| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2346 | Fixed it for you | #JustLVMThings | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:16 AM |
| 164 | Doing proper DD on the men you are dating | REMINDER 👑 | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 38 | Please and thank you | FDS MEMES | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | A powerful message | MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | The Word of the day is.... | FDS HUMOR | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How is she one of us?!? A commenter/follower of FDS | NAH, SIS | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Oh so NOW we focus on personality??? (The clap back) | SCROTES MAD | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I’m sure Brad has them lining up. So charming 🙄 | #JustLVMThings | R_U_Pennybags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:50 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?How did I misunderstand? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?I totally agree. Some people are truly gross with their pets. Hair everywhere, let them sleep in their bed (gross!), they walk all over every surface in their home after they poop/pee in a box they walked in. My OCD could never deal with pets of any kind because I can’t get over how dirty they are. I’m kind of shocked at some of these comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 08:56 PM |
| -6 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?Hmmm I actually don’t like cats at all myself (I’m a female). I’m genuinely curious why you say it’s creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 08:51 PM |
| 11 | When a man says “If you don’t lower your standards you’ll die alone” he is admitting he is not good enough for you.My new favorite reply. Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"Where can I listen to the podcast? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:54 PM |
| 55 | What even is this logic???Your option is to remain single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:37 PM |
| 9 | I just saw a post about an alleged black market for sperm. I think it's LVM science fiction.Right! I’ve never understood the paying $20k for a vial of sperm thing. Literally any guy will give it to you for free and then you can just lose his number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 62 | What even is this logic???This is why you don’t let men move in to your place without emotional and financial commitment and equity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:16 PM |
| 33 | Thoughts on changing your name when you get married?Even if I had children answer would be the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 129 | Thoughts on changing your name when you get married?“Issa no for me dawg” Randy Jackson voice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 21 | What we do to remain “proper, considerate and polite” keeps us meek.Ah context is interesting isn’t it. I was referencing the original quote that she also referenced. I posted the full read of her writing where this screen capture was taken from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 35 | What we do to remain “proper, considerate and polite” keeps us meek.Was this written in the 1700s?!?? I really needed to start my day with a good laugh and this quote definitely did it 🤣 So basically the quote advises to settle for the bare minimum because asking for more is “improper”. This makes you an “easy-going”, “low maintenance” girlfriend. Ladies, HEAR THIS! By not expecting the person you date to hold themselves to a higher standard, you are not holding yourself to a higher standard! All the times you gave effort to a man? It’s because you wanted it for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 12:32 PM |
| 19 | Can we talk about how men get whole urinals in their bathrooms and we can’t even get free tampons?Ive emptied mine all the time in public restrooms. Dump in the toilet, wipe cup down with toilet paper, wipe hand with tp (I also always carry wet ones in my purse) insert cup, wash hands outside move on with my life. To me it’s the same as changing a tampon for the most part but you have to do it way less often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 19 | Strategy: 40+ FDS women - the long-game.Dick and dinner!! 🙌🏼 😂🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:13 PM |
| 48 | If you’re broke, just say thatBasically it’s “spoiled” or “high maintenance” both I find hilarious because there’s literally nothing I can’t buy for myself. So, my question to them is “what exactly are you adding to my life here”?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 71 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!The sad thing is he’s probably not alone because pick me’s have lowered their standards to the bare minimum and set a terribly low bar of what is acceptable. The fact is he thinks he’s “right” because he has found women that will stoop to his level. We have to do better as women and raise our standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 157 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Are we gonna ignore the fact that after the amazingly low effort coffee date she’s got to WALK to his place so he can bestow sex upon her. Not even an Uber ride??? The jokes just write themselves honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 28 | How is this even a question??!!How sad that she had to end a valid statement of “Like the fact that we can’t go out and have a nice meal makes me feel like I’m not even worth that“ with a “haha” says everything. Sis, don’t add the “haha” it’s not funny and you already know he doesn’t value you when you are now his personal chef... otherwise he will “charge you” for a damn pizza... A PIZZA!! There’s a big thread on dating over 40 where they are talking about who pays on a first date. Literally every woman on there is talking a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:38 PM |
| 12 | “Just give him a week”There’s still a good amount of misogyny going on in the over 40 dating sub. I have been blocked from it a couple of times myself and downvoted to oblivion for my comments on there … Proudly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Our society lives on women's unpaid labourYep. 401(k) loaning/gifting is a bad play IMO for anyone and quite honestly an “old school” move. If you buy crypto and transfer it to a wallet, not only do you not have to worry about the tax ramifications of pulling out that “Gift” like you do with 401(k), but that money gets to grow throughout the entirety of your divorce proceedings at a rate that a 401(k) could never, and he will literally just get richer off of it. He could liquidate everything to cash and throw it all in crypto/Bitcoin. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Our society lives on women's unpaid labourThey aren’t hard to find. I stumbled across one researching investment strategies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:23 PM |
