| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 3203 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinked | PICKME CULTURE | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 3132 | No thank you🙂 | FDS MEMES | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 2078 | It’s scary how many of them think like this | MALE DEPRAVITY | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 1133 | Found this gem on Twitter | DISCUSSION | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:01 AM |
| 463 | Reason 406 why I don’t believe most men deserve children | MALE DEPRAVITY | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 335 | This belongs here 😂 | FDS MEMES | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:57 PM |
| 89 | LVM avoids his own wife and kids yet finds time to lecture strangers on their reproductive choices | THINGS SCROTES SAY | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:59 AM |
| 5 | It’s scary how many of them think like this | LVM LOGIC | intergalacticanon44 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:05 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 139 | & that’s on porn addiction… SMHI feel like if your kink involves violence against another person you SHOULD be shamed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe in the idea of soulmate or soulmates?Yeah I believe in both platonic and romantic soulmates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 04:30 AM |
| 40 | Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.Yikes Do people not do nice things for their friends too? Is this how they treat them????? Very weird behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 09:53 AM |
| 20 | Husband tries to get his wife to sign papers blindfolded then berates her for not trusting him. So shady!! I hope she runs!!Wtf………. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:15 AM |
| 486 | is planning the same weekend trip with a different girl one year later an issue?How do you even know he took her? That will illuminate A LOT imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 07:42 AM |
| 15 | For anyone watching love is blind, a huge narcissist is in the show...Shayne..Some of the men this season have big “I’m the prize” energy and it’s so cringe-worthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 21 | If you can't see any good reason not to date a man with a female best friend, LET THIS BE IT! Selfish pickmeisha got stood up, so she ruined another womans valentines day. To add insult to injury, she & this mans girlfriend are related 🤢LMAOO WHAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 4 | ✨How I realised if he wanted to he would is true ✨Aw you’re such a lovely friend, thank you for sharing this💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 49 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!What the fuck, I hope karma gets her. What a cruel, evil woman. I’m so sorry to that daughter I hope she gets back on her feet soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:32 PM |
| 29 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:When it comes to having children I can’t stand to imagine them going through things I went through, I’d rather it happen to me again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:30 AM |
| 5 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorSo he’s a creep? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 4 | 10 year age gapWhat do you have in common with a 34 year old man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:51 PM |
| 80 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteWhy is she telling reddit and not the police 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:31 AM |
| 8 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.He’ll probably get his mother to raise him since he’s a MAN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Update to previous post ladies!Just block him x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 21 | Flip the scriptI like your response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:18 AM |
| 11 | Does anyone else want a long-term partner, but also doesn’t want to live with them?Yeah, ideally I’d like to have my own space and time to exist as just myself, not someone’s wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 4 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateThis is so weird I don’t even know where to start | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:45 AM |
| 13 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himGood for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:11 AM |
| 12 | I just realized that men never teach other men, or boys, how to swing a baseball bat or a golf club by sliding up behind them and mimicking the swing.Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 04:23 AM |
| 23 | what happens when you initiafe contact even oncelmao what that’s so odd of him, he should be thankful that you offered to do a nice thing. any person would be, so strange | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 02:18 AM |
| 19 | This dumb ass scrote I work with is literally going to leave these spilled ramekins of dry cereal on his half (when we're on the line )of the section floor 😆This is why I’m glad my dad would equally name and shame ALL of us if we’d left a mess somewhere. It would be on that person to clean it. You would never think I live in a house full of males lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Shout-out to this line in a Korean drama. Didn't expect that but really loved itDamn what a line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:20 PM |
| 6 | The tea is hotLOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any male friends?Too many male friends will see you as a potential gf/hookup/fwb. No thank you. I’m perfectly fine with my brothers LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 09:59 AM |
| 19 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughThis might be a bit too niche but Beat Again by JLS, reeks of emotional manipulation 😭 my 9-year old self loved it tho 💃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 10:43 AM |
| 8 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTF“SCROTATION REPORT” made me giggle 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 15 | Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone.Men can’t do friendships with women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Is it crazy to have a goal to make enough money to hire a PI to vet?Yeah, I wouldn’t want someone doing that to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 14 | Studies have shown that men (moreso than women) will leave a relationship / marriage when their partner gets sick. Not to mention the high rate that they abandon their family/parental responsibilities. This is why it's so important to not settle for LVM!Ever since I was a little kid I have struggled with seeing the upsides of marriage with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 11:25 AM |
| 8 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceI like her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:10 PM |
| 153 | This is the kind of stuff that really scares me😞I feel like in the end you never truly get to know the other person. Tw: s3xual abuse/text postThis makes me not want to marry a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 69 | Can't stress enough: MEN AT WORK AREN'T FRIENDS. They DO NOT fear consequences. I just had some sick fuck sexualize my cancer. **RANT**Everyday I understand more and more why God prohibited interactions between the sexes, get these men away from me please!!!!! Men are NOT our friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 18 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳Delivery men too!! I recently saw a tiktok of a girl that had a deliveroo driver try to enter her home and asked her for a kiss. She was clearly young and alone. If you can, ask them to leave your food at the door and wait until they’re at their vehicle to collect your things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 109 | Safety tips for Internet.also: DO NOT sync your contacts on your tiktok!! Instead, sign up using an email and never use your number to sign in!!! It will show your account to anyone that has your number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Let’s count the red flags together!She’s definitely missing some basic etiquettes by not informing him of her lateness but why is he pocket-watching 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:00 AM |
| 4 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.If you want to do this, go ahead but KEEP THAT SHIT TO YOURSELF PLEASE😩😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 16 | I know a pickme had to swipe right on him. 🤮Is that a threat? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:32 AM |
| 25 | Why LVM don’t care about creating single momsaaand this is why I’d rather have complete custody over my children if I somehow ended up with a LV male, you can’t trust them with your babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 07:18 AM |
| 4 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.There’s enough overlap that you don’t need all those subscriptions at once and I’m sure he knows that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:57 PM |
| 37 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.There are days where it’s actually hard to finish, I want better for these women 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 349 | This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help.Do men ever get embarrassed by other men doing weirdo shit to women. It’s always the same fucking premise; man harassing woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:45 PM |
| 6 | Green Flag: Guy I’m seeing stayed up to help me study all night after I cancelled our date. If he wanted to he would.Aww that’s so sweet and congratulations on your exam!!💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 11:29 PM |
| 40 | Fawning like "How are you single?"/"You sound too good to be true!"/"Are you real?"My go-to is “can you say mashallah, I don’t want your evil eye 🥰” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 07:19 PM |
