tldrjane Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	After Carefully Reading & Listening to Feedback From Men on Reddit About FDS, I Think Some May Actually Have A Point What happened to this sub?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/23 03:25 AM
28	How do I avoid men coming up to me? I act like a total stuck up bitch when I can tell someone is getting too flirty, I guess it’s a turn off lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/22 07:23 AM
2	I am not fond of any of the Kardashians or pete davidson, but even I find this disturbing and disgusting and no one should have to deal with this BS Which is my point, mentally people that aren’t seeking treatment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/22 03:10 AM
6	I am not fond of any of the Kardashians or pete davidson, but even I find this disturbing and disgusting and no one should have to deal with this BS Maybe it should be phrased as mentally ill people who don’t actively seek treatment (therapy or meds as necessary).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/22 11:21 PM
23	Men who try to trick you into coming over on the first date or early on You know it’s posts like this that people complaining about fds being incel-like need to read. Really we just don’t want to be murdered, raped, or used.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/22 02:56 PM
31	This is a new low. The bf is a doctor and social media famous and yet she is buying him a house 🤡 What’s her @?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 01:56 PM
12	Forever girlfriends turned wives Personally marriage was never a huge deal for me. Right around the time we were talking about it (5 years or so) we had some traumatic stuff happen with family (my brother had a stroke, my father died etc). It was put on the back burner while I grieved and dealt with that. We got engaged at 8.5 years and were married at 10 (because of me). I didn’t even want a wedding but his parents paid for most of it so I went with it. Now I’m pregnant with our first and probably only child (2 years after wed…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 01:21 PM
34	Women who implement FDS are "groomed, hot, successful, with standards", says FDS-hating man I saw a post on a sub like too afraid to ask or something like that recently with very similar comments. Some women were agreeing that this place was toxic and I’m just like…. Empowering women to have a good life and pick a good partner is toxic…? Yikes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/22 01:21 PM
15	She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysit Immediately no ✋	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 11:16 PM
1	What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage? Do you have your dads last name?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 12:35 PM
4	What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage? A lot of these comments proclaim they’re keeping their own name bc of not wanting to change themself for a man… but have their father’s last names…? It’s common in the US for children to take their dad’s last name. I still have my maiden name legally bc the social security offices were closed for so long… I was going to now I just don’t care. His names prettier and way less common than mine. Socially and professionally I use his last name. Legally I still have my dad’s last name.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 12:32 PM
9	Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff. I NEVER have male dr’s. EVER	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 12:08 PM
8	Men Who are Still Friends With their Exes I wouldn’t be cool with it. Why end a relationship if you guys are on good terms? If they have kids, keep it about the kids and that is it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 06:44 AM
95	Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a job I’m in my early thirties and you put everything I’m feeling into words.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 02:15 AM
34	Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh together Ages 18-21. Sorry!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 03:56 PM
146	Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh together •Unemployed •Cheater •Mostly emotional abuse (physical a few times) •Stole more $$$ when I let him borrow debit card and said, “It’s really OUR money since we are bf and gf” •Had to wait around to hang out with him like a sad puppy. •Oxy and Xanax addiction •Wrecked my car driving to get him $$ for above in bad storm and when I was getting car towed his dad and him came to get me, he had his dad pay for the tow so I could give him the money still •Mommy’s boy—one time when we were talking about …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 02:17 PM
7	Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄 My husband and I do not share a bank account. We have always thought that was weird. He knows I have savings and… he doesn’t care. If our bills are paid who gives a fuck	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 12:29 PM
6	Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name? Legally haven’t yet, when we have kids I will. His is way prettier than mine. Socially and at work use his name	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 06:15 AM
32	This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us. I hope this was reported to the FBI	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 01:03 PM
5	This bio is sad Gross	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 12:51 PM
20	What even is this logic??? I want to believe this is a troll... that poor woman	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 12:28 PM
21	I always wondered why the rest of reddit demonized this subreddit I think a lot of us were pick me’s. We do live in a patriarchy after all, it’s ingrained in us. Don’t feel bad. What matters is that you are educating yourself and growing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 10:00 PM
3	A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats? I’m from kc! I’d ignore him, he is looking for a response and to get a rise out of you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 12:18 PM
17	How do you feel about men since following FDS? Affirmed	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 05:04 AM
12	This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back! I always close my garage while I’m still in my car for this exact reason. Ppl have told me I’m paranoid. Better safe than sorry	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 01:02 AM
6	Stop fake laughing at men’s unfunny jokes. They really aren’t that funny... I work in retail and I make it a point to not laugh at men’s jokes if they aren’t funny. I’ve had men even go, “I made a joke” and my response is, “Oh I know.” And change the subject.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/21 12:39 AM
5	Tell him you want a relationship and then ghost HIM Did he pick you?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 03:28 PM
1	Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩 I would just leave. Immediately	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 12:31 PM