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FDS HUMOROrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:39 PM
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LIES MEN TELLOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:20 AM
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Muh PENISOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:40 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:37 PM
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LIES MEN TELLOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:12 PM
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LIES MEN TELLOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:35 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:37 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:33 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:48 AM
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SCROTES MADOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:16 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:45 PM
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STAY WOKEOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:25 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:58 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:17 PM
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BOOK REPORTOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:30 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:54 PM
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DISCUSSIONOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:26 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:12 PM
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LIES MEN TELLOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:10 PM
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LIES MEN TELLOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:06 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:23 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:26 PM
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STAY WOKEOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:21 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEOrangeyPanda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:48 PM
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I think the only reason you would need to live with a partner is if you have children together. If you're childfree, as many as us are, then living separately is a great idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:10 AM
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Does anyone remember the days when pedophilia was seen as a bad thing? Men are so open about their desire to rape children these days. And when the rest of the men laugh along to these child raping jokes its clear they feel the same way. # yesallmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:59 PM
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Prob also contributes to the orgasm gap. Women are just as visual as men, but because men are so overall deliberately unattractive it's just really hard for women to feel turned on enough to orgasm and women have gaslit themselves to think they have a "reactive" libido and need to literally be forced into sex and close their eyes and fantasize before they feel turned on enough to get into it. Nah, most men are just gross and think they deserve compliments for taking a shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:24 AM
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I've seen more then one story of a man getting his dick stuck in a public bench because he tried to fuck it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:34 AM
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Oh and if you hire a housecleaner because the man is incompetent then hire a male housecleaner. You wouldn't believe the amount of shame and discomfort this will cause the man in the relationship. When they see a man cleaning their house they will feel ashamed because they can't use the "bumbling man brain can't see dirt" excuse anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:26 PM
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If they want to hire a cleaner then their wife should expect backpay for all of housecleaning services they've provided until then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:22 PM
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I'd do the same, a fetus doesn't have anything to do with a man until it's a born breathing child. Women need to protect their own lives and futures first. If men don't like that, well it's INCREDIBLY easy to not treat your pregnant spouse like shit. So many men think as soon as they impregnate a woman he owns her and she is trapped, nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:15 PM
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Exactly. Even if I like a man I won't ask him out because I have no issues being single and don't have any desire to go into of my way not to be single. If he were to ask me out then I might accept, but men just don't have the capacity to understand that women just aren't desperate to date or sleep with men, so why would we ask them out? Because they want us to? Lazy bums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:59 PM
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Even on women's subreddits it seems the art is just naked women as well. I understand this is supposed to be some empowering thing, but it seems like we've just gone in a circle from being drawn as sexual objects to drawing ourselves as sexual objects. Why can't women be drawn with clothes? It's just annoying at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:52 PM
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What's MVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 08:05 PM
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What matters about the gift is that it shows he put thought into it, it reflects my interests and/or lifestyle and shows he listens to me. I've heard of many women who receive earrings as gifts when they don't even have pierced ears. Giving your partner a nice gift is bare minimum. It's EASY. The issue for most men is they believe relationships should require zero effort on their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 08:01 PM
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I thought porn was just a fantasy? How come when women get involved in it suddenly its serious business? Male logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:43 AM
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Oh no, women receive checks notes half of their belongings in divorce. What a tragedy for men and totally a good reason they go on shooting sprees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:50 PM
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According to the most recent post that made it to the front page, the thing that triggers them the most is being told to go to therapy. MIsAndRy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:03 PM
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The boys who act like this at that age will act the same when they're over 25 too. Boys/men are capable of being respectful and kind human beings at any age, and if they disrespect women as teenagers then their is no hope for them. Warning to all women to not date older men, they are just better at manipulating you and hiding their bad behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:10 AM
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"Thanks for your microaggressive civility,” he ends with. It's like projection is the only language men know how to speak. It's just funny at this point. Only mistake she made is not contacting his employer, women need to stop giving the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:24 PM
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But it's the camels that aren't attracted to men, not the other way around so shouldn't the men be raising the standards for themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:35 PM
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In what universe are women with these behaviors not labeled as controlling? That's been the top insult of scrotes for women since the day women didn't want to be submissive bangmaids. It's like they make up stuff just so they can get a slice of that sweet sweet male approval and a seat at the patriarchy table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:16 PM
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Would we tell someone who cuts themselves because of trauma that it's there choice and can be a healthy way to release pain? No. Should we tell someone who asks other people to strangle and hit them that it's a healthy way to deal with trauma. 100% NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:12 PM
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Women: can you help take care of the baby at night? Men: no, I have to work and make money, you do it. Women: can you help with housework or cooking or childcare? Men: no, I make the money, you do it. Women: can you help make the holiday dinners and invite your family and friends to come? Men: no, I'm not good at cooking or anything, you do it. And I dont care if my friends or family, come, I'd rather do some gaming. Also men: wow, I can't believe I am only valued for my money..How cruel and opp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:50 PM
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If your HVM isn't as angry about this as you are then that's a red flag as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:20 PM
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This is very hard not to downvote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:11 PM
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Men have always survived off the backs of women. Nothing new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:28 PM
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The 40-50 year olds who say "they're finally ready to start a family" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:09 PM
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Whose the first one? Kind of looks like machine gun kelly but also Aaron Carter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:02 PM
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Mileva Marić, Albert Einsteins first wife. She was a brilliant physicist who excelled in her work and Einstein considered her much smarter then himself. There is lots of evidence that they collaborated on his early work together, but the submissions were made only under Einsteins name as womens names carried less weight. Letters between them show she also helped guide his studies and kept him organized. Despite her having top marks in class (her 5, and he 1) she was failed when the teacher chose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:42 PM
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HVM: I nominate this guy. Calls out men on their ridiculous manipulative shit publicly https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qlzwsc/men_arent_loved_unconditionally_women_are/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Favourite queen: i nominate modernmedusa because every comment she makes is well written, accurate and no bs. For pickme I nominate Erin Taylor the Verge journalist that made the horrible article about FDS or the entirety of sex worker twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:38 AM
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And at the end of his life, he is never going to know what it's like to have true love, someone to age with and grow with, a relationship where you would die for eachother. Like most LVM, he will end up alone and only with a surface level experience of life and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:15 PM
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I am starting to think that I am the loser in this scenario. As long as we stay with low value men then yes, we are the losers. Thank goodness we live in 2021 and have full abilities to make our own decisions about our lives. Leave this chump so he can have more time to strangle his saggy noodle to an electronic screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:26 AM
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So he is ready to start a family and targets a young woman fresh out of college? Creepy and predatory. In a few years you could be on the relationship subreddit saying "My (25F) boyfriend (32M) never babysits our child and complains about a lack of sex despite me being 8 months pregnant with our second. He spends all day on instagram liking teenage girls posts and watching barely legal porn, and wants me to call him daddy. He also complains that I don't make as much money as him despite me havin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:14 AM
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Everytime there is a critique on porn the comments are filled with men saying "but it's necessary for men to masturbate to prevent prostate cancer, we need it to be healthy" ok dude, no one said anything about masturbation. We are talking about porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:04 PM
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Women internalize their trauma and work on actually healing themselves and using their emotional intelligence to become a better person. It's why even though women have double the rates of depression as men they are able to still show up in life and take care of those around them whereas men blame everyone around them and refuse to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:21 PM
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Imagine wasting 2 years of your life just to "get back at someone", it's certainly not something women would do. I'm sure on his death bed he will feel it was worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:33 AM
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If it wasn't cheating then men would have no issues with their wives/gfs posting nudes publicly online. I mean is it a fantasy or not? If she is cheating by putting nudes online then who is she cheating with? The men who looked at the picture? So then you're admitting men who look at nudes online are cheating with those women. Men and logic are two words that will never go together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:51 PM
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I wasn't going to watch it because it sounds creepy, but I at least had hope it was a progressive or feminist show. Makes me sick how much young girls are sexualized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:20 PM
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Lol it's like when men complain how it's unattractive for women to have visible veins on their body, especially their breasts. Like oh dear God that women has a pulse and blood moving around in her body, that's just so unfeminine and unattractive 🙄 men have not evolved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:08 PM
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Good grief this poor woman, terrorized by men since she was a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:29 PM
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Of course an upvoted and awarded comment in that thread is "actually, men care about women orgasming more then anything and put all their effort into making it happen, women don't orgasm because they are lazy". Yeah, explain lesbians then incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 07:41 PM
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Men are a mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:20 AM
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Men ruin everything. How could they even argue against this? It's always men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:48 PM
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Also men: waah society doesn't trust men around children, this is sexist and unfair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:55 PM
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Having any expectations for men being monogomous while in a monogomous relationship gets you automatically called insecure or controlling. That's how bad men have gaslit women, when they would NEVER allow that behaviour from their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:46 PM
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I don't care if someone asks you to hit them or choke them, if you do it, you are still an abuser. If you choke someone that is attempted murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:25 PM
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"Or generally sexist content" looks at their subreddit Lol ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:47 PM
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Most people start working outside of the house at 16. Men need to stop pretending that doing something literal children are expected of is some courageous or heroic act. They're sitting at their desk typing in excel and browsing reddit while whining that men have to work in coal mines all day while wife is lazy at home AKA does literally everything else to keep them and their children alive and their house livable. Must be nice they can go through their entire lives never having the grow the fuc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:19 PM
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Birds of a feather flock together. He was probably planning to do the same thing because it's "no big deal" and then he was upset that you think that would make him a bad person and husband. If he was loyal then it wouldn't matter if the groomsman "surprised" him with a trip to the strip club, a HVM would say no thanks and draw his boundaries firmly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:26 PM
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There's a reason that men's dicks stop working at a certain age, so they can't pass along their dusty sperm. But men pop viagra like candy these days and think they are entitled to have children at 60 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:32 PM
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"Boy mom" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:02 PM
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Mods on female subreddits have to be extremely fierce, it's harder to mod then any other subreddits. But that also means all of the depraved, abusive and psychotic content men post that women are subjected to disappears and no evidence is left. All they see is women complaining about men while they can pretend to be the victims and say we are overreacting. This is why i think we need to show some of the depraved men posts, because society and especially women NEED to know how men think, what the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:58 PM
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If you look at the first photo she has a typed message she didn't send. I didn't notice at first either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:15 PM
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I don't even want to know what she does when she finds his cum sock. Probably wears it till he gets back home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:39 AM
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I'm not surprised, men get upset when you use words with more then 3 syllables. I've had to dumb down my language a lot when speaking to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:14 PM
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How is it satire when this is exactly how the majority of men are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:56 AM
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In the Chris Watts fanclub subreddit they are comparing these two but with the purpose of saying they are both the real victims. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:32 AM
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Yeah I've seen what happens when men are SAHD's. Women work all day and make the money and then they also do all of the housework and emotional labour and cooking when they get home because dad thinks childcare is just watching the child during the day and not actually teaching them/caring for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:49 AM
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They literally have done studies that show men use dating to get "free meals" more then women do, so yes, 100% projection. Men know how pickme women are these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:48 PM
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Dear God, men and their first world problems. They wouldn't last a day as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:01 AM
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Those comments were messed up. Since when is a woman calling her husband to let him know he woke up his overtired child and wife mean that she is dangerous and he is justified calling over her abusive mom? This husband is clearly deranged and him and OPs mom have probably caught her in a circle of gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:46 PM
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What all these studies slyly forget to add is that there is a higher percentage of men in college now then at any other time in history. Men have ALWAYS slacked at getting education, even when they were the only gender ALLOWED. Men recieve the majority of scholarships despite more women being in education because it is still a boys club. Now that women are allowed an education and taking advantage of it, also since women need an education to get high paying jobs unlike men, women are excelling a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:17 PM
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Keeping my name. Getting married does not change who I am as a person, I am not being transferred like property. And if you get divorced then they expect you to change your name back don't they? So it means the name is really just a "loan" while you are married to a man, they don't think the name is ever yours even when you've legally changed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:39 AM
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Once again proves that porn isn't really about just seeing naked women for sexual pleasure, it's about feeling you have power over a woman by violating her boundaries and disregarding her consent. It's why women who post nudes are called sl_ts but when men share nudes of women they're praised. It's not about the nudes, it's about male superiority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:32 AM
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Also, being in a committed relationship or marriage doesn't mean they don't have to use condoms anymore. Dear women: your health and comfort is important at EVERY stage of your life no matter what relationship a man has to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:09 AM
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Although video games themselves can be ok, men seem to be incapable of having it as a healthy hobby and not making it a toxic part of their lives. All of the women I know who play video games don't have this issue. I would not date a man who plays games more then a couple hours a month and I will NEVER date a man who plays online games. A man can not be part of a horrifically sexist, racist, all -ists, abusive community and still be high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:36 PM
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Marrying a Tree benefits: gives you oxygen provides food and shelter becomes more beautiful and sturdy with age silent Marrying a man benefits:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:37 AM
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This is just everyday misogyny we deal with dude, you're gonna have to be more creative then that 😂 If women said this shit to men they would put it on the national news and it'd be quoted in men's subreddits for decades. Men truly live life on easy mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:04 PM
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And he will probably assume getting an STI sex means sex without protection, don't humour it for even a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:42 PM
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I just watched the movie The Hustlers and a woman said "what is the biggest advantage women have over men? It's that every single man you meet will believe he is smarter then you. Use that to your advantage."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:39 PM
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OP why did you delete your post? Did you get harassed by manspreadimg scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:34 PM
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This story here is the perfect example of manspreading. Men whine "our balllssss though! If we close our legs it squishes our manhood!", but when they sit next to another man their balls magically shrink and they can sit properly? They know exactly what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:47 AM
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And what does he bring the table? I'm gonna guess her answer would be: "he makes me chicken nuggies on days I'm too busy to cook, it's his love language I don't expect more cause I'm not selfish and he picked me tAKe nOTeS laDIEs."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:00 PM
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Reminds me of the quote "violence against men is oppression, violence against women is tradition". Can't wait to listen to this later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:55 PM
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Reason #472628 of why men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:49 PM
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Snort his skid marks some more pickme. He still gonna cheat on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:26 PM
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This is a large subreddit and a good way for the larger majority to be aware of what red pill men are saying and thus getting them banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:46 AM
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I saw that too and was so mad at that first comment. First rule of being a woman in a relationship is you are selfish for having any wants, needs or desires of your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:08 PM
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Welcome to being a human in society scrote. Guess what, being cared and loved for is a reciprocal process and unless you are a child then you have to give what you want to recieve. Women care about their friends, bring them soup when they're sick and ask how their day was. We support eachother through hard times, compliment eachother to raise our self esteems. Men do absolutely nothing but bitch about how they don't owe anyone anything and rEsPeCt iS eaRNed nOT gIVeN, call their friends gay for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:37 PM
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This study was based on a reddit 'Askmen' thread btw. So they're literally taking a study based on basement dwelling misogynistic LVM and then throwing it in the science subreddit for pity points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:40 PM
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I don't even think the amount of money they make is the biggest issue with racism/misogyny/etc. in the sex industry. It's one of the only industries where you can straight up publicly fetishize, video tape and publish abuse of someone based on their gender/race. How horrific is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:16 AM
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How long you gonna use your ex-wife's decorative couch pillow you stole on your way out as a pillow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:55 PM
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Also, does he have any favourite female musicians/bands or listen to womens music? If not, then he's probably misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:09 PM
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Oh no, the cheating lying men and the women who sell their bodies to cheating lying men are going to team up....you sure showed us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:00 PM
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violantly thrashing your semi flaccid penis for 2 mins before rolling over and going to sleep and you dont come. 😂😂why is this so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:14 PM
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100%. If he's even asking to not wear a condom when you both aren't actively trying to start a family that's a 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:46 PM
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If I'm too much, go find less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:00 AM
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He probably stands in front of the toilet and shits his pants if his wife doesn't pull them down for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:52 PM
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This is a collection of screenshots from a top post. These were taken from earlier today and the comments currently have hundreds of more upvotes then shown. There's no words to describe the selfishness and depravity of the male mind to make what's going right now about men. Speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:27 PM
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With an account name like that it sounds more like a racist fetishizing scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:38 PM
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What's with men always comparing themselves to POC? If they want to make accurate comparisons they can compare men to white people when talking about oppression dynamics. But they won't do that because that would be admitting they aren't actually oppressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:47 PM
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Gosh how I would love to see this posted on a libfem subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:19 AM
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There was a video on the front page of reddit of a group of young women laughing and smiling trying to take a picture, the video was clearly taken by someone in a bush from afar and the comments were absolutely testerical. They said these women are fake, vain, they're what's wrong with the world, etc. Men were soooo angry that women were literally existing and having a good time together. They are psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:18 AM
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If a child killing mass murderer complains about this subreddit then we are 100% doing something right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:18 PM
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It should be decriminalization for the victims, stay illegal for the predators/rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:34 PM
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This also reminds me of the investment subreddits, just a bunch of poor men who put all their savings in a single stock and then cry to eachother about how they're gonna have to fight off golddiggers when they're billionaires. I laugh my ass off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:03 PM
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This is the comment section of every YouTube shorts. It will be a video of a woman like, petting her dog and feeding it and the comment section is just a bunch of men saying she probably cheats on her husband and they feel so bad for him, but he's probably a simp for being with her and it's like.. dude, there isn't even a man in the video and she's just taking care of her pet wtf is wrong with you!! Men are absolutely INSANE these days. The lying, manipulation, narcissism and misogyny is out of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:59 PM
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“The most rage-provoking element of being a female is the gaslighting that happens when, for centuries, we’ve been expected to absorb male behavior silently. Respond- that response is treated like the offense itself... Oftentimes when we, in our enlightened state ... now respond to bad male behavior or someone just doing something that was absolutely out of line and we respond, that response is treated like the offense itself. - Taylor Swift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:48 PM
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I would report that man for attempted murder. Thats exactly what it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:12 PM
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They're literally defending pedophiles and saying we're the toxic ones 😂😂😂 you can't make this shit up. Creep logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:05 PM
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Leaving a marriage is a million times easier then leaving the father of your child. You have to deal with him for the rest of your life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:25 AM
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Also OP, do you mind dm'ing me this thread? Can't find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:32 PM
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This is why men aren't trusted around children and until men start actively calling out these pedophiles in droves then we are completely justified being suspicious. The fact that question was even being asked gives me nausea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:32 PM
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Getting a vasectomy is less painful and traumatic then getting an IUD and easier then taking a pill everyday for countless years. If a man's childfree but doesn't have a vasectomy you know he's a selfish ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:53 PM
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Even my girlfriends will walk eachother to our cars because we CARE about each other! How are LVM such absolute uncaring, selfish assholes that they don't even consider that? Nah, don't even bother with a man that you have to teach from Day 1 how to consider the safety of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:52 PM
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You can instantly tell these are fake. We have never referred to men we want to date as "sperm donors", that's the name you give deadbeat LVM fathers which we want nothing to do with. Secondly, he's apparently so into reddit that he will come straight here to ask for advice about his relationship, but he somehow doesn't even know what this "female incel" subreddit is called, but has many descriptions of it that sound like something from the mgtow subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:22 PM
69

