What even is this logic???

AnniaT · 2021-05-05T11:16:46+00:00

And then we're the gold diggers. He's living with her for free yet doesn't want to pay for her vacation though he has the means. And this is not cultural/family education because even his brother was shocked and wanted to pay for her.

myousername · 2021-05-05T10:55:15+00:00

Why do men emasculate themselves like this.

ivory_727 · 2021-05-05T10:48:13+00:00

He hates his gf. That's what's up.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2021-05-05T10:47:10+00:00

This guy is a redpill devotee for sure.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-05-05T11:14:35+00:00

His own family is going to realize that he's a weird mooch and a loser. I hope the girlfriend starts to realize it.

shelballama · 2021-05-05T11:25:17+00:00

I saw this! What an ass. Glad everyone gave resounding YTA's. This is just a more frank and honest version of what women go through in many relationships, though. "She took on WAY more of the work and when an opportunity for her to relax or do something nice with me (that had all but been given to me) arose, I decided SHE wasn't worth the effort"

RecordingImportant94 · 2021-05-05T11:26:32+00:00

She should pack up his stuff that’s in HER home and leave it on the sidewalk while he is away. Or venmo him for storage costs until he gets back and takes it all away. What a fucking leech this scrote is.

pinkcityscape · 2021-05-05T11:26:49+00:00

Maybe he should go and buy his own place to move into instead of leeching off her since ‘it’s not her job to provide housing for him, he is an adult’

sveji- · 2021-05-05T11:34:11+00:00

Leech. He lived with his parents for free until he was 26, now he's 27 and living with his girlfriend without paying a dime for the condo she bought. I seriously hope his girlfriend sees her worth and demotes him to an ex.

Horror_Maize_6546 · 2021-05-05T11:01:22+00:00

The top comments give me hope.

Platipus6 · 2021-05-05T11:27:10+00:00

Change the locks while he’s gone, sis 😂 and close the border behind him.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-05-05T11:48:38+00:00

How can he write that out so frankly and not realise for himself how much of a giant asshole he is.

lightcobaltblue · 2021-05-05T11:26:28+00:00

Honestly, hurts to read this. I guess I'm triggered from previous experiences, but also feel for the woman in the story.

nahradfam · 2021-05-05T11:41:59+00:00

Lived for free with his parents until he was 26, now mooches off his girlfriend. Where's his house?

Independent_Leather3 · 2021-05-05T11:15:44+00:00

She should dump her boyfriend and date his brother instead🤣

True-Audience-8258 · 2021-05-05T11:25:36+00:00

Yeah, he is a disgrace and a loser! He doesn’t contribute anything to the literal place they live, most people’s biggest expense, and won’t even treat her nicely.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-05-05T11:54:06+00:00

What the fuck is he for?

bunsmoria · 2021-05-05T11:59:28+00:00

Is this fake? Cause I can’t. I can’t even figure out what’s on his mind when typing this out. Each day, I am getting more embarrassed for them. Omg. I so wanna tell his GF like the tiktok video, “Sis, dump his ass.”

mermaid-babe · 2021-05-05T12:07:22+00:00

I doubt he cleans or cooks for her either. He’s just a leech

Due-Apricot-4433 · 2021-05-05T12:12:03+00:00

He’s a parasite

lessadessa · 2021-05-05T12:06:05+00:00

Literally enraged me to read this. What a fucking loser. He doesn’t deserve his girlfriends second glance and she’s putting him up?? Girl leave him in a DITCH.

Champagne_bitch · 2021-05-05T12:36:27+00:00

I swear some men just stayed with us to see us die.

_nylea · 2021-05-05T12:49:01+00:00

Thank god his brother is reasonable. I hope he did pay for it, to piss him off.

But seriously, dating a guy who lived with his parents forever to save money usually isn’t a good move, from my experience. They’re going to nickel and dime everything, with no appreciation for others subsidizing their life as if it’s “expected”.

pat_labor_of_love · 2021-05-05T12:18:19+00:00

This is triggering for me too. What a complete and total asshole. I hope she realizes this and dumps him soon! If she marries him he'll just use her until he cheats with someone else. When she finally realizes that he's just been using her, she'll be devastated that she wasted so many years with him. It's so sad.

tldrjane · 2021-05-05T12:28:48+00:00

I want to believe this is a troll... that poor woman

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-05-05T13:14:39+00:00

What a scrote. He has all this money saved and investments yet his gf had to work two jobs in order to secure a place for the BOTH of them. She's the breadwinner, the maid and his sex toy apparently. All he did was move in and leech off of her hard work. She's bought all the essentials and probably pays the entire rent. In any scenario he's her child. Gf needs to leave him as there's no pros to him being there. From her actions alone, she can afford it and can do just fine by herself. Independent woman looking after a man child. He hates her and I feel bad for her. And then he has the audacity to get mad that his brother wants to pay for his gf. Scrote, no one was trying to piss you off your brother wanted to show you that you're scum and she deserves this trip. I hope his whole family finds out what a piece of turd he is. Ugh this gets under my skin, mooched off his parents and now his gf. He's about to be 30 and getting worse.

islandgirl_94 · 2021-05-05T13:14:53+00:00

He lives rent free in her Condo and didn't contribute a dime to her buying it or repairing it yet refuses to buy her a flight for a vacation. Smdh. Then he will come back from vacation to live rent free in her condo.

superderpina_ · 2021-05-05T11:36:17+00:00

Looks like she chose the wrong brother.

