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GLOBAL RESISTANCELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:09 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:02 AM
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REMINDER 👑Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:06 PM
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LIES MEN TELLLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:50 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:51 AM
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REMINDER 👑Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:36 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:46 AM
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QUEEN SH*TLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:43 PM
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LIES MEN TELLLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:25 AM
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LEVEL UP BRO! Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:24 PM
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QUEEN SH*TLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:53 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:49 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:19 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:13 AM
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FDS MEMESLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:16 PM
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LIES MEN TELLLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:45 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:29 PM
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QUEEN SH*TLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:50 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:42 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:57 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:21 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:54 PM
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FDS HUMORLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:39 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:57 AM
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FDS MEMESLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:46 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:44 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:25 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:21 PM
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PICKME CULTURELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:00 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:20 AM
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QUEEN SH*TLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:28 PM
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NAH, SISLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:26 PM
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NAH, SISLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:25 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:59 AM
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FDS HUMORLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:06 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:40 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:12 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:18 PM
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FDS HUMORLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:24 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:08 AM
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SEX STRATEGYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:12 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:47 PM
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LIES MEN TELLLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:46 AM
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LEVEL UPLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:57 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:12 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:46 AM
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#JustLVMThingsLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:12 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:16 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:04 AM
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STRATEGYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:39 AM
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COCKHOLM SYNDROMELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:46 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:26 PM
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FDS HUMORLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:43 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:16 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:17 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:27 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:44 PM
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LIES MEN TELLLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:55 AM
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NAH, SISLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:24 AM
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NAH, SISLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:12 PM
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NAH, SISLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:02 PM
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DISCUSSIONLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:29 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:43 PM
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LIES MEN TELLLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:56 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:52 AM
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NAH, SISLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:35 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:01 AM
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STRATEGYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:34 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:24 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:05 PM
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LEVEL UPLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:26 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:10 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:29 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:36 PM
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QUEEN SH*TLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:52 AM
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#JustLVMThingsLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:06 PM
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PODCAST DISCUSSIONLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:56 PM
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DISCUSSIONLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:37 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:22 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:15 PM
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STRATEGYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:17 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:57 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:33 PM
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#JustLVMThingsLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:50 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:31 AM
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FIELD REPORT Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:48 PM
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FIELD REPORT Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:51 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:24 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:31 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:00 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:33 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:45 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Lavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:35 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMELavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:20 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:54 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:08 AM
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LIES MEN TELLLavender_flow/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:37 AM
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No words. I can't believe how many women are willing to put up with getting scammed by their male partners like that, it is HORRIBLE how society is grooming women into being absolute doormats. The patriarchy at work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:51 AM
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😂😂😂🤣🙌 also love how he considers a steakhouse fancy.... A steakhouse is NOT FANCY. Geeez. He is such a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:32 AM
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Male entitlement is what it is.I hope he dies broke and alone. No woman deserves such an asshole. He really told on himself in the comments. He is AWFUL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:31 AM
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I am in the same situation. I have a relationship, but have more male friends. I have tried very hard to build female friendships, but honestly I seem to be living in pickme central, because the vast majority of women I have met will throw you under the bus in the drop of a hat for some male attention. Unfortunately I have experienced this a lot. So HV female friends are hard to find. I even went on bumble dates with girls, but all of them were low effort. Some of them seem to get extremely comp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:24 AM
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Lifelong commitment 🤡🤡🤡 i hope none falls for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:20 AM
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going to leave this up because good advice was given, but please read the main sub @ OP. Casual sex is not a good thing for women, and please read the handbook. You leave yourself vulnerable in so many aspects, where one is your health, this guy could have STD's etc sand you wouldnt know. Men lie all the time. Dont do this to yourself. As you have experienced, most of the time women do not even get an orgasm out of the deal, so emotional risk, risk of diseases, being used etc, is just the start …
/r/askFDS02/09/21 04:29 PM
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What really gives these scrotes away is how they name this shit "SHYC" - Super hot young cashier. What a fucking fan fiction he wrote there. Also on page 2 on how he wanted to do something but didnt. Like dude, stop making this shit up you sick porn addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:12 AM
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Reminds me of the whole only fans debacle of how these poor starving moms are selling porn to live and how shutting the site down punishes these women. Like wtf. It is not a job anyone should have to do out of desperation like wth. Anyone supporting desperate women being exploited by men for money is not a real fucking feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:12 PM
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Honestly. You dodged a bullet of epic proportions. He is a huge porn addict and he even watched it during your trip together.how fucking disgusting. And then tried to manipulate you afterwards. What a fucking nutcase. Be glad you dodged this. Even after years of therapy this guy will still be trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:09 PM
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A would never get a real date with any FDS woman because even if he did manage to find one on old, which is already near impossible. As soon as a few Intial messages were exchanged this guy would get blocked and deleted. Is whole post screams of wanting attention. The scrote level of this guy is so high any FDS would block him. I find it hard to believe they would even match with him to begin with because he sounds fugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:58 AM
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Exactly! I see so many women who in my social circles settle for absolute asshats who bring them down. Normalize breaking up with shitty people. A person does not have to be abusive to be a lousy partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:35 PM
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I have been struggling with this. Someone very close to me are in an abusive relationship but refuses to see it. Blames me instead. I dont know how to deal with it when it is family. We are super close. Butthis person has repeatedly destroyed my feelings and been awful at times because of the abusive relationship. So no matter how much kindness and good acts I have done, apparently the abusive piece of shjt partner matters more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:13 AM
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No the second picture. There is a bottom comment there with arrows on it. Not the OP commentor but another woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:36 PM
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It is completely fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:21 PM
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I took the comment as Queen shit. The last one. I think it is absolutely Queen shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:15 PM
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it is because these fucking scrotes can only sympathize with other men. They are the absolute scum of the earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:13 PM
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hahahaha. Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:08 PM
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He probably is in a shit ton of debt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:34 PM
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It is not like she did not know this when she married him. This seems like willfull ignorance. I hope she wakes up and divorces him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:33 PM
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So many pornsick scrotes. The fucking fantasy land they live in.... unreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:49 PM
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Self a steam 😂😂🤏🤏🤣💀 im dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:35 AM
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Proud of you. What a loser. He is absolutely disgusting. 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:33 AM
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Congratulations. It is not easy, I know :) I have done the same, I still get sad about people from time till time and their total inability to change. I know I made the right choices, but it does not mean I dont reminisce over good times I had with some of the people I had to cut off. Other I dont regret one bit, some of them are disgusting selfish sociopaths. I am thankful for the friends I do have however.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:13 AM
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Unfortunately, we have tried, but I am pretty sure she is a narcissist. We no longer talk because of her behavior. I have learned to accept it is what it is, I cant change her. I go to therapy myself to deal with my family related issues, she has destroyed my siblings self-esteem. It is a whole shit situation honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:53 AM
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Yeah honestly. My mom is a pickme. After my parents divorced she goes on complete insane tinder escapades which she openly shares with her children. It is disgusting. We are all adults but she is so gross and sleeps with any and all men on the first date. She even signed up for kink sites. Which she tells us about. It is traumatizing to have to listen to this stuff even as an adult and so boundary pushing. None of her relationships ever work out becauae she demands everything and a little more w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:52 PM
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Avid gamer here, early 30's. I have been a gamer since my teens. I play a lot of solo player, but also MMO's etc. Outside of gaming I have a big interest in IT, which I work in. Outside of gaming I have done horseback riding since I was a child. Have had horses of my own, but I put it on the back burner in recent years since it is an extremely expensive hobby, now I spend a lot of time in the gym doing lifting instead and going on trail hikes, but the thought has crossed me to buy a horse again,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:43 PM
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I think she did. She is now going to go to therapy with this sociopath rapist. I have no words, it makes me want to scream. In the comments she asked why these things would happen to her and she felt like god hated her. I do not know how to respond in a way to that, which does not sound victim blamey. But getting married to a guy who contacts you over a rape forum ON REDDIT, then instantly moving to his country and marrying him is just such a bad fucking choice all around. These things happen if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:26 AM
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he was really weird looking! He looked DISGUSTING. Facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:10 PM
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Do not respond. If you do respond anything it should be telling him you do not forgive him and he should be in jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:49 AM
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It was a trauma response. Do not blame yourself. Regardless of what you told him afterwards he still raped you. He is to blame not you. Fucking ape. I hope he rots in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:48 AM
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Also to unlearn niceness: https://www.tiktok.com/@spiritual_af/video/6964102124317838597?lang=en&is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1 her videos are pretty great. A lot of "dont be nice" videos which I feel extremely helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:50 AM
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Do not give him your number. Also I would invest in a home security system and stop talking to him. Just say hi when you meet him and do not engage with him. He sees this as an invitation that you are interested, because you are being friendly. Also read the gift of fear, get a pepperspray for when you talk your dog. There is a reason you are getting these vibes from the guy and it is not a good one. Btw Ted Bundy was not charming, he just pretended to be injured and targeted nurses/teachers and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:39 AM
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We should be giving these idiots any views. Clearly he is deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:31 PM
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I think this is some very valid points, but please be careful so you do not just marry the "first, the best" (for all FDS ladies). If you marry quickly and never lived together, it is much easier for a manipulative abuser to keep his mask up, it is extremely important to vet thoroughly and be educated on love-bombing, dark triad personalities and do thorough vetting. As soon on FDS of late, several women have made posts about being married to a seeming "HVM" and I remember this post where he was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:02 AM
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Any man who writes "kind" is a piece of trash. Also the manipulation. 🚩🚩🚩 Sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:54 AM
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They get a significant other, a maid, a cook, a therapist and sex. Most women entering relationship gets none of the first 3 and the last one is unfulfilling sex without orgasms. It is why finding a HVM is important and they are scarce. I know so many women whom have settled for absolute scrotes, their lives and mental health has just deteriorated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:49 AM
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If you read historical books, it was there a century ago too. male violence has always been a problem, but porn makes it so so so much worse. It rots their brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:40 PM
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The only thing for me. I will absolutely speak out about behavior which harms other women. But women living to get the best benefit from dating. Absoultely not. I do not care what other people do. If it isn't harming others, society and the planet then I do not care at all. If a woman wants to date men only for money etc. I just feel like- you do you girl. It is none of my business. As long as these women are kind to others and other women then it matters not to me how they choose to date or liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:14 PM
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Check out relationship subreddits right now. Like go on any of them. Plenty of women like this posting there. 😐 unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:55 AM
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Exactly. It is insane we have to be this vigilant, but it is just the reality of the world. If a guy shoves a drink at you absolutely do not drink it. Also they should have told the owners of the bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:26 AM
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Of course he isn't, he already knows he is going to upgrade to a newer model once he is done taking advantage of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:12 AM
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I am sorry, but just fuck no. She is going to be one of those women who post about it on a relationship sub later. So many posts being like "I just got pregnant" or "I just married this guy" "and out of the blue he just became abusive, it is so not like him, he is such a great guy!!!!!" "it was out of the blue" "i know he is 20 years older than me, but i looooove him". It is absolutely smack down in the middle of the blue, these women need a reality check and a big one. Her comment "dont need ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:10 AM
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I actually think she is there to sell her book: https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5598797/emmy-abrahamson-love-homeless-drunk-vic-kocula/ In this article they also detail how she lost friends, perhaps because her husband is not the "dream boat" she makes him out to be. A lot of women lose friendships over an abusive spouse because their closets friends cant watch them suffer. "Yet not everyone welcomed their romance, including some of Emmy’s closest pals. She says: “I lost two of my oldest frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:45 PM
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Of course she is Swedish https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5598797/emmy-abrahamson-love-homeless-drunk-vic-kocula/ I mean it is the libfem pickme country of choice really. Liberal feminism is running rampant here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:41 PM
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wtf did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:01 AM
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Studies have shown that it does not make any difference and men who watch/partake and act out their fantasies through sex workers and other means are more often more violent towards women in general. This whole "acting it out" trope is a lie by the patriarchy, it does not help men's depravity one bit. Porn habits have shown to actually escalate a behavior into something way way way worse. It is also shown that men who may not otherwise be violent, can actually get their brain altered so much by …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:47 AM
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finding you on facebook is fucking creepy. Just make sure you block him all over.
/r/askFDS06/07/21 07:27 AM
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I am more wondering why he has not checked himself that it is closed. I dont even know how you make plans on a closed restaurant.... Every time I make plans I have a booking, sounds to me like he has not even done the bare minimum. I would say "let him know you went to check out the menu and it looks like the restaurant is closed "- the only acceptable answer here is that the restaurant made a mistake and it is open, but they have not updated their website and that he has a reservation, which he…
/r/askFDS06/07/21 07:18 AM
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Also took a quick peek at that subreddit, it is only old fucking men and young women. 🤢 They really are playing themselves, big time. But hey, if the old disgusting dick hill is the one they want to die on, they can go ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:30 PM
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These girls are hopeless. Even if you tell her, she will never get it. He is 50! in 10 years he will be 60. Oh how romantic!! 🤡 The other girl is right and deep down this pickme knows it. You think your 50 year old boyfriend is with you because he loves you? No, he sees a naive young victim, which he can groom for some perverted pleasure. You want to bet he is asking her to do all kind of gross things in the bedroom? "we take delight in kissing in front of them" Like girl what. None is jealous o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:28 PM
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Remember ladies, being single is the worst thing for women ever. You could be engaged to a dream boat like this one instead 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:17 AM
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Absolutely pathetic all the way around. She married this trashcan. Fuck no. I laugh when I see posts like this, because it reminds me of all the scrotes on Reddit who is like "Hahaha, FDS women will end up alone or with cats". I just think, wow. Living alone is 10.000 better than living with a guy like this, that is just the fucking truth. This guy does not love her, or he would not be fucking taking her money from such a thing as basic adulting. He is fucking toxic. This small sentence speaks v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:16 AM
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I would want to be put first in a relationship, but someone who has young children to take care of shouldn't be putting anyone else's wants above the kids that THEY chose to bring into this world. I'm not talking about spoiling the kids but about neglecting them to spend time with a girlfriend/boyfriend or diverting all of your time and resources to the new partner. Amen! I see so many parents putting their partners/themselves above their kids. Children should be the numer 1 priority, but typica…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:10 AM
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I stand by my comment. I have no met or seen a single HVM dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:59 PM
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She is still with a guy who looks like that. Hell no. It is the dead fucking eyes for me. Hell fucking no. He looks fucking nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:58 PM
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I would never date a single dad. But I never plan on dating ever again. I found a quality one 😄 but the reason for not dating single dads is easy; they managed to be scrotey enough that the mother of the child left them or they were a scrote who left. Either way a man who has done another woman dirty and it was a woman he saw fit to carry his child. All way round just a big fucking nope from me. Never met a HVM who was a single dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:56 PM
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You break up with them. Problem solved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:09 PM
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Her parents are smart and she is a fucking dumbass. That is the truth. How about listening. Imagine marrying such a scrote after you see that behavior. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:19 PM
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🤣😂 funny but also true and fucking horrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:49 AM
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Wtf did i just read. When he tells you who he is. Fucking believe him. He is a murderer. Wtf makes her trust he will not murder her. Chris watts also yold his wife he loved her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:14 PM
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Very very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:19 AM
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👌👆🙌 I have not been on birth control for years because of this reason. I am with the same partner for a long time, I am never going back. if something happens I will get my tubes tied or he will get a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:11 AM
11

The patriarchy doing it's best work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:08 AM
44

I mean, look at any Subreddit that isn't FDS. It is enforced x 1000. They sit there with their incest/pedo/rape porn and screech how FDS is the most toxic sub on Reddit. The delusion is real. Honestly, I hope there is a judgement day or karma so these shits get cut down like they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:48 AM

🤏🤏🤏🤏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:46 AM
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Yeah I told her I am here for her. She knows it. She just refuses to leave. She says I don't understand. She does not believe it is abuse. I think you saying demonic possession is accurate. She is not herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:09 PM
22

Why is she still dating him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:38 PM
9

The energy from this post 🤏🤏🤏
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:14 PM
69

I dont even know what point she is trying to make, it is a whole lot of jibber jabber with no real coherence coming out. Men talk shit about women all the time, let us be real. They get away with it too. Women are allowed to be angry and express it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:40 AM
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Can confirm. It is a common tactics for abusers to divide friendships. Unfortunately I am seeing it happen right now and not a thing I can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:25 AM
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I think pretty much anyone would have told her this was a fucking horrible idea. You know how people say to not get each others tattoo's? Yeah donating a kidney is like 30 steps below that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:03 AM
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I did not know what Sigma meant, then someone shared this picture: https://theadultman.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/The-Socio-Sexual-Hierarchy.jpg that is literally the most omega fucking thing I have seen, calling yourself an "alpha" or "sigma". The cringe is unreal. "He is in a world of darkness" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDwyMBNMG4k This guy. SigmaMale TM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:57 AM
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What in the fresh hell did I just fucking read. If this is real, Holy fucking yikes. To all the people commenting on this and romanticizing it: Go to fucking therapy. Fucking getting second-hand embarrassment from reading grown adults behaving like teenagers over this. I guess I know why Twilight/50 Shades got so popular. A shit ton of teen angst, zero fucking quality. If you like reading this kind of garbage, you are still stuck in a teenager mindset, which is just straight up embarrassing as a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:05 PM
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Oh there’s plenty of happily married women on FDS who give the exact same advice as me I think it is a moot point discussing with these red-pilled individuals. I have around 100 examples of women getting absolutely shit on by the men they married, but for the these men, it is clearly the height of accomplishment for women, to find some man who will happily abuse her in various horrifying ways. As if marriage is any kind of standard to measure anything with, least of all happiness. It is like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:57 PM
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Because it's hilarious making fun of FDS. What do you mean 'take up so much of my time'? I hardly think about FDS. You did not make a single joke or "funny", you did however manage to sound incredibly upset by women saying no to you. So nice "defense" when every single comment you made in this thread is evident of the opposite. If you dont think about it, then it is weird you scrolled so far in this thread and read all the comments simply to argue with the OG commentor here. All evidence that ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:38 PM
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Why do you care so fucking much then? Honestly. It does not affect or concern you in any matter what so ever. You would not date FDS women? Good, I don't think a single one gives a flying fuck honestly. It is like you write a whole ass paragraph about yourself, but you need women to validate you. Sounds really freaking insecure to me. You still did not answer this. Why do you care so fucking much? Why does it take up so much of your time to think about FDS huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:07 PM
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Why do you care so fucking much then? Honestly. It does not affect or concern you in any matter what so ever. You would not date FDS women? Good, I don't think a single one gives a flying fuck honestly. It is like you write a whole ass paragraph about yourself, but you need women to validate you. Sounds really freaking insecure to me. The large majority of women on FDS are completely fine with living alone and not settling, what does not make any sense is why men like you are so fucking mad abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:35 PM
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I love how this sub reacts to EVERY. SINGLE. FDS podcast within like 5 hours of it going up. Y’all are very reactive to a bunch of women you deem, “old, ugly, postwall hags”. Jepp. It is fucking pathetic the amount of energy these men put into these posts. OP made a whole ass account to be an "FDS SUPER FAN". Imagine if they spent this energy going to therapy, going to the gym and leveling the fuck up. Instead it is the fox and berries all over again. Pathetic does not even begin to cover it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:28 PM
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Yeah this x 100000. He thinks he is better and smarter than her. He is older and less successful and he is jealous as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:08 PM
14

SO not only is this horrible fucking advice, it literally is her boosting her confidence in how men value her. if you only measure your selfworth in relation to other people, then it means nothing. It means worth of SELF, valuing yourself/your energy and your emotions. Pandering to LVM is the opposite of self-worth. She is treating herself as a commodity and disposable. Also what is up with those dotted eyes, I am sorry but I just can't take that seriously. It reminds me of my sister when she wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:38 AM
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Oh yeah a 45 year old scrote does not care about the age when he is dating a 18 year old. She is so lucky!!!!! 🤢🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:31 AM
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The bar exam is BRUTAL. I took it 20 years ago. I can't imagine how stressful it is now when you have to do so much online. And this clown has the audacity to come home and drop his drawers, talking about his "sweaty man meat" like he's a fucking teenager. Fuck this guy. She can do better. Also he is fucking disgusting. If he was that sweaty he could have taken a shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:28 AM
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Oh I despise this sub. Most posts read as fake but regardless a big majority of them are “uh oh I’m an asshole” and no one calls them out because reddit is a cesspool of assholes Yeah it is basically just a bunch of no value men who are all patting each other on the back over having zero fucking value or human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:28 AM
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Approving this because you need advice, but for the love of god- read the handbook. This is a text book ZERO VALUE MALE. You need to block him and move on, now. Read the handbook.
/r/askFDS30/06/21 08:18 AM
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He has dated more than one......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:42 PM
11

