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If-Then statements only go one way; “IF you have a golden retriever, THEN you must have a dog” doesn’t translate to “IF you have a dog THEN you must have a golden retriever” I'm so saving this for the future, thank you, it's the perfect response to the black and white thinking (while ignoring context) that runs through reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:36 PM
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I feel you on that. Some of my happiest childhood memories are of climbing all over giant blocks of hay bales and running through grazing pastures, and I still usually shovel manure with a big smile on my face. There's just something about the smell of horses that puts me in a good mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:25 PM
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I reckon the stories now of middle aged childfree women bunking up together as housemates instead is brilliant. I need a bff to run a rescue animal sanctuary somewhere out whoop whoop. Like wombats or quokkas ❤️ There are so many hotels around the world for sale... if I ever hit the lotto, there's a lodge in Montana that's getting turned into a women's healing/artist retreat and wildlife sanctuary and you are all invited ❤️ The initial (and real) plan was is just for a ranch for rescued wild don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:08 PM
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No woman deserves to go through that what the fucking fuck 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:00 PM
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Don't do wife shit if he isn't doing husband shit 🤷 Could not be more simple once you stop caring what scrotes think about you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:59 PM
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Something I'm still kinda learning the hard way is that anytime somebody brings up a random deep trauma in response to being called out for shitty behavior, even if that trauma did really happen to them they're just being manipulative and preying on your compassion. Scrotes do it constantly but so do shitty family members and friends. Like yes sister-in-law I know that you had a really hard time in high school and are still struggling to find yourself now in your mid twenties after getting dumpe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:48 PM
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That makes me wonder if his credit score is in the toilet. The fact he also isn't willing to pay her for half makes me think his money management skills are nonexistent or he has some kind of addiction. He definitely married up, in any case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:50 PM
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Nope nope nope thank god 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:28 PM
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Co-signing this post. Pre-FDS I got stood up for a coffee date by a guy, ghosted him and never looked back... until he got listed in our local paper as one of the people who stormed the Capitol. Seeing his mug shot made me feel like Neo from The Matrix dodging bullets lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:41 PM
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You won't get any argument from me on that. He's a terrible father and human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:33 PM
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I seriously had to go out and touch some grass, as they say, after seeing all the scrotes on different threads yesterday talking about how this was actually a win for democracy and society because the way the legal system works with his particular arrangement Cosby should never have been in jail 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:30 PM
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She was still just a normal girl before her family thrust her into Hollywood, though, so it's still accurate to say that what happened to Britney could happen to any girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:28 PM
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Everyone says that the tv version of Handmaid's Tale is unrealistic but frankly the whole part where all women have their bank accounts merged with husbands and their names removed from all finances, abortion clinic patient lists accessed and used to separate classes of women... it could so easily be done (in the USA at least) with the right set of politicians in office. Scary af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:24 PM
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Trust your gut in this case and if you haven't already, read The Gift of Fear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:22 PM
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It's certainly subpar 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:02 PM
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Good god I hope there aren't two of them out there. Green eyes, name starts with a D?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:16 PM
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For real though. Another thing I've noticed with LVM dating richer women is that they think everyyyone is noticing them when they're someplace they think they "don't belong" but the reality is no one would even have even glanced his way or given two fucks about him if he wasn't giving off intense uncomfortable energy 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:30 PM
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So true about the love hate thing for having a wealthier SO. Two things that really stuck out for me when dating a broke ass scrote were his level of discomfort for anything he considered "above" him and the false sense of moral superiority he held for himself over everyone he thought was "rich." He resented the fuck out of anyone with money, including me, even though he was using me for it. Bizzarro world. One memory in particular that is still fresh in mind over a decade later is how we went t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:18 PM
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I've been following that advice in my own marriage (which occurred pre-FDS) and it has worked out beautifully. Highly recommend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:48 PM
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But definitely don't merge finances in any way with a man you have to play Dumb Fox with! A HVM won't want to touch your money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:14 PM
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People just need to read the room. This group was never meant to be a safe space for anyone. 💯💯💯 The entitlement some people seem to have about forcing a space to shape itself around them (the new user, first of their name, didn't bother to read the Wiki but more important than everyone else because they're the Main Character) is just so so so fucking weird. It's like they think they possess some inalienable right to occupy every little corner of the Internet they stumble into. All of you who mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:36 PM
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Love your post. Tipsy rant: I mean, so, the average human being gravitates toward whatever is easiest and most pleasurable, right? And in our society, men are indulged in ways that reach into the very fabric of human behavior. I don't blame every single individual man in our society for failing to have enough introspection to have a Truman Show moment and realize that the world is rigged and his place and privilege in this world designed more for him than women, because expecting the average hum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:06 AM
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The 6 figure guy is killing me because we all know he didn't get there on his own. Even the small things like not having to do his own laundry or pack his own lunch, add up to a less stressful and demanding home environment, which greatly impacts work performance. That wife of his is at least 1% responsible for his being able to move up in the world and it's disgusting he can't see that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:39 PM
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When I used it on mine I got called heartless 😂 The AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:18 PM
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Love this post. For those women who may be wondering, "But HOW do I make him stop blowing up my phone with his problems," may I suggest this phrase: Sounds like something to tell a therapist not me 😂 Works. Every. Time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:52 PM
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No they're just saying to stay away from all-or-nothing type absolutism. Sounds like something you need to work on in particular
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:42 PM
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I'm really glad for these rule changes, too, for the same reasons but especially the "All Men Are Shit" rhetoric I've seen a lot on here recently. I had a conversation recently here on FDS where a post was basically "All men are idiots" so I responded "No, not all men are idiots, and maybe this guy is pretending to be dumb because it's easier that way" and I got a response like "No literally all men are smooth brained idiots" and then I got an automated message about my mental health status 🙄 Bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:40 PM
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Theres so many ways to be a bad father. Really glad you're doing well 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:36 PM
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Misandry is about as real as an imaginary friend. Ironically, both are believed in solely by people whose brains haven't finished developing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:11 PM
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why the fuck is he showing you photos of his ex wife’s “abuse” this early in your relationship Or at all?! Yucky yucky manipulative vibes. Seriously girl even if the rest of his story is true, this alone is enough to warrant a hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:09 PM
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Oh god I so wanted to reply with "So how many pushups can you do?" Because it's pretty hard to believe any of these scrotes have the core, back or arm strength to do a good, hard, long jackhammering that would actually satisfy their woman lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:23 PM
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I scrolled through looking for any complaints about how men eat pussy and look at that, it didn't even make it into the convo because scrotes can't even stick it in right, much less do delicate work. Men are failing society, failing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:01 PM
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How many women here were raised by LVM? 🙋‍♀️ My father is a scrote. He's a professional chef and a very serious hunter, so he actually does have a strong skillset and looks good on paper, but he's also an alcoholic redneck with anger management problems. I spent too many nights growing up cowering in the back of my closet hearing him shout at the TV, pound drinks and throw furniture all night only to be dragged to work with him at 3 am, where I'd peel potatoes and carrots in the back of the rest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:54 PM
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Love to hear it! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:16 PM
