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| 3 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)Like I say, I have experienced it in the real world. The men who post here exist in the real world too. They may only say it outright here, and hide it in real life, but they still exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 05:50 AM |
| 30 | Women have it easier because they have inherent valueThe male genitalia is devalued so much that men actually struggle to give their sperm away. On the other hand, one egg from a female is worth thousands of dollars due to their underabundance. Sperm is worth less because all men need to do is bust out a w-nk to provide it. Harvesting eggs is a long, complex, medical procedure which costs thousands in hormonal injections, medical equipment and medical staff. Not to mention the physical toll it takes on a woman's body to subject herself to the Horm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 12:57 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)Again, read the comments by inexperienced men on this sub. Read the redpill subs. The hatred of women is so very deeply ingrained. And you'd think that they'd adore the woman who gave them a chance but... nope. They just have an emotional punching bag to take out all their bitterness on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 12:50 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)But that's the thing, you're one voice out of many here. The truthis that the risk you take when giving an inexperienced man a chance is that you don't know whether it'll be one of the overwhelming many who are seething with hatred for women. That hatred then turns on you, and suddenly you're responsible for all the "sins" of all women. It usually turns in to emotional abuse. If not physical. Been there, done that, worn the t-shirt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.This is not a unique scenario. So many men do this. And chaps, if you want to do this, go ahead. But don't you dare whine about having to put in all the effort and pay for all the dates to prove your interest ever again. This is why those rules exist, for women to protect themselves from men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Why did Rihanna stay with Chris Brown if “being nice is the bare minimum?”It's called a trauma bond. People don't just one day become abusive overnight. First they lovebomb to make their victim fall in love with them. Then they slowly chip away at their victims self esteem. Then they gradually increase the abuse, while their victim is in a very low place, for example, they'll be arguing and the abuser will push the victim. Next time they'll push them harder. Next time they'll dig their elbow in as they push them... And so on. Also, once they've been abusive, they'll b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Like I say, I found my person. We're talking marriage in the next two years. I'm good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 07:44 PM |
| 27 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I've never known of average looking women going after very good looking men. I've never known any woman who's been "pumped and dumped by a Chad" (likely due to the above). I see hundreds of average looking women and men pair off together and be very happy together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?OK, but that didn't work out for me. Dating with the man paying at first led to better relationships than any I went Dutch with. That's simply my real life experience. It's OK that you don't agree or want to do things differently. That's life. But I'll continue to give my account of my experience when asked, and you'll continue to recount your expectations when asked. People can pick and choose what they'd like to take on board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?And I would weed you out based on your attitude. I am a very giving person and I need to know that my partner is as giving as I am. Otherwise I can, and have been, taken advantage of for my generosity. But I found my person. Mostly we cook meals together now. But when we do go for a day or night out, we split the costs. We also "spoil" each other now and then with gifts, for no particular reason. You and I wouldn't be compatible, and that's ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Then don't do it. The question was why let men pay for dates. I answered with my experience on this. If I found myself single again I would stick to my method as it's worked better for me than going Dutch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Yeah, that makes a lot of sense actually. He's proving he can provide, I'm proving that I'm not just taking advantage and that I care about him having nice things too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?I do have a boyfriend though. We split things pretty equally now that we're in an established relationship. He paid for the first 5 or 6 dates, he absolutely insisted on it. So I commissioned a personalised piece of art by an artist whose work he was a fan of (cost about the same as two dates) as a gift for him. I also paid for little extras on the dates. He's told me repeatedly that he loves the piece and that it was so much better than me paying for two dates, or going half for four dates. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:12 PM |
| 9 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Respect. I've usually been the girl who goes Dutch. Men say they want that, but they don't respect you for it. IME, and the experience of friends and family, if a man pays for the dates they are taking you, and dating you, more seriously. It took me a long time to figure this out, but I'm in a much better spot because of it. So, I'll let a man pay for the date, but I'll also always pay for a "treat", or extra, on the date. A coffee, dessert, ice cream, arcade game, whatever. I'll usually say som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?I think, like all things, demisexuality is a spectrum. If it's rare for you to feel attraction without the emotional connection then you probably still fall on the demi spectrum still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?I'm very much like you. I found out a couple of years ago that it has a name "Demisexual". It means that you're not sexually attracted to anyone unless you have an emotional connection with them first. I've always naturally found other demisexuals, but I'm sure that there are dating sites or at least online communities, where you can connect with people like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?Exactly. They don't choose to rape, they just can't help themselves. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Does being not like the other girls (nlog) gives you an advantage in the dating market?They never will though, because that would reveal that, really, they consider themselves "lesser". I've always maintained that intelligence takes so many different forms. It's not just academic. It's not me who believes they are "lesser" for being less educated. It's themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | The separation between the blue pill and the red pill is the belief in loveThe trouble with that, and with TRP, is that even if it were true that love isn't real, the red pill margins for who pairs off with whom are too narrow. Average looking people pair off with average looking people every single day. I've never witnessed an average looking woman chasing desperately after the best looking men, unless they're fangirling over a celebrity. Nor have I ever known of a friend of mine being "pumped and dumped" by a very good looking man. Indeed, the best looking men in my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?No, it's based on both police reports and victimization surveys. Which still doesn't cover the entire population of women. You're just quoting all the classic victim blaming responses. It's boring now tbh, watching men who wish they had the guts to rape a woman, defend men who do. You do realise you're advertising that you think women deserve to be raped, right? Of course rapists target the kind of women who are out of their league. The women who wouldn't look twice at their sick, sorry asses. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:18 PM |
| 7 | Does being not like the other girls (nlog) gives you an advantage in the dating market?But what alot of men mean, I've come to realize, is that a woman having ambition for herself (regardless if what a man is doing) and proud of herself for doing it is competitive. Even if she is in a completely different line of work. 100% this! Not just men you're romantically involved with either. Those I've learned to sift out quite easily. My own father and brother often feel the need to "bring her down a peg or two", though I've done nothing other than gain another academic or professional a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:05 PM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?Only 5% of women have been sexually assaulted by a stranger. That is only the reported cases though. The truth is that we're not going to go running to the police every time a random man walks up behind you, has a squeeze of your bum, and scurries off out of sight. Or if he takes advantage of being in a crowd to rub his entire body against you, either making you aware of his hard on, or cop a feel of your breast/bum/crotch as he does so. When this happens we are usually stunned. By the time you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Does being not like the other girls (nlog) gives you an advantage in the dating market?Because I have been in alot of situations where men have tried to covertly/subconsciously take me down a notch just for being myself. Which indicates some level of intimidation on their part. I felt this, in my soul. I had an ex who, while I was taking a break from uni work, and looking out of the window, suddenly accused me of thinking about how much smarter I was than him. He quickly became hysterical, ranting and raging about how much more intelligent I thought I was, and he could do my degre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Does being not like the other girls (nlog) gives you an advantage in the dating market?I don't consider myself NLOG because, frankly, I have had no issue finding other women who like the same things as me (fantasy, sci-fi, comics etc). There are plenty of women who love these things and we are friends due to these shared interests. However, when I met my partner on OLD his profile had the question "Have you ever heard the tragedy of Darth Plagueis the wise?" So my first message to him was that it was a Sith legend and not something the Jedi would have taught me. He kinda shit-test… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 11:08 AM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?We're not afraid of a healthy debate in our relationship. So if there were anything he agreed with he'd have brought it up. He's also raising his two daughters, so his thinking is about the kind of men they'll encounter when they're older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 08:49 AM |
| 9 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)Dude, up until recent history men were selling their daughters off to the highest bidder in order to make a profit and/or advance their social standing. This is still the case in some circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:41 PM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?I had my BF look through this sub the other day. He was shocked and asked "WTF is wrong with these men?!" 😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:26 PM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?Both can be true. I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful man. I have had many bad experiences with men, and I continue to have bad experiences with men when my partner isn't around. Random men saying rude stuff, following me or grabbing me is a common occurrance when I'm out and about without my BF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Women are only attracted to guys they have nsa sex withNo, we're not. Why are you so focused on high school? We adults have moved on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?I've found that if I don't sleep with a woman within 2-3 dates, then she isn't going to be interested anymore. This happens to me too. It's what I mean about weeding out the people who aren't demisexual. They lose interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?If she isn't willing to wait then she isn't right for you. It took me a couple of times to learn that. It's so important to be on the same page with sex and when you're ready for that. There are plenty of demisexual women out there. If it's important to you, put it on your profile that you're demisexual and looking for someone else who is demisexual. There are likely spaces for demi people to date other demi people. Have a look at online communities for demisexual people. I've never needed them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 09:59 AM |
| 5 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?All the normal ways of dating. I'm not even tempted to have sex until there's an emotional connection. So it takes me longer in the dating process to sleep with someone. That weeds out all the people who aren't demisexual, they give up when they realise I'm not ready for sex as soon as they are. So the men I'm left with those who are forming an emotional connection with me before sex. I met my current partner on bumble. We were talking for 6 weeks before we even went on a first date (we're sligh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Demisexuality is basically only being able to feel attraction to a person you have an emotional connection with. Everyone else, there's nothing. They're just people. No sexual attraction at all. I've never struggled to find Demisexual men to date. But I guess that's because nobody else stands a chance. They weed themselves out and the the men left standing are the ones who genuinely want an emotional connection with me. But once the connection is there? It doesn't matter what he looks like. He's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 11:54 PM |
| 3 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?I'm demisexual so if I have feelings for someone then they are the most desirable man I know. They're beautiful. I tend to only date other demisexuals (we attract each other as we have the same mindset towards dating and sex). So luckily I get both. People aren't absolutes though. There will be things you don't love about both your partners looks and personality. There will be amazing things that you love about both their looks and personality. So this isn't really a valid question because that'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Porn addition being bad for men is one of the few topics that TRP & FDS agree onI don't feel that's the case at all. I see many women with men who aren't as attractive or successful as them. Some are happy, some are not. It's up to an individual to protect themselves from, and later manage, an addiction. Is it still women's fault if a man has a gambling addiction? Would her playing cards with him have stopped him going to the casino in the first place? No, that's ridiculous. Addicts are attracted to whatever addiction they end up with. That's why they are drawn to it. It do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 10:38 PM |
| 12 | Porn addition being bad for men is one of the few topics that TRP & FDS agree onIt's not watching porn and the occasional w-nk that women have an issue with. It's porn addiction. Porn addiction is on the rise, and it sets unrealistic expectations of sex and the relationship. Plus being with someone who has any kind of addiction, be it alcohol, gambling, porn etc, makes the the relationship much more difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?Exactly. Chemistry is intangible, therefore difficult to measure. It's certainly not something you can tell by looking at a photo of someone, whether that's OLD or seeing photos of your partners ex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?We broke up lol. I was 19, clearly not my best decision making years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?Absolutely they would. I think it's that they've become enraged that they're not receiving the female adoration they feel entitled to. I know plenty of men who aren't traditionally handsome but are popular with women because they treat us with respect. No man is going to get anywhere with "OmG! YoU'rE aLl So CrAzY tHiNkInG mEn WiLl AtTaCk YoU, eVeN tHoUgH mEn HaVe aTtAcKeD yOu!! ShArEd PsYcHoSis!!! Blah blah blah". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 23 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?No. I got married at 19, and he was a model. He was a decent, thoughtful, lover. But it was good sex, not amazing sex. Nobody I've been with since has been as objectively attractive as him. Though I have had much better sexual chemistry with other partners since. Chemistry is FAR more important than looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 11:12 AM |
| 6 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?and your experience is a common one That was my point, thank you for articulating it for me. I'm not some special male violence magnet. This is the world all women live in. We've all had similar experiences. He doesn't seem to have realised that though. And continues to invalidate women's justified wariness with men. He's shooting himself in the foot because women will be even less attracted to a man who refuses to believe their experiences and invalidates their cautiousness with men. This minds… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?I just think you don't have one over on me. You're the one that started the trauma game, it's hilarious that you get offended when you find out you're talking to someone who doesn't think your shit doesn't still stink and has justifiable reason to. The thing is though, I'm not the one thinking I've got the raw end of the stick in life. You are. I have every reason to fear men. I still go ahead and live my life. If you'd feel 'relieved' and 'safer', then you're a fuckin asshole. So you think all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 09:44 AM |
| -2 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?I can't sympathise with you either. I can't stand people who think they've always got it worse than others. Pick yourself up and join some clubs if you're lonely ffs. I did, and life is better for it. I was shopping with my male partner. Clearly I'm not thinking all men are monsters, nor do I feel they should be ostracised. The question was asked how women would feel if men ignored us. I'd feel relieved. I'd feel safer. I'd feel at peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 3 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?When women suffer violent attentions from strangers at anything close to the rate men do, I'll grant you this. How many violent interactions have you had with men? Three times men have grabbed me on the street and tried to drag me somewhere they could rape me. I was punched in the face by the last man I said no to in a nightclub. Another grabbed my wrist and twisted it until it was sprained, because I said no. A male nurse sedated and violently raped me while I was his patient (the bruising and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 17 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?it'd be more like not knowing what you have until it's gone. Which is exactly what you're doing in your reply. You have no idea what it's like to be sexually harassed every single day. To not feel safe walking to the shop alone. Today my partner and I went grocery shopping. He needed the bathroom so I started shopping without him. An older man followed me from aisle to aisle and "accidentally" bumped in to my cart on every single aisle as an excuse to start talking to me. I even went out of my w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Women slut shame each other more than menThere was no personal attack. Culture exists, odd of you to imply that it doesn't. Odd of you to be trying to apply what was likely logical hundreds of years ago to modern day life too. But sure, I'll tell my BF that I will accept nothing less than a freshly hunted wooly mammoth for dinner tomorrow because that's still a thing. Slut shaming is most rampant in patriarchal societies and institutions (such as religions). Therefore it is still hatred created by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Women slut shame each other more than menI think much of this is cultural. From your writing it's clear that English isn't your first language, though I won't invade your privacy by asking which part of the world you're talking about. I do not agree that women hate "sluts" more than men in the less misogynistic cultures. So long as it doesn't impact our own romantic relationships, we don't really care about who any other woman is sleeping with. It's part of feminism. In the more patriarchal cultures, yes, I've seen the nastiness that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 03:50 PM |
| 7 | To women who have had multiple shorter-term relationships and are now in long-term committed relationships, who did you give your "best sex" to?Always, without fail, the best sex is between two people who love and appreciate each other, and care about each others needs and pleasure in bed. One night stands and flings are usually rubbish because you don't know each others bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 13 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?I had this argument with them a few weeks back. Apparently, if you marry them when you're under 25, they'll emotionally bond to you and always see you as the beautiful 25 year old they married. That's not how I've seen it play out. The 25 ship loooooooooong sailed for me. So it doesn't matter to me anyway. But I wouldn't recommend any under 25 year old woman take that gamble. If that's his view on women then it will always be his view. He'll cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Any takes on Amber Heard using a surrogate and sperm donor?Fertility is always a tricky one. We have no idea why she chose that. She's likely had testing, maybe there are some genetic issues that she'd rather not pass down. Maybe she's got PCOS or Endometriosis. It could be so many different things. Who knows. But it's a very personal choice with a million reasons as to why it may be made. So I assume that's why there isn't much talk about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 08:34 AM |
| 40 | Guys Always Seem to Think I’m So in Love with Them I Won’t Cut Ties, Even When I Hated ThemOh gosh... this. I've stopped being nice to men now. I've also stopped telling them what upsets me and just pulling back or withdrawing entirely. It's a waste of my time and energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 32 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I know. But he hid it very well with lots of compliments, sweet gifts etc. He gaslit me out of my gut feeling. Thank you. I'm glad I'm out too, but I'm glad it happened. It was the catalyst to my healing. If I was easy prey to a psycho like him, I needed to change that. He used to email me every NYE to thank me for saving his life and whine about having HIV. I've always ignored him, but last NYD I replied and told him to shut up plenty of people live with chronic illness and that his emails to m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:52 PM |
| 32 | This scrote changed his height on a dating app to get more matches. When he inevitably got more matches he became upset and blamed the dating app for being ‘unfair’ for short men 🌚Sooooooo this. Men are allowed preferences on height, face, boobs,hips, bums, legs, weight, noses, hair colour, and so much more. Women have a preference for one of these and men have meltdowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 94 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Oh god, I was groomed to be a pickme with men by my NVM dad. All of my relationships were varying degrees of pickme until the one that broke me. We met on Tinder 🤡 I wasn't very attracted to him 🤡 First date was drinks 🤡 second was Netflix and chill 🤡 I could tell he was unwell and had lost weight. Made him get tested before unprotected sex (I had an IUD). He stealthed me on a Sunday. He was told he was HIV+ the next day. I took PEP and didn't contract it. When I tested negative he punched a wal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 43 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.But now I need new lampshades. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 7 | 🟢 Green Flag: He treats you like the stranger you are 🟢Love this! I had this with my current (likely) HVM. It was a slow burn getting to know each other. And it was a bit boring at first, just like talking to any stranger would be. But that eventually led in to 4hr phonecalls every evening getting to know each other, then after a week of that it led to him asking to take me on a date, and it's gone from there. I can see such a big difference to the lovebombing other men have tried with me. Though my other relationships have mostly been men I was fri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:17 AM |