Truth. He is very attractive, but his personality is garbage. He dates women who are 19 years old and is apparently also a serial cheater, he has just managed to hush the media about his infidelity. There is a reason why a man like that can't hold down a relationship at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:41 PM
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Pornsick men like him are an absolute scourge to our society. Horrible horrible people, they deserve to die alone and rot somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:56 AM
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Op i checked your post history. This guy is sotoxic. Holy shit. Please break it off now and focus on your own well being. Time to go on FDD and do a lot of reading on attachment styles and spotting shit men. He is absolute trash, which honestly a lot of British men are. Alcoholics too.
/r/askFDS28/06/21 09:21 PM
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I think exactly what you said yourself. It is a waste of time to continue seeing him. Tell him you are no longer interested in seeing him, that you wish him the best (if you want) and then block and delete him. There is absolutely no point in entertaining men like that. The bar is in hell and he still manages to not even do the bare minimum. Which is fucking show up on time and be a delight. Not only that. He fucking canceled at the last time. His excuses does not matter. People make up lame ass…
/r/askFDS28/06/21 02:21 PM
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DUMP HIS ASS NOW. Right after that fucking vacation. What is this 50/50 BS. What in the hell. Women wake up ffs. A man who treats you like that DOES NOT LOVE YOU. Talk is cheap. You know who said "I love you" several times to his wife before murdering her and their children? Chris Watts. A man saying "I love you" does not mean shit. It literally means less than nothing. Actions matter. He showed you how he feels about you girl. He literally noticed how she was starving and he did not care, at al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:24 AM
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Please remember the scope of the sub. As the mods have stated, posts like these does nothing but spark outrage and anger. This post is OBIVIOUSLY taken from Redpill/MRA or some incel shit, just look at the written language. There is way too many of these "outrage" posts, men who write posts in those circles are obviously mentally challenged need to be treated as such, ignore them. They will never change and as you can see in how he has written this this guy is clearly not mentally sound. We need…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:11 AM
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That whole situation is a hell no from me. I will never be a sahm. Don't even think we will be having kids at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:57 AM
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Honestly if this mom has a good relationship with her oldest daughter she needs to tell her and make absolutely certain the daughter understands the consequences. 15 year olds are not that stupid. They can hold these things in. I would absolutely tell her that her dad is a pedophile and she needs to keep an eye out and if anything happens she calls the police. Etc. Long explanation short. If she is close with her daughter she can absolutely have an ally in her. She is 15. She is not a small chil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:51 PM
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I dont understand the reason behind women asking these questions on FDS. It is so obvious to me. Like this guy even without the age gap still seems sketchy as hell. OP could be asking these questions on any relationship sub. In my mind if he is not a hell yes he is a hell no. So early in the relationship this guy is already displaying red flags. Nah. Just nah. She is going to end up unhappy if she dates this guy- I guarantee it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:26 PM
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Reminds me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qrgufzKdBi8&t=602s Gail Dines said it the best. Ask women how they feel about it ONCE THEY EXIT THE INDUSTRY. Anyone defending porn is just a straight up sociopath. You heard me, I said what I said and I stand by it 100%. Only sociopaths will defend other people's abuse for the purpose of self-indulgence. The people knowingly supports this industry are the real monsters. Some people simply do not know about it (but they can learn), while others…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:52 PM
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I think there are a lot of good messages in this post, but what I disagree on is the whole "I am going to meet the one and he is going to change my life". Giiirl, be the change you want in life. Stop waiting for a man to be those things, which you can be for yourself. This "prince charming, save me" kind of mindset ultimately sets you up for disappointment, relying on a man for this is how so many women end up in abusive relationships, abusers thrive on these things and they start with the love …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:39 AM
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This guy is not high value that is for sure. I was reading the comments. He was dating before the separation was final 🚨🚨🚨 hell no. His kids are teenagers- so this means he is old. How old are you? You haven't been answering so I am guessing an age gap 🚩🚩🚩 Stop calling men who aren't high value for HVM. For God's sake. It is really muddying the waters. This guy is low value and if you keep dating him you will experience exactly what FDS is trying to warn you about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:01 PM
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Yeah. I agree 100%. I do not hold a high regard for men in general, but if I did not believe in some good ones. Then otherwise I would not be together with one. I had to report some posts lately because they were very much "do not date any men, all men are bad and they will kill you". Honestly I think users which are actively saying that all men are bad should be banned. There is no point in even giving them a warning. They know what they are doing. I think the particular user I am talking about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:24 PM
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Yeah can confirm this. An acquaintance of mine met a guy who was like super hippie. Turned out he was super into tantric sex and all that. Turns out he was ahuge pornaddict. He went to a clinic and is apparently clean qt the moment. She is still with him but I think he is relapsing at times.... she on the other hand is a super nice and sweet person. I truly think she can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:14 PM
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Tell me about it. I was a part of an online community and there was a gay guy there whom even owned a crystal shop and was like super hippie and all that jazz. He was such a fucking mess. He would make rude jokes about others but if anyone said anything about him he would freak the hell out. He was constantly trying to break up straight relationships by trying to seduce the straight men. Some of them even had kids.... he was the definition of a hot mess and also constantly creating a shit ton of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:06 PM
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Have you seen the account swipes for daddy on instagram. She roasts scrotes all day long. It is so much fucking content because all these old men have is the fucking audacity. Old single men are the fucking worst of the worst. 🤢🖕🖕🖕 If something were to happen to my partner at this point I will rather live my life single than deal with scrotes. He is the love of my life and such a lovely person. Empathic and caring. The thought of other men honestly make me sick. The shit you read online makes me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:34 PM
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Read the handbook.
/r/askFDS19/06/21 10:05 AM
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Yeah normalizing abuse. So funny!!!! It is such a idiot defense. Joking about things helps normalize it. Some things should never be normalized. Such as BDSM because it is just sexual self harm. People that go therapy and sort their issues no longer feel any compulsion to act these traumas out sexually. I mean what a shocker.... 🙄 who could have known. People that self harm also consent to it. So there is no logical argument for why BDSM should ever be considered healthy. Consent means fuck all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:45 PM
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Basically men like him want to treat women like prostitutes. FUCK HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:30 AM
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I want women to stay vigilant and be smart, without rose-tinted goggles. I am together with a partner for years. He is a lovely person, emphatic, caring & supportive. He has helped me whenever I needed & has been a positive influence in my life. He always has my back and he has even gone out of his comfort zone to defend me. He is not a confrontational person at all, but he has actually defended me when someone has been rude or offensive to me. Despite both being very kind people overall, seeing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:25 AM
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Also teaching kids how to spot red flags and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:24 AM
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Not true. Anxiety is only present like that in toxic relationships. I have PTSD so if I get triggered from past trauma we talk about it and sort it and my anxiety goes away. Such a difference. In my toxic relationship I would have sleep problems. Now I pretty much sleep like a baby every night. I can still get anxiety over work stuff but it is rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:31 PM
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I think it is extremely important that all parents tell their children the stories about age gap relationships and teach them why it is dangerous. I feel like so many parents are neglectful when it comes to teaching their children safety as an adult. My parents sure failed with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:27 PM
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That is what love is. When you love someone who is a kind amazing and genuine person. You stick with them. Way too many men today have no capacity to love anything but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:07 PM
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Ugh. All these issues are just such a reason why I never liked her content. Her mannerisms and everything speaks of a person who is not mentally well and instead of dealing with that she is nasty to other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:27 PM
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Yeah I think we should support other ladies instead. I prefer people with good core values to get ahead, over people with selfish reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:18 PM
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We can finally choose without fear of being alone, and look! Many women chose not to date at all until they see someone they find worthy. And even if they don’t find that person, they will be happy on their own.If a man who seems valuable on first look crosses path with us, we will have the necessary tools to judge him. I think you and other commentators missed the point a little bit though. Jammies is not saying FDS will kick out or abolish women who chose to live alone, but simply put; Show su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:21 PM
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She used to be FDS approved, but unfortunately she is way problematic. While she has some good advice on certain things, her insistent smear campaign on other women such as Selena Gomez & complete idolization of young men such as Harry Styles & Justin Bieber is just not okay. On top of that she has also been caught doxxing women on her instagram because they said dumb things about her. These women are clearly jealous yes, but a HVW does not sink to that level. -https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OV…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:02 PM
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Whoever made that drawing should be ashamed of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:49 PM
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What I've learned from it is to not allow dates to surprise me with plans. I need a date, time and activity as well as proof of confirmed reservations in order to leave the house. Idc how demanding it sounds, we have no obligation to go with the flow. This protects us from any last minute switch ups and shuffles. Excellent advice, unfortunately women have to resort to this shit now, because of shit like this. It is not a one/off either, the majority of dates people go to on OLD turns out like th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:29 AM
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NO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:35 PM
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The worst part about that clown logic is how low the OF prices are & how many leak pictures- EVEN TO REDDIT. It is not protected at all. 🤡😐💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:07 PM
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Wait so she declined sending nudes but started an Onlyfans? WHY?!🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:37 PM
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Play the game and lie. Honestly. Find a new realtor as you said & say you are a single mom. I would have no problem lying about this stuff, it is absolutely disgusting you have to miss out on a house because you are single. wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:54 AM
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I think this post is important because it is easy to get swept away. I am guilty of it, despite being in a happy relationship for years, I still have a big distrust & disdain for other men. I know some men whom are good people, but the disgusting things I see online makes me despair and lose faith in men overall. I am a radical feminist, but I also love wearing make up, dressing up & doing my thing- which certain radfems would then deem me to not be radical enough. I COULD NOT CARE LESS. However…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:51 AM
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They have been together since she was 17.... Him in his late 20's, he is just lovebombing her now, the abuse will come. I guarantee it. These men pick young victims for this reason, the abuse she will endure is as certain as amen in a church. I hate that it is this way, but it just is. She will regret this so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:22 PM
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yeah hopefully by spreading this information it will pick up. It is my hope and why I am spreading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:17 PM
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28 & 44, do not need to read any further to know this is a toxic shithole of a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:56 PM
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GIRL RUN. Do not fucking marry a cop. They are so high on the domestic abuse list for a reason. Giving up a career for this scrote? That is the worst thing she could possibly do. Why do these women never ever fucking learn from reading other peoples stories and experiences?? Like jesus fucking christ. You are talking about it on Reddit, you know this guy is trash.. WAKE UP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:37 PM
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https://twitter.com/LailaMickelwait/status/1404766745894690818 Link to the tweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:10 PM
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Someone reach out to this girl. She needs FDS in her life. I know religious women follow FDS so it is not a hinder. She needs to drop the loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:58 AM
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Please tell me someone sent her a pm linking to this thread. She may not listen or not listen at first. But planting that seed can help some. She needs to leave that loser. He did fuck a stripper ffs. His friend did not steal 500$ from him Get real. Any man who visits a strip club has no fucking morals what so ever. Do not trust liars and men with no morals or empathy. Simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:37 AM
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I feel like stories such as yours are exactly what people need to hear. Women are fucking groomed into being prostitutes and everyone around them act like it os normal and no big deal, so ofc a lot of women will cave in to the pressure. A lot of women whom strip become from shitty homes so they are easy victims. This is why I am so anti sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:30 AM
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https://www.dailydot.com/unclick/billie-eilish-matthew-tyler-vorce-racist-homophobic/ I mean YIKES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:47 PM
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I feel this way 100%. And so does a lot of old FDS'ers. A lot of them just don't post or is active on here anymore because reddit is toxic. I miss them! But yeah. Women like this i just go. She made her bed; she can now lie in it. People have given her great advice and she tells them to fuck off with it. I am like sis; either shit or get off the toilet. So if you stay with him; stop whining on reddit. Change your situation or shut up. Or go post on breaking mom. They are all pathetic like minded…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:30 PM
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We all know she won't though. When she gets that defensive in the comments.. she is stuck. She is going to be his ride until she dies. It is sad but some women just chose this life 100%. Imagine dying of old age and this is the life you lived. So fucking sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:27 PM
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Omgggg he created a reddit account for her to vent on. Sooooo sweeeeet. Omgggg now she can talk to her reddit friends while he games. What a caaaatch. He is likely fat from all the gaming and not moving. So you know. Fat men are harder to kidnap. So you know he will never leave her. What a prizeeee. She is so luckyyyy. 🤣😭😭 🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:25 PM
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There is a lot of places I dont eat pizza LOL. I fucking hate disgusting pizza. Most pizzeria places are places I do not buy from, because it just tastes so bad and is absolutely not worth the calories. Sourdough pizza made in a real stone oven is my go to, otherwise I don't eat pizza. It is just because scrotes have no standards when it comes to food, cleanliness or sex. I am not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:49 PM
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PREACH. I live in Sweden and here most of single mothers are struggling. There is no alimony or big child support. Child support here is around 1600 SEK or $160 a month. That can afford like only diapers and a can of formula. And sadly not many people sympathize with single moms as their premise is "we as women have to be ready to be left so we have to be independent" Yeah it is the libfem koolaid. Women in Europe really need to wake up and see they are being played big time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:28 PM
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🤣😂👌 Exactly what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:50 PM
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And he has way more money for “extras” while she barely has any leftover. But she is so lucky and happy!!!11 One one one. It is why she is typing this on Reddit, so she can convince herself how happy she is. Especially when she is neck deep in diapers, with no money to spare, no self care and posting on Breaking mom, while her boyfriend is out chasing other tail, gaming and not contributing or helping at all- because he got "sick of her" and also "she really let herself go after the pregnancy, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:49 PM
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I honestly don't see the logic in planning to get pregnant of your boyfriend, if he wanted a serious comitment he would marry you first. To be fair nothing in her post is logical at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:42 PM
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And beyond all of this a man who loves you isn't going to want to watch you struggle and run yourself ragged when he could make life better for you, especially while you're pregnant. He does not respect her or love her that is for sure. This is one of the main reasons for being complete harsh on these boundaries. If a man is not taking care of you when you are pregnant, it is also very likely he is going to cheat. Men do not respect women more AT ALL, just because they "pay for themselves" It is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:39 PM
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"Maybe I am a FeMiNiSt" No sis, you are just a dumbass. Liberal feminism is not feminism. Watching these idiots brainwash themselves....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:37 PM
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ROFL. This sister is getting played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:36 PM
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They hate women. They truly do. It is as horrifying and simple as that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:14 PM
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This man needs to be thrown into a dumpster and disposed of. Or like the Indian queen suggested in the video on here today throw him in a box in the ocean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:09 PM
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What is that mop on top of his head? A dead animal? is it a roadkill he hit and then plopped it up there? What is up with a scrote looking like that, filming in his car from two angles and then trying to take a shot at women. Like fuck this guy, he looking like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:24 AM
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Maybe her relationship is not all that’s going on in her life, and with her own agency she’s making a choice at the moment that prioritizes other things first? Or maybe she’s in the process of developing her self respect and needs more time and to be prepared to sever what’s most likely a long term attachment? Or maybe she’s working on her support system and her backup plan so she won’t be completely flailing after leaving a long term relationship in a rush? I know it can be frustrating looking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:12 AM
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It was like another one who was married to a guy who would drive around and jerk off to women who were out jogging. So he would jerk off in his car. Absolutely vile. Other women do not consent to this shit. I think these women are absolutely enablers to these creeps by not leaving them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:17 AM
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Why is she still with him?? This sis needs to pick her pride off the fucking floor and leave now. Just because she did not leave then; doesn't mean she can't now. Like wtf is this. I get so annoyed at how pathetic these women are. Have some fucking agency for once in your life ffs. Stop making fucking excuses. Also he has not changed at all. Jesus. He is still watching porn. Can these women stop being so pathetic? For God's sake. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:22 AM
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GrEaTfUl 🤡🤡🤡🤡 GRATEFUL!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:47 AM
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True, but I will say I prefer this "oh SHIT" moment of realization, even if it requires firsthand experience, over continued ignorance. Maybe this will be the thing that helps him take women more serious? One less man who thinks women exaggerate here or have all the "dating privilege" One can always hope. But in experience a lot of these types just writes something for some "woke"points and a pat on the back, then continue to be the same tone deaf misogynistic assholes as they always were. Chang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:48 PM
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A lot of men do not believe what women say, it has to come from themselves or other men. That is literally misogyny and what our society is build on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:41 PM
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How I want to respond to the person who wrote this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3UC96g1A4Nc DIE MAD SCROTE; DIE SO MAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:16 PM
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it's extremely important for this sub to stay on Reddit simply because it's a gem among shit. So true, but I also hate the neckbeard asshole piece of shit who runs this website are generating so much money of us. Not even to talk about how much money they make on all the rape porn and pedophilia content. They deserve to go down like pornhub. I hope they all burn in hell. I truly hope for a judgement day when all men will be judged for their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:03 PM
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Haha this video is amazing. Honestly. YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:19 PM
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Please remove the link to the other sub it is not allowed due to reddit rules
/r/askFDS09/06/21 06:46 PM
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I am so proud of you gals and everything you have done with the podcast, it is fire and I love love listening to it all week. I would like to see Laila (who is fighting Pornhub on there too). Thank you for making media to empower women, I truly feel FDS is making a change in the world. Good job gals! and also for everyone who is a part of this Subreddit, is supporting this. Love to see it. Who rule the world? WOMEN! Men only destroy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:56 PM
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Hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:12 PM
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"He is such a great guy" "I am okay with the insults" yeeeeah sis. This is cognitive dissonance extreme. Never ever trust anyone who says "my husband is such a great guy" in a post. Like sis if you have to post about him on reddit he is a pos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:11 PM
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He compares her to a prostitute and laugh about with his friends. Divorce him now. Like jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:02 PM
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they just want the advice they want to hear, not actual advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:07 AM
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Divorce this fucking clown right now. Jesus Christ the entitlement. What a fucking asshole. You can see how he views his family as an after thought. He will have no problem cheating on his family either, he holds them in zero regard. The disrespect and the fact he is working out a lot, shows me he is likely keeping fit for other women and not his wife. A shit ton of men like this are motivated by being desirable to other women, meaning he is likely already cheating. I know this is a lot to base …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:52 AM
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Woooow. I can't believe she listened to that. Some pickme women are beyond help. If she ignored everyone else and listened to that she made her bed and now she gets to lie in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:09 AM
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With that perspective, I agree! There's way too many inconsistencies 🤔 Here I am trying to make sense of men! My first mistake 🤦 Yeah what the amount of crap you see over time, you just learn to sus out those little signs and inconsistencies. This guy is full of shit, that is for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:13 PM
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Edit. Came back to ask, why is he falsely labeling his daughters as women?? They are little girls. Biggest red flag is right in the title. I do not even think there is any daughters. I think he made it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:51 PM
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Also he’s basically asking for the Internet’s permission to ask women to practice on them! Or for female volunteers? He wants to make effort, but not enough to buy a hairdressing mannequin and just put it in a fucking box if it creeps him out. 🙄 He is full of shit and is just looking at any excuse to grope some woman who does not know any better. This creep has anything but pure intentions, that is for sure. The amount of men which will lie on Reddit is astounding. IF he really has daughters, he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:49 PM
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I hope other women like me give FDS a chance. These past few weeks lurking here makes me feel 100 times more empowered than I felt as an escort/camgirl. All these people going around saying "FDS hates sex workers" are actually doing a massive disservice to SW because it's turning us away from this awesome, supportive, uplifting community. I wish I had actually checked out FDS sooner, it would have saved me from a lot of unpleasant experiences. They do it because they want women to remain in pros…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:06 PM
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Yeah it is everything combined, it is like the whole Culture involves smoking weed, watching porn and frying their brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:57 PM
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yeah I followed a fitness account and she said she literally had to pornify her account to get views and likes. She ended up quitting because she hated it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:18 PM
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I obviously believe women should be careful and take precautions to be safe but I just wanted to talk about the idea that porn makes men objectify women which I dont believe is the case. I believe they wouldve objectified women anyway. I also dont mean to come at you its just a chance to talk about the topic. It is literally been proven otherwise, you know you can go educate yourself on these things instead of making dumb assumptions here. You literally wrote an entire novel here when it is prov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:09 PM
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So what you are saying is bassicly in so many words, that women should keep supplying men with Onlyfans/porn and softcore porn on instagram. Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:06 PM
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Phoenix said a lot of the things I feel too. Another thing which is shown is how men who watches porn (which is pretty much a large majority of men in the society) who see scantily clad women as objects. Is it the women's fault? No, absolutely not. But we have to be aware of the responses it illicit in these degenerate men, feeding into porn culture is never going to help the problem at all. I am specifically talking about how pornified social media platforms are, women all over are posting half…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:01 PM
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Alot of Danish people keep the same social circle as the people they grew up with too. I get secondhand embarrassment just thinking about it. They have no growth or aspirations in life. Low value culture seems to be the culture in Denmark. Also weed, porn etc. Is seen as a huge part of Danish culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:57 AM
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Yeah I think a large majority of Danish men are just pure trash. Low value through and through. Even the academic types think watching porn is their right and I know several of them whom date women who are a lot younger. Someone I know started dating one of his university students who is 13 years younger than him.... I do not know a single high value Danish man. Porn culture is extremely prevelant in Denmark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:54 AM
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The fact she says "safe" environment to post nudes on reddit shows she has no idea what safe mean. Liberal feminism is wrecking havoc on women's choices and empowerment. It is bringing the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:32 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQ5YU_spBw0 This is what I want to do to your husband with all the FDS ladies. It would bring me great pleasure to see this swine pay for his crimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:39 PM
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I know. He has been begging nonstop. He mentioned sex addiction. What even is that? How is this my life?? Never trust a man with sexaddiction, EVER. The large majority of them are narcisstic sociopaths with 0 fucking empathy. Your husband is one of them. It does not fucking matter if he goes to therapy or whatever. HE IS DONE. I know a woman who was with her husband for 15 years, he was a sex addict. He went to rehab, intense therapy and was "cured" (Or so she thought) he attended weekly Sanon m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:24 PM
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He's a sociopath. No one with a soul can lie that well. That consistently. I'm in shock. I've not eaten for 3 days. I've cried till I have thrown up, then cried again. He has been "crying" too. And begging frantically. Happened with my sociopath ex too, he was really good at fake crying and begged. Do not believe him, steel your heart and find some people you can trust to help you through this divorce. He is a piece of shit, I can't describe the anger I feel reading your post. I am so sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:18 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ntn7uv/always_always_check_his_phone/ this post right here literally enforces my point. Stay vigilant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:15 PM
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I am not a big fan of a lot of Scandinavian men. Especially Danish men are really low value in my opinion. I found myself a great partner here, he displays many really good traits and I love him tremendously (we have been together for years). I refuse to brand him as a "HVM", he has many high value traits. Which is why I am with him. Can women on FDS stop referring to their partners as a "HVM", they can EASILY pretend and then turn on the abuse later, it Irks be incredibly when women on FDS dron…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:43 PM
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If you've reached the stage where you feel comfortable with sexual intimacy with him, insist on seeing STD test results, preferably on an app, because it's harder to fake. If he says he's been tested but "doesn't have" the results, he's lying. All STD testing facilities now have some method of electronic delivery for STD test results, and physicians have results online. If he can't PROVE he's clean, then do not risk it. Your health is more important than any man's feelings, and more important th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:23 PM
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People in the BDSM community is everything but sane. They say things like "consensual" "safe" etc, but they are off their rockers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:12 AM
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I saw the interview with her parents. The system fail women all the time. I am heartbroken that this poor woman was killed by this monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:11 AM
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Also advice for all women; DO NOT DATE COPS. No matter how nice he seems, I would just advice women to never ever date cops. They are very high up on statistics with men who kill their wives and domestic abusers. The system systematically fail women who are married to cops, men are disgusting and take the side of other men. So even though this fucking psycho shot his wife, they gave him his gun back. The system is stacked against women, so do your best to protect yourself, do not date/marry cops…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:10 AM
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This is not good, at all. If you check out these kind of stories with men which pushes boundaries, it very often escalates into real nasty territory. "He’s just kind of intense and seems a little manic." This is a BIG RED FLAG, big big big. If you follow any kind of true crime or read "the gift of fear" a lot of times things like that starts the whole thing. Now that you have accepted this gift, he will see this as you accepting him. That is how these creeps operate. This guy can be seriously da…
/r/askFDS05/06/21 09:37 PM
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One of my family members is in her 60’s retired and wealthy, lives in a rich area in an expensive state. Went for a jog in the neighborhood and got knocked out by a man, was unconscious, and then he raped her. So fuck that lady. Fetish for protecting ourselves??? Wtf Agreed. What a fucking horrible lady all around. Imagine if something happens to her one day after she laughed about other women having a fetish to protect themselves. I guess who will be laughing then.... All the men who she was so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:06 PM
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That fucking edit. OMFG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:05 PM
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Meanwhile this misogynist never made a woman come in his life. But she should be a pornstar in the bedroom....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:09 AM
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It is so ironic with men like him, the problem is not women rejecting you or ignoring you, you are the problem. This guy is so fucking toxic and he view women like vending machines, like you put a coin in and you get sex. Dude you fucking loser, women are PEOPLE with FEELINGS, jesus christ. It never occur to men like this to treat women with respect, kindness, empathy and love. Imagine that. I am not even sure men as fucked up as this are capable of those emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:41 PM
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Truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:31 PM
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I think "headass" is the best accurate description of these people ever. You cant argue with stupid and these people are so mentally disabled it hurts. Logic & facts just go out the window. Also calling someone TERF is using hate language, so it is laughable how they throw around that term, meanwhile calling others "haters". You are the ones using hatefilled language, saying how you want to punch and assault women who they refer to as "Terfs" saying things like "punching a terf in the throat". J…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:30 AM
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She should just divorce him. HE WILL NEVER CHANGE. abusive pos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:46 AM
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I don't know what else to do. I don't think I could get a restraining order. I don't have anywhere to run and hide out for a while. I'm not able to move right now. Ugh... I'm so mad at myself for being love-bombed and gaslit to hell for months by a psychotic loser that's 15 years older than me. Holy fucking shit. I really do not have any proper advice to offer in this situation, but once the dust settles makes sure to read a lot of the FDS recommended literature (why does he do that, The gift of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:31 PM
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It is removed now :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:02 AM
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It's a cope from their side lol. I wish they would fuck off and never come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:16 AM
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Are women less accomplished now? No, but way more women are falling prey to liberal feminism & bending over backwards for low value and scummy men, who drain them mentally/psychically and financially. So instead of women moving forward, being respected and empowered, they are now creating OnlyFans accounts in masses, where the main income is STILL earned by men. Feminism as a whole took a big fucking step back, somehow women are less empowered now than ever. Assault/rape stats are through the ro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:14 AM
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He calls that a beard? 🤣👆 From the small portion you can see it looks dusty as hell. Also these arms- Bro go to the fucking gym and lift a weight once in a while. Fucking spaghettio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:23 AM
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Why do women marry these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:07 PM
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Holy shit, I am so flabbergasted at these stories, because it seems like all abusers use the same gross script. Like these comments they come with. I have heard the same ones many times. It is crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:53 PM
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Been there. I have been doing this on/off thing with my mother, where we are currently into 1 year of no contact. I have had her on no contact before. She is a huge narcissist and was very abusive growing up. I just did not see it then. She has been violent & would often scream so loud my ears almost burst. I moved out when I was 18 and has been living on my own ever since. It is extremely hard to cut out your own mother, but in my case it was necessary for my own wellbeing. She is an expert at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:10 AM
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Fucking pathetic is what it is. Men........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:21 PM
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Absolutely disgusting. I am so glad your parents are backing you up on this. If someone does that, just walk away. Your sister should have divorced this clown as soon as it happened. Wasting her life on such a piece of trash. We only have one life to live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:17 PM
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She is in denial her boyfriend did it. GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:01 PM
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My sister‘a husband sent me three pages worth of creepy, disgusting text messages. I was in college using their place as accommodation. Needless to say, I had to leave. Now, I can no longer visit or stay, or see her children there, or see her in her own home. They went to marriage counselling for some sessions. The counsellor took his side and convinced her of his own excuses, that he didn’t mean anything weird, that his mind wasn’t clear because he had stress, that he was being misunderstood co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:57 PM
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Omg yes. I am so happy for you. I am so proud of your strength . Leaving a toxic relationship is so hard. You got this girl and congratulations 👏 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:22 PM
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Omg. Yes. Sex work Twitter was calling us prudes and saying how we must not enjoy sex because we don't suck dirty dicks for money. Sorry I prefer my partner who makes me cum and whom I share an intimate connection with. Not some gross pig who has dickcheese and stinky balls and loves to do anal so he has a poo dick. We didn't even call them sluts; just told them to fuck other peoples husbands for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:25 PM
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Yeah I want women to be aware that when it says "recently out of long term relationship" it means he is a cheater and was likely married. Fuck these men 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:23 PM
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Could not agree more lol. I got in the hotbed on Twitter for saying these things. Also I said something kinda funny to one (and a little mean) and someone said I should apologize. I am like yeah. When hell freezes over. I will not apologize to a prostitute who fucks others peoples husbands for money. The day they act like decent humans and stop aiding men in their adultery we can talk. But I do not and will never apologize to morally corrupt people who literally aid disgusting men in breaking th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:22 PM
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She didn't even call him out LOL. If she had any backbone and self respect she would have canceled that date before she even arrived. Jebus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:40 PM
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The handbook is perfect for all these things 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:38 PM
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You are smart girl. I have been around quite a few addicts who were in therapy. They were constantly relapsing. I know 1 who is stonecold sober. ONE. The rest are still addicts. They have a lot of shame about it; but what does that help their partners when they are still relapsing.... nothing. It is literally 1% whi can manage sobriety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:32 PM
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Voice it in a seductive way too. Don't cold ask. Perhaps while cuddling or being cute; bring it up then. That is when they will be honest. Most men lack decency and honesty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:30 PM
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And 5'9. Yeah Dave we know you're 5'6. Next! I said the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:06 AM
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I interpreted the comment about seeking a female to "bundle into the back of his car" to mean that he'll literally throw you in the trunk and kidnap you. That really changed the tone of the whole profile. It is because it how he meant it. I swear men are never "joking". This guy has serial killer vibes which chilled me to the bone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:06 AM
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Where to start? I say start heading in the opposite direction. This guy has lost touch with reality. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:03 AM
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Wtf? He’s talking in third-person about putting a woman into the back of his car. Is he putting her into a child’s car seat? Is she getting in of her own free will? Why must she sit in the back? Is it because his ego is writing shotgun? Getting murder vibes. Like the guy in New Zealand who murdered his Tinder date. He reminds me of that guy and probably with good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:00 AM
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Yeah what I got from this is he is insufferable jerk, who is also a huge misogynist & a racist. He is short (5'9 my ass, he is 5'6 or something I swear). He tries to mask his racism and hatred for women in "Humor", but he is neither funny, clever or witty. He sounds like an asshole all around. Also his clothing style is so fucking ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:58 AM
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I was about to comment on those arms🤣 "sir, have you been to Italy recently, because there seems to be spaghetti sticking out of your sleeves"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:54 AM
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He is so fucking ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:10 PM
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"As a feminist" i died. I am dead 💀💀🤣😭 Seriously. This scrotes "feminism" reaches as far as not paying for things and making women whom he significantly outearn pay 50/50 for everything which includes paying 50% of expenses in a house he owns. This all the while he strokes his greasy dong to some rape porn and leaked nudes of celebrities/only fans creators (which he would never pay for ofcourse) I mean he is a feminist after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:02 PM
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Annnnd block. What a dumbass response he gave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:22 PM
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Also empathy is so important. Money doesn't mean shit. Not that you should be dating broke losers. But like Elon musk you can be a rich no value scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:21 PM
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Perfect example of what marriage does to women. This is why the patriarchy try to brainwash us into thinking being single is the worst thing in the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:00 PM
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You know what they say; When a man does a woman dirty, god punches back his hairline 1 inch. As you can see this man is about to be bald.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:51 PM
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Promising young women showed this beautifully. How you can hint at these things without having to show it. It is absolutely not necessary to show those scenes. Normal people will be traumatized and sick people will masturbate to it. There are so many men who are sick in the head. Why provide them with this content in general media.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:23 AM
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What about Modern Family? I know the show makes the Prichard family out to be stressed and neurotic, but I feel for Claire sometimes. She's so stressed, always has to be on top of things, has to do lists, etc, and then there's Phil who gets to mostly be goofy and have fun outside of work. Also ontop of that Phil crushes on Gloria. FDS definitely made me notice all that! Omg. I was re-watching it and I get so many moments I am pissed off because Phil is such a fucking scrote. I said out loud many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:53 AM
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What's more worrying is that they say "No one wants to see hairy armpits" yet they think we want to see rape?¿¿ Because the men love seeing rape. I hate hate hate rape scenes. I have such a reaction to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:49 AM
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Mötley Crue- So fucking toxic. All about fucking as many women as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:47 AM
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Dont know if you listen to more slow rock/rhytm. My favorite artist is Chelsea Wolfe, I adore her music. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fiFAh32VMMo (not rock per say, it is more slow, but so much feeling)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:47 AM
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Can confirm this. I have a guy i was not attracted to at first a chance. He was older and had his "life together " on the outside. Biggest mistake of my life. He emotionally damaged me and gave me PTSD. Also sexually assaulted me. Ladies stay vigilant. He had money and used it in a way to control me. The life style was not worth the pain.
/r/askFDS26/05/21 08:21 AM
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Who knew there was a level below pickme? Pleasepleasepickme? "I Just want to be someones cumdumpster" . I have actually read someone who wrote that on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:16 PM
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As if this statement alone is not enough to show how much of an idiot this person is, the spelling definitely cements this fact. "U" 🤣🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:15 PM
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Also for the lurkers: My boyfriend can check my phone all he likes, I have no things to hide. I am not a liar or pornaddict like you sad-sacks, so stop projecting and go to fucking therapy. I don't have any men in my DM's on social media, because the ones that slide in- I show him, we laugh and then they get promptly blocked/deleted. Just because you lurkers have no fucking integrity, morals or values, it does not mean the rest of us are the same as you- Newsflash: we are better people than you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:05 PM
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This guy is 40+??? Holy shiiiiiit . 😬 that is terrifying. I swear men who are single at that age and active on OLD are nasty pieces of work. Nope nope nope nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:39 PM
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I’m now increasingly thinking I’d like an open phone policy in my next relationship. This is the bare minimum, but I just want to let you ladies know, that cheaters can trick you with this. My psycho ex had an "open phone policy" too, I had his passcode and everything, he used it to lure me into a false sense of security. He was just really fucking good at covering his tracks. He used all apps messenger/snapchat/whatsapp/insta 🚩🚩🚩 and also had a secret wordfeud chat where he would talk to women.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:31 PM
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What you encountered there is the top of the iceberg. The fact he was willingly giving you access tells me he very likely has "covered his tracks". The gut feeling never lies. Been there, done that. If you had done some deep diving you would likely have discovered a whole pile of shit. The reason we feel these things is because our bodies and subconscious pick up on these things, even if we are rationalizing it to ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:24 PM
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Truth bomb right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:34 PM
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"He was abused at a child. Poor baby" meanwhile women suffer so much abuse and a large majority of them are still loving, caring and empathic partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:34 PM
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This is all bad but it was the all capitalized words that really got me. Omg same. I showed this to my boyfriend and said "this reads like a serial killer"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:04 AM
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This whole profile said, “I will abuse you and then gaslight you into thinking it was your fault.” 👆👆👆👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:03 AM
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He says he wants someone vulnerable who "isn't afraid to show themself as they are". I get 2 things from this.. he has had experiences with women which made him write that and he is looking for vulnerability very early to exploit (related to the BDSM thing). SPOT ON. He knows how to fish for vulnerable women to abuse. Meanwhile going 50/50 while she is his slave. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:03 AM
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Exactly. If porn is so healthy, natural and normal, why are they all so full of shame, using incognito, hiding and squirreling it away? The "we hide because we know you get crazy and insecure" is bs after the fact. It is because they want to remove our choice to leave when we find out. They want to have the cake and eat it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:43 AM
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Short answer: NO. Head over to any forums for Pornaddicts and look at the success rates. They are extremely low. Even if he wants to change NOW, the truth is; it won't stick. I know a few pornaddicts who are actively working recovery (acquaintances) they have been in therapy, group meetings for over 1 year and some even go to AA for sex/pornaddicts, ALL OF THEM are relapsing constantly. Some with months between, but none of them are able to stay sober. It takes extreme will to do this, I know th…
/r/askFDS25/05/21 09:33 AM
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Scrotes are abundant and of low value. That is the problem.. it takes a long time to find a HVM. And then you have to be compatible as well. I count my blessings every day I am with my partner because he keeps on making me happy and show value and consistency. But men are not the end game. Be happy on your own and then it will happen or it will not. But create a life which makes you happy. Men at large very good at making women's lives miserable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:50 PM
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This other thread posted today on FDS; https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/njpyci/porn_is_one_of_the_leading_factors_in_why_couples/ Is an EXCELLENT reason why to never ever accept porn use, even if he says he will quit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:21 PM
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"In a humble and heartfelt open letter to readers in 2016, Dr. John Gottman explains that even today there are varying theories on how to manage porn use in marriage. According to Dr. Gottman, many marriage counselors recommend that couples merely accept porn use, especially by men, as natural and harmless. In fact, Dr. Gottman admits that in the past, he had even recommended porn use in the hopes of increasing intimacy for couples who were struggling with intimacy after the birth of a child. Bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:20 PM
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I have a hard time telling people what to do in situations such as this, because "too early" varies from person to person, I think there are many more aspects to consider for me personally before marriage, and the the time frame is literally the least of my worries. I am also older than you, so I wonder how I would have felt regarding this when I was in my early 20's, because I feel like a completely different person now, than I was when I was 24. I think the best thing you can do for yourself i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:15 PM
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OP, I'm curious, if he had said "yes, I watch it it, and if it's an issue for you, I'll stop", would you have reacted differently? Was it the consumption, or the defense of the consumption that was the issue? I would advice any woman to never do this. The rates of PA's being sober is LOW. It takes extreme strength and self-resolve to stick to sobriety. Pornaddicts have even lower success rates than other addictions. I wish they would do more studies on these things, because it is sorely needed. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:33 AM
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It can be both with porn addicts. Some are premature because of porn whike others deathgrip of doom and they can't come.. However it is an indicator of how he is going to be in bed = crap. The way he wrote "you must me proud"???? Like that is fucking ridiculous to listen to. With that attitude you know he is going to be lazy and selfish in bed. Which a lot of men are. You said you wanted to focus on yourself. I would dodge that bullet and work on self-improvement. The truth is. You can do a lot …
/r/askFDS23/05/21 11:28 PM
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I have my DM's turned off, because I cba dealing with them. I dont give a single fuck about what they have to say what so ever, them screaming into the void brings me great pleasure and satisfaction. I get the notifications on mobile, but do not see the messages, and it always gives me a good laugh when I see it, because you know some scrote somewhere is triggered. I do not want to read what they say, I value peace of mind and I refuse to let them take any energy from me what so ever. They are a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:50 PM
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I am so hurt that I let myself fall for this, I almost can’t function because I’m so anxious and my brain just keeps trying to justify that he’s a really great guy that’s getting away and I won’t have another opportunity like this again. I just want to be myself again and I can’t believe I let this happen. I am feeling so so sorry for myself. He is not a great guy at all, he pushed your boundaries repeatedly and all he wanted was sex. Do not ever accept an invitation that early on to a mans plac…
/r/askFDS23/05/21 01:05 PM
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Yeah it has been posted before and it is absolutely haunting to read. I dont know if she left or if she is dead now. I hope she is okay. This man is psychotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:10 PM
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🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:34 PM
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Fuck bumble. Such a shit app which does not protect women at all. Despite being made by women. Q bunch of pickmes. A woman was assaulted and raped in Australia on their app. They did nothing to help. All these apps deserve to be put on blast. I just consider this a huge problem on an made by women supposedly for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:31 PM
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What she is experiencing is the discard phase of a narcisstic relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:38 PM
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Take her last name for sure 👏👏👏 why wait with switching. I would switch soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:02 PM
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Men "i am fat, but why would I want to date someone fat though" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:00 PM
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Yes. Also used to flatten my car tires and drain my car battery and claimed it was the heat and was common where we lived. 🙄 He was such a gem. I am just glad you made it out alive. Jesus christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:02 PM
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blocking me while I was driving in a blizzard on a mountain pass at 1 am and nobody else knew where I was, locking me out and making me sleep in my car in a dangerous neighborhood, eventually cold clocking my face (2 years into us dating) and then lying saying I had started it.. WOW. Just wow. Did these things happen while you dated him? That is horrible. I am so glad you are out of it now. Thank you for sharing your story as I know this will help other women on the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:26 AM
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Also how women working in sexwork/pornography mainly benefit men. Behind all the big companies there are MEN which are CEO's and shareholders which are the ones cashing in BIG TIME on women's exploitation. It is not the women benefitting the most, it is the men. Women are the product being sold. Also how the "clients" are men, which are benefitting from getting women to perform all kinds of depraved acts for their dicks. Women are always the losers in the grand scheme of things, even the few 1 %…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:57 AM
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The problem I have with libfem is that it does not address the history of the oppression of women, nor does it actually address the systemic structures that hurt women. Libfem doesn't try to create a new system outside of the patriarchy that could genuinely help women - instead, it teaches women to try to assert themselves in a structure in which women will and can never win in. Libfem just provides a bandaid for a severed leg - it's not trying to build a prosthetic leg for us. I would not mind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:47 AM
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The redditors' rage against FDS is absolutely hilarious. Every time they talk shit about us it just sounds like a knee-jerk reaction algorithm produced by their near-cognitive-dissonance- delusions screaming to not be discovered. Every single thing they claim about us is just one of the many you could find in them. Not a single rational, high-value person is against FDS. Literally every HV human on this earth I've talked to invariably agreed with FDS principles. But these scrotes just don't get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:25 AM
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LoGicAl sEx my arse. They don't even have common sense They don't have any sense and that is the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:20 AM
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51 going on 100 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:00 AM
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The copious amounts of porn he watches. It fried his brain so now he thinks all women wants it. It is a sickness of our generation and generations to come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:49 PM
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You’ve said he’s on his social media commenting on other things, but he doesn’t have time to say well done to you??? No. But if he does celebrate it (without you prompting) with flowers, a well thought out gift etc then him commenting on your post isn’t the end of the world. This. Only thing that would redeem this is IF he shows up with flowers and congratulates you in person. WITHOUT YOU TELLING HIM. Do not tell him to do this. He needs to do it on his own, or he is out.
/r/askFDS19/05/21 01:08 PM
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"Is it unreasonable to expect a guy I’m dating to congratulate me on graduating with a first?" No, it is not. Plain and a simple, this is low value behavior. Dump him.
/r/askFDS19/05/21 01:07 PM
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🤡🤡🤡🤡 this has big " I want him to propose with a 10$ ring in a a box of chicken nuggets" energy. I will never forget that proposal. There is pathetic and then there is PATHETIC. I am telling you this guy probably looks like a fat loser who also spends all his time playing video games; pornsick and wanking to girls on insta. I can't believe so many women delude themselves into thinking men like that are a prize. They are trash; they belong to the dumpster. Throw him out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:12 AM
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Brain dead coomers everywhere .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:09 AM
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I would have replied with "from the bottom of my black heart- fuck you. And not in the sense you wanted. I find your husband repulsive. Do not ever talk to me or contact me ever again" block. Delete. What a fucking psycho. She is not a pickme she is a handmaiden. Participating in bringing other women down. Also her spelling is atrocious. She is as bad as the scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:08 AM
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Men used to hate that women got public bathrooms. Women fought for them, men hated that any women had a public life that required a toilet away from home, so some men knocked them over with their horse carriages. So sad to see history repeat itself in 2021, on twitter there are several viral threads of men masturbating and filming it in women's public restrooms. They are trying to take away our places so women wont feel safe using public toilets. We need to stop it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:59 AM
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Male-on-female rape and violence is a worldwide problem and until we solve it, we need these spaces. Not sorry. Nothing but truth here. I see in 2021 the Patriarchy tries so hard to dismantle all female only spaces, I thought in modern society people would know better, but they don't. We have to fight tooth and nail to keep our women spaces so we can be safe. I want a women's only gym. The best way I figure it to make things like this as a private business, because anything related to the govern…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:57 AM
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Yea wtf, it's like they're proud of being the source of someone else's pain. Psychopathic. Jupp. But I mean, she also has an adventure time profile pic, she is obviously the most cool girl of the cool girls. I don't understand that show at all, it was written by a guy who was high the entire time and the "jokes" are about the least funny thing ever. That show has such low value energy it is insane, so for her to chose it as her profile pic, huge pickme and low value energy right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:45 AM
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The only people who brag about things like that are lonely, pathetic losers with nothing going on in their lives except for their role as a human fleshlight for someone else. Yupp. So not only are they sitting there shitting on someone who obviously got pressured into a threesome. They are also pathetic losers who then can't even have their own relationship, but get used by other people. Yeah, way for them to have the high ground /s. Men who pressure their spouses into threesomes = scum of the e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:42 AM
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These men are so insecure that they stalk the FDS Reddit NONSTOP and repost stuff from here instantly. For the lurker scrotes; we know you are insecure loser, stop projecting and go therapy. 💅💅💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:57 PM
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I read that Joss Whedon actually did a try to ruin the actress who played Cordelia's career because she wouldn't sleep with him and also how she was made out to be "the bitch" of the show, to alienate strong beautiful women, if they dont cater to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:26 PM
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This advice works most of the time for me and the reaction is always delicious. 💅👑❤ Men who use these PUA tactics and negs are so used to women not knowing what to say, so a lot of the time they become flabbergasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:05 PM
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This energy 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Sisters, do not give a shit what men think, they will say "you wearing too much make up" shame her for wearing the gold glitter etc. JUST IGNORE THEM. We do not want to fuck them, date them or even entertain them. So let their dumbass comments slide off you, like water on a goose. If a man has the audacity to say something to your face to neg you, just say "yeah, AND?" or "So?" and then leave. If they keep talking to you, just tell them to leave you alone. The more women level u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:50 PM
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I find that in my current EU country, people are very, very judgmental too if you have nice (read, expensive) things. "I would NEVER want a ring that cost 1K, I'd rather have a vacation". Ok, sure, but why the judgment from those that can afford it no problem? Copium! So true. I bought myself a designer necklace because I wanted it, some people asked the price and they were like shocked. I just wonder why people care so much. Same with my tattoos. It is my art, so yes they are expensive. That is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:13 PM
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Oh, and he was balding, low-effort, out of shape, boring, had no goals, and his teeth were awful. And he sucked in bed. A tale as old as time, for some reasons the ugliest and most unfuckable men have the most audacity. It is infuriating. I would advice FDS to only date hunky men, because of all the men I have dated, the best ones has been the most attractive ones. Like my current partner, I would not trade him for anything in the world. Do not give old, ugly scrotes a chance. It just makes them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:08 AM
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Not to mention how much energy they spend on making NSFW subs!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:59 AM
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"I also found this sub thanks to the guy I was dating .And let me tell you- he used to read FDS for HOURS like a crazy obsessed fan. He showed me this sub once “look at what these crazy fat feminists are saying here!!11!”. I dumped him thanks to what I read here, thank you girls." What a queen 😆👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:54 AM
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They joke about needing "eyebleach" when encountering women with standards. I did us all a favor and downvoted most of the thread The only dates they ever have is with their right hands😂 I never got these men, no women wants to date them anyway 🤷‍♀️ Especially not FDS, but they moan about it non-stop. They have several narratives they swap between, one is "FDS IS UGLY!!!" ok, well then why do you care so much then? If FDS is so "un-dateable" why does it matter what we say to these guys? I know w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:53 AM
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said scrote can't even afford an OF subscription yet shrieks about paying for dates. Yea buddy I can just see the women lining up, get off reddit and wash your ass 🤣🤣 OMG the comedy really writes itself, so not only is he a huge cheap pathetic scrote, but he really manages to take it to that extra mile by doing this 😂😂🤡🤡🤡 Honestly, I think OF content should be copyrighted so you can get striked by distributing this, would be fucking amazing to see these wankers get sued by some of the top creato…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:09 AM
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jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepp. The pathetic losers on Reddit love to play tough in the comments but in real life they would simp for her like there was no tomorrow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:43 AM
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I'm glad he kicked the coke and meth habit though. 🤣🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:41 AM
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I would not even piss on these men if they were on fire. Have you seen "roast me" all of them men there are fucking disgusting looking, crusty, fat or ugly as fuck. No woman like that wants to date them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:40 AM
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the scrotes are so mad they are already cross-posting it in different communities, they are so fucking obsessed with FDS it is PATHETIC. 🤣🤣🤣 Imagine being so pathetic you lurk FDS nonstop for things to crosspost😆🤦‍♀️😂🤡🤡🤡 For the lurkers, we know you are fat lazy crusty porn addicts, STAY MAD pathetic losers. None of you deserve any woman, much less a FDS woman, so DIE MAD. None on FDS wants to date you ever, now go eat some boner pills and wank to some pathetic porn. LOSERS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:36 AM
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I like this energy 🤣😂 My monthly budget for outfits and make up/skincare/shampoo/hair dresser etc costs more than the majority of men spend on themselves in a year on clothes. So many crusty scrotes out there. I am glad I have a partner that takes care of himself and buys skincare products/beard products/hair products and nice clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:33 AM
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Yup. LVM are especially skilled at creating excuses to avoid commitment that sound responsible or reasonable It is because they are experts at gasliiiiiiiiighting and manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:10 AM
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STOP 👏 HAVING 👏 BABIES 👏 WITH 👏 MEN 👏 WHO 👏 AREN'T 👏 COMMITTED 👏!!! I truly don't understand how many women are sipping this pickme juice and making the dumbest choices of their life for a man who is going to dump them as soon as he finds someone he actually wants to settle down with. You are posting for advice on Reddit for your relationship 9/10 times it is time to dump him and move on. Jeeeeeeeebus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:09 AM
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Yeah it is because men are so pathetic. They can't fathom how awful life is if you have to spend it with a LVM which most of them are. They will literally drain you dry and lead you to an early grave. Meanwhike they maturbate to the worst kind of rape porn on reddit but yeah FDS is the most toxic sub 🤣🤡🤡🤡 they are so delusional it hurts. If they all dropped dead the world would be a better place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:48 AM
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Yupp He is the one sitting and moaning about it on reddit. What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:43 AM
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The reason why abuser change for short periods of time like 6months is because they want to trap you back in. When he has you trapped with marriage and/or kids, the abuse will ramp up. He will then escalate the abuse into something worse. We on FDS will not know what path these men take, but the fact is, a lot of them turn violent. It is time to leave now, move on and start loving yourself. Also therapy and read literature on the subject. A Shit ton of titles are recommended on the FDS handbook,…
/r/askFDS16/05/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah. Also host parties for your friends celebrating your achievements. Like perhaps you did something awesome at work. You managed to run a 5k without stopping. Or just invite your friends over because you love them. Normalize being single and strong. 💕💐 single women chose themselves a lot of the time. Saying no to scrotes and yes to self love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:43 PM
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Do not tell him you are leaving. plan an exit, back your things and leave. Best if he is gone for a weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:25 PM
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Don't settle for bad sex tbh. I would not advice to give guys second chances most of the time because you waste your time, emotional energy and can become bonded to him. The fact he finished in 2 seconds and did not finish you off is a big olred flag and he sounds like a porn addict. I would dodge that bullet like there is no tomorrow. The longer you let these situations go on for the harder they usually are to get out of. Your body already told you what it thinks of this guy. It shut down and t…
/r/askFDS16/05/21 09:51 AM
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Looks like she broke up with him. I feel bad for her. She needs some FDS in her life. She is pretty and it so obvious from her tiktoks she has bad self confidence - posting videos in a bikini top which is way too small and wearing a playboy hoodie. Like sis you don't need that and to do that. You are pretty both with and without makeup. Men will still tear you down. Believe in yourself and stop doing anything for their gaze. I wish girls like her would focus on their female following instead and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:35 PM
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Exactly! Women have been conditioned into accepting this shit. But once you open your eyes there are no closing em again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:59 PM
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Same sis. Even when I was a student I have never ever lived like that. My apartment is my sanctuary. Cheap furniture and decorations are available so many places. Ikea has a good selection which can be matched with pieces from other places. But they just don't put in any effort... now I have a more industrial feel going on with plants and some witchy stuff. I like burning sage and have beautiful stones and crystals I collect. I can't fathom men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:58 PM
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How fucking pathetic. Imagine posting a picture of this online. He should be ashamed. So fucking sad to be this much of a cheap loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:03 AM
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First thought when I see something like this is that is probably a fake profile. Because most attractive men seem to not use tinder. I am biased
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:59 AM
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💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:56 AM
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How are anyone dating the equivalent of a yeti?? I am pretty sure these fantasy creatures would probably be cleaner than this caveman. So fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:49 PM
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Good on you! It is also a certain way to prolong and live a healthy good life. NVM will literally drain the life force of women leading to early deaths and various diseases - the stress of living with these men is a real threat to our lives. I am so proud of you. You will do great things I am sure. 👏👏💐😊 now you got a whole life to live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:17 PM
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Today I received an email from her with an amends and an apology saying that I was right, that I was just looking for what was best for her and she was defensive. I'm pleasantly surprised because it also gives me hope pickmes can change their ways and see the light eventually. I think the key is doing it once and then following through with action even to the point of cutting someone off if they continue or else it's not really a boundary is it? Yeah I think a huge insight of all of this is: no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:51 PM
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Time to NOPE out of there sis, it is a bad bad situation all around.
/r/askFDS13/05/21 08:48 PM
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It is why I don't go on those relationship subs anymore. The stupidity is off the charts, I can't deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:00 PM
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I want there to be organizations in the wealthy countries supporting these women and helping to rescue them that we can donate to. This is vile and monstrous what happened to them. I feel so privileged in comparison. Is there nowhere to donate to these causes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:28 PM
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What a fucking psycho. The passive aggressive "K" Then you politely respond to his shittyness and then he just fucking goes nuts. You need to block these people from your life. I hope you dont have the same social circle, but he seems insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:14 PM
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Very much this! A lot of these problems stem from not enforcing rules and boundaries early on and not teaching kids that they need to put in an effort regularly. Yes training is more work than just doing the dishes, but then you end up with situations like this when you absolutely need help and the kids feel no obligation to step up. IF kids learn early on there are consequences to them not doing their part, then you will not have this problem with adults. A lot of the parents do not set hard bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:50 PM
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The problem is that these women tend to be soft touches. They’d rather mope around feeling taken advantage of, rather than getting a steel spine. It starts when the kids are young. They’ll express a boundary to the kids, like “stop running around” or “put that down” they may even holler, but they won’t DO anything to really enforce it. I have seen it time and time again. So the kids learn that they can pretty much do whatever they want once mom finishes hollering, she won’t actually enforce cons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:49 PM
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tell yourself every single day in the mirror "I Am beautiful, I am worthy, I deserve love and I love myself". EVERY SINGLE DAY.Stop looking for flaws and start looking for beauty in yourself.
/r/askFDS13/05/21 03:52 PM
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Ugh my dad used to walk 10-20 meters ahead of my mum, while she had 2 young kids in tow. And then he would turn around and whistle like calling a dog to heel. It is exactly how I view interactions like that, the men view women as "lesser" so they can pull all this kind of shit. The amount of women commenting similar stories in the comment section is staggering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:10 AM
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Unfortunately I think this the reality for all women. Men are subpar beings who act out with violence at every turn. The ratio of good men to bad/abusive men is too damn little. There are way too few decent men out there and too many entitled dangerous scrotes. I hope they get theirs and there will be a judgment day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:53 AM
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🤣🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:51 AM
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Men "the logical and rational sex". It is the lie of the fucking century. The amount of mantrums they throw is embarrassing. She wrote this book and they flipped out. So pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:50 AM
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Yeah it aggrevates me that women feel like we get say no because we don't know what kind of psycho we are dealing with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:06 PM
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All I’m saying is that it’s hard to judge. Sometimes I don’t like running side by side with people for various reasons. There’s a million reasons why they may have done that, for all you know he was running ahead of her so that if he hit rocks or uneven ground (since it’s hiking territory) he would know first and prevent her from injury. The situation doesn’t immediately ring LVM behavior to me. Sis, you are sitting on FDS arguing about a situation that is quite literally something MANY women ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:31 PM
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Approving this because it is a hot mess and you really need FDS. Cut contact with this guy right now, block/delete/move on. Read the handbook. This is a whole dumpsterfire. Also look into therapy, we all benefit a lot from therapy when it comes to unhealthy attachment models.
/r/askFDS12/05/21 09:24 PM
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I met a couple of guys who are "best friends" with some ex. And try to "stay friends" with all of them. Of course I don't want someone who hates their exes, but this is a huge red flag too imho. It absolutely is a big ol red flag. A healthy guy is friendly with his ex (if they parted on decent terms). Like my partner is friendly with his ex, we say hello to her if we run into her when we are out and do small talk for awhile, but they literally never talk otherwise. She seems like a lovely lady a…
/r/askFDS12/05/21 09:21 PM
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Literally just did this today at the gym. Two old scrotes where orbiting around me. I just completely ignored them, did not look at them once and turned my face into one of disgust so they all know they ain't shit. I am just wondering if a guy invades your space in public (like at a cafe) if the best thing would be to tell him to fuck off? I am sick of men getting away with bullshit such as this. I am often afraid of doing things like because of assault etc. but I am also tired of being a pushov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:15 PM
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Exactly, I just take delightful glee in how male depravity got turned to her and our advantage. I love when men being assholes backfires in their faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:12 PM
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How rude. I am so sorry this happened to you, I am glad you are here now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:16 PM
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Amen! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:04 PM
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I think this is a very common experience for women worldwide, it is why I thought about it, talked about it and made this post. To validate these feelings, because it is a natural thing to be uspet about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:23 PM
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How do you know they hadn’t agreed prior that he can run a bit ahead because they move at a different pace? Let us say for arguments sake this is true, what exactly do one gain from CONSTANTLY keeping the same pace just 5 meters ahead? I mean but really. If you run faster you do not keep the 5 meters constantly, then you would just run and meet up after (if it was agreed to). It is quite literally pointless, because you are still keeping the same pace, just with 5 meters between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:22 PM
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I’m really struggling to empathize with these privileged, consenting, only fans sex workers lately. It’s really hard for me to maintain any semblance of sympathy for them even though I know the exploitation that led them there. But at this point, I feel like if you’re complicit in behaviors that harm other women, and you attack women who tell you the ways in which you’re harming them, I’m comfortable cutting the sympathy cord and directing my energy towards the sex workers who were trafficked in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:12 PM
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aw well F me. I thought it was recent since it popped in the feed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:47 PM
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Yeah apparently. She had the pictures plastered all over her twitter page. A lot of porn on twitter too. But if someone misgender another they get banned.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:27 PM
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I am so sorry. I can just imagine the shock you feel right now, literally just walking and minding your own business and you get attacked. I read the other day on twitter how a woman got attacked on her morning walk, a man drove up in a car, jumped her and dry humped her. Then got back in his car and drove away. I fucking hate men so so much. How the fuck do we stop these sick scrotes? I want cameras everywhere so we can blast the men for these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:12 PM
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Oof Well then in that case, I guess they've been conditioned to think they need to be hyper promiscuous since society treats ugly women like dirt, which is honestly unfair--but of course, catering to men and becoming a prostitute will not give these women any more power or dignity... Yeah, I think "ugly" or "overweight" women deserve just as much love and respect as anyone else, but them calling us ugly looking like that was just too ironic for me to pass up on not commenting it. I should share …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:56 PM
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Also it literally does not mean he is faster than her, keeping the same pace but constantly ahead is just a dickass power move, nothing else. I would never do that to my partner if we are out walking or exercising together- EVER. It is so disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:54 PM
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But they didn't even look like that. Granted I cba clicking on all their accounts. But several of them literally looked like fat clowns. Not even "instagram model" kind of look. But literally awful and trashy. Like really really bad. Like if you took a fat scrote and put a wig on him. Double chins and all....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:18 PM
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It is like these prostitutes believe men don't lie to them. He is literally lying to the woman In his life; but no- lying to a prostitute. HE WOULD NEVER 💀🥴 he is a dirty lying cheater giving prostitutes STD's. But lying about his wife would be taking it too far. The pickme women always this narrative of the other women being the villain. They are the ones with a shit ton of internalized misogyny making other women into evil shrews.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:56 PM
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I just remembered there are sometimes rare comments left by former SWs here on this sub. They have confirmed that the happy hooker is a lie. She also said that the fact that she saw the depth of male depravity, she was not ever able to have a normal relationship. I will try to dig for that comment again. Women like that have all my empathy and respect. But they are not the ones commenting on twitter threads like that, the sex workers in the thread were just being pure nasty. Someone talked about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:06 PM
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I really wish those with privilege would use their privilege to uplift others. the ugly truth is: they don't care, They really don't. If you read the replies it a bunch of narcisstic kinkmeisha's who does not give a flying fuck about anyone but themselves. Very upsetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:49 AM
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All I could think of as I read their replies was 'darvo, darvo, darvo'. Almost no rebuttals to your points, they only throw insults and attacks. *to those wondering, DARVO is a common manipulation strategy and means: deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender. Spot on! Thank you for this. Darvo is so on point for that thread. Perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:25 AM
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“I’m healing these poor men with my pussy” Also the narrative of how men will lie in literally any other situation, but to sexworkers, they would be honest. Like give me a fucking break, a lot of cases the wife is sucking his dick on the regular and he will still go to a prostitute and be like "oh my poor wife never sucks my dick" or the other scenario where he is doing nothing at home and leaving all the labor on his poor wife who is too exhausted to fuck him. Then again it is the "boohoo poor …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:24 AM
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Agree, and the more normalized it is the more men will be conditioned into thinking that all women are available for sexual activity for the "right price," and the price will go down the more mainstream it becomes (content on Onlyfans is becoming more extreme but for lower prices due to competition, sad to see many young women essentially degrading themselves for less than minimum wage). Guys have already offered to pay me for nudes and I dress like a hobo and wear a mask and hat wherever I go, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:19 AM
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Exploited people can be assholes too, sometimes. Being an asshole doesn't make them any less exploited, but at the same time, being exploited doesn't make you not-an-asshole. 🙌👌👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:17 AM
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They're brainwashed pickmes who think being attractive makes you powerful. Now THAT'S what I call a bad take! Like it even matters in the grand scheme of things, but it is SO laughable because a large majority of them have pictures in their profile and they look like SHIT, ranging from cave trolls/ogres to perfecting that drugged out prostitute look. They have the NERVE to come for other women, while looking like that themselves. LAUGHABLE. Not that it would make it more okay just because they w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:16 AM
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One of the top accounts on only fans is a 20 year old girl, who is taking the ever living hell beat out of her, while men urinate on her, stick their disgusting D's in all her "places" till she screams and cries. She has marks all over her body and is being abused like it is a video from a torture session in a Mideastern jail. I could not stomach seeing the video's I saw some pictures from her twitter, and I noped out there so fucking fast. I Could not stomach seeing it. But sure "so empowering"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:58 AM
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I went there. Boiled my blood. Most of them answered exactly how a scrote would. They were purposely were acting obtuse and never really gave any responses. Pretty much every single reply was some dumbass remark was being made, while they just completely ignored the point. Also insulting FDS twitter, making it sound like every woman who speaks out against them must be some frigid troll, who hates sex. They do not like the argument, so in comes the ad hominem attacks. I truly believe privileged s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:56 AM
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"Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers" OMG same sis. So much same. Thank you for making this thread. Reading the replies and replying to the twitter thread made me lose empathy and compassion for the privileged sexworkers. Their tweets are basically a barrage of narcisstic insults, while they brag about fucking other women's husbands and partners. I have seen several sex workers being devastated when their own partners cheated on them and abused them, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:54 AM
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I am happy all women are rejecting this loathsome scrote. He is so fucking obnoxious and it shows. I hope no woman ever falls prey to this psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:46 AM
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That's all just a bunch of Boomer logic garbage:"Stop playing the victim." Says the abusive Boomer parroted from their abusive parent(s)."Get your shit together." Says the Boomer who didn't leave the next generation anything."Blah blah, dear." Says the condescending Boomer who in dumber than.. everyone lol."You thought life owes you something?" Says the Boomer with no apologies."Wake up, this is not Disneyland." Says the Boomer to justify abuse."Snowflake!" Says the Boomer who thinks that callin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:55 AM
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lmao I love that he proved her right. He got so upset she said some men were the most dangerous thing and he decided that because that upset him, that it's a fact she's wrong and sensitive. Because he knew he was one of them 🤣👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:54 AM
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rofl. That is so ironic indeed. 8 Years of girlfriend and now he built a business while she is left with nothing. If she wanted to marry this scrote she should have done that 8 years ago lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:48 PM
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She is the classic definition of a "frenemy". She is no friend of yours. She made her bed, let her lie in it. It is not your job to be her therapist and help her. She is using you for free emotional labor and a ear to cry to. She seems to be dragging you down with her and causing you emotional stress. I think the best thing you can do is block and remove her from your life. There is no point in explained things like this to people like that, she will never be there for you. She seems very fake
/r/askFDS11/05/21 08:18 PM
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I approved the post because I think you need some advice. This whole situation sounds like a massive red flag for me. Why is he so busy dating someone new so shortly after ending a relationship with? " He has a condo (technically renting from his parents), a full-time job, wants marriage/family, etc. We have a second date tonight. " - are not personality traits, these are just financial stats. Have you read the FDS handbook? Because you really need to. You will save yourself a lot of trouble thi…
/r/askFDS11/05/21 05:35 PM
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They are so fucking sad it hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:32 PM
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Truth bomb here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:31 PM
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her mother is not in the picture. I followed her videos when it came out, but her mom is schizophrenic and stuff, so this girl literally has none but her boyfriend. It made me sad for her in another way, because I truly hope her boyfriend does not abuse her too. She also talked about how they slept in the same room and she was on sleep medication, and would wake up to her dad being in her bed. So she is not sure if he raped her.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:05 PM
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She did a follow up video where her dad had looked up porn with a teenager being raped by a Man of Color, after she had disclosed to him she had been raped by a guy like that. This man is sick in the head. She lives with her boyfriend now, and is no longer talking to her dad. But these videos made me so sad for her and disgusted at the world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:03 PM
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You have not been on FDS long enough to be an approved commentor. You need to be there longer and have a flair more than newbie
/r/askFDS11/05/21 12:58 PM
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Don't waste so much energy on rejection. Just say "I don't think it is going to work out" or "I dont think we are a match". Then block and delete. A lot of the time you will end up getting a whole essay back, so it is better to just do a preventive block. There is no reason to listen to a guy going off on you because you rejected. Keep it short. Do not wait for a reply.
/r/askFDS11/05/21 12:56 PM
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Yeah Ted Bundy was ugly with a unibrow and he literally targeted nurses/teachers and women who were likely to help someone in need- Women who had EMPATHY. It is SUCH a media lie that they said "oh he was charming and handsome". BS! Male projection once again. He was no freaking Zac Efron. He was just a psychotic scrote who targeted vulnerable women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:44 AM
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How can she not be repulsed by this shitstain? I am guessing she is traumabonded. But I am psychically repulsed just reading about this guy. He is so fucking nasty. I am betting this guy probably doesn't wash his own ass and he is gross af. How women put up with these men. Let him rot. Sis can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:14 PM
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I think corporate greed will destroy the environment way before that and end life as we know it. It is mostly lead by men ofcourse, but it is going to destroy our planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:18 PM
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THis guy 100% watches incest porn. So fucking gross. OP needs to Fucking break up with this predatory scrote clown already. These people should never ever ask main reddit for advice. They are pornsick losers. Bottomfeeders. I dont ask a bunch of pedophiles on advice on children either: so dont ask main reddit for relationship advice either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:16 PM
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Dad bods are disgusting. 👏🤷‍♀️ I dont care. It is why I chose a fit and attractive partner. I care about how I look why I would I then chose someone who doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:46 PM
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pfffft. No sex workers is ever going to do this. I love these tweets because it exposes the hypocrisy of sex workers- the privileged ones. The sex trafficked women, are just victims of abuse and rape. They are never going to help marginalized women, the women who needs to read these tweets the most, does not give a flying fuck about other women, that is their whole shtick. I will eat my hat the day I encounter anyone who vehemently defend their "sex work" and is an actual good person. The ones w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:00 PM
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"He said he doesn't use porn in a relationship" neeeerph hell no. 🚨🚨 any man who is okay with porn is low value. Jesus. Look at the industry. Time to educate yourself and read up on these things. Being okay with someone using porn at all is a red flag. Nope nope nope. Any person with an ounce of empathy will know why porn is awful all around. The industry is rotten to the core; sex trafficking ties; CP and it rots the brain Hell no
/r/askFDS08/05/21 06:05 PM
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😍🥰 great minds think alike
/r/askFDS08/05/21 04:37 PM
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Why do you call it for a high value man and then a high value female? I have only seen this language used on redpill forums.
/r/askFDS08/05/21 04:29 PM
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Why do you call your friend a HVF - what is that?
/r/askFDS08/05/21 04:06 PM
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The thing is, I totally would have after like 1-2 more dates and if things kept going as well as I thought they were. Why? No but seriously ask yourself- why? To me you seem very much stuck in the pickme mindset. You want to have a partner SO BAD and it shows. I know this can be tough to hear, but I will just be blunt with you because I think this will benefit the most from this. LVM can smell this from a mile away, your description sounds exactly like that, they want to use you for sex, not com…
/r/askFDS08/05/21 10:30 AM
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I would definitely not go to any activity date as a part of the first few dates -no way. You can't do proper vetting in those places, those dates are for later on. How about raw food? In my city we have some raw food places and it is listed the ingredients. Most are salad based kind and such, I dont know if that works? I think if it is a good place, they can custom make your order. Otherwise, I think coffee dates sounds like an excellent idea because he actually suggested dinner first. Best of l…
/r/askFDS08/05/21 10:20 AM
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How personal are you allowed to get in your speech? I would say, say it like it is, so they can know how it is truly like. Within talking about other points, I would definitely point out the backside of these things. I work in IT as well. I would watching Hanna Gadsby's Nanette, it is stand up but I think it can be an inspiration on how to talk about difficult topics- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6mX5Ryq8Rs it is on netflix. Prepare with some TedTalks too, a lot of good women there giving sp…
/r/askFDS08/05/21 10:11 AM
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It is a trauma response. It becomes like a drug and it is most similarly described as "love addiction" it is a very unhealthy way to live. And I would advice any woman to take a step back and look at it truly; also if you enjoy his company; keep dating and vetting him. The spark as she said above is not actually real. Most of the time we can be superficially attracted to something because it has some sort of "symbol" for us. Like perhaps it was a guy you had a crush on earlier in life who was ac…
/r/askFDS07/05/21 11:20 PM
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🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:53 PM
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I can't even watch this video, it is so upsetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:16 AM
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I actually agree. I have had posts removed lately because they were seen as "shit posts". I did think they offered actual advice, one was spotting this predatory guy. So I do not see the purpose of this post? we know men are shit, it does not lead to anything other than getting angry at the depravity of men. In the end we all know this, we know this things, we see it. I think if we want FDS to move forward it is better to limit these type of posts. Nothing good comes from them at all. I honestly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:14 AM
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So she can get off him… bc he’s a lazy fuck and and makes her ride him, on top of everything else?! Got it. Jeeeepp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:10 AM
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"Dont know what to do next" LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:07 AM
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Cancer is such a bitch, I lost my HV husband to it. HV men are rare but they do exist. I don't think it;s a one size fits all situation either, my husband and I were nerds all the way. HV is more about compatibility, love, and respect. If a man makes you feel loved the way you want to be loved, then he is HV. Needless to say after losing my husband I am now WGTOW and have decided that I'll wait till I'm reunited with my husband again., whether that be in heaven or my ashes join his. I feel the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:06 AM
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What a fucking scrote. JESUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:03 AM
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Mine truly wouldn’t have pissed on me if I were on fire. I’d divorce him again in a minute because the first time felt so wonderful. 🤣😂😂🙌🙌🙌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:01 AM
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he's in jail?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:02 PM
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yeah and I also sit here reading the article and think "fuck men, fuck these fucking loathesome creatures" - they don't get why women on FDS hate them,. It's MiSanDrY, waaaaaaah. Nah, you are just garbage people, who need to take a deep long look in the mirror. FUCK THEM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:35 PM
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Their love language = their dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:27 PM
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🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️I truly do not see the problem in declining birthrates, the world is over populated. I think it is great. We will just have to adept with our standards of living- so what. The planet is on the knees because of humans, I hope it keep declining for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:26 PM
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What a freaking rolemodel and a queen. I love it. Female "promiscuity" is still about catering to men and giving men what they want. Giving someone what they want is never going to lead to liberation and empowerment for women, never has and never will. What she is talking about will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:04 PM
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sis, seriously shut up if you do not know what you are talking about. For real. The tik tok was based an a study, if you want to know these things, you can look it up. But take your word vomit somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:16 PM
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So he cared more about his erection than her feelings. Ofcourse! Some men get off on women in pain and crying. Sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:02 PM
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Yeah self-sabotage is a very lame excuse, and is avoiding accountability which makes him untrustworthy. They always have some lame ass excuse. I swear. And he is 50 years old 🤢🤢
/r/askFDS06/05/21 09:31 AM
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Thank god! This guy needs to be dumped like yesterday. Controlling and entitled when he was 0 fucking money. She needs to dump him. Men who live at home with their parents 🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:53 PM