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Also this type will tend to tell you a handful of lies of varying degrees of believability in order to assess how gullible you are. Its the same tactic used in Nigerian Prince scam emails - they deliberately throw in some red flags so that only the really gullible people will respond, minmaxing the amount of effort they have to put into the scam thereafter to get results. Narcissists, abusers and scrotes pretty much universally test women with a lie or two as soon as they meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:11 PM
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I just don't understand how women can think they know a man when they haven't even celebrated a full year of holidays together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:47 PM
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He's probably in his fifties lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:43 PM
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Honestly one of my least favorite lies that men tell is that men don't belong in the kitchen. You know what industry men dominated for decades before women elbowed and flambeed their way in? Fine dining. How often do you see women as head cook in diners and mid-range restaurants even today? My husband works more than twice as much as I do, and he still makes dinner most nights (and is in the kitchen talking with and helping me if he gets home before I'm done cooking) because he wants to. And he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:10 PM
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Amazing to see laid plain what we've been intuiting all along - that the truth behind those unsolicited compliments we get from men we don't know are actually always about sex, or are sexual advances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:37 PM
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I believe learning to enjoy solitude can do great things for your mental health and personal fortitude. Meditation can help you bridge that gap since oftentimes the real issue people have with solitude is that they don't know how to handle their minds without something external to frame their thoughts moment to moment. As for loneliness, I recommend doing charity work or getting a pet. I personally practically OD'd on all 3 of the above recommendations prior to finding my husband, and they conti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:00 PM
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Holy shit, that speech of Michaela's just gave me chills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:49 PM
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It's so insidious that an accuser's lie can travel so far and stay for so long in a man's mind. Men love to talk about how a false accusation can ruin reputations but I'd dare say there's far more cases of an abused woman being slandered and the lies traveling far and wide (it's bro code to warn each other not to stick their dick in "crazy" after all) than there are for men. Women, we don't go around warning each other about bad men (even though we should, but it's another function of the patria…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:45 PM
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Well what I did probably only worked out for me specifically and may not work for you. Take what sounds good for you and leave the rest. The personal stuff... I took a look at myself and rediscovered who I was. I decided what I wanted to accomplish personally, socially, professionally and spiritually. I designed a life around that, and went in hard on it. I didn't even try to date until my rigorous schedule and well rounded life felt easy to maintain. I knew I wouldn't be ready to even think abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:06 PM
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Fellow decade+ redditor here as well! FDS has been disillusioning me of many of the "benefits" of reddit culture, I used to think that people who didn't like emojis were sErIoUs ThInKeRs lol... now I think the Venn diagram of redditors who hate emojis and redditors who only eat tendies, french fries and mac n cheese is a perfect circle. They hate joy, they hate flavor, they hate women... of course they hate emojis 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:09 PM
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Girl if that shocks you, you don't wanna know what else the average man considers okay hygiene 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:02 PM
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A man? Not believing a woman? Until he experiences sexist abuse himself? Shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:34 PM
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Another reason the line moves so fast for men's bathrooms is because they will pee in the sinks when all the urinals are in use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:28 PM
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I had no idea turning off private messages was even an option before reading the FDS Wiki and it has made my reddit experience so much better. Thanks for all that you do, mod team!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:24 PM
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Thank you!! Have a fabulous day! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:55 PM
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Sorry but I probably won't have time today to go looking for it again tbh. My car finally died so I'm browsing FDS on my phone in between test drives and reddit really sucks for using the search feature. The initials of the sub are AR and the title of the post was "worst houseguest experience" if you have the time to go looking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:36 PM
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And that guy's the type to get angry and upset if you say he isn't the best sex you've ever had because ALL his girlfriends have told him that he's such a skilled lover and you're just trying to hurt his feelings!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:27 PM
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He's also now a proud #GirlDad! Truly the well of men's depravity has no bottom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:15 PM
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I have no idea but I know if I was recounting that story I would have at least said something like "I never would have knowingly invited a dogfucker into my house and everyone shunned him thereafter" when telling one of the most pedantic and argumentative corners of the internet about how I had watched a man try to fuck my dog It wasn't on that one, not sure if I'm allowed to say the subreddit name since scrotes love to accuse FDS of brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:13 PM
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Love your post. My thought is that allowing your partner little indulgences like "Yes of course you're the best and most beautiful human being in the universe, I love you" requires empathy and humility, and comes from a place of love. I don't think any of us are actually expecting to be told, truthfully, that we are objectively the most beautiful woman in the world. We want to know we're special in our partners eyes... and a partner who isn't willing to give you that, doesn't deserve you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:57 PM
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Just the other day on the sub where you pose questions to redditors there was a story about a bad houseguest who got absolutely wasted at a normal house party and started wailing in front of everyone about how he wanted to fuck the homeowners dog. No mention was made about bestiality or how fucked up it was, just a relaying of the story as is. How much you wanna bet no one who saw him begging a dog to fuck him did their civic duty and reported him to the police and animal services? Men are depra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:39 PM
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It's a long story but basically I waited until I had a window of opportunity with him away for the weekend and fully excommunicated him from my life, changing the locks and having all his belongings including his car packed and moved back to his dad's house so there was no trace of him living with me and zero reason for him to ever legally enter my house again. He found me recently, 10 years later and has been driving by my house maybe twice a month. We are hoping he doesn't escalate, but if he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:12 PM
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That sounds like a great plan actually and I'm sure you'll cultivate happiness with or without a man ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:25 PM
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From zero to... armpit biting????? Scrotes can get away with this shit and their worst consequence is having a dating app account frozen... meanwhile women get murdered every single day for far less than asking for more oral
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:58 PM
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You might have, you might not have, but I definitely don't think ALL men are TOTAL trash. I found a decent man (after being single and basically FDS without having known FDS - I read a lot of Margaret Atwood and feminist literature). But he was really a needle in a haystack and I just got lucky after being alone and extremely defensive for a very long time tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:39 PM
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Oh you don't even know... guess what he said in response?? Something like "Don't worry honey I won't let you die in a fire until we combine assets lololololol" The memory still gives me goosebumps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:23 PM
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What happened to that lovely little misogynistic mantra, "Don't stick your dick in crazy"? I mean the screencapped comment is basically exactly how Travis Alexander got murdered but okay scrotes do your thing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:19 PM
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I talk about it a lot because I was such a Pickmeisha, I could've literally called the police at any time with my cell phone but I was thinking things like "Oh, maybe he just forgot again" and "I just need to make it clearer that it's important to me that I can escape the house in case of a fire! It doesn't really matter that I can't leave just because, since I didn't have plans today anyway, so I'll just focus on the fire thing when telling him again to stop locking me into the house when he le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:07 PM
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Based on my past experience I wouldn't introduce any man to my friends until I was ready to marry him. LVM will be snakes in the grass with your friends, and it's better safe than sorry!! I didn't know until YEARS after dumping him that my ex NVM had been slowly building a narrative, Gone Girl style, to all my friends about how I was developing agoraphobia in order to explain away the fact he was deliberately isolating me and locking me into the house against my will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:54 PM
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Even if society managed to proactively regulate the industry and truly protect sex workers from murder and STDs, there would still be many women going in thinking they can handle the emotional traumas that come with sex work and ending up with PTSD. Sex work will simply never work out to the benefit of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:44 PM
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They're also gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:01 PM
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Personally I want a ranch on several hundred acres to provide a sanctuary to wild donkeys and horses but the Practical Magic house is a huge vibe 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:24 PM