| 45 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.Divorce babe, divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:49 PM |
| 72 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.Off topic but I see A LOT more stories of men ghosting women nowadays, interesting. I think men like the idea of having a beautiful woman waiting on them, wasting their time, alone. It’s so weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 29 | The IckHe wasn’t really a crush-crush but I kinda knew he liked me, he was v cute and my type but his personality gave me the ick. The entire time we worked together I avoided him like the plague because I didn’t want to get attached. Anyway, he’d do cringey things to catch my attention, for example, I’m VISIBLY muslim and he isn’t but he’d throw around “islamic” sayings and words whenever I was around and omg😭 the STRENGTH it took to not to tell him that I knew what he was doing😂😭 That was the first i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:26 PM |
| 26 | How do you deal with being ignored (on purpose) by men in your workplace? What is the correct way to address it?https://youtu.be/vU5D_ukWP7w I love her smile as she walks away🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 8 | You’ve heard about baby trapping. Be wary of baby and marriage trapping (by his family)They’re still trying to trap her with a baby, so sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 12:58 PM |
| 47 | How do you deal with being ignored (on purpose) by men in your workplace? What is the correct way to address it?I hate this video, but she got them back later 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 12:57 PM |
| 57 | Play hard to get, be hard to wantWhy do they want to be chased so badly omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 02:00 PM |
| 8 | What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth?My heart breaks for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Don't settle for less 😆you were what the youth call “down bad” 😔😔💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 10:20 AM |
| 28 | Don't settle for less 😆with emojis and everything😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | A List of LovebombsAll of these things give me the ick, thank God 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:36 PM |
| 122 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?That’s perfect because the bills need him every month!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 12:32 PM |
| 4 | I witnessed a man publicly threatening a woman today.I know you meant well with recording but it can come across as being passive and not helpful. There are cctv cameras for that. If I was in the position of the cashier (which I have been) I’d want someone to call for help or intervene, not just record -it’s humiliating. Also I think calling the police would’ve been a good idea since the man was verbally assaulting her and attempting to steal, he would’ve been made banned from that store. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:30 AM |
| 104 | And they wonder why we get irritable in publicIm so fucking sick and tired of this filming and not intervening bullshit. I see soooo many videos on the internet of people being verbally and physically assaulted in PUBLIC and nobody attempts to help them. It’s actually MORE humiliating to put that shit on the internet than it is to be there in that moment. This is why I fear ever getting into any sort of altercation with a man in public because Im not sure anyone would help yet my face would be all over the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:27 PM |
| 12 | Whenever I think men cannot possibly get worse…Omg wtfffff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:06 PM |
| 140 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyA man will never be the prize sorry I don’t make the rules! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:40 PM |
| 29 | I'm done with men shorter than mepls not him thinking your brother was your man thats fucking hilarous😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inJust stumbled upon a post of a man that handmade his wife’s wedding ring from gold and sapphire that he’d found in her hometown and it took him 2 years to make, brb gonna find me a hvm geologist 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 34 | Feminism and it's real life applications. Supporting the growth and emancipation of other women!Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:37 AM |
| 298 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡I think he’s just trying to avoid the duty of looking after his wife by providing for her, placed on him by God. What woman is gonna want that😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:35 AM |
| 75 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡ew he wants to live with his mum who does everything for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:33 AM |
| 17 | Surprise Visit to Her Boyfriend in College - Thousands of TikTok Users Found it Suspicious and Found Both the BF's Reaction as well as the Reactions of Female Friends "Off" - What Do Y'all Think?He looks like he has some upsetting news to tell her later aw :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:34 AM |
| 11 | Apparently it’s hard for men to *not* be freely insufferable even while doing something as mud and as taking a lift/cab 🤮Did he have the child-lock on for him to be able to refuse to unlock the door? That should be illegal wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:11 AM |
| 20 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.Oh no he was there?????😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 07:44 AM |
| 112 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.I only want someone who really likes me, enough that they ask me out first lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:53 PM |
| 84 | Funny?? - women are treated worse than pets.I would leave him and take the dog too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:56 AM |
| 20 | Imagine tolerating thisHave you ever listened to the lyrics of Upgrade U, she can’t be saved unfortunately 💔💔💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 80 | Jealousy in partners families? Has anyone experienced this?Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:12 PM |
| 12 | Wife Introduces Serial Cheating Husband to FearI kinda don’t hate it💀 but men can be crazy, I wish she’d just leave silently because who knows how he’ll react when he finds out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:12 PM |
| 63 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...This gives me hope😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:24 AM |
| 433 | Ummm...yes? And?NVM hate that friend, don’t they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:59 PM |
| 21 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugOh no 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inNeeded to hear this, thank you! 😁💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inYou are right! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Check-inI need some sisterly advice from you all. I was recently accosted by a coworker who seems very mentally unstable (judging by her past actions towards customers and staff) and truthfully she seems threatening af. I can back myself 10000% but I genuinely do not even want it to go that far since I’ve already put in my notice for this place. As it happens my last shift will involve a swap over with said coworker after I’d already expressed my concerns about her to my biased manager. WIBTA if I happe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:13 PM |
| 67 | Men pursuing 18 year oldsOf course they look 18, 2 years isn’t that big of a jump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 08:23 AM |
| 58 | No words.I will never have kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:45 PM |
| 6 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmOh gosh you’re right🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:55 AM |
| 58 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmSo I take it her birthday was in April 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Misogyny and inceldom have just caused the WORST mass shooting in decades in the UKLuckily I believe in Hell so he can rot there 👍🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Misogyny and inceldom have just caused the WORST mass shooting in decades in the UKIncels make me feel physically sick, I hope he rots in jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Of all the pick-me BS! Is this empowering?with a face like that she shouldn’t have to chase any man, what is going onnnn😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-injust thinking about how cute it is when little kids are out with one parent and they tell the parent they’re with to buy something for mum/dad too! never fails to make me smile 😩🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 10:06 PM |
| 23 | LVM doesn't want women to be happyThis is so frightening wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:21 PM |
| 9 | Don't Stroke His Ego, especially in the early stages!But I like to make people feel good abt themselves by hyping them up, though I know now not everyone deserves this kindness from me. Thanks for the post, going straight into my saved folder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:20 PM |
| 72 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Yikessss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:08 PM |
| 74 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.The way he knew it was coming 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:44 AM |
| 12 | On the unequal division of physical trauma when it comes to child bearing; therefore, any baby that I give birth to is getting my last nameSims 4 do this automatically 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 9 | The new dating scam.That edit was UNNECESSARY he SCAMMED you 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:44 PM |