There isn't words to describe the pain of seeing teenage girls/women's lives get RUINED before they've even had a chance because some predatory adult man decided he should own a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:37 PM
11

Right, and twox is constantly tripping overthemselves praising lvm as kings for doing the bare minimum. Show me a single male based sub that shares stories praising women for their kindness, just one. It doesn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:08 PM
102

Woman: I would like to walk down the street Man: I would like to have sex with you Woman: I would not like that Man: the why are you on the street????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:55 PM
45

"But if one of the 500,000 male supremacist subs get deleted then it's only fair that one of the 5 women based subs gets deleted or misandry!" Logic, they have none.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:48 PM
25

This conversation was brought to you by: Man moments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:02 AM
100

There are documentaries on this. When homeless men are asked why they don't go to the shelters the men say that it's funner camping outside with the other homeless men because there are no rules and they are free to use their drugs and chill. Women don't have this privilege as it's almost a 100% guarantee that homeless women get raped or sexually assaulted while living on the street, it can never be fun or chill for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:08 AM
157

She shouldn't have had to tell him. If he valued his wife or children in any way he wouldn't have even thought about going. Women pointing out rational decisions to men then get labeled as hormonal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:36 PM
116

I'll never get tired of this conversation because women are SO indoctrinated to not even question this and to put their man's pleasure above her own comfort. I don't care if you're married, it is still 100% reasonable to use condoms unless you are trying for children. It's not being mean to men and it doesn't have to harm your sex life, it's simply being safe and responsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:51 PM
3

That comment is such a cope. No dude, you may NEVER recover your ability to get a proper erection again because porn changes the wiring of your brain, it takes ALOT of therapy to get over seeing women abused over and over and it becoming your sole source of pleasure. He's just one of the growing statistic of men who are impotent at a young age and will disappoint any relationship he tries to be in in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:33 PM
110

/restraining order
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:14 AM
375

There's not a single inside or outside part of a woman's body that hasn't capitalized on her insecurities. Meanwhile, men look like broken sunburnt thumbs and don't have a care in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:09 AM
212

"You're salary comes from my taxes, it couldn't be you!" 😂 this guy cracks me up. So accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:02 AM
86

Toxic femininity isn't a real word that exists. It's called internalized misogyny, MRAs created the word toxic femininity as retaliation to toxic masculinity. Masculinity and femininity are not two equal sides of the same coin so its ridiculous and doesn't make sense to give them equal phrases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:47 PM
32

I googled this and then died😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:35 AM
131

Ah yes the so common "you should have communicated to him that you don't like getting strangled and beat up in bed...men aren't mind readers.."🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:06 PM
56

Wow that's a powerful quote and so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:27 PM
275

This is from the article called 'Porn Makes Men Terrible in Bed' 'https://emmalindsay.medium.com/porn-makes-men-terrible-in-bed-6e4df5f73200
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:38 PM
1

Very sweet man to show up in a tux, but I do think visiting your wife in the hospital is bare minimum behaviour, especially on your anniversary. I wouldn't really call it high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:25 PM
233

I read [F27] and [M39] and already knew he was going to be an abusive asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:25 PM
143

Congrats girl, you got picked by the man who fantasizes about beating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:18 PM
28

I've never seen anything so true before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:39 PM
10

They're perfectly fine reading body language from men. It's only women they pretend to be clueless with, because being clueless gives them an excuse to do what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:09 PM
19

Actually there is a yearly release on dating app stats although you're correct Tinder doesn't like to confirm any of it. It is estimated that 72% of the US Tinder userbase is male, compared to 28% female In the UK, the ratio is seemingly even more extreme. It was estimated that 85% of the online dating market was male. New York is one of the worst, where the ratio stands at 3:17 women to men. London is not too far behind at 1:5. https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/#4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:48 PM
162

where we start thriving free from the insecurites and inexperience of youth Yeah, that's exactly what men are afraid of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:32 PM
48

This is exactly what men mean when they say "women don't like vulnerable men, I opened up to my ex-gf and then she dumped me", like dude, just because you opened up about the reason you're a cheating liar doesn't mean we have to have sympathy for you and you're forgiven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:33 PM
6

Lol, this dude is really comparing the life of a video game and porn addict that never leaves his basement with the life of a popular and beautiful model. Just shows how they create their own reality to become victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:08 AM
12

Imagine if this was a little boy getting this response. Reddit would go on for weeks about how boys are never allowed to cry and how if this was a girl she would be coddled and given sympathy. Once again, reality tells the opposite story. /notsurprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:32 AM
95

I hate memes like this. It was probably funny in highschool or something, but honestly if you're aware of this stupid attitude then grow up or go to therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:41 PM
19

You should tell this to your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:26 PM
7

They only seem to have post history from the last 3 days, so I wouldn't even bet on them being a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:20 PM
31

He's gonna dump his lifelong wife. Get rejected by the young woman he's fantasizing about. His children will be disgusted by him. Since he's so old he will come down with some sort of health issue soon and realize he is alone and no one is wanting to take care of him or be there for him. He will cry on reddit about how men are never taken care of in society. He will die early. The life story of an LVM. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:04 PM
14

This definitely isn't true. The only women who can even make a cent on selling used panties need an established porn account or instagram where they post pictures of themselves wearing the panties or have video chats with the guys. You have to sell your identity and dignity to make money from "sex" type work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:02 AM
30

I really miss going to movies, I hope my city opens up again soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:49 PM
155

Oh look, men admitting they're hormonal violent psychopaths. Wish they'd do something new it's getting boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:49 PM
12

Whats hot about a man doing the dishes or cooking? He should be doing that every single day already and if he's not he's an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:44 PM
144

You just know that they get off to writing stuff like this, it's just another kink to them. They watch porn abusing women in one tab, and then when they start feeling a little guilt they role-play abusive women in another tab so they can justify their sick misogyny. If only they had something called a conscience they wouldn't be trapped in this cycle of self-abuse. It's actually a perfect example of someone trying to correct their cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:21 PM
83

It is horrible, but I don't think it's the reason most young women are groomed into BDSM or abusive sex. I blame porn and their porn watching boyfriends for that. Most women I know have never read that book and they seemed to only do BDSM sex because their boyfriends suggested or pushed them into it. I think men get satisfaction saying that it's women's fault and their desire for BDSM being so common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:41 PM
37

To add onto the other comment, I do personally believe in having gamestop stock (GME) and do recommend everyone get at least one. It's simply a matter of math and knowing how the stock market works. The wealthiest hedge funds bet massive amounts of money on gamestock failing as a company. Because people online decided to change that and made the company successful, the people who bet against it will eventually have to buy back every single stock at the price we want. So your 1 stock could be wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:40 PM
49

Yeah gamestop is the worst. They say there is no such thing as gender or race in that subreddit then post stuff like that all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:38 PM
36

Yeah very true. It's kind of impossible on this website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:27 PM
178

Go to any of the subreddits based on stocks. They make posts all the time about hiding from their wife how much money they put into stocks every month, even using their entire retirements. And they say the wives who criticize them for it are not smart enough to understand. They are deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:10 PM
138

I'd like a subreddit like this where we can just post feminist type stuff that isn't focused on any one topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:46 PM
789

Men's dating strategies: "here is how you manipulate women to get them to have sex with you by ruining their self esteem." Women's dating strategies: "here is how you avoid men who manipulate and abuse you". Men: "wow, these are both soooo equally toxic."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:02 PM
17

Womb envy. LVM get jealous extremely easily, when women start receiving positive attention and support for their pregnancy and even start visiting their doctor more often it angers LVM because if she starts getting support she might leave him. He's spent the entire relationship isolating her from other people so she is dependent on him and suddenly now that she's pregnant her family and friends are wanting to help her out. He emotionally reacts by punishing her in the masculine way possible, vio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:42 PM
163

Men interpret their disrespect for women as women disrespecting themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:21 PM
154

That's not equality, that's you pretending that womens contributions and work is worthless and has no value. Pure internalized misogyny. Well, hope she enjoys her life paying her boyfriend to be his bang maid like patriarchy intended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:27 PM
7

Yep, he wants her to pay half the bills while also doing all the housework and childcare. It's a good deal for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:49 PM
41

Anytime I see it advertised I report it for involuntary pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:45 PM
62

I'm definitely going to try. How it's allowed, I don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:57 PM
187

They think the children were abused because she had a YouTube channel. Not because Chris literally murdered them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:14 PM
7

This is one of the topics that boils my blood more then anything. A woman is NEVER an asshole or selfish for controlling who sees her body in a state of undress or during her medical procedures. Childbirth is a womans procedure, once the child is outside of her body the father can see his child as much as he wants. It's pure control. We should question why, both men and women prioritize the comfort and wellbeing of men over women’s safety, comfort, even the truth of their bodily experience. -fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:57 PM
17

Women are truly to good for this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:51 PM
120

There's no doubt in my mind from all the information available today that women invented pretty much all important things, from languages to food preparation, building shelter, etc. "Teach a man to fish and he'll say he invented fishing then mansplain to you how to fish"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:47 PM
20

Omg I am so excited right now. Gail is a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:13 PM
155

Then when he gets women pregnant it's "she baby-trapped me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:17 PM
85

He should be reported for child abuse. Starving your children is at the top of cruel things you can do. His bare minimum job is keeping them alive and he doesn't care about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:53 PM
218

We're wired to have ZERO attraction to children Yet men like to brag how they are biologically attracted to children and can't help it. No wonder they don't understand 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:38 PM
54

These men: "you can't even whistle and grab womens bodies on the street anymore without cops getting on you. It's horrible." Also these men: "a woman shared the public conversation I had online, I will now sue her." Men are so dramatic. They're gonna get laughed out of court. They've pretty much set a bomb on their business now and they've lit the fuse because instead of apologizing for being creepy and rapey they're suing women for calling it out lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:24 PM
40

Their goal is to keep the attention on themselves. The scariest thing for men and patriarchy is women coming together and discussing things that don't involve them or their dominance. Women having to continually justify their equality and correcting ourselves with "notallmens" they stall our progress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:26 AM
22

So true!. The Sexual Politics of Meat by Carol J Adam's is a great feminist book discussing how meat has been marketed as a way to enhance your masculinity. I don't know how many men I've met who think eating fruit is gay. When I met my HVM he was nothing but supportive of my veganism and really excited to try new foods. He only eats vegan around me out of his own free will and desire to make sure I'm comfortable. He picks up vegan treats for me all the time and looks up the ingredients. I've be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:00 AM
1

I want a ring just like that! Beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:10 PM
3

It's not rocket science, you shouldn't want beetles and spiders to crawl on your while you sleep, bedframes help prevent that you sickos. Ah but no, their lOgIcAL conclusion for why women want you to have a bed frame is cause she's a golddigger 😂😂😂 you can't make this shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:52 PM
39

I love this idea, but you can't say it in any of the other subreddits because libfems think it's shaming them for having sex. Uh no, it's called putting your safety and LIFE above sex. I can't even recommend condoms or I get downvoted because "that would make my boyfriends penis sad :'("
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:48 PM
35

Girl, you can let him fuck other women too, he's not gonna love or care about you any more. He's simply gonna lose respect for you and see you as his placeholder girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:27 PM
102

When men get insecure because a male lizard is more considerate then them you know humans have hit rock bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:19 PM
106

It's pretty great that men have so little actual issues or dirt with us that they have to resort to impersonating us and creating content in order to justify reasons to hate and ban us. Like...sorry we aren't mean enough for you, but weird that men choose to self-harm themselves by making up their own man-hating content 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:25 PM
76

This should be rebranded as "women are warned to stay far away from Mount Athos as the monks are dangerous and prone to raping female humans and animals on sight. The authorities are guarding the entrance to make sure the monks cannot escape. We have a caged area to the left if you would like to take photos of these dangerous creatures."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:36 PM
171

Why are they always furries? I swear. Taking over women's subs is just another fetish to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:20 PM
382

"Say you're insecure about your hairline, without saying you're insecure about your hairline"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:56 PM
128

Reminds me of a woman who was invited for a date at a guy's house and he cooked her a meal then told her she needs to do the dishes because he cooked. Excuse me? Expecting a GUEST you invited to your house to do your dishes is the trashiest thing ever. And you know if he'd invited his guy friends over he'd never be asking them to do the dishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:52 PM
41

It's almost like their cognitive dissonance is telling them that it's rude to invite someone to take time out of their day to go out somewhere and then ask them to pay for half the bill of that outing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:40 PM
80

This guy sounds like all the boomer men I work with, and the truth is they sexualize their daughters and talk about them with their coworkers as well. This isn't some specifically deranged man, this is just how the majority are when they think women aren't listening. This is why we encourage snooping, because even if a guy seems hvm, he might be doing the sickest shit in private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:25 PM
75

The only peak men have at 30 is their widows peak as it slowly disappears further and further up their head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:06 AM
47

It should be a picture of hank hills bottom..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:43 PM
27

I'll just say it has stonk and super in the name and makes the front page often. They frame themselves as being an inclusive community that sees everyone as equal but that sort of shit is popular there. I'll dm if you want to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:33 PM
112

Ugh, just yesterday on a popular subreddit it was a post about a man pressuring his wife into anal, seeing how much money it would take to get her to do it. The comments said "drop that golddigger". Like wtf there is a man trying to coerce his wife into sex (rape) using financial power and she gets the blame? Oh and this was on a financial subreddit, like wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:58 PM
16

True! Thanks for the reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:18 PM
35

I've never seen someone with a anime profile picture who wasn't a misogynistic creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:26 PM
56

Ever since seeing that thread where sex workers brigaded the FDS Twitter I can't even feel bad for them anymore. They know who they're working for and they're happy about it and deny it brings any harm to others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:22 PM
96

"Patriarchy is an exhausted woman on a subway platform politely thanking a catcaller because it's easier then risking whatever persistence or vitriol might result from ignoring him and all she's trying to do is wait for a train."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:07 PM
68

This is the reason men aren't trusted around children yet I bet we won't have any mra's calling out this shit or trying to prove them wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:42 PM
18

It's funny how men think this is because of bias but they haven't consider the reality for a moment that the men are just complete and utter assholes most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:32 PM
393

I've seen child trafficking victims get called a Karen for speaking up about it on this website. Men are trash and there's no other explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:24 PM
30

Lack of emotional intelligence and maturity. Men grow up thinking "boys will be boys" means they never have to examine themselves or do any self growth throughout life. They expect everyone to cater to their needs and blame those who don't. They never consider how their actions affect those around them because no one is as important as them or other men. And then they wonder why no one cares about them or why they're so lonely after dumping their wife of 20 years for a younger model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:21 PM
414

Imagine how terrible at sex you have to be to resort to using money to coerce your wife into touching your gross dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:46 PM
419

Before and after being married to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:13 PM
130

Imagine how after a millenia of men abusing raping, degrading and dehumanizing women that you still have women like this that try to bring men up and do nice things out of the kindness of her heart. And now I hope she learns that men don't give a shit if you're kind to them because they only see kindness as a trait to exploit in women. They don't care, they simply want to be violent and misogynistic because it makes them feel powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:15 AM
96

This is really the most basic and important value we can look for in an HVM. He could have every HV quality we want, but if he watches porn he instantly becomes trash and he will always end up hurting you. Mentally sound people do not find pleasure in the exploitation or abuse of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:11 AM
64

I also couldn't get through the first season. I thought the story concept seemed cool, but the amount of rapey scummy scrotes ruined it, as they ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:10 PM
245

Hairless armpits and rape both appeal to the male gaze and that's truly all that is considered in media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:08 PM
283

I have news for the men who think vaginas are gross...but they're gonna have to leave the closet to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:06 PM
34

You're 100% right, that's everything I've been thinking put into words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:53 PM
0

As long as stuff like this exists the need for feminism remains strong and they convince more people to be feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:58 PM
2

So they agree women should always get 100% of custody and children should only be named after the mother since it's 100% her child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:30 AM
18

There's nothing more frustrating to a man then getting zero attention from a woman. God he's desperate lol, I think every woman has one of these guys in her inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:23 PM
32

And was this meant to be some dig comparing a single man's hundreds of uses of yachts and private jets with a single non-wealthy woman's environmental damage throughout her life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:52 PM
16

Yes, why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:50 PM
67

Guess that 43 mill he pledged to the galapagos could offset some of the environmental damage he's caused and continues to cause from his huge expensive yachts and private jets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:52 PM
45

Yep, 2nd comment. I loved this reply: I wonder if the men's rights activists in this thread bemoaning 'wut about the menzzzz' are inspired to start their own cricket team to bring awareness to circumcision. Or do they just remember their mutilated dongs when something hits the frontpage about female genital mutilation? As a male, female circumcision sounds worse. The MRAs can die mad about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:48 PM
9

Thank you for sharing, I have so much respect for women who can admit this even privately. My mom told me something similar and I felt a lot of respect and sympathy for her, I really wish she could have followed her dreams and had the life she always wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:37 PM
16

It would also be the most effective way to reduce male suicide, but no men want to talk about that 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:50 PM
18

There has been a couple proposed laws as retaliation, such as this one: All men in Alabama will be forced to have a VASECTOMY at 50 or when they have their third child And men freaked the fuck out and how dare anyone take their bodily autonomy, meanwhile completely missing the point about how this is just a retaliation to abortion laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:49 PM
15