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As an aside, marrying a military man also means trouble for your social life. I was friends with a girl married to an Army guy and she told me about it. She said it's hard to make friends when everyone in your neighborhood expects an expiration date on the friendship, and even harder to make friends you actually get along with since it's such a mix of people. Pyramid schemes are also rife among military spouses and it can be difficult to avoid letting that lifestyle creep into yours without step…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:37 PM
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You can dip in to any thread on either of the two big anti subs and be provided with ample examples of idiotic scrotes committing logical fallacies galore, scroviating about how ugly, short and babydicked they are, and feebly delivering nonsensical one-liners and jokes, all the while typing like they're trying to get screencapped and posted to Bone Apple Tea. It's hysterical! "Judge me by the enemies I make." These chucklefucks make us look better, not worse, and it's fucking hilarious they can'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:44 PM
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I love how men can be "traumatized" by something like being made fun of in grade school but women can't be traumatized by something like giving birth (which is the physical trauma equivalent of breaking more than a dozen bones at once). Really goes to show who the coddled, babied ones actually are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:29 AM
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God, yes. Right now there's a video trending on reddit's frontpage of The Bagel Boss (a very angry, under-5' scrote freaking the fuck out about women and his height while trying to order a bagel) and there are literally hundreds of men empathizing with him and defending him or talking about mental health care etc. Anyone who even attempted making fun of him for being a psycho munchkin man got met with dozens upon dozens of rabid comments and immediately deleted by mods. Frankly I'm surprised the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:57 PM
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Me too, in regard to hoping she rides off into the sunset and never returns. Gaming addiction demands a lifestyle that excludes 99% of all healthy human behavior, and there's no lasting love or happiness to be found with someone who refuses to see that their "lifestyle" isn't okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:22 AM
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Girl it was sarcasm but yes you're absolutely right that's how he's leaving things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:14 AM
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Realistically? He's waking up at noon to go do second shift at his mall or Wallyworld job, coming home with fast food and selflessly washing the dish he uses after he notices the wife side eyeing him, taking a massive shit while watching porn and then selflessly making sure he didn't leave any piss or cum where his wife can slip on it, grunting at his wife as he sits down in his gaming nest, logging on and gaming with his buddies until 6 am or so, then throwing his dirty chonies in the washing m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:33 PM
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Probably hoping it'll bring his bangmaid back or land him a new one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:44 PM
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Excuse you, he has a chore wheel and he has been a very good boy about half assing it every day so his wife couldn't feel justified in throwing his ass out sooner 😤😤😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:40 PM
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Also I'm gonna take a wild guess and assume that the parts about his effects on her and her self esteem are just him parroting back exactly what she said when he forced her into explaining exactly how he's abused her. He never would have realized it himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:35 PM
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What's sad is that there's still no real self reflection here. It's about the consequences of his actions rather than the fact that an addiction that can make him lose 12+ hours at a time is not justifiable or healthy even if he completes his chore chart for the day 🙄 He will absolutely go right back to being a selfish addict whenever he thinks he can get away with it. "No meaningful impact" from gaming addiction?? Besides not having a life or social skills and abusing his loved ones?? Hope his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:29 PM
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I had a townhouse in a great location near downtown thanks to family wealth and it's insane how after a date or two sooo many grown men will suddenly have serious issues with their roommates and it would be sooo cool and fun to crash for a few days or over the weekend at my place! 🤡 And strangely every single one also promised breakfast in bed every morning 🤮 All the broke ass scrubs must have a playbook they pass around. Ladies, seriously never tell a man that you own property. Even the ones wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:05 PM
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They've been doing it their whole lives, it's second nature to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:27 PM
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I think they do it because they know they can get away with it. They're still getting paid, aren't they? They don't care about anyone but themselves, so they don't give a shit how their behavior looks to you or how much extra work they're forcing everyone around them to take on. At the end of the day they did fuck all and still got paid, so in their minds, they're the winners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:15 PM
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Even Angelina Jolie has hair on her feet. When she and Brad were going through a divorce, one of Brad's complaints about her was that she was so demanding and meticulous even with her waxing appointments. It's stuck with me because that was the first time I ever though to look at my own feet, and lo and behold, there are tiny hairs on them. So I mean if even the most hot women in the world have foot hairs, idk wtf these men are complaining for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:42 PM
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It pains me to see so many of the women at my minimum wage, entry level job spending so much money on acrylics and falsies. I wouldn't feel this way if it seemed like any of them enjoyed these treatments and only did them for their own enjoyment - instead, it's non-stop complaints about the inconvenience. It's ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:39 PM
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My experience has been that young men hate old women for entirely different reasons than old men do. Old women (usually) aren't an object of sexual attention to a young man (except for all the rapists out there who target the elderly - how again is sex about power?) and so young men treat old women like they're worthless. Old men hate old women because the writing's on the wall. Old men are virtually always fucking useless outside of doing home repairs... and once grampy can't swing a hammer, ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:36 PM
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If you want something to shut up those people calling you overreactive etc, I recommend dropping them the link to The Missing Stair: http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/06/missing-stair.html?m=1 It's from a sex positive blog but it is an extremely enlightening little piece of writing for people stuck in the fog of rape culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:13 PM
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How beefy his hands are (especially the tops and the thumb areas) can tell you something about how fat he is if you can't see his jawline or body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:05 PM
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Yeah it's an unsociable neckbeard thing not a generalized thing. Every male friend group, and every set of male coworkers who were on good terms, that I've ever known IRL has complimented and supported each other all the damn time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:56 PM
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Thanks, you too! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:32 PM
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Our security cameras are how I know he's been driving by! Don't worry, I'm documenting and saving it all, and doing all the other normally recommended safety stuff, in case he escalates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:26 PM
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To my nose it smells like "normal" musky man BO but stacked over several days and with a sweet but sickly and bad-spicy note to it. I can literally tell if someone's on a fast food diet if they pass by or stand near, it's such an identifiable smell. The only thing worse imo is the smell of a chronic cigarette smoker's sweat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:01 PM
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Brilliant post. The only thing I want to add is that not having fast food for every meal will also help scrotes' BO problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:11 PM
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He's a fat, balding middle-aged pizza delivery guy now. I found this out because he delivered pizza to my door one day! That was fun... except for how now he knows where I live and has been driving by my house at 15 mph on a semi-weekly basis ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:45 PM
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"Also she has had PPD after giving birth to twins in the middle of a pandemic and I very heroically and selflessly sometimes babysit them instead of playing Fortnite but she doesn't even fuck me as a reward! I thought the whole point was to let her rest once a while so she'd be willing to let me have sex after! I'm such a giver why did this evil bitch pull a bait and switch on meee"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:40 PM
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I'd like to posit that the lurkers who hate-read this subreddit do so because they're unlovable pieces of shit, and there's some science out there that could back that. Brain researchers found that the network in which feelings of hate happen involves regions that are almost identical to the ones activated by passionate and romantic love. If you're addicted to feeling hate, if you're actively seeking out opportunities to feel hate, it's likely because you aren't feeling any love or being loved. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:32 PM
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Realistically, all she probably said to indicate excitement was "Hi!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:37 PM
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Girl I come home every day covered in piss, shit and sweat (sometimes even blood and vomit!) I take my shoes and pants off outside in the car port, it's that bad, and we pay a small fortune keeping my car clean. But I take a normal shower and use a single serving of body wash and literally have never stank afterward or left behind a residue! What the fuck is wrong with this man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:16 PM
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How fucking filthy is her house if he's sitting on all the furniture with naked mud butt???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:49 PM
50