| 7 | UK ladies - you can check if your partner has a history of domestic violence through Clare's Law.Absolutely. I wouldn't usually take the risk of telling him, but I was confident in his response. He has kids too, so there's aspect to consider too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:42 AM |
| 3 | UK ladies - you can check if your partner has a history of domestic violence through Clare's Law.I'm so glad you're out of the situation now! I was very lucky 15 years ago when my ex was stalking me, the police took it very seriously. But I know its not the case for everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:39 AM |
| 37 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesWe no longer speak lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:27 AM |
| 19 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:01 AM |
| 35 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.Oh god, I am so very aware lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:01 AM |
| 17 | "Oh, the veriety is so big now theres OLD, you have to be decisive."This is so true. Lol imagine disagreeing with "it's good to get to know someone before you're intimate" SO MUCH that you send the reddit suicide message. That's so sad 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:55 AM |
| 20 | Believing your gut feeling the first time is crucialYes, exactly this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 214 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.This doesn't surprise me in the slightest. Before current BF I've only ever dated one man with kids and he tried to put a lot on me. Luckily he left me for another woman (whom he met while I was looking after his kids). I didn't mind though, as I was planning to end things and it made it easier. Now she's living with him and his kids, who he has full time. She was very "cool girl" though, putting up with a lot from him and tolerating a heap ton of flaws and ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 45 | They don't know him like you do.This is so very true. Intimacy is a warts and all deal. Most people hide their warts from everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 20 | UK ladies - you can check if your partner has a history of domestic violence through Clare's Law.Useful to know! I couldn't find any info on what it provides and doesn't provide. I think it's deliberately vague. I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this, it doesn't sound like a good situation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:36 PM |
| 100 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesOff I go down the rabbit hole... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 190 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesUgh, my brother does that, deliberately. To make sure I never get to speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:32 PM |
| 91 | UK ladies - you can check if your partner has a history of domestic violence through Clare's Law.So, I'm just about to do this check on my potential HVM. I have zero doubts about him, he's never displayed anything other than gentleness in the months I've known him. I'm getting it done for my closest friends peace of mind, who has been the victim of severe domestic violence. I explained to my boyfriend that I was getting it done and why. I had to ask for his previous two addresses. One of which this kids live at, and I couldn't think of another valid reason to ask for his kids (and ex wife's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 35 | Gentle men are so attractiveOmg, thats adorable! My boy cat is not much of a cuddler but he's fallen head over heels for my current guy. Sleeps on his socks. Runs to see him. Talks to him endlessly, and my man loves him to bits too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 60 | Pick-me glorifies female oppression & slavery in the third world under the guise of protection of women.Well she's allowed to post on the Internet, which is already more than these women have. She doesn't have a clue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:08 PM |
| 7 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄It depends on how a young woman has been raised. There are many cultures, and many households, where the dad's word is law. That's tough to break from mentally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 25 | Another reason why 50/50 is bullsh*t: PERIOD PAINNo, chewing the tablet, and letting it dissolve in your mouth, stops you vomiting it up. The sweet helps with the horrible flavour of chewing the tablet. Hope that helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 63 | Another reason why 50/50 is bullsh*t: PERIOD PAINI pray and pray that I don't vomit, because then I'd throw up the painkillers, which I desperately need to work. I live with chronic pain which often flares and I also feel (and am) sick with the pain. I also have endometriosis, so I also get very painful periods. I've learned to chew my painkillers and let them dissolve in my mouth rather than risk vomiting them back up. They also get in to your blood stream and work faster this way. They taste disgusting so I make sure to have a hard boiled sw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 11:05 AM |
| 6 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄It's only ever about getting access to women's bodies for them. It's all a lie to get sex. Then they'll ditch you when they realise that you need something more from them because they're simply not capable of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:56 AM |
| 75 | Things that I noticed in LovebombingPlease don't hate yourself if you ever get lovebombed. Lovebombing can be so subtle and normalized. Maybe you got lovebombed when you weren't equipped with the knowledge about it nor you were on the best version of yourself. I have to fall twice before I understand and realized just how the lovebombing worked. Thank you for saying this. I get uncomfortable sometimes with the pickme hate. We're all recovering pickmes in some way, shape or form. Otherwise we wouldn't need FDS. While I agree it's p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:23 AM |
| 9 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄He won't get it, but other women reading the sub who may have taken their statements to heart, may benefit from seeing how flawed the "logic" of their hate is. Especially their target audience of young women. I'm so glad I grew up in a time where the Internet didn't exist, incels wasn't even a word, and men couldn't get away with this nonsense. In my younger pickme days I would have internalised their hate. Luckily I'm waaaaaaay past their target audience age so IDGAF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Why did we stop?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:15 AM |
| 73 | “… way more benefits from you being my slave.” 🤬I'm screaming internally for this girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:34 AM |
| 152 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮"Given" is the word that got me too. How fucking dare he?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 65 | I subscribe to FDS values because I refuse to accept any form of abuse from any man.I know! They don't seem to understand that by getting angry about us wanting to be treated well in a relationship, they're showing that they know most men treat women badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 47 | I subscribe to FDS values because I refuse to accept any form of abuse from any man.Exactly! 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:43 PM |
| 264 | I subscribe to FDS values because I refuse to accept any form of abuse from any man.100% this!! We aren't very radical here really. We just want to be with a man who will treat us well. Anyone who takes offence to that clearly wouldn't treat us well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Journalists are a special kind of vulturesOK, I get that your profession is being attacked, and you're feeling defensive. But the commenter said that English isn't their first language and we all know that in some countries what this commenter is saying is very easily the truth. So I don't think we can criticise without knowing what the news outlets are like in their country. In my country, the UK, there is a fairly equal balance. There are some outstanding ethical journalists (including two close friends). But I've also had some awful … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:12 PM |
| 5 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vile😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 33 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄No, because there's the love spell of marriage that makes husbands still see their wives as 25 years old. But if you don't marry them, no love spell, so they can only see you as deformed old hags. So you should marry them and provide endless sex, even though they will resent you for being a woman. Or something. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:30 PM |
| 62 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄That's the woman's fault because the only reason a man would ever, ever EVER cheat on his wife is if she were "insufferable" because AlL wOmEn GeT MoRe SeX tHaN mEn. It's a neverending victim loop with these guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 95 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄Believe it or not, this is their argument for getting married before you're 25. Apparently your emotional bond with your husband will cast some sort of spell over him where he'll always see you as 25. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 78 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄Basically it's that women are evil and only good for a pump and dump, not commitment, after 25. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 118 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄BuT tHeY'rE aLwAyS tHe ViCtImS oF bAd WoMenS! It's the woman's fault he cheats, because she's "insufferable". Of course. It has nothing to do with his weak, pathetic, fragile male ego. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 33 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Ugh, all of this is so foul I can't form any words. Ugh ugh ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:45 PM |
| 59 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄Lol I always have agreed 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 121 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄I know, I just think it's funny how they'll totally victimise themselves, even contradicting themselves to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 2 | If women will get older and men will always prefer younger women, why should women prioritize marriage?It's the same with a man. Women love commitment. We want to be married to our best friend. If we're leaving a long term relationship its because we've tried everything to make it work with that man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 174 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileYeah, they're utter scum. Best to ignore ass holes like that or, as they say, they become more popular and get more traffic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:40 PM |
| 573 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileNot even that he says it. Not even that it made it to YT. There were other people in that room. There were producers and editors involved in the process. And they all thought that posting this was OK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:24 PM |
| 101 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileUgh I saw this yesterday. Imagine having raised that scumbag? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | If women will get older and men will always prefer younger women, why should women prioritize marriage?Really? Because we're constantly told, on this very sub, that we are completely and utterly unfuckable, unwanted and worthless after 25 years old. That men age like wine, women like milk. That what we have to offer won't be wanted because we'll be old and unlovable by all men. I'm not sure the guys on this sub get to say that, without any other men correcting them, then turn around and play victim that they won't get as much sex as the women who've hit the wall. If you take issue with this theor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | If women will get older and men will always prefer younger women, why should women prioritize marriage?No, because i understand that men and women are different, the opportunity for women to have sexual or romantic opportunities with men is far greater, so the standard is not the same. But if she's hit The Wall then her sexual opportunities are lesser than that of a man. So that can't be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?I'm not in the US, but it's definitely rare where I'm from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 08:30 AM |
| 25 | “If she doesn’t put out by the third date, she’s not into you bro.”I'm the same, I realised that I'm demisexual a few years back. It means you have to have an emotionally intimate relationship with someone in order to find them sexually attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:45 AM |
| 91 | Tired of getting ads for cheap engagement rings and society telling me I have to lower my standards for essentially costume jewelryI don't think good quality jewellery is as affordable as it was in our grandparents day. Though that's no reason not to get something unique and beautiful. Costs in terms of housing, education and childrearing have exploded, while salaries haven't risen as steeply. Basically I don't think jewellery is the investment it once was, nor does it give the financial security should anything happen to the husband as it once did. None of that is an excuse to cheap out though. If men are using the above a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | I'm SICK of hearing about how the rise of incels, and that"Inceldom" is a new strange modern phenomenon. IT'S NOT.Totally agree. I think it's similar to pedophiles, in that the Internet has given them a place to meet likeminded individuals, spew their hate to each other and amp each other up and find victims easier. Maybe it makes it seem as though there are more because now they spill the thoughts in their head on the Internet. But the Internet didn't create pedos and incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:24 AM |
| 39 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:16 AM |
| 17 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsTraitor is exactly the right word. I had no idea she was so vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:12 AM |
| 28 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)True 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?It's rare in my country, very much so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 03:08 AM |
| 15 | Grooming a child at 24 and using guns and other weapons to act out his violent.urges on her but "it was just a fear play fetish."Did you read the entire text in the picture? She's a 22 year old who is talking about the sexual abuse she was victim to when she was 13 years old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:06 AM |
| 6 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsNo idea, it was my best guess as to why she'd be harassing his victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 128 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)Why don't these young men join the army if they need a "path" and "something to strive for"? And how is that women's fault? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 69 | Grooming a child at 24 and using guns and other weapons to act out his violent.urges on her but "it was just a fear play fetish."She was 13. She was a child who was groomed to think this was OK in her formative years. I don't think that counts as a pickme, if I'm honest, and I'm uncomfortable with a child sexual assault victim being called stupid. She's not stupid, she's been brainwashed. Her survival instincts were hacked as a child, by an abuser. I can't feel anything other than compassion for this young lady. I hope she gets the help she so desperately needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:13 PM |
| 62 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.I just want to give you a big hug and tell you everything is going to be OK. I'm so sorry you had this experience. You deserve a relationship in which you're cherished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 29 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsIt seems to be Minaj spearheading it though. If I had to guess, I'd say she wants him to travel with her while she works but his sex register status makes it difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 58 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?There is the world of difference between someone who plays video games and someone who identifies as "a gamer". I think it's the latter that you find repulsive. Someone who plays video games prioritises it accordingly. It is a hobby, like any other, to be enjoyed for a couple of hours a week during their down time, after work, family, friendship, household chores and general life stuff. The games they play are usually world-building, puzzle and story games. Being a Gamer is an identity, and a to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 263 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsShe entered in to a relationship with a convicted sexual offender, who admitted and plead guilty to attempted rape. That's bad enough. But to then bully and harass his victim to pretend it didn't happen is insane. Why?? It's not as though it would erase his confession or conviction, or the time he served. What would minaj gain from the victim taking back her statement? Is it to do with him being around their kid as a registered sex offender? Travelling with minaj's work as a registered sex offen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 13 | break up reminder100% this! I've stayed too long in relationships I'm unhappy in and it's made me ill each time. Never again. Ugh, I had the care messages last week. Ended up requesting that I no longer recieve them. Scrotes be scroting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:02 PM |
| 16 | Breakfast first date?My city is quite famous for fancy brunches, and I'm not an early riser so that suits me. But I think a nice breakfast is a good idea tbh. So long as its nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 10 | In a Happy Relationship with my Twin Flame and Wanted to Share…Your twin flame is beautiful though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:14 AM |
| 7 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?I've worked in nursing homes most of my career. Mostly kids are visiting their parents every day. It's rare for people not to visit their parents at the very least twice a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?OK, so maybe a better phrasing would be "I only have sex within a committed relationship and I'm looking for a partner who shares this value with me"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 07:02 AM |
| 7 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?There are still plenty of single people in every age bracket. I'm 40 and have been single a couple of years with countless potential suitors. I was in high demand. Found a guy worth taking myself off the market for earlier this year. Zero settling. In fact, he's my favourite of all the people I've ever been in a relationship with. Partly because I know myself and what I want better now. Partly because we're both more mature and experienced with relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?It's not about box ticking for me. My only criteria is "does being with this person add joy to my life?". If the answer is yes, then yay! They can stay. If not, begone foul beast. Obviously there will be tough situations and bad times to navigate, but if you can still answer that life is better with that person in than without, that's who you should be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?Are you the kind of person to only have sex as part of a LTR too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 100 | What's a Killer Supposed to Look Like? Matthew Taylor Coleman confessed to murdering his two children, and, of course, reports of the crime have to insist he was an otherwise good guyThe thing is, it's the neighbours saying this, not his wife. They likely didn't see the signs because they happened behind closed doors. I find the "I barely knew the person but they seemed polite" interviews absolutely pointless. It adds nothing to the story because all of us seem very normal, and all of us could be hiding bodies under our patio. There are always signs that only those close to the person will see. Later we'll hear from family and close friends that there were many signs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:43 PM |
| 5 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?Same. I'm 40 now and recently met someone. We've both learned from past marriages and are much more prepared for what a long term relationship requires than we were in our 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 10:19 PM |
| 5 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?I'm 40 now and, actually, I did settle down and have kids who are now teens. I'm no longer with their dad, but we coparent well. There are loads of single men my age. I couldn't keep up with how many suitors I had. One I really clicked with though and we're a couple now. As for my plans? Well, I'm still having fun... In the sense that I travel, enjoy time with family and friends, enjoy the theatre, theme parks, gym, hiking, nights out, paddle boarding, and anything else that brings me joy. I pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 10:10 PM |
| 13 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?There are millions of people who've met their partners later in life. No matter what age you are, there are single people in your age bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 117 | Why LVM love walk/hike/coffee datesI'm 100% behind the screening calls. I insist on them. You can't tell enough from a few texts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 123 | I don't even know how to describe this, why are men the way they areThis makes me so very sad for all the women involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 57 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?My aunt met her "forever" at 54. There will be other single people in the same age bracket as you, no matter how old you are. Nobody has to, or should, settle. It's just a recipe for misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 7 | New moms get less sleep and it's linked to aging... what do you think? They only studied women, but where are the dads helping out?Even since the breakup, my ex will spend as much of his free time with the kids as possible. He has them every day off he has (he shift works now so not always weekends). He'll pop over and spend an hour playing video games with them in their room every evening (I don't mind him being here), or he'll take the dog out for a walk with them, or take them out for an ice cream (and bring me one back). I've been seriously ill in hospital a few times since the breakup, he's had no issue looking after t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 10 | Banned from another dating subSame! I got banned from contacting the mods too. Apparently it's run by men. I don't trust a group for women that's run by men. Sketchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:40 PM |
| 273 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!What a freaking sicko. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 95 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?Yes, helping a man to cheat on his wife is totally supporting women..... 🙄 The lies some women tell themselves is downright ludicrous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:15 AM |