| 28 | Targeting👏Young👏Girls👏Is👏Wrong👏Are these real?!?! I know about Billie but the other two are news to me omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:29 PM |
| 162 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?I’m seeing red flag after red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 3 | God help the woman married to this manEWWWWW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:51 AM |
| 19 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…The other day I saw a tiktok of someone’s 16 year old YOUNGER brother paying for her nails, that’s all I’m going to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:50 AM |
| 43 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meI hope she sees this and dumps him “on a whim” 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:41 AM |
| 64 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡Football fans are fucking scum so I’m not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:40 AM |
| 14 | I'm ✨embarrassed ✨She has a boyfriend she’s literally been picked she can drop the act now 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 08:37 AM |
| 3 | after his creepy OLD videos, she's back with him“Nivine, it’s ME” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:06 PM |
| 25 | Finally met my HVM 🥰Good luck on getting that uber eats money back babes 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:04 PM |
| 9 | Just started talking to this guy on Hinge (28M) and he's already tryna make me (22F) his motherIs he not embarrassed 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Genuine Common Decency Is Bare Minimum, Yet Still Too Much To Ask For lmao 🙄Lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:05 AM |
| 179 | The other day a male approached me while I had earphones in walking around at a mall. I just walked away without responding but next time I’ll do this instead 😍 her response was too good lmao0721- that part would lead him to think she was actually going to give him her number since UK mobile numbers follow that pattern BUT then she says “do one” which essentially means to “fuck off” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:02 AM |
| 71 | I can’t unsee this now…He hasn’t been in his 40s for AT LEAST 5 years I’m willing to bet😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 36 | Say it louder for the people in the back!!Men can’t control themselves even when we aren’t wearing revealing clothes I got harassed when the only thing you could see were my eyes lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:17 PM |
| 30 | Knock it tf off, pickmeisha 🤡This a cry for help or??😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 43 | So many stories like this are popping up. I'm glad she's divorcing him.What a queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 11:51 AM |
| 65 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?There’s a tiktok of a mother whose teeth fell out trending atm and I think that’s what sparked the above tweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:33 PM |
| 30 | This reminds me of the slug storyWhy do people cut soooo much slack for their boyfriends like is **** really THAT good😭😭 I’m sure OP wouldn’t tolerate this from a friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:53 AM |
| 4 | From a FB group. I almost cried at my desk when I read this. Men are truly horrid.Boy am I glad I finished reading this 😭💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 05:17 AM |
| 34 | A female only gym and scrotes are comparing it to segregation and racism. Im not jokingI almost fainted at my “mixed” gym last week and I’m not kidding, the fear of being unconscious around stranger males is what kept me from blacking out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021I have this auntie who’s around 10 years older than I am (early 30s) and I feel like she resents the fact that I know how to do makeup and that I’m not insecure about things she is obviously insecure about. She will get genuinely upset when she sees me about to put makeup on. She asks me why I have to wear makeup “everyday” or every time I go out WHICH I DONT LMAO. I think she’s insinuating that I’m not comfortable in my skin. I have some skin damage that I’ve had since I was a baby but I don’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Who knew?I see a missed opportunity in the title 😭🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:29 AM |
| 4 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎Lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Get A Feeling of Dream When They See Older (50+) Men In Public?For me it’s all middle aged men and teen/adolescent boys only when they’re in groups which they always seem to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InHow is it that I’ve been blocked from commenting on subs I’ve never commented on?? That’s so weird, how is that allowed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:46 AM |
| 14 | If it’s on a popular sub for women, it’s fine. But if we say the same thing here, suddenly we are the actual devil and hate men (like that’s a bad thing). Whyy? At least they’re getting it.Oh my... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:45 AM |
| 9 | If it’s on a popular sub for women, it’s fine. But if we say the same thing here, suddenly we are the actual devil and hate men (like that’s a bad thing). Whyy? At least they’re getting it.Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Males become fucking demonic when they’re in groups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 10:45 PM |
| 16 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineI find it even more sus because she made it a point to only wear baggy clothes when she was a minor. Then there was that show after her 18th birthday where she was wearing a tank top, the most “revealing” clothes she’d worn on stage. It’s like this was inevitable, there was always going to be the undressing phase and they knew because of her past, it would gain lots of attention and money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 07:54 AM |
| 112 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.Men notice, but they don’t care. I saw a tiktok of this girl who said she had dozed off on a train, woke up to the guy opposite her asking “why didn’t you move away when the man next you was touching himself?”. This man really sat there and didn’t even have the decency to wake her up while she was getting sexually assaulted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:06 AM |
| 5 | Adulthood male circumcisionWhy did I read this 😁😁😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:59 AM |
| 13 | What even is this logic???He sounds like a child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:03 PM |
| 17 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit ManosphereShouldn’t the fact that they’ve been outed as misogynistic automatically lead to their removal? I don’t see why they can’t name and shame them, it would only accelerate their plight by making more people aware of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 14 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit ManosphereDid they name the subreddits? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:44 PM |
| 8 | Things I didn’t know I need🗣🗣🗣Bring em back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 38 | I listened to my gut.Americans really do love to talk to strangers, don’t they? 😭 I’m from the UK, we do not speak to strangers in public, I’ve noticed it’s always American ppl (men, mostly) that like to spark up conversations with me and I just sit there like 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 47 | The half your age plus 7 rule benefits creepy men looking to justify their ephebophilia and legally simulate their fantasies of pedophilia.I’m 21 and 30 year olds even considering me as an option is scary, I’m literally a child (I’m not but still😭) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:49 PM |
| 218 | Never be friends with them. A man befriends a woman working at a construction site. He kills her when he finds out she has a boyfriend. This is why I always just straight ignore any man who tries to talk to me if I don’t himWhat is going on... men have become so fucking violent since this pandemic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 13 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Fuuuuuuck Kevin Samuels that man is fucking weird😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 76 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"I would report the comment THEN leave 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.When he stopped his car 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 28 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.I hope that teenager is okay, it must’ve been so scary to have him try to kidnap her. What a lunatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | TW: Violence against women. I'm just tired of having to be extra careful, just because I'm a womanMen openly admit on their disgusting subs that they would never help a woman who’s in danger because they think AWALT and she deserved whatever was coming to her. It’s just so sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:27 AM |
| 179 | I saw this on Popular lmao wtf?Gamer and gentleman in the same sentence lmaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:03 AM |
| 8 | "dating for a free meal"wow...I’m at a loss for words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 75 | Science finally admits that it's a myth that we fall off a fertility cliff at 35Yeah my aunt gave birth to 4 children naturally after 45 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 5 | He made me cry last nightI love this for you🤗😁💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 17 | jfc, even the comments are a goldmine, so it’s wrong to have standards???He wants to hide the fact that he’s not looking for anything serious but with all the benefits of a serious relationship lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:40 AM |
| 49 | Have you ladies seen this? This gorgeous, married woman has been fighting her EX in court because he wants their embryos from the time they were in love, to be born.How is that even a case, he only has half the rights to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 10:11 PM |