It's a great way to make us fight each other instead of the patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:31 PM
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In sales it's called the "bait-and-switch" and frankly it's just as much a form of fraud when employed in dating as it is in the marketplace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:01 PM
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Men are so fragile. Today there's a post on Popular about men opening up about their feelings and getting shut down, and one the top comments is some scrote crying about how his friends cracked a joke after he made them sit through FIFTEEN MINUTES of ranting in response to a simple question of how he was lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:24 PM
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The Venn diagram of men with Punisher bumper stickers and men with histories of assault and battery is simply a circle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:21 PM
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It also goes to show they KNOW that checking out someone's ass is inherently rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:37 PM
9

Oh my god remember that scene in Zombieland where the girl apologizes on behalf of all women for not inviting the incel main character to a Sadie Hawkins dance in middle school? That whole movie was just one big male fantasy though tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:36 PM
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And the reality is that most men - even the decent ones - are going to fap to those pics. Scroll through your friends list before you post a provocative pic and consider what you're giving these men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:18 PM
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RoMcOmS TaUgHt Us ThAt GiRlS wAnT uS tO KeEp PuRsUiNg ThEm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:15 PM
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Pro tip: If you ever meet someone who likes The Punisher or see a cop (or any man) with The Punisher logo (a human skull with extra long teeth) on his stuff, fucking RUN RUN RUN. The Punisher is basically an angry ex-marine who goes on shooting sprees and is practically a mascot among scrote LEOs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:48 PM
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😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:13 PM
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This article was shared by Girls LOVE Travel and I think it might be helpful: https://www.under30experiences.com/blog/solo-travel-guide Also the GLT Facebook page/group can answer specific questions if you know where you want to go! It's the most women-friendly space specifically for travel discussion that I've come across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:59 PM
3