If I was American I'd certainly never have sex again if abortions were outlawed. My safety and life is more important then a few minutes of pleasure. And any man who doesn't believe the same thing for his partner or tries to make her feel guilty for not having sex is a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:44 PM
55

"What’s the insensitive part at the end of the penis called again? Oh, right, a man." Omg gold lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:36 PM
236

Damn, if this was the other way around it would be front page on reddit and used by mras as a reason women should never have rights for at least 15 years. Because it's a woman who died at the hands of a man, no one will care. RIP to this poor woman and hope this man suffers immensely for the rest of his waste of a life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:05 PM
734

Men don't even know what men want. They just like to complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:13 PM
58

This. They'll throw their damp towel on their bed until their next shower and use it for at least 2 weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:04 PM
25

I only see women give seats to seniors or disabled people also, men have just collectively decided to be selfish shits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:25 PM
85

Imagine the amount of sociopathy you need in order to be a man who expects to have children. They assume that another human being is going to provide them with reproductive labour, spend almost a year either uncomfortable or bed bound and terrified, sacrifice her health and possibly life, go through the worst pain a human body can go through, she will risk losing her career, she will financially suffer, all to provide him with a child. Men can't choose to have children. If a woman is so saintly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:07 AM
2

Omg wrong guy 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:57 PM
28

He's ok looking, but a big LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:36 PM
183

Amazing how a show with dragons can have people going "a strong woman? That's not realistic" or "of course there's rape and pedophilia, that's just what happened back then." Oh, in between flying on dragons? I missed that history book. Male writers just generally suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:34 PM
274

Imagine being a scrote, logging onto a male porn website (reddit), specifically going to the women's subreddit, seeing a shirtless man and then screeching and crying from the mental anguish its causing you. I mean, they write their own comedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:44 PM
14

Dark and Hannibal are two of my favourite shows ever 💛 Edit: I mixed up Mads with Oliver Masucci...they kinda look similar, no? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:38 PM
746

If my standards are too high for you then they're working as planned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:43 PM
212

Men start fires then expect to be treated like heroes and gods for putting out those fires or protecting women from them. We aren't impressed anymore, just stop setting the world on fire so we can live peacefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:14 PM
169

Wow, please post that on your social media and tag him until his entire family and friends have seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:31 PM
11

Because when they recruit someone to onlyfans they're given a cut of the profits for a year like a MLM, they're literally trafficking teenagers for profit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:10 PM
50

they know exactly what they're doing, they just don't care about anything but themselves. They're also extremely emotionally manipulative. All I could think of as I read their replies was 'darvo, darvo, darvo'. Almost no rebuttals to your points, they only throw insults and attacks. *to those wondering, DARVO is a common manipulation strategy and means: deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:18 AM
77

Dear god what an absolute waste of space this man takes in the world. This woman needs to recover then divorce his useless ass. You can tell he will not change even after all this, he simply wants sympathy. You don't need a resource for fathers to tell you that a human recovering from abdominal surgery that is dying coughing everyday needs help and medical attention. He deserves no forgiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:03 AM
87

Men who have watched porn are mostly irreparably tainted and mentally rotten. You can't make a husband out of a ho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:57 AM
299

If my standards are too high for anyone then they're working as designed :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:33 PM
246

I'm seeing a lot of the FDS terms in the other subreddits lately. At least it's spreading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:15 PM
35

Lol I just watched that short yesterday and thought the exact same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:55 PM
19

Hank Hills of the world are all running to the store to buy some butt pads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:26 PM
167

You a height or hairline girl?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:24 PM
31

I can't believe there is 3.7k upvotes for "when my lingerie gets ruined by discharge". Wtf?? As if thats an answer to this question. That subreddit is all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:17 PM
48

Once again it's men's projections. Vaginas aren't similar to dicks, a dick comes as one size for life, a vagina is a muscle that changes depending on if you flex it or work it out or are aroused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:21 AM
5

Thor Bod Thursdays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:04 AM
32

Also "Get back in the kitchen" Respond: "Go die in a war"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:35 PM
26

As we all know womens vaginas are acidic. What men don't realize is that it takes time for their dick to get used to the specific woman's pH level. Every time a man has a new partner his penis slowly gets eroded by the acid and becomes discolored, smaller and bent. It's just biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:33 PM
13

More proof that men baby-trapping women is their ultimate goal and always has been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:24 PM
120

Ew wtf? Thank you to these women for publicly sharing these videos. Predators depend on women's silence to get away with this crap. Mathew Perry and Ben Affleck are probably shitting their unwashed underwear right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:16 AM
4

Nothing more true has ever been said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:35 PM
5

100%. Male-centered society has made sex the one necessity in marriage/relationships that should always be made time for and be interesting, fun and consistent. But when it comes to emotional support, reciprocation and actual showing love for eachother women are told "oh the honeymoon stage is gone now, you can't expect him to treat you well allll the time, that's selfish". No wonder women become less attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:07 PM
10

I feel like women have no choice. They are told pain is part of being a woman. No one believes their pain. Doctors won't treat us. Our abuse is treated as tradition. There is no choice for women but to accept and live with their pain. That would explain why women attempt suicide at such high rates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:30 PM
106

The same men just end up complaining when their wife with zero sexual experience never wants to have sex with them. Kinda hilarious watching them create their own terrible life then ending up depressed and lonely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:12 PM
16

And men who take paternity leave are more likely to use the time as "vacation": working on a side business, playing video games, going to gym etc. While leaving the new mother to do the actual childcare herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:46 PM
68

https://www.nber.org/papers/w21747 Here's a link to the full study for anyone interested. Page 16. Very interesting and sad to see. Men are 50% more likely to take leave if their child is a boy. Men are less likely to take leave after their first child, most likely because they revert back to gender roles and the "newness" of having a child is gone. Men are 58% more likely to take joint-leave with the mother if the child is a boy, but this does not increase at all if it's a girl. Men are 98% mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:32 PM
1

LVM are so pathetic these days. They literally think being in a relationship entitles them to regular sex and that's the only thing it's about. Then they wonder why they're so unhappy and lonely. They take and take and never give back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:50 PM
23

No, I don't become a new or changed person when I get married. I've simply decided to share a life with someone I love equally. If I had kids and he wanted to have the same last name as them he is free to change his name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:20 PM
47

Have y'all seen men's skin texture? Looks like sandpaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:14 PM
6

On reddit they hated Captain Marvel before it came out because her facial expressions weren't "happy" enough. She just looked too serious. Can you imagine them saying that about Batman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:41 PM
122

Really great point, especially with the show Tiger King. I swear every show subreddit on this ghastly site immediately starts hating on the female characters. This is why even finding out a dude is a redditor is a big red flag. If yall really want to know if your man is HVM, watch Wonder Woman or Captain Marvel together. LVM's get absolutely testerical over movies with strong female characters existing. A normal person would enjoy them then move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:26 AM
100

A new police report says she had head injuries and that was probably what caused her death (in addition to hypothermia). This was no prank, he intentionally abused and killed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:58 PM
164

Glad you brought this up because ther was just a post in the relationships subreddit about a woman who dumped her boyfriend for taking a picture of her sleeping and it humiliated her. The entire subreddit convinced her she overreacted and to go to therapy and that she is crazy and insecure. Drove me mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:00 PM
49

When they can't control you, they'll try to control how others see you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:44 PM
21

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:23 PM
129

There is no reason to post a male tiktoker saying what women have already said, repeating word for word Thank you for this...honestly I wouldn't be mad if we limited tiktoks to only the weekend or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:54 PM
38

Gives new meaning to the name Bendydick Cumberbatch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:11 PM
15

Remember women, its 100% your choice to let anyone be present for your childbirth. It has absolutely nothing to do with men and if you are incredibly generous and allow them to support you at that time they should be on their knees grateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:54 PM
9

Your story alone makes this entire subreddit worth it. You are worth everything and you are still so young, your life is going to get so much better 💕 I'm so excited for you and your future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:41 PM
5

I think this quote is perfect for you: "YOU didn't disappoint your parents. Your parents held rigid expectations and never adjusted them even when it was clear they didn't fit you. Children grow in all directions. It's not your fault if your parents weren't prepared to grow with you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:13 PM
70

it seems like there's 35 posts or so not visible on here, did they really get THAT upset? Holy. Only 35? Heh. Imagine reading a post that says we are laughing at lvm because their comments aren't visible and they continue to comment anyway. Smoothbrains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:10 PM
6

Since you are financially stable and an adult I'd say its time to move out and start your life on your own. Once you do that you are no longer under the power of them. If they call and start talking about it? You hang up. If you visit and they talk about it? You leave and say you won't return until they apologize. Don't give them a key for your apartment either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:49 PM
712

There's nothing more threatening to men/patriarchy then a female-centric space they cannot control or invade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:30 PM
8

Imagine having to change your husband's diaper at 25 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:07 PM
10

Men can have multiple orgasms, they just need to finger their prostate or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:06 PM
27

NEVER put yourself in a position to depend on ANYONE in a relationship Most important lesson ever 🙌 my mom taught me the same and I'm so greatful for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:54 PM
18

Thanks for these stories! I feel so bad for these women. Lvm really think working a job and bringing home a lowly paycheck is all they need to contribute to a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:52 PM
15

Thank you so much for writing this out. It is so important and terrifying and more people should be aware of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:19 PM
12

And the top comments were how all about how this could benefit or hurt men who enjoy paying to rape women. Every John should be locked up for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:03 PM
3

For me there is no difference, except you might need to be careful in some positions that go deep because the cervix is lower and can get bumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:48 PM
4

I wouldn't date a man who was scared of period blood. As if I'm not going to have sex for 1/4 of my life just because he's afraid of a natural woman's body? I enjoy sex too much for that. My partner doesn't even like when I warn him I'm on my period beforehand because he says "why does it matter? It doesn't change anything" and it makes me feel so much more comfortable with myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:36 PM
271

He'll even have children with you to keep you as a placeholder. LVM don't see children as a lifetime commitment, children are simply an extension of the woman he impregnated and when he leaves her, he will happily leave his kids to start a new family with his dream woman. We've seen it countless times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:28 PM
30

Women used to say they have two lives: before marriage and after husband dies. Now we can choose to cut out the life sucker and live our lives fully :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:20 PM
21

Men know they have nothing to offer and instead of becoming a person that others would enjoy being around, it's easier to use threats, physical violence and to blame the person they desire so greatly. Men have no logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:17 PM
131

Treat every male who posts on the manosphere as if he is this man. They don't deserve your time, to have their ideas spread or to even be acknowledged. They are nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:10 PM
39

And these same men would be complaining saying it's unfair men aren't trusted as teachers or around children 🙄. If men cared about that they would CALL OUT and shame men who are like this professor creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:27 AM
3

What is a demand for nudes if not an enforcement of the belief that women are supposed to perform for male pleasure, and even to want to do so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:23 AM
92

I'd love to see the comments if it was the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:09 PM
48

If men say women should be blank then that's your cue to disregard what they're saying and embrace it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:08 PM
1

This is genius. I for one am all for using this system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:51 AM
14

You rub their nose in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:44 PM
77

That sub should be changed to WitchesWorkingForThePatriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:42 PM
7

I really enjoyed that show, but it was definitely painful to watch. So many times I'm yelling "please just walk away!", but Monique did go to the police and beg for help in the beginning and they brushed her off, which is a true story for so many women in the world. She is lucky he didn't hurt her worse. It's really made me fear travel a bit, but I think the biggest lesson is to never trust strangers, even women strangers could be leading you to someone she works for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:52 PM
54

"Oppression against men is a tragedy, oppression against women is tradition". Even the libfems accept this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:33 PM
31

How come they allow conversations with incels/mras/mgtow but they'll auto ban a woman from a sub they dislike? Are they afraid? Because they know they don't have actual counters to any of our points? Because we might hurt a man's feelings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:31 PM
3

This is ok! Because now you've gained experience and wisdom for the future, you've taught yourself how to state your boundaries and what not to tolerate. Your future is very bright and I know you'll not allow anyone to disrespect you again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:25 PM
305

You're actually into bdsm but you require an hour of "aftercare" afterwards to not turn into a blubbering mess and develop ptsd? No dear, you are not actually into it, you're tolerating it because you've been socialized to appeal to rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:18 PM
116

History has shown time and time again that when men are out of the picture women step up and take over all the jobs and life carries on just as well or better. But when women are out of the picture, chaos ensues, men wage war and violence, people go hungry and live in filth. We don't need men, they need us. We make the rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:59 AM
42

It's so sad when you can't tell if stuff like this is satire or not because it's such a common mentality. I think she's being serious and if so...well, I hope she gets picked and enjoys her life wiping a hairy man ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:12 PM
24

Here's some good posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mi33c9/how_to_find_out_if_a_man_watches_porn_its_easier/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mk22lg/yes_you_are_allowed_to_set_the_standard_that_you/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lnad0s/but_all_men_watch_porn_not_all_men/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:33 PM
29

Putting a woman at risk of pregnancy and STI's which can both be deadly is a major act of violence men inflict casually on women. And I think mainstream needs to discuss these unique risks that women faced when raped more often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:01 PM
24

None of that makes sense wtf 🤣 they're insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:09 PM
38

Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:04 PM
126

He was also upset she got a tummy tuck and looked like her pre-pregnancy self again, this man really showing his true colours wanting to use pregnancy to control her (like majority of men).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:58 PM
18

Him: I'm avoiding women who have standards Also him: gets no dates wait- no, you were supposed to lower your standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:05 AM
27

Thank you! Thought I was the only person who felt this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:12 AM
19

Men be like "but how would women feel if men did and said the exact same thing we've always done to women?" And be thinking they've just made a revolutionary point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:55 PM
26

This is the specific reason why women NEED women's shelters and have less of a choice to be homeless on the streets. In some places it's guaranteed a homeless woman will be raped if she spends her nights outside. Meanwhile homeless men say they actually PREFER to stay outside rather then shelters because they have a community of other homeless men they get to be buddy buddy with. Its a real example of male privilege even in the homeless population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:12 PM
44

No matter where you are in the world, every woman know the "where's my hug?" guy. How is this so universal??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:02 PM
8

If it was about money then women would go to therapy less then men considering women own a lot less of the wealth in the world. Men have the exact same access to therapy and doctors offices as women do. They simply think women should provide that labour for free as they always have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:15 PM
44

"What is a demand for nudes if not an enforcement of the belief that women are supposed to perform for male pleasure, and even to want to do so?" Febos, Girlhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:06 PM
180

"Women bodyshame more" - Anyone who has access to social media of any sort can say without a doubt that this is not true. Every single video or picture with a non-skinny woman will have comments full of angry men calling her disgusting names for existing. Videos with overweight men have really encouraging and kind comments, especially from their mostly female fan-base. It's always men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:51 PM
473

I've never met a man that hid his emotions, they only do that around other men. As soon as they see a woman they think "free therapy! Time to unleash my childhood trauma on her as she consoles me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:26 AM
75

Think it's that Kardashian ex with Sofia Ritchie. So no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:52 PM
6

Ok, I was worried she thought that blow jobs with a condom "don't count" or something. Many men gaslight women into thinking that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:40 PM
4

When I am not doing bjs In your first sentence you said you do blow jobs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:25 PM
84

Whose the mod, Aimee Ch@llenor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:54 PM
30

They can speak to their doctor, make sure they're always wearing condoms, practice at home, learn different techniques. There are many ways to overcome it with treatments and they all have access to google.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:43 PM
23

If they're capable of having a job and playing video games then they have no excuse and the reason they don't do housework is entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:31 PM
226

I resent that they are encouraging men to think that womens bodies are a purchasable commodity. Their choice to do sex work affects every single woman negatively, not just themselves. That's why we all deserve to share our opinions on it even though they think we have no business discussing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:05 PM
21

Women will never truly be equal until society acknowledges the true impact and sacrifice of pregnancy and childbirth on women's lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:33 AM
10

Further proof that the reason men are so obsessed with false accusations is pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:28 AM
61

This is a great post and so important for every woman to read. Honestly the amount of the care this subreddit has for women and their lives is astounding sometimes, because I've never seen it anywhere else. We need more of this. -I'll add that some women find breastfeeding to be one of the most painful things they've ever experienced, even worse then childbirth in some cases. And yet, because women are shamed so badly into putting themselves first at all, they will power through it and live with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:21 AM
81

Lies men tell themselves 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:21 PM
11

Oh ok makes sense. OP was talking about men who masturbate to specific people I thought you were too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:37 PM
3

We're gonna see cheerios start flying off the shelves soon when men need to find more fitting masturbatory devices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:36 PM
2

Right 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:30 PM
43

I don't usually think about specific people, its more just a situation I think about with faceless people. That, or I'm reliving a scenario with my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:28 PM
13

Wtf, that's just messed up. I'm sorry you were put through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:48 PM
46

I find it really odd that they act like people have no capacity to divert or control their thoughts at all. This is one of my big issues with men. I think the truth is they can control their thoughts as well as anyone, they just don't have the conscience, guilt or empathy to care to stop them. "Oh I'm thinking of mom while I jerk it? Guess it's biological and natural, will keep going." A normal person would think "no, this is weird, I need to stop and clear my mind, this is disrespectful towards…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:45 PM
20

I've read that the ability for some women to orgasm easier has to do with their physical anatomy, some women's clitorises are closer to the vagina then others and even a millimeter can make a big difference. For me, it doesn't matter what position I'm in, even if I'm on top I will get zero clit stimulation from PIV. Can anyone else relate? Cause I feel alone here lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:38 PM
14

This is exactly what sex should be like, respectful, loving, tender and thoughtful. I'm so happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:33 PM
7

You're not alone..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:24 PM
37

RIGHT?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:16 PM
99

This was in the big askreddit thread yesterday. The reason I say 'friends and family' is because one of the top posts was about a man masturbating to his dying mother, and then some more talking about their sisters. And men STILL wonder why they're not trusted around children? Well geez, you're all admitting that you'll masturbate to everyone and everything you come into contact with: family, friend or stranger. Creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:12 PM
48

And yet women still tend to force themselves to have painful sex anyways to please a man. Would a man have sex if his dick was in excruciating pain or covered in cuts? Never. Would a woman have sex with a man while he is in pain and cries? No. And yet it's seen as normal for the other way around, it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:39 AM
196

