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QUEEN SH*TAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:29 PM
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LEVEL UPAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:45 AM
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QUEEN SH*TAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:53 AM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:08 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:12 PM
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FDS HUMORAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:27 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:46 PM
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SCROTES MADAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:55 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:19 AM
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LEVEL UPAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:13 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:29 AM
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REMINDER 👑AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:48 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:30 PM
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QUEEN SH*TAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:25 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:51 AM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:58 AM
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LIES MEN TELLAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:43 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:19 PM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:17 AM
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LIES MEN TELLAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:48 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:13 AM
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FDS HUMORAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:26 AM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:37 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:15 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:02 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:09 AM
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COUCH CREATURESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:22 PM
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SCROTES MADAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:15 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:09 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:06 AM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:28 PM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:22 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:54 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:29 PM
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STRATEGYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:57 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:20 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:37 AM
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LIES MEN TELLAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:03 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:48 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:43 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:31 AM
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STAY WOKEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:43 AM
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QUEEN SH*TAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:59 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:20 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:32 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:34 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:04 AM
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REMINDER 👑AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:21 AM
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QUEEN SH*TAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:51 AM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:46 PM
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QUEEN SH*TAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:01 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:15 AM
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FDS HUMORAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:34 PM
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FOREVER GF TALESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:49 AM
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FDS HUMORAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:06 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:07 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:29 AM
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LEVEL UPAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:27 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:43 PM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:31 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:01 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:47 AM
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REMINDER 👑AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:14 PM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:32 AM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:19 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:08 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:25 AM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:57 AM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:13 AM
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FDS HUMORAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:31 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:28 AM
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ConversationAcadiaLeather5071/r/seduction25/06/21 07:19 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:39 AM
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AcadiaLeather5071/r/askFDS04/06/21 11:12 AM
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DiscussionAcadiaLeather5071/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:27 AM
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AcadiaLeather5071/r/askFDS29/05/21 06:56 AM
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ADVICEAcadiaLeather5071/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 03:53 AM
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SCROTES MADAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:40 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:01 AM
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REMINDER 👑AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:15 AM
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DiscussionAcadiaLeather5071/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:07 AM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 10:29 PM
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DiscussionAcadiaLeather5071/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:45 AM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:02 AM
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LEVEL UPAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:45 PM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:32 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:02 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:07 AM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:47 AM
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FDS HUMORAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:25 AM
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FDS HUMORAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:11 PM
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RANTAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:22 AM
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FDS MEMESAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:25 AM
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DISCUSSIONAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:15 AM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSAcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:47 AM
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REMINDER 👑AcadiaLeather5071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:24 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
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“You’ve fallen in love with a person that you’ve created in your head. That you are trying to but cannot fix. The only thing you can fix is yourself” - in my head, Ariana Grande. This song is very relevant haha. You’ve fallen in love with an idealised version of him. With the potential of what he could be. You need to learn to separate that from who he really is. Here are some steps to help you get over him: 1. Write down who you think he is Get two pieces of paper. On one, write down why you lo…
/r/askFDS05/08/21 12:52 AM
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Well then that’s good for him!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:41 PM
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But what if she’s doing it because it makes her feel happy? Some women just genuinely like heavy makeup and dressing up to the 9s. Even though men usually don’t like it that much and prefer a more “natural” look. That’s not pathetic bc she’s not trying that hard to impress them. She’s just being herself and chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:39 AM
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Yes!
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 03:18 AM
7

If I could award you, I would. But I’m broke 😩😩✨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:34 AM
6

Giga-based 😎✨🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:31 AM
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BASED AND KINDNESS PILLED 😤😤💖 🌈 Assholes? BTFO’D. Redpillers? DECIMATED. faith in humanity? RESTORED. 💫🌈🌸🕊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:27 AM

The lack of actual dating advice lol. They’re so focused on vetting but nothing else. FDS never helped me get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:43 AM

I’m gen z but still the way millennials talk is very young and influenced by the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:43 AM
5

This tbh. Pretty privilege exists because men are MASSIVE Simps for Stacies. And then they blame women for it lmaooo ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:17 AM

As an ex FDS member- a lot of the members there have been through trauma, had a bad upbringing, were cheated on/ had a toxic relationship or are mentally ill. The stats really aren’t surprising to me. However what is is r/datingover30 and 40. Lmao. It’s strange because the slang is very gen z/ millennial but I guess most of the members are older???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:16 AM
21

Because secretly they’re mad that their bf doesn’t pay for them or make them feel special lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 03:22 PM
2

I’d say you look 25-29, honestly you look younger than 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:43 AM
1

I’m white
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:59 AM
1

I’m 5”4 and skinny lol guess I’m ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:40 PM
2

I’m not sure I haven’t weighed myself in ages. But last time I checked I was in the healthy BMI range. People have called me skinny and that’s also how I’d describe myself. People can be unattractive without being fat lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:39 PM
6

No man has ever approached me 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:09 PM
12

As a single woman- I don’t use OLD or go to clubs because most of the men there just want sex. I want an actual relationship. Plus OLD is horrific and you get all kinds of shit like random dick pics and negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:22 AM
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So here’s my plan: Get some kind of status and wealth bc let’s be honest, that’s the easiest way for anyone to get women. Even Big Ed from 90 day fiancé did this. I’d go to college, and get a degree that will help me get a high paying job. I’d also maybe make a YouTube channel and fuck around with that. Popularity can help a lot. I’d also learn to play an instrument or artmaxx to try to impress girls lol. Work on banter, charisma and jokes. This would both help me make friends and impress women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:43 PM
12

She’s redpilled tho 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:35 PM
1

Interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 10:27 PM
1

Both
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 09:33 PM
2

I’m curious... what do you consider high value?
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 11:42 AM
1

What age?
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 11:41 AM
1

“red pill men” “attractive” Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:06 AM
2

💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:01 AM
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I’m DEAD 😩😩 In this thread: men who think “clitoris” is a Greek island.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:00 AM
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“He has to do things like oral sex” Lmaoo just say you’ve never made a woman cum 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:59 AM
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That’s true. And I have already accepted the fact that I may end up alone. However I think it will be worth it. It’s a beautiful thing when you choose to only share that intimate side of yourself with someone you’ll spend the rest of your life with. I don’t want to waste it on anyone who thinks I’m temporary or not worth spending the rest of their life with.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:51 AM
2

Okay
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:30 AM
1

This. u/special_k_5 I think you misunderstood her
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:23 AM
1

Thank you for this! 💖 it gives me hope.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 05:21 AM
2

CBT = cock and ball torture 😎 It’s a type of bdsm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:22 PM
5

Hehe 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:09 AM
6

This. Men like this are broken. They can’t understand sex in a healthy and respectful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:08 AM
13

Based and common sense pilled. PPD is giving me a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:05 AM
0

This. Celibacy is the way. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:03 AM
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Tbh we should really end this. Sex isn’t supposed to be degrading or “ruin” women. Why can’t sex just be a mutually respectful and enjoyed experience??? Can we end these old toxic tropes??? It just makes me sick. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:02 AM
5

Based and CBT pilled 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:01 AM
1

Virgin = no PIV, oral, anal, or hand related sexual activities. It’s funny cause I know a guy who calls himself a virgin and is “trad” yet got his dick sucked in high school. It’s cringe. Meanwhile I’m a true virgin lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:04 AM
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Good luck! 🍀👍
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:16 PM
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You just said you’d trade up and then that average girls are loved. JFL. Clown 🤡 world. You see her as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:33 PM
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I just did. Love to me is a deep emotional connection and moral obligation to a person. Which means even if we have a fight or fall out, I still care about them and want to resolve problems. I still want to show them I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:43 PM
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I didn’t mean love as in the emotion. My love is there regardless of how I feel. It’s part deep emotional bond, part responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:19 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of women go above and beyond for their partners tho. Even when the man didn’t deserve it. Not to be a pickme- but I’m also one of those women. If I had a partner that I truly loved I’d do everything I can to make him feel special. And it wouldn’t even feel like a chore because I’d love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:02 PM
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Aww that’s surprisingly wholesome, and gave me a little bit more faith in humanity!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:47 AM
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What I mean is that like... if the average girl was already someone’s wife, would he secretly resent her and wish he was with someone better? And if he lets say- won the lottery- would he divorce her to get a hotter girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:28 AM
6

Brutal Pinkpill 😩 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:23 AM
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But let’s say you’re in a relationship for a couple of years... then a hot girl with an even better personality comes along. There are no real issues in your relationship. Would you dump her and pursue the other girl? Especially if the other girl gave you signs/ told you she’d get with you if you were single? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:53 AM
2

Thank you! Truth be told, I don’t want plastic surgery. I actually kinda like the way I look, even if men don’t. But I don’t want to end up alone either... I just want makeup and style to be something I do for fun. Getting into beauty for the sake of impressing others just feels soulless. I mean I still make sure it looks good on me. But I want it to be about expression and creativity. Anyway yeah like you said I’ll work on those other things...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:14 AM
2

Just tell me the names, I’ll pirate them
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:05 AM
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I don’t think I’ll get plastic surgery - it costs a lot. But I can definitely work within my budget. I’m already skinny, so what I’m working on is finding clothes, makeup and a hairstyle that flatters me. It makes a bigger difference than you think tbh. Although I think a big part is my lack of social skills and accomplishments. Im unemployed and a college drop out, so I’ve gotta work on that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:46 AM
1

Men say that a lot, but in this case you might be right. Two of them were out of my league looks-wise, one of those two was more successful than me too (had a job, played sports) meanwhile I’m still unemployed 2 years later. (We were both 18 and had just recently left HS at the time). The third one was probably my looksmatch or below but rejected me bc I have autism. And no man has ever actually asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:31 AM
1

You must be prettier than you think! Especially since you don’t have to put that much effort in. I’m average and I’ve always struggled with dating. Even when I outright flirted, made the first move and asked guys out... Although maybe you’re also charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:25 AM
1

Hmm that’s interesting. I know the makeup comes off at the end of the day. If I wanted a permanent SMV change I’d get plastic surgery tbh. And yeah I understand glamming up every day is a lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:21 AM
1

So you’d date a plain Jane with a great personality over a boring supermodel?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:12 AM
0

Yeah but uhh... how do you do that without dating? You can’t just sit alone and expect a man to manifest out of thin air?? And some women have no men to choose from because they’re not attractive enough. So looksmaxxing is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:11 AM
-1