| 28 | MuahahahaThank you 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:09 PM |
| 74 | Muahahahawhat’s her name? ☺️☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI’m so annoyed, my new manager has been posting the work rota last minute since he started two weeks ago and now he won’t answer my messages telling me I can’t work 30 hours when I’m only contracted for 20. And for those of you who saw my post on AskFDS, he STILL calls me but today I said my phone speaker doesn’t work. The work app thing I haven’t asked him yet because it wasn’t yet feasible, it is now and I will ask next week. sighhhh Forgot to add that he’s scheduled me on the same days as him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Don't threaten me with a good timeHAHAHAHAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI was stalking some people from hs 😭 no big deal but it seems weird that even on a device I wasn’t signed in on, they could still see it was me. Ngl I don’t think I’ll be using Linkedin, it seems way too TMI for me haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 6 | I JUST CANT WITH THE AMOUNT OF TRUTH HERE.I’m both this and the comment above 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Woman calls into a talk show after finding out her new husband hid $100,000 in UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT. Male host tells her she needs to COMBINE FINANCES with him.Major cringe alert 😫https://youtu.be/3AlATtGlbW8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 6 | DAE feel like weight is a major filter for LVMs?I feel this way about my fashion sense, I’m a hijabi and dress modestly and still get hit on and stared at by men. They stare at my body, bro I’m literally in the baggiest of clothes there’s nothing to see 😭. It makes me shudder thinking about how much more they would stare if I were to dress less modestly. I feel kinda protected with my clothes but at the same time, I know men are disgusting and will sexualise anything with a hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:14 PM |
| 52 | Woman calls into a talk show after finding out her new husband hid $100,000 in UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT. Male host tells her she needs to COMBINE FINANCES with him.Isn’t this the guy who tested the girl he was with by pretending he was broke😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-ini very much wish i was joking 😫i read about it happening to other people on tiktok😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:58 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inAnyone use Linkedin? How come no one told me it notifies people when you stalk their page even when you’re logged out😭😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 33 | A hard truth I've come to understand about 50/50:They’re terrified of being called “whipped” by their boy friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 31 | There is an INBREEDING SUBREDDIT where men discuss having children specifically for the purpose of having sex with them. Just when I thought Reddit couldn't get any worse...Fucking hell.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InI’ve noticed something with heterosexual couples that has me baffled. As a cashier, I’ve noticed a trend of the woman always paying whilst the man will either not come into the shop at all, or they will order together and stand as far away as possible from the cash register when it’s time to pay🤢🤢🤢 what is going on??? I KNOW FOR A FACT that she’s paying for his stuff too. The total is never more than £20 either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 11 | How Does a Baby Bust End? When men step up and take responsibility.It scares me how many women think having kids is something that you’re supposed to do. It tells me a lot about what they think of infertile people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮I LOVE THIS😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 09:58 AM |
| 22 | Ya’ll, please tell me I did not just read what I read? After seeing that I went and made a donation to FDS. It was the only way I could calm down. Is this a thing?!?!?!?!Put them all on a watchlist 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:48 PM |
| 17 | Cassie - Long Way 2 Go 🎶🎵Her declining all the men’s requests but accepting the women’s >>>> 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮tiffany pollard voice Somebody lied to her.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 30 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮A teenager | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:53 PM |
| 32 | I don't have words for thisWtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:48 PM |
| 27 | Bite it off! 🤣Can also confirm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 33 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENWtf why is she asking strangers what she should do? Isn’t that her baby as well? She should’ve said something the moment she heard him drop her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 09:14 AM |
| 19 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.A male would’ve left by now if he had even a quarter of the responsibilities she does | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 12 | Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HVMaybe he wants her to ask him about the gifts so he can later claim she’s a gold digger and is only after his money. How would you even approach someone about a gift they said they’d buy you but they haven’t? He’s put her in a very awkward position and I think he knows that, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 3 | MEN ARE DISGUSTINGI’m so sorry that happened. Has this happened before? Is there a way to have him move hospitals? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 01:13 AM |
| 74 | She Should just try hAVinG sEx LIkE a mAnNot everyone wants to get an abortion so I think it’s 100% her right to check the condoms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 17 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateThis is sending me😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check Insooo how does everyone avoid a marilyn monroe moment when wearing skirts and dresses😫 what kinds of materials should I avoid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:47 AM |
| 16 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?Let’s just say I’m definitely not looking for anything even close to dating with men for now (or ever😳). The guys my age are still developing their careers (as am I) and since our brain fully develops at 25, it’ll be few more years until I’m open to dating them at all. I will DEFINITELY not be dating anyone older than me for fear of fetishisation bc of my age. tbh I felt this way even before FDS but having it confirmed on here with facts, figures and personal stories, it’s made me even more comf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 123 | What we're NOT gonna do is spread the "age is just a number" pedophile agenda by using feminist hashtags. The example pictures were cherry picked celebrity women with younger husbands. "Age is just a number" ONLY benefits men who want someone way too young for them. I can't believe it's normalized.I am so fucking uncomfortable with the idea that men over 30 see me as their ideal type JUST because of my age. I would never in a million years date someone even 5 years older than me, let alone a 40 year old man. I work as a cashier and I’m more comfortable talking to guys my own age more because 7/10 times I wouldn’t be totally repulsed if they expressed interest in me (not that I would pursue anything w/ them) whereas with older men I intentionally don’t banter with them as much. Idk if that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 40 | Male SocializationOh my God another mass killing? May all the victims rest in peace. This should be a happy time, we have a vaccine and things are going back to normal, men ruin every-fucking-thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:09 PM |
| 13 | Scrote on the street told me he wanted to r*pe methis is why i listen to music or something in public, so you can’t hear it and don’t give them the reaction they want. I’m sorry that happened to you, stay safe 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 74 | Another dog went after my dog and it's proof men are trashI bet that man would want you to pay his vet bill if were the other way round. Women are more empathetic than men 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:11 PM |
| 28 | Needing some support. I am fuming. Boy moms are fucking worst.I'm just glad your daughter has a parent like you. please get her out of that situation immediately, step-mom sounds like a victim-blaming monster lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:02 PM |
| 51 | It may not be All men but it’s enough menI always thought this should be the rebuttal for "not all men" because it's not any other gender, it's MEN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:11 PM |
| 27 | Tragic Example of The Mask Slipping AFTER Marriage and Baby. Always be willing and ABLE to LEAVE Sisters!!do not have children unless you are ready to be a single-mother | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 50 | Incels on the rise: The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with no sex partners has tripled from 08-18someone on twitter mentioned this is why forced-marriages are prevalent in these countries -- the women wouldn't marry them by choice otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:32 AM |
| 24 | Incels on the rise: The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with no sex partners has tripled from 08-18this still baffles me, what did they think was gonna happen 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:31 AM |
| 23 | I, too, enjoy free sexual expression.I love thissss😭🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:20 AM |