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I could probably crush diamonds in my butthole just reading that. By the time he took out his dick I'd be ready to call the police haha. 🤣🤣🤣😂 Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:30 PM
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Thank you! A LOT of women do this with guys who give off a good vibe. He was a very nerdy single dad with 2 daughters, so I saw the situation (and his interest) as being more genuine than it was. Apparently not genuine at all. Glad I weeded him out instead of wasting my time, but still disappointed that he misrepresented his intentions. YIKES! He was 100% angling for some easy sex. What a fucking scrote. I hate that men take advantage on kindness in this manner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:26 PM
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I've always been very empathetic towards men because I have a kind, loving brother who respects women, and I was raised by a wonderful dad. It's just crazy to me that men can be this manipulative. It is so sad and disappointing. I think we have all been there at one point or another, but after countless experiences with predatory and ruthless men, you just become jaded. Besides remember your safety always comes before their feelings. I wish it was different, I truly do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:22 PM
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Adding to my playbook! Never ever again. Good! seriously I am so relieved it turned out well for you, but a lot of charming and "nice" men are rapists who use this to lure women. Rapists are rarely the creepy dude hiding on a street corner, it is often the charming, smarmy guy on the date, who does not take no for an answer. Stay safe! Do not ever let men use your niceness against you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:19 PM
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This is an act that predators and rapists perfect. This could have ended SO badly. Your safety is more important that anything. ☝☝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:18 PM
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Yeah, no lie, I was scared for you reading your post and relieved to see you got him out of there. Same. Even the ones who seem "nice" and "charming" can be so sinister. They can be rapists or murders. We just do not know. Ladies always stay safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:17 PM
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omg! excellent advice. After she rejected him, definitely a possibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:08 PM
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Wait wait - so she bought it, but if they moved in together, does that mean he is entitled to half the value of the condo if he moves out? She is paying everything, but I have heard about this sort of thing before. Where the fact they moved in at the same time means he is entitled to half....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:33 PM
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We all want to bet this "experienced" old porn addict is SHIT in bed. All they have is the AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:54 PM
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Part of me is worried that I'll try to leave only to find out that I want to be with him Sis wtf no. I am so disgusted reading your description of him. NONE wants to be with this piece of shit. I wish I had advice to offer, but holy shit. You need to get a job, but also CONTACT The shelter even if you broke contract, but dont do it again. DO NOT GO BACK TO THIS MAN once you are free. For gods sake.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 04:24 PM
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This guy is abusive. Really abusive. Everything he does and says to you and putting you down. SO SO abusive.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 04:19 PM
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I meant taken at two different times. Wouldn't surprise me if men like him lurked at different gyms. They need to be outed for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:12 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 also clearly he is not at the gym to work out. Look how fucking fat he is. All they have is the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:57 PM
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I would love to see all these men with"great skin texture" because I don't know them. The women I know however- much better skin. The guy is still funny though 👌😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:56 PM
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Smoking weed regularly and drinking regularly is low value. Any form of substance abuse is. It is really as easy as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:19 PM
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I feel like a lot of libfems has some hidden agenda to make other women as miserable as they are. They do not fool me for a second. It is like they feel degraded, used and discarded so they preach this stuff to younger women- almost as if out of jealousy? I think it is quite sinister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:25 AM
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Honestly a lot of people who smoke weed are total losers, who accomplish nothing in life. Like if someone smokes like 1 per year or something, I would be fine with it. I have friends who very rarely smokes. But people who use it regularly, hell no. I have had social circles with people who smoked both when I was younger and now, and as I said- they are just such losers. Smoking their problems away, instead of getting therapy for their issues. So I would never ever date someone who smokes weed of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:45 AM
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It is all a patriarchal lie that is being shoved down our throats. Like being rejected for sex is the worst rejection: what a load of bullshit. Emotional is so much worse, but all men can do is think with their dicks. They really are a sad fucking load of people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:12 AM
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I saw that one. Only light is: Those commentors got banned. The most upvoted comments all kinkshamed, and I am here for it. Let us bring kinkshaming back. All these sick men deserve to be kinkshamed to straight to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:07 AM
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IT is scientifically so much easier for men to lose weight than women, so men being fat is just pure fucking laziness. The fucking audacity of men. I swear. Yet women do not spend so much time hating on fat men. But the fat men should be fucking shamed, because all they have is AUDACITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:05 AM
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The porn addict song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-zC46Tiygk I want to send this one to all porn addicts who defend porn and the porn industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:04 AM
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Did your co worker respond to that email? The audacity honestly. I think someone should be on thin ice after that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:01 PM
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Do your research. I really cba explaining it to you. Why do you think men do sexual violence? Because it escalates by porn use and sexual imagery. It is proven by researchers and science. Why do you think there is such a fucking problem in society these days? Because of all these things combined. Pornsick zombies will attack all women no matter how they dress; because they view us as objects. But putting more sexual imagery is not going to help the problem. As I said gasoline on a bonfire. Objec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:55 PM
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Rapists are not apes. They know what they're doing, they choose to do it. Women's bodies are not the cause of violence against women. That is actually not true. If you check the tiktok posted a while back, studies LITERALLY show that a woman dressing "provocatively" makes men register them as an object. She broke it down very good in her tiktok. That does not mean it is women's fault that men behave that way, but you HAVE to know how men think. Dismissing this does massive harm to women. We have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:57 PM
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Break up with this fucking rapist! 🚨🚨🚨🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:40 PM
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“Let’s turn it around and be empowered in that. Showing your body and showing your skin – or not – should not take any respect away from you.” It is such a shit talking point from Billie. Women can toot that horn all they want, men will STILL NEVER listen to this. Women being sexualised is the reason why we get assaulted/raped/murdered. They view us as objects, not people. So billie saying "I am empowered by being a sl*t" - so freaking not. Men are apes, the hopes of the large majority of them w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:08 PM
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It's so sad because I found that seeing her NOT wear revealing outfits empowering and revolutionary. Same! I am not even that young lol. I am in my 30's and I thought it so refreshing to see a young artist being a role model in that regard. Young girls needed something to look up to, but now I just feel this ain't it sis in regards to Billie. She is and has always been a gorgeous girl, men's opinion seriously does not mean shit. She does not need to prove this to the world. She could have taken …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:03 PM
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Well it doesn't HAVE to be, but what do we know about most men? They are stingy AF! So they try to do a lot of things to get away with the lowest cash/effort possible. I honestly think most guys would have the audacity to show up with some sandwiches and a thermos with coffee. As a first date, he doesn't know you or what you like, so it seems real weird. Later on in the relationship I would say, it is fine and normal. But a first date? Nope. I also had two weirdos who both suggested romantic pic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:02 PM
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I'm once again mentioning the radical feminist site ovarit that a bunch of us made when all the (female led) feminist subs got banned last year. All current "feminist" subs are moderated by MALES. Pm me for invite codes! Well last I heard there are quite a few men on Ovarit as well? and when this was called out the users got silenced. I am not a fan of that approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:26 PM
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Block & delete. I honestly feel the AUDACITY of him asking you to come to his house. OH HELL NO. I wish I could insert a GIF here to show how "OH HELL NO!" I get from this vibe. Also picnic date as a first date (🚩) Wait till things open up again is my suggestion and wait for a guy who properly takes you out on a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:03 PM
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He’s now talking about me coming to his house because he can’t come to mine (I live at home). I’ve always said that I’d never go to someone’s house because of my own safety and I still stand by it. Yikes. I hope this not sound rude; but as an long time FDS member you should not accept this (and I also feel, been around long enough to know this?-again I am sorry if this comes off as bitchy, but I am just a little baffled, if a newbie had written this I would understand) The fact that he suggested…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:38 AM
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how she is stressed planning the wedding and running their household while he "stays overnight in a hotel near work" and his commute is maybe 1.5 hours with traffic 🚩🚩 This dude is cheating on her 100%. Notice the whole "shit aint gonna change" yeah that broski is cheating on her and his friends know. Jesus Christ what a sad couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:34 AM
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AS IF! "the night before I was gonna propose". What a load of BS. FUCK THIS GUY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:19 AM
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Fuck these men. Seriously. Take a fucking cooking class. It is not rocket science. Stop fucking pandering to incompetent scrotes- Pickme idiocy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:32 PM
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https://www.billboard.com/articles/columns/hip-hop/8455742/azealia-banks-vs-the-world-comprehensive-social-media-feud-history also I mean her list is looooooooooong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:30 PM
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Well I think a lot of people call Drake crazy tbh. I have heard it A LOT. I think most of the hip hop world knows Drake is unhinged, also the whole Rihanna deal. That boy is crazyyyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:28 PM
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well starting drama with people just for internet fame is kind of nuts. I don't like her because of it, but her burns are sick. When she was wearing that bunny face in the insults videos- so tacky. But I do appreciate her roasting Elon Musk because he is such a fucking scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:30 PM
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I howled reading this- ABUSE VICTIM!?!?! ABUSE VICTIM?! Are you FUCKING KIDDING ME?! Piece of shit. The fucking AUDACITY! I did the "OOOOOOOOOOOH sound with my mouth reading this". This whole post is revolting. After 20 years what kind of fucking career aspects does she have? Working at wal-mart or some other dead end job. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:42 PM
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I am pretty sure she would dump his ass when she finds out he has been sharing her nudes with his friends who have been sitting and wanking to em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:58 AM
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The fact you feel attacked by my statement says more about you than it does about me. Why are you here on FDS? because you clearly don't understand the concepts. You do seem like a very sad person indeed and I am just done responding to your idiocy. When you trusting your husband to the moon and back bites you in the ass, that is on you, not everyone else. Stop giving shit advice to other women just because you want to get picked sis. Enjoy your pornsick husband. You do realize the brain doesn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:33 PM
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Also, why would a man need a picture anyway 🤷‍♀️ In this pornified age, there is no reason why a man should be having naked pictures of his wife. There is no female benefit gained from handing over that kind of leverage to someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:07 PM
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how does sending your husband of 12 years a nude photo make you a sad woman? Self-respect. There is no reason for me to go into a long tirade about it, but you respect yourself enough you do not share something which can backfire in your face SEVERELY. No matter how much you trust someone, you should never ever share something like that. Have you seen how a large majority of men act in a divorce? It is all over this sub. So yeah, it is SAD when you have so little self-respect that you want to sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:04 PM
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The ugly guys have the most audacity. I swear. Just entertain uggers, that is what I learned. My current partner is the best looking guy of all the men I dated, he is also the kindest, the most sensitive and emphatic guy I have ever met. All his guy friends are always raving about how handsome and kind he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:49 PM
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She should not have responded. She should just have blocked him as soon as he told her to pay for her sandwhich. Do not entertain men like, or give them your time or energy. She is going off on a rant, which makes her look like an idiot. If you just block/delete you can just have queen energy all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:35 PM
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I am sorry you had sex with him, UGH! I am so sorry you went through that. What a nasty scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:33 PM
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What the hell! wow, what a date from hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:19 PM
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If a man ever started saying "your labia" ANYTHING, I would break up with him ON THE SPOT. Do not start talking about my labia or shit like that. BOY BYE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:31 PM
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🙄🙄🙄😐😐 It really reminds me on fucking stupid the large majority of the population is. Like this the poster and all these commentators. The stupidity in this post is off the fucking charts. God. He also wrote the post in the tone as "everyone tell me what an awesome guy I am"- no you sound like a ape. Go back to the zoo. Also "read on reddit" sure buddy, not while browsing these NSFW you spend all your time on... Men like him are so barf worthy. Imagine being married to him. LOL. What a sad woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:47 PM
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Make sure the man that left for health reasons that you’re replacing did not have them caused by stress at work . Did he also work with this crazy guy? No job is worth your mental health . I would be willing to go out on a limb and say that is the reason that guy was out sick. After working with this sociopath. They literally DRAIN YOU DRY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:39 PM
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I wonder how many TRP males are salesmen or fall for sales tactics like Amway or time shares, etc. Jason and Adam were both salesmen. I think all of the "redpilled men" fall easily for sales tactics, it is why they are there. They completely lack critical thinking and view women as a subpar species which they "spin like plates" and "pump and dump". So gross. Salesmen- YUCK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:30 PM
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I see why it is so important to BLOCK and delete, because there is so often a hail-mary scramble to hold on to me when they haven’t kept my interest or if they suffocated me with too much control. And it’s because of exactly what you said — they’re focused on strategy get their own needs met. It’s all about control rather than connecting, whereas female strategy isn’t about trying to own, control and force a man to meet our needs, but rather to block the time-wasting controlling men to make room…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:18 PM
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This show was pure male projection and fantasy. Written by a man. Directed by a man. There’s the “desperate girl” pitted against the “cool girl”. Noa was just so non-materialistic and laid back and ~not like other girls~ 🙄🤮Both of the main female characters are two-dimensional projections of women. Written. By. MEN. Please do not take these female characters as actual representations of how women are—take them as a cautionary tale that this is really how most men think. Yeah, he rebounded with t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:42 AM
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What a sad sad woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:40 AM
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10 minutes later I receive an email from one of them telling me that it's nice to finally meet me, and he can't wait to get to know me. BARF! They really fucking think we are that fucking stupid don't they? It is so obvious they are fishing, but they do it in a way where you can't complain about it. So gross. Also why can't he wait to get to know you? Oh right, because you are pretty. He doesn't know you after 10minutes. What a load of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:26 AM
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you need to start reading literature on controlling and abusive people. It literally answers the question "why does he do that?". His actions are not confusing actually, because he is an abusive person. He lied to you, and all his "kind words" do not mean shit. Reading what you wrote I just sat back and though "OH HELL NO!" to that whole situation. Time to educate yourself, learn and grow. Read the literature, now.
/r/askFDS29/04/21 11:18 AM
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(he is a life coach), and also extremely focused on keeping fit and active (working out, meditating, mindfulness) This CAN be a red flag. A lot of these types I have encountered seem to have some cluster B personality disorder. This does not have to be the case with this guy, but keep this in the back on your mind. Also do some research into this so you can spot the red flags easily. Very often a certain type of man get into this because they want to have a rotation of women and want to be "ador…
/r/askFDS29/04/21 11:09 AM
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​ Oh thank you for the tip! will check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:22 AM
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It also really puts toxic relationships into perspective, when I see my friend suffering. I am helping her leave her super toxic boyfriend, but it is babysteps because she is traumabonded. Her relationships from before was even more toxic, so it makes women like her stay. I did the quiz now as how I would score on their relationship, because I know a lot of the problems and she would score a 55.... We were out for lunch and shopping yesterday and he ALWAYS text her when she is out, several times…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:01 AM
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The fact that people who scored 0 or under the double digits apparently exist was a rude wake up call. Just took the test for fun, I was being 100% honest in it and I scored a 0 on my relationship. I think it is a good reminder for women to take even if they have done vetting, just to "check yourself". If I had to do the score for one of my friends, her relationship would score in double digits for sure. But I dont even think she would answer honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:16 AM
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He was abusive for sure. The problem with abuse like this, is it is very covert and hard to spot if you are not trained/educated in psychology. Lucky for us, we have so much literature available to us these days. He wanted to financially control you, and why he wanted you to be SAHM. It is quite sinister once you wake up to these things, I am glad you know better now. Also therapy with these abusive people, as you said, is just big NO. It just gives them extra tools to abuse. I always recommend …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:00 AM
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If you send him the stuff he will see it as an invitation to start bothering you again. Just donate it. Dont remind him of anything.
/r/askFDS28/04/21 08:32 PM
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Apparently he fucked a 1000 prostitutes. But marrying one is taking this too far! Also that woman is not a psychopath she is just mentally ill. But I think it is projection. I honestly 100% believe he is the psychopath in the equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:57 PM
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waaaaaaaait, I missed that lol. I was not paying accurate attention LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:08 PM
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The hilarious part is: in this case he is 100% the problem. He is a misogynistic swine and met a woman at one his hell-hole conventions, SHOCKER that she turns out to be nuts. She clearly has many mental issues, one of them going to place to be a pickme to men who HATE women. Then you truly do hate yourself. This retard Johnsson then goes on a mantrum online and makes lectures talking about this "evil evil woman" and puts it all online- like dude, you are unhinged. Fucking psycho. I can tell you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:05 PM
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Wait, he did? LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:59 PM
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unfortunately I think these psychos would show up and start murdering us. This is the world we live in. The most misogynistic assholes can hold conferences where they compare feminism to the KKK. But women talking about standards can't. I fucking HATE that. I hate it SO much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:41 PM
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She needs help. From a professional licensed therapist. wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:12 PM
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Men and libfems freak out when we don't prioritize men or relationships with men. Truer words have not been spoken! They truly hate women, both of those groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:46 AM
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Just watched her videos. Really good! I will practice that "Leave me alone!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:48 PM
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"BuT BdSM Is So HeAlThY" - That community consist of mentally/vulnerable women and sadistic psychotic men who has pickmeisha flying monkeys to do their bidding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:26 PM
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Please please read the gift of fear. Now. That book can save your life. I would honestly suggest talking to someone from a security firm similar to gavin se Becker. Your life may depend on this. No restraining order is going to help if he turns violent. He sounds invested and this can turn dangerous. A piece of paper is not going to help. In most cases when it goes this far the police is not going to help you. I would invest this money in professional help from a private firm. Your life is too i…
/r/askFDS24/04/21 10:42 PM
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They almost had me in the first half, not gonna lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:27 PM
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I dont think they have any women mods. I am not even joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:40 AM
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Yikes 😬 I sincerely doubt even the most pickme woman would swipe on this guy.i am certain he is ugly as fuck too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:37 AM
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If you date a man like this you are so pathetic. It really isn't the flex she thinks it is. Imagine being this dumb and also jumping on the hate the ex gf train. Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:22 PM
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I fucking love Billie Eilish, SO much respect for her and her brother. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:12 PM
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The fact he is already saying things like that to you id really be on the look out for more red flags. When you get to my age you just don't put up with shit like that anymore. After 5 dates. Nah. Also already sleeping with him is a bad bad idea.
/r/askFDS21/04/21 01:02 PM
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Sis he is not high value. Come on now. You are still vetting. Time to read more of FDS.
/r/askFDS21/04/21 12:49 PM
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I cant believe how much hatred the police in the US harbor for PoC. It is so fucking awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:52 AM
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Edit: just realized this study is old, why someone on my Facebook felt the need to share a 12 year old study? Who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️ They needed to justify their porn addictions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:42 PM
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Its your porn addiction you dumb fuck. I hope she divorces him. Honestly. What a fucking clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:23 AM
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Not even the pickme women will fuck this dude, his unwashed ass probably stinks from miles away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:15 AM
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Notice how he changed it to HVF ;: High value female. Not woman 🤦‍♀️ You just know this is one of those incel fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:14 AM
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They stalk FDS but their reading comprehension is a -100.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:14 AM
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Imagine spending so much time stalking a a subreddit like FDS and you still get the basic principles completely wrong. 🤣😂 God, men like him are so fucking stupid it actually hurts me to read it. What is this low IQ ape logic. Dude, you don't even understand the basic principles of FDS. If you are on Reddit you are a low value scrote, HVM does not apply to you!!! None of FDS wants to date you; you pornsick loser. Go back to your MGTOW forum and whine about women some more you sad sack. You are a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:13 AM
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I find it too depressing to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:16 PM
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pickme over 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:49 PM
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real van life people convert their vans into beautiful projects WITH A TOILET and kitchenette. Like WTF. As I said in my other comment, I bet this van looks like the one in breaking bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:47 PM
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Like dude, you are 43 and live in a van. GTFO. Only reason to ever date a guy with a van is if he has a super nice converted van (he built himself) he goes on adventures on; I am guessing this is not it. I am guessing this guy is a hobosexual and the van looks like something out of breaking bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:46 PM
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🤢🤢🤢🤢 also that I once let a guy actually spit on my vagina. He had learned that in porn 💀🥴🥴🥴 past pickme was so fucking sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:52 PM
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She mentions at the end how Lundy has hooked up with a lot of women attending his seminars and work shops! It is unethical at best and extremely sinister at worst. He knows these women are vulnerable but target them anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:20 AM
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If you check the summary of Lundy bancroft book on audible narrated by a woman. She brings up these allegations too. I don't know how Lundy has managed to bury them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:19 AM
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Thank you for sharing and welcome to FDS. It has been the only place where I feel women are truly embraced and heard. I am so glad reading experiences for people deep within the community. I was a part of BDSM in one relationship. He was a sociopath and completely violated my boundaries. I set a hard boundary and he just did it anyway during sex once. It was so fucking disgusting. Just thinking about it now makes me want to vomit. I hate him with all my heart. Sick piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:32 AM
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Came here just to say this. That is some next level bullahit. If porn were still just on a few dirty magazines out society would not be as fucked as it currently is. Porn is available everywhere. I grew up with a porn addicted father who went on all kinds of cheap sites to get porn. But back then it was all behind a pay wall. Now it is just available everywhere. His porn addiction ruined our family and lead to my parents divorce and he emotionally scared his children because I was exposed to por…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:28 AM
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Would never in a million years want to date those misogynistic scrotes. Atleat they are blasting to the world "i am an asshole look at me". Yes thank you Kyle we know you suck; but now everyone else knows it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:42 AM
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Belle delphine is a truly troubled and mentally ill individual. I have suspicions that her boyfriend is behind alot of this stuff and pressuring her into drinking that cool girl kool-aid so she thinks this is normal and love. She did not do porn for a long time and I dont think she planned on it. I honestly think he has brainwashed her. She is a an extremely unwell individual and the world is abusing her self destruction. If she set herself on fire while laughing everyone would be watching and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:07 PM
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This society we live in is going to collapse at some point. It is like we are in a kettle and it is getting closer and closer to boil over. One reason I am still so hesitant about children. I do not want them to grow up in this horrible world the adults have created. It is a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:52 AM
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This logic is in his post 🤡 he didn't even get to know her. So clearly he didn't like her. Yet he is sitting on Reddit making this post. Ladies please remember that men who post on Reddit are literally the bottomfeeding scum. So it paints the most awful picture. The men on reddit are entitled pornaddicts. Because I often need to remind myself that because they are not the men any lady on FDS would ever date. Because otherwise it gets depressing af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:24 AM
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So fucking true. He is not even a person. He is just a face and a name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:41 PM
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Did you see the comments?? Fucking pickme central all being like "ya'll never have jobs before?" I am sitting here like 🙄🙄🙄 I really can't with this level of dumbassery. Mostly women defending it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:39 PM
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Let her die on that hill. She said it "leave us alone we are happy". Leave her alone. Some women do not deserve your energy and she is one of them. She wants to be treated like shit. She can do that. Just don't give them attention. It is not a healthy relationship or healthy people in it. Let them die in their own trash. If i talked to a friend about her abusive relationship and she responded like this pickme there. I would just me ok: bye. I will leave you alone. Block. Delete and move on. Not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:32 PM
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Fucking divorce him. Wtffff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:51 AM
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Hahaha she almost had me in the first half not gonna lie 🤣👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:49 AM
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sounds about right. It is a libfem/pickme galore sub. These people are so damn ignorant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:11 AM
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did you see the backlash they have gotten over this? They are saying this song is racist and queer baiting, because they no longer want to date another white man. People are so overly sensitive, the songs does not men they are going to date PoC or women, simply they are fed up with "white boys". It is like people dont realize that NOT DATING is an actual option and just because women say "fuck white boys" it doesnt mean OMG DATE PoC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:10 AM
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A pickme once did this to me when I was in High school. She called me at like 10 o clock in the evening and asked if I wanted to go out with her. We had clubs where you only had to be 16 to get inside when I was growing up, they just wouldn't serve you alcohol. (had to show ID in the bar). I knew her decently well from school and I thought it would be fun to hang out. So we get to the club, she introduces me to her friends, which is 5 other guys. I don't know any of them. 15 mins later, she just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:28 AM
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IF a guy ever does this to any FDS woman, flirt with another guy and break up with the first one. Dont put up with this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:22 AM
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What fucking assholes. Jesus I am so angry reading this. His family has enabled their son to be a shit person, fuck them. They were shit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:21 AM
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wow that is so fucking rude. You don't invite people to your home to a party and then not make them feel welcome at all! Especially since she knew you came alone. What a shit friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:12 AM
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That sub should be banned. But it goes right in line with all the violent rape porn of Reddit so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:22 AM
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WE DONT WANT TO DATE YOU, YOU LOW VALUE SCROTE. It is so hard for these idiots to realize that FDS does not care about their small brained opinions, like their teeny tiny brains cant fathom the concept of women saying HELL TO THE FUCKING NO. "you aren't much of a prize" - ok, then why do you care so much? Also broski, who the fuck are you kidding. You never listened to a woman in your entire life. Moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:41 PM
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Also try to find a therapist who has radical feminism ideologies and isn't "sex positive". You need a sane individual who is based in reality and not one who is all about this libfem woowoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:56 PM
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Louder for the LVM in the back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:00 PM
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Considering the sub it was posted on. They should really take their own advice. Instead they are constantly boundary shaming women over there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:16 PM
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Wai wait wait. So not only does he want to do a pack your own lunch or walk date. His picture also shows PAPER PLATES AND CHEAP BEER. Gtfo out here with this bs. Why are Australien men so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:39 PM
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I hope she doesn’t see this post cause she just replied to my comment on the other sub and went ape shit on me looool You should tell her to take her unresolved trauma elsewhere. She married a shitty person and is denial. Don't care. Taking her problems out on you is a her problem, not a you problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:01 PM
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Jesus christ. Mom of the year award goes to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:39 AM
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Also "Mad we are not mad!" - scrotes continue to post about it and comment it. Yes dude, nothing says "not mad" as obsessively typing about it 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:53 AM
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I am proud of you getting out now! I am sorry you are going through this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:50 AM
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most good men with empathy and healthy life values avoid OLD because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:39 AM
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If a man is a gamer, odds are very good he watches porn as well. If I were single and looking, I would stay away from gamers and join a hiking club, biking group or anything that supports an outside activity miles away from a screen. Yes. Avoid gamers and Reddit users. I am together with a gamer, but he is one of the rare ones who actually 1) has other interests 2)likes working out and 3) can manage his time and never says no to other activities etc. He is 100% pornfree, but used in the past. (L…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:36 AM
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hahaha I have gotten PM's, but I have it turned off. I don't care, the scrotes can stay mad 😂 I feast on their low value tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:25 AM
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I hate that first pickme so much. I hope she gets to experience a "polite gentleman" approaching her so she can be nice to him. Shaming other women for saying no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:27 PM
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Agreed. Every time I see Jameela I just laugh. The literally played herself in the good place. It is exactly who she is. And yet she does not see the irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:53 PM
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Ah yes middle aged woman making a tiktok with country music in the background defending her husband's porn use. What else is new. 🙄 sis i am sorry your husband does not love and respect you. But stop putting it on other women. It is a you problem and a him problem. The you problem is you try to get other women to lower their standards because you are stuck in a shit marriage. Pathetic. Also her body language is so insecure it is sad to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:46 PM
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Jesus christ. They sign up for getting money aka being sugared. But then they get a small amount of money and send them nudes etc. So stupid. Like sis. If you are going to do SW atleast do it right. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ like get all the cash upfront. Like wtf. Also sending videos of himself having sex with others. The sociopath level of these men.... so disgusting. They are like apes at the zoo. Loathe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:18 PM
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🤢🤢🤢 for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:16 PM
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I'm pretty sure if you guys are married and get divorced he's still entitled to half of everything, even if the house was purchased by you. Same if you're living together. It's considered a common law marriage if he's lived in the house for a certain amount of time. You can't just throw him out. Make sure you look up the laws in your state This x 10000. It is very important to check these things out beforehand. Why I am sketchy about getting married if you have financial assets. I am not sharing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:57 PM
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Yeah she experiences intimacy when a man chokes her and spit on her. So romantic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:37 PM
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God. Could she be trying any harder for male validation. Also the top she is wearing is 100% intended for the male gaze. Like sis. Shut up. It is like the bad sex advice written by journalists at cosmo. Just because they have 0 self worth and need male attention to even like themselves does not make them in any position to advice others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:36 PM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ what is this old scrote even doing on reddit in the first place. Oh right looking at NSFW subreddits. Fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:33 PM
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Same. I am never going to label anyone as HVM, but I understand the distinction. My partner has many many HV traits, but he is not without error. A lot of men who seem "perfect" are just experts at lies and deceit. It is all a front. Fex: I discovered that Henry Cavil is quite a cheater, dates women who is 18-19 years of age (despite him being 33 at the time!!!)etc. I always knew he was too handsome to be trustworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:30 PM
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👏👏👏 so true. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:49 PM
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I get second hand embarrassed reading that shit. He's a doll. No he's a moron. Stop infalitizing grown ass men. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:49 PM
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Yeah also I just cba arguing about it. But it is not like I don't know of men who wants to date 2 women 🤣 but that is just even more trash. The majority of men can't satisfy one women and they have the delusion of thinking they deserve two of them. Oh hell no. Any guy who wants multiple women ain't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:14 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLM94DnKkQo&t=235s My best advice is to arm yourself with knowledge, so you can protect yourself. Knowledge is power
/r/askFDS14/04/21 10:10 AM
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He wanted to make sure you were not sleeping around while he was out fucking other people. Story as old as time. I'm happy I cut it off, but at the same time it's hard because he is my producer for music I am working on with my band. He said he can keep it professional and I can too, but is there any advice moving forward sis this is a bad situation. Do your best to keep it casual, and deny his advances. But this is a bad bad situation. Can you find another producer? This is a classic take of do…
/r/askFDS14/04/21 09:36 AM
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Women end up carrying the brunt of the emotional labour in pretty much all these situations. It is not okay. These men need to start fixing themselves. The amount of crap you had to endure with this man is truly a testament to his shittyness. No more. I tried to be okay with porn in the past. Even though I truly wasn't. Never again. That is done and dusted. I know my boundaries and I refuse to have them pushed by anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:57 PM
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Don't feel stupid. I wish all women would listen to these stories. They could save themselves a lot of hurt and pain. Like you say. Leave the first time. But it is not your fault. It is his. You didn't sell your house. So in the back of your mind you knew and I am glad you listened to it. Most porn addicts don't make it. Even with intensive therapy. It is just a losers game. Women should not stick around for that. It is like winning the lottery if a PA stays clean (same odds) The success stories…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:42 PM
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Monogamous relationships have just as much likelihood of being abusive or otherwise patriarchal and unhealthy Not a single person on FDS ever claimed otherwise. But how would getting two men solve that situation? If healthy people who care about equity and care about their partners are in a polyamorous relationship, it can be perfectly healthy. If you have unhealthy people trying to all have a relationship of some type together, regardless of what that relationship type is, it’s going to be unhe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:40 PM
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Look at that punched back hairline. This guy has done a lot of women dirty. Probably masturbated to too much porn as well-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:35 PM
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BDSM and other shit for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:34 PM
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Didn't you know we are the most toxic sub on Reddit? Telling women to stand up for themselves, to have standards and focus on their own well being over men is bad! Also if you Criticize other women who make horrible choices which negatively impacts feminism/other women, that is also SUPER BAD.🤣 I love to see these posts. I find this the only sub worthwhile on Reddit. The rest is a misogynistic hellhole which promotes relationships which are harmful to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:32 PM
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Awww it just popped up in my feed today and I was thinking this would beneficial for all the fellow FDS women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:14 PM
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Youtube comments - wth! People should also be allowed to be proud of their nationality, inheritance and culture. So how would ignoring race help anything? How would ignoring race solve anything for people who has a different color skin etc. God the stupidity of people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:54 AM
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It's like the whole "I don't see race" spiel. 🙄 In a way, because I am one of those people, in the sense when I was growing up and younger, I never saw my friends any differently, to me they were just like me, I never thought about them differently because they had parents who came from another country, they were just *name*, someone I cared about. Even when I grew older I never thought about separating them as "something else" than myself, but I realized the struggles which sometimes came with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:51 AM
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Also her husband worked as a contractor. Clearly he is deploying the old scrote bait and switch, aka pretending to be bad at something to get out of doing it. He knows what he is doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:27 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:26 AM
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I am sorry sis, that sounds awful! I am glad you are free of that now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:21 AM
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Imagine, just imagine being that much of a loathsome person that you write that post. Jesus. Reddit- the place where empathy goes to die, faith in humanity is lost and misogyny is running rampant. It genuinely saddens me how many trash people that exist in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:21 AM
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Yeah I can't even go on those subs. I have extremely emphatic and sensitive. Same reason I don't watch horror/slasher movies. Even if I know it is not real (in movies) I just can't let go of these horrible images. So knowing it is real would be even worse. I just can't, but thank you for reporting these cases. Is it possible to report things like that to the police or FBI? I feel Reddit wont do anything other than remove the post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:17 AM
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There has been actual rape posts on subs too. Of women actually getting raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:52 AM
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I think you should do what is right for you. FDS is about maximum female benefit. Meaning, what do you benefit from the most. I am in my 30's and not married by choice. I have had several proposals from LVM in my past, and I am so glad I did not marry any of them. I have been with my current partner for 4 years, by most of the FDS standards he would be deemed high value. We are not married yet by choice. We have discussed marriage, but I do want to make absolutely sure it is 100% the right thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:31 PM
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"fully vaxxed and reaaaaady to party" - She might as well have written she will give him a bj in a parking lot date. The bar is in literal hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:55 PM
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🎵He's looking like trash 🎵 "compliment his outfit" - He is wearing the most fucking basic f-boiiii outfit of all time. Sweatpants, hoodie, Nike sneakers and a small beanie. 🤡🤡🤡🤡 Boy is looking real fucking basic. Pickme women are so freaking sad. He will happy to pump and dump her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:53 PM
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groomed women are more likely to stay too because of brainwashing and trauma bonding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:19 PM
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Sadly op is (19) woman who dates a guy 20 year older than her, she also mentions an eating disorder at her comment history, I really hope this ends well for her.. but they are soooooooooooo happy 😐 Also research in pornaddicts and sex addicts show many of these men go for younger women with anorexia because they are turned on by children, and women with ED's have that look. It is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:17 PM
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This poor woman has a lot of mental issues. It is clear as day. She is in a lot of emotional turmoil and seem to be high on drugs. She has a hard time stringing sentences together and yet the comment field is idolized her way of life. She could have had so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:51 PM
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she looks like she is about to cry the whole time in the start of her interview when she talks about her childhood. This is not a happy or healthy woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:09 PM
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HE whines about this, while women worry about getting threatened on the first date/raped/murdered or assaulted. But sure, men has it harder 🙄🙄🙄🙄 Also just by the post alone, I know why he has to go through so many dates and have zero luck with women, because he is a PoS garbage human who spends his time on Reddit whining about this. So strange that women get turned off by his disgusting sexist attitude- who would have known. Also if that woman in his 20's was so great, why didnt it work out LOL?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:18 PM
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Why the fuck did she marry this guy. For real, what the hell are these women thinking???? I would never ever marry someone if I had that amount of money, EVER. He is gold digging her 100%. Also who want to bet this dude is not going to sign the post nuptual agreement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:14 PM
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At least she kicked him out. She needs FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:10 PM
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https://youtu.be/9hO-A_D8fPY?t=2210 - For all women, watch this. It is about restraining orders, but it can 100% be applied for that false sense of security that you may feel due to different reasons, please be careful. (at first it talks about a violent attack, and how LISTEN TO YOUR gut, then it goes into talking about restraining orders)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:56 PM
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It is not about whether or not you can defend yourself, there is nothing wrong with defending yourself, but these situations can escalate dangerously and by your response you did not read the book. That is clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:10 PM
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I sent you a PM as well here on Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:56 AM
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I fucking need to make a post about this (Jiu Jitsu fighter - self defense all the way. Dogs who bark don't bite. Call their fucking bluffs. DONT ignore, counter with 300% aggression and fight back IMMEDIATELY. Ignoring is weakness in the eyes of a bully). sis NO! I swear read the gift of fear. You do not know what some men are capable of! This can severely backfire. Seriously, this approach can be really dangerous. That book is a must read for all women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:52 AM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ one of the reasons I am kinda anti marriage. Imagine being tied to such a pos like she is. Unreal. I refuse to ever be in that situation. Period3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:53 PM
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I checked his Instagram. This guy hates women so much. It is disgusting to see. He is also drawing a shit ton of porn ofcourse. They are objects. I hate men like this so much. The anger I feel when I see this kind of thing. It is outrage. FDS get stalked and threatened. But men posting this kind of shjt. Np. God most men are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:32 PM
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Honestly i would say. Dont even post their posts here. It adds no value. Pickme women like that are at the bottom of the pool. The men are absolutely disgusting. I'd say not even posting that many red pill posts would be a plus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:49 PM
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Simply sharing the video because it is good. I would never advice any girl to date him or even see him as an example of a HVM. 🤷‍♀️ much of the content here is simply shared for the content. I think that is the most important thing to remember as a newbie. Just because a guy says good and quality things it doesn't make him a HVM. Not all LVM are garbage people either. Its a scale. But don't date men who follow nude models on instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:45 PM
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https://www.celebsages.com/taylor-allard/ dont think they are related
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:20 PM
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I checked because I don't know them. Have watched a few of his videos and just liked this one. Do you mean ray mattos? I tried searching for if they were related. His gf and her. Couldn't find anything about it. I would be embarrassed af if that was my sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:12 PM
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It is going to be removed I think, but sis-I agree with you. A garbage human dying is not a tragedy, it is good riddance and thank god. He abuses women and animals, even hell is too god for this pos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:44 PM
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Same. He seems really respectful and loving of his girlfriend and respectful towards women in general. (When his friend was being an ass to a girl on a dating show they did, he actually did a proper apology on behalf of his friend https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EY--Zoy7SCg talk about some of it, though it isnt really about Kurtis, but it is his friend who is an asshole, I dont even know if they are close friends anymore). So here is hoping! xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:39 PM
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what an absolutely loathsome creature he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:53 AM
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Hs sounds like one of those mgtow. He has never dated at age 27 but now he wants some pussy. Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:17 AM
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😍😍😍🥰 thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:45 PM
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Please direct her to FDS, she needs proper support and she is actually leaving this scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:55 PM
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You do have a point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:06 PM
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and being successful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:29 AM
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ah so people like OP save them and then upload them as a video?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:29 AM
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- Like to mentor me and others I think this one is a little strange. I dont think many people want to "mentor" people in their relationships and the ones that do are usually low value, reminds of men who likes to lecture women and hold these speeches for others to feel important. I think this is a point you could scrap. The other ones are not something I would compromise on. I do not think you other preferences are niche at all and if men cant live up them, it is a pretty low bar.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 10:28 AM
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So you expect this amount to be spent on you when the person doesnt even know you?wild you cant find a date (scrotes comment) Pffft. They are full of shit. I have dated my partner for years and he does nice things to surprise me ALL THE TIME. For Christmas he get me new computer monitors and another year an expensive gaming chair I wanted (I work from home and I am a gamer). Or headphones I wanted to listen to music with when I was commuting till/from school when I was studying. Or expensive jew…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:50 AM
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Pornsiiiiiiiiiick scrote detected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:42 AM
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I want to say thank you to the man who made that comment because way too often men do not speak out against other men. Also note the downvotes he is getting, simply for saying "dont objectify women". Keep doing it, tell them how gross they are. Also notice how hostile the POS NVM is being for being called out on his bs. I hate trash men like the first commentor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:41 AM
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Yet he’s an ass man. I think he misspelled; I think he meant to write "I am an asshat"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:39 AM
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OT: how do you get the videos from tiktok in like this so you can play them directly on the sub? I tried and I cant figure it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:36 AM
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yes he is moving it a long way too fast. It sounds very eerie and you need to be careful. I think one of the best things I heard on how to view these things are "a normal healthy person has boundaries, because they know what the stakes are for their emotions, so they are careful just like you are and will take their time to develop a relationship naturally". So people who do love bombing do not have these reservations, because they don't feel emotions the same way you do, it is all about ensnari…
/r/askFDS09/04/21 09:33 AM
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Sis, I read your other post on this and commented. Please listen to the advice given, go into therapy and work through your insecurities with a licensed therapist. The fact you make this post again, really shows you need therapy. You need to move on and you need help from a professional.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 09:11 AM
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Is it normal for men to frequently compliment other women’s appearance? - NO! HVM do not do this, because they dont view women as objects. If a guy does this, break up with him. As someone said, it is a way to make you feel inadequate so you will stay with them. Dump dump dump. Do not let any man emotionally manipulate you like that, ever.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 09:09 AM
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But even him lying about this is "AW HELL NO!"
/r/askFDS09/04/21 09:07 AM
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Sis. NO just no. I am very suspicious for men at 40 who dates women in their 30's. I just screams manchild to me. Not my first rodeo. And then with you start describing him in your post, it really shows my intuition is correct. He is incredibly immature for his age. Please break up with this clown. For you own well being. Everything about him scream red flags, so please listen to it..
/r/askFDS09/04/21 09:06 AM
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Most of that shit is flat out emotional abuse, and not an ounce less 👆🙌🙌 Women suffer and men are disgusting, but they always blame the fucking women. check out the thread when I said it is not women's job to fix men's problem with porn, and the men go "Waaaaaaaah, Dont shame me, waaaaaaaaaah". I am legit sick of these men and their "I am a victim". (its in my comments)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:09 AM
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Also why all the dusties of reddit are so mad about FDS. They know they will not have these women and they are so fucking mad about it. It is unreal. Post after post after post. They are obsessed. If we were the femcels they claim they would leave us alone. But nope. They make posts about us . All. The. Time. Stay mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:16 PM
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His video is the polyamory subreddit summed up bassicly 😁😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:47 PM
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Police may hate a lot of other minority groups but they hate women more. That much is obvious. There is a lot going on right now where women have their rights taken from them and boundaries violated. And not the police, the justice system or politicians give a crap. Prime example is the Asian sex workers who were brutally murdered. It was not only a racist hate crime but also misogyny. But none talks about that in general media. He targeted women because he hates women and he hates Asian women m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:32 PM
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"If men suggest an expensive date. I decline. I am just that cool!!! now pickmeeeee please. I am still here wanting desperately to be picked pleeeeeease. Validate meeeee. " 🤦‍♀️ Like if a woman has standards you don't want to meet. Then yes. Move on. But stop being a whiney bitch about it. How have those coffee dates worked out so far??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:35 PM
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Its like. Head over to relationship subs or love after porn and listen to the things scrotes has said to their girlfriends. Like "oh I like jerking off to her because she has bigger boobs and a better body". I have seen that being said many many times. These porn addicted scrotes tearing their partners apart. Or men tearing their wives apart after pregnancy talking about how gross they are. But sure women is the problem here....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:22 PM
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Paparazzi moment. So they managed to snap one photo of her wearing a tank
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:19 PM
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Jepp. Same with bhad babie or what she is called. Absolutely disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:45 PM
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yes, I know for A FACT, that most murders/brutalities does not make the news. Not even local news. Someone I know and her friend, found a guy brutally murdered in his apartment (he lived in the same building as them, in a quiet city) . It didn't even make the local news (we checked). They found him head down in a pool of blood, and there were drugs in the window still, so likely a drug related crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:28 PM
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really good interview, this poor woman. I teared up watching it. I am glad he is doing these interviews, because these people deserve to have their stories told.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:50 AM
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"the lack of self awareness" ROFL. The projection and delusion is real. If you have such a problem with women being anti porn, get some fucking help dude. STOP PROJECTING. The guys who comment on these things have the least amount of self-awareness EVER. HOW can they be this blind and delusional? "omg a woman saying she can't feel a small penis is toxic"- I am just sitting here like, WHAT? WHAT? Do you know what toxicity means you idiot? What is TOXIC is people hating on someone JUST because of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:38 AM
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why dont this clown go fuck all the incels then? Go ahead sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:53 AM
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It is like it has been said time and time again; WOMEN'S POWER DO NOT COME FROM GETTING RAPED AND MURDERED! Liberal feminist just ignore all the issues WoC and other marginalized groups face in that industry. I honestly think that libfems do not give a rats ass about anyone but themselves, they want sexwork to be empowering so none can "shame" them for how their choice is shit for all women, but they grave the male validation so much (and the cash) so that is why they do it. Libfems dont realize…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:39 AM
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Focus on anal. Of fucking course. 😒 she is never going to dump this dusty. It is all going to bite her in the ass eventually with this pickme bs. You make your bed, you get to lie in it. He is going to cheat. I guarantee it. And she is going to be shocked, because who knew that porn addiction and cheating goes hand in hand and he will get bored eventually.... also I get angry at these idiot women becauae she is enabling this disgusting man. She literally said he is a total pervert. So he oggles …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:44 PM
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"old soul" he is and looks old. Like wtf is this dude on about. Dude you are old an dusty GTFO here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:22 PM
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this guy couldn't even land honey boo boo's mom! That is how gross he is. The delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:18 PM
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😱😱😱😱😱😱💀🥴 that image. Holy fucking shit. I am dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:10 PM
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Isn't it still illegal?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:31 PM
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Is this a joke? It has to be a joke right? THE AUDACITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:10 PM
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I agree with her points. It is a fine balance between venting and let the hate take over your life. Women need to vent, but there needs to be a balance. I am sick of talking about men all the time too, or this vicious cycle of focusing on all the shit. It is draining! So excellent points on also focusing on positivity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:31 PM
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He really thinks he did something there. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ congratulations on being an idiot with the emotional maturity of a toilet paper roll. What a considerate and well adjusted individual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:28 AM
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I hated it and loved it at the same time. It is one of my favorite movies. What I hated is how accurate it is about justice today and how little justice there truly are for victims of sexual assault. The only reason the men in the movie even face justice is because of the murder of Cassie. This is very realistic, because rape victims do not get their justice in society today. Another thing I hated is I wanted it to be more "avenging angel" or "anti hero" trope, daredevil/ the punisher have very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:41 AM
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​ In my world, she killed all the men marked with red in her book. I wanted the femme fatalle avenger,.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:34 AM
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Agreed completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:33 AM
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YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM, BLOCK HIS NUMBER AND NEVER TALK TO THIS POS AGAIN! arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:28 AM
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my friend who was assaulted, he took his hands and slid between he legs in the subway- from behind, start at her knees, she managed to push her legs hard together before he got too far. She explained it to me while sobbing uncontrollably, she didn't see him either, only from behind. But he was wearing a suit and a briefcase. I fucking hate men. She said the worst part is how she froze up and was unable to scream. Because of the shock. This was 7 years ago and I still remember how upset she was. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:27 AM
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Same sis, before I met my partner I had dates with men who didnt even use recent profile pictures. Like wth. They had several photos and then it turned out those photos has been taken LIKE WAY BACK. Or the amount of hat-fishing going on. I know for certain, even if I become single again, I will never ever use OLD ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:02 AM
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It ends up affecting all of us. A friend of mine was groped on a crammed subway by some creep when I was meeting her and she just broke down afterwards. Or the amount of disgusting dusty men who oggle when you are just out walking or working out. I HATE IT. SO MUCH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:00 AM
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pickme women are the fucking worst. I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:29 AM
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Ugh I know. I stopped visiting these subs for that exact reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:24 AM
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Just repeating what a woman already said and adding, “As a human, this kind of stuff makes me sad.” Cool. As a woman, this kind of stuff gets me killed. But thanks for contributing absolutely no value to the conversation. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:22 AM
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Every single sub on Reddit for women, that is not FDS has male moderators. Every single one. So there is no "even if they dont"- they do. Men are everywhere, trying to shit on female spaces and "get their view across"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:10 AM
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I agree completely with your comment, and as OP said one of the main reasons I hate sex-workers is because it enforces the stereotype that women are not people, but objects who can be bought for money! So by men's logic; I want her, I pay for her body or her OF. All women they see in public, can then in their mind "be bought" just because they desire her. There is absolutely nothing empowering about that for women! It complete dehumanizes women for men. We are not women or people, we are "sluts"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:07 AM
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I resent that they are encouraging men to think that womens bodies are a purchasable commodity. Their choice to do sex work affects every single woman negatively, not just themselves. That's why we all deserve to share our opinions on it even though they think we have no business discussing it. 👆👆👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:59 AM
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Imagine if they applied this scrote logic to themselves. They dont even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:46 AM
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I think she took it down because they "apologized" and made her. Her video painted an ugly picture of his friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:26 AM
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Yes. As in i enjoy the part of sex prior to the orgasm too. I find sex enjoyable and pleasing depending on how it feels. Sometimes it really hits the right spot. I can't orgasm from piv. But I have an orgasm every time I have sex with help from toys. But I would never stick around for orgasmless sex. What's the point in that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:19 AM
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😒😒😒😱😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:44 AM
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This needs to be read by ladies even when they have been FDS for a while. Reminds me of that particular incident when you spend hours talking to a guy. It is not healthy and any guy who wants to videochat that long it is a red flag. Ladies you have to be careful. Value your time. I think most guys who do this are love bombers. The women who do this is going to land flat on their face and it sucks when women hurt themselves like this over some guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:07 AM
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Yeah but he was really rude to her after the date too. She made a video about it which is now removed. His best friend is a huge asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:56 AM
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Because the men of preddit get their peepees hard on it. It is all that matters to these degenerates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:43 PM
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https://youtu.be/iCVQWJ8KwHI the girl made a video about it and his friend was so fucking rude to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:26 PM
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Agreed 👍 Only thing I don't like is his best friend is a huge scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:23 PM
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Someone pointed it out in the thread, they did not understand the irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:36 PM
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HATE SPEEEEEEEEEEECH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:36 PM
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☝☝☝☝ You get it! They want some of that "free emotional support pocket pussy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:28 PM
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The reason they want this is : EASY SEX. This guy is not into her AT ALL, but he is definitely down for some easy sex. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:27 PM
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"He loves dad jokes, AND SO DO I" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ 🎵🎵🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:25 PM
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sis honestly, this is your problem, not mine. Guess what, people are allowed to disagree with you and hold different opinions than you. If you want to sit an insult them, that is on you, not my clown, not my circus. If anyone here needs self-reflection it is you and none else.🤷‍♀️ Plenty of people wanted to hear what I had to say and regardless of your personal opinion, the truth is still the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:58 PM
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I think they should re-open the investigation. It was closed after 6 days! Did you watch the video shield maiden lagertha posted? It paints a very ugly picture. It has nothing to do with NK being a woman, but anyone who participates in a crime should absolutely face justice for what they have committed. Regarding Chris, I havent seen a single person on FDS make excuses for him. I dont care what other people do, because they are not the same as here. He owns his own actions COMPLETELY, but so doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:29 PM
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We have all been there. I cringed a lot reading about this guy, because HOLY MOLEY what a freaking scrote. But it is how we learn, by these embarrassing mistakes. Please know that he is at fault, not you. Do never base your own value of some scrotes opinion. I am sorry you had to go through all that, but you have a much bigger worth than you think. Scrotes like that want easy victims, who they can manipulate. Despite you playing along with his idiocy at times, you also set some boundaries, which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:05 PM
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2 mil people follow it. It is sad. And I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:35 PM
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Spotted in the wild. A man with awareness. A very rare breed indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:04 PM
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"Hey guys i am a drug addict and i have really low energy levels i am wondering if I take some amfetamin it will help with my energy levels???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:03 PM
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Yes, it is because you are a porn addict dude. It is not rocket science. But yeah, ask the bromo's of Reddit for Advice. You want to see what men on Reddit look like, check out "Roast me". Those are the bottom dwellers people get advice from on PReddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:55 AM
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Reddit men are on a whole new level. They are psychotic. Also, he deserve to be shamed. He wants a gross partner to fart off into sunset with, THEN FIND ONE and stop lying and tricking women. They could just be upfront about how they are a total PoS. They refuse to respect boundaries. Also I like how the guy above is like " Life's too short for that kind of energy to be in mine. " Pretending he has a girlfriend. Pffft, Bitch please. I guess his right hand counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:53 AM
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She searched whether people hate the mistress in another well-known family annihilator case, as well as the amount of money that woman received for a book deal. Literally this. Why the hell would she googled about a man murdering his family, if she had "No idea" Chris would murder his. I can't believe the police isn't looking into her. https://thoughtcatalog.com/christine-stockton/2020/10/a-tiktoker-thinks-she-found-security-footage-of-nichol-kessinger-at-the-watts-family-murders/ Also this. Spe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:47 AM
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watching it now. I cant believe the energy people spend protecting this horrible woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:43 AM
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Also here are some theories regarding nicole: https://thoughtcatalog.com/christine-stockton/2020/10/a-tiktoker-thinks-she-found-security-footage-of-nichol-kessinger-at-the-watts-family-murders/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:28 AM
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I think it's worth reflecting on why you can type more anger for this woman than for the murderer, manipulator himself. That is a blatant lie, and also complete nonsense, what is the point in debating Chris when the article is about her still having contact with him in jail. You have no idea how any of the women feel about Chris who commented here, I would wager every single one here loathes that piece of garbage. And thank fuck, he is in jail for life! But she sickens me too, so stop playing th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:28 AM
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Ugh. I have had the same thing with some short guys. They would have this piss poor attitude towards women and just treat women like objects. And then be like "women only date tall men". Nah bro. It is your shitty personality that is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:30 AM
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This 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:22 AM
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Shame is a completely healthy emotion for people to feel. The amount of men on reddit who watches rape porn and get off on women being degraded is disgusting. Like yes bro you should be ashamed because what he watches is sick and he is sick for watching it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:19 AM
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That sub suck anyway 🤷‍♀️ I am not really surprised with the stupidity of men on reddit. They show it all the time. The fact they can't even see the irony is just spot on with what I think of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:44 PM
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🎵🎶why are scrotes always lying. Why the fuck they lying 🎶 They are so full of shit "my favorite part is aftercare" ease give me cookie points like I am an actual good person. Tldr: they are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:35 PM
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Yeah agreed. And I think it is a clear lesson of how LVM are dangerous. You never know what a LVM is capable of. Because most of them are completely unable to have empathy and compassion. They are dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:27 PM
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I agree. It is not her fault and the only tiny good thing that can come from it is that perhaps other women can learn and perhaps survive. Every time I think about those poor children I feel like crying. I will never understand the absolute evil of that psychopath to murder those poor innocent babies like that. And I really hope my comment didn't come off as I told you so vs Shannon. Because I absolute agree there is no point in blaming her for being murdered by that sick fuxk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:14 PM
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The escort in this interview said it correctly. Men pay to rape them. Without the money it is just rape. This is why i will never support sex work. The women are never the winners in this industry. Even the very few who become rich of it have so many mental health issues they just block behind this wall of denial. It is an industry which only benefit men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:52 PM
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You sexually climax to that shit = you are mentally ill. ☝☝☝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:34 PM
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The word Narcissist is thrown around a LOT. It is unethical for me to diagnosis someone who is not a client of mine. Narcissistic Personality Disorder follows some real paths, and are textbook in presentation. First of all, excellent post! But I believe the reason narcissism is thrown around so much is because we live in a time where it is quite literally a society wide disease. There are so many disgusting narcissists around who have zero capability of loving anything but themselves, so they ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:29 PM
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Sweetie, You deserve better! You need to realize your own worth, because it is there even if you dont see it yet. You sound young, you have so much to live and experience. This boy is weighing you down. I will suggest you work on yourself and self love. Read FDS recommended books (they are all listed on the sub) find a good therapist, get your own place, get new friends and learn to love YOU. he does not win because you dump him, he loses. I would advice for you to break up with him without givi…
/r/askFDS03/04/21 07:25 PM
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Never teach a man how to date you. It is a golden rule of FDS. But, what you could do is pick a good restaurant and say "I want to go here" and see how he reacts. If he invites you there and book a table, he may be a decent person. If he makes a fuss- block, delete. But in most cases, the men will make a fuss, so it ends up being wasted energy on your part. Easier to just block/delete and move on from any guy who doesn't offer a high standard date right off the bat. If a guy ever suggest a walk …
/r/askFDS03/04/21 07:21 PM
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Honestly, listen to the interview I posted above. Nicole is as sick as he is. She is so gross and cold in that interview. She is a cold and manipulative narcissist as well. They are two peas in a pod.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:13 PM
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Also, been listening to a true crime podcast (True Crime Junkies!) and how many of these serial killers are into BDSM and look for slaves, a woman signs up and she ends up getting murdered! But yeah, society goes "KiNkS aRe NoRmaL". No, a man who wants to beat you, piss on you, have you as a slave is sick in his head. Periodt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:09 PM
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The whole mindgeek needs to be SHUT DOWN. Porn should be made illegal to access by minors and be behind huge pay walls. It should be treated the same way as drugs, it is the only way to save our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:55 PM
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I think what the commentor above is trying to say, that this is why being a pickme is dangerous and shannan had a responsibility towards her kids, but it ends up sounding very victim blamey. It is not Shannan's fault that her husband is a psycho, but if she had gotten some actual useful advice from her friends regarding all this, it is possible she could have been alive today. We need to teach women to see these signs, it should not be that way at all, but we have to be safe over sorry. In a per…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:54 PM
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It all needs to benefit men's dicks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:44 PM
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I agree. If you listen to the tape, it is recorded after he killed those poor kids. She sounds like she doesnt give a rats ass. I would be sitting there bawling over the thought of dead children. Also she starts talking about this random nonsense in one interview, about the suplements Chris took. Like what??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:43 PM
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Honestly, he just manipulated them. I think it shows why women need FDS more than ever. If you stay smart, you will realize these men are sociopaths and not go near them. Women need to see this video and just wake up. If women still want to date him after seeing that video, then I would be like yeah, that is pickme hall of shame material. I just think the women dont know any better and are being sold the lie that "single women are pathetic". So they look for love in all the wrong places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:42 PM
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God he is REPULSIVE. Everything about him, his looks and demeanor is so gross. If a man walks up to you and starts talking to you. Just walk away. He is clearly a sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:39 PM
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Yeah, if a woman today say "I like regular sex, being loved and respected" she gets flamed so hard. Imagine if you say "I want a man who is able to give me an orgasm". They would lose their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:35 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQGX_32dyow here it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:13 PM
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I dont know how it is in the states but I haven't heard much about her. But there is a YouTube documentary about her. Where you can hear the phonecalls of hers to the police. She lied and was wasting time of the police instead of helping the investigation. She is not some innocent woman and I think she got off way too easy. I think she knew a lot more than she let on. If you listen to the police interviews with her she sounds suspicious as hell. I think she knew he would kill his family and she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:40 PM
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She knew he was going to kill his family. I am certain of this. LVM love to confess shit to their mistresses. She is just as sick as he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:34 PM
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Fuck yes sis!!!! I said "yeeeeah" out loud when I read this. You leveled up big time. I know you will find a man who is worthy of your love and not this disgusting pig of an ex. Good on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:25 PM
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He lives across the country from you?that is great. Because then you don't have to see him ever again. Block amd delete. Move on He sounds majorly abusive. And so gross. You deserve so much better. So much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:10 AM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ men are so dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:03 AM
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Sis. People are full of shit. I am heavily tattooed and I took an education in IT at the University. I work for a large company in my country, working in their IT department. Usually when I do interviews I will wear clothing that is professional, but I never go out of my way to cover my tattoo's. I have pretty much a full sleave on one arm, half one on the other and my legs are tattoo'ed as well- I am going to get more. I spend a lot of money on my babies, it is art and expression for me. I have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:57 PM
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Reads like a total troll for me. I am more concerned about the idiot asking for advice how to do it. Because that is concerning to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:04 PM
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Oh I just saw that thread. It is all so barf worthy. Reddit going boohoo these poor men. Waaaaaaah. Like I hate these idiots so much. All these "nice" men have in most cases treated the women in their life horribly. They had opportunities for love and care, but they were bad people who treated women bad and abusive. But instead these poor man babies paint themselves as a victim while they visit prostitutes. Like yeah. These fuckers get no sympathy from me. You visit a prostitute you are a shit p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:40 PM
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Companionship and pussy. Likewtf am I reading.... if you want to see something that is sweet. It is the holliday where she helps an elderly man and yeah he doesn't fuck her. These fucking pickme idiots. Also yeah. Such a sweet man who pays young woman so use as mastubatory aid. So sweet! Also if these men weren't trash. There are plenty of women who want to have a sweet companion who dotes and loves her. But this man is clear trash with shit morals who wants to fuck a 20 year younger prostitute.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:27 PM
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Have they SEEN men??!??!?!?! Men peak at 25. LOL. The amount of young men who approach me when I am out, stare at me and even some gross catcalling states that this is a lie. I am in my 30's and people always think I am in my early 20's. So what wall. LOL. Meanwhile I see men, who constantly look older than they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:26 PM
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I googled her pictures to see what it is, she is clearly an addict, she looks RAGGED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:17 PM
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Men do this shit all the time. Do you even read their own Reddit? post after post on relationship advice about women, where their husbands and boyfriends has either 1) taken pictures of them with 0 consent while sleeping etc 2) shared pictures that they had given PRIVATELY to their spouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:17 PM
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It is our lurkers who awarded you. They think they did something. But it is the lurkers and super fans who are giving these awards on posts like this one. In their teeny tiny brains they think they did something.🤷‍♀️ they use money on reddit because they have no life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:45 AM
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This pickme really wants to be as dumb as possible.... she goes "oh I better ask for an explanation so can lie to me again"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:41 AM
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Oh geez. I just googled her because I had no clue who she was. And she looks rough. Like wow. Those pictures. She has very much perfected that "Amy winehouse vibe". It is so sad when people destroy themselves simply for some dick of the patriarchy. She looks like one of the ladies you can pay 10$ on the corner for a good time. And she thinks she should give advice to other women? Like sis. Buy a mirror and look in it long and hard. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:38 AM
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Professional writer on VICE. Like that sentence is just pure tragedy. Sis is not a professional anything other than pickme escort. Since it seems she sleeps with men for drugs/articles etc. Yeah her life is a dream. ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:33 AM
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What was that comment even about??? Like. She cant argue with logic so she is like"i will fuck your man"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:31 AM
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You should tell her with receipts but be prepared that she is not gonna act on it and will likely believe John. But I always advocate for telling the truth. Maybe she will leave in the future
/r/askFDS02/04/21 09:27 AM
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Good response. I am so glad you bassicly told her that her son is a creepbecauae of her bad parenting. Becauae it is the damn truth. She needs to be a better parent. Also I hope you get your daughter full time! They sound toxic and dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:12 PM
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Yeah you know. As a woman I always feel the world is my safe space..... 😵💀 it's why me and my friends always plan ahead. Never walk alone. Take busses alone late at night. My boyfriend picks me up in the car. Why I drive my friends home instead of letting them walk Etc. So safe....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:08 PM
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Also. They are spreading straight up lies. None on FDS are homophobes. I have nothing but love, respect and empathy for people who dare be themselves and love who they will. I also don't have a problem with transwomen. But I draw the line when women get told to move over for transwomen. Such as the case of women's sport. Scholarships reserved for women. Etc. Because an individual who has lived with testosterone for so many years have clear advantage. Also but other right is to NOT HAVE A DICK IN…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:05 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:37 PM
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Yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:20 PM
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I like how they talk about suicide as it is the worst thing ever with these rapist, entitled scrotes. The world is overpopulated, it really isnt the tragedy they make it out to be.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:44 PM
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pffffft I make more money than that on my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:43 PM
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I honestly think this was a calculated move on this scrotes part. A way to "rain on her parade". WHY would you dump someone on an important day for them? Clearly a narcisstic move to make her feel bad. What a POS. Good riddance you got rid of this trashcan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:19 AM
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I checked her twitter, the things she writes are unintelligible because she can't even type it out proper. Her twitter reads like two 15 year old kids sending each other text messages. "journalist" my ass. Pickme drivel and horrible typing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:14 AM
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I feel like as long as we are here we can protest and throw our opinions in their face, we are here and making noise about pedophiles and how disgusting they are in general. We are fighting them from THE INSIDE. Of course it is double sided because of Reddit being a hellhole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:06 AM
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He likely verbally abuses her and has her completely under the floorboards. She is traumabonded. That poor poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 09:25 PM
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I cant link things without getting banned I think, but if you google "the boy who disappeared + grahamlinehan." then it is the first result you fet up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 08:49 PM
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I am 100% certain this scrote thinks he is "too good" for wife, and you can tell her self-esteem is at rock bottom. It is so so sad to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 07:11 PM
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That fucking clown deserves to rot in hell. This is the kind of shit women put up with all the time. Like sis no. Kick him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 06:47 PM
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Rapists and sex offenders do not think they are rapists and sex offenders. These guys are the same who will claim a man can't rape his wife or girlfriend. I bet they prolly raped a passed out woman and be like "she wanted it though". They are definitely those kind of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:16 PM
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Who wants to be these guy are the actual sex offenders??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:14 PM
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https://gamerant.com/game-grumps-dan-avidan-grooming/ Found this. and this: https://www.reddit.com/r/rantgrumps/comments/dtciec/kati_schwartz_dans_exclose_friend_releases_a/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:19 PM
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I literally just can't with fucking men anymore. I have always been pretty popular with the opposite sex, but I was bullied in school when I was younger and suffered from low self-asteem. NOT ONCE, have I felt any desire to ever have sex with a minor and even guys under 30 just seem horribly immature to me. I have actually never slept with a younger guy now that I think of it. (and I have never been attracted to older men either). Even if I was super famous, I would never ever want to engage wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:15 PM
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They are inherently narcissistic websites and attract men who want fawning young girls to watch them for hours and attempt to engage with them. Nothing but truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:13 PM
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I am pretty certain he abused her too. But abuse breeds abuse breeds abuse. Instead of breaking the cycle clearly she is continuing it and also taking it out on women as a whole. Mad with power for certain. Also some deep rooted misogyny. I do not see "her" as a woman and certainly not ally for women or abused children. Her partner seems to be a pedophile as well and has written sexual fiction involving children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:38 PM
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DIVORCE THIS CLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWN. Omg what the hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:44 PM
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The man in question is a self-proclaimed "wOmAn" who lived in a house with a pedophilic father who raped a 10 year old girl (and filmed it) while dressed as a little girl. He is currently serving 22 years in prison for this. This individual is a reddit admin, who is in a poly relationship with two other men, who identify as "women", who has some very disturbing fetishes regarding furry stuff/children/diapers etc. This is why certain feminist subs got banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:41 PM
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’m sick and tired of the tone policing. It’s like we have to be these nice, gracious, honey toned women to get the message across and it doesn’t sit well with me. Don't get me started on that! I joined this sub back when we had around ~40k members and you can tell we have gotten a lot of these "tone police" newbies lately. I actually noticed that a lot of old members/mods no longer post like they used to, and I think this may have something to do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:37 PM
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I agree with you! I have said it before and I have said it again, FDS is not about putting a muzzle on women. Just like the Mods said in the podcast, it is about being able to be who you want and also yeah, it may be harsh. But society conditions women to be "Nice" all the time. I do not like this perspective of "all women are pure and victims" and "men are trash", I have met plenty of trash women, who loved playing the victim but was abusive to everyone around them. I have MANY stories or being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:35 PM
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I personally see a very distinct line between abused women who are trying to navigate their abuse and thus become pickmes and patriarchal princess pickmes. Abused women tend to have been conditioned to doubt themselves and feel no sense of power. With pickmes, they harbor narcissistic traits that ruin the lives of other women around them for the opportunity to get the power men possess. I’m talking about the vindictive, manipulative, and straight up abusive pickmes that live and breathe off tear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:27 PM
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Yeah I decided not to get into it, because the "woke" community of libfems are just the freaking worst, and despite what they claim, their goal is not empowering women. You can literally turn that argument this wokefem put out on it's head, terms such as girl/women/pussy have all been used as derogatory towards women. Such as the word "boy" was used as a racist slur back in the day, should we all stop using that word too? or the word "pussy" because men say "dont be such a pussy" all the time. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:09 PM
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Maybe he has one of those mouth things like Stephen hawking had 🤣😂 I think he should ask them to get one so he can blow himself too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:33 PM
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Fucking BARF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:31 PM
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God sis. Just shut up already. And yeah you are. Go spew your woke word vomit somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:15 PM
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Yupp!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:14 PM
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Demeaning term. Lol. Get over yourself. How about you stop telling other women how to talk, say etc. We are allowed to exist how we deem fit and say "ladies" . Perhaps you should either adjust your attitude towards other women or find another sub. Clearly the point of FDS as a whole flew completely over your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:10 PM
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🤢🤢 I feel ill. How do you get a cyst between your ass-cheeks???!??!?! seems like an infection. SO GROSSSSSSS I am so disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:21 PM
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I honestly think it would be a step for FDS to publish an online publication. We could show VICE how you do REAL journalism and actual articles/reports which benefit women. I know they have written some on the homepage. And with the Podcast coming out. THE SKY IS THE LIMIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:20 PM
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It is why it disgust me how society tries to groom girls into thinking that dating older guys is so cool, because they are SO mature and it is literally an "achievement" for a young girl to date a guy or men who is older. They brainwash young women into thinking they "won the prize" and they are crowned "winner of pickme's". It is old gross men who push this agenda especially through popculture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:18 PM
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I feel like these posts should be posted with a picture of the person in question that did it, so everyone can publicly ridicule the fuck out of these perverts. Maybe a NSFW reddit called "outing creeps, its my kink, dont kinkshame" I mean clearly reddit is fine with peoples nudes being shared with 0 consent and promoting rape. But I guess outing creeps like that would be "crossing a line"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:10 PM
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yeah he definitely meant it to be passive aggressive. Typical narcissist. Sounds just like the shit my ex would say, making himself into the victim when he broke a law and is being disgusting. Fucking perv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:08 PM
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Fuck the social media age, it is sooooooo pornified and gross. The kids growing up today are utterly fucked by this society. How will they ever have healthy relationships and selfworth when their brains are being complete filled with this drivel? It is destroying children from early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:04 PM
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I am only 20 and in my experience, many of these men use this propaganda to scare young women into settling down with the first man that shows interest, and make all women over 25 feel worthless. This. Is exactly what they do. They know you are out of their league, so they want to neg and brainwash you into settling with them, because they deep down know they have zero fucking worth. It is projection at its finest and they are master manipulators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:02 PM
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At least you are here now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:01 PM
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Amen! The amount of vetting and emotional stress you have to go through to get a man is insane. I cant believe I actually had the energy to do it while suffering from PTSD, but somehow I did. If my partner didnt worship the ground I walk on, he would be out the door so fast. If I ever become single again, I dont think I will even bother dating. I found one good egg in a sea of shit, I highly doubt I would ever find another one in this pornsick society we live in. Finding a HVM who have the trait…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:56 PM
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A second post was reposted of a woman who rose her husband in bed. When they were done there was a brown skidmark where his ass was..... he didn't see a problem with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:20 AM
59