| 16 | New moms get less sleep and it's linked to aging... what do you think? They only studied women, but where are the dads helping out?In the end he and I didn't work out. But I can't fault him as a father, he's completely devoted to the kids, even though they're grumpy teens now. When vetting a man as a future dad, I think it's more important to note how kids react to him, than how he reacts to kids. Kids can tell if someone is being fake nice to them and are weirded out by it. But if kids react well to your man (babies smile at them, young kids want to show them their toys, have a book read by them etc) then he's got good dad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:56 AM |
| 31 | Banned from another dating subI have been banned from a sub for "feminists" for no good reason. I asked why and they said that my comment (didn't even mention FDS or any of our principles) didn't make sense. I'm very articulate so that's unlikely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else have a low value male father?Yes, 100%... Have a look at my post history, I cut my NVM father out of my life in May. My dad also has a son and of course he was the little Prince. Little prince has never had a job and is a heroin addict. He grew up believing he was entitled to the best for his mediocrity and when he found out that the world doesn't work that way, just decided not to bother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:28 AM |
| 57 | New moms get less sleep and it's linked to aging... what do you think? They only studied women, but where are the dads helping out?Find a man who loves babies. My kids dad loved kids and babies, was great with his nephew and always got smiles out of babies when we were out and about. When we had our kids, he couldn't get enough time with them. Straight from work all he wanted to do was be with the kids. He loved it. I'd make dinner while he would play with the kids. Then he'd take them and get them ready for bed and I'd have a long, luxurious bath with my book. Every single evening. I usually got up in the night with them b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:11 AM |
| 131 | What do good sex and a good sense of humor have in common?There is nothing better than when a man can genuinely make you laugh, and genuinely make you cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:59 AM |
| 3 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…I'm so glad your husband buys you appropriate jewellery! I also have my nans beautiful emerald ring, though I don't wear it as its my daughters birth stone so I'm saving it for her. I have my mums engagement ring too, but it's a bit sad next to my nans stuff. I know how sad it made my mother to have inferior rings to her mother. She stopped wearing her own when my nan passed, and wore nans instead. Since she's also passed, I'll always keep her ring, but it's tainted with sadness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.I'm thankful too. I'm glad you got away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 104 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.Imagine living in a world where a man thought it was OK to find his teenage daughter attractive, because he wouldn't act on his desires for her... And thought it was OK to post those thoughts on the Internet... Fuck. We do actually live in that world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.Also thank you for being happy lol. I'm happy too ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 3 | After being told by men more than once that my standards were "too high", last weekend I got given the proposal and ring of my dreams by a man who meets those standards!Aw gorgeous ring and what a sweet display for it! Congratulations! ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.Lol it indeed was sexy. And very, very sweet of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 114 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…I've inherited my grandmother's stunning (expensive) engagement ring. So it can't be inferior to that it would just look silly. Oh well 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.He sounds simply awful. At least you weren't dating him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:02 PM |
| 9 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.Sorry, UK slang for negging, I guess. To make you feel as though it's abnormal to have men pay for dates, so you must be doing it wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:57 AM |
| 25 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.Ugh, the worst is he likely understood courtship but was playing dumb to "show you up". Ugh. I've never been properly courted the way current guy is courting me. I chose to cook tonight because of my health goals and because I actually love cooking. My man, even after buying the expensive gin, said "you don't have to cook if you don't want to. I can order us a takeaway". But I said I was happy to cook. He washed up as I went, and poured the G&Ts. It was really nice to treat him for a change, tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 47 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.It's a scarcity mindset, similar to those who have literally no gold will be calling women gold diggers. The less they have to offer, the more "bang for their buck" they want. A HVM can afford to be generous with his time, compassion, understanding, affection, acceptance, love and, yes, resources. I cooked dinner for my (potential but increasingly likely) HVM tonight. He turned up and surprised me with my favourite (expensive) bottle of gin, in my favourite flavour. It cost 10X what the ingredie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Facts. Straight up facts.I think it's been this way long before porn. Women were expected to fulfil their "wifely duties" but nobody was teaching men how to please a woman. There are books from the 40s/50s which instructed women to let out a small gasp to indicate that she'd orgasmed (obvs she hadn't) so that her husband could feel good about finishing. The man's pleasure has always been prioritised at the expense of the woman's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 25 | Men's selfishness really knows no boundsUgh, I was talking to a guy a while back and my grandfather died. He barely acknowledged it and the next day was asking for photos because "it would be nice to see what you look like currently". Mark, my grandfather died yesterday. I am sobbing and sleep deprived. What the fuck? So I blocked and deleted him. He found another way to reach out and I told him that I'll never be able to get past how insensitive he was and to leave me alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Facts. Straight up facts.Dude I'm 40 and I just found this guy. I can relate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Facts. Straight up facts.Perfect, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:08 PM |
| 4 | I did it, thanks to FDSI'm so happy for you that you got away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:53 AM |
| 17 | Facts. Straight up facts.Being touch starved is a big issue. Especially since the pandemic, but even before that. Female friends have admitted they do hookups just to get the obligatory cuddle afterwards. I've always come across as maternal, so my female friends have often just scooched up to me on the sofa and snuggled up to me. I've never invited it, they just do. I don't mind though, it's better than them hooking up with some weirdo just so someone will hug them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:40 AM |
| 7 | Facts. Straight up facts.The doctors name is in the picture. She's a sexuality psychologist. She's the source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Facts. Straight up facts.As I said above, I think this is in the context of SSRIs inhibiting orgasm, and the idea that despite this, intimacy and sensuality should not be taken off the table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:33 AM |
| 52 | LVM love to complain about high body counts but can’t help talking about how desperately horny they are when you just started talking to them. As if you are supposed to help them fix that.I, too, have always been attracted to a good paradox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 07:45 PM |
| 51 | Facts. Straight up facts.I'm so embarrassed for all the men who are Big Mad and trying to comment on this. It's a scientific study my dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 07:19 PM |
| 63 | Facts. Straight up facts.Yup, it's ridiculous. Sadly it was a woman who posted this. I think the context of this is that SSRIs inhibit one's ability to orgasm, but that doesn't mean that intimacy and sensuality should be taken off the table. Which is a fair point. But that's not cause for an argument against orgasms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 89 | Facts. Straight up facts.Oh this is just awful. I mean, yes, sex can be pleasurable without an orgasm every time. But orgasms are awesome and I want them whenever I can get them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:29 PM |
| 69 | Facts. Straight up facts.Please, please, please link to it. I need to read this scrotery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 98 | Facts. Straight up facts.Her own research, she's a sexuality psychologist https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 137 | Facts. Straight up facts.It's not, the opposite is standard. I'm so glad you've had a good experience! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:36 PM |
| 118 | LVM love to complain about high body counts but can’t help talking about how desperately horny they are when you just started talking to them. As if you are supposed to help them fix that.Yup, you can't win with this type of guy so it's best not to engage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:56 PM |
| 113 | Facts. Straight up facts.Yup, for LVM it just isn't worth the effort. They get off either way so they don't care. A HVM enjoys pleasing his woman in bed. He wants to give his woman pleasure. Its a point of pride when he gives his woman an orgasm. He enjoys it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:55 PM |
| 305 | Facts. Straight up facts.It doesn't have to be that way. I'm still vetting, but I'm a few months in with a potential HVM and he always, without fail, gives me at least one orgasm, usually more, before he even thinks about penetration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:52 PM |
| 191 | Facts. Straight up facts.Exactly! I commented on another post yesterday that men just can't care about women's pleasure unless their dick is involved. And even then their own pleasure comes first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 247 | LVM love to complain about high body counts but can’t help talking about how desperately horny they are when you just started talking to them. As if you are supposed to help them fix that.Yup, they want a woman with a low body count who will fuck them instantly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 69 | Facts. Straight up facts.Same lol. And thankfully so is my man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 219 | Facts. Straight up facts.Yup "wOmEnS dOn'T kNoW hOw ThEy BoDiEs WoRkS" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:53 AM |
| 8 | Scrotes madShape is very individual, as we're all differently shaped too. I think it's the "how you use it" part that is the emphasis of the sentence tbh. There are ways men with small dicks could pleasure their woman with it, but just.... Don't. There are lots of ways for a man to make a woman orgasm but just.... Don't. You're right, it's the selfishness of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | If he wanted to, he would! 😊This is utterly adorable ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…This is why I'm dating a younger man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:52 AM |
| 52 | Scrotes madTotally agree. I've read entire threads where men are talking about positions that will "rock her world", but the mere mention of the clitoris is immediately dismissed. Basic anatomy. Some men just can't contemplate the idea of giving a woman sexual pleasure when their dick isn't involved. Luckily I'm seeing someone who always, without fail, starts by giving me oral until I orgasm. Those are the kind of dudes who get regular sex. Yet some men just don't understand it at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 48 | Scrotes madSo very true. Size doesn't really matter because penetrative sex isn't how most women orgasm anyway. I agree that it's a mindset issue. If I were lacking in that department I'd rock a woman's world in other ways. But, for whatever reason, men don't think that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 11 | Lately I feel disgusted when men approach meI was walking, very drunk, one night with a male friend. A guy approached saying I was gorgeous, beautiful, and asked my male friend if I was his GF. Male friend didn't miss a beat and said "actually she's my wife". Now, in my drunkenness I thought "shit, have I married Mark?!" (fake name obvs). But the guy left us alone, which was exactly why my friend said it. Now I always say I'm married if I'm not interested. It's much more of a deterrent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 378 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayShe's in grad school. She's exhausted, and instead of being supportive, he's screaming at her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:57 AM |
| 17 | Men on Reddit hate FDS because they know they’re LVMYup!! Their only cope is to imagine us as ogres 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Ugh, expect?I'm utterly repulsed by him and his ilk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:41 AM |
| 23 | Ugh, expect?Weird that he focuses on puberty, literal children, inserting objects in their vaginas first. Like, is he saying that these children should be sexually available to him and other men like him?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 52 | Men on Reddit hate FDS because they know they’re LVMI know!! Imagine being an adult and having that mindset. An adult. And then just straight up admitting, on the Internet, that you're awful at sex and it must somehow be the womans fault! And mocking a woman for saying "um, that's not how our bodies work and I'd quite like an orgasm too". Yup! The fat thing is such a weird flex. Being fit and healthy is literally in our handbook. You'd think people obsessed with this sub would know that. I know nothing about discord, but now I need to find out ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:26 PM |
| 118 | Men on Reddit hate FDS because they know they’re LVMPlease have a look at my comment history. There's a guy mocking one of the posts from here about sex (don't flock to comment though as that could cause issues for FDS). It's a hilarious read. This guy straight up admits being bad at sex, but tries to put all the blame on women. The comments are full of LVM ranting about how we women must be doing sex wrong, and it's not their fault at all for avoiding the clitoris and going straight to penetration. 🤦 I shouldn't have commented really, but I coul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:05 PM |
| 66 | Ugh, expect?Like, there's an entire freaking film about a guy fucking an apple pie... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:58 PM |
| 32 | Ugh, expect?🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 125 | "dO yOu eXpEcT A mAn tO pAy FoR EvErYtHinG fOrEvEr": How Women Talk Themselves Out of Following FDS Standards By Creating Imaginary Problems.Every guy thinks he wants a woman who goes 50/50. Very few men respect a woman who goes 50/50. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:15 AM |
| 7 | We need to begin calling “negging” abuse.Incredibly true. I hate negging, I think it's a really cruel practice, as is dreadgaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYep, still vetting... Not let my guard down yet. But I'm just savouring enjoying dating, rather that it being a space where I have to constantly protect myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.No, absolutely, but It honestly makes no difference to me if a guy is short except for how he treats me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:53 PM |
| 16 | Say NO to bonding over past traumaThere's an old saying that goes something like "don't tell your man your problems, that's what your girlfriends are for". And it's a misogynistic old saying but there's definitely some truth to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:57 AM |
| 225 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.I'm short, so almost every man is taller than me. You'd think, then, that it wouldn't matter if I date short guys. Wrong. But not because they're short (they're taller than me anyway), but because every shorter guy I've dated has taken his insecurities out on me and made me feel like dirt. I'm not especially attracted to men over 5ft 10 anyway, because our height difference is just silly beyond that point. But the taller dudes always, always, always treat me better. It's a self fulfilling prophe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:47 AM |
| 68 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI think I've met a HVM. We've been taking it very slowly. He's kind, consistent, affectionate, funny, responsible, caring, intelligent, open with his emotions and we've really clicked. He's planned really lovely dates for us. Some nice meals out, others tailored to my interests. He's just making it very clear that he's interested in me as a person, and developing a connection with me. He's not once pushed for sex. I usually hate dating, but I'm having a great time getting to know him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Women have made dating only about sexIt didn't put us at an advantage. It got us closer to being equal. We're still, on average, paid less for the same job, held to a higher beauty standard, sut-shamed if we want sex etc. But what I hear most from your paragraph is "Women won't settle for men like me" You're right, men don't have control over us anymore. That doesn't mean that we don't want to find love and be in a healthy partnership. We do. We want that more than anything. So if money and power aren't on the table for men anymore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Women have made dating only about sexMost women just want stability and safety. Whether that looks like each having their own income, or if you're building a family and he wants you to be the primary caregiver, for him to earn a wage to support you. From a woman's POV, if you're giving up 5 - 15 years of having your own income to raise his kids, we need to know that we'll be taken care of. It puts us in an incredibly vulnerable position. Many women choose not to be put in that vulnerable position anymore and either work or choose n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Women have made dating only about sexSure, because the term "lay back and think of England" came from nowhere. We're only two generations away from the time when women weren't allowed their own bank accounts, to own property, to work well paid jobs or to have any independence. You're romanticising a time when women had no choice but to marry a man, and if you're lucky he'll be a nice one. My grandparents were in love until the end too. But they were both very honest about the fact that they got lucky, and the marriages amongst thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Women have made dating only about sexWomen love connection. Women love partnerships. Women love being married to their best friend. It's our favourite part of relationships. But, quite honestly, it's incredibly difficult to have that connection with someone who wants you to be their servant. You have to be equals to have that deep emotional connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Women have made dating only about sexThat's an easy fix though. If you don't value the connection and companionship of a partnership then prostitutes are way cheaper than 6 figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Women have made dating only about sexIt was always transactional. You don't think the traditional gender roles were transactional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Women have made dating only about sexNo marriage has burning desire to the end. Passion ebbs and flows in a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 10:13 PM |
| 10 | Why men and women cannot be "just friends"Absolutely this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 107 | Misogyny in leftist spheres. A Young Turks video becomes a witch hunt over a woman's TikTok video about dating standards. As a leftist and feminist this seriously annoys me.Ugh! I saw this when it came out and canceled my subscription because of it. I asked them to do a review of PUA and Red pill tiktoks. They won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 01:32 AM |
| 9 | Please Share Your Stories of LVMs and LV Friends from High SchoolI got married at 19 to the guy I'd been with since we were 14. He pushed me in to marriage and when pushing didn't work, he issued an ultimatum. Shortly after the wedding, believing he had me trapped, he became emotionally abusive and cheated. I ended the relationship, much to his surprise. He was very popular, a model, and well off so instantly started charming all our mutual friends (we were part of a big group) and sleeping with my close female friends. I wasnt well off, was working full time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | A mantra that might be helpful for when we fall back into old ways of thinking...I love this mantra, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Call me radical but this is one of the reasons why hookups should stop being popular and glorifiedHookups will never benefit women because we need someone who knows our body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 51 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneI'm so very sorry that you're going through this. I'm sending you all the love and strength that I have to spare. He's wrong, you aren't giving up on your marriage. He broke your marriage vows when he repeatedly cheated in the most depraved ways. You can't fix the vows that he broke. He can't even fix them. Like a teacup he has repeatedly thrown on the floor. He broke it. He broke the vows. He broke the marriage. He's begging you to swoop in and save him from his own destruction. But you can't. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."I know, very true too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamYup! He claims not to have known he had HIV until I made him get tested. I have the copper IUD but have always insisted on condoms until test results are back. We'd been together a couple of months at this point. So, on the Friday, my results came back clean. On the Sunday he stealthed me. On the Monday the clinic called to ask to see him for an hour and a half on the Tuesday. On the Tuesday he was told it was HIV. I went on PREP and when I got my final all clear, he got angry and punched a wall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:34 AM |
| 4 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSI'm getting troll responses to my post from a few weeks ago today! Who has time for this?! Unemployed men, that's who. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamI'm so sorry this happened to you. The last ugly guy I dated tried to give me HIV. NEVER date ugly guys!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:33 PM |
| 6 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamYeah, the last time I dated an ugly guy he tried to give me HIV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 31 | I’m tired of men going “postal” and people accepting it as him just “having a bad day”That was terrifying. Look, I have no doubt that he is over worked and underpaid. I have no doubt that working with people sucks. But my job is overworked and underpaid. I deal with people who are delusional, violent, in a state of stress or psychosis all day every day. It's a female dominated profession and the only time we have staff acting out is if we're working with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 45 | I have no words...Father likes that people think he’s dating his daughter🤮Dear God, even my NVDad death glared a guy who told him he was a lucky man to be with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 57 | Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this.I'm so very sorry he treated you this way when what you needed was to be taken care of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:43 AM |
| 3 | My 40th birthday was lovely (update on NVM dad)Thank you so much! My birthday was awesome, I'm so lucky to have awesome people around me. Writing the letter is difficult, I'm going bit by bit. I'll get there though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 4 | young girl posts tik tok about being flat chested, middle aged plastic surgeon comments.Awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | My 40th birthday was lovely (update on NVM dad)❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | My 40th birthday was lovely (update on NVM dad)Thank you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:17 AM |