No, you don't have to accept that. It's going to be hard for you to accept this, but your boyfriend is a major LVM. He has lied to you from the beginning. He has been going behind your back and masturbating to women probably daily. And the fact he follows onlyfans makes me think he might have an account he pays for to get an intimate relationship with some of the girls as well. HVM think porn is gross, they know that porn is cheating, they would not support an industry rife with child porn and d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:54 PM
8

"So how many guys have you slept with John?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:29 AM
35

I worked in fastfood restaurants for many years, the men's washrooms were 10x worse. Had to pay people to even go in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:32 PM
109

This comment was from a self described sex worker btw. Wonder if she will volunteer as tribute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:38 PM
48

Wow, it's literally grooming girls to learn that they must always agree to men's advances or be punished. Definitely rape culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:53 PM
49

Are they ok..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:21 PM
17

Who would have thought that when you're a woman-hating, detestable person that...women don't want to be near you or have sex with you. This isn't rocket science. Men aren't having sex because they are not likeble people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:39 PM
49

Plus women are groomed into dating older men and as soon as the lust spell wears off these young women realize they're laying next to a saggy, grey, no-energy, receding hairlined senior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:15 AM
50

"He Who Must Not Be Named" - JKR predicted this all along 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:04 AM
2

Wow that's heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:02 AM
58

Men really think sexual offenders are hunched over creepy guys with mustaches and receding hairlines that lurk in bushes. Little do they know their best friend John that makes everyone laugh, is great at giving advice, has a goals relationship and "wouldn't hurt a fly" rapes his girlfriend every night. I think many women know exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:56 AM
28

Very good points. Although as a male writer he is calling out some good stuff, he needs to speak with women and get their perspectives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:14 PM
11

Back in the day when you had to type in an actual website address to find stuff and as a young girl you think "cool! I'm gonna go to girls dot com to find girl stuff" and instead be faced with porn. Amazing how men have immediately taken everything female and turned it into porn before a we could have an innocent use for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:48 PM
78

That post was so delusional it blew my mind. Men realize that on reddit they are free to make as many absurd lies about women as they want and they will get upvoted and awarded to heaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:42 PM
35

In the words of yoda: Trash men be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:06 PM
137

This is an article titled 'How the Internet is Teaching Men to Hate Women'. It's a must read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:01 PM
40

Wooo new episode :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:59 PM
3

It's been proven multiple times that women work more hours then men in every single country in the world. Scrotes will come up with excuses until the end of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:24 PM
14

How funny is it that men have SO LITTLE dirt on this subreddit that they have to make up stuff to be mad about? "If they can't control you, they will try to control how others see you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:16 PM
7

Sickening. When women are taught their only worth is being sexualized by men this is what you come up with. Fuck patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:07 PM
113

Because men don't want to choose from a certain selection of women, they feel entitled to every single woman being an option to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:52 PM
122

When men project and women believe their lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:09 PM
7

What's happening here and what FDS advocates are not even similar in the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:40 AM
1

Just listened to the first episode, it was amazing, great job to all who were a part of it! Y'all are engaging and hilarious. Can't wait to hear the next episode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:03 AM
24

She also said he's always been an asshat but she thought he might change after they had kids. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:46 PM
87

Just saw a libfem ask if there's any difference between being anti-sex work/porn and anti-abortion. It's astonishing what they will do to defend prioritizing men's pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:24 PM
174

No one: Men: "women wearing makeup is sexual harrassment towards men" Can the world just collectively regard them the same as flat earthers or anti-vaxxers by now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:19 PM
36

They want us to be tradwifes But also pay for 50% of the bills and have casual sex (but also be virgins).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:12 PM
23

Also, why are they silent with all the media showing violence of men against men? Aka, the 99.999% of violence that men suffer from? It's almost like they don't care about mens lives...they simply care about oppressing women. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:08 PM
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'Think what it is to be a boy, to grow up to manhood in the belief that without any merit or exertion of his own... by the mere fact of being born a male he is by right the superior of all and every one of an entire half of the human race,' 'How early the youth thinks himself superior to his mother, owing her forbearance perhaps but no real respect; and how sublime and sultan-like a sense of superiority he feels, above all, over the woman whom he honours by admitting her to a partnership of his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:44 AM
27

Are they even sentient at this point? They live in some other dimension fantasy-land.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:47 PM
5

There's no person more protected or sympathized with on reddit then the young, white, depressed male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:13 PM
52

Why are men so man-hating? They really think they're incapable of being honest individuals in loving relationships, nope they like to promote they're all hormone-driven liars apparently. They said it 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:01 PM
9

Damn men are so hormonal 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:58 PM
36

That's one of the worst things i have heard. He is 100% a closet pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:49 PM
144

He sounds over emotional. Men should learn to control their hormonal behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:44 PM
68

Men have much better reproductive options then women. They can literally choose exactly where to put their sperm which they KNOW is the only way to get someone pregnant. They can control their orgasm. Women can't physically control ovulation and even with BC there is no 100% sure way to know if it's working or not. With PIV there is nothing a woman can physically do to make her self less able to get pregnant. Men hold 100% of the power in causing pregnancies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:01 PM
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I don't care if you're using another form of BC whether that be pills, IUD, shot, ring, etc. You should still be using condoms. Because not only does it protect you, but an HVM would care about his personal reproductive health and not risk anything unless he was certain he's ready to be a father. The sad thing is if I ever suggest condoms in any other subreddit I get downvoted to oblivion, even in female-subreddits because "I can't do that to my husband :("...and yet, he will happily do that to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:23 PM
26

I've had lots of success. Of course you've had success, that's the point. Men will date anyone, even if he's not attracted to you he will happily date you for the girlfriend benefits until his dream girl comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:32 PM
3

Honestly, consuming something in front of your partner that they might want but can't is just plain rude and inconsiderate. LV behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:28 PM
37

I think this quote is helpful in these types of situations: YOU didn't disappoint your parents. Your parents held rigid expectations and never adjusted them even when it was clear they didn't fit you. Children grow in all directions. It's not your fault if your parents weren't prepared to grow with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:25 PM
7

Yep, completely agree. Notice how every other group including men's groups are completely focused on their own issues, but when it comes to feminism we need to equally focus on men as well? It comes down to the whole 'women do emotional labour and must be nurturing and kind to everyone sexism. How freaking weird is it that men, the oppressors, can have their own personal movements and not also be expected to equally focus on women, the people they have violently oppressed for all of history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:36 PM
55

I love seeing the men have an absolute fit about this clearly satire post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:12 PM
32

Now THIS is cool. Can't wait to listen tonight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:51 PM
11

Huh. Anyways...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:31 PM
189

Women's safety>male feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:26 PM
16

I love to hear rants! That man's behaviour is the exact same reason men infiltrate this sub, they know when they are around women aren't free to speak their minds or realize as a collective how oppressive men are (try doing that on any front page subreddit..) they just want to control the conversation, keep women doing their laundry and make sure women don't have any moment to themselves that doesn't revolve around men. Edit: ugh hope your friend comes to her sense one day..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:17 PM
8

Have you read Pauline Harmange's book- I H@te M3n? (Censoring to not alert the you know who's). It has an entire section on why men do this. Its really a specific tactic of maintaining patriarchy. I would write down some quotes if I remembered right now, but will have to later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:02 PM
9

I'm honoured 😂😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:57 PM
35

To this day I've never seen someone give an actual example of an issue they have with this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:03 PM
40

Sounds like jail time to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:27 AM
62

I looove this guy 😂 the boys in the comment get so salty though, they can't handle seeing the shoe on the other foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:25 AM
63

Bottom line: If you are the one who is pregnant then you get to give whoever comes out of you your last name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:20 PM
37

Has he gained weight? She's probably just not attracted to him anymore, not her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:45 PM
9

He sounds materialistic. Birthdays are for children, he needs to grow up. Only with her for her money, how sad that no one is in relationship for love anymore. She's probably breaking her back going to work everyday while he sits at home expecting to be showered with gifts. ---> all real comments I've heard with genders reversed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:44 PM
23

Reddit will ban a subreddit raising money for a womans rape shelter, but there's hundreds of subreddits with this stuff. #RedditHatesWomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:22 PM
3

Lazy bums. How about accomplish something in life? No wonder they hate themselves so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:17 PM
15

"Oftentimes when we, in our enlightened state ... now respond to bad male behavior or someone just doing something that was absolutely out of line and we respond, that response is treated like the offense itself." "I was thinking, the most rage-provoking element of being a female is the gaslighting that happens ... for centuries we've just been expected to absorb male behavior silently" -Taylor Swift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:10 PM
10

Yes it was, I loved the quote and thought it fit in well here. It would not be upvoted if it was about their own country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:44 PM
64

Dating financially secure, mentally healthy, normal dicked men that don't beat women is my kink, stop kink shaming me VICE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:22 AM
49

Let's see this man's internet history. Make all of these men's internet history public, we deserve to know what sort of communities they are involved in. Not like it'll be a surprise, Let's be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:13 AM
7

The most important one is who their role models are. It doesn't matter if you teach your son to do chores, if he sees that dad doesn't do his equal share then that's what teaches him what being a man is. He will expect his future partner to be in charge of chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:25 PM
71

I'm sooo sick of the new thing women are being told: "My husband doesn't do a single chore, doesnt talk to our children and poops on the floor, what should I do?" Commenter: "sounds like your love language is acts of service. You should ask him what his love language is so you can both learn how to love eachother better :)" UGH no, a person wanting their partner to do the bare minumum is not a love language!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:21 PM
14

Ah great, completely agree! How does such simple common sense even need to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:43 PM
8

And that's not just a single instance of violence either as many men may think, many of us have experienced sexual violence many times throughout our lives or for long periods of time consecutively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:39 PM
2

I hope she posted this to give a reason why she dumped this MF and why her child will need to be away from him for safety and NOT because she wants other abused women to tell her "it'll get better!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:36 PM
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I love learning about these things! I hate when people say that if the world became a matriarchy then it would be just as toxic and violent when studies of every matriarchal society has shown they are the most egalitarian and calm societies there is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:33 PM
9

Can someone give a tldr of the video for those that can't hear it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:28 PM
15

I see that side, I just don't think we're at a point in time where sexism is seen offensive enough for us to take back a word that is still daily and commonly used by men (and women) to express their contempt for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:33 PM
257

Like petulant children, they can't have not being the center of attention for a single day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:22 PM
27

Yes definitely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:50 PM
190

Can you imagine if women reacted to criticism in the same way men do? As they say, "men are lucky women simply want equality and not revenge".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:12 PM
36

I agree. And when men hear women call each other bitches it just enforces their mindset that they can do it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:11 PM
54

Omg when I read "men these days respect when women say no..." I had a huge laugh. All the women men accuse of playing hard to get are women desperately but nicely trying to escape from a man's advances without getting murdered. Men just can't accept a woman they want doesn't want them so they create these imaginary scenarios of "she's just pretending not to want me! She wants me to keep stalking her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:42 PM
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A 2020 study on Tinder showed over double the amount of men then women use dates to get free food/drinks. Men are taking advantage fully of the fear they've put into women afraid of being "gold diggers", they're getting women to pay for their meals, give them therapy, use them for sex and moving on to find a woman he actually wants to impress and be with (if he was on a date with Jessical Alba would he ask her to pay her half?) If men wanted women to pay 50/50 they wouldn't have physically, soci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:33 PM
49

And honestly, anyone saying "oh it worked out for me I got married young" you can't really say that until you're at least 50. A lot can happen in your marriage over the years and masks may come off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:32 PM
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This is his 3rd very young Asian wife in a 5 year span. He is a creepy old fetishizing white man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:25 AM
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Sorry not sure, I guess the nsfw blurs it out at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:58 PM
17

This deserves a trigger warning. These are literal rapists discussing how they rape women. They should be reported to the FBI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:53 PM
46

"Dear god, you mean if I treat people like shit eventually I'll have no one to do my laundry or cook my food? I never saw it coming...."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:21 AM
39

Universal basic income
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:48 PM
153

I remember when this was posted on reddit and all the comments called her selfish entitled and abusive. Lol, like she didn't force him to, he offered. People hate pregnant women for existing so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:28 PM
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Completely true. In anti-work dubreddits I always hear people say "back in the day someone was doing all the cooking, cleaning, chores and child-rearing. We don't have that anymore so now life is unfair and there is no free time". Hmm it's almost like those women wanted to escape their own work prison where they weren't even PAID, had no breaks, no retirement and their "boss" could leave them homeless and penniless at any moment. It wasn't fair back then and it isn't now either. Not until UBI ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:24 PM
42

"Why should I apologize? It was an accident." He said. Absolute cold hearted monster. I was happy to see she seemed to be making the best of it and still positive in life, meanwhile he was a miserable gross toad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:12 AM
47

"NTA it's misandrist that she isn't considering your feelings because you are a man, if she was a real feminist she would have sex with you and not be so selfish."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:06 AM
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Many also think it's okay to call women bitches Just saw a guy say it's homophobic of women to have an issue with the word bitch because it's a part of gay male culture. 🤨 Yeah, cause they're also misogynists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:01 AM
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Men need to realize that just because the majority of men are pedophiles it does not make it ethical, moral or any less horrifying. Then these same men will cry that women don't trust then around children or as teachers. No duh. Look at the state of yall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:20 PM
52

This sounds like a male to male bragging post. "I have a super hot perfect woman as a girlfriend but I'd rather just use her for sex, any advice boyz?" Who wants to bet he's single and creating a internet fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:14 PM
15

This is why women are more likely to end up homeless and in poverty after divorce. Don't fall for it and don't trust. Always put your best interests first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:12 PM
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100%. And actually all mothers, because reproductive labour is real labour, it's the most important and hardest one there is and they deserve fair compensation for literally being the reason society exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:40 PM
34

"Husband hits you cause you're his property " vs. " "Husband hits you because it makes him orgasm"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:00 PM
7

You know if this was about punching men then there would be a brigade of men and pickmes in the comments saying how men don't get sympathy for abuse like women do and "if the genders were reversed.." 🙄 well, here's how people act when they genders are reversed, it's a joke. Women have never gotten sympathy. Itd probably be removed from the site as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:09 PM
11

Wasn't he mad when he teenage daughter dated old man Scott Disick? Guess she learned it's normal to be groomed by old men from her pop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:02 AM
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No HVM would date a woman that much younger then him. It's a red flag for a man to not date women his own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:40 AM
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I think comparing negotiating as masculine to being a mother as feminine or the other examples is not even a close equivalent. The article failed on that part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:33 PM
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It was in an instagram comment, men were doing the usual calling a woman who was overweight a bunch of names and insults and someone was like why are you men like this? He said this woman being overweight means his dating pool is smaller and that upsets him and affects men. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:10 PM
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This isn't a LVM, this is a NVM: negative-value man. He is literally taking your life force every moment you are with him. I can't stress enough how much this man is not a regular LVM, he is pure sociopathic murderer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:06 PM
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Because men don't just feel entitled to a woman they want. They feel entitled to EVERY woman. A woman who doesn't meet his standards he sees as a direct offense to himself and something that should be punished. I know this because I saw a man exactly describe this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:58 PM
10

"Housework is work directly opposed to the possibility of human self-actualization" - Ann Oakley
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:56 AM
16

Men have so much uterus envy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:47 AM
14

I really like Eat Pray Love. It's pretty inspiring and makes you feel like a free woman. It's not perfect, but I always feel so good after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:05 PM
67

Virginity is a social construct. It doesn't exist and there is no physical way to tell if someone is a virgin or not. Never ever ever tell a man you are a virgin, they will fetishize you and do anything it takes to "take your virginity".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:58 PM
24

A man wrote this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:54 PM
17

Men are so lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:03 PM
17

Not every man even has a huge sex drive like they'll make you believe and some men have strong consciences where looking at porn makes them feel very uncomfortable or like cheating. So yes, there are men out there who don't watch it and if you settle for a man who watches it even sometimes you will always end up the hurt one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:58 PM
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"All men watch porn even if they say they don't" So you're saying that all men are cold-hearted liars that coerce women into relationships through deceit? Here in this subreddit we have some faith that men are good people, but men want to convince us that we are wrong and men are really liars? Whose the real anti-male people here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:52 PM
39

The lack of sentience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:13 AM
22

That last paragraph is such a sad disgusting truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:10 AM
40

This is why I can't stand the other female subreddits. Just meme after meme of their bf/husbands bad behaviour and women in the comments laughing along with it cause "boys will be boys". Call it out and you get banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:28 PM
11

Who is she cheating with? If she's cheating with the men who look at her picture then that means he's beeing cheating every time he looks at another woman's picture? Men have no logic and think the world revolves around their wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:31 PM
23

I don't like makeup and I don't want to lose weight. Also, my style of clothing is casual, because I like comfort more than anything and most clothing stores don't carry my size anyway. I've been on FDS for a long time and never felt like there was pressure to wear makeup or dress fancy. As for weight it's only been said you should have an exercise routine purely for your own health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:59 PM
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If men actually cared about not being seen as creeps around children they would be calling out men who watch teen porn or daddy doms or the men who say they're "biologically attracted to underage girls". But they won't ever do that because they want to not be called out for their creepy behaviour towards children/teens while ALSO having their "right" 🤮 to masturbate or have sex with them. The ball's in your court men, we currently have a billion valid reasons and experiences not to trust you. Ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:31 PM
19

Same thing happened to me, I'm so sorry. I used to love my walks outside, now I can never enjoy that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:28 AM
13

Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:42 AM
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Men: if you can't handle that, don't date men Women: ok I won't Men: >:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:38 AM
38

For anyone wondering: this is a great book. Almost everything FDS stands for and more worded beautifully. A quick and easy read as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:32 AM
15

I watched this recently too...very mixed thoughts. On one side, she's a very genuine woman who seems to love and admire their culture, is contributing to the community by making pads for the women and everyone seems to have accepted her as their own. On the other side...yes she has given up a life of being an equal human being to be a subordinate next to men and her husband, she accepts he may take another wife anytime he wants even though the thought clearly makes her uncomfortable and we don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:40 PM
17

I don't expect a child to know how to deal with adult men raping them, do not feel bad or guilty for the past. He is a monster and belongs in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:57 PM
5