Lmao... well not to FDS! They literally tell us not to focus on appearance because “pretty girls get cheated on too” and “it doesn’t matter”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:58 AM
2

”a lot of them struggle to fit into the female social matrix, which is why it’s easier for them to accept TRP” This is so true. I’m not RPW but due to being autistic and having no friends- it was easier for me to fit into conservative spaces online as a teen. I didn’t understand why we need feminism yet because I didn’t understand the struggles of my peers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:49 AM
2

Well I’m average. Not really hot, not really ugly...
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:27 PM
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Guess I’ll work on that then!
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:07 PM
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I already have an old sub that’s been on private for a while... I’m gonna open it back up some time in the next few days. I’m just doing my research in the meantime!
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:43 PM
1

Hey he’s actually really cool!
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:41 PM
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I might be... will it be free?
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:00 PM
1

Interesting! Thanks for the detailed explanation!
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:55 AM
-1

All the guys on dating sites just want to bang tho and will literally fuck anything. I just want an actual relationship... and I don’t want to do OLD. It dehumanises both men and women- reducing us to products for entertainment. People ghost with no regards for anyone’s feelings. Dating apps destroyed romance.
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:47 AM
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I actually left FDS a while ago dude, and it’s not hateful. You’re just sensitive. Men talk shit like that all the time about women, but when women do it men throw a tantrum lmao
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:45 AM
54

That’s what I’m gonna do!
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:21 AM
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I’m not sure exactly... but I have to get to know them on a more personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:21 AM
1

Yes- in fact I find women a lot more aesthetically pleasing than men!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:29 AM
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Thanks! This is genuinely good advice... however I’m gonna need more detail than just “see where it goes” and “talk to him”... like what if I get friend zoned? How do I actually show that I want a romantic relationship??
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:28 AM
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I’m a woman and it’s never happened to me. That’s why I can’t get a bf.
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:58 AM
1

BASED
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:55 AM

Lol yeah it makes no sense!
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:45 AM

Thank you for an actual explanation! I’m also kinda sad that there’s not an r/seduction for women. The closest we get is FDS, but there’s no actual advice on how to flirt/seduce men lol.
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:40 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:01 AM
1

That’s disgusting, and those women are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:42 PM
2

Sometimes I’ll feel one or the other. It can happen to someone I don’t find initially attractive, but then their personality grows on me and for some reason makes them sexy/romantically interesting. Idk. I actually don’t really experience physical attraction just from sight, I have to know more about the person. Although I do have aesthetic attraction (non sexual, just admiring beauty.) I also pursue neither bc I’m celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:09 PM
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This is legit why I’m celibate. If you hook up, you can get: incurable STDs! 😎 raped! 🥴 murdered! 🤩 pregnant 🤪🤰 traumatised!🥳 degraded! 🤓 used as a flesh light! 💡 🍖
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:08 AM
1

This!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:35 PM
2

This tbh lol. They’re coping big time!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:01 AM
1

That sounds disgusting. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:59 AM
0

Yeah tbh conservative men are kinda cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:35 AM
1

I was on the fence... but I guess I’ll write a little. A male. (Ew, I know.) Around about the same age as me. Ideally taller, but it doesn’t matter much as long as he’s taller than me. (I’m 5”4) takes care of himself. Does skin care, smells nice, takes showers, wears clothes that suit him. Has a haircut that suits him. takes care of himself in an emotional way too. Has genuine confidence and loves himself. Self reflective and compassionate. Empathetic. Has self discipline. likes sharing his thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:07 AM
5

Based and pinkpilled. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:46 AM
1

Based and pinkpilled 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:34 AM
3

It’s funny because in my high school the popular girls did. But on a broader cultural level I see male femininity really taking off and being seen as attractive. I don’t even like Kpop but someone’s always posting a fancam somewhere lol. And I see all these e-boys on tik-tok with smooth faces and fluffy hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:09 AM
12

The entire redpill is basically cope lmao. It’s like this incel revenge fantasy: “Stacy rejected me in high school!! But now I’ve turned 30, I magically transformed into Brad Pitt and STaCY HAS HIT THE WALL!! 😤😤”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:30 AM
3

Same! I’m 20 and don’t like the gruff masculine type. I hope we can move forward as a society!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:49 AM
16

Based and history-pilled!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:48 AM
3

Well I’d say maybe teens and under 25 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:23 AM
3

Omg same lol haha I like the nerdy look. I just don’t get the big beefed up type 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:21 AM
3

This tbh. Since he hasn’t texted for a day after, I’m a bit sus about this. A lot of men on OLD will pretend to be interested in a relationship until they get sex, then they’ll ghost. That’s why celibacy is a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 12:20 AM
4

The woman. 30 year old men age like milk 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:43 AM
6

Cringe and wrong. All women are taught from a young age to value youth and beauty. Makeup, anti aging creams, skin care, dieting are all pushed on us from a young age. Meanwhile men just rot and drink beer. The only difference is that society has much lower standards for men, so they’re graded less harshly. Men are allowed to age, women aren’t. But that doesn’t stop them from being disgusting post wall. Legit so many get beer bellies, flaky skin, and a hairline that’s receded to high heavens. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:42 AM
1

Hint: the vast majority. And they do way more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:38 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:38 AM
1

Men provide very little labour. In fact, you probably consider having conversations, expressing your love and being nice to your partner a chore. So it wouldn’t surprise me if you thought it was hard work lmao. True love isn’t like that. I’m sick of this materialistic exchange. Can’t you just love a girl for who she is? But alas- most men see women as vacuum cleaners. Just another appliance to use and discard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:19 AM
1

Well if she looks like her profile pic, then I highly doubt looks are the issue. She’s stunning!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:40 AM
2

That’s just an act though. They were always shitty. With time they’ll get bored of the next girl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:34 AM
3

“The prettiest I can catch.” Brutal Pinkpill. Many men date average women they don’t truly want just because it’s convenient and they get benefits. Benefits such as: regular sex, she does chores, cooks, pays 50/50. Having a girlfriend is highly convenient. Women are nothing more than appliances to you. Or in the other case- trophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:14 AM
1

BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:40 AM
13

Virgin here, and same! Slutty men have dicks like Petri dishes. Carrying all sorts of diseases and lord knows they don’t get tested. 🤢 Moral judgements aside- my health is my top priority. And getting an STD can impact your health for life. It’s just not worth it. Plus so many sleazy men treat women as objects to use and boost their egos. Many are rapists too or rely on getting women drunk and using social pressure to get them to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:52 AM
12

Congrats! 🥳 I love to see posts like this. It really gives all of us hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:01 AM
10

I would love to know the answer... but unfortunately I guess it’s just the way it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:44 AM
18

Love is disappointing. We grew up on Cinderella and the Little Mermaid only to be faced with this... why even bother anymore? It’s over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:43 AM
14

This is one of the most terrifying things...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:39 AM
82

This is what liberal feminism did to gen z and it ain’t pretty 😳😳😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:26 AM
33

It sounds like you’re not used to healthy love... it’s not normal to feel “wrong” when someone shows they care about you. You may have had relationships in the past (family or otherwise) that shaped how you look at relationships. You have this narrative that you have to beg for love or prove yourself. Maybe you push people away because you’re scared of intimacy. Not sex, but emotional closeness. You’re drawn to avoidant/uncaring partners because in a way it makes you feel safe and less vulnerabl…
/r/askFDS16/06/21 02:58 AM
129

16 year age gap 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:45 PM
6

I didn’t know he was THAT old! 😳🤢💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:34 PM
126

Age gap? CHECK. 🤬🤢 When will men in their 30s leave young women alone???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:11 PM
166

Even the comments were telling her this isn’t okay. And that’s rare for reddit lol. Also they started dating when she was 17 and he was 26... so that’s even more disgusting. Her parents should’ve stepped in and done something. Having a daughter in this day and age is a terrifying thing and yet another reason to go childfree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:18 AM
25

“ buy a bra for those man boobs!” You’re ruthless 😳😩❤️👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:42 AM
30

That should be illegal. How can a grown man be that immature? I’d divorce on the spot. 💅🏼😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:40 AM
11

Lol now I can’t un-see it!! 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:03 AM
67

Before he cheats by Carrie underwood 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:30 AM
103

It’s like... women’s first experiences with men are traumatic. Just because of how men are socialised to treat the women they date/ have sex with. Teenage boys haven’t been socialised to understand empathy and selflessness like girls are. They’re also taught that women’s bodies are trophies and that it’s okay to lie and manipulate to get what they want. If I had a daughter I’d 1. Pray that she’s a lesbian or asexual... and 2. Send her to an all girls school and ban her from dating men until she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:10 PM
2

It works at filtering out men. The only place I think it lacks is advice on attracting men in the first place. But most of the women on FDS have already been in relationships so that’s out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:30 PM
7

Great! Np.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:28 PM
12

No problem! Feel free to check out the pink pill feminism sub on the website! You’d like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:06 PM
8

u/TakeThePinkPill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:36 PM
91

I can! Pink Pill: knowing the truth about misogyny, men and lookism. Seeing through the libfem facade. ( used by trufemcels and Pinkpill feminism) Red Pill: male redpillers are usually PUAs (pick up artists) who hate women. Redpill women are basically stepford wives who think the key to finding a HVM is being a living doormat. Blue Pill: neither redpillers or pinkpillers. People with your average worldview who generally don’t know about this stuff or think we’re both wrong. Black Pill: a fatalis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:58 PM
0

Based and pinkpilled???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:47 PM
27

Thank you! I hope you enjoy it!❤️👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:12 AM
1

Based and pinkpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:27 AM
1

Okay dumbass here’s what you got wrong: HVMs aren’t all attracted to “well dressed feminine women”. In fact- you probably don’t know what we actually mean by HVM. HVM is about character and self care. And There are plenty of HVMs attracted to tomboys, punk girls, career women, or whatever else women want to be. There’s this meme that you just have to beee 🐝 Le epic femme tradwife SAHM to be attractive. That’s just not true. HVMs are attracted to character and yes- to good looks. But not all want…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:13 AM
50

Great! ✨👑 But I’m sorry you went through that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:15 AM
9

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:14 AM
37

True. “Make me feel special.” So you’re not special already? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:14 AM
24

😩💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:13 AM
15

Holy shit they’re beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:40 AM
30

It’s all that bacteria 🦠 festering in the face pubes... they’ve started their own civilisation and achieved sentience as they become one with the BEARD🤬😩 ☝️ 💩 🍑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:37 AM
75

