making money 2. Feeling smart. I’ve listened to his podcast when he’s had interesting people on or interesting topics. He’s an awful awful interviewer. He doesnt press his guests, he agrees with them, the research he does is SO minimal. It’s almost like he realizes the person sitting in front of him has more experience and is more interesting than him and Joe just like collapses on himself in awe. You can just tell he wants everyone to like him and he’ll agree with w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:28 AM |
| 0 | What even is this logic???Reddit is just looking for reasons to ban our sub. So yea, I’m pissed when newbies don’t even read the rules or handbook. You’re literally risking the sub getting banned for the rest of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:07 AM |
| -32 | What even is this logic???Are you fucking serious? You know you can’t post that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:03 PM |
| 19 | More food for thought <333Oh yea, I participate in beauty culture too. I'll wear makeup to a wedding. I was my legs when it's hot. But I admit why I'm doing it. I don't pretend it's a random drug that makes me feel good and has absolutely nothing to do with societal expectations. It feels good because you get positive reinforcement from it. Even if no one says "I love your makeup", you see women getting complimented who are obviously wearing makeup. Women feel good when they conform to beauty standards because we're held… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 12 | More food for thought <333So you think the fix of surgery is OK? For who? Who meets the "unattractive" test. Someone with an obvious deformity? Someone with thin lips? Someone with characteristics typical of their race? But if you saw a really naturally unattractive person without makeup This is ABSOLUTELY bullshit. You can see how makeup changes a way a person looks in real life. Social interaction isn't just about Instagram. If I see someone with makeup caked on I'm going to think that person is insecure - regardless o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 39 | More food for thought <333One of the most popular guys at my high school was a guy who had facial scarring, odd facial proportions, and speech issues because of a birth defect. So fuck off with your attitude. Civilized people aren’t rude to those we don’t find attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:24 PM |
| 147 | More food for thought <333Oh god thank you. Cling to your winged eyeliner and desire for Botox all you want ladies. Just fucking recognize you’re participating in the patriarchy. Why do you think it “makes you feel good”??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:19 PM |
| 18 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantYou can’t compare crooked teeth to a nose, unless your nose is giving you breathing/sinus issues. Crooked teeth can increase cavaties/gingivitis and other dental issues. Fixing that isn’t the same thing as saying “I don’t have a button nose that’s desirable in Hollywood” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 33 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantLol holy shit. The number of women in this thread defending their desire to conform to men’s beauty standards is unreal. Women wanting small nips and tucks to “feel better about themselves” isn’t something we should ignore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:15 PM |
| 8 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?If I remember the lyrics to ocean eyes correctly, I can totally see a 13 year old writing that. It’s a sweet love song about longing. All teens have romantic longing. But if my mom saw me writing “bad guy” she would have been extremely concerned. Those aren’t lyrics a teen writes with a healthy view of relationships/sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 23 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?Honestly if anyone actually listened to the lyrics in her songs you’d know she’s been hyper sexualized for a long fucking time. Wearing baggy clothes paired with her music was just a “look”. It was meant to be coy. This cover is just the next step for a family who pimps their daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:41 PM |
| 119 | How involuntary is male celibacy?I’ve thought about this too. I’m pretty sure most incels are going for women way out of their league. I’ve been “friends” with homeless drug addicts and those guys always seemed to have a gf - their gfs were just like them though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:14 PM |
| 4 | What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks?lol I actually love chest hair. I don’t want a man who grooms excessively. It’s also fun to pet (like a dog 😂) I make exceptions for a ton of looks I don’t view as “ideal”, as long as they fit other qualities. I’ve dated balding men. I dated a guy with AWFUL posture. But he’s by far the best man I’ve ever dated. He was loving, kind, thoughtful. HV in SO many ways. Prob the only HV man I’ve dated actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 13 | Examples of f*boi behaviorIs he on coke? Or just nervous? I feel like his cadence is odd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 18 | I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡Lmao ok. That’s the problem. He’s courting a non-masochist 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:01 AM |
| 32 | I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡Normally I’d agree with you but liberals have gone to an extreme length to convince us BDSM is ok. If I remember right OP is kind of young too. And the antikink sub is mostly made of women who believed BDSM was “fun” and “sexy” until they realized they were being abused. We really need compassion for women who believe that and engage in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:00 AM |
| 93 | What to do when a man mansplains 😂My boss got super mad at me because I told him something happened. Asked him a question related to it. HE REPEATED BACK TO ME WHAT I FUCKING SAID. I let him finish and said “boss, I literally just told you that. I’m asking about X” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:49 AM |
| 63 | How porn-brain destroys relationships in one stupid breath.On god I’m so glad to see the comments flipped. When I first saw it, it was all men saying she was insecure and it was her fault for asking. Also I just got banned from that sub so be careful OP. I didn’t even post the losers username! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:47 AM |
| 96 | Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise.If I was a sex-Ed or health teacher I’d make that mandatory for girls to read. Or have excerpts. I’m planning on gifting my niece that book when she’s old enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:41 AM |
| 10 | Half of women 'have suffered sexual assault by a partner while asleep'Oh Jesus. So glad you found out through a 3rd party. I dated an abuser and I couldn’t trust anything was real. It took me SO LONG to figure everything out. I broke down when a 3rd party verified everything I suspected. Glad you’re out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Half of women 'have suffered sexual assault by a partner while asleep'How did you figure that out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Never leave your home without a big bill tucked in somewhere that has the sole purpose of getting you back home safely.I’ve actually been on bus systems where you couldn’t pay cash on the bus. You were supposed to pay for tokens - then you could use the bus. I was young when that happened and they let me on anyway. But why would a city switch to that?? I’ve encountered it multiple times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | My best trick for EARLY DETECTION of misogyny: pay attention to his interpretation of TV & movie charactersI don’t think I got 10 min into Tiger King before breaking down because of the animal abuse. Idk if I could date a man who watched the whole thing. It’s so heartbreaking seeing those wild animals in captivity like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 8 | Since y’all liked the first one so much😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Women are the Most Sexual CreaturesNo worries. But I do think talking about hormones can be counter productive to women’s rights. Being on my period doesn’t mean I’m going to hit the “nuke” button if I were president. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are the Most Sexual Creatures🤔 I’m gonna have to say idgaf. Sex isn’t just about hormones. I know men will put effort in at ANY time of day to have sex when they want to. They haven’t had sex in a week? It doesn’t matter if it’s morning or not. You’re simply justifying shitty habits based on biology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 5 | Women are the Most Sexual CreaturesMaybe it’s my friends/perspective but I disagree. A lot of women desire physical affection over their common sense. I don’t think it has much to do with a social status of being with a man. I think it’s focused on a need for touch/pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 76 | Last one for now! Hopefully she posts more!LMAO OP are you the woman in the video? because I love you. let's get married, buy a house together and heckle men. I LOVE it. I'll sign a prenup, we'll go 50/50 on everything, make chore charts, help each other invest money. And if you meet a HVM we'll amicably split. "Missing tooth... Missing tooth, come her" lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 12 | Women are the Most Sexual CreaturesLmao me too sis. I have a high sex drive. It's hard to find a man who can keep up. Idk about you but I like sex before bed. For some reason all the men I date want it in the morning. Why? I want to cum and fall asleep. Why do you want waste and hour of doing shit/getting ready for the day to fuck? Why can't we wind down at night and have sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 9 | LVM can act HV - Never forget itIf he can pass as HV without being HV, Idk, I think there's average men without personality disorders who COULD be HVM but don't have discipline. Or they have some other issue they're avoiding working on. I think there's a ton of average guys who could be HV and society coddles them so they never flourish. I agree partially though. If you get head over heels quickly, take good stock of the situation. Men with personality disorders totally fake being good people. They go over the top. The most ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 15 | Women are the Most Sexual CreaturesI was actually thinking about the Greeks when I wrote the comment you responded to! I don't want to believe all men think penetration is domination. I know a lot of men do. But I don't want to believe all men do. If they all did there'd be no HVM. I don't know if I've met a man who viewed intercourse as degradation. But I have met many men who enjoy extremely degrading acts against women. Like cumming on their face (why the fuck would you want that), spitting in their mouth (another gross thing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:12 PM |
| 20 | Women are the Most Sexual CreaturesHonestly this seems very evident in my relationships. But I think it also coincides with men becoming "comfortable" and not doing as much work. Of course we don't want to fuck you when you won't even listen to what we're saying or we have to clean up after. If I have to beg you to clean I'm going to resent you. That kind of coincides with the whole "cleaning turns women on".... It doesn't turn women on the way boobs turn on straight guys. It turns on women because they don't have such a huge wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 40 | Women are the Most Sexual CreaturesFor them, sex is perfunctory, routine, like taking a shit I was going to say the same thing in my post! Except I was going to be less gross and compare it to eating LOL I guess we had the same thought, just opposite ends of the body lmao It felt like a separate post though. Society openly talks about how sex is meaningless to men. But we pretend that when they love someone that it changes. Or some men find sex meaningful. Bullshit. If they find it meaningful, it's like going to their favorite re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 9 | LVM can act HV - Never forget itYour comment actually sounds pretty critical of men you date. My post is for the ladies who justify LV behavior and are torn in cutting a man off. But you’re right. Vet vet vet. If you had issues recognizing LV and breaking it off you should totally make a post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:03 AM |
| 12 | LVM can act HV - Never forget itI was also criticizing men I know who act superior and criticize regional dialects/accents. I’ve lived in a lot of cities in the US. We might as well have small countries like Europe. There are vast differences in culture and dialect within the US. Just because you personally haven’t been there, doesn’t mean the way they talk is “wrong” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:13 AM |
| 22 | LVM can act HV - Never forget itIt was hard to dump the last guy I dated. He was pretty amazing in most ways. Having boughts of extreme happiness and then feeling horrible just isn’t sustainable. And a lot of women justify their relationship during the happy point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 8 - Disney Presents: The Princess and The BumWere the men she said witnessed child rape watching fellow soldiers commit it? Because that is just awful. My brother is in special military operations. The rape he witnessed was within families who fell on his radar. I’ve read a lot about rape as a weapon of war. That doesn’t surprise me. In order to convince every day people to kill their neighbors, or really anyone else, or convince them they’re killing an “enemy” you have to dehumanize the “enemy” to the point they’re subhuman. Or convince t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:51 AM |
