Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.

glendoraza · 2021-08-19T19:41:45+00:00

Never mind the life altering impact synthetic hormones have on our bodies

Fuck our health. Right?

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-08-19T19:55:49+00:00

I used condoms throughout my entire 6yr relationship with my LV ex. Thank god I did, because I ended up discovering his infidelity.

_cnz_ · 2021-08-19T21:07:17+00:00

Slightly off topic but I’ve noticed an alarming number of men who feel entitled to unprotected sex from hookups, FWBs, and ONS. They don’t even care if you’re not on BC, cuz apparently the can just pull out (but we all know how that goes). I’ve heard from my friends who engage in casual sex that they have to push their partners to use protection despite telling them they aren’t on BC. Don’t even get me started on the rise of stealthing.

Gen Z men do not care about STDs anymore and I think this is because we haven’t had a widespread sexual health epidemic like previous generations (HIV/AIDs, syphilis, etc). Nobody my age knows anything HPV, which is alarming. With learning this, I just can’t ever date a man who’s had unprotected sex outside a committed relationship. Hell it might have to include men who’ve had casual sex period bc I don’t trust nasty ass men 🤢

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-08-19T20:15:43+00:00

Promote the pill for men!

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-08-19T21:01:50+00:00

Yep. I’ve even seen men say that it was abusive to force guys to use condoms yet it’s okay for men to force women to take birth control and get iuds.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-08-19T21:46:30+00:00

I know childfree couples in which the man doesn't get a vasectomy, my friends just keep taking bc. It's ridiculous.

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-08-19T22:50:41+00:00

Society does not give a shit about women’s comfort or health. Men’s pleasure and convenience always comes first.

Peak_Tree · 2021-08-19T23:33:04+00:00

Semen changes vaginal pH and just because of that I'll require condoms for life tbh.

miwamus · 2021-08-19T23:11:57+00:00

I refuse to use birth control ever again. I used Nexplanon and Mirena they both came with serious side effects.

He can use condoms or get snipped. Not my problem no more.

CloacaDiddler · 2021-08-20T02:36:13+00:00

I could seriously go off about how men biiiitch about condoms, the cheapest, easiest, least invasive option, yet expect women to be on daily synthetic hormones that doctors are just like “whelp, we have no idea how you’ll react to this - everyone’s different from acne and weight gain to deadly blood clots and suicidal thoughts”. Men could get a dozen women pregnant a day until they’re old af, women can only have one full pregnancy a year for a limited window. Yet men are the ones who get to play free and irresponsible with their sperm to no societal consequences.

Not to mention I read a horrible story about a lady who was given one ibuprofen several hours before a very painful abortion, and because she couldn’t handle that again they discussed the husband getting a vasectomy. Of course he was terrified, quaking in his boots, and the poor man was prescribed Percocet that he didn’t even need because the procedure was super quick, easy, and painless and he declined even the ice pack, drove himself home, and was back to having sex in a few weeks. Meanwhile women get sticks shoved up their cervix that can travel and puncture organs (my friend was hospitalized after getting her IUD) or implants in the arm that have caused me to bleed every single day but the gyno doesn’t care, pills that can be entirely ineffective if you ate a bad lunch and had some diarrhea, or other forms with shit ass side effects or bad coverage that your insurance probably doesn’t even pay for.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s great women have the ability to protect themselves, but men threw ALL that responsibility on us and won’t even use a condom? I had to go in the back door at planned parenthood because there were protesters out front. Most hormonal birth control kills sex drives entirely, and in my whole lovely “experiment with chemicals in your body phase” one brand I was on left me puking and almost passing out on the floor when I had class that day. Men live on easy mode and will do everything to keep the balance of power that way. Why push for male bc when you can continue yelling that some crazy lady baby trapped you and the world should coddle your poor hurt booboos even more?

sassyheather · 2021-08-19T20:32:20+00:00

You shouldn’t have to make him wrap it, he 👏🏻 SHOULD 👏🏻 know 👏🏻

mathquestions88 · 2021-08-20T04:10:54+00:00

i don't even care what men care about anymore, it never benefits us in a healthy way..

throwawayaway388 · 2021-08-20T08:50:59+00:00

"Why aren't you on birth control?"

"Why don't you have a vasectomy, clown?"

quasarbar · 2021-08-19T22:54:04+00:00

I hate to say it but the problem with condoms is you can't trust the guy not to "stealth."

But I tried BC once and it was agonizing for me. No way would I ever do that again.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-08-20T10:40:43+00:00

"It dOsEnt FEEl As gOod 😭" Well guess what dudes? sex with you doesnt feel good either because you're too lazy and usuless to even make a women wet before sex, let alone come in the vast majority of cases. And still they play dumb as to why women as so "picky" and lament how easy it is for us women to "get laid". Well its a curse having it this "easy" to get laid when y'all are so incompetent at pleasing women sexually - complain about a condom ? imagine if 93% of one night stands youve had was a woman ontop of you violantly thrashing your semi flaccid penis for 2 mins before rolling over and going to sleep and you dont come.

MofoMadame · 2021-08-21T04:49:28+00:00

My advice has always been to use a condom. Pregnancy isn't the worst thing that can happen. Lots of folks are proud of their accidental children, no one is ever proud of their herpes.

ChgItToRayGunYouFuck · 2021-08-19T20:13:57+00:00

Yep, and then it's okay for guys to run off because they're "scared" when their girl becomes pregnant... Yet the girl is pressured to have the baby AND take care of it, usually by herself. Scrotes/society doesn't think she's scared, too??

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-08-22T01:52:30+00:00

I just went to a friend’s party and a friend was freaking out that she could be pregnant because she let this ONS cum in her.

The kicker was that when I asked her why she didn’t make him wrap it up, she just drew a blank face like it was a normal thing. Her other friends go on to say that they left their long term relationships nut in them all the time and that it’s normal. She doesn’t even want to get a pregnancy test because it’s “too early” to get tested.

Nothing about this conversation was normal! This girl is not even considering that her ONS could have STDs!!!

I just sat there with a bunch of pick-me’s. These girls were gorgeous and they let themselves be disrespected and used by men. It was embarrassing to be associated with them due to the nature of the conversation topics they talked about.

Rest assured, I’m pretty sure that after this event, I’ll probably not be invited to any other parties ever again and I’m happy.

CactiAndFungi · 2021-08-20T17:23:22+00:00

Hormonal birth control altered my personality while I was on it. It also sets your body up to believe that you're pregnant, which affects mate selection (you can be attracted to a man you wouldn't want normally). Birth control pills have been absolutely invaluable for women, but they're NOT without side effects.

Title	Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.
Author	OrangeyPanda
Upvotes	2081
Comments	77
Date	August 19, 2021 7:40 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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