So many just make fun of romance. “MuH hallmark movies!!! Real life ain’t like that!!🤑🥸Suck MuH PeNiS now that’s real LoVe 🥴🤡”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:35 AM
66

So... are you divorcing him? Or is this another ex? Tbh he doesn’t sound like a HVM... And yeah they’re total hypocrites...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:30 AM
189

You deserve better than that queen!❤️👑 Start matching his effort and watch as he complains lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:58 PM
95

“Special Edd” lmaooo 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:19 PM
12

“And no, she isn’t a sugar baby” Suurre Jan. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:58 AM
24

Love this! ❤️😵😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:51 AM
39

I second this! I’m an FDS mod and also involved in the Pinkpill website. Giga has worked tirelessly to create this wonderful safe place for women. So please join if you can! We need all the help and traffic we can get! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:26 AM
4

Lmao awesome! And thank you, I’ll check later. It’s been a long journey and I’m glad we’re finally here! You’ve put so much hard work into this too. Congratulations!! 🥳✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:32 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:40 PM
3

Interesting, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:40 PM
10

Thank you for giving me hope! I just see so much male depravity on Reddit including a few horrifying posts about psychopaths... but this gives me hope that maybe HVMs aren’t impossible to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:33 PM
26

Hit the nail on the head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:22 PM
101

Jesus Christ... Imagine being legally shackled to a LVM like that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:36 AM
85

The absolute state of men 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:57 AM
27

Link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:43 AM
30

Lol is there a study on this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:38 AM
35

Why do Scrotes always twist the truth in these posts?? Like now it actually makes sense...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:24 PM
49

I hope you’re not still with him... 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:05 PM
5

D&D sounds cool tho. It’d be great to play with just women or even just decent people in general!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:33 PM
2

That’s true. I love the discussions here and hearing new points of view. I think some people just come off like they’re complaining or criticising the OP. And others genuinely might be. But it’s about tone more than anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:23 PM
5

Thisss 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:15 PM
75

It’s a sobering reality... How can you tell if they actually like you or just want a pretty bangmaid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:57 PM
39

Why... are men???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:56 PM
16

Congratulations!! 🥳 This is a huge step forward! Your future is bright! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:48 AM
1

Holy shit that’s horrible. How does she not see that as a massive red flag??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:52 PM
2

I have no idea... I guess we could learn how to spot a psychopath/ sociopath, and do regular snooping. And know how people hide things using technology and god knows what else... I really don’t know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:51 PM
21

Yes. 😎 But really just use your own intuition. There are exceptions to these generalizations. Obviously not everyone in these fields will be psychopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:50 PM
12

Ohh yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:12 AM
14

Idk... but they should be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:09 AM
9

I witness! And VOW myself! 😎✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:00 AM
12

Thank you! Now we know not to even kiss these Scrotes either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:55 AM
25

Celibate virgin here! And I’ve never felt better about my choices. A childhood friend recently told me that back in high school one of his friends had unprotected sex and spread chlamydia to like half the people in the class. Meanwhile I was sad bc I never had a bf... oh how the tables turn! 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:48 AM
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Dude I’d stay away from men in tech in general. (Unless you know a lot about it too I guess). It’d be so easy for them to hide cheating and other things behind your back. Or even spy on you and invade your privacy. My dads in IT and he was always snooping on me and my siblings for our own “safety”. I still don’t know exactly how he did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:14 AM
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That’s so interesting!! My mum dated a radiologist and he turned out to be a seething narc with anger issues lol. It’s strange that so many people in medicine are some of the least empathetic people...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:53 AM
111

Cough cough (elongated muskrat) cough cough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:47 AM
25

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kevin_Dutton This is a screenshot from this other Wikipedia article: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy_in_the_workplace I just saw it and wanted to start a discussion on what careers might have the most psychos. After reading the slug story, the peanut allergy post, and another post about a HVM turning out to be a serial cheater... I’m starting to think it’s easier to run into a psychopath than you think...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:47 AM
14

Thiss lmaoo 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:42 AM
104

There are so many memes and jokes playing off of comparing/ shaming women with small breasts to women with big ones. And yet if we did the same thing with dick they’d have a testerical meltdown! 😫😤🍼💦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:35 AM
9

Why... is this a thing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:31 AM
23

Somebody please tell me this is like 1% of men because I would be horrified to find out that someone I loved so deeply was a psychopath... I’m worried because it’s always the ones that seem too good to be true that end up being the absolute nightmares. Maybe chasing HVM unicorns is more likely to lead us to “fools gold” than an actual HVM... or maybe I do have to settle. Maybe someone with more flaws has less of a chance of being like this. Well thanks for the existential crisis, I’ll be in my r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:54 PM
5

My favourite fairytale 😎✨👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:56 PM
11

Libfem propaganda? Idk some young women really are that naive...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:16 PM
50

“You’re not a victim, you’re a dicktim!” “ this scrote is playing the dicktim and crying crocodile tears!” “ Scrotes always love playing the dicktim...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:10 PM
58

Scrotes mad 🤬😤 so many removed comments!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:10 AM
129

Oh god that’s horrible. Sometimes it’s not so much the words but the tone. He didn’t reciprocate your energy at all. This is a clue to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:02 AM
33

What about neurodivergent men who aren’t affectionate? How can you tell if he’s genuinely affectionate or not? Because sometimes people on the spectrum might not be okay with a lot of physical touch for example... I have aspergers myself but everyone is different and I’m a woman...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:57 AM
79

Why are men like this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:54 AM
35

It depends on the age tbh... 7 would be high for teens/ early twenties. But for a 30 y/o would probably be normal. It depends on context, age and what you want in a partner. I’m a virgin so I wouldn’t want someone with more than 4 partners ideally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:49 AM
74

This needs to be said- Redpill Men will often argue that they have “low standards” because they’ll fuck anyone. So “women are the real hypergamists!!” Meanwhile their standards for relationships are sky high and they’ll monkey branch as soon as a hotter girl comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:43 AM
44

We need to come up with a list of slurs to use against sleazy males 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:38 AM
38

I’ve never liked sleazy fuckboys... One of my childhood friends recently told me about a friend of his who was a massive fuckboy and gave half the class chlamydia bc he was having unprotected sex. I’m just glad I’m still a virgin lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:36 AM
1

“There are plenty of guys who are cool with it!!” Yet 90% of the comments are men saying they’re not. I’m curious... it’s funny because these same men probably jerk off to porn and nudes on reddit. Or would even call it empowering. But now they won’t touch her with a 10 ft pole. Madonna-whore complex at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:22 AM
11

Oof... this gave me flashbacks to when I used to do this... 😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:43 AM
9

Congratulations! You’re now an FDS newbie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:39 AM
3

I... clicked OLD because I wanted to see the results. Although I’m just one person so I doubt it changed anything. Here are the results: OLD // 159 votes School // 117 votes Friends/family // 113 votes Hobby classes/ volunteering // 73 votes Work // 65 votes And... Bars/ pubs // 36 votes Welp I know where I’m NOT going...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:24 PM
5

Looks like they did! It’s the most popular option... 😳😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:18 PM
40

Dating apps have commodified romance, sexuality and human beings. It’s disgusting and it’s what kickstarted the libfem hookup culture era of situationships and ghosting. It’s horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:27 PM
73

Sexual incompatibility is often the canary in the coal mine that points to deeper issues in the relationship. Like most of the time when it’s a guy complaining about a LL girl it’s because he doesn’t make her feel loved/attractive, or makes her act like a mum and do everything. You can’t bang someone who you have to beg to do the dishes. Or someone who has so little care for you they only wonder what went wrong when you’re not putting out anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:23 PM
26

Nah he’s just a fuckboy regardless of how you behaved. Either way just be glad he’s out of your life. Move on to something better.
/r/askFDS05/06/21 12:17 PM
1

Cutee 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:36 AM
136

Damn I wish there was an option to see results lol. I’ve never met a HVM...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:26 AM
18

Oh I remember the humour thing too. It’s all about their egos... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:15 AM
21

Yeah this is the thing. I can empathise with women who are financially struggling or forced/ coerced into it. But the middle class white libfems who do it for fun baffle me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:15 AM
4

Another mod just told me sometimes words like that get pinged and that you should keep sensoring just in case. Reddit can be glitchy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:57 AM
39

Fuck no- I won’t be some roommate fuckMaid for a scrote who’s stringing me along. I want marriage. I want someone who’s responsible and actually plans for the future. Someone who wants ME, not a bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:17 AM
32

This is exactly why you should never make an onlyfans. It absolutely will impact your career and you will be discriminated against.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:11 AM
92

Scrote: I like smart women! Translation: I like women who make ME feel smart 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:07 AM
13

You know what they say... the fresher the Mayo, the better the sandwich 🥪 😋 Even if you have artisan bread, Camembert cheese, turkey and cranberry sauce- that funky Mayo will still ruin the sandwich! And quite frankly, it doesn’t belong in there anyway 🤢🤢 Crusty old men have sperm that’s aged like milk. Don’t even risk it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:45 AM
12

My eyes 😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:34 AM
3

Huh that’s so strange... I’ll ask the other mods about it. Maybe we have an automod filtering out those words?? I’m really not sure what’s going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:28 AM
91

Daaamn what a ruthless queen! 👑😩 🔪 🩸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:26 AM
6

We can see the removed comments, and we approve the ones that sound like reasonable women. Scrote and pickme comments get removed. After having quite a few comments approved over a certain amount of time, you get given a flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:20 AM
3

Actually the more you comment, the more likely you are to be approved. Just don’t spam tho haha. If you have a history of frequently posting on FDS over a certain time period, you’re more likely to be approved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:16 AM
12

You keep commenting, and if you’re a woman, (and not a pickme) your comments will be approved. After a certain number of approved comments and after a while - you’ll be given either an FDSnewbie flair or a Throwaway flair depending on how old your account is. Sometimes there are too many unapproved comments for mods to get to. So if what you’ve written is reasonable, you can use mod mail and ask for the comment to be approved. Edit: We just have to be this cautious because there are thousands of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:57 AM
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Btw you don’t have to censor the words “abuse” and “violence” I’ve seen a lot of people doing this here and idk why. Automatically all comments from unapproved members are removed before you get a flair. And sometimes there’s too many for mods to get to. So you’re not being removed for language if that’s what happening... Also sometimes we’ll approve a few comments but not give a flair until we’re sure you’re not a scrote trying to infiltrate. Just thought I’d clear that up. If you’re having any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:45 AM
5

Awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:25 AM
20

After reading this thread- I’m more and more thinking about just staying celibate for the rest of my life and dying alone. Jesus Christ this is some psychopathic shit. We’re there any red flags before then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:18 AM
14

And I’d rather be single than be with a scrote who wants me to act out that depraved shit. He’s leveraging porn to make (presumably his gf/bangmaid) feel like she has to compete and do that disgusting stuff. He’s still gonna watch anyway bc he’s a LVM. It’s a lose lose situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:08 AM
26

Yess 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:40 AM
5

Thank you for taking the time to write all of this. ❤️ And I’m okay- my posts have just been scarce because I’ve been doing other things. I really hope your situation improves too! I promise, you’ll be okay in the end. ❤️
/r/askFDS05/06/21 01:19 AM
27

Reddit is absolutely depraved...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:38 PM
20

Thank you for the nightmare fuel! 😳😳😳 God fucking damnit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:36 PM
10

I wouldn’t do it. He sounds like a fuckboy tbh... just focus on bettering yourself queen 👑 the right person will want an actual relationship and won’t do this shit lol.
/r/askFDS04/06/21 08:40 AM
11

I’m just a kid and don’t know how to help you- but please for gods sake get out now! Your kids will thank you. NOTHING is worth giving up your peace and safety. I know it’s hard, but you have to do it. Stay strong queen. 👑❤️
/r/askFDS04/06/21 03:04 AM
211

THIS- he’s jealous of the boyfriend. Also he probably likes women who wear makeup but doesn’t want to admit it so he puts them down instead...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:03 PM
8

Yess! THIS is what I’m here for! 😎✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:59 PM
6

Good to have you here! Welcome to FDS ❤️ And no, you’re definitely not asking for too much! edit: Holy shit I saw the post- I can’t believe people are reacting like that. Especially when you mentioned his female friend who he has no problem liking her pics. Reddit really is a shithole... you’ll like it much better here though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:52 PM
6

What does “then add tax” mean? Increase your value bc the tax makes it more expensive? Or more like a “know your flaws/stay grounded” type thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:44 PM
31

Seriously- if I had a partner I’d love telling them they’re beautiful/handsome because I’d genuinely love admiring them and complimenting them. LVMs don’t know what love is, they’re too selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:41 PM
46

This really is the elephant in the room- they see women as bangmaids and objects. They resent the “maintenance” it takes to keep us. Along with that they just genuinely dislike their girlfriends. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:40 PM
7

Maybe I’m Demi too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:07 AM
10

So true- so many people just don’t value and respect these things anymore... Also I love your username! Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:07 AM
15

I know- that’s why I’m planning on staying single until my 30s. And I’m gonna wait for marriage but still I know it’s not a good idea to mention it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:06 AM
39

What you said about moaning is so true- it’s performative. There are so many posts on (sex related subreddit that shall not be named) on why men don’t moan. And the answer was “well we grew up masturbating so we had to be quiet to not get caught” Only for the women to comment “women masturbate too dumbass.” They have no idea it’s performative. And also- when women want men to moan because it turns them on they don’t. It’s like they’re raised to be selfish meanwhile women are raised to performati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:09 AM
5

Oof 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:02 AM
31

Yesss 😩🥰 Like what really attracts me (sexually/romantically) is something deeper than physical appearances. Although I still have aesthetic attraction (bad luck Scrotes 😈) it doesn’t turn me on like the mental/emotional stimulation does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:56 AM
5

Yess! Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:55 AM
3

Ewww 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:46 AM
19

We should call this “wokewashing” - when men use progressive lingo to cloak misogyny and bigotry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:42 AM
6

It’s like... the left is pro life now??? What planet are we on???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:41 AM
16

I honestly feel like this is why so many women can’t orgasm from PIV- 1. Most men think jackhammering like in porn is soooo hot, even though it does nothing for women. And 2. Most of them just don’t have the right equipment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:31 AM
63

UMM??? Somebody cybertip the FBI RIGHT NOW- I swear to god! Every day... PEDDIT somehow manages to reach new levels of depravity I didn’t think possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:15 AM
180

That’s actually kinda cool... if you want an traditional lifestyle, then do it on your terms and make yourself safe. Not my thing tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:10 AM
13

Great post! I didn’t have an orgasm until I was 19. I’m really glad I took the time to understand my body and what makes it feel good. So that when I do have sex I won’t be settling for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:00 PM
2

I don’t watch it tbh the vid was just recommended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:14 AM
39

Exactly this! Lol they act like we’re beneath them because secretly their whole sense of self worth depends on us. How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:54 AM
107

”why do Scrotes do anything?” I’m dead 😵 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:36 AM
61

Queen shit 👑✨ Edit: I can see the removed comments - and they’re MAD mad 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:18 PM
1

https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/abandonment-issues#symptoms I’m just gonna leave this here... I have abandonment issues myself and it can be really unhealthy because you end up being dependent on others for emotional support. You also don’t feel like you can survive on your own so you have to cling to others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:15 PM
77

Because he’s a LVM
/r/askFDS01/06/21 11:36 AM
96

Suuure it was 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:20 AM
286

Something doesn’t seem right here... I bet he’s twisting the truth somehow. Maybe he coerced/ pressured her or she forgot the safe word?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:02 AM
18

TiMe 2 BuILd mY EmPiRe 🤪🤡💦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:42 AM
8

Idek her I just saw this screenshot on a crypto subreddit and a sea of LVMs in the comments 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:45 AM
8

Yess! I wanna learn more about crypto and investing in general for when I get my first job. It’s always good to put a little away especially if you’re young!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:44 AM
34

Same I’m just interested and want to learn more. But there’s this really incelish undertone. And a lot of male finance/crypto YouTubers just seem kinda MLMish? Or culty? I guess it’s cause a lot of men are like “MuH ego” and buy into get rich quick schemes. Or like they make $2 off of doge and then start going off about gold diggers lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:42 AM
67

The Scrotes are BIG MAD today! 🤬😤🤯 So many removed comments! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:47 AM
18

Ooh we need a post on “last minute resistance” and how PUAs use rape culture and sexual coercion against women. Also I was reading about frame and it’s insidious. Redpillers also think a “good woman” changes to centre her life around his and adopt all his views. There’s a lot of evopsych bullshit justifying misogyny and incel revenge fantasies such as the wall, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:35 PM
5

It’s because MuH MasKuLiniTee!! for some reason men see it as a male bonding thing to talk about what makes their peepees happy and how big they are. It’s like a dog pedigree contest except they’re all comparing dicks. And the biggest gets the epic big boy prize!!! 🤪🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:23 PM
292

Lmao they don’t even know what a femcel is. They called a woman with kids and a husband a femcel just because she used FDS lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:50 AM
89

I hate this. All I want is intimacy and passion. I’m starting to doubt I’ll ever find anyone like that who doesn’t belittle it and go “ew, you mean like romcoms and romance novels??”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:49 AM
10

This. Despite the libfem koolaid, OnlyFans will ruin any future career you try to get into. And no doubt your coworkers will be talking about it and laughing behind your back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:38 AM
17

Here in Australia the minimum wage is about $19 an hour lol. Why tf would I join onlyFans when I could be flipping burgers and still keep my dignity and peace???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:35 AM
113

I just wanna know if OP is okay and has gotten the medical attention she needs. She needs to go to a woman’s shelter that scrote is a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:55 AM
4

Well your name is correct! 💕 You’re more than worthy of love 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:30 PM
82

Thank you! ❤️ I still struggle with self esteem sometimes but I’ve really gained a lot of confidence and realised what makes me a great person. It’s great that you’ve moved on too and have realised what you deserved! ❤️ so many women like us just don’t realise how lovable and amazing they really are. 🕊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:55 AM
27

Sounds like a guy I used to know ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:35 AM
90

Well hey- at least he wasn’t ugly too haha 💀🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:32 AM
3

Yess to learning new things and intelligence! Bonus points if you can learn new things from them without them being condescending. And also if they’re just an interesting and cool person to talk to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:44 AM
7

Women of all ages can be attractive. Beauty isn’t necessarily defined by youth. I’ve seen some very attractive women even into their 50s and 60s. And when you truly love someone, you still find them attractive even after spending all of that time with them and watching them grow old. Women are not objects with market value. Relationships aren’t economics FFS. Some of you really need to turn off the computer and get outside. It’s not healthy. Relationships are about loving someone for who they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:34 PM
3

Lol I read through the removed scrote comments and they said something like “no guy exists like that” and I was like... 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:42 PM
16

Awesome!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:28 PM
15

Yess 🙌 to everything- especially being a good cuddler and wearing face masks together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:27 PM
30

😍😍😍 Edit: either great or terrifying depending on your sexuality lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:22 AM
7

Side note: she’s so pretty 😍✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:56 AM
26

This just goes to show that no matter how much money and power a woman can have- she’s still vulnerable to men. What a cruel world...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:54 AM
0

😩😩😩❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:36 AM
37

Kinkmesha: my husband beats me! Woman: that’s horrible! I’ll help you find a woman’s shelter- Kinkmesha: no but I like it 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:35 AM
6

He’s so cute in the 3rd pic lol 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:27 AM
4

Daaamn 😩❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:26 AM
117

And straight women have been pressured into having sex with women for the porn industry and male gaze for years. Yet straight men get squeamish at the thought of holding hands with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:15 AM
35

Same tbh... so many men think sex is about degrading and insulting women. And they’ll talk about you like that outside of the bedroom to their boys. 🤢 they take something natural and intimate and turn it into something horrible. It’s also very ego based for them- they just see our bodies as trophies and don’t care about enthusiastic consent or if we enjoyed it. All that matters is that they “hit it”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:13 AM
7

Good luck! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:48 AM
13

Is he still like that?? That’s not HVM behaviour. Honestly? If it’s safe to do you should probably divorce him. My parents divorced and as I grew up I realised why it was necessary. I’d rather be in two homes and happy than in one and miserable. You and your children’s peace and happiness should come first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:49 PM
53

Lol I just googled “cursed emojis” and it was there... 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:26 PM
69

They ALWAYS tell on themselves 🤡 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:15 PM
50

Lol it’s the creepy woods on the bottom right where (dead bodies are dumped)- UM I mean couples go on DATES 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:04 PM
8

Yes. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:34 AM
17

OMG so many of the redpill “theories” on women are just projections about their own shitty behaviour. Eg. Hypergamy, monkey branching, solipsism, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:35 AM
25

Don’t worry, I won’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:47 AM
27