| 5 | What should I do if boys send NSFW stuff in our class chat?backing up u/StevieBuckingham79 Figure out how to report it. Tell a counselor/teacher/principle that it's sexual harassment. Also I'd take photos/screenshots idk if you should click the link (it that's what they're sending) but you could take a screen shot and include the full link in your complaint. I'd also ask to complain anonymously. The boys doing that fucking suck. What little assholes. | /r/askFDS | 30/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 46 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HVThese are nice stories, but honestly you should take them with a grain of salt. Never forget women lie to themselves about men's behavior. I could tell wonderful, awe inspiring stories about the LVM I've dated. LVM act HV sometimes, that's how they keep you invested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:54 PM |
| 13 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 8 - Disney Presents: The Princess and The BumMen are so fucked up. While in Afghanistan, my brother had the unfortunate pleasure of seeing A man fuck his goats. A man rape his sons. He doesn't talk about what he saw over there. He only mentioned that to me when he got back and had been drinking. It sounded like it was a systemic issue in the countryside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 77 | Introduced FDS principles to friend. Resulted in a fight - need some insight!I think she doesn't get that the whole "he pays for a dinner date" concept is about weeding out men who just want to fuck you and run. Men throw out the widest net they can, they're not actually screening for compatibility. Whereas women are. Men buy dinner for women they're serious about. Women's resistance to FDS comes from not understanding that men and women don't think the same way. Women are really really naive to how men really think and act. I'd drop the issue with her if I were you. You… | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | APPROVED COMMENTERWell it's not a waste of time because you've been liviing your own life while talking to him and learning to spot red flags. I hate that women decide time spent with or on a shitty man is time "wasted". You're learning and you're doing other things. But yes. I'd say this is a man who isn't REALLY interested in meeting you. And the only way you shold accept an actual date proposal tonight is if he's going above and beyond. He's had 3 weeks to figure out what a good date would be. | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | APPROVED COMMENTERI'd say coming over from an island is effort on his part. But paddleboarding is a no. Typically FDS would say let him plan the date and if he can't plan a good one than it's his loss. | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 13 | All my male friends want to date me and I feel pressured when I rejected themMen only stay "friends" with women they're willing to fuck. They might not be actively trying to fuck you, but if you turned around and said "let's do it" they'd give an enthusiastic yes. I'm bisexual. Idk about you but I don't stay friends with men or women who I'm willing to have sex with. If you'd say "yes" to having sex with someone, you're not their friend. You're just waiting for your moment. | /r/askFDS | 14/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Can we redefine sex to include the female orgasm?I get that it’s hard for many women. But encouraging women to put up with it is the issue. We should be encouraging each other to make our partners focus on foreplay and making ourselves orgasm and teaching our partner. Instead of saying it’s fine for women to accept a participation trophy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Can we redefine sex to include the female orgasm?I’m so tired of women saying online that “it’s ok if you don’t orgasm, sex is about so much more”. No fucking man says that. Why do women encourage other women to continue having sex is they’re not having an orgasm??? It makes NO sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | How to cope if a HVM has a mental breakdown?I foster dogs. If I had a dog in my care and it perished I’d withdraw as well. He’s prob blaming himself. If it’s a new relationship you can’t blame him for pulling away. It’s only been a week. | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Recommendations for overcoming trauma bonding?Maybe you should just research trauma bonding. To me it seems impossible for humans NOT to trauma bond. It’s all about stress and feel good hormones flooding your brain. I think the best we can do is recognize trauma bonding, give ourselves tools to deal with it when it happens, and avoid situations that cause it. | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Recommendations for overcoming trauma bonding?Therapy. The book Psychopath Free is helpful. Depends on why you have that trauma bond. Are you creating situations TO trauma bond? Were you in an abusive relationship? | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 12:54 PM |
| 19 | I want to break up with my boyfriend because of pornGood lord this is ridiculous. When the fuck is he watching porn if you live there? He’s clearly lying about his habits. I masturbate a lot for a woman (every time I fall asleep) but I don’t watch porn and it’s not when I’m supposed to be actually doing productive shit. | /r/askFDS | 17/03/21 03:53 AM |
| 2 | The trauma of growing up as the only female in a sibling group.Yep. If the only 2 ppl in your life are cackling at you, saying your interests are stupid, or mocking something you care about, how is that considered sensitive to be upset about? I don’t even cry. They were the only ppl who knew me and knew I was upset if I shut down and stopped talking. But I still got called sensitive. My mom would hear my brother say something mean and she’d add to it to make him laugh. There was a point where I started enjoying one of my brothers hobbies. I asked my mom to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Love this. Discrepancies between actions and words will tell you if someone is genuine or not.God I love her hair. I have super long hair that gets knots in it every day and I’d LOVE to get box braids but I’m sure I’d look like a fool. I think they need quite a bit of management and I’m white so I’d feel like a jackass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | The trauma of growing up as the only female in a sibling group.This is super common, even with only 1 male and 1 female child. There were SO many posts in Gender Critical (before it got removed) by women talking about how their brother wasn’t expected to set the table, do other chores, that brother was clearly preferred over sister. Once I went to therapy I realized that my mom and brother bullied me. My dad used to call and when I’d answer the phone he’d ask to talk to my brother. Obviously that had an affect, and my mom recognized that. But refuses to adm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 16 | What does good sex even look like?The best sex I have is when my partner reverts to middle school style flirting WAY before sex. Like light touches, trying to touch you in innocuous ways, like hands or even playing subtle footsy. And hours later he might massage your arm, your back. There was a post here by a man saying foreplay starts way before the bedroom and he’s right. Even just saying “I love to make you laugh” hours before sex can help physical intimacy. The worst sex is always when someone shoves their tongue in your mou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 22 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?You have no idea how many times I had to scream and push my nvm ex out of bed because he farted without underwear on. If it’s a surprise, fine, whatever. But he purposely farted. It was so nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:24 PM |
| 45 | Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex?Newbies never believe me when I tell them their male friends are only their “friend” because they can imagine fucking them. I asked one Newbie “ok fine, text your guy friends now and see if they’d fuck you” and she said being willing to do something is dif than acting on it! When I had tons of guy friends, I never ever would have fucked any of them. Imagine thinking it’s totally fine for a “friend” to just be waiting for his chance to fuck you. I’ve asked male friends for relationship advice. An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 126 | Women are under no obligation to be inclusive towards people who are hostile to us. Calling us an "echo chamber" and whining that we "don't include opposing opinions" isn't going to shame us into changing our mind.Lmao thank you. I love the knitting comparison. Shit heads go to the vegan subbreddit and say they only allow 1 opinion. Yea. That’s the point. Vegans are rare. Non-vegan opinions are popular everywhere. Same shit for any genuinely female sub (except women make up more of the population than vegans do). But the point is that we’re here for our perspective and we’re used to getting slammed for people who disagree. I wanted to go vegetarian at like 5. Because I knew where meat came from. I decided… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:15 AM |
| 20 | This is why “Not All Men” should NEVER be entertainedIdk. I’m afraid of falling into the hands of an abuser so I have ridiculously high standards now (normal standards really) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 25 | The Power of walking away. You have the right to leave a relationship if it is no longer what you want/ healthy! You don't need a 'valid' reason, not wanting to be in the relationship is reason enough! (source MJ Harris)Omg I’m only a min in. This is what my therapist told me. Half way through the work we were doing, where she had made me realized I fought back and got away, she also said “if you had the power to walk away, you had the power to stay” and THATS what made me realize I had never learned to read red flags, never learned to stand up for myself, that I was codependent. A light bulb went off. Ladies. If you’ve been in an abusive relationship, you’re not doomed to stay, doomed to keep repeating them. Y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 3 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sexThis is the only screenshot I actually want to see. What’d he say exactly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 10 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingUgh. The only man I've ever met who volunteers is a terrible human being. It's like he thinks he can throw on his "religious" robe and that makes all his actions fine. This motherfucker is so racist he doesn't even know who Maya Angelou is. He also frequently tells me I'm more like a man than a woman (for various reasons). But yes. He thinks I should be in the home, caring for babies, instead of making him money. I've actually heard him complain about paying taxes that go towards bussing childre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 17 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingMen truly believe that only they are dissuaded from being emotional (lol), that women don't get told explicitly and subliminally "to suck it up" and that we ~ can't understand what they go through ~. They think women aren't out there performing stoicism and forced positivity as much if not more than they do, Holy shit, right???? My mom and my grandma prided themselves on not crying in front of people. I have always always been told that people won't take me seriously if they see me cry. I've nev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 41 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingI get frustrated because they don't DO anything. I see women talk about volunteering ALL the time. How many men that complain about men's rights online are actually volunteering for suicide hotlines? Or employed at them? How many are in Big Brothers Big Sisters helping influence younger men? I've volunteered at a wide variety of organizations. It didn't matter what the organization was about, it was 90% women volunteering. I was a CASA and they try to pair volunteers with the same sex. The child… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 72 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingYea. And have you seen how men complaining about their STAHW are never crticized? They'll complain about how everything is dirty and commenters will screech "THAT'S HER JOB - SHE'S NOT DOING HER JOB" But when a man doesn't clean, oh he's depressed, talk to him, we menz just don't know how to clean! God forbid you point out the hypocrisy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.Lmao amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.Look at my recent comments. Someone got triggered because I pointed out that MEN are the common denominator in sexual assault. Not religion. I'm not defending religion. But it's disingenuous to blame it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.Lmao what? I've seen multiple "creepy neighbor" posts here... and no one suggested murder. Not even in a joking way. Everyone said "document everything!" "get a camera!" I've actually never ever seen a post here by a woman pining over a man. No posts like "how can I make him like me", no posts saying "why doesn't he want me", no "I hate him for rejecting me" posts... Any post about a man is "I finally left" "I finally let go". I'd really really love to DM that person to find out about this neigh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I not idealize male attention at a lonely, difficult time?First of all, never share your trauma with men. They will either judge you for it, use it against you, or sweep in at a vulnerable moment. Think about it this way. This guy is only reaching out now that he knows you're in a tough spot? You see how shifty that is, right? If he genuinely liked you he would have tried to ask you out before. And a HVM would say "I'm here if you ever need support" and then back off until you're more secure - then ask you out. Just keep reminding yourself how shitty i… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid becoming bitter?Idk I kind of think becoming bitter is good. Because you WILL bounce back. We all crave affection and human contact. Very few people become so bitter they cut everyone off for forever. I got super duper bitter after a extremely fucked up and abusive relationship. And through therapy it went away (mostly). I'm more suspicious and critical than I was pre-bitterness, but those traits have kept me safe. I've also learned to love and appreciate GOOD people who don't agree with me on everything. And I… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 9 | Use actual conditioner, groom, shower, wear nice clothes, and utilize the treatments for baldness. Us women take care of ourselves you need to as well.Thank you. I was flabbergasted that FDS users would think these things are "hygiene". So the old lady who wants to proudly wear her gray hair is dirty? Fuck off with that. At this point, it's a political statement for women to not dye their hair. And manicures are hygiene? I wash my hands when I use the bathroom, I trim my nails, but because I don't want to spend $50 every two weeks to have someone paint my nails I'm dirty? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 10 | Use actual conditioner, groom, shower, wear nice clothes, and utilize the treatments for baldness. Us women take care of ourselves you need to as well.Lol seriously? NONE of this is hygiene. You're not fucking dirty if you don't color your hair or get a manicure. This is ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 3 | I unknowingly gave my bf chlamydia and now my relationship is on the rocks .Have you seen your bf's negative test results? Why are you so sure that he didn't give it to you? | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | The Truth About Women in the BibleKing James is just a specific version of the Bible. If you go to a new church they'll often tell you what version to purchase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 26 | Assistant DA figures out abuser is in his victim's home coercing and intimidating her during Zoom hearing and discreetly sends police.He did say "we don't want the order" a few times. That's why I'm crossing my fingers she's not going back to him. But like I said, the way the assistant DA knew by the way she was speaking that something wasn't right gives me hope that she doesn't want him around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 44 | Assistant DA figures out abuser is in his victim's home coercing and intimidating her during Zoom hearing and discreetly sends police.Yea. It's very sad. Hopefully the DA can talk some sense into her. It sounds like she was open to the DA and describing what happened because the DA quickly knew he was there. Also kudos to the officer who immediately picked up his cell phone. I'm surprised they didn't mention him in the article. I thought he acted very quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being treated as a secretary at work?You need to get a new job. Start applying now. Don't limit your work experience, exaggerate it. You can't change the work environment. You're going to have to find something better. | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 92 | Assistant DA figures out abuser is in his victim's home coercing and intimidating her during Zoom hearing and discreetly sends police.I hope that woman decides to stay far away from that man. It was hard to tell if she wanted him there or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:36 PM |
| 9 | What kind of twisted thinking is this? „If Sex Work wouldn‘t exist, men would be even more violent to women“ I‘m so tired of this BS that libfems spread to justify exploitation of women to „prevent“ more violenceDid a woman post that?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:07 PM |
| 26 | Male feminists in a nutshell.I had a train wreck of a relationship with a male “feminist” too. It made me find radical feminism and realize men can’t be feminists. They directly benefit from the patriarchy, how could they genuinely fight for our rights? Anyway, I try to tell women that all the time now. I even made a post about not trusting male feminists a few years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Guarantee he watches porn.Sure! I tried to chat with you but can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Guarantee he watches porn.No, I was on SaidIt but forgot my password. And the sub seemed kinda dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Guarantee he watches porn.We'll never know because men aren't pushed to do porn for basic resources. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:47 AM |
| 11 | Guarantee he watches porn.I know that women in the west aren't suppressed the way women in developing nations are... But we're experiencing the same shit, just in a different name. We now have BUYING power to facilitate our own oppression. We can CHOOSE to hate our bodies and cut them up. We just trade one type of oppression for another. We're lucky that we can opt-out of oppression and read feminist lit, work for feminist causes, etc. But most of us still have to conform to men's desires to get ahead. We can't seem boss… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 5 | New relationship and my partners masturbation seems excessive.The biggest red flag is that you've only been dating 2 months and you're already saying this is the healthiest relationship you've ever been in.... It's been TWO months sis. You don't know him. I get that you've known him in the periphery for a long time, but that's not knowing someone truly. It seems like you've got all your eggs in this basket. I'd be more worried you're excitement about him/the relationship is going to twist your perspective. You know how many men keep the mask on for like 10… | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Guarantee he watches porn.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBAijg5Betw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 38 | Guarantee he watches porn.I agree with this 100%. Our value is in our sex, not even our sexuality. They don't want to please us, make us cum. They literally want us for our SEX - for being female. That was my issue with the post too, ALL the replies were about how it's OK to not want to date someone who shares their intimacy, yet when I responded and asked about porn - It's not the same! It IS the fucking same. It's sex, it's intimacy. If you value it, you're not going to masturbate to other women when in a relationship.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Guarantee he watches porn.Lmao that’s a lot to tell my dog. I don’t think she understand “willfully” or “ignorant” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:55 AM |
| 11 | Guarantee he watches porn.I think she finally admitted it? I didn’t dig too much. The top comments were extremely misogynistic and I had to post here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 8 | Guarantee he watches porn.Nooo.... I said “that’s what I tell my dog” as in “leave it”. The direction she gave ME. I’m the fucking dog. Jesus. It’s a known training term. Edit : just because I disagree with her, which I don’t fully disagree, doesn’t mean I’d call her names. It was 100% clear my response was to a comment to Me, not the other commenter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 24 | Guarantee he watches porn.Another user replied with more of his responses and to her it sounds like he does watch porn but hides it. Also not watching porn because you’re addicted doesn’t imply that you care about women in porn or think porn uses women like objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Guarantee he watches porn..... you tell your dog “leave it” when you don’t want them to have something... the person I responded to told me “leave it”. So in this scenario I’M the dog... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:35 AM |
| 7 | Guarantee he watches porn.Exactly! I can totally see an argument that watching porn is worse, because you’re training yourself to get off to that person. Not because you need money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Guarantee he watches porn.😅 thank you. That’s what I tell my dog when she picks up something that will make her sick. Lmao who knew that’d be such an effective phrase for me to respond to! Edit : I’m the fucking dog people. She told ME to “leave it”. It’s a known dog training term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 14 | Guarantee he watches porn.If you saw the comments you’d realize this is in every man’s heart. Or most men’s. Maybe it’s age/where you are but the single moms I know have no shortage of suitors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 16 | Guarantee he watches porn.Y E S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:13 AM |
| 17 | Guarantee he watches porn.I’m not pro-porn. But the average male redditor (and prob female too) DOES defend porn use. There were tons of men defending OP saying he can have that boundary (which is fine) but then also arguing that watching porn is DiFfErEnT They’re all just using women’s bodies. There’s no chance in hell the OP I screenshotted doesn’t watch porn. He just doesn’t want to share HIS pussy. Edit : if OP was against porn, he would have talked about that. He didn’t. Because he’s not against porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:11 AM |
| 140 | Guarantee he watches porn.One comment even said “people are really trying to say sharing your SO visually or otherwise makes you insecure”. I guarantee that person watches porn in a relationship. I can’t stand OnlyFans, but what I hate even more is men who watch porn and then cry that their gf wants to BE WHAT THEY WATCH. You literally enjoy it, you watch it instead of fucking her - of course she wants to fucking do it! Women want men to desire them. It’s asinine how many men don’t make that connection of “I enjoy porn, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Gov. Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment case. Another lesson in not speaking about your trauma no matter how HV they may seem..Yep. I had a PTSD diagnosis too. My therapist was actually the person who first told me to never tell men about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 119 | Have any of you ladies actually gotten an orgasm from men?Lmao can we get this post upvoted to the top of the sub? I'd really really love it for the NVM lurkers to be confronted with how awful they are at sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Gov. Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment case. Another lesson in not speaking about your trauma no matter how HV they may seem..But there are certain things I can't hide. He would know about my past hurts one way or another. How? In my experience, my mom's experience, my sister's experience, if you've worked through that trauma as much as you can, no one needs to know. Even if you have panic attacks because of triggers, you do not need to tell anyone WHY you have the panic attacks. And if your trauma is affecting you to the point where the people around you HAVE to know what it is, you shouldn't be dating. You're going t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 99 | A scrote’s version of “romantic”I wish I could tag the user who told me her and her friends “took the term b*tch back to be empowering” 🙄 ok sis. Let the men empower you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | How does FDS stand on kissing on the first date?I don’t think there’s an official stance on the first normal, nice kiss. But it’s 100% against having sex before a few months of vetting. | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 11:54 AM |
| 4 | On today's episode of Count The Red Flags!Yea. I reached out to her, after a period of not talking. I know she was in group therapy for DV survivors and I imagine she didn’t respond because she’s trying to move forward. We follow each other on social media and I think seeing each other thrive is prob the most cathartic relationship we can have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Gov. Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment case. Another lesson in not speaking about your trauma no matter how HV they may seem..Why would he need to know you’re not speaking so quickly? If you’re not speaking it doesn’t affect your day to day. Save being emotional and opening your heart for a therapist. Why would you want to talk about your trauma with a complete stranger? Men can keep a mask on for a LONG time. What happens when that mask falls and you realize a horrible person knows all your trauma? I know shit about my mom she’s never ever told a bf/husband. You find a gf to open up to, a therapist. Men really don’t n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:22 AM |
| 7 | On today's episode of Count The Red Flags!No thank god. And I became pretty close to her. We don’t talk now (because HE brought us together) but we helped each other heal and talked semi-regularly for a year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 10:59 AM |
| 42 | Women have every right to be skeptical and NOT trust men, especially around children. PERIODT.Normal men don’t complain about being seen as pedophiles. They accept boundaries because they know pedophilia happens and they care about safeguarding children. Society loves men who are good with children. If anything we’ve repeatedly seen men given a pass because they’re “good men” and they take advantage of the situation. Maybe instead of complaining about moms being wary of you, you should read about that doctor that molested hundreds of girls who were gymnasts. Or even look at who’s been ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:12 AM |
| 29 | On today's episode of Count The Red Flags!My thought exactly. I dated a man with an ex-wife. A year later I talked to the ex and they were working on their relationship while we were together! He told her I was a lesbian and we were just friends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 49 | We've all heard of gaslighting, but what about when we delude ourselves? A man like this is not "amazing"!This is what I gathered from the post too. It’s not just a porn addiction. I bet the only time they ever have sex is when she doesn’t want to, but she gives in because she knows it’s the only time she’ll be able to have sex. I had a relationship like that and it really nosedives your self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:34 AM |
| 11 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.I think I’m incredibly lucky to have my mom. Her mom hates women and hated her. My mother had a lot of internalized misogyny but would also have a “fuck you” attitude sometimes. She always favored my brother and they both bullied me growing up. But at the same time she tried to encourage me to speak up, learn, stand up for myself, etc. So as I’ve gotten older and read about feminism, I’ve noticed a shift in our relationship compared to when I was a child. I’m lucky my mom tried to learn and do b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | can someone pretend to be my friend/mom for a little bit?What’s going on sister? | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 12:08 AM |