Omg now THAT flew right over my head because I am too innocent apparently 😂 here i am imagining her picking some grass off her lawn....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:51 AM
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The joke is if he buys you flowers you should buy him some grass. Basically she's saying men don't deserve anything for valentines day because it's low effort anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:00 AM
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I feel like the joke of this pic was missed lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:42 PM
7

Yep, if they were to ban or quarantine this sub without banning all of the porn subreddits and 95% of the default subreddits it would be blatant misogyny. Men just can't handle feeling .0001% of what women deal with every second of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:42 PM
7

Every scrote deserves to have their name forgotten as if they never existed on this earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:21 PM
57

Aww, as soon as it affects him and HIS life negatively he regrets it and wishes it never happened. Forget about all the women he probably led on or coerced into sex or gave stds to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:20 PM
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can't even stand to wear jeans without a top or coat or jumper covering my bum because I don't want men to look at my bum and think something, I absolutely hate this feeling and didn't realize till now I think about it every morning when getting dressed. Not all of my sweaters cover my bum and I realize that's when I feel the most uncomfortable. And yet just yesterday I saw a man walking with his pants belt below his ass cheeks and yet no one thinks he's a slut or is pornifying him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:41 PM
289

It's because men are only nice and acknowledge the existence of women they want to have sex with, they assume women are the same way. They don't understand platonic interaction with women unless its their mom. And even then, look at their porn these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:07 PM
30

I like her 2006 MCR getup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:08 AM
33

I think because of the prevalence and acceptance of porn culture men are more open about it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:47 AM
93

Tldr: wahh women get the rights to their own bodies and men have to support their own children? Misaaanndryyy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:52 PM
65

Cringey on both sides. Who would text a customer? Sounds fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:22 PM
51

Men: Its the womans fault for having a baby with a deadbeat loser. Woman: has high standards for who she dates Men: >:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:27 PM
79

Misandrist isn't the opposite of misogyny, its the result of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:24 PM
17

She must have non-stop UTI's....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:57 AM
8

Mike..never trust a Mike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:44 PM
37

Sounds like pickme stuff. "Oh no my poor husband has been seduced by this evil mistress! Don't worry sweety, we'll sue her for what she did to our marriage."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:51 PM
17

feminism typically has been about equalizing gender roles. That's the point of women not paying 50/50 though. 50/50 is not equal for women because of all of the extra shit women have to go through that men don't, not to mention women getting paid less. 50/50 puts women at a disadvantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:46 PM
93

Men won't even wake up in the night for their own baby and we're supposed to believe they'll save us from an intruder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:24 PM
38

Lots of men have admitted that porn is what encouraged them to cheat. Just like pedophiles have admitted porn is what encouraged them to assault children. At the end of the day its on them, but this is why men who watch porn are always low value and cannot be trusted around women/children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:51 PM
33

Also men: stop treating us like predators :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:46 PM
43

It's sad that happened, but such a common theme with men. All the resources are sitting right there for them. All the medicine has been tested specifically for their male bodies. All the doctors are likely to take male patients seriously and believe them. Men hold the majority of wealth. But they choose not to get help and it has nothing to do with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:57 AM
10

Thank you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:53 AM
133

Its always "men's mental health isn't taken seriously therefore we get a free pass to abuse and oppress women". 100% this. Never seen them actually share resources on mental health. Anyone who actually suggested therapy or even the menslib sub was heavily downvoted and called a simp. They don't want help, they want excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:28 PM
77

Yes it was, their delusion inspires memes. Completely agree with everything you've said, none of the basement dwellers that post on askreddit are normal healthy men, but they've convinced themselves all men are as pathetic as them unplug your Xbox until you've made at least one irl friend, and stop expecting women to solve your problems. It's so sad how this would solve the majority of mens "issues".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:25 PM
74

My last post demonstrated exactly what these men mean, straight from the dragons mouth. Tldr: Woman: "he cheated on me and then he started freaking out and crying about how hard his life is. What a loser" Men: "wow, he opened up to you and you just laughed at him? This is why men can never speak about their feelings, you should be more compassionate towards him. Men are oppressed." When women brush off men who speak about their feelings its because he's trying to get sympathy from his bad behavi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:21 PM
66

In regards to womens "support system": having a support system requires daily maintenance and years of building trust and reciprocation in order to have someone who will always be there to support you. Men seem to think that if you're born with a vagina then you just have a flock of friends there to support you, but it works exactly the same for us as it does for them. They just got unlucky that male friendships suck. They're they only ones that can help themselves. Edit: just came across the po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:16 PM
2

I only just visited, but had to immediately leave because of the constant "let's go boyssss!" "Yes brotherss!" Just a cringey circlejerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:03 PM
20

Yes the diets too. How many men have you heard brag " I'm a meat and potato guy, never ate a vegetable before" (minus the fact potatoes are veggies...), but I've never heard a woman brag about never eating vegetables. I've met a few men who think eating fruit is gay too. Ok, enjoy your early heart disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:40 PM
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Really important when it comes to medical issues, I see too many women waste their lives away begging for their husband to see a doctor/dentist and they are just worn out over it. It's. Not. Your. Problem. Men thrive over the attention and care women provide them when they refuse to fix their health issues, this is why women's live span lowers and men's increases with marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:50 PM
118

Cats clean themselves daily and wipe their own butts. Cats 1 Men 0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:45 PM
15

Also her last name is Gillette which triggers man babies uncontrollably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:26 PM
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Its hard to speak on vegan men, because even though I've been vegan 5+ years I've never met another vegan man IRL. Only met 1 vegan woman IRL. Online, sure lots. When looking for a HVM if they're not vegan, the most important thing is that when you mention veganism they express interest, curiosity, excitement to try some new meals and an insistence that they don't want to eat animal products around you. As well they express desire to work towards veganism themselves. Any man who expresses disapp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:13 PM
3

"Will fuck me back when I try to fuck it" - you admitting to raping women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:46 PM
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He spends HOURS cleaning EVERY time she comes over? So he either let's his place get disgustingly dirty in between each time she comes over, and there's no hiding that no matter how hard you clean...or he's one of those absolute idiots that spends hours trying to make the windows sparkle or wiping down his gaming systems while ignoring the crumbs all over the carpet and counters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:05 AM
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Let him know you're extremely disappointed and creeped out by him dating teenagers. Say you don't feel safe being around a groomer and predator to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:16 PM
19

He MiGht hAvE a bRaiN tUmOur
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:36 PM
22

Studies also show that older men who date much younger women specifically make sure to use no condoms or birth control, these men know exactly what they're doing. They get a sick power play out of abandoning pregnant children. They're probably the same men that complain they get dirty looks while sitting in children's park alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:22 PM
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Studies also show that older men who date much younger women specifically make sure to use no condoms or birth control, these men know exactly what they're doing. They get a sick power play out of abandoning pregnant children. They're probably the same men that complain they get dirty looks while sitting in children's park alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:22 PM
17

Changing your last name is Choice Feminism, it is not real feminism and it promotes patriarchy. Funny how only women see their names as belonging to their family and easily disposed of, but men see their names as belonging to them and disassociate that from whatever behaviour their families have caused. It's some subtle internalized misogyny. The children should always have the mothers name as well since she is the one creating them from her flesh and bone, sacrificing her life for them, and wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:30 PM
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Those are usually men. Get tons of men try to make posts on here about how to spermjack or steal a mans money or accuse them of r*pe. They can't handle that they don't actually have any dirt on us so as usual they make their own cause they have no lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:46 PM
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When they can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. Its really funny, because there is this all women village in Africa (Ujoba) who are sick of mens shit, and when interviewing the women they've got everything figured out, make their own money, so happy to never get married, against female genital mutilation. When you talk to the men outside the village they say it'll never last because women are incapable of leading themselves and need to be controlled and they nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:40 PM
29

Haha INFP men do the exact same thing in our sub. I'm so tired of the "woe, poor us INFP men, we do absolutely nothing and women aren't falling all over us because we're not Chad, wish a woman would be my therapist." It seems like men of all types use it to excuse their behaviour and lack of internal growth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:31 AM
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Every minute you spend with a man who watches porn is a minute taken from finding a HVM who wouldn't dream of being such a creepy perv. Yes ,it'll take some time to find one, but they are out there and once you will him you'll never imagine being in any other type of relationship. But you have to accept and be happy being alone first. Focus on yourself and leveling up for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:44 PM
6

like the physical reaction other men were having and that was his real fantasy. Exactly this. There's thousands of porn subreddits and it's userbase is literally 99.999% of men posting pics and then commenting on the pics about how hard they are...and other men upvoting those comments. And most of the "female posters" are actually men too if you check their history. Freaking weird. Its a literal circlejerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:45 AM
112

Sadly, only when males speak against porn is when anyone will listen or take it seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:36 AM
179

But they're obsessed with anal and spend their time online posting videos and pics so other men will get hard...yeah they need to come to turns with being attracted to men not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:05 PM
56

Because men always try to cover up their past mistakes with spontaneous actions whether its the right choice or not. If they lose a good woman because they were a lazy or a bad partner then they think 'I'll marry or impregnate the next woman that looks in my direction so this doesn't happen again'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:50 PM
44

The people you’re attracted are supposed to get more mature at the same time you do. If that doesn’t happen then straight up you’re a pedophile. This x10000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:37 AM
218

Yes to all of this, but imagine being friends with this guy even after how horribly he treated his ex. Plus he has zero emotional intelligence, what friendship does he even bring except for expecting therapy from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:35 PM
23

Agreed, and before the female gamers come here and defend it, there's been many posts here that explained why women who play games are a completely different breed. If men were capable of having hobbies in a healthy manner while still maintaining priorities and not shutting out the outside world while they play it wouldn't be an issue, but men are not like that. They turned video games into a screeching smelly mess thats embarrassing to their family, parents, partners and female gamers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:02 PM
9

I really loved Dark Phoenix. Me and my boyfriend left the theatre going wow, that was awesome! And then I read the reviews online and it's rated to shit because men were mad a woman had a leading role and could lift more then them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:23 PM
22

And whats with that scene where all the men come together and fight as a team? Obvious male-pandering. Its so unrealistic that they could win a fight without at least one woman there leading them. Ruined the whole movie for me. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:18 PM
68

Cats are angels on earth, I feel blessed anytime I'm in ones presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:13 PM
149

I'll read stories of 21 year old married women with 1 kid and 2 stepkids, pregnant with another and finding out their lazy 40 year old husband is cheating on her and it's just...there's no escaping that level of life destruction. Give me all the cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:46 PM
63

The sad thing is some dudes have already mysteriously gotten their dick stuck in the exhaust pipe. They all claim they tripped and fell into it of course. XY chromosome is mutated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:37 PM
14

childish mutant 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:24 PM
131

Women’s Unpaid Labor is Worth $10,900,000,000,000 The world stops when women go on strike and stop all unpaid work. When men stop work women simply take over their jobs and do a better job. Source: history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:11 PM
5

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:07 PM
2

@bigwormenergy I don't use tiktok, just saw this on instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:01 PM
7

Exactly, the woman in the comments kept trying to justify her behaviour and explain how she let her bf speak about his emotions but the scrote didn't care and kept chastising her. These guys never argue in good faith so never respond in good faith.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:59 PM
160

This is what men mean when they say "my girlfriend broke up with me for talking about my feelings, men are so oppressed :'(" They think talking about feelings is a get out of jail free card now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:24 AM
25

Touché 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:57 AM
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Why doesn't he post that on a male dominated sub so he can teach them empathy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:30 PM
17

Preach! Point to me one other women/feminist sub where the users are posting daily about how they are escaping abusive relationships and putting themselves first for once because they've been empowered and supported by the sub. I'll wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:32 PM
165

And we don't even demand men pay for dates, we just choose not to date men that don't. Apparently that sets womens rights back more then dressing up as a child and getting pretend-raped on Onlyfans for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:26 PM
50

Imagine the comments if a woman didn't tell her husband she was a prostitute. Edit: ew, don't search "prostitute" on that subreddit because you will never trust another man again and I honestly just feel so bad that women have no self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:35 PM
3

Reciprocation. I'm perfectly fine being nurturing and loving in a relationship as long as he treats me the same from day one. It's when you're the only one giving massages or emotional support that you become a pushover and they take you for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:55 PM
11

Most guys get confused if you use a word with more then two syllables too, like its kind of embarrassing having to give the definitions for basic words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:51 PM
44

I worked in fast food as a teen and saw this ALOT. The answers actually really simple, the girls are young, lonely, not used to attention, especially from older men that "appear" to have their life together, the men feed them promises and they're excited they got picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:48 PM
5

If all your boyfriends exes just happen to be prostitutes, i think you need to use your brain for a moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:44 PM
19

Let me guess, the comments are all calling her needy, insecure and abusive because she's trying to take him away from his precious video game for a moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:40 PM
9

My question is why are we hearing so much about this woman specifically? There's a billion videos of women getting raped in child outfits on every porn site that men have been getting off to, but when this woman does it everyone loses their minds? Honestly curious why anyone cares about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:36 PM
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Women talking about their real fears of being scared and harassed while walking alone at night doesn't negate anything about how men feel. Why do they have to make everything about men? How is this an unpopular opinion? If they actually cared they would bring it up in a general post and not make it about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:21 PM
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Women seem to always be thinking about self growth and want a partner that grows with them and if they break up they want a partner that has better traits. LVM seem to keep trying to date the same high school girlfriend for the rest of their life and even when they date younger women she will outgrow him and be too mature for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:12 PM
9

If men actually cared about the abuse of men they'd be spending their time fighting against the MEN that are actually doing the abusing. For some reason they don't care about those 99.99% of cases though, how odd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:36 AM
152

If men didn't secretly think it was cheating they'd have no issues with their wives/girlfriends doing OnlyFans or being cam models. I mean the men watching her are just fantasizing and she's not even real to them...right? She's only using other men to turn herself on so she will be aroused enough to have sex with her husband, what's the issue? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:33 AM
20

You could put a wig on a fire hydrant and men would be lined up around the block for a chance to stick his dick in it. There is something severely wrong when they can't look at a piece of ice and not be misogynistic towards it or sexualize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:08 PM
240

You are what you eat (consume) Consume depraved disgusting things, no surprise when you become a depraved disgusting person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:39 PM
16

I hope these guys aren't surprised when they end up with a child support order on their doorstep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:51 PM
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Cats are seen as feminine -> men hate feminine things because toxic masculinity -> women like cats -> men get jealous of the cats -> men project their jealousy of cats thinking they'll replace men onto women by insulting her for liking cats. At the end of the day, its all projection and men feeling their masculinity threatened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:49 PM
108

Men consider women being able to get a crusty old unshowered man to put his penis in us to be privilege. And that crusty old man will still be the only one who orgasms so how they consider that a privilege is beyond me, other then they only think of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:54 PM
86

See if this were true then before the vibrator existed we would have seen women orgasming constantly during sex without the use of it. In fact history shows the exact opposite, that women would be married with 10 children and haven't had a single orgasm in their lives. Vibrators make up for the incompetence of men not giving a eff about womens pleasure for all of history. Also its just a replacement for a hand. Porn is not masturbation, its a abusive, violent, oppressive, misogynistic industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:35 PM
31

Men, willingly: "we are trash and here is the exact reason we are trash."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:31 PM
27

Do your balls hang low, do they wobble to and fro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:25 PM
66

Love the Arthur reference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:26 PM
19

Yawn. When will men evolve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:28 AM
3

Well I don't have male friends any more because I realized men dump you as friends as soon as you're not single anymore, but the one man I'm with now was a good one. We just did our homework together and sat with each other in classes at college, ate lunch together, joked around. Just like any other friend I suppose. But what I meant is that I need to know someone's character, personality, how they act around others, their humour, etc. before I even think about dating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:32 PM
7

Oh the fragile masculinity of white men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:48 PM
54

I won't tolerate men who use misogynistic slurs of any kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:51 PM
2

Because libfems think its much more oppressive and violent to expect a man to pay for the date he asked you on, then to promote and cater to mens rape fantasies on OnlyFans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:46 PM
2

I only date someone I'm friends with awhile and let the chemistry develop. Both of these choices are on the extreme side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:24 PM
32

Yep, when LVM are out of your life you don't even notice that those type of instagram models exist on the platform anymore. You have to go out of your way to find them, which is what any man who finds them does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:36 PM
26

I remember seeing a post from a woman like "whats it called when you get turned on when your boyfriend is really sweet and nice to you? Is this a weird kink?" Omg like we are really calling men treating you well a kink now??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:15 PM
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You're lucky you found this subreddit before having sex, as long as you keep your standards high and never accept a man using your body for his sickly desires then you can stop yourself from being traumatized. Just shut down anything if there are any red flags. I have a wonderful partner now who has never once asked for anything depraved and who is educated on consent. Sex should be an intimate romantic experience meant to show your love and care to one another gently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:09 PM
74

MeN aRe ViSuaL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:52 AM
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"As long as he only slaps your child while he gets sexual pleasure from it it's fine..." Absolute trash violent misogynist world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:58 PM
35

I loved this woman! She made the show worth it to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:47 PM
8

How do they embarrass themselves so badly? It's like they have zero self-awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:45 PM
3

Yay, that's great to hear :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:17 PM
9

Any man who actually does something like this would never be HVM though, even if he's aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:04 AM
24

I just burst into tears and said I don't want to go home, I prefer it here in hospital. This breaks my heart so much :( I hope you have a safe home for yourself now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:01 AM
17

I've literally never seen a single mother that had trouble finding a man. Even my old coworker while heavily pregnant with twins had men falling all over her and giving her gifts pretty often, and we worked in a restaurant lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:58 AM
29

They said that raising the age of consent infantalizes women and they don't want to criminalize "natural human desire". I don't know about you, but I'm fine with criminalizing adult men ruining and traumatizing young women's lives before they even get to college, like please put them in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:20 AM
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Watching porn at all is an immediate deal breaker and LVM. Doesn't matter if they're addicted or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:35 PM
9

What would be actually shocking is men who drive safe, can give a woman an orgasm, don't mansplain during movies, have a savings account and don't call you a nag when you express your concerns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:32 PM
28

This woman just looks so disappointed that her grandson is just as annoying as these old men. Don't talk to her like she's a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:29 PM
61