What a lucky bff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:03 PM
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If you're based in the US, the company that owns Quickbooks (Intuit) is also always hiring people for their call centers in entry level positions. Yes it's a shit job, but you go through several weeks of paid training where they spoon feed you a basic education of bookkeeping - both theory and practice, which are extremely different things. Get through a single tax season and you will have both the legitimacy of Intuit on your resume and some experience under your belt that will open many doors …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:02 PM
3

That sounds absolutely lovely, so happy you had a fantastic day sis!! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:55 PM
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Really glad your moms had a good mothers day, but you deserve one too if you feel like your cats are your babies (which I personally feel about my own animals, logic be damned) imo. You're in a caretaker role and what matters is that a lack of acknowledgement made you feel sad. I know on reddit there's plenty of pedantic shitbirds who will claim you're ruining the meaning of Mother's Day or some shit but really... I've been celebrated as a dog and cat mom for years and yet Mother's Day hasn't ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:54 PM
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I'm sure she'll love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:51 PM
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There did not appear to be any gifts from the men in the family and they didn’t show up, except for one cousin who was deployed overseas and called via FaceTime That's really sad. At least we women have each other though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:50 PM
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I think I'd gotten one of the last bags iirc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:21 PM
7

I bet your mom's on cloud nine today after that nice gift ❤️ And I guarantee you she's going to keep the card forever 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:43 AM
7

How are you feeling about it? Really glad you could see that attempt at manipulation for what it was 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:40 AM
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Can I add that the only time I've witnessed true suburban barbarism was when a man stole my cranberries out of my cart, while making eye contact with me, and then literally running away, the day before Thanksgiving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:39 AM
5

That was really sweet of you 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:37 AM
8

🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:37 AM
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I'm not a holiday person. But I know it's important to the ones I love, so I get into the spirit of things See, it's clear you're a lovely, kind, empathetic and selfless person. A scrote could never ❌ Your sister is lucky to have you!! And your mom too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:35 AM
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That sounds like a pretty damn good day! I hope that you have a 100% "off" Mother's Day next year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:33 AM
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That sounds lovely! I noticed kinda the same thing at brunch today too... Women talking and connecting while the men stare at their phones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:54 PM
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The ones who talk big are the ones who NEVER man up when push comes to shove, period. A courageous and decent person, or even just a humble person with experience under their belt, understands that they don't personally know if they can or will rise to a particular occasion unless and until they themselves are actually in it (and that talking about coulda/woulda/shoulda always make you look like naive and insensitive, at best)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:48 PM
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One of my single friends took her dog on a multi-week, multi-state dog park tour and they looked unbelievably happy from all the photos and Stories 💕 Live your best lives, Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:12 PM
17

The Pickmeisha conditioning is powerful. If we really enjoyed hairy titties we could've dated bearded ladies no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:38 AM
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Find yourselves an outdoorsy man. The average Xbox addicted scrote can't even handle missionary 🤷‍♀️ But an Eagle Scout can get it done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:35 AM
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We accounted for 100% of job losses in December 2020. Women's labor force participation hit a 33-year low in January 2021. We are slipping downhill, moving backwards. The pandemic has been a boon for the patriarchy. Idk what to state other than the facts but this is a serious situation we are in right now and women as a group, women as a whole, we need to organize and do something before all our foremothers' progress is lost. Working women and the early COVID-19 shutdowns COVID-19 recession is t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:31 AM
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Remove the T and it totally sounds like a word... Scroviating. In a sentence: I blocked this scrote on Tinder and he slipped into my DMs to scroviate about how I'm such a fat ugly bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:40 PM
14

Girl what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:22 AM
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Arrogant: How dare you be right about things AND make me aware that I was wrong about something! Or, alternatively, how dare you know your worth and not let me degrade you! Fat, ugly: I'm going to insult your body for denying me access to it. How dare you have standards! Uppity: How dare you not make me feel like a king!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:17 PM
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The man I chose to marry has a dick so big it's almost a problem, and I fucking love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:20 PM
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Pickmeishas always think being stalked is going to be Prince Charming lovingly watching you from afar and saving you from getting hit by a taxi when you accidentally walk into the street while texting... it's really more like having Gollum showing up at your place of work and your home, trying to convince you his oily little dick is your greatest redemption as he alienates your outer friend circle, harasses your family, ruins every professional contact and you can't even do a grocery run in peac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:08 PM
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The FDS lense is powerful. It's finally too hot out to do my usual lunch time walk, so I've been binging Desperate Housewives while on the elliptical and keep thinking to myself, "Literally every single one of these husbands is a scrote." Especially Tom Scavo and Carlos Solis omfg. But yes I think a post specifically about Roy's 180 would be amazing for this sub. Hopefully someone will be inspired because I don't really know what to say other than "Men are perfectly capable of' trying hard until…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:03 PM
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When I was trying OLD this was very common and it fed my bitter black heart to reply back to their 20+ crazy demanding messages with "You're too needy, this isn't going to work out, bye" ohhhh the male RAGE of being called a traditionally feminine insult it was really something else 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:35 PM
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I love it, when people do that it's a concession that they're a dumb piece of shit. So many scrotes on this site waste their time scouring user histories to find fodder for an ad hominem attack so they don't have to furiously bang their two remaining brain cells together to formulate an actual response to whatever it is a woman may have said on their precious reddits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:32 PM
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Yup even if they pull a Roy from The Office and appear to do a full 180, they still act like scrotes in private
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:25 PM
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And you'd think a momma's boy would at least treat the mother of his children well... but nope that's not how it goes with these types
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:04 PM
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It's a thing from The Red Pill, they mishmash economic principles with pseudo psychology in an attempt to distill information into bite-sized pieces your average scrote can take and use to trick a woman into having sex with him because the kinds of men who need Red Pill generally can't empathize with or recognize other people as human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:18 PM
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If you ever meet a man irl who even knows the term SMV (Sexual Market Value), don't just walk, RUN away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:06 PM
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One time, pre-FDS, I posted basically this on Facebook (you can tell how long ago this story was lol) about how an engagement without a ring isn't a solid commitment and a woman went absolutely rabid in that post, claiming that her situation was different and I should really check myself... guess who had to drag her man down the aisle after two kids and a mortgage, only for him to divorce her in less than a year? If he really wanted to he would do it, and do it ALL, without any encouragement on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:31 PM
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The scrotal bitterness when they introduce you to a sport or hobby and you quickly become better than them at it is some truly next level shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:02 PM
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I might have missed an announcement if they fixed it yet but as soon as the user URL thing is resolved on thefemaledatingstrategy.com I'm not even visiting reddit anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:24 PM
6