| 44 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesI guarantee that men who believe this shit aren’t actually dating. The biggest problem women have is that men pretend to be wonderful and then let the mask slip... nothing about those tactics indicate these men are actually dating/getting into relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?I just saw a post where a girl said her bf refuses to make her cum after he does. And they had the audacity to tell her to communicate better.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 11:17 AM |
| 105 | Studies show that husbands stress wives out more than their children. Women say they feel like a husband is another child instead of a partnerSeriously. And they even said "fathers are doing more now than ever" which to me shows they know their fathers did the bare minimum. They want a pat on the head for taking their kid to school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 26 | Studies show that husbands stress wives out more than their children. Women say they feel like a husband is another child instead of a partnerI thought it meant teasing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:32 PM |
| 214 | Studies show that husbands stress wives out more than their children. Women say they feel like a husband is another child instead of a partnerWai what? Are they for fucking real? They suggest the fix is to "give your partner a good ribbing"? What the fuck? Not maybe evaluate how much you're actually helping? Or writing down the chores you do? It's like they just completely say "well mothers FEEL this way, but men aren't getting appreciation, so the mothers are wrong". Also the complain by women is that their husband is a CHILD. So you're telling him to act more childlike and tease his wife? What the flying fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?What was the thing you wanted to do?! My mom had a horrible childhood and her fav thing is going to Disney world. You can’t shame her for posting pics of her next to Winnie the Pooh - she looks so happy! And if anyone tried to mock her she’d rip them to shreds emotionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:10 AM |
| 8 | Men who lie about their careersAll of these stories just make me think about how women are less likely to apply for jobs out of their experience and less likely to ask for a raise. We need to learn from these men ya’ll!! If we take half the gumption/confidence these men have we’d be so much further in life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:06 AM |
| 40 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"I brought up to my ex how China is having a crisis where men are trafficking women so they can marry. And mentioned another study where women are turning down relationships. And he tried to say "well I think everyone's turning against marriage".... Naw dog. It's women. We're choosing to be single instead of dating. That's different than a couple not wanting to get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:21 PM |
| -17 | Trigger Warning ⚠️ This @$$wipe tried to slide into my DMs after giving me one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. Zero foreplay, shoved it in (I got flashbacks of my r@pe). After I took a pi$$, I saw some blood in the toilet........ he wants to be friends on Instagram now 😤I think I've had enough people reply and argue with me about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Trigger Warning ⚠️ This @$$wipe tried to slide into my DMs after giving me one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. Zero foreplay, shoved it in (I got flashbacks of my r@pe). After I took a pi$$, I saw some blood in the toilet........ he wants to be friends on Instagram now 😤If you actually read it you'll see "Block and delete" is referenced everywhere. The mods and disciples have made plenty of posts saying those "witty" replies aren't as witty as you think and to not waste your time trying to teach men how to treat you. He knows he shouldn't have reached out to her. She spent valuable mental energy and time thinking of what to say to him, screenshotting the loser and posting it here. And she's still going to be mad when she thinks about it because SHE put so much … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Trigger Warning ⚠️ This @$$wipe tried to slide into my DMs after giving me one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. Zero foreplay, shoved it in (I got flashbacks of my r@pe). After I took a pi$$, I saw some blood in the toilet........ he wants to be friends on Instagram now 😤FDS preaches block and move on. Our effort and time are worth more than catering to a man who knows he shouldn't be reaching out to you. Not replying hurts them more than replying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 19 | Trigger Warning ⚠️ This @$$wipe tried to slide into my DMs after giving me one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. Zero foreplay, shoved it in (I got flashbacks of my r@pe). After I took a pi$$, I saw some blood in the toilet........ he wants to be friends on Instagram now 😤If you'd read the handbook you'd see there's no such thing as closure. Leveling up is blocking and walking away. Realizing your effort is worth more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:58 PM |
| 3 | tbhIt's still referring to women in a demeaning way, regardless of the culture. It doesn't have different meanings, it's just whether or not society thinks it's acceptable to be demeaning to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 8 | How to break up with kids...You should start recording and documenting all the horrible things he says. Does he text you awful things? Take screen shots and send them to a friend so he can’t delete them. Open a second bank account and start putting money in it to help you leave. If you want to win your court battle you’re going to have to tell them the things he says/does. You’re going to have to get over your pride if you want to protect your kids. He doesn’t sound like someone who should be around them | /r/askFDS | 03/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 35 | Trigger Warning ⚠️ This @$$wipe tried to slide into my DMs after giving me one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. Zero foreplay, shoved it in (I got flashbacks of my r@pe). After I took a pi$$, I saw some blood in the toilet........ he wants to be friends on Instagram now 😤It’s not about him. It’s about OP not wasting her mental energy on him or her time in replying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 30 | Why are “Sexperts” always claiming women that DON’T have sex on the first date 1) have internalized misogyny 2) are sexually repressed or 3) are worried about being “girlfriend material”? How ‘bout it’s because we JUST DON’T FUCKING KNOW HIM AT ALL 🤯I already see in mainstream subs women defending TEENAGERS for taking/sending nudes. I literally saw a comment where a woman was warning a girl about how those images might get shared and she shouldn’t do it and some libfem said she was being controlling by giving that advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:29 PM |
| 110 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.It’s not about whether or not we will brigade. It’s about Reddit looking for a reason to remove our sub. Don’t post subreddit names anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:22 PM |
| 90 | Trigger Warning ⚠️ This @$$wipe tried to slide into my DMs after giving me one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. Zero foreplay, shoved it in (I got flashbacks of my r@pe). After I took a pi$$, I saw some blood in the toilet........ he wants to be friends on Instagram now 😤Block and move on. Don’t give them positive reinforcement by responding. He’s looking for a reaction and you gave it to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!Honestly I think it’s pretty clear she grew up being used to silver. I learned at 10 to coat my cheap rings with clear nail polish so they wouldn’t turn my skin green. I also learned in highschool you can find a silver ring for like $25... he couldn’t even buy her a silver ring? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 6 | 😳🤢🤮😡 (At least most of the comments are on point 🙌🏼).My mom is convinced she saw a photo of him putting his hand on her ass as they walked out on a stage but we couldn’t find it. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s right and had it scrubbed from the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Pornography is not the problem.Think about the first laws in the US about what is and isn’t pornography. There’s the saying “I know it when I see it” by the Supreme Court. Sensuality isn’t considered sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:55 AM |
| 17 | Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄Go check out the anti-porn subs and how many women have awful sex lives because their bf still watches porn. Or the other relationship subs. It doesn’t matter if we fuck them or not. They just want to watch it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:37 AM |
| 2 | SNL: HGTV Bachelor Home MakeoverThat bothered me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | As usual men doing the bare minimum in relationships.🤣😂 lmao Reddit posts rarely make me laugh out loud. Good job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 9 | tbhThat’s nice to hear. In feminist forums I’ve seen Australian women defend its use. Bothers the fuck out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 2 | DAE Suffer from C-PTSD/RTS?I’ve had melt downs in public from PTSD. The most useful type of therapy I experienced was EMDR. Once you can afford weekly therapy and are in a stable place, I HIGHLY recommend it. I had the benefit of living with my brother and his loving wife. She was so patient with me and the side effects I experienced. You can often have the same symptoms of BPD but you’re working through the pain with a therapist, so it’s manageable. | /r/askFDS | 28/02/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | DAE Suffer from C-PTSD/RTS?Ah ok. I’d suggest reading and practicing meditation to help keep your heart beat low in general. I’d worry about trying to do too much self help work without a therapist who can guide you. | /r/askFDS | 28/02/21 02:11 AM |
| 3 | DAE Suffer from C-PTSD/RTS?Are you sure you can’t readjust your budget to get therapy even once a month? I have a coworker who constantly complains about living paycheck to paycheck. I just learned that she her watch has a monthly plan! Not only does she have a brand new phone, but she has a smart watch that needs to be on a cell phone plan. But she complains about her bills. Smart watches didn’t exist 20 years ago. This is not a necessity. There’s a difference between not WANTING to budget for something, and not being ab… | /r/askFDS | 28/02/21 12:53 AM |
| 65 | Scrote’s advice to his male fellasWhy does he have such bad grammar? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 90 | tbhGod I hate the c word. It’s so violent. I don’t understand how Australians can pretend it’s totally fine to use that term in every day language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 133 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesEveryone can think of a witty reply when they have time. You blurting that out IS YOU being witty! You deserve all the credit. Don’t diminish it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:40 PM |
| 64 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesMy SIL never had hobbies, except scrolling Instagram. I tried to get her into cross stitch, hiking, training the dogs. She has a baby now and 100% of her energy is focused on her. Not even cleaning the house. Her dogs have gotten fat. She’s too tired to do things because she’s constantly watching her child instead of letting her learn to play alone. She only works part time AND she has a nanny. She’s basically developed a shopping addiction since getting pregnant. I guess I’m rambling now. But t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 193 | I found out my boyfriend paid for pornhub premiumSorry they tried to gaslight you on your other post. It’s insane women have been brainwashed into accepting men getting off to other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 26 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).Wow. It’d be interesting if that couple was just paid by only fans to lie and get publicity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 54 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).I agree with you, I doubt they’re making that much. But even just claiming it makes me not feel sorry for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 11 | Realized I'm talking to a HVM yesterday.I’ve seen quite a few newbies talk about their HVM only later to post saying they broke up with the their LVM. Men will wear a mask for years before letting it fall. Your man is showing HV traits. Lots of LVM do that. Stay vigilant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:33 PM |
| 15 | Things “nice guys” post 😂 TW sexual contentWhy do you have to see her butt? We really are just walking sex to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:18 PM |
| 93 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).Supposedly they’re making $150,000 a month now. I don’t feel bad for them. Based on the articles I read it actually seems like they were TRYING to advertise it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 8 | Finally HVM on a dateUgh. You realize this sub is about being happy with yourself to the point where you don’t need to go on dates like it’s your job, right? And if you’re saying “it’s not our fault we can’t apply FDS every time” you’re wrong. You block and delete those men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:18 PM |
| 28 | "Choking my girlfriend isn't abusive because she asks for it" has the same energy as "well if you're really being abused, why don't you just leave?"The comparison to self mutilation is so apt. I made that argument once and the person just stopped responding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:15 PM |