| 64 | lovejessicablair on Instagram: some people asked me why men not finding me attractive is a flex and it’s bc i don’t wish to feed into the male gaze❤️She's gorgeous and men are angry that they'll never be good enough for her. So they put her down... I'm so glad she's turned it in to a positive for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 5 | If men have anything, it's the audacity. Nope, I'm noping the heck outI see these all the time on the book of faces. Women having to prove their devotion when the man does something so freaking awful. I'm just never going to be devoted enough to anyone to stay in these awful circumstances. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:10 AM |
| 67 | young girl posts tik tok about being flat chested, middle aged plastic surgeon comments.I think we need to refer to them as cosmetic surgeons though. Plastics, as a specialty, involves a lot more than cosmetic procedures. A very close friend is in plastics but he deals exclusively with burns and wound healing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 11 | young girl posts tik tok about being flat chested, middle aged plastic surgeon comments.Oh dear, he said the quiet part out loud... Now there's no denying that they'll play in to your insecurities to make you get surgery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:33 PM |
| 5 | How can I figure out what I'm truly physically attracted to, since we've all been coerced into having no standards?I'm like this too, personality has a huge bearing on whether I'm attracted to someone or not. There's a name for it - Demisexual. It basically means that you only find people sexually attractive whom you also have an emotional connection with (or in some cases the potential for emotional connection based on enjoying their personality). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:18 AM |
| 13 | People 👏🏻 don’t 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 women 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 enjoy 👏🏻 PERIODTYup, just have a look at my post about my NVDad and brother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:50 AM |
| 34 | I loved what Tracer Ellis Ross had to say about settling downYup, I was raised to believe the only valid life was marriage and kids. I got married at 19, divorced by 21 (he started treating me badly because he thought he "had" me. He was very shocked I left). Then I left to travel and work away and have an awesome life. Despite my big breakaway, I still had a (lesser, but still there) pickme mindset that took years of therapy to get right. I still have my spells. It's still quite easy for someone I love to damage my self esteem and make me revert for a sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:46 AM |
| 6 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.It depends on the sex. It depends on the man. It depends on the level of intimacy. It depends on whether the man wants a relationship with the woman. The level of oxytocin (the bonding hormone) released during sex is eight times Higher in women, than released in men. So women become more attached after sex than a man does. If that man then rejects us, it is an incredibly painful experience. So it is merely self-protection to wait until an emotionally intimate relationship is formed to have sex. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Remember the scrote police officers who brutalised an elderly woman? They've been charged.Though I'm really upset that the officer who fist-bumped the scrote who dislocated Karen's shoulder and fractured her arm, hasn't been fired. If he thinks that's fist-bump worthy he's an asshole and shouldn't be working with the public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:21 PM |
| 9 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallExcuse me waiter, this wine is corked. Yes, totally ruined. Yes, so sad. New wine please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | The victim is never responsible for being abused, raped, etcThere's been a trend of female teachers being prosecuted for rape and sexual abuse of their male pupils. Grooming and manipulation were absolutely involved in these cases. (to be clear, I don't think the abuse is happening more often. It's just being taken more seriously now). OP clearly stated that they happened to see this documentary and it prompted these questions for them. Why are you trying to question their motivations for using this case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 42 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallUgh those texts to Paul Bettany about killing her and raping her corpse. 😡😡😡 He was not an innocent victim. Neither was she. And I've no idea why Bettany is remaining untouched when he was laughing and replying to those messages. Gross. Utterly, utterly gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 67 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallBuT mEn AgE LiKe WiNe! 😂🍷😂🍷😂🍷😂🍷😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 0 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)Women aren't vending machines that you put money in and get sex out. We're human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 9 | He likes deep and meaningful conversations with someone he can’t even see as human because of his pornsick brain 🙄Exactly this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:03 PM |
| 24 | He likes deep and meaningful conversations with someone he can’t even see as human because of his pornsick brain 🙄ALSO he tries to make her feel that she's not good enough with a long list of her "inferiorities". Then he slips in "Oh, yeah, I broke my dick with porn and it's so depraved that I can't see you as human". It wasn't enough to just end it. He had to tear her down and make her feel inferior for HIS inability to be in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:39 PM |
| 32 | He likes deep and meaningful conversations with someone he can’t even see as human because of his pornsick brain 🙄Why is it HER job to motivate him to push forward and better himself in life??? I'm so sick of men who are just hanging around, unmotivated, no get up and go, waiting for a woman to show him how to live. The trope of the "right" woman inspiring a man to step up is infuriating. Sure, he might step up a bit but you'll be dragging his ass through life just to get the basics done. Essentially, this kind of man is a dead weight. Been there, lived it for 14 years and it's exhausted me. He held me back… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:35 PM |
| 31 | Auntie Pinkie VIDEODo it!! That guy sounds very intimidated by your knowledge and seniority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 41 | FDS principles lands on a political news channel. A few FDS’ers in the comments defending this woman for setting standards. So many complaining dinner is expensive and she’s a gold digger for the bare minimum.I'm so, so, so disappointed in TYT here. I've cancelled my membership to them. Ana (the female host) had a nose job in order to fit in to the patriarchal standard of beauty. She had surgery to fit men's standards!! But she's mocking a woman for having the standards of safe dates, a man putting effort in to a date and having table manners?! So much internalised mysogyny going on with her. She should be defending this woman, but the first thing out of her mouth is "NoT aLl MeN". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:24 PM |
| 42 | For the moms, inspiration to give your daughter an FDS mindsetI've always done this for my kids and nieces. I was starved of love as a kid and it led me in to unhealthy relationships early in life. In all fairness, none of my NVX's have been as bad as my family, but they were still NVX's. That's how low the bar was. So I've striven to do the opposite for my kids (1 girl, 1 NB) so that they won't fall in to the same trap I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:53 AM |
| 15 | Auntie Pinkie VIDEOIt's considered cool now I guess? I don't fully understand now tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:44 AM |
| 20 | Auntie Pinkie VIDEOI love her so much! I need her to adopt me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔You didn’t even do anything wrong. Genuinely, nothing. Two days before I spent the day with my dad, cleaned his house, helped him plant plants in his garden, and we had a lovely day together. Nothing happened in the interim other than my brother working on him. You were so excited for a special treat (who knew you could rent a hot tub???) when out of nowhere, your brother ruins everything. I suspect he has always been jealous of you and that he sees himself as the family fuck up. He lacks the em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Thank you so much for taking the time to write such thorough replies ❤️ I'll reply bit by bit for clarity! Maybe a healthier boundary would be to require he never speak to you about your brother. I've tried this, but unfortunately it doesn't work. My father often needs help dealing with the police because of my brother. Besides, my brother is a skilled liar and manipulator and has frequently managed to cause my father to attack me out of the blue based on some figment of my brothers imagination.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | We all need an Auntie PinkieOoo, I don't know how, but I'll look in to it and try and get it up for you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Smelly scrotesNooo.....? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:45 PM |
| 17 | We all need an Auntie PinkieIt's a weak flower... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Online dating (OLD) is the most 'Honest' and 'Truthful' way to find out how attractive you are as a man.OLD doesn't take in to account the whole person. Charisma, mannerisms, personality, smell etc all add in to how attractive a person is. Your best bet is meeting people in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Thank you ❤️ I'm so sorry you've had to block your toxic father too, but I'm so glad you're free of him ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Thank you so much ❤️ I'm sorry they keep disappointing us and making us feel this way too. You're not alone either, hit up my DMs if you ever need to talk ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 07:43 AM |
| 4 | If your man doesn't touch these then you've failed to properly vet... How would you edit this? Swipe left to see mine 👈🏼😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔I'm so sorry you have been through this too. I don't think my dad is a full narcissist, though he certainly has many narcissistic traits. He had good parents who raised him well. Same with my mother, lots of narcissistic traits with her too, along with my maternal grandmother (they've both passed now). My brother is full narcissist. He was the golden child of all of the above narcs and it's absolutely ruined him. He's never worked a day in his life but was handed everything he ever needed or wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Yeah, she's so lovely. I'll miss her. I wish I could take her myself but she has a very high prey drive and isn't safe around the cats or bunnies. I'll call animal services later in the week. Gutted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:53 AM |
| 35 | I tried to highlight the worst parts, but it's all so bad... 😬Saaaaaammmeee! So, so, so same. They make you feel like shit because they don't feel good enough for you. One was a good lover, the others, nope. I'm demisexual, so looks don't attract me, an emotional connection does. But I've learned to stay away from people who are less attractive, objectively, than me. Because while I don't care about looks, they sure do, and they hate me for being more attractive than them. They resent me for my existence making them feel less than. All but one has been abu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:49 AM |
| 19 | They were together for 8 years and wants a ring worthy of wearing the rest of her life. Most comments are calling her a gold digger...surprise surprise 😒 How much do you want to bet he won’t find anyone else & comes back crying on her doorstep? 💅🏻He knew this was important to her so he should have made the effort. While it's true that she will also receive a great deal of expensive family jewellery for the wedding (they live in India and that's the custom there, rather than the engagement ring), they are clearly already going against custom by being together so long without marriage, and living together before marriage. So yes, he needs to make it special for wasting so much of her time. But it looks like he's going to dump her instead. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:55 PM |
| 16 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."I am menagerie lady 🐶🐱🐱🐰🐰🐰🐰 and counting lol ❤️ love my babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Thank you, I feel the same ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:17 PM |
| 6 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔I wholly agree. Its not easy and I have to fight feelings of guilt (I was raised knowing I'd be the one to take care of elderly family). But I can't even look at him right now, so I'm the last person who should be caring for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Ah, he's got no money left to speak of. He frittered it away years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 7 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️ So telling her the truth about what’s going on will help her immensely Totally agree with this. I've always told her the (age appropriate) truth about my father and brother. I've wanted her to be cautious in her relationship with them. I have a sneaking suspicion that your father never intended to pay for the hottub party I've suspected this too. He has a habit of being disappointing that way, though not to the extremes of your friends ZVX. In smaller way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔That's been my philosophy so far. But this has devastated me. I just wanted to celebrate myself for once. So the best I can do is remotely organise his care but not see or speak to my dad. He's too easily, and willingly, manipulated by my brother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔I've been NC with my brother for many years now. He's the worst. This has to be the last time I go in this cycle with my dad now. I can't do it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:39 PM |
| 312 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."Seriously, I remember shouting at my ex that if the 3 month old puppy could figure out how to piss without causing a mess for me to clean up, then surely he could too?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 16 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔I've already referred him to to get help from social services a few weeks back, as he needs more help than I can provide anyway. I don't want to do any of this for him anymore. I just want to get on with my life. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 15 | I left yesterday- this sub gave me the last push of strength!I'm so sorry for what you've been through, but well done on leaving! Surely given that he physically abused you, he shouldn't have unsupervised access to your child? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 5 | I just threw up in my mouth a bit.God no!! Nothing about that is sexy or appealing 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 19 | I just threw up in my mouth a bit.The smell of sweat though is actually something to look out for in a HV partner, if you plan on having kids. Enjoying the smell of their sweat means that you have opposite immune systems, giving your children the best chance of health and survival. NOBODY can convince me that dick cheese is appealing though. NO.BOD.Y!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 24 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.Yup, thankfully she left him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:40 PM |
| 62 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.Wasn't he an addict? And he knew she was thinking of leaving so tried to cut it out to "fix" the relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:06 AM |
| 2 | "Feminism Chat"??I've had that too. Again I blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 39 | "Feminism Chat"??How incredibly strange?!! Glad I declined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:00 AM |
| 9 | The truth about all your guy friends.Ah I'm sorry you don't get to spend much time together. I'm lucky that I've clicked with both their wives, so we're still very much in each others lives. We're like close siblings. But then they are both only children and my brother is extremely NV, so we're each others only real support systems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:11 AM |
| 17 | "Feminism Chat"??I'm hesitant to do this as I've had some nice chats with other FDS members. This is my alt account though so I don't mind too much. I just block anyone who inappropriately messages me. I just wanted to warn others about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Same. So, so, so same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Cops stick together and protect each other. The liklihood is that reporting him would open her up to being harassed by him AND his buddies. They even do it when a wife of a cop reports her husband for domestic abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.There really aren't. This happened to my dad. He reported a cop for a wrongful ticket and was harassed by the local police force for two years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.It does say that she ghosted him on an online dating chat, after one day of talking. And this is the level he went to 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.This is terrifying, I'm so sorry. Are you rid of him now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:37 AM |
| 21 | The truth about all your guy friends.It sucks, doesn't it? I love my female friends dearly. But I'd love more male friends too, without them being creepy with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Awww! Thank you! I'd love to see a photo of your HVM if you're comfortable posting/DMing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”And my point is that we know this and that those women who are consciously seeking high value males will be constantly vetting men for those red flags, years in to the relationship. Being high value isn't just about looks or career. It's about emotional intelligence, being a good partner etc. High value is the whole package. The women who are consciously seeking high value males run at the first, or if they're generous, second red flag. The ones who get caught out are women with less experience … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 11:27 PM |
| 3 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderThank you! I knew of FDS superfans but not the others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 4 | No Brigading! Monthly ReminderOo, what are the sister subs?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:44 AM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”OK, but is the depressed disorganised guy treating his depression? Is he capable of putting the effort in to building a relationship? Women using the term HVM also know to never stop vetting a man and to look out for red flags. There's no way the career guy just became abusive overnight. There are always warning signs along the way. Abusive men always let slip along the way. The truth is that women find all different facial features attractive. It's subjective. Personally I'm a fan of an aquilin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Thank you to this sub for reinforcing what I've been doing against my friends advice!It was a very modest, low-key wedding in her tiny community church, with the reception in the church hall. Nothing extravagant, like she had nothing to prove 😊 It was lovely, and it really suited her personality. I was so happy to sing for her that day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Oh god, that poor kid 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Ugh this is gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I'm so sorry you went through this, but so happy you're out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Cops stick together. My dad was harassed for two years by a whole local force because he reported a cop for a wrongful ticket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I'm so sorry your friend went through this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I mean, I've got that here but I just ignore it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Happy cake day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 6 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Ah, that would explain the many deleted comments then 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 34 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.My god, I'm so very sorry you went through this! I'm so glad you're safe now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Very scary! I'm glad you're ok and that he gave up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Oh god, I'm so sorry. Are you OK? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 14 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Wow, I'm so very sorry you had to go through all of that. I'm wary of both police and military because I think the mindset of choosing those careers is one of glorified violence, with a hero complex. Not good. Ugh, I'm terrified for the patients of the male nurse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Oh god, that's just terrifying. I'm so sorry you and your date had to go through that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 12 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.It's just awful isn't it? The thing is, he wouldn't be shamed because his cop friends would just rally round him and excuse his behaviour. So they would just reinforce his entitlement. I'm wary of any man who goes in to the police or military. It makes me think that they glorify violence but want to be seen as heroes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 14 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.What?!!! Who was he selling her to?! Your poor aunt 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 14 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Nor me. Oh gosh, I'm so sorry for your friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Why Cats, Dogs and Horses Reveal the Truth About LVMOh gosh! Why won't people just listen?? It frustrates me because they think they "know dogs"... But I know MY dog best! Just listen!! Your mother is lucky she only got a growl! My LabX is crossed with a German Pointer. He's definitely got the sniffing game sussed. He's really good at it. I've recently moved to a more rural area and I want to train him to sniff out truffles. What huskey traits do you see in your boy? A friend of mines husband was dead set on owning a huskey (for his "image"... He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Stop letting your boyfriends prevent you from finding your husband!Ah, thank you! I didn't realise. Time to get a throwaway tiktok account then 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 54 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Cops protect each other first. She'd have had more than one stalker if she'd reported it 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:10 PM |
| 33 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.And that he's a good guy just because he's a cop 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 10 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I'm so very sorry you're going through this. Can you speak to the police about harassment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:05 PM |
| 63 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I don't, or military. I don't trust any of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.They are 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:03 PM |