Some of them are a lot more direct tho. One of them straight up told my mum her lips were too thin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:47 AM
94

Isn’t funny how confident FDS women are just immune to TRP?? Lol Most of us would just find this shit funny. But then again a lot of pickmes fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:43 AM
6

Hmm I think that’s okay. Any other mods- feel free to remove if it isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:06 AM
93

🥬 🦙 A L F A L F A M A L E🥬🌽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:04 AM
31

True- it’s why certain subreddits where women “deserve” retribution (often violent) for being a “bitch” are popular. I can’t name them. But a lot of men just love it when their hate is disguised as “karma”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:03 AM
40

Thanks! I’m learning more about the redpill so that I can make it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:01 AM
55

The scrotation! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:22 PM
104

When they slow fade, it means they’re uninterested or are doing some redpill shit. If a HVM is genuinely busy he’ll tell you before and apologise for it. And it won’t be a frequent thing. You need someone who actually wants to see you and isn’t just putting you on the back burner. Refuse to accept being treated like this by walking away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:59 PM
45

Thank you! No problem 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:57 PM
26

Please censor the sub names. The reddit feds (Feddit) are on our asses and will report for brigading!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:17 PM
65

Seriously I can’t even make a post asking about a career without a bunch of passive aggressive comments. Or even asking about astrology and getting downvoted 😩 like I don’t see anything wrong with what I’m doing but redditors are just so... assholeish?? You’re right they just always want to correct or “one up” people. And aside from that when relationship/family questions are asked the answers are so dismissive and unempathetic. Fuck peddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:44 PM
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This is a male “shit test” it’s this weird thing redpillers do where they put you in a position where you have to give an answer that will tell them if you have low self esteem or not. It’s basically a “pickme filter” to see who would be vulnerable to their tactics. Anyway... this guy just seemed insecure himself and was trying to passive aggressively knock you down a peg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:40 PM
27

We’re not allowed to mention subreddit names here. But maybe if you ask OP she’ll tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:35 PM
3

Glad to have you here! Just take a breather and be glad he’s out of your life. It may take a while to heal from this. Make sure to take care of yourself. Reach out to friends for support, and read the FDS handbook. A nice Netflix binge, bubble bath and I’ve cream can help too lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:54 AM
24

I needed this today! I struggle to make friends in real life lol. But I recently started volunteering and I met a girl there my age that I feel like I could be friends with. I’ll also read the book cause I’ve heard a lot about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:56 PM
50

Lmaoo Scrotes are reporting OPs post as literal hate and misinformation 😩😵🤭 you didn’t have to tell on yourself like that sweetie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:38 PM
26

You’ll also come across redpill blogs (but with a traditional tint) about how to emotionally abuse women into being controlled. They use traditionalism as a pretty package to sell a lifestyle of abuse and domestic slavery to these women. It’s sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:36 PM
9

I’m on the same page. Honestly it would feel so nice just to know someone’s thinking about me and bought something they knew I’d love. It just really shows they care and would make me feel so loved and pampered. No ones ever brought me flowers or even anything for Valentine’s Day... I went on a date once where the guy paid and was just like... wow 😩❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:45 PM
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It’s called monkey branching. Monkeys don’t “move on” until they have another branch to hold onto. Otherwise they fall lol. Speaks volumes about how dependent on women’s labour men really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:28 PM
213

This is exactly why I’m staying single and building my dreams before I even try to date. So many men will just derail you and waste your time. You’ll look back and realise your dreams and spark were stolen. And that everything you sacrificed meant nothing because even he has left you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:27 PM
109

This girl had a DAP 😩😩 DRY ASS PUSSY 🤭 and she thought that was enjoyable??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:29 PM
232

Omg a scrote reported this with “someone is seriously considering suicide or self harm” 🤭😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:25 PM
5

I’ve thought about the same thing too... my parents are divorced and I don’t talk to my dads side of the family anymore. Maybe one day I’ll change it to my mothers last name instead. Or choose a new last name...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:26 AM
2

This is some reverse fairy godmother shit... how can they turn from Prince Charming into shrek??? It doesn’t seem physically possible. But the wall TAKES. NO. PRISONERS. 😳😤😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:07 AM
31

That dudes hairline is higher than Everest. That’s not a forehead, that’s a 9head 😩😩✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:04 AM
26

Dump his ass!! 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:57 AM
30

“They feel there is an impending totalitarian movement about to rise” What the fuck???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:55 AM
4

And this is the sad truth. It cuts deep into my core. Why was I born on this earth??? Just to suffer??? 😩😩💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:02 AM
4

YESS 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:55 AM
15

He looks like Guy Fieris long lost cousin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:53 AM
20

He looks like an alcoholic tradie 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:50 AM
23

Leo used to be so cute but now he looks like he plays league of legends and shits himself 😵😩😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:46 AM
22

Why do men expect women to do the political labour of fighting for their issues on top of our own??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:45 AM
90

Damn so many women my age (late teens to early twenties) in the comments already feel “past their prime” and I’ve felt it too. Society is fucked up. Meanwhile mature women can be attractive without looking young. But it’s hard to change social norms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:42 AM
34

At least with a job you actually get paid lmao 💰 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:37 AM
53

Do people even read magazines anymore? I’m 20 and I don’t. Even when I was a teen I didn’t. Just the occasional search online would bring me to teen vogue or whatever but it wasn’t a regular thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:20 AM
10

I’m glad it’s winter where I live ❄️😩✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:56 AM
41

Yess! It’s about time we started learning about redpillers and how they abuse women. They’re all over OLD and you’ll run into one eventually, we’ve gotta learn to protect ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:30 AM
1

I saw this on one of the bi subs and wanted to talk about it. First of all- I don’t like how they’re laughing about this. If someone breaks down and cries during sex something is very wrong. These women seem to have been pressured into this by their LVMs. They’re probably insecure and scared he’s gonna leave if they don’t perform. It’s also weird for the bi person involved because they have to deal with a creepy unicorn hunter and his unstable relationship. I can’t imagine how awkward it would b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:49 PM
121

This tiktok just really made me A S C E N D 😩😩 Like YES. We all knew it. That’s why men are obsessed with “humbling” confident women. I see so many men online complaining about how women these days are “over confident/ stuck up” and honestly it just shows that they thrive off of our insecurity and low self esteem. They are leeches with nothing to offer, so they can only get you if they cut you down first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:43 PM
5

Yess! 🙌😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:31 PM
22

🍆 🧀 For those who can’t see the removed comment 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:04 AM
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Lol might’ve been u/marlenemermaid ! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:58 PM
11

Are you me?? I was always lonely as a kid and never really felt close to my parents. So as a teen I used crushes to cope as an escape mechanism lol. I also struggled with mental health, my grades and had no friends. It’s a hard habit to break...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:05 PM
2

Oh I can relate. 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:02 PM
5

This explains a lot! Like I understand not wanting to support capitalism or millionaires. And yeah I’ve seen the CIA ad and that was pretty weird. But like some leftist men just seem to hate women who are in power??? And specifically the women more than the men. I’ve seen it in the removed comments on FDS- men calling us “girlbosses” as an insult. It’s weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:34 PM
8

Yess 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:35 AM
7

No problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:40 AM
6

Omg same! Lol I always thought “maybe that’s why I’ve never had a bf” but that’s not a bad thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:39 AM
21

Are you me? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:27 AM
11

No probs! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:26 AM
11

Omg I recently got a rabbit vibe! 🐰 Lol I’m still waiting for shipping 😭 but so excited!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:15 AM
56

Lol thanks! 😉 I will, as always...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:27 AM
47

This. They’re all tripping over themselves to impress their friends. Meanwhile treating women like objects. This shits weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:20 PM
27

Love is dead and reddit killed it. 🙃 Unironically though- what the fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:15 PM
14

Yass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:19 PM
40

Voice of an angel 😇😩😩✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:18 PM
5

Yep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:11 PM
25

Oops! Auto correct lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:41 AM
2

Thanks! It’s not new though she’s been working there for years lol. But the raise was recent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:36 AM
23

Fine AF fridays. Every Friday we post pics of hot guys 😩😩❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:58 AM
5

My mums ex (my dad) really isn’t doing too well lol. They broke up about a decade ago. My mum worked hard, got a degree and became a lawyer. She also recently got a raise! Meanwhile my dad hasn’t progressed and is saddled with two step children and a toxic wife. She doesn’t work and he’s lost a lot of money. Meanwhile I cut him off because of his toxic behaviour and my brothers getting more and more distant with him too. He also grew a scraggly beard and gained a lot of weight. My mum says he lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:28 AM
49

Major “she was a lawyer, he was a sandwich” 🥪 vibes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:31 AM
29

Congrats!!🎉 pour a glass 🍷 and treat yourself! 🍫 💐 God knows you deserve it! 😉✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:23 AM
1

Cuute 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:12 AM
3

Yess 👏😩❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:10 AM
40

same tbh! When I go on other subs (can’t name them, but it’s women posting “hot” men.) It’s mostly old white dudes lol. Like damn we need some variety!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:05 AM
77

Yass! Get rid of the 🤢face pubes🤢 These men will hide a whole ass jawline and lack of chin 😭😭😭 The true chads are clean shaven 😎✨🧬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:54 AM
7

No probs! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:38 AM
40

Omg my mum loves tall men too and she’s only 5”2!! 😩😩❤️ My dad was 6”0 and it made up for her short genes. My brothers 5”11 😜 Always listen to biology! My brother would be a Manlet if my mum hadn’t liked tall men lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:35 AM
17

I didn’t realise there were others! Tbh I thought I was the first one. All I’ve seen is white men so far lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:27 AM
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Who’s gonna say it??? Aaaaaggeee gaaappp!! 😱😬😬😬 Every. Single. Time. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:30 AM
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I remember seeing “a dogs journey” and I was like... damn he’s cute. Lol probably one of the few times I’ve googled an actor after seeing a film
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:23 AM
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Daammn 😩❤️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:15 AM
17

Creative writing for incels. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:13 AM
38

Lips! 😩✨ Guys with full lips are honestly so attractive. It’s so rare honestly (at least with white men). Most have papercut mouths and I just don’t like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:07 AM
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The other thing is that you always have to be prepared for if he does change after you’ve had kids. You should have a secret stash of money put away and a solid support system (family or female friends) that can help you leave or will take care of you if he won’t. We ultimately can’t escape the fact that any HVM could change or show his true colours even after years. And that truly is frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:18 PM
14