Yeah it is OG FDS posts. There has been several posts of men who told their wives and girlfriends that wiping and or washing your butt is gay. There was an old post with pictures where a girl was dating a guy who left skidmarks in her sheets. He was just too lazy to proper wipe...... so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:18 AM
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I have this radical idea, imagine making magazines FOR WOMEN, which benefited women and not men?! But of course it wouldn't happen, because the men who really run the magazines are the board and the shareholders with the deep pockets. Ofcourse they want to keep the magazine serving the patriarchy and not actually empower women. It is all lies, it is misogyny plastered with glitter, glam, fashion and pretty things to brainwash women into "this is empowering" when in reality it is meant to keep wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:19 AM
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That is some deep internalized-misogyny right there. I will just assume it is written by a woman, because this advice is for women: YOUR LIFE DO NOT END AT 30! Women are strong, capable and smart. Do not believe in the lies by the patriarchy and STOP BELIVEING you need a man to be happy! It is statistically shown that married women die earlier than single women. Men need marriage so much more than women do. Stop making your life revolve around men. Have you seen men? leaving skidmarks on sheets …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:35 AM
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Also, THIS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9z5xqAP7ek&t=1821s Is what they call fat. Gym bro's really are fucking disgusting to listen to. ABSOLUTELY APPALLED by them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:58 AM
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" We were also both newly into BDSM, which realistically was a more significant point of connection than I’d had with most of my age-appropriate exes. " From the article. You can tell she is insecure AF and pickme galore, because she isn't like "classic pretty" so I am like 99% sure she always tried too hard, the way she poses in the photos looks so try hard and despite that, she looks really insecure. If she would just embrace other women and stop being such a pickme, she would feel so much mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:48 AM
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People guess my age to be between 17 till 25. I'm in my 30's. It is mostly just annoying. I get carded every time I have to buy alcohol and even got carded a few times buying energy drinks (need to be 16 to buy those....) I feel like at times I am not taken as seriously due to my age (the age people think I am).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:25 PM
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Yeah dont blame yourself. Covert narcissistic behavior is hard to detect. Been there. My gut feeling was screaming at me to leave. I didn't listen. I was heavily depressed and had massive anxiety attacks during that time and was medicated and went to a psychologist. Turned out the issue was just my ex, being the complete sociopath he is. It is not your fault he is and was a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:20 PM
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Your ex sound like a classic narcissistic sociopath. I have this saying with "thief thinks everyone steals". Like your ex being paranoid about you cheating etc. They really do tell on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:00 PM
21