| 112 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I'm so sorry you went through that. Theres no excuse. He shouldn't get to take his bad breakup out on you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 6 | Stop letting your boyfriends prevent you from finding your husband!Thank you for typing this out! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Stop letting your boyfriends prevent you from finding your husband!She says that her ex used to say, as she was getting ready to go out with friends, that no matter how much makeup she put on she'd still be ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 56 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.In a better world we should be able to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 10 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.It's awful isn't it? I hate having to advise it but after seeing what happened to my dad... It's just not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 27 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I really wouldn't recommend it. My dad reported a cop and the whole local force went after him for two years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:15 PM |
| 175 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.It wouldn't, cops don't like people who report cops. Instead of one, she would have a whole force against her. It happened to my dad. He reported a cop for wrongfully giving him a ticket. After that he couldn't go anywhere in the car without being stopped by the police. There were random "noise complaints" to his home... Never report a cop! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:07 PM |
| 69 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.100% this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:01 PM |
| 113 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.100% this! I stay away from dating police and military because I just don't trust them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:00 PM |
| 55 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Yup NoT aLl MeN 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:58 PM |
| 564 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.It's terrifying isn't it? I'm glad she moved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:50 PM |
| 13 | Stop letting your boyfriends prevent you from finding your husband!I've blocked him. I don't even know what he means?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:00 PM |
| 55 | Stop letting your boyfriends prevent you from finding your husband!At least 34 of those were one guy I've now blocked. Going on about fortnite or something. Very strange! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 11:19 AM |
| 36 | Man recreates the patriarchy with catsOr just use condoms. The guy literally doesn't have to do anything other than wear a condom. But that's too much to ask, apparently. I've just gotten my cats spayed and neutered. You'd swear the boy hadn't even had surgery. He hasn't missed a beat in getting back to normal. He doesn't even have to wear a cone. No check up appointment needed. My girl is in pain, on very strong painkillers, needs lots of comforting, it's wearing a cone and has 3 post op appointments booked with the vets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 11:18 AM |
| 83 | Man recreates the patriarchy with catsThe worst thing is, it's such a minor op for male cats, and a much bigger operation for the female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:53 AM |
| 8 | Do not take that condom offOh gosh, I've been considering doing a post about always making sure a man you have sex with has been tested first. It's a looooooooooong story. And wild. When I've got time to type it up, I will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:47 AM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”That's the difference though, you're talking about sex, but I'm talking about an LTR. Those looking for a HVM aren't looking for one night stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”No, grooming is far more than a shower. Fitness takes time and effort. Good grooming and style take time and effort too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 12:12 AM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”Are the neckbeards taking care of their fitness and grooming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Hehe, me too! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 19 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”You're wrong about what is classed as a HVM It's not about height and looks as much as style and personal grooming, keeping healthy etc. Investing in himself. But what makes a HVM is very much how willing he is to contribute to building a happy, healthy relationship. Empathy, kindness, a willingness to date and continue dating throughout the relationship, good communication, openness, wanting to invest in the relationship. The presentation and career side of it a simply indicators of a man who c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 2 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you so much 😻😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:01 AM |
| 6 | I’m pressing charges - my ex is threatening to share nude pictures I sent him when I was 18I'm so sorry for what he's putting you through. I don't know you, but I'm proud of how strong and brave you're being. He sounds scary, but I bet he'll crumple like paper when faced with police. Let your loved ones back home know what's going on once you've reported it to the police, so that they can take measures to protect themselves. I've had to get cameras installed 3 days ago because of my scrote brother. They give me so much peace of mind. Well done! We're all here to support you. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Aw thank you very much. I hope so too! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw, sweet! Are you willing to post pics of yours? 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 3 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you 😻 I think I've only ever met one other male tux, but he was a sweetheart too, so I think you're right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:46 PM |
| 3 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Aw, I'm glad you've got your girl still! I wish they lived longer too. It's heart breaking when they leave us 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you, he's such a sweetheart too 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Lol they're the sweetest nature. Aw thank you 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you, they are! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:23 PM |
| 18 | CoMmUNiCate they say because obviously she is the problem 🙄I think she should dump him too. It's a no win situation for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?Not always, it depends on many factors. Usually the being mature for your age cope happens when a child is very young, too young to decide whether to be mature or not. But as a teenager or young adult, certainly people have choices on how they want to behave going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 78 | mEn ArE mOmS tOo...Christ, they just can't let us have one single day, can they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 65 | CoMmUNiCate they say because obviously she is the problem 🙄Likely that too, but the fact that he made a point of not taking photos of his actual gf in a bikini makes me think its deliberate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:45 PM |
| 3 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 4 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you. I very much hope so 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 7 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻They are, I love them so much! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 4 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:41 PM |
| 26 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻They're both nearly 6 months old. They're siblings and it was only a litter of two. I'm not comfortable sharing their names, sorry. I've already had some grief from scrotes today 😔 but for here I'll call them My Boy and Little Lady. 😊 I got the cats via a friend of a friend who has been on a mission to save all the cats from a neighbours house (hoarder, alcoholic, neglectful pet owner). I only took Little Lady first, not knowing the conditions she'd come from. Once I knew, I went and picked up M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 18 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aww thank you 😻 they bring such joy into my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Why Cats, Dogs and Horses Reveal the Truth About LVMOh bless your poor pupper. It's so strange that there's this "alpha" misconception. My lad knows I'm in charge, I'm the one with the food and treats lol. What did your mother do? Aww how lovely to have 3 rats! I'm so glad you're enjoying having them! All my animals get on great thankfully. My dog just loves little ones, and is super sweet and gentle with them. He's always just sat there and waited for the bunnies to approach him because he knows he's big and scary to them. He gets so excited and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 286 | CoMmUNiCate they say because obviously she is the problem 🙄Ugh, he did that to make his GF feel devalued, but if she says anything it'll be "OMG! YOU'RE SO GROSS AND INSECURE! THAT'S MY COUSIN! HOW COULD YOU EVEN THINK THAT?! YOU'VE GOT SERIOUS ISSUES!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:29 PM |
| 13 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 20 | As requested... My aforementioned cats 😻Aw thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Why Cats, Dogs and Horses Reveal the Truth About LVMAww your pupper sounds gorgeous! Yup, for some reason, if its not violent and dominating is doesn't count as being in charge. Except my way keeps a calm environment and gets the job done. Theirs just causes chaos. I've heard all the same things said by LVM. They're so dumb. Aww I love rats! They make such sweet pets. I had one as a teen and he was very sweet and loving. How are you finding yours? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?I know plenty of men with large salaries who won't date women who earn X-amount less than them. They're not out there wanting to save women from poverty. They want someone who has established themselves, has their own career and own income and assets. There's no protection here, it's an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 12:47 PM |
| 3 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂He's a sweetheart ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:40 PM |
| 13 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂A scrote tried to comment on my cat post "This is so sad. I hope you recover". Obviously, it was deleted (thanks mods!). But I'm not sad. I'm happy! I've nothing to recover from? I love my animals, they love me, and so does my (potential) HVM. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:38 PM |
| 4 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Animals are the best ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:39 AM |
| 25 | Things men don’t want you to know...Love this! Thank you! I'm saving it to my Level Up file 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:37 AM |
| 5 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Yep, so, so true! They just love us with everything they've got ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:35 AM |
| 3 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.I'm so very sorry for your loss ❤️ Your boy sounds awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:58 AM |
| 10 | Watching women gaslight themselves is so painfulWeirdly, my LVX has gotten much better at getting me gifts (from my daughter) since we broke up. He was terrible at it when we were together. I felt so devalued every holiday or birthday. Now he always gets something from daughter and something from him. It's not mother's day in my country today, it was in March. I got flowers, chocolate, cute cards and a stunning, classy pair of earrings. But it just goes to show. They know. They're fully aware that you'll feel devalued and they do it to "keep … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:57 AM |
| 13 | 🙌 Men who get it! And promote waiting for a relationship before sex! 🙌No. Not twilight. Not now. Not ever. He isn't initially attracted to her, he's attracted to her blood, which he wants to EAT HE BREAKS IN TO HER HOUSE TO WATCH HER SLEEP. HE'S SO FUCKING CREEPY! RUN GIRL! RUN!! He's controlling, jealous, possessive, obsessive, violent and plays games. Ultimate LVM. He doesn't work. He's hundreds of years old and still in school. He didn't look young enough in the movies to only pass as a teenager. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:50 AM |
| 15 | Podcast interviews with sex therapists ain't it.Write the email! Point out that the sex therapist didn't even address the abuse in the industry. Please, please put everything you've written here in the email. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:41 AM |
| 11 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.100% my LVDad and LVX were both pros at this game. Every time I got sick and couldn't do my usual chores, they suddenly "had come down with the same bug" (showing zero symptoms but lethargy, funnily enough). They weren't sick. They were just lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:34 AM |
| 6 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂Aw, they can sense your lovely energy ❤️ dogs are very intuitive like that. They are body language experts. Most animals are! He's definitely smarter than the LVM he's interacted with!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:28 AM |
| 4 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂Aw, a well trained dog is nothing to be afraid of, I promise. I think you do, absolutely, sense a pattern. The LVM was the issue, not the dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 5 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Aw, I'm so very sorry for your loss ❤️ Cats are, indeed, lovely 😻 Do you have other pets now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:23 AM |
| 16 | Why Cats, Dogs and Horses Reveal the Truth About LVMI'm so glad you got away from this scumlord! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:19 AM |
| 18 | Why Cats, Dogs and Horses Reveal the Truth About LVMI've just posted this comment elsewhere on FDS regarding animals. I've got a dog, two cats and 4 bunnies. How men treat the bunnies is always important. LVM underestimate bunnies because they're prey animals. They think they're stupid and mild. Bunnies have huge teeth, claws and powerful back legs. If they want to do damage they can, and will. They're also more intelligent than people think. They can learn as many words as a dog and they are quicker to litter train than a cat. And when it comes … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:18 AM |
| 22 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂He's a black LabX, and he's so intelligent. He loves to work with you on training and any bad behaviour is easily corrected. He is a world class thief. If he steals something I've trained him to do swapsies. He gets a treat, I get the item back. Its all over in 1 minute, literally. Zero drama. Every LVM who's been around him immediately responds with aggression when something is stolen. Which makes my dog defensive and dig his heels in. No matter how many times I tell them to let me deal with it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:59 AM |
| 9 | Stop calling acceptable men “HV”?Ooo, would you mind sharing it please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:42 AM |
| 34 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂I've noticed that LVM like to dominate dogs. I have a dog, 2 cats and 4 bunnies. I always watch how men treat the bunnies. If they're kind and gentle with them, they're decent human beings. The cats are new, so I've only had limited opportunities to judge men with the cats, but the good ones have just been pleasantly surprised when the cats come over to them. The LVM men in my life have always tried to aggressively dominate my dog. They get a nasty surprise, because he reacts to aggression with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:40 AM |
| 7 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Thanks to a kind FDSer I've figured it out and made a new post with photos 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:33 AM |
| 29 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂They just don't get it, do they? Cats are an utter delight. Men who treat us well are an utter delight. I'm not a big fan of wine, but alcohol is an utter delight. Why would we want anything that's not delightful?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:17 AM |
| 59 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂I'm sorry you're having to deal with dirty men 🤢 Scrotes are being mad about my post about my cats. Yes, cats! Very strange creatures lol (the scrotes, not the cats, the cats are a delight) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:06 AM |
| 5 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Aw, I'll have to find out about scrubbing photos of metadata, but yes, if I can figure it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:04 AM |
| 4 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.They're the best 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:49 AM |
| 5 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Lol always! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:43 AM |
| 11 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Aww that's so sweet, bless your puppers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:23 AM |
| 5 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Aw thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:18 AM |
| 4 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Ah I'm sorry you had to go through that too. They just don't get it, or just don't want to. 100% furbabies alllll the way now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:17 AM |
| 6 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.I wish they would! He could teach them so, so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:13 AM |
| 34 | My male cat is still the most HVM I've ever met in my life.Thank you, they really are 😻 After my emergency c-section I was expected to go back to normal 3 days post op because my LVX was "exhausted from the last few days". Tbf it was my LVDad who said this, not ex. But it gave ex ideas that he should be resting 🙄 I'm so sorry your LVX was such a useless man baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?It does, I listed a whole host of them above. But the human brain doesn't reach full maturity until mid to late 20s still. So any "maturity" before that is simply good acting or a reaction to childhood abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 12:48 AM |
| 55 | Dear Scrotes: HVM does not mean a rich chad.Exactly to alllllllllll of this!! I've dumped rich guys, I've dumped a male model, I've dumped a very famous celebrity... Why? Because I wasn't happy with them. I only want to be with someone who is kind, caring, empathetic, committed, loyal, and prepared to do what it takes to have a relationship. If not? I'm OK on my own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?I've lived through my 20s and I'm now in my 30s. I don't know anyone who hasn't had some level of personal and emotional growth in that time. While I'm not saying it's the same maturity as a 60 year old, it's more mature than a 20 year old. And we'll all be more mature by 40, and 50 etc. It's just the natural impact of living life, experiencing new situations, dealing with life events and the brain reaching full development mid-late 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 12:14 AM |
| 12 | There are a gazillion anti FDS subs. It’s amazing. 🤩💐😘I suspected so... Scrotes showing their low value, as per! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 11:39 PM |
| 8 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?It's such a strange narrative too. As though older women don't have a lot to offer.... Plenty of men value maturity, life experience, financial stability, a more commitment forward thinking and a whole host of other assets women over 30 bring to the table. There are many downsides to dating younger, for both genders. (I'm not dissing anyone in their 20s.. I was one once! Just saying the age gap can make a difference in a relationship) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 11:20 PM |
| 13 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?I've noticed the opposite with men. All the males in my friendship group, aqaintances and colleagues would spend teens and early 20s playing the field then be ready to settle down between their late 20s and mid 30s. Maybe it's just the culture of my country (UK), but any man who does the opposite is definitely considered the odd one out. Not in a bad way, just that he's going against the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 29 | There are a gazillion anti FDS subs. It’s amazing. 🤩💐😘I got blocked today from a sub for women. There was zero reason to block me. I very politely asked the mods why, they cited a rule I "broke" and blocked me from contacting them. I'm certain it's because of FDS, because while the rule was open to interpretation, my comment didn't break any interpretation of it. 🙈😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 4 | The biggest PickMe in the world is back at it again. I can’t stand herWHY IS SHE SHOUTING AT US?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 17 | Remove yourself from the concept of menUnicorns, sadly. I'd feel so badass riding a unicorn to work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 54 | Wife gets divorce so her husband can marry his foreign girlfriend. I think she may be the supreme pickme queen.It seems Mormon-y to me. The "we're sisters" of the girlfriend, the hyper religious names of their children, their very clean cut aesthetic... It just all screams the lifelong brainwashing of a religion you're born in to and raised in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Adulthood male circumcisionThis tipped the balance. I think the Internet has been bad for the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 06:33 PM |
| 11 | Adulthood male circumcisionI had to look. I just had to look 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:27 AM |
| 4 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 13 | What even is this logic???Can't link it, against the rules, but I commented on it that he was the asshole 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:23 PM |
| 12 | I just saw a post about an alleged black market for sperm. I think it's LVM science fiction.They're desperate to feel needed. Even just for nut juice on the black market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 5 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3I had a notification of a comment on something I posted yesterday which started "you bitches... ' but when I clicked to see the rest, the comment was gone. "ReAsOn" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:08 AM |
| 40 | I just saw a post about an alleged black market for sperm. I think it's LVM science fiction.So, wait. Women are supposedly saying "no, I won't go to the sperm bank where the semen has been tested for any undesirable traits, I'm going to buy it off the Dark Web, with no way of verifying it as safe"??? Seems legit.... Legitimately a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:13 AM |
| 8 | Thank you to this sub for reinforcing what I've been doing against my friends advice!She was such a lovely woman, she deserved every bit of happiness she found ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 76 | Thank you to this sub for reinforcing what I've been doing against my friends advice!My music teacher was a lovely woman in her 40s. All the mothers at the school would gossip about her, she was so plain, she'd never been married, never had a boyfriend, poor her, no man wanted her etc. Nearing 50 she was retiring, but wanted the school choir to sing at her wedding. To a millionaire, who clearly adored her. They were off to travel the world and work on charity projects which had always interested her. They adopted a child on their travels last I'd heard. All the mothers were gobs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 129 | Poor girlYup, cheat once and we're done. He's wrecked this poor woman to the point that she's crying daily. She needs to get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!I know, but it's not because he's ugly, unfit and has no social skills! It's because Ben Affleck is poaching all the best cum dumpsters!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Because they feel entitled to a hottie, that's why. And we are all desperate because we hit a wall at 25! So we're desperate! I've never met a woman in her 30s or 40s who is desperate for a man. They've either got one or are done with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!That's very true. I miss when men were like my grandad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Awesome explanation of TRP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:05 PM |