Yes, unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:19 PM
9

Why's he trying to "win" unless he wants to make you the loser? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:27 PM
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Yup. I got married because I wanted divorce to be an option (this might sound sarcastic but I'm dead serious).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:25 PM
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It continues to blow my mind that men are raised to believe this while women are raised to hold themselves to impossibly high moral standards (at least, that's how it is in my part of the world). Literally everything is rigged for men basically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:24 PM
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I couldn't do it but there should be a post about the Pickmeishas who encourage force men to reconnect with the children they've abandoned for the sake of being a blended family because honestly I've never seen those situations play out in a way that was healthy for the kids long term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:19 PM
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Love this and love FDS 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:12 PM
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My least favorite part about those sorts of male spaces is that scrotes will argue "Well you COULD go there if you WAAAANTED" like being the only woman in a mob of aggressive men during a heated sports match or the only woman heading to the back to use the women's room in a seedy pub... aka having a target on your back for assault or rape... is really an option. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:08 PM
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He also could've just drank some fuckin OJ once in a while 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:45 PM
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It's one of those things where if I notice someone has tiny feet I can't stop noticing them. Kinda like how if someone has a really big mole on their face, it's hard to not focus on that? Idk I'm weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:07 PM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:04 PM
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This is going to sound weird but if he doesn't have an infectious smile or it isn't comfortable to look him in the eye, I'm out. Also a high or soft voice, tiny feet and hands, rough scaly skin and weird skin smell are deal breakers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:06 PM
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So many of my graduating class immediately had kids and became housewives. We're now in our early 30's and the struggle for women to get back into the workforce after a mere 10 years is INSANELY DIFFICULT even before the pandemic. To expect a woman to overcome the hurdle of multiple decades of no work experience in an economy where people with bachelors degrees are fighting for minimum wage, entry level positions? That OP is fucking sociopathic. As an aside, COVID forced mostly women out of the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:17 PM
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It's also worrisome that his reasoning was "Because I want it." That means that once his inhibitions are removed, he'll do anything he wants if he wants it. And apparently getting handsy with a girl he doesn't recognize is something he wants and doesn't even get consent for before starting? Big yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:15 PM
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I can virtually guarantee you she isn't getting a job so she can get as much alimony as possible when she takes this scrote to the cleaners after the kids go to college. I hope it goes something like Jerry Reed's She Got the Gold Mine (I Got the Shaft}. Godspeed to that long-suffering woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:53 PM
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Good move. You would have ended up running his whole life for him, probably even without the benefit of a marriage, if he'd had his way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:50 PM
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Idk why anyone thinks it isn't a recipe for disaster to expect professional level mental health treatment from your romantic partner. It's ridiculous and toxic and needs to stop. Mental health is serious business and should only be handled by a trained professional with no personal connections to you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:49 PM
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I know depression isn't something you choose or can force yourself out of, but every time in my Pickmeisha days that some LVM roped me in to exactly this kinda "poor me, my depression" soulbearing session, I walked away thinking some version of "Wow if he's depressed over what he just shared then I fear for him if he ever had real trouble. What a weakling." Literally every single time, I had a worse life and more legitimate complaints than the sniveling scrote making me listen to his word vomit.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:47 PM
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I think this is what reddit calls a "euphoric atheist" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:43 PM
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In some of those subs it's like the husbands are NPCs (looking at you, BrMo)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:31 PM
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Gotcha, that makes sense! Another post sounds fabulous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:16 PM
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Are you taking additions? Mine for 201 would be that he accepts a good argument, even and especially when it means he's been proven wrong, and he accepts being wrong with grace. Similarly, that he is compassionate during disagreements and that if he is angry or hurt it doesn't cloud his ability to see and care for others' anger or pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:11 PM
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If you're a teen, now is the time to learn as much as possible. Your brain is a sponge right now and things are so much easier to learn. Try arts, sports, niche interests and dive in. Doing so will level you up both personally and professionally. You will be setting the stage to be an incredibly interesting, dynamic, multi-talented adult. It will expand your network and your mind. Focus on exploring the world and you'll be so entertained and intrigued, you'll look back at how badly you wanted ro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:34 PM
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Sorry for the late reply, it has been a busy week and this is my first time getting on reddit. Does FDS need a post about chadfishing? Because my seriously awful brother in law is a incel scrote who has done chadfishing in the past, he has a doctorate in psych and being his sister in law has been quite the education (and clown show). I think you and I could put together an informative post if you felt like collaborating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:19 PM
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Frankly I question whether this man even pays rent somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:32 PM
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I got taken advantage of a lot too, you're not alone in that boat. Really glad you never will be again though! You deserve better! Good vibes and good wishes for your journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:14 PM
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Hey sorry I made it sound like I was talking to you specifically when I said "But girl why..." It was a generalized question for all women, including my past self 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:03 PM
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Back before I caught a clue I used to think it was an acceptable reality for some men to not be aware. But girl why would you ever want a man who was so unaware? Someone who couldn't effectively safeguard himself or his relationships? Any man who claims he can't notice a woman's interest should be dumped on the spot whether he's lying or not (spoiler: he is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:45 PM
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Ngl if I could only take a bullet for one of them I'd die for my BFF over my husband any day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:08 PM
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100%, absolutely everything you said!!! Also can I just point out that men don't understand the friendship or love women can share together? They have such limited world views, they can only assume that we relate to each other in the same way they relate to women, and so simply cannot fathom a mutually uplifting relationship that doesn't need sex to keep either person coming back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:54 PM
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Exactly 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:30 PM
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Why not stop asking when it's clear she felt obligated to say yes and didn't actually want to go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah I agree. To me it seemed clear that they both knew they didn't want to do the meteor shower together. So why force it? I think neither woman really likes each other anymore and they were being passive aggressive instead of honest. ESH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:04 PM
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You have to wear it every day; at the very least, get a ring made of quality metal so it doesn't turn to shit if you forget to take it off every time you wash your hands or shower!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:38 AM
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Also for "Crazy": If in reference to an ex, she realized he was gaslighting her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:54 PM
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Also, apparently they all say, "I can tell you two love each other very much" no matter what the couple's actually like 😂 I remember feeling so hopeful when the therapist said that about me and my ex 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:05 AM
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The therapist was a powerful tool for him and he felt empowered to act how he really wanted to. I shudder to think how he would've been if he felt like he had you locked down via marriage or pregnancy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:58 PM
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Don't you think she probably did all that? It's very rude to say you'd better handle something that intense when you weren't there and don't know what it was like. Truly no one on the face of this earth benefits from hearing "I'd do it better!" from a stranger when it comes to sharing a painful experience. I'm guessing it probably haunts her and here you are acting like it would be so easy to not give in. Maybe you've been in similar situations but you weren't in that one and it reads as an atte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:52 PM
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Has thin lines for a goatee/beard: Literally any sexual contact will result in stubble burn, which he will pretend he doesn't notice is bothering you I like to be friends first: He will still expect sex immediately and will not see you as a human being any more so than any other person I'm an asshole, but I'll be your asshole/Asshole with a heart of gold/Nicest asshole you'll ever meet: He's an epic piece of shit who will laugh anytime someone expects him to grow as a person or just, like, not b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:45 PM
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Will also step out on a 10/10 bangmaid for any and all women dumb enough to drive to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:36 PM
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And he's got to be some special kind of ugly or creepy to be searching for a trad wife online. It's frankly disgustingly easy for men to get a trad wife. All they have to do is join some evangelical church and show up for a year or two in a polo and loafers to all the socials and they'll have parents practically shoving naive sheltered young women at "such a good, Godly young man waiting for the wife Christ Jesus chose for him"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:34 PM
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I remember not being able to play on the playground in pre-kindergarten every time I wore a dress because the boys would incessantly harass any girl who crawled through the tubes or up the ladders, grabbing at and trying to pull off her underwear. Can't believe it took reading your comment to realize that the teachers fucking knew about it and did nothing. We would literally be a line of little girls sitting on the curb where the sidewalk met the wood chips watching everyone else play on the equ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:25 PM
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My least favorite was some variation of "Can we postpone this for now?" Because we had a birthday party to attend, or he had the worst day ever at work, or it was Christmas and can't we have a nice Christmas and deal with these issues tomorrow, or whatever it just wasn't a good time for a fight (is it ever?) and my young dumb ass actually believed the first few times that he would be willing to talk about it the next day 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:19 PM
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My mother has worked at a men's prison before, as a psych nurse. They love their Pickmeisha staff and try to intimidate and harass the women who don't fuck around. I remember getting really scared for my mom when she told me that the only time SHE was ever truly afraid of an inmate was when he tried to act like equals and befriend her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:14 PM
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His head is so empty all he has to get mad about is somebody else's hair 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:08 PM
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Work Hard Play Hard or YOLO: Susceptible to or already has substance use disorder Any variation of "shoot my shot": He thinks audacity is manly and will get unbelievably butthurt if anyone views him negatively for overstepping boundaries All about the grind: Always the last guy to go home, never the senior partner New to this or never tried this before or looking for new experiences: He's been there, done that and already used the t-shirt as a cum towel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:00 PM
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Someone in my husband's friend group dated his now-wife for 7 years, she was literally bags packed with a foot out the door when he finally popped the question, and even now (after a beautiful wedding and several years of nicely curated social media feeds of regular married life) he still is on Tinder, still talking shit about her both behind her back and in front of her face. She thought he'd treat her different as a wife. She was wrong. She knows how he is and she's staying in it so I don't ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:11 PM
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Why do we even accept fear of commitment as a valid excuse? Where did that come from? Why is commitment so scary, is it lurking behind the corner looking to cut your Achilles tendon? Idk how so many men can think they're logical, honest and/or straight shooters when they prefer to pretend to be scared of an abstract concept instead of just saying they don't want to get married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:03 PM
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Because more women are willing to fuck a "single dad" than a married or divorced man. If he has kids out of wedlock he's keeping his options as open as possible while holding on to the one woman sticking around, no doubt about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:55 PM
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His poor ex was probably too busy working at the hospital cleaning up patients' piss and shit to do a deep clean on the tub regularly. So gross that this Pickmeisha is trying to shade a hard working NURSE for not cleaning up after a healthy grown man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:48 PM
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I hate to say it, but to trap you might not always be it - more often that any of us probably care to believe, they have evil intent for their children too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:33 PM
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100% he's one of those dude bros who bought heavy into the "passive income stream" hype, but it never really worked for him specifically. Definitely not because he's an unskilled, shiftless loser though! He's just too focused on those beautiful sunsets as he makes use of his fleshlight for the billionth time (which he cleans with baby wipes because no running water). Stonks and odd jobs (aka unemployment benefits) help too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:16 PM
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When we start leaving baby boys on the hillside because men are worthless, then I'll believe misandry is a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:18 PM
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They thought if they doled us out one to each man, every man would get all the sex he wanted and be happy. When that didn't work, they brainwashed us to be libfem sl'ts so every man could get all the sex he wanted and be happy, and look how that's working out for them. Die mad scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:08 PM
1