I would assume they werent even "separated" but he is just making it up to look better. Scrotes gonna scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:58 PM
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Don't blame yourself, it isnot your fault he is a sick twisted creep. They will likely have him on video and be able to ban him for ever entering that gym again and revoke his membership. "Freezing" is a normal reaction, and the problem is him. Not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:55 PM
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Please please PLEASE report these things to the gym, tell the receptionist so he can get banned from the GYM. Clearly he is a sick fuck. I swear all these pornsick fat fucks.---
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:09 PM
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yeah he didnt give two shits about fucking his mistress in his wives bed, in the house where he live with his kids. Like this man has 0 conscience. Total sociopath. I feel like our society as a whole today totally glosses over cheating. Cheating is an excellent way to judge character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:01 PM
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Often times people become "coaches" in aspects they themselves struggle with the most. Because it occupies their thoughts a lot and they try to rescue themselves. Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:29 PM
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Yeah, I have this rule: Once a cheater, always a cheater. He said he cheated in the past from what I understood. I would never date a cheater, no matter "how HVM he seem". Because cheaters have crossed such an ethical boundary, so I just dont see it. I dont care that "he wasnt happy" or "sex addiction" or whatever. No cheaters for me, periodt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:15 PM
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It is the fox and the "sour grapes" all over again. Men fucking love "bitches" aka women with boss bitch energy, and they get so mad when we say "hey mr tiny scrote dick, we dont want you and your scrote ass energy". They get so triggered. They want what they can't have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:58 PM
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well, I don't mind, because sometimes getting downvoted to oblivion on Reddit means you are actually right and the sane person.😂 The amount of shit advice and outright disgusting thing you see on the "regular reddit" is bound to bleed over here too with an influx on new subs (newbies). Honestly it is just our mods who do a bang up job of banned the people who refuse to listen and keep arguing in comments. I have seen a few of them get banned so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:56 PM
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Most Men are so dumb it hurts. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ " After that trip, Jaxn brought the woman to Atlanta to stay in the home he shares with his wife and kids. De Medeiros said in the interview that she what appeared to be moving boxes and assumed that his story was true. His family was in Colorado visiting his in-laws. The mistress provided receipts of her meetups with the philanderer, including a cozy shot taken from the bed he shared with his wife in their Atlanta home. " Relationship expert my ass. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:47 PM
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Hear hear! Been an influx of "BuT WhAt AbOuT tHe MeN" comments lately, i reported a few because I am so sick of seeing it. I think FDS Is very clear about this, yet somehow we still have newbies coming in and start arguing these things or being like "SAHM is SO EMPOWERING". Like sis, none cares. If you want to do it, then do it, but why do you need to preach it on FDS? I feel like these newbies need to get their ideas and relationships validated by the women on FDS- why? Is it because you deep d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:43 PM
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You would help yourself a lot if you do some reading on attachment theories too. A lot of good books out there. It may be hard to swallow but you seem trauma bonded. You feel alone and have none but him. A lot of women end up feeling that way. And that is why they stay. Your sexual dynamic sound very unhealthy and you are right about your low libido stemming from that. I definitely think you should leave from reading this. It is a hard thing to go through, but you are stronger than you think. Pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:43 PM
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Nobody ever taught him. He’s asked to learn. They simply don’t want him to know what they’re saying Sis, like shut up already. Yeah he could go find a class. What do you think women do when they dont know a language THEY LEARN, ON THEIR OWN. I know several women who moved to the country I live in, and they learned the language within 6 months! Because they arent a useless pathetic scrote crying about it. "messed up power play". 😂😂😂 Or my partner learned my language (we come from two different co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:08 PM
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When I read this, I am like, dude why the fuck arent you getting help. Its always "boohoo poor me". Be an adult and grow the fuck up already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:52 AM
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This is literally every guy on reddit every time they type something as a comment to a woman. It just has this spirit all over it. Like some loser comments on a relationship advice thread on my comment and you see his profile pic has the NSFW TAG and you just realize it is yet another pornsick bottom feeding loser who wants to "give advice to others". Like idiot. Go to therapy ffs. Also they love saying "misandry" while they wank to women being degraded. I just can't with men. Absolute bottomfee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:46 PM
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I have definitely had arguments with scrotes who self-proclaimed they were a "HVM" (they were commenting on FDS Stuff on twitter). While I could from 1 glance at their tweets/profile see they were NOT HVM, but just another Low value/zero value scrote with visions of grandeur. They may/may not have made 6 figures and been tall, but it does not a HVM make, which somehow these idiots don't seem to grasp. It is like dude, you can't even freaking read and understand FDS and somehow you think you are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:34 PM
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Yeah the news focus solely on the racism aspect, while the focus should be on HE TARGETED WOMEN for a reason. It is a double sided coin of racism AND Misogyny and somehow the media completely glosses of the misogyny aspect. IT is like they literally do not care about women. If it was just about racism, he could have targeted an asian restaurant etc too. It is CLEARLY about a hatred for women because of his misogyny and fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:29 PM
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"he is less controlling" FOR NOW. The abuse will come back and like more than double. Sis, RUN. Divorce and take half of the money he claimed not to have. FUcking asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:34 PM
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BuT PlEaSe ThInK Of ThE PoOr MeN It Is ReAlLY HaRd FoR HiM To ShArE DiS & IF sHe LoVeD hIM ShE wOuLD AcCepT hIS AbUseE!. No but seriously, the amount of dumbass posts like this on reddit, where all this misogynist assholes bound together to defend these men, just like the fart post earlier "OMG THINK OF THE POOR MAN!". Fucking assholes. Someone even wrote as a reply, that I am misandrist. I died laughing, because the projection these degenerate assholes do, is UNREAL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:53 PM
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Yeah poor man! I mean, women has it bad and all BUT IMAGINE NOT BEING ABLE TO DISCUSS YOUR FETISH!!!111one This poor man! He is doing the real suffering by people being disgusted or laughing in his face. MuH PeNiS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:40 PM
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Well. It is why I would never ever date single parents again. It is just not a life style choice for me to be second priority. I think a parent should always prioritize their kids. Kids don't chose to be born or for their parents to split 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:38 PM
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These comments and upvotes makes me want to barf!!! Like wtf. "boohooo poor man" fuck that. He waited till he felt he had trapped her to expose how fucking gross he is. I am certain H e wants her to shit on him too. I am CERTAIN he just started with the "fart" because it is "lesser evil" of straight out admitting you want someone to shit on you. GROSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:03 PM
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Don't introduce men you are dating to your children. I would say for years. A lot of women could learn from lorelai in Gilmore girls. Keep your dating life and kids separate. Kids prefer having their time with their parent anyway. People who introduce their children do it to please themselves or their partner. If you ask most kids don't even want their parent to date again. They want alone time. I think introducing children to a partner before you have dated them for years are done out of pure s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:15 PM
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Also. She is describing her new perfect relationship. What if that isn't true?(as in role tinted Glasses) So many men are pedos these days. You simply won't know. Also a lot of times you can end up picking the same kind of partner despite not wanting to. Considering how many times she took that pedophile back despite being disgusting i would not say she should have any man around her child. Also her pedo ex by the sound of it also assaulted her friend. If she was a responsible mother she would n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:34 PM
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I am sorry but I have zero empathy for a woman going back to a man who is a CHILD ABUSER which she KNEW ABOUT. And picked him up from jail. Idgaf if she had it bad. A child suffered and was molested and she had her own kid around A PEDOPHILE after she knew. I can't with these kind of people. Like #nahsis and also what if her new perfect man turns out to be molesting her kid? It has been seen so many times mothers turning a blind eye on their kids abuse because the abuser is "a wonderful husband"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:02 PM
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Also, posts like these are one of the main reason I am anti kids. What the fuck will your kids grow up with? Like no joke, even if you are an awesome parent and have an amazing kid, the pressure for their peers is going to be insane. They are likely going to be exposed to porn via their friends. How do you fight that? IF you have a guy, it is going to be impossible to "screen" all his friends and make sure they dont share porn, if you have a girl, she is going to end up with some pornsick loser.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:58 PM
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Wtf is this edit. People are fucking sick in the head. "I shouldn't assume wanting affection after sex is normal" WHAT IS THIS SOCIETY WE LIVE IN TODAY? I want to go live somewhere remote, I am so sick of people. A cabin the woods away from all these fucking sickos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:51 PM
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Please tell me she didnt have sex with him.............
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:50 PM
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apparently he has stalked a lot of girls, I think he is escalating it and soon he will attempt a full on rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:48 PM
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That's a whole lot of words for him to describe "Im a total narcisstic loser and you damaged my extremely fragile ego, because deep down under the narcisstic layer i know you are right". He will never acknowledge it or change, so leave the trash where it belongs. In the bin. Block, delete and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:24 PM
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I very much do enjoy you jumping in here to do some mansplaining and talk down though. edit: Also, you are just assuming anyone posting are idiots and dont realise these things, like what? I have a guy with severe autism in our social circle who actually lives in assisted living and he may be "off" at times, but he can totally take social cues as long as they are explained to him. So I dont get your comment at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:02 PM
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My 11 year old son also on the autism spectrum has more emotional intelligence than most grown men I knew. so true, people just dont raise their children correctly. I have seen it so many times, it just shows you are a good mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:16 PM
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people infantilise autistic people A LOT, especially their parents. Often they are not held accountable for any actions because "oh no, poor Steve has autism". Like stop making them into babies and treat them like adults, just because you have autism, it doesnt make them disabled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:15 PM
22