| 23 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3Excuse me! I am NOT unbeliavable! Because that's not even a word! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Ben Affleck is an alcoholic cheater. I don't find film attractive at all. She's gorgeous, why would she want him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!I know, but there he is, being a "bottom dregs" kinda guy, thinking he deserves the caviar of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!And make us beat ourselves up about hitting the wall. The reason they put all this out there for everyone to see is to make us feel insecure and hopeless. If the Red pill were such an amazing box of tricks you'd need to pay to get access to their closely guarded secrets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Oh no! She's hit "the wall" and still got men chasing her?! That's not how it's supposed to work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!He's just full to the brim of hatred, isn't he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!😂 Assuming he has any. This looks like a penis leakage to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Supreme jealousy. Just. Date. In. Your. Own. League. He could be happily with someone who's as attractive as him. Nope. He's whining on the Internet about not getting the attractive object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Yup! He's such a prime example of why not to give ugly guys a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 8 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Definitely. I don't even understand how they do it. I could never look at a human as an object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:22 PM |
| 9 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!It's so disgusting. Just treat people well and someone will fall in love with you. That's it lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:21 PM |
| 20 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!100% He also calls her "this thot" somewhere too. He genuinely sees her as an object to dump his load in. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:19 PM |
| 11 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Yes! Love this advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:18 PM |
| 17 | Imagine how this "man" would treat you. He barely sees women as human. This is why we don't date down ladies!Same! I commented that he should probably accept his league and date within it. Got told off for making it personal. By a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 18 | Has been a while since I been in this account... This news is from my home island. My blood is boiling with hatred for this man and many others who lack empathy and feel entitled to take lives because of perceived inconvenience.That doesn't surprise me at all. Men in prison tend not to want this kind of scum around them. Imagine being so awful that even criminals loathe you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:56 PM |
| 26 | Has been a while since I been in this account... This news is from my home island. My blood is boiling with hatred for this man and many others who lack empathy and feel entitled to take lives because of perceived inconvenience.I'm dating a pro boxer. Nobody has heard of him. Nobody outside of the boxing communities cares who he is. He doesn't get spotted on the street. At the gym? Yeah, of course. At fights? Yeah, of course. But nobody else cares. This scrote is just an evil narcissist. Two of the crimes carry a maximum sentence of death. I hope he gets made an example of because of his "fame". Whether that be death or never getting out of prison. I don't care. But show these evil Scum Lords that they can't hurt and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:42 PM |
| 7 | "I want to leave, but we have kids."Thanks, I'll pass that on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:10 AM |
| 14 | "I want to leave, but we have kids."It's more emotionally complex than that though. She feels guilty and obliged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:09 AM |
| 4 | "I want to leave, but we have kids."She can't afford to, he's very wealthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:53 AM |
| 13 | "I want to leave, but we have kids."It's the child calling the ambulance and she feels guilted in to staying, because who else would save her dad? Who else will look after her dad? It's sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:29 AM |
| 28 | "I want to leave, but we have kids."It can go the other way though. One of my daughters friends ended up being given to her alcoholic party dad by the courts. She's severely neglected, expected to do all housework and cooking, every night she can't sleep because her dad has his friends round for drinking, drugs and partying. She's had to call an ambulance for her dad 3 times. She's 13. Her mother is desperate to get her out of there, she's called CPS countless times. I've called CPS several times. Nothing gets done. So I totally u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:41 AM |
| 122 | Has been a while since I been in this account... This news is from my home island. My blood is boiling with hatred for this man and many others who lack empathy and feel entitled to take lives because of perceived inconvenience.😡😡😡😡 "BuT i'M a FaMoUs BoXeR" I hope they use your fame to make an example out of you, scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:30 AM |
| 6 | We need more kink shamingThat seems very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Beware of self identifying 'feminist' men and performative feminism.I've always been wary of it. It's one thing to support the women in your life to protest or campaign. But I've always found a man who declares himself to be a feminist very strange and suspicious. . I'm sorry you went through so much with this awful scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:59 AM |
| 25 | We need more kink shamingI'm so sorry he shared that with you. You must have been horrified. His GF is failing as a mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 11:21 PM |
| 28 | We need more kink shamingThat's so sick. Was he just openly talking about it?? Why was his forever girlfriend OK with this??? I have so many questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 95 | We need more kink shamingI've had it too, disgusting creatures. Thinking about sex with children is gross. Maturation to it is gross. Acting it out with a child or someone "barely legal" is gross. Fantasising about it is just plain disgusting. Vile, vile, vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.All we can do is our best. I remember my family being obsessed with my looks and didn't want it for my daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 08:53 PM |
| 18 | Pretend you don't know any betterSame. I'm seeing someone potentially HV but even 3 months in I'm still wary and vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.I can understand that. It's an issue my teenage daughter and I have been discussing. She would happily live the rest of her life in sweats and sneakers, never brush her hair (or just shave it all off, but her school doesn't allow this) and never wear makeup. The only things I insist on is that she has occasion-appropriate outfits of her choice, be clean, and hair brushed or in a ponytail (if we're going out). She's picked some outfits for herself for smart ocassions (dress shirts and bow ties wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:20 PM |
| 83 | Pretend you don't know any betterWhat an excellent mindset! Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 11 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.Beauty, makeup and fashion are also an art form. The same question could be posed about painting. Would I still paint my paintings if I was the only person on earth? The answer is yes, but less frequently. Which is exactly what's happened over the last year. I've been isolating at home as I have a health condition. And yes, some days I just did my hair and makeup even though I knew I wouldn't see anyone all day. I did it for myself. I felt good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 12 | Cosmetic surgery, social pressure and happiness😂 What an unfortunate autocorrect!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Cosmetic surgery, social pressure and happinessI don't think she looked blind?? But her fame was in Dirty Dancing and she didn't look like "The Girl from Dirty Dancing" anymore. She gave away her power with the nose job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 5 | To those who refer to FDS members as “femcels/female incels”... 🤣😂 Yup! But "Cats and box wine!" Cats are delightful and I can afford good wine thanks 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks?Yup, my type too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 4 | To those who refer to FDS members as “femcels/female incels”... 🤣Ah their next one is "nobody wants to be with you though! They just want to pump and dump!". Plenty of dudes want a relationship with me. I just know that my life will be harder in a relationship with them and I can't be bothered lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 08:58 AM |
| 25 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.The best part is, you look in his post history and he's got two posts "Reddit, why am I alone?". Nobody answered 😂 He was not just about to propose. She'd have felt the love from him if he had been and not left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 70 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.Yup, he was just about to do it. Like he was just about to do those dishes he'd left in the sink for a week before she blew up at him about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendThank you! I felt trapped with him because we had a child. I'm so glad to be out. Once I realised he was doing it on purpose I changed a lot of things. If he needed to grab something from the shop, I'd transfer money. I started to always keep my handbag (with all my essentials in) on a hook I'd installed in my bedroom. That way he couldn't argue with me when it wasn't on the handbag hook "it's always there, child can't reach it, the only person who could have moved it is you". It stopped once he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:54 AM |
| 7 | My NVM Dad Killed my MomI'm so very sorry for your loss. What a devastating time for you and your sister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 5 | How far would your ex have gotten with you if you'd been following FDS principles then?Last ex wouldn't have gotten a second date. He was an ugly guy I gave a chance to. Never again. Situationship before... Nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 24 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowMy heart is breaking for her. She knows his ex got real gems. And she's just been shown how little he thinks of her to get her fake. Plus she's probably been showing off the ring, as you do when you're engaged... She must feel humiliated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:10 AM |
| 8 | Thanks to FDS to make me realise I don’t need to be married by the age of 25Good for you!! I too was pressured to marry young and married by 19. It was awful. I'll skip all the horrible details but let's just say that I divorced by 21 and went off, travelled and did everything I wanted to do (and still do). It is much more fulfilling than being married. You're going to have a blast! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:03 AM |
| 69 | I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡It is, it's locked now but Ebbie45 has replied to her with advice on how to get away and protect herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:54 AM |
| 172 | I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡No everyone in the top comments is saying it's rape and abuse and to leave, thankfully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Only in the same way that TRP is all about banging hotties but never having a fulfilling relationship. It's not recommended that you date someone substantially wealthier than you in FDS as it creates a power imbalance. The idea is to get yourself to a good financial situation, then only date equal and above. I'm not saying that it's perfect, nothing is. But when you're a woman conversing with other women there about 80% of your conversations are about how you're Leveling Up, what you're doing to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.The same can be said for TRP though. How many TRP men are here, being bitter about how they can't get dates, but aren't putting in the work to improve themselves? Lots. They post almost obsessively here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Then your idea of femininity is unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Feminine can be all of those things. Would you call the suffragettes unfeminine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Women will make demands of a man's height, finances, social standing ,education, while having little to none of those traits herself and feel entitled to a partner possessing them. The core ideology of FDS is "Leveling Up" (improving yourself) in every way. Physically, mentally, emotionally, financially etc. It's all about self-improvement and finding a partner who shares those values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Older women in this subreddit are in denial about younger women being attracted to older men, and that seems to create a lot of conflict hereI don't think you're interpreting the results properly. You're saying that older women are in denial about this but I, as an older woman, am not surprised. The results show that only 1/4 of all young women would consider dating an older man. That seems about right to me. But that's ALL young women. Not just the hot ones. How many of them were highly attractive? How many were overweight? Also, many women say that the maximum age gap they'll allow is 5 years. I think it was common advice to women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | wow.Also, she describes her daughter as "ultra-caring". This is a reaction to abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | wow.And that's what you get for making excuses for a grown man taking his feelings out on a child. You get called a stupid bitch. When really the argument should have been "nobody speaks to daughter that way, not even her father". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 6 | I will not be a detectiveAh, that's so shit, I'm sorry. I had exes who did this too, but I always sensed it wasn't quite genuine (both my parents were narcissists, so I'm hypervigilant with lying and manipulation). I couldn't pinpoint it for you, just a strong instinct. It's sick the lengths some men will go to, just to hoodwink you. I agree, it's draining and exhausting and awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendI'm so sorry you've been through this. I think those of us who've been there are seeing the red flags loud and clear here. So glad that you're out of this awful situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:59 AM |
| 8 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Lol no. A large part of FDS is about "Leveling Up". Improving yourself in every way: professional, fitness, emotional, mental, spiritual, etc. It's about being a whole and complete person who is happy in themselves and genuinely likes themselves. Which is generally accepted as vital to being a good partner "you can't love anyone else until you love yourself". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:34 AM |
| 2 | My father taught me to choose LVMThank you, that's a very kind thing to say ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 7 | My father taught me to choose LVMUgh, that's awful I'm so sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 5 | My father taught me to choose LVM😂😂 More or less, yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 8 | My father taught me to choose LVMI understand. I'm a mum now, so he understands that his needs come after mine and the kids. That's where my energy belongs. He, like most LVM, hasn't been all bad. While he begrudged giving my mother money, he always made sure I had what I needed, and always had good quality (uniform, shoes, clothes hobbies etc). My mother, honestly, was a worse parent than him, and when it became unbearably abusive with her I went to live with him in my teens. He always existed somewhere in between genuinely wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 14 | My father taught me to choose LVMI'm so sorry you're stuck in this horrible situation for now. It's not right. I'm so glad you have a plan to get out. How's the job search going? Do you mind me asking how old you are? And whether there's a friend or relative who would take you in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 12 | My father taught me to choose LVM❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:39 PM |
| 12 | My father taught me to choose LVMI put my foot down years ago about the way he was treating me and we didn't speak for many years. He's elderly now, and in very poor health. He's my only living parent. He's matured, in some ways, and he recognises and respects my boundaries. He knows I'll go no contact if he doesn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 28 | My father taught me to choose LVMUgh. Men being scrotes even when they're supposed to be dads. I'm sorry he treated you badly, but I'm glad he's out of your life now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 15 | My father taught me to choose LVMThank you. I'm OK now. I just look at him and think I need the opposite of him, or nothing at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 15 | My father taught me to choose LVMI'm sorry your dad is the same as mine. It's crap. But yeah, I see so much why I was a pickme whenever I'm with my dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 19 | My father taught me to choose LVMTotally agree! Also an 80s chubby awkward kid. I was never good enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:27 PM |
| 16 | My father taught me to choose LVMI was the same too. When I gained a lot of weight due to my thyroid in my 20s, my dad fat shamed me. "no wonder he cheated on you. Look at the size of you!" "no wonder your back hurts! You're huge!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 38 | My father taught me to choose LVMI'm so sorry about your experience. Clearly he knew that he wasn't good enough to be your dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 26 | My father taught me to choose LVMBasically, yes. They divorced when I was young. My mum has passed now. He lives in filth. I've tried to help him, but he just messes up any cleaning I do within hours. His floors are all covered in rubbish and cigarette butt's. You have to wade through the filth to get anywhere. 2 years ago I gutted the place, got it immaculate (made myself ill doing it) and hired a cleaner. He sacked the cleaner because he couldn't be bothered to keep it tidy for 3 days between visits. I've given up now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 38 | My father taught me to choose LVMOh god, your dad sounds disgusting. I'm so very sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 6 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessMy dad was with my stepmom for 16 years. They had a bad breakup due to my evil stepsister. 2 years later my lovely stepbrother took his own life. Shortly afterwards my stepmother had cancer. My dad saw her one day coming out of the cancer clinic. Didn't approach her, just watched her. When he recounted it to me, he just kept saying "she looked awful, she's gained so much weight" and "she used to be such an attractive women, but she looks terrible now". I couldn't believe that's all he had to say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessI'm so sorry for all you're going through. Please post here often for support. We've got you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessI'm so sorry for your loss, and for all your mom went through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessI'm so sorry your husband did this to you. He's scum. Well done you for divorcing him and showing your girls that we NEVER accept this treatment from ANY man. Not even their father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessOh god, this is horrifying. I'm so sorry for your loss and all the pain your aunt went through. Her husband is loathsome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts?This is how I got trapped in to getting married at 19. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:22 PM |
| 9 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendI think it's difficult to see the warning signs if you don't have experience of it. I mean, it's crazy to think that somebody would do that. It took me a long time to realise that my stuff was going missing on purpose, because who would do that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:31 AM |
| 11 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendI agree. I can imagine how awful it felt for OP to have made all that effort just to be stood up. Gutwrenching. But if it's abnormal behaviour for her friend to do this, OP might want to reach out in a few weeks to check if friend is OK, because it sounds as though she's in a controlling relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:07 AM |
| 7 | Imagine if for 1 Day women all acted like stereotypical scrotes, what would happen?I foresee many a mantrum lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 09:04 AM |
| 4 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HVAw thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:50 AM |
| 16 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendArg! Yes! He'd always need to grab something with my card then "accidentally" take it to work with him! So I was left with no way to pay for anything if I went out. This was over 10 years ago, before the apps on your phone. It took me a long time to realise that he was doing these things on purpose because.... Well it's just crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:07 AM |
| 29 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HV"YoU aRe GoInG tO dIe AlOnE wItH 200 cAtS!!!" I mean, ideally, yeah. (give your kitties kisses from me too!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:31 AM |
| 7 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HV😂 Lol no, that's his sisters job! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:26 AM |
| 18 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HVNot just his mess either, he tidies up after his sister has used the litter box too. I love him so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 34 | I will not be a detectiveMy last ex was so open with his phone. Within a couple of weeks he had told me the code to open it, for some totally innocuous reason (can't even remember it, maybe so I could listen to music or control the TV). He'd read texts next to me, making no effort to hide his screen, and he'd usually just casually say "so and so just messaged about xyz" to make conversation about it. If something on his phone made him laugh he'd want to show it to me straight away because it would probably make me laugh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:14 AM |
| 9 | I will not be a detectiveYou've done the right thing, trust your instincts, they're there for a reason! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:02 AM |
| 20 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendHe was, he wanted to isolate me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 242 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HVMy male cat is high value AF. He's confident and assured. He's in a household entirely made of females and he spends his day checking in on all of us, making sure we are OK. If any of us is ill or having a bad day, he stays with that person /animal non stop. When I sweep up, he helps. I'll be sweeping in to the dustpan and he'll use his little paw to help with that. Because he knows I like a swept floor, he clears up any escapee litter by sweeping it with his paw right up to the edge of the litt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 15 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendAbsolutely, he was a nightmare. He's gone now thankfully! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 30 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendYup, it was awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 32 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendI did get them and he removed them. But I use them again now that I've ditched him and they're fab! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 155 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendI'm willing to bet that her LVM did something to sabotage your outing. I had one ex who used to hide my belongings (keys, phone etc) so that I was always late to meet my friends. If I went at all. I was so embarrassed by it that I always would say something came up with my kid last minute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | This is why we must be extremely careful about the kind of men we procreate with, lest this happens. She's still trying to hang on instead of divorce. Meanwhile some pickme in the comments is saying they could "bOtH bEnEfIt fRoM cOuNseLinG." OP has suggested it, but surprise, he never went.Ah I thought it was just Linking subs we weren't allowed to do. Sorry if I got it wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:10 PM |