| 3 | He’s 33 and I was 24, working in the same department. He still popped up every so often to see if I’m available or open. He told me men know when someone likes them and will hookup just because, even if they don’t like those women back. I feel bad for his wife.fr, I'm tempted to say "ewww" at them, maybe then it will click | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Male violence, the media, and fear of going outmass shootings are my biggest fear, I don't think I'll ever visit USA they have the serious problem that for some reason they don't want to fix. RIP to all the people who've died at the hands of selfish, entitled men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 67 | He’s 33 and I was 24, working in the same department. He still popped up every so often to see if I’m available or open. He told me men know when someone likes them and will hookup just because, even if they don’t like those women back. I feel bad for his wife.Isn’t it sad how men over 30 see women in their early 20s as options when most of us aren’t attracted to them at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Reproductive StrategyMaybe I've misunderstood what you're saying a little so just a quick question; why would you have a child for the man if you're childfree? Doesn't that reinforce the idea that we're just incubators? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 11:15 AM |
| 16 | Always be extremely mindful about any comments, remarks, opinions, judgements or criticism from a man about how YOU spend YOUR money!It's crazy how many boyFRIENDS aren't friendly to their partners at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:38 AM |
| 8 | Always be extremely mindful about any comments, remarks, opinions, judgements or criticism from a man about how YOU spend YOUR money!I wouldn't even tolerate that from a friend, how I spend my money is my business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:35 AM |
| 11 | I got flashed today.Lol he was wiping his privates with sanitiser he definitely has zero shame😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 94 | If he asks you to change... Sis, be careful of religious men trying to use you as a placeholder girlfriend before they find their final destinationI’m immediately suspicious of men who solely date outside of their religion especially if they’re practising. Maybe he got off on seeing how far you would go for him and he was using it to test you since in Islam men are allowed to marry non-Muslims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 25 | I got flashed today.He knew he was violating you, what a disgusting man I hope you report him so that he can never use that gym again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Female socialization starts youngNgl I got bored of toy babies real quick when I was younger. I think having a range of different types of toys and seeing which ones they gravitate towards is a good option and one that I would’ve loved to have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:24 PM |
| 47 | Never under any circumstances become financially dependent on any man no matter how long he has been "HVM"Why does this train of events happen to men mostly? What are they running away from? Also, why is it SO easy for them to abandon their families | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:16 PM |
| 34 | Only a scrote would do this 🤢If rape was legal do you know how many of them would brag about it on this website😭makes me feel sick thinking about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 23 | A warning about older men!What are the benefits of dating older (10+ yrs) men? I’ve always wondered about this, how can you be in a relationship with someone you don’t have much in common with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inIt’s the first and last adult cartoon I’m watching then, thanks for the heads up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inAnyone watched Bojack Horseman? I got to s2 and was enjoying it but then this one episode put me off completely. I think it’s ep11 or 12, Bojack goes to see an old friend whom he had a crush on and he finds out she has a family and a loving husband. When she turns him down, HE GOES AFTER HER 17 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER 🤢🤢🤢. The way it happened was fucking vile, he “turns her down” as she came on to him first. Then he tells her to go home but LEAVES THE DOOR OPEN AND THEY MAKE OUT🤢🤢🤢🤢 yeah I’m not watch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 11:57 AM |
| 4 | What would a world made by women, for women look like?Paid days off on your period, they have that in S Korean I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:28 AM |
| 126 | No surprise that 95% of the stories here are about men.The only scary encounter I've had with a woman happened exactly 10 years ago. A woman who didn’t seem mentally fit (she was talking to herself) chased me and a friend when we were 11 for absolutely no reason ngl it’s kinda funny now but I was genuinely scared😭😂. But yeah, other than that any time I’ve felt uneasy in public was bc of a male stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 395 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!She just kept going😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:08 PM |
| 41 | Punishing women for defending themselves is nothing new: in the early 1900s, when women started using hat pins to defend themselves from male violence, male lawmakers tried to ban hat pins.We should be able to carry the same weapons that police carry, why are they allowed to defend themselves but not us?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:31 AM |
| 52 | Punishing women for defending themselves is nothing new: in the early 1900s, when women started using hat pins to defend themselves from male violence, male lawmakers tried to ban hat pins.Marital rape was legal here up until 30 years ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:30 AM |
| 854 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.Not all men 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:16 PM |
| 5 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.I feel like he doesn’t like her 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 7 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPBruh fr 😭😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 27 | Need advice from my ladiesWow I do this with men at work (retail) all the time, didn’t know it was a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 127 | To the NAMALT brigade“Not all men are like that” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:54 PM |
| 4 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.If I lived somewhere that legalised guns then I would 1000% have one. But then again, I don’t hate that they’re not legalised where I live, guns make it wayyyy too easy to kill multiple people at once and that scares me so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:02 PM |
| 9 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.Yeah I absolutely agree I wouldn’t feel safe knowing men had access to guns. The entire reason they’re not allowed here is (TW: murder) because of the man who massacred 5 years olds in ‘96. I think they should legalise pepper spray at the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, be aware of your surroundings at all times, ESPECIALLY when you're about to walk into your house or apartment.Thank you haha I remember being so baffled by this entire reaction, like, what did he want me to do with this information?? 😭😂 I’m just glad I never saw him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, be aware of your surroundings at all times, ESPECIALLY when you're about to walk into your house or apartment.About a year ago a man approached me at work and asked if I lived on x street, which I did. I had never seen this man in my life. I think back to that moment a lot and wonder what made him recognise me, I was wearing the plainest of clothes, nothing that would make me stand out and have him remember me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:56 PM |
| 35 | Just saw this on Tiktok and SO MANY GIRLS IN THE COMMENTS ARE AGREEING IM SO HAPPY!! The message is finally spreading. 🥳🥳🥳Now I know for sure they’re delusional😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:45 PM |
| 19 | Just saw this on Tiktok and SO MANY GIRLS IN THE COMMENTS ARE AGREEING IM SO HAPPY!! The message is finally spreading. 🥳🥳🥳It’s honestly so childish and cringe 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 11 | This post makes me so sad and angrySame here, and what’s worse is the weather’s getting warmer so I can’t depend on my layers of clothing to cover me, whilst also remaining somewhat fashionable😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 57 | Woman whose friend just had a boy, she has 5 daughters & her friend's husband instantly mocks her for having only girls! In the comment section she even mentions having lost 2 children, which her friend knows. Pickme friend says "he's the sweetest" about her husband??? AFTER he put down her friend.What makes women take men’s side in situations like this where they are being total arseholes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inAny tips on navigating a small workplace with a male manager? I left my other job because the men there were overly friendly and I got a bad vibe and one of my coworkers is leaving so we’re not an all female team anymore :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 41 | I’ve had my guy friends tell me that I need to be rude to catcallers or guys harassing me, but they literally don’t understand how dangerous that is.Last one lmao they can’t use that argument in a western country where not everyone dresses modestly. A plethora of “visual stimuli” and hijabis still get harassed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Another Woman Dead.You made a very interesting point. I sometimes wish I could live one day as a man, imagine how peaceful it would be to not constantly be looking over your shoulder, to not have to carefully analyse the men who get on the same bus/train as you because you have a feeling they’re following you. I actually had a feeling the man that harassed me would do something. when he followed me on to the bus, I made the conscious decision to sit downstairs where there was a constant flow of people and cameras.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 57 | Another Woman Dead.I live in London and when work goes back to normal, I’ll be finishing at 9pm and due to covid I haven’t had a work day that long since last March. I was so much more naive and even though men would approach me with their cars on the street, or call me “pretty” as I hurried to my house, I never took it serious enough but this situation has opened my eyes. I’m privileged enough to have family members who drive and can collect me from work on those days. I was harassed by a man on the bus last Octo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 26 | Momma’s boyToo many mothers are like this...I vividly remember being touched inappropriately by a family friend in front of his and my mum and the first thing to come out of both their mouths was “it’s okay he didn’t mean it!!”, before I could even process what happened. We were <10 years old, it starts from young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:40 PM |