WE ONLY PAY FOR ONLYFANS! NOT DUMB PODCASTS!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:36 PM
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Young women today are told it is empowering to do OnlyFans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:13 PM
16

Men always find new ways to limbo under the bar called "the bare minimum". Pickme women marry them despite of all this.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:10 PM
13

fucking hell! I am so sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:09 PM
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Most men actually realize that they don't have a compulsive need to masturbate every day when they quit porn. It is the brain on porn which creates this need to excessively masturbate. My partner has been verified 100% porn free for a long time now (long story), he pretty much never masturbates on his own, it happens if we dont have sex for like 1-2 weeks or more, and not even every time. Too many men today do not have a healthy relationship with their bodies, because they use masturbation as a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:29 PM
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None argued otherwise. But saying sex addiction isn't real is a load of bollocks and harmful. Men need to go to therapy for it, but this psycho is 100% just hiding behind the excuse of "sex addiction". He should just get the electric chair and be done with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:14 PM
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still somehow people still argue it isnt real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:13 PM
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she is all over twitter with pictures and everything 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:12 PM
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Also they don't even realize that the reason why the ones who claim to love sex work SO SO MUCH and it is SO EMPOWERING for them, is because of their own internalized misogyny and self hate. The brain is a powerful weapon and you can actually brainwash yourself into believing the lies you tell, narcissist do that all the time. The women I see in the industry have no self love or real confidence, they really deduce themselves to be nothing more than an object of desire (same goes for pornactresse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:12 PM
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It was a front, it was a sex clinic (or what it is called) Brothel? The women in there sell sex with massages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:02 PM
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WHAT ARE MEN 🤣🤣🤣 Mood!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:00 PM
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Im sorry, you absolutely deserved and deserve better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:00 PM
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Classic abusive behavior. It is like future faking, but another aspect of it. It is brought up in the book I have talked about so much, it is TYPICAL behavior of a covert narcissist and it is ABUSIVE. You just don't notice it the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:59 PM
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Pickme culture at it's finest with all the comments from other women. I feel ill. For the pickmes lurking: STOP DEFENDING MAN BABIES! PLEASE This man has the emotional maturity of a spoon. Please STOP. Also BEING SINGLE is more empowering than having an emotional stunted man baby as a husband, he drains you and puts you down and you dont even notice it, because you have been groomed by society to accept this useless behavior. She is likely traumabonded and isn't that just some shit. Women, colle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:56 PM
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I feel it is so strange that gambling addiction is seen as a real disease/addiction but sex/porn addiction isn't. I feel like these doctors are covering for a billion dollar industry because they are addicts themselves and other reasons I can not fantom. That they claim it does not meet the clinical definition of a an addiction makes no sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:10 PM
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The epitome of pickme women. I find a lot of sex workers who defend sex work soooo much are seriously lacking in empathy. They do not care 1 bit about the thousands of women and children suffering in sex trafficking. And other women who get conditioned into it, they are too busy defending their source of income
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:07 PM
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there is several studies which show how porn gives the same effect as taking hard drugs such as heroine in the brain. The dopamine hit is INSANE. So it is an addiction 100%. I hate these people who will literally claim it is not an addiction, they are a part of the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:35 PM
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Also that she completely wants to gloss over the fact that the killer was a FREQUENT visitor of those sex parlous, so he was LIVING OUT HIS FANTASIES in real life. He went on a murder spree after he got BANNED. So please tell me how it comes from "a place of shame and not accepting ones sexuality" when in reality is a porn-addict with a fetish for Asian women and a shit ton of misogyny who went violent after being denied something he felt entitled to. He hated those women 100% and he was hatefuc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:14 PM
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I am so sorry you have to live through that. I won't even pretend to understand it, but I can just relate to the own sexism I have received for being born a girl and then imagine how awful it must be for WoC being fetizhed and have to live through racism day after day. I am sorry that people suck so fucking much, I just take comfort in FDS. Because it gives me some faith in humanity, but I cant even grasp how many gross people there are in the world. They fucking suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:10 PM
6