| 2 | This is why we must be extremely careful about the kind of men we procreate with, lest this happens. She's still trying to hang on instead of divorce. Meanwhile some pickme in the comments is saying they could "bOtH bEnEfIt fRoM cOuNseLinG." OP has suggested it, but surprise, he never went.Which sub was it in please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Lol could you fucking not?I'm dead 😂💀😂💀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 4 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.The family are going after them thankfully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:28 PM |
| 44 | Housewife gets all revved up at the mere sight of her husband doing the dishesFucking hell. What she's saying is "he usually does nothing, but today he did". My male cat does more than this guy to help out on a daily basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:25 PM |
| 7 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.He brags about it afterwards. It's sick. Just sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 10 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.Did you see the pictures of how physically hurt she is? Just left there, handcuffed with a dislocated shoulder. And he asks his female colleague to check for scratches so he can "slap a felony" on the elderly woman. 😡😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:55 PM |
| 12 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.He didn't want to. That's the honest answer. He talks about it afterwards and is so proud of his violence. He says he's always wanted to do it. 😡😢😡😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:51 PM |
| 10 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.Yup, I straight up cried for her. But the way he talks about it all just 😡😡😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:49 PM |
| 11 | Men will never understand how vulnerable it feels to be a womanAlmost exactly. He was a bigger guy, but yeah. This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 14 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.It's a really, really difficult watch. But it's the way he's so proud of himself after the fact... He admitted he's always wanted to do this. It's sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:46 PM |
| 14 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.It's a devastating watch. That poor, poor woman. The family are going after them, thankfully. They paid to have the audio enhanced so that we can hear this big, tough, alpha man brag about how he took down a tiny frail woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:39 PM |
| 28 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.I'm going to be straight up about this. This video has made me cry. I'm so angry. This isn't about the police. It's about the man talking to his colleagues about how he's always wanted to do this. He brags and boasts about throwing this frail woman to the ground. About dislocating her shoulder and breaking her wrist. He fistbumps his male colleague. His female pickme colleague wonders if she wasn't violent enough. Fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck these violent fucking arsehole scrotemonsters!!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:37 PM |
| 19 | Men will never understand how vulnerable it feels to be a womanOh god!! Give him grey hair, a belly and wrinkles and this is exactly it!!! 💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:53 AM |
| 60 | Men will never understand how vulnerable it feels to be a womanIt was just so creepy and odd. I can't even just read in peace?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:19 AM |
| 248 | Men will never understand how vulnerable it feels to be a womanYesterday I was a passenger in a friend's car. My friend needed something from the shop, parked up, I stayed in the car with the dog. I was reading this sub on my phone and felt a looming shadow. Looked up and there's a guy in his 60s, just staring at me. It took him a second to notice I was looking at him because he was fixated on my boobs. The second he saw me looking he just said "Sorry!" and RAN. Apparently I should be grateful for this attention, according to men, because it means I have "o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Would love to see your additions 😂We've all met that guy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:56 AM |
| 6 | This is the document that helped pull me out of a terrible, abusive relationship: Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser, by Joseph M. Carver, Ph.DWell this was an accurate description of my last relationship.... Welp! Thank you so much for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:22 AM |
| 16 | On today’s episode of MEN (TM) fetishists ruin EVERYTHING. 🤢🤢Also, BDSM is physically acting out a "fantasy", whereas watching a horror movie is passive. If someone started acting out horror movies on their pets it would be considered an alarming escalation, let alone if they acted it out on another human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 6 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.That's exactly what she was like! He was youngest of 4 and an oopsie baby. So there was a 10 year gap between him and his next sibling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 22 | On today’s episode of MEN (TM) fetishists ruin EVERYTHING. 🤢🤢Because "iTs JuSt A fAnTaSy" and no worse than watching horror and some people aren't prudes. I didn't reply. To me it's not worth replying to anyone who thinks that fantasising about hurting women is acceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 14 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.Ewwww gross!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 16 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.No, I think she just wanted to baby him forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 91 | On today’s episode of MEN (TM) fetishists ruin EVERYTHING. 🤢🤢I got a couple arguing with me about my comments on BDSM 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 71 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.I had a MIL like this. She was evil. She once suggested to my ex, on my birthday, that he should start hitting me if I didn't have dinner on the table as soon as he walked in the door. He was like "Uhh, mom, she's home from work later than me though." 🙃 Although, tbf, he'd never have hit me anyway. She just didn't like that I "stole her baby". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:41 AM |
| 37 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.It happens! Go have a look at just no MIL. SO many men want their mommies in the delivery room to support them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Lies I tell thee! I've been to wales and all it did was rain ;) I got some distant family somewhere near ebbw vale but havn't seen them since I was a kid so couldn't say where exactly. also used to rent a cottage from a friend in Pen-y-Bont-Fawr and there are some great walks a scenery up that way. Ahh, you're not going south enough, that's the issue. :-P Ah no! guess you will just have to let him go :D Gutted. Devastated. Bereft. Farewell my headless love! weeps in cats and box wine Did you mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Sorry I don't believe you the sun hasn't been seen in wales for ever ;) Ah lovely, we've had two days of it here. Lol and it's all lies about Wales. They just say that to keep the tourists away from our beaches 😁 Why would you need books you would be transfixed by his 6'5" fit frame :D you would been in awe of his intelligence remember he speaks 3 languages and has 30 underlings he gets to boss about (i'm sure they don't think hes a dick) hahaha. I'm too short to even see all of his 6'5" frame. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Hey, good thx, they played really well and won 3-1 :) Brilliant news! Well done that lad! Was the weather good for you too? Well now i'm jealous :( living in the middle of the uk means i'm at least 2 hours from a beach, must be nice today on a beach and I bet the dog loved it. Ah, well, you know what Luke Evans says.... Visit Wales ;) Puddle had the best day of his life! He says that all the time though, so I can't really take him seriously. Why the /s he seems like a real catch and you would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Hiya, how was your sons footie match? I've had a great day thanks. Gorgeous weather, so I've been to the beach and pottering in the garden. Maybe you don't but some people think anyone that disagrees with them is arguing (a lot of ppd seem like this) research lol I like it not a bad way of viewing it. Some people here seem so wedded to their ideology that they'd die for it. A lady posted here earlier saying that OLD had made it easier to only pick men who fitted her criteria. The response was in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Transactional Female Attention?You can already hire a professional cuddler in the Western world. They're usually qualified counsellors too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:58 PM |
| 15 | Scrotes are right about us ending up single with multiple cats.I have one dog, 2 cats and 4 bunnies. Sorted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 82 | Dom surgeon who had signed slave contract with current GF accused of trying to get his estranged wife kidnapped, drugged and blackmailed.What they'll say is that it's not real BDSM because it doesn't follow "the rules" (safeword, aftercare etc). They will reject this and say it's not like what they do. But they won't acknowledge that BDSM was the gateway to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 12 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneGosh, your post has triggered a lot of men who don't meet your OLD criteria, hasn't it? OK, so it seems like you have a history of setting yourself on fire to keep men warm. It shows that you have a great deal of empathy, which is a wonderful trait to have. But sacrificing yourself for others will never make you truly happy. Trust me, I've been there. I was raised that way and it's taken years of work with a therapist, and other self development work, to get to a better place. My recommendation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Pickme cool girl calls us "females" and how poor men are oppressed in our society."there's no birth control available to men" Condoms. There's condoms. If he won't wear a condom then he's taking the risk of being "baby trapped" . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:53 AM |
| 111 | Would love to see your additions 😂But I don't want to wash my butt (because its gay) Boundry Stompa ft. I'll get my momma involved I'll never cheat on you (except with porn, drugs and alcohol) Know your place ft. Kitchen Bitch I wouldn't survive without you (because I'm not a fully functioning adult) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:09 AM |
| 7 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?I don't think tradespeople are looked down on in my country. They earn incredible money because they've spent years learning their trade, practising, honing their skills. I'd argue that a tradesman is an educated man. But even if women don't find someone to be in a relationship with doesn't mean she will end up with only cats and boxed wine. She's most likely going to develop a beautiful life full of hobbies, adventures, family and friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Thats ok, was it a productive day or a BS busy day :) Mine was ok pretty chilled out saturday. Pretty productive, I'm happy with how it went. What do you consider chill? Oh right, odd for them to want to claim that being argumentative is a masculine trait as its not really a good quality! but i'm guessing its their way of saying "shut up and get back to the kitchen and make me a sandwich" herpy derp derp. To be honest, I don't see it as arguing. To me it's debating and figuring out the kind of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Health benefits of leaving a LVM and NVMHave you had mono/glandular fever in the past? If you have it can flare up when your body is run down (similar to shingles). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Health benefits of leaving a LVM and NVMI'm so sorry you had to go through this. But SO happy you're doing better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 10 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveI know plenty of couples who waited 10-15 years to have kids. They met in high school, or college, had their freedom and youth together (most of them did a lot of travelling) then decided to have children together. They're happy, still in love, and are enjoying their lives. The whole point of love and attraction is to make you want to have kids together. It's built-in to make us breed so our species survives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I'm so sorry, I've only just seen this! Busy day here. How's yours? Glad I can lighten up your day of dealing with reddit :) That's very kind of you, thank you. I'd feel truly crap about life if it were just all TRPs here. What you're masculine because you don't chase chads?? what kind of wierd logic is that!! No I'm masculine because I'm "very argumentative. Very masculine trait" Because only men get to speak, I guess. There probably reasons as to why they think that and non of them will be rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.It's still popular. Many people enjoy it. Many people enjoy dadbods and Teddy bears. Attraction is so very much more than looks and muscles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I'm not in the US, but I'd still say that BBW is very popular. It's often front page on a porn site. So it's clear that many men like BBW. Not all, but many. Same thing for dad bods and bigger guys. Humans just aren't all the same. It's just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180I think she did sue the company and that's why it was news. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | The ✨ Mandacity ✨ is off the charts in the one.Definitely! I'll never date a man with an ounce of self pity again. Because when you're vulnerable they do shit like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Men: “Soon, women will be obsolete! Stay strong, kings!” Also men:Please, please I need to see this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 12 | Why women hate porn: it harms and objectifies women. 🤡 Why men hate porn: 🤡😂💀😂💀😂💀😂 I can't... I just can't with these dudes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 9 | Why women hate porn: it harms and objectifies women. 🤡 Why men hate porn: 🤡Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:39 PM |
| 2 | The ✨ Mandacity ✨ is off the charts in the one.Thank you for posting this! I hate this guy. I hate him! There she is, adjusting to being a new mother, healing from a difficult pregnancy and labour, doing ALL the work and he's out there TRASHING her reputation, even with her own family. He's isolating her. I truly hope she leaves him. Or at least goes to her parents for a few weeks with the baby so they can see that she does it all herself. I HATE him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:16 PM |
| 12 | Men who say oddly specific things about their exSoooooooo spot on!! One ex was abused by his ex. To be fair, he was covered in scars where she stabbed him (it wasn't self defence. He didn't touch her. She went to prison in the end). He did the pity thing too. Luckily I'm not a stabby person so that wasn't an issue. I was declared the best he'd ever been with. Until I first asked him to buck himself up. Then I was "just like the others". Minus the stabbing, obvs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"I was so grateful to her. She looked concerned about me, which was the appropriate reaction to how ill I was. I fainted a few days later, and we switched meds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Pretty much. Though for me the take is that niceness fades fast. Kindness is part of a person and never goes away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I'd rather have a snuggly guy. Intimacy and attraction are about so much more than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Nah, I think it's best you don't demolish anyone in my area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.There's nothing wrong with that. But the name calling, degrading language and hatefulness that you see when women are talked about here is wrong. Not in to someone like me? Fine, so long as you're civil about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I think he hides a lot under a loose t-shirt, but at certain points she is touching him and you can see the dad bod | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I chose that example, from hundreds of videos, to counteract the people saying that only fat women go for dad bods. In my opinion, despite being tall, he definitely has a dad bod, according to the Wikipedia description and example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Nice is a temporary behaviour. It's overt, and usually comes with an expectation. It disappears when that expectation isn't met and is usually met with anger (in all genders, in all types of relationship, not just romantic). Kindness is a personality trait. It's more subtle but consistent. It's how a person conducts themselves and the choices they make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Plenty of women like bigger men. The Teddy bear body is popular too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing.OK, I don't care enough to go fact hunting. The stereotypes exist, but TRP has reversed the qualities. What makes an alpha, or any good leader, is empathy, compassion and care for subordinates. Women value these qualities in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I would find those men attractive. Indeed, I'd prefer to snuggle up to them than a muscular guy. Many women are attracted to dad bods. Not all, but many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:57 AM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.No they don't, they get bashed for trying to impose their standards and expectations on other people. It's perfectly fine to say "I'll only date women who are X weight and X height no older than X age" and stick to that. That's a personal boundary. It's not OK to degrade everyone who doesn't fit your standard, tell them they're not worth anything and their value is low, call them names etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Hahaha!! Brilliant!!! Gave me a good giggle. I'm actually having this argument with another guy (got told I was masculine for it. Oops!). They just don't get that it's not all about looks. Men can easily physically overpower women, so we're looking for someone who treats us with kindness and respect. Because otherwise we might be getting punched in the face by our husband in a couple of years. I know it's grim, but it's reality. And honestly, if a guy is very muscular we have to worry about ster… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Maybe for a ONS women would choose the better looking guy (can't expand on that because it's not my thing). But for a life partner? No, looks don't serve us in selecting someone to spend most of our time together for the rest of our lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:11 AM |
| 0 | CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing.They do, that's where the term comes from. There are many studies comparing the hierarchy in captivity and the wild. In captivity the beta's are more likely to challenge the alpha, due to limited resources. In the wild they rarely do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"So, so, so wild. Men are the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Go on tiktok, search "Dad bod" and find the hundreds of videos and women thirsting over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"Yes, please go for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:59 AM |
| -1 | CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing.Wolves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"Yes over the last couple of days. The title mentions a difficult pregnancy and labour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I'm demisexual, so I'm only sexually attracted to men I've got a strong emotional connection with. When I'm single, I don't need sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"I tried to post a link but it's not allowed. Fascinating read. I told her to go stay at her parents with the baby for a week (though I'm hoping she'll dump this useless manchild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Yeah, I mean if you're a good person, people will see that in your behaviour. You don't need to insist you're nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.It's really sad that you think this. I dumped one short guy I was seeing because he was becoming frightening with his need to physically overpower me to prove that he could. I didn't need him to prove that, certainly not in that way. The other short guy I dated was lovely, but he wanted 5 kids and I just wasn't down for that many babies. Women enjoy men in all shapes and sizes, it's just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I've dated all over the height spectrum. The only issue I've had with a shorter man is his complex about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.That's not true, there are plenty of people who are in to obese people. BBW is a very popular porn genre. Not to mention the feeders who seek out obese people to feed up. Though I believe that to be a codependency issue, rather than genuine attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:56 AM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Women aren't all in to the same thing either. We're all over the place with our preferences too. I've often heard men say that they're "a boob guy", "a butt guy" or "a legs guy". I'm 5ft so almost every man is taller than me, so I don't need to care about height. It wouldn't even occur to me to look for it on a dating profile. Men seem much more obsessed with height than any woman I've ever known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I know, they're just fakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Why is that wrong? Plenty of men state their preferences on here too. I've literally just been told on another post here that nobody wants me or wants to marry me because I'm over 30. That's a very common preference for men here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?And, as a woman, I can tell you that you're wrong. There may be some women as you describe. But we are individuals, not just one big copypaste of each other. We're all going to have our own preferences. Mine are dadbods because they're my favourite to snuggle with. They're also the body type I've most enjoyed seeing naked. I know many other women who like dad bods for similar reasons. Dad bods are sexy to some women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I learned it on reddit too :-) If you behave as a good guy, you'll be seen as one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.How strange that you're talking about teenagers in response to my comments about adult dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Are a lot of mental health issue due to the way society associates worth with physical attractiveness?I think so, especially if you look at the way photos are manipulated to make people appear to be physically superior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:03 AM |