| 57 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Wait wait wait wait wait.... "it was only solo vids then" meaning... He posted women masturbating with their 'consent'? Or did he post videos of himself masturbating? Who the fuck wants to watch a man masturbate. I've had sexual encounters where I came and didn't want to have sex anymore so he masturbated, and that was like watching a train wreck. it's not sexy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 5 | The rabbis have had ample time to use their sharp minds to nullify a Jewish husband's ability to exploit his power to chain his wife to an unwanted marriage. They just haven’t done anything since it doesn’t benefit men.I wish there was separation of masjid and state like the first world has with Christianity for separation of church and state. Except in America. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 12 | Remember ladies, we’re only good for sex and sandwiches.Lmao I thought the same thing. Work hard and hire someone to come meal prep for you or make your kid's dinner.... The one night you probably have them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Remember ladies, we’re only good for sex and sandwiches.Let me translate : "I'm poor :( " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:18 PM |
| 10 | I Am a Tinder Guy Holding a Fish and I Will Provide for YouThey like to fish because it's not as hard as legit hunting. But they still get to kill something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 254 | If a man abuses you like this it will escalate to physical violence. Leave and don’t let him know your location.This is the type of guy who goes on the 2 other relationship subs and talks about the good things he did, hides his abuse, and then says she spread rumors about him or lies about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 4 | My boyfriend massages my hands in the morningDo you have access to THC body lotion/creme? I can't tell you how that shit is magic. My mom uses it on her arthritis. I have chronic pain and use it where it's the worst. I highly highly recommend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 4 | It makes me nauseous to think about how many men share this mindsetIn photos they're always pulled up so high and I'm just like "Isn't it between your labia????" Your labia aren't on your pubis mound! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:42 PM |
| 7 | It makes me nauseous to think about how many men share this mindsetHave you tried boxer briefs? I saw a girl complaining about thongs on thegirlsurvivalguide, I have to pull thongs down way low in the front so they don’t actually go between my labia. I kind of thought everyone did that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:24 PM |
| 16 | It makes me nauseous to think about how many men share this mindsetI don’t even think of my labia as for pleasure. Women have been shamed for being women our entire lives. I love my labia because I won’t ever snip them for a man’s aesthetic. And I think so many women have been shamed into thinking there’s something wrong with our labia when that criticism didn’t exist 100 years ago. I hate the idea that women think they need to “trim” their labia. I knew one woman who said it affected her underwear. Buy new fucking underwear! Love yourself! There’s certain undi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:59 AM |
| 17 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.Idk. There’s been quite a few models, white and black, who have large lips. The Instagram lips that are popular now more round are a caricature. It’s entirely derivative and not realistic. Maybe I’m getting into semantics but I think the “big lip” look doesn’t represent any ethnicity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:44 AM |
| 40 | It makes me nauseous to think about how many men share this mindsetI was never self conscious of my labia. And once I learned women were I was appalled and sad. I also realized other women never masturbated or thought they had to have dildos... My username felt like a feminist battlecry lol Idk if my labia is “ugly” or “hairy” or “smelly” or whatever the fuck. It’s mine. And I’m going to fucking love it. Edit : I decided to make this username YEARS after learning about FGM, how many women got surgery to look like porn stars, hearing women’s labia were referred … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 28 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.Big lips and big eyes have always been desired. The kardashians made mimicking stereotypes of black women popular. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 18 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.If you live in a food desert, yea. Buying fresh fruits and veggies, or frozen veggies is expensive. Gas stations sell 1 banana for $1 instead of 6 for a $1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:23 AM |
| 65 | It makes me nauseous to think about how many men share this mindsetPeople try to say the internet is a weird unreal place... to a certain extent. Because people lie, it's easy to distort facts. But people also say what's truly in their hearts. I honestly think the internet is just highlighting how awful men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:55 PM |
| 23 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.They do see them because they post that shit on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 17 | I can hardly stomach relationship advice on other subs after my FDS awakeningNo worries. I came here when Gender Critical was still around. It got accused of brigadding (it wasn't) and was permanently removed. So I'm extra vigilant. And it seems like we get a lot of users who find us from places other than Reddit and don't know their terms of service. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:47 PM |
| 38 | Stop competing with porn stars. You will never win.They talk about addiction A LOT in After Porn Ends. That poor woman who was a fucking genius and tried to move to Utah. When I think about the damage of the porn industry she often comes to mind. I rarely see people mention that doc so I'm excited you know it. There used to be a website for tracking the deaths of porn stars. I think the woman who ran it died. I'll see if I can find it. But the deaths were overwhelmingly due to suicide, alcohol, drugs, or murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:32 PM |
| 15 | I can hardly stomach relationship advice on other subs after my FDS awakeningThe only person I like getting giftcards from is my boss. Honestly, a signed check feels more personal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 12 | I can hardly stomach relationship advice on other subs after my FDS awakeningThank you! I make comments like that all the time and feel it's rare to see others doing it. We gotta stay squeaky clean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:22 PM |
| 15 | It’s heartbreaking to see young women/teenage girls being preyed on like this.You should remove your request for the username. Just to be squeaky clean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 10 | I spotted my ex out of the blue and I am shaken up.Not saying they’re unwelcome here, but we do need more content on that sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:14 PM |
| 4 | This is straight out of a horror movie... being a woman automatically puts a target sign on your back. Please stay safe ladies ❤️You're right. And apparently they already call it "the sugar bowl". I just got stuck on how hilarious the imagery of a bunch of women fighting. Just because I find the phrase funny when I heard it for the first time doesn't mean I approve or don't take the issue seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 9 | I spotted my ex out of the blue and I am shaken up.You might want to direct more of these types of threads to AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 52 | I tried matchmaking services within my Muslim community and it backfiredLol he was just mad you rejected him. You should have just said that to the matchmaker. Which, you know, she's just trying to protect her business. You'd think she'd have to cater to women to keep good ones on there. But every culture gives deference to men. You should have just asked your mom "DO YOU WANT UGLY GRAND CHILDREN? BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU'LL GET" LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 4 | This is straight out of a horror movie... being a woman automatically puts a target sign on your back. Please stay safe ladies ❤️Lol WHAT? Omg that's even worse. It just makes me imagine a bunch of half naked women all crazily fighting each other to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 4 | This is straight out of a horror movie... being a woman automatically puts a target sign on your back. Please stay safe ladies ❤️women encouraging other women into porn, stripping, or the “sugar bowl” This made me chuckle. We should call the whole industry of escorts/sugar babies "The sugar bowl". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inSex trafficking victims are more commonly trafficked by family members than by a stranger. There's an entire grooming aspect that's important to keep her compliant and working. Also people want to criticize the police for 'arresting prostitutes'. The police are typically the way these girls get out of being trafficked. Listen to Small Town Dicks, there's a great episode on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI don't get the "echo chamber" criticism. Subs are meant to be about a specific topic. People not being able to think critically or consider opinions outside of there's is the issue. Or ignoring real life for internet life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 8 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids.He wasn't even a Stay at Home Dad. Didn't he work from home? Working from home isn't the same thing as being a STAHM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids.Wasn't he supposed to be working from home too? Why is everyone glossing over that he jeopardized his job for an affair? That's going to go into consideration in who gets custody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 9 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids.Yea but I hope OP got some cathartic anger out in replying to him. Cause she needs to just ignore her husband but I'm SURE she wants to chew him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:29 PM |
| 11 | What? Nah, sis needs to run away from him she deserves better.This is such a weird trope to me. I've literally never had a man not respond to a question unless he was driving and making a turn or something that NEEDED his attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:13 PM |
| 22 | This is straight out of a horror movie... being a woman automatically puts a target sign on your back. Please stay safe ladies ❤️Jesus thank you. Girls are trafficked by their boyfriends, friends and family members. Guys, please go do some research on trafficking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Jezebel/Cosmo/Salon Columnist Tracy Clark Flory wrote a book where she outlines how she was an architect of everything wrong with "Sex PoZZy" Feminism. It was all a lie, a ruse, and she KNEW it was, but instead of honesty we got "Cool girl" libfem bullshit. I don't feel compassion, I feel rage.No doubt. But I’ve seen random comments that say “it’s not sexual, it’s an art” “I do it for ME not because men find it sexy”. Stuff like that. We can’t pretend that it’s not rooted in dancing naked for men. The whole liberal concept that we just like what we like and the cultural meaning around it doesn’t matter or affect our choices is just ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:39 PM |
| 32 | Image being so addicted to porn that you associate winged eyeliner with being a c*msl*t... DisgustingThey already ruined it for me. Who owns makeup companies? Men. Just like any other industry, men mostly dominate the top, and the decision makers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 15 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!That poor doggie. Can you imagine it’s life with a caretaker like him? So sad. If anyone has a version with the sound pleas DM Me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:11 AM |
| 10 | This musician used the power of neuroscience to help her fall out of love. Takeaway lesson: Stop indulging in thinking and feeling for the ex, and eventually the love will die out. Aim for a sense of calm indifference.I agree with no contact and all of OP’s suggestions. It’d just be nice to hear more tools than “don’t think about him”. I can get down with that. But what do I do when I inevitability think about him? Do I think about something awful? Do I recite every horrible thing he did? When I tell myself “don’t do X” it becomes what I focus on. And I’ve gotten over men bu reminding myself how awful he was. But that’s still having an emotional response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 5 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️Right? The American public does not understand that modern psyops is all online now. I really think it's because our school system is lacking and most people did not get to see the legitimate documentation that the CIA engaged in bizarre culture wars since the 40's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 9 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️https://www.iamjanedoefilm.com/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 14 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️I don't have to look at random internet posts that could be lying because I've done actual research, listened to interviews with prostitutes and trafficked women/girls, listened to sex crimes detectives, read actual policies that fight these issues and seen ex-prostitutes discuss what they've endured. Without any of it being anonymous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 11 | This musician used the power of neuroscience to help her fall out of love. Takeaway lesson: Stop indulging in thinking and feeling for the ex, and eventually the love will die out. Aim for a sense of calm indifference.OK so listen to podcasts, go on a walk, draw, maybe force yourself to think about another issue... read? Some of us have compulsion issues though. Even when we do all of the above our mind ends up on whatever issue we're focused on. I'll experience 3-6 months at a time where I'm obsessed with a specific subject. I'll try to do other things and the whole time I'm doing those things, I can't force my mind to stay off the thing I'm obsessed with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 79 | This is why we don’t take the risk with LVM. Soon as he shows any red flags 🚩 DUMP HIM or you might end up this mans wife.Right? don't you want to catfish these fuckers and DM their wives? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 33 | The great disparity between sex-workers (TW: graphic abuse and sexual violence)I don't respect actresses and celebrities who play into the idea that women are valued for sex/sexual availability. Why should I respect a middle class woman on OnlyFans who plays into that too? You know that blonde, privileged, australian chick that gave away nudes to fundraise for the wildfires? She tried to level up her business by TRAINING NEW GIRLS on how to do sex work. Why shouldn't I criticize that??? Pimps always have a bottom B who keeps the girls in check when he's not around (or when… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 9 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️Yes. We've already seen how Russia fucked with social media in the 2016 election. There was a company called the Internet Research Agency (which is a Russian disinformation campaign). Back in 2016 when they got rid of backpage, American news sources CITED THE INTERNET RESEARCH AGENCY in their articles! And when you went to the Internet Research Agency's links from the articles, they just constantly clicked around the website as 'sources' instead of linking to studies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 21 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️Lmao you’re stoned if you think men will put up with a prostitute verifying identification and employment. They don’t want to get caught. All your suggested “safety nets” would scream “it’s a cop” to a John. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:01 PM |