Because it is hilarious and also SO SO sad at the same time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:43 AM
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Because it doesn't get their peepee's hard! They get off on degrading women, not empowering them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:42 AM
6

It seems odd to me that you can't afford a nanny, but you having 0 income would be worth it? (I don't live in the US). Why cant your kids go to daycare and then get a part time house keeper? 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ That is how I would do it. Someone who comes in a few hours each day to clean/put over dinner, do the laundry. No way that is more expensive than losing an entire salary. That is how it works here, both parents usually work full time and then pick their kids up from daycare. Some moms or dads wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:24 AM
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👏👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:21 AM
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A lot of internalized misogyny to unpack in that one. She is complete glossing over the fact that women at large has communicated SO MUCH. Women are the communicative gender, men are not. Are you kidding me? STOP BLAMING WOMEN and stop babying men sis. I hope she gets picked. The perfect example of this was a post here, where a woman said he ex had dropped a packet of banana laffy taffy at her door with a note saying "You said I never listened to you, but I did, so I got you your favorite laffy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:20 AM
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HE DIDNT EVEN STOP WHEN SHE WALKED UP TO A GROUP OF PEOPLE. SICK TWISTED FUCK. I am so upset watching this, that poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:11 AM
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they are predators. That is why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:06 AM
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Sis, read or listen to the audio book https://www.amazon.com/Covert-Passive-Aggressive-Narcissist-Psychological-ebook/dp/B078KXGS98/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=covert+over+narc&qid=1616056438&sr=8-1 I know I am promoting it so much, but it really made SO much sense for me and past relationships. What he was doing to you is covert abuse and manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:01 AM
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He said "you too bro" I CAN'T. WTF did I read. This fucking man. WOW. You should post this in the "male appreciation post". Like MEN ARE SO GREAT AND GENTLE 🤣😂😂😂 This is what men is. Trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:59 AM
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A comment from that thread: " I never thought I was good, until she said how safe she feels with me. That made me want to work out so I know I can protect her, that made me want to work harder so I can provide for her, that made me go to therapy because I didn't want to dump unresolved trauma on her. Words really matter. " BARF. Also, the whole comment section is a shit ton of misogyny..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:28 AM
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"I was not expecting this to blow up" WHAT A LOAD OF HORSESHIT. 🤡🤡🤡 Liar liar, pants on fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:24 AM
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DON'T 👏 GET 👏 IN 👏 A 👏 CAR 👏 ON 👏 A 👏 FIRST 👏 DATE. Like giiiiiiiiiiiiiirl. If a guy treats you like this, he one 100% expects sex and will treat you like shit. These emo type guys are honestly the WORST. I used to date these kind of guys when I was younger, they are all trash and predators. You think they are "misunderstood" and "edgy", nah, they are just predators. Look at all the youtube scandals regarding young girls targeted by famous emo guys. It is GROSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:21 AM
12