| 49 | Momma’s boyThat whole Mother-Son dynamic sickens me so much that if I sense even a whiff of it with a potential SO, I am outttt. Too much evil has been allowed to happen because of the coddling of boys and men by their mothers. I was watching a movie yesterday called “Jumping the broom” and it was about an overbearing mother who did everything she could to make her disdain for her future-DIL known. At one point in the movie the DIL confronts the husband about his inability to check his mum and she almost l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Father in India’s Uttar Pradesh Beheads 17 year old Daughter in “Honor” KillingThank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Father in India’s Uttar Pradesh Beheads 17 year old Daughter in “Honor” KillingI believe there may be a flair, if not you could put “TW” or “Trigger Warning” in your title :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 78 | 💛If I needed a man I would’ve been born with one attached to my hip🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Father in India’s Uttar Pradesh Beheads 17 year old Daughter in “Honor” KillingCan we put trigger warning for titles like this please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Unisex Facilities put women and girls at risk of assault. 90% of complaints regarding changing room sexual assaults, voyeurism and harassment are about incidents in unisex facilities.My uni in central london has both a unisex restroom and a female and male restroom. Everyone feels comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, if you find yourself in such a situation, you now have the perfect answer.I love these tiktoks 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 10:38 AM |
| 6 | Men CAN Level Up. They Don’t WANT To.Incels want someone to love them in their current state just like their mothers do 🤢🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYeah! It’s particularly worrying how easy it was for him to lie... I would’ve preferred he didn’t give me anything and treated me like a normal customer because what if he thinks I owe him something? He even gave me a discount that I literally have access to (and he knew this, too!!) because I have a membership. The whole thing was exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYeah there is! Should be in the settings section. It’s possible those people are looking through your comments to know what subs you visit, so just be aware of that, too :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do they call FDS female incels?That word...it’s so funny seeing how true it rings every single time😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Only high effort men can keep up with high maintenance women.What did he say to her after? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.It’s not a Muslim thing to do, I think it’s very dangerous for people to conflate religion with culture. Although I believe it does happen where people like her Dad say things are religion when they’re not, I think it’s a rarity especially in the West. All the women in my family (cousins, sister, aunts) have careers and degrees and live their lives according to Islam they way it should be. I’m not ignoring the fact that it happens, just saying that it shouldn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.Where did I spread false info? And why are you being so rude wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYay I’m so happy for you! 💕💕🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inSomething very strange happened to me last week. I had a worker give me his employee discount and a free “designer” item (purposely leaving details out bc you never know), and it’s a fucking fake lmaoo. Like I remember him mentioning that it was “really expensive” when he was giving it to me and at that point I hadn’t seen the label. He was being overly nice and a bit intrusive asking me questions about my degree and what I plan to do in the future; this was meant to take 10 minutes max but I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:55 PM |
| -47 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.That’s not the fault of Islam it’s her father who stopped her. Do you know that Islam encourages women to take on further education? Did you also know that the first university was founded by a Muslim woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 11:21 AM |
| 19 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsI would never hand my kids over to a man who said he didn’t want them, I’d constantly fear for their safety. I think he should pay 100% of the daycare costs so she can have days off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsThis is so sad I’m heartbroken for her. What an evil man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Yep...That sounds so scary omg I’m glad you’re okay. The way he tried to lure you out of your car... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Yep...This. I hate the summer because all I want is to wear clothing that is weather-appropriate but often times those said clothes are revealing af and it makes me feel unsafe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Yep...I almost missed my bus to work today because I had to slow down as I thought a man was following me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 5 | The date bait and switchProbably yeah😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:22 PM |
| 5 | The Kind of HVMCan we have a day where we post HVM things, I love seeing posts like this 😫💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:11 PM |
| 63 | 50-50 is a lie.Not victim blaming but she should have started to hear alarm bells ringing when he bare faced lied to her about the changes to their lives after the baby. That’s just common sense. Edit: hmm she’s 37 I could easily see him using that as a way to manipulate her into having a baby right away. Alternately she may’ve thought that she found a good one and that a baby would ensure longevity of the relationship. Fuck man I’m so frustrated for her, I sincerely hope she finds peace and can heal from her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:57 AM |
| 28 | 50-50 is a lie.He won’t think twice before leaving her and claiming partial custody of the baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:57 AM |
| 47 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...Men do a lot of things in groups to feel more confident whereas we do it to feel safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:48 AM |
| 32 | Walked out of diner on first date yesterday!Literally what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 07:43 PM |
| 182 | Who's he marrying?Sigmund Freud has entered the chat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 26 | I'm not sure he's set his requirements high enough /sI saw a tiktok a while ago where a guy said when a man says he’s 5’10” or 5’11”, they’re usually MUCH shorter than that because if they were, they’d simply say they were 6’0 as the difference isn’t that noticeable to most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:08 AM |
| 54 | NoT aLL MeNSo they agree,,,, men are the problem 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Confirmed: We are the product.They actually do that...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:21 AM |
| 3 | "Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to"I’m not dating someone who doesn’t have both, that’s an option too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 06:45 AM |
| 165 | She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this womanThat was very satisfying to read, but she needs to divorce him asap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:31 AM |
| 14 | LVM, even at their dying moments, will have the audacityThe reason I didn’t pursue a career in healthcare was because I didn’t want to deal with men like this. Any time I’d envisioned myself as a Dr it was me caring for a woman or a child but I realised that I couldn’t avoid men due to the nature of the training process. Edit: wow I just read your post in full, I’m so beyond disgusted and very sorry that you had to experience that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:02 AM |
| 100 | Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!Why is he making this a single-dad thing? At least they aren’t demonised like single-mums are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 87 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮On valentines day.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | They’ll Just Have Sex With Anything Won’t They?Damn, asking for it much?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 08:52 PM |