| 3 | What makes a woman a loser?That's simply not true though. I'm over 30 and I've never had more men interested in me than now. Through every relationship (romantic or not) we've had through our lives we've learned what we do and don't like, and set our standards accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 5 | What makes a woman a loser?Why do you keep implying that cats are a bad thing? Cats are lovely. Cats don't play weird dominance games with you. They don't put you down. They don't think all women are exactly the same. It's scientifically proven that older single women are generally happier than those who are married. The reverse is true for men. The single ones are unhappy, and the married ones are generally happier. So, I might be over 30, but I'll be OK either way :-) And cats are cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?He seems really ragey about it too... His comments are... Unique lol Craft away! I've got your back! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 9 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.The only charity worker I know is married to a former model, and has been for 20 years. When we're looking for man to marry and be the father of our children, we want a kind, caring, empathetic, genuine man. Who will be there for us and our kids. It's basic biology that women will choose the man who treats them best to be their life partner. Especially considering that men, historically, have held all the power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 7 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I avoid anyone who calls themselves a nice guy now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 20 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Exactly all of this! And even the way this post is worded by OP. He sees women as one great big object. We can't possibly be individuals, with individual tastes and preferences. NO! He's decided that ALL women like a muscular physique and those who don't are just fat! When will men stop pretending that they know better than us about what we want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 8 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.What kind of women are you hanging out with that date drug dealers? Most women will fall in love with a kind empathitic man. I see it in all the happy marriages I've ever seen. Family, friends, colleagues etc. The marriages that last are with men with these qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:28 AM |
| 10 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Women will choose the man they get on best with and who treats them with respect. That matters much more to us than physique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I don't know, I think it would trigger a lot of people who post here. There's already a post raging about how no women really like dad bods lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I just find it so strange that these men want to be alphas but have no idea what it truly takes to be one. Then when women describe wanting a real alpha we're told "No! Women say they want nice guys/betas but really they don't want that! They want to be treated like dirt to keep them interested!". Um, no... I just ditch anyone who is playing weird dominance games with me. I agree, everyone should just be who they are and treat each other well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 15 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Niceness is a behaviour. Kindness and empathy are personalty traits. Niceness is easy to fake. Kindness and empathy are much harder to fake. So that's what I'm looking for in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I've dated both. I enjoyed the dad bod physique much more than the muscular physique. It's just a personal preference. Many women share this preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I'm not sure what makes you feel so threatened by this. Dad bods are legitimately attractive to many women. And infinitely nicer to snuggle up to at the end of the day. Not all women like the same thing. We have our own preferences. I've dated a muscular dude, but I didn't enjoy his body as much as I did the two dad bod guys I dated. I simply prefer a dad bod. And that's OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Or some just genuinely arent attracted to muscles. Not every single woman in the world likes the same thing. Attraction to dad-bods is a genuine thing. Some women like obese men. Some women like skinny men. We just aren't all exactly the same lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I mean, you read a post like this (and his comments) and you just think "I wouldn't enjoy hanging out with OP". So you're totally right. Imagine thinking that every single woman on the planet likes the same physique?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 36 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Women don't like "nice guys". Being nice is a temporary behavior with expectations. We like kind, empathetic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Or, it's just that not all women like the exact same thing? Maybe we too have a personal preference?? Wild, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I do prefer a dad bod, basically just a guy who's a little chubby. I've dated all body types and the dad bods were my favourite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Yes. Yes to allllll of this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Be a good man with good qualities and love yourself and be kind and just ask her out. If she says no or she’s a horrible bitch just go ask another one out. The alpha beta debate is stupid too Exactly all of this!! I've never, not once, met another woman who says "Ooo I'm really in to alpha males". We just want someone we click with. That's all. Besides, when you look at alpha wolves, they're what most men who pride alphas would describe as a beta. They're compassionate, caring, put the weaker me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Where I'm from, dad bods are the preferred norm. I don't doubt that it varies depending on the country you live in though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Ah, good for you! I'm glad you've found someone you're happy with. That's the only important thing really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Yay! But I've stopped arguing now :-( Quick, say something really general and negative about women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:54 PM |
| 21 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"I tried to post screenshots the other day, but my account is too new. An Aita post where a new mum is doing all the work and the dad is constantly making self-pity posts about how hard being a dad is and how exhausted he is. Except he was getting 9hrs sleep every night and not actually doing anything to help in the day. Friends and family were reaching out and he was giving them the sob story too. Her own parents were angry with her. She wanted to know if she was the asshole for telling him not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:53 PM |
| 13 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"I think that might have been my dad... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:45 PM |
| 16 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"I had PPD after my child was born and I was put on different medications. One of them turned me in to a total zombie. We'd be shopping and I'd be trailing behind my ex with the baby in the cart. Women would fall over themselves to tell him how amazing he was.... For... pushing a baby in a cart. One time our car broke down and we were waiting at a bus stop, next to an older couple.My baby was just learning to walk and took a few steps then plonked down on her butt. She didn't cry and I was totall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Too late! It's done now lol And the dog happily sighed himself into a snoring floor puddle. Bless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?The link isn't working. I'm not sure what a beta bux is. I've never had that motivation when dating a man. I'm just looking for someone I click with. The women in my family and social circle are the same. For most they'd prioritise being treated well and clicking with someone over an aesthetic for a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I thought he had a weak chin and receding hairline personally. Maybe that's the case for some women. But if the guy gets the girl she she is attracted to him, I don't think it really matters. So long as a guy is continuing to put in effort and not taking his partner for granted, she won't feel insecure (unless she has deep rooted issues she needs to work on). I imagine men feel the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?"Dad bods are so hot! 🔥" "Dad bods are where its at!" Both in the comments of this video. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?The dog situation is well handled. It's my reddit game you destroyed! :-D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:12 PM |
| 110 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180There was a female engineer working for one of the big car firms who was fired for having an OF account a couple of years ago. Imagine putting in all that work to learn how to build cars and it being taken away because you posted nudes on OnlyFans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Dammit! I was doing so well until you chimed in ;-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?But I'm multitasking lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Lol yes, but he never just fetches the ball, we've also got the whole game of "I've got the ball and you can't have it unless you chase me", which is his favourite part. So that's distracting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Lol, not me it seems (unless throwing the ball for the dog counts) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Replying to too many people at once... And not quite bright enough to do it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Ah sorry, I mixed you up with the guy who said he couldn't find any videos of single guys with dad bods on tiktok. Which is false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?His hairline was very receded and he wasn't handsome. None of that means anything to me. He's objectively better looking than the man I was last in a relationship with. But I didn't care, because of our emotional connection he was the sexiest man in the world to me. But you're trying to argue that this man is a stud with a bit of puppy fat. He's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?It's a common physique which many women enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I can't really relate to that tbh. Obviously the men I've been in LTRs with have invested a lot of time building a connection with me so I feel secure with them because of that. I'm also big on self improvement (physically and mentally) so I struggle with a partner who isn't in to it. I don't doubt that there are some girls like that though. I'm sorry you're experienced that. An hour a day isn't much to ask for me-time. Maybe an interest in self improvement and self development is a value that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?No they're all Instagram models and famous people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Not when you look at the standards being set by the advertising and media industries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Not in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?He wasn't particularly handsome though, and he was bald. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I mean, if you look at before and after photoshop photos, I don't think the female body men find sexy actually exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Nor do they use women's natural bodies. It's a toxic scam for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I saw loads but I'm about to watch Falcon and The Winter Soldier so I'm not finding more for you. You seem to not want to believe it for some reason, and are willing to gaslight that you can't find any when there are hundreds of videos proving otherwise with a simple search. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:28 PM |
| 5 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I mean, I don't think that's the motivation for most. But does it really matter? If she finds him attractive and wants to be with him, it's a win, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Again, you're welcome to search dad-bods on there. There are plenty of single dad-bod men being thirsted over in the comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?That's advertising though, it's all photoshopped women too. Tiktok is mainly ordinary people interacting with each other. I'd say that's a more accurate representation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Have a look at the video and comments. Loads of women are commenting on dad-bods being hot, and where it's at etc. Search dad-bods on tiktok and look at the comments. Out of the physiques I've dated, the two dad-bods were my favourite to snuggle up to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:08 PM |
| 8 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I mean, she's married to him and they have a kid together, so it's unlikely she's done all that just to make a tiktok video. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?What I'm saying is that many women thirst in the comments section of videos of men with dad-bods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?There are loads of single dad-bod guys there too. Have a look for yourself. I posted this one because this woman clearly has nothing to be insecure about. She's gorgeous. But she (and many commenters) are totally in to the dad-bod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 8 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?That's not my experience, either for myself or the women around me. In fact, it's often discussed that men like Magic Mike are fine to look at (not for me, I find it icky) but we'd all want someone to snuggle up to at night and prefer a cuddlier guy in reality. I'm not really the best woman to ask about it due to my demisexuality. I've been in long term relationships with a ripped model, an obese man and two dad-bods. All were equally attractive to me because of our emotional connection. So I ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I posted this example for someone else. But if you go on tiktok and search "Dad-bods" you'll see that it's very popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Go on tiktok and search dad-bod, you'll find plenty, but here is just one example. Have a look at the comments too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Not for laughs at all, many women are genuinely in to the dad-bod and will happily thirst over a guy in the comments. Particularly on tiktok, purely because people are usually posting videos of themselves. I'm demisexual, so looks don't determine my sexual attraction to someone. But I have a preference to snuggle up to a dad-bod physique than a ripped one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Yeah, pretty much. Many women enjoy a dad-bod and aren't shy about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?It depends on the platform. Dad-bod is incredibly popular on twitter and tiktok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?That's just one example. Have a look on twitter or tiktok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Who says they have good genetics? Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Women need to be the more attractive one in the relationship Do they? Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:04 PM |
| -2 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?How do you explain the surge in popularity of the "Dad-bod" in the last few years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?I'm not a fan of the ripped body type tbh. I'm demisexual so my attraction is based solely on emotional connection. But I do like grey hair and I'm put off by too many muscles. It's strange that men here claim women want that given the surge in popularity of the "Dad bod". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 9 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmBecause they're soooooooooooo easy to have.... But men can't seem to make us cum because it's too difficult?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 5 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmDo you think he gets this upset every time he blows his nose? spunk is just mucus you fool 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:41 PM |
| 7 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?This is a beautiful response and I love your metaphor! I'm sorry you're going through a rough time, but it sounds as though you will heal to be the most beautiful, bright lobster ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:00 AM |
| 12 | Being the "dream girl" isn't specialHe was, and he had no shame about it either. Every time he talked about her it was with such contempt it was scary. And how many songs had he made with the software? One. Just one. He'd put zero effort in to having this dream career, but resented her for putting the work in and getting a good job. Ugh, I hate him. We weren't friends for long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?So, what you're saying is that there's no point ever wanting a relationship? I disagree. My 18 year relationship was very fulfilling. We remained in love. Maybe we were the exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:59 PM |
| 104 | Being the "dream girl" isn't specialA former LVM friend also told me about his dream girl. She was Chinese, attractive, petite, well educated and successful. He described their second date went. They went somewhere where they were eating with wooden chopsticks. She rubbed them together to prevent splinters. She got a splinter anyway. He went on for a solid 5 minutes about how pretentious she was and she went and got a splinter anyway, so her pretentious efforts were all for nothing. He was smirking and really enjoying that this ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?How do you think LTRs work, if not for ebb and flow of loving feelings? What would be the motivation to stay otherwise? Your dismissal of the reasons a HVW would want a relationship is where I got it from. "They would only be discarded" and your failure to even acknowledge the existence of these relationship fundamentals mean that you don't think they're worth offering. I'm not the one complaining on the Internet about not being able to find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Then you're very confused about what the term emotional labor means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?If both partners are making consistent efforts with each other, then the tingles don't go away. They ebb and flow, but don't disappear. It's strange to argue that you're not going to offer what women want, while pretending women don't want those things, but also complaining that you can't get women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?No, I'm asking in your mind what tasks are emotional labour, and what tasks are that of a supportive partner? There is a difference between the two. I'm wondering if there's a misunderstanding about which is which? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Well, firstly I don't believe that either partner should be giving the other therapy sessions. That's what therapists are for. Basic day-to-day emotional support? That should be equal. But when it comes to heavy hitting stuff like trauma and bereavement, we need professionals for that. In it same way that we wouldn't ask our writer partner to perform neurosurgery on us, but we might ask them to put a bandaid on a cut. The onesidedness with emotional support is exactly my experience with men (and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?OK, so who do you think is responsible for your emotional labor? There is a world of difference between being a loving and supportive partner and doing a mans emotional labor for him. I would hope you were intelligent enough to see that and provide examples of each? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?My experience as a woman has been the opposite. I can't think of one relationship I've seen in my entire life where the man put in more emotional effort than the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?You're not a child, why are you talking about "being bad"? Why aren't women going to date you? Anyone with two brain cells to rub together knows that friendships and intimate relationships are different. You seem very keen to be "confused". Are you trying to debate me here or infantilise yourself? It's really hard to tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Women: We'd like men to put the same amount of emotional effort in to relationships as we do. Men: Set themselves on fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Lol nobody said that. If you would like a romantic partner, go find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Nobody is telling you that. Nobody is expecting you to have long lovemaking sessions with your bros, or spoon with them, or live with them. There is a difference between a romantic relationship and a friendship. Ideally, everyone who wants both would put in the effort to have both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?Intimacy, connection, companionship, love, tenderness, genuine affection, someone to share experiences with? I find it so strange that so many men tend to forget these vital parts of a relationship exist. And, the truth is, when a woman talks about a high value male, she's talking about a man with the emotional maturity and emotional intelligence to be able to offer the above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 0 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?I don't feel that anyone would call someone "nasty" for saying "I only like to have sex as part of a committed relationship". It's far more likely that your friend was being very invasive about her previous sex life and she felt interrogated. She's right, the past is the past. It's better to establish whether you share a similar ethos in general about intimacy and relationships. The best way to go about that would be to make statements, rather than directly ask how many. For example.. "I'm only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?Quite right. I'll never truly understand wanting to know an exact number, if I'm honest. "I only enjoy sex as part of a committed relationship" or "I only have sex once I have an emotional bond with the other person" tells me everything I need to know about their sexual history (other than the results of an STD screening, which I feel both partners should have before embarking on a sexual relationship). It's an abrasive question in general. And whether or not your answer is "acceptable" is very,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?Why the derogatory language though? I share your preference, I'm demisexual and I feel that sharing this type of Sexuality is a large part of being sexually compatible with a man. But then I don't think those who are more free with their Sexuality are hoes, or less than me. They're just not people I'm sexually compatible with. In the same way that it would be ill advised that I pursue a relationship with a gay man, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?There's a way to address this, as you rightly point out. Personally, I'm demisexual and I believe that a relationship will be more successful if we're on the same page. Relationships are about finding someone you're compatible with, after all. Sexuality, sex drive etc all plays a part in that. If you rush in, accusatory, like a bull in a china shop asking about n-counts and calling people sluts, whores and thots, then you're an idiot. Also, if you're the kind of person who wants a long term rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?Why are you making this seem like there are different standards for men and women? They should be the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 17 | Billie speaking facts!We did though. It's just that the media always portrayed them negatively as "Divas" for having standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 30 | Billie speaking facts!Seriously, this!!!! Dumb arguments I've had with guys I've dated. Me: What kind of rice shall I pick up? Him: Hahahaha! Um, the only kind?! 😂 Me: There are lots of kinds of rice though. Him: Don't be stupid. Just pick up the rice. Me: OK, so, like a long grain or basmati or something? Him: RAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGEEEEE Him: Who's your favourite band? Me: Matchbox20 Him: smirks Yeah, they're okay, but I do find them just a cheap rip-off of Maroon 5. Me: They were around years before Maroon 5. Him: No, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 21 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenThere is nothing wrong with wanting someone at the same fitness level as you! I say this as a plus size woman, please don't feel bad for wanting to share a similar fitness level as your partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:17 PM |
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