She can fuck right off. Sis why dont you go suck all their dicks collectively then. Leave the rest of women ALONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:15 AM
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I feel like he is just saying that as a way to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:13 AM
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it is because the OP is clearly a misogynist incel, so he is like "women aren't taught how to behave, but men is". I had to laugh out loud at the absurdity of that post. It is like these people live in their own little universe called "insanity ville"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:05 AM
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This was so gross to watch. I stopped after a few minutes. Misogyny off the charts. It was like watching the reddit incel forum take life form. He is talking like women only want free meals. Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:47 PM
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she needs to leave her boyfriend in the process. If she feels she has none else around, then often that is how women get stuck in these situations. Hence the comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:21 PM
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Can you please tell this poor girl he relationship was already ruined as soon as he said he would break up with her if she had an abortion. It is a BLARING RED SIREN in her face that he is abusive, manipulative and controlling. What she should do I leave him. Hopefully she has family who can support and help her, because it just makes it so much easier with love and support, but she can do it on her own too. She needs help from others, she needs to break up with him AND LEAVE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:34 PM
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They always find a way to blame the women don't they.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:31 PM
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Because those men are psychotic and will go to any lengths to get what they want aka rotating women on a plate. Also what you are describing is textbook narcissist. He did not mean what he said, he is unable to love anyone. They use these things as a weapon and it is very easy to get caught up in their webs if you aren't vigilant. They are unable to form emotions, so he has to leech them off you and then make sure he has you "trapped" in one capacity or other. I would advice the book I shared in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:29 PM
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Reddit in a nutshell. All are a bunch of porn sick incels with 0 connection to anything remotely resembling reality. They have 0 love or empathy towards women and just think "women no touch crusty small dick, WoMeN BaD"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:02 PM
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Men are taught how to treat women? So all men got taught to treat us like sex objects, YEAH AREN'T I FUCKING GRATEFUL FOR THAT?! the fucking twat that wrote this. God what a disgusting piece of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:01 PM
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Translation: I don't mean to reduce a woman to a car, but I just did. Also I completely view my wife as my "Property" and a "sexy new toy" so I am exclusively with her for bragging rights with my bro's. Also I am emotionally stunted and kind of a sociopath, so I don't actually love my wife, I just loves how she makes me look. It is all about my own ego getting stroked constantly, like I am constantly stroking my pathetic greasy dick to all kind of porn which degrades women. Degradation of women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:54 PM
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well I would honestly be fine, you do that approach. I dont mind other people doing what they think best, but I have 0 desire to sugarcoat these kind of things. Women have been taught that their entire lives. I would say trying to approach with the women on breaking mom for instance, gently- prodding etc. in most cases, you go out of your way to be nice and you are ignored 🤷‍♀️ (or you end up in an argument) I feel like telling the truth, if you arent being nasty/mean about it, is what it is. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:49 PM
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I agree completely, I hate the song, but I also feel the reason why all these fucking scrotes are so triggered by it, is because she owns her own sexuality. They do not want women to enjoy sex, that is crude and vulgar. But wanking their crusty dongs to porn all day is healthy and normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:47 PM
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yeah but the world is hard and I think sugarcoating things does not help anything. I think this extreme victimization of women in general brings the opposite effect of what is intended, it ends up keeping women where they are instead of propelling them forward. Telling women to get their shit together and that they are acting like a complete clown is a hard to swallow pill for many, but it needs to be said. She needs to hear it and she needs to own her mistakes. One giant mistake is dating that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:36 PM
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I feel like adults need to be held responsible for their own actions. She knows this is bs and choses to ignore it. HER PROBLEM then. Women need to be called out on own pickme ways as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:56 PM
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The audio book is excellent too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:27 PM
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I feel like that should be a pinned post on FDS . Women didn't radicalize us Men did!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:26 PM
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This was embarrassing and pathetic to read. It is like some people just want to be stupid. It is like, I can't even feel bad for this woman. She is a grown ass person and she decides she is all cool with these dates. She dropped these 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 I bet he he would start monitoring how much toilet paper she uses etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:30 AM
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Also WhY IsNt JeSSIcA MoRe NaKeD for MuH PeNiS?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:41 AM
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Sounds like a redpiller you encountered. I am so sorry, the only comforting fact is. You realized what he was doing, and blocked/deleted him and learned a valuable lesson. My best advice is, listen to your gut- ALWAYS. Do not listen to their lip service. IF your gut says "girl no!". Block/delete move on. We need to learn to trust out gut/intuition it is your best defense and friend in so many situations. Don't fall for their grand gestures. A lot of narcissists have perfected it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:33 AM
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👏👏👏👏 nothing but facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:27 AM
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the best part is on my phone I sometimes see "new message" but I have it turned off, so I don't see said message. I laugh out loud when I see it, because I know some scrote got triggered and messaged me, and he is just screaming into the void, because didn't read LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:24 AM
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"took revenge against women" FOR WHAT? Gotta love the Zero Value Male projection. 👌👌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:23 AM
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Can confirm. Of the handful of guys who are actually good people whom I know, do not spend the majority of their time on Reddit. I actually have a few friends which are gamers and they mostly read posts on RPGhorrorstories or on their specific games. They dont spend their time on main reddit and they never discuss or leave comments on other parts. They are too busy living their lives (despite being gamers). The gamer friends I have actually spend their majority of their time with their girlfrien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:16 AM
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This sentiment "people who say that their partner looking at naked people/ masturbating to them doesnt bother them are wild" - Agreed 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:26 PM
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Exactly. Could not have said it better myself, even if 10% are genuinely good people, it does not make up for the other 90 % of pure nasty shit men. I can respect some of the men actually speaking up and calling out other men, but the general man sees evil and does nothing. That is what evil needs to grow, "good" people doing nothing. While I see as the men who see bad things but do not do anything about it, they arent as good as they think they are. If one wants to have proof that "not all men"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:46 PM
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Yeah, it is always MuH PeNiS. I am so so sick of men at large in general. Despite knowing a few good eggs, there are JUST SO MANY fucking assholes. I swear to god. I feel like 90 % of all men are trash. That is saying a lot, I used to be this "Cool girl men are the best" and men managed to 100% turn me Radfem. They did it themselves through their shitty and disgusting actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:53 PM
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I wish I could write about "My kink" in the same way The Pink Pill used to do. My kink would be to do the same thing to that man that he did to these poor women. Minus the sex part. And then say it on mainstream Reddit "DoNt KiNk ShAmE mE" "I haVe A SeRiOuS AdDiCtIoN".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:31 PM
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Ah yes, Sex work is so empowering. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:28 PM
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Haha, you have nothing to be embarrassed about at all. I think you three ladies in the podcast all sound like 🔥🔥🔥 We have all been too much libfem pickme in the past. Something about the whole "women should sell their bodies to men for empowerment" just never sat right with me. I was such a coolgirl, but libfeminism never really seemed like empowerment for me. I always hated porn and I didnt want my boyfriend to watch it, but ended up compromising because people kept telling me I was the problem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:21 PM
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He got roasted in the comments. Thank god for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:35 PM
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A glorious campfire where you can burn men's opinions all night long :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:35 PM
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Does this apply to all ages, though? I’m genuinely asking because I wouldn’t agree about this for students but maybe there’s something I’m missing. Nah, it depends on the situation as IN, do you make more money than him etc. If you are at home such as her, YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED, because as you see now. She is left with nothing. He wrote it like she didnt contribute to his career, but I am certain she contributed a lot for him to reach his goals. If a man says "I dont want to marry you yet beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:26 PM
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He almost sounded genuine in the first half, but then it was just straight to "I want a sexdoll to stick my dick in, but I want zero commitment" Like dude, GTFO. Hinge is supposed to be for serious people, but the scrotes just gotta plaster themselves all over things like that, so it becomes just like tinder. 🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:20 PM
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I would advice any women that even CONSIDER taking this advice to head over to Breakingmom, any relationship sub on reddit or Love after porn. Then tell me the VaLuE Of A MaN. These "men" are not worth shit, they are pornaddicted, cheaters or just nasty narcisstics who don't help out at home at all, while constantly de-valuing their wives. The wives who get treated like garbage despite being over backwards for years, often end up getting cheated on and replaced by "that 20's something co worker"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:05 PM
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Bloody Balls. How about if you publish the podcast on spotify? I am pretty sure they have a more open policy on these things, especially since it is a Swedish company. One more reason why I hate Apple. I never buy any apple products for many reasons, but this censorship is another reason to the list for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:01 PM
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Great podcast, very humorous. I only wished Lilith would have shared her story more in details as she did here on FDS, because I loved her post. It was very humorous and a great thing to share with newbies. But I understand the reason why she cut it short might be for protection. It absolutely enrages me that we have to be so scared of sharing any tiny bit of information about ourselves because of the scrote brigade. It disgusts me that men can't just leave us alone and let us have these things …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:13 PM
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yeah it made me not believe in the justice system at all. The guy who did it is married and has several kids with his wife. He had told one of my friends he was going "to get with her" and she is a part of a special music community and they kicked him out of the facebook group and people made posts about him being a disgusting rapist. But the police/court system did NOTHING. They said literally "it is your word vs his". One of his friends was willing to testify on her behalf, didnt matter. It is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:14 AM
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Well even if you can tell everyone he raped u there is no repercussions. Trust me. There is no safety in your friend knowing you are there. People knew where Sara Evard was going too. She was still raped and killed. A friend of mine was drugged and raped at a private party. She had People witnessing on her behalf. The case was put down and no court or anything. They told her it was his word vs hers. So if you believe People knowing where you are will protect you. The you can end up being in real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:47 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhILcuoVhgE Watch this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:01 PM
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I would be worried and take a step back and re-valuate the situation and MOST IMPORTANTLY - DO NOT GET ATTACHED. Healthy adults understands boundaries and any normal person are guarded regarding their feelings, they dont over-engage because if they have feelings invested they do not want to get hurt. Narcissists do love bombing because they have NOTHING to lose, they are totally unable to love anyone but themselves, so that is why they do it. I would advice you to read "why does he do that" even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:00 PM
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Sis needs to dump his ass and start reading books on psychology like yesterday. Time to level up and read about these things. Love bombers are dangerous, they can do big numbers on your mental health. DUMP HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:20 PM
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Came here to say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:27 PM
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Agreed with that you said. If I was to ever be pregnant, I have absolutely certainty my partner would stop drinking just to support me. Any high value man would offer it without even thinking about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:11 PM
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Eminem "Im coming". It is a pretty low value song, but catchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:09 PM
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A man willing to spend money on you also shows you he values you. The first guy just wanted to get his dick wet. It is not about the money, it is about men showing you as a woman have value. Most men think a lot about money, just look at Reddit. If you insist on a guy taking you out and paying you are instantly removing a shit ton of LVM, men who use the red pill etc will not pay for dates. So you save yourself time and heartache from simply eliminating these assholes from the start. Also I woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:08 PM
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❤💕❤ I just want to send her these, I just watched the trailer and it touched me. I am going to watch the show now. Seems to be SUCH an important message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:03 PM
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The reason he had such a meltdown is because he is a fucking rapist. Any guy who isn't mentally unhinged would never ever have such a reaction. If a guy flips when you say that, he had the intention of something sinister, perhaps even planned to drug you and assault you. Fucking psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:37 PM
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Please read the gift of fear. You need it. It will also help you discern if this guy is actually harmless or something more sinister. There has been MANY cases of men like that (Incel like) end up murdering women due to rejection. Please don't make any rash decisions but read that book first. It is available as audio book as well, your life may depend on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:31 PM
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Maybe instead of these men being so obsessed with FDS they should go collectively wash their asses. How about that. Use their energy on something useful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:14 AM
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It is a joke right? the guy wrote this poem as a joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:12 AM
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Yeah I don't think you should shame yourself for it either. You grow and learn. And when you have a lot of bad experiences with women and girls growing up ofcourse it shapes your world view. I tried so hard back then and they treated me so badly. You are here now and growing. I am an avid feminist these days and radical. We live and learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:45 PM
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Same sis, SAME. I used to be such a indirect MRA feminist (not actual MRA, but I sympathized so much with men). I was always defending men, left and right, and when I found FDS I just realized how much of an idiot I was in my early 20's. Everything out of my mouth was "poor menz". I was the cool girl trope, I was the cool girl from Gone Girl. I was the blow job Queen! I always had a lot of guy friends growing up, because honestly a lot of women/girls was really nasty towards me. I was always the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:56 PM
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because she picks men in her life, who does not treat her with respect or dignity, and she then stays with them despite being a rich musician who can literally do whatever she wants. If you keep staying around men who want to love you like you deserve, but you are desperate to keep around, then you are a pickme. I dont really listen much to her music, I think she makes catchy beautiful music, but her lyrics are literally pickme central: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsEZmictANA this is from 20…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:06 PM
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I also just want to talk about how pretty she is, I am jealous. This is why men hate FDS, they know these absolute stunners also have a brain, and say no, and they can't deal with it. This is a Queen they will never have and it makes them sooooo mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:27 PM
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Well I just call it like I see it 😁 but it should always be about maximum female benefit. For me marriage includes risks and I don't want to risk every marrying someone not worthy so I keep vetting. I think waiting with marriage until you truly know someone is not always a bad idea. As i said. Men can show commitment In other ways. A lot of married men cheat and are awful husbands, so I don't see marriage as any guarantee for anything. I think every woman should do what benefits her the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:59 PM
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I dont doubt she is a victim by any means. Likely early childhood abuse. But she takes it so far, she can actually be dangerous to others. That whole dog part sat really ill with me. I dont know if she wrote some of it for shock factor, like some patients will do that but that doesn't mean they aren't a victim. Some women will actually partake in abuse of other womem/children too. And those women are dangerous. I dont know if she would take it that far, but her story was scary to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:53 PM
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So he did nothing for you to make you feel special on valentine's. But he should get a steak and a bj. He can fuck right off!!! 🤬 I get it is not easy, but get your ducks in a row and get a divorce. You will be thankful for it for the rest of your life once it is done. It may take time but don't drag it out. Just start the process and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:46 PM
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Yeah poor men. Boohoo these poor men. We all know the evil harpies over at dead room are not even trying. It is not like everything single one of those women have tried and over time became burned out for being a mom. Maid. Nanny. Housekeeper etc. While these disgusting scrotes sit on their ass all day wanking to porn. But no. It is always these poor men. Booohooo his evil wife is not loving him. Boooo 😭😭😭😭 but now he finally found an escort to understand and hear his sob story. It is like the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:43 PM
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She has so many issues i dont even know where to start. This was insane to read. Just pure insane. She needs a lot of years in therapy and considering the stuff she wrote in the first post it seems to be about attention too? Like she gets off on people reading her depravity. I honestly don't know. I dont know if women like her would even accept help. I honestly think she wrote the first piece of horny male attention as a part of her trauma response (kinkmeisha) and then second piece she sounds t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:37 PM
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Please tell me you are planning on getting a divorce. I am not even joking. What did he do for you for valentines? Did he get you thoughtful presents, flowers and made you breakfast? That is why my partner did. Not once did he complain, he was happy to do it. Time to get rid of your LVM, it may take time to plan your exit, but please tell me you are doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:44 PM
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I agree with this sentiment. If you want marriage and he is dragging his feet. It is a big old red flag. But some women like myself do not want to get married for other reasons. If you have your life together and have financial independence marriage can really fuck your life. A man can show commitment in other ways than marriage, but it is important to not make excuses for your man. You shouldbe getting what you want in life. I am sooopo glad i didnt marry my N ex because it would have been horr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:21 PM
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Another rapist e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:57 AM
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He is going to rape and murder some girl. Notice how he also went after young girls. Absolute sicko
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:56 AM
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I can't imagine sending a comment like that to my friend, her husband's rude and she's inconsiderate to even repeat such an asshole comment. Jepp. If my man ever made a comment like that (he would never) I would not even put his name on the birth certificate and I would dump/ divorce his ass so fast it would make his head spin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:12 PM
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I am so disgusted by this whole story, her "friend" KNOWS she has that many girls AND has difficult pregnancies and then has the audacity to write that to her. So disgusting also the more you dissect it "bragging" about having a boy just makes you a disgusting person, like "oh boys are better" and then she ends it with "he's the sweetest". Like no hun, you are married to a misogynist asshole and you are a trash person who just humble bragged and put down your friend. Trash people both her and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:00 PM
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I love in the end when he falls and you see the ass crack 🤣😂 Such a scrote thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:01 AM
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I am in a happy relationship and men approach, stare and oggle me ALL THE TIME. I can't even do a simple work out at the gym without some scrote being disgusting. It is FRUSTRATING. I want to have a sign above me that says "STOP LOOKING AT ME, STOP STARING, I AM NOT A SEX OBJECT". Even when my partner is with me it happens. It is like they can't control their pornsick gazes. I usually dont even wear make up or anything to do the gym, I dont wear revealing clothes or anything and they will STILL …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:57 AM
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Looking at this vile human 🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:29 AM
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Nono, making jokes about men dying is not okay, But sub Reddits where they share rape porn and women actually getting raped, is fine! Reddit in a nutshell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:27 AM
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This is not even remotely funny, what is wrong with these people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:23 AM
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I am guessing you already pointed this lovely lady to FDS 😊 She is right, and that is why we have 142k queens on this sub. Because there are no other spaces on Reddit for women only with this sort of traction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:15 AM
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Usually it's those couples who overshare and have a picture perfect romance who have the most issues behind the scenes. I know people are going to downvote you to hell for your comment above, but this thing you said right here, is SO true, because they people who overshare and put EVERYTHING online all the time crave validation from others and are often huge narcisstics, narcissistic people are not capable of loving anyone but themselves. I am not diagnosing this guy at all though, but women nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:11 AM
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I agree, I do NOT believe people who put on a big show in front of everyone and post video's of it online. It just rings completely wrong to me and I get narcisstic vibes from this sort of thing. There is absolutely nothing wrong with showing your partner how much you love them in front of others, but he is going SO over the top in his vows. I hope I am just jaded as well and they are happy, that he loves her and he never cheats on her and it is not a facade, but real emotions. (Problem is when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:07 AM
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He talks like a secret agent because he is a worhless scrote with no life. All he has is the fanfiction he writes online. This is made up 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:49 AM
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The thing that gives it off as fake is the language he uses when describing everything. He is using a lot of their red pill lingo to get "bro high fives" from the other idiots. It is so made up. This guy has never felt a woman's touch i am certain of it, he is some incel jerking it to porn and making up fanfiction online. I know some pickme women and NONE would make a 20 slide PowerPoint. It is so fake. I am certain he got the idea from the big bang episode where Sheldon makes a PowerPoint to ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:47 AM
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I love in the end when he falls and you see the ass crack That shit cracked me up 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:36 AM
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On today's episode of THINGS THAT NEVER HAPPENED. this did not happen. It is absolutely 100% fiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:26 AM
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So the incels get at length interviews in the article. But not a single mod got an interview in the FDS article. What the fuck. Imagine being that much of a bias level pick me that you advocate for incels but throw women under the bus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:25 AM
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True. I am betting all the men in the manosphere are sitting and flipping being like "omg fds want men to die" 🙄💩😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:30 PM
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I wish someone would show that poor woman his post so she could move on from this absolute scrote and never look back. What a pathetic piece of trash. I hope everyone told him to break it off, so another woman will be saved from these trash men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:36 PM
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GuYs ThIs Is MiSaNdRy! ThInK OF HiS pEnIs. Also, why are women so entitled? This poor man just want to live his best life and be happy, does he not deserve happiness? He is probably depressed too, have she tried communicating with him? Perhaps she should suggest a threesome, open relationships are really in right now, and very beneficial to women!!! also why is this harpy gatekeeping his hard earned cash!!!!!! Will Someone PLEASE think of these poor men! Men's mental health is no joke! and the b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:24 PM
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The only bet I will be placing, is the one saying it is not FDS'ers sending her hate messages, but MEN. I am certain of it. I dont want to give this idiot anymore attention, she is a hopeless pickme case and she will rather defend the men sending her rape threats, than open her eyes and realize she lied about FDS. That is her problem, not ours. So let us move on, and leave her behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:14 PM
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Agreed. I actually think this sub has gotten a lot better at moving on from things. I have been around for over a year and it used to be a lot more "Get your pitchforks!", I like it better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:12 PM
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When you know someone in a abusive relationship you can't share it with that person, because their partner/abuser will be sitting there right next them, and it will alienate them and create a rift in your friendship. I just pray that the victims see it and it helps open their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:54 PM
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I would mention (with caution) getting a pet can really help and bring light into your life. I completely love animals and I think they make great companions, so it is something to consider. Depending on your situation home/work and how responsible you are, no pet should be brought into your life lightly ofcourse, but if you dont have time/energy for a cat or dog, hamsters or small pets are also excellent companions, even nurturing and caring for a fish can be very mindful. A pet is a year long …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:44 PM
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To piggyback off this: it is hard right now due to covid, but look into things you can do, interests etc. A lot of ladies have zoom/teams meeting where they do things together. Like the commenter said - book club, or knitting or even "arts and crafts together". I dont know if you like me have trauma in your past, but there is also different support grps for women, that get together on zoom, paint and talk about that trauma, or just being together (for example children of narcisstic parents etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:37 PM
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I laughed way too much because of this. Can you imagine all the scrotes laying about in a pile in the dead of winter. Dying and freezing to death because mommy bangmaid kicked them out 😂😂😂 for the survival of the colony
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:29 PM
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😵🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:26 PM
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☝☝👌 how to be a HVM husband and dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:25 PM
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All of you ladies deserve these amazing men in your lives. It is so great to hear! 🌺 Well examples i would share was as I wrote in another comment. He makes me coffee every morning and brings it to me. I drink a latte.(where he warms and foams the milk) Never once has he said "omg can't you just drink regular coffee" he just enjoys making me happy . When we first started dating he drove 3 hours after work just to see me right away despite being super tired. He got me a cat despite being allergic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:22 PM
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Thank you for advising this i will read it! I have read some of why does he do that but it didn't mention how to help a woman in an abusive relationship. That i can recall at least. I know this guy is abusive. It is just not as horrible as other men do. From what I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:33 PM
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Omg sis. I am so glad you posted this because I am in the same kind of situation. 4 years together with a man with a lot of high value traits. But I am not super keen on marriage. I understand women who wants to seal the deal etc. But I don't have any need for that confirmation. Marriage has never been on the forefront for me. I have a good job and stable economy and so does my partner. I know he wants to marry me and I have zero doubt about his commitment. The only reason I see for us would be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:13 PM
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My partner make me coffee every single morning and brings it to me. I drink a latte. So he warms and foams the milk and then prepare it how I like it. Every single day. I drink a different brand of coffee than the one he prefers too, so in the mornings he drinks that brand because it is the coffee he puts on because it is the one I like. #if he wanted to he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:05 PM
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Don't feed the trolls. This guy is writing this shit just to get a raise out of women. He is literally just saying it to make women upset and to get attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:39 PM
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I barfed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:05 PM
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Imagine being this much of a garbage person to write this to another. Like, no words. I wish he would fuck off for all eternity and never show his face anywhere ever again. PoS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:04 PM
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Yeah like, can we they please fuck off with their femcel rhetoric. I have an acquaintance. She is actually a very nice girl overall, a bit naive, but she is a good friend who loves and supports her friends. She is fun to be around and very pleasant to EVERYONE. However she is a huge pickme, with very low self asteem. She is overweight and not conventionally attractive by any means, and I am telling you she has slept with SO MANY men. Because MEN DONT care. I feel so bad for her, because she like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:52 PM
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I know her childhood was shit and she has some trauma in her bag. But I just wish she would get rid of him. She is turning 28 years old soon, she deserves better than to waste her life on that POS. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:44 PM
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I have a close friend who is a strong woman, she is amazing and emphatic and a great friend, BUT she is a huge pickme when it comes to men. She actually does have standards, doesn't do ONS etc. But she got herself an abusive 0 value man and REFUSES to listen to advice about him. It breaks my heart. I have tried so many times to reason, discuss and explain and it just goes for deaf ears. They have been together for years at this point, this pathetic man has no job (FOR 2 years now) 0 income, sits…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:46 PM
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When men make jokes about fucking other women Hun, they are not joking. These "so called jokes" are not jokes at all. They thought about fucking your family and other women, men are dumb as shit, they tell on themselves ALL THE TIME. It is a hard lesson to learn. As soon as any man makes an inappropriate joke, DUMP HIM and move on. Only trash men make jokes like that. I am sorry you had to suffer this toxic situation and it has given you this much anxiety, but now you can finally be free, move o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:11 AM
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Dump his ass and dont look back. You will thank us for it later. Listen to your mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:07 AM
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👏👏👏🔥 You dropped this 👑 The people truly worth listening to, are the ones who CHANGED who they were, grew and became better for it. You would not be who you are without your past.. We have all been there. These stories are OH SO important to share, so the newbies that us "hardcore FDS ladies" we have BEEN there, in those shoes and then we leveled the hell up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:56 AM
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Psychotic liar male detected. They really will go to any lengths to discredit women and will sit there lying and making up utter bs to try and make us out to be "insane". We are the modern suffragettes. They can't stand it. Also getting a man to sleep with you is FUCKING EASY. I know there is some psychotic pickme's in the world who has perpetuated violence towards men, but they are not on FDS. If such a woman would make her way to our sub and posted that, her post would be removed and she would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:48 AM
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God these men are pathetic. It is all they worry about is their porn. Anyone else that just see Gollum with the ring every time one of these losers make a post? "My PRECIOUS!" Some bald scrote jerking off 24/7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:36 AM
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men are so fucking gross. 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:35 AM
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Yeah, you see the same shit over and over. Like women talking about rape, a chorus of men start chiming in "What about the men?!". They just do it to invade female spaces and to get women to shut up. They dont give a shit about the other men, or anyone for that matter. It is simply an oppression tactic. I do however love documenting it and sharing it for the world. The more this is shared, how hypocritical and disgusting these "not all men" are, the more people open their eyes to the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:26 AM
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Men always tell om themselves 🙄🤦‍♀️ ThE LoGiCaL SeX 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:39 AM
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second this, I have seen A LOT OF cases late teens/20's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:05 AM
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For the male lurkers: To piggyback off this, can we discuss how critics keep chiming in on how FDS will do like the incels and start murdering/raping men and plan riots and what not. They are a 100% serious while writing this about us too. Like dude, that is your MALE VIOLENCE speaking. The large majority of FDS are highly emphatic women, we are never going to get together on how to rape and murder men. Are you serious? That is your own sick male-entitled twisted mind speaking. So stop projectin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:05 AM
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It is clearly the evil harpies of FDS who are the problem! Did you see her article on incels? I literally can't with women like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:50 AM
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We're making fun but if she ever decided to come here and really want to learn and be better we'd welcome her. jepp. But i'd bet money on it that women like here never want to better themselves, she comes off as extremely self righteous and she enjoys putting down other women for male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:14 AM
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difference is, she claimed said messages was from FDS users. That is what I have a hard time believing her claims about "demented abuse from FDS" and she refused to share those PM's. I absolutely believe men and trolls would target her, like the rest. But she claimed it was FDS Users.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:08 AM
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The men around me agrees very much with was is said on FDS. I dont show them the sub. But share things and opinions. I would never hang around men who don't support women. Any man speaking out about fds are always disgusting misogynists. Just debated this creep on Twitter and he showd his true colors right away. Male entitlement was off the charts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:09 PM
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One of the og founders I linked some more things in my comments on this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:12 PM
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Well considering she was so quick to scream bloody murder. But refuses to share any screenshots of the nasty dms I think she is full of shit. She is literally posting all this random crap on all social media platforms and wS quick to tweet about abuse. But refuse to share evidence. The pickme who cried wolf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:27 PM
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Juuuuuuuuuuupp. Also, he is CLEARLY the exakt kind of man he is warning women about in this tiktok. How does these men not see the fucking irony of their own speeches/actions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:20 PM
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LOL. I was having a discussion with her on my twitter account, she did not answer half my questions. She did answer some (which I can no longer see) because she blocked me. I was being cordial, nice and simply asking questions. She blocked me. I asked to see proof of the harassment she received, she refused to send it and said I should look at our sub reddit. Granted perhaps we can be harsh and a little mean spirited. But that is literally the internet for you. I have received so much more hatre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:08 PM
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They dont admit to gang-raping her. They admit they had "group sex while watching porn". She was 13-14 years old. It is rape YOU SICK FUCKS. I am so so so angry reading it. Absolutely disgusting. 20 adult firefighters groomed a teenage girl and then gang raped her. It is the most vile thing I have read in quite a while. Fuck this planet, I want to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:44 PM
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yeah you are correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:42 PM
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Also can we talk about his user name though- Heathwild69 I'm fucking dead again. You can't make this shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:28 PM
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you guys crack me up 🤣Im dead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:26 PM
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I dont think she has honestly read out Reddit. I think she looked at the handbook and not much further. Other than that neutering article, which is like- How old? and was a protest towards abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:21 PM
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yeah none is perfect, and it is easy to miss things in writing and then you dont always think about how other people will read/perceive it. And I hear you. As I said I am pretty sure I am BI, but society kind of condition you into the role of "straight" and then gross men being like "kiss" to other girls when I was younger. I have some true horror stories regarding that. I would never come out to my family. My relationship with my parents are strained, so if I ever had a female partner, I am not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:58 PM
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A FUCKING POLICE OFFICER TOO!!!! Yeah what the actual fuck. I get how sick, twisted and depraved men we deal with, but ON TOP it is the fucking men that is supposed to keep us safe. I say tie him up in the street and let people throw rotten food at him, he deserves to be publicly ridiculed and punished for this crime. Jail is too good for this piece of shit. He deserves way way worse treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:36 PM
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Yeah and I argued with one of them and she went "Omg why are you so rude" when I was literally just stating facts and asking her for the reason behind her comment. She then got super rude and started insulting FDS as a whole, but also our users. I then told her I was done talking to her and blocked her. Then I login this morning to this below and I died laughing. She got so mad at me arguing and then blocking her, she decides to try and neg me with a suicidewatch bot. I cant even 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Like sis, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:31 PM
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This post applies to a lot of the newbies here on FDS too. If they receive any sort of criticism or FDS Veterans criticize them or even dare question the things they say, they go "😭😭😭" "ThE WoMeN Of FdS aRe GaTeKeEpiNg ThE SuB" or scream about how mean and rude we are to other women, which none was being at all. And when I read them whining and crying I sit here like: First time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:07 PM
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EDIT: Also, I don't think its very respectful to lesbians to "experiment" with them. You either are lesbian or you're not. I know lesbians hate it when straight women try to sleep with them. I agree completely and I apologize if any lesbians took my comment the wrong way. None deserves to be treated as an experiment for other people. Personally I have considered before I might be BI, because I have found certain women very attractive, but I have never explored that side of myself. It is not some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:58 PM
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So fucking true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:40 PM
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Oh she totally did it on purpose to insult her. Typical pickme Low value rhetoric. Someone calls them out on their journalistic work and they retort with calling them ma'am and Karen. So all their followers can pat them on their back on what a good feminist they are and all can then laugh at the "dumb Karen" who actually brought up a valid point. It's like kindergarten on social media platforms. I have seen it so many times and it makes me disgusted by humanity as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:50 PM
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He was ugly when he was young too like what 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:02 PM
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Considering the way vice is built and works she fits in perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:00 PM
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One of my dear friends wrote her and asked about the article. She responded with calling her Ma'am and then a rude insult. My friend is in her early 20's. Pickmes are truly the scourge of all women. They do the men's job for them and shut on other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:59 PM
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I get it though. I think your points are valid. And I get why many women swear off men. Because they are disgusting in many cases. But I just think it is silly for me to defend my friends. Because FDS is not here to debate the other side. As much as I hate the majority of men I do have some lovely friends which I have known for years and years. And I absolutely trust them and have thoroughly vetted them. They have done many things which has earned my trust. And one example is that they cut off a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:53 PM
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🤭😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:45 PM
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Hahaha I get it. I dont think he is super hot or someone I would even fancy. But he does look good to alot of womem and gets a lot of women. I am certain of it . But he is definitely not as hot as he think he is. I like longer hair. He is fit (muscled arm). Pretty eyes and clearly puts a lot of effort into his clothes and jewelery. Which is why I would say he is a guy that looks good. He has a kind of gruffy charm too. Even if he doesn't float your goat you got to admit if you put him next to a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:45 PM
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He is just trying to sound smart! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:39 PM
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Someone had posted that covid vaccine turns you lesbian. So here is hoping for you 🤞 but joking aside. I get it. I am pretty blessed I don't live in the US. I have actually met decent men that weren't gross predator creeps and together with one. A lot of men i know where raised to respect women. It does not seem to be the case in the US. At all. If I lived there i would turn lesbian. For sure. There are plenty of gross men here too. Don't get me wrong and I despise them. I can't believe how much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:33 PM
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Men brigading from their MRA and going "their own way". I really sincerely wish they would just go their own way already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:25 PM
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Yeah. This is why I am not married. I actually had several men propose but turned them down. I am in no way wanting to get married to someone turning into being a pos. Currently dating for 4 years and we discussed marriage. But I am in no hurry. I want to be 100% certain before I am tying myself down to anyone. Always keep vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:17 PM
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I actually think our sub has gotten brigaded. It was 3/4 on women saying yes and 1/4 who said no. And now it is up to 50/50. But we know its 3/4 in the early samples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:17 PM
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Well isn't he one of those exact douche bags he is talking about himself?? Because he sure gives off extreme douche vibes in this video. 🥴 Like he isn't super into himself... I think he looks good, I like men who accessorize to the T and care about their looks. But don't tell me this guy does not have a massive ego too. I am certain he is pumping and dumping girls left and right. So what douche bags are we supposed to look out for? Him? Yeah. Got it. 🤭🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:48 PM
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Howard stern. King of the scrotes 💩💩💩 that is his crown. Imagine being married to that. Letting him put his gross dick in you and bearing his children 😵😵🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:41 PM
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Latest news from Captain Obvious - Women want attractive men!!! Someone alert the presses, BREAKING NEWS STUFF! Just another day on TRP (I think it stands for The Retard Pill) you take it and you become retarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:32 PM
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Holy hell. Sis I am glad you are FINALLY FREE. This is why we advocate strongly to women, never to give more than one chance. These men never change. He did not deserve your love, your support or your kids. Do not give him anymore chances. I know it will be hard, and there are moments your resolve with weaken, but STAY STRONG. He will come crawling again and beg your forgiveness, trust me, they always do. You need to prepare yourself mentally for this. My best advice, don't listen to him. Don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:23 PM
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When CNN Business reached out to McInnes by text message about what Dubuc had written, he replied saying, "I created that brand and defined the content from its inception to when I left in 2018. My pithy irreverence still haunts it like Banquo's ghost."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:08 PM
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Also: McInnes founded the Proud Boys in 2016. He quit in 2018, but in 2019 sued the Southern Poverty Law Center for designating the organization a hate group. Officially, the group describes themselves as being organized around the belief that "West Is The Best" — what they call Western Chauvinism — and reject the label of White supremacists and alt-right. They say they oppose both racism and "racial guilt." They advocate for closed borders, gun rights, and "venerating the housewife." In a state…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:07 PM
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Also this: https://edition.cnn.com/2020/10/01/media/vice-gavin-mcinnes-proud-boys/index.html They try to "distance" themselves from this. " Vice Media is once again working to distance itself from its co-founder, Gavin McInnes, who set much of the tone for the company in its early days before going on to found the Proud Boys, the far-right group whose ideology ​has been labeled "misogynistic, Islamophobic, transphobic, and anti-immigration" by the Anti-Defamation League. " Well, they founded the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:05 PM
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An investigation by The New York Times has found four settlements involving allegations of sexual harassment or defamation against Vice employees, including its current president. In addition, more than two dozen other women, most in their 20s and early 30s, said they had experienced or witnessed sexual misconduct at the company — unwanted kisses, groping, lewd remarks and propositions for sex. The settlements and the many episodes of harassment the women described depict a top-down ethos of mal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:01 PM
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It still sounds like fanfiction. Changing your looks doesn't change your limp dick. I am torn between thinking that 90 % of the posts on TRP is made up and appalled if it is actually true what they write. We do know men will go to any lengths to write up fanfiction online on Reddit to get some likes and rewards, which is truly pathetic. The lengths some people will go to just to score some "internet points" 🤢 So I am torn. Is it made up or not, I will never know. But if it is true I am disgusted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:57 AM
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I almost can't believe that I still long for a life with a good man. After everything I've been through, after all the trauma that's been inflicted on me, I still want that beautiful connection with one. I still want to have kids with one. I still want to grow old with one and love them and give them everything I have to offer. It's sad. I feel like an abused dog that can't bring itself to resent anyone, who will still cautiously approach when called hoping it's to be pet rather than kicked. But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:41 AM
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Exactly, it is why I checked her tiktok, because if it was how she always looked when she talked, then she could not help it and then I felt it would be mean to point it out. But it is not, which I then felt it is not criticizing her looks but the whole mimic while she is talking. She also posted this video wearing the same outfit: https://www.tiktok.com/@rendagrella/video/6913561759882202373?lang=en&is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1 where she doesn't do it either and she literally looks complete …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:29 AM
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yeah, my abuser (ex) didn't think he did anything wrong either. He apologized right after, when I screamed in his face, but he clearly didn't mean it. He was also laughing while apologizing. I dumped his ass when I found out he was cheating too, but to his family he painted me as this "Gold digger" who was just "after his money". Not a mention of all the abuse and cheating of course. I wish you could file reports on these sick twisted people. Because what he did to me was 100% sexual assault, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:14 AM
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Absolutely a prime example of what a patriarchal society we live in today. Reddit is amazing at showing us how misogynist 90% of the men on this site truly are. If a women had posted this, just as you said (it has been posted many times before on Relationship reddits) the answers would include so much "Have you talked to him?" etc. But when a man post it, everyone loses their mind. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:49 AM
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“My first reaction to the FDS subreddit was, did Red Pill guys write this?” jokes Bharath Ganesh... a researcher in digital hate culture. Yes, it is very common for people to assume that when women are being assertive that they are acting "like a man". That initial reaction says more about that researcher's own internal biases than it says about us. 👏👏👏👏 Nothing but truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:15 AM
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stealthing; happened to me. I had explicitly told him I did not want it (an ex) and he just did it anyway during sex. I am so glad he is an ex. I feel disgusted just thinking about it. It was such a violation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:03 AM
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Also the publication she works for, apparently the founders and the managers has SEVERAL sexual harassment lawsuits filed against them. And the founders of Vice run > The Proud Boys is a far-right, neo-fascist, and male-only white nationalist organization that promotes and engages in political violence in the United States and Canada. (someone just told me yesterday). MUST BE SO NICE FOR HER TO BE ON THE SIDE OF FEMINISM AND THE SIDE OF GOOD! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:55 AM
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Not that hard to spot the pedo there. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:48 AM
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This is why I don’t understand how flairs on this sub work. You’re considered an “FDS disciple,” but you’re criticizing another woman’s appearance. Also, you seem jealous because why would you otherwise bring up sub flairs in a discussion completely unrelated to it, and as someone else pointed out, I was not criticizing her appearance, but literally commenting on how she looks at the camera makes the video hard to watch. 🤷‍♀️ (because she is wearing contacts) So there is that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:44 AM
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agreed, also some of the things that people present in other subs are literally comments left by users. Just because one or some users has an opinion, that does not mean it is "all of FDS" behind that one comment. People still have free will and I think people are allowed to comment what they think. I might still argue with them or have an discussion if I dont agree. But I think that is actually the whole point of a discussion forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:38 AM
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Because men know full well that they are not actually joking at all. Every time I heard a man say something stupid and then "its a joke". It was never a joke at all....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:32 AM
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Women comparing something that doesn’t exist is somehow worse than the thing that exists. ??? God no, let’s not think about the actual laws being put in place to actually control and harm women and babies, it’s clearly far worse that a woman spoke up about it and said “imagine the roles reversed” which there is no danger of ever happening See that is a perfect example of internalized misogyny (A term FDS newbies are throwing around so much these days with 0 clue to what it means). Exactly what y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:31 AM
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👌👆 We love to see it. If he wanted to, he would. Men are collectively trying to neg women into lower their standards, so LVM can get away with the bare minimum. I am really happy you found a man who is actively doing things to make you happy and who is glad to "the extra mile" to ensure it puts a smile on your face. Also " People told me my standards were too high and I'd end up alone". It is better to be alone and childless than to be any of those pathetic posters on relationship subs OR breaki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:22 AM
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There is no such thing as Misandry it was a term invented by MRA's for women wanting nothing to do with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:39 AM
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I'm seriously wondering if she isn't just doing it simply for the 💰💰💰💰💸 because it seems she made a career out of appealing the MRA's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:31 PM
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Ugh. I didn't even think of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:43 PM
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Thank you for saying this. Because as I stated in my other comments I think the media is being disgusting, misogynistic and racist towards her. And I am appalled by their behavior and I am against everything they stand for. However I am appalled being accused of "internal misogyny" because I dare say she seems insincere and that she may be narcissistic or have traits of it. There is something in her tone of voice in certain questions in the interview that does not sit right with me. I have exper…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:35 PM
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What is proud boys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:26 PM
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Exactly what I felt. I agree with what you said 100%. She is beautiful and I wish her all the best. I hope I am wrong and she is a lovely wife to Harry and a loving mother to her children. She just gave me a bit of a narcissist vibe and as you said opportunist. But if you are an otherwise lovely person to the people close around you. Then I dont think that matters that you are those things. If she gives him the love and support like she showed in the interview then I think good for them. I think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:25 PM
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I think there's an audience of women who agree with me Yeah its called Red Pilled women, I think you would fit in great with them. And I am done talking to you, I asked you the same question 3 times, and you ignored it every time. What the purpose of your first comment was, and you never answered it. You are clearly just here to derail the conversation, so sis bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:06 PM
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Hell no, I'm not that dependant 😉 And I don't need feathers in my ass for choices. But I do think it's important to respect others, even if you don't agree with them. Respect is earned sis, and you haven't said a single thing that deserves any kind of respect. Quite the opposite actually. The ground rules for FDS is laid out clearly and you have either not read the rules, or you simply dont care. It is about maximum female benefit, the end. You can argue SAHM is great for women all you want (you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:03 PM
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So, again, why do you keep saying I'm looking for a pat on the back, validation or support? It's patronizing.. I wrote it once and not even in my last reply. So I will ask you again: So what is you want to achieve with your comment on this post then? I would love to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:51 PM
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I've seen it here, and I've seen it before on this sub... I am starting to think this sub is not for you. Not everyone is a helpless ghost of a woman after divorce or death. Just like not everyone is sexually harassed in the workplace, or gets injured, or is taken down by the patriarchy etc... Did you SERIOUSLY just write this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:47 PM
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she literally does not do it in any of her other video's, so it is not her appearance but just exclusively in this video and it looks weird and puts a weird "edge" on this video and makes it hard to watch. We are allowed to comment on things on FDS you know? If I had said "omg she is *insert negative phrase here*" or something nasty, it is a different thing, but commenting on the way she is looking at the camera makes the video hard to watch (because of the contacts she is wearing) is not agains…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:45 PM
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Where did I ask for validation, your support, or a pat on the back exactly? " Please don't gatekeep being a FDS'er. We're not all born to be career loving. Or a feminist, or of a certain political leaning; the mods made a post about that as well. " You literally did it right there. I dont understand the point of your first post at all, what is is you want to achieve with it then? You are not seeking validation (your own words), so what is you want to achieve with your comment on this post then? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:34 PM
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Being a woman with a career/job has its downsides, sacrifices and dangers as well, and you don't see me screaming bloody murder and calling people out for making that choice. None said it doesn't sis. So what I dont get is why you are so triggered by us saying being a SAHM is not beneficial to women? I don't see anyone anywhere here or in posts "screaming bloody murder" or "shitting" on other women? You are literally here making this up because you are upset that we don't say "what a great choic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:32 PM
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Buy a good magic wand, honestly. They cost a bit, but the little more pricey ones are definitely the best. They cover a bigger surface and you can move them around till you hit the spot. Also they have different vibration settings. Which helps a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:19 PM
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I had a lot of problems and I didn't get my first orgasm till I was mid 20's! I had totally resigned myself to never getting an orgasm, and how sad is that? I had spend so many years bending over backwards for the men I dated. I was the "slut" and I loved being "amazing at blowjobs" till my jaw hurt and my throat. I realized then, I wanted more and why should I bend over backwards for these useless men? Some of them tried to make me climax, but not hard enough by far. I can only come when I use …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:17 PM
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BARF! Any way to find out who this creepy is and get his degree permanently revoked?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:10 PM
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That's like saying: 'people have died in traffic, don't go outside, it's not safe out there'. I'd love to be a SAHM one day. It's literally all I ever dreamed of and I'm in the comfortable position to do so. Please don't gatekeep being a FDS'er. We're not all born to be career loving. Or a feminist, or of a certain political leaning; the mods made a post about that as well. Well, do that. None of FDS is stopping you. So what do you want? A pat on the back? it is not going to happen here. I suppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:04 PM
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Majority of women who stay in abusive relationships do so because they do not have the financial ability to support themselves alone—especially if they have children. Case in point above. There also doesn't even have to be abuse. You could wake up one day and realize you have now become a "mommy bangmaid" or just plain old realize this is not the life you desire, and newsflash: you need money to leave. This x 100000000. FDS do not support SAHM because it is NOT beneficial for women. I would only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:59 PM
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I am so sorry you had to go through that, but I am glad you feel ok with sharing this with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:52 PM
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Love love love her story, so heartwarming to hear, but I wish she would stop making her eyes pop like that while talking because it is freaking me out 😶 I checked her tiktok, she doesnt do it in any of her other video's and it looks like she is wearing contacts. So that might be it, but those "crazy" eyes ruined the story time for me 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:48 PM
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I can imagine it is hard to talk about and another point for me that the "happy prostitute" is another lie by the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:32 PM
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Im guessing it was a classic "BuT wHaT aBoUt ThE MeN" and FDS is like, we are not here to talk about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:31 PM
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It also shows internalized misogyny. Do you even know what this means or are you just throwing fancy lingo around?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:30 PM
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I literally said all that in my comment, so I dont know why you are going out on a tangent about it? I said I dont know her so I can't judge it. So please read what I said? Also her tone in the interview sounds dishonest at times, calculated and the tone I have heard before in "bad situations", so I dont like it. There is nothing "damaging" about me voicing concerns/speculations as to why I dont personally like her, because I dont think she seems sincere and I never said once it wasnt speculatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:25 PM
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yeah I would actually love for some of the ex-workers on FDS to comment on this post and share their stories, because I have read some in the past. I remember one saying how it was rooted in deep trauma and it is absolutely not enjoyable, that it was very rare for you to have a client you enjoy and was attracted to. Because I agree, I do not believe it for a second, that they LOVE sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:11 PM
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Someone pointed out she has a lot of traits of someone with Narcissistic personality disorder, but I dont know her, so it is REALLY hard for me to judge. I dont think she seems 100% sincere and there are signs she might be controlling Harry, like isolating him from his family etc. BUT it is really hard to judge as an outsider, and the royal family seems to be shit. Her dad seems to be a total narcissist and it is not uncommon for children to inherit that trait from their parents. BUT I dont know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:02 PM
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Also can we talk about how fucking disgusting the guy looked (I googled his picture). The only reason sex workers "enjoy" having "sex" (I would call it paid for getting raped) is because they have a lot of internalized misogyny and they actually dislike themselves or have deep trauma, which makes them okay with letting an absolute monster stick his dick in them. At the brothel he had gotten kicked out for being violent and he had served prison time for murdering his wife (I think they knew this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:55 PM
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In the words of that other column, sex expert savage dan(rofl) or whatever his idiot name was. If you don't define yourself as a porn addict, you are not a porn addict didn't you know? If you just tell yourself watching porn is completely normal, harmless and healthy, it shall be so. 🙄🙄🙄🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I think that is basically what Vice is saying too. Like some next level self-brainwashing. The sad part, women write for them too. That is some next level internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:32 PM
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AKA Oppression of women is the cornerstone of patriarchy. But you know Vice is #bigfeminism publication. I swear to god, liberalfeminism was invented by men as a way to make women oppress other women, so women would be stupid enough to do the job for them. It is clearly working too.... Which makes me oh so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:29 PM
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And when the prostitutes get murdered, nobody cares... It's literally the most dangerous profession of all, in terms of mortality rate, the only statistic that is a lot harder to fake. THIS! and still we are the evil ones because we a SWERF's. Like what. Imagine not wanting other women to be abused/raped/murdered all for some zero value scrote dick so he can get off. Clearly that is what (lib)feminism is all about: Making disgusting men ejaculate. Not protecting the women who are pushed into the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:27 PM
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I thought it was written by a man, but it is actually written by a woman. That is some next level pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:23 PM
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Also the whole male assault thing. It is not like FDS dont care about men being assaulted or raped. But it is talked about everywhere else on the internet. Men do not need to be talked about in our female only space. This whole "think of the poor men". We fucking do. But the entire world today is all "men men men". That is why men are not discussed here. We don't talk about mens problems because that is what the other 99% of reddit is ALREADY doing. These idiots don't even get it. And she was ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:40 PM
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scrotesmad They can stay mad. Its why you know FDS is true feminism. Because it makes all the men sooooo angry. That is true feminism. It is made to benefit women. Not men and they can't stand it. Libfems are busy sucking the dicks of the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:34 PM
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Most men are clever enough to start grooming women at a young age too. "high school sweet hearts" turned out he was just grooming her into being his SAHM the whole time. So despite them being the same age, he can still groom and shape her. We hate to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:12 PM
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Are you nuts? Stop accusing others of weird stuff. I have better things to do than sitting and messaging random idiots on the internet. Everything I had to say I said in my response to your post. So maybe time to lay off the drugs when you being this unhinged in a post reply. Next level insanity of you accusing me of messaging you on another account. And then throwing in projection and gaslightning. It is the exact thing you are doing lol. Because I had no clue what you were talking about what s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:11 PM
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What is your problem? Edit: you seem to have some issues. Stalking? Excuse me? If you can't handle people speaking out about your drug use and dating men who use drugs then you are the one on the wrong sub sis. Using illegal drugs is a serious issues. And this is not an alt account so what are you on about? You seem unhinged freaking out about me commenting on you engaging with a guy who does drugs. Have you even read the FDS guidelines?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:47 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 Also "we are one of those high school sweet hearts where everything worked out" BARF! Also, did it work out REALLY SIS, REALLY? Because reading this I would say it is the opposite of working out. Considering he is a manipulative pos and she seems to have romanticized the relationship, where her romantic idea of their relationship is by no means grounded in reality. this sis needs to wake up and smell the tradcon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:04 PM
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Moral of the story: he was happy to give up her job, but not his own. How predictable. Also. Since she is clearly not breaking up with him now. In the future he is going to pull something way worse than this and she is going "he is such a nice guy and good father, I don't understand he just changed out of the blue ". Like nah sis. This right here is just one of many red flags she is purposely ignoring for her man. He clearly does not respect her. Because otherwise he wouldn't have said what he s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:23 PM
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Also a Queen just shared this one here: https://thehill.com/policy/international/542321-1-in-3-women-subjected-to-physical-or-sexual-violence-in-lifetime-who Can someone share that to this libfem tweeter? WHO are they helping again? Oh right, NONE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:09 PM
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I didn't follow the whole thing that closely because I dont care much about royal families at all, but CLEARLY Piers has a huge fucking issues with her, both for her being a woman AND the color of her skin. Absolutely disgusting. He deserves to get called the hell out on it, with his fragile male ego. Enough is enough already. I dont particularly like Meghan, but I dont know her, but none deserves to have SUCH an intensive smear campaign towards them on international tv. Once again the patriarch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:08 PM
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A lot to unpack in that tweet. First of all: Studies and research have LITERALLY shown that men has become A LOT more violent AFTER they now have access to internet porn, it has literally spread violence towards women as a disease through our society, seriously this braindead libfem should look up FACTS before spreading absolute bollocks as "facts", is she a flat-earther too? Men has always been violent towards women through the ages, but porn has brought on a pandemic of violence making even me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:57 PM
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👌👌👌👌 After the post I made on this topic, I love seeing more posts about this! Fuck Yes Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:30 AM
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Weed are legal in several countries by now, so I view it the same way as alcohol. In moderation, but a lot of especially men seem to have an issue with moderation and just smoke their brains away = low value behavior. I also know weed has helped a lot of different people with cancer and other diseases, but I would never date a guy who was an avid smoker. I have smoked weed a few times myself at parties (a part of my circle when younger was hippies, peace and love and all that). So I dont view it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:15 AM
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It is some serious mind-fuckery. This man shouldn't be giving advice, he should be in a padded cell somewhere. Clearly mentally unstable and absolutely willing to manipulate/gaslight and abuse women, even advocating for it. I am appalled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:43 AM
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"Hello Ladies, just gaslight yourselves into oblivion it will help with all your problems! /signed a man." ^basically what he is saying 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:37 AM
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Yeah, I am not disagreeing with that. As soon as someone mentions they do drugs or EVEN worse in this case ASKS you to get them drugs, it is block and delete. Women who do drugs are low value too-so advice for all women: be better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:36 AM
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Also, I wish women collectively would stop asking absolute sociopath men for relationship advice. He runs a sex column and wrote a book- Big fucking wooop. Anyone can do that. This guy is CLEARLY mentally unstable and anyone who defends cheating (with a cousin at that 🤢) has several screws loose. It has been shown in MANY studies and research the intense grief and betrayal women feel when it comes to their partner cheating or watching porn. And having these reactions are normal AND healthy. Wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:27 AM
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He should sign his column with "Sincerely Jaime Lannister" On a more serious note- why are so many men fucking disgusting and fucked in the head? (I know it's the porn, but still. What in the actual ...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:21 AM
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