Mazel tov!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:18 PM
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Love that 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:17 PM
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"Any man who must say 'I am king' is no true king at all." Completely agree with you, all women should avoid self-proclaimed alphas like the plague!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:17 PM
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"I know you're a Proverbs 31 woman but you need to read and pray on 1 Timothy a whole lot more for Jesus to bless this union." Translating from evangelical to human, basically he saw that I was a perfect future bangmaid but really needed to stop sharing my thoughts and opinions 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:42 PM
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The ones who call you high maintenance are the ones who will marry you, convince you to leave the workforce, begin refusing to pay "so much" for your beauty treatments and supplies, then start complaining that he's not feeling the chemistry anymore, and then cheat on you and blame his infidelity on your not putting in any effort for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:32 PM
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The worst one is the woman who has been told the medical details of why I don't want children and still she tells me and my husband every time she sees us together that we would make beautiful children, time's passing us by, and if we're waiting for the right time financially it will never be the right time. I'd avoid her but we volunteer in the same role and our shifts often overlap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:19 PM
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Imagine if by just getting a boyfriend you could have access to a personal assistant, an advisor, a fashion consultant, homemade meals, a sparkling clean house, a bigger and better friend group, a shoulder to cry on, and someone who selflessly catered to your sexual needs without even thinking about their own. I'd imagine this is part of why they get so angry and violent when turned down by women. It's not really just that they have fragile egos. They also truly think they're entitled to all the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:13 PM
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From all I've seen, your middle age is where you really start to have your shit together. Middle aged people today are healthier than they've ever been while it's also harder than ever to have a steady career, good living situation and so on at an early age. I never wanted a child in my 20s or even early 30s, it seemed too early on in life for that. Yet, easily 90% of the people we've told about ours plans to adopt in our early 40s have reacted negatively and said ageist, sexist, and impolite th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:03 PM
11