Nothing we do is even remotely close to TRP. Like yeah we make small dick jokes and make fun of men in general. But redpillers are literal rape apologists and abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:15 AM
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I’m so glad you brought this up!! So many men don’t actually understand what it means to have and raise kids. The amount of hard work, care and love it takes. It’s all about ego for them. They’re the “kodak dads” who won’t do any of the raising but will brag about “continuing their lineage” or whatever the fuck. Despite these Scrotes being completely ordinary and not some royal dynasty. They don’t see kids as kids, just trophies that prove that they’ve had sex. They see their wife as nothing but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:34 PM
91

I’m glad you mentioned men using intersectionality to cloak misogyny. I’ve seen it a few times on reddit and Twitter- white, cishet men will make fun of white cishet women so that they don’t get banned. But you can tell from what they post that it’s just sexist and not a critique on racism or homophobia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:12 PM
54

Every day we stray further away from gods light...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:11 PM
21

One day I’d like to copy a post, change a few details and flip the genders and then see how reddit reacts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:57 PM
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This is so interesting! I’d love to see more posts on this. I went down the pipeline as a teen myself but never got that bad... I still find this stuff fascinating though. I always wondered why so many stayed when alt right men are so hostile to women, especially in their own communities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:52 AM
8

Thanks! Yeah I just messaged you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:06 AM
56

Something tells me he collects STDs like Pokémon... gotta catch em all! 🥴😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:12 PM
155

Speaking of harassing women... the Scrotes are unironically reporting this as targeted harassment, misinformation and hate! Women: don’t creep on young women! Scrotes: this is LITERALLY hate and HARASSMENT!! 😭😭 🍼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:34 PM
22

This absolute waste of oxygen can rot in hell. His selfishness is gonna literally kill her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:50 AM
27

You have no idea!! They’ve reported it as hate 37‼️ TIMES 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:42 AM
24

Yess I love her! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:57 AM
209

That also explains why they love dating younger women. They want someone less experienced so that they seem impressive by comparison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:50 AM
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All men benefit from violence against women. The bar is so low that all you have to do is not be a rapist. Women are literally so grateful just to not be raped that they’ll put these men on a pedestal. And often these men are toxic in different ways, but she stays because “it could be worse.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:03 PM
33

Spooky! Dreams can be so strange sometimes. I heard it’s our brains trying to process the information it takes in. It could also be old memories or a way of processing our emotions. I have a lot of dreams about being in school again with my old friends. It’s weird cause I don’t think about them at all these days lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:21 PM
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Lol it actually might be. I wouldn’t put it past them to make a bot specifically to spam FDS. Scrotes are weird. I can’t imagine wasting my time on something like that 😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:14 PM
32

Lol it’s actually one scrote spamming “fortnite battle royal” over and over again 😫💦 Why can’t he just get a life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:55 AM
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GUYS!!! I’m a mod and basically it’s just one scrote spamming the same comment like 47 times!! 😭😭 How pathetic do you have to be to do that?? u/snugglebunbun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:47 AM
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Lol the Scrotes are reporting this as hate 🤡 there’s like 8 reports.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:42 AM
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I really hate this culture. From Gen Z to the Boomers, all generations of men have made the “wife/ GF bad 🤬” jokes. They really don’t actually respect or love women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:57 AM
185

THIS. And in the meantime they use their forever gfs as a mommy bangmaid, therapist, chef and ATM machine. Men benefit greatly from long term relationships, even if they don’t like who they’re with. That’s why so many men on tiktok, Instagram and on the internet in general seem to genuinely dislike their partners. The way they talk to their gfs is just so... disrespectful. And the way they put in the absolute minimum effort... The vast majority of men lack the emotional depth and self awareness …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:24 AM
61

Apex Redditors 😩💀🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:16 AM
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I’m sorry it happened to you too. And thank you for understanding. ❤️ just remember that just because someone’s your “family” by blood or marriage, doesn’t mean they’re your true family. And that it’s okay to cut people off and not want them in your life. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:29 PM
34

My dads in IT and would monitor me and my sibling’s internet history. I remember him and my step mum outright telling us once they’d monitor what were up to online to make sure we’re “safe”. He’d also drop subtle references to things I’d googled/ sites I’d been on in conversation and it creeped me the fuck out. It left me with trust issues and paranoia that I’ve never really healed from or gotten over. Not to mention that when I told my mum she just wouldn’t believe me. And nobody thought my cho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:23 PM
102

I think I remember hearing this is a thing narcissists do- they can be really kind to strangers and in public because they love having the “good Samaritan” image. But behind closed doors with the people they’re closest to they show their true colours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:18 PM
2

Hmm it doesn’t say who removed it but it has been removed... maybe someone removed it because it’s meme free Monday but then again it was posted earlier than that. I’ll just re-approve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:26 PM
14

Yeahh. Men in general have no idea how makeup and plastic surgery work. They look at photoshopped Instagram models, celebrities who’ve had plastic surgery, and women wearing “natural” makeup and think they’re all natural lol. That’s why their standards are impossible to meet. Because they genuinely can’t tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:18 AM
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Same. I really used to look up to Melinda and him as a couple. I liked the equality in their relationship. I remember reading a story about how he started taking the kids to school despite how busy he was and then all of the other dads started doing it. They seemed like this kind power couple ready to take on the world and help those who need it most. I really thought they’d last forever. And I have no idea what could’ve been going on behind the scenes. I worded this weirdly I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:35 AM
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I really hope Melinda’s okay. And the kids too. I remember watching the documentary “inside Bills brain” and she talked about being alone all day with the kids in their mansion and not knowing who was coming in and out of the house. After finding out about the Epstein stuff I realise just how scary that would be. Especially since yknow... Epstein might be a house guest. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:56 AM
115

Please tell her about the sub! We’d love to have her here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:52 AM
51

I’m so sorry you went through that, that must’ve been stressful as fuck. I’m glad you’re at peace now and have dumped his ass. 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:24 AM
15

I don’t have reddit coins so here- Take my poor woman’s gold‼️ 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:08 AM
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My mum and I haven’t always been that close but over the past year or so we’ve gotten closer. She’s divorced, so she’s usually been the one to take herself and the kids out for lunch on Mother’s Day. And because I’ve never had a job I’ve never gotten her gifts before. My brother and I used to forget when Mother’s Day is, and she’s told me she’d at least like a card. I felt bad and like I should really do more for her. So I went out and got her a pretty card, a candle, some guylian chocolates, a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:36 AM
31

He must have an actual needle dick 🪡😬😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:26 AM
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“My boyfriend is a redditor” We could tell. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:21 AM
19

I see so many posts like this where the guy obviously just doesn’t give a shit. And the woman is like “well he just shows his love in a different way!!! Love languages!!!” I feel like the internet has gaslight us all into being okay with men who don’t actually care about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:05 AM
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THIS‼️ It’s easy for men to want kids when they don’t have to deal with even half of the responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:52 PM
3

YES lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:30 PM
2

Lol I didn’t realise! I haven’t seen Star Wars haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:20 PM
26

Thank you so much for explaining, I never knew this. I always thought it was a bit weird that it was called “trauma bonding” because it made me think more of two people bonding through a traumatic experience, not abuse. And now I know why... Carnes is disgusting for siding with abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:17 PM
4

What event? I’m confused I barely know anything about it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:45 AM
17

Lmaoo thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:43 AM
30

Don’t call yourself an “old dog” or an “old goat”!! Man, it doesn’t matter how old you are. Be nice to yourself!❤️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:41 AM
21

Same. That’s part of why I gave up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:31 AM
54

Holy shit yes this explains everything. I knew this for a while but didn’t put it into words like she did. So many men just see women as placeholders for labour and social status in their lives. They don’t know what true love is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:30 AM
38

Lol reminds me of when Bench Appearo listened to WAP and thought that getting wet was a medical condition. 🥴💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:22 AM
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Lmaoo they do that to me too! They’re so obsessed they’ll literally stalk our post histories so they can finally be noticed. We live in these Scrotes heads RENT FREE‼️🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:17 AM
15

Nah you’re thinking of We Hunted The Mammoth that was the onion of TRP lol. Edit: it’s not satire, but commentary on the manosphere. Damn I thought I remembered someone saying it was satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:15 AM
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That’s such a good idea! Tbh I do the same occasionally. Redpillers are especially insidious with how they use emotional abuse to manipulate women. But I can’t lurk too long, the rampant misogyny and stupidity gives me a headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:46 AM
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Every day I get closer and closer to going 100% childfree. The health issues (worst fear), this horrible society, and the fact that a baby is like a ball and chain keeping you from freedom. Not just financially and time wise but emotionally too. The incredible guilt you’d feel if you put them up for adoption...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:43 AM
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Ewww 🤢🤢 I’ve seen this side of Twitter and it’s the worst. It’s a bunch of basement dwelling gamers pretending to be Le epic based patrichal kings/ CEOs. These navel gazers make sexist generalisations about women and then act like they’re Plato or Marcus Aurelius. It truly is cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:35 AM
36

Saaame. Face pubes are so wirey and gross 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:25 AM
35

This. I couldn’t be with an unambitious, lazy, guy who just settles and doesn’t try to better his life. I also wanna avoid addicts like the plague. I’ve not got a job at the moment but I’m still working hard to apply for jobs and look for volunteer work to gain experience. A HVM can be broke but he digs himself out eventually. Although I don’t think anyone should date while broke tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:14 AM
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Yeah... she twisted it into something it’s not. We were just talking about dating, not taking walks in a relationship. Although if that’s the only thing he does for her- that’s kinda sad and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:01 AM
4

Yesss can’t wait!! 😩💦😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:58 AM
63

Well same. I walk on my own all the time. But like... a walk date is the bare minimum lol. Way to show that you’re broke and don’t give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:51 AM
66

That’s horrible. These men don’t even give a fuck about their wives. I make like $30 a week and still bought my mum a card and multiple gifts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:11 AM
47

BEARD FISHING 🎣 🐠😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:08 PM
29

It’s funny because FDS loves roasting billionaires. Just look at the threads on Elon Musk, Gates or Bezos lol. We also make fun of celebrities and actors all the time. HVM =/= rich chad. And yet... LVMs will project their idea of a HVM onto us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:49 PM
38