| 15 | neckbeard brags about how much his wife does while he doesn’t do sh*t, even mentions how daughter “wasn’t even supposed to be alive 8 years ago”Honestly I thought she has some mental issues going on. It seems like an abnormal level of controlling that can be brought on by stress/emotional issues. When I was in an abusive relationship my ex would criticize my house being dirty and over the relationship I became obsessive about cleaning. He didn’t even criticize it often (he was abusive in other way) but it became a way to focus on something else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 07:59 PM |
| 23 | This musician used the power of neuroscience to help her fall out of love. Takeaway lesson: Stop indulging in thinking and feeling for the ex, and eventually the love will die out. Aim for a sense of calm indifference.Ok and how can we do this to ourselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:56 PM |
| 3 | I want to date multiple men but they are all trashGood for you!! | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Male friends, back rubs, and god knows what else...I think it's nice he's getting to know you first and expressing subtle interest. But if he wants to ask you out he should do it soon. If he just kisses you without an actual date, that's a red flag. I wouldn't keep moving forward if that happened. That's how you become their fuck buddy. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 06:38 PM |
| 8 | My friend dumped her NVM boyfriend of three years. She’s focused solely on herself now!I hope you told her the last thing she should be doing right now is looking for a man. It's shocking she can admit she made a mistake for 3 years and wants to jump right back in. It takes time to learn from your mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:59 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?Multi level marketing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:51 PM |
| 28 | Is it bad to be on Bumble when I don't really want a relationship?You don’t sound ready for a relationship. A lot of FDS women miss sex and intimacy. The whole point of FDS is to work on yourself, while staying single, to get to a point where you love yourself too much to stay with someone who treats you poorly. You’ve already come up with this idea that you’re not good enough and he’s not going to be attracted to you and you don’t even know him. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 3 | I want to date multiple men but they are all trashHVM know what they want and take action. If they start questioning being with someone they don’t string them along. They give space so they don’t hurt you. He’s pretending to give you space while stringing you along. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 12:40 PM |
| 7 | Britney Spears Was Never in ControlOmg my heart 😭 I can’t believe how much the media has twisted her reality. Can you imagine how awful you’d hear about a random young girl having that happen? And with a star it’s 1,000 times more wicked after you hear her life story. I’d love to be a fly on the wall in her hearings of competency. Did anyone bring up this trauma? Did anyone mention the parents didn’t shield her from it? She’s been so failed all around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Britney Spears Was Never in ControlI mean. The underwear could be fake right? Unless you have a DNA kit you don’t know if it’s real. I think I skimmed too fast in the VH1 link you gave. Is it in episode 1 or late? I’m not arguing she wasn’t abused, I’m just skeptical of a man auctioning off a famous 14 year olds underwear when she’s not famous yet. Britney Spears’ story should be a warning against society judging teenage stars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Feeling really down about my appearance after streaming on Twitch?You shouldn’t be meeting men online. People are so different online than they are in real life. At the most extreme you have a super curated online persona with tons of makeup and fake situations. At the other end of the extreme you don’t curate anything and your incredible hobbies/trips/personality doesn’t come through. Also, love bombers and superficial men who use you are casting a wide net on the internet to get whatever they can. If a man DMs you, rest assured he’s DM’d 10 other women that … | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Confused - is this modern dating?Wait wait wait.... you’re both traditional yet he has a FWB? And pretends he doesn’t have a relationship? This is not a “traditional” mindset. He’s stringing you along and likely telling these other women that he’s “traditional” and to keep their relationship on the down low. All the “traditional” people I’ve met hace dated without any physical intimacy and gotten to know 1 person at a time. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 02:32 AM |
| 41 | Losing male friends left and rightWomen can’t have male friends. Like legit friends that aren’t acquaintances. Men are only friends with women they’re willing to fuck. He clearly realized you’d never fuck him and reacted in an odd way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 103 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirlYea... it felt like a very sad diary entry. Which might wake women up? Or make them realize they’re not alone. But it’s not “queen shit” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:19 AM |
| 21 | Britney Spears Was Never in ControlWhat? I had no idea about the pedo bf. Do you have sources? I watched the Britney doc and it was super focused on her relationship with her dad (and rightly so). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:18 AM |
| 8 | At what point do women express their feelings?That’s love bombing sis. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 02:13 AM |
| 15 | At what point do women express their feelings?Lmao what? He’s known you 4 months and he’ll be scarred forever??? Ridiculous. If you raped and abused him, sure. That’s scarring. Generally dating and having distance is not a scar. He’s playing hot and cold with you because it’s keeping you invested. You told him you wanted to take it slow, so he backed off, and now he wants to act like you’re the love of his life because you’ll scar him so badly if you break up? Move on. He’s manipulative. Read the handbook, stay single. Then reintroduce your… | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 02:13 AM |
| 11 | Attachment Theory?I think it can be useful as long as it’s not a meter for decisions or working on yourself. We all have aspects of every type of personality. And you can quickly ignore red flags or issues in yourself if you get too attached to these personality tests. And our views of ourselves isn’t always accurate. What you see in yourself isn’t going to be what your last bf saw, or your mom, or your gf. I think I just talked myself into thinking personality tests are actually detrimental to self realization. … | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 146 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirlAgreed! It’s hard to be brutally honest about your behavior. So maybe in that regard it is queen shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 6 | I want to date multiple men but they are all trashWait what? He doesn’t want to be exclusive so you’re trying to do the same thing? Dump him, be single and slowly get to know actually good guys. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 345 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirlThis is funny... but not queen shit... in any way. But super glad she’s speaking so many women’s truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:43 AM |
| 11 | Ah yes, to be already 17 and struggling to empathize with the issues 50% of population face! Of course feminists should teach you how to see us as human <3I’ve only fostered, babysat and had dogs who were fixed at 8 weeks. Everything you’re describing is general puppy behavior. Men do not treat women poorly because of testosterone. It’s because of socialization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:01 AM |
| 28 | Ah yes, to be already 17 and struggling to empathize with the issues 50% of population face! Of course feminists should teach you how to see us as human <3It’s how we treat people with Y chromosomes. There’s studies showing we treat male and female BABIES differently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:59 AM |
| 10 | Deathly Scared of Him Leaving (even when he shows no sign of leaving), advice needed.Being afraid to lose someone is a giant red flag. Honestly OPs post makes me think he’s love bombing her. She talks about how he’d never call another woman a gf. That’s a red flag! | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 12:57 AM |
| 11 | Deathly Scared of Him Leaving (even when he shows no sign of leaving), advice needed.Honestly being afraid to lose someone is a GIANT red flag. Women become afraid to lose their partners after their partner has whittled their self esteem into nothing. And they don’t do it in an obvious way. He’s going to call you sexy, then purposely point out thinner, taller, curvier women who look nothing like you and say they’re attractive. I bet he shows you the porn he watches and it looks nothing like you. I bet he shuts down ideas you have in a “nice and honest” way. You need to take a ha… | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 12:56 AM |
| 66 | Britney Spears Was Never in ControlHave you seen videos of her singing when she was a child vs teen? To me it seems like they actually coached her to sound younger as she got older. She developed almost a valley girl sound in her accent while singing, but when she was a child her voice was so powerful and adult like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 13 | Indeed, how dares she to think of not going nun after break-up with a man?I mean... this just seems like promotion for the film they did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 4 | AskfeminismThere were a few comments in THIS SUB where women were arguing the sex offender list prevented men from re-entering society and should be done away with. Either these women have never experienced sexual violence or it’s just SO en vogue to hate on cops/prisons that they’re willing to throw women and children under the bus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:29 PM |
| 14 | Input please (details below)This is the type of post that needs to be posted in the sister sub, askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:22 PM |
| 4 | How to assert boundaries with a “friendly stranger” AKA random older man 2x my age not reading the roomCan you get your bf to go with you to the park a few times? Also wearing headphones without sound and pretending you don’t hear them has worked for me when I’ve been worried about giving a blatant ‘no’ | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 11:02 AM |
| 8 | What do you do to show yourself extra love and care without spending money?A walk while listening to a podcast. A super hot bath with Epson salts and candles lit. I always forget to do it, but journaling can give me the biggest sigh of relief. It’s just so hard to think to do it. Really a routine of positive and relaxing things is best. Like walking after work, stretching, making a healthy meal and then journaling. You should cross post this to femalelevelupstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 02:19 AM |
| 9 | The Now-Defunct "Feministing" wrote articles pandering to sex offenders and working to abolish the sex offender registryI think I misunderstood your comment. I thought you were in favor of getting rid of the sex offense registry. And were arguing that if we prevented men from facing economic turmoil they wouldn’t offend. I was a CASA and the president of the children’s hospital came to talk to us. She said that “shaken baby syndrome” in infants is found at the same rate across socio-economic lines. It’s not until you get into school age where you see less physical abuse in middle class & upper middle class. She a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 02:11 AM |
| 14 | The Now-Defunct "Feministing" wrote articles pandering to sex offenders and working to abolish the sex offender registryIt’s unfucking believable we’re finding this argument in this sub upvoted. Literally saying women who want to protect their children by having a sex offender list is making “life too hard for men who ruin babies lives!” I swear some liberal women are fucking blind from reality. Read some fucking studies, read news articles, listen to cops cry retelling the abuse the babies they found dead faced. Everyone wants to shit on cops right now while ignoring the absolute tragedies and PTSD they experien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:58 AM |