Honestly if someone pulls this on you just block and move on. If it's in person I've had great luck with responding "Was it though?", changing the subject, then avoiding that person as much as possible in the future. It's just not worth any more energy than that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:41 PM
22

Guess he forgot that delightful manosphere quote, "If you want to know how to hunt a deer, ask the hunter, not the deer…" lol he just wishes he could have a bunch of women ask him relationship questions while he pretends they're interested specifically in him. These NVMs are such big babies about being denied the opportunity to indulge their fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:38 PM
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Same. My husband was an Eagle Scout working to help support his family from an early age (including two little sisters). He didn't have the time or opportunity to develop a porn addiction. He treats all women with true respect and greatly enjoys "vanilla" sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:49 PM
18

Think about who among men has power over life itself: doctors, surgeons. And where are they on the totem pole, among men? They're the most respected of all. To men, being able to give or take away life is the ultimate power. Meanwhile women are simply born with the power to grant life. Men have always hated us for it. They resent that we are born with a power no man will ever have for himself. The story of man is the story of men trying, through any means necessary, to control womens' power for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:13 PM
2

Awesome! I think you'll love adding yoga to your day, it took a while but now I crave them and feel great after every session. Yoga helped with my rebound times from a tough hike, too, so that may be an added benefit for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:06 PM
7

Right? He starts it off by qualifying his statement with his condemnation of women in dead bedrooms only being applicable to situations in which the man hadn't been using porn prior to being denied sex... like really what men aren't using porn long before they get into a relationship? Did he even mean to kneecap his argument like that? Is he yelling at women about a situation only an incel who got lucky enough to fool a woman into being his girlfriend would be in, or is he just another dumb scro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:05 PM
3

I loved /u/millenialpink2000 's comment just now in another thread and wanted to ask what y'all have been doing during the pandemic. I picked up a daily yoga regimen and started experimenting with growing mushrooms and making vegan cheese. How about you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:05 PM
57

He dumped you, ignored you then tried to meet up again? Sis he doesn't want to talk, he doesn't need closure, he was just trying to hook up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:09 PM
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Funny how "the wall" occurs within 5 years of our brains finishing development. Almost like that's about how long it would take even the kindest of women to become jaded by poor treatment and less likely to put up with new scrotes 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:32 PM
7

I'm loving that we're finally getting good female anti-heroes. The lead in I Care A Lot is a deeply flawed and fabulous character. It came out this year and features the same actress who did Gone Girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:02 PM
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I'm also happy to contribute as someone who was so helpless she didn't even know how to put gas in her own car, and had to kick out an abuser. Practical stuff like regaining access to email and bank accounts, getting your passport replaced, executing the grand kick out day, things like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:54 PM
6

It's horrifying and ridiculous that they think they're hot shit for being capable of manipulating women who were raised from birth to be gullible and self-sacrificing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:49 PM
8

It kills me that men are raised to have such hubris that they can argue and lie like that without a shred of concern for how stupid they look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:42 PM
7

Completely agree with you that being someone's dream girl can lead to abuse and control. Can I share my story too? Long long before I found FDS, I was a PickMeisha who believed a NVM about being his dream girl. It ended up with him literally gaslighting me about repeatedly locking me into the house whenever he'd leave for work, taking my car and credit card in case I managed to somehow, idk, break out of the skylight and learn how to drive manual (his work truck). My townhouse was wildly unsafe …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:25 PM
7

My experience is that they will do absolutely anything for you and give you absolutely anything, even things they can't really afford... except maybe chop off their actual penis and gift it to you, preserved in a wooden box. Until, of course, they start to see you outside of their dreams. They don't want to see that it costs you money and time and effort to be pretty, and suddenly having their super hot dream girl won't stop them from bitching about how your beauty routine affects them. They don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:13 PM
9

"I'm an old soul. Newfangled things like being held accountable for my actions or treating women as equals just feels wrong to me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:39 PM
9

"Sensual" makes me think he's going to end up literally humping your leg if you were to ever try and cuddle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:37 PM
1

That line made me think this was a Sheldon Cooper parody tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:36 PM
5

Any girl who gives this guy a chance is going to end up being pressed into his cracked faux leather couch as he sweats on her and switches the TV from Netflix to hentai without asking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:34 PM
13

Realize that you had no real idea who he is or how he felt about anything that happened and that if you knew the full truth you would be quite disillusioned with him. If he was the right HVM for you, he would be in your life. It's virtually guaranteed he is in fact a scrote. It's not productive to spend time or energy feeling things about something that's behind you. Focus on what's ahead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:05 PM
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Idk how they can look at the statistics for single mothers and say that women and children are more loved or treated as indisposable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:18 PM
24

My experience was that "shy" guys are just antisocial and they'll slowly ostracize you from all your friends and fun things in your life because... it's too crowded, he's too tired, he's stressed, your friends are too x y z... Really they're not "shy," they have no joie de vivre and they'll make you lose yours too if you buy into their bullshit long enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:18 PM
5

"I feel weird trying to crucify him for his feelings or lack of them toward me, though." As women we're taught that feelings matter and to respect feelings, but then scrotes come along and instead of seeing that as wonderful and humane they see it as an opportunity to force women to accept verbal abuse under the guise of "sharing feelings" and "being honest." He could've just said he wasn't feeling it. He could've even gone so far as to acknowledge his own shortcomings and blame himself. Instead…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:07 AM
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