| 14 | Our society lives on women's unpaid labourYou only get access to 401(k) through a company or if you start one for your own company. My advice... start maxing out a Roth annually with primary investment in it being a S&P 500 based or Total Stock Market Index fund that has no minimum investment to buy in and NO COST EXPENSE RATIO. Fidelity has plenty of these and they will out perform any investment plays you could possibly have for your long term retirement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:51 AM |
| 25 | Our society lives on women's unpaid labourHence why I said she’s lucky because I know exactly how rare HVM men are. It’s a cautionary tale either way to any SAHM. When she told me this my first reaction was “OMG so what happens to SAHM?!?” I mean, that’s what her generation basically was their whole lives. The answer ladies is, you get ZERO from the government! You are seen as worthless as you didn’t earn a salary, talk about a jagged pill to swallow. I am a single working mother and have my retirement secured, but I feel there’s plenty… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:21 AM |
| 68 | Our society lives on women's unpaid labourMy mother just found out that she basically will get nothing from social security being a stay at home mom. Here’s the real kicker, we had a family business that she ran every single day and broke her back to run. The female CPA they had told them decades ago it would be best to put that business in my father’s name. Therefore social security can’t help her because it looks like (for decades) she earned nothing while she busted her ass to care for a family and run a business. Now, my father is a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️I also recommend a bidet $20 and you barely need any TP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 18 | Doing proper DD on the men you are datingMost people will tell you that if you simply input their name or their phone number in Google, sometimes you can get criminal records online. I did not want to take that chance with the severity of the allegations. I actually went to my local county clerks office and ran a record search underneath his name on any criminal or civil matters. That’s how I found out he wasn’t divorced. There were marriage records but absolutely no record of divorce (they always lived here). I had them double check d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:18 PM |
| 22 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️He needs to start couponing if he REALLY wants to save coins that badly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Our fav guy just dropped another gem 😂He’s on the team 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:04 PM |
| 19 | the double standards 🤦🏻♀️And that’s on Mary had a little lamb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:50 PM |
| 48 | the double standards 🤦🏻♀️She really told the whole truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:29 PM |
| 17 | Doing proper DD on the men you are datingOh spot on this is EXACTLY what he was doing. The “cover up” was real. I believe you’re 1000% right only because she did say that she was on a mission that whoever he ended up with next she wanted to make sure that it didn’t happen to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 16 | Doing proper DD on the men you are datingYes! I am now a firm believer in believing women. When she reached out to me she said that as soon as she knew he was going to be with someone else she wanted to protect them from him and not have them endure what she endured. The funny thing is he has her blocked on social media so I guess she has other people lurking or she has a lurker profile LOL but I’m grateful nonetheless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 13 | Doing proper DD on the men you are datingThis!!! It’s soo frustrating to date men. I have spent roughly 4 years alone since my last ex and I just don’t wanna be alone but I’m absolutely 1000% not going to settle. Yes this time I tried to actually think she was being honest. No need to go back and forth with the banter. I blocked both of them when I found out ans moved on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:18 PM |
| 85 | The BarHe definitely did 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 24 | “Traditional” relationshipsLet’s talk about the cost of actually “outsourcing” some of this labor... combine those costs and we are talking massive dollars involved, and definitely more than 6 figures a year | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 8 | We don’t owe them anything! Stay in your lanes peasantsSay it louder NO-THING!!! Also, why can men not take no for an answer?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Hold the line, ladies. Never lower your standards. Men can meet us on our level or not at all.Let me tell you I am thankful for the fellow queens on FDS. I am on other dating subs (I don’t want to put anyone on blast) but the hilarious thing is other women have literally attacked me for having standards when replying on that sub of what I won’t settle for, what kind of dates I go on, how I like to personally present myself for a date etc. A man on the sub asked me (specifically) my mindset and I explained, for myself and myself ONLY!! These women are mad at me talking about “don’t speak … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:41 AM |
| 49 | Proud of myselfListen!! 2021 needs to be the year we being back shaming. I’m here for it. Yes OP he SHOULD be ashamed to ask you to accept those terms and only value yourself as someone who is there for sexual pleasure. Proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 03:30 PM |
| 18 | Who has ever experienced the DENNIS method?Some guy who matched with me literally had this on his OLD profile. I had no idea what he meant. He is now deleted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:28 AM |
| 11 | Don't debate with men about your FDS standards. It's pointless.Im curious what open ended question/questions you ask upfront. Do you just literally ask “What are your thoughts when it comes to being in a relationship”?? I definitely want to use this bit curious how you ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3So happy for you!! Thank you for sharing this with all of us and giving hope 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | A picture is worth a thousand wordsPreach! This is hilarious she read them to filth. So many times I make comments like this internally looking at men’s dating profiles it’s amazing to me what they put out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 28 | Just another day on r/dating 😳😳Absolutely! This isn’t an animal shelter, so we are not the ones responsible to “rescue“ these “poor men” and give them chances. My standards are sky high and I’m perfectly happy being alone until someone meets them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:24 AM |
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