| 11 | The Now-Defunct "Feministing" wrote articles pandering to sex offenders and working to abolish the sex offender registryThis is unbelievably uneducated. Pedophiles can’t be rehabilitated, we can only prevent them from offending. There’s been so many cases of pedophiles being investigated for crimes, it didn’t go anywhere for lack of evidence, they move states and they’re investigated for the same fucking behavior. They offend in very specific ways. But that new state and his new victims have no fucking clue that the person they trust dated a single mom and was investigated for molesting her child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 10 | The Now-Defunct "Feministing" wrote articles pandering to sex offenders and working to abolish the sex offender registryI don’t think you understand pedophiles. They are trusted individuals by a family. Having a social safety net typically has nothing to do with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:51 AM |
| 6 | The Now-Defunct "Feministing" wrote articles pandering to sex offenders and working to abolish the sex offender registryCan you copy/paste her article so she doesn’t get “hits” for people clicking on it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:49 AM |
| 28 | The Now-Defunct "Feministing" wrote articles pandering to sex offenders and working to abolish the sex offender registryI’m so fucking sick of liberal feminists just fucking forgetting WHY we have these policies in place. We had to fight tooth and nail to creat a sex offender registry!!! Because you shouldn’t go out with a man who seems like a nice guy and not find out he molested the child of a different single mother. Un-fucking real. There’s already issues of sex offenders moving states and that state only seeing what they’re convicted of, not what they were investigated for. We literally have pedophiles movin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:48 AM |
| 9 | Is this a red flag?LMAO omg. What a fucking loser. Giant Giant red flag. Dude clearly watches too much porn. Any man who finds a specific style of vulva more attractive is just a porn addict. Don't put up with questions about your body. | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 12:39 AM |
| 19 | Jezebel/Cosmo/Salon Columnist Tracy Clark Flory wrote a book where she outlines how she was an architect of everything wrong with "Sex PoZZy" Feminism. It was all a lie, a ruse, and she KNEW it was, but instead of honesty we got "Cool girl" libfem bullshit. I don't feel compassion, I feel rage.I think she's just part of a lot of women who bought into sex-pozzi bullshit because we were young and didn't know better. I wish she would go further into admitting how detrimental the sex-pozzi belief system is. I think A LOT of us young women were victim to the swarm of men/women saying fucking everyone and being into BDSM was empowering. So I don't feel bad for her, but I am glad to see more women with a platform talking about it. I feel so shouted down and called a fake feminist whenever I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:35 AM |
| 10 | Jezebel/Cosmo/Salon Columnist Tracy Clark Flory wrote a book where she outlines how she was an architect of everything wrong with "Sex PoZZy" Feminism. It was all a lie, a ruse, and she KNEW it was, but instead of honesty we got "Cool girl" libfem bullshit. I don't feel compassion, I feel rage.Even the defending of pole dancing I see on this sub grosses me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 5 | I think I may have lowered a HVM's treatment of me, is there coming back?Your post is very very vague. Is he treating you HV? Did he go through a time of not treating you that way? Are you absolutely sure that your low self esteem wasn’t due to his behavior? “I’m the problem” is what I see from abused women. I have had LVM shower me with affection and gifts. Are you absolutely sure there isn’t something off that affected your self esteem? Also what’s your specific diet? That raised a red flag to me because I’ve dated men who exclusively dated anorexic women. They’re … | /r/askFDS | 21/02/21 11:55 PM |
| 6 | What do arguments look like in a relationship with an HVM?I can tell you what they don't look like. I know ppl will say "arguments don't happen with HVM" because it's a calm discussion. However. The most physically abusive man I ever dated - we never ever argued. Looking back I can see the correlation of me bringing up something he obviously didn't like and an hours, sometimes days later backlash of him beating the shit out of me or doing something else horrendous. So if you think you're dating a HVM and he doesn't argue, just be cognizant and analyze … | /r/askFDS | 21/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 7 | I'm not sure he's set his requirements high enough /sLmao and he’s 5’ 10” 😂 which also means he’s really 5’ 8” I don’t understand how men have so much confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Degrading names during sexThey have a website and a discussion board section but last time I checked (a long time ago) it wasn’t really FDS oriented. It seemed like all newbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:11 PM |
| 26 | Degrading names during sexI agree. But we’re a female exclusive sub. The last sub that was pro-woman got shut down. We can message people ourselves. But we can’t risk losing our sub because of Reddit’s TOS that are only applied to female oriented subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:55 AM |
| -21 | Degrading names during sexThank you for pointing that out. OP should know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 21 | Degrading names during sexNo. She should just say "one of the relationship subs". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 1 | "Dr." Emily Morse advertises herself as a "Doctor of Human Sexuality" and Sex Therapist...but is not actually a Doctor or therapist.....of ANYTHING. Is the entire sexology industry a SCAM?Omg. I can’t. Can you give a synopsis? Edit : Aaaaaaahhhh I watched 10 seconds of the promo - what the FUCK?! Doesn’t half of a sex just mean it’s the norm??? Not having an orgasm is a direct result of your partner. What. The. Fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:49 PM |
| 28 | Is it me or every "relationship guru" is like telling women to stop annyoing their bfs?I mean.... why are you watching relationship gurus? Who the fuck cares what a snake oil salesman has to say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:26 PM |
| 36 | "I HATE it when guys don't hit me!! idk if you have 5x times my strength!! Do it! Hit me! Love me!!"I can't even read this. He/She needs to start reading more books. That's how I learned to write. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeI saw it somewhere else on reddit too. Sometimes other reddit spaces do post content we can benefit from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 31 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeI agree. I think if women ran the world (like men do now) men would be ordered to pay for therapy, or it'd be a public service. I know lots of women pander to men, but I think it's rooted in the fact they have power and we have a male-oriented society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeHonestly.... I think castrated men who used to experience sexual pleasure would still molest. Let's just start giving child molesters the same sentences as killers and I think that'd fix a lot of issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:58 PM |
| 49 | Another post that demonstrates why it’s good to weary of so-called male ‘friends’. It always come back to sex and whether they see you as bangable or not.Lmao perfect response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | A (seemingly) HVM gave me his number. Now what?I think it's actually good he gave you his phone number. It presents a respectfulness of not forcing you to give a fake number or say 'no' on the spot. I'd text him (maybe from a google phone number) and say "hey this is Lalalalaika, it was nice to meet you" or something like that. | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 291 | Another post that demonstrates why it’s good to weary of so-called male ‘friends’. It always come back to sex and whether they see you as bangable or not.Can you imagine having sex with not one but TWO men you aren't even attracted to??? I'm sure her fantasy is men focusing on her pleasure and loving her. How's she going to get off with a fat tummy pummeling her back AND her stomach? Or kissing not one but TWO men who don't brush? Women are physically and emotionally coerced enough by men. Can you imagine saying no to TWO men who are grabbing at you? Most women can't even say "no" to men they trust let alone two assholes who might secretly film y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Inspired by your tapestry - wanted to share my current (HVM) partner also got me an art from a previous date!And you just admitted to asking HIM to be exclusive. Wut? How does that make him HV? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Inspired by your tapestry - wanted to share my current (HVM) partner also got me an art from a previous date!You cannot call a man HV after one month. That's the whole point of this sub. Men will pretend to be HV for years. The #1 risk to be abused by a man begins in pregnancy. Many men will not be physically abusive until you're vulnerable. You're being obtuse about FDS advice and pretending you're following it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 8 | TIL...u/FabledAngryVillager posted an article by his ex wife. I was a powerful influence on the career choices Joss made during the 20 years we were together (we lived together for four years before marrying). I kept him grounded, and helped him find the quickest way to the success he so deeply craved This is EXACTLY why we have such high standards. Women support their partner's careers with sound advice, encouragement, sometimes even proof reading work, adding to their work, making judgements, financ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | A bit bummed to see this post from a popular psychologist (over 3M followers). “Flow Exploration”... How different is it from a time-wasting situationship? Maybe I’m just getting old. Not sure what to think about this.I always understood the handbook as dating multiple men at once for a few months to find out if they're HV or not.... Not just a few men a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Inspired by your tapestry - wanted to share my current (HVM) partner also got me an art from a previous date!We only met a month ago, but have been seeing each other exclusively since date #1. .... and you're already calling him HV? After A MONTH? Also FDS advices dating multiple men at once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 10 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeWait, what? Sex offender registries aren't public in your state??? What state do you live in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 24 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeI hope I gave you enough of a warning regarding the video! If you're into true crime, there's a podcast (Small Town Dicks) with a detective who focuses on child abuse. If it's not too upsetting, I highly recommend it. It reminds you there's good detectives out there who want to help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 15 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeI was just venting to my mom that a 10 year old can rape/molest a 5 year old and once they're 18 that's it. POOF! It's gone. No one knows. And I know there's huge value in expunging children's/teens records.... But sexual assault/rape is a different animal. It's not like smoking weed or stealing stuff. The US needs a country wide database for pedophiles/sexual predators. And I 100% believe cops should be able to see that an adult was convicted as a child for sexual assault. I listened to the mos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 16 | Women resent men for seeing them as just a body. LVM want what's underneath the clothes, without caring about what's underneath the skin; the naked body without the naked soul. LVM resent women for placing a barrier between them and sex because we prioritize our emotional wellbeing over sex.I'm pretty sure it's photoshopped. The 2 fonts aren't the same and her text is more clear than the drawing and the man's text bubble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 9 | Women resent men for seeing them as just a body. LVM want what's underneath the clothes, without caring about what's underneath the skin; the naked body without the naked soul. LVM resent women for placing a barrier between them and sex because we prioritize our emotional wellbeing over sex.This just made me realize there's prob men out there who fantasize about a woman with 4 breasts and 2 vaginas.... ::Shudder::: Now I can't get that out of my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Having extreme dislike/hatred for the new woman? Justified or unjustified?My therapist tries to redirect that energy and focus on why I was miserable in the relationship This is an educated and adult reaction to the situation. The "other woman" kind of fucked you around, was looking for attention, even went out of her way to tell you they were back together. And that's fucked up. But she's just a cursory character. All you have to learn from that is to make better judgements about people you don't know. And take the shit they say with a grain of salt. The much harder … | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 133 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeYes. But states have minimum and maximum sentences. That’s why we need more female lawmakers - men don’t take pedophilia seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 200 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeI saw this and thought she was so badass. This judge chastises a man for raping two toddlers. And even though it’s sad, I do think we need to share more women in law enforcement who do an outstanding job. Also I think her hitting on “all for your sexual gratification” is applicable to A LOT of horrible things men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Lib Feminism encourages women to adopt LVM’s toxic behaviorsI didn’t say it wasn’t made by men. I said there were a lot of things it has in common with radical feminism. And instead of making our world more and more divisive we can recognize what we agree on and work to fix that. I connect with everyone I know on the basic facts we can agree on and go from there. And you know what it’s done? It’s convinced people to go vegetarian, or agree with feminist policies, or recognize sexism, or stop using anti-feminist language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:47 PM |