| 27 | Lots of LVM in the comments, ofc.I’m glad the op sided with her in-law, you don’t see that much from the groom’s side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 6 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I hope he sent this by accident and it was meant for someone else, stay safe 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 31 | They’ll Just Have Sex With Anything Won’t They?What was the dog wearing? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Ah yes, because unsolicited touching gets us ready to be raped 🤮This is literally rapist mentality oh my God | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 12 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?Statistics are pure garbage. I’m not exactly gonna report the man who tried to trap me in my seat on the bus after he’d been staring at me the entire time, the police would turn me away surely. That’s one bad man not included in the statistic. Imagine how many other unreported creeps there are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 5 | WHO is teaching us? Maybe the sky high rates of rape and murder? The abuse women receive on a daily basis? Nah, #notallmen! But please don't dress like that to the party.I wish they understood how traumatic it is to watch the news of some girl being kidnapped, raped, murdered and thinking that it could’ve been you. Violence against women perpetrated by men being so common is what’s made us scared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 6 | I Need Scrote RepellantOmg who even asked him 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 88 | Men learn how to manipulate women by learning how to manipulate their mothers.As someone who grew up with brothers...you’re 100% correct in that observation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | A Women/Girls Only SpaceWe kiiinda have them here too (UK) but it’s usually a timed session for just women, my gym has a room for women only but it’s closed for now. I’m jealous ngl, an ENTIRE gym to yourselves for the WHOLE day??? 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:31 PM |
| 109 | A Women/Girls Only SpaceThere was another tweet I saw about a woman wanting to create a women’s only gym - the men in the replies didn’t understand WHY that should exist, and why they wouldn’t be allowed in. If I saw a men only gym I would never even dream of going inside, why do men want to infiltrate our spaces so badly? Why can’t we have anything to ourselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:51 AM |
| 116 | For men who say: what if the sexes were reversed?I hate when people call us misandrists on here, we don’t hate all men. Subreddits like mgtow think ALL women are evil. They harm women who don’t even know them, I saw one dude say he doesn’t tip female waitresses- how is that not misogyny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:44 AM |
| 17 | This belongs here 😂That’s a good habit to have 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:47 PM |
| 76 | This belongs here 😂This type of behaviour is an instant turn-off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:27 PM |
| 13 | Mango's>MenHad to 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 121 | Mango's>MenLet that mango | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Not all men anology... spot onI only ask because funnily enough I saw another girl describe the same analogy today and people were using it to defend the police that shoot unarmed Black people because they viewed them as “the gun” which is obviously ridiculous and racist. I wish she’d explain why she said that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 10 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesAnd you have every right to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 6 | Not all men anology... spot onWhy’d she say it was a good analogy for racism? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 9 | *MBTI TYPES IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR LOW VALUE BEHAVIOR* Has anyone else noticed an influx of men who label themselves “INTJ” absolutely shitty, and leave you with a funny feeling?And horoscopes... it’s not an excuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:31 AM |
| 27 | It's time for women to start thinking about equity instead of equalityThis!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 154 | It's time for women to start thinking about equity instead of equalityMen will never be equal to us. I feel like a lot of libfem is taking on the roles of men that they no longer want to do (paying for dates, rent) but what about the burdens women no longer want? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 46 | What factors are associated with recent intimate partner violence? Findings from the WHO multi-country study on women's health and domestic violenceI never understood why in some cultures women pay the dowry, it was a big thing in a Gossip Girl episode and it just blew my mind. In my culture and religion, the husband pays the dowry to the wife and it’s compulsory, she can ask for however much she wants. Why place the burden onto an already financially disadvantaged group? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:52 AM |
| 19 | Sexism in MedicineWhat the fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:31 PM |
| 27 | Sexism in MedicineIf women are ill who’s gonna take care of them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 7 | The 'evolution' of a LVM in a relationshipI’m so glad I found this subreddit because these are all things I observed as a teen/preteen but had nobody to talk about them with. I feel like I don’t need to explain why I don’t want children in this sub bc everyone here gets it. It’s so freeing 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:44 AM |
| 6 | New take on Avril Lavigne's Sk8er Boi by Ashnikko, "L8r Boi". A little crude for some, but the message is on point.I kinda wanna know what Avril Lavigne thinks of this remix! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:26 AM |
| 29 | Vasopressin Receptors and Male BondingKatiebulmerlife on tiktok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:19 AM |
| 7 | What Should a HVW Say When a Man Asks Her to Pay Half on a Date?these are gooood but you gotta block and delete immediately after🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 13 | There's plenty of women happy with low effort dates, but even men don't want them. Men want to date the women who demand more effort with the sole purpose of humbling them. You can't make this shit upBut.. he’s not this “spoiled” woman’s type if he’s stingy with money like I’m pretty sure she’d leave him, there would be no “later on” 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:35 PM |
| 18 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭“Financial HVM” 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:32 PM |
| 19 | Elle will forever be #aspirationgoalsMeh, didn’t she just want to go to the same school as the guy who rejected her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:14 AM |
| 14 | So we know what careers are more than likely a red flag. What are careers that you see as a green flag when dating?I feel like it’s easier to pinpoint which careers we should definitely avoid but not the other way round; as someone else said, any of those men with “green flag” careers have the potential to be LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 5 | I can't have ANY male friendsThis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 13 | I can't have ANY male friendsThis makes me so mad ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:34 AM |
| 3 | Just Divorced!Congratulations on your divorce💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Smh!!!!! Stuff like this is why I will probably never date until my kids grow up.No🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:27 AM |
| 63 | If he doesn't prioritize you, he's worthless, booEven if it doesn’t make you sick, they should still respect your wishes lol second-hand smoke is a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 16 | I’m genuinely confused. This thread was about making female friends. Is this supposed to be funny?It’s not funny when shit like that ACTUALLY happens and you’re telling it from the POV of the perpetrator :// | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 20 | There’s literally scientific evidence behind why men are more disgusting than womenI just read your other reply and agree that us being more empathetic isn’t biological, we’re socialised that way. Especially regarding babies, I was given baby dolls as presents on many occasions, all the adverts for said dolls featured exclusively girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:33 PM |
| 40 | There’s literally scientific evidence behind why men are more disgusting than womenIs it because we’re more empathetic? Idk but I wouldn’t want any baby to sit in their dirty diaper because it’s not fair on them as they can’t change themselves. Like I’d genuinely feel bad if I didn’t/left it too long :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 65 | There’s literally scientific evidence behind why men are more disgusting than womenNot to generalise but most men I see in public are scruffy and not as well put together as the women. It’s something I’ve only just realised. It’s more older men, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:23 PM |
| 40 | I honestly don't think I want to get married (and I'm tired of my family saying I'll change my mind)I thought I wrote this... I’m an introvert and have always said I’d want my own space, whether it be separate rooms or separate apartments lol. And the cooking/ cleaning aspect; I think I would get a divorce the second I felt like I was doing more than my share. I also don’t want children and don’t want any step-children, finding a man who thinks the same (and whose Mother thinks the same) may be difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:00 AM |
| 2 | I love the “Here’s my hand with my new ring I bought myself” pics. This is my “here’s my hand with the keys to my new house I bought myself!” pic. Resolve to evolve, sis! Here’s to our new year!I’m so glad this was the top comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 323 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂The amount of money I would pay to have seen this happening in real-time 😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 172 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.The sound of the suitcase 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterThis made me so sad for the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:08 AM |