This. Lol I had a scrote come and invade FLUS to tell me he’s “high value” and I’m “low value” because he makes more than me. First of all- if he did he wouldn’t be wasting his time on the internet harassing women. Second of all- he’s low value for stalking random women online and sending hate messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:39 PM
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There’s so much gaslighting. Why don’t they actually criticise us instead of making shit up out of thin air? I’ve also heard them say that a HVM is a rich chad with a six pack... Umm no. It’s someone with morals and integrity. It’s more complicated than that. They’re on a smear campaign against us because they know they’re not justified in hating us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:34 PM
38

Lol same. I only wear makeup when I go out to eat or something (like once a week maybe?) I just don’t care anymore. It’s probably the pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:35 PM
49

THE NEST 🤨😱😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:14 AM

OMG on the original post a scrote said “Adam Sandler made me think I was hot” The proof is in the pudding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:19 AM
39

Jesus FUCKING Christ 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:25 AM
8

Oh my god that’s disgusting‼️🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:41 PM
104

Lmao he looks exactly like a dead sardine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:14 AM
31

I know... it’s so frustrating and saddening. It’s hard to understand how she could even react like this in the first place. Any sane woman would run for the hills. But abuse does strange things to your brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:12 AM
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“When I was younger I would say no, but now that I’m older I would say yes” Lol notice how as women have more experience and gain more confidence they realise it does matter? A lot of the women from 30 onwards said yes. Meanwhile the teens and twenties virtue signalled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:33 AM
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Surprisingly the comments actually had some good advice. I haven’t seen an update yet, but I hope she’s doing okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:15 AM
65

Bridgettoned 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:22 AM
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Not just western civilization- anywhere with WiFi and porn is basically fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:21 AM
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That’s the dream! Men who actually see sex as special and intimate instead of just an ego boost to get from women. Men who have self control and value monogamy. Men who are virgins by choice and not incels 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:09 AM
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Idk who he is but lmao he looks lobotomized 🥴💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:51 AM
17

That made my stomach drop that’s disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:13 AM
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❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:08 AM
57

As someone with mental health issues- damn that’s seriously sick and twisted. That’s also why I’m scared to date because I’m so vulnerable and they can smell it like blood in the water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:42 PM
5

I’m not so sure about that... just look at all the other comments here about exes who’d get hard when they saw women cry 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:18 PM
61

Exactly- even as a joke this is disgusting. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:06 PM
29

This! Lmao that’s why the posterior and anterior fornix exist. Read this. I couldn’t find much on the P spot that wasn’t about Scrotes assholes, so here’s what Wikipedia says I also found this cheesy article THE DEEP SPOT ORGASM (THE POSTERIOR FORNIX ORGASM) This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulating the area, which is located almost all the way back in the deepest part of the back wall of the vagina just before the cervix. Direct stimulation of the deep spot (the posterior fornix) ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:55 PM
12

Or the used sticky tape, licked cupcake, etc 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:31 PM
5

There might be one problem with that- I’ve heard the first time can hurt a bit. I mean even if you’re already turned on/ wet. And I’d want someone who knew I was inexperienced so that they’d be more patient with me if I got cold feet or wanted to take it slow. People have different expectations for sex with a non-virgin that can put a lot of pressure on virgins to perform. Regardless though don’t tell them until they’ve been thoroughly vetted and you’ve known them for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:20 PM
12

Now that’s just depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:50 PM
2

Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:41 AM
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Lmaoo that last one- they had to shoot him with a stun gun 🔫🤣💀 And on the first one he saw he was being filmed and just kept on doing it- I 💀🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:01 AM
16

🅱️encil ✏️ Sharpener 🔪✨ 👁 👄 👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:26 AM
18

I used to have one and I would lick it because it tasted nice lol 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:49 AM

Sorry for the red blob btw I was gonna replace “person” with “scrote” but the text wouldn’t show over the pen tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:35 PM
9

“Waity kaity” lmao that made me crack up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:51 PM
3

Same tbh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:45 PM
24

Same tbh. Fuck people who gossip negatively/ talk shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:31 PM
23

Oh my fucking god this makes so much sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:12 AM
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It’s a whole other level of internalised misogyny. Imagine unironically speaking about yourself like that. The absolute disrespect- I- 😫💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:11 AM
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Lol oops I misread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:17 AM
15

A scrote wrote this pretending to be a woman 😩😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:26 PM
2

My step sister would do this too when my step mum and her would argue. Tbh I think this was just a reaction to the step mums emotional abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:13 PM
14

Nah I think this(the original post) is just a manipulation tactic. I’ve seen women pull this shit too. But I’d say men do it more. And I wouldn’t be making any excuses for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:11 PM
21

THIS. It’s a manipulation tactic. They’re guilting you into comforting them and feeling guilty for standing up for yourself. It also shows they have a victim mentality and will always put their emotional needs above yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:03 PM
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This whole study just really proves how narcissistic most men are. They just want a human laughing track who makes them feel like they have a “good sense of humour” rather than a girl who’s actually got a good sense of humour and makes her own jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:09 PM
13

I don’t even have the words to describe how this story made me feel 😳😩💀 That’s one for the scrotacity hall of shame right there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:45 AM
24

How fucking stupid do you have to be to let a registered sex offender be alone with your kid??? This woman is mentally delusional. I hope the kids get taken away from her ffs. Imagine openly inviting a pedophile into your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:32 PM
48

TwiCe 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:27 PM
107

OOF. It’s the forever girlfriend meme to a T! Man strings along and dates woman for years without proposing ✅ She’s worth more than him (literally a successful real estate agent) yet she’s begging for the bare minimum. ✅ She proposed because it’s EmPoWeRiNg 🤡 and gets rejected ✅ He then breaks up with her once he starts nearing 30 and realises he won’t be able to pull like he used to. (Not sure if this applies here, but it’s often how it goes.) Then he finds his next upgrade and marries her on t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:24 PM
8

OH MY GOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:39 PM
33

Well keep applying for other positions while you still work at your current job. It doesn’t hurt and chances are you may be lucky enough to find a new one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:37 PM
2

Lol what happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:58 PM
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I tried it too and it was cringe as fuck lol. And to no surprise I got rejected. 🙈🤪 But apparently I should be ProUD 🥲 like these clowns 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:39 AM
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Lol I literally saw a post just like that that inspired me to post this. This pickme gave I think a repairman or something her number and never got a call back lmao. but was still proud that she humiliated herself. 🤡 clown shit. LVMs in the comments mansplained that she should wait 3 days for him to reply and that he was probably just trying not to seem clingy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:33 AM
3

That’s so true. I’m the same with body hair too- I like to shave because I personally like how smooth it makes my legs feel. But yeah thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:22 PM
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What do you mean by marginalised? Because yeah you could say disabled men, trans men, and men of colour are all made to feel uncomfortable in their own skin/ like a target. But women’s experiences are unique in the type of harassment and objectification we face. What I meant is that they don’t understand it in that context. Like on the same deeply personal level that we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:52 AM
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I think like this when I dress up, then I become really aware of how I look. I check in mirrors and window reflections to make sure I still look “good”. I also feel strangely “naked” even if the clothes aren’t revealing. And like my security blanket is gone. But when I wear baggy/ unflattering clothes I really don’t give a fuck. How can I enjoy expressing myself through fashion without being weirdly self conscious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:55 AM
23

Lmaooo I’m DYING 😵😫✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:42 AM
12

Everyone needs to see this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:12 AM
14

Ravioli!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:11 AM
16

Oh no... So, anyway! 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:09 AM
3

I wanna wear them too but I don’t like the association people have with pigtails...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:23 PM
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Btw stuff like this is called “fetish mining” and it’s when men trick women into participating in their fetishes without consent. Somebody on FDS linked to a video about it but I forgot what the title was. The woman was explaining that she’d get men posing as children asking seemingly “innocent” questions about her bellybutton or feet during Q&As to get pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:06 PM
97

Take me off of this goddamn planet. The bar is in hell. Men can’t even wash their fucking penises 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:42 PM
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I cannot believe we’ve normalised fucking sadism??? You know, people who enjoy torturing and manipulating others? Why don’t we see them like psychopaths or sociopaths? Why the fuck has this been sexualised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:49 AM
19

How does your brain get like this??? What happened to her?! 😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:03 AM
84

“Scrotus” 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:32 PM
8

Psychopath shit wtf 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:42 PM
5

Cats are amazing and I love them! ❤️ 🐈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:36 PM
181

Exactly they’re desperately trying to cope with the fact that women aren’t putting up with their shit anymore. The insult “you’re ugly” is rooted in misogyny. Because it’s used to dismiss us like they’re saying “your only worth is being pretty, so your opinions don’t matter, and you are worthless”. Meanwhile we don’t give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:26 PM
5

You can’t time travel, so don’t waste time on regret. Although sometimes it helps to mourn the past and what could’ve been. All that time you’ve been evolving, learning and growing into the person you are today. There are things you’ll never go back to because you’ve risen to a new level. You’re not the person you were back then, and now you’re finally free to take control of your life! So start living and enjoying everything you have. ❤️ some women never wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:36 AM
64

Same. I fucking hate reddit. And yet- like a car crash moments from happening- I can’t quite look away. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:20 AM
51

That ring is H A U N T E D 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:18 AM
15

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Any reason not to have sex is a good one. And every woman should know that. Even if it’s something “dumb” - it still counts. Your body belongs to you and should be a sanctuary. It’s so gross that men would even want to have sex with a woman that doesn’t want to. I can’t imagine having sex with someone who wasn’t into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:51 AM
47

It’s so true. They really will drag you down and distract you from your dreams and ambitions. Don’t fall for it unless he’s genuinely supportive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:42 AM
58

I’ve decided to just be on my own and not pursue a partner. Tbh it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I’m less attracted to men and interested in romance in general now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:38 AM
15

Username checks out! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:28 AM
85

“ dick makes the pussy loose (biology diss track)” I- 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:23 AM
15

I honestly can’t believe this is being normalised. How is any of this seen as empowering? Not only are you letting a stranger into your house, that stranger is also typically larger, stronger and more likely to kill you. Not to mention all of the men who are strangling, hitting and slapping their ONS these days bc of the normalisation of kink. And stealthing. You’re also letting them know your home address too. Casual sex is literally one of the most dangerous things a woman can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:12 AM
10

😲✨😫❤️🤖🌙⭐️🌸🌺🎄🌹💫❄️🍔🍭🍮🍰🍫🍩🍪🍬🥧🍯🍾🥂🧊🥄🥡🥢 Take THAT Scrotes‼️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:20 PM
24

Holy fuck men are vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:29 PM
11

Lol at least he doesn’t have to worry about “the elites” or anyone stealing his precious dude goo. 🤭🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:43 AM
36