Thank you for saying this. I had a long drawn out argument with another "feminist" subreddit that insisted adults should be able to legally have sex with teenagers and raising the age of consent will only hurt them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:23 PM
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Exactly. And here's another source. In the US, not only are men more likely to call police in case of DV with serious injury, the police are more likely to arrest when there is serious injury of a male victim. Reasons for not reporting: fear of reporting was the #2 reason for women and #5 reason for men. https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/prdv0615.pdf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:32 PM
28

He believes her, he just doesn't care because it turns him on. He didn't date a woman 10 years younger then him because he respects her as a human being with emotions and feelings of her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:08 PM
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If men actually cared about unplanned pregnancies we would hear MRAs and incels preaching to men about being perfect with condom use, always be protected and withholding their orgasms while inside a vagina. Or getting vasectomies. And yet, I don't hear a peep. This is about controlling and punishing women and nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:19 PM
42

Men have just as much if not more choice when it comes to reproduction. For one they have complete control over their sperms and orgasm which is the ONLY way they can get a woman pregnant. Imagine if the only way a pregnancy could be caused was through female orgasm and then imagine a woman getting pregnant and saying he baby-trapped me! They would be laughed at. The only control women have is over their uterus after a man caused her to be pregnant and she can choose to not let he uterus be used…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:28 PM
41

"This isn't about whether pornhub is predatory.." Its not? Well why don't you look into that and write an article on that and after maybe a public apology to all the victims that pornhub has preyed upon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:28 PM
15

I just wanted to copy this comment here because I had to hold in my laughter, as well this is written as if she is trying so hard to convince herself that being slapped around by a man is helping her spirit grow. Yes definitely. I find that bdsm can but a hugely spiritual experience. Think about the protocols and structure around most bdsm relationships, its a ritual in its own. Not to mention the higher standards that are usually held. I will say on the same coin it can bring you down into a da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:40 PM
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Convicted pedophiles admit this as well, a lot of them said they never had attraction to children until they got into porn. Porn easily becomes an addiction and they look for something more and more taboo or destructive or disgusting to get themselves off. Eventually watching porn on a screen isn't enough and they find someone innocent to abuse. Even murderers will admit that porn was a gateway drug for them. This is why I will never trust a man that watches porn. They are all creeps. And men wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:19 PM
78

tell everyone and more obviously themselves that sex work is just as demeaning as any other job. This one boils my blood more then anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:59 PM
495

Dad abandons daughter: "she's got daddy issues she's crazy...but I bet I can get her in bed since she's so insecure." Dad abandons son: "single moms raise criminals" Round of applause for the masters of avoiding accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:05 PM
78

That happened. And the woman describing the man? Sounds like something men imagine women think about while standing in line "his hands knew hard work and he was 6'4"". Wtf Edit: omg OP made this comment: "I hope he has a woman who loves him as he deserves".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:26 PM
25

Yep happened to me and my friends in middle school while we were buying slushies. Apparently because we were wearing skirts that meant 60 year old men were allowed to proposition us for sex. Thankfully a nice older woman made sure we were safe from the creep. But its honestly traumatizing especially as a kid to know that men think they can purchase your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:12 AM
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Arguing that women have the right to sell their bodies is an attempt to hide the argument that men have the right to buy women. - Francoise Heritier Sex work existing harms ALL women whether they are involved in "sex work" or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:08 PM
74

And the children should get the last name of the person who risks their life for pregnancy, childbirth, and literally donates their own blood and bones to create the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:17 PM
33

Men are literally making up things to feel oppressed about now (things that disproportionately affect women) because they can't handle not being the center of attention or victim. Its a common narcissistic trait. There's literally not ONE single issue men face that women don't face worse. Not one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:09 PM
57

I wish they'd stop giving these guys attention. One of the biggest hits to their ego is to never say their name, let them be invisible no matter how big of a tantrum they pull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:47 AM
105

Scrotes sure are creative these days. Whatever happened to men having, y'now, jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:40 PM
86

Most men are the reason for false rape accusations, it happens a lot in male prisons and fathers reporting their daughters bf. They are their own worst enemy as always 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:30 PM
54

7 months here! Best decision ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:22 PM
486

There's a special place in hell for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:07 PM
86

"It was an honest mistake" Apologize like a man. Your fingers didn't slip. Your cousin didn't hack your phone. You made a misogynistic joke publicly and insulted a woman and were found out. So apologize for your misogyny, donate to women's charities in her name and walk away in shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:41 PM
35

Like the one thing you all live for and you aren’t even good at it. Best summary of men I've seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:18 AM
7

Every time I log in here and look at popular posts on other subs, my eyes roll to the back of my head at some of the posts and comments by dumb men and pickmes. Ugh same. Sometimes I just want to quickly check the front page to see if there's anything cool in the news and within a couple scrolls I see some misogynistic post on there that ruins my day. This sub is the only place I feel safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:13 AM
119

Imagine going to a judge so they can force a man who doesn't want to marry you to marry you 😂 maybe when she's on her 4th kid she will realize this was a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:40 PM
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This is the only study I could find, but it was only done on 21 couples. I haven't seen any studies done on kissing someone once and how long it may last. But I don't think it affects you that long. This study indicates that a shared salivary microbiota requires a frequent and recent bacterial exchange and is therefore most pronounced in couples with relatively high intimate kiss frequencies. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25408893/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:49 PM
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This needs to be printed and given to all girls in sex-ed class, it would save so many women from misinformation and issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:00 PM
12

I had to search where I remembered that from, was a tweet from @iamryanhenley, although they don't exist anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:12 PM
263

Birds born in a cage think freedom is a crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:47 PM
65

It sounds like a "them" problem, rather than an "us" problem. "Men tend to confuse their disrespect for women as women not respecting themselves"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:45 PM
395

This woman leaves her country after being banished from chess by scrotal misogyny... then she lands in a country just full of men willing to let her know they will approve of her because she makes their peepee hard. Imagine having the confidence of a mediocre man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:36 PM
181

"Because he's absolutely perfect and the relationship is amazing and she's so happy" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:25 PM
25

Marriage is a scam for women so it only makes sense men play along and at least get the "scam" engagement ring that won't turn your ring green.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:20 PM
99

"Good taste in memes" - the male genders personality in 2020 everyone. claps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:36 AM
236

Reasons this is written by a male: 1) this isn't an unpopular opinion or controversial, most women don't report because of fear. 2) it sounds more like she's trying to convince other women not to report 3) women rape victims would not go onto a male majority, incel subreddit to speak about this. 4) "it was only hard for one day" and then she magically forgot about it and moved past being raped. I'm surprised he didn't end it with "im just happy I was raped and not falsely accused which is waaaay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:28 AM
4

So Tinder basically? Yeah, that'll go great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:30 PM
9

Please pick me! I'll propose! I'll buy you a ps5! I'll even buy my own engagement ring! And then if you let me do that I'll even let you strangle and beat me. EqUaLiTy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:26 PM
9

Child neglect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:14 PM
13

FDS has never said get married immediately, that is a very bad idea. You said age 25 at minimum which is only two years and very reasonable. I would wait at least 3 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:53 PM
17

LVM can't handle when the attention isn't 100% on them at all times. Truly selfish beings that shouldn't exist in the human gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:46 PM
23

And yet women get called gold diggers if they expect an engagement ring to cost more then $80. Men are and have always been the real soul/gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:08 PM
24

This ones gonna sound obvious but for some reason women swoon over this character and men look up to him: Daenarys/Khal Drogo: I mean first scene they meet he forces her to take her clothes off and rapes her. And then just because she happens to develop a trauma bond everyone forgets that part and thinks this couple is so romantic. Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:24 PM
58

Having your attraction grow and evolve into people who are your own age is just a normal part of maturing as a human. If your attraction hasn't grown with you then you're emotionally stunted or need therapy of some sort. Spoiler: what a coincidence most men are emotionally stunted and refuse therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:19 PM
8

First date and he's already trying to disregard your boundaries. It only gets worse from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:26 AM
145

100%. They can offer support to women, but that's it. Keep your opinion out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:23 AM
1

Theres not a magical age that men become good respectful people, they're either that way most of their life or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:01 PM
2

I read that AskMen thread and its sad how there's not a single answer about how it perpetuates abuse against women, they're all just self-centered answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:58 PM
8

Yep, asking you not to be misogynistic in a feminism subreddit is about keeping woc in their place 🤦‍♀️ listen to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:38 PM
15

Any man who doesn't care about his and his partners reproductive safety is automatic LVM. Condoms or nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:45 PM
183

Those words were typed by a 35 year old man with children? Thats how 13 year old misogynistic boys speak. Ugh, well he's doing you a favor now you know you deserve more then whatever he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:27 PM
20

Go back to Twoxchromosomes if you enjoy casual misogyny. The libfems will love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:21 PM
27

Misogynistic slurs aren't ok even if a woman did something bad. Just like rascist slurs are not ok to use even if a person of colour does something bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:35 PM
55

I honestly have no faith in humanity after reading those comments. Next time someone defends bdsm they'll get a link to that post to see what the best community condones and defends. Theres really no words for this blatant rape culture men have created for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:31 PM
29

He belongs in jail and she needs therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:20 PM
6

Imagine being so immature and low value that you can only date children 😂 why are men so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:17 PM
32

How embarrassing. For her. Get some self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:45 AM
69

No one asks men how they handle a full-time job and also have a family...because its assumed a woman is doing all of that "extra" work for him. Reminds me of this woman who said she can't wait till she starts having children because then she can teach them to do chores and she will finally have a break. It didn't once occur to her that her husband could be fucking helping out at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:38 AM
316

And that entire design was based upon not paying women for their work. Things weren't better back then for anyone except men, women simply get paid for their work now. Studies show that in every country of the world women work more paid + unpaid hours of work then men, whether the woman works a full-time job or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:39 PM
24

Nope, doesn't really matter. How they are raised matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:38 PM
5

I'd report him for sexual harrassment. How many times can a man ask me if I'm going to let someone put their sperm in my vagina unprotected before its too much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:06 PM
1

He sounds hormonal. It's that Irritable Male Syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:01 PM
3

Tomorrow is the day you break up for good. Write out exactly what you want to say now, be confident in yourself and just close this chapter in your life. A HVM is only going to be attracted to a HVW and you can't be that if you are a person that let's herself be an option in a man's life. You can do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:28 AM
236

Mandatory tests would just backfire on men so fast. I mean think about all of the children that don't have fathers and don't receive any child support. It'd be awesome if single moms automatically received child support from the proven fathers. It wouldn't matter if he gave the woman a different name or if he moved out of the city, his DNA would be in a database and he would be financially responsible for the child. Think about all the married men that would get letters in the mail saying they o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:45 PM
3

I cant really compare considering I've only met no vegan man in my entire 5 years of being vegan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:00 PM
77

If men only had a monthly hormonal cycle as opposed to their daily cycle there might be a lot less dead and abused women in the world, less wars, less holes in the wall. Irritable Male Syndrome is a real thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:54 PM
44

For the entirety of history women have been the ones building and motivating men without reciprocation. I'm sick of pickmes who were lucky enough to be born in a world that marital rape isn't legal and they act like standing up for womens rights is an affront to men. This is some #alllivesmatter BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:50 PM
40

Wtf, I live alone and never in my life has my apartment been so disgusting. Tired of men thinking they can portray life from a woman's point of view. Who would throw a dirty mask/gloves on the carpet??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:15 PM
37

And what men fail to realize is women aren't the only ones who falsely accuse, most are men accusing other men because they're upset their precious daughter had sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:05 PM
163

Women literally spend their lives begging their bf/husband to go to the doctors/dentist/therapist while he berates her and wears her down. I see the stories all the time, the woman just has nothing left in her after so long and the man usually gets an increased lifespan because she basically sacrificed her well-being for his. Men are so selfish. I told myself I will never become one of those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:40 PM
3

The only time they get excited on that sub is when they talk about menslib. Pretty sure catering to men is their full time job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:22 PM
9

Also trollx has the same issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:06 PM
137

Its like they all run on one unconscious mind and just throw up the same recycled jokes for years and years on end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:26 PM
2

Perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:26 PM
13

I'm so sorry!! Rear cameras are better quality anyway 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:15 PM
26

Imagine begging a man who didn't want to marry you and is constantly cheating on you to "work things out", at this point he's just seeing how much he can get away with. Bet she still cooks his every meal and washes his and his mistresses undies by hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:13 PM
238

Biologically women have a need for intimate emotional connections with many men, as long as she comes home to him at the end of the day, why is he so insecure? She was probably just masturbating to these men, why is he trying to control her body? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:58 AM
20

Did she let poopypants back in her car after? I would've said hell no, get an Uber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:10 AM
4

Same comments on ALL the jubilee videos. Women are the only ones not allowed to have preferences or opinions apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:25 AM
96

Post nut clarity = the natural guilt you should feel after masturbating to someone's abuse or abusing someone during sex. People in loving relationships with 100% respect for eachother don't experience "disgust" or guilt after having sex. Men are just surprised they have actual empathetic feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:09 AM
1

Agreed, what's with men always comparing childbirth to getting kicked in the balls or kidney stones? Why not compare kidney stones to getting shot in the chest or having your finger nails peeled off? Makes just as much sense = zero. Everyones always looking for excuses to downplay female pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:09 PM
163

Men are natural takers with little regards to others feelings. If a woman he doesnt like asks to take him to a restaurant, buy him a meal and possibly sex afterwards he will happily take all of that and then delete her number and tell everyone she's a desperate wh*re. There's no benefit to asking men out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:01 PM
47

I think all women collectively agree with this experience sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:47 PM
78

The lengths women go to censor themselves to protect male fragility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:38 PM
41

I mean ok, go on dates with strangers, but thats the reason lock down keeps getting extended. Do you have girl friends? People who live alone are allowed one person into their house, invite a family member or friend. Men don't solve depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:10 AM
132

Also men: "nobody takes male victims seriously:("
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:06 AM
40

You shouldn't be meeting people during lockdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:04 AM
148

Hey if you're downvoted then that means they think your post is actually popular and correct advice, win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:03 AM
58

That entire relationship is just...ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:35 PM
10

LVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:34 PM
87

Sounds like his testes are in a knot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:45 PM
42

It's HER last name, not her deceased husband's. Sick of people thinking that if a woman takes her husband's last name it still isn't hers. Btw I don't support taking a mans last name, but if you do you own it just as much as him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:30 PM
3

All issues caused by men. If only men cared about themselves 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:08 PM
75

Women of that generation used to say they have two different lives: before marriage, and after their husband dies they get to live again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:51 PM
96

You know what they say about a pencil that goes in lots of different pencil sharpeners...🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:19 PM
24

Meh, these dudes can live life as manipulative fucks there entire life, but in the end they always end up the same: lonely, no one truly cares about them, their own family doesn't even like them, and you know what they do next to escape their sad existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:22 PM
88

I was reading this so excited waiting for the happy ending, but now I'm just disappointed 😐 hope she gets some good advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:37 AM
5

So they admit they only deserve blowjobs and dinner when they give their wife flowers and dinner. So once a year or never. Either way, a man that mentions this day is automatic LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:08 PM
5

You know very well this womans never had an orgasm and believes the only point of sex is to please men 😂 thats why she's so mad too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:34 PM
11

Why is this literally 80% of couples you see walking down the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:53 PM
30

LVM only care about their child's nutrition when its in a womans body still (pregnancy), he gets to be controlling and tell her what she's not allowed to eat and then once its born he has no interest in making sure the child is fed well because that would actually be effort for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:36 PM
222

What in the world would make you think Elon is high value? Your ex wasn't either clearly. Edit: and no, all men don't think that way, only misogynistic scrotes do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:24 PM
204

They're terrible at roasting. Its either: Roast a woman: you're a whore Roast a man: you're a virgin Get some new material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:36 PM
157

A co-worker was let go today because of his actions Thats the only part that matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:01 PM
7

"90% of men are victims of fights in sports arenas. 90% of men are victims of being yelled at on video games. 90% of men get nagged at to clean change their underwear. MalEoPpresSion"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:21 PM
227

Alright now someone make a gender reversed one and get ready for redditors to cry about how no one takes male victims seriously and "if this was about a woman everyone would be going mad!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:15 PM
35

Do they actually believe the nonsense they spout out? Its like they live in a delusion that no science supports but they desperately search for a way to blame women for the issues they cause to themselves. Men who are married have better health because WOMEN beg or force them to go to the doctors despite their whining they don't want to. Doctors are much more likely to take male pain and mental health seriously. Men admit that their partners and female friends are the only ones they can be vulne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:13 PM
36

This is good example of Male Irritability Syndrome. Men have daily hormonal cycles which is why they are so inept at controlling their emotional responses, especially anger and rage. Since they don't know how to make friendships with other men because men don't value relationships not based on sexual attraction and domination they spend their days on reddit creeping on the subreddits they know feeemales are in. They're upset they can't have the women here and the only way they can express those …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:53 PM
40

I like how their list of men's issues are things even worse for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:38 PM
14

This is what arguing with teenage boys is like 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:16 PM
57

Men aren't allowed to be insecure? Do you want to send that memo to men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:14 PM
43

She sounds like an #AllLivesMatter kind of girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:02 PM
39

This is simply domestic abuse. She knows what she has to do. There isn't a single excuse in the world for him ever saying or thinking something like this. Divorce his useless, abusive, narcissistic ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:46 PM
3

Yes that was nice to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:39 PM
69

"But women plan so many things for Women's Day! Its unfair women don't also plan our men's day, no equality..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:45 PM
6

"Love is a chicken cutlet"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:34 PM
3

I just finished it yesterday! What a coincidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:24 PM
54

How long have you been dating? From your history im guessing under 3 weeks. You are way too young to give up and stay with a porn sick scrote. Believe me you deserve so much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:04 AM
70

Relationship or ownership? Men: "they're the same thing"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:43 PM
20

Also the person making 400k is able to easily cut down on hours and do childcare/cleaning while still making massive amounts of money. The person making less needs more time for their job to catch up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:42 PM
121

This was a wonderful post and it outlined everything perfectly, pretty much all studies done on attractiveness and happiness of women/males support this as well. Also, I can't say I've EVER seen a couple where the man was better looking then the woman. The majority of couples the man is leagues below her in terms of attractiveness and intelligence. Not sure what sort of hallucinated reality they have to live in the believe women only date up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:14 PM
106