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-05-05T13:03:42+00:00

He sounds like a child

Lazy-Design1979 · 2021-05-05T13:16:16+00:00

His girlfriend is dating the wrong brother.

Watzoo · 2021-05-05T13:42:53+00:00

He lost me when he referred to an in-law visit as a “vacation.” That stuff is stressful and he should pay for it either way.

AcadiaLeather5071 · 2021-05-05T12:50:39+00:00

Now that’s just depressing.

MarsV89 · 2021-05-05T13:39:43+00:00

Men are monsters, they see us a subhuman. This is my worst fucking nightmare, when you are in love you are so blind. Never again will I let anyone make me feel bad for treating men different and never trusting their intentions, way too many stories like this, women being brainwashed since we are babies so we are perfect wife’s to serve our useless husbands or boyfriends that give nothing in return, women being always brainwashed to put others needs ahead of ours, I’m tired of this shit and I’m not apologising anymore for giving myself the same value stupid society gives to useless men, and I’ll stop apologising for being career oriented, I don’t care what scrote I make to feel insecure, I’m not making myself smaller so idiots like this can shine. Sorry for the rant , this shit brought back some memories of me being a pick me and a door mat for an useless individual

Waste-Win · 2021-05-05T13:30:19+00:00

Women have being brainwashed for real, this poor woman provide a roof over their heads, even if He lives there (and hopefully pay rent) don't really help since she need a 2nd job to afford maintenance and such, yet He has the audacy to say "She's an adult, if she wants vacations she need to pay for herself" what a deadweight.

level_up_always · 2021-05-05T13:44:34+00:00

once again proving that men are the biggest gold diggers on the planet, they invented gold digging, and they feel zero guilt about doing said gold digging

AnKeWa · 2021-05-05T13:15:51+00:00

Just why is this poor girl staying with that idiot

girludontbringhome · 2021-05-05T14:41:10+00:00

I read the original posts and comments, he is not living at her place rent-free, he pays 40% of the mortgage (without his name being on the condo), 50% of the utilities, and 50% of the groceries. He’s still getting a bargain since it would likely cost more to rent a place and she has to obviously pay other fees associated with being a homeowner, but I’m glad his gf is getting some of the mortgage paid for her place.

radsera99 · 2021-05-05T13:58:51+00:00

mEn pRovIdE fOr WoMeN

2021-05-05T14:20:16+00:00

Jesus he HATE hates her, huh? While living in her house. Fuck this guy.

Human_Summer_1709 · 2021-05-05T14:27:28+00:00

She has to pay for her vacation "because she's an adult" but he lives with her rent-free and didn't contribute even to maintenance costs (and also lived with his parents rent-free until he was 26). Okaaaaaaaaay. Please tell me this is a troll.

DallasM19 · 2021-05-05T14:44:25+00:00

"it's not my job to provide her with a vacation but it's her job to provide a roof over my head"

Oh, ok bud. Good to know.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-05-05T13:21:04+00:00

Ewwwww

Lavender_flow · 2021-05-05T13:33:00+00:00

Wait wait - so she bought it, but if they moved in together, does that mean he is entitled to half the value of the condo if he moves out? She is paying everything, but I have heard about this sort of thing before. Where the fact they moved in at the same time means he is entitled to half....

alien665 · 2021-05-05T13:47:24+00:00

Wow he sounds like a real winner 🙄

MiaNaim · 2021-05-05T14:55:49+00:00

Wow. She needs to dump him immediately.

Potential-Bid-245 · 2021-05-05T14:55:54+00:00

I think the brother will tip her off. He sounds like a good guy.

eatapeach18 · 2021-05-05T15:09:00+00:00

Woman works two jobs to provide a home for her mooch boyfriend.

Boyfriend lives with mommy and daddy until he’s 26 to save money, continues to hoard all his income while living with girlfriend, won’t pay for her trip to visit his family.

Damn. She should date her boyfriend’s brother instead.

Belgian_jewish_studn · 2021-05-05T13:35:09+00:00

Lol I am betting money on her being from a Nordic or strong 50/50 culture place (Scandinavia, north east USA, Canada, the Netherlands...) so many women there think “He DoEsN’t HaVe To PaY oR pRoViDe AnYtHiNg.”

breadandbunny · 2021-05-05T14:05:20+00:00

Jesus. That's shameful!

penhasink · 2021-05-05T14:17:19+00:00

Oh my gosh what is the girl even thinking!! The bell should ring the second a boyfriend mention moving in but not paying his rent.

Montanegro · 2021-05-05T14:44:24+00:00

Stop letting dudes move in with you. He is a fucking leech!

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-05-05T14:48:59+00:00

There's something seriously wrong with this guy, like his brain went the way of his generation's sperm count. Maybe there's a connection-- hormone disruption, psychopathic traits...

StarbornDancing · 2021-05-05T14:42:24+00:00

When your own brother would pay for your girlfriend's vacation to see your family, that's like, if you don't know you're a scrote and feel a sense of shame then you never will.

He's treating her like paying for her to come would make her a gold digger meanwhile he first mooched off his parents and now he's mooching off her. The only gold digger is him and I hope she ditches him and gets to enjoy her lovely new condo without this parasite.

OrangeyPanda · 2021-05-05T14:50:07+00:00

LVM are so pathetic these days. They literally think being in a relationship entitles them to regular sex and that's the only thing it's about. Then they wonder why they're so unhappy and lonely. They take and take and never give back.

Title	What even is this logic???
Author	iihavenoimagination
Upvotes	1332
Comments	119
Date	May 5, 2021 10:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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