So basically Scrotes think that semen is a magical life force energy and that the elites created porn to succ their precious peepee juices and drain them of their energy. So they basically give themselves blue balls and think it makes them super saiyan or some shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:41 AM
130

Lmao they really think they have something to offer other than erectile dysfunction and a receding hairline. 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:09 AM
158

At this point, are there even any men who marry for love? Or who date to find a life partner that they truly want to be with??? Most of them really do just go along with societal expectations. They see women as milestones and maids. They don’t truly love you, you’re just a placeholder for the “girlfriend/wife” slot in their life. Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:06 AM
128

Lord, give me the confidence of a mediocre white man 🙏😩✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:36 AM
63

It’s from the “semen retention” scrotes. Basically they believe that sperm is the ultimate life force and that teh evil elites are trying to steal their precious man juice or something 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:31 AM
33

Dude the whole subreddit is a goldmine of insanity. I can’t scroll through there and not burst out laughing! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:29 AM
50

Lol he even added an update at the end because people corrected him in the comments 💀 even the other Scrotes knew he was way off! Edit: I still can’t believe this got 1K upvotes 😭😭 I’ve lost faith in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:28 AM
1

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:24 AM
4

I’m DEAD 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:24 AM
6

I couldn’t post on FDSsuperfans so I had to post here lol. Basically a removed comment from a scrote acting all high and mighty about his downvote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:23 AM
144

This is so true. They just want attention. They like getting a rise out of people and being edgy because it’s the only time anyone would actually notice them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:32 AM
14

Notice how they got uncomfortable too and that they’re not nearly as flexible as women lmao. Yeah those videos creeped me out too. Especially ones where she got him to just lay down flat on the floor looking dead. The other insane positions look so uncomfortable. Sex seems so performative these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:39 PM
78

Oh so they’ve been this stupid for centuries?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:07 PM
2

Damn I can’t even do that 😭 Lucky guys! I mean if I bleed every month I should at least be able to have multiples!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:06 PM
5

You mean like 2-3 times in one hour or day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:03 PM
103

Oh it’s actually because of this other insane thing Scrotes are doing called “semen retention” basically it’s pseudo science and spirituality mixed with “MuH PeNiS”. These men think that cum is “vital fluid” and drains their life force when they cum??? They also think not cumming gives you super powers. It’s a whole ass circus 🤡 🎪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:23 PM
24

Yeah I’m ADHD too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:56 PM
20

Oops I think I accidentally sped up the video. Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:38 PM
30

Are you listening with headphones? You can’t hear it in the right ear but the left ear is okay. Also here’s a link to the video: https://youtu.be/YmbrAWDft0s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:47 PM
47

Why are men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:37 AM
5

What was it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:57 AM
25

It’s what LVM redpillers call their multiple fuckbuddies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:57 AM
25

He’s calling the women he’s sleeping with “plates”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:01 AM
88

His face as he wrote this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:56 AM
243

It’s a redpill term for basically a team of fuckbuddies these Scrotes keep in rotation. 🤮🤡 Edit: Just think about those clowns spinning plates What a fitting metaphor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:53 AM
35

I think we are 🔥👿👹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:52 AM
20

What a joke! They really have no self awareness lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:35 AM
16

No but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was! Tbh we should read TRP to understand the insidious tactics they’re using. And then take notes on how to avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:46 AM
32

They’re testing the waters. A lot of guys will see how much disrespect they can get away with. Or how weak your boundaries are. It’s like their “pickme radar TM” lol. And then they play it off as a joke or will be like “I guess we’re just not compatible!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:41 AM
28

This is the true reason why they like 18- 25 year olds. Because they’re young and “easy to mould” 🤢🤢 like this scrote said. And if they could go younger, they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:01 AM
9

It’s the Dunning Krueger effect lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:16 AM
17

Lmao at this point it’s just natural selection. Men are a meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:15 AM
2

Look at his hairline 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:54 PM
14

This. And they’ll make sure you’re constantly trying to reach perfection. “I thought you were low maintenance, but you want a movie date? That’s really not like you...” and there’s this shame with acting “out of character” from the role he’s given you. So it’s used to pressure you into accepting less. Especially if you already see yourself as selfless etc, but then start going by his definition of what that means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:35 PM
8

She hit the nail on the head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:57 PM
14

How does it feel to be gods favorite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:12 AM
6

Yess 😩😩 need me one like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:07 AM
8

He’s so immature. Even if he didn’t want to, he could’ve said that in a respectful way. Lol also I don’t see how it’s that gross if you’ve got a tampon in. The outside could be completely clean and then there’s no problem with eating pussy. Orgasms can also help ease the pain of period cramps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:05 AM
6

I’ve heard it smells like bleach 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:02 AM
48

And who’s gonna wipe his ass for him??? 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:54 AM
56

She just logged on to show off her L to the entire internet 😭😭🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:52 AM
34

Supreme cringe. I’d have gotten a divorce. Marriage really does hold women back, and let’s not even mention babies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:51 AM
22

Thanks! It’s interesting to see that not all of them saw women as objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:47 AM
19

Anyone have a link to the study? I’ve heard of it before but I don’t remember there being a group of men that didn’t see women in bikinis as objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:43 AM
10

Lol speaking of- they’re reporting it as “promoting hate” cry more smegmoids 😩✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:16 PM
31

Lmao I love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:27 PM
39

🤢🤢🤢 unreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:26 PM
56

NOTHING but FACTS 💯 👏 👏 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:54 AM
59

Yes. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:26 AM
14

And that’s exactly why it repels LVMs and abusers! They hate to see confident women loving themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:21 AM
6

❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:47 AM
25

Same! Lol what’s the point of bio kids?? Honestly it’s not worth putting my body through the trauma. I’d rather adopt a kid that needs a good home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:02 AM
757

ALSO the fruit represented the knowledge of good and evil. And I love that because it means women are the first to seek knowledge and won’t let even a god tell them what to do. 💯 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:47 AM
37

And yet they still haven’t banned MGTOW and other misogynistic places on reddit. Meanwhile everyone is complaining about FDS because we joke about receding hairlines or some shit?? Reddit hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:27 PM
70

I had to screenshot this. What a powerful statement! Imagine not being able to even own your own house, have a career and being locked into poverty because you can’t make money on your own. Imagine being forced to marry and have sex with someone just because it’s the only way you can survive. Being nothing more than a maid for the rest of your life. I’m so glad we have the freedom we have now. So many women have fought tooth and nail for the basic necessities we have now. Imagine throwing that a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:21 PM
13

Jesus Christ! 20 YEARS???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:38 PM
18

Oh my god... they really do tell on themselves don’t they? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:31 PM
58

THIS 💯 He’s heading 600mph STRAIGHT into a BRICK WALL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:21 AM
137

Lol this. Men will keep a girlfriend around because he gets to split bills, free meals, a maid, and regular sex. Meanwhile he’s still looking for an “upgrade”. 😬 I’ve heard stories like this where they break up after 7 years and he marries the next girl after like 2 weeks lol. When men hit the wall they realise they have to settle down to they scramble to get married quick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:29 AM
10

That’s true power. When you can finally say “no” to something that you used to want so badly. And protect your inner peace and all the progress that you’ve made! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:25 AM
315

“He said he doesn’t want to be an old dad and wait too many years” Why didn’t he do it earlier then? Instead of pressuring someone much younger into such a permanent life decision. There are probably many late 20s women who want kids. but instead he found someone who was in a much different life stage (probably recently left college, focused on starting their career.) I mean you’ve got your whole life ahead of you. I’d see this as a red flag. Or at least an incompatibility. Dump his ass! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:20 AM
22

Your last paragraph kinda reminds me of “post nut clarity” and how men feel disgusted after they’ve watched porn lol. It’s like they know... Deep down if something is bad for you, your gut reaction will tell you. I get that feeling too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:37 AM
25

Lol “no man is better than a LVM” = “LVMs are better than all others” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:19 AM
6

Lol a scrote reported this as “promoting hate” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:59 AM
13

I’m not a minor- I just don’t have the money to move out. Especially in COVID times... Edit: I’m not in danger though, just wary of new men my mum brings into the house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:33 PM
11

I don’t think my mum would let me say that haha 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:16 PM
12

Ooh nice! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:57 AM
3

I have! ✨❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:31 AM
70

Firstly he’d be willing to support me no matter my choice. And wouldn’t try to push me in any direction (my body my choice). Second- tbh I’d have an abortion and ask him to pay for it. Then maybe order pizza and take care of me while I recover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:30 AM
24

My door doesn’t have a lock 😭😭 Guess I’ll just camp out in my room with the knife 🔪 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:14 AM
145

Lol it’s always women they dumped that are the ones who paid/ initiated/ whatever reddit is pushing next. Oh but it was SOOOO cool 🤡 of her to pay!! 🤡 Just face it- men see this as desperate. They have the worst dating advice for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:01 AM
111

I needed to hear this. It feels like I lost my youth to mental illness and failure. And only just now I’m beginning to live again... even though I still struggle a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:09 PM
14

“That part made me laugh. What a great story.” Is this what Scrotes think is funny and wholesome?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:41 PM
102

I just lost faith in the male gender. Edit: scratch that- also the pickmes encouraging this. The earth. Everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:32 PM
16

Lol the Scrotes reported this as “misinformation” somebody’s mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:08 AM
2

I hope you’re okay! ❤️ I’m glad I could make your day a little brighter. Damn what kind of job has a 24h shift???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:50 PM
28

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:48 AM
72

I’m in my early 20s and honestly don’t want to date until my late 20s. I’m still figuring out who I am and establishing myself in life and I don’t want a Scrote to derail me and ruin my life. I already feel like I’ve wasted too much of my life. And I’m honestly scared of losing all progress and compromising on my dreams for some stupid male. So many women’s lives have been taken over and ruined by parasitic men who place themselves as the center these women’s lives. Honestly everyone should read…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:46 AM

You can probably guess what sub this is from! 🥴🥴 Also the most upvoted comment isn’t freaked out by the n***philia fetish and tells us not to judge 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:10 AM
7

That was easily the worst part. Abusive relationships are one hell of a drug. I’m so glad she’s finally left him. I really hope she’s okay now and has a support system to lean on. I can’t even imagine how she feels after all that. It’s even worse that she was already vulnerable and had a learning disability. Abusers always look for the most vulnerable people to exploit. Especially those with disabilities or mental illness. It makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:38 PM
57

This makes me never want to have kids...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:15 AM
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