Women are murdered by men single day and it never makes the front page. They are wrong, men 100% get more attention and care then a woman who was harmed by a man. This is literally the status quo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:39 PM
41

I like how men think that not finding a man is a threat. Its real cute the value they give themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:26 PM
29

The men who aren't predators still stand by and say nothing when their friends and other men around them are creeps to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:49 PM
25

This was portrayed in the show Big Little Lies so well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:50 PM
74

Men are definitely not working long hours for the purpose of building a home for his future woman these days, he most likely expects her to pay 50% of the bills, so how exactly is this beneficial for her? It just means he will expect her to do all the chores and cooking on top of her full time job because he chooses to spend time with his coworkers more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:33 PM
74

Someone just learned about reverse psychology 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:27 PM
6

Ah I used to watch these and they do have gender flipped versions BUT the comments are sooo horrible when women gave preferences of any sort. But when men do suddenly everyones silent. Even the gay guys will go on about wanting a tall man that isn't bald and no one says a thing. Men hate women having choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:55 PM
14

Negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:34 PM
7

Men have zero emotional intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:29 PM
4

EXACTLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:26 PM
30

Rape culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:50 PM
25

I completely know what you're talking about! I also know its a physical thing, because when he pulls mostly out then clitoral stimulation feels very good and when its all the way in the simulation dulls as if everything's been moved around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:47 PM
3

Even if you're on BC it is very irresponsible not to use condoms. Stop using condoms when you want a child, its just not safe otherwise. I have a small hormonal IUD simply because I don't want a period, and we use condoms 100% of the time because we BOTH take responsibility for birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:41 PM
2

Even though I didn't have a bad reaction to the copper IUD it was still horrible for me. It turned my normal symptomless periods into very long, heavy, ones that were very expensive to take care of and I was cramping all the time. Just couldn't handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:31 PM
7

Have you ever tried to give men advice to their problems? They plug their ears and pout because they refuse to actually do anything. The only reason this stereotype exists is because men give absolute shit advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:05 PM
7

It shows me she has actual standards and isn't afraid to enforce them. It doesn't matter if you date 100 men, if they're all scrotes then keep confidently dumping them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:02 PM
46

Because its not compliments men actually want, its attention from women they find attractive they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:47 PM
53

Studies also show that men don't have anymore embarrassment or fear of reporting then women do. They always like to pull that one as if women can just confidently report their attacker without a fear in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:40 PM
4

There's not been one moment in history where womens feelings have been valued above mens. Womens feelings are still pushed to the side to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:55 PM
8

see that we love and respect men that are worth that attention. All of those men know they aren't worth attention which is why they're so mad, lol. HVM have no issue with this subreddit as its common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:38 PM
50

Men are and have always been the gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:06 PM
37

Have men seen their ball sacs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:59 PM
3

Please check my comment, I have a summary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:33 PM
49

Comment i saved: This week, American actor Johnny Depp lost a libel suit he filed in London, suing the newspaper The Sun for running an article that called him a "wife beater," a reference to his relationship with ex-wife Amber Heard. It was an ugly case, dragging both actors' private lives into the spotlight. And it was a complicated case; each accused the other of abuse. But there was a clear winner, other than the tabloid paper: domestic violence victims. It was an ugly case, dragging both ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:32 PM
16

On that subreddit they told a self proclaimed sexist that its perfectly fine and feminist for him to want a submissive stay at home wife, but if a woman thinks a man should pay for a date she is a crazy misandrist ruining feminism. Liberal feminism at its best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:49 PM
4

If you're not making a sub of pedo/misogynist/rascist creeps angry then you're not doing something right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:44 PM
46

This made me gag. Imagine being sexually attracted to someone after babying them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:36 PM
22

Not reading the whole article, but this study was about how media has warped male and female brains to see women as objects, whereas pictures of men are not see as objects. This isn't a biological response, its a learned behaviour. Edit: Here is the study
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:46 PM
52

Male orgasm is for procreation. Womens orgasm is for pleasure. Therefore men should only orgasm when they are trying to have a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:27 AM
2

Haven't seen that in so long lol! So relevant to men these days 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:25 AM
75

Its plain old battered woman or stockholm syndrome. And what's the first response of someone who has this? Denial: The woman is unable to accept that she’s being abused, or she justifies it. Any man who takes advantage of a woman accepting abuse belongs in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:22 AM
8

I thought it was a spinal surgery scar lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:35 PM
23

Oh no, we wouldnt want to hurt victims of pedophilia by checks incel notebook saying a 34 year old man dating a teenager is unnacceptable. If that's hurting victims then maybe we should raise the age to 25 so that predators are no longer confused?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:57 PM
13

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:13 PM
113

Tell a kid: don't stare at people, its rude and can hurt their feelings. Kid: ok I won't! Tell a man not to stare at women: it is my biological need and right to stare at women whenever I want! They can get over it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:03 PM
55

Another reason: Imagine having sex with John and going through 9 months of pregnancy and childbirth just for him to say "let's name it John Jr." The ego it takes to say that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:51 PM
37

For me and most women, complimenting is very straight forward. Did someone do something commendable? Did they change or do something about their appearance that clearly took a lot of skill or looks flattering? Are we close to them and want to build a positive relationship? Men simply don't fit into these categories most of the time and they want us to give compliments for no reason other then giving men an ego boost. Appearance-wise, they don't have good style, they don't spend time on their hai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:25 PM
100

I hear about this in relationship subreddits all the time!? Like wtf how is this happening! Never let a man name your child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:05 PM
13

I think everyone needs about 50/50 fem/masc "traits".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:00 PM
106

They're still gonna ask their wife to buy the ingredients, find him an easy recipe, prepare and chop the vegetables and ingredients, make sure there are clean dishes and then he will throw it on the BBQ and expect praise and a bj. Then she will have to clean the tornado he made in the kitchen because "he cooked!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:55 PM
15

Nope, the person in the position of power is the one responsible for not taking advantage of those with less privilege then them. An adult taking advantage of a teenager whose brain hasn't fully developed is predatory and creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:49 PM
24

Here's another: Celine Dion was 12 when she met her husband (now deceased) he was 38 at the time. Although they waited to publicly date until she was legal age she was definitely groomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:29 PM
24

Yep, on the front page right now a man pulled his gun on some teenage girls for no reason and the comments are complaining about how annoying the girls voices are and that "there's no good or bad person here", I'm done feeling sorry for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:14 AM
176

Detectives reviewing evidence have laid out the events as following: Fertile male wearing form-fitting shirt drawing attention to his forearms approaches a woman he has no prior relationship with and hands his phone containing his venmo account to her. Male claims that he was not attempting to draw attention to himself or his venmo account despite the contrary evidence: His internet history and bank statements show he regularly spends money on apps like "OnlyFans" which is an app designed for me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:34 PM
298

If he didn't want her to take the money why did he willingly give his phone to her? Clearly he wanted it. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:16 PM
100

Wonder if we could get one about dick size or height on the front page? Oh wait no, then it'd be downvoted for sexism and be the cause of mAlE sUicIdE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:45 PM
40

But if a woman said she wouldn't date a man who watches porn you're an irrational man hater. Men have zero logic or critical thinking skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:55 PM
15

If a man wants a woman to risk her life, body and go through immense pain to have a child he has to accept the risk she will not be able to return to work afterwards because of the immense physical and mental toll her sacrifice has done to her body for HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:36 PM
33

Oh men are openly abusive and promote domestic violence. Big surprise men, why don't you try something new?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:33 PM
10

Also remind me of a post that made it to the Frontpage of what looked like a woman in a backalley with a bunch of men lined up to have sex with her. To me, it clearly looked like a gangrape or trafficking situation. To every scrote maggot in the comments they called her a disgusting slt, whre and praised the men. I reported it but don't think it was removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:30 PM
53

How do you delete someone from existence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:19 PM
11

I define spirituality as someone who looks for or wants a meaning in life, cares about personal growth, reflects on their actions, practices gratitude and wants to have a positive impact on others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:31 PM
33

He spends his free time making me things like bathbombs and candles and stuff, not playing video games screaming at a screen like I see most men do these days. He also always looks for vegan treats for me and when I first told him I was vegan he immediately supported me and asked for advice so he could become one in the future too. He always insists to do the cooking and makes me cuddle on the couch until dinner is ready. He has never once asked to stop using condoms, he is responsible for our r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:09 PM
15

It means you don't feel sexual attraction to someone unless you have a deep emotional connection to them. Me and my partner are this way, there's no "checking people out" while out, no desire for porn. Most men argue they have a biological desire to look at and sexualize women and I will never date someone who thinks that way or has such a lack of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:25 PM
707

Suddenly 95% of women are virgins..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:31 PM
4

No I would never want a traditional dynamic, and its great you had that. I personally still would not want a man there to witness my painful medical procedures as I'm a personal person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:26 PM
10

Good choice, too many stories about men fainting or stressing out the woman during c-section/birth and distracting everyone. Shouldn't have to babysit men during women's medical procedures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:23 PM
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It's because its the one moment in the child's life that requires no effort from him, but he can brag and be praised for being a wonderful father for the rest of his life. Once he can say he was there for his child's birth its his get out of parenthood card and he doesn't feel guilty for making his wife do all of the childcare. Same goes for men trying to control what a woman eats during her pregnancy or criticizing her for exercise etc., but once the child's born he has no issue feeding his chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:20 PM
20

Funny how everything she hates about pregnant women is just how men act at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:12 PM
28

If I ever had a child I would not let the father in the room as a give birth, men just cannot be trusted to handle it and honestly, its my medical procedure and I don't need anyone staring at me. Birth is meant to be experienced and helped through with a maternal figure that's already gone through it or someone you know has unconditional love for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:05 PM
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And when men ask for 50/50 custody they get it easily. There's no conspiracy keeping men from getting less custody of their children, they simply don't want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:01 PM
4

That's one of the greatest burns I've ever heard. You just called out all the men who pay for onlyfans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:57 PM
33

They'll also use women for reproductive/physical labour. Even if he doesnt like you, he feels powerful knowing you're suffering to carry on his genes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:55 PM
61

Ugh, he's disgusting. This is why I will only ever date a demi sexual man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:48 PM
81

Nothing more special then female friendships 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:06 PM
73

Men: here's 100 ways to neg women Same men: why don't women compliment us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:29 PM
97

Why don't men just stop approaching women then? Like PLEASE leave us alone! Oh wait, they never will because they're desperate to find their new mommy/therapist/cook/cleaner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:26 PM
72

Once the rape kit backlog doesn’t exist, women have equal rights globally, we have pay equity, equal representation, there is no housework disparity, and wages for ‘women’s work’ go up, among a few other things, maybe women will ask more men out. And asking a man out never got the cops to show up when a woman reported a rape, so... If men are bothered by it, they can wait until someone makes the first move. That’s fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:21 PM
80

Thats a horrible community. My heart breaks for her and she is completely justified to lose all attraction for a monster that would be sexually aroused by being violent towards her. There's no such thing as a nice person that would choke or hit others. Only predators and rapists do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:31 AM
14

Reproductive coercion against women has been so common throughout history as a way for men to control women that the United Nations had to classify it as a human rights violation. And nowadays men project it as something done against then even though thats a small percentage to the amount they do it. Pretty much anytime birth control fails or condoms don't work men will say they were trapped as a way to remove all responsibility from themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:06 PM
20

And the majority of false rape accusations never give an actual name to a person. The other great number are made by parents of underage children, aka fathers are reporting false rapes once they find out their precious daughter is having sex without his permission. The rest of reasons: 1) Eyewitness misidentification 2) Unvalidated/ Improper forensics 3) False confessions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:42 PM
43

Dont lower your standards for some Dookie Stain in the Draws Son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:03 AM
132

It also breaks down mens complaints that women only want "alpha", muscular, masculine Chads and make fun of the rest when its really only men who make fun of them. They hate when their lies are so obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:57 PM
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The second a woman shows even a little interest in an LVM they assume she's now working as his secretary and he can now take a backseat in his life. And they NEVER change. Thank God we can see right through them because I'm tired of hearing married women complain everyday of their lives about their scrote husband but refusing to leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:30 PM
22

God, how do men manage to ruin community gardens, that should be one place you don't have to run into creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:15 PM
18

I work with a bunch of older men, they absolutely make incesty comments about their underage daughters. I didn't believe it until I realized it's just regular talk for groups of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:59 PM
99

Plus most these people live in apartments...there is no outdoor chores! None! And yet somehow they still don't do 50% of the chores, mysterious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:28 PM
400

"You're a woman, you weren't born to sit at home and wait for this arrogant chipmunk to come home with a little bit of change in his hand" 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:37 AM
40

We tiptoe around this subject because women have been taught to fear any sort of retaliation or violence from men when we call them out. But we really need to talk about it. Almost all of murder-suicides have a male perpetrator. Murder the wife and kids because he's feeling hormonal rage and then commits suicide so he doesn't have to deal with consequences or guilt after. Women don't do this. Or maybe leaving his wife of 20 years after she gets breast cancer he realizes his new young girl doesn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:33 AM
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He's disgusting, there is zero excuse for such a juvenile lack of self-control and disrespect to his girlfriend and to her friends. Edit: lol the guys comments in that thread: "my relationship is so HEALTHY and STRONG because she is fine with me masturbating to her mom and friends, unlike the PRUDE OP and other women here."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:12 PM
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2 hours later: Him: Sry my phone was hacked. How u doing beautiful? Plz be my gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:40 PM
19

Jasminerice: "and this is why I dont talk to men for free".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:19 PM
26

Oh my God this is even worse. He tells on himself that he knows exactly how to manipulate a woman with lower confidence into a date with him...oh but don't worry he won't do that cause he wants you 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:17 PM
7

I'm in Canada also and all of my friends have been living with their boyfriends for years, owning houses, having babies and yet no engagement even though they talk about wanting it because the man is comfortable with the situation having someone there to clean the house, make him food and do his laundry while he games all day. I'm not falling into that trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:43 PM
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-Remembers birthdays/holidays and buys thoughtful gifts based on interests and not generic "female-gifts". -Even if he lives at home he does his own laundry, grocery shopping, cleaning and cooks his own food. -Has emotional intelligence (understands and knows how to express emotions and support others expressing emotions in a healthy manner). -Has baseline education on feminism and supports it. -Doesn't consume media where the sole purpose is to sexualize or objectify womens bodies or is violent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:31 PM
10

No it's probably a brain tumor and she should be taking him to the neurologist. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:00 PM
9

I'm not sure this really applies here in the UK tbh. I don't know anyone at all who didn't live with their partner before the proposal. That's true, but this subreddit isn't "do what everyone else is doing", it's "here is the most beneficial dating strategy to give you the best outcome and happiness in life with the lowest chance to be taken advantage of". Most people in the U.S. will live together before engagement as well, it's just very risky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:54 PM
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I wish I'd realised how rare it was and maybe I'd have reconsidered leaving. Girl no, this is bare minimum behaviour, it doesn't matter how rare it is. Never lower your standards to the floor just because he has some ok qualities (and a lot of bad ones). A sandwich with a little bit of shit in it is still a shit sandwich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:48 PM
43

Everyone in that group needs to be exposed as rascist, sexist creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:44 PM
51

Funny how if this was said about any other minority it would be banned and on the news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:47 PM
5

Imagine if all we had to do to date was ask people out. Men have it soooo easy and they still complain 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:25 PM
27

Whenever I show people the statistics from Tinder that men date just to get free food more often then women they always ask how it's possible. This and OP is a perfect example. Men are always projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:22 PM
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I think it's sad if you have to pretend to be someone else to get your partner to be excited to have sex with you. And let's be honest it's always the woman dressing up or pretending to be someone else. It's never men walking up to their wife in a bar pretending to be a rich doctor or him putting on a schoolboy (🤮) costume in the bedroom to turn her on. If I'm in a monogomous relationship then I won't play into your sick games of wanting to have sex with other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:38 PM
14

Whats with this weird phenomenon of men thinking women don't remember compliments given to them? I remember one given to me in second grade and how nice it made me feel. Men literally keep taking the NORMAL human experience and them saying its a male only thing. They don't see women as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:01 PM
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Then he goes on reddit to cry about how women aren't attracted to vulnerable men who open up 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:58 PM
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Researchers already know the reason surveys show men and women have similar rates of domestic violence, big surprise: men lie and women defend their abusers. https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/gender-based-violence/ Although some people claim that men are too embarrassed to admit a woman has abused them, the reverse is actually true: in self-reported research, men tend to over-estimate their partner’s violence while under-estimating their own. At the same time, women over-estimate their own vio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:44 PM
31

Ugh, every boomer man I work with brags to eachother about how they lied about their age for the first year or two of dating their now wife. They said they were 5-10 years younger. They know that after a year you'll be invested in them and the relationship and feel too bad to end it. Its gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:50 PM
38

Why's she say that like there's a man behind the camera pointing a gun at her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:46 PM
52

How do they look so much kinder too? Like they don't have that eternal anger and hate in their eyes that you see from straight men. Guess if you don't dedicate your life trying to be superior to other people it affects your looks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:25 PM
72

Just on the front page men were saying "women don't understand that every man has intense pressure to provide and be in a high paying career, we have zero choice in the matter". ..ah yes thats why I see most men these days mooching money off their girlfrjends and being lazy bums. They so badly want to be oppressed and pretend they are living in the 1900s or something. All statistics show that women work more hours then men in every single country of the world. They're lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:17 PM
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Husband: Let's open the marriage! I need to fulfill my physical needs! Wife: fulfills emotional needs Husband: hurt and devastated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:06 AM
13

You want to legalize rape. Thats really all it is. Now if you just said you wanted to protect the prostitutes I would understand that as they may be forced into it, but you want to legalize men purchasing womens bodies to use at their will? Sex is with someone enthusiastically consenting. Coercing someone with money is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j9m0bz/prostitution_is_not_a_victimless_crime/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:19 PM
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I don't think she's ever been considered HV here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:05 PM
57