| 16 | How much importance do you place on a man’s financial security? How long would you wait for him to demonstrate financial security?I might have been harsh. But honestly I see SO many posts like yours. You know somethings wrong and you know what you have to do, you just don’t want to. I’m that way too. It took me forever to break up with my ex. That might be why I’m harsh. I could see he had no plan or goal to meet me on my financial level. He kept saying he did. And it never happened. You’re only 5 months in. He should be doing what he can to impress you. So if he’s not working hard to save to show you he cares then 🤷♀️ th… | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 05:49 AM |
| 21 | So trueOmg I love her hair and her nails. She’s giving me an 80’s Barbie vibe that I strive for. I wish I could have braids like that 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:42 AM |
| 35 | She’s 18 and he’s 23Ahhhh poor baby!! I hope you DM’d her. I’m so disgusted how men have led women to believe PrEfErEnCeS are FiNE. Wanting to fuck a child isn’t fine. Also the whole “looking at cartoons of children will satisfy pedophiles and reduce pedophilia” is a completely abstract idea made up by men. No study has ever supported that. In fact, all pedophiles escalate from imagination to images and to actual physical contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:40 AM |
| 21 | Never build a man up❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:33 AM |
| 73 | .Ugh I had to skim it. My heart just hurts so much for women. I can’t imagine being a parent to a teenager right now. I’d either go psycho or comatose. And for women of my generation, I feel utterly lost with ya’ll. We grew up being told we were close to equality. And then the internet rammed in and 🤷♀️ instead of experiencing sexual liberation we’re just in bedazzled chains. Nothing has changed. Even our female politicians, who are clearly badass, have to pander to the pro-male crowd. Sometimes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:27 AM |
| 215 | Just witnessed some really barfy bs in the wildWoman sounded weird to you your whole life? Are you new to the English language? Edit : HE also mistyped “woman” and put “womEn”.... because it’s not a woman. Men who say “females” do not ever talk about women in the singular form because were a monolith to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | How much importance do you place on a man’s financial security? How long would you wait for him to demonstrate financial security?Jesus. I swear every single post by a woman here and any other relationship sub is “he’s wonderful, so affectionate, I love him so much, he takes care of me, but there’s one important thing that I want to ignore because he meets the bare minimum” Common dude. He doesn’t have savings? What kind of savings are you talking about? Forget that. If he doesn’t meet your level of savings, he’s not a fit for you. He’ll spend all your money. He’ll convince you to pay for more because you have more money. … | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 05:10 AM |
| 10 | Lib Feminism encourages women to adopt LVM’s toxic behaviorsI wouldn’t say liberal feminism “isn’t REALLY feminism” because it makes the issue too black and white. Liberal feminists will say we’re not Really feminists because we want to date a man who wants to buy us dinner. We have a lot in common with liberal feminists. There’s just a few very important distinctions between radical feminism and liberal feminism. If we pretend they’re not “real” feminists, we’ll never have a productive conversation that helps more women realize radical self love of ours… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | I’m newYea. I think being able to realize how much better you feel after small steps can help you pull yourself out. Like “oh yea, I felt really good about myself after eating those vegetables, I don’t really want to but I’ll do it again”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | This Just In: General Hygiene Is No Longer A NecessityI’ve heard many men joke about wiping “like you’re wiping a marker” meaning they have to wipe a ton until there’s nothing there. I can only imagine they’re like a baby who has wet mushy poop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Help identifying PickMeisha-like behaviour and help to correct it?Clearly you’re just a troll. | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 12:25 AM |
| 8 | Male co worker being a jerk after I rejected himYou keep arguing when you literally keep taking his bait and responding. He kept saying "am I tired looking" and you responded. You kept asking him what was wrong. You repeatedly told him you weren't going to be civil with him? Why? What's the fucking point. Do your job with him and move on. Stop fucking texting him outside of work, stop talking about personal issues. He again kept trying to usher me out and I told him I wasn’t going anywhere and to relax. He stormed out while saying “ this is e… | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 10:30 PM |
| 11 | Help identifying PickMeisha-like behaviour and help to correct it?Why are you so focused on getting a man and socializing with men? Don't you have girlfriends? Co-workers? Family? | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 10:25 PM |
| 9 | Have men always been so bad?You're talking about the top of the top though. There's tons of small business owners, medium business owners, directors, managers, etc. that are not pedophiles, and are seemingly good men, who pass over women because they meet with a man and think "there's just something about him that's authoritative!". It's a systemic sexist issue grounded in our cultural beliefs about who men and women are. It doesn't have even have to do with pedophilia or rape. There are men who would never ever rape a wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 13 | Male co worker being a jerk after I rejected himBecause it sounds like a highschool situation. You're literally replying to this dude when you have absolutely no reason to. He literally blocked you and you kept trying to talk to him? Just do your job and stay out of the drama. | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 19 | Male co worker being a jerk after I rejected himWhy are you texting someone so much who you know has a crush on you? Why are you lecturing a man-baby about how he should talk to you? He's looking for attention, you keep biting the bait because you want attention. He keeps blocking and unblocking you and you keep responding.... Why? Are you bored at this job? Is it entry level? | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 09:40 PM |
| 18 | Help identifying PickMeisha-like behaviour and help to correct it?Yes. We let the attractive boys pass by. If they're interested in you they will come to you. The whole point of FDS is that you have a whole life going on that you don't worry about men. You want a man who is crazy about you and respects you. Internalize this mantra : If he wanted to, he would. If that cute boy walking by doesn't notice you - he doesn't want you! You don't want to endlessly fight to keep a guy around. You have hobbies, a career, family, friends, pets, goals, dreams. Tons and ton… | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 09:29 PM |
| 19 | I’m newI am not honoring myself hygiene-wise. That’s really difficult to post/say. This is just depression/sadness/COVID depression. Everyone is struggling right now. In their own weird way. Give yourself a timeline. You made this post so maybe say "I'll give myself 3 days and then I'm going to take a nice hot bath". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Have men always been so bad?Every step forward men have to take us down a peg or two. Look at how women, for a long time, have been graduating from college at much higher numbers than men. This has been going on for at least a decade. Where are the female CEO's? Managers? Directors? Even though women are increasingly more educated than men, we still don't hold positions of power that our education would indicate we should have. We still have a wage gap. If more women are more educated than men, why do they still have the b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 15 | This Just In: General Hygiene Is No Longer A NecessityGod that's so gross. My ex used to use babywipes and I thought it was a bit weird (I'm vegan and don't have mushy poops... I wipe once and there's nothing there). But now I realize maybe I should have appreciated it LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:15 PM |
| 40 | Repost: Cultural Gaslighting and Unpacking the Britney Spears storyI shaved my head to look like pink when I was 11. So when I saw her breakdown I just thought "I would have done it sooner". I also really want to shave my head now, get it tattooed and just wear nice wigs. But I loved that documentary. Her father is a piece of shit. Her mom doesn't seem great either. I think it's really sad that women who helped her at a young age jut got kicked out (prob part of isolation and control). What was Justin's apology for? Did he actually apologize for pretending she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:14 PM |
| 35 | This Just In: General Hygiene Is No Longer A NecessityThere was a recent thread on a dif sub about a man's skid marks. And a user said "women have underwear going up their butt and don't have skid marks" and I thought it was fucking brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Should I make amends ?Yes! Also, I feel like a stalker because your username is the only one I know here. I just love your comments! | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 56 | Lib Feminism encourages women to adopt LVM’s toxic behaviorsThey also engage in the devaluation of sexual intimacy, I can't believe how many of us have bought into this. I didn't think my virginity was sacred, and that's just the opposite of the puritanical view that women are only valued for their virginity. They're both toxic. The first time you have sex isn't special. But who you do it with 100% matters! I regret so many of my sexual encounters from my libfem phase. This is the shit my mom meant when she said "you're going to change over time, don't d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 24 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄A lot of the comments were "Women look at porn too! It's not the same, my gf looks at porn WITH me"... Fucking eyeroll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Roses Are Red, Rush Limbaugh is Dead, and Bridgerton is a fancy tale of young women being sold into sex slaveryCan someone tell me the plot of Bridgerton? I was listening to My Favorite Murder and Karen Kilgarif called herself a prude for being shocked at the plot.... I got the impression it was some weird sex shit but I refuse to watch the show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 24 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive Clientsoh geeze girl. You need to dump him and focus on yourself. Sex-work at 16 is called human trafficking.... You have some healing to do and being with a man isn't going to help you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:23 PM |
| 24 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsTheir contempt becomes apparent when discussing relationships Or when they choke them, hit them, coerce them with more and more money to do things the worker had a hard line against. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 98 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄Exactly. He literally says she takes photos and videos for him yet he STILL has to look at porn?? he's a fucking asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:12 PM |
| 8 | "Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to"The only abusive relationships I’ve been in are when I lowered my standards and thought “well I’ll give him a try, he really likes me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 95 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄“Porn is totally fine if you pretend they’re not people” is fucking spot on. I wish I had commented that in the thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:18 AM |
| 139 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄The comments saying “looking at porn isn’t the same thing as producing it” blew my fucking mind. They literally think women are objects for their pleasure or to keep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:12 AM |
| 27 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄I 100% agree! I had the same exact thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 58 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄Yes yes yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:03 AM |
| 101 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄Consensus says : he’s pornsick, she knows it, and sought external validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:58 AM |
| 129 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄That’s what they always do!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 189 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄I don’t think so. He hasn’t confronted her and they’ve been together since she was 18! She doesn’t know what she deserves. She’s only been with this pornsick-user-asshole. Can you imagine thinking it’s ok to objectify women until it’s “your” woman??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 37 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:55 AM |
| 516 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄The hypocrisy is astounding. He has no empathy for women. When he found his wife’s photos he thought she got hacked, but lo and behold, no, she wasn’t hacked. Never mind that the pornographic images of girls/women he’s looking at could be the result of a hack or revenge porn. Who cares? All the men said “viewing porn is different than posting it!” So you can get off to other women, but your wife can’t let men get off to her? What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:17 AM |
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