| 24 | All of the trigger warnings, this is just sick and disgusting.Tw// r*pe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:17 PM |
| 34 | The boys over at r/NoFap reveal that porn addiction can lead to pedophiliaWe walk among these people on the street, in stores, transportation. Fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:46 AM |
| 13 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3Congratulations💗💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 15 | Age gap and forcing his religion on her 🤢 of course nobody in the comments asks why she’s dating a man ELEVEN years older 🤮Broke men who have the audacity to utter the 4 wives exemption for men is hilarious. It’s only allowed if it’s within their means to care for more than 1 household which, for most men, it’s simply not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 38 | Age gap and forcing his religion on her 🤢 of course nobody in the comments asks why she’s dating a man ELEVEN years older 🤮Pre-marital sex is forbidden in Islam. If it wasn’t for her age I would be wondering why he hasn’t married her by now if he’s already thinking about having children with her. Also, if he wants Muslim children so bad then maybe he should just marry a Muslim woman?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 17 | I want more female only spaces in 'real life'Even eating can be sexualised sighhhh. I would like all the things you mentioned to be a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:43 PM |
| 29 | In defense of Lynette Scavo, the stereotypical joyless nag (Desperate Housewives)I first watched DH as a kid and I remember feeling sorry for Lynette but I couldn’t remember why. Upon rewatching it on Prime this year, it was crystal clear. I really think this show planted the seed of being childfree in me 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:53 AM |
| 116 | He needs to subvocalize. All this hollering will come to naught.Who even asked? 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:42 PM |
| 20 | DAE so SAD bc WOMEN just ASSUME men are CREEPS? sO uNfAiR 😭😭😭😭Men don’t get the benefit of the doubt from me, they can blame other men for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:39 AM |
| 28 | One step closer!!! Pornhub has removed over 10 million videos from unverified users due to Mastercard and Visa cutting ties with the site. Don't forget how many YEARS these corporations made money off exploitation.Why did it take this long? What changed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:23 AM |
| 35 | In terms of audacity does your cup runneth over?Pepper spray is illegal where I live so instead I carry a travel size men’s body spray, the foulest smelling one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:53 PM |
| 57 | In terms of audacity does your cup runneth over?Yes!!! I forgot, even wearing a facemask won’t stop them. Gosh, I’m sorry that happened, hope you’re doing okay💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 48 | Women being told that they're "just traumatized" and "suspicious" and, when they get over it, they should go back to allowing themselves to be vulnerable to male abuse. Because it's NiCe or something.Most of my “trauma” is from seeing how men treat OTHER women. I just want justice for women who have been wronged by men and want the societal structures that allow this sort of abuse to be eradicated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 256 | In terms of audacity does your cup runneth over?I can tell you for free that men will still sexually harass women even when they’re dressed “modestly”, from first-hand experience. Ladies, wear whatever makes you feel comfortable, it’s not our fault men can’t control themselves Just to clarify, I put modest in quotes bc it’s very subjective according to where you live. I dress relatively modestly and men still harass me and other women that look like me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Don’t listen to Mariah Carey, do listen to Eartha KittThen again, she also says she “doesn’t want A LOT” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 10:00 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on marriage in 2020? Will it ever be equal/worth it?I’m not opposed to marriage, I’m opposed to being legally tied to someone who I’m not in love with. If I never end up finding that person then I’m not getting married, simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:44 AM |
| 22 | I agree but also, it’s unfair for men to cry “no one cares about our mental health” when they were the ones to create hyper and toxic masculinity in the first place. Men need to care about their own mental health if they want others to care about their mental health.Men need to care about each other more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:33 AM |
| 118 | Why I don't date "nice" guysI think anyone who insists that they are one thing almost always tend to be the very opposite of that thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020I just sent the email and I’ll just wait to see what happens. If they tell me to come in I’ll just say I’m still feeling “unwell”. They have enough staff tbh, the majority of time I was standing around idle. Update: I left that company and now work with my old manager, we’re a team of women and I feel so much happier already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020I’ve just had a look at my contract and it only says that I give a full weeks notice if I wish to resign. I’ve never had to resign before, my typical shifts were only 2 days a week. Can they make me come in to work if I send them the email of resignation now? Thanks for your help💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Can someone give me assistance on a work matter? For context, I’m a uni student and started a temporary position at a store. Well, I work with mostly women who are all really lovely to me but the men there make me uncomfortable. I feel like they’re too friendly and I have been paranoid ever since I was harassed a few months ago. I don’t wish to continue working there and have another job lined up with my old manager. A couple days ago I left without saying anything and they rang me to ask what w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:15 PM |
| 133 | As a woman whose never given birthYeah a lot of men do not deserve children, maybe if it was their bodies going through pregnancy it would be different. I don’t think I will ever trust a man enough to have his child, it’s not the main reason I don’t want children, though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 13 | Ladies- my exPlease report him if you haven’t already, he seems unhinged and I don’t think we was joking at all. Stay safe 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 15 | Minority Men Using Shared Race/ Culture/ Religion to Act Like They Own YouI’m so sorry you went through that, I’m so fucking annoyed for you. I know exactly what you mean, there’s a certain overfamiliarity that I’ve noticed with men, more so than women, of my ethnicity. It’s scary because whilst you see them as a stranger, he views you as a “sister” and certain boundaries they think they don’t have to oblige to. It’s why I’m extra cautious around those men because they’re the ones who harass me the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 24 | Dealing with a cyberstalker?I never knew this, grateful for this sub💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 59 | I'm tired of men sexualizing EVERYTHINGI wear dark modest clothing and STILL get catcalled by creepy men. This tends to happen more when I’m wearing makeup but my point is, men are disgusting and will lust over your ankles if they wanted to. I am ashamed to say that although I enjoy wearing makeup, I do so less now because the harassment, especially during the pandemic, was too much. I hate that I’m letting men stop me from doing what I want to my body but the level of disgust I feel when men would gawk at me, yeah no thanks I’ll jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 54 | Innovations created by women. Credited to men.Nothing angers me more than Rosalind Franklin not being awarded the nobel prize for discovering the DNA double helix, sure they have a rule where they’re not awarded posthumously but I’m sure they could’ve made an exception. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 11:29 PM |
| 14 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSI’m on s2 and you totally just spoiled it for me but I knew that storyline was bound to happen lmao😂. William is such a LVM, the relief I felt when Yvonne left him at the alter after realising how much he was controlling her life. I was not okay with how he was treating her and I commend the writers for not allowing the wedding to go through, that entire episode had me on the edge of my seat omg. But I’m not surprised that he hasn’t changed in the later seasons. He is everything this sub is agai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 10 | Great Video On Pickmes. It's great that more people start to acknowledge and point it out. AMEN.Yeah I don’t like that aspect of this sub:/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 11:28 AM |
| 4 | I have had pmdd depression spells every single month where I feel so crazy and anxious I pace around my house in circlesI’m glad you’re doing better now 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 21 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩Oh my God, the first time I watched Breaking Bad I was shocked at how anyone could like Walter White. He was such a toxic, selfish and arrogant person. It made the show hard to watch and I ended up finishing it just to see how Jesse’s story ended. Fuck that show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:24 PM |
| 9 | If women just stopped having children with LVM our society would have flying cars by nowThere’s literally no excuse for not knowing your own child’s daily routine, wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 11:50 AM |
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