THIS! I've been thinking it so long but didn't think anyone else was also thinking it. Either call it depression or name his behaviour appropriately: he's jealous of the baby. Yes, men get jealous of babies and instead of involving himself in the babies care and being a parent he will try to pull mum away from the baby and ask for sex and then pout when she says no because she's in literal pain and exhausted, so he retreats to his video games. It's so selfish for men to make pregnancy and childb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:26 PM
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I used to enjoy that sub as well, eventually I learned exactly what you did. They also will downvote you if you suggest using condoms and I remember a woman got DEMOLISHED because she didn't want anal sex with her boyfriend even though her ex raped her anally in the past. Everyone said she was being selfish and unfair because if her ex got it then her bf should too. I almost had an aneurysm and never returned after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:17 PM
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I've seen a similar post on the front page and the comments were actually full of stories about the incompetence of fathers. I remember one commenter said her dad brought her to the emergency room and he didn't even remember her name. Her first name... the nurse was not impressed in the slightest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:58 PM
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Remember, men have NO issue remembering things that are important to them or things they value. When they don't remember your birthday, or know their child's middle name or child's best friend or anything its for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:56 PM
7

Oh dear, you have a lot of learning to do at your age and lack of experience, but thats ok! I'm going to paste a comment on birth control I made the other day: Birth control and condom use is something that effects every woman in a relationship and I think it needs more attention. Even in this subreddit I've seen women convey that once they are in a long-term relationship they will stop using condoms and I can't stress how foolish that is. Men NEED to learn that if they have sex without a condom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:22 PM
61

Unsolicited pics from "women" are always from some gross scrote role-playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:30 PM
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Usually I can tolerate the popular female-based subreddits for the laughs, but times like these I just feel sad at how far they deny misogyny to cater to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:51 PM
17

Clearly porn has smoothed his brain to an alarming amount.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:40 PM
39

Right? Its like back when Facebook was new and we made cringey Facebook statuses as angsty teens...but now it's public video evidence and these teenagers are going to grow up one day and go through intense embarrassment over making these and they can't undo it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:22 PM
15

Just saw a different comic on sea lioning today. I like this one too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 12:35 AM
16

As someone who has never used dating apps before they really make me cringe. Idk, I guess I just don't know why someone would purposefully go onto an app made for men who want to manipulate women into sleeping with them. But I guess thats how dating is these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:45 PM
15

All I see is a story about an abusive man and a traumatized woman coping. Non-abusive people wouldn't hit someone, even if they were asked too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:00 PM
11

This is worthy of an entire post itself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:57 PM
40

And porn should have categories for all male body types: penis size, height, weight, athleticism. Its "just porn", they can't be upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:26 PM
29

Luckily it made it to front page on r/worldnews, it should be posted everywhere though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:17 AM
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It's also a cover up for men lieing themselves into a relationship by love-bombing. His true form shows once he's comfortable and sometimes this doesn't happen until the day after you've married or had a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:32 PM
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A new report estimates that 29 million women and girls are victims of modern slavery, exploited by practices including forced labour, forced marriage, debt-bondage and domestic servitude. Grace Forrest, co-founder of the Walk Free anti-slavery organization, said Friday that means one in every 130 women and girls is living in modern slavery today, more than the population of Australia. "The reality is that there are more people living in slavery today than any other time in human history," she to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:18 PM
7

Its called schizophrenia. He needs a doctor not a lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:21 PM
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"Hmm I can't judge, I mean there's two sides to every story and he might have a justifiable reason for why he's shitting on the carpet. Did he have a bad childhood perhaps?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:01 AM
25

he was been reported before for pinning sexual energy on people, he is working on it and is married with a kid. So they know about his behavior and still put him around vulnerable people?! This is unacceptable! Please write a review about this place not being safe or protecting its members. I'm so sorry you had to deal with sexual harrassment during a time that should have been fully dedicated to healing. Its as if women can never get a break no matter where they go. Its best if you not use this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:36 AM
11

They're absolutely trash. The sad thing is this is just common LVM talk, if a woman were to say anything similar to this on the internet it would be on the front page as proof women are evil. I hope he owes a lot of child support in his lifetime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:30 AM
19

Oh and don't forget one of their reasons was because "they won't open the gyms". They're literally gym-bros probably jacked on steroids having a temper tantrum because their legs are starting to get proportional to their upper body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:24 PM
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LVM apply their misogyny and toxic personality traits to all men and say its biological when its not. HVM aren't disgusted by their partners after having sex, in fact most love to cuddle and feel intense love and attachment after having such an intimate and loving experience together. Any man who doesn't like to cuddle after sex you should dump immediately because you can tell they have unhealthy personality traits and see sex as a means to an end and not a respectful experience you share with a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:34 PM
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Childfree relationship list: Girlfriend benefits: (everything must be 100% reciprocated) i will make time for him, give reasonable emotional support, physical intimacy after 6 months complete commitment, adventures together, exchange gifts on bdays/Xmas. Wife: (everything must be 100% reciprocated) everything from the girlfriend list + we may combine finances, invest in eachothers future, medical decisions made with eachothers input, we may move for eachother, purchase assets together. This is j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:18 PM
3

Men are too emotional to be movie critics and will form their opinion before they've even seen it. Never trust a movie review done by males, and remember that they make up 80% of movie reviews and ratings. If K*ll Bill or Alien had come out in this year they would have received the same critiquing even though men pretend they are less sexist today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:04 PM
14

Birth control and condom use is something that effects every woman in a relationship and I think it needs more attention, especially in this free-sex culture where all responsibility and consequences are placed on women. Even in this subreddit I've seen women convey that once they are in a long-term relationship they will stop using condoms and I can't stress how foolish that is. Men NEED to learn that if they have sex without a condom that means they are trying for a baby. Female birth control …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:54 PM
2

This is giving me Jon Koppenhaver vibes (jailed for attempted murder) and really bothering me. Men who are overly aggressive need to be helicoptered to a private island and left to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:51 PM
9

Well, this is less disgusting then the usual opinions on that subreddit sadly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:05 PM
15

So interesting hearing what the group of sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists, pedophiles, rapists and probably murderers think. Oh wait, no, who cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:44 PM
27

So he's saying that unless you're trying to make a baby there is no need for a male orgasm? Or maybe he's saying everytime a male orgasms he is purposefully trying to make a baby? If they say so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:07 PM
27

Any gains for women men will try to twist and use for their own gain This is so true, I see it all the time in the aita or relationship subs. "She said she was pro-choice but now that she's pregnant she won't get an abortion! She lied!" Since when did pro-choice get turned into 'will have an abortion?' it literally means its a womans CHOICE what to do with her body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:58 PM
0

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueCrime/comments/j6hf9j/thoughts_on_the_chris_watts_netflix_documentary/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share You can find lots of information reading the comments in these subreddits, beware!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:50 PM
25

Men: ok guys, I got an idea. What if we -wait for it- made a post on unpopularopinion saying that men are the true oppressed ones and we gave it like 50 awards! And make sure to bitch about FDS in the comments. FDS: +1123 subscribers Men: wait no-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:35 PM
17

There's always some LVM in every post a girl makes. Two women made a nice post that was literally just: its not ok for older men to creep on young girls in the family or touch them unwanted. And there was this furious LVM who was replying to everyone. "Oh yeah well women cheat so why you making this post!" "Womens aren't perfect, stop blaming men" "wahwahwah I'm a pedo". Like how are their always men defending other men even pedos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:15 PM
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Madonna-whore complex. this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).[3] Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love."[4] Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing in 2009, stated that the complex "is still highly prevalent in today's p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:12 PM
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Men really shoot themselves in the foot when they do this or when they leave their wife when she gets cancer or sick. Eventually these men get old and realize they have no one in life. They abandoned their kids, left their loyal wife, are too lazy to call their own parents, all because they thought dating a young girl would fulfill them. But they will end up alone and die alone. And then men blame women for their unhappiness or suicide rates. How about stop abandoning everyone when they need the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:08 PM
6

Look at all of those awards, I'm surprised she isn't offering to refund 50% of their cost back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:45 PM
11

So sorry that people have treated you this way. I won't play around, if a man even asks me once for anal he's going in the trash, only pornsick/non-straight men desire getting shit on their dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:11 PM
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Just want to add in this super important read for ALL women: A medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ewvo6e/as_requested_a_medical_professional_explains_why/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:44 PM
5

That happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:40 PM
26

Porn addiction needs to be seen as no different then compulsive cheating. Men have gaslit women into thinking they are poor victims that just need love and support to get them away from their need for sexual interactions from other women. "My husband stopped cheating on me this week and our sex was great! But now he's gone back to it and he's ignoring me now. I just need to keep supporting him because our relationship is so nice during the times he's not cheating!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:35 PM
27

This is why a universal basic income is so important. It would release so many women from the chains of an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:31 PM
19

Report this to the admins of reddit every time. Bet someone who posts this has CP in their computer. Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:22 PM
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Pregnant woman on AITA: "so I bought myself an extra pillow because I'm super uncomfortable, but my bf (who spends money on Onlyfans) says I shouldn't be wasting our money." Reddit: "YTA and I'm sick of pregnant women being so entitled and thinking they can do what they want! You should have asked him before wasting money on uneeded things! Bias against males and misandry, you're hormonal."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:47 AM
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This is domestic abuse at this point and she is dealing with a psycho. Any person with a normal amount of empathy and consciousness would feel HORRIBLE the first time his carelessness caused her to get hurt. He has done so countless times and he still thinks its funny. He thinks injuring his wife is a joke.. Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:43 PM
40

Give me a break. Even if she hadn't been the other woman he would have found a different woman to cheat with and then killed his family to be with her. It doesn't matter who the other woman is, normal people do not murder! Show me a man with bad behaviour and I'll show you 10 men jumping up to defend him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:39 PM
5

Damn... P.S. I Love You was only 13 years ago. Meanwhile look at Hillary Swank and she still looks exactly the same and is thriving in her career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:58 PM
23

He can't even afford clothes, he has to take his pics while in a changeroom. And he says women who use lip liner are the fake ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:34 PM
109

I really hope the marriage is called off, she deserves so much better then this scrotum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:05 AM
91

Why else in the world would there be literally thousands of subreddits consisting purely of men sharing photos with other men to give them boners? They're so afraid that washing their ass will make them gay but they'll openly be like "hey dudes i bet I can give you a boner by looking at this photo ;) yall hard yet? Hehe bet ill make you cum with this other photo" meanwhile when interacting with women they just argue and act like assholes. Men are obsessed with their dicks and other mens dicks. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:57 PM
36

When we have kids he will be more of a 'provider' then because he understands kids create a greater inequality Ah, so he's already presumed that in the future he is relying on your bodily labour, time and risks to bring children to this relationship. He's basically saying, "yes, one day you will risk your life, lose future promotions and income, and possible lose your career to be in a relationship with me...but I'll help out at that time so thinks are equal. Now please pay 50/50 or you're using…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:25 PM
53

I just can't with that subreddit, they pretend to be sex positive for everyone, but its riddled with misogyny and filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:51 PM
13

They've been together for 2 years and married over 1 year. That means he must have engaged around 6 months together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:46 PM
19

“oh it’s 2020, I can’t say that anymore” Yet he still speaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:38 PM
3

"Sometimes love is a chicken cutlet"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:30 PM
6

It's funny (or shameful) that its so well know that men are inherently selfish beings that every woman can look at this and understand and now be grateful men poop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:37 PM
13

These LVM are pathetic, there's not much more to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:56 AM
5

I'm not having children, but if I did i wouldn't have the father in the room with me. Birth is not a spectator sport and I have no desire for someone to see me in such a horrible state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:14 PM
170

I still remember the hate and misogyny she recieved from reddit when everything went down. I quit reddit for a few years after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:09 PM
7

Yes, just walking to work the other day I was physically assaulted in broad daylight, didn't even have a second to defend myself as one moment I'm listening to my music and the next I'm on the ground in pain. Just one split second and now I have extreme anxiety leaving my house and I suspect everyone. I'd always felt safe before this, but now I know I'm not. I only feel safe when I'm walking near other women. I also live in a country where you can't legally defend yourself, I can't get pepperspr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:38 PM
8

I don't want to believe this is real. I don't, but we already know men have created this hell on earth. We already get men in our DMs threatening to do this to us just because we are women on the internet. I am so sorry for this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:10 PM
11

Let's not forget that women can have as much sex and as many orgasms as they want and they will never do anything to cause a pregnancy because they physically have no way of controlling their reproductive functions. But everytime a man orgasms near a vagina HE purposefully and knowingly spreads his sperm outside of his body and in the ONE place he knows that an egg may be waiting in. Like literally the only place. And then when a pregnancy occurs (and this is really hilarious) men have the nerve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:56 PM
63

They don't actually want to prevent babies, they love the thought that a woman is birthing and raising their spawn. They just simply don't want to pay for it, they want to make babies and walk away when they please with no consequence. There's literally nothing I've seen men say or do to show they want to prevent getting women pregnant. They're only mad about child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:41 PM
19

I'm surprised this is in wholesome memes. I don’t want to see the comments, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:07 PM
15

This is also why men look for women with "daddy issues" (gags) because they know women with trauma are more likely to have the kind of abusive sex some men want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:42 PM
153

If they actually liked it they wouldn't go on and on about how important their "aftercare" is. Like damn if you need your partner to reassure you that they still love you after choking you and beating you up then you are in an abusive relationship. Sex should be loving and respectful 100% of the time and not make you feel dehumanized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:35 AM
272

“When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The misinformation will feel unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth, just like you did.” You know they really have nothing on us when they resort to lies and insults based on projections of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:56 PM
25

This sounds more like a post you'd make about your child. I mean a child noticing that moms had a hard day and then spending a long time learning how to make chicken tendies for her is endearing. A grown adult man? Uh ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:25 PM
134

Imagine if a man wrote 5 paragraphs that amounted to "sometimes, like once every few months if my wife notices I had a hard day at work she cooks me a meal I like. wow, im blessed." Cringey AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:49 PM
31

This is why I can't support even the women who completely choose of their own free will to do sex work. It teaches men that sex is something that can be purchased and has monetary value and every woman receives the consequences of that thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:40 PM
3

This is absolute gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:17 PM
74

I mean men like this are basically saying "my dick is so fucking disgusting and I got a stupid woman to touch it! Hahaha what a dumb woman, touching my smelly gross body, when will women ever learn." Like imagine thinking a woman should be ashamed for touching you 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:09 PM
28

Ugh thats disgusting, I might have seen that one. And its true, we are getting a lot more women coming to the other side and standing up against this abuse and not excusing misogyny/rascism/abuse just because its "in the bedroom". Abuse victims need therapy, not to be beaten up by their boyfriend every night because their brain is telling them they deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:26 PM
7

This is the same reason I left the childfree subreddit (r/truechildfree is better). Like damn I'm tokophobic, but i still have the utmost respect for any woman who puts her body through that. When my coworker was pregnant I'd always let her know I can help her with anything and I'm there for her. I don’t understand the contempt people have for someone going through the hardest thing a human body can go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:59 PM
121

So just the other day on a top feminism subreddit a man who calls himself a "former sexist" asked if it was ok for him to want a submissive wife he can dominate and asked if its sexist. Shit it got about 60 comments of "feminists" telling him thats perfectly fine and not sexist at all! Damn he was so happy he got feminist approval to be a controlling piece of shit that keeps women down. And this was from the same subreddit where if you mention wanting your date to pay youll get banned for being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:17 PM
31

She's the type that pretends she's a lesbian on dating apps and asks other women to be her and her husband's "unicorn".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:12 PM
18

Damn you sure dodged a bullet! Proud of you for getting out of this toxic relationship. The best revenge is a life well lived, so time to cut out anyone who brings negativity to your life and make some life goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:50 AM
38

"They say I'm being too sensitive and move on", this literally doesn't even make sense, no one talks like this lol. Notice how whenever men discover something they feel they can be oppressed about (compliments, dates, height, etc) all these creative writing exercises start popping up that have no reflection of the real world. There hasn't been a single point in human history where men have done more emotional support for women then women are expected to of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:13 AM
3

Yes that should be added, but it's foolish to ever stop using condoms with someone you're not married to or trying for a baby with. Heres a wonderful post about it: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eds9ij/wear_a_condom_or_stfu_birth_control_is_not_100/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:56 PM
12

I'm anti-purchasing sex (aka rape)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:46 PM
9

This is just the kind of stuff you'll never find women saying. A man who posts about recovering from anorexia would recieve so much love and support from women. This is a perfect example of why we can say men are trash. If women said this it would be on the front page of reddit. When men say it its just another day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:24 AM
5

My HVM is also INFJ. I'm INFP and we get eachother completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:21 PM
2

Imagine growing up and then finding this post your father made. It'd be crushing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:16 PM
2

There's actual surveys done by dating apps calling out male inadequacy. (And lies) The average Tinder message sent by a man to a woman is 12 characters long, while the other way around, the average is 122 Women know when not to bother with a man who doesn't try. https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/#7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:57 PM
29

There's dozens of them! Dozens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:54 PM
14

"Well did you state the boundary that you dont want him copying and pasting your best friends faces onto porn and he shouldn't masturbate to them before you started dating? How was he supposed to know..." I can't with this shit. It's like, is this even the state of relationships these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:05 PM
5

Thanks ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:50 PM
52

Even if you're not having children, is he going to be 50% responsible for birth control for the entire relationship which will require him regular doctors visits and time off work to acquire? Is he going to always do 50% of emotional labour and housework? Grocery shopping? Are you going to pay 50% for the groceries even though men eat double the amount? Is he statistically risking his life by living in a house with a woman? Is being in a relationship going to lower his earnings because his super…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:45 PM
3

Yes! I love that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:22 PM
636

Men can walk into a date like "I’m looking for someone I can have a future and family with....what that means is I have an expectation that you will eventually risk your life to have my child, your body will either be ripped or cut open with an excruciating recovery, you will have to leave your career for awhile while you do this btw which means thousands of dollars, experience and promotions lost, then I'll expect you to do the majority of the care for it which will also lower your earnings ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:17 AM
13

Pillows are like cheapest at $5, who would actually go through all this trouble for someone who will not even care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:53 PM
21

It was hilarious. There was also a comment like: "mgtow is all about supporting men, fds is about physically hurting men." Like in what universe do they even come up with this? Mgtow has literally organized shootings against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:30 PM
27

Ah yes, you mean on that post about how men are oppressed because they're expected to have jobs and run their own lives like every other human being. On the plus side that was the second most popular comment and we are going to get a lot of women subscribing from the free exposure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:39 PM
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